1 00:00:03,083 --> 00:00:04,833 - Nice to meet you. - Nice to meet you. 2 00:00:04,917 --> 00:00:07,458 - Ten gutsy singles took a bold gamble 3 00:00:07,542 --> 00:00:09,000 in search of true love. 4 00:00:09,125 --> 00:00:12,167 They married as total strangers. 5 00:00:12,292 --> 00:00:15,292 [upbeat country rock music] 6 00:00:15,417 --> 00:00:17,667 - ♪ When I got a feeling ♪ 7 00:00:17,750 --> 00:00:20,042 - With only a week left before they have to decide 8 00:00:20,167 --> 00:00:22,625 whether to stay married or get a divorce, 9 00:00:22,708 --> 00:00:25,250 the couples embark on a three-day retreat 10 00:00:25,375 --> 00:00:27,125 in the Great Smoky Mountains. 11 00:00:27,250 --> 00:00:30,875 - That's my man! - Nicole and Chris. 12 00:00:31,000 --> 00:00:32,458 - "I love you. 13 00:00:32,542 --> 00:00:33,958 "Thanks for everything, and I'm grateful 14 00:00:34,083 --> 00:00:36,167 to be your husband." This is so sweet. 15 00:00:36,292 --> 00:00:38,500 - That sucked. That was a bad poem. 16 00:00:38,583 --> 00:00:40,542 - Ultimately, self-love comes from within, 17 00:00:40,667 --> 00:00:43,167 but when you have a partner who is loving you 18 00:00:43,250 --> 00:00:45,083 just as much back, it's just so much easier 19 00:00:45,208 --> 00:00:46,708 to feel love for yourself. 20 00:00:46,875 --> 00:00:47,833 Love you. Thank you. 21 00:00:47,958 --> 00:00:48,917 - Love you too. 22 00:00:49,042 --> 00:00:51,333 - Jasmine and Airris. 23 00:00:51,417 --> 00:00:54,083 - I haven't always done a good job of creating like, 24 00:00:54,208 --> 00:00:56,000 just a safe space for her to feel comfortable enough 25 00:00:56,125 --> 00:00:58,500 like, speaking up, and I just want to, like, 26 00:00:58,583 --> 00:01:01,333 salute you because, like, that cannot be easy. 27 00:01:01,458 --> 00:01:02,708 I just want to, like, congratulate you 28 00:01:02,875 --> 00:01:04,875 for like, your strength - Thank you. 29 00:01:05,042 --> 00:01:06,125 - You're welcome. 30 00:01:06,250 --> 00:01:08,083 - Gina and Clint. 31 00:01:08,208 --> 00:01:09,625 - We're putting all the kindling 32 00:01:09,750 --> 00:01:11,208 on the damn fire that we can. 33 00:01:11,333 --> 00:01:12,958 - For me, it's, I didn't sign up 34 00:01:13,083 --> 00:01:14,667 for this journey to be married to a friend. 35 00:01:14,750 --> 00:01:17,000 I have lots of friends. 36 00:01:17,167 --> 00:01:19,375 - Kirsten and Shaquille. 37 00:01:19,500 --> 00:01:21,125 - Do you feel like there's definitely 38 00:01:21,208 --> 00:01:22,292 like, a higher percentage of you 39 00:01:22,375 --> 00:01:24,167 saying yes on Decision Day? 40 00:01:24,250 --> 00:01:26,833 - I'm in the middle of the road right now, 41 00:01:26,958 --> 00:01:29,000 because I feel like we're still having 42 00:01:29,167 --> 00:01:30,708 these communication issues. 43 00:01:30,875 --> 00:01:34,167 - I'm not asking no more. Like, I'm not gonna beg you. 44 00:01:34,333 --> 00:01:37,167 - ♪ Tripping in dive bars ♪ 45 00:01:37,292 --> 00:01:39,333 - And tonight, as the retreat comes to an end, 46 00:01:39,417 --> 00:01:42,458 our couples spend their last days together as a group. 47 00:01:42,583 --> 00:01:44,833 They continue to reflect on their marriages, 48 00:01:44,958 --> 00:01:47,500 in the hopes of working through any lingering issues 49 00:01:47,625 --> 00:01:49,583 before ultimately having to make 50 00:01:49,708 --> 00:01:52,208 the toughest decision of their lives. 51 00:01:52,333 --> 00:01:56,000 - There is a world where we actually could continue. 52 00:01:56,125 --> 00:01:58,417 - Before Decision Day, we just need to finalize 53 00:01:58,542 --> 00:02:00,167 what we're doing. 54 00:02:00,333 --> 00:02:01,875 - Where do we go from here? 55 00:02:02,042 --> 00:02:03,833 - I'm working to get on the same page. 56 00:02:03,917 --> 00:02:05,667 - You feel like that's possible? 57 00:02:05,792 --> 00:02:06,958 [dramatic music] 58 00:02:07,083 --> 00:02:08,833 - You look for something to be wrong, 59 00:02:08,958 --> 00:02:10,833 and you just get in your own way. 60 00:02:10,958 --> 00:02:11,917 - Married a stranger at your own risk. 61 00:02:12,042 --> 00:02:14,500 You get what you get. 62 00:02:14,583 --> 00:02:16,208 - It's like, the frustration of like, pouring 63 00:02:16,333 --> 00:02:18,667 yourself into somebody. 64 00:02:18,833 --> 00:02:20,000 Don't take advantage. 65 00:02:20,167 --> 00:02:23,000 ♪ ♪ 66 00:02:23,125 --> 00:02:25,292 - ♪ It's all or nothing ♪ 67 00:02:25,417 --> 00:02:28,042 - This is "Married at First Sight." 68 00:02:28,208 --> 00:02:31,333 - ♪ There's no other way ♪ 69 00:02:31,417 --> 00:02:33,833 ♪ It's all or nothing ♪ 70 00:02:33,917 --> 00:02:38,000 - ♪ I've been a million miles away for too long, 71 00:02:38,125 --> 00:02:41,500 ♪ but I kept looking back ♪ 72 00:02:41,583 --> 00:02:43,167 ♪ Oh, yeah ♪ 73 00:02:43,292 --> 00:02:46,167 ♪ My heart said, "Where you at?" ♪ 74 00:02:46,333 --> 00:02:50,250 - So I woke up this morning in the house alone. 75 00:02:50,375 --> 00:02:53,417 There's no Jasmine, no Duchess. 76 00:02:53,542 --> 00:02:55,458 But I had to come back because I got 77 00:02:55,542 --> 00:02:57,167 a work meeting that is mandatory 78 00:02:57,292 --> 00:02:59,792 that I have to attend to, so... 79 00:02:59,875 --> 00:03:01,500 But yeah, it just feels different, 80 00:03:01,625 --> 00:03:04,333 not having her here, and not having Duchess here. 81 00:03:04,458 --> 00:03:07,083 It doesn't even feel like home, like, the home 82 00:03:07,208 --> 00:03:09,167 that we've built so far. 83 00:03:09,250 --> 00:03:13,667 So I'm looking forward to getting back to Jasmine. 84 00:03:13,833 --> 00:03:20,542 ♪ ♪ 85 00:03:23,375 --> 00:03:26,042 - I'm going to make it work without my husband, 86 00:03:26,167 --> 00:03:29,542 but I am ready for him to come back. 87 00:03:29,708 --> 00:03:31,917 He got to work, though, so I'm gonna 88 00:03:32,042 --> 00:03:33,708 enjoy this day with the other couples 89 00:03:33,875 --> 00:03:35,792 instead and will it out. 90 00:03:35,875 --> 00:03:37,667 - We're tired. 91 00:03:37,792 --> 00:03:40,708 We had so much fun last night with the other couples, 92 00:03:40,875 --> 00:03:43,542 hanging out, having fun. 93 00:03:43,708 --> 00:03:46,042 We're excited for another day of it, 94 00:03:46,167 --> 00:03:49,667 but we're tired. My little baby. 95 00:03:49,833 --> 00:03:52,292 So sleepy. 96 00:03:52,417 --> 00:03:55,208 But I'm gonna get up 97 00:03:55,375 --> 00:03:58,000 while he sleeps 98 00:03:58,125 --> 00:04:01,625 and maybe enjoy some of this beautiful-- 99 00:04:01,750 --> 00:04:04,500 ♪ ♪ 100 00:04:04,625 --> 00:04:09,042 look at that. Look at that. 101 00:04:09,208 --> 00:04:11,625 Would you look at it? 102 00:04:11,750 --> 00:04:16,667 - Good morning, birthday partier. 103 00:04:16,833 --> 00:04:19,708 - Good morning. - How are you feeling today? 104 00:04:19,875 --> 00:04:22,000 - I've got a glorious birthday gift this morning. 105 00:04:22,125 --> 00:04:23,208 Aspirin. 106 00:04:23,333 --> 00:04:26,167 Last night was a lot of fun. 107 00:04:26,250 --> 00:04:28,917 Huge bottle of champagne. - Toast. 108 00:04:29,042 --> 00:04:31,333 - Polished it off. 109 00:04:31,500 --> 00:04:34,708 - Probably by yourself. 110 00:04:34,875 --> 00:04:38,000 I'm going to give him some pain relief medicine-- 111 00:04:38,167 --> 00:04:40,167 - An NSAID. 112 00:04:40,292 --> 00:04:42,167 - Something maybe with electrolytes 113 00:04:42,333 --> 00:04:47,042 or hydration in it and bring him back to life. 114 00:04:47,167 --> 00:04:48,625 All right. 115 00:04:48,708 --> 00:04:51,625 [upbeat music] 116 00:04:51,708 --> 00:04:54,125 - Let's do this. Some old time photos. 117 00:04:54,208 --> 00:04:56,333 - I know. This is gonna be fun. 118 00:04:56,417 --> 00:04:58,500 Thank you. - Thank you so much. 119 00:04:58,667 --> 00:05:00,500 - Thank you. 120 00:05:00,583 --> 00:05:02,667 - With Decision Day just around the corner, 121 00:05:02,792 --> 00:05:05,750 every day, every minute our couples spend together 122 00:05:05,875 --> 00:05:07,958 is absolutely critical. 123 00:05:08,083 --> 00:05:09,375 - Wow. - Hi. 124 00:05:09,542 --> 00:05:10,333 - How are you? - How are you? 125 00:05:10,458 --> 00:05:12,167 - Good, how are you? 126 00:05:12,250 --> 00:05:13,292 - Good, you guys have an appointment today? 127 00:05:13,417 --> 00:05:14,542 - Sure do. - OK, perfect. 128 00:05:14,667 --> 00:05:16,167 Let me take you to the fitting room 129 00:05:16,333 --> 00:05:16,917 so you can pick what you want to dress like. 130 00:05:17,042 --> 00:05:18,417 - Thank you. 131 00:05:18,542 --> 00:05:20,208 - How they handle these final days 132 00:05:20,333 --> 00:05:22,667 will determine whether they're able to solidify 133 00:05:22,792 --> 00:05:25,750 their bond into a successful marriage, 134 00:05:25,875 --> 00:05:29,167 or if they're forced to face the harsh reality of divorce. 135 00:05:29,333 --> 00:05:32,125 ♪ ♪ 136 00:05:32,208 --> 00:05:33,458 - Whoa. 137 00:05:33,583 --> 00:05:34,625 - So you get to pick your outfit. 138 00:05:34,708 --> 00:05:36,958 - Oh. - There's a lot of options. 139 00:05:37,083 --> 00:05:39,042 - Yeah, I was thinking maybe old school sheriff. 140 00:05:39,208 --> 00:05:41,500 - Yeah. - You said old school sheriff. 141 00:05:41,625 --> 00:05:43,917 - I think you should definitely try this one. 142 00:05:44,042 --> 00:05:46,000 - These are like, wench-y, but I like being a wench. 143 00:05:46,083 --> 00:05:48,125 - Wench-y, ooh, you little wench. 144 00:05:48,250 --> 00:05:50,167 [laughs] 145 00:05:50,333 --> 00:05:51,667 - How are things with you and Nicole? 146 00:05:51,750 --> 00:05:53,792 - Oh, really well, like, you know-- 147 00:05:53,875 --> 00:05:55,458 - That's good. 148 00:05:55,542 --> 00:05:57,167 Y'all like, you know, give all of us hope. 149 00:05:57,250 --> 00:05:58,792 - Yeah? 150 00:05:58,917 --> 00:06:00,542 - I think everybody looks to you all and be like, 151 00:06:00,708 --> 00:06:02,917 "Wow, Chris and Nicole, just, you know, doing so well." 152 00:06:03,042 --> 00:06:04,167 But, you know, we don't know 153 00:06:04,250 --> 00:06:05,958 what goes on behind closed doors. 154 00:06:06,042 --> 00:06:09,500 - So on our drive up here, Chris and I were talking 155 00:06:09,625 --> 00:06:11,833 about our lease situation. 156 00:06:11,958 --> 00:06:14,708 Because now that we're living together, I'm like, 157 00:06:14,875 --> 00:06:16,542 "I don't want to not live together." 158 00:06:16,708 --> 00:06:18,583 And he's like, "Yeah, we should figure that out." 159 00:06:18,708 --> 00:06:21,125 But we haven't found any homes 160 00:06:21,250 --> 00:06:23,000 that we like that are in good areas 161 00:06:23,125 --> 00:06:25,292 that will take three dogs, so... 162 00:06:25,375 --> 00:06:27,000 - Oh, my goodness. 163 00:06:27,083 --> 00:06:29,125 Maybe y'all can wait it out till they have something 164 00:06:29,208 --> 00:06:31,542 that's available that's bigger that can take all five of you? 165 00:06:31,708 --> 00:06:34,500 - I feel like he is more on that page 166 00:06:34,625 --> 00:06:37,583 of like, why don't we wait? 167 00:06:37,708 --> 00:06:39,333 - She's just not really wanting to go back 168 00:06:39,458 --> 00:06:40,833 to living separately, which I totally get, 169 00:06:40,958 --> 00:06:42,667 and I don't either, but, you know, she's-- 170 00:06:42,833 --> 00:06:45,083 I think she's getting kind of overly thinking it 171 00:06:45,208 --> 00:06:46,792 and getting very rash about it. 172 00:06:46,917 --> 00:06:48,458 And I'm like, "Take a step back. 173 00:06:48,542 --> 00:06:50,208 Nothing we can do now." 174 00:06:50,375 --> 00:06:51,417 - I want to live with my husband. 175 00:06:51,542 --> 00:06:52,792 - I know. - I like it. 176 00:06:52,875 --> 00:06:54,250 - I want you and Chris and the dogs 177 00:06:54,375 --> 00:06:55,625 to all be together under one household 178 00:06:55,708 --> 00:06:58,792 that you both want to be in too. 179 00:06:58,917 --> 00:07:02,542 - Have you and Shaquille talked about what living looks like? 180 00:07:02,708 --> 00:07:05,375 - No, not really. We haven't talked about that. 181 00:07:05,500 --> 00:07:08,958 - Have you--are you in general talking about future 182 00:07:09,042 --> 00:07:11,708 or are you kind of stalling? 183 00:07:11,833 --> 00:07:14,625 Your face makes me nervous. - [laughs] 184 00:07:14,708 --> 00:07:17,333 - You guys feel like you're on a really good path right now? 185 00:07:17,417 --> 00:07:19,667 - Yeah, we're on a really good path, 186 00:07:19,750 --> 00:07:20,667 but sometimes we just, you know, 187 00:07:20,833 --> 00:07:22,417 on two different pages at time. 188 00:07:22,542 --> 00:07:24,583 I mean, and that's OK, but it's not like-- 189 00:07:24,708 --> 00:07:26,000 we just need to get on the same page. 190 00:07:26,083 --> 00:07:27,333 - Yeah. 191 00:07:27,417 --> 00:07:28,667 - Shaquille and I are at a place 192 00:07:28,833 --> 00:07:31,458 where, like, we don't know just yet 193 00:07:31,583 --> 00:07:34,167 if we're gonna stay married. - No. 194 00:07:34,292 --> 00:07:39,333 - I know. Or get a divorce. 195 00:07:39,458 --> 00:07:41,750 It's just, I would say expectations 196 00:07:41,875 --> 00:07:44,417 and the connection... - Yeah. 197 00:07:44,542 --> 00:07:47,667 - That we need more of right now. 198 00:07:47,833 --> 00:07:51,333 - She likes to sit up at night, and we talk about things. 199 00:07:51,500 --> 00:07:53,958 And, you know, she likes to like, learn new things. 200 00:07:54,042 --> 00:07:55,375 She always said, "Well, we need to learn something 201 00:07:55,542 --> 00:07:57,000 new about each other." 202 00:07:57,125 --> 00:07:58,917 And then we look at the clock, 203 00:07:59,042 --> 00:08:00,833 and it's 3:00 in the morning, and I'm like, 204 00:08:00,958 --> 00:08:02,708 "well, Kirsten, you know, I got to wake up for 6:30." 