1 00:00:01,917 --> 00:00:02,833 - ♪ Let's go ♪ 2 00:00:02,917 --> 00:00:03,875 ♪ Follow me ♪ 3 00:00:04,042 --> 00:00:05,000 - Nice to meet you. 4 00:00:05,125 --> 00:00:07,167 - Six weeks ago, 10 singles 5 00:00:07,250 --> 00:00:10,708 took a brave leap of faith and married complete strangers. 6 00:00:10,833 --> 00:00:14,542 [cheers and applause] 7 00:00:14,708 --> 00:00:18,625 - ♪ Feels so darn good to be around you ♪ 8 00:00:18,750 --> 00:00:21,625 - Last time, our couples asked the tough questions 9 00:00:21,750 --> 00:00:24,667 and faced difficult truths about their marriages. 10 00:00:27,833 --> 00:00:29,417 - I know that I can trust her. 11 00:00:29,542 --> 00:00:31,583 I know that I can tell her anything. 12 00:00:31,708 --> 00:00:32,875 - Do you love her? 13 00:00:33,000 --> 00:00:33,958 - I do love her. 14 00:00:34,083 --> 00:00:36,667 - ♪ Moment ♪ 15 00:00:36,750 --> 00:00:38,500 - I love you. - I love you too. 16 00:00:38,625 --> 00:00:40,125 - ♪ To be around you ♪ 17 00:00:42,333 --> 00:00:44,417 - Can I get like, a promise here that these things 18 00:00:44,542 --> 00:00:46,792 that I've asked for, that you're really 19 00:00:46,917 --> 00:00:49,083 going to do these things? both: Yes. 20 00:00:49,208 --> 00:00:52,083 - Can I get a like, yes on this, you know? 21 00:00:52,208 --> 00:00:54,417 - Yes! - [laughs] 22 00:00:56,500 --> 00:00:59,708 - You've like, gone above and beyond to incorporate yourself 23 00:00:59,833 --> 00:01:01,750 into my life, and I appreciate you 24 00:01:01,875 --> 00:01:03,125 probably more than you know. 25 00:01:03,250 --> 00:01:04,375 - And likewise. 26 00:01:04,500 --> 00:01:05,958 I mean, it's just the appreciation 27 00:01:06,083 --> 00:01:08,500 for like, your character and your bravery and-- 28 00:01:08,625 --> 00:01:09,708 - Thanks. 29 00:01:12,167 --> 00:01:14,833 - Kirsten, the type of support I would like to see 30 00:01:14,917 --> 00:01:19,667 is for you to be invested in who I am. 31 00:01:19,792 --> 00:01:21,750 - I am a very supportive person 32 00:01:21,875 --> 00:01:23,833 and that also comes within time. 33 00:01:23,917 --> 00:01:25,083 - You feel that? - Yeah. 34 00:01:25,208 --> 00:01:26,958 - And do you believe that? - I believe. 35 00:01:27,042 --> 00:01:31,333 ♪ ♪ 36 00:01:31,417 --> 00:01:34,000 - And tonight, with two weeks left until Decision Day... 37 00:01:34,083 --> 00:01:37,417 [all exclaiming] 38 00:01:37,542 --> 00:01:40,542 We're sending our couples on a fun-filled getaway... 39 00:01:40,667 --> 00:01:41,833 - Whoo! 40 00:01:42,000 --> 00:01:44,333 - Ah! Whoo! 41 00:01:44,458 --> 00:01:47,167 - Where they can relax, reset, 42 00:01:47,292 --> 00:01:49,500 and share experiences that will hopefully 43 00:01:49,625 --> 00:01:51,500 help strengthen their marriages. 44 00:01:51,667 --> 00:01:52,917 - I'ma open the door. 45 00:01:53,042 --> 00:01:54,583 - No, you're not opening the door. 46 00:01:54,708 --> 00:01:56,958 - Why not? 47 00:01:57,042 --> 00:01:59,333 - Check out our digs. - [sighs] 48 00:01:59,417 --> 00:02:01,500 All I really want to do is just 49 00:02:01,583 --> 00:02:03,375 give each other some space, some quiet time. 50 00:02:03,542 --> 00:02:05,042 I really don't want to ruin this retreat, 51 00:02:05,167 --> 00:02:07,833 so I'm going to have to make the best of it. 52 00:02:07,958 --> 00:02:11,167 - I mean, it's been a struggle. 53 00:02:11,292 --> 00:02:13,833 I definitely need more grace in this marriage, 54 00:02:13,958 --> 00:02:15,917 and for it to be consistent. 55 00:02:16,042 --> 00:02:17,958 - She had a guard up all of these weeks. 56 00:02:18,083 --> 00:02:19,542 Like, one week is intimacy, 57 00:02:19,667 --> 00:02:22,417 one week is chemistry, one week is this. 58 00:02:22,542 --> 00:02:24,625 I'm like, I done went through all this [bleep] for nothing? 59 00:02:24,708 --> 00:02:27,958 [dramatic music] 60 00:02:28,083 --> 00:02:30,125 - ♪ It's all or nothing ♪ 61 00:02:30,208 --> 00:02:32,375 - This is "Married at First Sight." 62 00:02:32,500 --> 00:02:34,000 - ♪ There's no other way ♪ 63 00:02:34,167 --> 00:02:35,833 ♪ ♪ 64 00:02:35,958 --> 00:02:38,125 ♪ It's all or nothing ♪ 65 00:02:38,208 --> 00:02:40,667 - ♪ We'll never really know ♪ 66 00:02:40,792 --> 00:02:43,667 [upbeat pop music] 67 00:02:43,792 --> 00:02:47,125 ♪ ♪ 68 00:02:47,250 --> 00:02:49,917 - Getting ready for couples' retreat. 69 00:02:50,042 --> 00:02:52,333 So excited. 70 00:02:52,458 --> 00:02:56,458 - Go out, chase a wolf, chase a bear. 71 00:02:56,542 --> 00:02:57,875 - Here you go. 72 00:02:58,000 --> 00:02:59,208 I hope you got some good insurance. 73 00:02:59,333 --> 00:03:01,208 - The couple's retreat is an opportunity 74 00:03:01,375 --> 00:03:04,042 for everyone to bond in a new environment. 75 00:03:04,208 --> 00:03:06,250 - I always feel like I forget stuff when I pack. 76 00:03:06,375 --> 00:03:08,625 - Well, I made a packing list. 77 00:03:08,708 --> 00:03:10,583 - And work together to help bridge 78 00:03:10,708 --> 00:03:13,167 any lingering gaps in their marriages. 79 00:03:13,292 --> 00:03:15,833 - Super excited to just hang out with all the couples, 80 00:03:15,958 --> 00:03:17,333 relax a little bit. 81 00:03:17,500 --> 00:03:20,917 Wake up and have coffee looking at the mountains. 82 00:03:21,042 --> 00:03:22,417 - Oh, some good mountain fresh air. 83 00:03:22,542 --> 00:03:23,333 - Yeah. 84 00:03:23,458 --> 00:03:24,833 - See the deer frolicking. 85 00:03:25,000 --> 00:03:26,333 - The deer frolicking. 86 00:03:26,417 --> 00:03:28,792 Hope we don't get any bears. 87 00:03:28,917 --> 00:03:30,333 - I'll-- - They come out... 88 00:03:30,417 --> 00:03:32,000 - I'd like to see a bear. 89 00:03:32,125 --> 00:03:34,375 - It is our hope they'll be able to reconnect 90 00:03:34,542 --> 00:03:37,042 in a meaningful way before they'll have to make 91 00:03:37,167 --> 00:03:39,417 the biggest decision of their lives. 92 00:03:39,542 --> 00:03:41,667 - Should we make a get-ready rap? 93 00:03:41,792 --> 00:03:44,583 [rhythmic knocking] 94 00:03:44,708 --> 00:03:47,333 - ♪ Uh, uh, uh, uh ♪ 95 00:03:47,417 --> 00:03:50,042 ♪ My name is Shaquille ♪ 96 00:03:50,208 --> 00:03:53,083 ♪ I live in Nashville ♪ 97 00:03:53,208 --> 00:03:55,458 - Hey! - ♪ I'll be here long ♪ 98 00:03:55,583 --> 00:03:56,958 - Hey! 99 00:03:57,042 --> 00:04:00,083 - ♪ I don't know the rest of the freaking words but, hey ♪ 100 00:04:00,208 --> 00:04:02,542 I don't even know. I can't even rhyme. 101 00:04:02,708 --> 00:04:03,875 - [laughs] 102 00:04:07,292 --> 00:04:08,792 ♪ ♪ 103 00:04:08,875 --> 00:04:10,958 - I'm not great at packing in general 104 00:04:11,083 --> 00:04:12,667 because I always overpack. 105 00:04:12,750 --> 00:04:14,667 Is this reminiscent to our honeymoon? 106 00:04:14,792 --> 00:04:16,833 Like the first experience you had of me 107 00:04:16,958 --> 00:04:19,333 was me sitting on my suitcase in the airport 108 00:04:19,417 --> 00:04:21,667 trying to close it? 109 00:04:21,792 --> 00:04:23,333 - Well, don't you have another bag? 110 00:04:23,458 --> 00:04:24,708 Why don't you just put some of the stuff in the other bag? 111 00:04:24,833 --> 00:04:25,667 Or is that bag full, too? 112 00:04:25,792 --> 00:04:27,167 - Well, this all fits. 113 00:04:27,292 --> 00:04:29,667 It just needs a little encouragement. 114 00:04:29,792 --> 00:04:31,583 It's better to overpack, especially when 115 00:04:31,708 --> 00:04:33,542 we don't really know what the agenda is. 116 00:04:33,667 --> 00:04:35,833 - I just know some of the stuff, there's the '80s party. 117 00:04:35,958 --> 00:04:38,333 There's--I have to be dressy. 118 00:04:38,458 --> 00:04:40,125 There's a--some guys' pageant. 119 00:04:40,250 --> 00:04:42,208 I have no idea what that's about. 120 00:04:42,333 --> 00:04:44,667 - What outfit did you pick for the pageant? 121 00:04:44,833 --> 00:04:46,625 - It'll be a surprise. 122 00:04:52,375 --> 00:04:54,625 - Are you excited about this pageant? 123 00:04:54,708 --> 00:04:55,708 - Clint will win. 124 00:04:55,833 --> 00:04:57,500 - How so? 125 00:04:57,667 --> 00:04:59,583 - I got to carry the weight of pageant. 126 00:04:59,708 --> 00:05:01,667 Golly. 127 00:05:01,792 --> 00:05:05,375 What are you here for? [both laughs] 128 00:05:05,500 --> 00:05:08,250 - I'm hoping that, you know, me and Airris, 129 00:05:08,375 --> 00:05:10,208 you know, get over some roadblocks. 130 00:05:10,375 --> 00:05:13,417 I'm hoping that, you know, we increase our intimacy. 131 00:05:13,542 --> 00:05:15,167 And I want us to have that connection. 132 00:05:15,292 --> 00:05:16,708 I want us to have that spark. 133 00:05:16,875 --> 00:05:19,500 So I'm hoping that in some way this weekend, 134 00:05:19,625 --> 00:05:23,750 we grow, and, you know, we leave better than we came. 135 00:05:27,417 --> 00:05:30,583 [upbeat music] 136 00:05:30,708 --> 00:05:36,333 ♪ ♪ 137 00:05:36,458 --> 00:05:39,833 - Hope I don't get a room next to Chris and Nicole 138 00:05:39,958 --> 00:05:43,333 or Shaq and Kirsten. 139 00:05:43,417 --> 00:05:46,417 - Why? - 'Cause. 140 00:05:46,542 --> 00:05:49,708 Who knows what type of noises they might be making. 141 00:05:49,875 --> 00:05:52,375 - [imitating snoring] 142 00:05:55,208 --> 00:05:58,500 - [continues imitating] 143 00:05:58,583 --> 00:06:02,000 - What are you most excited about for this weekend? 144 00:06:02,167 --> 00:06:06,083 - Oh, probably the '80s party. 145 00:06:06,208 --> 00:06:07,833 - Yeah? - For the birthday. 146 00:06:07,917 --> 00:06:09,917 - Is it for costume or your birthday, or both? 147 00:06:10,042 --> 00:06:11,917 - I just, I love-- 148 00:06:12,042 --> 00:06:13,958 - Theme parties? - Yeah. 149 00:06:14,083 --> 00:06:17,750 I'm just ready to get there and get the party started. 150 00:06:18,208 --> 00:06:19,875 - ♪ Whoa, oh, oh, oh ♪ 151 00:06:20,000 --> 00:06:21,083 ♪ Oh-oh ♪ 152 00:06:21,208 --> 00:06:22,792 ♪ Whoa, oh, oh, oh ♪ 153 00:06:22,917 --> 00:06:25,500 - I brought card games. 154 00:06:25,625 --> 00:06:27,750 So you can pick your poison. 155 00:06:27,875 --> 00:06:32,083 - Ice Breaker starter pack, card number one. 156 00:06:32,208 --> 00:06:36,792 What do the first 30 minutes of your typical day look like? 157 00:06:36,875 --> 00:06:38,417 - We know what your first 30 minutes-- 158 00:06:38,542 --> 00:06:41,625 - First 30 minutes every morning is pooping. 159 00:06:41,708 --> 00:06:44,250 - Toilet. - Pooping and reading. 160 00:06:44,375 --> 00:06:46,375 That's such a great way to start the day, 161 00:06:46,500 --> 00:06:49,333 to get rid of the toxins out of your body 162 00:06:49,417 --> 00:06:52,167 and to pour information into your body. 163 00:06:52,333 --> 00:06:54,667 - Is that how you look at it? - I recommend it to everyone. 164 00:06:54,750 --> 00:06:57,167 - [laughs] 165 00:06:57,292 --> 00:07:00,958 - What's the wisest thing I taught you? 166 00:07:01,083 --> 00:07:04,917 - I would have to say it would be to read more. 167 00:07:10,542 --> 00:07:12,875 - I guess give myself grace. 168 00:07:13,000 --> 00:07:14,292 Taught me that, 'cause a lot of times-- 169 00:07:14,417 --> 00:07:15,542 - Yeah? - A lot of times when 170 00:07:15,667 --> 00:07:17,458 you think of grace, you think of, like, 171 00:07:17,542 --> 00:07:18,917 giving it to other people. 172 00:07:22,167 --> 00:07:26,125 - I mean, you told me to like, live my truth. 173 00:07:26,250 --> 00:07:28,167 And like, it's OK to like, 174 00:07:28,292 --> 00:07:30,500 you know, feel how I feel and like, 175 00:07:30,667 --> 00:07:32,125 don't feel guilty about it. 176 00:07:32,250 --> 00:07:33,167 - Oh. 177 00:07:33,333 --> 00:07:35,667 ♪ ♪ 178 00:07:35,833 --> 00:07:37,333 - What? 179 00:07:37,500 --> 00:07:38,917 - [chuckles] 180 00:07:39,042 --> 00:07:41,417 - Who would struggle more if we broke up? 181 00:07:41,542 --> 00:07:43,667 This ain't--ain't nothing like happy. 182 00:07:43,750 --> 00:07:45,583 Ain't no happy questions. 183 00:07:45,708 --> 00:07:46,875 Golly. 184 00:07:47,000 --> 00:07:48,958 We going to be divorced from this box. 185 00:07:49,083 --> 00:07:50,375 - [laughs] 186 00:07:50,500 --> 00:07:52,083 ♪ ♪ 187 00:07:53,458 --> 00:07:58,458 - So do we want to talk about our... 188 00:07:58,542 --> 00:08:01,708 residence situation or... 189 00:08:01,875 --> 00:08:03,708 - Still gotta figure that out. - Yeah. 190 00:08:03,833 --> 00:08:05,500 ♪ ♪ 191 00:08:05,625 --> 00:08:08,125 What would we do? Live apart, and then... 192 00:08:08,208 --> 00:08:11,667 try to find a house to rent that takes three dogs, 193 00:08:11,792 --> 00:08:13,667 'cause we looked into that, 194 00:08:13,750 --> 00:08:16,167 and that didn't seem like an easy solution either. 195 00:08:16,333 --> 00:08:18,625 - I mean, there's not an easy solution regardless with-- 196 00:08:18,750 --> 00:08:20,250 because of the three dogs. 197 00:08:20,375 --> 00:08:21,833 - Right. 198 00:08:21,917 --> 00:08:24,708 I personally don't want to live separately. 199 00:08:24,875 --> 00:08:28,792 If we're struggling so much to find a solution now, 200 00:08:28,917 --> 00:08:30,500 what are we going to do later? 201 00:08:30,625 --> 00:08:32,167 - Well, there's part of it, you know, 202 00:08:32,292 --> 00:08:35,667 if we can't figure out a solution in the like immediate, 203 00:08:35,833 --> 00:08:38,833 like it's not anything we need to freak out about 204 00:08:38,917 --> 00:08:41,417 because we still have our places, 205 00:08:41,542 --> 00:08:43,750 and we have some time. 206 00:08:43,875 --> 00:08:45,917 - I am a very proactive person. 207 00:08:46,042 --> 00:08:48,000 And I know-- 208 00:08:48,083 --> 00:08:50,667 I know what has to be done for Chris and I to live together. 