[dramatic music]
- You're handsome.
- You look very beautiful. - Thank you.
- Ten singles put their trust in the experts to find love.
[spectators cheering]
They married as complete strangers.
[cheering]
- ♪ it's about to go off ♪
- Last time, they started their honeymoon in jamaica.
- ♪ and give them what they want ♪
- I will not have sex with you in this pool.
- At this point, you're only convincing
Yourself that I said that.
- ♪ it's about to go off ♪
- Am I your dream husband? - So far.
- So far? - What about me?
Am I your dream wife? - So far.
- Do you love me yet?
- Not yet. Not yet.
- I'm joking. - But I can see it.
- ♪ it's about to go off ♪
- How can I, as your husband, be there to support you?
- I'd like for you to just naturally talk to me
Versus presenting your thoughts.
- Yeah. - It's fine.
Like, it'll come natural.
- I've probably never been in love.
- Like, you've never been in love with a woman?
- Never been in love with a woman.
- If my way of giving love isn't enough for him,
Then he could possibly not fall in love with me either.
And that's scary.
Okay.
[tense music]
- I don't really vibe with redheads or, like,
Gingery features, and not to say you're unattractive.
It's just, that's what you are.
It's like not my typical.
- Heard.
- ♪ I'm feeling that rum-digga-dum ♪
- Let's go.
♪ ♪
- And tonight, our couples continue
To enjoy their honeymoon before it's back to life
In the real world.
- Like, our biggest struggle has been physical chemistry.
- Yeah, but I mean, the girls that I have dated
Are very athletic, slender.
[tense music]
- I don't feel awkward.
- I don't feel like there's anything
I can do to make it less awkward.
- I don't know if I'm doing right or if I'm doing wrong.
It's like, damn. [bleep]
- I'm like a no bull[bleep] kind of person.
I don't want excuses. I want results.
♪ ♪
- I didn't even say slender.
- Athletic is-- you did say slender.
- No, I-- - and it was visibly rude
To everyone in the room.
- That's not what had happened.
- Have a good day.
- What an unfortunate turn of events.
- ♪ it's all or nothing ♪
- This is "married at first sight."
- ♪ there's no other way ♪
♪ ♪
♪ it's all or nothing ♪
- ♪ you make it easy smiling for you ♪
♪ looking at me like what should we do ♪
♪ you make it so easy ♪
♪ ♪
- Another day waking up with crazy hair.
My cutie husband.
This is not how he slept.
We're just very tired.
And we don't know what the day will bring,
But we are excited to find out.
- Our couples are halfway through their honeymoons,
And we hope they use these final days
To further understand the stranger they just married.
- Their bacon doesn't taste like bacon.
- That's probably them cats walking around here.
- Eww. You think you're funny.
- Because in just over seven weeks,
They have to decide whether they want
To stay married or get a divorce.
- I think clint might have found something.
Ooh.
Yeah, mon.
- Is this working? - That's working.
♪ ♪
You might want to change shorts at some point.
- ♪ here I am, making my own moves ♪
♪ and I can do whatever I choose ♪
♪ it's everything I wanna be ♪
♪ not a second left to lose ♪
♪ here I am ♪
- Mm.
- That's what you sounded like last night, snoring.
[laughter]
- I did not snore. - Yeah, you were.
You were snoring. You were talking.
I couldn't sleep.
- Oh, whatever.
You were in, like, full zombie mode.
It was, like, a volleyball, basketball game.
It was, like, two games going on.
And me and the coach got in an argument.
- Oh, god. Like, angry dad?
- [laughing] yeah.
- I didn't have any dreams.
- No dreams coming true today?
- Um, if we go horseback riding on the beach,
That would be a dream come true.
- All right, we'll go horseback riding.
- Yeah, I think that would be fun.
On a scale of one to ten, I would put attraction...
Six and a half.
♪ ♪
- Oh, my gosh. [music distorts, stops]
Oh, my gosh.
- I can do anything on a horse.
- You're full of [bleep]. - No, really.
I've done a ton of horseback riding.
- Liar.
- I've been riding horses since I was a kid.
- Oh, whatever.
Romantic, I would say that we're
Maybe at, like, a...
Three or four.
You know, it's just the constant joking.
It does kind of put me back a little bit.
- I'll show you.
I can do the one thing where they, like, do the fancy walk.
What's that called?
[quirky music]
I'm gonna do wheelies around all--
Around you on my horse...
On his back legs.
- You know, I'm not a 24/7 [bleep]-talking kind of girl.
I say what I mean. I mean what I say.
- I'm ready for some coffee.
- Yeah, I think I'm gonna get some coffee.
I haven't really got a chance to call my mom,
So I'm probably gonna facetime with her for a little bit.
- All right. - All right.
My mom and I talk every day.
She is very protective, like mama bear.
So she just wants to make sure that her cub is being safe.
- Hola!
- Hello.
- You still have on your pjs.
- Yeah, I still have on my pjs.
I am having some morning coffee.
- So on a scale of one to ten,
Your time there is a...
- It's going pretty good.
We're getting along very well.
- Okay.
Well, that's good to hear. - Yeah.
I would say, I guess, for me, it would be,
Like, the apprehension to, like, wanna do new things.
I think I'm definitely more adventurous than he is
'cause I'm like, let's go and do it all.
And I don't know if he's joking when he's like,
You know, "oh, I'm not doing this.
I don't wanna do that," you know?
Because he ends up doing it anyway.
Honestly, I don't know. I don't know about that one.
- Maybe he's being truthful, and he does
Want you to push him out of his comfort zone.
- Yeah, I'm not having to, like,
Coerce him into doing anything,
But he keeps saying if it wasn't for me,
That he would probably just sit on the beach.
- Well, you're all about sitting on the beach too.
- Yeah, but not while we have the opportunity
To go and do stuff.
I sit on the beach in florida. - Right.
- I'm not sitting on the beach in jamaica.
♪ ♪
[upbeat music]
♪ ♪
- Let's see if the water's cold.
- Is it? - No, it feels good.
[laughter]
You never know. - It does feel good.
♪ ♪
- Whoa. - Got some champagne?
- Appreciate it. Thank you.
- ♪ all this magic in the air got me ♪
- A little lovely, floating breakfast...
- Yeah.
- With an unbelievable landscape.
- ♪ finally set the pace, I'm on a roll ♪
♪ already know which way to go... ♪
- Cheers. - Yeah.
♪ ♪
That hits the spot.
I feel like clint and I are getting closer every day,
And I think the only hiccup that we're really
Trying to work through is that, like,
Initial chemistry and physical attraction.
But we're able to have easy conversation.
And we can focus on getting to know each other
And build on the physical later.
What are you most excited about when we get back to nashville?
- Taking your ass sailing, getting on the water,
Hanging out on "dang" and "dang it,"
The name of my two boats.
- Yeah. - Just chit-chatting.
- In nashville, I don't relax very often.
- Yeah. - Like, I do
If I go on vacation, but...
- I'ma make you have fun.
♪ ♪
- You're gonna make me stop working?
- Well, it's that whole work smarter, not harder.
- Mm-hmm.
- So you can focus on actually living life.
- I would just have to get my business to a point of, like,
Being able to run without me there,
Because I just signed a seven-year commercial lease.
So I'm, like--I'm in it.
It's just all the onboarding stuff to get it started.
