1 00:00:05,135 --> 00:00:08,095 [ "Move on Up" by Curtis Mayfield playing ] 2 00:00:08,138 --> 00:00:10,923 Dre: The American Dream says that, with hard work, 3 00:00:10,967 --> 00:00:14,753 where you started doesn't have to be where you finish. 4 00:00:14,797 --> 00:00:17,321 Generations build on the success 5 00:00:17,365 --> 00:00:18,888 of the ones that came before. 6 00:00:18,931 --> 00:00:21,238 The goal is to make a better, 7 00:00:21,282 --> 00:00:23,980 more prosperous future for your children. 8 00:00:24,024 --> 00:00:25,416 It's what my folks did for me. 9 00:00:25,460 --> 00:00:26,374 [ Ting ] 10 00:00:26,417 --> 00:00:28,419 My Pops worked odd jobs, 11 00:00:28,463 --> 00:00:31,292 but he made sure the lights were always on. 12 00:00:31,335 --> 00:00:34,295 And my mother worked overtime at the post office 13 00:00:34,338 --> 00:00:37,385 to make sure that I could get the best education. 14 00:00:37,428 --> 00:00:40,083 There were some bumps, but they did their part 15 00:00:40,127 --> 00:00:44,522 to make sure I had it better than they did. 16 00:00:44,566 --> 00:00:47,351 And I know that everything I have is because of them. 17 00:00:47,395 --> 00:00:50,485 It's why I'm so glad to have them under our roof. 18 00:00:50,528 --> 00:00:52,922 Oh, my God. 19 00:00:52,965 --> 00:00:54,837 What did I just bite into? 20 00:00:54,880 --> 00:00:56,447 That's, uh, vegan buttermilk chicken. 21 00:00:56,491 --> 00:00:58,754 Hell to the no. 22 00:00:58,797 --> 00:01:00,582 Earl, step in and give them the news 23 00:01:00,625 --> 00:01:02,279 before I start yelling. 24 00:01:02,323 --> 00:01:03,454 Okay, y'all. Listen up. 25 00:01:03,498 --> 00:01:04,847 Rainbow: Okay. 26 00:01:04,890 --> 00:01:07,023 Ruby and I... Mm-hmm. 27 00:01:07,067 --> 00:01:08,285 ...are moving out. 28 00:01:08,329 --> 00:01:11,723 Hallelujah! 29 00:01:18,252 --> 00:01:20,167 It's never gonna be the same without you. 30 00:01:20,210 --> 00:01:21,429 We got love for y'all. 31 00:01:21,472 --> 00:01:22,821 Y'all know that.Yes. 32 00:01:22,865 --> 00:01:24,954 But the open road is calling. 33 00:01:24,997 --> 00:01:26,303 Mm-hmm. 34 00:01:26,347 --> 00:01:28,044 So it's time for us to get on the good foot... 35 00:01:28,088 --> 00:01:30,046 Mm-hmm. Mm-hmm. ...and on to our next adventure. 36 00:01:30,090 --> 00:01:32,657 [ Chuckles ] That's why we bought an RV. 37 00:01:32,701 --> 00:01:35,007 I bet you $100 that RV's on fire 38 00:01:35,051 --> 00:01:37,053 by the side of the road in 10 weeks. 39 00:01:37,097 --> 00:01:40,187 Nah, wedged in a Bible Belt Hardee's drive-thru by June. 40 00:01:40,230 --> 00:01:41,275 [ Sucks teeth ] Oh, I could see that, too. 41 00:01:41,318 --> 00:01:43,146 Mm-hmm. Wow! [ Laughs ] 42 00:01:43,190 --> 00:01:47,019 You guys in an RV? It is so exciting. 43 00:01:47,063 --> 00:01:49,152 You know, when my parents were in their RV, 44 00:01:49,196 --> 00:01:51,502 I did not hear from them for, like, months. 45 00:01:51,546 --> 00:01:52,851 Like, almost a yea-- I did-- 46 00:01:52,895 --> 00:01:55,158 T-They didn't call me. I didn't call them. 47 00:01:55,202 --> 00:01:57,160 They were just off the grid. 48 00:01:57,204 --> 00:01:59,293 Yeah, like, what do you guys even have planned? 49 00:01:59,336 --> 00:02:02,383 Well, we're gonna visit the 38 states 50 00:02:02,426 --> 00:02:04,776 we don't have bench warrants in. Mm-hmm. 51 00:02:04,820 --> 00:02:08,040 Maybe even put the RV on a riverboat. 52 00:02:08,084 --> 00:02:09,216 Rainbow: Ooh. Mm-hmm. 53 00:02:09,259 --> 00:02:10,913 And then take it down the Mississipp'. 54 00:02:10,956 --> 00:02:14,177 Mm-hmm. And I've always wanted to head up to Motown 55 00:02:14,221 --> 00:02:16,179 to see the parking lot 56 00:02:16,223 --> 00:02:19,965 where the Holland brothers pulled a gun on Smokey Robinson. 57 00:02:20,009 --> 00:02:20,792 Wow. Heard about that. Heard about that.Sure did. 58 00:02:20,836 --> 00:02:22,359 Point is, we've got 59 00:02:22,403 --> 00:02:24,492 years of seeing this country ahead of us. 60 00:02:24,535 --> 00:02:27,843 Nowhere to be and no time to be there. Hey! 61 00:02:27,886 --> 00:02:29,888 Well, I am happy for you guys. 62 00:02:29,932 --> 00:02:31,455 You may have not noticed it 63 00:02:31,499 --> 00:02:33,762 because my muscle gains haven't started to come in yet, 64 00:02:33,805 --> 00:02:36,199 but I'm on a bit of a personal journey myself. 65 00:02:36,243 --> 00:02:38,027 Oh, because your girlfriend dumped you? Ah. 66 00:02:38,070 --> 00:02:40,334 No, because I realized that my body is a machine 67 00:02:40,377 --> 00:02:42,640 and to keep it up to par, I have to make sure 68 00:02:42,684 --> 00:02:44,120 that I'm about that gym life. 69 00:02:44,164 --> 00:02:46,862 Okay, look, I-I know you guys really want to do this, 70 00:02:46,905 --> 00:02:48,994 but I got used to you being here. 71 00:02:49,038 --> 00:02:50,996 You know, it's... 72 00:02:51,040 --> 00:02:51,823 It's not gonna be the same. 73 00:02:51,867 --> 00:02:53,216 [ Sighs ] Never. 