1 00:00:00,496 --> 00:00:03,499 Dre: Considering everything this country has done 2 00:00:03,499 --> 00:00:07,795 to keep Black people down, our firsts are monumental. 3 00:00:07,795 --> 00:00:10,691 Who was the first White Major League baseball player? 4 00:00:10,691 --> 00:00:11,885 No one knows. 5 00:00:11,885 --> 00:00:14,008 [ Bat hits ball, crowd cheers ] You just know Jackie Robinson. 6 00:00:14,008 --> 00:00:17,245 First person to win an Oscar? No one cares. 7 00:00:17,245 --> 00:00:19,330 But we all know the first Black woman 8 00:00:19,330 --> 00:00:22,792 to win a Best Actress statue was Halle Berry. 9 00:00:22,792 --> 00:00:25,504 [ Cheers and applause ] Ask that handsy fool from "The Pianist." 10 00:00:25,504 --> 00:00:29,049 And who can forget the first Black James Bond? 11 00:00:29,049 --> 00:00:30,467 Idris Elba. [ Gunshot ] 12 00:00:30,467 --> 00:00:32,386 That one hasn't happened yet, 13 00:00:32,386 --> 00:00:35,222 but I'm putting it out there so it does. 14 00:00:35,222 --> 00:00:37,307 These firsts are a bittersweet testament 15 00:00:37,307 --> 00:00:39,101 to obstacles overcome. 16 00:00:39,101 --> 00:00:41,311 That's why to this day, 17 00:00:41,311 --> 00:00:45,023 every Black first is cause for celebration. 18 00:00:45,023 --> 00:00:47,401 So please, give a round of applause 19 00:00:47,401 --> 00:00:50,362 for the latest addition to The Museum of Black Firsts, 20 00:00:50,362 --> 00:00:53,573 and also the finest ‐‐ sorry, Halle Berry ‐‐ 21 00:00:53,573 --> 00:00:57,536 Pacific General Hospital's first Black female partner, 22 00:00:57,536 --> 00:00:59,705 Dr. Rainbow Johnson! 23 00:00:59,705 --> 00:01:01,456 [ Applause ] 24 00:01:01,456 --> 00:01:02,791 Thank you. 25 00:01:02,791 --> 00:01:04,418 Oh. Thank you, everybody. 26 00:01:04,418 --> 00:01:07,170 I am partner. 27 00:01:07,170 --> 00:01:08,714 This is going on my stories. 28 00:01:08,714 --> 00:01:11,008 Dr. Johnson, you are goals. 29 00:01:11,008 --> 00:01:12,676 Oh, thank you, Dr. Westbrook. [ Laughs ] 30 00:01:12,676 --> 00:01:14,594 I am goals. Mm‐hmm. 31 00:01:14,594 --> 00:01:17,597 Being goals has always been my goal. [ Laughs ] 32 00:01:23,979 --> 00:01:26,064 Rainbow: Hey, hey. 33 00:01:26,064 --> 00:01:27,482 [ Singsong voice ] I'm a partner. 34 00:01:27,482 --> 00:01:28,984 I'm a partner. 35 00:01:28,984 --> 00:01:30,152 Oh, this is perfect. 36 00:01:30,152 --> 00:01:31,695 I'm doing a school photography project 37 00:01:31,695 --> 00:01:32,904 on Black excellence. Oh! 38 00:01:32,904 --> 00:01:34,281 Well, I‐I'll give you this photo. 39 00:01:34,281 --> 00:01:35,615 No, no, Mom, I need to take it. 40 00:01:35,615 --> 00:01:36,658 Come on, think. 41 00:01:36,658 --> 00:01:37,826 Mm. 42 00:01:37,826 --> 00:01:39,870 Okay. Oh, look at that. 43 00:01:39,870 --> 00:01:41,455 My wife is Black excellence. 44 00:01:41,455 --> 00:01:43,665 And to think, the streets thought 45 00:01:43,665 --> 00:01:46,209 that Shonda Rhimes invented Black lady doctors. 46 00:01:46,209 --> 00:01:47,711 Well, thank you, 47 00:01:47,711 --> 00:01:51,339 Mr. First Black VP of Stevens & Lido. 48 00:01:51,339 --> 00:01:52,883 That is me. 49 00:01:52,883 --> 00:01:55,677 But it's not just about being called first. 50 00:01:55,677 --> 00:01:58,305 It is important to me to be in a position of power 51 00:01:58,305 --> 00:02:00,682 so that I can blaze a trail 52 00:02:00,682 --> 00:02:03,351 for all of the other Black women. 53 00:02:03,351 --> 00:02:04,853 I wish I was a Black woman 54 00:02:04,853 --> 00:02:06,730 so that you could blaze a trail for me, Mom. 55 00:02:06,730 --> 00:02:08,023 Oh, I wish that, too, honey. 56 00:02:08,023 --> 00:02:09,232 But you know what? 57 00:02:09,232 --> 00:02:11,902 I am starting with Dr. Westbrook in Neurology. 58 00:02:11,902 --> 00:02:14,863 She has sort of become my ‐‐ my little protégé. 59 00:02:14,863 --> 00:02:16,281 Wow, Mom. 60 00:02:16,281 --> 00:02:19,034 Just when I think I have reached the peak of Pride Rock, 61 00:02:19,034 --> 00:02:21,536 you do something to lift me up even higher. 62 00:02:21,536 --> 00:02:22,871 Like a beautiful Rafiki. 63 00:02:22,871 --> 00:02:24,456 So, uh [clears throat] 64 00:02:24,456 --> 00:02:27,292 Dr. Westbrook has asked to see me tomorrow. 65 00:02:27,292 --> 00:02:30,170 And...I think it's because she knows 66 00:02:30,170 --> 00:02:31,922 that I'm partner now 67 00:02:31,922 --> 00:02:33,757 and I have the juice to make things happen. 68 00:02:33,757 --> 00:02:35,592 You got the juice now, Bow. 69 00:02:35,592 --> 00:02:37,636 Yeah, Mom is the juiciest. [ Chuckles ] 70 00:02:39,304 --> 00:02:41,932 Maybe you shouldn't say things like that about your mama. 71 00:02:41,932 --> 00:02:44,601 ♪♪ 72 00:02:44,601 --> 00:02:46,478 Charlie: Should I send Bow's gift to the house 73 00:02:46,478 --> 00:02:48,313 or to her new sexy partner office? 74 00:02:48,313 --> 00:02:50,023 I wanna make sure she gets 75 00:02:50,023 --> 00:02:51,942 my Edible Entanglement Arrangement. 76 00:02:51,942 --> 00:02:53,902 How did you know that Bow made partner? 