[Gino] Previously on 90 Day Fiance...
[speaking in Spanish]
[in English] I've been feeling guilty because I have lied to Gino.
When I wanted the surgery,
the only person who could provide that money to me was...
There you go.
-[laughs] -You did it though. You did it.
My biggest concerns about converting is it's so easy to slip up.
How are you?
[Sam] And if I don't impress her dad
and make him trust me,
then like there's no wedding. There's nothing.
[speaking in foreign language]
[Citra speaking in English]
[Clayton speaking in Spanish]
[Clayton speaking in English]I'm not even asking for that much.
It's been over two years.
Just tell your parents you're in a relationship.
[speaking in Spanish]
[speaking in English]
[Justin speaking]
You're not getting a threesome
until the intimacy comes first.
Here we go. Act like a little child.
[Nikki] Run away like you always do,
throwing your little man-trums.
It turned like from bad to worse
back to bad and then to weird.
Sex doesn't make all the problems go away,
even though it's a good time.
And just because you're married,
it's not magically gonna change things--
But I do have faith that we can work through our problems.
I have to have faith.
Y'all just wanna [bleep] judge, judge, judge.
That's bull [bleep].
It feels like Sophie's not on my team.
There's not one thought about "That's my future husband.
Maybe I should be worried about fixing this."
If you don't mind, I'd like Sophie to stay with me tonight.
I am furious.
He thinks everyone else in the world is wrong,
except for Rob.
He makes you think that. He's talking nonsense--
All the time.
I know it's your dream. I know you love him.
And I know you know you can see the good in him.
And you being around him 24/7,
I guarantee within six months, you won't be the Sophie that I know.
You will be depressed.
All your little sparkle will go.
All your dreams will go.
You can't be around that.
-You okay? -Yeah.
I guess.
So...
I mean, how-- what do you think you're gonna do now?
-Yeah, I think that's what you need to do. -Thank you.
[Claire speaking]
He just messaged me.
What did he say?
He sent me a video of a nice car
and said, "This could be ours."
Oh, he's in damage control.
-He's like panicking. -All right. Give me, give me it back.
-I wanna see. -He's gone from doing nothing, playing the victim,
to go, "Hey. This is what we're gonna get, babe."
So, he sent me that video as if that didn't just happen.
-I mean, he's in-- He's panicking. -He's panicking
'cause I'm with you.
Yeah. He's thinks I'm the antichrist,
and I'm gonna brainwash you.
'Cause if he thought I was in the wrong,
he would not reach out to me.
He would not say anything.
That's him trying to--
'Cause he won't say sorry.
He wasn't gonna message me saying sorry.
But he'll kind of try and change the subject.
That's what he's done.
I want him to really just like sit with himself,
not me, himself alone in the house,
and realize that I could leave if he keeps acting like this.
'Cause I don't think he thinks it's real.
'Cause I always just am-- I'm with him.
But I feel like this is kind of what we needed
-and, you know. -Yeah.
I think you've gotten to him a little bit as well.
Good.
[Sophie]After what's went down,
I understand people make mistakes,
which is fine, as long as people apologize
and admit that they're wrong sometimes,
which is completely fine.
So what I want from Rob when I do speak to him
is for him to apologize.
And if he doesn't apologize, that's gonna really bother me
because it kind of shows he doesn't care about other people's feelings
and he won't take accountability
and he doesn't realize he's doing things wrong.
So I don't think I wanna marry someone like that.
Really?
Well, I'm actually shocked.
I'm like kind of glad that you're actually not delusional.
That you think--
My mom is definitely like making me realize
some things that I have--
'cause like I do like to push-- like, in my mind,
I like to push the negative realities out
and I like to hope for the best.
Thank you.
[Sophie] But it's like maybe I should be more realistic with myself,
and realize that, like, you know...
it's not looking good at the moment
for me and Rob.
All right, if you decide you're gonna marry him,
I mean, I don't believe it's gonna work.
I'm not-- I hope it does.
But, man. God, it worries me that you're gonna lose your happiness and peace
to be with someone like that.
[Nikki] You're such a gentleman, opening up my door.
Do you remember why I came here to Moldova?
'Cause it wasn't to fight with you, so.
How did I start--
I-- Did I get up in the middle of the night--
Okay. Did I get up in the middle of the night
after our fight, and I touched your chest
and I-- I touched you and I said,
"Please, come to bed with me, baby"?
And you got up, right?
-Yes. -And you came. Okay!
So, then, why are you so upset today?
I-- What do you mean? I got up and got ready
and did my hair, did my makeup.
-I knew we were gonna go horseback riding-- -No, no, no.
What is the [bleep] problem?
You always make something like into something more.
I don't think all about myself.
I do think about you a lot and I do a lot...
in our relationship--
-Really? -Yes.
Okay.
[speaking in foreign language]
[Justin speaking in English]
So it's all me, right?
I have to change everything?
I? Me? Alone?
I have to change everything?
-Because I'm your guest. -But--
If you're staying with me in the United States,
I'm gonna be doing mostly everything.
What are you saying, Igor?
There is a huge, huge cultural thing with cooking, cleaning.
He's accustomed to women, this is how they treat their men.
And I'm learning.
But it feels like an excuse.
He obviously can't handle someone like me.
And I don't know if that's ever gonna change.
[sighs] Oh.
[sighs]
[speaking in Spanish]
[Ashley in English]I cannot believe this is happening here,
Manuel deciding to have another bitch-fit.
We're going in circles.