74 00:02:53,260 --> 00:02:55,218 It's never, never, never gonna be the same again. 75 00:02:55,262 --> 00:02:56,915 Like, never. 76 00:02:56,959 --> 00:03:00,223 So, you guys have, um -- Do you have a plan? 77 00:03:00,267 --> 00:03:03,357 Like, is there a specific date...or time? 78 00:03:03,400 --> 00:03:04,967 Well, yeah, but not until we get our ducks in a row. 79 00:03:05,010 --> 00:03:06,925 It won't take long.Rainbow: Yes. 80 00:03:06,969 --> 00:03:09,058 We got matching julep cups.Shut up. 81 00:03:09,101 --> 00:03:10,886 So we are not missing the Kentucky Derby. 82 00:03:10,929 --> 00:03:12,192 [ Laughs ] 83 00:03:12,235 --> 00:03:14,106 Enough spilling our secrets, Earl. 84 00:03:14,150 --> 00:03:15,499 Alright. 85 00:03:15,543 --> 00:03:17,980 That's one thing I won't miss. 86 00:03:18,023 --> 00:03:20,722 This whole house of people knowing our business. 87 00:03:20,765 --> 00:03:22,245 Then why do you shave your legs by the pool? 88 00:03:22,289 --> 00:03:23,507 Hey. 89 00:03:23,551 --> 00:03:25,553 Since I been doing that, 90 00:03:25,596 --> 00:03:28,033 our gardeners have been paying us. 91 00:03:28,077 --> 00:03:29,600 Oh. Now... 92 00:03:29,644 --> 00:03:33,082 how about we throw out all this slop, 93 00:03:33,125 --> 00:03:35,258 and I'll make you some real chicken and biscuits, eh? 94 00:03:35,302 --> 00:03:36,477 Mm. Eh? 95 00:03:36,520 --> 00:03:39,393 Oh, well, if that's okay with you, Rainbow. 96 00:03:39,436 --> 00:03:41,438 [ Cork pops ] 97 00:03:41,482 --> 00:03:43,788 Oh, that's just fine. Got my dinner right here. 98 00:03:43,832 --> 00:03:47,314 After Bow had celebrated the Gods opening a window, 99 00:03:47,357 --> 00:03:51,100 she found they were also shutting a door. 100 00:03:51,143 --> 00:03:52,319 What the...? 101 00:03:52,362 --> 00:03:53,798 Oh, my God. Okay. 102 00:03:53,842 --> 00:03:55,974 Bow, what's going on?I'm soaking wet. 103 00:03:56,018 --> 00:03:59,456 What? Oh, my God. No. 104 00:03:59,500 --> 00:04:00,936 I'm soaking wet. 105 00:04:00,979 --> 00:04:02,111 Babe, be honest. 106 00:04:02,154 --> 00:04:03,721 What? 107 00:04:03,765 --> 00:04:05,984 Did you pee the bed? You can tell me. 108 00:04:06,028 --> 00:04:07,856 No, Dre, I did not. 109 00:04:07,899 --> 00:04:09,292 I think these are night sweats. 110 00:04:09,336 --> 00:04:10,728 Okay. 111 00:04:10,772 --> 00:04:12,469 I believe that I'm going through perimenopause. 112 00:04:13,775 --> 00:04:15,516 I am perimenopausing. 113 00:04:16,995 --> 00:04:19,476 I always want to help my wife, 114 00:04:19,520 --> 00:04:22,740 but I'm a smart enough man to know when I'm in over my head 115 00:04:22,784 --> 00:04:25,134 and it's time to call in reinforcements. 116 00:04:25,177 --> 00:04:28,442 [ Horn blows ] 117 00:04:28,485 --> 00:04:29,965 Mom! 118 00:04:30,008 --> 00:04:32,533 My daughter, the winds whispered to me 119 00:04:32,576 --> 00:04:35,144 about an important milestone on your menses journey. 120 00:04:35,187 --> 00:04:37,320 Oh. And I texted you. 121 00:04:37,364 --> 00:04:39,409 Yes, always nice to get a midnight text saying, 122 00:04:39,453 --> 00:04:41,411 "Your daughter's body's breaking down." 123 00:04:42,412 --> 00:04:45,285 [ Stammers ] Well, come on in, Alicia. 124 00:04:45,328 --> 00:04:47,374 Yeah. Come on in. And give us two secs. 125 00:04:47,417 --> 00:04:50,333 I just want to talk to -- talk to Dre for a second. 126 00:04:50,377 --> 00:04:51,203 Uh-huh. Come here, honey. 127 00:04:51,247 --> 00:04:52,553 Yeah? [ Clears throat ] 128 00:04:52,596 --> 00:04:56,339 So you willingly invited my mom into our house? 129 00:04:56,383 --> 00:04:58,167 Well, look, babe, I-I thought it would be good 130 00:04:58,210 --> 00:05:00,212 to have someone with experience around 131 00:05:00,256 --> 00:05:02,084 to help with the perimenopause. Mm-hmm. 132 00:05:02,127 --> 00:05:05,566 Which isthe beginning of menopause, alright? 133 00:05:05,609 --> 00:05:09,004 During which time your ovaries are producing less estrogen. 134 00:05:10,397 --> 00:05:12,486 I know what perimenopause is, Dre. 135 00:05:12,529 --> 00:05:15,402 Okay, well, you know, I just wanted to show you my work, okay? 136 00:05:15,445 --> 00:05:17,099 Before I handed you off to your mom. 137 00:05:17,142 --> 00:05:20,189 And now that I've gotten my credit, 138 00:05:20,232 --> 00:05:21,669 I'm done. Okay. 139 00:05:21,712 --> 00:05:22,974 Bye. Bye. Hi, Mom. 140 00:05:23,018 --> 00:05:24,236 Alicia: Okay. Hi, hi, hi. 141 00:05:24,280 --> 00:05:25,281 [ Chuckles ] 142 00:05:25,325 --> 00:05:27,283 You really did not need to come. 143 00:05:27,327 --> 00:05:28,980 You're going through one of the great transitions of life. 144 00:05:29,024 --> 00:05:31,548 You've been driven by the moon for decades. 