77 00:02:53,902 --> 00:02:55,904 She blocked you on Instagram. 78 00:02:55,904 --> 00:02:58,907 Oh, Dre, you basic, basic bitch. 79 00:02:58,907 --> 00:03:00,242 It's all about the Finstagram. 80 00:03:00,242 --> 00:03:01,910 You know who's not being blocked? 81 00:03:01,910 --> 00:03:04,246 Hm? My Milli Vanilli Stans account. 82 00:03:04,246 --> 00:03:05,414 Okay, look here, Charlie. 83 00:03:05,414 --> 00:03:08,500 While you're out here, committing the IG fraud, 84 00:03:08,500 --> 00:03:10,710 Bow and I are out making moves. 85 00:03:10,710 --> 00:03:12,838 You can call us Melo and Dame D. O. L. L. A., 86 00:03:12,838 --> 00:03:14,798 because we are blazing trails. 87 00:03:14,798 --> 00:03:16,800 Bow is definitely blazing trails. Mm‐hmm. 88 00:03:16,800 --> 00:03:18,718 You're kind of out there with a Zippo lighter 89 00:03:18,718 --> 00:03:20,887 warming up your hands. I'm sorry. 90 00:03:20,887 --> 00:03:23,598 Are you saying that I'm not here boosting brothers? 91 00:03:23,598 --> 00:03:25,600 Name one thing you done to bring up a Black man around here. 92 00:03:25,600 --> 00:03:27,185 I hired you, Charlie. 93 00:03:27,185 --> 00:03:28,895 Correction ‐‐ I won this job fair and square 94 00:03:28,895 --> 00:03:30,397 in a barefoot race with you. 95 00:03:30,397 --> 00:03:31,648 What about my assistant, Curtis? 96 00:03:31,648 --> 00:03:32,816 He quit a year ago. 97 00:03:32,816 --> 00:03:34,109 And his last words to you was, 98 00:03:34,109 --> 00:03:35,986 "Don't forget that letter of recommendation." 99 00:03:35,986 --> 00:03:37,112 What about the brother in the mailroom? 100 00:03:37,112 --> 00:03:38,530 Maurice? Yes. 101 00:03:38,530 --> 00:03:40,490 Stevens hired him after he hit him with his car. 102 00:03:40,490 --> 00:03:42,993 So even Stevens is bringing up more brothers than you. 103 00:03:42,993 --> 00:03:44,911 Okay, Charlie, why are you coming for me, man? 104 00:03:44,911 --> 00:03:46,705 It's not like you're doing any better. 105 00:03:46,705 --> 00:03:48,456 [ Chuckling ] Au contraire. 106 00:03:48,456 --> 00:03:50,792 I've been a member of Black Ad Men, or BlAd Men, 107 00:03:50,792 --> 00:03:52,419 for six years. 108 00:03:52,419 --> 00:03:55,297 We organize professional networking events and mixers, 109 00:03:55,297 --> 00:03:57,632 not to mention community outreach. 110 00:03:57,632 --> 00:03:59,509 You have to be kidding. 111 00:03:59,509 --> 00:04:02,304 Shaping a Black man's future is nothing to joke about, Dre. 112 00:04:02,304 --> 00:04:03,722 You just don't become 113 00:04:03,722 --> 00:04:06,433 Nubian Gold Texturizing Crème 2019 Community King 114 00:04:06,433 --> 00:04:08,059 without taking it serious. 115 00:04:08,059 --> 00:04:10,937 ♪♪ 116 00:04:10,937 --> 00:04:12,480 Okay, you know what, Charlie? 117 00:04:12,480 --> 00:04:14,482 You may have your little group, but I have real power. 118 00:04:14,482 --> 00:04:15,650 Watch this. Stevens! 119 00:04:15,650 --> 00:04:16,985 Yeah? 120 00:04:16,985 --> 00:04:18,570 You know, I think it's time that we hire 121 00:04:18,570 --> 00:04:19,946 another Black ad exec‐‐ 122 00:04:19,946 --> 00:04:21,281 Absolutely! You know what? 123 00:04:21,281 --> 00:04:22,991 A‐As soon and as publicly as possible. 124 00:04:22,991 --> 00:04:24,367 Because between you guys, 125 00:04:24,367 --> 00:04:25,869 I am in a little bit of hot water 126 00:04:25,869 --> 00:04:28,121 with the P. O. C. s because I... 127 00:04:28,121 --> 00:04:31,249 well, just to be honest, I‐I‐I ran over another one. 128 00:04:31,249 --> 00:04:33,835 Ooh. That is yummy. 129 00:04:33,835 --> 00:04:36,755 Just like that, Dre is back in the game. 130 00:04:36,755 --> 00:04:38,298 Jack: Oh, yeah. That's it. 131 00:04:38,298 --> 00:04:40,050 That's it. Pretend I'm not even here. 132 00:04:40,050 --> 00:04:42,511 Girl, I can't get enough of your picture 133 00:04:42,511 --> 00:04:44,513 up on the hospital partners wall. ♪ Hey, hey ♪ 134 00:04:44,513 --> 00:04:46,640 You better be feeling yourself right now. [ Laughs ] 135 00:04:46,640 --> 00:04:50,310 Knowing that my work is gonna make a difference for you 136 00:04:50,310 --> 00:04:52,062 is what makes it worth it. 137 00:04:52,062 --> 00:04:54,105 Mm. You're gonna be the second 138 00:04:54,105 --> 00:04:57,234 Black female partner in this hospital. 139 00:04:57,234 --> 00:04:59,277 I mean, look, it's not first, alright, 140 00:04:59,277 --> 00:05:02,405 but second ‐‐ Huh? ‐‐ that's pretty good. 141 00:05:02,405 --> 00:05:03,657 [ Laughs ] 142 00:05:03,657 --> 00:05:06,243 We are gonna take this place over together. 143 00:05:06,243 --> 00:05:07,702 Together? 144 00:05:07,702 --> 00:05:09,496 Yeah, I got a seat at the table 145 00:05:09,496 --> 00:05:10,872 and now I've been saving one for you. 146 00:05:10,872 --> 00:05:11,873 Bow. Bow. 147 00:05:11,873 --> 00:05:13,667 Yeah. Listen. 148 00:05:13,667 --> 00:05:14,834 This is so awesome for you. 149 00:05:14,834 --> 00:05:16,378 I know! Isn't it so exciting? 150 00:05:16,378 --> 00:05:19,297 I don't want to take away from your moment. 