[Mallorie] Previously on "90 Day Fiancé."
[Marissa] Oh, I'm out.
Prior to Edward, I've never let the kids
meet a boyfriend in person.
I don't want him to replace dad.
[sighs] Yeah.
My divorce with my ex-husband, Michael,
was challenging for the kids.
[Edward speaking]
I love Anabelle, and I don't want y'all getting
off on the wrong foot, 'cause you've already got
an attitude about it. -Well, I hope it works out.
If not, we're gonna have some problems.
[Shea] Oh, my god, baby!
Usually, Anabelle tells me what to do, what she wants.
[Anabelle speaking]
Mm.
[Mallorie] My love!
[speaking Turkish]
I have come here to bring my fiancé back to America.
So how do you feel leaving all the family behind?
I have very conservative friends that are super
into the deportations.
I really don't think he understands
what he signed up for.
I know I've crossed some boundaries in the past while,
like, drunk, and I just want
to be really transparent with you.
I don't want to be living in a relationship where
I'm second-guessing things.
Like, do you -- do you wanna be with me?
I mean, I'm not deluding myself to think any of this is
gonna be an easy walk. -You guys had a rough patch.
-That damn social media. -With that girl.
-That social media bull[bleep]. -[Laura] That girl.
[Debby] He was posting with this Egyptian actress.
I'm not dumb, and if something doesn't feel right,
something's not right.
[Debby] I'm really worried that Mido's not gonna get
on that flight. It's just maybe too much.
[Mallorie] Oh!
[speaking Turkish]
[Rasit speaking]
Thank you.
[Mallorie] It does not feel real
that we're leaving together this time.
-[speaking Turkish] -Hello!
[all continue in Turkish]
This is, uh --
-[Rasit] This is, uh -- -[Mallorie] Yogurt?
[all speaking Turkish]
I was really excited to see
all the good little Turkish food.
I love to eat, obviously, but...
[all speaking Turkish]
Cheers. Cheers.
The only thing I haven't liked so far is, like, the milk drink.
[Rasit speaking Turkish]
Everyone in Turkey drinks it.
-Ew, no. -[Can] I know a couple of people, yeah, drinks, like.
Ew, no, thank you. No, thank you.
I think it was, like, fermented or something,
because that [bleep] was gross.
I'm not trying to be
disrespectful to his culture at all.
That's not what I'm trying to do, but...
my God, that [bleep] is nasty, yuck.
-Not nasty. -No, no, it's nasty.
[Can speaking]
Yes, yes.
-A lot. -[Can] Nothing missing? You've checked?
I hope not.
Listen, if it's missing, it's on the US government, so.
Are you -- are you worried?
[all speaking Turkish]
[Mallorie speaking]
-Yeah. -Not an old boyfriend,
not an old boyfriend. We didn’t date.
You didn’t date?
I have a really good friend named Brandon.
I wouldn't say Brandon and I have dated before,
but I think the term for our arrangement was...
friends with benefits.
[Can speaking]
[Mallorie] Not acceptable.
I think Ras is used to...
culturally, women don't hang out with men, typically.
But I'm gonna stand my ground and just say,
"Look, you guys have your culture and I respect it,
but it's not gonna change."
Brandon is a good friend.
-[Rasit] Yeah. -He's -- there's nothing physical there.
There hasn't been for years.
And when I was in my accident and I was in the hospital...
...he stepped up, and he didn't have to do that.
A year ago, one of my best friends, myself,
her mother, and at the time, her seven-month-old son,
were in a very serious and traumatic car accident
that altered our lives forever.
I remember everything to this day.
We were listening to the Jonas Brothers...
and the next thing I know, my friend Michaela said,
"Is this car coming into my lane?"
And I just remember the impact.
I remember blacking out...
and coming to.
And, um, sorry.
And, like, I just remember, like, screaming.
[siren wailing]
[Mallorie] They wanted to do emergency surgery on me.
I woke up the next morning, and they took about three feet
of my intestines out.
In my darkest hours, Brandon was there for me.
He took care of my dogs for me the entire time
when I was in the hospital.
And I didn't have to ask him to do that.
He just said, "Don't worry about your dogs.
I'm gonna take care of them." So just because Ras is
having a problem with Brandon because of something that
happened in the past...
it's not a good reason to end a friendship over.
[speaking Turkish]
Yeah.
He’s saying that when we are married,
there will be things I don't like that I'll be telling you.
At this point in my life...
I really don't want a man telling me
what I can and can't do.
I've been there before, and I just don't want that
in my life again.
No, no, you're --
No, you're not gonna sit there and control me.
This isn't Turkey.
You're coming to America, point blank, period.
[Mallorie] No.
Maybe I won't be if you're gonna act like this.
I want you to give him a chance because he's going to be
around a lot. -When...
♪ I see the clouds they’re rolling in ♪
♪ They hide the sun but not my sin ♪
♪ Oh, oh ♪
♪ Walking on the water ♪
♪ Oh, oh, darkness under my feet ♪
♪ Oh, oh, hallelujah ♪
I took a break from the office. I just needed to get away.
It's definitely been a stressful day, very stressful.
I looked into changing Mido's flight because of the situation
with, um, his father, and it came out
to be...about $3,800 to change his ticket.
