Previously on 90 Day Fiance, The Couples Tell All...
I would like for you to respect my mom.
Mom, I would like for you to respect Rob as well.
I do not talk about your mom like she talks about me.
Rob the knob?
That's mad disrespectful, to say about your son in law.
Manuel came here on a lie.
What is he not telling Ashley?
I think Manuel has always been on the secretive side.
I still don't know what the hell's going on.
All they do is argue and have sex.
- We communicate. - Yeah, after you have sex.
Mom.
Sam and Citra, how is married life treating you?
Um...
Well, as you know, I'm a horny freak, as I've shown.
And she's expecting.
Congratulations.
We are going to circle back to you.
We need to talk to you about your legal troubles and the threat of jail time.
Hopefully, that's all been worked out.
I spoke with Igor last night.
He said that he's not trans attracted.
He's not trans attracted?
- No. - I think it's a little too late for him to say that.
Way too late.
For him to do this to me, it breaks me to the core.
It seems Gino hasn't told Jasmine the whole story of his bachelor party.
We got our hands on some never-before-seen content.
Looks like a fun night, Gino.
Yeah.
I could have never gotten married to you,
if I have seen this before the wedding.
I'm not gonna stay here.
Wow.
So, Gino, you don't regret anything that went down at your bachelor party?
No. Keep in mind, 95% of the time
I was sitting at a table with my family by the way. 95% of the time.
Five percent of the time you see me when they called me up to go on the stage.
- Okay. - But are you not upset that she's so upset?
Like, does that not upset you?
Yeah, but she doesn't have to be so upset like that.
We are going to give Jasmine the space she needs right now.
In the meantime, I want to get back to our conversation with Daisy,
a dancer from Gino's bachelor party.
How would you characterize Gino's behavior at the bachelor party?
He did seem to have a good time, but not like...
crazy.
You could just tell he was a little bit weary about being at the club.
I wonder why.
Would you call yourself awkward at the club, Gino?
Yes. Because I really didn't wanna upset Jasmine.
I just want to ask, in your opinion,
would you consider how Gino was, um,
like, on good behavior for a guy who's at a bachelor party?
Ultimately, yes. I do think that it was pretty respectful behavior.
He came in with his family.
It was a normal bachelor party.
I have seen quite a bit worse here. - Uh-huh.
He was hugging her.
Did you see that part? She was...
She was... She was topless and he was hugging her.
Never!
Why doesn't he get up and come over here and console his wife?
Like, I don't understand this. - I don't want him here.
Wow. Okay.
Do you think that Daisy has actually redeemed Gino,
that he was on his best behavior
and that there was nothing to worry about?
Um...
It should help redeem Gino. But I don't think it really will.
Why not?
It affects Jasmine greatly.
Maybe because my ex did this kind of thing.
Oh,.
- Worked at a club. - Oh, your ex worked at a strip club?
- Correct. - Okay.
- And she knows that. - That makes sense.
Were you married to her? Was it that one?
I wasn't married to her. Just a girlfriend. - Oh.
I don't think we knew that.
Okay.
This is it, Nikki. This is the last row.
This is it.
This is it. I'm done.
I'm done. You don't know.
Was this your most recent ex?
Yes.
- Oh. - Okay.
Do you think that plays into it, that is ex... - Yeah, definitely. Yeah.
Well, I just think she doesn't want Gino's attention on anything else but her.
And well, Gino, you're also not sleeping with her.
And I understand why. Like whatever, how she speaks to you.
You two gotta figure that out. - Right.
That's a very difficult thing, because all the hurtful things
that have been said to me, and that it's not just once
this happens over and over, it's a cycle.
It keeps happening, happening, happening, happening.
It doesn't end.
Are you attracted to Jasmine?
Yes.
I am, but that's not the problem.
She's beautiful. That's not the problem.
It's what she says to me.
- And how she-- - But it turns you off.
The hurtful things that she says, it's hard to...
...overcome.
No, I'm sorry that--
I feel very embarrassed. You know that I do respect you so much.
I didn't mean to walk like that.
I just couldn't take what I was watching.
I'm very sorry.
How are you feeling?
Thank you, God. Nikki is here, you know and...
I was having a panic attack back there and she was...
- Yeah. - And... Nikki was comforting me.
And we just had...
I'm glad you're feeling better.
Jasmine, um, I've been talking to Daisy.
Do you have any questions for Daisy?
Oh, yes, of course.
It was very hard for me, triggering for me right now
as a woman to see my husband at a strip club.
And you were topless.
He was hugging you. He was smelling you.
It might be, I don't know okay for you. But...
He had never looked at me or complimented me as his wife...
the way he did to you, and that's what hurts me.
I can understand from a female's point of view
where you're absolutely coming from.
You wanna say thank you for pointing out nothing against me,
because I didn't feel that way.
But I also want to say, Gino was...
not complimenting me at all.
He was hugging you. And there were--
Yeah, correct.
There were many moments in which you were rubbing your chest against him.
- Correct. - No, hold on, though.
I'm not-- No, I need to talk to her.
I was getting hugged and brought in to. - I need to talk to her.
- Not me hugging. - This is a conversation between--
You had your time with her. Now it is my time.
I just wanna make sure it's... - No. Listen.
Like... He lied to me.
He never told me that you were topless, half naked.
It happened the night before my trip
to the United States.
So the days after that, I found a lip gloss.
- Okay. - That lip gloss was fresh,
and it was under the passenger seat of my husband.
So if it is yours...
Okay. I can promise you it's not.
My only encounter with Gino was at the actual bachelor party.
And it never went anywhere other than the party itself.
Daisy, is there anything else that you would like to say to Jasmine?
I just want to let her know that I do understand
where she's coming from as a woman.
But I do want to reassure her that from my point of view,
that Gino truly does love and want to be with her.
And he had zero interest in anybody that was here other than him and his family.
I disagree with that part that Gino loving me and all that.
Don't take him--
He being awkward, as he not liking you.
Actually, when Gino is the most awkward is when he's trying to be flirtatious.
All right. Daisy, thank you for helping to clear up
what happened the night of Gino's bachelor party.
We really appreciate you coming on to talk to us.
- Take care. Thank you. - Thank you. Take care.
