1 00:00:19,359 --> 00:00:21,199 Have you ever been in love? 2 00:00:25,679 --> 00:00:27,799 Have you ever just looked at someone and... 3 00:00:27,800 --> 00:00:29,600 Felt really loved. 4 00:00:31,359 --> 00:00:32,479 And understood. 5 00:00:33,600 --> 00:00:34,960 And protected. 6 00:00:38,359 --> 00:00:40,600 Just find yourself praying. 7 00:00:41,479 --> 00:00:43,520 For every second that you spend with them. 8 00:00:43,600 --> 00:00:46,200 To stretch so that you can spend more time. 9 00:00:46,520 --> 00:00:47,320 Together! 10 00:00:52,280 --> 00:00:53,079 What? 11 00:00:56,320 --> 00:00:58,200 You don't think it's possible for... 12 00:00:58,600 --> 00:01:01,039 A young girl and an older man to be... 13 00:01:01,200 --> 00:01:04,480 In love without any materialistic benefits. 14 00:01:10,560 --> 00:01:11,959 I know that look. 15 00:01:15,879 --> 00:01:17,959 That condescending look. 16 00:01:18,000 --> 00:01:19,439 You looking at me as if... 17 00:01:19,480 --> 00:01:20,439 You are better than me. 18 00:01:20,480 --> 00:01:22,039 So now you think you know me. 19 00:01:22,040 --> 00:01:24,319 Simply because you have heard a few stories. 20 00:01:30,480 --> 00:01:32,439 I've had that look for most my life. 21 00:01:32,480 --> 00:01:34,599 And I honestly don't have to take it from you too. 22 00:01:35,000 --> 00:01:37,439 You only just got here Kali. 23 00:01:37,560 --> 00:01:39,079 Why are you in a hurry to leave? 24 00:01:43,920 --> 00:01:46,920 Keep the refund, I don't want to talk. 25 00:01:47,079 --> 00:01:48,719 Write about it then. 26 00:02:00,480 --> 00:02:01,560 Alright. 27 00:02:02,200 --> 00:02:03,040 Fine. 28 00:02:04,400 --> 00:02:07,120 In the beginning it started as... 29 00:02:07,879 --> 00:02:10,599 It was just normal girl stuff. 30 00:02:12,360 --> 00:02:13,639 No strings attached. 31 00:02:31,919 --> 00:02:35,759 I was young beautiful, wild, free. 32 00:02:36,520 --> 00:02:39,080 The world was mine for the take and boy. 33 00:02:39,360 --> 00:02:42,080 Did I take as much as I could? 34 00:02:51,840 --> 00:02:53,919 You can't just keep a girl waiting like that. 35 00:02:54,479 --> 00:02:55,638 I am sorry my baby. 36 00:02:55,639 --> 00:02:56,120 I am sorry. 37 00:02:56,159 --> 00:02:58,639 I had some daddy duties at home with Joan. 38 00:03:00,000 --> 00:03:02,199 So because of that I'll have to be waiting for you. 39 00:03:02,280 --> 00:03:03,639 You chose Joan over me? 40 00:03:04,719 --> 00:03:05,280 I'm sorry. 41 00:03:05,360 --> 00:03:05,919 I'm sorry 42 00:03:06,520 --> 00:03:08,198 - Or let me... - It was so impromptu. 43 00:03:08,199 --> 00:03:10,280 that I couldn't just talk over it over the phone. 44 00:03:10,319 --> 00:03:11,159 Let me even ask you. 45 00:03:11,919 --> 00:03:12,919 Who's your priority? 46 00:03:12,920 --> 00:03:14,120 Me or Joan? 47 00:03:15,759 --> 00:03:17,919 - You of course. - Are you sure? 48 00:03:18,360 --> 00:03:20,079 Because honestly it doesn't feel that way. 49 00:03:20,080 --> 00:03:22,120 If you were, you would not just choose her over me. 50 00:03:22,560 --> 00:03:24,840 How can you even think about that? 51 00:03:26,639 --> 00:03:27,840 Okay. Okay. 52 00:03:28,360 --> 00:03:29,840 What should I do now to... 53 00:03:30,159 --> 00:03:33,280 Bring my babies smile back? 54 00:03:33,919 --> 00:03:35,159 Just take me home. 55 00:03:36,599 --> 00:03:37,639 Just take you home? 56 00:03:59,680 --> 00:04:01,560 Do they like this? 57 00:04:02,759 --> 00:04:03,560 Who is that for? 58 00:04:03,561 --> 00:04:05,360 Because I'm sure it's not for me. 59 00:04:05,599 --> 00:04:07,120 I bought it for Joan but... 60 00:04:07,159 --> 00:04:09,199 It's okay, it's fine I'll take it. 61 00:04:09,639 --> 00:04:11,400 This looks so nice. 62 00:04:13,000 --> 00:04:14,360 Wear it for me. 63 00:04:14,560 --> 00:04:16,518 I'm sure even a daddy's girl like her. 64 00:04:16,519 --> 00:04:17,679 Has to realize that at some point. 65 00:04:17,680 --> 00:04:19,560 That she can't always get everything that she wants. 66 00:04:21,399 --> 00:04:23,519 So jewelries are... 67 00:04:24,199 --> 00:04:26,639 Ladies... Best friends? 68 00:04:26,680 --> 00:04:28,399 Of course!! 69 00:04:28,639 --> 00:04:31,239 I mean your jewelry is not going to... 70 00:04:31,240 --> 00:04:33,319 Keep you waiting or lie to you. 71 00:04:35,439 --> 00:04:39,120 - Look at you, Can we go now? - Yes. 72 00:04:45,360 --> 00:04:47,000 My goodness! 73 00:04:47,360 --> 00:04:48,240 Just... 74 00:04:48,399 --> 00:04:50,680 Feel the texture now! 75 00:04:52,360 --> 00:04:53,759 Check out! Look at a dress. 76 00:04:54,040 --> 00:04:55,879 Babe I'm telling you now! 77 00:04:55,959 --> 00:04:58,240 Now I know the difference between Origo. 78 00:04:58,360 --> 00:04:59,240 And Original. 79 00:05:01,240 --> 00:05:02,680 No need for long talk, Babe take. 80 00:05:02,759 --> 00:05:05,000 - These are beauttful. - See it, Babe touch it. 81 00:05:05,040 --> 00:05:07,240 - I love them! - Touch it. 82 00:05:09,000 --> 00:05:10,639 Gifts again? 83 00:05:11,800 --> 00:05:13,039 Although my name is gift. 84 00:05:13,040 --> 00:05:13,079 I don't receive gifts like this. Although my name is gift. 85 00:05:13,080 --> 00:05:15,120 I don't receive gifts like this. 86 00:05:17,120 --> 00:05:18,198 Whoever this guy is. 87 00:05:18,199 --> 00:05:20,360 He must really be very rich. 88 00:05:22,920 --> 00:05:23,519 Come! 89 00:05:23,520 --> 00:05:25,239 When are we meeting this your new guy? 90 00:05:25,240 --> 00:05:26,079 That's true. 91 00:05:26,079 --> 00:05:26,120 So he can introduce me to his rich friends. That's true. 92 00:05:26,121 --> 00:05:29,240 So he can introduce me to his rich friends. 93 00:05:29,279 --> 00:05:31,040 I mean why are you guys talking like this. 94 00:05:31,839 --> 00:05:32,519 You don't even... 95 00:05:32,600 --> 00:05:34,239 You people talk all the time as if... 96 00:05:34,240 --> 00:05:35,838 You've not been around rich people. 97 00:05:35,839 --> 00:05:37,519 That's my problem with you girls. 98 00:05:38,639 --> 00:05:41,199 These people are hardly ever around. 99 00:05:41,519 --> 00:05:43,000 You should know now. 100 00:05:43,639 --> 00:05:44,399 What's the problem? 101 00:05:44,480 --> 00:05:45,800 Besides why are you people even talking anyhow? 102 00:05:46,199 --> 00:05:47,279 Just look at me. 103 00:05:47,800 --> 00:05:49,439 As I'm fine like this. 104 00:05:50,920 --> 00:05:52,119 Don't I deserve to be spoiled? 105 00:05:52,120 --> 00:05:52,197 Babe! Don't I deserve to be spoiled? 106 00:05:52,198 --> 00:05:52,839 Babe! 107 00:05:53,079 --> 00:05:54,680 -This baby girl -Common! 108 00:05:54,720 --> 00:05:57,560 - Don't I deserve a baby girl lifestyle. - You do girl. 109 00:06:00,360 --> 00:06:03,959 I wish I meet these rich men and not those... 110 00:06:04,160 --> 00:06:06,800 Broke boys that would want to kill you in bed. 111 00:06:06,839 --> 00:06:08,800 And they wouldn't give you anything. 112 00:06:09,959 --> 00:06:12,959 It's okay Aunty, Keep quiet, Do you like this one? 113 00:06:13,000 --> 00:06:14,360 - I like it. - Okay please take it. 114 00:06:14,759 --> 00:06:15,519 Thank you! 115 00:06:15,800 --> 00:06:18,119 - You sounded like you really liked this one. - I do. 116 00:06:18,120 --> 00:06:20,079 - Take it. - Thanks girl! 117 00:06:20,160 --> 00:06:21,160 Take! 118 00:06:21,199 --> 00:06:22,839 I got you girls covered. 119 00:06:27,959 --> 00:06:29,240 Hello Daddy! 120 00:06:30,240 --> 00:06:32,480 Daddy we need to talk. 121 00:06:33,600 --> 00:06:35,240 I need new clothes. 122 00:06:37,800 --> 00:06:39,800 Common! Common! 123 00:06:40,839 --> 00:06:43,078 - Sit. - Noooo. 124 00:06:43,079 --> 00:06:45,079 It's okay sit down, Common! 125 00:06:45,360 --> 00:06:48,319 Sir, I don't want to risk my friendship with my best friend over this. 126 00:06:49,279 --> 00:06:50,759 What about you locking the door? 127 00:06:51,959 --> 00:06:54,198 Have some decency zaddy 128 00:06:54,199 --> 00:06:57,160 Dece what? Common! What's decent about? 129 00:06:57,360 --> 00:06:58,519 A sugar daddy. 130 00:06:58,560 --> 00:06:59,959 And a sugar girl. 131 00:07:00,759 --> 00:07:03,240 Besides you are not starting anyone now. 132 00:07:03,399 --> 00:07:07,399 See, the riskier, the sweeter. 133 00:07:07,800 --> 00:07:08,680 Really! 134 00:07:11,319 --> 00:07:12,519 Sorry Daddy. 135 00:07:12,560 --> 00:07:16,279 I went to go to a bigger Supermarket to get you people drink. 136 00:07:16,519 --> 00:07:17,800 (Stuttering) 137 00:07:17,839 --> 00:07:20,560 You see, you see, It's better late than never. 138 00:07:21,680 --> 00:07:23,399 I thought you had classes now? 139 00:07:23,600 --> 00:07:24,240 I did. 140 00:07:24,319 --> 00:07:27,279 They got canceled, I just got in like some... 141 00:07:27,519 --> 00:07:28,838 -Minutes ago, -Okay! 142 00:07:28,839 --> 00:07:30,639 So Daddy You remember my best friend Kali? 143 00:07:31,759 --> 00:07:34,279 Oh my God! Kali! 144 00:07:34,319 --> 00:07:36,519 - How are you my daughter? - I'm fine Thank you. 145 00:07:36,560 --> 00:07:38,040 - Good! Good! - Thank you. 146 00:07:38,079 --> 00:07:41,199 -Good evening sir, -She can never stop talking about you at home. 147 00:07:41,240 --> 00:07:44,360 Daddy, please where is the bracelet you bought for me? 148 00:07:44,399 --> 00:07:45,839 Bracelet?! 149 00:07:47,240 --> 00:07:50,439 You see your daddy has so much in his head. 150 00:07:50,639 --> 00:07:51,120 I. I. 151 00:07:51,199 --> 00:07:53,638 -I think it should be in the car or something - Sorry, excuse me. 152 00:07:53,639 --> 00:07:54,679 - It's Okay, it's okay. - Hello! 