1 00:00:02,375 --> 00:00:05,500 - ♪ The best day of my life, life ♪ 2 00:00:05,583 --> 00:00:07,833 - Emily. Nice to meet you. 3 00:00:07,875 --> 00:00:11,625 - Six intrepid singles met and married a complete stranger. 4 00:00:11,708 --> 00:00:14,333 [cheers and applause] 5 00:00:16,958 --> 00:00:19,375 - I wrote down a lot of things that I wanted in a husband. 6 00:00:19,458 --> 00:00:21,750 And you check a lot of boxes. 7 00:00:21,833 --> 00:00:23,083 - You are everything I've envisioned. 8 00:00:23,167 --> 00:00:24,583 - ♪ This is gonna be my moment ♪ 9 00:00:26,375 --> 00:00:28,042 - [squeals] 10 00:00:28,167 --> 00:00:29,833 He was crying during our ceremony. 11 00:00:29,917 --> 00:00:32,125 Like, I love an emotional man. 12 00:00:32,208 --> 00:00:33,750 We need men with emotion. 13 00:00:33,833 --> 00:00:35,208 And he has it, so I love that. 14 00:00:35,292 --> 00:00:36,542 ♪ 15 00:00:38,542 --> 00:00:40,292 - Do you have a pet? - I don't have a pet. 16 00:00:40,375 --> 00:00:41,708 - Aww, then we have to get a dog. 17 00:00:41,792 --> 00:00:43,625 - We can get one together. What kind of dog do you want? 18 00:00:43,708 --> 00:00:45,833 - A sheepadoodle. - I love sheepadoodles. 19 00:00:45,917 --> 00:00:47,208 - You do? 20 00:00:47,208 --> 00:00:49,292 Feels like this is gonna maybe work. 21 00:00:51,250 --> 00:00:53,125 - OK. 22 00:00:53,208 --> 00:00:54,750 - Please explain. What is it? 23 00:00:54,833 --> 00:00:56,125 - Oh, my gosh. An anteater? 24 00:00:56,208 --> 00:00:57,458 - What the hell is that? 25 00:00:57,542 --> 00:00:59,417 Oh, Lord. Yeah. 26 00:00:59,542 --> 00:01:01,458 I hope he's a good guy. 27 00:01:01,583 --> 00:01:03,292 Ooh, [bleep]. 28 00:01:03,375 --> 00:01:05,167 ♪ 29 00:01:05,208 --> 00:01:06,833 - You're the groom? - I am. 30 00:01:06,917 --> 00:01:08,375 - OK, let's do this. 31 00:01:08,500 --> 00:01:11,292 - Tonight our remaining couple confronts 32 00:01:11,375 --> 00:01:13,333 an uncertain destiny... 33 00:01:13,417 --> 00:01:16,667 - The fantasy is that I meet the person that I spend 34 00:01:16,708 --> 00:01:18,500 the rest of my life with. 35 00:01:18,583 --> 00:01:23,083 - As our newlyweds dive head first into marriage. 36 00:01:23,167 --> 00:01:25,250 [glasses clinking] 37 00:01:25,333 --> 00:01:27,167 - Are you nervous that she's never been 38 00:01:27,208 --> 00:01:28,167 in a relationship before? 39 00:01:28,292 --> 00:01:30,042 [dramatic music] 40 00:01:30,125 --> 00:01:31,500 - If you don't understand yourself 41 00:01:31,583 --> 00:01:33,667 and you can't really, like, share it with her, 42 00:01:33,792 --> 00:01:36,125 her anxiety will go crazy. 43 00:01:36,208 --> 00:01:40,167 - I was like, getting all the shots off the strippers. 44 00:01:40,167 --> 00:01:43,167 - What are your expectations of a marriage? 45 00:01:43,250 --> 00:01:45,500 - You know, I-- [laughs nervously] 46 00:01:45,625 --> 00:01:47,542 I don't like being bossed around. 47 00:01:47,625 --> 00:01:50,333 ♪ 48 00:01:50,417 --> 00:01:52,667 - ♪ It's all or nothing 49 00:01:52,667 --> 00:01:55,208 - This is "Married at First Sight." 50 00:01:55,292 --> 00:01:58,750 - ♪ There's no other way 51 00:01:58,833 --> 00:02:01,542 ♪ It's all or nothing 52 00:02:01,667 --> 00:02:04,333 - ♪ So we should have never left, oh, oh ♪ 53 00:02:04,417 --> 00:02:08,583 ♪ I know that I'm so lost 54 00:02:09,125 --> 00:02:12,667 ♪ Baby, we got this trust 55 00:02:12,708 --> 00:02:14,333 ♪ To make it last 56 00:02:14,417 --> 00:02:15,875 - You guys want to bring it in? 57 00:02:16,000 --> 00:02:17,667 I love you guys. - We love you, too. 58 00:02:17,708 --> 00:02:19,625 - Thank you for walking me down the aisle. 59 00:02:19,708 --> 00:02:20,833 ♪ 60 00:02:20,917 --> 00:02:21,792 - You're the groom? 61 00:02:21,917 --> 00:02:23,625 - I am. 62 00:02:23,708 --> 00:02:26,167 [laughter] 63 00:02:26,250 --> 00:02:27,333 What's your name? 64 00:02:27,375 --> 00:02:29,083 - Cameron. - Cameron. 65 00:02:29,167 --> 00:02:31,333 This is crazy. 66 00:02:31,375 --> 00:02:32,833 What are we doing? 67 00:02:32,917 --> 00:02:36,250 - OK, let's do this. 68 00:02:36,375 --> 00:02:40,333 - The fantasy is that I meet the person that I 69 00:02:40,417 --> 00:02:42,000 spend the rest of my life with, 70 00:02:42,167 --> 00:02:45,292 and we build a family together. 71 00:02:45,375 --> 00:02:49,250 It doesn't behoove me to do anything but give 100%. 72 00:02:49,375 --> 00:02:52,083 And I hope she does the same. 73 00:02:52,167 --> 00:02:53,375 - All right. 74 00:02:53,458 --> 00:02:55,792 Everyone, please stand. 75 00:02:55,875 --> 00:02:58,833 [soft music] 76 00:02:58,917 --> 00:03:05,875 ♪ 77 00:03:07,125 --> 00:03:10,833 - ♪ I really thought I had seen it all ♪ 78 00:03:10,917 --> 00:03:12,417 ♪ Then I saw your face 79 00:03:12,542 --> 00:03:14,708 ♪ Everything could change 80 00:03:14,792 --> 00:03:18,625 ♪ Two became one as our body's caught ♪ 81 00:03:18,625 --> 00:03:22,625 ♪ Your fingerprints all over me ♪ 82 00:03:22,708 --> 00:03:26,625 ♪ Like a diamond cut from stone ♪ 83 00:03:26,708 --> 00:03:29,417 - Nice to meet you. - Nice to meet you, too. 84 00:03:29,542 --> 00:03:31,333 - Hello. Nice to meet you. 85 00:03:31,375 --> 00:03:32,917 I'm Clare. - I'm Cameron. 86 00:03:33,000 --> 00:03:34,042 - You may be seated. - Hi. 87 00:03:34,125 --> 00:03:35,500 - Cameron. - Joy. 88 00:03:35,583 --> 00:03:36,875 - Nice to meet you, Joy. - What was your name? 89 00:03:37,000 --> 00:03:38,125 - Brian. - Brian. 90 00:03:38,208 --> 00:03:40,917 Nice to meet you, Brian. 91 00:03:41,000 --> 00:03:42,333 - You look nice. - Thank you. 92 00:03:42,375 --> 00:03:44,000 You are--I mean, you are breathtaking. 93 00:03:44,083 --> 00:03:45,250 - [chuckles] - Stunning. 94 00:03:45,333 --> 00:03:46,750 - You have an accent. - I do. 95 00:03:46,833 --> 00:03:47,875 - It makes sense-- 96 00:03:47,958 --> 00:03:49,458 your gift makes sense now. 97 00:03:49,542 --> 00:03:51,042 - I should probably should have explained it more. 98 00:03:51,125 --> 00:03:52,542 - [chuckles] 99 00:03:52,667 --> 00:03:55,625 - Clare, meet for the very first time, Cameron. 100 00:03:55,708 --> 00:03:57,208 - Cameron. - Your husband-to-be. 101 00:03:57,292 --> 00:03:58,625 - I love it. 102 00:03:58,708 --> 00:04:01,042 - Cameron, meet for the very first time, 103 00:04:01,125 --> 00:04:04,667 Clare, your wife-to-be. 104 00:04:05,625 --> 00:04:10,167 You are about to enter into a legally binding marriage. 105 00:04:10,250 --> 00:04:13,583 So now, Cameron, Clare's family and friends 106 00:04:13,708 --> 00:04:17,333 would like you to know about their Clare-Bear. 107 00:04:17,333 --> 00:04:19,792 You'll quickly come to find that Clare 108 00:04:19,875 --> 00:04:23,333 is a genuine, compassionate, and faithful soul, 109 00:04:23,417 --> 00:04:26,167 who loves with all of her heart. 110 00:04:26,208 --> 00:04:29,083 Clare truly has the brightest personality 111 00:04:29,167 --> 00:04:31,708 and will always make your day better. 112 00:04:31,792 --> 00:04:34,708 But it's not until she starts impersonating you... 113 00:04:34,792 --> 00:04:36,167 - Oh, no. 114 00:04:36,292 --> 00:04:37,542 - That you know you've really made it... 115 00:04:37,667 --> 00:04:38,792 - Please, don't. - On her good side. 116 00:04:38,875 --> 00:04:40,292 - I don't think I'd get the accent. 117 00:04:40,375 --> 00:04:43,500 [laughter] 118 00:04:43,542 --> 00:04:45,875 ♪ 119 00:04:45,958 --> 00:04:49,250 - You should know, Clare has a large, outgoing, 120 00:04:49,333 --> 00:04:52,000 and occasionally overwhelming family. 121 00:04:52,083 --> 00:04:55,417 [laughter] 122 00:04:56,417 --> 00:04:59,083 They'll open their arms and their hearts to you. 123 00:04:59,167 --> 00:05:03,000 But you won't officially be welcomed until you've survived 124 00:05:03,083 --> 00:05:05,292 the Kerr family roast session. 125 00:05:05,375 --> 00:05:06,542 - I'm very roastable, so-- 126 00:05:06,708 --> 00:05:09,833 [laughter] 127 00:05:09,875 --> 00:05:12,708 - Now, Clare, Cameron's friends and family 128 00:05:12,792 --> 00:05:15,750 would like you to know that behind that tall stature, 129 00:05:15,833 --> 00:05:19,833 and great head of hair, is just a tall man 130 00:05:19,917 --> 00:05:21,167 with a great head of hair. 131 00:05:21,250 --> 00:05:22,875 [laughter] 132 00:05:22,958 --> 00:05:25,000 - Are you offended by that? 133 00:05:25,083 --> 00:05:27,042 - And then once he starts speaking, 134 00:05:27,208 --> 00:05:29,167 he's just a tall man with a great head 135 00:05:29,208 --> 00:05:31,708 of hair and an accent. 136 00:05:31,792 --> 00:05:34,333 You'll come to find out his accent is probably 137 00:05:34,375 --> 00:05:37,083 the coolest thing about him, unless you think 138 00:05:37,208 --> 00:05:39,292 that biking for miles through the Colorado mountains 139 00:05:39,375 --> 00:05:40,542 is cool. 140 00:05:40,625 --> 00:05:42,417 He's very good at that. 141 00:05:42,542 --> 00:05:44,792 If biking is not your thing, don't worry. 142 00:05:44,875 --> 00:05:47,958 You'll be surrounded by it all the time. 143 00:05:48,042 --> 00:05:49,625 Cameron owns a bike shop. 144 00:05:49,708 --> 00:05:50,958 - OK. 145 00:05:51,042 --> 00:05:52,417 - He fixes bikes and often goes on bike trips 146 00:05:52,500 --> 00:05:53,875 with his buddies... 147 00:05:53,875 --> 00:05:55,125 - Love that. - Through the rough terrain. 148 00:05:55,208 --> 00:05:56,833 Buckle up. 149 00:05:56,875 --> 00:06:00,250 Life with Cameron, for sure, will be an adventure. 150 00:06:00,333 --> 00:06:02,042 - Sweet. 151 00:06:02,125 --> 00:06:04,542 ♪ 152 00:06:04,625 --> 00:06:08,083 - Clare, Cameron, you've written your own vows. 153 00:06:14,500 --> 00:06:17,167 - To my husband, still sounds so wild to say, 154 00:06:17,292 --> 00:06:19,208 on our wedding day. 155 00:06:19,208 --> 00:06:22,792 Firstly, thank you for joining me on this wild, and unusual, 156 00:06:22,875 --> 00:06:24,292 and unique adventure. 157 00:06:24,375 --> 00:06:26,917 As scary as it is, I have a sense of calm knowing 158 00:06:27,000 --> 00:06:28,750 that I have you on my team. 159 00:06:28,833 --> 00:06:31,167 Thank you for being brave and taking this next step with me. 160 00:06:31,250 --> 00:06:33,333 I believe that God and my guardian angels, 161 00:06:33,417 --> 00:06:34,583 my brother and everyone in heaven, 162 00:06:34,667 --> 00:06:36,375 have led me to this moment. 163 00:06:36,458 --> 00:06:39,167 On this day, I give you my heart, my promise 164 00:06:39,250 --> 00:06:41,250 that I will walk with you hand in hand, 165 00:06:41,333 --> 00:06:43,167 wherever our journey leads us, living, 166 00:06:43,250 --> 00:06:45,875 learning, and loving together. 167 00:06:45,958 --> 00:06:47,167 - That was very sweet. 168 00:06:47,208 --> 00:06:48,833 - [chuckles] 169 00:06:52,375 --> 00:06:55,167 - I take promises very seriously. 170 00:06:55,250 --> 00:06:57,458 I have promises within my vows I intend 171 00:06:57,542 --> 00:06:59,417 to keep, even with a stranger. 172 00:06:59,500 --> 00:07:01,750 So here we go. 173 00:07:01,875 --> 00:07:04,500 I may not know you, but I am ready to take this leap 174 00:07:04,583 --> 00:07:06,167 of faith with you, like jumping out 175 00:07:06,208 --> 00:07:09,917 of an airplane with a parachute someone else packed. 176 00:07:10,000 --> 00:07:13,125 I vow to share myself and my life with you, 177 00:07:13,208 --> 00:07:14,333 except my chocolate. 178 00:07:14,458 --> 00:07:15,500 That's mine. 179 00:07:15,542 --> 00:07:18,625 - [laughs] That's fair. 180 00:07:19,583 --> 00:07:22,792 - I vow to make the space and put in the work 181 00:07:22,875 --> 00:07:26,708 for our relationship to grow into a strong and loving one. 182 00:07:26,708 --> 00:07:28,250 And if all else fails, we can always 183 00:07:28,375 --> 00:07:29,417 blame it on the experts. 184 00:07:29,500 --> 00:07:31,750 - [laughs] True. 185 00:07:31,833 --> 00:07:33,792 You're funny. OK, that's good. 186 00:07:33,875 --> 00:07:35,000 That's a relief. 187 00:07:38,208 --> 00:07:40,750 - Clare, will you take Cameron to be 188 00:07:40,833 --> 00:07:44,750 your lawfully wedded husband, to live together in matrimony? 189 00:07:44,833 --> 00:07:48,542 Will you love him, comfort him, honor him 190 00:07:48,667 --> 00:07:51,792 and keep him, in sickness and in health, 191 00:07:51,875 --> 00:07:54,292 so long as you both shall live? 192 00:07:54,375 --> 00:07:55,708 - I do. 193 00:07:55,833 --> 00:07:58,542 - And, Cameron, will you take Clare 194 00:07:58,625 --> 00:08:00,667 to be your lawfully wedded wife, 195 00:08:00,750 --> 00:08:02,792 to live with her in matrimony? 196 00:08:02,875 --> 00:08:05,917 Will you love her, comfort her, honor her, 197 00:08:06,000 --> 00:08:08,583 and keep her, in sickness and in health, 198 00:08:08,708 --> 00:08:10,833 so long as you both shall live? 199 00:08:10,875 --> 00:08:12,125 - I do. 200 00:08:13,375 --> 00:08:16,542 [cheering] 201 00:08:16,667 --> 00:08:20,792 - Clare, please take Cameron's hand and repeat after me. 202 00:08:20,875 --> 00:08:22,625 With this ring-- 203 00:08:22,708 --> 00:08:25,333 - With this ring, I wed you, Cameron. 204 00:08:25,375 --> 00:08:27,667 - I wed you, Clare, for today, tomorrow, 205 00:08:27,750 --> 00:08:29,375 and all the years to come. 206 00:08:29,458 --> 00:08:32,208 - Please wear it as a sign of my commitment and a notice 207 00:08:32,333 --> 00:08:33,333 to the world-- 208 00:08:33,375 --> 00:08:34,375 - That I am your husband. 209 00:08:34,458 --> 00:08:36,208 - That I am your wife. 210 00:08:36,333 --> 00:08:37,667 Oh, we're squeezing it. 211 00:08:37,750 --> 00:08:39,042 - It's OK. I'll get it. 212 00:08:39,042 --> 00:08:41,125 I'll get it. - OK, OK. 213 00:08:41,208 --> 00:08:42,458 - Oh, actually-- 214 00:08:42,542 --> 00:08:44,500 [laughter] 215 00:08:44,542 --> 00:08:45,750 - We're blaming the experts. 216 00:08:45,833 --> 00:08:47,500 - I'm afraid it might not come back off. 217 00:08:47,625 --> 00:08:50,333 One out of two ain't bad. 218 00:08:50,375 --> 00:08:52,708 - I love it. I love it. 219 00:08:52,708 --> 00:08:56,042 - And now, by the power and authority vested in me, 220 00:08:56,125 --> 00:08:58,500 I now pronounce you a married couple. 221 00:08:58,583 --> 00:09:02,125 Cameron, you may now kiss your bride, Clare. 