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The 2016 election awakened
a sleeping giant.
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Across America,
women mobilized to protest,
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protect each other,
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and elect more
female members of Congress.
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Bow was one of the women
out there on the front lines...
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marching, phone banking,
knocking on doors,
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and she had her new activist
ride or die, Abby, by her side.
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They were changing the world
one issue at a time.
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Ah!
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- Yo, yo, yo, yo!
- Hello, hello.
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You are never gonna believe
what Abby and I did!
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- What?
- Sherman Oaks Women Making A Difference
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met with Congressman Lopez
about repealing the pink tax.
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And we were so convincing
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that he is on board with our bill.
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It was actually all because of you.
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- Stop.
- Yes!
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No, you're the one that brought it home.
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- Okay, well, we're both amazing.
- We're both amazing.
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I don't even know what a pink tax is,
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but you guys seem happy, so I'm happy.
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When they stop taxing
menstrual products,
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it will be feminism: 1,
and patriarchy: 0.
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Oh, so you scored feminism's
first point?
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Good job.
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Well, it wasn't... you know
what I... it wasn't the first...
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- Babe.
- Yes?
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- That was great.
- Thank you.
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Dre, don't encourage her.
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- What?
- The two of them feed off praise
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like hyenas off a carcass.
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Don't mind her. She's old.
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Mm-hmm. Bye.
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- Bye, sweetheart. That was so fun.
- Incredible!
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- We did so good.
- So fun.
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- See you guys.
- You did good!
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Rainbow, you need to tell
these children the truth.
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Feminism is for white women,
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like your friend
who don't want to wear a bra.
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Um, feminism is for everybody.
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And that is why I raised strong,
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opinionated, feminist children.
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Mm, speak for yourself. I'm good.
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- What?
- Come on, Rainbow.
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You know I'm not a feminist.
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N...
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Huh?
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What do you mean you're not a feminist?
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I don't know.
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The word just doesn't work for me.
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I've known I'm better than boys
since the day I was born.
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- Yeah, she has. Yeah.
- Mm-hmm.
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And it seems like a lot
of people protesting
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and going to these marches are
just doing it for the 'Gram.
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- Hashtag activism is really a problem.
- Yeah.
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- Mom.
- Me... For me?
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I am not doing this for the 'Gram.
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And Abby and I are doing all
of this for the right reasons.
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What's the right reason
to stop shaving your armpits?
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Okay, listen.
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Sweetheart, after the election,
I felt really helpless.
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And then I met Abby
and found that women's group,
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and all of them,
they felt the same way I did.
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And then I was able to turn
my feelings into action.
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Your feminism is cute, Rainbow, but see,
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I want to live in a world
where a man orders for me.
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It's how I discovered
shrimp scampi. Hey.
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- Grandma, you're not getting it.
- Careful.
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Don't jump into a conversation
about feminism
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unless you're sure you can hang.
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♪ Equal Rights Amendment
was a good idea ♪
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♪ But we're still waiting
to pass it here ♪
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Whoo!
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- So, you're an expert?
- Yep!
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For men, feminism is simple
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if you remember these three things.
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Women are the same as men,
never look at their cleavage,
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and never ask her if she's pregnant.
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Ohh, Dad, I love you, but that
is antiquated as...
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What?
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If I was at my place, I could say it.
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She has a point, Dre.
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♪ My anaconda-conda don't want
none unless you got buns, hon ♪
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♪ I like big butts ♪
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Ow!
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You are all crazy.
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I understand women issues.
I have daughters.
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And no man with daughters
has ever mistreated a woman.
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Yeah, that's enough, Dad.
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Just admit it... you're a dinosaur.
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I am not a dinosaur. Mama, back me up.
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He is not a dinosaur.
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- Bam.
- Look at Rainbow.
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He lets her have her own bank account,
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he lets her work,
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he lets her talk reckless to his mother.
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Diane, don't let her paint
a picture of feminism
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that does not exist.
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And I have an idea.
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I was thinking that maybe the two of you
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should come with me
to my next women's meeting.
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Oh... I would.
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I actually just have plans
doing anything else.
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- Oh.
- But I promise that whatever I do,
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I will embody my feminist values.
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Huh, okay, that's something.
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Diane, you're coming with me.
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You can't tell me what to do.
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I am gonna tell you
what I have been telling you
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since you were two years old...
