1 00:00:02,333 --> 00:00:05,167 - Ten brave singles put their hearts on the line 2 00:00:05,250 --> 00:00:08,042 in order to find love by marrying a complete stranger. 3 00:00:08,125 --> 00:00:10,042 [cheering] 4 00:00:10,167 --> 00:00:12,625 But for one couple, their journey 5 00:00:12,750 --> 00:00:15,000 ended before it even began. 6 00:00:15,042 --> 00:00:17,667 - I didn't see that happening, but it did happen. 7 00:00:17,708 --> 00:00:19,625 - Clare and Cameron... 8 00:00:19,708 --> 00:00:21,083 [cheering] 9 00:00:21,208 --> 00:00:23,125 - I can't wait to travel with my wife. 10 00:00:23,208 --> 00:00:26,833 I can't wait to buy our first car. 11 00:00:26,917 --> 00:00:29,625 And I think, from what I can tell, 12 00:00:29,708 --> 00:00:33,208 Clare is everything that I wanted in a wife. 13 00:00:33,292 --> 00:00:36,042 - ♪ I'm gonna bump you up to the top of my list ♪ 14 00:00:36,125 --> 00:00:37,750 - Lauren and Orion... 15 00:00:37,833 --> 00:00:40,167 - He was like, damn, you're worth it. 16 00:00:40,250 --> 00:00:42,208 - Mm-hmm. - Like, he liked what he saw. 17 00:00:42,292 --> 00:00:44,167 - Thinking we're going to lucky tonight? 18 00:00:44,208 --> 00:00:45,583 - Honestly, I kind of don't want 19 00:00:45,667 --> 00:00:47,083 to do that the first night. 20 00:00:47,167 --> 00:00:48,458 - What if she wants to? - Yeah. 21 00:00:48,542 --> 00:00:52,167 - Well, then I'm going to have a really hard time. 22 00:00:52,208 --> 00:00:54,542 - Becca and Austin... 23 00:00:54,625 --> 00:00:56,500 - Where do you feel, like, the comfortability level 24 00:00:56,542 --> 00:00:58,250 is tonight? 25 00:00:58,333 --> 00:01:00,625 - I definitely want to snuggle him, kiss him again. 26 00:01:00,708 --> 00:01:03,458 But, like, medically, I don't think I feel ready enough 27 00:01:03,542 --> 00:01:04,958 to do anything more. - Yeah. 28 00:01:04,958 --> 00:01:06,583 - Just excited to talk to him more. 29 00:01:06,708 --> 00:01:08,458 - We're going to go spend our first night together, 30 00:01:08,542 --> 00:01:10,875 getting to know each other on, like, a deeper level. 31 00:01:10,958 --> 00:01:12,500 - Emily and Brennan... 32 00:01:12,542 --> 00:01:14,458 - When you guys get to the hotel room... 33 00:01:14,542 --> 00:01:17,000 - Are you going to whip out the lingerie and the handcuffs? 34 00:01:17,083 --> 00:01:19,292 - We asked her about, hey, sex tonight? 35 00:01:19,375 --> 00:01:21,125 And then what did she say? 36 00:01:21,208 --> 00:01:22,917 - She said, you know, I'm open to whatever happens. 37 00:01:23,042 --> 00:01:24,583 - I should have you talk to her more often. 38 00:01:24,667 --> 00:01:25,917 [laughter] 39 00:01:26,000 --> 00:01:28,042 - ♪ We hot, we hot, we hot 40 00:01:28,125 --> 00:01:30,125 - And tonight, our four newlywed couples 41 00:01:30,208 --> 00:01:32,333 will begin the journey of a lifetime... 42 00:01:32,375 --> 00:01:33,750 - Do it. 43 00:01:33,833 --> 00:01:36,250 - As they jump headfirst into married life. 44 00:01:36,333 --> 00:01:39,333 - "Tomorrow you'll be heading to the Grand... 45 00:01:39,417 --> 00:01:41,125 - Palladium... both: Cancún, Mexico. 46 00:01:41,208 --> 00:01:42,625 - Viva la México! 