- There's people that can do that.
- So whether that's responding to client text or emails.
Hairstylists all the time live in different cities.
I've just worked for ten years to build my brand.
- Yeah. - I never want to, like,
Not be there for my staff, so.
I do hair Wednesday through Friday,
But then I teach sometimes on Monday and Tuesday.
What about you?
- Well, you know, work, standard 8:00 to 5:00.
- I'm lucky, 'cause I do different things.
It just depends on their hair. So it's never, like--
I generally don't leave after 7:00.
- Well, we have a very interesting dynamic.
Together, like, we complement each other.
- We will get irritable with each other, I'm assuming.
- Yeah. - We are moving in together.
- It's gonna happen. It's the human condition.
Like, if there were another one of me...
- Yeah. - I would get tired
Of myself in no time.
- Same. In the salon, we joke about that a lot.
♪ ♪
- Yeah. - I'm like, I'm just--
I don't have time. - Yeah. Yeah.
- Like, I'm just gonna focus on business and--
Is that chocolate?
- Yep. Had to--had to hook you up.
- Mmm.
That is good.
- You know, I'm trying to get deeper with gina,
And it's all about the salon.
Everything goes back to the salon,
Circles back to the salon and the salon and the salon.
I'm just like, I've heard enough about the salon.
Who's gina? What is gina about?
What does gina want outside of the salon?
Stop with the salon.
♪ ♪
[upbeat music]
♪ ♪
- Finally, some couples massages.
- Hello. - Hi.
Yesterday, airris told me he's never been in love.
Like, at his age and knowing that
He's been in, like, a year and a half relationship,
It puts a little pressure on me
Because this situation is already unconventional.
And I feel like if my way of giving love
Isn't enough for him, then he could possibly
Not fall in love with me either.
And that's scary.
- How are you feeling over there?
- The massage feels great.
She's definitely finding some knots
Over here and getting them out.
♪ ♪
I feel like in these past few months,
I haven't really been taking time for myself.
So I feel like this is like a buildup of all the stress
That's been involved.
- You know, if there's anything I can do
To help alleviate any of the stress,
Please let your husband know.
- Just don't drop any more bombs on me.
- Oh. Well, you might get some more knots then.
- [laughs]
- I mean, I can't think of any bombs
That you need to be aware of, but it's just life.
I mean, or even some stuff--
I didn't think me never being in love was
A quote, unquote "bomb," you know?
So there's things I'm not even aware of
That it'll come across like a bomb.
- Mm-hmm. - But I say we cross
Those bridges when we get there...
- Yeah. - 'cause I ain't about to spend
My whole time in jamaica thinking about hypotheticals.
- [giggles] of course not.
- I know that most people just wouldn't expect
Someone who's 39 to have never been in love.
- All right, husband, it's my turn.
- But I'm conscious and aware that, like,
My way of doing things hasn't worked.
- Do you like having your feet massaged?
- So I'm hopeful that can change.
I'm hoping time will change it.
♪ ♪
Yeah, I could get used to this kind of treatment.
- I feel like this is the most,
Um, touch we've done since meeting each other.
Wouldn't you agree?
- Yes, I would agree.
- Besides cuddling, we haven't, like,
Rubbed each other down or nothing like that.
- Right.
I mean, I feel like it's just a normal progression
Of you met a stranger a couple days ago.
So things are just moving at a comfortable pace
For both of us.
- Yes.
I mean, I feel like you're being sarcastic.
- No.
♪ ♪
- Hearing that, it just kind of takes me back some.
He was just talking about sex and asking me, you know...
- So what's your favorite sexual position?
♪ ♪
- And now he doesn't seem to be interested.
And that's a little alarming for me.
♪ ♪
All right, husband.
♪ ♪
- ♪ never told me why the ocean is alive ♪
♪ while running through the sand ♪
♪ we threw away our plans, oh, nothing left to do ♪
♪ there's nothing left to prove, prove, prove ♪
- I'm holding the boat for you.
♪ ♪
Oh.
Yeah, that makes more sense, right?
- Watch out. There we go.
- Okay, that makes more sense. - We're good.
- We didn't get any time for morning snuggles.
- I know. - I never used to be a cuddler.
And that we do that at night and in the morning is so--
- Does that make you feel wanted?
- It makes me feel wanted because--
- Even though it's not sex?
- No, but this is better for me, honestly,
Than sex right now, because I'm learning
About myself and our relationship style.
- I mean, I am a cuddler, so...
- I know, but I like it.
My nook.
- And I am more focused
On building our, like, emotional connection,
Which I think is really, really strong
And really good right now.
So I think it's important
To kind of wait on sex and stuff
Because if we rush it or do it too soon, like,
It could kind of ruin things, so...
- I agree. - But I don't want you to feel
Like you're not wanted.
I don't want you to feel like I don't want it.
Trust me, I want to.
But my last two relationships,
The really toxic one that I already told you about,
We were together, like, a year and a half or so.
And we had sex three times in that whole relationship.
- What?
- And I didn't feel wanted.
I felt, like, horrible, like, all the time.
And I'm glad that's done.
And then in my next relationship,
It felt like we used sex a lot to, like, band-aid things.
When we'd have problems, that would mask what's going on.
It should be a bonus and not, like, what
The relationship's all about. - Right.
- I want to be, like, a healthy medium.
- I've also had similar very extreme experiences where,
You know, the last person that I thought
I was in love with, we-- not tmi--
But we had a very good sex life.
So I took that as, like, he really likes me
Because we're having sex all the time.
And then the other extreme where a guy--
I would--I literally remember saying to him,
Like, why don't you want to have sex with me?
And he's like, I do.
I said, why are we never having sex?
He's like, oh, we're not having sex?
Like, I have to-- - he didn't realize?
- He was also having sex with other people.
So I guess he didn't remember who he was doing what with.
But based on my past experiences and relationships,
Like, even if I felt like the sex was amazing,
I never felt fully like, okay,
They were truly satisfied with me.
Like, sometimes I almost felt like a stand-in.
Like, okay, we have good sex, but I could have been anyone.
So when we do have sex, I would love for you to vocalize,
Like, you were happy to have sex with me
And not just happy to have sex.
- No, I mean, I can do that. I mean, I'm a--
I'm a communicator, and like...
Like, chances are, I'll probably ask you the same,
Because my, like, insecurity is just, like,
You know, it's been a while for me.
And I know it's been a while for you.
But it's like, will--
Will I perform the way she wants?
- I don't expect our first time to be like,
Oh my god, this is the best sex ever.
- It's like, I want to make sure that you're satisfied
And that you feel good.
And there is a little, like, concern.
It's like, well, what if--what if she's not happy with it?
Is that gonna potentially ruin things?
♪ ♪
- ♪ I ain't gonna stop-op-op-op ♪
♪ ♪
♪ you can say what you want-a-a-ant ♪
- Chukka ocean outpost.
- Marrying a complete stranger
Is a unique experience
That very few people go through.
So it's important for our couples
To build a support system with others
Who are dealing with the exact same scenario.
- Pretty. - Yeah, such a nice view.
- Beautiful.
- It's a valuable opportunity to not only compare notes,
But also to discuss what's really on their minds
To those who can relate most.
- All right.
- How is everybody feeling? - What's up?
- So what you say? We're in jamaica, baby.
[all cheering] - yeah.