145 00:05:31,592 --> 00:05:34,334 Now the time has come for you to become your own moon driver. 146 00:05:34,377 --> 00:05:38,381 Mom, it is a hormonal shift, and I've got it all handled. 147 00:05:38,425 --> 00:05:40,775 Promise. Okay, I'll follow your lead. 148 00:05:40,818 --> 00:05:43,038 But I may sprinkle a little maca powder 149 00:05:43,081 --> 00:05:44,256 on your tongue while you sleep. 150 00:05:44,300 --> 00:05:46,084 Okay. Mm. 151 00:05:46,128 --> 00:05:47,521 I don't think that'll do anything, 152 00:05:47,564 --> 00:05:49,261 but you can sprinkle. 153 00:05:49,305 --> 00:05:52,395 No, Mama, my house is not a storage unit. 154 00:05:52,439 --> 00:05:54,266 Okay. Goodbye, Mama. 155 00:05:54,310 --> 00:05:55,964 Okay, Dre. What's happening? What's going on? 156 00:05:56,007 --> 00:05:57,008 Oh, don't tell me. 157 00:05:57,052 --> 00:05:58,967 They discontinued your beard sheen. 158 00:05:59,010 --> 00:06:00,011 No. Oh. 159 00:06:00,055 --> 00:06:01,404 My Moms and Pops are moving out. 160 00:06:01,448 --> 00:06:02,753 What? [ Gasps ] 161 00:06:02,797 --> 00:06:04,407 Are they looking for an unlicensed moving company? 162 00:06:04,451 --> 00:06:06,540 I know a guy. [ Chuckles ] 163 00:06:06,583 --> 00:06:08,411 Me. Charlie Telphy. 164 00:06:08,455 --> 00:06:10,631 No, Charlie, I think they're good. 165 00:06:10,674 --> 00:06:11,806 They bought an RV, 166 00:06:11,849 --> 00:06:14,852 and they are going out to see America. 167 00:06:14,896 --> 00:06:16,463 Wow.That's exciting, Dre. 168 00:06:16,506 --> 00:06:17,899 They're cashing in on the dreams 169 00:06:17,942 --> 00:06:20,249 that they delayed while they -- they served others. 170 00:06:20,292 --> 00:06:24,601 That is the proper middle-class third-act retirement move. 171 00:06:24,645 --> 00:06:27,212 You know, I've been planning my next act since I was 12. 172 00:06:27,256 --> 00:06:30,172 When I retire, I want to open a B&B on the East Coast. 173 00:06:30,215 --> 00:06:32,392 Mm-hmm.I'll cook. I'll host. 174 00:06:32,435 --> 00:06:34,350 It'll be like having a new family every weekend. 175 00:06:34,394 --> 00:06:37,179 Ironic, because a revolving door of new families 176 00:06:37,222 --> 00:06:38,485 is my plan, too. 177 00:06:38,528 --> 00:06:40,835 In my retirement, I plan on telling White people 178 00:06:40,878 --> 00:06:43,185 I played for a Negro league. 179 00:06:43,228 --> 00:06:45,448 Tell them my name is something like "Corn Cob Robinson" 180 00:06:45,492 --> 00:06:46,580 to see if they'd buy me a drink. 181 00:06:46,623 --> 00:06:48,016 That's your plan? 182 00:06:48,059 --> 00:06:49,974 Yeah, you're right. Stove Pipe Jackson. 183 00:06:50,018 --> 00:06:51,280 Better name, right?That's... 184 00:06:51,323 --> 00:06:52,847 I've never really thought about retirement, 185 00:06:52,890 --> 00:06:55,023 but I'm pretty sure I'd be good at it. Hmm. 186 00:06:55,066 --> 00:06:57,591 Shuffleboard, cruises, golfing, 187 00:06:57,634 --> 00:06:59,331 following Wu-Tang around the world 188 00:06:59,375 --> 00:07:00,811 until there are no original members left. 189 00:07:00,855 --> 00:07:03,335 Now, thatis Dre time. 190 00:07:03,379 --> 00:07:04,902 Okay, Dre, I'm sorry. 191 00:07:04,946 --> 00:07:07,470 I find it hilarious that you actually think 192 00:07:07,514 --> 00:07:08,428 you're going to retire. 193 00:07:08,471 --> 00:07:10,125 You have an infant, man. 194 00:07:10,168 --> 00:07:12,693 So?Josh: [ Chuckles ] "So?" 195 00:07:12,736 --> 00:07:14,651 You're not about to stop working, Dre. 196 00:07:14,695 --> 00:07:16,305 You've got two decades 197 00:07:16,348 --> 00:07:20,135 of private school, braces, and college to pay for. 198 00:07:20,178 --> 00:07:21,266 Then Dre time? 199 00:07:21,310 --> 00:07:23,225 Maybe. Assuming they're successful 200 00:07:23,268 --> 00:07:25,096 andthey can take care of themselves. 201 00:07:25,140 --> 00:07:26,707 Dre, you've got five kids, okay? 202 00:07:26,750 --> 00:07:29,231 One of them is gonna be a Tito. 203 00:07:29,274 --> 00:07:30,711 Charlie: This is a good time to mention 204 00:07:30,754 --> 00:07:34,192 that if me and my bride have any "oops" babies, 205 00:07:34,236 --> 00:07:36,499 youwill be raising them. What? 206 00:07:36,543 --> 00:07:38,632 You better settle in, buddy, because, uh, 207 00:07:38,675 --> 00:07:41,635 whether it's natural causes or foul play, 208 00:07:41,678 --> 00:07:43,550 you are gonna die here. 209 00:07:43,593 --> 00:07:45,029 [ Laughs ] Yeah. 210 00:07:45,073 --> 00:07:49,164 Those guys were just trying to get in my head. 211 00:07:49,207 --> 00:07:52,820 I'm good. I've saved money... 