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- You look very beautiful.
- Thank you.
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- Ten singles put their trust
in the experts
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In order to find love.
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They married
as complete strangers.
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- ♪ so real ♪
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- Last time, our couples
continued to work
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On creating a new,
shared world together.
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- ♪ have a good time ♪
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- Gina and clint.
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- ♪ so fit and flirty ♪
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- It's nice for us
to have that time together.
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Maybe that'll spark
some romantic feelings.
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Let's hit the town.
- ♪ so real ♪
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- Nicole and chris.
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- Appearance-wise,
I said beautiful smile,
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Beautiful face, beautiful eyes.
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But I did say, like,
a little--little thicker
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Than I normally go for.
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[music slows to halt]
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But not in a bad way.
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- Please just avoid
"the thick,"
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Because this is
something that could
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Potentially be hurtful to me.
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- Jasmine and airris.
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- Never have I had sex
with other people watching.
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- You've never had a threesome?
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- [clears throat]
no. More like a orgy.
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- I had told him I wanted
to have deeper conversations,
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But him, like,
talking about sex,
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Um...That ain't it.
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- Kirsten and shaquille.
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- And I know it's hard for you
to just open up
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To a person that you just met.
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But hey--hey, we married.
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We started with commitment.
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But it's like, I honestly don't
want decision day to come
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And I'm still feeling
how I do now.
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- ♪ now that you're back
in the life ♪
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- Congrats.
I mean, we've made it a month.
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- Ok.
- Clink, clink, clink, clink.
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- Tonight, our couples
celebrate a major milestone
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In their relationship.
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- How's the intimacy level
or the chemistry level?
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It's like--I just feel like
it's really little.
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I'm like, what in the hell?
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- Like, I've put in a lot
into past relationships,
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And it felt very one-sided.
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- If you try to make
everybody happy,
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You won't make anybody happy.
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Chris is a nice guy.
You know what he needs?
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He needs a little big dick
energy here, is what he needs.
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- I was kind of closer
towards being checked out.
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- How much time for you
to let down that guard?
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♪ ♪
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- I'm letting it down
day by day.
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- I don't see it.
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♪ ♪
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- ♪ it's all or nothing ♪
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- This is
"married at first sight."
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- ♪ there's no other way ♪
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♪ it's all or nothing ♪
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- ♪ live it up ♪
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♪ raise your cup ♪
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♪ we'll keep dancing
till the sun is coming up ♪
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- I gotta get to work.
- Ok.
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- So I'll talk to you
when I get back.
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- All right,
I'll finish everything up.
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- Which one do you want?
Pick one.
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- That--that one.
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Thank--ooh.
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- With the one-month
anniversary
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Just around the corner,
our couples will need
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To remind themselves
of the commitment they made...
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- You just grab it by the--
- yeah, just grab it.
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- The bottom of it,
the base of it.
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I never knew this is
what it took to repot a plant.
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- And focus on the needs
of their partners
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Before they have to make
that fateful decision
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Whether to stay married
or get a divorce.
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- I want to start baking.
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- Baking?
- Mm-hmm.
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- I make chocolate soufflés.
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- That's next level.
- It's...
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- I was just trying
to make a cake.
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- Not easy.
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♪ ♪
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- I'm really ready
to get my feet in here.
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♪ ♪
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- Can you believe it's been
one month since the wedding?
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- I feel like it was yesterday.
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- We got married, went on
the honeymoon, moved in.
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You know what I'm saying?
Within 30 days.
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- And that is not you.
[laughs]
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- It's still taking me
some time
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To, like, open up to him,
and be vulnerable.
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And he's patient, but I'm like,
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We still have to have,
like, conversation,
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Because I don't want him
to go into decision day
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Feeling like he doesn't know me
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Or, like, I didn't
give my all to him.
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- Mm-hmm.
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- Like, I appreciate
you being patient,
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But we still have to,
you know, continue to work
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And pour into each other
and put in the effort.
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Like, if he's there,
I want his attention.
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I want him to hold me
and talk to me
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And really connect with me.
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That'll make me
feel comfortable.
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- Mm!
- Yeah. So--
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- 'cause I mean, wedding day,
he was all over you.
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- I know.
- I'm shocked to hear this.
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So how do you feel, like--
in the one month,
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Like, that--
did that change from--
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Was it, like, a peak of that,
and then that changed?
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- I definitely feel like
our marriage has been
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Up and down
depending on the day.
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With real life sinking back in
and us going back to reality,
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That's a totally
different shift.
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So...
- Mm-hmm.
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- Some days he comes home
and he does make time for me
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And he does talk to me,
and then sometimes it's like,
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You know, like, I'm tired.
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It does make me
a little upset,
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And it makes me feel
a little rejected
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And question this marriage.
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Like, are we going to be able
to continue this marriage
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If he's not giving me
that attention?
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Like, the attraction has grown
between shaquille and I.
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And I think that shaquille,
maybe he's still feeling it
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A certain way
by, you know, me not being
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Physically attracted to him.
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But we're supposed to be
moving past that.
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We're supposed to be
in the present
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And focusing on the future.
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I said,
"when you walk in this house,
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"like, you need to hug me
or kiss me.
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Like, you can't just walk in
and be like, 'oh, hey.'"
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Like, how can that build
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The connection
or the chemistry?
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- Right, right.
- Like, how do I feel wanted?
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Like, I'm working on
trying to show you this,
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But, like, if you're pulling
back and holding back now,
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That's not going to help
our chemistry grow.
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It's not going to help
our marriage grow.
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Like, both of us can't have
walls up in this marriage,
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Because it won't
make it anywhere.
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- ♪ this is how
you do it now ♪
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- Hello!
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- Hi, guys.
There they are.
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- Hi, boys!
- Here they are.
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- Calm down, boys. Calm down.
- Hi, boys.
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Hi.
- Calm down.
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- I'm really excited that
my dad is coming over tonight
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To see our apartment
and talk to chris
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Outside of the wedding.
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This is our home.
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- Ok.
Then they--and there they go.
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- This is our kitchen.
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- All right.
Well, this is chris.
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- This is--yes, my husband.
- Hi. Ok.
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- Remember him from the wedding
a few weeks ago?
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- Yeah, I didn't remember
his name for a second.
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- Oh, no. It's all good.
- It's all right. It's ok.
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- My dad is definitely
very vocal and opinionated.
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He was so nervous
before I married chris
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Because he didn't
really understand
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Why I was doing this.
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So I'm really happy
he gets to see chris
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And spend time with him and see
how we're living together.
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This is our living room.
- Ooh, very nice.
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- And this is our collection
of pineapples and...
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Both: Dinosaurs.
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- You've noticed she has
an interest in dinosaurs.
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- Oh, yeah. Yeah.
- Can't get enough dinosaurs.
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- Dinosaurs and pineapples.
That's all her.
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- And this is our bedroom.
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- Is this where you sleep,
chris?
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- Yeah, I sleep right there.
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- Only when he's
not in trouble.
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- Mark has been very skeptical
since the beginning.
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- Well, son...
- How are you doing?
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- I'm ok. How are you?
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- I can--I can wait
and earn the--
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- The "dad," yeah.
- To call you dad.
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It's fine. I get it.
- Yeah, it's like--
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We'll talk anyways.
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- Yeah.
- We'll see.
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- Totally comfortable
and understandable
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That he doesn't want me
to call him dad yet.
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But it is very important to
have family members' approval.
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He obviously means
the world to nicole.
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So I'm hoping
now that he's met me
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And sees
the type of person I am,
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That he's starting to feel
a little more at ease.
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And I am hoping
that mark really sees
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That this marriage is working.
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So how--how have you been?
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- I have been good.
I'm glad I was able to come by.
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I wanted to check up
and see what was going on.
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- Yeah.
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- She says only nice things
about you.
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- That's good.
- You know?
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How are you feeling
about all this?
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Are you ready to be married?
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I mean, do you feel married,
as a thing?
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- Yeah, yeah, I definitely
feel married.
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You know, we have
a really good time together.
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She takes care.
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Like, she's, like,
an awesome mom to the dogs.
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Like, she takes
really good care of them.
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She loves spending time
with them.
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And she gets up
earlier than I do, so--
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- I'm a night owl,
so I can understand
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Where you're coming from.
- Same. Same.
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There's been times where I'm--
I feel myself
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Waking up a little bit earlier
and earlier every day.
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But it's not quite
the same level as her.
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- My advice is,
you want to change--
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If you want to change
your hours
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Or she wants to change
her hours,
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Which she probably won't,
that's great.
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But don't change
because you want--
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You think
that's what she wants.
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You need to be your--you need
to be true to yourself.
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- It just feels really easy.
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Like, it feels like
we've been together
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For a lot longer
than almost a month.
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So, like, it's crazy to think
it's already been that long.
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But at the same time, like,
I feel like I've known her
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A lot longer than that.
- Ok.
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And that is fantastic,
and I love to hear that.
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But now let me just throw
a little cold water
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On all that.
- Yeah.
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- First of all,
you're in the honeymoon stage,
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Which you know, you're still
on honeymoon stage.
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And second of all,
relationships are not easy,
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As you know.
Marriages are not easy.
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Nicole is not easy.
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If you take a step back, she's
gonna take a step forward.
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If you take a step back,
she's gonna take
247
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Another step forward.
248
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And then you're gonna lose
sense of self.
249
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Don't--you can take
a step back,
250
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But make sure you take
a step forward.
251
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You don't want to be
codependent on her, you know.
252
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"if you're happy, I'm happy"?
You be happy.
253
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If you're happy,
she'll be happy.
254
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- Oh, yeah.
No, for sure.
255
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And I've realized that
from past relationships.
256
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Like, I've put in a lot
into past relationships,
257
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And it felt very one-sided.
258
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- If you try to make
everybody happy,
259
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You won't make anybody happy.
260
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[tense music]
261
00:09:01,250 --> 00:09:02,766
- Chris is a nice guy.
262
00:09:02,793 --> 00:09:04,751
You know what he needs?
I'm gonna say it on camera.
263
00:09:04,869 --> 00:09:07,679
He needs a little big dick
energy here, is what he needs.
264
00:09:07,681 --> 00:09:09,697
It's not taking
anything away from him,
265
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Because he's a good--
he seems like a great guy
266
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And everything else like that.
267
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He doesn't need
to be a neanderthal,
268
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And he doesn't need
to have to thump his chest.
269
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But you can be an alpha
quietly and confidently.
270
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And I believe he has
that quiet confidence.
271
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He just needs to show it.
272
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♪ ♪
273
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[upbeat music]
274
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- ♪ baby, I'll be all right ♪
275
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♪ I'll be ok ♪
276
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♪ let me spend a moment ♪
277
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♪ take it day by day ♪
278
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♪ baby, I'll be all right ♪
279
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- What up, bruh?
- You good?
280
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- Always good to see
another married black man.
281
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- [laughs]
282
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Oh, man.
283
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My first time seeing you
since you got married.
284
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How has it been?
285
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- It's been.
286
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It's been going.
287
00:09:54,052 --> 00:09:58,062
- Is it anything you expected?
288
00:09:58,064 --> 00:10:00,156
- I don't know what I expected,
so I'm just--
289
00:10:00,183 --> 00:10:01,883
I'm in it, you know.
290
00:10:02,001 --> 00:10:04,085
We've got the one-month
anniversary coming.
291
00:10:04,146 --> 00:10:05,662
It's crazy that it's
already been a month.
292
00:10:05,689 --> 00:10:07,889
- One month.
- Time flies, like...
293
00:10:08,007 --> 00:10:09,482
She ain't had no--
she ain't having no baby
294
00:10:09,601 --> 00:10:10,908
If she ain't had no--
295
00:10:10,910 --> 00:10:12,669
- Oh, no. No, no, no.
No, ain't--
296
00:10:12,696 --> 00:10:15,171
- No honeymoon? None of that?
- None of that.
297
00:10:15,198 --> 00:10:16,673
- So y'all ain't done nothing?
298
00:10:16,700 --> 00:10:18,916
- Nah.
- What base you on?
299
00:10:18,918 --> 00:10:20,160
You been--you done tried
300
00:10:20,278 --> 00:10:21,961
And got denied,
or you just ain't tried?
301
00:10:21,963 --> 00:10:25,423
- I'm in the parking lot.
I only got my uniform on.
302
00:10:25,425 --> 00:10:27,834
- Yeah, the--
a whole month, no sex.
303
00:10:27,952 --> 00:10:30,261
That's--
- a whole month. Newlywed.
304
00:10:30,263 --> 00:10:32,597
- You a virgin again.
That's crazy.
305
00:10:32,599 --> 00:10:34,007
You got married
not to have sex.
306
00:10:34,125 --> 00:10:35,525
It's--
- [laughs]
307
00:10:35,552 --> 00:10:37,268
- It's kind of backwards,
but right.
308
00:10:37,270 --> 00:10:39,362
- This whole process
is backwards, so--
309
00:10:39,389 --> 00:10:41,439
- You think she waiting on you
to initiate something,
310
00:10:41,441 --> 00:10:43,608
Or do you think
that you waiting on her?
311
00:10:43,610 --> 00:10:45,093
- She's waiting on me.
312
00:10:45,211 --> 00:10:46,870
But she's already--
she feels the energy.
313
00:10:46,897 --> 00:10:47,854
Like, I've already--
314
00:10:47,972 --> 00:10:49,689
- What energy is that?
315
00:10:49,808 --> 00:10:52,709
- I told her I wasn't, like,
physically attracted to her.
316
00:10:52,736 --> 00:10:55,378
So it don't make me feel
like the best person
317
00:10:55,405 --> 00:10:58,865
Or, like--
but I got to be honest.
318
00:10:58,983 --> 00:11:00,625
I'm not saying,
like, she's ugly.
319
00:11:00,627 --> 00:11:02,051
I don't think
anybody would say that.
320
00:11:02,079 --> 00:11:03,628
Like, she's just not,
like, my normal type.
321
00:11:03,630 --> 00:11:05,780
- She's just not your type.
- There you go.
322
00:11:05,898 --> 00:11:07,707
- So what do you need from her?
Because you're hung up on--
323
00:11:07,826 --> 00:11:09,893
- I just need a--
I just need a vibe, man.
324
00:11:09,920 --> 00:11:11,211
- Is--we hung up--
- ok.
325
00:11:11,329 --> 00:11:12,954
Have you ever been--
you ever seen a chick
326
00:11:13,072 --> 00:11:15,732
That maybe, like, she might
not be, like, your type,
327
00:11:15,759 --> 00:11:17,217
But maybe her swag, right?
328
00:11:17,335 --> 00:11:19,068
- Right.
- Maybe she dress crazy.
329
00:11:19,096 --> 00:11:20,403
Like, maybe she a sneaker head.
330
00:11:20,430 --> 00:11:21,738
She just always fly.
- Yeah.
331
00:11:21,765 --> 00:11:22,980
- That might make her
attractive.
332
00:11:22,982 --> 00:11:24,741
Or she hella funny.
333
00:11:24,768 --> 00:11:26,000
Like, y'all just be
cracking up.
334
00:11:26,061 --> 00:11:27,560
That makes you attracted.
- Right.
335
00:11:27,679 --> 00:11:29,245
- I don't have--
- any of that.
336
00:11:29,272 --> 00:11:30,655
- I don't have any of that.
337
00:11:30,657 --> 00:11:32,081
But I'm still
learning about her.
338
00:11:32,109 --> 00:11:33,249
- That's what I'm saying.
Like, if she has to--
339
00:11:33,276 --> 00:11:35,418
- So maybe, like,
I'll find something.
340
00:11:35,445 --> 00:11:37,311
- I don't know how to feel
about all the information.
341
00:11:37,430 --> 00:11:42,091
I thought that this process
went kind of smoother
342
00:11:42,119 --> 00:11:43,668
And better for him.
343
00:11:43,670 --> 00:11:45,094
I feel like
it's rough for him now.
344
00:11:45,122 --> 00:11:46,663
So I kind of feel for my boy.
345
00:11:46,823 --> 00:11:48,389
I hope things can get better.
346
00:11:48,391 --> 00:11:49,857
That's not the news
that I wanted to hear.
347
00:11:49,918 --> 00:11:52,009
So what do you plan to do
to make it better?
348
00:11:52,011 --> 00:11:53,678
Like, do you have a plan
to try to make it better,
349
00:11:53,680 --> 00:11:55,362
Or you just like,
"[bleep] it"?
350
00:11:55,424 --> 00:11:58,683
- I feel like just going out,
continuing to date.
351
00:11:58,685 --> 00:12:00,109
And, like, even though
we're married...
352
00:12:00,137 --> 00:12:01,094
- Right.
- It's like, we're--
353
00:12:01,212 --> 00:12:02,503
- So you guys date each other--
354
00:12:02,622 --> 00:12:03,947
- It seems like
a backwards process, right?