- And our long-lost people, glad y'all made it.
- Wow. - We made it.
- So we had to go to jackson.
The research conference was great,
Presenting the research.
But she was pissed at first.
- I was. I was like, what?
But I was like, you know what?
Education is important.
I'ma sit the one day out.
[laughs]
- She's like, no, you got some making up to do.
- Yeah. - Yeah.
- We missed y'all. - Yeah.
We didn't have any fun without you guys.
- Okay, good, good.
- When we were in the room, we were like,
They're gonna think we got divorced before--
Was like, we don't know what they gonna think,
But we gonna just pop up. - We wondered.
- Yeah, we're still together.
We're here. We're here.
- Has anyone had, like,
Their first disagreement or anything?
- Well, she broke out some boxing gloves
And gave me the one-two, knocked me out flat.
Like, I was out for a minute. - What did you do?
- No, I'm kidding.
No, we haven't had any arguments.
It's been just-- it's been smooth.
- Yeah, we're just kind of going with the flow,
Cool, calm, collected.
- What about you all?
- No. - No.
[laughter]
I can be a lot to handle sometimes.
I know this. It's something I'm working on.
You know, we're getting through it,
And we're progressing each day
And figuring these little quirks and stuff out.
- For me, it's just a sense of me trying
To understand his sense of humor and, like,
Okay, is he joking?
Is there some truth in that joke?
Or is he just, like, talking out of his ass right now?
[laughter]
- It's always the truth behind some jokes.
I really firmly believe that.
- Um, what about you guys?
- I learned that chris is very patient and also very calming,
Which is very complementary to my wild personality.
So I'm very grateful for that.
- That's what it's all about.
It's about being there for each other.
- Ohh. - Ah.
- And you guys-- the ladies know,
Like, I had a hard date
For when we were gonna be physical.
I was like, the second night of the honeymoon,
That's it, because physical attraction is so important.
And it is.
But we're choosing to work on the emotional element,
Which has been great. - Yeah.
- I mean, we've had more deep conversations
Before breakfast than I've had in most
Of my past relationships, so... - Yeah.
[chuckling]
What about-- what about you guys?
[laughter]
- I mean, I guess to me it wasn't a bombshell,
But it kind of took her back when she found out
That I had never-- I've never been in love.
I guess that came as a shock since I'm, like, 39.
She's like, oh, you've never been in love?
You're 39.
But she could be my first love, you know, so...
- First and last. - There you go.
- Have you blown jasmine's back out yet?
[laughter] - oh!
Wait a minute!
- What?
- He talked about blowing some back out?
Where'd this come from?
- Absolutely not.
- The bachelor party.
- There's a historical reference.
- Yeah, yeah. - Oh, my god.
- My wife, you know, she's at a bachelorette party,
And she's, like, just preparing to get
Her back blown out by me in, like, a couple of days, so...
- I'ma be praying for you,
'cause what if she don't want that?
- Like, she's gonna need an orthopedic surgeon.
[laughter]
So okay, now that we're on the subject,
Has anybody seen their partner naked?
- No. - No.
- We, uh, we haven't, you know?
We've been taking-- - I thought you were
Gonna make a joke. - Me too!
- I thought you were gonna make a joke.
- I thought you was like, we have.
[laughter]
- You know, we've had cuddles, kisses, these types of things.
And I think it's just gonna come natural,
Just like everything else has.
- Yeah. What about you guys?
- We're going pretty slow.
We're on first base.
I think jasmine is attractive, you know?
- Mm-hmm. - And I feel like I'm a very,
Very, very sexual person.
But, like, that hasn't served me well in, like,
My past relationships, you know?
So I'm trying to take a different approach
In this situation. - Is that a good thing
Or a bad thing? - Based on jazz's face?
- Right? I'm, like, looking.
- It is what it is. - It is what it is?
- Airris kind of "explained it" in a way.
I don't know if he was just trying
To make it sound better,
But he says he's a sexual person.
So I'm just a little confused.
- Shaquille and I had the same conversations.
Like, we're getting to know each other.
We're having a good time, you know?
But I'm like, we need to start this marriage
On the right foot, like, being open and honest about things.
I was like, well, I wasn't expecting
A guy with a bald head.
[laughter]
But he checks off the boxes in all the other areas.
So forget the, you know, physical attraction.
That'll grow, so...
- I have been in a relationship where that has grown later,
And it was like one of the best relationships I had.
- Yeah.
- And it wasn't someone that I was initially, like,
Had a physical spark with.
And so, like, our biggest struggle
Has been physical chemistry.
But I mean, I don't--
I don't think there's, like, a secret sauce
To physical chemistry. You can't be like,
Well, I'm gonna do this. - Yeah.
- Like, we actually have kissed several times.
- Yeah, but I mean, I think--
- Maybe you need more kissing. Maybe that'll really--
- We're working on it. - Let us work on it.
- I like where you're heading.
- But I mean, the physical component,
Typically, the girls that I have dated
Are very athletic, slender.
[tense music]
So I mean, that's just the type of mold that I'm attracted to.
♪ ♪
- My jaw is on the floor.
I'm in shock right now. Like, read the room right now.
Like, you are sitting in a room with, like,
Curvy women, you know?
Like, what the hell, bro?
- Beauty's in the eye of the beholder.
So--and, like,
She said she doesn't like redheads, so...
- Here we are. - So here we are.
♪ ♪
[upbeat music]
- All right, y'all, so I'm ready for some adventure.
So in the name of airris, let's go
Blow some horses' backs out.
- Oh! - Let's go!
- Let's do it, baby!
[laughter]
[singing in spanish]
♪ ♪
- How are you all doing?
[overlapping greetings]
- All right, so we about to do the sim portion
Of the horseback riding, okay?
- Sounds good. - All right.
Who's going first?
- You want--you want to get in there?
- I guess so, yeah. - Yeah?
Yeah, we're ready.
- I'm trying to stay open-minded.
But unfortunately, what he said is definitely in my mind.
I mean, to say that someone's not slender or athletic,
It's kind of a slap in the face.
- None of us have ridden anything
This honeymoon so far.
So at least we're getting a ride.
- Can we stop with that joke?
Can that joke be done and over?
After the rude and disrespectful comments
That, you know, clint made to gina,
I'm not checking for clint.
- All right.
- I've never ridden a horse before, so...
- Like, what the hell? Are you kidding me right now?
Like, it just doesn't make sense in my mind.
Why would you say all these things?
- I can do anything on a horse.
- You're full of [bleep].
- No, really.
I've done a ton of horseback riding.
♪ ♪
[both clear throats]
- Kick your feet, husband, and make it come.
Kick it. Kick your feet.
[quirky music]
♪ ♪
- [laughs]
See you in a second.
♪ ♪
All right.
♪ ♪
Mack, how you doing over there?
- Not good.
- [laughs]
[exciting music]
- ♪ coming in, fast like a jet plane ♪
♪ hey-ey-ey, hey-ey-ey ♪
- Hee hee! Whoo-hoo-hoo-hoo!
[laughter]
- I am in hog heaven.
It's so amazing, the horses and the scenery,
And, like, we're going into the water,
Which is not something that I expected.
And I just want mack to have a good time.
- ♪ come on and show me what you got ♪
♪ ♪
- Come on, mack.
- Come on. - Are you okay?
