1 00:00:01,784 --> 00:00:04,830 Dre: Considering everything this country has done 2 00:00:04,874 --> 00:00:09,096 to keep Black people down, our firsts are monumental. 3 00:00:09,139 --> 00:00:11,359 Who was the first White Major League baseball player? 4 00:00:11,402 --> 00:00:13,317 No one knows. 5 00:00:13,361 --> 00:00:15,928 [ Bat hits ball, crowd cheers ] You just know Jackie Robinson. 6 00:00:15,972 --> 00:00:18,235 First person to win an Oscar? No one cares. 7 00:00:18,279 --> 00:00:20,324 But we all know the first Black woman 8 00:00:20,368 --> 00:00:23,806 to win a Best Actress statue was Halle Berry. 9 00:00:23,849 --> 00:00:26,417 [ Cheers and applause ] Ask that handsy fool from "The Pianist." 10 00:00:26,461 --> 00:00:29,986 And who can forget the first Black James Bond? 11 00:00:30,030 --> 00:00:31,379 Idris Elba.[ Gunshot] 12 00:00:31,422 --> 00:00:33,294 That one hasn't happened yet, 13 00:00:33,337 --> 00:00:36,123 but I'm putting it out there so it does. 14 00:00:36,166 --> 00:00:38,212 These firsts are a bittersweet testament 15 00:00:38,255 --> 00:00:40,040 to obstacles overcome. 16 00:00:40,083 --> 00:00:42,216 That's why to this day, 17 00:00:42,259 --> 00:00:46,002 every Black first is cause for celebration. 18 00:00:46,046 --> 00:00:48,309 So please, give a round of applause 19 00:00:48,352 --> 00:00:51,268 for the latest addition to The Museum of Black Firsts, 20 00:00:51,312 --> 00:00:54,445 and also the finest -- sorry, Halle Berry -- 21 00:00:54,489 --> 00:00:58,406 Pacific General Hospital's first Black female partner, 22 00:00:58,449 --> 00:01:00,582 Dr. Rainbow Johnson! 23 00:01:00,625 --> 00:01:02,323 [ Applause ] 24 00:01:02,366 --> 00:01:03,628 Thank you. 25 00:01:03,672 --> 00:01:05,282 Oh. Thank you, everybody. 26 00:01:05,326 --> 00:01:08,068 I am partner. 27 00:01:08,111 --> 00:01:09,591 This is going on my stories. 28 00:01:09,634 --> 00:01:11,941 Dr. Johnson, you are goals. 29 00:01:11,984 --> 00:01:13,595 Oh, thank you, Dr. Westbrook. [ Laughs ] 30 00:01:13,638 --> 00:01:15,510 I am goals. Mm-hmm. 31 00:01:15,553 --> 00:01:19,905 Being goals has always been my goal. [ Laughs ] 32 00:01:19,949 --> 00:01:21,907 --Captions by VITAC-- 33 00:01:21,951 --> 00:01:24,910 Brought to you by: Ford, Built Ford Proud 34 00:01:24,954 --> 00:01:26,999 Rainbow: Hey, hey. 35 00:01:27,043 --> 00:01:28,392 [ Singsong voice ] 36 00:01:28,436 --> 00:01:29,915 I'm a partner. 37 00:01:29,959 --> 00:01:31,091 Oh, this is perfect. 38 00:01:31,134 --> 00:01:32,614 I'm doing a school photography project 39 00:01:32,657 --> 00:01:33,832 on Black excellence.Oh! 40 00:01:33,876 --> 00:01:35,182 Well, I-I'll give you this photo. 41 00:01:35,225 --> 00:01:36,531 No, no, Mom, I need to take it. 42 00:01:36,574 --> 00:01:37,575 Come on, think. 43 00:01:37,619 --> 00:01:38,750 Mm. 44 00:01:38,794 --> 00:01:40,796 Okay.Oh, look at that. 45 00:01:40,839 --> 00:01:42,363 My wife is Black excellence. 46 00:01:42,406 --> 00:01:44,582 And to think, the streets thought 47 00:01:44,626 --> 00:01:47,150 that Shonda Rhimes invented Black lady doctors. 48 00:01:47,194 --> 00:01:48,630 Well, thank you, 49 00:01:48,673 --> 00:01:52,242 Mr. First Black VP of Stevens & Lido. 50 00:01:52,286 --> 00:01:53,809 That is me. 51 00:01:53,852 --> 00:01:56,594 But it's not just about being called first. 52 00:01:56,638 --> 00:01:59,206 It is important to me to be in a position of power 53 00:01:59,249 --> 00:02:01,599 so that I can blaze a trail 54 00:02:01,643 --> 00:02:04,254 for all of the other Black women. 55 00:02:04,298 --> 00:02:05,777 I wish I was a Black woman 56 00:02:05,821 --> 00:02:07,692 so that you could blaze a trail for me, Mom. 57 00:02:07,736 --> 00:02:08,998 Oh, I wish that, too, honey. 58 00:02:09,041 --> 00:02:10,304 But you know what? 59 00:02:10,347 --> 00:02:12,871 I am starting with Dr. Westbrookin Neurology. 60 00:02:12,915 --> 00:02:15,831 She has sort of become my -- my little protégé. 61 00:02:15,874 --> 00:02:17,354 Wow, Mom. 62 00:02:17,398 --> 00:02:19,965 Just when I think I have reached the peak of Pride Rock, 63 00:02:20,009 --> 00:02:22,446 you do something to lift me up even higher. 64 00:02:22,490 --> 00:02:23,795 Like a beautiful Rafiki. 65 00:02:23,839 --> 00:02:25,362 So, uh [clears throat] 66 00:02:25,406 --> 00:02:28,191 Dr. Westbrook has askedto see me tomorrow. 67 00:02:28,235 --> 00:02:31,107 And...I thinkit's because she knows 68 00:02:31,151 --> 00:02:32,848 that I'm partner now 69 00:02:32,891 --> 00:02:34,676 and I have the juiceto make things happen. 70 00:02:34,719 --> 00:02:36,504 You got the juice now, Bow. 71 00:02:36,547 --> 00:02:38,593 Yeah, Mom is the juiciest. [ Chuckles ] 72 00:02:40,247 --> 00:02:42,814 Maybe you shouldn't say things like that about your mama. 73 00:02:42,858 --> 00:02:45,469 ♪ 74 00:02:45,513 --> 00:02:47,341 Charlie: Should I send Bow's gift to the house 75 00:02:47,384 --> 00:02:49,212 or to her new sexy partner office? 76 00:02:49,256 --> 00:02:50,953 I wanna make sure she gets 77 00:02:50,996 --> 00:02:52,868 my Edible Entanglement Arrangement. 78 00:02:52,911 --> 00:02:54,826 How did you knowthat Bow made partner? 79 00:02:54,870 --> 00:02:56,828 She blocked you on Instagram. 80 00:02:56,872 --> 00:02:59,831 Oh, Dre, you basic, basic bitch. 