Previously on 90 Day Fiancé...
Oh, my God. You're here.
This is air conditioner. We're in the building still.
Here's our home. What do you think?
- Um. - Huh?
Everything looks so old and dusty.
It's like...
I want a new bed, mattress, the blankets, the pillows.
We have to, like, prioritize what's most important.
Rico Suave has been with me through a ton of partners.
They leave and guess who stays?
Rico mother [bleep] Suave.
Manuel.
Shut up.
- Yes, yes, yes! - Yes?
Oh, my God. What the hell?
There's nothing I can do about it.
Oh, my God.
It took all of 15 minutes
for her to be pissed off at me
about something that I cannot control.
In my defense, you did control it because you did break it,
but, yeah.
Why are you angry at me?
I see how he's reacting about me coming there to his country,
and it's upsetting.
Maybe he's afraid for himself, he's afraid for you.
I just, it's a lot.
Baby.
- Hello. - I cleaned the comforter that you said was stinky.
And it smells...
...heavenly.
- So much better, right? - Yeah, baby.
Give it a smell. See you smell any fungus in here.
- Okay. - Or any bed bugs or anything else.
- Like Coco. - You're like one of the dogs
- that sniff at the airport. - Yeah.
I trying this.
Everything in the house, the condition of the house.
But I'm starting to feel better
because he's trying to put some effort, finally.
Gino and I have been cleaning and unpacking,
and I'm feeling more, like, at home right now.
- I have a surprise for you. - Surprise?
I need to go to the bathroom...
- ...and I promise it's not something bad. - Oh. Okay.
- See you in a few minutes. - Okay.
Oh, my God. Coco. Aww.
Tonight is our first night together after months.
You have no idea how horny I am right now.
Oh, my goodness.
From one to ten, 100.
Gonna show you the surprise.
Jasmine, you brought a lot of underwear and bras didn't you?
Whoa! Look at you!
My nurse.
Oh, my God. You look so sexy.
I am Nurse Jasi.
Wow. Look at you, ma'am, with your big ones bulging out.
You're so sexy and hot, baby.
Look at this hot outfit.
- Whoo! Wow. - Baby.
No, don't do that. Be respectful.
I'm your boss.
Well, actually, you're my boss
because you're Dr. Gino.
And I need a favor.
This is your hat. The most important part of your uniform.
This is a hat?
This is the shirt and these are the pants.
Hurry up. Go and change. Wash your hands and other instruments.
Gino and I have a lot of issues when it comes to our sex life.
So that's why four months ago...
...to restore my virginity.
I was hoping that this surgery was gonna improve my sex life with Gino
because he was gonna say, like, "Oh, my gosh. She's virgin now."
Like, in a perverted way.
And I was like, "That's super sexy."
But it was not the outcome.
Even though his was [bleep] enough,
it was very difficult for him to get it because...
...we couldn't have sex.
And we ended up being super stressed
and actually arguing.
Dr. Gino? Remember, this is an emergency.
- Did you say emergency? - Yes.
Dr. Gino at your services.
I'm sorry to inform you that I'm Nurse Jasi
but, at the same time, I'm the patient.
So, Dr. Gino...
- Oh, my gosh. What's this? - Some instruments.
You're gonna start with this first.
You're gonna ch, ch.
And then we move to medium.
- Then this one. - Oh, my gosh.
Ch, ch. You know?
- Just ch, ch, ch. - Yes.
- And then you move to the biggest tool. - Mmm-hmm.
I mean, I definitely can try.
I don't have the most steady hand, but I can certainly try.
I am ready, Doctor.
Well, wow, those are big.
Um, I think, whew, you need to lay down first.
Uh...
- There. Let's prep you. - Mmm-hmm.
Mmm.
Ah!
The doctor outfit is making me feel like
I'm kind of in control here.
Mmm.
All right, baby.
Hopefully today our intimacy can get back on track.
You know, I want us to be happy and like we used to be.
- Coco. - Coco.
Where you come from?
Baby, yes, you have to take him out.
Just give us a minute.
Oh, baby.
Yes.
♪ We got the skills ♪
♪ We all the way We all the way ♪
This is the final pack.
Oh, no. I forgot my syringes.
Need to take my hormones because if I don't take these
I don't know if Justin gonna end up alive.
He might end up in this body bag here.
♪ Yeah, yeah, yeah ♪
♪ This time everyone ♪
♪ I'm your unicorn ♪
♪ Fly like Tinker Bell ♪
♪ Yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah ♪
♪ You're so sensical Shake with tremolo ♪
♪ I'm all over like yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah ♪
- Hi! - Hello!
- Oh, my goodness. - It's so early.
It's too early.
- Oh, you look cute. - I know.
I'm so tired.
Are you ready?
Eh. I'm excited.
- I'm sure you are. - But I'm, like, half asleep right now.
I'm excited for you, too.
Today I'm going to see my fiancé Justin
in Chisinau, Moldova.
It's been about nine months.
It's been a really long time.
I miss him so much,
so I can't wait to see him.
You have everything? Your passport?
- Your cellphone? Chargers? - Yes. Yes. Check.
Everything.
Justin and I are currently nine months in
on the K-1 visa process,
and we are having some issues that need to be addressed.
And the easiest way to address them
is actually working on them in person.
Oh, my goodness.
I definitely want to know that he is going to pull the weight
in our relationship financially, sexually, whatever, emotionally.
I don't want it to be 89 days and then I send his ass back again.
I want it to work, and I know he wants it to work, too.
- Oh, my... - Ah!
- Oh, my God. - What is in here?
Oh! Ow!
Oh, my God.
Let's go.
I've known Nikki for close to 15 years.