[indistinct chatter, laughter]
- Oh, no! [laughing]
[quirky music]
[laughter]
Was it cool? Was it, like,
This awesome experience?
Like I'm so glad I was--no.
No one wants to have [bleep] on them
From a giant horse.
♪ ♪
Your [bleep] on me and my horse.
- [laughs] mack!
♪ ♪
- Wasn't impressed, wasn't thrilled, wasn't adventurous.
It was a horse that I rode in a circle.
Nothing to write home about.
That's not adventurous to me. Sorry.
- I bet you feel better now. - [bleep]
- Poor mack. He got [bleep] on
In jamaica, but I had a great time.
♪ ♪
[upbeat music]
♪ ♪
- My horse was the lead of the pack, so...
- I'm glad nobody fell off. - I know.
No, it was, overall, a very good experience.
And it was another first for us.
- Another first for us, yeah.
But it was cool to, you know, like,
Finally get the temperature
On how the other couples are doing.
Clint and gina,
They low-key called each other ugly
In, like, a very nice way.
- I don't know if I could be able to tell somebody,
You know, I'm not really attracted to you.
Like, I feel like that's a tough--
- That's--yeah. - That's a really
Tough conversation. - Shout-out to them,
Because that's, like, a level of maturity
I don't know if I'll ever get to.
But I feel like, overall, it was great.
But the girl-- I don't remember her name,
But she went from saying she was trying
To get her back blown out night two of the honeymoon...
- Yeah. - And now she done just,
"we're taking things slow."
And I feel like she basically don't like that man.
- Okay, but people could say that about you.
You said you was blowing the back out.
- I mean, I was in the moment.
Maybe--yeah, that's true. Maybe she was in the moment.
But you know.
And you can never really prepare for this.
- No. - Like, you think you gonna
Know what's going on, then it's like,
Boom, this stranger is here.
So just met your family, just found out your last name,
Just found out all this other stuff.
So I think backs will get blown out
When they supposed to get blown out, in due time.
- All right, husband.
[laughter]
- I've got a lot of emotions going on right now,
And that's throwing me off too,
Because I just feel more of a friend vibe
Instead of, like, an intimate romantic partner.
And I don't know if that's normal.
Like, I've never been like that in the past.
I've been hyper-focused on sex.
So you know, right now I'm trying to look at that
As a positive that I'm not having sex.
♪ ♪
- Everybody just seems like they're in a good place.
- Yeah, I think so too.
[tense music]
- We've got a little bit of a hill to climb.
- Yeah.
♪ ♪
It feels pretty offensive
To be bringing up someone's weight in a negative way
In front of a big group of, like, new friends.
I am honestly feeling so offended
That I don't really have words.
- We're just gonna continue to just do our thing.
- Yeah. - And, like, we're growing.
And we're all--we did this because we want to be married.
We want to be in a sustainable relationship.
We want something that's long-lasting.
- Yeah. - So if we just continue
To just be front street and real about whatever,
It's gonna be good. - Yeah.
- ♪ your wicked love ♪
♪ ♪
♪ your wicked love ♪
- Yeah.
♪ ♪
- ♪ your wicked love ♪
- ♪ oh, this magic in the air ♪
♪ got me on another wave ♪
♪ keep up with me if you dare ♪
♪ get this money, set the pace, I'm on a roll ♪
- Yeah, just found out I got rated a four by my wife.
- I would say that we're maybe at, like, a three or four.
What were the ratings for?
- I am a complainer. I'm aware of this.
For the record, I've never rode a horse until today,
Just so everybody knows.
I never rode horses as a child.
I've done a ton of horseback riding.
- Liar.
- I've been riding horses since I was a kid.
Anyways, besides my [bleep] ratings today--
- For a [bleep] attitude.
- I'm introverted.
This is so far out of my comfort zone.
- Don't make excuses.
Do better.
- Okay, touché.
You're right.
It was a good day,
Besides me being there
And being a part of it.
[laughs]
There was--anyways.
[laughs] come on.
This is a good diary cam. - No, it's not.
I'm not gonna be a part of this.
- This wasn't fun? - No.
- Are you mad at me? - A little.
- Why?
- Because I don't think it's funny.
- Babe.
[cheerful music]
♪ ♪
- Hello. - What's up? What's up?
- Hello, my beautiful people.
How are we doing? - Good.
How are y'all doing? - I'm doing great.
Are we gonna learn some dancehall moves?
- Let's learn some jamaican moves.
- Everybody say, "yeah, mon."
All: Yeah, mon. - All right.
There we go. There we go.
- So I love music, and I love dancing.
And that's one thing that me and kirsten both agreed on
At our wedding, that, you know,
We just love killing it on the dance floor.
- So you're gonna put the right hand up.
And all you're doing, you lean to the left like this.
Now while you're leaning, you're just gonna tap.
And it's gonna be the opposite.
So you alternate, and tap.
And tap. Oh, there we go.
- It's just a whole vibe. So you know, the moves,
And being on one accord, and just grooving.
- Now, put a little attitude like this.
- I think this is gonna be great
Because it's something that we both enjoy.
- [rhythmically] ah, ah, ah, ah, ah, ah, ah.
Heel, heel, and wave.
Everybody. One and two and three and four.
Heel and wave.
♪ ♪
If I hear the clapping, that means it's right.
Let's go.
♪ ♪
Here we go.
Now we're gonna go with a little bit of energy.
Let's go. Down.
♪ ♪
Come on, mr. Muscle.
- Come on, mr. Muscle!
♪ ♪
- There we go.
- Okay, I see you. I see you!
- Get it.
♪ ♪
Yeah, mon.
Yeah, mon. Yeah, mon.
- Good job. - Wow, you guys are good.
- Dancing with shaquille, it's like, oh, my gosh.
It's, like, a connection, like, to know that
That's how he expresses himself as well.
Although at first, I wasn't physically attracted to him,
He does have a huge personality.
So I'm getting to know him on that level,
And I love it.
♪ ♪
Having that natural chemistry going on right now,
Like, that's kind of the level that I want he and I to tap in
Because that's what I feel like is gonna hold
This marriage together.
- ♪ light you up like a flame ♪
♪ make you love me like you don't care ♪
♪ that you're giving up your control ♪
♪ I want possession of your soul ♪
♪ I want to light you up like a flame ♪
♪ make you love me like you don't care ♪
- You know, years from now, we got to come back
To this same location and dance together.
- Keep these plans. Remember what you're saying.
I'm gonna hold you to it.
[laid-back music]
♪ ♪
- Here. - I'll just grab this one.
You got that one?
- I sure do.
♪ ♪
- Here we go. Oh, we're good.
- How do we-- - kind of just go this way.
[quirky music]
- Do we have to go at the same time?
- You know, I don't know.
- I don't really know how this works.
- Here we go. We're going. - We're going?
I think kayaking is actually the perfect metaphor
For marriage because we don't know what we're doing,
But we're gonna figure it out as we go along.
Sorry. I keep hitting your feet.
I'm so sorry. - That's okay.
- All right, let's do the right paddle because we have to--
- We need to turn.
- Ah, pivot. - [laughs]
- Pivot. - Turn.
- Are you a "friends" fan? - Pivot.
Yeah, I know what you're talking about.
- All I do is quote "friends."
- I know exactly what you're talking about.
- Thank you for understanding me.