Gino, Jasmine, obviously, you two have been through a lot in your relationship.
I hope that you have gotten some clarity today.
And that your marriage continues to improve.
- Thank you, Shaun. - Thanks.
All right. I think everyone could use a break after that.
Jasmine, are you okay, honey?
Yes.
You know that this is it, you know, right?
- What's that? - You crossed a line.
You crossed a line here.
I don't think I did.
And that's the problem.
That you can never see when you go too far.
I don't think so.
Honestly, I didn't think the bachelor party was such a big deal.
Everyone has bachelor parties, and a lot of people do them at strip clubs.
Geez-o-Pete. There wasn't much that I did.
So I don't know why she's so upset.
What hurts me the most is not the bachelor party itself.
It's the fact that if Gino really love me,
he should take accountability of how I feel.
I want him to respect and validate my feelings.
Mmm. Mmm-hmm.
Boy.
It makes me feel better about your relationship, you know?
- Yeah. - Sadly, at their expense.
Has Sophie ever yelled at you that loud?
Uh...
No comment.
It's hard to imagine, like what Gino goes through.
Just worrying about a fight every five seconds. Uh-uh.
I imagine the jealousy is exhausting.
Hey. You okay?
Surviving. Trying to.
- Bro, how you feeling? - Not very good.
And the problem is, it's like a cycle,
and it keeps happening, and it never stops.
Yeah.
That's the problem.
Like, you know, she's guilty of doing some stuff herself.
- Right. I mean... - She's guilty of some very questionable things.
She constantly brings up her ex, which to me,
if Rob was constantly bringing up his ex,
there's-- I would feel like there's something there.
Whether or not she him. I don't know.
But it seems like there's something there
and I can get why you feel like you don't want to be intimate with her,
because you probably have these thoughts of, like,
"What if I'm not as good as her ex?" You know.
Right. And not only that, it's just the hurtful things she says to me.
If Rob ever said to me, "Oh, my ex me better than you..."
- Oh, my God. - Never talking to you again in my life.
You would cut my throat in my sleep. - Yeah.
Never getting laid again.
I understand Jasmine. I'm not even gonna lie.
I understand how she reacts.
Because she feels like she's not being heard, so she gets louder.
And I also understand how it can be hard for you to deal with it.
So I get where you both are coming from.
I personally think...
Jasmine is looking for a level of love from you
that you feel uncomfortable getting,
because you can't get behind the way she treats you sometimes.
Jasmine and Gino bang it out.
You need to have sex, or else the relationship is not going to survive.
I mean, we gotta release all this energy somehow, right?
I wasn't sure about showing this,
because this is like something that I...
I feel embarrassed about and I wanted to keep private.
And like, I've been labeled, like, crazy.
Like, all my trusting issues are coming out of nowhere.
But I do believe that it's important
that you are aware of our situation that's going on in my home.
Okay, so this is something...
This is something that I got in my house.
Okay? I'm gonna read it for you.
Why would you disrespect your woman and say that she has man vibes?
Stop talking down to me like that.
He said, "Tomorrow, I will stop. Today, I will speak"?
There's just been so many red flags that I've seen
And...
Just like every aspect of their relationship is odd.
I mean, we're from different cultures.
Everything is odd. Every one of these couples are "odd."
Yeah. However, I don't see any affection.
Okay. I'm gonna read it for you.
"Jasmine, Gino and I had so much fun at the bachelor's party.
Sorry for the lip gloss.
You can keep it.
But it won't look as good on you as it does on me."
What a bitch!
What?
"The rest you can keep for your imagination."
You can pass it. Everyone can see it.
That's not true.
And I never was with any girl.
- And... - This is a fan that...
- Inside the envelope. - A fan that left this in my front porch.
Listen, Gino, I don't recommend anyone to touch it. I haven't touched it.
And it was in the envelope.
And... And this...
- This... - Ew!
- Oh, my God. - Yes.
What is it?
Is that yeast?
No, it was there.
So it's not like, oh, crazy Jasmine over reacted.
I received this in my front door.
I don't know what to think.
I don't know how to react.
I don't know.
Like everything, is way too much for me.
I would say, that it's some person.
And the fact that it was a typed letter makes me feel like,
whoever did it, didn't want you to figure out who it was.
Okay. Jasmine, I'm traumatized.
Can we, like, get this back in the bag, please?
- Don't touch that. - I'm not.
You're gonna get fungus on your feet.
Set it on fire where it's at.
No, no, no, no. It's not true. None of this is true.
I knew what she had because I've seen it before myself.
But...
I can't believe that she even showed that,
or was trying to suggest that I was with this person.
I think it could be a fan or an ex that left it.
Who knows?
This person wanted to plant a seed, you know? - Of doubt.
Of doubt, yes.
I know, Jasmine. But you've got to be stronger
because you should know that he loves you.
I want to trust my husband.
But Gino has a history
of not taking accountability of the actions that really hurt me.
All right.
Jasmine and I have been in many fights now.
And one of the biggest things I've learned is that she needs time to cool off.
And then I can have a good conversation with her.
Hopefully, we can work things out and communicate.
And things can go smoother for us.
In five, four, three, two...
And now, let's turn our attention to Nikki and Justin.
As a reminder, we have translators
for the foreign language speakers here today.
Now, you would think that after nearly 20 years,
two people's feelings about each other would be pretty clear.
And yet, that has not been the case here.
Nikki, the last time we saw you...
Justin had just broken up with you via text.
Are you still broken up?
I'll let him answer that.
- Justin? - Do you want to answer that, Justin?
Yes. Why not?
Justin, are you still broken up?
Wow.
Well, we know that Nikki was blindsided by Justin's text breakup.
But we never got to hear Justin's side of things until today.
Let's take a look.
Okay. New day, new laugh.
This is a hard time of my life.
I will miss Nikki, because I love her.
But at this moment, I think this is the best decision.
I try to explain in Russian, because I can express myself better.
Because you never were in love with me from the very beginning.
He said "free".
Yeah, like... like he was in a prison with me.
Justin, did you feel trapped in your relationship with Nikki?
Uh, no, that's wrong word.
- Wow. Okay. - He wants to play the victim.