212 00:07:52,863 --> 00:07:54,386 I think. 213 00:07:54,430 --> 00:07:56,780 S-Still, I've got this under control. 214 00:07:56,824 --> 00:07:58,390 They can't tell me nothing. 215 00:07:58,434 --> 00:08:00,001 Excuse me. 216 00:08:00,044 --> 00:08:01,132 I think you're sitting in my seat. 217 00:08:02,307 --> 00:08:04,832 I gotta stay on my grind. 218 00:08:04,875 --> 00:08:08,313 Jack needs money for ninja college. 219 00:08:08,357 --> 00:08:10,925 [ Screaming ] 220 00:08:10,968 --> 00:08:12,492 [ Screams ] 221 00:08:13,754 --> 00:08:15,495 Oh. 222 00:08:15,538 --> 00:08:18,280 Ohh. Ahh. 223 00:08:18,323 --> 00:08:19,934 Still sweaty. 224 00:08:19,977 --> 00:08:22,023 ♪♪ 225 00:08:22,066 --> 00:08:23,024 [ Groans ] 226 00:08:23,067 --> 00:08:24,504 ♪♪ 227 00:08:28,159 --> 00:08:30,031 ♪♪ 228 00:08:30,074 --> 00:08:32,381 Hey, baby. You want some pancakes? 229 00:08:32,424 --> 00:08:34,688 Well, not unless it's gonna make me feel any better 230 00:08:34,731 --> 00:08:37,778 about the fact that I'm gonna die at my desk. 231 00:08:37,821 --> 00:08:39,954 That's actually not a bad place to go, son. 232 00:08:39,997 --> 00:08:42,130 The janitor just wheels you out. No muss, no fuss. 233 00:08:42,173 --> 00:08:44,611 Yeah. Alright, well, you guys have a good one. 234 00:08:44,654 --> 00:08:46,134 [ Indistinct conversation ] 235 00:08:46,177 --> 00:08:48,963 Hey, hey. Who wants breakfast? 236 00:08:49,006 --> 00:08:51,139 Grandma, are you okay? 237 00:08:51,182 --> 00:08:53,097 What? I'm just cooking breakfast. 238 00:08:53,141 --> 00:08:55,273 Now, listen. I ran out of blueberries, 239 00:08:55,317 --> 00:08:57,493 so some of those pancakes have raisins, 240 00:08:57,537 --> 00:08:59,234 and some have gummy vitamins. 241 00:08:59,277 --> 00:09:00,278 Oh. 242 00:09:00,322 --> 00:09:02,193 I tell you what, I'm not gonna miss 243 00:09:02,237 --> 00:09:04,326 doing all this work when I'm gone. 244 00:09:04,369 --> 00:09:06,633 When did you ever do this before? Yeah. 245 00:09:06,676 --> 00:09:08,983 See, Earl? They don't appreciate me. 246 00:09:09,026 --> 00:09:11,115 Y'all better appreciate this woman. 247 00:09:11,159 --> 00:09:13,640 We gonna be having pancakes on the road 248 00:09:13,683 --> 00:09:15,032 pretty soon anyway, baby. 249 00:09:15,076 --> 00:09:16,120 No pancakes for me. 250 00:09:16,164 --> 00:09:17,905 My trainer, Uric, will kill me 251 00:09:17,948 --> 00:09:19,950 if he smells grain on my breath. 252 00:09:19,994 --> 00:09:22,170 Gotta keep it keto for the guns. 253 00:09:22,213 --> 00:09:24,085 Look at this one, all greedy. 254 00:09:24,128 --> 00:09:27,131 Enjoy that last plate of grandma bacon. 255 00:09:27,175 --> 00:09:28,916 This is why I'm never coming back. 256 00:09:28,959 --> 00:09:30,265 Whoa, just because you move 257 00:09:30,308 --> 00:09:31,483 doesn't mean you gotta stay gone. 258 00:09:31,527 --> 00:09:33,311 Yeah, you saw Junior when he moved out. 259 00:09:33,355 --> 00:09:35,096 I mean, he kept a toothbrush in all three bathrooms. 260 00:09:35,139 --> 00:09:36,837 Mm. Every time you take a sip of soda, 261 00:09:36,880 --> 00:09:38,578 you're only nine minutes away from a cavity. 262 00:09:38,621 --> 00:09:40,188 Remember that. 263 00:09:40,231 --> 00:09:43,887 I'm sorry, baby, but our time living here is done. 264 00:09:43,931 --> 00:09:46,237 I'm trying to see Miami before it's underwater. 265 00:09:46,281 --> 00:09:47,717 Oh, yeah. [ Scoffs ] 266 00:09:47,761 --> 00:09:50,677 You don't want to be in town after the gators take over. 267 00:09:50,720 --> 00:09:52,504 Oh, no. 268 00:09:52,548 --> 00:09:56,552 The thought of staying in the rat race until I die 269 00:09:56,596 --> 00:09:59,207 took a lot of joy out of coming into the office. 270 00:09:59,250 --> 00:10:00,774 Hey!Oh, Dre! 271 00:10:00,817 --> 00:10:02,558 You work upstairs. What are you doing down here? 272 00:10:02,602 --> 00:10:04,168 Oh, I know. 273 00:10:04,212 --> 00:10:05,648 Too shy to poop around your new friends? 274 00:10:05,692 --> 00:10:07,607 Yeah. What? No. 275 00:10:07,650 --> 00:10:10,261 Oh.Hey, when you guys look ahead 276 00:10:10,305 --> 00:10:13,874 and see, uh, an endless loop of sitting in traffic 277 00:10:13,917 --> 00:10:16,659 and pitching ads and sucking up to clients 278 00:10:16,703 --> 00:10:19,401 until one day, they lower you in the earth, 279 00:10:19,444 --> 00:10:23,013 do you ever think, "Is this all there is?" 280 00:10:23,057 --> 00:10:25,015 What?Are you kidding? 