"Yes, I can."
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And they're gonna have doughnuts.
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Fine, I'll go.
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- But only for the doughnuts.
- Yeah!
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That's my girl.
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- Huh?
- Suit yourself, Rainbow.
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But Susan B. Anthony would've changed
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a lot more minds
if she'd shown a little skin.
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Mm.
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A dinosaur?
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Can you believe this?
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Of course I can.
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I mean, obviously,
the dinosaurs are extinct
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and not living on some secret
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government island near Galveston.
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No, man, my... my kids think
I'm a dinosaur
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because I don't know
much about feminism.
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That's crazy, Dre.
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You're the biggest feminist in here.
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You've got daughters, for God's sakes.
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That's what I said, man!
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I don't need to change.
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You do not.
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Thank you.
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Oh, oh, oh, oh... Maybe your cologne.
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I found a bottle in your office
and I used it,
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and now everyone thinks that I
wear it better than you do.
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My family is nuts. Okay?
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I have a female dentist,
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I definitely read a book
written by a woman,
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and Janet is my favorite Jackson.
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Every lady in this office should
be patting you on the back.
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I don't think we can call them
ladies anymore.
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I-I believe the kids are saying
"Woman-Americans."
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See, this is exactly
what I'm talking about.
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Why does this generation always
have to complicate things?
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They're bending over backwards
to change a system that works.
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- Let me ask you something, Dre.
- Mm-hmm.
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Would you ever let a woman
pay for you on a date?
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- No!
- Would you ever let a woman
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drive you around
while your legs are working?
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- No.
- Would you ever go see a movie
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with a female James Bond?
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- Hell no!
- Hell no.
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Oh, God, I may have a problem.
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Okay.
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I think I'm gonna need your help.
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Mm. You were right to come to us.
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Mm-hmm.
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The first step is admitting
that you're a disgusting,
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hairy, misogynist beast.
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I'm gonna need you to say it.
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I was headed for a crash course
in feminism, and so was Diane.
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Hey, guys, welcome!
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Uh, I brought my daughter today.
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Her name is Diane.
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The next generation of activists
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is going to be the fiercest one yet.
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- And...
- I was promised doughnuts.
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They are right over there.
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Having Diane here is a good reminder
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of what we're all fighting for.
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- Mm-hmm.
- Equality for all women.
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We know that we can create change,
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and we are not gonna
back down or give up.
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Mm.
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Not while we're all living
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through the worst thing
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to ever happen to women in this country.
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Hey. Whoa, whoa!
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I mean, these are really
bad times for women...
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but it's not the worst thing
to ever happen in our history.
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- What is she talking about?
- I'm confused.
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- I don't know.
- Slavery.
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Because black women were slaves.
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- Ohh.
- Right.
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So, this is your squad?
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Hey, welcome home!
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How was the Future Cat Ladies
of America convention?
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So she's just here all the time?
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Yeah, and she has an apartment
six miles away.
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- Oh.
- Grandma.
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- Huh?
- You were right.
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Those women don't care about us.
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And the snacks were trash, too.
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You're gonna bring six doughnuts
to a group function?
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Sounds about right.
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Okay, let's not blow this out
of proportion, all right?
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It was... an ill-informed comment.
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Give it up, Mom.
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Obviously, feminism is canceled.
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No! Okay, feminism is not canceled.
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Some people have blind spots.
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- Mm-hmm.
- But our group is doing really good work.
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We flipped a Congressional district.
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- Yes, we did.
- Oh, really?
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- Yeah.
- Yeah.
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Wow! Why didn't you say so?
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- Still canceled.
- What?
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No. Diane, we need your voice.
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I looked around tonight and I was like,
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"When did it get so White in here?"
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- Mm.
- We need more diversity.
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We got to...
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We have to shake things up.
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- That's right. We need to shake it up.
- Mm-hmm.
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- Yes!
- And you know what?
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I am gonna bring
some of my other friends
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to our next meeting.
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- Can I tell you something?
- Mm.
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- I love it.
- See? Bow and Abby are doing things.
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- Oh, my God.
- We do things together.
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All right, all right.
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Well, how about your change your
doughnut game, then we'll talk.
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Diane, you come with me, baby.
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Grandma is gonna teach you
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the subtle art of getting men
to buy you things.