205 00:08:02,833 --> 00:08:04,542 - Yeah. 206 00:08:04,667 --> 00:08:06,167 - I know that's what she wants and that's what she needs. 207 00:08:06,250 --> 00:08:07,750 So it's like, "OK, Kirsten." 208 00:08:07,875 --> 00:08:09,042 But like, the other night, I was like, "Kirsten, 209 00:08:09,167 --> 00:08:11,333 "I'm going to sleep. Like, I'm not staying up." 210 00:08:11,458 --> 00:08:12,375 And she wasn't happy about that, but-- 211 00:08:12,500 --> 00:08:13,583 - Yeah. 212 00:08:13,708 --> 00:08:16,750 - Hey, we got to compromise. 213 00:08:16,875 --> 00:08:18,333 - Communication might, unfortunately, 214 00:08:18,458 --> 00:08:20,583 be something that's a constant theme 215 00:08:20,708 --> 00:08:22,125 in your marriage. I'm sorry. 216 00:08:22,250 --> 00:08:23,667 - I know. 217 00:08:23,792 --> 00:08:24,708 - I'm sure it's just frustrating. 218 00:08:24,833 --> 00:08:26,250 - It is very frustrating. 219 00:08:26,375 --> 00:08:27,375 - You're like, "I'm trying," but-- 220 00:08:27,500 --> 00:08:29,000 - It is. It's very frustrating. 221 00:08:29,083 --> 00:08:30,875 But we'll talk more about that. - We'll talk more. 222 00:08:31,000 --> 00:08:34,125 You know what I'm gonna say, like, time shows all, 223 00:08:34,250 --> 00:08:36,792 so if you give it more time, you'll feel more confident 224 00:08:36,875 --> 00:08:40,292 in your decision, but shall we get changed 225 00:08:40,417 --> 00:08:44,417 and show these men our-- - Show what we got. 226 00:08:44,542 --> 00:08:46,833 - Here you go. It's a good look. 227 00:08:46,958 --> 00:08:48,458 Too bad we didn't have this for the pageant 228 00:08:48,583 --> 00:08:49,500 the other night. - Right? 229 00:08:49,583 --> 00:08:51,000 We would have outshined Clint. 230 00:08:51,083 --> 00:08:52,292 - Should we head back there, see the ladies? 231 00:08:52,417 --> 00:08:54,167 - Yeah, let's see what they got going on. 232 00:08:54,292 --> 00:08:57,333 ♪ ♪ 233 00:08:57,458 --> 00:08:59,708 - Oh. 234 00:08:59,833 --> 00:09:01,958 [together] Hello, handsome men. 235 00:09:02,042 --> 00:09:03,375 - Kirsten looks amazing. 236 00:09:03,542 --> 00:09:05,833 - Look at you. I love that leather coat. 237 00:09:05,958 --> 00:09:07,500 - What y'all ladies in here for today? 238 00:09:07,625 --> 00:09:08,667 - We're here to see you guys. 239 00:09:08,792 --> 00:09:10,833 - Ooh, a sheriff. - Yep. 240 00:09:10,917 --> 00:09:12,417 - I like to run from the law, so... 241 00:09:12,542 --> 00:09:13,833 - Oh, yeah? 242 00:09:13,958 --> 00:09:16,042 - Oh, you seem like a troublemaker. 243 00:09:16,208 --> 00:09:18,417 What about you, young lady? What are you looking for? 244 00:09:18,542 --> 00:09:20,792 - I'm looking for you. - Oh. 245 00:09:20,917 --> 00:09:22,083 - Baby. 246 00:09:22,208 --> 00:09:24,083 Come on now. - Oh. 247 00:09:24,208 --> 00:09:25,125 - Hey, guys. - Hi. 248 00:09:25,208 --> 00:09:26,250 - Are you ready? 249 00:09:26,375 --> 00:09:27,250 - Yeah - Yeah. 250 00:09:27,375 --> 00:09:29,250 - Awesome. All right, guys. 251 00:09:29,375 --> 00:09:32,167 So we're gonna go ahead and do all of you guys together first. 252 00:09:32,250 --> 00:09:33,958 - I looked at Kirsten. She looks great in red. 253 00:09:34,083 --> 00:09:35,792 So being that she chose to wear red, 254 00:09:35,875 --> 00:09:38,500 I was like, this is definitely your color. 255 00:09:38,625 --> 00:09:40,167 - ♪ First time that I saw the girl ♪ 256 00:09:40,292 --> 00:09:41,667 ♪ I knew that she changed my whole world ♪ 257 00:09:41,792 --> 00:09:42,792 ♪ Said she would ♪ 258 00:09:42,875 --> 00:09:45,583 - Just the girls. Big, happy smile. 259 00:09:45,708 --> 00:09:48,042 Say, "money". - Money. 260 00:09:48,167 --> 00:09:50,042 - ♪ It was clear love couldn't wait ♪ 261 00:09:50,167 --> 00:09:51,583 ♪ I'd say a word and she'd finish ♪ 262 00:09:51,708 --> 00:09:53,750 - Ready, one, two, three. 263 00:09:53,875 --> 00:09:58,500 - ♪ She's the dot to every I, the cross to all my Ts ♪ 264 00:09:58,625 --> 00:10:01,375 ♪ Ain't no doubt that we were meant to be ♪ 265 00:10:01,500 --> 00:10:03,625 ♪ Like cornbread and butter ♪ 266 00:10:03,708 --> 00:10:06,458 - I like this look. I like it. 267 00:10:06,583 --> 00:10:08,083 - Yeah. You're looking good, too. 268 00:10:08,208 --> 00:10:09,667 - Leather. 269 00:10:09,792 --> 00:10:11,708 - ♪ Yeah, we go together ♪ 270 00:10:11,833 --> 00:10:14,750 ♪ Like cornbread and butter ♪ 271 00:10:14,875 --> 00:10:16,417 - And we're gonna put this hand around her waist 272 00:10:16,542 --> 00:10:18,000 and actually turn towards her. 273 00:10:18,083 --> 00:10:20,667 - Dynamite Dylan and his little lady. 274 00:10:20,833 --> 00:10:23,375 They look like they gonna have real fun tonight. 275 00:10:23,500 --> 00:10:25,333 Oh, yeah. 276 00:10:25,500 --> 00:10:29,417 ♪ ♪ 277 00:10:29,542 --> 00:10:31,042 - Both of us happy. Cheese! 278 00:10:31,167 --> 00:10:34,333 You guys can look at each other and smile. 279 00:10:34,500 --> 00:10:35,708 - My hopes for Kirsten and Shaq 280 00:10:35,875 --> 00:10:37,667 is that they just figure it out. 281 00:10:37,792 --> 00:10:39,875 They're right there. They're so close. 282 00:10:40,000 --> 00:10:41,833 They just need to get on the same page. 283 00:10:41,917 --> 00:10:43,458 - OK, you can kiss. - Oh, yeah. 284 00:10:43,542 --> 00:10:45,167 - There it is. 285 00:10:45,333 --> 00:10:46,500 - ♪ There's always a risk ♪ 286 00:10:46,625 --> 00:10:48,208 ♪ In believin' ♪ 287 00:10:48,375 --> 00:10:52,208 ♪ It's more than enough of a reason to try ♪ 288 00:10:57,542 --> 00:11:00,667 ♪ ♪ 289 00:11:00,750 --> 00:11:04,750 - Who's excited to get physical? 290 00:11:04,875 --> 00:11:06,125 - I am. I'm glad it wasn't early. 291 00:11:06,208 --> 00:11:07,583 - Mm-hmm. 292 00:11:07,708 --> 00:11:11,042 - Ten more aspirin should get me about right. 293 00:11:11,208 --> 00:11:13,708 - Did Airris make it back OK last night? 294 00:11:13,833 --> 00:11:16,292 - He did. He said he was so tired. 295 00:11:16,375 --> 00:11:18,833 - Oh, I imagine. 296 00:11:18,958 --> 00:11:22,500 - What in the world is a Lumberjack Feud Show? 297 00:11:22,583 --> 00:11:24,208 ♪ ♪ 298 00:11:24,375 --> 00:11:26,375 - Lumberjacks. 299 00:11:26,500 --> 00:11:28,167 - Oh, look, it's our friends. 300 00:11:28,292 --> 00:11:30,417 - We're here, y'all. - Lumberjack Feud. 301 00:11:30,542 --> 00:11:32,167 - Friends. - What's up, guys? 302 00:11:32,292 --> 00:11:33,417 - Hey, guys. - Hey. 303 00:11:33,542 --> 00:11:34,542 - Are you ready to be a lumberjack? 304 00:11:34,708 --> 00:11:36,708 - Yeah, let's be a lumberjack. 305 00:11:36,875 --> 00:11:40,625 - You see, they took a template of my body. 306 00:11:40,708 --> 00:11:42,167 - I don't even know what lumberjacking is. 307 00:11:42,292 --> 00:11:44,125 Kirsten and I just saw the place passing by 308 00:11:44,208 --> 00:11:46,167 and was like, "Let's invite everybody 309 00:11:46,292 --> 00:11:48,458 to go lumberjacking." Like, it's adventurous. 310 00:11:48,583 --> 00:11:50,083 We don't know what we doing. 311 00:11:50,208 --> 00:11:51,333 Maybe they don't know what they're doing either, 312 00:11:51,458 --> 00:11:54,375 but let's do it together. - Ready to lumberjack. 313 00:11:54,500 --> 00:11:55,833 - Yeah. - Ooh. 314 00:11:55,958 --> 00:11:58,667 - This is so cool. - It is. 315 00:11:58,792 --> 00:12:00,750 - Oh, hello. - Hi, guys. 316 00:12:00,875 --> 00:12:02,708 Welcome to the Lumberjack Feud. 317 00:12:02,875 --> 00:12:04,250 My name is Uncle Bud Beasley, 318 00:12:04,375 --> 00:12:05,833 I'm the straw boss here at the Lumberjack Feud. 319 00:12:06,000 --> 00:12:07,500 - Wow. - Nice to meet you. 320 00:12:07,583 --> 00:12:09,750 - Today you guys are gonna be learning about timber sports. 321 00:12:09,875 --> 00:12:11,000 - Right. - All right. 322 00:12:11,167 --> 00:12:12,667 - Let's do it. 323 00:12:12,750 --> 00:12:14,083 - Some of our guys here are some of the best 324 00:12:14,208 --> 00:12:15,375 timber sport athletes in the entire world. 325 00:12:15,500 --> 00:12:17,500 - Wow. - So, guys, go ahead, 326 00:12:17,583 --> 00:12:18,667 and let's show 'em what we can do. 327 00:12:18,792 --> 00:12:20,375 ♪ ♪ 328 00:12:20,500 --> 00:12:22,292 - Wow. - Bullseye. 329 00:12:22,417 --> 00:12:24,417 - That's a 12-inch block. 330 00:12:24,542 --> 00:12:26,875 - Wow. - This is Tyler and Mike. 331 00:12:27,000 --> 00:12:29,000 They're gonna do some speed climbing. 332 00:12:29,083 --> 00:12:30,833 - Oh, wow. - Do we get to do that? 333 00:12:31,000 --> 00:12:32,000 I want to try that. 334 00:12:32,125 --> 00:12:34,125 - Let me stretch real fast. 335 00:12:34,208 --> 00:12:35,000 - Can I get one of those things now? 336 00:12:35,167 --> 00:12:37,917 What is it? - 3, 2, 1, go. 337 00:12:38,042 --> 00:12:40,417 - There you go. - She's gonna start you guys. 338 00:12:40,542 --> 00:12:43,500 - 3, 2, 1, go! 339 00:12:43,625 --> 00:12:46,000 - Oh, wow. - He's running. 340 00:12:46,167 --> 00:12:47,500 He's running. 341 00:12:47,667 --> 00:12:49,458 - Come on, McCraw, now you're losing. 342 00:12:49,583 --> 00:12:50,875 - Come on, McCraw. 343 00:12:51,000 --> 00:12:54,000 Yeah, Mr. Dawson. - Whoo! 344 00:12:54,125 --> 00:12:55,792 - Oh, wow. 345 00:12:55,875 --> 00:12:58,042 - Oh, my God. Oh! 346 00:12:58,208 --> 00:12:59,667 That was like a tree spider monkey. 347 00:12:59,792 --> 00:13:01,000 Damn. 348 00:13:01,083 --> 00:13:04,375 - That was a tree spider monkey. 349 00:13:04,542 --> 00:13:07,042 - Hey, guys, we need to get the crosscut saws out. 350 00:13:07,167 --> 00:13:10,042 - Yeah, the crosscut saw. - Yeah, we want to see those. 351 00:13:10,167 --> 00:13:12,750 - I've seen this stuff before on, like, 352 00:13:12,875 --> 00:13:14,667 sports channels back in the day. 353 00:13:14,750 --> 00:13:16,667 - Go. There they go. 354 00:13:16,833 --> 00:13:18,333 - I was kind of fascinated with it 355 00:13:18,458 --> 00:13:20,417 because it seems so cool. It's, like, very outdoorsy. 356 00:13:20,542 --> 00:13:21,875 - Come on. Get behind. 357 00:13:22,000 --> 00:13:24,208 Come on, kid. Y'all got this. 358 00:13:24,375 --> 00:13:26,667 Oh, look at that. 359 00:13:26,792 --> 00:13:29,917 - It's harder than it looks. - Ready? 360 00:13:30,042 --> 00:13:34,750 On your marks, get set, go! Go. 361 00:13:34,875 --> 00:13:36,542 - Why am I sinking right now? - Oh! 362 00:13:36,708 --> 00:13:37,750 - You're too heavy to sit on the thing. 363 00:13:37,875 --> 00:13:39,333 You need to stand on the thing. 364 00:13:39,500 --> 00:13:41,833 - Oh, what? Oh! 365 00:13:41,958 --> 00:13:44,500 - It looks easy, but it's actually hard. 366 00:13:44,667 --> 00:13:49,208 - Oh, my God! [laughs] 367 00:13:49,333 --> 00:13:56,292 ♪ ♪ 368 00:13:56,375 --> 00:13:57,750 - How do I stand back up? 369 00:13:57,875 --> 00:14:00,250 [laughs] 370 00:14:00,375 --> 00:14:03,958 I'm having a little struggle right now. 371 00:14:04,042 --> 00:14:05,417 Well, we tried. We're trying right now. 372 00:14:05,542 --> 00:14:06,875 We're trying. 373 00:14:07,000 --> 00:14:08,583 - Come on, kids, we're gonna do some climbing. 374 00:14:08,708 --> 00:14:10,167 Chris, you ready? - Yeah, let's do this. 375 00:14:10,292 --> 00:14:12,292 - Yeah. - Let's go, Nicole. 376 00:14:12,375 --> 00:14:15,542 - Whoo, whoo! - Ready? 377 00:14:15,708 --> 00:14:17,833 - Go, Nicole. - Climb. 378 00:14:18,000 --> 00:14:20,708 - There you go, Nicole. - Yes, Nicole. 379 00:14:20,833 --> 00:14:23,750 - Take your time, Nicole. 380 00:14:23,875 --> 00:14:26,000 - Stand up straight. - Yes, there you go. 381 00:14:26,083 --> 00:14:27,458 - Good job, good job. - Yes, ma'am. 382 00:14:27,583 --> 00:14:29,708 You are real for this. - There you go, Nicole. 383 00:14:29,833 --> 00:14:31,208 Good job. Straight up. 384 00:14:31,333 --> 00:14:32,708 Straight up. - You got it, Nicole. 385 00:14:32,875 --> 00:14:35,292 - There you go, Nicole. Almost there! 386 00:14:35,417 --> 00:14:38,833 ♪ ♪ 387 00:14:38,958 --> 00:14:40,667 - Oh, we're good. Yeah. 388 00:14:40,792 --> 00:14:43,375 ♪ ♪ 389 00:14:43,500 --> 00:14:45,542 - Oh, that's tough, huh? 390 00:14:45,708 --> 00:14:46,833 - She's got it. 391 00:14:46,958 --> 00:14:50,000 [cheers and applause] 392 00:14:50,083 --> 00:14:52,167 - Stand up, one more. - And you beat me. 393 00:14:52,292 --> 00:14:53,750 [cheers and applause] - Way to go, Nicole! 394 00:14:53,875 --> 00:14:56,875 - You beat me. - Nicole! 395 00:14:57,000 --> 00:14:59,542 - Good job, Nicole. - Good job, Nicole. 396 00:14:59,667 --> 00:15:01,875 - I'm not afraid. She beat me. 397 00:15:02,000 --> 00:15:06,667 I'm gracious in defeat. - Yay! 398 00:15:06,750 --> 00:15:09,000 - Hey, guys. Can we get her set up? 399 00:15:09,083 --> 00:15:11,000 She's gonna climb on this tree. 400 00:15:11,125 --> 00:15:13,208 - Kirsten's going with Shaq? - Yeah. 401 00:15:13,333 --> 00:15:16,167 - Wait, how do I come down? - Just like that. 402 00:15:16,333 --> 00:15:17,833 - Cause the way y'all came down, 403 00:15:17,917 --> 00:15:20,167 I can't go down like that. No, no. 404 00:15:20,292 --> 00:15:21,708 - Whew. 405 00:15:21,833 --> 00:15:22,958 - It's not a competition, 406 00:15:23,042 --> 00:15:24,000 but if you beat your husband then, 407 00:15:24,083 --> 00:15:25,833 that's cool. - Then that's cool. 408 00:15:25,958 --> 00:15:27,500 - Go. 409 00:15:27,583 --> 00:15:28,875 - Why am I still-- 410 00:15:29,000 --> 00:15:30,667 starting off too big. There you go. 411 00:15:30,833 --> 00:15:32,500 - Get that heel in. - Spike that. 412 00:15:32,625 --> 00:15:34,542 - Yeah, Kirsten! - Yeah, Kirsten! 413 00:15:34,667 --> 00:15:37,167 - Whoo! - Oh. 414 00:15:37,292 --> 00:15:39,917 ♪ ♪ 415 00:15:40,042 --> 00:15:41,958 - There's no way I'm doing this. 416 00:15:42,042 --> 00:15:43,917 I'll puke everywhere. 