81 00:02:59,875 --> 00:03:01,181 It's all about the Finstagram. 82 00:03:01,224 --> 00:03:02,834 You know who's not being blocked? 83 00:03:02,878 --> 00:03:05,185 Hm? My Milli Vanilli Stans account. 84 00:03:05,228 --> 00:03:06,447 Okay, look here, Charlie. 85 00:03:06,490 --> 00:03:09,406 While you're out here,committing the IG fraud, 86 00:03:09,450 --> 00:03:11,626 Bow and Iare out making moves. 87 00:03:11,669 --> 00:03:13,758 You can call usMelo and Dame D.O.L.L.A., 88 00:03:13,802 --> 00:03:15,717 because we are blazing trails. 89 00:03:15,760 --> 00:03:17,719 Bow is definitely blazing trails. Mm-hmm. 90 00:03:17,762 --> 00:03:19,634 You're kind of out there with a Zippo lighter 91 00:03:19,677 --> 00:03:21,810 warming up your hands. I'm sorry. 92 00:03:21,853 --> 00:03:24,508 Are you saying that I'm not hereboosting brothers? 93 00:03:24,552 --> 00:03:26,510 Name one thing you done to bring up a Black man around here. 94 00:03:26,554 --> 00:03:28,164 I hired you, Charlie. 95 00:03:28,208 --> 00:03:29,905 Correction -- I won this job fair and square 96 00:03:29,948 --> 00:03:31,385 in a barefoot race with you. 97 00:03:31,428 --> 00:03:32,647 What about my assistant,Curtis? 98 00:03:32,690 --> 00:03:33,822 He quit a year ago. 99 00:03:33,865 --> 00:03:35,127 And his last words to you was, 100 00:03:35,171 --> 00:03:36,999 "Don't forget that letter of recommendation." 101 00:03:37,042 --> 00:03:38,130 What about the brother in the mailroom? 102 00:03:38,174 --> 00:03:39,523 Maurice? Yes. 103 00:03:39,567 --> 00:03:41,482 Stevens hired him after he hit him with his car. 104 00:03:41,525 --> 00:03:44,006 So even Stevens is bringing up more brothers than you. 105 00:03:44,049 --> 00:03:45,921 Okay, Charlie, why are youcoming for me, man? 106 00:03:45,964 --> 00:03:47,705 It's not like you're doing any better. 107 00:03:47,749 --> 00:03:49,446 [ Chuckling ] Au contraire. 108 00:03:49,490 --> 00:03:51,709 I've been a member of Black Ad Men, or BlAd Men, 109 00:03:51,753 --> 00:03:53,320 for six years. 110 00:03:53,363 --> 00:03:56,236 We organize professional networking events and mixers, 111 00:03:56,279 --> 00:03:58,542 not to mention community outreach. 112 00:03:58,586 --> 00:04:00,414 You have to be kidding. 113 00:04:00,457 --> 00:04:03,243 Shaping a Black man's future is nothing to joke about, Dre. 114 00:04:03,286 --> 00:04:04,635 You just don't become 115 00:04:04,679 --> 00:04:07,334 Nubian Gold Texturizing Crème 2019 Community King 116 00:04:07,377 --> 00:04:08,987 without taking it serious. 117 00:04:09,031 --> 00:04:11,903 ♪ 118 00:04:11,947 --> 00:04:13,427 Okay,you know what, Charlie? 119 00:04:13,470 --> 00:04:15,429 You may have your little group,but I have real power. 120 00:04:15,472 --> 00:04:16,604 Watch this. Stevens! 121 00:04:16,647 --> 00:04:17,953 Yeah? 122 00:04:17,996 --> 00:04:19,520 You know, I think it's time that we hire 123 00:04:19,563 --> 00:04:20,912 another Black ad exec-- 124 00:04:20,956 --> 00:04:22,262 Absolutely! You know what? 125 00:04:22,305 --> 00:04:23,959 A-As soon and as publicly as possible. 126 00:04:24,002 --> 00:04:25,308 Because between you guys, 127 00:04:25,352 --> 00:04:26,788 I am in a little bit of hot water 128 00:04:26,831 --> 00:04:29,051 with the P.O.C.s because I... 129 00:04:29,094 --> 00:04:32,228 well, just to be honest, I-I-I ran over another one. 130 00:04:32,272 --> 00:04:34,752 Ooh. That is yummy. 131 00:04:34,796 --> 00:04:37,668 Just like that, Dre is back in the game. 132 00:04:37,712 --> 00:04:39,235 Jack: Oh, yeah. That's it. 133 00:04:39,279 --> 00:04:40,976 That's it. Pretend I'm not even here. 134 00:04:41,019 --> 00:04:43,413 Girl, I can't get enoughof your picture 135 00:04:43,457 --> 00:04:45,415 up onthe hospital partners wall.♪ Hey, hey 136 00:04:45,459 --> 00:04:47,548 You better be feeling yourselfright now. [ Laughs ] 137 00:04:47,591 --> 00:04:51,247 Knowing that my work is gonna make a difference for you 138 00:04:51,291 --> 00:04:53,031 is what makes it worth it. 139 00:04:53,075 --> 00:04:55,077 Mm. You're gonna be the second 140 00:04:55,120 --> 00:04:58,210 Black female partner in this hospital. 141 00:04:58,254 --> 00:05:00,256 I mean, look, it's not first, alright, 142 00:05:00,300 --> 00:05:03,346 but second -- Huh? -- that's pretty good. 143 00:05:03,390 --> 00:05:04,652 [ Laughs ] 144 00:05:04,695 --> 00:05:07,219 We are gonna take this place over together. 145 00:05:07,263 --> 00:05:08,656 Together? 146 00:05:08,699 --> 00:05:10,440 Yeah, I got a seat at the table 147 00:05:10,484 --> 00:05:11,833 and now I've been saving one for you. 148 00:05:11,876 --> 00:05:12,877 Bow. Bow. 149 00:05:12,921 --> 00:05:14,618 Yeah. Listen. 150 00:05:14,662 --> 00:05:15,793 This is so awesome for you. 151 00:05:15,837 --> 00:05:17,360 I know! Isn't it so exciting? 152 00:05:17,404 --> 00:05:20,276 I don't want to take away from your moment. 153 00:05:20,320 --> 00:05:22,278 But I'm not interested in becoming a partner. 154 00:05:22,322 --> 00:05:24,802 Wait. What? I don't understand. 155 00:05:24,846 --> 00:05:27,239 You said that I was goals. 156 00:05:27,283 --> 00:05:29,154 You are goals. Okay. 157 00:05:29,198 --> 00:05:30,199 Just not my goals. 158 00:05:30,242 --> 00:05:31,635 I should have been more specific. 