222 00:09:02,208 --> 00:09:03,667 [cheering] 223 00:09:03,792 --> 00:09:06,792 - ♪ And now the skies are blue ♪ 224 00:09:06,875 --> 00:09:09,125 ♪ They show my love for you 225 00:09:09,208 --> 00:09:14,167 ♪ With every breath I take 226 00:09:14,250 --> 00:09:17,083 - Ladies and gentlemen, it's now my pleasure 227 00:09:17,167 --> 00:09:20,125 to introduce for the first time as husband and wife, 228 00:09:20,208 --> 00:09:22,500 Clare and Cameron. 229 00:09:22,583 --> 00:09:25,708 - ♪ And if the clouds turn gray ♪ 230 00:09:25,833 --> 00:09:28,208 ♪ I know we'd be OK 231 00:09:28,292 --> 00:09:32,625 ♪ As long as I've got you 232 00:09:32,625 --> 00:09:35,375 ♪ I've got you 233 00:09:35,458 --> 00:09:37,667 ♪ Ooh, ooh, ooh 234 00:09:37,792 --> 00:09:41,417 ♪ Ooh, ooh, ooh, ooh 235 00:09:41,417 --> 00:09:44,500 ♪ I've got you 236 00:09:44,583 --> 00:09:47,000 - Do you go by Cam or Cameron? 237 00:09:47,083 --> 00:09:48,458 - Always Cameron now. - Always Cameron, OK. 238 00:09:48,542 --> 00:09:51,417 - I was Cam up until I was about ten. 239 00:09:51,500 --> 00:09:54,125 - OK, and then you outgrew Cam? - Yes. 240 00:09:54,208 --> 00:09:56,083 - You felt too old for Cam. - I became a man. 241 00:09:56,167 --> 00:09:57,625 - You became a man. 242 00:09:57,708 --> 00:09:59,583 - I became a man at a very young age. 243 00:09:59,667 --> 00:10:01,917 - I'm married, married-- 244 00:10:02,000 --> 00:10:03,167 he is adorable. 245 00:10:03,250 --> 00:10:04,500 I love your accent. 246 00:10:04,583 --> 00:10:06,292 - Thank you. - I love it. 247 00:10:06,375 --> 00:10:08,167 It's very cute. 248 00:10:08,250 --> 00:10:10,500 - Well, you're very beautiful. - Oh, thank you. 249 00:10:10,583 --> 00:10:11,833 - Much more beautiful than my accent. 250 00:10:11,917 --> 00:10:14,208 - Oh, really? [chuckles] 251 00:10:14,292 --> 00:10:16,333 - He's tall. He's handsome. 252 00:10:16,417 --> 00:10:18,333 He's got a good personality. 253 00:10:18,375 --> 00:10:20,167 And he's my husband. 254 00:10:20,208 --> 00:10:23,042 I'm just so excited to get to, like, know him and talk to him 255 00:10:23,167 --> 00:10:25,583 and be with him tonight and the rest of my life. 256 00:10:25,708 --> 00:10:27,542 This is nice. 257 00:10:27,625 --> 00:10:30,167 How are you feeling? 258 00:10:30,208 --> 00:10:31,917 - [sighs] I mean, it's-- - After all of that? 259 00:10:32,000 --> 00:10:34,000 That was a lot. - Yeah, it's a relief, right? 260 00:10:34,083 --> 00:10:36,000 - It's a relief. OK, I'm glad you feel relieved. 261 00:10:36,042 --> 00:10:37,500 - Just to get to the other side. 262 00:10:37,542 --> 00:10:38,917 - Right, because it was all the waiting-- 263 00:10:39,042 --> 00:10:40,083 - So much. - The anticipating. 264 00:10:40,167 --> 00:10:41,458 - So much. 265 00:10:41,542 --> 00:10:42,875 - It was just, like, boiling up. 266 00:10:42,875 --> 00:10:44,333 I was terrified. - Yeah. 267 00:10:44,458 --> 00:10:46,083 - You seemed really calm. 268 00:10:46,208 --> 00:10:47,667 I was like, he's not shaking. He's not sweating. 269 00:10:47,750 --> 00:10:49,542 I'm shaking. I'm sweating. 270 00:10:49,625 --> 00:10:51,375 So you were chill. 271 00:10:51,458 --> 00:10:52,917 - There's definitely chemistry. 272 00:10:53,000 --> 00:10:55,625 If we were sitting in a cafe next to each other, 273 00:10:55,708 --> 00:10:57,333 we would be talking. 274 00:10:57,375 --> 00:11:00,125 I've only got a 15-minute first impression, 275 00:11:00,208 --> 00:11:02,125 but I can see that there's someone there 276 00:11:02,208 --> 00:11:04,125 that's ready to try and make this work. 277 00:11:04,208 --> 00:11:05,542 I'm happy. 278 00:11:05,667 --> 00:11:07,500 - So you have no siblings? - I have a brother. 279 00:11:07,583 --> 00:11:09,208 - You have--oh, OK. - He's in New Zealand. 280 00:11:09,333 --> 00:11:10,875 - Right, right, right, right. 281 00:11:10,958 --> 00:11:12,458 - My mother was born in Ohio. 282 00:11:12,542 --> 00:11:13,958 - OK, cool. 283 00:11:14,042 --> 00:11:15,250 - So I'm a dual citizen-- - OK, love that. 284 00:11:15,333 --> 00:11:16,958 - At birth. 285 00:11:17,042 --> 00:11:18,292 So I was born in New Zealand, raised in New Zealand, 286 00:11:18,375 --> 00:11:21,750 but I moved to the States for better opportunity. 287 00:11:21,875 --> 00:11:25,625 My mother's college roommate's neighbors-- 288 00:11:25,708 --> 00:11:27,000 - OK, following. 289 00:11:27,083 --> 00:11:28,500 - Was basically that entire room. 290 00:11:28,583 --> 00:11:29,833 - Oh. 291 00:11:29,958 --> 00:11:31,125 - And literally, these people just like, 292 00:11:31,208 --> 00:11:32,000 completely took me in-- 293 00:11:32,083 --> 00:11:33,875 - Aww. 294 00:11:33,875 --> 00:11:35,708 - Like, gave me a place to live, gave me a job. 295 00:11:35,708 --> 00:11:37,708 Like-- - That's so sweet. 296 00:11:37,708 --> 00:11:38,833 That's a whole clan of them, too. 297 00:11:38,917 --> 00:11:41,000 - Yeah, and so I've been, you know, 298 00:11:41,125 --> 00:11:43,292 I mean, they've been family for nine years. 299 00:11:43,375 --> 00:11:44,667 - I love that. 300 00:11:44,750 --> 00:11:46,292 Do your parents know, though? 301 00:11:46,375 --> 00:11:47,500 - About this? - Yes. 302 00:11:47,542 --> 00:11:49,250 - Yeah, so the plan is-- - Uh-huh. 303 00:11:49,333 --> 00:11:51,667 - Is that we go back and we have a second wedding 304 00:11:51,750 --> 00:11:53,542 in New Zealand. 305 00:11:53,625 --> 00:11:55,125 - Love that. So they can be there. 306 00:11:55,208 --> 00:11:56,583 - If you--yeah, if you want. - I'd love that. 307 00:11:56,667 --> 00:11:58,250 - If you want. It doesn't have to be. 308 00:11:58,250 --> 00:11:59,833 - No, I love that so much. 309 00:11:59,917 --> 00:12:01,167 I love that because, yeah, you want your parents there. 310 00:12:01,167 --> 00:12:02,542 - Yeah. 311 00:12:02,708 --> 00:12:03,542 - Family is really important to me, obviously. 312 00:12:03,667 --> 00:12:05,833 And Cameron seems so-- 313 00:12:05,917 --> 00:12:08,333 like, the people that matter to him really matter. 314 00:12:08,375 --> 00:12:10,167 And that's huge. 315 00:12:10,292 --> 00:12:14,333 - So I couldn't quite tell exactly what was going on, 316 00:12:14,375 --> 00:12:15,500 you know, with the memorial, 317 00:12:15,625 --> 00:12:17,042 but it sounds like someone important-- 318 00:12:17,125 --> 00:12:18,458 - Yeah, yeah. - You lost. 319 00:12:18,542 --> 00:12:19,708 - So I'm a quadruplet. 320 00:12:19,792 --> 00:12:21,167 - No way. - Yeah. 321 00:12:21,250 --> 00:12:22,708 - Holy [bleep]. 322 00:12:22,708 --> 00:12:23,500 - So four of us were born at the same time. 323 00:12:23,625 --> 00:12:25,208 - OK. 324 00:12:25,333 --> 00:12:26,542 - So in the quadruplets, there's three girls, one boy. 325 00:12:26,625 --> 00:12:28,167 But my brother did pass away. 326 00:12:28,250 --> 00:12:29,625 - This is recently? 327 00:12:29,708 --> 00:12:31,000 - It's four years ago. - Jeez. 328 00:12:31,042 --> 00:12:33,708 - Yeah, yeah, so he passed away, and so I was like-- 329 00:12:33,792 --> 00:12:34,917 - But that's a bond that like, just-- 330 00:12:35,000 --> 00:12:36,458 - Right, and I need to make him a part 331 00:12:36,542 --> 00:12:38,208 of this special day, you know? 332 00:12:38,292 --> 00:12:39,833 And I feel like he orchestrated this, in a way. 333 00:12:39,875 --> 00:12:41,000 You know what I mean? 334 00:12:41,042 --> 00:12:42,083 - Really? - I do feel that. 335 00:12:42,167 --> 00:12:43,667 I feel like I've had signs. 336 00:12:43,750 --> 00:12:45,375 I've had--I've seen him in, like, dreams. 337 00:12:45,458 --> 00:12:47,667 It just felt so, like-- 338 00:12:47,708 --> 00:12:49,458 I'm not a person who takes risks at all. 339 00:12:49,542 --> 00:12:51,958 I would have never done this if I didn't feel like I was 340 00:12:52,042 --> 00:12:53,292 being led to do it, you know? 341 00:12:53,417 --> 00:12:54,667 - Mm-hmm, yeah. 342 00:12:54,750 --> 00:12:57,333 - So yeah, so my sisters were here. 343 00:12:57,417 --> 00:12:58,750 My grandma was here. 344 00:12:58,833 --> 00:13:00,208 - And the people that walked you on the aisle, 345 00:13:00,292 --> 00:13:01,583 that was your-- that was dad and mom? 346 00:13:01,708 --> 00:13:02,792 - Mama--yeah, that was my mom and my dad. 347 00:13:02,875 --> 00:13:04,500 Very supportive. - Yeah. 348 00:13:04,542 --> 00:13:06,500 So how many kids has your-- 349 00:13:06,583 --> 00:13:08,083 - Six. - Wow. 350 00:13:08,208 --> 00:13:10,250 - They had six kids. It's a big family. 351 00:13:10,333 --> 00:13:13,208 And my sisters will be grilling you. 352 00:13:13,292 --> 00:13:15,458 They're gonna have a lot of questions. 353 00:13:15,542 --> 00:13:19,625 They're a lot in the best way, but they're very protective. 354 00:13:19,708 --> 00:13:21,250 - Don't worry. - I don't know. 355 00:13:21,375 --> 00:13:22,333 They're just about to roast you. 356 00:13:22,458 --> 00:13:24,000 - Yeah, no, don't worry. 357 00:13:24,083 --> 00:13:25,208 - I just want you to be prepared because they're 358 00:13:25,333 --> 00:13:26,375 very in-your-face. 359 00:13:26,458 --> 00:13:27,250 Yeah. 360 00:13:31,708 --> 00:13:32,625 - ♪ It's the right time 361 00:13:32,625 --> 00:13:34,500 ♪ Of the night 362 00:13:34,625 --> 00:13:35,833 [cheers and applause] 363 00:13:35,917 --> 00:13:38,792 ♪ You're feeling right 364 00:13:38,875 --> 00:13:40,917 ♪ Now the DJ's playing your favorite songs ♪ 365 00:13:41,000 --> 00:13:42,917 ♪ It's a big crowd 366 00:13:43,000 --> 00:13:44,667 - Don't run away from my dad, now. 367 00:13:44,708 --> 00:13:45,958 - Oh, boy. - No, I didn't know if-- 368 00:13:46,042 --> 00:13:47,250 No, I didn't know if it was just them. 369 00:13:47,375 --> 00:13:48,708 - We're gonna do both. 370 00:13:48,833 --> 00:13:49,750 - His bark is worse than his bite. 371 00:13:49,833 --> 00:13:50,917 - ♪ It's the right time 372 00:13:51,042 --> 00:13:53,167 ♪ Of the night 373 00:13:53,250 --> 00:13:54,667 ♪ When the drinks kick in 374 00:13:54,750 --> 00:13:56,167 ♪ And you're feeling right 375 00:13:56,250 --> 00:13:57,542 - Ah, ah. 376 00:13:57,625 --> 00:13:59,083 The veil. 377 00:13:59,167 --> 00:14:01,125 - You all right? - It's fine. 378 00:14:01,208 --> 00:14:03,333 It's a long veil. It was, like, a hazard. 379 00:14:03,417 --> 00:14:04,458 - What do you think of the ankle-less look? 380 00:14:04,542 --> 00:14:06,000 - Hmm? 381 00:14:06,042 --> 00:14:07,167 - What do you think of the ankle-less look? 382 00:14:07,208 --> 00:14:08,750 - I like it. I like the shoes. 383 00:14:08,875 --> 00:14:09,750 I really guys with trendy shoes. 384 00:14:09,875 --> 00:14:11,250 - I appreciate that. 385 00:14:11,333 --> 00:14:14,167 [cheering] 386 00:14:14,208 --> 00:14:15,708 - I'm a wife. 387 00:14:15,792 --> 00:14:18,000 Feels good. Feels weird. 388 00:14:18,042 --> 00:14:19,667 He was like, this is your first relationship? 389 00:14:19,750 --> 00:14:20,958 I was like, yeah. 390 00:14:21,042 --> 00:14:23,583 We'll talk through that more later. 391 00:14:23,667 --> 00:14:25,125 But, like, I do feel like a wife. 392 00:14:25,208 --> 00:14:26,917 He's making me feel more like a wife. 393 00:14:27,000 --> 00:14:28,833 Now that I have, like, the person to make me a wife, 394 00:14:28,958 --> 00:14:30,208 I feel more like a wife. 395 00:14:30,333 --> 00:14:33,667 [cheering] 396 00:14:33,750 --> 00:14:35,208 - And then smile right here for me. 397 00:14:35,292 --> 00:14:36,208 Ready. 1, 2, 3. 398 00:14:36,292 --> 00:14:37,958 So good. 399 00:14:38,042 --> 00:14:41,042 [upbeat music] 400 00:14:41,125 --> 00:14:43,250 ♪ 401 00:14:43,333 --> 00:14:44,625 - Yeah, my hubby. 402 00:14:44,708 --> 00:14:46,167 - What up, girl? 403 00:14:46,250 --> 00:14:48,250 I just feel like all of this is surreal. 404 00:14:48,333 --> 00:14:51,583 To call Emily my wife is just crazy but it just feels good. 405 00:14:51,667 --> 00:14:55,167 So my hope is that we bond, you know, really well, 406 00:14:55,292 --> 00:14:57,000 and on Decision Day, we say yes, 407 00:14:57,125 --> 00:15:00,167 and we spend a lifetime together. 408 00:15:00,250 --> 00:15:04,792 - ♪ Whoa, whoa, so close 409 00:15:04,875 --> 00:15:07,000 ♪ This glitter and gold 410 00:15:07,042 --> 00:15:09,500 - Congratulations, you married man, you. 411 00:15:09,625 --> 00:15:13,083 - My parents set the bar really high for me. 412 00:15:13,208 --> 00:15:16,000 They've been together for about 35 years now. 413 00:15:16,042 --> 00:15:17,625 And they're, you know, never getting divorced. 414 00:15:17,708 --> 00:15:19,333 They're going to be together until they grow old. 415 00:15:19,417 --> 00:15:22,000 And for me, that's exactly what I want with Emily. 416 00:15:22,042 --> 00:15:24,167 So I'm just super excited. 417 00:15:24,292 --> 00:15:25,583 - I feel like we're doing pretty good 418 00:15:25,667 --> 00:15:26,667 for not knowing each other. 419 00:15:26,708 --> 00:15:28,000 - I know. - It feels natural. 420 00:15:28,042 --> 00:15:29,625 - For being strangers. 421 00:15:29,708 --> 00:15:31,750 - ♪ Oh, oh, oh, oh 422 00:15:31,875 --> 00:15:33,792 ♪ Glitter and gold 423 00:15:33,875 --> 00:15:35,750 ♪ 424 00:15:35,875 --> 00:15:38,292 ♪ Glitter and gold 425 00:15:38,375 --> 00:15:41,625 ♪ All over me, all over me, yeah ♪ 426 00:15:41,708 --> 00:15:43,167 - You guys look great. 427 00:15:43,250 --> 00:15:45,125 Both of you take a step out from each other. 428 00:15:45,208 --> 00:15:46,500 Yep. Not that far. 429 00:15:46,542 --> 00:15:47,958 Come back a little bit. - I'm like, whoa. 430 00:15:48,042 --> 00:15:50,167 - I got longer legs. - [laughs] 431 00:15:50,250 --> 00:15:54,292 I am feeling just, like, giddy, just excited. 432 00:15:54,375 --> 00:15:57,917 I mean, he's everything that I was picturing. 433 00:15:58,000 --> 00:16:00,917 But like, whoa, he's tall, very tall guy. 434 00:16:01,042 --> 00:16:03,750 I just feel so short. 435 00:16:03,833 --> 00:16:05,583 I'm 5-nothing. 436 00:16:05,708 --> 00:16:07,167 You're 5? 437 00:16:07,208 --> 00:16:09,125 - Even. 438 00:16:09,208 --> 00:16:13,208 - And then this hand goes in one pocket. 439 00:16:13,292 --> 00:16:15,042 - My pocket's a little high for her. 440 00:16:15,125 --> 00:16:17,333 - There you go. You guys look great. 441 00:16:17,375 --> 00:16:20,500 ♪ 442 00:16:20,542 --> 00:16:23,167 We're just gonna to shuffle to where we have some greenery. 443 00:16:23,208 --> 00:16:25,833 - Right here? - Yes. 444 00:16:25,875 --> 00:16:27,708 Lean your heads a little closer. 