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[upbeat music]
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- Nice to meet you.
- Nice to meet you.
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- Ten courageous singles
took a daring leap of faith
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In order to find
their happily ever after.
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They married as
complete strangers.
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♪ ♪
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Last time, our couples shared
their first official day
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As husband and wife.
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- How are you?
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- And met with
their new spouses'
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Family and friends.
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- You think he's hot?
- I think he's hot. Yeah.
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- What could be
a potential problem?
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- If we're just hard headed,
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We're gonna run up
against some issues.
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There's gonna be some conflict.
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- So far, I'm very happy.
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I'm eager to learn more.
- Good.
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- Why did you want to marry
a stranger?
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- I just found it to be nuts.
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- Oh, I'm warm in here.
Is it just me?
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- I'm looking forward to
some intimacy,
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Spicing things up.
- All right, husband.
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- It's like they say,
jamaica can get hot and steamy,
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You know, so--
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- You about to turn it up
even more, huh?
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- Yeah, turn it up
a little more, you know.
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- My first relationship ever,
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He just made me feel like
I was so not worthy of love.
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- It feels so good
to have someone be so upfront
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Because I've never
really had that before.
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But I feel like
I can be that with you.
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♪ ♪
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- So we are not going to
the honeymoon on tomorrow.
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I have to travel to
jackson, mississippi.
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- What?
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While all the other couples
are in jamaica,
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I'm gonna be sitting in
this hotel waiting on him.
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You got a lot of making up
to do.
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- ♪ all around the world,
oh, oh, oh, oh-oh ♪
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- And tonight,
our honeymooning couples
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Continue to grow closer.
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- I will not have sex with you
in this pool.
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- [laughs]
- I'm a gentlemen.
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- What else do you
wanna know about me?
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- What's your favorite
sexual position?
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[music drowns out]
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- Am I your dream wife?
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- So far.
[chuckles]
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- Do you love me yet?
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[intense music]
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- [chuckles]
I've never been in love.
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- He could possibly not
fall in love with me either,
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And that's scary.
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- Are you ever
afraid to kiss me?
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- I don't really vibe
with redheads
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Or, like, gingery features.
- Mm-hmm.
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- And not to say
you're unattractive,
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But just that's what you are.
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♪ ♪
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- ♪ it's all or nothing ♪
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- This is
"married at first sight."
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- ♪ there's no other way ♪
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♪ it's all or nothing ♪
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- ♪ this is it,
the prime of my life ♪
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♪ I'm having
the time of my life ♪
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- Our first night
together on our honeymoon,
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So far so good.
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- Slept great.
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He snored all night.
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- I don't snore.
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- First coconuts
freshly chopped off the tree.
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And cheers.
- Cheers.
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I don't know how to--
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- I brought a purse,
a bathing suit cover up,
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Our koozies.
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I've got sunglasses.
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This might fit you.
This is--
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- Is this like
a magician's hat?
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How do you have
so much gear in there?
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- It's day one
of the honeymoon,
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And while most of our couples
are waking up in paradise,
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One couple is still making
their way to jamaica.
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- We are in jackson.
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We are leaving--
- finally. Hallelujah.
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Praise the lord.
- The research-cation--
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The research-cation--
and finally heading to jamaica.
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- How did your
research-cation go?
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- It was great.
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- I'm glad I'm here
to support him.
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- Thank you.
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- Our hope for
all the couples is that
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They will use this time away
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From the distractions of
everyday life
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To continue to bond
and get an intimate look
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At what their future will look
like as husband and wife.
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- First night in jamaica,
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First night on the honeymoon.
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How you feeling?
- I feel great.
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- I think we're going
snorkeling or something.
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- Snorkeling, yes.
I can't wait.
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- I ain't done that since,
like, I was a kid,
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So I'm really
looking forward to that.
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- Rolling out.
- Spur of the moment excursion.
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- Little waterfall action.
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- Go check out the freshness
of the jamaican water
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Spilling out of
the side of the mountain.
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- [chuckles]
that's descriptive.
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- It's gonna be cool.
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♪ ♪
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- Do you need help?
I'm just like--
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- Oh, I got that.
- Enjoying the service but--
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- I got it.
- Ok.
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- You relax.
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- There's paradise
in front of me
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And next to me,
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And then he brought me
french toast,
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So there was paradise
in front of me,
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So I'm feeling all
the magic and joy today.
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- Last night was amazing.
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Like, I mean, I know it was
deeper than we probably
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Normally would have done for
our first day
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On a honeymoon, but it was--
it was nice
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'cause, like, obviously we had
to talk about that stuff,
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Kind of talk about
each other's pasts.
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It's important to know
what we've been through.
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- Excited to create
new memories that can,
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You know, make those
other ones just disappear.
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- We both did this
for a reason.
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We wanted to find our person
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That we're meant to be with
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And kind of build a life with.
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Yeah, I mean, it's not like--
we're not dating.
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Like, you're my wife.
I'm your husband--
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- But, like, we are--
it's weird
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Because we are married.
- I know.
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- I feel like we are dating,
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But we're just hitting
the important things first,
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Which is good because honestly
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That's what I hated
about dating is
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I would talk to someone for,
like, three months
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And then we'd have those
tough conversations
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And realize we're not on
the same page about anything.
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And I felt like those
three months were wasted.
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I hate to say "decision day"
because I don't even
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Want to think about that,
but on decision day,
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I don't want to say,
"well, I didn't really
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Get to know him."
like, I want to know--
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Both of us, I want us to
confidently know each other
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And we won't know everything,
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But I want us to make
a confident decision
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Based on that.
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- You know, right now,
I'm just enjoying
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Getting to know you, like,
building up our relationship,
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And, you know, hopefully then
it'll be an easy decision.
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I wouldn't say
I'm in love with nicole yet,
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But I definitely can see
myself falling for her.
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I think she's pretty great,
and it's been a long time
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Since I felt, like, this happy
about somebody.
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So it just--it feels amazing
right now, and, like,
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I'm just enjoying the moment
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And hoping it continues
to last.
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- ♪ you took me so high up,
I'll never let go, no ♪
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- [singing in spanish]
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- Morning.
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- Good morning, husband.
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- Morning. Got some breakfast.
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- Yes.
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I'm gonna make some mimosas.
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So to our first--
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To jamaica.
[cork pops, crashes]
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[squeals]
- all right.
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That was kind of dangerous.
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We still made it.
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- There's your smell of bacon
without eating it.
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- I'ma smell it.
- Yeah, smell it.
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- [sniffs, sighs]
smell good.
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- I love bacon.
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- You eat it every day?
- Bacon?
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- I mean, it sounded
like judgment.
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I didn't mean no--
I'm just asking.
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'cause you did it
yesterday, right?
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- Mm-hmm.
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- You ate it the day after
the wedding.
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So you eat it every day.
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- Not every day but--
- what? Oh, 75% of the time?
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- We'll say probably like
50% of the time.
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- We gonna save some more pigs
going forward.
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- Maybe we'll do two days.
- [chuckles]
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So what have been like--
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How have, like, your previous
relationships been?
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Like, why do you think
they didn't work?
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- Oh.
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Probably 80% me.
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Just timing, like, you know,
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Not being ready to be married.
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Like, maybe if I had met them
later or if I was more mature,
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Like, it probably could have
worked out
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'cause a lot of times
in the past, like,
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It could be, like,
the most minute thing
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That'd, like, throw me off
and I'd just, like, give up.
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I met, like, amazing people.
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- Yeah.
- It was just me.
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What about yourself?
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- Um, I feel like, well,
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For me, all of
my previous relationships
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I walked away from as well.
- Yeah.
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- And I think it was just
so much of
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Me not fully getting everything
that I needed
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Out of the relationship.
- Mm-hmm.
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- And I know another thing
that I did was my schedule.
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Like, I'm a workaholic,
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So I know that at some point
in our marriage,
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I'm gonna have to scale back
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And I'm not used to doing that.
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- Yeah, so, like, you know,
you got a super busy schedule,
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And then on top of that,
you know,
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You have to help your mom out.
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So, I mean, I'm willing
to be there, like,
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Whether that's getting food,
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Or bringing food
to the hospital,
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Or walking the dogs,
walking these 20 dogs,
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You know, while you're gone,
like, you know,
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Whatever way
I can be supportive
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'cause that's a lot, you know.
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So I don't want you to, like,
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Have all that going on
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And then come home--
- or you can go with me.
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- Yeah, I can--
I'm down to do that, too.
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- You like my mom so--
- she loves me,
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So that'll make her
feel better, too.
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You know what I mean, so.
- [chuckles]
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- So I don't mind
going to the hospital,
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You know,
lifting her spirits up.
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- Or, like,
the five-hour chemo process.
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- Right.
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- Sometimes I will get into
my shutdown mode
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Just because seeing my mom
go through that is hard,
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So I'm just--
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I'm gonna have to be
very conscious
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To make sure that
I'm not shutting you out
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Because I don't want you
to see me more vulnerable
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Because I don't really show
people that--
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You know, that side of me.
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- I mean, well, just the fact
that I know that ahead of time,
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You know, if I kind of see your
energy levels coming down
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Because of that, you know,
that's what I'm here for,
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You know, to balance it out.
249
00:09:16,706 --> 00:09:19,115
Like, help you feel better,
lighten that load.
250
00:09:19,134 --> 00:09:20,541
- The fact that he said,
you know,
251
00:09:20,561 --> 00:09:21,968
"I'll help out any way I can,"
252
00:09:22,120 --> 00:09:23,228
I'm not used to
having that help,
253
00:09:23,379 --> 00:09:25,138
So it's definitely needed.
254
00:09:25,290 --> 00:09:28,141
I'm just hopeful that
he stays true to that,
255
00:09:28,293 --> 00:09:31,978
But the fact that
he's all on board, I love that.
256
00:09:32,130 --> 00:09:34,055
- All right.
- We got it.
257
00:09:34,149 --> 00:09:39,393
- [vocalizing ]
258
00:09:39,413 --> 00:09:43,915
- ♪ hey, shortie's bad
into the good life ♪
259
00:09:44,142 --> 00:09:48,402
♪ rain it down on me,
rain it down on me ♪
260
00:09:48,422 --> 00:09:50,088
♪ shortie's bad--♪
261
00:09:50,315 --> 00:09:51,739
- Are you excited to
get some breakfast?
262
00:09:51,758 --> 00:09:52,924
- I am. I'm starving.
263
00:09:53,151 --> 00:09:55,076
- Hopefully some mimosas.
- Some champagne.
264
00:09:55,170 --> 00:09:56,669
- Yeah.
- I like it.
265
00:09:56,763 --> 00:09:58,822
- It's never too early
to drink on your honeymoon.
266
00:09:58,915 --> 00:10:00,432
- I agree.
- [chuckles]
267
00:10:00,659 --> 00:10:02,342
First night with my husband
on our honeymoon,
268
00:10:02,436 --> 00:10:04,102
It was great.
269
00:10:04,329 --> 00:10:06,587
It is my first time
out of the country.
270
00:10:06,681 --> 00:10:08,273
I am so excited.
271
00:10:08,500 --> 00:10:10,350
Apparently,
there's an outdoor shower,
272
00:10:10,444 --> 00:10:12,502
Which is so new to me.
273
00:10:12,595 --> 00:10:13,778
Every time I wash my hair,
274
00:10:14,005 --> 00:10:15,930
I just feel like
I'm in a pantene commercial,
275
00:10:15,949 --> 00:10:17,598
So it was great.
276
00:10:17,692 --> 00:10:19,266
We just relaxed and talked,
277
00:10:19,361 --> 00:10:21,194
And it feels really natural.
278
00:10:21,288 --> 00:10:23,029
- Cheers. Here we go.
279
00:10:23,181 --> 00:10:24,438
Here's to today...
- Here we go.
280
00:10:24,458 --> 00:10:25,773
Yeah.
- And our honeymoon.
281
00:10:25,792 --> 00:10:28,442
And to you.
- And to you.
282
00:10:28,536 --> 00:10:31,855
So how did you think
our second night together went?
283
00:10:31,873 --> 00:10:33,131
- I thought it went good.
284
00:10:33,282 --> 00:10:36,209
Like, you're not, like,
a crazy, loud,
285
00:10:36,303 --> 00:10:38,027
Obnoxious sleeper.
286
00:10:38,121 --> 00:10:39,453
You're not, like,
taking up the whole bed.
287
00:10:39,547 --> 00:10:40,788
- Yeah.
- I think I was
288
00:10:40,807 --> 00:10:42,031
On top of the covers
instead of under them.
289
00:10:42,050 --> 00:10:43,975
- Yeah, did my body pillow
get in your way?
290
00:10:44,127 --> 00:10:46,127
- No. Was it in between us? I
don't remember.
291
00:10:46,146 --> 00:10:47,370
- No.
- I didn't think so.
292
00:10:47,463 --> 00:10:49,038
We had a little cuddle.
- Yeah.
293
00:10:49,057 --> 00:10:51,483
We had night cuddles,
morning cuddles.
294
00:10:51,634 --> 00:10:54,377
- Yeah. I was satisfied.
- Good.
295
00:10:54,470 --> 00:10:56,045
- What are you
looking forward to today?
296
00:10:56,139 --> 00:10:58,323
What's best case scenario
today for you?
297
00:10:58,550 --> 00:11:00,325
- I mean, honestly,
I just kind of feel like
298
00:11:00,476 --> 00:11:01,493
If we're together,
299
00:11:01,644 --> 00:11:03,052
Then we're gonna
have a good time.
300
00:11:03,146 --> 00:11:04,570
- Ok. I like that answer.
- Yeah.
301
00:11:04,665 --> 00:11:06,480
How you gonna top that answer?
- Hey, I'm not gonna top it.
302
00:11:06,500 --> 00:11:08,725
That's exactly
what I'm looking for today.
303
00:11:08,818 --> 00:11:12,228
- ♪ I just wanna
be with you ♪
304
00:11:12,247 --> 00:11:14,747
[upbeat music]
305
00:11:14,900 --> 00:11:16,916
- ♪ tock, tock, tock,
like the ticking of a clock ♪
306
00:11:17,010 --> 00:11:21,087
♪ go around, go around,
and we can get it kicking ♪
307
00:11:21,181 --> 00:11:22,681
- Hey!
308
00:11:22,908 --> 00:11:27,076
- What's up, man?
- Hello. Thank you so much.
309
00:11:27,095 --> 00:11:28,687
- Which one do you want?
- Yeah, sure.
310
00:11:28,838 --> 00:11:31,356
- Arriving to jamaica is,
it's like a relief.
311
00:11:31,583 --> 00:11:33,766
School is finally over
and now it's time
312
00:11:33,919 --> 00:11:36,510
To enjoy our honeymoon.
313
00:11:36,530 --> 00:11:38,604
And at the airport they asked,
314
00:11:38,757 --> 00:11:40,757
"are any newlyweds
in the house?"
315
00:11:40,850 --> 00:11:42,033
And we both looked
at each other.
316
00:11:42,185 --> 00:11:43,368
It's like, "oh, shoot."
it's like, that's us.
317
00:11:43,595 --> 00:11:47,688
"yeah, us, us, us."
so it really feels amazing.
318
00:11:47,708 --> 00:11:49,708
- Thank god we're in jamaica!
319
00:11:52,454 --> 00:11:54,437
Ooh.
- Oh, this is nice.
320
00:11:54,530 --> 00:11:56,622
- This is,
and it's black and gold.
321
00:11:56,717 --> 00:11:57,865
Look at that.
322
00:11:57,884 --> 00:12:00,276
- They got some fruit.
323
00:12:00,295 --> 00:12:02,387
- It looks delicious.
- And champagne.
324
00:12:02,614 --> 00:12:05,539
- Let's. Yeah, let's check out
this view first.
325
00:12:05,559 --> 00:12:07,800
- Oh, my god.
326
00:12:07,953 --> 00:12:09,543
- Oh, this is what
I've been waiting for.
327
00:12:09,563 --> 00:12:11,896
- Ooh!
- Look at this view.
328
00:12:12,123 --> 00:12:13,565
It's so pretty.
- This is nice.
329
00:12:13,792 --> 00:12:15,549
- Lovely.
330
00:12:15,569 --> 00:12:18,478
I am so excited we finally
made it to jamaica.
