[Gino] Previously on90 Day Fiance...
[muffled] Yeah!
[Nick speaking]
[Devin laughs]
-Yeah. -[Nikki] Today, I'm meeting Justin's family.
I feel... nervous.
But if they don't accept their son
falling in love with a trans woman...
There's just so much I can hold until I snap.
-Trying to be nice. -Perfect. Perfect. I'm leaving.
[Clayton speaking Spanish]
[speaking Spanish]
Anali's dad has no idea that I even exist.
Well, where does she think he is right now?
In America, for work.
[woman] My brother is blinded by love.
I am gonna be over-protective.
Always...
[speaking Spanish]
[Jasmine] This house is infected...
I had a life before I met you.
Is she gonna be always this jealous?
Am I, like, not gonna be able to have any conversation with a woman?
I think since Gino had a bachelor party already,
we should do a girls' night.
-He had one? -They went out...
to a strip club.
[Jasmine] I'm trying to keep it cool in front of Michelle
but all I wanna do is go home and face Gino.
He's still guarded with me about certain things.
[speaking Spanish]
[Ashley speaking English] Your personal life is private?
Like, I am your personal life.
You are here for me, in my country.
[both speaking Spanish]
I wish I would have found out in England.
'Cause I would not have been coming to America.
You give me a chance, I will make it up to you...
[Sophie] We only have 90 days to get married.
So I really only have 90 days to get over it.
[intense music playing]
Yeah.
All right.
This fight is one of the worst fights we've ever been in.
And, I don't know how it's gonna affect the rest of our relationship.
And Sophie says that she's gonna come home with me,
so we're gonna get back to the house,
get away from this Airbnb and get away
from the idea that she's just gonna leave.
And I'm just hoping that
she can see that...
no, she's got a good guy. He just made a mistake.
[Sophie speaking]
I'm staying with Rob because
it's not necessarily-- He didn't cheat on me.
He... he did something he knew would hurt me, and it sucks.
But I don't think
what he's done
is-- is worth throwing us away.
[somber instrumental music playing]
[Sophie clears throat] Oh.
[Rob] You look good, being back in here.
Rob has a lot to prove to me
in order for me to trust him again
but to be honest, I just don't know if he'll do it
or... what I even need to see from him.
And I just feel like it's not looking good in terms of...
us being married in 90 days.
It doesn't really look realistic.
[Rob] You down to put the ring back on, though?
Is it this finger?
It's the left.
-Yeah. -Does it fit?
-Yes. -Leave it on.
-Aw. -[Sophie chuckles]
Don't make that face.
Stop it. Un-duck that.
[kissing]
[upbeat music playing]
All right, we're getting close. Watch your step.
Uh, it's a little bit of a surprise.
I know you like the beach.
I know you like these houses over here.
I appreciate you
giving me a chance to do something like this for you.
[Sophie] Mm-hmm.
When I woke up today, Rob surprised me and said
that he has something planned for me at the beach
and I should just go and pack my clothes.
Rob isn't, like, the best at ideas or surprises
so I'm just really excited to see what he has planned for me.
But at the same time, Rob has really hurt me.
And I'm not someone that can just forgive things so easily.
[Rob] All right, we're going here. This blue building.
-Pull it. -[Sophie] Oh!
-[Sophie laughs] -I don't like that at all.
That's confusing.
[Sophie] It's super cute.
[Rob] All right, so,
we're going up these steps but check out the view real quick.
-This is so nice. -Like it?
[Sophie] Yeah, thank you.
-[Rob] I love the ocean. -It's super cute.
-We're going up this way. You wanna lead the way? -Yeah.
It's really lovely.
Ladies first.
Oh, this is so nice.
It's really cute.
-Yeah. -You did this for me?
Of course. You're always talking about how you...
you want a house on the beach and...
Yeah, let's settle in.
This is really lovely, what Rob's done and everything,
but he thinks that, like, romanticness equals, like, something expensive.
Or he has to have a bunch of money to do it
when ultimately, like, just be nicer to me.
It's not really that difficult to just...
be a bit more sweet, like, he can very much...
'cause he used to be sweet.
Before I met him, online, he was saying,
he was sending me paragraphs of how much
he can't wait to be with me and he's been struck by Cupid's arrow.
That's why it's like I know it's in there.
And sometimes, I do see it and I'm really happy.
But it's like I want it to be consistent.
-You happy? -I'm very happy.
I'm glad you're happy.
I try to make you happy.
Now you got lipstick on your mouth.
-I got lipstick all over my mouth? -You look beautiful.
-Guess what this place has? -What?
It has a bathroom right down that hallway.
-Does it? -Yeah.
-Wow. -Like a whole, like, a whole new world.
[Sophie] Bathroom's inside.
[Rob] The bathroom's inside.
-[Sophie chuckles] -I... I figured that was essential.
I was not gonna find a place without a bathroom inside.
I don't think there is any other place that's
-with a bathroom outside. -Which was, yeah, it wasn't hard to...
find a place where the bathroom is inside.
[Rob] Easy access.
Yeah. That is nice.
I'm not gonna say it's a turn-on 'cause like, it's like,
a bathroom is normal.