445 00:16:27,833 --> 00:16:30,000 - Like this? - Yeah. 446 00:16:30,042 --> 00:16:31,417 Awesome, guys. 447 00:16:31,500 --> 00:16:33,458 It's like you've been married for years. 448 00:16:33,542 --> 00:16:35,667 ♪ 449 00:16:35,708 --> 00:16:37,708 - ♪ You making me weak 450 00:16:37,792 --> 00:16:40,167 ♪ Weak, weak, weak 451 00:16:40,250 --> 00:16:41,500 - Aww. 452 00:16:41,583 --> 00:16:43,292 Family. - Aww. 453 00:16:43,375 --> 00:16:44,875 - In-laws. - We are family. 454 00:16:44,958 --> 00:16:46,375 - Love this. 455 00:16:46,458 --> 00:16:47,500 OK, I'm gonna have all of you look right here 456 00:16:47,583 --> 00:16:48,500 and smile for me. 457 00:16:48,625 --> 00:16:50,083 - This is so funny. 458 00:16:50,167 --> 00:16:51,917 - It's surreal. 459 00:16:52,000 --> 00:16:53,583 Taking photos, it feels weird because I'm 460 00:16:53,708 --> 00:16:55,833 a wedding photographer, so I'm usually on the other end. 461 00:16:55,875 --> 00:16:57,208 Guys, hands in your pockets. 462 00:16:57,292 --> 00:16:59,125 Look alive. Look alive. 463 00:16:59,208 --> 00:17:00,583 It's like, a little bit awkward, 464 00:17:00,667 --> 00:17:02,333 but only because I'm usually the one taking the photos. 465 00:17:02,375 --> 00:17:04,500 So it was like, weird to not be directing myself. 466 00:17:04,625 --> 00:17:06,542 Well, you don't have to put your hand in your pocket. 467 00:17:06,625 --> 00:17:08,000 OK, wait. Put your arm a little lower. 468 00:17:08,042 --> 00:17:09,500 - Did you say no hands in pockets? 469 00:17:09,583 --> 00:17:11,792 - No, no, no. - What? 470 00:17:11,875 --> 00:17:12,958 - No, no never mind. Ignore me. 471 00:17:13,042 --> 00:17:14,458 Ignore me. 472 00:17:14,542 --> 00:17:15,833 - ♪ That goes through the night ♪ 473 00:17:15,875 --> 00:17:17,250 ♪ As you're losing track of time ♪ 474 00:17:17,375 --> 00:17:21,500 - She seems very open, and funny, goofy, and weird. 475 00:17:21,542 --> 00:17:22,583 It's exciting. 476 00:17:22,667 --> 00:17:23,917 - Yeah, yeah, yeah. 477 00:17:24,000 --> 00:17:25,208 Nut to butt, baby. Nut to butt. 478 00:17:25,292 --> 00:17:27,542 - ♪ Until the sun comes up 479 00:17:27,625 --> 00:17:29,583 - To new friends. 480 00:17:29,708 --> 00:17:32,667 - Whoo! 481 00:17:32,708 --> 00:17:35,833 - ♪ That sunrise love 482 00:17:35,917 --> 00:17:38,083 - Should we make out again? 483 00:17:38,167 --> 00:17:40,500 - ♪ It grows through the night ♪ 484 00:17:40,542 --> 00:17:43,042 ♪ As you're losing track of time ♪ 485 00:17:43,125 --> 00:17:45,500 ♪ And you don't want to stop it ♪ 486 00:17:45,583 --> 00:17:47,500 ♪ 487 00:17:47,542 --> 00:17:48,708 - You're the wedding photographer. 488 00:17:48,833 --> 00:17:50,375 You know what to do. 489 00:17:50,458 --> 00:17:52,125 - As a married woman, I'd like to tell you a few things 490 00:17:52,208 --> 00:17:53,708 about being married. 491 00:17:53,792 --> 00:17:55,792 Number one, make out often. 492 00:17:55,792 --> 00:17:57,583 Should we do it again? 493 00:17:57,667 --> 00:18:01,167 [laughter] 494 00:18:01,250 --> 00:18:03,667 Number two, make out often. 495 00:18:03,750 --> 00:18:05,333 ♪ 496 00:18:05,375 --> 00:18:08,667 Number three, think your husband's hot. 497 00:18:08,708 --> 00:18:10,417 - Later, nerds. 498 00:18:10,500 --> 00:18:13,500 - ♪ I'm obsessed, I-I-I 499 00:18:13,625 --> 00:18:15,250 ♪ I'm obsessed 500 00:18:15,333 --> 00:18:18,167 ♪ I-I-I, I'm obsessed 501 00:18:18,167 --> 00:18:21,833 ♪ I-I-I, I'm kind of obsessed ♪ 502 00:18:21,917 --> 00:18:23,500 - Oh, so cute. - We know. 503 00:18:23,500 --> 00:18:25,583 ♪ 504 00:18:29,667 --> 00:18:31,958 - Welcoming for the very first time, 505 00:18:32,042 --> 00:18:33,792 let's give it up for the newlyweds. 506 00:18:33,875 --> 00:18:35,250 [upbeat music] 507 00:18:35,333 --> 00:18:38,125 - ♪ Oh, good energy, energy 508 00:18:38,208 --> 00:18:42,167 ♪ Got that ooh, most out of me ♪ 509 00:18:42,292 --> 00:18:45,833 ♪ I got good vibrations, no hesitation ♪ 510 00:18:45,875 --> 00:18:48,083 ♪ Got that energy 511 00:18:48,208 --> 00:18:50,042 - Now, when you first walked in, it happened like-- 512 00:18:50,125 --> 00:18:51,958 - What was your first impression? 513 00:18:52,042 --> 00:18:53,500 - Floored. - Yeah? 514 00:18:53,583 --> 00:18:56,000 - Yes. I thought you were beautiful. 515 00:18:56,083 --> 00:18:57,833 - Thanks. 516 00:18:57,917 --> 00:18:59,333 - All right, ladies and gentlemen. 517 00:18:59,458 --> 00:19:01,833 At this time, we would like to invite the newlyweds, 518 00:19:01,917 --> 00:19:03,667 Lauren and Orion, to the dance floor 519 00:19:03,708 --> 00:19:05,208 for their first dance 520 00:19:05,292 --> 00:19:06,417 as a married couple. 521 00:19:06,542 --> 00:19:08,500 - Here we go. 522 00:19:08,542 --> 00:19:11,917 [soft music] 523 00:19:12,000 --> 00:19:13,917 All right. 524 00:19:13,917 --> 00:19:15,208 - I haven't slow danced in so long. 525 00:19:15,333 --> 00:19:16,917 - Yeah? - Does it feel OK? 526 00:19:17,000 --> 00:19:18,083 Is it awkward? - No. 527 00:19:18,167 --> 00:19:19,083 - I don't know where my hand goes. 528 00:19:19,167 --> 00:19:20,583 - You're fine. You're fine. 529 00:19:20,708 --> 00:19:23,875 I know, usually you can rest it, like, on the shoulders. 530 00:19:23,958 --> 00:19:24,875 - OK. - Yeah. 531 00:19:24,958 --> 00:19:26,500 - OK. 532 00:19:26,542 --> 00:19:29,542 - My mom, she was a Zumba instructor. 533 00:19:29,625 --> 00:19:32,042 - Shout out to Mom. - Yeah, so I can dance. 534 00:19:32,167 --> 00:19:34,000 - OK. - Yeah, I'm a grass dancer. 535 00:19:34,083 --> 00:19:35,125 - What is that? 536 00:19:35,208 --> 00:19:36,667 - Um-- 537 00:19:36,750 --> 00:19:39,708 - I'm familiar with some things, Indigenous culture. 538 00:19:39,792 --> 00:19:41,667 But I feel like, y'all are not a monolith, so-- 539 00:19:41,792 --> 00:19:43,458 - Yeah. 540 00:19:43,542 --> 00:19:44,875 - There's a lot of differences across the tribes, I'm sure. 541 00:19:44,958 --> 00:19:47,042 - Yeah, so grass dancers, they are 542 00:19:47,042 --> 00:19:48,833 medicine men of the tribes. 543 00:19:48,917 --> 00:19:53,042 So when tribes migrate, they find new places to settle, 544 00:19:53,125 --> 00:19:55,333 you know, chasing food, whatever it may be. 545 00:19:55,458 --> 00:19:57,167 They send out the grass dancers. 546 00:19:57,208 --> 00:19:59,458 And so the grass, you know, it's super tall, like, 547 00:19:59,542 --> 00:20:00,625 wheat grass. 548 00:20:00,625 --> 00:20:02,250 And so the grass dancers come out. 549 00:20:02,375 --> 00:20:03,750 And it's like, a complete prayer. 550 00:20:03,875 --> 00:20:05,000 - OK. - Yeah. 551 00:20:05,042 --> 00:20:06,000 Yeah. - I can see that. 552 00:20:06,042 --> 00:20:07,500 I can't wait to see that. 553 00:20:07,625 --> 00:20:11,625 - ♪ All I want from you is love ♪ 554 00:20:11,708 --> 00:20:15,542 ♪ 555 00:20:15,625 --> 00:20:17,000 - Your first immediate impression. 556 00:20:17,083 --> 00:20:18,833 - Oh. - [bleep] boy. 557 00:20:18,958 --> 00:20:20,417 [laughter] 558 00:20:20,542 --> 00:20:22,208 - No, I literally was, like, really at ease 559 00:20:22,208 --> 00:20:23,625 when I saw you, which is-- 560 00:20:23,750 --> 00:20:25,708 I knew I would. 561 00:20:25,792 --> 00:20:27,333 I was happy you were tall. 562 00:20:27,375 --> 00:20:28,667 I was like, oh, I could wear my heels. 563 00:20:28,750 --> 00:20:30,000 - Yeah. 564 00:20:30,083 --> 00:20:31,042 - I've never dated outside my race. 565 00:20:31,042 --> 00:20:32,833 - Really? - Ever. 566 00:20:32,875 --> 00:20:34,500 - I've never dated my race. 567 00:20:34,583 --> 00:20:36,042 [chuckles] 568 00:20:36,125 --> 00:20:38,667 - Not us being equal and opposite. 569 00:20:38,708 --> 00:20:40,500 You're going to think I'm lying, but I'm not. 570 00:20:40,583 --> 00:20:43,292 I've asked God for a person I can, 571 00:20:43,375 --> 00:20:46,208 like, slow dance in the kitchen with while we cook. 572 00:20:46,292 --> 00:20:48,292 And so, like, having that slow dance together 573 00:20:48,375 --> 00:20:49,625 made me realize it's probably gonna 574 00:20:49,708 --> 00:20:52,500 continue to be awkward slow dances in the kitchen. 575 00:20:52,583 --> 00:20:55,042 But I'm glad we had that moment because I 576 00:20:55,125 --> 00:20:57,292 kind of asked for it. 577 00:20:57,292 --> 00:20:59,167 For real. 578 00:20:59,292 --> 00:21:01,333 ♪ 579 00:21:01,375 --> 00:21:03,042 [cheers and applause] 580 00:21:03,125 --> 00:21:05,917 I forgot y'all were here. 581 00:21:06,042 --> 00:21:07,167 ♪ 582 00:21:07,250 --> 00:21:08,833 So relax. 583 00:21:08,875 --> 00:21:10,083 - All right! 584 00:21:10,208 --> 00:21:13,000 [upbeat music] 585 00:21:13,042 --> 00:21:15,625 ♪ 586 00:21:15,708 --> 00:21:18,208 - I would like to welcome Clare and Cameron 587 00:21:18,333 --> 00:21:21,042 to the dance floor for their first dance 588 00:21:21,125 --> 00:21:23,167 as a married couple. 589 00:21:23,250 --> 00:21:24,792 - This is the dance floor? 590 00:21:24,875 --> 00:21:25,958 - This is-- [laughs] 591 00:21:26,042 --> 00:21:27,333 - All right. 592 00:21:27,417 --> 00:21:28,917 - Oh, this is not awkward at all. 593 00:21:29,000 --> 00:21:30,667 - [laughs] 594 00:21:30,750 --> 00:21:35,125 - ♪ They say your heart speeds up ♪ 595 00:21:35,208 --> 00:21:39,333 ♪ And the world slows down 596 00:21:39,375 --> 00:21:41,333 - This is so wild. 597 00:21:41,375 --> 00:21:42,958 - Oh, yeah! 598 00:21:43,042 --> 00:21:44,750 - I'm uncomfortable. 599 00:21:44,875 --> 00:21:47,208 It's just the fact that everyone's staring. 600 00:21:47,292 --> 00:21:51,000 - I can tell that, you know, this endeavor 601 00:21:51,083 --> 00:21:53,042 has made her very nervous. 602 00:21:53,167 --> 00:21:56,500 But I hope, very quickly, she realizes 603 00:21:56,583 --> 00:21:58,500 that she's in good hands. 604 00:21:58,625 --> 00:22:02,292 I'm very confident that, as we get to know each other, 605 00:22:02,375 --> 00:22:04,125 she's got nothing to worry about. 606 00:22:04,208 --> 00:22:07,208 And I hope that soon she can be relaxed. 607 00:22:07,292 --> 00:22:11,042 - ♪ Find the one 608 00:22:11,125 --> 00:22:14,250 ♪ 609 00:22:14,333 --> 00:22:16,833 - Watch out. We're about to break out. 610 00:22:16,917 --> 00:22:20,125 - [laughs] You're making this feel less awkward for me. 611 00:22:20,208 --> 00:22:22,542 Were you like, I don't want a short girl? 612 00:22:22,625 --> 00:22:24,417 - No, I didn't say that. 613 00:22:24,500 --> 00:22:26,417 - [laughs] I'm just asking. 614 00:22:26,542 --> 00:22:28,167 Did you have a limit? 615 00:22:28,208 --> 00:22:29,958 Because you probably weren't expecting-- 616 00:22:30,042 --> 00:22:33,833 - I might have said not shorter than like, 617 00:22:33,917 --> 00:22:35,167 5'4" or something, but no. 618 00:22:35,250 --> 00:22:36,500 - 5'4"? 619 00:22:36,542 --> 00:22:37,833 Wait, are you kidding? 620 00:22:37,917 --> 00:22:39,750 - You know, logistically. - Right, right. 621 00:22:39,875 --> 00:22:41,333 - It's not an attractive preference. 622 00:22:41,458 --> 00:22:43,000 - OK, OK. - Truly, truly. 623 00:22:43,083 --> 00:22:46,458 - [laughs] OK. 624 00:22:46,542 --> 00:22:49,250 Cameron is making me feel so comfortable. 625 00:22:49,333 --> 00:22:50,167 I don't know if he knew that he 626 00:22:50,208 --> 00:22:51,667 was dealing with a shorty. 627 00:22:51,708 --> 00:22:54,083 But the experts could not have made a better match, 628 00:22:54,167 --> 00:22:55,250 I truly don't think. 629 00:22:55,333 --> 00:22:57,333 Like, he is funny. 630 00:22:57,375 --> 00:22:59,583 He's smart. He's outgoing. 631 00:22:59,708 --> 00:23:02,042 But, yeah, he's my husband and, like, I feel like we are gonna 632 00:23:02,125 --> 00:23:04,000 be in it for the long haul. 633 00:23:04,083 --> 00:23:09,792 - ♪ Full of joy, full of hope, full of life, full of love ♪ 634 00:23:09,875 --> 00:23:13,667 ♪ 635 00:23:13,750 --> 00:23:17,083 [upbeat music] 636 00:23:17,167 --> 00:23:22,917 - ♪ My best life is with you 637 00:23:23,000 --> 00:23:24,625 - I feel like we should, like, do a toast, 638 00:23:24,708 --> 00:23:26,750 but I just need a drink. 639 00:23:26,833 --> 00:23:28,500 - This is gonna feel so good. 640 00:23:28,583 --> 00:23:30,208 [tapping glasses] 641 00:23:30,292 --> 00:23:31,750 - Oh, God. 642 00:23:33,042 --> 00:23:33,958 - Make out! - Kiss! 643 00:23:34,042 --> 00:23:35,667 - Oh. 644 00:23:35,750 --> 00:23:38,292 [cheering] 645 00:23:38,375 --> 00:23:39,833 - Whoo! 646 00:23:39,958 --> 00:23:41,208 - Throwing us right in. 647 00:23:41,292 --> 00:23:42,667 A little smooch-smooch here. 648 00:23:42,750 --> 00:23:44,750 I feel something there, whether that's 649 00:23:44,833 --> 00:23:47,708 like, physical attraction or just like, the energy 650 00:23:47,833 --> 00:23:50,792 and initial vibe, it really feels 651 00:23:50,875 --> 00:23:54,667 like we're on the path to a little spice, a little heat. 652 00:23:54,708 --> 00:23:56,542 Yeah, so Lily, best friend, 653 00:23:56,667 --> 00:23:58,500 she's technically my maid of honor. 654 00:23:58,542 --> 00:24:00,833 And then Shannon and Jen are the Park City girls. 655 00:24:00,958 --> 00:24:02,833 - How old are they? 656 00:24:02,833 --> 00:24:04,917 - 33. - Wait, how old are you? 657 00:24:05,000 --> 00:24:06,417 - How old are you? 658 00:24:06,500 --> 00:24:07,833 How old are you? - Guess. 659 00:24:07,917 --> 00:24:09,417 - No. 660 00:24:09,500 --> 00:24:11,250 OK, I'll guess. 32? 661 00:24:11,333 --> 00:24:13,333 - Wow. I get that a lot. 662 00:24:13,458 --> 00:24:15,125 I'm 28. 663 00:24:15,208 --> 00:24:16,250 - You're younger than me. 664 00:24:16,333 --> 00:24:17,417 Plot twist. 665 00:24:17,500 --> 00:24:19,792 - You're 30. 666 00:24:19,875 --> 00:24:21,292 - 29. 667 00:24:21,375 --> 00:24:23,250 - Oh, that was my next guess. 668 00:24:23,333 --> 00:24:24,458 What do you drive? 669 00:24:24,542 --> 00:24:26,000 - A good old Jeep. 670 00:24:26,042 --> 00:24:27,167 - You have a Jeep? Wow. 671 00:24:27,208 --> 00:24:29,125 - How about you? I have an Audi A4. 672 00:24:29,208 --> 00:24:30,542 - Ooh. 673 00:24:30,625 --> 00:24:32,333 Power couple. - Yes, ma'am. 674 00:24:32,375 --> 00:24:33,833 - I'm a terrible driver, though. 675 00:24:33,958 --> 00:24:35,500 - OK. 676 00:24:35,625 --> 00:24:38,708 - I'm shocked that I haven't even, like, crashed it once. 677 00:24:38,792 --> 00:24:40,458 - You said you haven't crashed it? 678 00:24:40,542 --> 00:24:42,583 - No, even I was like, Dad, aren't you so proud? 