[speaking in Spanish]
[in English] Even though you're the one that brought up money.
Not me.
Did she come out and start attacking you?
Or did you say something to her?
Gino's ex-girlfriend really ruined my life.
She was blackmailing me for a while.
And I blame Gino.
[speaking in Spanish]
[upbeat pop music playing]
[in English] Oh, my God!
[speaking in Spanish]
[Ashley in English]We are in Niagara Falls
and it is a huge surprise for Manuel.
He's been talking about Niagara Falls
since before he even moved here.
Just over here are the waterfalls.
[speaking in foreign language]
[Manuel in English] Ooh la la.
[speaking in Spanish]
[in English] Wow.
[Manuel speaking in Spanish]
[in English] Yeah. No words.
[speaking in Spanish]
[Ashley in English] Yeah?
[speaking Spanish]
[in English] Yeah.
[speaking in Spanish]
[in English] Yeah?
[speaking in Spanish]
[in English] I want that, too.
[speaking in Spanish]
[Ashley in English] But we're not talking about that.
[speaking in Spanish]
[in English] What do you mean-- What?
[Ashley speaking in Spanish]
[Ashley in English] Okay, leave it. Yeah.
[speaking in Spanish]
[Ashley] Manuel.
[speaking in Spanish]
[Ashley in English]I cannot believe this is happening here.
We are in Niagara Falls, we're in this beautiful spot,
the sun is shining, the weather is sweet,
and here is Manuel deciding to have another bitch-fit.
We're going in circles.
Okay. I like seriously wanna have a good day today.
Like, we have-- I have some
-activities planned-- -[speaking in Spanish]
[in English] I have some activities planned for us.
And I wanna have a good day today.
And so...
[speaking in Spanish]
[in English] Even though you're the one that brought up money.
Not me.
Two steps forward, four steps back.
Sometimes I feel like we're making progress,
and then something happens, somebody's triggered,
and it triggers the other one,
and then we're back into this negative-feedback loop.
And we are rediscussing, re-breaking down things
that we talked about in therapy.
[speaking in Spanish]
[Manuel speaking]
[Ashley speaking]
[Manuel speaking]
[Ashley speaking]
♪ You gotta let it go ♪
♪ You gotta let it go... ♪
[in English]
♪ You gotta let it go ♪
Oh, I'm just not in a good mood.
Hearing all that stuff you were telling me
kind of bothered me a lot.
When we were packing to go back home to Michigan,
I decided to be honest
about a secret that I've been holding,
which is that I borrowed $2,000 from my ex-boyfriend, Dane,
to get butt-implant surgery.
Gino was like very upset,
and it breaks my heart to know that I caused this.
It's my fault. This time, I screwed it up.
It's completely my fault.
Why is he giving you $2,000? Now he's gonna expect something from you.
[Jasmine laughs] Like what?
-What is he gonna expect? -Yeah, that's the question.
Like what? What do you think he's gonna expect?
Nothing!
A friend loans you 2,000 bucks.
-Yes. Yes. -Why are you still talking to him--
-I have-- I have borrowed... -Why are you still having conversations--
...and given money to my friends.
You should be happy that I have
-such a good friend. -Why are you still talking to this-- him?
We're about to get married soon
and you're still talking to Dane.
-I-- I'm still talking to him... -Which is ridiculous.
...because he's a good friend.
-You guys gotta stop talking. -He's a good person.
Just--
it has been as a friend or to ask a favor, you know?
However, when you have contacted your exes was, for example,
to send naked pictures of me.
One of your exes sent me a message.
Did you send her naked pictures of me?
[screaming] That was part of my privacy.
How can you do that?
-[bleep] -Don't!
-[producer] Guys. -[Jasmine] How dare you? I trusted on you.
[Jasmine speaking]
Did you say anything to provoke it?
[slams]
What did you say?
Did you say anything to provoke the fight?
Or was she just attacking you out of the blue?
What did you [bleep] say?
Well, you heard me.
That I provoked her?
No, I asked you.
Did you provoke something
or did she start attacking you over nothing?
-Wow. Wow. -Was there anything that you said to her?
And you are really asking me
if I provoked her.
Calm down.
What the [bleep] is wrong with you?
[Gino] Stop getting out of control.
You're way out of control.
-Way out of you're-- -Because you're [bleep] stupid, man.
All the emotional humiliation
that I went through...
Yeah.
She sent my naked pictures to every [bleep] blogger she knew.
-And all these [bleep] people were looking at myself naked. -Right.
And you're asking if I provoked her.
I'm... I'm talking for the initial goddamn conversation,
did she come out and start attacking you
or did you say something to her?
And stop yelling.
I wish I had [bleep] Dane that last night.
-I wish. -[knife clatters]
That's the only thing I regret in life.
Not [bleep] him so [bleep] good
as we used to [bleep] every time with [bleep].
Yeah, I wish I would [bleep] my exes 'cause they were great.
-I have no doubt about they-- -They were a lot better than you.
I have no doubt about they being great.
But what about you?
Yeah. Me too.
-Yeah. Me too. Yeah. -You're trash.
I'm not gonna get married to this [bleep] idiot.
[door slams]
I don't have a problem with Anali at all.
I don't know. I'd feel better if I just see, once a week,
of her cooking, you know, something American.
When I hear my mom make certain comments,
it makes me wonder how all this is gonna work out
in the future with the three of us.
If I had a place to go tomorrow, I'd go.
'Cause I have a feeling that's what you're trying to do.
I'm not trying to kick you out.
