1 00:00:01,586 --> 00:00:03,379 [Catie] Previously on "90 Day Fiancé." 2 00:00:03,551 --> 00:00:05,000 -Is this possibly the one? -This is the one. 3 00:00:05,172 --> 00:00:07,275 [friends cheer indistinctly] 4 00:00:07,448 --> 00:00:08,379 [Marissa] Even though I work in bridal, 5 00:00:08,551 --> 00:00:10,275 my love life isn't a fairy tale. 6 00:00:11,793 --> 00:00:13,275 At first, I was like, "We're gonna get married 7 00:00:13,448 --> 00:00:14,689 as soon as you get to the United States." 8 00:00:14,862 --> 00:00:17,586 But now, reality's setting in. 9 00:00:17,758 --> 00:00:21,482 An executive from New York meets a hotel entertainment worker. 10 00:00:21,655 --> 00:00:23,275 -Hi! -[Marissa laughs] 11 00:00:23,448 --> 00:00:25,482 It's vast differences. 12 00:00:25,655 --> 00:00:28,103 Sometimes I feel like I have real-life problems. 13 00:00:28,275 --> 00:00:29,896 And like, you know, he tells me about his problems 14 00:00:30,034 --> 00:00:31,689 and I'm like, "That's not a problem." 15 00:00:31,862 --> 00:00:35,000 I have a lot more at stake here. 16 00:00:38,275 --> 00:00:39,379 Aw. 17 00:00:39,551 --> 00:00:40,379 [Catie speaking] 18 00:00:40,551 --> 00:00:41,689 [Josh] Mm-hmm. 19 00:00:41,862 --> 00:00:44,413 [Catie speaking] 20 00:00:44,586 --> 00:00:47,172 And when I get drunk, I really wanna make out 21 00:00:47,344 --> 00:00:48,724 with everyone I know. 22 00:00:48,896 --> 00:00:51,896 I was a little bit crazy the past two months. 23 00:00:52,034 --> 00:00:54,586 I, like, kissed people while drunk again. 24 00:00:56,000 --> 00:00:59,103 Josh says he can't see himself married to me if I keep 25 00:00:59,275 --> 00:01:01,586 doing this. -Did you tell Josh about this? 26 00:01:08,379 --> 00:01:09,620 [Shea] Oh, yeah. 27 00:01:09,793 --> 00:01:12,068 I don't tell my fiancée, Anabelle, every single thing 28 00:01:12,241 --> 00:01:13,724 that goes on at the parties. 29 00:01:14,896 --> 00:01:17,586 I was in bed with you when you were with Anabelle. 30 00:01:17,758 --> 00:01:19,586 I mean, that's not gonna happen when she's here. 31 00:01:19,758 --> 00:01:21,482 You do know when she gets here, we are actually gonna 32 00:01:21,655 --> 00:01:23,586 have a conversation. There's no way around that. 33 00:01:30,413 --> 00:01:32,068 Hallelujah! 34 00:01:32,241 --> 00:01:35,896 God has given me multiple gifts, and Maxwell is the man 35 00:01:36,033 --> 00:01:37,275 I have been waiting for. 36 00:01:38,482 --> 00:01:40,896 But there's still that stereotype 37 00:01:41,033 --> 00:01:44,000 of Nigerians being scammers. 38 00:01:44,137 --> 00:01:45,586 OK, sweetie, what they say? 39 00:01:48,723 --> 00:01:50,275 I'm not accepting that. 40 00:01:50,448 --> 00:01:53,620 I don't know how the devil snuck in, 41 00:01:53,793 --> 00:01:55,413 but I know one thing. 42 00:01:56,827 --> 00:01:59,103 He gotta leave with that darn visa. 43 00:01:59,275 --> 00:02:00,275 And that's for sure. 44 00:02:05,000 --> 00:02:09,000 ♪ I took the long way, but I came back around ♪ 45 00:02:10,931 --> 00:02:15,206 ♪ All of the hard days are over now ♪ 46 00:02:15,379 --> 00:02:16,241 [Shea] Alright. 47 00:02:16,241 --> 00:02:18,103 Daddy's going to get Mommy Belle. 48 00:02:18,275 --> 00:02:20,413 Are y'all excited? She'll be here. 49 00:02:20,586 --> 00:02:22,206 We gotta finish cleaning up. 50 00:02:22,379 --> 00:02:24,068 Daddy will be back tomorrow with Mommy Belle. 51 00:02:24,241 --> 00:02:27,172 ♪ Love is a fire burning in my heart ♪ 52 00:02:27,344 --> 00:02:29,827 ♪ Got back my rhythm and once I start ♪ 53 00:02:30,000 --> 00:02:32,896 ♪ There ain't no stopping this chain ♪ 54 00:02:33,034 --> 00:02:35,067 Y'all are gonna be lucky if you get to stay in the house. 55 00:02:35,241 --> 00:02:36,413 Yeah, she might throw y'all out. 56 00:02:37,517 --> 00:02:39,000 We're gonna have to brush you more. 57 00:02:39,137 --> 00:02:40,000 We're gonna have to -- no. 58 00:02:40,172 --> 00:02:41,482 See? Come on, get down. 59 00:02:42,586 --> 00:02:43,896 That's what I'm talking about. 60 00:02:44,034 --> 00:02:45,620 Anabelle does not like dog hair. 61 00:02:46,689 --> 00:02:50,172 My fiancée, Anabelle, literally is a clean freak. 62 00:02:50,344 --> 00:02:52,067 Get down. Stay off the couch, bud. 63 00:02:53,586 --> 00:02:56,000 I answer the phone. She's got a broom in her hand. 64 00:02:56,137 --> 00:02:57,724 You know, she's washing dishes. 65 00:02:57,896 --> 00:02:59,793 When I, you know, she's doing laundry. 66 00:02:59,965 --> 00:03:02,172 I mean, she keeps it immaculate, golly. 67 00:03:03,793 --> 00:03:05,482 Look at all this hair y'all got. 68 00:03:05,655 --> 00:03:07,344 You're gonna get me in trouble. 69 00:03:09,827 --> 00:03:12,310 It's just me and the dogs at my bachelor pad. 70 00:03:12,482 --> 00:03:14,482 And, you know, I'm more of 71 00:03:14,655 --> 00:03:17,000 a robo-vac every now and then, 72 00:03:17,172 --> 00:03:21,000 and, you know, dust on really special occasions. 73 00:03:21,172 --> 00:03:22,689 And, you know, but Anabelle, 74 00:03:22,862 --> 00:03:25,620 it's like a daily thing for her. 75 00:03:25,793 --> 00:03:28,103 She even tells me she's allergic to dog hair. 76 00:03:28,275 --> 00:03:30,103 And she's not allergic to dog hair. 77 00:03:30,275 --> 00:03:31,517 She just doesn't want it 78 00:03:31,689 --> 00:03:34,000 everywhere in the house. 79 00:03:34,137 --> 00:03:36,172 OK, I gotta get going, guys. About time. 80 00:03:37,930 --> 00:03:38,930 Daddy be back tomorrow. 81 00:03:55,206 --> 00:03:56,275 Off to St. Louis. 82 00:04:01,586 --> 00:04:04,206 Couple hours, I'll be at the airport. 83 00:04:04,379 --> 00:04:05,827 You know, I don't know how it's gonna go. 84 00:04:06,000 --> 00:04:08,896 It's definitely a long time coming. 85 00:04:12,586 --> 00:04:16,067 I mean, that's my fear is me tell her that I cheated on 86 00:04:16,241 --> 00:04:18,689 her and, you know, that's what Nicole's gonna tell her, 87 00:04:18,862 --> 00:04:22,482 even though, you know, in my mind it's not, but you know 88 00:04:22,655 --> 00:04:24,931 when that word comes out and, you know, 89 00:04:25,068 --> 00:04:26,379 I don't know how she'll perceive it. 90 00:04:28,000 --> 00:04:31,586 Maybe at a party on the lake or something I kissed a chick 91 00:04:31,758 --> 00:04:34,517 or had a few too many and were just having fun. 92 00:04:34,689 --> 00:04:38,000 And to me, that's not cheating. That's having a good time. 93 00:04:42,896 --> 00:04:45,896 There's a lot going through my mind and a lot of what ifs. 94 00:04:46,034 --> 00:04:48,620 Maybe my ex-wife, Nicole, is just bluffing and just 95 00:04:48,793 --> 00:04:50,896 trying to get my goat. 96 00:04:51,034 --> 00:04:53,172 But on the other hand, what if she's not and she's really 97 00:04:53,344 --> 00:04:54,517 trying to break up my marriage? 98 00:04:56,827 --> 00:04:59,482 Spot's kind of narrow. 99 00:04:59,655 --> 00:05:00,862 See if I can get out. 100 00:05:02,068 --> 00:05:06,000 I've been married twice. This is gonna be my third. 101 00:05:06,137 --> 00:05:08,482 And it's really hit my wallet. 102 00:05:08,655 --> 00:05:11,068 So either Anabelle's gonna be my partner forever, 103 00:05:11,241 --> 00:05:12,482 or we're just not gonna get married. 104 00:05:20,586 --> 00:05:24,068 ♪ Keep reaching for that good life ♪ 105 00:05:26,172 --> 00:05:30,275 ♪ 'Cause I believe it's coming soon ♪ 106 00:05:30,448 --> 00:05:33,275 [Shea] Oh, 454. OK, we're good. 107 00:05:33,448 --> 00:05:36,000 It's getting kinda hard to breathe. 108 00:05:36,137 --> 00:05:37,068 My stomach's hurting. 109 00:05:41,724 --> 00:05:43,896 I mean, she's changing her whole life to come be 110 00:05:44,034 --> 00:05:46,275 with me, so, you know, I'm excited. 111 00:05:46,448 --> 00:05:50,206 I'm gonna say I'm sweating, I'm very hot. 112 00:05:51,379 --> 00:05:53,482 I don't think it's that hot in here, I'm just like... 113 00:05:56,482 --> 00:05:58,482 [optimistic music playing] 114 00:06:20,724 --> 00:06:22,275 -Oh, my God! -Babe! 115 00:06:22,448 --> 00:06:23,586 [giggles] 116 00:06:23,758 --> 00:06:26,310 -Hey, hello! -[Shea] Oh, my God, baby! 117 00:06:26,482 --> 00:06:28,379 ♪ [indistinct lyrics] ♪ 118 00:06:30,103 --> 00:06:32,517 -Oh, baby! -[Anabelle] Oh! 119 00:06:32,689 --> 00:06:34,310 I missed you so much, baby! 120 00:06:34,482 --> 00:06:35,586 [Anabelle speaking] 121 00:06:43,000 --> 00:06:44,000 You OK, baby? 122 00:06:45,620 --> 00:06:47,689 -Yeah, I'm... -You OK? 123 00:06:50,103 --> 00:06:53,103 -[Anabelle speaking] -You don't look like you've been flying 30 hours. 124 00:07:07,000 --> 00:07:08,034 Oh, Lord. 125 00:07:10,517 --> 00:07:11,827 I got you some flowers. 126 00:07:13,000 --> 00:07:14,275 Smell good? 127 00:07:28,103 --> 00:07:30,103 I -- he -- [stuttering] 128 00:07:39,379 --> 00:07:42,172 God, I miss you so much, baby. 129 00:07:44,586 --> 00:07:45,586 Oh, Lord. 130 00:07:47,000 --> 00:07:48,689 To get to this day, it's almost surreal. 131 00:07:48,862 --> 00:07:51,000 It's like I gotta pinch you, and I gotta pinch me, 132 00:07:51,137 --> 00:07:53,793 because it almost feels like it's not real. 133 00:07:55,000 --> 00:07:56,793 Well, it just doesn't feel like it's real, baby. 134 00:07:56,965 --> 00:07:58,931 -It's taking so long, right? -Yeah. 135 00:07:59,068 --> 00:08:01,206 [Shea] Crazy, baby, crazy. 136 00:08:06,275 --> 00:08:08,793 We're in the airport, baby. 137 00:08:08,965 --> 00:08:11,275 -[Anabelle] It's OK. -Wanna go get your bags, baby? 138 00:08:11,448 --> 00:08:13,827 [Anabelle] Yeah. 139 00:08:16,275 --> 00:08:19,793 ...get in the bed with you and love all over you and... 140 00:08:19,965 --> 00:08:22,413 I missed that so much the last two years. 141 00:08:25,172 --> 00:08:26,586 Oh. 142 00:08:28,793 --> 00:08:31,724 OK, well, we can definitely arrange that. 143 00:08:33,309 --> 00:08:35,724 Oh, my gosh. I can't believe it! 144 00:08:45,586 --> 00:08:48,413 Um, yes. 145 00:08:48,586 --> 00:08:52,586 [both singing] Oh, say, can you see. 146 00:08:52,758 --> 00:08:55,827 -La, da, da, da, da, da. -By the dawn's early light. 147 00:08:56,000 --> 00:09:00,103 What so proudly we hailed 148 00:09:00,275 --> 00:09:04,310 At the twilight's last gleaming? 149 00:09:04,482 --> 00:09:08,068 ♪ Whose broad stripes and bright stars ♪ 150 00:09:08,241 --> 00:09:11,931 ♪ Through the perilous fight ♪ 151 00:09:12,068 --> 00:09:15,000 [singing] And the rocket's red glare, the bombs bursting in air, 152 00:09:15,172 --> 00:09:18,620 gave proof to the night that the flag was still there. 153 00:09:18,793 --> 00:09:21,620 Da, da, da, da, da, da, da. 154 00:09:23,379 --> 00:09:26,068 Sorry, I got bored. 155 00:09:26,241 --> 00:09:27,689 [Catie laughs] I'm sorry I did a remix. 156 00:09:29,000 --> 00:09:33,172 So I arrived in the States, and Catie's got a hotel room, 157 00:09:33,344 --> 00:09:35,482 which, frankly, I'm quite happy with, 158 00:09:35,655 --> 00:09:36,931 'cause I was worried 159 00:09:37,068 --> 00:09:40,517 that we might be sleeping in the car or worse. 160 00:09:40,689 --> 00:09:44,793 So I'm really glad that we can just be us and kinda 161 00:09:44,965 --> 00:09:46,793 reconnect and be with each other. 162 00:09:56,172 --> 00:09:57,482 Don't we -- 163 00:09:59,482 --> 00:10:01,068 I do, I -- I definitely smell bad. 164 00:10:01,241 --> 00:10:02,689 Your mouth smells bad, actually. 165 00:10:02,862 --> 00:10:05,000 -My mouth smells bad? -Yeah, like, your breath. 166 00:10:05,172 --> 00:10:06,689 [Josh] Well, I'm gonna clean my teeth. 167 00:10:06,862 --> 00:10:08,000 Good. 168 00:10:11,517 --> 00:10:14,586 [Josh] Catie has, since I first met her, 169 00:10:14,758 --> 00:10:16,620 she was and continues to be 170 00:10:16,793 --> 00:10:19,620 as probably the bluntest person I know. 171 00:10:19,793 --> 00:10:23,517 I have this mental image of a Tasmanian Devil, like... 172 00:10:25,000 --> 00:10:26,275 in the flesh. 173 00:10:31,896 --> 00:10:33,000 Do you wanna talk about them? 174 00:10:33,172 --> 00:10:35,689 No, I was just like, "Oh, we should be naked while 175 00:10:35,862 --> 00:10:38,827 driving," and I was like, "Wait, I think that's illegal." 176 00:10:39,000 --> 00:10:42,172 To be naked whilst driving. Is that a -- a state law? 177 00:10:42,344 --> 00:10:43,310 I don't -- I don't... 178 00:10:43,482 --> 00:10:44,827 That's public nudity, is that -- 179 00:10:45,000 --> 00:10:48,310 That might be legal in the UK, but it's not legal here. 180 00:10:48,482 --> 00:10:50,379 There's no badness in Catie. 181 00:10:52,517 --> 00:10:59,482 She is a menace only in the most comical, ridiculous sense. 182 00:11:08,896 --> 00:11:10,896 -Ooh. -Uh. 183 00:11:14,000 --> 00:11:15,689 I'm scratching your beard. 184 00:11:15,862 --> 00:11:19,000 -With your sweaty hand. -Yeah, my hand is really sweaty. 185 00:11:19,172 --> 00:11:22,586 Sorry, oh, to be fair, I put on a lot of hand sanitizer. 186 00:11:23,793 --> 00:11:26,413 Look, surprise, we're at a hotel. 187 00:11:26,586 --> 00:11:27,482 It doesn't suck. 188 00:11:28,793 --> 00:11:29,793 Nice. 189 00:11:38,103 --> 00:11:40,482 -[Catie] Are you excited? Look, it's gorgeous here. -[Josh] Yes. 190 00:11:40,655 --> 00:11:42,000 -It's colorful, isn't it? -[Catie] Yeah. 191 00:11:42,137 --> 00:11:43,275 I like it. 192 00:11:43,448 --> 00:11:44,827 It's very, like, Portland vibes. 