151 00:05:19,297 --> 00:05:21,341 But I'm not interested in becoming a partner. 152 00:05:21,341 --> 00:05:23,885 Wait. What? I don't understand. 153 00:05:23,885 --> 00:05:26,304 You said that I was goals. 154 00:05:26,304 --> 00:05:28,223 You are goals. Okay. 155 00:05:28,223 --> 00:05:29,224 Just not my goals. 156 00:05:29,224 --> 00:05:30,725 I should have been more specific. 157 00:05:30,725 --> 00:05:33,895 Uh, look, I've been watching you on this journey 158 00:05:33,895 --> 00:05:35,480 and it's gonna be a no for me. 159 00:05:35,480 --> 00:05:37,065 Congratulations again, girl. 160 00:05:37,065 --> 00:05:38,108 [ Chuckles ] 161 00:05:38,108 --> 00:05:39,943 But I‐I was ‐‐ I was doing this for us! 162 00:05:39,943 --> 00:05:41,653 I don't like anybody else here! 163 00:05:41,653 --> 00:05:42,904 [ Camera shutter clicking ] 164 00:05:42,904 --> 00:05:45,490 Okay. Okay. 165 00:05:45,490 --> 00:05:46,783 Say, "Black excellence"! 166 00:05:49,573 --> 00:05:52,303 Can you believe that Crystal 167 00:05:52,303 --> 00:05:54,389 has been thinking about this for a long time? 168 00:05:54,389 --> 00:05:57,100 How am I supposed to make a difference 169 00:05:57,100 --> 00:05:59,018 in the lives of Black women 170 00:05:59,018 --> 00:06:01,229 when the woman that I am mentoring 171 00:06:01,229 --> 00:06:03,440 doesn't want to follow in my footsteps? 172 00:06:03,440 --> 00:06:05,608 I'll follow in your footsteps, Mom. Just hand me your shoes. 173 00:06:05,608 --> 00:06:08,236 I‐I know you're trying, sweetie. But just let her talk. 174 00:06:08,236 --> 00:06:11,364 Do you know that she wants to move hospitals ‐‐ Mm‐hmm ‐‐ 175 00:06:11,364 --> 00:06:13,366 so that she can be near her aging mom? 176 00:06:13,366 --> 00:06:15,493 How do you think that makes me feel? 177 00:06:15,493 --> 00:06:16,661 Huh? 178 00:06:16,661 --> 00:06:18,455 I have been tolerating these White doctors 179 00:06:18,455 --> 00:06:20,999 calling me "Dr. Girl" for all those years ‐‐ What? Okay. 180 00:06:20,999 --> 00:06:22,292 So she can just kick back 181 00:06:22,292 --> 00:06:23,793 and watch "Judge Judy" with her mom? 182 00:06:23,793 --> 00:06:24,919 Oh, really? 183 00:06:24,919 --> 00:06:26,254 What was all of this for? 184 00:06:26,254 --> 00:06:27,839 Okay, babe, maybe you just need 185 00:06:27,839 --> 00:06:29,883 to re‐up your game plan. Oh, come on. 186 00:06:29,883 --> 00:06:31,217 Yeah. 187 00:06:31,217 --> 00:06:32,635 Like today, I heard this inspiring story 188 00:06:32,635 --> 00:06:34,095 about a guy who had been sleeping on 189 00:06:34,095 --> 00:06:35,305 helping brothers at work. 190 00:06:35,305 --> 00:06:37,140 But you can't fault him, you know, 191 00:06:37,140 --> 00:06:39,350 his life is probably full, got a big family, you know, 192 00:06:39,350 --> 00:06:41,227 and him starting the second season of "The Sopranos." 193 00:06:41,227 --> 00:06:43,354 You know, but he recommitted himself 194 00:06:43,354 --> 00:06:44,522 to helping those brothers. 195 00:06:44,522 --> 00:06:46,191 And because of that, 196 00:06:46,191 --> 00:06:49,027 Stevens & Lido is now hiring a new Black ad exec. 197 00:06:49,027 --> 00:06:50,153 Mm‐hmm. 198 00:06:50,153 --> 00:06:51,529 Dad, was that story about you? 199 00:06:51,529 --> 00:06:53,448 No, I'm pretty sure it was about Curtis. 200 00:06:53,448 --> 00:06:54,741 But he did that. 201 00:06:54,741 --> 00:06:56,326 And you can, too, babe. 202 00:06:56,326 --> 00:06:57,452 Maybe you're right. 203 00:06:57,452 --> 00:06:58,620 Mm‐hmm. Yeah. 204 00:06:58,620 --> 00:07:00,455 Because you know what? 205 00:07:00,455 --> 00:07:02,832 No one knows how hard it is 206 00:07:02,832 --> 00:07:05,376 for a Black woman in medicine like I do, 207 00:07:05,376 --> 00:07:08,171 and because of that, I am not gonna give up. 208 00:07:08,171 --> 00:07:09,672 That's my wife. 209 00:07:09,672 --> 00:07:12,467 I am proud of you, baby. Aww! 210 00:07:12,467 --> 00:07:14,302 Proud of our baby, too. 211 00:07:14,302 --> 00:07:15,637 Aww! 212 00:07:15,637 --> 00:07:17,138 Hey, are you cool with this? 213 00:07:17,138 --> 00:07:18,723 Huh? 214 00:07:18,723 --> 00:07:20,350 Uh, I‐I'm sorry. I'm just... Yeah, sorry. 215 00:07:20,350 --> 00:07:22,268 It's okay. ...looking at Psych grad schools. 216 00:07:22,268 --> 00:07:24,479 And there are just so many things to consider. 217 00:07:24,479 --> 00:07:26,856 Hmm. I don't know how you did it, Dr. Johnson. 218 00:07:26,856 --> 00:07:28,441 Well, listen, sweetheart, 219 00:07:28,441 --> 00:07:30,443 they are gonna pressure you to go with the big‐name school, 220 00:07:30,443 --> 00:07:31,861 but that's not what it's all about. 221 00:07:31,861 --> 00:07:33,071 You want to find a place 222 00:07:33,071 --> 00:07:34,447 that has a culture that you can thrive in. 223 00:07:34,447 --> 00:07:35,448 Let me see this. 224 00:07:35,448 --> 00:07:37,075 Ooh, well, you might not want 225 00:07:37,075 --> 00:07:39,661 to pick a school in the Caribbean. Oh. 226 00:07:39,661 --> 00:07:41,829 You know, if you can get a tan in the classroom, 227 00:07:41,829 --> 00:07:42,997 you ain't gonna get a job. 228 00:07:42,997 --> 00:07:44,666 Oh, wow. Mm‐hmm. 229 00:07:44,666 --> 00:07:45,833 Well, that's super helpful. 