Left, left-- I mean right, right, right.
Pivot!
- All right, we're good.
Here, you must be a little hot.
- Normally, that's truthfully a pet peeve when I'm--
- Gotcha. - It's more in a pool.
No, that actually felt amazing.
But you know, if you're in a pool and you're just,
Like, trying to dip your feet and someone's splashing you
In the face with water. I'm like, go away.
- What other pet peeves do you have?
- So a huge pet peeve,
I call them smps, slow moving people,
When they just walk super slow right in front of you
And don't give you a way around.
But you already walk so much faster than me.
I don't think that's gonna be an issue.
But that's my number one. Move.
- My pet peeve is dishes in the sink.
- Okay. - Like, I can't stand
Dishes in the sink. Like, when I lived
With my brother, he used to always leave them.
And I think he expected me to do them.
And I would always do them... - Oh.
- Because I just got annoyed with it after a while.
- Because you're the nicest man in the world.
- Yeah. So I'll admit
I tend to do laundry once a month,
Typically, for me.
- I do it, like, twice a week.
You can do it as you want.
The sheets get washed every week, but I will--
- Yeah. - I will handle that.
- Yeah, because I admit,
I've been guilty to let it go a few weeks.
♪ ♪
And with the dogs sleeping on there,
Probably should wash it every week.
That's really something I'm willing to--
- I'll be in charge of that.
That's okay. - I mean, I'll admit it.
Sometimes I can be a little lazy.
And I'm just afraid that you'll think that I'm too lazy,
And it'll be, like, a turnoff for you.
Like, just usually, I would work,
And then take the dogs for a walk, and then come back,
And maybe just kind of relax and watch a movie.
And you know, it's kind of the same thing day in and day out,
Just kind of, you know, not having somebody.
So I'm just fearful that maybe you might find that too lazy.
- If you told me you don't work
And then you sit around all day,
I'd be like, lazy.
But you work hard. You should relax.
And I do the same exact thing.
I mean, I have this very special chair in my apartment.
And I always say that there's a butt imprint
Because some sundays, I will just only
Leave the house to walk charlie.
And I'm one with the chair for the entire day.
So I'm definitely on the same page with you.
- Yeah. - But now, like,
During the week, I feel like it's totally fine to be "lazy."
And then on the weekends when we aren't working,
We can go on more adventures and do things
And encourage each other.
- I'm fully dedicated at this point.
I am not holding back, and she's not holding back.
We're fully in this. We're fully committed.
And I mean, it's scary
Because it could end in one of us getting hurt
Or both of us getting hurt. Like, who knows?
But it's one of those things, like,
In a situation like this, you have to be vulnerable.
You have to be willing to, like, put yourself out there.
And I think it's amazing that we're both doing that.
[grunts] - whew.
- Feels so good. - Oh, my god.
- I'm looking forward to so many more things.
Like, this is just the beginning.
So let's get after it.
It's gonna be awesome.
- Oh, you got it? - I got it.
- Wow, what a strong husband I have.
♪ we got the time until it's gone ♪
♪ for now ♪
♪ has it been ♪
♪ taking just a little too long? ♪
♪ wonder how ♪
- On a scale of one to ten, how hot you think
These bench chairs are?
- Oh, my god. - They're probably pretty hot.
- We should probably feel them out.
- Oh, it's not bad.
- Oh, it's not too bad.
- Cheers. - Girl time.
- Cheers. - Cheers to girl time.
- Much needed. - Much needed.
- Yes. - Much needed girl time.
- I'm so glad we got a boys' day.
- We deserve it, man.
- Like, this is gonna be good
Because I just feel like we all need to kind of
Verbally detox a little bit
About, like, what's been going on.
- Oh, yeah, man. - Oh, for sure.
- This is the first day since the bachelor party
That the guys are finally together.
It's really, like, honestly,
A time for us to come together and bond together,
To release, to relax, to have fun
And support each other along our own journey.
- I'm looking forward to seeing
What it's been like for you guys.
- Yeah, I mean, me and nicole are vibing really well.
Like, we have a good thing going.
She does hold hands a little more than I like.
I'll admit. Like, you'll see it all the time.
- Okay, there we go, a little something.
- It is a little warm. I mean, it's hot and sweaty
Here and stuff. - Yeah.
- But overall, I like the touch.
I like that she wants to do that.
So like, I'm not really worried right now.
Like, I don't see any major red flags.
But I'm like, when we live together--
She's never lived with someone. I've never lived with someone.
- We both have a little anxiety about moving in together
Because we've never lived with a significant other.
We have three dogs.
We both have very demanding jobs.
And we both are on the phone.
I mean, you're in real estate. You know.
Like, we're always on the phone.
- Yeah. - Coincidentally,
Next week for both of us is gonna be a huge week at work.
So we're nervous that the stress of all
Of that is going to hurt our relationship.
- I think nicole's gonna kick your ass.
- Yeah. - Probably, yeah, probably.
- She is a strong little firecracker, dude.
Like-- - she's gonna pop off.
- I mean, you're from new york. Like, that's--
It's just that mentality, man.
- Dude, you got to be you, though.
- Yeah. - Like, you got to stand
Your ground at certain points. - Yeah.
- But she's also gonna test you.
- Yeah, she gonna test you.
- Oh, for sure, dude.
- Like, she's gonna put the shoulder into you,
And she's gonna be like, make a decision.
And if you're just like, whatever you want, honey,
And she will stomp on you. - Right.
- You're, like, an accommodating guy.
You like to make people happy.
- But like you said, I think we balance each other out.
Like, she's gonna get-- she overthinks--
- Just make sure that balance stays there.
- Oh, yeah, dude. - That's all I'm prefacing.
♪ ♪
- I personally probably wouldn't have
Said things in that way.
When he said stuff, you're like--
You kind of get taken back by it.
But at the same time,
It's just clint being clint.
And we kind of let him take the show at times
Because it's one of those things where it feels like
He definitely likes to be the center of attention
And likes to, like, be able to speak his mind.
And sometimes he says stuff-- he's not afraid
To get that shock and awe, is what I like to say.
- So how's it going with you and your husband, dom?
- Y'all are adorable. - Yeah.
I mean, he does complain
A little more than what I'm used to.
And I did tell him like, hey, like,
Clearly, I'm attracted to you.
Like, I think you're a cutie.
But like... - A cutie.
- The complaining kind of, like--
- Not sexy? - It turns you off, yeah.
- Yeah. - Yeah.
- I don't want to continue to tear somebody apart,
But it would turn me off if a man is just complaining.
I'm just not gonna want to have anything to do with you.
So I'm just hoping that they're able
To work through some things today.
- I'm definitely more introverted.
So like, everything we're doing is just--
- Yeah. - Like, I would do
One of these things a day.
So it's all overwhelming,
But she's like, man, you just complain.
You've been complaining a lot.
I don't know if you're telling the truth about, like,
The boats--or the sailboat and the horse stuff.
And I'm like, god, I just feel like I'm coming off
Like a complete [bleep]. It's not my intent.
You know, it's--I'm an idiot.
Like, I think being stupid is funny.
So I'm concerned about that.
Like, I have to have that compromise of, like,
All right, I can't constantly cope by, like,
Trying to be funny when you don't know my sense of humor.
- Yeah, so I've been in relationships
To where I'm like-- especially in the early stages,
You're like, I'll curtail things
Because I think this is really what they like.