331
00:12:18,630 --> 00:12:19,720
I was stuck in jackson.
332
00:12:19,814 --> 00:12:21,388
I'm like, "lord, please help me
333
00:12:21,408 --> 00:12:23,742
Get to jamaica, fast."
334
00:12:23,969 --> 00:12:26,319
- Last week was a lot,
you know, with school,
335
00:12:26,471 --> 00:12:28,821
And having to split my time
between you,
336
00:12:28,915 --> 00:12:31,232
Meeting you, for one.
337
00:12:31,326 --> 00:12:35,920
Then having to say, like, "oh,
I got to go run off to school."
338
00:12:36,072 --> 00:12:38,256
So now it's kind of like, ok,
I got a lot of making up to do,
339
00:12:38,407 --> 00:12:41,092
Devoting my time and
my commitment to you here.
340
00:12:41,319 --> 00:12:42,409
- I know education
is important.
341
00:12:42,504 --> 00:12:44,153
So I was happy to be there.
342
00:12:44,172 --> 00:12:45,930
Even though I wasn't initially.
343
00:12:46,157 --> 00:12:47,006
- You was happy, but not happy.
- Like, at first.
344
00:12:47,100 --> 00:12:48,491
Yeah.
- Mm-hmm?
345
00:12:48,510 --> 00:12:49,993
- At first I was like,
"oh, my god."
346
00:12:50,011 --> 00:12:51,661
- It made me feel better
that you was there, honestly.
347
00:12:51,754 --> 00:12:54,439
I felt like,
a sense of confidence.
348
00:12:54,590 --> 00:12:57,183
Just knowing someone is along
the journey with you now,
349
00:12:57,335 --> 00:12:59,669
It's kind of like, "oh, yeah,
I got to finish the race."
350
00:12:59,687 --> 00:13:01,521
Like, someone is
on the sideline.
351
00:13:01,673 --> 00:13:02,947
- Rooting for you.
- Like, rooting me on.
352
00:13:03,099 --> 00:13:04,357
- Yeah.
- Like, and saying like,
353
00:13:04,509 --> 00:13:07,510
Can't wait till
I reach that finish line.
354
00:13:07,529 --> 00:13:09,362
So it really made me feel good.
355
00:13:09,514 --> 00:13:10,938
- Good.
That's what I'm here for.
356
00:13:11,032 --> 00:13:12,106
- You did that.
357
00:13:12,125 --> 00:13:13,625
I got married at first sight
358
00:13:13,776 --> 00:13:17,353
Because I was looking for
someone like kirsten.
359
00:13:17,372 --> 00:13:20,632
I actually needed, not wanted,
360
00:13:20,859 --> 00:13:25,953
Needed someone
to come in my life and just be
361
00:13:26,047 --> 00:13:27,621
The person that she is.
362
00:13:27,641 --> 00:13:29,623
Like, someone supporting me.
363
00:13:29,717 --> 00:13:31,384
Like, actually showing up.
364
00:13:31,536 --> 00:13:33,386
It's one thing to say like,
you know, "I wish you well,
365
00:13:33,480 --> 00:13:34,704
I'ma check in on you."
366
00:13:34,722 --> 00:13:36,556
But actually to be there
in the moment,
367
00:13:36,708 --> 00:13:38,041
I was like, "whoa."
368
00:13:38,059 --> 00:13:39,725
That's like,
security that I needed,
369
00:13:39,820 --> 00:13:42,153
That someone really cares
that I'm going after my goals.
370
00:13:42,305 --> 00:13:44,305
I really, really like her.
371
00:13:44,324 --> 00:13:46,658
And I think--think we're gonna
have an amazing time
372
00:13:46,885 --> 00:13:48,642
In jamaica.
373
00:13:48,662 --> 00:13:51,737
- Here's to us
getting to know each other.
374
00:13:51,890 --> 00:13:53,056
- Cheers.
- Cheers.
375
00:13:53,149 --> 00:13:54,499
To the dillons.
- To the dillons.
376
00:13:54,726 --> 00:13:57,001
♪ ♪
377
00:13:57,153 --> 00:13:58,670
All right.
378
00:13:58,821 --> 00:14:00,964
- I think it's gonna be
a really good honeymoon.
379
00:14:04,994 --> 00:14:06,402
[upbeat music]
380
00:14:06,421 --> 00:14:13,518
♪ ♪
381
00:14:13,745 --> 00:14:16,003
- So we're well into
our journey,
382
00:14:16,097 --> 00:14:17,838
About an hour and a half.
383
00:14:17,858 --> 00:14:21,675
We've asked for directions
four or five times now.
384
00:14:21,695 --> 00:14:23,695
- We have seen a lot of bars
along the way,
385
00:14:23,846 --> 00:14:26,939
So we might just
pit stop there.
386
00:14:27,033 --> 00:14:28,366
We saw a billiard.
387
00:14:28,593 --> 00:14:30,034
We could play a little pool.
- Yeah.
388
00:14:30,261 --> 00:14:31,944
- Maybe do some goat yoga.
- A lot of sugarcane.
389
00:14:32,038 --> 00:14:35,206
- We have seen a lot of goats.
- A lot of ox. "oxes."
390
00:14:35,358 --> 00:14:37,691
- Lots of things going on.
391
00:14:37,785 --> 00:14:42,046
Oh, man.
- What an experience.
392
00:14:42,273 --> 00:14:44,107
Well, it's always an adventure,
isn't it?
393
00:14:44,125 --> 00:14:45,441
- Yeah.
394
00:14:45,534 --> 00:14:47,110
- Trying to get through
the road,
395
00:14:47,203 --> 00:14:49,888
And water eroded the road,
396
00:14:50,039 --> 00:14:53,449
So now we're detoured.
- Yeah.
397
00:14:53,542 --> 00:14:54,559
- I don't know, at this point.
398
00:14:54,786 --> 00:14:56,969
I feel like that movie,
"turistas."
399
00:14:57,063 --> 00:14:58,730
- What is that movie?
400
00:14:58,881 --> 00:15:00,790
- You know, where they harvest
your organs for profit.
401
00:15:00,883 --> 00:15:02,883
- Oh, amazing.
Let's not go there yet.
402
00:15:02,903 --> 00:15:04,569
- Ok.
403
00:15:04,796 --> 00:15:05,795
- Well, at least
it's pretty out here.
404
00:15:05,813 --> 00:15:07,221
- Yeah.
405
00:15:07,240 --> 00:15:08,631
- We've got a storm
coming in too.
406
00:15:08,724 --> 00:15:09,815
- And we got a storm brewing.
407
00:15:09,910 --> 00:15:12,485
- Amazing.
- Yeah.
408
00:15:12,579 --> 00:15:13,828
Jamaica!
409
00:15:15,657 --> 00:15:18,641
[mellow music]
410
00:15:18,660 --> 00:15:24,923
♪ ♪
411
00:15:25,074 --> 00:15:27,150
- Ok.
- Look at the sailboat.
412
00:15:27,243 --> 00:15:30,077
- Oh, all right.
I'm a little skeptical.
413
00:15:30,171 --> 00:15:31,429
Yeah, I don't know.
414
00:15:31,656 --> 00:15:32,579
Are we gonna fall out
of this thing?
415
00:15:32,674 --> 00:15:34,081
I've never been on--
416
00:15:34,175 --> 00:15:36,100
I've never operated
417
00:15:36,327 --> 00:15:38,327
Or sailed a sailboat.
- Me neither.
418
00:15:38,421 --> 00:15:42,256
- So I say we don't go past
that buoy.
419
00:15:42,350 --> 00:15:43,666
- This one?
Or the far one?
420
00:15:43,685 --> 00:15:46,593
I say the far one.
- I say the close one.
421
00:15:46,688 --> 00:15:47,946
- I say the far one.
422
00:15:48,097 --> 00:15:49,263
- If we fall out
of this thing--
423
00:15:49,282 --> 00:15:51,023
- We'll be ok.
424
00:15:51,117 --> 00:15:52,599
- Are you a good swimmer?
- I'm a great swimmer.
425
00:15:52,619 --> 00:15:54,010
- I can swim.
426
00:15:54,103 --> 00:15:55,861
It just seems a little small.
427
00:15:55,956 --> 00:15:58,864
If we're on the kayak, I would
full blown probably not go.
428
00:15:59,017 --> 00:16:00,183
- You can say that
one more time.
429
00:16:00,201 --> 00:16:01,851
I'm just gonna be like,
"fine, stay here.
430
00:16:01,944 --> 00:16:02,868
I'm going without you."
- no, no, no.
431
00:16:03,021 --> 00:16:04,278
I'm going, I'm going.
I got you.
432
00:16:04,372 --> 00:16:05,204
- Hey, guys.
- Hello, hello.
433
00:16:05,356 --> 00:16:06,689
- How you doing?
- Hello.
434
00:16:06,782 --> 00:16:08,374
- How are you doing today?
- Hi, great.
435
00:16:08,526 --> 00:16:10,042
- Mack.
- Mack, steadman.
436
00:16:10,195 --> 00:16:11,027
- Nice to meet you.
- Domynique.
437
00:16:11,045 --> 00:16:14,030
Both: Nice to meet you.
438
00:16:14,048 --> 00:16:16,307
- I like the bright yellow in
case I fall out of this thing.
439
00:16:16,534 --> 00:16:19,535
- Oh, kind of
a tight squeeze there.
440
00:16:19,628 --> 00:16:21,220
- That's not a bad problem
to have.
441
00:16:21,372 --> 00:16:22,555
- You say you're a boob guy?
442
00:16:22,707 --> 00:16:24,298
- Well, that looks perfect
to me.
443
00:16:24,392 --> 00:16:25,725
- Don't ever get a boob job.
444
00:16:25,877 --> 00:16:27,986
Just get a too-small
lifejacket.
445
00:16:28,213 --> 00:16:30,321
Your husband will love it.
[chuckles]
446
00:16:30,548 --> 00:16:33,232
- Let's do this.
- You have a great view.
447
00:16:33,326 --> 00:16:34,884
- I do have a good view.
448
00:16:34,977 --> 00:16:36,719
I have no complaints
about this view.
449
00:16:36,812 --> 00:16:39,722
- Oh, I'm so glad
you're coming with us!
450
00:16:39,815 --> 00:16:42,500
I thought mack was
gonna be driving us.
451
00:16:42,651 --> 00:16:47,897
- ♪ I've never seen
a girl radiate like you ♪
452
00:16:47,990 --> 00:16:49,656
- So how far out
we going here, you think?
453
00:16:49,751 --> 00:16:51,509
- You go wherever
you want to go, ok?
454
00:16:51,660 --> 00:16:53,236
- We're going to cuba.
- Yeah.
455
00:16:53,329 --> 00:16:54,995
[laughter]
456
00:16:55,089 --> 00:16:57,664
- ♪ ooh, ooh, ooh ♪
457
00:16:57,684 --> 00:17:01,001
♪ my world was cold,
but you made it warm ♪
458
00:17:01,095 --> 00:17:03,246
♪ come take my arm ♪
459
00:17:03,339 --> 00:17:04,914
♪ it doesn't matter
where we go ♪
460
00:17:05,007 --> 00:17:07,859
♪ oh, oh-oh-oh-oh, oh-oh-oh ♪
461
00:17:08,086 --> 00:17:10,028
♪ ♪
462
00:17:12,106 --> 00:17:12,989
- I know.
463
00:17:13,941 --> 00:17:14,991
- Yeah.
464
00:17:18,705 --> 00:17:20,930
- There's--huh? What sharks?
- Nurse.
465
00:17:21,023 --> 00:17:22,165
- You guys are
messing with me now.
466
00:17:23,859 --> 00:17:26,936
- I'm learning that
mack is very vocal
467
00:17:27,029 --> 00:17:28,788
With the things that,
like, make him nervous.
468
00:17:28,882 --> 00:17:32,550
He is a little less
adventurous than I am,
469
00:17:32,777 --> 00:17:34,293
And a little more
closed-minded
470
00:17:34,387 --> 00:17:37,296
Than I would like, but maybe
I just need to just, like,
471
00:17:37,448 --> 00:17:38,556
Block those comments out,
472
00:17:38,783 --> 00:17:40,616
'cause I know
he's gonna do it anyway.
473
00:17:40,635 --> 00:17:42,376
Wow!
474
00:17:42,395 --> 00:17:44,062
- Perfect day.
475
00:17:44,213 --> 00:17:45,638
Perfect water.
476
00:17:45,732 --> 00:17:47,123
- Perfect wife.
477
00:17:47,216 --> 00:17:50,309
- Perfect wife.
That's--that was next.
478
00:17:50,403 --> 00:17:54,980
- ♪ around with you ♪
- ♪ you make me happy ♪
479
00:17:55,133 --> 00:17:59,577
- ♪ let's go ♪
- ♪ oh-oh-oh-oh ♪
480
00:17:59,804 --> 00:18:02,321
♪ ♪
481
00:18:02,415 --> 00:18:05,141
♪ wherever you want to,
I want to, I want to ♪
482
00:18:05,234 --> 00:18:07,326
- We are about to get
down and dirty.
483
00:18:07,420 --> 00:18:08,828
- Ah, you can get dirty.
484
00:18:08,980 --> 00:18:11,330
- I've rode several atvs.
485
00:18:11,482 --> 00:18:13,591
This is what I love to do.
It excites me.
486
00:18:13,742 --> 00:18:14,759
- This helmet hot.
487
00:18:16,745 --> 00:18:18,838
[laughter]
- oh, shoot.
488
00:18:18,932 --> 00:18:22,433
- But this is shaquille's
first time riding atv
489
00:18:22,660 --> 00:18:26,753
And he may not be as
thrilled as I am.
490
00:18:26,773 --> 00:18:29,348
But I see a smile
on shaquille's face,
491
00:18:29,442 --> 00:18:31,442
So let's just let loose.
492
00:18:31,669 --> 00:18:34,261
♪ ♪
493
00:18:34,280 --> 00:18:36,689
Ready?
494
00:18:36,783 --> 00:18:39,675
[apprehensive music]
495
00:18:39,694 --> 00:18:43,287
♪ ♪
496
00:18:43,514 --> 00:18:44,864
- Kirsten is way more
adventurous than I am.
497
00:18:44,958 --> 00:18:46,290
- Woo!
498
00:18:47,702 --> 00:18:49,535
Come on, honey!
499
00:18:49,687 --> 00:18:51,129
- Riding the atvs
was not something
500
00:18:51,356 --> 00:18:53,356
I was really looking
forward to.
501
00:18:53,449 --> 00:18:55,024
The trauma comes
from the accident,
502
00:18:55,117 --> 00:18:57,026
'cause I'm always
trying to be careful.
503
00:18:57,044 --> 00:18:58,377
And that's like, my life.
504
00:18:58,471 --> 00:19:02,456
Like, a lot of accidents
have happened in my life.
505
00:19:02,475 --> 00:19:04,884
And it's kind of like,
I'm always trying to, like,
506
00:19:04,978 --> 00:19:07,961
Walk on eggshells.
507
00:19:08,055 --> 00:19:10,873
[upbeat electronic music]
508
00:19:10,892 --> 00:19:17,655
♪ ♪
509
00:19:23,070 --> 00:19:25,738
- He's driving
very cautiously right now.
510
00:19:25,832 --> 00:19:27,498
I have a need for speed.
511
00:19:27,725 --> 00:19:31,169
So pushing the throttle down
as far as it can go,
512
00:19:31,396 --> 00:19:33,062
And shaquille is
so far behind me.
513
00:19:33,155 --> 00:19:34,747
And I'm, like,
looking back, like,
514
00:19:34,841 --> 00:19:37,008
"honey, are you gonna keep up?
Are you keeping up with me?"
515
00:19:39,179 --> 00:19:42,071
[exciting electronic music]
516
00:19:42,089 --> 00:19:43,422
♪ ♪
517
00:19:43,574 --> 00:19:46,759
[mellow island music]
518
00:19:46,853 --> 00:19:49,503
[exciting electronic music]
519
00:19:49,522 --> 00:19:53,840
[laughs]
520
00:19:53,860 --> 00:19:55,100
- Woo!