[scoffs]
[Clayton] We'll put this little hat on
-you know, either baby pig, or Chocolate. -Yeah.
I could put this on his little chunker head
and then this on his little chunker chest.
That'll be so cute.
-[cashier] Thank you. -Well, appreciate it. Thank you.
-Show my pupper. -We'll be back.
Ay, good boy.
-[Violet] Thank you. -[cashier] Thank you.
[Clayton] Things have been less tense between me and Anali,
since we resolved a lot of our issues in San Diego.
Well, we didn't get any parking tickets, at least.
But I'm still a little frustrated with the wedding planning,
because I feel like there's a lot of weight on my shoulders.
My sister Brandi said that she would help out.
But last time me and her spoke, she hung up on me.
So, a lot of things are still up in the air.
[Violet] So, how did things go in San Diego?
Uh, they went good.
Got to see Kameron.
-That was great, seeing him. -I bet it was.
Very happy moment.
Right. That's awesome.
I was glad that you get to travel and stuff.
But, I hardly talked to you in a couple months.
But I know that there's a lot going on.
Well, there's been a lot of changes in the house.
I don't have a problem with Anali at all.
But, I would try to go to sleep,
and stuff like that,
all the lights are on,
and talking out loud,
and cooking and leaving everything laying out.
I've been sensing some tension between my mom and Anali.
Mostly coming from my mom.
She thinks that Anali should be speaking more English.
You know, cooking more American food.
You know, cooking for me more often.
And then I'll hear my mom say something like,
"Oh, yeah. There's a lot of dishes here."
And what I know that means is,
"The dishes need done."
Just things like that,
to me, that's passive aggressive.
And I hate that.
But Anali doesn't understand the language enough
to pick up on that tone.
So I have to kinda be like, "Hey, mom. Don't do that."
I don't know. I'd feel better if I just see, once a week,
of her cooking, you know, something American.
You know?
Where's the cheeseburgers at?
I mean, I want her to learn, you know, to cook American food too,
and it's probably easier.
I would teach her how to make something.
She hasn't one time asked, "Hey, can you teach me how?"
Or, "Do you know how to do this?" Or...
Not one time.
I just wanna make sure my son's taken care of.
I know he's a big boy,
and, you know, a grown man.
But, I mean...
I like to see him eating something good that he likes.
I've never heard Anali ask her soon-to-be husband
if he wants something to eat.
She'd just go in there,
and for two hours, and making a little chicken,
and chicken, and chicken, and chicken.
And he likes beef, you know.
I just figured there'd be like, more patience with each other
-than it seems-- -I don't have a problem with nobody.
[Clayton] Oh.
It's already stressful right now.
And I want to make sure that you guys aren't having digs at each other.
We're not having digs.
-Okay. Because... -We get along fine.
You know, all I hear is Spanish and it's like, I can't, you know...
Not that I'd join in,
but let's have a family conversation here.
Well, it seems to be, you're defensive about things, and are having...
I guess I'm just trying to defend myself.
Well, I know. But...
I... I feel like you're... You have...
You assume that everyone's like, out to get you,
and like...
Assume they're always talking about you all the time.
-And... -I never once said that anybody are...
-I... I know. -Talking about me.
I'm telling you I have that perception,
-just based on-- -Oh, well. I'm sorry you have that perception about me.
If I had a place to go tomorrow, I'd go.
'Cause I have a feeling that's what you're trying to do.
I'm not trying to kick you out.
[scoffs]
[Clayton] When I first started this K1 visa process with Anali,
I was expecting everything would go well,
but the whole time, it's been a roller-coaster.
It's not stress that I would want to put on anyone.
My mom's really defensive and takes things really personal.
She often doesn't see that she might be part of the issue.
So it's putting me in a difficult position.
But my mom needs to get her own place.
Now that her being in the house is affecting
mine and Anali's private relationship,
I'm hoping that, you know, she'll do it as soon as possible.
-[Brian] Is marijuana legal out there? -No.
[Sam] All the drug talk, with the legal stuff going on,
I'm starting to get nervous sweat about it.
So, it's better I just talk to Herman
and tell him what's going on.
I really hope he doesn't get too angry and like, make Citra call off the wedding.
[in Indonesian]
Whatever.
[in English]
[in Indonesian]
[Citra speaking in Indonesian]
-He wants to ride a horse to the mountains. -[Herman laughs]
Really?
I wanna ride a horse too.
-I have never ridden a horse. -Never?
But they have that stuff out here.
But your dad, he'll be doing this on the horse.
Citra's family just arrived from Indonesia.
Heading back to the house right now
to go meet my dad and we're gonna have some American food.
This is my room. Um...
I've been sleeping in Tim's room, of course.
Cool little slide-out drawers.
[Citra's sisters speaking in Indonesian]
I am very nervous about impressing her dad,
and feel like I just have to think about everything I do.
[Herman speaking in Indonesian]
But at least, it's one step closer to us getting married,
and getting our freak on,
getting that naughty business going on.
[chuckling] Naughty business?
Mmm-hmm. Oh, you know the naughty business.
And business is good.
-[Sam] Dad? -[Brian] Hey, yo!
-[Herman] Hello. -Oh, hi.
This is her sisters and this is her dad right here.
[in Indonesian]
[Citra] Yeah. You say it right.
Did I get it right?
[Citra] Yeah.
This is an unreal moment. Seeing them actually meet in person.
He'll act polite but be thinking,
[in Indonesian]
[in English] Crazy foreigner.
