[Gino] Previously on 90 Day Fiance...
I'm effectively living as a virgin
because we haven't been having sex recently.
[Kameron] I know what those eyes mean, man.
"Shut up, shut up!"
What's she gonna do, not have sex with me?
[Anali in Spanish]
You're in trouble, buddy.
-Wow, look at that booty. -[Jasmine] Be gentle.
-You've been bad. -No!
Miami is the place where I belong.
For the wedding, this is what I dream.
The only problem is my family wouldn't be there.
I don't want them at my wedding.
[Gino] How could she possibly think that I wouldn't want my family at my wedding?
That blows my mind.
[all exclaiming]
[Stacey]She really wants this.
I just worry.
You know, people don't want to be around him.
You gonna spend the rest of your life with this man?
I have faith, Mom.
I know, honey. I'm just worried.
There's something I kind of need to tell you.
After getting arrested for having
my Suboxone medication in an unmarked bottle,
the judge offered me a diversion program to,
like, if I complete it, I get off.
I didn't get the paperwork applied for in time,
and now I have to go to court and hear with the prosecutor
if he offers probation, jail time.
[Citra speaking]
Do you love me enough where no matter what,
you're going to stick by my side?
You know, if you're trying new things.
-You answer that question. -No, you answer it.
You just want me to tell on myself.
If I would have said yes, he would have been down for that, which is gross.
You cannot blame me for saying this isn't a question for me.
You're not even married yet, and you're thinking about [bleep] other people.
I didn't say I was trying to have sex with anyone.
I just want to know my man only wants me,
and I can get the trust back with you.
[bleep] that.
[soft music playing]
You trying to make me out to be a dog.
No, that's not what it is.
I feel like if you're that interested in somebody else
or if you're that interested in experiencing another girl,
then you have something that you need to figure out
on whether or not you're interested enough
for us to do this as a couple.
Because I don't like the idea of you having a side partner.
That's not cool with me.
That makes me feel like I'm not enough.
I understand why I was upset was
because I thought you wanted to [bleep] her.
And if it was about supporting me
and not the fact you was getting a green light
to have sex with someone else, then that's fine.
I understand.
All right, let's move past it.
I feel like Sophie and I will have these heated arguments,
and then we somehow find each other.
And I really appreciate that Sophie's able to move on
from these moments, and I really try to myself.
Now he knows in the future, if any girl wants
to get with him in any way, with me, without me,
just tell her to go away and leave me alone,
and I have a stunning fiance, or soon-to-be wife.
Maybe.
[upbeat music playing]
All right, so you sent me a little list.
-Chicken, potato, and veg. -Yeah.
Okay.
What's my job in all this?
To help me.
Help you with which part?
Um, all of it.
I want you to help me cut the potatoes,
but I feel like there's no room.
[Sophie] Oh.
[Rob] There you go.
I mean, that helps. You can go that side.
Let's peel it.
This is the first time me and Rob are cooking in the apartment,
just because, you know, there's not much room to cook
-in the apartment, so... -This is not the first time.
-This is the first time. -No, it's not.
We cooked when you were here the first time.
What did we cook?
We've cooked.
-We have... It's not the first time -No.
-we've ever cooked in these... -We put a pizza in the oven.
-That is not cooking. That's not cooking. -Sophie, we have...
See, you couldn't do this in a big old kitchen.
What, sit down?
Sit down and do this part together.
-Yeah, a lot of kitchens have... -It's a bonding moment.
Ah, it's hot. Ah, ah.
Why is it hot on there? Stove, it gets hot.
My phone is there.
All right, but it's not gonna get messed up.
[Sophie] There's about three weeks left until we have to get married.
So tonight, my mom's arriving from Mexico to see me,
so I'm excited to see her, but at the same time,
I'm a little bit nervous how it's gonna go,
because I know they haven't had the best bond together.
But, yeah, um... Are you looking forward
to my mum coming later?
Sure.
Yeah?
It would be nice. I mean, you know what I'm saying?
I'm gonna do my best.
Just want to make sure your mom isn't going to add stress.
Because, yeah, it's kind of a bad time for us.
You and I are trying to get over our own problems
before this huge thing that we're about to do.
I understand that, but it's also...
I don't have anyone out here, and it's my mum,
so I'd like to see her, and she misses me,
and we have a close relationship.
I kind of feel like Claire is a wrench being tossed
in the gears of Sophie and I. She doesn't know how
to shut up, when it's time to be quiet.
That's rude.
I'm just saying, though, your mom says some
very problematic [bleep] at the wrong times.
What if I said to you, your mum doesn't know
-how to shut up when she needs to? -If my mom--
-That is so rude.
If my mom was as rude to you as your mom is to me...
-No, I think my mum... -It definitely affects me, and if you care about me,
then you would understand where I'm coming from.
But she's always gonna be in our lives.
She might not be making it hard on you,
but she's making it hard on me.
She's always gonna be in our lives,
so you have to learn to accept it.
They actually taste good.
Yeah, they taste good.
Good job.
-You did good. -You did good.
My mum just landed.
Oh, yeah?