159 00:05:31,679 --> 00:05:34,856 Uh, look, I've been watching you on this journey 160 00:05:34,899 --> 00:05:36,423 and it's gonna be a no for me. 161 00:05:36,466 --> 00:05:38,033 Congratulations again, girl. 162 00:05:38,076 --> 00:05:39,164 [ Chuckles ] 163 00:05:39,208 --> 00:05:40,905 But I-I was -- I was doing this for us! 164 00:05:40,949 --> 00:05:42,603 I don't like anybody else here! 165 00:05:42,646 --> 00:05:43,908 [ Camera shutter clicking ] 166 00:05:43,952 --> 00:05:46,476 Okay. Okay. 167 00:05:46,520 --> 00:05:47,825 Say, "Black excellence"! 168 00:05:51,307 --> 00:05:53,265 Can you believe that Crystal 169 00:05:53,309 --> 00:05:55,311 has been thinking about this for a long time? 170 00:05:55,355 --> 00:05:57,966 How am I supposed to make a difference 171 00:05:58,009 --> 00:05:59,881 in the lives of Black women 172 00:05:59,924 --> 00:06:02,100 when the woman that I am mentoring 173 00:06:02,144 --> 00:06:04,320 doesn't want to follow in my footsteps? 174 00:06:04,364 --> 00:06:06,453 I'll follow in your footsteps, Mom. Just hand me your shoes. 175 00:06:06,496 --> 00:06:09,107 I-I know you're trying, sweetie. But just let her talk. 176 00:06:09,151 --> 00:06:12,197 Do you know that she wants to move hospitals -- Mm-hmm -- 177 00:06:12,241 --> 00:06:14,199 so that she can be near her aging mom? 178 00:06:14,243 --> 00:06:16,332 How do you think that makes me feel? 179 00:06:16,376 --> 00:06:17,594 Huh? 180 00:06:17,638 --> 00:06:19,335 I have been tolerating these White doctors 181 00:06:19,379 --> 00:06:21,816 calling me "Dr. Girl" for all those years -- What?Okay. 182 00:06:21,859 --> 00:06:23,121 So she can just kick back 183 00:06:23,165 --> 00:06:24,601 and watch "Judge Judy" with her mom? 184 00:06:24,645 --> 00:06:25,733 Oh, really? 185 00:06:25,776 --> 00:06:27,082 What was all of this for? 186 00:06:27,125 --> 00:06:28,649 Okay, babe, maybe you just need 187 00:06:28,692 --> 00:06:30,694 to re-up your game plan.Oh, come on. 188 00:06:30,738 --> 00:06:32,043 Yeah. 189 00:06:32,087 --> 00:06:33,436 Like today, I heard this inspiring story 190 00:06:33,480 --> 00:06:34,916 about a guy who had been sleeping on 191 00:06:34,959 --> 00:06:36,178 helping brothers at work. 192 00:06:36,221 --> 00:06:37,962 But you can't fault him, you know, 193 00:06:38,006 --> 00:06:40,182 his life is probably full, got a big family, you know, 194 00:06:40,225 --> 00:06:42,053 and him starting the second season of "The Sopranos." 195 00:06:42,097 --> 00:06:44,186 You know, but he recommitted himself 196 00:06:44,229 --> 00:06:45,361 to helping those brothers. 197 00:06:45,405 --> 00:06:47,015 And because of that, 198 00:06:47,058 --> 00:06:49,844 Stevens & Lido is now hiring a new Black ad exec. 199 00:06:49,887 --> 00:06:50,975 Mm-hmm. 200 00:06:51,019 --> 00:06:52,324 Dad, was that story about you? 201 00:06:52,368 --> 00:06:54,239 No, I'm pretty sure it was about Curtis. 202 00:06:54,283 --> 00:06:55,502 But he did that. 203 00:06:55,545 --> 00:06:57,112 And you can, too, babe. 204 00:06:57,155 --> 00:06:58,243 Maybe you're right. 205 00:06:58,287 --> 00:06:59,462 Mm-hmm. Yeah. 206 00:06:59,506 --> 00:07:01,290 Because you know what? 207 00:07:01,333 --> 00:07:03,640 No one knows how hard it is 208 00:07:03,684 --> 00:07:06,208 for a Black woman in medicine like I do, 209 00:07:06,251 --> 00:07:08,993 and because of that, I am not gonna give up. 210 00:07:09,037 --> 00:07:10,473 That's my wife. 211 00:07:10,517 --> 00:07:13,302 I am proud of you, baby. Aww! 212 00:07:13,345 --> 00:07:15,130 Proud of our baby, too. 213 00:07:15,173 --> 00:07:16,479 Aww! 214 00:07:16,523 --> 00:07:18,002 Hey, are you cool with this? 215 00:07:18,046 --> 00:07:19,526 Huh? 216 00:07:19,569 --> 00:07:21,179 Uh, I-I'm sorry.I'm just... Yeah, sorry. 217 00:07:21,223 --> 00:07:23,094 It's okay....looking at Psych grad schools. 218 00:07:23,138 --> 00:07:25,314 And there are just so many things to consider. 219 00:07:25,357 --> 00:07:27,664 Hmm.I don't know how you did it, Dr. Johnson. 220 00:07:27,708 --> 00:07:29,318 Well, listen, sweetheart, 221 00:07:29,361 --> 00:07:31,276 they are gonna pressure you to go with the big-name school, 222 00:07:31,320 --> 00:07:32,669 but that's not what it's all about. 223 00:07:32,713 --> 00:07:33,931 You want to find a place 224 00:07:33,975 --> 00:07:35,280 that has a culture that you can thrive in. 225 00:07:35,324 --> 00:07:36,281 Let me see this. 226 00:07:36,325 --> 00:07:37,892 Ooh, well, you might not want 227 00:07:37,935 --> 00:07:40,503 to pick a school in the Caribbean. Oh. 228 00:07:40,547 --> 00:07:42,679 You know, if you can get a tan in the classroom, 229 00:07:42,723 --> 00:07:43,854 you ain't gonna get a job. 230 00:07:43,898 --> 00:07:45,508 Oh, wow. Mm-hmm. 231 00:07:45,552 --> 00:07:46,683 Well, that's super helpful. 232 00:07:46,727 --> 00:07:48,250 Yeah. You see that, babe? 233 00:07:48,293 --> 00:07:50,121 One mentee walks out the door, 234 00:07:50,165 --> 00:07:52,297 and another one climbs through the window. 235 00:07:52,341 --> 00:07:53,821 Mm-hmm. 236 00:07:53,864 --> 00:07:55,605 Look at you two bonding. 237 00:07:55,649 --> 00:07:57,041 Huh. Might have to up 238 00:07:57,085 --> 00:07:58,608 that Valentine's reservation to three, right? 239 00:07:58,652 --> 00:08:00,131 Rainbow: Aww, sweetheart. 