But, yeah, I'm very glad
there is a bathroom inside the house.
And the view is so nice.
[Rob] Let's go out here and soak it up a little bit.
The beach. The sailboats.
The waves.
-That's a lot better view than your apartment. -Yeah, well.
Thank you, I appreciate it.
-Glad you do. -I like when you do stuff like this for me.
I do wish I could do more of this type of stuff.
-Yeah. Yeah. -I try when I can, you know.
So you just... you just keep working with me
and lovin' me and I'll always try my best to do stuff for you.
I appreciate you.
[upbeat music playing]
My engineering paid off.
That's why I went to college.
So I can do stuff like this.
[Gino] Yesterday, I walked in the house
and Jasmine, she had all this stuff that she found in my house.
You know, pictures of my exes,
uh, Valentines' cards.
I mean, she was really upset
because she found this stuff and I didn't get rid of it before she got here.
You know. And I don't think she should be getting upset.
Uh, this is, this is like my past relationships.
Why would you get upset about that?
I just hope it gets better.
I really do.
-[Coco whining] -Where is your dad?
What is that?
These are the steps for Coco.
So he doesn't have to jump on the bed anymore.
So how was the nail salon?
It was nice.
I would love... to know
about something.
Um, I would love to know
what you did the day before I arrive...
Day before you arrived.
-The day before you arrived? -Yeah.
I didn't go out the day before you arrived.
Um, what about you spending time
with Dana, Anthony?
You talking about my bachelor party?
What's... what's up with that?
So number one thing, you didn't tell me
you have a bachelor's party.
And I get it. Because I have one,
it's fair you have one. But why didn't you tell me?
Uh, well...
honestly, I didn't want you to be pissed off or upset
preparing to come to the United States,
uh, because I'm going out on a bachelor party
which to me is very normal here in the United States, if you're getting married
to go out for a bachelor party.
-Okay. -Mm-hmm.
Stupid excuse but okay.
-Uh, when were you planning... -I don't think it's stupid.
-I'm already here. I've been here for a while. -Yeah.
When were you planning to tell me?
[intense music playing]
I, you know, I wasn't really...
going to tell you unless you asked. I mean...
If you had asked me about it,
-I'd be more than happy to... -How the heck would I ask about you?
How would I know?
What did you do? You went with your family.
-But-- Be more specific. -I went with my family.
-Where? Where? -Big deal.
We went to a strip club.
And a lot of people have bachelor parties,
by the way, in my country, in strip clubs.
Did you enjoy it?
I didn't even ask for any dances.
I didn't touch any girls.
[upbeat music playing]
[Gino whoops and laughs]
-[indistinct chatter] -Whoo!
[man] Oh! Hello!
[laughs]
Let's see what you got.
I wasn't that bad of a boy.
I was with my family.
This is a fun night out before you come.
Why are you so upset about that?
It's your freakin' attitude, you know?
And it has been like this same for three [bleep] years.
I always have to discover [bleep] from other people.
-All the time. -What's my attitude?
You careless!
Like, "Oh, you got mad. You shouldn't.
-You shouldn't get mad." -Yeah, you shouldn't be.
Why are you upset?
But I am! Because you lie to me, Gino!
-All the time! You're hiding things! -Lied to you?
-That's up to you. -I don't wanna marry you because I don't--
I-- I can't marry someone that
-gets upset, like, and angry like you. -I-- I...
You're way over-reacting.
You're way out of control.
I think you need some help is what I think.
[Gino] That's what I think.
-You're way over-reacting about a stupid bachelor party. -No, I need--
I need a ticket back--
-A once-in-a-lifetime bachelor party... -I need a ticket back.
...that you're getting this upset.
I need a ticket back to Panama.
-That's up to you. -Okay.
I'm not joking, Gino.
-Okay. -I'm not joking.
You act like I cheated on you or something.
This is something-- That's the way it feels!
-I didn't-- -That's the way it feels, Gino!
I'm tired of having to tell you that
I'm sorry for the way that you make me feel!
-[Gino] And-- Okay. All right. -Here. Take-- Take that.
-Thanks. -Take that [bleep]. I don't want it.
[Jasmine] Give it to someone else.
[Gino] Okay.
Yeah, I don't want you here--
I know you don't want me!
If you're so angry--
-You make me angry! -Let me finish my sentence.
I can't speak to you, I can't talk--
-[bleep] you, Gino. -Okay.
[somber instrumental music playing]
[sobbing]
[Gino] It's crazy, you know.
Yeah, it's crazy.
This happens all the time.
It's starting to wear me out.
She's always threatening to leave.
It's getting to become too much... for me.
'Cause my life shouldn't be like that.
[Nick] Yeah.
I'm worried. I don't know a lot about them.
[Devin speaking]
[speaking Romanian]
[upbeat music playing]
[Nick speaking]
[Devin speaking]
♪ You can be my champion ♪
♪ Properly ♪
[Nick speaking]
[Devin] Mm.
[Nick speaking]
I've never thought about going to US.
I think like America is something too far away.
[Devin speaking]
[Nick] Oh! Always smiling.
-[Devin] Very cute. -Let's go say hello!