355
00:12:03,974 --> 00:12:05,949
So I feel like we gotta date
and go out and do stuff
356
00:12:05,976 --> 00:12:09,543
And just create those vibes,
create those good moments.
357
00:12:09,604 --> 00:12:10,954
- Y'all have a--
358
00:12:10,981 --> 00:12:12,530
Do y'all have the time
and opportunity to date,
359
00:12:12,532 --> 00:12:14,340
Or y'all schedule
is just so booked up?
360
00:12:14,359 --> 00:12:15,783
- Our schedules
are so different.
361
00:12:15,785 --> 00:12:18,278
But, you know,
there are moments.
362
00:12:18,396 --> 00:12:19,854
So we gotta, like, kind of
take advantage of those.
363
00:12:19,972 --> 00:12:21,873
- Yeah.
364
00:12:21,875 --> 00:12:24,451
- I'm hopeful
that things will improve.
365
00:12:24,569 --> 00:12:26,393
But I need help.
366
00:12:26,555 --> 00:12:27,996
Like, I don't really know
what to do, you know.
367
00:12:28,114 --> 00:12:31,458
So--but I'm open to listening
to--whether it's harold,
368
00:12:31,576 --> 00:12:33,977
Whether it's johnny,
whether it's chee,
369
00:12:34,004 --> 00:12:36,454
Whether it's fallina,
whether it's dr. Pepper,
370
00:12:36,572 --> 00:12:38,831
Whether it's pastor cal, like,
371
00:12:38,950 --> 00:12:41,017
Hopefully I have a tribe
of people that,
372
00:12:41,019 --> 00:12:42,409
Like, you know,
kind of help me and point me
373
00:12:42,471 --> 00:12:43,711
In the right direction.
374
00:12:43,830 --> 00:12:44,912
It's not like I'll just--
375
00:12:44,973 --> 00:12:45,972
I'm just throwing in
the towel...
376
00:12:46,090 --> 00:12:47,398
- Yeah.
- And I'm just, like,
377
00:12:47,400 --> 00:12:49,642
Not making any effort
or trying to do anything.
378
00:12:49,761 --> 00:12:51,585
Like, that's not
what's going on.
379
00:12:51,646 --> 00:12:54,088
- My advice is, if you think
she need more,
380
00:12:54,149 --> 00:12:55,573
You need to either
give it to her
381
00:12:55,575 --> 00:12:57,000
Or ask her then what she want.
382
00:12:57,027 --> 00:12:59,002
Because if both of y'all
are not talking,
383
00:12:59,029 --> 00:13:00,153
Then she--you got to think.
384
00:13:00,271 --> 00:13:01,671
She could say
the same thing about you.
385
00:13:01,698 --> 00:13:03,247
- Right.
386
00:13:03,249 --> 00:13:04,340
- Y'all got a lot
of catching up to do.
387
00:13:04,367 --> 00:13:05,750
- Yeah.
388
00:13:05,752 --> 00:13:06,868
[soft dramatic music]
389
00:13:10,648 --> 00:13:13,516
[upbeat country music]
390
00:13:13,676 --> 00:13:18,320
♪ ♪
391
00:13:18,481 --> 00:13:19,964
- Feeling good about
this redneck bus tour.
392
00:13:20,083 --> 00:13:22,025
It's "where caviar meets
collard greens."
393
00:13:22,052 --> 00:13:23,802
♪ ♪
394
00:13:23,920 --> 00:13:25,452
- Well, I was--
I was born in arkansas,
395
00:13:25,514 --> 00:13:27,196
So I can teach us all
the redneck jokes on the bus.
396
00:13:27,224 --> 00:13:28,940
- There we go.
- Yes. I love that.
397
00:13:28,942 --> 00:13:31,034
- I was born in houston,
texas, so I'll teach you
398
00:13:31,061 --> 00:13:32,368
All the cool southern things.
399
00:13:32,395 --> 00:13:33,703
- All right.
400
00:13:33,730 --> 00:13:34,979
- Got nothing to contribute
but joy.
401
00:13:35,098 --> 00:13:37,941
- Ok.
We're glad to have you.
402
00:13:38,101 --> 00:13:41,285
- I'm super excited that
chris and nicole invited us
403
00:13:41,287 --> 00:13:44,355
To a comedy bus tour today
to celebrate
404
00:13:44,473 --> 00:13:46,215
Our one-month anniversary.
405
00:13:46,243 --> 00:13:48,142
I've never really been
doing a lot
406
00:13:48,203 --> 00:13:50,628
Of these tourist-type things
in nashville.
407
00:13:50,630 --> 00:13:52,296
So this will be fun.
408
00:13:52,298 --> 00:13:53,873
And yeah, I think it'll be
an awesome double date.
409
00:13:53,992 --> 00:13:55,558
- All right.
410
00:13:55,585 --> 00:13:57,043
Well, good afternoon,
ladies and gentlemen.
411
00:13:57,161 --> 00:13:58,611
Welcome to nashville.
412
00:13:58,630 --> 00:14:00,939
Thank y'all for taking
the redneck comedy tour bus
413
00:14:01,057 --> 00:14:02,398
With us today.
414
00:14:02,558 --> 00:14:04,342
How long y'all been married?
415
00:14:04,460 --> 00:14:06,035
- About one month, exactly!
- One month!
416
00:14:06,096 --> 00:14:07,904
Whoo!
- One month exactly.
417
00:14:07,931 --> 00:14:09,388
How long y'all been married?
418
00:14:09,507 --> 00:14:10,698
Both: One month.
- Yeah.
419
00:14:10,700 --> 00:14:12,358
- Y'all been married
one month too?
420
00:14:12,360 --> 00:14:15,052
Both: Yep.
421
00:14:15,171 --> 00:14:16,795
- It was a buy one,
get one free.
422
00:14:16,815 --> 00:14:18,990
[laughter]
- we got swingers on the bus.
423
00:14:18,992 --> 00:14:20,558
[laughter]
424
00:14:20,676 --> 00:14:23,252
- You know, gina and I,
we're taking it slow,
425
00:14:23,280 --> 00:14:25,195
And--but we're
growing collectively.
426
00:14:25,197 --> 00:14:28,557
Things were very regressive
in the honeymoon,
427
00:14:28,618 --> 00:14:30,093
And now things are building.
428
00:14:30,120 --> 00:14:33,337
So we're getting
to a much better point,
429
00:14:33,339 --> 00:14:35,390
And that's encouraging for me,
and hopefully
430
00:14:35,392 --> 00:14:37,858
It's encouraging
for this one too.
431
00:14:37,919 --> 00:14:39,418
- Well, I'm gonna do y'all
a favor.
432
00:14:39,420 --> 00:14:41,311
I'm gonna teach you how
to talk like a redneck.
433
00:14:41,313 --> 00:14:42,455
First word--turest.
434
00:14:42,573 --> 00:14:43,631
All: Turest.
435
00:14:43,750 --> 00:14:44,807
- Turest.
All: Turest.
436
00:14:44,809 --> 00:14:46,259
- We got "bless your heart."
437
00:14:46,377 --> 00:14:47,993
- Oh, bless your heart.
438
00:14:48,013 --> 00:14:49,679
How many of you heard that
since you've been here?
439
00:14:49,839 --> 00:14:51,723
Momanem.
You know what that is?
440
00:14:51,841 --> 00:14:53,616
- Momanem. How's your momanem?
441
00:14:53,643 --> 00:14:55,593
- Momanem?
- How's your mom and them?
442
00:14:55,711 --> 00:14:59,088
Momanem.
- Oh, oh, like my mom and them.
443
00:14:59,149 --> 00:15:01,365
- Here's my favorite
redneck word.
444
00:15:01,367 --> 00:15:02,883
You're going to love this one.
445
00:15:02,885 --> 00:15:04,702
Cooter.
Both: Cooter!
446
00:15:04,704 --> 00:15:05,870
- You know what a cooter is?
447
00:15:05,872 --> 00:15:07,371
- Sure do.
- Yep.
448
00:15:07,373 --> 00:15:09,523
- A cooter is
something you can eat.
449
00:15:09,642 --> 00:15:11,951
[music slows to halt]
450
00:15:12,070 --> 00:15:13,578
- Well, I know--
451
00:15:13,696 --> 00:15:15,771
That's--that's what
they're saying in biology.
452
00:15:15,932 --> 00:15:17,290
- It's not a female body part.
453
00:15:17,408 --> 00:15:18,899
We call that a beaver.
454
00:15:18,960 --> 00:15:20,293
- Oh!
455
00:15:20,411 --> 00:15:22,053
- Yeah.
- [laughs]
456
00:15:22,055 --> 00:15:23,554
- A cooter is a turtle, y'all.
457
00:15:23,556 --> 00:15:25,222
It's a type of turtle.
- A turtle?
458
00:15:25,224 --> 00:15:26,240
- What?
- Yeah.
459
00:15:26,301 --> 00:15:27,316
Y'all ain't never heard
of that?
460
00:15:27,344 --> 00:15:28,559
- No, I've never heard that.
461
00:15:28,561 --> 00:15:29,543
Oh, naked people.
- Look. Naked people.
462
00:15:29,662 --> 00:15:31,228
- All the naked people.
463
00:15:31,347 --> 00:15:32,388
It's tallywackers and beavers.
464
00:15:32,548 --> 00:15:34,215
- There you go.
Tallywackers and--
465
00:15:34,333 --> 00:15:36,525
[laughs]
- he's good. He's good.
466
00:15:36,527 --> 00:15:38,661
- If y'all look over here
to your left,
467
00:15:38,688 --> 00:15:41,830
We've got historic
rca studio b.
468
00:15:41,832 --> 00:15:44,867
We've got the legends corner,
tootsies orchid lounge.
469
00:15:44,869 --> 00:15:46,653
Hey, have y'all been
in robert's?
470
00:15:46,771 --> 00:15:48,321
- Baloney sandwich.
- Yeah.
471
00:15:48,439 --> 00:15:50,097
- Fried baloney sandwich.
472
00:15:50,158 --> 00:15:53,009
That's--we're going
right there.
473
00:15:53,036 --> 00:15:55,495
We're about to pull up
here at the ole smoky
474
00:15:55,613 --> 00:15:57,346
Moonshine distillery.
475
00:15:57,374 --> 00:15:58,572
I've had a great time.
476
00:15:58,691 --> 00:15:59,924
Have y'all had
a good time today?
477
00:15:59,926 --> 00:16:01,926
[all cheering]
- sure did.
478
00:16:01,928 --> 00:16:08,132
♪ ♪
479
00:16:09,602 --> 00:16:11,002
- Hello, hello.
- How you doing?
480
00:16:11,120 --> 00:16:12,578
- Hi.
- Well, come on in.
481
00:16:12,697 --> 00:16:14,605
- Wow.
- Have a seat.
482
00:16:14,607 --> 00:16:15,940
- All right.
483
00:16:15,942 --> 00:16:17,791
- Got y'all a little tasting
lined up for you.
484
00:16:17,852 --> 00:16:19,427
- All right.
- Yeehaw.
485
00:16:19,545 --> 00:16:20,653
- And we are gonna start out
one of our tried and true
486
00:16:20,655 --> 00:16:21,521
Flavors right here, ok?
487
00:16:21,639 --> 00:16:23,088
This is our apple pie.
488
00:16:23,108 --> 00:16:25,449
- Good old americana apple pie.
489
00:16:25,451 --> 00:16:26,709
- There you go.
- Yeah.
490
00:16:26,736 --> 00:16:28,211
- To one month for all of us.
- Cheers.
491
00:16:28,238 --> 00:16:31,230
- May we always have full cups.
492
00:16:31,348 --> 00:16:33,932
- I love it. America.
493
00:16:33,952 --> 00:16:35,451
- That's nice.
- Whoa!
494
00:16:35,611 --> 00:16:37,278
- All right.
This is salty caramel.
495
00:16:37,396 --> 00:16:39,021
♪ ♪
496
00:16:39,082 --> 00:16:40,431
- Ooh!
- Cheers.
497
00:16:40,433 --> 00:16:41,749
- Hey, cilantro.
498
00:16:41,868 --> 00:16:43,509
♪ ♪
499
00:16:43,511 --> 00:16:45,061
Put that in pancakes.
500
00:16:45,088 --> 00:16:46,153
- Yeah, I want that
on my pancakes.
501
00:16:46,214 --> 00:16:48,822
- Exactly.
- This is mountain java.
502
00:16:48,883 --> 00:16:50,091
- All right.
- Yeah.
503
00:16:50,209 --> 00:16:51,992
♪ ♪
504
00:16:51,994 --> 00:16:53,252
- That's good.
- That's so good.
505
00:16:53,370 --> 00:16:56,431
- This is a pb&j shot.
506
00:16:56,549 --> 00:16:57,831
- Mm.
- Mm.
507
00:16:57,892 --> 00:17:00,484
- Yeah. Oh, yeah. Yeah.
- That is nuts.
508
00:17:00,486 --> 00:17:01,894
- I think I love you. Yeah.
- [laughs]
509
00:17:02,013 --> 00:17:03,563
- Wayne.
- Sorry, but--
510
00:17:03,681 --> 00:17:05,156
- She hasn't said that
to me, yet, so...
511
00:17:05,158 --> 00:17:06,991
- Wayne, you're stealing
all of our girls now.
512
00:17:06,993 --> 00:17:08,417
[laughter]
513
00:17:08,445 --> 00:17:10,069
- I--I've already been
spoken for.
514
00:17:10,188 --> 00:17:11,662
Just saying.
- Oh. Good for you.
515
00:17:11,664 --> 00:17:12,922
- How long have you
been married?
516
00:17:12,949 --> 00:17:14,331
- I've been married
for six years.
517
00:17:14,333 --> 00:17:15,499
- Oh, wow.
- Wow.
518
00:17:15,501 --> 00:17:16,759
Do you have any advice for us?
519
00:17:16,786 --> 00:17:18,335
We're freshly on our one month.
- One month.
520
00:17:18,337 --> 00:17:19,746
- One-month anniversaries
are coming up,
521
00:17:19,864 --> 00:17:21,172
And you look very wise.
522
00:17:21,174 --> 00:17:22,932
- I would say honesty.
523
00:17:22,959 --> 00:17:24,742
Honesty is one of those things,
because you can always
524
00:17:24,860 --> 00:17:26,527
Verbalize it,
and if you hold it in,
525
00:17:26,588 --> 00:17:28,771
It doesn't help anything.
526
00:17:28,798 --> 00:17:30,364
- That's good. I like that.
527
00:17:30,425 --> 00:17:31,941
- We've been told
we're too honest.
528
00:17:31,968 --> 00:17:35,444
- Yeah.
[laughter]
529
00:17:35,472 --> 00:17:36,912
- So how have
you guys been doing?
530
00:17:36,973 --> 00:17:38,264
Does clint do all the cooking?
531
00:17:38,382 --> 00:17:39,523
- Clint does
most of the cooking.
532
00:17:39,525 --> 00:17:40,783
- Gina's cooked.
533
00:17:40,810 --> 00:17:42,376
- I've cooked
a little bit, yeah,
534
00:17:42,437 --> 00:17:45,863
- And gina has been
a very willing helper.
535
00:17:45,865 --> 00:17:47,005
- It seems like
you two are working
536
00:17:47,025 --> 00:17:48,507
Well together as a team.
537
00:17:48,509 --> 00:17:50,217
- Yeah. Yeah.
- That's important, right?
538
00:17:50,278 --> 00:17:51,794
That doesn't come easily.
539
00:17:51,821 --> 00:17:53,871
- Yeah, and I think,
like, our--
540
00:17:53,873 --> 00:17:56,032
We had a big honeymoon
hurdle, obviously.
541
00:17:56,192 --> 00:17:57,358
- Sure.
542
00:17:57,476 --> 00:18:00,428
- And our biggest goal
was just,
543
00:18:00,430 --> 00:18:02,563
Like, have fun together,
and that's what we've done.
544
00:18:02,624 --> 00:18:04,307
Like we've just been like,
we're just gonna have fun,
545
00:18:04,334 --> 00:18:06,867
Like, and see
what grows from there.
546
00:18:06,986 --> 00:18:08,795
- How's hank been
adjusting to--
547
00:18:08,913 --> 00:18:11,722
- I think--I think
he needs to incorporate
548
00:18:11,724 --> 00:18:12,982
The last name webb.
549
00:18:13,009 --> 00:18:14,391
- [laughs]
550
00:18:14,393 --> 00:18:15,742
- Because I love that now.
I love that.
551
00:18:15,804 --> 00:18:17,228
- Do you think gina
needs to incorporate
552
00:18:17,230 --> 00:18:18,471
The last name webb?
553
00:18:18,589 --> 00:18:19,472
- Isn't that, like, standard,
I guess?