Nope.
Are you excited to see her?
Am I excited to see her?
Like, is there any part of you that's excited or is just straight,
like, you don't care to see her?
Just please try to stop from scratch.
Of course I'm gonna start from scratch.
I'm not gonna say anything negative.
She brings a lot more drama than what is needed
or necessary.
[Sophie] I can't wait to see her, actually.
[Rob] I'm hoping that Claire does not [bleep] up our relationship.
I hope she's not gonna bring her brand of bull [bleep].
Sophie and I are not cruising.
You know, we're hitting a bump.
We're hitting bumps left and right.
So the last thing I need is for her mom
to come in and make it harder.
[upbeat music playing]
Don't be a pussy.
I'm not familiar with these birds.
I don't think he likes me.
I know.
No.
[banjo music playing]
Tonight is our first night in Miami,
and I have signed Jasmine and I up for some salsa dancing lessons.
Jasmine seems extra stressed about the wedding planning,
but I just want Jasmine to have a good time and,
you know, be happy with each other again.
Yeah, that's the spirit.
Do you see?
All right, guys, let's get ready for a salsa class.
My history with salsa dancing
with Jasmine is I've not been very good. [laughs]
[Gino] I'm trying to.
[Jasmine] Babe...
Just move.
I would describe my dancing as like John Travolta, you know?
Just kidding.
Um, yeah, I need a lot of work with my dancing.
Five, six, seven, and one, two,
three, and five, six, seven.
-Let's do it? -All right, ready.
Come on.
Every time that I try to practice with Gino,
[laughs]
Yeah, you're great!
Okay, the other step, you remember?
I'm kind of traumatized about our previous experiences.
No, no!
Yay!
-Whoo! -Oh, my gosh!
I'm amazed!
You're doing great!
[upbeat music playing]
-Mmm, delicious. I love this. -How's your coffee?
-It's a good cappuccino. -I know.
It's starting to feel like the old Jasmine and Gino
when things were good and we were happy
and having a good time together.
Look at that view. You can see the whole city.
South Point Park Pier.
This is exactly what I wanted out of Miami.
Yeah. Good.
And the pictures, you know, and he's like, yes,
Mommy, send me all the pictures, all the videos.
And look at what he said.
He said, Mommy, [in Spanish]
Tell Papa Gino that I love him so much.
Oh, really?
And yes, Papa Gino, [in Spanish]
And that I'm learning English.
Oh, wow.
He's dreaming of coming here with us.
No, I really look forward to the day that we are able
to bring your kids over here.
I would like to have the chance to be like,
you know, a father figure.
That's so sweet, baby. Trust me, once especially,
he sees you as a dad figure already.
-And I can tell. -Yeah, I mean, I can kind of feel that.
Right?
A bonus dad, but a good one.
But, you know, I want to be more than a bonus dad, too.
I want to like to try to be a real dad.
Being a bonus dad is being a real dad.
-It is real. -It is real.
I would like to have one child of my own.
At least one would be nice.
I'm, like, almost mid-50s now.
I'd like to try to do it soon.
I'm not... ready.
[sighs] I have some very personal fears...
And I have never opened myself about how I really feel.
Gino has no idea what I went through.
I am like some sugar mama to you,
and the sex part you get from the other bitches.
Oh, so you want to have threesomes.
I feel like, why are we even together?
You really want to admit me to the nut house, don't you?
What?
I just moved here and he going to jail,
like, it's just a lot for me.
I'm still upset about it.
I can see it in her eyes that she's having second thoughts.
[dramatic music playing]
Since I've told Citra about not filing the paperwork
on time, like, she's been real quiet.
I can see it in her eyes that she's having second thoughts,
like, did she make the right choice coming here to be with me?
And if I could be facing jail time,
like, I'm not going to be around.
Why would she want to stay around for that?
Like, I know it's on me. I have nobody to blame but me.
But I hope I don't lose her.
You look all nice today.
Um, you, after sleeping on the, what I told you last,
yesterday, like, how are you doing?
I'm still upset about it...
Uh...
It's like a 2,000-pound weight off my shoulders
hearing that she's still gonna stand by me.
You're welcome. I'm sorry, baby.
I was scared to death.
The woman I love, like, I thought maybe I lost her
for a second, but there's just no words to explain it.
I hope your dad takes it as well.
No, but I'm gonna have to.
I get him.
Mm-hmm.
I have a special way to punish you for keeping a secret.
And what would that be?
It's gonna be something special.
Special or spicy?
Burn me a new ass [bleep] in other words?
Mm-hmm.
[coughs]
And this is safe to eat?
[Sam] Yeah.
I already, like, put, like, a, you know,
Every meal in Indonesia, like, mostly nowadays,
they're spicy because Indonesian people, they like spicy.
-It's her survivor kit. -No spicy, no life.
It's because they burnt their taste buds so much
they can't taste it unless there's a pound of
-spice in it. -Yeah.
[coughs]
Baby, I don't know.
The American woman's starting to sound good.
It's just such a level of burning, numbing your tongue.
Like, I can handle it.
It's just other parts of me can't handle it.
