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Surprise!
Oh my God.
We're getting married.
We're gonna party it up in Florida.
I wouldn't have it any other way.
Yeah.
There are just so many unknowns before the wedding,
and seeing Manuel in this place
honestly makes me really nervous.
No strippers.
Oh my God.
I'm actually just interested in getting her drunk
and finding out who she really is
because drunk words are sober thoughts.
You still wanna get married?
You're getting married in two days.
I borrowed $2,000 from my ex-boyfriend Dane,
to get butt implant surgery.
Why is he giving you $2,000?
Now he's gonna expect something from you.
What did you [bleep] say?
I wish I have [bleep] done that last night.
I believe I have a right to be upset with Jasmine,
that she borrowed money from her ex, Dane.
The fact that you're talking to your ex, that-- that hurts me.
I think you have to...
end your relationship with him.
I know that I'm not doing anything wrong
by being friends with Dane.
But, I think he's right.
Hi, Dane.
This is my goodbye to you.
It is time for us to put our exes behind.
She's gonna be my wife.
I mean, I don't push my faith on people.
Sam mentioned that he's gonna do
the Islam wedding ceremony with Citra.
And I don't feel I should go to that.
One of the most important moments in my life
and you wanna miss it, that's up to you.
Well, let me think about it.
I'm bisexual.
Oh.
Have you--
No, I would've told you that.
I think they're falling out of love right now.
She should be the one walking away.
One to ten, how good are you feeling?
I'm like a four.
Sophie has always assumed that we're gonna get married.
But, I have all the way up until I say "I do."
♪ Ohhh ♪
No.
I'm cheap, but not that cheap.
It's been a couple weeks since Jasmine and I returned from Miami.
and um, you know, we'd got into an argument.
But, we're in a better place now, we've made up.
You know, we don't want that hanging over us.
I want us to be happy and in a good place
when we're trying to plan the wedding.
- At your service. - Thank you.
Oh my goodness!
- Hi! - Hello.
- Hi, Jasmine, welcome in. - Welcome in.
- Nice to meet you. - Nice to meet you.
Welcome to White Magnolia.
Today, Gino and I are going to look at wedding gowns.
It's very unusual to bring your fiancé
to dress shopping, but...
how am I gonna get to that store to begin with?
How am I gonna pay if he has the credit card? So...
It's a must, I have to bring him.
I don't have any other choice.
So, what are you looking for today?
Well...
Because at the beginning, you know,
- I wanted a black wedding dress. - Okay.
- Because I'm like,
the black widow, the spider...
- ...that eats the-- - a
Their husband.
I'm just joking.
It's a joke, baby.
It's a joke. So good he's laughing at it.
- Yeah. - Uh, but no, just being serious,
honestly, after looking at all this...
- Yeah. Yes. - ...just superficially looking at this beautiful...
white wedding dresses...
- Okay, let's do it then. - Yeah,
What are we trying to stay around?
So I know what to pull.
To be honest with you,
- it's very expensive to have a wedding. - Yeah.
- Yeah, it is. - You gotta buy rings,
- wedding dress. - Everything adds up.
- Yup. - So, I'm hoping
that we can stay somewhere around $1,000 for dress.
- That doesn't even exist. - That--
Not when it comes to wedding dresses.
We can work something out.
- So, don't-- don't worry about that. - Good.
- Good. Yeah. - Let's just enjoy the day and--
- Yeah, I agree. - Yes.
I love her attitude.
That's what I need in my life.
Yeah, yeah, just enjoy this moment.
All right.
Pop open the champagne.
Get comfortable.
- Get drunk. - We'll see you in a minute.
Well...
Ultimately, I'm gonna have to pay for the dress.
So, I have to ask the tough questions
about how much, you know, do these dresses cost.
- I hate to ask those questions... - Oh.
But someone has to, and I'm the bad guy today.
- All right. - Yeah, I'm sorry I made such a mess.
- No, no worries. - I feel really bad.
- Absolutely not. It's totally okay. - Um...
I've been married before once.
But, I never had a wedding.
No dress, no venue,
no nothing.
This is my last chance.
I haven't decided
between a princess kind of dress
because you know, I am a princess,
or a mermaid, because I'm a mermaid too.
It's so hard.
But, I know that walking down the aisle,
I wanna feel like a goddess.
And I want Gino to be speechless, like,
"Oh my gosh." You know?
That's like, the reaction I'm looking for.
- Oh! - I know.
Wow, that's beautiful.
That is a gorgeous dress.
Stunning.
What do you think?
It's beautiful, isn't it?
I-I think it's stunning.
Yeah, that's a really beautiful dress.
I-I was just curious, you know,
- what the cost of this dress is. - Okay.
This one's gonna be a little over $3,000.
- Whoo. - Yes.
Come on baby, it's just a few thousand.
You're not gonna go bankruptcy.
Potentially, yes, I could. I mean...
Baby, invest it in my happiness.
I'm gonna try the other dress.
- Okay? - All right.
- Let's get started. - Yeah.
$3,000.
That's a lot.
I want Jasmine to buy
the wedding dress that she really wants.