193 00:11:47,931 --> 00:11:49,586 OK, here's the room. 194 00:11:51,586 --> 00:11:54,379 -Look, ah! -[Josh] Oh, this is lovely. 195 00:11:56,586 --> 00:11:58,379 This looks super comfortable. 196 00:11:58,551 --> 00:12:00,586 [Catie speaking] 197 00:12:00,758 --> 00:12:02,379 Yeah, show me. 198 00:12:02,551 --> 00:12:04,068 [Catie] This morning. 199 00:12:05,586 --> 00:12:08,896 -I -- but then I kinda gave up halfway because... -[Josh] Oh, I love it. 200 00:12:09,034 --> 00:12:10,172 [Catie] ...I was running out of time, but... 201 00:12:22,275 --> 00:12:25,172 Catie has this wonderful kind of, uh, 202 00:12:25,344 --> 00:12:29,689 ability to go from being quite blunt and brutal 203 00:12:29,862 --> 00:12:33,724 to being the sweetest, softest, sentimental person. 204 00:12:33,896 --> 00:12:37,379 Uh, and it comes out in things like decorating the hotel room 205 00:12:37,551 --> 00:12:39,000 or decorating me at the airport. 206 00:12:39,172 --> 00:12:41,413 And it just -- it just makes me melt inside. 207 00:12:41,586 --> 00:12:43,103 I'm just like, "Oh, I love you." 208 00:12:44,275 --> 00:12:47,379 I was so stressed out about us having sex. 209 00:12:47,551 --> 00:12:50,517 -Now I'm tired. -Why were you stressed out? 210 00:12:50,689 --> 00:12:52,896 I was just stressed 'cause I feel like we've had problems 211 00:12:53,034 --> 00:12:56,413 with, um, me feeling wanted and I was worried when 212 00:12:56,586 --> 00:12:58,724 you came here you wouldn't wanna have sex, and that would 213 00:12:58,896 --> 00:13:01,517 just, like, set the mood wrong, and then we'd be awkward, 214 00:13:01,689 --> 00:13:03,275 and then our chemistry would be dead. 215 00:13:04,724 --> 00:13:07,379 Yeah, I mean, I feel like 216 00:13:07,551 --> 00:13:10,275 the main thing is getting rid of all, like, the -- 217 00:13:10,448 --> 00:13:13,275 the stress-y kind of work, kind of bull[bleep], 218 00:13:13,448 --> 00:13:15,068 you know, that -- wait until, like, 219 00:13:15,241 --> 00:13:18,827 we're settling down and really focus on us. 220 00:13:19,000 --> 00:13:22,000 I just was having a really hard trusting that that would 221 00:13:22,172 --> 00:13:23,586 actually happen when we get here. 222 00:13:23,758 --> 00:13:26,793 I just wanna feel like you want me. 223 00:13:26,965 --> 00:13:28,896 I know I need to focus on you more. 224 00:13:30,793 --> 00:13:31,896 Should we both make... 225 00:13:33,068 --> 00:13:34,517 commitments? 226 00:13:34,689 --> 00:13:39,000 And maybe one commitment you can make is to not keep 227 00:13:39,172 --> 00:13:40,275 kissing other people? 228 00:13:44,827 --> 00:13:51,517 I think that she makes out with people partly from insecurity, 229 00:13:51,689 --> 00:13:56,896 and partly I think she gets a bit of an impulsive rush 230 00:13:57,034 --> 00:13:58,586 from playing with fire. 231 00:13:58,758 --> 00:14:02,000 I think she also knows that it's hurtful, and I think 232 00:14:02,172 --> 00:14:03,689 she knows that it's not right. 233 00:14:03,862 --> 00:14:06,793 And that's why I'm patient, because I think her heart's 234 00:14:06,965 --> 00:14:09,793 in the right place. But I could very well say, "I... 235 00:14:11,586 --> 00:14:14,206 "don't like this, and here's an ultimatum, 236 00:14:14,379 --> 00:14:17,103 stop it or I'm leaving." -[Catie] I don't know. 237 00:14:17,275 --> 00:14:19,172 I, like, I want to feel wanted. 238 00:14:19,344 --> 00:14:21,689 [Josh] You know, we think in very different ways. 239 00:14:21,862 --> 00:14:23,793 -Yeah. -Very often, and so... 240 00:14:33,275 --> 00:14:35,172 I think sex is an important part of what 241 00:14:35,344 --> 00:14:36,379 we're talking about. 242 00:14:36,551 --> 00:14:38,724 I think that it's intimacy and loving and... 243 00:14:38,896 --> 00:14:42,172 I don't feel loving if we're not having sex. 244 00:14:42,344 --> 00:14:46,172 I mean, I don't feel loving when you're -- you're playing 245 00:14:46,344 --> 00:14:47,758 with other guys. 246 00:14:47,758 --> 00:14:50,000 -I -- I think that's -- -At least they wanna have sex with me. 247 00:14:52,482 --> 00:14:54,413 Honestly, I'm, like, worried things won't change. 248 00:15:02,068 --> 00:15:04,793 [Debby and Mido speaking] 249 00:15:04,965 --> 00:15:06,793 [Debby] Handsome. 250 00:15:06,965 --> 00:15:09,896 I'm Debby, and my fiancé's name is Mido, 251 00:15:10,034 --> 00:15:11,689 and he's an Egyptian movie star. 252 00:15:11,862 --> 00:15:13,068 I love you. 253 00:15:14,896 --> 00:15:19,000 He's already asking if I would be willing to, like, move. 254 00:15:19,172 --> 00:15:23,517 -Move where? -Hollywood, New York. 255 00:15:23,689 --> 00:15:26,275 I can't help but worry that Mido's just coming over here 256 00:15:26,448 --> 00:15:27,379 to become a star. 257 00:15:36,413 --> 00:15:39,103 There are. But that's not the one for me. 258 00:15:40,517 --> 00:15:42,379 It's not a realistic relationship, 259 00:15:42,551 --> 00:15:43,896 but she thinks so. 260 00:15:44,034 --> 00:15:45,586 I'm worried about your safety. 261 00:15:45,758 --> 00:15:48,275 I mean, what if the embassy, 262 00:15:48,448 --> 00:15:50,310 they know something that we don't know? 263 00:16:02,310 --> 00:16:03,379 [bell rings] 264 00:16:05,000 --> 00:16:07,000 -[elevator beeps] -[dog barks] 265 00:16:08,103 --> 00:16:09,689 ♪ Well, if I was a dog ♪ 266 00:16:09,862 --> 00:16:12,172 ♪ I wouldn't wear no button-up shirt ♪ 267 00:16:12,344 --> 00:16:14,310 Morning. 268 00:16:14,482 --> 00:16:16,172 I'm good. How are you doing this morning? 269 00:16:16,344 --> 00:16:19,482 ♪ And I'd get all the praise I could want ♪ 270 00:16:19,655 --> 00:16:22,413 ♪ Though I'm just chasing my tail ♪ 271 00:16:24,000 --> 00:16:26,206 [Debby speaking] 272 00:16:26,379 --> 00:16:29,896 ♪ Honey, that's the life for me ♪ 273 00:16:30,034 --> 00:16:31,206 [Debby] That's a good girl. 274 00:16:31,379 --> 00:16:32,689 -[phone ringing] -OK. 275 00:16:34,068 --> 00:16:35,862 Hi. How can I help you? 276 00:16:36,000 --> 00:16:37,862 I'm Debby, I'm 55 years old, 277 00:16:38,000 --> 00:16:40,689 and I'm from New Orleans, Louisiana. 278 00:16:40,862 --> 00:16:43,379 Come on. Good girl. 279 00:16:44,965 --> 00:16:46,896 I am an insurance agent. 280 00:16:47,034 --> 00:16:50,689 It's a pretty monotonous day-in-and-day-out career. 281 00:16:50,862 --> 00:16:52,965 [whistling] 282 00:16:53,103 --> 00:16:54,620 [optimistic, calm music playing] 283 00:17:02,000 --> 00:17:04,517 I am in charge of writing new business. 284 00:17:04,689 --> 00:17:05,689 [phone ringing] 285 00:17:05,862 --> 00:17:08,172 Good morning. Hi, this is Debby. 286 00:17:08,344 --> 00:17:11,068 We have metrics that we have to hit every day. 287 00:17:11,241 --> 00:17:13,310 I was going over that quote that we did 288 00:17:13,482 --> 00:17:15,172 for your auto insurance. 289 00:17:15,344 --> 00:17:18,482 Walking someone through a claim, anything that you can 290 00:17:18,655 --> 00:17:21,310 think of in the course of an insurance policy. 291 00:17:21,482 --> 00:17:23,964 We wanna make sure that you are absolutely covered 292 00:17:24,103 --> 00:17:26,103 with all of your coverages. Raising your deductibles 293 00:17:26,275 --> 00:17:28,000 from $500 to $1,000. 294 00:17:28,137 --> 00:17:31,000 The state of Louisiana allows for a five-year interval 295 00:17:31,172 --> 00:17:32,172 for an accident... 296 00:17:32,344 --> 00:17:34,068 It would be very important for you to carry 297 00:17:34,241 --> 00:17:36,172 higher bodily injury coverages... 298 00:17:37,793 --> 00:17:42,103 But outside of work, my life is way more exciting. 299 00:17:42,275 --> 00:17:45,000 Six years ago, I decided that I was going to take a trip 300 00:17:45,172 --> 00:17:46,758 to Egypt with my daughter 301 00:17:46,931 --> 00:17:49,379 and ended up meeting the love of my life. 302 00:17:53,206 --> 00:17:55,000 My fiancé's name is Mido. 303 00:17:55,137 --> 00:17:56,793 He is 41 years old, 304 00:17:56,965 --> 00:17:58,896 and he's an Egyptian movie star. 305 00:18:02,482 --> 00:18:07,172 Mido is an actor and a model. I mean, look at him. 306 00:18:07,344 --> 00:18:11,758 He has a fantastic smile, an absolutely gorgeous face, 307 00:18:11,931 --> 00:18:15,172 and he has a charm and a wit about him that makes 308 00:18:15,344 --> 00:18:17,793 all his physical attributes electrifying. 309 00:18:19,689 --> 00:18:21,896 Mido is famous... 310 00:18:24,000 --> 00:18:25,034 on social media. 311 00:18:25,206 --> 00:18:27,620 He's got hundreds of thousands of followers. 312 00:18:28,689 --> 00:18:31,172 People know who he is in Egypt. 313 00:18:39,172 --> 00:18:40,206 Mido's... 314 00:18:41,586 --> 00:18:45,172 Honestly, he doesn't show me his work. 315 00:18:45,344 --> 00:18:46,448 I don't know why. 316 00:18:46,448 --> 00:18:49,310 I've asked him to send me, like, reels of stuff 317 00:18:49,482 --> 00:18:50,793 that he's done. 318 00:18:51,965 --> 00:18:54,103 But he says I'm not gonna understand what they're 319 00:18:54,275 --> 00:18:58,689 saying, so he keeps telling me, "I'll show you when I arrive 320 00:18:58,862 --> 00:19:01,000 and I'll explain to you what's going on." 321 00:19:02,000 --> 00:19:04,482 But he's got hundreds of thousands of followers, so... 322 00:19:06,000 --> 00:19:10,206 obviously, he's... built up some sort of following. 323 00:19:12,689 --> 00:19:14,724 [upbeat music playing] 324 00:19:17,172 --> 00:19:19,068 [Debby] Let's call Papi, come on. 325 00:19:19,241 --> 00:19:20,620 [phone ringing] 326 00:19:22,103 --> 00:19:23,896 Hey, baby. 327 00:19:24,034 --> 00:19:25,000 [Mido speaking] 328 00:19:26,103 --> 00:19:28,689 -[Debby] Handsome. -[Mido speaking] 329 00:19:28,862 --> 00:19:29,793 [Debby] OK, let me see. 330 00:19:32,172 --> 00:19:35,172 Hmm. Oh my gosh. 331 00:19:35,344 --> 00:19:38,172 [Mido speaking] 332 00:19:38,344 --> 00:19:40,586 Your pyramid is not finished yet. 333 00:19:40,758 --> 00:19:42,000 -OK. -[Mido speaking] 334 00:19:45,793 --> 00:19:49,379 The funnest thing about Mido is that we just have 335 00:19:49,551 --> 00:19:51,517 a really good banter. 336 00:19:51,689 --> 00:19:54,517 But at first, when I met Mido, he annoyed me. 337 00:19:57,000 --> 00:20:00,758 I was on a trip with my daughter, Devyn, to Egypt, 338 00:20:00,931 --> 00:20:02,103 and he was our tour guide. 339 00:20:03,689 --> 00:20:06,689 He said probably one of the cheesiest things possible. 340 00:20:06,862 --> 00:20:10,896 He called me Cleopatra or some goddess. 341 00:20:11,034 --> 00:20:14,000 I don't remember which one, but it was enough that I was 342 00:20:14,137 --> 00:20:16,310 just like, "Oh God." 343 00:20:18,793 --> 00:20:21,793 And then my daughter leans over and she's like, 344 00:20:21,965 --> 00:20:27,896 "He's flirting with you." And I went, "No." 345 00:20:28,034 --> 00:20:30,965 She was like, "Mom, he's flirting with you." 346 00:20:31,103 --> 00:20:36,172 And so we climbed into the Great Pyramid of Khufu. 347 00:20:36,344 --> 00:20:38,931 And when we were climbing down, he kissed me. 348 00:20:41,379 --> 00:20:44,068 And I was really kind of, like, shocked. 349 00:20:44,241 --> 00:20:47,586 Being single for so long, I kinda didn't know what 350 00:20:47,758 --> 00:20:49,103 to do with it. 351 00:20:49,275 --> 00:20:53,379 You know, he's younger than I am, very handsome. 352 00:20:53,551 --> 00:20:55,482 He's very charismatic. 353 00:20:55,655 --> 00:20:58,482 It was just something that I didn't know if it was real. 354 00:21:03,068 --> 00:21:04,689 Are you nervous for your trip? 355 00:21:06,586 --> 00:21:08,275 [Debby] Little bit? 356 00:21:08,448 --> 00:21:10,379 [Mido speaking] 357 00:21:17,758 --> 00:21:19,724 What are you going to be packing? 358 00:21:22,172 --> 00:21:24,689 Baby, we have tuna fish. You don't need to pack. 359 00:21:24,862 --> 00:21:26,172 Really? Really? 360 00:21:26,344 --> 00:21:27,275 [Debby] Yes. 361 00:21:27,448 --> 00:21:29,000 [Mido speaking] 362 00:21:30,517 --> 00:21:32,758 That's different. 363 00:21:32,931 --> 00:21:33,862 I miss you. 364 00:21:37,482 --> 00:21:39,275 Yeah, definitely. 365 00:21:39,448 --> 00:21:42,793 -Send me some more of your modeling shots... -OK. 366 00:21:42,965 --> 00:21:44,517 ...so I can print those. 367 00:21:46,620 --> 00:21:47,655 [Debby] OK. 368 00:21:49,206 --> 00:21:52,310 When Mido gets to America, his expectation is 369 00:21:52,482 --> 00:21:55,172 he definitely wants to be an actor, and he wants to be 370 00:21:55,344 --> 00:21:56,275 a major actor. 371 00:21:56,448 --> 00:21:57,689 I love you. 372 00:21:59,965 --> 00:22:01,379 Bye, bye. 373 00:22:01,379 --> 00:22:05,689 And that's also a great fear, because what if he arrives here 374 00:22:05,862 --> 00:22:09,172 and after two months realizes is this is not gonna be 375 00:22:09,344 --> 00:22:10,586 the place of opportunity? 376 00:22:11,862 --> 00:22:13,689 Is he gonna be happy here? 377 00:22:17,000 --> 00:22:19,000 [playful music playing] 378 00:22:28,965 --> 00:22:30,206 [Debby] He's really photogenic. 