She says that he makes her happy,
and that's all that I want for her.
But when Nikki talks to me about Justin it's mostly negative.
It's like, "Yeah, we had a nice time and then we fought.
Yeah, we went to dinner and then we fought.
Yeah, we FaceTimed and then we fought."
She's very in this 100% which I feel like he's not.
So, now, is he picking you up from the airport?
- He better. - Or...
Are you guys gonna arrange this?
Yeah, but he's, like, telling me, like...
Oh, God.
Girl. Baby, can you pay for cab
- Oh! - and come to my house?
Oh, no.
That's what he... - No. I'm on your turf.
You pay for the taxi.
No.
She does give him an allowance.
I'm not sure how much but it is a nice chunk.
She pays for every vacation that they go on,
and she does pay for his cosmetic surgeries.
His nose, his teeth, his cheeks, his hair, his eyes, his eyebrows.
Whatever he needs done, it comes out of Nicole's pocket.
In the past, Nikki had sugar daddies
that took care of everything for her.
And I'm so surprised that now she's, like, the sugar mama.
She should know better.
All right, so, what are you guys
gonna do when you get there?
- Like, what are the plans, like... - I, the plans are...
- ...meeting his family, meeting his friends. - Okay.
They will probably show you or tell you something
- that you probably don't even know about Justin. - Right.
Well, apparently, some of his friends don't support our union.
Wow.
They loved you when they met you the first time.
Yes. That's because they didn't know.
- And that's how it is all the time. - Yeah.
- When people don't know, they're cool. - Yeah.
- And then when they find out it's like... - You know, again...
...they're not used to that over there.
- Over here it's normal but over here it's not. - Mmm.
Even here in the United States...
- ...you know, telling somebody you're trans, - Yeah.
it's either taken good or bad.
I feel like 15 years ago, when our first K-1 visa was approved
and we tried to give it a chance,
I don't feel like our love was ready at that time.
I want you to find what you're looking for and be happy.
Get all your questions answered
because you have a lot of questions.
I want to believe that he did come back
because he truly loved me
and wanted to give it a chance.
And I want to believe in that
because if I have doubts, the devil is doubt.
It smells really bad in here which doesn't help.
If I have to pee at, like, 3AM I have to go outside?
We don't have a bathroom in here.
You're used to houses in Dubai and London,
and all this other bougie-ass stuff.
What's even bougie about having a bathroom inside your apartment?
It's not normal, babe.
This whole time, Manuel's mom has been thinking
that he is out working in Guayaquil
when, in reality, he's been in the States with me.
Manuel has always been on the secretive side,
so I would be doing myself a disservice to not question some of this.
♪ We won't stop ♪
♪ You can just fly with me ♪
It's really dark in here.
I literally can't even see if I'm doing my makeup right.
And it smells really bad in here which doesn't help.
It's definitely not, like, a normal situation
of having a bathroom outside.
It's, like, at two in the morning
if I want to pee and it's, like, raining,
I've got to walk out into the rain.
It doesn't, first of all, it never rains in LA.
Why can't you just admit it's not ideal to pee outside?
I'm not gonna admit
that that bathroom is so inaccessible.
Yeah, well, you get to see that patio
every time you go to the bathroom.
You like creamer in your coffee?
- Um, not really. - Or sugar?
You don't like sugar or creamer?
Maybe some sugar, actually.
So, day one of this 90 days kicked off.
I feel, like, real good.
I think the airport romance was good.
Somehow, the elevator has a glitch and it's my fault,
but, all right, no, it was a moment but we're good.
And I woke up this morning next to my baby.
It's like...
It don't get no better than this.
How'd you sleep last night?
Um, so, I slept really well yesterday.
It was obviously more weird, like, waking up.
Like, when I felt you I was like, "Who is this?"
It was weird waking up to someone.
I mean, I tried to put you to sleep
so you wouldn't have to be
thinking about all that.
It was annoying because I was really tired.
And I was just like, "No." And you were like, "No, please."
"I'm a man."
As soon as I got in the bed, I passed out kind of. I'm so tired.
And Rob was like, "Nope."
I was like, "Rob, like, I'm jetlagged."
And he took, like, six minutes to take these buttons off.
But they got off eventually.
Kind of ruined the moment. He was just like, "How do I take this off?"
I'm like, "Rob, come on."
- That was, like, the icing on the cake. - Yeah.
Like, surprise, surprise, surprise.
Icing.
Yeah. No, it was good. I mean, um, I slept nice.
Anyway, I feel all right.
I'm just, like, it's still weird for me.
Like, if I have to pee at, like, 3AM, I have to go outside.
You know how annoying that is when I'm, like, half asleep and I have to go outside?
I got to put shoes on.
We don't have a bathroom in here.
It's not the first place ever.
You're used to houses in Dubai,
and London, and Spain,
and all this other bougie-ass stuff.
- It's like... - What's even bougie about having a bathroom
inside your apartment?
- It's not the worst thing in the world. - I don't know why
if you're just not admitting that you know it's bad
or you're trying to make me feel better,
but, like, it's not normal, babe.
The thing with me and Rob
is that, obviously, we was raised very differently.
Like, I was raised in, like, really nice houses in Spain.
Like, nice cars, good education, stuff like that.
And then Rob was raised, you know, obviously, in the hood
and not the best areas and stuff.
So, like, he will get defensive about it.
Like, he's definitely defensive about where he lives.
Because I get, like, this is his house.
So I don't want to, like, slag it off too much
and be like "Oh, it's absolutely terrible,"
but it is.
I'm gonna bring you down to Earth a little bit.
You want to be with me, I'm a down to Earth person.
And in that sense, we have different mindsets about certain things.