- Exactly. - But then you have
50 relationships later, and you're like,
I can't do that anymore. - Yeah, that's not what I want.
- You got to be you,
100% concentrated you, off the rip.
- Yeah. - Right.
- Because then you're getting to the core of, like,
Are you truly compatible? - Your authentic self.
- You preaching, man. You preaching right now.
- I agree, but also I think
That's part of the reason I'm here
Is to compromise on some of these things.
It's just-- you know, it's tough.
- He does have a sense of humor that is not, like--
- Attractive? [laughs]
- I mean... [laughter]
- I think it's the same for shaquille and I sometimes.
Like, I'll see him joking and laughing and playing around.
And like, sometimes it's cool,
And then sometimes, I'm like, okay, like--
- Yeah. - I'm like giving that look
Because you got to stop men where they are sometimes.
- Yeah.
- It's just weird because every time I talk to her,
She think I'm, like, giving a speech.
She like, are you martin luther king?
[laughter]
I'm like, bro.
- You're a man of education. - Like, this is just who I am.
But she want me to talk, like, to her, like, soul.
Like, tell me how you really feel, break down that wall.
Like, you just speaking to me, but I need you to talk to me.
But she's not vulnerable at all.
- I mean, I want to know about you guys.
- Yeah, jazz. - You were a little
Quiet yesterday. - Is everything okay?
- Well, I mean, my husband, he says I'm pretty.
He says that I'm fine or whatever.
But I don't think he's, like, trying to rip my clothes off.
So I feel like I'm hoping, like,
Throughout the honeymoon, like, that sexual chemistry just,
You know, can grow.
- Yeah. - He's so sweet, though.
- Yeah. - He is definitely sweet.
- So sweet. - I mean, we've had some--
You know, a few bombs dropped on me.
- Oh, my goodness. - No.
- I'm dropped with the bomb that,
You know, he's never been in love.
- Oh. - Yeah.
- I'm like--I was like,
Hold up, red flag, like...
- Yeah. - 39, never been in love.
Like, for me, immediately, I felt pressure.
I was like-- - right.
- Like, this man has never been in love.
Like, if he ain't found love...
- Yeah. - In 39 years, how do I know
That he's gonna find it with his wife?
- Yeah, so right now, like, you know,
Things have been going, like, pretty smooth with jasmine.
But it's like, on a scale of one to ten,
Her being attracted to me, I feel like she's at,
Like, a 12. - Yeah.
- Yeah, we can tell. - Like, she's super into me.
- She like-- she can't get over me.
- Yeah. - I'm spicy.
- And I feel like I'm at, like, a four or five.
I mean, I feel bad, almost. - Yeah.
- Like, I almost feel, like, guilty.
- Yeah. - You know what I mean?
- But you can't, though. - Yeah, you can't.
- Right, right. - But I'm like,
Jasmine has won beauty pageants.
So obviously, like, she's an attractive woman.
- Right, right. - I'm saying, like,
My type is a little bit different...
- Yeah. - Than what I got.
She's dope. She's amazing.
She's just, like-- it's just different from
What I'm used to, like, the type of women that I go for.
Just because I am a butt man. The perfect butt?
Like, serena williams has a perfect butt.
I think megan thee stallion has a perfect butt.
Jasmine's a little too small.
But I mean, it's still early,
You know, so I'm giving it time.
I'm hopeful, you know, that it can--
That things can turn around.
♪ ♪
- Has anyone had sex yet?
- No. - Okay, we're all there.
- No. - I know we're all waiting.
But it's like, once you have sex,
And you may not like it, like, how would that work out?
- I mean, you guys know how I feel about it.
There's a store right down the street.
[laughter]
- You know she got all the toys.
Dom got all the toys.
- Not all the toys, but I got, like...
- A few. - Two of the best toys.
[laughter]
- I'm just trying to get through
My next damn conversation, y'all.
I don't need to [bleep].
[laughter]
- How are you feeling after his gross comments?
- Yeah. Well, I'm glad that you guys--
- Very gross. Very gross. - I'm glad
That you guys picked up on it.
- Disgusting, honestly. - I was trying
Not to react yesterday.
- I saw that. - You were amazing.
- You handled it... - You did amazing.
- Amazingly. - I would have stabbed him
In the throat. - You handled yourself so well.
- You did. - I was like--
Because I would have been like, okay, enough.
- But I never expected to hear that [bleep].
- Yeah, you probably don't vocalize it.
- Yeah. - My soul left my body.
- Girl, it was a outer-body experience.
- You don't vocalize it in front of your wife, people,
And also in front of five curvaceous, beautiful women.
- Right. - We were offended for you,
And a little selfishly, I was offended.
There is a collective feeling of...
[gags]
Because his comments were so not only offensive to gina
And so grossly inaccurate,
They were offensive to every woman out there
With a real, natural body, so
[gags] clint.
You're a dick.
- Just to clear the air, like,
My waist is a 26.
- You have a banging body.
- Right. - I'm definitely slender
And also very athletic, so that was kind of a hit.
Last night, I was just like,
I'm just gonna table this.
And then I honestly woke up, like,
Kind of fuming about it, not even just for me.
And I was like, what about, like, everyone else that--
I'm in the business of empowering women.
Like, that's literally what I do.
I own a hair salon. Like, I'm in the business
Of making women feel beautiful
And confident in their own skin.
- Are you willing to work on it, or should we just--
- I mean, we definitely have to talk about it.
- Yeah, y'all do. - Like, there's no way--
- You just tabled it. - We can't just be like,
Hey, got to go, talk to you never.
- I don't want you to have to give up
On what could be something great
Because this is such a big snafu in the beginning.
- Maybe the other dudes talk some sense.
- I hope so. - I hope so.
♪ ♪
- Gina and I obviously shared with everybody,
Like, what's going on.
- You were like, she's a lot thicker.
That was, like, the "oh, [bleep]" moment, I think.
- I don't-- I didn't say thicker.
I was like, I typically date more slender.
- Yeah. - Like, I'm very conscious
Of people's feelings, and like, she's a great person.
And so it's not even the physical part.
It's like, she's all about the hair salon.
It's all hair salon.
It's all business.
It's hair salon, hair salon, hair salon.
And it's like, is this just a big promo for the hair salon?
Is that what we're doing?
Like, what were your intentions of this?
Because I have no benefit of this experience
Outside of me walking away with a lifetime partner.
- Right. - I mean,
To give her the benefit of the doubt,
I've had a couple small businesses.
And when you pour your, like, heart into something--
I talk too much about, like, what I got going on,
Or that's, like, just constantly on my mind.
So maybe, I don't know, take that into account.
Like, that's her life. - Yeah.
When we got back last night,
It was like she was disinterested.
She didn't want to really talk.
- Do you think it's something
You guys can get past potentially?
- I mean, I don't know.
- I think gina's sexy.
I think you're crazy.
I think she's gorgeous.
♪ ♪
I don't know what type of girls clint has pulled before,
But I think gina's very good-looking.
I don't see him pulling girls better-looking than gina.
- Don't leave me on my own island, man.
[laughter]
♪ ♪
[laid-back music]
♪ ♪
- All the names in there.
We should do that. - We can do that.
We can carve our name
Into the bamboo over here.
- Okay, let's go find one. - Okay.
