1 00:00:02,250 --> 00:00:03,542 - ♪ Yeah, I'm going after you ♪ 2 00:00:03,667 --> 00:00:05,292 - Nice to meet you. - Nice to meet you. 3 00:00:05,375 --> 00:00:07,000 - Ten singles risked it all to find love. 4 00:00:07,083 --> 00:00:08,167 [people cheering] 5 00:00:08,292 --> 00:00:10,000 They married as total strangers. 6 00:00:10,083 --> 00:00:12,500 - ♪ Sunshine, baby ♪ 7 00:00:12,625 --> 00:00:15,000 ♪ ♪ 8 00:00:15,083 --> 00:00:17,083 - I would like a divorce. 9 00:00:17,208 --> 00:00:20,458 - With Dom and Mac already choosing divorce, 10 00:00:20,542 --> 00:00:23,167 our four final couples were confronted 11 00:00:23,333 --> 00:00:26,333 with making the biggest decision of their lives. 12 00:00:29,375 --> 00:00:30,833 - I just can't imagine life without you, 13 00:00:30,958 --> 00:00:32,167 and I don't want to ever know 14 00:00:32,250 --> 00:00:34,000 what life without you would be like. 15 00:00:34,167 --> 00:00:36,000 So I would love to stay married to you. 16 00:00:36,125 --> 00:00:38,042 - I love you fully, 17 00:00:38,167 --> 00:00:40,417 and I would love to stay married to you as well. 18 00:00:40,542 --> 00:00:42,125 ♪ ♪ 19 00:00:44,458 --> 00:00:46,417 - I just don't feel like I'm the husband 20 00:00:46,542 --> 00:00:49,333 that would be deserving of either of us. 21 00:00:49,417 --> 00:00:51,667 So I think it would be best to get a divorce. 22 00:00:51,792 --> 00:00:53,500 - I would agree that I think it's best for us 23 00:00:53,583 --> 00:00:54,667 to get a divorce. 24 00:00:54,833 --> 00:00:55,667 ♪ ♪ 25 00:00:58,542 --> 00:01:00,792 - I know the wants and desires of my heart, 26 00:01:00,917 --> 00:01:02,250 and I feel like in this marriage, 27 00:01:02,375 --> 00:01:04,458 that's not what we've come to. 28 00:01:04,542 --> 00:01:07,500 So, for those reasons, I would want to get a divorce. 29 00:01:07,583 --> 00:01:10,167 - I'm glad to have gone through this with you. 30 00:01:10,292 --> 00:01:12,958 But, ultimately, you know, I would like a divorce as well. 31 00:01:13,083 --> 00:01:14,708 ♪ ♪ 32 00:01:17,208 --> 00:01:19,333 - You've shown support. 33 00:01:19,417 --> 00:01:23,167 You know, just taking all of that into consideration, 34 00:01:23,333 --> 00:01:25,292 I would like for us to stay married. 35 00:01:25,375 --> 00:01:26,458 ♪ ♪ 36 00:01:26,542 --> 00:01:29,833 - And tonight Decision Day continues. 37 00:01:29,958 --> 00:01:32,667 Our final couple give us their answer 38 00:01:32,833 --> 00:01:36,458 to either walk away single or continue their marriage. 39 00:01:36,542 --> 00:01:38,542 ♪ ♪ 40 00:01:38,667 --> 00:01:40,833 - ♪ It's a new day ♪ 41 00:01:41,000 --> 00:01:43,750 - And just because this experiment is coming to an end 42 00:01:43,875 --> 00:01:46,458 doesn't mean that each individual's work is done. 43 00:01:46,583 --> 00:01:48,583 - Should I have my team of lawyers read over it? 44 00:01:48,708 --> 00:01:50,042 - [chuckles] 45 00:01:50,167 --> 00:01:51,708 - It's important for our ten individuals 46 00:01:51,875 --> 00:01:53,667 to reflect on what they learned in their marriages 47 00:01:53,792 --> 00:01:56,000 and how they can use that moving forward... 48 00:01:56,125 --> 00:01:58,000 - Well, he seemed happy in his picture. 49 00:01:58,125 --> 00:02:00,375 Too bad it was a lie. - [laughs] 50 00:02:00,542 --> 00:02:02,250 - To better understand themselves 51 00:02:02,375 --> 00:02:04,917 so they can have the healthy and successful life 52 00:02:05,042 --> 00:02:06,667 they're looking for. 53 00:02:06,833 --> 00:02:09,292 - There's a couple candidates that could be resurfaced. 54 00:02:09,417 --> 00:02:11,542 Being 41 and having to start all over, 55 00:02:11,708 --> 00:02:13,083 it's a little daunting. 56 00:02:13,208 --> 00:02:15,292 - I'll put my matchmaker hat on. 57 00:02:15,417 --> 00:02:17,375 - Can we do it today? [chuckles] 58 00:02:17,500 --> 00:02:19,167 - Dom, what's your life update? 59 00:02:19,250 --> 00:02:21,875 - How's that pup? - He's doing great. 60 00:02:22,042 --> 00:02:26,708 I got Beau because I needed some positivity in my life. 61 00:02:26,875 --> 00:02:28,917 - Oh, my God, Dom got a dog. 62 00:02:29,042 --> 00:02:32,333 I feel absolutely sad for that poor dog. 63 00:02:32,500 --> 00:02:34,792 - Mac and Gina, would you guys want to go on a date? 64 00:02:34,917 --> 00:02:40,000 ♪ ♪ 65 00:02:40,167 --> 00:02:41,458 - ♪ It's all or nothing ♪ 66 00:02:41,583 --> 00:02:43,875 - This is "Married at First Sight." 67 00:02:44,042 --> 00:02:46,792 - ♪ There's no other way ♪ 68 00:02:46,875 --> 00:02:49,667 ♪ It's all or nothing ♪ 69 00:02:49,792 --> 00:02:53,042 ♪ ♪ 70 00:02:53,167 --> 00:02:57,125 - Shaquille, I would say, yes, that I would love to continue 71 00:02:57,208 --> 00:02:59,167 this journey with you. 72 00:02:59,333 --> 00:03:01,875 And I would like for us to stay married. 73 00:03:02,000 --> 00:03:03,792 ♪ ♪ 74 00:03:06,375 --> 00:03:08,583 - All right, Shaquille. 75 00:03:08,708 --> 00:03:11,250 - It's been very difficult for me... 76 00:03:11,375 --> 00:03:15,208 as a man to really just try to step up to be the man 77 00:03:15,375 --> 00:03:17,583 that you wanted me to be, that you needed me to be. 78 00:03:17,708 --> 00:03:18,833 ♪ ♪ 79 00:03:18,958 --> 00:03:21,042 But... 80 00:03:21,208 --> 00:03:23,125 honestly, I'm just not settled with us. 81 00:03:23,250 --> 00:03:26,125 [dramatic music] 82 00:03:26,250 --> 00:03:27,292 ♪ ♪ 83 00:03:27,417 --> 00:03:28,833 - So what is your decision? 84 00:03:28,958 --> 00:03:34,125 ♪ ♪ 85 00:03:34,250 --> 00:03:36,583 - My decision would be for us to get a divorce. 86 00:03:36,708 --> 00:03:41,458 ♪ ♪ 87 00:03:44,125 --> 00:03:45,458 - Okay. 88 00:03:50,083 --> 00:03:52,917 - I've been feeling alone. 89 00:03:53,042 --> 00:03:55,000 I've been feeling like there's times where I needed you 90 00:03:55,167 --> 00:03:56,667 and you wasn't there. 91 00:03:56,792 --> 00:03:59,375 ♪ ♪ 92 00:03:59,500 --> 00:04:01,750 Like, what more do I have to do as an individual 93 00:04:01,875 --> 00:04:03,833 to get you to see that-- 94 00:04:04,000 --> 00:04:05,917 that it's been hard. 95 00:04:06,042 --> 00:04:08,000 And every day I've showed up. 96 00:04:08,125 --> 00:04:14,292 ♪ ♪ 97 00:04:14,417 --> 00:04:17,167 [crying] I tried to get you to let down your guards, 98 00:04:17,292 --> 00:04:20,500 but I don't think nothing is ever good enough. 99 00:04:20,625 --> 00:04:22,833 Even when you say it, I don't feel it. 100 00:04:23,000 --> 00:04:24,542 ♪ ♪ 101 00:04:24,667 --> 00:04:26,167 I don't know if there's any more 102 00:04:26,250 --> 00:04:28,833 that I can do to show you that I've been here 103 00:04:28,958 --> 00:04:31,792 for you since day one. 104 00:04:31,917 --> 00:04:33,000 ♪ ♪ 105 00:04:33,125 --> 00:04:34,958 [sniffles] 106 00:04:35,042 --> 00:04:36,917 [sighs] 107 00:04:39,750 --> 00:04:41,250 [sniffles] 108 00:04:41,375 --> 00:04:44,125 I hope that you can... 109 00:04:44,250 --> 00:04:46,625 respect my decision. 110 00:04:46,750 --> 00:04:49,208 - I feel like it takes more than eight weeks 111 00:04:49,375 --> 00:04:51,833 to decide if you want to continue in the marriage. 112 00:04:52,000 --> 00:04:54,000 I feel like I've given you chance after chance for you 113 00:04:54,125 --> 00:04:56,500 to show up for me in this marriage, 114 00:04:56,667 --> 00:04:59,083 and I've been very patient. 115 00:04:59,208 --> 00:05:01,417 And I've shown you so much grace. 116 00:05:01,542 --> 00:05:05,750 And I hate that you didn't receive 117 00:05:05,875 --> 00:05:09,167 what you felt that you needed in this marriage. 118 00:05:09,292 --> 00:05:12,500 I really wish that we both 119 00:05:12,667 --> 00:05:17,000 could have explored a little bit more 120 00:05:17,083 --> 00:05:21,375 and gave each other a little bit more time together 121 00:05:21,500 --> 00:05:25,708 to see if this is something that we wanted to do, but... 122 00:05:25,833 --> 00:05:27,083 I wish you the best. 123 00:05:27,208 --> 00:05:30,375 And I hope that everything in your life 124 00:05:30,542 --> 00:05:33,083 works out the way that you truly want it to work out. 125 00:05:33,208 --> 00:05:35,917 ♪ ♪ 126 00:05:38,542 --> 00:05:42,875 - ♪ I'm sorry that your heart is broken ♪ 127 00:05:43,042 --> 00:05:47,250 ♪ And I'm sorry that you're not the one ♪ 128 00:05:47,375 --> 00:05:50,750 - Needless to say, this is not... 129 00:05:50,875 --> 00:05:53,042 what we were hoping for. 130 00:05:53,167 --> 00:05:57,250 ♪ ♪ 131 00:05:57,375 --> 00:05:58,750 - I'm, like, totally shocked. [chuckles] 132 00:05:58,875 --> 00:06:01,500 - yeah. - I'm just, like, gobsmacked. 133 00:06:01,625 --> 00:06:04,708 I didn't expect this, Shaquille. 134 00:06:04,833 --> 00:06:07,542 But it's your life, it's your feelings. 135 00:06:07,708 --> 00:06:09,750 Only you are the expert at that. 136 00:06:09,875 --> 00:06:12,208 ♪ ♪ 137 00:06:12,375 --> 00:06:14,000 I'm just sorry. 138 00:06:14,125 --> 00:06:16,417 ♪ ♪ 139 00:06:16,542 --> 00:06:19,750 - Ultimately, my decision came from the heart. 140 00:06:19,875 --> 00:06:23,708 And my heart was just heavy and wasn't at peace 141 00:06:23,875 --> 00:06:28,375 to know that Kirsten and I can be together for a lifetime. 142 00:06:28,542 --> 00:06:31,000 Can I get a hug? Please? 143 00:06:31,125 --> 00:06:32,750 Thank you. 144 00:06:32,875 --> 00:06:36,167 - ♪ And I'm sorry that you're not the one ♪ 145 00:06:36,250 --> 00:06:38,625 - Are you [bleep] serious right now? 146 00:06:38,750 --> 00:06:40,250 Like, I should be the one crying. 147 00:06:40,375 --> 00:06:41,792 You're the one that's saying no. 148 00:06:41,917 --> 00:06:43,333 You're the one that's giving up. 149 00:06:43,500 --> 00:06:45,500 Sometimes people can aim so high, 150 00:06:45,625 --> 00:06:48,792 and they'll never receive what they really want out of life 151 00:06:48,875 --> 00:06:51,750 or be okay with who they are and where they are in life. 152 00:06:51,875 --> 00:06:54,833 So... 153 00:06:55,000 --> 00:06:56,333 good luck. 154 00:06:56,458 --> 00:06:58,917 - I'm just shocked. - It's... Wow. 155 00:06:59,042 --> 00:07:00,875 - How much does he need? 156 00:07:01,042 --> 00:07:03,792 - I'm sorry, I don't see him getting any better than that. 157 00:07:03,917 --> 00:07:10,708 ♪ ♪ 158 00:07:13,208 --> 00:07:16,167 [soft music] 159 00:07:16,333 --> 00:07:19,167 ♪ ♪ 160 00:07:19,333 --> 00:07:22,667 - It's the morning after Decision Day. 161 00:07:22,833 --> 00:07:25,000 - We said yes. - We said yes. 162 00:07:25,125 --> 00:07:28,000 - We said yes. [chuckles] 163 00:07:28,167 --> 00:07:29,500 - And we're very happy. 164 00:07:29,625 --> 00:07:32,167 And we're reunited, since we spent the night 165 00:07:32,292 --> 00:07:34,333 before Decision Day apart. 166 00:07:34,458 --> 00:07:36,167 - Excited to meet with the other couples 167 00:07:36,333 --> 00:07:37,833 and see what their decisions were. 168 00:07:38,000 --> 00:07:39,667 I think we have a pretty good idea 169 00:07:39,792 --> 00:07:41,500 of what some of them said-- most of them said. 170 00:07:41,667 --> 00:07:43,792 - [sighs] - We'll find out. 171 00:07:43,875 --> 00:07:46,583 - Either way, we're very happy that we are happy. 172 00:07:46,708 --> 00:07:50,833 And we are spending the rest of our lives 173 00:07:51,000 --> 00:07:52,917 together just like this. 174 00:07:53,042 --> 00:07:57,500 Good day to start the rest of our good days together. 175 00:07:57,583 --> 00:08:01,833 I love you. - I love you, too. 176 00:08:02,000 --> 00:08:06,083 - ♪ Painted on the back of all our scars ♪ 177 00:08:06,208 --> 00:08:10,167 ♪ Worn like a winter ♪ 178 00:08:10,292 --> 00:08:11,208 [buzzer sounds] 179 00:08:11,333 --> 00:08:14,125 ♪ ♪ 180 00:08:14,208 --> 00:08:16,125 - What's up? - What's going on? 181 00:08:16,208 --> 00:08:18,167 [door closes] - Nothing much. 182 00:08:18,250 --> 00:08:19,583 ♪ ♪ 183 00:08:19,708 --> 00:08:22,750 - Got everything packed up yet? 184 00:08:22,875 --> 00:08:25,208 - A little bit. - All right. 185 00:08:25,333 --> 00:08:29,000 - Starting to get some things... 186 00:08:29,125 --> 00:08:30,958 packed up. 187 00:08:31,083 --> 00:08:33,125 - How do you feel leaving this place? 188 00:08:33,208 --> 00:08:35,417 - I feel like it was starting to feel like a home. 189 00:08:35,542 --> 00:08:38,542 So I feel a little sad 190 00:08:38,667 --> 00:08:42,167 because I was just getting into the... 191 00:08:42,333 --> 00:08:43,833 groove of everything. 192 00:08:44,000 --> 00:08:45,917 - Mm-hmm. 193 00:08:46,042 --> 00:08:47,167 - How do you feel? 194 00:08:47,292 --> 00:08:50,083 ♪ ♪ 195 00:08:50,208 --> 00:08:53,000 - I mean, same. It was like starting to feel like a home. 196 00:08:53,167 --> 00:08:54,250 - Mm-hmm. 197 00:08:54,375 --> 00:08:55,542 - You know, even starting to see 198 00:08:55,708 --> 00:08:58,208 some familiar faces in the building, in the gym, 199 00:08:58,333 --> 00:09:00,500 making friends with the neighbors. 200 00:09:00,625 --> 00:09:04,292 Now I'm just about to dip. - [chuckles] Yeah. 201 00:09:04,417 --> 00:09:06,458 I feel like I'm starting over, 202 00:09:06,542 --> 00:09:09,458 but I feel like it's a start-over in a good way. 203 00:09:09,583 --> 00:09:11,667 - I mean, I... 204 00:09:11,792 --> 00:09:13,625 I guess I'm starting over. 205 00:09:13,708 --> 00:09:16,500 - You are starting over. 206 00:09:16,625 --> 00:09:20,333 - I don't know. I guess I'm comparing it to, like-- 207 00:09:20,458 --> 00:09:21,708 I mean, like, it was two months. 