417 00:15:44,042 --> 00:15:46,125 Oh. - Whoo! 418 00:15:46,208 --> 00:15:47,875 - That's good right there. 419 00:15:48,000 --> 00:15:50,042 [bell rings] - Whoo! 420 00:15:50,167 --> 00:15:52,625 - Yeah, there you go. There you go. 421 00:15:52,708 --> 00:15:55,625 - Man, feeling rough. 422 00:15:55,708 --> 00:15:58,083 - OK, I think this is good. 423 00:15:58,208 --> 00:16:01,125 - Hey, that was pretty good. - Whoo! 424 00:16:01,208 --> 00:16:02,083 - You did good. - Thank you. 425 00:16:02,208 --> 00:16:03,375 You did good. - Whoo! 426 00:16:03,542 --> 00:16:04,917 - Hey, here you go, brother. You're good. 427 00:16:05,042 --> 00:16:06,625 - That's our girl. 428 00:16:06,708 --> 00:16:07,542 - Are you gonna go on this side? 429 00:16:07,667 --> 00:16:08,667 - Yeah, I can. - OK. 430 00:16:08,792 --> 00:16:10,125 - Sitting out, Clint? 431 00:16:10,250 --> 00:16:13,125 - I think I'm a hard pass, unfortunately. 432 00:16:13,208 --> 00:16:16,042 Just looking up is making me feel nauseous. 433 00:16:16,167 --> 00:16:19,167 I'd hate to coat this pole with champagne. 434 00:16:19,250 --> 00:16:23,917 I'm already spinning quite profusely right now. 435 00:16:24,042 --> 00:16:25,125 - Y'all ready? 436 00:16:25,208 --> 00:16:27,333 - Yeah. - Climbers ready. 437 00:16:27,458 --> 00:16:28,875 OK, go. 438 00:16:29,000 --> 00:16:31,208 ♪ ♪ 439 00:16:31,333 --> 00:16:35,000 - Oh, there's a step. - Dig in there. 440 00:16:35,083 --> 00:16:38,000 - Come on, ladies! - All right, yeah! 441 00:16:38,125 --> 00:16:39,833 - Oh, look at Jasmine. - Come on, Jas! 442 00:16:39,917 --> 00:16:42,292 - Good, Jas! - Jas, you make it look easy! 443 00:16:42,375 --> 00:16:43,833 - Keep going! - Yeah, keep going! 444 00:16:43,958 --> 00:16:45,000 - Keep going! - Whoo! 445 00:16:45,125 --> 00:16:47,417 - OK! - Whoo! 446 00:16:47,542 --> 00:16:49,125 - There you go! - You going to the white line. 447 00:16:49,250 --> 00:16:52,000 - Go to the white! 448 00:16:52,125 --> 00:16:53,833 - Yeah, Jas! - Yeah, you got this! 449 00:16:53,917 --> 00:16:55,167 - Damn. - Oh! 450 00:16:55,292 --> 00:16:57,000 - Stand up straight! No. 451 00:16:57,083 --> 00:16:58,542 - Oh! - Oh! 452 00:16:58,708 --> 00:17:00,000 - Uh-oh. - I'm done. 453 00:17:00,125 --> 00:17:03,167 - Good job, Jas! - Whoo! 454 00:17:03,292 --> 00:17:04,458 - My goal was to get to the blue, 455 00:17:04,583 --> 00:17:06,167 and then I got to the blue, and I said, 456 00:17:06,292 --> 00:17:07,625 "I might as well keep going." 457 00:17:07,750 --> 00:17:09,375 Was trying to get to the white, but I slipped, 458 00:17:09,500 --> 00:17:10,667 and I was tired. 459 00:17:10,792 --> 00:17:12,125 - That was awesome. 460 00:17:12,250 --> 00:17:13,833 - Thank you. - Yeah. 461 00:17:13,958 --> 00:17:15,417 - I'm proud of myself. 462 00:17:15,542 --> 00:17:17,375 I wish Airris was here to even do this. 463 00:17:17,542 --> 00:17:18,958 Because I feel like he would have did really well at it, 464 00:17:19,042 --> 00:17:20,708 and I wish he could have saw me kill it. 465 00:17:20,833 --> 00:17:22,583 I don't know, it might have turned him on. Who knows? 466 00:17:22,708 --> 00:17:25,833 My booty was looking good in the harness, so... 467 00:17:25,958 --> 00:17:27,042 - That was... - That was a workout. 468 00:17:27,167 --> 00:17:28,000 - Man. - Something. 469 00:17:28,083 --> 00:17:29,417 - Yeah. 470 00:17:29,542 --> 00:17:30,583 - I mean, I think Jas is the best by far. 471 00:17:30,708 --> 00:17:32,083 - Yeah, she was. 472 00:17:32,208 --> 00:17:33,417 - She almost got up to that white line. 473 00:17:33,542 --> 00:17:34,667 - I wish Airris could have been here 474 00:17:34,750 --> 00:17:36,167 to see his girl in action. 475 00:17:36,333 --> 00:17:38,667 - I was proud of you. I was proud. 476 00:17:38,792 --> 00:17:41,083 - I think he would have did great on it, too, 477 00:17:41,208 --> 00:17:43,292 so I'm sad he had to miss it because I feel like 478 00:17:43,375 --> 00:17:44,833 it would have been fun for him. 479 00:17:44,958 --> 00:17:46,833 But I wish he could have saw me. 480 00:17:46,917 --> 00:17:49,083 - I think that would have definitely 481 00:17:49,208 --> 00:17:50,583 turned up the heat a little bit. 482 00:17:50,708 --> 00:17:52,292 - You can tell, she's, like, wishing he was here. 483 00:17:52,375 --> 00:17:53,500 But yeah. 484 00:17:53,667 --> 00:17:55,125 - Yeah, she's missing him. - Yeah, sure. 485 00:17:55,208 --> 00:17:56,833 - I hope he's missing her. 486 00:17:56,958 --> 00:17:58,500 - I mean, at the dinner last night, 487 00:17:58,625 --> 00:18:00,208 what he said, I mean, he got some joyful tears out of her. 488 00:18:00,333 --> 00:18:01,750 Like that was really beautiful. 489 00:18:01,875 --> 00:18:02,792 - That was the best interaction 490 00:18:02,917 --> 00:18:03,708 I think I've ever seen them have. 491 00:18:03,875 --> 00:18:05,125 - Me, too. 492 00:18:05,208 --> 00:18:06,500 - I felt like it was definitely-- 493 00:18:06,667 --> 00:18:09,583 it turned over a new leaf for us, and I feel like, 494 00:18:09,708 --> 00:18:11,125 does that not turn you on? 495 00:18:11,208 --> 00:18:13,542 Like you can say all these things about me 496 00:18:13,667 --> 00:18:15,917 and that don't turn you on, to have a woman like that? 497 00:18:16,042 --> 00:18:17,333 - And I think in that moment, 498 00:18:17,417 --> 00:18:19,167 it was kind of like, he may have said 499 00:18:19,250 --> 00:18:20,667 these things privately, like I'm proud of you. 500 00:18:20,792 --> 00:18:23,292 But just do it in front of everybody it's like, 501 00:18:23,417 --> 00:18:25,292 oh, you're going to do it in front of everybody, OK. 502 00:18:25,375 --> 00:18:26,708 - You mean it. You don't say that-- 503 00:18:26,833 --> 00:18:28,000 - You really mean it 504 00:18:28,083 --> 00:18:29,167 if you're saying in front of everybody. 505 00:18:29,292 --> 00:18:30,667 - Yeah, we still got a long way to go. 506 00:18:30,833 --> 00:18:33,250 - But you have time. - Those are just nice words. 507 00:18:33,375 --> 00:18:35,000 - Beauty of marriage. 508 00:18:35,125 --> 00:18:37,833 - Action into play, but yes, 509 00:18:38,000 --> 00:18:40,292 I was very happy last night, so. 510 00:18:40,417 --> 00:18:41,792 - I think that's where I am, like with Kirsten and I, 511 00:18:41,875 --> 00:18:44,250 like from our conversations, 512 00:18:44,375 --> 00:18:47,250 like, even with the whole coming to Memphis thing, 513 00:18:47,375 --> 00:18:49,042 and she didn't come, it's like, you didn't come, 514 00:18:49,167 --> 00:18:51,000 OK, cool, we can get past it. 515 00:18:51,167 --> 00:18:52,875 But then when I told her how I feel, 516 00:18:53,000 --> 00:18:54,167 she was like, "OK, I'm pulling out 517 00:18:54,333 --> 00:18:55,375 "my calendar now. I'm putting it on my schedule. 518 00:18:55,542 --> 00:18:56,875 What time do I need to be there?" 519 00:18:57,042 --> 00:18:58,250 And I was like, "Kirsten"-- - Yeah, it's not just that. 520 00:18:58,375 --> 00:18:59,792 Like, do you want to come? - Right. 521 00:18:59,875 --> 00:19:01,667 I want you to be there, but do you want to be there? 522 00:19:01,750 --> 00:19:03,000 Do you want to be present in a moment? 523 00:19:03,125 --> 00:19:04,333 I was like-- 524 00:19:04,458 --> 00:19:06,000 I don't want you to just do it 525 00:19:06,167 --> 00:19:07,667 just because you don't want everybody 526 00:19:07,750 --> 00:19:09,000 to get on your ass, like, afterwards. 527 00:19:09,083 --> 00:19:10,375 Like, I want you there. 528 00:19:10,500 --> 00:19:12,083 - He did say, like, obviously, 529 00:19:12,208 --> 00:19:13,167 there's times where, like, you're just 530 00:19:13,292 --> 00:19:14,792 on different pages at times. 531 00:19:14,875 --> 00:19:16,875 And like obviously, the event thing was a big one. 532 00:19:17,042 --> 00:19:18,958 But now you know, and so it's like, 533 00:19:19,042 --> 00:19:20,167 he wants to make sure, like, 534 00:19:20,292 --> 00:19:22,333 you want to be there and not just like, 535 00:19:22,458 --> 00:19:24,792 well, I'm going because he wants me to go. 536 00:19:24,875 --> 00:19:26,583 - Once I feel secure, 537 00:19:26,708 --> 00:19:28,167 and have that energy within our marriage 538 00:19:28,333 --> 00:19:29,583 and we're spending time together 539 00:19:29,708 --> 00:19:31,708 and that supportive side continues to grow, 540 00:19:31,875 --> 00:19:34,167 like, I'll definitely be there, you know, 541 00:19:34,292 --> 00:19:36,375 like, it'll become more natural. 542 00:19:36,500 --> 00:19:37,833 And like, sometimes, I just want it 543 00:19:37,958 --> 00:19:39,417 to feel more natural as well. 544 00:19:39,542 --> 00:19:41,125 - It's just hard 'cause it's like, 545 00:19:41,208 --> 00:19:43,167 you have like, this small amount of time 546 00:19:43,292 --> 00:19:45,875 to make all of these life decisions. 547 00:19:46,042 --> 00:19:47,958 It's kind of like, the pressure is on. 548 00:19:48,042 --> 00:19:49,792 - I also feel like there's no way 549 00:19:49,917 --> 00:19:51,208 you're going to have every answer to every question 550 00:19:51,333 --> 00:19:52,958 by Decision Day. 551 00:19:53,083 --> 00:19:55,250 So that shouldn't weigh on your decision. 552 00:19:55,375 --> 00:19:57,792 You're always gonna have roadblocks in your marriage, 553 00:19:57,875 --> 00:19:59,667 and if you're at a place to where 554 00:19:59,792 --> 00:20:01,792 you feel like there's a possibility, 555 00:20:01,917 --> 00:20:03,542 then you should, and you should keep pushing for it. 556 00:20:03,667 --> 00:20:05,292 - We just want to be happy. - Yeah. 557 00:20:05,375 --> 00:20:07,167 - Like, we both talked about it, like, 558 00:20:07,250 --> 00:20:09,083 every day it's like, the constant struggle 559 00:20:09,208 --> 00:20:11,417 of what we got to do right. 560 00:20:11,542 --> 00:20:14,250 Like, we want to enjoy each other in our marriage, 561 00:20:14,375 --> 00:20:17,375 like, become each other's best friend, biggest supporter. 562 00:20:17,500 --> 00:20:18,833 - And y'all can change that narrative. 563 00:20:18,958 --> 00:20:20,042 - Yeah, so that's what we're working towards. 564 00:20:20,167 --> 00:20:22,042 - Yeah. 565 00:20:22,167 --> 00:20:23,333 - And I feel like there's so much pressure 566 00:20:23,500 --> 00:20:24,958 on Decision Day, because there is. 567 00:20:25,042 --> 00:20:26,458 It's a day we have to make a decision. 568 00:20:26,542 --> 00:20:28,250 But Chris and I are already making plans 569 00:20:28,375 --> 00:20:30,458 for beyond Decision Day. 570 00:20:30,542 --> 00:20:32,583 And we definitely are in a love bubble, 571 00:20:32,708 --> 00:20:34,458 but because we're both so rational, 572 00:20:34,542 --> 00:20:36,625 it's a bubble that was rationally 573 00:20:36,708 --> 00:20:39,708 and logistically created to make the most sense for us. 574 00:20:39,833 --> 00:20:44,167 And you know, he's very chill, and I'm very not chill, 575 00:20:44,250 --> 00:20:46,125 so we can't be wishy-washy. 576 00:20:46,208 --> 00:20:48,000 We need to figure out, 577 00:20:48,167 --> 00:20:50,625 what does it look like when it's just us, 578 00:20:50,708 --> 00:20:54,333 and what does the day after Decision Day look like? 579 00:20:54,417 --> 00:20:55,667 - I'm more of like, a laid back. 580 00:20:55,792 --> 00:20:57,000 I think I'm more-- 581 00:20:57,167 --> 00:20:58,208 my personality is more like yours. 582 00:20:58,333 --> 00:21:00,333 I'm like laid back, kind of. - Yeah. 583 00:21:00,458 --> 00:21:02,750 - But I've been able to communicate with her 584 00:21:02,875 --> 00:21:05,333 and get her on a point where she's like, 585 00:21:05,500 --> 00:21:06,667 talks thoroughly through things 586 00:21:06,750 --> 00:21:08,458 with me so that we can move past it, 587 00:21:08,583 --> 00:21:10,500 so it's not like we're talking about the same thing, 588 00:21:10,667 --> 00:21:12,375 day after day. 589 00:21:12,500 --> 00:21:14,833 So she's been willing to grow in that aspect and-- 590 00:21:14,958 --> 00:21:16,292 - And I think that there's-- 591 00:21:16,417 --> 00:21:18,667 I mean, with Clint, I'm very much, like, 592 00:21:18,833 --> 00:21:20,542 an easygoing, go with the flow person 593 00:21:20,708 --> 00:21:22,500 and I don't point out the small things 594 00:21:22,583 --> 00:21:26,000 that bother me that I've noticed. 595 00:21:26,083 --> 00:21:27,208 I mean, one thing is like, 596 00:21:27,333 --> 00:21:28,875 I'm surprised that Clint actually 597 00:21:29,000 --> 00:21:32,375 like, found the bed because he was pretty drunk last night. 598 00:21:32,500 --> 00:21:35,125 - Are we all gonna start this party off with a shot? 599 00:21:35,250 --> 00:21:38,208 - Shot! - Whoo! 600 00:21:38,333 --> 00:21:39,667 - That's an easy drinker. 601 00:21:39,792 --> 00:21:41,708 ♪ ♪ 602 00:21:41,833 --> 00:21:44,667 - He couldn't find his pajamas. I found his pajamas for him. 603 00:21:44,792 --> 00:21:46,667 - I feel like you really take good care of him, you know, 604 00:21:46,833 --> 00:21:50,667 when he is under the influence or whatnot. 605 00:21:50,792 --> 00:21:52,125 - Yeah. 606 00:21:52,208 --> 00:21:53,417 - I think that says a lot about about you. 607 00:21:53,542 --> 00:21:55,000 - I care about Clint. - Yeah. 608 00:21:55,167 --> 00:21:57,083 - But if I were to ask anyone, 609 00:21:57,208 --> 00:21:58,500 they wouldn't want that in a marriage. 610 00:21:58,625 --> 00:22:00,375 That's not something that's like, attractive, 611 00:22:00,542 --> 00:22:03,208 that you're like, "Oh, I can't wait to get that guy." 612 00:22:03,333 --> 00:22:05,083 - There is a world where we actually 613 00:22:05,208 --> 00:22:08,208 could continue, right? 614 00:22:08,333 --> 00:22:09,833 There's a possibility. 