I was shook because it's not doable at the moment.
When I messaged him and let him know...
he just put "No comment."
There's a very good chance that he may not be
on that flight tomorrow.
It's pretty late.
I should be sleeping, but.
Haven't been doing a lot of that lately.
We were trying to FaceTime and couldn't hear each other.
So I sent him a message and asked him where he was.
His response was he was home.
I don't know if Mido got on that plane today.
What am I supposed to do, Little Bit?
[tense music playing]
[Debby] There we go. I'm ready when you are.
-I am ready, too. -Alright.
Come on. Let's roll.
-[Devyn] You got everything you need? -[Debby] Come on.
Today is the day that Mido is supposed to arrive.
He's a couple of hours out.
And I am not even sure if he's on that plane.
OK.
I tried to get in touch with Qatar Airlines
to find out if he boarded the flight, got nowhere.
I am at my wit's end and don't know what to do.
This whole thing, baby girl, has been like craziness.
Should we even be bothering with --
We're gonna go -- we're gonna go
and we're gonna proceed as normal.
OK.
-I'm hoping for the best. -Yeah.
That's what my hope is. My hope is for the best.
[Devyn] My mom hasn't been eating, she hasn't been sleeping,
she hasn't been doing very well these past few days,
and it's because she hasn't been hearing from Mido.
If Mido doesn't meet my mother at the airport,
I'm not actually sure how my mom is gonna react.
I'm going to assume that she's going to wind up crying,
being very angry, and rightfully so.
Yeah, I -- I -- she -- she's not gonna take it well,
I don't think.
[tense music playing]
[Debby] Alrighty, here we are.
[Devyn] Text me when you want me to pick you up, OK?
[Debby] OK.
Good girl.
♪ I know we’ve had our ups and downs ♪
♪ Now we’re going round and round ♪
[Debby] These past couple of days, it's been hell.
Is he gonna come? Is he not gonna come?
What is my life gonna look like in 24, 48 hours?
We have dealt with so many different things this far apart
that now it's to the point where it's like, either he is
coming over and we are gonna build a life
or there's no place left to go.
[retching sounds]
[sobbing]
[Paula speaking]
It's a toilet.
And the...
[bleep]
[Marissa] Do you wanna just talk about,
like, what's about to happen to my life?
When Edward gets here, we're absolutely having
a man-to-man conversation.
The only thing that is an absolute problem is
if it's gonna add stress to my boys.
That's gonna be both of your guys' problems.
♪ Hush, boy, you don’t know me ♪
♪ Witness, I kill it again ♪
♪ Destroy game like Kobe ♪
♪ Witness, I kill it again ♪
My name's Paula.
I'm 41, and I'm from Sao Paulo, Brazil.
♪ Like, witness I kill it again ♪
♪ Witness I kill it again ♪
[both speaking Portuguese]
[upbeat music playing]
This is my favorite one because it's a toilet.
I was manifesting a apartment, so I got a little salt
and a little pepper, and I was like, "I wanna have one
kitchen exactly like this." I manifest, and now I have one.
Like, I bought a tiny couch to manifest a real-size couch.
♪ Woo, ooh ♪
Paula gives the universe way too much credit,
especially when it's me.
Paula loves to give my credit away to the universe.
Doesn't make sense to me at all.
[bleep]
[laughs]
I'm Thomas, I'm 31 years old,
and I live in Long Beach, California.
I had just moved to LA
from North Carolina days before I had met Paula.
She's on a one-week vacation.
We meet up at the same beach volleyball class
in Hermosa Beach.
And luckily, we're both beginners, because that's where
our story starts. -Tom, my friend, my new friend.
[both speaking Spanish]
Portuguese.
First time we met, we just, like, hit it off.
[screams and speaks Portuguese]
I thought that Paula and I could be more than friends.
Yes.
But...
Similar, similar.
I was always scared to ruin the friendship with her
if I was picking up on signals that just weren't there.
And we kind of turned into this, like, pen-pal situation.
And that lasted for years.
[singing] Check it, I miss the old Paula. Straight from the go, Paula.
Chop up the souls, Paula. Set on her goals, Paula.
Stop it with this "Old Paula, new Paula, Paula."
I am the [bleep] Paula I always was.
And at a certain point, like, I felt like something was
developing that I couldn't ignore.
And that's when I -- I made my move.
I went down to Brazil, and I was like, "Hey, Paula,
"is there anything between us?
Like, I -- can we have, like, a romance?"
Her face, like, went white.
It was like a train wreck, like, absolutely worst-case scenario.
But eventually, Paula breaks up with her boyfriend, and then
I don't know what changed, but she just flipped
the switch, and she thinks, "Alright,
let's give it a shot."
We were best friends, and then overnight,
we became lovers, just like that.
I mean, it was quick.
And two years later, we got engaged.
[beachgoers cheering]
[Thomas] Alright, welcome to my living room.
Paula has purchased a substantial amount of stuff
online in advance of her arriving.
This one just showed up yesterday.
I mean, this is massive.
I don't know what's in here exactly,
but I have my suspicions.
She loves collecting tiny stuff.
That's what she calls it, her tiny stuffs with an "S."