-[Brian] Fried chicken. About as American as it gets. -[Herman] Mmm.
[Herman in Indonesian]
[Citra speaking]
[Brian] You guys will have to eat more than that.
[Brian] Yeah, I just kind of, got a lot.
[Sam] It almost kind of feels like...
They're just like...
Acting like it was alien food or they were aliens
and eating food from another planet.
Like the faces they had made.
And it's all potatoes, apparently.
No spice, no life. That's what it comes down to.
So how are you guys liking America so far?
[in Indonesian]
America?
[Citra] America is far away from Indonesia.
Oh, yeah.
You realize just how far when you travel.
[in English]
[in Indonesian]
And all the foods are different.
[in Indonesian]
[in English]
-Oh, yeah. It's just a light... -[Brian] I can see that.
[in Indonesian]
-[Citra] Spices are more. -[Brian laughing]
[Herman speaking in Indonesian]
How do you feel like, about we want to get married?
[Brian] Um...
Getting to know you over the last few years,
I'd been coming... Becoming happier about it.
And, um...
I've always sort of, felt that Sam isn't responsible at times.
But, over these last couple of years,
he's changed quite a bit.
And, um...
You know, I have five kids.
And I always felt like four of them sort of, matured
and become responsible. But now, Sam at 30,
it's finally happening.
So I'm... I'm really happy for him.
You know, it takes the right woman to make you get there.
[Brian] Yeah.
[Citra speaking in Indonesian]
[Herman] Mmm-hmm.
[Citra chuckles]
[Sam] Dad's thrown me under the bus a little bit.
Like, I'm trying to make a good impression on Herman here.
Telling him like, how much of a [bleep] up I was in the past,
like... Like, what good is that doing to me?
Um, stick to the good stuff.
[in Indonesian]
He grew up in California, in LA.
[Brian] Is it like out here?
Is marijuana legal out there?
[Sam] No.
-[Citra] No. -Not yet?
-[Herman laughing] -Yeah. No. No go.
[in Indonesian]
[in English]
I guess, like a really big punishment,
-if you have... -Oh, really?
Wow.
If you have like, one... Like...
-One... One brick? -Yeah.
-Like cigarette. Ciger... -Oh, cigarette.
Like, one stick.
-One! -[Brian] One stick?
[Sam] Five?
I knew the laws were strict in Indonesia.
But, like for one joint,
you go to prison for five, 20 years, whatever.
And now I have to tell Citra's dad about my drug diversion program.
I'm [bleep]. I'm screwed.
[Gino] It's a simple question. Answer.
You know the [bleep] story. You know what she did to me.
I believe I have a right to be upset with Jasmine
that she borrowed money from her ex, Dane.
I'm sorry to say but I think you have to end your relationship with him.
[sniffles]
How can he tell me that?
[sniffles]
I don't wanna marry him.
[sobbing]
You know, that was the biggest humiliation ever in my life. Ever.
All [bleep] social media have my [bleep] naked pictures.
He has the balls to tell me that, "What did I tell her to provoke her?"
[Gino] It's a simple question. Answer.
You know the [bleep] story. You know what she did to me.
And you are telling me that I provoke her.
[sniffles]
[exhales]
I believe I have a right to be upset with Jasmine
that she borrowed money from her ex, Dane.
But, you know, at the same time,
the situation with my ex-girlfriend
caused a lot of problems for Jasmine.
I understand.
Um... And I feel bad about it.
But this is typical in our relationship.
Normally, Jasmine is okay if you give her enough time to cool off.
That's what I think I need to do now,
is let her chill out and I can like, talk to her later.
Um...
So, I'm sorry that I upset you.
Uh, whatever I... From what I was saying, I didn't mean to upset you.
Um...
You know...
I know what you went through is terrible.
-Don't get me wrong. -And it was...
Everything because of what you did.
I know it was terrible, and yeah.
You know, it was not something like,
I can just forget about it. I wish I could, but...
-Whatever. Like... -Yeah. I know. I know it's a very sensitive subject.
And I know it still hurts.
It is.
For going on a goodbye dinner to Dane.
And making Dane
be an excuse why I accepted $2000,
when in my heart, I know that I was [bleep] wrong.
I know it hurt you. I am sorry. I didn't mean it.
I know that...
My ex hurt you.
But, you know...
The fact that you're talking to your ex, that hurts me.
I'm sorry to say but I think you have to
end your relationship with him.
Because you don't want me to having a relationship with my exes.
You don't let me speak to my exes,
I don't want you to speak to your exes.
You can text him that,
you can leave a voicemail, a message, however you want to do it.
Gino is my priority.
He is gonna be my husband,
and he is the man that I generally love.
And he comes before anyone in this world,
and that includes Dane.
I wanna give him a voice message, okay?
[Gino] Okay.
Hi, Dane, I hope you're doing great.
Um...
Well, good news.
I'm gonna be getting married soon.
Well, you know that already. [chuckles]
But, like, in a very short period of time,
And I just wanted to say thank you
for being such an amazing human being.
You are such a good friend.
However, I am leaving you this message
to let you know that
we won't be able to communicate
because as you might understand,
I wanna make Gino my priority.
He is my priority, and...
You, as a guy, might understand, you...
I don't think that you will be happy
with your fiancee, future wife
being so close to an ex, right?
Well, same with Gino.
And I understand...
And even though you know that we are just friends,
we have always been just good friends.
I'm doing this because I wanna show
to Gino how much I love him, so...
This is my goodbye to you.
I wish you nothing but the best.
