- It's nice to meet you.
- 10 singles took a daring leap of faith to find love.
They married complete strangers.
- ♪ go, go, go ♪
- ♪ I'm coming home, back where I belong ♪
♪ I'm coming home ♪
- Last time, the honeymoon came to an end
And the couples started to experience married life
Back in nashville.
- ♪ I'm coming home ♪
- Nicole and chris.
- I can't thank you enough,
The willingness of having your dad
Come out and watch charlie.
- You don't always have to be the rock
And the strong person.
And I think we handled it as a team.
And it's just made us stronger as a couple and a family.
♪ ♪
- Kirsten and shaquille.
- We have to learn each other's, like,
How we live.
- Oh, don't worry.
I'll definitely let you know.
We're at a good space.
I feel like it can be better.
And I know that it takes me making
Certain moves to have a better relationship with shaquille.
- Jasmine and airris.
- Is that the obituary for your dad?
- Yeah.
That's one of the first things
I think about when I wake up.
- He is trying to be emotionally available.
The end goal is for us to be together
And for us to fall in love.
- Gina and clint.
- I talked about, like, slender and athletic.
It was the wrong choice of words.
- I will say he immediately apologized.
It was actually healthy.
We had to approach it head-on.
- Looking forward to having more time
Collectively together to really get to know
Each other on that next scale.
Finally home. - Cheers.
- Back in nashville.
- Cheers to our new place.
- Domynique and mackinley.
- This is my hangout spot.
- Okay.
Is any of this yours?
- No.
I was up front from the get on my living situation.
Now it's this big thing.
And I don't know where things go from here.
I wanted to not jump into a place when I was--
- Yeah, but like, jump into a marriage, though?
[tense music]
[pop music]
- Hello.
- And tonight, the couples will move in together...
- Is that it?
- As real life is about to begin.
Like all women, you want to be seen
For more than just my value.
- You want to be desired. - Like she said.
What the heck? Rip--
You know, rip off my clothes, you know what I mean?
- Sometimes you got to be a little uncomfortable
To work through things.
And we got to be open.
- Mm-hmm. - We got to be up front.
- Is that bag coming in here, or no?
- Honestly, just like, not really feeling it right now.
Feel free to stay.
- I think we both need our space.
[tense music]
- My wife is like, very, very, like, attracted to me
And into me, and I'm not on that same level.
- Is there any chemistry there?
- Not really.
- Domynique, what is your perspective?
- I mean...
- Do you want to stay married?
Are we moving forward?
Or is this the day that we decide
We're getting a divorce?
[dramatic music]
- [sighs] I don't know.
- ♪ it's all or nothing ♪
- This is "married at first sight."
- ♪ there's no other way ♪
♪ ♪
♪ it's all or nothing ♪
- ♪ we go together like peaches and cream ♪
♪ oh, oh, hey ♪
♪ staying overnight, sweet dreams ♪
♪ oh, oh, hey ♪
- Just excited to meet your dogs
Because they're gonna be my two new sons.
And I hope they like me, because obviously,
Their opinion of me matters to you.
- That's true.
♪ ♪
Hi, boys. - Hi, puppies.
- Come here, boys. - Hi.
Hi.
Let me close the door. Hello.
- Look at your mama.
It's your mama. - Hi, puppies.
- It's your mama.
- Hi.
- My dogs have never had a mom before.
I want them to love her.
I want my dogs, her dog, and us
All to be just one big, happy family.
That's the greeting you'll get every day with these guys.
- Aw, good.
- And so this is a very big moment for me.
- Hello. - Hi, boys.
- Hi, kodah. - This is your mama.
- It's me.
I'm your mama now.
Okay, that's okay with you? Okay.
- And it's just a great feeling.
♪ ♪
Oh, there goes kodah again. - Okay.
This is a bachelor bedroom for sure, but--
- But-- - that's okay.
- Big, nice bed.
- Nice, big bed.
Is this where you sleep, kodah?
- This is where he sleeps, literally like right here.
- Kodah, where do you sleep?
- So he always has to be on my left side.
- So you usually-- - I usually--
I sleep, like, in the middle. - Okay.
Chris's dogs are his babies.
He would honestly jump in front of a bus to save one of them.
He loves his.
I am obsessed with mine.
So it's one of many things we have in common.
[dog growling]
Is this what your dad has taught you to do in the bed?
- No.
Stupid.
Stop, kodah.
- You know what?
If he has seen chris in action before
And this is what he's doing, then I feel pretty good
About what my future sex life is gonna look like,
'cause that dog is humping.
Kodah. - Kodah.
[chuckles] kodah, stop it.
- Where do you work? Like, where is your--
- Literally, this is my office.
Normally I just sit right here.
A little fireplace-- heat actually comes out
Of it too, in the wintertime.
- That is really cool.
I'm definitely thinking about what's happening
After the eight weeks.
And I'm already thinking about our next steps after that.
And ideally, that would be to have
A home together with a backyard for our dogs,
Room for our offices,
And just a really nice dream home.
And these are the-- kobe and kodah's.
And then this is charlie.
This is your dad.
And this is me.
And that's us as a family.
And you like your mama the best.
Aw, that's so sweet.
♪ ♪
[light music]
♪ ♪
- Here to see dom's home for the first time,
Where she lives, how she lives.
I'm sure her apartment's great.
It's not a basement.
I'm the big loser here
And living with family and friends.
So that's my story so far.
♪ ♪
- Here we are.
- Nice.
I'm gonna take my shoes off.
- Thank you.
- Of course, of course.
- This is where I come to hide.
- I like it.
It's very nice.
- Thank you.
♪ ♪
I try to take a little pride.
I got some boxes over there
Because they don't believe in storage here.
- Okay. - So I'm on the waiting list
To get a storage unit.
- Nice.
♪ ♪
- Feel free to, like, browse around.
♪ ♪
- I mean, I don't need to browse.
You didn't browse my place.
♪ ♪
I mean, there wasn't much to browse, but--
- Yeah.
♪ ♪
- It sucks, you know.
I expected him to, like, want to be in my apartment
And want to get to know me.
But like, this is who mack is.
Like, it's a lot.
I want us both to be, like, gung ho
And excited to, like, go and do things,
Not, like, me, like, having to, like,
Push, push, push, push, push, you know?
I mean-- - but that's just not who I am.
♪ ♪
What do we have next?
- The one place left, the bathroom.
- Okay.
♪ ♪
Nice big closet, lots of stuff. - Yeah.
No, this is not big.
- Okay. - It's small.
It could be double the size.