554
00:18:19,590 --> 00:18:21,123
- Yeah, I think that's--
555
00:18:21,284 --> 00:18:24,660
- Like, personally for me,
from a logistical perspective,
556
00:18:24,687 --> 00:18:25,919
I don't know
if you men know this,
557
00:18:25,980 --> 00:18:27,388
But it's a nightmare
to change--
558
00:18:27,506 --> 00:18:28,664
- I think that's--
559
00:18:28,691 --> 00:18:29,649
I think it's a little cop-out.
560
00:18:29,767 --> 00:18:31,000
- Well, no.
561
00:18:31,027 --> 00:18:32,759
I'm happy--I'm happy to do it.
562
00:18:32,821 --> 00:18:36,230
But I can't confidently, like,
go through all that paperwork
563
00:18:36,348 --> 00:18:39,458
Without knowing--or I can't
a month into this say,
564
00:18:39,576 --> 00:18:41,026
Like, I'm comfortable enough
with our relationship...
565
00:18:41,145 --> 00:18:42,578
- Fair. Fair.
566
00:18:42,738 --> 00:18:44,730
- To change my passport,
my social security card,
567
00:18:44,749 --> 00:18:45,865
Go to the dmv--
568
00:18:45,983 --> 00:18:47,125
- Oh, do you mean
change it right now?
569
00:18:47,243 --> 00:18:49,385
- Right, like, right now,
I can't.
570
00:18:49,387 --> 00:18:51,337
- For sure I want her
to take my last name one day.
571
00:18:51,455 --> 00:18:54,190
But, like, honestly, that can
wait until after decision day.
572
00:18:54,217 --> 00:18:55,341
I'm on--totally ok with that.
573
00:18:55,459 --> 00:18:57,101
- I'm going to take it.
574
00:18:57,103 --> 00:18:59,178
I just, it's--you know,
I haven't had the time
575
00:18:59,297 --> 00:19:01,438
To go to the social security
office and the dmv.
576
00:19:01,440 --> 00:19:03,107
I don't even have
a tennessee license.
577
00:19:03,109 --> 00:19:04,592
Don't tell anyone.
578
00:19:04,710 --> 00:19:06,369
- 12 months from now.
Let's use that as the context.
579
00:19:06,396 --> 00:19:08,871
- Oh, 12 months from now,
if we're still just as happy,
580
00:19:08,898 --> 00:19:10,614
I have no problem doing it.
581
00:19:10,616 --> 00:19:12,525
- Oh, yeah,
if we decide at the end of this
582
00:19:12,643 --> 00:19:16,362
It's a 100% successful
marriage, after a year, fine.
583
00:19:16,480 --> 00:19:17,471
- If we have--
584
00:19:17,532 --> 00:19:18,972
- So we're not
super concerned--
585
00:19:19,033 --> 00:19:21,642
- If we have kids, their last
name's gonna be webb.
586
00:19:21,703 --> 00:19:23,386
- [laughing]
oh, no.
587
00:19:23,413 --> 00:19:26,463
- Look at that.
- Hell yeah.
588
00:19:26,465 --> 00:19:28,616
This girl might be,
like, world-class.
589
00:19:28,734 --> 00:19:30,376
- World-class woman
right there.
590
00:19:30,494 --> 00:19:31,785
- [laughs]
591
00:19:31,904 --> 00:19:34,305
- ♪ ooh ♪
592
00:19:34,307 --> 00:19:36,373
♪ I won't give up on you ♪
593
00:19:36,492 --> 00:19:41,545
♪ I won't give up on you ♪
594
00:19:41,547 --> 00:19:43,589
- ♪ tick, tick, boom,
oh, yeah ♪
595
00:19:43,707 --> 00:19:45,049
♪ come on,
let's get it started ♪
596
00:19:45,167 --> 00:19:46,409
♪ tick, tick, boom ♪
597
00:19:46,436 --> 00:19:47,893
- I feel like
it's probably, like,
598
00:19:47,895 --> 00:19:49,519
A michael myers-type situation.
599
00:19:49,639 --> 00:19:51,546
- Oh, god.
600
00:19:51,608 --> 00:19:53,440
- How are y'all doing?
- Hi.
601
00:19:53,559 --> 00:19:54,658
- We're ready
to break some stuff.
602
00:19:54,660 --> 00:19:56,118
- All right.
603
00:19:56,120 --> 00:19:58,713
- So it's our one-month,
you know, anniversary
604
00:19:58,715 --> 00:20:00,965
And I have a date night
planned for me and jasmine
605
00:20:01,083 --> 00:20:02,825
To go to a rage room,
you know, because I've been
606
00:20:02,985 --> 00:20:04,810
Kind of feeling that she has
607
00:20:04,829 --> 00:20:06,337
A hard time
expressing her feelings.
608
00:20:06,339 --> 00:20:08,931
So maybe this is a better way
for her to let it all out.
609
00:20:08,958 --> 00:20:10,691
- All right, guys.
610
00:20:10,752 --> 00:20:12,743
Welcome to the rage room.
611
00:20:12,861 --> 00:20:15,421
You guys have two buckets
of breakable items.
612
00:20:15,539 --> 00:20:19,892
You can throw the glass
against the walls all day long.
613
00:20:19,894 --> 00:20:22,853
Your weapons of choice
are right here.
614
00:20:22,855 --> 00:20:25,080
And--
[ceramic crashing]
615
00:20:25,141 --> 00:20:26,507
That's how you do it.
- All right.
616
00:20:26,625 --> 00:20:28,041
- Have fun, guys.
617
00:20:28,102 --> 00:20:29,693
- I'm ready
to break some stuff.
618
00:20:29,695 --> 00:20:31,653
- Obviously you ready
to break stuff.
619
00:20:31,655 --> 00:20:34,564
- Just let it out,
whether you got to scream.
620
00:20:34,566 --> 00:20:36,767
It's a safe space, you know.
That's why we're here.
621
00:20:36,885 --> 00:20:38,794
Just get it all out.
622
00:20:38,821 --> 00:20:41,297
- You got anything
you got to get out?
623
00:20:41,324 --> 00:20:42,815
- Just the world, man.
624
00:20:42,933 --> 00:20:44,850
It's a crazy place.
I'm over. I'm over it.
625
00:20:44,869 --> 00:20:46,302
I'm over it all.
626
00:20:46,329 --> 00:20:47,453
I'm just ready
to just break [bleep].
627
00:20:47,571 --> 00:20:49,896
You know, tear it up.
- Ok.
628
00:20:50,058 --> 00:20:51,106
- ♪ you can't deny it ♪
629
00:20:51,167 --> 00:20:52,566
♪ you can't deny it ♪
630
00:20:52,585 --> 00:20:53,867
♪ you can't deny it ♪
631
00:20:53,986 --> 00:20:55,586
♪ you can't deny it ♪
632
00:20:55,705 --> 00:20:57,346
- I have frustration
I need to let out,
633
00:20:57,348 --> 00:21:00,541
Just because
I'm not really happy
634
00:21:00,701 --> 00:21:02,242
With where we are
in our marriage.
635
00:21:02,303 --> 00:21:04,136
- ♪ that's the sound of love ♪
636
00:21:04,255 --> 00:21:06,380
♪ that's the sound
of everything ♪
637
00:21:06,498 --> 00:21:08,432
- We haven't really
progressed in a way
638
00:21:08,551 --> 00:21:11,310
That I thought we would have,
like, coming into this.
639
00:21:11,429 --> 00:21:14,087
- ♪ oh, that's the sound
of freedom ♪
640
00:21:14,089 --> 00:21:15,572
- Before even
getting married,
641
00:21:15,574 --> 00:21:20,378
I was just eager to have
babies, build an empire.
642
00:21:20,380 --> 00:21:23,339
I feel like I've been preparing
to be a wife for years,
643
00:21:23,366 --> 00:21:28,661
And, you know, I'm not as
enthusiastic as I was before.
644
00:21:30,314 --> 00:21:32,456
I'm good at that.
645
00:21:32,575 --> 00:21:35,826
I'm trying my best
to be more open
646
00:21:35,944 --> 00:21:38,963
And to be more,
you know, optimistic.
647
00:21:39,081 --> 00:21:42,174
But I'm definitely overwhelmed
648
00:21:42,293 --> 00:21:44,493
And, you know, frustrated
with everything.
649
00:21:44,554 --> 00:21:46,303
Cheers.
650
00:21:46,305 --> 00:21:47,430
One, two, three.
651
00:21:47,590 --> 00:21:49,698
♪ ♪
652
00:21:49,726 --> 00:21:52,009
A lot is going to
have to change for us
653
00:21:52,011 --> 00:21:55,037
To actually have a shot at
having a successful marriage.
654
00:21:55,064 --> 00:21:56,964
♪ ♪
655
00:21:56,966 --> 00:21:59,275
But it feels good to let out
some frustration,
656
00:21:59,435 --> 00:22:00,860
You know, and break [bleep].
657
00:22:00,978 --> 00:22:02,211
- ♪ c'mon! ♪
658
00:22:02,238 --> 00:22:04,697
♪ oh, oh, whoo! ♪
659
00:22:04,815 --> 00:22:07,349
♪ oh, oh, whoo! ♪
660
00:22:07,351 --> 00:22:09,543
♪ oh, oh, whoo! ♪
661
00:22:09,545 --> 00:22:11,387
- Feel better?
- Yeah.
662
00:22:11,414 --> 00:22:11,996
♪ ♪
663
00:22:15,752 --> 00:22:17,584
[upbeat music]
664
00:22:17,703 --> 00:22:21,105
- Can you believe that
it's been a month already?
665
00:22:21,107 --> 00:22:22,473
- No.
666
00:22:22,475 --> 00:22:24,275
- It--it feels
like a month to me.
667
00:22:24,277 --> 00:22:25,775
- It do?
- Yeah.
668
00:22:25,777 --> 00:22:28,145
I feel like we've learned
so much about each other.
669
00:22:28,147 --> 00:22:31,164
- A one-month anniversary may
not be a typical milestone
670
00:22:31,225 --> 00:22:33,166
For most relationships,
671
00:22:33,227 --> 00:22:35,819
But these couples are
far from typical.
672
00:22:35,821 --> 00:22:37,563
- At one month, very happy.
673
00:22:37,681 --> 00:22:39,431
What about you?
Are you very happy?
674
00:22:39,550 --> 00:22:41,025
- Yeah, I'm excited.
675
00:22:41,143 --> 00:22:43,009
Wait till you see
what I have in store for you.
676
00:22:43,071 --> 00:22:44,828
- Over the past four weeks,
they've gone
677
00:22:44,830 --> 00:22:46,589
Through many ups and downs
678
00:22:46,616 --> 00:22:49,216
And pushed through setbacks
in order to allow
679
00:22:49,243 --> 00:22:52,428
Their relationships
to grow and evolve.
680
00:22:52,455 --> 00:22:54,914
So now is a perfect time
for them to reflect
681
00:22:55,032 --> 00:22:57,674
And celebrate
their journey so far.
682
00:22:57,676 --> 00:23:00,452
[energetic music]
683
00:23:00,571 --> 00:23:06,425
♪ ♪
684
00:23:06,544 --> 00:23:08,594
- Should we put a bag on you?
685
00:23:08,712 --> 00:23:10,471
You can be our mule?
686
00:23:10,589 --> 00:23:11,672
Huh?
687
00:23:11,832 --> 00:23:13,232
Hank, the mule?
688
00:23:13,234 --> 00:23:16,360
♪ ♪
689
00:23:16,362 --> 00:23:18,729
How many of these iv things
is it safe to drink?
690
00:23:21,442 --> 00:23:24,718
I feel like I need,
like, four more.
691
00:23:24,779 --> 00:23:27,254
This morning
I'm feeling a little rough.
692
00:23:27,256 --> 00:23:30,858
Last night, the--the good times
got ahold of me
693
00:23:30,976 --> 00:23:33,660
And continue to drag me
down the road.
694
00:23:33,662 --> 00:23:38,732
I found out moonshine comes
in 372 different flavors,
695
00:23:38,793 --> 00:23:42,269
And I like just about
every one of them.
696
00:23:42,296 --> 00:23:44,429
2:00 a.M. Pizza.
697
00:23:44,548 --> 00:23:46,390
But I have to push through it
698
00:23:46,392 --> 00:23:48,575
Because it's our
one-month anniversary,
699
00:23:48,636 --> 00:23:51,244
And we're going
to rutledge falls today.
700
00:23:51,305 --> 00:23:54,306
We're--we're doing
a little jamaica re-creation.
701
00:23:54,425 --> 00:23:57,309
You know, our whole journey
to the waterfall was insane.
702
00:23:57,428 --> 00:24:01,455
So hopefully it's going
to be a nice, easy trip.
703
00:24:01,457 --> 00:24:03,524
These roses look
as healthy as I feel.
704
00:24:06,103 --> 00:24:08,446
- So the big one month.
705
00:24:08,564 --> 00:24:09,655
- One month.
- Watch out.
706
00:24:09,773 --> 00:24:11,582
- What a landmark.
707
00:24:11,584 --> 00:24:14,251
- Don't you feel like
it's been really fast,
708
00:24:14,253 --> 00:24:16,102
But also, like, slow-mo?
709
00:24:16,164 --> 00:24:17,571
- Yeah.
710
00:24:17,689 --> 00:24:19,865
- Our one month of marriage
already feels
711
00:24:19,983 --> 00:24:23,093
Like three months of marriage
because you dive in so quickly
712
00:24:23,095 --> 00:24:26,839
Into things that you typically
wouldn't cover
713
00:24:26,957 --> 00:24:29,282
If you were in
a normal dating scenario.
714
00:24:29,343 --> 00:24:30,985
Ready, freddie?
715
00:24:30,987 --> 00:24:32,820
- I think so.
716
00:24:32,822 --> 00:24:34,771
- I think that clint and I
are definitely growing
717
00:24:34,773 --> 00:24:36,773
And just having a better
understanding of one another
718
00:24:36,775 --> 00:24:39,776
And getting to the crust,
like clint likes to say.
719
00:24:39,778 --> 00:24:41,094
[laughs]
720
00:24:41,213 --> 00:24:42,563
Ok, let's go!
721
00:24:44,783 --> 00:24:48,843
♪ ♪
722
00:24:48,905 --> 00:24:51,030
- ♪ I believe in love ♪
723
00:24:51,148 --> 00:24:55,275
♪ I'm walking kinda funky
but I don't care ♪
724
00:24:55,394 --> 00:24:56,443
- It would have been easy
just to do
725
00:24:56,562 --> 00:24:57,978
Flowers or something simple,
726
00:24:58,039 --> 00:24:59,955
But with how things
have been going,
727
00:25:00,115 --> 00:25:02,199
And how great she's been
and how supportive she's been
728
00:25:02,317 --> 00:25:04,150
With everything, with the dogs
and everything else,
729
00:25:04,212 --> 00:25:06,954
Like, I really wanted to show
my appreciation in a big way.
730
00:25:07,114 --> 00:25:08,522
I have a huge surprise
for nicole,
731
00:25:08,524 --> 00:25:09,790
And I can't wait to show her.
732
00:25:09,908 --> 00:25:11,283
- ♪ I believe in love ♪
733
00:25:11,302 --> 00:25:13,385
[toy helicopter beeps]
734
00:25:13,387 --> 00:25:16,121
[richard wagner's
"ride of the valkyries"]
735
00:25:16,140 --> 00:25:19,149
[dramatic orchestra music]
736
00:25:19,151 --> 00:25:21,668
♪ ♪
737
00:25:21,729 --> 00:25:23,203
Nicole.
738
00:25:23,231 --> 00:25:26,415
Hey.
[chuckles]
739
00:25:26,442 --> 00:25:27,858
- Hello.
- Oh.
740
00:25:27,977 --> 00:25:29,376
Hold on.
741
00:25:29,403 --> 00:25:30,494
Pretty sweet, huh?
742
00:25:30,496 --> 00:25:33,313
- Hello, mr. Drone copter.
743
00:25:33,432 --> 00:25:35,591
Is this how you're
going to deliver me
744
00:25:35,618 --> 00:25:36,650
Coffee in the morning?
Put it on a little--
745
00:25:36,768 --> 00:25:38,927
- Oh, yeah.
746
00:25:38,955 --> 00:25:41,221
- "let's"--oh,
"let's take our relationship
747
00:25:41,223 --> 00:25:42,990
To the next level."
748
00:25:43,108 --> 00:25:44,825
Ok. Playing with toys?
749
00:25:44,943 --> 00:25:46,159
I love that.
750
00:25:46,278 --> 00:25:48,845
- So we're taking
a helicopter ride today.
751
00:25:48,847 --> 00:25:50,163
[chuckling]
- oh, my god!
752
00:25:50,282 --> 00:25:51,582
Fun!
- So--
753
00:25:51,700 --> 00:25:53,417
- Chris is going
above and beyond.