So... So, Justin, I'd like to know
why did you decide to break up with Nikki
via text instead of calling her
and expressing your feelings to her over the phone or video chat.
To the person that you claim to love - That's easy answer.
- That's easy. - Right.
How you can see when we speak,
Nikki always...
And I don't know well English.
I can't explain many stuffs.
- This is why-- - You know enough English.
Nikki, learn how to listen. Nikki, learn.
- This is why we broke up. - Stop. See?
- With text... With text... Yes. - Stop talking to me like that.
Tomorrow, I will stop.
Today, I will speak.
He said, "Tomorrow, I will stop. Today, I will speak."
Okay, Igor.
He's trying to say you have manly vibes.
- Like the same... Vibes.
Okay, first of all...
- What? Yes. ...here's my biggest problem.
- See, I was gonna wait to go there... -
...Listen, I was gonna wait to go there with you.
Why would you ever, ever
say that your woman, the woman that you love,
who is a trans woman, has man vibes?
That is the absolute biggest insult you could ever give her in your entire life.
Why would you do that?
And he's talking about respect...
And he's talking about respect.
- Exactly. Exactly. - ...to begin with.
- - Ashley...
- Yes?
Listen, Igor, I'm asking you a very direct question.
- Why would you disrespect... - Yes, hold your
- candles like that. Hold right now. - ...your woman?
Why would you disrespect your woman
and say that she has man vibes?
Stop talking down to me like that.
Bye. Boy, bye.
You know, you loved me,
and then you took me on a two-year ride.
What... What do you mean?
I flew out to Moldova for his birthday a couple of months ago.
That's how much I loved him and wanted to work.
- And then we made up. - Right. We heard about that.
But we're not sure how serious it got.
Where did you leave things?
Well, I had an amazing time. It was so romantic.
Everything was great. He made love to me.
Yes, it's true.
And I put the ring back on my finger.
Okay, wait, hold up. Hold up.
Let me... I want to make sure we're all clear about what is happening here.
- I'm confused. Um...
...Talking to you two today,
it seems like your relationship status is unclear.
But you are now, technically,
- engaged again. - Yeah.
Wow.
You in or you out?
Uh, what?
Are you in or are you out, Igor?
Do you think that you're fully at ease
with Nikki being trans?
You guys broke up.
Then she travels to Moldova for your birthday.
You put on the engagement ring on her...
I am in disbelief, honestly. I'm speechless.
So, Nikki, you and Justin are technically engaged again?
Yeah. At first we talk
- and he told me he loved me... - Yes, we speak a lot.
- ...He made love to me.
Let me ask you, Nikki, why would you go back?
Good question.
Because... I love him,
- you know... Yeah.
- and I have history with him.
Oh.
Excuse me?
Upper part or down part? Which part of me?
Honey, the lower part is not all that.
- So calm down, okay? - It's not a joke.
- Just listen. - Calm down.
- Listen care-- - Calm down, Igor. Calm down.
Well, you don't give her the down part,
so it's obviously not that one.
Okay, let's get back to the breakup.
Via text message from Justin.
Justin, what was it that led up to you writing that text?
Because you lied.
Nikki, explain to us what happened.
So his ex, his first girlfriend,
reaches out to me on social media,
"Oh, I'm so happy. You and Justin." Blah, blah, blah.
I thought that was kind of odd.
Like, why is some random girl from Moldova hitting me up?
And so then I said, "So, I want to ask you a question.
Do you meet or see your exes?"
He's like, "No, no."
So I asked her, "So, do you see each other?"
"Oh, yeah, I see... We... we see each other. We meet at the park."
He says, "You're digging out secrets,
trying to find secrets in my past."
If you would have just been honest, there wouldn't have been a problem.
- You like to manipulate and control. -
So, Justin, you're admitting that you meet up sometimes
with your exes in person?
- Randomly.
But he said "never".
Never. He said never.
You're a player.
I'm trying to understand what the is going through his head.
Nikki, it seems like you've often had concerns about
Justin not being faithful.
Do you think that after you apply for the K-1 visa process,
that Justin cheated on you?
Yeah.
- What? - He's jacking off a lot.
He's jacking off a lot. That's what he's saying.
- Wait, Rob... - He's saying his arm is big
because he's using his arm a lot...
So... so were you with women or were you not with women
while Nikki and yourself were applying for the K-1 visa process?
Or were you just using your hand?
No, I'm asking you if you were. I'm sick of this.
I'm asking you directly.
- Were you with other women...
Igor, were you with other women
while you and Nikki were applying for the K-1 visa?
- Stop avoiding the question. Answer the question.
You talk about being a man.
You talk about who has man vibes,
then show up as this man that you claim that you are
and answer the question that you're being asked.
- And I'm asking you...
...were you with other women?
Answer the question.
No. No.
It's what a manipulator does.
Igor, so, are you in love with Nikki or no?
- He never was.
Yeah.
Okay, but do you love her or no?
That's from your energy.
I think he's not attracted to trans women,
and I don't think he's been attracted to trans women this whole time.
Do you think that you're fully at ease with Nikki being trans?
Yes, of course.
But that's a lie, because if it's not 'cause she's trans then what is it?
'Cause you guys have been trying to be with each other for years now.
- Maybe 20 years. - It's the public's opinion and perception of him.
And if you were a real man, Igor,
you would have stood by my side as my king,
because I treated you as my king
and I did everything that you needed.
But I was never your queen. Never.
I think you gotta let go, boo.
No, no, no, no, no, please. I want to say something.
You don't want her. Stop with her.
I'm telling you straight up directly.
- Leave her alone.
No, no, no. You'd don't have a...
all information. You can't judge us.
This is not facts.
How long has it been with her
back-and-forth, playing with her head, playing with her heart?
You in or you out?
Uh, what?
Are you in or are you out, Igor?
Yeah. Are we in a relationship? Yes or no?
Sam, where did you meet this woman?
I was driving ride-share and, uh, talking to the girl.
She was really pretty.
The physical urge got to me.
But he told me that he didn't end up sleeping with that girl.
- Wait. But... but did you? - Wait. Did he cheat or not?
You in or you out?
Yeah. Are we in a relationship? Yes or no?
But how do you not know after nearly 20 years, if you're together or not?