- Yeah?
[tense music]
Like the white here and there.
- I like--I love white.
- Yeah, it's very cool.
- It's because when I was a kid,
My mom would not let me wear white clothes
Because I would always come home and they were trashed.
- Oh, yeah.
- So now I'm like, oh, I can do white.
- Nice.
♪ ♪
Need help with anything?
- Mm-mm. - No?
- Nope.
- Okay.
♪ ♪
- Honestly, the look on his face, his energy--
I'm not really getting
The fact that he wants to be here.
So I'm just gonna, like pack up my stuff real quick,
And we can get out.
♪ ♪
Or maybe I shouldn't pack it at all.
[laughs] just leave it here.
If we did make it past, you know,
The next eight weeks, like, is this somewhere
You could see yourself staying?
♪ ♪
- Who knows? We'll see.
- All right.
Good talk.
♪ ♪
[mellow music]
♪ ♪
[knocking]
- Hello! - Oh!
Easy, big guy.
Going right for the goods.
Hi, boy.
- Welcome to gangsta's paradise.
- I see this.
All right. - Yeah, hey.
- How you doing? - Good. How's it going?
- Yeah, it's going well.
- Come on in. Come on in.
- Okay, let's check it.
- So bedroom...
- Yeah, all your bedding.
You can do pull-ups on this, get ready to go to bed.
- And then closet. - Yeah.
- I think I have, like, a suitcase problem.
I just buy bags all the time.
- I do too.
Yeah, gina's place looks neatly organized.
It's well-decorated.
We got cool shades. - [laughs]
There's a--I think I'm also a sunglass hoarder.
Oh, those are actually-- - are these prescription?
- Those are actually prescription, yes.
- [laughs] it's like, whoa, man.
You know, she's got room for hank to kind of run around.
Giddyap. Giddyap.
- Jeez.
- But I'm looking forward to sharing a space together.
It's gonna be important.
We have got to spend time to understand who each other is
And if we're gonna grow and develop,
Because we have a lot to work on.
[sighs] - [laughs]
Hank, is that your bed, buddy?
What is he doing?
- Is this where he normally lays?
- He likes to lay up there.
And he looks down at the park.
- Yeah, this is comfy.
- So how are you feeling?
- Good.
I mean, we've already spent so much time together.
And so I don't think there's gonna be any surprises
As far as, like, living together.
But no, I'm looking forward to it.
We'll see what happens.
- I'm a little nervous.
- Yeah?
- I just don't know how I'm feeling about,
Like, the whole moving in right away.
♪ ♪
Right now, I'm just not seeing, like, the progression
That I had hoped for.
- Why is that?
- Over the past week, like, there's been nothing romantic.
And that's, like, a huge part of being in a marriage.
- Yeah.
- Something's, like, seriously missing, you know?
- Yeah.
- Obviously, I want to spend time getting to know you.
But the whole, like, jumping in and moving together
At the place that we're in right now,
That's adding a level of--
I think it would cause us to pull apart more than it would
Cause us to grow because we're gonna be, like,
Uncomfortable, walking on eggshells, like,
Trying to figure out, day in and day out,
If we're, you know, compatible.
♪ ♪
- This is a marriage too, though.
- Yeah.
- So it's like, sometimes you've gotta be
A little uncomfortable to work through things.
And we've got to be open.
We've got to be up front, you know?
The physical attraction thing isn't there.
- Yeah.
- But did we commit?
Did we say we're gonna get married to a stranger?
Yes. - Mm-hmm.
- Did we say that we were gonna work through
Any challenges or difficulties?
Yes.
- I think that I'm really walking in, like,
A place of uncertainty right now.
I know that we both signed up for this process
And this marriage.
And we gave vows.
And so the last thing you want to do
Is start to admit that it's not working like you had hoped.
- You know, maybe there is growth that can happen.
So I want to stick it out and see what happens.
♪ ♪
- ♪ watch out ♪
♪ I'm coming through ♪
♪ stacking up my ws ♪
♪ think I'm gonna let you in ♪
♪ forget it ♪
♪ if you want to join forces, then let's get it ♪
- It's such a quiet street.
- It is.
I'm a little nervous because I have nine puppies.
And at the wedding,
When I told him about all the dogs,
He was very taken back by it.
- 13 dogs?
♪ ♪
- I mean, I just hope he sees that
It's not that overwhelming.
We'll see.
All right, welcome to my humble abode.
- Dang.
This is pretty impressive.
Like, if I had all of these titles,
Like, you wouldn't be able to tell me nothing.
I mean, it's good that you're humble.
But I think you need to step it up, like, a little bit.
- Oh, okay.
- Like, everybody ain't got like crowns
And titles and stuff.
- That was my first national title.
I was national elite miss.
[both laughing]
You have to, like, push it. It, like, sits.
- You look like a black game of thrones character.
I told the experts I wanted a black queen.
Then I come in here and I see all these crowns.
They, like, literally gave me a queen, a black queen.
So it was nice just, like, putting that crown on her head
And just kind of seeing that, you know, come to life.
- And then after I gave this title up, I--
- What do you mean, you gave it up to who?
- So you only keep the title for a year.
- Oh, okay.
- Yep, then I upgraded to miss tennessee.
- Okay.
- And then I upgraded to
The united states of america's miss.
- The whole country? - [laughs]
Yeah.
- So like, what's after miss united states?
Like, what's after that? - So united states
Is kind of like the highest of the highest.
But there's, like, a million different pageant systems.
[dog barking]
So there's just a lot of pageant systems.
- Somebody's barking.
What's going on?
- Well, that's the dogs.
- The infinite dogs?
- Yeah.
- There's 20 of them, right?
- No, there's nine puppies left.
And then my girl dog, duchess, who had them.
- Can we see these puppies that people are buying up?
- Let's see the puppies. Yeah.
- These nine dogs, I'm just imagining, like,
What if they were all loose?
We had a dog when I was three in my grandmother's house.
And the dog, like, scratched me, like,
In the middle of my forehead.
And I was just kind of like traumatized.
And like, you know, that's not cool.
That's not what I'm trying to have at home.
[puppies whining]
- All right, I'll let you get the runt baby.
- The runt baby?
- This is the runt of the litter, tesla.
[playful music]
- This don't seem so bad. - See?
- Till he start, like, peeing all over the house.
- [laughs]
- But right now--
So he grows to be that size?
- We'll he'll get about--no, he won't get as big as mama.
And this is duchie.
This is mama dog.
♪ ♪
This is the one that's coming to the apartment.
