[narrator] Previously on 90 Day Fiance...
[Nikki speaking]
Being intimate is a very big part
of making our relationship work,
and he doesn't even try.
I haven't seen you in nine months.
Like you act like you have another woman.
- Hey, let's... Wait. Let's-- - No. You act like you have another woman though.
If something doesn't change in 48 hours,
I'm literally leaving.
[chuckles]
The main reason we came to Korea was for me to meet
Nick's parents for the first time.
Let's get out of here.
If Devin blows this up,
my family won't let me go to US to be with her
and it's gonna destroy my whole life.
[in Spanish]
[gasps]
[in Spanish]
I wanna be honest but I'm not stupid.
I will eventually tell Gino,
but not now.
[woman speaking]
[Sophie] Like, to be honest, I don't think
I actually want to be pregnant.
[Rob] Sophie just rocked my entire belief in her
and what we can have.
I don't know what the [bleep] I'mma do with my life
if I don't ever have kids.
[dramatic music playing]
[soft music playing]
[Rob] You want some coffee, babe?
Babe?
Here you go.
How you feeling today?
I feel, I guess, a bit better now that I've slept.
What about you?
I mean, I've been thinking all night,
and I just feel like we do actually really need
to kind of figure out what's what.
I did not get much sleep.
To be hit with the unsurety that we might not work out,
it is earth-shattering.
Do you wanna go outside?
Yeah, we can.
[Rob] All right. Let's go out there.
There's no version of my future
where I don't have a family,
and so Sophie should be with someone
who doesn't wanna have children.
If that's what she wants,
she should find someone who wants the same thing.
So a big thing...
A big reality for me is that this isn't up to me.
So it really does come down to what I...
what exactly are you thinking?
It's just... For me, it's a big deal, you know?
I've always seen myself being a parent.
Mmm-hmm.
Would you wanna be a parent?
It's not that I don't want kids.
I just wanna make sure I have my life together first.
I don't want kids, you know,
while I'm still trying to figure stuff out.
I mean, I just got to America, so I have a whole life
to kind of sort out right now.
So like taking care of someone else
is like the last thing on my mind.
I need to make sure, you know, I start my life here.
- I mean, like-- - I just don't know
what I would do with my future if there...
if I never have a family.
Like I don't know what I... What would we...
It'd just be me and you in the mountains?
But, again, I never said that.
You didn't ask me anything. You walked away.
The problem is pregnancy.
It's not I'm against family. It's pregnancy.
And you have not asked me...
You still haven't even asked me one question about that.
Well, I'm trying to figure out what you're trying to say.
If someone you love have health problems,
you'd ask them, "Is it okay?
What's wrong? What happened?"
You won't just be like, "Okay. Whatever.
I don't really care about that.
Let's get to what I want, which is kids."
Just tell me what you're afraid of
about being pregnant.
Obviously, for me, it's like...
I told you obviously when I was 15,
I had the cyst, and that was on my ovary.
So I had surgery to remove it.
I kind of just accepted the fact
that like I don't wanna be pregnant
after that health scare, 'cause like I could have died
if they didn't remove that, you know?
And it was like...
Or if I would have not had it taken out,
then I wouldn't have been able to have kids.
So it's kind of...
That scare was enough for me to be like,
"Okay, like I can't carry a child,
so I guess I'm not gonna be a mom."
It's not something that's been an easy journey
for me and it kind of still...
Even now, it causes me problems.
So it's like...
I think with pregnancy, I just...
I just know that I wouldn't be okay if I had that.
That's the reason I don't wanna get pregnant,
not just because, "Oh, I just don't care
to be a mom."
[Rob] On a certain level, it's like
I don't wanna walk you all the way into a life
that you don't really...
you never saw for yourself and then, you know,
you end up not enjoying
or wanting or resenting me for it.
And I don't... You know, I don't want it
to all just feel like it's all me making you do things
you don't wanna do.
It's like I also care about what you want.
It's not necessarily kids.
It's like... You know, I like kids.
That's not... That's not the problem.
The concern is the actual like pregnancy.
I'm willing to obviously work with you on a solution for it,
but there's two options,
adoption or surrogacy.
So would you consider either of them or--
I mean, I would like to raise little mes,
so surrogacy sounds like the route
that I'm more partial to.
I think the surrogacy thing, like I'd be okay with it.
I just need you to really search your soul
to understand what you really, really, really want.
- Regardless... - I wanna be with you.
...of what I want. Regardless of what I want.
I wanna be with you.
[Rob] Now that we've talked about it, it sounds like,
at the end of the day, she would wanna be a mom.
She just doesn't wanna have children,
which I understand that.
So if we could explore the other options,
then I feel like me and Sophie could move forward
with having a family.
So I think we...
I think we'll be okay as long as that's really what she's...
really what she wants.
[dramatic music playing]
You have 48 hours to change my mind
or I'm literally leaving.
That's the last time you're ever gonna see me.
I'm so done with your...
Like making everything a joke and stuff like that. I'm--
Yes. I'm very serious.
[Justin speaking]
Let's go.
And sometimes she's pushing too much.
Like, "I want sex.
I want sex." Like sex machine.
And my body still
trying to opening for Nikki.
It's... And I needed time for that.
It's not easy.
We never had these problems years ago.
We used to have like a great sex life.
We used to do fun things together.
We used to do a lot of stuff together.
And ever since I've been back with you,
- it's like totally different. - Just... Please.
I want--
You're supposed to be my future husband
and you're not putting in the rest of the effort.
- Baby. - You like wonder why I'm so crazy
and why I'm such a bitch...
You need to do more than roses and this.
I need more.
It's gotta be a whole lot more.
- What more? I don't understand. - [Nikki sighs]
What point... I don't understand. What is so--
Well, what do you feel special? What is it... What is special about me?
That I support you financially?
What is it?
[sighs]
[Justin speaking]
Baby, you sent...
- so little money... - Oh, wow. Really?
Really? Really? Really?
- Try to survive on that money. - Okay.
- Wow. - I have money for my life, okay?
Honey, I have all... Let me... Listen. [chuckles]
Sometimes, I need some things.
- Honey, I know you do. - Little things.
- I know you do. - And you help me with little things.
Really?
I sent so little money? Really? Really?
- Yes. - Really?
- Yes. - Are you serious?
Your nose alone was $7,000. Come on. Like don't say you...
That I helped you very little. That's messed up, for real.
That's aside from the Western Unions.
And I'm not gonna get into it 'cause you already know
the numbers.
I don't know why you're saying I helped you very little.
He knows damn well what I've done for him.
And I hate that he downplays it and says,
"You have sent me such little money," and like...
Things like that. Those comments... [sighs]
I don't have to say exactly what I've done,
but if I posted all the receipts,
people would be like wow.
And I don't want to be that person,
'cause I did it because I love him.
But when he says those little things,
that starts to hurt my feelings.
You feeling mad on me?
I give you back all the money when I start work.
Paying me back, that is like...
That's not even the issue.
Why are you talking about the money? Okay.
- Why you talk-- - That's not even the issue.
You're not get... You're still not getting it.
I give you first month and second month, okay?
- You cannot work... - Extra.
...for a while, okay?
I don't know if you understand how the K-1 visa works.
So you're just not gonna be able to make money
- for a while. - I don't think about that.
