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Previously on 90 Day Fiancé...
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What you're doing
is showing the world
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that you love me regardless
of what anybody thinks.
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That's what matters
the most to me.
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Okay. Stop.
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Aw.
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Justin's getting a little bit
more comfortable with me
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in public,
and that's all cool,
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but we need to get
a little bit more... sexy.
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- Cheers.
- Yeah.
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Anali is super pretty.
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That was the first thing
I noticed about her.
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And I think
it was on day four
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of us being together
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when I decided
to propose to her.
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She said, "Aw."
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And I was like, "Uh, so yes?"
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And she said, "Yeah."
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I feel,
like, I haven't told you,
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but this whole entire time,
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her dad doesn't even know
I exist.
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Oh.
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She has been pretty much
lying the whole time.
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What would her incentive
be to hide you?
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Yeah.
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Is that them over there?
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Why are you
calling so much?
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It makes me wonder.
It does.
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They called nine times.
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Like, that's weird, Ashley.
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It's weird.
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I'd be a fool to not think
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Manuel might be coming here
on my back
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so he could meet up
with his family.
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And leave you.
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You were living in a dirty
apartment with mice in it.
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What mice,
you [bleep] idiot.
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...one in which
I can bring my kids into.
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So this is serious.
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...and, like, basically
he's been getting, like,
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disgusting videos
from other women, nudes.
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And, like,
the videos are disgusting
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and he's, like,
entertaining it.
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I'm not perfect,
but I'm definitely not
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trying to[bleep] me
with nobody else but you.
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What am I supposed
to do now?
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Sophie's gone
to a rental now.
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She's pretty much taken
all of her stuff and left.
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To be honest,
she could be on a plane
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and I wouldn't know it.
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She sounds,
like, she doesn't give a...
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She don't [bleep] with me
no more, like, she's...
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She damn near
done with me over this.
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And the... And the crazy
part is, it's, like,
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this conversation that
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Sophie's pissed off
at me about
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is months old
from before she...
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Her visa got accepted.
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And I don't even know
this girl, like,
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I literally don't know
this girl.
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So this is...
This to me is, like...
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is, like, free porn
from a random person.
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Like, I don't care.
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The fact that
this could be over...
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that [bleep] breaks my heart, man.
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I just wish
she would talk to me.
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All I could...
All I could hope for
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is that she would give me
a chance
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to make it up to her.
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We got to go. We're late.
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Be a good boy, Coco.
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Be a good boy.
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I'm on my way
to meet Gino's family
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for the first time.
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And I don't feel
in the mood.
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I don't even know
if I will ever feel
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in the mood
to meet them.
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...you know, and Gino
is some sort of mad at me
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because I spent the money
off the wedding dress
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and all that stuff. Okay.
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I'm gonna do my best
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and put on a happy face.
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The very, like,
few communication
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that I have had with them,
it hasn't been nice.
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I was just wanting to know,
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like, could this be real?
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I mean, really?
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Do you really love Gino?
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Your sister-in-law texted me
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about the date
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that I can already not pick up
for the wedding
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because she's having
a lovely vacation in Florida.
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I haven't even stepped a foot
into the United States,
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and I'm already
receiving orders.
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And I have to,
like, dress up
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all covering because...
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...and, you know?
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So I wanna look like
super professional.
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I'm planning
just to be myself.
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And I'm a very
friendly person.
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I'm very talkative.
I'm funny.
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But, you know me.
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I take no
from anyone.
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So if I feel that they are
being disrespectful or rude,
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not kind to me,
I'm just gonna leave.
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Beautiful creature.
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Wish me luck, Coco.
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Do your doggy prayers
for Mommy.
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Take care of the house.
Don't pee all over the place.
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Oh, yeah.
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And they also have
bocce ball... courts.
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Bocce ball
is big in my family.
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Who's going?
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Uh, well... Dana.
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I think Michelle,
my brother Tony, Lori.
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Anthony, he's my nephew.
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I went and I visited
your sisters willingly.
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I didn't create
any fuss about it.
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I went and visit them.
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I met them.
I talked to them...
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- Because I have--
- ...because I wanted to,
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because they're
your family.
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They have never texted you
in a rude,
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mean way or said...
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- That doesn't matter.
- ...anything negative--
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- It matters. How...
- No.
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...can you say that
it doesn't matter?
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- No.
- It does matter.
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- It matters a lot.
- Yeah.
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- Think positively.
- I am trying.
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Trust me. I am.
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But I just wanna
make sure
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that, you know, that
if I don't feel comfortable,
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we have to come
back home.
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Are you cold?
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I'm so cold right now.
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Like, the weather is, like,
the best representation
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of how I'm feeling
at this moment.
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It's so gloomy.
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Everything is so dark.
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Don't worry.
Just be yourself.
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It's just a sign that
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it's not a good idea
to go and meet his family.
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I'm meeting a bunch
of strangers that
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don't like me at all.
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And that being nothing
but super judgmental.
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My biggest fear is them
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stopping Gino
from marrying me,
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because I know that he really
listens to his family.
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Hi.
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We're concerned
with our friend
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and what kind of situation
that she's potentially
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getting herself into,
whether it's good or bad.
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I'm gonna go
to the airport
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- in a few minutes.
- Okay.
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I was trying to learn
my Spanish.
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I know you got...
There's a language barrier,
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but try to talk in, like,
your normal tone
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'cause, you know, just 'cause
she doesn't speak English
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doesn't mean she's, like,
a child.
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Okay.
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It's kind of scary.
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The two most important
people in my life,
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they're not just meeting,
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they're also gonna be
living together.
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And I just don't know
how it's gonna go.
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I'm not gonna see her
till the last second.
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♪ Oh, oh, oh ♪
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♪ Oh, oh, oh ♪
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Here's the pen I've been
looking for for weeks.
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Put that in there.
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Anali is going to be
arriving from Peru
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to the United States today.
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I have heard from Anali...
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she got into Miami.
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So she's on her way here,
but she has, like,
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a three hour layover
in Atlanta,
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which is a fun airport
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when you don't speak English
'cause it's very big.
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Um, so... Yeah.
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So she's gonna be heading here
in a couple hours
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and it's a very short flight. So...
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Yeah.
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This is probably
the craziest thing
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I have ever done.
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Bringing someone
to live with me in America,
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whom I've only met
a couple of times in person.
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She's really close
to her family
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and I'm hoping
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that she doesn't miss them
so much,
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that she doesn't want to stay
the whole 90 days.
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For Anali, I have an alpaca.
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It's very...
Smells like cotton candy.
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I also have a little shirt
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and this is a picture of us.
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This is one
of our little sayings...
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Basically means,
uh, "I love you to infinity."
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I'm gonna go to the airport
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- in a few minutes.
- Okay.
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I was trying to learn
my Spanish.
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So what have you learned?
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- Uh, okay. Well, you'd say--
- I'm working on it.
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Yeah. So, that's good.
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But in her case,
it'd be estás.
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- Estás.
- Cómo estás?
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Try to just...
I know you got...
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There's a language barrier, right?
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I'm gonna be translating
for you,
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but try to talk in, like,
your normal tone
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'cause you know, just 'cause
she doesn't speak English
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doesn't mean she's, like,
a child or an animal.
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- I know that.
- But just, like,
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talk how you normally
talk to me.
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Okay.
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Looking forward
to meeting her.
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Kind of scary.
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The two most important
people in my life,
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they're not just meeting,
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they're also gonna be
living together.
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My mom does get
a little frustrated
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at things sometimes,
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but because
of the language barrier,
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she won't be able
to communicate
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and might be more upset
than usual.
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And I just don't know
how it's gonna go.
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Oh, boy.
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I've never bought anyone
flowers before
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because I've always
just had the attitude
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that flowers die.
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They're just an expensive,
temporary gift.
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But Anali is coming
to the United States
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from a 30-hour flight.
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I want her to have
a good entrance to America
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and something that she's gonna
remember forever.
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I have a range of emotions,
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but I sometimes just have,
like, a pessimistic mind.
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So I'm just hoping
that everything goes smoothly
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and, you know,
we can have a great life
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together in the US.
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I couldn't imagine myself
living without her.
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Wish I could see
the top of the stairs.
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I'm not gonna see her
till the last second.
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Oh, thank you.
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- Surprise.
- Oh, my God.
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Oh, so cute.
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Oh, my baby.
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I miss you, honey.
- I miss you, too.
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Surprise.
- Oh.
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Oh.
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Guinea pig.
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Oh.
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We had sex.
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Since Manuel arrived.
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We probably bickered about
something at least once a day.
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Oh, my God. Right?
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Because it's just
so [bleep] true.
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00:17:56,517 --> 00:18:00,000
But the sex is helping...
a lot.
258
00:18:03,689 --> 00:18:05,551
There's lots of power in sex.
259
00:18:05,551 --> 00:18:07,103
There's lots of magic in sex.
260
00:18:07,103 --> 00:18:10,034
Especially
when you reach orgasm.
261
00:18:10,034 --> 00:18:13,689
Like, we manifest everything
in our lives.
262
00:18:13,689 --> 00:18:15,103
Every single thing.
263
00:18:15,103 --> 00:18:17,448
So when you're having sex,
264
00:18:17,448 --> 00:18:20,586
think about what it is
that you desire most
265
00:18:20,586 --> 00:18:22,620
and keep that in your head.
266
00:18:22,620 --> 00:18:25,103
And when you're literally
at the point of orgasm,
267
00:18:25,103 --> 00:18:26,758
concentrate on that
and just watch it
268
00:18:26,758 --> 00:18:28,172
like vibrate
inside of your head.
269
00:18:28,172 --> 00:18:30,586
You can do sex magic
in a number of different ways,
270
00:18:30,586 --> 00:18:32,620
but you know,
that's the easiest way.
271
00:18:47,103 --> 00:18:49,275
I'm taking Manuel
to Spirit Room,
272
00:18:49,275 --> 00:18:51,448
a local witchy fun bar
273
00:18:51,448 --> 00:18:55,413
in the heart of Rochester
to meet my friends.
274
00:18:55,413 --> 00:18:56,551
Here we go.
275
00:18:58,413 --> 00:19:01,275
- Hi, Ashley.