Everybody, before you give me some opinions about that situation,
I just want to ask how many trans you have before in a relationship.
Yeah, but once you knew she was trans,
if you wasn't okay with it, why did you still,
- do you know, date her... - Yeah. Why did... Why?
...if you're not okay with it? - Why 15 years?
Because I love her.
That's easy.
- That's easy. - I know, but, Ig...
He's trying to play you right now.
Okay, we're gonna stop here for now,
and we'll circle back to Nikki and Justin later.
I want to move on now to Sam and Citra.
Sam and Citra both made major life changes
in the lead up to their wedding.
Citra moved all the way from Indonesia to be with him,
and Sam converted to Islam for her.
Their actions prove just how much love they have for each other.
Sam and Citra, there is a lot to cover, so let's get started.
We are so thrilled to hear that you are pregnant, Citra. - Thank you.
Now, were you two trying for a baby?
It wasn't planned because we want to wait until a year.
Like, we want to spend time together first but...
And do you feel like you're ready to be parents?
I don't know if anyone ever really feels ready.
Like, it really became real for me
- when I heard the heartbeat... - Ah.
...The sonogram, like...
'Cause otherwise it kind of just feels the same before...
besides the way she's kinda acting
and the sickness and...
- Yeah. - Yeah. Pregnancy is a lot.
- You saying it? - Yeah.
Yeah, exactly. Yeah.
You just don't know, Sam.
Yeah, you have no idea.
He put a demon inside me.
Always make me throw up.
Okay, Sam, you're gonna be a dad soon.
So we need an update on your legal situation.
Is there still a threat that you could go to jail
or have you been allowed back into the diversion program
despite originally missing the deadline for the paperwork?
Um, I...
I just was lazy on filing that paperwork
and just so pissed at myself
that right as she's about to get here and be with me, I had that mess up.
But now I'm officially in the program.
Signed the paperwork like two days ago.
I don't have to go to jail as long as I don't mess up.
Amazing.
Thank you.
So I just gotta go through counseling
and, uh, possibly daily drug tests,
and I just have to not mess that up for a year
while maintaining a full-time job.
You really have to be good for a whole year.
Hey, Sam, you got it bro. You're gonna knock that out.
- Appreciate that. - For sure.
That has to bring a lot of relief to you, Sam.
A little bit.
How scared were you, Citra?
I was really scared. Like, if he was going to jail, like,
I'm pregnant and I'm gonna have the baby alone.
And I don't know how to do that.
Sam, does the Muslim faith, like, help you stay sober, do you think?
Oh, yeah. Absolutely. Um...
'cause, like, I know... most people either get high to escape
or because you're missing something
and it was really what I was missing,
And, uh, it's just truly saved my life.
It's beautiful to hear.
All right, I want to switch gears now
and discuss an incident from Sam's past
that we haven't heard much about.
Early on, Sam revealed to our producers that he had a brief affair
after he and Citra were in a committed relationship.
Here's how he explained it.
I try to be a good guy, but if I have one weakness, it's with women.
So having that long distance, it's just...
It's a struggle for me. I know I can be a flirty person.
I had a one night stand with this girl I met,
and it happened real quick.
But, uh, I ended up telling her about it.
I know from that day on, like, it changed things.
She has that worry.
What do you want with my man? Like...
Are you trying to get rid of me or what?
Sam and I haven't seen each other for a year,
and there is some kind of trust issue.
We track each other's location and all that doing that share thing.
She used to ask me like, "Oh, where are you?"
Like, if I was working late.
And of course, at that time when I was actually with another girl,
she knew and could see it.
And I'm texting her, telling her other things,
and we ended up fighting, like, the next few days after that.
Okay.
Sam, what can you tell us about this one night stand?
It was just a quick little fling.
It meant nothing to me.
It was just the physical urge got to me.
It was still pretty early on where just...
we weren't so sure about, like, our relationship.
I hadn't even met her yet in person.
So, I mean, that's kind of why I gave in.
But you were in a committed relationship?
Yes.
Where did you meet this woman?
I was doing... driving rideshare,
just trying to make money on the side and stuff
for the visa 'cause it's expensive.
And, uh, I'm talking to the girl
as I'm driving her to her destination.
She ends up giving her number.
She was really pretty, and I just... I had a weak moment.
O... Okay. The ride ended in the...
No, no. It was the next night.
Wow.
Do you have any lingering feelings of jealousy or trust issues with Sam?
After that happened, yeah, but like...
So I just, you know, like...
Well, we still always share each other's location after that.
And, like, she has access to all my stuff.
Citra, what did he actually tell you?
So you remember Sam telling you,
- that they almost were into it... -
...but they actually weren't?
He just around for one night.
But he told me that he didn't end up sleeping with that girl and...
- Wait. But... but did you? - Wait. Did he cheat or not?
- What? I did tell you that. - Wait. He said that he did not sleep with her?
Like, enough to her.
You said that.
- I did tell you. - No.
Oh.
You had reservations about Anali
and her intentions with your brother?
I did, and I will continue to have them.
Are you trying to say your brother's relationship is fraudulent?
If somebody was hiding me, I would think, like, what else are you hiding?
- Oh.
You said that you didn't end up doing...
- Okay. Oh... .
I did tell you.
Sam, did you say that you did not sleep with her?
No, I told her. It's been a while.
No, you said that, oh, I... I'm like, you know, we were...
We were about to do something, but,
oh, like you see...
- Oh, no.
And then you didn't end up to do something with her.
Men be lying. I can't.
Oh, my goodness.
She understood that differently.
I'm sorry, baby.
A one night stand is a pretty universal definition.
Yeah, no they... They slept together, girl.
- They had sex, Citra. - Yeah.
Yes.
Oh.
So you're telling her now that you did have sex
with this woman that you met through your rideshare app?
Unfortunately, yes.
Why do you think Citra does not remember you telling her that at first?
She probably doesn't want to remember that.
Or maybe you never told her that.
That's what I'm thinking, too.
Is it possible?
I know I told her.
Clayton, why do you think that he never told her the truth?
Because that's just... It's such a difference.
- It's like... Yeah, we... - In their version, right?
..."Yeah, we had sex." And then, she's saying, like,
"Oh, I just went to her bedroom
and I saw something weird, and then I left."