And like--
Oh.
Can I?
- Rob. - I was gonna go bathroom. My bad. Damn.
So should I wait for him to finish, or...
Mind your business!
You're not missing out on nothing.
You don't not have something.
- You got everything you need. - Got all but an inside bathroom.
- An inside bathroom. - I don't have a dining room. I don't have chairs.
- I don't have a real kitchen. - Man, we had an inside bathroom
that would just be a dirtier house.
Anway, it's not ideal is the point.
And I'd like somewhere at least with a bathroom
inside the building.
- All right. Well, what did I say last night? - It's not that crazy.
- What did you say? - I said we're not gonna talk about this everyday.
The "when are we moving" talk is gonna get old real quick.
It's basically her telling me about how I'm inadequate.
And I don't like that feeling at all.
You know, she's used to her family paying her rent
and being like, "Okay, you can move in to the new spot now."
Like, that's not how it works anymore.
I don't want to keep hearing about it.
And it's gonna be one of those things that,
as soon as she says it,
it's gonna put me in the wrong headspace,
it's probably gonna piss me off,
and I'm not gonna want to talk to her.
Oh, bub, he's out like a light.
He has no clue you're here.
♪ We should come and live together ♪
♪ And do these radical ways of thought ♪
Our first night in Rochester
was interesting.
We got into a little tiff about me being a witch
and then my animals in the bed.
Then, you know, we got back together
and figured it out.
And then we had amazing sex.
Even though we get frustrated with each other, we still love each other.
And we express our love through sex.
So, yeah, we banged it out. We always bang it out.
Mmm-hmm.
His freak number is off the charts.
Okay.
Yeah.
So, today I am taking Manuel to the local grocery store in Rochester.
My refrigerator was empty.
And in my defense,
it was empty because I was waiting for him to get here.
Let's get some groceries.
Manuel literally can eat the same thing
every single day.
Rice, avocado...
- ...tomato, red onion. - Yes. Onions.
Not white onion, not shallots.
- Oh, okay. - Red onion,
and sardines.
He is Gucci.
Gucci is...
What's up? What do you...
Huh?
Mmm-hmm.
So this whole time,
Manuel's mom has been thinking
that he is out working in Guayaquil
when, in reality, he's been in the States with me.
I found out that he was coming over here in secret when he was in Guayaquil.
And he said, "No, I'm not gonna tell her until I get there."
And I'm like...
"You're gonna tell her now."
And he was like, "No, it's better this way."
And I'm like, "But it's not."
And he's like, "I know how to handle things with my mom."
And I was like, "Okay. Then you do that."
Manuel has always been on the secretive side.
It has always kind of bothered me.
And now that he is here and I'm seeing this happen,
and not only is it with me but it's also with his family, too.
We haven't even touched the whole kid situation.
The man has two teenage children at home.
Like, do they even know I'm about to be a step-mom?
It's not really my business.
Manuel's kids are older.
They're used to him being away for work for long stretches of time,
but I at least hope that they know about me.
I've talked to Manuel about opening up to me.
It 100% worries me.
I'm supposed to be committing my whole self to this human.
We have less than 90 days to figure this out.
Baby, there's no way I can work full time
and leave you at home here all day,
so I ended up quitting my job.
One of the reasons why I move here
you said, "Because I have a job."
I'm scared, baby.
♪ Handcuffed on a train track ♪
♪ Five steps forward Taking ten back ♪
♪ Freedom That's the dream though ♪
Ohh.
♪ Unbreakable ♪
♪ Na, na, na, na ♪
♪ Na, na, na, na Unbreakable ♪
I love you.
And...
I can have sex every day, three times a day.
I, yeah.
For me, the more sex,
the more I will get along with you.
We both are gonna
- try our best. - To not to argue as much.
- Pinky promise? - Pinky promise.
We're starting fresh.
It feels good that Jasmine and I
have seemed to have gotten our intimacy back,
you know, last night.
Because it felt like, wow, you know,
this could be the start of, like, forever for us
to be together, you know?
When it comes to intimacy,
I think Jasmine and I are gonna be fine
as long as we, you know, not argue so much.
When did you buy this bread?
I just bought it right before you got here.
It has honey. Where does honey come from?
- Where does honey come from? - It comes from bees.
What are bees?
Bees are insects.
And insects are also animals.
I'm so hungry after all the calories that I burned last night
having sex with him.
I'm ready to eat.
And there is nothing for me.
He knows that I'm vegan and I take it very seriously.
It's like a religion for me.
There is nothing more attractive
than a man that cares about animals.
But...
I hate to say that.
But I'm hoping that once we're together
I'm gonna slowly make him transition into veganism.
I won't even tell him.
- Are you cold? - Yeah.
I brought this robe and stuff,
but it's not gonna work for Michigan.
This is too cold in here.
I can grab you, like, a long John top
because I have quite a few.
Baby, no offense, but I cannot keep wearing your clothes.
Why not? You like wearing my clothes.
- You stole some of my shirts in Panama and kept them... - It was because
- you were coming back to the United States. - Out of my suitcase.
But now I have you 24/7, I want to have my own clothes.
Please, baby.
And also, like, I don't want to overwhelm you, baby.
But you said that you were gonna be willing to make any adjustment
to make me feel like I'm home.
And it's not just me acting like a brat like, "Oh, I want everything new."
It's just that things are, they don't work.
Baby, it's not just having all old stuff.
But even to cook something as simple as this, it took forever.
All this stuff that Jasmine's mentioning.
She wants to replace the new bed, new everything in every room.
It's a little overwhelming, to be honest.
We can't do it all at once.
It's impossible, especially with a wedding coming up.
