1 00:00:02,917 --> 00:00:05,042 - Nice to meet you. - Clint. 2 00:00:05,167 --> 00:00:07,083 - Ten singles took an enormous leap of faith 3 00:00:07,208 --> 00:00:08,250 in order to find love. 4 00:00:08,375 --> 00:00:11,333 They married as complete strangers. 5 00:00:11,417 --> 00:00:14,125 [upbeat music] 6 00:00:14,250 --> 00:00:16,542 - ♪ Have you ever felt the same ♪ 7 00:00:16,667 --> 00:00:18,542 - Last time, with less than a week before Decision Day, 8 00:00:18,708 --> 00:00:21,458 our couples took a deeper look at the reality 9 00:00:21,583 --> 00:00:24,167 of everyday life with their spouse in hopes 10 00:00:24,292 --> 00:00:27,708 that their decision would become more clear. 11 00:00:30,375 --> 00:00:31,958 - Be patient with this man, 12 00:00:32,083 --> 00:00:33,833 for he does have a lot of growing up to do, 13 00:00:33,958 --> 00:00:35,500 but his heart is good. 14 00:00:35,625 --> 00:00:38,417 - I'm definitely fearful of making the wrong choice 15 00:00:38,542 --> 00:00:40,750 on Decision Day. 16 00:00:43,958 --> 00:00:47,125 - Take the wall down and enjoy each other. 17 00:00:47,208 --> 00:00:51,125 Laugh, smile, breathe, you know? 18 00:00:51,208 --> 00:00:53,292 That's where the love grows from. 19 00:00:55,833 --> 00:00:57,708 - Decision Day, I'm just thinking, 20 00:00:57,875 --> 00:01:00,333 can I see myself with this woman for the rest of my life? 21 00:01:00,458 --> 00:01:03,292 - Even if we don't have our situation finalized, 22 00:01:03,375 --> 00:01:07,583 we at least have a better idea than just, "It'll work out," 23 00:01:07,708 --> 00:01:10,667 because, "It's gonna work out," is not enough for me 24 00:01:10,750 --> 00:01:14,583 to have an emphatic, 100% yes. 25 00:01:17,083 --> 00:01:19,667 - He brings this energy that's like, 26 00:01:19,792 --> 00:01:21,208 this sense of a bizarre energy. 27 00:01:21,333 --> 00:01:23,292 Like, it's the crass sense of humor, 28 00:01:23,375 --> 00:01:26,500 almost like a feeling of secondhand embarrassment. 29 00:01:26,625 --> 00:01:29,833 - To sideline me out of nowhere with just like 30 00:01:29,958 --> 00:01:32,167 this crazy information, like, why? 31 00:01:32,250 --> 00:01:35,833 What was the intent? 32 00:01:35,917 --> 00:01:38,417 - ♪ Jump in and ride with me ♪ 33 00:01:38,542 --> 00:01:41,292 - And tonight, with Decision Day approaching fast, 34 00:01:41,417 --> 00:01:44,500 our couples will have one last chance for romance... 35 00:01:44,667 --> 00:01:46,583 - What a ride! 36 00:01:46,708 --> 00:01:49,167 - Before making the biggest decision of their lives. 37 00:01:49,333 --> 00:01:51,750 - ♪ Trusting in the process ♪ 38 00:01:51,875 --> 00:01:53,417 - For me, I do want to be a wife. 39 00:01:53,542 --> 00:01:55,625 - Just the fact, like, you showed so much strength. 40 00:01:55,708 --> 00:01:58,833 I don't think that's, like, easy at all. 41 00:01:58,958 --> 00:02:01,250 - Hey, this could last forever. 42 00:02:01,375 --> 00:02:03,750 - You know, the word on the streets, hearing things. 43 00:02:03,875 --> 00:02:05,917 - [laughs] - What is going on? 44 00:02:06,042 --> 00:02:07,708 - I slid in Gina's DMs. 45 00:02:07,875 --> 00:02:11,500 - I was caught completely off guard, just blindsided. 46 00:02:11,625 --> 00:02:13,958 - If we can't make that decision yet, 47 00:02:14,083 --> 00:02:15,792 is it because we don't feel like we're 48 00:02:15,875 --> 00:02:17,958 ready to live together? 49 00:02:18,083 --> 00:02:18,917 - I was kind of taken aback. 50 00:02:19,042 --> 00:02:20,208 - You're bizarre, Clint. 51 00:02:20,333 --> 00:02:22,292 Like, you are outrageous. 52 00:02:22,375 --> 00:02:25,333 - So can you see yourself maybe single again? 53 00:02:25,500 --> 00:02:27,208 - It's up to you to believe me. 54 00:02:27,375 --> 00:02:28,917 - I don't know. 55 00:02:29,042 --> 00:02:31,083 I'm still unsure, I guess. 56 00:02:31,208 --> 00:02:34,833 [dramatic music] 57 00:02:34,958 --> 00:02:36,583 - ♪ It's all or nothing ♪ 58 00:02:36,708 --> 00:02:39,292 - This is "Married at First Sight." 59 00:02:39,417 --> 00:02:42,625 - ♪ There's no other way ♪ 60 00:02:42,750 --> 00:02:44,917 ♪ It's all or nothing ♪ 61 00:02:45,042 --> 00:02:47,000 [upbeat music] 62 00:02:47,125 --> 00:02:48,875 - ♪ Right before your eyes ♪ 63 00:02:49,042 --> 00:02:51,125 ♪ Want your love to fly ♪ 64 00:02:51,208 --> 00:02:55,333 ♪ Catch yourself before the moment's vaporized ♪ 65 00:02:55,500 --> 00:02:58,542 - So it is the morning after. 66 00:02:58,708 --> 00:03:02,083 We met with Pastor Cal and Dr. Pepper. 67 00:03:02,208 --> 00:03:04,208 Some of the things that were said last night, 68 00:03:04,375 --> 00:03:06,667 just, I was caught completely off guard, 69 00:03:06,792 --> 00:03:10,583 just blindsided by so many different comments. 70 00:03:10,708 --> 00:03:13,333 She was talking about, you know, "Clint, 71 00:03:13,458 --> 00:03:15,333 he's funny," and all this and then saying, like, 72 00:03:15,458 --> 00:03:19,667 I have an odd, strange energy. 73 00:03:19,792 --> 00:03:22,250 Like, I'm trying to quantify what that means. 74 00:03:22,375 --> 00:03:25,000 So why would you say some of these things? 75 00:03:25,125 --> 00:03:26,875 And none of these things were even vocalized 76 00:03:27,000 --> 00:03:29,250 at any given point whatsoever. 77 00:03:29,375 --> 00:03:31,208 That just feels bad. That doesn't feel good. 78 00:03:31,333 --> 00:03:34,000 Just, it's still-- 79 00:03:34,083 --> 00:03:37,167 I'm still processing some of this. 80 00:03:37,292 --> 00:03:40,875 It just doesn't make sense. 81 00:03:41,042 --> 00:03:43,833 [upbeat rock music] 82 00:03:43,917 --> 00:03:49,208 ♪ ♪ 83 00:03:49,375 --> 00:03:52,083 - Work it, come on! Come on! 84 00:03:52,208 --> 00:03:54,542 Let it go, let it go! Where you at? 85 00:03:54,708 --> 00:03:57,208 That's good stuff! Good stuff, my brother. 86 00:03:57,333 --> 00:03:59,292 - ♪ One good hit, yeah, that's all it took ♪ 87 00:03:59,417 --> 00:04:02,167 ♪ I'm gonna catch your eye, bet I made you look ♪ 88 00:04:02,292 --> 00:04:04,167 - We got rear uppercut when we throw hooks. 89 00:04:04,292 --> 00:04:06,083 And then we got lead uppercut. 90 00:04:06,208 --> 00:04:08,250 So we got to get the palms up. Protect the face at all times. 91 00:04:08,375 --> 00:04:09,667 You got to protect that moneymaker, you feel me? 92 00:04:09,792 --> 00:04:11,667 Come on. Let's get it, let's get it. 93 00:04:11,750 --> 00:04:14,000 Hey, that's it! Keep them hands up. 94 00:04:14,167 --> 00:04:16,250 Work it, there we go. Where you at? 95 00:04:16,375 --> 00:04:18,000 Gotta get down first. Come on! 96 00:04:18,125 --> 00:04:19,750 It's gonna be Airris and Mac Daddy! 97 00:04:19,875 --> 00:04:21,833 Where we at? Come on! 98 00:04:21,958 --> 00:04:24,292 Hey! Oh, he got ya again. 99 00:04:24,417 --> 00:04:25,833 That's what's up. - I think Airris cheated. 100 00:04:26,000 --> 00:04:27,792 - Get it. Good work, good work. 101 00:04:27,917 --> 00:04:30,125 Y'all killed it. 102 00:04:30,250 --> 00:04:31,125 - So what's up, man? 103 00:04:31,250 --> 00:04:33,125 Decision Day right around the corner. 104 00:04:33,208 --> 00:04:35,000 How are you feeling? - I'm feeling good, man. 105 00:04:35,167 --> 00:04:38,500 I'm at peace, thought a lot about it. 106 00:04:38,625 --> 00:04:40,000 - Yeah? 107 00:04:40,125 --> 00:04:43,750 How's the attraction thing coming? 108 00:04:43,875 --> 00:04:45,250 - It's coming. - I know that's a big thing. 109 00:04:45,375 --> 00:04:46,917 - Yeah, it's like, a big thing. 110 00:04:47,042 --> 00:04:48,833 For a while, we were just so focused on that, right? 111 00:04:49,000 --> 00:04:50,708 So we started, like, focusing on the positives 112 00:04:50,875 --> 00:04:52,917 and just meeting with a lot of the experts, 113 00:04:53,042 --> 00:04:54,417 like especially Dr. P. 114 00:04:54,542 --> 00:04:55,500 She had, like, redefined intimacy for me. 115 00:04:55,667 --> 00:04:58,167 When I heard the word intimacy, 116 00:04:58,292 --> 00:04:59,542 I just automatically thought about sex. 117 00:04:59,708 --> 00:05:00,875 - Right. 118 00:05:01,042 --> 00:05:02,667 - But she was like, no, it's more than that-- 119 00:05:02,792 --> 00:05:05,375 redefined it, aa different perspective.me 120 00:05:05,500 --> 00:05:07,000 I don't know if I'm there, like, where I want to be, 121 00:05:07,125 --> 00:05:08,583 you know, but I mean, 122 00:05:08,708 --> 00:05:10,000 we're still sleeping in the same bed, at least. 123 00:05:10,125 --> 00:05:11,208 We're not like, Clint and Gina-ing it. 124 00:05:11,375 --> 00:05:12,833 - Right. - You know? 125 00:05:12,958 --> 00:05:15,042 There have been improvements. 126 00:05:15,208 --> 00:05:17,833 That does give me, like, a little hope. 127 00:05:18,833 --> 00:05:22,167 There's definitely a world where I could say yes 128 00:05:22,250 --> 00:05:25,667 on Decision Day, to see how things are, like, 129 00:05:25,833 --> 00:05:28,833 just kind of us doing it our way. 130 00:05:28,917 --> 00:05:31,708 I feel like this process has been like a pressure cooker. 131 00:05:31,875 --> 00:05:36,000 And just having that stress eliminated 132 00:05:36,083 --> 00:05:40,833 from our relationship, maybe we can blossom and grow. 133 00:05:40,917 --> 00:05:44,000 So you know, I mean, the word on the streets, 134 00:05:44,167 --> 00:05:45,083 I'm hearing things. 135 00:05:45,208 --> 00:05:47,417 [laughter] 136 00:05:47,542 --> 00:05:49,875 See, I love some good gossip. 137 00:05:50,042 --> 00:05:52,042 And I'm always worrying about-- 138 00:05:52,208 --> 00:05:54,042 seeing how my boy Mac is doing. 139 00:05:54,167 --> 00:05:55,708 - Yeah, yeah, what'd you hear? 140 00:05:55,875 --> 00:05:57,417 - Some DMs-- 141 00:05:57,542 --> 00:05:59,333 I thought people was about to be sliding in your DMs. 142 00:05:59,458 --> 00:06:00,833 They saying you sliding in DMs. 143 00:06:01,000 --> 00:06:02,250 - Yeah, it was me. 144 00:06:02,375 --> 00:06:05,167 I slid in Gina's DMs. 145 00:06:05,292 --> 00:06:06,333 - OK. 146 00:06:06,500 --> 00:06:08,333 - She's got some, like, 147 00:06:08,458 --> 00:06:10,333 celebrity friend that I follow. 148 00:06:10,458 --> 00:06:12,250 And she's super sexy. 149 00:06:12,375 --> 00:06:13,833 And so I'm like, hey, that's crazy. 150 00:06:14,000 --> 00:06:15,250 How do you know her? She's like, oh, we're friends. 151 00:06:15,375 --> 00:06:16,250 And so I hit her up about her friend 152 00:06:16,375 --> 00:06:16,917 that I have no chance with because she's 153 00:06:17,042 --> 00:06:19,458 some super famous singer. 154 00:06:19,583 --> 00:06:21,000 But no, that's what it was. 155 00:06:21,125 --> 00:06:24,083 [laughter] 156 00:06:25,208 --> 00:06:26,500 Listen, I think Gina's good-looking. 157 00:06:26,667 --> 00:06:28,000 I think all the women are good-looking. 158 00:06:30,583 --> 00:06:32,208 Yeah, I don't know. I think Gina's great. 159 00:06:32,333 --> 00:06:33,458 I get along with Gina. 160 00:06:33,583 --> 00:06:35,000 We're like-minded. 161 00:06:36,542 --> 00:06:38,833 Would I go on a date with Gina? I probably would. 162 00:06:39,000 --> 00:06:40,458 Not that I'm like, looking to date Gina. 163 00:06:40,542 --> 00:06:41,833 But I just think she's a good-looking girl. 164 00:06:41,958 --> 00:06:44,000 I'd probably go out with her. - Yeah. 165 00:06:44,083 --> 00:06:45,417 - Maybe if the circumstances were different. 166 00:06:45,542 --> 00:06:47,125 - Right, right. 167 00:06:47,250 --> 00:06:49,500 - If Gina and Clint get divorced, 168 00:06:49,583 --> 00:06:51,917 I'd like to initiate it or kind of throw it out there 169 00:06:52,042 --> 00:06:53,000 and see where it goes. 170 00:06:53,083 --> 00:06:54,875 You just--you never know. 171 00:06:55,000 --> 00:06:56,792 [laughter] 172 00:06:58,458 --> 00:07:01,292 [upbeat music] 173 00:07:01,375 --> 00:07:06,000 ♪ ♪ 174 00:07:06,083 --> 00:07:08,167 - Isn't it cute? 175 00:07:08,250 --> 00:07:15,083 ♪ ♪ 176 00:07:15,208 --> 00:07:17,292 - Hi, welcome, welcome! 177 00:07:17,417 --> 00:07:18,500 Come in, come in. - How are you? 178 00:07:18,667 --> 00:07:20,333 - I'm Caitlin. - I'm Kirsten. 179 00:07:20,500 --> 00:07:22,333 - Nice to meet you. - Nice to meet you as well. 180 00:07:22,458 --> 00:07:25,375 - Come on in, come on in. Hang a right. 181 00:07:25,542 --> 00:07:27,125 - This is lovely. 182 00:07:27,250 --> 00:07:29,333 - Guitars. 183 00:07:29,500 --> 00:07:31,417 - All right. 184 00:07:31,542 --> 00:07:33,667 - I'm so excited that you guys are joining me today. 185 00:07:33,792 --> 00:07:35,833 - We're happy to be here. Thanks for having us. 186 00:07:35,958 --> 00:07:39,250 - So I want to know about your lives, 187 00:07:39,375 --> 00:07:40,292 your journey together, 188 00:07:40,417 --> 00:07:42,667 how the relationship has been going. 189 00:07:42,750 --> 00:07:44,500 Then we're gonna put your words and your story in here, 190 00:07:44,667 --> 00:07:47,750 so you can take home a personalized song 191 00:07:47,875 --> 00:07:49,542 about your life. 192 00:07:49,667 --> 00:07:50,667 - We both love music, love to dance, 193 00:07:50,833 --> 00:07:54,083 and Nashville is Music City, 194 00:07:54,208 --> 00:07:56,167 so why not create a song together? 195 00:07:56,292 --> 00:07:57,667 - Tell me how you're feeling about how 196 00:07:57,792 --> 00:07:59,333 your journey has been so far. 197 00:07:59,417 --> 00:08:01,250 - Is this your little-- 198 00:08:01,375 --> 00:08:04,083 - Yes, yeah, that is Wade Wilson. 