- Hi.
276
00:19:01,275 --> 00:19:03,931
My friends are a little
skeptical of Manuel
277
00:19:03,931 --> 00:19:06,241
because of course when
you vent to your friends,
278
00:19:06,241 --> 00:19:07,827
they remember
the bad stuff more
279
00:19:07,827 --> 00:19:09,103
than they do the good stuff.
280
00:19:10,793 --> 00:19:13,448
They know that
he is a little short tempered
281
00:19:13,448 --> 00:19:15,413
and he has an ego.
282
00:19:15,413 --> 00:19:17,586
They can definitely be judgy
283
00:19:17,586 --> 00:19:20,103
and they are not afraid
to speak their opinion
284
00:19:20,103 --> 00:19:22,137
even if nobody called for it.
285
00:19:23,137 --> 00:19:26,413
How are we?
286
00:19:26,413 --> 00:19:27,551
How is
everybody?
287
00:19:31,620 --> 00:19:32,517
A little.
288
00:19:34,206 --> 00:19:36,344
- How are you?
- I'm so excited.
289
00:19:36,344 --> 00:19:38,172
I can't believe.
How do we know?
290
00:19:38,172 --> 00:19:39,793
Tell him we can't believe
he's here.
291
00:19:39,793 --> 00:19:40,793
We're so excited
for him to be here.
292
00:19:53,000 --> 00:19:54,586
Well, I'll speak for me.
293
00:19:54,586 --> 00:19:56,931
I'll say that
I'm remembering a lot
294
00:19:56,931 --> 00:19:59,482
about my honey's personality.
295
00:19:59,482 --> 00:20:01,275
Spicy personality.
296
00:20:01,275 --> 00:20:04,793
We have a lot to unpack
around the witch thing.
297
00:20:04,793 --> 00:20:07,724
How did he react
to all of that?
298
00:20:07,724 --> 00:20:09,655
Not good.
299
00:20:09,655 --> 00:20:11,172
He laughed.
300
00:20:13,034 --> 00:20:16,758
He thinks it's comical
that I call myself a witch.
301
00:20:16,758 --> 00:20:18,758
I don't really know
how to move through it.
302
00:20:18,758 --> 00:20:20,517
We have like 80 something
days left.
303
00:20:20,517 --> 00:20:22,172
I don't wanna spend
80 something days
304
00:20:22,172 --> 00:20:23,758
- arguing either.
- Right.
305
00:20:23,758 --> 00:20:25,620
Like that's not what
we're here for.
306
00:20:25,620 --> 00:20:28,241
Are you learning how
to communicate these things?
307
00:20:28,241 --> 00:20:30,448
Or are we just
our problems?
308
00:20:30,448 --> 00:20:32,103
Or are we actually
working them out?
309
00:21:06,517 --> 00:21:07,896
You're coming
from two different worlds.
310
00:21:07,896 --> 00:21:09,068
Like there's such...
311
00:21:09,068 --> 00:21:10,862
Like he's got his culture,
you've got your culture.
312
00:21:10,862 --> 00:21:13,137
It is totally different.
313
00:21:13,137 --> 00:21:15,310
We have to learn
how to talk to each other.
314
00:21:16,758 --> 00:21:17,896
In a respectful way.
315
00:21:21,620 --> 00:21:23,517
We're concerned
with our friend
316
00:21:23,517 --> 00:21:24,931
and what kind of situation
that she's potentially
317
00:21:24,931 --> 00:21:27,482
getting herself into,
whether it's good or bad.
318
00:21:27,482 --> 00:21:29,586
He's very controlling.
319
00:21:29,586 --> 00:21:32,344
And she's had
these concerns for years
320
00:21:32,344 --> 00:21:33,965
up to this point
321
00:21:33,965 --> 00:21:36,689
and he's here now
and it's still not changing.
322
00:22:09,793 --> 00:22:12,068
We... I mean, we're married,
we don't have secrets.
323
00:22:12,068 --> 00:22:13,965
I tell him everything.
324
00:22:19,620 --> 00:22:21,931
It's hard
to be in the middle.
325
00:22:21,931 --> 00:22:24,275
And although
he may be looking secretive
326
00:22:24,275 --> 00:22:25,862
or like he's not saying
327
00:22:25,862 --> 00:22:27,310
the full truth
about some things,
328
00:22:27,310 --> 00:22:30,586
I have seen this reaction
from Manuel multiple times.
329
00:22:30,586 --> 00:22:33,034
Manuel does not like
to be questioned.
330
00:22:33,034 --> 00:22:36,620
He will literally tell me
to stop asking questions.
331
00:22:37,758 --> 00:22:39,241
Literally.
332
00:22:39,241 --> 00:22:40,896
I'm not shocked.
333
00:22:42,827 --> 00:22:45,931
We wanna make sure
that you are here for her.
334
00:22:45,931 --> 00:22:48,896
We wanna make sure
that you support her
335
00:22:48,896 --> 00:22:51,896
and have her back
because she deserves that.
336
00:23:07,655 --> 00:23:09,137
Don't mean to make
him mad or anything.
337
00:23:16,344 --> 00:23:17,551
Okay. Okay.
338
00:23:17,551 --> 00:23:20,551
He said for anything,
excuse me for anything.
339
00:23:20,551 --> 00:23:22,275
Okay? It's okay.
It's okay.
340
00:24:10,689 --> 00:24:12,724
I'm like a leopard in heat
341
00:24:12,724 --> 00:24:15,034
and I took hormones
before I came here
342
00:24:15,034 --> 00:24:19,379
and I am very, very horny
343
00:24:19,379 --> 00:24:21,000
and you are depriving me.
344
00:24:22,241 --> 00:24:24,551
If the sex is bad
then there's nothing else.
345
00:24:24,551 --> 00:24:25,724
Then you're just friends.
346
00:24:25,724 --> 00:24:27,000
Then you are just friends.
347
00:24:31,965 --> 00:24:32,965
Really?
348
00:24:33,896 --> 00:24:35,068
Really?
349
00:24:57,655 --> 00:24:59,000
Good morning, baby.
350
00:25:01,068 --> 00:25:02,689
I'm sleeping.
351
00:25:03,551 --> 00:25:05,000
Shh.
352
00:25:06,137 --> 00:25:07,586
What time is it?
353
00:25:08,310 --> 00:25:09,620
It's time to wake up.
354
00:25:10,586 --> 00:25:12,344
We have a lot to do today.
355
00:25:15,379 --> 00:25:19,827
Finally, we have some
physically connections
356
00:25:19,827 --> 00:25:23,275
- and, uh--
- What is this?
357
00:25:24,068 --> 00:25:25,413
Happy relation.
358
00:25:25,413 --> 00:25:27,068
It's like this. Not like this.
359
00:25:27,068 --> 00:25:28,000
- What--
- Okay. Okay...
360
00:25:33,517 --> 00:25:35,517
So how was last night?
361
00:25:37,551 --> 00:25:39,275
You know,
I love being with you,
362
00:25:39,275 --> 00:25:42,206
but it's like, I feel like
363
00:25:42,206 --> 00:25:44,068
when I'm finally
getting in the moment
364
00:25:44,068 --> 00:25:46,000
and it's just like it's over.
365
00:25:48,103 --> 00:25:53,448
I definitely enjoyed
making love to Justin.
366
00:25:53,448 --> 00:25:57,103
However,
there's still some element
367
00:25:57,103 --> 00:26:01,310
that I'm missing from him,
368
00:26:01,310 --> 00:26:03,137
and, you know.
369
00:26:03,137 --> 00:26:04,379
No.
370
00:26:04,379 --> 00:26:06,068
I do that.
371
00:26:06,068 --> 00:26:09,482
You don't do
the opposite for me.
372
00:26:09,482 --> 00:26:11,448
He's still being a taker
in bed.
373
00:26:22,448 --> 00:26:23,655
It was.
374
00:26:25,448 --> 00:26:28,689
It was good, but, you know,
I always want more.
375
00:26:31,000 --> 00:26:32,137
Yes.
376
00:26:32,137 --> 00:26:34,241
More riding your horse
377
00:26:34,241 --> 00:26:36,000
and you're like, "No, no, no.
378
00:26:36,000 --> 00:26:38,655
I need my rest
or I need energy."
379
00:26:38,655 --> 00:26:40,413
And for me,
380
00:26:40,413 --> 00:26:42,344
I am like a leopard in heat
381
00:26:42,344 --> 00:26:44,448
and I took hormones
before I came here
382
00:26:44,448 --> 00:26:48,896
and I am very, very horny.
383
00:26:48,896 --> 00:26:51,172
And you're depriving me.
384
00:26:53,724 --> 00:26:56,517
If the sex is bad,
the love making is bad
385
00:26:56,517 --> 00:26:57,965
then there's nothing else.
386
00:26:57,965 --> 00:26:59,448
Then you're just friends.
387
00:26:59,448 --> 00:27:01,241
- Then you're just friends.
- Okay...
388
00:27:14,379 --> 00:27:15,344
- Because you used...
- Because you--
389
00:27:15,344 --> 00:27:16,379
...to be sexually...
390
00:27:16,379 --> 00:27:18,034
Like, I don't know
this person anymore
391
00:27:18,034 --> 00:27:19,206
because you used
to sexually be--
392
00:27:19,206 --> 00:27:20,379
No. You choose... I mean...
393
00:27:25,413 --> 00:27:27,517
I pick all of it.
I... Sorry.
394
00:27:27,517 --> 00:27:29,482
I pick all the things connected.
395
00:27:29,482 --> 00:27:30,896
Maybe.
396
00:27:30,896 --> 00:27:32,758
I don't just pick a partner
for life
397
00:27:32,758 --> 00:27:35,379
because that
I could just have friends
398
00:27:35,379 --> 00:27:37,586
in many different countries.
399
00:27:37,586 --> 00:27:39,000
If it's not gonna be
a sex thing,
400
00:27:39,000 --> 00:27:40,241
then we could be friends, right?
401
00:27:42,206 --> 00:27:45,689
So what does that mean?
402
00:27:46,724 --> 00:27:47,758
You...
403
00:27:49,275 --> 00:27:50,344
Really?
404
00:27:51,275 --> 00:27:52,482
Really?