47 00:01:42,708 --> 00:01:44,500 - Hello. I'm Clare. 48 00:01:44,625 --> 00:01:46,083 Where's your wife? 49 00:01:46,167 --> 00:01:48,000 - Oh, we'll get into that. Don't worry. 50 00:01:48,083 --> 00:01:50,542 [all groan] - Oh, no. 51 00:01:50,625 --> 00:01:52,833 - With your time living at home, like, what are you doing? 52 00:01:52,917 --> 00:01:54,542 ♪ 53 00:01:54,625 --> 00:01:57,167 - He tends to be abrupt. - Abrupt as in, like, a temper? 54 00:01:57,250 --> 00:01:59,542 - He gets a little temper. 55 00:01:59,625 --> 00:02:03,333 - Reality is going to slap you in the face, girlfriend. 56 00:02:03,458 --> 00:02:04,917 ♪ 57 00:02:05,042 --> 00:02:06,458 - Would you say he's romantic? 58 00:02:06,542 --> 00:02:07,917 ♪ 59 00:02:08,042 --> 00:02:09,125 - No. 60 00:02:09,208 --> 00:02:10,792 - This could become a problem. 61 00:02:10,875 --> 00:02:14,333 ♪ 62 00:02:14,375 --> 00:02:16,083 - You didn't help me at all through the airport. 63 00:02:16,167 --> 00:02:17,833 - I am-- Sorry, are you not able? 64 00:02:17,917 --> 00:02:19,292 - It's a kind gesture to help, 65 00:02:19,375 --> 00:02:21,042 and you definitely were not helping me. 66 00:02:21,125 --> 00:02:22,500 - You weren't helping me with my bag. 67 00:02:22,542 --> 00:02:24,167 ♪ 68 00:02:24,250 --> 00:02:26,125 - ♪ It's all or nothing 69 00:02:26,208 --> 00:02:28,833 - This is "Married at First Sight." 70 00:02:28,917 --> 00:02:30,667 - ♪ There's no other way 71 00:02:30,750 --> 00:02:32,000 ♪ 72 00:02:32,083 --> 00:02:34,458 ♪ It's all or nothing 73 00:02:34,542 --> 00:02:37,292 - ♪ I want to be your everything ♪ 74 00:02:37,375 --> 00:02:40,250 ♪ Now, if I was everything that you wanted ♪ 75 00:02:40,333 --> 00:02:42,500 ♪ Every little thing that you need ♪ 76 00:02:42,500 --> 00:02:45,375 - Here is a happily married couple. 77 00:02:45,458 --> 00:02:48,000 - [laughs] It is pretty wild. 78 00:02:48,125 --> 00:02:49,250 But that night went well. 79 00:02:49,333 --> 00:02:50,917 - It was an amazing night. - Yeah. 80 00:02:51,042 --> 00:02:53,917 - Do you have any, like, quirks I should know about? 81 00:02:54,042 --> 00:02:56,125 Just be honest. - Uh... 82 00:02:56,208 --> 00:02:58,083 As a man with facial hair, 83 00:02:58,167 --> 00:03:01,208 I can be a little lax on, you know, just the rim of the sink. 84 00:03:01,292 --> 00:03:03,625 - It's in the sink. - Just got to be mindful. 85 00:03:03,708 --> 00:03:06,958 - I think we couldn't have expected a better night. 86 00:03:07,042 --> 00:03:08,583 - Jackpot, baby. - What's next? 87 00:03:08,667 --> 00:03:10,667 - We're excited to go into the honeymoon suite 88 00:03:10,792 --> 00:03:12,667 and spend some more time getting to know each other. 89 00:03:12,750 --> 00:03:15,125 And, you know, we vibe really well together, so... 90 00:03:15,250 --> 00:03:16,583 - Stay tuned. 91 00:03:16,667 --> 00:03:18,333 - Thank you, sir. - You're welcome. 92 00:03:18,417 --> 00:03:20,708 - Independent woman. You asked for it. 93 00:03:20,792 --> 00:03:23,083 - ♪ I want to explore your boundaries ♪ 94 00:03:23,208 --> 00:03:25,042 ♪ Every little thing that you do ♪ 95 00:03:25,125 --> 00:03:27,500 ♪ 96 00:03:27,500 --> 00:03:30,000 - Did it. 97 00:03:30,083 --> 00:03:32,875 ♪ 98 00:03:33,000 --> 00:03:34,667 - Thank you. 99 00:03:34,708 --> 00:03:38,000 Wow. 100 00:03:38,083 --> 00:03:42,750 ♪ 101 00:03:42,833 --> 00:03:45,708 - [laughs] All right. 