And there's something that I have to tell Jasmine that I haven't told her yet.
And I'm a little bit nervous
of, you know, how I'm gonna break this news to her.
Baby, I have to tell you something.
Um...
You are my priority, and I want to spend all the time with you
to get you on your feet.
There's no way I can work full time
and leave you at home here all day
when there's all these things that we have to do.
I just, you know, I need to give you attention
from the day one that you're here.
So I ended up...
...quitting my job...
...just before you came.
We're gonna be living off of my savings.
But it's enough for us to live comfortably until we get married,
and then I'll get a new job.
You shouldn't have made this decision
without telling me first, baby.
One of the reasons why I moved here
and you didn't move to Panama you said, "Because I have a job."
Yes, but I quit to be with you so you're not gonna be by yourself
and so I could get you on your feet.
I completely depend on Gino,
and I have other people who depend on me as well.
...to the United States because we need a sponsor, and now he quit his job.
Are we gonna be financially prepared?
It's a matter of budgeting our money
- and not overspending on things - Well, we're...
that are not necessary at this moment.
Maybe we just have a wedding ceremony and that's it.
The wedding is the last of my concerns.
Don't worry about it. You're stressing out over nothing.
I'm stressed.
- Don't be stressed. - I'm scared, baby.
I mean, I love you, baby, and...
Don't be stressed. Oh, come on.
- You don't have to be stressed. - I'm so stressed.
This is not the life that he proposed to me
to have here in the United States.
We cannot make this kind of big decision
without consulting each other.
Because then our needs are not gonna be taken care of.
So if it is just the start
and this is gonna be the dynamic of our relationship,
this is not gonna work.
I'm gonna go and take a shower, okay?
- You all in my phone. - Who is that?
That, I don't know.
- Maybe... - It's just some random page I follow.
I would describe myself as a very jealous person.
...it just really broke my trust.
Didn't you find me on a page
- that posts nothing... - When I was single.
There's a lot on the line for this trip.
We've had so many problems. I don't want it to get to that level again.
I want to feel that I'm making the right choice.
♪ I love the way you're wonderful ♪
♪ Wonderful tonight ♪
♪ Magic has me hypnotized Everyone in sight ♪
♪ They know they know you're wonderful ♪
♪ Wonderful tonight ♪
Nikki arrives today in Moldova...
Nine month, it's a long time to not see my fiancée.
When Nikki's waking up my time I go to sleep.
And...
Sometimes we don't have energy for speaking.
And sometimes we fight.
This is the favorite thing of Nikki.
Because we will see how it work here
with my parents, with my friends.
I need to go put on my heels, freshen up.
Yas, honey, now he can suck on that tongue.
Just kidding.
Okay.
When Justin sees me today, he's gonna say,
"I wanna spend the rest of my life
with that crazy-ass bitch."
Hmm.
I'm about to walk through the arrivals door, and I'm feeling
so many nerves running through my body,
and it's like butterflies.
This trip is important for me
because I wanna feel that
I'm making the right choice for us
giving a second chance at love.
Hi. Aw, I missed you.
Come on...
Mmm!
♪ I know that we're breaking through ♪
Oh...
♪ And I said you should know ♪
♪ We are unstoppable ♪
This is my fiancé, Nicole.
And I'm feel in love, and...
Aww.
You look so handsome.
My first kiss in nine months,
burn my lips.
- I feel like burn. - Maybe it wasn't his kiss in nine months.
It's so hot.
This is Nikki kiss.
This is special.
- Oh, my goodness. - Look, baby.
- It's your favorite, rose. - I am impressed.
- I love it, thank you. - Give me a kiss.
Finally getting to kiss my love
for the first time in nine months,
it's like a dream come true.
But, there's issues that we need to work through,
and this is why I'm here.
But let's get beyond that,
and maybe we can work on something.
I wanna know that I'm here and he's here,
we're meeting together.
We'll see.
♪ Unh, yeah ♪
♪ You don't want this problem ♪
♪ Unh, yeah ♪
♪ It's whatever you want ♪
This is what brought me to California.
- The beach? - Yes.
The ocean was calling me.
So, today is Sophie's first real day in LA,
and I'm gonna take her to one of my
favorite places to go, which is the ocean.
I'mma bring her to Venice Beach,
and hopefully we have, like, a really nice time.
See, check it out.
That's Santa Monica.
- You can see it from here. - Oh, nice.
I don't know if you even remember that but
- you can definitely see it. - Yeah, the pier is there.
I love the pier.
It would be nice to, like, live out here.
Yeah, it'd be awesome to live out here.
How much do you reckon it would be for, like, one of those?
Uh, too much?
How much?
No, these are not gonna be cheap.
Like, like those ones are super cute,
with, like, the open windows.
Yeah, I get it. They're all really cute.
- They're ideal. - I'd live in that one.
Sure, me too.
I'm sure-- Look, look at the price.
Twenty-five thousand a month for one of these houses over here.
I feel like me and Rob would be a lot happier if we lived near the beach.
'Cause while we was in Mexico together,
we lived on the beach. We were very happy the whole time.
I don't know, like, if you really,
really wanted to live there, you could try to ask for help.
- No. - That's up to you.
If not, we could stay in Inglewood.
- How much-- - I feel like we'd be happy there, though.
How much you got on it?
- No comment. -"No comment." You ain't got nothing.
- You just wanna live there. - No, but I can't work right now.
Well, when you can work, then maybe, yeah.
When I was about 16, 17 years old,
I started just doing waitressing and I afford,
like, a little apartment in the countryside, like,
I completely disassociate myself from my family
and just thought, "I wanna be independent."
And like, since then, they don't give me any money.