679 00:24:42,708 --> 00:24:43,958 Like, I haven't crashed it one time. 680 00:24:44,042 --> 00:24:45,000 He's like, yeah. 681 00:24:45,083 --> 00:24:46,625 What else? 682 00:24:46,708 --> 00:24:48,750 Were you, like, fun at your bachelor party? 683 00:24:48,750 --> 00:24:50,167 - There were strippers. 684 00:24:50,250 --> 00:24:51,333 I wasn't, like, really into that. 685 00:24:51,375 --> 00:24:53,250 - We were like-- - Crazy? 686 00:24:53,333 --> 00:24:54,458 - White girl wasted, uh-huh. 687 00:24:54,542 --> 00:24:56,625 - Were there strippers? - Yeah. 688 00:24:56,708 --> 00:25:00,167 I was, like, getting all the shots off the strippers. 689 00:25:00,208 --> 00:25:01,417 Shot, shot, shot. 690 00:25:01,500 --> 00:25:04,458 - Oh, my God. 691 00:25:04,458 --> 00:25:05,833 You said you had a belly shot off him? 692 00:25:06,000 --> 00:25:07,417 Oh, my God. 693 00:25:07,542 --> 00:25:08,292 - It's the one thing my aunt said I shouldn't do. 694 00:25:08,375 --> 00:25:10,000 And I did it. 695 00:25:10,083 --> 00:25:11,500 - You know, I can see that she's the life of the party, 696 00:25:11,625 --> 00:25:13,292 and I'm a little more reserved. 697 00:25:13,375 --> 00:25:16,250 But I appreciate that Emily's trying 698 00:25:16,250 --> 00:25:17,625 to say whatever's on her mind. 699 00:25:17,708 --> 00:25:19,333 Also, you know, honesty, I just think 700 00:25:19,375 --> 00:25:21,625 it's a major building block to a successful relationship. 701 00:25:21,708 --> 00:25:23,375 We'll see. Who knows? 702 00:25:23,500 --> 00:25:26,625 But for right now, it's really nice. 703 00:25:26,708 --> 00:25:28,042 - I need another glass of wine. 704 00:25:28,125 --> 00:25:29,500 Do you need any? No? 705 00:25:29,583 --> 00:25:30,458 - I'm good, but I can walk with you. 706 00:25:30,542 --> 00:25:31,958 - OK. 707 00:25:32,042 --> 00:25:34,833 [soft music] 708 00:25:34,917 --> 00:25:39,417 ♪ 709 00:25:39,500 --> 00:25:41,292 - My dress, they altered it in like, two days, 710 00:25:41,375 --> 00:25:42,667 so it looks like [bleep]. 711 00:25:42,750 --> 00:25:43,750 - I think your dress looks wonderful. 712 00:25:43,833 --> 00:25:45,042 - Thank you. - Definitely-- 713 00:25:45,125 --> 00:25:46,625 - Thank you. - [laughs] 714 00:25:47,792 --> 00:25:48,958 - Words. 715 00:25:49,042 --> 00:25:50,417 Communication. 716 00:25:50,500 --> 00:25:52,250 Not communicating is also communicating. 717 00:25:52,375 --> 00:25:53,792 - Well, good. 718 00:25:53,875 --> 00:25:55,417 I hope you're picking up what I'm laying down, man. 719 00:25:55,500 --> 00:25:57,667 - I definitely pick up what you're laying down. 720 00:25:57,792 --> 00:25:59,583 They kept asking me, they were like, 721 00:25:59,667 --> 00:26:01,000 do you think he's a boob guy or an ass guy? 722 00:26:01,125 --> 00:26:02,333 And I was like, he literally has no choice. 723 00:26:02,417 --> 00:26:04,833 - [laughs] 724 00:26:04,875 --> 00:26:06,042 - It's so weird to, like, meet each other 725 00:26:06,042 --> 00:26:06,875 in formal clothes. 726 00:26:06,958 --> 00:26:08,208 - Yeah. 727 00:26:08,292 --> 00:26:10,167 - Like, what do you dress like outside of this? 728 00:26:10,250 --> 00:26:15,500 - Like a professional skater who doesn't skate. 729 00:26:15,542 --> 00:26:17,292 [laughs] 730 00:26:17,375 --> 00:26:19,875 - OK. That's a good description. 731 00:26:19,958 --> 00:26:22,458 I mean, I would honestly say same for me-- 732 00:26:22,542 --> 00:26:23,833 - Yeah? 733 00:26:23,917 --> 00:26:25,292 - Just with, like, a feminine flair. 734 00:26:25,375 --> 00:26:26,375 Yeah. But I do rollerblade. 735 00:26:26,458 --> 00:26:27,875 So I do skate a little bit. 736 00:26:28,000 --> 00:26:30,042 - I love going to roller skate nights at Tracks. 737 00:26:30,125 --> 00:26:31,750 - Do you? [bleep] yeah. 738 00:26:31,833 --> 00:26:32,500 That's what I do for my birthday every year. 739 00:26:32,583 --> 00:26:34,167 - Really? 740 00:26:34,208 --> 00:26:35,208 - All these bitches, we always dress up. 741 00:26:35,208 --> 00:26:37,000 - Yes. 742 00:26:37,083 --> 00:26:39,167 I'm learning that we have, like, a lot of things 743 00:26:39,208 --> 00:26:40,875 in common. 744 00:26:40,958 --> 00:26:44,000 I don't think I could have asked for anything better. 745 00:26:44,125 --> 00:26:45,625 It isn't common. 746 00:26:45,708 --> 00:26:48,833 It's not like you go on a Bumble or Hinge date 747 00:26:48,875 --> 00:26:52,167 and, like, you just agree on everything. 748 00:26:52,292 --> 00:26:54,542 I am slightly allergic to cats. 749 00:26:54,625 --> 00:26:56,125 - Oh, same. - Oh. 750 00:26:56,208 --> 00:26:57,542 - Yeah. - Good. 751 00:26:57,625 --> 00:27:00,292 - We literally married each other. 752 00:27:00,375 --> 00:27:01,833 Like, I married myself. 753 00:27:01,917 --> 00:27:05,000 - Seriously, this is literally astonishing. 754 00:27:05,083 --> 00:27:06,292 It's very unique. 755 00:27:06,375 --> 00:27:08,167 So that's very exciting. 756 00:27:08,208 --> 00:27:10,458 - So, like, this is a first date on crack. 757 00:27:10,458 --> 00:27:11,625 - Yeah. Oh, absolutely. 758 00:27:11,708 --> 00:27:13,208 Except, yeah-- 759 00:27:13,292 --> 00:27:14,875 - Except we're married. 760 00:27:14,958 --> 00:27:18,500 - It's kind of nice in a lot of ways. 761 00:27:18,583 --> 00:27:20,042 - Yeah. - I don't know. 762 00:27:20,125 --> 00:27:21,667 - Like, if we could have our family 763 00:27:21,792 --> 00:27:24,167 and friends on every first date, like, amazing. 764 00:27:24,167 --> 00:27:25,458 - [laughs] - Right? 765 00:27:25,542 --> 00:27:26,667 - Yeah, absolutely. 766 00:27:26,750 --> 00:27:28,458 [tapping glasses] 767 00:27:28,542 --> 00:27:29,833 - Oh, you want us to kiss? 768 00:27:29,917 --> 00:27:31,792 - Oh, is that what that means? 769 00:27:31,875 --> 00:27:33,500 I didn't know that. 770 00:27:33,542 --> 00:27:37,625 - ♪ All my life I've waited 771 00:27:37,708 --> 00:27:42,167 ♪ All my life I've waited 772 00:27:42,167 --> 00:27:43,250 ♪ 773 00:27:47,292 --> 00:27:48,708 - ♪ We got it all 774 00:27:48,708 --> 00:27:50,458 ♪ Oh, oh, oh, oh, 775 00:27:50,542 --> 00:27:52,333 ♪ Oh, oh, oh, oh 776 00:27:52,417 --> 00:27:54,833 ♪ We got it all 777 00:27:54,958 --> 00:27:57,083 - Every time I look up, someone's staring at me. 778 00:27:57,208 --> 00:27:58,750 - Every time. 779 00:27:58,875 --> 00:28:00,750 Just now, I look up and my friend's like-- 780 00:28:00,833 --> 00:28:03,792 - Yeah. It's just like, hey. 781 00:28:03,875 --> 00:28:07,250 All right, now, honestly, thank you for making 782 00:28:07,333 --> 00:28:08,833 this a great experience. 783 00:28:08,875 --> 00:28:10,667 - Thank you. - Yeah. 784 00:28:10,750 --> 00:28:13,292 This has been a lot of fun, I think. 785 00:28:13,375 --> 00:28:15,208 - Yeah, it's been fun so far. 786 00:28:15,292 --> 00:28:18,500 - What did your dad think of this process? 787 00:28:18,625 --> 00:28:21,958 - [chuckles] 788 00:28:22,042 --> 00:28:23,750 He was like, so you're marrying a stranger. 789 00:28:23,833 --> 00:28:25,458 I was like, yeah. 790 00:28:25,542 --> 00:28:26,875 His exact words were, that's strange. 791 00:28:26,958 --> 00:28:30,125 - Oh, no. - I was like, oh, OK, great. 792 00:28:30,208 --> 00:28:32,542 But that's what I miss most about my mom. 793 00:28:32,667 --> 00:28:34,750 My mother passed away last April. 794 00:28:34,833 --> 00:28:36,333 - Oh, I'm so sorry. 795 00:28:36,417 --> 00:28:39,292 - Honestly, there's no one in this room that I was-- 796 00:28:39,375 --> 00:28:42,417 what I would say that I've ever been closer to, than my mom. 797 00:28:42,542 --> 00:28:44,000 And I talked to her about everything. 798 00:28:44,042 --> 00:28:45,750 Like, she was the type of person I could be like-- 799 00:28:45,833 --> 00:28:47,417 I could tell her I had a one-night stand 800 00:28:47,500 --> 00:28:48,792 and did cocaine and she wouldn't-- 801 00:28:48,875 --> 00:28:50,333 not that I would do that. 802 00:28:50,417 --> 00:28:52,000 But she would just be like, oh, well, how was it? 803 00:28:52,000 --> 00:28:53,500 And then she'd come back and be like, OK, 804 00:28:53,583 --> 00:28:55,167 so let's talk about this. 805 00:28:55,250 --> 00:28:57,417 But she was just like--she was just non-judgmental parent. 806 00:28:57,500 --> 00:28:59,708 And my dad is very opposite. 807 00:28:59,792 --> 00:29:01,833 He's fun, but he's not my mom. 808 00:29:01,917 --> 00:29:06,292 So I feel like I'm missing my therapist, in a sense. 809 00:29:06,375 --> 00:29:08,500 [soft music] 810 00:29:08,583 --> 00:29:11,375 - Well, this is something I was a little scared to share. 811 00:29:11,458 --> 00:29:13,250 - It's OK. Just go for it. 812 00:29:13,375 --> 00:29:15,333 - But, you know, I am finishing classes to become 813 00:29:15,375 --> 00:29:16,333 a real estate broker. 814 00:29:16,417 --> 00:29:17,958 - OK. 815 00:29:18,042 --> 00:29:19,375 - And, you know, being an independent contractor 816 00:29:19,500 --> 00:29:24,000 in the construction side, I'm still at home with my mom. 817 00:29:24,083 --> 00:29:25,750 - Have you been, like, using that time to save 818 00:29:25,833 --> 00:29:26,917 and stuff and-- 819 00:29:27,000 --> 00:29:28,208 - Mm-hmm. - Yeah. 820 00:29:28,208 --> 00:29:29,500 - So-- 821 00:29:29,542 --> 00:29:30,875 - It's funny. 822 00:29:31,000 --> 00:29:32,000 My friends asked me, they were like, 823 00:29:32,083 --> 00:29:32,958 what if he lives with his mom? 824 00:29:33,042 --> 00:29:34,417 And I was like, well, it depends 825 00:29:34,500 --> 00:29:35,917 on what he's doing with that. 826 00:29:36,042 --> 00:29:37,583 Maybe because my mom died, or maybe, you know, 827 00:29:37,708 --> 00:29:39,208 that made me want to be closer to family, 828 00:29:39,375 --> 00:29:41,083 but I honestly wish I could live with my parents. 829 00:29:41,167 --> 00:29:42,833 Like, I say that all the time. 830 00:29:42,833 --> 00:29:44,375 I tell--my little sister moved out. 831 00:29:44,500 --> 00:29:46,167 And I told her, I said, you should have stayed longer. 832 00:29:46,292 --> 00:29:48,167 I said, you're not missing anything but bills out here. 833 00:29:48,208 --> 00:29:50,500 - Yeah, for real. - It's tough. 834 00:29:50,625 --> 00:29:53,000 So, like, I don't feel like worried 835 00:29:53,125 --> 00:29:54,500 that you live with your mom, as long as you've 836 00:29:54,625 --> 00:29:55,875 been smart with that time. 837 00:29:55,958 --> 00:29:57,458 - Oh, man. You have put me at ease. 838 00:29:57,542 --> 00:29:59,333 - Stop. - Oh, man. 839 00:29:59,375 --> 00:30:00,792 - Yeah, I mean, you cook. 840 00:30:00,875 --> 00:30:02,958 You're handy. 841 00:30:03,042 --> 00:30:05,000 This is, like, what I wanted in a husband. 842 00:30:05,083 --> 00:30:06,458 if I could, like, write it on paper, 843 00:30:06,542 --> 00:30:07,750 which I did write it on paper. 844 00:30:07,875 --> 00:30:09,833 - Yeah? 845 00:30:09,875 --> 00:30:11,167 - I'm happy. I'm pleasantly surprised. 846 00:30:11,208 --> 00:30:12,625 - Good. 847 00:30:12,708 --> 00:30:14,625 ♪ 848 00:30:14,708 --> 00:30:17,958 [upbeat music] 849 00:30:18,042 --> 00:30:19,292 - So you do go, like, mountain biking? 850 00:30:19,375 --> 00:30:21,167 - Yeah. 851 00:30:21,208 --> 00:30:22,917 - So I don't bike, though. I don't bike. 852 00:30:23,000 --> 00:30:24,125 - Don't worry. - I work out. 853 00:30:24,208 --> 00:30:25,833 - Don't worry. - I work out. 854 00:30:25,875 --> 00:30:28,625 - There's not--but you said in your vows 855 00:30:28,625 --> 00:30:33,083 that our relationship is built on our--and I'm paraphrasing, 856 00:30:33,167 --> 00:30:34,708 sorry-- like, our individual-- 857 00:30:34,792 --> 00:30:36,083 - No, you need to know it word for word. 858 00:30:36,167 --> 00:30:38,250 How dare you not remember every line? 859 00:30:38,375 --> 00:30:39,792 It's terrible. 860 00:30:39,875 --> 00:30:41,667 - It's who we are as individuals that will build 861 00:30:41,750 --> 00:30:43,000 who we are as a relationship. 862 00:30:43,083 --> 00:30:45,292 - Key. I'm an independent person. 863 00:30:45,375 --> 00:30:47,208 - We--like, we never want to become the same people. 864 00:30:47,292 --> 00:30:48,792 - Ever. - This is for us-- 865 00:30:48,875 --> 00:30:50,083 - I will always be myself. 866 00:30:50,167 --> 00:30:51,083 - To learn from each other, but to still 867 00:30:51,083 --> 00:30:53,292 remain individuals and-- 868 00:30:53,375 --> 00:30:54,792 - Have our own hobbies. 869 00:30:54,875 --> 00:30:56,667 But I love that you have hobbies because-- 870 00:30:56,750 --> 00:30:58,333 - It just means I'm not a loser. 871 00:30:58,417 --> 00:30:59,708 - There's been men that don't have hobbies, 872 00:30:59,792 --> 00:31:01,167 and that's concerning. 873 00:31:01,292 --> 00:31:03,000 Because then they cling on to you and they're like, 874 00:31:03,083 --> 00:31:04,167 I don't have friends. I don't have hobbies. 875 00:31:04,292 --> 00:31:05,542 And it's like-- - Oh, my God. 876 00:31:05,625 --> 00:31:07,333 - That's concerning, you know? 877 00:31:07,417 --> 00:31:09,000 - If anything, your problem is gonna be like, 878 00:31:09,083 --> 00:31:10,833 oh, he's going riding again. 879 00:31:10,917 --> 00:31:13,583 - Yeah. [laughs] 880 00:31:13,583 --> 00:31:15,833 I think I've been with a lot of like very unstable guys 881 00:31:15,958 --> 00:31:17,625 who have, like, been codependent on me. 882 00:31:17,708 --> 00:31:20,167 - Can I say, no offense, but you look like you would 883 00:31:20,250 --> 00:31:21,583 attract those kinds of guys. 884 00:31:21,667 --> 00:31:22,583 - Thanks. - In a sense that-- 885 00:31:22,667 --> 00:31:24,667 - I'm not offended. [laughs] 886 00:31:24,750 --> 00:31:26,958 Huge slay. No, I'm kidding. 887 00:31:27,042 --> 00:31:28,375 - I just realized when I said. 888 00:31:28,458 --> 00:31:30,667 No, I mean, like-- 889 00:31:30,708 --> 00:31:32,833 You just, you know, it's like a moth to a flame, you know. 890 00:31:32,875 --> 00:31:34,625 And then you just get caught up. 891 00:31:34,750 --> 00:31:35,958 - Thanks. I'm glad you think so. 892 00:31:36,042 --> 00:31:37,000 I'm glad you're attracted to me, 893 00:31:37,083 --> 00:31:37,917 because I'm attracted to you. 894 00:31:38,000 --> 00:31:39,375 - OK, good. 895 00:31:39,542 --> 00:31:40,875 - I was like, that was a concern, as well. 896 00:31:40,958 --> 00:31:42,000 Because what if we weren't attracted to each other? 