379 00:22:31,068 --> 00:22:32,586 [Devyn] So he still wants to do the acting thing when 380 00:22:32,758 --> 00:22:34,965 he gets here? -That's the plan. 381 00:22:35,103 --> 00:22:36,689 I don't know that the acting thing is really gonna 382 00:22:36,862 --> 00:22:38,896 go anywhere, personally. 383 00:22:40,275 --> 00:22:41,310 I love this one. 384 00:22:43,068 --> 00:22:44,689 He's so photogenic. 385 00:22:44,862 --> 00:22:46,896 This looks like an amateur photo... 386 00:22:48,482 --> 00:22:50,275 -[Debby] You think? -...shoot thing for, like, Abercrombie & Fitch 387 00:22:50,448 --> 00:22:51,482 or something. 388 00:22:57,379 --> 00:22:59,310 He knows how to find the light in pictures. 389 00:23:01,275 --> 00:23:03,482 To me, they don't really scream for, like, 390 00:23:03,655 --> 00:23:06,620 professional actor headshots. They look like... 391 00:23:06,793 --> 00:23:08,034 Instagram models. 392 00:23:09,965 --> 00:23:12,482 I wish this one wouldn't have chopped the -- his head off. 393 00:23:14,000 --> 00:23:17,068 I'm trying to be supportive, but he's already asking 394 00:23:17,241 --> 00:23:19,482 if I would be willing to, like, move. 395 00:23:21,689 --> 00:23:23,275 Move where? 396 00:23:24,862 --> 00:23:26,379 Hollywood, New York. 397 00:23:28,413 --> 00:23:31,586 He wants to -- he wants you to move to Hollywood with him? 398 00:23:31,758 --> 00:23:33,896 His first priority should be 399 00:23:34,034 --> 00:23:36,000 focused on the relationship with you. 400 00:23:37,793 --> 00:23:40,793 He's very talented. He loves the camera. 401 00:23:41,965 --> 00:23:43,896 The camera obviously loves him too. 402 00:23:48,000 --> 00:23:52,482 He just needs a reality check because I know that there has 403 00:23:52,655 --> 00:23:57,586 been a lot of weird sketchiness going on. 404 00:23:57,758 --> 00:23:59,275 -Let's be real here. -[Debby] I know. 405 00:24:01,103 --> 00:24:04,379 Mido is semi-famous on social media, 406 00:24:04,551 --> 00:24:07,379 but he does not post me 407 00:24:07,551 --> 00:24:09,275 on social media at all. 408 00:24:10,482 --> 00:24:14,206 He says that social media is for work. 409 00:24:14,379 --> 00:24:18,379 And I don't get as upset that he doesn't post about me 410 00:24:18,551 --> 00:24:21,068 as when he posts with other women. 411 00:24:23,413 --> 00:24:24,758 That gets on my nerves. 412 00:24:26,413 --> 00:24:30,275 [Devyn] I need to hear him more and see him... 413 00:24:30,448 --> 00:24:31,655 [Debby] Yeah. 414 00:24:31,655 --> 00:24:34,482 ...act like, not acting acting, but see how he acts. 415 00:24:34,655 --> 00:24:36,482 -[Debby] Right, like how -- what he does. -How he behaves. 416 00:24:36,655 --> 00:24:38,793 The relationship is gonna have to be more important 417 00:24:38,965 --> 00:24:42,068 than the dream. Like, if he wants it. 418 00:24:42,241 --> 00:24:43,448 Exactly. 419 00:24:43,620 --> 00:24:47,586 So to me, I don't really care what you do, so long as 420 00:24:47,758 --> 00:24:49,068 what you do makes you happy. 421 00:24:50,275 --> 00:24:53,758 I know that, but I still, I'm still mom. 422 00:24:55,482 --> 00:24:58,517 I still want you and your brother to be able to look 423 00:24:58,689 --> 00:25:01,310 at me and say, "I'm proud of my mom." 424 00:25:03,310 --> 00:25:07,620 -We are. -And I know 425 00:25:07,793 --> 00:25:10,689 y'all are grown, and I know that y'all are on your own. 426 00:25:12,413 --> 00:25:16,000 But at the end of it all, if I don't make y'all proud... 427 00:25:21,000 --> 00:25:22,965 My mom is a very strong woman, 428 00:25:23,103 --> 00:25:25,103 but that strength only goes so far. 429 00:25:26,793 --> 00:25:29,206 So I really do genuinely hope 430 00:25:29,379 --> 00:25:31,275 that Mido's intentions are pure. 431 00:25:31,448 --> 00:25:33,586 I mean, this is already crazy enough. 432 00:25:36,586 --> 00:25:39,172 It's good, mom. It's OK. 433 00:25:39,344 --> 00:25:40,275 But it's true. 434 00:25:42,275 --> 00:25:44,000 She really, truly does deserve happiness 435 00:25:44,172 --> 00:25:46,482 and a good, healthy relationship. 436 00:25:47,758 --> 00:25:50,413 I can't help but worry that Mido's just coming over here 437 00:25:50,586 --> 00:25:51,482 to become a star. 438 00:25:57,586 --> 00:25:59,172 [Derek] Oh, I'm out. 439 00:25:59,344 --> 00:26:02,068 My divorce with my ex-husband, Michael, was challenging 440 00:26:02,241 --> 00:26:03,482 for the kids. 441 00:26:03,655 --> 00:26:04,965 I don't want him to replace dad. 442 00:26:06,275 --> 00:26:07,413 [Marissa sighs] Yeah. 443 00:26:07,413 --> 00:26:08,965 If the kids tell me this is not what they want, 444 00:26:09,103 --> 00:26:11,034 then I'm gonna have to call it quits. 445 00:26:13,517 --> 00:26:15,689 I know I've crossed some boundaries in the past while, 446 00:26:15,862 --> 00:26:18,275 like, drunk, and I just want to be 447 00:26:18,448 --> 00:26:20,275 really transparent with you. 448 00:26:33,965 --> 00:26:36,379 ♪ Who's to say ♪ 449 00:26:36,551 --> 00:26:39,137 ♪ Walk as we take in ♪ 450 00:26:41,586 --> 00:26:44,275 ♪ Could try to find the man of my dreams ♪ 451 00:26:44,448 --> 00:26:46,379 ♪ But I don't want him yet ♪ 452 00:26:48,655 --> 00:26:50,862 ♪ I'm coming in hot ♪ 453 00:26:51,000 --> 00:26:54,310 ♪ You're staying up late, halo 'round your nose ♪ 454 00:26:56,793 --> 00:26:58,758 I got it. I am a ninja. 455 00:27:00,275 --> 00:27:04,482 So I have 50-50 custody with my ex-husband, Michael, 456 00:27:04,655 --> 00:27:08,275 for the boys, and that's what allows me to live 457 00:27:08,448 --> 00:27:09,965 in Pennsylvania and then work in New York City. 458 00:27:11,689 --> 00:27:14,586 I live a, you know, as a high-powered career woman, 459 00:27:14,758 --> 00:27:16,482 and then I go home, and, like, I'm your basic 460 00:27:16,655 --> 00:27:18,586 baseball and football mom, 461 00:27:18,758 --> 00:27:21,482 and picking up the kids, cooking dinner, getting them 462 00:27:21,655 --> 00:27:22,827 to all their events. 463 00:27:22,827 --> 00:27:24,275 And I don't have time for Edward, and that's when 464 00:27:24,448 --> 00:27:26,862 he typically feels not paid attention to, 465 00:27:27,000 --> 00:27:28,034 and he gets angry. 466 00:27:28,034 --> 00:27:29,896 That's one of the fights that we really have 467 00:27:30,034 --> 00:27:31,689 on a frequent basis. 468 00:27:31,862 --> 00:27:35,379 And when he sees me in action, I hope that he understands why 469 00:27:35,551 --> 00:27:38,448 I have, you know, neglected to call him sometimes, 470 00:27:38,620 --> 00:27:40,379 or I'm just too tired at the end of the night 471 00:27:40,551 --> 00:27:42,275 to get on a phone call. 472 00:27:44,758 --> 00:27:47,793 I'm -- I'm very grateful for the opportunity to still get 473 00:27:47,965 --> 00:27:51,172 to spend some time in New York, but I personally don't like 474 00:27:51,344 --> 00:27:53,275 the hustle and bustle of every single day. 475 00:27:53,448 --> 00:27:56,344 Like, I'd rather, like, come back to Pennsylvania and relax. 476 00:27:59,862 --> 00:28:01,793 [upbeat music playing] 477 00:28:01,965 --> 00:28:03,551 So this is my neighborhood. You could take a look around. 478 00:28:03,724 --> 00:28:07,000 I love the streets are tree-lined. 479 00:28:07,172 --> 00:28:09,275 And the neighbors are really nice, but mostly that it's super 480 00:28:09,448 --> 00:28:13,379 quiet and it's quite a shift for me, but it's just like, 481 00:28:13,551 --> 00:28:16,344 it's a happier place to be than New York City. 482 00:28:23,103 --> 00:28:24,241 Derek, Cole. 483 00:28:25,379 --> 00:28:29,000 I kinda separate my mom life versus my career life. 484 00:28:29,172 --> 00:28:30,344 -Cole, it's my pick. -[Cole] Alright. 485 00:28:31,172 --> 00:28:35,448 Derek is the oldest, and he is currently 11 years old. 486 00:28:35,620 --> 00:28:38,241 And Cole is the younger one, and he's 10. 487 00:28:38,413 --> 00:28:40,241 -Alright, so. -Alright, I'll go first. 488 00:28:40,413 --> 00:28:42,551 [Marissa] OK, go. 489 00:28:42,724 --> 00:28:43,793 They don't even look like brothers. 490 00:28:43,965 --> 00:28:45,241 They look completely opposite. 491 00:28:47,137 --> 00:28:48,758 [Derek] Got it. 492 00:28:48,931 --> 00:28:51,586 Derek is my little athlete, and Cole... 493 00:28:53,689 --> 00:28:54,896 [Cole] No! 494 00:28:55,034 --> 00:28:58,482 ...is more of my artistic child. 495 00:28:58,655 --> 00:29:02,034 Loves art, loves music, loves creating things. 496 00:29:02,206 --> 00:29:03,586 Wait, do I have a PI already? 497 00:29:03,758 --> 00:29:05,275 Yeah. 498 00:29:05,448 --> 00:29:07,551 [Marissa] Oh, I'm out. 499 00:29:07,724 --> 00:29:10,241 But for me, I love having the contrast 500 00:29:10,413 --> 00:29:11,482 in their personalities in my life. 501 00:29:13,482 --> 00:29:15,034 And Derek wins. 502 00:29:15,206 --> 00:29:16,689 -[Cole] I missed on purpose, actually. -Good game, good game. 503 00:29:16,689 --> 00:29:18,862 -Good game, good game, good game, good game. -[Derek] Good game. 504 00:29:19,000 --> 00:29:21,137 Nice job. 505 00:29:21,310 --> 00:29:24,137 Prior to Edward, I've never let the kids 506 00:29:24,310 --> 00:29:26,482 meet a boyfriend in person. 507 00:29:27,965 --> 00:29:30,862 So this is one of the biggest changes that we're ever 508 00:29:31,000 --> 00:29:32,689 gonna experience, you know? 509 00:29:32,862 --> 00:29:36,034 It's -- it's been like a roller coaster of emotions 510 00:29:36,206 --> 00:29:38,758 every single day. 511 00:29:38,931 --> 00:29:41,482 Alright, so we know Edward's gonna be here in a couple days, 512 00:29:41,655 --> 00:29:44,379 so, like, I just wanna, like, lay out what's happening 513 00:29:44,551 --> 00:29:46,379 exactly 'cause our lives are changing. 514 00:29:46,551 --> 00:29:47,793 -Yeah. -[Marissa] You know? 515 00:29:47,965 --> 00:29:48,896 Mm-hmm. 516 00:29:48,896 --> 00:29:51,172 So how's everybody feeling about that? 517 00:29:51,344 --> 00:29:53,551 When you first told me... 518 00:29:55,137 --> 00:29:58,482 that Edward was moving here, I was, like, super excited. 519 00:29:58,655 --> 00:29:59,586 Yeah? What excites you about having 520 00:29:59,758 --> 00:30:00,689 someone live here with us? 521 00:30:00,862 --> 00:30:02,068 -[Derek] Dog. -Dog. 522 00:30:02,241 --> 00:30:03,482 [Marissa] Oh, 'cause I promised you a dog when Edward 523 00:30:03,655 --> 00:30:04,896 Edward gets here? -[both] Yes. 524 00:30:05,034 --> 00:30:06,793 Mm. 525 00:30:06,965 --> 00:30:08,379 -Well, we'll see, yeah. -[Derek] We'll see? 526 00:30:08,551 --> 00:30:11,344 We've been talking about this for, like, six months. 527 00:30:11,517 --> 00:30:13,172 I keep promising, we keep pushing the date back. 528 00:30:14,793 --> 00:30:17,896 I didn't even know they were dating for, like, until, 529 00:30:18,034 --> 00:30:19,379 like, last year. 530 00:30:19,551 --> 00:30:22,103 So it's only been, like, a year since I've known him, 531 00:30:22,275 --> 00:30:23,655 and he's just coming to live with us. 532 00:30:23,827 --> 00:30:29,379 So it's just, like, a, like, a weird reaction in my body. 533 00:30:29,551 --> 00:30:31,034 -Well, I have a question. -Yeah. 534 00:30:31,206 --> 00:30:33,758 Like, when Edward comes, like, here, will he have, 535 00:30:33,931 --> 00:30:36,448 like, money? -Pff, that's a good question. 536 00:30:37,689 --> 00:30:39,275 [Derek] He had a job when he was there, right? 537 00:30:39,448 --> 00:30:40,793 -Yeah. -So where did he work? 538 00:30:40,965 --> 00:30:42,655 [Marissa] He worked at a hotel. 539 00:30:43,172 --> 00:30:46,275 -Fancy hotels, like resorts, or just like -- oh. -[Marissa] Yeah, like a resort. 540 00:30:46,448 --> 00:30:48,655 But here, we don't have, like, all-inclusive resorts 541 00:30:48,827 --> 00:30:51,862 like they do over there, and, you know, that skill set 542 00:30:52,000 --> 00:30:53,896 isn't really useful here. 543 00:30:54,034 --> 00:30:56,379 Is he gonna get an allowance? 544 00:30:56,551 --> 00:30:58,379 It's a good -- probably. I mean, I'm gonna have to, 545 00:30:58,551 --> 00:30:59,793 like, help pay for things 546 00:30:59,965 --> 00:31:01,758 for him while he gets settled here. 547 00:31:03,000 --> 00:31:04,965 But, you know, the paychecks there, like, 548 00:31:05,103 --> 00:31:06,896 let me -- let me put this into perspective. 549 00:31:07,034 --> 00:31:09,586 The amount of money that we would, like, a -- 550 00:31:09,758 --> 00:31:12,103 a -- a normal person maybe here would get for, 551 00:31:12,275 --> 00:31:14,965 like, one week is, like, 552 00:31:15,103 --> 00:31:17,379 what Edward would get in his country for, like, 553 00:31:17,551 --> 00:31:19,689 a whole month. Do you know what I mean? 554 00:31:19,862 --> 00:31:20,793 [Derek] Mm-hmm. 555 00:31:21,965 --> 00:31:24,068 I'm, like, a bit, like, nervous. 556 00:31:24,241 --> 00:31:25,551 [Marissa] Yeah? 557 00:31:25,551 --> 00:31:27,000 'Cause, like, it's just gonna be, like, another guy coming 558 00:31:27,137 --> 00:31:28,689 to live with us. -[Marissa] Mm-hmm. 559 00:31:28,862 --> 00:31:31,172 [Derek] Like, I'm not really ready because, like, I met him, 560 00:31:31,344 --> 00:31:34,379 but I don't know him, it's just like -- -Yeah, it's a little scary. 