102 00:03:45,792 --> 00:03:47,000 - Do it. 103 00:03:47,000 --> 00:03:48,500 Nice. 104 00:03:48,583 --> 00:03:51,750 - I like to sleep on the left side 105 00:03:51,833 --> 00:03:55,500 because I [bleep] up my shoulder snowboarding. 106 00:03:55,583 --> 00:03:57,000 - Oh. 107 00:03:57,042 --> 00:04:00,000 - And it's not optimal for cuddling. 108 00:04:00,042 --> 00:04:01,333 - Oh. 109 00:04:01,417 --> 00:04:03,083 So you're taking one for the team. 110 00:04:03,208 --> 00:04:05,292 - Do this. - I understand now. 111 00:04:05,375 --> 00:04:08,125 - Yes. - [laughing] No, go that way. 112 00:04:08,208 --> 00:04:10,167 Go that way again. [laughing] 113 00:04:10,250 --> 00:04:11,917 Go that way, yeah. 114 00:04:12,000 --> 00:04:15,125 I like to, like, snuggle right before bed and then... 115 00:04:15,208 --> 00:04:17,083 - Separate? - The partition. 116 00:04:17,167 --> 00:04:18,500 - [giggles] 117 00:04:18,583 --> 00:04:21,042 Sure. - I'll see you at 10:00 a.m. 118 00:04:21,125 --> 00:04:22,958 - [giggles] 119 00:04:26,167 --> 00:04:28,083 - We will never go to bed together. 120 00:04:28,208 --> 00:04:30,167 - We might not. 121 00:04:30,292 --> 00:04:31,875 - It's perfect. We'll snuggle other times. 122 00:04:32,000 --> 00:04:34,250 - [laughs] 123 00:04:34,375 --> 00:04:38,208 It feels surprisingly easy and, like, super natural. 124 00:04:38,292 --> 00:04:40,750 - No. No. 125 00:04:40,833 --> 00:04:42,708 No. Help. 126 00:04:42,792 --> 00:04:46,542 - She just brings a lot of good vibes and energy. 127 00:04:46,542 --> 00:04:49,875 And it's been a long time since I've felt that way 128 00:04:50,000 --> 00:04:52,000 about another person, so... 129 00:04:52,083 --> 00:04:53,250 - Help. 130 00:04:53,375 --> 00:04:55,250 I have to unbutton my buttons. 131 00:04:55,250 --> 00:04:56,958 They're very hard. 132 00:04:57,042 --> 00:04:59,333 Usually you're supposed to have a crochet hook for them. 133 00:04:59,458 --> 00:05:02,083 - Actually, it would be nice to have, like, a paperclip. 134 00:05:02,167 --> 00:05:03,958 It might be in here. 135 00:05:04,042 --> 00:05:05,417 - You brought a paperclip. 136 00:05:05,500 --> 00:05:07,208 - I'm certain it was in here. 137 00:05:07,333 --> 00:05:09,333 - Oh, no, you're all talk about this paperclip. 138 00:05:09,375 --> 00:05:10,833 - I know. - You could use that thing. 139 00:05:10,917 --> 00:05:11,875 - Yeah. 140 00:05:11,958 --> 00:05:13,083 ♪ 141 00:05:13,167 --> 00:05:14,875 - [laughs] 142 00:05:14,958 --> 00:05:17,417 ♪ 143 00:05:17,500 --> 00:05:19,500 You're really doing great. - This is fun. 144 00:05:19,583 --> 00:05:21,875 Yeah, okay, it is easier just to use my fingers. 145 00:05:21,958 --> 00:05:24,750 ♪ 146 00:05:24,833 --> 00:05:27,583 Okay, I got most of it. - Yeah, that's great. 147 00:05:27,667 --> 00:05:29,833 - Because I got all but two. - No, that's perfect. 148 00:05:29,917 --> 00:05:31,125 You've worked hard enough. 