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We're gonna start with tacos
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and then we're gonna work
our way up to diamonds.
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So, do you have any girlfriends in mind?
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Yes.
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Yes, I do.
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Hmm.
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Oh! Mm!
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Look at you!
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Oh, my God!
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Oh! Oh, it's been too long!
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If you guys are trying to change
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my attitude towards women,
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why are you bringing me to a restaurant?
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Shouldn't you be taking me
to, like, Lululemon,
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or Black Girls Rock?
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We have so much work to do.
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It's 2019, and when it comes to women,
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you're still stuck in the '90s.
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It's not just women.
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"Humpin' Around" should not
be your ringtone anymore.
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So, we brought you here
to observe your behavior
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in the wild and correct as needed.
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Wait a minute, I thought y'all
brought me here for my birthday.
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We ready? Okay, let's go.
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Hey, hey, hey. Ladies first.
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What the heck was that?
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I was being a gentleman.
255
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Chivalry is a tool of the patriarchy.
256
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Women don't need
to be protected at every turn.
257
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Yeah, they can do things on their own.
258
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I was being polite.
259
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Okay.
260
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Okay. Note taken.
261
00:10:26,484 --> 00:10:29,193
I'm starting to lose hope
that this ends with a cake.
262
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Oh, my goodness!
263
00:10:33,104 --> 00:10:35,103
I'm so glad you all could make it.
264
00:10:35,104 --> 00:10:37,103
Hey, when my college roommate
calls, I answer.
265
00:10:37,104 --> 00:10:38,523
Yes, we're there through thick and thin.
266
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Girl, give me more.
267
00:10:39,604 --> 00:10:40,853
- Okay!
- Give me more.
268
00:10:40,854 --> 00:10:42,893
I mean, I didn't answer because,
269
00:10:42,894 --> 00:10:45,273
uh, you know, all the minutes on
my burner phone have run out,
270
00:10:45,274 --> 00:10:46,817
so thanks for DM'ing me.
271
00:10:46,842 --> 00:10:49,483
Oh, that is so cool! That's so cool!
272
00:10:49,484 --> 00:10:50,643
Okay, you're doing that Bow thing.
273
00:10:50,644 --> 00:10:52,143
- What?
- Where you compliment us
274
00:10:52,144 --> 00:10:53,693
before you ask us for something.
What do you need?
275
00:10:53,694 --> 00:10:57,273
Yeah, okay, I need your...
I need your help,
276
00:10:57,274 --> 00:11:00,063
uh, with a group of
well-intentioned White women.
277
00:11:00,064 --> 00:11:02,023
- Oh. So basically what you're saying
- Mm-hmm.
278
00:11:02,024 --> 00:11:03,233
is you need Black-up.
279
00:11:03,234 --> 00:11:04,773
I need it desperately.
280
00:11:07,434 --> 00:11:10,393
We are so lucky to have
Rainbow's friends here today
281
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as we get ready for the
Equal Pay March this weekend.
282
00:11:12,604 --> 00:11:14,603
Remember, we're all stronger together.
283
00:11:14,604 --> 00:11:16,483
Yes, we are!
284
00:11:16,484 --> 00:11:19,103
You guys, these signs look really cute.
285
00:11:19,104 --> 00:11:20,603
Oh, I like this one.
286
00:11:20,604 --> 00:11:22,693
"Equal Pay... Because I'm Worth It."
287
00:11:22,694 --> 00:11:25,983
"Unequal Pay Is Not Okay." Yeah.
288
00:11:25,984 --> 00:11:28,643
"77 Cents On The Dollar
Is Not Good Enough."
289
00:11:28,644 --> 00:11:32,023
Damn right, and 77 cents
is just what White women make.
290
00:11:32,024 --> 00:11:34,393
For Black women,
I believe it's... it's 63 cents?
291
00:11:34,394 --> 00:11:36,733
- Mm.
- And Latinx women make even less.
292
00:11:36,734 --> 00:11:38,563
Tina makes a really good point.
293
00:11:38,564 --> 00:11:40,193
I think the sign should say that.
294
00:11:40,194 --> 00:11:43,103
I thought we should just focus
on the overall numbers...
295
00:11:43,104 --> 00:11:45,893
No. No, they're... they're right.
296
00:11:45,894 --> 00:11:48,644
Uh, Sue, why don't you get
started on a new sign?