[Nick speaking]
So I'm willing to go to US for her.
[Devin] Uh, I think we should go through security first.
[Nick] Okay.
[upbeat instrumental rock music playing]
♪ Love those who shake Like there's no tomorrow ♪
♪ I can't stand still ♪
♪ I got the boogie, yeah
[vocalizing]
[Devin speaking]
[Nick] Yeah.
[Nick speaking]
-Yay! -Hey!
-There they are. Kevin. -[Kevin] We finally meet you.
You're real!
Yeah, glad to meet you, too!
-[Katrina laughing] -Ah, let me give you a hug.
[Kevin and Nick] How are you?
-[Nick] Very well. -So glad you made it!
I thought it wasn't gonna happen!
You look just the same as I picture.
-[Katrina laughing] -You know what I mean?
-You look the same, too. -Oh, yeah? Okay.
-Except you're real. Like, you are real. -Uh... Ah!
Not just this made-up person Devin had.
[Kevin] Nick being from South Korea,
he's really coming into a strange situation.
The primary concerns that I have about their relationship
is just the unknowns about how they interact in person.
We're looking forward to figuring that out
since we're all gonna be under one roof together.
Their relationship's in front of us.
So if they have an argument, we're gonna be seeing and hearing it.
[Nick] Okay, okay.
There's so much going on in my head.
Uh, there's so many things I have to take in.
-Gonna get it? -Is that yours? Is that it?
-Yeah, that's it right there. -Yeah, yeah.
[Nick speaking]
I'm the only one. That's overwhelming.
[shudders]
-I have no idea where the car's at. -It's up here to the right.
-Yeah, this is not a safe town that we're in. -Really?
-It is day one. -Yeah.
-My day one... -You know what that means?
I think he's saying he wants to make it longer than day one.
[Kevin] Yeah.
This is day one of 90 days until we have to get married.
It's something that...
[Nick] Thank you.
[Kevin] All right. Let's go.
I don't know about him, it still hasn't, like, set in completely, yet, for me.
The second we came off that plane,
that's when the clock started ticking.
[Justin] Okay, baby. We're getting closer to my parents' house, and...
We have a lot to, like, work on, like, after.
Right now, I'm just gonna live in the moment.
[sighs]
-What? -First time.
First time in my life I see how cows [bleep] each other here.
Okay, baby, this is my parents' house.
Okay.
I definitely feel like it's the wrong energy to go and see his family
after we had a huge blow-up in the car.
Justin made such a big deal about how I look, making me feel a little bit,
you know, insecure.
[Justin] Go straight ahead.
But for the sake of tonight, we both need to put our differences to the side,
and try to make it a better vibe for us to meet his family.
-[Nikki] Hi. -[Justin speaking Romanian]
-[in English] Oh, look at the dog. -Jessica! Jessica!
[speaking Romanian]
-[in English] Nicole, this is my stepfather. -Hi.
-Daniel. -[speaking Romanian]
[Nikki in English] Nice to meet you.
Meeting with my parents, they are, like, older generation.
Mom!
[speaking Romanian]
[in English] That's her son, you know, and the way that it went down
and the way we broke up, it's still a little nerve-racking,
and it's a little uncomfortable for me.
And now I'm nervous if she forgive this all.
[speaking Romanian]
[Daniel and Nikki gasp]
[Nikki in English] Wow!
[Daniel] Wow!
[speaking Romanian]
[Nikki in English] How are you? How you been?
[speaking Romanian]
[in English] She will show you the pictures of our family.
-[Maia speaking Romanian] -[Nikki in English] Who is this cute boy?
-[Nikki speaking Romanian] -[Justin speaking English]
[Justin and Nikki] Aw!
-She kept it. -This is terrible photo.
[Nikki] Justin Timberlake.
She kept our photo.
-It's... -At least she didn't rip it up.
-She could've... [mimics ripping] -No, no, no.
-[Justin] Look, she starting. -[Nikki] Burn it.
[Justin] No, no, she starting, and then she stop.
No, you probably did it.
[Maia speaking Romanian]
[in English] This one, I don't have, I don't have this photo.
[Justin speaking Romanian]
[in English] Maia, it means, like, it means a lot
that you still kept my photos and our photos together from many years ago.
I'm very happy that you didn't close your heart and have your mind open
for us to try again.
[speaking Romanian]
[in English] She say she don't forget nothing.
[Daniel speaking Romanian]
[Maia speaking Romanian]
How do you think it's going right now?
-You like it? -Like it? I like it.
[Nikki speaking]
So how do you think it's going with your mom?
Yeah?
Yes.
Justin has put a lot on the line
for even being with me in the first place.
I can tell that Justin has been preparing his parents to accept me,
which I love, you know, 'cause that shows how much he loves me.
It means a lot to me.
I'll try not to be so difficult with you
and try to be more understanding.
-Okay. -Okay.
[speaking Spanish]
We're supposed to be having a wedding in 70 something days,
and you're arguing over coffee?
What the [bleep] is going on?
We are not on the same wavelength right now.
It's, like, scaring me at how ignorant this is.
So, my love, we're gonna be gone, like, all day.