And I'll never ask them. Like, I'll never be like,
"Hey, give me some money," like,
I, you know, I've never asked them for anything.
That's just because I think it's important to be, like, independent.
And sometimes, he's a bit annoying, 'cause he's,
if we're going through hardships, he's like,
"Ask your family for money." Which does annoy me,
because I just wanna be, like, proud of myself
and, like, actually accomplish stuff.
And it's like, I'm not gonna be just, like,
"Oh, what do you do for a job?"
"Oh, family money is my job."
Like, I just-- That's not what I wanna do.
- You all in my phone. - No, I'm not.
- You are, kinda. - I'm looking at the beach.
- Whoa. - Who is that?
Not, I don't know.
- Wait, who is that? - It's just some random page I follow.
Not somebody I follow, it's just some random page.
That's crazy.
- What? - That's crazy, you follow that page.
I pull my phone out, and this random post
by some page that posts random stuff,
posted, um, basically posted a girl in a Dora the Explorer outfit,
but with, like, booty shorts.
Uh, Sophie did not like that.
She can be very jealous.
And, I mean, I wish she wasn't,
'cause, you know, I would like to have, like, kind of a,
a more just, a mellow, chill relationship.
It's not like I follow any of the girls.
I just follow a page that posts that type of stuff.
Didn't you find me on a page
- that posts nothing but... - When I was single.
- When I was single, yes. - ...nothing but good-looking guys?
When I was single, yes. I don't follow that page anymore.
- You don't? - No.
Well, I wouldn't know 'cause I'm not all in your phone.
I think that's weird, but okay.
- I mean... - It's very weird.
Like I said, it's not like I'm following any other girls.
I just follow a page that post stuff like that,
which, to be honest with you, the way that that stuff goes,
it's like, they might not even used to post it.
I don't know when I followed this page.
I mean, I would describe myself as a very jealous person.
Like, I'm very honest about it. I know I'm jealous.
But at the same time, it's like,
Rob hasn't necessarily been the most loyal fiancé.
I'm sorry, babe.
just because we hadn't seen each other in a while.
And I'm not excusing it,
but I gave him the benefit of the doubt that,
like, you know, he made a mistake.
But it's starting to feel more real
now that we're getting closer to the 90 days.
And it's now even more pressure on me, like,
"Can I trust this man? Is what he's done acceptable, or is it not?"
And it's just, like, a really overwhelming feeling for me.
Hi!
Mijo!
My kids would never leave me without telling me, "goodbye."
You didn't say, "goodbye," and you lied.
You told your mom that you were going
to another town to work.
Being a mother, I'm a little hesitant
because of how he left his family
without saying goodbye.
- He said, "It's fine." - Can I trust that?
Yes, we have to get ready to see my mom.
Tonight, we are going to a cute Mexican
restaurant in my neighborhood,
so Manuel can meet my mom for the first time.
I can't stress enough how important this first meeting is.
Mom Dukes is the matriarch of the family.
And I do a lot of smile and nodding with Manuel.
My mom is gonna be doing a lot of,
"What are you saying? No, sir."
So, I just hope that Manuel
can do a lot of smile and nodding with my mom.
Mmm-hmm.
Manuel did not have time to go home to go
get any sort of clothing or anything,
so I got him some button-down, some shirts.
I'm not gonna let him wear some old, sweaty T-shirt
to meet my family for the first time.
And I have fantastic taste.
Every time he steps out the door in something I bought,
somebody compliments him on it.
what's most important is that
Use this one. I think this will work really well.
Okay.
During, uh, dinner, we don't want hats.
- Hello. - Hi.
- Hi.
How are you?
Good, so good to see you.
- Samuel, how are you? - I'm doing good.
I'm so good.
I'm happy.
I'm really close with my mom.
I'm her oldest child. We're buddies.
She had me at 16, so we grew up together.
And I've been waiting for this moment
for years and years and years and years and years.
It's surreal.
I'm gonna try to let you guys communicate.
- Yeah. - So.
Okay.
She's trying to find--
You're finding that Google Translate.
I'm trying to find the Google Translate.
I got it.
- Oh, I got it. - Oh, oh. Okay.
Okay.
Is that real? It was Spanish in here?
Sia, you right. You do it faster.
- Now we plan a wedding and babies. - Ooh.
- Bien. - Manuel.
Oh.
- Yeah, sí. Yeah, sí. Yes. - That is it.
Uh...
- No. - No?
No, quickly.
My mom is a teacher,
and she loves her job and she loves kids.
Yeah, she wants grandkids really bad.
She-- She's taken people's babies before.
Not like kidnapped.
But I mean like, she will babysit people's babies
and like, "Oh, I got the baby here."
Like, Mom, can you stop taking people's children?
Does he miss his pa-- his family?
I'm sure he does.
He said he didn't say anything to anybody
and it was really hard.
But why not say anything to them to let them know?
He felt more secure when he was actually here.
Like the planes went through, nothing got cancelled.
Everything actually happened
before he said something.
This is what he felt was right.
My kids would never leave me without telling goodbye.
You didn't say goodbye and you lied.
It wasn't like you said, "I may be going to America, I don't know."
Or, "I'm going to pick up the visa,
I'll let you know the status of it."
It was like, you told your mom that you were going,
you know, to another town to work,
which was false.
How does that make you feel?
- That you're the reason why he came, though. - I mean...
- And that he left his family? - He...
I just wish-- It didn't happen the way that it happened.
But I'm glad it happened,
and I think he-- he feels the same way.
And we've worked really hard for this relationship,
and we've worked really hard to be sitting here together right now,
and I've dreamed of this moment.
We-- We shall see. Time will tell.
I just wanna make sure that you love and protect my daughter,
that you love her with your whole heart,
and your intentions are good.