897 00:31:42,208 --> 00:31:44,167 - So, so far, everything on the surface, you know, 898 00:31:44,250 --> 00:31:46,667 seems like this could work. 899 00:31:46,750 --> 00:31:50,542 [tapping glasses] 900 00:31:50,625 --> 00:31:52,542 - OK. Let's do it. 901 00:31:53,875 --> 00:31:55,750 [cheering] 902 00:31:55,833 --> 00:31:56,875 OK. 903 00:31:57,000 --> 00:31:58,458 - That's all you get. 904 00:31:58,542 --> 00:32:02,167 Most of my life has been me versus the world. 905 00:32:02,208 --> 00:32:06,000 But it's not, like, who I want to be and what kind of life 906 00:32:06,125 --> 00:32:07,667 I want to live. 907 00:32:07,708 --> 00:32:12,167 My goal is to build a life with my now wife, Clare, 908 00:32:12,208 --> 00:32:15,125 and almost become a new organism. 909 00:32:15,208 --> 00:32:16,750 - OK, so my family's huge. 910 00:32:16,833 --> 00:32:18,417 Usually, weddings are like, 300 people. 911 00:32:18,500 --> 00:32:20,083 - Oh, yeah? 912 00:32:20,083 --> 00:32:21,375 - Like, my older sister, 400 people at her wedding. 913 00:32:21,458 --> 00:32:22,958 - Wow. 914 00:32:23,042 --> 00:32:24,042 - So I had to cut off several people from this, 915 00:32:24,125 --> 00:32:26,208 so this is really weird. 916 00:32:26,292 --> 00:32:28,625 It's just weird to have it so small. 917 00:32:28,708 --> 00:32:30,083 And, like, we go cra-- 918 00:32:30,167 --> 00:32:31,792 I mean, we drink, we dance, we have fun. 919 00:32:31,792 --> 00:32:33,875 We got good people. 920 00:32:33,958 --> 00:32:35,167 - My parents back in New Zealand, 921 00:32:35,250 --> 00:32:36,833 like, they couldn't be here today. 922 00:32:36,875 --> 00:32:39,083 But I still have a great crew. 923 00:32:39,208 --> 00:32:41,458 - Fair. That's really great. 924 00:32:41,542 --> 00:32:45,542 - But they have led me to be, from what I understand, 925 00:32:45,542 --> 00:32:47,000 what you are looking for. 926 00:32:47,042 --> 00:32:48,375 - How do you know what I'm looking for? 927 00:32:48,500 --> 00:32:49,625 - In your vows. 928 00:32:49,708 --> 00:32:51,000 In the letter that you wrote. 929 00:32:51,083 --> 00:32:53,833 Family is first. - Yeah, it is important. 930 00:32:53,875 --> 00:32:54,875 - So I can take that-- 931 00:32:54,958 --> 00:32:55,958 I can take a stab. 932 00:32:56,042 --> 00:32:58,750 - [laughs] 933 00:32:58,833 --> 00:33:00,833 - ♪ I feel the crowd get hype ♪ 934 00:33:00,917 --> 00:33:03,583 ♪ No holding back tonight 935 00:33:04,833 --> 00:33:06,250 - Oh, Lord. 936 00:33:06,375 --> 00:33:07,667 - Don't cry. 937 00:33:07,750 --> 00:33:11,750 - We're all crazy for being here, 938 00:33:11,750 --> 00:33:15,583 crazy in love with Lauren and her new husband, "Or-ee-on." 939 00:33:15,667 --> 00:33:17,542 - "Oh-ry-an." 940 00:33:17,625 --> 00:33:19,250 "Oh-ry-an." "Oh-ry-an." 941 00:33:19,333 --> 00:33:20,417 - "Oh-ry-an." I'm so sorry. 942 00:33:20,500 --> 00:33:21,958 "Oh-ry-an." 943 00:33:22,042 --> 00:33:23,500 - Here are the things I know for a fact about Austin. 944 00:33:23,625 --> 00:33:24,875 He's loyal. 945 00:33:24,958 --> 00:33:27,500 He's kind. He's adventurous. 946 00:33:27,625 --> 00:33:31,167 And he will drive you nuts when you play board games with him. 947 00:33:31,292 --> 00:33:33,583 - Cameron's core motivation is the consumption 948 00:33:33,667 --> 00:33:35,417 and acquisition of chocolate. 949 00:33:35,500 --> 00:33:37,333 He has few other tangible needs. 950 00:33:37,458 --> 00:33:39,833 But enough about Cameron, let's talk about Clare. 951 00:33:39,875 --> 00:33:41,167 - No. [laughs] 952 00:33:41,250 --> 00:33:43,000 - I could go on for seconds. 953 00:33:43,083 --> 00:33:45,042 [laughter] 954 00:33:45,125 --> 00:33:47,208 - There comes a time in everyone's life 955 00:33:47,333 --> 00:33:50,750 when they meet their one true love, their soulmate. 956 00:33:50,875 --> 00:33:55,000 That moment came for Clare 27 years ago and nine months, 957 00:33:55,042 --> 00:33:55,958 when she met me in the womb. 958 00:33:56,042 --> 00:33:58,167 [laughter] 959 00:33:58,250 --> 00:34:00,375 That being said, Clare is one of the most 960 00:34:00,458 --> 00:34:03,500 special humans on this Earth. 961 00:34:03,542 --> 00:34:07,333 And her new husband has no idea how lucky he's about to be. 962 00:34:07,375 --> 00:34:10,333 To my new brother-in-law, Cameron, 963 00:34:10,375 --> 00:34:12,708 I'm not sure if you picked up on this yet, 964 00:34:12,792 --> 00:34:14,417 but Clare means everything to me. 965 00:34:14,500 --> 00:34:17,167 And dang, do I have high expectations for you. 966 00:34:17,208 --> 00:34:18,875 - Emily has dreamed of getting married 967 00:34:18,958 --> 00:34:20,333 since she was a preschooler. 968 00:34:20,417 --> 00:34:22,875 She's even gone as a bride for Halloween 969 00:34:23,000 --> 00:34:24,833 three different times. 970 00:34:25,750 --> 00:34:28,417 - All I can say is, Brennan loves being loved. 971 00:34:28,500 --> 00:34:31,000 And as soon as Emily entered the room, 972 00:34:31,042 --> 00:34:33,917 he had a smile on his face. 973 00:34:33,917 --> 00:34:37,708 Well, that smile hasn't left him since. 974 00:34:37,708 --> 00:34:43,583 - So with that, I invite everyone to a toast 975 00:34:43,667 --> 00:34:45,875 to the happy couple. 976 00:34:45,958 --> 00:34:47,458 - Thank you, Brian. 977 00:34:47,542 --> 00:34:49,042 - Cheers. 978 00:34:49,167 --> 00:34:51,625 [upbeat music] 979 00:34:51,708 --> 00:34:54,042 - Whoo! 980 00:34:54,125 --> 00:34:56,000 - ♪ Real 981 00:34:56,083 --> 00:34:59,458 ♪ Now this is how the party should feel ♪ 982 00:34:59,542 --> 00:35:02,000 ♪ We gon' have a good time 983 00:35:02,125 --> 00:35:05,375 ♪ 984 00:35:05,542 --> 00:35:07,708 - At this time, we would like to invite 985 00:35:07,792 --> 00:35:10,458 the newlyweds to cut the cake. 986 00:35:10,542 --> 00:35:11,750 - You know what you're doing. - Yeah. 987 00:35:11,833 --> 00:35:13,917 Just hold on to my hand. - Yeah, I'm holding on. 988 00:35:13,917 --> 00:35:15,667 - I, like--how do you do it? 989 00:35:15,750 --> 00:35:17,792 - Yeah. 990 00:35:17,875 --> 00:35:19,667 We've done this before. 991 00:35:19,750 --> 00:35:21,417 Yeah. 992 00:35:21,542 --> 00:35:23,375 - She's beauty, and she's grace. 993 00:35:23,458 --> 00:35:26,500 [cheering] 994 00:35:26,625 --> 00:35:31,375 ♪ 995 00:35:31,458 --> 00:35:33,375 - My arm's got to really get up there. 996 00:35:33,458 --> 00:35:34,875 - Are your shoulders getting tired? 997 00:35:35,000 --> 00:35:37,042 - [laughs] 998 00:35:37,125 --> 00:35:38,833 - ♪ Na, na, na, na 999 00:35:38,875 --> 00:35:40,917 ♪ Whoa, whoa, whoa, hey 1000 00:35:41,000 --> 00:35:42,833 - Good cake though. 1001 00:35:42,917 --> 00:35:46,500 ♪ 1002 00:35:46,542 --> 00:35:48,625 - General vibes. How you feeling? 1003 00:35:48,708 --> 00:35:50,042 - Yeah. 1004 00:35:50,167 --> 00:35:52,667 - I am astonished at how much we have in common. 1005 00:35:52,750 --> 00:35:54,333 - Yeah. 1006 00:35:54,375 --> 00:35:58,458 - It's literally, like, every sentence her or I say, 1007 00:35:58,542 --> 00:36:00,208 is like, oh, my God, like, yes. 1008 00:36:00,292 --> 00:36:01,667 Agreed. - What, you too? 1009 00:36:01,708 --> 00:36:03,500 Really? - Yeah. 1010 00:36:03,583 --> 00:36:05,417 - OK, I'm interested in hearing first impressions. 1011 00:36:05,500 --> 00:36:07,625 - First impressions, I don't know. 1012 00:36:07,708 --> 00:36:09,542 I think I've been really nervous about this process 1013 00:36:09,625 --> 00:36:11,833 that, like, whoever was gonna do this, like, 1014 00:36:11,958 --> 00:36:14,375 wouldn't be doing it for, like, the right reasons or like, 1015 00:36:14,500 --> 00:36:16,583 wouldn't be as like genuine or honest, or like, 1016 00:36:16,667 --> 00:36:18,250 trying to get the Instagram followers 1017 00:36:18,333 --> 00:36:19,875 or, like, whatever it may be. 1018 00:36:19,958 --> 00:36:22,125 And like, instantly, like, when I saw him get emotional, 1019 00:36:22,208 --> 00:36:24,125 I was like, no. 1020 00:36:24,208 --> 00:36:26,833 Like, he's in this for marriage, like, for love. 1021 00:36:26,917 --> 00:36:29,375 He's not in this for anything else. 1022 00:36:29,500 --> 00:36:30,750 And like, that was my first impression, 1023 00:36:30,833 --> 00:36:32,000 is that he's very authentic. 1024 00:36:32,083 --> 00:36:33,792 He's cute, too. That helps. 1025 00:36:33,875 --> 00:36:35,500 [laughter] 1026 00:36:35,542 --> 00:36:36,875 - I think he's the most authentic person 1027 00:36:36,875 --> 00:36:38,083 I've ever met. - Really? 1028 00:36:38,167 --> 00:36:39,625 - Yeah, he'll tell you what's going on. 1029 00:36:39,708 --> 00:36:41,542 - I am also very direct. 1030 00:36:41,625 --> 00:36:43,667 So, like, to be with another direct person is really nice. 1031 00:36:43,792 --> 00:36:47,625 Like, I'm never, like, unkind or, like, mean about it. 1032 00:36:47,708 --> 00:36:51,000 But, like, I don't really have a filter 1033 00:36:51,125 --> 00:36:52,667 to be able to say-- like, I never get 1034 00:36:52,750 --> 00:36:54,667 passive aggressive or anything like that. 1035 00:36:54,750 --> 00:36:56,625 Like, if something's bothering me, I say it. 1036 00:36:56,708 --> 00:37:00,167 Like, I don't know how to not do that. 1037 00:37:00,250 --> 00:37:02,167 - Communication. 1038 00:37:02,250 --> 00:37:03,458 Communication is number one. - Number one. 1039 00:37:03,542 --> 00:37:05,000 Always number one. - Number one. 1040 00:37:05,083 --> 00:37:07,375 And the more direct you are with her, the more in tune 1041 00:37:07,500 --> 00:37:08,667 you are with your internal process. 1042 00:37:08,750 --> 00:37:10,417 - Sure. 1043 00:37:10,500 --> 00:37:11,583 - And if you just share it with her, she can understand. 1044 00:37:11,667 --> 00:37:12,958 - Great. 1045 00:37:13,042 --> 00:37:14,833 - But if you're ambiguous, and if you're--if you 1046 00:37:14,958 --> 00:37:17,417 don't understand yourself, and you can't really, 1047 00:37:17,542 --> 00:37:20,250 like, share it with her, her anxiety will go crazy. 1048 00:37:20,333 --> 00:37:23,083 - What's your view on immediate physicality 1049 00:37:23,167 --> 00:37:24,250 in your relationship? 1050 00:37:24,333 --> 00:37:25,542 - Immediate physicality? 1051 00:37:25,625 --> 00:37:26,792 - In terms of, you know, are you a girl 1052 00:37:26,875 --> 00:37:29,500 who's looking for, you know, touch quick, 1053 00:37:29,583 --> 00:37:31,583 or are you waiting your time? 1054 00:37:31,667 --> 00:37:35,000 - It's whatever feels right at that time, yeah. 1055 00:37:35,125 --> 00:37:36,000 - He's not somebody who typically 1056 00:37:36,083 --> 00:37:37,167 likes to rush into things. 1057 00:37:37,208 --> 00:37:38,542 - OK. - Yeah. 1058 00:37:38,667 --> 00:37:40,000 - She will constantly touch and scratch you. 1059 00:37:40,042 --> 00:37:41,375 - Not into that. 1060 00:37:41,458 --> 00:37:43,333 - I think she sometimes forgets that, like-- 1061 00:37:43,417 --> 00:37:45,167 - Not everybody is-- 1062 00:37:45,292 --> 00:37:46,500 - Some people need, like, need a gentle approach. 1063 00:37:46,625 --> 00:37:48,125 - Yeah. 1064 00:37:48,208 --> 00:37:49,083 - Because she's just so sex positive, like, 1065 00:37:49,208 --> 00:37:50,333 she's just expansive. 1066 00:37:50,375 --> 00:37:52,083 She's secure in herself. 1067 00:37:52,208 --> 00:37:53,792 She's not traditional at all. 1068 00:37:53,875 --> 00:37:56,917 She's taught me so much about, like, sex positivity 1069 00:37:57,000 --> 00:37:58,208 and, like, I don't know. 1070 00:37:58,292 --> 00:38:00,208 She just is unapologetic about, like, 1071 00:38:00,292 --> 00:38:02,750 her beliefs and her morals. 1072 00:38:02,833 --> 00:38:04,708 It's like, she's just like, nope, this is the way I feel. 1073 00:38:04,833 --> 00:38:06,417 Like, take it or leave it. - Buckle up, buddy. 1074 00:38:06,500 --> 00:38:08,000 - Yeah. - [laughs] 1075 00:38:08,125 --> 00:38:09,792 - I mean-- - It's a ride. 1076 00:38:13,833 --> 00:38:15,542 - ♪ And we dance like we're on fire ♪ 1077 00:38:15,542 --> 00:38:18,833 ♪ When we sing, we sing too loud ♪ 1078 00:38:18,917 --> 00:38:20,458 - I'm happy. - Good. 1079 00:38:20,542 --> 00:38:23,375 - I loved your dancing song. - Thank you, thank you. 1080 00:38:23,458 --> 00:38:24,625 I have no idea what I'm doing when it 1081 00:38:24,708 --> 00:38:26,083 comes to this kind of dancing. 1082 00:38:26,167 --> 00:38:28,000 - I don't, either. - OK, good. 1083 00:38:28,083 --> 00:38:29,417 [upbeat music] 1084 00:38:29,500 --> 00:38:31,875 - ♪ Hey, hey, hey 1085 00:38:31,958 --> 00:38:34,042 - All right, ladies and gentlemen, at this time, 1086 00:38:34,167 --> 00:38:36,167 we're gonna be going live with the drum. 1087 00:38:36,208 --> 00:38:39,000 And, again, it is follow the leader. 1088 00:38:39,000 --> 00:38:41,958 [drumbeat and chanting] 1089 00:38:59,083 --> 00:39:00,958 - All right. 1090 00:39:02,042 --> 00:39:05,750 - I'm really glad that he got to incorporate a really big 1091 00:39:05,875 --> 00:39:09,167 part of his culture into the reception because it really 1092 00:39:09,167 --> 00:39:12,583 did feel like a co-mingling of the families, and traditions, 1093 00:39:12,667 --> 00:39:13,875 and different things. 1094 00:39:13,958 --> 00:39:15,083 It was beautiful. 1095 00:39:19,083 --> 00:39:20,333 - Whoo! 1096 00:39:20,375 --> 00:39:23,000 [cheers and applause] 1097 00:39:25,000 --> 00:39:27,917 [upbeat music] 1098 00:39:28,042 --> 00:39:29,667 ♪ 1099 00:39:29,750 --> 00:39:31,000 - I've known Austin for a decade. 1100 00:39:31,083 --> 00:39:32,667 - Mm-hmm. 1101 00:39:32,708 --> 00:39:34,208 - We've lived together for three years, now. 1102 00:39:34,292 --> 00:39:36,500 - How does it feel that I'm stealing him away from you? 1103 00:39:36,542 --> 00:39:38,833 - No, look, I've asked all my girlfriends. 1104 00:39:38,958 --> 00:39:40,667 They're like, you are going to thrive. 1105 00:39:40,708 --> 00:39:42,417 - You can borrow him anytime you need to. 1106 00:39:42,500 --> 00:39:44,917 If you're like, I miss Austin, like, you can have him. 1107 00:39:45,042 --> 00:39:47,292 - The only thing I would say-- 1108 00:39:47,375 --> 00:39:49,417 like, I don't know, OK. 1109 00:39:49,542 --> 00:39:50,750 He's always going to be wearing pajamas. 1110 00:39:50,833 --> 00:39:51,583 - So he won't wear the suit all the time? 1111 00:39:51,708 --> 00:39:52,750 - No, never. - [bleep] 1112 00:39:52,833 --> 00:39:54,083 - Also-- - Yeah. 1113 00:39:54,083 --> 00:39:56,042 - He loves to start projects. - I've heard. 