405
00:27:54,655 --> 00:27:55,724
Of course.
406
00:28:00,241 --> 00:28:02,931
Like, I really,
really came back
407
00:28:02,931 --> 00:28:04,724
'cause I really wanna make
this work with us,
408
00:28:04,724 --> 00:28:07,551
you know that and I hope
that you feel the same.
409
00:28:16,000 --> 00:28:18,793
Listen,
I've dealt with feeling alone
410
00:28:18,793 --> 00:28:22,448
and rejected
a large portion of my life,
411
00:28:22,448 --> 00:28:24,965
and I don't like
feeling that way.
412
00:28:24,965 --> 00:28:27,448
I like feeling secure.
413
00:28:28,103 --> 00:28:30,379
I like feeling sure.
414
00:28:30,379 --> 00:28:33,206
And for him to sound
like he's so unsure
415
00:28:33,206 --> 00:28:35,000
of being on the same page
as me,
416
00:28:35,827 --> 00:28:38,310
it makes me upset.
417
00:28:38,310 --> 00:28:40,103
Let's go enjoy
the day together.
418
00:28:41,241 --> 00:28:44,620
And you could sit there.
419
00:28:48,379 --> 00:28:49,586
I'm not.
420
00:28:54,241 --> 00:28:55,758
Too many kisses.
421
00:29:34,586 --> 00:29:37,793
Hi.
422
00:29:40,275 --> 00:29:41,655
Hello.
423
00:29:45,551 --> 00:29:47,379
She say
you look beautiful.
424
00:29:49,551 --> 00:29:50,862
Let's go this way.
425
00:29:50,862 --> 00:29:53,965
Hello...
426
00:29:57,000 --> 00:29:59,137
Oh, very nice.
427
00:30:04,137 --> 00:30:06,724
Here...
428
00:30:06,724 --> 00:30:08,000
- Thank you.
- You're welcome.
429
00:30:16,827 --> 00:30:19,172
He say you look pretty
and skinny.
430
00:30:19,172 --> 00:30:20,517
Oh, thank you.
431
00:30:20,517 --> 00:30:22,620
Thank you.
432
00:30:28,620 --> 00:30:31,344
What's the difference
between Searcy and Korea?
433
00:30:31,344 --> 00:30:32,758
So much bigger.
434
00:30:32,758 --> 00:30:34,517
So much more stuff.
435
00:31:28,379 --> 00:31:30,931
Nick's sister
and his niece and nephew
436
00:31:30,931 --> 00:31:32,655
are also at this dinner.
437
00:31:32,655 --> 00:31:34,551
It's very intimidating
438
00:31:34,551 --> 00:31:37,586
meeting his whole family
at the same time.
439
00:32:09,862 --> 00:32:11,931
Thank you. Thank you.
440
00:32:24,137 --> 00:32:28,103
She's asking
if you can speak
some Korean words.
441
00:32:33,586 --> 00:32:34,827
Uh...
442
00:32:52,620 --> 00:32:55,724
Where are we planning
on staying?
443
00:33:21,689 --> 00:33:25,689
She's saying
she is gonna be sad
444
00:33:25,689 --> 00:33:27,068
now that
I'm getting married to you
445
00:33:27,068 --> 00:33:28,758
and going to US.
446
00:33:28,758 --> 00:33:32,689
She feels like
I'm going for good,
you know.
447
00:33:37,413 --> 00:33:40,344
It's quite difficult
for me to hear her say that.
448
00:33:41,689 --> 00:33:43,206
A choice has to be made
449
00:33:43,206 --> 00:33:46,655
and if this is the choice
we're gonna make,
450
00:33:46,655 --> 00:33:49,206
obviously, it's gonna hurt
his family.
451
00:33:57,758 --> 00:33:59,379
Just eat some food.
452
00:34:38,724 --> 00:34:40,655
Hi.
453
00:34:54,137 --> 00:34:59,379
How will you contribute
and be a productive American?
454
00:34:59,379 --> 00:35:00,620
They are attacking me.
455
00:35:00,620 --> 00:35:03,551
Right now,
this is a personal attack.
456
00:35:11,137 --> 00:35:12,241
Hi.
457
00:35:13,620 --> 00:35:15,034
- How are you?
- What's going on?
458
00:35:15,034 --> 00:35:17,103
How are you, guys? Hey.
459
00:35:23,448 --> 00:35:24,896
- Nice to meet you.
- Nice to
meet you too.
460
00:35:24,896 --> 00:35:26,000
Hey.
461
00:35:28,413 --> 00:35:29,931
When I first arrive,
462
00:35:29,931 --> 00:35:31,793
the first impression
that I'm getting is that
463
00:35:31,793 --> 00:35:33,758
Gino's family seems happy
to meet me.
464
00:35:33,758 --> 00:35:37,310
They're all smiley,
very joyful.
465
00:35:37,310 --> 00:35:40,103
They are saying nice things.
466
00:35:40,103 --> 00:35:41,344
Tony.
467
00:35:47,034 --> 00:35:50,310
...because the way
I picture it, is like...
468
00:36:02,068 --> 00:36:04,965
A toast to Gino and Jasmine.
469
00:36:04,965 --> 00:36:06,862
May they have love
in their hearts
470
00:36:06,862 --> 00:36:08,103
and peace in their mind.
471
00:36:08,103 --> 00:36:09,586
But what does
Uncle Marco say?
472
00:36:11,689 --> 00:36:12,931
It's to 100 years.
473
00:36:14,448 --> 00:36:16,000
I love it.
474
00:36:17,206 --> 00:36:18,689
Thank you.
475
00:36:18,689 --> 00:36:20,310
If we continue like this, guys...
476
00:36:22,620 --> 00:36:23,862
If we continue like this,
477
00:36:23,862 --> 00:36:25,655
you're gonna need
a new glass of wine.
478
00:36:27,551 --> 00:36:30,206
Let's play some bocce ball.
You ready?
479
00:36:30,206 --> 00:36:32,172
- Whoo!
- Yeah.
480
00:36:36,310 --> 00:36:37,793
So we have this ball.
481
00:36:37,793 --> 00:36:39,551
- This is the pallino.
- Okay.
482
00:36:39,551 --> 00:36:40,724
- Pallino? How would I call it?
- Pallina.
483
00:36:40,724 --> 00:36:42,620
- Pallina.
- Pallina. So you take this,
484
00:36:42,620 --> 00:36:44,724
the first person
will roll this out
485
00:36:44,724 --> 00:36:47,620
and then you follow it up
with one of the bigger ones.
486
00:36:47,620 --> 00:36:50,793
My family just loves
bocce ball
487
00:36:50,793 --> 00:36:52,379
and at our family reunions,
488
00:36:52,379 --> 00:36:54,482
we actually have a
bocce ball tournament.
489
00:36:54,482 --> 00:36:58,275
It's a fun challenging
and exciting game.
490
00:36:58,275 --> 00:36:59,931
There you go. Nice shot.
491
00:36:59,931 --> 00:37:01,379
- I know.
- That's right on it.
492
00:37:02,689 --> 00:37:04,551
Oh.
493
00:37:04,551 --> 00:37:08,275
I am so shocked Jasmine walks
on the bocce ball court
494
00:37:08,275 --> 00:37:09,827
and she's throwing
like a champ.
495
00:37:09,827 --> 00:37:12,344
I mean, she's killing it.
496
00:37:12,344 --> 00:37:14,724
How can she be so good,
so fast like that?
497
00:37:14,724 --> 00:37:15,931
I love it.
498
00:37:15,931 --> 00:37:18,448
I mean, she's a true Italiano.
499
00:37:18,448 --> 00:37:20,379
- That's a good shot.
- What?
500
00:37:20,379 --> 00:37:21,655
I don't suck at it.
501
00:37:21,655 --> 00:37:23,206
- I'm good. Oh.
- Oh, sorry.
502
00:37:25,655 --> 00:37:27,000
You guys
wanna grab a drink?
503
00:37:28,448 --> 00:37:30,758
We've never really
met Jasmine.
504
00:37:30,758 --> 00:37:33,241
We've only spoken to her
just a little bit.
505
00:37:33,241 --> 00:37:36,172
In ways, they seem
a little bit mixed matched.
506
00:37:36,172 --> 00:37:37,620
Gino's not
the best looking guy.
507
00:37:37,620 --> 00:37:39,620
He doesn't have
the most money.
508
00:37:39,620 --> 00:37:42,275
We're just trying to figure
out what's her real intent.
509
00:37:42,275 --> 00:37:44,034
Yeah. And when we look
on social media,
510
00:37:44,034 --> 00:37:46,827
we saw a lot
of provocative type things.
511
00:37:46,827 --> 00:37:48,551
I guess we're
a little bit concerned
512
00:37:48,551 --> 00:37:50,517
about why she's doing that.
513
00:37:50,517 --> 00:37:53,172
Is she trying to get other
sugar daddies, so to speak?
514
00:37:53,172 --> 00:37:54,965
So, we're trying
to get some answers.
515
00:37:58,413 --> 00:38:00,034
I'm glad I get to see you.
516
00:38:00,034 --> 00:38:01,655
Yeah.
517
00:38:01,655 --> 00:38:03,689
How's it going?
518
00:38:03,689 --> 00:38:07,310
Michelle, I'll be honest,
it is difficult.
519
00:38:07,310 --> 00:38:08,310
They left everything.
520
00:38:08,310 --> 00:38:10,896
I even gave my car
to my sister.
521
00:38:10,896 --> 00:38:11,965
I mean...
522
00:38:11,965 --> 00:38:13,896
And now, I depend on Gino
523
00:38:13,896 --> 00:38:15,482
driving me everywhere.
524
00:38:16,620 --> 00:38:18,793
I don't have a credit card.
525
00:38:18,793 --> 00:38:20,931
I don't have a bank card.
I don't have anything.
526
00:38:20,931 --> 00:38:24,000
I depend on him
like 100% and...
527
00:38:24,000 --> 00:38:26,413
I just think that
you just need to be here
528
00:38:26,413 --> 00:38:29,724
for a little bit, see Gino,
become more comfortable.
529
00:38:29,724 --> 00:38:31,310
Right now,
I'm sure it's scary.