And so...
Bye, have a nice life.
[sighs softly]
Babe, it is time for us to act like two adults
and put our exes behind.
-The best way-- -I agree.
I don't want that tension between us,
you know, up unto our wedding.
Yes.
Our exes are dead to us.
-They die. -Yes. Yes.
-Let's-- -Good.
Please.
Mmm. I don't even remember who my ex was.
What about that?
I'm hungry. [chuckles]
Let's finish making the salad.
Kiss me.
-Baby talk. -No.
-Come on. -Later today.
You don't deserve it right now.
She's not happy with me.
Kind of tell.
I hear a lot of Spanish arguments.
...the more escalated, the faster she talks.
[in Spanish]
Hey!
I hear a lot of Spanish arguments.
I mean, because...
the more escalated, the faster she talks.
It's not normal hardly at all.
I mean, I just...
I don't know really how I'm feeling.
I'm feeling in some sort of way.
Um...
Nervous and...
Mainly nervous for him.
[Clayton speaking in Spanish]
[Anali speaking in Spanish]
-[Clayton] Ma. -[Clayton's mom] Yes?
Do you know where my EpiPens are at?
-[Clayton's mom] Yeah, they're out here -Oh.
Where?
My EpiPens.
Here they are.
I'm gonna see if there are any new ones.
What is going on in there?
I don't know. She's not happy with me.
Kind of tell.
It's frustrating that she's not speaking English,
because wedding stuff has been
me and Brandi.
I don't think she has a desire to learn English.
I don't know, I shouldn't say that, but...
I said what I said.
[Anali speaking in Spanish]
It would've been nice to have a little bit more help.
[Anali] Good morning.
[speaks indistinctly]
-Good morning. -Good morning.
[in Spanish]
Anali's really good at gaslighting.
It's frustrating because she has, like,
this emotional mind and I have a logical mind.
And even if something makes sense...
If it doesn't feel good or feel right to her,
it's still my fault.
Here we are, going into wedding week.
You know, we're about to be in the car with each other
for two and a half hours,
and we should be celebrating having, you know,
happy moments and, you know,
here we are, bickering again.
This is our last trip before our K-1 visa gets approved.
I know you have doubts in our relationship
breaking out as well.
Yeah.
I only have a few more days left here,
and I have to decide what I wanna do.
[Justin] I don't wanna hurt you.
[in Spanish]
It's the water!
We got a rainbow, there was a double rainbow,
there was a rainbow following us.
So the water in the face, and we're Cancer rising,
so we're just thriving in this energy.
And literally I was like, "[bleep] it.
This is how I'm feeling.
Are you down or not?
Are we making the right decision
getting married right now?
[horse neighs]
[Nikki] So, so tired of crying.
I can't, like, any more.
I'm, like, drained.
We're finally here to go horseback riding,
so why don't we just enjoy the day
for whatever it is. I'm only here for...
a short, limited time
till I go back to the reality of my world.
[Justin speaking]
We can start and try today,
focused only on us.
And only on sweet things.
I'll try.
[Nikki] When Justin and I have disagreements,
I think to myself... I'm like, you know what?
"I don't have all day to sit and fester over drama."
I only have a few more days left here.
So I feel that I want to
try to have, like, resolution.
And I have to decide what I wanna do.
Hello.
[Justin speaking foreign language]
[Dani speaking]
-[Nikki, in English] Hello -Hey.
-Oh, you speak English. -Oh, yeah, I do.
Uh, let's go.
-Yeah. -Good. Perfect.
[Dani] You can take your reins a bit shorter.
[Justin speaking]
[Dani] Let's try it and trot.
It's gonna be just a bit easier.
It's gonna be like up, down, up, down.
-[Nikki] Okay. -In this kind of rhythm.
Up, down, up, down.
Horse riding, as a sport in itself,
is very therapeutical.
It just gives you, like, good vibes,
and I think, when couples come here together,
they share these vibes.
Babe, I think we should recreate the photo
maybe somewhere over around there.
Okay, let's try.
The horses were different colors,
-but it's still-- -[Justin] No problem.
[Nikki] It's us on horses.
[Dani] Okay, smile.
Okay, thank you.
It's been a really bad few days for Justin and I
fighting and trying to come down
to some type of resolution.
But I wanna really consider what I truly came here for.
Put aside all our differences
and literally focus on what really matters.
Our love.
Is there love?
This is our last trip before
our K-1 visa gets approved.
I know you must be feeling the same thoughts.
That you have doubts in our relationship
working out as well.
[Justin] Yeah.
-We-- -I'm trying.
I'm really trying.
I'm always...
Give me your hand.
I'm always going to love you.
I loved you when I first met you,
I loved you when I left you the first time,
and I always thought about you.
We both don't deserve this fighting,
but I do know that I love you,
and, um...
-I wanna be with you. -Me, too.
So, I think that we have made some progress.
Let's enjoy our engagement celebration tomorrow.
Is that what you want, too?
[Justin] Of course.
[Nikki] It would be a whole lot easier for me to just walk away
and say, "Oh, you know, I can move on
and I can find somebody else."
But...
I don't know, just something tells me,
like, he's my soulmate, and he's my perfect match.
And yeah, like, you know, we definitely need
to learn a lot more about each other,
you know, but...
I don't know, I don't think I can do better than him.
And I know he's not gonna do better than me.
[chuckles softly]
I love you more than anything.
That's why I'm here right now.
That's what I want to hear every day.