But, we have a budget for the wedding
and I can't spend a million dollars on this wedding, okay?
$3,000.
Man, get out of town.
Wow, yeah, that is so beautiful.
I can see your shape, you know, your figure.
I feel like a goddess right now.
I look like a mermaid.
That is romance.
That's what I wanted.
Baby, I want this dress.
I don't even wanna try other dresses.
This is what I dream of,
ever since I was a little girl.
Do you know how much this costs, or--
Yeah, this one is close to $5,000.
$5,000?
- Oops. I'm innocent. - Yup.
- I didn't know the price. - Five--
- I'm sorry-- - Yeah.
- Baby, I want it. Baby, I want it. - Um...
Baby, I want it.
Baby, please, baby.
Baby, please.
I'm sorry I'm so broke, you know.
So, there's definitely some friction with financials.
It's a little uncomfortable.
I-I don't want to interject or get too involved,
but, it's-it's hard to make both parties happy.
Wow, look at you.
Oh my gosh, I love this one.
Wow.
You look stunning, like a queen.
I look so, so good that I look like I'm not real.
- Right? Like a painting. - Yeah, like a Barbie doll.
This feeling, I wish like every woman get to experience
one day in their life.
I feel so beautiful, I look so good.
It really pops out my attributes, I love it.
I love this dress.
And I have good news.
I asked her something more friendly to your budget.
- Yeah, this is our floor sample. - I like those words.
Fits her like a glove.
So, we could do about $2,000 for you and...
I think everyone can, yeah, be happy today.
- Wow. - Yeah.
I like that.
Do you like the dress?
Yes.
- Is this the one you want? - Are you sure?
I wanna make sure you're happy with the dress.
- I feel beautiful. - That's all that matters.
- You look gorgeous. - Aw...
I feel like I found my dress.
Uh, I feel gorgeous.
Gino loved the dress.
He didn't complain about uh, the budget.
And...
Something that I joke about,
being super necessary, it wasn't,
um, he was willing to pull out 2,000 extra dollars
for my wedding dress.
I am happy.
I love it.
- Thank you, congratulations to you both. - Cheers.
- And thank you so much. - Cheers.
- You're very welcome. - To Gino and Jasmine.
You look great.
Today is the day before the wedding.
Finally confirmed with the officiant,
he's good to go.
I have a make-up artist and a hairstylist for Anali tomorrow.
Just a few days ago, we weren't really sure
who was gonna do what,
but, it looks like we've got pretty much everybody ready to go tomorrow.
Push-ups, squats.
Uh...
No.
Yeah, okay.
Yeah.
Oh, no.
Okay.
This is just ridiculous, man.
I can't even
talk, dude.
There she goes again.
Hey, um, so this whole ordeal with the stripper thing
is like...
literally making Anali pack up her [bleep] suitcase.
Like, she is acting like she's gonna leave.
Because I'm upset over the fact
that you guys had a [bleep] stupid stripper
at the stupid bachelorette party.
I should not be apologizing or taking any responsibility
for something that I'm--
What I feel like I'm the victim of.
The hell do I do?
Yep, and you are giving me them
and I'm responding, and that's just how conversations work.
Well, then...
I plan on having a wedding tomorrow
and she's packing her [bleep] suitcase.
I understand you're pissed
and all of the is obviously about me.
Just say, "I'm sorry, I didn't mean to hurt your feel--"
- I have the right to feel a certain way. - Stop.
The way he's treating me,
I don't really know why I keep fighting at this point.
I do have limits.
Say, "I'm sorry," and that's it,
and we'll move past it.
♪ Yeah, I know it's okay ♪
♪ Something's getting In the way ♪
♪ I don't want you to change ♪
♪ But it don't feel the same ♪
♪ I'm playing with fire 'cause the flames grow higher ♪
♪ Should I let you go If I don't know who you are ♪
- What's up? - Hello.
- Did you miss me? - Yes.
- Did you? - Yes.
- Did you miss me? - Yeah.
Yesterday, Sophie and I got into it,
her mom as well.
Sophie made sure that her mom knew that she was not happy in this apartment.
And I... And then, I feel like Claire just switched up.
She just has to ride for her daughter.
She stayed the night with her mom
instead of staying home to work things out with me.
You know, I feel like she did not have my back.
I feel like she let me down, she wasn't on my team,
and that's kind of like a big deal to me.
So, I'mma need to hear something from her
that makes me feel like she gets it.
Yeah, it was nice to spend time
with my mom, obviously, but I definitely...
like, woke up and then was missing you.
I mean, I half-expected you and your mom to have spent the whole night
just talking about how terrible I am.
No, not at all.
So, when it was you and your mom, you were...
When she would say something negative about me, you...
You would have my back?
Yeah, I really did.
I'm curious where was that...
where was that energy when we were all together?
I mean, I... The energy was that
I was agreeing with some of the things she was saying.
And, you know, obviously, if I agreed with what you were saying about my mom,
I would... I would say, "Yeah, Rob, I agree."
It was unnecessary, period,
for you to even agree with her.