149 00:05:31,208 --> 00:05:32,917 - [laughs] 150 00:05:33,042 --> 00:05:36,333 - ♪ You've got a certain, a certain time ♪ 151 00:05:36,458 --> 00:05:39,167 ♪ Call me up any way you want ♪ 152 00:05:39,292 --> 00:05:41,500 ♪ I am waiting, forever yours ♪ 153 00:05:41,625 --> 00:05:43,625 - Yeah, this is as cute as it gets 154 00:05:43,708 --> 00:05:45,833 and better than, like, a baggy T-shirt 155 00:05:45,917 --> 00:05:48,000 that I would usually wear. 156 00:05:48,083 --> 00:05:50,333 Step up. 157 00:05:50,417 --> 00:05:51,792 This is his first impression of me. 158 00:05:51,875 --> 00:05:53,792 I can't look like a slob right off the bat. 159 00:05:53,875 --> 00:05:54,750 Or maybe I should have, 160 00:05:54,750 --> 00:05:56,833 and then it only goes up from there. 161 00:05:56,833 --> 00:05:59,042 [bleep] up. Let me get a baggy T-shirt. 162 00:05:59,125 --> 00:06:01,000 ♪ 163 00:06:01,083 --> 00:06:03,417 - Uh...hi. 164 00:06:03,500 --> 00:06:05,250 [chuckles] I like your PJs. 165 00:06:05,333 --> 00:06:08,000 - I didn't expect you would be in a baseball cap before bed. 166 00:06:08,125 --> 00:06:09,625 - Yep. 167 00:06:09,708 --> 00:06:11,667 - Do you wear it in bed, too? 168 00:06:11,708 --> 00:06:13,833 - Of course. 169 00:06:13,875 --> 00:06:15,458 - Okay. 170 00:06:15,542 --> 00:06:17,042 This feels great. This feels right. 171 00:06:17,167 --> 00:06:18,625 This feels fun. 172 00:06:18,708 --> 00:06:20,250 Like, we're excited to get to know each other. 173 00:06:20,375 --> 00:06:21,708 It's definitely relieving to feel comfortable 174 00:06:21,792 --> 00:06:23,458 right off the bat--definitely. 175 00:06:23,542 --> 00:06:26,667 But I am deciding, like, when 176 00:06:26,708 --> 00:06:28,500 I'm going to talk to my husband 177 00:06:28,583 --> 00:06:31,167 about all of my health stuff-- but likely tomorrow morning. 178 00:06:31,250 --> 00:06:33,333 Like, sometimes it's nice to get to know someone 179 00:06:33,417 --> 00:06:35,417 when they don't know that about me. 180 00:06:35,542 --> 00:06:37,000 - You're on my side? 181 00:06:37,083 --> 00:06:40,375 - Yes, just get into bed. 182 00:06:40,458 --> 00:06:41,917 Like, newlywed bliss. 183 00:06:42,000 --> 00:06:43,833 Like, let's just stay in that for a little bit. 184 00:06:43,917 --> 00:06:45,750 Roll over me. 185 00:06:45,833 --> 00:06:48,292 [laughs] 186 00:06:48,375 --> 00:06:50,333 ♪ 187 00:06:50,417 --> 00:06:53,083 - Oh, yeah. The light switch right here. 188 00:06:53,208 --> 00:06:55,708 ♪ 189 00:06:55,792 --> 00:06:58,083 [laughter] All right. Hey. 190 00:06:58,167 --> 00:07:00,792 - Hey. - Nice meeting you. 191 00:07:00,875 --> 00:07:03,125 - [laughing] 192 00:07:03,208 --> 00:07:06,000 It's so nice meeting you, too. 193 00:07:06,042 --> 00:07:08,583 I'll see you tomorrow and every day until we die. 194 00:07:08,667 --> 00:07:12,833 [laughter] - Happy marriage. 195 00:07:12,917 --> 00:07:15,292 ♪ 196 00:07:15,375 --> 00:07:16,750 - ♪ 'Cause this is my time - ♪ Time 197 00:07:16,833 --> 00:07:18,125 - ♪ This is my chance - ♪ Chance 198 00:07:18,208 --> 00:07:19,625 ♪ This is everything 199 00:07:19,708 --> 00:07:21,250 - Look at this. Did you see this? 200 00:07:21,333 --> 00:07:22,667 - I did. I like this a lot. 201 00:07:22,750 --> 00:07:25,000 - So that's my side. - [laughing] That's your side. 202 00:07:25,125 --> 00:07:26,792 - And that's your side. 203 00:07:26,875 --> 00:07:30,708 ♪ 204 00:07:30,833 --> 00:07:33,667 Cheers to our first night as husband and wife. 205 00:07:33,792 --> 00:07:37,458 - Yeah. Cheers to our first night as husband and wife. 206 00:07:37,542 --> 00:07:41,042 It's going to take some used to saying. 