♪ ♪
- If he was like this size, like this was my puppy,
I could let him--
I would let him lay in the bed with me.
- See? I told you.
[laughs]
Knowing that he's, like, enjoying the puppies
And that aspect of my life,
It makes me feel more attracted to him.
- I love the way they-- what kind are they?
- Goldendoodles. - Okay.
- Mini goldendoodles.
- So I know that I like mini goldendoodles.
- But I fall in love quick.
So it also worries me.
Like, am I gonna fall in love with this man,
And he'd be like, cool, thank you, like, great job?
I mean, who knows?
Look, it's falling asleep.
- I mean, that's what I do. I'm just a natural.
- [laughs]
[upbeat music]
♪ ♪
- Welcome to my place.
You know.
- It's very clean.
- Very clean, very neat.
I'm nervous about him seeing my place.
Shaquille's apartment and my apartment
Is like day and night.
He has, like, pictures everywhere, plants everywhere,
Like, a sewing station.
And I just am a minimalist.
So we definitely have two different styles.
So we'll see what shaquille has to say.
- You don't have bar stools?
- No, I haven't gotten any bar stools,
Just the things you need.
♪ ♪
- It's so weird you don't have no photos in here, like...
- I was thinking about--
- None of, like, your line sisters,
Your best friends, nobody?
- There's some little pictures right there.
♪ ♪
- I was really shocked.
Cookies, spinach.
I was really looking forward to learning more about kirsten
From her apartment.
But it looks like she just moved in yesterday.
- This is my bedroom.
[mellow music]
- It's weird.
♪ ♪
I've never seen this, like, just a person
Who just lived very minimal, like--
- Mm-hmm. Not overly decorated.
It's just enough.
- I don't know if it's just enough.
I was like, is this a model home?
Like, did we walk into the wrong apartment?
It doesn't look lived in.
- You think I need more?
I don't need too much more. - A nightstand or something.
Like, where do you put your phone at, at night?
- On the bed.
I put it on the bed with me.
♪ ♪
This is my closet.
- Oh.
Look at these shoes just laying here.
[quirky music]
We walked in kirsten's closet,
And I all of a sudden got anxiety.
Hats, purses--it was like,
Where's the organization in here?
You got papers up there.
You got books.
Why you don't have it hanging on the--
- Why did I fold it over like that?
- [speaking indistinctly] - [laughs]
- This is not okay.
We got to work together to make sure,
Like, our apartment that we live in together is organized.
- Are you stressed out by my closet?
- Oh, I'm so stressed. - I can tell.
♪ ♪
[soft music]
♪ ♪
- So how you feeling?
- Feeling okay.
I like your place.
Your house is nice. - Are you sure?
- What do you mean?
- Your energy was very...
"don't want to be here right now."
♪ ♪
- Well, yeah.
I mean, you know, it's just, like, one thing after another
That you don't like about me.
[tense music]
I mean, I know I'm introverted and I'm not
The most outgoing person for the most part.
But I think there's things that I'm not getting that I want.
So yeah, I don't know what to think of--
- What are those things?
- You know, my dogs are a huge part of my life.
And they're treated like family and kids.
And so they are on the furniture.
They are in the bed.
You know, they do shed.
And I feel like with your perspective
And the things you want, like, yeah,
I don't want to bring my dogs because it's--
You're not comfortable with it.
- I believe that dogs
Should be, like, a benefit.
And I don't believe that dogs should, like,
Run the household, you know?
Like, I don't want to come in, like,
The comforter's covered in dog fur.
Like, all of that just kind of grosses me out.
My thing with the dogs is, like,
You've been here five months,
And you haven't brought your dogs.
♪ ♪
- So you don't think my dogs are a big deal to me?
- I mean, if they were, I feel like
They would have been here by now.
- Yeah, I guess you're right.
I don't like my dogs.
And I don't care if they're here.
[laughing]
- That's not what I said.
- Isn't it?
- No.
- I moved down here.
I wanted to restructure, take a break.
I said, I'm gonna-- the donnellys.
I'm gonna go down to tennessee.
I've always wanted to move there.
- Test it out.
- Let's take the time-- what's that?
- Test it out.
- Well, I didn't want to jump into a place.
I've been--I've spent half my time back in michigan,
Half the time here.
I wasn't gonna bring them in
Until I got an apartment or a house.
Maybe you think I'm not stable because of that.
Um...
I do pretty well in cannabis.
And the money thing is not a problem at all.
So yeah, I don't know.
I'm just--I'm not feeling good about where we're at.
♪ ♪
I don't--I don't think you've asked once
About my dogs, either.
I don't think you've asked their names,
To see pictures of them.
Like, it's kind of hurtful to me, considering
I've expressed how big of a deal they are to me.
- Really? We're gonna have an argument about your dogs?
Like, there's so much more to be talked about.
♪ ♪
- Yeah, you're right.
♪ ♪
- ♪ turn around ♪
♪ ♪
♪ like I've done ♪
♪ ♪
- Ready to meet your brothers?
You can see your dada.
This will be charlie's first time meeting his new brothers.
I'm a little nervous because they really have to get along.
Um, our marriage kind of depends on it.
You have to be a good boy, okay, charlie?
Getting rid of anyone's dog is never an option.
And if they didn't get along, I don't know
What other option we would have.
[dog barking] what's happening, charlie?
[dogs barking]
- Hey.
Hey, hey, hey, hey, hey. Hold on.
- I'm imagining this scenario is not gonna go well.
And it's just gonna be a dog royal rumble.
[dogs barking] - hey, calm down. Kodah. Kodah.
- But charlie understands dog language.
So he's cool, calm, and collected.
He's a good boy.
[upbeat music]
- Kobe, kodah.
Go ahead.
- Charlie, come here, baby.
- Come here.
Go ahead.
- Just being dogs, doing their thing.
- Oh, they're getting along, though.
No aggression. - That's good.
I mean, they honestly couldn't care less about each other.
But that's great.
This is the dullest playdate I've ever been to.
But it's saving our marriage from potential disaster.
- Huge relief. The temperament's good.
But the apartment has a two-dog limit rule.
And between me and nicole, we have three dogs.
So it's definitely not ideal.
You know, obviously, I don't ever want charlie
To be separate from you.
And you know, we'll definitely have to talk
About figuring out how to get them all together.
- I'll be sad to be without charlie for a little.
But I know he's in good hands.
And you'll just have to give me extra attention
When charlie's not there
Because I'm used to it from him.
So I'll just be as needy as the dogs.
- I can give you your puppy cuddles.