153 00:07:54,680 --> 00:07:58,079 I think it should be in the car or maybe somewhere. 154 00:07:59,959 --> 00:08:01,279 Daddy's pet. 155 00:08:02,000 --> 00:08:03,639 You know to be fair on the guys, I... 156 00:08:04,480 --> 00:08:06,560 I couldn't relate with them, I couldn't... 157 00:08:07,360 --> 00:08:08,959 Relate with the guys my own age. 158 00:08:09,000 --> 00:08:10,439 I didn't understand what it meant. 159 00:08:10,480 --> 00:08:12,480 To be with somebody my own age. 160 00:08:13,519 --> 00:08:15,839 Didn't make any sense to me that the... 161 00:08:17,759 --> 00:08:20,759 Girls in school were dating the boys in school. 162 00:08:23,839 --> 00:08:26,519 We are all just trying to figure life out, You know? 163 00:08:27,199 --> 00:08:30,359 And then even the ones that understood life already they... 164 00:08:30,360 --> 00:08:31,879 That had the answers. 165 00:08:32,080 --> 00:08:34,320 They were all just out to use you. 166 00:08:39,639 --> 00:08:41,639 Why your best friend's dad? 167 00:08:43,120 --> 00:08:43,840 You know I just... 168 00:08:44,600 --> 00:08:45,519 I just felt. 169 00:08:45,919 --> 00:08:47,799 Instead of wasting my time, Why not. 170 00:08:49,360 --> 00:08:52,158 Give myself to you know the men who understood... 171 00:08:52,159 --> 00:08:55,799 The essence of time, the value of what they had. 172 00:09:00,159 --> 00:09:03,720 Would you say you used your best friend to get to her father? 173 00:09:17,039 --> 00:09:19,840 They call Abuja the Haven of sugar Daddies. 174 00:09:22,000 --> 00:09:23,480 Every corner. 175 00:09:23,600 --> 00:09:24,559 Every street. 176 00:09:24,639 --> 00:09:25,759 Has at least. 177 00:09:26,440 --> 00:09:28,279 One Aristo. 178 00:09:28,879 --> 00:09:32,240 Looking for young girls to spoil silly. 179 00:09:33,120 --> 00:09:34,360 You were young. 180 00:09:34,879 --> 00:09:36,759 Beautiful as you still are. 181 00:09:37,519 --> 00:09:40,559 But you chose your best friends Father. 182 00:09:41,000 --> 00:09:41,960 Why? 183 00:09:47,720 --> 00:09:49,679 You know there are two kinds of people. 184 00:09:51,799 --> 00:09:53,758 There are the ones who lives their lives to the fullest. 185 00:09:53,759 --> 00:09:55,600 And end up being judged. 186 00:09:58,840 --> 00:10:01,079 And there are the self righteous ones. 187 00:10:01,080 --> 00:10:01,120 Who are too scared to live their lives. And there are the self righteous ones. 188 00:10:01,121 --> 00:10:02,959 Who are too scared to live their lives. 189 00:10:02,960 --> 00:10:06,759 And instead they make themselves the judges over others. 190 00:10:08,720 --> 00:10:10,960 I guess it's a way to make up for their... 191 00:10:11,320 --> 00:10:13,320 Miserable excuse of a life. 192 00:10:15,519 --> 00:10:17,200 At the end of the day. 193 00:10:17,879 --> 00:10:20,759 People are a mass emotions and opinions. 194 00:10:21,519 --> 00:10:23,159 Sometimes positive. 195 00:10:23,759 --> 00:10:25,120 Sometimes negative. 196 00:10:26,039 --> 00:10:27,759 It's just the way of the world. 197 00:10:29,639 --> 00:10:32,559 Honesty however is personal. 198 00:10:33,759 --> 00:10:35,039 Tea or Coffee? 199 00:10:39,879 --> 00:10:40,919 Tea. 200 00:10:55,440 --> 00:10:59,080 The end of my service year ushered in many new things. 201 00:11:00,080 --> 00:11:03,159 I finally started a successful fashion brand. 202 00:11:03,919 --> 00:11:07,639 My years of selling wears to students and obsessing about. 203 00:11:07,840 --> 00:11:10,799 Luxury designer wears finally paid off. 204 00:11:10,879 --> 00:11:12,799 Cheers girls! 205 00:11:17,519 --> 00:11:19,398 So guys I've been meaning to ask you. 206 00:11:19,399 --> 00:11:21,080 What do you think about Umar? 207 00:11:22,159 --> 00:11:23,960 I think he's the luckiest boy in Abuja. 208 00:11:25,279 --> 00:11:26,600 Why would you say that? 209 00:11:27,039 --> 00:11:28,399 But that is clear now. 210 00:11:28,639 --> 00:11:31,758 Like the difference between cigarette and cannabis. 211 00:11:31,759 --> 00:11:33,639 You say the guy no be your spec. 212 00:11:35,279 --> 00:11:36,440 And what do you think my spec is? 213 00:11:38,080 --> 00:11:39,639 I laugh in french. 214 00:11:39,799 --> 00:11:40,879 Old! 215 00:11:41,440 --> 00:11:43,319 Must have grey hair. 216 00:11:43,320 --> 00:11:43,360 With pot belly Must have grey hair. 217 00:11:43,361 --> 00:11:44,720 With pot belly 218 00:11:45,519 --> 00:11:47,079 Either married or not that one doesn't matter. 219 00:11:47,080 --> 00:11:47,679 But. 220 00:11:48,600 --> 00:11:49,879 Chief Gozie. 221 00:11:50,960 --> 00:11:52,320 Ambassador Felix. 222 00:11:53,559 --> 00:11:54,320 Julius! 223 00:11:54,399 --> 00:11:57,559 Okay it's okay, Messaged received. 224 00:11:57,600 --> 00:11:59,200 Just to mention a few. 225 00:11:59,879 --> 00:12:01,600 Shocking though! But wait. 226 00:12:01,840 --> 00:12:05,200 How Umar take escape your friend zoning moves? 227 00:12:05,320 --> 00:12:08,959 Because plenty people have tried, some even died on the way. 228 00:12:08,960 --> 00:12:11,200 Okay wait, I understand but it's not that deep. 229 00:12:11,840 --> 00:12:12,759 Wait! 230 00:12:12,760 --> 00:12:13,840 Do you remember George? 231 00:12:14,240 --> 00:12:18,080 Our fine course rep you friend zoned. 232 00:12:18,279 --> 00:12:19,240 That boy was fine. 233 00:12:19,279 --> 00:12:21,279 That guy was ready. 234 00:12:21,399 --> 00:12:24,120 To follow you to any length. 235 00:12:26,840 --> 00:12:29,679 I didn't know you guys realized what my spec was. 236 00:12:32,679 --> 00:12:33,639 Kali. 237 00:12:33,960 --> 00:12:35,759 Hold on. Why Umar though? 238 00:12:37,159 --> 00:12:39,199 After years of dating older men. 239 00:12:39,200 --> 00:12:42,759 I got tired of the judgmental looks and the side talks. 240 00:12:43,840 --> 00:12:47,200 So I decided to finally try someone my own age. 241 00:12:47,399 --> 00:12:50,519 There is neither happiness nor unhappiness. 242 00:12:50,840 --> 00:12:52,039 No. 243 00:12:52,320 --> 00:12:55,120 Life at all he thought. 244 00:12:56,000 --> 00:13:00,080 He was angry with all of them for their interference. 245 00:13:00,279 --> 00:13:02,840 Just because he felt in his soul. 246 00:13:02,919 --> 00:13:06,399 That they, All these people were right. 247 00:13:08,080 --> 00:13:12,159 He felt that the love that bound him to Anna. 248 00:13:12,279 --> 00:13:14,159 Was not a momentary impulse. 249 00:13:14,240 --> 00:13:15,840 Which would pass. 250 00:13:16,000 --> 00:13:20,279 As worldly intrigues do pass. 251 00:13:24,159 --> 00:13:25,879 He knew right then. 252 00:13:26,000 --> 00:13:29,600 That they were going to spend the rest of their lives together. 253 00:13:30,159 --> 00:13:32,600 And make each other happy. 254 00:13:34,279 --> 00:13:35,840 Why are you reading ahead? 255 00:13:35,879 --> 00:13:37,919 No babe I did not. 256 00:13:39,799 --> 00:13:42,559 Those are not Tolstoy's lines. 257 00:13:44,039 --> 00:13:46,399 I'm writing our own story. 258 00:13:51,440 --> 00:13:52,440 I love you. 259 00:13:58,080 --> 00:13:59,360 You're the best. 260 00:14:01,960 --> 00:14:04,320 Babe aren't you supposed to say I love you too? 261 00:14:07,960 --> 00:14:08,960 Common. 262 00:14:10,039 --> 00:14:12,200 I don't want to lie to you. 263 00:14:14,039 --> 00:14:16,039 Babe I want you to lie to me. 264 00:14:17,639 --> 00:14:19,600 Even if it's for once. 265 00:14:20,720 --> 00:14:24,080 I'll love to hear the sound of those words from your lips. 266 00:14:29,519 --> 00:14:31,080 I want to hear them. 267 00:14:32,399 --> 00:14:33,320 I will. 268 00:14:33,559 --> 00:14:34,440 I'll say it. 269 00:14:34,759 --> 00:14:36,080 I promise. 270 00:14:36,639 --> 00:14:37,799 When I mean it. 271 00:14:43,840 --> 00:14:46,279 He was an absolute gentleman. 272 00:14:47,000 --> 00:14:48,679 One of the good ones. 273 00:14:49,879 --> 00:14:52,039 In Joan's words. 274 00:14:52,080 --> 00:14:53,840 He was the salt of the earth. 275 00:14:54,159 --> 00:14:56,639 - Let me, let me do this. - Okay fine. 276 00:14:58,320 --> 00:14:59,639 Alright just... 277 00:14:59,840 --> 00:15:01,519 Make sure you spray tomato paste over it. 278 00:15:02,279 --> 00:15:03,399 Add the cheese. 279 00:15:03,440 --> 00:15:07,039 - Spray it evenly, make sure it's even. - Yes boss, let me get the tomato. 280 00:15:07,960 --> 00:15:09,559 You're so sexy when you are doing this. 281 00:15:14,399 --> 00:15:16,639 Let's just put this guy here. 282 00:15:17,519 --> 00:15:19,279 Watch and learn alright? 283 00:15:19,919 --> 00:15:22,039 How am I learning from what I'm teaching?! 284 00:15:25,639 --> 00:15:26,759 Yes. 285 00:15:26,879 --> 00:15:28,399 Even even even! 286 00:15:32,240 --> 00:15:35,240 I'm thinking I should have spread it a bit more. 287 00:15:35,279 --> 00:15:37,199 - Stop doing this! - You are so... 288 00:15:37,200 --> 00:15:39,879 I'm already a mess being with you in the kitchen. 289 00:15:48,879 --> 00:15:53,720 (Clears throat) Ladies and gentlemen! for the 10th consecutive year. 290 00:15:55,440 --> 00:15:58,840 The best chef award goes to... 291 00:15:58,879 --> 00:16:02,639 Chef Kali! 292 00:16:02,720 --> 00:16:04,159 Thank you! Thank you! 293 00:16:05,840 --> 00:16:08,080 Please come and sit down. 294 00:16:09,679 --> 00:16:13,960 - Let's admit this is extra ordinary, to be honest. - This is really good. 295 00:16:14,000 --> 00:16:16,240 I mean you also helped so thank you. 296 00:16:16,320 --> 00:16:18,200 I guess they should add chef to my name as well. 297 00:16:18,240 --> 00:16:21,960 I'm telling you actually yeah Chef Umar that actually doesn't sound bad. 298 00:16:22,080 --> 00:16:23,320 Welcome madam! 