208 00:09:21,833 --> 00:09:23,500 It wasn't like there was a kid involved 209 00:09:23,625 --> 00:09:25,375 or there was a house involved. 210 00:09:25,500 --> 00:09:26,583 - No, but it's like a new chapter. 211 00:09:26,708 --> 00:09:28,583 Like, this one is closing. 212 00:09:28,708 --> 00:09:30,583 Like, this was something you did, and... 213 00:09:30,708 --> 00:09:33,208 - Yeah. - Now it's done. 214 00:09:33,333 --> 00:09:35,750 I feel like the only thing I need to do differently, 215 00:09:35,875 --> 00:09:37,667 if they gave me a do-over, 216 00:09:37,792 --> 00:09:40,000 is something I've already learned, and I'm doing now. 217 00:09:40,125 --> 00:09:41,958 I'm just gonna speak up, and I'm gonna 218 00:09:42,042 --> 00:09:45,667 say how I feel in the moment and get it done then. 219 00:09:45,792 --> 00:09:50,167 Like, I'm gonna just be sure my feelings are definitely 220 00:09:50,292 --> 00:09:52,875 out there and in the open. 221 00:09:53,042 --> 00:09:54,625 And you know there's no question. 222 00:09:54,750 --> 00:09:56,500 But other than that, I was a damn good wife. 223 00:09:56,625 --> 00:10:00,333 So, yeah, I ain't got to change much. 224 00:10:00,417 --> 00:10:02,583 - So can I come visit Duchess? 225 00:10:02,708 --> 00:10:05,792 - Can you come visit Duchess? Yeah. 226 00:10:05,917 --> 00:10:09,333 Anytime you want, you can come swoop her up. 227 00:10:09,458 --> 00:10:12,500 - You hear that, Duchess? You hear that, Dutchy Mama? 228 00:10:12,625 --> 00:10:14,167 We're not done. - [laughs] 229 00:10:14,292 --> 00:10:15,250 - We're not done. 230 00:10:15,375 --> 00:10:16,875 ♪ ♪ 231 00:10:17,042 --> 00:10:20,042 - We'll see if he come really get you. 232 00:10:20,208 --> 00:10:22,917 - I will get--visit and get-- that's two different things. 233 00:10:23,042 --> 00:10:24,583 - Oh, you just want to visit her. 234 00:10:24,708 --> 00:10:26,500 - I might. Yeah, we'll see. 235 00:10:26,625 --> 00:10:29,625 I know visit. - Okay, we'll start with visit. 236 00:10:29,708 --> 00:10:31,542 - Start with visit. Ease into the water. 237 00:10:31,708 --> 00:10:33,167 - [laughs] 238 00:10:33,333 --> 00:10:35,875 - I don't have any regrets about my decision 239 00:10:36,000 --> 00:10:38,458 to, you know, ask for a divorce. 240 00:10:38,542 --> 00:10:40,375 ♪ ♪ 241 00:10:40,500 --> 00:10:41,958 If I could go back, I maybe would 242 00:10:42,083 --> 00:10:45,208 have tried to be more open and vulnerable a lot sooner 243 00:10:45,375 --> 00:10:47,792 and not waited so long to make that happen. 244 00:10:47,875 --> 00:10:52,000 But, ultimately, I think, you know, from the exercises 245 00:10:52,083 --> 00:10:54,083 that we tried and the effort that we put in, 246 00:10:54,208 --> 00:10:57,708 we just got to a point where we both mutually agreed, 247 00:10:57,875 --> 00:10:59,500 you know, it's better for us to, you know, 248 00:10:59,625 --> 00:11:02,625 just remain friends. 249 00:11:02,750 --> 00:11:05,125 - [clicks tongue] - Keys. 250 00:11:05,208 --> 00:11:08,125 [dramatic music] 251 00:11:08,208 --> 00:11:15,042 ♪ ♪ 252 00:11:16,917 --> 00:11:19,417 - ♪ I always thought that this would last ♪ 253 00:11:19,542 --> 00:11:23,625 ♪ I never thought that you would be in my past ♪ 254 00:11:23,750 --> 00:11:24,542 ♪ I always thought... ♪ 255 00:11:24,708 --> 00:11:26,333 - All right. 256 00:11:26,417 --> 00:11:29,000 Bye to the apartment. [chuckles] 257 00:11:29,125 --> 00:11:31,083 - Bye-bye, 313. 258 00:11:31,208 --> 00:11:32,333 - 313. 259 00:11:32,458 --> 00:11:34,042 ♪ ♪ 260 00:11:34,208 --> 00:11:35,625 313, Dutch. 261 00:11:35,708 --> 00:11:37,500 - ♪ How do we move on from here? ♪ 262 00:11:37,583 --> 00:11:40,542 ♪ ♪ 263 00:11:40,667 --> 00:11:44,583 - ♪ You and me are on our way ♪ 264 00:11:44,708 --> 00:11:49,625 ♪ Yeah, you and me are on our way ♪ 265 00:11:49,708 --> 00:11:51,792 - Oh, whoa, whoa, whoa. 266 00:11:51,917 --> 00:11:54,333 Hey, hey. - Oh. 267 00:11:54,458 --> 00:11:56,000 - Oh, my goodness! 268 00:11:56,083 --> 00:11:58,792 Somebody had a walk. - Oh, boy. 269 00:11:58,917 --> 00:12:01,500 Oh. Hi, buddy. 270 00:12:01,667 --> 00:12:05,917 Hi. Oh, hi. Hello. 271 00:12:06,042 --> 00:12:08,292 - He's like, I'm getting used to walking down here. 272 00:12:08,417 --> 00:12:10,458 How you doing? - Good. 273 00:12:10,542 --> 00:12:12,792 Here we are. - I know. 274 00:12:12,875 --> 00:12:16,875 - Like, it seems like a matter of months ago 275 00:12:17,000 --> 00:12:19,500 that we moved in here. - I know. 276 00:12:19,667 --> 00:12:21,042 It's crazy. 277 00:12:21,208 --> 00:12:22,792 No matter how disappointing it might seem, 278 00:12:22,917 --> 00:12:24,375 there's always a learning lesson through it. 279 00:12:24,500 --> 00:12:26,958 And you always come out stronger on the other end. 280 00:12:27,083 --> 00:12:29,750 So I feel like this has definitely changed 281 00:12:29,875 --> 00:12:31,667 my life for the better. 282 00:12:31,792 --> 00:12:33,667 It's brought up things that, you know, 283 00:12:33,750 --> 00:12:35,708 I haven't thought about in a long time. 284 00:12:35,833 --> 00:12:37,750 It's brought up different things within myself 285 00:12:37,875 --> 00:12:40,500 that are new learning experiences. 286 00:12:40,583 --> 00:12:42,958 It's proved how resilient I am. 287 00:12:43,083 --> 00:12:45,333 I didn't even know I was this strong to be able to get 288 00:12:45,458 --> 00:12:47,667 through something like this. 289 00:12:47,792 --> 00:12:49,042 I think it's definitely life-altering. 290 00:12:49,167 --> 00:12:51,500 But I think it's a positive one. 291 00:12:51,625 --> 00:12:54,667 We'll be actual neighbors now. - Yeah. 292 00:12:54,792 --> 00:12:56,042 - And I'm going out of town. 293 00:12:56,167 --> 00:13:00,917 So, if you want to keep Hank at all... 294 00:13:01,042 --> 00:13:03,333 - You want to hang out with me? - The option's open. 295 00:13:03,500 --> 00:13:06,417 [laughs] - [grunting goofily] 296 00:13:06,542 --> 00:13:08,500 Okay, I'll take him. 297 00:13:08,625 --> 00:13:10,583 - Are you gonna miss him? - Of course. 298 00:13:10,708 --> 00:13:12,833 - Aw. 299 00:13:12,917 --> 00:13:14,583 - Come here. Come here. 300 00:13:14,708 --> 00:13:16,333 I'm not walking away with a wife, 301 00:13:16,500 --> 00:13:17,875 which was the ultimate goal. 302 00:13:18,000 --> 00:13:19,708 And I want to ultimately have a family 303 00:13:19,833 --> 00:13:21,583 and be able to grow that. 304 00:13:21,708 --> 00:13:23,625 But what did I grow is, you know, my love 305 00:13:23,750 --> 00:13:26,833 for a companion, having a dog in my life. 306 00:13:27,000 --> 00:13:29,083 That was something that I didn't anticipate. 307 00:13:29,208 --> 00:13:32,667 And, you know, it was a welcome surprise. 308 00:13:32,750 --> 00:13:35,208 I think I'm walking away with immense gratitude 309 00:13:35,333 --> 00:13:38,083 but also new learnings about myself. 310 00:13:38,208 --> 00:13:39,875 And, yeah, a lot of happy memories. 311 00:13:40,042 --> 00:13:41,625 Well, what do you think? 312 00:13:41,750 --> 00:13:43,833 Should we go ahead and scram? 313 00:13:43,958 --> 00:13:47,333 - Yeah, we got to leave our keys. 314 00:13:47,500 --> 00:13:49,333 - Keys, that's right. 315 00:13:49,458 --> 00:13:55,000 ♪ ♪ 316 00:13:55,125 --> 00:13:58,000 - And... [clicks tongue, inhales deeply] 317 00:13:58,167 --> 00:14:01,000 I guess we don't need these guys, but... 318 00:14:01,125 --> 00:14:03,125 - The last bump. - Ting-ting. [laughs] 319 00:14:03,208 --> 00:14:04,125 ♪ ♪ 320 00:14:04,250 --> 00:14:06,292 That was a really pretty ring. 321 00:14:06,417 --> 00:14:07,833 All right. - All right. 322 00:14:07,958 --> 00:14:09,167 - Are you ready to go home? 323 00:14:09,333 --> 00:14:11,958 I should try to put you in the wagon. 324 00:14:12,042 --> 00:14:14,208 I'll make it work. 325 00:14:14,333 --> 00:14:15,625 All right. 326 00:14:15,750 --> 00:14:17,667 It's not goodbye. It's see you later. 327 00:14:17,792 --> 00:14:19,000 - It's see you later. 328 00:14:19,125 --> 00:14:20,542 - Not to the apartment-- to the apartment, 329 00:14:20,708 --> 00:14:22,750 it's actually a very decent goodbye. 330 00:14:22,875 --> 00:14:23,833 - Yeah. 331 00:14:24,000 --> 00:14:26,333 - Wait, buddy. Wait for me. 332 00:14:26,458 --> 00:14:28,250 We got to whole-ass wagon. 333 00:14:28,375 --> 00:14:35,042 ♪ ♪ 334 00:14:36,708 --> 00:14:38,833 - ♪ I feel like I'm turning ♪ 335 00:14:38,958 --> 00:14:42,708 ♪ Into something I'm not ♪ 336 00:14:42,875 --> 00:14:47,333 ♪ I find myself paralyzed ♪ 337 00:14:47,500 --> 00:14:48,875 ♪ ♪ 338 00:14:49,000 --> 00:14:52,000 ♪ I hope that I'm strong enough ♪ 339 00:14:52,125 --> 00:14:54,375 ♪ To wake myself up ♪ 340 00:14:54,542 --> 00:14:56,667 - Hello? 341 00:14:56,792 --> 00:14:58,708 - Hey, what's up? - What's up, brother? 342 00:14:58,875 --> 00:15:01,458 - What you doing? 343 00:15:01,542 --> 00:15:04,000 - I am packing up. 344 00:15:07,208 --> 00:15:10,417 What are you doing? - Where y'all headed? 345 00:15:10,542 --> 00:15:11,583 - Huh? 346 00:15:11,708 --> 00:15:13,750 - Where y'all headed? 347 00:15:13,875 --> 00:15:16,167 - No, I'm packing up. I'm moving out. 348 00:15:16,292 --> 00:15:19,667 - You heading out. How you feeling? 349 00:15:19,833 --> 00:15:22,500 - I'm okay, man. Taking it day by day. 350 00:15:22,625 --> 00:15:25,167 It's kind of crazy, like, packing up my things now. 351 00:15:25,250 --> 00:15:28,500 I never imagined this, you know, happening, 352 00:15:28,583 --> 00:15:31,958 you know, especially moving out and going our separate ways. 353 00:15:32,042 --> 00:15:34,083 It seems like Kirsten has already moved out. 354 00:15:34,208 --> 00:15:35,458 So I'm-- 355 00:15:35,542 --> 00:15:37,083 - Oh, wait, she moved out? 356 00:15:37,208 --> 00:15:38,833 She hasn't come-- She got her stuff already? 357 00:15:38,917 --> 00:15:41,583 - Yeah, her stuff is gone already. 358 00:15:41,708 --> 00:15:44,333 - Oh, so there was no face-to-face after that. 359 00:15:44,458 --> 00:15:46,167 - No. 360 00:15:46,292 --> 00:15:48,458 Hopefully, she doesn't have any hard feelings towards me. 361 00:15:48,583 --> 00:15:52,083 ♪ ♪ 362 00:15:52,208 --> 00:15:54,167 But, you know, you just got to give 363 00:15:54,250 --> 00:15:55,958 people their space and their time 364 00:15:56,083 --> 00:15:57,833 to, you know, deal with everything, 365 00:15:57,958 --> 00:16:00,708 because I'm pretty sure it's tough to deal with. 366 00:16:00,833 --> 00:16:02,875 - So what's next for you? 367 00:16:03,000 --> 00:16:04,708 - Get back to life. 368 00:16:06,375 --> 00:16:08,667 I don't know, just taking things slow. 369 00:16:08,833 --> 00:16:10,667 Taking it day by day, bro. - Exactly. 370 00:16:10,792 --> 00:16:12,917 - Going from here... 371 00:16:15,208 --> 00:16:17,458 I don't have the first thought. 372 00:16:17,583 --> 00:16:19,333 ♪ ♪ 373 00:16:19,458 --> 00:16:21,542 It's definitely challenging to really pack up my life 374 00:16:21,708 --> 00:16:23,583 and move on because this is something 375 00:16:23,708 --> 00:16:25,125 that I really wanted. 376 00:16:25,250 --> 00:16:27,250 This is something, you know, that I really 377 00:16:27,375 --> 00:16:29,833 thought could work and, you know, 378 00:16:29,958 --> 00:16:31,792 you live happily ever after. 379 00:16:31,875 --> 00:16:33,542 ♪ ♪ 380 00:16:33,667 --> 00:16:35,167 But it wasn't a fairy tale. 381 00:16:35,333 --> 00:16:38,333 It was reality. to know that these are two individuals 382 00:16:38,458 --> 00:16:40,833 from two different walks of life who are trying to create 383 00:16:40,958 --> 00:16:42,208 this journey together. 384 00:16:42,333 --> 00:16:45,375 And we were intentional. 385 00:16:45,542 --> 00:16:47,250 We did show up. 386 00:16:47,375 --> 00:16:49,708 We did the assignments that the experts gave us. 387 00:16:49,833 --> 00:16:52,667 But something was just missing. 388 00:16:52,792 --> 00:16:56,500 - ♪ Don't worry is a thing that's so much easier said ♪ 389 00:16:56,667 --> 00:16:58,500 ♪ Easier said than done ♪ 390 00:16:58,625 --> 00:17:02,083 ♪ Getting back on your feet is not that simple ♪ 391 00:17:02,208 --> 00:17:04,792 ♪ When you have so far left to run ♪ 392 00:17:04,875 --> 00:17:07,833 ♪ Don't let the sun go down ♪ 393 00:17:07,917 --> 00:17:09,958 ♪ ♪ 394 00:17:10,042 --> 00:17:11,375 - [sighs] 395 00:17:11,542 --> 00:17:14,208 - ♪ Don't let the fire go out ♪ 396 00:17:14,333 --> 00:17:16,833 ♪ ♪ 397 00:17:16,917 --> 00:17:20,667 ♪ Sometimes I walk on the water ♪ 398 00:17:20,792 --> 00:17:22,708 ♪ ♪ 399 00:17:22,875 --> 00:17:25,500 ♪ But the one thing I know ♪ 400 00:17:25,625 --> 00:17:28,667 ♪ Is to never let go ♪ 401 00:17:28,792 --> 00:17:30,458 ♪ ♪ 402 00:17:30,583 --> 00:17:35,625 ♪ 'Cause everything will be fine ♪ 403 00:17:35,708 --> 00:17:37,500 ♪ In the end ♪ 404 00:17:37,667 --> 00:17:41,667 ♪ ♪ 405 00:17:52,208 --> 00:17:55,667 - ♪ This time I'm makin' time for me ♪ 406 00:17:55,833 --> 00:17:59,542 ♪ Makin', makin' time for me, makin', makin' time for me ♪ 407 00:17:59,667 --> 00:18:02,500 ♪ This time I'm takin' time for me ♪ 408 00:18:02,583 --> 00:18:06,833 ♪ Takin', takin' time for me, takin', takin' time for me ♪ 409 00:18:06,958 --> 00:18:14,000 ♪ ♪ 410 00:18:14,125 --> 00:18:18,583 - Oh, store these in the bowels of the closet. 