Getting a good case of IBS from loving this one.
But it's worth it.
So good, baby.
So good.
-[sniffing] -[chuckles]
[bleats]
Okay?
[sighs]
[Nikki] If you invested as much as I did,
I think that you would feel something like what I'm feeling right now.
I feel like now I am like...
some sugar mama to you, and the sex part you get
from the other bitches.
That's what I feel like.
Try what?
Just sex?
Oh, so you want to have threesomes.
Oh, my goodness.
A lot of things try with you.
You really want to admit me to the nut house, don't you?
What?
-It's sometimes... maybe going to happen. -I was explorative
and experimental in my 20s.
Like, I did all this stuff.
Really?
Very close.
I'm wondering if the reason
why he wants to have this threesome is honestly mostly
it's just because of my gender, you know?
And me not being born biologically female,
I feel like I'm not enough.
I feel like, why are we even together?
Like, why don't you just go be with another woman?
[sighs] So much for our romantic getaway.
I don't know if Justin loves to get a reaction out of me
because he knows that I can go crazy, you know?
And I think that either he likes to get me jealous
or he literally is serious.
And I don't know which one is it.
We seriously need to have a talk.
Because a lot of things are really upsetting me.
First, the part with you saying that you didn't find
what we were doing.
um, anything important, that it was just, like,
we were just talking, right?
Okay, fine.
But I was already having unprotected sex with you.
So, like, how many partners?
-I'm always protecting myself. -You always protect yourself?
-Yeah. -Yeah?
Okay. How many girls?
Mmm...
Okay.
Now...
In the car, you also was like, "Oh, I want the threesome."
Hon... I'm 47 years old. I'm ready to settle down.
I did all this playing and doing all this, like,
sex experimenting, exploring when I was younger.
And I've been with girls. I've been in a two-guys [bleep] me.
I've been with two girls [bleep] me and a guy.
I've been [bleep]
Yes, I tried all of it.
I did it once upon a time. I even had three guys [bleep] me in Paris.
That didn't work too well. It was too much.
But still, your sex drive with me is at its worst.
-I talk about these things in the future. -Huh? No.
Not now.
-Oh, in the future. -Now I want to focus on us.
So after we're married and we have our vows,
you want to do these threesomes?
-Are you serious? -Now we're talking.
We're just talking.
[Nikki]You know, at this point, I've been thinking and...
[sighs]
I've been thinking so much about where
I want to go with this relationship.
Do I want to end it? Do I want to continue?
Do I want to deal with him cheating on me or feeling like
it's not cheating, dealing with these, like, games?
And I'm just trying to, like,
process all this right now because it's a lot.
Everything that you've been telling me is,
like, you just kept on living your life. Like, I was nothing.
Like, I was a piece of [bleep].
I just don't know what to think for our future together.
Ah, my Lord.
[sighs]
More money, more problems.
I don't want to disrespect her in any way,
but this whole not telling her dad thing
is also causing her to hide you from her life.
I know that these things tend to spiral and I would hate
to see something like that happen to him.
Honestly, man, she has some uncertainty about you.
[upbeat music playing]
[cell phone chimes]
[doorbell rings]
We go swapping. We have a visitor.
Are you excited?
-Hi. -Ashley.
How are you?
♪ To find love ♪
♪ We'd fight until the break of dawn is up♪
Oh, my God.
[Ashley] Manuel's best friend, Jonathan, lives in New York City.
It's been a year since Manuel and Jonathan have seen each other.
Like, I'm talking probably like six years plus.
Oh, yeah.
Since he's been here... [continues in Spanish]
How did you learn English? Like, did you take any classes
or did you just kind of go for it?
Like, how did you learn?
Street? Mm-hmm. Exactly.
I think it's time for you guys to go enjoy Rochester a little bit.
Get out of the house.
It has been such a challenge for Manuel to connect with my friends,
so this is one of the reasons why I invited Jonathan to come see Manuel,
cheer him up, and then also to be able to speak in his language.
I remember all the traveling I did,
and at a point in time, just wanting to hear some English.
And so, I know that he's probably at that point.
[in Spanish]
[in English] More money, more problems.
[laughs]
[speaking Spanish]
[upbeat music playing]
♪ Those eyes like a loaded gun ♪
♪ And your hands on the trigger ♪
It's our first morning waking up in San Diego,
and Anali is not happy with me.
She has been mad at me for oversharing our private life,
but our private life affects me too,
so I'm just getting advice from my friend
and his girlfriend about something that affects me directly.
Chiquis.
-Hola. - [speaking in Spanish]
Mmm.
[in English] I'm sorry, honey.
[in Spanish]
sister wife.
Thank you.
-What's going on, big boss? -What's up, man?
You ready to learn how to dance, man?
-Let's do it, bro. -All right, give me another hug.
-You ready to get your groove on? -Yeah.
Anali has been making fun of me recently,
saying that I dance like a tree.
Hello.
-Welcome, welcome. -Who's teaching me how to dance?
-Both of us. -Oh, come on.
So I found a Peruvian dance instructor that's going to
teach me to dance to impress Anali at our wedding.