297
00:11:48,669 --> 00:11:51,253
- Go, Sue.
- Okay. I'm doing it.
298
00:11:51,278 --> 00:11:52,824
I'm breaking out my puffy paint.
299
00:11:54,604 --> 00:11:56,563
Hey, guys. Can I get you anything else?
300
00:11:56,564 --> 00:11:58,103
Yes.
301
00:11:58,104 --> 00:12:00,023
Could we have some more
ice teas and a smile?
302
00:12:00,024 --> 00:12:01,734
I mean, your day
can't be going that bad.
303
00:12:04,814 --> 00:12:08,063
Hate to see you leave, but love
to watch you go, go, go.
304
00:12:08,064 --> 00:12:09,813
Oh, man.
305
00:12:09,814 --> 00:12:11,103
I cannot believe what I just saw.
306
00:12:11,104 --> 00:12:13,523
Yeah. Pops, way to be a creep.
307
00:12:13,524 --> 00:12:15,603
- Unh-unh.
- Not him. You.
308
00:12:15,604 --> 00:12:17,193
You can't just tell a woman to smile.
309
00:12:17,194 --> 00:12:19,023
I was being nice.
310
00:12:19,024 --> 00:12:20,733
It looked as if she
was having a bad day,
311
00:12:20,734 --> 00:12:22,273
so I was just trying to cheer her up.
312
00:12:22,274 --> 00:12:24,143
By telling her what to do with her face?
313
00:12:24,144 --> 00:12:26,273
When's the last time
you told a man to smile?
314
00:12:26,274 --> 00:12:28,273
Pops was so much worse!
315
00:12:28,274 --> 00:12:30,483
He's too old to be learning new tricks.
316
00:12:30,484 --> 00:12:32,394
He'll be dead soon! No offense.
317
00:12:32,419 --> 00:12:34,273
None taken.
I'm just here for the free meal.
318
00:12:34,274 --> 00:12:37,839
And maybe a personal sized
cobbler with a sparkler in it.
319
00:12:37,864 --> 00:12:39,103
- Ah.
- Hmm? Hmm?
320
00:12:39,104 --> 00:12:41,603
Oh, here she comes. Apologize.
321
00:12:41,604 --> 00:12:42,524
I don't have anything to apologize for.
322
00:12:42,525 --> 00:12:44,813
Will that be all?
323
00:12:44,814 --> 00:12:47,233
You know, can I ask you a question?
324
00:12:47,234 --> 00:12:50,143
Did I make you feel uncomfortable
325
00:12:50,144 --> 00:12:51,643
when I told you to smile?
326
00:12:51,644 --> 00:12:54,233
If at any time during this conversation
327
00:12:54,234 --> 00:12:57,933
you feel uncomfortable, just use
the safe word "calamari."
328
00:12:57,934 --> 00:12:59,433
Also, we'd like to order
some more calamari.
329
00:12:59,434 --> 00:13:01,063
Oh, yeah, this is bomb.
330
00:13:01,064 --> 00:13:03,353
Honestly, it was annoying.
331
00:13:03,354 --> 00:13:05,854
I hear, "You should smile"
from creepy dudes every day.
332
00:13:07,894 --> 00:13:10,733
That's not how I meant it, okay?
I'm not creepy.
333
00:13:10,734 --> 00:13:11,933
All right, the... the... the...
the... the... the...
334
00:13:11,934 --> 00:13:13,643
the rules just keep changing around me.
335
00:13:13,644 --> 00:13:14,813
You know, I can't be a gentleman,
336
00:13:14,814 --> 00:13:16,273
I can't try to cheer you up.
337
00:13:16,274 --> 00:13:17,563
Next you're probably gonna tell me
338
00:13:17,564 --> 00:13:19,433
I can't call you "little mama"
or "baby girl."
339
00:13:19,434 --> 00:13:22,933
Chad, we have a code blue.
340
00:13:22,934 --> 00:13:25,643
It's my break. Chad's got you.
341
00:13:25,644 --> 00:13:27,063
Okay, that's it.
342
00:13:27,064 --> 00:13:28,563
I give up.
343
00:13:28,564 --> 00:13:30,427
I'm never gonna get this.
344
00:13:30,452 --> 00:13:32,427
It's too late for me.
345
00:13:39,452 --> 00:13:40,691
Get out of here!