[speaking Spanish]
[in English] Rico, what are we doing, honey?
We don't get on the table. Get off the table.
You know we don't get on the table.
♪ Look me in the eyes ♪
♪ When you patronize ♪
We need to go get coffee, so I don't wanna hear your mouth about it.
[speaking Spanish]
[in English] So, I have a lot of errands to run today.
And I'm taking Manuel with me so I can get him out of the house a little bit.
It's incredibly important for Manuel to start to feel here at home in the US,
no matter how much he's missing his family in Ecuador,
because this is his new home.
[speaking Spanish]
[Ashley in English] Fine. [continues in Spanish]
Okay?
[speaking Spanish]
[Ashley speaking Spanish]
[Miguel speaking Spanish]
[Ashley speaking]
[Miguel speaking Spanish]
[speaking Spanish]
Manuel...
-Manuel, Manuel... -Yeah?
-Yes. -Yeah.
[speaking Spanish]
[Ashley in English] I don't even know what we're arguing about. I don't.
And I feel like I'm not doing anything wrong. I'm just living.
And he is just picking at things.
-[Ashley sighs] -[line ringing]
[Alysia speaking]
Hey.
I'm just calling you because I'm on the verge of tears,
and I just need to, like, chill.
He's pissy right now. He's carrying on and on about the coffee.
Yes.
And I... Drinking too much coffee.
It's, like, so stupid.
Yeah, he's right next to me.
[Miguel speaking Spanish]
[Ashley in English] What world are you living in? And is this gonna be my world?
Maybe it's something bigger than coffee, and it's, like, scaring me
at how ignorant this [bleep] is, I'm not even gonna lie.
[Alysia] Yeah.
We're supposed to be having a wedding in 70 something days,
and you're arguing over coffee? What the [bleep] is going on?
Part of me wants to turn around.
We are not on the same wavelength right now.
90 days is not even close to enough time to assess the situation.
I wanna get through this. I wanna marry him, but on some real [bleep].
It's moments like these where I'm like, "Am I in over my head?"
Like, I'm not even joking right now. Like, deadass.
[woman speaking Spanish]
[Anali speaking Spanish]
Surprise! It's a pool.
Oh!
[speaking Spanish]
[in English] Okay.
[speaking Spanish]
[in English] Whoa, whoa, whoa! What the [bleep] are you doing? Hold on, now.
Okay.
[speaking Spanish]
[Anali speaking]
[Clayton speaking]
[Anali speaking]
[Clayton speaking]
[mimics guinea pig]
[sniffing]
[Anali] Mmm-hmm.
[Anali speaking]
[Clayton speaking]
[in English] I think Anali and Brandi need to spend more time with each other.
I think it's weird to have her, kind of,
insulting and not getting along with my fiance
because, you know, I love my sister, but I also love Anali.
It, kind of, like, snaps me back to reality, like, "Oh, we need to resolve this."
The pigs are very stressed.
[continues in Spanish]
[Anali speaking Spanish]
[phone ringing]
[speaking Spanish]
[Sophie] Ooh, this is so nice.
He thinks that, like, romanticness equals something expensive.
Do you forgive me? Or...
Do you think you ever will?
[speaking Romanian]
I don't, like, want the same thing that happened the last time
to happen again.
Let's go outside, 'cause I'mma get this fire started.
And we can have a drink and eat some dinner.
♪ I don't care about your credentials ♪
♪ I don't care about who you know ♪
♪ All I know is we got potential ♪
♪ Like a flame Now we're on our way ♪
I gotta figure out how to get this thing started.
-Hey! -Oh, you did it.
Hey, your boy got talent.
Good job.
Oh, wow and it's blowing right at me, I love it.
Yeah. Yeah, look, the glass is warm.
-Here's yours. -What did you get for food?
Well, when it comes to the food...
I wanted to show you that I know you.
I found chicken korma.
Oh!
I love Indian food. It's like my favorite.
So it does mean a lot to me that Rob's chosen like a meal that he knows I love
and not just like what he wants.
So, I appreciate him like really putting in the effort.
I feel really bad about everything...
and I just didn't feel like...
I don't know if I'll ever feel like I've done enough.
But I just feel like, I wanted to do more
to show you that I'm sorry
and hopefully,
make you happy and keep you happy.
Like, you can't just act like nothing happened, you know?
I'm not gonna act like nothing happened.
'Cause you hurt me a lot.
I'm sorry and I know that and I'm...
not gonna act like nothing happened.
I know it was stupid and ignorant
to think there was a difference or that there was...
levels of what's appropriate and what's not.
None of it was appropriate.
Um, and I'm sorry.
I'm sorry that...
I allowed anything like that to go down.
Do you forgive me or...
do you think you ever will?
Hmm...
I mean, I forgive you,
I haven't forgotten what you did but I forgive you.
I'm serious about like what I need.
And if anything like this happens again,
like, I'm leaving, like, I'm not,
you know, we're actually together now,
I'm in America, you have no excuse, like,
I have no reason to give you the benefit of the doubt,
like, I'm here, you know?
So, if you do anything like it like, I'm gonna be gone.