240 00:08:00,175 --> 00:08:02,699 Son, when are you gonna stop flirting with my wife? 241 00:08:03,831 --> 00:08:08,400 I helped Bow get back on track, but now it was my turn. 242 00:08:08,444 --> 00:08:12,361 They say you can judge an adman by the width of his Rolodex, 243 00:08:12,404 --> 00:08:16,496 and mine was so thick that Drake was sliding into its DMs. 244 00:08:16,539 --> 00:08:18,019 Hey, Virgil! 245 00:08:18,062 --> 00:08:19,803 I have a job opportunity for you... 246 00:08:19,847 --> 00:08:22,676 Oh, you're out of the advertising business now? 247 00:08:22,719 --> 00:08:25,417 Hey. Is this Urbana Creative Agency? 248 00:08:25,461 --> 00:08:26,810 Folded? 249 00:08:26,854 --> 00:08:28,551 It's Dre. 250 00:08:28,595 --> 00:08:32,033 Okay, well, if I need a manny, I know who to call. 251 00:08:32,076 --> 00:08:33,556 But I won't. 252 00:08:33,600 --> 00:08:35,427 Yeah. May I speak with Damian Horford, please? 253 00:08:35,471 --> 00:08:36,820 He moved on? 254 00:08:36,864 --> 00:08:38,430 Okay, well, do you have his number? 255 00:08:38,474 --> 00:08:42,086 Oh...he's dead. 256 00:08:42,130 --> 00:08:44,175 Hm. 257 00:08:44,219 --> 00:08:46,438 [ Gasps ] What about you, are you Black? 258 00:08:46,482 --> 00:08:47,309 [ Dial tone ] 259 00:08:47,352 --> 00:08:48,919 [ Sighs ] 260 00:08:48,963 --> 00:08:50,530 Man, why the hell 261 00:08:50,573 --> 00:08:52,009 are we always out of Hot Cheddar Puffs? 262 00:08:53,576 --> 00:08:55,578 I have no knowledge of that. 263 00:08:55,622 --> 00:08:57,885 You know, I'm -- I'm -- I'm sorry, Charlie, man. 264 00:08:57,928 --> 00:09:00,714 I'm -- I'm just having a Black identity crisis. 265 00:09:00,757 --> 00:09:02,019 Oh, I hate when them come. 266 00:09:02,063 --> 00:09:04,674 Man, I've called 15 Black ad execs 267 00:09:04,718 --> 00:09:06,676 and all of them are either now retired, 268 00:09:06,720 --> 00:09:08,460 out of the business, or dead. 269 00:09:08,504 --> 00:09:09,897 Hmm. 270 00:09:09,940 --> 00:09:11,333 It's kind of hard to come back from the dead. 271 00:09:11,376 --> 00:09:13,030 But not impossible. 272 00:09:13,074 --> 00:09:14,771 If you don't mind driving to Arleta, 273 00:09:14,815 --> 00:09:16,730 I happen to know a reputable necromancer. 274 00:09:16,773 --> 00:09:18,079 Oh, wait a minute. Does he still work there? 275 00:09:18,122 --> 00:09:19,210 I think he's there. 276 00:09:19,254 --> 00:09:21,299 I-I think he still works there. 277 00:09:21,343 --> 00:09:24,302 I can't believe that I've fallen this hard, man. 278 00:09:24,346 --> 00:09:26,304 I used to have my fingers on the pulse, 279 00:09:26,348 --> 00:09:27,784 and now I can't even get one person 280 00:09:27,828 --> 00:09:29,264 to line up for an interview. 281 00:09:29,307 --> 00:09:32,136 You know who has all 10 fingers on the Black pulse? 282 00:09:32,180 --> 00:09:33,268 Charlie. 283 00:09:33,311 --> 00:09:35,487 Let Brother Telphy help you out, Dre. 284 00:09:35,531 --> 00:09:36,750 My man Darren T. Gibson -- 285 00:09:36,793 --> 00:09:38,621 he's a great guy, more than qualified. 286 00:09:38,665 --> 00:09:40,275 He can be here this afternoon. 287 00:09:40,318 --> 00:09:42,233 Hey, I-I'd love to meet your guy, Charlie. 288 00:09:42,277 --> 00:09:44,061 This is what I do, baby. 289 00:09:44,105 --> 00:09:45,715 ♪ 290 00:09:45,759 --> 00:09:48,283 I-It's all good. It's seeped in my pores. 291 00:09:48,326 --> 00:09:51,286 ♪ 292 00:09:51,329 --> 00:09:53,288 Oh, I'm so glad he didn't touch 'em. 293 00:09:53,331 --> 00:09:57,205 ♪ 294 00:09:57,248 --> 00:09:59,816 I'm so grateful that you have time to talk. 295 00:09:59,860 --> 00:10:01,470 Oh, gosh.Planning for my future 296 00:10:01,513 --> 00:10:03,080 is really, really daunting. 297 00:10:03,124 --> 00:10:04,604 I get it. 298 00:10:04,647 --> 00:10:06,997 God, I wish I had someone I could have gotten advice from 299 00:10:07,041 --> 00:10:08,433 when I was in your shoes. 300 00:10:08,477 --> 00:10:09,957 Mm-hmm. Oh, speaking of shoes. 301 00:10:10,000 --> 00:10:13,656 You should get yourself some golf spikes. 302 00:10:13,700 --> 00:10:15,310 Okay. 303 00:10:15,353 --> 00:10:16,659 I didn't know I was talking to Miss Tigress Woods here. 304 00:10:16,703 --> 00:10:18,313 Junior never mentioned you like golf. 305 00:10:18,356 --> 00:10:19,749 Oh, I don't like golf at all. 306 00:10:19,793 --> 00:10:20,750 Oh. Not at all. 307 00:10:20,794 --> 00:10:22,491 Not the bugs, not the skorts, 308 00:10:22,534 --> 00:10:25,189 not the people asking me which NBA player's wife I am. 309 00:10:25,233 --> 00:10:27,148 But I had to learn when I was in med school 310 00:10:27,191 --> 00:10:29,454 so that I could get into my professors' 311 00:10:29,498 --> 00:10:30,717 "Good Old Boys Club." 312 00:10:30,760 --> 00:10:32,327 Mm. That was the only way to have access 313 00:10:32,370 --> 00:10:34,155 to the big surgeries. Mm. 314 00:10:34,198 --> 00:10:36,940 So you got to make their interests your interests. 315 00:10:36,984 --> 00:10:38,246 Okay. Makes sense. Mm-hmm. 316 00:10:38,289 --> 00:10:40,117 Also, you need to make sure that your penmanship 317 00:10:40,161 --> 00:10:42,119 and your grammar are on point. 318 00:10:42,163 --> 00:10:43,947 They really care about that? Yes. 319 00:10:43,991 --> 00:10:45,296 When I was in residency... 