Like, that's not even...
- There's no way to... Yes. - There is no overlap.
I admit it now, though. I know I made a mistake and...
I would never trust him.
- You wouldn't, Nikki? I would never.
- Why not?
Because, I mean, Justin did the same thing to me.
Well, have you ever cheated on anybody, though?
- Not one? - When I'm in it...
When I'm in a loyal relationship, I don't cheat on my partner.
Okay, so I want to make sure I'm clear.
Citra, you thought Sam and this woman fooled around
but stopped short of having sex?
But you don't really seem that fazed to learn that they went all the way.
Yeah. I don't have time to go sneak around.
Even if I... Like, if I wanted to.
I'm really confident, like, what we have right now.
Sometimes we have ups and downs,
but he always put me first for everything.
Yeah, I believe that people can change.
And you know what?
I'm very proud of you guys.
That means a lot.
I will tell you as a mom,
your children don't need perfect parents.
They need happy ones.
Thank you.
Well, Sam and Citra, you have a lot of good things happening in your lives.
Best of luck to the both of you.
Thank you so much.
Okay, let's take a quick break.
- Sam, listen. - What?
Just keep fighting every day.
Citra, are you okay?
I know that was a lot to deal with. - Yeah.
When that happened, like it took me like a--
like a long time to finally trust him.
But now, like I fully trust him.
Like, he's not gonna do anything stupid like that.
But, I mean, it's good you own up to it, though.
Like, you're very accountable
and you're not trying to downplay it.
So I felt like the biggest piece of ever,
and I never wanted to go through that feeling again.
I just want you to understand how painful it was
for me to watch that footage.
How embarrassed it was for me to be there just seeing--
I do not believe I did anything wrong.
It's a typical bachelor party.
- That's a bachelor party-- - I was never prepared
to watch my now husband
with women half naked and hugging them.
Nothing on Earth can prepare me,
and I'm letting you know it hurt me--
Don't make it sound worse than what it was.
I didn't do anything wrong when I was out there at all.
Gino, I am your wife,
and I-- it hurt me watching that.
If I knew that you would react like this
and be so hurt, I would not have done that.
Okay. That's all that I wanted to hear.
I'm never looking to do things that hurt you.
But it goes both ways.
You have to make sure you...
don't do actions that hurt me.
It goes both ways.
I agree. That's what a marriage is about.
We are both playing for the same team,
and I want us to go back...
to a good place.
Okay.
All right.
We have a lot of work to do as a couple.
We cannot continue going in circles anymore.
But if we both put our heart and mind into it,
we can still make it.
I want to move on now to Clayton and Anali.
Planning a wedding is hard enough,
but it's even more stressful
when the couple is sharing a one-bedroom apartment
with one of their parents.
That was just one of the complications
Clayton and Anali faced during their 90 days.
But they've since moved out of Kentucky
to a new place in Tulsa, Oklahoma.
Clayton and Anali,
I was thinking, when you guys moved,
it was kind of the getaway from Mom.
But that wasn't the reason?
Well, yes and no.
She got her own place.
So like she's still close...
- Uh-huh. - ...but she's not living with us anymore.
So she's not living in a closet anymore.
- No. - Okay.
We just found her her own place near us.
When you guys saw that Clayton's mom was living in their closet,
what did you think?
I mean, there's nothing really to say.
I guess I could have, but, uh, I don't know,
my thought about the guinea pigs is like,
yes, that cage would have fit
in the same space she was sleeping in,
but they need ventilation because they are just like poopers and peers.
And they just need-- they need air.
- So they can't just-- - But what about your mom?
Doesn't your mom need air too?
- And ventilation? - Well, she does.
My mom sits in her closet room,
but with the door open.
Like, she's never-- that's never shut.
It does shut, but she never shuts it.
Okay, I want to shift gears for just a moment.
Um, Clayton, you were so vocal about Anali's lack of interest.
I'm curious now that you are in your own place,
um, are you more on the same page
about things in the bedroom?
Yeah. I mean, our sex life is...
it's more than it was, um,
you know, back living with my mom.
Okay. So it's a-- it's improved.
- The sex life has improved. - Mmm-hmm. Yeah.
And how many times a week is that?
Uh, well, it's been twice this week, so...
Two times. Okay. Two times since--
Nikki, please focus.
Nicki, please focus here.
Shut up.
Rob, Sophie,
when things are great between you two,
what's the average a week?
A few times, at least.
- A few times a week. - Yeah. When things are good, yeah.
Sam and Citra,
what's an average a week?
Uh, probably every day, or at least every other day.
- All right. Okay. - He's a horny little dog.
Nick and Devin.
I have a hot wife.
You say it.
No, you say it.
You say it.
Over or under two?
Uh...
They probably do it like twice a day. - Over.
- Okay. Okay. - Oh, there you go.
All right. Gino, Jasmine.
- Don't even ask us. - Don't even ask them.
You gotta skip us.
Skip us. Next.
What would make me happy would be to have my man
me every day.
I mean, making love to me.
Sorry.
- Yeah. - Say it how you said it, girl.
- Yeah. Because sometimes... - It is what it is.
Say it how you said it. With your whole chest. - ...I want my man
to make love to me. Some other days,
I want him to me. Sex is good.
And I came to this world to be happy. - And healthy.
And sex makes me happy.
Yeah.
Okay, we're gonna shift gears.
Um, now, Anali,
you not only kept your relationship from your father,
but the fact that you were getting married.
How hard was it to keep the truth
from your family for so long?
I am having a hard time understanding
how it's thought to not say
this sort of really important information
out of love.
Well, it doesn't make any sense to me either.
Like, you know--
Do you agree, Manuel?
Yes.
We reached out to your father
and invited him to come on the Tell All.
He declined.
However, he did send this message.
He said,
"I hope my daughter reconsiders and comes home.
She doesn't need anything there.
Thank you."
Okay, well, Anali's father wasn't the only family member
who disapproved of their relationship.
Clayton's sister, Brandi,
has had some doubts about these two,
and she is more than willing to share them.
We invited her to see
if her views on Clayton and Anali's love have changed.
Please welcome Clayton's sister, Brandi.
Hi, Brandi.