So I'm gonna be asking him a lot of questions.
Tonight was round one.
As time goes on,
I'm gonna be questioning some things about him.
If-- If I can just leave you guys with some advice,
I would say,
what's made my marriage strong is communication.
He said it's fine.
I do what I do, he doesn't wanna argue about this, but fine.
When are you gonna let it go?
It didn't last more than like, what, an hour?
I didn't do anything.
- You cheated, though. - I'm not-- You don't have to--
I did not cheat.
♪ Hold up, wait I'mma give it all it takes ♪
♪ Goin' hard Don't need no brakes ♪
♪ I'm a boss Let's get it straight ♪
♪ If I eat I scrape the plate ♪
You think you'd ever be comfortable walking him?
- No. - No?
Well, not by myself.
- Go where? - The nice parts of LA.
♪ I feel good I feel free ♪
♪ I can do anything And be who I wanna be ♪
Yeah.
I mean, it's like...
It's like, even though you're my girl...
- Yeah? - ...but you're so far away,
it's just like, not the same when you're not here.
Yeah, same for me.
It's like I am, but I-- Am I?
- But I am, but like, am I? - Yeah.
- 'Cause I don't get to hang-- - No, you are.
I don't get to hang out with my girl.
- I don't get to go on dates. - You are an issue.
Keep walkin'.
I feel bad for checking Rob's phone at the beach.
Because I respect his privacy,
but he's proved he's not the most trustworthy person.
We gotta go slow 'cause he's walkin' slow.
I was heartbroken over what he did,
'cause it is a form of cheating.
I gave him the benefit of the doubt,
just because it was in 2020 when COVID was a huge thing,
and it was like, when are we ever gonna see each other again?
This was before we was even engaged.
Let's check his paws, he's limpin' a little bit.
I only really had one serious long-term boyfriend,
and ended up cheating on me like, eight times.
So with Rob, it's like,
I think every day, "Is he gonna do it again?"
And it's like, not gonna bring up after we're married.
This would be the time to bring this up.
Man, you gotta stop lickin' on these paws, man.
- I know he-- He's got allergies. - Yeah, um...
There's something I just wanted to talk to you about real quick.
Obviously like, I'm happy to be here and stuff.
And it's like, the realization that like,
obviously we're gonna be together forever and everything.
But...
When are you gonna let it go?
We only have, you know, 90 days to,
to decide if we're gonna be together,
if this is like, it.
So it's like, I definitely feel like this is obviously something
that we should, you know, we should talk about.
'Cause it's like, it's always gonna be in the back of my mind
if I don't like, bring this up to you.
Like, we not gonna act like I've cheated on you,
when all I did was respond to somebody
while laying in bed at home one day
in the middle of us not seeing each other for seven months.
Literally, it didn't last more than a day,
it didn't last more than like, what, an hour?
I feel like you're-- You're downplaying it a little bit.
I'm not-- I'm downplaying it because I didn't do anything.
- You cheated though. - You don't have to--
- I did not cheat. - There's nothing...
- Stop playing with me. - ...to take my word for it.
We not gonna talk about it like I cheated,
because it-- 'cause--
- Why you getting angry at me? - 'Cause I'm not gonna live my life
- like I cheated on you when I didn't. - Why you getting angry at me?
Because I don't like that.
Every time you try to act like that with cheating,
that's bull[bleep], 'cause I haven't ever cheated on you.
I basically one day, sitting at home, bored, late at night,
somebody hit me up,
sending me pictures and videos.
Um, so I started talking back and--
and got into a conversation.
Then Sophie's callin' me,
talkin' about somebody is sending her
basically what I sent in the conversation.
It definitely, uh, create a problem between me and Sophie.
Um, and I feel like we worked past that,
and I've done nothing else in any other way.
And yeah, it's just a bit of, uh,
of an annoyance at this point.
And I feel like, you know, you gotta give me a little bit of credit
that in two and a half years,
the only thing I ever did was respond to the wrong person...
- I get it, but at the same time... - ...while we hadn't been--
when we hadn't even been together in months.
The whole time we've been together, I've done nothing, so.
- I mean, you say that, but... - You know?
I say that 'cause it's true.
You say that, but I'm still wondering about the social media apps.
That you-- you on-- you on these dating apps, where...
- I was never on dating apps. - You were on dating apps.
I-- I wasn't, it was a friend app, where I make friends.
I mean, Turai-- Turai saw you on the dating app,
and he was not using the dating app to meet friends, so...
I travel a lot. So wherever I travel
I have this app to meet friends. You know?
When I came to LA, I did the same thing.
He knew I had it 'cause I told him, "You see this app on my phone?
"It's just to meet friends." Um...
But then his best friend Troy
hit him up and was like, "Yo, I just saw your girlfriend on a dating site.
Which I was never on the dating site, I was on the friend site.
It's just irrelevant for him to bring up really.
Why are you bringing this up when I ask you something--
You bringing up stuff to me, so it's like,
- you have one thing to worry about me... - But that's...
I got one thing to worry about you.
I'm not gonna-- I'm not gonna continue to let that dictate
- how i feel. - You never caught me out doing something though.
It doesn't make me wonder.
- I've been loyal though. That's the difference. - I've been loyal.
I can see, like, the guilt in his eyes when he's talking about it
and i can tell that, like, he does feel awkward.
And like, he kind of instead of just being there to listen,
and, you know, be like, "You know, I'm really sorry about that I did it."
He chose to just get angry and get defensive and blame me for stuff.
Which is how a lot of our conversations go when he does something.
I mean, there's nothing I can do about it now
except just trust him
but if it happens again, obviously, like I'm gone.