So we're gonna do the Marinera Nortena,
which is the national dance of Peru.
-Okay, all right. -It's gonna be for you.
This is for you, too.
And then we have the hats.
-Since you get to groom, you get the big one. -Okay.
-You get the little one. -I got a bigger head, I think.
-Let's get started. -[Clayton] All right.
I wouldn't exactly consider myself a graceful person.
Bow.
All right, I'm not doing very good so far.
It's all good.
There you go. Catch yourself.
I feel like I'm limping. Am I limping?
Yes.
That's an A for effort, right?
Definitely.
-Speed it up just a little bit. -No, you got to speed up.
And float. Think of floating.
Awesome, Clayton.
There he goes.
Clayton is doing better than I expected, in all honesty.
He can get his shoulders and hips moving more than
I expected, so I give him that.
And music ends. Dun, dun.
-That's it. -[all clapping]
-All right, thank you. -Good job, man.
That was awesome.
-All right, bye. -Bye, guys.
Take care.
How do you think dance class went, man?
-I'm gonna be honest, bro. -I didn't know you had it in you.
That was better than I expected.
I think she's gonna like it, man.
-This is a cool little area you're in here. -Yeah, for real.
How do you feel about Anali last night?
Kind of like your guys' first really, like, sit-down, you know?
Look, man, I think Anali's a great girl,
and I don't want to disrespect her in any way,
but just I know you, and I don't want you to be hurt.
So, I mean, there's just a lot of things going on.
Like, you guys aren't having sex.
Not only that, but this whole not telling her dad thing
is also causing her to essentially hide you from her life.
Really, what I truly want to do is be like,
"Hey, Anali, you need to do it kind of like now-ish,
or I'm going to do it myself."
But I think that would just not end well,
and she would threaten or actually break it off.
And, you know, but then I have to think,
if that would be a possibility, is that a relationship
that I want to be in anyway?
Yeah.
Honestly, man, I think the reason behind
all of these things happening is she also has some
uncertainty about you.
I don't know, man.
You're about to get married.
I just don't want to see you hurt, man.
I think you need to take some time to reflect to yourself
what an ideal marriage and lifelong commitment
-would look like to you. -Mm-hmm.
Ultimately, it's you who has to live with you
and your mind and her if you do choose to go with her.
I understand what you mean, man.
[Kameron]I think in Clayton's head, he is very anxious about
losing his girl and losing his source of happiness right now.
However, I think that it's a little bit of a veil
because the source of happiness may not be exactly
what he thinks it is.
And I know that these things tend to spiral
and I would hate to see something like that happen to him.
-Oh, you're pretty aggressive. -Oh.
She's not aggressive. She's just joking.
Between both of them, I'm always one word away
from saying the wrong thing.
I know deep down you want to say something to me.
I can feel it. You want to say something to me.
I could always say something.
[dramatic music playing]
[gasps] Oh, my God, oh, my God, oh, my God, oh, my God, oh, my God.
-Oh, my God. Come in. -Hello.
Oh, my God, oh, my God.
You look so beautiful.
Oh, my God.
Don't cry.
Hello.
Hey.
I like your hair.
-Thank you. -Did it get it?
Oh, bubba.
Do you want to sit down?
I've been worried about my Sophie because
I've just been so scared, her living in L.A.
all by herself with an unsupported boyfriend.
And I'm hoping Rob just isn't just Rob the Knob anymore
and just sort of ups his game and starts being a grown-up
because I just think he's a bit immature.
I want to hear what's going on.
We're here to see you. How was your flight?
-It was good. -Was it stressful?
[Rob] Yeah.
No, I made lots of mistakes, dropped lots of things.
But, no, it was good.
It was good.
So, when is it all happening, the wedding?
Uh, the 16th.
Okay, so am I helping with that?
Totally. You should help her with that.
You know I have no idea how weddings go.
Neither does she.
Do you think you still need the stuff like,
I think it's something borrowed, something blue,
something old, and something new?
[Rob] No, I think that's...
-I think that's like some... -No, no, no, I think it's a thing.
That's like some '80s [bleep] right there.
because I think it would be fun.
Okay.
I'll throw it to you.
I mean, it's a super small wedding, so...
And my sister's already married,
so... I'm pretty sure it'll be between you
and my mom on catching that.
-I need to get married. -[Rob] I don't doubt it.
My mom's a tiny lady, so it's not like...
She's super tiny and not aggressive,
so she's not gonna...
I don't think so.
Oh, you're pretty aggressive.
You're gonna, like you just said,
you'll knock my mom to the floor.
That's pretty aggressive in itself.
Oh.
She's not aggre... She's just joking.
Right, but that's kind of... Her mom... Your mom to my mom?
The energy?
-My mom is super... -Yeah. My mom's joking.
She's not gonna knock your mom to the floor.
-It's a joke. -I know it's a joke, but it's still...
No, he said, [bleep] as if I'm going to be at
-your wedding and knock a woman to the floor. -Right.
My mom's very sarcastic and jokey.
You guys are taking me literal.
I didn't take you literal.