209 00:08:50,833 --> 00:08:52,458 We have to talk to different leasing offices. 210 00:08:52,542 --> 00:08:53,792 We have to look at different apartments. 211 00:08:53,875 --> 00:08:55,250 We have to find out our budget. 212 00:08:55,375 --> 00:08:56,333 This stress is never going to go away 213 00:08:56,417 --> 00:08:57,667 until we figure it out, 214 00:08:57,750 --> 00:09:00,708 and I need him to have a little more pep. 215 00:09:00,833 --> 00:09:03,458 But what are you suggesting, is what I'm asking. 216 00:09:03,583 --> 00:09:04,833 - I don't know. 217 00:09:04,917 --> 00:09:06,583 I just--we'll figure it out. [laughs] 218 00:09:06,708 --> 00:09:08,708 That's all I'm saying. 219 00:09:08,875 --> 00:09:11,125 You know, it's the weekend. 220 00:09:11,250 --> 00:09:12,667 Nothing we can do about it. 221 00:09:12,750 --> 00:09:14,542 So we'll have some fun, 222 00:09:14,708 --> 00:09:19,375 and we'll dig into it more on Monday. 223 00:09:19,542 --> 00:09:21,000 - Monday it is. 224 00:09:21,167 --> 00:09:24,042 ♪ ♪ 225 00:09:26,125 --> 00:09:28,833 [upbeat music] 226 00:09:28,958 --> 00:09:33,750 - ♪ Over the years, all that's here now ♪ 227 00:09:33,875 --> 00:09:35,958 ♪ Everything I wanted ♪ 228 00:09:36,083 --> 00:09:37,333 - We're here. 229 00:09:37,458 --> 00:09:39,375 ♪ ♪ 230 00:09:39,542 --> 00:09:43,042 [sighs] This is really nice. 231 00:09:43,167 --> 00:09:45,833 We gotta find us a room. 232 00:09:45,958 --> 00:09:47,333 ♪ ♪ 233 00:09:47,458 --> 00:09:49,958 - Oh, this is the best. - [laughs] 234 00:09:50,083 --> 00:09:52,500 Oh, yeah. 235 00:09:52,583 --> 00:09:54,542 [engine whirs] 236 00:09:54,708 --> 00:09:56,083 - Going up the mountain. 237 00:09:56,208 --> 00:09:58,542 - Yee-haw! 238 00:09:58,667 --> 00:10:03,958 - Almost to our oasis in the mountains of Gatlinburg. 239 00:10:04,042 --> 00:10:05,333 - Heck, yeah. 240 00:10:05,417 --> 00:10:07,833 - You think we're going to see a bear? 241 00:10:08,000 --> 00:10:09,167 - I hope so. 242 00:10:09,292 --> 00:10:10,792 Like, from a distance. 243 00:10:10,917 --> 00:10:13,917 - You think that a bear will try to get in our hot tub? 244 00:10:14,042 --> 00:10:15,583 [quirky music] 245 00:10:15,708 --> 00:10:18,833 Listen, they creep around on the porch. 246 00:10:18,917 --> 00:10:21,167 They lurk. They look for snacks. 247 00:10:21,250 --> 00:10:24,875 - I've seen--I've seen many bear in my journey, so... 248 00:10:25,000 --> 00:10:26,667 - I wonder if they got bears up here. 249 00:10:26,833 --> 00:10:28,333 - Yeah, of course. 250 00:10:28,458 --> 00:10:29,917 I hope I see a bear, safely. 251 00:10:30,042 --> 00:10:32,667 - You got--you know, Clint said you got to flash the bear. 252 00:10:32,792 --> 00:10:34,625 You got to pull your shirt up-- - I don't. 253 00:10:34,708 --> 00:10:37,042 - To make yourself look bigger. That's what he said. 254 00:10:37,208 --> 00:10:39,292 - Not--they didn't mean like flash, they just mean like, 255 00:10:39,375 --> 00:10:40,917 your shirt needs like-- 256 00:10:41,042 --> 00:10:42,792 - But I'm saying, you had that on, you have to like, lift it. 257 00:10:42,875 --> 00:10:44,667 - I don't think it would make me feel bigger, though. 258 00:10:44,792 --> 00:10:46,167 Make me look bigger. 259 00:10:46,333 --> 00:10:48,417 Well, I just put my arms up. 260 00:10:48,542 --> 00:10:49,708 - You got to lift your shirt up. 261 00:10:49,875 --> 00:10:51,292 - OK. I got to flash the bear? 262 00:10:51,375 --> 00:10:52,375 - If you want him to believe it. 263 00:10:52,500 --> 00:10:54,000 - [laughs] 264 00:10:54,125 --> 00:10:57,625 ♪ ♪ 265 00:10:58,708 --> 00:11:00,167 - Hey, hey. 266 00:11:00,292 --> 00:11:01,333 - Hey, hey. 267 00:11:01,500 --> 00:11:02,458 - Hello. - We're here. 268 00:11:02,542 --> 00:11:04,042 - Is anybody home? - Wow! 269 00:11:04,167 --> 00:11:05,417 - Hi, guys. 270 00:11:05,542 --> 00:11:07,458 - This is freaking stunning. - Wow. 271 00:11:07,542 --> 00:11:08,667 - We already had shots. - Is that a shot? 272 00:11:08,750 --> 00:11:11,292 [laughs] My God. - Thanks for joining us. 273 00:11:11,417 --> 00:11:13,000 Welcome to our home. 274 00:11:13,167 --> 00:11:14,125 - This is so pretty. 275 00:11:14,208 --> 00:11:15,417 - Thanks for having us. 276 00:11:15,542 --> 00:11:17,333 - Festivities. - Oh. 277 00:11:17,417 --> 00:11:19,375 We've got shots ready to go. 278 00:11:19,500 --> 00:11:21,208 So we're going to kick this thing off 279 00:11:21,333 --> 00:11:22,500 in the right direction. 280 00:11:22,667 --> 00:11:25,125 - Whew! - Straight to liquor town. 281 00:11:25,208 --> 00:11:26,375 So we declare our room. 282 00:11:26,500 --> 00:11:28,000 - Which one you want? 283 00:11:28,125 --> 00:11:30,417 - We got a right and a left. - Choose wisely. 284 00:11:30,542 --> 00:11:32,250 - Let's do the starboard side one. 285 00:11:32,375 --> 00:11:33,667 - That one? - That one. 286 00:11:33,833 --> 00:11:35,875 The house is absolutely beautiful, 287 00:11:36,000 --> 00:11:38,083 but there's only one bed. 288 00:11:38,208 --> 00:11:40,708 And Gina and I have been, you know, 289 00:11:40,833 --> 00:11:42,417 sleeping in different rooms in our condo. 290 00:11:42,542 --> 00:11:44,250 And that's perfectly fine. 291 00:11:44,375 --> 00:11:46,583 Like, that's just where we're both at right now. 292 00:11:46,708 --> 00:11:48,417 But we're going to have to share a room 293 00:11:48,542 --> 00:11:49,833 at the couples' retreat. 294 00:11:50,000 --> 00:11:52,250 And, you know, we're still in the friend zone. 295 00:11:52,375 --> 00:11:56,750 So maybe that might be what we need to make that spark. 296 00:11:56,875 --> 00:11:59,500 Look at the valley. 297 00:11:59,625 --> 00:12:02,375 I think--I think we should sleep out here. 298 00:12:02,500 --> 00:12:04,292 How cool would that be? 299 00:12:04,375 --> 00:12:06,083 - [chuckles] Yeah. 300 00:12:06,208 --> 00:12:07,625 I'd do it. 301 00:12:07,750 --> 00:12:09,375 ♪ ♪ 302 00:12:09,542 --> 00:12:10,708 - Hello? 303 00:12:10,875 --> 00:12:12,667 - Hello! - Anybody home? 304 00:12:12,792 --> 00:12:15,417 - Yes, this is lovely. 305 00:12:15,542 --> 00:12:16,667 Look at the living room. 306 00:12:16,750 --> 00:12:18,625 This is beautiful. 307 00:12:18,708 --> 00:12:21,417 Look at the nice, long, extended island. 308 00:12:21,542 --> 00:12:22,375 - OK, realtor. - Oh! 309 00:12:22,542 --> 00:12:24,500 - Hi, guys. - Hey. 310 00:12:24,667 --> 00:12:25,750 - Did you sign the guestbook? 311 00:12:25,875 --> 00:12:27,667 - No, not yet. 312 00:12:27,792 --> 00:12:28,875 - I'm very excited for couples' retreat, 313 00:12:29,042 --> 00:12:32,667 just enjoying each other, enjoying time together, 314 00:12:32,792 --> 00:12:34,917 being adventurous, and just living in the moment. 315 00:12:35,042 --> 00:12:39,333 But we got to understand that we both have to continue 316 00:12:39,458 --> 00:12:43,292 to put forth the effort and make sure that our needs 317 00:12:43,417 --> 00:12:45,167 are being met in our marriage. 318 00:12:45,292 --> 00:12:47,333 I like that they have a tub inside the shower. 319 00:12:48,667 --> 00:12:50,458 - Oh, that's what that's called? 320 00:12:50,583 --> 00:12:52,750 Never knew. - [chuckles] 321 00:12:54,125 --> 00:12:55,667 - Traffic really put us behind everybody. 322 00:12:55,792 --> 00:12:57,917 - I know. Damn it. 323 00:12:58,042 --> 00:13:01,792 [forlorn guitar music] 324 00:13:01,875 --> 00:13:04,458 We're going to get the worst room if we're last. 325 00:13:04,583 --> 00:13:07,167 Whatevs. 326 00:13:07,292 --> 00:13:09,167 Don't care. 327 00:13:09,292 --> 00:13:14,708 ♪ ♪ 328 00:13:14,875 --> 00:13:16,625 All right, I'm not going to have a temper tantrum. 329 00:13:16,750 --> 00:13:20,167 I'm just going to enjoy the night. 330 00:13:20,292 --> 00:13:25,542 ♪ ♪ 331 00:13:27,750 --> 00:13:29,208 - What up? - They made it! 332 00:13:29,375 --> 00:13:30,167 - What up, what up? 333 00:13:30,250 --> 00:13:33,958 - Hi, welcome to our humble abode. 334 00:13:34,042 --> 00:13:35,208 - What's the last room left? 335 00:13:35,375 --> 00:13:36,708 - Look what the grizzly bear drug in. 336 00:13:36,833 --> 00:13:39,125 - Well, first you have to sign the guest book. 337 00:13:39,208 --> 00:13:41,125 - OK. 338 00:13:41,250 --> 00:13:42,792 - Welcome shot. 339 00:13:42,875 --> 00:13:44,833 - No, thank you. 340 00:13:45,000 --> 00:13:46,333 - She doesn't want to take one. - Downstairs you said? 341 00:13:46,500 --> 00:13:47,750 - Let's do it. 342 00:13:47,875 --> 00:13:51,500 Let's check out our digs. - [sighs] 343 00:13:51,625 --> 00:13:55,083 I'm just in a Sour Patch Kid mood. 344 00:13:55,208 --> 00:13:56,833 All I really want to do is just 345 00:13:56,958 --> 00:13:58,833 give each other some space, some quiet time, 346 00:13:59,000 --> 00:14:00,833 but we have to hang out with the other couples. 347 00:14:00,958 --> 00:14:02,750 I really don't want to ruin this retreat, 348 00:14:02,875 --> 00:14:07,125 so I'm going to zip it and make the best of it. 349 00:14:07,208 --> 00:14:09,333 - Love you. - Love you. 350 00:14:09,458 --> 00:14:11,417 ♪ ♪ 351 00:14:12,917 --> 00:14:15,917 - Y'all better get ready 'cause it's shot o'clock! 352 00:14:16,042 --> 00:14:17,667 - ♪ Let's do it ♪ 353 00:14:17,750 --> 00:14:19,000 - We need to get the shots going 354 00:14:19,125 --> 00:14:20,292 so we can talk about the pageant. 355 00:14:20,417 --> 00:14:22,083 We got a lot of stuff to do tonight. 356 00:14:22,208 --> 00:14:25,333 - To all you special people. 357 00:14:25,458 --> 00:14:27,958 So glad to be staying in this great cabin 358 00:14:28,042 --> 00:14:30,542 with these great views and this great couples' retreat 359 00:14:30,708 --> 00:14:32,667 with each and every one of you. 360 00:14:32,792 --> 00:14:35,167 And tonight, we start it off right 361 00:14:35,292 --> 00:14:37,875 with a pageant amongst the gents. 362 00:14:38,000 --> 00:14:39,292 May the best husband win. 363 00:14:39,375 --> 00:14:40,875 - Yay! 364 00:14:41,000 --> 00:14:42,042 - Clink, clink, clink, clink. - Yay. 365 00:14:42,208 --> 00:14:43,500 - Clink, clink, clink, clink. 366 00:14:43,583 --> 00:14:46,917 [upbeat music] 367 00:14:47,042 --> 00:14:48,250 - You know, I'm just going out there to win. 368 00:14:48,375 --> 00:14:51,167 You know, we get Ws in this household. 369 00:14:51,250 --> 00:14:52,375 Pageant King. 370 00:14:52,542 --> 00:14:53,708 Let's do it. 371 00:14:53,875 --> 00:14:55,208 - Well, I just know y'all better come down here. 372 00:14:55,333 --> 00:14:56,625 - I honestly think I'm going to win. 373 00:14:56,750 --> 00:14:58,833 Like, hey, like, I'm Dapper Dylan. 374 00:14:58,958 --> 00:15:00,500 - All right, let's go. 375 00:15:00,583 --> 00:15:04,000 - We will see who will be Mr. Couples' Retreat. 376 00:15:04,125 --> 00:15:06,542 May the best person win. 377 00:15:06,667 --> 00:15:07,875 - Better get ready. 378 00:15:11,625 --> 00:15:12,042 [energetic music] 379 00:15:12,208 --> 00:15:14,375 - ♪ Here we are ♪ 380 00:15:14,500 --> 00:15:16,375 ♪ We're wolves of the weekend ♪ 381 00:15:16,500 --> 00:15:19,500 ♪ ♪ 382 00:15:19,625 --> 00:15:22,042 - I probably should pull out all my different outfits. 383 00:15:22,167 --> 00:15:23,542 - Let's see 'em. 384 00:15:23,667 --> 00:15:25,167 - All right, well, let me go in the bathroom and change 385 00:15:25,333 --> 00:15:27,375 and then we'll go from there. - OK. 386 00:15:27,500 --> 00:15:30,292 - Dang, ain't no lotion here. - I have lotion. 387 00:15:30,375 --> 00:15:31,750 ♪ ♪ 388 00:15:31,875 --> 00:15:35,292 [laughs] What? 389 00:15:35,375 --> 00:15:37,250 ♪ ♪ 390 00:15:37,375 --> 00:15:39,500 - Oh, yeah. - [laughs] 391 00:15:39,625 --> 00:15:41,208 - Oh, yeah! 392 00:15:41,333 --> 00:15:43,583 - ♪ Are you ready, ready? ♪ 393 00:15:43,708 --> 00:15:45,792 - I do have, for flair... 394 00:15:45,875 --> 00:15:47,417 - ♪ Show your dance ♪ 395 00:15:47,542 --> 00:15:48,958 ♪ So give it up ♪ 396 00:15:49,083 --> 00:15:50,458 - Come on, mama. 397 00:15:50,583 --> 00:15:52,000 Put the chain on Daddy. 398 00:15:52,083 --> 00:15:54,917 - ♪ I'll do it like you want me to ♪ 399 00:15:55,042 --> 00:15:57,167 - The girls are going to love it. 400 00:15:57,250 --> 00:15:59,875 - Feel like Clint needs a good, you know, updated do. 401 00:16:00,000 --> 00:16:01,458 And so I talked him into 402 00:16:01,583 --> 00:16:03,667 flicking his hair back into a man bun. 403 00:16:03,750 --> 00:16:06,500 That gave him a little more swag, so he's looking sexy, 404 00:16:06,667 --> 00:16:08,000 he's feeling confident. 405 00:16:08,083 --> 00:16:10,083 - There we go. - If he ain't got big buns... 406 00:16:10,208 --> 00:16:13,167 - Nice. - [laughs] 407 00:16:13,250 --> 00:16:14,667 - Make sure when you're walking, 408 00:16:14,792 --> 00:16:17,250 you're looking at the judges, looking at the crowd. 409 00:16:17,375 --> 00:16:19,500 - Kirsten is doing an amazing job of preparing me 410 00:16:19,583 --> 00:16:20,583 for the pageant. 411 00:16:20,708 --> 00:16:22,125 - That's better. OK. 412 00:16:22,208 --> 00:16:24,167 Yes, yes. There you go. 413 00:16:24,250 --> 00:16:26,167 - I have enough confidence in myself to say 414 00:16:26,250 --> 00:16:27,958 I'm going to win this pageant. 415 00:16:28,083 --> 00:16:29,958 - Listen to me. This is very important. 416 00:16:30,042 --> 00:16:32,125 Make sure when you get up to the girls, 417 00:16:32,208 --> 00:16:35,000 do like a little swivel. 418 00:16:35,167 --> 00:16:36,917 The last thing I want to do is this pageant, 419 00:16:37,042 --> 00:16:38,833 but the men seem to be all about it, 420 00:16:38,958 --> 00:16:42,667 so I'm excited to see my man strut his stuff out there 421 00:16:42,750 --> 00:16:44,583 in front of the other ladies. 