281 00:10:25,059 --> 00:10:26,016 I love work. 282 00:10:26,060 --> 00:10:28,149 We've got dream jobs, Dre. 283 00:10:28,192 --> 00:10:30,978 Yeah, advertising is the best job in the world, 284 00:10:31,021 --> 00:10:32,501 and I've had a lot of them. Mm. 285 00:10:32,544 --> 00:10:34,590 Ditch-digger. Clam-digger. 286 00:10:34,634 --> 00:10:35,983 Amateur Russian Rouletter -- 287 00:10:36,026 --> 00:10:37,680 which, of course, leads to grave-digging, 288 00:10:37,724 --> 00:10:39,203 which leads to grave robbery, 289 00:10:39,247 --> 00:10:40,552 which led to me finding a wallet 290 00:10:40,596 --> 00:10:42,816 with Leslie Stevens' business card inside of it, 291 00:10:42,859 --> 00:10:44,165 and then here I am in advertising. 292 00:10:44,208 --> 00:10:46,080 Dre, this is an amazing job. 293 00:10:46,123 --> 00:10:48,256 All you got to do is show up, sit in comfortable chairs, 294 00:10:48,299 --> 00:10:49,431 and come up with ideas.Josh: That's right. 295 00:10:49,474 --> 00:10:51,389 Do you have any idea how much blood 296 00:10:51,433 --> 00:10:53,043 my housekeeper has to clean up? 297 00:10:53,087 --> 00:10:54,784 Oh, one summer, I cleaned up a lot of blood 298 00:10:54,828 --> 00:10:55,829 on the Vineyard. 299 00:10:55,872 --> 00:10:57,265 Second-best job I ever had. 300 00:10:57,308 --> 00:10:58,614 This is the first. 301 00:10:58,658 --> 00:10:59,441 Right, right.Yeah, yeah. 302 00:10:59,484 --> 00:11:01,182 You guys are right. 303 00:11:01,225 --> 00:11:03,575 We have the best jobs in the world. 304 00:11:03,619 --> 00:11:05,969 Who needs to sit and feed pigeons in a park? 305 00:11:06,013 --> 00:11:07,449 Exactly.Do you know what? 306 00:11:07,492 --> 00:11:10,234 We are living the dream, and I'm not slowing down now. 307 00:11:10,278 --> 00:11:11,235 -Mm-hmm. -Yeah. 308 00:11:11,279 --> 00:11:13,020 I'm gonna continue to boss up. 309 00:11:13,063 --> 00:11:14,412 Thanks, fellas.Yeah!Yeah! 310 00:11:14,456 --> 00:11:15,544 That's the attitude, Dre. 311 00:11:15,587 --> 00:11:16,980 [ Chuckles ] I'm telling you guys, 312 00:11:17,024 --> 00:11:18,852 this is the greatest gig in the world. 313 00:11:18,895 --> 00:11:21,071 Absolutely. Isn't it, though? 314 00:11:21,115 --> 00:11:22,333 But you're still gonna call me 315 00:11:22,377 --> 00:11:24,118 if your housekeeper calls in sick, right? 316 00:11:24,161 --> 00:11:26,337 ♪♪ 317 00:11:26,381 --> 00:11:29,384 [ Beeping ] 318 00:11:29,427 --> 00:11:31,952 Every day, more and more, 319 00:11:31,995 --> 00:11:34,258 we become like the robots that we fear. 320 00:11:34,302 --> 00:11:36,739 Oh, no. I'm just monitoring my heart rate, Mom. 321 00:11:36,783 --> 00:11:38,785 I'm trying to understand what's going on with my body. 322 00:11:38,828 --> 00:11:40,177 A friend of mine told me 323 00:11:40,221 --> 00:11:42,614 that I might experience heart palpitations. 324 00:11:42,658 --> 00:11:44,965 Oh, Rainbow, I'm so sorry. 325 00:11:45,008 --> 00:11:48,011 Would it help if I walked around you in a circle three times 326 00:11:48,055 --> 00:11:49,709 and sang a hymn to Gaia? 327 00:11:49,752 --> 00:11:51,885 No. No, I don't think so. 328 00:11:51,928 --> 00:11:52,755 Ah. 329 00:11:52,799 --> 00:11:54,365 I'm just so frustrated. 330 00:11:54,409 --> 00:11:56,846 There's no information, Mom. 331 00:11:56,890 --> 00:11:59,022 There's more information about deep-sea sharks 332 00:11:59,066 --> 00:12:00,632 than there is about perimenopause. 333 00:12:00,676 --> 00:12:02,765 50% of the population goes through this, 334 00:12:02,809 --> 00:12:03,940 and there's no information. 335 00:12:03,984 --> 00:12:05,986 Ridiculous.Perhaps the problem is 336 00:12:06,029 --> 00:12:08,466 that you're looking for information out there 337 00:12:08,510 --> 00:12:12,166 when you should be looking for information there. 338 00:12:12,209 --> 00:12:14,037 Uh-huh. Uh-huh. 339 00:12:14,081 --> 00:12:15,952 'Cause my body -- Yes, yes, yes, yes, yes. 340 00:12:15,996 --> 00:12:18,389 My body just feels like a foreign place, and I -- 341 00:12:18,433 --> 00:12:20,087 Oh, God. 342 00:12:21,784 --> 00:12:23,960 Oh, God. H-Heart palpations? 343 00:12:24,004 --> 00:12:25,570 I'm getting hot.I'll get the bells. 344 00:12:25,614 --> 00:12:26,615 No, no, I don't want bells, Mom. 345 00:12:26,658 --> 00:12:27,834 I need to get out of the jacket. 346 00:12:27,877 --> 00:12:29,183 Oh, God! Here it comes! 347 00:12:29,226 --> 00:12:30,619 Oh, my God, it's like a summer. 348 00:12:30,662 --> 00:12:32,012 Oh! 349 00:12:32,055 --> 00:12:33,361 Oh, take it off! Take it off! Take it! 350 00:12:33,404 --> 00:12:35,667 While Bow was trying to turn down the heat, 351 00:12:35,711 --> 00:12:38,409 my whole perspective had changed. 