See, this is exactly why I'm always on edge when Claire's around.
It's like we're joking, everything's good,
and then if I say, you know, a joke back,
now we want to take it personal or make it negative.
It just feels like between both of them,
I'm always one word away from saying the wrong thing.
See, you know... I know deep down you want
to say something to me, because the way you're sitting,
your body language is all about... I can feel it.
You want to say something to me?
-I could always say something. -Goodness, say it.
-I always have something. -I think we need to... Because I don't want
to be the mother-in-law that you hate.
I don't hate you. That's not what I'm going to say.
Oh, you don't hate me?
I don't think he gets you, but it's fine.
Oh, I get you.
-I get both of y'all. -You don't get me.
-No, I don't think you do. -Get both of y'all.
I can see why you argue, because when we talked about
the bouquet and me tucking your mother to the floor,
which was a joke,
you literally didn't take it as a joke.
-I didn't take it seriously. -You got--
-He doesn't get British humor. -No, he doesn't get it.
[Sophie] No, he does. He is.
Anyway, so tomorrow I'm going to come
and see your place, yeah?
I guess so.
I'm excited to see it.
[Claire] I'm dreading seeing the house,
'cause I can tell by their faces,
it's obviously not very good.
Because he's a lovely guy, beautiful looking,
I get that, but you can, you know, there's only so long
you can stare at a beautiful painting
before you get bored, so...
-Good seeing you. -It's all right, son.
Yeah, I'm glad I'm here.
-Bye. -[Claire] See you later.
[speaking in Spanish]
He's trying to dictate how I spend my money.
I don't like that.
So are you telling me I'm not supporting you right now?
Is that what you're saying?
I brought you here on my back with no cosigner.
How are you going to sit here and say that you don't feel supported by me?
It's, like, disrespectful.
[upbeat music playing]
[Spanish music playing]
[exclaims]
Tell me, what happened last night?
I want to know all the tea. Give me all the gossip.
What [bleep] did you talk about me?
[in Spanish]
Okay, okay, okay. Okay.
Can you, like, help me figure this out?
Like... I'm noticing Manuel doesn't really like
to spend money on himself.
And I feel like I work hard, so if I want to spend money on myself, I'm going to.
So, like, why is how we spend money, like,
so important to him?
I just feel like Manuel thinks that the money that
I spend on myself could be put towards helping his family.
Directly. That's how I feel.
[speaking in Spanish]
[in English] I don't like this.
It's coming out of my pocket. This could go to my light bill.
And I'm taking it out of my purse to give to a family
that he is keeping me separated from.
I'm paying all these bills on my own.
He gets on my nerves with this topic because
he's trying to dictate how I spend my money.
I don't like that.
I'm not going to not take care of myself for your bill.
I take a lot of offense to that, and I might cry.
[in English] I need a minute.
I can't. He just hurt my [bleep] feelings.
I'm not supporting him. He doesn't feel [bleep] supported by me.
All I am doing is supporting him.
The food you eat is the food that I bought.
The cell phone you use is the phone that I bought.
I give you love, I give you affection.
We're banging it out multiple times a day.
How else can you feel supported by me?
I brought you here on my back with no cosigner.
How are you gonna sit here and say that you don't feel
supported by me?
How are you gonna say that?
It's, like, disrespectful.
[Gino] It's really painful to see her so emotional.
I feel helpless, 'cause there's not much I can really do about it.
[sniffles]
[line ringing]
He was seeing a couple of girls for sex.
Then he says things to me like,
[imitates Justin] I very much want a threesome.
[speaking other language]
Okay. How can I say it?
I love my kids
more than my own life.
-You know? I love them. -Hmm-hmm.
But one of the hardest things that I have experienced
as a mom...
You know?
Look at you. You picture your son
or your daughter like, oh, I'll do this.
I'll do that. And then...
Reality is different.
What if we have a kid, and...
Before I agreed to marry Gino, we made the decision
that both of my kids will have to come to America.
I have two sons, Juance and JC.
I share custody with my ex-husband.
People are very mean.
And I just confirm that once I have my son,
-because people are mean. -Some people.
Some people.
[sniffles]
[sobs]
You're still a human being, and we're gonna take care of him, right?
You can't predict it.
-Exactly. -You can't predict it.
It scares me, baby. It's my fault.
-I ruined him. -It's not your fault.
How do you know that? Even doctors cannot tell.
Why?
Still a child, you know, there's no difference whether
he has a disability or not.
That's the way you should look at it.
Nothing is your fault. Don't think it's your fault.
It's really painful to see Jasmine so emotional
and, you know, sad.
And the thing is, I feel helpless 'cause
there's not much I can really do about it.
So it just makes me sad to see her like this.
I just want to assure her that,
you know, whatever happens with us
in regards to children, whether we have a child or not,
I will always be there for her no matter what,
and I'm not going to abandon her.
You're such a kind soul.
Oh, you're so beautiful.
Oh, I'm lucky to have you, too.
Yeah.
And my children are lucky to have you, too.
And if we ever have a baby...
You can do whatever you want.
I just need to talk to my mom.