615 00:22:09,917 --> 00:22:12,208 Something could change in our relationship. 616 00:22:12,333 --> 00:22:13,625 And we're like, "Wow, 617 00:22:13,750 --> 00:22:15,000 now all of a sudden I am attracted." 618 00:22:15,167 --> 00:22:16,542 I just don't know. 619 00:22:16,667 --> 00:22:18,500 And I'm not gonna pretend that I know. 620 00:22:18,625 --> 00:22:20,542 - I don't want him to have to be a different person 621 00:22:20,667 --> 00:22:25,000 around me, but he's never felt that attraction for me either, 622 00:22:25,083 --> 00:22:26,667 and so he doesn't see me as someone 623 00:22:26,750 --> 00:22:28,708 that he needs to impress or he needs to fight for 624 00:22:28,875 --> 00:22:30,833 or he needs to work for or complement. 625 00:22:30,958 --> 00:22:33,292 So, like, I've never felt like a wife in this, 626 00:22:33,375 --> 00:22:34,958 because we've only been friends. 627 00:22:35,083 --> 00:22:37,167 And there's never been an initiative of like, 628 00:22:37,292 --> 00:22:39,042 oh, I'm gonna go out of my way to, like, 629 00:22:39,208 --> 00:22:41,833 try to really build a marriage. 630 00:22:41,958 --> 00:22:45,125 - ♪ Just find it inside, define a little more ♪ 631 00:22:45,208 --> 00:22:49,167 ♪ A little more, a little more ♪ 632 00:22:49,250 --> 00:22:53,625 ♪ ♪ 633 00:22:53,708 --> 00:22:56,667 - ♪ I know who I am and who I used to be ♪ 634 00:22:56,750 --> 00:22:59,958 ♪ I want everything, I want everything ♪ 635 00:23:00,042 --> 00:23:04,542 ♪ That's coming to me ♪ 636 00:23:04,667 --> 00:23:08,333 - Beautiful view. - I know. 637 00:23:08,417 --> 00:23:11,000 So how was y'all talk today? 638 00:23:11,125 --> 00:23:12,708 - It was pretty good. 639 00:23:12,833 --> 00:23:16,208 I think everybody kind of, like, spoke positive. 640 00:23:16,333 --> 00:23:18,333 We was asking, like, the advice we've given, 641 00:23:18,417 --> 00:23:20,292 their spouses, has it helped in their marriage, 642 00:23:20,375 --> 00:23:22,292 in their life. All like, "Yeah." 643 00:23:22,375 --> 00:23:24,625 - What did you guys talk about for you and I? 644 00:23:24,708 --> 00:23:26,458 - When they asked about you and I, 645 00:23:26,583 --> 00:23:28,458 I said "Kirsten and I just working out 646 00:23:28,583 --> 00:23:30,375 to really just get on the same page." 647 00:23:30,500 --> 00:23:34,917 - But I feel like that's really the hardest part 648 00:23:35,042 --> 00:23:37,625 of our marriage is just really being on one accord 649 00:23:37,708 --> 00:23:41,417 and understanding each other, and whenever I need 650 00:23:41,542 --> 00:23:43,500 to express myself or say how I'm feeling, 651 00:23:43,625 --> 00:23:46,167 just have those conversations with you. 652 00:23:46,250 --> 00:23:47,708 [soft dramatic music] 653 00:23:47,833 --> 00:23:50,000 I know Decision Day is coming up. 654 00:23:50,125 --> 00:23:54,167 And I feel like you and I still need to have, like, 655 00:23:54,333 --> 00:23:57,750 deeper conversations on where we see this marriage going 656 00:23:57,875 --> 00:24:00,833 and what we still want out of this marriage. 657 00:24:01,000 --> 00:24:02,625 - Looking at it from my perspective, 658 00:24:02,708 --> 00:24:04,833 that has been a consistent thing 659 00:24:04,958 --> 00:24:06,000 over the weeks now. 660 00:24:06,125 --> 00:24:07,458 We need to talk more, 661 00:24:07,583 --> 00:24:08,625 and we need to get to know each other more, 662 00:24:08,708 --> 00:24:11,208 and it's like, Kirsten, we are. 663 00:24:11,333 --> 00:24:12,917 We're still talking. 664 00:24:13,042 --> 00:24:14,625 It's not like we just come in the house 665 00:24:14,750 --> 00:24:15,667 and don't say nothing to each other, 666 00:24:15,750 --> 00:24:17,125 shower, and then get in the bed. 667 00:24:17,250 --> 00:24:18,958 It's never that. 668 00:24:19,042 --> 00:24:21,833 It's never been that. 669 00:24:21,958 --> 00:24:24,208 ♪ ♪ 670 00:24:24,375 --> 00:24:26,458 - We do have our conversations sometimes. 671 00:24:26,542 --> 00:24:28,750 We do. We do. 672 00:24:28,875 --> 00:24:30,792 - Is it sometimes or all the time? 673 00:24:30,875 --> 00:24:32,583 - It's not all the time, it's sometimes to me. 674 00:24:32,708 --> 00:24:35,000 I feel like we have conversations sometimes. 675 00:24:35,125 --> 00:24:37,208 - Even with that, we got to get on the same page, 676 00:24:37,333 --> 00:24:38,792 like, the need to have a conversation. 677 00:24:38,917 --> 00:24:40,708 It's not really a need to me. I want it to happen. 678 00:24:40,875 --> 00:24:42,250 It's not a need. 679 00:24:42,375 --> 00:24:44,000 - What's not a need? - The conversations. 680 00:24:44,083 --> 00:24:46,333 Like, to learn because I'm learning-- 681 00:24:46,500 --> 00:24:48,583 I watch you. I observe a lot. 682 00:24:48,708 --> 00:24:52,333 - But it's a need for me. 683 00:24:52,500 --> 00:24:55,208 I am very concerned that Shaquille 684 00:24:55,375 --> 00:24:58,792 may not know how to give me that attention that I need. 685 00:24:58,917 --> 00:25:02,500 So if I was to say no on Decision Day, 686 00:25:02,667 --> 00:25:04,750 it would be because Shaquille couldn't meet 687 00:25:04,875 --> 00:25:06,667 my expectations as far as, like, 688 00:25:06,750 --> 00:25:09,375 finding the balance in our marriage. 689 00:25:09,542 --> 00:25:11,667 I don't want us to be in a marriage 690 00:25:11,792 --> 00:25:13,417 to where both of us are not feeling secure 691 00:25:13,542 --> 00:25:15,167 or not feeling heard 692 00:25:15,292 --> 00:25:19,125 and not feeling like we both want to be with each other. 693 00:25:19,250 --> 00:25:21,583 So where do we go from here? 694 00:25:21,708 --> 00:25:24,625 - I'm working to get on the same page. 695 00:25:24,750 --> 00:25:26,333 - You feel like that's possible? 696 00:25:26,417 --> 00:25:27,583 ♪ ♪ 697 00:25:27,708 --> 00:25:29,458 - Mm-hmm, I know it's possible. 698 00:25:29,542 --> 00:25:31,917 ♪ ♪ 699 00:25:32,042 --> 00:25:33,417 - I just don't want our marriage 700 00:25:33,542 --> 00:25:35,042 to feel like a struggle. 701 00:25:35,167 --> 00:25:38,042 ♪ ♪ 702 00:25:42,250 --> 00:25:44,958 - ♪ The days are breaking me ♪ 703 00:25:45,083 --> 00:25:48,333 ♪ Breaking me, baby, breaking me ♪ 704 00:25:48,500 --> 00:25:51,000 [upbeat pop music] 705 00:25:51,083 --> 00:25:52,667 - Hello. 706 00:25:52,792 --> 00:25:54,417 - What's going on? 707 00:25:54,542 --> 00:25:56,333 You're showered up? 708 00:25:56,417 --> 00:25:58,083 - Finally. 709 00:25:58,208 --> 00:25:59,917 - It's all good. 710 00:26:01,958 --> 00:26:04,875 - So today was a little rough. 711 00:26:05,000 --> 00:26:09,083 I did find out that Julia quit in the text. 712 00:26:09,208 --> 00:26:11,333 It's not the first time this has happened. 713 00:26:11,500 --> 00:26:14,208 I feel like it's like, the younger girls, 714 00:26:14,333 --> 00:26:16,125 it's hard for them. 715 00:26:16,250 --> 00:26:19,167 They make emotional decisions. - Decisions. 716 00:26:19,250 --> 00:26:20,958 [soft dramatic music] 717 00:26:21,042 --> 00:26:24,833 - And so I think it probably stems back to, like, 718 00:26:25,000 --> 00:26:29,417 when I had to, like, be stern with her. 719 00:26:29,542 --> 00:26:31,000 And now she thinks, like, she wants to be 720 00:26:31,125 --> 00:26:33,583 her own boss, which is fine. - God. 721 00:26:33,708 --> 00:26:36,292 You put so much time into like, training her up, 722 00:26:36,375 --> 00:26:37,542 like, that's got to be disappointing. 723 00:26:37,667 --> 00:26:39,000 - I know, that's like--yeah. 724 00:26:39,083 --> 00:26:42,667 I think it's the hard part with being an owner, 725 00:26:42,833 --> 00:26:45,625 frustrating. - Yeah. 726 00:26:45,708 --> 00:26:47,042 - It's tough. 727 00:26:47,208 --> 00:26:48,083 I mean, those stylists, 728 00:26:48,208 --> 00:26:49,792 they start to feel like family to you. 729 00:26:49,875 --> 00:26:52,542 And so it's just always hard news 730 00:26:52,708 --> 00:26:56,542 when they decide to quit. 731 00:26:56,667 --> 00:26:58,583 Like, the frustration of like, 732 00:26:58,708 --> 00:27:01,000 pouring yourself into somebody. 733 00:27:01,167 --> 00:27:03,667 They take advantage. 734 00:27:03,750 --> 00:27:05,667 - I mean, that was a year of your life, of you-- 735 00:27:05,833 --> 00:27:07,500 - Over a year now, yeah. 736 00:27:07,625 --> 00:27:09,708 - Spending time and teaching her. 737 00:27:09,833 --> 00:27:13,292 - One on one. - Your craft, your trade. 738 00:27:13,375 --> 00:27:14,583 - Mm-hmm. 739 00:27:14,708 --> 00:27:17,000 ♪ ♪ 740 00:27:17,125 --> 00:27:19,417 - Everyone's like-- talks about how hard it is, 741 00:27:19,542 --> 00:27:21,042 like, owning a business, 742 00:27:21,208 --> 00:27:23,667 and I think that's why, because you have to like, 743 00:27:23,833 --> 00:27:28,375 maintain that boundary between owner and friend, 744 00:27:28,542 --> 00:27:29,917 and I'm not good at that. - Yeah. 745 00:27:30,042 --> 00:27:31,417 - Yet. 746 00:27:31,542 --> 00:27:33,375 I think I'm getting there, but I think 747 00:27:33,500 --> 00:27:35,917 you develop, like, that attachment. 748 00:27:36,042 --> 00:27:38,000 It sucks. 749 00:27:38,083 --> 00:27:40,208 - And I think you can have that friendship, 750 00:27:40,333 --> 00:27:42,500 but it also does need to be 751 00:27:42,667 --> 00:27:45,542 like, business-first oriented. 752 00:27:45,708 --> 00:27:47,958 - You know, I'm in such a growing phase 753 00:27:48,083 --> 00:27:50,667 with everything that a lot of things I have 754 00:27:50,833 --> 00:27:53,500 to navigate and learn as it happens. 755 00:27:53,625 --> 00:27:55,042 - Yeah. Yeah. 756 00:27:55,208 --> 00:27:56,500 It's a-- 757 00:27:56,583 --> 00:27:57,500 - Is this the first time you've seen me cry? 758 00:27:57,667 --> 00:28:00,833 - Yeah, yeah, think so. - I'm a human. 759 00:28:00,958 --> 00:28:03,833 I get sad, too, but-- - Yeah, that's life. 760 00:28:03,917 --> 00:28:05,917 It's going to continue to give you curveballs. 761 00:28:06,042 --> 00:28:07,833 When you think you've got it all figured it out 762 00:28:08,000 --> 00:28:09,542 or when you think you got too much on your plate, 763 00:28:09,708 --> 00:28:11,833 something else will drop. - Tosses it. 764 00:28:12,000 --> 00:28:14,333 Makes you more resilient. - Hell yeah. 765 00:28:14,458 --> 00:28:15,708 Keep moving forward. 766 00:28:15,833 --> 00:28:16,833 - I appreciate your encouragement. 767 00:28:16,958 --> 00:28:17,833 That made me feel better. - Yeah. 768 00:28:17,958 --> 00:28:19,292 You're a resilient person. 769 00:28:19,417 --> 00:28:22,125 You'll kill it, regardless. It doesn't matter. 770 00:28:22,250 --> 00:28:24,083 Like, yeah, it seems like it's a hit 771 00:28:24,208 --> 00:28:27,583 because you had a personal friendship with her. 772 00:28:27,708 --> 00:28:30,333 So it's more than just, like, losing an employee. 773 00:28:30,458 --> 00:28:32,333 - Mm-hmm. 774 00:28:32,417 --> 00:28:34,042 Well, I'm sorry to hear that that happened, 775 00:28:34,208 --> 00:28:37,458 but I think it's for the best for both of you, you know? 776 00:28:37,542 --> 00:28:38,792 - I think so too. 777 00:28:41,750 --> 00:28:44,167 Sorry to trouble our couples' retreat. 778 00:28:44,250 --> 00:28:45,833 - No, it's hey-- 779 00:28:45,958 --> 00:28:47,208 - It's part of being married to a business owner. 780 00:28:47,333 --> 00:28:48,625 - I know. 781 00:28:48,750 --> 00:28:51,000 I'll have my days, too. - It's nice. 782 00:28:51,167 --> 00:28:53,042 I feel like he is a good listener, 783 00:28:53,208 --> 00:28:55,917 and I'm growing to appreciate that about him. 784 00:28:56,042 --> 00:28:59,125 He's able to really give sound advice, 785 00:28:59,208 --> 00:29:01,333 and I've realized that that's something that I want. 786 00:29:01,417 --> 00:29:02,833 So, you know, we still have a little time 787 00:29:03,000 --> 00:29:04,708 left before Decision Day, 788 00:29:04,833 --> 00:29:08,167 and so there could be a chance that this marriage 789 00:29:08,292 --> 00:29:10,292 could still build into something. 790 00:29:10,375 --> 00:29:13,167 - It's good to be able to offload some of that stuff. 791 00:29:13,250 --> 00:29:15,500 - Yeah, I do feel better. - Good. 792 00:29:15,625 --> 00:29:17,167 That's what it's all about. 793 00:29:17,292 --> 00:29:20,208 [upbeat music] 794 00:29:20,333 --> 00:29:22,250 ♪ ♪ 795 00:29:24,250 --> 00:29:26,333 ♪ ♪ 796 00:29:26,500 --> 00:29:28,667 - ♪ I have a feeling I could fall for you ♪ 797 00:29:28,792 --> 00:29:30,458 ♪ ♪ 798 00:29:30,542 --> 00:29:32,000 - Look at this. 799 00:29:32,167 --> 00:29:34,583 - Can we live in a gumball castle one day? 800 00:29:34,708 --> 00:29:36,500 That sounds right up our alley. 801 00:29:36,625 --> 00:29:37,958 - All right, so... 802 00:29:38,042 --> 00:29:39,500 - Where's the hole? Under the-- 803 00:29:39,667 --> 00:29:41,583 - Right there, and then you've got to hit it to that one, 804 00:29:41,708 --> 00:29:43,167 and then, it'll come out down here, 805 00:29:43,250 --> 00:29:44,458 and you've got to try to get in that hole. 806 00:29:44,542 --> 00:29:45,917 - Got it. 807 00:29:46,042 --> 00:29:47,500 So I want it to bounce off that thing? 808 00:29:47,667 --> 00:29:48,750 - You want it to kind of go up and around. 809 00:29:48,875 --> 00:29:51,500 [quirky music] 810 00:29:51,625 --> 00:29:54,958 - Oh. Well. 811 00:29:55,083 --> 00:29:57,208 I feel like I should get a redo for that. 812 00:29:57,333 --> 00:29:59,333 - I'll give you a redo. You get a mulligan. 813 00:29:59,417 --> 00:30:00,542 That's what they call that. 814 00:30:00,667 --> 00:30:02,042 - I'm so bad. 815 00:30:02,167 --> 00:30:04,500 - A mulligan means you're still at the same shot. 816 00:30:04,625 --> 00:30:06,167 Oh, that's better. 817 00:30:06,292 --> 00:30:09,125 ♪ ♪ 818 00:30:09,208 --> 00:30:12,458 - I don't know why it's called a mulligan. 