Hi.
Brandi, thanks for joining us.
Thank you.
You've had reservations about Anali
and her intentions with your brother.
Did you have reservations from the very beginning?
Yes, I did.
And I will continue to have them.
I just felt like it maybe wasn't real.
I just thought it was like a catfish thing.
Was it anything that Anali did or said,
that made you have some type of concern?
The fact that she hid her relationship from her dad
and she doesn't make any posts on social media,
um...
I just think it's odd.
Like, I don't know if maybe she has a boyfriend in Peru or something
that she doesn't want Clayton to find out about.
Are you trying to say
like your brother's relationship is fraudulent?
If somebody was hiding me,
I would think like what else are you hiding?
Wow.
Anali had a stripper at her bachelorette party.
She said she was traumatized, that she didn't want it.
I saw on the video that she did want a stripper.
She asked me for the stripper.
Oh.
He said he's not gay or trans attracted.
"I can't live with this in my head."
You are my exception.
When you're in love with someone,
you do not give up on the relationship.
There's something going on.
You're wrong.
liar.
If somebody was hiding me,
I would think like what else are you hiding?
What?
If I can't like see them interact,
it's hard for me to know that it's real.
Do you see any affection between Clayton and Anali?
I personally don't see any affection.
Oh, my God.
Oh, wow.
Like, we have to meet all your criteria for you--
Look at everyone sitting here
and look at the way you guys are sitting.
Okay, look how we're hugging. Now what?
That's-- I mean, it's always--
it's going to be something else, right?
Like, obviously that was forced.
But at the same time, it doesn't matter.
And that's kind of my point
is that we don't have to do everything in front of you
for it to happen.
Okay.
Well, Clayton was upset to learn
that Anali had a stripper at her bachelorette party.
Just how raunchy did things get?
Take a look.
All right. Here we go.
First time seeing this.
Ready?
Hey!
Hi!
Oh, no.
No.
Oh, God.
That's the "floppy."
I think Anali, she low-key likes it
because when she notices that I'm not looking,
she's like, "Oh, will you take a selfie with me?"
Oh, my God!
Okay, Clayton,
did that go down just how Anali explained it to you?
Uh, well,
she seems a little bit happier in the footage
than she did in the conversation we had.
But she said she was traumatized... - Uh-huh?
...that she didn't want it.
She said she didn't want it, but I saw on the video
that she did want a stripper.
Well, she inspired it.
So it was your idea?
She asked me for the stripper.
They've asked me for a lot of things.
Part of me thinks that Brandi might have done that
to affect our relationship.
- Oh. - Really?
I'm kind of wondering.
Well, you don't think your own sister's a meddler, do you?
- Well, I-- well...
Brandi, you started the relationship meddling.
So, yes, Nikki, I do.
It seems like you're bothered by your sister.
I'm not even gonna lie.
Well, I'm bothered by my sister,
and she seems bothered by me having a happy relationship.
Oh.
- No. - Ooh!
I really wish
you would have just kept the piggy thing private.
To have someone sit and call you a piggy
and say you're fat in front of your parents,
it's very embarrassing.
She's skinny now, way skinnier.
But I still call her piggy.
But she was skinny before.
My sister seems bothered by me having a happy relationship.
Oh.
Oh, wait a minute now.
- No. - Those are some big words.
I will meddle in my brother's business
just because I'm his only sister.
However, I didn't purposely try to, like,
do anything to affect your relationship.
If you're counting the bachelorette party
that you're woman asked for,
I brought it.
Well, do you feel like sometimes you're doing things
to test the relationship, to see if it's real?
Mmm... no.
I think maybe if I was around them more,
I probably would.
Good thing you're not around me too much.
What is your biggest fear when it comes to Clayton
and Anali's relationship?
I just don't want her to hurt him.
Um, I don't know,
I just-- there's just been so many red flags that I've seen.
And--
I'm just aggravated with the whole...
just like every aspect of their relationship is odd.
- Well, I mean, we're from different cultures. -
Everything is odd.
Every one of these couples are odd.
First off, I don't need to prove anything to you.
But if I did,
at what point do you start believing
that this relationship is real?
Just whenever I feel like it.
Well, that's how you've lived all your life,
and it hasn't gotten you very far, has it?
- Oh. - Oh.
Guys, do you hate each other? Like...
Sometimes.
I'm happy for them,
but it's still my brother and I'm protective
and I'm still going to run my mouth.
Well, nothing about this conversation
shows that you're happy for us.
You don't really know what his version of love with someone looks like.
And the version that you've seen
isn't good enough for you.
- It can only just-- - It might be just your perception.
Okay, well,
this has been a really interesting discussion.
How many think there are deeper issues
between Brandi and Clayton that are not being discussed?
Ah, Brandi raises her hand.
Okay.
All right. Well, I guess we won't get to all of those.
But, Brandi, I want to thank you
for sharing your views on your brother's marriage.
We hope the three of you can move forward
in a positive way.
Thank you.
Oh, yeah, the little clap.
What in the is my brother doing?
She's here to get the green card,
the ring and all that.
I don't know if Clayton sees things through my eyes
because I think he's in love with her.
At least she's real
and he didn't get catfished, I guess.
I want to go now to Devin and Nick.
When we last saw them,
their love was soaring, literally,
in a helicopter ride after their wedding.
Now they're trying to enjoy
the honeymoon phase of their marriage.
Devin and Nick, are you ready for your turn in the hot seat?
Yeah, we are ready.
Okay. Well, Nick,
I understand you already have your working papers.
Is that right?
Yes. I have a green card.
- Wow. - How long did it take?
- That's fast, isn't it? - Is it?
- Congratulations. - That's fast.
- How long... - No one else has theirs?
- No. - No.
- Oh. We haven't even applied.
Well, we just got married.
So you have no intention of working?
- Me? - Yeah.
It is not in my power.
It's my husband, Gino, the one who has to apply.
And he hasn't yet.
Yeah, but we just got married.
- Yeah. - So, I mean,
it's not gonna happen right away.
- Yeah. - It takes some time.
Yeah, we did ours right away.
Nick was very responsible.
Like, the day after the wedding.
Like, the day after the wedding,
he had filled it out and sent it in.