So I have to take... I have to take...
You know how this works.
So stop. Don't do that.
Say, "Baby, you help me so much," okay?
That's disrespectful to me.
That's... Okay. That's what you want to hear?
Because that's the truth!
[dramatic music playing]
[Nikki] You don't put me first ever, okay?
- Yeah. Yeah. - I always put you first.
I always helped you when you needed the help.
- I always was there for you when you need it, right? - Yeah. Yeah.
Who the [bleep] do you think you are?
Bye, little child.
[dramatic music playing]
Oh, little French pig.
Charming little pig.
I love my guinea pigs a lot,
but they're not my only roommates.
I also have two Chihuahuas.
My mom lives in a walk-in closet.
And it's only gonna get more difficult
because the love of my life is gonna be moving in with us.
[in Spanish]
[Jasmine] Today, I look at myself in the mirror,
I was super red.
And I got scared, like, "What is this?"
You were living in a dirty...
- [Jasmine] Just-- - ...apartment with mice in it.
What mice, you [bleep] idiot? What mice?
[mellow music playing]
[bees buzzing]
[Clayton] My little baby pig. You're a good boy.
Oh, you're so cute, Baby Pig.
[upbeat music playing]
You're pretty.
You're a pretty pig.
[chuckles] A little fire truck.
You're so cute.
My name is Clayton. I'm 30 years old.
I'm a cyber-security analyst.
And I live in Lexington, Kentucky.
Oh, little French pig.
You're so mad. Look at those teeth chatter.
He doesn't wanna be in the pretty pig contest.
I have two guinea pigs,
Baby Pig and Chocolate.
And a pet like a guinea pig, they have a noise,
a specific noise for every emotion that they have.
You're okay, baby.
Don't squeak at me. You're okay.
When they're hungry, they'll make a noise.
It's called wheeking.
It's like wheek, wheek, wheek, wheek.
When they're trying to dominate the other one,
it's like a... [purring]
They do it a lot better than I do.
You're a cute little boy. You're my cute little buddy.
I love my guinea pigs a lot,
but they're not my only roommates.
You're gonna get lots of bones and lots of treats.
I also have two Chihuahuas, Coco and Buster.
[growling]
Your breath stinks. It's Coco's birthday.
You don't growl at Coco's birthday.
I have one last roommate and that is my mother.
Where's mama? You wanna see mama?
[dog barking]
Mamas.
- Come on. - You don't bark at mamas.
Come here. Come on.
My current living situation,
I'm living in a one-bedroom apartment.
My mom lives in like a walk-in closet,
attached to the living room,
so she can save up money to get her own place.
Good boys. They love mamas.
[Violet] We lived in this apartment about three years.
When we went to come and look,
I opened the door and I said,
"Oh, this is my place right here."
The perfect mom-sized bedroom.
And he said, "Are you serious?"
I said, "Yup, this is me."
[Clayton] Dogs always like being in your room.
I know.
This is just a temporary.
A little bit longer than temporary,
but it's working out.
It's gonna be okay.
Come here, good boy.
You're a good boy. He needs a bath, seriously.
I'm gonna give him one tonight.
[Clayton] Gonna be honest, it's not easy
living with my mom.
There's not a lot of space,
and it's only gonna get more difficult,
because in a few days,
the love of my life, Anali,
is gonna be moving in with us.
[upbeat music playing]
[in Spanish]
[singer singing in Spanish]
[Clayton] Anali and I met on a language-learning app.
She was learning English.
I was learning Spanish.
She visited my profile. Didn't say anything.
I just decided to be like,
"Hey, you visited my profile and you didn't say anything.
Hello." [chuckles]
So that's kind of how it started.
Anali is super pretty.
That was the first thing I noticed about her.
She's really talkative, super sweet.
We started messaging in Spanish.
After a few weeks, we developed some feelings
for each other.
And eight months after we first started talking,
I decided to book a trip to meet her in Peru.
- I love you. - I love you.
- [makes sound] - [makes sound]
Ah.
[Clayton] What I love most about Anali is that she is thoughtful.
She's super affectionate.
And I think it was on day four of us being together
when I realized I've never loved someone
as much as I do Anali,
so I decided to propose to her.
She said, "Aw,"
and then didn't say anything else.
I was like, "Uh, so yes?"
And she said, "Yeah."
It was kind of like a delayed yes,
so I'm hoping it wasn't like by coercion or force.
But I did get the yes in the end,
so I guess that's a win.
So I want this cleared out
so we can get a table.
Maybe we can have dinner with Anali here
instead of me eating in my room.
Anali got issued her K-1 visa about six or seven weeks ago
and she's gonna be arriving to the US very soon.
But I'm worried about how Anali would react
if she were to arrive today.
My mom has a lot of stuff.
Tell me about this cork collection.
Oh, look at all them pretty corks.
[scoffs] Come on.
I know that my mom's not a severe hoarder
but she does have hoarding tendencies.
So we got a rug.
What is that?
[Violet] It's flower seeds.
[Clayton] She has a lifelong habit
of hanging on to things too long,
like plastic cups,
empty movie cases, bracelets,
earrings, necklaces,
and she doesn't open most of them.
She'll just buy it because it looks cute.
It's just too much.
All right. So I'm not gonna look yet.
How many years expired do you think
this cereal bar is?
I haven't had it that long. Probably four months.
[Clayton] This is two years expired.
I don't want junk. Like I will throw some away.
But, to me, it's not junk.
I know it's not junk to you.
Any other weird collections?
Let's just make a box of your weird collections
and then put them out... Put it all in the same box.
I do feel for my mom and understand
that she wants to hang on to what she does have,
but, at the same time,
I want enough space for me and my fiancee
to live comfortably.
I wanna take some of this stuff to storage.
All right.
Surprise!
- Whoa. - I told you.
[Clayton] Yeah, there's less room than I thought.
There's enough space for what we have now,
but the stuff out of the living room,
I don't know if we're gonna have room.
- Let's take... Well, let me see if... - [phone rings]
Hmm, cheeky.
Anali is calling me.
[Violet] Aw.
Hello.
Hi.
[Anali speaking]
[Clayton in Spanish]
- Okay. I'll be back. - Okay.
Maybe put those pictures in or something.
[Violet] Okay.
[Clayton in Spanish]
Hi, Cheeky.
I miss you, Cheeky. [chuckles]
[in Spanish]
- [Anali] Uh-huh. - [in Spanish]
[in Spanish]
[chuckling]
[laughs]
[Clayton chuckles]
- Yeah. - [Clayton] Okay.
[in Spanish]
[Clayton in Spanish]
I'm worried that Anali is gonna get here
and see how disorganized it is
and think that maybe she made a mistake coming here.
She tends to have like no tolerance whatsoever.
If something is annoying to her,
she'll instantly just be like, you know, "I hate that,"
or, "I don't wanna do it," and, you know,
"What if I don't want to?"
Like... And it scares me when she does that
type of thing, honestly.
But, right now, you know, I don't really know what to do
other than try to clear out some space.
[dramatic music playing]
Babe.
Yeah?
[Jasmine] Can you please come?
[Gino] Okay! Yay!
[sighs]
What's going on?
I think this is getting worse.
[Gino] What are you talking about?
[Jasmine] My skin.
What do you mean your skin?