521
00:19:55,195 --> 00:19:59,605
[engine rumbling softly]
522
00:19:59,699 --> 00:20:01,941
[apprehensive music]
523
00:20:02,035 --> 00:20:05,203
- I'm really scared.
524
00:20:05,430 --> 00:20:07,354
But hey, every day is
a opportunity to
525
00:20:07,448 --> 00:20:09,189
Learn something about yourself.
526
00:20:09,209 --> 00:20:10,449
She wanted
someone adventurous?
527
00:20:10,543 --> 00:20:12,601
Let's do this.
528
00:20:12,620 --> 00:20:15,713
- ♪ watch me rise
above all the lies ♪
529
00:20:15,940 --> 00:20:18,958
♪ I won't break
no matter how hard you try ♪
530
00:20:19,052 --> 00:20:20,609
♪ watch me rise ♪
531
00:20:20,703 --> 00:20:22,720
- Ok, like, now
I'm starting to get excited.
532
00:20:22,947 --> 00:20:24,964
Like, I'm seeing shaquille
totally different.
533
00:20:25,058 --> 00:20:27,450
It's just taken him
a little bit more time
534
00:20:27,468 --> 00:20:29,802
To get out of that shell.
535
00:20:29,896 --> 00:20:32,288
But I am proud of shaquille
for doing that.
536
00:20:32,306 --> 00:20:33,973
- I waited for you, to,
like, go further.
537
00:20:34,067 --> 00:20:35,808
Like, you hit a rock and it,
like, almost flipped back.
538
00:20:35,960 --> 00:20:37,568
And I was like, "whoa!"
- no, no.
539
00:20:37,795 --> 00:20:38,978
- I said, "she's trying to
take me out already."
540
00:20:39,130 --> 00:20:42,631
- No, now, you know you not.
541
00:20:42,725 --> 00:20:45,392
- Wow, this is beautiful.
- Mm-hmm.
542
00:20:45,411 --> 00:20:48,654
That was the first adventure.
- The first of many.
543
00:20:48,748 --> 00:20:51,582
[upbeat music]
544
00:20:51,809 --> 00:20:58,905
♪ ♪
545
00:20:59,834 --> 00:21:02,318
- I have a feeling that
we could see a waterfall today.
546
00:21:02,411 --> 00:21:03,486
- Well, we're--
- not giving up hope.
547
00:21:03,579 --> 00:21:05,170
- We're in the mountains now.
548
00:21:05,265 --> 00:21:08,674
So there's a better chance of
us getting a waterfall
549
00:21:08,826 --> 00:21:11,994
And hitting a vehicle.
- [laughs]
550
00:21:12,013 --> 00:21:14,346
- You know?
- Yeah, the wheels are going
551
00:21:14,499 --> 00:21:16,015
Right up on the switchbacks.
552
00:21:16,109 --> 00:21:18,667
- This is extraordinary.
553
00:21:18,761 --> 00:21:21,170
- Definitely an adventure.
- Yeah.
554
00:21:21,188 --> 00:21:24,598
- I am appreciative of these--
- the handles.
555
00:21:24,617 --> 00:21:26,342
- The handles
on the front of us.
556
00:21:26,435 --> 00:21:27,676
Now I know why they're here.
- They're not just
557
00:21:27,770 --> 00:21:29,194
"oh, [bleep]" handles.
These are--
558
00:21:29,347 --> 00:21:30,621
- Yeah, I know why
they're here.
559
00:21:30,848 --> 00:21:32,698
- "for the love of god,
I'm gonna die" handles.
560
00:21:32,850 --> 00:21:34,441
- "you're gonna fall off
a cliff. Hold on."
561
00:21:34,535 --> 00:21:36,535
- Yeah. This is kind of how
I envisioned it all ending.
562
00:21:36,629 --> 00:21:38,129
[laughter]
563
00:21:38,280 --> 00:21:39,538
- In death?
- On an adventure.
564
00:21:39,632 --> 00:21:40,464
- [laughs]
565
00:21:44,470 --> 00:21:46,545
[upbeat music]
566
00:21:46,697 --> 00:21:49,432
♪ ♪
567
00:21:52,812 --> 00:21:54,478
- Thank you, thank you.
- Yes, we're excited.
568
00:21:55,873 --> 00:21:57,106
- Don't let me drown, gregory.
- [laughs]
569
00:21:58,543 --> 00:21:59,608
- All right.
570
00:22:02,805 --> 00:22:03,970
She gonna be ok?
571
00:22:03,990 --> 00:22:05,548
I only want to do
one honeymoon.
572
00:22:05,566 --> 00:22:07,216
I don't want to
have to do it over.
573
00:22:07,309 --> 00:22:08,993
- This is our first full day.
574
00:22:09,144 --> 00:22:11,495
We just had
a delicious breakfast.
575
00:22:11,647 --> 00:22:13,722
I might've had
one mimosa too many.
576
00:22:13,816 --> 00:22:16,316
But we're about
to go snorkeling
577
00:22:16,410 --> 00:22:18,561
And enjoy the water
and spend more time together,
578
00:22:18,579 --> 00:22:20,913
And just continue to,
you know, vibe
579
00:22:21,007 --> 00:22:23,841
And get to know each other,
so I'm super excited.
580
00:22:23,992 --> 00:22:27,403
- I'm going to lead.
You follow me.
581
00:22:27,421 --> 00:22:30,255
[upbeat music]
582
00:22:30,408 --> 00:22:37,521
♪ ♪
583
00:22:38,766 --> 00:22:40,599
- ♪ do you wanna run,
run, run away? ♪
584
00:22:40,693 --> 00:22:43,435
[vocalizing]
585
00:22:43,588 --> 00:22:46,271
♪ ♪
586
00:22:46,366 --> 00:22:48,199
- My husband is
distracting me over there
587
00:22:48,426 --> 00:22:50,593
In the water
because he looks good.
588
00:22:50,611 --> 00:22:53,762
He looks good
without his shirt on.
589
00:22:53,781 --> 00:22:57,616
- ♪ wherever you go, I go ♪
590
00:22:57,710 --> 00:22:59,860
♪ we go together ♪
591
00:22:59,879 --> 00:23:03,864
♪ wherever you go, I go ♪
592
00:23:03,883 --> 00:23:05,441
♪ we go together ♪
593
00:23:05,459 --> 00:23:08,219
♪ all the way to
kingdom come ♪
594
00:23:08,446 --> 00:23:11,705
♪ around the world,
around the sun ♪
595
00:23:11,724 --> 00:23:15,709
♪ wherever you go, I go ♪
596
00:23:15,728 --> 00:23:17,019
♪ we go together ♪
597
00:23:19,306 --> 00:23:20,564
- I was struggling
a little bit,
598
00:23:20,791 --> 00:23:22,066
'cause the mask wouldn't fit
with my beard.
599
00:23:22,217 --> 00:23:24,143
So I was getting, like,
saltwater in my mouth
600
00:23:24,237 --> 00:23:26,145
And my nose.
601
00:23:26,297 --> 00:23:27,738
But my wife, you know,
she kept checking on me,
602
00:23:27,965 --> 00:23:28,906
Showing her--
that nurturing side.
603
00:23:34,897 --> 00:23:36,080
- She's still a stranger.
604
00:23:36,307 --> 00:23:38,416
But this is
the very beginning of, like,
605
00:23:38,567 --> 00:23:41,919
Hopefully, like, a beautiful,
you know, 30, 40-year marriage.
606
00:23:42,146 --> 00:23:43,904
We're making those
important memories,
607
00:23:43,923 --> 00:23:45,089
Like, right now.
608
00:23:45,240 --> 00:23:46,665
So, hopefully,
20 years from now,
609
00:23:46,817 --> 00:23:47,666
We can look back and be like,
"hey, you remember
610
00:23:47,760 --> 00:23:49,835
"that one time
we were in jamaica,
611
00:23:49,987 --> 00:23:51,654
And the saltwater was
getting in your beard?"
612
00:23:51,672 --> 00:23:53,672
You know, "ha, ha, ha."
all of that.
613
00:23:53,824 --> 00:23:56,175
But it's happening
like, right now.
614
00:23:56,327 --> 00:23:58,160
- I would do it again, but--
- I'll do it.
615
00:23:58,179 --> 00:23:59,103
- You would do it again?
Even though--
616
00:23:59,330 --> 00:23:59,920
- I would just
shave my beard down.
617
00:23:59,939 --> 00:24:01,330
- No.
618
00:24:01,423 --> 00:24:02,088
- Not saying down,
like, trim it.
619
00:24:02,108 --> 00:24:03,441
No?
- Ok.
620
00:24:03,592 --> 00:24:04,775
Or we'll just have
different equipment.
621
00:24:05,002 --> 00:24:06,185
We'll come with
our own equipment.
622
00:24:06,337 --> 00:24:08,112
So that--
- 'cause that equipment--
623
00:24:08,263 --> 00:24:09,930
- [laughs]
- just wasn't beard safe.
624
00:24:10,024 --> 00:24:13,600
- It wasn't.
- Yeah.
625
00:24:13,619 --> 00:24:16,528
[upbeat music]
626
00:24:16,681 --> 00:24:18,847
♪ ♪
627
00:24:18,866 --> 00:24:19,957
- Ok.
- Yes.
628
00:24:20,108 --> 00:24:22,017
- Finally!
629
00:24:22,036 --> 00:24:24,203
Let's see.
I still don't see a waterfall,
630
00:24:24,355 --> 00:24:26,613
But it's only a two mile hike
into the jungle,
631
00:24:26,707 --> 00:24:28,132
And then you'll see it.
632
00:24:28,359 --> 00:24:30,359
- I didn't bring
my climbing harness.
633
00:24:30,377 --> 00:24:33,529
Let's go waterfalling.
- Let's go hiking.
634
00:24:33,547 --> 00:24:35,047
I can't believe
we actually made it.
635
00:24:35,141 --> 00:24:36,807
- I know, right?
636
00:24:37,034 --> 00:24:38,217
- I feel like clint and I
have been through
637
00:24:38,369 --> 00:24:39,885
The ultimate challenge,
638
00:24:40,037 --> 00:24:41,370
The ultimate
honeymoon challenge.
639
00:24:41,463 --> 00:24:44,556
We got lost for
a couple hours.
640
00:24:44,709 --> 00:24:47,151
And it took what felt like
my whole life to get here.
641
00:24:47,378 --> 00:24:50,045
But it's been awesome
having clint by my side.
642
00:24:50,064 --> 00:24:52,064
He keeps me cool,
calm, composed.
643
00:24:52,216 --> 00:24:53,824
So we've had a good time,
644
00:24:53,976 --> 00:24:56,476
Even in the midst of
some crazy, bumpy,
645
00:24:56,496 --> 00:24:58,162
Unexpected adventure.
646
00:24:58,313 --> 00:25:00,164
- Beautiful. Look at this.
647
00:25:00,315 --> 00:25:02,391
- This is my first time
in the jungle.
648
00:25:02,409 --> 00:25:04,393
- Is it really?
- Yeah.
649
00:25:04,411 --> 00:25:07,079
This is considered
the jungle, right?
650
00:25:07,231 --> 00:25:09,565
It's like, "rainforest-y."
- yeah, we'll call it jungle.
651
00:25:09,583 --> 00:25:11,567
You know, I'm part tarzan.
652
00:25:11,585 --> 00:25:12,735
- Oh, are you?
- Third generation, so--
653
00:25:12,828 --> 00:25:13,919
- I can tell by
your complexion.
654
00:25:14,071 --> 00:25:15,513
- Yeah.
655
00:25:15,664 --> 00:25:17,681
- I'm gonna take this cover-up
off so we can--
656
00:25:17,833 --> 00:25:18,682
- Go wade in the water
for a little bit?
657
00:25:18,834 --> 00:25:21,352
- Wade in a little easier.
658
00:25:21,579 --> 00:25:22,928
- Got a natural little
clothes hook here.
659
00:25:23,080 --> 00:25:24,763
- Yeah.
660
00:25:24,915 --> 00:25:28,751
♪ ♪
661
00:25:28,769 --> 00:25:32,104
Ready?
- Yeah, let's get in.
662
00:25:32,256 --> 00:25:33,922
- Like, I'm holding you again.
I'm nervous.
663
00:25:34,016 --> 00:25:35,924
- Yep.
- I don't want to slip.
664
00:25:35,943 --> 00:25:38,093
- Everything's slick
out of the water.
665
00:25:38,112 --> 00:25:40,112
- Yeah.
- Look at this. We made it.
666
00:25:40,264 --> 00:25:43,040
- We made it!
- Yes.
667
00:25:43,191 --> 00:25:44,375
Beautiful.
668
00:25:44,526 --> 00:25:47,286
- Worth the view, huh?
- Yeah.
669
00:25:47,438 --> 00:25:50,196
Our whole journey here?
- Yeah?
670
00:25:50,216 --> 00:25:52,941
- I was surprised at how
671
00:25:52,960 --> 00:25:54,718
Calm and relaxed--
- [laughs]
672
00:25:54,870 --> 00:25:56,445
- Like, you had
your cool glasses on.
673
00:25:56,463 --> 00:25:58,222
- Yeah.
I've got a good poker face.
674
00:25:58,373 --> 00:26:00,115
- Oh, is that what it was?
- Oh, no.
675
00:26:00,208 --> 00:26:03,135
No, honestly, I think I just,
676
00:26:03,229 --> 00:26:06,379
I don't know, I've just learned
to not stress over
677
00:26:06,399 --> 00:26:08,307
The things that
I can't control.
678
00:26:08,401 --> 00:26:11,627
- Ah. I'm looking forward to
seeing you just
679
00:26:11,645 --> 00:26:13,571
Kind of being boss lady.
- Ok.
680
00:26:13,722 --> 00:26:15,055
- I want to see you
in your business
681
00:26:15,074 --> 00:26:16,740
'cause you're so wrapped up
and enthralled in it.
682
00:26:16,892 --> 00:26:18,133
It's been your world
for the last--
683
00:26:18,152 --> 00:26:18,984
- I was doing payroll
this morning.
684
00:26:19,136 --> 00:26:20,469
- Yeah.
685
00:26:20,562 --> 00:26:21,895
- Maybe you can help me
calm down
686
00:26:21,914 --> 00:26:23,806
And not work as much.
687
00:26:23,824 --> 00:26:25,474
I've been looking for
a little vice.
688
00:26:25,492 --> 00:26:26,809
I don't really love to drink
689
00:26:26,827 --> 00:26:28,419
Or go out.
- Anything?
690
00:26:28,570 --> 00:26:29,587
- Maybe my vice will
just be adventure.
691
00:26:29,814 --> 00:26:32,072
- Ok. It's not a bad one
to be addicted to.
692
00:26:32,091 --> 00:26:33,907
- I think so.
693
00:26:33,926 --> 00:26:36,242
- That's what I kind of love
about stuff like this, is,
694
00:26:36,262 --> 00:26:38,337
You know, maybe this is
the path that's less traveled.
695
00:26:38,489 --> 00:26:39,504
- Yeah.
696
00:26:39,657 --> 00:26:41,748
- But I like things to be
a mystery
697
00:26:41,767 --> 00:26:44,827
And like, you know, untouched.
- I'm not--I'm not shocked.
698
00:26:44,845 --> 00:26:46,586
- Untainted.
- Yeah, you love to like,
699
00:26:46,606 --> 00:26:48,680
Live on the edge,
not really know.
700
00:26:48,833 --> 00:26:49,940
- Yeah.
701
00:26:50,092 --> 00:26:51,834
- Mysterious,
what's gonna happen.
702
00:26:51,927 --> 00:26:53,259
- But that's like, life though.
- I'm a little more structured.
703
00:26:53,279 --> 00:26:54,503
But I feel like you can get me
704
00:26:54,521 --> 00:26:56,521
Out of my box a little bit.
- Yeah.
705
00:26:56,616 --> 00:26:58,841
You know, I like to go down
the path least traveled,
706
00:26:58,934 --> 00:27:00,843
Maybe a path
not traveled at all,
707
00:27:00,861 --> 00:27:03,787
So this absolutely
is completely
708
00:27:04,014 --> 00:27:05,681
What I was looking for,
as far as like,
709
00:27:05,699 --> 00:27:08,292
Sharing these unique
experiences with somebody else.