530
00:38:31,310 --> 00:38:32,724
- Yeah, it is.
- You know,
531
00:38:32,724 --> 00:38:33,827
and you just left your home,
532
00:38:33,827 --> 00:38:35,482
- you left your family.
- Everything.
533
00:38:35,482 --> 00:38:38,551
If there are any other issues,
you can always call me,
534
00:38:38,551 --> 00:38:41,103
talk to me, you know.
535
00:38:41,103 --> 00:38:42,758
I appreciate you,
taking the time.
536
00:38:42,758 --> 00:38:46,275
I... Yeah.
Of course, anytime, okay?
537
00:38:49,000 --> 00:38:50,896
I guess I'm gonna join
the party then.
538
00:38:50,896 --> 00:38:52,344
- Hey, Gino,
I got you a beer.
- Hey.
539
00:38:52,344 --> 00:38:53,931
- Hey, what's going on?
- What's up?
540
00:38:53,931 --> 00:38:55,275
- We got you a beer.
- I got you a beer.
541
00:38:55,275 --> 00:38:57,517
- Brothers, how are you doing?
- Doing well. Doing well.
542
00:38:57,517 --> 00:38:58,620
We really haven't
had a chance
543
00:38:58,620 --> 00:39:00,172
to have a guy-to-guy
talk tonight, so...
544
00:39:00,172 --> 00:39:02,344
We were just kind
of talking about that.
545
00:39:02,344 --> 00:39:03,827
But catch you at the bar.
546
00:39:03,827 --> 00:39:05,379
Like how do you feel
about it so far
547
00:39:05,379 --> 00:39:07,413
for the time
that she's been here?
548
00:39:07,413 --> 00:39:10,034
Well, I'm not gonna lie,
it hasn't been roses,
549
00:39:10,034 --> 00:39:11,896
you know,
the first few days.
550
00:39:11,896 --> 00:39:13,344
What happened?
551
00:39:14,413 --> 00:39:15,689
Well, I mean, like,
552
00:39:17,103 --> 00:39:19,896
I gave Jasmine like a...
553
00:39:19,896 --> 00:39:23,034
Like a quite a bit
of sum of money, right?
554
00:39:23,034 --> 00:39:25,068
To buy a wedding dress
555
00:39:25,068 --> 00:39:28,517
and she ended up
spending the money
I gave her
556
00:39:28,517 --> 00:39:31,655
for the wedding dress
on like a cosmetic surgery.
557
00:39:32,379 --> 00:39:34,241
I'm like, "Whoa.
558
00:39:34,241 --> 00:39:37,310
I mean, I gave you that money
for the wedding dress."
559
00:39:37,310 --> 00:39:39,551
Right. So how much money
are we talking about, Gino?
560
00:39:40,586 --> 00:39:42,206
Like $4,000.
561
00:39:48,551 --> 00:39:53,034
Gino, that's, you know...
that's big red flag.
562
00:39:53,034 --> 00:39:54,310
I think she's
a great person,
563
00:39:54,310 --> 00:39:55,655
but I think you need
to get her, like...
564
00:39:55,655 --> 00:39:58,413
And I don't mean,
like, in line,
565
00:39:58,413 --> 00:40:00,482
you know,
but she needs to, like...
566
00:40:00,482 --> 00:40:03,482
She can't do that
kind of stuff.
567
00:40:05,344 --> 00:40:07,068
The biggest worry
we have is that
568
00:40:07,068 --> 00:40:10,068
she's just coming here
to use Gino.
569
00:40:10,068 --> 00:40:11,206
Thank you, guys.
570
00:40:11,206 --> 00:40:12,896
I'm so happy
you showed up today.
571
00:40:12,896 --> 00:40:14,413
- Yeah.
- It makes me happy.
572
00:40:14,413 --> 00:40:16,655
So that, kind of,
gave us more red flags
573
00:40:16,655 --> 00:40:17,793
to, kind of, think about,
574
00:40:17,793 --> 00:40:19,551
like, she's not grateful
for the money she was given.
575
00:40:19,551 --> 00:40:20,689
She's gonna spend it
on something else
576
00:40:20,689 --> 00:40:22,206
and hope
that she gets more.
577
00:40:22,931 --> 00:40:24,241
All right.
578
00:40:24,241 --> 00:40:26,310
Good game
of bocce ball, you guys.
579
00:40:26,310 --> 00:40:27,517
- Yeah.
- That was a good game.
580
00:40:27,517 --> 00:40:29,000
Yeah.
581
00:40:29,000 --> 00:40:30,413
Cheers, baby.
582
00:40:30,413 --> 00:40:32,206
What did you think, Jasmine?
You like it?
583
00:40:32,206 --> 00:40:33,551
- I enjoy it.
- Yeah?
584
00:40:33,551 --> 00:40:34,827
- You were doing good.
- Right.
585
00:40:34,827 --> 00:40:36,344
- I didn't know.
- Oh, yeah.
586
00:40:36,344 --> 00:40:37,275
Yeah.
587
00:40:38,896 --> 00:40:40,862
- All right.
- It was a good time.
588
00:40:40,862 --> 00:40:42,379
So, you guys,
what are you guys thinking
589
00:40:42,379 --> 00:40:43,793
about for, like,
the wedding venue
590
00:40:43,793 --> 00:40:45,000
or... and, like, when?
591
00:40:46,241 --> 00:40:48,586
To be honest, I...
592
00:40:48,586 --> 00:40:53,310
I'm not quite sure about
having, like, a celebration.
593
00:40:54,275 --> 00:40:55,793
For our wedding,
594
00:40:55,793 --> 00:40:57,137
I would rather prefer
595
00:40:57,137 --> 00:41:00,758
just the wedding
to be something more private,
596
00:41:00,758 --> 00:41:05,965
you know, like, maybe
just Gino and I, and my dog.
597
00:41:05,965 --> 00:41:07,689
My mother
is not gonna be there,
598
00:41:07,689 --> 00:41:09,206
not my sisters.
599
00:41:10,103 --> 00:41:11,758
And, not having them,
600
00:41:11,758 --> 00:41:14,068
just breaks my heart.
601
00:41:18,068 --> 00:41:19,655
Kind of makes me
feel upset,
602
00:41:19,655 --> 00:41:22,551
'cause, like, she doesn't
wanna celebrate with us.
603
00:41:22,551 --> 00:41:24,482
It's both of their weddings.
604
00:41:24,482 --> 00:41:27,620
So I think that Gino needs
to chime in a little bit more.
605
00:41:27,620 --> 00:41:29,068
And if that's
any indication
606
00:41:29,068 --> 00:41:30,931
as to what's to come,
607
00:41:30,931 --> 00:41:32,965
there still
are some concerns.
608
00:41:33,862 --> 00:41:36,379
So, I mean,
it's probably not just me,
609
00:41:36,379 --> 00:41:38,241
but probably a lot of people
in the family
610
00:41:38,241 --> 00:41:39,758
have big concerns.
611
00:41:39,758 --> 00:41:42,137
Just, like,
how grateful you are
612
00:41:42,137 --> 00:41:44,241
for everything Gino's
really gonna bring to you?
613
00:41:45,448 --> 00:41:47,241
I understand
your perspective,
614
00:41:47,241 --> 00:41:49,068
like, me coming
to the United States,
615
00:41:49,068 --> 00:41:50,862
I should be grateful
for that.
616
00:41:50,862 --> 00:41:52,241
But the way I see it,
617
00:41:52,241 --> 00:41:54,206
is that Gino
should be grateful
618
00:41:54,206 --> 00:41:56,896
that I came
to the United States,
619
00:41:56,896 --> 00:41:59,586
and I left everything
I have ever loved,
620
00:41:59,586 --> 00:42:02,827
my family, my kids,
621
00:42:02,827 --> 00:42:05,482
- amazing weather, you know?
- Yeah.
622
00:42:05,482 --> 00:42:06,793
You sacrificed a lot and
623
00:42:06,793 --> 00:42:08,103
- given up--
- I sacrificed.
624
00:42:08,103 --> 00:42:09,310
Leaving your family
and every...
625
00:42:09,310 --> 00:42:12,103
Your whole life in Panama
to come here.
626
00:42:14,413 --> 00:42:15,862
I have a question.
627
00:42:16,724 --> 00:42:19,000
How will you contribute
628
00:42:19,000 --> 00:42:21,344
and be a productive American?
629
00:42:23,241 --> 00:42:24,827
I'm an educated woman.
630
00:42:24,827 --> 00:42:26,482
I speak two languages.
631
00:42:26,482 --> 00:42:29,517
I have worked
since I am 16 years old.
632
00:42:29,517 --> 00:42:31,206
I have always worked.
633
00:42:31,206 --> 00:42:34,206
And, right now, legally,
634
00:42:34,206 --> 00:42:37,655
with this kind of visa,
I am not allowed to work.
635
00:42:38,896 --> 00:42:40,379
They are attacking me.
636
00:42:40,379 --> 00:42:42,655
Right now,
this is a personal attack.
637
00:42:43,379 --> 00:42:45,206
It doesn't matter what I do.
638
00:42:45,206 --> 00:42:47,862
I will never be good enough
for Gino's family.
639
00:42:47,862 --> 00:42:52,206
And it is directly to the fact
that I'm not American,
640
00:42:52,206 --> 00:42:54,586
and they already put a label
on me because of it.
641
00:42:57,206 --> 00:42:59,344
I'm not after
Gino's money.
642
00:43:01,724 --> 00:43:05,000
So, I don't know why you have
those concerns about me.
643
00:43:05,000 --> 00:43:06,862
I think it was you, Dana, like,
644
00:43:06,862 --> 00:43:09,827
suggested to Gino,
like, a prenup.
645
00:43:09,827 --> 00:43:11,379
You know?
646
00:43:11,379 --> 00:43:13,379
I took it as an offense.
647
00:43:13,379 --> 00:43:16,517
When I got married to Lauri,
I signed one.
648
00:43:16,517 --> 00:43:18,655
Her dad wanted me
to sign a prenup.
649
00:43:18,655 --> 00:43:22,862
Okay. So,
Tony, why...