230 00:07:45,833 --> 00:07:47,377 Yeah. You see that, babe? 231 00:07:47,377 --> 00:07:49,254 One mentee walks out the door, 232 00:07:49,254 --> 00:07:51,422 and another one climbs through the window. 233 00:07:51,422 --> 00:07:52,966 Mm‐hmm. 234 00:07:52,966 --> 00:07:54,801 Look at you two bonding. 235 00:07:54,801 --> 00:07:56,219 Huh. Might have to up 236 00:07:56,219 --> 00:07:57,762 that Valentine's reservation to three, right? 237 00:07:57,762 --> 00:07:59,264 Rainbow: Aww, sweetheart. 238 00:07:59,264 --> 00:08:01,849 Son, when are you gonna stop flirting with my wife? 239 00:08:02,892 --> 00:08:07,522 I helped Bow get back on track, but now it was my turn. 240 00:08:07,522 --> 00:08:11,484 They say you can judge an adman by the width of his Rolodex, 241 00:08:11,484 --> 00:08:15,613 and mine was so thick that Drake was sliding into its DMs. 242 00:08:15,613 --> 00:08:17,156 Hey, Virgil! 243 00:08:17,156 --> 00:08:18,950 I have a job opportunity for you... 244 00:08:18,950 --> 00:08:21,786 Oh, you're out of the advertising business now? 245 00:08:21,786 --> 00:08:24,539 Hey. Is this Urbana Creative Agency? 246 00:08:24,539 --> 00:08:25,957 Folded? 247 00:08:25,957 --> 00:08:27,709 It's Dre. 248 00:08:27,709 --> 00:08:31,170 Okay, well, if I need a manny, I know who to call. 249 00:08:31,170 --> 00:08:32,672 But I won't. 250 00:08:32,672 --> 00:08:34,549 Yeah. May I speak with Damian Horford, please? 251 00:08:34,549 --> 00:08:35,967 He moved on? 252 00:08:35,967 --> 00:08:37,552 Okay, well, do you have his number? 253 00:08:37,552 --> 00:08:41,180 Oh...he's dead. 254 00:08:41,180 --> 00:08:43,308 Hm. 255 00:08:43,308 --> 00:08:45,560 [ Gasps ] What about you, are you Black? 256 00:08:45,560 --> 00:08:46,436 [ Dial tone ] 257 00:08:46,436 --> 00:08:48,062 [ Sighs ] 258 00:08:48,062 --> 00:08:49,647 Man, why the hell 259 00:08:49,647 --> 00:08:51,107 are we always out of Hot Cheddar Puffs? 260 00:08:52,650 --> 00:08:54,777 I have no knowledge of that. 261 00:08:54,777 --> 00:08:57,071 You know, I'm ‐‐ I'm ‐‐ I'm sorry, Charlie, man. 262 00:08:57,071 --> 00:08:59,908 I'm ‐‐ I'm just having a Black identity crisis. 263 00:08:59,908 --> 00:09:01,200 Oh, I hate when them come. 264 00:09:01,200 --> 00:09:03,828 Man, I've called 15 Black ad execs 265 00:09:03,828 --> 00:09:05,830 and all of them are either now retired, 266 00:09:05,830 --> 00:09:07,582 out of the business, or dead. 267 00:09:07,582 --> 00:09:09,042 Hmm. 268 00:09:09,042 --> 00:09:10,460 It's kind of hard to come back from the dead. 269 00:09:10,460 --> 00:09:12,170 But not impossible. 270 00:09:12,170 --> 00:09:13,922 If you don't mind driving to Arleta, 271 00:09:13,922 --> 00:09:15,882 I happen to know a reputable necromancer. 272 00:09:15,882 --> 00:09:17,216 Oh, wait a minute. Does he still work there? 273 00:09:17,216 --> 00:09:18,343 I think he's there. 274 00:09:18,343 --> 00:09:20,428 I‐I think he still works there. 275 00:09:20,428 --> 00:09:23,389 I can't believe that I've fallen this hard, man. 276 00:09:23,389 --> 00:09:25,433 I used to have my fingers on the pulse, 277 00:09:25,433 --> 00:09:26,935 and now I can't even get one person 278 00:09:26,935 --> 00:09:28,394 to line up for an interview. 279 00:09:28,394 --> 00:09:31,272 You know who has all 10 fingers on the Black pulse? 280 00:09:31,272 --> 00:09:32,357 Charlie. 281 00:09:32,357 --> 00:09:34,609 Let Brother Telphy help you out, Dre. 282 00:09:34,609 --> 00:09:35,902 My man Darren T. Gibson ‐‐ 283 00:09:35,902 --> 00:09:37,737 he's a great guy, more than qualified. 284 00:09:37,737 --> 00:09:39,405 He can be here this afternoon. 285 00:09:39,405 --> 00:09:41,407 Hey, I‐I'd love to meet your guy, Charlie. 286 00:09:41,407 --> 00:09:43,242 This is what I do, baby. 287 00:09:43,242 --> 00:09:44,869 ♪♪ 288 00:09:44,869 --> 00:09:47,413 I‐It's all good. It's seeped in my pores. 289 00:09:47,413 --> 00:09:50,416 ♪♪ 290 00:09:50,416 --> 00:09:52,418 Oh, I'm so glad he didn't touch 'em. 291 00:09:52,418 --> 00:09:56,381 ♪♪ 292 00:09:56,381 --> 00:09:59,008 I'm so grateful that you have time to talk. 293 00:09:59,008 --> 00:10:00,635 Oh, gosh. Planning for my future 294 00:10:00,635 --> 00:10:02,220 is really, really daunting. 295 00:10:02,220 --> 00:10:03,596 I get it. 296 00:10:03,596 --> 00:10:06,182 God, I wish I had someone I could have gotten advice from 297 00:10:06,182 --> 00:10:07,600 when I was in your shoes. 298 00:10:07,600 --> 00:10:09,143 Mm‐hmm. Oh, speaking of shoes. 299 00:10:09,143 --> 00:10:12,855 You should get yourself some golf spikes. 