422 00:16:44,708 --> 00:16:46,125 - Confidence is key. 423 00:16:46,250 --> 00:16:48,208 Eye contact with the judges. 424 00:16:48,333 --> 00:16:50,000 - OK. - That's all you need. 425 00:16:50,125 --> 00:16:52,000 - I feel like you're going to win. 426 00:16:52,125 --> 00:16:53,167 - You're on my team, so we're winning, 427 00:16:53,250 --> 00:16:54,542 and that's the end of that. 428 00:16:54,708 --> 00:16:56,042 - I look like a Viking. 429 00:16:56,167 --> 00:16:57,875 - Exactly. - Wah! 430 00:16:58,000 --> 00:16:59,792 - I think I got a good chance at this. 431 00:16:59,917 --> 00:17:02,208 ♪ ♪ 432 00:17:02,375 --> 00:17:04,167 - OK. - Welcome, everybody, 433 00:17:04,292 --> 00:17:06,417 to the Mr. Couples' Retreat King pageant. 434 00:17:06,542 --> 00:17:08,542 both: Yes! - Let's hear the pageant voice. 435 00:17:08,667 --> 00:17:10,958 - Come on, pageant queen! - Come on, Miss America. 436 00:17:11,042 --> 00:17:12,333 [cheers and applause] 437 00:17:12,500 --> 00:17:14,458 - So we'll have two phases of competition tonight. 438 00:17:14,542 --> 00:17:17,333 The first phase will be their best outfit. 439 00:17:17,417 --> 00:17:19,167 We are looking for confidence. 440 00:17:19,333 --> 00:17:20,958 That is the biggest key. 441 00:17:21,042 --> 00:17:24,458 Outfits, yes, that matters, but we're looking for confidence. 442 00:17:24,542 --> 00:17:26,792 Then when we go to onstage question, 443 00:17:26,875 --> 00:17:30,750 let's look for the answer that they actually feel 444 00:17:30,875 --> 00:17:33,000 and not an answer that they think is right. 445 00:17:33,125 --> 00:17:34,333 - That's good, that's good. 446 00:17:34,417 --> 00:17:36,333 - So are we ready? - We're ready. 447 00:17:36,458 --> 00:17:39,417 - We're ready. - Bring on the kings. 448 00:17:39,542 --> 00:17:43,250 - First up is my lovely husband, Airris. 449 00:17:43,375 --> 00:17:45,458 [cheering and applause] 450 00:17:45,542 --> 00:17:47,000 - Yes! 451 00:17:47,083 --> 00:17:48,792 [women cheering] 452 00:17:48,917 --> 00:17:51,083 Yes! 453 00:17:51,208 --> 00:17:52,750 - Can you do me a favor? 454 00:17:52,875 --> 00:17:54,458 Can you take a picture, just so you guys can keep this moment? 455 00:17:54,583 --> 00:17:55,833 I'm going to Airdrop it to all you ladies. 456 00:17:55,958 --> 00:17:57,542 - Oh, OK. 457 00:17:57,667 --> 00:18:02,792 - ♪ Like one, two, three, all eyes on me ♪ 458 00:18:02,875 --> 00:18:04,750 - You guys can hold on to this moment, too. 459 00:18:04,875 --> 00:18:05,625 - Wow. 460 00:18:05,708 --> 00:18:06,750 - All right. 461 00:18:06,875 --> 00:18:08,292 - That is a confident man. 462 00:18:08,375 --> 00:18:11,458 - Airris, he's feeling himself a little bit too much 463 00:18:11,583 --> 00:18:12,583 right now. 464 00:18:12,708 --> 00:18:16,750 All right, and next up we have Shaq. 465 00:18:16,875 --> 00:18:18,958 all: Whoo! 466 00:18:19,083 --> 00:18:21,375 - ♪ Let me see the moves ♪ 467 00:18:21,500 --> 00:18:22,792 ♪ You got the whole world lookin'... ♪ 468 00:18:22,917 --> 00:18:24,833 - That's my husband! 469 00:18:25,000 --> 00:18:26,333 ♪ ♪ 470 00:18:26,458 --> 00:18:28,667 - Shaq looks dapper as always. 471 00:18:28,750 --> 00:18:30,583 He looks amazing. 472 00:18:30,708 --> 00:18:32,583 He's a little nervous. 473 00:18:32,708 --> 00:18:34,583 You can tell he's standing, he's walking, 474 00:18:34,708 --> 00:18:36,333 he's not really sure what's going on. 475 00:18:36,458 --> 00:18:39,458 But he looks good doing it. 476 00:18:39,583 --> 00:18:40,750 - ♪ Uh! ♪ 477 00:18:40,875 --> 00:18:43,833 - Next up, we have Chris! 478 00:18:43,917 --> 00:18:46,667 [applause and cheering] 479 00:18:46,750 --> 00:18:48,167 - Let's go, Chris! 480 00:18:48,250 --> 00:18:49,125 - Yes! - Yes, Chris! 481 00:18:49,250 --> 00:18:51,500 - That's my man! 482 00:18:51,583 --> 00:18:52,833 ♪ ♪ 483 00:18:53,000 --> 00:18:55,125 - Yeah, Chris. Come on, Chris. 484 00:18:55,208 --> 00:18:57,833 - Oh! - Come on, Chris! 485 00:18:57,917 --> 00:18:59,958 - Whoo! 486 00:19:00,042 --> 00:19:02,208 - Yes! 487 00:19:02,333 --> 00:19:04,167 - Let's go! 488 00:19:04,292 --> 00:19:06,375 - Let's go. Let's go, Chris. 489 00:19:06,500 --> 00:19:09,167 - All right, Shaq. Your time to wear some hair. 490 00:19:09,292 --> 00:19:12,458 - [shouts, squeals] 491 00:19:12,542 --> 00:19:15,833 [laughter and applause] - Oh, my God! 492 00:19:15,917 --> 00:19:20,083 [cheering and laughter] 493 00:19:20,208 --> 00:19:22,042 - Come on, help me out. Help me out. 494 00:19:22,208 --> 00:19:23,833 - Oh, my God. 495 00:19:24,000 --> 00:19:25,000 - Kids, do not try this at home. 496 00:19:25,083 --> 00:19:26,708 - Hear me out. Hear me out. 497 00:19:26,875 --> 00:19:29,625 - Ooh, got to slow it down. You got to slow it down. 498 00:19:29,708 --> 00:19:31,708 - You got to make sure to slow it down, Shaq. 499 00:19:31,833 --> 00:19:33,667 You got to slow it down. You got to slow it down. 500 00:19:33,833 --> 00:19:35,417 All right. - Gina getting it together. 501 00:19:35,542 --> 00:19:38,292 - Let's all welcome Clint! 502 00:19:38,375 --> 00:19:40,500 - Yeah, Clint. Oh, my! 503 00:19:40,625 --> 00:19:42,375 - ♪ On the dance floor ♪ 504 00:19:42,542 --> 00:19:44,500 - Where--where your shirt at? 505 00:19:44,625 --> 00:19:47,125 - That is a confident man! 506 00:19:47,208 --> 00:19:49,125 - There it is. - Hey! 507 00:19:49,208 --> 00:19:50,417 - I like the hair. 508 00:19:50,542 --> 00:19:53,833 - I like this look, Clint. 509 00:19:53,958 --> 00:19:57,250 [cheers and applause] 510 00:19:57,375 --> 00:20:00,375 - That [indistinct] fire! 511 00:20:00,500 --> 00:20:03,542 all: [chanting] Go, Clint! 512 00:20:03,667 --> 00:20:06,625 ♪ ♪ 513 00:20:06,708 --> 00:20:09,792 - Clint, he's looking like the god of all wolves, honestly. 514 00:20:09,875 --> 00:20:12,833 And I'm like, oh, yes, like with the sexy chest hair 515 00:20:12,958 --> 00:20:15,542 and the belly button out right now, I'm like, oh, wow. 516 00:20:15,667 --> 00:20:18,000 Although Clint should definitely 517 00:20:18,125 --> 00:20:20,000 have worn a suit right now, 518 00:20:20,083 --> 00:20:21,958 I'm still digging his outfit. 519 00:20:22,042 --> 00:20:23,833 Right now. - All right. 520 00:20:23,917 --> 00:20:25,458 We're going to start with the onstage portion 521 00:20:25,542 --> 00:20:26,750 of competition. - Whoo! 522 00:20:26,875 --> 00:20:29,083 - Remember, you get 30 seconds to answer. 523 00:20:29,208 --> 00:20:30,500 OK? 524 00:20:30,583 --> 00:20:32,167 Don't give us any stories today. 525 00:20:32,250 --> 00:20:33,625 OK? All right. 526 00:20:33,750 --> 00:20:36,208 If you were a marriage counselor, 527 00:20:36,375 --> 00:20:40,000 what would be your biggest piece of advice? 528 00:20:40,125 --> 00:20:42,667 - [sighs] 529 00:20:42,750 --> 00:20:44,667 Tough question. 530 00:20:44,750 --> 00:20:48,833 It would be, learn to love yourself 531 00:20:48,958 --> 00:20:52,667 and then spread that love amongst everyone else. 532 00:20:52,750 --> 00:20:54,042 - If I was a marriage counselor, 533 00:20:54,208 --> 00:20:56,458 my biggest piece of advice was focus on your own happiness. 534 00:20:56,583 --> 00:20:58,083 [music winds down] 535 00:20:58,208 --> 00:20:59,583 When you focus on your own self, 536 00:20:59,708 --> 00:21:01,792 you become your best self and you show up in your marriage. 537 00:21:01,917 --> 00:21:04,958 And you bring the other person joy, 538 00:21:05,042 --> 00:21:07,375 but you actually have to be happy for yourself. 539 00:21:07,500 --> 00:21:08,875 - Always be true to who you are, 540 00:21:09,000 --> 00:21:11,792 and show that unapologetically the whole time. 541 00:21:11,917 --> 00:21:15,958 - Find out what turns your partner on. 542 00:21:16,083 --> 00:21:18,667 Especially as the husband in the relationship, 543 00:21:18,792 --> 00:21:21,167 find out, you know, what makes your wife tick 544 00:21:21,292 --> 00:21:23,000 and just love her properly in the way 545 00:21:23,125 --> 00:21:24,500 that she needs to be loved. 546 00:21:24,583 --> 00:21:27,292 - Good job. - Whoo. 547 00:21:27,417 --> 00:21:29,125 - All right. And the final question. 548 00:21:29,250 --> 00:21:33,333 The divorce rate in the United States is nearly 50%. 549 00:21:33,458 --> 00:21:35,917 If you were president, what would be your plan 550 00:21:36,042 --> 00:21:39,625 to fix the divorce rate? 551 00:21:39,708 --> 00:21:42,833 - I would change the legal age of marriage to 30 years old. 552 00:21:42,958 --> 00:21:45,375 I don't feel like people before the age of 30 553 00:21:45,500 --> 00:21:47,458 really know who they are. 554 00:21:47,542 --> 00:21:50,417 - Give marriage counseling for free to married couples. 555 00:21:50,542 --> 00:21:52,500 - Give every married couple some money 556 00:21:52,583 --> 00:21:54,500 to like spend on their loved one to take care of them, 557 00:21:54,625 --> 00:21:56,833 just like a National Day to just take care of them 558 00:21:57,000 --> 00:22:00,208 and just spoil them and treat them well. 559 00:22:00,333 --> 00:22:02,000 - I would have a penalty for divorce 560 00:22:02,167 --> 00:22:05,333 where you would have to give everything to your spouse. 561 00:22:05,500 --> 00:22:06,667 [chuckles] 562 00:22:06,792 --> 00:22:08,250 - Snaps for Clint, everyone. 563 00:22:08,375 --> 00:22:09,750 - Well, damn. - He's really trying to win. 564 00:22:09,875 --> 00:22:11,833 [laughter] 565 00:22:11,917 --> 00:22:13,833 - All right, and the final question. 566 00:22:13,958 --> 00:22:17,125 Do you still believe traditional marriage roles 567 00:22:17,208 --> 00:22:18,708 hold up today? 568 00:22:18,833 --> 00:22:21,208 - I believe the traditional marriage roles have definitely 569 00:22:21,375 --> 00:22:22,708 switched with society. 570 00:22:22,875 --> 00:22:24,000 Women are stepping up more than men 571 00:22:24,125 --> 00:22:25,250 to become more independent. 572 00:22:25,375 --> 00:22:27,042 - The wife can go work. Why not? 573 00:22:27,208 --> 00:22:29,875 Like, she doesn't need to stay at home and things like that. 574 00:22:30,000 --> 00:22:32,917 - I think they do, but not like they used to. 575 00:22:33,042 --> 00:22:36,542 I think it's--people don't have the same sanctity 576 00:22:36,708 --> 00:22:38,042 in marriage that they used to. 577 00:22:38,208 --> 00:22:40,042 - You should define the roles in your own marriage. 578 00:22:40,167 --> 00:22:42,417 Women are being educated at like a higher rate. 579 00:22:42,542 --> 00:22:43,667 Women are CEOs. 580 00:22:43,833 --> 00:22:46,083 But, you know, if a bear comes, 581 00:22:46,208 --> 00:22:47,625 I'ma go out, and, you know, 582 00:22:47,708 --> 00:22:48,708 protect you ladies from the bear. 583 00:22:48,875 --> 00:22:50,125 - Thank you. - Great job, fellas. 584 00:22:50,250 --> 00:22:51,833 - Appreciate it. 585 00:22:51,917 --> 00:22:53,708 - So who answered their question the best? 586 00:22:53,875 --> 00:22:55,333 - This is hard. - This is tough. 587 00:22:55,458 --> 00:22:57,375 - They all did a great job. 588 00:22:57,500 --> 00:22:59,167 - They all deserve, like, first place. 589 00:22:59,292 --> 00:23:03,208 - We had to rank the men from one to four for each category, 590 00:23:03,333 --> 00:23:05,500 and then they each got a certain amount of points. 591 00:23:05,625 --> 00:23:07,833 And if there could have been four winners, 592 00:23:07,917 --> 00:23:10,167 I would have picked them all. 593 00:23:10,250 --> 00:23:13,167 - The esteemed panel of judges, we have deliberated. 594 00:23:13,250 --> 00:23:15,708 We're going to have you stand up. 595 00:23:15,875 --> 00:23:17,167 - Really proud of all of you. 596 00:23:17,250 --> 00:23:18,667 - Yeah. 597 00:23:18,792 --> 00:23:20,500 - At pageants--I mean, as a pageant girls, we hold hands 598 00:23:20,625 --> 00:23:21,708 if you all want to link arms, 599 00:23:21,875 --> 00:23:23,167 - Do it. 600 00:23:23,333 --> 00:23:24,167 - Hold hands? 601 00:23:24,292 --> 00:23:25,250 - Yeah, OK. 602 00:23:25,375 --> 00:23:26,750 - Here we go, guys. 603 00:23:26,875 --> 00:23:30,458 We're going to start with third runner up. 604 00:23:30,542 --> 00:23:34,458 The title is Mr. Courageous and Outrageous. 605 00:23:34,583 --> 00:23:36,458 And that is going to... 606 00:23:36,542 --> 00:23:39,333 ♪ ♪ 607 00:23:39,417 --> 00:23:40,542 Clint! 608 00:23:40,667 --> 00:23:43,167 [cheers and applause] 609 00:23:43,333 --> 00:23:44,667 Good job, Clint. 610 00:23:44,833 --> 00:23:47,917 Mr. Courageous and Outrageous. - Wow. 611 00:23:48,042 --> 00:23:49,250 - Belly button. 612 00:23:49,375 --> 00:23:50,958 - That's impressively disappointing. 613 00:23:51,083 --> 00:23:52,417 [laughter] 614 00:23:52,542 --> 00:23:53,917 - All right. 615 00:23:54,042 --> 00:23:56,292 Second runner up. 616 00:23:56,375 --> 00:24:00,583 His title is Mr. Style and Swag. 617 00:24:00,708 --> 00:24:02,333 And that is going to... 618 00:24:02,417 --> 00:24:04,125 ♪ ♪ 619 00:24:04,208 --> 00:24:05,792 Shaq! 620 00:24:05,917 --> 00:24:07,333 - OK, all right. 621 00:24:07,417 --> 00:24:08,417 All right. 622 00:24:08,542 --> 00:24:09,417 There you go. VP. 623 00:24:09,542 --> 00:24:10,667 - All right. 624 00:24:10,792 --> 00:24:13,167 We're down to our final two. 625 00:24:13,292 --> 00:24:15,375 - I think they do like this. - You supposed to hold hands. 626 00:24:15,500 --> 00:24:17,167 - OK, that works, too. 627 00:24:17,292 --> 00:24:18,375 All right. 628 00:24:18,500 --> 00:24:21,208 This next award, our first runner up. 629 00:24:21,375 --> 00:24:22,792 Mr. Showstopper. 630 00:24:22,917 --> 00:24:23,667 - Showstopper. 