320 00:10:45,340 --> 00:10:46,733 Mm-hmm. 321 00:10:46,776 --> 00:10:50,127 ...I misspelled Neuroleptanalgesia on a chart 322 00:10:50,171 --> 00:10:52,086 and a doctor said to me, 323 00:10:52,129 --> 00:10:55,219 "[ Chuckles ] We don't speak 'Ebonics' here." 324 00:10:55,263 --> 00:10:56,612 [ Laughs ] 325 00:10:56,656 --> 00:10:58,527 Needless to say, I never misspelled that word again. 326 00:10:58,570 --> 00:11:00,050 Like, never. [ Laughs ] 327 00:11:00,094 --> 00:11:02,749 Oh, here's something really sweet and lovely 328 00:11:02,792 --> 00:11:03,793 that you can do. 329 00:11:03,837 --> 00:11:05,099 Okay. 330 00:11:05,142 --> 00:11:06,622 On your first day of grad school, 331 00:11:06,666 --> 00:11:07,928 write yourself a letter 332 00:11:07,971 --> 00:11:09,886 about why you decided to get into medicine. 333 00:11:09,930 --> 00:11:12,410 It'll be like your "Keep Going!" letter. 334 00:11:13,890 --> 00:11:15,370 W-Well, there were times 335 00:11:15,413 --> 00:11:16,676 where you felt like you couldn't keep going? 336 00:11:16,719 --> 00:11:18,852 Oh, my God, yes. Wow. 337 00:11:18,895 --> 00:11:21,028 [ Chuckling ] All the time. 338 00:11:21,071 --> 00:11:23,378 I just kept my head down and did my work, 339 00:11:23,421 --> 00:11:24,771 and I read that letter every day. 340 00:11:24,814 --> 00:11:26,120 And sometimes there were so many tears on it 341 00:11:26,163 --> 00:11:27,295 that I'd have to rewrite it, 342 00:11:27,338 --> 00:11:29,514 but at that point, I knew it by heart. 343 00:11:29,558 --> 00:11:32,082 God. I still remember it. 344 00:11:32,126 --> 00:11:33,344 Hm. 345 00:11:33,388 --> 00:11:38,088 "Dear Rainbow, you are a strong queen 346 00:11:38,132 --> 00:11:40,482 who has dedicated your life to helping others. 347 00:11:40,525 --> 00:11:44,442 And when no one else loves you, I love you. 348 00:11:44,486 --> 00:11:47,794 So in the words of Harriet Tubman, 349 00:11:47,837 --> 00:11:51,188 'If you hear the dogs, keep going. 350 00:11:51,232 --> 00:11:56,324 If you see the torches in the woods, keep going...'" 351 00:11:56,367 --> 00:11:57,891 Isn't that lovely? 352 00:11:57,934 --> 00:12:00,720 Uh...whew! 353 00:12:00,763 --> 00:12:02,156 It's something. Right? 354 00:12:02,199 --> 00:12:04,071 Uh-huh. 355 00:12:04,114 --> 00:12:08,379 So I was interviewing Charlie's BlAd boy Darren T. Gibson, 356 00:12:08,423 --> 00:12:10,120 and I figured I'd give Stevens 357 00:12:10,164 --> 00:12:12,209 a courtesy heads-up about the meeting. 358 00:12:12,253 --> 00:12:13,863 Actually, I've met Darren before. 359 00:12:13,907 --> 00:12:15,343 We were on a Men in Advertising panel 360 00:12:15,386 --> 00:12:16,431 a couple years back. 361 00:12:16,474 --> 00:12:17,867 Really? Yeah. 362 00:12:17,911 --> 00:12:21,001 I found him, um, kind of difficult. 363 00:12:21,044 --> 00:12:23,699 But, okay, it's, uh, your pick, your judgment. 364 00:12:23,743 --> 00:12:24,874 I trust you. 365 00:12:24,918 --> 00:12:27,747 Difficult? 366 00:12:27,790 --> 00:12:29,487 Huh. 367 00:12:29,531 --> 00:12:32,142 Darren. 368 00:12:32,186 --> 00:12:33,840 Right now I'm a VP at Essence Nation, 369 00:12:33,883 --> 00:12:35,493 leading some really exciting campaigns. 370 00:12:35,537 --> 00:12:36,625 Yeah, that's cool. 371 00:12:36,668 --> 00:12:37,974 But I also see here 372 00:12:38,018 --> 00:12:41,369 that you only spent five months at Chiat/Day. 373 00:12:41,412 --> 00:12:43,153 What happened here? 374 00:12:43,197 --> 00:12:44,459 Essence Nation was closer to home. 375 00:12:44,502 --> 00:12:46,069 My wife -- she just had a baby, 376 00:12:46,113 --> 00:12:48,680 so it was a blessing being able to cut that commute down. 377 00:12:48,724 --> 00:12:50,204 Yeah, but still... 378 00:12:50,247 --> 00:12:52,380 I'm surprised that you would leave one of the big dogs 379 00:12:52,423 --> 00:12:54,338 to go to a small firm. 380 00:12:54,382 --> 00:12:56,166 You know how it is for us at those big firms, 381 00:12:56,210 --> 00:12:57,515 it's not always better. 382 00:12:57,559 --> 00:12:59,822 But at Essence Nation, I'm working on campaigns 383 00:12:59,866 --> 00:13:01,519 on a level I had never done before. 384 00:13:01,563 --> 00:13:04,740 Well, what are we talking, gas station ads? 385 00:13:04,784 --> 00:13:07,656 Actually, it was the Kaiser Permanente campaign 386 00:13:07,699 --> 00:13:08,831 with Regina King. 387 00:13:08,875 --> 00:13:09,832 You did that? [ Chuckles ] 388 00:13:09,876 --> 00:13:11,355 Hey, how did I not know that? 389 00:13:11,399 --> 00:13:13,880 Man, you are the reason that I'm drinking more water. 390 00:13:13,923 --> 00:13:15,795 Ah, you know, there's -- there's a lot of campaigns. 391 00:13:15,838 --> 00:13:16,883 Hard to keep track of them all. 392 00:13:16,926 --> 00:13:18,058 No, I should know 393 00:13:18,101 --> 00:13:19,929 what my fellow Black ad execs are doing. 394 00:13:19,973 --> 00:13:22,714 You know, what is happening to me? 395 00:13:22,758 --> 00:13:24,499 You know, one ding on you from the White man 396 00:13:24,542 --> 00:13:26,762 and I was convinced that I shouldn't give you this job. 397 00:13:26,806 --> 00:13:28,503 Hell, you were here 15 minutes early 398 00:13:28,546 --> 00:13:30,810 and I judged you for having that kind of free time. 399 00:13:30,853 --> 00:13:31,811 Excuse me? 400 00:13:31,854 --> 00:13:33,116 I was scrutinizing you more 401 00:13:33,160 --> 00:13:35,423 because I assumed you only did commercials 402 00:13:35,466 --> 00:13:37,120 where they rap about McNuggets. 