561 00:31:34,551 --> 00:31:35,862 -[Derek] Mm-hmm. -Yeah. 562 00:31:36,000 --> 00:31:37,000 I mean, like, I don't want him 563 00:31:37,137 --> 00:31:40,689 to replace dad. -[sighs] Yeah. 564 00:31:42,965 --> 00:31:44,896 I mean, I think that you have to remember, like, your dad's 565 00:31:45,034 --> 00:31:46,689 always gonna be your dad, right? -[Derek] Mm-hmm. 566 00:31:46,862 --> 00:31:49,965 [Marissa] And nobody's ever gonna replace him in life. 567 00:31:50,103 --> 00:31:51,965 And Edward is kind of just gonna be here as, 568 00:31:52,103 --> 00:31:55,000 like, another adult to love you guys and play with you. 569 00:31:55,172 --> 00:31:58,586 I'm definitely gonna say could we keep -- take -- take it slow? 570 00:31:58,758 --> 00:32:02,344 Not, like, coming in and, like, being like... 571 00:32:02,517 --> 00:32:06,000 "Oh, hello, hello, my son." -[Marissa] Mm-hmm. 572 00:32:06,172 --> 00:32:08,379 You know, I -- I'll -- I -- I wanna make sure that, like, 573 00:32:08,551 --> 00:32:10,172 you feel comfortable, so I'm gonna have a conversation 574 00:32:10,344 --> 00:32:12,551 with Edward, 'cause if you're not happy in any way, then this 575 00:32:12,724 --> 00:32:14,586 isn't gonna work out for all of us, you know? -OK, Mm-hmm. 576 00:32:16,275 --> 00:32:20,379 My divorce with Michael was challenging for the kids, 577 00:32:20,551 --> 00:32:21,724 mostly for Derek. 578 00:32:21,724 --> 00:32:24,896 He was a little older than Cole, and because of that, 579 00:32:25,034 --> 00:32:28,758 the boys are the number one priority in my life. 580 00:32:28,931 --> 00:32:33,172 Making sure that they feel comfortable is critical to me. 581 00:32:35,137 --> 00:32:38,862 Nothing comes above them, and in the 90 days, if the kids 582 00:32:39,000 --> 00:32:41,000 tell me this is not what they want, then I'm gonna have 583 00:32:41,172 --> 00:32:42,379 to call it quits. 584 00:32:42,379 --> 00:32:44,482 And that's just a lot of pressure on me to try to make 585 00:32:44,655 --> 00:32:46,551 a lot of things work in such a short amount of time. 586 00:32:48,172 --> 00:32:49,586 Well, let's stay positive. 587 00:32:50,793 --> 00:32:51,965 -Alright. -[Marissa] Alright? 588 00:32:52,103 --> 00:32:53,034 Mm-hmm. 589 00:32:59,896 --> 00:33:01,275 ♪ Is it your desire ♪ 590 00:33:02,586 --> 00:33:04,689 ♪ To fool me twice too many times ♪ 591 00:33:08,689 --> 00:33:10,103 [Josh] Uh, did you want cream? 592 00:33:10,275 --> 00:33:12,862 Yeah, there's, like, heavy cream in the fridge. 593 00:33:13,000 --> 00:33:14,896 Can you just pour some in it? 594 00:33:15,034 --> 00:33:16,275 Thanks, babe. 595 00:33:16,448 --> 00:33:17,551 ♪ Brain on fire ♪ 596 00:33:18,655 --> 00:33:20,793 ♪ You got me flying around in circles ♪ 597 00:33:25,379 --> 00:33:26,379 [Catie] How'd you sleep? 598 00:33:28,275 --> 00:33:30,862 [Josh] I slept so well. 599 00:33:31,000 --> 00:33:32,172 [Catie] You woke up early. 600 00:33:32,344 --> 00:33:35,103 -[Josh] Yeah. -Because we totally just passed out. 601 00:33:35,275 --> 00:33:37,034 I woke up at, like, 6AM, was that about it? 602 00:33:37,206 --> 00:33:38,655 [Catie] I did, too. I woke up when you woke up. 603 00:33:38,827 --> 00:33:39,758 Yeah. 604 00:33:39,931 --> 00:33:41,310 And then we were just kind of like... 605 00:33:43,793 --> 00:33:45,551 "We'll let [bleep]." 606 00:33:45,724 --> 00:33:47,103 Sorry. 607 00:33:48,793 --> 00:33:52,482 Me and Josh had sex. We didn't have sex that night. 608 00:33:52,655 --> 00:33:54,896 We had sex in the morning 'cause I was dead, 609 00:33:55,034 --> 00:33:56,172 and he was dead also. 610 00:33:56,344 --> 00:33:59,172 But, yeah, I just wanna feel like this again. 611 00:34:00,862 --> 00:34:03,551 Last night, you were just like, "I'm ready," which made 612 00:34:03,724 --> 00:34:05,068 me happy that you -- -Yeah, you like that. 613 00:34:05,241 --> 00:34:06,379 I really like that you're -- 614 00:34:06,551 --> 00:34:09,137 that's just what I like, that you're able to, like, 615 00:34:09,310 --> 00:34:11,482 tell me that you want me. -Yeah. 616 00:34:11,655 --> 00:34:13,482 I think it's that kinda, like, open, like, 617 00:34:13,655 --> 00:34:16,896 conversation that we just need to keep doing, 618 00:34:17,034 --> 00:34:19,379 and, like, it's on -- on me in a big way to, like, 619 00:34:19,551 --> 00:34:20,965 say that to you, 620 00:34:21,103 --> 00:34:25,000 because I know that you -- you -- you hearing that helps. 621 00:34:27,482 --> 00:34:30,655 I know that, like, with Catie and I, when we don't have sex, 622 00:34:30,827 --> 00:34:34,344 she closes up a bit, and I don't have that same 623 00:34:34,516 --> 00:34:37,585 reaction, but I know that sex is so important to her, 624 00:34:37,757 --> 00:34:40,068 so I feel that she -- she's, um... 625 00:34:41,379 --> 00:34:44,585 I think a bit more relaxed today, and, um, that's good. 626 00:34:44,757 --> 00:34:48,000 I want my other half to feel relaxed. 627 00:34:48,172 --> 00:34:52,275 I -- I felt like just totally different to how I felt over 628 00:34:52,447 --> 00:34:55,000 the past, like, however long. 629 00:34:55,172 --> 00:34:56,793 -Um. -Why do you think that is? 630 00:34:56,965 --> 00:34:59,000 Just, like... 631 00:34:59,172 --> 00:35:01,758 a big thing is not having, like, immigration looming over, 632 00:35:01,931 --> 00:35:05,551 'cause, like, pretty much every thought I've had 633 00:35:05,724 --> 00:35:08,379 over the past year has been, you know... 634 00:35:09,965 --> 00:35:13,137 whatever I'm thinking about and then "[bleep], immigration." 635 00:35:13,310 --> 00:35:15,482 Like, it's just with you all the time, and now that 636 00:35:15,655 --> 00:35:17,551 it's happened and I'm here, 637 00:35:17,724 --> 00:35:20,000 it's just a massive weight that has gone. 638 00:35:20,172 --> 00:35:24,000 And I think that when I'm stressed, sex is, like, 639 00:35:24,172 --> 00:35:26,000 another thing on the to-do list. 640 00:35:26,137 --> 00:35:29,068 Now, it feels like something I wanna run into 'cause 641 00:35:29,241 --> 00:35:32,172 the stress is going away. Does that make sense? 642 00:35:32,344 --> 00:35:34,137 Yeah, I think that's good. 643 00:35:34,310 --> 00:35:36,862 [Josh] Yeah? 644 00:35:37,000 --> 00:35:38,551 -Love you. -Love you. 645 00:35:40,965 --> 00:35:42,896 I definitely feel more connected to Josh 646 00:35:43,034 --> 00:35:44,896 after having sex. 647 00:35:45,034 --> 00:35:47,896 It feels like we're in a good place, and so I'm hoping that 648 00:35:48,034 --> 00:35:51,758 in the next 90 days, we'll be more sexually compatible 649 00:35:51,931 --> 00:35:54,482 and ready for marriage. 650 00:35:54,655 --> 00:35:56,379 ♪ I've been feeding lies ♪ 651 00:35:56,551 --> 00:35:58,482 ♪ And my hands are tied ♪ 652 00:35:58,655 --> 00:36:01,482 ♪ That's a secret that controls me ♪ 653 00:36:01,655 --> 00:36:03,896 -So where are we going? -Uh, this way. 654 00:36:06,344 --> 00:36:08,689 I'm excited to show you around the neighborhood. 655 00:36:08,862 --> 00:36:10,448 [Josh] Nice. 656 00:36:10,448 --> 00:36:13,655 -I think Portland is just so beautiful from what I've seen. -[Catie] Ah! 657 00:36:17,275 --> 00:36:19,241 -That's cute. -There's a goat. 658 00:36:21,482 --> 00:36:23,172 Hello, hi. 659 00:36:23,344 --> 00:36:26,000 -This is very cute. -Hi. 660 00:36:26,172 --> 00:36:28,482 -I'm not feeding you. -Aww. 661 00:36:30,137 --> 00:36:32,379 No donuts, no donuts. 662 00:36:33,586 --> 00:36:35,103 I love -- 663 00:36:36,172 --> 00:36:38,793 -Yeah. -It has a collar like a dog. 664 00:36:38,965 --> 00:36:40,241 I feel like that's very Portland. 665 00:36:40,413 --> 00:36:42,896 -It's like urban goat farming. -Yeah, it's so cute. 666 00:36:44,758 --> 00:36:45,758 OK, anyways. 667 00:36:47,000 --> 00:36:49,172 So what -- what do you wanna do tonight? 668 00:36:49,344 --> 00:36:53,172 Um, I have a surprise welcome party planned for you. 669 00:36:53,344 --> 00:36:54,344 Oh, wow. That'll be fun. 670 00:36:54,344 --> 00:36:56,000 Yeah, I wanted to tell you ahead of time. 671 00:36:56,137 --> 00:36:57,793 -Yeah. -'Cause surprise parties are weird, but... 672 00:36:57,965 --> 00:36:59,655 Yeah. 673 00:36:59,827 --> 00:37:02,793 [Catie] Um, I think it's just like running club people. 674 00:37:02,965 --> 00:37:06,275 Christine, Claire, Danika, Eddie, like, um... 675 00:37:06,448 --> 00:37:08,172 -Yeah? -[Catie]...let me think. 676 00:37:08,344 --> 00:37:10,000 It's, like, Mark, you know, like, 677 00:37:10,172 --> 00:37:11,413 how we dated. 678 00:37:11,413 --> 00:37:15,586 Like, casually dated for, like -- for, like, two weeks. 679 00:37:15,758 --> 00:37:17,275 OK, so you remember. 680 00:37:19,551 --> 00:37:23,586 I think I've made out with 90% of the single men 681 00:37:23,758 --> 00:37:24,655 at the run club. 682 00:37:31,379 --> 00:37:35,448 Yeah, some of the makeouts have happened after I met 683 00:37:35,620 --> 00:37:38,310 and was already in a relationship with Josh. 684 00:37:40,793 --> 00:37:42,689 I know I've done things that haven't been fair to you, 685 00:37:42,862 --> 00:37:45,965 like, in the past while, like, drunk and crossed some 686 00:37:46,103 --> 00:37:48,275 boundaries, so I just, like, wanted to, like, 687 00:37:48,448 --> 00:37:49,689 start off Portland. 688 00:37:49,862 --> 00:37:51,482 Just -- I don't know. 689 00:37:51,655 --> 00:37:54,448 I just want to be really transparent with you. 690 00:37:54,620 --> 00:37:56,068 Like, I'm not really a jealous person. 691 00:38:03,482 --> 00:38:06,379 [Catie] It's really hard for me to resist kissing other people. 692 00:38:06,551 --> 00:38:10,793 Like, the compulsion part of OCD is, like, you do a thing 693 00:38:10,965 --> 00:38:13,172 to, like, neutralize the obsession, 694 00:38:13,344 --> 00:38:15,172 but then when you do the compulsion, it actually 695 00:38:15,344 --> 00:38:19,103 makes it all worse, and then it turns into a time-consuming, 696 00:38:19,275 --> 00:38:21,137 stressful, useless cycle. 697 00:38:22,689 --> 00:38:26,586 I know that Josh forgives me when I make out with people, 698 00:38:26,758 --> 00:38:29,275 but I'm -- sometimes I'm worried "Oh, is this the last time?" 699 00:38:29,448 --> 00:38:32,275 Like, I don't think I could do it every week, or I don't 700 00:38:32,448 --> 00:38:34,034 even -- I don't want to do it every week, 701 00:38:34,206 --> 00:38:35,551 but I don't think I could do 702 00:38:35,724 --> 00:38:38,241 it, like, for the next, like, few years and have him 703 00:38:38,413 --> 00:38:39,896 forgive me every time. 704 00:38:40,034 --> 00:38:42,965 I feel like I'm in a good headspace with us. 705 00:38:43,103 --> 00:38:45,034 -Nice. -Like, especially after last night, 706 00:38:45,206 --> 00:38:46,275 'cause I know I've been 707 00:38:46,448 --> 00:38:50,551 particularly unhinged, uh, in London. 708 00:38:50,724 --> 00:38:52,034 Yeah. 709 00:38:52,034 --> 00:38:53,758 And I'll try to let you know before we start drinking what 710 00:38:53,931 --> 00:38:56,000 kind of headspace I am in -- in the future. 711 00:38:57,862 --> 00:39:00,068 [Josh] I feel like I've come to the US 712 00:39:00,241 --> 00:39:02,034 willing to, like, have a new chapter with Catie 713 00:39:02,206 --> 00:39:06,275 and move forwards, and we've got these 90 days to 714 00:39:06,448 --> 00:39:09,689 prove to each other that we're here, and we're here with, 715 00:39:09,862 --> 00:39:11,862 like, meaning and intent. 716 00:39:12,000 --> 00:39:15,000 Catie needs to settle down a bit and have some level 717 00:39:15,137 --> 00:39:17,862 of stability, or this relationship, 718 00:39:18,000 --> 00:39:19,172 it won't work. 719 00:39:19,172 --> 00:39:21,965 And I think she just needs to curb the bull[bleep]. 720 00:39:25,482 --> 00:39:28,827 ♪ Oh ♪ 721 00:39:31,275 --> 00:39:35,137 ♪ Whoa ♪ 722 00:39:37,586 --> 00:39:40,241 ♪ The love that you're laying down ♪ 723 00:39:42,689 --> 00:39:45,379 ♪ It is a part of the other side's plan ♪ 724 00:39:49,448 --> 00:39:52,275 ♪ We won't run, we won't hide ♪ 725 00:39:54,068 --> 00:39:56,965 ♪ We won't live like a broken angel ♪ 726 00:40:02,655 --> 00:40:03,758 [Ashia] Alright, Ma. 727 00:40:03,931 --> 00:40:06,241 I'm about to go see that attorney about Maxwell. 728 00:40:07,689 --> 00:40:09,137 [Juliette] So... 729 00:40:10,793 --> 00:40:12,379 [Ashia] I don't know, I hope so. 730 00:40:12,551 --> 00:40:14,275 [Juliette speaking] 731 00:40:14,448 --> 00:40:16,275 I mean, he devastated. 732 00:40:16,448 --> 00:40:19,586 You know, he already started the moving process. 733 00:40:19,758 --> 00:40:21,655 You know he got his stuff ready to go. 734 00:40:21,827 --> 00:40:22,758 You know he done made his plans. 735 00:40:22,931 --> 00:40:24,172 He done told his family. 736 00:40:24,172 --> 00:40:26,862 So right now, I'm just gonna talk to his attorney and see 737 00:40:27,000 --> 00:40:28,275 what options they give us. 738 00:40:30,758 --> 00:40:32,896 It never crossed my mind for a second 739 00:40:33,034 --> 00:40:34,172 that that application 740 00:40:34,344 --> 00:40:37,275 would be denied because I have God on my side. 741 00:40:37,448 --> 00:40:40,896 I feel very upset, enraged, and angry. 742 00:40:44,965 --> 00:40:46,172 [Ashia speaking] 743 00:40:47,482 --> 00:40:49,862 The appeal would be the best option. 