1114 00:39:56,125 --> 00:39:57,083 - Not that great at finishing them. 1115 00:39:57,208 --> 00:39:58,542 - I've heard. 1116 00:39:58,667 --> 00:40:00,667 - So if you come home and there is 1117 00:40:00,708 --> 00:40:02,750 newspaper all over your dining room table-- 1118 00:40:02,875 --> 00:40:04,500 - I'll be ready. - You have to say something. 1119 00:40:04,583 --> 00:40:05,667 - This is great advice. - Yes. 1120 00:40:05,708 --> 00:40:06,667 He will always take out the trash. 1121 00:40:06,750 --> 00:40:07,958 - Perfect. 1122 00:40:08,042 --> 00:40:09,292 - You don't have to worry about trash day, ever. 1123 00:40:09,417 --> 00:40:10,042 - Amazing. - He'll print out the calendar. 1124 00:40:10,125 --> 00:40:11,500 - Amazing. 1125 00:40:11,542 --> 00:40:12,500 - And he'll know which days are recycling. 1126 00:40:12,708 --> 00:40:13,458 You don't have to worry about that at all. 1127 00:40:13,542 --> 00:40:14,667 - [bleep]. - I know. 1128 00:40:14,750 --> 00:40:16,083 I'm worried about that, actually. 1129 00:40:16,167 --> 00:40:16,875 Because I'm like, [bleep], now I got to do it. 1130 00:40:16,958 --> 00:40:19,250 [laughs] 1131 00:40:19,333 --> 00:40:22,083 - ♪ Good vibes only 1132 00:40:22,167 --> 00:40:23,667 ♪ We're living out this life 1133 00:40:23,708 --> 00:40:26,000 ♪ And we could do it now 1134 00:40:26,083 --> 00:40:27,833 ♪ 1135 00:40:27,958 --> 00:40:30,208 - So when did you move here from New Zealand? 1136 00:40:30,292 --> 00:40:31,667 - In 2013. 1137 00:40:31,708 --> 00:40:33,333 I always laughed at people who, like, 1138 00:40:33,417 --> 00:40:34,458 never moved away from their family. 1139 00:40:34,542 --> 00:40:36,083 - Right. - Because like-- 1140 00:40:36,167 --> 00:40:37,208 - That's us. - That's us. 1141 00:40:37,292 --> 00:40:39,417 - Right, but now, like, I'm-- 1142 00:40:39,500 --> 00:40:41,167 - You couldn't leave. - I don't want to move away. 1143 00:40:41,292 --> 00:40:42,583 Yeah, I don't want to move away because of the support 1144 00:40:42,667 --> 00:40:43,583 and love I have here. - Right. 1145 00:40:43,708 --> 00:40:45,583 That's a great-- that's awesome. 1146 00:40:45,667 --> 00:40:47,292 - Your mom is over the moon about me, by the way. 1147 00:40:47,417 --> 00:40:48,833 - Good. We do love confidence. 1148 00:40:48,875 --> 00:40:51,125 - No, I mean--I mean, she's like, she's-- 1149 00:40:51,208 --> 00:40:52,917 - She is. I can see it. 1150 00:40:53,000 --> 00:40:54,917 - Yeah, she's had nothing but nice things to say to me. 1151 00:40:55,042 --> 00:40:56,458 She's been very sweet. - She's a great person. 1152 00:40:56,542 --> 00:40:57,750 - She's very sweet. - Our parents are great. 1153 00:40:57,833 --> 00:40:59,833 - [mimicking Cameron] Clare, my name is Cameron. 1154 00:40:59,917 --> 00:41:02,375 I am a great guy. 1155 00:41:02,458 --> 00:41:04,750 I'm going to be everything for your sister. 1156 00:41:04,875 --> 00:41:07,833 - I mean, we'll see. - [laughs] 1157 00:41:07,958 --> 00:41:12,708 - Everything academically I've excelled at, so I got-- 1158 00:41:12,792 --> 00:41:15,333 - Brush your shoulder. 1159 00:41:15,375 --> 00:41:16,375 - Oh. 1160 00:41:16,458 --> 00:41:18,083 - [laughs] 1161 00:41:18,167 --> 00:41:20,083 - I'm pretty good. 1162 00:41:20,167 --> 00:41:21,208 - Your mom loves me. 1163 00:41:21,292 --> 00:41:22,208 I'm pretty great. 1164 00:41:22,292 --> 00:41:24,167 [laughs] 1165 00:41:24,250 --> 00:41:26,000 ♪ 1166 00:41:26,083 --> 00:41:28,583 - ♪ It's a party outside all across the globe ♪ 1167 00:41:28,708 --> 00:41:30,500 ♪ Every woman, every man coming out they home ♪ 1168 00:41:30,542 --> 00:41:34,583 [upbeat music] 1169 00:41:34,667 --> 00:41:35,792 - Are y'all having a good time? 1170 00:41:35,875 --> 00:41:38,125 - I mean, so far, I'm having a good time. 1171 00:41:38,208 --> 00:41:40,333 And you seem like you're gonna be a great match for him. 1172 00:41:40,417 --> 00:41:41,667 - Yeah. 1173 00:41:41,792 --> 00:41:42,833 - He seems like he has a lot of layers. 1174 00:41:42,875 --> 00:41:44,083 Like, he doesn't seem like he's like-- 1175 00:41:44,167 --> 00:41:45,667 - He's an onion. 1176 00:41:45,750 --> 00:41:46,958 - Yeah, that's what my friends say about me so I think-- 1177 00:41:47,042 --> 00:41:48,292 - His nickname is literally Onion. 1178 00:41:48,375 --> 00:41:49,667 - Literally? Really? 1179 00:41:49,750 --> 00:41:50,958 - Yeah. Like, people call him Onion. 1180 00:41:51,042 --> 00:41:52,667 - Good to know. 1181 00:41:52,750 --> 00:41:54,333 I won't call him that, but it's good to know that that's 1182 00:41:54,417 --> 00:41:55,792 one of his many nicknames. - Yeah. 1183 00:41:55,875 --> 00:41:57,042 - Yeah. - Maybe later. 1184 00:41:57,167 --> 00:41:58,875 Definitely. 1185 00:41:59,000 --> 00:42:03,042 - Do you guys have any concerns about who his wife might be? 1186 00:42:03,167 --> 00:42:04,167 You can be honest. 1187 00:42:04,250 --> 00:42:06,000 I can take a hit. 1188 00:42:06,042 --> 00:42:08,417 - For sure, I mean, you never know what you're gonna get. 1189 00:42:08,500 --> 00:42:09,417 So... - Right. 1190 00:42:09,542 --> 00:42:10,875 A complete stranger. 1191 00:42:10,958 --> 00:42:12,792 Do you think you have any red flags? 1192 00:42:12,875 --> 00:42:14,542 - My red flag is that I need a little bit 1193 00:42:14,625 --> 00:42:16,500 too much validation. 1194 00:42:16,583 --> 00:42:18,042 And that's something that I need to work on, myself. 1195 00:42:18,125 --> 00:42:19,167 And I'm working on it. 1196 00:42:19,250 --> 00:42:20,333 I'm not a yeller. 1197 00:42:20,375 --> 00:42:22,625 I'm not really combative. 1198 00:42:22,708 --> 00:42:24,500 Like, I don't know. 1199 00:42:24,542 --> 00:42:25,958 Y'all could tell me what my real flex is 1200 00:42:26,042 --> 00:42:27,667 once you get to know me. 1201 00:42:27,750 --> 00:42:30,292 But I'm honestly at a loss, outside of the needing-- 1202 00:42:30,375 --> 00:42:32,083 seeking external validation. 1203 00:42:32,167 --> 00:42:33,833 - So like, knowing-- 1204 00:42:33,917 --> 00:42:35,375 knowing that and, like, knowing that about yourself, 1205 00:42:35,458 --> 00:42:37,208 does that make you like, concerned 1206 00:42:37,208 --> 00:42:39,917 at all, like, coming into like a marriage with a stranger? 1207 00:42:40,000 --> 00:42:41,833 Or does, like, your kind of self-awareness 1208 00:42:41,875 --> 00:42:44,000 make you, like, more comfortable with that? 1209 00:42:44,083 --> 00:42:45,250 - The latter. 1210 00:42:45,375 --> 00:42:46,250 Going into the marriage, like, I'm at, 1211 00:42:46,333 --> 00:42:48,208 like, honestly my best self. 1212 00:42:48,292 --> 00:42:50,542 I have space for a partner. 1213 00:42:50,625 --> 00:42:52,500 And I'm at the point of my life where 1214 00:42:52,542 --> 00:42:53,833 I know myself really well. 1215 00:42:53,958 --> 00:42:55,333 - I got you. 1216 00:42:55,375 --> 00:42:56,708 - And I asked for that in a partner. 1217 00:42:56,792 --> 00:42:57,958 And he seems like he's very self-aware, too. 1218 00:42:58,042 --> 00:42:59,375 - Definitely. - And I like that. 1219 00:42:59,458 --> 00:43:01,667 - With your own journey of validation 1220 00:43:01,667 --> 00:43:03,792 and self-validation, just voicing like, 1221 00:43:03,875 --> 00:43:05,708 hey, I need validation right now, that's all 1222 00:43:05,792 --> 00:43:07,083 I really need from you. 1223 00:43:07,167 --> 00:43:08,875 Just listen to me. 1224 00:43:09,042 --> 00:43:11,833 That way he's, like, more aware of how to be there for you. 1225 00:43:11,958 --> 00:43:17,333 ♪ 1226 00:43:17,375 --> 00:43:19,000 - I told Lauren. 1227 00:43:19,042 --> 00:43:21,375 I said, there's between 15 and 100 questions 1228 00:43:21,458 --> 00:43:22,958 you need to ask your mate. 1229 00:43:23,042 --> 00:43:26,167 One of the questions is, does he own a toolbox? 1230 00:43:26,208 --> 00:43:28,458 Because you need to know if he can fix some [bleep]. 1231 00:43:28,583 --> 00:43:29,917 And I'm listening to you. 1232 00:43:29,917 --> 00:43:32,417 I said, OK, got that covered. 1233 00:43:32,542 --> 00:43:33,375 Cool. 1234 00:43:33,500 --> 00:43:34,958 - Yeah, man. 1235 00:43:35,042 --> 00:43:38,167 I've been in the electrical trade for about seven, 1236 00:43:38,250 --> 00:43:39,833 eight years now. 1237 00:43:39,917 --> 00:43:42,875 I'm licensed for real estate in New York, 1238 00:43:43,000 --> 00:43:45,833 as well as electrical in New York. 1239 00:43:45,875 --> 00:43:47,667 - And you're from here, right? - Yeah. 1240 00:43:47,750 --> 00:43:50,042 - OK, well, now that you have a new family, 1241 00:43:50,167 --> 00:43:53,125 my daughter as your wife, do you see yourself 1242 00:43:53,208 --> 00:43:56,583 still looking at Colorado as your permanent place 1243 00:43:56,708 --> 00:43:58,000 of residence? 1244 00:43:58,042 --> 00:43:59,917 - No. - OK. 1245 00:44:00,042 --> 00:44:02,625 - I do want a house on the East Coast, 1246 00:44:02,750 --> 00:44:05,125 you know, a house here in Colorado. 1247 00:44:05,208 --> 00:44:08,167 That would be really nice, you know, just to get away and run 1248 00:44:08,250 --> 00:44:10,125 away to the mountains, go snowboarding, 1249 00:44:10,208 --> 00:44:11,958 you know, go to the East Coast, you know, 1250 00:44:12,042 --> 00:44:13,708 just go hang out on the beach. 1251 00:44:13,792 --> 00:44:16,167 I just enjoy just getting up and going, honestly. 1252 00:44:16,208 --> 00:44:20,125 - OK, well, I have a concern listening to you now, 1253 00:44:20,208 --> 00:44:23,750 because in marriage, have to make decisions based upon both 1254 00:44:23,833 --> 00:44:25,250 of your likes and dislikes. 1255 00:44:25,333 --> 00:44:28,500 And you just said that you are willing to, you know, 1256 00:44:28,583 --> 00:44:30,375 spend time between here and the East Coast. 1257 00:44:30,458 --> 00:44:31,917 - Sure. 1258 00:44:32,042 --> 00:44:33,833 - What I didn't hear you say is that you're 1259 00:44:33,917 --> 00:44:37,500 willing to also include Lauren in that decision process. 1260 00:44:37,583 --> 00:44:38,792 - Well-- 1261 00:44:38,875 --> 00:44:41,000 - What I didn't hear is, 1262 00:44:41,042 --> 00:44:44,167 hey, I have a wife now, so the decisions that I 1263 00:44:44,292 --> 00:44:49,833 make have to be always included with my second person in-hand. 1264 00:44:49,875 --> 00:44:53,833 My concern is, are you chasing opportunities someplace else, 1265 00:44:53,958 --> 00:44:56,375 and will you consider what you say 1266 00:44:56,458 --> 00:44:59,625 you want to do has to always be in consideration 1267 00:44:59,708 --> 00:45:02,542 with your wife? 1268 00:45:02,625 --> 00:45:04,250 - Of course. - OK. 1269 00:45:04,375 --> 00:45:06,042 - Yeah. 1270 00:45:06,125 --> 00:45:09,167 - What are your expectations of a marriage, and this marriage? 1271 00:45:09,208 --> 00:45:12,333 And what are your requirements of a marriage? 1272 00:45:12,375 --> 00:45:17,208 - My expectations in this marriage, you know, I-- 1273 00:45:17,292 --> 00:45:19,000 [chuckles] 1274 00:45:19,083 --> 00:45:21,083 I grew up in a matriarch, you know? 1275 00:45:21,167 --> 00:45:23,958 So women kind of ran the show for me. 1276 00:45:24,042 --> 00:45:26,000 And so that's kind of where, you know, 1277 00:45:26,042 --> 00:45:28,167 I never really dated within my own culture 1278 00:45:28,250 --> 00:45:30,375 because just-- 1279 00:45:30,458 --> 00:45:32,375 I don't like being bossed around. 1280 00:45:32,458 --> 00:45:34,042 Moving on with that-- 1281 00:45:34,125 --> 00:45:35,792 - Could you go back with that? - Sure. 1282 00:45:35,875 --> 00:45:37,125 - You said you never really dated in your culture 1283 00:45:37,208 --> 00:45:38,875 because you didn't like to be bossed around. 1284 00:45:39,000 --> 00:45:43,500 - Well, because of the matriarch that we have. 1285 00:45:43,583 --> 00:45:45,583 And so with that, you know, I think 1286 00:45:45,667 --> 00:45:47,667 my expectations, when it comes to marriage, 1287 00:45:47,750 --> 00:45:49,542 is mutual respect. 1288 00:45:49,625 --> 00:45:52,583 I mean, that's where I sit. 1289 00:45:52,667 --> 00:45:54,250 - Well, Orion, you know, it really 1290 00:45:54,333 --> 00:45:56,667 doesn't matter anything we say or ask you, 1291 00:45:56,750 --> 00:45:58,042 because you're already married. 1292 00:45:58,125 --> 00:45:59,333 - Sure. 1293 00:45:59,375 --> 00:46:00,833 - So it's not like you need my approval. 1294 00:46:00,875 --> 00:46:02,625 It's a done deal. 1295 00:46:02,708 --> 00:46:06,125 - But I also would still like your approval. 1296 00:46:06,208 --> 00:46:07,417 - OK. 1297 00:46:07,500 --> 00:46:09,750 Well, I have to wait and see. 1298 00:46:09,833 --> 00:46:12,083 [tense music] 1299 00:46:16,000 --> 00:46:18,292 - ♪ Can I hear you party people ♪ 1300 00:46:18,292 --> 00:46:20,500 ♪ Yeah, this is gonna prove that ♪ 1301 00:46:20,583 --> 00:46:22,333 ♪ Get to your heart stopping 1302 00:46:22,375 --> 00:46:23,875 [upbeat music] 1303 00:46:23,958 --> 00:46:26,250 ♪ Hey, yeah, yeah 1304 00:46:26,333 --> 00:46:29,583 ♪ This is the week about to... ♪ 1305 00:46:29,708 --> 00:46:32,208 - Whoo! 1306 00:46:32,292 --> 00:46:34,917 [screaming] 1307 00:46:35,000 --> 00:46:36,750 - Whoa, look at all these men. 1308 00:46:36,833 --> 00:46:39,667 - ♪ I'm feeling good, yeah 1309 00:46:39,708 --> 00:46:42,500 ♪ I'm feeling good 1310 00:46:42,625 --> 00:46:44,458 ♪ I'm feeling good 1311 00:46:44,542 --> 00:46:45,667 ♪ I'm feeling 1312 00:46:45,792 --> 00:46:47,792 ♪ You know who you are 1313 00:46:47,875 --> 00:46:49,833 ♪ Get out of the way 1314 00:46:49,917 --> 00:46:53,542 ♪ Sweetest thing, yeah 1315 00:46:53,667 --> 00:46:55,375 ♪ I'm feeling good 1316 00:46:55,458 --> 00:46:56,792 ♪ I'm feeling good 1317 00:46:56,875 --> 00:46:58,125 - So you want to get married? 1318 00:46:58,208 --> 00:47:01,625 - 1, 2, 3! 1319 00:47:01,708 --> 00:47:03,833 - ♪ I'm feeling good 1320 00:47:03,875 --> 00:47:06,208 ♪ I'm feeling, I'm feeling good ♪ 1321 00:47:06,292 --> 00:47:08,292 ♪ Feeling good 1322 00:47:08,375 --> 00:47:09,708 ♪ Na, na, na 1323 00:47:09,708 --> 00:47:11,750 ♪ I'm feeling good 1324 00:47:11,833 --> 00:47:13,250 - How are you feeling? 1325 00:47:13,375 --> 00:47:14,333 - Feeling good. 1326 00:47:14,417 --> 00:47:16,167 - Did she live up to the expectation? 