403 00:13:37,164 --> 00:13:39,644 It's no wonder I don't know any Black execs, 404 00:13:39,688 --> 00:13:41,559 hell, I'm too busy second-guessing 405 00:13:41,603 --> 00:13:42,909 whether they deserve to be here. 406 00:13:42,952 --> 00:13:44,562 You know what? 407 00:13:44,606 --> 00:13:45,912 That's gonna stop today. 408 00:13:45,955 --> 00:13:48,828 Brother, this job is yours. 409 00:13:48,871 --> 00:13:51,134 I would love to have you on the team. 410 00:13:51,178 --> 00:13:53,180 Actually... 411 00:13:53,223 --> 00:13:55,530 I think I'm gonna stay at the rapping nugget place, 412 00:13:55,573 --> 00:13:56,792 but thank you. 413 00:13:56,836 --> 00:13:58,533 Oh, hey, hey, Darren. 414 00:13:58,576 --> 00:14:00,622 Wait. Wait a minute, bro. 415 00:14:00,665 --> 00:14:03,799 Do you know what four brothers could do at this place? 416 00:14:03,843 --> 00:14:05,105 [ Camera shutter clicks ] 417 00:14:05,148 --> 00:14:06,715 Ooh. 418 00:14:06,758 --> 00:14:09,849 I probably shouldn't have been in here for that. Ah. 419 00:14:09,892 --> 00:14:12,764 [ Camera shutter clicks ] While I was letting a Black protégé 420 00:14:12,808 --> 00:14:15,202 slip through my fingers at work like sand, 421 00:14:15,245 --> 00:14:18,945 Bow was trying to pressure one into a doctor diamond. 422 00:14:18,988 --> 00:14:21,295 I found the letter that I was telling you about. 423 00:14:21,338 --> 00:14:22,731 That's it. 424 00:14:22,774 --> 00:14:25,168 And, also, I remembered another med school story 425 00:14:25,212 --> 00:14:26,256 about perseverance. 426 00:14:26,300 --> 00:14:27,910 It was my birthday 427 00:14:27,954 --> 00:14:31,000 and the chief resident had just told me 428 00:14:31,044 --> 00:14:34,395 that my gorgeous braids were unprofessional and they -- 429 00:14:34,438 --> 00:14:36,440 Okay, Dr. Johnson, can we have a heart to heart? 430 00:14:36,484 --> 00:14:37,964 Ooh. Ah, yes, please. 431 00:14:38,007 --> 00:14:40,140 You're telling me all these stories 432 00:14:40,183 --> 00:14:41,837 like they're funny, fond memories... 433 00:14:41,881 --> 00:14:43,578 Uh-huh....but they're horrible. 434 00:14:43,621 --> 00:14:45,536 Oh, no. 435 00:14:45,580 --> 00:14:46,624 No. It's just from a different time. 436 00:14:46,668 --> 00:14:47,930 You don't get it. 437 00:14:47,974 --> 00:14:51,586 That is textbook minimizing, Dr. Johnson. 438 00:14:51,629 --> 00:14:53,936 You needed that defense mechanism 439 00:14:53,980 --> 00:14:56,156 to get you through years of abuse. 440 00:14:56,199 --> 00:14:57,157 Abu-- 441 00:14:57,200 --> 00:15:00,812 [ Laughing ] This was not abuse. 442 00:15:00,856 --> 00:15:02,902 It was character-building. 443 00:15:02,945 --> 00:15:05,992 It's why I'm the strong woman that I am today. 444 00:15:06,035 --> 00:15:07,776 You shouldn't have to beat a person down 445 00:15:07,819 --> 00:15:09,778 to make them strong. W-- 446 00:15:09,821 --> 00:15:12,346 O-On the other hand, tough love works. 447 00:15:12,389 --> 00:15:14,522 [ Chuckling ] You know, my dad has been rough on me 448 00:15:14,565 --> 00:15:15,740 and I'm great. 449 00:15:15,784 --> 00:15:17,003 Right? 450 00:15:17,046 --> 00:15:18,961 You've had to put up with a lot of crap 451 00:15:19,005 --> 00:15:20,484 to get to where you are, Dr. Johnson... 452 00:15:20,528 --> 00:15:22,269 Yeah. 453 00:15:22,312 --> 00:15:23,487 ...but you shouldn't have had to. 454 00:15:23,531 --> 00:15:25,359 Come on. 455 00:15:25,402 --> 00:15:28,144 If I hadn't, then it would have been worse 456 00:15:28,188 --> 00:15:30,364 for all of the Black women that came behind me. 457 00:15:30,407 --> 00:15:32,714 Don't you ever wonder who you could have been 458 00:15:32,757 --> 00:15:35,325 if you didn't have to also fight this other fight? 459 00:15:35,369 --> 00:15:37,588 No, they were justtrying to -- Dr. Johnson. 460 00:15:37,632 --> 00:15:39,590 Okay, if the -- Rainbow. 461 00:15:39,634 --> 00:15:41,984 Okay. [ Chuckles ] 462 00:15:45,422 --> 00:15:47,990 Oh. 463 00:15:48,034 --> 00:15:50,775 [ Sighs ] 464 00:15:50,819 --> 00:15:53,387 Oh, my God. 465 00:15:53,430 --> 00:15:54,431 [ Oven timer dinging ] 466 00:15:54,475 --> 00:15:55,693 Oooh, the pizza rolls are ready! 467 00:15:55,737 --> 00:15:58,348 Why did you do that? 468 00:15:58,392 --> 00:16:00,524 You could have been her favorite daughter. 469 00:16:00,568 --> 00:16:02,048 No, no, no, it's -- it's okay. 470 00:16:02,091 --> 00:16:04,572 I'll just -- I'm gonna -- I'm gonna read my letter. 471 00:16:04,615 --> 00:16:05,312 Okay. [ Chuckles ] 472 00:16:05,355 --> 00:16:06,574 Yes. 473 00:16:06,617 --> 00:16:09,098 [ Breathing shakily ] 474 00:16:09,142 --> 00:16:11,013 [ Whimpers ] 475 00:16:11,057 --> 00:16:13,015 Tears are coming. I'm gonna -- Okay. 476 00:16:13,059 --> 00:16:14,625 [ Whimpers ] You go -- Yeah, take -- 477 00:16:14,669 --> 00:16:15,844 No, take -- Do you. 478 00:16:15,887 --> 00:16:16,758 Take your time.[ Whimpers ] 479 00:16:19,979 --> 00:16:21,458 [ Sighs ] Rainbow: Hi. 480 00:16:21,502 --> 00:16:23,547 Hey, babe. 481 00:16:23,591 --> 00:16:25,941 Did you know 482 00:16:25,985 --> 00:16:29,205 that when Jackie Robinson retired from baseball, 483 00:16:29,249 --> 00:16:31,338 that it was only 6% Black? 