744 00:40:50,000 --> 00:40:52,379 And we can get another person to interview them. 745 00:40:52,551 --> 00:40:54,275 And then hopefully, we don't have to restart 746 00:40:54,448 --> 00:40:56,241 this process over again. 747 00:40:56,413 --> 00:40:57,793 So I guess I'm gonna head on out. 748 00:40:57,965 --> 00:41:01,068 I don't wanna be late. And then I gotta pick up Rod. 749 00:41:01,241 --> 00:41:03,172 [Ashia] At the coffee shop, honey. 750 00:41:03,344 --> 00:41:05,689 But I feel like he'll have good expertise on, you know, 751 00:41:05,862 --> 00:41:07,275 trying to help me navigate everything. 752 00:41:07,448 --> 00:41:08,275 -[Juliette] Yeah. -[Ashia] Yeah. 753 00:41:08,448 --> 00:41:09,413 [Juliette speaking] 754 00:41:11,896 --> 00:41:14,689 Rod is my Godbrother. 755 00:41:14,862 --> 00:41:18,103 So we have a really close relationship, like, almost 756 00:41:18,275 --> 00:41:21,379 as if he was my real brother. And he treats me as so. 757 00:41:24,241 --> 00:41:25,275 Rod is crazy. 758 00:41:26,758 --> 00:41:28,586 So... 759 00:41:28,758 --> 00:41:30,482 Hey, Rod, I'm outside. 760 00:41:30,655 --> 00:41:31,586 I'm over here to the left. 761 00:41:31,758 --> 00:41:33,000 And I hope you got me some coffee. 762 00:41:33,137 --> 00:41:34,068 -[Rod] OK. -[Ashia] Alright, bye-bye. 763 00:41:36,034 --> 00:41:40,655 When I first told Rod about Maxwell... 764 00:41:40,827 --> 00:41:43,896 he was a little confused, I think, as far as, like, 765 00:41:44,034 --> 00:41:46,000 "How did you meet this man?" 766 00:41:46,172 --> 00:41:48,689 And then Rod is stuck 767 00:41:48,862 --> 00:41:51,586 on "Nigerians are scammers," rather than looking... 768 00:41:51,758 --> 00:41:53,758 at -- at the one person who is Maxwell. 769 00:41:54,965 --> 00:41:57,655 -What up, Rod? -[Rod] Hey, yes, you want me -- 770 00:42:04,689 --> 00:42:06,379 [Ashia] I'm glad you were able to go with me today. 771 00:42:06,551 --> 00:42:08,172 I really wanna see what this attorney gonna say 772 00:42:08,344 --> 00:42:10,448 if the appeal is an option. 773 00:42:10,620 --> 00:42:11,551 Mm-hmm. 774 00:42:13,000 --> 00:42:14,034 Tell me. 775 00:42:15,172 --> 00:42:16,172 American men... 776 00:42:17,793 --> 00:42:19,379 you just gave up? 777 00:42:21,862 --> 00:42:24,275 No, I'm not saying I gave up on American men -- 778 00:42:24,448 --> 00:42:27,172 There's Nigerian men here in the United States. 779 00:42:27,344 --> 00:42:30,275 There are. But that's not the one for me. 780 00:42:32,448 --> 00:42:36,896 [Rod] But to go back to all the guys I tried to hook you up with 781 00:42:37,034 --> 00:42:39,103 all these type of guys that wouldn't -- -Oh. 782 00:42:39,275 --> 00:42:40,896 [Rod speaking] 783 00:42:41,034 --> 00:42:43,965 And this guy is none of that, so... 784 00:42:44,103 --> 00:42:46,275 Oh, don't do that. Now, he's -- he's most of that. 785 00:42:59,862 --> 00:43:02,965 Every time that I would come in contact with a guy that, 786 00:43:03,103 --> 00:43:05,689 like, had a flaw or something I didn't like, I would just keep 787 00:43:05,862 --> 00:43:08,275 adding and adding to this list. 788 00:43:08,448 --> 00:43:11,103 Honey, that list was everywhere. 789 00:43:11,275 --> 00:43:14,206 Like, the list was everywhere. 790 00:43:16,689 --> 00:43:18,034 Mm, it's on my phone. 791 00:43:20,034 --> 00:43:21,448 [Ashia] Oh, OK. Well, hold on, girl. 792 00:43:21,620 --> 00:43:23,344 It's stuff every man just about should possess. 793 00:43:26,655 --> 00:43:27,655 So here we go. 794 00:43:28,689 --> 00:43:30,896 First, no smoking, no drinking, 795 00:43:31,034 --> 00:43:34,689 no kids, great job, has ambition. 796 00:43:34,862 --> 00:43:37,551 I don't want him, like, just so die-hard God, that you can't 797 00:43:37,724 --> 00:43:40,172 have fun, you know? Understanding. 798 00:43:40,344 --> 00:43:42,344 Organized, 'cause I'm not organized. 799 00:43:42,517 --> 00:43:45,379 Athletic built. Great lover. 800 00:43:45,551 --> 00:43:47,586 I don't like men with big feet. 801 00:43:50,034 --> 00:43:52,034 Wealthy. Knows his purpose. 802 00:43:52,206 --> 00:43:54,068 Good hygiene. Good hair. 803 00:43:54,241 --> 00:43:56,551 Pretty teeth. I put "Love God" again, 804 00:43:56,724 --> 00:43:58,586 so I guess I just really want that to be on the list. 805 00:44:00,068 --> 00:44:02,413 But that's just part of it. It -- it -- it was long. 806 00:44:04,896 --> 00:44:07,379 Like, one of my friend's mom was like, "Girl, you need 807 00:44:07,551 --> 00:44:10,137 "to burn that list. Like, get rid of that list. 808 00:44:10,310 --> 00:44:11,758 You'll never get a husband like this." 809 00:44:11,931 --> 00:44:13,862 You more worried about the list than me. 810 00:44:14,000 --> 00:44:15,551 Well, I'm worried about your safety. 811 00:44:17,103 --> 00:44:19,275 This is a scary situation for everybody, 812 00:44:19,448 --> 00:44:21,448 and then it may be -- -A scary situation for everybody, 813 00:44:21,620 --> 00:44:23,103 or a scary situation for you? 814 00:44:25,586 --> 00:44:27,379 Let's just keep it real, you know? 815 00:44:27,551 --> 00:44:29,689 It -- it should be a scary situation for everybody, 816 00:44:29,862 --> 00:44:34,034 because there's so much unknown. -It is a lot of unknown. 817 00:44:34,206 --> 00:44:36,758 I mean, what if the embassy, 818 00:44:36,931 --> 00:44:38,896 they know something that we don't know? 819 00:44:40,862 --> 00:44:44,482 Ashia's biological clock is ticking, and she thinks 820 00:44:44,655 --> 00:44:46,793 she should be married by now, and I think she's 821 00:44:46,965 --> 00:44:48,965 rushing into this. 822 00:44:49,103 --> 00:44:51,896 I don't really know the guy, so I don't wanna say that 823 00:44:52,034 --> 00:44:55,965 he's a bad guy, but it's not a realistic relationship. 824 00:44:56,103 --> 00:44:57,206 But she thinks so. 825 00:44:59,068 --> 00:45:01,448 I'm just trying to protect you, but I don't know. 826 00:45:01,620 --> 00:45:03,379 I don't know. 827 00:45:03,551 --> 00:45:05,965 I feel like this ain't the time for protection. 828 00:45:06,103 --> 00:45:09,379 I feel like this is the time where it need to be support. 829 00:45:09,551 --> 00:45:11,793 [Rod] Looking out for your well -- well-being is support. 830 00:45:15,241 --> 00:45:17,275 I feel like Rod has lost his mind 831 00:45:17,448 --> 00:45:19,275 by questioning my choices. 832 00:45:19,448 --> 00:45:23,862 It's hurtful that he does not think that I'm wise enough 833 00:45:24,000 --> 00:45:26,482 to make good decisions. 834 00:45:26,655 --> 00:45:29,896 And we already have enough problems with this denial. 835 00:45:30,034 --> 00:45:33,793 So the last thing I need is Rod saying "Nay, nay, nay." 836 00:45:37,068 --> 00:45:39,689 Oh, 100%, 110%. 837 00:45:41,275 --> 00:45:44,655 Maybe the way that I thought it was gonna be done is 838 00:45:44,827 --> 00:45:47,551 different than what God had planned. 839 00:45:47,724 --> 00:45:51,896 But at the end of the day, I'm getting Maxwell to the USA. 840 00:45:52,034 --> 00:45:54,379 [Rod] I don't know, everything is just a question mark for me. 841 00:45:54,551 --> 00:45:57,344 I mean, what is the rush? What is the rush? 842 00:46:04,172 --> 00:46:07,448 ♪ You're the sugar I slipped in my coffee cup ♪ 843 00:46:07,620 --> 00:46:12,586 ♪ You're the sweet, warm dough, I can't get enough ♪ 844 00:46:12,758 --> 00:46:15,793 [Debby] Hey, pretty precious. Hey, pretty girl. 845 00:46:15,965 --> 00:46:18,896 What's that little girl doing? Is she being snuggly? 846 00:46:19,034 --> 00:46:20,655 There you are. 847 00:46:20,827 --> 00:46:22,482 Papi doesn't want you sleeping in the bed. 848 00:46:22,655 --> 00:46:25,965 Mido wants you sleeping out in your own spot. 849 00:46:26,103 --> 00:46:27,586 What? OK. 850 00:46:27,758 --> 00:46:29,586 We're gonna find a spot just for you. 851 00:46:29,758 --> 00:46:32,482 ♪ I'm your Chicory Mama ♪ 852 00:46:32,655 --> 00:46:36,586 ♪ I don't take long to brew ♪ 853 00:46:36,758 --> 00:46:40,172 ♪ 'Cause your Chicory Mama ♪ 854 00:46:40,344 --> 00:46:42,758 -♪ Always has a cup for you ♪ -[Debby] Where's that big girl? 855 00:46:42,931 --> 00:46:44,551 Where's my pretty girl? 856 00:46:44,724 --> 00:46:46,172 Alright, sweetheart, I'll be home 857 00:46:46,344 --> 00:46:48,068 in a little bit, Little Bit. 858 00:46:49,689 --> 00:46:51,379 Mido has set rules for Little Bit 859 00:46:51,551 --> 00:46:54,344 that she cannot sleep in the bed with him. 860 00:46:54,517 --> 00:46:57,172 Give me some lovin'. 861 00:46:57,344 --> 00:47:02,482 I mean, in the Muslim faith, dogs are not to be inside 862 00:47:02,655 --> 00:47:06,482 your home. It's haram, is what they say. 863 00:47:06,655 --> 00:47:08,000 They're looked at as dirty. 864 00:47:09,275 --> 00:47:12,896 Little Bit has spent every night of her life with me 865 00:47:13,034 --> 00:47:15,862 in my bed, so I don't know how them two 866 00:47:16,000 --> 00:47:17,896 are gonna fight that out. 867 00:47:19,793 --> 00:47:21,793 [jazz music playing] 868 00:47:24,172 --> 00:47:28,379 But I mean, I have not shared a bed or lived with a man 869 00:47:28,551 --> 00:47:29,965 in almost 20 years. 870 00:47:30,103 --> 00:47:32,000 So the dog is the least of our worries. 871 00:47:33,689 --> 00:47:35,172 -Hey, look, Debby! -[Astra] There it is! 872 00:47:35,344 --> 00:47:36,689 -How are you? -[Laura] Hey! 873 00:47:36,862 --> 00:47:38,793 -[Astra] Good to see you. -My girl, my girl. 874 00:47:38,965 --> 00:47:40,862 Oh, my gosh, girl, yeah. 875 00:47:42,896 --> 00:47:46,344 Girl, how's it going? It's so good to see you. 876 00:47:46,517 --> 00:47:47,655 I know. Oh, my gosh. 877 00:47:47,827 --> 00:47:48,862 How's it going? 878 00:47:48,862 --> 00:47:51,206 It's going pretty good, and how about you? 879 00:47:53,689 --> 00:47:55,000 What's going on, Debby? 880 00:47:55,137 --> 00:47:56,689 When I tell you everything feels like 881 00:47:56,862 --> 00:47:59,965 it's coming 150 miles per hour. 882 00:48:00,172 --> 00:48:01,448 Well, because it is. 883 00:48:01,620 --> 00:48:02,620 What's gonna be like 884 00:48:02,620 --> 00:48:03,965 the sleeping arrangements in the apartment? 885 00:48:04,103 --> 00:48:06,137 -Like, is -- is -- -[Debby] Devyn's on the couch for now. 886 00:48:06,310 --> 00:48:08,482 [Astra] Does he know y'all are gonna be sharing a bedroom? 887 00:48:08,655 --> 00:48:10,379 Yeah, he -- I think he does. 888 00:48:12,172 --> 00:48:15,103 I mean, unless he wants to sleep on the air mattress. 889 00:48:15,275 --> 00:48:17,172 So y'all have never slept in the same bed together? 890 00:48:17,344 --> 00:48:21,137 Him being Muslim, there's, like, some pretty tight parameters 891 00:48:21,310 --> 00:48:24,034 of pre-marriage and post-marriage. 892 00:48:24,206 --> 00:48:26,896 So what do Muslims believe that you're allowed to do 893 00:48:27,034 --> 00:48:28,655 before marriage? -Nothing. 894 00:48:28,827 --> 00:48:31,793 So you guys have straight up never had sex? 895 00:48:31,965 --> 00:48:33,793 Never. 896 00:48:38,482 --> 00:48:39,482 Whoa. 897 00:48:41,689 --> 00:48:42,689 Wow. 898 00:48:44,482 --> 00:48:46,758 Mido is a 41-year-old virgin. 899 00:48:48,000 --> 00:48:49,482 He's gonna kill me for saying that. 900 00:48:51,793 --> 00:48:54,689 I mean, have you ever, like, kissed? 901 00:48:54,862 --> 00:48:56,896 -Yes. -[Laura] OK. 902 00:48:57,034 --> 00:49:01,862 At first, because he abstained, I didn't think that he was 903 00:49:02,000 --> 00:49:06,448 interested in me until he explained to me he had never 904 00:49:06,620 --> 00:49:08,103 been with a woman before. 905 00:49:08,275 --> 00:49:12,000 I just found the whole situation so bizarre, 906 00:49:12,137 --> 00:49:15,793 because how do you believe a 30-something-year-old that's 907 00:49:15,965 --> 00:49:18,896 telling you this? From the US, 908 00:49:19,034 --> 00:49:21,551 where are you going to find that? 909 00:49:21,724 --> 00:49:22,965 Or at least you're not gonna 910 00:49:23,103 --> 00:49:24,758 find somebody that's gonna admit it. 911 00:49:26,586 --> 00:49:28,655 -[Astra] How old is he? -41. 912 00:49:30,034 --> 00:49:31,241 Wow. 913 00:49:31,413 --> 00:49:33,448 And I know, I've actually had people tell me, 914 00:49:33,620 --> 00:49:34,758 "I don't believe you." 915 00:49:37,689 --> 00:49:39,172 Because I'm a slut. 916 00:49:41,655 --> 00:49:42,862 Sorry. 917 00:49:45,068 --> 00:49:50,172 When I hear that somebody is 40 years old and a virgin, 918 00:49:50,344 --> 00:49:54,172 I'm kind of skeptical. I mean, 40 years? 919 00:49:54,344 --> 00:49:55,689 Really? 920 00:49:55,862 --> 00:49:58,103 It -- it's so unlikely, that they even 921 00:49:58,275 --> 00:49:59,310 made a movie with that title. 922 00:50:01,448 --> 00:50:03,103 I just wanna make sure I have this straight. 923 00:50:03,275 --> 00:50:06,862 -You're gonna be in, like... -Two and a half months. 924 00:50:07,000 --> 00:50:10,275 ...two and a half months that you haven't physically seen 925 00:50:10,448 --> 00:50:11,758 or touched in three years. 926 00:50:14,068 --> 00:50:16,172 And you're gonna sleep in the same bed with him 927 00:50:16,344 --> 00:50:20,275 for 90 days and not have any sex? -That's the goal. 928 00:50:21,482 --> 00:50:24,000 -Well... -Is it attainable? 