It's okay. [both laughing]
- Thank you.
♪ ♪
- ♪ I am free ♪
♪ I am me ♪
♪ I am who I want to be ♪
- And we're back.
♪ ♪
- Well, that didn't go as planned.
- The start to married life is becoming real
As our couples are faced with the fact
That they are living with someone they hardly know.
- You gonna grab it? - You got it.
- Oh, okay. - You got it.
- Oh, okay. - You got it. Let me see.
Let me check your muscles. - Weak. Weak.
- Living together can really make or break a couple
Because it requires a tremendous amount
Of cooperation and compromise.
Both partners are often used to living life
On their own terms.
And now they need to look outside
Their own personal wants and needs
In order for cohabitation in their marriages
To be successful.
♪ ♪
- Oh, buddy. Are you excited?
- He'll eventually lay down.
- Huh? Are you excited?
He's all jazzed up.
[upbeat music]
So what do you think?
Like, maybe I take the second bedroom?
You take the first bedroom?
Like, do we try that?
Or do we progress to that?
Because I want to try to make it work.
You know, at least giving it an honest shot.
- Yeah.
I just don't want to, like, feel forced.
♪ ♪
And by, like, just moving right in, where we're at right now,
I feel like that is forcing something.
So I'm just not feeling ready for us to move in together.
♪ ♪
[tense music]
- I think it would be healthy in the relationship
For us to have more exposure to each other.
So that's my perspective, is like,
Hey, let's give it a shot.
But if she's not comfortable with that,
Then absolutely I'm not--
I'm not gonna force anything.
- I don't want to get to the end of, like,
The eight weeks and then we're just
Going through the motions of, like, trying to make it work
For the sake of that we signed up for this.
Do you know what I mean?
- Yeah.
♪ ♪
[tense music]
♪ ♪
- Well, what's the plan?
- What do you mean?
- Are you just-- is that bag coming in here?
Or no?
- Um, honestly,
Just, like, not really feeling it right now.
♪ ♪
Like, I'm not gonna have petty arguments.
- My dogs aren't petty to me.
So that's a petty argument for you but not for me.
Um...
- The last thing I want is for, like, this to spiral.
You know, like, I feel like it's pretty--
Like, the energy right now, I feel like, is manageable.
You know what I mean?
Like, I'm not feeling like,
"oh, I hate his guts," you know.
- I don't hate your guts by any means.
And I've expressed multiple times
That you're a great person.
I feel like I've been spiraling since the honeymoon.
♪ ♪
And I feel like every day there's something else
About me that you don't like.
And I've made compromises over and over,
Whether it's horseback riding, the sailboat, the dogs.
But I just feel like there's no compromise on your end.
And it's just been over and over
Of things I'm doing wrong.
And-- - what do you mean?
'cause you're making it seem like I just,
Like, expect everything to be perfect, like...
- I honestly felt like
That's what you expected on the honeymoon.
♪ ♪
- I expected you to want to do more.
I expected, like, not to have to, like,
Push you to do things.
Like, it is mentally exhausting for me
To always have to be the smiling face,
The supporter,
The one to pull things out of you
That you might not want to do.
Like, it is exhausting to me.
♪ ♪
- I don't know what to say.
I just feel like complete [beep] since the honeymoon,
That I ruined your time,
That I'm some super negative [beep]
Who cracks bad jokes.
- I mean, you don't think that I feel bad?
Like, I felt quite [beep] too.
So-- - I don't--I'm not sure why.
Like, I didn't make a single complaint
About you the entire trip.
♪ ♪
- I just can't right now.
Like, the negative attitude,
The pettiness, and then, like,
No apartment, and all these things
Just kind of combining for me, it's just like...
I cannot.
So, yeah, it's fine.
No, I'm not moving in.
I'm gonna go home and take a bath.
♪ ♪
- Yeah.
- I think we both need our space.
So I guess we'll wait to see what pastor cal has to say.
- Yeah.
♪ ♪
- ♪ I'm bringing the fire ♪
♪ I'm ultraviolet ♪
- I'm really looking forward
To speaking with pastor cal.
- I don't know. For me,
I might be a little bit nervous.
I'm like, what is he gonna be asking us?
- It's kind of like the teacher is coming in.
- The pastor.
[knocking]
- Oh, my gosh.
Hello.
- Hi.
I'm meeting with the couples because it's time
For them to start having those important conversations
That will shape their marriage.
- Oh, man.
What's up, pastor?
- It's good to see you again, brother.
- What's up, man?
- What are their positives?
What are their compatibilities?
What are their compatible differences?
Can this person be someone that you can spend
The rest of your life with?
We believe it can be,
But it's now time for them to find out
And to dig deep and get those answers.
So let's talk.
Let's talk.
I want to know how you're doing, okay?
How was the wedding?
When the doors open, you came walking down the aisle,
What did you think?
- Oh, I was relieved.
Like, I thought-- I was like okay, he's--
I thought he was fine, so easy on the eyes.
- Fine. Okay. All right. - Yeah, I was--I was happy.
- He a'ight. [laughter]
- Pastors hate too. I'm learning something new.
- Oh, whatever. Whatever, man.
Ain't no hate.
Then you had the honeymoon.
- Then we had the honeymoon.
- Mm-hmm. And?
- Um...
- Hey. I'm--I'm here--
I'm here to dive deep, man.
- So on the honeymoon, I was kind of like stressing
Because my wife is like very, very, like, attracted to me
And into me.
And I'm not on that same level yet.
Like, it's not equal.
♪ ♪
- Is she physically attractive?
♪ ♪
- She's physically attractive,
But I feel like people have types.
- I'm not his type.
- Really?
How did you feel about that?
- I mean, do I want him to, like, be attracted to me
And want to rip my clothes off? Yeah.
But... - Say that again.
[laughter]
- Do I want him to be attracted to me
And want to rip my clothes off?
- Uh-huh. - Yeah.
- Like, that's one of the reasons
I was, like, stressed out on the honeymoon.
'cause I felt that.
So I was feeling almost like guilty almost.
Like, you know, why don't I feel the same way?
- Yeah.
- Normally it's like the other way around.
Like, I'm a very sexual person.
And like, then I see the hotel suite in jamaica.
We got, like, a private shower.
Like normal single me, I'm on the balcony going crazy.
It's secluded.
Like, I'm making an r&b video in this--in this bathroom.
But my mind wasn't there.
So I'm trying to figure out, like,
Bro, what's wrong with you?
Like, the mental pressure, like maybe I'm making it--
- You making it a whole big thing.