[Ashley speaking in Spanish]
-[Manuel] No. -[Ashley] Okay.
[Ashley speaking in Spanish]
[Manuel speaking in Spanish]
[Ashley, in English] Okay.
[Manuel] Okay.
[Ashley speaking in Spanish]
Kind of feels like Manuel and I
are going through the hardest parts of our relationship at the front end.
And so I'm hoping that that means
that it'll be smooth sailing
on the back end of this, right?
We go through, you know, all this pain points,
and we go through all these issues with communication,
and we go through all these bumps in the road,
and so for us to, like...
get it out of our system.
There's definitely a deep soul family connection there,
which is why I keep his ass around.
But boy, does he grind my gears sometimes.
[in Spanish]
[Ashley] Are you ready? I hope so.
So we're gonna need these.
-Hi! -Hello!
[both] Thank you!
[Manuel speaking in Spanish]
Things have been rocky.
We've been one foot in front of the other.
[in Spanish]
[Ashley chuckles]
We have been living together for less than three months,
and we're getting married.
We have tons of work to do.
[in sing-song voice] We're leaving!
[Manuel] Oh, my God!
[Ashley] Yeah.
-Wow! -Oh, my...
This is so beautiful.
I can't-- Look, there's a rainbow.
[in Spanish]
[Ashley] Mmm-hmm. So beautiful.
Wow!
[cheering]
[in Spanish]
[both laughing]
Oh, my God!
-[laughs] -[Manuel] Oh!
[Manuel speaking in Spanish]
[Ashley] The Maid of the Mist is magical.
It is the most beautiful experience ever.
And to experience it with Manuel
is even more amazing.
There's rainbows everywhere.
It's just...
Honestly, this is exactly what we need right now.
Because we've been under so much stress.
[Manuel speaking in Spanish]
You like your surprise?
-You're welcome. -[Manuel speaking in Spanish]
[in Spanish]
[Ashley] Yeah.
Are we making the right decision
getting married right now?
[in Spanish]
Okay.
It's the water!
We got a rainbow, there was a double rainbow,
there was a rainbow following us.
So the water in the face, and we're Cancer rising
so we're just thriving in this energy.
And literally I was like, "[bleep] it.
This is how I'm feeling.
Are you down or not?
And he's down.
So, let's have a wedding.
[in Spanish]
Yeah. Okay.
[Ashley speaking in Spanish]
[Manuel speaking in Spanish]
[Ashley] Okay.
[Manuel speaking in Spanish]
[Ashley] What luck is this rainbow right now?
[in foreign language]
It's hard to say, with a felony.
[Citra's dad speaking in foreign language]
Ah, my heart's racing, like, a million miles an hour,
just waiting for his reaction.
The decorations...
all you've told me... That you have plates.
-Mmm. -[Brandi] That's it?
I've never really seen Clayton plan anything.
I mean, he lives with my mom, for God sakes.
So, did you find an officiant?
Anybody in Indiana can be an officiant,
so it really doesn't matter.
[Brandi] He's gonna ask me to do it because it's easy.
I will leave, I will act like I have diarrhea.
I'm out.
[Citra speaking in Indonesian]
[Citra's dad chuckles]
Thank you.
[Citra speaking in English]
Do you want to sit?
[Citra speaking off-screen]
[Herman speaking in Indonesian]
[Citra] In Indonesia, like, around 8:00 p.m.,
it's already dark,
but here, still bright.
[clears throat] Yeah. During summer, yeah.
[Citra speaking in Indonesian]
[Herman] Oh.
[Citra speaking in English]
[Sam] Um...
Um, well, like, how exactly?
You're going to translate?
I want to be completely sincere with you
'cause I want you to know I care
and, like, I'm being fully real
'cause nothing's more important than Citra
and you guys as my family.
[Citra speaking in Indonesian]
Yeah, a couple months ago, as you know,
I got in to-- got in trouble
'cause I had some of my medicine on me.
But it was old.
A couple months,
I hadn't seen my doctor,
and [clears throat] because it was, like, expired,
and that's-- that's how I ended up
getting in trouble, to begin with.
[Citra speaking in Indonesian]
[in English] Why you, like, end up to use that?
[clears throat] Because, uh,
like, I used to be addicted
to pain medicine.
And I take that now
to stay sober and, like, clean.
[in Indonesian]
[in English]
-[Sam] Yeah. Yeah. -Yeah?
Yeah. Definitely.
Herman's got an amazing poker face.
Stone cold. Like, no expression.
My heart's racing, like, a million miles an hour,
just waiting for his reaction,
how he's going to handle it,
or if he's even going to say anything at all.
There was a program, the diversion,
that would have made it easier,
like, for me to kind of...
I'd just basically be good for a year,
and I'd skip some of the, like, getting into trouble.
But I didn't get the paperwork applied for in time.
[Citra speaking in Indonesian]
[Citra speaking in English] Six months.
Six months up to a year.
[clears throat] I mean, it's hard to say
with a felony.
[Citra speaking in English]
[Citra] When is your court?
Uh, the 14th.
[Citra speaking in Indonesian]
[Herman speaking]
Sam,
uh...
[in Indonesian]
Yeah. Yeah.
-[Citra speaking in English] You understand that? -Yeah.
The only thing I'm addicted to is marrying your daughter,
and, like, I don't want any kind of bad life.
This feels worse than disappointing my own parents,
letting Citra's dad down,
'cause we really have a strong bond.
So, like, it honestly breaks my heart
messing up
and giving this news to him.