819 00:30:12,542 --> 00:30:15,667 I hit the ball and it was sad, so I got to do it again. 820 00:30:15,792 --> 00:30:18,167 But I guess I didn't get a strike? 821 00:30:18,333 --> 00:30:20,792 I'm unsure. 822 00:30:20,917 --> 00:30:23,667 - Stroke. Stroke? 823 00:30:23,792 --> 00:30:24,917 I'm not good at sports, people. 824 00:30:25,042 --> 00:30:27,000 How many times do I have to say that? 825 00:30:27,083 --> 00:30:29,292 - There you go. See? 826 00:30:29,375 --> 00:30:31,500 - Yeah, but we cheated. 827 00:30:31,583 --> 00:30:33,500 Mm. 828 00:30:33,625 --> 00:30:35,667 ♪ ♪ 829 00:30:35,833 --> 00:30:40,333 - Oh. - Oh, that hill. 830 00:30:40,458 --> 00:30:43,167 ♪ ♪ 831 00:30:43,292 --> 00:30:45,292 - Just little tap. 832 00:30:45,375 --> 00:30:48,000 - Mm! 833 00:30:48,125 --> 00:30:49,000 ♪ ♪ 834 00:30:49,083 --> 00:30:51,417 Nope. That's really off. 835 00:30:51,542 --> 00:30:54,208 - Oh, come on. That's so unfair. 836 00:30:54,333 --> 00:30:56,167 - You're gaining ground. You're only down one. 837 00:30:56,292 --> 00:30:58,875 You could take the lead on this one, no pressure. 838 00:30:59,000 --> 00:31:00,750 - Don't pressure me. 839 00:31:00,875 --> 00:31:02,833 Trying to get in my head, I know you are. 840 00:31:05,708 --> 00:31:08,583 No, I keep not hitting it. 841 00:31:08,708 --> 00:31:11,375 - It's OK. Try it again. 842 00:31:11,500 --> 00:31:13,208 Take it over. 843 00:31:13,333 --> 00:31:16,625 - This is where I start to lose interest in the game. 844 00:31:16,750 --> 00:31:18,833 Oh. 845 00:31:18,917 --> 00:31:20,542 I have flipped a Monopoly board before, so... 846 00:31:20,667 --> 00:31:22,667 - Have you? - Yeah. 847 00:31:22,792 --> 00:31:25,333 I start to falter a little bit, 848 00:31:25,417 --> 00:31:28,833 and then I start to get really angry. 849 00:31:28,917 --> 00:31:32,167 Damn, oh, man. 850 00:31:32,250 --> 00:31:34,833 Why did I do that? That was too hard. 851 00:31:34,917 --> 00:31:36,875 Oh, God. No. 852 00:31:37,000 --> 00:31:39,167 - Close. - Close? What? 853 00:31:39,292 --> 00:31:40,500 Do you think I'm just going to gently 854 00:31:40,625 --> 00:31:42,500 hit it and I come out the gate. 855 00:31:42,583 --> 00:31:43,792 - Are you having a little bit of fun at least? 856 00:31:43,917 --> 00:31:45,542 - I was. 857 00:31:45,667 --> 00:31:47,167 Let's see how this hole goes. 858 00:31:47,292 --> 00:31:49,833 - It changed with one hole? 859 00:31:49,917 --> 00:31:51,833 - Yeah. 860 00:31:51,917 --> 00:31:54,333 I'm trying--I'm trying not to be hard on myself 861 00:31:54,458 --> 00:31:56,208 for not being good at a child's game, 862 00:31:56,375 --> 00:31:59,417 but, you know, I am a competitive person, 863 00:31:59,542 --> 00:32:02,500 which is why I tend to avoid things I know I'm not good at, 864 00:32:02,667 --> 00:32:05,917 so I am having a lot of fun with you, but I'm starting-- 865 00:32:06,042 --> 00:32:07,167 - Practice makes perfect, though. 866 00:32:07,333 --> 00:32:08,833 - I know. 867 00:32:08,958 --> 00:32:10,542 I'm starting to get a little discouraged, 868 00:32:10,708 --> 00:32:12,833 but I'm trying to remember that the score doesn't matter. 869 00:32:12,917 --> 00:32:14,208 So it's hard. 870 00:32:14,375 --> 00:32:15,708 - You want me to help you again with this-- 871 00:32:15,875 --> 00:32:17,458 - No, thank you. 872 00:32:17,542 --> 00:32:19,333 I would appreciate if you just let--let me take this 873 00:32:19,500 --> 00:32:21,208 as a learning experience. 874 00:32:21,333 --> 00:32:25,042 - Win or lose, I want her to let her inhibitions go 875 00:32:25,208 --> 00:32:27,125 and just have a good time, 876 00:32:27,250 --> 00:32:29,833 but I do feel like this could be the last time 877 00:32:29,917 --> 00:32:31,667 we go mini golfing just because, 878 00:32:31,833 --> 00:32:33,333 you know, it's been a lot of work. 879 00:32:33,458 --> 00:32:34,833 ♪ ♪ 880 00:32:34,958 --> 00:32:36,500 - Looks like you won. 881 00:32:36,625 --> 00:32:39,000 So I'm just gonna breathe. 882 00:32:39,083 --> 00:32:40,667 You parked at your own risk, babe. 883 00:32:40,833 --> 00:32:42,458 Married a stranger at your own risk. 884 00:32:42,542 --> 00:32:43,500 You get what you get. 885 00:32:43,583 --> 00:32:44,458 ♪ ♪ 886 00:32:49,042 --> 00:32:50,208 - ♪ A little more tough, a little bit stronger ♪ 887 00:32:50,375 --> 00:32:52,042 ♪ If I don't give up ♪ 888 00:32:52,167 --> 00:32:54,958 ♪ And I can get strong for once ♪ 889 00:32:55,083 --> 00:32:57,208 ♪ Then I will be unstoppable ♪ 890 00:32:57,333 --> 00:32:58,833 ♪ ♪ 891 00:32:58,958 --> 00:33:00,667 ♪ And I will be, and I will be ♪ 892 00:33:00,792 --> 00:33:02,625 - Hey. - Hello. 893 00:33:02,708 --> 00:33:03,667 Hey. - Hi. 894 00:33:03,792 --> 00:33:05,125 How was your trip? 895 00:33:05,208 --> 00:33:07,375 - Oh, it wasn't too bad. 896 00:33:07,542 --> 00:33:09,375 That was my first time actually, like, being away 897 00:33:09,542 --> 00:33:11,583 from Jasmine for a day, even though 898 00:33:11,708 --> 00:33:13,125 it was a short period of time, but, like, 899 00:33:13,208 --> 00:33:14,125 I actually missed her, like, 900 00:33:14,208 --> 00:33:15,708 and I was, like, shocked by that. 901 00:33:15,875 --> 00:33:19,292 So I was, like, pleasantly surprised. 902 00:33:19,417 --> 00:33:22,625 I'll be the color black. - Of course. 903 00:33:22,708 --> 00:33:24,917 - I don't want my ancestors to be disappointed in me. 904 00:33:25,042 --> 00:33:28,167 - [chuckles] OK. 905 00:33:28,333 --> 00:33:30,500 So did your meeting go over well today? 906 00:33:30,583 --> 00:33:32,417 - Oh, it was cool. 907 00:33:32,542 --> 00:33:34,833 End up meeting somebody that was kind of higher up, 908 00:33:34,917 --> 00:33:36,458 and we actually had, like, a mutual friend. 909 00:33:36,542 --> 00:33:38,667 So, you know, sometimes just connection. 910 00:33:38,792 --> 00:33:41,667 So it would have been different if I had been on Zoom, 911 00:33:41,792 --> 00:33:43,333 so I'm actually glad I went. 912 00:33:43,458 --> 00:33:45,292 - Right place, right time. - Yeah. 913 00:33:45,417 --> 00:33:47,625 - We actually had a really fun time 914 00:33:47,750 --> 00:33:52,625 with everybody today. Everybody got a chance to-- 915 00:33:52,750 --> 00:33:55,167 like where you climb up the log with the rope. 916 00:33:55,292 --> 00:33:57,417 - Yeah. - I made it the furthest. 917 00:33:57,542 --> 00:33:59,792 - OK. 918 00:33:59,875 --> 00:34:02,500 - Out of everybody, so, I killed it today, basically. 919 00:34:02,625 --> 00:34:04,125 - Well, you ain't killed Connect Four. 920 00:34:04,208 --> 00:34:06,667 You just lost. - OK, well, guess what? 921 00:34:06,750 --> 00:34:09,333 You just lost. [laughter] 922 00:34:09,458 --> 00:34:11,250 You know, everybody was singing your praises 923 00:34:11,375 --> 00:34:13,542 because you were so nice to me last night, 924 00:34:13,667 --> 00:34:16,167 and they were just saying how they thought 925 00:34:16,292 --> 00:34:19,458 it was good that you expressed that. 926 00:34:19,583 --> 00:34:23,083 And so--so yeah. 927 00:34:23,208 --> 00:34:26,333 - Well, you just lost. 928 00:34:26,458 --> 00:34:28,708 - We're still tied. - [chuckles] 929 00:34:28,833 --> 00:34:33,250 But I will say that I do appreciate the kind words 930 00:34:33,375 --> 00:34:36,167 you said to me last night. I don't know. 931 00:34:36,292 --> 00:34:38,792 I guess I just never have been able to hear you 932 00:34:38,875 --> 00:34:42,125 express it that way, so it kind of caught me off guard. 933 00:34:42,208 --> 00:34:44,958 But it was definitely appreciated, 934 00:34:45,042 --> 00:34:48,833 hearing you say the nice words about me. 935 00:34:48,917 --> 00:34:51,500 - Well, they were all well deserved. 936 00:34:51,667 --> 00:34:55,042 My goal was to make you cry. I didn't. 937 00:34:55,208 --> 00:34:59,125 No, I'm joking. - Oh. What? 938 00:34:59,208 --> 00:35:00,792 - So you miss Duchess yet? I do. 939 00:35:00,875 --> 00:35:02,125 - Yes. 940 00:35:02,208 --> 00:35:04,000 - I went home. I got in the house. 941 00:35:04,083 --> 00:35:06,500 It was just way too quiet. 942 00:35:06,583 --> 00:35:09,375 It wasn't her whining. She wasn't in the cage. 943 00:35:09,542 --> 00:35:11,458 I even missed the hair on the floor. 944 00:35:11,583 --> 00:35:14,333 It just wasn't the same. - What hair on the floor? 945 00:35:14,458 --> 00:35:15,917 - I'm saying, you wasn't there, so... 946 00:35:16,042 --> 00:35:17,500 - Oh, my hair. Oh, you miss me? 947 00:35:17,583 --> 00:35:20,208 - Yeah, I missed the whole you, Duchess-- 948 00:35:20,333 --> 00:35:21,500 I missed the whole-- - Did you? 949 00:35:21,667 --> 00:35:24,333 - Yeah. - Oh. OK. 950 00:35:24,417 --> 00:35:26,458 - I mean, you been in there for seven weeks, 951 00:35:26,542 --> 00:35:28,250 and then you just walk in there-- 952 00:35:28,375 --> 00:35:30,708 - Yeah, routine was messed up. - Routine was messed up. 953 00:35:30,833 --> 00:35:34,708 - I mean, I did miss him, but Airris is so hard to read. 954 00:35:34,875 --> 00:35:37,500 Like, I don't always know what he's thinking 955 00:35:37,667 --> 00:35:39,083 or what he's feeling. 956 00:35:39,208 --> 00:35:42,375 While he was gone, he checked in on me. 957 00:35:42,500 --> 00:35:44,625 He kept me in the loop on everything, 958 00:35:44,708 --> 00:35:48,375 but it felt good to hear him say he missed me. 959 00:35:48,500 --> 00:35:51,750 Why'd you miss the hair on the floor? 960 00:35:51,875 --> 00:35:54,167 - It's the little things. 961 00:35:54,250 --> 00:35:57,500 - [laughs] 962 00:35:57,625 --> 00:36:02,125 - ♪ Eyes shut, and I can't get enough dreaming of ♪ 963 00:36:02,250 --> 00:36:04,583 ♪ Good times ♪ 964 00:36:04,708 --> 00:36:06,375 - I had a blast. 965 00:36:06,500 --> 00:36:09,833 Like, I had a great time here with you 966 00:36:10,000 --> 00:36:11,750 and enjoying the other couples. 967 00:36:11,875 --> 00:36:13,375 - It was great. 968 00:36:13,500 --> 00:36:16,833 - Watch each other climb up trees and everything else. 969 00:36:17,000 --> 00:36:18,250 - On the logs. 970 00:36:18,375 --> 00:36:19,667 - Yeah, that was definitely adventurous. 971 00:36:19,792 --> 00:36:21,333 I hate that we have to leave, though. 972 00:36:21,417 --> 00:36:23,250 Like, I don't want to leave tonight, 973 00:36:23,375 --> 00:36:25,500 but I know we got to get you back to town 974 00:36:25,583 --> 00:36:27,417 so that you can go to work. - I got to work. 975 00:36:27,542 --> 00:36:29,000 - I feel like it was everything 976 00:36:29,083 --> 00:36:30,958 we needed, a nice trip together. 977 00:36:31,083 --> 00:36:33,625 - I enjoyed us. I enjoyed everybody. 978 00:36:33,708 --> 00:36:35,000 It was great. 979 00:36:35,083 --> 00:36:37,333 The mountains were amazing. 980 00:36:37,458 --> 00:36:39,833 I need Kirsten supporting my educational endeavors, 981 00:36:39,958 --> 00:36:42,083 So the fact that she's willing to leave early 982 00:36:42,208 --> 00:36:45,292 and go back to Nashville, it made me feel great 983 00:36:45,375 --> 00:36:48,333 because I'm like, for once, I feel like it's something 984 00:36:48,458 --> 00:36:50,250 that she wants to do without me 985 00:36:50,375 --> 00:36:52,500 having to ask her to do it. 986 00:36:52,625 --> 00:36:53,708 - Thank you for-- 987 00:36:53,833 --> 00:36:55,333 you know, putting my stuff in your bag. 988 00:36:55,417 --> 00:36:56,958 I don't even have to ask. 989 00:36:57,042 --> 00:36:58,708 He will learn! 990 00:36:58,833 --> 00:37:01,667 [laughter] 991 00:37:03,833 --> 00:37:11,167 ♪ ♪ 992 00:37:12,292 --> 00:37:14,292 - Hey, Chris, how you feeling? - What's up? 993 00:37:14,417 --> 00:37:16,833 - You look good. - Thank you, you too. 994 00:37:16,917 --> 00:37:18,750 All dressed up. 995 00:37:18,875 --> 00:37:21,333 - As our couples prepare to enjoy their final evening 996 00:37:21,417 --> 00:37:24,125 as a group before returning to the real world, 997 00:37:24,208 --> 00:37:26,333 we hope they use their remaining time 998 00:37:26,458 --> 00:37:29,708 to work through their issues using their best resource-- 999 00:37:29,875 --> 00:37:31,250 each other. 1000 00:37:31,375 --> 00:37:33,167 - Welcome back, Airris. - Wow! 1001 00:37:33,250 --> 00:37:34,167 - Thank you, thank you, thank you. 1002 00:37:34,292 --> 00:37:36,333 - Everyone ready to eat? - Yes. 1003 00:37:36,458 --> 00:37:38,500 - Dinner is prepared. 1004 00:37:38,583 --> 00:37:40,708 - Having bonded over the shared experiences 1005 00:37:40,833 --> 00:37:42,500 of the past seven weeks, 1006 00:37:42,625 --> 00:37:45,250 they would be wise to lean on each other 1007 00:37:45,375 --> 00:37:48,333 before the final push to Decision Day. 1008 00:37:48,458 --> 00:37:51,250 - Well, I just want to cheers to Clint 1009 00:37:51,375 --> 00:37:53,750 for another amazing meal that he's made here. 1010 00:37:53,875 --> 00:37:55,625 So really appreciate it. 1011 00:37:55,708 --> 00:37:57,250 all: Clink, clink, clink, clink, clink. 1012 00:37:57,375 --> 00:37:59,667 - You got it, hey. 1013 00:37:59,833 --> 00:38:02,167 - Thank you, Clint. 1014 00:38:02,292 --> 00:38:04,542 - You're very welcome. I hope you enjoy it. 1015 00:38:04,667 --> 00:38:06,250 - Last family dinner for a little bit. 1016 00:38:06,375 --> 00:38:09,333 - Just for a bit. 1017 00:38:09,458 --> 00:38:11,583 - I think this weekend is kind of everything we needed. 1018 00:38:11,708 --> 00:38:14,167 Like what have you all like, been able to take away 1019 00:38:14,292 --> 00:38:15,708 from this weekend? 1020 00:38:15,875 --> 00:38:20,292 - Just take it one day at a time, like, you know, 1021 00:38:20,375 --> 00:38:23,167 the things that may not have been great in the past, 1022 00:38:23,292 --> 00:38:24,875 like, don't worry about those. 