199 00:08:04,208 --> 00:08:05,208 - Wade? - Hey, Wade. 200 00:08:05,375 --> 00:08:06,750 - Hey, Wade! 201 00:08:06,875 --> 00:08:08,542 - I've never seen a bunny hopping 202 00:08:08,667 --> 00:08:09,750 around someone's house. 203 00:08:09,875 --> 00:08:12,375 - I know. He's the famous mascot. 204 00:08:12,500 --> 00:08:14,083 He kind of gets everybody to open up 205 00:08:14,208 --> 00:08:15,500 when the music can't yet. 206 00:08:15,625 --> 00:08:16,667 Speaking of which, let me have it. 207 00:08:16,792 --> 00:08:20,125 - I think we both agreed on that it's been 208 00:08:20,208 --> 00:08:21,208 an emotional roller coaster. 209 00:08:21,375 --> 00:08:23,792 - Yeah, we have our good days. 210 00:08:23,875 --> 00:08:27,500 But we still was there for each other. 211 00:08:27,625 --> 00:08:30,333 - This is great. Keep on, yeah. 212 00:08:30,458 --> 00:08:32,458 - We went to Jamaica. 213 00:08:32,583 --> 00:08:35,167 - We went to Gatlinburg for our couples retreat. 214 00:08:35,333 --> 00:08:36,667 - Oh, Smoky Mountains! 215 00:08:36,792 --> 00:08:37,875 - We were in the Smoky Mountains. 216 00:08:38,042 --> 00:08:39,125 - OK, yeah. 217 00:08:39,208 --> 00:08:40,500 - From the beach to the mountains. 218 00:08:40,667 --> 00:08:41,542 - Yeah, from the beach to the mountains. 219 00:08:41,667 --> 00:08:43,042 I've got a lyricist. 220 00:08:43,167 --> 00:08:46,500 So it's been an emotional roller coaster. 221 00:08:46,625 --> 00:08:48,958 But-- - On this journey. 222 00:08:49,042 --> 00:08:50,792 - Ah, thank you! 223 00:08:50,917 --> 00:08:55,792 ♪ Do-do-do, I've got your back, do-do-do-do ♪ 224 00:08:55,875 --> 00:08:58,333 - One call away, I'll be right where you're at? 225 00:08:58,458 --> 00:09:01,875 - Ooh, yes, another hit from the lyricist! 226 00:09:02,000 --> 00:09:03,625 - [laughs] 227 00:09:03,708 --> 00:09:05,333 - You can put something up in there about, 228 00:09:05,500 --> 00:09:06,500 like, trust the process. 229 00:09:06,583 --> 00:09:08,500 - I like that. 230 00:09:08,625 --> 00:09:10,667 What is your heart's desire? 231 00:09:10,750 --> 00:09:15,625 I want to say this, or I hope that it can be 232 00:09:15,708 --> 00:09:17,667 a happy ending, you know? 233 00:09:17,792 --> 00:09:19,958 - Definitely, the goal is to be happy. 234 00:09:20,083 --> 00:09:22,250 - And I definitely want you to know that like, 235 00:09:22,375 --> 00:09:24,708 I am here to support you. 236 00:09:24,833 --> 00:09:28,333 And how you feel in this marriage definitely matters. 237 00:09:28,500 --> 00:09:30,667 Like, I want the both of us to be happy. 238 00:09:30,792 --> 00:09:33,250 And I always tell you that. 239 00:09:33,375 --> 00:09:36,167 - ♪ To be happy ♪ 240 00:09:36,292 --> 00:09:38,250 ♪ To be right ♪ 241 00:09:38,375 --> 00:09:41,000 ♪ I just want you to know ♪ 242 00:09:41,125 --> 00:09:42,667 - OK. - Yeah! 243 00:09:42,750 --> 00:09:45,000 All right! - ♪ I just want you to know ♪ 244 00:09:45,125 --> 00:09:46,833 - That's awesome. - Yeah, I try, I try, I try. 245 00:09:46,958 --> 00:09:47,792 - I got a singer over here. 246 00:09:47,875 --> 00:09:50,708 - You should sing a verse. - Yes! 247 00:09:50,833 --> 00:09:52,708 I want you to give it a go on singing. 248 00:09:52,833 --> 00:09:54,792 - OK. - Are you ready? 249 00:09:54,875 --> 00:09:56,250 - I'm ready. Let's give it a try. 250 00:09:56,375 --> 00:09:58,167 - All right, my dear. 251 00:10:00,250 --> 00:10:01,667 Talk to me, girl. 252 00:10:01,833 --> 00:10:02,958 - Hey, Kate! - Can you hear? 253 00:10:03,083 --> 00:10:05,750 - Yes. - Awesome. 254 00:10:06,875 --> 00:10:08,167 - You're in your element. 255 00:10:08,250 --> 00:10:12,000 - And I'll cue you. 256 00:10:12,125 --> 00:10:15,208 - ♪ To be happy ♪ 257 00:10:15,333 --> 00:10:17,500 ♪ To be right ♪ 258 00:10:17,667 --> 00:10:22,625 ♪ Trusting in the process and everything will be ♪ 259 00:10:22,708 --> 00:10:29,500 ♪ All right ♪ 260 00:10:29,625 --> 00:10:32,375 - Way to sing out! Way to sing out! 261 00:10:32,542 --> 00:10:35,167 - I always sing out! 262 00:10:35,250 --> 00:10:38,125 - So sweet, guys, so sweet. - You did good. 263 00:10:38,250 --> 00:10:39,667 - Thank you, thank you, thank you, thank you. 264 00:10:39,792 --> 00:10:41,000 That was fun. Thank you. 265 00:10:41,125 --> 00:10:42,167 - Did you have fun with that? - I did. 266 00:10:42,333 --> 00:10:43,417 - Yeah? It feels good? 267 00:10:43,542 --> 00:10:44,917 - It feels amazing. 268 00:10:45,042 --> 00:10:47,458 - All right, let's play this thing. 269 00:10:47,542 --> 00:10:50,333 [string music playing] 270 00:10:50,458 --> 00:10:53,958 ♪ ♪ 271 00:10:54,083 --> 00:11:00,167 ♪ It's been an emotional roller coaster ♪ 272 00:11:00,333 --> 00:11:02,333 - Seeing Shaquille looking at me and smiling, 273 00:11:02,458 --> 00:11:04,833 it makes me feel really happy. 274 00:11:04,958 --> 00:11:08,125 This moment right now in time is giving me insight. 275 00:11:08,250 --> 00:11:10,833 Like, it's reminding me of the good times Shaquille 276 00:11:10,917 --> 00:11:12,750 and I have spent together. 277 00:11:12,875 --> 00:11:14,750 ♪ Trusting in the process ♪ 278 00:11:14,875 --> 00:11:21,625 ♪ And everything will be all right ♪ 279 00:11:21,708 --> 00:11:24,833 And how much we have accomplished and achieved. 280 00:11:24,917 --> 00:11:27,625 And I'm really hoping that he sees that as well. 281 00:11:27,750 --> 00:11:29,542 So just soaking all of this in right now. 282 00:11:29,667 --> 00:11:31,542 And just, all my emotions are coming over me. 283 00:11:31,708 --> 00:11:34,125 Like, we really have to make a decision 284 00:11:34,250 --> 00:11:35,583 if we're gonna stay together or not. 285 00:11:35,708 --> 00:11:37,750 - ♪ To be happy ♪ 286 00:11:37,875 --> 00:11:40,167 ♪ Yeah, to be right ♪ 287 00:11:40,250 --> 00:11:45,167 ♪ Trusting in the process that everything will be ♪ 288 00:11:45,250 --> 00:11:47,667 ♪ All right ♪ 289 00:11:47,792 --> 00:11:49,458 Keep singing, keep singing. 290 00:11:49,583 --> 00:11:51,125 - Yeah. 291 00:11:56,208 --> 00:11:58,083 Oh. 292 00:12:01,458 --> 00:12:02,667 [sighs] 293 00:12:02,750 --> 00:12:04,667 That was nice. 294 00:12:04,833 --> 00:12:06,583 Did you have a good time today? 295 00:12:06,708 --> 00:12:07,458 - I really did. 296 00:12:07,583 --> 00:12:09,667 I think out of all the dates, 297 00:12:09,750 --> 00:12:11,917 this has probably been my best one. 298 00:12:12,042 --> 00:12:14,875 - I would say that this has definitely been 299 00:12:15,042 --> 00:12:17,000 a sentimental time for the both of us, you know? 300 00:12:17,125 --> 00:12:23,250 And I know that you are still wanting to feel 301 00:12:23,375 --> 00:12:24,708 secure in this marriage. 302 00:12:24,833 --> 00:12:26,208 And you want the whole family dynamic. 303 00:12:26,375 --> 00:12:28,250 It's taken a while. 304 00:12:31,125 --> 00:12:34,708 Once this eight weeks' process is over, 305 00:12:34,875 --> 00:12:36,208 you'll see more of my dad. 306 00:12:36,375 --> 00:12:38,375 You'll see my grandma. You'll see my aunts. 307 00:12:38,542 --> 00:12:39,875 You'll see my brother and sister. 308 00:12:40,042 --> 00:12:43,333 Like, we'll have time to be around my family. 309 00:12:43,417 --> 00:12:45,125 Trust and believe. - Yeah. 310 00:12:45,250 --> 00:12:48,667 - Trust and believe. 311 00:12:48,792 --> 00:12:50,583 Do you believe that? 312 00:12:50,708 --> 00:12:52,500 - I believe it. - Good. 313 00:12:52,625 --> 00:12:54,333 - I think everything comes with time. 314 00:12:54,417 --> 00:12:58,667 I guess I got to just wait till that moment happens, you know? 315 00:12:58,750 --> 00:13:00,167 And more so, I definitely want to feel 316 00:13:00,333 --> 00:13:04,000 secure in this marriage. 317 00:13:04,083 --> 00:13:06,167 And at times, I don't really know if I do. 318 00:13:06,333 --> 00:13:10,167 [soft hip-hop music] 319 00:13:13,750 --> 00:13:14,875 [soft tense music] 320 00:13:15,000 --> 00:13:19,292 - I definitely want to feel secure in this marriage. 321 00:13:19,375 --> 00:13:22,458 And at times, I don't really know if I do. 322 00:13:22,542 --> 00:13:24,458 ♪ ♪ 323 00:13:24,542 --> 00:13:26,042 - Why don't you feel secure? 324 00:13:26,167 --> 00:13:28,000 Like, what security are you needing 325 00:13:28,125 --> 00:13:30,333 within this marriage besides the whole family relationship? 326 00:13:30,417 --> 00:13:33,667 - It's just the sense of security, you know? 327 00:13:33,750 --> 00:13:35,375 And I know that the support thing has 328 00:13:35,500 --> 00:13:38,917 been a big thing from day one. 329 00:13:39,042 --> 00:13:40,625 But that's the only thing I really needed. 330 00:13:40,708 --> 00:13:42,333 - Yeah. 331 00:13:42,417 --> 00:13:44,292 - Because I do have-- I always have a lot going on. 332 00:13:44,375 --> 00:13:45,500 - Yeah, you do. 333 00:13:45,667 --> 00:13:47,458 - But like, when things happen, 334 00:13:47,542 --> 00:13:50,500 it's kind of like a missing piece. 335 00:13:50,625 --> 00:13:55,667 - I mean, I'm here for you, and I always tell you that. 336 00:13:55,833 --> 00:13:57,667 And like I always say, it may not be how 337 00:13:57,750 --> 00:13:59,208 you expect the support to be. 338 00:13:59,375 --> 00:14:01,000 But I'm here for you. 339 00:14:01,083 --> 00:14:04,167 And I just hope that you hear me when I say that. 340 00:14:04,250 --> 00:14:06,000 - Yeah, and I truly believe you when you say it. 341 00:14:06,125 --> 00:14:08,333 I say it in certain moments. 342 00:14:08,500 --> 00:14:11,208 Like, I make sure when you have things going on, 343 00:14:11,333 --> 00:14:14,042 it's like, OK, I'm actively listening. 344 00:14:14,167 --> 00:14:16,958 How do I make sure I show more affection and everything else? 345 00:14:17,042 --> 00:14:20,167 But some way down the line, it's like, 346 00:14:20,292 --> 00:14:23,708 making sure Kirsten adheres to my needs too. 347 00:14:23,875 --> 00:14:26,125 - I do feel like I'm supporting him. 348 00:14:26,208 --> 00:14:28,458 And it still doesn't seem or sound like 349 00:14:28,542 --> 00:14:30,458 it's enough for Shaquille. 350 00:14:30,583 --> 00:14:32,542 And it is frustrating hearing this time after time 351 00:14:32,667 --> 00:14:35,000 after time because I know that it's something 352 00:14:35,125 --> 00:14:36,833 that I definitely feel like I can give to Shaquille. 353 00:14:36,917 --> 00:14:39,958 So I just really hope that he can know that. 354 00:14:40,083 --> 00:14:41,375 - For me, it's really just 355 00:14:41,500 --> 00:14:43,000 making sure that both of us are happy. 356 00:14:43,167 --> 00:14:46,500 - Mm-hmm, I feel like things will get better. 357 00:14:46,583 --> 00:14:51,500 But you know, it's up to you to believe me. 358 00:14:51,625 --> 00:14:53,792 Really is. 359 00:14:53,917 --> 00:14:56,708 [soft music] 360 00:14:56,833 --> 00:14:59,542 ♪ ♪ 361 00:14:59,667 --> 00:15:02,500 [soft guitar music] 362 00:15:02,583 --> 00:15:05,167 ♪ ♪ 363 00:15:05,250 --> 00:15:09,125 - ♪ We lost control of the game we play ♪ 364 00:15:09,208 --> 00:15:15,042 ♪ ♪ 365 00:15:15,167 --> 00:15:17,333 - After meeting with the experts, some of the comments, 366 00:15:17,500 --> 00:15:19,333 the disparaging comments that Gina made, 367 00:15:19,458 --> 00:15:21,667 it's like, I think I was completely blindsided. 368 00:15:21,792 --> 00:15:23,375 I think it was unwarranted. 369 00:15:23,542 --> 00:15:25,208 I think it was a little bit of a character attack. 370 00:15:25,333 --> 00:15:29,500 ♪ ♪ 371 00:15:29,583 --> 00:15:32,958 But you know, I'm just-- I'm going to rise above it. 372 00:15:33,083 --> 00:15:34,833 I want to enjoy this day and this moment. 373 00:15:34,958 --> 00:15:37,500 - Hello! - Hey, guys. 374 00:15:37,625 --> 00:15:39,125 - Hi! - I'm Clint. 375 00:15:39,208 --> 00:15:40,875 - Hi, Clint. - Lovely to meet you. 376 00:15:41,000 --> 00:15:43,500 - Are we ready to go for a little ride? 377 00:15:43,583 --> 00:15:44,958 - Yeah. - Great. 378 00:15:45,083 --> 00:15:46,375 - Yeah, can I wear my cowboy hat? 379 00:15:46,542 --> 00:15:47,667 - Heck yeah. - Yeah? 380 00:15:47,833 --> 00:15:49,375 - You should, yeah. 381 00:15:49,542 --> 00:15:50,625 - Marriage is not easy. 382 00:15:50,708 --> 00:15:51,875 And it takes a lot of work. 383 00:15:52,000 --> 00:15:53,375 And it takes a lot of communicating. 384 00:15:53,542 --> 00:15:55,625 And I know I had to give him a little bit 385 00:15:55,708 --> 00:15:57,458 of, like, a harsh review. 386 00:15:57,583 --> 00:16:00,250 But he does have a good amount of maturing to do. 387 00:16:02,292 --> 00:16:03,833 - Giddyap! [clicks tongue] 388 00:16:03,917 --> 00:16:07,875 ♪ ♪ 389 00:16:08,000 --> 00:16:09,750 I heard Tennessee walking horses 390 00:16:09,875 --> 00:16:11,167 are like riding on a Cadillac. 391 00:16:11,250 --> 00:16:12,500 - Yeah. - Nice. 392 00:16:12,667 --> 00:16:12,917 - Yeah, you just sit and glide. 393 00:16:13,042 --> 00:16:15,333 - Amazing. 394 00:16:15,458 --> 00:16:17,458 - Yeah. - Look at all the horses! 395 00:16:17,542 --> 00:16:19,333 - I've got about 14 different breeds 396 00:16:19,458 --> 00:16:20,542 of horses on the farm all together. 397 00:16:20,667 --> 00:16:21,708 - Oh, wow! 398 00:16:21,875 --> 00:16:24,792 - This handsome man is Ombre. 399 00:16:24,875 --> 00:16:26,167 - Hey, buddy. 400 00:16:26,292 --> 00:16:27,833 - And then the white one over there, 401 00:16:28,000 --> 00:16:28,583 that's the one you're going to be riding. 