754
00:25:53,535 --> 00:25:55,928
He does that every day,
but we're literally going
755
00:25:56,046 --> 00:25:57,930
Above and beyond
our great city.
756
00:25:58,048 --> 00:25:59,339
I've never been on one.
757
00:25:59,458 --> 00:26:00,857
That's so fun.
- I know. Neither have I.
758
00:26:00,859 --> 00:26:02,935
- I'm really looking forward
to doing this with him.
759
00:26:03,053 --> 00:26:04,270
I can't imagine anyone else
I'd want to be
760
00:26:04,388 --> 00:26:05,345
In a helicopter with.
761
00:26:05,464 --> 00:26:07,005
I cannot wait.
762
00:26:07,024 --> 00:26:09,667
- Happy one month.
- Happy anniversary.
763
00:26:09,785 --> 00:26:11,118
One month down,
plenty more to go.
764
00:26:11,120 --> 00:26:12,344
- There you go.
765
00:26:12,363 --> 00:26:13,862
Let's get ready.
- All right.
766
00:26:13,864 --> 00:26:16,723
[upbeat music]
767
00:26:16,884 --> 00:26:19,960
♪ ♪
768
00:26:19,962 --> 00:26:22,011
- Oh.
769
00:26:22,013 --> 00:26:25,457
"happy one-month,
shaq and kirsten."
770
00:26:25,576 --> 00:26:27,200
- Do you know how to skate?
- I do.
771
00:26:27,319 --> 00:26:28,869
I love skating.
772
00:26:28,987 --> 00:26:31,647
I don't always get
the chance to, but I love it.
773
00:26:31,674 --> 00:26:33,148
- This is the perfect
774
00:26:33,175 --> 00:26:35,208
One-month celebration
for shaquille and I.
775
00:26:35,327 --> 00:26:38,637
I love to skate, and I am
always telling shaquille,
776
00:26:38,756 --> 00:26:41,565
Like, "hey, my sisters
and my brothers,
777
00:26:41,567 --> 00:26:43,642
We all used to go
skating together."
778
00:26:43,761 --> 00:26:47,663
And I think it's so thoughtful
for him to create this for us
779
00:26:47,690 --> 00:26:50,390
To watch each other have fun
and laugh
780
00:26:50,550 --> 00:26:52,526
And dance on our skates.
781
00:26:52,645 --> 00:26:54,077
- Hoo, I can barely move.
782
00:26:54,079 --> 00:26:55,553
We should have--
maybe we should have
783
00:26:55,573 --> 00:26:57,323
Put these on before we put on
all this.
784
00:26:57,441 --> 00:27:00,400
- [giggling]
785
00:27:00,519 --> 00:27:02,903
[quirky music]
786
00:27:03,021 --> 00:27:04,071
- I didn't think
it was going to be
787
00:27:04,189 --> 00:27:05,438
This challenging getting ready.
788
00:27:05,440 --> 00:27:07,399
- Uh-huh!
- Ok.
789
00:27:07,518 --> 00:27:11,295
- ♪ it's so good
when we get it together ♪
790
00:27:11,413 --> 00:27:15,098
♪ I can tell
by the look in your eye ♪
791
00:27:15,100 --> 00:27:17,359
♪ but you know
that I'm gonna get ever ♪
792
00:27:17,386 --> 00:27:19,586
- Let me get on your back.
- Uh-uh.
793
00:27:19,705 --> 00:27:20,754
- I'm catching up
to come get on your back.
794
00:27:20,872 --> 00:27:22,256
- All right.
795
00:27:22,258 --> 00:27:25,734
- ♪ you're so good for me ♪
796
00:27:25,736 --> 00:27:28,646
- Kirsten is the way better
skater than I am.
797
00:27:28,764 --> 00:27:31,515
I'm not ashamed to say it.
798
00:27:31,517 --> 00:27:33,208
She's skating backwards.
She's doing tricks.
799
00:27:33,235 --> 00:27:34,726
She's dancing.
800
00:27:34,845 --> 00:27:36,336
And I'm like,
wow, like, I love it.
801
00:27:36,364 --> 00:27:39,106
[both laughing]
802
00:27:39,108 --> 00:27:40,991
We're in the moment
and having fun
803
00:27:41,110 --> 00:27:43,844
And just enjoying
some quality time together.
804
00:27:43,871 --> 00:27:46,463
[sighs]
805
00:27:46,465 --> 00:27:48,515
- You know I love
our time together,
806
00:27:48,517 --> 00:27:52,378
And I think this is a great way
to celebrate our marriage,
807
00:27:52,496 --> 00:27:56,139
By doing something fun,
and I really am enjoying
808
00:27:56,141 --> 00:27:57,466
Myself and enjoying you.
809
00:27:57,626 --> 00:27:59,126
[soft music]
810
00:27:59,244 --> 00:28:00,727
- Yeah, it's been great.
811
00:28:00,729 --> 00:28:04,056
These last few weeks has been
just a lot, from...
812
00:28:04,174 --> 00:28:06,800
Marriage and school and work.
813
00:28:06,918 --> 00:28:09,319
I really still can't believe
it's been a month.
814
00:28:09,321 --> 00:28:10,821
Like, it just seemed
like yesterday
815
00:28:10,823 --> 00:28:12,656
We was preparing
for the wedding.
816
00:28:12,658 --> 00:28:14,233
What?
- It feels like a month to me.
817
00:28:14,351 --> 00:28:16,159
- It does?
- Yeah.
818
00:28:16,161 --> 00:28:20,072
I really feel like we have
a bright future ahead of us.
819
00:28:20,190 --> 00:28:22,165
- What do you look forward to
the most, though?
820
00:28:22,167 --> 00:28:24,651
- Spending--spending time
in my life with you,
821
00:28:24,770 --> 00:28:26,319
Like, making memories.
822
00:28:26,438 --> 00:28:29,297
I can't wait for us
to start traveling together.
823
00:28:29,299 --> 00:28:31,825
- For me, what I'm
looking forward to most
824
00:28:31,943 --> 00:28:33,919
Is spending quality time
with your friends,
825
00:28:34,037 --> 00:28:36,588
Spending quality time
with your family.
826
00:28:36,707 --> 00:28:40,700
Like, family is a very, very
important aspect of my life.
827
00:28:40,720 --> 00:28:42,836
And it's always
about me learning
828
00:28:42,954 --> 00:28:45,597
Who you are around
different people as well.
829
00:28:45,716 --> 00:28:48,358
Like, there's so many
more factors to kirsten
830
00:28:48,360 --> 00:28:50,043
That I don't know about.
831
00:28:50,104 --> 00:28:52,679
It's kirsten the best friend,
kirsten the sister,
832
00:28:52,798 --> 00:28:54,865
Kirsten the daughter.
833
00:28:54,867 --> 00:28:59,870
I'm in tune to learning
kirsten all across the board.
834
00:28:59,872 --> 00:29:02,314
- I mean, in order to get
to know me like that,
835
00:29:02,432 --> 00:29:07,043
Like, you just really
have to be around me.
836
00:29:07,045 --> 00:29:09,379
- You don't think
I'd be around you, though?
837
00:29:09,381 --> 00:29:12,140
- I mean, sometimes.
838
00:29:12,168 --> 00:29:13,717
[tense music]
839
00:29:13,719 --> 00:29:16,720
Sometimes you are around.
But also, when you're around,
840
00:29:16,722 --> 00:29:18,722
We both still have
to be intentional
841
00:29:18,724 --> 00:29:20,649
When we're around
each other and have
842
00:29:20,676 --> 00:29:22,134
Intentional conversations.
843
00:29:22,252 --> 00:29:24,636
Like--and that's how
I let my guard down,
844
00:29:24,755 --> 00:29:27,130
Because I'm like,
"oh, I can trust shaquille.
845
00:29:27,249 --> 00:29:29,040
Like, he's focused
on me right now."
846
00:29:29,059 --> 00:29:31,159
Like, it gives me
that comfortability
847
00:29:31,187 --> 00:29:32,903
To, like, open up to you.
848
00:29:32,905 --> 00:29:35,314
♪ ♪
849
00:29:35,432 --> 00:29:37,057
- I definitely feel like
me and kirsten are still
850
00:29:37,175 --> 00:29:38,758
Not on the same page
when it comes back
851
00:29:38,819 --> 00:29:42,321
To us spending quality time
and everything,
852
00:29:42,439 --> 00:29:45,232
Because I've been around her.
853
00:29:45,350 --> 00:29:47,493
I've been a--we've--
we've been places.
854
00:29:47,611 --> 00:29:49,419
We've been in a moment.
855
00:29:49,421 --> 00:29:52,072
And it's always just give it
a little bit more time.
856
00:29:52,190 --> 00:29:53,665
So I'm like,
well, what do I have to do
857
00:29:53,784 --> 00:29:55,909
Differently when I'm around her
858
00:29:56,027 --> 00:29:58,186
To get that side of her?
859
00:29:58,214 --> 00:30:00,247
Well, how much time for you
to let down that guard
860
00:30:00,365 --> 00:30:03,008
To allow that to happen?
861
00:30:03,126 --> 00:30:05,585
- I'm letting it down
day by day.
862
00:30:05,704 --> 00:30:07,587
- Are you?
- Mm-hmm.
863
00:30:07,706 --> 00:30:08,588
Yeah.
864
00:30:08,707 --> 00:30:09,789
- I don't--
865
00:30:09,850 --> 00:30:11,791
I don't see it.
866
00:30:11,852 --> 00:30:13,869
Like, I don't be seeing
that you let your guard down.
867
00:30:13,896 --> 00:30:15,187
We talk about it.
868
00:30:15,305 --> 00:30:16,947
Like, today is all about,
like, moving forward,
869
00:30:16,949 --> 00:30:18,431
So I don't want to harp on it.
870
00:30:18,550 --> 00:30:20,025
But we always talk
about, you know,
871
00:30:20,143 --> 00:30:21,710
Getting to that next stage,
and then we always
872
00:30:21,737 --> 00:30:23,286
End up in the same place.
873
00:30:23,288 --> 00:30:25,447
- Well, starting today,
since we're talking
874
00:30:25,607 --> 00:30:28,959
About moving forward,
we're going to do just that.
875
00:30:28,961 --> 00:30:32,779
And we can only start here
and figure it out from here.
876
00:30:32,898 --> 00:30:36,633
- But with time, it's like,
yeah, time is of the essence,
877
00:30:36,635 --> 00:30:37,801
But time is ticking as well.
878
00:30:37,803 --> 00:30:39,211
- We have a lifetime.
879
00:30:39,329 --> 00:30:43,139
♪ ♪
880
00:30:43,141 --> 00:30:44,691
- We have a lifetime,
but we also have
881
00:30:44,718 --> 00:30:46,793
A decision date
882
00:30:46,912 --> 00:30:48,236
That we both have
to work towards
883
00:30:48,264 --> 00:30:49,555
To get to there, and we--
884
00:30:49,673 --> 00:30:51,406
- To get to the lifetime?
885
00:30:51,433 --> 00:30:52,799
- To get to the lifetime,
you know, decision day come,
886
00:30:52,918 --> 00:30:55,001
Then the lifetime comes.
887
00:30:55,062 --> 00:30:58,063
- It is very hard for me
to determine, like,
888
00:30:58,181 --> 00:31:00,657
Is shaquille more focused
on decision day,
889
00:31:00,659 --> 00:31:02,568
Or is he focused
on our marriage as a lifetime?
890
00:31:02,686 --> 00:31:04,978
I'm struggling sometimes
and becoming
891
00:31:05,096 --> 00:31:08,423
Very hesitant of having him
around my friends and family.
892
00:31:08,450 --> 00:31:10,667
Like, I don't want my friends
and family to be attached
893
00:31:10,669 --> 00:31:13,353
To shaquille,
and then he's like, "oh, well,
894
00:31:13,372 --> 00:31:14,988
I'm one foot in, one foot out."
895
00:31:15,106 --> 00:31:17,841
Like, I don't know how
this is going to work out.
896
00:31:17,843 --> 00:31:20,026
And I'm going to feel
comfortable having you
897
00:31:20,087 --> 00:31:21,770
Around my family and friends
all the time
898
00:31:21,797 --> 00:31:23,422
When I know
that you're committed to me
899
00:31:23,540 --> 00:31:25,257
Regardless of a decision day.
900
00:31:25,375 --> 00:31:30,971
♪ ♪
901
00:31:34,809 --> 00:31:35,309
[upbeat music]
902
00:31:35,427 --> 00:31:36,910
- All right. We're ready?
903
00:31:36,912 --> 00:31:38,270
Ready for the trip?
904
00:31:38,388 --> 00:31:39,955
- I'm ready.
- All right.
905
00:31:39,982 --> 00:31:41,031
Let's do this.
906
00:31:41,033 --> 00:31:47,905
♪ ♪
907
00:31:54,404 --> 00:31:56,713
All right.
908
00:31:56,715 --> 00:31:58,048
Let's go do some hiking.
909
00:31:58,050 --> 00:32:01,567
♪ ♪
910
00:32:01,629 --> 00:32:06,139
- I'd say this is less hiccups
than what jamaica was.
911
00:32:06,141 --> 00:32:08,942
The last time that I went
on this type of hike
912
00:32:08,944 --> 00:32:11,394
Was in jamaica, so I'm excited.
913
00:32:11,396 --> 00:32:13,730
I don't get out of nashville
very often.
914
00:32:13,732 --> 00:32:16,941
So that's something I've always
wanted to do, just experience
915
00:32:16,943 --> 00:32:19,719
All the waterfalls
and different beautiful hikes
916
00:32:19,838 --> 00:32:21,404
Around nashville.
917
00:32:21,406 --> 00:32:22,322
And I'm feeling great
about being
918
00:32:22,324 --> 00:32:24,298
Able to do this with clint.
919
00:32:24,360 --> 00:32:26,559
We've made it.
920
00:32:26,678 --> 00:32:27,727
- Here we are.
921
00:32:27,846 --> 00:32:29,396
- Hank, where you at, bud?
922
00:32:29,514 --> 00:32:31,339
- Beautiful waterfall.
923
00:32:31,367 --> 00:32:32,950
- It's so pretty.
924
00:32:33,068 --> 00:32:34,417
- ♪ we're just having fun ♪
925
00:32:34,419 --> 00:32:35,735
♪ we're still having fun ♪
926
00:32:35,854 --> 00:32:37,888
♪ and we say hey, hey, hey ♪
927
00:32:37,890 --> 00:32:39,990
♪ ♪
928
00:32:40,108 --> 00:32:41,574
- Hank is losing it.
[dog barking]
929
00:32:41,735 --> 00:32:44,610
He split,
swam to the other side.
930
00:32:44,672 --> 00:32:47,005
This is what I'm really
looking for in a marriage.
931
00:32:47,124 --> 00:32:51,584
You know, I was looking
for someone who is loyal,
932
00:32:51,703 --> 00:32:55,363
Compassionate, who has
a very strong sense of humor,
933
00:32:55,391 --> 00:32:56,682
And adventurous.
934
00:32:56,800 --> 00:32:58,425
And I got that with clint.
935
00:32:58,543 --> 00:33:00,944
So I'm definitely
feeling hopeful,
936
00:33:00,946 --> 00:33:04,372
And I can definitely see
a future with clint.
937
00:33:04,400 --> 00:33:07,617
[laughs]
no!
938
00:33:07,619 --> 00:33:12,063
- ♪ all I need
is your love ♪
939
00:33:12,182 --> 00:33:16,176
- We're here at some
phenomenal, beautiful location
940
00:33:16,178 --> 00:33:18,678
For our one-month anniversary.
941
00:33:18,839 --> 00:33:23,208
I'm hoping that tonight we have
a conversation and agree on,
942
00:33:23,326 --> 00:33:25,352
You know, where we're going
moving forward,
943
00:33:25,354 --> 00:33:26,970
Because I think
it's much needed.
944
00:33:26,972 --> 00:33:29,047
So fingers crossed
about tonight
945
00:33:29,166 --> 00:33:30,623
And our one-month
anniversary dinner
946
00:33:30,742 --> 00:33:32,125
And us being able
to move forward
947
00:33:32,243 --> 00:33:34,236
In a positive direction.
948
00:33:34,263 --> 00:33:37,355
Look at this.
949
00:33:37,357 --> 00:33:39,032
- And so we got this.
950
00:33:39,059 --> 00:33:40,441
- Oh!
951
00:33:40,443 --> 00:33:43,078
Ok, photographer.
952
00:33:43,105 --> 00:33:45,530
[soft music]
953
00:33:45,532 --> 00:33:47,157
Mm.
954
00:33:47,159 --> 00:33:48,674
My mommy.
955
00:33:48,736 --> 00:33:50,068
I love this picture
of me and my daddy.
956
00:33:50,187 --> 00:33:52,237
- Look like he was
about to pass out.
957
00:33:52,355 --> 00:33:54,164
- [laughs]
958
00:33:54,166 --> 00:33:57,067
I think walking down the aisle
is when it hit me.