207 00:07:41,125 --> 00:07:42,667 - Yes. [laughs] 208 00:07:42,708 --> 00:07:44,583 Even when it comes out of my mouth, I'm just like, 209 00:07:44,667 --> 00:07:46,375 when is it going to feel normal? 210 00:07:46,500 --> 00:07:47,833 - Right? 211 00:07:47,875 --> 00:07:49,333 - Do you want to get ready for bed, 212 00:07:49,375 --> 00:07:50,750 get a little bit more comfortable? 213 00:07:50,833 --> 00:07:52,250 I want to get out of these clothes. 214 00:07:52,375 --> 00:07:54,000 - Yeah. Yeah. - Let's go to the bedroom. 215 00:07:54,042 --> 00:07:55,708 Yeah, that sounds good. 216 00:07:55,792 --> 00:07:58,542 I do need help taking this dress off. 217 00:07:58,625 --> 00:08:00,042 It took three people to do this, 218 00:08:00,125 --> 00:08:01,667 so don't feel bad if you don't it right away. 219 00:08:01,708 --> 00:08:02,792 - Oh, no. I got it. 220 00:08:02,875 --> 00:08:04,000 I got it. 221 00:08:04,083 --> 00:08:07,667 - ♪ Oh, you're so good for me ♪ 222 00:08:07,708 --> 00:08:10,000 - I'm so determined on this one button. 223 00:08:10,083 --> 00:08:12,708 - You're like, I'm not going to give up. 224 00:08:12,792 --> 00:08:15,167 - I've already committed. - I love your tenacity. 225 00:08:15,250 --> 00:08:16,792 ♪ 226 00:08:16,875 --> 00:08:22,167 - ♪ You're so good for me 227 00:08:22,292 --> 00:08:24,417 ♪ Oh, you're so good 228 00:08:24,500 --> 00:08:26,000 - Thank you. 229 00:08:26,042 --> 00:08:27,625 ♪ 230 00:08:27,708 --> 00:08:29,417 - Can you help me with something? 231 00:08:29,500 --> 00:08:31,042 - Yeah. - This yarn. 232 00:08:31,125 --> 00:08:32,667 Can you untie it? - Yeah, for sure. 233 00:08:32,750 --> 00:08:34,208 - There's definitely a lot of attraction. 234 00:08:34,292 --> 00:08:36,500 She did a really great job just putting me at ease, 235 00:08:36,583 --> 00:08:38,000 just kind of being who she is. 236 00:08:38,042 --> 00:08:39,917 Yeah. 237 00:08:40,042 --> 00:08:42,042 Just going to try to manage that high that I'm feeling. 238 00:08:42,125 --> 00:08:45,333 You know, and I would hate for sex to cloud anything. 239 00:08:45,417 --> 00:08:47,500 I like your PJs. [chuckles] 240 00:08:47,583 --> 00:08:49,417 - Oh, thanks. 241 00:08:49,500 --> 00:08:50,708 - [chuckles] 242 00:08:50,792 --> 00:08:52,667 ♪ 243 00:08:52,667 --> 00:08:55,667 But, I mean, I don't know. Have you seen my wife? 244 00:08:55,667 --> 00:08:58,667 It probably wouldn't take much convincing, honestly. 245 00:08:58,708 --> 00:09:01,833 - Oh, my gosh. Ah. 246 00:09:01,958 --> 00:09:04,833 - How does it feel? - It feels like heaven. 247 00:09:04,875 --> 00:09:07,333 I haven't tied my hair up. I forgot. 248 00:09:07,417 --> 00:09:09,667 And I don't think I care. [laughs] 249 00:09:09,750 --> 00:09:12,500 - So I've been thinking about trying to get 250 00:09:12,625 --> 00:09:14,375 something for the curls. 