929 00:50:24,137 --> 00:50:25,586 I have no idea. 930 00:50:25,758 --> 00:50:27,379 I give it up on the third date, girl. 931 00:50:27,551 --> 00:50:29,448 I don't -- I don't know how you're gonna do it. 932 00:50:29,620 --> 00:50:33,586 How do you feel about how stable your relationship has 933 00:50:33,758 --> 00:50:37,000 been over the last six years? Like, have you felt like... 934 00:50:38,344 --> 00:50:40,034 -[Laura] Yep. -I mean, we're in it. 935 00:50:40,206 --> 00:50:43,137 -So I mean, at this rate... -Yeah. 936 00:50:43,310 --> 00:50:45,551 -You guys had a rough patch. -Had a couple. 937 00:50:45,724 --> 00:50:47,172 -I -- I -- I remember. -There were some times 938 00:50:47,344 --> 00:50:49,655 when y'all were not all lollipops and rainbows. 939 00:50:49,827 --> 00:50:50,793 -[Laura] Yeah. -No. 940 00:50:50,965 --> 00:50:52,172 No. That damn social media. 941 00:50:52,344 --> 00:50:53,965 -With that girl. -That social media. 942 00:50:54,103 --> 00:50:55,275 -[Laura] That girl [bleep]. -[Debby] Yep. 943 00:50:55,448 --> 00:50:56,482 That girl. 944 00:50:58,586 --> 00:51:00,344 I can't believe I gotta talk about this bitch. 945 00:51:01,586 --> 00:51:03,689 I'm, like... 946 00:51:03,862 --> 00:51:07,172 grinding teeth to even have to bring her up. 947 00:51:09,586 --> 00:51:12,551 And she's not anywhere near him anymore? 948 00:51:12,724 --> 00:51:15,655 Not that I know of. And it's been over a year. 949 00:51:17,275 --> 00:51:19,689 So we actually broke up for a while. 950 00:51:19,862 --> 00:51:24,172 He was posting with this one Egyptian actress 951 00:51:24,344 --> 00:51:25,517 that's very famous. 952 00:51:26,793 --> 00:51:29,689 He thinks that I'm being ridiculous and that this is 953 00:51:29,862 --> 00:51:34,689 just work and that's his friend. I'm not dumb. 954 00:51:36,172 --> 00:51:39,655 I can definitely read a situation pretty well. 955 00:51:39,827 --> 00:51:41,655 And if something doesn't feel right... 956 00:51:43,137 --> 00:51:44,482 something's not right. 957 00:51:46,068 --> 00:51:49,482 I mean, I'm not deluding myself to think any of this is gonna 958 00:51:49,655 --> 00:51:51,379 be an easy walk. -Right. 959 00:51:52,896 --> 00:51:54,793 The biggest thing that I'm worried about is 960 00:51:54,965 --> 00:51:56,000 you getting hurt. 961 00:51:56,137 --> 00:51:58,103 We know that you're in this for love, 962 00:51:58,275 --> 00:52:00,344 but we don't know him... -Yeah. 963 00:52:00,517 --> 00:52:03,586 ...at all, so we have no idea what his, 964 00:52:03,758 --> 00:52:05,206 like, agenda is. 965 00:52:06,896 --> 00:52:11,000 [Debby] I think from the beginning, it's been a lot of blind faith 966 00:52:11,172 --> 00:52:12,551 with the acting, with the... 967 00:52:14,034 --> 00:52:17,448 the abstaining, with the social media battle. 968 00:52:17,620 --> 00:52:21,965 So I really, really, really am concerned. 969 00:52:22,103 --> 00:52:24,275 But then people write books about stuff like this. 970 00:52:26,068 --> 00:52:28,241 I may get lucky enough and have the dream. 971 00:52:29,896 --> 00:52:30,965 May not. 972 00:52:33,137 --> 00:52:34,172 But I also might. 973 00:52:36,000 --> 00:52:37,275 And why not take that chance? 974 00:52:39,103 --> 00:52:42,482 This is gonna be a real trip. It's gonna be a real trip. 975 00:52:43,793 --> 00:52:44,793 [Astra] It's gonna be a hard one. 976 00:52:51,275 --> 00:52:52,965 -[Anabelle speaking] -Yeah. 977 00:52:53,103 --> 00:52:54,586 Oh. 978 00:52:59,586 --> 00:53:04,034 Even if I take a poop, Anabelle is trying to get me 979 00:53:04,206 --> 00:53:05,689 in the shower. -[Anabelle speaking] 980 00:53:17,965 --> 00:53:20,413 ♪ Oh, oh, oh, oh ♪ 981 00:53:20,586 --> 00:53:23,103 ♪ My love will lead you like a map down every road ♪ 982 00:53:26,310 --> 00:53:28,206 [Shea] That's not it, no. 983 00:53:28,379 --> 00:53:29,965 -[Anabelle] OK. -[Shea speaking] 984 00:53:36,551 --> 00:53:39,000 We're -- yeah, right here, baby. 985 00:53:39,172 --> 00:53:41,344 ♪ My love goes wherever you go ♪ 986 00:53:41,517 --> 00:53:43,034 [Shea] You're welcome. 987 00:53:43,206 --> 00:53:46,103 ♪ You may go, oh, oh, oh, oh, oh, oh, oh ♪ 988 00:53:46,275 --> 00:53:48,586 ♪ Oh, oh, oh ♪ 989 00:53:48,758 --> 00:53:53,379 ♪ My love flows wherever you go ♪ 990 00:54:00,103 --> 00:54:02,034 -Smooth ride, ain't it, babe? -Smooth. 991 00:54:03,310 --> 00:54:05,206 In the Philippines, we're bop, bop, bop, bop, bop, 992 00:54:05,379 --> 00:54:06,310 bing, bing, bing, bing, bong. 993 00:54:09,793 --> 00:54:11,344 -Oh, so you see at the left? -[Anabelle] Uh-huh? 994 00:54:11,517 --> 00:54:13,034 That's the St. Louis Arch. 995 00:54:14,275 --> 00:54:17,448 They call that the gateway to the West, 'cause coming 996 00:54:17,620 --> 00:54:21,413 from our way, all the settlers would cross Mississippi River, 997 00:54:21,586 --> 00:54:24,862 and they'd go west. -It looks amazing. 998 00:54:25,000 --> 00:54:26,758 It is, it's like your gateway 999 00:54:26,931 --> 00:54:27,862 to your new life in America. 1000 00:54:31,310 --> 00:54:33,965 Alright, I think this is it, baby. 1001 00:54:34,103 --> 00:54:36,448 Looks kind of like a church or a castle, doesn't it? 1002 00:54:36,620 --> 00:54:37,862 Mm-hmm... 1003 00:54:38,862 --> 00:54:40,586 [Shea] I don't know if I got in the parking spot 1004 00:54:40,758 --> 00:54:42,172 right or not. 1005 00:54:43,655 --> 00:54:45,724 [mass music playing] 1006 00:54:52,310 --> 00:54:53,206 Wow. 1007 00:54:53,379 --> 00:54:55,034 -Hi! -[Shea] Hey. 1008 00:54:55,206 --> 00:54:56,172 -How's it going? -[Ken] What's your name? 1009 00:54:56,344 --> 00:54:57,344 -I'm Shea. -Hi, I'm Ken. 1010 00:54:57,517 --> 00:54:58,827 -Welcome. -[Shea] Nice to meet you. 1011 00:54:58,827 --> 00:55:00,862 -This is Anabelle, my fiancée. -[Ken] Hi, nice to meet you. 1012 00:55:01,000 --> 00:55:02,206 -Hello. -Welcome. 1013 00:55:02,206 --> 00:55:03,724 -[Shea] Thank you. -This is a former Methodist church 1014 00:55:03,724 --> 00:55:06,034 that's been converted to a four-bedroom inn. -[Anabelle] Oh, that's -- 1015 00:55:06,206 --> 00:55:07,862 [Shea] Wow. 1016 00:55:08,000 --> 00:55:11,758 I wanted Anabelle to feel special the first night. 1017 00:55:11,931 --> 00:55:14,793 So I, you know, I got this room, and I just wanted to show her 1018 00:55:14,965 --> 00:55:17,413 how excited I was for her to get here. 1019 00:55:21,000 --> 00:55:23,655 I knew you'd like the stained glass. 1020 00:55:28,068 --> 00:55:30,724 [Ken] So you guys are staying in our botanical suite? 1021 00:55:30,896 --> 00:55:32,000 -[Anabelle] Let's go. -Can I show you? 1022 00:55:32,137 --> 00:55:33,793 [Shea] Yeah, sure. We'll just follow you, sir. 1023 00:55:41,655 --> 00:55:43,000 [indistinct] 1024 00:55:51,275 --> 00:55:54,103 -[Shea] Alright. -Wow. 1025 00:55:54,275 --> 00:55:56,172 Mm! 1026 00:55:56,344 --> 00:55:59,137 [Shea] Oh, dang. Look at the bath. 1027 00:55:59,310 --> 00:56:01,310 -Look how big the tub is. -[Anabelle] Wow. 1028 00:56:01,482 --> 00:56:03,068 -[Shea] Wow! -[Anabelle speaking] 1029 00:56:05,413 --> 00:56:07,137 [Shea] Get the water going. 1030 00:56:16,793 --> 00:56:17,793 [Shea] Oh. 1031 00:56:23,724 --> 00:56:25,241 [speaking Tagalog] 1032 00:56:27,241 --> 00:56:28,793 [Shea] Alright. 1033 00:56:36,793 --> 00:56:38,310 [Shea speaking] 1034 00:56:38,482 --> 00:56:39,862 [Anabelle] Oh... 1035 00:56:43,551 --> 00:56:45,137 Yeah, oh. 1036 00:56:45,310 --> 00:56:46,758 [Anabelle humming] 1037 00:56:50,551 --> 00:56:51,965 -Oh. -[Anabelle speaking] 1038 00:56:52,103 --> 00:56:53,310 Yeah. 1039 00:57:02,586 --> 00:57:04,000 Yeah. 1040 00:57:06,241 --> 00:57:07,586 [Anabelle speaking] 1041 00:57:10,517 --> 00:57:12,206 I will... 1042 00:57:12,379 --> 00:57:14,068 -Yeah, scrub, baby. -[Anabelle indistinct] 1043 00:57:14,241 --> 00:57:15,517 Mm. 1044 00:57:15,689 --> 00:57:17,379 [Shea speaking] 1045 00:57:19,448 --> 00:57:21,000 Right? 1046 00:57:21,137 --> 00:57:22,206 Yeah... 1047 00:57:24,689 --> 00:57:27,344 I'll have to admit, it was kind of a turn on. 1048 00:57:27,517 --> 00:57:29,517 First time I met her, but she's, since then, 1049 00:57:29,689 --> 00:57:31,206 she's got a little more comfortable with it, 1050 00:57:31,379 --> 00:57:34,000 and, you know, I have to tell her, "Just calm down." 1051 00:57:34,137 --> 00:57:36,000 And you get real fast, like. 1052 00:57:37,655 --> 00:57:39,275 She scratched me several times, 1053 00:57:39,448 --> 00:57:41,620 like, where it hurt and left a mark. 1054 00:57:48,413 --> 00:57:52,862 Even if I take a poop, Anabelle is trying to get me 1055 00:57:53,000 --> 00:57:54,827 in the shower, a wet rag. 1056 00:57:55,000 --> 00:57:58,103 And I'm like, "That's not -- that's not what we do here." 1057 00:58:02,344 --> 00:58:03,965 [Shea speaking] 1058 00:58:09,482 --> 00:58:10,793 [Anabelle speaking] 1059 00:58:10,965 --> 00:58:12,034 [Shea] Oh, yeah. 1060 00:58:13,034 --> 00:58:15,275 -[Anabelle] OK. -[Shea] How do they look, babe? 1061 00:58:15,448 --> 00:58:16,896 [Anabelle speaking] 1062 00:58:26,655 --> 00:58:28,000 -They look good? -[Anabelle] Yeah. 1063 00:58:28,172 --> 00:58:30,310 [Shea] I don't mind you clipping my toenails, 1064 00:58:30,482 --> 00:58:32,344 'cause it's definitely something I don't enjoy doing. 1065 00:58:35,724 --> 00:58:37,379 I wanna try some champagne, baby. 1066 00:58:38,689 --> 00:58:40,655 -Oh! -[Shea speaking] 1067 00:58:40,827 --> 00:58:42,275 [Anabelle giggles] 1068 00:58:42,448 --> 00:58:43,896 Yeah. 1069 00:58:46,310 --> 00:58:48,551 -[laughs] -I know right. 1070 00:58:48,724 --> 00:58:50,310 [Anabelle] Enough, baby, thank you. 1071 00:58:50,482 --> 00:58:51,896 OK, I'll put the bottle right here. 1072 00:58:54,310 --> 00:58:55,896 [Anabelle] Mm-hmm. 1073 00:58:56,034 --> 00:58:57,000 -[Shea] OK. -[Anabelle] Mm-hmm. 1074 00:58:57,137 --> 00:58:59,241 -Yeah, very good taste, baby. -Yeah. 1075 00:59:01,103 --> 00:59:02,103 Mm. 1076 00:59:06,000 --> 00:59:07,379 Let me taste the champagne, babe. 1077 00:59:07,551 --> 00:59:08,482 [both] Mm. 1078 00:59:09,551 --> 00:59:10,758 [Shea] Mm. 1079 00:59:10,758 --> 00:59:14,448 When it comes to sex, usually Anabelle tells me what 1080 00:59:14,620 --> 00:59:16,310 to do, what she wants. 1081 00:59:16,482 --> 00:59:17,896 Yeah, yum yum. 1082 00:59:31,310 --> 00:59:32,862 [Shea] Of course. 1083 00:59:39,413 --> 00:59:41,275 Mm, sounds interesting, ma'am. 1084 00:59:48,103 --> 00:59:50,103 I missed you too much, baby. 1085 00:59:56,000 --> 00:59:57,379 Mm. 1086 01:00:01,413 --> 01:00:04,620 Mm, yum, yum, yum, yum. 1087 01:00:04,793 --> 01:00:06,172 -[Anabelle giggles] -[Shea] Yum, yum. 1088 01:00:06,344 --> 01:00:07,793 ♪ And every able body say ♪ 1089 01:00:07,965 --> 01:00:13,172 ♪ Oh, oh, oh, oh, oh, amen and amen ♪ 1090 01:00:13,344 --> 01:00:15,896 ♪ Yeah, thank you, Lord, mm ♪ 1091 01:00:18,344 --> 01:00:20,551 -[Ashia] Hello, hello. -How are you? 1092 01:00:20,724 --> 01:00:22,103 -Doing well, Ashia. -Good, Jeremy. 1093 01:00:22,275 --> 01:00:25,310 I do not take "No" for an answer at all. 1094 01:00:25,482 --> 01:00:28,551 If there is a solution, oh, I'm gonna find it. 1095 01:00:28,724 --> 01:00:30,758 Another option would be you could get married. 1096 01:00:36,517 --> 01:00:38,655 [Ashia] If you gonna be on the board and be support, be support. 1097 01:00:38,827 --> 01:00:40,103 -I'm being supportive of you. -No, not really. 1098 01:00:47,000 --> 01:00:49,896 ♪ Love, oh, love, don't give up on love ♪ 1099 01:00:50,034 --> 01:00:52,172 ♪ Love ♪ 1100 01:00:52,344 --> 01:00:57,896 ♪ Keep on looking up, 'cause to often we go for ♪ 1101 01:00:58,034 --> 01:01:02,620 ♪ For the devil we know, for the devil we know ♪ 1102 01:01:03,862 --> 01:01:05,896 [Rod] Oh, wow, "Love Immigration." 1103 01:01:06,034 --> 01:01:08,241 See, you look at how "Love" is sticking out right there. 1104 01:01:08,413 --> 01:01:10,931 Yeah, I -- I'm already -- I'm impressed, I feel some type of way already. 1105 01:01:11,068 --> 01:01:12,655 Yeah, you are -- you are -- you -- 1106 01:01:12,827 --> 01:01:14,000 Well, you better get some love in your heart. 1107 01:01:14,172 --> 01:01:16,517 I feel like this is a marketing scheme here 1108 01:01:16,689 --> 01:01:18,655 with the word "Love." -I love it. 1109 01:01:18,827 --> 01:01:19,758 I think it's cute. 1110 01:01:21,137 --> 01:01:22,551 Alright. 1111 01:01:22,724 --> 01:01:23,862 ♪ Oh, oh, oh ♪ 1112 01:01:23,862 --> 01:01:27,655 ♪ I'll pray for you, if you pray for me ♪ 1113 01:01:29,896 --> 01:01:32,275 ♪ Oh, oh, oh, oh, oh, oh ♪ 1114 01:01:32,448 --> 01:01:33,827 Alright. 1115 01:01:34,000 --> 01:01:36,517 Hello, good morning. How can I help you today? 1116 01:01:36,689 --> 01:01:38,172 Yes, I had an appointment. 1117 01:01:38,344 --> 01:01:40,551 If you follow after me, I can show you where that's at. 1118 01:01:40,724 --> 01:01:41,724 -[Ashia] OK, thank you. -[receptionist] Yeah. 1119 01:01:43,275 --> 01:01:45,862 I'm the type of person, I do not take "No" 1120 01:01:46,000 --> 01:01:48,000 for an answer at all. 1121 01:01:48,172 --> 01:01:51,344 Because if there is a solution, oh, I'm gonna find it. 1122 01:01:51,517 --> 01:01:52,724 [receptionist] Right this way. 1123 01:01:52,896 --> 01:01:54,068 -Alright. -[Jeremy] Hey. 1124 01:01:54,241 --> 01:01:56,206 -[Ashia] Hello, hello. -How are you? 1125 01:01:56,379 --> 01:01:58,000 -Doing well, Asha. -Good, Jeremy. 