959
00:33:57,185 --> 00:34:00,495
Like, girl, you getting
married at first sight.
960
00:34:00,655 --> 00:34:02,222
- Right.
961
00:34:02,224 --> 00:34:04,599
- This is right after
we went and sat down
962
00:34:04,626 --> 00:34:06,150
And just started
immediately asking
963
00:34:06,270 --> 00:34:07,719
Each other all the questions.
964
00:34:07,721 --> 00:34:09,212
- The very first conversation.
965
00:34:09,331 --> 00:34:10,680
- Mm-hmm.
966
00:34:10,682 --> 00:34:12,182
- Very first cheers.
967
00:34:12,184 --> 00:34:13,533
You look happy.
968
00:34:13,594 --> 00:34:16,352
- Yeah.
969
00:34:16,471 --> 00:34:17,804
I was really happy that day.
970
00:34:17,923 --> 00:34:20,690
[tense music]
971
00:34:20,692 --> 00:34:23,193
As I'm looking through
the photos and, like, seeing,
972
00:34:23,195 --> 00:34:26,012
Like, how happy I was,
and I don't feel like,
973
00:34:26,131 --> 00:34:27,789
You know,
I'm still in that space,
974
00:34:27,816 --> 00:34:30,883
Just because of everything
that's kind of transpired.
975
00:34:30,944 --> 00:34:33,111
Am I still open-minded? Yes.
976
00:34:33,230 --> 00:34:36,889
Am I still, you know,
putting in, like, 3,000%?
977
00:34:36,950 --> 00:34:37,949
Yes.
978
00:34:38,068 --> 00:34:39,692
But I feel like the--
979
00:34:39,811 --> 00:34:41,970
The jasmine right now
in this one-month
980
00:34:41,997 --> 00:34:44,047
Is just a lot more guarded
than I was,
981
00:34:44,049 --> 00:34:45,231
You know, on wedding day.
982
00:34:45,292 --> 00:34:47,217
- And our wedding vows.
983
00:34:47,219 --> 00:34:48,460
- Oh, goodness.
984
00:34:48,578 --> 00:34:51,463
[laughs] the vows.
985
00:34:51,581 --> 00:34:53,023
Mine were definitely...
986
00:34:53,025 --> 00:34:55,926
- Yours was long.
- [laughing] like, longer.
987
00:34:56,044 --> 00:34:58,711
[laughs]
988
00:34:58,830 --> 00:35:01,840
- "love is giving someone
the power to destroy you
989
00:35:01,958 --> 00:35:03,374
"but trusting that they won't.
990
00:35:03,393 --> 00:35:05,376
I vow to trust you."
991
00:35:05,395 --> 00:35:07,737
Love is seeing
something in someone
992
00:35:07,739 --> 00:35:09,906
That they don't see
in themselves.
993
00:35:09,908 --> 00:35:12,317
I vow to see you.
994
00:35:12,435 --> 00:35:15,854
"love is about
a continuous effort
995
00:35:15,972 --> 00:35:19,098
"and constantly wanting to put
forth the effort for love.
996
00:35:19,118 --> 00:35:22,268
I vow to put forth that effort
each and every day."
997
00:35:22,387 --> 00:35:25,831
- So have you put forth effort
each and every day?
998
00:35:25,949 --> 00:35:30,076
- No, I haven't put forth
effort each and every day.
999
00:35:30,195 --> 00:35:32,245
- And why do you feel
like you haven't?
1000
00:35:32,363 --> 00:35:35,173
[soft music]
1001
00:35:35,292 --> 00:35:37,600
♪ ♪
1002
00:35:37,602 --> 00:35:40,679
- I haven't, I guess, because,
1003
00:35:40,797 --> 00:35:43,122
Like, marriage is challenging.
1004
00:35:43,183 --> 00:35:44,516
Like, I was still in shock.
1005
00:35:44,634 --> 00:35:48,111
Like, I feel like
I'm kind of finally
1006
00:35:48,113 --> 00:35:50,188
Getting around to the fact
that, like, oh, wow,
1007
00:35:50,307 --> 00:35:51,873
Like, I'm married, you know?
1008
00:35:51,900 --> 00:35:53,859
But, like, it just happened,
like, so fast,
1009
00:35:53,977 --> 00:35:55,268
And things is kind
of like a blur.
1010
00:35:55,386 --> 00:35:57,529
Like, you get married,
and then, boom,
1011
00:35:57,647 --> 00:35:59,664
You're on a honeymoon,
and boom, you're moving in.
1012
00:35:59,666 --> 00:36:01,575
It's like, you know, you don't
really have time to, like,
1013
00:36:01,693 --> 00:36:04,127
Sit and, like, process it all.
1014
00:36:04,129 --> 00:36:06,346
♪ ♪
1015
00:36:06,464 --> 00:36:10,074
- I'm hoping that that changes
moving forward for us.
1016
00:36:10,193 --> 00:36:14,954
- I know the process that I
signed up for is very unique.
1017
00:36:15,073 --> 00:36:18,308
But, you know, so far
the majority of this marriage,
1018
00:36:18,310 --> 00:36:21,144
It hasn't, like, gone
as I've expected.
1019
00:36:21,262 --> 00:36:25,798
But I would like to find
a middle ground with jasmine.
1020
00:36:25,959 --> 00:36:28,801
For me, you know, to make this
marriage improve, you know,
1021
00:36:28,920 --> 00:36:33,139
I just need a better,
you know, connection to find,
1022
00:36:33,258 --> 00:36:35,734
You know, what we share,
what our commonalities are,
1023
00:36:35,852 --> 00:36:37,660
Things that we both believe.
1024
00:36:37,662 --> 00:36:40,496
It's something I plan
to work on and refocus
1025
00:36:40,498 --> 00:36:43,849
And recharge, like,
spring forward
1026
00:36:43,911 --> 00:36:46,336
Going into the next month.
1027
00:36:46,338 --> 00:36:48,504
And for whatever reason,
you know, we talk more and have
1028
00:36:48,506 --> 00:36:50,081
Better conversations
when we're, like, out,
1029
00:36:50,200 --> 00:36:51,491
Like, going on dates.
1030
00:36:51,609 --> 00:36:54,177
So, you know, I just want
to continue to do that,
1031
00:36:54,179 --> 00:36:56,179
And hopefully, you know,
throughout those dates,
1032
00:36:56,181 --> 00:36:58,148
We'll start to find
those commonalities
1033
00:36:58,150 --> 00:36:59,216
And shared interests,
you know,
1034
00:36:59,334 --> 00:37:01,142
And the attraction will start
to grow.
1035
00:37:01,144 --> 00:37:04,520
The second month anniversary
is better than the first.
1036
00:37:04,522 --> 00:37:05,538
- [laughs]
ok.
1037
00:37:05,599 --> 00:37:07,357
Cheers to that, for sure.
1038
00:37:07,359 --> 00:37:12,303
♪ ♪
1039
00:37:12,422 --> 00:37:13,730
[pop music]
1040
00:37:13,848 --> 00:37:15,774
- ♪ there ain't nothing
to it ♪
1041
00:37:15,892 --> 00:37:20,036
♪ celebrating life
but now it's yours ♪
1042
00:37:20,038 --> 00:37:21,780
- [with english accent]
and off we go.
1043
00:37:21,898 --> 00:37:24,281
- Off we go on our heli tour.
1044
00:37:24,401 --> 00:37:25,984
- Heli tour.
1045
00:37:26,102 --> 00:37:28,211
We're doing a heli tour.
1046
00:37:28,213 --> 00:37:30,196
- This is such a fun
and unique idea.
1047
00:37:30,315 --> 00:37:31,397
- When I'm in a relationship
with somebody,
1048
00:37:31,458 --> 00:37:33,049
I definitely like
to spoil them,
1049
00:37:33,051 --> 00:37:34,292
Especially when they
make me feel special.
1050
00:37:34,411 --> 00:37:36,962
So, like, I definitely
like to show her
1051
00:37:37,080 --> 00:37:38,738
That she means a lot to me.
1052
00:37:38,799 --> 00:37:40,982
And she's never done
a helicopter ride before,
1053
00:37:41,009 --> 00:37:42,375
And neither have I,
so it's going to be
1054
00:37:42,493 --> 00:37:43,726
A really cool experience,
and I can't wait
1055
00:37:43,728 --> 00:37:44,727
To share it with her.
1056
00:37:44,729 --> 00:37:46,078
- Has it hit you at all?
1057
00:37:46,139 --> 00:37:48,372
We're just celebrating
one month of marriage.
1058
00:37:48,392 --> 00:37:49,774
- Yeah. No, it's crazy.
1059
00:37:49,776 --> 00:37:51,159
And, I mean, I wanted
to do something--
1060
00:37:51,186 --> 00:37:53,270
I'm more--I'm not
a materialistic person,
1061
00:37:53,388 --> 00:37:55,071
So I'm more about
memories and adventures...
1062
00:37:55,073 --> 00:37:56,255
- Yeah.
1063
00:37:56,316 --> 00:37:57,482
- Rather than, like,
buying, like,
1064
00:37:57,600 --> 00:37:58,891
Flowers or a purse or...
1065
00:37:59,010 --> 00:38:01,202
- Right.
- Something materialistic.
1066
00:38:01,204 --> 00:38:03,655
- There's so many things
that I love about my husband.
1067
00:38:03,773 --> 00:38:06,249
But my favorite thing is
that he just always makes me
1068
00:38:06,251 --> 00:38:08,660
Feel so special,
and I never have to question
1069
00:38:08,778 --> 00:38:11,087
If he likes me
or if he wants to be with me,
1070
00:38:11,089 --> 00:38:13,681
Because he just always shows
that he does.
1071
00:38:13,709 --> 00:38:15,333
- And we're here.
1072
00:38:15,452 --> 00:38:18,261
Here we go. Are you ready?
- I'm ready.
1073
00:38:18,263 --> 00:38:20,997
Let's go on this heli ride.
1074
00:38:21,115 --> 00:38:25,543
- ♪ you're the only one
for me ♪
1075
00:38:25,661 --> 00:38:28,346
- So we're waiting to go
on our helicopter tour.
1076
00:38:28,465 --> 00:38:30,073
We have some champagne.
1077
00:38:30,075 --> 00:38:31,774
- Bubbly. Some bubbly.
1078
00:38:31,776 --> 00:38:33,443
- Maybe I'm
a little nervous now,
1079
00:38:33,445 --> 00:38:38,348
But I've got my husband
to protect me.
1080
00:38:38,350 --> 00:38:42,860
- ♪ doo, doo, doo, doo,
it's you and I ♪
1081
00:38:42,862 --> 00:38:44,654
- We're taking off.
1082
00:38:44,773 --> 00:38:47,090
- ♪ my firefly ♪
1083
00:38:47,092 --> 00:38:50,777
♪ doo, doo, doo, doo,
it's you and I ♪
1084
00:38:50,895 --> 00:38:53,796
♪ you light me up
from inside ♪
1085
00:38:53,798 --> 00:38:56,407
- There's so many things
every day
1086
00:38:56,526 --> 00:38:58,667
I learn about my husband
that I love.
1087
00:38:58,669 --> 00:39:02,297
And I feel like my feelings
are just building so much.
1088
00:39:02,457 --> 00:39:04,974
And honestly,
I can't imagine doing this
1089
00:39:04,976 --> 00:39:07,627
Or spending this life
with anyone else at this point.
1090
00:39:07,745 --> 00:39:09,929
- ♪ doo, doo, doo, doo ♪
1091
00:39:10,048 --> 00:39:11,647
♪ it's you and I ♪
1092
00:39:11,649 --> 00:39:14,500
♪ you light me up
from inside ♪
1093
00:39:14,561 --> 00:39:15,769
♪ my firefly ♪
1094
00:39:19,516 --> 00:39:21,491
[pop music]
1095
00:39:21,493 --> 00:39:23,659
- ♪ I like you
better this way ♪
1096
00:39:23,661 --> 00:39:25,403
♪ I like you better this way ♪
1097
00:39:25,522 --> 00:39:27,513
♪ I like you better ♪
1098
00:39:27,574 --> 00:39:29,665
♪ I like you better this way ♪
1099
00:39:29,667 --> 00:39:32,034
- [laughs]
what are you scared of?
1100
00:39:32,036 --> 00:39:33,595
Come here.
1101
00:39:33,622 --> 00:39:35,430
- ♪ I like you better ♪
1102
00:39:35,457 --> 00:39:39,267
- Welcome to jamaica!
1103
00:39:39,427 --> 00:39:42,303
- Oh, ok.
1104
00:39:42,305 --> 00:39:44,864
Wow.
I didn't bring my passport.
1105
00:39:44,883 --> 00:39:48,259
Tonight we are continuing
doing a re-creation
1106
00:39:48,378 --> 00:39:53,064
Of our jamaican festivities
for our one-month anniversary.
1107
00:39:53,066 --> 00:39:55,007
You know, I just want us
to celebrate where we.
1108
00:39:55,126 --> 00:39:59,104
We are better people,
and we're a better couple
1109
00:39:59,222 --> 00:40:01,289
Because of the way
we've handled things.
1110
00:40:01,316 --> 00:40:03,032
Like, we're going
to need to expedite
1111
00:40:03,034 --> 00:40:04,976
The pace a little bit,
but I think that's just
1112
00:40:05,094 --> 00:40:07,145
Going to come naturally.
1113
00:40:07,263 --> 00:40:09,147
Waterfalls and oxtail.
1114
00:40:09,265 --> 00:40:10,240
Now we're living.
1115
00:40:10,358 --> 00:40:11,758
- You know.
1116
00:40:11,760 --> 00:40:12,867
- Now we're living
the real life.
1117
00:40:13,027 --> 00:40:14,285
- [laughs]
1118
00:40:14,404 --> 00:40:16,228
- Mm-hmm. And a bone.
1119
00:40:16,289 --> 00:40:18,640
[music slows to a stop]
- mm-mm.
1120
00:40:18,667 --> 00:40:20,032
- Was that a tailbone?
1121
00:40:20,151 --> 00:40:22,377
- Amazing.
- Literal tailbone.
1122
00:40:22,537 --> 00:40:24,162
♪ ♪
1123
00:40:24,280 --> 00:40:27,148
Have you ever had camel?
- No.
1124
00:40:27,175 --> 00:40:28,650
And sometimes
when I eat with you,
1125
00:40:28,677 --> 00:40:29,968
I immediately want
to stop eating.
1126
00:40:30,086 --> 00:40:33,062
- Yeah.
- [laughs]
1127
00:40:33,064 --> 00:40:34,989
Hank will eat all the kinds
of meats with you.
1128
00:40:35,016 --> 00:40:38,309
He don't even care.
- Yeah.
1129
00:40:38,428 --> 00:40:40,528
- What if it was, like,
the apocalypse,
1130
00:40:40,530 --> 00:40:42,029
Just you and hank.
1131
00:40:42,031 --> 00:40:43,148
Would you eat him?
- Mm-hmm.
1132
00:40:43,266 --> 00:40:45,132
- You would?
- No.
1133
00:40:45,193 --> 00:40:46,467
- I would--I would
let him eat me.
1134
00:40:46,628 --> 00:40:48,486
Like--[laughs]
- let him eat you?
1135
00:40:48,605 --> 00:40:49,904
Like, go ahead, just take--
- just take me out.
1136
00:40:50,064 --> 00:40:51,489
- Just take my leg.
- Just take me out, buddy.
1137
00:40:51,608 --> 00:40:54,826
[laughs]
- I want you to survive.
1138
00:40:54,944 --> 00:40:57,011
- What are you going to do,
eat hank and then stay
1139
00:40:57,038 --> 00:40:58,421
Alone the rest of your life?
1140
00:40:58,423 --> 00:40:59,681
- Yeah, and just...
- That sucks.
1141
00:40:59,708 --> 00:41:01,315
- Feel guilty
because you ate hank.
1142
00:41:01,376 --> 00:41:02,850
- Your only friend in life.
1143
00:41:02,878 --> 00:41:04,494
- We're talking about
eating hank right now.
1144
00:41:04,612 --> 00:41:06,078
What has happened?
- On our one-month ann--
1145
00:41:06,197 --> 00:41:07,446
I was, like,
getting all the animals.
1146
00:41:07,507 --> 00:41:10,933
- Our conversations have
deteriorated substantially.
1147
00:41:10,935 --> 00:41:12,101
Hank, sorry.
1148
00:41:12,103 --> 00:41:14,362
♪ ♪
1149
00:41:14,389 --> 00:41:17,891
- Well, what are you most
excited about for month two?
1150
00:41:18,009 --> 00:41:19,609
The crust?
- The crust.
1151
00:41:19,727 --> 00:41:22,586
We--yeah, we need
to get more crusty.
1152
00:41:22,706 --> 00:41:24,964
- Ok.