710
00:27:08,443 --> 00:27:10,185
So, yeah, I'm realizing
more and more, like,
711
00:27:10,204 --> 00:27:11,854
Gina has her professional
thing,
712
00:27:11,872 --> 00:27:13,188
But outside of that, like,
713
00:27:13,207 --> 00:27:14,857
She's totally adaptable to
714
00:27:14,875 --> 00:27:16,375
Whatever circumstance
she's around.
715
00:27:16,527 --> 00:27:19,528
So yeah, we're working on
some good stories.
716
00:27:19,621 --> 00:27:23,474
- ♪ ooh, is this
the real thing? ♪
717
00:27:23,625 --> 00:27:28,145
♪ baby, you and I,
na, na, and you and I ♪
718
00:27:30,724 --> 00:27:33,558
[upbeat music]
719
00:27:33,653 --> 00:27:37,488
♪ ♪
720
00:27:37,715 --> 00:27:40,883
- Oh look, how cute?
- This rum tasting.
721
00:27:40,901 --> 00:27:43,476
- Oh, welcome to
our private rum tasting,
722
00:27:43,570 --> 00:27:45,996
Especially for you guys.
- Oh!
723
00:27:46,148 --> 00:27:47,890
- Are you ready to start?
- We're ready.
724
00:27:47,983 --> 00:27:48,907
- Let's do it.
- I want some rum!
725
00:27:49,001 --> 00:27:50,075
- Here we go.
726
00:27:50,227 --> 00:27:51,335
I'm loving that vibe
727
00:27:51,562 --> 00:27:53,078
And I'm loving that energy
between you two.
728
00:27:53,230 --> 00:27:54,079
- Thank you.
- Yeah.
729
00:27:54,173 --> 00:27:55,839
- Loving that.
730
00:27:56,066 --> 00:27:57,841
All right,
so this is 40% alcohol.
731
00:27:57,993 --> 00:27:58,992
- Oh, wow.
732
00:27:59,086 --> 00:28:00,344
- We can sip this, right?
733
00:28:00,495 --> 00:28:02,662
It doesn't have to go down
all at once?
734
00:28:02,682 --> 00:28:06,241
- Well, I want you all to
really have a grand time here.
735
00:28:06,334 --> 00:28:08,593
So you can take it all down.
736
00:28:08,746 --> 00:28:10,095
- Cheers.
- Cheers.
737
00:28:10,247 --> 00:28:13,190
♪ ♪
738
00:28:13,341 --> 00:28:14,858
- Not bad.
739
00:28:15,010 --> 00:28:17,010
Oh, ok.
- So how was that one?
740
00:28:17,029 --> 00:28:18,603
- I'm awake now. Sure.
741
00:28:18,698 --> 00:28:20,180
- You're awake now?
- Oh, definitely awake.
742
00:28:20,199 --> 00:28:22,032
- All right, so we do have
six more rums to go through.
743
00:28:22,184 --> 00:28:23,759
- Oh, wow.
- All right?
744
00:28:23,852 --> 00:28:25,761
So now you'll try this one.
745
00:28:25,854 --> 00:28:28,354
- Down the hatch, right?
- Down the hatch.
746
00:28:28,374 --> 00:28:29,614
- All right, so, cheers.
747
00:28:29,767 --> 00:28:32,192
- Cheers.
- Cheers.
748
00:28:32,211 --> 00:28:35,103
You know, I thought it would
be more than a few days
749
00:28:35,122 --> 00:28:37,881
Before my husband would see me
drinking this much
750
00:28:38,033 --> 00:28:39,441
In such
a short amount of time.
751
00:28:39,460 --> 00:28:42,110
I'm not a rum shot girl.
752
00:28:42,129 --> 00:28:44,054
Might throw up in
the beautiful ocean.
753
00:28:44,281 --> 00:28:48,041
But for now,
I'm living my best life.
754
00:28:48,060 --> 00:28:49,709
- Third one's the charm.
755
00:28:49,803 --> 00:28:52,396
- Cheers.
- Cheers.
756
00:28:52,547 --> 00:28:54,231
I was impressed.
She's a small girl,
757
00:28:54,458 --> 00:28:55,958
And she was downing
those shots just like I was,
758
00:28:56,051 --> 00:28:57,050
So that was pretty impressive.
759
00:28:57,069 --> 00:29:00,237
- This goes for 63%.
- Ooh.
760
00:29:00,388 --> 00:29:01,813
- Awesome.
761
00:29:01,907 --> 00:29:03,982
- I'm starting to feel
a little drunk, I think.
762
00:29:04,134 --> 00:29:06,392
- Take a whole foot off of you,
and imagine.
763
00:29:06,412 --> 00:29:07,393
- Yeah, I know.
764
00:29:07,488 --> 00:29:09,747
- I'm not not drunk.
765
00:29:09,974 --> 00:29:13,566
I definitely would not drive
any heavy machinery.
766
00:29:13,586 --> 00:29:16,311
Just pretending we're at, like,
a frat house in college.
767
00:29:16,404 --> 00:29:18,497
I thought it'd be
sip rum, sip rum.
768
00:29:18,649 --> 00:29:22,092
But it was like shot for shot
of every rum they've ever made
769
00:29:22,244 --> 00:29:24,002
On the island of jamaica,
from all time.
770
00:29:24,154 --> 00:29:25,487
- All right,
so look at this one.
771
00:29:25,506 --> 00:29:27,765
So it's one, two, one, two.
772
00:29:27,992 --> 00:29:29,825
- There you go.
- One, point, one, point.
773
00:29:29,843 --> 00:29:32,010
- Can you go do that, please?
- Yeah, sure, why not?
774
00:29:32,162 --> 00:29:34,254
- I'll do it with you guys.
- Our rum guide today, prince,
775
00:29:34,273 --> 00:29:36,756
Showed us some dance moves.
A little bit of this,
776
00:29:36,850 --> 00:29:40,110
And then a point, point, point,
777
00:29:40,337 --> 00:29:42,762
And then a little bit of that.
[chuckles]
778
00:29:42,782 --> 00:29:44,597
- One, two, one, two.
779
00:29:44,617 --> 00:29:45,932
- Oh.
- Ah.
780
00:29:45,951 --> 00:29:47,025
- And you sway, sway.
- Sway.
781
00:29:47,119 --> 00:29:49,269
♪ ♪
782
00:29:49,288 --> 00:29:51,455
A little bit of that.
And it was good--a good time.
783
00:29:51,606 --> 00:29:53,515
Like, I'm feeling
a little loose, feeling good.
784
00:29:53,534 --> 00:29:56,293
And yeah, maybe I'll go dancing
with nicole tonight.
785
00:29:58,539 --> 00:30:02,040
- This brings me back to a time
I call "old nicole."
786
00:30:02,134 --> 00:30:03,283
- What's "old nicole"?
787
00:30:03,302 --> 00:30:05,803
- Old nicole was
drinking a lot.
788
00:30:06,030 --> 00:30:08,806
I was pretty selfish
because I wanted everything
789
00:30:08,957 --> 00:30:11,141
To be about me,
and me enjoying my best life.
790
00:30:11,293 --> 00:30:13,552
And I was out at bars
all the time
791
00:30:13,646 --> 00:30:17,556
And you know, just drinking
and really living it up.
792
00:30:17,708 --> 00:30:21,059
And once I hit, like, 28,
793
00:30:21,153 --> 00:30:23,879
That's when I started my whole
personal growth journey.
794
00:30:23,897 --> 00:30:27,157
Moving to nashville
was part of that.
795
00:30:27,309 --> 00:30:31,219
And ever since I moved,
I call her "new nicole."
796
00:30:31,238 --> 00:30:31,995
I know,
I don't know why I do that,
797
00:30:32,147 --> 00:30:33,722
But I feel like it's cute.
798
00:30:33,740 --> 00:30:34,814
If you don't like it--
- no, it's cute.
799
00:30:34,834 --> 00:30:37,334
- I probably won't stop, but--
800
00:30:37,561 --> 00:30:40,245
- No, I mean, like,
I'm very laid back.
801
00:30:40,339 --> 00:30:43,507
Like, I like to be very calm,
collective, even keel.
802
00:30:43,658 --> 00:30:45,250
Like, and it's not that
I don't care.
803
00:30:45,344 --> 00:30:48,512
If I know I'm right, I will
fight tooth and nail for that.
804
00:30:48,663 --> 00:30:49,662
- I'm with ya.
- But it takes a lot
805
00:30:49,756 --> 00:30:52,015
For me to get frustrated.
806
00:30:52,167 --> 00:30:53,592
- But does it bother you--
807
00:30:53,686 --> 00:30:55,835
And tell me the truth,
I will not be offended--
808
00:30:55,855 --> 00:30:57,354
But does it bother you at all
809
00:30:57,505 --> 00:31:02,267
That I lose my cool
a little easier than that?
810
00:31:02,419 --> 00:31:04,769
[soft emotional music]
811
00:31:04,922 --> 00:31:07,422
- Um...
812
00:31:07,441 --> 00:31:08,848
I don't know.
- Ok.
813
00:31:08,868 --> 00:31:11,201
- I mean,
I honestly don't know.
814
00:31:11,353 --> 00:31:13,111
But like,
if you're taking it out on me,
815
00:31:13,263 --> 00:31:14,613
Like, I'm not gonna stand
for it.
816
00:31:14,765 --> 00:31:16,022
I just want to let you know
that right now.
817
00:31:16,041 --> 00:31:20,102
Like, I'm not gonna take it.
- You shouldn't. Good.
818
00:31:20,120 --> 00:31:21,194
- I feel like
old nicole would have been
819
00:31:21,288 --> 00:31:22,938
A problem for me, to be honest.
820
00:31:22,956 --> 00:31:26,775
Like, the selfishness and
her being a little hotheaded
821
00:31:26,793 --> 00:31:28,868
And a little intense,
you know,
822
00:31:28,888 --> 00:31:30,278
It's definitely something
in the back of my mind
823
00:31:30,297 --> 00:31:31,221
That I'll keep an eye out for
824
00:31:31,448 --> 00:31:33,298
Because I've dealt with that
before
825
00:31:33,392 --> 00:31:35,133
And it's something that
I definitely don't want.
826
00:31:35,285 --> 00:31:37,895
I don't want to be in
a situation where, like,
827
00:31:38,122 --> 00:31:39,545
You let your emotions
get the best of you.
828
00:31:39,565 --> 00:31:42,474
[intense music]
829
00:31:42,626 --> 00:31:43,859
♪ ♪
830
00:31:47,740 --> 00:31:50,465
♪ ba-ba-baby,
gonna take it down low ♪
831
00:31:50,484 --> 00:31:56,413
♪ step into my world,
step into my world ♪
832
00:31:56,564 --> 00:31:59,416
♪ step into my world ♪
833
00:32:00,586 --> 00:32:02,160
- How you feeling?
834
00:32:02,312 --> 00:32:05,071
- I'm feeling
a little exhausted
835
00:32:05,165 --> 00:32:07,407
And hot and hungry.
836
00:32:07,501 --> 00:32:08,592
- So you're tired?
837
00:32:08,743 --> 00:32:09,668
- Yeah, a little bit.
838
00:32:09,820 --> 00:32:11,670
I need to take a break.
839
00:32:11,822 --> 00:32:13,155
- I'm good.
- What about you?
840
00:32:13,173 --> 00:32:14,823
- I'm good.
841
00:32:14,916 --> 00:32:15,840
- Are you still gonna go
work out?
842
00:32:15,935 --> 00:32:17,417
- Yeah.
843
00:32:17,436 --> 00:32:19,661
- Even after riding the atvs?
- Yeah.
844
00:32:19,680 --> 00:32:21,605
- I'll catch you in there,
another day, another time.
845
00:32:21,832 --> 00:32:22,922
- You can come with me,
if you want.
846
00:32:23,016 --> 00:32:24,107
- Mm-mm.
- Why not?
847
00:32:24,334 --> 00:32:25,500
- We have plenty of time
to work out.
848
00:32:25,519 --> 00:32:27,185
We're in jamaica.
849
00:32:27,279 --> 00:32:30,522
- Right, and we got--
body gotta look good.
850
00:32:30,674 --> 00:32:33,525
- When we get back. [laughter]
851
00:32:33,619 --> 00:32:37,012
I'm just hoping I don't have
an additional ten pounds
852
00:32:37,105 --> 00:32:39,623
Going back with me.
- Oh, girl.
853
00:32:39,850 --> 00:32:41,516
It'd look good on you, though.
- Mm-mm.
854
00:32:41,609 --> 00:32:42,626
- I don't think
that's something
855
00:32:42,777 --> 00:32:44,110
You have to worry about.
856
00:32:44,129 --> 00:32:45,629
I want you to know,
I'm attracted to you.
857
00:32:45,856 --> 00:32:48,023
- Yeah.
- I still get butterflies.
858
00:32:48,041 --> 00:32:51,635
Like, like, I saw you there,
for that first time.
859
00:32:51,862 --> 00:32:55,288
I still feel that--
that same like--
860
00:32:55,307 --> 00:32:57,199
- I'm glad you still--
- butterflies in my stomach
861
00:32:57,292 --> 00:32:58,141
When I first saw you, like.
862
00:32:58,293 --> 00:32:59,459
- So what about now?
863
00:32:59,478 --> 00:33:01,553
When I wake up in
the morning next to you?
864
00:33:01,647 --> 00:33:04,039
No makeup?
865
00:33:04,057 --> 00:33:06,149
- I think that's when I--
- hair wild a little bit?
866
00:33:06,376 --> 00:33:07,985
- I think that's when
I like you the most.
867
00:33:08,212 --> 00:33:09,544
- You're definitely
growing on me.
868
00:33:09,563 --> 00:33:11,563
- Growing? What?
- I know.
869
00:33:11,657 --> 00:33:14,399
Most women say this about
their husbands, so--
870
00:33:14,493 --> 00:33:15,826
- What?
871
00:33:16,053 --> 00:33:17,143
You weren't attracted to me,
at first?
872
00:33:17,162 --> 00:33:19,221
- At first, I wasn't
really attracted to you.
873
00:33:19,314 --> 00:33:22,148
- Ooh.
- To your bald head.
874
00:33:22,242 --> 00:33:26,411
But once I, you know, continue
to spend time with you,
875
00:33:26,563 --> 00:33:28,730
I definitely feel
a little bit more
876
00:33:28,749 --> 00:33:30,415
Attracted to you.
877
00:33:30,567 --> 00:33:33,659
- Honestly, I did feel awkward
in a sense,
878
00:33:33,754 --> 00:33:37,088
When she said that she wasn't
initially attracted to me.
879
00:33:37,241 --> 00:33:40,684
But I think the physical
attraction grows.
880
00:33:40,835 --> 00:33:43,912
And she's finding things in me
that she really likes.
881
00:33:43,930 --> 00:33:46,097
And she really embraced,
you know, my bald head.
882
00:33:46,191 --> 00:33:48,674
You know, like, she always,
like, placing her hand
883
00:33:48,694 --> 00:33:49,693
On my head, like,
rubbing over my head.
884
00:33:49,920 --> 00:33:51,936
So I think she likes
the bald head.
885
00:33:52,031 --> 00:33:54,698
- Are you ever afraid
to kiss me sometimes?
886
00:33:54,925 --> 00:33:57,016
I know you think
that I'm beautiful.
887
00:33:57,110 --> 00:34:00,111
And I know we kind of talked
about intimacy a little bit,
888
00:34:00,205 --> 00:34:02,597
And I told you I'm not
really a good kisser,
889
00:34:02,690 --> 00:34:04,875
And I don't really kiss much.
890
00:34:05,102 --> 00:34:06,618
Like, how do you feel
about that?
891
00:34:06,712 --> 00:34:08,119
- I'm patient.
892
00:34:08,272 --> 00:34:10,121
Like, it's taking
a little time with you.
893
00:34:10,215 --> 00:34:11,956
- Yeah, it's just taking me
a little bit of time.
894
00:34:12,109 --> 00:34:13,291
- Like, you--
- more time.
895
00:34:13,385 --> 00:34:14,959
I'm glad you're being
patient with me, though.
896
00:34:15,054 --> 00:34:19,372
Because it is, like,
the timing for me, too.