[Jasmine] Baby, it's so itchy. I cannot stop.
Today, I started to get a rash.
It started on my face.
It started to spread all over my body,
my arms, my belly, my glutes, my legs.
Like everywhere.
I look at myself in the mirror.
It was super red.
And I got scared, like what is this?
Like, look, it's getting worse.
[Gino] Didn't you get this in Panama?
Even in Panama, it wasn't this itchy.
Do you have some kind of allergy or what?
What did you eat most recently?
The same food that I always eat, baby.
It's not that I have so many options in here.
I had bread.
I had peanut butter, oatmeal.
Are you allergic to peanut butter?
I'm not allergic to peanut butter,
because that's what I eat the most.
I also have the almonds that you gave me.
Okay.
[Jasmine] But I'm not allergic to nuts.
[Gino] Yeah. Well how much almonds did you eat?
That's maybe why it's worse this time.
[Jasmine] It's not the almond.
You want me to tell you that it's the almonds,
but it is not the almonds, baby.
I'm telling you, I explained to you about my sensitive...
High sensitive skin and my dermatitis,
and I do believe that it has more to do
with not eating something
but touching something
or being exposed to something.
[Gino] No.
No.
No. Not the dust.
If it was the dust, you'd have been sick every day.
I'm gonna go see the almonds that you've eaten.
[bleep] idiot.
[Gino] I would describe a dirty house as like
one of those homes like you have a hoarder in it
and they got piles of garbage all over the place.
That's dirty in my eyes.
My house is... Does not look like that.
I don't hoard anything.
I don't have piles of garbage in my house.
I definitely don't live like a slob or anything.
[Jasmine] Gino, I even told my doctor
back in Panama and I show it to him.
And he said, "Hey, this is your dermatitis.
This is not food.
This is your skin.
This is what you're touching."
It is not the almonds.
- I don't think-- - Well, it happened back
in Panama but I was on vacation.
It was because that place I was at, it was very dusty.
It was very dirty.
And I do believe that what is causing this is that I...
The house is very dirty.
- This house is clean, okay? - Babe, this is not. Listen--
This makes sense to me.
You ate almost a whole bag of almonds.
This... You could be possibly allergic to this.
- If I die, I die. - Look at how many you ate.
I want... You want me to finish eating them?
I'm not allergic to almonds.
This is not the almonds, Gino.
You were living in a dirty...
- [Jasmine] Just-- - ...apartment with mice in it.
What mice, you [bleep] idiot? What mice?
- That apartment-- - [Jasmine] You said...
You said mice in my [bleep] apartment.
- [Gino] Your apartment-- - You're very disrespectful.
- Your apartment-- - [Jasmine] You're very disrespectful.
When in all the places I live,
you have seen a bathroom like this.
Oh, no, no.
[Gino] Look, it's totally--
Baby, there are certain things
that we need to take more care of.
Like take me to buy a new pillow.
It isn't that expensive.
I'm not asking you to throw the whole bed.
- [Gino] No. Pillow... No. Pillow is okay. - Just the pillow.
- My pillow is fine. I've never had-- - Okay.
Baby, new blankets. That's all I'm asking for.
If we get a new set of blankets, of sheets...
- It would be helpful... - This--
[Jasmine] if we change the pillows for new ones.
There's nothing wrong with the pillow.
I'll buy you a pillow, but nothing wrong with my pillow.
It's very upsetting that Gino cannot see
how nasty the house is
and that it is causing me to be sick.
I've been giving up my whole life to be here
with him in Michigan.
And we're supposed to be building a life together.
One in which I can bring my kids into,
so this is serious.
[bleep] idiot.
[dramatic music playing]
It would ruin everything if his parents didn't like me.
Do you think she'd choose for you to marry
a Korean woman over me?
[Nikki] Why is it everything is always for you,
you, you, you?
"Babe, I need money to eat.
Babe, I need money to go work out.
Babe, my car broke."
When Nicole wants something, it's a big no.
Only for him, whatever he needs, right?
[upbeat music playing]
♪ Oh, yeah, yeah, yeah Oh, yeah, yeah, yeah ♪
[Devin] You know the way?
Yeah. That's... That way.
♪ Oh, yeah, yeah, yeah Oh, yeah, yeah, yeah ♪
[Nick speaking]
[Devin speaking]
[Nick speaking]
I remember why I fell in love with her.
[upbeat music playing]
[Devin speaking]
I don't even know what they're for.
Seoul is a lot different than Arkansas.
Yeah, yeah, yeah.
[Devin] Open 24 hours.
I am a bit nervous.
If this is what Nick is kind of used to,
then like having that 180 change in Searcy
might be a bit depressing for him. [chuckles]
I'm joking. [chuckles]
I'm joking. Chill out.
[chuckles]
- You wanna try that? - Chicken?
[Nick speaking]
[in other language]
[Nick] Ah. You want spicy or just--
- Spicy. - Spicy?
[in other language]
[chuckles] [in English]
[Devin] Nick has shown me quite a lot
of Korean food when we were in Australia.
- Huh. - Sun--
[both speaking other language]
It's like intestine.
That one I didn't like... I didn't like.
It's very different,
very foreign to what I'm used to.
[Nick] Yeah, you can try first.
Mmm.
It's good.
- It's good? - Mmm-hmm.
- Spicy? - Mmm-hmm.
Okay.
- So good. - You wanna go sit?
[Nick] Yeah.
Let's go that way.
Yeah.
[Nick] Oh, yeah. Actually...
[Devin] Hmm.
[Devin] And bring him back home to US with me.
But I'm still a little nervous about that.
I don't really speak much Korean
and they don't speak any English.
So it would... It's gonna be hard for us
to like actually like bond one-on-one.
But, you know, the Korean culture...
You have to grab the glass like this.
- With two hands? - With two hands.
Like... [in other language]
So, I will be bowing?
Kind... A bit of bow, yeah.
And also don't look at them when you drink.
You have to turn your face a little bit and then drink.
So don't look at them?
[Devin] I am really nervous, now more so.
I'm worried, you know, when I go in and meet them
and have to remember all like the table rules
and the drinking, you know,
to the side, all of that together.
I'm just worried that, you know, if I forget one,
then I might mess something up.
It's new to me
because I'm not Korean.
So for someone like me,
it's a little bit overwhelming.
Are you nervous about meeting my parents?
Yeah.
[Nick] Hmm.
My mother wasn't happy with that, yeah.
[Devin] So do you think... You know, if your mom had a choice...
- Yeah? - ...do you think she'd choose for you
to marry a Korean woman over me?
What'd she say?
[Nick] She said...
You never have told me that before.
I know. I know.
I mean, I guess nobody wants to hear
that your future mother-in-law
wanted her son to marry someone else.
We've already gone through a lot to get to this point.
[intense music playing]
Who the [bleep] do you think you are?
Bye, little child.
Why is it everything is always for you,
you, you, you, you?
"Babe, I need money to eat.
Babe, I need money to go work out.
Babe, my car broke."
Nicole wants something, it's a big no.
Only for him, whatever he needs, right?
I think it's best I just fly back home.
I'm not... I'm not doing this with you.
I can't. Not for three weeks.
I'm just like so over the [bleep] I thought
this was gonna change with us and it's just not.