299 00:16:24,039 --> 00:16:27,600 Umar how far now! I wasn't expecting to see you here today. 300 00:16:27,840 --> 00:16:29,080 I miss you too. 301 00:16:30,279 --> 00:16:32,559 You do know I can not stay away from this girl for too long. 302 00:16:32,600 --> 00:16:33,399 You know now. 303 00:16:33,519 --> 00:16:36,240 - How is work? - Work is good. 304 00:16:36,399 --> 00:16:37,480 Where are you coming from? 305 00:16:37,519 --> 00:16:38,879 - Here. - A meeting. 306 00:16:40,279 --> 00:16:41,120 Thank you! 307 00:16:41,639 --> 00:16:43,518 This is exactly what I needed today. 308 00:16:43,519 --> 00:16:44,320 Oh God! 309 00:16:44,639 --> 00:16:45,679 It's good. 310 00:16:46,759 --> 00:16:49,240 Better enjoy it because this is the last free slice you'll get. 311 00:16:49,320 --> 00:16:51,639 - You cant be serious? - I am. 312 00:16:52,639 --> 00:16:54,759 And even you looking at her, you too. 313 00:16:56,159 --> 00:16:57,600 This is our house now. 314 00:17:06,799 --> 00:17:08,799 I know that face. 315 00:17:08,839 --> 00:17:10,079 What face? 316 00:17:10,920 --> 00:17:14,559 It's the leave us alone so that we can enjoy our company face. 317 00:17:19,400 --> 00:17:22,599 And that's what happens when you're loyal to a fault. 318 00:17:22,680 --> 00:17:24,839 Like being in love with one pattern of bedsheet alone. 319 00:17:24,920 --> 00:17:27,279 You don't have to take the whole yogurt, Common now! 320 00:17:28,680 --> 00:17:31,559 - She left us two glasses. - Don't mind her. 321 00:17:32,279 --> 00:17:33,319 So was it about... 322 00:17:33,400 --> 00:17:34,799 The money with the older men. 323 00:17:34,839 --> 00:17:37,000 No, It wasn't just about the money. 324 00:17:38,680 --> 00:17:41,759 Even though I didn't realize that it until I started making my own money. 325 00:17:48,640 --> 00:17:51,720 You know I've always liked the idea of having my own money 326 00:17:52,039 --> 00:17:53,920 So I could make my own choices. 327 00:17:55,680 --> 00:17:57,559 When I was in school, I... 328 00:17:57,680 --> 00:18:00,200 I became a personal shopper for... 329 00:18:00,599 --> 00:18:01,519 Rich kids. 330 00:18:02,359 --> 00:18:04,160 And I made a lot of money. 331 00:18:05,039 --> 00:18:07,519 But you know even then people couldn't believe that. 332 00:18:07,960 --> 00:18:10,039 I was making my own money. 333 00:18:10,440 --> 00:18:13,319 Because they felt it was the men who were giving it to me. 334 00:18:15,559 --> 00:18:18,319 It wasn't my fault that these men could. 335 00:18:18,640 --> 00:18:21,440 Could spend money on people that they love. 336 00:18:21,519 --> 00:18:22,920 Without you even having to ask. 337 00:18:26,640 --> 00:18:28,200 So what was it then? 338 00:18:30,319 --> 00:18:31,319 I don't know. 339 00:18:32,880 --> 00:18:34,799 I still can't explain it. 340 00:18:38,880 --> 00:18:40,759 I mean they get me. 341 00:18:41,799 --> 00:18:44,200 They get me on a deep level. 342 00:18:49,720 --> 00:18:52,839 And the way they feel grateful for having me in their lives. 343 00:18:55,680 --> 00:18:57,160 That makes me feel good. 344 00:18:59,279 --> 00:19:02,759 So did you find this deep connection with Umar? 345 00:19:04,319 --> 00:19:08,920 When I realized that I was only attracted to older men I decided to break that. 346 00:19:11,200 --> 00:19:12,920 I dated Umar as a... 347 00:19:13,079 --> 00:19:14,759 Conscious decision. 348 00:19:16,480 --> 00:19:18,640 To date people my own age. 349 00:19:20,400 --> 00:19:24,039 - And how did that go? - For awhile it was good. 350 00:19:27,079 --> 00:19:28,240 I had the... 351 00:19:29,319 --> 00:19:32,559 Care and support of my friends and Umar. 352 00:19:33,119 --> 00:19:35,640 I had a business that was blossoming. 353 00:19:40,000 --> 00:19:41,680 I wasn't happy. 354 00:19:46,920 --> 00:19:51,000 Somehow I still felt lonely even in a sea of people. 355 00:19:54,039 --> 00:19:55,880 What did he do about this? 356 00:19:56,559 --> 00:19:57,599 Nothing! 357 00:19:59,279 --> 00:20:00,400 Nothing! 358 00:20:02,079 --> 00:20:03,839 Umar was too... 359 00:20:05,079 --> 00:20:07,319 Care free too. 360 00:20:07,920 --> 00:20:09,680 Notice I wasn't happy. 361 00:20:10,440 --> 00:20:11,799 And he was. 362 00:20:12,319 --> 00:20:15,519 Too selfish to see that I was no longer smiling. 363 00:20:21,920 --> 00:20:24,319 Don't get me wrong Umar is a good guy. 364 00:20:26,680 --> 00:20:29,279 I guess even good guys have their own flaws. 365 00:20:31,799 --> 00:20:34,759 When was the last time you talked with your mum? 366 00:20:37,440 --> 00:20:39,720 I don't know what's happening to me mama. 367 00:20:41,680 --> 00:20:43,160 Lately I just. 368 00:20:43,559 --> 00:20:46,559 Find my self so scared for my future. 369 00:20:58,839 --> 00:20:59,920 I think I'm... 370 00:20:59,960 --> 00:21:02,400 - Depressed mama. - God forbid! 371 00:21:02,839 --> 00:21:05,400 You are not depressed my daughter. 372 00:21:05,440 --> 00:21:09,759 Depression is of the devil and you have nothing in common with him. 373 00:21:10,319 --> 00:21:11,079 Come. 374 00:21:12,160 --> 00:21:16,240 Does this have anything to do with your fathers death? 375 00:21:51,680 --> 00:21:52,440 Babe. 376 00:21:53,759 --> 00:21:55,880 When was the last time you saw your period? 377 00:21:59,440 --> 00:22:01,319 Don't worry I am not pregnant. 378 00:22:01,759 --> 00:22:03,279 That's not what I meant. 379 00:22:04,160 --> 00:22:07,400 I'm talking about your mood, it's been a bit... 380 00:22:08,240 --> 00:22:09,559 Funny lately. 381 00:22:12,200 --> 00:22:13,160 Yeah. 382 00:22:14,160 --> 00:22:15,599 Wow! 383 00:22:20,839 --> 00:22:22,559 So babe. 384 00:22:24,720 --> 00:22:28,319 You do know that sex actually helps relieve mood swings. 385 00:22:29,759 --> 00:22:30,799 Yes. 386 00:22:31,279 --> 00:22:33,200 It raises your endorphin's. 387 00:22:33,519 --> 00:22:35,720 With other hormones and it makes your mood... 388 00:22:36,160 --> 00:22:37,559 A bit more lively. 389 00:22:37,680 --> 00:22:39,680 Okay, so first! 390 00:22:39,920 --> 00:22:41,519 I'm on my period. 391 00:22:42,240 --> 00:22:44,279 But now I need sex? 392 00:22:46,440 --> 00:22:46,920 Alright. 393 00:22:47,079 --> 00:22:48,279 This is what I'm thinking. 394 00:22:49,440 --> 00:22:52,359 I think we should go for a late night movie, and when we come back. 395 00:22:52,680 --> 00:22:54,359 We can have some. 396 00:22:55,279 --> 00:22:56,759 You know, late night sex. 397 00:22:59,039 --> 00:22:59,759 What do you think? 398 00:23:01,279 --> 00:23:02,680 Goodness! 399 00:23:04,079 --> 00:23:04,839 Babe! 400 00:23:40,319 --> 00:23:42,839 Thinking back now I realize. 401 00:23:44,920 --> 00:23:46,640 I was the problem. 402 00:23:48,799 --> 00:23:50,440 It wasn't him. 403 00:23:50,920 --> 00:23:52,440 It wasn't anyone else. 404 00:23:53,559 --> 00:23:54,599 It was me. 405 00:23:58,200 --> 00:24:00,839 Or maybe I'm too self-important. 406 00:24:11,599 --> 00:24:14,799 I know that somewhere along the way I've lost. 407 00:24:15,599 --> 00:24:18,319 I've lost myself, I've lost my way. 408 00:24:24,440 --> 00:24:26,720 But I don't remember where. 409 00:24:29,960 --> 00:24:32,039 I have so many questions. 410 00:24:35,839 --> 00:24:37,160 And no answer. 411 00:24:41,759 --> 00:24:44,440 What answers do you seek? 412 00:24:52,400 --> 00:24:53,799 Really thanks darling! 413 00:24:53,880 --> 00:24:56,240 Don't worry about it, I have the bills for today. 414 00:24:56,279 --> 00:24:58,680 I just want to see that smile again. 415 00:24:58,759 --> 00:25:01,200 - Look at me I'm smiling. - I can see. 416 00:25:02,680 --> 00:25:06,319 Joan, you said you'll speak to your dad to help me out. 417 00:25:07,680 --> 00:25:10,319 Or do you like how broke and jobless I am? 418 00:25:10,559 --> 00:25:12,680 I can't keep spending your money all the time. 419 00:25:12,720 --> 00:25:15,720 I would also like to take my girls out too. What do you think? 420 00:25:16,079 --> 00:25:17,880 I'll tell him when next I see him. 421 00:25:17,920 --> 00:25:18,799 -I promise -Thank you! 422 00:25:18,839 --> 00:25:21,759 You you are equally job hunting? 423 00:25:22,519 --> 00:25:25,759 - You that wakes up at 12 pm. - Is it not that serious? 424 00:25:26,119 --> 00:25:27,680 You guys shouldn't bother yourself. 425 00:25:27,799 --> 00:25:29,839 By the time I start making my millions. 426 00:25:29,920 --> 00:25:32,160 I'll block both of you on social media. 427 00:25:33,640 --> 00:25:36,519 Wait better still I'll employ the both of you. 428 00:25:36,640 --> 00:25:38,439 You! You'll be my cook. 429 00:25:38,440 --> 00:25:40,279 You are laughing, What can you do? 430 00:25:43,559 --> 00:25:45,799 I don't think I can employ you. 431 00:25:45,960 --> 00:25:47,359 I will just block you. 432 00:25:47,440 --> 00:25:48,839 - So you'll rest. - It's okay! 433 00:25:49,119 --> 00:25:50,119 I can do. 434 00:25:50,240 --> 00:25:51,319 - Do what? - What do you want me to do? 435 00:25:51,359 --> 00:25:52,480 - What can you even do? - Anything. 436 00:25:52,559 --> 00:25:53,759 - Tell me now. - Please. 437 00:25:53,839 --> 00:25:56,359 - I can work. - You will ruin my company. 438 00:25:57,759 --> 00:25:59,480 Something I will blow. 439 00:26:00,000 --> 00:26:02,200 I've told you, come and hire me. 440 00:26:02,319 --> 00:26:03,880 I am employable. 