♪ ♪
This one's new. Do you got a knife?
- Yeah, lucky for you, I'm a very well-prepared lady.
- I am not surprised you have a knife in your bag.
- It's very sharp. - Okay.
♪ ♪
Am I doing a k or a g?
- Uh, maybe a kg.
- We'll just do a k.
How's it looking? Does it look good?
- Hey.
- How's that? - That looks great.
- We're in paradise. This is great.
It's hard to not have a good time.
With that, you know, I want to apologize
For the horse thing and the sailing thing,
Where I take my joking too far,
And I come off maybe, like, negative or complaining.
I guess that's just, like,
My banter that we're not used to yet.
And clearly, it doesn't work as well as I think it works.
♪ ♪
I didn't mean to be misleading, by any means.
And then we get into, like, the negative aspect of things
Or the complaining, and, really,
What I'm trying to convey to you is, like,
This is something I would not do.
And I'm doing it for you because I want to step
Out of my comfort zone, and I do like
That you pull me out of my comfort zone.
- I'm like a no bull[bleep] kind of person, you know?
Like, I don't want excuses. I want results.
- Yeah. - And from my perception,
It's almost like every other thing that we've done here,
You've complained about it.
- Yeah. - You know what I mean?
So I'm like, don't complain.
Like, if you're gonna do it, then just do it,
Because ultimately, it's making me not want to do it anymore.
You know? - Yeah, I want to work on it.
I'm trying to work on it. - Mm-hmm.
- I want you to know that I am here for you,
And I do have the best intentions.
And I want to do these adventures.
I want you to have the best time too.
- Yeah. I fully accept your apology.
I'll give you a pass.
But we definitely got to work on it.
- For sure.
- So thank you. - Thank you.
♪ ♪
- ♪ I'm gonna take you high ♪
♪ the way you're making me feel is so unimaginable ♪
♪ I'm gonna take you high ♪
- Shaquille? Hello, honey.
- What's up? How are you?
- Good.
- How was your day?
- Today was everything I needed.
- Why? [laughs]
- Because the wives and I, we got to have girl talk.
Like, we talked about the whole clint and gina situation.
Like, we just uplifted gina and empowered her
To let her know that we think she's beautiful,
And we have her back, and we were kind of disgusted
By some of the comments as well.
- Do you think clint was wrong?
- It's the way that he said everything.
- I wouldn't say--
I personally wouldn't say clint was wrong.
Even with airris, airris was like,
He wasn't physically attracted to his wife.
- But he just said yesterday that she was beautiful.
- I'm telling you what was said.
- Well, why would he lie like that?
- To make her feel good.
- Well, no. No, be honest.
It's no point in lying or faking and fronting.
Like, if you don't find somebody attractive...
- But no, no, no. - Then you just don't
Find somebody attractive.
- But he probably didn't want to make shame of her.
So he probably wanted her to be confident in who she is,
And not necessarily that he lied--
- But he just said yesterday,
Or she just said today that she's beautiful.
Like--
- I'm just telling you what was said.
- Well, I'm always gonna tell you what I say,
Regardless if I'm with you or if I'm not with you.
Like, today, I was talking about how I feel like
You play and joke around a lot,
Because dom has said the same thing about her husband.
- You don't like a sense of humor, though?
- A little sense of humor. - What's a little?
- Like, it's a time and place for everything.
- What's a little? - Like--
- What's a little? - If you're going overboard,
Then I'll be like, okay, shaquille, enough.
♪ ♪
- So you're not physically--
You wasn't physically attracted to me.
You don't like that I have a sense of humor.
- I didn't say I don't like that.
- What do you like? - I said--
I didn't say-- - what do you like?
- No, let me finish my statement real fast.
I didn't say that I did not like your sense of humor.
Like, it's okay to be funny sometimes.
I want to laugh. I want you to make me--
- But what's sometimes?
- I want you to make me laugh.
It just depends on the time and the place.
Like, if that's something you do all day, every day,
Then I'm gonna be like, okay, like,
This guy is playing entirely too much.
I do want you to be serious when it's time to be serious.
Like, when we were having breakfast
When we first arrived, like,
You were joking and playing around.
- We was walking through the airport,
And you were struggling.
Your arm was like, ah.
- Why didn't you just take the bag?
- Help me.
- Okay. - And I was laughing.
I was about to record you. - So I can see
How my husband wasn't helping me when I was struggling.
- Yeah.
You want me to be like this?
- No, I don't.
- You don't want me to have a sense of humor with you?
- Be yourself, and I'll let you know
When I don't agree with it. - No, but you're telling me
That I don't need to be myself.
- No, I didn't ever say I don't want you to be yourself.
- You're just saying, like, I play too much, basically.
I won't allow you to change who I am
About having a sense of humor.
Sometimes, you know, I have corny jokes.
Sometimes, you know, my jokes are hilarious.
But that's just my sense of humor.
And if I can't share that with my wife,
Then I don't know if we are even compatible,
Because I love to just have fun
And to joke around and just to laugh.
Well, I don't know how to not joke.
Have fun. Like, you really--
You really have this guard up to where it's like,
I don't know, like, if I'm doing right
Or if I'm doing wrong.
It's like, damn. [bleep]
- I don't want you to feel like that.
- I'm really trying to understand,
Like, what's the middle ground of what you want me to do.
- You know, the other day, I asked you,
Did you know how to take criticism,
And right now it doesn't sound
Like you know how to take criticism.
- I'm trying to understand.
- Be you, honey.
- You don't-- you don't like that.
♪ ♪
- I'm done talking about this, honestly.
I don't like to talk in circles.
And it's like, once I answered a question,
I answered the question.
- Well, I don't know how to not joke.
- Like, you don't have to change.
Like, I don't want you to change
From not being funny.
I just want you to be more aware of where we are.
Like, this is our honeymoon.
Like, I want to get to know you on a serious side.
And it's okay to show, like, your comical side.
Like, that's totally fine. But I just always feel like
It's a time and a place.
- That's for real. That's something I can respect
Because it's like you're seeing, like,
What we need to get to without the fluff,
Without the jokes.
You're like, no, I want to get to know you for who you are.
- And then we can laugh and joke and have a good time.
- This our first, like, disagreement.
- First of many, I'm sure. - Right.
- And it's gonna be more conversations.
Like I said, there may be things
You don't like that I'm doing, you know?
So we just have to grow and move forward from there
And continue to build.
- For sure.
- ♪ you got to stay ♪
♪ ♪
- ♪ what you get is what you see ♪
♪ I won't pretend I'm what you need ♪
♪ there's no in-between ♪
♪ this is take or leave ♪
- I know you.
- Hi, husband.
- Hey.
- I ain't seen you. - It's been, like, four hours.
- I know. - How you doing?
- Good. - I got you a drink.
- Thank you.
How was your--your guy time?
- Oh, it was cool, you know, just to see everybody and just,
You know, bounce ideas off of each other.
It was almost, like, therapeutic.
I feel like all five of us benefited from today.
Like, it was cool. - Yeah.
- When they asked you, like, so, jasmine, like,
How are things going with you and your husband, like...
- Well, I mean, we talked about, you know,
You not ever being in love,
How I felt about that and the conversations we had,
How, you know, it was a little eyebrow raise for me.
And I feel a little pressure
Wanting my husband to fall in love with me,
But I don't know if that'll happen.