411 00:18:18,708 --> 00:18:21,542 [upbeat music] 412 00:18:21,667 --> 00:18:27,042 ♪ ♪ 413 00:18:27,208 --> 00:18:31,542 [cell phone ringing] 414 00:18:31,667 --> 00:18:33,500 Hey, P. 415 00:18:33,625 --> 00:18:35,833 - What up? What's new in the hood? 416 00:18:36,000 --> 00:18:38,042 - I am... 417 00:18:38,167 --> 00:18:42,458 I am unbound, an unbound man. 418 00:18:42,583 --> 00:18:44,333 You know, it's gonna be a little weird not 419 00:18:44,458 --> 00:18:47,417 having a 90-pound labradoodle licking me on the face 420 00:18:47,542 --> 00:18:49,208 every morning. 421 00:18:49,333 --> 00:18:51,000 [chuckles] - Yeah. 422 00:18:51,125 --> 00:18:52,875 How are you doing with it all? 423 00:18:53,000 --> 00:18:55,208 - I was hoping that the marriage 424 00:18:55,333 --> 00:18:57,083 would be Mrs. Forever. 425 00:18:57,208 --> 00:19:01,708 And we couldn't fall on just the friendship for it 426 00:19:01,833 --> 00:19:04,292 to be, you know, a marriage. 427 00:19:04,417 --> 00:19:07,125 - Attraction does have a place, you know, 428 00:19:07,208 --> 00:19:09,000 although we're all gonna age. 429 00:19:09,125 --> 00:19:12,125 And, I mean, you're 41 now, man. 430 00:19:12,250 --> 00:19:14,667 Like, give us another ten years. 431 00:19:14,833 --> 00:19:18,458 I've told you over the years, it's work. 432 00:19:18,542 --> 00:19:21,083 A good part of this, it's work. 433 00:19:21,208 --> 00:19:22,958 - Yeah, I've kind of thought about this. 434 00:19:23,042 --> 00:19:24,500 It's like... 435 00:19:24,625 --> 00:19:26,417 you know, could I move forward with other relationships 436 00:19:26,542 --> 00:19:28,417 that I was in knowing what I know now? 437 00:19:28,542 --> 00:19:30,417 And I think, yeah, potentially, 438 00:19:30,542 --> 00:19:33,500 there's a couple candidates that could be resurfaced. 439 00:19:33,625 --> 00:19:37,000 You know, being, 41 and having to start all over, 440 00:19:37,125 --> 00:19:39,333 yeah, it's a little daunting. 441 00:19:39,458 --> 00:19:42,167 But I'm gonna be definitely more intentional 442 00:19:42,250 --> 00:19:45,000 with, you know, wanting to get serious with somebody 443 00:19:45,167 --> 00:19:47,167 and somebody that can be, 444 00:19:47,333 --> 00:19:49,167 you know, in a sustainable relationship 445 00:19:49,333 --> 00:19:51,333 and be in my life for the rest of my life. 446 00:19:51,500 --> 00:19:53,333 - I'm hopeful for you, buddy. - Yeah. 447 00:19:53,458 --> 00:19:56,000 I think I'm equipped with more tools. 448 00:19:56,083 --> 00:19:58,833 I have more sense of what I want. 449 00:19:59,000 --> 00:20:01,208 Every step gets me 450 00:20:01,375 --> 00:20:03,958 a little bit closer to the real Mrs. Webb. 451 00:20:04,083 --> 00:20:08,000 ♪ ♪ 452 00:20:08,125 --> 00:20:09,667 - ♪ Let's run ♪ 453 00:20:09,792 --> 00:20:13,583 ♪ Let's never forget how far we've come ♪ 454 00:20:13,708 --> 00:20:17,333 ♪ I think it's the best thing that we could have done ♪ 455 00:20:17,417 --> 00:20:21,667 ♪ Let's go get right in, and let's run ♪ 456 00:20:21,750 --> 00:20:23,000 - I like it. It's big, a lot of land. 457 00:20:23,125 --> 00:20:24,583 - Yeah. 458 00:20:24,708 --> 00:20:29,167 Nice. Well, we'll give Kirsten a call here 459 00:20:29,333 --> 00:20:31,542 and see how we get in here. 460 00:20:34,208 --> 00:20:37,875 [line trilling] 461 00:20:38,000 --> 00:20:38,958 - Hey, Mac. 462 00:20:39,083 --> 00:20:40,500 - How are you today? 463 00:20:40,583 --> 00:20:42,625 - I'm doing great. Are you at the house? 464 00:20:42,708 --> 00:20:45,542 - I am. I just got here. I was wondering how I get in. 465 00:20:45,708 --> 00:20:48,167 - It should be unlocked. - Okay. 466 00:20:48,292 --> 00:20:49,417 - You can go and check it out and let me 467 00:20:49,542 --> 00:20:50,958 know what you think about it. - Okay. 468 00:20:51,083 --> 00:20:52,083 I'm disappointed. 469 00:20:52,208 --> 00:20:53,500 You know, my original plan 470 00:20:53,583 --> 00:20:55,500 was to go house hunting with my wife. 471 00:20:55,583 --> 00:20:57,292 I don't have a wife anymore. 472 00:20:57,417 --> 00:20:58,667 You know, Dom's whole thing from the start, 473 00:20:58,792 --> 00:21:00,792 was, oh, I think he's just here for fun 474 00:21:00,875 --> 00:21:05,250 and doesn't plan to lay roots, blah, blah, blah, which I did. 475 00:21:05,375 --> 00:21:07,000 I did plan to lay roots. 476 00:21:07,083 --> 00:21:09,500 That was my goal, to find me a nice wife and settle down. 477 00:21:09,583 --> 00:21:12,542 And so, on to bigger and better things. 478 00:21:12,667 --> 00:21:14,542 - Oh, nice. - Nice, I like the entrance. 479 00:21:14,667 --> 00:21:17,083 - I like the entry, too. I like that chandelier. 480 00:21:17,208 --> 00:21:18,833 - That picture's creeping me out. 481 00:21:19,000 --> 00:21:20,083 - [laughs] 482 00:21:20,208 --> 00:21:23,333 But I do like the kitchen. 483 00:21:23,500 --> 00:21:24,833 - Yeah, the kitchen's nice. 484 00:21:25,000 --> 00:21:27,208 - Yeah, the appliances are new, which is nice. 485 00:21:27,375 --> 00:21:29,292 - It looks updated. - Yeah. 486 00:21:29,375 --> 00:21:31,167 - Like, the land is good. 487 00:21:31,292 --> 00:21:32,833 I do think Mac wants a lot of land. 488 00:21:32,958 --> 00:21:35,917 It is a little bit outside of, like, the range 489 00:21:36,042 --> 00:21:39,333 I think he wants to be in, a little outside of town. 490 00:21:39,417 --> 00:21:41,333 But what I'm most hopeful for Mac 491 00:21:41,500 --> 00:21:44,708 is that he's going to finally, you know, plant some roots. 492 00:21:44,875 --> 00:21:46,833 And, you know, looking at houses today 493 00:21:47,000 --> 00:21:48,750 is in the right direction. 494 00:21:48,875 --> 00:21:50,875 Mac getting divorced obviously is a bummer. 495 00:21:51,000 --> 00:21:52,333 But, you know, I'm hopeful 496 00:21:52,458 --> 00:21:54,500 that he actually does meet somebody. 497 00:21:54,625 --> 00:21:57,333 You know, that was the whole goal from the beginning. 498 00:21:57,417 --> 00:22:01,042 So, you know, I hope he finally gets what he wants. 499 00:22:01,167 --> 00:22:02,208 - I've never had a pool before. 500 00:22:02,333 --> 00:22:03,708 I could get used to the pool life. 501 00:22:03,875 --> 00:22:05,583 I like the little cabana thing out here. 502 00:22:05,708 --> 00:22:07,292 - I know. This is really nice, actually. 503 00:22:07,417 --> 00:22:10,000 I do like the cabana a lot. 504 00:22:10,167 --> 00:22:11,875 - What do we think? We're liking it? 505 00:22:12,000 --> 00:22:14,000 - Yeah. It's only, like, what, 20 minutes from downtown? 506 00:22:14,125 --> 00:22:15,792 - Yeah, it's not bad. 507 00:22:15,917 --> 00:22:17,542 - I mean, this is only the first one we've looked at. 508 00:22:17,667 --> 00:22:19,292 - Yeah, no. - I do think-- 509 00:22:19,375 --> 00:22:20,625 - No, this is ideal, though. - It's a good first-- 510 00:22:20,750 --> 00:22:22,500 - Like, I like the neighbors away. 511 00:22:22,583 --> 00:22:24,917 So, if I can find something similar... 512 00:22:25,042 --> 00:22:28,000 It seems kind of big, maybe, for me and just two dogs. 513 00:22:28,167 --> 00:22:29,500 [chuckles] 514 00:22:29,625 --> 00:22:31,833 - Well, hopefully you'll have a wife eventually. 515 00:22:31,917 --> 00:22:38,708 ♪ ♪ 516 00:22:40,708 --> 00:22:42,417 - So I have this one, and there's one 517 00:22:42,542 --> 00:22:44,917 in my closet, my junky closet. 518 00:22:45,042 --> 00:22:47,625 - Let's get to it. 519 00:22:47,708 --> 00:22:51,417 - I need to at least put some stuff in these container bins 520 00:22:51,542 --> 00:22:54,167 so I can try to get my closet a little bit more organized 521 00:22:54,292 --> 00:22:58,333 and get my life back on track. 522 00:22:58,417 --> 00:23:01,250 He had the nerve to, like, say no on Decision Day, 523 00:23:01,375 --> 00:23:04,500 and then he started crying. I'm like... 524 00:23:04,625 --> 00:23:06,500 I said, I should be the one crying. 525 00:23:06,625 --> 00:23:08,292 - So did he explain, like, why? 526 00:23:08,417 --> 00:23:10,542 - He wanted me to be more nurturing. 527 00:23:10,708 --> 00:23:14,500 And he felt like he was alone in this marriage 528 00:23:14,667 --> 00:23:17,417 and that I wasn't there for him. 529 00:23:17,542 --> 00:23:18,833 And I'm just like, okay. 530 00:23:18,958 --> 00:23:20,708 - With some of the things that he said, 531 00:23:20,875 --> 00:23:23,208 do you feel like you learned some things? 532 00:23:23,333 --> 00:23:24,708 - Definitely. 533 00:23:24,875 --> 00:23:27,042 Like, it definitely made me be more prone 534 00:23:27,208 --> 00:23:30,958 to people's feelings and make for sure I am there emotionally 535 00:23:31,042 --> 00:23:35,333 and supporting them and I'm being a nurturer. 536 00:23:35,458 --> 00:23:37,167 - So, like, how do you feel, like, now, though? 537 00:23:37,292 --> 00:23:39,667 Since it's over, do you feel like, okay, you just need time 538 00:23:39,750 --> 00:23:41,958 to, like, kind of focus on you 539 00:23:42,042 --> 00:23:45,375 because you have given so much to this process, or-- 540 00:23:45,500 --> 00:23:48,583 - Right now I'm mostly just gonna focus on myself. 541 00:23:48,708 --> 00:23:51,667 And when the time is right, it'll just happen. 542 00:23:51,833 --> 00:23:54,125 From here, the only way to go is up. 543 00:23:54,250 --> 00:23:56,000 Like, for me to just continue to focus 544 00:23:56,167 --> 00:23:59,208 on myself, my business, my health, my wealth, 545 00:23:59,375 --> 00:24:00,708 all the great things. 546 00:24:00,833 --> 00:24:03,625 I learned how to become a better woman 547 00:24:03,708 --> 00:24:05,125 for myself and for the next man 548 00:24:05,250 --> 00:24:07,208 that I get married for. 549 00:24:07,375 --> 00:24:09,167 So business is booming right now. 550 00:24:09,333 --> 00:24:10,875 And that's what I'm gonna focus on 551 00:24:11,042 --> 00:24:14,417 and allow everything else to happen, to flourish. 552 00:24:14,542 --> 00:24:17,333 I mean, now that I'm single again, 553 00:24:17,500 --> 00:24:20,708 I am coming home to myself, sleeping by myself, 554 00:24:20,875 --> 00:24:23,583 going out to dinner by myself, all over again. 555 00:24:23,708 --> 00:24:26,208 It's the whole single-life saga. 556 00:24:26,375 --> 00:24:28,333 Now, if I do decide to go back and date, 557 00:24:28,500 --> 00:24:31,833 I have to go out here and start all over again 558 00:24:31,917 --> 00:24:32,833 and meet new guys. 559 00:24:32,958 --> 00:24:34,333 Like, that's a lot. 560 00:24:34,417 --> 00:24:36,458 Dating is so much. - I know. It's a lot now-- 561 00:24:36,583 --> 00:24:38,333 - At this point, I just need a partner. 562 00:24:38,417 --> 00:24:41,167 Like, who wants-- [laughing] 563 00:24:41,333 --> 00:24:42,875 - Hey, you're my partner today. 564 00:24:43,000 --> 00:24:44,458 - [laughing] Who wants to be my partner? 565 00:24:44,542 --> 00:24:46,000 Who wants to be a friend? 566 00:24:46,167 --> 00:24:48,917 I mean, we can be a partner for a lifetime. 567 00:24:49,042 --> 00:24:53,125 We can just co-parent and do all of these things together. 568 00:24:53,250 --> 00:24:54,542 ♪ ♪ 569 00:24:54,667 --> 00:24:56,458 No, I need a husband. - You need a husband. 570 00:24:56,542 --> 00:24:58,458 - I need a husband. - You deserve a husband. 571 00:24:58,542 --> 00:25:00,333 - I deserve a husband. - You're gonna meet someone. 572 00:25:00,458 --> 00:25:01,833 - I will. 573 00:25:01,917 --> 00:25:03,167 - And God is just saying, like, not right now. 574 00:25:03,292 --> 00:25:04,958 It's coming. 575 00:25:05,083 --> 00:25:06,417 But you, like, went through this process for preparation 576 00:25:06,542 --> 00:25:08,250 for that. - Mm-hmm. 577 00:25:08,375 --> 00:25:11,500 - So, you know, just let it authentically flow to you. 578 00:25:11,625 --> 00:25:13,458 - Okay. - Organically. 579 00:25:13,542 --> 00:25:14,750 - Organically. 580 00:25:14,875 --> 00:25:16,667 I need qualified candidates. - Mm-hmm. 581 00:25:16,792 --> 00:25:18,208 And just let them show and prove. 582 00:25:18,333 --> 00:25:20,000 - Yeah. - Show and prove. 583 00:25:20,167 --> 00:25:22,667 Everybody is a friend until you show and prove. 584 00:25:22,792 --> 00:25:24,333 - I'm just gonna take it one day at a time. 585 00:25:24,458 --> 00:25:27,292 - That's it. [laughter] 586 00:25:27,375 --> 00:25:29,750 - ♪ No matter where the road ends ♪ 587 00:25:29,875 --> 00:25:32,750 ♪ I didn't give up hoping ♪ 588 00:25:36,833 --> 00:25:38,833 -There are times I want to throw it in ♪ 589 00:25:39,000 --> 00:25:42,000 ♪ 'Cause it's one step forward and two steps back ♪ 590 00:25:42,125 --> 00:25:44,083 ♪ But then I feel that rush kick in ♪ 591 00:25:44,208 --> 00:25:46,750 ♪ And I tell myself, no time for that ♪ 592 00:25:46,875 --> 00:25:48,000 - I feel like I didn't realize how many things I moved with. 593 00:25:48,125 --> 00:25:49,417 - Yeah. 594 00:25:49,542 --> 00:25:50,958 - And then when I was leaving, 595 00:25:51,083 --> 00:25:53,667 I just kept finding more things of mine. 596 00:25:53,792 --> 00:25:56,250 - Beach towels. - So... 597 00:25:56,375 --> 00:25:57,583 - Are you excited to be back home? 598 00:25:57,708 --> 00:25:59,000 - Yeah, I am. 599 00:25:59,125 --> 00:26:00,875 [cell phone ringing] Oh, my mom's calling. 600 00:26:01,042 --> 00:26:02,417 Should I answer it? 601 00:26:02,542 --> 00:26:04,125 Hold on, Mom, I'm about to put you on speaker. 