[sighs]
And I'm not gonna spend
the rest of my life and be in a situation
I'm not gonna be a hundred percent happy
and you're not getting it.
- Try to put this energy for us. - No, I don't.
- For us, babe. - I don't.
I expect a little bit more from you.
And you just don't see it.
You don't understand what to do.
You're just like... Again,
- Nicole puts in 90%-- - Sometimes I think
- I'm too much nice for you. Sometimes I think-- - Really?
Yes. I'm too much nice for you.
- You're too nice for me? - Yes.
Try to be nice for me.
I tried to make some stuffs and things.
And it's sweet. And it was sweet and I told you that.
But it's not enough.
It's not enough. I need more.
- I'm trying to learn you. - Yes.
Stop make fighting every day.
Every day.
It's too much.
It's only second day.
Mmm-hmm.
The thing with me, in a argument with Justin,
is that I do blow up
and I do go from zero to a hundred.
I can go to a thousand
if he pushes my buttons enough.
Honestly, hormones play a role
about being super emotional.
I think that any trans can attest to that.
But this has been bottling up for a while.
I don't just get sad or get upset or cry.
This has been going on for quite some time.
Okay.
I love you.
- I love you too. - I don't wanna fight.
I think he acts like a child
when it comes to anything that has to do
with the intimacy conversation.
That's... Honestly. And he can't handle it.
He can't talk about it. He...
He's very private about it.
But it's not gonna get anywhere
if he doesn't face it.
- We have to go, Sweetie. - Okay.
We have to come down to some type of resolution
because, you know, like time is of the essence.
We only have a short period for us to be together.
But I'm hopeful, and, hopefully,
we can work things out.
He obviously really wants to be a dad.
So we're thinking about either doing like
maybe surrogacy or adoption.
[upbeat music playing]
[siren wails]
[line rings]
- Hi. - [Claire] Hey, Sophie.
- How are you? - [Sophie] I'm good. You?
Yeah, I'm good.
- [Claire speaking] - What?
I mean, I appreciate you obviously like apologizing
for like sometimes saying rude comments to him.
But like literally you've said that in like
a really weird time because we've just had
like a massive kind of fallout.
You know how obviously I've told you
that like I don't wanna get pregnant
and you know that, right?
Somehow he doesn't know that.
This is really sad.
Right now, as of this moment, we've kind of come to like
some kind of resolution, but, at the same time, obviously
it's very new and it's like
we're still kind of...
You know, we have our differences to certain things.
But it's like he obviously really wants to be a dad.
So we're thinking about either doing
like maybe surrogacy or adoption.
So that's kind of where we're at right now.
But it's still just like...
You know, it's like I don't really know
what to do at this point.
Because of the fact that I don't wanna get pregnant,
it's "I've never really thought about kids" kind of type thing.
But obviously, as you know, I am like a massive
people pleaser, but like obviously this is my life as well.
So, it's like I'm not gonna people-please
for like my future, you know?
I don't wanna have children if I'm gonna resent the kids.
Yeah. I mean, listen, I'm not the best relationship advice person.
[laughs] Right.
But you need to have a really deep conversation.
[Sophie] Yeah.
The surrogacy thing
is a whole new kind of concept for me.
So for me to be honest with him and myself,
I need to think about it. I don't want to have kids
just because he wants me to
and I don't wanna tell him no
because he's gonna leave,
and then it's like what does that mean for me
and my life and everything I've given up for him?
Do you want me to wear something like super classy
- or medium or-- - Super classy
- or medium classy? - [Sophie] What are you wearing?
Probably like khakis
and a blue shirt.
[Sophie] Mmm-hmm.
In England, I do go to the club
a lot more regularly,
'cause he never wants to go to the club ever.
- He hates the club. - When you're single,
you wanna go out more and party more,
but, you know, now that I have got a woman,
I'm not really thinking about going out to the club.
And, plus, I feel like there's potential for more problems.
You know, like if I go to the club and some girl's hitting on me,
then I'm... I might end up in trouble,
whereas if I would have just stayed at home
and hung out with you, then that's not gonna happen.
I mean, you could stay out of trouble
just having fun with me.
I don't think I've been to like an actual club
in LA even, so it'd be cool to like see.
[Rob] I've only been to like one or two clubs in LA.
- Really? - [Rob] Yeah. 'Cause they mad expensive.
It's like a hundred dollars to get in some places.
When was the last time you've been to a club?
- A few years ago with Tor'i. - Yeah? He's coming isn't he?
[Rob] Mmm-hmm.
Why are you making faces?
[Sophie] I don't know. I just feel like...
it's a bit awkward.
I'm definitely not looking forward to seeing Rob's friend, Tor'i,
just because he has been in Rob's ear a bit about me.
[Rob] She popped up on Tor'i's phone on a dating app,
and since then he's been
on the fence about what...
Is this person someone he wants his friend to be with?
It was never a dating app. I was on the girl side of a friend's app.
I invited Soraya,
- if that's cool, to the club. - [Rob] Hmm.
[Sophie] It's like you're gonna be with Tor'i. Tor'i's coming.
So it's like I don't want it to be you,
Tor'i, and me. That's super awkward.
I met Soraya
at the exact same timeframe
when Tor'i saw me on the app.
But for me to have met Soraya,
she was on the friend side. She wouldn't have shown up
if I was on the date side.
So, I feel like that's proof of I made a whole friend
on the same app at the same time.
So I feel like I don't really need to prove anything else.
That's as much proof as I can give, really.
That's too much?
I mean, that's kind of like
going like salsa dancing or something.
- Yeah. - It'll take you an hour to get ready, right?
- You as well. Don't wait for me. - [Rob] What you mean?
- You got like hour and a half of work. - You've got a yellow shirt on.
[Rob] Man, it's gonna take me 10 minutes to get ready.
Sophie 100% takes longer to get ready to go out.
It's kind of like I should do something else
to not suffer while I wait.
Like watch a movie
and then the last 30 minutes of the movie,
30 minutes before we leave, then I'll get ready to go out.
[Sophie speaking]
You look amazing all the time,
so I don't need to wait two hours.
- Do I look good? - Yeah.
Takes me 30 minutes.
[upbeat music playing]
LA nightlife, here we go.
[laughs]
Here we are.
Go on, girl.
[Sophie] I'm going.
Finally.
- Hi. - We know you gonna talk
about us being late.
Come on, man.
What's up?
- How you doing? - Hi.
Hey. What's up, Sophie?
- Nice to see you. - Good to see you, finally.
- It's been forever. - Yeah. Eventually she will have to see you.
[Tor'i] Why you been hiding?
What you scared of?
I'm super protective over Rob.
So I just wanna make sure that the people
that are coming into his life
are doing it for the right reasons.
I think she realizes Rob has a soft spot for her,
so she might be playing that to her advantage
or might be, you know, playing Rob a little bit.
I don't know. Who knows?
But I'm gonna definitely pick her brain.
You meet any new friends, Sophie, while you're out her?
Uh, not really.
- [Tor'i] Oh, no. Not yet? - No.
- You got one friend coming though, right? - Yeah.
- [Tor'i] One friend? - Yeah, my friend Soraya is coming.
[Tor'i] Oh, where'd you meet that friend?
[Tor'i] Okay.
- Oh, a friends dating app? - [Sophie] Yeah, that's where I meet all my friends.