[Rob] Without a doubt in my mind, I don't want anybody else
and I haven't wanted anybody else
since I knew, since I met Sophie.
But, yeah, I am definitely kicking myself
that I was, that I've made any mistakes
along the way.
I just wish I could take it all back.
I'm still gonna check your phone
till I can trust you again.
That's fine.
Every time that you'd think about...
my mistakes from the past...
remind yourself about our potential future.
Okay.
[Rob] I'm definitely hopeful for the future of the relationship.
And I don't, I don't feel like...
I'm gonna find somebody who's closer to what I want
than who Sophie is.
You know, she is who I want
and her personality is what I want.
The person that I see, us,
you know, her being and who we are 10 years from now,
I feel like that... that works.
What she wants in life, what I want in life,
work.
Who she is, who I am work.
As long as we can push out all the negative things,
we will work and I feel confident in that.
Okay, make a toast to me.
Okay.
[chuckles] Just to me. Not us, to me.
I won't jump off a building if I didn't have you.
-You would. -But I might go live in a Hobbit hole.
-If you didn't have me in your life? -Cheers!
Yeah, I'd go live in the woods
-in a hole in the ground. -[chuckles softly]
You'd see me covered in like moss.
[giggles]
-Collecting wood. -[continues giggling]
That's kind of romantic.
-In Rob's way that's romantic. -That's the real love--
That's my love right there.
-Hello! -[Maia speaking Romanian]
Aww.
Oh, my goodness. That looks so good.
So, we have about four more months
before the K-1 Visa is approved.
And how are you gonna feel him leaving again?
I know you must feel a little bit nervous.
[Justin speaking Romanian]
[Maia] Hmm.
When I came back from United States...
-Hmm. -...for the first time, I was very upset
and very worried.
[speaking Romanian]
It made me upset, too.
I really, like, at that moment, I tried.
[Justin speaking]
-Don't be sad. -[speaking Romanian]
Okay. Okay.
[speaking Romanian]
[Maia speaking]
I don't wanna make this like so emotional.
Like, I want this to be a happy moment.
I don't wanna like, relive the past
because it's making...
it's making her upset.
We've a lot like...
we've a lot of people.
Our feelings are invested
and other people's feelings are invested
and our parent's feelings are invested
and our friend's feelings are invested
and everyone's feelings are invested.
And, Um...
I don't, like, want the same thing that happened the last time
to happen again.
[Clayton] Well, well, well.
Hi.
[Anali speaking Spanish]
I know I was kind of a turd the last time.
Is that what you call it?
♪ I ask myself how ♪
♪ Is there someone else? ♪
♪ Try to crush his heart ♪
♪ Act like I'm too cool ♪
[Clayton speaking Spanish]
-[Anali] In five minutes. -Five minutes.
Yeah.
[Clayton] Okay. [continues in Spanish]
♪ I might be young ♪
♪ But I'm a little bit old too ♪
[speaking Spanish]
Wow.
Good job, chiqui.
[speaking Spanish]
All right, Mama. Me and Anali are gonna go now.
Well, be careful driving.
[Clayton] Me and Anali are headed to Indiana this weekend
for some alone time.
We're also gonna visit my sister Brandi while we're up there.
Coco, chunker boy,
you're a chunker boy.
You chunky boy.
-You chunky-- Oh! -Yeah. [laughing]
[speaking Spanish]
[Clayton] Just about every part of our relationship
has reconnected by now
but the one thing that's missing is our intimacy.
But me and Anali are gonna be away from home.
We're gonna be alone in a hotel room.
Hopefully, things happen when...
you know, we're alone and mom's not in the house.
You know, maybe this might be the time.
Hopefully.
[speaking Spanish]
[Anali speaking]
[country music playing]
Brandi has invited me and Anali to an orchard.
I don't know if apple picking is a thing in Peru.
But it is an American thing
and me and my sister used to come to this apple orchard.
So, I have fond childhood memories of this place.
[Clayton speaking Spanish]
[Anali speaking Spanish]
Brandi and Anali meeting for a second time is really important to me.
Because I care about them both very much.
But I do know that Brandi is a type of person that will
cut someone off in the family if she doesn't like them.
But I'm not just gonna send Anali packing
because my sister doesn't like her.
Like, they have to get along.
[speaking Spanish]
[laughs]
[Anali speaking]
Well, well, well.
-Hi. -Hello.
-We meet again. -Yup.
-How are you guys? -Appreciate the empty bucket.
[Brandi scoffs] You're welcome.
-Hi. How are you? -I'm fine. You?
Good. Good.
[Brandi] I wanted Anali and Clayton to come here today
because after how things went last time,
I feel bad...
a little bit.
A lot. Um...
I just thought that this would be a nice place
and it's like a childhood memory,
so, maybe he will forget how big of a bitch I was being.
[chuckles softly]
I didn't react the way I wanted to last time.
But it was like an information overload all at once,
finding all of this stuff out.
But I want him to be happy.
So, I plan to keep my doubts
to myself the best that I can.
Because I still have a lot.
[Clayton speaking Spanish]
All the good apples are up high
and I'm short, so I can't get 'em.
-Which one do you want? -[both chuckle]
I didn't get your height.