631 00:24:23,750 --> 00:24:25,500 - And that is going to... 632 00:24:25,583 --> 00:24:28,833 ♪ ♪ 633 00:24:29,000 --> 00:24:29,583 - Oh, my God. 634 00:24:29,708 --> 00:24:31,000 It's killing me. 635 00:24:31,167 --> 00:24:32,042 - Ugh, I can't take it! 636 00:24:32,167 --> 00:24:33,750 - That's going to Chris! 637 00:24:33,875 --> 00:24:37,333 [cheers and applause] - Yes! 638 00:24:37,417 --> 00:24:39,167 - No, it's--why is it Chris? 639 00:24:39,333 --> 00:24:40,500 - It's not your turn yet. - Oh. 640 00:24:40,625 --> 00:24:42,708 - We're 'bout to deduct some points there. 641 00:24:42,875 --> 00:24:44,500 [laughs] - That is going to Chris. 642 00:24:44,583 --> 00:24:47,000 - Good job, Chris. 643 00:24:47,125 --> 00:24:52,167 - And our Mr. Couples' Retreat King 644 00:24:52,292 --> 00:24:55,542 is going to my husband, Airris. 645 00:24:55,708 --> 00:24:58,500 - Whoo! - Yeah! 646 00:24:58,625 --> 00:25:00,667 We all can crown the sash. Come on, y'all. 647 00:25:00,833 --> 00:25:02,833 - Crown the sash up. 648 00:25:02,958 --> 00:25:07,500 - I am a 1,000% proud of my husband because he killed it. 649 00:25:07,625 --> 00:25:09,833 All this time I said, I'm just this little 650 00:25:09,958 --> 00:25:11,167 pageant queen looking for my king. 651 00:25:11,292 --> 00:25:15,542 And now I have an official king, so we're here. 652 00:25:15,708 --> 00:25:18,292 - Oh, my God. 653 00:25:18,375 --> 00:25:20,875 My first pageant and I won. 654 00:25:21,042 --> 00:25:22,500 Feels great. 655 00:25:22,583 --> 00:25:23,750 You know, I'm ready to defend my crown. 656 00:25:23,875 --> 00:25:24,875 So like any husbands out there, 657 00:25:25,000 --> 00:25:25,792 if you want to smoke, like, pull up, 658 00:25:25,875 --> 00:25:27,375 we could do this any time. 659 00:25:27,542 --> 00:25:28,500 I'm ready. 660 00:25:28,625 --> 00:25:30,542 - Oh, OK. - Yeah. 661 00:25:30,708 --> 00:25:31,792 - Congratulations, king. 662 00:25:31,917 --> 00:25:33,375 - Thank you. Thank you, king. 663 00:25:37,208 --> 00:25:38,083 - ♪ Burning up in the penthouse ♪ 664 00:25:38,208 --> 00:25:39,500 ♪ And the temp ain't going down ♪ 665 00:25:39,583 --> 00:25:40,750 - Ready for bed, babycakes? 666 00:25:42,667 --> 00:25:44,042 - No. - You don't find it sexy? 667 00:25:44,167 --> 00:25:47,500 - I do, but I already have enough hair. 668 00:25:47,625 --> 00:25:50,333 Gonna de-wig you. - OK. 669 00:25:50,417 --> 00:25:51,792 - Tonight was amazing, honestly. 670 00:25:51,875 --> 00:25:54,375 One of the guys made a great point as far as like, 671 00:25:54,542 --> 00:25:56,833 offering marital counseling for free. 672 00:25:56,958 --> 00:25:59,333 - That was me. - [snickers] 673 00:25:59,458 --> 00:26:00,458 - Wow. 674 00:26:00,583 --> 00:26:02,375 What--what, damn. 675 00:26:02,500 --> 00:26:05,708 - [cackles] 676 00:26:05,875 --> 00:26:07,917 - You say as a tradition I got to fake sleep? 677 00:26:08,042 --> 00:26:09,833 - Yeah, you have to take a picture. 678 00:26:10,000 --> 00:26:12,542 You have to lay down in your crown, sleep with your sash on 679 00:26:12,667 --> 00:26:14,667 and then I have to take a picture of you. 680 00:26:14,750 --> 00:26:17,125 And then--it's the tradition. 681 00:26:17,208 --> 00:26:18,542 - Let's do the tradition. 682 00:26:18,708 --> 00:26:20,125 - [laughs] It's the tradition. 683 00:26:20,208 --> 00:26:23,292 [mellow music] 684 00:26:23,375 --> 00:26:24,583 [laughing] Oh, my gosh. 685 00:26:24,708 --> 00:26:26,542 Yeah. Your first win. 686 00:26:26,708 --> 00:26:27,833 - Now I'm addicted. - [laughs] 687 00:26:27,958 --> 00:26:30,167 - I need--I need more crowns. 688 00:26:30,292 --> 00:26:32,333 I can't stop. They can't even call me Airris. 689 00:26:32,500 --> 00:26:34,417 That's old news. 690 00:26:34,542 --> 00:26:37,250 Like Airris PK, Pageant King. 691 00:26:37,375 --> 00:26:38,458 - Oh. 692 00:26:38,583 --> 00:26:40,125 - I'm not answering to nothing else. 693 00:26:40,208 --> 00:26:41,042 - OK. 694 00:26:44,417 --> 00:26:45,667 - Mr. Last place. 695 00:26:45,833 --> 00:26:47,250 - I saw your face drop. 696 00:26:47,375 --> 00:26:49,542 I was like, literally before we scored, I was like, 697 00:26:49,667 --> 00:26:52,625 we actually can't give Clint that score because he's going 698 00:26:52,708 --> 00:26:54,167 to harp on it all weekend. 699 00:26:54,333 --> 00:26:55,833 - It's fine. 700 00:26:55,917 --> 00:26:57,042 - I'm just going to have to tell him why. 701 00:26:57,167 --> 00:26:58,667 - It's fine. 702 00:26:58,750 --> 00:27:01,333 You know, somebody's got to be a little crazy. 703 00:27:01,458 --> 00:27:03,000 I'll wear that title. 704 00:27:03,083 --> 00:27:04,125 - [sighs] 705 00:27:04,208 --> 00:27:09,458 So, PJs, what does she want to put on? 706 00:27:09,542 --> 00:27:12,083 - Gina and I shared a bedroom, 707 00:27:12,208 --> 00:27:14,958 you know, our wedding night, then on the honeymoon. 708 00:27:15,042 --> 00:27:18,583 But we've been staying in separate bedrooms ever since. 709 00:27:18,708 --> 00:27:20,875 - You all set? - Yeah. 710 00:27:21,042 --> 00:27:23,708 - So I'm excited, nervous, and anxious 711 00:27:23,833 --> 00:27:26,542 because this is a big step. 712 00:27:26,708 --> 00:27:28,125 - It's been a long one. 713 00:27:28,208 --> 00:27:29,833 So we sleeping with the fireplace on the whole night? 714 00:27:30,000 --> 00:27:31,500 - Oh, hell yeah. - Hell yeah. 715 00:27:31,583 --> 00:27:33,333 - Why not? Some ambiance. 716 00:27:33,458 --> 00:27:35,833 - I'm in. - Yeah. 717 00:27:37,458 --> 00:27:39,417 Feels--feels like Jamaica. 718 00:27:39,542 --> 00:27:41,500 - This does feel like Jamaica. 719 00:27:41,625 --> 00:27:43,542 - We got to chit chat and-- 720 00:27:43,667 --> 00:27:45,167 - Yeah, typically I'm just-- 721 00:27:45,292 --> 00:27:47,292 I come in your room and chit chat and then leave, but-- 722 00:27:47,417 --> 00:27:48,792 - Yeah. 723 00:27:48,917 --> 00:27:50,125 - The bed's comfy. I'm all right with it. 724 00:27:50,208 --> 00:27:51,167 - Yeah. 725 00:27:51,333 --> 00:27:52,333 - I didn't feel weird about that at all. 726 00:27:52,500 --> 00:27:56,000 - No, feels--feels fine to me. 727 00:27:56,125 --> 00:27:58,583 - Well, I hope that you didn't take up 728 00:27:58,708 --> 00:28:00,625 a snoring habit since Jamaica, 729 00:28:00,750 --> 00:28:01,708 now we're in the same bed again. 730 00:28:01,833 --> 00:28:03,500 - No, no. Still anti-snoring. 731 00:28:03,625 --> 00:28:05,625 - I might have-- I don't know. 732 00:28:05,750 --> 00:28:07,500 Only time will tell. 733 00:28:07,667 --> 00:28:08,625 - Oh, yay. - [clicks tongue] 734 00:28:08,708 --> 00:28:10,208 Hit the lights. 735 00:28:10,333 --> 00:28:12,500 ♪ ♪ 736 00:28:12,667 --> 00:28:14,125 - I know. I have no idea. 737 00:28:14,250 --> 00:28:16,583 - It should have like a remote or something. 738 00:28:16,708 --> 00:28:18,208 [quirky music] 739 00:28:18,375 --> 00:28:19,958 - Oh, OK. I don't-- 740 00:28:20,083 --> 00:28:21,917 - I don't know how you turn this thing off. 741 00:28:22,042 --> 00:28:23,292 - It's just-- you just spin it, I think. 742 00:28:23,375 --> 00:28:25,500 - I think you just turn it. Just turn the whole thing? 743 00:28:25,625 --> 00:28:26,958 - Uh, yeah. - No. 744 00:28:27,042 --> 00:28:29,042 - I don't-- [chuckles] 745 00:28:29,208 --> 00:28:31,375 - You sit there, turn-- turn it. 746 00:28:31,542 --> 00:28:33,500 Oh, it's broken. Off. There. 747 00:28:33,667 --> 00:28:36,000 I got it. I can solve that. 748 00:28:36,083 --> 00:28:37,583 Oh. 749 00:28:37,708 --> 00:28:39,500 Is it hot? - That's extremely hot. 750 00:28:39,625 --> 00:28:41,167 OK, good night. 751 00:28:41,333 --> 00:28:43,917 - [laughs] 752 00:28:45,042 --> 00:28:46,500 - I smell skin burning. 753 00:28:46,667 --> 00:28:48,333 - [laughs] Oh, God. 754 00:28:48,458 --> 00:28:49,958 [upbeat music] 755 00:28:50,042 --> 00:28:52,042 - ♪ When the morning sunlight hits the sky ♪ 756 00:28:52,167 --> 00:28:55,167 ♪ I just want you by my side ♪ 757 00:28:55,292 --> 00:28:58,333 - Somebody said that they didn't sleep well last night 758 00:28:58,458 --> 00:28:59,750 and they couldn't sleep. 759 00:28:59,875 --> 00:29:04,125 But clearly, this device says different. 760 00:29:04,250 --> 00:29:06,500 - [groans] 761 00:29:06,583 --> 00:29:09,458 [snoring] 762 00:29:09,542 --> 00:29:10,833 - [whispers] She's snoring. 763 00:29:10,917 --> 00:29:14,667 [quirky music] 764 00:29:14,792 --> 00:29:17,375 - I don't snore every night, Shaquille. 765 00:29:17,542 --> 00:29:18,750 - It's OK to snore. 766 00:29:18,875 --> 00:29:20,792 - It's not. - It's human. 767 00:29:20,917 --> 00:29:22,333 - It's not OK to snore. 768 00:29:22,458 --> 00:29:24,708 That's some serious snoring that I just heard. 769 00:29:24,833 --> 00:29:26,167 [both laugh] 770 00:29:26,292 --> 00:29:28,458 ♪ ♪ 771 00:29:28,542 --> 00:29:30,333 - It's so pretty outside, 772 00:29:30,458 --> 00:29:33,500 and my husband didn't even wake up to meditate with me. 773 00:29:33,625 --> 00:29:36,042 - You could have woke me up and said, do you want to meditate? 774 00:29:36,167 --> 00:29:38,125 - I told you yesterday I wanted to meditate. 775 00:29:38,250 --> 00:29:39,833 - I'm saying this morning, like, 776 00:29:39,917 --> 00:29:40,833 if that's what you was thinking, you could have 777 00:29:41,000 --> 00:29:43,375 let us go outside and meditate. 778 00:29:43,500 --> 00:29:44,833 ♪ ♪ 779 00:29:44,917 --> 00:29:47,000 This morning I got up, meditated. 780 00:29:47,125 --> 00:29:48,625 The night before, Jasmine had asked 781 00:29:48,750 --> 00:29:50,167 if we can meditate together. 782 00:29:50,333 --> 00:29:52,083 It honestly just kind of slipped my mind. 783 00:29:52,208 --> 00:29:54,125 I could kind of tell her energy was off. 784 00:29:54,250 --> 00:29:56,167 And then she finally said something to me about it. 785 00:29:56,333 --> 00:29:58,708 And I was glad that even though she sat in it 786 00:29:58,833 --> 00:30:00,542 for a little bit, she ultimately spoke up. 787 00:30:00,667 --> 00:30:03,417 And I can see her getting more and more comfortable doing it. 788 00:30:03,542 --> 00:30:05,667 And I mean, you can never meditate too much, 789 00:30:05,833 --> 00:30:07,417 never pray too much. 790 00:30:07,542 --> 00:30:09,667 You know, certain things you just can't get enough of. 791 00:30:09,792 --> 00:30:12,292 ♪ ♪ 792 00:30:12,375 --> 00:30:15,917 Today is going to be a relaxation meditation. 793 00:30:16,042 --> 00:30:19,542 So just close your eyes. 794 00:30:19,708 --> 00:30:22,375 Take in a deep inhale. 795 00:30:22,542 --> 00:30:26,500 And as you exhale, just release any type of stress 796 00:30:26,667 --> 00:30:29,333 that you might have built up. 797 00:30:29,458 --> 00:30:32,167 So just inhale, 798 00:30:32,333 --> 00:30:34,333 exhale. 799 00:30:34,417 --> 00:30:36,792 And just focus on like, the positive moments 800 00:30:36,917 --> 00:30:40,458 from the past couple of days. 801 00:30:40,583 --> 00:30:45,125 Slowly bring both your hands to the center of your chest. 802 00:30:45,208 --> 00:30:49,333 Slowly begin to open your eyes. 803 00:30:49,458 --> 00:30:52,208 [gentle music] 804 00:30:52,375 --> 00:30:53,500 How do you feel? 805 00:30:53,667 --> 00:30:55,417 - I feel good. [laughs] 806 00:30:55,542 --> 00:30:57,292 - I'm glad you feel good. 807 00:30:57,375 --> 00:31:00,333 [mellow music] 808 00:31:00,458 --> 00:31:07,208 ♪ ♪ 809 00:31:17,625 --> 00:31:19,333 - Honey? - Yeah? 810 00:31:19,458 --> 00:31:21,417 - I got something for you. Come on, a little surprise. 811 00:31:21,542 --> 00:31:23,750 - OK. 812 00:31:23,875 --> 00:31:25,792 - This way. Come on. 813 00:31:25,875 --> 00:31:27,333 - OK. 814 00:31:27,417 --> 00:31:30,000 - So I thought it'd be a fun idea to give you 815 00:31:30,125 --> 00:31:31,667 a little scavenger hunt. 816 00:31:31,750 --> 00:31:33,333 I mean, you probably see a couple of them, it's fine. 817 00:31:33,458 --> 00:31:37,000 But I want you to kind of find them and just see-- 818 00:31:37,167 --> 00:31:39,417 you know, read them and know that it came from 819 00:31:39,542 --> 00:31:42,208 my heart, so... - Oh, you're so sweet. 820 00:31:42,333 --> 00:31:44,667 Thank you. 821 00:31:44,792 --> 00:31:46,625 [bright music] 822 00:31:46,750 --> 00:31:50,167 - Aw. 823 00:31:50,292 --> 00:31:52,000 Always remember that you are beautiful, 824 00:31:52,083 --> 00:31:55,000 and I'm so lucky to call you my wife. 825 00:31:55,167 --> 00:31:58,333 - It's one. - It's so sweet. 826 00:31:58,417 --> 00:32:00,167 You honestly amaze me every day. 827 00:32:00,292 --> 00:32:02,792 You do so much for me and us, 828 00:32:02,917 --> 00:32:04,875 and know it is always appreciated. 829 00:32:05,042 --> 00:32:08,167 You are strong and beautiful. 830 00:32:08,292 --> 00:32:10,667 Thank you, baby. - There's one more. 831 00:32:10,792 --> 00:32:12,833 Really hot. 832 00:32:12,917 --> 00:32:15,917 ♪ ♪ 833 00:32:16,042 --> 00:32:17,667 - I love you. 834 00:32:17,792 --> 00:32:21,208 Thanks for everything, and I'm grateful to be your husband. 835 00:32:21,333 --> 00:32:22,583 - That's the last one. - Baby, these are so sweet. 836 00:32:22,708 --> 00:32:24,917 - That was the best one. 837 00:32:25,042 --> 00:32:27,083 - These are so sweet. 838 00:32:27,208 --> 00:32:30,167 I'm going to save these forever and ever. 839 00:32:30,292 --> 00:32:32,208 Ultimately, self love comes from within. 840 00:32:32,375 --> 00:32:35,083 But when you have a partner who's loving you 841 00:32:35,208 --> 00:32:37,167 just as much back, it's just so much easier 842 00:32:37,292 --> 00:32:39,167 to feel love for yourself. 