251 00:09:14,458 --> 00:09:15,917 - You ever sleep with a bonnet on? 252 00:09:16,000 --> 00:09:18,000 Do you know what a bonnet is? - I don't. 253 00:09:18,042 --> 00:09:19,667 - It's just a hair-- it's, like, a silk-- 254 00:09:19,708 --> 00:09:21,375 a satin hair thing you put on your head. 255 00:09:21,458 --> 00:09:23,167 I think I might have two on me. 256 00:09:23,208 --> 00:09:24,792 ♪ 257 00:09:24,875 --> 00:09:27,000 - Bonnet. That could be life changing. 258 00:09:27,083 --> 00:09:28,667 - It could be. 259 00:09:28,750 --> 00:09:30,000 It could at least be hair changing. 260 00:09:30,083 --> 00:09:31,667 So let me just put it on like a hat. 261 00:09:31,708 --> 00:09:33,542 [laughs] - Just like a hat? 262 00:09:33,625 --> 00:09:34,875 - Yeah, it's literally a hat. 263 00:09:34,958 --> 00:09:36,333 ♪ 264 00:09:36,375 --> 00:09:37,917 - Okay. - Yeah. 265 00:09:38,000 --> 00:09:39,875 - [chuckles] 266 00:09:39,958 --> 00:09:41,333 ♪ 267 00:09:41,417 --> 00:09:44,667 - Look in the mirror. [laughter] 268 00:09:44,708 --> 00:09:47,333 ♪ Bonnet buddies 269 00:09:47,375 --> 00:09:49,333 ♪ 270 00:09:49,375 --> 00:09:50,500 All right. You ready for sleep? 271 00:09:50,583 --> 00:09:52,000 - I am so ready for sleep. 272 00:09:52,083 --> 00:09:54,417 - Okay. Let's blow these candles out. 273 00:09:54,542 --> 00:09:56,250 Make it look real sexy. 274 00:09:56,333 --> 00:09:57,750 - [laughs] 275 00:09:57,875 --> 00:10:00,667 - All right. Let's go to bed, husband. 276 00:10:00,750 --> 00:10:02,958 [giggles] - Yeah. 277 00:10:03,042 --> 00:10:04,792 - Yes. 278 00:10:04,875 --> 00:10:07,250 ♪ 279 00:10:07,333 --> 00:10:10,417 [giggles] 280 00:10:10,542 --> 00:10:14,458 ♪ 281 00:10:14,542 --> 00:10:17,542 - Oh, this is so nice. 282 00:10:17,625 --> 00:10:19,333 I love it. 283 00:10:19,375 --> 00:10:21,875 What is this place called? - The Thompson Hotel. 284 00:10:22,042 --> 00:10:24,500 - Very elegant in here. I'm a fan. 285 00:10:24,625 --> 00:10:25,917 Would you like to get some PJs on? 286 00:10:26,000 --> 00:10:28,000 - Let's go. - It's time. 287 00:10:28,083 --> 00:10:29,875 I've been waiting for this moment all day... 288 00:10:30,000 --> 00:10:31,792 from the moment I got this dress on. 289 00:10:31,875 --> 00:10:33,500 ♪ 290 00:10:33,542 --> 00:10:36,208 Do you see all of these things are buttoned? 291 00:10:36,333 --> 00:10:38,500 - What is this? This is-- 292 00:10:38,583 --> 00:10:40,542 - ♪ Shaped like a figure eight ♪ 293 00:10:40,625 --> 00:10:43,042 ♪ Figure eight 294 00:10:43,167 --> 00:10:45,292 ♪ And it's magical 295 00:10:45,375 --> 00:10:48,875 ♪ Got me feeling like, ooh 296 00:10:49,000 --> 00:10:52,750 - This is what they do to tease really horny grooms, you know? 297 00:10:52,750 --> 00:10:55,458 It's-- - Okay, I think that's good. 298 00:10:55,542 --> 00:10:58,000 - Are you sure? There's a lot more to go. 299 00:10:58,125 --> 00:10:59,542 - No. 300 00:10:59,667 --> 00:11:01,583 I'm taking this [bleep]. Yeah, no. This is fine. 301 00:11:01,667 --> 00:11:03,583 Thank you. Appreciate that. 302 00:11:03,583 --> 00:11:06,042 [giggles] It's going to have to work. 303 00:11:06,125 --> 00:11:08,750 - [sighs] 304 00:11:08,875 --> 00:11:14,000 I feel like I'm a pretty good read of sexual energy. 