That's what we call them now? Friends dating app?
- I didn't know they made those. - Yeah.
I thought they were just dating apps.
I got a strange scenario I wanna run by you.
It's such a weird thing
I don't even, like, wanna tell people.
- Okay. - This whole entire time,
her dad doesn't even know I exist.
- Oh. - She has been pretty much lying the whole time.
What would her incentive be to hide you?
[upbeat music playing]
[Clayton speaking]
You're okay, baby.
Morning.
Good morning. I'm here with...
- Yeah, I'm Clayton. - Oh, is that Baby Pig and Chocolate?
Yeah, I'm here with Baby Pig and Chocolate.
- Hi. - Hello, good morning.
- Good morning. - I've got Baby Pig
- and Chocolate for you. - All right.
They're still kinda chunky,
so I wanted to get their weight checked out.
And they look so terrified right now.
They don't like car rides at all.
That's all right. I don't blame 'em.
I think guinea pigs get overlooked as pets
because they're a rodent and rodents kinda have like
a negative connotation of being like pests.
But I take my guinea pigs
for a checkup about every six months
because I know that my mom will overfeed them.
She feeds my guinea pigs a lot
and I just wish that she would not, like,
give them so many treats.
[Katie] All right, Baby Pig.
Look how chunky he is.
- So... - He's a little chunkier than he was before.
162. Yeah. Come here, big guy.
- All right. He's-- - Eating well and everything though?
Well, he's clearly eating well.
He probably need to eat a little bit less.
- [guinea pig squeaking] - Yeah.
Did you know that they eat guinea pigs in South America?
[Katie] Yes.
Uh, my fiancee has eaten a guinea pig
and she says it's delicious.
I'm trying to get my fiancee closer to my guinea pigs
- but not too close, you know what I mean? - [Katie] Yeah, yeah, yeah.
Guinea pigs in Peru are often a delicacy.
And they're not a common food in America at all,
so, I think Anali's starting to realize
that she might never eat guinea pig again.
I know she thinks they're delicious
because she's told me that a million times,
but I also want her to think that they're like,
you know, part of the family,
not part of like breakfast with coffee.
You know, something like that.
You're a good boy.
[upbeat music playing]
You ready, pig?
Come on, pig.
Such a good boy. [clicks tongue]
[sighs]
It's kind of second nature
at this point of having all this clutter.
I've just become accustomed to it
and complacent, but it's still just
kind of mentally exhausting
to have so much stuff in your house.
I'm pretty much just like
a hermit in my room.
Because I'm working from home and gaming all the time,
I've spent a lot of time on the computer.
- [upbeat music playing] - [beeping noises]
[Kameron] What's up, Mr. Clayton? How you doing?
Trying to play the game or what?
I was thinking about killing
some giant mole.
Oh, that's like really high-level stuff, bro.
But that's why I'm calling you, man.
I need some help.
Videogames have always been a part of my life.
The game that I played I've been like addicted to
since I was like an early teenager,
I have like over 20,000 hours on that game, if not more.
I quit counting like a long time ago.
About half my life, I've spent so much time on it.
Let me see if I got the proper gear.
Yeah, you do. You're the highest level, brother. Come on.
[game buzzes]
Kameron is my best friend of 13 years.
We met on an online game,
but we haven't met yet.
I don't actually know why.
You know, when we were younger,
I kind of understand because it's been so long ago,
but now we're both grown adults
and able to travel,
I think it's just the fact that
given my work schedule and, you know, general habits,
I don't really have too much of a social life.
Oof.
Oh, you got the loot? What?
I must be stronger than you, dude.
You've been taking too much time off.
Hanging around with that girl too much.
[chuckles]
Doesn't Anali get here
in a couple of days?
[Clayton] Yup.
[Kameron] Time flies.
Dude, I know.
It's honestly crazy.
I've got a... I've got a strange scenario
- I wanna run by you. - Okay.
I feel like I haven't told you because it's such like a...
It's such a weird that I...
Whenever I think about it, I don't even, like,
wanna tell people. So...
you know how me and Anali have been together for, like,
two-and-a-half years, give or take?
[Kameron] Right.
So this whole entire time,
her dad doesn't even know I exist.
- Like, who am I? - Oh.
Um, that's kind of alarming.
Does she have a relationship with her dad? Does she talk to him?
Oh, yeah. Oh, yeah. She talks to him.
Uh, he calls her, like,
an abnormal amount of times per day,
like, he will call her literally, like,
20 times per day. So, they're like, you know,
really, really close.
I've kind of been holding off on talking to Kameron
about Anali not telling her dad
because it really sucks feeling like
you're being hidden, you know,
I've had past relationships dealing with that.
And, you know, I don't wanna relive that
and I don't want to work up insecurities
that I may have overcome
and now that I'm talking about it so much,
here they are coming back and here I am thinking that,
"Oh, maybe Anali's not proud of our relationship,"
you know, maybe she's not proud to show me off,
you know, I don't know what's going on.
You know, she has been pretty much lying the whole time.
Like, anytime me and her have been together
in, like, not her hometown, like, say we're
in the capital Lima in Peru,
she was down there for like work.
And then she's coming to the US in a few days.
Oh, surprise, she's got a job waiting for her,
except not actually.
[Kameron] Honestly, bro, you're supposed to be the person
that is going to spending the rest of your life with her, you know?
So what would her incentive be to hide you?
Um...
her dad is just really protective
and he can be intense.
That's pretty much what she's told me
is the reasoning.
Dude, I think you gotta jump on it, man.
Get it... Get it resolved as soon as possible.
Because this is your life partner, man.
You gotta think of every dimension,
like, this is gonna be your family as well.
If Anali told her dad about our relationship,
I'm not 100% certain that he would try to convince her
not to come here, but I'm certain enough
that I would not wanna risk that whatsoever.
It's been such a long process to get her here
dealing with this long immigration,
you know, high cost,
language barriers, all kinds of stuff.
I just don't wanna risk that.
[Kameron] I think it's going to be essential
that this happens before the marriage.
So just keep that in mind, bro.
[Clayton] But at the same time,
sometimes the thought of her,
like, so easily lying to her family for years
kinda makes me wonder
would she lie to me for years,
what would she lie about?
I don't really wanna fill my mind
with these negative thoughts.
I kinda wanna just take her word
at face value and just, you know, give it time.
But that kind of is my nature, I do overthink sometimes.
[in Spanish]
My plan is to bring my kids here
once I'm sure that Gino and I are gonna make it.
What's wrong?
[upbeat music playing]
Thank you.
- Hi. - Hi.
Can I help you guys find anything today?
Actually we're looking for...
The sheets, like, in bedding.
Sheets, pillows, or anything like this.
It'll be in the back of the store,
- back over here to the right. - Okay. Awesome.
[Jasmine] Thank you.
Oh.
[Gino] I'm doing my best
to turn things around from last night.
She has this allergic reaction.
But she's feeling much better today
now that I've taken her to urgent care
and she's gotten a couple of really potent shots
that helped with her hives.
Thank goodness they did because otherwise
she's gonna kill me. [laughs]
You know, I would like to ask you
since you might be familiar with it.
I replace mine about every six months.
- Every six months, right? - Yeah.
- They... It's like they get... - Twice a year is...