650
00:43:22,862 --> 00:43:25,206
why would you think
that Gino
651
00:43:25,206 --> 00:43:26,724
will need a prenup
if he marry?
652
00:43:26,724 --> 00:43:28,068
I think
it would just be, like,
653
00:43:28,068 --> 00:43:29,448
a security blanket for him.
654
00:43:29,448 --> 00:43:31,034
I know he is not rich,
655
00:43:31,034 --> 00:43:32,517
but protect
what he worked so hard for.
656
00:43:32,517 --> 00:43:34,448
Yeah, 'cause he's worked
so hard his whole life.
657
00:43:34,448 --> 00:43:36,448
And then,
if you had bad intentions,
658
00:43:36,448 --> 00:43:38,000
you come in
and you take everything
659
00:43:38,000 --> 00:43:40,379
he's worked
his whole life for.
660
00:43:44,379 --> 00:43:46,620
I'm trying my best
with Gino's family right now.
661
00:43:46,620 --> 00:43:48,689
But this is what
I mean when I say that
662
00:43:48,689 --> 00:43:51,413
they don't like me,
no matter what I do.
663
00:43:51,413 --> 00:43:53,827
It's almost
like nothing about me
664
00:43:53,827 --> 00:43:55,689
is good enough for them.
665
00:43:55,689 --> 00:43:58,724
I don't know
what it's gonna take from me
666
00:43:58,724 --> 00:44:02,620
to convince them
that I belong to their family.
667
00:44:38,310 --> 00:44:40,379
I'm so excited
to meet your friends.
668
00:44:40,379 --> 00:44:42,413
I'm nervous
if they're gonna dissect me
669
00:44:42,413 --> 00:44:45,241
with their eyes
and speak Russian.
670
00:44:47,586 --> 00:44:49,344
Now, that Justin
is introducing me
671
00:44:49,344 --> 00:44:51,620
to some of his friends,
I definitely see
672
00:44:51,620 --> 00:44:53,862
that he's moving
this relationship
673
00:44:53,862 --> 00:44:55,758
into the right direction
with me,
674
00:44:55,758 --> 00:44:59,241
by his side,
and claiming me as his woman.
675
00:44:59,241 --> 00:45:02,448
And, I feel
really good about that.
676
00:45:06,517 --> 00:45:09,137
But I'm still nervous
about his friends
677
00:45:09,137 --> 00:45:11,000
accepting me
and not judging me.
678
00:45:12,620 --> 00:45:14,275
Let's go.
It's here.
679
00:45:18,620 --> 00:45:20,172
Hi.
680
00:45:23,965 --> 00:45:25,758
Hi, Sasha.
681
00:45:25,758 --> 00:45:29,620
- Heard so much about you.
- Aw. So cute.
682
00:45:29,620 --> 00:45:31,965
This is Roksy.
683
00:45:31,965 --> 00:45:33,724
Hi. I love that name.
684
00:45:33,724 --> 00:45:35,137
- Roksy.
- Yeah.
685
00:45:35,137 --> 00:45:36,517
It's like a sexy name.
686
00:45:36,517 --> 00:45:38,586
- This is Sergei.
- Hi, Sergei.
687
00:45:38,586 --> 00:45:40,448
- Nice to meet you.
- How are you?
688
00:45:40,448 --> 00:45:41,655
- Finally.
- I've seen you
689
00:45:41,655 --> 00:45:43,000
- before on videos.
- And Ivan.
690
00:45:43,000 --> 00:45:44,655
- Yeah.
- Ivan.
691
00:45:44,655 --> 00:45:47,413
Look at Ivan.
692
00:45:47,413 --> 00:45:48,517
How are you?
693
00:45:48,517 --> 00:45:49,655
Nice to meet you.
I'm quite good.
694
00:46:20,413 --> 00:46:21,448
Uh,
how do you say cheer?
695
00:46:21,448 --> 00:46:22,482
Cheers is, um...
696
00:46:26,724 --> 00:46:28,482
All right.
697
00:46:32,827 --> 00:46:35,655
Oh, my goodness, 2006.
Yeah, long time ago.
698
00:46:35,655 --> 00:46:37,379
- Long time ago.
- Fifteen years.
699
00:46:37,379 --> 00:46:38,344
- We had a--
- It's changed a lot, yeah?
700
00:46:38,344 --> 00:46:39,862
Yeah.
Oh, my goodness.
701
00:46:39,862 --> 00:46:41,655
In so many ways.
702
00:46:41,655 --> 00:46:43,482
Me too.
703
00:46:43,482 --> 00:46:45,586
I sound different.
I look different.
704
00:46:45,586 --> 00:46:47,965
- My body's different.
- You're cool.
705
00:46:47,965 --> 00:46:49,586
So--
706
00:46:49,586 --> 00:46:51,965
And we're back together.
707
00:46:53,655 --> 00:46:55,137
But this time,
under different circumstances.
708
00:46:55,137 --> 00:46:57,172
So now, he knows the truth.
709
00:47:00,068 --> 00:47:02,758
- Mmm-hmm.
- So now, he knows the truth.
710
00:47:03,965 --> 00:47:08,724
I didn't know
Nikki is not the real woman.
711
00:47:08,724 --> 00:47:10,379
- And...
- What do you mean?
712
00:47:10,379 --> 00:47:14,551
...some special...
I mean, like, trans.
713
00:47:20,000 --> 00:47:23,482
No. When I saw her first time,
for me,
714
00:47:23,482 --> 00:47:26,551
this was like
some exotic woman.
715
00:47:26,551 --> 00:47:30,482
Yeah.
716
00:47:30,482 --> 00:47:33,586
No.
717
00:47:33,586 --> 00:47:34,793
- When I tried to--
- I felt so bad.
718
00:47:34,793 --> 00:47:35,965
Like, I felt
like, "You know what?
719
00:47:35,965 --> 00:47:37,586
I should have been honest."
720
00:47:37,586 --> 00:47:42,206
But, when I changed my life,
my family did not accept me.
721
00:47:42,206 --> 00:47:43,896
They cut me off
for two years.
722
00:47:45,310 --> 00:47:47,275
So it was really,
really hard, you know?
723
00:47:47,275 --> 00:47:50,896
Um, I got to a place
724
00:47:50,896 --> 00:47:53,724
where I had to really
struggle to survive.
725
00:47:53,724 --> 00:47:55,931
- I was in the streets.
- What?
726
00:47:55,931 --> 00:47:57,379
I was homeless.
727
00:47:59,034 --> 00:48:01,758
I was hooked on drugs.
I had to prostitute myself.
728
00:48:07,896 --> 00:48:10,137
Um, sometimes I had
no place to go at night
729
00:48:10,137 --> 00:48:12,275
or money or food
to eat on the next day.
730
00:48:12,275 --> 00:48:14,379
And I had to be
with someone sexually
731
00:48:14,379 --> 00:48:15,793
to even get that food
732
00:48:15,793 --> 00:48:17,551
or to even get a place
to sleep.
733
00:48:20,689 --> 00:48:22,724
I had to do a lot of things
that I wasn't happy with.
734
00:48:24,206 --> 00:48:25,965
Yeah.
735
00:48:57,689 --> 00:49:01,103
So, for me, I didn't want
to tell him my past,
736
00:49:01,103 --> 00:49:02,724
because I felt
like all my life
737
00:49:02,724 --> 00:49:05,586
I've been judged
just from saying I'm trans.
738
00:49:05,586 --> 00:49:06,931
Nobody wants to know anything.
739
00:49:06,931 --> 00:49:08,862
Right.
740
00:49:08,862 --> 00:49:10,206
...from the small country--
741
00:49:10,206 --> 00:49:11,206
That accepts
me for me.
742
00:49:11,206 --> 00:49:12,344
That accepts me for me.
743
00:49:12,344 --> 00:49:14,172
It wasn't easy
in the beginning.
744
00:49:14,172 --> 00:49:17,379
I have done a lot
of things I am not proud of.
745
00:49:17,379 --> 00:49:18,862
It's a hard life.
746
00:49:18,862 --> 00:49:22,620
And I wanted them
to understand that part of me,
747
00:49:22,620 --> 00:49:25,206
to get to know me better,
you know?
748
00:49:25,206 --> 00:49:26,689
I don't want them
to judge me.
749
00:49:26,689 --> 00:49:28,724
I don't want them
to judge Justin.
750
00:49:28,724 --> 00:49:30,413
But I want them
to understand the reasons
751
00:49:30,413 --> 00:49:32,862
why Justin chose me.
752
00:49:32,862 --> 00:49:36,275
Many times.
753
00:49:52,724 --> 00:49:53,586
Yeah.
754
00:49:55,206 --> 00:49:57,862
It's definitely heartwarming
to see Justin's friends
755
00:49:57,862 --> 00:50:00,344
being so accepting
and so welcoming
756
00:50:00,344 --> 00:50:02,206
to me being in Moldova.
757
00:50:02,206 --> 00:50:06,000
I think
that that is not the norm.
758
00:50:06,000 --> 00:50:08,517
I know Justin
has had some pushback
759
00:50:08,517 --> 00:50:12,241
from a lot of "friends" of his
and they stopped
760
00:50:12,241 --> 00:50:14,379
talking to him,
even family members.
761
00:50:14,379 --> 00:50:19,206
But I also have probing
questions about how Justin is
762
00:50:19,206 --> 00:50:21,689
and why he is
the way he is with me.
763
00:50:21,689 --> 00:50:24,137
So tonight,
I think it gives me
764
00:50:24,137 --> 00:50:27,448
the perfect opportunity to do
a little bit of investigating
765
00:50:27,448 --> 00:50:32,586
and be Inspector Gidget
because I wanna see if Justin
766
00:50:32,586 --> 00:50:34,931
and I are on the same page
or if we're, like,
767
00:50:34,931 --> 00:50:37,758
really far off,
like, in another book.
768
00:50:40,344 --> 00:50:43,413
I'm gonna show her the house,
what little house there is.
769
00:50:43,413 --> 00:50:45,413
Okay.
770
00:50:51,137 --> 00:50:52,482
My mom stays in here.
771
00:51:05,689 --> 00:51:06,758
What happened?
772
00:51:06,758 --> 00:51:08,068
I found, like,
773
00:51:08,068 --> 00:51:11,241
the most disgusting videos
in this phone.