You really let me down right there.
Like, I thought we were a team, and I felt...
And after that conversation,
I felt like you were not on my team.
I felt mad alone. You weren't on my team.
I didn't mean to make you feel like that.
And I'm sorry if I'm making you feel alone.
I didn't mean to make you feel like that.
- Like, you know me. - I... I'm sorry. I'm...
I am sorry.
All right, I hear you.
I think in this instance, like,
I do understand how maybe he may have felt, you know,
it was him alone against me and my mom,
and I don't want him to feel alone.
And also, knowing me and Rob's history,
if I don't apologize, then it--
The argument probably won't end, and I...
I just don't have any mental space left to keep arguing with him,
I just, I-- I just wanna move past this.
Home "I know you hate it" sweet home.
I don't hate it.
I still kinda wanna talk.
So, if you want, we could just sit outside for a little bit.
Yes, it is.
You ever heard the phrase "left out to dry"?
Yeah.
I felt very "left out to dry."
I felt very vulnerable with no support.
And that's what made me upset.
It's like, I am really fighting for Rob and our relationship.
But it's like...
the way he's treating me, I don't really know why I keep fighting at this point.
It's like he just wants to sit there and feel bad and make me feel bad.
I do have limits.
Look, I understand how you felt. I know--
In the car, I apologized, and I understand it.
I don't know what more you want me to say, I'm sorry.
I feel like the least you could say is,
"I'm sorry for being disrespectful to your mom."
It's still my mom, at the end of the day.
It's like, you don't have to apologize to me.
I'm sorry I yelled at your mom.
- Okay, thank you. - I'm sorry I raised my voice.
- Thank you. Okay. - And I'm sorry that I said things
that I really tried not to say.
Okay, that's... Thank you. That's...
That's all I can ask for, and it's like, I'm willing to move past it.
And it's like, yesterday, when I was sleeping without you,
I was missing you a lot, and then this morning, I woke up.
It wasn't aimed at you.
Which is-- Which is hilariously accurate.
I'm not denying that it relates to my life.
I didn't post it just for other people,
I posted it because it was relatable.
And if she did see it, then, like, I don't know,
maybe she'd get where I'm coming from
by seeing it coming from a different perspective,
or it, you know, not coming from my mouth.
But I'm not really expecting her to [bleep] get it,
because I've reposted a meme.
There's no way for it to just not sound
like I'm... like I'm [bleep] 19.
I understand you're pissed
and all of the is obviously about me.
So you wanna hurt my feelings.
I didn't wanna hurt your feelings.
- You're not supposed to hurt my-- - You don't have to look
- at my Facebook. - You know I see your [bleep].
Just say, "I'm sorry, I didn't mean to hurt your feel--"
- I have the right to feel a certain way. - Stop.
You have done something to hurt my feelings,
even if you didn't intend to, say [bleep] sorry.
I wanna talk about the [bleep] that matters
- and you wanna talk about social media posts. - I mean-- Oh, my God.
- You're so frustrating. - Maybe you can't just--
Okay, Sam.
Just everything we've been through
and just so many problems,
it's like we might as well be both talking to a brick wall.
Are you gonna have your, like, dad
kinda walk you up front?
- Like, 'cause that's kinda traditional of American and-- - Yeah.
Mm-hmm.
♪ Falling for you is a risky thing ♪
How many chairs do you think we'll need?
Besides who's standing up with us,
we want, like, the important parts of the family up front.
Where should the food and stuff go?
- It's gonna be in the... - Oh, the front?
- Yeah. - Front yard?
Tomorrow's the wedding day. A lot going on.
I'm converting, and then after, like, uh,
having my, uh, spiritual ceremony,
and then my American wedding.
Just a lot of moving parts that need to come together.
We're gonna have the music here or what?
After I convert and we're, like, married...
Mm-hmm.
you know, like, I'm not just after sex.
But after waiting this long, like...
it's killing me.
♪ Light of the dawn ♪
Yeah.
It's a good color on you.
We're going to the mosque today for me to convert,
finally become a Muslim,
and we will marry in the eyes of Allah.
And then after, we're going to have our American wedding at the farmhouse.
- Yeah. - No, no, no.
No?
Well, it's, my feet are stiff.
Trying to bend my feet like that way, uh,
it was kinda painful and...
Uh, it was just awkward feeling.
And, like, Indonesians, they're all small,
so, like, they can ball up. But, uh,
it's a learning experience, that's for sure.
Okay, Sam.
Really?
So, yeah, you just click that.
- Okay. - There, yeah.
Okay, Sam.
Okay, before the wedding, are you ready?
I feel like I'm ready as I can be,
and, uh, I'm so happy you and her family are here.
I really feel like we became a family.
Okay, Sam.
Okay, Sam, I am Citra's father.
Just a message to you.
Please take care of my child, love him.
The language barrier, it's like, we might as well
be both talking to a brick wall.
And Google Translate does not help,
like, that just makes it worse 'cause that doesn't even get it right.
Love him until death comes in the sense that
until he gets old, until grandparents have grandchildren.