[line ringing]
Hey, Mom.
-How are you?-I'm good.
So tell me how everything's going, hon. I haven't heard from you.
How's everything going? Everything's good?
I had the biggest hangover this morning,
and I went to breakfast with Justin,
and we got into this conversation.
Um...
He basically stated that he was seeing some girl,
a couple girls, for sex, like, you know, just to whatever.
Wait, wait.
Let's back up a little bit here.
He was basically not taking our relationship seriously
until he, like, proposed to me.
Remember when I told you all those times where
I was calling him and he was always on the road?
Or times where he just ignored my text messages
and got nasty with me on the phone?
There were times on our vacations where
it felt like there was a blockage,
like there was somebody he was dating
and he was an ass [bleep] to me on purpose?
I felt so many things.
I knew it.
But it's like I had the feeling in my gut.
Is he really being honest, honest with you?
It seems like now he is, but then he says things
to me like,
[imitates Justin] "Oh, I very much want a threesome.
I've never done threesome."
-Never what? -You know, mom.
Threesome.
Two girls and him.
And Mom...
[sighs]
[dramatic music playing]
[speaking other language]
You want a relationship. You want a husband.
You want him to come here to get a job
and be serious with you.
-That's what you want. -Right.
Okay?
I mean, no.
No.
Absolutely not.
No.
I mean, you deserve it.
[in English] Ivan he tells me be more man in this relationship.
And I think that's true.
Mom, and just in a few days,
we're supposed to have an engagement celebration.
I know, well, you know what?
You don't have to have it.
That's where I'm at right now.
That's where I'm deciding what I want to do.
I mean, I know you love him, and I know he loves you too.
I know he loves me, but this is a lot.
But, um, yeah, I'm gonna have to figure it out.
It's been the roller coaster.
I'm really drained today.
Like, it's been a long day for me.
And I'm tired.
I'm exhausted.
Maybe I'm overreacting.
But for me, my motto is trust is earned, never given.
And there's a lot I have to think about.
I came all the way here, and now I'm contemplating
the K1, our relationship, and our engagement celebration.
All three in that order.
All right, Mom, I'm gonna let you go, but I love you.
All right, honey, love you. Take it easy.
All right.
Oh, my God.
-This is Citra, Mom. -[Citra] Finally, we meet.
I know from the past and, like, living with my mom,
all it takes is one second for anything to blow.
It's Armageddon.
What would happen if Sam didn't want to convert?
Would he get to still marry you?
[upbeat music playing]
[Sam] Me and Citra, we're heading to my mom's house right now,
and they're gonna meet for the first time,
so fingers crossed.
Let's hope it goes well.
You want to put it somewhere stable right here?
I grew up with my mom for, like, my early years,
and we were pretty close, but since,
like, teenage years, we've kind of been estranged,
and there's been a big distance.
But even though we've been estranged for,
like, over the last 10 years,
she recently kind of resurfaced in my life
and is back in the area, back in Cameron,
and we're trying to rebuild things
and build that relationship back up.
There's a reason I keep my distance from my mother, though.
So, just...
If it goes fine, fine, but just...
I told you, she's kind of crazy.
She'll be nice and sweet to you, but...
don't judge me off of her.
Part of me wants to keep Citra and my mom apart
just because on one side, my mom's side,
they were really religious.
And I hate saying it, but more of those,
they love to preach but don't follow what they say.
Who knows what's going on in my mom's head or like
she might think that Muslims don't wash up or like...
use toilet paper.
It could just be something weird.
Hopefully she just doesn't say obscene things
and asking her all kinds of questions, overloading her.
She's gonna love you.
She's so gonna love you.
[Sam] That's it.
It doesn't look too bad.
[Citra] But I hope, like, everything gonna be okay
between me and his mom because I don't have my mom anymore,
so that's why I need his mom to be my second mom.
-Hi. -Oh, my God.
This is Citra, Mom.
-[Citra] Finally, we get to meat. -I'm really glad to meet you.
-Another daughter. -This is her.
We have too many boys, need more girls.
[Citra] I know.
No, I'm joking.
You can come here and meet my mother, which would be Grandma.
[Citra] Yeah.
-Mom, this is Citra, and this is Trebreh. -Hi, Citra.
-Hi.
-I've heard tons about you. -[all laughing]
Yeah, from North Carolina.
I did this, Citra, just for you.
-No. -[all laughing]
What is it?
Rendang.
Coconut? You know how much I love coconut?
You remember your old Salsa?
You look good, Sammy. I love you.
She's one of my favorite grandma.
[Sam] I'm trying to play it cool, but I just,
I know from the past and like living with my mom,
all it takes is one second for anything to blow.
It's Armageddon, so...
Nervous.
Definitely nervous.
So what do you think of it here,
just in the United States of Missouri?
It's quiet.
-Quiet? -Not that busy, like, where I live.
It's not busy?
She's used to, like, motorbike towns and motorbikes.
Like the pictures I've seen of you.
Those are my favorite pictures ever.
They are.
We're going to be getting married in a few days,
-and... me and her. -Who?