305 00:11:14,042 --> 00:11:15,500 ♪ 306 00:11:15,625 --> 00:11:19,333 And Clare is not exuding 307 00:11:19,375 --> 00:11:21,167 any right now. 308 00:11:21,292 --> 00:11:23,958 ♪ 309 00:11:24,042 --> 00:11:27,375 - I've been alone for so long that I don't even know 310 00:11:27,458 --> 00:11:29,500 what it feels like to sleep with someone at night, 311 00:11:29,583 --> 00:11:31,417 to be honest. 312 00:11:31,542 --> 00:11:33,375 But I think I'll be less guarded 313 00:11:33,458 --> 00:11:36,833 when I know that he's feeling, like, a similar way. 314 00:11:36,958 --> 00:11:39,875 But tonight I'm excited to get to cozy with him, 315 00:11:39,958 --> 00:11:41,167 if he's okay with that. 316 00:11:41,250 --> 00:11:42,833 [scoffs] 317 00:11:42,917 --> 00:11:44,917 - [knocking lightly] 318 00:11:46,917 --> 00:11:49,333 - Oh. 319 00:11:49,375 --> 00:11:52,083 Hi. 320 00:11:52,167 --> 00:11:54,000 - Do you think I could have a shower 321 00:11:54,042 --> 00:11:55,125 before I go to bed? - Sure. Yeah. 322 00:11:55,208 --> 00:11:57,000 - Okay. I mean, are you done? 323 00:11:57,083 --> 00:11:58,667 - I'm done. Everything's done. 324 00:11:58,750 --> 00:12:00,125 I just need to brush my teeth when you're done. 325 00:12:00,125 --> 00:12:01,333 - No, no, no. Brush your teeth now. 326 00:12:01,375 --> 00:12:02,708 - No. 327 00:12:02,833 --> 00:12:04,208 - I need to brush my teeth as well. 328 00:12:04,292 --> 00:12:06,125 - Yeah, I just need to get my stuff, you know? 329 00:12:06,208 --> 00:12:07,208 [zipper opens] 330 00:12:07,292 --> 00:12:09,667 [chuckles] 331 00:12:09,708 --> 00:12:11,958 We're just going about our night here. 332 00:12:12,042 --> 00:12:18,833 ♪ 333 00:12:25,458 --> 00:12:27,167 My husband is in the shower. 334 00:12:27,250 --> 00:12:28,750 I am waiting. 335 00:12:28,833 --> 00:12:31,333 I think it was awkward for me because we 336 00:12:31,333 --> 00:12:32,875 didn't really have that conversation of, like, 337 00:12:32,958 --> 00:12:34,250 do you like cuddling, do you not? 338 00:12:34,375 --> 00:12:36,042 I also don't know 339 00:12:36,125 --> 00:12:38,292 if he's, like, fully attracted to me at this point. 340 00:12:38,375 --> 00:12:40,000 He's not said that. 341 00:12:40,042 --> 00:12:42,000 And so, for me, it's like, I don't want to make a move 342 00:12:42,083 --> 00:12:44,167 or cuddle when you're not there, you know? 343 00:12:44,208 --> 00:12:45,500 It's confusing. 344 00:12:45,542 --> 00:12:47,042 But it's going to be cool to get 345 00:12:47,042 --> 00:12:50,125 to sleep next to my husband with my ring on. 346 00:12:50,208 --> 00:12:52,000 [chuckles] 347 00:12:52,042 --> 00:12:53,208 ♪ 348 00:12:56,833 --> 00:12:59,542 - Lights out. 349 00:12:59,667 --> 00:13:01,625 - This is all the lights, right? 350 00:13:01,625 --> 00:13:03,167 Oh, wait. 351 00:13:03,292 --> 00:13:06,208 [exhaling sharply] 352 00:13:06,333 --> 00:13:09,000 - Good night. 353 00:13:09,125 --> 00:13:10,333 - Yeah. 354 00:13:10,417 --> 00:13:13,083 Okay, well, you sleep good. 355 00:13:13,167 --> 00:13:16,500 - As soon as you stop talking, I'm going to be like that. 356 00:13:16,625 --> 00:13:18,167 - Yeah? So you want me to stop talking? 