441 00:26:04,200 --> 00:26:06,640 - I will make your business boom! - You are funny! 442 00:26:06,799 --> 00:26:07,680 Consider it. 443 00:26:07,680 --> 00:26:07,718 Rest. Consider it. 444 00:26:07,719 --> 00:26:08,519 Rest. 445 00:26:08,559 --> 00:26:10,400 I will rest. 446 00:27:22,200 --> 00:27:23,559 Hi! 447 00:27:27,880 --> 00:27:29,279 You're good? 448 00:27:37,400 --> 00:27:39,240 Your eyes are amazing! 449 00:27:41,720 --> 00:27:43,160 You know that? 450 00:27:43,319 --> 00:27:47,319 You shouldn't close them not even at night. 451 00:27:55,720 --> 00:27:58,960 Would you mind taking a walk with me? (chuckles) 452 00:28:00,759 --> 00:28:05,880 Most men I've met would ask you out for drinks or food. 453 00:28:06,400 --> 00:28:09,559 I don't think I've ever met any man who asked me out for a walk. 454 00:28:10,839 --> 00:28:12,039 Well! 455 00:28:13,400 --> 00:28:15,799 Most girls, will also be in there. 456 00:28:16,759 --> 00:28:19,079 Drinking up and partying. 457 00:28:19,759 --> 00:28:24,960 But here you are alone and clearly you are not waiting for anyone. 458 00:28:29,880 --> 00:28:32,839 So would you want to walk with me while you? 459 00:28:33,359 --> 00:28:35,640 Why do you think I'm not waiting for someone? 460 00:28:41,160 --> 00:28:43,519 Your eyes tell me everything. 461 00:28:45,119 --> 00:28:47,240 And what else do they tell you? 462 00:28:50,839 --> 00:28:53,279 That you have a lot to say. 463 00:28:56,160 --> 00:28:57,000 So? 464 00:28:58,839 --> 00:29:00,119 We walk. 465 00:29:00,279 --> 00:29:01,960 You talk. 466 00:29:02,119 --> 00:29:04,880 While I stare into those beautiful eyes. 467 00:29:14,880 --> 00:29:15,759 After you. 468 00:29:19,079 --> 00:29:22,519 I think there's a lot to explore in this direction. 469 00:29:28,279 --> 00:29:30,159 So you know somehow every body. 470 00:29:30,160 --> 00:29:33,559 Just expects me to come into their lives and make their lives better. 471 00:29:33,759 --> 00:29:35,000 You know. 472 00:29:35,559 --> 00:29:37,720 This feels like they feel I'm this... 473 00:29:37,799 --> 00:29:39,160 Thing this good luck charm. 474 00:29:39,200 --> 00:29:42,200 That once they have me all their problems are just going to go away. 475 00:29:43,079 --> 00:29:44,480 But it's not true. 476 00:29:44,559 --> 00:29:47,839 - It's not? - I mean at the end of the day. 477 00:29:47,880 --> 00:29:50,559 I'm just as confused as the girl next door. 478 00:29:56,440 --> 00:29:59,559 - So you know one other thing that feels really weird. - What? 479 00:29:59,599 --> 00:30:01,559 Imagine this, picture this. 480 00:30:02,079 --> 00:30:03,319 There is someone. 481 00:30:04,759 --> 00:30:06,559 Who you... 482 00:30:06,759 --> 00:30:07,920 Think you fancy. 483 00:30:08,200 --> 00:30:10,200 Only to realize after a while. 484 00:30:10,279 --> 00:30:13,279 That you never did and at that point you were just lonely. 485 00:30:15,079 --> 00:30:16,359 That's weird right? 486 00:30:19,039 --> 00:30:20,720 You can't trick the heart. 487 00:30:21,119 --> 00:30:24,640 It what it wants at the time he wants it. 488 00:30:24,839 --> 00:30:28,559 - Okay but I know something that is even worse. - So? 489 00:30:29,759 --> 00:30:32,119 The person you're beating yourself over. 490 00:30:32,200 --> 00:30:33,920 Because you know, You're trying to... 491 00:30:34,400 --> 00:30:36,599 Take their feelings into consideration. 492 00:30:36,759 --> 00:30:38,279 And then at the end of the day you find out that. 493 00:30:38,440 --> 00:30:40,400 They didn't like you either. 494 00:30:40,599 --> 00:30:43,680 And you were both just lonely at that time. 495 00:30:43,799 --> 00:30:45,440 And using each other to pass away time. 496 00:30:45,559 --> 00:30:47,759 So now you're just nothing but a distant memory. 497 00:30:50,079 --> 00:30:53,079 - Love is depressing huh? - Yeah it is. 498 00:30:53,519 --> 00:30:54,759 It is. 499 00:30:55,440 --> 00:30:57,319 Do you know what will be really cool? 500 00:30:57,759 --> 00:30:58,680 Tell me. 501 00:30:58,720 --> 00:31:00,680 - Time machines. - Sorry? 502 00:31:00,759 --> 00:31:01,359 Yes! 503 00:31:03,799 --> 00:31:07,559 Imagine a situation where everyone has a time machine. 504 00:31:08,920 --> 00:31:13,039 You can all go into the future and see who the one. 505 00:31:13,319 --> 00:31:14,000 Is. 506 00:31:14,839 --> 00:31:17,679 Think about it I mean it will save every single person. 507 00:31:17,680 --> 00:31:20,400 A whole world of heartbreaks and... 508 00:31:20,839 --> 00:31:22,880 And break ups. 509 00:31:23,799 --> 00:31:24,599 We all just... 510 00:31:25,079 --> 00:31:25,599 You know. 511 00:31:25,960 --> 00:31:28,799 Know who we are with and every body is happy. 512 00:31:29,799 --> 00:31:31,599 But wouldn't that be a boring life. 513 00:31:31,680 --> 00:31:33,880 Well a boring life is better than a sad life. 514 00:31:35,960 --> 00:31:37,880 You know, I mean it's not like you can't have fun. 515 00:31:37,920 --> 00:31:41,440 You can but you just know the person you are having fun with is. 516 00:31:41,519 --> 00:31:43,200 Definitely not the one for you. 517 00:31:43,279 --> 00:31:44,799 And they know the same too. 518 00:31:46,799 --> 00:31:49,400 I think it'll kill the joy of life. 519 00:31:49,640 --> 00:31:50,160 If. 520 00:31:50,240 --> 00:31:52,559 If I know what's going to happen tomorrow. 521 00:31:52,799 --> 00:31:55,720 To be honest I will revel in the fact. 522 00:31:57,119 --> 00:31:59,279 That I have what tomorrow has in store for me. 523 00:32:00,880 --> 00:32:01,880 See. 524 00:32:02,119 --> 00:32:04,880 We both left home with different plans. 525 00:32:06,319 --> 00:32:09,680 Neither of us knowing what the day would bring for us. 526 00:32:09,720 --> 00:32:12,000 Here we are, yet. 527 00:32:12,160 --> 00:32:14,359 You know. Here we are. 528 00:32:14,599 --> 00:32:17,799 I think the stars are just aligning. 529 00:32:17,920 --> 00:32:19,000 To... 530 00:32:19,279 --> 00:32:21,119 Bring our footsteps together. 531 00:32:21,640 --> 00:32:23,359 At this very moment. 532 00:32:26,200 --> 00:32:27,559 Who are you? 533 00:32:27,759 --> 00:32:28,640 Gil Thorpe. 534 00:32:29,640 --> 00:32:31,559 - That's an interesting name. - Yes. 535 00:32:31,599 --> 00:32:34,559 Don't tell me you never watched modern family. 536 00:32:35,160 --> 00:32:39,000 (Both Laughing) 537 00:32:39,680 --> 00:32:43,920 Women are usually more mature than men their own age. 538 00:32:44,240 --> 00:32:47,440 And the look for relationships with people... 539 00:32:47,759 --> 00:32:50,200 Who match their level of maturity. 540 00:32:50,440 --> 00:32:52,400 It's a psychological thing. 541 00:32:53,279 --> 00:32:57,440 Could this be the reason why you were instantly drawn to him? 542 00:32:57,720 --> 00:32:58,400 No. 543 00:32:59,440 --> 00:33:00,240 No. 544 00:33:01,319 --> 00:33:02,799 It was more than that. 545 00:33:04,680 --> 00:33:06,640 There was something about him. 546 00:33:07,000 --> 00:33:11,599 Something about being understood. 547 00:33:12,599 --> 00:33:16,359 There's something about talking for hours without being judged. 548 00:33:19,640 --> 00:33:23,440 I know we must have spent about two or three hours talking and... 549 00:33:23,519 --> 00:33:25,759 In that time I never. 550 00:33:25,920 --> 00:33:29,240 Saw him bring out his phone, not even once. 551 00:33:29,480 --> 00:33:31,279 - Mobile phone? - Yes! 552 00:33:34,160 --> 00:33:37,279 I even had to pay him a compliment for that. 553 00:34:02,559 --> 00:34:03,720 You know... 554 00:34:04,960 --> 00:34:07,160 I know you are seeing. 555 00:34:07,480 --> 00:34:09,199 Someone now. 556 00:34:10,559 --> 00:34:13,320 And honestly I respect that. 557 00:34:15,639 --> 00:34:16,800 But... 558 00:34:18,400 --> 00:34:22,320 I like you very much already. 559 00:34:23,519 --> 00:34:27,639 You are someone I'd like to spend a long... long time with. 560 00:34:38,119 --> 00:34:40,239 Will you give me your number? 561 00:34:44,280 --> 00:34:47,199 So I have an idea. What if? 562 00:34:49,360 --> 00:34:51,119 Instead of that. 563 00:34:52,440 --> 00:34:57,840 What if we just meet back here, where we met. 564 00:34:58,360 --> 00:34:59,840 At 4 pm. 565 00:35:00,119 --> 00:35:02,880 Next Sunday. That's six days from now. 566 00:35:04,679 --> 00:35:06,760 - In six days from now. - Yes. 567 00:35:11,480 --> 00:35:12,280 Okay! 568 00:35:13,440 --> 00:35:15,920 You said Okay so quickly, what if I don't show up? 569 00:35:16,480 --> 00:35:17,360 It's Okay. 570 00:35:17,599 --> 00:35:18,760 I'll keep coming here. 571 00:35:18,800 --> 00:35:20,760 I'll come here next Sunday if you don't show up. 572 00:35:21,519 --> 00:35:23,480 I'll come every Sunday after that. 573 00:35:33,480 --> 00:35:36,119 Do you know what? I have an idea. 574 00:35:36,360 --> 00:35:38,718 - What if we are to make a video. - Video? 575 00:35:38,719 --> 00:35:39,119 Yes! 576 00:35:39,159 --> 00:35:40,480 Right? So that way. 577 00:35:42,000 --> 00:35:43,320 Even if... 578 00:35:45,360 --> 00:35:48,199 Even if I don't show, even if you don't show. 579 00:35:48,440 --> 00:35:50,920 At least we would always have a memory of this. 580 00:35:53,599 --> 00:35:55,599 - Okay? - Game! 581 00:35:58,000 --> 00:35:58,719 Game! 582 00:36:01,599 --> 00:36:04,079 Say something Gil Thorpe. 583 00:36:04,559 --> 00:36:05,480 Something. 584 00:36:55,920 --> 00:36:59,960 For the first time in my life I was nervous about meeting someone. 585 00:37:00,079 --> 00:37:03,038 I just wanted to look perfect for this stranger. 