402 00:16:28,708 --> 00:16:30,042 - I love, aww. 403 00:16:30,167 --> 00:16:31,917 - Yeah. - You're a big boy. 404 00:16:32,042 --> 00:16:34,000 - We are snuggle buddies, huh? 405 00:16:34,167 --> 00:16:36,167 - Oh, my God. 406 00:16:36,292 --> 00:16:38,792 - You're a good little buddy. 407 00:16:38,875 --> 00:16:41,625 We are chillaxed. - Good. 408 00:16:41,708 --> 00:16:43,833 All right, follow me. We'll go to the outdoor. 409 00:16:43,958 --> 00:16:45,583 - Are you ready, bud? 410 00:16:47,375 --> 00:16:49,292 What's your breakfast of choice? 411 00:16:49,375 --> 00:16:51,750 You look like a yogurt man to me, 412 00:16:51,875 --> 00:16:54,500 something bone-fortifying? 413 00:16:54,625 --> 00:16:56,875 - Good job. 414 00:16:57,042 --> 00:16:59,875 Nicely done, very nicely done. 415 00:17:00,000 --> 00:17:01,500 - You want to go this way? OK. 416 00:17:01,625 --> 00:17:07,625 ♪ ♪ 417 00:17:07,750 --> 00:17:12,458 - ♪ Remember when the ghosts felt too close to ignore ♪ 418 00:17:12,583 --> 00:17:16,500 ♪ And every day, we live to change our mind ♪ 419 00:17:16,625 --> 00:17:18,083 ♪ ♪ 420 00:17:18,208 --> 00:17:21,625 ♪ We flipped a coin, you know ♪ 421 00:17:21,708 --> 00:17:24,125 ♪ How far away it go ♪ 422 00:17:24,208 --> 00:17:29,625 ♪ And never missed a chance to start a fight ♪ 423 00:17:29,708 --> 00:17:36,000 ♪ Ooh, I miss those days sometimes ♪ 424 00:17:36,167 --> 00:17:39,000 ♪ Can't beat this simple life ♪ 425 00:17:39,125 --> 00:17:40,833 - Thank you so, guys, for visiting. 426 00:17:40,958 --> 00:17:42,500 - Thank you for having us! - Yeah, that was so much fun. 427 00:17:42,583 --> 00:17:44,500 - This was amazing. - Thanks for having us, yeah. 428 00:17:44,625 --> 00:17:46,792 Well, I've got a picnic basket in the car. 429 00:17:46,875 --> 00:17:48,083 - Oh, cool! - So-- 430 00:17:48,208 --> 00:17:50,167 - Well, go enjoy! 431 00:17:50,292 --> 00:17:51,542 - I think we're gonna just hang on the grounds. 432 00:17:51,708 --> 00:17:53,000 - Have a little lunch. - Go enjoy, OK! 433 00:17:53,083 --> 00:17:54,417 Great, thank you. Great meeting you. 434 00:17:54,542 --> 00:17:55,542 - Take care, guys. Take care, darling. 435 00:17:55,708 --> 00:17:56,833 OK, bye. 436 00:17:56,958 --> 00:17:58,250 - See ya, thanks. 437 00:17:58,375 --> 00:18:00,000 - Bye! - Bye! 438 00:18:00,125 --> 00:18:04,375 ♪ ♪ 439 00:18:04,500 --> 00:18:09,000 - Well, I brought some goodies for us to divulge in here. 440 00:18:09,167 --> 00:18:10,833 We've got our favorite. 441 00:18:10,917 --> 00:18:13,375 - 2014. - 2014. 442 00:18:13,500 --> 00:18:15,708 - My first bottle of 2014 was when I found out 443 00:18:15,875 --> 00:18:16,667 I was getting married. 444 00:18:16,750 --> 00:18:18,042 - Yeah. 445 00:18:18,167 --> 00:18:21,542 ♪ ♪ 446 00:18:23,208 --> 00:18:25,042 I got some good distance on that. 447 00:18:25,208 --> 00:18:26,667 - We have to find that before we leave. 448 00:18:26,792 --> 00:18:28,000 - We'll pick it up. - So a horse doesn't eat it. 449 00:18:28,125 --> 00:18:30,250 - We don't want them chewing on that. 450 00:18:36,500 --> 00:18:38,208 I enjoyed this. I really did. 451 00:18:38,333 --> 00:18:40,167 I think I needed it-- especially like, 452 00:18:40,250 --> 00:18:41,875 this week has been-- 453 00:18:42,000 --> 00:18:43,875 - A little crazy? - It's been crazy. 454 00:18:44,000 --> 00:18:47,750 It's been emotionally crazy. 455 00:18:47,875 --> 00:18:48,958 I mean, there were some things 456 00:18:49,083 --> 00:18:50,625 you touched on with the experts. 457 00:18:50,708 --> 00:18:53,667 And I was kind of taken aback on some of them-- 458 00:18:53,750 --> 00:18:59,000 something to the effect of, I had odd and weird energy. 459 00:18:59,167 --> 00:19:00,542 I was like, I've never ever heard that. 460 00:19:00,667 --> 00:19:02,875 - I don't know if that was my exact verbiage, but-- 461 00:19:03,042 --> 00:19:07,500 Clint's personality is, like, outrageous, and wild, and fun. 462 00:19:07,625 --> 00:19:09,042 And he's the life of the party. 463 00:19:09,167 --> 00:19:10,792 And he brings this bizarre energy, 464 00:19:10,917 --> 00:19:12,292 which sounds terrible to say. 465 00:19:12,417 --> 00:19:14,667 But for me, it's not someone that you like, 466 00:19:14,792 --> 00:19:16,500 are attracted to. 467 00:19:16,583 --> 00:19:18,333 No, you are-- you're bizarre, Clint. 468 00:19:18,417 --> 00:19:20,667 Like, you are outrageous. 469 00:19:20,750 --> 00:19:22,667 You are. 470 00:19:22,792 --> 00:19:23,708 [tense music] 471 00:19:27,375 --> 00:19:29,458 - No, you are-- you're bizarre, Clint. 472 00:19:29,583 --> 00:19:32,042 Like, you are outrageous. I think I said outrageous. 473 00:19:32,167 --> 00:19:34,042 - OK. - You are. 474 00:19:34,208 --> 00:19:35,583 - I was curious. 475 00:19:35,708 --> 00:19:36,875 And I was like, I don't know how to feel. 476 00:19:37,000 --> 00:19:38,333 I need to process. 477 00:19:38,458 --> 00:19:40,875 This is just very out of left field, 478 00:19:41,000 --> 00:19:45,208 I was like--because you never said that before. 479 00:19:45,333 --> 00:19:47,500 - But sometimes, it's just that like, 480 00:19:47,583 --> 00:19:52,375 the silly jokester, crass, dancing, loud, 481 00:19:52,500 --> 00:19:55,708 drunk person sometimes isn't-- 482 00:19:55,833 --> 00:19:58,167 - On special occasions, yeah. I get it. 483 00:19:58,333 --> 00:20:01,083 I'm an eccentric person, no doubt about it. 484 00:20:01,208 --> 00:20:02,500 - And it's not bad. 485 00:20:02,625 --> 00:20:04,125 Like, I don't-- that's why it sucks, like, 486 00:20:04,250 --> 00:20:05,208 pointing things out-- like, exactly 487 00:20:05,375 --> 00:20:06,500 like the honeymoon situation. 488 00:20:06,625 --> 00:20:08,458 It's like, you say something. 489 00:20:08,542 --> 00:20:10,708 And you're like, wait, that's not quite what I meant. 490 00:20:10,875 --> 00:20:14,000 - Yeah, yeah, I get it. 491 00:20:14,125 --> 00:20:16,083 Good, I'm glad we talked about that. 492 00:20:16,208 --> 00:20:19,000 - Yeah. Sorry if I made you feel bad. 493 00:20:19,125 --> 00:20:21,583 - No, it's all good. It's all good. 494 00:20:21,708 --> 00:20:25,333 I mean, we both went into this with the right mentality 495 00:20:25,417 --> 00:20:28,125 and the right mindset and wanting to meet the forever. 496 00:20:28,250 --> 00:20:30,333 - Yeah. - And that's hard. 497 00:20:30,458 --> 00:20:32,167 I mean, I've never been able to do it. 498 00:20:32,292 --> 00:20:34,000 So that's what sparked me to be like, 499 00:20:34,125 --> 00:20:36,167 yeah, let me give this a chance because what I'm doing 500 00:20:36,292 --> 00:20:37,917 traditionally isn't working. 501 00:20:38,042 --> 00:20:39,458 I mean, it's been a lot. - Yeah. 502 00:20:39,583 --> 00:20:41,917 - Yeah, it's been peaks and valleys. 503 00:20:42,042 --> 00:20:45,333 But I think we went through this as a team. 504 00:20:45,417 --> 00:20:47,250 And we've had a good time. 505 00:20:47,375 --> 00:20:49,500 And that's what all the other couples always say, 506 00:20:49,583 --> 00:20:51,417 is they're like, you guys just get along really well. 507 00:20:51,542 --> 00:20:53,250 It's very, like, natural. 508 00:20:53,375 --> 00:20:55,167 And you guys just ping-pong things off each other. 509 00:20:55,250 --> 00:20:56,917 And you work good, collectively. 510 00:20:57,042 --> 00:20:59,625 I'm like, it's solid to hear from other people. 511 00:20:59,708 --> 00:21:01,833 And I need that. I definitely need that. 512 00:21:01,958 --> 00:21:04,333 And that's important to me. - Absolutely. 513 00:21:04,417 --> 00:21:08,458 I mean, we're covering typically what most couples 514 00:21:08,542 --> 00:21:10,208 would cover in like, six months to a year, 515 00:21:10,333 --> 00:21:11,167 I feel like we've done in two months. 516 00:21:11,292 --> 00:21:12,625 - Yeah. 517 00:21:12,750 --> 00:21:13,792 - Like, I do want to be with someone. 518 00:21:13,875 --> 00:21:15,500 That's why I did this. 519 00:21:15,625 --> 00:21:17,875 So I want to really think back on all the things 520 00:21:18,042 --> 00:21:21,833 that we've done and how much growth we've actually had 521 00:21:22,000 --> 00:21:25,000 and what I truly need in a marriage and what I want, so... 522 00:21:25,125 --> 00:21:26,333 - Yeah. 523 00:21:26,458 --> 00:21:28,917 - [vocalizing] 524 00:21:29,042 --> 00:21:32,542 ♪ Can't beat this simple life ♪ 525 00:21:32,667 --> 00:21:35,208 ♪ ♪ 526 00:21:35,375 --> 00:21:40,167 [upbeat music] 527 00:21:40,250 --> 00:21:44,167 - ♪ You took a shot ♪ 528 00:21:44,333 --> 00:21:47,000 ♪ At my heart ♪ 529 00:21:47,167 --> 00:21:50,000 ♪ ♪ 530 00:21:50,125 --> 00:21:52,083 - Welcome. 531 00:21:52,208 --> 00:21:53,917 Be careful of the stairs. 532 00:21:54,042 --> 00:21:55,583 - Oh, look at that. 533 00:21:55,708 --> 00:21:57,083 - So pretty! - It's very pretty. 534 00:21:57,208 --> 00:22:00,167 - What do you think? You like it? 535 00:22:00,250 --> 00:22:01,917 - It's amazing. 536 00:22:05,542 --> 00:22:07,125 - Yeah, I wanted to surprise you. 537 00:22:07,208 --> 00:22:09,667 And we have a chef coming to prepare 538 00:22:09,750 --> 00:22:11,833 a beautifully curated menu for us. 539 00:22:12,000 --> 00:22:13,125 - Is it Clint? 540 00:22:13,208 --> 00:22:14,708 - It is not Clint. - No. 541 00:22:14,833 --> 00:22:16,333 - It is not, it is not Kristy's kitchen. - He's a great cook, though. 542 00:22:16,417 --> 00:22:17,333 I will say that. He's very cool. 543 00:22:17,417 --> 00:22:19,500 - How y'all doing? - Hi, how are you? 544 00:22:19,667 --> 00:22:21,167 - How you doing? - I'm doing really well. 545 00:22:21,333 --> 00:22:23,458 My name is Chef Chance. - This looks--yeah, really good. 546 00:22:23,542 --> 00:22:24,875 - Wow. - Wow. 547 00:22:25,000 --> 00:22:28,708 - Thank you. Only the best for my baby. 548 00:22:28,875 --> 00:22:30,792 - That's good. 549 00:22:30,875 --> 00:22:32,958 There's a lot going on with it. 550 00:22:33,083 --> 00:22:34,792 [soft music] 551 00:22:34,875 --> 00:22:36,375 - So if I say no on Decision Day, 552 00:22:36,500 --> 00:22:39,583 it's because I'm marrying the steak. 553 00:22:39,708 --> 00:22:41,833 Sorry, experts, I'm choosing steak. 554 00:22:41,958 --> 00:22:43,333 - Mm-hmm. - Yeah? 555 00:22:43,417 --> 00:22:44,792 - Mm-hmm. 556 00:22:44,917 --> 00:22:46,292 - Every fantasy I've had about being in love 557 00:22:46,375 --> 00:22:48,458 and sharing a romantic night with my husband, 558 00:22:48,542 --> 00:22:50,375 this is what those fantasies were about. 559 00:22:50,542 --> 00:22:52,000 I'm thrilled, 560 00:22:52,125 --> 00:22:54,250 and I hope we have many more outings like this 561 00:22:54,375 --> 00:22:56,542 to come in our future. 562 00:22:56,667 --> 00:22:58,333 - All right, my friends. 563 00:22:58,417 --> 00:23:00,042 - What do we have here? 564 00:23:00,167 --> 00:23:03,583 - So what we have is a lavender earl gray creme brulee. 565 00:23:03,708 --> 00:23:05,208 It's just missing the brulee part. 566 00:23:05,333 --> 00:23:06,250 - Yeah. - OK. 567 00:23:06,375 --> 00:23:07,708 - It's the best part. 568 00:23:07,875 --> 00:23:08,417 - All right, so I got one for you and one for you. 569 00:23:08,542 --> 00:23:11,125 - All right. - Ready? 570 00:23:11,250 --> 00:23:12,625 Go. 571 00:23:12,750 --> 00:23:14,667 Yeah, just spread it all around, getting crispy. 572 00:23:14,750 --> 00:23:16,000 That's beautiful. Look at this. 573 00:23:16,125 --> 00:23:18,250 He's winning. [laughter] 574 00:23:18,375 --> 00:23:20,417 Beautifully done! - I win. 575 00:23:20,542 --> 00:23:22,667 - No, I win! 576 00:23:22,792 --> 00:23:27,000 - I do say, I think hers is a little bit more even. 577 00:23:27,125 --> 00:23:28,667 And the coloring is a little deeper, sorry. 578 00:23:28,792 --> 00:23:29,958 - That's OK. - She wins. 579 00:23:30,042 --> 00:23:33,792 - You know, these nights are so magical. 580 00:23:33,875 --> 00:23:35,792 And it's mind-blowing to me how comfortable 581 00:23:35,875 --> 00:23:38,625 we are around each other, which I think 582 00:23:38,750 --> 00:23:39,500 is my favorite part of our marriage 583 00:23:39,667 --> 00:23:42,292 because we can truly be ourselves. 584 00:23:42,375 --> 00:23:45,667 But I don't want us to ever get lost in that comfortability 585 00:23:45,750 --> 00:23:47,500 because I feel like that could lead 586 00:23:47,667 --> 00:23:49,833 to almost a friend zone, where we're like, yeah, 587 00:23:49,958 --> 00:23:51,917 we have so much fun, and we're so comfortable, 588 00:23:52,042 --> 00:23:53,667 and things are great, 589 00:23:53,750 --> 00:23:55,583 but we're not holding on to that key foundation 590 00:23:55,708 --> 00:23:57,417 that really made us fall in love. 591 00:23:57,542 --> 00:23:59,542 So I don't anticipate that happening. 592 00:23:59,667 --> 00:24:01,833 But I just need to put it out there as something 593 00:24:01,917 --> 00:24:04,667 that I would love for us to make a main focus, 594 00:24:04,792 --> 00:24:07,083 should we both say yes on Decision Day. 595 00:24:07,208 --> 00:24:09,458 - It's valid. 596 00:24:09,583 --> 00:24:11,417 I mean, I think the biggest thing 597 00:24:11,542 --> 00:24:14,375 for me is just making sure that our communication 598 00:24:14,542 --> 00:24:15,708 stays consistent. 599 00:24:15,875 --> 00:24:16,792 You don't want it to get to a point 600 00:24:16,875 --> 00:24:18,083 where we're like, distant, so-- 601 00:24:18,208 --> 00:24:19,208 - Right. 