843 00:32:39,292 --> 00:32:41,792 It's validation that I didn't know I needed from him. 844 00:32:41,875 --> 00:32:43,333 And now, I need it less and less, 845 00:32:43,458 --> 00:32:45,625 but I appreciate it more and more. 846 00:32:45,750 --> 00:32:47,458 I love you. Thank you. 847 00:32:47,583 --> 00:32:48,500 - Love you, too. 848 00:32:48,625 --> 00:32:49,167 ♪ ♪ 849 00:32:53,042 --> 00:32:54,833 [upbeat country music] 850 00:32:54,917 --> 00:33:00,042 ♪ ♪ 851 00:33:01,542 --> 00:33:04,917 - I'm just out here enjoying a little quiet time 852 00:33:05,042 --> 00:33:08,250 for a few minutes, this beautiful view. 853 00:33:08,375 --> 00:33:12,333 Hubby is watching football because it is Sunday. 854 00:33:12,500 --> 00:33:14,583 I'm just enjoying the nature. 855 00:33:14,708 --> 00:33:17,167 So happy to be here. 856 00:33:17,292 --> 00:33:18,458 I mean, look at that. 857 00:33:18,583 --> 00:33:20,167 Oh. 858 00:33:20,292 --> 00:33:22,000 There was a bug, so maybe not enjoying the nature so much, 859 00:33:22,125 --> 00:33:26,000 but I'm doing my best. 860 00:33:26,167 --> 00:33:30,167 - Hey, y'all, so we got bears outside of our door. 861 00:33:30,333 --> 00:33:32,500 - [laughs, mumbles] 862 00:33:32,667 --> 00:33:34,167 - Hey, y'all, look. 863 00:33:34,292 --> 00:33:36,917 - Just out here in the nature with my boy, Shaq. 864 00:33:37,042 --> 00:33:38,542 You know what I mean, chilling. 865 00:33:38,667 --> 00:33:40,208 Bears pulled up on us. 866 00:33:40,333 --> 00:33:41,958 - I'ma open the door. 867 00:33:42,083 --> 00:33:43,833 - No, you're not opening the door. 868 00:33:43,958 --> 00:33:45,375 - Why not? - I got your back. 869 00:33:45,542 --> 00:33:47,083 - [scoffs] 870 00:33:50,708 --> 00:33:51,833 - What's up, buddy. 871 00:33:51,958 --> 00:33:54,667 - Oh, freaking God. 872 00:33:54,833 --> 00:33:56,167 - That's a bear wrangler. 873 00:33:56,292 --> 00:33:57,375 - Where's Clint? - Over there. 874 00:33:57,500 --> 00:33:58,542 He's going to go wrestle it. 875 00:33:58,708 --> 00:33:59,917 - Oh. - [laughs] 876 00:34:00,042 --> 00:34:02,125 Right man for the job. 877 00:34:02,208 --> 00:34:03,333 - [Australian accent] Hanging out with the bears 878 00:34:03,417 --> 00:34:06,542 this afternoon, they're-- they're docile creatures 879 00:34:06,708 --> 00:34:09,333 here in the wilderness of Gatlinburg. 880 00:34:09,417 --> 00:34:12,208 [normal voice] Uh, no, this is awesome. 881 00:34:12,375 --> 00:34:15,417 So I've backpacked all through the Smoky Mountains 882 00:34:15,542 --> 00:34:17,000 and the Appalachian Trail. 883 00:34:17,083 --> 00:34:19,417 And I've had bears sniff around my tent. 884 00:34:19,542 --> 00:34:22,292 So I'm kind of used to it, if you respect them 885 00:34:22,417 --> 00:34:24,625 and, you know, they know where you are. 886 00:34:24,708 --> 00:34:27,208 Got to be mindful 'cause it's their territory. 887 00:34:27,375 --> 00:34:30,125 But yeah, I love kind of being in the middle of it. 888 00:34:33,042 --> 00:34:34,958 - If it came to blows, you know, 889 00:34:35,042 --> 00:34:36,458 I'll uppercut a bear if I have to. 890 00:34:36,583 --> 00:34:39,625 ♪ ♪ 891 00:34:39,750 --> 00:34:40,750 That was awesome. 892 00:34:40,875 --> 00:34:43,417 [upbeat music] 893 00:34:45,792 --> 00:34:47,042 - You know, you say you've never done 894 00:34:47,167 --> 00:34:48,500 sledging or snowboarding? 895 00:34:48,583 --> 00:34:49,583 - Mm-mm. 896 00:34:49,708 --> 00:34:56,667 ♪ ♪ 897 00:34:57,542 --> 00:34:59,250 - OK. 898 00:34:59,375 --> 00:35:01,500 Get ready to slide down the ice. 899 00:35:01,625 --> 00:35:04,542 [hip-hop music] 900 00:35:04,667 --> 00:35:05,750 Oh, shoot. 901 00:35:05,875 --> 00:35:07,167 [laughs] 902 00:35:07,292 --> 00:35:09,833 [kids shouting] 903 00:35:10,000 --> 00:35:11,333 ♪ ♪ 904 00:35:11,458 --> 00:35:14,417 The higher we go, the nervous I get. 905 00:35:14,542 --> 00:35:15,500 - [laughs] 906 00:35:15,667 --> 00:35:17,708 - You better hold on tight to this tube. 907 00:35:17,875 --> 00:35:19,750 - We'll see how this go. 908 00:35:19,875 --> 00:35:24,292 - I'm not ready. [laughs] 909 00:35:24,417 --> 00:35:26,458 [tense music] 910 00:35:26,583 --> 00:35:28,208 - Kirsten never gets nervous when it comes to the activity 911 00:35:28,375 --> 00:35:29,833 'cause she done did everything. 912 00:35:29,958 --> 00:35:32,375 But in this moment, she had some fear in her heart. 913 00:35:32,542 --> 00:35:35,833 And I'm like, wow, never thought I'd see the day. 914 00:35:35,917 --> 00:35:37,750 ♪ ♪ 915 00:35:37,875 --> 00:35:39,333 - Oh, my gosh. 916 00:35:39,500 --> 00:35:40,833 OK. 917 00:35:40,917 --> 00:35:43,167 O-M-G. Too scared. 918 00:35:43,250 --> 00:35:44,375 I'm too scared! Look at him. 919 00:35:44,500 --> 00:35:45,625 He got his hands up. 920 00:35:45,750 --> 00:35:47,000 I dared him to have his hands up. 921 00:35:47,125 --> 00:35:49,125 OK, I'm going to try. 922 00:35:49,208 --> 00:35:51,708 It doesn't hurt to try. 923 00:35:51,875 --> 00:35:52,875 Oh, my God. 924 00:35:53,042 --> 00:35:54,833 [squealing] 925 00:35:54,917 --> 00:35:56,750 Ah! 926 00:35:56,875 --> 00:35:59,333 Oh, my God. [laughter] 927 00:35:59,458 --> 00:36:02,292 [upbeat music] 928 00:36:02,375 --> 00:36:04,250 Why do you let me scream by myself? 929 00:36:04,375 --> 00:36:08,167 I got tears coming out my eyes and everything else. 930 00:36:08,333 --> 00:36:09,958 Oh, this is definitely what I needed. 931 00:36:10,083 --> 00:36:12,333 - ♪ I like it ♪ 932 00:36:12,500 --> 00:36:14,250 - Oh, [bleep]. Oh. 933 00:36:14,375 --> 00:36:15,333 Oh, [bleep]. 934 00:36:15,500 --> 00:36:17,958 - [laughs, screams] 935 00:36:18,083 --> 00:36:20,833 [both laughing, grunting] 936 00:36:20,958 --> 00:36:26,333 ♪ ♪ 937 00:36:28,000 --> 00:36:29,833 - That was so much fun. 938 00:36:29,917 --> 00:36:32,958 [mellow music] 939 00:36:33,042 --> 00:36:36,500 ♪ ♪ 940 00:36:36,625 --> 00:36:39,000 Well, look at of all the adventurous things we've done. 941 00:36:39,167 --> 00:36:40,667 - This has been the most challenging. 942 00:36:40,792 --> 00:36:43,208 - Yeah, and I feel like I was more scared than you. 943 00:36:43,375 --> 00:36:45,750 But as much fun as we're having right now, 944 00:36:45,875 --> 00:36:50,167 I know that Decision Day is coming up soon. 945 00:36:50,250 --> 00:36:52,500 - Yeah, so how you feeling? 946 00:36:52,625 --> 00:36:58,417 - Mm, I don't really know how it's going to go. 947 00:36:58,542 --> 00:37:03,333 I feel like we've been having like, a lot of issues, 948 00:37:03,458 --> 00:37:05,875 as far as like, the communication, 949 00:37:06,000 --> 00:37:08,958 which has definitely been taking a toll on me, 950 00:37:09,042 --> 00:37:11,417 emotionally. 951 00:37:11,542 --> 00:37:13,333 I feel defeated at times, 952 00:37:13,458 --> 00:37:17,333 and it's like-- it makes me feel uneasy. 953 00:37:17,500 --> 00:37:18,917 And I'm like, is this something that 954 00:37:19,042 --> 00:37:22,292 we want to like, build on? 955 00:37:22,375 --> 00:37:24,333 - I think the communication has grown. 956 00:37:24,458 --> 00:37:26,708 Like me, I'm always thinking on the bright side, 957 00:37:26,833 --> 00:37:28,875 of the being optimistic with the communication. 958 00:37:29,000 --> 00:37:30,583 OK, we're growing. 959 00:37:30,708 --> 00:37:32,167 But then when I hear you say like, the communication 960 00:37:32,333 --> 00:37:35,167 is this, it's kind of like, damn. 961 00:37:35,250 --> 00:37:37,125 And I'm kind of confused because 962 00:37:37,250 --> 00:37:40,208 being as she's kind of like, don't really know right now, 963 00:37:40,375 --> 00:37:42,500 it's like, how much more do we have to do 964 00:37:42,583 --> 00:37:44,500 to get to know what we actually need 965 00:37:44,667 --> 00:37:46,667 and said we wanted out of a marriage? 966 00:37:46,833 --> 00:37:48,417 I just want you to be happy, and I just want myself 967 00:37:48,542 --> 00:37:49,833 to be happy as well. 968 00:37:49,958 --> 00:37:52,333 Like, we're growing and I'm loving it, 969 00:37:52,500 --> 00:37:54,208 because every day it's like an opportunity 970 00:37:54,333 --> 00:37:55,708 to learn about each other and to grow. 971 00:37:55,875 --> 00:37:59,792 But just enjoying us together, enjoying our union, 972 00:37:59,875 --> 00:38:01,167 it's me learning. 973 00:38:01,333 --> 00:38:02,750 That's us learning. 974 00:38:02,875 --> 00:38:05,000 - Yeah, I agree. 975 00:38:05,167 --> 00:38:08,625 ♪ ♪ 976 00:38:12,458 --> 00:38:13,292 [mellow music] 977 00:38:13,375 --> 00:38:14,500 - ♪ Come here, girl ♪ 978 00:38:14,625 --> 00:38:16,417 ♪ You look so pretty ♪ 979 00:38:16,542 --> 00:38:18,333 - Hello. - How are you guys today? 980 00:38:18,417 --> 00:38:19,500 - Good. 981 00:38:19,667 --> 00:38:21,500 - How many do you need? - Two. 982 00:38:21,625 --> 00:38:25,708 - ♪ Come on, baby, let us go, bump and grind ♪ 983 00:38:25,833 --> 00:38:29,333 ♪ Turn around, let me watch you from behind ♪ 984 00:38:29,417 --> 00:38:31,917 - Oh. 985 00:38:32,042 --> 00:38:36,042 Scared is my middle name. - The adrenaline is pumping. 986 00:38:36,167 --> 00:38:38,167 - I'ma moan so hard. 987 00:38:38,292 --> 00:38:39,625 - Please don't moan. 988 00:38:39,708 --> 00:38:41,542 - Last night, it was different for us 989 00:38:41,708 --> 00:38:43,583 to sleep together in the same bed. 990 00:38:43,708 --> 00:38:47,375 I think that really helped us feel like a married couple. 991 00:38:47,542 --> 00:38:49,958 So much moaning. - Don't. 992 00:38:50,042 --> 00:38:52,208 - It's going to be a X-rated roller coaster 993 00:38:52,375 --> 00:38:55,083 by the end of it. 994 00:38:55,208 --> 00:38:57,667 - [laughs] - [moans] 995 00:38:57,833 --> 00:38:58,958 - Don't moan. 996 00:38:59,042 --> 00:39:01,333 - Have fun, OK? - Thanks. 997 00:39:01,458 --> 00:39:03,083 Rolling. 998 00:39:03,208 --> 00:39:06,125 [exciting music] 999 00:39:06,208 --> 00:39:09,958 ♪ ♪ 1000 00:39:10,083 --> 00:39:11,792 Come on. 1001 00:39:11,875 --> 00:39:14,458 - ♪ I'm off to the races, running around the bases ♪ 1002 00:39:14,542 --> 00:39:17,458 ♪ MVP player, I feel so vivacious ♪ 1003 00:39:17,542 --> 00:39:19,292 - [chuckles] 1004 00:39:19,417 --> 00:39:23,000 - ♪ Look at me now ♪ 1005 00:39:23,083 --> 00:39:25,000 - Whoo! 1006 00:39:25,083 --> 00:39:27,333 - Ah, ah! 1007 00:39:27,417 --> 00:39:28,958 [screams] 1008 00:39:29,042 --> 00:39:30,542 - ♪ Life is a movie ♪ 1009 00:39:30,667 --> 00:39:32,167 ♪ And baby, I'm the star ♪ 1010 00:39:32,292 --> 00:39:33,667 - Whoo! 1011 00:39:33,750 --> 00:39:36,000 - ♪ I'm outrageous ♪ 1012 00:39:36,083 --> 00:39:38,250 - Whoo! 1013 00:39:38,375 --> 00:39:41,500 Whoo! 1014 00:39:41,625 --> 00:39:44,667 Yeah! - [laughs] 1015 00:39:44,750 --> 00:39:46,375 Whoo! 1016 00:39:46,500 --> 00:39:48,333 - Whew. 1017 00:39:48,417 --> 00:39:49,500 - ♪ I'm outrageous ♪ 1018 00:39:49,583 --> 00:39:51,000 - That was wild. 1019 00:39:51,083 --> 00:39:51,917 - Did you hear me moaning? 1020 00:39:52,042 --> 00:39:54,667 - [laughs] No, I didn't. Thank God. 1021 00:39:54,792 --> 00:39:57,000 Well, that was exhilarating. 1022 00:39:57,125 --> 00:39:58,500 ♪ ♪ 1023 00:39:58,583 --> 00:40:00,167 - ♪ Oh, oh, oh, oh ♪ 1024 00:40:00,292 --> 00:40:02,667 ♪ Oh, oh, oh, oh ♪ 1025 00:40:02,750 --> 00:40:04,500 - Oh, look at that. 1026 00:40:04,583 --> 00:40:06,167 I did not anticipate it being green. 1027 00:40:06,250 --> 00:40:07,292 - Whoa. 1028 00:40:07,375 --> 00:40:08,500 - Feels like we're back in Jamaica. 1029 00:40:08,625 --> 00:40:09,583 Cheers. - Cheers. 1030 00:40:09,708 --> 00:40:10,958 - Thank you. - Cheers. 1031 00:40:11,042 --> 00:40:12,167 - Have a good day. You're welcome. 1032 00:40:12,333 --> 00:40:13,917 - This is my flavor. 1033 00:40:14,042 --> 00:40:16,042 - That makes me want to go to the beach. 1034 00:40:16,167 --> 00:40:17,750 - Isn't that good? - Yeah. 1035 00:40:17,875 --> 00:40:19,917 Very on-brand for us to continue to do 1036 00:40:20,042 --> 00:40:21,167 tastings of moonshine. 1037 00:40:21,292 --> 00:40:22,625 - Yeah. 1038 00:40:22,708 --> 00:40:25,333 - Moonshine drinks, moonshine coasters. 1039 00:40:25,458 --> 00:40:27,167 - We've had our own little roller coaster. 1040 00:40:27,292 --> 00:40:28,458 - Yeah. 1041 00:40:28,542 --> 00:40:30,167 - Mainly ups, though. 1042 00:40:30,292 --> 00:40:31,750 - [chuckles] - A lot of ups. 1043 00:40:31,875 --> 00:40:34,500 - But mainly like-- - Like kind of going up, 1044 00:40:34,667 --> 00:40:36,583 not like, sitting at the top. 1045 00:40:36,708 --> 00:40:37,750 - Isn't like, a roller coaster-- 1046 00:40:37,875 --> 00:40:40,667 the down's the fun part, though. 1047 00:40:40,792 --> 00:40:42,833 - Mm, that's true. I don't know. 1048 00:40:42,958 --> 00:40:45,000 I feel like we had a really great visit 1049 00:40:45,125 --> 00:40:48,375 with Dr. Pepper that put things into perspective for me, 1050 00:40:48,500 --> 00:40:52,208 as far as focusing on the day by day. 1051 00:40:52,333 --> 00:40:56,375 I do enjoy your company, and I do enjoy being around you. 1052 00:40:56,500 --> 00:40:58,833 So I'm glad that we're doing more to get past friendship. 1053 00:40:58,958 --> 00:41:01,500 - Yeah, I mean, we're embracing the things 1054 00:41:01,667 --> 00:41:03,083 that we're very strong at 1055 00:41:03,208 --> 00:41:05,667 and the good things in our relationship. 1056 00:41:05,833 --> 00:41:06,917 There's a lot of commonality. 1057 00:41:07,042 --> 00:41:08,000 - Do you feel like you can see for sure 1058 00:41:08,125 --> 00:41:09,125 why they matched us now? 1059 00:41:09,208 --> 00:41:11,125 - For sure, yeah. 1060 00:41:11,208 --> 00:41:13,000 - Same. 1061 00:41:13,125 --> 00:41:15,708 - So I'm just continuing to have fun with you. 1062 00:41:15,833 --> 00:41:17,750 I think that's-- that's the best way 1063 00:41:17,875 --> 00:41:20,000 to look at where we're at right now. 1064 00:41:20,125 --> 00:41:21,792 It's like, how are we doing today? 