897
00:34:19,391 --> 00:34:21,391
I mean, because of
the help with, like,
898
00:34:21,618 --> 00:34:23,543
The connection,
and the chemistry.
899
00:34:23,637 --> 00:34:26,121
- Like, the--the forehead?
900
00:34:26,139 --> 00:34:27,731
- Yeah. I like when you
kiss me on my forehead.
901
00:34:27,882 --> 00:34:29,140
I think that's sweet.
902
00:34:29,234 --> 00:34:32,385
Does it make you feel
less connected to me?
903
00:34:32,404 --> 00:34:33,812
- Sometimes I feel like
it's a push-off.
904
00:34:33,964 --> 00:34:35,572
- Yeah?
- Like I feel like,
905
00:34:35,723 --> 00:34:37,299
You're trying to--
it's a guard up
906
00:34:37,317 --> 00:34:38,891
That you're trying to, like,
"no, I don't want to
907
00:34:38,985 --> 00:34:40,318
Cross that boundary yet."
908
00:34:40,412 --> 00:34:42,971
- It's not shaquille.
It's--it's definitely me.
909
00:34:43,064 --> 00:34:45,731
Like, I can be
very affectionate,
910
00:34:45,751 --> 00:34:47,918
But I've never been big
on kissing.
911
00:34:48,145 --> 00:34:50,161
But we're--
we're working on all of that.
912
00:34:50,314 --> 00:34:52,647
It takes some baby steps
for me, sometimes.
913
00:34:52,740 --> 00:34:54,407
So we're taking baby steps.
914
00:34:54,426 --> 00:34:56,835
We have our intimate moments.
- Yeah.
915
00:34:56,929 --> 00:34:59,096
- So holding hands,
that's intimate for me.
916
00:34:59,247 --> 00:35:00,505
- Yeah, it's physical touch,
is real.
917
00:35:00,657 --> 00:35:02,248
- Yeah, physical touch.
So I love that.
918
00:35:02,267 --> 00:35:03,158
- I think we both have that.
- I like--
919
00:35:03,251 --> 00:35:04,993
I think I like physical touch
920
00:35:05,086 --> 00:35:06,103
More than kissing, honestly.
921
00:35:06,254 --> 00:35:07,662
- Really?
- Yeah.
922
00:35:07,755 --> 00:35:09,422
Like, even now, I'm on you.
923
00:35:09,441 --> 00:35:10,941
- Yeah, like, every time
we're together,
924
00:35:11,168 --> 00:35:12,609
It's kind of like,
we have to touch.
925
00:35:12,760 --> 00:35:14,594
It's a sense of security.
- It is.
926
00:35:14,613 --> 00:35:15,928
- Like, to make sure,
like, I got you.
927
00:35:16,022 --> 00:35:17,280
- And I love that feeling.
928
00:35:17,507 --> 00:35:20,342
- Yeah.
- I love feeling secure, so.
929
00:35:20,435 --> 00:35:22,344
- I've learned.
- Mm-hmm.
930
00:35:22,437 --> 00:35:23,603
- So I know what I got to do.
931
00:35:23,697 --> 00:35:25,271
- Mm-hmm, that's right.
932
00:35:25,365 --> 00:35:26,848
- ♪ look at me now ♪
933
00:35:26,941 --> 00:35:28,867
♪ I'm off the ground, ah ♪
934
00:35:28,961 --> 00:35:31,870
♪ look at me now,
I'm never going down ♪
935
00:35:31,964 --> 00:35:36,782
♪ ♪
936
00:35:36,877 --> 00:35:39,711
[soft eager music]
937
00:35:39,805 --> 00:35:43,548
♪ ♪
938
00:35:43,642 --> 00:35:45,142
- [laughs]
939
00:35:45,369 --> 00:35:47,385
- To the struggles
and adventures.
940
00:35:47,479 --> 00:35:49,646
- Yeah.
941
00:35:49,797 --> 00:35:53,633
- So this is like
extreme glamping.
942
00:35:53,652 --> 00:35:54,634
- What we're doing currently?
- Right now,
943
00:35:54,653 --> 00:35:58,321
Eating food in
a posh hotel room.
944
00:35:58,473 --> 00:36:00,157
- You thought I was gonna be
high maintenance, didn't you?
945
00:36:00,384 --> 00:36:02,400
- I didn't say
high maintenance, just--
946
00:36:02,494 --> 00:36:04,161
- Maybe a little bit?
- Well, you never know.
947
00:36:04,312 --> 00:36:07,071
It was the--
it was a litmus test.
948
00:36:07,224 --> 00:36:09,240
- Ok.
949
00:36:09,334 --> 00:36:12,560
I think for me,
I definitely know that I need
950
00:36:12,654 --> 00:36:15,063
Someone that's, like, patient
951
00:36:15,156 --> 00:36:16,564
And just someone
that's supportive.
952
00:36:16,583 --> 00:36:19,083
Like, my life right now, is--
it's stressful.
953
00:36:19,236 --> 00:36:21,327
- Sure, yeah.
- I'm not needy.
954
00:36:21,346 --> 00:36:22,828
Like, I've never been
a needy person.
955
00:36:22,848 --> 00:36:24,514
I've always been
pretty independent, so--
956
00:36:24,741 --> 00:36:26,241
- Yeah.
- Having someone that can,
957
00:36:26,334 --> 00:36:28,351
Like, handle the independence
958
00:36:28,578 --> 00:36:30,094
And actually, like,
appreciate it
959
00:36:30,247 --> 00:36:33,172
Rather than see it
as a negative.
960
00:36:33,192 --> 00:36:34,916
- Well, I mean,
have you ever had somebody
961
00:36:35,009 --> 00:36:36,751
That was also a contributor?
962
00:36:36,770 --> 00:36:40,513
- No. Mm-mm.
963
00:36:40,532 --> 00:36:42,424
I haven't really been
in a relationship
964
00:36:42,517 --> 00:36:43,608
Since I started my business.
965
00:36:43,760 --> 00:36:45,368
But before, it's almost like,
966
00:36:45,520 --> 00:36:48,521
I would feel almost bad.
967
00:36:48,540 --> 00:36:50,540
It's like,
I was almost doing too much.
968
00:36:50,692 --> 00:36:53,768
Or like,
this person felt inferior
969
00:36:53,787 --> 00:36:57,455
'cause I was, like,
going after dreams.
970
00:36:57,549 --> 00:36:59,441
And it was, like, bringing out
their insecurities.
971
00:36:59,534 --> 00:37:01,051
- Yeah.
So I mean, what, these--
972
00:37:01,278 --> 00:37:02,794
These guys just
sit on the sidelines
973
00:37:02,946 --> 00:37:04,112
And they're like--
- yeah.
974
00:37:04,205 --> 00:37:06,130
- "man, my girl's
super successful
975
00:37:06,283 --> 00:37:08,633
And she's crushing it, and I'm
just crushing some beer cans"?
976
00:37:08,785 --> 00:37:10,635
- Pretty much.
[laughs]
977
00:37:10,787 --> 00:37:14,138
- Yeah?
- Pretty much, yeah.
978
00:37:14,291 --> 00:37:15,790
My picker's been off, I guess.
979
00:37:15,809 --> 00:37:18,068
- [laughs]
980
00:37:18,219 --> 00:37:20,904
- I would say that I definitely
have admiration for clint.
981
00:37:21,131 --> 00:37:23,131
I don't know if
we're quite there yet
982
00:37:23,224 --> 00:37:24,632
On, like, a physical level.
983
00:37:24,726 --> 00:37:26,651
But I'm actually
really thankful
984
00:37:26,803 --> 00:37:30,138
That we're taking the time
to talk through
985
00:37:30,231 --> 00:37:32,156
What we desire in a person
first
986
00:37:32,251 --> 00:37:35,919
Before we're getting into
the physical part of it.
987
00:37:36,070 --> 00:37:39,089
- It's gonna be fun.
We're gonna have a good time.
988
00:37:39,240 --> 00:37:41,483
- And really, we just have
no idea what's about to happen.
989
00:37:41,576 --> 00:37:42,834
- No, no idea.
- [chuckles]
990
00:37:42,928 --> 00:37:44,168
- No idea.
991
00:37:44,263 --> 00:37:48,914
♪ ♪
992
00:37:49,009 --> 00:37:50,934
- ♪ indestructible ♪
993
00:37:51,085 --> 00:37:53,495
♪ forever feeling gold ♪
994
00:37:53,513 --> 00:37:57,107
♪ I put up a fight ♪
995
00:37:59,594 --> 00:38:02,170
- Oh, my gosh, that's so good.
996
00:38:02,263 --> 00:38:03,688
- Wow, that looks delicious.
997
00:38:03,840 --> 00:38:05,023
- Yum.
998
00:38:05,175 --> 00:38:07,509
- Thank you, sir.
- Thank you.
999
00:38:07,527 --> 00:38:10,936
[chuckles]
1000
00:38:10,956 --> 00:38:12,697
- You're about to feed me
some of that.
1001
00:38:12,791 --> 00:38:15,417
Or a bite.
1002
00:38:16,853 --> 00:38:18,628
- I can't--
- reach! Reach, come on. Reach.
1003
00:38:20,966 --> 00:38:23,374
- You going to--
you gon' eat the whole thing?
1004
00:38:23,527 --> 00:38:25,802
[laughs]
1005
00:38:25,953 --> 00:38:27,470
That lobster tail good.
- Mm-hmm.
1006
00:38:27,622 --> 00:38:29,955
- It's really good.
1007
00:38:29,975 --> 00:38:34,293
So what else do you want
to know about me?
1008
00:38:34,313 --> 00:38:35,537
- Um--
1009
00:38:35,555 --> 00:38:37,963
- I'm sure there's a lot.
1010
00:38:37,983 --> 00:38:40,466
- What's your favorite
sexual position?
1011
00:38:40,560 --> 00:38:41,985
[record scratches]
1012
00:38:45,490 --> 00:38:47,231
- Oh, my gosh!
1013
00:38:47,326 --> 00:38:49,901
Airris!
1014
00:38:50,053 --> 00:38:52,329
I--I plead the fifth. I'm not.
1015
00:38:52,556 --> 00:38:53,571
- We'll tone it down
a little bit.
1016
00:38:53,665 --> 00:38:56,574
- [laughs]
1017
00:38:56,726 --> 00:38:57,892
- So what's
your favorite color?
1018
00:38:57,911 --> 00:38:59,744
- Lavender.
- Lavender.
1019
00:38:59,838 --> 00:39:02,246
Did you know...
1020
00:39:02,341 --> 00:39:06,417
That women whose favorite color
is lavender,
1021
00:39:06,570 --> 00:39:08,345
Their favorite
sexual position...
1022
00:39:08,572 --> 00:39:11,014
- [laughs]
- is downward facing dog?
1023
00:39:11,165 --> 00:39:13,850
It's a yoga position, but it--
it also translates into sex.
1024
00:39:14,001 --> 00:39:16,836
- Airris. I cannot.
1025
00:39:16,930 --> 00:39:18,930
- That's a little-known fact.
- Is that really a known fact?
1026
00:39:19,082 --> 00:39:20,005
Or did you make it up
right now?
1027
00:39:20,100 --> 00:39:21,340
- It's a known fact.
1028
00:39:21,434 --> 00:39:24,361
I'm not saying it's true.
1029
00:39:24,588 --> 00:39:27,680
But from my years and years
of research,
1030
00:39:27,699 --> 00:39:28,681
It's one of the things
that I really--
1031
00:39:28,775 --> 00:39:30,683
- Your years and years
of research?
1032
00:39:30,777 --> 00:39:32,944
- [laughing] it's one of the
things that I've remembered.
1033
00:39:33,096 --> 00:39:36,706
- I cannot with you, right now.
1034
00:39:36,858 --> 00:39:38,190
- You know, my wife, she's
a little bit more reserved,
1035
00:39:38,210 --> 00:39:39,876
But I feel like
she got a demon side.
1036
00:39:40,027 --> 00:39:42,212
And I gotta kinda, like, pull
that demon side out of her,
1037
00:39:42,363 --> 00:39:43,546
You know what I mean?
1038
00:39:43,773 --> 00:39:44,956
And that's gon' be fun,
you know?
1039
00:39:45,050 --> 00:39:47,942
Like a--I've never been,
like, a sex mentor
1040
00:39:47,961 --> 00:39:49,219
But, you know,
I can show her the way.
1041
00:39:49,446 --> 00:39:51,888
So I'll just add that
on my resume.
1042
00:39:52,115 --> 00:39:56,893
You know, software engineer,
sex mentor.
1043
00:39:57,044 --> 00:39:59,470
Hell of a resume, to me.
1044
00:39:59,564 --> 00:40:01,139
So like, why don't you
want to talk about sex?
1045
00:40:01,291 --> 00:40:04,234
Why's it so, like, taboo?
1046
00:40:04,385 --> 00:40:06,236
We're both adults.
We're both grown.
1047
00:40:06,463 --> 00:40:09,221
- It's really not that
it's taboo.
1048
00:40:09,241 --> 00:40:12,242
It's just--
I'm just a little more modest
1049
00:40:12,469 --> 00:40:15,319
When it comes to that.
And I just--
1050
00:40:15,414 --> 00:40:18,322
I'm not the best at expressing
the things that I like
1051
00:40:18,475 --> 00:40:20,491
And that I want in that aspect.
1052
00:40:20,585 --> 00:40:24,162
So I just don't really like
to talk about it.
1053
00:40:24,256 --> 00:40:26,497
- It's giving lady vibes.
- Lady, I am a lady.
1054
00:40:26,650 --> 00:40:28,816
- It's giving class.
- Yeah.
1055
00:40:28,835 --> 00:40:31,319
- We need it to give whore.
1056
00:40:31,337 --> 00:40:35,748
- Are you--
[laughter]
1057
00:40:35,767 --> 00:40:37,583
What?
1058
00:40:37,677 --> 00:40:39,677
I definitely enjoy sex.
1059
00:40:39,829 --> 00:40:44,774
I just need someone to
help me enjoy it more.
1060
00:40:44,926 --> 00:40:47,944
Like my husband,
since we're married.
1061
00:40:48,171 --> 00:40:50,429
- I'm on demand.
I'm at your service.
1062
00:40:50,449 --> 00:40:51,448
- Ok.
1063
00:40:51,599 --> 00:40:54,242
[electronic music]
1064
00:40:58,198 --> 00:41:01,015
[upbeat music]
1065
00:41:01,034 --> 00:41:02,533
- Today's going to be fun.
I'm looking forward to it.
1066
00:41:02,686 --> 00:41:05,203
The weather's great.
1067
00:41:05,297 --> 00:41:06,963
What else we got?
1068
00:41:07,190 --> 00:41:09,691
- Um...
1069
00:41:09,784 --> 00:41:10,525
Are you wiping
your boogers on me?
1070
00:41:10,543 --> 00:41:12,360
- Mm-hmm.
- [chuckles]
1071
00:41:12,378 --> 00:41:14,212
- What you looking forward to
today?
1072
00:41:14,364 --> 00:41:16,789
- Eating.
- What'd you get for breakfast?
1073
00:41:16,883 --> 00:41:18,624
- I got pancakes and bacon.
1074
00:41:18,718 --> 00:41:20,535
- You got bacon again, girl?
1075
00:41:20,628 --> 00:41:22,312
Let them little pigs
do the eating
1076
00:41:22,463 --> 00:41:25,039
On the way to the market.
- Oh, my god.
1077
00:41:25,132 --> 00:41:26,816
- The adventure continues.
1078
00:41:26,968 --> 00:41:30,211
We made it through
a mountainous thunderstorm,
1079
00:41:30,230 --> 00:41:34,215
Through a hike,
got lost for several hours.
1080
00:41:34,308 --> 00:41:36,217
And if that wasn't enough,
1081
00:41:36,236 --> 00:41:40,997
Now our batteries on
the tv remote don't work.
1082
00:41:41,148 --> 00:41:42,557
- We got no juice.
1083
00:41:42,575 --> 00:41:46,728
- Hubby's still resting,
as he should be.
1084
00:41:46,821 --> 00:41:50,006
Because it will take me
about an hour
1085
00:41:50,157 --> 00:41:52,008
To go through
all of my bathing suits
1086
00:41:52,159 --> 00:41:53,343
And make a choice.