352 00:12:38,453 --> 00:12:40,020 I was crushing it at work. 353 00:12:40,063 --> 00:12:42,587 Old Steed Whiskey. 354 00:12:42,631 --> 00:12:45,852 Why show when you can win? 355 00:12:45,895 --> 00:12:48,637 [ Applause ] 356 00:12:48,680 --> 00:12:51,553 [ Laughing ] Hey, there he is. Hey. 357 00:12:51,596 --> 00:12:53,337 Wow, that was amazing.Mm-hmm. 358 00:12:53,381 --> 00:12:55,818 They want us for print and TV. 359 00:12:55,862 --> 00:12:57,515 You were on a whole other level in there. 360 00:12:57,559 --> 00:12:58,908 Where's that guy been? 361 00:12:58,952 --> 00:13:00,910 Aw, hey, man. I'm just blessed to be here. 362 00:13:00,954 --> 00:13:03,826 And if this is what I'm meant to do for the next 20 years, 363 00:13:03,870 --> 00:13:06,089 I'm okay with it.Hell, make it 30 years. 364 00:13:06,133 --> 00:13:07,177 40 years! [ Laughs ] 365 00:13:07,221 --> 00:13:10,659 50 years! I'm okay with it. 366 00:13:10,702 --> 00:13:11,747 I'm okay with it. 367 00:13:13,662 --> 00:13:14,837 I'm okay with it. 368 00:13:14,881 --> 00:13:16,099 We get it. You're okay with it. 369 00:13:16,143 --> 00:13:18,623 Yeah. 370 00:13:18,667 --> 00:13:19,886 I'm okay with it. 371 00:13:19,929 --> 00:13:22,802 ♪♪ 372 00:13:22,845 --> 00:13:23,933 I'm okay with it. 373 00:13:24,978 --> 00:13:26,066 I'm okay with it. 374 00:13:26,109 --> 00:13:28,111 ♪♪ 375 00:13:28,155 --> 00:13:29,330 I'm okay with it. 376 00:13:29,373 --> 00:13:32,550 ♪♪ 377 00:13:32,594 --> 00:13:34,074 I'm okay with it. 378 00:13:34,117 --> 00:13:35,466 ♪♪ 379 00:13:39,340 --> 00:13:41,777 ♪♪ 380 00:13:41,821 --> 00:13:44,301 Dre. Dre. Come on. Come on. 381 00:13:44,345 --> 00:13:45,868 Oh, sorry, Pops. What's up? 382 00:13:45,912 --> 00:13:48,479 I said, "Is it cool if we take your fancy monogrammed luggage 383 00:13:48,523 --> 00:13:49,567 for our trip?" 384 00:13:49,611 --> 00:13:50,655 I want everybody to know that 385 00:13:50,699 --> 00:13:52,266 we are RV people by choice. 386 00:13:52,309 --> 00:13:54,094 Yeah, yeah. It's cool. Do what you gotta do. 387 00:13:54,137 --> 00:13:55,704 For real? 388 00:13:55,747 --> 00:13:57,880 What about your nice winter coat with the fur lining? 389 00:13:57,924 --> 00:13:59,490 Take it. 390 00:13:59,534 --> 00:14:01,101 I'm not going anywhere. 391 00:14:01,144 --> 00:14:04,669 Boy, you wouldn't give water to a whale. 392 00:14:04,713 --> 00:14:05,888 I'm a little mistrustful 393 00:14:05,932 --> 00:14:07,759 of all this generosity you making with. 394 00:14:07,803 --> 00:14:08,978 Now, what's wrong with you, Dre? 395 00:14:11,807 --> 00:14:15,245 I don't know, Pops. I'm just having a hard time. 396 00:14:15,289 --> 00:14:17,987 Where I am in life, it's hard to pivot. 397 00:14:18,031 --> 00:14:19,075 Alright? 398 00:14:19,119 --> 00:14:21,469 Every decision feels more permanent, 399 00:14:21,512 --> 00:14:23,036 and I'm heading to place where I have 400 00:14:23,079 --> 00:14:25,908 more good days behind me than ahead of me. 401 00:14:25,952 --> 00:14:27,910 So do I keep doing mayonnaise ads 402 00:14:27,954 --> 00:14:30,043 until I have one foot in the grave? 403 00:14:30,086 --> 00:14:31,000 I don't think so. 404 00:14:31,044 --> 00:14:34,308 Oh, man. 405 00:14:34,351 --> 00:14:37,789 See, we all been there. I get it. 406 00:14:37,833 --> 00:14:39,139 Yeah, Pops? 407 00:14:39,182 --> 00:14:40,140 Oh, yeah. 408 00:14:41,750 --> 00:14:42,794 Now, you want my advice? 409 00:14:42,838 --> 00:14:44,361 I do. 410 00:14:44,405 --> 00:14:45,449 Suck it up. 411 00:14:46,581 --> 00:14:47,799 What? 412 00:14:47,843 --> 00:14:50,019 You a man. You got responsibilities. 413 00:14:50,063 --> 00:14:51,847 You got to keep a roof over your head 414 00:14:51,891 --> 00:14:53,283 and put food on the table. 415 00:14:53,327 --> 00:14:55,982 You don't have time to be mooning around the house, 416 00:14:56,025 --> 00:14:58,593 lending out luggage to people who are not gonna return it. 417 00:14:58,636 --> 00:15:01,726 I get that, Pops. I just feel lost right now. 418 00:15:01,770 --> 00:15:03,511 Oh, congratulations, Dre. 419 00:15:03,554 --> 00:15:05,992 You're the first Black man to ever feel lost. 420 00:15:07,515 --> 00:15:09,865 Need to get your ass out there and play through. 421 00:15:09,909 --> 00:15:10,910 Understood? 422 00:15:12,520 --> 00:15:14,435 Yes, sir. Good. 423 00:15:14,478 --> 00:15:15,958 Also... 424 00:15:16,002 --> 00:15:17,481 I'm taking all your frozen steaks 425 00:15:17,525 --> 00:15:18,961 and your good cooler, 426 00:15:19,005 --> 00:15:19,962 'cause that's the least you can give me 427 00:15:20,006 --> 00:15:20,963 for all this good advice. 