586 00:37:03,039 --> 00:37:04,880 Whose name I didn't even know. 587 00:37:12,760 --> 00:37:15,239 (Whistling) 588 00:37:15,679 --> 00:37:18,360 (Whistling) 589 00:37:18,440 --> 00:37:19,480 What's all these!? 590 00:37:20,599 --> 00:37:21,920 Are you giving your clothes out? 591 00:37:23,239 --> 00:37:28,199 - You'll have to kill me before that happens. - So why is your room so scattered? 592 00:37:28,679 --> 00:37:30,480 I'm. I'm... 593 00:37:30,800 --> 00:37:33,360 I'm looking for something to wear for a date. 594 00:37:33,920 --> 00:37:36,599 I need it to be as hot as it can be. 595 00:37:38,159 --> 00:37:40,079 Since when do you need to look hot for Umar? 596 00:37:40,719 --> 00:37:42,920 Wait! Is he about to propose? 597 00:37:46,480 --> 00:37:49,000 - Joan, Joan calm down. - Please. 598 00:37:49,119 --> 00:37:51,880 As your maid of honor, we need to talk about colors of the day. 599 00:37:52,079 --> 00:37:54,199 What you thinking bro? What you... 600 00:37:55,760 --> 00:37:57,360 No No. 601 00:37:57,679 --> 00:37:58,599 No. 602 00:38:01,039 --> 00:38:02,800 So is everything okay. 603 00:38:03,079 --> 00:38:05,559 Cos I've been hearing plenty stories from him. 604 00:38:10,480 --> 00:38:11,400 Yes. 605 00:38:11,960 --> 00:38:14,320 We good. Everything is alright. 606 00:38:14,920 --> 00:38:16,039 Can I ask you something? 607 00:38:16,800 --> 00:38:18,239 Have I ever said no? 608 00:38:19,880 --> 00:38:21,280 Would you still... 609 00:38:22,079 --> 00:38:23,800 Call it cheating if... 610 00:38:24,800 --> 00:38:27,559 You know there's someone who is always on your mind. 611 00:38:27,639 --> 00:38:28,800 Not your partner. 612 00:38:29,280 --> 00:38:31,119 Is that still classified as cheating? 613 00:38:31,400 --> 00:38:34,880 Is this someone else the reason why you ghosted us the other day? 614 00:38:39,000 --> 00:38:41,360 What ever you are doing just think of Umar. 615 00:38:41,480 --> 00:38:44,039 Because what you guys have is good. 616 00:38:44,079 --> 00:38:46,079 It would be sad to see you mess it up. 617 00:38:49,880 --> 00:38:51,239 Please make my own. 618 00:38:52,039 --> 00:38:53,800 Help me arrange the room I will. 619 00:38:53,840 --> 00:38:57,280 Two tops only! 620 00:38:57,400 --> 00:39:00,199 Don't worry leave it, don't worry, don't stress yourself. 621 00:40:16,639 --> 00:40:19,079 Say something nice. 622 00:40:19,400 --> 00:40:20,679 Something. 623 00:40:20,719 --> 00:40:25,000 (Laughter) 624 00:40:30,280 --> 00:40:33,400 I finally lost all hope in the relationship. 625 00:40:34,079 --> 00:40:37,320 And It was really clear to me that we could never work. 626 00:40:37,360 --> 00:40:38,679 Kali! 627 00:40:43,000 --> 00:40:44,920 Kali this is really impressive. 628 00:40:45,400 --> 00:40:47,599 So your phone is actually working. 629 00:40:49,079 --> 00:40:50,400 How are you? 630 00:40:54,559 --> 00:40:55,400 Kali! 631 00:40:56,159 --> 00:40:59,119 Why haven't you been responding to my calls. 632 00:40:59,400 --> 00:41:02,880 - I'm sorry. - Don't sit there and tell me you are sorry. 633 00:41:03,960 --> 00:41:06,480 You have a lot of explanation to give me. 634 00:41:07,719 --> 00:41:09,399 But first we are going to start. 635 00:41:09,400 --> 00:41:10,679 With exactly what you've been doing. 636 00:41:10,719 --> 00:41:12,599 With yourself for the past few weeks. 637 00:41:16,800 --> 00:41:22,639 So I've curated a list of branding and packaging concept designs. 638 00:41:23,480 --> 00:41:27,719 I'm sending it you now so you can start working on them. 639 00:41:28,159 --> 00:41:31,400 As soon as possible Okay? Alright. 640 00:41:41,239 --> 00:41:42,280 Babe. 641 00:41:44,000 --> 00:41:46,360 If I remember clearly. 642 00:41:46,599 --> 00:41:49,880 You told me that you're going to make it up to me. 643 00:41:52,079 --> 00:41:53,760 Sure. 644 00:41:54,880 --> 00:41:56,480 So I'm thinking. 645 00:41:57,079 --> 00:42:00,320 That this is just the perfect time. 646 00:42:09,440 --> 00:42:13,159 - My dad said he will like to meet you. - Sure. 647 00:42:13,199 --> 00:42:15,440 Why not? When does he want to see me. 648 00:42:15,480 --> 00:42:18,880 My dad died sixteen years ago. 649 00:42:20,239 --> 00:42:24,599 - You of all people should know this. - I'm so sorry It totally skipped me. 650 00:42:28,480 --> 00:42:29,599 Babe I'm sorry. 651 00:42:29,639 --> 00:42:30,920 Babe come back to bed now. 652 00:42:30,960 --> 00:42:33,400 Don't make a mountain out of a mole hill. Alright? 653 00:42:34,320 --> 00:42:35,119 I'm sorry. 654 00:42:35,199 --> 00:42:38,079 Okay wait, It's good I have your attention now. 655 00:42:38,400 --> 00:42:40,760 So yes, maybe I can finally do this. 656 00:42:40,800 --> 00:42:42,199 Umar! 657 00:42:42,400 --> 00:42:43,840 Do you know what my mum does? 658 00:42:43,960 --> 00:42:44,840 Do you remember? 659 00:42:49,679 --> 00:42:52,679 On the days, when she's not selling puff puff. 660 00:42:52,800 --> 00:42:56,119 She's going from door to door preaching. 661 00:42:59,480 --> 00:43:02,880 Umar you and I we're not the same. 662 00:43:03,119 --> 00:43:04,480 - Kali! - It's. 663 00:43:06,960 --> 00:43:10,800 I'm not one of you rich Abuja kids. 664 00:43:11,679 --> 00:43:13,159 Okay? 665 00:43:14,000 --> 00:43:16,280 And now that you know this. 666 00:43:19,800 --> 00:43:21,920 Do you still think we can be together? 667 00:43:26,480 --> 00:43:30,079 - That's what I thought. - Kali! 668 00:43:31,000 --> 00:43:31,800 Babe! 669 00:43:53,719 --> 00:43:54,719 Hi! 670 00:44:02,000 --> 00:44:07,159 I didn't think you'll still be here after I stood you up for the second time. 671 00:44:09,800 --> 00:44:11,320 Wow! 672 00:44:12,519 --> 00:44:15,840 I'm sorry it took me two weeks to come for our date. 673 00:44:18,199 --> 00:44:21,518 - It's alright. - And I wish I looked nicer I just... 674 00:44:21,519 --> 00:44:24,280 I didn't have the time to put on something else. 675 00:44:28,159 --> 00:44:30,679 You're still the most beautiful woman in the world. 676 00:44:37,719 --> 00:44:41,239 Come! I want to show you something. 677 00:44:41,960 --> 00:44:43,800 Let's go this way. 678 00:44:59,480 --> 00:45:00,880 This way. 679 00:45:02,039 --> 00:45:02,840 So... 680 00:45:03,039 --> 00:45:05,880 - I've never been at an art gallery before. - Well! 681 00:45:06,000 --> 00:45:07,119 Now you have. 682 00:45:11,960 --> 00:45:15,840 - Oh this is so beautiful. - Right! 683 00:45:16,679 --> 00:45:17,639 Right. 684 00:45:18,079 --> 00:45:20,599 It's all so beautiful. 685 00:45:21,400 --> 00:45:24,840 That's exactly how I feel about you. 686 00:45:26,079 --> 00:45:28,039 You're the masterpiece here. 687 00:45:36,639 --> 00:45:37,920 How many more Sundays. 688 00:45:37,960 --> 00:45:40,679 Were you going to keep coming here, waiting for me. 689 00:45:44,400 --> 00:45:45,360 Well! 690 00:45:47,800 --> 00:45:50,840 When a man gets to his final bus stop. 691 00:45:52,400 --> 00:45:54,440 There's only one thing left to do. 692 00:45:55,280 --> 00:45:56,599 Head home. 693 00:46:10,039 --> 00:46:16,400 (Inaudible) 694 00:46:16,480 --> 00:46:20,239 - That's also possible. - You know. 695 00:46:23,440 --> 00:46:26,239 Give me a bit let me attend to this. 696 00:46:26,320 --> 00:46:27,639 - I'll be right back. - Alright. 697 00:47:04,079 --> 00:47:06,800 Oh no no sorry, we haven't ordered yet. 698 00:47:06,920 --> 00:47:08,400 Your dad did at the bar. 699 00:47:22,039 --> 00:47:25,599 Are you guys like officially dating? 700 00:47:28,599 --> 00:47:30,079 Kinda. 701 00:47:31,119 --> 00:47:34,280 You have the I am in love eyes. 702 00:47:34,559 --> 00:47:37,000 But I don't know if I should be happy or sad for you. 703 00:47:37,960 --> 00:47:39,440 Okay, calm down. 704 00:47:39,880 --> 00:47:42,000 I don't know about love, but... 705 00:47:44,119 --> 00:47:45,800 What we have is kinda deep. 706 00:47:46,280 --> 00:47:47,880 You're weird. 707 00:47:48,239 --> 00:47:49,638 How can you spend so much time with someone. 708 00:47:49,639 --> 00:47:49,677 And you don't know if you love them. How can you spend so much time with someone. 709 00:47:49,678 --> 00:47:50,880 And you don't know if you love them. 710 00:47:52,440 --> 00:47:55,158 I just don't use love in the same way other girls do. 711 00:47:55,159 --> 00:47:55,197 You know? I just don't use love in the same way other girls do. 712 00:47:55,198 --> 00:47:55,880 You know? 713 00:47:56,800 --> 00:47:58,880 So what happens to your boyfriend now? 714 00:47:59,000 --> 00:48:00,920 -Ex -Ex? 715 00:48:02,320 --> 00:48:04,800 You see by the time Umar realizes... 716 00:48:04,880 --> 00:48:06,679 How to read my body language. 717 00:48:07,119 --> 00:48:09,480 He's going to see that we've been over for a long time. 718 00:48:10,280 --> 00:48:11,880 So you don't think he deserves closure. 719 00:48:12,760 --> 00:48:13,639 Closure! 720 00:48:15,679 --> 00:48:17,039 My darling! 721 00:48:18,400 --> 00:48:22,920 Umar has his priorities and I can assure you that I am not one of them. 722 00:48:25,000 --> 00:48:26,159 So? 723 00:48:26,199 --> 00:48:29,039 When are we meeting this your new guy? 724 00:48:36,800 --> 00:48:42,519 (Inaudible) 725 00:48:43,199 --> 00:48:45,000 Toke darling! 726 00:48:45,519 --> 00:48:49,760 Let me officially introduce my two favorite ladies to each other. 727 00:48:52,119 --> 00:48:55,480 Toke meet Kali my friend. 728 00:48:56,960 --> 00:49:00,599 - Kali, Toke my daughter. - Hi, Toke. 729 00:49:00,800 --> 00:49:05,360 It's nice to finally put a face to the name I've heard so much about you. 730 00:49:06,039 --> 00:49:08,920 - Then how come I've heard nothing about you? - Stop that. 731 00:49:09,840 --> 00:49:11,719 Didn't raise you to be a rude girl. 732 00:49:11,800 --> 00:49:14,480 - Sorry daddy but... - No, enough! 