It's -- it's adorable, but that's not the point.
The point is, it's ridiculous.
Paula and I have a lot of differences,
especially around personal philosophies.
I pretty much have a ton of steak on hand.
I eat meat. She's a vegan.
I know that when she sees this stuff, she doesn't see a food.
She sees the beautiful cow.
I'm completely minimalist. What I find scary is clutter.
But for Paula, she wants every surface covered with,
like, decorations or little knickknacks or toys.
This is a gift from Paula called a positivity poo.
"I may be a tiny poo, but I believe in you.
You go do your crap." Nice.
This is...
my couch.
This is the best couch solution on the market, in my opinion.
I'm not a big fan of sofas.
In fact, I find the best part of a sofa is the laying
down portion. I can lay down here.
I can enjoy a coffee, maybe on my phone.
I mean, this is the life.
[Paula speaking]
I also have a tiny table here, which is my dining room table,
You tuck your knees in,
and all of a sudden, you're at the perfect eating level.
I mean, I'm just in a good spot to facilitate the full dining
experience in a -- in a healthy way.
[Paula] The worst is, like, how much he's excited.
"Look at this! Look what I have for you.
A tiny table."
Thomas told me to bring you one bag, but it's impossible
taking only one, so I will take as much as I can.
We've been engaged two years, and now we have to figure out,
how do we make these starkly
different lifestyles work together?
I mean, the last thing we wanna do is get married and then
realize we were better off as friends.
♪ Ooh, ooh, ooh, ooh ♪
♪ I know you're holding back ♪
♪ Maybe your tidal wave will drown me ♪
Derek, Cole, you guys ready?
Your dad's gonna be here soon.
I have all your stuff in here for camp,
like your water bottles and everything.
-Hi, dad. -[Marissa] Alright, oh, your dad's here.
-[Michael] What's up? -Hey.
♪ Hold me together ♪
♪ Don't let me fall ♪
♪ Don't let me come undone ♪
Alright, so listen, their bags are packed.
Football equipment. Where's your shoes?
-Oh, over here. -[Marissa] Yeah, grab your shoes.
[Cole] Can I go outside?
[Marissa] Do you wanna give your mom a hug before you leave?
[Michael] Better give her a hug.
My ex-husband, Michael, is a great dad.
I'm not gonna take that away from him, but to me,
he wasn't a good fit for a husband.
-[Derek] Love you, mom. -Love you.
Love you, love you loads.
-Be a good boy, OK? -[Derek] Yeah.
However, over the last several years, we really worked
on trying to co-parent in a healthy and kind way.
Derek, go wait in the car.
I wanna talk to Daddy for a second.
Um, so do you wanna just talk about, like, what's about
to happen to my life?
Are you ready to talk about what's about to happen
to your life? -I mean, I'm ready.
I'm -- listen, I've been -- this is, like, a long time.
I'm gonna sit down right here.
But, like, I'm worried about how the dynamic of our family
is gonna change, you know?
And, like, he's gonna play a role in the kids' lives now,
and how does that make you feel?
It's not something that I'm looking forward to.
But, like... [chuckles]
What choice do I have?
All I'm saying is, like, you know, let's just try
to keep things at peace. -I'm gonna keep it real.
Everything so far through the whole relationship was a --
was a bit of a shock. First off, she didn't tell me.
My kids told me.
And I thought that they were completely eavesdropping
and misheard the wrong conversation.
So when I actually asked her about it, my first initial
thought was protective mode. Who is he, what's he do?
Does he have kids? Is he here for a green card?
What is going on here?
The honest question is, is he ready for everything?
Your family's very wealthy.
You got a million-dollar home here,
and -- and it can make you feel
a certain way. You know, it -- it just...
Look, I didn't feel like I fit in.
I saw what it did to you.
[Michael] I felt like a loser, so I get it.
You know, my parents are, you know, affluent people.
They've exposed me to a lot as far as traveling, really nice
vacations, beautiful hotels, things like that.
So that's what I'm used to.
I know it'll be intimidating for Edward to meet and spend
time with my family because they're probably gonna judge him
and wonder what his intentions are, just like
they did with Michael.
Look...I have my life with my kids.
I have my life with you.
You're bringing somebody else in.
I might have a little bit of an attitude.
He's gonna be spending time with my children.
The only thing that is an absolute problem is
if it's gonna add stress to my boys,
it's gonna be both of your guys' problems.
Whenever he gets here, we're absolutely having
a man-to-man conversation.
There's not a "Do we need to?" or "Should we?"
It's -- it's absolutely happening.
I just hope that we can try to keep the peace in some way.
He needs to not come in hot and heavy and come at me
a certain way, because especially when it
comes to my kids,
I'll bite someone's face off with my kids.
I've seen Michael firsthand when he goes off, and it is
very scary. And it is intimidating.
And another man will stand up to him and try to, you know,
fight him, and that's exactly what I don't want to happen.
Ultimately, the thing that we need to concentrate on
is the well-being of the kids.
And by having their father and their soon-to-be stepfather
at odds is never gonna work for us.
Listen... it's my kids.
And I'm not gonna [bleep] around.
[all speaking Turkish]
[Rasit speaking]
Traditions.