Seeing the disappointment in his eyes,
I just-- there's nothing worse.
I'm trying to be optimistic,
hoping I can turn this around,
but with the way things have been going,
I just don't know.
I'm-- I'm nervous.
[tense music playing]
[Violet] Put the glass on the floor.
[Clayton speaking in Spanish]
[Clayton] Yeah.
[mimics pig squealing]
[Clayton chuckles]
[Clayton] Come on, chunker pig.
Good boy.
[guinea pig wheeking]
[Clayton] Me and Anali are driving
from Kentucky to Indiana
because this is wedding week.
We're about to
get married.
It's crunch time.
It's been crunch time, but it's really, like--
it's wedding week.
It's now.
Hey.
[speaking in Spanish]
See you in a few days.
Yeah, see you in a couple days. Bye.
[Anali speaking in Spanish]
[in Spanish]
[sighs]
[Anali speaking]
[Clayton speaking]
[Anali speaking]
[in English] We're staying in a rental house in Indiana.
Whoa, they got foosball.
It's nice.
It's got a indoor pool.
[chuckling] I don't think I've ever
had an indoor pool anywhere I've stayed at, besides a hotel.
It's spacious. It's a little older,
but, I mean, it's nice.
It's definitely nice.
[Clayton speaking in Spanish]
[Anali chuckles and speaks]
[doorbell rings]
[Clayton] Well, well, well, if it isn't my arch nemesis.
-Whatever. -My own sister.
You left the keys in the trunk.
[Brandi] There's three days until the wedding.
I feel like Clayton has tried to plan things out.
-Hola! -Hola!
But I've never really seen Clayton plan anything.
I mean, he lives with my mom for God's sake.
[snickers]
[Brandi] All right, so let's talk wedding.
'Cause I have a list of things
-you've asked me to do. -[Clayton] Okay.
And I want to know what you've got done
'cause it's your wedding.
So you asked me to find a llama or an alpaca--
-Yes. -...which I think is absurd.
I couldn't find one, but I did try.
-No alpaca. -No.
[Clayton] No.
[Anali sighs]
The decorations, all you've told me
-that you have plates. -[Clayton] Mm-hmm.
-That's it? -No.
Flowers.
-Plates and flowers? -Yep.
Okay.
So did you find an officiant?
[in English] No officiant. No have officiant.
But anybody in Indiana can be an officiant,
so it really doesn't matter.
I mean, I can ask someone at the wedding.
They are definitely available.
Oh, my God.
I am extremely shocked
that he doesn't have an officiant.
I didn't even want to say anything,
because I was like,
"Man, he's going to ask me to do it
because it's easy."
But I will hide.
I will leave.
I will act like I have diarrhea.
Anything. I'm out.
So everyone gets to come to this wedding
that I'm stressing out about
-and enjoy it. -Mm-hmm.
Well, it's not your wedding.
It's our wedding. We can enjoy the wedding.
Right?
Clayton, [bleep] you. [chuckles]
Yeah. [bleep] you, Clayton.
-Yeah. Me too. Yeah. -[Brandi chuckles] Jeez.
This is me being a bitch
because I'm stressed out, honestly.
[Anali speaking in Spanish]
[in English] Have you prepared anything
for the bachelorette party?
I just was thinking of having,
like, a couple people over
and some snacks, like...
we could have a fire out back.
[Clayton speaking in Spanish]
[Brandi speaking in English] Watch a movie.
[Anali stifles laughter and speaks in English] Okay.
I think Anali will be pleasantly surprised.
What are you actually going to do?
She asked me for a bachelorette party--
-[Clayton] Yeah. -...like, within the last week.
-Okay. -You think I can just
pull it out of a magic hat?
If Clayton knew
that a stripper was going to be there
that gets down to his socks.
Honey.
Big day coming up soon.
I'm feeling a little nervous.
Sophie's mom came in last night.
So, you know, mom's had
every opinion under the book.
I have put in so much effort,
but that feels like
we're not on the same team.
Sophie has always assumed
that we're going to get married,
but I have all the way up until I say, "I do".
[pop music playing]
Here you go.
Oh, my God. I'm so glad to be back.
Yeah, same.
[Claire speaking]
[Sophie] Yeah.
[Claire speaking]
-[Claire chuckles] -I think I need some time apart from Rob.
♪ I always try♪
♪ To do right♪
-He hasn't sent me anything since I've left. -Oh, really?
What does that mean, though? Is he really angry
or is he just being a knob?
I don't know. He's probably just feeling sorry for himself
and just kind of thinking
I'm the bad guy in this situation.
So, I'm just-- I'm not going to text him.
It's not great for me and Rob's relationship
when we only have three weeks to get married
and we're spending the night apart.
But at the same time, I do think
we really need some space
where I stay somewhere and he stays somewhere
and kind of just both cool down.
He can reach out to me,
but I'm not going to be the one to try
and make things all right first.
So, I'm just not--
I've not messaged him at all.
That's good. I'm proud of you.
Stay strong.
It is very depressing.
It's obviously not how I wanted...
this to go.
I kind of just hoped,
you know, me, my mum and Rob would all have
a good time together.
So, it is kind of just another thing
to add onto our relationship.
So, I don't know.
It's kind of seeming that, like it's not--
the arguments aren't stopping
and it's kind of making me feel
like I can't keep giving Rob excuses
and I can't be giving our relationship excuses.
There's definitely doubts now in my mind
about whether or not this wedding is going to happen.
[tense music playing]
Whites and hots and colors and colds.