733 00:49:16,880 --> 00:49:19,039 Toke I'm sure we'll get... 734 00:49:19,280 --> 00:49:21,840 A lot of time to get to know each other better. 735 00:49:22,079 --> 00:49:23,440 Not in this life. 736 00:49:29,719 --> 00:49:31,880 - I'm sorry. - It's okay. 737 00:49:42,880 --> 00:49:44,079 So, what was that about? 738 00:49:44,159 --> 00:49:46,639 Can't you see she's just a gold digger who is trying to eat your money? 739 00:49:46,679 --> 00:49:47,440 How do you know this? 740 00:49:47,519 --> 00:49:48,920 Because it's written all over her face. 741 00:49:48,960 --> 00:49:50,800 I know girls like them when I see them. 742 00:49:51,000 --> 00:49:53,919 Why are you making judgments based on face value. 743 00:49:53,920 --> 00:49:54,599 Toke! 744 00:49:55,440 --> 00:49:56,679 She is not what you think she is. 745 00:49:56,719 --> 00:49:58,960 Can you just at least get to know her? 746 00:49:59,960 --> 00:50:01,280 Okay Daddy! 747 00:50:02,280 --> 00:50:03,199 Please! 748 00:50:11,880 --> 00:50:13,440 So is that a Yes? 749 00:50:15,639 --> 00:50:17,239 No it's... 750 00:50:17,400 --> 00:50:18,880 I don't know just... 751 00:50:20,280 --> 00:50:21,960 It just feels weird. 752 00:50:22,559 --> 00:50:25,400 What's weird about going to see your mother? 753 00:50:26,000 --> 00:50:29,039 Well for starters I've never done it before. 754 00:50:29,280 --> 00:50:30,840 Lucky you! 755 00:50:31,079 --> 00:50:32,559 At least you don't have to... 756 00:50:32,760 --> 00:50:36,280 Worry about taking someone else after me to her then. 757 00:50:36,519 --> 00:50:37,480 Okay! 758 00:50:37,760 --> 00:50:39,119 Nice lines. 759 00:50:39,679 --> 00:50:42,840 Though cute but, that's not even what it's about. 760 00:50:44,159 --> 00:50:45,599 What is it then? 761 00:50:47,840 --> 00:50:50,199 I don't know. 762 00:50:50,840 --> 00:50:52,199 I don't know. 763 00:50:53,639 --> 00:50:54,639 That's fair. 764 00:50:56,000 --> 00:50:58,000 I'll let you make up your mind. 765 00:50:58,079 --> 00:51:01,800 Be rest assured, I'll support whatever decision you make. 766 00:52:23,639 --> 00:52:24,719 Kali! 767 00:52:28,360 --> 00:52:29,480 Kali! 768 00:52:46,440 --> 00:52:49,599 So you even knew that what I'm going to see on this phone. 769 00:52:51,039 --> 00:52:52,400 I wasn't going to be happy. 770 00:52:54,480 --> 00:52:55,360 Kali! 771 00:52:56,960 --> 00:52:59,840 What the hell is wrong with you? 772 00:53:03,320 --> 00:53:05,079 - This is... - Shut up!! 773 00:53:09,880 --> 00:53:10,719 Kali! 774 00:53:13,159 --> 00:53:15,679 If you were looking for money why didn't you just tell me. 775 00:53:16,599 --> 00:53:18,039 If that was what you needed. 776 00:53:19,159 --> 00:53:21,880 Instead of you going about selling yourself. 777 00:53:21,920 --> 00:53:25,079 To men for money, petty cash. 778 00:53:26,559 --> 00:53:28,320 Look you have no right to go through my phone. 779 00:53:28,679 --> 00:53:30,280 It's private. 780 00:53:33,639 --> 00:53:34,800 Kali, have you no shame? 781 00:53:35,920 --> 00:53:38,039 Are you, Are you bloody insane? 782 00:53:40,079 --> 00:53:41,599 Did you think about your privacy. 783 00:53:41,679 --> 00:53:45,760 When you were selling yourself to old men for money? 784 00:53:53,079 --> 00:53:56,400 I can't even stand you, I can't even stand you right now. 785 00:53:59,239 --> 00:54:00,800 You disgust me. 786 00:54:03,719 --> 00:54:06,199 Your dead father will be cursing you right now. 787 00:54:06,480 --> 00:54:07,480 Right now. 788 00:54:08,480 --> 00:54:09,880 What's this nonsense? 789 00:54:09,960 --> 00:54:11,639 What kind of nonsense talk is this? 790 00:54:11,719 --> 00:54:13,519 That's why I don't even like dating small boys. 791 00:54:13,599 --> 00:54:15,759 - What kind of policing is this? - Your phone! 792 00:54:15,760 --> 00:54:16,880 Give it to me. 793 00:54:18,480 --> 00:54:20,000 Your bloody phone. 794 00:54:22,400 --> 00:54:24,039 You don't even have the decency. 795 00:54:24,119 --> 00:54:26,800 To look me in the eye and apologize. 796 00:54:32,760 --> 00:54:34,039 You know what? 797 00:54:34,559 --> 00:54:35,760 You can have your phone. 798 00:54:36,480 --> 00:54:37,599 Thank you. 799 00:54:38,800 --> 00:54:41,639 You know that man is old enough to be your father, right? 800 00:54:43,679 --> 00:54:45,159 I'm glad your father is dead. 801 00:54:45,840 --> 00:54:48,199 Because he would kill himself out of shame. 802 00:54:48,639 --> 00:54:50,360 If he was still alive. 803 00:54:52,320 --> 00:54:53,480 Shame on you. 804 00:55:07,000 --> 00:55:08,559 Did you feel guilty? 805 00:55:10,719 --> 00:55:11,480 No. 806 00:55:13,280 --> 00:55:15,199 Do you feel guilty now? 807 00:55:15,800 --> 00:55:16,559 No. 808 00:55:17,639 --> 00:55:18,400 Why? 809 00:55:19,039 --> 00:55:20,119 Why should I? 810 00:55:26,239 --> 00:55:28,079 You know, thinking about my relationship. 811 00:55:28,159 --> 00:55:30,519 With older men and I'm realizing something. 812 00:55:33,880 --> 00:55:36,000 One thing that never gets talked about. 813 00:55:36,119 --> 00:55:38,079 Is the genuine connection. 814 00:55:43,159 --> 00:55:46,320 People who have away of just mistaken... 815 00:55:47,320 --> 00:55:51,760 Dating your own age mates for compatibility. 816 00:55:54,400 --> 00:55:55,480 What about trust? 817 00:55:57,480 --> 00:55:58,280 Honesty. 818 00:55:59,679 --> 00:56:01,800 Emotional self sufficiency. 819 00:56:03,039 --> 00:56:05,479 These are words that I can tell you that a lot of guys. 820 00:56:05,480 --> 00:56:09,280 My own age have no clue about. 821 00:56:14,760 --> 00:56:17,280 Describe your childhood in one word. 822 00:56:23,440 --> 00:56:24,800 I'll do you three. 823 00:56:26,800 --> 00:56:27,719 Perfect. 824 00:56:30,880 --> 00:56:31,760 Lovely. 825 00:56:33,239 --> 00:56:34,159 Beautiful. 826 00:56:37,159 --> 00:56:38,960 Nothing compares with. 827 00:56:39,400 --> 00:56:42,719 Growing up in the loving arms of my parents. 828 00:57:05,199 --> 00:57:06,679 When you get to your last bus stop. 829 00:57:06,760 --> 00:57:08,440 The only way left to go is home. 830 00:57:09,840 --> 00:57:11,679 That's something kola says. 831 00:57:17,039 --> 00:57:21,639 You are the lord that is your name. 832 00:57:25,280 --> 00:57:26,599 Nice home ma. 833 00:57:30,480 --> 00:57:33,039 I'm pretty sure you did not come all the way. 834 00:57:33,199 --> 00:57:35,280 Just praise my home. 835 00:57:36,519 --> 00:57:37,599 Kaliwana! 836 00:57:37,840 --> 00:57:39,440 Come and sit down here. 837 00:57:55,119 --> 00:57:56,400 You came to know. 838 00:57:57,239 --> 00:58:01,480 If I will accept your relationship with my daughter. 839 00:58:04,960 --> 00:58:07,800 The answer is capital NO. 840 00:58:09,000 --> 00:58:09,920 No. 841 00:58:11,440 --> 00:58:13,840 The bible frowns at it. 842 00:58:14,800 --> 00:58:18,159 Likewise myself as born again christian. 843 00:58:20,760 --> 00:58:22,679 I am sorry ma'am. 844 00:58:23,400 --> 00:58:25,000 I love your daughter. 845 00:58:26,280 --> 00:58:29,360 She gives me happiness the type that I have not... 846 00:58:29,920 --> 00:58:33,079 Known since I lost my wife. 847 00:58:33,119 --> 00:58:34,320 I love her. 848 00:58:35,760 --> 00:58:37,599 I reject it in Jesus name! 849 00:58:37,639 --> 00:58:38,880 What kind of love is that? 850 00:58:42,800 --> 00:58:44,719 You want to use my daughter. 851 00:58:45,639 --> 00:58:48,639 For replacement of your dead wife. 852 00:58:51,000 --> 00:58:53,679 My beautiful pretty daughter. 853 00:58:54,679 --> 00:58:56,599 You are using her to grief. 854 00:58:56,960 --> 00:59:01,679 -No ma, No mama -Just hold on, hold it! 855 00:59:03,079 --> 00:59:04,599 Who is your mother? 856 00:59:05,599 --> 00:59:07,000 I'm not your mother. 857 00:59:09,000 --> 00:59:11,480 If not for anything you are older than me. 858 00:59:13,239 --> 00:59:15,400 You see this thing that both of you have going on? 859 00:59:15,760 --> 00:59:16,719 It's evil. 860 00:59:17,920 --> 00:59:20,159 It is caused by... 861 00:59:20,320 --> 00:59:22,239 - Evil spirit from... - Mama! 862 00:59:22,280 --> 00:59:23,360 Shut up! 863 00:59:23,800 --> 00:59:26,480 Shut up your mouth, Mama What do you know? 864 00:59:27,599 --> 00:59:30,239 Kneel down, let me pray this thing out of you. 865 00:59:30,400 --> 00:59:33,760 This devil, I say kneel down let me pray this rubbish out of you. 866 00:59:35,440 --> 00:59:37,199 I know you miss your father. 867 00:59:38,960 --> 00:59:41,480 But this is not the way to go about it. 868 00:59:43,039 --> 00:59:45,880 What is your problem Kaliwana my daughter? 869 00:59:48,599 --> 00:59:50,280 I hope it's not what I'm thinking. 870 00:59:50,400 --> 00:59:53,760 Mama you know this is the reason why we are no longer close. 871 00:59:54,079 --> 00:59:56,198 You never take any time out to understand... 872 00:59:56,199 --> 00:59:59,880 Anything or anybody all you do is judge everybody. 873 01:00:17,920 --> 01:00:18,880 You know. 874 01:00:19,960 --> 01:00:21,199 Since we met. 875 01:00:23,559 --> 01:00:25,599 I've been wishing for more time. 876 01:00:26,880 --> 01:00:30,920 I really really would like to spend more time with you. 877 01:00:31,840 --> 01:00:32,760 Well! 878 01:00:33,280 --> 01:00:34,880 - Me too. - Really! 879 01:00:39,239 --> 01:00:41,959 And again I'm really really sorry about my mum. 880 01:00:41,960 --> 01:00:44,800 Oh no please, that's water under the bridge. 