346
00:13:40,692 --> 00:13:42,241
Save yourselves!
347
00:13:42,242 --> 00:13:43,741
It's too late for me!
348
00:13:43,742 --> 00:13:45,192
Cool.
349
00:13:49,362 --> 00:13:50,902
Aoogah!
350
00:13:53,032 --> 00:13:55,901
So, calamari for the table?
351
00:13:55,902 --> 00:13:56,862
You gonna tell him to smile?
352
00:14:00,112 --> 00:14:02,951
Hey, did you guys hear
that Catherine Jameson
353
00:14:02,952 --> 00:14:04,901
might run for that open
Congressional seat in the Valley?
354
00:14:04,902 --> 00:14:06,071
I didn't hear that. That's cool.
355
00:14:06,072 --> 00:14:07,951
Yes! I think it could be
so great for women.
356
00:14:07,952 --> 00:14:09,861
I feel our next project coming on.
357
00:14:09,862 --> 00:14:12,361
Wait, she's the former sheriff, right?
358
00:14:12,362 --> 00:14:15,531
Yeah. Yeah, I remember reading
that her department
359
00:14:15,532 --> 00:14:18,151
had problems
with excessive use of force.
360
00:14:18,152 --> 00:14:20,281
Well, still, having a woman in
that seat would be great for...
361
00:14:20,282 --> 00:14:22,281
I know, but, Abby,
don't you think we should dig
362
00:14:22,282 --> 00:14:24,401
into some of the stuff
that Tina just said?
363
00:14:24,402 --> 00:14:26,571
Oh, yeah. No, of course, of course.
364
00:14:26,572 --> 00:14:29,951
I mean, I'm sure there's got
to be a great Black woman
365
00:14:29,952 --> 00:14:30,991
that could run for that seat, right?
366
00:14:30,992 --> 00:14:31,992
- It's such a good idea.
- Oh, yeah.
367
00:14:31,993 --> 00:14:34,691
- Uh-huh.
- I mean, I know a few.
368
00:14:34,692 --> 00:14:37,451
What a great dialogue. Yeah.
369
00:14:37,452 --> 00:14:38,901
Hey, Bow, can I talk to you
for one second?
370
00:14:38,902 --> 00:14:40,071
- Yes, of course.
- Okay.
371
00:14:40,072 --> 00:14:41,374
Wait.
372
00:14:41,992 --> 00:14:43,451
Isn't this great?
373
00:14:43,452 --> 00:14:44,821
Oh, my God, they're so amazing.
374
00:14:44,822 --> 00:14:46,225
Yeah, oh, my God, they are amazing.
375
00:14:46,250 --> 00:14:47,281
- Mm-hmm.
- It's fun.
376
00:14:47,282 --> 00:14:49,491
I just... Um, I feel like
we keep getting off track.
377
00:14:49,492 --> 00:14:50,901
- Really?
- Yeah.
378
00:14:50,902 --> 00:14:52,781
The conversation keeps
drifting toward race,
379
00:14:52,782 --> 00:14:55,491
and this group's more focused
on women's issues.
380
00:14:55,492 --> 00:14:57,151
I thought you said you wanted
more diversity.
381
00:14:57,152 --> 00:14:59,111
- Is that a problem now?
- No, I just, you know...
382
00:14:59,112 --> 00:15:00,013
I didn't think that you were gonna
383
00:15:00,038 --> 00:15:01,071
come in and take over the whole group.
384
00:15:05,152 --> 00:15:06,781
What do you mean by "take over"?
385
00:15:06,782 --> 00:15:09,861
I'm just saying, like,
this group does what we do
386
00:15:09,862 --> 00:15:14,191
for not just a specific group
of women, but for all women.
387
00:15:14,192 --> 00:15:15,611
Oh.
388
00:15:15,612 --> 00:15:17,491
Okay, Abby, when you say "all women,"
389
00:15:17,492 --> 00:15:18,741
you mean, "White women."
390
00:15:18,742 --> 00:15:20,401
- No, no, no.
- Yeah.
391
00:15:20,402 --> 00:15:21,322
Yeah, that's what you mean.
That's what that means.
392
00:15:21,323 --> 00:15:23,611
Bow, you're talking to me
like I'm the bad guy.
393
00:15:23,612 --> 00:15:28,111
- I'm your friend. I just...