[Mallorie] Chug it, chug it, chug, chug, chug, chug.
-Was I too crazy last night? -You drink differently to me.
I want to at -- look at Catie and think that one day
this could be someone that I want to have children with.
Ooh, my head hurts.
I'm starting to think this does need to change.
[upbeat music playing]
[Mallorie giggles]
[Rasit speaking]
[Mallorie] Fine, tired.
Tired?
Yeah, you kept me up all night long.
-[Rasit] Yeah. -[Mallorie] And I wanted to sleep.
Yeah, I know.
I missed you too.
I hope so, I hope so.
No.
[Mallorie] No -- no.
-Come on. -Come on.
[speaking Turkish]
Oh, my gosh.
[Mallorie] I love you so much.
♪ When I run, when I walk, and my tongue doesn't talk ♪
♪ And I can't even think because love is a wonderful thing ♪
So how do you feel?
I know. It's gonna be sad, emotional.
Yeah.
Today, we are going over to Ras's sister's house...
Yes.
...um, to say goodbye, since we're leaving tomorrow.
-Ready? -[Rasit] Well, let’s go.
[Mallorie] OK.
Traditions.
What's the salt coffee?
-I put salt in your coffee? -Yeah.
[all speaking Turkish]
How are you?
The first time I met his mom, she was so loving.
She was so excited to meet me.
Huh?
So weird.
[speaking Turkish]
-Yeah, yeah, about 20 hours. -[both] Yeah.
[Mallorie] Yeah, it's nice to see you, too.
-[indistinct] -Yeah, it's worth it. Well worth it, I promise.
[speaking Turkish]
[Turabi speaking]
-All the salt? -[Turabi] Please.
-The whole thing? -What?
-No. -No?
So you're saying it represents that our marriage,
there's gonna be good times and bad times. -Bad times, right.
Drinking that nasty coffee is showing that you'll be able
to handle the bad times. -Yes.
Got it.
Chug it, chug it, chug it, chug it, chug it, chug!
No, you chug it, chug it, chug, chug, chug,
chug, chug, chug, chug.
[Turabi speaking]
[Mallorie] I know.
...ksh, ksh, ksh, ksh... working, yeah?
[family member speaking Turkish]
Do what?
Oh.
[speaking Turkish]
[sad music playing]
[speaking Turkish]
♪ I just wanna be on your side ♪
♪ But you’re always, always making me sad ♪
You can shove that in a bag, that'd be helpful.
You don't have to fold it.
-Just shove it in. -[Josh speaking]
OK, fine. You pack so British.
[Josh giggles]
♪ You’re the one that makes me feel young ♪
♪ And you are the one for me ♪
Oh.
-Do you want some water? -Did I drink it all -- damn,
OK, yeah, I'm hungover, so.
Ah!
[Josh] So the day is here, and Catie and I are moving out
of the hotel, and we're going to see the new apartment.
I've no idea what to expect, but Catie is worse for wear.
She is very hungover.
And this is my welcome party, and she is in a state.
Yeah?
-Sorry, OK. -[Catie] Oh, ah, I punched the water.
[Josh] I'm not fully sure what to think about last night.
I had a good time chatting with people, but Catie also was just
like a bit, ah,
brazenly complimentary about some of the --
the guys she's hooked up with.
I think there are just some things that to me are just
so blindingly obvious about respect in a relationship.
And I -- I often assume Catie gets it, but I guess
sometimes she doesn't.
Was I too crazy last night? Like, I remember most of it.
I -- I just remember seeing you just go up to the bar
and just, like, one tequila, two tequila, three tequila.
[Catie] OK, but they were spread out.
Like, it -- like, the first one was, like, at the beginning,
and the second one was kind of at the beginning also.
Yeah, I've -- I've realized, as I grown older, I can't
really do shots, and I think you quite enjoy doing shots.
and I think... -I like them.
[Josh] ...I think they kinda catch up with you...
at the end of the night.
I mean, we got in the cab, and you were just, like,
out straight away.
I don't remember getting in the cab...
-[Josh] Yeah. -...and anything in the cab
or getting here.
Was like, did I annoy anyone by being too drunk
or, like, stumbling or?
Are you -- are you worried that you did annoy someone,
or are you just asking...
just in general?
-Sometimes, like, you ask 20 times... -Yeah.
...whether you've annoyed someone or, you know,
that sort of thing, and I think it's slightly, maybe,
OCD-type thing. What do you think? -[Catie] Oh.
No, it's definitely an OCD. I know that 100%.
This is one of my least favorite feelings, waking up
and not knowing what I've done while drunk.
Like, it really, like, scares me that I could have,
like, offended or hurt one of my friends or Josh,
even if there's, like, no proof that that even happened.
Like, my brain will just make up stuff that could have
happened, and then I need proof it didn't happen.
So it's definitely, like, a really rough feeling.
I realize you drink differently to me.
Like, it's something to think about, like, going towards
marriage, like, being on the same page, do you think?
Yeah.
I think that I wouldn't wanna have a kid and then,
you know, even just the first couple of days of being here,
like, if we carry on like this, I think...
you know, we -- we need to be stable before having a kid.