Lot of times, it'll even put like different words, completely different meaning.
But for the most part, you can kinda get the gist of what someone's saying.
- Don't waste my child, okay? - Yeah.
Uh, honestly, I wanna be
like you and Citra's mom.
Like, you guys were the perfect example,
and that's how I want our family to be.
Thank you.
Okay, Sam.
Okay, Sam, I believe what you said to me.
In the next few hours, will be responsible Citra answered.
I will leave it to you.
I believe in you. You are sure you can take care of my child.
- Yeah. Yeah. - Okay?
I promise I'll take care of her.
Thank God, or I mean, Allah,
that he gave me his blessing.
Just everything we've been through, and like,
a real father-son bond, and it's just great.
I've never had anything like it before,
so It was a special moment for both of us.
Let's go check on the ladies.
Mosque.
I can't believe I'm about to be a married man already,
and about to have two weddings back the back.
Like it's just, it's crazy.
But honestly, I don't know a whole lot about being a Muslim.
So I just hope I don't make a fool of myself
at the mosque during the conversion.
Like it-- it would kinda bring shame and disrespect on their family.
I can still lose Citra
if something bad happens with the conversion.
I can't mess this up.
I'm just concerned about your family
ruining my special day, our special day.
I don't see them welcoming into their family at all.
I know that they don't like me.
How do you think they'd feel if they couldn't make it?
Put-- Put yourself in their shoes.
They're asking for prenups and looking at me like a freaking gold-digger.
You should talk to them.
I didn't spend the last two and a half years
building this relationship with
all for her to pack her suitcase,
go get her passport and go home.
You know? ♪ Ta-da-da... ♪
- With the guns... - Oh.
This giving you the feeling of the Wild West?
Yes.
I mean, this is what Michigan is. Look at today.
Look at this beautiful, sunny, warm day.
This is what you can expect in the summer.
If it could only stay like this forever, I...
I think it will make it.
- I will survive. - Hmm.
Oh.
I'm so convinced that this is the place for us to be married
and I really think you're gonna like it.
From my side,
this is the best place I found and also, like,
you know, it fits our budget.
And I want you to look at this place.
I want you to give me your honest opinion today.
You know, I'm really feeling good about it.
Gino's dream wedding is quite different from mine, um, because...
Oh my God. Look at this place.
You have a chimney.
Hi, there.
- Hi. - Hi, are you Jasmine?
- Yes. - Hi, Jasmine, I'm Anna.
- Hello. - Nice to meet you, Anna.
- Nice to meet you, Gino. - Hi, Anna.
- How are you? - Nice to meet you guys. Good.
- Congratulations on your recent engagement... - Thank you.
...and welcome to Cornman Farms.
Well, if you guys want to follow me, we can start
over in the barn that allows for up to 75 guests.
Okay. Wow.
Nice, right?
Yeah, I'm just admiring the place, baby.
So, if you want to follow me this way,
this is the lower level of the barn.
Awesome.
Um...
- Wow. This is it. - Wow...
Holy cow.
I have to be honest that I really like the place.
This is an old antique house.
It's so beautiful, it feels like being in a museum.
This is huge.
Old-fashioned.
The only wrong thing about this place
is that it is in Michigan, not in Panama.
Because I'm quite sure that if I had had the same place in Panama,
I would be like, "Yes,
Forget about the wish wedding. I want it to happen here."
But I'm not gonna give it up that easy to Gino.
I'm so used to it.
So, if your guest count fell between 15 and 75...
- Yeah. - ...this is where most of your event would take place.
Our team will set up a tablescape,
a floor plan that we had agreed on previously.
- Oh, okay. - Mmm-hmm.
- I...
Yeah. Nothing to worry about.
Yeah, it'll be a chill day for you.
But what about like, um...
- Because you guys are doing everything, this... - Mmm-hmm.
Like, the cost?
Yeah. So for smaller weddings, we can see anywhere
from 5,000 to 15,000.
For those larger weddings, we can see anywhere from 15,000 to 35,000.
- It really all depends on what you add on... - Okay.
...what kind of things you bring in,
- how many people you guys have... - Um, number of guests.
Yeah, I love this place. This is really beautiful in here.
Well, do you guys want to head back over to the farmhouse?
- Perfect, okay. - Okay.
Bye, barn house.
This house is actually very beautiful.
And it's like a dreamy location.
Uh, it has a beautiful landscape,
but a part of me is really concerned that I still have
a lot of unresolved issues with most of Gino's family members, unfortunately.
I wish I could change it, but it is what it is.
Well, since you guys have a lot to think about, a lot of decisions to make,
um, I'm gonna head inside and work on a proposal for you all.
And I'll give you guys some privacy to kinda discuss,
see what you guys are thinking.
- Sounds good to me. - Yeah, thank you.
- All right. - Anna, thanks so much.
You're one of a kind.
So I'm still not quite sure about this being our wedding place.
- Um, of course-- - Still?
After seeing this beautiful place?
Well, I...
I like it. I still-- I still don't know. So...
I'm just concerned about your family ruining
my special day, our special day.