- Okay, you're asking me to choose
394
00:15:28,112 --> 00:15:29,741
between being a woman and being Black.
395
00:15:29,742 --> 00:15:31,151
I don't have that privilege.
396
00:15:31,152 --> 00:15:33,741
No, I just... I feel like
397
00:15:33,742 --> 00:15:35,361
you're distracting
from the bigger issue.
398
00:15:35,362 --> 00:15:37,072
This is the issue.
399
00:15:41,282 --> 00:15:43,651
I...
400
00:15:43,652 --> 00:15:45,571
Okay, you know what? I'm gonna go.
401
00:15:45,572 --> 00:15:47,821
Diane, sweetie, let's go.
I think we should go.
402
00:15:47,822 --> 00:15:49,451
- Oh, wait.
- All right, I'm gonna...
403
00:15:49,452 --> 00:15:50,991
My coat is by the door.
404
00:15:50,992 --> 00:15:52,732
I'm gonna go.
405
00:15:54,048 --> 00:15:56,269
But, uh, good job on
the doughnuts, though.
406
00:15:56,294 --> 00:15:57,742
Like...
407
00:16:00,952 --> 00:16:02,951
Ugh. Ruby.
408
00:16:02,952 --> 00:16:04,781
Yes?
409
00:16:04,782 --> 00:16:09,741
I hate to admit it, but I think
you might have been right.
410
00:16:09,742 --> 00:16:11,991
About how Skinny Luther Vandross
411
00:16:11,992 --> 00:16:14,949
and Fat Luther Vandross
are two different people?
412
00:16:14,974 --> 00:16:17,457
No, about Abby.
413
00:16:17,482 --> 00:16:18,741
Oh, Lord.
414
00:16:18,742 --> 00:16:21,031
It's just that we were both
so passionate
415
00:16:21,032 --> 00:16:23,071
about the same issues that it covered up
416
00:16:23,072 --> 00:16:25,821
the fact that that group
had a big old blind spot.
417
00:16:25,822 --> 00:16:27,741
Well, don't beat yourself up about it.
418
00:16:27,742 --> 00:16:29,031
I mean, we've all been there.
419
00:16:29,032 --> 00:16:29,862
At least she didn't try to tell you
420
00:16:29,863 --> 00:16:32,071
that Irish people were slaves, too.
421
00:16:32,072 --> 00:16:33,401
Ugh.
422
00:16:33,402 --> 00:16:35,111
I really miss Tammy.
423
00:16:35,112 --> 00:16:36,951
Mm, she had the best seven-layer dip.
424
00:16:36,952 --> 00:16:39,821
You know, Rainbow, you are
looking at this the wrong way.
425
00:16:39,822 --> 00:16:42,951
Now, you're upset,
you don't know who to trust.
426
00:16:42,952 --> 00:16:46,611
But on the bright side... hey!...
427
00:16:46,612 --> 00:16:48,611
You're not a feminist anymore.
428
00:16:48,612 --> 00:16:50,451
Ugh, mm.
429
00:16:50,452 --> 00:16:52,951
- Okay.
- Wow.
430
00:16:52,952 --> 00:16:54,951
I'm glad that is not my mama.
431
00:16:54,952 --> 00:16:57,991
Yeah, and she's wrong
because I am still a feminist.
432
00:16:57,992 --> 00:16:59,901
- Yes.
- It took me a long time to claim that word.
433
00:16:59,902 --> 00:17:01,571
- I'm not just gonna give it up.
- Damn straight.
434
00:17:01,572 --> 00:17:04,451
I thought that group was
different, and I'm bummed.
435
00:17:04,452 --> 00:17:06,611
Aww, I know this is hard, Bow.
436
00:17:06,612 --> 00:17:08,991
But you're one
of the strongest women I know.
437
00:17:08,992 --> 00:17:10,191
Yeah.
438
00:17:10,192 --> 00:17:12,691
Girl, my divorce was hard, too.
439
00:17:12,692 --> 00:17:14,571
I don't know how I survived that.
440
00:17:14,572 --> 00:17:16,401
Mm-hmm.
441
00:17:16,402 --> 00:17:17,946
Oh, we... we just gonna sit up in here
442
00:17:17,971 --> 00:17:19,951
and talk about how hard Bow has it?
443
00:17:19,952 --> 00:17:22,861
You are no stranger to hard situations.