♪ ♪
This is your marriage.
You can make this whatever you want to make it,
Or you can destroy it, you know,
Based on how you think and what you tell yourself.
- Right. - You know,
Is there any kind of physicality
Between the two of you?
- We hold hands.
You know, like, if we're sitting
Like at a restaurant or a dinner, you know,
There's, like, skin-to-skin contact.
- How does that make you feel when that happens?
- I mean, it feels natural.
It feels--it feels normal.
I don't feel forced to do it.
- I think that is a big thing right there.
♪ ♪
And I'm wondering how much of your feelings
Have to do with this whole process.
- Yeah, because it's a lot.
- It's a lot. - Yeah.
- And I know quite often, especially for strong people,
It's like, I don't want nobody telling me what to do.
I don't want nobody to put me in no situation
Where I got to perform. - Mm-hmm.
- Right.
- And sometimes that can kind of shut you down.
Right?
- That makes sense.
- So I want you to do me a favor.
Jasmine, can you let him know,
What is it that you really like about him?
♪ ♪
- So I really like that you are honest.
I have always been kind of told what I need to hear.
And so with you, you always, even if you think
It's gonna hurt my feelings, you are very open and up front.
I like that about you.
I like that you have work ethic.
Like, you're ready to go to work.
You're ready to be better.
Like, you are always striving for more.
Also, I like that you make me feel comfortable too.
Even if we're not, you know, where we need to be,
He still tries to make sure that I'm comfortable.
- How does it make you feel to hear her say that?
- Um, it makes me feel good, you know?
Like I'm doing some things right.
I feel like it's a solid foundation.
Like, we have, like, something to, you know, build off of.
- Yeah.
Tell her what you like about her.
- I love that, like, you work with kids.
Like, I think that's super awesome.
I feel like you're a great role model,
And a person for them to look up to and aspire to be.
I love, like, how close-knit you are with your family.
And you're like a go-getter.
You know, you're like juggling, like, cheering,
Breeding dogs, doing aesthetician stuff.
You know, you just-- you got your hands
In a lot of different places.
And I like that you're not just in one lane.
Like, I told her this, like, if we had kids
And I was terminally ill, and they was like,
You got a week to live, I would, like, died peacefully,
Like, knowing, like, my kids are, like, in good hands.
And I can't say that about, like--
I've learned that quick.
- When you talk about who she is and the kind of--
And her heart, her values, who this woman is,
That's what you need to focus on and fall in love with.
Now, to your credit, you know,
You're not saying, "I'm out of here."
- Exactly. - Right.
Because you realize her value.
- Yes.
- And want to be seen for more than just my value.
- I want to be desired. - Yeah.
You want me to be-- you want to be desired.
You want to look at me, like she said,
What the heck, rip--you know, rip off my clothes.
You know what I mean? - Yeah.
- I mean, if it's natural for you, hold her hand,
Or however you choose to have physical contact,
And the more talking about things
And just speaking to the positive,
The more attraction is going to happen.
♪ ♪
You guys are at a point
Where you can create something incredible.
- I feel like y'all matched me with what I needed.
- Yeah. - And I feel like I understand.
I get it.
♪ ♪
- ♪ even if you take your time ♪
♪ I'm going all in ♪
♪ ♪
- ♪ space, I want to feel it ♪
♪ I want to feel it ♪
♪ I need some space ♪
- How's it going, guys?
- It's going. - Yeah. It's going.
We've got a lot to discuss.
We've got a lot for you.
- Gina, you know, your expression
Just said, like, 100 words.
- I know.
I'm guilty of that.
- Gina's still reluctant to move in.
I think there may be still some contention
Around some comments that I made.
So I'd like to air the laundry,
Make sure we're on the same page,
So we can cleanly move forward.
♪ ♪
- All right.
Let's talk about the marriage.
Let's talk about expectations
And where it started to derail. - Yeah.
- Because initially, when you saw him, you were like, okay.
- For him I was like, okay, like, I love his beard.
He's got good hair.
I love--like, I'm always, like, digging
For the gold and what I find--
If I had to pick out attractive features,
I'll typically pick out the attractive
Before I'll pick out the unattractive.
But the, like, "slender, athletic" comment
On the honeymoon really struck a chord.
- Typically, the girls that I have dated
Are very athletic, slender.
So, I mean, that's just the type of mold
That I'm attracted to.
- It befuddles me.
Because I look at the two of you,
And I'm like, what the heck?
Because, I mean, you cannot sit here
And honestly tell me that this woman is unattractive.
- Oh, no. Never--never said that.
I apologized. I learned from it.
That is no longer in my vernacular.
And you know, I want to be as adaptable as possible.
- You know, there's also been disparaging comments
Towards me, like "gingers."
- I don't really vibe with redheads
Or, like, gingery features.
- Mm-hmm.
That's something you're just like,
Oh, okay, ginger, ginger, ginger.
You don't just throw that term out there
And you're not absolved of it.
- Well, I guess that's where I, like, didn't think that
It was offensive, because it is so openly used
In the hair world.
But weight is something that's an accusation.
It's not a fact.
And so to point out someone's weight,
It almost made me feel like, well, what does he think?
I'm like lazy?
Like I don't work out?
Or don't-- - no, no, no.
When I say athletic, I mean athlete,
Like somebody that is considered--
- But how do you know that I'm not an athlete?
- Because we talked about--
- If I do hiit workouts six days a week, like that's--
- Because we talked about the things that we do.
- I can hold your ass in the gym.
- Oh, I'm sure-- - that's what an athlete is.
- You probably could.
- This whole thing has started to derail
With some really ridiculous comments.
If you start off and you sabotage it by talking about,
You know, what we don't like about each other,
What kind of crap is that?
Nobody in any relationship will ever succeed
Using that method.
It just doesn't work.
♪ ♪
I understand here that you didn't move in.
- Yeah.
I just feel like it would be
More beneficial for us to, like,
Spend a little more time really getting
To know each other without the pressure
Of feeling like we need to check off a box.
- I understand how you feel that way.
- Yeah. And so-- - but that's not--
That's not right.
The only time I encourage couples to take time apart
Is if there's major hostility.
This notion of, hey, let's take some time away
And figure it out,
Who are you figuring it out with?
No.
Let's just be honest with ourselves.
The intention of not moving in together
Was actually a step in you not being together.
♪ ♪
I've seen couples go through much worse than this.
- Yeah.
- But the question is for you, because it's not my call,
I need to know, are we moving forward,
Or is this the day that we decide
We're getting a divorce?