602 00:24:19,333 --> 00:24:20,542 - If we went months 603 00:24:20,667 --> 00:24:22,958 without living with each other, 604 00:24:23,042 --> 00:24:26,000 you can potentially go backwards in the relationship, 605 00:24:26,083 --> 00:24:26,958 not be as close. 606 00:24:27,042 --> 00:24:29,292 - Right. 607 00:24:29,375 --> 00:24:32,042 I want us to live together. There's no secret to that. 608 00:24:32,208 --> 00:24:35,833 So it's like, if we can't make that decision yet, it's like, 609 00:24:35,958 --> 00:24:37,708 is it because we don't feel like we're 610 00:24:37,833 --> 00:24:39,000 ready to live together? 611 00:24:39,125 --> 00:24:41,000 And if we're not ready to live together, 612 00:24:41,167 --> 00:24:43,083 is it because we don't feel confident in our relationship? 613 00:24:43,208 --> 00:24:46,000 So I think I'm just getting very much in my head. 614 00:24:46,125 --> 00:24:47,458 But-- - As you do. 615 00:24:47,583 --> 00:24:48,833 - As I do. 616 00:24:48,917 --> 00:24:50,500 But it is very important to me 617 00:24:50,583 --> 00:24:51,500 that we figure out the living situation. 618 00:24:51,667 --> 00:24:53,042 - I know. 619 00:24:53,167 --> 00:24:54,458 - You know, I don't like things looming. 620 00:24:54,583 --> 00:24:56,625 I don't like, let's wait and see. 621 00:24:56,708 --> 00:24:59,083 - No, and again, I totally hear you on it. 622 00:24:59,208 --> 00:25:03,542 But it's probably best to wait until after Decision Day 623 00:25:03,667 --> 00:25:05,833 to figure out those next decisions 624 00:25:05,958 --> 00:25:08,250 that are gonna impact us financially 625 00:25:08,375 --> 00:25:09,833 and everything else. 626 00:25:09,917 --> 00:25:12,042 And like, obviously, it's a huge commitment 627 00:25:12,167 --> 00:25:13,833 to live with each other. 628 00:25:13,958 --> 00:25:17,000 And we kind of have to address things one at a time. 629 00:25:17,083 --> 00:25:18,083 And right now, what's in front of us is Decision Day. 630 00:25:18,208 --> 00:25:21,750 So I think we need to just focus on that. 631 00:25:21,875 --> 00:25:25,042 And then once that's done, we'll focus on the rest. 632 00:25:25,167 --> 00:25:26,792 - You know, I want to make sure I'm not falling 633 00:25:26,875 --> 00:25:29,917 into this happy bubble and just making a decision 634 00:25:30,042 --> 00:25:32,042 because yes, everything is great now. 635 00:25:32,208 --> 00:25:35,750 The last thing I would want is to commit to you 636 00:25:35,875 --> 00:25:38,833 and then, a few months down the line, 637 00:25:38,958 --> 00:25:40,625 have my feelings change, 638 00:25:40,750 --> 00:25:42,583 not because of anything you're doing, 639 00:25:42,708 --> 00:25:43,792 but maybe because I'm just making a decision 640 00:25:43,875 --> 00:25:45,917 based on how I feel today. 641 00:25:46,042 --> 00:25:49,083 So please know whatever happens on Decision Day, I love you. 642 00:25:49,208 --> 00:25:49,583 That will never change. 643 00:25:49,708 --> 00:25:52,750 But I need to-- 644 00:25:52,875 --> 00:25:54,417 I need to make sure this is the right decision 645 00:25:54,542 --> 00:25:56,375 for me and for us. 646 00:25:56,542 --> 00:26:02,917 - ♪ Love just fades away ♪ 647 00:26:03,792 --> 00:26:07,958 - ♪ Oh, oh, I got a fever now ♪ 648 00:26:08,042 --> 00:26:10,583 ♪ Oh, oh, it's made me a believer ♪ 649 00:26:10,708 --> 00:26:12,000 [knock at door] 650 00:26:12,125 --> 00:26:14,167 - People. Let's see who it is. 651 00:26:14,333 --> 00:26:16,292 - Hi there. - Hi! 652 00:26:16,375 --> 00:26:19,708 - As we enter the final stretch before Decision Day, 653 00:26:19,833 --> 00:26:22,208 it's important that Pastor Cal and I check in 654 00:26:22,333 --> 00:26:24,333 with the couples to see how they've implemented 655 00:26:24,458 --> 00:26:27,542 all the advice they've received and to make sure 656 00:26:27,708 --> 00:26:29,667 they're addressing any outstanding issues 657 00:26:29,833 --> 00:26:32,333 or questions they may have about their marriages 658 00:26:32,417 --> 00:26:34,208 because in just three days, 659 00:26:34,333 --> 00:26:36,583 they're going to have to decide whether they want 660 00:26:36,708 --> 00:26:40,083 to stay married or get a divorce. 661 00:26:40,208 --> 00:26:44,208 All right, so we are less than a week from decisions. 662 00:26:44,375 --> 00:26:45,375 And-- - Yes. 663 00:26:45,500 --> 00:26:48,250 - So I want to catch up and see where you've been, 664 00:26:48,375 --> 00:26:49,833 and how you are, 665 00:26:49,917 --> 00:26:52,250 and what's going on with you guys. 666 00:26:52,375 --> 00:26:54,958 - I mean, we've gotten a lot of tools from everybody, 667 00:26:55,042 --> 00:26:57,208 from you two, from Dr. Pia, from DeVon. 668 00:26:57,375 --> 00:26:59,833 And I feel like we've been implementing a lot of-- 669 00:26:59,958 --> 00:27:01,667 we haven't been perfect. 670 00:27:01,750 --> 00:27:05,750 But I think we've made a little progress, 671 00:27:05,875 --> 00:27:09,833 maybe not as much as I would have or she would have liked. 672 00:27:09,958 --> 00:27:11,958 But like, it's still progress. 673 00:27:12,042 --> 00:27:17,042 Like, we haven't reverted or gone backwards. 674 00:27:17,167 --> 00:27:19,917 - Where do you think the progress has been made? 675 00:27:20,042 --> 00:27:23,167 - Just more so with us talking more throughout the day, 676 00:27:23,292 --> 00:27:28,000 him checking in on me, us making sure 677 00:27:28,167 --> 00:27:29,833 we're greeting each other more, 678 00:27:29,917 --> 00:27:33,250 holding hands, hugging, stuff like that, so... 679 00:27:33,375 --> 00:27:34,833 - That's a lot of progress. That's really good. 680 00:27:34,958 --> 00:27:36,125 - Yeah. 681 00:27:36,208 --> 00:27:38,000 - I want to talk about your ability 682 00:27:38,125 --> 00:27:40,292 to affect one another. 683 00:27:40,417 --> 00:27:43,042 And I think that that's a part of your intimacy also 684 00:27:43,167 --> 00:27:45,000 because I mean, do you feel as though you've 685 00:27:45,125 --> 00:27:47,833 rubbed off on each other any? 686 00:27:47,958 --> 00:27:51,417 - Yeah, I've seen her 687 00:27:51,542 --> 00:27:55,750 starting to speak up more. 688 00:27:55,875 --> 00:28:01,333 And she's like, high energy, a little more outgoing than me. 689 00:28:01,500 --> 00:28:04,000 So sometimes, if I was in a social setting, 690 00:28:04,083 --> 00:28:04,833 I might need like, a little drink 691 00:28:04,958 --> 00:28:07,417 to loosen me up a little bit. 692 00:28:07,542 --> 00:28:09,917 But like, when I'm around people and she's there, 693 00:28:10,042 --> 00:28:13,000 I don't even need-- I just feel more comfortable. 694 00:28:13,125 --> 00:28:16,542 Some of my social anxiety kind of goes away. 695 00:28:18,083 --> 00:28:19,583 - And I want you to understand the importance of that. 696 00:28:19,708 --> 00:28:21,917 That is really a big deal. 697 00:28:22,042 --> 00:28:25,083 I mean, how do you feel, knowing that the other person 698 00:28:25,208 --> 00:28:26,958 is being changed because of you? 699 00:28:27,042 --> 00:28:28,292 How does that make you feel, Jasmine? 700 00:28:28,375 --> 00:28:29,917 - I mean, it makes me feel good because, 701 00:28:30,042 --> 00:28:31,125 at the end of the day, every day, 702 00:28:31,208 --> 00:28:32,042 you want to become better. 703 00:28:32,167 --> 00:28:34,208 And the fact that you can affect-- 704 00:28:34,333 --> 00:28:36,292 for me, I love to be able to affect someone. 705 00:28:36,375 --> 00:28:38,583 I mean, I'm a cheer coach. I'm a mentor. 706 00:28:38,708 --> 00:28:41,958 That's like, my goal in life, is to be able to possibly 707 00:28:42,042 --> 00:28:43,583 help someone be better. 708 00:28:43,708 --> 00:28:45,792 And so the fact that there's something I've done 709 00:28:45,875 --> 00:28:47,667 that helps him, I love that. 710 00:28:47,750 --> 00:28:51,167 - You know, life is hard, and just to have something-- 711 00:28:51,333 --> 00:28:53,333 I can't always see what I'm doing wrong, you know? 712 00:28:53,458 --> 00:28:55,417 But if someone's behind me, and she notices 713 00:28:55,542 --> 00:28:57,167 I'm going to the left, then she can kind of like, 714 00:28:57,292 --> 00:28:59,292 pull me and make me go to the right a little bit. 715 00:28:59,417 --> 00:29:01,000 I mean, I feel like that's amazing-- 716 00:29:01,125 --> 00:29:03,208 - Do that again. - Pull me to the right. 717 00:29:03,333 --> 00:29:04,792 - You wanted-- just want him to touch me. 718 00:29:04,917 --> 00:29:06,833 - Yeah, I do. 719 00:29:07,000 --> 00:29:09,167 - So just the fact that each of us 720 00:29:09,333 --> 00:29:12,000 are learning from each other and we're improving, 721 00:29:12,083 --> 00:29:13,542 and it's like, it might be little, 722 00:29:13,667 --> 00:29:16,167 but there's a whole lot of little things 723 00:29:16,292 --> 00:29:18,292 that add to, like, the milestones. 724 00:29:18,417 --> 00:29:19,917 - It sounds like marriage to me. 725 00:29:20,042 --> 00:29:21,792 - I think that's a huge compliment. 726 00:29:21,875 --> 00:29:23,500 I really do. 727 00:29:23,583 --> 00:29:24,708 And I think it's great. 728 00:29:24,833 --> 00:29:26,333 - Yeah, it is. 729 00:29:26,458 --> 00:29:30,000 And there's some serious good material 730 00:29:30,125 --> 00:29:31,542 that you guys are working with. 731 00:29:31,667 --> 00:29:34,625 What you're experiencing here is intimacy. 732 00:29:34,750 --> 00:29:35,833 I just need you to recognize it. 733 00:29:35,958 --> 00:29:40,333 - Like, I definitely feel like we have a good foundation. 734 00:29:40,417 --> 00:29:42,625 It might not be where we want it to be. 735 00:29:42,708 --> 00:29:45,250 But what we have is good. 736 00:29:45,375 --> 00:29:50,167 So I definitely think, without all the extra stuff, 737 00:29:50,292 --> 00:29:54,583 that that spark that we're looking for 738 00:29:54,708 --> 00:29:56,542 could potentially happen. 739 00:29:56,667 --> 00:29:58,000 - I would like you to face each other 740 00:29:58,083 --> 00:29:59,125 and look at each other. 741 00:29:59,208 --> 00:30:03,000 Just give each other a couple things that you 742 00:30:03,083 --> 00:30:05,333 really like about each other. 743 00:30:05,417 --> 00:30:10,375 - I love that you are open 744 00:30:10,542 --> 00:30:12,833 to things that maybe I complain about. 745 00:30:12,958 --> 00:30:16,333 You listen. You're a great listener. 746 00:30:16,458 --> 00:30:21,042 I feel like this process has been hard on you. 747 00:30:21,208 --> 00:30:23,250 And just the fact, like, you show so much strength, 748 00:30:23,375 --> 00:30:24,708 I don't think that's-- 749 00:30:24,875 --> 00:30:26,583 - Thank you. - Easy at all. 750 00:30:26,708 --> 00:30:29,042 [soft music] 751 00:30:29,208 --> 00:30:30,625 - I feel like you are really patient with me, 752 00:30:30,750 --> 00:30:33,583 with me not being able to communicate and open up. 753 00:30:33,708 --> 00:30:37,375 But you pushed me to be better at that 754 00:30:37,500 --> 00:30:39,833 because you knew we needed it for our marriage. 755 00:30:39,958 --> 00:30:41,667 - Well, that was wonderful. 756 00:30:41,750 --> 00:30:46,292 And you have held each other in all the important ways. 757 00:30:46,375 --> 00:30:48,083 - And I love your hand placement. 758 00:30:48,208 --> 00:30:50,000 [laughter] 759 00:30:50,167 --> 00:30:51,292 - Right on the right cheek. 760 00:30:51,375 --> 00:30:52,667 - Stop. - Do more. 761 00:30:52,833 --> 00:30:53,667 [laughter] 762 00:30:53,750 --> 00:30:57,333 Was there anything that you want to add? 763 00:30:57,500 --> 00:30:59,417 - I mean, I feel like that there 764 00:30:59,542 --> 00:31:02,583 is a possibility of it working after Decision Day 765 00:31:02,708 --> 00:31:04,458 if we put in the work. 766 00:31:04,542 --> 00:31:06,333 But some days, I feel like he's in, 767 00:31:06,458 --> 00:31:08,125 and some days, I feel like he's out. 768 00:31:08,208 --> 00:31:10,042 So I believe that. 769 00:31:10,208 --> 00:31:11,833 I agree with you. 770 00:31:11,917 --> 00:31:16,333 But I don't want to just do it just to do it. 771 00:31:16,500 --> 00:31:19,417 I want to do it and feel like there's going to be a change. 772 00:31:19,542 --> 00:31:21,375 - It seems as though you really haven't-- 773 00:31:21,500 --> 00:31:25,292 you really can't truly say your marriage 774 00:31:25,375 --> 00:31:28,708 is or is not working until you've 775 00:31:28,833 --> 00:31:31,625 tried it outside of this. 776 00:31:31,708 --> 00:31:33,417 - Yes. - Mm-hmm. 777 00:31:33,542 --> 00:31:41,500 - ♪ Everything will be all right ♪ 778 00:31:41,667 --> 00:31:43,125 - ♪ Yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah ♪ 779 00:31:43,208 --> 00:31:44,750 ♪ Yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah ♪ 780 00:31:44,875 --> 00:31:46,417 ♪ Yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah ♪ 781 00:31:46,542 --> 00:31:48,542 [knock at door] - They're here. 782 00:31:48,708 --> 00:31:50,583 - Hello! 783 00:31:50,708 --> 00:31:52,500 - Hi, don't you look great. - You do too! 784 00:31:52,583 --> 00:31:54,333 - Thank you. - So good to see you! 785 00:31:54,500 --> 00:31:56,333 - Hi, sweetie. - Oh, my gosh. 786 00:31:56,458 --> 00:31:57,292 How are you? - I'm good. 787 00:31:57,417 --> 00:31:59,375 - I'm so happy to see y'all today. 788 00:31:59,500 --> 00:32:01,125 - What's up? - Have a seat. 789 00:32:01,250 --> 00:32:02,500 - I'm going to go sit down and-- 790 00:32:02,625 --> 00:32:04,667 - Yeah, get comfy. - Oh, this is cute. 791 00:32:04,792 --> 00:32:06,750 - Yeah, these are vinyls from our-- 792 00:32:06,875 --> 00:32:08,333 - Where'd you get these? Those are awesome. 