602 00:26:04,250 --> 00:26:06,250 Hello. Say hi to Haley. 603 00:26:06,375 --> 00:26:08,292 - Haley. - Haley, hello. 604 00:26:08,417 --> 00:26:10,042 - Is Mike there? - Yeah. 605 00:26:10,167 --> 00:26:12,833 - Well, Haley came over to help me unpack 606 00:26:12,917 --> 00:26:15,167 because I didn't realize how much stuff I moved over 607 00:26:15,292 --> 00:26:17,833 to Clint and I's apartment until I started moving it out. 608 00:26:18,000 --> 00:26:21,167 - She moved in moved in. - I, like, actually-- 609 00:26:21,333 --> 00:26:24,667 - Well, no, our apart--or like, me and Clint's apartment. 610 00:26:24,750 --> 00:26:26,333 No, I didn't move anything into Clint's apartment. 611 00:26:26,417 --> 00:26:28,292 He's got his separate apartment now. 612 00:26:30,875 --> 00:26:33,000 My mom divorced at a young age. 613 00:26:33,083 --> 00:26:35,583 And so I think there was always that fear 614 00:26:35,708 --> 00:26:38,417 in the back of my mind that I might end up 615 00:26:38,542 --> 00:26:39,875 in the same type of situation. 616 00:26:40,042 --> 00:26:43,167 So definitely feeling disappointed. 617 00:26:43,292 --> 00:26:46,167 But if anything, this experience has shown me 618 00:26:46,292 --> 00:26:48,167 that I'm ready for marriage. 619 00:26:48,250 --> 00:26:50,458 I'm still ready to spend my life with someone. 620 00:26:50,583 --> 00:26:52,708 This experience just confirmed that. 621 00:26:52,833 --> 00:26:54,625 And I know that I have a lot to offer. 622 00:26:58,750 --> 00:26:59,833 - [laughs] - Okay, I will. 623 00:26:59,958 --> 00:27:01,125 Love you. 624 00:27:01,208 --> 00:27:02,042 - Bye. Love you. - Bye. 625 00:27:02,167 --> 00:27:04,333 [line beeps] 626 00:27:04,458 --> 00:27:06,167 - Do you think from this experience, 627 00:27:06,333 --> 00:27:08,250 you've kind of learned what you like in somebody 628 00:27:08,375 --> 00:27:09,917 and what your needs are? 629 00:27:10,042 --> 00:27:11,500 - Yeah, for me, it's just about reading the room. 630 00:27:11,667 --> 00:27:13,250 - Yeah. 631 00:27:13,375 --> 00:27:15,500 - Like, just reading the room and maybe being a tad bit more 632 00:27:15,625 --> 00:27:18,083 reserved in certain situations. 633 00:27:18,208 --> 00:27:21,000 For me, I think like the most annoying part about Clint 634 00:27:21,125 --> 00:27:23,625 is he's, like, kind of a class clown. 635 00:27:23,708 --> 00:27:27,000 It's just, like, kind of a bizarre, almost, like, crass 636 00:27:27,125 --> 00:27:30,333 sense of humor that sometimes made me 637 00:27:30,458 --> 00:27:31,667 feel a little uncomfortable. 638 00:27:31,792 --> 00:27:34,333 - And you got the big bidet here. 639 00:27:34,417 --> 00:27:36,458 Nice. - [laughs] 640 00:27:36,583 --> 00:27:38,958 - Oh, they went to Pound Town. 641 00:27:39,042 --> 00:27:40,458 - That's not what I was gonna say. 642 00:27:40,542 --> 00:27:43,167 - Shaq and Kirsten went to town. 643 00:27:43,292 --> 00:27:45,125 - Please don't moan. 644 00:27:45,208 --> 00:27:47,125 - I'm gonna moan so hard. 645 00:27:47,250 --> 00:27:50,500 It's gonna be an X-rated roller coaster by the end of it. 646 00:27:50,625 --> 00:27:52,500 [moaning] 647 00:27:52,667 --> 00:27:54,292 - Clint is just so wild that I just, 648 00:27:54,417 --> 00:27:57,750 like, couldn't find an ounce of physical attraction. 649 00:27:57,875 --> 00:27:59,667 - Now that you're not married, 650 00:27:59,750 --> 00:28:01,500 what do you think you're going to be up to? 651 00:28:01,583 --> 00:28:03,292 - I'm excited to date. - [giggles] 652 00:28:03,417 --> 00:28:07,125 - So, yeah, I guess I don't need the time to, like, 653 00:28:07,208 --> 00:28:08,458 get through heartbreak. 654 00:28:08,542 --> 00:28:09,917 Or I'm not dealing 655 00:28:10,042 --> 00:28:11,750 with, like, sad emotions... - Yeah. 656 00:28:11,875 --> 00:28:13,250 - That I need to process through. 657 00:28:13,375 --> 00:28:15,958 It's more like--I feel like I've learned so much 658 00:28:16,083 --> 00:28:17,958 through this experience of what 659 00:28:18,042 --> 00:28:21,125 I want that I'm, like, excited to put it into practice. 660 00:28:21,208 --> 00:28:24,875 - Mm-hmm. - Yeah, I'm ready to date. 661 00:28:25,000 --> 00:28:27,542 Who's gonna be the lucky man? We don't know. 662 00:28:27,667 --> 00:28:34,833 ♪ ♪ 663 00:28:34,917 --> 00:28:36,958 - ♪ All I ever wanted was a little attention from you ♪ 664 00:28:37,042 --> 00:28:38,375 ♪ But you was chasing waterfalls ♪ 665 00:28:38,542 --> 00:28:40,833 ♪ How'd that work for you? ♪ 666 00:28:40,958 --> 00:28:43,167 ♪ How'd that work for you? ♪ 667 00:28:43,292 --> 00:28:45,583 - Is that the last box? [giggles] 668 00:28:45,708 --> 00:28:48,292 - I believe so. 669 00:28:48,375 --> 00:28:49,833 Gosh. 670 00:28:50,000 --> 00:28:52,833 - I feel like that's the wedding stuff. 671 00:28:54,708 --> 00:28:58,833 Oh. - Such a gorgeous picture. 672 00:28:58,958 --> 00:29:02,083 You were so pretty. 673 00:29:02,208 --> 00:29:04,708 - Oh, gosh. 674 00:29:04,875 --> 00:29:08,667 - So how do you feel about all of this? 675 00:29:08,792 --> 00:29:10,333 Coming back home... 676 00:29:10,458 --> 00:29:12,167 - Well, I'm glad to be back home, 677 00:29:12,292 --> 00:29:15,708 but it's definitely a temporary thing. 678 00:29:15,833 --> 00:29:19,458 I'm disappointed, obviously, that we chose divorce, 679 00:29:19,583 --> 00:29:21,708 but I don't regret anything. 680 00:29:21,875 --> 00:29:25,167 And gonna keep it pushing. 681 00:29:25,250 --> 00:29:29,833 - I just want to know why he felt like 682 00:29:30,000 --> 00:29:32,833 he didn't want to stay married. 683 00:29:32,917 --> 00:29:36,125 What were some of the issues that he felt like was not-- 684 00:29:36,208 --> 00:29:39,250 - Well, the first problem is, he was never in. 685 00:29:39,375 --> 00:29:42,167 Like, he was never all-in. Like, he was never giving 100%. 686 00:29:42,292 --> 00:29:43,958 He was never trying in the marriage. 687 00:29:44,083 --> 00:29:46,000 So that's definitely a reason why 688 00:29:46,125 --> 00:29:48,625 he wanted to get a divorce, because he never tried. 689 00:29:48,708 --> 00:29:53,000 - So, when he was around us, it was a facade? 690 00:29:53,167 --> 00:29:55,042 - Basically. 691 00:29:55,208 --> 00:29:57,667 - Well, he seemed happy in this picture. 692 00:29:57,792 --> 00:29:59,833 It's too bad it was a lie. 693 00:30:00,000 --> 00:30:04,000 - [laughing] - But... 694 00:30:04,125 --> 00:30:07,083 Well, I know I'm biased, but I just don't understand-- 695 00:30:07,208 --> 00:30:10,042 What is it that he could be possibly looking for, 696 00:30:10,167 --> 00:30:11,667 if he didn't see it in you? 697 00:30:11,750 --> 00:30:13,125 - I don't know. 698 00:30:13,208 --> 00:30:15,167 - Okay, so he don't want to be married. 699 00:30:15,292 --> 00:30:17,667 Like, in my head, I feel like he don't want to be married. 700 00:30:17,750 --> 00:30:18,875 - I don't think he was ready to be married. 701 00:30:19,042 --> 00:30:20,875 I think he wants to be married. 702 00:30:21,000 --> 00:30:22,208 I don't think he was ready to be married. 703 00:30:22,375 --> 00:30:23,708 - I don't think he wants to be married. 704 00:30:23,875 --> 00:30:26,125 - He said he wants to be. - No, he doesn't. 705 00:30:26,250 --> 00:30:29,542 Because he would have stayed married with you. 706 00:30:29,667 --> 00:30:31,333 He would have gave it more. 707 00:30:31,458 --> 00:30:33,500 - But, listen, we didn't have any, like, chemistry. 708 00:30:33,583 --> 00:30:35,042 We didn't have a spark. 709 00:30:35,167 --> 00:30:37,333 - Yeah, but he is the man. - There was no romance. 710 00:30:37,458 --> 00:30:39,375 - He didn't give it a chance. - No, he didn't. 711 00:30:39,500 --> 00:30:41,000 And he admitted to that. 712 00:30:41,125 --> 00:30:43,750 - So I'm trying to figure out, what was his-- 713 00:30:43,875 --> 00:30:45,333 where was his mind? 714 00:30:45,458 --> 00:30:47,667 And what type of mindset-- - I wasn't what he wanted. 715 00:30:47,792 --> 00:30:49,375 ♪ ♪ 716 00:30:49,500 --> 00:30:50,958 - I'm gonna support her. 717 00:30:51,042 --> 00:30:54,750 But I still have questions about Airris, 718 00:30:54,875 --> 00:30:58,000 because, Airris, I looked at you as a nephew. 719 00:30:58,125 --> 00:31:01,083 I looked at your family as my family, 720 00:31:01,208 --> 00:31:03,292 that it was something that was gonna last, 721 00:31:03,417 --> 00:31:06,833 that you was gonna put in the work of being 722 00:31:06,958 --> 00:31:10,333 a husband, of being a dog dad. 723 00:31:10,417 --> 00:31:12,542 ♪ ♪ 724 00:31:12,667 --> 00:31:14,333 What happened? 725 00:31:14,417 --> 00:31:18,333 Even if his mind was open enough to see, 726 00:31:18,458 --> 00:31:22,333 how can we make this work, if we want to make it work? 727 00:31:22,458 --> 00:31:24,000 How can I make her happy? - Yeah, he didn't-- 728 00:31:24,167 --> 00:31:27,042 - He's not used to making somebody happy 729 00:31:27,208 --> 00:31:30,000 because he's used to being this person that does 730 00:31:30,167 --> 00:31:32,792 what he want to do and date and go on. 731 00:31:32,917 --> 00:31:37,583 For him to want to be married and for him... 732 00:31:37,708 --> 00:31:41,375 not ever loving somebody-- 733 00:31:41,500 --> 00:31:44,750 Ain't that what he was saying, that he's never been in love? 734 00:31:44,875 --> 00:31:48,750 How can you be 39 and never been in love? 735 00:31:48,875 --> 00:31:52,625 Ooh, girl, so much just happened. 736 00:31:52,750 --> 00:31:54,750 - In these little eight weeks, right? 737 00:31:54,875 --> 00:31:56,292 Life is just-- 738 00:31:56,375 --> 00:31:58,417 I went from single to married to divorced 739 00:31:58,542 --> 00:32:00,042 all in eight weeks. 740 00:32:00,208 --> 00:32:02,667 - Girl, you divorced quicker than I got divorced. 741 00:32:02,792 --> 00:32:04,333 - [laughs] 742 00:32:04,417 --> 00:32:07,667 - I gave it a year or two. [laughter] 743 00:32:07,750 --> 00:32:11,292 But I need a glass of wine. 744 00:32:11,417 --> 00:32:12,333 ♪ ♪ 745 00:32:12,417 --> 00:32:14,500 Oh, look at this little bottle of wi-- 746 00:32:14,625 --> 00:32:16,375 Is this what I gave you? 747 00:32:16,500 --> 00:32:18,667 - Uh-huh, it is. - I'm gonna take my wine back. 748 00:32:18,750 --> 00:32:21,333 - Oh. [laughs] 749 00:32:21,500 --> 00:32:22,833 - But you know what? 750 00:32:22,917 --> 00:32:24,875 I want you to be happy, Jas. 751 00:32:25,000 --> 00:32:27,167 There is no reason for you not to be happy. 752 00:32:27,333 --> 00:32:29,750 You have too much to offer for somebody 753 00:32:29,875 --> 00:32:31,792 that don't want to accept it. - Exactly. 754 00:32:31,875 --> 00:32:34,083 And I feel like that's just another reason 755 00:32:34,208 --> 00:32:36,500 why I decided to be divorced, was because, like, 756 00:32:36,625 --> 00:32:39,083 I'm not gonna be in a marriage 757 00:32:39,208 --> 00:32:41,333 just for the sake of saying I'm married. 758 00:32:41,417 --> 00:32:44,208 Like, I'm not about to just settle 759 00:32:44,375 --> 00:32:46,292 just so that I'm not divorced. 760 00:32:46,375 --> 00:32:49,208 - Okay, well, what about Duchess? 761 00:32:49,375 --> 00:32:52,042 - I mean, he asked-- like, he was like, 762 00:32:52,167 --> 00:32:54,333 can he have visitation, like, to come see Duchess? 763 00:32:54,500 --> 00:32:55,750 I said yes. 764 00:32:55,875 --> 00:32:58,000 - Why does he want visitation with Duchess? 765 00:32:58,083 --> 00:32:59,500 - I think he was just saying that. 766 00:32:59,667 --> 00:33:01,000 There's no way he's gonna come see Duchess. 767 00:33:01,167 --> 00:33:02,625 I think he just said it. 768 00:33:02,708 --> 00:33:04,417 He's not gonna come see Duchess. 769 00:33:04,542 --> 00:33:06,208 But him and Duchess did have a little bond. 770 00:33:06,333 --> 00:33:07,958 He did really like Duchess. 771 00:33:08,042 --> 00:33:09,833 - She didn't have no choice because he was staying 772 00:33:10,000 --> 00:33:12,167 with her mom. both: Okay. 773 00:33:12,292 --> 00:33:14,708 - [sighs] 774 00:33:14,833 --> 00:33:17,708 ♪ ♪ 775 00:33:21,708 --> 00:33:23,792 ♪ Y'all should have been down for it ♪ 776 00:33:23,917 --> 00:33:26,250 ♪ Now you ain't around for it ♪ 777 00:33:26,375 --> 00:33:27,000 ♪ ♪ 778 00:33:27,125 --> 00:33:28,458 - What's up, guys? 779 00:33:28,583 --> 00:33:29,917 - How you doing, bro? - Doing well. 780 00:33:30,042 --> 00:33:31,125 How y'all doing? - Good, man. 781 00:33:31,208 --> 00:33:32,375 - I'm Bryan. - Shaq. 782 00:33:32,500 --> 00:33:33,667 - Nice to meet you. - Dorian. 783 00:33:33,750 --> 00:33:34,667 - Dorian. - Right. 784 00:33:34,792 --> 00:33:36,125 - Nice to meet you. 785 00:33:36,208 --> 00:33:37,125 - I'm gonna be showing you some stand-ups, 786 00:33:37,250 --> 00:33:38,958 some Muay Thai kickboxing. 787 00:33:39,042 --> 00:33:40,792 - Okay, let's keep it beginner, you know. 788 00:33:40,917 --> 00:33:42,208 - Ah, yeah, we'll keep it beginner for sure. 789 00:33:42,333 --> 00:33:43,667 - [laughs] 790 00:33:43,750 --> 00:33:46,167 Working out definitely would get me back in, you know, 791 00:33:46,333 --> 00:33:48,250 the regular schedule of Shaq Dillon. 