1087
00:41:53,494 --> 00:41:55,403
- We are running late,
honestly.
1088
00:41:55,496 --> 00:41:58,097
Let's get up
on the count of three.
1089
00:42:00,018 --> 00:42:02,668
Who's gon' count?
[laughter]
1090
00:42:02,687 --> 00:42:03,686
- One.
1091
00:42:03,913 --> 00:42:04,912
- Two.
1092
00:42:04,931 --> 00:42:08,249
- Three.
- Ok.
1093
00:42:08,268 --> 00:42:11,343
[chill music]
1094
00:42:11,363 --> 00:42:13,696
- ♪ let's dance ♪
1095
00:42:13,848 --> 00:42:16,866
♪ nobody's like this ♪
1096
00:42:17,018 --> 00:42:19,351
♪ like you're my type ♪
1097
00:42:19,371 --> 00:42:20,928
- Here we are.
1098
00:42:21,022 --> 00:42:23,022
- Got a lovely beachside...
- Oh.
1099
00:42:23,041 --> 00:42:26,042
- Bed cabana experience.
- Got some swathes?
1100
00:42:26,269 --> 00:42:28,452
- Yeah.
1101
00:42:28,605 --> 00:42:30,380
Take a seat, m'lady.
1102
00:42:30,531 --> 00:42:32,623
- Take a load off.
- Load off.
1103
00:42:32,776 --> 00:42:35,943
- Take the sunnies off.
- Yeah.
1104
00:42:36,037 --> 00:42:37,387
- I think I could live
in the caribbean.
1105
00:42:37,614 --> 00:42:39,222
- What do you think, jamaica?
Second home?
1106
00:42:39,373 --> 00:42:41,616
- Second location
for the salon?
1107
00:42:41,634 --> 00:42:44,302
- Yeah, I don't know, maybe.
- Yeah.
1108
00:42:44,396 --> 00:42:46,211
- Hello.
- Oh, hi.
1109
00:42:46,231 --> 00:42:47,288
- How are you?
- Good, how are you?
1110
00:42:47,307 --> 00:42:48,639
- Good afternoon.
1111
00:42:48,733 --> 00:42:49,715
- Sober?
- Sober?
1112
00:42:49,734 --> 00:42:50,958
That doesn't sound very good.
1113
00:42:51,052 --> 00:42:52,143
- No, I'ma change it
later though.
1114
00:42:52,237 --> 00:42:53,628
- Oh, good.
- Ok.
1115
00:42:53,721 --> 00:42:54,962
- All right, so my name
is odaine.
1116
00:42:55,056 --> 00:42:56,314
I'ma be your butler
for the day.
1117
00:42:56,408 --> 00:42:57,648
- Ok.
1118
00:42:57,801 --> 00:42:58,800
- I'm here to get you guys
drunk.
1119
00:42:58,893 --> 00:43:00,151
I mean,
drinks, lunch, everything.
1120
00:43:00,245 --> 00:43:01,226
- Ok.
- All right?
1121
00:43:01,246 --> 00:43:02,227
- Amazing.
- We like that.
1122
00:43:02,247 --> 00:43:03,562
Ladies first?
1123
00:43:03,582 --> 00:43:05,306
- Something colorful.
1124
00:43:05,325 --> 00:43:06,974
- I'm a piña colada, man.
1125
00:43:06,993 --> 00:43:08,643
- You're piña colada
with extra sauce?
1126
00:43:08,736 --> 00:43:10,494
- Extra sauce.
- Hit him with the sauce.
1127
00:43:10,589 --> 00:43:11,737
All right?
- Booyah.
1128
00:43:11,831 --> 00:43:13,648
- All right.
- I got you.
1129
00:43:13,741 --> 00:43:16,259
I'll be right back.
- I like that.
1130
00:43:16,486 --> 00:43:19,244
So, um...
1131
00:43:19,264 --> 00:43:20,671
What a nice vacation.
1132
00:43:20,824 --> 00:43:22,081
This has turned into this,
like--
1133
00:43:22,100 --> 00:43:23,841
This has exceeded expectations
1134
00:43:23,993 --> 00:43:25,676
Of just good lounge time.
- Yeah.
1135
00:43:25,770 --> 00:43:27,845
- Good exploration time.
1136
00:43:27,939 --> 00:43:30,589
Not only just around
the island, but a little bit,
1137
00:43:30,683 --> 00:43:33,017
You know, into--
into you and me.
1138
00:43:33,111 --> 00:43:34,259
- Yeah, for sure.
1139
00:43:34,354 --> 00:43:35,853
- So, like, we click, right?
1140
00:43:36,005 --> 00:43:37,429
Just back and forth.
1141
00:43:37,523 --> 00:43:40,675
- It's been good.
- Yeah.
1142
00:43:40,768 --> 00:43:43,453
- But at the end of the day,
like,
1143
00:43:43,680 --> 00:43:45,012
I know, I don't know
how you're feeling.
1144
00:43:45,106 --> 00:43:46,864
I'm not feeling, like,
this overwhelming
1145
00:43:47,016 --> 00:43:51,610
Physical like, chemistry,
for sure.
1146
00:43:51,630 --> 00:43:53,278
I don't wanna force anything.
1147
00:43:53,298 --> 00:43:55,857
- Yeah.
- So I don't know.
1148
00:43:55,875 --> 00:43:58,951
[tense music]
1149
00:43:58,970 --> 00:44:00,970
How do you feel on that?
1150
00:44:01,197 --> 00:44:03,789
♪ ♪
1151
00:44:03,883 --> 00:44:05,308
- Yeah, I feel the same way.
1152
00:44:05,535 --> 00:44:08,035
I mean, the experts matched us
up for a reason.
1153
00:44:08,054 --> 00:44:11,130
And so, we'll see what happens.
1154
00:44:11,149 --> 00:44:13,632
We might go through something
1155
00:44:13,726 --> 00:44:15,893
And then all of a sudden,
it changes our perspective.
1156
00:44:15,987 --> 00:44:17,654
Right?
- Yeah.
1157
00:44:17,881 --> 00:44:19,822
I mean, for me, I feel like
physical attraction
1158
00:44:19,974 --> 00:44:23,551
Is definitely something
that is unexplainable.
1159
00:44:23,644 --> 00:44:24,886
I don't think it happens
overnight.
1160
00:44:24,904 --> 00:44:28,981
But I've been in
a relationship before
1161
00:44:29,000 --> 00:44:30,391
Where it wasn't, like,
1162
00:44:30,410 --> 00:44:32,835
The first initial thing
that hit me.
1163
00:44:32,987 --> 00:44:35,062
You know,
I think it can grow over time,
1164
00:44:35,081 --> 00:44:37,156
Just with spending more time
together,
1165
00:44:37,175 --> 00:44:39,676
Like, how someone treats you,
1166
00:44:39,903 --> 00:44:42,327
Like, you watching them
in your day-to-day life
1167
00:44:42,422 --> 00:44:43,996
And being inspired by them,
1168
00:44:44,090 --> 00:44:46,331
Or someone making you laugh,
1169
00:44:46,426 --> 00:44:49,427
Or you, like, you know,
enjoying their personality.
1170
00:44:49,579 --> 00:44:51,854
I think those things can
bring physical attraction.
1171
00:44:52,081 --> 00:44:53,915
I've seen it grow in
previous relationships.
1172
00:44:53,933 --> 00:44:55,507
So that's why I think
I'm just staying open-minded.
1173
00:44:55,527 --> 00:45:00,087
- Yeah, yeah.
1174
00:45:00,106 --> 00:45:03,607
For her to verbalize that
so early in a relationship,
1175
00:45:03,760 --> 00:45:05,943
I'm disappointed.
But we're married.
1176
00:45:06,037 --> 00:45:08,763
So I mean, we're--
we're committed to this
1177
00:45:08,781 --> 00:45:12,191
And we're gonna do whatever it
takes to try to make it work.
1178
00:45:12,285 --> 00:45:14,268
We do get along really well.
1179
00:45:14,287 --> 00:45:15,861
- I agree.
- And that's unmistakable.
1180
00:45:15,880 --> 00:45:19,698
And undeniable.
- I agree.
1181
00:45:19,718 --> 00:45:23,886
I'm in this for the long haul.
1182
00:45:24,038 --> 00:45:26,447
I think the one thing,
it's interesting.
1183
00:45:26,540 --> 00:45:27,949
The one thing that
I was like, just,
1184
00:45:28,042 --> 00:45:29,041
"I don't really vibe
with redheads,
1185
00:45:29,135 --> 00:45:31,394
Or like, gingery features."
1186
00:45:31,621 --> 00:45:32,954
- Mm-hmm?
1187
00:45:32,972 --> 00:45:35,957
[tense music]
1188
00:45:36,050 --> 00:45:37,549
- And not to say
you're unattractive,
1189
00:45:37,569 --> 00:45:40,069
But just, that's what you are.
1190
00:45:40,221 --> 00:45:43,130
And so, I was like, "ok. He's a
gin--
1191
00:45:43,224 --> 00:45:45,649
Like, gingery, like,
not my typical."
1192
00:45:45,744 --> 00:45:48,244
Just like--
- heard.
1193
00:45:48,471 --> 00:45:51,581
♪ ♪
1194
00:45:55,495 --> 00:45:56,919
[exciting music]
1195
00:45:57,071 --> 00:46:01,332
- ♪ crashing parties like
we throw them, throw them ♪
1196
00:46:01,484 --> 00:46:03,408
♪ they don't know it
so we show them ♪
1197
00:46:03,503 --> 00:46:04,910
♪ show them, yeah ♪
1198
00:46:04,929 --> 00:46:07,338
♪ ballin' big ♪
1199
00:46:07,490 --> 00:46:08,823
- Yeah, I think so.
1200
00:46:08,841 --> 00:46:12,660
- Oh, my gosh.
- [laughs]
1201
00:46:12,678 --> 00:46:15,420
Oh, it's so nice.
- This is so pretty.
1202
00:46:15,515 --> 00:46:18,349
[electronic music]
1203
00:46:18,501 --> 00:46:20,109
♪ ♪
1204
00:46:20,261 --> 00:46:22,779
- This is so nice.
- This is nice.
1205
00:46:23,006 --> 00:46:24,763
I set this all up myself.
I built the table.
1206
00:46:24,783 --> 00:46:26,115
I lit the candles.
1207
00:46:26,267 --> 00:46:27,525
- Oh, you built the table?
1208
00:46:27,677 --> 00:46:29,693
- Yeah, I even waxed
the candles.
1209
00:46:29,846 --> 00:46:31,028
- Yeah.
1210
00:46:31,180 --> 00:46:34,031
♪ ♪
1211
00:46:34,183 --> 00:46:36,700
- Ok.
What'd you think of today?
1212
00:46:36,853 --> 00:46:38,277
- Sailing was great.
1213
00:46:38,371 --> 00:46:40,112
I thought it was amazing.
1214
00:46:40,131 --> 00:46:42,298
I was so proud of you
because I know that you were
1215
00:46:42,449 --> 00:46:45,359
A little apprehensive at first.
- I was.
1216
00:46:45,452 --> 00:46:46,710
These are things I want to do.
1217
00:46:46,805 --> 00:46:48,696
I just need to have that
extra push sometimes.
1218
00:46:48,714 --> 00:46:50,807
- I know that you joke about,
like,
1219
00:46:50,958 --> 00:46:52,642
Like, "I'm not doing that."
- right.
1220
00:46:52,869 --> 00:46:53,810
- But then you end up doing it.
- I know.
1221
00:46:53,961 --> 00:46:55,478
Sometimes I joke about it,
1222
00:46:55,629 --> 00:46:59,816
But I want you to push me
as much as I can take.
1223
00:46:59,967 --> 00:47:01,300
I do want to go deep sea
fishing--
1224
00:47:01,319 --> 00:47:02,543
Or fishing in general,
with you.
1225
00:47:02,562 --> 00:47:03,986
- Mm-hmm.
- I know that's big.
1226
00:47:04,213 --> 00:47:05,896
- Am I going to have to
bait your hook?
1227
00:47:05,990 --> 00:47:07,565
- No, I'm a--
1228
00:47:07,717 --> 00:47:11,661
I'm a fisherman,
I'm a sail-man, I'm a fish.
1229
00:47:11,812 --> 00:47:13,312
I'm just a natural--
- are you?
1230
00:47:13,406 --> 00:47:14,405
- Ocean sea guy.
I'm just being--
1231
00:47:14,499 --> 00:47:15,573
- Are you a fisherman?
1232
00:47:15,667 --> 00:47:17,058
- I'm being coy about it
1233
00:47:17,076 --> 00:47:18,576
And I'm trying to surprise you.
1234
00:47:18,728 --> 00:47:20,002
- I don't have to bait
your hook?
1235
00:47:20,229 --> 00:47:21,671
- We'll see.
1236
00:47:21,898 --> 00:47:23,005
I can probably do it.
- [chuckles]
1237
00:47:24,584 --> 00:47:26,658
- Ooh.
- Oh.
1238
00:47:26,752 --> 00:47:27,993
Oh, my goodness.
- Yes.
1239
00:47:28,012 --> 00:47:30,662
Gonna make me cry.
1240
00:47:30,682 --> 00:47:32,831
- Looks delicious.
1241
00:47:32,851 --> 00:47:33,924
Thank you, sir.
1242
00:47:34,077 --> 00:47:35,518
- Wow.
1243
00:47:35,669 --> 00:47:37,411
- This looks good.
- It looks so good.
1244
00:47:37,504 --> 00:47:40,523
- I actually put the meal
together too.
1245
00:47:40,750 --> 00:47:44,435
- So you made the candles,
you made the table...
1246
00:47:44,587 --> 00:47:45,586
- I caught the lobster.
- And you had time--
1247
00:47:45,679 --> 00:47:47,771
Oh, and the shrimp?
- Yes.
1248
00:47:47,924 --> 00:47:50,424
And I let the chef
put it together.
1249
00:47:50,517 --> 00:47:51,683
I was just trying
to impress you.
1250
00:47:51,703 --> 00:47:52,851
- Wow.
1251
00:47:52,871 --> 00:47:54,704
It's a joke, I think.
1252
00:47:54,855 --> 00:47:56,873
I think I'm late
to the pickup line.
1253
00:47:57,024 --> 00:48:00,284
But his actions are speaking
louder than words.
1254
00:48:00,436 --> 00:48:01,952
And ultimately, that is
what I've asked for.
1255
00:48:02,105 --> 00:48:05,439
Um, yeah.
1256
00:48:06,384 --> 00:48:08,442
- You've seriously been
such a good match.
1257
00:48:08,535 --> 00:48:10,277
I know I'm a lot at times.
- [chuckles]
1258
00:48:10,296 --> 00:48:13,538
- And I goof around
maybe too much.
1259
00:48:13,558 --> 00:48:15,950
But I think that's why
1260
00:48:15,968 --> 00:48:17,894
I am looking for someone
like yourself,
1261
00:48:18,045 --> 00:48:22,306
To kind of ground me,
humble me a little bit,
1262
00:48:22,458 --> 00:48:24,291
Make me go do these things
out of my element
1263
00:48:24,385 --> 00:48:26,551
That I typically wouldn't, so.
- Mm-hmm?
1264
00:48:26,646 --> 00:48:28,387
- I'm thankful for that.
- Aw.
1265
00:48:28,481 --> 00:48:31,148
Well, I appreciate you.
1266
00:48:31,300 --> 00:48:33,817
I don't think that I could
have asked for a better match
1267
00:48:33,912 --> 00:48:34,893
At this point.
1268
00:48:34,987 --> 00:48:37,138
- So basically, I'm your dream?
1269
00:48:37,156 --> 00:48:38,305
- Yeah.
- Your dream guy?
1270
00:48:38,324 --> 00:48:39,657
Or am I taking too much
credit here?
1271
00:48:39,751 --> 00:48:41,992
- Mm.
- [chuckles]
1272
00:48:42,086 --> 00:48:44,812
Ok, ok.
- [laughs]
1273
00:48:44,830 --> 00:48:46,814
I would say
you're doing pretty good.
1274
00:48:46,907 --> 00:48:49,667
You know, like,
we'll see how things go.