881 01:00:46,400 --> 01:00:47,400 Now. 882 01:00:49,760 --> 01:00:53,039 How about you tell me about your family, everything. 883 01:00:56,320 --> 01:00:57,079 No. 884 01:00:58,000 --> 01:01:00,280 I'm sorry I'll rather not. 885 01:01:01,960 --> 01:01:02,679 It's okay. 886 01:01:03,960 --> 01:01:04,760 It's okay. 887 01:01:05,880 --> 01:01:06,599 But. 888 01:01:07,800 --> 01:01:09,039 It's you and I now. 889 01:01:09,480 --> 01:01:11,119 Going forward you know that. 890 01:01:16,559 --> 01:01:18,159 Thank you for being so sweet. 891 01:01:25,199 --> 01:01:26,840 I brought something along for you. 892 01:01:28,480 --> 01:01:29,199 Okay. 893 01:01:29,280 --> 01:01:31,119 - I hope you like it? - I hope so. 894 01:01:39,480 --> 01:01:41,280 I got one for myself too. 895 01:01:47,400 --> 01:01:48,199 Keep it. 896 01:02:01,400 --> 01:02:03,039 I'm really glad. 897 01:02:03,280 --> 01:02:05,079 That you agreed to do this. 898 01:02:05,199 --> 01:02:07,880 After that, after the last time. 899 01:02:10,119 --> 01:02:11,238 It really means a lot. 900 01:02:11,239 --> 01:02:12,960 That you agreed to come do dinner. 901 01:02:13,000 --> 01:02:14,360 With me and my daughter. 902 01:02:16,039 --> 01:02:17,960 Anything for your happiness Papi. 903 01:02:19,679 --> 01:02:20,840 Thank you! 904 01:02:24,199 --> 01:02:24,920 But. 905 01:02:26,119 --> 01:02:27,519 Why do you fancy me? 906 01:02:29,360 --> 01:02:31,000 Cos you are old and ugly. 907 01:02:33,280 --> 01:02:34,480 Got you! 908 01:02:38,000 --> 01:02:39,119 Not just sweet. 909 01:02:40,079 --> 01:02:41,400 And you're loving. 910 01:02:42,039 --> 01:02:43,159 And handsome. 911 01:02:45,880 --> 01:02:47,360 And also I just feel like. 912 01:02:47,400 --> 01:02:50,320 You know you probably deserve the most beautiful girl in the world. 913 01:02:51,599 --> 01:02:52,800 Such vanity! 914 01:02:57,679 --> 01:02:58,880 Let's go in. 915 01:03:00,800 --> 01:03:01,920 I'll get your door. 916 01:03:12,360 --> 01:03:13,079 After you. 917 01:03:21,000 --> 01:03:21,679 Daddy! 918 01:03:23,360 --> 01:03:25,800 - How are you dear? - I'm fine daddy. 919 01:03:25,880 --> 01:03:26,679 So Okay! 920 01:03:27,079 --> 01:03:28,679 It's not enough what you did to my cousin? 921 01:03:28,760 --> 01:03:30,079 Umar told me everything. 922 01:03:30,199 --> 01:03:31,320 You had to switch to my father. 923 01:03:31,400 --> 01:03:33,119 I knew this girl was a gold digger from the start. 924 01:03:33,199 --> 01:03:35,079 Now go back to the bush you came from. 925 01:03:35,920 --> 01:03:37,320 She's my girlfriend. 926 01:03:39,599 --> 01:03:40,440 Look Dad! 927 01:03:49,000 --> 01:03:50,400 Where did you pick her from? 928 01:03:50,599 --> 01:03:52,039 I told you this girl was gold digging whore. 929 01:03:52,119 --> 01:03:54,000 - But you wouldn't listen to me. - Enough! 930 01:03:55,280 --> 01:03:58,119 You will not speak to her that... That way. 931 01:03:58,320 --> 01:03:59,960 - Now apologize to her. - No dad! 932 01:04:00,800 --> 01:04:01,599 Kola! 933 01:04:03,559 --> 01:04:04,559 She's right. 934 01:04:07,360 --> 01:04:09,360 What she said is true. 935 01:04:16,480 --> 01:04:17,280 Kali! 936 01:04:18,599 --> 01:04:19,480 Kali! 937 01:04:19,719 --> 01:04:20,800 Hey hold on, hold on. 938 01:04:21,280 --> 01:04:22,519 Wait, wait now! 939 01:04:24,360 --> 01:04:25,239 Kali! 940 01:04:25,440 --> 01:04:28,440 - Hold on Kali. - Kola please. 941 01:04:29,480 --> 01:04:30,519 Please now. 942 01:04:31,480 --> 01:04:33,079 Let's let's talk about this. 943 01:04:34,599 --> 01:04:37,599 Honestly I stopped seeing him immediately we started. 944 01:04:38,440 --> 01:04:39,800 I believe you. 945 01:04:41,480 --> 01:04:43,480 I had no idea you were related. 946 01:04:44,840 --> 01:04:46,719 Look I know, I know. 947 01:04:49,960 --> 01:04:52,760 Sorry for embarrassing you in front of your daughter. 948 01:04:52,880 --> 01:04:55,639 No It's... That's fine, That's fine. 949 01:04:56,280 --> 01:04:58,920 Kali, I love you. 950 01:05:03,199 --> 01:05:05,000 Do you still love me? If I told you... 951 01:05:07,480 --> 01:05:10,360 That I used to sleep with men for money. 952 01:05:16,800 --> 01:05:18,559 I'll still love you. 953 01:05:19,480 --> 01:05:20,199 Why? 954 01:05:21,800 --> 01:05:24,159 That doesn't even make any sense. 955 01:05:25,400 --> 01:05:26,719 Who are you lying to? 956 01:05:26,880 --> 01:05:28,760 - How am I lying? - Yourself or me who? 957 01:05:28,800 --> 01:05:30,639 I am not lying. 958 01:05:31,280 --> 01:05:33,960 - I love you. - Can't even deal with this right now. 959 01:05:34,000 --> 01:05:35,320 No, Kali. 960 01:05:35,480 --> 01:05:38,000 Leave me just stop, just stop. 961 01:05:38,079 --> 01:05:39,920 I need to figure this out. 962 01:05:40,000 --> 01:05:42,039 - Don't do things like this. - Please. 963 01:05:42,079 --> 01:05:45,079 It's Okay. Alone, please. 964 01:05:56,760 --> 01:06:00,960 Sometimes home isn't a place it's a person. 965 01:06:02,599 --> 01:06:05,079 To love someone you have to love yourself first. 966 01:06:06,559 --> 01:06:09,920 I guess I just didn't love myself enough to love someone else. 967 01:06:19,840 --> 01:06:23,280 Kali, What again? 968 01:06:25,599 --> 01:06:27,039 What again what? 969 01:06:28,400 --> 01:06:30,400 Umar's uncle really? 970 01:06:32,440 --> 01:06:35,360 I had no idea that was his uncle I swear. 971 01:06:35,960 --> 01:06:37,199 I didn't know. 972 01:06:37,480 --> 01:06:38,159 Right! 973 01:06:38,480 --> 01:06:39,679 Just like you didn't know when... 974 01:06:41,599 --> 01:06:42,639 Don't worry. 975 01:06:52,800 --> 01:06:55,000 You could have had any man you wanted. 976 01:06:56,280 --> 01:06:58,840 But you chose your best friends father. 977 01:06:59,960 --> 01:07:00,880 Again. 978 01:07:01,440 --> 01:07:02,159 Why? 979 01:07:04,199 --> 01:07:06,480 This is not about Joan or her father. 980 01:07:08,480 --> 01:07:09,719 That was in the past. 981 01:07:10,960 --> 01:07:12,880 - Let's talk about your father. - Okay. 982 01:07:19,000 --> 01:07:21,599 We are even 30 minutes past our session time. 983 01:07:22,800 --> 01:07:24,320 Why did you come here? 984 01:07:27,079 --> 01:07:29,079 I'll tell you why you came here. 985 01:07:35,400 --> 01:07:37,199 A good percentage. 986 01:07:37,920 --> 01:07:39,360 Of women. 987 01:07:39,599 --> 01:07:41,679 Who loose their fathers early. 988 01:07:42,360 --> 01:07:45,880 Or who had complicated relationships with their fathers. 989 01:07:47,480 --> 01:07:56,400 Subconsciously, look for father figures who can love protect and adore them. 990 01:07:59,280 --> 01:08:03,280 They may even seek a relationship with an older man. 991 01:08:03,960 --> 01:08:08,119 Who'll give them the affection that they thought they missed in their childhood. 992 01:08:10,880 --> 01:08:14,880 Could this be the reason why women with Daddy issues... 993 01:08:16,119 --> 01:08:19,039 Seek relationships with older men? 994 01:08:20,119 --> 01:08:21,079 Stop! 995 01:08:22,000 --> 01:08:22,920 Stop! 996 01:08:27,000 --> 01:08:30,520 You came to find answers that you already have. 997 01:08:33,920 --> 01:08:39,399 People with fearful - avoidant, attachment issues. 998 01:08:40,600 --> 01:08:44,199 Find it difficult to get intimate with people. 999 01:08:48,039 --> 01:08:52,359 They are afraid to experience difficult feelings. 1000 01:08:52,640 --> 01:08:54,079 And emotions. 1001 01:08:56,319 --> 01:08:57,600 They exhibit. 1002 01:08:58,279 --> 01:09:01,840 Behaviors that are relatable 1003 01:09:02,319 --> 01:09:02,840 To. 1004 01:09:04,119 --> 01:09:07,520 Rebound dating. 1005 01:09:09,479 --> 01:09:13,079 And rushing into relationships. 1006 01:09:15,720 --> 01:09:17,319 Why do you seek? 1007 01:09:18,199 --> 01:09:20,359 When you know what you need. 1008 01:09:22,279 --> 01:09:26,199 Why do you lie to yourself and believe. 1009 01:09:28,000 --> 01:09:29,319 Please stop! 1010 01:09:33,000 --> 01:09:33,880 Okay, fine. 1011 01:09:35,119 --> 01:09:36,279 Fine! 1012 01:09:36,800 --> 01:09:37,800 You're right. 1013 01:09:39,920 --> 01:09:40,680 You're right. 1014 01:09:44,479 --> 01:09:45,479 I was jealous. 1015 01:09:50,680 --> 01:09:53,720 I was jealous of what Joan had with her father. 1016 01:10:05,000 --> 01:10:07,279 Sorry that I didn't care who got hurt. 1017 01:10:20,479 --> 01:10:21,319 I just. 1018 01:10:22,319 --> 01:10:25,560 I just feel like I've been running for so long. 1019 01:10:30,880 --> 01:10:37,479 I feel like I've been waiting for someone to catch me all my life and now I am so tired. 1020 01:11:58,079 --> 01:11:59,199 Are you okay? 1021 01:12:03,880 --> 01:12:07,319 I had a long hard look in the mirror today. 1022 01:12:09,520 --> 01:12:11,279 I didn't like what I saw. 1023 01:12:13,800 --> 01:12:15,279 I didn't like myself mama. 1024 01:12:15,680 --> 01:12:16,840 God forbid! 1025 01:12:17,239 --> 01:12:19,479 I reject it in Jesus name. 1026 01:12:19,600 --> 01:12:21,239 It is not your portion. 1027 01:12:22,399 --> 01:12:23,119 My daughter. 1028 01:12:23,399 --> 01:12:24,319 Come Come come. 1029 01:12:25,760 --> 01:12:27,880 - Come let me pray for you. - Mama stop! 1030 01:12:28,439 --> 01:12:30,239 Please just stop. 1031 01:12:32,600 --> 01:12:35,479 Can you not see that what you are doing is killing me? 1032 01:12:40,239 --> 01:12:42,199 Have you ever in even once. 1033 01:12:42,880 --> 01:12:45,399 Asked me how I'm coping with papa's death? 