484 00:16:31,381 --> 00:16:33,818 And that it's only 7% Black today. 485 00:16:33,862 --> 00:16:36,169 I thought we blocked Wikipedia 486 00:16:36,212 --> 00:16:38,780 when Diane kept changing Michael B. Jordan's page 487 00:16:38,823 --> 00:16:40,564 to "Married to Diane Johnson."Yes, yes, yes, yes, yes. 488 00:16:40,608 --> 00:16:42,131 "Back off heifers."I remember. 489 00:16:42,175 --> 00:16:43,567 Okay. [ Clears throat ] 490 00:16:43,611 --> 00:16:47,528 Jackie Robinson died at 54. 491 00:16:47,571 --> 00:16:49,356 I know. And for what? 492 00:16:49,399 --> 00:16:51,445 So he could get a couple more Black players in the league? 493 00:16:51,488 --> 00:16:54,274 Can you imagine what he could have done, Dre, 494 00:16:54,317 --> 00:16:57,146 if he hadn't been so focused on breaking barriers? 495 00:16:57,190 --> 00:17:00,410 Can you imagine what Icould've done? 496 00:17:00,454 --> 00:17:02,847 I could be Dr. Rainbow Johnson Poet Laureate 497 00:17:02,891 --> 00:17:06,329 or Professor of Chicano Studies. 498 00:17:06,373 --> 00:17:08,157 You know how I love that. 499 00:17:09,767 --> 00:17:11,030 Well, I had the chance 500 00:17:11,073 --> 00:17:13,423 to give a qualified Black man a job today, 501 00:17:13,467 --> 00:17:15,947 and I almost didn't because Stevens made a face. 502 00:17:15,991 --> 00:17:17,297 Hmm? 503 00:17:17,340 --> 00:17:20,213 Babe, there's so few of us at the table 504 00:17:20,256 --> 00:17:23,607 that I felt that I needed a White co-sign. 505 00:17:23,651 --> 00:17:25,131 That's how the system is set up. 506 00:17:25,174 --> 00:17:26,741 You know, sometimes, being the first -- 507 00:17:26,784 --> 00:17:29,526 it feels like the weight of the world is on our shoulders. 508 00:17:29,570 --> 00:17:31,050 Oh. It does. 509 00:17:31,093 --> 00:17:36,142 We're conditioned to work 10 times harder to succeed. 510 00:17:36,185 --> 00:17:40,276 But is it all worth it for 6%? 511 00:17:40,320 --> 00:17:43,149 You know... maybe Jackie Robinson 512 00:17:43,192 --> 00:17:45,977 only made baseball a little Blacker... 513 00:17:46,021 --> 00:17:48,589 Mm. ...but his sacrifices were felt 514 00:17:48,632 --> 00:17:50,765 throughout sports and the world. 515 00:17:50,808 --> 00:17:51,983 Yeah. 516 00:17:52,027 --> 00:17:54,595 You know, maybe a person's impact 517 00:17:54,638 --> 00:17:57,598 can't always be broken down into numbers. 518 00:17:57,641 --> 00:17:59,991 Mm. That's right. 519 00:18:00,035 --> 00:18:01,428 Mm-hmm. 520 00:18:01,471 --> 00:18:03,169 Got to keep pushing. 521 00:18:03,212 --> 00:18:04,387 Yep. 522 00:18:04,431 --> 00:18:06,041 But I'm tired, though. 523 00:18:06,085 --> 00:18:08,957 Babe, well, put the torch down. 524 00:18:09,000 --> 00:18:10,001 Alright? 525 00:18:10,045 --> 00:18:11,916 This burden has to be shared, 526 00:18:11,960 --> 00:18:14,615 by your Black colleagues and your White colleagues. 527 00:18:14,658 --> 00:18:16,399 You'll be able to pick it up again, 528 00:18:16,443 --> 00:18:17,922 but let them have a turn. 529 00:18:19,924 --> 00:18:21,404 Maybe you're right. 530 00:18:21,448 --> 00:18:23,406 Mm-hmm. 531 00:18:23,450 --> 00:18:25,234 I'm not even sure 532 00:18:25,278 --> 00:18:27,236 I know how to put down the torch at this point. 533 00:18:27,280 --> 00:18:28,629 Hey. 534 00:18:30,021 --> 00:18:32,372 There's a first time for everything. 535 00:18:32,415 --> 00:18:33,460 Thanks, honey. 536 00:18:33,503 --> 00:18:34,852 You're welcome. 537 00:18:34,896 --> 00:18:37,681 Bow and I may have been down for a minute, 538 00:18:37,725 --> 00:18:40,162 but we were never out.[ Sighs ] 539 00:18:40,206 --> 00:18:42,033 Bow took the time to think about it 540 00:18:42,077 --> 00:18:44,732 and realized it shouldn't all be on her. 541 00:18:44,775 --> 00:18:45,994 Hey, Dr. Windsor. 542 00:18:46,037 --> 00:18:48,475 Diversity is a team sport. 543 00:18:48,518 --> 00:18:50,955 I'd love to talk to you about the diversity initiative. 544 00:18:50,999 --> 00:18:52,000 Oh, yeah. 545 00:18:52,043 --> 00:18:53,393 I saw that you were heading that up 546 00:18:53,436 --> 00:18:55,612 with, uh, Dr. Gutierrez and Dr. Patel 547 00:18:55,656 --> 00:18:56,700 and Dr. Running Water, right? 548 00:18:56,744 --> 00:18:58,441 Yeah, I was heading that up. 549 00:18:58,485 --> 00:19:00,443 But [clicks tongue] can't take that on right now. 550 00:19:00,487 --> 00:19:01,836 Oh. 551 00:19:01,879 --> 00:19:03,316 Well, I'm sure diversity will be there for you 552 00:19:03,359 --> 00:19:04,882 when you're ready.Oh, no, no, no, no, no. 553 00:19:04,926 --> 00:19:07,320 I'm saying that otherpeople can lead the charge. 554 00:19:07,363 --> 00:19:09,974 Youcare about diversity, right? 555 00:19:10,018 --> 00:19:11,150 Of course. Yeah? 556 00:19:11,193 --> 00:19:12,586 Why? What have you heard? 557 00:19:12,629 --> 00:19:14,196 Well, congratulations. 558 00:19:14,240 --> 00:19:15,328 Hm? 559 00:19:15,371 --> 00:19:17,721 You are the man for the job, Dr. Windsor. 560 00:19:17,765 --> 00:19:19,810 Wait, what are you doing?I'm handing the torch over to you. 561 00:19:19,854 --> 00:19:21,769 You can pass out those fliers. 