Like, that's kind of my kinda real bottom line for...
that kind of stuff. Is that fair?
Yeah, I guess I don't have that much to say on it
right now, 'cause it feels like it's in the future.
And I think that as I'm starting to think about
getting married, that I'm starting to think,
actually, this -- this does need to change.
Ugh, my head hurts.
I want to look at Catie and think...
of stability and feel...
secure and think that one day this could be someone that
I want to have children with.
And so I don't know what that means if -- if we can't get
on the same page in the next 90 days, whether --
whether we're actually as compatible as I thought we are.
Allison's kind of a bossy and a bully.
My daughter Allison, she's not gonna let Anabelle get
between her and her dad.
[children babbling]
-Hello, guys. -Oh!
You know, it's liable to get kind of rough.
[reverent chanting]
[Shea speaking]
♪ Oh, baby, if you’re ready to go ♪
♪ All you gotta do is let me know ♪
♪ Give me that mm signal ♪
-You mean, like, sexually since me and -- -Yeah.
Well, I mean, babe, it's like...
you know, me and you never, like, have phone sex
or nothing, so... -[Anabelle] Yeah.
I think Anabelle's shy to have phone sex.
And plus, you always have, you've got seven or eight
people in your house, so it's not like you can,
they're always awake, and...
Well, you wanna get our day started, baby?
-Mm-hmm, I'm excited. -Alright, baby.
[grunting, groaning]
[Shea] Always wanting to dress me, baby.
[Anabelle speaking]
[Shea] Anabelle always wants to put my shoes on, my socks on,
my underwear on. -[Anabelle speaking]
-Shut the door. -Yeah, shut the door, babe.
[Anabelle] Mm-hmm.
Sometimes you feel like my mommy.
-You good? -[Anabelle] Yeah, thank you.
[Shea] Oh, very nice here, baby.
-Baby, it's not that cold. It feels good. -Yes.
-We got shorts on. -[Anabelle] Yeah.
It's just different from what you're used to, but...
[Shea] Kentucky American girl.
Look at the deer right there, baby.
-There's three deer. -Where? Oh, wow. Yeah.
November.
You know, I'm get you a wok, and you can put, like,
some broccoli and cut those deer steaks up little cubes. -Oh, OK.
Huh?
Yeah, I know rice is life, baby.
But we have other options.
We have potatoes and bread and...
...onion rings, you know, we have a lot
of different options that take
the place of eating rice.
I mean, to me, that's kinda -- that's kinda bland
if I thought I'm gonna eat the same thing every meal.
Ew.
I wouldn't even be able to look at rice.
So Allison's at the house right now, and, you know,
I told you Allison's kind of bossy and a bully.
So...
You know how they got a...
One of my daughters, Allison, she lives beside me
with her children, and she's a total daddy's girl.
And she's also made it known that she's not gonna let
Anabelle get between her and her dad.
You know, it's gonna be tricky.
I'm a little bit, you know, a little nervous
about how to handle all of it.
You know, it's liable to get kind of rough.
This is the neighborhood, my house.
[Shea] See the red reflectors? That's my driveway there.
[Shea] Grab your purse.
I'll just come back and get the bags
in a little bit. -[Anabelle] OK.
And we can go on in and see the house, baby.
[Anabelle] OK.
Yeah, so that -- Allison's is over here, babe.
-[Anabelle] Mm-hmm. -[Shea] And then we got the gate that keeps the dogs in.
[Anabelle] Mm-hmm.
-[Shea] Storage out there, babe. -[Anabelle] OK.
-[Shea] That's how you open that gate. -[Anabelle] Oh, OK, wow!
Mm-hmm.
[Shea] Got your front porch.
You can go in.
-[children babbling] -Hello, guys!
Oh, get back, come on! Mommy-Bell's here!
Cruze, look who's here!
[overlapping greetings]
[Allison] Hi!
Stop! Calm down.
-It's so good to see you! -Hi!
Cruze!
-[Allison] River's so bad. -[Anabelle] River!
[Allison] River, I mean, Cruze!
-Go see Anabelle. -[Shea] Calm down.
-Come here! -[Allison] Can you give her hugs?
[Anabelle] Come here. Hi, hello.
Hello! Say hi.
-Say hi. -[Anabelle] Hi!
Cruz, you believe Mommy-Bell's here?
-[Allison] Yeah. -Huh?
[Allison] Yeah.
[Shea] Well, Anabelle, welcome to your new house!
I don't know, the kids kinda made a mess, but it wasn't like
this when I left for St. Louis, I promise you.
[indistinct]
What?
Oh, River! River!
[Shea] River!
-[both] River! -Stop!
-Hey! -[Allison] Cruze, chill!
[child screaming]
[Allison speaking]
♪ We're going out, it's a beautiful day ♪
[Thomas] Let's see. Paula's flight is on time.
She's halfway here. Only like three more hours.
Sweet.
Mm.
The only thing this table's missing is my fiancée
right here on the other side. That's the dream, baby.
♪ Oh, I wanna, I wanna ♪
♪ I wanna hold onto this electric feeling ♪
This is a little gluten-free cake I like to make for myself.
This has beef tallow in it,
so Paula probably won't be able to eat it.