300 00:10:12,855 --> 00:10:14,482 Okay. 301 00:10:14,482 --> 00:10:15,817 I didn't know I was talking to Miss Tigress Woods here. 302 00:10:15,817 --> 00:10:17,443 Junior never mentioned you like golf. 303 00:10:17,443 --> 00:10:18,903 Oh, I don't like golf at all. 304 00:10:18,903 --> 00:10:19,904 Oh. Not at all. 305 00:10:19,904 --> 00:10:21,614 Not the bugs, not the skorts, 306 00:10:21,614 --> 00:10:24,325 not the people asking me which NBA player's wife I am. 307 00:10:24,325 --> 00:10:26,244 But I had to learn when I was in med school 308 00:10:26,244 --> 00:10:28,538 so that I could get into my professors' 309 00:10:28,538 --> 00:10:29,831 "Good Old Boys Club." 310 00:10:29,831 --> 00:10:31,416 Mm. That was the only way to have access 311 00:10:31,416 --> 00:10:33,251 to the big surgeries. Mm. 312 00:10:33,251 --> 00:10:36,045 So you got to make their interests your interests. 313 00:10:36,045 --> 00:10:37,255 Okay. Makes sense. Mm‐hmm. 314 00:10:37,255 --> 00:10:39,215 Also, you need to make sure that your penmanship 315 00:10:39,215 --> 00:10:41,217 and your grammar are on point. 316 00:10:41,217 --> 00:10:43,052 They really care about that? Yes. 317 00:10:43,052 --> 00:10:44,345 When I was in residency... 318 00:10:44,345 --> 00:10:45,805 Mm‐hmm. 319 00:10:45,805 --> 00:10:49,225 ...I misspelled Neuroleptanalgesia on a chart 320 00:10:49,225 --> 00:10:51,185 and a doctor said to me, 321 00:10:51,185 --> 00:10:54,313 "[ Chuckles ] We don't speak 'Ebonics' here." 322 00:10:54,313 --> 00:10:55,565 [ Laughs ] 323 00:10:55,565 --> 00:10:57,608 Needless to say, I never misspelled that word again. 324 00:10:57,608 --> 00:10:59,152 Like, never. [ Laughs ] 325 00:10:59,152 --> 00:11:01,863 Oh, here's something really sweet and lovely 326 00:11:01,863 --> 00:11:02,905 that you can do. 327 00:11:02,905 --> 00:11:04,198 Okay. 328 00:11:04,198 --> 00:11:05,700 On your first day of grad school, 329 00:11:05,700 --> 00:11:07,035 write yourself a letter 330 00:11:07,035 --> 00:11:08,953 about why you decided to get into medicine. 331 00:11:08,953 --> 00:11:11,414 It'll be like your "Keep Going!" letter. 332 00:11:12,915 --> 00:11:14,417 W‐Well, there were times 333 00:11:14,417 --> 00:11:15,710 where you felt like you couldn't keep going? 334 00:11:15,710 --> 00:11:17,920 Oh, my God, yes. Wow. 335 00:11:17,920 --> 00:11:20,089 [ Chuckling ] All the time. 336 00:11:20,089 --> 00:11:22,425 I just kept my head down and did my work, 337 00:11:22,425 --> 00:11:23,843 and I read that letter every day. 338 00:11:23,843 --> 00:11:25,261 And sometimes there were so many tears on it 339 00:11:25,261 --> 00:11:26,387 that I'd have to rewrite it, 340 00:11:26,387 --> 00:11:28,639 but at that point, I knew it by heart. 341 00:11:28,639 --> 00:11:31,267 God. I still remember it. 342 00:11:31,267 --> 00:11:32,518 Hm. 343 00:11:32,518 --> 00:11:37,273 "Dear Rainbow, you are a strong queen 344 00:11:37,273 --> 00:11:39,650 who has dedicated your life to helping others. 345 00:11:39,650 --> 00:11:43,613 And when no one else loves you, I love you. 346 00:11:43,613 --> 00:11:46,991 So in the words of Harriet Tubman, 347 00:11:46,991 --> 00:11:50,328 'If you hear the dogs, keep going. 348 00:11:50,328 --> 00:11:55,458 If you see the torches in the woods, keep going...'" 349 00:11:55,458 --> 00:11:57,043 Isn't that lovely? 350 00:11:57,043 --> 00:11:59,837 Uh...whew! 351 00:11:59,837 --> 00:12:01,297 It's something. Right? 352 00:12:01,297 --> 00:12:03,216 Uh‐huh. 353 00:12:03,216 --> 00:12:07,470 So I was interviewing Charlie's BlAd boy Darren T. Gibson, 354 00:12:07,470 --> 00:12:09,222 and I figured I'd give Stevens 355 00:12:09,222 --> 00:12:11,349 a courtesy heads‐up about the meeting. 356 00:12:11,349 --> 00:12:13,017 Actually, I've met Darren before. 357 00:12:13,017 --> 00:12:14,477 We were on a Men in Advertising panel 358 00:12:14,477 --> 00:12:15,561 a couple years back. 359 00:12:15,561 --> 00:12:17,021 Really? Yeah. 360 00:12:17,021 --> 00:12:20,149 I found him, um, kind of difficult. 361 00:12:20,149 --> 00:12:22,819 But, okay, it's, uh, your pick, your judgment. 362 00:12:22,819 --> 00:12:24,028 I trust you. 363 00:12:24,028 --> 00:12:26,864 Difficult? 364 00:12:26,864 --> 00:12:28,616 Huh. 365 00:12:28,616 --> 00:12:31,244 Darren. 366 00:12:31,244 --> 00:12:32,954 Right now I'm a VP at Essence Nation, 367 00:12:32,954 --> 00:12:34,539 leading some really exciting campaigns. 368 00:12:34,539 --> 00:12:35,665 Yeah, that's cool. 369 00:12:35,665 --> 00:12:37,041 But I also see here 370 00:12:37,041 --> 00:12:40,419 that you only spent five months at Chiat/Day. 371 00:12:40,419 --> 00:12:42,213 What happened here? 372 00:12:42,213 --> 00:12:43,506 Essence Nation was closer to home. 373 00:12:43,506 --> 00:12:45,049 My wife ‐‐ she just had a baby, 374 00:12:45,049 --> 00:12:47,718 so it was a blessing being able to cut that commute down. 375 00:12:47,718 --> 00:12:49,220 Yeah, but still... 376 00:12:49,220 --> 00:12:51,389 I'm surprised that you would leave one of the big dogs 377 00:12:51,389 --> 00:12:53,391 to go to a small firm. 378 00:12:53,391 --> 00:12:55,226 You know how it is for us at those big firms, 379 00:12:55,226 --> 00:12:56,602 it's not always better. 380 00:12:56,602 --> 00:12:58,896 But at Essence Nation, I'm working on campaigns 381 00:12:58,896 --> 00:13:00,606 on a level I had never done before. 