What if they say something mean, or they don't like something,
or they come with their questions?
I mean, it's just a lot of things I'm trying to process.
I made a promise to Gino when we were in Miami
that I was gonna try to get along with his family.
But I don't know how easy that's actually gonna be.
I don't see them welcoming into their family at all.
I know that they don't like me
and I don't think there is a way
I can be accepted by them.
How do you think they feel if they couldn't make it?
Put-- Put yourself in their shoes.
I want this experience to be beautiful
and I don't want anyone to say anything that day or make me feel bad.
I don't know. I don't--
They're not gonna make you feel bad, they're only gonna make you feel good.
How do you know that?
- How can you guarantee that? - It's not gonna be
a bunch of questions like the first time you met 'em.
- But that's the impression that I have. - This is...
That's the only experience
- that I have had with them. - We're going to celebrate our wedding.
That's the only experience that I have had with them.
And they're asking for prenups, and...
looking at me like a freakin' gold digger.
You should talk to them, like, "Hey, you know what?
- Just stop asking... - When...
...like, bombing Jasmine with so many questions.
- She's going through a lot of [bleep]." - Baby.
You know?
You should be, "Hey, take it easy with her."
You know?
I-I wanna get through a day in which I don't cry
and I feel okay and I... I'm...
No. It's okay.
Everything's gonna be okay, babe.
Don't cry.
We're gonna work it out.
We're gonna figure out a good wedding for us.
You know, I know Jasmine wishes her family...
was here.
You know, and I know she misses them.
Um, but I want Jasmine
to feel loved. I want her to feel...
that my family is her family.
This is super important. I really
want them to get along.
It's not gonna be easy.
But it's, you know, it's very important to me.
I asked him to set up a call with his mom
because despite all this secrecy,
all the back and forth,
they are going to be my family.
It's like how is our relationship gonna work
if we just keep arguing?
I'm sorry for hurting your feelings
- over some social media posting. - It's not that hard.
I can't always keep being unfair to myself.
You're either able to change or you're not.
♪ They're expecting us To fall down ♪
♪ And mess this up ♪
But, um...
Does it feel real?
♪ We can make this work ♪
Ashley.
Okay.
Yeah.
Since Manuel's been missing Ecuador,
and I've had such little contact with this family so far,
I asked him to set up a call with his mom
because she can't there for her son when he gets married. So...
And I wanna make sure Manuel knows that I care
that his people aren't here.
And that I... I know.
There's a piece of my heart missing too.
Mmm.
Yeah.
Mm-hmm.
Aww.
Ah.
It feels good to, like,
be included in this conversation because Manuel,
in the past, would have had this conversation separately, or...
I don't know. Gone to the bathroom
or something like that. And so...
despite all of it, all this secrecy...
all the back and forth, I hope that...
this is the beginning of us
cultivating a deeper relationship
on, like, all spectrums, you know?
'Cause they are going to be my family.
It's like how is our relationship gonna work
if we just keep arguing?
I'm sorry for hurting your feelings
over some social media posting.
Okay.
I know that I've... that I've...
been lacking in how I'm responding to some things.
I know that.
I am really trying to get better
and I'm really trying to stay calm
and I'm really trying not to-to only think about myself.
I'm trying to think about... about your point of view.
I've always tried to think about it.
But I'm trying even harder. I really am.
You know...
it's hard to see you're trying...
- when it's... we keep getting the same result. - Like, a lash. Just...
As much as I love you and want to marry you,
I need to be happy too. And I can't always
keep being unfair to myself by ending these arguments.
Keep arguing and then I always have to end them
because you just won't see my side.
Eventually, it's gonna get to me
and I'm gonna be a unhappy wife and I don't want that.
So it's like, yeah, I do want to marry you
but I do need to-to realize for myself whether or not
you are able to change.
You're either able to change or you're not.
I'm-I'm trying to do that... for us.
Well, do you reckon...
if you keep trying, you can get to the point where...
you just take construct... criticism as what it is
and there's never an argument in the first place?
Or are you always gonna take it as an attack in an argument?
- I don't take constructive criticism... - No, no, no, no.
- That's you not taking accountability. - ...as an attack.
- I take... I take shade. - You're not trying. Just answer the quest...
- It's never shade. It's never shade. - I take shade.
Just take accountability right now.
Please help me realize that you can change.
'Cause this is important for me.
Yes. Because I wouldn't even be... you wouldn't...
Again, it's not an attack.
I'm asking you.
So are you gonna take accountability
- moving forward? Okay. - Yes.
If I wasn't, I wouldn't be trying to change.
Wouldn't be trying to work on those things.
I finally see
that I'm getting through to Rob and he starts to be genuine.
Which that's what I wanted all along.
Is just to see, look at him
and see he's being sincere and genuine
and he can care that I-I'm upset.
So I'm in more of a forgiving mood and it's like, you know,
I feel like it ended how I wanted it to start.
Which was us just both being genuine, saying I'm sorry.
I just wish it would happen a bit sooner.
I do love you to death
or I would not be doing all of I can.
To fix this relationship
or to make this relationship what we both feel like it can be.