She'll probably refuse to eat it.
Paula arrives today, and I can't believe it.
We first met seven years ago, and we've gone through such
a journey to get to this day.
I wanna show Paula how much I love her.
I'm putting together rice, beans, tofu, and then I'll
surprise her at the airport with a nice warm lunch,
'cause I know she didn't get
anything on the -- on the flight over here.
It's gonna be a big adjustment.
I mean, we love each other, but we are total opposites
in almost every way imaginable.
So now here's for the special ingredients.
It's a "pegar," which means "to grab," and then "esposa,"
which means "wife."
So it means literally, like, "Take -- take hold of your wife"
as in like the spice is meant to persuade your wife that
you're good at cooking. So anyways, hopefully it works.
Hopefully that magic
works for -- for Paula here.
I'm worried how this is gonna pan out.
I have no idea which direction this is gonna go for us,
but right now I'm just trying to focus on her
being here in America.
And I wanna make sure that this is...
a really memorable experience
for her when she first gets here.
Alright.
Chocolates.
My welcome flag for my Brazilian.
[optimistic music playing]
This is a -- a trip I'm so familiar with.
I've done this so many times.
One time when I dropped Paula off, one of the flight
attendants said something that hit me so hard.
She said, "Why are you letting her leave by herself?"
And today, finally, I'm picking her up with no drop off date.
We finally get to build our life and...
and be together forever.
♪ Are we strong enough ♪
♪ Can we make the cut ♪
♪ Can we cross the finish line ♪
♪ Make it out in time ♪
♪ Can we pass the bar ♪
♪ Can we make the grade ♪
[Thomas] She sent me like the little instructions they gave her.
And they said, "This is a one-way visa.
You either get married or you leave immediately."
So I am -- I am ready, I am.
It's shocking to hear them speak like that.
But yeah, this is it. It's -- it's now or never.
♪ We can do anything ♪
♪ We can be anyone ♪
Oh, my God!
[both speaking Portuguese]
[muffled cries]
[Thomas] Oh, my God.
[Paula] Oh, my God.
Oh, my God, who is emotional?
But I -- I don't think this is just manifestation.
I put in a lot of work for this day to happen.
Like...
You did my K-1...
I love you so much!
Are you hungry?
OK. Guess what's in here?
No, feijões. It's beans.
-And look, I made tofu and rice. -But where do you wanna eat this?
-Here? -We'll find a place.
No, so it'll stay warm. Smell that.
Mm.
-[Thomas] Mm? -[Paula speaking]
You wanna drink it?
Nailed it.
[Paula] Oh, they -- they are there.
Jeez. Oh, my god.
You weren't even kidding.
So what did you pack that's breaking the bag so bad?
Did you pack any tiny stuff in here?
-Yes. -[Thomas] Jeez.
I think you might have a problem.
Like, I don't -- where does it stop?
Like, how many tiny things do you need?
They are all tools to helping me, to help us, to be exactly
where we are right now.
This is an addiction that she's -- that's gotten out of control,
and she's trying to find a business justification
by saying, "This is the core of success for my business
and my aspirations in life."
I'm gonna be excited to see what the IRS says when
you start reporting your receipts
for tiny stuff and say, "It's a business expense."
"Well, Mr. Uncle Sam, I've been manifesting quite a bit with
"all these purchases I have of tiny stuff, so they're
tax deductible" -- please, please, please make that case.
I would love to see how your audit goes.
-OK? -[Paula] OK, let's go.
[Thomas] Alright, here we go.
[all speaking Turkish]
[speaking Turkish]
[quiet sobbing]
Yeah...
Yeah.
[speaking Turkish]
[muffled cries]
When I see Ras's mom,
Aliye, crying, and sobbing,
it -- it just tears me apart
because the reason why he's leaving everything
behind is for me.
And I definitely am feeling a lot of pressure now
when it comes to bringing him to America.
And I'm just hoping that we're not making a huge mistake.
♪ So hold tight ♪
[indistinct chatter]
♪ And don’t let me go ♪
[car honks]
♪ Lost to the night ♪
[tense music playing]
[Debby] As I'm waiting at the airport for Mido, I know that
his flight has landed because I can see on the board
and the luggage coming through, but I'm not even sure
if he even got on the plane.
At this point, I'm just hoping that he got caught up
in customs or immigration.
I'm not ready to give up hope just yet.
[optimistic music playing]
And I wanted to strangle him.
But it's OK, I'm here now.
I'm here.
Yeah, yeah.
Oh!
Welcome!
I'm here in US.
You want me to act something?
OK.
I'm going to make offer...
he can't refuse.
You talking to me?
I will be back.
[foreboding music playing]
And of course, I'm also here to marry my fiancée, Debby.
I thought you weren't on the plane.
I was literally in the bathroom throwing up
because I was so worried.
-No, I had mouthwash. -No.
No, I had mouthwash.
OK.
But yeah, it was not a fun surprise.
-It was not a fun surprise. -It's fun surprise.
No.
I did, but they didn't respond.
[Mido] Let's go, let's go.
[Marissa] All I know at this point is that his plane has arrived.
I'm nervous, like, in a -- like, the weirdest way.
I'm so nervous.