So that worries me a little bit, but yeah.
- I feel like it is gonna be a challenge,
But, like, a good challenge.
- Yeah. - Like, I would love
To be somebody's first love.
Like, that would be--
- I think, for me, it's more so, like,
It doesn't take much for me to fall in love, like--
- Okay. - And so I guess,
It's me kind of-- - it take a lot for me.
- Obviously.
So I guess I don't know if I want to hold back,
Because I've never been the first
To say I love you in a relationship.
- Right. - Like, me telling somebody
I love them is, like, a very vulnerable place for me.
So it's like,
I'm scared that I'm gonna get to that point with you,
And then you don't feel that.
And then that's gonna make me feel rejected in a way.
So I don't know if I want to hold back,
Or I don't really know where your head is at.
And so I guess I'm more so afraid
Of falling in love with you
And then it not being there for you.
- I feel like everybody just need to pump the brakes.
♪ ♪
- Nobody's saying, like, in love right now.
I'm saying my feelings of knowing
That you've never been in love before.
I'm not saying I'm falling in love with you.
I'm saying I know that I fall in love easy.
So it scares me to know that's almost, like,
Something that's impossible for you right now.
- Yeah.
- That's what I'm saying.
- I just think this is so awkward.
- I don't feel awkward.
Do we have awkward moments where we're like,
We don't know what to say to each other?
Absolutely. Like, we're talking,
And we're like, okay, what do we talk about now?
But I don't feel awkward.
- And for me, it's just time.
♪ ♪
I don't feel like there's anything, like,
I can do or you can do to make it less awkward.
I feel like time will, like,
Solve a lot of these awkwardness moments.
Like, one day, it won't be awkward,
You know what I mean?
- Do you feel like we're moving in the direction
We need to move in?
- I feel like we are.
I know there's gonna be peaks and valleys.
Like, you might be--
Next week, you might be like, get out the house.
You know, I don't know.
Like, we gonna go through that, you know what I mean?
- But you're ready and willing for that?
- Yeah, I'm ready and willing for that.
- Hearing that, like, you are all in and, like,
You're ready to go through, like,
The peaks and the valleys,
I mean, that's--that's-- that's something that I needed,
And that's reassuring for me.
- ♪ 'cause I'm better with you, you, you ♪
[beachy music]
♪ ♪
- Hi, there. - How's it going?
- Good. How are you? - Good.
- I had a good talk with the boys.
- Yeah? Cool, cool.
- Yeah. What about you and the girls?
- It was good.
It was a good talk.
I don't know if you noticed, I've been a little quiet today.
- Yeah. Yeah.
- I didn't want to bring it up last night.
I'm the type of person that needs to, like,
Process and table.
♪ ♪
As far as yesterday,
I was just pretty offended
By the comment about the weight thing.
♪ ♪
- Right, but you actually preluded to that.
And we're kind of the opposite, as far as, like,
What we're attracted to. - Yeah, but there's
A difference when you say someone's
Not slender and athletic. - I didn't even say slender.
- Athletic is-- you did say slender.
"I'm used to people that are slender
And that are a little bit more athletic," is what you said.
You don't know how much I work out.
You know, like, that's-- that's not the same thing.
Like, that's what I'm saying.
Eye color, hair color, all of that.
And I've been very open.
My ex-boyfriend was a ginger.
He had a bright red beard. I was--
I grew an attraction to him. - Do you think--
Do you think the term "ginger" is offensive to anybody?
- No, not really. - You're going to exonerate
Yourself of saying, I don't think there's any problem
With saying he's a ginger.
That's totally fine.
- I specialize in red hair, clint.
- What does that mean, you specialize in it?
- That means I work on redheads all the time.
- But you don't like redheads. - And they call
Themselves that. - You don't think that
That's an offensive term to somebody that's
Of light skin and light hair? - As a hairstylist, no,
But I'm very sorry if that offended you.
I'm sorry. No, I've never been told
It's offensive, and I do hair.
- It's definitely an offensive term.
- And that's what they request. - Anyhow,
I did not mean to offend you.
That was not my intent.
I was just defining past relationships
And who I typically gravitate to.
It was not to offend you at all.
I was just benchmark--
- Well, it didn't just offend me.
It offended everyone that was in the room,
To be quite honest. - But that wasn't my intent.
I was--my-- - oh, I'm just stating a fact.
- My intent was for people to know
That I'm an honest, up-front person.
- Okay.
- And I'm not trying to besmirch anybody.
- That's totally fine. And my--
What I need is someone that can read a room.
And if you can't read a room and know why discussing
Something like weight would offend everyone in the room,
Especially when there's four other women with curves...
- No, I-- - and it was visibly rude
To everyone in the room because the girls actually
Brought it up today and asked how I was feeling about it.
- Interesting. - Yeah.
- I'm--I'm sorry you feel that way.
I'm just--I'm just trying to be honest of, like...
- Okay. - Who I typically date.
And it has no fault to you at all, like--
- So you think by an entire-- - we didn't match each other.
- When an entire room is physically uncomfortable
By that statement, you still don't see
Anything wrong with that?
- No, you're-- - with saying you don't like
Someone's weight or they're not
Physically attractive? - You're trying to position it.
- Okay. - And that's not--
That's not what had happened. - Okay.
- So-- - well, if you feel no--
If you feel like you've said nothing wrong,
I honestly don't think there's anything left
To say in this conversation.
I think it's best for us for the duration
Of this honeymoon to spend some time apart.
♪ ♪
I expected a little more--
At least some remorse into what he was saying.
I just--I feel like I'm learning
That clint's the type of person that will talk at you.
I mean, it's a huge red flag for me.
I'm done. Yeah, thank you.
We're gonna-- - you should be done.
- Okay, yeah. - You should be done.
- Have a good day.
- Because she's got no leg to stand on.
What an unfortunate turn of events.
- No, no, no. - What a shame.
- I'm not doing that.
- Unreal.
Unreal.
Tries to turn the tide.
So when you lose,
You default to having to walk away?
That's adult.
♪ ♪
That is how adults act.
♪ ♪
She didn't want to have a civilized conversation.
She wants to be cantankerous.
This has been a game for her.
♪ ♪
She's tried to actually do the blame game on me.
And I think she's looking for an out.
All of a sudden, you're going to villainize me
At the peril of making yourself look good.
So is there redemption here?
It's hard to say, but this is making me think.
♪ ♪
[upbeat music]
- Next time on "married at first sight,"
The couples finish up their honeymoon
Before heading back to the real world.
- Airris, like, not meaning to put you on the spot,
But do you think you can fall in love with her?
- Ooh.
- Right now I feel more of, like,
A friendly vibe.
[dramatic music]
- I'm not trying to be nobody friend.
- I'm like, I apologize.
And she's like, it's unforgivable.
- It's just a wrap.
- I feel like I've given you the benefit of the doubt.
It's like, your way or the highway.
It's getting awkward now.
- Hey, baby, what's wrong?
- [sobbing]
♪ ♪
- And then the couples begin
Moving in together.
- Don't touch the first drawer.
- My husband is really bossy.
- So is this what you imagined
My living situation to be like,
Or is it worse, or...
- Um...
Yeah, I guess I'm just kind of like, wah.
- Do you love me?
♪ ♪
- No.
♪ ♪