774
00:52:00,655 --> 00:52:01,517
Hi.
775
00:52:05,000 --> 00:52:07,000
Yeah. Um, well, no.
776
00:52:08,517 --> 00:52:10,793
What happened?
777
00:52:10,793 --> 00:52:14,000
I mean, you know how obviously
I sent you a text yesterday.
778
00:52:18,137 --> 00:52:19,965
So basically,
you know how my dreams are,
779
00:52:19,965 --> 00:52:21,931
like, really intuitive, right?
780
00:52:21,931 --> 00:52:23,517
It always happens,
what I dream about.
781
00:52:23,517 --> 00:52:26,379
Um, I had that dream
and basically it told me
782
00:52:26,379 --> 00:52:27,793
that Rob had...
783
00:52:27,793 --> 00:52:29,827
You remember when he online
cheated on me before.
784
00:52:29,827 --> 00:52:31,689
He basically said
that he did it again.
785
00:52:31,689 --> 00:52:34,275
So I woke up
the next day and I, like,
786
00:52:34,275 --> 00:52:35,758
kind of,
went with that feeling,
787
00:52:35,758 --> 00:52:38,827
and I checked his phone,
and literally, I found,
788
00:52:38,827 --> 00:52:44,000
like, the most disgusting
videos in this phone.
789
00:52:44,000 --> 00:52:46,379
The last message
was 14 weeks ago.
790
00:53:03,172 --> 00:53:04,655
I told him,
"If this ever happens again,
791
00:53:04,655 --> 00:53:08,551
I'm leaving." So he's,
kind of, risked me for what?
792
00:53:08,551 --> 00:53:09,896
For nothing.
793
00:53:13,758 --> 00:53:15,000
So I just told him,
like, "I know."
794
00:53:15,000 --> 00:53:16,689
And he was like,
"What do you know?"
795
00:53:16,689 --> 00:53:19,241
And then I was,
like, explaining what I saw,
796
00:53:19,241 --> 00:53:21,689
and then he just started
crying, all this stuff.
797
00:53:25,931 --> 00:53:27,137
So I was, like, I just left.
798
00:53:27,137 --> 00:53:28,482
Um, and I told him
that, like,
799
00:53:28,482 --> 00:53:29,965
if he could just
leave me alone
800
00:53:29,965 --> 00:53:31,172
'cause obviously he wants
to talk to me.
801
00:53:31,172 --> 00:53:32,206
He didn't want me to leave.
802
00:53:32,206 --> 00:53:33,379
But I was,
like, "I need to leave.
803
00:53:33,379 --> 00:53:34,793
I already booked my place
where I'm staying.
804
00:53:34,793 --> 00:53:36,448
Like, I'm going."
805
00:53:36,448 --> 00:53:37,310
Are you...
806
00:53:41,034 --> 00:53:42,413
Yeah, I know.
That's the thing.
807
00:53:42,413 --> 00:53:45,241
That's why it's so annoying
because obviously
808
00:53:45,241 --> 00:53:47,068
in a real life situation
I would just leave.
809
00:53:47,068 --> 00:53:49,241
But I don't really know
what to do now.
810
00:53:50,931 --> 00:53:52,586
No. So I'm not
in his house anymore.
811
00:53:52,586 --> 00:53:54,172
I'm in, like,
some house in LA
812
00:53:54,172 --> 00:53:55,206
'cause obviously I'm not
gonna stay with him.
813
00:53:55,206 --> 00:53:56,896
How am I supposed
to sleep with him?
814
00:53:56,896 --> 00:53:58,344
And I'm just
taking some time
815
00:53:58,344 --> 00:53:59,310
'cause obviously
I don't know what to do.
816
00:53:59,310 --> 00:54:00,551
Like, I'm so stressed.
817
00:54:00,551 --> 00:54:02,482
I'm just... I don't have
anyone to talk to.
818
00:54:02,482 --> 00:54:04,137
I'm just, like...
819
00:54:04,137 --> 00:54:06,965
I don't really know
what I'm supposed to do.
820
00:54:17,275 --> 00:54:20,413
He can't do the bare minimum,
which is, like, be loyal.
821
00:54:30,620 --> 00:54:31,724
- It is disgusting.
- That's disgusting.
822
00:54:48,310 --> 00:54:51,448
You can't unlove someone
that quickly.
823
00:54:51,448 --> 00:54:53,655
I will hear his side,
but at the same time
824
00:54:53,655 --> 00:54:56,379
I've seen the videos now.
I've seen the messages.
825
00:54:56,379 --> 00:54:59,827
I can't unsee that.
And I don't know.
826
00:54:59,827 --> 00:55:02,034
Even if I was to give him
a chance, 'cause obviously,
827
00:55:02,034 --> 00:55:04,034
I have this 90 day thing
and I'm supposed to marry him,
828
00:55:04,034 --> 00:55:05,655
you can't have
a relationship without trust.
829
00:55:22,344 --> 00:55:23,551
It's like
I don't know what to do.
830
00:55:23,551 --> 00:55:25,172
Should I be strong
and leave?
831
00:55:25,172 --> 00:55:27,275
Or, you know,
I love him,
and just be true
832
00:55:27,275 --> 00:55:28,793
to the fact
that I love him.
833
00:55:28,793 --> 00:55:31,655
So I'm just very conflicted
in my mind right now.
834
00:55:33,724 --> 00:55:36,827
The best scenario is,
we can move past this
835
00:55:36,827 --> 00:55:38,448
and I can be with Rob,
836
00:55:38,448 --> 00:55:39,655
and we can be
this great couple
837
00:55:39,655 --> 00:55:41,620
that we've been trying
so hard to be.
838
00:55:41,620 --> 00:55:43,931
And then the other part
of my brain is, like,
839
00:55:43,931 --> 00:55:45,482
and then he's just
gonna do it again,
840
00:55:45,482 --> 00:55:46,517
and you're gonna
be hurt again,
841
00:55:46,517 --> 00:55:47,620
and you should have left.
842
00:55:48,862 --> 00:55:51,275
So I need to
hear his side to say,
843
00:55:51,275 --> 00:55:53,000
"Can I get
through this with Rob?"
844
00:56:25,413 --> 00:56:26,620
♪ Hey, hey ♪
845
00:56:28,310 --> 00:56:29,413
♪ Oh, oh ♪
846
00:56:31,758 --> 00:56:32,931
♪ Hey, hey ♪
847
00:56:45,931 --> 00:56:50,034
Yeah.
848
00:57:08,172 --> 00:57:12,448
It's honestly really
strange having Anali here.
849
00:57:12,448 --> 00:57:15,793
I've had company, like,
very, very, very few times,
850
00:57:15,793 --> 00:57:19,448
and now someone new is coming
to live here all the time.
851
00:57:19,448 --> 00:57:23,172
It's gonna be a complete
change and shock for me.
852
00:57:27,310 --> 00:57:30,482
I worry
that Anali and my mom
won't always get along
853
00:57:30,482 --> 00:57:33,448
because Anali
is a very organized person.
854
00:57:33,448 --> 00:57:36,482
She always has everything
in order and that's gonna be,
855
00:57:36,482 --> 00:57:40,000
like, a sharp contrast
to how the house is.
856
00:57:41,827 --> 00:57:44,586
But if Anali and my mom
don't get along
857
00:57:44,586 --> 00:57:46,137
or there's some type
of awkwardness,
858
00:57:46,137 --> 00:57:47,965
I honestly have no idea
what I'm gonna do
859
00:57:47,965 --> 00:57:50,827
because I'm not
just going to evict my mom.
860
00:57:50,827 --> 00:57:52,103
We're home.
861
00:57:56,000 --> 00:57:57,206
Yeah.
862
00:57:57,206 --> 00:57:58,793
Hi.
863
00:58:04,172 --> 00:58:05,827
So he's Cocoa Butter.
864
00:58:05,827 --> 00:58:07,551
Hi, Cocoa.
865
00:58:07,551 --> 00:58:10,517
Cocoa Butter.
Come on, Cocoa Butter.
866
00:58:10,517 --> 00:58:12,034
- Hi, Anali.
- Hi, Violet.
867
00:58:12,034 --> 00:58:15,517
Nice to meet you.
868
00:58:19,689 --> 00:58:21,689
Oh, that's cute.
869
00:58:21,689 --> 00:58:23,517
- Yeah.
- Aw.
870
00:58:30,793 --> 00:58:33,068
You're more beautiful
in person.
871
00:58:33,068 --> 00:58:34,448
Aw, thank you.
872
00:58:34,448 --> 00:58:35,827
Yes.
873
00:58:37,482 --> 00:58:39,034
- All right.
- So pretty.
874
00:58:39,034 --> 00:58:43,034
Yeah. [in Spanish,
then English] Water?
875
00:58:43,034 --> 00:58:45,034
Water.
876
00:58:45,034 --> 00:58:47,413
I'm seeing Clayton's face.
877
00:58:47,413 --> 00:58:49,310
I can tell
that he's really happy.
878
00:58:49,310 --> 00:58:50,965
And he is just like...
879
00:58:50,965 --> 00:58:54,689
Got that look on him
that I haven't seen...
880
00:58:54,689 --> 00:58:56,931
I don't think
I've ever seen it before.
881
00:58:58,758 --> 00:59:01,275
I'm gonna show her the house.
What little house there is.
882
00:59:01,275 --> 00:59:02,551
- Okay.
- But... Yeah.
883
00:59:04,551 --> 00:59:05,758
You can start with my
little cubby hole.
884
00:59:05,758 --> 00:59:07,931
- Yeah.
- Oh, okay.
885
00:59:15,586 --> 00:59:17,586
- Aw.
- His name, Baby Pig.
886
00:59:17,586 --> 00:59:19,413
- His name is Baby Pig.
- Yeah. Baby Pig.
887
00:59:19,413 --> 00:59:21,758
Who is your baby?
888
00:59:21,758 --> 00:59:23,482
He's scratching me.
889
00:59:56,103 --> 00:59:58,517
And my mom
stays in here.
890
01:00:01,862 --> 01:00:05,034
Yeah.
891
01:00:09,103 --> 01:00:11,000
Oh.