793 00:32:08,458 --> 00:32:09,917 - We had those for our housewarming party. 794 00:32:10,042 --> 00:32:11,542 - That's very cool. 795 00:32:11,667 --> 00:32:13,958 - So we're of course both very pleased to see you. 796 00:32:14,042 --> 00:32:18,417 So I would like for you to tell me how you feel 797 00:32:18,542 --> 00:32:22,208 you have grown over this period of time. 798 00:32:22,375 --> 00:32:24,500 - Well, we definitely have been learning 799 00:32:24,625 --> 00:32:26,792 each other one day at a time. 800 00:32:26,875 --> 00:32:28,833 We definitely learn how to hear each other 801 00:32:29,000 --> 00:32:31,167 and acknowledge each other when we're speaking. 802 00:32:31,250 --> 00:32:33,667 So we've definitely grown in that aspect. 803 00:32:33,833 --> 00:32:36,125 And I have been trying to lean on Shaquille a little bit more 804 00:32:36,250 --> 00:32:41,792 and let him be the driver and be the leader. 805 00:32:41,917 --> 00:32:44,500 So I definitely feel like I've grown in that aspect. 806 00:32:44,625 --> 00:32:46,542 - That's great. - What about you, big guy? 807 00:32:46,667 --> 00:32:48,833 - [laughs] 808 00:32:48,958 --> 00:32:53,458 I definitely took what you said when we met with you 809 00:32:53,542 --> 00:32:56,417 and you were like, in a marriage, you grow apart, 810 00:32:56,542 --> 00:32:57,375 and you grow together, and you grow apart, 811 00:32:57,542 --> 00:32:59,000 and you grow together. 812 00:32:59,167 --> 00:33:01,000 We were learning what we need to learn. 813 00:33:01,125 --> 00:33:02,667 We took the advice. 814 00:33:02,750 --> 00:33:05,333 But we were just always having miscommunication. 815 00:33:05,500 --> 00:33:07,500 And I feel like we're in two different boats. 816 00:33:07,625 --> 00:33:11,375 We're rowing, but why we can't be in the same boat? 817 00:33:11,500 --> 00:33:14,667 I think, oftentimes, it's really the communication 818 00:33:14,792 --> 00:33:16,875 and understanding each other. 819 00:33:17,000 --> 00:33:19,167 - I feel like, as soon as I tell him something, 820 00:33:19,250 --> 00:33:20,792 he's always able to adjust. 821 00:33:20,917 --> 00:33:24,333 And I know as far as like, everything is always 822 00:33:24,417 --> 00:33:26,042 going to be like, up and down. 823 00:33:26,167 --> 00:33:28,167 Don't try to look at it to where you think everything is 824 00:33:28,292 --> 00:33:29,833 going to be good all the time. 825 00:33:29,917 --> 00:33:32,333 And you can't focus on the bad all the time. 826 00:33:32,417 --> 00:33:33,750 - Well, it seems to me you've learned 827 00:33:33,875 --> 00:33:36,458 how to be accountable to each other, 828 00:33:36,583 --> 00:33:38,667 which is really important. 829 00:33:38,750 --> 00:33:40,750 I mean, for example, I knew it was important for you 830 00:33:40,875 --> 00:33:43,583 to meet her dad, and you've met her dad. 831 00:33:43,708 --> 00:33:45,042 How did that go for you? 832 00:33:45,167 --> 00:33:47,042 - I was excited beyond this world. 833 00:33:47,208 --> 00:33:51,333 - Kirsten and I are leaving her dad and her stepmother's home. 834 00:33:51,458 --> 00:33:53,292 Pretty good time. 835 00:33:53,375 --> 00:33:54,833 - I'm so happy you got to meet my dad today. 836 00:33:54,917 --> 00:33:56,208 - Yeah, he was cool. 837 00:33:56,333 --> 00:33:58,375 It was that simple. - Mm-hmm. 838 00:33:58,500 --> 00:34:00,500 - That simple. 839 00:34:00,625 --> 00:34:02,958 - My dad's like, "Come back any time." 840 00:34:03,042 --> 00:34:05,458 He's like, "We can grab a beer or whatever." 841 00:34:05,542 --> 00:34:07,042 He's ready--my dad was like, ready to have 842 00:34:07,208 --> 00:34:08,875 a good time with him already. 843 00:34:09,042 --> 00:34:11,500 So just hearing that, I'm like, oh, it feel so good. 844 00:34:11,583 --> 00:34:12,833 This moment finally happened. 845 00:34:12,917 --> 00:34:14,375 - It must feel good to you too. 846 00:34:14,500 --> 00:34:16,125 - It felt great. 847 00:34:16,208 --> 00:34:19,750 And I think that's something I said I wanted, you know. 848 00:34:19,875 --> 00:34:23,208 And I'm like, why this couldn't happen just a few weeks ago? 849 00:34:23,375 --> 00:34:26,125 I feel, like, amazing. 850 00:34:26,208 --> 00:34:29,500 And I want to be connected to her family and the people 851 00:34:29,583 --> 00:34:31,542 who love her and support her. 852 00:34:31,708 --> 00:34:34,375 But being that it did happen, it's kind of like, OK. 853 00:34:34,542 --> 00:34:36,917 - Well, as you know, families operate differently. 854 00:34:37,042 --> 00:34:40,333 And part of it is learning how to figure out 855 00:34:40,417 --> 00:34:42,208 each other's family's mode and culture 856 00:34:42,375 --> 00:34:45,208 because they're not going to be the same. 857 00:34:45,375 --> 00:34:47,042 And you can't expect them to be the same. 858 00:34:47,167 --> 00:34:48,833 But she delivered. 859 00:34:48,958 --> 00:34:52,000 And it sounds like you're making great strides, though. 860 00:34:52,083 --> 00:34:55,083 I'm impressed. I like the way you're talking. 861 00:34:55,208 --> 00:34:57,333 - And you guys are-- 862 00:34:57,417 --> 00:35:00,333 I believe you're such a great example. 863 00:35:00,417 --> 00:35:02,458 And you're going to be such a great example 864 00:35:02,542 --> 00:35:05,542 of what a power couple looks like. 865 00:35:05,667 --> 00:35:07,417 We've been doing this for a while. 866 00:35:07,542 --> 00:35:11,667 And we know when we see a couple 867 00:35:11,792 --> 00:35:14,417 that has all the elements necessary 868 00:35:14,542 --> 00:35:16,875 to create something beautiful. 869 00:35:17,042 --> 00:35:18,667 I think you know that. 870 00:35:18,792 --> 00:35:21,917 I think you see the worth and the beauty in each other. 871 00:35:22,042 --> 00:35:24,875 [upbeat music] 872 00:35:25,000 --> 00:35:27,583 ♪ ♪ 873 00:35:30,250 --> 00:35:33,667 - ♪ There ain't nothing to it ♪ 874 00:35:33,750 --> 00:35:37,708 ♪ Said it, baby, like it, now it's yours ♪ 875 00:35:37,833 --> 00:35:40,083 - The point of no return. 876 00:35:40,208 --> 00:35:40,333 Change your mind? 877 00:35:40,500 --> 00:35:43,042 - No. 878 00:35:43,167 --> 00:35:44,792 ♪ ♪ 879 00:35:44,917 --> 00:35:46,833 - Our last date before Decision Day. 880 00:35:46,917 --> 00:35:50,375 I feel like the more and more times we spend-- 881 00:35:50,500 --> 00:35:51,833 hanging out, especially outdoors, 882 00:35:51,958 --> 00:35:53,375 it's another first for the both of us, 883 00:35:53,500 --> 00:35:56,375 so we're just continuing to build that connection 884 00:35:56,500 --> 00:35:58,000 and trending in the right direction. 885 00:36:00,250 --> 00:36:03,042 [upbeat music] 886 00:36:03,167 --> 00:36:06,667 ♪ ♪ 887 00:36:06,750 --> 00:36:08,625 - Which way we going? - Straight. 888 00:36:08,708 --> 00:36:10,875 - Straight? - Yeah. 889 00:36:11,000 --> 00:36:15,625 ♪ ♪ 890 00:36:15,708 --> 00:36:18,333 - ♪ Let's run ♪ 891 00:36:18,417 --> 00:36:23,958 ♪ ♪ 892 00:36:24,042 --> 00:36:27,292 ♪ Let's run ♪ 893 00:36:27,375 --> 00:36:29,000 - Now the sun poking out! 894 00:36:29,125 --> 00:36:30,333 - Yeah. 895 00:36:30,458 --> 00:36:32,250 - A good view of the city. 896 00:36:32,375 --> 00:36:33,750 - Very peaceful. 897 00:36:33,875 --> 00:36:36,292 - Yeah, eight weeks. 898 00:36:36,375 --> 00:36:37,875 - It went by fast? 899 00:36:38,000 --> 00:36:41,208 - Yeah, I got married and met some new friends. 900 00:36:41,333 --> 00:36:43,500 What a ride! 901 00:36:43,625 --> 00:36:46,000 Whole life done changed. 902 00:36:46,125 --> 00:36:48,125 - And now, here we are, right around the corner 903 00:36:48,208 --> 00:36:50,125 from Decision Day. 904 00:36:50,208 --> 00:36:52,667 - This is the kind of teamwork we need in our marriage. 905 00:36:52,792 --> 00:36:54,833 - [laughs] Don't you even! 906 00:36:55,000 --> 00:36:57,000 - No matter how tough the current gets, 907 00:36:57,125 --> 00:37:00,250 if we work together and coordinate, 908 00:37:00,375 --> 00:37:03,875 we can make it work. 909 00:37:04,000 --> 00:37:06,792 - I'm loving all the activities we are doing together. 910 00:37:06,875 --> 00:37:09,875 And we've tried to really, like, build the connection. 911 00:37:10,000 --> 00:37:12,292 And I just feel like, we're on these dates. 912 00:37:12,375 --> 00:37:14,417 And we're just having fun. 913 00:37:14,542 --> 00:37:16,667 We're just like, in the moment, 914 00:37:16,792 --> 00:37:18,625 outside of all the chaos. 915 00:37:18,750 --> 00:37:21,500 Those are the times where I feel like, OK, 916 00:37:21,625 --> 00:37:23,125 maybe he does want this to work. 917 00:37:23,208 --> 00:37:24,708 Maybe he is trying. 918 00:37:24,833 --> 00:37:26,833 So I mean, I'm glad he brought me here, 919 00:37:26,917 --> 00:37:27,750 I'm glad he chose this, 920 00:37:27,875 --> 00:37:30,000 and I'm glad we did it together. 921 00:37:31,625 --> 00:37:33,292 - Cheers to another first. 922 00:37:33,417 --> 00:37:34,958 - Another first. 923 00:37:37,917 --> 00:37:39,833 - And so heading into Decision Day, 924 00:37:39,917 --> 00:37:43,500 are you confident with your answer? 925 00:37:43,583 --> 00:37:45,500 Are there some things you think you need 926 00:37:45,583 --> 00:37:48,333 to sort out personally and process? 927 00:37:48,458 --> 00:37:51,000 - I think I go back and forth. 928 00:37:51,083 --> 00:37:53,000 Do you know what you gon' do? 929 00:37:53,125 --> 00:37:56,500 - Yeah, I'm pretty comfortable with where I'm at. 930 00:37:56,625 --> 00:37:58,500 Marrying a complete stranger, 931 00:37:58,625 --> 00:38:02,958 and having those hiccups in the beginning, 932 00:38:03,083 --> 00:38:04,583 and trying to work through them. 933 00:38:04,708 --> 00:38:06,167 - Right. 934 00:38:06,250 --> 00:38:08,833 - But I mean, the changes that I was hoping 935 00:38:08,958 --> 00:38:10,708 to see that we talked about, 936 00:38:10,833 --> 00:38:12,667 like, you did work on them. 937 00:38:12,792 --> 00:38:14,833 So even with the intimacy exercise, 938 00:38:14,958 --> 00:38:17,417 it seemed like you was kind of like, out of your shell, 939 00:38:17,542 --> 00:38:19,042 more relaxed and more comfortable. 940 00:38:19,208 --> 00:38:23,042 So I feel like all of those things are good. 941 00:38:27,208 --> 00:38:31,833 - At this point, I know that I've given 1,000%. 942 00:38:32,000 --> 00:38:35,083 And I guess, like you said, I'm kind of at peace 943 00:38:35,208 --> 00:38:37,917 with knowing that I'll have no regrets. 944 00:38:38,042 --> 00:38:40,833 So it's just kind of like, until that day, 945 00:38:41,000 --> 00:38:44,000 I'm going to continue to put all the effort in. 946 00:38:44,083 --> 00:38:48,167 And what comes from that comes from that. 947 00:38:48,250 --> 00:38:49,917 [soft music] 948 00:38:50,042 --> 00:38:51,792 It's going to definitely have to be 949 00:38:51,875 --> 00:38:55,167 way more work and way more-- 950 00:38:55,333 --> 00:38:58,375 him being way more intentional if we decide to stay 951 00:38:58,500 --> 00:39:00,000 together on Decision Day. 952 00:39:00,167 --> 00:39:01,917 A lot is going to have to change for us 953 00:39:02,042 --> 00:39:04,833 to actually have a shot at having a successful marriage. 954 00:39:04,958 --> 00:39:08,333 - ♪ You're gonna find me ♪ 955 00:39:08,417 --> 00:39:10,083 ♪ Deep in the water ♪ 956 00:39:13,583 --> 00:39:15,292 [upbeat music] 957 00:39:15,375 --> 00:39:18,792 ♪ ♪ 958 00:39:18,875 --> 00:39:22,000 - ♪ We fly wherever we like ♪ 959 00:39:22,125 --> 00:39:23,375 ♪ We own the ground and take the skies ♪ 960 00:39:23,500 --> 00:39:27,667 - Adjusting to married life can be hard on any couple. 961 00:39:27,792 --> 00:39:29,500 But getting married at first sight 962 00:39:29,667 --> 00:39:32,042 is a uniquely challenging experience 963 00:39:32,167 --> 00:39:34,667 and is something only the other husbands and wives 964 00:39:34,833 --> 00:39:37,000 can fully understand. 965 00:39:37,083 --> 00:39:39,833 So with the clock ticking down toward Decision Day, 966 00:39:39,958 --> 00:39:42,292 it's essential that they lean on each other 967 00:39:42,375 --> 00:39:45,667 for any last-minute advice or encouragement. 968 00:39:45,792 --> 00:39:48,500 ♪ ♪ 969 00:39:48,625 --> 00:39:51,042 - Come on in, gents. 970 00:39:51,167 --> 00:39:53,292 ♪ ♪ 971 00:39:53,375 --> 00:39:54,792 - This is a sharp place. 972 00:39:54,875 --> 00:39:57,833 - Yeah, it's real nice. 973 00:39:57,958 --> 00:40:00,667 - I almost feel like the first time we met. 974 00:40:00,750 --> 00:40:02,292 - We're just missing a body. 975 00:40:02,375 --> 00:40:03,833 That seat is for Mac. 976 00:40:03,958 --> 00:40:05,833 - That seat is for Mac. - Yeah. 977 00:40:05,958 --> 00:40:07,958 - With the whole Mac and Gina situation, 978 00:40:08,083 --> 00:40:09,500 like, it's their business. 979 00:40:09,667 --> 00:40:11,292 I have nothing to do with it. 980 00:40:11,417 --> 00:40:13,000 So I didn't say anything with the other guys. 981 00:40:13,125 --> 00:40:15,833 I want to stay out of that, you know? 982 00:40:16,000 --> 00:40:17,500 There's enough people out here that I don't 983 00:40:17,667 --> 00:40:18,667 got to get involved with that. 984 00:40:18,792 --> 00:40:20,125 - We got to pour a little-- 985 00:40:20,250 --> 00:40:21,667 - We got to-- yeah, we got to pour-- 986 00:40:21,750 --> 00:40:25,375 - For our fallen soldier. [laughter] 987 00:40:25,500 --> 00:40:29,333 ♪ ♪ 988 00:40:29,458 --> 00:40:31,333 - Oh, how nice! 989 00:40:31,500 --> 00:40:33,667 - Oh, this is so cute! 990 00:40:33,833 --> 00:40:36,125 - Oh, yeah. - Super cute. 991 00:40:36,208 --> 00:40:38,500 ♪ ♪ 992 00:40:38,625 --> 00:40:40,167 - Where's Jazzy Jazz? 993 00:40:40,250 --> 00:40:41,667 - I don't know. She'll be here. 994 00:40:41,792 --> 00:40:43,000 You said she's running a little late? 995 00:40:43,125 --> 00:40:44,583 - Yeah, she's running a little behind. 