Because I don't want you to feel like I get angry.
I want you to feel like you can talk to me.
We've been happy before, okay, babe?
Yeah.
We can and will be again.
Okay?
Yeah. I mean, I've always believed that.
It's just, today I did have a doubt, but I still believe we can.
So did I.
And I still believe we can as well.
Okay, I forgive you.
I forgive you also.
I feel like Sophie and I will have these heated arguments
and then we somehow find each other
at the end of them. And...
I really appreciate that Sophie's able to...
move on from these moments and...
I really try to myself
because I need that. I need to know that my partner
isn't ready to give up
and that we can work these things out.
A lot has happened
but I still obviously love him.
I don't not love him and I still want to marry him.
It does suck that we have all these issues going on.
Like, we had the whole kids situation.
And then we had me coming out as bi. And then...
Rob not getting along with my mom. But...
you know...
Yeah. I'm hopeful too.
I'm sorry again for snapping at you.
I'm sorry as well.
You always got a bunch of lipstick on.
Yeah. I do.
I feel like a frightened kid
about to do a play at school.
Just stage fright.
No matter how I feel inside,
I have to play it cool.
Were you worried I wasn't gonna do it?
You, well, you didn't really show me
at the first, like...
- you know... - I'm hurt.
Yeah. But I'm glad that we're
finally here at the mosque
and have my family that can...
see you converting.
I'd really like both my parents to be there when I convert.
Even if they don't agree with it.
It's a big moment for me and her.
And her parents are there.
Why can't I have my parents there?
Like... it's, you know... it's, at least...
I hope that I can count on them at least for this.
Huh?
Wudu is purifying yourself before the prayer.
You wash your hands, feet,
mouth, face three times each.
And then you say the "Sahara?"
Think I'm saying it right. Still new to it. Sorry.
It's just like a whole little ceremony.
And go...
I'm worried that he's unprepared,
because that's typically of Sam.
Like, he's not prepared about everything.
Even if I do wing it, I pull [bleep] off, all right?
I think that's your dad.
Yeah.
It'd be nice if my mom was here,
but well,
kinda hurts, but I'll take what I can get.
Kinda surprised,
but very happy, my dad showing up.
He's not religious at all,
but he loves me enough to be there and support me.
Thanks for coming.
I know what it's like to go to something
and have none of your family there.
My mom, she's not coming.
Definitely makes me sad,
'cause she kinda gave me hopes that she might actually come.
And having Citra's dad and my parents there
would just been the perfect moment,
but I don't think I'm gonna get that today.
Hi, yo.
Hello.
I find all religions interesting to some extent.
- Good to see you. - Yes, me too.
I mean, I'm an atheist.
Um, it just makes more sense to me
that the gods were more unlikely from other solar systems,
especially with the way the pyramids are set.
But I was left alone a lot during my marriage,
you know, and my side of the family,
so I would never do that to Sam.
I got it.
- You sure? - Mmm-hmm.
Welcome, welcome.
Welcome, welcome, welcome.
In Sha Allah, we have a happy event today.
So, uh, uh,
our brother who is, uh, going to, uh, pronounce...
You know, uh, he was preaching.
Uh, if you please come.
Uh...
Uh, [sighs] it kinda feels like everything's happening too fast.
Sit down.
It would've been nice to have a little bit of time
just to prepare myself.
We have brother today with us
who is going to pronounce his Shahada.
We have to listen to him.
I feel like a frightened kid about to do a play at school.
Just stage fright.
No matter how I feel inside, I had to play it cool.
Feeling like my life's really about to start.
Super nervous about living up to the expectations.
It's all such a new shock,
so opposite to the way I used to live.
I wanna know what it's gonna take
to be loved and accepted by you.
Gino needs to have my back at any given moment
It's now or never.
You in bikinis and on the beach, and...
This is not normal.
I'm about to get married.
Feeling like my life's really about to start.
But, uh, super nervous.
My heart kinda dropped for a second.
It felt like 1000 minutes just waiting for his response.
Here we are.9
Our wedding is quickly coming upon us,
and we've been so busy.
There's still a lot of last minute details we gotta work out
with the photographer, this music and the food.
This is table for you.
Awesome.
It's a lot, a lot of, lot of planning,
organizing, and...
Um, a lot of stress,
because we don't have a lot of time to figure this out.
You know, it, it's stressful.
So, who's coming?
Dana's coming, Michelle and Amanda.
And also, my nephew Anthony.
And what about Lori and, um, Tony?
Uh,
they messaged me that they're not gonna be able to make it.
Jasmine has mentioned to me that she was hurt
by some of the things that she heard from some of the family members
at our first dinner meeting.
Our wedding is right around the corner,
and it's really important
Jasmine puts an effort in with my family tonight,
and that she's just open to talk to them
and try to work things out.
Um, that's really important to me,
and I hope she, you know,
can hash out the things that she's concerned with with my family
and we can have our, you know, a super wedding,
where everyone's comfortable.
- Hi. - Hi.
- Hey.
Hey.
- Hey. - Hello.
Hey.
What's going on?