792 00:33:48,375 --> 00:33:51,250 You know, I kind of got off track throughout the marriage, 793 00:33:51,375 --> 00:33:53,000 you know, focusing on the marriage and everything 794 00:33:53,125 --> 00:33:55,000 and really wasn't being consistent with myself 795 00:33:55,167 --> 00:33:56,625 with going to work out. 796 00:33:56,708 --> 00:33:58,500 So I think this will give me the energy and the motivation 797 00:33:58,625 --> 00:34:01,167 that I need to get back active in the gym. 798 00:34:01,333 --> 00:34:03,125 - When I say jab, this'll always be your lead hand. 799 00:34:03,250 --> 00:34:05,125 Throw it out, yes? 800 00:34:05,208 --> 00:34:07,958 When I say cross, come from your backhand, all right? 801 00:34:08,083 --> 00:34:09,833 One, two. 802 00:34:09,917 --> 00:34:10,875 Roll. 803 00:34:11,042 --> 00:34:12,542 Nice, right hand. 804 00:34:12,667 --> 00:34:13,833 Pivot outside. 805 00:34:13,917 --> 00:34:14,833 Jab. 806 00:34:14,958 --> 00:34:17,208 One, two. 807 00:34:17,333 --> 00:34:18,833 - ♪ So you say you're gonna take me down ♪ 808 00:34:18,917 --> 00:34:20,250 - Here we go. 809 00:34:20,375 --> 00:34:23,333 - ♪ Well, I'd like to see you try ♪ 810 00:34:23,417 --> 00:34:27,500 ♪ Better men than you have failed ♪ 811 00:34:27,625 --> 00:34:30,833 - Today is all about elevating myself, 812 00:34:30,958 --> 00:34:32,167 focusing on myself-- 813 00:34:32,250 --> 00:34:34,875 my mental, my physical stability, 814 00:34:35,000 --> 00:34:36,417 just getting back in the right groove 815 00:34:36,542 --> 00:34:38,000 to keep moving my life forward. 816 00:34:38,083 --> 00:34:40,375 And, hey, let's get to it. 817 00:34:40,542 --> 00:34:45,083 - ♪ If the best revenge is living well ♪ 818 00:34:45,208 --> 00:34:46,833 ♪ We're living it up ♪ 819 00:34:47,000 --> 00:34:51,667 ♪ ♪ 820 00:34:51,750 --> 00:34:54,833 - ♪ I'm looking for a back road so I can get back ♪ 821 00:34:54,958 --> 00:34:58,917 ♪ To myself, to myself ♪ 822 00:34:59,042 --> 00:35:02,000 - Oh, how cute. - Hello. 823 00:35:02,125 --> 00:35:03,500 - Hi, how are you? - Hi. 824 00:35:03,667 --> 00:35:05,833 - Good. Let us know if you need help with anything. 825 00:35:05,917 --> 00:35:07,042 - All right, thank you. 826 00:35:07,167 --> 00:35:09,625 - It's so nice and lovely in here. 827 00:35:09,750 --> 00:35:12,125 Ooh, I really need some furniture, some nights stands, 828 00:35:12,208 --> 00:35:14,167 some plants. 829 00:35:14,250 --> 00:35:16,042 - New you, new furniture? 830 00:35:16,167 --> 00:35:17,583 - New me, new furniture. 831 00:35:17,708 --> 00:35:21,458 - Retail therapy? - Yeah, life after divorce. 832 00:35:21,542 --> 00:35:23,750 - ♪ Happy feeling by myself ♪ 833 00:35:23,875 --> 00:35:25,333 - You've been so busy. 834 00:35:25,458 --> 00:35:27,000 I know y'all had to move out and y'all went 835 00:35:27,125 --> 00:35:28,917 to live in separate, right, you and Chris? 836 00:35:29,042 --> 00:35:32,333 - Well, we were planning to live separately 837 00:35:32,458 --> 00:35:34,208 until we got our new apartment. 838 00:35:34,333 --> 00:35:36,667 But I've just been living in his apartment. 839 00:35:36,792 --> 00:35:38,500 We were gonna go back and forth--I'm like, why? 840 00:35:38,625 --> 00:35:40,083 - Yeah, that would have been too much. 841 00:35:40,208 --> 00:35:41,833 - And he has the big bed. 842 00:35:41,917 --> 00:35:44,167 Like, why are we going back and forth when he has the big bed? 843 00:35:44,250 --> 00:35:45,667 - Right, when you can sleep in the bigger bed. 844 00:35:45,792 --> 00:35:47,125 - Exactly. 845 00:35:47,250 --> 00:35:48,417 - That's a win-win right there-- 846 00:35:48,542 --> 00:35:50,167 sleep with your husband in the big bed. 847 00:35:50,292 --> 00:35:53,000 - Exactly. And we just got... 848 00:35:53,167 --> 00:35:55,750 new pillows, a new duvet. - Ooh. 849 00:35:55,875 --> 00:35:57,000 - Really working on it. 850 00:35:57,167 --> 00:35:58,167 Keep calling it our marital bed. 851 00:35:58,292 --> 00:35:59,667 I'm like, we're married now. 852 00:35:59,792 --> 00:36:03,417 We can't have a single man's, like, bedding anymore. 853 00:36:03,542 --> 00:36:07,375 ♪ ♪ 854 00:36:07,500 --> 00:36:09,333 - I'm so happy for you. - Thank you. 855 00:36:09,458 --> 00:36:11,167 - Well, enough about me. 856 00:36:11,292 --> 00:36:14,542 Let's chit-chat about you, because I know it was hard. 857 00:36:14,667 --> 00:36:18,167 I cannot imagine, you know, being in your situation. 858 00:36:18,250 --> 00:36:20,375 If I said yes to Chris and he said no to me, 859 00:36:20,500 --> 00:36:21,958 I would have, like, flipped some chairs, 860 00:36:22,042 --> 00:36:23,292 thrown something at him. 861 00:36:23,375 --> 00:36:25,083 - What do you mean you want a divorce? 862 00:36:25,208 --> 00:36:26,500 - His car would be in the river. 863 00:36:26,625 --> 00:36:28,625 Dr. Pepper would have been holding me back. 864 00:36:28,750 --> 00:36:30,167 - Mm, it was hard. 865 00:36:30,292 --> 00:36:32,417 But I feel more calm and more at peace about it. 866 00:36:32,542 --> 00:36:34,792 Like, it's not lingering over me anymore. 867 00:36:34,875 --> 00:36:36,708 - Do you think if he did reach out to you, 868 00:36:36,833 --> 00:36:38,667 you would be receptive? 869 00:36:38,750 --> 00:36:40,875 - If Shaquille reached out to me, I would be more receptive. 870 00:36:41,000 --> 00:36:43,583 I would feel a little better, 871 00:36:43,708 --> 00:36:46,417 because he is the one who said he wanted a divorce. 872 00:36:46,542 --> 00:36:47,958 - Right. 873 00:36:48,083 --> 00:36:50,583 - And so it's like, I know that I can reach out to him, 874 00:36:50,708 --> 00:36:54,208 but it's like, something in me to ask myself like, why would 875 00:36:54,375 --> 00:36:56,208 I reach out to someone who said that they 876 00:36:56,333 --> 00:36:58,208 wanted a divorce from me? 877 00:36:58,375 --> 00:37:00,500 So, in my head, it's just not making sense for me 878 00:37:00,583 --> 00:37:02,708 to contact him, you know? - Yeah. 879 00:37:02,833 --> 00:37:05,208 - So I'd rather him check on me and call me 880 00:37:05,333 --> 00:37:06,667 and to see how I'm doing, 881 00:37:06,792 --> 00:37:10,083 even if it's just, like, a text message, because... 882 00:37:10,208 --> 00:37:11,708 Who knows? 883 00:37:11,833 --> 00:37:13,917 Like, what if I was sitting in the room in the dark, 884 00:37:14,042 --> 00:37:15,750 not coming out of the house, 885 00:37:15,875 --> 00:37:19,500 all because he said he wanted to get a divorce from me. 886 00:37:19,667 --> 00:37:22,333 - You know, if I were in Shaquille's shoes, 887 00:37:22,417 --> 00:37:24,333 I would imagine he truthfully 888 00:37:24,500 --> 00:37:26,042 does not know what to say to you. 889 00:37:26,208 --> 00:37:27,458 I'm sure he wants to know how you're doing, 890 00:37:27,542 --> 00:37:29,125 but it's very hard to be like, I'm the one 891 00:37:29,250 --> 00:37:31,000 who broke this relationship. 892 00:37:31,083 --> 00:37:33,625 But how are you? Like, how's it going? 893 00:37:33,708 --> 00:37:36,958 Because if you were sitting in a dark room crying 894 00:37:37,042 --> 00:37:40,333 and very upset and you tell him that, then it's like, okay, 895 00:37:40,458 --> 00:37:43,458 glad to see everything's going according to plan. 896 00:37:43,583 --> 00:37:45,958 And if you're like, no, I'm living my best life, 897 00:37:46,042 --> 00:37:47,250 this is everything I've ever wanted, 898 00:37:47,375 --> 00:37:49,083 then he's gonna be like, okay, cool, 899 00:37:49,208 --> 00:37:50,667 so you don't miss me at all. 900 00:37:50,792 --> 00:37:53,458 So I would imagine he just doesn't know what to say 901 00:37:53,583 --> 00:37:56,917 and does not know what your response would be. 902 00:37:57,042 --> 00:37:59,667 I don't think Kirsten and Shaq should get back together, 903 00:37:59,833 --> 00:38:01,958 as much as I would like for them to. 904 00:38:02,042 --> 00:38:03,500 Let me make that clear. 905 00:38:03,625 --> 00:38:05,542 In a perfect world, they are back together. 906 00:38:05,708 --> 00:38:07,625 But that's not perfect for them. 907 00:38:07,708 --> 00:38:11,083 Perfect for me, and this isn't about me. 908 00:38:11,208 --> 00:38:12,875 It just wasn't there. 909 00:38:13,000 --> 00:38:16,458 And I don't think more time would really make it there, 910 00:38:16,542 --> 00:38:19,000 as much as we all hoped it would. 911 00:38:19,083 --> 00:38:22,417 I'm grieving from this breakup. Like, I am not over this. 912 00:38:22,542 --> 00:38:25,000 - At this point... 913 00:38:25,167 --> 00:38:27,375 it's not really much for us to discuss. 914 00:38:27,542 --> 00:38:29,375 Like, the only thing that we can talk about 915 00:38:29,500 --> 00:38:31,542 is just Decision Day. 916 00:38:31,708 --> 00:38:34,708 - And maybe it's obviously a difficult conversation for him, 917 00:38:34,833 --> 00:38:36,625 but he should have to have it. - Mm-hmm. 918 00:38:36,750 --> 00:38:38,292 - But closure, I think, will help, 919 00:38:38,375 --> 00:38:40,667 even if right now you feel like everything's fine 920 00:38:40,750 --> 00:38:42,292 and you're living your single life 921 00:38:42,417 --> 00:38:43,500 and happy in your own bed. 922 00:38:43,583 --> 00:38:45,667 I think that will always be gnawing at you. 923 00:38:45,750 --> 00:38:48,917 Like, why did he say no? - Yeah. 924 00:38:49,042 --> 00:38:50,125 - Like, why? 925 00:38:50,250 --> 00:38:52,500 ♪ ♪ 926 00:38:52,667 --> 00:38:55,583 - ♪ If you don't want to speak, that's fine, but... ♪ 927 00:38:55,708 --> 00:38:58,875 ♪ ♪ 928 00:39:04,625 --> 00:39:07,708 ♪ ♪ 929 00:39:07,875 --> 00:39:09,167 - Man, tequila-- 930 00:39:09,292 --> 00:39:10,833 that's what I need before I get back 931 00:39:10,917 --> 00:39:12,500 out here on these streets, you know what I'm saying? 932 00:39:12,625 --> 00:39:13,583 I wonder if it's the same the way I left it. 933 00:39:13,708 --> 00:39:15,417 - Hey, only one way to find out. 934 00:39:15,542 --> 00:39:17,292 - You think Raven got some friends? 935 00:39:17,375 --> 00:39:19,083 - We can always find some friends for you. 936 00:39:19,208 --> 00:39:20,667 - Hey, guys. 937 00:39:20,750 --> 00:39:21,958 - What's up? - Look who's back. 938 00:39:22,042 --> 00:39:23,500 - I know you ain't expect me back so soon. 939 00:39:23,583 --> 00:39:25,333 But here I am. - No! 940 00:39:25,417 --> 00:39:26,667 - Welcome back. 941 00:39:26,750 --> 00:39:29,500 Wait, so it's only three shots? 942 00:39:29,583 --> 00:39:31,333 - It's only three shots. - It's only three people here. 943 00:39:31,458 --> 00:39:33,000 - It's just me, me... 944 00:39:33,125 --> 00:39:34,375 - Airris, what? - Single again. 945 00:39:34,500 --> 00:39:36,792 - What? No. - Yes. 946 00:39:36,875 --> 00:39:38,625 - No. - Yes. 947 00:39:38,708 --> 00:39:40,750 - [sighs] I was really hoping to meet her. 948 00:39:40,875 --> 00:39:42,500 I wanted to double-date, you know, things like that. 949 00:39:42,625 --> 00:39:44,833 - We can still double-date. Don't you got some friends? 950 00:39:44,917 --> 00:39:47,042 - Oh, well, I mean, for you, yes. 951 00:39:47,208 --> 00:39:48,833 - See, let's go. - They want you. 952 00:39:48,958 --> 00:39:51,250 So it's kind of okay that you're back. 953 00:39:51,375 --> 00:39:52,833 - Let's take a shot to Raven's friends. 954 00:39:52,958 --> 00:39:54,333 [laughter] 955 00:39:54,458 --> 00:39:55,875 - Here's a welcome back to the single life. 956 00:39:56,000 --> 00:39:57,375 - You know, one thing this marriage 957 00:39:57,500 --> 00:39:59,125 taught me is, like, your relationship 958 00:39:59,250 --> 00:40:00,708 should have purpose. 959 00:40:00,833 --> 00:40:02,500 Literally, everything you do should have purpose. 960 00:40:02,625 --> 00:40:04,375 So I think, going forward, I'm gonna date differently 961 00:40:04,500 --> 00:40:05,375 than I was in the past. 962 00:40:05,500 --> 00:40:06,833 - Cheers to you. 963 00:40:06,958 --> 00:40:09,333 - You know, in the past, I was just looking 964 00:40:09,500 --> 00:40:10,917 for, like, you know, a good time, a temporary time, 965 00:40:11,042 --> 00:40:13,083 but I honestly feel like those days are behind me. 966 00:40:13,208 --> 00:40:15,333 So, going forward, you know, whether it's Raven's friends 967 00:40:15,458 --> 00:40:17,375 or, you know, new people that I meet, 968 00:40:17,500 --> 00:40:19,958 I'm definitely gonna be dating with a purpose now. 969 00:40:20,042 --> 00:40:22,000 - I think one thing that could help you 970 00:40:22,125 --> 00:40:25,500 is actually being in a long-term relationship 971 00:40:25,667 --> 00:40:27,625 before the marriage. 972 00:40:27,708 --> 00:40:31,208 You're more of a date for a few months and then, you know... 973 00:40:31,333 --> 00:40:32,542 - Skedaddle. 974 00:40:32,708 --> 00:40:35,667 - Once it's commitment time, you know, 975 00:40:35,750 --> 00:40:38,417 you chalk up the deuces, and you're on to the next one. 976 00:40:38,542 --> 00:40:39,708 - Yeah, yeah. - So... 977 00:40:39,875 --> 00:40:41,625 being in an actual long-term relationship 978 00:40:41,750 --> 00:40:44,000 would help you get those traits that you need 979 00:40:44,125 --> 00:40:45,625 to go into a marriage. 980 00:40:45,708 --> 00:40:47,667 - There's plenty of fish in the sea. 981 00:40:47,750 --> 00:40:51,250 And someone will come with maybe eight out of ten 982 00:40:51,375 --> 00:40:52,375 on your list. 983 00:40:52,500 --> 00:40:54,792 But finding ten out of ten... 984 00:40:54,875 --> 00:40:56,333 - Right, yeah, that's impossible. 