1065 00:41:21,917 --> 00:41:25,000 Are we stronger today than we were yesterday? 1066 00:41:25,125 --> 00:41:27,750 I like changing up the scenery a little bit. 1067 00:41:27,875 --> 00:41:29,958 Like, this is beautiful, 1068 00:41:30,042 --> 00:41:33,167 with the mountains and the just crazy undulation. 1069 00:41:33,292 --> 00:41:35,000 - The crazy who? - Undulation. 1070 00:41:35,167 --> 00:41:36,333 - What is a undulation? 1071 00:41:36,500 --> 00:41:38,042 - Just like the peaks and the valleys, 1072 00:41:38,167 --> 00:41:41,125 and then like disparate, like differences in elevation. 1073 00:41:41,250 --> 00:41:42,500 - Undulation. 1074 00:41:42,667 --> 00:41:45,125 [both chuckle] 1075 00:41:45,208 --> 00:41:48,625 ♪ ♪ 1076 00:41:48,708 --> 00:41:50,875 [birds chirping] 1077 00:41:51,042 --> 00:41:53,917 - ♪ Would you light a fire? ♪ 1078 00:41:54,042 --> 00:41:55,708 ♪ Would you use it all? ♪ 1079 00:41:55,875 --> 00:41:57,875 - 'Bout to get a harness. 1080 00:41:58,042 --> 00:41:59,500 - ♪ Would you light a fire? ♪ 1081 00:41:59,667 --> 00:42:02,500 ♪ Yeah ♪ 1082 00:42:02,625 --> 00:42:04,875 ♪ Would you fly higher? ♪ 1083 00:42:05,000 --> 00:42:07,792 ♪ Or would you stand tall? ♪ 1084 00:42:07,875 --> 00:42:10,250 ♪ Would you light a fire? ♪ 1085 00:42:10,375 --> 00:42:11,667 - All right. 1086 00:42:11,792 --> 00:42:14,167 Wait. You got to count to three. 1087 00:42:14,292 --> 00:42:16,625 - One, two, three. 1088 00:42:16,750 --> 00:42:18,458 - ♪ We're feeling all right ♪ 1089 00:42:18,583 --> 00:42:20,375 ♪ We livin' our lives ♪ 1090 00:42:20,542 --> 00:42:22,208 ♪ Lock down the place, and went on your way ♪ 1091 00:42:22,333 --> 00:42:24,000 ♪ We're turning loose, hey ♪ 1092 00:42:24,083 --> 00:42:26,167 - I know Jasmine is like, very flexible. 1093 00:42:26,292 --> 00:42:28,375 You got to be flexible to be a cheerleader. 1094 00:42:28,500 --> 00:42:29,500 With the rock climbing, 1095 00:42:29,625 --> 00:42:31,292 it's kind of throwing me for a loop. 1096 00:42:31,417 --> 00:42:33,333 - I beat you. 1097 00:42:33,417 --> 00:42:34,833 - Dang. 1098 00:42:34,917 --> 00:42:36,500 Yeah, that was kind of a bummer but like, 1099 00:42:36,583 --> 00:42:40,208 you know, shout out to her, you know, for getting to the top. 1100 00:42:40,333 --> 00:42:47,167 ♪ ♪ 1101 00:42:49,208 --> 00:42:50,875 - Whoo! 1102 00:42:51,000 --> 00:42:53,417 - ♪ Celebrate your life right now ♪ 1103 00:42:53,542 --> 00:42:54,833 - There you go. 1104 00:42:54,958 --> 00:42:56,500 ♪ ♪ 1105 00:42:56,667 --> 00:42:58,625 - ♪ We're about to do it ♪ 1106 00:42:58,708 --> 00:43:01,167 ♪ Leaving it all, all on the floor ♪ 1107 00:43:01,292 --> 00:43:02,500 - Oh! 1108 00:43:02,625 --> 00:43:04,375 - You're so dramatic. 1109 00:43:04,500 --> 00:43:07,167 - ♪ When you lookin' like this and you movin' like this ♪ 1110 00:43:07,292 --> 00:43:11,500 ♪ Everybody's begging for more ♪ 1111 00:43:11,625 --> 00:43:12,958 ♪ Celebrate ♪ 1112 00:43:13,042 --> 00:43:14,667 - That took a lot more energy 1113 00:43:14,792 --> 00:43:16,333 than I thought it was going to take. 1114 00:43:16,458 --> 00:43:20,167 - Yeah, I thought I was going to be way easier. 1115 00:43:20,292 --> 00:43:22,833 I felt my knees buckle once. - [laughs] 1116 00:43:22,958 --> 00:43:24,542 - Couldn't even get the basics down. 1117 00:43:24,667 --> 00:43:27,458 So, um, 1118 00:43:27,542 --> 00:43:30,083 can you--I mean, maybe I dropped the ball this morning, 1119 00:43:30,208 --> 00:43:32,333 but like, can you tell that I'm trying, 1120 00:43:32,500 --> 00:43:35,667 or do you feel like I'm still not putting forth the effort? 1121 00:43:35,750 --> 00:43:38,333 - I feel like you've put forth a little effort since, 1122 00:43:38,417 --> 00:43:40,000 like, you know, our meetings with the experts. 1123 00:43:40,083 --> 00:43:41,750 I feel like it's been a difference. 1124 00:43:41,875 --> 00:43:43,833 Do I wish it was more? 1125 00:43:44,000 --> 00:43:45,958 Yes, but I mean, you can only do 1126 00:43:46,042 --> 00:43:47,458 what you feel comfortable doing. 1127 00:43:47,542 --> 00:43:50,125 So I do feel like you're getting better. 1128 00:43:50,250 --> 00:43:51,833 I guess I just want to talk more. 1129 00:43:51,917 --> 00:43:53,667 I want us both to be present more, 1130 00:43:53,792 --> 00:43:56,167 not on our phones, 'cause you be on your phone. 1131 00:43:56,292 --> 00:43:59,625 But I guess, I don't know, just more of 1132 00:43:59,708 --> 00:44:02,000 trying to make us work, I guess. 1133 00:44:02,125 --> 00:44:04,625 - All of those are like, valid. 1134 00:44:04,750 --> 00:44:07,333 I can do better to be present. 1135 00:44:07,458 --> 00:44:11,292 If I'm on my phone, I can be conscious of that. 1136 00:44:11,375 --> 00:44:14,083 And also like, you know, if you're in the moment, 1137 00:44:14,208 --> 00:44:16,000 you feel like I'm on my phone, like just say, like, 1138 00:44:16,125 --> 00:44:17,792 put your phone down, or like, hey. 1139 00:44:17,875 --> 00:44:19,000 - So you just need me to speak up? 1140 00:44:19,167 --> 00:44:20,750 - Yeah, just speak, just work on-- 1141 00:44:20,875 --> 00:44:22,083 I know it's not easy to process, 1142 00:44:22,208 --> 00:44:23,792 but that's not like it's something you do overnight, 1143 00:44:23,875 --> 00:44:24,875 but just, you know, just continue. 1144 00:44:25,042 --> 00:44:26,167 Maybe even be conscious of it like, 1145 00:44:26,333 --> 00:44:28,042 hey, I'm upset right now. 1146 00:44:28,208 --> 00:44:30,083 I don't know how to tell him I'm upset, 1147 00:44:30,208 --> 00:44:32,542 but he told me that he wants me to speak up. 1148 00:44:32,708 --> 00:44:34,667 Just like, be aware of-- 1149 00:44:34,833 --> 00:44:37,625 - I guess I never realized my energy was like, 1150 00:44:37,708 --> 00:44:39,292 shifting with everything. 1151 00:44:39,375 --> 00:44:42,667 But I guess I just need to deal with it in the moment 1152 00:44:42,792 --> 00:44:46,000 and not like, process it and take a second, 1153 00:44:46,083 --> 00:44:48,000 especially when it comes to us 'cause we have-- 1154 00:44:48,167 --> 00:44:49,333 you know, we're on a timeline. 1155 00:44:49,458 --> 00:44:51,208 So I need to be able to tell you how I'm feeling 1156 00:44:51,333 --> 00:44:52,750 and, you know, and work through it 1157 00:44:52,875 --> 00:44:54,625 and it not be, I simmer on it 1158 00:44:54,708 --> 00:44:56,958 and then get my mind wondering. 1159 00:44:57,042 --> 00:45:00,375 And it's made into bigger than what it needs to be. 1160 00:45:00,500 --> 00:45:02,375 The things that Airris is pointing out that he wants 1161 00:45:02,542 --> 00:45:04,667 from me, it's definitely something 1162 00:45:04,750 --> 00:45:07,333 that's shown up in previous relationships 1163 00:45:07,458 --> 00:45:08,875 that I've noticed. 1164 00:45:09,000 --> 00:45:10,417 It's something that I've been trying to work on. 1165 00:45:10,542 --> 00:45:12,250 And obviously, now it's popping up in my marriage. 1166 00:45:12,375 --> 00:45:14,208 And I obviously want it to work. 1167 00:45:14,375 --> 00:45:16,000 So if I want my marriage to work, 1168 00:45:16,083 --> 00:45:18,458 I obviously need to make a quick change with it. 1169 00:45:18,542 --> 00:45:20,917 It's not that I don't know how to tell you how I feel, 1170 00:45:21,042 --> 00:45:23,000 it's just, I simmer on it. 1171 00:45:23,125 --> 00:45:25,083 So I just need to start being in the moment 1172 00:45:25,208 --> 00:45:27,625 and just saying it then and getting over it then 1173 00:45:27,708 --> 00:45:29,833 instead of, you know, trying to wait. 1174 00:45:30,000 --> 00:45:32,750 So I'm going to make sure that, you know, 1175 00:45:32,875 --> 00:45:35,500 I just start saying it up front. 1176 00:45:35,583 --> 00:45:38,208 ♪ ♪ 1177 00:45:42,042 --> 00:45:43,208 [mellow country music] 1178 00:45:43,333 --> 00:45:44,500 ♪ ♪ 1179 00:45:44,667 --> 00:45:46,125 - This is beautiful. 1180 00:45:46,250 --> 00:45:47,500 So pretty. 1181 00:45:47,667 --> 00:45:49,542 - Let's prep, like, side stuff. 1182 00:45:49,667 --> 00:45:51,042 - How do you want the peppers? 1183 00:45:51,167 --> 00:45:52,667 - We're going to just like cube them 1184 00:45:52,833 --> 00:45:54,500 and we'll sauté them in oil. 1185 00:45:54,667 --> 00:45:56,000 Just slow cook them. 1186 00:45:56,083 --> 00:45:59,208 Let's get rice and beans started. 1187 00:45:59,375 --> 00:46:00,250 - Oh, yeah. 1188 00:46:00,375 --> 00:46:01,833 I can start--I can start prepping that. 1189 00:46:01,958 --> 00:46:03,167 - All right. 1190 00:46:03,333 --> 00:46:04,833 So I want to hear about everybody's sex life. 1191 00:46:04,958 --> 00:46:06,708 'Cause--cause I'm jealous. 1192 00:46:06,833 --> 00:46:08,333 - I got nothing to say. 1193 00:46:08,500 --> 00:46:11,542 - Well, we may or may not have done it last night, so... 1194 00:46:11,708 --> 00:46:12,833 - Mm. - It happens. 1195 00:46:12,958 --> 00:46:15,833 - I was wondering what-- ain't you all below me? 1196 00:46:15,917 --> 00:46:17,083 I know I heard something. - You're right here. 1197 00:46:17,208 --> 00:46:18,708 - Yeah, we're right below you. - Yeah. 1198 00:46:18,833 --> 00:46:19,875 Yeah, we're right below you. 1199 00:46:20,042 --> 00:46:21,833 - Well, I mean, what about you guys? 1200 00:46:21,917 --> 00:46:23,875 You guys are obviously pretty quiet about it. 1201 00:46:24,042 --> 00:46:25,833 - I mean, we ain't really quiet. 1202 00:46:25,917 --> 00:46:27,000 - That Rick James look. - Yeah. 1203 00:46:27,125 --> 00:46:28,167 - We ain't really quiet about it. 1204 00:46:28,250 --> 00:46:30,042 But I mean, that's like, Kirsten and I. 1205 00:46:30,208 --> 00:46:33,458 Like some things, like, we just keep private. 1206 00:46:33,583 --> 00:46:35,000 You know, what happens between us, 1207 00:46:35,125 --> 00:46:37,167 like, I'm just glad that it happened. 1208 00:46:37,292 --> 00:46:38,167 - Yeah. 1209 00:46:38,292 --> 00:46:39,333 - Like we done got over that hurdle. 1210 00:46:39,458 --> 00:46:42,792 But we just taking it slow, like it happened. 1211 00:46:42,917 --> 00:46:44,500 - Yeah. - Where do we go from here? 1212 00:46:44,625 --> 00:46:47,667 - How we feeling today? How's everybody feeling today? 1213 00:46:47,750 --> 00:46:49,333 - I had a great day today. 1214 00:46:49,458 --> 00:46:52,833 - But how is it with Clint, specifically? 1215 00:46:52,917 --> 00:46:54,250 - Yeah, it was fun. 1216 00:46:54,375 --> 00:46:56,375 I mean, I think that it's still, like, 1217 00:46:56,542 --> 00:46:59,833 I know Decision Day is coming up super quick, and-- 1218 00:46:59,917 --> 00:47:01,583 - You do like him, which is great. 1219 00:47:01,708 --> 00:47:02,833 - But yeah, I really enjoy him, 1220 00:47:02,917 --> 00:47:05,083 like, as a person in that, you know, 1221 00:47:05,208 --> 00:47:07,500 I feel like we're consistently giving it our all. 1222 00:47:07,667 --> 00:47:10,667 And we did have a good meeting with Dr. Pepper. 1223 00:47:10,833 --> 00:47:12,667 She told us to start really focusing 1224 00:47:12,750 --> 00:47:14,833 on like, a deep friendship, 1225 00:47:14,917 --> 00:47:16,375 like how we would love our friends. 1226 00:47:16,500 --> 00:47:18,833 It's like, Gina, you know how to like, love well. 1227 00:47:18,958 --> 00:47:21,250 So regardless of what's hovering over us 1228 00:47:21,375 --> 00:47:23,750 and just trying to focus on that kind of stuff. 1229 00:47:23,875 --> 00:47:25,750 - That's totally fair. 1230 00:47:25,875 --> 00:47:27,250 - Clint, so what do you-- 1231 00:47:27,375 --> 00:47:30,042 how are your feelings about, like, Decision Day? 1232 00:47:30,167 --> 00:47:32,042 - We're still taking it day by day. 1233 00:47:32,167 --> 00:47:33,833 We don't have like, a preconceived outcome. 1234 00:47:33,917 --> 00:47:36,333 We don't want to, you know, 1235 00:47:36,417 --> 00:47:39,458 judge things too early, 'cause we're growing day by day. 1236 00:47:39,542 --> 00:47:40,917 So we're always assessing. 1237 00:47:41,042 --> 00:47:42,125 - I'm kind of on the same page with you. 1238 00:47:42,208 --> 00:47:43,583 Like, I don't want to get to the end 1239 00:47:43,708 --> 00:47:45,125 and have any type of regrets. 1240 00:47:45,250 --> 00:47:47,542 So it's not like I'm meeting with the experts 1241 00:47:47,667 --> 00:47:49,667 and just like throwing their advice out the window. 1242 00:47:49,792 --> 00:47:50,958 Like, I'm doing the things, you know. 1243 00:47:51,042 --> 00:47:53,875 - Yeah. - If I, like, legitimately knew 1244 00:47:54,042 --> 00:47:56,167 my answer 100%, like, I would have just been done. 1245 00:47:56,250 --> 00:47:58,875 - Yeah, right. - And that's the easy way out. 1246 00:47:59,042 --> 00:48:01,000 It's easy to quit. It's easy to give up. 1247 00:48:01,125 --> 00:48:02,792 - But, you know, I'm trying to put in the work 1248 00:48:02,875 --> 00:48:04,375 experts gave us, so... 1249 00:48:04,500 --> 00:48:06,333 - Is it growing at all, like, with this weekend? 1250 00:48:06,500 --> 00:48:07,542 Like just-- 1251 00:48:07,708 --> 00:48:08,833 - It's definitely helped. 1252 00:48:08,958 --> 00:48:10,875 - So for me, last time we all met, 1253 00:48:11,042 --> 00:48:13,083 I was kind of like, at my breaking point. 1254 00:48:13,208 --> 00:48:15,458 I was like distraught, I was crying. 1255 00:48:15,583 --> 00:48:18,625 But we talked just more about the way we communicate 1256 00:48:18,708 --> 00:48:20,333 with each other today. 1257 00:48:20,458 --> 00:48:22,833 And, you know, me speaking up and telling him like, 1258 00:48:22,917 --> 00:48:24,458 when he pisses me off or he does something 1259 00:48:24,583 --> 00:48:27,625 that I don't like, I feel like we're getting past that. 1260 00:48:27,750 --> 00:48:29,125 And I feel like it's helping. 