892
01:00:11,000 --> 01:00:13,620
Yeah, in the corner.
893
01:00:13,620 --> 01:00:15,241
Yeah.
894
01:00:46,172 --> 01:00:47,310
- Yeah.
- Yeah.
895
01:00:49,551 --> 01:00:51,689
Hmm, okay.
896
01:00:51,689 --> 01:00:53,275
I'm just kidding.
897
01:01:17,448 --> 01:01:18,931
Mmm-hmm.
898
01:01:38,241 --> 01:01:42,000
Okay.
899
01:01:53,896 --> 01:01:57,517
I feel like it might be
the case that me and Anali
900
01:01:57,517 --> 01:02:01,172
are not going to have
an intimate relationship
901
01:02:01,172 --> 01:02:04,034
too often
with my mom ten feet away.
902
01:02:04,034 --> 01:02:06,241
But in the past,
if she's over
903
01:02:06,241 --> 01:02:08,724
and I'm having my girlfriend
over, well, yeah.
904
01:02:08,724 --> 01:02:12,620
You know, I'll just leave,
or in this situation
905
01:02:12,620 --> 01:02:14,931
she might shut her door,
or turn the radio on.
906
01:02:14,931 --> 01:02:18,379
We can turn some sound on
and just, you know?
907
01:02:29,034 --> 01:02:30,793
Give me a hug.
908
01:02:48,862 --> 01:02:50,931
Um, okay.
909
01:02:55,379 --> 01:02:58,379
Why?
910
01:02:58,379 --> 01:03:01,586
Hey.
911
01:03:03,103 --> 01:03:04,275
Bye.
912
01:03:21,448 --> 01:03:23,965
I figured after
being apart for a few months
913
01:03:23,965 --> 01:03:27,965
that Anali would want
to be intimate but guess not.
914
01:03:30,000 --> 01:03:32,482
It might be because
she has been traveling
915
01:03:32,482 --> 01:03:35,275
for so long
and hasn't had enough sleep,
916
01:03:35,275 --> 01:03:38,655
or is it because we're sharing
a wall with my mom?
917
01:03:38,655 --> 01:03:40,517
I just don't know
what to think and honestly
918
01:03:40,517 --> 01:03:42,310
I'm kind of
a little bit worried.
919
01:03:43,965 --> 01:03:46,137
Okay. See you tomorrow.
920
01:03:56,206 --> 01:03:59,137
Manuel will literally,
like, laser vision TV
921
01:03:59,137 --> 01:04:00,965
as if I'm not there.
922
01:04:00,965 --> 01:04:03,172
And it bothers
the crap out of me.
923
01:04:15,724 --> 01:04:18,379
Why would you say
something like that?
924
01:04:18,379 --> 01:04:20,758
Livid is an understatement.
925
01:04:57,689 --> 01:04:59,965
We are getting ready
to go to couples therapy.
926
01:04:59,965 --> 01:05:01,931
Manuel wants no part of it.
927
01:05:01,931 --> 01:05:04,413
Mister "I don't have
anything I need to work on."
928
01:05:04,413 --> 01:05:06,965
But even if Manuel
has nothing to hide,
929
01:05:06,965 --> 01:05:09,034
he sure
is acting like he does.
930
01:05:16,241 --> 01:05:17,862
Couples therapy
is so important to me
931
01:05:17,862 --> 01:05:20,000
'cause I see it
as preventative.
932
01:05:20,000 --> 01:05:22,241
I don't wanna pay
for a divorce
933
01:05:22,241 --> 01:05:24,551
and I don't think he wants
to pay for a divorce.
934
01:05:24,551 --> 01:05:28,000
The sex helps us communicate,
but I think Manuel and I
935
01:05:28,000 --> 01:05:31,068
are going through such, um,
936
01:05:31,068 --> 01:05:34,551
a different type
of relationship
937
01:05:34,551 --> 01:05:37,172
to have
that extra added support
938
01:05:37,172 --> 01:05:39,655
as he's adjusting
and as I'm adjusting
939
01:05:39,655 --> 01:05:41,344
is only gonna do more good.
940
01:05:43,655 --> 01:05:46,344
Mmm-mmm.
941
01:06:09,482 --> 01:06:13,586
Ashley. Hi.
942
01:06:13,586 --> 01:06:17,103
Ivanna.
943
01:06:17,103 --> 01:06:18,413
- Yes.
- You can come on the back.
944
01:06:18,413 --> 01:06:19,448
All right.
945
01:06:24,896 --> 01:06:29,103
...and I have
had some experience
working with K-1 visa couples
946
01:06:29,103 --> 01:06:31,482
where they're looking
for some guidance
947
01:06:31,482 --> 01:06:32,896
during their engagement.
948
01:06:32,896 --> 01:06:34,413
I'm also bilingual.
949
01:06:34,413 --> 01:06:37,310
So when I found out
that Manuel was from Ecuador,
950
01:06:37,310 --> 01:06:38,551
it was really
interesting to me
951
01:06:38,551 --> 01:06:40,896
to be able to jump in
and help out
952
01:06:40,896 --> 01:06:42,379
with their
communication issues
953
01:06:42,379 --> 01:06:45,758
and also be able
to be kind of a bridge
954
01:06:45,758 --> 01:06:48,034
in terms
of the cultural differences.
955
01:07:02,137 --> 01:07:03,965
Welcome.
956
01:07:03,965 --> 01:07:06,137
Is there anything particular
you're nervous about?
957
01:07:09,000 --> 01:07:12,000
I guess just like
958
01:07:12,000 --> 01:07:14,931
being in this situation
with my partner.
959
01:07:14,931 --> 01:07:18,103
- What situation?
- I know he trusts me,
960
01:07:18,103 --> 01:07:21,275
but I do feel like there's
still, like, a wall there
961
01:07:21,275 --> 01:07:23,310
around certain parts
of his life
962
01:07:23,310 --> 01:07:27,758
that I can't seem
to pierce and it bothers me.
963
01:08:05,793 --> 01:08:10,896
Mmm-hmm.
964
01:08:10,896 --> 01:08:12,344
He wants to avoid problems,
965
01:08:12,344 --> 01:08:13,551
but it's causing
more problems.
966
01:08:13,551 --> 01:08:14,931
Miscommunications.
967
01:08:14,931 --> 01:08:18,034
Manuel will literally, like,
laser vision TV
968
01:08:18,034 --> 01:08:19,758
as if I'm not [bleep] there.
969
01:08:19,758 --> 01:08:22,034
And it bothers
the crap out of me.
970
01:08:22,034 --> 01:08:24,206
So I think
that I react stronger
971
01:08:24,206 --> 01:08:26,724
because I feel
like I'm not being heard.
972
01:08:42,655 --> 01:08:45,034
Why would you say
something like that?
973
01:08:45,034 --> 01:08:47,758
That is so beyond rude.
974
01:08:47,758 --> 01:08:51,034
Livid is an understatement.
975
01:08:51,034 --> 01:08:53,310
Pissed!
976
01:08:57,034 --> 01:08:59,758
It's like
he's leading a double life.
977
01:09:16,310 --> 01:09:18,103
Men in this region,
978
01:10:21,793 --> 01:10:25,344
This is not how I wanted
to meet my future in-laws.
979
01:10:28,137 --> 01:10:29,862
And I feel stupid
for crying.
980
01:11:07,275 --> 01:11:09,310
She says
it doesn't really matter.
981
01:11:09,310 --> 01:11:11,482
That's good. Yeah?
That's good to hear.
982
01:12:35,379 --> 01:12:36,862
Yes. See you again.
983
01:12:36,862 --> 01:12:38,517
Yeah.
984
01:12:48,965 --> 01:12:51,172
Bye-bye.
985
01:13:06,793 --> 01:13:11,758
Even though it makes me sad
leaving my family behind.
986
01:13:17,482 --> 01:13:18,586
Do you think
that I did okay?
987
01:13:49,758 --> 01:13:51,689
And now
you have to dance.
988
01:14:02,206 --> 01:14:04,931
Honey. I just spilled
some liquor on my...
989
01:14:04,931 --> 01:14:07,275
Sorry.
990
01:14:07,275 --> 01:14:09,448
Okay. Got it.
991
01:14:09,448 --> 01:14:10,862
I'm cleaning machine.
992
01:14:10,862 --> 01:14:12,206
Can you come with me
to the bar?
993
01:14:12,206 --> 01:14:13,448
Sure.
994
01:14:15,068 --> 01:14:16,482
Honey, I'll be back.
995
01:14:16,482 --> 01:14:19,413
And here we'll talk about
Ukrainian American girls, yes?
996
01:14:43,724 --> 01:14:46,862
So you know
so much about Moldovan men
997
01:14:46,862 --> 01:14:49,344
and something
that's really bothering me
998
01:14:49,344 --> 01:14:52,344
is that Justin
doesn't really like
999
01:14:52,344 --> 01:14:53,689
to have a lot of sex.
1000
01:14:53,689 --> 01:14:56,793
Like, it's almost
like only when he wants
1001
01:14:56,793 --> 01:14:59,000
and not when I want.
1002
01:14:59,000 --> 01:15:03,000
But I wanna ask you,
men in this region,
1003
01:15:03,000 --> 01:15:05,482
do they [bleep] on women?
1004
01:15:35,551 --> 01:15:36,586
But it's not an answer.
1005
01:15:38,551 --> 01:15:40,275
It hurts, you know.
1006
01:15:40,275 --> 01:15:42,241
I just want him to treat me
like any other girl
1007
01:15:42,241 --> 01:15:44,413
that he's dated
and it's just not happening.
1008
01:15:59,206 --> 01:16:01,068
Yeah.
1009
01:17:32,034 --> 01:17:34,137
Hi, baby.
1010
01:17:34,137 --> 01:17:35,379
Hey, baby.
1011
01:17:35,379 --> 01:17:37,137
Where have you been?
1012
01:17:48,758 --> 01:17:50,862
- My seatbelt's on.
- Hey.
1013
01:17:52,172 --> 01:17:54,034
What is this?
1014
01:17:54,034 --> 01:17:55,551
I have no idea
what that is.
1015
01:17:55,551 --> 01:17:57,000
Is that yours?