1023 00:38:25,000 --> 00:38:28,083 Don't think ahead to tomorrow or Decision Day, 1024 00:38:28,208 --> 00:38:30,125 you just try to win today. 1025 00:38:30,250 --> 00:38:32,792 Just try to win each day. 1026 00:38:32,875 --> 00:38:34,542 - Yeah, I'll tack on that. 1027 00:38:34,667 --> 00:38:36,458 I think all of us need to give ourselves 1028 00:38:36,583 --> 00:38:39,250 an immense amount of grace. 1029 00:38:39,375 --> 00:38:41,500 I know we've all learned so much, 1030 00:38:41,625 --> 00:38:43,833 personally and collectively, and so I'm just 1031 00:38:43,958 --> 00:38:46,583 super thankful for you guys, and I think just continuing 1032 00:38:46,708 --> 00:38:49,667 to wake up each day full of gratitude 1033 00:38:49,750 --> 00:38:52,625 when you feel, like, overwhelmed. 1034 00:38:52,708 --> 00:38:55,250 And it puts into perspective, like with even Mac and Dom, 1035 00:38:55,375 --> 00:38:57,625 like when they did call it quits, 1036 00:38:57,750 --> 00:39:00,250 it was like, oh, well, it's actually easier 1037 00:39:00,375 --> 00:39:01,875 than we thought to call it quits. 1038 00:39:02,042 --> 00:39:05,042 Like, it's actually way harder to stick around. 1039 00:39:05,167 --> 00:39:09,292 But I think just knowing that we are pushing through, 1040 00:39:09,375 --> 00:39:11,000 I'm thankful that we chose that. 1041 00:39:11,125 --> 00:39:12,792 - Do the hard stuff. 1042 00:39:12,875 --> 00:39:15,208 - And even though our scenarios and situations are not exactly 1043 00:39:15,375 --> 00:39:17,250 the same, I feel like I personally 1044 00:39:17,375 --> 00:39:18,792 have been able to get takeaways from all 1045 00:39:18,917 --> 00:39:20,500 of the advice you've given to each other 1046 00:39:20,625 --> 00:39:22,250 or you've gotten from experts. 1047 00:39:22,375 --> 00:39:24,000 So thank you, guys, for helping me grow. 1048 00:39:24,083 --> 00:39:27,792 And I hope I've given you some words of wisdom and-- 1049 00:39:27,875 --> 00:39:29,375 - You definitely have. 1050 00:39:29,542 --> 00:39:32,083 - She started her Nicole-isms today. 1051 00:39:32,208 --> 00:39:34,625 - You definitely have. Very grateful. 1052 00:39:34,708 --> 00:39:36,542 - We got Nicole-isms and Clint-isms, so... 1053 00:39:36,667 --> 00:39:39,125 - I should write a book. 1054 00:39:39,250 --> 00:39:41,375 - I think, for me, it's continuing 1055 00:39:41,542 --> 00:39:45,667 just to be open and optimistic and not, you know, 1056 00:39:45,792 --> 00:39:47,500 trying to figure everything out every single day 1057 00:39:47,625 --> 00:39:49,000 and kind of let it play out. 1058 00:39:49,083 --> 00:39:50,958 Don't try to, you know, plan what you think 1059 00:39:51,083 --> 00:39:52,500 is gonna happen, so yeah. 1060 00:39:52,667 --> 00:39:53,833 - You can plan for the future, 1061 00:39:53,958 --> 00:39:55,667 but you just got to be in the moment. 1062 00:39:55,750 --> 00:39:57,000 - Mm-hmm. 1063 00:39:57,083 --> 00:39:59,000 - I feel like when you're so worried about-- 1064 00:39:59,125 --> 00:40:01,375 when you're trying to make everything happen that you lose 1065 00:40:01,500 --> 00:40:03,708 the moment, like you're not being in the moment 1066 00:40:03,875 --> 00:40:06,125 because you're so focused on what tomorrow's gonna be 1067 00:40:06,250 --> 00:40:07,292 or what next week is gonna be 1068 00:40:07,375 --> 00:40:08,500 or what Decision Day is gonna be. 1069 00:40:08,583 --> 00:40:10,208 And I feel like we all just need 1070 00:40:10,333 --> 00:40:12,500 to continue to be open and just take everything, you know, 1071 00:40:12,583 --> 00:40:14,417 one day at a time. 1072 00:40:14,542 --> 00:40:17,417 - Somebody once told me to be where your feet are. 1073 00:40:17,542 --> 00:40:19,250 And when they told me that, 1074 00:40:19,375 --> 00:40:20,917 that resonated with me the most, like, 1075 00:40:21,042 --> 00:40:22,667 what you guys are saying. - Be present. 1076 00:40:22,792 --> 00:40:24,167 - Like, "Oh, wow." Yeah, be present. 1077 00:40:24,292 --> 00:40:26,000 - You can't change the past. 1078 00:40:26,167 --> 00:40:28,542 - I think in every lesson, there's a blessing. 1079 00:40:28,667 --> 00:40:31,083 And, like you just got to-- - Preach, come on. 1080 00:40:31,208 --> 00:40:34,167 - He's got a word. - Come on! 1081 00:40:34,292 --> 00:40:37,500 - He's like "Hebrews 12:8." 1082 00:40:37,583 --> 00:40:39,625 Who's got the Holy Spirit? I'll take it. 1083 00:40:39,708 --> 00:40:43,917 - Hallelujah. - Oh, my God, Clint. 1084 00:40:48,333 --> 00:40:50,292 - ♪ Mountains not for climbing ♪ 1085 00:40:50,375 --> 00:40:52,542 ♪ Heaven's not for flying ♪ 1086 00:40:52,667 --> 00:40:54,917 - So on the way here, me and Airris, 1087 00:40:55,042 --> 00:40:57,333 we had card games that we played on the way here, 1088 00:40:57,458 --> 00:40:59,667 and I feel like it was very helpful for us. 1089 00:40:59,792 --> 00:41:03,083 So I do have one of the card games here. 1090 00:41:03,208 --> 00:41:05,167 So I kind of want each of you guys 1091 00:41:05,292 --> 00:41:08,667 to like, take a card, you know, something, you know, 1092 00:41:08,792 --> 00:41:10,500 that could be different from what the questions 1093 00:41:10,583 --> 00:41:12,208 y'all are asking each other. - How interesting. 1094 00:41:12,375 --> 00:41:14,708 - Hmm. 1095 00:41:14,833 --> 00:41:16,542 - What do you like most about me 1096 00:41:16,667 --> 00:41:18,958 and what do you like the least? - Ooh. 1097 00:41:19,042 --> 00:41:23,000 I want to hear both, and you can be honest. 1098 00:41:23,083 --> 00:41:24,333 - What I like the least... 1099 00:41:24,417 --> 00:41:27,583 [soft dramatic music] 1100 00:41:27,708 --> 00:41:29,833 Just how you're so hard on yourself. 1101 00:41:29,917 --> 00:41:30,875 Like, you're very hard on yourself at times. 1102 00:41:31,000 --> 00:41:32,375 - So sweet. 1103 00:41:32,542 --> 00:41:33,833 - You know, I can see how it affects you 1104 00:41:33,958 --> 00:41:35,250 and everything else, and it makes you 1105 00:41:35,375 --> 00:41:36,667 question things at times 1106 00:41:36,792 --> 00:41:38,167 that don't need to be questioned. 1107 00:41:38,333 --> 00:41:40,292 Just love yourself. 1108 00:41:40,417 --> 00:41:43,375 - What do you like the most about me? 1109 00:41:43,542 --> 00:41:45,000 - I mean, honestly what I like the most about you 1110 00:41:45,125 --> 00:41:48,667 is just how caring and compassionate you are. 1111 00:41:48,750 --> 00:41:50,542 It's really amazing to watch, and it's really amazing 1112 00:41:50,667 --> 00:41:52,583 to be a part of that. - This man don't stop. 1113 00:41:52,708 --> 00:41:55,542 - No, damn. - I'm a lucky woman. 1114 00:41:55,667 --> 00:41:58,375 - Pouring the syrup on, man. 1115 00:41:58,542 --> 00:42:00,167 - Even the least thing was sweet. 1116 00:42:00,292 --> 00:42:02,167 - I got a good one. 1117 00:42:02,250 --> 00:42:04,208 - So same to you. Yeah. 1118 00:42:04,333 --> 00:42:05,875 - The thing I like the least-- 1119 00:42:06,000 --> 00:42:08,667 you put everyone else above yourself. 1120 00:42:08,833 --> 00:42:10,708 I wish I could just shake you sometimes 1121 00:42:10,833 --> 00:42:12,875 and say, "Take care of yourself before everyone else." 1122 00:42:13,042 --> 00:42:16,875 But, you know, it just shows how good the man you are. 1123 00:42:17,000 --> 00:42:20,417 And the thing I like most is you 1124 00:42:20,542 --> 00:42:23,917 make everyone feel comfortable, and I never doubt 1125 00:42:24,042 --> 00:42:25,500 for a second if you're being genuine 1126 00:42:25,625 --> 00:42:27,500 or not, and you are just-- 1127 00:42:27,625 --> 00:42:30,500 just the loveliest man in the world. 1128 00:42:30,625 --> 00:42:32,875 I could go on for days, but-- - Aw. 1129 00:42:33,000 --> 00:42:35,500 - Sorry, guys. You guys are great. 1130 00:42:35,583 --> 00:42:37,875 You guys are great. 1131 00:42:38,000 --> 00:42:40,500 - What's your favorite imperfection about me? 1132 00:42:43,375 --> 00:42:45,167 - You're perfect. 1133 00:42:45,250 --> 00:42:48,042 [laughter] 1134 00:42:50,375 --> 00:42:53,500 I would definitely say you have been improving on it, 1135 00:42:53,625 --> 00:42:57,083 but as far as, like, the listening so far. 1136 00:42:57,208 --> 00:42:59,583 You do your best to make sure that I have what I need 1137 00:42:59,708 --> 00:43:01,667 and that I'm happy, but I would just say 1138 00:43:01,792 --> 00:43:04,125 the listening part. 1139 00:43:04,208 --> 00:43:06,833 - What's your favorite imperfection about me? 1140 00:43:06,917 --> 00:43:08,875 - It's that, you know, when we first 1141 00:43:09,042 --> 00:43:10,333 started this journey, when we would have 1142 00:43:10,417 --> 00:43:12,000 these tough conversations, 1143 00:43:12,083 --> 00:43:14,167 you'll be hit with so much pressure to where 1144 00:43:14,333 --> 00:43:15,417 you can't think in a moment. 1145 00:43:15,542 --> 00:43:16,333 You'll be like, "It's too much pressure, 1146 00:43:16,458 --> 00:43:17,875 like, I can't think." 1147 00:43:18,000 --> 00:43:20,333 But now it's like, you really take your time. 1148 00:43:20,458 --> 00:43:22,792 You really process it, and then you say, 1149 00:43:22,875 --> 00:43:25,333 "OK, I can go from here." 1150 00:43:25,458 --> 00:43:27,542 For me, that's like, you being intentional with yourself 1151 00:43:27,667 --> 00:43:29,292 and not having to overthink everything 1152 00:43:29,375 --> 00:43:31,792 or over-analyze everything. 1153 00:43:31,875 --> 00:43:33,500 - OK. - There you go. 1154 00:43:33,625 --> 00:43:35,333 - Cool. All right. 1155 00:43:38,000 --> 00:43:40,583 - What do you think is the hardest thing 1156 00:43:40,708 --> 00:43:42,917 for me right now? 1157 00:43:43,042 --> 00:43:45,333 - Sometimes I don't feel like you just let things happen. 1158 00:43:45,458 --> 00:43:47,667 You look for something to be wrong, 1159 00:43:47,792 --> 00:43:49,958 and you just get in your own way. 1160 00:43:50,042 --> 00:43:51,667 - I can agree with that, and I can, you know, 1161 00:43:51,750 --> 00:43:55,125 work on shifting my focus. 1162 00:43:55,250 --> 00:44:00,333 The hardest thing for you, I think, is speaking up more. 1163 00:44:00,500 --> 00:44:02,375 You know, like, if I'm doing something 1164 00:44:02,500 --> 00:44:03,333 that's bothering you, like I said, 1165 00:44:03,417 --> 00:44:05,250 you're getting better, but like, 1166 00:44:05,375 --> 00:44:08,250 sometimes you'll just, like, hold it instead 1167 00:44:08,375 --> 00:44:10,750 of just, like, saying it. - Good observation. 1168 00:44:10,875 --> 00:44:13,083 [laughs] - Clint? 1169 00:44:13,208 --> 00:44:14,625 - All right. 1170 00:44:14,708 --> 00:44:17,042 Card for us. 1171 00:44:17,208 --> 00:44:19,250 When do I hurt you? 1172 00:44:21,833 --> 00:44:25,458 - I don't think I've ever felt, like, hurt. 1173 00:44:25,542 --> 00:44:27,042 - Yeah. 1174 00:44:27,167 --> 00:44:28,333 - For me, I think, you're like, 1175 00:44:28,500 --> 00:44:30,083 a man of so many words, 1176 00:44:30,208 --> 00:44:32,125 and you want someone to, like, be on your level. 1177 00:44:32,250 --> 00:44:35,333 And it's not hurtful, but it definitely like-- 1178 00:44:35,458 --> 00:44:37,167 I've noticed when you speak, 1179 00:44:37,292 --> 00:44:40,583 I want you to speak with the goal of me understanding, 1180 00:44:40,708 --> 00:44:42,708 not with the goal of you explaining. 1181 00:44:42,833 --> 00:44:45,708 - Yeah. That's very valid. 1182 00:44:45,875 --> 00:44:50,458 I would say you are on your phone all the time. 1183 00:44:50,542 --> 00:44:52,667 And that's like, it's understandable 1184 00:44:52,792 --> 00:44:54,667 from my part, but if there's one thing 1185 00:44:54,750 --> 00:44:56,125 that I could critique, it's like, just put 1186 00:44:56,250 --> 00:44:58,500 the phone down every once in a while. 1187 00:44:58,625 --> 00:45:00,208 - No, I appreciate that, 1188 00:45:00,333 --> 00:45:02,417 and that's something that I've learned with you, 1189 00:45:02,542 --> 00:45:04,333 because I would never notice if it was just me sitting there. 1190 00:45:04,417 --> 00:45:06,000 So, like, I get it. 1191 00:45:06,125 --> 00:45:08,042 Like, I understand it when we are hanging out. 1192 00:45:08,208 --> 00:45:11,417 And it's something that I definitely want to work on. 1193 00:45:11,542 --> 00:45:13,333 - Right. 1194 00:45:13,417 --> 00:45:15,042 - I feel like everybody's question was, like, 1195 00:45:15,167 --> 00:45:17,167 something you probably haven't asked 1196 00:45:17,250 --> 00:45:19,625 your person yet, so it was something 1197 00:45:19,708 --> 00:45:21,875 that was really helpful for us. 1198 00:45:22,000 --> 00:45:23,875 - I feel like, y'all, I need to hit the road 1199 00:45:24,042 --> 00:45:25,583 because it's getting-- it's getting dark. 1200 00:45:25,708 --> 00:45:26,833 I don't want y'all to get lost. 1201 00:45:26,917 --> 00:45:28,458 - Gotta get down the mountain. 1202 00:45:28,583 --> 00:45:31,708 - Good thing the bears only come out at night, so... 1203 00:45:31,833 --> 00:45:33,875 - Clean up for me, as if I was here. 1204 00:45:34,000 --> 00:45:36,000 - We hate to leave y'all. We hate to leave y'all so soon. 1205 00:45:36,083 --> 00:45:40,250 - Oh, hugs! - We hate to leave now. 1206 00:45:40,375 --> 00:45:42,125 - Drive Safe. 1207 00:45:42,250 --> 00:45:49,125 ♪ ♪ 1208 00:46:00,750 --> 00:46:03,333 - ♪ I'm gonna take your hand ♪ 1209 00:46:03,458 --> 00:46:07,833 ♪ And show you the way all night long ♪ 1210 00:46:07,917 --> 00:46:10,167 - OK, it is hot. - Oh! 1211 00:46:10,333 --> 00:46:13,833 - Yeah, this is nice. - Ooh, good one. 1212 00:46:13,917 --> 00:46:15,833 - Well, this has been a hell of an event. 1213 00:46:15,917 --> 00:46:18,833 This has been one hell of a magical place, 1214 00:46:18,917 --> 00:46:20,958 and all y'all are magical people. 