996 00:40:44,708 --> 00:40:46,042 - You know traffic at this time. 997 00:40:46,167 --> 00:40:48,333 It's like the bachelorette party but not. 998 00:40:48,417 --> 00:40:49,500 That was our first time we're like, so much ahead of us. 999 00:40:49,583 --> 00:40:52,167 Now it's-- 1000 00:40:52,292 --> 00:40:55,375 - Now it's time to decide if people are going to go back 1001 00:40:55,500 --> 00:40:57,042 to being bachelorettes again! 1002 00:40:57,208 --> 00:40:59,458 - No, I don't want to hear it! - Or staying wives. 1003 00:40:59,542 --> 00:41:01,458 - We got D-Day coming up. 1004 00:41:01,542 --> 00:41:04,042 - Oh, yeah, doomsday, man. - Where's everybody's heads at? 1005 00:41:04,208 --> 00:41:06,167 I feel like don't even got to talk to you about it, but-- 1006 00:41:06,292 --> 00:41:07,875 - Yeah, we shouldn't even-- - If you want to start off. 1007 00:41:08,000 --> 00:41:09,958 - Chris, you can sit over there. 1008 00:41:10,042 --> 00:41:12,833 - So we did the expert visit a couple days ago 1009 00:41:12,958 --> 00:41:13,500 with Pastor Cal and Dr. Pepper. 1010 00:41:13,625 --> 00:41:16,000 - Yeah. 1011 00:41:16,167 --> 00:41:18,750 - So it was interesting, some things that came out. 1012 00:41:18,875 --> 00:41:20,625 Gina was talking, like, oh, there's definitely 1013 00:41:20,708 --> 00:41:22,917 personality differences. 1014 00:41:23,042 --> 00:41:25,042 Then she's just like, 1015 00:41:25,208 --> 00:41:27,792 and you just didn't feel like a husband. 1016 00:41:27,917 --> 00:41:31,167 And like, you didn't take this dominant role. 1017 00:41:31,250 --> 00:41:34,042 And when I reflect, I'm like, yep, absolutely. 1018 00:41:34,167 --> 00:41:35,917 I'll fall on that sword. I didn't. 1019 00:41:36,042 --> 00:41:40,958 - When we had our last expert visit, I mean, it was tough. 1020 00:41:41,083 --> 00:41:42,500 It was probably like, one of the hardest visits 1021 00:41:42,583 --> 00:41:45,333 because there's so much you have to dive into. 1022 00:41:45,500 --> 00:41:47,667 And so I even had said something about, like, 1023 00:41:47,833 --> 00:41:49,875 his bizarre personality. 1024 00:41:50,000 --> 00:41:51,625 And then the next day on our date, he's like, 1025 00:41:51,708 --> 00:41:53,375 "So what did you mean by that?" 1026 00:41:53,500 --> 00:41:55,083 And so I was like, this is exactly why I hate this game 1027 00:41:55,208 --> 00:41:57,500 because I don't want it to become where 1028 00:41:57,583 --> 00:41:59,125 I'm giving you a complex. 1029 00:41:59,208 --> 00:42:00,875 - That's not bad. It's just not for you. 1030 00:42:01,042 --> 00:42:02,583 - That's what I told him. 1031 00:42:02,708 --> 00:42:04,042 I was like, it's not anything that you're doing wrong. 1032 00:42:04,167 --> 00:42:06,083 You're, like, charismatic and crazy. 1033 00:42:06,208 --> 00:42:08,292 But to me, it's not something that's a turn on, you know? 1034 00:42:08,417 --> 00:42:09,833 - Right. 1035 00:42:09,958 --> 00:42:11,167 - All right, Chris, pick us up, bro. 1036 00:42:11,292 --> 00:42:13,000 Pick us up. - It's no surprise. 1037 00:42:13,167 --> 00:42:14,042 I mean, we're doing good. 1038 00:42:14,167 --> 00:42:15,833 The only thing that like, 1039 00:42:15,958 --> 00:42:17,292 really started to get heavy that bothered me 1040 00:42:17,375 --> 00:42:19,083 is she kept questioning, and she kept being like, 1041 00:42:19,208 --> 00:42:21,042 "Oh, if Decision Day was today, what would you say?" 1042 00:42:21,167 --> 00:42:23,000 And like, it was a constant kind of thing. 1043 00:42:23,083 --> 00:42:24,375 But it got to be so heavy at a point 1044 00:42:24,500 --> 00:42:27,167 where it's like, all right, everything's great. 1045 00:42:27,292 --> 00:42:29,125 What am I doing that's making you question it? 1046 00:42:29,208 --> 00:42:31,000 - I mean, this is going to sound bizarre, 1047 00:42:31,167 --> 00:42:34,000 but I'm waiting for you guys to have your first argument. 1048 00:42:34,125 --> 00:42:35,458 - Yeah, it hasn't happened yet. 1049 00:42:35,542 --> 00:42:37,375 - I'm waiting for it because I want to see 1050 00:42:37,542 --> 00:42:39,417 how you guys handle that. 1051 00:42:39,542 --> 00:42:43,375 And I think if you handle it well and constructive, 1052 00:42:43,542 --> 00:42:46,167 I think you guys are on the righteous path. 1053 00:42:46,250 --> 00:42:47,875 - I can see her going off on him. 1054 00:42:48,000 --> 00:42:49,292 But I can't even see Chris, like-- 1055 00:42:49,417 --> 00:42:52,083 - No, you can't. He's a Labrador, man. 1056 00:42:52,208 --> 00:42:53,667 He's a golden retriever. He just loves. 1057 00:42:53,750 --> 00:42:57,000 Golden retrievers don't bite. 1058 00:42:57,125 --> 00:42:59,292 - For me, I mean, I pretty much have decided 1059 00:42:59,375 --> 00:43:00,625 where Decision Day for me is going to go. 1060 00:43:00,708 --> 00:43:04,333 But I think the thing that I've noticed the most about Chris 1061 00:43:04,458 --> 00:43:06,167 throughout this whole process is he's 1062 00:43:06,292 --> 00:43:07,875 the nicest man in the world, like, that's-- 1063 00:43:08,042 --> 00:43:09,125 - We say he's like the golden retriever. 1064 00:43:09,250 --> 00:43:10,583 - The golden retriever. - Yeah. 1065 00:43:10,708 --> 00:43:12,667 - Of course. And it's such a lovely quality. 1066 00:43:12,750 --> 00:43:16,542 But when we first got married, he was very much like, 1067 00:43:16,708 --> 00:43:17,833 I want to make this work. 1068 00:43:17,958 --> 00:43:19,292 Whatever makes you happy-- 1069 00:43:19,417 --> 00:43:21,083 I'm willing to do whatever makes you happy. 1070 00:43:21,208 --> 00:43:23,167 But it's not that I don't want him to make me happy. 1071 00:43:23,292 --> 00:43:25,125 But I don't want him to lose himself 1072 00:43:25,208 --> 00:43:27,917 in order to make me happy. 1073 00:43:28,042 --> 00:43:31,000 I don't want him to make a decision to say yes to me 1074 00:43:31,125 --> 00:43:33,333 because he's afraid that saying no will hurt me 1075 00:43:33,458 --> 00:43:36,625 or because we have such a great relationship. 1076 00:43:36,750 --> 00:43:39,417 For me, I mean, he's a very live by the day 1077 00:43:39,542 --> 00:43:41,042 kind of person. 1078 00:43:41,208 --> 00:43:42,625 So I just hope he's thinking about the future 1079 00:43:42,708 --> 00:43:46,833 when he makes his decision and not just how he feels today. 1080 00:43:46,958 --> 00:43:48,500 - Hi! - Hey! 1081 00:43:48,625 --> 00:43:50,792 - United States of America Miss is here! 1082 00:43:50,875 --> 00:43:52,333 - How are you, honey? - I'm good. 1083 00:43:52,417 --> 00:43:53,750 I love this dress! - Thank you! 1084 00:43:53,875 --> 00:43:55,167 You look great! 1085 00:43:55,292 --> 00:43:56,917 - You all are sitting in dresses. 1086 00:43:57,042 --> 00:43:58,375 - Hi, beautiful! 1087 00:43:58,542 --> 00:43:59,958 - Hi! 1088 00:44:00,042 --> 00:44:02,250 - We're just chitchatting about-- 1089 00:44:02,375 --> 00:44:06,500 - About our husbands. - And Decision Day. 1090 00:44:06,625 --> 00:44:09,500 - Oh, goodness, yeah. - Yeah, how are you guys doing? 1091 00:44:09,625 --> 00:44:11,875 - We're still making it, putting in the work. 1092 00:44:12,000 --> 00:44:13,500 - Yeah. 1093 00:44:13,625 --> 00:44:15,667 - It's been a roller coaster ride emotionally. 1094 00:44:15,833 --> 00:44:18,833 But I would definitely say that I hope Shaquille is thinking 1095 00:44:18,917 --> 00:44:22,083 about the future and taking everything that I told him 1096 00:44:22,208 --> 00:44:24,625 into consideration when he's making this decision 1097 00:44:24,750 --> 00:44:26,333 because I know it seems 1098 00:44:26,500 --> 00:44:28,625 very intense and stressful right now. 1099 00:44:28,708 --> 00:44:32,542 But it doesn't always have to be like this. 1100 00:44:32,667 --> 00:44:34,833 That's the only thing that I could reassure him with, 1101 00:44:34,917 --> 00:44:36,000 is like, it will get better over time. 1102 00:44:36,083 --> 00:44:37,417 - Yeah. 1103 00:44:37,542 --> 00:44:39,125 - Once we get past all the small things 1104 00:44:39,250 --> 00:44:41,208 that we need to work out, we can enjoy each other... 1105 00:44:41,375 --> 00:44:43,208 - Right. - And have great times. 1106 00:44:43,333 --> 00:44:47,333 If we just kind of like relax and let it be, you know? 1107 00:44:47,458 --> 00:44:50,667 And not be so uptight and have all these expectations 1108 00:44:50,833 --> 00:44:52,500 and overwhelming ourselves. 1109 00:44:52,583 --> 00:44:54,083 - Yeah. 1110 00:44:54,208 --> 00:44:56,667 - I hope that he sees the amazing woman you are 1111 00:44:56,792 --> 00:44:59,167 and can get out of his head because I know 1112 00:44:59,292 --> 00:45:01,417 he is very emotional. 1113 00:45:01,542 --> 00:45:04,833 And I want him to really keep in mind all of your growth 1114 00:45:04,917 --> 00:45:06,833 and not just focusing on the things 1115 00:45:06,917 --> 00:45:09,708 that haven't grown enough yet. 1116 00:45:09,875 --> 00:45:12,125 From the start, I've always seen something between you two, 1117 00:45:12,208 --> 00:45:14,167 even before you guys saw it. 1118 00:45:14,250 --> 00:45:16,333 And I hope that you can both recognize that. 1119 00:45:16,417 --> 00:45:18,375 I really believe from the bottom of my heart 1120 00:45:18,500 --> 00:45:20,333 that you two have something special. 1121 00:45:20,458 --> 00:45:22,667 I think it's just covered in layers of things 1122 00:45:22,833 --> 00:45:24,292 you need to brush off, but-- 1123 00:45:24,417 --> 00:45:25,292 - I think y'all need the chaos to go. 1124 00:45:25,375 --> 00:45:27,083 - Yes. - I feel like y'all will excel. 1125 00:45:27,208 --> 00:45:28,333 - Just like, brush it off. 1126 00:45:28,417 --> 00:45:30,625 So I hope he's realizing that. 1127 00:45:30,708 --> 00:45:33,208 I hope you're both realizing that because it's both of you 1128 00:45:33,333 --> 00:45:35,333 that need to brush off the bull[bleep] 1129 00:45:35,458 --> 00:45:37,833 and see that beautiful foundation. 1130 00:45:37,917 --> 00:45:40,667 - I finally met Kirsten's dad. 1131 00:45:40,833 --> 00:45:42,167 - Oh, did you? 1132 00:45:42,292 --> 00:45:42,875 It only took two months. 1133 00:45:43,000 --> 00:45:46,125 - Only took two months. 1134 00:45:46,208 --> 00:45:47,125 It's all I ever expected. 1135 00:45:47,250 --> 00:45:50,167 I just wanted to meet your father. 1136 00:45:50,292 --> 00:45:52,833 So for me, with family being big, it was like a, 1137 00:45:53,000 --> 00:45:55,208 damn, why did it take so long? 1138 00:45:55,375 --> 00:45:56,333 - What's he like? 1139 00:45:56,458 --> 00:45:58,958 Because I'm envisioning, he says what he means 1140 00:45:59,083 --> 00:46:00,000 and means what he says. 1141 00:46:00,125 --> 00:46:02,417 - He's very loving. 1142 00:46:02,542 --> 00:46:04,250 He cares about his family. 1143 00:46:04,375 --> 00:46:05,083 Like, his granddaughter-- he was cooking 1144 00:46:05,208 --> 00:46:06,958 for his granddaughter. 1145 00:46:07,042 --> 00:46:08,667 He was like, this what she said she wanted me to make. 1146 00:46:08,792 --> 00:46:10,208 So I'm going to cook. 1147 00:46:10,375 --> 00:46:11,458 I don't care what nobody else in the house-- 1148 00:46:11,583 --> 00:46:13,625 and for me, I'm like, damn, this man 1149 00:46:13,708 --> 00:46:16,625 is really a gem that can be a father figure 1150 00:46:16,750 --> 00:46:18,375 towards me as well. 1151 00:46:18,542 --> 00:46:22,458 And in that moment, I just was very optimistic to think, 1152 00:46:22,583 --> 00:46:24,000 this could be something great. 1153 00:46:24,125 --> 00:46:25,333 - Yeah. 1154 00:46:25,458 --> 00:46:27,458 - But it's been a journey for us, 1155 00:46:27,542 --> 00:46:29,458 an emotional roller coaster. 1156 00:46:29,583 --> 00:46:32,917 - My biggest question for you though is, 1157 00:46:33,042 --> 00:46:35,458 do you have fun together? 1158 00:46:35,542 --> 00:46:40,542 - So we really haven't had as much fun through this process. 1159 00:46:40,667 --> 00:46:45,083 But can it be fun after this process? 1160 00:46:45,208 --> 00:46:47,500 Can we work--as soon as this process is over, 1161 00:46:47,625 --> 00:46:50,000 we're focusing on enjoying ourselves, 1162 00:46:50,125 --> 00:46:52,292 enjoying each other, and living happy. 1163 00:46:52,417 --> 00:46:55,167 - So can you see yourself maybe single again? 1164 00:46:55,292 --> 00:46:58,625 [dramatic music] 1165 00:47:02,292 --> 00:47:03,542 [upbeat music] 1166 00:47:03,667 --> 00:47:06,333 - ♪ I'm feeling all right ♪ 1167 00:47:06,458 --> 00:47:09,667 - ♪ All right, I said I feel good, right ♪ 1168 00:47:09,792 --> 00:47:13,292 - So can you see yourself maybe single again? 1169 00:47:16,667 --> 00:47:18,792 - I don't know if I want to see myself single again. 1170 00:47:18,917 --> 00:47:21,000 - Yeah? That's good. 1171 00:47:21,167 --> 00:47:21,792 So you're enjoying the marriage dynamic? 1172 00:47:21,875 --> 00:47:24,167 - I definitely enjoy it. 1173 00:47:24,292 --> 00:47:26,708 My favorite thing has definitely been 1174 00:47:26,875 --> 00:47:29,500 going to sleep next to someone and waking up next to someone. 