382 00:13:00,606 --> 00:13:03,818 Well, what are we talking, gas station ads? 383 00:13:03,818 --> 00:13:06,737 Actually, it was the Kaiser Permanente campaign 384 00:13:06,737 --> 00:13:07,947 with Regina King. 385 00:13:07,947 --> 00:13:08,948 You did that? [ Chuckles ] 386 00:13:08,948 --> 00:13:10,491 Hey, how did I not know that? 387 00:13:10,491 --> 00:13:12,994 Man, you are the reason that I'm drinking more water. 388 00:13:12,994 --> 00:13:14,871 Ah, you know, there's ‐‐ there's a lot of campaigns. 389 00:13:14,871 --> 00:13:15,997 Hard to keep track of them all. 390 00:13:15,997 --> 00:13:17,081 No, I should know 391 00:13:17,081 --> 00:13:19,041 what my fellow Black ad execs are doing. 392 00:13:19,041 --> 00:13:21,794 You know, what is happening to me? 393 00:13:21,794 --> 00:13:23,588 You know, one ding on you from the White man 394 00:13:23,588 --> 00:13:25,840 and I was convinced that I shouldn't give you this job. 395 00:13:25,840 --> 00:13:27,592 Hell, you were here 15 minutes early 396 00:13:27,592 --> 00:13:29,844 and I judged you for having that kind of free time. 397 00:13:29,844 --> 00:13:30,845 Excuse me? 398 00:13:30,845 --> 00:13:32,180 I was scrutinizing you more 399 00:13:32,180 --> 00:13:34,515 because I assumed you only did commercials 400 00:13:34,515 --> 00:13:36,225 where they rap about McNuggets. 401 00:13:36,225 --> 00:13:38,728 It's no wonder I don't know any Black execs, 402 00:13:38,728 --> 00:13:40,646 hell, I'm too busy second‐guessing 403 00:13:40,646 --> 00:13:42,023 whether they deserve to be here. 404 00:13:42,023 --> 00:13:43,649 You know what? 405 00:13:43,649 --> 00:13:45,026 That's gonna stop today. 406 00:13:45,026 --> 00:13:47,904 Brother, this job is yours. 407 00:13:47,904 --> 00:13:50,239 I would love to have you on the team. 408 00:13:50,239 --> 00:13:52,283 Actually... 409 00:13:52,283 --> 00:13:54,619 I think I'm gonna stay at the rapping nugget place, 410 00:13:54,619 --> 00:13:55,828 but thank you. 411 00:13:55,828 --> 00:13:57,622 Oh, hey, hey, Darren. 412 00:13:57,622 --> 00:13:59,707 Wait. Wait a minute, bro. 413 00:13:59,707 --> 00:14:02,877 Do you know what four brothers could do at this place? 414 00:14:02,877 --> 00:14:04,211 [ Camera shutter clicks ] 415 00:14:04,211 --> 00:14:05,796 Ooh. 416 00:14:05,796 --> 00:14:08,925 I probably shouldn't have been in here for that. Ah. 417 00:14:08,925 --> 00:14:11,802 [ Camera shutter clicks ] While I was letting a Black protégé 418 00:14:11,802 --> 00:14:14,263 slip through my fingers at work like sand, 419 00:14:14,263 --> 00:14:18,059 Bow was trying to pressure one into a doctor diamond. 420 00:14:18,059 --> 00:14:20,394 I found the letter that I was telling you about. 421 00:14:20,394 --> 00:14:21,812 That's it. 422 00:14:21,812 --> 00:14:24,273 And, also, I remembered another med school story 423 00:14:24,273 --> 00:14:25,358 about perseverance. 424 00:14:25,358 --> 00:14:26,984 It was my birthday 425 00:14:26,984 --> 00:14:30,154 and the chief resident had just told me 426 00:14:30,154 --> 00:14:33,532 that my gorgeous braids were unprofessional and they ‐‐ 427 00:14:33,532 --> 00:14:35,576 Okay, Dr. Johnson, can we have a heart to heart? 428 00:14:35,576 --> 00:14:37,078 Ooh. Ah, yes, please. 429 00:14:37,078 --> 00:14:39,246 You're telling me all these stories 430 00:14:39,246 --> 00:14:40,915 like they're funny, fond memories... 431 00:14:40,915 --> 00:14:42,667 Uh‐huh. ...but they're horrible. 432 00:14:42,667 --> 00:14:44,627 Oh, no. 433 00:14:44,627 --> 00:14:45,711 No. It's just from a different time. 434 00:14:45,711 --> 00:14:47,046 You don't get it. 435 00:14:47,046 --> 00:14:50,633 That is textbook minimizing, Dr. Johnson. 436 00:14:50,633 --> 00:14:52,969 You needed that defense mechanism 437 00:14:52,969 --> 00:14:55,179 to get you through years of abuse. 438 00:14:55,179 --> 00:14:56,222 Abu‐‐ 439 00:14:56,222 --> 00:14:59,892 [ Laughing ] This was not abuse. 440 00:14:59,892 --> 00:15:01,978 It was character‐building. 441 00:15:01,978 --> 00:15:05,106 It's why I'm the strong woman that I am today. 442 00:15:05,106 --> 00:15:06,857 You shouldn't have to beat a person down 443 00:15:06,857 --> 00:15:08,859 to make them strong. W‐‐ 444 00:15:08,859 --> 00:15:11,445 O‐On the other hand, tough love works. 445 00:15:11,445 --> 00:15:13,614 [ Chuckling ] You know, my dad has been rough on me 446 00:15:13,614 --> 00:15:14,824 and I'm great. 447 00:15:14,824 --> 00:15:16,117 Right? 448 00:15:16,117 --> 00:15:18,035 You've had to put up with a lot of crap 449 00:15:18,035 --> 00:15:19,537 to get to where you are, Dr. Johnson... 450 00:15:19,537 --> 00:15:21,330 Yeah. 451 00:15:21,330 --> 00:15:22,540 ...but you shouldn't have had to. 452 00:15:22,540 --> 00:15:24,417 Come on. 453 00:15:24,417 --> 00:15:27,211 If I hadn't, then it would have been worse 454 00:15:27,211 --> 00:15:29,422 for all of the Black women that came behind me. 455 00:15:29,422 --> 00:15:31,757 Don't you ever wonder who you could have been 456 00:15:31,757 --> 00:15:34,343 if you didn't have to also fight this other fight? 457 00:15:34,343 --> 00:15:36,595 No, they were just trying to ‐‐ Dr. Johnson. 