Yeah, for me, personally, that's what I do.
[Jasmine] Yeah, that's my preference.
- Yeah. So I just wanted to make sure... - Absolutely.
...you, as an American person,
to give me an outlook because my fiancee
differs from that way, you know? [laughing]
- Absolutely. - They think that pillows
are everlasting. [laughs]
For me, it's more like once every six years.
- [laughter] - Instead of six.
So six months versus six years.
[laughs] Thank you so much. I appreciate it.
Please let me know if I can help you.
- Thank you so, so much. - [Gino] Thanks.
[woman] Excuse me if I can help.
Yeah.
Baby, look at this. So cute.
- These are... - Soccer.
Soccer. You know who?
- For Juance, baby. - [Gino] That's nice.
You know, that-- that's his dream,
he wants to be a soccer player.
He's taken classes and all that. He's good at it.
His birthday is coming and it's the first birthday
- I won't be with him ever. - Yeah.
- [Jasmine] That's a tough one for both of us. - Yeah. We can show him that.
[Jasmine] Right?
My K-1 visa was just for me,
so I had to leave my sons,
JC and Juance, with my family in Panama.
But my plan is to bring my kids here
once I'm settled and sure
that Gino and I are gonna make it.
And I know that no material things
will ever replace...
- me. - [Gino] True.
Or the fact that I'm not gonna be with him, but...
I want him to feel like
I'm with him even though I'm not physically there.
I mean, I know you can't be there this time, but...
[somber music playing]
The good news is eventually
we should be able to bring him here, right?
Right.
So that's positive.
[sighs]
- [sniffs] - What's wrong?
I feel bad because...
you never... You can never take time back.
And I'm scared, I don't know if this visa thing
is gonna take, I don't know how long
and if Juance gets impatient
or starts to believe that...
that I abandoned him.
I don't wanna cause any trauma on him.
Don't... You don't have to cry.
It's okay.
[Gino] No, you're a good mom.
You've always been. Everything...
I... I've seen in Panama.
[somber music playing]
It's a huge sacrifice for Jasmine
to come to United States and,
you know, give up being around her kids
and separated from her family,
her children, her friends.
Um, all of that.
You know, she did all of that to come here for me.
Um, that's true love.
Things will get better soon, you know?
I promise.
Thank you, baby.
Baby, let's video chat Juance
and we can show him some of the toys and stuff.
[Jasmine] Absolutely. Yeah. Let's call Juance.
[phone rings]
Juance.
- [Gino] Juance. - [Jasmine in Spanish]
Hey.
[Jasmine in Spanish]
[in Spanish]
Mmm-hmm.
- [Juance speaking] - [Jasmine speaking]
- [Gino in other language] - That's Portuguese.
- Oh. Sorry. [laughs] - Muy bien. Spanish.
[laughs]
- [in Spanish] - Freaking gringo.
- [Gino] I love it. - [Jasmine laughs]
[in Spanish]
[Gino speaking]
[Juance speaking]
Yes, yes.
[Jasmine in Spanish]
[Jasmine] Okay.
[in Spanish]
- [Juance speaking] - [Jasmine speaking]
[Gino speaking]
- Woo! - Woo! [laughs]
[Jasmine speaking]
[Juance speaking]
[Gino speaking]
I think he was happy.
[Gino] I think so, yeah.
So sweet.
[Jasmine] I feel super happy,
super excited about the K-2 visa
for my children.
But at the same time,
I cannot stop being worried
because I'm scared of something happening
and it delaying the process.
Okay, Papa Gino.
Let's go to pay.
I'm trying to fight again negative thoughts,
but, you know, it's a fear that is tangible
and I cannot avoid feeling it.
Would you mind checking the price on this pillow?
I couldn't find anything on here except the bar code.
Wait a minute. Let me say a little prayer.
12.99.
- 12.99? - 12--
I bought these pillows for $100 in Panama.
So we'll take both.
Oh, my gosh.
This is an historical event.
One time every six years.
You met her on the friend side of the app?
Yeah.
[Sophie] I do know that, like, I probably should tell Rob
that I'm bisexual.
I've just been putting it off for a bit.
So you're not into girls?
[dramatic music playing]
[Nick] Today is kind of big day.
I think that this is gonna be a train wreck.
I don't know what we'll do
if Nick's parents don't accept
the differences between us.
[Devin speaking]
[Nick speaking]
[upbeat music playing]
♪ Show me ♪
♪ Where we'll be tomorrow ♪
♪ And I'll be there In a heartbeat ♪
My friend Soraya is coming.
Oh, where'd you meet that friend?
[Tor'i] If you're on a dating app
and you're meeting other girls,
I would think that you're into girls
or something like that.
Uh, I think she's been avoiding
all the tough questions,
she doesn't wanna answer any other questions
that I have for her.
In my experience with dating apps,
is you're on there to date,
uh, you know, I don't know too much
about making friends,
I don't know if that's a good vibe.
I mean, there's like a best friend mode.
- [Tor'i] Oh, really? - Yeah.
[Tor'i] You met Soraya on that same app, right?
[Sophie] I met her on the app. And she was...
- Okay. - ...on the friend side...
- [Tor'i] Okay. So she's-- - ...as well.
So when I meet her, she's gonna say,
"Hey, I met her on this dating app, right?"
- Yes, yes, yes. - Okay. Okay, okay, all right.
My fault, my fault. I'm just saying.
I feel like I'm getting the truth, but you never know.
I mean, women are capable of anything, you know.
Take it from me, I know from personal experience.
[Tor'i speaking]
but I really don't know, I can't tell,
I can't call it right now.
I don't know what's going on.
Ain't that your girl over there?
Oh.
- Hey! - Hey.
- Oh, my gosh. How are you? - Oh, my gosh.
- It's so good to see you. - Oh, my God. You, too.
- You look nice. - You're so blonde.
- So are you! - [laughs]
My name is Soraya.
I've known Sophie for about two years.
Um, she's great, love her.
Whenever she comes into town,
of course we like to go have a good time,
so I'm excited.
- [Tor'i] Tor'i. - [Soraya] Nice to meet you.
- [Tor'i] Good to meet you, too. - [Soraya] Tor'i.
Hi.
- Good to see you. - Hi.
Hey!
- Oh, my God. - [Tor'i speaking]
I know. What can I say?
I'm so ready for a drink. Let's go inside.
[Rob] Okay. Let's get in line, then.
- Come on. - [Tor'i] Okay.
[Rob] Excuse us, excuse us.
[upbeat music playing]
[Sophie] That's the shot?
- [Tor'i] Yeah. - Why is it so big?
To love, to friends,
to a great night,
and let's just enjoy ourselves.
Cheers to that.
[Sophie] Oh, my God.
We got this, ma'am. Perfect.
[Rob] Confirm something for me.
You met her on the friend side of the app?
Yeah.
Like, there's a friends and then there's a...
- I met her... - ...dating side?
...on the friends side of the app.
You met her on the dating...
- On the friend side? - On the friend side.
So you're not into girls?
No. I wouldn't even look...
Okay. I just wanna make sure.
[dramatic music playing]
[Sophie] That was a super awkward moment because
Soraya doesn't know, Tor'i doesn't know,
Rob doesn't know that I'm bi.
- No, I'm... - Okay. I just wanna make sure.