1034 01:12:47,640 --> 01:12:51,960 You've never despite the fact that you know he was everything to me. 1035 01:12:54,079 --> 01:12:55,760 Then when I tried to talk to you about it. 1036 01:12:55,880 --> 01:12:58,960 You just say things that kill me further. 1037 01:13:02,560 --> 01:13:04,479 Can you not see that your daughter is dying? 1038 01:13:04,600 --> 01:13:08,000 Your only child. How can you not see that she's dying inside? 1039 01:13:12,880 --> 01:13:14,880 Mum I am not saying that prayers don't work. 1040 01:13:17,000 --> 01:13:18,680 All I'm saying is. 1041 01:13:18,800 --> 01:13:21,000 Sometimes a girl needs her mother. 1042 01:13:22,560 --> 01:13:25,359 She needs her mother to tell her that she loves her. 1043 01:13:27,279 --> 01:13:29,840 Tell me that Kali you are enough! 1044 01:13:30,039 --> 01:13:32,439 Please, My daughter Please. 1045 01:13:34,079 --> 01:13:39,399 Please, I'm sorry. Look at me. 1046 01:13:39,800 --> 01:13:41,119 Please. 1047 01:13:41,880 --> 01:13:45,359 I may not know how to show you for you to understand. 1048 01:13:45,800 --> 01:13:47,479 Or appreciate. 1049 01:13:48,000 --> 01:13:50,079 But deep down in my heart. 1050 01:13:50,359 --> 01:13:54,479 You are more than everything in this world to me. 1051 01:13:56,960 --> 01:13:58,239 I love you! 1052 01:13:59,600 --> 01:14:01,840 Please forgive your mother. 1053 01:14:03,800 --> 01:14:06,920 You know I'm from a different generation. 1054 01:14:08,399 --> 01:14:12,680 The only way I know how to solve problems is prayers. 1055 01:14:13,239 --> 01:14:16,760 It's only prayers my daughter, please forgive me. 1056 01:14:16,800 --> 01:14:20,640 Please, I'm so sorry my love. Please, please. 1057 01:14:20,680 --> 01:14:22,560 Please I'm sorry. 1058 01:14:25,199 --> 01:14:29,039 (Inaudible) 1059 01:15:34,880 --> 01:15:35,880 Joan. 1060 01:15:36,479 --> 01:15:37,680 I... 1061 01:15:42,239 --> 01:15:44,239 I have something important I need to tell you. 1062 01:15:45,199 --> 01:15:46,199 O... kay! 1063 01:15:57,800 --> 01:16:00,000 I had an affair with your dad when we were in school. 1064 01:16:02,199 --> 01:16:02,880 I'm sorry. 1065 01:16:06,279 --> 01:16:08,640 Girl why you... Are you kidding me? 1066 01:16:09,880 --> 01:16:11,279 I've known all these years. 1067 01:16:12,399 --> 01:16:14,760 Wait!! Why are telling me this now? 1068 01:16:21,800 --> 01:16:23,399 Cos I've realized how... 1069 01:16:25,680 --> 01:16:27,439 How wrong that was of me. 1070 01:16:27,920 --> 01:16:30,600 How much of a crappy friend I've been to you. 1071 01:16:34,319 --> 01:16:36,600 I just felt you needed to know the truth. 1072 01:16:37,920 --> 01:16:38,960 The truth? 1073 01:16:40,119 --> 01:16:42,760 Did you even for one second think about me? 1074 01:16:43,680 --> 01:16:46,680 You've been calling me your best friend all these years and yet. 1075 01:16:49,600 --> 01:16:50,840 You know at first I was upset. 1076 01:16:51,880 --> 01:16:54,840 But then I've realized my dad has chosen his ways. 1077 01:16:55,000 --> 01:16:57,600 And you can't teach an old dog new tricks. 1078 01:16:59,159 --> 01:17:01,520 You were just one of his side chicks. 1079 01:17:05,399 --> 01:17:07,399 Or do you think you were the only one? 1080 01:17:12,279 --> 01:17:15,279 Well, the only person I felt for was my mum, I mean. 1081 01:17:16,079 --> 01:17:19,399 When I found out that even she knew and didn't say anything about it 1082 01:17:19,800 --> 01:17:22,039 Because my dad always provided for the family. 1083 01:17:22,960 --> 01:17:25,119 And gave her whatever she wanted. 1084 01:17:26,720 --> 01:17:30,119 I just figured, why was I taking panadol for another persons headache. 1085 01:17:33,840 --> 01:17:35,199 Joan I'm sorry. 1086 01:17:38,760 --> 01:17:40,359 Here! 1087 01:17:44,600 --> 01:17:47,800 For what it's worth I really needed money at the time. 1088 01:18:06,880 --> 01:18:09,319 After awhile I got my best friend back. 1089 01:18:10,600 --> 01:18:12,720 I started a new phase of healing. 1090 01:18:12,800 --> 01:18:14,000 And acceptance. 1091 01:18:26,680 --> 01:18:27,640 Oh my God! 1092 01:18:27,680 --> 01:18:29,559 These are the new collections I was telling you about. 1093 01:18:29,560 --> 01:18:31,640 I love it, I love all their designs. 1094 01:18:31,720 --> 01:18:34,520 Hands down my favorite Nigerian fashion brand, So classy! 1095 01:18:34,760 --> 01:18:36,399 - You are getting one for me. - Sure thing. 1096 01:18:36,479 --> 01:18:38,000 When I come back from my training in Milan. 1097 01:18:38,079 --> 01:18:41,039 I'm going to order one of these. 1098 01:18:41,119 --> 01:18:43,199 - Oh my God, they are so beautiful. - Are you telling me? 1099 01:18:43,239 --> 01:18:44,600 I'm buying all. 1100 01:18:48,479 --> 01:18:50,000 That's the gold digger I was telling you about. 1101 01:18:50,079 --> 01:18:52,439 If not for my intervention she would have been my step mum by now. 1102 01:18:52,479 --> 01:18:53,840 - Kali? - Yes, you know her? 1103 01:18:53,960 --> 01:18:56,118 Yes, how will you know fashion and not know her? 1104 01:18:56,119 --> 01:18:59,119 She's one of the best in the industry. 1105 01:18:59,199 --> 01:19:01,680 - What do you mean? - She's the CEO of Africana. 1106 01:19:01,840 --> 01:19:03,319 Wait, be serious now! 1107 01:19:09,399 --> 01:19:10,279 See? 1108 01:19:10,800 --> 01:19:12,920 And all this while I've been thinking... 1109 01:19:13,000 --> 01:19:14,960 - Toke come and introduce me to her now. - Noooo! 1110 01:19:15,000 --> 01:19:17,039 Please now, I always wanted to meet her. 1111 01:19:17,079 --> 01:19:18,800 And take a picture with her please. 1112 01:19:18,840 --> 01:19:21,399 Okay, this is going to be super awkward. 1113 01:19:25,600 --> 01:19:28,359 - Hi. - Hey. 1114 01:19:28,479 --> 01:19:29,680 Hi Toke. 1115 01:19:30,159 --> 01:19:32,640 Hi, I'm sorry about everything. 1116 01:19:35,479 --> 01:19:37,479 It's okay. It's okay. 1117 01:19:38,199 --> 01:19:40,399 I'm sure you had good reasons to say what you said. 1118 01:19:40,479 --> 01:19:44,399 - Still, I'm sorry. - Stop, don't be so hard on yourself. 1119 01:19:46,640 --> 01:19:49,800 You know what? I think I may have something just for you. 1120 01:19:59,920 --> 01:20:00,880 Play now! 1121 01:20:01,560 --> 01:20:02,399 Is that? 1122 01:20:03,039 --> 01:20:03,960 It's hold on. 1123 01:20:04,000 --> 01:20:04,680 Right. 1124 01:20:04,800 --> 01:20:07,279 - God I shouldn't be telling you the answers. - Are you serious? 1125 01:20:07,880 --> 01:20:11,039 Don't worry God will reward me for my kindness. 1126 01:20:13,079 --> 01:20:14,720 Just call him already. 1127 01:20:17,399 --> 01:20:20,198 Well, for once I actually do not want my happiness. 1128 01:20:20,199 --> 01:20:22,880 - To depend on somebody else. - For how long? 1129 01:20:23,359 --> 01:20:26,479 You've already beaten your record for time spent without being boo'ed up. 1130 01:20:28,640 --> 01:20:30,199 Truth is that, I've lost his number. 1131 01:20:30,279 --> 01:20:32,520 - I don't have it anymore. - Okay! 1132 01:20:32,680 --> 01:20:34,880 I'm serious, pick two. 1133 01:20:35,800 --> 01:20:36,640 See vex. 1134 01:20:39,640 --> 01:20:41,720 Pick another two cos your mouth is sharp. 1135 01:20:43,079 --> 01:20:43,840 God! 1136 01:20:50,319 --> 01:20:54,199 Does anyone else think about the whole concept of finding someone? 1137 01:20:54,760 --> 01:20:56,680 Connecting with them. 1138 01:20:57,319 --> 01:20:58,880 Falling in love with them. 1139 01:21:01,479 --> 01:21:04,960 Sometimes, I can't help but think about the unlikely odds. 1140 01:21:05,279 --> 01:21:07,520 For many coincidences that have to happen. 1141 01:21:07,600 --> 01:21:10,680 For two strangers to realize that without each other. 1142 01:21:11,119 --> 01:21:12,920 They are lost forever. 1143 01:21:14,600 --> 01:21:18,239 And when it ends, it's still beautiful because you know that deep down. 1144 01:21:18,800 --> 01:21:21,920 You have been touched by something deep. 1145 01:21:22,159 --> 01:21:23,800 Deeper than your trauma. 1146 01:21:24,880 --> 01:21:26,359 Deeper than your healing. 1147 01:21:27,079 --> 01:21:29,680 And both your lives will never be the same again. 1148 01:21:34,760 --> 01:21:35,800 Hi. 1149 01:21:37,800 --> 01:21:38,760 Hi. 1150 01:21:50,079 --> 01:21:51,800 I still wear it because I like you, 1151 01:21:56,439 --> 01:21:59,199 You know for the past one month I've been... 1152 01:22:00,399 --> 01:22:02,079 Doing a lot of healing. 1153 01:22:05,399 --> 01:22:08,279 I've been facing my past and answering questions. 1154 01:22:08,359 --> 01:22:12,000 That I've not ever dared to answer before. 1155 01:22:14,920 --> 01:22:17,239 And I realized that I've. 1156 01:22:18,399 --> 01:22:20,680 I hurt so many people in the past and... 1157 01:22:23,279 --> 01:22:26,359 The thought of finally loving someone and then hurting them I just... 1158 01:22:26,720 --> 01:22:28,399 I couldn't do that to you. 1159 01:22:28,600 --> 01:22:30,399 I couldn't do that to my self. 1160 01:22:31,800 --> 01:22:33,119 I didn't even think I was capable. 1161 01:22:33,199 --> 01:22:37,640 Of giving you back the love that you, that you give. 1162 01:22:42,960 --> 01:22:44,159 And that's why I ran. 1163 01:22:45,520 --> 01:22:46,840 I'm Sorry! 1164 01:22:57,960 --> 01:22:59,279 So where do we go now? 1165 01:23:03,760 --> 01:23:07,600 Kola always said that when love is real, it would always find a way. 1166 01:23:08,439 --> 01:23:11,760 He had said a thousand beautiful things to me that were right. 1167 01:23:11,920 --> 01:23:14,720 But this is the one I'll always remember.