I'm willing to give Gino's family another chance.
Not because of them, but because of Gino
and how much I love him
and there is anything I couldn't do to make him happy.
Just because of that.
But Gino needs to have my back at any given moment
with no hesitation.
It's now or never.
So, you guys are, you're getting ready?
Are you guys nervous?
Of course.
Yeah, it's, it's been, like, uh...
I don't know, it's hard to explain.
Uh, I've been happy, you know,
because this is something that I prayed for in the past
and it's happening right now.
Um, I was very nervous, uh, to come here.
And I was telling Gino
that I don't want to feel this nervous and this anxious
every time we are having a family gathering.
I understand you having, you know, like,
this, this fear of...
But I can tell you guys that
that that's not the case.
That, that's not the case.
I wanna know what, what it's gonna take
to be loved and accepted by you.
I really...
I really need you guys.
Like, I need...
I need you.
I know.
I miss my family as you have no idea.
I also wanna open my heart and think, like...
But I, I have an American family now.
It's very important for me to feel like I belong
and that I'm welcome.
Because I, I'm not having it easy.
This is one of the hardest things that I have done in my life.
What we're doing right now is the, probably the start.
- Mmm-hmm. - And I'm really glad that,
that you are straightforward with your feelings.
And, you know, the only thing that I can say is, like,
everyone had their concerns.
It's like, "She's beautiful.
Why can't a woman like that find a man in Panama?
Why she gotta come all the way here to Michigan...
...and steal our Gino away?"
Because look at him.
I mean, he's a babe.
And this is, like, like, this is not normal.
You know, we didn't know you,
we saw some pictures of you in bikinis and on the beach, and...
You know, so we really just got to know you,
you know, like, I just got to know you too.
And you're smart and funny and you know I love you.
I know that you guys are super important for Gino.
And I would love to, to have a family,
to see you as my family too, you know?
I'm here by myself.
I only have Gino.
And I'm sorry, baby.
In front of your family,
I'm sorry for being so bitchy to you and for being rude.
I am so sorry.
You, you have given me nothing but love and support.
Thank you.
You know, I wasn't really open minded to everything
when you first got here,
'cause I didn't want you to get here
and then just turn around and leave again
and break his heart, you know?
That's just another thing that I was worried about for him.
'Cause, like, I see the twinkle in his eye every time he looks at you,
you know how much he,
he really loves you, you know?
And you're coming to my awkward uncle, you know?
We all know he's awkward at some times.
So, but, I mean...
He's not awkward, he's super awkward.
Yeah, super awkward.
And, you know, it just all didn't make sense.
But the more we seen you guys together,
I mean, it just started to click for us.
When I first met Jasmine,
I was really skeptical on, you know,
the whole deal with her coming over here and,
and marrying my uncle.
You know, he went through something like this in the past,
and, you know, I just kinda wanted to be that kinda shield for him.
After really getting to know her
and really vetting her and,
and to, seeing the emotions that are coming from her,
yes, you could really tell that she wants to do the best for my uncle, so.
You know, she really does, you know, love with her heart.
I, I really appreciate that about her.
And so, I just wanna toast to Jasmine and Gino
and just welcoming Jasmine into the family.
Whoo!
- Salud, yes, in Spanish. - Saluti.
Saluti in Italiano.
Back to the whole family thing, I mean,
- you're stuck with us now. - I... Yeah.
It's such a relief for me to hear from Gino's family,
that they welcome me into the family,
because I love Gino.
And I know that the family is very important for him
as much as it is for me
and I really don't wanna have any inconvenient
or problem with my husband in the future
because of family issues.
See, I told you we had nothing to worry about.
My family loves you and my family is your family.
Yes.
I'm about to convert before I get married.
Feelin' like my life's really about to start.
But, uh, super nervous
about living up to the expectations
and just...
It's all such a new shock and, like,
so opposite to the way I used to live.
Say...
He doing it really good,
because I teach him before to say the Shahada.
So, he, he's doing really good and I'm surprised.
Mmm-hmm.
It is a big thing for me
that he finally became a Muslim,
and I'm really proud of him.
It's not easy for someone to convert to other religion.
Yeah, honestly, if you go in trying to fake it,
you're not gonna make it. It's not gonna work.
I was definitely a bit of a [bleep] up in the past
but since being with her,
she really straightened me out.
Yeah, if you [bleep] up any more,
you have to answer me.
Okay.
Yeah.
She's coming.
Okay.
So, when the Imam asked
Herman if he still agrees to the blessing
of my marriage, like, my heart kind of dropped for a second.
It felt like thousand minutes just waiting for his response.
And then that big wave of relief
when he gave his blessing.
I just fully felt accepted by Citra's dad at that moment.
Yes.
Okay. You will look at him and tell him...
Meaning "I marry myself to you."
Brother Sam, and you say what means "I have accepted."
Thank you.
Uh, it's great. I know that he loves Citra.
And he seems to be happy,
and that's all a parent can want.
Welcome, welcome, welcome.
We did it. We're married now.
Like, I've been waiting three years for this.