428 00:15:21,007 --> 00:15:26,273 ♪♪ 429 00:15:26,316 --> 00:15:28,275 Oh, my God. 430 00:15:28,318 --> 00:15:31,234 ♪♪ 431 00:15:31,278 --> 00:15:32,670 What the hell are you doing? 432 00:15:32,714 --> 00:15:34,977 This sweating is killing me, Ruby! 433 00:15:35,021 --> 00:15:36,152 [ Sighs ] 434 00:15:36,196 --> 00:15:37,806 I'm trying to manage this perimenopause. 435 00:15:37,849 --> 00:15:41,418 I'm so over it. I'm overit-uh. 436 00:15:42,854 --> 00:15:44,247 You know what? 437 00:15:44,291 --> 00:15:47,120 If you repeat a word I'm about to say, I'll deny it. 438 00:15:47,163 --> 00:15:48,164 Okay. You hear me? 439 00:15:48,208 --> 00:15:49,426 Yeah. 440 00:15:51,254 --> 00:15:52,777 [ Whispering ] I've gone through menopause. 441 00:15:54,605 --> 00:15:56,956 Yeah, I-I-I know. Mm-hmm. 442 00:15:56,999 --> 00:15:59,741 Well, menopause sucks.Yes. 443 00:15:59,784 --> 00:16:03,875 Your body spends decades growing and taking care of life, 444 00:16:03,919 --> 00:16:05,573 and then Mother Nature thanks you 445 00:16:05,616 --> 00:16:07,662 with hot flashes and mood swings. 446 00:16:07,705 --> 00:16:09,229 Oh, let me tell you something, Ruby. 447 00:16:09,272 --> 00:16:11,492 I ran for three miles after an ice cream truck today, 448 00:16:11,535 --> 00:16:13,929 and then I punched a dent into the side of it 449 00:16:13,973 --> 00:16:15,713 because they told me that they didn't have any more Tutti Frutti. 450 00:16:15,757 --> 00:16:17,063 [ Laughs ] 451 00:16:17,106 --> 00:16:19,021 It was not one of my finest moments. 452 00:16:19,065 --> 00:16:20,980 Oh, honey. That's nothing. 453 00:16:21,023 --> 00:16:23,504 One time I had a hot flash sitting there, 454 00:16:23,547 --> 00:16:25,854 waiting to get a bank loan.Hmm. 455 00:16:25,897 --> 00:16:29,640 I started tearing my clothes off like a Vegas showgirl. 456 00:16:29,684 --> 00:16:30,772 [ Both laugh ]Oh, God. 457 00:16:30,815 --> 00:16:33,644 Hey, but it's not all bad.Mm. 458 00:16:33,688 --> 00:16:37,735 Because now, all of this is yours again. 459 00:16:37,779 --> 00:16:39,563 Think, when was the last time 460 00:16:39,607 --> 00:16:42,653 your breasts belonged to you and you alone? 461 00:16:42,697 --> 00:16:44,133 Ooh, it's been a minute. 462 00:16:44,177 --> 00:16:45,265 Mm-hmm. Yep. 463 00:16:45,308 --> 00:16:48,050 And you can finally ask yourself, 464 00:16:48,094 --> 00:16:50,357 "What does Rainbow Johnson want to do?" 465 00:16:50,400 --> 00:16:52,750 Huh. It's your time now. 466 00:16:52,794 --> 00:16:54,796 Oh, I really like the sound of that. 467 00:16:55,884 --> 00:16:58,060 It's my time. 468 00:16:58,104 --> 00:17:01,194 You know, Rainbow, I made a conscious decision 469 00:17:01,237 --> 00:17:05,937 to spend my time here watching my grandbabies grow up. 470 00:17:10,116 --> 00:17:12,857 And it's been the best seven years of my life. 471 00:17:12,901 --> 00:17:15,251 Mm. 472 00:17:15,295 --> 00:17:19,081 Thank you for blessing me with that opportunity. 473 00:17:19,125 --> 00:17:21,257 [ Sniffles ]Oh, Ruby, of course. 474 00:17:21,301 --> 00:17:24,086 Of course. Hmm. 475 00:17:24,130 --> 00:17:26,349 Thank you for what you just said. Mm. 476 00:17:26,393 --> 00:17:28,047 It was really helpful. 477 00:17:28,090 --> 00:17:30,962 And thank you for always being here for us. 478 00:17:32,964 --> 00:17:37,665 But I am gonna miss you, Rainbow. 479 00:17:37,708 --> 00:17:39,014 I'm gonna miss all of you. 480 00:17:39,058 --> 00:17:41,234 Aww, Ruby. 481 00:17:41,277 --> 00:17:43,627 [ Hums ] [ Crying ] 482 00:17:43,671 --> 00:17:45,368 I'm gonna miss you, too. 483 00:17:45,412 --> 00:17:49,938 It's okay if the idea of change makes you a little sad, 484 00:17:49,981 --> 00:17:52,114 but there are good things that can come from it. 485 00:17:52,158 --> 00:17:53,985 Hey, hey, hey. 486 00:17:54,029 --> 00:17:56,162 I got you a little going-away something. 487 00:17:56,205 --> 00:17:58,077 Mm. Okay. 488 00:18:00,296 --> 00:18:01,471 Uh... Mittens. 489 00:18:01,515 --> 00:18:03,517 Homemade mittens. 490 00:18:03,560 --> 00:18:06,041 I stayed up all night making these 491 00:18:06,085 --> 00:18:07,347 because I wanted to make sure 492 00:18:07,390 --> 00:18:09,175 you have something to remember me by. 493 00:18:09,218 --> 00:18:11,133 Yeah, totally. These will be great reminders 494 00:18:11,177 --> 00:18:12,830 of how salty you've been to us all week. 495 00:18:12,874 --> 00:18:14,397 Yeah. Alright, alright. 496 00:18:14,441 --> 00:18:16,051 I admit, 497 00:18:16,095 --> 00:18:19,794 I haven't been my normal cheery self lately, 498 00:18:19,837 --> 00:18:21,230 but it was just a defense 499 00:18:21,274 --> 00:18:23,537 because I realized how much I'm gonna miss you. 500 00:18:25,016 --> 00:18:27,193 I'm gonna miss Diane's smart mouth. 