It's gonna be over.
Yeah.
- What happened? - That... It hurts.
If I'd known that Gino was gonna quit his job
I would have never had this plastic surgery.
Okay, I should bring the news to you now that you look so relaxed.
What news? What did you do?
It's okay.
Coco, take care of the house, please.
- Got it? - Yeah.
Yeah, perfect.
I'm sorry, Coco.
But Mommy and Daddy need to go.
- Bye, Coco! - Bye, Coco. Take care of the house.
Don't destroy anything.
Earlier today, Gino gave me the bad news about he quitting his job. And...
Which I really appreciate.
But inside, I'm panicking about it.
Because now we're not gonna have any sort of income.
- I know you like spa. - I... Yeah, I get it like three times a week in Panama.
- Yeah. - Thank you, baby.
- But what kind of massage? - Like, a couple's massage.
I feel like I need it.
So, I don't wanna overwhelm you but...
I have plenty of reasons to be stressed.
- Yeah, you deserve to have one - Yeah.
It hurt my feelings that Jasmine
reacted the way she did when I told her I left my job.
Because... Gosh, I thought she would at least
be happy that I could spend more time with her and be together.
But instead, she was crying.
And not very happy with me.
I think she might be worried about
how I'm gonna be able to keep up her luxury lifestyle.
But we're not the only couple that's living on a budget, you know.
Everyone has a budget
and it's the real world.
Thank you.
- Hello, how are you, guys? Good. - Hello, how are you?
My name is Gino and I booked a couple's massage.
- Yes. I can take you guys to the room. - Thank you!
Ladies first.
- Smells good in here. - Thank you.
- Oh, wow, this looks so cozy. - Wow!
This is what I signed up for.
I never had anything like this, actually,
in my life, I don't think, done before.
- Perfect. Sounds good to me. - Okay.
This can be good for me because I can rest my head this way.
Get naked, baby.
- No! - Yeah!
Look at that sexy man.
Whoo! Wow.
Yeah.
I saw something.
I saw a sexy banana.
And I like banana.
You saw my banana last night.
- Yeah. - How are you?
- Good, how are you doing? - Good.
- You want this take off? - Oh!
No. No, no, no. Yes, take it off.
He already stress out.
I love hates because...
they help me cover my bald head.
So, I pretty much have a hat for every occasion.
I don't wear a hat in the shower
and yes, I take my hat off when I go to bed.
And yes, I don't have a hat on when I have sex with Jasmine.
I just wanted to get that out of the way.
Can we come at least once a week?
Maybe, that's... you know. Maybe once a month.
A month?
All the money that you spend on junk food and frozen food,
forget about it.
You should spend it on these kind of things
that are so good for your health.
Yeah.
What happened?
Oh, not in the ass. No.
Not in the ass um...
Sorry, it hurts. It hurts.
Why does your ass hurt?
Is it from sitting in the plane?
What do you mean?
- What-- - Talking about your ass.
When they're trying to massage it.
Because it hurts.
It hurts? Why?
Okay, I should bring the news to you now that you look so relaxed and in a good mood.
- Baby... - What news?
Promise you're not gonna get mad at me, please.
What did you do?
Baby, you remember, a few months ago, I told you that
I have lost so much weight
and i got so skinny that I lost
muscle and my ass got very flat?
Mmm-hmm.
And that I wanted to get butt implants
and you were, like, "No, don't spend money on that."
- Right. - Guess what?
No...
Yes.
Are you kidding?
No, I'm not. Look!
I even have the-- still the, like-- the marks here.
How could you do something like that?
This is crazy.
It's because he still has his balls, he likes to mark things.
Um, I don't know how to explain that.
I can tell that him and Rico can be best buds, really quick.
Rico has respected Manuel as this man of the house,
so, Rico's made this, like, bed underneath the bed.
There's like pillows and blankets. It's really funny.
No, and yes.
Um, how do I explain this?
Rico Suave is my baby. He's my son. I love him.
But Rico can be, um...
Come on, Rics.
You know, I love Rico Suave.
I'm his mom.
And I think sometimes he thinks I'm his girlfriend.
So, we're gonna have to navigate through this.
And I just have to have hope
that everybody will find the place everybody is comfortable with.
- Hmm? - Mmm-hmm.
Okay.
Uh...
- Okay. - Okay.
Oh, my God, it's so sunny.
It's been, like, forever.
Seventeen years, it is like, of coming out here.
A lot has changed.
Yes, I want to eat.
Rest...
Believe me, the amount of love that I have from this beautiful man
and just, you know, the unconditional love that I have from him,
is, like... I can't match it with anything in the whole wide world.
What feeling I had was a tingly feeling
between my-- my legs, that I need something more.
- You know, like I jut got-- - Food.
Yeah,, food, and more.
Do you know you wrapped the roses
in the color of the trans flag?
No way.
Sweet colors.
Okay, baby.
And away we go.
Well, today is a very beautiful day.
I still remember the first time I ever came to Chisinau, Moldova,
and it was a snowstorm.
That was when I first met you.
Is that the only mall in Moldova?
No. We have two malls.
- Called Mall-dova? - Yes.
Yeah?
Of course!
So what's going on with people
coming to the engagement celebration? Did you figure that out?
I...
Okay.
Oh, this is the place
- where we go. - Oh, this is the place.
-"Creme de la creme." - Yeah.
I like your...
Wow, this is nice.
Sitting in that cafe, with Nikki,
makes me nervous a little bit.
Because I see some attention from people
to look at Nikki and, like, "Who is she?"
When I know Nikki's trans, I am thinking, "Oh, my God, everybody know it."
Oh, thank you.
- I missed you so much. - I missed you too, baby.