Because if you continue to be separate,
Let's call it what it is.
It's a step towards your demise.
♪ ♪
- So let's make some decisions.
♪ ♪
- I'm a person of conviction.
And when I say I'm gonna do something,
I commit.
So I want to spend our time,
Like, hanging out and growing.
Like, whatever semblance of a foundation we have,
I think there are some very strong points.
- Yeah.
- And I'm committed to you.
So I want to continue.
♪ ♪
- I'm not one to give up either.
So I definitely want to take this time
To, like, continue to get to know one another
And--and see if we can really make it work.
- What do you think the first step should be?
- I think the moving in, for me, is just still--
I don't feel in my soul right about it.
- Why? - Right this second.
Um, I just felt like it would be worse to move in
And, like, sleep in separate bedrooms.
I feel like that's just automatically
Setting us up for failure, like, in the beginning.
And that's what I would-- if we move in together,
That's what I would feel most comfortable doing.
Because we need to be well rested.
And so I'm like-- I just don't--
- Well, even if-- - I'm just not there yet.
And I don't know how to explain it, but--
- That's okay. I hear you.
But even if you sleep in different bedrooms, I get it.
- Like, that feels worse than just like--
- Well, then don't.
Clint, do you-- do you want gina to move in?
- Yeah.
I mean, I think in order for us to grow,
We have to have more exposure.
- And just communicating with each other
And start speaking some of the positive things
Into each other's lives. - Yeah.
- Because you're this guy, you have your success,
You do your thing, but you like to have a good time.
- Sure. - Yeah.
- You need that.
You need that part of him.
And there are parts of her
That you really need in your life.
What are you feeling right now, gina?
- Um...
I don't know.
- Now, come on. Let's talk it out, hon.
- No, I do need that.
♪ ♪
But it's just hard to take steps
That you're, like, super uncomfortable with.
And I feel like I still don't feel good about the decision.
And so-- - about the decision?
- Like, just to move in and stuff.
Like, that's not where I'm at.
- Okay.
We'll take it day by day.
- Yeah.
♪ ♪
- You both are deciding to give this another try.
Is that fair to say?
- Yeah. - It's fair.
- So this means that we've got to push
Through some uncomfortable feelings.
♪ ♪
It's tough. - Yeah.
- Marriage requires sometimes
An incredible amount of personal sacrifice.
And the reason people don't make it in marriage
Now a lot of times is because they're
Not willing to do that.
It's all, I want to do what I want to do.
Well, then you don't want to be married.
- ♪ is this right for me ♪
- If you're not willing to change,
You're not willing to be married.
You have to change.
- Yeah.
- That's the beauty of it.
- ♪ I can't tell if it's right for me ♪
- ♪ shake it up in a small town ♪
♪ revved up, now it's going down ♪
- Look, it--
It's a new home, buddies.
- Hello, my three boys.
Hi.
I'm really excited that chris's dogs are moving in.
And, obviously, I wish charlie could be here too,
But charlie is with my dad.
And I still get to visit him every day.
So it's kind of a win-win for now.
- Check it out.
Come on. Check it out.
- ♪ living it up ♪
- They're going right to the bathroom.
- No. That's what they have to do.
They have to check every room. - Yeah.
- Making sure we're safe. That's all.
How was your day, otherwise?
- It was good.
I'm just happy we're moved in.
We have the dogs.
We have each other.
And now we can just be a married couple.
- Just--
- Oh, you like me? - Yeah.
Kobe loves you.
- You're like your new mom?
That's very sweet.
- Do you like her? Huh?
You got a mommy now. You look happy.
- It's about time, dad.
- He's, like, smiling. So happy.
[dog panting]
- Um, kind of--not trying to get into a big topic,
But one of the things I really want to talk about
Is, I know both of our leases are up at, like, the same time.
- Yeah.
- I mean, it literally ends, like,
Pretty much at the end of all this, like, experience,
But everywhere makes you give a 60-day notice.
So I have to let them know this week, unfortunately.
And I know you have a couple more weeks than I do.
- I have two weeks, so not that much.
- It's one of those things, like,
We definitely need to talk about,
Because we've had an amazing start,
And we're heading in the right direction.
But I don't want to be rushed into making a decision of,
Like, where to live after decision day.
You know, obviously, neither of us
Have ever lived with anybody before.
So this is, like, uncharted territory for both of us.
And it's one of those things where, like,
If we have forever together, like,
What's the rush to move in right away?
I kind of feel like we should rather take our time
Finding the right place for us.
- Oh.
- So I was thinking that we just renew
For, like, nine months, if that's an option for you.
That would give us till next summer.
We'd just have sleepovers and stuff.
So...
♪ ♪
- I would think it would be very hard to go back
To not living together, and living alone,
And not wanting to see each other.
Are you at all concerned if we live separately
That we'll kind of fall into a pattern of,
Well, we live separately,
We don't ever need to live back together.
Or we'll see each other every day,
But then maybe it's five days a week,
And then maybe it's two days a week.
Like, are you concerned at all we'll fall into dating,
But in a negative way?
- Yeah, I mean, I can see, I guess,
A little bit of the concern there.
But just thinking realistically about it too,
Like, let's say we do make it through this,
And then--but, like, you know, a couple of months after,
We run into problems.
Like, it's very possible.
Like, it's one of those things--
- I'm not listening.
- No, I'm not saying it's going to,
But I'm just trying to think in terms of that too.
Because, like, it's a big decision.
♪ ♪
- If we're living apart and we have to start
Making plans to see each other, that just feels like dating.
And if we're really gonna have a life together,
It involves us living together.
So I'm not okay with living separately
Until we figure something else out.
And it's stressful because, especially with your partner,
You want to be on the same page,
Especially with these big lifelong decisions.
Like, if we weren't on the same page here,
That could be a reason for us not to stay together.
♪ ♪
- ♪ it's all or nothing ♪
- ♪ we are fire ♪
♪ burning fire ♪
♪ ♪
- So what's going on, guys?
- I mean, there's a lot going on right now.
- Well, let's go back to the wedding.
Tell me, how was it?
- We had a great time. - Our families
Really, like, just mesh, which was crazy.
Like, when I walked out,
My family was talking to her family.
I'm like, is this a family reunion?
- It felt like a family reunion.
♪ ♪
- Now that you're actually married,
I mean, is it anything like you thought?
- It just feels natural, honestly.
Like, he doesn't feel like a stranger.
He's been overly communicating.
- Overly communicating. You hear that?
- Yeah. Uh-huh. Good. Good.