Thank you guys for coming today.
Because I know I was kind of a turd the last time.
Is that what you call it?
Turd? [chuckles softly]
[Clayton] I mean, it's okay. Yeah.
[Clayton speaking Spanish]
Okay.
Um...
Thanks for that.
[speaking Spanish]
Makes her feel better.
The reason why I acted so crazy
-the last time is because... -[Clayton] Mm-hmm.
...I just feel like it kind of was like all at once.
What? I mean, I--
Like, everything was just an information overload
and it just like made me emotional.
And so, I'm not gonna take it out on you, 'cause you're my...
-"baby." -Mm-hmm.
So you take it out on her?
I mean, yeah, it's not fair but...
I just always...
see you as like...
my 12-year old little brother.
[speaking Spanish]
Okay. I'm gonna read you what she wrote.
"For me, it was very difficult
to leave my country, mainly for my mother
because she is in very delicate health
and without someone to accompany her.
So when you said that...
I was just here for a green card,
I really wanted to cry at that moment,
because it was hard for me to leave my mother alone.
And I really wanted Clayton to be in Peru but...
for my leaving my family was not easy."
I'm sorry. That makes me sad.
Eww, I hate crying.
It's making me sad to hear about her mom
because I...
only have my mom.
And so, especially being
overseas and not being there for her...
I couldn't imagine.
[speaking Spanish]
[Clayton] She's here for like a bigger reason than what you think.
Like, it's basically our relationship.
She's here for a bigger reason than just...
-like citizenship or... -[Brandi] I hope so.
-I mean, you both deserve love. -[Clayton speaking Spanish]
Brandi's finally starting to get know the Anali I know.
The one that she should have known the first time
had she just asked normal questions.
And I'm just really excited to move forward.
Uh...
It's been mostly okay, just hard to...
have like private time. [chuckles softly]
Eww. [chuckles]
Gross.
Well, I mean how did you do it when you're still living with mom and...
you got pregnant with Brooklyn.
-No. Sorry. -[all laughing]
-Yeah. -Holy [bleep] Brandi.
[Claire speaking]
[Sophie] Rob is not listening to me.
I'm hoping my mum could put some sense into him.
Hi. Good.
♪ Hey, baby ♪
♪ Don't you dare try to change me ♪
[Claire speaking]
It's like a bar, like brewery type place
in like Downtown, LA.
Just cause like, if I call you when I'm at Rob's,
he can hear our conversation
and there's no like privacy.
So I just came like here
to call you.
It's not to get away from Rob.
There's no privacy.
[laughing] It's not sad.
It's literally just a change of scenery.
I'm gonna give him a chance.
'Cause, obviously, like,
this is not a normal relationship,
and it's not like he was doing that while we was together
in the same house, we was apart for like eight months or whatever.
This is the last chance.
This is like, "I'm here now. This is a relationship.
I was accepted," like,
there's no problems, so it's like this is it.
Go on.
I know he wasn't real cheating because I tracked his phone
and he doesn't know and he was always just in his house.
[laughing]
[Claire speaking]
[Sophie] It's not like I ever was, "Give me your location."
Basically, I felt unsafe one time in a taxi
and me and Rob shared locations to make sure I was safe
and then he stupidly never turned his off.
And I just never told him that
I had it the whole time.
[chuckles]
He still doesn't know I have his location.
He still doesn't know.
Don't tell him. No one tell him.
It's been like three years I've had it. [laughing]
But that's how I know he's never cheated in real life,
so it makes me feel better.
[Claire speaking]
Yeah, I know. Don't do that.
You can't be mean to Rob when you're here.
Like, you have to try to get along with him, you know.
[Claire speaking]
[Sophie] I'm a bit nervous that my mum's gonna cause problems
between me and Rob
just because I know that like,
Rob and my mum don't have the best relationship.
My mum used to visit me while I was staying in Mexico with Rob.
They would have little arguments and tiffs
because my mum would see how Rob was talking to me
and she didn't like it.
And then like Rob would see
me and my mum having our usual like,
we have little arguments, too,
but it's not like serious
and he didn't like it.
And so I think they just...
both were sticking up for me to each other
and it would cause them to argue.
Yeah, you too. I'll speak to you soon.
Bye. Bye-bye.
I don't think she's a100 percent at peace
with "I'm gonna be with this man forever."
So, honestly,
I'm kind of hoping that my mum is able to
tell him like what he should be doing for me.
'Cause he's not listening to me
and I'm hoping my mum could put some sense into him
and, you know, that's his problem to deal with.
Me and Anali haven't had sex in over a month.
[sighs]
Chiqui, chiqui.
But I'm hoping that tonight that changes.
[speaking Spanish]
[Clayton] Mm?
No.
I can see how much you love your son
and I just want you to know that he's in good hands with me.
Do we have your blessing to get married?
[speaking Romanian]
[Justin in English]
[speaking Romanian]
Are you okay now, Maya?
[speaking Romanian]
[in English]
[speaking Romanian]
If you're not close to your mother, this is...
Mother feel pain.
Yeah.
I can see how much you love your son, and I just want you
to know that he's in good hands with me.