444
00:17:22,862 --> 00:17:26,953
- Mnh-mnh.
- So, what you gonna do about this one?
445
00:17:31,242 --> 00:17:34,792
I turned my back for a second
and the world passes me by.
446
00:17:34,817 --> 00:17:36,656
How am I supposed to catch up?
447
00:17:36,681 --> 00:17:38,680
It's nice to be out of touch.
448
00:17:38,705 --> 00:17:40,624
In about 10 years,
you'll be able to really
449
00:17:40,625 --> 00:17:42,414
slide into sweet ignorance.
450
00:17:42,415 --> 00:17:46,664
You know, you guys aren't the
only ones with this problem.
451
00:17:46,665 --> 00:17:49,324
What? Come on, man.
You know all this stuff.
452
00:17:49,325 --> 00:17:50,914
You're Generation Woke.
453
00:17:50,915 --> 00:17:53,534
Yeah, but, you know, it's still
easy to get tripped up.
454
00:17:53,535 --> 00:17:57,624
I posted something on Twitter
in support of LGBTQ people,
455
00:17:57,625 --> 00:18:01,034
but I forgot IA,
and now I am getting dragged.
456
00:18:01,035 --> 00:18:02,074
What's IA?
457
00:18:02,075 --> 00:18:04,744
Uh, you're not ready to know yet.
458
00:18:04,745 --> 00:18:07,744
This is exactly what I'm talking about.
459
00:18:07,745 --> 00:18:12,204
If a kid isn't up on all this
stuff, what chance do I have?
460
00:18:12,205 --> 00:18:15,534
You know, maybe there is no point.
461
00:18:15,535 --> 00:18:16,914
How many times have you had to explain
462
00:18:16,915 --> 00:18:18,414
Black Lives Matter at work?
463
00:18:18,415 --> 00:18:19,824
Hmm.
464
00:18:19,825 --> 00:18:21,284
Man, I lost count.
465
00:18:22,995 --> 00:18:25,244
Those guys, they...
they should get it by now.
466
00:18:25,245 --> 00:18:26,864
They should.
467
00:18:26,865 --> 00:18:28,574
But why do you think they don't?
468
00:18:28,575 --> 00:18:31,164
Because every time
it becomes uncomfortable,
469
00:18:31,165 --> 00:18:32,914
they all start to tune out.
470
00:18:32,915 --> 00:18:35,414
Mm. And they have all the power.
471
00:18:35,415 --> 00:18:36,824
- Mm-hmm.
- So what are you gonna do?
472
00:18:36,825 --> 00:18:38,784
It's exhausting, son.
473
00:18:38,785 --> 00:18:41,284
And it's... It's not even like
I'm asking for a lot.
474
00:18:41,285 --> 00:18:42,914
- Yeah.
- You know, I... I try to tell them
475
00:18:42,915 --> 00:18:44,994
what they can do to be better,
and it's like
476
00:18:44,995 --> 00:18:47,284
they can't even wrap
their head around it.
477
00:18:47,285 --> 00:18:50,587
Which sounds a lot like...
478
00:18:52,415 --> 00:18:53,912
Me.
479
00:18:55,365 --> 00:18:57,181
Hey.
480
00:18:57,865 --> 00:19:01,164
Do men treat feminism
like White people treat racism?
481
00:19:01,165 --> 00:19:02,784
Mm.
482
00:19:02,785 --> 00:19:07,244
So, men are the White people of gender?
483
00:19:07,245 --> 00:19:08,744
Damn.
484
00:19:08,745 --> 00:19:10,574
I can't believe
I have been White guy-ing
485
00:19:10,575 --> 00:19:13,074
these women all this time.
486
00:19:13,075 --> 00:19:14,994
Do I have any other blind spots?
487
00:19:14,995 --> 00:19:16,994
Oh, well, you're a terrible listener...
488
00:19:16,995 --> 00:19:19,074
No, I'm good.
Pops, can you believe this kid?
489
00:19:20,825 --> 00:19:24,164
You know, it makes me glad
I wasn't around enough
490
00:19:24,165 --> 00:19:26,164
for you to teach me any lessons.
491
00:19:26,165 --> 00:19:27,664
So, Bow decided.
492
00:19:27,665 --> 00:19:29,664
If she wanted a more inclusive group,
493
00:19:29,665 --> 00:19:31,534
she'd have to build one from scratch.