1327 00:47:16,292 --> 00:47:17,833 - She did. 1328 00:47:17,917 --> 00:47:19,667 You know, I said I wanted someone who was charismatic, 1329 00:47:19,750 --> 00:47:21,625 fun, liked to go on adventures. 1330 00:47:21,708 --> 00:47:22,917 And-- - That's her. 1331 00:47:23,000 --> 00:47:25,000 - Check, check, check, check. 1332 00:47:25,042 --> 00:47:26,833 So hopefully, I lived up to the expectations. 1333 00:47:26,875 --> 00:47:29,417 - So why did you come to do this? 1334 00:47:29,500 --> 00:47:32,167 Like, have your past relationships been 1335 00:47:32,250 --> 00:47:34,625 disastrous or non-existent? 1336 00:47:34,708 --> 00:47:36,833 - I've been in a couple. - OK. 1337 00:47:36,917 --> 00:47:38,333 - But I've always like, left that-- 1338 00:47:38,458 --> 00:47:41,333 those relationships realizing like, what I want, you know? 1339 00:47:41,417 --> 00:47:44,375 And I've gotten one step closer with each one. 1340 00:47:44,458 --> 00:47:46,667 So that's kind of where I left off on that last one 1341 00:47:46,708 --> 00:47:48,417 where I was just like, you know. 1342 00:47:48,500 --> 00:47:50,542 But my next relationship-- it's going to be my lifelong 1343 00:47:50,667 --> 00:47:52,333 partner, so that's why-- 1344 00:47:52,417 --> 00:47:54,000 - How long ago was your last relationship? 1345 00:47:54,083 --> 00:47:55,292 - Like two years. - OK. 1346 00:47:55,375 --> 00:47:56,542 - Yeah. 1347 00:47:56,625 --> 00:47:58,167 - I feel like, Emily-- or since I've known her-- 1348 00:47:58,208 --> 00:48:00,583 has said, the second I'm in a relationship, 1349 00:48:00,583 --> 00:48:02,125 that's gonna be the person. 1350 00:48:02,208 --> 00:48:04,167 - Amazing. 1351 00:48:04,250 --> 00:48:05,542 - Guys. 1352 00:48:05,667 --> 00:48:06,625 - How you feeling? 1353 00:48:06,708 --> 00:48:08,292 - How are you feeling? 1354 00:48:08,375 --> 00:48:10,417 - First impressions are good. First impressions are good. 1355 00:48:10,500 --> 00:48:12,333 But we definitely have some questions. 1356 00:48:12,417 --> 00:48:14,958 - OK, I'm gonna take the first impressions are good. 1357 00:48:15,042 --> 00:48:17,375 I would expect you to grill me. 1358 00:48:17,500 --> 00:48:19,208 - So you mentioned this is your first relationship? 1359 00:48:19,292 --> 00:48:20,792 - Yeah. 1360 00:48:20,875 --> 00:48:22,000 - What do you mean by first relationship? 1361 00:48:22,042 --> 00:48:23,458 Like, long-term relationship or-- 1362 00:48:23,542 --> 00:48:25,417 - Yeah, like, literally, never had a serious boyfriend. 1363 00:48:25,542 --> 00:48:27,000 - OK. 1364 00:48:27,042 --> 00:48:29,750 - What was your closest one like? 1365 00:48:29,833 --> 00:48:32,500 - Like, I like, hooked up with people, 1366 00:48:32,583 --> 00:48:34,125 like, been somewhat serious. 1367 00:48:34,208 --> 00:48:37,333 But I've just never had a real relationship. 1368 00:48:37,375 --> 00:48:39,167 I know that's probably, like, a red flag. 1369 00:48:39,250 --> 00:48:42,125 But I don't really think it is. 1370 00:48:42,208 --> 00:48:45,333 I look at it as like, I've had 29 years to focus on myself. 1371 00:48:45,375 --> 00:48:46,750 And I don't actually think a lot of people 1372 00:48:46,833 --> 00:48:48,500 get that opportunity. 1373 00:48:48,583 --> 00:48:52,000 And I think it's kind of, like, made me who I am now. 1374 00:48:52,083 --> 00:48:53,917 And I think it's, like, made me ready for this. 1375 00:48:54,000 --> 00:48:55,708 - Are you nervous that she's never been 1376 00:48:55,792 --> 00:48:57,708 in a relationship before? 1377 00:48:57,792 --> 00:48:59,583 - I'm not nervous. 1378 00:48:59,667 --> 00:49:01,333 You know, I'm just curious. 1379 00:49:01,375 --> 00:49:03,250 Have you guys ever, like, met any of her, 1380 00:49:03,333 --> 00:49:05,458 like, short-term relationships or anything? 1381 00:49:05,542 --> 00:49:07,292 - Yeah. - Yeah. 1382 00:49:07,375 --> 00:49:08,875 - OK. 1383 00:49:08,958 --> 00:49:11,167 - But no one was like-- no one was that serious. 1384 00:49:11,208 --> 00:49:12,417 - OK. 1385 00:49:12,542 --> 00:49:14,750 - And all the people I've liked for her, 1386 00:49:14,833 --> 00:49:17,000 she's, like, just shaken off. 1387 00:49:17,125 --> 00:49:19,583 - Or like, hasn't been anyone, like, worth her time. 1388 00:49:19,583 --> 00:49:21,375 Yeah. 1389 00:49:21,458 --> 00:49:22,792 - Like, she's not the kind of person that's like, oh, 1390 00:49:22,875 --> 00:49:24,750 well, like, maybe, like, I'll see if, like, 1391 00:49:24,833 --> 00:49:26,292 I can make this work. 1392 00:49:26,375 --> 00:49:27,667 Like, if it doesn't work for her-- 1393 00:49:27,708 --> 00:49:29,000 and that's kind of how she is with, 1394 00:49:29,125 --> 00:49:31,500 all aspects of her life-- she's very honest. 1395 00:49:31,583 --> 00:49:34,958 And she doesn't lie to herself or anyone else around her. 1396 00:49:35,042 --> 00:49:36,458 She won't lie to you, either. 1397 00:49:36,542 --> 00:49:37,792 - Yeah. 1398 00:49:37,875 --> 00:49:39,667 - What do you think it is 1399 00:49:39,792 --> 00:49:42,083 that stopped you from being in a committed relationship? 1400 00:49:42,167 --> 00:49:44,583 - I think it's just that, like, I feel like I deserve better 1401 00:49:44,667 --> 00:49:46,958 than how I've been treated, and I'm like--I don't really-- 1402 00:49:47,042 --> 00:49:49,833 if I wanted to get a boyfriend, I probably could. 1403 00:49:49,875 --> 00:49:51,458 But, like, I choose myself. 1404 00:49:51,542 --> 00:49:54,667 And I just, like, haven't found the right guy. 1405 00:49:54,708 --> 00:49:57,000 - My question is, if you haven't 1406 00:49:57,083 --> 00:50:00,167 been in a kind of committed relationship yet-- 1407 00:50:00,208 --> 00:50:01,500 - How do you think I'm gonna handle marriage? 1408 00:50:01,625 --> 00:50:02,833 - Yeah. 1409 00:50:02,917 --> 00:50:04,875 - I don't think anyone knows. 1410 00:50:04,958 --> 00:50:07,500 But I think I'm ready to trust myself. 1411 00:50:07,583 --> 00:50:09,083 He has to trust me. 1412 00:50:09,208 --> 00:50:11,125 The one thing that I said because of this, 1413 00:50:11,208 --> 00:50:14,417 is like, I just feel like I could always be better 1414 00:50:14,500 --> 00:50:16,292 in constant when I'm in communication, I think, 1415 00:50:16,375 --> 00:50:18,333 with him, that's going to be really important. 1416 00:50:18,417 --> 00:50:20,250 - And he also likes to talk. 1417 00:50:20,333 --> 00:50:21,625 So being a good listener and working 1418 00:50:21,708 --> 00:50:22,875 on those listening skills-- 1419 00:50:22,958 --> 00:50:24,458 - I'm happy that you guys are saying 1420 00:50:24,542 --> 00:50:26,333 about being a better listener because my mom said that. 1421 00:50:26,375 --> 00:50:28,167 And I know it's something I need to work on. 1422 00:50:28,208 --> 00:50:30,167 So now I'm gonna be, like, super conscious about it. 1423 00:50:30,208 --> 00:50:32,250 - The biggest thing for Brennan is communication. 1424 00:50:32,333 --> 00:50:34,000 He's had a few serious relationships, 1425 00:50:34,083 --> 00:50:36,708 but most of them end because of communication issues. 1426 00:50:36,833 --> 00:50:38,167 - Like, how so? 1427 00:50:38,292 --> 00:50:39,583 - Like, their communication styles 1428 00:50:39,667 --> 00:50:43,417 don't match up, whether it's being a bad texter 1429 00:50:43,500 --> 00:50:45,875 or just not sharing how you feel. 1430 00:50:45,958 --> 00:50:47,833 So I think if you keep that in mind, 1431 00:50:47,958 --> 00:50:49,500 you'll be set up for success. 1432 00:50:49,625 --> 00:50:51,875 - Do you think, like, she's ready to go all-in, 1433 00:50:52,000 --> 00:50:53,125 like, this time around? 1434 00:50:53,208 --> 00:50:55,208 - I do. - I actually do. 1435 00:50:55,333 --> 00:51:00,167 I honestly think, for you, like, just be patient with her 1436 00:51:00,250 --> 00:51:02,583 because I feel like she does kind of live, 1437 00:51:02,708 --> 00:51:04,208 like, by a short fuse. 1438 00:51:04,292 --> 00:51:05,208 - Yeah. 1439 00:51:05,333 --> 00:51:07,042 - And she's been so independent. 1440 00:51:07,125 --> 00:51:09,333 She hasn't necessarily had to consider someone 1441 00:51:09,458 --> 00:51:12,667 else's feelings all the time. 1442 00:51:12,708 --> 00:51:14,833 But I think that's where, like, a partner will be really 1443 00:51:14,875 --> 00:51:17,708 good for her to, like, ground her, bring her down to Earth, 1444 00:51:17,708 --> 00:51:19,583 and, like, pull her out of her own world 1445 00:51:19,667 --> 00:51:23,042 that she's been, like, in for 30 years. 1446 00:51:27,083 --> 00:51:28,625 - ♪ What's a little love 1447 00:51:28,625 --> 00:51:31,833 ♪ Between two friends 1448 00:51:31,917 --> 00:51:34,208 - OK, so, yeah, this is Cameron. 1449 00:51:34,292 --> 00:51:35,625 - Hi, Cameron. - Nice to meet you. 1450 00:51:35,708 --> 00:51:37,333 - This is the husband. - Nice to meet you. 1451 00:51:37,375 --> 00:51:40,292 - Isn't that crazy or what? - It is crazy. 1452 00:51:40,375 --> 00:51:41,958 - How are you feeling, Geeg, about this whole thing? 1453 00:51:42,042 --> 00:51:44,333 - Is Cameron begin with a C or a K? 1454 00:51:44,375 --> 00:51:45,833 We had a debate. - Oh, good question. 1455 00:51:45,917 --> 00:51:47,000 - C, C. - Starts with a C. 1456 00:51:47,042 --> 00:51:48,333 - A C. - OK. 1457 00:51:48,375 --> 00:51:49,500 - OK. 1458 00:51:49,583 --> 00:51:51,000 - Yeah, this has been a lot, Geeg. 1459 00:51:51,083 --> 00:51:52,333 - Yeah, it's a lot. I'm ready. 1460 00:51:52,375 --> 00:51:53,250 - You know? She's ready. 1461 00:51:53,333 --> 00:51:54,750 [laughs] She's ready. 1462 00:51:54,833 --> 00:51:56,083 She's the cutest. 1463 00:51:56,208 --> 00:51:58,792 - Well, I think it's so nice that you 1464 00:51:58,875 --> 00:52:00,667 two came over to meet me. 1465 00:52:00,708 --> 00:52:03,167 And I know it's because I'm the oldest person here. 1466 00:52:03,250 --> 00:52:04,958 - No, no. - No, no. 1467 00:52:05,042 --> 00:52:06,375 It's the wisest. - The wisest. 1468 00:52:06,458 --> 00:52:08,500 - The wisest. - The old--she knows a lot. 1469 00:52:08,542 --> 00:52:11,500 And she was married for how many years? 1470 00:52:11,583 --> 00:52:12,833 - 60 something. 1471 00:52:12,958 --> 00:52:14,500 - 60 something years, her marriage. 1472 00:52:14,542 --> 00:52:18,583 What would be the biggest piece of advice that you have? 1473 00:52:18,667 --> 00:52:20,583 - To not argue. 1474 00:52:20,667 --> 00:52:22,333 To cut it off. 1475 00:52:22,417 --> 00:52:25,208 That one-upsmanship, you know-- 1476 00:52:25,292 --> 00:52:26,792 - Yeah. - Like, you say-- 1477 00:52:26,875 --> 00:52:28,125 - Yeah, you did that yesterday. 1478 00:52:28,208 --> 00:52:29,333 - Oh, you're home late for work. 1479 00:52:29,417 --> 00:52:32,583 And you say, well, dinner wasn't 1480 00:52:32,667 --> 00:52:35,167 ready yesterday, so I figured I'd come home late today. 1481 00:52:35,292 --> 00:52:36,500 - Yeah, that's right. Dinner wasn't ready. 1482 00:52:36,542 --> 00:52:38,125 - And then you would say something else. 1483 00:52:38,208 --> 00:52:39,625 - You better get used to that. - [laughs] 1484 00:52:39,708 --> 00:52:41,167 - I mean, it just-- 1485 00:52:41,208 --> 00:52:43,042 and you don't forget those things that people say. 1486 00:52:43,125 --> 00:52:44,375 - Right. 1487 00:52:44,458 --> 00:52:45,833 - It's better just to walk away. 1488 00:52:45,875 --> 00:52:47,542 - Pick your battles, really. 1489 00:52:47,625 --> 00:52:49,375 And the little battles are not worth fighting. 1490 00:52:49,458 --> 00:52:51,042 - No. Nobody's perfect. 1491 00:52:51,125 --> 00:52:52,875 - Right. 1492 00:52:52,958 --> 00:52:54,167 - And, you know, to keep pointing out 1493 00:52:54,292 --> 00:52:56,292 the imperfections, you got to start 1494 00:52:56,375 --> 00:52:58,333 looking for the good things-- - The good in people. 1495 00:52:58,417 --> 00:52:59,333 Yeah. 1496 00:52:59,417 --> 00:53:00,875 - Instead of what they do wrong. 1497 00:53:00,958 --> 00:53:02,458 - Yeah. 1498 00:53:02,542 --> 00:53:04,167 - Think of what they do right, and you'll be happy. 1499 00:53:04,208 --> 00:53:06,167 - What do you think of this, Gigi? 1500 00:53:06,208 --> 00:53:08,125 - I think the both of you are suited well. 1501 00:53:08,208 --> 00:53:09,333 - That's very kind. 1502 00:53:09,458 --> 00:53:10,583 - And she would not just say that. 1503 00:53:10,667 --> 00:53:11,833 - That's very kind. - Yeah. 1504 00:53:11,917 --> 00:53:13,500 My family is everything to me. 1505 00:53:13,542 --> 00:53:16,167 And I know his parents couldn't be here, 1506 00:53:16,250 --> 00:53:17,625 but he's vibing with my family. 1507 00:53:17,708 --> 00:53:20,417 They're mingling. They're getting along. 1508 00:53:20,500 --> 00:53:22,375 I just feel so excited. 1509 00:53:22,500 --> 00:53:25,333 I feel like he is just a good, good dude. 1510 00:53:25,417 --> 00:53:27,583 - But don't expect too much too fast. 1511 00:53:27,667 --> 00:53:28,875 - Oh, and I won't. 1512 00:53:28,958 --> 00:53:30,292 You know, we can't expect-- 1513 00:53:30,375 --> 00:53:32,083 - Her expectations are way down here. 1514 00:53:32,208 --> 00:53:34,250 - [laughs] - No, that's not what I mean. 1515 00:53:34,375 --> 00:53:35,208 - They can only go up from here. 1516 00:53:35,375 --> 00:53:38,167 - That's not what I mean. [laughs] 1517 00:53:38,250 --> 00:53:40,417 - So how do you like your wife? 1518 00:53:40,500 --> 00:53:42,208 - I think she's great. - Yeah? 1519 00:53:42,333 --> 00:53:44,542 - Yeah, she's a total catch. Yeah. 1520 00:53:44,667 --> 00:53:45,958 Do you know how many times I've looked back at her, 1521 00:53:46,042 --> 00:53:47,042 just to see where she's at? 1522 00:53:47,167 --> 00:53:48,417 It's like, yo, can we hang out? 1523 00:53:48,500 --> 00:53:50,125 Like, are we done with talking? 1524 00:53:50,208 --> 00:53:51,667 Like, ah. 1525 00:53:51,750 --> 00:53:53,167 - I'm getting a little bit of mom energy, 1526 00:53:53,292 --> 00:53:54,667 honestly, out of him. 1527 00:53:54,792 --> 00:53:56,000 And I feel like that's why I'm kind of like-- 1528 00:53:56,083 --> 00:53:57,875 - Probably. It's very calming. 1529 00:53:57,958 --> 00:53:59,375 - Yeah, it's very calming. Like, I feel very-- 1530 00:53:59,542 --> 00:54:01,250 I think that's why I keep looking for him. 1531 00:54:01,333 --> 00:54:03,000 Like, he's like my security blanket already. 1532 00:54:03,125 --> 00:54:04,667 - Already? 