985 00:40:56,458 --> 00:40:58,917 - It's impossible, so... 986 00:40:59,042 --> 00:40:59,917 - I'm definitely planning 987 00:41:00,042 --> 00:41:01,500 to get back out on the dating scene. 988 00:41:01,625 --> 00:41:03,167 Like, I don't really see a point 989 00:41:03,292 --> 00:41:04,500 of sitting around waiting. 990 00:41:04,625 --> 00:41:06,125 - [chuckles] - I hope your friends excited. 991 00:41:06,250 --> 00:41:07,833 [laughter] 992 00:41:08,000 --> 00:41:09,500 - Tall, short? 993 00:41:09,625 --> 00:41:14,000 - I can do tall, short, thick, slim, light, dark. 994 00:41:14,167 --> 00:41:15,958 - Younger or older? 995 00:41:16,042 --> 00:41:18,542 - No higher than two, no lower than eight. 996 00:41:18,708 --> 00:41:20,333 You bring it down a little bit. 997 00:41:20,417 --> 00:41:22,000 - No lower than eight years younger? 998 00:41:22,083 --> 00:41:23,333 - Yeah, maybe late-- 999 00:41:23,458 --> 00:41:24,833 - Well, that's right in my arena. 1000 00:41:24,917 --> 00:41:26,625 - Maybe late 20s, you know, it just depends. 1001 00:41:26,708 --> 00:41:28,708 - Okay, I'll put my matchmaker hat on. 1002 00:41:28,833 --> 00:41:29,792 - Yeah. 1003 00:41:29,875 --> 00:41:31,833 - I know this is very soon, but... 1004 00:41:31,958 --> 00:41:34,083 - Can we do it today? - No, no, not-- 1005 00:41:34,208 --> 00:41:38,333 [laughter] Not today. 1006 00:41:38,500 --> 00:41:39,958 - ♪ Never gonna give up ♪ 1007 00:41:40,083 --> 00:41:43,583 ♪ Never gonna, never, ever gonna stop ♪ 1008 00:41:43,708 --> 00:41:46,500 ♪ Right now I know it ♪ 1009 00:41:46,625 --> 00:41:48,792 ♪ I'm gonna make it through this ♪ 1010 00:41:48,875 --> 00:41:51,417 ♪ No matter what it takes, no matter what it takes ♪ 1011 00:41:51,542 --> 00:41:52,833 [knock at door] 1012 00:41:52,958 --> 00:41:54,875 ♪ I'm gonna keep on going ♪ 1013 00:41:55,000 --> 00:41:57,500 ♪ ♪ 1014 00:41:57,583 --> 00:41:59,583 - Hi. - What's up? How are y'all? 1015 00:41:59,708 --> 00:42:01,333 - What's up, brother? - Good, how are you? 1016 00:42:01,458 --> 00:42:03,167 - I'm good. - Nice to see you, man. 1017 00:42:03,333 --> 00:42:04,583 - What y'all up to? 1018 00:42:04,708 --> 00:42:05,792 - Pretty good. How you doing? 1019 00:42:05,917 --> 00:42:07,875 - Good, okay. - I am well. 1020 00:42:08,000 --> 00:42:11,000 Unpacking. - We back over here, huh? 1021 00:42:11,083 --> 00:42:13,333 - Back in the bachelor's pad. - Back at the crib? 1022 00:42:13,417 --> 00:42:15,292 - Yeah. - How you feeling, man? 1023 00:42:15,375 --> 00:42:16,917 - I'm good, you know. 1024 00:42:17,042 --> 00:42:18,792 Just trying to get things back organized, you know? 1025 00:42:18,875 --> 00:42:20,333 - Yeah. 1026 00:42:20,458 --> 00:42:21,833 - Get things back how, you know, I had them 1027 00:42:21,958 --> 00:42:23,250 situated before I left, so... 1028 00:42:23,375 --> 00:42:24,875 - Aw. - I know, right? 1029 00:42:25,042 --> 00:42:26,917 It's like a little sad, yeah. - Is it, like, sad? 1030 00:42:27,042 --> 00:42:30,625 - Mm, it's different. 1031 00:42:30,708 --> 00:42:33,250 I would definitely say it's different, yeah. 1032 00:42:33,375 --> 00:42:34,833 I think what I'm gonna miss the most 1033 00:42:34,958 --> 00:42:37,167 is definitely waking up to someone and going 1034 00:42:37,250 --> 00:42:38,792 to sleep next to someone. 1035 00:42:38,875 --> 00:42:40,917 That's one thing I liked best between us-- 1036 00:42:41,042 --> 00:42:42,833 no matter how we felt, 1037 00:42:42,958 --> 00:42:46,000 we were there every morning and every night. 1038 00:42:46,167 --> 00:42:49,000 - So, bro, this is my question. - Mm-hmm. 1039 00:42:49,125 --> 00:42:52,000 - Do you have any regrets about, like, 1040 00:42:52,083 --> 00:42:54,500 man, did I make the wrong--like... 1041 00:42:54,625 --> 00:42:56,500 - I mean, that's the journey of life. 1042 00:42:56,583 --> 00:42:58,333 I don't want to go through, like, regretting, 1043 00:42:58,417 --> 00:43:00,000 like, hey, I made the wrong mistake. 1044 00:43:00,167 --> 00:43:01,625 It happened. - Yeah. 1045 00:43:01,708 --> 00:43:03,250 - And I can't go back and change it. 1046 00:43:03,375 --> 00:43:04,500 I don't want to live in the past. 1047 00:43:04,667 --> 00:43:06,417 Move forward. 1048 00:43:06,542 --> 00:43:08,333 But, you know, I just really wish it could have worked out. 1049 00:43:08,458 --> 00:43:09,667 - Me too. 1050 00:43:09,792 --> 00:43:11,500 - But I just wasn't settled on it. 1051 00:43:11,667 --> 00:43:14,000 And, ultimately, I think everybody deserve happiness. 1052 00:43:14,125 --> 00:43:15,833 And not to say, like, I wasn't happy, 1053 00:43:15,917 --> 00:43:17,583 but I want to be overjoyed. - Yeah. 1054 00:43:17,708 --> 00:43:20,542 - Like, I want to be, like, willing to come home 1055 00:43:20,667 --> 00:43:22,667 and hug you and jump on you. - Yeah. 1056 00:43:22,750 --> 00:43:24,333 - But it just wasn't there. 1057 00:43:24,458 --> 00:43:27,167 Like, for me, in that moment, it was like, dang, like, 1058 00:43:27,250 --> 00:43:29,792 I'm really having to say, I want to get a divorce. 1059 00:43:29,917 --> 00:43:32,167 I never thought I would say that in my life. 1060 00:43:32,292 --> 00:43:33,917 - Yeah. 1061 00:43:34,042 --> 00:43:36,917 - And it was scary, 'cause it was like, what's next? 1062 00:43:37,042 --> 00:43:38,750 - Right. 1063 00:43:38,875 --> 00:43:41,000 - So, in this moment, it's like, yeah, I got a good job. 1064 00:43:41,083 --> 00:43:44,500 My career is good, my school, you know, everything is good. 1065 00:43:44,625 --> 00:43:46,958 But it's kind of, like, no, like, what's next? 1066 00:43:47,042 --> 00:43:49,125 Like, if you want to find your real happiness, 1067 00:43:49,208 --> 00:43:50,167 how do you even get there? 1068 00:43:50,292 --> 00:43:51,500 And I'm, like, stuck. 1069 00:43:51,625 --> 00:43:54,542 Like, okay, wake up, show up every day, 1070 00:43:54,667 --> 00:43:56,458 do stuff that make you happy. 1071 00:43:56,542 --> 00:43:57,708 - So what is next? 1072 00:43:57,833 --> 00:44:00,583 - What is next? Yeah. What is next? 1073 00:44:00,708 --> 00:44:02,500 - Do you think, like, if you take some time, 1074 00:44:02,625 --> 00:44:04,250 maybe you could try to get her back? 1075 00:44:04,375 --> 00:44:05,417 - Yeah, is that an option? 1076 00:44:05,542 --> 00:44:07,125 Are you off the market? 1077 00:44:07,250 --> 00:44:08,750 If somebody walk up to you tomorrow, is it like, hey-- 1078 00:44:08,875 --> 00:44:11,042 Like, what's next? 1079 00:44:11,208 --> 00:44:13,708 - For her and I, I would like us to become friends, 1080 00:44:13,833 --> 00:44:15,375 because you never know what happens. 1081 00:44:15,542 --> 00:44:16,792 You never know if we just really 1082 00:44:16,917 --> 00:44:19,208 needed some real-life time apart 1083 00:44:19,333 --> 00:44:21,833 to really think about our-- 1084 00:44:21,958 --> 00:44:24,500 about what we wanted and needed out of the marriage 1085 00:44:24,583 --> 00:44:27,125 and really do some self-evaluation. 1086 00:44:27,208 --> 00:44:29,500 And, you know, what if that time does happen, 1087 00:44:29,583 --> 00:44:30,958 to where it's kind of like, okay, 1088 00:44:31,042 --> 00:44:33,458 let's start off as friends? 1089 00:44:33,542 --> 00:44:34,542 Because, hey, we're still married. 1090 00:44:34,667 --> 00:44:35,833 We ain't divorced yet. 1091 00:44:35,917 --> 00:44:37,292 Like, let's start off as friends 1092 00:44:37,375 --> 00:44:38,625 and then go on from there. 1093 00:44:38,708 --> 00:44:40,167 But then it's kind of like, 1094 00:44:40,292 --> 00:44:42,000 when a person tell they don't want to have nothing to do 1095 00:44:42,167 --> 00:44:43,708 with you, how that supposed to make you feel when you done 1096 00:44:43,833 --> 00:44:45,208 went through this long process with this person 1097 00:44:45,375 --> 00:44:46,542 and shared emotions 1098 00:44:46,667 --> 00:44:48,583 and thoughts and feelings with this person? 1099 00:44:48,708 --> 00:44:50,500 And that's kind of like, yeah, like-- 1100 00:44:50,583 --> 00:44:51,833 Yeah, I don't have anything-- 1101 00:44:51,958 --> 00:44:53,958 - Well, people say things they don't mean, bro. 1102 00:44:54,042 --> 00:44:56,708 - Out of anger. - And time changes things, bro. 1103 00:44:56,875 --> 00:44:59,792 Like, me and my wife, at a certain time, 1104 00:44:59,917 --> 00:45:02,458 broke up and wasn't together. - Yeah, before we was married. 1105 00:45:02,542 --> 00:45:04,167 - Before we was-- yeah, of course. 1106 00:45:04,250 --> 00:45:06,000 But I can't even imagine that now, you know what I'm saying? 1107 00:45:06,167 --> 00:45:07,667 But there was a time where that was what it is, 1108 00:45:07,792 --> 00:45:09,792 you know what I'm saying? So it's just like-- 1109 00:45:09,875 --> 00:45:12,042 It sounds like you open to a reconciliation. 1110 00:45:12,167 --> 00:45:14,875 - I mean, if we talk things through. 1111 00:45:15,042 --> 00:45:18,167 - Honestly, bro, I thought y'all were a great match. 1112 00:45:18,333 --> 00:45:20,958 - I guess the sad thing about it is that we'll never know 1113 00:45:21,042 --> 00:45:23,458 which way would have been the better way, you know, 1114 00:45:23,542 --> 00:45:26,375 to say no and walk away or to say yes. 1115 00:45:26,500 --> 00:45:28,375 - You know, you never know. 1116 00:45:28,500 --> 00:45:32,208 ♪ ♪ 1117 00:45:37,083 --> 00:45:42,542 ♪ ♪ 1118 00:45:42,667 --> 00:45:43,625 [door opens] 1119 00:45:43,708 --> 00:45:44,958 - Hello, hello. - Hey. 1120 00:45:45,042 --> 00:45:47,792 - Come here, Char-Char. Hi, boys. 1121 00:45:47,917 --> 00:45:48,875 - I was just prepping them for you. 1122 00:45:49,000 --> 00:45:51,208 - [barking] - Hi. 1123 00:45:51,333 --> 00:45:52,958 - Aw. - I know. 1124 00:45:53,042 --> 00:45:55,292 - He wants to play. He wants play time. 1125 00:45:55,417 --> 00:45:56,625 Go get him, Char. - Hi. 1126 00:45:56,750 --> 00:45:58,167 - Hi. 1127 00:45:58,333 --> 00:46:00,250 So I ordered us dinner. - Oh, good. 1128 00:46:00,375 --> 00:46:01,625 Thank you. 1129 00:46:01,708 --> 00:46:03,833 - Is it weird packing an overnight bag? 1130 00:46:03,917 --> 00:46:05,875 - Yeah, I'm like, I have to remember all the things. 1131 00:46:06,000 --> 00:46:07,500 And you know I probably forgot something, but-- 1132 00:46:07,583 --> 00:46:09,292 - Well, it's only temporary. 1133 00:46:09,375 --> 00:46:11,458 - I'm just gonna put it-- Oh, our box with all of our... 1134 00:46:11,542 --> 00:46:12,667 - Yeah. - Vows and stuff. 1135 00:46:12,792 --> 00:46:14,625 Well, I'm just gonna add to the pile. 1136 00:46:14,708 --> 00:46:17,292 - Speaking of which, got the lease agreement. 1137 00:46:17,375 --> 00:46:19,000 - Oh, nice. 1138 00:46:19,167 --> 00:46:21,000 - So... 1139 00:46:21,125 --> 00:46:23,583 - Should I have my team of lawyers read over it? 1140 00:46:23,708 --> 00:46:25,583 - [chuckles] Right? 1141 00:46:25,708 --> 00:46:26,708 - But you read it, right? 1142 00:46:26,875 --> 00:46:28,500 - Yeah. - Okay. 1143 00:46:28,625 --> 00:46:30,208 There's nothing in here that says, like, if Nicole talks 1144 00:46:30,333 --> 00:46:31,917 too much in the morning, she's not allowed 1145 00:46:32,042 --> 00:46:35,375 in the apartment for 36 hours? - No. 1146 00:46:35,500 --> 00:46:37,500 - All right. - Trust me. 1147 00:46:37,625 --> 00:46:39,042 It's all from the building, so... 1148 00:46:39,167 --> 00:46:40,667 But it'll make it official, 1149 00:46:40,833 --> 00:46:42,708 and we can move in in a couple of weeks. 1150 00:46:42,833 --> 00:46:44,917 Here, I'll sign it. - Wow. 1151 00:46:45,042 --> 00:46:47,583 - Yeah. - This is happening. 1152 00:46:47,708 --> 00:46:49,333 You have, like, a real adult signature. 1153 00:46:49,417 --> 00:46:51,000 - I know. 1154 00:46:51,125 --> 00:46:53,208 So this is happening. So I'll turn this in tomorrow. 1155 00:46:53,375 --> 00:46:55,000 - And then we have our apartment. 1156 00:46:55,125 --> 00:46:57,708 - Yeah, there we go. - Go, team, go. 1157 00:46:57,833 --> 00:47:01,208 ♪ ♪ 1158 00:47:01,333 --> 00:47:03,875 - Look at them. They're ready. - Look at them. 1159 00:47:04,042 --> 00:47:05,500 Is food being delivered? 1160 00:47:05,583 --> 00:47:06,917 We don't have to pick it up, right? 1161 00:47:07,042 --> 00:47:08,375 - Yeah, it's being delivered. - Nice. 1162 00:47:08,542 --> 00:47:11,167 - We don't have to pick it up. - Full service. 1163 00:47:11,292 --> 00:47:14,000 - I mean, I figured we might as well be a little lazy. 1164 00:47:14,125 --> 00:47:18,167 - Once we're on a schedule and it's just our one apartment 1165 00:47:18,250 --> 00:47:21,250 and not our separate apartments, 1166 00:47:21,375 --> 00:47:25,542 we'll have to figure out how we're splitting everything. 1167 00:47:25,708 --> 00:47:28,500 Do you think we should set up 1168 00:47:28,583 --> 00:47:29,958 a separate account where we put, 1169 00:47:30,042 --> 00:47:32,792 whatever our bills are, 1170 00:47:32,917 --> 00:47:35,250 like, half that amount directly goes in there 1171 00:47:35,375 --> 00:47:37,000 so it just pulls from that account? 1172 00:47:37,083 --> 00:47:39,000 Instead of like, you paying for this, I pay for that, 1173 00:47:39,125 --> 00:47:41,708 and then we have to send each other money? 1174 00:47:41,875 --> 00:47:43,833 - Well, I have no problem making 1175 00:47:43,917 --> 00:47:45,125 the payment each month for it. 1176 00:47:45,250 --> 00:47:47,167 And then we can just split it. 1177 00:47:47,250 --> 00:47:49,542 I mean, you can just send it to me over one of those... 