1016
01:17:58,793 --> 01:18:00,034
That's not cheating.
1017
01:18:00,034 --> 01:18:02,275
I have learned
to read Gino.
1018
01:18:02,275 --> 01:18:04,724
And the way
he's responding to me,
1019
01:18:04,724 --> 01:18:07,275
I can tell
he's guilty as [bleep].
1020
01:18:08,689 --> 01:18:10,137
Yeah, I'm dropping you off.
1021
01:18:20,206 --> 01:18:22,655
Thank you so much
for coming tonight.
1022
01:18:22,655 --> 01:18:23,896
It's great
to meet you tonight.
1023
01:18:26,310 --> 01:18:29,793
Um,
well, we have to go.
1024
01:18:29,793 --> 01:18:33,862
Yeah. My dog is by himself
and, you know, so...
1025
01:18:33,862 --> 01:18:35,517
Bye.
See you guys later.
1026
01:18:35,517 --> 01:18:36,482
- See ya.
- See ya.
1027
01:18:36,482 --> 01:18:37,482
Take care.
1028
01:18:55,724 --> 01:18:57,862
No, because
it's my family.
1029
01:19:02,241 --> 01:19:04,034
What do you mean
lack of empathy?
1030
01:19:08,551 --> 01:19:10,206
Give them a chance then.
1031
01:19:10,206 --> 01:19:12,344
I'm trying. Trust me. I am.
1032
01:19:15,827 --> 01:19:17,965
Great. Oh.
1033
01:19:19,689 --> 01:19:20,896
It's a goner.
1034
01:19:23,310 --> 01:19:26,896
Uh, it'd be easier
to get it after we park,
1035
01:19:26,896 --> 01:19:29,413
unless you can
reach it, but...
1036
01:19:34,241 --> 01:19:35,379
What is this?
1037
01:19:38,724 --> 01:19:41,068
I have no idea what that is.
Is that yours?
1038
01:19:44,620 --> 01:19:45,793
Who knows?
1039
01:19:49,379 --> 01:19:50,551
Who knows?
1040
01:19:52,620 --> 01:19:55,344
What is this?
1041
01:19:55,344 --> 01:19:58,620
I don't know
what this is.
1042
01:20:01,103 --> 01:20:02,241
Where did you find it?
1043
01:20:06,793 --> 01:20:08,931
What the
are you talking about?
1044
01:20:08,931 --> 01:20:12,655
This is no girlfriend
or anything like that.
1045
01:20:12,655 --> 01:20:14,517
Who is this?
1046
01:20:14,517 --> 01:20:16,965
I don't [bleep] know.
1047
01:20:18,448 --> 01:20:21,689
Could be one of my coworkers
or some other mother
1048
01:20:21,689 --> 01:20:24,448
in my car that was a coworker
or somewhere
1049
01:20:24,448 --> 01:20:26,724
we went out
and maybe they dropped it.
1050
01:20:26,724 --> 01:20:29,448
Wait, wait, wait, wait, wait.
You go out with coworkers?
1051
01:20:29,448 --> 01:20:32,034
Yes, I go out with coworkers.
Yes. Is that a problem?
1052
01:20:34,931 --> 01:20:37,379
people, coworkers
go out together for lunch
1053
01:20:37,379 --> 01:20:39,206
once in a while for a work
event or something like that.
1054
01:20:39,206 --> 01:20:41,689
So you were... You were dating
a [bleep] bitch from work?
1055
01:20:41,689 --> 01:20:43,034
No.
1056
01:20:43,034 --> 01:20:44,655
You're not listening.
1057
01:20:44,655 --> 01:20:46,379
I wasn't dating anybody.
1058
01:20:49,241 --> 01:20:52,000
What the [bleep] is wrong?
You're always looking for--
1059
01:20:52,000 --> 01:20:53,724
No, no, no.
I'm not looking for anything.
1060
01:20:53,724 --> 01:20:55,586
- Yes, you are.
- My cell phone
just fell down
1061
01:20:55,586 --> 01:20:57,448
and I see
this [bleep] lipstick.
1062
01:20:57,448 --> 01:20:58,586
- Yeah.
- What I'm trying to get...
1063
01:20:58,586 --> 01:21:00,413
- You know how--
- ...is my [bleep] cell phone.
1064
01:21:00,413 --> 01:21:02,551
You know how long
I've had this [bleep] car?
1065
01:21:02,551 --> 01:21:03,724
Hello?
1066
01:21:03,724 --> 01:21:05,620
For a long time.
1067
01:21:08,000 --> 01:21:10,000
I have learned
in these three years
1068
01:21:10,000 --> 01:21:13,344
to read Gino
through his body language.
1069
01:21:13,344 --> 01:21:15,551
And he cannot hide it.
1070
01:21:15,551 --> 01:21:17,172
I know his expressions.
1071
01:21:17,172 --> 01:21:19,137
He changed color
and everything.
1072
01:21:19,137 --> 01:21:21,586
And the way
he's responding to me,
1073
01:21:21,586 --> 01:21:24,586
I can tell
he's guilty of [bleep].
1074
01:21:24,586 --> 01:21:26,827
And stop [bleep] assuming
that I was with a girl,
1075
01:21:26,827 --> 01:21:28,275
because it's not true.
1076
01:21:28,275 --> 01:21:29,482
I've never been
with a girl
1077
01:21:29,482 --> 01:21:31,137
since I've been
with you, ever.
1078
01:21:34,103 --> 01:21:35,620
I don't know whose it is.
1079
01:21:36,379 --> 01:21:38,000
I don't know whose it is.
1080
01:21:43,000 --> 01:21:44,482
You're a [bleep]...
1081
01:21:44,482 --> 01:21:45,965
- You are crazy.
- ...disgusting person.
1082
01:21:47,655 --> 01:21:50,172
- I just wanna go home.
- You're so ridiculous.
1083
01:21:50,172 --> 01:21:51,862
Sickening.
1084
01:21:51,862 --> 01:21:56,620
- I wanna
go home.
- Just sickening.
1085
01:21:56,620 --> 01:21:57,931
Can't believe it.
1086
01:21:59,827 --> 01:22:03,724
I wanna
go home.
1087
01:22:03,724 --> 01:22:05,413
You only found lip gloss
under the seat
1088
01:22:05,413 --> 01:22:07,862
and you have no idea
why it was there
1089
01:22:07,862 --> 01:22:09,517
or how it got there
and you're screaming
1090
01:22:09,517 --> 01:22:11,413
at the top of your lungs
1091
01:22:11,413 --> 01:22:13,241
like there was a murder
or something?
1092
01:22:15,068 --> 01:22:17,310
Holy [bleep]!
1093
01:22:22,275 --> 01:22:23,965
- No, I'm not.
- Yes, you are.
1094
01:22:23,965 --> 01:22:25,896
- I never--
- Yes. You're
1095
01:22:25,896 --> 01:22:27,068
That's not cheating.
1096
01:22:28,620 --> 01:22:30,000
Yeah, I'm dropping you off.
1097
01:22:31,655 --> 01:22:33,172
I [bleep] need you.
1098
01:22:33,172 --> 01:22:34,655
I'm going back to Panama.
1099
01:22:34,655 --> 01:22:35,862
I don't wanna see you
ever again.
1100
01:22:35,862 --> 01:22:38,310
Okay. Okay. Go. Go.
1101
01:22:39,965 --> 01:22:42,482
You don't trust me,
go back.
1102
01:22:42,482 --> 01:22:43,827
You're crazy.
1103
01:22:57,103 --> 01:22:59,517
Let me go
and pick up my dog
and my things.
1104
01:22:59,517 --> 01:23:01,620
I'm gonna get
an Uber for you
1105
01:23:01,620 --> 01:23:03,275
and you're gonna go
to a hotel.
1106
01:23:03,275 --> 01:23:04,586
Yeah.
I don't wanna be with you.
1107
01:23:04,586 --> 01:23:05,827
- Yeah. Okay.
- Anymore.
1108
01:23:05,827 --> 01:23:07,068
- It's the best.
- That's fine. Yeah.
1109
01:23:07,068 --> 01:23:08,310
I didn't cheat on you
or anything.
1110
01:23:08,310 --> 01:23:09,862
- You did, Gino.
- Didn't not?
1111
01:23:09,862 --> 01:23:11,482
You did.
1112
01:23:43,482 --> 01:23:47,241
Next time
on 90 Day Fiancé...
1113
01:23:49,758 --> 01:23:51,034
Yes. It's heart.
1114
01:23:52,275 --> 01:23:53,827
I'm really nervous
1115
01:23:53,827 --> 01:23:56,551
because I have a big surprise
for Devin.
1116
01:23:56,551 --> 01:23:59,965
Oh, whoa, whoa, whoa, whoa. Wait.
1117
01:24:01,896 --> 01:24:03,172
Huh?
1118
01:24:08,655 --> 01:24:10,137
I've had a few moments
1119
01:24:10,137 --> 01:24:11,793
where I'm wondering
if this is the right move.
1120
01:24:11,793 --> 01:24:12,931
Yeah.
1121
01:24:38,793 --> 01:24:41,482
This looks nice,
right, pretty?
1122
01:24:52,448 --> 01:24:56,310
Anali's dad has no idea
that I even exist.
1123
01:24:56,310 --> 01:24:59,551
How do I know that she's just
not here for a green card?
1124
01:24:59,551 --> 01:25:01,689
I can't imagine her
faking something
1125
01:25:01,689 --> 01:25:04,172
like that
for two and a half years.
1126
01:25:15,793 --> 01:25:17,206
Yeah. I didn't cheat
on you or anything.
1127
01:25:17,206 --> 01:25:18,586
- You did.
- I was never with any girl.
1128
01:25:18,586 --> 01:25:19,517
You did.
1129
01:25:25,655 --> 01:25:26,724
I don't really know
1130
01:25:26,724 --> 01:25:28,793
what I'm gonna say
when I get there.
1131
01:25:28,793 --> 01:25:31,482
I just know that it better be
the right thing.
1132
01:25:34,413 --> 01:25:36,620
I'll spend the rest of my life
trying to show you.
1133
01:25:36,620 --> 01:25:39,000
Someone loyal doesn't do this.
They just don't.