...we were looking for friends...
- Right. Genuine friendship. - ...in LA.
- We made a great friendship. - We have a great friendship.
[Sophie] It's like, I'm gonna lie
because I'm not gonna come out right now
in front of three people, um, but yeah, no.
I was on the friend...
I was on the app for friends, though.
I wasn't on it for women also
at that time, you know.
[dramatic music playing]
I guess the whole friend dating app thing was real.
Uh, she is the proof, she is the proof.
I was wrong.
See, I told you!
I told you.
That same app that I met Soraya on,
I'm still on that app to make friends
because I don't know anyone out here.
And there's bi women on the friend side,
like, you can be bi and still...
Or gay even and look for friends.
So it's, like, I do have the option,
I guess, of asking them.
Well, as long as I don't do anything to disrespect him,
it's like, I feel like I should be allowed to do that.
We met what, what year was it?
- 2019. - 2019?
Yeah.
Oh, my God, we've been dating for two years!
I know! [laughs]
See? I told you!
You gotta watch out.
[Sophie] But I do know that, like, I probably
should tell Rob soon that I'm bisexual.
I've just been putting it off for a bit
because, lately, we've been arguing so much.
But I think I should probably tell him soon.
[upbeat music playing]
[Nick groans]
Hey.
[Devin] Mmm-hmm.
[yawns]
How are you doing with your jet lag?
I'm just tired.
- [Nick] Oh, yeah? - Mmm-hmm.
[Nick] Sorry about this.
[chuckles]
The first day in Korea
was good, really good.
[Devin] Seeing Nick for, like, the first time,
it's almost, like, the two years
that we have been apart kind of didn't exist.
Uh...
She was too tired, jetlagged...
so. [laughs]
[laughs]
Today is kind of big day.
Are you excited?
I'm excited.
But I just packed a bunch of clothes.
[Nick] Mmm-hmm.
I was gonna have you help me out.
Okay. I will help you out.
[Nick speaking]
Show me what you got.
- I have this one. - Yeah.
[Devin] That one, that one, and this one.
It's all jacket, yeah?
[Devin] Yeah.
What about this?
- This one? - And this?
- [laughs] - Okay.
My parents don't know much about Devin,
but when they think of American women,
like, have a bunch of one-night stands,
do drugs at the party, blah, blah, blah.
But she doesn't do that, so finger crossed.
This is gonna be a train wreck.
Oh.
Is this enough?
Yeah. I like this.
It's good enough.
- Good enough or good? - [Nick] Yeah. Good enough.
Yeah. I think it's good, good.
I like this.
Let me get my coat, then.
Okay.
Mmm-hmm.
- [Nick] Are you excited? - Yeah.
- [Nick] Okay. Let's go. - [Devin] Okay.
I just arrived yesterday,
and now I have to meet Nick's parents.
I don't speak any Korean,
and I'm also very quiet
and shy and introverted,
so it's hard walking into this situation,
knowing that I'm so different.
[Nick speaking]
[Devin] Yeah.
[Nick] In Korea, in a big city,
you get huge apartment complex.
Because there's so many people.
Yeah.
[Devin] No.
[announcer speaking other language]]
[Devin speaking]
[Nick speaking]
Devin meeting my family and parents,
uh, makes me so nervous.
[Nick speaking]
And without my parents' blessing,
I can't go to US.
[Devin] Is that them over there?
[Nick speaking]
[dramatic music playing]
[Nikki speaking]
The people in our country is narrow-minded.
I'm nervous.
Right. At the end of the day,
you gotta be proud and confident of who you are
or who you're in love with.
[mellow music playing]
[ringing]
[Nikki] Hello, Mommy.
[Myrna] Hi, Nicole.
That's so cute on you, Nicole.
I like that. It's beautiful.
- [Nikki] Thank you. - I love that color.
I've been thinking about you.
Is everything okay?
Yeah. Everything is good.
You know, Justin and I
are working through some things.
We're still having a little couple few issues.
[Myrna] What's been going on?
[Nikki] Honestly, Mom, like,
we had a conversation
about the lack of intimacy.
Because this is not normal to me.
[Myrna] Um, Nicole...
did you have a civil conversation with him?
Did you yell at him, did you start screaming,
did you go from zero to a hundred? What happened?
- [Nikki] Honestly, Mom... - How was it?
I probably did go from zero to a thousand.
I took a hormone shot before I went on this trip
and I think that's what's just making me very emotional,
that's what it does to male to female trans
out there in this world, and I'm trying...
[Myrna] It is.
...to, um, maneuver,
uh, through the obstacles
but it's very hard
with a very cold Russian.
All right. Now, I'm gonna ask you an honest question.
I'm gonna ask you something.
[Nikki] Mmm-hmm.
And answer it honestly, Nicole.
How about if you change
the way you behave toward him?
Like, maybe be softer,
um, be a little bit more patient.
Find another way to speak to him,
not yelling and screaming, and exploding.
You've even done that to me.
He loves you.
I could see it.
You have to understand his side of it.
How he was thinking,
how they're gonna accept you,
is his mother gonna accept you,
is his stepfather gonna accept you?
My friends, I gotta tell my friends.
Let him... Let him adjust.
This is big for him.
He's still adjusting, I think.
[dramatic music playing]
My mother gives me this advice
to calm my temper, so I'm going to take it.
I wanna enjoy my time with Justin,
I don't wanna be fighting and arguing.
I wanna actually just enjoy my time with him
because I do love him so much.
[Myrna] I think that he really wants
to make it work, Nicole.
I know.
Be careful, okay?
- Love you. - I love you, too.
- [Myrna] Okay. Bye-bye. - Bye, Mom.
[Myrna] Love you. Bye.
[folk music playing]
[cat meows]
[Nikki] Where are we going?
[Justin] One place that's simple,
but I think you'll love it.
[cat purrs]
[Nikki] Even though Justin knows how to push my buttons
and get on my last nerve,
I do know how to calm down and forgive him.
It might take five minutes,
ten minutes, a half hour.
He's charismatic, he's charming.
Um, and I know him
for such a long time, you know.
So I feel like a level of comfortability with him
that I have never felt with anyone else.
[man] Yes, sir.
So are we going to have a drink?
'Cause today's been a very long day.
I don't like us getting to that level
of what happened at the park.
So let's try to work
like harder on our relationship.
I'm gonna try to be more patient.
Not go from zero to a thousand.
And you're gonna try to be a little bit more serious
when I'm upset.
Yeah, I'm working.
Okay.
[in other language]
- Cheers. - [Justin] Cheers.
Let's go.
[Nikki chuckles]
Okay. Now I understand you better.
[Nikki chuckles]
[man in other language]
[Justin in other language]
[Nikki] What are our plans tomorrow?
- [Nikki] Yes. - Yeah.
So tomorrow you wanna go to the gym?
Yeah. In the morning time,
I think, maybe when you were asleep.
[Nikki] No, I'll wake up.
We can go to the gym together
and we can work out together.
I will think about it.
Better for people
who comes from another country.
Why would it be better for me
than the gym that you've been going to
that you don't want me going to?
Some of the gym have the ceiling down.
[Nikki] Low?
- [Justin] Low. - Low ceiling? Okay.
- [Justin] Low, yeah. - Okay.