1275
00:48:49,761 --> 00:48:52,911
But I would definitely say that
you're on the right track.
1276
00:48:52,931 --> 00:48:58,993
- ♪ it's all coming to me,
it's all coming to me ♪
1277
00:48:59,011 --> 00:49:01,420
- ♪ two boats lost at sea ♪
1278
00:49:01,514 --> 00:49:04,515
♪ and always traveling ♪
1279
00:49:04,667 --> 00:49:06,925
♪ and the wind would
catch our sails ♪
1280
00:49:06,945 --> 00:49:10,262
♪ of chasing dreams
and fairy tales ♪
1281
00:49:10,281 --> 00:49:12,006
- I'm speechless right now
with you in that dress.
1282
00:49:12,099 --> 00:49:14,341
You look amazing.
- Aw, thank you.
1283
00:49:14,360 --> 00:49:15,676
- Let's move these candles.
1284
00:49:15,695 --> 00:49:16,527
Getting in the way
of my view of you.
1285
00:49:16,621 --> 00:49:18,195
- Aw.
- For sure.
1286
00:49:18,347 --> 00:49:20,030
- Keep complimenting me,
my head's gonna explode.
1287
00:49:20,124 --> 00:49:21,515
- There we go.
1288
00:49:21,608 --> 00:49:22,533
- You can't see
what I'm seeing,
1289
00:49:22,627 --> 00:49:24,776
But it's just magical.
1290
00:49:24,796 --> 00:49:27,630
- Do I have a nice little aura?
- It's really beautiful.
1291
00:49:27,781 --> 00:49:30,299
It's like, the light is saying,
"this is your dream husband."
1292
00:49:30,451 --> 00:49:32,451
I'm like,
"yes, thank you, light."
1293
00:49:32,470 --> 00:49:33,544
- Am I?
Am I your dream husband?
1294
00:49:33,696 --> 00:49:34,712
- So far.
- So far?
1295
00:49:34,864 --> 00:49:36,880
- So far.
1296
00:49:37,033 --> 00:49:38,790
Wow, what about me?
Am I your dream wife?
1297
00:49:38,884 --> 00:49:40,217
- So far. [laughs]
1298
00:49:40,311 --> 00:49:42,127
- Do you love me yet?
1299
00:49:42,221 --> 00:49:43,387
- Not yet. Not yet.
- Joking.
1300
00:49:43,539 --> 00:49:46,390
I'm joking.
- But I can see it.
1301
00:49:46,542 --> 00:49:49,226
♪ ♪
1302
00:49:49,378 --> 00:49:51,487
- Ah, so we have a lovely
bottle of pinot grigio for you.
1303
00:49:51,638 --> 00:49:53,656
- Yes.
- Yes, thank you so much.
1304
00:49:53,807 --> 00:49:55,324
- You're most welcome.
- Oh, yeah.
1305
00:49:57,887 --> 00:50:00,070
Cheers to the most
beautiful wife in jamaica.
1306
00:50:00,164 --> 00:50:01,555
- Aw, cheers.
1307
00:50:01,574 --> 00:50:04,000
To our happy honeymoon.
1308
00:50:06,562 --> 00:50:09,005
Oh, yeah.
1309
00:50:09,232 --> 00:50:12,416
- So not meaning to go
too serious, but--
1310
00:50:12,568 --> 00:50:15,236
- We love going serious.
Why not jump right in?
1311
00:50:15,329 --> 00:50:16,920
- But I mean, obviously,
we haven't really
1312
00:50:17,073 --> 00:50:19,664
Talked about kids and, like,
what we're expecting there.
1313
00:50:19,684 --> 00:50:21,684
I mean, I know I'm 36.
1314
00:50:21,835 --> 00:50:23,911
So I'm getting
a little bit older.
1315
00:50:24,004 --> 00:50:26,430
You're 32, will be 33 soon.
1316
00:50:26,524 --> 00:50:27,581
So, like, what are--
what are your thoughts?
1317
00:50:27,674 --> 00:50:29,525
Like, how are you feeling
about it?
1318
00:50:29,752 --> 00:50:32,436
- Honestly, I grew up
never wanting kids
1319
00:50:32,588 --> 00:50:35,197
Because I always thought
that I would live this
1320
00:50:35,349 --> 00:50:37,274
Big, grand life
where I'm almost a nomad
1321
00:50:37,368 --> 00:50:38,759
And I'm always traveling
1322
00:50:38,778 --> 00:50:40,185
And always going on
these adventures.
1323
00:50:40,279 --> 00:50:42,096
And as I got older,
1324
00:50:42,189 --> 00:50:44,022
I still didn't really
want kids.
1325
00:50:44,042 --> 00:50:46,950
And once I knew I was
ready for marriage,
1326
00:50:47,103 --> 00:50:49,194
I was kind of like,
"why don't I want kids?
1327
00:50:49,213 --> 00:50:52,122
Like, what is it about kids
that I'm so against?"
1328
00:50:52,275 --> 00:50:53,865
And now I'm kind of
open to them
1329
00:50:53,959 --> 00:50:58,612
But I'm not dying to have them.
1330
00:50:58,631 --> 00:51:01,206
How do you feel?
- My thoughts,
1331
00:51:01,225 --> 00:51:02,466
Just to be fully transparent,
1332
00:51:02,560 --> 00:51:04,376
I always envisioned two.
1333
00:51:04,470 --> 00:51:07,471
One boy, one girl.
1334
00:51:07,565 --> 00:51:08,880
It's one of those things
that we definitely want
1335
00:51:08,900 --> 00:51:10,124
To make sure we're on
the same page about.
1336
00:51:10,142 --> 00:51:11,734
Because, like, we're not
getting any younger,
1337
00:51:11,961 --> 00:51:15,813
So it's one of the things we
have to think about.
1338
00:51:15,965 --> 00:51:18,816
- When do you think we need to
revisit this conversation?
1339
00:51:18,968 --> 00:51:19,967
Like a year?
1340
00:51:19,985 --> 00:51:21,077
- Yeah, like a year or two.
1341
00:51:21,304 --> 00:51:22,578
I don't think anytime soon.
- No.
1342
00:51:22,729 --> 00:51:25,730
- Unless you get baby fever.
[chuckles]
1343
00:51:25,750 --> 00:51:27,808
- I'm open to kids. I'm not
against them,
1344
00:51:27,827 --> 00:51:29,810
But I'm not
ready to make a decision.
1345
00:51:29,829 --> 00:51:32,237
I mean,
I am very career-focused.
1346
00:51:32,256 --> 00:51:34,665
And by the time I might be
ready for kids,
1347
00:51:34,817 --> 00:51:38,319
It might stop or halt my career
at a really good point.
1348
00:51:38,337 --> 00:51:40,763
So it's a lot to think about.
1349
00:51:40,990 --> 00:51:42,840
I don't even know if we will
have children, but--
1350
00:51:42,992 --> 00:51:45,676
But are you more so
leaving it--
1351
00:51:45,770 --> 00:51:48,771
The ball in my court?
1352
00:51:48,922 --> 00:51:50,422
- No.
Overall, I think it's something
1353
00:51:50,441 --> 00:51:52,683
We need to make a decision on
together, you know?
1354
00:51:52,835 --> 00:51:55,427
- Chris seems to be
on the same page as me,
1355
00:51:55,521 --> 00:51:57,020
Which sounds great.
1356
00:51:57,173 --> 00:51:58,505
But I just don't know him
well enough yet
1357
00:51:58,524 --> 00:52:00,190
To know if
he's just appeasing me.
1358
00:52:00,343 --> 00:52:03,861
And I do have a fear that
one day he will want kids
1359
00:52:04,013 --> 00:52:06,104
And because we were
so lackadaisical,
1360
00:52:06,198 --> 00:52:08,015
We won't be able to have them.
1361
00:52:08,033 --> 00:52:09,458
So it's something
I really have to
1362
00:52:09,610 --> 00:52:11,185
Actively think about
and not just like,
1363
00:52:11,203 --> 00:52:12,628
"let's try
and if it happens, great."
1364
00:52:12,779 --> 00:52:14,279
- I believe if
I'm meant to have kids,
1365
00:52:14,373 --> 00:52:15,372
We're gonna have them.
1366
00:52:15,524 --> 00:52:17,133
[soft tense music]
1367
00:52:21,806 --> 00:52:24,047
- ♪ you're lookin' like
a nice fella ♪
1368
00:52:24,200 --> 00:52:26,142
♪ hey, I wanna rock
your body tonight ♪
1369
00:52:26,369 --> 00:52:27,959
♪ gettin' close,
gettin' wetter ♪
1370
00:52:28,053 --> 00:52:29,553
♪ we might get into whatever,
have a good time ♪
1371
00:52:29,647 --> 00:52:31,129
- Ooh.
- Oh.
1372
00:52:31,149 --> 00:52:32,631
- ♪ the rhythm has control
of me ♪
1373
00:52:32,650 --> 00:52:34,708
♪ I can't deny
your hold on me ♪
1374
00:52:34,801 --> 00:52:36,560
♪ just give in for one night ♪
1375
00:52:36,712 --> 00:52:40,214
♪ you can get it one time,
one time ♪
1376
00:52:40,307 --> 00:52:42,992
- Ooh, our dessert.
- Ooh.
1377
00:52:43,143 --> 00:52:44,401
I can't really see it.
1378
00:52:44,553 --> 00:52:45,977
- I can feed it to you.
1379
00:52:45,997 --> 00:52:47,163
- What is it?
1380
00:52:47,314 --> 00:52:48,389
- Well, we got our forks
over here.
1381
00:52:48,482 --> 00:52:51,074
It's our--
- oh, it's a heart!
1382
00:52:51,227 --> 00:52:53,335
- Here, so I'll show it to you.
1383
00:52:53,562 --> 00:52:56,154
So we can look at it.
- How cute.
1384
00:52:56,248 --> 00:52:57,731
This is what I want.
1385
00:52:57,824 --> 00:52:58,732
- Things are going great.
1386
00:52:58,825 --> 00:53:02,753
We're building that rapport,
1387
00:53:02,905 --> 00:53:04,905
Somewhat of that
sexual connection.
1388
00:53:04,924 --> 00:53:06,423
- [laughs]
1389
00:53:06,575 --> 00:53:07,499
- The physical attraction
is great.
1390
00:53:07,593 --> 00:53:10,686
Her boobs are...Awesome
1391
00:53:10,837 --> 00:53:15,249
And they're screaming at me,
so my eyes are drawn to that.
1392
00:53:15,267 --> 00:53:18,585
Along with everything else
and her gorgeous smile.
1393
00:53:18,604 --> 00:53:22,105
Clearly a boob guy,
so I was all giddy.
1394
00:53:22,258 --> 00:53:23,532
Why is it you want
to bang in this pool?
1395
00:53:23,684 --> 00:53:25,275
We can't.
- [laughs]
1396
00:53:25,369 --> 00:53:26,610
- They don't allow it.
- I did not say that.
1397
00:53:26,704 --> 00:53:28,204
- I will not have sex with you
in this pool.
1398
00:53:28,431 --> 00:53:31,615
- [laughing]
- quit it. I'm a gentleman.
1399
00:53:31,709 --> 00:53:33,617
- At this point,
you're only convincing yourself
1400
00:53:33,769 --> 00:53:36,620
That I said that.
[both laughing]
1401
00:53:36,772 --> 00:53:38,697
You think you're funny.
- Well?
1402
00:53:38,791 --> 00:53:40,216
- This is what your family was
talking about at the wedding,
1403
00:53:40,443 --> 00:53:42,384
When they said
he thinks he's funny.
1404
00:53:42,611 --> 00:53:46,129
- It's just a fact, I am.
I'm funny.
1405
00:53:46,282 --> 00:53:48,465
- You hear that bird silence?
1406
00:53:48,617 --> 00:53:49,725
- No, I think they're chirping.
1407
00:53:49,876 --> 00:53:50,893
- It's like--
it's like crickets.
1408
00:53:51,120 --> 00:53:52,544
- They're chirping
how funny I am.
1409
00:53:52,563 --> 00:53:54,638
- It's like the jamaican
version of crickets.
1410
00:53:54,732 --> 00:53:56,732
Mack thinks he's funny.
He's kind of funny.
1411
00:53:56,959 --> 00:53:58,067
But please don't tell him
I said that.
1412
00:54:01,297 --> 00:54:02,963
- I think you've said that
every day
1413
00:54:03,056 --> 00:54:04,481
Since we've gotten married.
1414
00:54:04,575 --> 00:54:06,467
- But I'm--I'm getting less
to handle, though.
1415
00:54:06,560 --> 00:54:07,743
I'm trying to do that also.
1416
00:54:07,894 --> 00:54:09,653
- Maybe I'm just learning.
1417
00:54:09,805 --> 00:54:10,913
- We'll see
what tomorrow holds.
1418
00:54:12,416 --> 00:54:14,416
- [sighs]
1419
00:54:14,643 --> 00:54:15,325
- Should we just stay here
all night?
1420
00:54:15,419 --> 00:54:17,144
- Yeah.
1421
00:54:17,237 --> 00:54:20,089
- ♪ I will love you forever ♪
1422
00:54:20,240 --> 00:54:23,333
♪ till the end of time ♪
1423
00:54:23,427 --> 00:54:25,502
♪ ♪
1424
00:54:25,596 --> 00:54:27,763
- [laughs]
1425
00:54:27,914 --> 00:54:31,508
- ♪ drop your cool, lean back
and just stay awhile ♪
1426
00:54:31,602 --> 00:54:35,679
♪ let my love sink deep
and take a while ♪
1427
00:54:35,773 --> 00:54:39,683
♪ let it all in,
let it, let it all in, babe ♪
1428
00:54:39,777 --> 00:54:41,760
♪ ♪
1429
00:54:41,854 --> 00:54:43,428
♪ let it in ♪
1430
00:54:43,447 --> 00:54:47,116
♪ let it all in,
let it, let it all in ♪
1431
00:54:47,343 --> 00:54:49,952
- This is nice.
- This is beautiful.
1432
00:54:50,103 --> 00:54:51,695
- You look beautiful.
1433
00:54:51,847 --> 00:54:54,290
- I was about to tell you
the same thing.
1434
00:54:54,441 --> 00:54:55,457
- That I look beautiful?
Maybe han--
1435
00:54:55,684 --> 00:54:57,293
- No, that you look handsome,
honey.
1436
00:54:57,444 --> 00:54:58,443
Not beautiful.
1437
00:54:58,537 --> 00:54:59,795
Well, not the same thing.
1438
00:54:59,946 --> 00:55:01,188
- You look beautiful.
1439
00:55:01,206 --> 00:55:02,423
- Thank you.
1440
00:55:03,784 --> 00:55:07,303
This definitely is starting off
the tone for us.
1441
00:55:07,454 --> 00:55:11,456
- Yeah, it's an opportunity
to block off the world
1442
00:55:11,550 --> 00:55:15,644
Just for us, and actually
hone in on who we really are.
1443
00:55:15,871 --> 00:55:18,555
We talk about like,
me in school,
1444
00:55:18,707 --> 00:55:19,982
And how I have a passion for it
1445
00:55:20,209 --> 00:55:21,542
And the many talents
that I have...
1446
00:55:21,635 --> 00:55:23,819
- Mm-hmm.
- But it often lead us
1447
00:55:24,046 --> 00:55:26,563
To just talking about me.
- Right. I agree.
1448
00:55:26,715 --> 00:55:29,474
- And I want to talk about you.
1449
00:55:29,493 --> 00:55:32,736
Like, I want you to
open up your heart
1450
00:55:32,830 --> 00:55:36,239
And pour out your heart of
who you really are.
1451
00:55:36,334 --> 00:55:38,834
- I don't know if it was
the pandemic or what happened,
1452
00:55:38,985 --> 00:55:43,822
But I just became closed off
a little bit, to myself.
1453
00:55:43,841 --> 00:55:47,676
I would say, like, one thing
that I would need from you
1454
00:55:47,828 --> 00:55:52,255
Is to continue to be, like,
emotionally connected with me.
1455
00:55:52,408 --> 00:55:55,500
Because I'm just used to
being so independent.
1456
00:55:55,594 --> 00:55:58,020
So now that I have you,
1457
00:55:58,247 --> 00:56:00,247
I can lean on you
a little bit more.