I don't know if I wanna give this single, independent woman
part of me up, but I wanna take this leap of faith for us.
♪ Your name on my arm ♪
♪ Now we’re in forever ♪
♪ It’s just what I wanted ♪
♪ To make it together ♪
I am taking the last few moments of my life in peace
and quiet before the chaos starts.
I woke up in the middle of the night.
It's like two o'clock in the morning, and I just,
like, said, "Oh, my God, this is, like, the last night
I'm gonna be sleeping in my big, beautiful bed alone."
And I kinda had a mini panic attack in the middle
of the night.
♪ And they said that they don't wanna see it ♪
♪ Don’t wanna see us going up and town ♪
♪ Put your hands around my waist again ♪
♪ And everybody's looking ♪
So I'm going to...
make a little present for Edward because I wanted to make
sure that Edward feels welcomed
when he comes to the United States.
And, you know, I'm not the type that's gonna show up
to the airport with balloons, a big, like,
"Welcome to the US" sign or, like, stuffed animals and stuff.
So I thought a nice gesture would be to, like, get
a house key and wrap it in a little so he has like,
you know, something to open, something to be excited about.
And then it's like, "Surprise,
you have a key to a new home."
Well, the key doesn't actually work because everything
in my entry system is digital, but it's the meaning
behind the key.
It's not necessarily that it has to work.
It's just like, "Now you're a part of this house."
I never get nervous to see Edward.
Like this is a strange feeling for me.
This day, has been a long time coming.
We started the process over a year ago, and I cannot
believe that we are about to embark
on our 90 days together.
♪ Oh ♪
We always had this, like, dream of, like, living together
and having this beautiful future together,
but I don't know if I wanna give this, you know, single,
independent woman part of me up.
And so, like, it's been a struggle back
and forth with my feelings, but I love Edward so much that
I wanna take this leap of faith for us.
All I know at this point is that his plane has arrived.
I'm really just, like, in a waiting game right now,
like, waiting for him to, like, show up in those doors.
I don't know, like, I don't even, like, believe that
he's gonna walk through the doors.
I don't -- I don't really think that this is happening.
And I'm also, like...
nervous, like, in the, like, the weirdest way.
I'm so nervous.
♪ Trust me ♪
♪ No matter how far we've fallen, we'll be ♪
♪ Trust me ♪
♪ No matter how far we've fallen ♪
-Mm! Oh! -♪ We'll be ♪
[Edward] Mmm.
[Edward] No.
[Marissa speaking]
[Edward speaking]
Oh!
[Marissa] I'm excited to show him New York a lot because,
like, that's such an iconic city.
[Edward speaking]
Brand new.
And the lady next to me, she said, "You pee a lot,"
and I was like, "Yes!" I was not, I was just,
I check everything, see if everything is OK, like,
yeah, everything is fine.
Oh, I have to give you something.
Oh, no.
Well, it had a ribbon on it, but it fell off.
Oh, thank you. That's for me?
But this is your "Welcome to America" gift.
Oh, really? I need to open it now?
-[Marissa] Yes. -[Edward] Oh, thanks.
It's the key
to your new home. -Oh, thank you.
Aw, that's so -- that's so sweet.
-Is it possible like this? -[Marissa] No, I just put it on.
For the past two years,
we've really been through a lot.
Sometimes I think maybe going through the K-1 visa process is,
like, intentional, just to see if your relationship can endure
the hardest moments.
Like, so we appreciate now being together in this moment,
just because, like... -A lot.
...it's been a long time waiting.
And to have Edward here now just feels like probably one
of the best days in our relationship so far.
[Edward speaking]
-[Shea] Oh, yeah, the dogs are happy. -[Allison] Oh, yeah.
-[indistinct] -Fargo, get down.
Look, go over and see Anabelle.
-Fargo, Fargo. -[Allison] Welcome to Dog Hair Land.
♪ Bad days ♪
♪ Underneath my skin ♪
Come on, babe. Let's look at the house.
-OK. -Here's the kitchen.
And it's got toys all over it, too.
[Anabelle] Mm-hmm, uh-huh.
Look how big the fridge is here, compared...
...compared to yours.
Dining room, baby.
[Anabelle speaking]
-That's the oven, baby, you've never used an oven... -[Anabelle] Mm-hmm.
But that's where you'll bake and...
-[Anabelle] Oh! -You've never used an oven before?
[Allison] What the heck?
They just -- they just use cooktops with gas,
so she never used an electric top either.
So I'll have to show you.
[Anabelle speaking]
You should see all the clothes Dad got you
in the closet in his room. -Oh, yeah.
It's in the bedroom. We'll go look.
[Anabelle] Alright.
[Shea] Come here. And this is laundry.
I'll show you in a minute. And here's our bedroom.
Uh-huh. Wow.
Kinda big, like the one we stayed in last night,
right, babe? -[Anabelle] Yeah.
[Shea] See the deer?
-[Anabelle] Mm-hmm. -[Allison] Yeah.
Yeah, all four corners.
[Anabelle] Oh, my God.
Ah!
That's Kentucky, babe, have you ever heard of a redneck?
-Nope. -Well.
-I used to be a redneck. -Still were you.
Mm-hmm.