This morning, there was a ridiculous argument
with Sophie and her mom,
and Sophie didn't care to work that out with me.
So, she's gone, hanging out with her mom.
But you know, I can't really sit at home and sulk about it.
I got to still do chores and get things done.
So I'm going to the laundromat.
Tor'I and Ty are going to meet me and maybe...
I can talk my [bleep]. Been a little bit.
[Tor'I] Yo.
What's going on?
-What's up with you? -What's up? You all right?
-[Rob] What's up? What's up? -Got the hair out.
[indistinct conversation]
Man, I can't keep it braided every day.
Some days, you just got to let the hair out.
-How you guys doing? -Good, man.
Can't complain. If we did, wouldn't help.
-Yeah, no. -Wouldn't help.
Wouldn't help.
Big day coming up soon.
-Very big day. -[Ty] How you feeling?
I'm feeling a little nervous.
[Tor'I] Mmm.
Good nervous? Bad nervous?
-If anything, bad nervous. -[Ty] Oh, no.
About what?
Things obviously haven't been smooth
this whole 90 days
and it's like, now we're coming down to the wire
and Sophie's mom came in last night.
So, you know, mom's had every opinion under the book.
And she already didn't have a good opinion, did she?
She had, I think, an iffy opinion
'cause, you know, her and Sophie are so close,
but Sophie's gonna tell her all of the negatives.
And then it was just like--
it was like them two against me,
and she's talking about
a real man wouldn't have-- would have
held off on the relationship for a year
to get a new spot
and then continue the relationship.
[Tor'I] She went there.
[Rob] Which to me, made me feel like,
"All right then. [bleep] it then." Like...
-I know how you get. -[Ty laughs]
We know how you get, boy.
-[Ty] Sounds like it. -[Tor'I] Yeah.
Claire telling me that I'm not a real man is
where I lose respect for Claire.
You could be the Queen of England.
You don't show respect,
I'm not going to show you respect.
Man, I just wish Sophie would have my back
and just not take advantage of every opportunity
to point out my flaws.
If somebody else is going to do it,
she's so eager to do it with them.
She did not tell her momma anything
other than...
jumping on the bandwagon to be like,
what we don't have,
what we didn't make, you know,
what I don't have right now,
or, you know, looking at it like
I'm supposed to have so much going on, but I don't.
-[Tor'I] So-- -Gotta take these--
-My clothes. -[Ty] Oh.
Well, I want to know
from what you've figured out now so far,
obviously you're in a sensitive state at the moment,
but if you...
one to ten, how good are you feeling?
Ten being I'm like-- "I'm sure we'll get married",
one being like, "It ain't going to happen"?
Yeah.
I'm like a four.
[Tor'I] But bro, like,
it seems like you're willing
to like, throw everything that y'all worked on away.
You know, it's been three years.
I would have thought that you'd been like,
thought about this and you're ready to marry her
and stuff like that, like...
It's been three years, but there haven't been
a lot of opportunities
for the type of situations we've been going through
in the last 90 days
because it's been long distance.
There's been things that I haven't had a chance to see.
And that's kind of the--
You know, it's [bleep] three months.
As if that's enough time. It's ridiculous.
But that's what I'm trying to see.
I'm trying to see these things.
How do you not see this in the first couple of years?
[Rob] Because there wasn't a moment
where her mom walked in my house
-and Sophie didn't have my back. -[Ty] Yeah, yeah.
Like, I'm not going to sit here,
how I feel right now,
for the next three weeks and then get married.
[tense music playing]
At this point, I don't see this wedding happening.
That's the crazy thing, though.
Like, I see it happening,
but I see Rob just being miserable.
Oof.
[Tor'I] I really have a sixth sense on this.
Like, Rob is going to do this,
but he's not going to be truly content
or happy with the marriage.
And Sophie's going to be in it for all the wrong reasons.
And if anything, it's going to end up in divorce.
Like, I feel like Sophie has always assumed
that we're going to get married.
But I've told her,
I have all the way up until I say I do.
[tense music playing]
[narrator] Next time on 90 Day Fiancé...
Let's go! Let's go! Let's go!
[Manuel speaking in Spanish]
It's okay, baby. It's okay.
Yeah.
[whooping and exclaiming]
[Justin speaking in English]
Cheers!
[man speaking in English]
-No! -[man] I saw you're good.
[all chanting "Nikki"]
Oh!
Oh, my God. Here we go.
♪ I'm just going To be honest ♪
♪ You must be the hottest thing ♪
♪ That's here, right? ♪
♪ I just want to go... ♪
-[Nikki continues singing] -[whooping]
-[Sophie] Huh? -You seem really nervous.
I'm-- Okay.
I'm nervous to tell my mom about me being bi.
You know, it's serious to me, and it's important.
I'm bisexual.
[dramatic music playing]
-That's a good choice. -I do like that one a lot.
[Sam] I want to check in to see
if my mom's going to show up
to the mosque when I convert.
Oh, yeah. Are you coming
-to me converting? -Well--
I don't think anybody should have
to convert to marry.
I wish she could just check those feelings
for an hour or two
and celebrate with me.
Just be happy, you know?
[Herman speaking in Indonesian]
[Citra speaking off screen in English]
[Clayton speaking in Spanish]
[in English] No strippers.
[Anali speaking off screen in Spanish]
-[beer can crumpling] -[Brandi] Welcome to America.
[woman speaking]
[in English] Oh, my God.
[in Spanish]
[ladies whooping]
[Anali speaking off screen]