I can't wait. The day's finally here,
- and, like, we're through it. - Mmm-hmm.
It's what I've been waiting for
all my life, it feels like.
It happened so fast.
Like, you blink your eyes and then that's it.
We're married.
It just feel unreal.
I feel like we're ready to get off in the car
with the tin cans behind us. It's just crazy.
We did it. We got married.
- Congratulations. - Thank you.
Thank you, congratulations.
- Thank you. - Thanks.
- Good luck. - Thank you. I'll need it.
- Yeah, thank you. - Thank you.
Oh, God, okay.
I did not take into account
hurricane season when I chose the wedding date.
Oh, my God.
The word "storm" is making me hyperventilate,
because I don't have a plan B.
♪ I like the rendezvous ♪
♪ Ain't no better girl that's me plus you ♪
I had an amazing bachelorette.
- Yeah. - It turned out perfectly.
- I wanna do it again with you. - Oh.
Yeah!
♪ Looks like a good time ♪
♪ I came to party Right now I'm on the floor ♪
Oh, my God. Armando messaged me.
Oh, my God. Okay, okay.
Armando is our wedding planner/officiant
and he is the one taking care of business for the big day.
Okay, here we go.
Ashley?
Looking at the climate, um,
it looks like we're gonna have tropical storms.
Oh, God, okay. My head.
You have to understand when you're on the beach,
you're possibly putting your people in a really serious situation.
Oh, my God.
Hearing the word "storm" is making me hyperventilate.
Like, I, it...
I'm not a Floridian, okay?
I did not take into account
hurricane season when I chose the wedding date.
At all.
Okay.
See? I'm perfect. This is why I'm here.
Yeah.
I'm not really sure how we got to this place.
This is my dream wedding,
and I can't even think of bad weather ruining it.
Okay.
I'm freaking out.
Okay.
What happens if it rains,
or even worse, if there's a hurricane? I'm gonna die.
I can't stop thinking about it.
I have a pit in my stomach right now.
- About what? - The rain.
Well...
There's some things that you can't control.
- Like the weather. - Like the weather.
Yeah. I think giving it, like, attention and...
- I'm trying to not. - ...speaking, like, it's not helping.
And we've got this full moon hitting right on day 89.
All of this is happening in divine timing.
I chose the date,
but the rest was being handled by my wedding planner.
So I don't have a plan B.
- Gonna be fine. - Mmm-hmm.
Postponing the wedding is definitely not an option.
It's a destination wedding. People have flights.
And tomorrow also is, like, the cut-off day.
The K-1 visa is conditional.
You get married within 90 days.
After those 90 days, if you don't get married,
they get the boot.
It's just, like, starting to hit.
- Yeah. - Like, we have 24 hours.
Yeah.
I have been waiting to marry him for so long.
It's happening. We're getting married on the beach.
That's the vision. That's what's happening.
That's what we're doing at 5:30 p.m.
There is no other option.
Like, what would happen if that dream is crushed?
My world will implode on itself.
Everything. Tomorrow. Two-plus years.
We have worked so hard.
Like, I don't think I've worked harder for anything in my life.
Mmm.
I really don't.
This wedding could be ruined if it gets rained on.
And of course I'm frustrated at this idea
of not just rain, but, like,
hurricane. We're not talking about a light sprinkle.
Everything that we've worked for to get to this point,
it could all just go to waste
and quite literally be washed away.
Whatever happens, whether it rains or not...
- Yeah. - ...you know, you're gonna be okay.
Like, you do hard things all the time. I see you do it.
Yeah.
I love Anali so much.
I don't want some [bleep] stripper
breaking us apart after we've already been through so many things.
I didn't spend the last two-and-a-half years
building this relationship with Anali,
spending all this money getting her here,
doing all this wedding stuff, planning,
all for her to pack her suitcase,
go get her passport and go home.
That's just not an option.
Um... it's just not an option.
Next time on 90 Day Fiancé...
- Boob. - Ah!
Now it's all kicking in,
the fact we're about to be married.
But my mom and Rob haven't really, you know,
made up or spoken since the whole big fight.
I've walked in and literally no conversation.
You've just gone and sat on the bed.
I just talked to you.
You know I don't need to be here. I can go to a hotel.
- You're acting like... - Mom, Mom, it's fine.
I don't need them to be best friends,
but I do need them to at least get along.
All right.
The ceremony is about to begin.
Kinda nervous right now.
This wedding is incomplete because
my other half, my family, is not here.
To marry, you know, outside your country,
not having your family or anything...
It's very sad.
After the priest says, like, "Do you take this man,
do you take this woman as your wife, husband?"
we finally have our first, like, kiss-kiss.
I don't have the slightest clue how I'm gonna find someone
in an hour to marry us.
Feel like we're right at the finish line,
and then bam, brick wall, like, can't get married today.
I'm just so sick of running into problems.
I'm gonna miss our time together.
There's still things that we need to work on,
but I'm very hopeful for our future.
- Have you heard from Anali? - No.
She's not here.
I'm ready, everyone in the audience is ready,
and my bride is still not here.
Okay, man?