We'll put a towel over their head.
How about that?
There's your speaker, babe.
-[Allison] Mm-hmm. -Uh-huh?
[Shea] Nike shorts.
-Here's your Bulova watch. -[Anabelle] Oh, yeah.
Thank you.
[Shea] And then here's your diamond earrings.
Look at those, babe.
-[Shea] They are diamond earrings, babe. -[Anabelle] Yeah?
-[Shea] Here's your chain you wanted, let's see how it fits. -[Anabelle] Hmm.
-[Shea] Oh, yeah, it looks really good, babe. -[Anabelle] Thank you.
-Thank you. -I like that a lot, looks pretty.
I'm a little shocked that my Dad got Anabelle so many
gifts, honestly, all the jewelry and stuff.
He does not give me stuff like that,
so I was a little caught off guard by that.
You don't ever buy me anything like that?
-Oh, you get plenty. -I don't get no jewelry.
I told my Dad before she got here, if I feel like
I'm in competition, then I'm sticking with the...
"They don't need to get married, and she needs to go back."
Yeah.
Alright, well, kids are getting cranky,
so we're probably gonna head on home.
Can we get a couple of dollars?
-[Shea] Here you go. -Thank you, say "Thanks."
Y'all can get you a biscuit in the morning before church.
[Allison] Alright, well, we'll see you later.
OK, bye, guys. Pshew.
God.
Well, because she probably didn't have any cash.
And the kids, Sunday morning, they're probably just gonna
go get biscuits and stuff.
She lives over right by me.
No, she doesn't pay any rent.
I mean, I just...
single mom, I mean, she's separated,
and I just never have made her pay rent.
Well, I understand that, but it's also my daughter.
[speaking Tagalog]
It’s just a few dollars just to get some biscuits
for the kids, I mean, just don't let it bother you. -Oh.
[Rasit speaking]
People think Americans are so rich.
I don't make that much money.
[upbeat music playing]
[Mallorie speaking]
That's it, he's driving like an asshole.
Yeah.
-[speaking Turkish] -President.
-Yeah, mm-hmm. -The president.
-Donald Trump? -Eh?
-Donald. -Ah!
[Mallorie] Yeah, the dance, the Trump dance.
Yeah.
Just knock on the White House door and say, "Hello, give me
my work visa."
-Yeah, well. -[Mallorie] No, you can't do that.
-[Rasit] Really? -Yeah.
How are you feeling?
[Mallorie speaking]
I mean...
you have to leave this...
beautiful place. -Yeah.
[Mallorie] To live in Alabama,
you know? -[Rasit speaking]
Nothing but...fields.
Yeah, I know, babe.
So after saying goodbye to his family, our family,
last night, we are now on our way to head to the airport
and start our one of many... -[Rasit] Yeah.
...airplane rides to America.
Ready?
I know.
For a little bit. Yeah.
No, [indistinct].
[speaking Turkish]
Yeah.
No, but you have to ask me.
We have to talk about it because, you know,
I have my mortgage. -Yeah.
I have, you know, my car payment right now.
I have, you know, the bills. You can't just say yes.
Why are you just now telling me
that we're gonna have to send money back?
Yeah, exactly.
Sometimes people think, like, "Oh, Americans are so rich."
That's not how that works.
I don't make that much money.
-Yeah, I know that. -[Rasit] A tent.
Of course I want to help your parents.
It's not about that.
I don't think you understand how much things cost
in America. You haven't lived with me. -Yeah, baby, but...
You don't see what comes in and goes out.
I mean, as soon as I get paid, boom, my money is gone.
You say this, but I feel like [bleep], [bleep].
Well, I'm sorry you feel that way.
You made me this.
[tense music playing]
[Marissa] Next time on "90 Day Fiancé."
[Thomas] Oh, God.
[Paula speaking]
I cleaned it up.
I'll clean out these bags, but you just gotta put
your clothes in here. -[Paula speaking]
You wanna treat me as a guest here?
Are you really wanna marry me?
I think it's gonna take, like, a couple months
for you to...
Oh. Oh my...
[Mallorie] I think that's her pulling up.
[car honks]
Oh my God. "Back to back world war champs."
[Rasit speaking]
[Mallorie] Yeah.
[Rasit] Oh my God.
-[phone chimes] -[Rasit speaking]
[Mallorie] It's Brandon.
-[Mallorie] Yeah. -Really?
What?
-[Mallorie] What up? -About time.
[Ashia] Yes, Lord.
[Patricia] In the mighty name of Jesus...
[both speaking foreign language]
With the power of God right now.
My friend Patricia, she's a prophetess.
-In Jesus' name. -[indistinct crying]
She's been given prophetic words, and not once
have it not came to pass.
It's necessary, it's vital that I go to Nigeria.
God is gonna turn this thing around for the good.
Do you just not wanna, like, talk anymore?
I will not continuously sit back and get walked all over.
-Neither am I. -[Mido speaking]
[Debby] Pisses me off.
Everybody knows Shea and now that you're
in the picture, I thought that you might be like
a mail-order bride.
Well, I mean, not about you personally, but it has
come up. -[Anabelle speaking Tagalog]
[tense music playing]
Jeez.