- I demand more crust.
1153
00:41:25,025 --> 00:41:27,350
Outside of work,
like, who is gina?
1154
00:41:27,468 --> 00:41:29,660
Who do you want to be,
like, ten years from now?
1155
00:41:29,662 --> 00:41:31,045
- [sighs] I don't know.
1156
00:41:31,072 --> 00:41:32,788
- It's a fun exercise
to go through.
1157
00:41:32,790 --> 00:41:34,473
You've got to have,
like, a goal, right?
1158
00:41:34,534 --> 00:41:35,641
- Yeah, I mean--
1159
00:41:35,702 --> 00:41:36,884
- You have a goal
in your business,
1160
00:41:36,912 --> 00:41:37,960
But you have to have
a personal goal
1161
00:41:37,962 --> 00:41:40,112
For, like, what do you want
for you?
1162
00:41:40,231 --> 00:41:42,782
- Like, the whole reason
that I run my business at all
1163
00:41:42,784 --> 00:41:44,842
Is because I have a passion
for mentoring people.
1164
00:41:44,844 --> 00:41:46,193
- You run a good shop.
1165
00:41:46,254 --> 00:41:47,895
- Oh, that's sweet.
- You do.
1166
00:41:47,923 --> 00:41:50,806
So, you know, the way
people look up to you,
1167
00:41:50,808 --> 00:41:53,234
That's--I admire that,
and I see, like--
1168
00:41:53,261 --> 00:41:55,512
I see a lot
of those qualities, like,
1169
00:41:55,630 --> 00:41:57,938
The drive and the motivation
that I have,
1170
00:41:57,940 --> 00:42:00,408
And it's nice to see somebody
that reciprocates those values.
1171
00:42:00,435 --> 00:42:01,476
- Mm-hmm.
1172
00:42:01,636 --> 00:42:04,136
I love that you,
like, overly commit
1173
00:42:04,255 --> 00:42:05,805
To whatever it is,
1174
00:42:05,923 --> 00:42:07,732
Without, like, caring
what anyone thinks.
1175
00:42:07,850 --> 00:42:09,934
[laughs]
it's funny.
1176
00:42:10,052 --> 00:42:11,919
It's--
[dog barking]
1177
00:42:11,947 --> 00:42:14,163
Hank loves it too.
- Yeah.
1178
00:42:14,165 --> 00:42:15,498
- You just love to have
a good time.
1179
00:42:15,500 --> 00:42:17,149
You don't take life
too seriously.
1180
00:42:17,268 --> 00:42:18,760
I like that.
That's growing on me.
1181
00:42:18,787 --> 00:42:22,163
♪ ♪
1182
00:42:22,323 --> 00:42:26,309
- To really look back,
and to say, like,
1183
00:42:26,311 --> 00:42:28,661
We're in a good place
right now, and we're able
1184
00:42:28,779 --> 00:42:31,256
To--to grow, that's a lot.
1185
00:42:31,374 --> 00:42:33,958
Like, I think we've made
monumental leaps
1186
00:42:34,076 --> 00:42:36,352
From where we were
even two weeks ago.
1187
00:42:36,354 --> 00:42:38,854
And we'll see.
We're both committed people.
1188
00:42:38,856 --> 00:42:42,075
So we're going to continue
and just work at it.
1189
00:42:42,077 --> 00:42:43,359
We're going to work at it.
1190
00:42:43,361 --> 00:42:45,695
You always take
everything in stride,
1191
00:42:45,697 --> 00:42:48,531
And you're ready to just
try something different.
1192
00:42:48,533 --> 00:42:50,199
And that's--
- yeah. Except for oxtail.
1193
00:42:50,201 --> 00:42:52,993
- Except for oxtail.
- [laughs] I was kidding.
1194
00:42:52,995 --> 00:42:55,630
- ♪ you can start again ♪
1195
00:42:55,657 --> 00:42:59,801
♪ ♪
1196
00:42:59,828 --> 00:43:01,778
- ♪ I'm yours tonight ♪
1197
00:43:01,780 --> 00:43:04,539
♪ you don't have to worry ♪
1198
00:43:04,699 --> 00:43:08,843
♪ our love burns
brighter than the sun ♪
1199
00:43:09,003 --> 00:43:10,302
- Always champagne.
1200
00:43:10,304 --> 00:43:12,263
- Oh, man.
- [laughs]
1201
00:43:12,265 --> 00:43:14,098
- ♪ you don't have to worry ♪
1202
00:43:14,100 --> 00:43:16,892
♪ our love burns
brighter than the sun ♪
1203
00:43:16,894 --> 00:43:18,060
- Cheers.
1204
00:43:18,062 --> 00:43:20,488
- What are we cheersin' to?
1205
00:43:20,515 --> 00:43:21,806
- Um...
1206
00:43:21,924 --> 00:43:23,141
- [laughs]
1207
00:43:23,259 --> 00:43:24,817
- Two-month anniversary.
1208
00:43:24,819 --> 00:43:26,543
- Two-months?
It's been one month, though.
1209
00:43:26,563 --> 00:43:27,829
[laughs]
1210
00:43:27,856 --> 00:43:31,316
♪ ♪
1211
00:43:31,434 --> 00:43:33,743
- Thank you.
You're so kind.
1212
00:43:33,745 --> 00:43:34,894
- Thank you.
1213
00:43:35,012 --> 00:43:37,004
♪ ♪
1214
00:43:37,032 --> 00:43:38,764
So we've made it one month.
1215
00:43:38,825 --> 00:43:41,509
- Mm-hmm.
- And that's a milestone.
1216
00:43:41,536 --> 00:43:44,178
- What are you looking
forward to going forward?
1217
00:43:44,205 --> 00:43:46,656
♪ ♪
1218
00:43:46,774 --> 00:43:51,594
- Well, I'm hoping this is,
like, a reset, a recharge.
1219
00:43:51,596 --> 00:43:55,264
I feel like we were stagnant,
and then you got covid.
1220
00:43:55,266 --> 00:43:59,193
So I feel like moving forward,
it's not stagnant anymore
1221
00:43:59,220 --> 00:44:03,756
And that we both make changes
moving forward to be better.
1222
00:44:03,874 --> 00:44:06,400
♪ ♪
1223
00:44:06,402 --> 00:44:08,369
So where is your head at
right now?
1224
00:44:08,396 --> 00:44:10,780
Like, what are you feeling?
1225
00:44:10,782 --> 00:44:14,299
- The first couple of weeks,
I was kind of closer
1226
00:44:14,361 --> 00:44:17,119
Towards being checked out.
1227
00:44:17,121 --> 00:44:18,771
- Mm-hmm.
1228
00:44:18,889 --> 00:44:21,716
- And I'm trying to get
to, like, at least, like--
1229
00:44:21,743 --> 00:44:24,202
Like, a middle ground place.
1230
00:44:24,320 --> 00:44:26,779
- So you want to move into...
1231
00:44:26,897 --> 00:44:29,799
- Yeah, like--
- a better space.
1232
00:44:29,801 --> 00:44:31,893
Because we've been stagnant.
- Yeah.
1233
00:44:31,920 --> 00:44:34,136
But I feel like
I've struggled with, like,
1234
00:44:34,138 --> 00:44:35,396
Trying to navigate,
1235
00:44:35,423 --> 00:44:37,899
How can I not hurt
your feelings,
1236
00:44:37,926 --> 00:44:41,811
But also, like, you know,
like, being in my truth.
1237
00:44:41,813 --> 00:44:43,646
I'm like--
- what do you mean by that?
1238
00:44:43,648 --> 00:44:47,225
- I feel like it would be
easier if we just, like...
1239
00:44:47,343 --> 00:44:51,821
[cicada droning]
1240
00:44:51,823 --> 00:44:53,338
Said there wasn't
going to be, like...
1241
00:44:53,400 --> 00:44:56,401
[cicada droning]
1242
00:44:56,519 --> 00:44:59,587
Like, any sex until, like,
after decision day.
1243
00:44:59,614 --> 00:45:03,149
[dramatic music]
1244
00:45:03,267 --> 00:45:04,608
It would be, like, a weight.
1245
00:45:04,727 --> 00:45:06,351
It wouldn't be like a,
"oh, is today going to be--
1246
00:45:06,371 --> 00:45:07,578
Is it going to happen
this week?"
1247
00:45:07,697 --> 00:45:09,080
- Well, I don't feel
like it's a weight.
1248
00:45:09,198 --> 00:45:11,098
Do you feel like it's a weight?
- I don't know. I'm just--
1249
00:45:11,126 --> 00:45:12,934
- I'm not expecting it.
- I'm just saying.
1250
00:45:12,961 --> 00:45:15,511
♪ ♪
1251
00:45:15,513 --> 00:45:18,330
- I think we need to grow
our intimacy.
1252
00:45:18,449 --> 00:45:20,775
And when I say intimacy,
I don't just mean sex.
1253
00:45:20,802 --> 00:45:22,001
- I don't want to keep
getting asked, like...
1254
00:45:22,119 --> 00:45:23,611
- Ok. So we're committed--
1255
00:45:23,638 --> 00:45:24,870
- "have y'all had sex yet?
When are you gonna have sex?
1256
00:45:24,931 --> 00:45:26,948
Why ain't you having sex?"
whoo, whoo, whoo.
1257
00:45:26,975 --> 00:45:30,117
- So are we committed to having
sex after decision day?
1258
00:45:30,145 --> 00:45:32,152
- Yeah.
1259
00:45:32,154 --> 00:45:34,564
- But growing intimacy in
other ways before decision day?
1260
00:45:34,682 --> 00:45:37,032
- Yeah.
- Ok.
1261
00:45:37,034 --> 00:45:39,034
- I just think right now,
where I'm at,
1262
00:45:39,036 --> 00:45:41,295
Us having sex
would just increase
1263
00:45:41,322 --> 00:45:43,631
Her, like, emotional attachment
to me.
1264
00:45:43,658 --> 00:45:45,541
Like, in the past,
have I had sex
1265
00:45:45,543 --> 00:45:47,543
And not even cared about how
the other person's feeling?
1266
00:45:47,545 --> 00:45:50,045
Yes, but that was, like,
an immature version of me.
1267
00:45:50,047 --> 00:45:51,380
I'm at this point,
I've had enough
1268
00:45:51,382 --> 00:45:52,807
Meaningless sex in my life.
1269
00:45:52,834 --> 00:45:54,867
Like, I want it
to mean something.
1270
00:45:54,985 --> 00:45:56,869
♪ ♪
1271
00:45:56,987 --> 00:46:01,223
So that's where I'm at.
1272
00:46:01,225 --> 00:46:04,576
- Well, I just hope
that we can get
1273
00:46:04,637 --> 00:46:09,991
To more of a common ground
1274
00:46:10,018 --> 00:46:11,750
And get you more in than out.
1275
00:46:11,811 --> 00:46:13,160
- Right.
1276
00:46:13,188 --> 00:46:14,996
- I'm willing
to put in the work
1277
00:46:15,023 --> 00:46:18,649
And do whatever is possible,
you know, to make it work.
1278
00:46:18,768 --> 00:46:21,168
But I obviously can't
do that by myself.
1279
00:46:21,196 --> 00:46:23,004
[soft pop music]
1280
00:46:23,031 --> 00:46:25,915
- ♪ I'm calling you home ♪
1281
00:46:25,917 --> 00:46:28,493
♪ I'm right here
waiting for you ♪
1282
00:46:33,892 --> 00:46:36,425
- ♪ driving the night away ♪
1283
00:46:36,427 --> 00:46:39,020
♪ look to the right of me,
oh ♪
1284
00:46:39,047 --> 00:46:42,006
- Kobe, are you excited to see
when mommy and daddy first met?
1285
00:46:42,124 --> 00:46:44,233
- He looks so excited.
1286
00:46:44,235 --> 00:46:45,809
All right. Let me plug this in.
1287
00:46:45,811 --> 00:46:49,563
All right.
And play.
1288
00:46:49,565 --> 00:46:52,107
- [gasps] oh!
1289
00:46:52,109 --> 00:46:55,019
♪ ♪
1290
00:46:55,137 --> 00:46:58,130
Oh, look how handsome you are!
1291
00:46:58,191 --> 00:46:59,932
Oh.
1292
00:47:00,050 --> 00:47:02,518
And I remember
everyone standing.
1293
00:47:02,636 --> 00:47:04,862
♪ ♪
1294
00:47:04,981 --> 00:47:06,547
You're about to see me.
1295
00:47:06,574 --> 00:47:09,108
- There's your pop.
- I'm going to cry.
1296
00:47:09,226 --> 00:47:12,169
- Aww. Here you are.
1297
00:47:12,171 --> 00:47:13,930
Look at that. See?
1298
00:47:13,932 --> 00:47:15,798
Big smile.
1299
00:47:15,800 --> 00:47:18,209
- We're both like,
"yes, not a troll."
1300
00:47:18,327 --> 00:47:19,544
- [chuckles]
1301
00:47:19,662 --> 00:47:22,046
You look very beautiful.
- Thank you. Thank you.
1302
00:47:22,164 --> 00:47:23,564
My makeup looks so bad.
1303
00:47:23,591 --> 00:47:25,157
[quirky music]
1304
00:47:25,218 --> 00:47:27,126
Well, it's nice to meet you.
1305
00:47:27,244 --> 00:47:30,120
All right. Let's do this!
- Yeah.
1306
00:47:30,139 --> 00:47:32,481
We're dorks. [laughs]
- my makeup was so bad.
1307
00:47:32,483 --> 00:47:34,225
- No, you're great.
1308
00:47:34,343 --> 00:47:36,410
- I wasn't really a fan of how
I looked on my wedding day.
1309
00:47:36,437 --> 00:47:37,912
It's--on our wedding day.
1310
00:47:37,939 --> 00:47:40,565
It's not how I envisioned
myself looking.
1311
00:47:40,683 --> 00:47:44,159
And seeing it on video just
made me feel worse about it.
1312
00:47:44,161 --> 00:47:46,328
But I'm happy--
- you looked good.
1313
00:47:46,330 --> 00:47:48,497
- And my makeup was terrible.
1314
00:47:48,499 --> 00:47:49,740
My hair had fall--
it was just a whole thing.
1315
00:47:49,859 --> 00:47:51,409
- I thought you looked good.
- Thank you.
1316
00:47:51,527 --> 00:47:54,053
- And now, by the authority
vested in me...
1317
00:47:54,055 --> 00:47:55,079
- Best part.
They're gonna kiss.
1318
00:47:55,197 --> 00:47:56,747
They're gonna kiss.
1319
00:47:56,866 --> 00:47:58,374
- [laughs] I think
that's what happens, right?
1320
00:47:58,492 --> 00:47:59,325
- But most of all,
by the power
1321
00:47:59,443 --> 00:48:00,843
Of your own love...
1322
00:48:00,845 --> 00:48:01,827
- They're gonna kiss.
1323
00:48:01,946 --> 00:48:03,362
- I pronounce...
1324
00:48:03,423 --> 00:48:04,422
- Think they're gonna kiss?
1325
00:48:04,540 --> 00:48:06,732
- That you are married.
1326
00:48:06,734 --> 00:48:08,517
Now you may call yourselves
1327
00:48:08,519 --> 00:48:10,410
Those cherished names,
husband and wife.
1328
00:48:10,471 --> 00:48:12,930
Chris, you may now
kiss your bride!
1329
00:48:13,049 --> 00:48:14,539
[all cheering]
- I just went for it.
1330
00:48:14,601 --> 00:48:16,191
I just went for it.
- Yes, he did it.
1331
00:48:16,193 --> 00:48:18,177
- I didn't care. I went for it.
- That's how you do it.
1332
00:48:18,295 --> 00:48:20,938
[cheers and applause]
1333
00:48:21,057 --> 00:48:24,867
[pop music]
1334
00:48:24,869 --> 00:48:27,294
- ♪ and I wanna prove ♪
1335
00:48:27,322 --> 00:48:28,553
- You didn't--
you didn't turn me down.
1336
00:48:28,615 --> 00:48:29,864
- No.
1337
00:48:30,024 --> 00:48:31,357
I never will.
1338
00:48:31,475 --> 00:48:33,467
[cheers and applause]
1339
00:48:33,494 --> 00:48:34,693
- Feels like so long ago.
1340
00:48:34,812 --> 00:48:35,786
Isn't that crazy?
1341
00:48:35,905 --> 00:48:37,288
- And it feels so ridiculous--
1342
00:48:37,406 --> 00:48:38,789
- That was, like, a month.
That's it.
1343
00:48:38,908 --> 00:48:40,457
It's amazing,
like, to see where we've--
1344
00:48:40,459 --> 00:48:43,351
How far we've come since then,
to be honest.
1345
00:48:43,353 --> 00:48:44,629
- I'm so happy.
1346
00:48:44,747 --> 00:48:46,405
I would do that again
every single day.