501 00:18:27,236 --> 00:18:29,238 I'm gonna miss Jack's smart nothing. 502 00:18:29,282 --> 00:18:31,022 Is this more pushing us away? 503 00:18:31,066 --> 00:18:33,851 I'm even gonna miss Junior getting angry 504 00:18:33,895 --> 00:18:36,158 when I ask him to print out my e-mails. 505 00:18:36,202 --> 00:18:39,074 It defeats the purpose of electronic mail. 506 00:18:39,118 --> 00:18:40,380 [ Both chuckling ] 507 00:18:40,423 --> 00:18:43,383 Well, if you're gonna miss all those things, 508 00:18:43,426 --> 00:18:45,472 you don't have to go. 509 00:18:45,515 --> 00:18:48,170 We do, baby. 510 00:18:48,214 --> 00:18:49,650 It's time for your grandfather and I 511 00:18:49,693 --> 00:18:51,478 to start our new chapter. 512 00:18:52,696 --> 00:18:55,438 Now, that doesn't mean we haven't loved 513 00:18:55,482 --> 00:18:58,746 our life here, okay? 514 00:18:58,789 --> 00:19:00,835 I-I can't even remember a time 515 00:19:00,878 --> 00:19:03,185 when you didn't live with us. 516 00:19:03,229 --> 00:19:05,840 [ Sighs ] Hey. 517 00:19:05,883 --> 00:19:09,931 Watching you all grow up 518 00:19:09,974 --> 00:19:12,934 has been the greatest joy of my life. 519 00:19:12,977 --> 00:19:15,763 ♪♪ 520 00:19:15,806 --> 00:19:19,462 I wouldn't trade a single second of it. 521 00:19:19,506 --> 00:19:20,333 Us, either. 522 00:19:20,376 --> 00:19:24,163 ♪♪ 523 00:19:24,206 --> 00:19:26,513 Come here. Come on. 524 00:19:26,556 --> 00:19:28,079 Come here. Come to Grandma. 525 00:19:28,123 --> 00:19:29,820 ♪♪ 526 00:19:29,864 --> 00:19:31,735 [ Chuckles ] Come here. 527 00:19:31,779 --> 00:19:34,085 Aww! Yes! [ Laughs ] 528 00:19:34,129 --> 00:19:35,652 Okay, okay. Hold on, now. 529 00:19:35,696 --> 00:19:36,740 I got something for you, too. 530 00:19:36,784 --> 00:19:38,612 Oh, Earl. 531 00:19:38,655 --> 00:19:40,135 Junior. Thank you. 532 00:19:40,179 --> 00:19:41,136 There you go, Diane. 533 00:19:41,180 --> 00:19:42,311 Okay. 534 00:19:42,355 --> 00:19:44,487 20 bucks? 535 00:19:44,531 --> 00:19:46,881 Well, I didn't plan this, but your grandma's being so nice, 536 00:19:46,924 --> 00:19:48,404 I couldn't just stand there like a jerk. 537 00:19:48,448 --> 00:19:49,579 [ Chuckles ]Oh, whoa, whoa. 538 00:19:49,623 --> 00:19:50,841 Mine's only a 10. 539 00:19:50,885 --> 00:19:53,148 Let me see that.Yeah. 540 00:19:53,192 --> 00:19:55,803 Yep. Now it's nothing. 541 00:19:55,846 --> 00:19:58,066 What?See, I'm not gonna miss this. 542 00:19:58,109 --> 00:19:58,936 That's on you. 543 00:19:58,980 --> 00:20:01,243 That's what you get.Mm. 544 00:20:01,287 --> 00:20:04,812 Maybe my change wasn't going to be 545 00:20:04,855 --> 00:20:09,077 as dramatic as Bow's or my folks', 546 00:20:09,120 --> 00:20:13,386 and maybe Pops was right about what I had to do -- 547 00:20:13,429 --> 00:20:18,260 keep my head down and gut it out. 548 00:20:18,304 --> 00:20:20,349 Hey. 549 00:20:20,393 --> 00:20:24,527 I'm not feeling so great. I'm gonna need to take the day. 550 00:20:24,571 --> 00:20:26,616 Thanks. 551 00:20:26,660 --> 00:20:31,055 The only problem was, I couldn't do it. 552 00:20:36,539 --> 00:20:38,976 Jack, I feel terrible that I was here to mark 553 00:20:39,020 --> 00:20:41,675 Diane's transition into womanhood, 554 00:20:41,718 --> 00:20:42,980 but I wasn't able to do the same 555 00:20:43,024 --> 00:20:44,591 when you hit puberty. 556 00:20:44,634 --> 00:20:46,984 You know, I can honestly say that I didn't think about it. 557 00:20:47,028 --> 00:20:48,551 You weren't here to mark mine, either. 558 00:20:48,595 --> 00:20:51,380 Yes, but you became quite the man on your own. 559 00:20:51,424 --> 00:20:52,512 [ Exhales ] 560 00:20:52,555 --> 00:20:54,862 [ Grunts ] 561 00:20:54,905 --> 00:20:57,038 She noticed the gains. 562 00:20:57,081 --> 00:20:58,257 Now let us mark the transition. 563 00:20:58,300 --> 00:21:00,433 Jack... 564 00:21:00,476 --> 00:21:03,218 are you ready to step through the door of childish things 565 00:21:03,262 --> 00:21:05,046 and claim the fullness of your adulthood? 566 00:21:05,089 --> 00:21:07,483 Uh, sure. Let me blow the horn. 567 00:21:07,527 --> 00:21:08,963 You know, I started running a bath 568 00:21:09,006 --> 00:21:10,443 I don't know how long ago, so... 569 00:21:10,486 --> 00:21:13,054 Oh, no, young man. 570 00:21:13,097 --> 00:21:16,231 The path to adulthood is marked with blood. 571 00:21:16,275 --> 00:21:18,929 ♪♪ 572 00:21:18,973 --> 00:21:20,801 You know what? I -- I can definitely hear 573 00:21:20,844 --> 00:21:22,106 that tub overflowing right now. 574 00:21:22,150 --> 00:21:23,194 Um... 575 00:21:23,238 --> 00:21:25,719 ♪♪ 576 00:21:25,762 --> 00:21:28,287 Give me the knife. I'll get you that blood.