458 00:15:36,595 --> 00:15:38,597 Okay, if the ‐‐ Rainbow. 459 00:15:38,597 --> 00:15:41,017 Okay. [ Chuckles ] 460 00:15:44,437 --> 00:15:47,023 Oh. 461 00:15:47,023 --> 00:15:49,817 [ Sighs ] 462 00:15:49,817 --> 00:15:52,445 Oh, my God. 463 00:15:52,445 --> 00:15:53,446 [ Oven timer dinging ] 464 00:15:53,446 --> 00:15:54,739 Oooh, the pizza rolls are ready! 465 00:15:54,739 --> 00:15:57,408 Why did you do that? 466 00:15:57,408 --> 00:15:59,618 You could have been her favorite daughter. 467 00:15:59,618 --> 00:16:01,120 No, no, no, it's ‐‐ it's okay. 468 00:16:01,120 --> 00:16:03,622 I'll just ‐‐ I'm gonna ‐‐ I'm gonna read my letter. 469 00:16:03,622 --> 00:16:04,373 Okay. [ Chuckles ] 470 00:16:04,373 --> 00:16:05,624 Yes. 471 00:16:05,624 --> 00:16:08,169 [ Breathing shakily ] 472 00:16:08,169 --> 00:16:10,046 [ Whimpers ] 473 00:16:10,046 --> 00:16:12,048 Tears are coming. I'm gonna ‐‐ Okay. 474 00:16:12,048 --> 00:16:13,674 [ Whimpers ] You go ‐‐ Yeah, take ‐‐ 475 00:16:13,674 --> 00:16:14,884 No, take ‐‐ Do you. 476 00:16:14,884 --> 00:16:15,760 Take your time. [ Whimpers ] 477 00:16:18,929 --> 00:16:20,473 [ Sighs ] Rainbow: Hi. 478 00:16:20,473 --> 00:16:22,600 Hey, babe. 479 00:16:22,600 --> 00:16:24,977 Did you know 480 00:16:24,977 --> 00:16:28,272 that when Jackie Robinson retired from baseball, 481 00:16:28,272 --> 00:16:30,441 that it was only 6% Black? 482 00:16:30,441 --> 00:16:32,902 And that it's only 7% Black today. 483 00:16:32,902 --> 00:16:35,279 I thought we blocked Wikipedia 484 00:16:35,279 --> 00:16:37,865 when Diane kept changing Michael B. Jordan's page 485 00:16:37,865 --> 00:16:39,658 to "Married to Diane Johnson." Yes, yes, yes, yes, yes. 486 00:16:39,658 --> 00:16:41,285 "Back off heifers." I remember. 487 00:16:41,285 --> 00:16:42,661 Okay. [ Clears throat ] 488 00:16:42,661 --> 00:16:46,624 Jackie Robinson died at 54. 489 00:16:46,624 --> 00:16:48,459 I know. And for what? 490 00:16:48,459 --> 00:16:50,544 So he could get a couple more Black players in the league? 491 00:16:50,544 --> 00:16:53,380 Can you imagine what he could have done, Dre, 492 00:16:53,380 --> 00:16:56,258 if he hadn't been so focused on breaking barriers? 493 00:16:56,258 --> 00:16:59,470 Can you imagine what I could've done? 494 00:16:59,470 --> 00:17:01,931 I could be Dr. Rainbow Johnson Poet Laureate 495 00:17:01,931 --> 00:17:05,434 or Professor of Chicano Studies. 496 00:17:05,434 --> 00:17:07,228 You know how I love that. 497 00:17:08,771 --> 00:17:10,064 Well, I had the chance 498 00:17:10,064 --> 00:17:12,483 to give a qualified Black man a job today, 499 00:17:12,483 --> 00:17:14,985 and I almost didn't because Stevens made a face. 500 00:17:14,985 --> 00:17:16,362 Hmm? 501 00:17:16,362 --> 00:17:19,281 Babe, there's so few of us at the table 502 00:17:19,281 --> 00:17:22,660 that I felt that I needed a White co‐sign. 503 00:17:22,660 --> 00:17:24,161 That's how the system is set up. 504 00:17:24,161 --> 00:17:25,746 You know, sometimes, being the first ‐‐ 505 00:17:25,746 --> 00:17:28,541 it feels like the weight of the world is on our shoulders. 506 00:17:28,541 --> 00:17:30,000 Oh. It does. 507 00:17:30,000 --> 00:17:35,214 We're conditioned to work 10 times harder to succeed. 508 00:17:35,214 --> 00:17:39,301 But is it all worth it for 6%? 509 00:17:39,301 --> 00:17:42,179 You know... maybe Jackie Robinson 510 00:17:42,179 --> 00:17:45,015 only made baseball a little Blacker... 511 00:17:45,015 --> 00:17:47,643 Mm. ...but his sacrifices were felt 512 00:17:47,643 --> 00:17:49,812 throughout sports and the world. 513 00:17:49,812 --> 00:17:51,021 Yeah. 514 00:17:51,021 --> 00:17:53,649 You know, maybe a person's impact 515 00:17:53,649 --> 00:17:56,652 can't always be broken down into numbers. 516 00:17:56,652 --> 00:17:59,029 Mm. That's right. 517 00:17:59,029 --> 00:18:00,489 Mm‐hmm. 518 00:18:00,489 --> 00:18:02,241 Got to keep pushing. 519 00:18:02,241 --> 00:18:03,451 Yep. 520 00:18:03,451 --> 00:18:05,035 But I'm tired, though. 521 00:18:05,035 --> 00:18:07,955 Babe, well, put the torch down. 522 00:18:07,955 --> 00:18:08,998 Alright? 523 00:18:08,998 --> 00:18:10,916 This burden has to be shared, 524 00:18:10,916 --> 00:18:13,627 by your Black colleagues and your White colleagues. 525 00:18:13,627 --> 00:18:15,421 You'll be able to pick it up again, 526 00:18:15,421 --> 00:18:16,881 but let them have a turn. 527 00:18:18,883 --> 00:18:20,384 Maybe you're right. 528 00:18:20,384 --> 00:18:22,386 Mm‐hmm. 529 00:18:22,386 --> 00:18:24,221 I'm not even sure 530 00:18:24,221 --> 00:18:26,307 I know how to put down the torch at this point. 531 00:18:26,307 --> 00:18:27,641 Hey. 532 00:18:29,018 --> 00:18:31,437 There's a first time for everything. 533 00:18:31,437 --> 00:18:32,521 Thanks, honey. 534 00:18:32,521 --> 00:18:33,898 You're welcome. 535 00:18:33,898 --> 00:18:36,734 Bow and I may have been down for a minute, 536 00:18:36,734 --> 00:18:39,236 but we were never out. [ Sighs ] 537 00:18:39,236 --> 00:18:41,071 Bow took the time to think about it 538 00:18:41,071 --> 00:18:43,782 and realized it shouldn't all be on her. 539 00:18:43,782 --> 00:18:45,034 Hey, Dr. Windsor. 