1178 00:47:49,708 --> 00:47:51,792 - Apps. - Well... 1179 00:47:51,917 --> 00:47:54,417 - I could write you a check. - [chuckles] Yeah. 1180 00:47:54,542 --> 00:47:57,375 [knock at door, dogs barking] - That's probably the food. 1181 00:47:57,542 --> 00:47:59,250 - Food's here. 1182 00:47:59,375 --> 00:48:00,875 - Hey, boys. 1183 00:48:01,000 --> 00:48:04,042 - I think a shared account makes sense immediately. 1184 00:48:04,208 --> 00:48:06,333 But if it's something that Chris isn't 1185 00:48:06,458 --> 00:48:08,708 comfortable with right now, it's not important enough 1186 00:48:08,875 --> 00:48:10,417 for me to push the topic. 1187 00:48:10,542 --> 00:48:13,500 But eventually it's gonna get tiresome for him. 1188 00:48:13,625 --> 00:48:17,333 But he will hear that or figure that out on his own. 1189 00:48:17,458 --> 00:48:20,000 - So do you feel like all the pressure 1190 00:48:20,125 --> 00:48:22,167 and everything is off now that we're past Decision Day? 1191 00:48:22,250 --> 00:48:24,667 - Yeah. - Do you feel a lot better? 1192 00:48:24,792 --> 00:48:26,042 - You know, I was a little nervous. 1193 00:48:26,208 --> 00:48:28,167 I was like okay, well, what happens 1194 00:48:28,292 --> 00:48:30,333 when we go to figure things out if we're not on the same page 1195 00:48:30,458 --> 00:48:31,833 like we always are? 1196 00:48:31,958 --> 00:48:33,333 But you have made a legally binding-- 1197 00:48:33,500 --> 00:48:35,333 another legally binding commitment to me. 1198 00:48:35,417 --> 00:48:37,875 So I know no one's going anywhere. 1199 00:48:38,000 --> 00:48:39,333 - And then... 1200 00:48:39,458 --> 00:48:41,708 ♪ ♪ 1201 00:48:41,833 --> 00:48:44,167 Eventually when you feel comfortable 1202 00:48:44,250 --> 00:48:47,542 and have time, your last name, that's a legal thing. 1203 00:48:47,667 --> 00:48:49,833 ♪ ♪ 1204 00:48:50,000 --> 00:48:51,708 There's no rush on it. 1205 00:48:51,833 --> 00:48:53,250 ♪ ♪ 1206 00:48:53,375 --> 00:48:54,458 - It's funny... 1207 00:48:54,542 --> 00:48:55,792 ♪ ♪ 1208 00:48:55,875 --> 00:48:57,208 That you should say that. 1209 00:48:57,333 --> 00:48:59,542 - Did you already do it? - I didn't. 1210 00:48:59,708 --> 00:49:00,833 - Oh. 1211 00:49:00,917 --> 00:49:04,292 - But I did get... 1212 00:49:04,417 --> 00:49:08,500 all of the paperwork... - To change the name? 1213 00:49:08,583 --> 00:49:10,667 - And all of the envelopes to change my name. 1214 00:49:10,792 --> 00:49:12,250 Changing my last name is actually 1215 00:49:12,375 --> 00:49:14,458 way more important to me than I thought it would be. 1216 00:49:14,542 --> 00:49:16,167 I always viewed it as just something 1217 00:49:16,250 --> 00:49:17,500 you do when you get married. 1218 00:49:17,625 --> 00:49:19,125 But it is an act of choice. 1219 00:49:19,208 --> 00:49:21,000 You don't have to change your last name. 1220 00:49:21,083 --> 00:49:23,500 And the fact that Chris wants me to 1221 00:49:23,625 --> 00:49:25,083 but isn't pressuring me to 1222 00:49:25,208 --> 00:49:27,125 and keeps saying it's my choice 1223 00:49:27,208 --> 00:49:28,792 makes me want to change it even more. 1224 00:49:28,875 --> 00:49:30,833 So it's exciting. 1225 00:49:30,958 --> 00:49:32,417 - It says let's make it official. 1226 00:49:32,542 --> 00:49:33,708 - Let's make it official. 1227 00:49:33,875 --> 00:49:35,333 So... 1228 00:49:35,458 --> 00:49:37,875 - So you got to mail off, like--Oh, wow. That's crazy. 1229 00:49:38,000 --> 00:49:39,958 - I just wanted you to see how committed I am 1230 00:49:40,042 --> 00:49:42,000 to changing my last name so we can-- 1231 00:49:42,083 --> 00:49:43,500 not that we're not official now. 1232 00:49:43,625 --> 00:49:46,208 But now I will officially be Nicole Ashley Thielk, 1233 00:49:46,333 --> 00:49:48,833 and I will live at this new address... 1234 00:49:48,958 --> 00:49:50,667 - Yeah. - With my husband 1235 00:49:50,833 --> 00:49:52,250 and our three crazy dogs. 1236 00:49:52,375 --> 00:49:58,208 - ♪ I only want to love you ♪ 1237 00:50:03,500 --> 00:50:07,667 ♪ ♪ 1238 00:50:07,792 --> 00:50:10,417 - I like it. 1239 00:50:10,542 --> 00:50:12,625 - Cool. - It's cool. 1240 00:50:12,750 --> 00:50:14,917 This is gonna be fun. - I know, I'm excited. 1241 00:50:15,042 --> 00:50:16,500 - Definitely want to put a bunch 1242 00:50:16,625 --> 00:50:18,333 of people who might be under tense situations 1243 00:50:18,417 --> 00:50:21,417 in front of axes. 1244 00:50:21,542 --> 00:50:24,125 - Oh, look who it is. Long time, no see. 1245 00:50:24,250 --> 00:50:25,375 - Nice to see you. 1246 00:50:25,500 --> 00:50:26,833 ♪ ♪ 1247 00:50:26,958 --> 00:50:28,458 - Hi. 1248 00:50:28,583 --> 00:50:31,667 Oh, you look so nice. - How are you? 1249 00:50:31,833 --> 00:50:33,625 ♪ ♪ 1250 00:50:33,708 --> 00:50:35,292 - Your hair looks so good. 1251 00:50:35,375 --> 00:50:37,583 - Good to see you. God, everybody looks good. 1252 00:50:37,708 --> 00:50:42,167 - ♪ Because you can't have the shadows without the sun ♪ 1253 00:50:42,292 --> 00:50:44,833 - Oh, hello. - I brought him. 1254 00:50:44,958 --> 00:50:47,333 ♪ Oh, oh, oh, 'cause you can't kill the light... ♪ 1255 00:50:47,417 --> 00:50:48,792 - Hello. 1256 00:50:48,875 --> 00:50:51,833 - ♪ With bullets and guns ♪ 1257 00:50:51,958 --> 00:50:55,333 ♪ Whoa, oh, oh, oh, oh, oh ♪ 1258 00:50:55,417 --> 00:50:57,417 - We're all together again. 1259 00:50:57,542 --> 00:51:00,167 - You know, we all started this beautiful journey together. 1260 00:51:00,292 --> 00:51:03,292 And I know it was a big day for everyone, Decision Day. 1261 00:51:03,375 --> 00:51:05,750 I know some of us made that decision 1262 00:51:05,875 --> 00:51:06,917 earlier than yesterday. 1263 00:51:07,042 --> 00:51:08,500 But thank you for joining. 1264 00:51:08,625 --> 00:51:10,833 - We'd love to hear an update on your lives. 1265 00:51:10,917 --> 00:51:12,292 What's happened... 1266 00:51:12,375 --> 00:51:13,792 - Is there any new significant others? 1267 00:51:13,917 --> 00:51:15,292 - Since y'all went "splitskies"? 1268 00:51:15,375 --> 00:51:17,958 - "Splitskies"? - Work, a little play. 1269 00:51:18,083 --> 00:51:19,250 - You been going on any dates? 1270 00:51:19,375 --> 00:51:20,833 - Yeah, I've been on some dates. 1271 00:51:20,958 --> 00:51:21,958 - Okay. - Okay. 1272 00:51:22,083 --> 00:51:23,250 - I'm here for it. - Yeah. 1273 00:51:23,375 --> 00:51:25,000 - Any promising dates? 1274 00:51:25,125 --> 00:51:26,750 Because we're happy to vet these new ladies. 1275 00:51:26,875 --> 00:51:28,708 - I don't know if I want you guys vetting my dates. 1276 00:51:28,875 --> 00:51:30,333 [laughter] 1277 00:51:30,458 --> 00:51:32,333 Maybe Nicole. Maybe Nicole. 1278 00:51:32,458 --> 00:51:34,417 - Nicole's good. Nicole's good. 1279 00:51:34,542 --> 00:51:36,667 - Dom, what's your life update? 1280 00:51:36,792 --> 00:51:38,167 - How's that pup? 1281 00:51:38,250 --> 00:51:40,667 - Oh, he's doing great. 1282 00:51:40,792 --> 00:51:42,000 - So you got a dog? 1283 00:51:42,083 --> 00:51:45,167 - Yeah, I got Beau because I needed 1284 00:51:45,250 --> 00:51:47,292 some positivity in my life. 1285 00:51:47,375 --> 00:51:51,292 This whole experience is, like, super, like, 1286 00:51:51,417 --> 00:51:52,917 emotionally draining, I feel like. 1287 00:51:53,042 --> 00:51:56,875 And it's very stressful, like, 1288 00:51:57,000 --> 00:51:58,583 the divorce with Mac. 1289 00:51:58,708 --> 00:52:02,292 So I feel like it is the only love I need in my life. 1290 00:52:02,417 --> 00:52:06,333 So that's wonderful. He keeps me busy. 1291 00:52:06,500 --> 00:52:10,292 - Oh, my God, Dom got a dog. Like, you got to be kidding me. 1292 00:52:10,375 --> 00:52:13,625 Mind you, Dom works 9:00 to 5:00 throughout the week, 1293 00:52:13,750 --> 00:52:16,375 wants to travel, loves to party on the weekends. 1294 00:52:16,542 --> 00:52:20,375 I feel absolutely sad for that poor dog 1295 00:52:20,500 --> 00:52:23,000 that is gonna be stuck in a cage 9:00 to 5:00. 1296 00:52:23,125 --> 00:52:24,375 I'm not surprised, though, either. 1297 00:52:24,542 --> 00:52:27,167 It sounds like something Dom would do. 1298 00:52:27,250 --> 00:52:30,958 It sounds like an immature thing to do. 1299 00:52:31,042 --> 00:52:32,708 - And that's about it. - There you go. 1300 00:52:32,833 --> 00:52:34,500 - Yeah. 1301 00:52:34,667 --> 00:52:37,667 - So I would love to hear how everyone's Decision Day went. 1302 00:52:37,792 --> 00:52:41,542 - Well, me and Jasmine mutually agreed that it was best for us 1303 00:52:41,708 --> 00:52:44,208 to, you know, go our separate ways. 1304 00:52:44,333 --> 00:52:47,250 But we're still, like, thankful for this process. 1305 00:52:47,375 --> 00:52:49,542 And, like, I feel like we're ending on a good note, 1306 00:52:49,667 --> 00:52:52,000 I mean, as good of a note as you can be. 1307 00:52:52,083 --> 00:52:53,625 - Even though we're really great friends-- 1308 00:52:53,708 --> 00:52:55,583 like, because we're really great friends, 1309 00:52:55,708 --> 00:52:57,708 we have a solid foundation-- it just wasn't there for us. 1310 00:52:57,833 --> 00:53:00,458 But I really do feel like I wouldn't have grown 1311 00:53:00,542 --> 00:53:02,750 into the woman I am had I not been matched with him. 1312 00:53:02,875 --> 00:53:05,417 I feel like we were placed in each other's lives 1313 00:53:05,542 --> 00:53:07,375 for a reason, so I'm thankful for that. 1314 00:53:07,500 --> 00:53:10,042 - That was very well said. - Yeah. 1315 00:53:10,208 --> 00:53:12,417 - Anyway... - [imitates bell dinging] 1316 00:53:12,542 --> 00:53:14,042 - I'm still gonna go play with Duchess. 1317 00:53:14,208 --> 00:53:15,625 [laughter] You know, we're-- 1318 00:53:15,750 --> 00:53:17,625 - You're a dog guy now. - A dog dad. 1319 00:53:17,750 --> 00:53:19,000 - Yeah, that's growth right there. 1320 00:53:19,083 --> 00:53:20,500 - A 360. 1321 00:53:20,667 --> 00:53:23,000 - I got to take care of my responsibilities 1322 00:53:23,125 --> 00:53:25,292 as a dog dad, you know? [laughter] 1323 00:53:25,375 --> 00:53:26,500 - What about everybody else? 1324 00:53:26,625 --> 00:53:28,042 - Well, Gina and I will be renewing 1325 00:53:28,167 --> 00:53:30,542 our vows tomorrow, actually. 1326 00:53:33,167 --> 00:53:36,208 So, yeah, we're looking forward to... 1327 00:53:36,375 --> 00:53:39,500 like, starting off on a new page. 1328 00:53:39,625 --> 00:53:44,250 No, we decided we're the big D, the big D. 1329 00:53:44,375 --> 00:53:46,167 - We're leaving super amicable. 1330 00:53:46,292 --> 00:53:48,625 I don't feel like there's any animosity. 1331 00:53:48,708 --> 00:53:52,333 And, yeah, the interesting fact is that we still 1332 00:53:52,458 --> 00:53:54,042 live in the same building. 1333 00:53:54,167 --> 00:53:57,333 And so I told him he is welcome to have 1334 00:53:57,500 --> 00:54:00,167 visitation rights... [laughter] 1335 00:54:00,292 --> 00:54:03,000 As long as he doesn't kidnap Hank. 1336 00:54:03,083 --> 00:54:05,500 - At least they got a plan. 1337 00:54:05,625 --> 00:54:08,250 - So we're all good. - If Hank gone, he the man. 1338 00:54:08,375 --> 00:54:10,875 - I know nothing. 1339 00:54:11,000 --> 00:54:12,792 - If you see this note, it's already too late. 1340 00:54:12,917 --> 00:54:14,833 [laughter] 1341 00:54:15,000 --> 00:54:16,375 - Nicole and Chris, what's up? 1342 00:54:16,500 --> 00:54:18,125 - Yeah, we'll drop a bomb on you guys right now. 1343 00:54:18,250 --> 00:54:20,208 You guys didn't know this, but we said yes. 1344 00:54:20,375 --> 00:54:24,667 [cheers and applause] - Wow. 1345 00:54:24,833 --> 00:54:27,083 Well, congratulations. - Thank you. 1346 00:54:27,208 --> 00:54:29,167 - Thank you. Thank you. 1347 00:54:29,250 --> 00:54:31,667 - So, Shaq... - Airris. 1348 00:54:31,750 --> 00:54:34,625 [laughter] 1349 00:54:34,708 --> 00:54:38,083 Well... 1350 00:54:38,208 --> 00:54:40,375 ultimately, I decided-- 1351 00:54:40,500 --> 00:54:43,000 I can't speak for us, but I decided to say no. 1352 00:54:43,125 --> 00:54:44,333 ♪ ♪ 1353 00:54:44,458 --> 00:54:46,458 And it honestly came from my heart. 1354 00:54:46,583 --> 00:54:48,958 It was like an emotional roller coaster for both of us 1355 00:54:49,042 --> 00:54:50,292 the entire time. 1356 00:54:50,417 --> 00:54:53,042 And I don't want you to hate me. 1357 00:54:53,167 --> 00:54:54,667 I just didn't feel it. 1358 00:54:54,750 --> 00:54:57,083 And, ultimately, it did come on Decision Day. 1359 00:54:57,208 --> 00:54:58,833 Like, it was down to Decision Day 1360 00:54:59,000 --> 00:55:00,250 to where it's like, 1361 00:55:00,375 --> 00:55:02,667 whatever comes out of my mouth will come. 1362 00:55:02,750 --> 00:55:05,000 And I prayed about it and everything, 1363 00:55:05,125 --> 00:55:06,500 and it just came from there. 1364 00:55:06,625 --> 00:55:09,167 And I respect Kirsten so much as a person. 1365 00:55:09,250 --> 00:55:11,583 And I honestly continue to and always 1366 00:55:11,708 --> 00:55:14,250 say that, like, I respect you as a person, as a human. 1367 00:55:14,375 --> 00:55:16,417 I think you're beautiful inside and out. 1368 00:55:16,542 --> 00:55:19,833 But I just don't think we were soul mates. 