1261 00:48:29,208 --> 00:48:30,750 - I'm so excited. 1262 00:48:30,875 --> 00:48:32,708 - But I still don't know. [laughs] 1263 00:48:32,833 --> 00:48:35,375 - This feels like a big move, though. 1264 00:48:35,542 --> 00:48:36,542 - It does. - Yeah. 1265 00:48:36,667 --> 00:48:38,167 - It sounds like you guys are in a better space. 1266 00:48:38,333 --> 00:48:39,917 - We're definitely in a better space. 1267 00:48:40,042 --> 00:48:42,333 Yeah, we're definitely in a better space. 1268 00:48:42,417 --> 00:48:44,250 - What would it take for you, like, 1269 00:48:44,375 --> 00:48:47,208 that would change the dynamics of it? 1270 00:48:47,375 --> 00:48:51,000 - I feel like just some type of spark, you know, 1271 00:48:51,125 --> 00:48:53,333 some type of, like, I don't know, like a a-ha moment. 1272 00:48:53,417 --> 00:48:54,750 Like, OK, I see. 1273 00:48:54,875 --> 00:48:56,042 You have to see something, right? 1274 00:48:56,167 --> 00:48:58,167 Like, you might see, do I have enough-- 1275 00:48:58,333 --> 00:49:00,625 will I have enough on Decision Day 1276 00:49:00,750 --> 00:49:02,125 to say, hey, you know what? 1277 00:49:02,208 --> 00:49:03,458 It might not be where I want it to be now, 1278 00:49:03,583 --> 00:49:06,167 but I could kind of see where it could be. 1279 00:49:06,250 --> 00:49:08,000 - I think that's the best we can do in our scenarios. 1280 00:49:08,167 --> 00:49:09,833 It's just very different. 1281 00:49:09,958 --> 00:49:11,375 Like, these guys... - Right. 1282 00:49:11,500 --> 00:49:13,875 - You know, got a whole different thing going on. 1283 00:49:14,042 --> 00:49:15,333 What do you think, man? 1284 00:49:15,458 --> 00:49:16,875 - I mean, I don't want try to get too jealous 1285 00:49:17,000 --> 00:49:18,292 'cause, I mean... - [laughs] 1286 00:49:18,375 --> 00:49:20,083 - Physical attraction and everything is everything. 1287 00:49:20,208 --> 00:49:21,333 I think I got what I wanted, 1288 00:49:21,458 --> 00:49:22,917 but it's just taking a little time. 1289 00:49:23,042 --> 00:49:24,750 She was like, I need to get comfortable with you 1290 00:49:24,875 --> 00:49:26,375 before we do this and do that. 1291 00:49:26,500 --> 00:49:30,167 But I think what Kirsten did, she had a guard up 1292 00:49:30,250 --> 00:49:33,083 all of these weeks and then now it like, hit her, like, 1293 00:49:33,208 --> 00:49:35,917 oh, shoot, Decision Day is coming now. 1294 00:49:36,042 --> 00:49:37,917 Now it's kind of like, well, Shaquille, 1295 00:49:38,042 --> 00:49:39,125 now I'm ready to receive you and do this. 1296 00:49:39,208 --> 00:49:40,500 And it's like for me on the back, 1297 00:49:40,667 --> 00:49:43,083 and I'm like, damn, I've been trying since day one. 1298 00:49:43,208 --> 00:49:44,750 We could have started off on a good note, 1299 00:49:44,875 --> 00:49:46,042 start off on a positive note. 1300 00:49:46,167 --> 00:49:48,250 We could be further ahead than Chris and Nicole. 1301 00:49:48,375 --> 00:49:51,333 - Do you feel like there's definitely like, 1302 00:49:51,417 --> 00:49:53,792 a higher percentage of you saying yes on Decision Day, 1303 00:49:53,875 --> 00:49:55,500 or are you like, middle of the road, 1304 00:49:55,667 --> 00:49:57,000 like I'm not really sure? 1305 00:49:57,125 --> 00:49:59,042 - I'm in the middle of the road right now. 1306 00:49:59,208 --> 00:50:01,458 Because like, I feel like 1307 00:50:01,542 --> 00:50:04,292 we're still having these communication issues. 1308 00:50:04,417 --> 00:50:08,125 And sometimes I don't think that... 1309 00:50:08,208 --> 00:50:13,250 the conversations have to be as difficult. 1310 00:50:13,375 --> 00:50:14,917 - What do you think would need to happen 1311 00:50:15,042 --> 00:50:17,042 for it to be like a solid like, hell yeah, 1312 00:50:17,208 --> 00:50:18,542 like, I'm all the way? 1313 00:50:18,667 --> 00:50:20,417 - I'm still interested in meeting her family. 1314 00:50:20,542 --> 00:50:22,958 But I'm not-- I'm not asking no more. 1315 00:50:23,042 --> 00:50:24,333 Like, I'm not going to beg you. 1316 00:50:24,417 --> 00:50:26,167 I have yet to meet Kirsten's family 1317 00:50:26,333 --> 00:50:29,833 outside of the family members that were at the wedding. 1318 00:50:29,917 --> 00:50:34,042 Kirsten knows like, how important family is to me. 1319 00:50:34,208 --> 00:50:37,542 And now that her family is a part of my life, 1320 00:50:37,708 --> 00:50:39,250 it would be nice 1321 00:50:39,375 --> 00:50:41,333 to see her mom again or to see her brother. 1322 00:50:41,458 --> 00:50:44,500 I haven't had the opportunity to meet her dad. 1323 00:50:44,583 --> 00:50:47,875 I am a family man and they are a part of my family now, 1324 00:50:48,000 --> 00:50:49,750 so I want to make sure that they're good 1325 00:50:49,875 --> 00:50:51,167 just like my wife is. 1326 00:50:51,250 --> 00:50:52,333 We already talked about it. 1327 00:50:52,458 --> 00:50:54,000 Like, it's not something that I'm like, 1328 00:50:54,125 --> 00:50:55,833 going to beg you anymore to do. 1329 00:50:55,958 --> 00:50:59,125 ♪ ♪ 1330 00:51:02,958 --> 00:51:04,458 [mellow music] 1331 00:51:04,542 --> 00:51:06,917 - So this meal was brought to you by the men this evening. 1332 00:51:07,042 --> 00:51:09,292 We poured our heart and soul into this, 1333 00:51:09,417 --> 00:51:11,292 so it should be taste-tastic. 1334 00:51:11,375 --> 00:51:13,250 - And then there's also some red velvet. 1335 00:51:13,375 --> 00:51:15,542 - Oh. - Yeah. 1336 00:51:15,667 --> 00:51:16,792 - Sure. 1337 00:51:16,875 --> 00:51:18,167 - Going to celebrate the birthdays right here. 1338 00:51:18,292 --> 00:51:20,042 - Do you have cream cheese icing? 1339 00:51:20,167 --> 00:51:21,417 - Yeah, we got cream cheese icing. 1340 00:51:21,542 --> 00:51:22,500 Yeah. 1341 00:51:22,625 --> 00:51:24,875 - [squeals] This is going to be fabulous. 1342 00:51:25,042 --> 00:51:27,292 - Thank you, gentlemen, for helping me 1343 00:51:27,375 --> 00:51:29,292 put this meal together. 1344 00:51:29,375 --> 00:51:31,667 This was a huge effort. 1345 00:51:31,750 --> 00:51:34,375 But Decision Day is right around the corner. 1346 00:51:34,500 --> 00:51:39,250 What do you need from your significant other come D-day? 1347 00:51:39,375 --> 00:51:44,625 - I just need Jasmine to continue to speak her mind. 1348 00:51:44,708 --> 00:51:49,500 My intentions is just for us to take like all the tools 1349 00:51:49,625 --> 00:51:51,250 that we got from the experts. 1350 00:51:51,375 --> 00:51:53,500 It's like, you know, we're not where we want to be, 1351 00:51:53,625 --> 00:51:55,583 but I feel like we have all the resources to get there. 1352 00:51:55,708 --> 00:51:56,917 So there's, like, really no excuse 1353 00:51:57,042 --> 00:51:59,125 to not put in the effort. 1354 00:51:59,250 --> 00:52:00,750 One of the things I expect out of her 1355 00:52:00,875 --> 00:52:04,000 is just to continue to work on her communication. 1356 00:52:04,125 --> 00:52:07,042 I know it isn't always easy. 1357 00:52:07,167 --> 00:52:10,375 And my intention is just to create a more 1358 00:52:10,500 --> 00:52:12,833 safer environment for you to be vulnerable 1359 00:52:12,917 --> 00:52:16,500 and for you to feel like it's OK for you to speak up. 1360 00:52:16,625 --> 00:52:19,167 Even through the low moments and the high moments, like, 1361 00:52:19,292 --> 00:52:20,833 there's definitely been growth. 1362 00:52:20,958 --> 00:52:23,833 Like, I've seen--like this hasn't been easy at all, 1363 00:52:23,917 --> 00:52:26,417 and I just commend Jasmine like, how gracefully 1364 00:52:26,542 --> 00:52:28,167 she's handled everything. 1365 00:52:28,292 --> 00:52:29,583 Because some people might have like snapped or like 1366 00:52:29,708 --> 00:52:31,375 popped off in certain instances. 1367 00:52:31,500 --> 00:52:33,208 And we've had plenty of difficult conversations. 1368 00:52:33,375 --> 00:52:35,000 So we don't have a problem with actually 1369 00:52:35,083 --> 00:52:37,083 like talking about things. 1370 00:52:37,208 --> 00:52:38,833 But it's just, I think sometimes 1371 00:52:39,000 --> 00:52:40,208 with the state of the relationship 1372 00:52:40,333 --> 00:52:42,292 and like the environment, I haven't always 1373 00:52:42,375 --> 00:52:44,417 done a good job of creating like, 1374 00:52:44,542 --> 00:52:46,583 just a safe space for her to feel comfortable enough 1375 00:52:46,708 --> 00:52:48,208 like speaking up. 1376 00:52:48,333 --> 00:52:50,375 And I just want to like, salute you because 1377 00:52:50,500 --> 00:52:52,417 like that cannot be easy, you know what I mean? 1378 00:52:52,542 --> 00:52:54,167 Like... - Oh, my God. 1379 00:52:54,250 --> 00:52:55,625 - You could've, like, broke down. 1380 00:52:55,708 --> 00:52:57,542 And like, I mean, you had your moments, 1381 00:52:57,667 --> 00:52:59,500 but I feel like they've been healthy moments. 1382 00:52:59,583 --> 00:53:02,708 Like I was telling you, like, tears have stress in them. 1383 00:53:02,875 --> 00:53:04,667 So like to release, like, it feels good. 1384 00:53:04,792 --> 00:53:08,417 So I feel like you could have like, 1385 00:53:08,542 --> 00:53:10,458 you know--you could have done a whole bunch of things. 1386 00:53:10,542 --> 00:53:12,333 You could have just left and said, 1387 00:53:12,458 --> 00:53:13,875 "I don't want to deal with this, this is too much." 1388 00:53:14,042 --> 00:53:16,542 You could have like yelled, screamed or whatever. 1389 00:53:16,667 --> 00:53:18,458 And none of that would have been wrong, either. 1390 00:53:18,542 --> 00:53:21,292 Like, I would have felt like that was justified, too. 1391 00:53:21,375 --> 00:53:23,667 But I just wanted to like, congratulate you for like, 1392 00:53:23,750 --> 00:53:25,083 your strength. 1393 00:53:25,208 --> 00:53:27,375 - Thank you. - You're welcome. 1394 00:53:27,542 --> 00:53:28,833 - Well... [all chuckle] 1395 00:53:29,000 --> 00:53:31,667 Get myself together. 1396 00:53:31,750 --> 00:53:34,042 ♪ ♪ 1397 00:53:34,208 --> 00:53:37,083 - Well, Shaquille and I, you know 1398 00:53:37,208 --> 00:53:40,833 I've definitely been trying to get this communication 1399 00:53:40,917 --> 00:53:42,500 on the right direction. 1400 00:53:42,625 --> 00:53:44,250 I mean, it's been a struggle. 1401 00:53:44,375 --> 00:53:46,792 I get a little flustered and frustrated 1402 00:53:46,875 --> 00:53:49,208 when we have to have difficult conversations. 1403 00:53:49,333 --> 00:53:52,250 I know, like, going forward and my intentions 1404 00:53:52,375 --> 00:53:54,417 would be kind of to be able to open up to him 1405 00:53:54,542 --> 00:53:58,292 and to express how I'm feeling and why I'm feeling that way, 1406 00:53:58,417 --> 00:54:02,375 and develop a healthier style of communication. 1407 00:54:02,500 --> 00:54:05,958 But I definitely need more grace in this marriage 1408 00:54:06,042 --> 00:54:08,500 and for it to be consistent. 1409 00:54:08,625 --> 00:54:11,208 - Your feelings are valid and I love it. 1410 00:54:11,375 --> 00:54:13,792 - For us, we don't see eye to eye and everything, 1411 00:54:13,875 --> 00:54:15,125 but we always come to a compromise 1412 00:54:15,208 --> 00:54:16,333 or come to an agreement on stuff. 1413 00:54:16,500 --> 00:54:17,833 And we're able to talk things through. 1414 00:54:17,917 --> 00:54:20,167 And I'm always able to communicate with you 1415 00:54:20,250 --> 00:54:24,042 and you don't get like, annoyed with the over communication. 1416 00:54:24,167 --> 00:54:26,333 We did take that next level and we told each other 1417 00:54:26,458 --> 00:54:27,792 that we love each other. 1418 00:54:27,917 --> 00:54:29,583 - Mm-hmm. - And that was a big moment. 1419 00:54:29,708 --> 00:54:31,792 - The big L-bomb has been dropped. 1420 00:54:31,875 --> 00:54:32,833 - It has been. 1421 00:54:32,917 --> 00:54:34,333 - How about that? 1422 00:54:34,458 --> 00:54:35,542 - Because she was constantly just like, 1423 00:54:35,708 --> 00:54:37,333 needing that like affirmation-- - Validation. 1424 00:54:37,417 --> 00:54:38,917 - And validation. 1425 00:54:39,042 --> 00:54:40,458 And I just told her, I'm like, 1426 00:54:40,583 --> 00:54:42,167 it's kind of heavy because then it almost feels like, 1427 00:54:42,250 --> 00:54:43,542 I'm doing something wrong and like, 1428 00:54:43,667 --> 00:54:45,250 what do I need to do differently that-- 1429 00:54:45,375 --> 00:54:47,083 what am I doing that's making you question it? 1430 00:54:47,208 --> 00:54:48,833 So--but I think, you know, 1431 00:54:48,958 --> 00:54:50,917 you just needed to hear those words. 1432 00:54:51,042 --> 00:54:52,958 ♪ ♪ 1433 00:54:53,083 --> 00:54:54,458 - I love you. - Love you too. 1434 00:54:54,583 --> 00:54:55,833 - Aww. - Aww. 1435 00:54:55,917 --> 00:54:57,875 - Cheers to that. Cheers to love. 1436 00:54:58,000 --> 00:55:00,833 - Cheers. 1437 00:55:01,000 --> 00:55:03,333 - I feel like Clint and I have been trying, 1438 00:55:03,500 --> 00:55:05,167 just taking the tools that the experts have given us 1439 00:55:05,292 --> 00:55:07,333 and trying to put them into practice. 1440 00:55:07,458 --> 00:55:10,333 We're just stuck in the friend zone. 1441 00:55:10,458 --> 00:55:12,125 We don't argue. 1442 00:55:12,208 --> 00:55:14,083 There's nothing that, like, 1443 00:55:14,208 --> 00:55:15,750 it's been this massive blow up. 1444 00:55:15,875 --> 00:55:18,958 I mean, for sure there's little annoyances here and there. 1445 00:55:19,042 --> 00:55:21,292 But there's nothing that would constitute like, 1446 00:55:21,375 --> 00:55:23,458 oh, this requires divorce. 