562 00:19:21,812 --> 00:19:24,815 And if I see them in the garbage can, 563 00:19:24,859 --> 00:19:26,730 then I'm gonna set your car on fire. 564 00:19:26,774 --> 00:19:28,341 [ Chuckles ] [ Giggles ] 565 00:19:28,384 --> 00:19:29,777 Oh, my goodness. [ Imitates whooshing flames ] 566 00:19:29,820 --> 00:19:32,171 Really? Yeah. 567 00:19:32,214 --> 00:19:35,043 For me, I made sure my relationships 568 00:19:35,086 --> 00:19:37,176 with other Black admen were good, 569 00:19:37,219 --> 00:19:38,699 starting with Darren. 570 00:19:38,742 --> 00:19:40,266 Look, man, I appreciate the opportunity, 571 00:19:40,309 --> 00:19:42,746 I just -- I can't accept the job. 572 00:19:42,790 --> 00:19:44,400 Bro, I'm not here to beg, 573 00:19:44,444 --> 00:19:45,880 I'm here to bond. 574 00:19:45,923 --> 00:19:49,275 Now, can a brother be a BlAd Man? 575 00:19:49,318 --> 00:19:50,798 What is a BlAd Man? 576 00:19:50,841 --> 00:19:52,408 Your networking group, man. 577 00:19:52,452 --> 00:19:53,583 Charlie told me about it. 578 00:19:53,627 --> 00:19:55,063 [ Scoffs ] 579 00:19:55,106 --> 00:19:56,717 Man, that guy keeps trying to change the name, 580 00:19:56,760 --> 00:19:57,935 but won't pay any dues. 581 00:19:57,979 --> 00:20:01,243 Ah. Yeah, that is very Charlie. 582 00:20:01,287 --> 00:20:03,854 You know, he owes me $3,000 for lunch. 583 00:20:03,898 --> 00:20:06,205 [ Both laugh ] 584 00:20:06,248 --> 00:20:08,250 Oh, man, I wish Jack was here, 585 00:20:08,294 --> 00:20:10,557 because this is Black excellence. 586 00:20:10,600 --> 00:20:12,515 ♪ 587 00:20:12,559 --> 00:20:14,213 [ Camera shutter clicks ] 588 00:20:14,256 --> 00:20:16,780 This... is Black excellence. 589 00:20:16,824 --> 00:20:19,174 You bet your Black ass it is. 590 00:20:19,218 --> 00:20:19,957 ♪ 591 00:20:23,396 --> 00:20:25,441 Junior: What do I do? 592 00:20:25,485 --> 00:20:27,356 She made my mom snap. I have to do something. 593 00:20:27,400 --> 00:20:28,836 Olivia. 594 00:20:28,879 --> 00:20:30,054 Hm?[ Television shuts off ] 595 00:20:30,098 --> 00:20:34,276 It, uh, pains me to do this. 596 00:20:34,320 --> 00:20:35,799 You know I wanted nothing more 597 00:20:35,843 --> 00:20:38,106 than for you and my mom to be close. 598 00:20:38,149 --> 00:20:40,456 But we flew too close to the sun. 599 00:20:40,500 --> 00:20:42,066 Boy, what are you talking about? 600 00:20:42,110 --> 00:20:43,677 I think we should break-- 601 00:20:43,720 --> 00:20:45,722 Just the lady that I want to see. 602 00:20:45,766 --> 00:20:47,811 Dr. Johnson, 603 00:20:47,855 --> 00:20:50,423 I hope I wasn't being too harsh on you yesterday. 604 00:20:50,466 --> 00:20:53,730 I can be sort of a tough-love kind of girl. 605 00:20:53,774 --> 00:20:55,123 Hmm.You hear that, Mom? 606 00:20:55,166 --> 00:20:56,994 Tough love.Mm-hmm. 607 00:20:57,038 --> 00:20:58,474 Love. [ Chuckles ]Mm-hmm. 608 00:20:58,518 --> 00:21:01,999 Well, having a 20-year-old psychoanalyze me 609 00:21:02,043 --> 00:21:04,001 was a tough pill to swallow... 610 00:21:04,045 --> 00:21:05,525 but I'm grateful. 611 00:21:05,568 --> 00:21:07,222 I'm grateful for your honesty, 612 00:21:07,266 --> 00:21:09,746 and I actually needed to hearwhat you had to say. 613 00:21:09,790 --> 00:21:11,008 Oh, thank God. Whoo! 614 00:21:11,052 --> 00:21:12,271 [ Laughs ] Whoo! 615 00:21:12,314 --> 00:21:13,794 You guys still like each other? 616 00:21:13,837 --> 00:21:15,317 Yeah. What were you gonna say? 617 00:21:15,361 --> 00:21:16,579 ♪ 618 00:21:16,623 --> 00:21:19,669 Doesn't matter, right? [ Chuckles ] 619 00:21:19,713 --> 00:21:22,063 Just let me enjoy this moment. 620 00:21:53,442 --> 00:21:55,488 Junior: What do I do? 621 00:21:55,531 --> 00:21:57,359 She made my mom snap. I have to do something. 622 00:21:57,403 --> 00:21:58,839 Olivia. 623 00:21:58,882 --> 00:22:00,144 Hm?[ Television shuts off ] 624 00:22:00,188 --> 00:22:04,410 It, uh, pains me to do this. 625 00:22:04,453 --> 00:22:05,976 You know I wanted nothing more 626 00:22:06,020 --> 00:22:08,022 than for you and my mom to be close. 627 00:22:08,065 --> 00:22:10,633 But we flew too close to the sun. 628 00:22:10,677 --> 00:22:12,243 Boy, what are you talking about? 629 00:22:12,287 --> 00:22:13,854 I think we should break-- 630 00:22:13,897 --> 00:22:15,899 Just the lady that I want to see. 631 00:22:15,943 --> 00:22:17,988 Dr. Johnson, 632 00:22:18,032 --> 00:22:20,600 I hope I wasn't being too harsh on you yesterday. 633 00:22:20,643 --> 00:22:23,907 I can be sort of a tough-love kind of girl. 634 00:22:23,951 --> 00:22:25,300 Hmm.You hear that, Mom? 635 00:22:25,344 --> 00:22:26,910 Tough love.Mm-hmm. 636 00:22:26,954 --> 00:22:28,651 Love. [ Chuckles ]Mm-hmm. 637 00:22:28,695 --> 00:22:32,089 Well, having a 20-year-old psychoanalyze me 638 00:22:32,133 --> 00:22:34,091 was a tough pill to swallow... 639 00:22:34,135 --> 00:22:35,615 but I'm grateful. 640 00:22:35,658 --> 00:22:37,312 I'm grateful for your honesty, 641 00:22:37,356 --> 00:22:39,836 and I actually needed to hearwhat you had to say. 642 00:22:39,880 --> 00:22:41,098 Oh, thank God. Whoo! 643 00:22:41,142 --> 00:22:42,361 [ Laughs ] Whoo! 644 00:22:42,404 --> 00:22:43,884 You guys still like each other? 645 00:22:43,927 --> 00:22:45,407 Yeah. What were you gonna say? 646 00:22:45,451 --> 00:22:46,669 ♪ 647 00:22:46,713 --> 00:22:49,759 Doesn't matter, right? [ Chuckles ] 648 00:22:49,803 --> 00:22:52,153 Just let me enjoy this moment.