1126 01:01:58,172 --> 01:02:02,068 Ideally, I would love for this attorney to say 1127 01:02:02,241 --> 01:02:05,000 it's a possibility that this case can go back 1128 01:02:05,172 --> 01:02:06,310 to the embassy, that I do not have 1129 01:02:06,482 --> 01:02:07,896 to restart this process because 1130 01:02:08,034 --> 01:02:11,793 I just feel like this case went before the right person, 1131 01:02:11,965 --> 01:02:14,172 then it could convince anybody that the relationship is real 1132 01:02:14,344 --> 01:02:15,586 because the relationship is real. 1133 01:02:15,758 --> 01:02:17,758 -How are y'all doing today? -[Ashia] We're doing good. 1134 01:02:17,931 --> 01:02:19,344 Good, good. 1135 01:02:19,344 --> 01:02:20,689 -Well, I know a little bit about the situation... -[Ashia] Mm-hmm. 1136 01:02:20,862 --> 01:02:22,137 ...from when the appointment was made, 1137 01:02:22,310 --> 01:02:23,275 but I -- I'll let y'all start off. 1138 01:02:23,448 --> 01:02:24,758 How can I help you? 1139 01:02:24,758 --> 01:02:27,586 I really do hope you can help us because I feel like my story 1140 01:02:27,758 --> 01:02:30,965 is more special than any story because it was God-ordained. 1141 01:02:31,103 --> 01:02:33,034 Wow, OK. 1142 01:02:33,206 --> 01:02:36,551 So my fiancé's name is Maxwell, and I introduced my best friend 1143 01:02:36,724 --> 01:02:38,827 to his best friend. -Right. 1144 01:02:39,000 --> 01:02:42,517 And so we did the entire K-1 visa process together. 1145 01:02:42,689 --> 01:02:43,896 Right. 1146 01:02:43,896 --> 01:02:46,586 [Ashia] So when they went in for their interview, 1147 01:02:46,758 --> 01:02:48,034 the guy was like, 1148 01:02:48,206 --> 01:02:51,448 "There's no way two friends are engaged to two friends." 1149 01:02:51,620 --> 01:02:54,931 So he felt like we were helping them get to America. 1150 01:02:55,068 --> 01:02:57,000 So they denied it. 1151 01:02:57,172 --> 01:02:59,310 So I just wanna know about the appeal process. 1152 01:02:59,482 --> 01:03:01,448 Have you ever done an appeal? 1153 01:03:01,620 --> 01:03:04,379 There's not really an appeal process we could go through. 1154 01:03:06,862 --> 01:03:09,413 Without a shadow of a doubt, there's no possibility 1155 01:03:09,586 --> 01:03:11,620 of an appeal? -Not in this situation. 1156 01:03:14,000 --> 01:03:17,034 Applying for this visa is taking almost two years 1157 01:03:17,206 --> 01:03:18,241 of our lives away. 1158 01:03:18,413 --> 01:03:21,758 And literally, me, him, his family has spent 1159 01:03:21,931 --> 01:03:24,137 thousands of dollars on this visa. 1160 01:03:24,310 --> 01:03:25,965 And then for what? 1161 01:03:26,103 --> 01:03:27,758 I was hoping for an appeal. 1162 01:03:27,931 --> 01:03:30,655 The attorney is saying that's not an option. 1163 01:03:30,827 --> 01:03:33,000 And I just feel, you know, defeated, 1164 01:03:33,172 --> 01:03:36,241 disgusted, irritated. Like, this is unreal. 1165 01:03:38,344 --> 01:03:41,068 The options that I see going forward is that you could file 1166 01:03:41,241 --> 01:03:43,448 another K-1 petition. 1167 01:03:43,620 --> 01:03:45,655 Another option would be you could get married. 1168 01:03:48,000 --> 01:03:50,379 And you could file the CR-1 spousal petition. 1169 01:03:50,551 --> 01:03:52,620 So you'd have to go there and get married, and you could 1170 01:03:52,793 --> 01:03:54,965 file a petition as a spouse. 1171 01:03:59,862 --> 01:04:01,448 No, she -- she definitely does not have to go 1172 01:04:01,620 --> 01:04:04,482 get married in order to get this case approved and get him here. 1173 01:04:04,655 --> 01:04:07,103 So you would recommend to her that she don't need to -- 1174 01:04:07,275 --> 01:04:09,379 -No, don't -- don't coach him. -No, you're good. 1175 01:04:09,551 --> 01:04:11,551 -My job is to let you know what your options are... -[Ashia] Options are. 1176 01:04:11,724 --> 01:04:13,000 ...and then y'all make the decision. 1177 01:04:15,000 --> 01:04:16,586 [Ashia] If you're gonna be on the board and be support, 1178 01:04:16,758 --> 01:04:17,931 be support. -I'm being supportive of you. 1179 01:04:18,068 --> 01:04:19,586 No, not really. 1180 01:04:19,586 --> 01:04:21,000 -If this is what support looks like... -Yeah, I'm supportive, but -- 1181 01:04:21,172 --> 01:04:23,275 but -- but supportive is you first. 1182 01:04:25,724 --> 01:04:27,103 -I'm sorry I turned it up, I'm sorry. -[Jeremy] You're fine, 1183 01:04:27,275 --> 01:04:28,344 it don't bother me. -Yeah, that's -- that's fine. 1184 01:04:28,517 --> 01:04:29,344 -I'm just making sure. -That's fine. 1185 01:04:29,517 --> 01:04:30,827 I'm just making sure. 1186 01:04:33,137 --> 01:04:36,310 I don't want Ashia to go over and marry this guy 1187 01:04:36,482 --> 01:04:37,620 in Nigeria at all. 1188 01:04:39,000 --> 01:04:41,862 It -- it doesn't give me an opportunity to really see 1189 01:04:42,000 --> 01:04:45,000 who this guy really is. I'm her protector. 1190 01:04:45,172 --> 01:04:47,034 I don't want her to be... 1191 01:04:47,206 --> 01:04:50,344 scammed, or I don't want her to be hurt either. 1192 01:04:50,517 --> 01:04:53,551 What would you say the K-1, like, how long do you think, 1193 01:04:53,724 --> 01:04:55,172 versus the CR-1? 1194 01:04:55,344 --> 01:04:57,620 So the K-1 right now, and it really varies, 1195 01:04:57,793 --> 01:05:00,379 but you're looking at probably around a year and a half. 1196 01:05:00,551 --> 01:05:01,482 OK. 1197 01:05:01,655 --> 01:05:03,862 Now, if we do the other process, the CR-1, 1198 01:05:04,000 --> 01:05:06,241 you're looking at probably around two years or so. 1199 01:05:06,413 --> 01:05:08,103 I would -- about what I would think. 1200 01:05:08,275 --> 01:05:10,655 If I go through this process and you're saying a year 1201 01:05:10,827 --> 01:05:13,034 to two, is there a possibility 1202 01:05:13,206 --> 01:05:15,310 that it might be denied for any reason? 1203 01:05:16,482 --> 01:05:17,448 It's possible. 1204 01:05:17,620 --> 01:05:19,655 Oh, that ain't what I wanna hear. 1205 01:05:22,103 --> 01:05:25,724 [Jeremy] Because there were some immigration issues in the past, 1206 01:05:25,896 --> 01:05:28,137 where there was actually findings 1207 01:05:28,310 --> 01:05:30,068 of fraud or misrepresentation, 1208 01:05:30,241 --> 01:05:31,275 they could still find that again. 1209 01:05:32,793 --> 01:05:35,137 I mean, so what options are they leaving us? 1210 01:05:35,310 --> 01:05:38,241 Literally, for me to marry Maxwell, live thousands 1211 01:05:38,413 --> 01:05:41,068 of miles away, and continue life like that, that's -- 1212 01:05:41,241 --> 01:05:44,034 that doesn't even make sense. I'm 38. 1213 01:05:44,206 --> 01:05:47,344 My biological clock is ticking. I do not have time for this. 1214 01:05:47,517 --> 01:05:50,310 I literally came to this meeting looking for answers, 1215 01:05:50,482 --> 01:05:53,517 and at the end of the day, I'm left with more questions. 1216 01:05:53,689 --> 01:05:55,310 Well, I have a lot of things to think about. 1217 01:05:55,482 --> 01:05:56,965 Of course, we'll discuss, 1218 01:05:57,103 --> 01:05:59,137 and hopefully, we can get him here. 1219 01:06:00,344 --> 01:06:03,241 I truly believe, you know, and I stand on it, 1220 01:06:03,413 --> 01:06:06,620 and I have faith in God that this relationship is going 1221 01:06:06,793 --> 01:06:09,000 to work, but I just don't know how. 1222 01:06:09,137 --> 01:06:10,620 Yeah. 1223 01:06:14,689 --> 01:06:17,931 -[Catie's friends cheering] -[friend #1 speaking] 1224 01:06:25,482 --> 01:06:26,862 [Mark] We've known Catie for a while. 1225 01:06:26,862 --> 01:06:29,379 She does come with that level of craziness where you're like, 1226 01:06:29,551 --> 01:06:31,310 "OK, hold on. Like, let's slow down. 1227 01:06:31,482 --> 01:06:32,862 Like, what are you doing here?" 1228 01:06:46,758 --> 01:06:49,206 ♪ Piercing light, under play ♪ 1229 01:06:49,379 --> 01:06:50,862 ♪ And everyone was like ♪ 1230 01:06:51,000 --> 01:06:53,103 ♪ Oh my God, that's the way ♪ 1231 01:06:53,275 --> 01:06:56,034 ♪ Came in strong out the gate ♪ 1232 01:06:56,206 --> 01:06:59,344 ♪ And you got me like OK ♪ 1233 01:06:59,517 --> 01:07:02,137 -Is this the place? -Yes, it is. 1234 01:07:02,310 --> 01:07:03,758 -Are you excited? -[Josh] Yes. 1235 01:07:03,931 --> 01:07:05,724 [Catie's friends cheer] 1236 01:07:05,896 --> 01:07:08,034 [friend #1 speaking] 1237 01:07:10,517 --> 01:07:14,000 Oh, it's so good to see everyone, oh, wow. 1238 01:07:14,137 --> 01:07:16,827 ♪ You've got me like ♪ 1239 01:07:17,000 --> 01:07:18,620 ♪ Oh, my God ♪ 1240 01:07:18,793 --> 01:07:20,827 -Hey. -Hey! 1241 01:07:21,000 --> 01:07:23,172 Hi, [indistinct], welcome back! 1242 01:07:23,344 --> 01:07:25,310 -Welcome back! -Josh! 1243 01:07:25,482 --> 01:07:26,965 Welcome back, buddy. 1244 01:07:27,103 --> 01:07:30,137 -Yeah! -Let's go, let's go. 1245 01:07:32,275 --> 01:07:35,172 Yes, I actually wore it through the immigration. 1246 01:07:35,344 --> 01:07:37,068 -I'm -- I'm joking. -Do you feel like a -- 1247 01:07:39,241 --> 01:07:43,137 I'm -- I'm getting there, like, I feel less British every day. 1248 01:07:45,620 --> 01:07:48,689 Tonight, Catie's throwing me a welcome party, which is such 1249 01:07:48,862 --> 01:07:51,137 a -- a lovely gesture. 1250 01:07:51,310 --> 01:07:56,000 But there are a couple of people that she has made out with 1251 01:07:56,172 --> 01:07:59,137 before, and that might be really awkward. 1252 01:07:59,310 --> 01:08:00,620 I don't know, I -- I -- 1253 01:08:00,793 --> 01:08:03,448 I don't know if -- if they'll look at me just like -- 1254 01:08:03,620 --> 01:08:05,586 like I'm an idiot or... 1255 01:08:05,758 --> 01:08:08,034 [Catie] Oh, yeah. 1256 01:08:08,206 --> 01:08:09,689 -Hey. -How you doing? 1257 01:08:09,862 --> 01:08:11,379 [Danika] You should get a drink. 1258 01:08:11,551 --> 01:08:13,000 [Catie] Yes, ooh, if you buy me a tequila shot, 1259 01:08:13,137 --> 01:08:14,068 I'll do it with you. 1260 01:08:45,448 --> 01:08:47,448 -[Mark] What's going on, girl? -How are you doing? 1261 01:08:47,620 --> 01:08:49,689 -I'm doing great. What about you? -Good. 1262 01:08:49,862 --> 01:08:51,274 -Josh is here. -Yeah. 1263 01:08:51,448 --> 01:08:54,448 -Did you like his new look? -[Mark] I like the new look. 1264 01:08:56,930 --> 01:08:59,758 I knew Catie all of a week before we hooked up 1265 01:08:59,930 --> 01:09:05,000 and she's a -- she's a lioness on the prowl. 1266 01:09:05,136 --> 01:09:07,171 If you're just close enough, she'll just, like, go in that 1267 01:09:07,344 --> 01:09:09,206 extra step for the kiss. 1268 01:09:09,379 --> 01:09:11,000 Made out with me. 1269 01:09:11,171 --> 01:09:12,862 Catie has made out with my roommate. 1270 01:09:14,068 --> 01:09:18,068 At this party that I'm aware of, myself. 1271 01:09:18,241 --> 01:09:19,068 She's kissed me. 1272 01:09:19,241 --> 01:09:20,758 She's kissed Bella. 1273 01:09:20,930 --> 01:09:24,586 Fred, and our Josh, British Josh. 1274 01:09:24,758 --> 01:09:26,689 Like, I had to ban her from sticking her tongue in my mouth 1275 01:09:26,862 --> 01:09:29,482 'cause I -- that's -- that's too much, that's, yeah. 1276 01:09:31,895 --> 01:09:34,965 -Dude, it's your turn for darts. -Oh, boy. 1277 01:09:35,103 --> 01:09:37,792 -OK, well, well, we will chat later. -OK, yeah. 1278 01:09:37,965 --> 01:09:40,344 -Go have fun. -[Catie] Can I steal you for a second? 1279 01:09:40,517 --> 01:09:43,000 Can I steal you for a sec? 1280 01:09:43,136 --> 01:09:44,068 Nice. 1281 01:09:45,895 --> 01:09:47,895 -[Catie] Oh, that's good. -Like that. 1282 01:09:48,033 --> 01:09:48,965 Wait, really? 1283 01:09:49,103 --> 01:09:51,654 Like, I'm not gonna hurt anyone. 1284 01:09:51,827 --> 01:09:53,586 -Like, like. -I mean, no, no, no. 1285 01:09:53,758 --> 01:09:55,137 Like, it's like you, like, pull, like... 1286 01:09:57,620 --> 01:10:00,137 -Oh, yeah. -[Catie] This is actually fun. 1287 01:10:00,310 --> 01:10:02,000 How was picking him up? 1288 01:10:02,137 --> 01:10:04,103 I surprised him with the America decorations. 1289 01:10:04,275 --> 01:10:06,034 Yes, I love that he's into that. 1290 01:10:10,000 --> 01:10:12,000 Oh, that's, I mean, just generally 1291 01:10:12,137 --> 01:10:14,275 how people communicate. 1292 01:10:14,448 --> 01:10:16,586 -Right. -Like, I've been trying very hard to be less, like, 1293 01:10:16,758 --> 01:10:19,793 like, closed and reserved, 'cause I think Americans are 1294 01:10:19,965 --> 01:10:23,827 quite, you know, you say what you think. 1295 01:10:24,000 --> 01:10:25,068 Yeah. 1296 01:10:25,068 --> 01:10:27,793 When we went home, we, like, got ready for bed, 1297 01:10:27,965 --> 01:10:30,068 and we were gonna. 1298 01:10:30,241 --> 01:10:33,448 We did not have sex in the night, but in the morning 1299 01:10:33,620 --> 01:10:34,551 we had sex. 1300 01:10:40,448 --> 01:10:42,206 Oh, it's different, right? 1301 01:10:42,379 --> 01:10:45,000 She's had these quick in-and-outs over the time. 1302 01:10:45,172 --> 01:10:48,000 Yeah, yeah, and, like, we -- we've known Catie for a while. 