1175 00:47:29,625 --> 00:47:31,292 - Yeah. 1176 00:47:31,375 --> 00:47:32,208 - Hearing Kirsten in the morning say good morning, 1177 00:47:32,375 --> 00:47:33,667 that's some sort of security. 1178 00:47:33,792 --> 00:47:35,292 But everything else comes with it. 1179 00:47:35,375 --> 00:47:36,833 - No, agreed. 1180 00:47:36,958 --> 00:47:39,000 Like, we want something that's solid and forever. 1181 00:47:39,167 --> 00:47:40,833 And you turn and you look at that person. 1182 00:47:40,958 --> 00:47:42,750 Like, morning after morning, you're excited for that day 1183 00:47:42,875 --> 00:47:44,500 you're going to have. 1184 00:47:44,625 --> 00:47:46,958 What about you, Airris? You missing the single life? 1185 00:47:47,042 --> 00:47:49,292 ♪ ♪ 1186 00:47:49,417 --> 00:47:51,208 - Yes and no, you know what I mean? 1187 00:47:51,375 --> 00:47:53,667 Like, I did it so long. 1188 00:47:53,750 --> 00:47:56,458 When you first meet somebody, those butterflies 1189 00:47:56,542 --> 00:47:59,292 feelings you kind of get, the first couple of times 1190 00:47:59,417 --> 00:48:02,667 you get it in, it's a rush. 1191 00:48:02,750 --> 00:48:05,083 But then it's like, I've experienced 1192 00:48:05,208 --> 00:48:06,542 that temporary satisfaction-- 1193 00:48:06,708 --> 00:48:08,333 - So you can settle-- - For so long. 1194 00:48:08,458 --> 00:48:08,833 So I know that's not ultimately what I want. 1195 00:48:08,917 --> 00:48:11,542 - Yeah. 1196 00:48:11,667 --> 00:48:13,167 - Even when I had to leave the couples retreat 1197 00:48:13,250 --> 00:48:15,000 to come back for work, I actually missed her. 1198 00:48:15,083 --> 00:48:16,625 I missed Duchess. 1199 00:48:16,708 --> 00:48:18,583 I walked in the house, bro, it was quiet as hell. 1200 00:48:18,708 --> 00:48:20,500 Like, Duchess wasn't there. Jasmine wasn't there. 1201 00:48:20,583 --> 00:48:22,000 And I was actually surprised. 1202 00:48:22,125 --> 00:48:23,500 I was like, damn, OK. 1203 00:48:23,583 --> 00:48:25,458 Maybe there is something. 1204 00:48:25,542 --> 00:48:26,792 There's a little bit, you know what I mean? 1205 00:48:26,875 --> 00:48:28,833 So that feeling right there is something 1206 00:48:28,917 --> 00:48:33,667 to consider and hold on to as I head into Decision Day. 1207 00:48:33,792 --> 00:48:34,833 - Jazz and I had a pole dancing class. 1208 00:48:34,958 --> 00:48:38,250 - Oh, yeah, we did! 1209 00:48:38,375 --> 00:48:41,083 - Whatever, we don't want to be invited. 1210 00:48:41,208 --> 00:48:42,917 - It was just kind of a moment for us, 1211 00:48:43,042 --> 00:48:45,417 just to kind of feel sexy, do everything. - I love that. 1212 00:48:45,542 --> 00:48:47,750 And then Airris showed up. 1213 00:48:47,875 --> 00:48:49,708 - I was like, I'm going to stop twerking. 1214 00:48:49,875 --> 00:48:51,333 - Did you watch? - I'm going to go. 1215 00:48:51,417 --> 00:48:53,208 I let them have some time. 1216 00:48:53,375 --> 00:48:54,583 - How did the dance go? - Good! 1217 00:48:54,708 --> 00:48:56,708 He was throwing money at me. 1218 00:48:56,875 --> 00:48:59,208 [laughter] 1219 00:48:59,333 --> 00:49:01,000 Yeah, it was all of that. 1220 00:49:01,083 --> 00:49:03,167 - I would have done the same thing if I was Airris. 1221 00:49:03,292 --> 00:49:04,958 - I mean, it felt good. But I mean-- 1222 00:49:05,042 --> 00:49:07,042 - I feel like that's something he would like to see. 1223 00:49:07,167 --> 00:49:09,250 - That's up Airris' alley, the pole dancing and the money. 1224 00:49:09,375 --> 00:49:11,458 - Big girls, fat asses, I'm sure. 1225 00:49:11,542 --> 00:49:12,000 - That was good, he was able to see his wife. 1226 00:49:12,125 --> 00:49:14,458 - Oh, OK, yeah. 1227 00:49:14,542 --> 00:49:16,167 I'm glad was able to see me do that. 1228 00:49:16,292 --> 00:49:18,125 - Oh, no. 1229 00:49:18,208 --> 00:49:19,667 - I mean, he said I looked sexy. 1230 00:49:19,792 --> 00:49:22,292 But I mean-- 1231 00:49:22,417 --> 00:49:23,833 - He says a lot. 1232 00:49:23,917 --> 00:49:25,417 - So at this point, I'm definitely gonna need 1233 00:49:25,542 --> 00:49:27,750 to see action and action quick. 1234 00:49:27,875 --> 00:49:29,167 - Whew. 1235 00:49:29,333 --> 00:49:31,792 - No pressure. 1236 00:49:31,875 --> 00:49:34,375 - I just feel like, throughout this whole process, 1237 00:49:34,500 --> 00:49:36,583 it's been very hot and cold with Airris. 1238 00:49:36,708 --> 00:49:39,000 And I feel like our meeting with Pastor Cal and Dr. Pepper 1239 00:49:39,083 --> 00:49:41,958 last night went really good. 1240 00:49:42,042 --> 00:49:44,250 But he was saying, 1241 00:49:44,375 --> 00:49:48,000 I think things could change after Decision Day. 1242 00:49:48,083 --> 00:49:49,708 It'll get better. 1243 00:49:49,875 --> 00:49:51,667 We can grow our chemistry. We can grow our intimacy. 1244 00:49:51,792 --> 00:49:53,417 - He said that? - Yeah. 1245 00:49:53,542 --> 00:49:55,292 And I'm just like-- 1246 00:49:55,417 --> 00:49:57,167 - So he's thinking life post-Decision Day. 1247 00:49:57,333 --> 00:49:58,750 - Yeah, but that's not-- 1248 00:49:58,875 --> 00:50:00,667 - You're like, are you saying it but-- 1249 00:50:00,750 --> 00:50:02,667 - Like, that's not the action. - Are you saying it-- 1250 00:50:02,750 --> 00:50:04,458 - It almost feels like he's just waiting. 1251 00:50:04,542 --> 00:50:05,917 Like, we're not going to work on anything 1252 00:50:06,042 --> 00:50:07,833 until the process is over. 1253 00:50:07,958 --> 00:50:09,333 And then we're gonna start up again. 1254 00:50:09,458 --> 00:50:10,417 - Well, how am I supposed to make 1255 00:50:10,542 --> 00:50:11,958 a decision if he just don't? 1256 00:50:12,042 --> 00:50:13,708 - Right. 1257 00:50:13,833 --> 00:50:16,167 - I was actually shocked, man, last night, 1258 00:50:16,250 --> 00:50:19,375 when Dr. Pepper and Pastor Cal came. 1259 00:50:19,500 --> 00:50:21,500 Like, I got a lot out of that meeting. 1260 00:50:21,625 --> 00:50:24,250 They asked us, what ways has your spouse 1261 00:50:24,375 --> 00:50:25,500 made you a better person? 1262 00:50:25,583 --> 00:50:27,000 - Yeah. - And I was like, damn. 1263 00:50:27,167 --> 00:50:29,375 I was just thinking of how everything Jasmine 1264 00:50:29,500 --> 00:50:30,667 touches is, like, passionate. 1265 00:50:30,833 --> 00:50:32,042 It's something that I wanted to do. 1266 00:50:32,167 --> 00:50:33,333 - Yeah. 1267 00:50:33,417 --> 00:50:35,042 - And I admire people from afar. 1268 00:50:35,167 --> 00:50:37,333 But seeing somebody up close doing it every single day, 1269 00:50:37,458 --> 00:50:40,333 that's inspiring for me, how she ties her passion 1270 00:50:40,458 --> 00:50:43,250 into everything-- her mentoring and cheerleading, 1271 00:50:43,375 --> 00:50:45,042 her dog breeding business. 1272 00:50:45,208 --> 00:50:47,125 Like, literally everything she touches has a purpose. 1273 00:50:47,250 --> 00:50:48,958 - Yeah. 1274 00:50:49,042 --> 00:50:50,958 - It's like, you don't meet too many people like that. 1275 00:50:51,042 --> 00:50:52,375 Even in the midst of this, 1276 00:50:52,500 --> 00:50:54,167 she could have snapped, spazzed out. 1277 00:50:54,292 --> 00:50:55,833 She could have been so standoffish. 1278 00:50:55,958 --> 00:50:57,833 But even with all of that going on, 1279 00:50:57,917 --> 00:51:01,708 she's still created this peaceful environment at home. 1280 00:51:01,833 --> 00:51:03,667 - So she created a Shangri-La for you. 1281 00:51:03,833 --> 00:51:05,625 - Yeah, so it kind of like-- 1282 00:51:05,750 --> 00:51:08,417 Pastor Cal was like, bro, all this stuff 1283 00:51:08,542 --> 00:51:10,083 you're talking about, that's intimacy. 1284 00:51:10,208 --> 00:51:11,833 - Yeah. - Yeah, yeah. 1285 00:51:11,958 --> 00:51:15,625 - And I was like, man, it just took some experts to-- 1286 00:51:15,708 --> 00:51:17,375 - Redefine that word. - Change the narrative for me. 1287 00:51:17,500 --> 00:51:18,958 - Yeah. 1288 00:51:19,042 --> 00:51:22,125 - So I feel like I was leaning towards one way. 1289 00:51:22,250 --> 00:51:26,625 But they definitely gave me some things to think about. 1290 00:51:26,750 --> 00:51:29,000 - I'll be crazy trying to think about what 1291 00:51:29,167 --> 00:51:30,500 Airris is going to do. 1292 00:51:30,667 --> 00:51:32,000 He can say one thing and do another. 1293 00:51:32,125 --> 00:51:34,458 So at this point, I'm not thinking about the things 1294 00:51:34,542 --> 00:51:36,000 he's going to do or what he wants to do. 1295 00:51:36,083 --> 00:51:38,042 I'm thinking about what I'm going to do... 1296 00:51:38,167 --> 00:51:39,500 - Good. - And what I need. 1297 00:51:39,583 --> 00:51:40,625 - It's your decision. - Yeah. 1298 00:51:40,708 --> 00:51:41,875 - That's fair. - Yeah. 1299 00:51:42,000 --> 00:51:43,458 - Good. 1300 00:51:43,542 --> 00:51:45,000 - Do I want us to have a successful marriage? 1301 00:51:45,125 --> 00:51:47,750 Absolutely. 1302 00:51:47,875 --> 00:51:50,667 And when it's just me and him and not all the chaos, 1303 00:51:50,833 --> 00:51:53,250 those are our good moments, to where I'm like, 1304 00:51:53,375 --> 00:51:55,833 OK, this could last forever. 1305 00:51:55,917 --> 00:51:58,500 In a perfect world, this would work out. 1306 00:51:58,667 --> 00:52:01,333 But whatever happens on Decision Day, 1307 00:52:01,417 --> 00:52:03,333 I am standing in what I want. 1308 00:52:03,458 --> 00:52:05,500 - Good. - You have stepped into like-- 1309 00:52:05,625 --> 00:52:07,750 - I love this, I love this. - This confident queen. 1310 00:52:07,875 --> 00:52:09,333 - Oh, gosh. 1311 00:52:09,458 --> 00:52:11,625 - I mean, literally, like, there is--yeah, 1312 00:52:11,708 --> 00:52:13,208 I think there's a confidence about you 1313 00:52:13,333 --> 00:52:15,167 that's very inspiring. 1314 00:52:15,333 --> 00:52:19,583 - I'm like this person now that I love and I'm so proud of. 1315 00:52:19,708 --> 00:52:22,250 And I guess Airris has a little bit to do with it. 1316 00:52:22,375 --> 00:52:26,583 - I mean, I hope Airris just makes a wise decision. 1317 00:52:26,708 --> 00:52:27,583 - I feel like Airris... - A wise decision. 1318 00:52:27,708 --> 00:52:29,500 - Outkicked his coverage. 1319 00:52:29,625 --> 00:52:31,333 I think he's amazing. 1320 00:52:31,417 --> 00:52:36,167 And I just hope that he's able to truly process and see 1321 00:52:36,292 --> 00:52:38,500 what's in front of him because if he doesn't 1322 00:52:38,667 --> 00:52:40,000 make the wisest decision, 1323 00:52:40,125 --> 00:52:41,083 I feel like he's going to regret it. 1324 00:52:41,208 --> 00:52:42,500 - Mm-hmm. 1325 00:52:42,625 --> 00:52:44,542 [upbeat music] 1326 00:52:44,667 --> 00:52:48,958 - ♪ Got to change for the better now ♪ 1327 00:52:49,042 --> 00:52:50,125 - ♪ Hold up, he had to say my name ♪ 1328 00:52:50,250 --> 00:52:51,875 ♪ Too bad that tomorrow is my last day ♪ 1329 00:52:52,042 --> 00:52:53,917 ♪ Shake it back, you want to follow me ♪ 1330 00:52:54,042 --> 00:52:56,458 ♪ I guess someone else got to take the lead ♪ 1331 00:52:56,583 --> 00:52:58,542 ♪ You're free to sit, I'm racing ♪ 1332 00:52:58,667 --> 00:53:00,583 ♪ You chase it when I make it ♪ 1333 00:53:00,708 --> 00:53:02,500 ♪ What did I tell you ♪ 1334 00:53:02,667 --> 00:53:04,333 ♪ What did I say ♪ 1335 00:53:04,417 --> 00:53:06,042 ♪ Oh, snap ♪ 1336 00:53:06,208 --> 00:53:07,875 ♪ I got a lot of green ♪ 1337 00:53:08,042 --> 00:53:09,917 ♪ Inside out got you following me ♪ 1338 00:53:10,042 --> 00:53:12,000 ♪ You got the message yet ♪ 1339 00:53:12,125 --> 00:53:13,875 ♪ That girl ain't the only one breaking her neck ♪ 1340 00:53:14,042 --> 00:53:16,333 ♪ Oh, snap, I got a lot of green ♪ 1341 00:53:16,500 --> 00:53:18,792 ♪ Inside out got you following me ♪ 1342 00:53:18,875 --> 00:53:20,958 ♪ You got the message yet ♪ 1343 00:53:21,083 --> 00:53:23,208 ♪ That girl ain't the only one breaking her neck ♪ 1344 00:53:23,375 --> 00:53:25,375 ♪ I got a lot of green ♪ 1345 00:53:25,500 --> 00:53:27,375 ♪ Inside out got you following me ♪ 1346 00:53:27,500 --> 00:53:29,167 - Ladies, how you doing? 1347 00:53:29,292 --> 00:53:29,875 - Oh, hi! Jasmine. 1348 00:53:30,042 --> 00:53:32,375 - Gina, Gina, Nice to meet you. 1349 00:53:32,500 --> 00:53:35,583 - Nicole. Nice to meet you. - Gina, I'm Louie, I'm Louie. 1350 00:53:35,708 --> 00:53:38,125 - Kirsten, Nicole, Gina, Jasmine-- 1351 00:53:38,208 --> 00:53:40,167 make it easier. 1352 00:53:40,250 --> 00:53:44,625 So we're celebrating that we're all married right now. 1353 00:53:44,708 --> 00:53:46,333 - OK. 1354 00:53:46,458 --> 00:53:49,000 - And some of us might not be. 1355 00:53:49,125 --> 00:53:50,292 - I got you. 1356 00:53:50,417 --> 00:53:52,000 - Which ones might not be? 1357 00:53:52,125 --> 00:53:54,208 [laughter] 1358 00:53:54,333 --> 00:53:56,167 - Any of you married? Married, married? 1359 00:53:56,250 --> 00:53:57,667 - No, we're all single. 1360 00:53:57,792 --> 00:54:00,500 - All right, well-- 1361 00:54:00,625 --> 00:54:02,333 - Hey, toast up to the married life. 1362 00:54:02,500 --> 00:54:04,333 - Whoo! 1363 00:54:04,500 --> 00:54:06,250 - Celebrate life, yo! 1364 00:54:06,375 --> 00:54:08,333 - To those who are married. - That's where I want to be. 1365 00:54:08,500 --> 00:54:11,042 ♪ ♪ 1366 00:54:11,167 --> 00:54:13,958 - ♪ We can go to places where the beat goes all night long ♪ 1367 00:54:28,375 --> 00:54:29,167 - So, he's a grown beta. 1368 00:54:29,292 --> 00:54:30,875 - He's a great man. - That's good. 1369 00:54:31,000 --> 00:54:33,333 - He throws it down. 1370 00:54:33,458 --> 00:54:37,000 - Yes, yes, but you know what? 1371 00:54:37,125 --> 00:54:39,250 You put two betas together. 