494
00:19:31,535 --> 00:19:35,034
So, these are the women who
are going to save the world?
495
00:19:35,035 --> 00:19:36,164
Mm-hmm.
496
00:19:36,165 --> 00:19:37,787
I wouldn't trust them to save me a seat.
497
00:19:37,812 --> 00:19:38,653
Oh.
498
00:19:38,678 --> 00:19:41,364
Everybody, let's get started,
499
00:19:41,365 --> 00:19:42,567
- shall we?
- Whoo!
500
00:19:42,592 --> 00:19:45,124
All right, you are all
501
00:19:45,125 --> 00:19:49,244
the founding members
of L.A.'s newest activism group
502
00:19:49,245 --> 00:19:50,954
for women of color.
503
00:19:50,955 --> 00:19:52,124
Ooh. Hear, hear.
504
00:19:52,125 --> 00:19:53,284
Because we know
that allies are important,
505
00:19:53,285 --> 00:19:56,034
but we need to have our own safe spaces
506
00:19:56,035 --> 00:19:57,914
where our voices matter.
507
00:20:00,665 --> 00:20:02,364
Mom, when you put it like that,
508
00:20:02,365 --> 00:20:03,914
it doesn't sound totally terrible.
509
00:20:03,915 --> 00:20:06,414
Diane, you're not buying this.
510
00:20:06,415 --> 00:20:09,864
A group of five or more women
should be a church meeting.
511
00:20:09,865 --> 00:20:11,784
Or a Mary Kay party.
512
00:20:11,785 --> 00:20:14,074
Ruby, you don't think
that women deserve equal pay?
513
00:20:14,075 --> 00:20:16,164
They deserve more.
514
00:20:16,165 --> 00:20:18,810
And I know you wouldn't let
a man talk down to you.
515
00:20:18,835 --> 00:20:21,204
Now, you know ain't no man
talking down to me.
516
00:20:21,205 --> 00:20:22,414
And you'd fight for a woman to be able
517
00:20:22,415 --> 00:20:23,454
to make her own decisions.
518
00:20:23,455 --> 00:20:24,874
With my fist!
519
00:20:24,875 --> 00:20:26,164
- Grandma.
- Mm?
520
00:20:26,165 --> 00:20:27,574
You're a feminist.
521
00:20:27,575 --> 00:20:30,164
Just like Mom... and me.
522
00:20:30,165 --> 00:20:32,954
Aww.
523
00:20:32,955 --> 00:20:34,994
All right.
524
00:20:34,995 --> 00:20:36,784
You listen to me.
525
00:20:36,785 --> 00:20:39,244
If any of you ever call me a feminist,
526
00:20:39,245 --> 00:20:42,414
I'm gonna slap your salty little mouths.
527
00:20:42,415 --> 00:20:45,994
Now, I'm going to put on two bras.
528
00:20:45,995 --> 00:20:47,574
Just because.
529
00:20:47,575 --> 00:20:48,954
That's right.
530
00:20:48,955 --> 00:20:50,625
Two of 'em.
531
00:20:52,933 --> 00:20:57,704
Here we go! Some snacks
for my strong women Americans.
532
00:20:57,705 --> 00:20:58,914
- Thank you.
- All right.
533
00:20:58,915 --> 00:20:59,954
- My man...
- Bow.
534
00:20:59,955 --> 00:21:01,874
- What?
- What is wrong with this man?
535
00:21:01,875 --> 00:21:03,414
Just snatching it out
of her hand like that?
536
00:21:03,415 --> 00:21:05,334
Doesn't your husband
know how to be a gentleman?
537
00:21:05,335 --> 00:21:07,204
Well, the... Well, the gentleman
made the sandwiches.
538
00:21:07,205 --> 00:21:08,165
- Sweetheart.
- Hmm?
539
00:21:08,166 --> 00:21:09,994
Ladies first.
540
00:21:09,995 --> 00:21:12,914
But... it's 2019, babe!
541
00:21:12,915 --> 00:21:15,664
What about the patriarchy?
542
00:21:15,665 --> 00:21:17,284
What am I doing wrong?
543
00:21:17,285 --> 00:21:20,039
I've been asking that question
for the past 20 years.
544
00:21:23,189 --> 00:21:28,189
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