1533 00:54:04,750 --> 00:54:06,208 - I feel like y'all are so connected. 1534 00:54:06,292 --> 00:54:08,500 - Yo, the first kiss-- - That kiss, honey. 1535 00:54:08,542 --> 00:54:10,250 Baby-- - I was not ready. 1536 00:54:10,333 --> 00:54:11,542 - Let me tell you. - You should've saw my face. 1537 00:54:11,667 --> 00:54:12,958 I was like-- - Let me tell you. 1538 00:54:13,042 --> 00:54:14,500 I said, oh. 1539 00:54:14,583 --> 00:54:16,833 - He was like, damn, you gorgeous. 1540 00:54:16,917 --> 00:54:19,458 Like, he liked what he saw, OK? 1541 00:54:19,542 --> 00:54:21,500 - That kiss took me aback. 1542 00:54:21,542 --> 00:54:24,667 I mean, it was welcomed, but I just wasn't expecting that. 1543 00:54:24,833 --> 00:54:27,167 - You think you're gonna get lucky tonight? 1544 00:54:27,292 --> 00:54:28,958 - Um-- 1545 00:54:29,042 --> 00:54:30,500 - Think you're gonna get it on? 1546 00:54:30,542 --> 00:54:32,125 - Honestly, I kind of don't want 1547 00:54:32,125 --> 00:54:33,708 to do that the first night. 1548 00:54:33,792 --> 00:54:35,250 - No? 1549 00:54:35,375 --> 00:54:37,417 - No. - What if she starts it? 1550 00:54:37,500 --> 00:54:39,375 - What if she wants it? - Yeah. 1551 00:54:39,542 --> 00:54:42,833 - Well, then, I'm gonna have a really hard time. 1552 00:54:42,875 --> 00:54:44,542 OK? 1553 00:54:44,625 --> 00:54:45,875 - You might just have to take the bullet and-- 1554 00:54:45,958 --> 00:54:48,667 - Yeah, just--oh, fine. 1555 00:54:48,708 --> 00:54:50,667 - I don't want you guys to judge me, 1556 00:54:50,750 --> 00:54:54,375 but I was kind of, like, we have some sexual attraction. 1557 00:54:54,458 --> 00:54:57,500 I feel like it's not a bad thing to hook up, 1558 00:54:57,583 --> 00:55:00,167 maybe have sex, because we are married. 1559 00:55:00,250 --> 00:55:02,083 And I feel like sometimes it's, like, 1560 00:55:02,167 --> 00:55:04,250 a good segue into, like, OK, now let's 1561 00:55:04,375 --> 00:55:05,583 get into the emotional stuff. 1562 00:55:05,708 --> 00:55:07,042 I don't feel like he needs to work for it, 1563 00:55:07,125 --> 00:55:08,375 I need to work for it. 1564 00:55:08,458 --> 00:55:09,500 Like, we're married. 1565 00:55:09,667 --> 00:55:11,000 - He is a good kisser. - Is he? 1566 00:55:11,083 --> 00:55:12,792 - Yeah. 1567 00:55:12,875 --> 00:55:14,000 - Do you feel like you got, like, good kissing chemistry? 1568 00:55:14,083 --> 00:55:15,542 - Yeah, yeah. 1569 00:55:15,667 --> 00:55:16,875 He's great. - How was the first kiss? 1570 00:55:17,000 --> 00:55:18,667 - Great. - It looked great. 1571 00:55:18,750 --> 00:55:19,875 - It was-- yeah, we're like, juicy. 1572 00:55:19,958 --> 00:55:21,458 Damn. 1573 00:55:21,542 --> 00:55:23,375 - What are you gonna do tonight? 1574 00:55:23,458 --> 00:55:26,500 - We're gonna go spend our first night together, 1575 00:55:26,542 --> 00:55:29,667 and hopefully, spend our whole night talking and playing N64. 1576 00:55:29,750 --> 00:55:31,875 And, like, whatever she wants, I'll do. 1577 00:55:31,958 --> 00:55:36,458 - I feel like I definitely want to snuggle him, 1578 00:55:36,542 --> 00:55:38,875 kiss him again, and we'll see where that goes. 1579 00:55:39,042 --> 00:55:41,833 But, like, medically, I don't think I feel ready enough 1580 00:55:41,917 --> 00:55:43,333 to do anything more. 1581 00:55:43,458 --> 00:55:45,375 Just excited to talk to him more. 1582 00:55:45,458 --> 00:55:47,750 - From everything I've learned tonight 1583 00:55:47,875 --> 00:55:52,167 and from everything I've seen, I'm excited to, like, 1584 00:55:52,250 --> 00:55:54,792 get to know her on a deeper level. 1585 00:55:54,875 --> 00:55:56,292 - I, like, really have a weird feeling about this. 1586 00:55:56,375 --> 00:55:58,125 - I do too. 1587 00:55:58,208 --> 00:55:59,833 - I feel like it's too good to be true. 1588 00:55:59,917 --> 00:56:02,333 And, like, guys, I really like this venue. 1589 00:56:02,458 --> 00:56:04,083 - Everything has been so perfect. 1590 00:56:04,208 --> 00:56:05,958 - I'm gonna cry. - Why are you gonna cry? 1591 00:56:06,042 --> 00:56:07,958 - 'Cause, like, I just feel like everything is-- 1592 00:56:07,958 --> 00:56:10,167 [sobbing] So, like, good. 1593 00:56:10,250 --> 00:56:11,708 - You're gonna make me cry. 1594 00:56:11,792 --> 00:56:12,875 - I mean, you've waited your whole life for this. 1595 00:56:12,958 --> 00:56:14,333 You deserve this. 1596 00:56:14,417 --> 00:56:15,667 - I know, and it's just weird that it just was 1597 00:56:15,750 --> 00:56:18,500 all better than I expected. 1598 00:56:18,583 --> 00:56:20,917 - So, Emily, you guys get to the hotel room-- 1599 00:56:21,000 --> 00:56:23,375 - Are you gonna whip out the lingerie and the handcuffs? 1600 00:56:23,458 --> 00:56:25,375 - I don't-- I have the handcuffs. 1601 00:56:25,500 --> 00:56:26,833 I brought the key. - You brought the handcuffs? 1602 00:56:26,958 --> 00:56:28,417 - But I was like-- 1603 00:56:28,500 --> 00:56:30,500 no, I didn't bring the whip. 1604 00:56:30,583 --> 00:56:32,500 - We asked her about like, hey, sex tonight? 1605 00:56:32,542 --> 00:56:34,042 And then, what did she say? 1606 00:56:34,125 --> 00:56:35,875 - She said, this is a different circumstance. 1607 00:56:35,958 --> 00:56:37,458 I am now a married woman. 1608 00:56:37,542 --> 00:56:39,458 So she said, you know, I'm open to whatever happens, 1609 00:56:39,542 --> 00:56:41,375 where, you know, things go a little bit more. 1610 00:56:41,458 --> 00:56:43,417 - I should have you talk to her more often. 1611 00:56:43,542 --> 00:56:45,208 [laughter] - I don't know. 1612 00:56:45,333 --> 00:56:46,917 Do I put on this red little spicy number? 1613 00:56:47,000 --> 00:56:49,333 - I say, like, feel it out. See how it goes. 1614 00:56:49,458 --> 00:56:51,375 - I'm going to take his lead. 1615 00:56:51,500 --> 00:56:53,667 - ♪ Put your body on me 1616 00:56:53,750 --> 00:56:54,750 ♪ Give it to me right now 1617 00:56:58,667 --> 00:57:03,417 - ♪ Ooh, ooh, ooh, ooh 1618 00:57:03,500 --> 00:57:07,833 ♪ Gosh, we're going strong 1619 00:57:07,875 --> 00:57:10,167 [upbeat music] 1620 00:57:10,250 --> 00:57:14,750 ♪ Right where we belong 1621 00:57:14,875 --> 00:57:18,542 ♪ 1622 00:57:18,625 --> 00:57:20,833 ♪ Ooh, ooh, ooh, ooh 1623 00:57:20,917 --> 00:57:23,667 - I was tired of searching for my person. 1624 00:57:23,792 --> 00:57:26,833 I really wanted my person to find me. 1625 00:57:26,917 --> 00:57:30,000 And I honestly feel like the universe delivered 1626 00:57:30,125 --> 00:57:33,000 a really special person to me. 1627 00:57:33,042 --> 00:57:37,542 - ♪ Ooh, ooh, ooh, ooh 1628 00:57:37,667 --> 00:57:39,583 I know I don't know him yet, 1629 00:57:39,667 --> 00:57:41,792 but I feel like I'm supposed to know him 1630 00:57:41,875 --> 00:57:44,000 and he's supposed to be in my life. 1631 00:57:44,083 --> 00:57:46,500 So it's gonna make me cry a little bit, 1632 00:57:46,583 --> 00:57:50,167 but I got married to meet Orion. 1633 00:57:50,250 --> 00:57:57,208 ♪ 1634 00:57:57,292 --> 00:58:00,125 [cheering] 1635 00:58:00,208 --> 00:58:04,500 ♪ 1636 00:58:04,583 --> 00:58:07,542 - I'm pleasantly surprised at how excited 1637 00:58:07,667 --> 00:58:09,833 I am to get to know my wife. 1638 00:58:09,917 --> 00:58:11,958 I think Clare is very pretty. 1639 00:58:12,042 --> 00:58:16,750 And not only that, I could see us working for the long haul. 1640 00:58:16,875 --> 00:58:20,667 ♪ 1641 00:58:20,708 --> 00:58:23,917 I can't wait to travel with my wife. 1642 00:58:24,042 --> 00:58:27,708 I can't wait to buy our first car together, 1643 00:58:27,833 --> 00:58:29,333 you know, maybe get a dog together, 1644 00:58:29,417 --> 00:58:32,000 to experience a shared life. 1645 00:58:32,083 --> 00:58:35,000 And I think, from what I can tell, 1646 00:58:35,083 --> 00:58:40,458 Clare is everything that I wanted and want in a wife. 1647 00:58:40,542 --> 00:58:47,125 ♪ 1648 00:58:47,208 --> 00:58:50,417 - ♪ Power 1649 00:58:50,500 --> 00:58:54,250 ♪ This is the magic 1650 00:58:54,375 --> 00:58:57,375 ♪ This is the magic 1651 00:58:57,500 --> 00:59:01,333 ♪ This is the magic 1652 00:59:01,417 --> 00:59:04,667 ♪ For me and you 1653 00:59:04,750 --> 00:59:06,458 - I'm so happy. 1654 00:59:06,542 --> 00:59:08,458 Austin seems so kind and genuine 1655 00:59:08,542 --> 00:59:10,125 and, like, that was my biggest worry. 1656 00:59:10,208 --> 00:59:12,667 So my hopes for the future are that we 1657 00:59:12,708 --> 00:59:14,167 just continue to get along. 1658 00:59:14,250 --> 00:59:17,250 I'm sure that it won't always be this great, 1659 00:59:17,333 --> 00:59:19,208 but it feels exciting. 1660 00:59:19,292 --> 00:59:25,250 It feels like this is the first day of many, many good days. 1661 00:59:25,333 --> 00:59:27,750 - ♪ The magic, magic, magic 1662 00:59:27,833 --> 00:59:31,000 - Yeah, I'm ready to see what 1663 00:59:31,083 --> 00:59:34,250 life has in store, for better, for worse, baby. 1664 00:59:34,375 --> 00:59:38,750 ♪ 1665 00:59:38,833 --> 00:59:41,667 - ♪ My, my favorite thing 1666 00:59:41,792 --> 00:59:43,833 ♪ You're my everything 1667 00:59:43,875 --> 00:59:46,042 ♪ All the joy you bring 1668 00:59:46,167 --> 00:59:48,167 ♪ My favorite thing 1669 00:59:48,208 --> 00:59:52,750 - Overall experience of today was just mind blowing. 1670 00:59:52,875 --> 00:59:56,292 Like, I didn't expect to find my husband so attractive. 1671 00:59:56,292 --> 00:59:58,000 Like, I love his personality. I love his family. 1672 00:59:58,083 --> 01:00:00,583 Like, it just was truly, like, magical. 1673 01:00:00,667 --> 01:00:03,292 - ♪ All the joy you bring 1674 01:00:03,292 --> 01:00:06,000 ♪ My favorite thing 1675 01:00:06,042 --> 01:00:10,875 - I'm going to ride the wave with him now guiding me. 1676 01:00:10,958 --> 01:00:14,042 See where this night takes us. 1677 01:00:14,125 --> 01:00:16,000 ♪ 1678 01:00:16,083 --> 01:00:18,000 Didn't bring the whip, but I did bring the handcuffs, 1679 01:00:18,042 --> 01:00:19,333 not the key. 1680 01:00:19,458 --> 01:00:20,542 So that could get a little tricky. 1681 01:00:20,667 --> 01:00:23,125 - ♪ All the joy you bring 1682 01:00:23,208 --> 01:00:26,042 ♪ My favorite thing 1683 01:00:26,125 --> 01:00:27,917 ♪ 1684 01:00:28,042 --> 01:00:29,708 - Here we go! 1685 01:00:29,792 --> 01:00:32,583 - This season on "Married at First Sight"... 1686 01:00:32,708 --> 01:00:35,000 - ♪ Here we go, yeah 1687 01:00:35,125 --> 01:00:39,625 ♪ Here we go, na, na, na, na ♪ 1688 01:00:39,708 --> 01:00:41,167 ♪ Y'all ready for this 1689 01:00:41,250 --> 01:00:43,208 ♪ Nothing can stop me now, here we go ♪ 1690 01:00:43,292 --> 01:00:46,625 - I think it is really amazing how well we got matched 1691 01:00:46,708 --> 01:00:48,167 together by the experts. 1692 01:00:48,292 --> 01:00:49,667 - He's cute. 1693 01:00:49,750 --> 01:00:51,833 - ♪ I'm afraid 1694 01:00:51,917 --> 01:00:54,958 - I love being married to Austin. 1695 01:00:55,042 --> 01:00:56,375 - Killed it! 1696 01:00:56,500 --> 01:00:59,125 - We're already way beyond what I could have imagined. 1697 01:00:59,208 --> 01:01:00,625 - ♪ I won't quit 1698 01:01:00,708 --> 01:01:01,667 ♪ I'll stick with it 1699 01:01:01,708 --> 01:01:04,042 - Wild send out. 1700 01:01:04,125 --> 01:01:06,458 - This is the type of relationship I always wanted. 1701 01:01:06,542 --> 01:01:07,833 I'm just hoping I don't puke. 1702 01:01:07,875 --> 01:01:10,625 - ♪ Do it anyway, do it anyway ♪ 1703 01:01:10,708 --> 01:01:12,833 - Totally rad. Oh! 1704 01:01:12,875 --> 01:01:15,708 - ♪ Do it anyway, do it anyway ♪ 1705 01:01:15,833 --> 01:01:18,500 - I don't feel comfortable with the fact that, you know, 1706 01:01:18,583 --> 01:01:20,000 you did sleep with somebody else. 1707 01:01:20,083 --> 01:01:22,292 - I did. 1708 01:01:22,375 --> 01:01:23,917 - ♪ Sometimes we fall 1709 01:01:24,000 --> 01:01:25,333 ♪ But now we rise 1710 01:01:25,417 --> 01:01:27,167 ♪ Keep my head up to the sky 1711 01:01:27,292 --> 01:01:28,875 - Do you see a future with me? - Well, not--no, let me finish. 1712 01:01:29,000 --> 01:01:30,125 - Do you see a future with me? 1713 01:01:30,208 --> 01:01:31,833 - Cutting me off really does piss me off. 1714 01:01:31,875 --> 01:01:32,958 - When you act like that, again, 1715 01:01:33,042 --> 01:01:34,375 it makes feel like [bleep]. 1716 01:01:34,458 --> 01:01:36,000 And you can just suck it up. 1717 01:01:36,083 --> 01:01:37,833 - We are appalled that this happened 1718 01:01:37,875 --> 01:01:40,375 and feel so bad for you. 1719 01:01:40,500 --> 01:01:42,167 - I did feel myself falling for him. 1720 01:01:42,250 --> 01:01:44,625 And now I'm just like, well, what the [bleep]? 1721 01:01:44,708 --> 01:01:45,833 - What are y'all not telling me? 1722 01:01:45,958 --> 01:01:49,375 - How dare you even ask that question? 1723 01:01:49,458 --> 01:01:50,833 - I still need time 1724 01:01:50,958 --> 01:01:52,875 to, like, work through certain things that could 1725 01:01:53,000 --> 01:01:54,750 like, really tear us apart. 1726 01:01:54,875 --> 01:01:56,500 - It's really hard. 1727 01:01:56,583 --> 01:01:59,167 - Did I make the right decision? 1728 01:01:59,292 --> 01:02:02,083 - I can't believe you'd [bleep] say something like that. 1729 01:02:02,167 --> 01:02:03,792 I've always been really confident. 1730 01:02:03,875 --> 01:02:05,875 Like, I know this. But it still like, just sucks. 1731 01:02:05,958 --> 01:02:08,833 - I am really just feeling heartbroken. 1732 01:02:08,917 --> 01:02:10,917 - I would never take those days back. 1733 01:02:11,000 --> 01:02:14,167 - I just feel, like, guilty. 1734 01:02:14,208 --> 01:02:15,958 - There's nothing-- more remorse. 1735 01:02:16,042 --> 01:02:17,500 There's nothing I can do. 1736 01:02:17,625 --> 01:02:19,500 [crying] 1737 01:02:19,542 --> 01:02:22,083 [dramatic music] 1738 01:02:22,208 --> 01:02:24,292 - Oh, no. 1739 01:02:24,375 --> 01:02:26,500 [siren wailing] [bleep] 1740 01:02:26,542 --> 01:02:32,000 ♪ 1741 01:02:32,042 --> 01:02:34,625 - There has been some talk about if you 1742 01:02:34,708 --> 01:02:39,333 would be willing to take another chance. 1743 01:02:39,417 --> 01:02:44,292 ♪ 1744 01:02:44,375 --> 01:02:48,167 - The time is here for you to decide... 1745 01:02:48,250 --> 01:02:50,000 - If you want to stay married... 1746 01:02:50,083 --> 01:02:52,208 - Or do you want to get a divorce? 1747 01:02:52,292 --> 01:02:59,208 ♪