- So the gym... - [Justin] Some of them--
...the other gym that you're going usually goes--
Bigger. Bigger, yes.
I'm going to the...
- [Nikki] Smaller gym. - ...small.
So I know your gym is smaller, low ceilings.
Okay. Great.
But I think the real reason
is more that...
I think you know a lot of people there
and you don't want them to talk.
Uh, this is not the reason.
And the reason is I found the best gym
for people who come from another countries.
And there, you feel more comfortable.
What is this, the LGBTXYZ gym?
Baby, I changed my sex.
I changed who I was.
I didn't care what anybody thought.
I, still to this day,
walk with my head held high.
At the end of the day,
people are gonna say whatever they're gonna say.
They're gonna think whatever they're gonna think.
You can't change people's minds in this world,
but you gotta be proud and confident
of who you are or who you're in love with
or who you're dating.
Let's drink for this.
[Justin chuckles]
- Hmm. - But listen...
Oh, my God.
The people over there, literally, I just got clocked.
I said how I was born
and the people over there at the table...
- [laughs] - [Justin] Really?
Do you think, uh, they hear us?
Of course they hear us.
[Justin] And understand the language?
They understand clearly.
[Nikki] Right.
Listen, I know how this close-minded country is.
Okay. I get it.
[in other language]
Oh, that looks amazing.
[man in other language]
[Justin] The people in our country
is different culture,
and on some things like that,
trans, gay, and lesbian,
think like narrow-minded.
And this is very sad for me.
[Justin speaking]
But I'm nervous.
What you're doing is standing up
and showing the world that you love me,
regardless of what anybody thinks.
That's what matters the most to me.
Okay, stop.
What?
Aw.
I hope that Nikki,
with my choice,
we open more doors
and more friends in the future,
people more open-minded.
Let's drink for our new steps in our life.
And some of those new steps is having more sex, so cheers.
[Justin] Yeah.
[Nikki] I see Justin's getting a little bit more comfortable with me
being with him in public,
and that's all cool, fine and dandy,
but we need to get a little bit more,
like, you know, sexy.
So I wanna work on that.
Let's finish our wine and let's get out of here
because my [bleep] is neglected
and she needs to eat.
I just checked his phone. I never check his phone,
but I was, like, "Let me just check."
And then I went on this one app
and, like, the videos are disgusting...
[Sophie speaking]
I'm not perfect,
but I'm definitely not trying
to [bleep] be with nobody else but you.
I just want you. I want you in my life.
It's just a lot. And I just... He's disgusting right now
and I just don't wanna be, like, anywhere near him.
[mellow music playing]
Um, I just wanted to get away from, like, Rob
and his house, and his dog,
and his whole life basically.
So I've just come here to, like,
get away from him and have some space.
[sighs] Basically...
Um, so basically what happened was,
I had a dream the night before, right,
that Rob online cheated on me.
So the next day, I just checked his phone.
I never check his phone, but I was like,
"Let me just check, because I had a dream about it."
I went on his Instagram, didn't find anything,
and then I went on this one app and, like, basically
he's been getting, like,
disgusting videos from other women
and, like, asking for just, like, news
and, like, the videos are disgusting
and he's, like, entertaining it.
And I was just like, "I found the videos,"
and then I was just like, "You need to drop me off.
I didn't even wanna talk to you."
Like, I just left.
I just had to leave. I was packing my stuff.
He was trying to stop me.
Like, I just took what I could
and I [bleep] left. I threw the ring.
I don't even have the ring anymore.
I threw the ring.
So yeah, right now [bleep] him.
[Sophie speaking]
I've been trying to be perfect,
but I'm not perfect, man.
I'm not like...
I'm not perfect,
but I'm definitely not trying
to [bleep] be with nobody else but you.
I just want you. I want you in my life.
I don't want [bleep] nobody else, baby.
[Sophie] Explain all the messages. I saw the messages.
Even the ones that you didn't save,
I've seen them, Rob.
So I don't care what you keep saying.
It doesn't mean anything to me.
You're such a liar.
No wonder he never asked me for sexual videos.
He's getting them from, like, I don't know how many girls.
It's just a lot. And I just... He's disgusting right now
and I just don't wanna be, like, anywhere near him.
[tense music playing]
No one wants to see their partner, you know,
get turned on for anyone other than them.
If you're getting pictures from another person
that's not your partner and jacking off to them,
and watching all this disgusting stuff,
and requesting videos, and having a fun time
with someone other than your partner, that's cheating.
Some people might look at it as not,
but to me, that's disrespectful and it's hurtful.
So for me, I consider it cheating.
He did this before and I nearly broke up with him
because it was like...
And my face is getting really hot.
If I was back in England, I would've left this guy.
He would've been history, goodbye.
I would've gone to my mom's or my friends.
See you never.
Where am I supposed to go?
I'm in this house.
I've rented by myself
because I have no friends to go.
I have no family member to go.
I have no at least a job, staff, friends,
I don't have anything, don't even have a car.
So it's like I don't have anywhere to go.
I don't know what I'm supposed to do now.
And obviously, if I don't marry him,
I have to go home.
So I've given up everything
for nothing.
I don't wanna throw away my whole life
that I've been trying to build
to be in LA with Rob.
It's like I've got...
I have to give up that.
I have to give up that dream.
And he just gets to live this same [bleep] life
with no consequences.
He doesn't have to leave,
he just gets to do what he's doing.
[dramatic music playing]
It's definitely very hard.
Sorry, one second.
When I don't have anyone out here obviously,
and it's just me and it's like,
I just feel very trapped, and very alone,
and what he's done to me, it's like I'm hurt,
but at the same time, it's like...
I don't have anywhere to go,
and I don't really know what I'm supposed to do.
And I just feel very...
It's a very lonely feeling
and it's very difficult to process.
And my mind's just trying to, like, block the pain.
But it's something...
It is a bit difficult.
I'm just really trying not to think about it,
but it is hard.
That's the thing.
It's, like, it's not even that he's hurt me,
it's that I don't...
What am I supposed to do now?
[crying]
[narrator] Next time on 90 Day Fiance...
Aw, thank you...
[Clayton] I'm feeling a lot of pressure
because Anali is completely uprooting her life
to come here and live with my mom.
[Clayton in Spanish]
If Anali and my mom don't get along,
I honestly have no idea what I'm gonna do.
Yeah.
[Manuel in Spanish]
[Ashley speaking]
[Ashley] We are going to a couple's therapy
so I can assess what we're dealing with.
But Manuel wants no parts of it.
[in Spanish]
I just feel like...
It's, like, he's leading a double life.
[in other language]
I can't marry someone my family doesn't like,
so this can go bad.
[in other language]
[in English]
[Devin speaking]
This is not how I wanted to meet my future in-laws.
- [Justin speaking] - Hi.
[Nikki in other language]
[Justin in English]
I'm very nervous tonight
'cause Nikki meeting my friends.
It was kind of shock for me
that he choose to engage with a trans woman.
[Nikki] When I changed my life,
I had to do a lot of things
that I wasn't happy with.
I was hooked on drugs. I had to prostitute myself.
What is this?
I have no idea how that got there
or how long it's been.
[Jasmine speaking]
No, I'm not!
- Yes, you are. - I never--
You [bleep] her!
That's not cheating.
[speaking Spanish]
[in English]