1215 00:46:21,042 --> 00:46:25,167 So in the name of magic, cheers to you guys. 1216 00:46:25,333 --> 00:46:27,500 And this experience has been amazing. 1217 00:46:27,583 --> 00:46:29,667 - Yeah. Ah! 1218 00:46:29,750 --> 00:46:32,042 - ♪ No taking me out ♪ 1219 00:46:32,167 --> 00:46:34,000 ♪ ♪ 1220 00:46:34,125 --> 00:46:36,333 ♪ You're checking me out ♪ 1221 00:46:36,458 --> 00:46:39,333 [cheering] 1222 00:46:39,417 --> 00:46:42,333 ♪ ♪ 1223 00:46:42,458 --> 00:46:44,000 ♪ You're checking me out ♪ 1224 00:46:44,125 --> 00:46:47,625 - Right in the face. - Oh! 1225 00:46:47,708 --> 00:46:51,000 - How about-- what's the craziest place 1226 00:46:51,083 --> 00:46:53,083 you've ever had sex? 1227 00:46:53,208 --> 00:46:54,667 - This hot tub. No, I'm just kidding. 1228 00:46:54,833 --> 00:46:57,250 I'm not vanilla, but it ain't just been 1229 00:46:57,375 --> 00:46:59,333 anywhere crazy where I'm like, "I need to tell everybody." 1230 00:46:59,500 --> 00:47:01,667 [laughter] 1231 00:47:01,833 --> 00:47:04,500 - Would you like to share yours? 1232 00:47:04,583 --> 00:47:06,500 - Would you like to tell us, Clint? 1233 00:47:06,625 --> 00:47:08,542 - At the foot of a lifeguard stand 1234 00:47:08,667 --> 00:47:10,958 on the beach in Florida. - Oh. 1235 00:47:11,042 --> 00:47:13,250 And what part of Florida? - Jacksonville. 1236 00:47:13,375 --> 00:47:14,708 - OK, that's important. - Daytime or nighttime? 1237 00:47:14,833 --> 00:47:16,667 - Nighttime. - OK. 1238 00:47:16,833 --> 00:47:18,583 - Was it a dolphin or a human? - Midday. 1239 00:47:18,708 --> 00:47:20,167 - It was a human, I think. 1240 00:47:20,250 --> 00:47:21,792 [laughter] 1241 00:47:21,875 --> 00:47:22,792 It was all wet. I don't know. 1242 00:47:22,917 --> 00:47:24,125 It's hard to tell. 1243 00:47:24,208 --> 00:47:25,833 [laughter] - [imitates dolphin] 1244 00:47:25,917 --> 00:47:28,667 - I know that noise. Still couldn't tell. 1245 00:47:28,792 --> 00:47:31,333 [laughter] 1246 00:47:35,833 --> 00:47:38,667 [upbeat pop music] 1247 00:47:38,750 --> 00:47:41,083 ♪ ♪ 1248 00:47:41,208 --> 00:47:43,000 - Last night in the Smoky Mountains. 1249 00:47:43,167 --> 00:47:45,333 - Last night in the Smoky Mountains. 1250 00:47:45,458 --> 00:47:48,292 You had to have a whole night without me last night. 1251 00:47:48,375 --> 00:47:49,917 - A whole night. 1252 00:47:50,042 --> 00:47:52,167 It was so terrible, just having 1253 00:47:52,250 --> 00:47:55,792 all that extra leg room. - [laughs] 1254 00:47:55,875 --> 00:47:58,250 - It was awful. - It was awful. 1255 00:47:58,375 --> 00:48:01,000 - ♪ Gonna dance like it's the last time ♪ 1256 00:48:01,167 --> 00:48:02,833 - I'm talking in my sleep about Hank. 1257 00:48:02,958 --> 00:48:04,000 - [laughs] I know. 1258 00:48:04,167 --> 00:48:05,333 - There's something wrong with me. 1259 00:48:05,417 --> 00:48:07,042 - I don't know if this is healthy. 1260 00:48:07,167 --> 00:48:10,625 - I'm excited to see him. I can't wait. 1261 00:48:10,708 --> 00:48:13,750 ♪ ♪ 1262 00:48:13,875 --> 00:48:16,250 - Assume the position. - Yep. 1263 00:48:16,375 --> 00:48:18,000 Your nook. 1264 00:48:18,083 --> 00:48:20,125 - My favorite place in the world. 1265 00:48:20,208 --> 00:48:21,292 - It's been a pretty fun weekend. 1266 00:48:21,417 --> 00:48:22,833 - Yeah. 1267 00:48:22,917 --> 00:48:24,417 I was just nervous we would all come together 1268 00:48:24,542 --> 00:48:27,167 and something would happen, but everything was great. 1269 00:48:27,292 --> 00:48:28,667 - Yeah. 1270 00:48:28,750 --> 00:48:30,000 Also, I mean, I found it-- 1271 00:48:30,125 --> 00:48:31,667 I mean, it's nothing new, like what you said, 1272 00:48:31,750 --> 00:48:33,375 like, you, like, the least is just me 1273 00:48:33,500 --> 00:48:35,000 not putting myself first, 1274 00:48:35,125 --> 00:48:36,875 that I like to take care of people. 1275 00:48:37,000 --> 00:48:38,333 I like to put people first. 1276 00:48:38,417 --> 00:48:41,000 I like to make people feel good, and I don't know. 1277 00:48:41,083 --> 00:48:42,333 It's just something I've done my whole life. 1278 00:48:42,417 --> 00:48:43,875 I don't know, maybe that's something 1279 00:48:44,042 --> 00:48:45,500 you can call out with me? 1280 00:48:45,667 --> 00:48:48,458 I'm trying to think of ways to help with that. 1281 00:48:48,542 --> 00:48:51,500 - I'm happy to help you by suggesting things 1282 00:48:51,625 --> 00:48:53,333 that I think you should do. 1283 00:48:53,458 --> 00:48:55,833 You know, go see your friends, have another bachelor party. 1284 00:48:55,917 --> 00:48:57,333 That seems like a great way for you 1285 00:48:57,458 --> 00:49:00,583 to celebrate you instead of worrying about 1286 00:49:00,708 --> 00:49:03,292 how to celebrate everyone else. - Yeah, I know. 1287 00:49:03,375 --> 00:49:05,042 - And I'm not suggesting that you stop caring 1288 00:49:05,167 --> 00:49:07,917 about other people, but if you care 1289 00:49:08,042 --> 00:49:09,333 about everyone else and not yourself, 1290 00:49:09,500 --> 00:49:11,042 you won't have anything to give them, 1291 00:49:11,167 --> 00:49:14,125 especially because I take up a lot of your energy now 1292 00:49:14,208 --> 00:49:17,458 where you weren't giving a lot 1293 00:49:17,542 --> 00:49:19,833 because you didn't have a significant other before me 1294 00:49:19,958 --> 00:49:21,458 in the past few years. 1295 00:49:21,542 --> 00:49:24,000 So I want you to care for yourself as much 1296 00:49:24,083 --> 00:49:27,708 as you want me to care for myself. 1297 00:49:27,833 --> 00:49:29,917 - You know, I always want to include you 1298 00:49:30,042 --> 00:49:31,000 in a lot of the things I'm doing. 1299 00:49:31,125 --> 00:49:32,333 And I know you say like, you know, 1300 00:49:32,458 --> 00:49:33,500 take the guys days and stuff like that, 1301 00:49:33,667 --> 00:49:35,167 which--which I try to do. 1302 00:49:35,250 --> 00:49:36,083 A lot of my friends are back in Chicago, 1303 00:49:36,208 --> 00:49:37,833 So that's the tough part. 1304 00:49:37,958 --> 00:49:39,500 - You know, even, like, FaceTiming your friends. 1305 00:49:39,625 --> 00:49:41,708 And I so appreciate that you want me to meet your friends 1306 00:49:41,833 --> 00:49:43,167 and hang out with you all the time 1307 00:49:43,292 --> 00:49:45,208 because I love hanging out with you. 1308 00:49:45,333 --> 00:49:47,917 But it is important for you to have time without me, 1309 00:49:48,042 --> 00:49:50,208 because I don't want it to ever become a situation 1310 00:49:50,375 --> 00:49:52,167 where you're like, "Well, I can't hang out 1311 00:49:52,292 --> 00:49:53,542 with my friends because my wife's not here." 1312 00:49:53,708 --> 00:49:55,792 It's important we have our lives together, 1313 00:49:55,875 --> 00:49:58,333 but also we have our own outlets. 1314 00:49:58,417 --> 00:50:00,917 I don't want you, as a person, and you as a husband 1315 00:50:01,042 --> 00:50:03,417 to fall to the wayside because you're caring 1316 00:50:03,542 --> 00:50:04,917 about other people first. 1317 00:50:05,042 --> 00:50:09,083 ♪ ♪ 1318 00:50:12,583 --> 00:50:14,875 - ♪ Oh, oh, oh ♪ 1319 00:50:15,000 --> 00:50:18,792 ♪ Oh, oh, oh, oh ♪ 1320 00:50:18,875 --> 00:50:22,333 - You want a cup of coffee? - I'd love a cup of coffee. 1321 00:50:22,458 --> 00:50:29,083 ♪ ♪ 1322 00:50:29,208 --> 00:50:32,625 - So what's been your favorite part about retreat? 1323 00:50:32,708 --> 00:50:34,292 ♪ ♪ 1324 00:50:34,375 --> 00:50:37,042 - Oh, God. - A lot of it? 1325 00:50:37,167 --> 00:50:38,875 - The birthday party... 1326 00:50:39,042 --> 00:50:41,333 - The '80s party? - Was hella fun. 1327 00:50:41,417 --> 00:50:43,917 All of it was. I mean, we did a lot. 1328 00:50:44,042 --> 00:50:45,417 - We packed a lot in. 1329 00:50:45,542 --> 00:50:48,667 - And just waking up in this amazing area. 1330 00:50:48,833 --> 00:50:50,292 - Yeah. 1331 00:50:50,375 --> 00:50:52,208 And I've just enjoyed our dinners. 1332 00:50:52,333 --> 00:50:54,417 It's so nice to just sit down with everyone 1333 00:50:54,542 --> 00:50:58,125 and just share life advice. - Yeah. 1334 00:50:58,208 --> 00:51:00,208 - I think that was exactly what I needed last night. 1335 00:51:00,333 --> 00:51:02,042 - Yeah, it's good to be able to bounce, like, ideas off 1336 00:51:02,208 --> 00:51:05,083 of people, emotions, thoughts. 1337 00:51:05,208 --> 00:51:06,500 It's a nice think tank 1338 00:51:06,583 --> 00:51:08,958 because, collectively, there is a lot 1339 00:51:09,083 --> 00:51:11,500 of experience here, you know? 1340 00:51:11,625 --> 00:51:14,042 I think Chris, you know, he said it last night. 1341 00:51:14,208 --> 00:51:15,667 He's like, "This is like a family." 1342 00:51:15,792 --> 00:51:16,958 It's like, we have gone through 1343 00:51:17,042 --> 00:51:18,750 this unique experience together, 1344 00:51:18,875 --> 00:51:20,000 and we're all, like, super close. 1345 00:51:20,083 --> 00:51:21,875 - Yeah. 1346 00:51:22,000 --> 00:51:25,625 - Our individual personalities just work so well together. 1347 00:51:25,708 --> 00:51:28,375 - Agreed. 1348 00:51:28,500 --> 00:51:33,167 - I have just fully charged my batteries being out here. 1349 00:51:33,250 --> 00:51:35,375 - You feel refreshed? - I do. 1350 00:51:35,500 --> 00:51:40,500 Just like the air, the trees, the whole nature component. 1351 00:51:40,583 --> 00:51:43,792 It's hard to get that 42 stories up in a condo. 1352 00:51:43,875 --> 00:51:45,500 - That is true. 1353 00:51:45,625 --> 00:51:47,000 - We've definitely grown closer 1354 00:51:47,125 --> 00:51:49,417 during this couples' retreat. 1355 00:51:49,542 --> 00:51:52,000 We've recharged, you know, the soul 1356 00:51:52,125 --> 00:51:54,708 with being out in the fresh air and in nature. 1357 00:51:54,833 --> 00:51:56,750 So I'm encouraged 1358 00:51:56,875 --> 00:52:00,250 because 100% I want to have a successful relationship. 1359 00:52:00,375 --> 00:52:02,042 And we're going to do whatever it takes 1360 00:52:02,167 --> 00:52:04,917 to try to make it work. 1361 00:52:05,042 --> 00:52:06,458 But we only have a few days left 1362 00:52:06,542 --> 00:52:08,917 to try to make that bond, that connection, 1363 00:52:09,042 --> 00:52:10,833 before Decision Day. 1364 00:52:11,000 --> 00:52:13,000 - ♪ Cause the game ain't over ♪ 1365 00:52:13,125 --> 00:52:15,667 ♪ It ain't over yet ♪ 1366 00:52:15,833 --> 00:52:17,500 ♪ No, the game ain't over ♪ 1367 00:52:21,458 --> 00:52:23,625 - ♪ We don't lock any doors 1368 00:52:23,708 --> 00:52:26,458 ♪ you still play in the neighborhood ♪ 1369 00:52:26,583 --> 00:52:30,583 ♪ Everybody around here knows everybody's mama ♪ 1370 00:52:30,708 --> 00:52:32,167 - What you got going on? 1371 00:52:32,333 --> 00:52:33,208 - We're making Cinnamon Toast Crunch pancakes. 1372 00:52:33,333 --> 00:52:34,958 We're making chocolate peanut-- 1373 00:52:35,042 --> 00:52:37,000 - We found that randomly at Target. 1374 00:52:37,125 --> 00:52:40,292 - Chocolate peanut butter waffles. 1375 00:52:40,417 --> 00:52:42,833 We're doing lox and cream cheese bagels 1376 00:52:43,000 --> 00:52:45,042 and scrambled eggs. 1377 00:52:45,167 --> 00:52:47,167 - Do you want us to do anything? 1378 00:52:47,292 --> 00:52:48,875 - Yeah, you want to do these eggs? 1379 00:52:49,000 --> 00:52:50,333 - Sure. 1380 00:52:50,500 --> 00:52:53,125 - Just gonna do them scrambled. - Scrambled. 1381 00:52:53,208 --> 00:52:54,958 - Keep rocking and rolling. 1382 00:52:55,083 --> 00:52:57,333 ♪ ♪ 1383 00:52:57,458 --> 00:52:59,000 - All right, almost done packing? 1384 00:52:59,083 --> 00:53:01,917 - Yep. - Me too. 1385 00:53:02,042 --> 00:53:04,083 I know I keep mentioning it, 1386 00:53:04,208 --> 00:53:05,875 and we're like, "We'll figure it out," 1387 00:53:06,042 --> 00:53:08,333 but I really would love us to solidify 1388 00:53:08,458 --> 00:53:10,833 a plan of what our lives together 1389 00:53:10,958 --> 00:53:12,208 will look like after Decision Day. 1390 00:53:12,375 --> 00:53:17,208 Because it is making me a little anxious, 1391 00:53:17,333 --> 00:53:20,792 and I don't like the idea of like, yeah, 1392 00:53:20,917 --> 00:53:24,042 we're going into this huge Decision Day and what-- 1393 00:53:24,167 --> 00:53:26,375 what happens the day after? 1394 00:53:26,500 --> 00:53:30,125 And can you at least promise me that we will 1395 00:53:30,250 --> 00:53:32,625 figure something out, solidify a plan, 1396 00:53:32,708 --> 00:53:35,458 even if that plan is, we can't do something 1397 00:53:35,583 --> 00:53:37,833 right now with an apartment. We have to wait a few weeks. 1398 00:53:37,917 --> 00:53:40,042 But can we confirm that before Decision Day? 1399 00:53:40,167 --> 00:53:42,167 - I mean, we've been talking. - I know. 1400 00:53:42,333 --> 00:53:43,875 I just--I want to make sure-- 1401 00:53:44,000 --> 00:53:45,000 I don't want to be wishy-washy. 1402 00:53:45,125 --> 00:53:46,875 Before Decision Day, we just need 1403 00:53:47,000 --> 00:53:48,833 to finalize what we're doing. 1404 00:53:48,917 --> 00:53:50,542 I don't want to wait until after Decision Day 1405 00:53:50,708 --> 00:53:52,000 and say, "OK, now let's really think about it." 1406 00:53:52,125 --> 00:53:53,583 So... 1407 00:53:53,708 --> 00:53:54,833 - I thought that was the plan the whole time. 1408 00:53:54,917 --> 00:53:58,208 - I know, but I've never point-blank asked you, 1409 00:53:58,375 --> 00:54:00,125 and you've never point-blank said, 1410 00:54:00,250 --> 00:54:01,625 "Yes, we will figure it out." 1411 00:54:01,708 --> 00:54:03,167 We've just kind of been like, "We'll figure it out. 1412 00:54:03,250 --> 00:54:04,667 Like, you know, we'll make time." 1413 00:54:04,750 --> 00:54:06,125 - I mean, yeah. 1414 00:54:06,250 --> 00:54:08,000 We got to find out what our options are. 1415 00:54:08,125 --> 00:54:10,250 So it's not as simple as just saying, 1416 00:54:10,375 --> 00:54:11,667 "We'll figure it out." - I know. 1417 00:54:11,833 --> 00:54:13,458 - We'll figure it out, like, once we talk 1418 00:54:13,542 --> 00:54:14,958 to everybody and kind of figure out what's available 1419 00:54:15,042 --> 00:54:16,125 and go from there. 