1447 00:55:23,542 --> 00:55:26,167 - We are definitely moving in the right direction. 1448 00:55:26,292 --> 00:55:28,500 And we're trying to put ourselves in a good position 1449 00:55:28,625 --> 00:55:30,167 for Decision Day. 1450 00:55:30,250 --> 00:55:32,667 We're putting all the kindling on the damn fire that we can. 1451 00:55:32,750 --> 00:55:35,167 We're spraying gasoline all around the damn thing. 1452 00:55:35,292 --> 00:55:37,667 And you know, we got the charcoal out 1453 00:55:37,750 --> 00:55:39,750 and we're just--we're trying to ignite something, right? 1454 00:55:39,875 --> 00:55:40,917 - Come on. 1455 00:55:41,042 --> 00:55:42,667 - I think that's all you can do, to be honest. 1456 00:55:42,792 --> 00:55:44,333 I mean, you guys have been-- 1457 00:55:44,417 --> 00:55:45,667 - Yeah, because at a certain point 1458 00:55:45,792 --> 00:55:47,042 when it starts feeling forced, it just makes it 1459 00:55:47,167 --> 00:55:49,333 even more unattractive. 1460 00:55:49,500 --> 00:55:51,667 For me, it's, I didn't sign up for this journey 1461 00:55:51,792 --> 00:55:53,167 to be married to a friend. 1462 00:55:53,333 --> 00:55:56,125 I have lots of friends, so... 1463 00:55:56,208 --> 00:55:59,417 ♪ ♪ 1464 00:55:59,542 --> 00:56:01,333 - Still going to cheer to super friends 1465 00:56:01,458 --> 00:56:03,833 because you are our super friends. 1466 00:56:03,958 --> 00:56:05,375 - Amen. - Amen. 1467 00:56:05,500 --> 00:56:08,500 ♪ ♪ 1468 00:56:08,583 --> 00:56:09,958 - Dinner was good. 1469 00:56:10,042 --> 00:56:11,333 - I wish I could stay 1470 00:56:11,458 --> 00:56:12,333 for the '80s party to keep the momentum going. 1471 00:56:12,500 --> 00:56:13,583 - I know, you about to miss out. 1472 00:56:13,708 --> 00:56:17,208 - Yeah, but unfortunately, I have a work event 1473 00:56:17,375 --> 00:56:19,000 that I tried to get out of, but I just-- 1474 00:56:19,167 --> 00:56:20,333 I got to be there. 1475 00:56:20,458 --> 00:56:22,083 - Hopefully you have safe travels. 1476 00:56:22,208 --> 00:56:24,375 - Drink in moderation. 1477 00:56:24,500 --> 00:56:25,500 - What? 1478 00:56:25,625 --> 00:56:27,083 - Don't let them catch you slipping. 1479 00:56:27,208 --> 00:56:29,125 - I'm sad that Airris, you know, 1480 00:56:29,208 --> 00:56:31,500 is leaving right as we were starting to progress 1481 00:56:31,667 --> 00:56:33,458 and move our relationship forward. 1482 00:56:33,542 --> 00:56:34,917 I'll see you off. 1483 00:56:35,042 --> 00:56:38,292 Because during the dinner, I feel like it was definitely 1484 00:56:38,375 --> 00:56:40,500 a turning point for me and Airris 1485 00:56:40,625 --> 00:56:42,833 in these weeks leading up to this. 1486 00:56:43,000 --> 00:56:46,250 I don't know if I felt like he really saw me for like, 1487 00:56:46,375 --> 00:56:47,958 the woman I am, you know. 1488 00:56:48,042 --> 00:56:51,458 So when he's singing my praises in front of everybody 1489 00:56:51,542 --> 00:56:54,667 and telling me how great of a person I am, 1490 00:56:54,750 --> 00:56:56,458 it fluttered my heart a little bit 1491 00:56:56,542 --> 00:56:59,583 just because I just felt seen from him. 1492 00:56:59,708 --> 00:57:04,500 All alone by myself tonight in the mountains with the bears. 1493 00:57:04,583 --> 00:57:06,333 - Get some bear spray by the door. 1494 00:57:06,458 --> 00:57:10,292 - [laughs] - Make sure you lock the patio. 1495 00:57:10,375 --> 00:57:12,292 - And then I'm sad to, you know, 1496 00:57:12,375 --> 00:57:14,500 have to get in bed without him. 1497 00:57:14,625 --> 00:57:17,292 - ♪ Every day and every night ♪ 1498 00:57:17,375 --> 00:57:19,667 ♪ I got you by my side ♪ 1499 00:57:19,750 --> 00:57:22,000 - Be safe. - All right. 1500 00:57:22,125 --> 00:57:23,500 Thank you. 1501 00:57:23,583 --> 00:57:26,083 - I'm just already ready for him to come back. 1502 00:57:26,208 --> 00:57:28,208 [car honks] [laughs] 1503 00:57:28,375 --> 00:57:29,667 Bye, husband! 1504 00:57:29,833 --> 00:57:32,167 - ♪ Every day and every night ♪ 1505 00:57:35,875 --> 00:57:38,792 - ♪ I feel like an animal ♪ 1506 00:57:38,875 --> 00:57:42,042 - Airris really jumped up like seven trillion points 1507 00:57:42,208 --> 00:57:43,542 in my book. 1508 00:57:43,708 --> 00:57:45,250 Everything he was saying felt so genuine 1509 00:57:45,375 --> 00:57:47,167 and was so meaningful. 1510 00:57:47,250 --> 00:57:49,250 And I could tell Jas felt it. 1511 00:57:49,375 --> 00:57:51,292 And--but those were happy tears. 1512 00:57:51,375 --> 00:57:52,333 - No, they were happy tears. 1513 00:57:52,500 --> 00:57:53,542 - Those are happy tears. 1514 00:57:53,708 --> 00:57:54,792 - She was not expecting-- yeah, that was-- 1515 00:57:54,917 --> 00:57:56,292 I think that was a really cool moment. 1516 00:57:56,375 --> 00:57:58,208 - You're always amazing. - Thank you. 1517 00:57:58,375 --> 00:58:00,292 - But he has grown into-- - Growth. 1518 00:58:00,375 --> 00:58:02,292 - An amazing person. Yeah, growth. 1519 00:58:02,417 --> 00:58:05,333 I think growth is so key. - All right. 1520 00:58:05,458 --> 00:58:06,875 - Do you to put anything in my fanny? 1521 00:58:07,042 --> 00:58:08,208 - Not yet. 1522 00:58:08,333 --> 00:58:09,833 - Maybe--maybe--maybe later. 1523 00:58:09,958 --> 00:58:11,333 - What? 1524 00:58:11,417 --> 00:58:12,500 - No, not that. - Maybe later? 1525 00:58:12,625 --> 00:58:13,542 - Keep your mind out of the gutter. 1526 00:58:13,667 --> 00:58:15,833 Talking about your fanny pack. 1527 00:58:16,000 --> 00:58:18,292 You look good. You look like an '80s hottie. 1528 00:58:18,417 --> 00:58:20,333 Like ready to party. 1529 00:58:20,417 --> 00:58:22,458 - You got hair. You have hair again. 1530 00:58:22,542 --> 00:58:25,042 Look at this. It is. 1531 00:58:25,167 --> 00:58:26,333 - Here we go. 1532 00:58:26,500 --> 00:58:29,500 - Oh, Lord, you look like a hippie. 1533 00:58:29,625 --> 00:58:31,958 Like, what dances did they do back in the day? 1534 00:58:32,042 --> 00:58:33,500 - I don't know. 1535 00:58:33,625 --> 00:58:35,458 - I really don't know much about the '80s. 1536 00:58:35,542 --> 00:58:37,500 I'm more so a '90s baby. 1537 00:58:37,625 --> 00:58:40,167 Wow, I'm the youngest one out the bunch. 1538 00:58:40,250 --> 00:58:42,292 ♪ ♪ 1539 00:58:42,375 --> 00:58:44,292 - Hey. - Oh, the electric slide. 1540 00:58:44,375 --> 00:58:46,167 - OK, do you know how to do that? 1541 00:58:46,292 --> 00:58:47,458 - The running man. 1542 00:58:47,542 --> 00:58:48,292 You see, they're doing it more like-- 1543 00:58:48,417 --> 00:58:49,500 - Lighter. 1544 00:58:49,625 --> 00:58:52,208 OK. Yeah, they doing it lighter. 1545 00:58:52,333 --> 00:58:54,500 Every time you hit a move I'm thinking you're gonna hit me. 1546 00:58:54,667 --> 00:58:57,125 - Get out the way. - Oh, Lord. 1547 00:58:57,250 --> 00:58:58,333 [crickets chirping] 1548 00:58:58,458 --> 00:59:00,250 - So I go like this. 1549 00:59:00,375 --> 00:59:01,417 Do I do it over the whole thing? 1550 00:59:01,542 --> 00:59:02,500 - Yeah, I like that. 1551 00:59:02,583 --> 00:59:03,792 - That's how you do this? 1552 00:59:03,917 --> 00:59:06,667 - I think so, yeah. That looks '80s. 1553 00:59:08,000 --> 00:59:09,000 - Really? 1554 00:59:09,083 --> 00:59:12,167 [rock music] 1555 00:59:12,292 --> 00:59:13,333 ♪ ♪ 1556 00:59:13,417 --> 00:59:15,708 - Rock on, baby. 1557 00:59:15,875 --> 00:59:18,125 - Oh, look at this. 1558 00:59:18,208 --> 00:59:20,250 - Oh! - Oh, my God. 1559 00:59:20,375 --> 00:59:21,542 - Oh, my God. - Hey. 1560 00:59:21,708 --> 00:59:24,708 - Rock it. Rock it. 1561 00:59:24,875 --> 00:59:27,167 - ♪ My little rock and roll girlfriend ♪ 1562 00:59:27,333 --> 00:59:29,667 ♪ Be my sweet honey bee ♪ 1563 00:59:29,792 --> 00:59:31,833 - Clint takes a look and commits to it. 1564 00:59:31,958 --> 00:59:34,500 It's his birthday. He's going all out. 1565 00:59:34,625 --> 00:59:36,292 Look at his eyeliner. 1566 00:59:36,375 --> 00:59:38,000 ♪ ♪ 1567 00:59:38,167 --> 00:59:42,625 - My look really personified what the '80s were to me. 1568 00:59:42,750 --> 00:59:45,167 Let my eyes do the talking. 1569 00:59:45,250 --> 00:59:46,375 ♪ ♪ 1570 00:59:46,542 --> 00:59:47,875 - [laughs softly] 1571 00:59:48,000 --> 00:59:50,167 - So who wants a drink? 1572 00:59:50,333 --> 00:59:51,625 - You. It's your birthday. 1573 00:59:51,708 --> 00:59:52,667 - Yeah, it's your birthday. What are we drinking? 1574 00:59:52,792 --> 00:59:53,750 - And it's Clint's birthday too. 1575 00:59:53,875 --> 00:59:55,792 - Clint! - Like, we're '80s babies. 1576 00:59:55,875 --> 00:59:57,875 - It's your birthday! - It's my birthday. 1577 00:59:58,042 --> 01:00:01,542 - Are we all going to start this party off with a shot? 1578 01:00:01,708 --> 01:00:03,542 [retro music] 1579 01:00:03,667 --> 01:00:04,833 - ♪ Yeah, baby, I'm a rock star ♪ 1580 01:00:05,000 --> 01:00:06,917 - To the crusties. - To the crusties. 1581 01:00:07,042 --> 01:00:09,208 ♪ ♪ 1582 01:00:09,333 --> 01:00:10,667 - Okay, Jas! 1583 01:00:10,792 --> 01:00:12,542 - ♪ Yeah, baby, I'm a rock star ♪ 1584 01:00:12,708 --> 01:00:14,458 - Do not hype me up. Do not hype me up. 1585 01:00:14,542 --> 01:00:16,000 I cannot do that. [laughs] 1586 01:00:16,125 --> 01:00:17,958 - I'll probably just vibe because I'm seventh wheeling it 1587 01:00:18,042 --> 01:00:20,708 right now, so I'll just probably let them have fun 1588 01:00:20,833 --> 01:00:22,000 and just, you know, pour the drinks 1589 01:00:22,125 --> 01:00:24,167 and make sure everybody's having a good time. 1590 01:00:24,250 --> 01:00:26,542 Here, shots. - Whoo! 1591 01:00:26,708 --> 01:00:28,333 - That's an easy drinker. 1592 01:00:28,458 --> 01:00:29,542 - This is an easy drinker. 1593 01:00:29,708 --> 01:00:31,125 - I really love theme parties. 1594 01:00:31,208 --> 01:00:32,917 It's one of my favorite things to do. 1595 01:00:33,042 --> 01:00:35,833 And Gina, to accompany me 1596 01:00:35,917 --> 01:00:40,292 and to unite our amazing '80 powers 1597 01:00:40,417 --> 01:00:44,500 to make this uncontested, 1598 01:00:44,625 --> 01:00:47,625 bona fide winners. 1599 01:00:47,750 --> 01:00:50,000 - Personally, Nicole looks pretty good, too. 1600 01:00:50,125 --> 01:00:52,167 [laughs] 1601 01:00:52,292 --> 01:00:53,625 But I'll let us have it. 1602 01:00:53,708 --> 01:00:55,125 It's your birthday, so... 1603 01:00:55,250 --> 01:00:58,083 [all cheering, whistlers blowing] 1604 01:00:58,208 --> 01:01:01,042 [upbeat music] 1605 01:01:01,167 --> 01:01:03,000 ♪ ♪ 1606 01:01:03,125 --> 01:01:05,292 - Yay! 1607 01:01:05,375 --> 01:01:06,667 Yay! 1608 01:01:06,833 --> 01:01:09,667 Thank you, guys. Oh, my God. 1609 01:01:09,792 --> 01:01:11,958 This is probably the best birthday I've ever had. 1610 01:01:12,042 --> 01:01:14,583 And I did not expect my 33rd birthday 1611 01:01:14,708 --> 01:01:16,500 to be filled with so much joy, 1612 01:01:16,625 --> 01:01:18,167 so many new friends, my new husband. 1613 01:01:18,250 --> 01:01:21,167 Usually I give myself my yearly cry on my birthday, 1614 01:01:21,333 --> 01:01:25,667 because I feel all the feelings of the past year, 1615 01:01:25,750 --> 01:01:27,000 like all the things that I didn't get to do 1616 01:01:27,083 --> 01:01:29,958 or didn't accomplish or all the things that 1617 01:01:30,042 --> 01:01:33,167 I wish I had gone after in that year. 1618 01:01:33,292 --> 01:01:36,042 And now the only tears, if any, will be happy ones 1619 01:01:36,167 --> 01:01:38,458 because I have my husband, my new friends. 1620 01:01:38,583 --> 01:01:40,250 I'm so happy. 1621 01:01:40,375 --> 01:01:42,417 - Happy birthday. 1622 01:01:42,542 --> 01:01:44,417 Love you. - I love you. 1623 01:01:44,542 --> 01:01:46,792 ♪ ♪ 1624 01:01:46,917 --> 01:01:48,708 - Since we don't have candles, blow into the mic 1625 01:01:48,875 --> 01:01:50,000 and make a wish. 1626 01:01:50,167 --> 01:01:51,583 - ♪ Euphoria on the shelf ♪ 1627 01:01:51,708 --> 01:01:53,542 ♪ ♪ 1628 01:01:53,708 --> 01:01:56,792 - Happy birthday. - I appreciate that. 1629 01:01:56,875 --> 01:01:59,958 - Happy birthday. - ♪ Euphoria ♪ 1630 01:02:00,083 --> 01:02:03,167 - Next time on "Married at First Sight"... 1631 01:02:03,250 --> 01:02:05,000 [Western music] 1632 01:02:05,083 --> 01:02:06,667 - ♪ Make that thing till you think ♪ 1633 01:02:06,750 --> 01:02:08,167 ♪ It's going to break that thing ♪ 1634 01:02:08,250 --> 01:02:10,042 - Our couples have just over a week left 1635 01:02:10,167 --> 01:02:12,083 to determine if their marriages 1636 01:02:12,208 --> 01:02:14,917 have what it takes to last forever. 1637 01:02:15,042 --> 01:02:16,667 - For Decision Day, we just need 1638 01:02:16,750 --> 01:02:18,750 to finalize what we're doing. 1639 01:02:18,875 --> 01:02:20,833 - He's never felt that attraction for me. 1640 01:02:20,917 --> 01:02:22,833 I've never felt like a wife. 1641 01:02:22,958 --> 01:02:25,292 - I feel like you just look for something to be wrong. 1642 01:02:25,375 --> 01:02:27,000 [dramatic music] 1643 01:02:27,167 --> 01:02:30,667 - There is a world where we-- we actually could continue. 1644 01:02:30,792 --> 01:02:32,000 There's a possibility. 1645 01:02:32,125 --> 01:02:33,500 - The need to have a conversation, 1646 01:02:33,667 --> 01:02:34,583 it's not really a need to me. 1647 01:02:34,708 --> 01:02:36,833 - But it's a need for me. 1648 01:02:36,917 --> 01:02:38,458 - Is this the first time you've seen me cry? 1649 01:02:38,542 --> 01:02:40,000 - Yeah, yeah. Think so. 1650 01:02:40,083 --> 01:02:42,833 - Wow, now all of a sudden, I am attracted. 1651 01:02:42,958 --> 01:02:45,167 - Where do we go from here? 1652 01:02:45,292 --> 01:02:51,833 ♪ ♪