[speaking Romanian]
How did you find it inside yourselves to accept me being trans?
Because I know culture.
Your culture here in your country is very not open
to accepting people like me.
So how did you and Daniel come to accept my life,
my life, who I am?
[speaking Romanian]
[speaking English]
That's true.
Okay.
[speaking Romanian]
So I think I know the answer, but I really just want
to double-check with both of you.
So we do.
Do we have your blessing to get married?
[speaking Romanian]
Okay.
[speaking Romanian]
Thank you. Thank you.
Tell her I'm very happy to have this moment
with them to celebrate our engagement.
[speaking Romanian]
Are you coming? You will come?
[speaking Romanian]
-She said no. -Shut up!
[laughs]
I feel really happy that we got to see your family
and that I got the blessing that I wanted to get
from his mom.
That meant the world to me.
It was a sweet moment and I'll cherish that.
[speaking English]
[speaking Spanish]
♪ You don't need to be scared of hunger ♪
♪ Everybody's hungry for love ♪
[Clayton] Hello. Checking in.
I'm really relieved that things went well
with Brandi today, but that wasn't the only reason
I wanted to get away this weekend.
Okay, chiqui,um...
[speaking Spanish]
Okay.
I wanted to book a romantic night at a hotel because
me and Anali haven't had sex in over a month.
Okay.
Being sexually frustrated is uncomfortable.
It's normal to have sex in a relationship.
It's normal to not have sex for short periods of time,
but when it's abnormal behavior,
it's something you take notice of.
Anali has been talking about...
wanting to do massages when we get to the US.
Well, now she is here in the US,
so I think tonight's massage is going to be
what gets the romance flowing with me and Anali.
I'm hoping these little doodads
will get her in the mood as well.
I forgot the most important thing, believe it or not,
because friction is not your friend.
And this Rubik's Cube is in case she falls asleep
and I get bored.
She won't see this here.
Definitely not.
Okay.
Chiqui, chiqui.
Hi.
[speaking Spanish]
Mm-hmm.
[laughs]
Okay.
♪ Ah, yeah, you need some good love ♪
♪ And a good night... ♪
Love you.
[speaking Spanish]
Mmm. No.
[chuckles]
♪ Let me know you closer Come on, come on ♪
♪ I can't wait for... Your touch ♪
[speaking Spanish]
Mmm?
-[in English] -[chuckles, speaking Spanish]
[speaking Spanish]
No.
[laughs]
[speaking English]
[speaking Spanish]
Yeah.
I think that I'm being patient with Anali about
not having sex because she doesn't like to be pressured.
And especially when it comes to sex,
I don't want to pressure her at all.
I want it to just happen.
But sex is an important part of any relationship,
especially when we've been so accustomed to having sex
whenever we are together.
Given that she's here now and it's not happening,
it's just weird.
[Anali speaking Spanish]
[speaking Spanish]
[Ashley] I'm having revelations in real time
how much his family depends on him.
Where are you going?
[speaking Spanish]
Okay.
-Hello. -Hi, Manuel.
-Hi, guys. -I missed you.
I missed you.
-You look so cute. -Thank you.
-How are you? -Good to see you.
I am so excited to update you guys.
I'm excited, too. I'm excited to be here.
-I've never even... -I'm excited about this candle place.
I'm excited to be here, too.
[speaking Spanish]
Ooh.
Let's do it.
-I smell it already. -Wow.
Mmm.
Oh, God.
Okay, perfect.
-Thank you. -Thank you so much.
-Let me know if you have questions. -I will.
I'm gonna start over there.
After Manuel and I got into this huge fight in the car,
I am now realizing that we have a lot of work to do.
It feels like sometimes we're on the same page
in the bedroom, but when we're not in the bedroom,
we're, like, not on the same page.
Whipped cream.
Mmm.
I love whipped cream.
[speaking Spanish]
This makes me think of nasty things.
[exclaims]
We didn't get to know each other
like your average couple.
If you think about your average couple,
they have a lot of time, relatively speaking,
to get to know the ins and outs of that person
and how that person works.
Even when we met initially, we were always around
his family or we were around my friends.
We were always in group settings.
So getting to know each other one-on-one
and how we work from day to day,
I think that's what's going on.
You know, we kind of moved backwards.
Okay.
So, you're gonna blend your oils together.
It's a combination of the oils,
whatever ratios you want, so smell as you go.
-Okay. -All right.
And when we're done, we just call you back over?
Yeah, yeah. Shout if you start smelling
and you're not loving it, I'm here to help.
-Shout if you need me. -Okay.
[speaking Spanish]
-He said that you explained it so well. -[speaking Spanish]
All right.
-He said, if it's bad, I don't understand anything. -[all laughing]
So I think he's saying thank you.
[speaking Spanish]
I'm gonna start with wild currant.
-[Solly] I'm gonna start with this goji berry. -Okay.
So what else have you guys done so far for, like, wedding planning?
Um, we are super close to a final head count.
It's looking like it's gonna be closer to 30.
And we ordered his suit that's coming on Tuesday.
We're getting it going. I'm excited.
I'm really excited.
He doesn't like it.
He doesn't like anything. I like it.