1458
00:56:00,340 --> 00:56:03,083
Just having that
emotional support
1459
00:56:03,102 --> 00:56:05,343
Would be one of the biggest
things for me, as well,
1460
00:56:05,437 --> 00:56:07,437
To receive from you.
1461
00:56:07,531 --> 00:56:10,181
- I want you to be more
intentional with yourself.
1462
00:56:10,201 --> 00:56:12,426
I always say,
you got one life to live.
1463
00:56:12,519 --> 00:56:15,095
- Right.
- Like, we can both say
1464
00:56:15,114 --> 00:56:18,615
We've poured so much into
others through our lives.
1465
00:56:18,767 --> 00:56:20,358
And I think that's
where I get joy,
1466
00:56:20,378 --> 00:56:22,603
And you know, even with
my, like, mentees.
1467
00:56:22,696 --> 00:56:24,955
- Mm-hmm?
- If I can impact one,
1468
00:56:25,049 --> 00:56:29,292
Like when I've seen that
you've grown, you've matured,
1469
00:56:29,445 --> 00:56:32,613
You've become this person that
you never imagined you being,
1470
00:56:32,631 --> 00:56:34,281
That brings me so much joy.
1471
00:56:34,374 --> 00:56:36,116
And I--I think the same
for you.
1472
00:56:36,135 --> 00:56:40,396
Like, how can I, you know,
as your husband,
1473
00:56:40,547 --> 00:56:43,047
Be there to support you?
1474
00:56:43,067 --> 00:56:45,401
- The only thing I need
is just, like,
1475
00:56:45,628 --> 00:56:47,461
For you to just naturally
talk to me.
1476
00:56:47,554 --> 00:56:51,148
Versus presenting
your thoughts.
1477
00:56:51,242 --> 00:56:54,134
And at some points,
I feel like you're just
1478
00:56:54,227 --> 00:56:57,061
Talking, like, at me, more so.
1479
00:56:57,156 --> 00:56:58,914
- Yeah.
- It's fine.
1480
00:56:59,065 --> 00:57:00,490
Like, it'll come natural
1481
00:57:00,584 --> 00:57:02,309
The more we continue to
talk to each other.
1482
00:57:02,402 --> 00:57:03,810
- I get what you're saying.
1483
00:57:03,829 --> 00:57:05,421
And maybe I have started off
with, like,
1484
00:57:05,572 --> 00:57:06,997
Listening to responding,
1485
00:57:07,091 --> 00:57:09,332
Because I want the answer
to be, like, perfect.
1486
00:57:09,485 --> 00:57:11,242
- Why would you think that way?
1487
00:57:11,262 --> 00:57:13,244
- Well, that was
the over-thinker in me.
1488
00:57:13,338 --> 00:57:14,930
But, it's ok, like--
1489
00:57:15,157 --> 00:57:16,173
- Yeah, neither one of us
are perfect.
1490
00:57:16,267 --> 00:57:17,841
- Yeah.
1491
00:57:17,993 --> 00:57:19,326
- Like, you don't have to
try to be perfect.
1492
00:57:19,344 --> 00:57:21,495
I don't want you to think
that you have to do that.
1493
00:57:21,513 --> 00:57:24,181
Like, just relax.
1494
00:57:24,333 --> 00:57:26,608
- I'll do a better job.
1495
00:57:26,760 --> 00:57:28,777
- Let's toast to that.
1496
00:57:29,004 --> 00:57:31,688
You got me?
- We can toast to that.
1497
00:57:31,840 --> 00:57:35,175
- To not trying to be perfect.
- To not trying to be perfect.
1498
00:57:35,194 --> 00:57:37,527
- And enjoying ourselves.
- And enjoying ourselves.
1499
00:57:37,621 --> 00:57:38,787
- Cheers.
1500
00:57:39,014 --> 00:57:41,623
- ♪ I just want
to get to know you ♪
1501
00:57:45,629 --> 00:57:47,854
[upbeat music]
1502
00:57:47,873 --> 00:57:50,357
- ♪ oh, oh ♪
1503
00:57:50,375 --> 00:57:53,043
♪ ♪
1504
00:57:53,137 --> 00:57:55,137
♪ double-dog skip down
the lane to see me ♪
1505
00:57:55,288 --> 00:57:56,955
♪ brought me flowers, like
he wanted to keep me ♪
1506
00:57:56,974 --> 00:57:58,215
- You left handed?
- Yeah.
1507
00:57:58,367 --> 00:58:00,291
- Oh.
- Are you a lefty?
1508
00:58:00,311 --> 00:58:02,978
- No.
- No?
1509
00:58:03,129 --> 00:58:04,480
- That's another thing
I just found out.
1510
00:58:04,631 --> 00:58:05,481
I didn't know
you was left-handed.
1511
00:58:05,632 --> 00:58:07,541
- I'm left-handed.
1512
00:58:07,559 --> 00:58:10,468
- You write left-handed?
- Yes.
1513
00:58:10,488 --> 00:58:12,395
Everybody in my
family is left-handed,
1514
00:58:12,548 --> 00:58:13,972
Except my dad and my sister.
1515
00:58:13,991 --> 00:58:16,066
- Ok.
- My younger sister.
1516
00:58:16,160 --> 00:58:18,218
She's like, my pride and joy,
my little baby sis.
1517
00:58:18,237 --> 00:58:20,904
♪ ♪
1518
00:58:20,998 --> 00:58:22,831
- So what if she starts
getting more closer to me,
1519
00:58:22,983 --> 00:58:24,315
Now that she got
a brother-in-law?
1520
00:58:24,335 --> 00:58:25,834
- Huh?
- Would you be ok with that?
1521
00:58:25,986 --> 00:58:27,151
- She's not gonna
get closer to you.
1522
00:58:27,171 --> 00:58:28,411
- [laughs]
- what?
1523
00:58:28,564 --> 00:58:29,746
It's not happening.
- Your--
1524
00:58:29,898 --> 00:58:31,898
I already got your parents.
1525
00:58:31,917 --> 00:58:33,734
- Well, I mean,
1526
00:58:33,752 --> 00:58:35,344
You know, everything
always starts out good.
1527
00:58:35,571 --> 00:58:36,828
- Right.
1528
00:58:36,922 --> 00:58:38,071
So you wanna go over here,
1529
00:58:38,090 --> 00:58:39,256
Go for a walk?
- Yeah.
1530
00:58:39,408 --> 00:58:40,516
- I mean, I wanted to hike.
1531
00:58:40,667 --> 00:58:43,334
But you know, this terrain,
I guess,
1532
00:58:43,354 --> 00:58:45,169
Is the closest option we got.
- This is the closest thing
1533
00:58:45,189 --> 00:58:46,913
To hiking we can get?
- Yeah.
1534
00:58:46,932 --> 00:58:49,691
♪ ♪
1535
00:58:49,918 --> 00:58:53,177
This is a great way
to start a honeymoon.
1536
00:58:53,197 --> 00:58:55,438
- [laughs]
I'm still in shock.
1537
00:58:55,591 --> 00:58:57,758
All of this is, like, crazy.
1538
00:58:57,776 --> 00:59:00,260
Like, just thinking of if you'd
have told me this will happen.
1539
00:59:00,279 --> 00:59:02,445
Like, a year from now
you're gonna be married,
1540
00:59:02,598 --> 00:59:04,022
On a honeymoon in jamaica.
- In jamaica. [laughs]
1541
00:59:04,041 --> 00:59:05,857
- It wouldn't even
have made no sense.
1542
00:59:05,951 --> 00:59:08,693
To think, all of this happened,
this huge change, in a year.
1543
00:59:08,712 --> 00:59:10,194
Like, a year's time, like--
- yeah.
1544
00:59:10,214 --> 00:59:11,605
- Drastically.
- Like, you weren't
1545
00:59:11,623 --> 00:59:12,789
Even living here.
1546
00:59:12,941 --> 00:59:14,365
- I wasn't even living here.
1547
00:59:14,385 --> 00:59:15,717
You was a whole
'nother relationship.
1548
00:59:15,869 --> 00:59:17,444
- Relationship.
- Yeah
1549
00:59:17,462 --> 00:59:20,872
- So I think--I definitely
think the stars have kinda
1550
00:59:20,891 --> 00:59:24,726
Aligned for us, like, just to
fit into each other's lives
1551
00:59:24,878 --> 00:59:26,787
Perfectly, in a way.
1552
00:59:26,805 --> 00:59:28,379
♪ ♪
1553
00:59:28,399 --> 00:59:30,048
- When's the last time
you've been in love?
1554
00:59:30,142 --> 00:59:31,792
You were in love?
- Yes.
1555
00:59:31,810 --> 00:59:33,810
I would definitely say
in my last relationship,
1556
00:59:33,962 --> 00:59:35,571
I was in love.
So, recent.
1557
00:59:35,722 --> 00:59:37,722
- Yeah, I love the game.
1558
00:59:37,741 --> 00:59:38,907
But I never--I never--
1559
00:59:39,059 --> 00:59:40,467
I've never been in love.
1560
00:59:40,485 --> 00:59:41,577
- Like, you've never been
in love with a woman?
1561
00:59:41,728 --> 00:59:42,578
- Never been in
love with a woman.
1562
00:59:44,990 --> 00:59:46,731
- Ok.
- I've had love.
1563
00:59:46,750 --> 00:59:49,233
Like, just from, you know,
if I'm around you
1564
00:59:49,253 --> 00:59:50,811
For a year or two years,
I'm gonna love you.
1565
00:59:50,829 --> 00:59:53,146
Like, I wouldn't want
nothing bad to happen to you.
1566
00:59:53,165 --> 00:59:55,832
I would help you out,
and like, in an emergency.
1567
00:59:55,984 --> 00:59:57,834
Like, I love--
I've loved
1568
00:59:57,986 --> 01:00:00,003
But I've never been, like,
in love, like,
1569
01:00:00,155 --> 01:00:02,413
Head over heels,
blinders on,
1570
01:00:02,433 --> 01:00:04,841
Only thinking about
this one person.
1571
01:00:04,993 --> 01:00:06,435
Googly eyes.
1572
01:00:06,586 --> 01:00:09,329
Yeah, that ain't
never happened.
1573
01:00:09,348 --> 01:00:11,923
- Hm, ok.
1574
01:00:12,017 --> 01:00:13,442
[contemplative music]
1575
01:00:13,593 --> 01:00:16,778
Wow. [laughs]
1576
01:00:17,005 --> 01:00:19,189
Ok.
1577
01:00:19,341 --> 01:00:22,618
I'm processing right now.
Um--
1578
01:00:25,180 --> 01:00:27,772
I guess, just knowing
that he's been in, like,
1579
01:00:27,791 --> 01:00:29,440
A year-and-a-half
relationship,
1580
01:00:29,460 --> 01:00:31,201
Like, there's no way
I can stay in
1581
01:00:31,353 --> 01:00:33,611
A relationship that long if--
1582
01:00:33,631 --> 01:00:35,872
If I'm not in love,
so, does he like
1583
01:00:36,024 --> 01:00:37,615
Just going through the motions
1584
01:00:37,635 --> 01:00:41,361
Just because he feels like
it's the right thing to do?
1585
01:00:41,380 --> 01:00:44,139
If my way of giving love
isn't enough for him,
1586
01:00:44,290 --> 01:00:46,791
Then he could possibly not
fall in love with me either.
1587
01:00:46,810 --> 01:00:48,626
And that's scary.
1588
01:00:48,720 --> 01:00:51,647
I don't think I've ever--
1589
01:00:51,874 --> 01:00:53,464
- Met someone who's
never been in love?
1590
01:00:53,484 --> 01:00:56,300
- Yeah. I guess I wasn't
expecting that.
1591
01:00:56,320 --> 01:01:00,805
- Yeah.
- And--I don't know, like--
1592
01:01:00,824 --> 01:01:02,732
That's weird for me.
Like, but it--
1593
01:01:02,885 --> 01:01:05,402
It definitely gives me
a sort of pressure.
1594
01:01:05,554 --> 01:01:07,554
Like, you--
1595
01:01:07,647 --> 01:01:09,406
- You have pressure.
- You're 39,
1596
01:01:09,558 --> 01:01:11,224
And you've never been in love,
1597
01:01:11,243 --> 01:01:15,061
And we're married, and we have
this short time frame
1598
01:01:15,080 --> 01:01:18,081
To figure out if we wanna
stay together or not.
1599
01:01:18,233 --> 01:01:20,158
- Right.
- So, like, you have to be
1600
01:01:20,177 --> 01:01:22,994
In love at the end of this
to say yes.
1601
01:01:23,088 --> 01:01:25,514
- Do you? I mean, you might not
be in love at the end, either.
1602
01:01:25,665 --> 01:01:27,090
- I know.
- Yeah.
1603
01:01:27,242 --> 01:01:29,075
But do you have to be
in love to say yes?
1604
01:01:29,094 --> 01:01:32,670
♪ ♪
1605
01:01:32,690 --> 01:01:34,264
- I don't know
the answer to that.
1606
01:01:34,416 --> 01:01:36,674
♪ ♪
1607
01:01:36,694 --> 01:01:38,418
'cause if I've never
been in love...
1608
01:01:38,437 --> 01:01:40,270
- You don't expect
to fall in it, maybe?
1609
01:01:40,364 --> 01:01:42,680
- It would seem pretty hard
to fall in love, yeah.
1610
01:01:42,700 --> 01:01:44,348
Not saying that
it's impossible.
1611
01:01:44,368 --> 01:01:47,018
I'm just saying, like,
never mind.
1612
01:01:47,037 --> 01:01:48,519
- Well--
1613
01:01:48,539 --> 01:01:51,431
[suspenseful music]
1614
01:01:51,450 --> 01:01:53,099
♪ ♪
1615
01:01:53,118 --> 01:01:55,452
- Next time on
"married at first sight"...
1616
01:01:55,604 --> 01:01:57,212
- Thank you for
understanding me.
1617
01:01:57,363 --> 01:02:00,273
- Our newlyweds will finally
come together as a group
1618
01:02:00,292 --> 01:02:03,719
To share their experiences
so far with the other couples.
1619
01:02:03,870 --> 01:02:07,447
- Like, our biggest struggle
has been physical chemistry.
1620
01:02:07,466 --> 01:02:09,466
- Yeah, but I mean,
the girls that I have dated
1621
01:02:09,618 --> 01:02:11,375
Are very athletic, slender.
1622
01:02:11,395 --> 01:02:12,953
[music slows]
1623
01:02:12,971 --> 01:02:14,879
And that's just the mold
that I'm attracted to.
1624
01:02:14,898 --> 01:02:16,623
[dramatic music]
1625
01:02:16,641 --> 01:02:18,124
- I don't feel awkward.
1626
01:02:18,143 --> 01:02:19,901
- I don't feel like
there's anything I can do
1627
01:02:20,053 --> 01:02:22,404
To make it less awkward.
1628
01:02:22,555 --> 01:02:25,148
- I don't know if I'm doing
right or if I'm doing wrong.
1629
01:02:25,242 --> 01:02:26,483
It's like, damn.
1630
01:02:26,635 --> 01:02:27,467
- I don't want you
to [bleep] up.
1631
01:02:27,486 --> 01:02:29,135
- Don't complain.
1632
01:02:29,154 --> 01:02:31,395
I'm like, a no bull [bleep]
kind of person.
1633
01:02:31,415 --> 01:02:34,732
I don't want excuses.
I want results.
1634
01:02:34,752 --> 01:02:36,067
- I didn't even
say slender and all.
1635
01:02:36,086 --> 01:02:37,160
- You did say slender.
1636
01:02:37,312 --> 01:02:38,979
- That's not what had happened.
1637
01:02:38,997 --> 01:02:40,981
- Well, if you feel like
you've said nothing wrong,
1638
01:02:40,999 --> 01:02:43,833
I think it's best for us
to spend some time apart.
1639
01:02:43,986 --> 01:02:45,260
I'm done, yeah, thank you.
Yeah.
1640
01:02:45,487 --> 01:02:47,095
- You should be done.
- Have a good day.
1641
01:02:47,247 --> 01:02:49,322
- What an unfortunate
turn of events.
1642
01:02:49,341 --> 01:02:51,433
♪ ♪