Let's talk about--let's talk about guys on your honeymoon.
- [sighs] we had the debate.
I feel like you play and joke around a lot.
- You don't like the sense of humor though?
- A little sense of humor. - What's a little?
- It's a time and place for everything.
- What's a little? - Like--
- What's a little?
- If you're going overboard, then I'll be like,
Okay, shaquille, enough.
♪ ♪
And I kind of told him, like, going forward,
Like, if I have a problem or an issue, I'll let you know.
But I don't want to always point every single thing out
That I have a problem with.
- What was the issue?
- He was just joking or whatever.
And I didn't feel like it was a need to joke.
And I told him it's a time and place for everything.
But with his big personality and the person that he is,
That's what he does.
- Let me tell you something.
I've been married for a while.
And my wife thinks I'm corny with my jokes.
Right?
But I don't care.
I will tell them.
It'll be a bad joke, I tell it.
And she's like, oh, god.
But you know what? - Oh, my god.
- Here's the thing.
You're gonna have to just brush it off and realize,
This is his sense of humor.
You don't have to always like it.
You understand what I'm saying?
- Mm-hmm.
- See?
You can honestly live with me being corny.
Even if you don't like the joke,
Just allow me to be happy in the moment.
♪ ♪
- It's okay to have fun and joke around and play,
But it's like, I want that emotional connection.
I feel like that builds the chemistry,
Like, on an emotional level.
Because the chemistry has to be there in the marriage.
- So I want to know, is there any chemistry there?
♪ ♪
- Not really.
[tense music]
- Yeah. - No.
- What do you think?
- I think there's some chemistry there.
♪ ♪
Like, when we go to sleep at night, like,
She's laid up on me, and then, you know, we'll separate.
- There's gotta be something,
At least a basic chemistry experiment, you know.
- Right. - Yeah.
- You know, I kiss her forehead.
You know? - Okay.
So, I mean, it's there.
It's just taking a while.
And I have to let my guard down
And express myself to shaquille.
- Yes.
Yes.
'cause I have a feeling here
That you will take the weight on yourself
And not say nothing and just bear it,
Hoping it'll just go away.
- Yeah.
- Am I right? - That's right.
- That's what your husband's for.
- Yeah. - And I tell her that.
When we talk, I said, you know, if you ever feel like--
Like I'm not doing something, or you want more,
Or anything, like, tell me.
If something is on your mind, tell me.
- Right. Right.
Your needs, your desires, your requirements in marriage,
They have to be clearly communicated to him.
Or else you're expecting him to respond
To something that you're feeling,
Not something you're communicating.
We can do anything for you if we know what that thing is.
- I know. I know. It's a lot.
Like, just being vulnerable and opening up.
Like, I don't typically express how I feel.
- Right.
What happens when you never let people in?
- I never get what I deserve or what I want out of life.
So I'm learning that.
- Unless you can give it all to yourself, which you can't.
♪ ♪
- I feel like I've been more vulnerable than kirsten.
Like, I've really been laying my life out
As far as the injury, school.
- You're an open book.
- I really am an open book.
- But I asked you those questions about your injuries
And stuff like that.
- But the thing is, I always--
If I ask something, she'll pivot it back to me.
- Okay.
Next time we'll just keep it all on me.
- All on you.
- So you're going to have to provide
A safe place for her.
And that's gonna require you to blindly trust him.
Okay?
♪ ♪
You guys are the perfect example of a power couple,
Of what it can look like.
You really are.
Because I think you both are going in the same direction.
You both want the same things out of life.
It can happen with you guys.
But it also, the same power-- because you both
Are very strong people.
You're doing things on your own.
So it could either be a great success, or it could be...
[mimics explosion]
♪ ♪
- ♪ you got me speechless ♪
[bird chirping]
♪ I've been thinking about giving you my heart ♪
- Look at you.
You guys look good together. - Yeah.
- You really do.
- We think so. - I'm happy.
I mean, we were happy that we've been hearing
That things are going great,
That you guys are just moving along swimmingly.
- Yeah. I mean... - Smooth sailing so far.
- Yeah, I mean, it's been way better than I expected.
- Right. Right. Right.
And how do you feel about this guy?
- He's the best.
We have so much in common
That it feels like it's not real.
- Well, very good.
I mean, that's awesome.
I know that you have so many similarities with my lovely
Nicole here. I know.
She's a strong personality.
- Yeah.
- That's never been a secret, right?
How is--how is her personality?
- Honestly, she's been great.
I know she said at times she can be very intense
And a little hotheaded at times,
But I honestly haven't seen that.
♪ ♪
- You have seen it.
This is a terrible picture.
I hate everything about it.
Whoever picked this, you suck.
This is a [beep] wedding photo, and you suck.
Don't you want us to stay married?
And this is the picture you want us to use to represent?
- Do you have any fear that she'll blow up on you?
- Not at the moment. No.
- Not at the moment.
- I mean, you will have to hear me complain
Because I look to you for comfort.
And you are very calming and make me feel better.
But I don't think that I would ever take it out--
- Well, and like, I've learned from past relationships not--
I mean, I used to get walked over in past relationships.
It's not a secret.
Like, I definitely have learned to have a backbone,
And definitely stand up and be like--call things out.
But honestly, with her, I feel like I can be that open
And I can be that honest and up front with her.
Like, for example, when we talked about--
The big discussion about our leases and everything,
That's a big decision.
And that was one that I wanted to make together
Because it's gonna impact both of us.
So-- - yeah. Okay.
So why--what is the decision?
- We're renewing both of our leases for nine months.
- Why?
- Because we want to take our time,
Like, finding a perfect place.
And also things are going great right now,
But, like, we don't want to be homeless, like--
- How would you be homeless?
- If things didn't work out.
- You have to start acting as though
You're going to be married forever.
- Yeah. I fully appreciate that.
It's just one of those things, like,
We'd rather be safe than sorry in this situation.
- I agree with pastor cal.
I think married couples should live together,
But I don't want to rock the boat.
I would rather not add that stress to our relationship.
So I'm gonna just go with it.
- I'll give you two weeks living apart,
And you guys are gonna be finding a way to be together.
Let me tell you something about you guys.
Because you can make this marriage whatever you want.
And if you both, as you do right now,
If you both want this to succeed,
It's going to succeed.
All right?
But I want you to know, you're gonna hit some roadblocks.
You're gonna hit some challenges.
And when those things happen, remember the fact
That you really, really like each other.
All right. Have you guys used-- no one has used the l word.
- No. - No.