[speaking Spanish]
[Alysia] It's like, everything you do, he's like, no.
[speaking Spanish]
I was going to say, what have you been doing
to make sure that he is nice and comfortable here?
[Ashley] We've been cooking a lot.
I mean, I think, let him tell it,
and he would say he's doing more of the cooking, because he kind of
is doing more of the cooking.
I think what I mean to say is that I'm providing the food.
Because, you know, I eat like a bird.
So there's a lot more food in my house these days.
-[Solly] Yeah. -[Alysia] Right.
So last time we hung out, we were talking about,
like, he wanted, like, $250 or something to send.
We sent some money to his family. Yeah.
How are you feeling about all that?
[speaking Spanish]
[Ashley in English] Sending money back home to Ecuador
has been a source of tension for us.
I think it's a cultural thing.
I don't really know what that's like to have
to take care of a parent financially or a child or a sister
or anybody financially.
He does.
And so it is a point of tension
because I don't fully understand it.
And I also wasn't given much time to understand it either.
This is something he has done without me for 30 years.
So the only thing he wants is to be able to help them.
I knew Manuel was not just gonna leave his family
high and dry, but I didn't know how much
they depended on him.
Like, how do you feel about that coming out of her pocket?
[speaking Spanish]
He said, a part of him feels bad because
it's work from her and it's her money.
[speaking Spanish]
He said, if she can help me now with time, I can help her.
Essentially, he's saying, I hope I can pay you back.
I hope to marry this person, and this person has children.
So that's number one, you know?
So I got that coming in, but I didn't realize
-how deep it was. -Mm-hmm.
The baby's mother isn't really around like she needs
to be, so the financial care
leans quite heavily on Manuel.
I knew this was gonna be like a monthly bill,
but I didn't know how much. I know, I saw your eyes.
-It's gonna be a monthly bill. -It's a monthly, yeah.
It's gonna be a monthly bill.
[speaking Spanish]
[in English] I have a question.
[speaking Spanish]
Yeah.
[Manuel speaking]
So I was like, okay, so, like, do you expect me to send money
down there, like, every month?
And he was like, well, yeah. And I was like, how much?
And he's like, you want numbers?
And I was like, yeah. And he was like, like, 300.
-$300? -A month.
[Manuel speaking Spanish]
So he's saying, okay... [speaking Spanish]
He said, I pay what I need to pay.
He goes, there's money for me, there's money for them.
If they need more money, then they're gonna get more money,
whatever it is they need.
I definitely see the pressure that he's under.
I definitely see what he's going through.
However, I don't think it should fall on Ashley's shoulders.
I feel like this should have been established
-before he got here. -Yes.
Since you've been here, it seems like you're making
your family more of a priority than Ashley.
So why are you here?
[cell phone translating to Spanish]
-[Alysia] Did she know that? -[continues in Spanish]
[laughs] It's not the same.
[speaking Spanish]
He said the dog and the cat cost more...
[Solly] The dog and that cat cost more than this.
You're talking about your mom, your step dad,
your brother, your sister, your aunty.
-Everybody needs Ashley's money, not you. -That's a lot for Ashley.
-Manuel. -Okay, where are you going?
[speaking Spanish]
He's saying she thinks it's easy. She thinks it's easy.
[Alysia] I don't think it's easy.
I think you're putting a lot of pressure on her.
[speaking Spanish]
He's like I would prefer to pay the vet $300...
-[Alysia] Where's he going? -[Ashley speaking Spanish]
[Solly] Wow.
[speaking Spanish]
I aggressively underestimated how intense this process is.
In Ecuador, when we get into an argument,
we can hang up the phone.
He can go dick around and do whatever the [bleep]
he wants and choose not to answer or whatever.
But I think it's a different beast when you're in it.
-He's a baby. -I'm gonna go see about Manuel.
I am incredibly sad and emotional and frustrated
and [bleep] tired.
I don't know where we go from here.
He's going to have to acclimate.
It's going to be hard. It's going to be difficult.
But if your goal here is to make a family
and to do this, then we got to get used to it.
That's crazy.
-[Sophie] Next time on 90 Day Fiance. -[cell phone ringing]
-Baby. -Hi, baby.
[Sam] I told my fiance, Citra, about my drug past.
She still looked past all that.
Citra's dad, Herman, he's a police officer,
and it's just a little nerve-racking
and it's just I've been keeping kind of a secret from Citra,
so I'm worried that when I tell her
and she tells her dad that he's gonna forbid her
from marrying me.
Manuel...
I'm not shocked that he walked out.
[speaking Spanish]
I think Manuel has a tendency to be unreasonable.
I think Manuel is very used to getting his way.
[speaking Spanish]
[speaking English]
Uh...
Oh, my.
Are you serious?
Look at this.
Him calling her piggy, I wish he wouldn't do that.
Today, I'm about to tell Rob that I'm bisexual.
I'm not really looking forward to it.
It's like these rush of feelings come through.
Sophie, are you crying?
[sniffles]
Has there been any girls that you [bleep] around with?
Oh.
So before that, you were [bleep] other girls.
I [bleep] knew it.
You are not being [bleep] faithful.
I'm out of here.