1420 00:54:16,208 --> 00:54:17,375 - But what I'm saying is 1421 00:54:17,542 --> 00:54:18,750 we will do that before Decision Day. 1422 00:54:18,875 --> 00:54:20,333 Look at our options-- 1423 00:54:20,458 --> 00:54:21,792 - Yeah, but that's been the plan the whole time. 1424 00:54:21,917 --> 00:54:23,750 - Just say yes. 1425 00:54:23,875 --> 00:54:25,417 - It's been the plan the whole time. 1426 00:54:25,542 --> 00:54:26,417 - So yes, you're saying yes. OK. 1427 00:54:26,542 --> 00:54:28,667 Thank you. - Yeah. 1428 00:54:28,750 --> 00:54:32,625 - Before we go upstairs, I had an idea. 1429 00:54:32,708 --> 00:54:34,333 I thought it'd be fun if we could 1430 00:54:34,500 --> 00:54:36,500 just like, be silly 1431 00:54:36,667 --> 00:54:40,000 and go to breakfast in costume. 1432 00:54:40,167 --> 00:54:42,208 Go up, shake our little dinosaur fannies, 1433 00:54:42,375 --> 00:54:43,333 and then we can change. 1434 00:54:43,417 --> 00:54:44,542 - What's the point of it, though? 1435 00:54:44,667 --> 00:54:47,375 - To be silly? - To be silly. 1436 00:54:47,500 --> 00:54:50,333 I don't get the point of it. 1437 00:54:50,500 --> 00:54:55,000 - The point is, I am going to dress up for breakfast 1438 00:54:55,083 --> 00:54:58,875 and be silly, and I would love for you to do it with me. 1439 00:54:59,000 --> 00:55:01,958 [quirky acoustic music] 1440 00:55:02,083 --> 00:55:05,750 ♪ ♪ 1441 00:55:05,875 --> 00:55:07,083 - OK. Sure. 1442 00:55:07,208 --> 00:55:08,750 - OK. 1443 00:55:10,833 --> 00:55:12,833 - It's 100% appeasement. 1444 00:55:12,917 --> 00:55:14,667 I just feel like they're going to be so confused. 1445 00:55:14,833 --> 00:55:17,208 - Yeah. That's OK. 1446 00:55:17,375 --> 00:55:20,042 - 'Cause I'm confused. 1447 00:55:20,208 --> 00:55:23,833 - Where's Chris and Nicole? - Yeah, what are they doing? 1448 00:55:23,958 --> 00:55:26,833 [eerie music] 1449 00:55:26,958 --> 00:55:31,667 ♪ ♪ 1450 00:55:31,792 --> 00:55:33,292 - Just make sure you keep an eye on those. 1451 00:55:33,417 --> 00:55:35,250 Those will go quick. 1452 00:55:35,375 --> 00:55:38,333 - Roar! Ooh, ooh. 1453 00:55:38,458 --> 00:55:41,292 [suspenseful music] 1454 00:55:41,375 --> 00:55:45,250 Roar! 1455 00:55:45,375 --> 00:55:47,375 Roar. 1456 00:55:47,500 --> 00:55:49,000 We're coming in for breakfast. 1457 00:55:49,083 --> 00:55:50,708 - Coming in for breakfast, guys. 1458 00:55:50,833 --> 00:55:52,833 - What is happening? - I don't know. 1459 00:55:52,958 --> 00:55:54,500 - We've seen enough animals. 1460 00:55:54,625 --> 00:55:56,417 - This is her idea, so I went along with it. 1461 00:55:56,542 --> 00:55:57,833 - For the love of God. 1462 00:55:57,917 --> 00:56:00,833 - What is happening? - It's a dino breakfast. 1463 00:56:00,958 --> 00:56:04,208 It's dino-mite. - This was her idea. 1464 00:56:04,375 --> 00:56:05,667 - Chris said, "This is her idea. 1465 00:56:05,792 --> 00:56:08,000 I'm just going along with it." - Oh, yeah. 1466 00:56:08,083 --> 00:56:10,083 - Well, we heard from Dr. Pia to step outside the box 1467 00:56:10,208 --> 00:56:12,417 with our sex lives. I'm just kidding. 1468 00:56:12,542 --> 00:56:14,917 This is not what we use. This is not in the bedroom. 1469 00:56:15,042 --> 00:56:16,708 - No. 1470 00:56:16,833 --> 00:56:19,958 - Maybe the dinosaur wants a bagel. 1471 00:56:20,042 --> 00:56:22,833 Roar. - Bagel. 1472 00:56:22,958 --> 00:56:25,417 - Just remember this. This is what love looks like. 1473 00:56:25,542 --> 00:56:26,833 - This is what love looks like. - OK. 1474 00:56:26,917 --> 00:56:28,667 - I would never do this otherwise. 1475 00:56:28,833 --> 00:56:31,250 - He stomped his dinosaur feet the whole way up 1476 00:56:31,375 --> 00:56:32,167 but still did it. 1477 00:56:32,333 --> 00:56:34,083 ♪ ♪ 1478 00:56:34,208 --> 00:56:35,875 - Not proud of it. 1479 00:56:36,000 --> 00:56:37,792 Not proud of doing it 'cause I feel like an idiot, 1480 00:56:37,917 --> 00:56:39,708 but I did it. 1481 00:56:39,833 --> 00:56:41,792 - Well, Chris, I could use your help, buddy. 1482 00:56:41,917 --> 00:56:43,167 - I know. See? 1483 00:56:43,250 --> 00:56:44,167 He could use my help for breakfast. 1484 00:56:44,292 --> 00:56:45,583 - Come on. - Yeah. 1485 00:56:45,708 --> 00:56:48,667 - Glug, glug, glug, glug. - And she's just playing. 1486 00:56:48,750 --> 00:56:49,667 - Whoo! 1487 00:56:49,750 --> 00:56:51,833 [laughter] 1488 00:56:51,917 --> 00:56:54,917 ♪ ♪ 1489 00:57:00,083 --> 00:57:01,625 ♪ ♪ 1490 00:57:01,708 --> 00:57:03,833 - I've just thought about how my little niece, 1491 00:57:03,958 --> 00:57:06,000 and my brother would always be like, "Lily, say grace." 1492 00:57:06,125 --> 00:57:08,375 And she'd go, "Grace." - Grace. 1493 00:57:08,500 --> 00:57:10,000 - Do you want to say a little grace? 1494 00:57:10,167 --> 00:57:13,125 Our last day here. Anyone? 1495 00:57:13,250 --> 00:57:15,208 - Jas got it. Jas, OK. 1496 00:57:15,333 --> 00:57:17,042 - Oh, OK. Let's say grace then. 1497 00:57:22,083 --> 00:57:24,542 Father God, thank you for letting us have a safe weekend 1498 00:57:24,708 --> 00:57:26,417 here at our couples' retreat. 1499 00:57:26,542 --> 00:57:28,583 Thanks for the fellowship, thanks for the group, 1500 00:57:28,708 --> 00:57:31,000 thanks for the love, thanks for the open mindedness. 1501 00:57:31,125 --> 00:57:33,167 Lord, bless the food we're about to receive 1502 00:57:33,292 --> 00:57:34,458 for the nourishment of our bodies. 1503 00:57:34,542 --> 00:57:35,833 Bless the hands that prepared it 1504 00:57:35,958 --> 00:57:37,458 and let us have safe travels home. 1505 00:57:37,542 --> 00:57:39,083 In your name I pray, Amen. 1506 00:57:39,208 --> 00:57:40,458 [together] Amen. 1507 00:57:40,542 --> 00:57:42,833 - Clint, you did it again, man. 1508 00:57:42,958 --> 00:57:44,000 This looks amazing. 1509 00:57:44,125 --> 00:57:45,708 - I figured we'd carb load 1510 00:57:45,833 --> 00:57:48,417 before our nice, long journey home, you know? 1511 00:57:48,542 --> 00:57:50,167 - Get nice and tired. 1512 00:57:50,292 --> 00:57:52,500 - Really packed full of good energy. 1513 00:57:52,625 --> 00:57:54,750 - All of those driving today, 1514 00:57:54,875 --> 00:57:57,000 your passengers are very grateful. 1515 00:57:57,083 --> 00:57:58,875 - Yeah. - Thanks. 1516 00:57:59,042 --> 00:58:00,833 - That's ketchup. 1517 00:58:00,917 --> 00:58:02,708 ♪ ♪ 1518 00:58:02,833 --> 00:58:05,417 - So Decision Day is right around the corner. 1519 00:58:05,542 --> 00:58:07,125 - It is. - And... 1520 00:58:07,250 --> 00:58:08,833 - Bum, bum, bum. 1521 00:58:08,958 --> 00:58:11,667 - I'd love to hear from everybody here, 1522 00:58:11,833 --> 00:58:14,708 like, what do you need from your significant other 1523 00:58:14,833 --> 00:58:17,208 come decision day? D day? 1524 00:58:17,375 --> 00:58:21,958 - I just need Jasmine to continue to speak her mind 1525 00:58:22,083 --> 00:58:26,167 and be confident and be the best version of herself. 1526 00:58:26,250 --> 00:58:27,875 ♪ ♪ 1527 00:58:28,000 --> 00:58:31,917 That's what I need. What do you need? 1528 00:58:32,042 --> 00:58:35,458 - I think I just need for you to keep creating a safe space 1529 00:58:35,542 --> 00:58:38,375 for me to speak up and, you know, 1530 00:58:38,500 --> 00:58:40,667 for us to continue to grow, you know, 1531 00:58:40,792 --> 00:58:43,667 our connection and intimacy. 1532 00:58:43,792 --> 00:58:46,417 - I feel like me and Jasmine are leaving 1533 00:58:46,542 --> 00:58:49,958 couples' retreat on a good note. 1534 00:58:50,042 --> 00:58:53,417 The fact that both of us are still trying and, 1535 00:58:53,542 --> 00:58:56,750 you know, making the effort to improve it. 1536 00:58:56,875 --> 00:58:59,625 So hopefully that spark can, you know, 1537 00:58:59,708 --> 00:59:03,375 come with the little bit of time we have left. 1538 00:59:03,542 --> 00:59:06,000 - For me, I think it's just, like, 1539 00:59:06,125 --> 00:59:08,708 not questioning things anymore, and honestly, 1540 00:59:08,833 --> 00:59:11,333 no more dinosaur outfits. - OK. 1541 00:59:11,458 --> 00:59:14,042 Point received. 1542 00:59:14,167 --> 00:59:16,042 Point is heard. It is a valid thought. 1543 00:59:16,208 --> 00:59:17,833 [laughter] 1544 00:59:17,917 --> 00:59:19,833 ♪ ♪ 1545 00:59:19,917 --> 00:59:22,958 I need you to just continue being you 1546 00:59:23,042 --> 00:59:25,833 and letting me be me and working together 1547 00:59:25,958 --> 00:59:27,875 to figure out post Decision Day. 1548 00:59:28,042 --> 00:59:31,167 Because, you know, that's important to both of us. 1549 00:59:31,250 --> 00:59:34,542 And we can't have Decision Day 1550 00:59:34,667 --> 00:59:36,417 without the day after Decision Day in mind. 1551 00:59:36,542 --> 00:59:39,458 So let's do it. 1552 00:59:39,542 --> 00:59:41,792 - Now it's your turn. 1553 00:59:41,875 --> 00:59:44,333 - I think I would just need the, like, 1554 00:59:44,417 --> 00:59:46,292 step up in communication, which you're already doing. 1555 00:59:46,417 --> 00:59:49,333 And if we continue to just really cherish the moments 1556 00:59:49,417 --> 00:59:51,667 that we're spending together, since it is so close, 1557 00:59:51,792 --> 00:59:54,958 and just continue to look for signs that that connection 1558 00:59:55,042 --> 00:59:58,167 is building and sustainable. - Yeah, yeah. 1559 00:59:58,292 --> 01:00:00,750 I just need you to continue to be open minded 1560 01:00:00,875 --> 01:00:02,625 and, you know, vocalizing, 1561 01:00:02,750 --> 01:00:04,792 and, you know, any issues that arise, 1562 01:00:04,875 --> 01:00:07,458 like, let's solve them as a couple. 1563 01:00:07,542 --> 01:00:10,708 - I can do it. - Yeah. 1564 01:00:10,833 --> 01:00:14,667 I think we've all grown a lot on this retreat. 1565 01:00:14,792 --> 01:00:19,333 And we've grown all together as a group, like, yeah. 1566 01:00:19,500 --> 01:00:21,417 Like we've gone through this crazy, 1567 01:00:21,542 --> 01:00:24,167 unique adventure together, right? 1568 01:00:24,292 --> 01:00:25,292 Together. 1569 01:00:25,375 --> 01:00:27,750 ♪ ♪ 1570 01:00:27,875 --> 01:00:30,000 So it's been really special. 1571 01:00:30,125 --> 01:00:33,000 [tender music] 1572 01:00:33,125 --> 01:00:37,917 ♪ ♪ 1573 01:00:38,042 --> 01:00:41,000 - ♪ Ooh ♪ 1574 01:00:41,125 --> 01:00:44,000 [upbeat pop music] 1575 01:00:44,083 --> 01:00:45,250 ♪ ♪ 1576 01:00:45,375 --> 01:00:47,333 - I can't forget my crown. 1577 01:00:47,500 --> 01:00:51,000 I got to make some appearances, get paid, public speaking. 1578 01:00:51,125 --> 01:00:54,500 ♪ ♪ 1579 01:00:54,667 --> 01:00:55,583 - Are you wearing that the whole day? 1580 01:00:55,708 --> 01:00:58,667 - All day. - Amazing. 1581 01:00:58,792 --> 01:01:01,667 - Let's go. - I think I'm ready. 1582 01:01:01,750 --> 01:01:03,917 Got all the gear. 1583 01:01:04,042 --> 01:01:06,042 With the pressure of Decision Day coming up, 1584 01:01:06,167 --> 01:01:08,750 couples' retreat was the right timing. 1585 01:01:08,875 --> 01:01:11,542 - All right, bye, beautiful house. 1586 01:01:11,708 --> 01:01:14,542 - We're leaving our great memories. 1587 01:01:14,708 --> 01:01:17,292 - We've got to go a far distance 1588 01:01:17,417 --> 01:01:19,333 in a short period of time. 1589 01:01:19,500 --> 01:01:22,125 The runway is shortening up 1590 01:01:22,208 --> 01:01:25,792 pretty quickly to land this plane. 1591 01:01:25,875 --> 01:01:28,833 - ♪ Any day, and be in love ♪ 1592 01:01:28,958 --> 01:01:31,833 ♪ ♪ 1593 01:01:31,917 --> 01:01:33,875 ♪ Let's be in love ♪ 1594 01:01:34,000 --> 01:01:37,333 ♪ ♪ 1595 01:01:37,417 --> 01:01:39,292 ♪ Let's be in love ♪ 1596 01:01:39,375 --> 01:01:42,625 ♪ ♪ 1597 01:01:42,708 --> 01:01:45,625 - Next time on "Married at First Sight." 1598 01:01:45,708 --> 01:01:47,583 ♪ ♪ 1599 01:01:47,708 --> 01:01:49,167 - It's like baby's first haircut. 1600 01:01:49,333 --> 01:01:51,000 - We're going to go from Jesus to Bradley Cooper. 1601 01:01:51,125 --> 01:01:53,208 - Ooh, I love it. 1602 01:01:53,333 --> 01:01:55,833 - Be patient with this man for he does 1603 01:01:55,917 --> 01:01:59,000 have a lot of growing up to do, but his heart is good. 1604 01:01:59,125 --> 01:02:00,708 - When the process is done, do I still think 1605 01:02:00,833 --> 01:02:02,500 I'll feel the same way? 1606 01:02:02,625 --> 01:02:05,458 - Why do you want to marry or stay married to this person? 1607 01:02:05,542 --> 01:02:07,167 - We've put in so much work, 1608 01:02:07,292 --> 01:02:10,208 and we've done so much together that, like, I just-- 1609 01:02:10,333 --> 01:02:12,125 I don't know. 1610 01:02:12,208 --> 01:02:15,208 - Sometimes I just want you to make me feel 1611 01:02:15,375 --> 01:02:18,792 like you like me, basically. It's like, why are we here? 1612 01:02:18,875 --> 01:02:20,750 Do we like each other? Like, what's going on? 1613 01:02:20,875 --> 01:02:22,500 [dramatic music] 1614 01:02:22,667 --> 01:02:24,958 - It felt awkward to do it. That's all. 1615 01:02:25,042 --> 01:02:27,833 - He brings this energy that's, like, 1616 01:02:28,000 --> 01:02:29,833 this sense of a bizarre energy. 1617 01:02:29,958 --> 01:02:32,542 It's the crass sense of humor, like, almost like a feeling 1618 01:02:32,667 --> 01:02:34,583 of second-hand embarrassment. 1619 01:02:34,708 --> 01:02:37,333 - To sideline me? Why? 1620 01:02:37,458 --> 01:02:39,042 What was the intent? 1621 01:02:39,167 --> 01:02:45,000 ♪ ♪