1369 00:55:19,958 --> 00:55:21,458 ♪ ♪ 1370 00:55:21,542 --> 00:55:25,417 - I was willing to give the marriage another chance, 1371 00:55:25,542 --> 00:55:27,792 because I feel like you really, truly 1372 00:55:27,875 --> 00:55:30,625 can't get to know somebody in eight weeks. 1373 00:55:30,750 --> 00:55:34,292 And I felt like it could have been a possibility, 1374 00:55:34,375 --> 00:55:36,625 but you never know until you give it a chance 1375 00:55:36,708 --> 00:55:38,333 outside of that experience. 1376 00:55:38,500 --> 00:55:41,250 So I'm like, well, I know we had our ups and downs, 1377 00:55:41,375 --> 00:55:43,333 and that's part of life. 1378 00:55:43,458 --> 00:55:46,667 But I also said that I didn't want to be married 1379 00:55:46,792 --> 00:55:48,792 if there was going to be any insecurities 1380 00:55:48,917 --> 00:55:50,667 or, you know, anything that was gonna 1381 00:55:50,792 --> 00:55:54,708 hold him back from his true self and his happiness. 1382 00:55:54,875 --> 00:55:58,000 But, yeah, it's gonna take me some time to get past it all. 1383 00:55:58,083 --> 00:56:01,500 - Do y'all feel like this is, like, truly a door being closed 1384 00:56:01,625 --> 00:56:03,958 or just, like. not a "right now"? 1385 00:56:04,042 --> 00:56:07,000 [dramatic music] 1386 00:56:12,458 --> 00:56:13,917 - Do y'all feel like this is, like, 1387 00:56:14,042 --> 00:56:15,750 truly a door being closed 1388 00:56:15,875 --> 00:56:17,625 or just, like, not a "right now"? 1389 00:56:17,750 --> 00:56:20,292 ♪ ♪ 1390 00:56:20,375 --> 00:56:23,292 - It's a door closed... - Okay. 1391 00:56:23,417 --> 00:56:25,417 - Because when you have a chance at something, 1392 00:56:25,542 --> 00:56:26,875 you take your chance. 1393 00:56:27,000 --> 00:56:29,792 And if you miss out, then it's gone. 1394 00:56:29,917 --> 00:56:32,667 ♪ ♪ 1395 00:56:32,792 --> 00:56:36,417 I don't have any plans on, like, calling you 1396 00:56:36,542 --> 00:56:38,875 or texting you or checking on you. 1397 00:56:39,000 --> 00:56:41,500 like, not right now. 1398 00:56:41,625 --> 00:56:45,083 Like, I just feel like when I close a chapter 1399 00:56:45,208 --> 00:56:46,583 or when I'm done with something 1400 00:56:46,708 --> 00:56:49,542 and I tell myself that, you know, 1401 00:56:49,667 --> 00:56:51,375 I'm completely finished, 1402 00:56:51,500 --> 00:56:53,333 then I don't communicate with that person. 1403 00:56:53,500 --> 00:56:55,292 I don't talk to that person. 1404 00:56:55,375 --> 00:56:57,000 And that's how I feel. 1405 00:56:57,083 --> 00:56:58,625 I don't really have much to say right now... 1406 00:56:58,708 --> 00:56:59,833 - Okay. 1407 00:57:00,000 --> 00:57:01,833 - Because I'm still processing everything... 1408 00:57:01,958 --> 00:57:04,125 - Of course. - But I'll be all right. 1409 00:57:04,250 --> 00:57:05,917 And life goes on. 1410 00:57:06,042 --> 00:57:08,292 And when it's time for me and my husband-- 1411 00:57:08,417 --> 00:57:10,417 new husband, future husband-- 1412 00:57:10,542 --> 00:57:14,333 to be together and have our kids, that will happen. 1413 00:57:14,500 --> 00:57:16,375 And that's how I feel. 1414 00:57:18,875 --> 00:57:20,750 - So, regardless of this, I know we've been 1415 00:57:20,875 --> 00:57:22,667 through this journey together, we've learned through this, 1416 00:57:22,750 --> 00:57:24,333 but we came through this experience together. 1417 00:57:24,417 --> 00:57:25,667 I don't think we can take it back. 1418 00:57:25,792 --> 00:57:27,500 We can only learn from it. 1419 00:57:27,667 --> 00:57:30,792 So I don't want to just put it in a box and tape it all up 1420 00:57:30,875 --> 00:57:32,708 to say, this is what we've been through. 1421 00:57:32,833 --> 00:57:35,958 And we don't want to open Pandora's box. 1422 00:57:36,042 --> 00:57:37,333 Like, it happened. 1423 00:57:37,417 --> 00:57:38,625 Life happens. 1424 00:57:38,750 --> 00:57:40,458 And all you can do is move forward. 1425 00:57:40,542 --> 00:57:42,375 And we can only wish each other the best 1426 00:57:42,500 --> 00:57:43,917 throughout this process. 1427 00:57:44,042 --> 00:57:47,333 And it's gonna take a while for both of us 1428 00:57:47,458 --> 00:57:49,250 to get to that point. 1429 00:57:49,375 --> 00:57:51,958 But however long it takes, it takes. 1430 00:57:52,083 --> 00:57:55,667 I know she's going to feel a major way about this. 1431 00:57:55,792 --> 00:57:58,250 But I think she's going to find her Prince Charming. 1432 00:57:58,375 --> 00:58:01,167 She's going to find that person. 1433 00:58:01,333 --> 00:58:03,542 It may be me again one day. 1434 00:58:03,667 --> 00:58:06,333 You never know where God may lead us. 1435 00:58:06,458 --> 00:58:08,208 - Well, we love both of you guys. 1436 00:58:08,375 --> 00:58:10,167 - Yeah. - And that's not gonna change. 1437 00:58:10,292 --> 00:58:11,667 And, like, we get it. 1438 00:58:11,750 --> 00:58:15,208 Sometimes it's just not always gonna be 1439 00:58:15,375 --> 00:58:16,792 a match made in heaven, right? 1440 00:58:16,917 --> 00:58:18,542 And, you know, I think we can speak to that. 1441 00:58:18,708 --> 00:58:20,292 But we're great friends. 1442 00:58:20,375 --> 00:58:21,958 And I think you guys could also be that. 1443 00:58:22,042 --> 00:58:25,083 And you guys also get to walk away saying, 1444 00:58:25,208 --> 00:58:29,083 we were married for two months in this crazy experience. 1445 00:58:29,208 --> 00:58:31,833 And we met a whole bunch of people that are unbelievable. 1446 00:58:31,958 --> 00:58:34,500 And this is awesome, and it's crazy. 1447 00:58:34,625 --> 00:58:36,583 But we took a chance at love. 1448 00:58:36,708 --> 00:58:39,542 We took the damn leap, and we tried. 1449 00:58:39,667 --> 00:58:41,042 - The personal growth. 1450 00:58:41,167 --> 00:58:42,667 I mean, I have never-- 1451 00:58:42,750 --> 00:58:44,708 I came into this not realizing-- 1452 00:58:44,833 --> 00:58:46,417 Like, oh, maybe I'll find a husband. 1453 00:58:46,542 --> 00:58:48,083 But I never thought I would grow 1454 00:58:48,208 --> 00:58:49,583 personally as much as I did. 1455 00:58:49,708 --> 00:58:52,167 And seeing nine other people-- 1456 00:58:52,250 --> 00:58:54,542 like, it's only been two months, but we all started. 1457 00:58:54,667 --> 00:58:56,167 It was like preschool. 1458 00:58:56,292 --> 00:58:57,583 We were all like, oh, we're ready for school. 1459 00:58:57,708 --> 00:58:59,167 We don't know what's going to happen. 1460 00:58:59,250 --> 00:59:01,000 And now we've graduated college, 1461 00:59:01,125 --> 00:59:03,792 and the growth has been astronomical. 1462 00:59:03,917 --> 00:59:05,792 And I don't think any of us could 1463 00:59:05,917 --> 00:59:09,042 have gotten here without our husbands, wives, each other. 1464 00:59:09,208 --> 00:59:11,333 So I don't think we could be in this great of a place 1465 00:59:11,458 --> 00:59:13,125 without everyone's support and help, 1466 00:59:13,250 --> 00:59:15,167 because it takes a village. 1467 00:59:15,250 --> 00:59:17,292 And thank you all for your help. 1468 00:59:17,375 --> 00:59:18,792 And however we can help-- 1469 00:59:18,875 --> 00:59:21,333 And you guys are not getting rid of us, 1470 00:59:21,417 --> 00:59:22,458 not getting rid of each other. 1471 00:59:22,542 --> 00:59:23,667 You know. - We know. 1472 00:59:23,833 --> 00:59:25,000 - You know. - That was beautiful. 1473 00:59:25,125 --> 00:59:26,708 - That wasn't an option. - There is no option. 1474 00:59:26,833 --> 00:59:28,500 Like, I will be randomly-- - She wouldn't let us. 1475 00:59:28,625 --> 00:59:30,417 - You're stuck with us forever. 1476 00:59:30,542 --> 00:59:32,208 - Meet at this time at this place. 1477 00:59:32,333 --> 00:59:33,833 And you'll be like, oh, we're all here again. 1478 00:59:33,958 --> 00:59:36,042 So... 1479 00:59:36,167 --> 00:59:39,208 whatever we feel today, just remember we're all connected, 1480 00:59:39,375 --> 00:59:40,958 and we always will be. 1481 00:59:41,042 --> 00:59:43,708 - Yeah, we're family. Honestly, like, we're family. 1482 00:59:43,833 --> 00:59:46,375 - A little dysfunctional, but what family isn't? 1483 00:59:46,542 --> 00:59:48,583 What family isn't? [laughter] 1484 00:59:48,708 --> 00:59:49,833 - Hey, guys. 1485 00:59:49,958 --> 00:59:52,750 Hey, I love seeing you guys. 1486 00:59:52,875 --> 00:59:54,333 I'm sorry, I really have to run. 1487 00:59:54,500 --> 00:59:56,000 But I'm gonna give everybody hugs. 1488 00:59:56,125 --> 00:59:57,833 - Good to see you. 1489 00:59:57,958 --> 00:59:59,417 - Sorry, I don't mean to, like, kill the moment, 1490 00:59:59,542 --> 01:00:01,500 but, you know... - Girl, good to see you. 1491 01:00:01,583 --> 01:00:03,833 - Bye. - Bye, good luck. 1492 01:00:04,000 --> 01:00:05,292 - It's good to see you. - Bye. 1493 01:00:05,417 --> 01:00:06,542 - Good to see you. 1494 01:00:06,667 --> 01:00:08,583 - Okay, bye, guys. Thank you. 1495 01:00:08,708 --> 01:00:10,792 - Bye, Dom. - Bye, Dom. 1496 01:00:10,875 --> 01:00:14,000 - Thank you. Wow, these are such perfectly petite glasses. 1497 01:00:14,125 --> 01:00:16,500 - They're so cute. both: Cheers. 1498 01:00:16,625 --> 01:00:18,083 - Cheers to the love that you have for everyone. 1499 01:00:18,208 --> 01:00:21,667 - So, Mac and Gina, I would love to learn-- 1500 01:00:21,792 --> 01:00:23,750 if you're both ready to date. 1501 01:00:23,875 --> 01:00:25,500 you're both single, 1502 01:00:25,625 --> 01:00:27,417 you guys are both attractive people 1503 01:00:27,542 --> 01:00:31,750 and have the desire to be in relationships at some point, 1504 01:00:31,875 --> 01:00:33,417 would you guys be willing-- 1505 01:00:33,542 --> 01:00:35,250 would you be willing to go on a date? 1506 01:00:38,250 --> 01:00:40,917 - So, wow. 1507 01:00:41,042 --> 01:00:43,125 I was not prepared for that. 1508 01:00:43,208 --> 01:00:45,750 I didn't see that coming from a mile away. 1509 01:00:45,875 --> 01:00:48,875 - I just think it would be, you know, amazing 1510 01:00:49,000 --> 01:00:51,167 to see if there was a missed connection. 1511 01:00:51,292 --> 01:00:55,250 ♪ ♪ 1512 01:00:55,375 --> 01:00:58,875 - Based on what, though? - Nothing. You know... 1513 01:00:59,000 --> 01:01:00,500 [laughter] 1514 01:01:00,583 --> 01:01:02,208 - We heard the rumblings, the rumors. 1515 01:01:02,375 --> 01:01:04,125 The street's been talking. 1516 01:01:04,208 --> 01:01:07,750 So we was kind of, you know, expecting something to come up 1517 01:01:07,875 --> 01:01:09,583 with the whole Mac and Gina, 1518 01:01:09,708 --> 01:01:12,000 but we weren't expecting it to be, like, right there 1519 01:01:12,125 --> 01:01:15,417 in that moment, like, in front of Clint. 1520 01:01:15,542 --> 01:01:17,583 But, hey, I'm here for it. 1521 01:01:17,708 --> 01:01:19,333 You know, if it makes them happy, 1522 01:01:19,458 --> 01:01:20,500 I say, why not? 1523 01:01:20,667 --> 01:01:22,000 - Yeah, I mean, I don't know. 1524 01:01:22,125 --> 01:01:23,667 I would be open at some point, maybe. 1525 01:01:23,750 --> 01:01:25,917 I find--I think you guys are all very attractive. 1526 01:01:26,042 --> 01:01:28,542 - You know what? Maybe coffee. 1527 01:01:28,667 --> 01:01:32,208 Maybe you start with coffee, see where it goes. 1528 01:01:32,333 --> 01:01:34,167 This could be magic in the making, and if not... 1529 01:01:34,333 --> 01:01:36,708 ♪ ♪ 1530 01:01:36,833 --> 01:01:39,333 - We'll keep you all updated 1531 01:01:39,417 --> 01:01:41,833 on what we do. 1532 01:01:41,917 --> 01:01:46,083 - Married at Second Sight. [laughter] 1533 01:01:46,208 --> 01:01:50,667 ♪ ♪ 1534 01:01:50,792 --> 01:01:52,542 - Next time on "Married at First Sight"... 1535 01:01:52,667 --> 01:01:53,833 ♪ ♪ 1536 01:01:53,917 --> 01:01:55,750 - Hi. - How are you? 1537 01:01:55,875 --> 01:01:57,667 I'm ready to get back out there, 1538 01:01:57,792 --> 01:02:00,792 get that wedding ring put back on this finger. 1539 01:02:00,917 --> 01:02:02,500 - This gonna be a regular thing with you guys, 1540 01:02:02,583 --> 01:02:04,000 walking your ex's dogs? 1541 01:02:04,125 --> 01:02:07,667 - I definitely hope I can continue to see her. 1542 01:02:07,750 --> 01:02:10,208 - It's just a one-time thing. - Oh, wow. 1543 01:02:10,333 --> 01:02:11,833 We be hard on these men. 1544 01:02:11,958 --> 01:02:13,542 - Hello. 1545 01:02:13,667 --> 01:02:14,667 - I'm intrigued by Gina. 1546 01:02:14,792 --> 01:02:16,250 I think she's very attractive. 1547 01:02:16,375 --> 01:02:18,667 - When we first all met to go to the airport, 1548 01:02:18,750 --> 01:02:20,375 I did notice you first. 1549 01:02:20,542 --> 01:02:22,208 - It's 1,900. 1550 01:02:22,333 --> 01:02:24,125 - You want to make sure that you're 1551 01:02:24,250 --> 01:02:25,917 on the same page with your budget and your finances. 1552 01:02:26,042 --> 01:02:27,250 I mean, that ends a lot of marriages. 1553 01:02:27,375 --> 01:02:30,042 I don't think the gold chair is necessary. 1554 01:02:30,167 --> 01:02:31,708 - And are you attracted to me? 1555 01:02:31,833 --> 01:02:33,000 - I'm very attracted to you. - Okay. 1556 01:02:33,167 --> 01:02:35,000 - ♪ Ain't nobody like... ♪ 1557 01:02:35,083 --> 01:02:36,833 - Had any sex since D Day? 1558 01:02:36,958 --> 01:02:39,125 - As a matter of fact, I've had sex. 1559 01:02:39,250 --> 01:02:40,000 ♪ ♪ 1560 01:02:40,167 --> 01:02:41,917 Hi, there. - How are you? 1561 01:02:42,042 --> 01:02:43,333 - Good. It's good to see you. 1562 01:02:43,458 --> 01:02:46,000 ♪ ♪