Oh.
And you're invited, by the way.
-You better be there. -Yes, I'll be there.
-Don't worry. -Yeah.
It is nice. Like, I have grandma.
You'll have to get used to me, okay?
Okay.
I am excited about them getting married,
but this is honestly something new for me.
So are you having a Muslim ceremony?
Yeah. That's good.
What became of your conversion?
Is that all settled and done?
Uh, we're still finding a mosque to, like, do it at,
setting up an appointment, and we gotta do it here soon.
I don't believe anybody should have to change
their ways or beliefs just to marry somebody.
You should love them no matter what, you know?
I mean, there's some things you shouldn't maybe marry to,
like, I'm gonna be blunt about this, witchcraft.
But, you know, again,
If I could have it my way, I'm not going to stand here and lie.
I would love to see her and her family serving
the same God as I do. Absolutely.
What would happen if Sam didn't wanna do it?
Would he get to still marry you?
Would you just call it off?
[chuckles]
As a Christian, going to a Muslim ceremony...
I don't know how to explain this.
How do you go to something that you don't approve of?
I'm glad you guys got to meet her,
and I hope you better make it to the wedding.
I approve of them marrying, but not of the Muslim way.
All right, we're heading out, Grandma.
What, baby?
We're heading out, but I'm so glad you guys got to meet her.
-Oh, me too. -Nice to meet you.
And you tell me if he's bad.
I'll straighten him out, okay?
-I will. -Okay.
[Citra] He's bad all the time.
-Bye-bye. -[Sam] Mom, I love you guys.
[Deedee] Bye, hon.
Be well.
Okay.
Were they better than I warned you of?
Yeah, they're nice.
She acted better about the, like, conversion
than I thought she would.
Yeah, which is nice.
But it's probably because you were here and around.
You know that's why she threw in that, like,
if I don't convert, would you leave me?
Mm-hmm.
To be honest, I kind of have some faith
going on there that this whole thing's going to turn out okay.
I really do.
[softly] Maybe.
[chuckles] Maybe.
[speaking in Spanish]
[in English]Like, is she in danger?
Like, why is she so worried about it that she's crying?
Like, she seems scared.
[bleep]
[upbeat music playing]
[Clayton] Surprise.
It's Kameron.
[in Spanish]
[in English] Good.
Hmm.
-[laughs] -So I just wanted to come say my goodbyes.
So this is the last time that I'm gonna be able to see you.
[in Spanish]
Come here, bring it in.
Adios.
-All right, see you, brother. -Good to see you, man.
Are we gonna do a handshake or a hug, bro?
-I mean, we do both, you know? -All right, man.
-Good to see you. -Good to see you, brother.
-See you soon. -Take care.
It's a big relief to know that meeting Kameron
after 13 years is the exact same as online.
It's like, it's pretty much like a seamless transition.
Best friends goes both ways, right?
So, I don't know.
I'm glad that the interaction was mutual.
Speaking with Kameron has made me realize that
we don't really have a lot of time left.
So I'm cooking Anali a special dinner,
and I'm planning on talking to Anali about her dad
not knowing about our relationship.
We'll be having a nice meal, having a good day.
I think this will be a good time to resolve
the things that we need to resolve.
Um...
-Bye. -Bye.
[Clayton in English]I have no idea why Anali is crying about this.
You know, it makes me wonder
if there's something else going on.
Like, is she in danger?
Like, why is she so worried about it that she's crying?
Like, she seems scared.
Hello.
[bleep]
This is our humble abode.
[Claire]
[Sophie]
[Claire] It's sad.
They shouldn't be living there right now.
I think you could have done more.
Neither of y'all can sit here and tell me about
what I should have done and what I should have,
because neither of you guys have ever been at the bottom.
Do you want me to put some gel in your hair?
Yeah, if you want to.
So much hair.
Watch it.
Okay.
Yeah.
♪ Baby, I don't know Tell me what you're thinking♪
I'mma be nice. I promise I'm gonna be nice.
Thank you. I appreciate that.
Well, when you start seeing it, you know me.
You see the energy.
I can only take so much, so I need you...
I need you to also be aware of what's happening
so that if she's making digs, maybe just remind her that
Rob hears everything.
This morning, Sophie's mom will be coming to
my house, and I'm nervous because
I know that she's super over-opinionated
and just says things before thinking,
and I'm like, you know, is she gonna come into this spot
and just rip me apart, or what?
I don't know.
I'm just hoping that she can... I don't know.
I don't know what I'm hoping. I'm nervous.
[cell phone dings]
She said, "I'm here, I think."
Okay, so let's go out there and see if she's really here or not.
Yeah, I should probably go to the street and check on her,
'cause she doesn't want to be walking around in the hood.
[Claire] Oh, my God.
-[Sophie] Well, well, well. -[Claire] Well, well, well.
-You look nice. -Oh, my God, you look beautiful.
-You look nice. -I like your dress.
-Oh, my God. -Hey, Rob.
Hey. Damn, you look good.
I'm really nervous to see where you live.
-I've got anxiety. -It's not that bad.
You want to lead the way?