1347
00:48:46,466 --> 00:48:48,057
Maybe not that, because
that was a really long day,
1348
00:48:48,059 --> 00:48:50,709
And my makeup
looked like trash.
1349
00:48:50,828 --> 00:48:53,045
- Nicole's being a little too
overly critical of herself.
1350
00:48:53,163 --> 00:48:55,047
Again, she looked
very beautiful in that moment.
1351
00:48:55,165 --> 00:48:59,051
That was a moment that she was
extremely happy, extremely--
1352
00:48:59,169 --> 00:49:00,736
Just beaming herself.
1353
00:49:00,738 --> 00:49:02,571
And I don't know, it's just--
it's concerning
1354
00:49:02,573 --> 00:49:04,315
That she can end up
bringing herself down.
1355
00:49:04,433 --> 00:49:07,559
It was--it was
a really amazing moment,
1356
00:49:07,678 --> 00:49:09,987
And it's led us to here,
and yeah.
1357
00:49:10,106 --> 00:49:12,931
I mean, you can pick apart
everything that you want,
1358
00:49:12,992 --> 00:49:15,417
But don't be ashamed of it.
1359
00:49:15,419 --> 00:49:17,161
Like, she doesn't need
to be so critical.
1360
00:49:17,279 --> 00:49:19,238
Like, it kind of is
one of those things
1361
00:49:19,356 --> 00:49:22,925
Where the more it comes up,
the more it starts to become
1362
00:49:22,927 --> 00:49:26,020
Kind of an issue
and an annoyance, to be honest.
1363
00:49:26,047 --> 00:49:27,855
- You signed up for the good
and the bad times, right?
1364
00:49:27,882 --> 00:49:29,614
- Oh, I know.
1365
00:49:29,676 --> 00:49:31,692
One month down, many to go.
1366
00:49:31,719 --> 00:49:33,419
[glasses clink]
- many to go.
1367
00:49:33,537 --> 00:49:36,438
[tense music]
1368
00:49:36,440 --> 00:49:39,517
♪ ♪
1369
00:49:39,635 --> 00:49:44,696
- ♪ feels so darn good
to be around you ♪
1370
00:49:44,698 --> 00:49:46,916
- Well, shall we get ready?
1371
00:49:46,918 --> 00:49:48,300
- Yeah.
1372
00:49:48,361 --> 00:49:50,377
Let's--let's go
dial it up to a 9.
1373
00:49:50,405 --> 00:49:51,937
- Spiff it up.
1374
00:49:52,056 --> 00:49:55,399
- Our couples have made it
halfway to decision day.
1375
00:49:55,401 --> 00:49:58,435
But they're not all
on the same marital path.
1376
00:49:58,454 --> 00:50:00,871
- I'm wonder who had
the best one month.
1377
00:50:00,990 --> 00:50:03,315
I feel like we had
a really good, fun one month.
1378
00:50:03,376 --> 00:50:05,501
- So it's important for them
to meet with the other couples,
1379
00:50:05,619 --> 00:50:07,469
To not only discuss
how far they've come,
1380
00:50:07,471 --> 00:50:10,806
But to offer support and advice
to those who need it.
1381
00:50:10,808 --> 00:50:14,443
- You look so handsome!
- Wow. You look so beautiful.
1382
00:50:14,445 --> 00:50:15,720
You look good.
- So--thanks.
1383
00:50:15,838 --> 00:50:17,921
I know, we've been
snazzing it up lately.
1384
00:50:18,040 --> 00:50:20,057
- No parties while we're gone.
1385
00:50:20,176 --> 00:50:21,592
Ok?
- Let's do it.
1386
00:50:21,710 --> 00:50:23,035
- Bye, boys.
- Bye, boys.
1387
00:50:23,062 --> 00:50:24,127
We'll see you later.
- Be good.
1388
00:50:24,147 --> 00:50:26,046
Be good boys.
- Be good boys.
1389
00:50:26,107 --> 00:50:27,672
- We'll be back.
1390
00:50:27,734 --> 00:50:29,466
- Let's make like
a tree and leave.
1391
00:50:29,485 --> 00:50:30,609
- [laughs]
1392
00:50:33,731 --> 00:50:35,013
[upbeat music]
1393
00:50:35,033 --> 00:50:37,316
- ♪ turn the lights on me ♪
1394
00:50:37,434 --> 00:50:42,096
♪ can't you see I'm flawless
and want to see ♪
1395
00:50:42,123 --> 00:50:44,506
- Tonight, we are
heading to dinner
1396
00:50:44,508 --> 00:50:46,675
With all the other couples
to celebrate
1397
00:50:46,677 --> 00:50:48,360
Our one-month anniversary.
1398
00:50:48,421 --> 00:50:50,921
I'm super-excited
to reconnect with the brides
1399
00:50:51,040 --> 00:50:54,500
And the grooms, too, and just
see what's been going on
1400
00:50:54,618 --> 00:50:55,700
With them for the last month.
1401
00:50:55,762 --> 00:50:57,261
It's good to kind of
pick their brain
1402
00:50:57,379 --> 00:50:59,930
And--and gain insight
on what's working for them
1403
00:51:00,049 --> 00:51:01,932
And what's not
working for them.
1404
00:51:02,051 --> 00:51:04,193
And it does make me, at least,
feel a little bit more at ease
1405
00:51:04,195 --> 00:51:05,877
Knowing that they're--
they're going through
1406
00:51:05,938 --> 00:51:08,013
Similar struggles
and hurdles as us.
1407
00:51:08,132 --> 00:51:09,515
- Oh, yeah!
1408
00:51:09,517 --> 00:51:10,649
- Oh, shoot!
1409
00:51:10,768 --> 00:51:12,117
- Party bus.
1410
00:51:12,119 --> 00:51:14,587
- Oh, no, no.
- Oh.
1411
00:51:14,589 --> 00:51:15,946
- You got it.
1412
00:51:16,065 --> 00:51:17,689
- That's what you learned
in boy scouts?
1413
00:51:17,808 --> 00:51:19,724
- Yeah, mormon boy scouts.
All: Mormon boy scouts.
1414
00:51:19,786 --> 00:51:23,971
- Throw the tack.
- Mormon boy scouts, 1993.
1415
00:51:23,998 --> 00:51:25,531
- That's it.
That was the year.
1416
00:51:25,649 --> 00:51:27,699
- '93?
- No. It wouldn't be.
1417
00:51:27,818 --> 00:51:29,643
- No, because you were
born in, what, '77?
1418
00:51:29,670 --> 00:51:31,295
[music slows to a halt]
- '81?
1419
00:51:31,413 --> 00:51:34,706
[laughter]
1420
00:51:34,825 --> 00:51:36,375
- I thought you were--
1421
00:51:36,493 --> 00:51:38,210
- Am I, like, the first
space program or something?
1422
00:51:38,328 --> 00:51:40,154
- That was, like, the nicest
shade I've heard in a while.
1423
00:51:40,181 --> 00:51:41,639
- Damn!
- I was just kidding!
1424
00:51:41,757 --> 00:51:43,899
- I didn't bring
my burn cream with me.
1425
00:51:43,901 --> 00:51:45,518
[laughter]
1426
00:51:49,298 --> 00:51:50,106
[pop music]
1427
00:51:50,224 --> 00:51:54,926
♪ ♪
1428
00:51:54,928 --> 00:51:58,447
- ♪ ooh, la-la-la-la ♪
1429
00:51:58,566 --> 00:52:00,649
♪ this is how
you make it hot ♪
1430
00:52:00,767 --> 00:52:02,309
♪ do you see me? ♪
1431
00:52:02,370 --> 00:52:04,078
♪ I'm the one who's making
all those eyes ♪
1432
00:52:04,238 --> 00:52:06,080
♪ it's just a party
and I know ♪
1433
00:52:06,240 --> 00:52:07,681
♪ I'm what
you're looking for ♪
1434
00:52:07,708 --> 00:52:09,332
♪ so let me break it down ♪
1435
00:52:09,334 --> 00:52:11,076
♪ 'cause this is how I do it,
boy ♪
1436
00:52:11,195 --> 00:52:12,503
♪ ♪
1437
00:52:12,621 --> 00:52:13,912
- Damn. I don't know.
1438
00:52:14,031 --> 00:52:16,023
- Oh, and we have
little name tag things.
1439
00:52:16,050 --> 00:52:17,266
- Thank you.
1440
00:52:17,268 --> 00:52:19,343
♪ ♪
1441
00:52:19,461 --> 00:52:21,253
- Well, congrats.
I mean, we've made it a month.
1442
00:52:21,371 --> 00:52:22,771
- Crazy.
1443
00:52:22,773 --> 00:52:23,922
- A month ago, I didn't
think we'd get here,
1444
00:52:24,041 --> 00:52:25,424
But here we are.
1445
00:52:25,542 --> 00:52:26,533
- Clink, clink, clink
clink, clink, clink.
1446
00:52:26,561 --> 00:52:28,869
- Clink. Clinking.
1447
00:52:28,896 --> 00:52:30,929
- I would love to hear
how everyone celebrated.
1448
00:52:31,089 --> 00:52:33,765
- What'd everybody do?
- We went to rutledge falls.
1449
00:52:33,884 --> 00:52:37,060
- Yeah, so we decided to do
a jamaican redemption...
1450
00:52:37,179 --> 00:52:38,604
- Oh, nice.
- Party.
1451
00:52:38,764 --> 00:52:40,197
- And we saddled up hank.
1452
00:52:40,316 --> 00:52:41,623
We had the whole family.
- Yeah, hank went.
1453
00:52:41,625 --> 00:52:43,717
- Aww, the family.
- Oh, hank?
1454
00:52:43,744 --> 00:52:46,528
- Clint and hank are bonding.
1455
00:52:46,647 --> 00:52:48,706
They're in love.
1456
00:52:48,824 --> 00:52:50,507
- But are clint
and gina bonding?
1457
00:52:50,509 --> 00:52:53,485
[lighthearted music]
1458
00:52:53,546 --> 00:52:54,728
- Yeah.
- Yeah, we're bonding.
1459
00:52:54,755 --> 00:52:56,380
- Yeah.
1460
00:52:56,498 --> 00:52:59,099
We've--we've come a long way
in a couple weeks.
1461
00:52:59,101 --> 00:53:02,185
And so we just--we keep
propping each other up.
1462
00:53:02,187 --> 00:53:04,738
And it's nice to focus
on the positives.
1463
00:53:04,898 --> 00:53:06,373
Yeah, we feel like
we're in a great place.
1464
00:53:06,434 --> 00:53:08,150
- I didn't have high hopes
for you guys after jamaica.
1465
00:53:08,152 --> 00:53:10,986
- Thanks. Yeah. Perfect.
- I'm sorry.
1466
00:53:10,988 --> 00:53:13,730
But truthfully,
you two have turned it around,
1467
00:53:13,732 --> 00:53:15,449
And it's really beautiful
to see.
1468
00:53:15,451 --> 00:53:16,825
- I think y'all look
great together, though.
1469
00:53:16,827 --> 00:53:17,809
- I agree.
- Yeah, for real.
1470
00:53:17,928 --> 00:53:19,586
- Thanks.
- Y'all do. Y'all do.
1471
00:53:19,614 --> 00:53:21,012
- With hank, too,
I'm like, yeah,
1472
00:53:21,073 --> 00:53:22,239
Y'all look great together.
1473
00:53:22,358 --> 00:53:23,924
- And y'all have
a good time together too.
1474
00:53:23,951 --> 00:53:25,167
- Yeah, we do. Yeah.
1475
00:53:25,169 --> 00:53:26,243
- So that's
definitely something.
1476
00:53:26,362 --> 00:53:27,653
- Well, yeah,
we're in a good place.
1477
00:53:27,771 --> 00:53:29,488
But time's ticking too.
1478
00:53:29,606 --> 00:53:33,100
But we're--yeah, we're at
least on the right trajectory.
1479
00:53:33,260 --> 00:53:34,743
- Yeah.
1480
00:53:34,861 --> 00:53:37,087
♪ ♪
1481
00:53:37,206 --> 00:53:39,106
- So, jas and airris,
what about you?
1482
00:53:39,133 --> 00:53:40,682
Have things developed?
1483
00:53:40,684 --> 00:53:42,760
I mean, you guys--you know,
I'm a body-language reader,
1484
00:53:42,878 --> 00:53:44,611
And you're already
giving me great vibes.
1485
00:53:44,639 --> 00:53:46,822
So I feel good about
what you're about to say,
1486
00:53:46,824 --> 00:53:48,373
And please don't let me down.
1487
00:53:48,434 --> 00:53:51,185
[tense music]
1488
00:53:51,345 --> 00:53:53,195
♪ ♪
1489
00:53:53,197 --> 00:53:54,621
- I'm--I mean,
I'm attracted to him.
1490
00:53:54,649 --> 00:53:55,956
So it's just like,
1491
00:53:55,983 --> 00:53:57,775
I'm just kind of letting him
take the lead.
1492
00:53:57,893 --> 00:54:00,486
And if it grows for him, great,
1493
00:54:00,604 --> 00:54:03,113
And if it doesn't,
I have to accept it, so...
1494
00:54:03,232 --> 00:54:05,132
- It does feel like
you guys are doing more.
1495
00:54:05,159 --> 00:54:07,675
You're getting to know each
other's personalities, and...
1496
00:54:07,677 --> 00:54:09,703
- Yeah.
- Feelings are being shared.
1497
00:54:09,863 --> 00:54:11,713
So, I mean, it might
not be physical growth.
1498
00:54:11,715 --> 00:54:13,865
But one day
you might be like, "wow,
1499
00:54:13,984 --> 00:54:15,792
I'm in love with his
or her personality,"
1500
00:54:15,794 --> 00:54:18,103
And then the physical
just naturally comes, so...
1501
00:54:18,130 --> 00:54:19,738
- Yeah.
- I still have really
1502
00:54:19,799 --> 00:54:22,524
High hopes for you guys.
- [laughs]
1503
00:54:22,526 --> 00:54:24,059
- Yeah.
1504
00:54:24,061 --> 00:54:26,128
- Airris needs
to start treating his wife
1505
00:54:26,246 --> 00:54:28,046
Like a wife and not a friend.
1506
00:54:28,165 --> 00:54:29,990
- And with airris,
I think he's just definitely
1507
00:54:30,017 --> 00:54:31,158
In his own head about it.
1508
00:54:31,185 --> 00:54:32,309
Like, jas is a beautiful woman.
1509
00:54:32,428 --> 00:54:34,328
But again,
it's one of those things
1510
00:54:34,355 --> 00:54:37,556
Where he seems to kind of
just not really feel that way.
1511
00:54:37,716 --> 00:54:39,208
And I don't know.
1512
00:54:39,210 --> 00:54:40,409
I mean, it's going
to be tough for them
1513
00:54:40,411 --> 00:54:41,743
To kind of get over that hump.
1514
00:54:41,745 --> 00:54:42,894
- I mean, pastor cal was like,
1515
00:54:43,055 --> 00:54:43,988
"you got to be
more intentional.
1516
00:54:44,106 --> 00:54:45,914
You have to initiate."
1517
00:54:45,916 --> 00:54:48,099
But it's just like, how do
you really want to initiate
1518
00:54:48,260 --> 00:54:50,360
Something with someone
after they tell you, you know,
1519
00:54:50,479 --> 00:54:52,537
Like, "it ain't
really there for me"?
1520
00:54:52,539 --> 00:54:54,489
So we're going to try to be
more intentional
1521
00:54:54,608 --> 00:54:56,125
And initiate, but--
1522
00:54:56,243 --> 00:54:57,592
- I think just not
rushing the process.
1523
00:54:57,594 --> 00:54:59,428
Like, I mean,
I feel that for sure.
1524
00:54:59,430 --> 00:55:02,331
Like, I think all you can do
is focus on where you're at
1525
00:55:02,449 --> 00:55:05,325
Day by day and continue
to remind yourself that, like,
1526
00:55:05,386 --> 00:55:07,118
This still is one month in.
1527
00:55:07,138 --> 00:55:10,922
So it's a--
it's a conscious choice.
1528
00:55:11,041 --> 00:55:12,607
So...
1529
00:55:12,609 --> 00:55:14,034
- I have a question.
1530
00:55:14,061 --> 00:55:15,160
I mean, I can only ask
you guys...
1531
00:55:15,187 --> 00:55:16,537
- Yeah.
- That I know.
1532
00:55:16,564 --> 00:55:19,765
Is married sex different
from, like, single sex?
1533
00:55:19,883 --> 00:55:21,950
- I feel like it--
- that's a good question.
1534
00:55:21,952 --> 00:55:24,953
- A little bit, because we know
we have the rest
1535
00:55:24,955 --> 00:55:26,780
Of our lives to have sex,
so we don't feel
1536
00:55:26,940 --> 00:55:29,624
The pressure to do it every
time we're next to each other.