540 00:18:45,034 --> 00:18:47,495 Diversity is a team sport. 541 00:18:47,495 --> 00:18:49,955 I'd love to talk to you about the diversity initiative. 542 00:18:49,955 --> 00:18:50,956 Oh, yeah. 543 00:18:50,956 --> 00:18:52,416 I saw that you were heading that up 544 00:18:52,416 --> 00:18:54,627 with, uh, Dr. Gutierrez and Dr. Patel 545 00:18:54,627 --> 00:18:55,711 and Dr. Running Water, right? 546 00:18:55,711 --> 00:18:57,463 Yeah, I was heading that up. 547 00:18:57,463 --> 00:18:59,465 But [clicks tongue] can't take that on right now. 548 00:18:59,465 --> 00:19:00,883 Oh. 549 00:19:00,883 --> 00:19:02,384 Well, I'm sure diversity will be there for you 550 00:19:02,384 --> 00:19:03,844 when you're ready. Oh, no, no, no, no, no. 551 00:19:03,844 --> 00:19:06,388 I'm saying that other people can lead the charge. 552 00:19:06,388 --> 00:19:09,058 You care about diversity, right? 553 00:19:09,058 --> 00:19:10,226 Of course. Yeah? 554 00:19:10,226 --> 00:19:11,685 Why? What have you heard? 555 00:19:11,685 --> 00:19:13,312 Well, congratulations. 556 00:19:13,312 --> 00:19:14,313 Hm? 557 00:19:14,313 --> 00:19:16,815 You are the man for the job, Dr. Windsor. 558 00:19:16,815 --> 00:19:18,901 Wait, what are you doing? I'm handing the torch over to you. 559 00:19:18,901 --> 00:19:20,861 You can pass out those fliers. 560 00:19:20,861 --> 00:19:23,864 And if I see them in the garbage can, 561 00:19:23,864 --> 00:19:25,783 then I'm gonna set your car on fire. 562 00:19:25,783 --> 00:19:27,409 [ Chuckles ] [ Giggles ] 563 00:19:27,409 --> 00:19:28,786 Oh, my goodness. [ Imitates whooshing flames ] 564 00:19:28,786 --> 00:19:31,163 Really? Yeah. 565 00:19:31,163 --> 00:19:34,041 For me, I made sure my relationships 566 00:19:34,041 --> 00:19:36,168 with other Black admen were good, 567 00:19:36,168 --> 00:19:37,711 starting with Darren. 568 00:19:37,711 --> 00:19:39,296 Look, man, I appreciate the opportunity, 569 00:19:39,296 --> 00:19:41,757 I just ‐‐ I can't accept the job. 570 00:19:41,757 --> 00:19:43,384 Bro, I'm not here to beg, 571 00:19:43,384 --> 00:19:44,843 I'm here to bond. 572 00:19:44,843 --> 00:19:48,264 Now, can a brother be a BlAd Man? 573 00:19:48,264 --> 00:19:49,807 What is a BlAd Man? 574 00:19:49,807 --> 00:19:51,433 Your networking group, man. 575 00:19:51,433 --> 00:19:52,601 Charlie told me about it. 576 00:19:52,601 --> 00:19:54,061 [ Scoffs ] 577 00:19:54,061 --> 00:19:55,729 Man, that guy keeps trying to change the name, 578 00:19:55,729 --> 00:19:56,939 but won't pay any dues. 579 00:19:56,939 --> 00:20:00,276 Ah. Yeah, that is very Charlie. 580 00:20:00,276 --> 00:20:02,861 You know, he owes me $3,000 for lunch. 581 00:20:02,861 --> 00:20:05,197 [ Both laugh ] 582 00:20:05,197 --> 00:20:07,283 Oh, man, I wish Jack was here, 583 00:20:07,283 --> 00:20:09,577 because this is Black excellence. 584 00:20:09,577 --> 00:20:11,537 ♪♪ 585 00:20:11,537 --> 00:20:13,205 [ Camera shutter clicks ] 586 00:20:13,205 --> 00:20:15,791 This... is Black excellence. 587 00:20:15,791 --> 00:20:18,168 You bet your Black ass it is. 588 00:20:18,168 --> 00:20:18,919 ♪♪ 589 00:20:21,566 --> 00:20:22,686 Junior: What do I do? 590 00:20:22,686 --> 00:20:26,065 She made my mom snap. I have to do something. 591 00:20:26,065 --> 00:20:27,588 Olivia. 592 00:20:27,588 --> 00:20:28,798 Hm? [ Television shuts off ] 593 00:20:28,798 --> 00:20:33,094 It, uh, pains me to do this. 594 00:20:33,094 --> 00:20:34,637 You know I wanted nothing more 595 00:20:34,637 --> 00:20:36,931 than for you and my mom to be close. 596 00:20:36,931 --> 00:20:39,308 But we flew too close to the sun. 597 00:20:39,308 --> 00:20:40,893 Boy, what are you talking about? 598 00:20:40,893 --> 00:20:42,520 I think we should break‐‐ 599 00:20:42,520 --> 00:20:44,563 Just the lady that I want to see. 600 00:20:44,563 --> 00:20:46,649 Dr. Johnson, 601 00:20:46,649 --> 00:20:49,276 I hope I wasn't being too harsh on you yesterday. 602 00:20:49,276 --> 00:20:52,530 I can be sort of a tough‐love kind of girl. 603 00:20:52,530 --> 00:20:53,906 Hmm. You hear that, Mom? 604 00:20:53,906 --> 00:20:55,783 Tough love. Mm‐hmm. 605 00:20:55,783 --> 00:20:57,284 Love. [ Chuckles ] Mm‐hmm. 606 00:20:57,284 --> 00:21:00,788 Well, having a 20‐year‐old psychoanalyze me 607 00:21:00,788 --> 00:21:02,790 was a tough pill to swallow... 608 00:21:02,790 --> 00:21:04,333 but I'm grateful. 609 00:21:04,333 --> 00:21:05,960 I'm grateful for your honesty, 610 00:21:05,960 --> 00:21:08,504 and I actually needed to hear what you had to say. 611 00:21:08,504 --> 00:21:09,755 Oh, thank God. Whoo! 612 00:21:09,755 --> 00:21:11,006 [ Laughs ] Whoo! 613 00:21:11,006 --> 00:21:12,550 You guys still like each other? 614 00:21:12,550 --> 00:21:14,135 Yeah. What were you gonna say? 615 00:21:14,135 --> 00:21:15,386 ♪♪ 616 00:21:15,386 --> 00:21:18,472 Doesn't matter, right? [ Chuckles ] 617 00:21:18,472 --> 00:21:20,808 Just let me enjoy this moment.