1372 00:54:39,375 --> 00:54:41,458 And one of them kills the other, so-- 1373 00:54:41,583 --> 00:54:42,750 [laughter] - Who does that? 1374 00:54:42,875 --> 00:54:44,417 Y'all need to leave Nicole alone. 1375 00:54:44,542 --> 00:54:46,167 - This is honestly the first time 1376 00:54:46,292 --> 00:54:47,750 since I've been married that I've been in this situation 1377 00:54:47,875 --> 00:54:50,125 where there have been men who are interested in-- 1378 00:54:50,250 --> 00:54:52,542 in a group setting, talking to me and my friends. 1379 00:54:52,667 --> 00:54:54,500 And I felt totally comfortable. 1380 00:54:54,625 --> 00:54:57,167 But I was being very respectful of my boundaries 1381 00:54:57,250 --> 00:54:58,833 because normally, I would be like, "Come closer. 1382 00:54:59,000 --> 00:55:00,708 You're very cute." 1383 00:55:00,833 --> 00:55:03,708 But now--I can enjoy talking to a good-looking man 1384 00:55:03,875 --> 00:55:05,208 because the conversation is good. 1385 00:55:06,583 --> 00:55:16,542 [background chatter] 1386 00:55:31,375 --> 00:55:32,917 - I'm definitely not missing this taste 1387 00:55:33,042 --> 00:55:35,833 of single life at all-- like, ready to get home. 1388 00:55:35,958 --> 00:55:37,125 Honestly, it's getting late-- 1389 00:55:37,208 --> 00:55:39,875 ready to go see what my husband is doing 1390 00:55:40,000 --> 00:55:41,000 and how his day is doing and if he's ate. 1391 00:55:41,167 --> 00:55:45,083 So it's cool to mix and mingle. 1392 00:55:45,208 --> 00:55:47,000 But I know when it's time to go. 1393 00:55:47,125 --> 00:55:49,083 - How many dogs do you have? - Seven. 1394 00:55:49,208 --> 00:55:51,125 - Do you just have them for fun or you collect them? 1395 00:55:51,250 --> 00:55:53,417 - Nah, I'm a breeder and a trainer. 1396 00:55:53,542 --> 00:55:55,000 - She's a breeder as well. 1397 00:55:55,083 --> 00:55:56,792 - All right, well, I'ma let you talk to him. 1398 00:55:56,875 --> 00:55:58,083 No. [laughs] 1399 00:55:58,208 --> 00:55:59,625 - She breeds mini doodles. 1400 00:55:59,708 --> 00:56:02,000 - Mini golden-doodles. - Wow! 1401 00:56:02,125 --> 00:56:03,500 You're a breeder? Me too. - Yeah. 1402 00:56:03,667 --> 00:56:05,000 What do you breed? 1403 00:56:05,125 --> 00:56:06,792 - Bullies, Frenchies. - Of course. 1404 00:56:06,875 --> 00:56:07,667 - Bullies, Frenchies. No, no, no, no, no, hold on. 1405 00:56:07,833 --> 00:56:09,875 Let me tell you something, though. 1406 00:56:10,042 --> 00:56:12,500 I got like, rescues and [bleep] veterans, 1407 00:56:12,583 --> 00:56:13,125 all that stuff that I train. 1408 00:56:13,250 --> 00:56:15,667 I'm a boxing coach as well. 1409 00:56:15,750 --> 00:56:16,958 So the dogs is cool. 1410 00:56:17,042 --> 00:56:18,833 But I'm a boxing coach--boxing. 1411 00:56:18,958 --> 00:56:20,750 And I'm actually training for some more fights. 1412 00:56:20,875 --> 00:56:22,833 - Oh, OK. You fight? 1413 00:56:22,917 --> 00:56:24,667 - Yeah. - Oh, OK! 1414 00:56:24,833 --> 00:56:26,500 Do I like the attention? 1415 00:56:26,583 --> 00:56:28,625 Of course I like the attention. 1416 00:56:28,750 --> 00:56:31,375 Who doesn't like attention? 1417 00:56:32,667 --> 00:56:35,833 But you know, I can't think about any offers from anyone 1418 00:56:35,917 --> 00:56:37,250 because I'm a married woman. 1419 00:56:38,958 --> 00:56:39,958 What's happening? 1420 00:56:40,042 --> 00:56:44,375 No, no, no, he's not. 1421 00:56:44,500 --> 00:56:46,083 - Let's just leave. 1422 00:56:46,208 --> 00:56:47,500 You ain't got to do all this if you don't want to. 1423 00:56:47,625 --> 00:56:49,000 - What are you talking about? 1424 00:56:49,125 --> 00:56:49,917 - What you mean, what I'm talking about? 1425 00:56:50,042 --> 00:56:52,000 - Oh, gosh. 1426 00:56:52,167 --> 00:56:54,000 - Like I said, it's outside. 1427 00:56:54,083 --> 00:56:56,000 - What's outside? 1428 00:56:56,125 --> 00:56:58,542 - The 740. - Oh, the 740. 1429 00:56:58,708 --> 00:57:00,000 - That's one of them. 1430 00:57:00,083 --> 00:57:02,917 - Just one of them, all right. 1431 00:57:03,042 --> 00:57:05,333 - This hit different. That's all it is. 1432 00:57:05,458 --> 00:57:07,042 - OK. 1433 00:57:07,167 --> 00:57:09,208 - You fixing your chain. I'll fix it for you later. 1434 00:57:11,042 --> 00:57:17,167 Let's go. - [laughs] 1435 00:57:17,250 --> 00:57:18,542 - ♪ Just trying to find love ♪ 1436 00:57:18,708 --> 00:57:20,583 ♪ You're tying me up ♪ 1437 00:57:20,708 --> 00:57:22,542 ♪ So do what you do ♪ 1438 00:57:22,708 --> 00:57:23,833 - Oh, hey, honey! 1439 00:57:23,917 --> 00:57:25,667 - Hi! 1440 00:57:25,750 --> 00:57:27,458 Good boy. 1441 00:57:27,583 --> 00:57:28,917 - Hi, puppies. 1442 00:57:29,042 --> 00:57:30,625 - Kobe's got his toy. Hi, babe. 1443 00:57:30,750 --> 00:57:32,042 - Hi. 1444 00:57:32,167 --> 00:57:33,875 - How was your night? - It was fun. 1445 00:57:34,000 --> 00:57:36,750 - What up, party animal? 1446 00:57:36,875 --> 00:57:40,000 - Just partying, just back from my partying. 1447 00:57:40,125 --> 00:57:42,000 [upbeat music] 1448 00:57:42,083 --> 00:57:44,333 - Hi, good girl. 1449 00:57:44,458 --> 00:57:45,667 - How are you doing? 1450 00:57:45,792 --> 00:57:47,167 - I'd say well. 1451 00:57:47,292 --> 00:57:48,708 What's up? 1452 00:57:48,833 --> 00:57:50,667 - Where did y'all go? 1453 00:57:50,792 --> 00:57:52,417 - We went to this place called Soul. 1454 00:57:52,542 --> 00:57:55,000 I've never been there before, but we had a blast. 1455 00:57:55,125 --> 00:57:57,000 - Anything surprising happen to you this evening? 1456 00:57:57,167 --> 00:57:58,458 - Not too surprising. 1457 00:57:58,542 --> 00:58:00,167 I mean, we had a bunch of dudes roll in. 1458 00:58:00,250 --> 00:58:02,000 And they actually were all walking towards us. 1459 00:58:02,083 --> 00:58:03,667 And we were like, are these strippers 1460 00:58:03,792 --> 00:58:05,417 coming for us right now? 1461 00:58:05,542 --> 00:58:07,792 - Did you throw money at them? - We didn't throw money, no. 1462 00:58:07,875 --> 00:58:09,667 They were throwing numbers out, though. 1463 00:58:09,750 --> 00:58:12,292 - Oh, they were? - They were. 1464 00:58:12,375 --> 00:58:15,542 - There was one that took a very nice liking to Jasmine. 1465 00:58:15,667 --> 00:58:20,375 And he was like, "I would treat you like a queen," 1466 00:58:20,500 --> 00:58:23,375 just like, complimenting her up and down. 1467 00:58:23,500 --> 00:58:24,917 He also breeds dogs. 1468 00:58:25,042 --> 00:58:28,333 And I was like, this feels like the things 1469 00:58:28,417 --> 00:58:29,958 she needs to hear from her husband. 1470 00:58:30,042 --> 00:58:31,708 - Yeah. 1471 00:58:31,833 --> 00:58:35,417 - I so want them to give it more time because I feel 1472 00:58:35,542 --> 00:58:40,667 like Airris just shuts down when he has pressure on him, 1473 00:58:40,792 --> 00:58:42,250 which is not a great quality. 1474 00:58:42,375 --> 00:58:45,500 But I think things would be a lot easier-- 1475 00:58:45,625 --> 00:58:48,333 not easier for them to work necessarily, but easier 1476 00:58:48,458 --> 00:58:50,958 for them to figure out if they work or not. 1477 00:58:51,042 --> 00:58:52,042 - How are you feeling? 1478 00:58:52,167 --> 00:58:53,417 - It's just crazy like, to-- 1479 00:58:53,542 --> 00:58:57,542 being this the last night, just to reflect back-- 1480 00:58:57,708 --> 00:59:01,000 having the wedding and going on the honeymoon-- 1481 00:59:01,125 --> 00:59:02,708 crazy ride. 1482 00:59:02,833 --> 00:59:05,167 - I feel like it went really fast. 1483 00:59:05,250 --> 00:59:07,083 I mean, I felt like I blinked. 1484 00:59:07,208 --> 00:59:08,542 And we're on week 8. 1485 00:59:08,667 --> 00:59:09,833 And it's Decision Day. 1486 00:59:10,000 --> 00:59:11,333 - I know, man. 1487 00:59:11,417 --> 00:59:14,000 I was out in the streets, thugging it, 1488 00:59:14,083 --> 00:59:15,833 fending for myself. 1489 00:59:16,000 --> 00:59:18,083 And now, I'm walking Duchess. 1490 00:59:18,208 --> 00:59:20,667 Life come at you fast. 1491 00:59:20,792 --> 00:59:23,167 - Now you a whole dog dad. - Now I'm a whole dog dad. 1492 00:59:27,000 --> 00:59:30,000 So being that this could be the last night, 1493 00:59:30,083 --> 00:59:32,000 how are you feeling? 1494 00:59:32,167 --> 00:59:35,292 - I'm thankful we were matched. 1495 00:59:35,375 --> 00:59:37,833 I think in this process, the only reason 1496 00:59:37,958 --> 00:59:40,042 I grew and became better was because you 1497 00:59:40,208 --> 00:59:41,625 were so honest with me. 1498 00:59:41,708 --> 00:59:44,542 I don't think I would have grown or realized 1499 00:59:44,667 --> 00:59:46,000 things about myself. 1500 00:59:46,083 --> 00:59:47,667 Or this process probably wouldn't 1501 00:59:47,792 --> 00:59:50,000 have been the same, had you just not had that honesty. 1502 00:59:50,125 --> 00:59:51,625 So I appreciate that. 1503 00:59:51,708 --> 00:59:54,833 - And in the words of Pastor Cal, that's intimacy. 1504 00:59:54,958 --> 00:59:58,000 - [laughs] 1505 00:59:58,167 --> 01:00:00,500 That's intimacy. 1506 01:00:00,667 --> 01:00:03,833 - ♪ Take another look in the mirror ♪ 1507 01:00:03,958 --> 01:00:10,083 ♪ And choose to love ♪ 1508 01:00:10,208 --> 01:00:14,458 - This is our last night together until Decision Day. 1509 01:00:16,667 --> 01:00:19,000 [laughter] 1510 01:00:19,125 --> 01:00:21,208 Just go like this and then-- 1511 01:00:21,333 --> 01:00:23,500 - Oh, [bleep]. - Did I just smack your head? 1512 01:00:23,583 --> 01:00:26,458 Sorry. - [bleep] 1513 01:00:26,583 --> 01:00:29,917 - Got to knock some sense into you since it's the last night. 1514 01:00:30,042 --> 01:00:30,833 Did I knock some sense into you? 1515 01:00:30,958 --> 01:00:35,500 - Right, knock me back into last week. 1516 01:00:35,583 --> 01:00:41,375 - Not last week, back to the altar where it all started. 1517 01:00:41,500 --> 01:00:45,000 - Where it all started. - Where it all started. 1518 01:00:45,125 --> 01:00:47,500 - This journey has definitely been 1519 01:00:47,625 --> 01:00:52,167 an emotional roller coaster for both of us. 1520 01:00:52,292 --> 01:00:54,333 - I always feel like everything's not going 1521 01:00:54,458 --> 01:00:57,250 to always be a 10 out of 10. 1522 01:00:57,375 --> 01:01:00,458 But there's always room for improvement. 1523 01:01:00,542 --> 01:01:04,667 And I definitely feel like people have room to grow. 1524 01:01:04,792 --> 01:01:08,458 I mean, I definitely would say that for Decision Day, 1525 01:01:08,583 --> 01:01:11,458 I really hope that we both process everything 1526 01:01:11,542 --> 01:01:13,750 that we've been through and take everything 1527 01:01:13,875 --> 01:01:18,250 into consideration to really determine if this is something 1528 01:01:18,375 --> 01:01:21,917 that you and I would like to continue to do together 1529 01:01:22,042 --> 01:01:26,250 and do for life. 1530 01:01:26,375 --> 01:01:31,708 I do pray that things are done according to God and His will. 1531 01:01:31,833 --> 01:01:34,000 I really pray that everything works out how it's 1532 01:01:34,083 --> 01:01:38,167 supposed to on Decision Day. 1533 01:01:38,250 --> 01:01:42,500 - On that note, Lord, it's on you. 1534 01:01:42,625 --> 01:01:44,958 - In Jesus's name. - Amen. 1535 01:01:45,042 --> 01:01:46,792 - Amen. 1536 01:01:46,875 --> 01:01:49,542 ♪ ♪ 1537 01:01:49,667 --> 01:01:53,042 - ♪ Can you handle my love ♪ 1538 01:01:53,167 --> 01:01:56,833 ♪ ♪ 1539 01:01:56,958 --> 01:01:59,167 - Next time on "Married at First Sight"... 1540 01:01:59,292 --> 01:02:02,292 [dramatic music] 1541 01:02:02,375 --> 01:02:04,375 The time has finally come for our couples 1542 01:02:04,500 --> 01:02:07,833 to make the biggest decision of their lives. 1543 01:02:07,958 --> 01:02:10,708 - I don't know what my heart is telling me to do. 1544 01:02:10,833 --> 01:02:13,875 - Today is life-changing. 1545 01:02:14,000 --> 01:02:16,167 ♪ ♪ 1546 01:02:16,292 --> 01:02:19,500 - ♪ Even if the time is running out ♪ 1547 01:02:19,583 --> 01:02:21,708 ♪ ♪ 1548 01:02:21,875 --> 01:02:24,208 - I want to love you through thick and through thin. 1549 01:02:24,375 --> 01:02:26,083 - We did have intimacy. 1550 01:02:26,208 --> 01:02:28,042 It felt good. 1551 01:02:28,208 --> 01:02:29,417 - I don't want a marriage where you're 1552 01:02:29,542 --> 01:02:31,250 appeasing me all the time. 1553 01:02:31,375 --> 01:02:33,958 It just snowballed and spiraled. 1554 01:02:34,042 --> 01:02:35,958 - I felt like I had let him down. 1555 01:02:36,083 --> 01:02:38,333 And I saw it all over your face. 1556 01:02:38,458 --> 01:02:42,375 - I still believe there's a strong connection. 1557 01:02:42,500 --> 01:02:45,000 - We did already commit to getting married. 1558 01:02:45,125 --> 01:02:48,375 So what can I do to fight for this? 1559 01:02:48,500 --> 01:02:49,667 - The time has come for you to make a decision. 1560 01:02:49,833 --> 01:02:53,458 - ♪ Now's our time ♪ 1561 01:02:53,583 --> 01:02:56,500 - Do you want to stay married? 1562 01:02:56,583 --> 01:02:58,042 - Or do you want to get a divorce? 1563 01:02:58,167 --> 01:03:02,333 ♪ ♪ 1564 01:03:02,417 --> 01:03:05,333 - ♪ Now's our time, now's our time ♪