It's hard being without you.
Like, it's just hard.
Like, doing things on my own...
And who's gonna hold my bags?
No, it was awkward because--
The guy looked me up and down and he is like, um,
"So you here on business or pleasure?"
And I'm like, "Oh, you think I'm a hooker!"
"Oh, my God, no!"
Well, I can't wait, whatever you have planned for me, I'm so excited to see.
Why during the daytime?
Are you afraid of taking me out in public at night
because you're scared that they're going to judge me on the way that I look?
Or they're gonna be able to tell I used to be a man?
I think, it's...
about your...
Okay, well that's better than a man,
or a trans or a dude.
And here in Moldova...
I don't understand, I don't get it.
Because 17 years ago,
I did not have this face, I did not have this voice,
I sounded like a truck driver.
And now, I'm like-- My level went from here to here.
And my body looks insane. What are you scared of?
But you're leaving. What do you care what these people think?
You're leaving. Who cares?
Dude, I'm coming all the way here
and you're saying you're just gonna take me out in the daytime
to see if people can clock me, basically?
I'm not sleeping! We're going to, like, a lounge or something.
You're not shelving me in the dark, sorry.
Something in the back of my mind tells me
that maybe he's secretly dating somebody from the nightlife
and I don't know about it.
That would break my heart.
So I just hope that's not the case.
I hope that it's just because he's still trying to get over
his little insecurities and the little butterflies in his stomach,
like, maybe they know, or maybe people can tell.
But I gotta be honest.
I think something's-- Something's a little shady in there.
Okay, we'll see.
- No, we won't see. - We will see.
- We will do. I'm-- - Let's talk about this later, okay? Let go.
Baby, you spent $10,000 on butt implants?
She lied to me about it.
This is exactly the that I'm worried about.
You had butt implants?
Yeah, I have butt implants.
I feel relief to tell Gino the truth about the butt implants.
It's like getting a weight out of my shoulders.
But at the same time, I feel sad
because Gino is very disappointed at me.
He doesn't easily get this mad at me.
I'm the one who always gets mad. Not my Gino.
And now Gino is mad.
Are you kidding? Why did you do this?
So you remember when you were questioning me,
"Why are you not going outside to run, like, everyday?"
And I told you that I have covid.
I was actually recovering from my butt-implant surgery.
How much did that cost?
How much do you think it costs?
I don't know. $5,000?
Up.
- More? - It's butt implants.
Eight?
More?
$10,000?
Baby, you spent $10,000 on butt implants?
You don't need butt implants.
- I can-- - We could have used that $10,000.
Our wedding, all the appliances we need to replace,
all the home remodeling you wanna do.
But I didn't know, just in my defense,
- that we were broke. - Why are you making decisions without me?
Well, you quit your job without telling me.
You don't even need it. You didn't even need it.
This is crazy.
- Give us one moment, please. - Okay.
Oh... Why are you asking them to leave?
I mean, where did you get the money from?
- Does it matter? - Yes, it matters!
I had some savings.
And...
Do you remember that you were giving me money for the wedding dress?
I've helped Jasmine out a lot since I met her.
Helping her pay her rent.
Money for her children.
Cosmetic procedures.
And I've been doing that because I love her
and I know she needs the help.
And she's not really working right now.
But feels like I'm the one that's always giving. I give, give, give.
And Jasmine's, just, like, taking and taking.
It's terrifying, kind of, to me, because...
You know, is this how my life's gonna be?
I... I didn't think about it being a big deal.
That's $10,000. That's a lot of money.
It is-- I know. I know, now.
I know that now.
Back then, $10,000 was very reasonable
because we were doing great.
And you had a very good job.
And you were sending money and I was living the dream in Panama.
Now that I'm here and I know that you have all this budget
How did you not think it was a big deal?
I did it, not just for me.
Those are for him.
Because I wanted him to find me more attractive.
And I thought that with this surgery, he was gonna be happy.
And be like, "Oh, my gosh, you went through all this pain
"just for me, to look pretty for me."
Damn it. Um... I kinda...
Where you going?
I just don't know how you can be spending
thousands of dollars of our money.
What's wrong with you?
It's very selfish to spend that kind of money
on an unnecessary surgery.
What the heck's wrong with you?
I'm really pissed off.
This is exactly the
that I'm worried about with you
just spending [bleep] money
on unnecessary
when you on me, okay?
I'm very worried because Gino is very mad at me.
But just by seeing how mad Gino is,
I'm like, "There's no way I'm telling him
the whole truth...
Because this is just gonna make everything worse.
Selfish!
Next time on 90 Day Fiance...
Yeah.
If you're not giving it to me, like, who are you giving it to?
You have 48 hours to change my mind,
or I'm literally leaving.
And that's the last time you're ever gonna see me.
She is the first white girl I have dated.
...it's gonna destroy my whole life.
You blew all that money on a cosmetic procedure
that you don't even need
And you lied to me about it.
I feel really betrayed.
She's, like, thinking of herself.
And the wedding doesn't matter to her.
What else was she lying to me about?
We still can't get his phone up and working in America.
So, Manuel's family's been blowing up my phone.
Why are you calling so much?
I didn't know who you guys were when he was over in Ecuador.
Interesting.
They called nine times.
It's weird!
This make me nervous.
I'd be a food to not think Manuel might be coming here on my back
so he can meet up with his family.
Then leave him.
Like, to be honest, I don't think I actually want to be pregnant.
If I don't ever want kids, is that a problem with you?
Sophie just rocked my entire belief in her and what we can have.
I could not walk down the aisle today
It would be a lie.
I don't know what the I'mma do with my life
if I don't ever have kids.
Just leave me alone.