Did you find work in Arkansas?
So, Devin, you did not go to Atlanta with Nick?
No, not right away.
I just wanted to wait
until he kind of has everything settled first--
- Before you move to Atlanta. - Right.
'Cause right now, he's in a hotel room and like...
Okay.
There's no-- there's not room for, you know, me and my dogs
and everyone to come live with him.
So how long have you guys been apart?
- It's just been like-- - Like a week, two weeks.
Two weeks. I'm enjoying it.
- Oh. - I'm enjoying it as well.
It's nice to have some alone time finally.
Now I'm enjoying it--
I think we're just both very introverted people,
so it's just-- after spending 24/7 with someone else...
- Yeah. Yeah. - ...always all the time,
it's like a nice little break.
Okay. I was thinking that an introvert
might like to be around their spouse,
but even that
- can be too much. - Even that's too much sometimes.
There troubles already or what?
Well, we asked Devin's parents to join us
to find out what they think of this union today.
Please welcome Devin's father, Kevin, and mother, Katrina.
Hi there.
- Hi. - Hello.
Nice to meet you.
Welcome. Welcome.
Uh, so we heard your daughter and son-in-law
talk about their move to Georgia.
How did you take that news?
I'm excited for them.
I'm sad, but I'm very thankful they're not taking off to South Korea.
I can get to them, so we're happy and proud for them.
Okay, well, many couples develop pet names for each other.
And while Nick thinks his pet name for Devin is cute,
not everyone agrees, especially Devin's parents.
Take a look.
What does South Korean people think of Americans?
Uh...
Oh, my.
I don't think that way.
No offence.
- Unhealthy food is much cheaper than healthy food. - Oh.
Or some people are just lazy.
What do you think?
You're lazy, so you always get the fast food for lunch.
- Are you serious? Look at this.
- Whoo! - To have someone sit and call you a piggy
and say you're fat in front of your parents,
it's very embarrassing.
Devin, I could just see you squirming as you were watching that back.
What are you feeling right now?
I really wish he would have just kept the piggy thing private...
...because it's kind of worse for me to have
other people knowing about it and, like, judging him for it
because other people take it really, really bad.
But did it ever bother you when he called you piggy?
I mean, like, of course, like, the first couple of times
I took it the wrong way
until he finally explained to me
that it's like something couples use with each other
to say that they are cute.
Nick, in Korea, couples call themselves piggy?
Not every couple, but, uh, quite a lot. - Yeah.
Yes.
She's... She's skinny now, way skinnier,
but I still call her piggy
just because I... she's cute to me,
it's just showing my affection or something.
I know that a mom knows best, you know.
So it's evident that she has lost a lot of weight.
She's beautiful no matter what. We all know that.
But do you think that this weight loss
has been related to the fact that
So I can't say with 100% certainty
it hasn't had an emotional and mental impact on her.
All I know is that she has been this size before.
Um, as all women, our weight fluctuate.
Before Nick, pre Nick, she was this size.
Pre Nick she's been this size. This is not new. - Okay.
Um, but I'm not naive enough to ignore the fact
that that name may have
caused her to want to change her eating habits or exercise habits.
It's a joke.
Just have some sense of humor or something.
Oh, wow.
You are a!
Preach.
- you!
That's it.
- Oh, okay.
- We're all grown and Justin is right. -
- Stop! - Let's hold on for a second.
Nikki, are you okay?
Just breathe.
Calling her a piggy. It's a joke.
Just has some sense of humor or something.
Oh, wow.
No. I mean, uh, I'm sorry.
I couldn't understand why Americans so, like, upset about it.
But I'm learning and trying not to say, uh, in public.
Okay, getting back to the question about Devin's weight loss,
Devin wasn't influenced by Nick calling you this name
that means fact?
Honestly, like my mom said, my weight has fluctuated in my adult life.
I did lose a lot of weight when I was living in Australia,
and then when I came back to the United States I had gained quite a bit.
But it was one of those things that you don't notice,
I guess, until it hits a certain point.
Once, like, we started doing the wedding stuff
and I was having to try on dresses,
it puts it in your face.
Ashley, if Manuel called you piggy, would that be okay?
Hell to the nah to the nah, nah, nah. No.
Like, I know you didn't mean malicious intent to call her that.
I know, like to you, it's just a silly nickname.
But you have to think, like, if she was talking to you in your language
and she said something that maybe in your culture was offensive,
you would expect her to stop calling you that.
And I think you're kind of putting,
you know, the nickname above maybe her feelings a bit, you know?
That's fair.
I'm sorry. I'm so, so sorry.
Sorry, America.
-
Sorry.
I will... I will not do it again.
Well, maybe if you apologized to Devin. - Psych.
America really don't matter.
It's the person sitting next to you that matters... - It's Devin.
...that you need to do that to. - Exactly.
Uh...
...sorry, Devin.
Sorry for calling, uh, calling you a piggy for... for the past, like four years.
I'm so sorry.
Uh, I... I didn't mean to hurt your feeling.
I just... I just wanted to show you I love you and you're cute.
- Sorry. Sorry. - Sorry, anyway. I can't.
Okay. Devin and Nick, you've done an incredible job
building a life together and making Nick feel comfortable
so far away from his home country.
We hope your marriage stays strong and happy for many years to come.
Thank you so much.
Kevin and Katrina, thank you so much for joining us.
Thank you.
See ya.
Okay, I want to go back now to Nikki and Justin.
We paused our discussion with them,
but we are ready to pick it up where we left off
with a new guest who has just arrived.
We invited Nikki's mom here to find out how she feels
about the current state of Nicki and Justin's relationship.
Please welcome Nicky's mother, Myrna.
- Hi, Myrna. - Hello, everyone.
- Hello. - Hey.
- Hi. - Hello.
- This is what I bring. Yeah, I want the truth from you.
I believed in your relationship
that you were truly in love with my daughter.
I want the truth.
I want to know what's going on.
Are you in love with my daughter?
Were you ever in love with my daughter?
Why did you take this journey with her?
That's easy, because I love her.
When you're in love with someone,
you do not give up on the relationship.
There's something going on.
I agree with that because you said
that my daughter, you don't have... - Yeah.
- I'm a bad person, yes. - ...you're not gay and you don't have...