1537
00:55:29,626 --> 00:55:32,369
But at the same time,
like, we just started.
1538
00:55:32,488 --> 00:55:35,130
So we want to do it
as often as possible.
1539
00:55:35,132 --> 00:55:36,615
So it's a weird balance
to find.
1540
00:55:36,733 --> 00:55:38,467
- Yeah, yeah.
1541
00:55:38,469 --> 00:55:40,969
- Yeah, so...
- I mean--no?
1542
00:55:40,971 --> 00:55:41,953
Are you guys--
- uh.
1543
00:55:42,072 --> 00:55:42,913
- [gasp]
- no.
1544
00:55:43,031 --> 00:55:44,715
[laughs]
1545
00:55:44,833 --> 00:55:46,975
- Has anything progressed
in the intimacy department?
1546
00:55:46,977 --> 00:55:48,977
And I don't mean kissing
on the mouth,
1547
00:55:48,979 --> 00:55:50,571
Because we should be
all doing that.
1548
00:55:50,598 --> 00:55:53,057
Well, you guys should
at least be doing that.
1549
00:55:53,175 --> 00:55:54,999
No pressure.
1550
00:55:55,061 --> 00:55:56,485
- I mean, I've seen
how you rub his head.
1551
00:55:56,487 --> 00:55:57,819
Just saying.
- Yeah.
1552
00:55:57,821 --> 00:55:59,304
- Is the head
a turn-on for you now?
1553
00:55:59,423 --> 00:56:00,914
- It's there, for sure.
1554
00:56:00,941 --> 00:56:02,583
- It's there.
- It is. It's there.
1555
00:56:02,610 --> 00:56:04,585
It's nice, and it's smooth.
1556
00:56:04,612 --> 00:56:07,011
- Are we hitting any new bases?
1557
00:56:07,073 --> 00:56:09,073
- Um, not really.
1558
00:56:09,191 --> 00:56:11,650
[dramatic music]
1559
00:56:11,768 --> 00:56:13,184
What do you think?
1560
00:56:13,245 --> 00:56:15,003
- You don't know?
Are you awake?
1561
00:56:15,005 --> 00:56:17,981
- Like, we have
a little bit of connection.
1562
00:56:18,000 --> 00:56:20,842
Like, the chemistry's there
a little bit.
1563
00:56:20,844 --> 00:56:23,053
- I think it's--I think
it's there, honestly,
1564
00:56:23,055 --> 00:56:24,254
And I think, you know, for me--
1565
00:56:27,184 --> 00:56:31,427
- I've definitely been giving
kirsten grace and patience.
1566
00:56:31,547 --> 00:56:32,963
But sometimes
that just run thin.
1567
00:56:33,081 --> 00:56:35,933
And I don't know if I can move
forward in my life knowing
1568
00:56:36,051 --> 00:56:39,678
That, you know, I put forth
all of the effort, you know,
1569
00:56:39,796 --> 00:56:41,788
To break down my walls,
to be vulnerable,
1570
00:56:41,816 --> 00:56:43,957
To work on things
that I know I need
1571
00:56:43,984 --> 00:56:45,292
To work on in our marriage,
1572
00:56:45,319 --> 00:56:48,036
And the same energy
is not given.
1573
00:56:48,038 --> 00:56:49,463
♪ ♪
1574
00:56:49,490 --> 00:56:51,039
- Seems like a sore subject.
1575
00:56:51,041 --> 00:56:56,370
♪ ♪
1576
00:57:00,126 --> 00:57:01,216
[tense music]
1577
00:57:01,334 --> 00:57:02,709
♪ ♪
1578
00:57:02,870 --> 00:57:05,554
- Like, we have a little
bit of connection.
1579
00:57:05,556 --> 00:57:07,631
Like, the chemistry
is there a little bit.
1580
00:57:07,749 --> 00:57:10,008
- I think it's--
I think it's there, honestly.
1581
00:57:10,127 --> 00:57:11,710
And I think, you know, for me--
1582
00:57:11,828 --> 00:57:13,895
- Shaq's like,
I'm ready to make out.
1583
00:57:13,897 --> 00:57:17,157
- It seems like a sore subject.
1584
00:57:17,184 --> 00:57:19,209
- Well, I find, like,
over-communication
1585
00:57:19,228 --> 00:57:21,211
Is always better
than under-communication.
1586
00:57:21,230 --> 00:57:23,305
You've got to be ready
to be vulnerable,
1587
00:57:23,423 --> 00:57:24,823
Because this is
a crazy situation.
1588
00:57:24,825 --> 00:57:26,382
It's not normal.
1589
00:57:26,402 --> 00:57:28,577
- And that comes to--
all of that comes with,
1590
00:57:28,579 --> 00:57:31,095
Like, learning each other,
and having that time.
1591
00:57:31,157 --> 00:57:32,898
- Well, we're just growing.
And, you know--
1592
00:57:33,016 --> 00:57:34,566
- It's taking some time.
1593
00:57:34,684 --> 00:57:36,209
- It's been a month, guys.
It's--
1594
00:57:36,211 --> 00:57:38,378
- Yeah, that's--I think that's
when you just have to, like...
1595
00:57:38,380 --> 00:57:40,271
[clicks tongue]
take a step back,
1596
00:57:40,332 --> 00:57:41,832
And just constantly
remind yourself,
1597
00:57:41,950 --> 00:57:44,593
Like, how crazy this is.
1598
00:57:44,595 --> 00:57:46,261
Because it's crazy.
- Yeah, it is.
1599
00:57:46,263 --> 00:57:48,079
- Well, and I think the common
denominator with all of us
1600
00:57:48,198 --> 00:57:49,581
Is, like, grace.
1601
00:57:49,699 --> 00:57:52,309
Like, all of us have
different areas
1602
00:57:52,311 --> 00:57:54,386
That we can consistently
be extending grace
1603
00:57:54,505 --> 00:57:56,029
And growing through, so...
1604
00:57:56,056 --> 00:57:57,923
- Here's to grace and growth,
right here.
1605
00:57:58,041 --> 00:58:00,442
- Yeah, grace and growth.
- Grace and growth. G and g.
1606
00:58:00,444 --> 00:58:02,394
Both: Clink, clink, clink
clink, clink, clink.
1607
00:58:06,383 --> 00:58:08,850
- ♪ mountains are
for burning ♪
1608
00:58:08,969 --> 00:58:11,302
♪ heavens are for flying ♪
1609
00:58:11,363 --> 00:58:14,305
♪ with your hand in mine,
we can do anything ♪
1610
00:58:14,466 --> 00:58:15,882
♪ we can do anything ♪
1611
00:58:15,910 --> 00:58:19,344
- Oh, goodness.
What a night.
1612
00:58:19,346 --> 00:58:20,370
What a night.
1613
00:58:20,489 --> 00:58:22,964
♪ ♪
1614
00:58:22,966 --> 00:58:25,617
[laughing]
1615
00:58:25,735 --> 00:58:27,418
Oh, goodness.
1616
00:58:27,420 --> 00:58:29,463
I'm glad we can laugh now.
1617
00:58:29,623 --> 00:58:32,474
I was a little stressed out
at the table.
1618
00:58:32,476 --> 00:58:34,885
- It just--for me,
I guess, every time
1619
00:58:35,003 --> 00:58:36,978
When we get together,
it's like something--
1620
00:58:36,980 --> 00:58:38,313
I always hit another level.
Like--
1621
00:58:38,315 --> 00:58:39,455
- Mm-hmm.
1622
00:58:39,475 --> 00:58:40,799
- Ok, we talk
about these things.
1623
00:58:40,917 --> 00:58:42,166
We're working towards,
you know,
1624
00:58:42,228 --> 00:58:44,636
Getting to the next level,
and then it's like, boom.
1625
00:58:44,754 --> 00:58:47,231
- Well, what was it that I said
that made you feel like
1626
00:58:47,349 --> 00:58:50,042
It's a setback in our marriage?
1627
00:58:50,044 --> 00:58:51,810
- You know, when you be like,
you know, you was like--
1628
00:58:51,928 --> 00:58:53,662
They was all,
"how's the intimacy level
1629
00:58:53,664 --> 00:58:55,072
Or the chemistry level,"
you was like,
1630
00:58:55,190 --> 00:58:57,999
"I just feel like
it's really little."
1631
00:58:58,001 --> 00:59:00,819
I'm like, what in the hell?
1632
00:59:00,937 --> 00:59:03,055
[tense music]
1633
00:59:03,057 --> 00:59:05,599
I just really want to know,
like, what kirsten needs.
1634
00:59:05,626 --> 00:59:08,510
Because it seem like
every time I'm trying
1635
00:59:08,512 --> 00:59:10,161
Or get to, you know,
the next level,
1636
00:59:10,280 --> 00:59:12,180
It's like when we get
1637
00:59:12,182 --> 00:59:14,683
In front of everybody else,
I'm left blindsided,
1638
00:59:14,685 --> 00:59:16,334
Because I'm like,
damn, she couldn't
1639
00:59:16,453 --> 00:59:18,003
Tell me this at the house?
1640
00:59:18,121 --> 00:59:19,838
Like, she couldn't tell me
when we got home later?
1641
00:59:19,956 --> 00:59:22,841
She can't tell me
how she honestly feel?
1642
00:59:22,959 --> 00:59:25,118
- So I check in
with you sometimes,
1643
00:59:25,145 --> 00:59:26,937
And I'm like, "shaquille,
how do you feel right now?"
1644
00:59:27,055 --> 00:59:29,364
Like, you don't--you have to
check in with me too and say,
1645
00:59:29,366 --> 00:59:30,791
"kirsten, how do you feel
right now,"
1646
00:59:30,818 --> 00:59:32,534
If I'm not telling you
how I feel
1647
00:59:32,536 --> 00:59:34,111
When I ask you
how you're feeling.
1648
00:59:34,229 --> 00:59:36,371
And that's when it goes back
to the communication level.
1649
00:59:36,373 --> 00:59:38,389
So you're not going to know
how I feel about
1650
00:59:38,450 --> 00:59:40,692
An intimacy level
between you and I
1651
00:59:40,810 --> 00:59:42,544
If you're not asking me
that question.
1652
00:59:42,546 --> 00:59:43,954
- You just can't
come out and tell me?
1653
00:59:44,072 --> 00:59:46,214
♪ ♪
1654
00:59:46,216 --> 00:59:47,457
- That's what I'm saying--
if I don't come out
1655
00:59:47,576 --> 00:59:49,810
And tell you,
then you should ask.
1656
00:59:49,837 --> 00:59:52,129
- You want me--
- I ask you how you feel.
1657
00:59:52,247 --> 00:59:53,555
Like, yeah, you should
ask me how I feel.
1658
00:59:53,557 --> 00:59:55,132
- Kirsten, I always ask you,
like, you know,
1659
00:59:55,250 --> 00:59:57,058
How are we doing, you know?
1660
00:59:57,060 --> 00:59:58,927
- When have you asked me that?
1661
01:00:00,681 --> 01:00:02,455
- Ok. Let's see.
1662
01:00:02,516 --> 01:00:05,309
Kirsten renee,
1663
01:00:05,427 --> 01:00:07,477
How do you feel
about our marriage right now?
1664
01:00:07,596 --> 01:00:10,572
- I definitely feel like we
need to work on communication.
1665
01:00:10,574 --> 01:00:13,424
Like, this is horrible
right now.
1666
01:00:13,485 --> 01:00:16,394
And I really feel
like the intimacy level
1667
01:00:16,513 --> 01:00:18,730
Could be better.
1668
01:00:18,848 --> 01:00:21,332
- At the beginning,
I had to grow and say,
1669
01:00:21,334 --> 01:00:23,635
Like, ok, I can
be patient enough
1670
01:00:23,637 --> 01:00:25,070
And wait till it happened.
1671
01:00:25,188 --> 01:00:26,913
But now it's like
it's on kirsten time.
1672
01:00:27,074 --> 01:00:29,499
Kirsten want it to happen
when she want it to happen.
1673
01:00:29,618 --> 01:00:31,776
But at the beginning,
you had that guard up,
1674
01:00:31,837 --> 01:00:33,945
And you did not want that
to happen at all.
1675
01:00:34,006 --> 01:00:37,499
You barely wanted me
to touch you.
1676
01:00:37,617 --> 01:00:39,409
- But now that we're there,
and I'm starting
1677
01:00:39,428 --> 01:00:40,952
To open up to you and I'm
letting those walls down,
1678
01:00:41,013 --> 01:00:42,604
It seem like--
- but that's on your time.
1679
01:00:42,606 --> 01:00:44,514
- I know, but--
- but you don't look at it
1680
01:00:44,633 --> 01:00:47,184
From my position to say, ok--
- ok. Explain to me.
1681
01:00:47,302 --> 01:00:48,943
- It--it seem like,
in your life,
1682
01:00:48,945 --> 01:00:51,688
That it's always been on your
time of which you want it.
1683
01:00:51,807 --> 01:00:55,366
And for me, like, no,
that ain't gonna fly.
1684
01:00:55,368 --> 01:00:57,118
It's not all about kirsten.
1685
01:00:57,120 --> 01:00:58,603
- It's not,
and I tell you that too.
1686
01:00:58,722 --> 01:01:00,288
It's about the both of us.
1687
01:01:00,290 --> 01:01:02,306
But this is not gonna
help our relationship.
1688
01:01:02,368 --> 01:01:04,034
This is not gonna help
our marriage grow.
1689
01:01:04,152 --> 01:01:08,221
♪ ♪
1690
01:01:08,248 --> 01:01:10,131
- I don't know if I want
to be with somebody
1691
01:01:10,133 --> 01:01:12,283
Who just continues to have
a guard up with somebody
1692
01:01:12,402 --> 01:01:15,545
Who actually want to be
in this marriage with them.
1693
01:01:15,664 --> 01:01:22,344
♪ ♪
1694
01:01:23,447 --> 01:01:25,121
- Next time
on "married at first sight"...
1695
01:01:25,123 --> 01:01:26,281
[goats bleating]
1696
01:01:26,283 --> 01:01:27,891
- ♪ so keep digging deeper ♪
1697
01:01:28,009 --> 01:01:29,484
- How are you?
1698
01:01:29,486 --> 01:01:31,578
- ♪ soon
I'm gonna find myself ♪
1699
01:01:31,605 --> 01:01:33,747
- Dr. Pepper!
1700
01:01:33,774 --> 01:01:37,341
- Our couples must learn to go
deeper with their spouses
1701
01:01:37,403 --> 01:01:40,904
In order to make an informed
decision about their future.
1702
01:01:41,022 --> 01:01:43,306
- So what about
chemistry and intimacy?
1703
01:01:43,325 --> 01:01:44,566
How is that increasing?
1704
01:01:44,684 --> 01:01:46,034
♪ ♪
1705
01:01:46,153 --> 01:01:47,685
- We've been doing
better at it.
1706
01:01:47,746 --> 01:01:49,779
- [laughs]
- because at first--
1707
01:01:49,898 --> 01:01:51,056
- Dr. Pepper's like, "good."
1708
01:01:51,083 --> 01:01:52,507
- We've been doing better.
1709
01:01:52,509 --> 01:01:54,317
- I've just started
to love myself,
1710
01:01:54,336 --> 01:01:57,337
And now I'm in this marriage
that I've longed for forever,
1711
01:01:57,497 --> 01:01:59,314
And now my person
not even feeling me.
1712
01:01:59,316 --> 01:02:00,923
[dramatic music]
1713
01:02:00,925 --> 01:02:02,484
- You know, I grew up
with a single mom,
1714
01:02:02,486 --> 01:02:04,594
And so I'm--
it's easy for me to be
1715
01:02:04,713 --> 01:02:06,263
Super vulnerable with women.
1716
01:02:06,381 --> 01:02:10,684
But with men, I've struggled
with opening up.
1717
01:02:10,844 --> 01:02:12,527
- I've noticed,
since we've been married,
1718
01:02:12,529 --> 01:02:14,670
That my past relationships
actually affected me
1719
01:02:14,690 --> 01:02:17,791
A lot more than they did,
because being vulnerable
1720
01:02:17,818 --> 01:02:19,459
Made you weak.
1721
01:02:19,486 --> 01:02:21,770
And when you're weak,
you get taken advantage of.
1722
01:02:21,888 --> 01:02:24,948
I'm a little worried
that I'll just wake up,
1723
01:02:25,066 --> 01:02:29,043
And this little happy life
we're living won't--
1724
01:02:29,045 --> 01:02:31,621
Won't be so happy anymore.
1725
01:02:31,740 --> 01:02:35,158
- You both made this enormous
commitment to each other.
1726
01:02:35,276 --> 01:02:38,085
You need to go over and above
what feels easy.
1727
01:02:38,087 --> 01:02:41,256
I'm asking you to dig deep
and do that.