1303 01:10:48,137 --> 01:10:51,344 She's -- she's a bit -- bit of a loose cannon, right? 1304 01:10:51,517 --> 01:10:52,689 -Like. -What does that mean? 1305 01:10:54,137 --> 01:10:58,793 Well, she was just so, like, loose before, just like 1306 01:10:58,965 --> 01:11:02,103 very much just like everything was a party, yes. 1307 01:11:03,482 --> 01:11:07,620 -100% like she was just going off the rails. -Oh, yeah. 1308 01:11:09,137 --> 01:11:12,172 So I -- I'm not sure whether it's one of those situations 1309 01:11:12,344 --> 01:11:15,517 where everyone else in the room knows something 1310 01:11:15,689 --> 01:11:17,689 and they don't want to tell me. 1311 01:11:17,862 --> 01:11:19,344 On the other hand... 1312 01:11:28,379 --> 01:11:32,137 We had some good conversations about, like, how what I need 1313 01:11:32,310 --> 01:11:35,448 versus what he needs, and that, like he said, 1314 01:11:35,620 --> 01:11:37,206 he'll be, like, more sexually available 1315 01:11:37,379 --> 01:11:39,000 and, like, more open to that. 1316 01:11:39,172 --> 01:11:42,586 -[Danika] Right. -And I promise, like, I'm going to stop, like, get too drunk 1317 01:11:42,758 --> 01:11:44,655 and seek out attention. 1318 01:11:44,827 --> 01:11:47,275 When -- when she's going about all these wild, crazy stunts, 1319 01:11:47,448 --> 01:11:49,413 like, how -- how have you dealt with that? 1320 01:11:49,586 --> 01:11:51,413 As in, like, why -- why am I... 1321 01:11:51,586 --> 01:11:54,586 Like, hat, like, you're moving halfway-around-the-world. 1322 01:11:54,758 --> 01:11:56,310 Like, that's a huge change. 1323 01:11:56,482 --> 01:11:58,034 For me to make this commitment 1324 01:11:58,206 --> 01:11:59,655 of kinda leaving my home country, 1325 01:11:59,827 --> 01:12:03,275 I need to know it's -- it's going somewhere. 1326 01:12:03,448 --> 01:12:06,172 And -- and I -- I -- I feel that with Catie. 1327 01:12:06,344 --> 01:12:08,931 But she does come with that level of craziness where you're 1328 01:12:09,068 --> 01:12:11,551 like, "OK, hold on. Like, let's -- let's slow down." 1329 01:12:11,724 --> 01:12:13,517 Like, what are you doing here?" type-thing. 1330 01:12:13,689 --> 01:12:15,103 I don't know, I -- I think you just -- you -- 1331 01:12:15,275 --> 01:12:16,689 you roll through those punches 1332 01:12:16,862 --> 01:12:18,551 way better than I ever could. 1333 01:12:21,000 --> 01:12:25,241 What stuck out about Josh tonight was that he's -- 1334 01:12:25,413 --> 01:12:27,689 that he's -- he's all in. 1335 01:12:27,862 --> 01:12:29,000 [Mark] Yeah, let's go get another drink. 1336 01:12:29,137 --> 01:12:30,551 -Yeah. -Yes, I'd love that. 1337 01:12:30,724 --> 01:12:33,137 He's got his -- his heart and his mind, you know, 1338 01:12:33,310 --> 01:12:34,931 just in the correct place. 1339 01:12:35,068 --> 01:12:38,862 But I am worried that she will make big mistakes. 1340 01:12:39,000 --> 01:12:40,758 -[Josh] Hey. -[Catie] Hey, babe. 1341 01:12:40,931 --> 01:12:42,103 Catie can be wild. 1342 01:12:42,103 --> 01:12:45,413 You know, she'll drive the crowd, you know, just push 1343 01:12:45,586 --> 01:12:47,551 everybody to, like, you know, "Let's all go karaoke." 1344 01:12:47,724 --> 01:12:49,551 You know, "Let's all make out." 1345 01:12:49,724 --> 01:12:51,517 Once she's been drinking a certain amount, I mean, 1346 01:12:51,689 --> 01:12:54,172 that definitely gets cranked up. 1347 01:12:56,655 --> 01:12:59,103 [Catie] We saw you and Mark and Josh talking. 1348 01:13:01,655 --> 01:13:03,758 -[Josh] OK. -[Catie] I guess you're not my ex-lover. 1349 01:13:03,931 --> 01:13:06,068 What were you guys talking about? 1350 01:13:06,241 --> 01:13:08,413 They were -- they were, like, essentially, like, checking -- 1351 01:13:08,586 --> 01:13:13,931 checking in with me, seeing how I'm doing, like. -Why? 1352 01:13:14,068 --> 01:13:19,862 -Or, like, how did it go? -I -- I -- I -- it went -- it went great, like, I... 1353 01:13:20,000 --> 01:13:25,310 It doesn't bug you? That we've banged before? 1354 01:13:25,482 --> 01:13:27,965 I banged both Josh and Mark one time. 1355 01:13:28,103 --> 01:13:30,482 Not one time. Like, three times. 1356 01:13:33,517 --> 01:13:35,000 You're not insecure? 1357 01:13:35,137 --> 01:13:37,344 [Josh] I mean, like, do -- do you wanna be with me? 1358 01:13:37,517 --> 01:13:39,517 -Yeah. -OK, well, there we go. 1359 01:13:39,689 --> 01:13:43,241 I feel like sometimes I feel like, "Oh..." 1360 01:13:47,517 --> 01:13:50,655 Or, like, a brief thought will cross my mind. 1361 01:13:50,827 --> 01:13:51,758 Sorry? 1362 01:13:51,931 --> 01:13:55,482 But it's more of, like, "Oh, I know... 1363 01:13:55,655 --> 01:13:58,551 that didn't work out," like. -Yeah, yeah, yeah. 1364 01:14:00,206 --> 01:14:02,379 Well, I hope you guys can, like, hang out. 1365 01:14:02,551 --> 01:14:06,000 -Yeah, no, we're -- we're planning to. -Uh, yeah, that's good. 1366 01:14:08,482 --> 01:14:11,448 Sometimes Catie can 1367 01:14:11,620 --> 01:14:15,068 say something in the hope that it will become true. 1368 01:14:15,241 --> 01:14:19,241 And I hope that this isn't one of those situations and I don't 1369 01:14:19,413 --> 01:14:21,448 want to be living 1370 01:14:21,620 --> 01:14:23,448 in a relationship where I'm second-guessing things. 1371 01:14:24,724 --> 01:14:27,103 You know, this would have been a massive waste of my time 1372 01:14:27,275 --> 01:14:32,034 and money and -- and emotion to come here for me to 1373 01:14:32,206 --> 01:14:33,517 be made a fool of. 1374 01:14:33,689 --> 01:14:37,448 Catie needs to prove her commitment to me and to us 1375 01:14:37,620 --> 01:14:39,793 or this relationship, it won't work. 1376 01:14:39,965 --> 01:14:43,172 -Should we go that way? -[Catie] How do you feel? 1377 01:14:43,344 --> 01:14:44,586 I feel like it's time to go that way. 1378 01:14:45,655 --> 01:14:46,724 [Catie speaking] 1379 01:14:46,896 --> 01:14:47,862 Yeah. 1380 01:15:00,482 --> 01:15:03,379 There's a strong possibility that this is all 1381 01:15:03,551 --> 01:15:04,448 gonna fall apart. 1382 01:15:13,413 --> 01:15:16,103 I'm really worried this just may be too much. 1383 01:15:42,344 --> 01:15:46,310 I've been trying to get in touch with Mido and haven't 1384 01:15:46,482 --> 01:15:51,310 been able to get through. Mido's flight is tomorrow. 1385 01:15:51,482 --> 01:15:55,206 There's a strong possibility that he's not gonna be 1386 01:15:55,379 --> 01:15:57,137 on that flight 1387 01:15:57,310 --> 01:15:58,965 and this is all gonna fall apart. 1388 01:15:59,103 --> 01:16:01,034 [phone ringing] 1389 01:16:07,448 --> 01:16:13,620 ♪ 'Cause you made me lose my mind ♪ 1390 01:16:14,724 --> 01:16:18,896 ♪ And now I start to lose my mind ♪ 1391 01:16:20,034 --> 01:16:23,241 ♪ You prayed for me to lose ♪ 1392 01:16:25,724 --> 01:16:29,862 [Debby] It's been a couple days since I heard from Mido. 1393 01:16:30,000 --> 01:16:31,965 It's -- it's been tough. 1394 01:16:34,413 --> 01:16:37,206 His father's not well. 1395 01:16:37,379 --> 01:16:41,827 We don't know what the diagnosis may be. 1396 01:16:42,000 --> 01:16:44,793 His father is going through a series of tests, 1397 01:16:44,965 --> 01:16:49,034 but there's still a ways to go before we have any idea of what 1398 01:16:49,206 --> 01:16:51,724 this is actually going to be. 1399 01:16:51,896 --> 01:16:53,275 I know he's stressed. 1400 01:16:53,448 --> 01:16:55,931 I know he's got a million and one things going on. 1401 01:16:56,068 --> 01:16:59,103 At the same point, I'm not getting much communication. 1402 01:17:01,413 --> 01:17:05,068 I definitely go times without hearing from Mido because he is 1403 01:17:05,241 --> 01:17:07,551 just the type of person that 1404 01:17:07,724 --> 01:17:09,965 he needs that break from people. 1405 01:17:11,620 --> 01:17:14,241 When Mido goes silent, it can last a couple of days, 1406 01:17:14,413 --> 01:17:15,793 two, three days. 1407 01:17:15,965 --> 01:17:19,965 That part of his personality was hard to become accustomed to, 1408 01:17:20,103 --> 01:17:24,965 and when he is in his mode of no contact, 1409 01:17:25,103 --> 01:17:26,827 it becomes frustrating. 1410 01:17:29,275 --> 01:17:32,965 We're about 20-something hours away from the flight, 1411 01:17:33,103 --> 01:17:36,551 so him changing that ticket at this point in the game, 1412 01:17:36,724 --> 01:17:39,862 I don't think it's logical. 1413 01:17:42,310 --> 01:17:44,482 There's a lot of unknowns going on at the moment. 1414 01:17:50,413 --> 01:17:52,413 [sad music playing] 1415 01:17:56,000 --> 01:17:58,000 [tense music playing] 1416 01:18:02,413 --> 01:18:04,413 [phone ringing] 1417 01:18:20,586 --> 01:18:21,655 How are you doing, baby? 1418 01:18:27,862 --> 01:18:29,241 [Debby] What's wrong? 1419 01:18:33,482 --> 01:18:35,586 [Debby] I just, I'm trying to be there, baby. 1420 01:18:35,758 --> 01:18:36,931 I don't know what to say. 1421 01:18:39,241 --> 01:18:40,413 Did you talk with the doctor? 1422 01:18:41,827 --> 01:18:43,931 [Mido speaking] 1423 01:18:46,379 --> 01:18:48,758 I'm not trying to, like, aggravate you. 1424 01:18:48,931 --> 01:18:50,379 I'm just trying to be there. 1425 01:18:59,793 --> 01:19:03,310 Why do you, what will, baby, what will be done 1426 01:19:03,482 --> 01:19:05,310 in 10 days that it's not done now? 1427 01:19:05,482 --> 01:19:07,448 [Mido speaking] 1428 01:19:09,310 --> 01:19:11,517 [Debby] Mido, what do you want me to do? 1429 01:19:11,689 --> 01:19:14,068 I told you, I told you. 1430 01:19:14,241 --> 01:19:16,931 I told you, need just two weeks. 1431 01:19:24,724 --> 01:19:27,241 [Debby] Do you want me to check the airlines to find out how 1432 01:19:27,413 --> 01:19:29,206 much the ticket would be for you to go later? 1433 01:19:31,413 --> 01:19:33,241 I don't know what I can do. 1434 01:19:37,275 --> 01:19:39,034 [Mido speaking] 1435 01:19:41,896 --> 01:19:42,896 OK. 1436 01:19:43,896 --> 01:19:46,793 Mido is extremely agitated at the moment, 1437 01:19:46,965 --> 01:19:49,965 and I definitely am concerned that he he's getting cold feet 1438 01:19:50,103 --> 01:19:52,000 about coming to America. 1439 01:19:52,172 --> 01:19:55,793 It just feels to me like it's just always something, 1440 01:19:55,965 --> 01:19:57,206 and I'm -- I'm tired. 1441 01:20:00,000 --> 01:20:01,137 Bye, bye. 1442 01:20:07,896 --> 01:20:13,896 At what point do you decide on a journey or on a decision, 1443 01:20:14,034 --> 01:20:16,586 what's a test of a commitment 1444 01:20:16,758 --> 01:20:19,517 and what's a sign of something that's just not meant to be? 1445 01:20:23,724 --> 01:20:26,689 And I'm not sure where to put that anymore. 1446 01:20:28,172 --> 01:20:30,172 I'm really worried that Mido's 1447 01:20:30,344 --> 01:20:31,896 not gonna get on that flight. 1448 01:20:34,344 --> 01:20:36,689 I'm really worried when it's gonna be time. 1449 01:20:42,586 --> 01:20:44,586 [sad music playing] 1450 01:21:00,862 --> 01:21:03,034 I'm really worried it's just maybe too much. 1451 01:21:10,068 --> 01:21:12,103 [Shea] Next time on "90 Day Fiancé." 1452 01:21:13,517 --> 01:21:14,724 [Polly speaking] 1453 01:21:20,379 --> 01:21:22,206 It's a toilet. 1454 01:21:26,965 --> 01:21:28,206 [bleep]. 1455 01:21:31,206 --> 01:21:33,206 [both speaking Portuguese] 1456 01:21:39,310 --> 01:21:42,586 Polly gives the universe way too much credit. 1457 01:21:45,068 --> 01:21:46,758 Especially when it's me. 1458 01:21:51,448 --> 01:21:53,172 For a little bit, yeah. 1459 01:21:53,344 --> 01:21:56,103 We are now on our way to America. 1460 01:22:06,448 --> 01:22:08,413 People think Americans are so rich. 1461 01:22:09,965 --> 01:22:12,482 I don't make that much money. 1462 01:22:12,655 --> 01:22:14,275 [sighs] 1463 01:22:14,448 --> 01:22:15,655 [Shea] Oh, hey, guys. 1464 01:22:21,310 --> 01:22:23,241 We're probably gonna head on home. 1465 01:22:23,413 --> 01:22:26,000 Can we get a couple of dollars? 1466 01:22:26,172 --> 01:22:27,551 -[Shea] Here you go. -[Allison] Thank you. 1467 01:22:27,724 --> 01:22:29,862 [Shea] OK, bye, guys. 1468 01:22:38,379 --> 01:22:39,827 It's just a few dollars. 1469 01:22:42,275 --> 01:22:44,310 But that's my daughter. 1470 01:22:48,103 --> 01:22:50,896 I'm worried about how the dynamic of our family is 1471 01:22:51,034 --> 01:22:53,068 gonna change. -I'm gonna keep it real. 1472 01:22:54,482 --> 01:22:56,793 He's 32 years old, and she's about to be 1473 01:22:56,965 --> 01:22:57,793 46 years old. 1474 01:22:57,965 --> 01:22:59,000 I just wanna make sure that, 1475 01:22:59,172 --> 01:23:01,000 you know, she's not being taken advantage of. 1476 01:23:01,172 --> 01:23:02,931 And the boys don't get hurt. 1477 01:23:03,068 --> 01:23:04,551 Especially when it comes to my kids. 1478 01:23:04,724 --> 01:23:06,275 I'll bite someone's face off with my kids. 1479 01:23:10,103 --> 01:23:11,275 My thoughts are racing. 1480 01:23:11,448 --> 01:23:16,172 I can't even put words to exactly how I'm feeling. 1481 01:23:16,344 --> 01:23:20,620 Today is the day that Mido is supposed to arrive. 1482 01:23:20,793 --> 01:23:24,310 Either he is coming over, and we are gonna build 1483 01:23:24,482 --> 01:23:27,793 a life, or there's no place left to go. 1484 01:23:35,241 --> 01:23:37,344 [retching sounds]