You're not attracted to trans.
- Did he tell you that, Nikki? - So what is this about?
Justin, come clean.
Last night he said he's not gay or trans-attracted.
"I can't live with this in my head for the rest of my life."
What does that mean?
Does that mean that you can't be with me?
I know, but we already know that, Igor.
But why would you say that to me?
You are my exception.
I am your exception.
liar.
To me, my daughter is a woman.
To me, that's... that's who I see her as.
She's a woman, period.
Nikki, what is the current status of the K-1 visa?
It's still processing.
Are you gonna go to the interview, Justin,
if the K-1 visa goes through?
- What? I have no story. - I don't know.
- Who? My mother or me? - That's disrespectful.
- No, no. - Me or my mother?
- Nicole. Nicole. Nicole. - What do you mean?
I want to know what you mean.
- I'm protecting my daughter. - I see. I see.
So... so, Nikki,
do you want Justin to come to the States and get married?
I thought that we could have given 90 days a chance
to see how it is in America, you know?
But he... I don't know.
I don't know because I can't force him to love me,
and I can't force him to be into me.
- In this relationship, it's - So...
And being vocal about what we want
doesn't mean that we are less than a woman.
- I'm okay with submissive women,
but we can also be dominant.
The problem is that you are a!
Preach.
- you, Igor.
- You really are. - you.
you.
A thousand times, like, for sure.
- You have no idea.
-
That's it.
Fake profile.
- Just once.
Oh, okay.
- Yes, we're all grown and Justin is right. -
Yeah. It was just for his game. - Yeah.
- That's all. - That's what it is, okay?
Okay.
Can you stop saying that?
"How to act like lady?"
That is a woman.
Stop disrespecting her like that.
Every time you say stuff like that... - Nikki
...you are causing more damage to her. Stop it. -
- Hey, Nikki. - She's having a panic attack right now.
Stop!
- Let's hold on for a second. - Yeah.
- Nikki, are you okay? - Nicole.
- Just breathe. - Breathe, honey.
You're never gonna find a woman like me
that did everything for you.
Nikki, what will it take for you to pull the K-1 visa?
I don't know.
Justin, are you going to go to the interview?
That is a woman.
Stop disrespecting her like that.
- Stop it! - Hey, Nikki.
She's having a panic attack right now. - Stop!
Let's hold on for a second.
Nikki, are you okay?
- You are the one. - No, you're the change.
Yes, you're the one brainwashing her.
Come on, stop it.
Don't let him win.
Your mother loves her. Your mother loves Nikki.
Nikki, I'm sorry you're so upset right now, but I want to ask you,
what will it take for you to pull the K-1 visa?
I don't know.
At this point, he doesn't want to come.
He doesn't want to be with me, so it's like pointless,
but It'll just run up and he doesn't have to go to this interview
and his life goes on.
Well, Justin, are you going to go to the interview?
No.
I mean, you heard him. You should just pull it then.
- What's the point? - Yeah.
- Wow. - Okay.
You're never gonna find a woman like me
that did everything for you, ever!
You'll never forget me, ever!
Remember that., Igor. Remember that.
No, I could find someone better than you, okay? - Yes, you can.
Myrna, thank you so much for being here.
I know this was really difficult for you to see
- your daughter emotional. - Yes.
I'm so sorry.
I'm feeling upset for Nicole.
She's heartbroken
because she's very much in love with him.
To say to her that he's in love with her and he wants to marry her,
and he cared about her...
...it was all a lie.
It was all a lie.
Wow. Okay.
All right, everybody. Gosh, ooh, this was a very difficult conversation.
Uh, Nikki, Justin,
there aren't many people here
who have confidence in the future of this relationship,
but only the two of you can make that determination.
We wish you the best.
We've reached the end of 90 Day Fiance
The Couple's Tell All.
A big thanks to all of you for being here today
and for sharing your thoughts on your one-of-a-kind experiences.
We truly appreciate your openness and honesty,
and we wish you all the very best.
I'm Shaun Robinson and I'll see you next time.
Okay, everybody, it's a wrap.
Thank you so much. Great job.
Thanks. Thank you, Shaun.
- Congratulations. - Thank you.
Man, my guy.
No. You're flirting on me.
If I didn't have you, I don't know what I would do.
- I know. I love you too. - I love you.
This is very hard for me.
I am a romantic. I believe in love.
And I never give up so easily.
We asked, what do you want to do with the K-1 visa?
And he said, "Pull it," so he didn't care.
- Congratulations for... Igor. - Bye, Igor.
- Nice to meet you. - Bye.
Right now I'm just, like, so heartbroken.
I saw him as my husband,
but my future doesn't include Justin anymore.
Next for me is focusing on me.
Getting back on stage, working on new music.
Maybe I'll write a song about this situation.
I wish him all the best.
I just know this,
he's never, ever gonna find another woman better than me.
I think, you know, today is very difficult for me and Rob.
Every time we're starting to get along
and everything is, like, all right,
then we have to go back and forth
over the details of some
that we're both trying to move on from.
The part that matters is that I'm willing to do whatever she needs me to do
to do... to make her feel better.
- You made it. Good job.
- Yeah.
We're gonna celebrate the end of the day
- with a little bit of magic day sex. -
Oh!
Uh-huh.
It was tough.
Never in a million years did I dream that,
like, all the other people on the show
were gonna know all that stuff about me and me about them.
It was a weird bonding experience from hell.
Thank you.
Like, we're in it till the end and then beyond.
Like, nothing is better than being with her. - No.
Today, my sister is basically calling our relationship fraudulent.
It's, like, it doesn't really matter what she says.
She's just blowing out of her ass.
Oh, my God.
I'm ready to go to sleep, to be honest.
I was not expecting to go through this rollercoaster of emotions today.
I think Jasmine way overreacted
when she saw the additional footage
at the club from my bachelor party.
This was one of the worst fights, actually, that we've had in a while.
We have this cycle that keeps hitting us
where she gets extremely angry at me for things,
and it's, like, never ending.
There are so many aspects that are important to have a healthy relationship
like respect, communication,
and we need help with all these aspects.
But I will never get tired of fighting for this marriage.
I love him and I really want to make it work.