-So you got the flower entrance. -I like this pretty gate.
-Yeah. -Yeah, the courtyard's cute.
Yeah.
I will show you in the house.
And the bathroom's through there.
[Rob] That second door is our bathroom.
Oh, so you don't have a bathroom in your house?
Okay.
Ta-da!
This is our humble abode.
Very humble.
[Sophie] This is the kitchen.
This is our dining room with no dining table or chair.
This is the bed and sofa and chilling area.
And that is it.
[Claire] So this is where you live?
For now.
For me, this was fine while I was living here by myself,
trying to figure things out.
[stammers] I don't know what to say.
Is it safe here?
Yeah.
I think somebody was just playing with
their [bleep] in their backyard.
To be honest, for Rob's place, the courtyard's really cute
and everything, but for her, it wasn't what I visualized
for Sophie to be getting married into.
Yeah, they shouldn't be living there right now.
This is my area.
Listen, it's your home, and the courtyard's beautiful.
What I don't get is...
You knew she was coming?
[Rob] Yeah.
Why wasn't there... Why haven't you sorted out
a different place, a bigger place?
Because in the last two and a half years,
I've been putting a lot of money into just us being together.
I mean, the traveling, the... Everywhere we've had to stay.
I mean, we literally lived in Playa for two months,
so that was rent money going to a whole 'nother spot.
In the two years, if you... Like, I don't want to say that term.
It's not the right term to say.
-Like... No, I can't say it. -What?
Like, a real man would be like,
Soph, we can't see each other.
I know we want to be together,
but we need to put all this money in,
so by the time you get here,
we've got a deposit, we can move into
a one-bedroom place, we'll have space in a safe place.
You've just basically moved yourself into a man cave.
The whole idea of a real man is supposed to...
tell his woman, like, all right, we're not gonna
see each other for a year so that we can get a spot.
That's ridiculous.
Instead, a couple months of dealing with the spot
and then finding a spot together,
that seems way more accessible and way more like
me and her will actually get to be together.
I really, truly, like, stand true to this.
I think you could have done more.
You two are in this situation because you didn't put
enough effort into saving up for it.
And whether you like it or not, she can't work.
You knew when she got here, she can't work.
[Sophie]I'm trying not to take my mom's side,
but it's like, everything my mom's saying,
I agree with, and everything Rob's saying, he's just acting defensive.
He's being the same old Rob that he always is,
so she can't get anywhere with him.
I just, I don't know. I just, I don't know what to say.
I think we're doing just fine.
I mean, I agree that you did know the situation was gonna be in,
and when I came here, you didn't have a job
lined up already.
So what haven't I done from your perspective?
-'Cause you've obviously been here a little bit more. -You knew I was coming here.
You knew I couldn't work. You haven't had a job secured.
You haven't had the place secured.
There could have been a lot of things you could have done better.
There was months I was saying, "When are you going to get a job?
When are you going to get a job?"
You're like, oh, yeah, soon, soon, soon. You didn't get a job.
Y'all and these opinions is blowing my [bleep] mind.
Neither of y'all can sit here and tell me about
what I should have done and what I should have
because neither of you guys have ever been at the bottom.
If you've never lived on your own
and had to do it on your own,
then shut up trying to tell somebody else
what they should be doing.
You don't know what the hell being at the bottom is
unless and whenever you have ever been at the bottom,
you just make a phone call and you're back up.
That's easy enough for you guys, but I don't have that.
It makes me feel like fully [bleep].
Not even the slightest bit. I have zero help.
I have zero help from anybody.
And you're going to tell me you have zero help?
-Yeah, I do. -That's a bald-faced lie.
[Claire] Yeah, that's what you think.
I'm confrontational.
I'm trying not to be.
But they brought it out of me.
And I can't really go back from that.
Judge, judge, judge, and act like y'all been through it all.
That's bull [bleep].
[Justin] Next time on 90 Day Fiance...
Baby...
What is that?
[in Spanish]
[Jasmine]Gino has shown me nothing but love during this trip,
but I've been feeling guilty because I have lied to Gino
and I have hide things that I shouldn't have.
-Awesome. -Thank you.
Enjoy.
Before I convert, I want to have some fun.
There you go.
You did it, love.
I'm about to meet her dad again.
And if I don't impress her dad and make him trust me,
then, like, there's no wedding, there's nothing.
[speaking Indonesian]
[speaking in Spanish]
But why I got to see you [bleep] a girl,
another girl, and me?
-Yes. -Why?
[laughs]
That's really so disrespectful that you can [bleep] laugh in my face.
You don't take accountability for when you do something wrong.
-You don't want to hear it because you're the man. -Stop, stop.
Here we go.
Act like a little child. Run away.
I don't have time for this [bleep].
[in Spanish]
Sex doesn't make all the problems go away,
even though it's a good time.
Y'all just want to [bleep] judge, judge, judge,
and act like y'all been through it all. That's bull [bleep].
It's, like, actually ridiculous like a child.
Like, grow up.
[Rob] They can't accept that they're not right.
Like, get the [bleep] out of here with that [bleep].