- But what do I ask you every day?
- You ask if decision day was today, what would I say?
- And what do you say every day?
- I say yes.
- You ask him every day?
- Every day.
- Every--tell me why.
- So it kind of started as a joke,
But now it's kind of like a temperature check.
Like, are we still saying yes 100%?
Are we saying maybe?
- Here's what I want you to kind of
Just give some pause to.
- Yeah.
- Now, right now, things are going great.
- Right. - So that works.
If you had a bad argument and all of a sudden
You're feeling like, "I don't know if I like this guy.
I really don't like him right now,"
And you ask him that question,
When you're in a valley and not on a mountain,
It's going to affect you guys. - Yeah.
- Because all of a sudden, okay, oh, god,
My marriage is in trouble. Oh, okay.
Okay. What's wrong? Okay.
It's gonna send you into an unnecessary tailspin.
- I really appreciate pastor cal
And all of his wisdom,
But I'm gonna ask him
What he would say on decision day,
Because I like it.
And I don't give a [beep].
♪ ♪
- Your--your foundation here is pretty strong.
- Yeah.
- But has that led to intimacy in your marriage?
- We have been intimate as of this week.
- Yeah. - Awesome.
Awesome. Awesome.
Did that bring you closer?
- Yes. - Yeah, it did.
- So then--so then as far as the intimacy is concerned,
Has it been sort of an equal initiation?
- Yeah. - It just started.
- You didn't have to break down walls?
- No. It just started.
So, you know, as soon as you guys are out of here,
Maybe... [laughter]
Maybe we wrap this up a little early.
- I like that--[laughs]
- It was almost like in a movie.
Like, we both just looked at each other
And we were like... - It's time.
♪ ♪
- Hello. - Hello.
♪ ♪
- Mack and I have not spoken
Since I decided not to move into the apartment.
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I am big on positive vibes only.
Like, I don't like to give energy to negative situations.
And the negative attitude, the lack of adventurousness,
Those are not energies,
Those are not things that I need in my life.
[knocking]
- Hello. Hello.
- The man of the hour.
You've got some explaining to do.
- No, I don't.
You've got some explaining to do.
- Would you like a drink?
- No. I'm gonna pass.
- Okay. - Thank you.
How are you doing?
You guys are married.
- We are. - Yeah.
- Okay. - We are.
Indeed. - Yeah.
- [sighs] - all right.
You are poised for battle.
I'm just looking at you, your posture.
You are poised for battle.
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Why?
- Because we both have some concerns.
- About what?
- He feels like there are things,
Like, on the top of his list that he asked for in a spouse
That he didn't get. - Okay.
- And then I also feel the same way.
- What's at the top of your list that you didn't get?
- Like, outgoing,
You know, someone more positive,
Like, more optimistic, adventurous.
You know, like-- - adventurous.
And he's not adventurous?
- Over the honeymoon, I kind of felt like
I was like, come on.
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- You don't take risks?
- No, I do take risks.
But like, if we're talking adventure and sailing
And riding horses, you know, maybe once a month.
But you know, coming into this,
I did want somebody that was somewhat more extroverted,
But like not somebody so adventurous as dom.
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- So you didn't--you didn't give us the measurement?
- To an extent, I guess, that's--
So that's up there.
And then dom is a dog person.
She doesn't claim that she's, like, not a dog person,
But I have different standards and stuff for my dogs.
- You know dogs on the bed was a deal breaker for me.
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- That can be compromised.
Do your dogs have to sleep in the bed?
- I mean, they don't have to.
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- I want you to see that some of this is absurd.
This is all stuff that can be compromised
When two people care about each other.
Did you want marriage,
Or did you want marriage on your terms?
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- I mean, I--I wanted marriage,
But I didn't think that I was gonna get someone
That was a polar opposite of me.
- He is not a polar opposite to you.
- We're in agreeance.
- Well, then you guys lied.
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Honestly, when we put you guys together,
We had so much faith that this was going to be a good match.
You both expressed that you wanted
A certain amount of independence
In your relationship.
You didn't want a needy spouse.
And domynique, you need somebody
Who's going to be there for you,
Who's going to be a protector,
Who's going to be honest with you,
Who's going to be faithful.
You asked for an older, more mature man,
Somebody who's going to be a stable person
That you can build a long-term life with.
And mack, you asked for someone
Who is going to pull you out of your shell.
And you wanted a go-getter just like yourself,
Who can grow with you, and somebody
Who can accomplish things and build a family
And just enjoy life together.
And we gave each of you what you asked for
And what you needed.
The question here is,
Have you guys even given it a chance?
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- I wanted someone who was more established,
Like, secure in their place, where they are in life.
Taking into consideration, like, how old he is,
I expected more.
And then, like, you didn't want to find a place
And, like, sign a lease,
But you wanted to jump into a marriage?
Like...
- So what?
People make decisions about their lives
That we might not always agree with,
But they have a right to make those decisions.
Marriage is when two people come together,
And they decide, you know what?
Let's build a life together.
We're going to make different decisions now together.
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I know the man ain't broke.
- I felt judged by the basement thing,
Because you could have taken me to a corner in a tent,
And I wouldn't have been less attracted to you.
And I feel like that was your takeaway
From the basement thing.
- It's just a turnoff for me.
Like, if you would have had four roommates,
That would have been better.
- I would rather live in a basement
Than have four roommates. - I don't understand.
How is having four roommates better?
- Because then he would have had his own space.
You know what I mean?
Like, he would have, like, had a place--
- I have two bedrooms and a bathroom.
- Are you gonna let me talk, bro?
Jeez louise, I'm not talking over you.
- You're right. You're right. My apologies.
- So what do you want-- what do you want to do?
[tense music]
- I don't know. Like...
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I'm--honestly, like, I'm just kind of over it.
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- What does that mean, "I'm over it"?
I'm over this conversation?
I'm over the marriage?
What does that mean?
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- ♪ you've got it ♪
- Next time on "married at first sight"...
- ♪ you've got it, it all ♪
- We had a nice little candlelight dinner.
- How romantic did the honeymoon get?
- Did we have sex?
- Communication is, bar none, best I've ever had.
- So we got a housewarming coming up.
- I'm not coming.
- So is it like a personality clash?
- I didn't feel respected.
She basically told me I was a fake person.
- I feel like no wasn't an acceptable answer.
And I am-- you know I'm very honest.
- My concern is that I'm gonna be the one to--
- You're gonna be the [bleep].
- I'm gonna be the [bleep].
- So do you want to be married?
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- You are going to regret this.
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