357 00:13:18,250 --> 00:13:19,667 - [laughs] 358 00:13:19,750 --> 00:13:21,167 - In other words, please stop talking? 359 00:13:21,208 --> 00:13:23,417 All right. I'm done. Enough said. 360 00:13:23,500 --> 00:13:24,833 - Good night. - Good night. 361 00:13:24,875 --> 00:13:26,292 Sleep good. 362 00:13:26,375 --> 00:13:30,958 ♪ 363 00:13:31,042 --> 00:13:33,417 - ♪ In your eyes... 364 00:13:33,542 --> 00:13:36,167 ♪ And I'm burning, too 365 00:13:36,250 --> 00:13:38,167 - [sighs] 366 00:13:38,208 --> 00:13:39,500 ♪ 367 00:13:39,583 --> 00:13:41,833 - This is nice. - So good. 368 00:13:41,875 --> 00:13:43,500 - [clears throat] Still in my tux. 369 00:13:43,583 --> 00:13:44,917 You're still in your dress. 370 00:13:45,000 --> 00:13:46,667 And we can just sleep right now, right? 371 00:13:46,667 --> 00:13:48,125 - I mean, I could, but... 372 00:13:52,750 --> 00:13:54,708 - [sighs] All right, let's do this. 373 00:13:54,792 --> 00:13:56,500 - Strip. 374 00:13:56,583 --> 00:13:59,208 - ♪ I'm seeing so clearly 375 00:13:59,208 --> 00:14:00,917 ♪ Breathing in like I tell you... ♪ 376 00:14:01,000 --> 00:14:03,917 - This is crazy they make these things like this. 377 00:14:04,000 --> 00:14:05,792 - Yeah, it took a really long time to get in this dress. 378 00:14:05,875 --> 00:14:08,000 ♪ 379 00:14:08,083 --> 00:14:12,167 - ♪ Feels like I've waited all my life ♪ 380 00:14:12,250 --> 00:14:14,167 ♪ 381 00:14:14,250 --> 00:14:16,042 ♪ 'Cause I heard good things... ♪ 382 00:14:16,125 --> 00:14:18,542 - You did all this for me? 383 00:14:18,667 --> 00:14:20,875 - Take your time. 384 00:14:20,958 --> 00:14:22,542 [whispering] There's nothing underneath there. 385 00:14:22,625 --> 00:14:25,000 [normal voice] But, I mean, we're married now, so... 386 00:14:25,083 --> 00:14:27,542 [whispering] It's all open. 387 00:14:27,542 --> 00:14:30,375 [normal voice] I just have to, like, transform 388 00:14:30,458 --> 00:14:31,958 in the opposite direction. 389 00:14:36,833 --> 00:14:39,083 - ♪ Ooh, ooh, ooh, ooh-ooh-ooh ♪ 390 00:14:39,167 --> 00:14:41,292 ♪ Ooh, ooh, ooh, ooh-ooh-ooh ♪ 391 00:14:41,375 --> 00:14:43,917 ♪ You've got the sweetest eyes ♪ 392 00:14:44,000 --> 00:14:46,292 ♪ I like the way you see me 393 00:14:46,375 --> 00:14:48,875 ♪ You always keep me laughing ♪ 394 00:14:48,958 --> 00:14:50,792 - I'm feeling excited 395 00:14:50,875 --> 00:14:53,833 to have some time alone with my husband, 396 00:14:53,958 --> 00:14:55,750 letting him drive. 397 00:14:55,833 --> 00:14:57,958 We'll see. 398 00:14:58,042 --> 00:15:00,125 - Ooh, okay. 399 00:15:00,208 --> 00:15:04,000 ♪ 400 00:15:04,083 --> 00:15:06,625 Look at you. I like the PJs. 401 00:15:06,708 --> 00:15:08,667 - Now we can lay. 402 00:15:08,708 --> 00:15:10,708 ♪ 403 00:15:10,792 --> 00:15:13,500 Put out the candles, see what happens 404 00:15:13,583 --> 00:15:15,333 when everyone leaves us alone. 405 00:15:15,417 --> 00:15:16,333 ♪ 406 00:15:16,417 --> 00:15:18,583 - The best day. 407 00:15:18,667 --> 00:15:20,458 - Better than expected. 408 00:15:22,833 --> 00:15:24,875 - [laughs] 409 00:15:31,917 --> 00:15:33,542 - ♪ Is it higher? 410 00:15:33,667 --> 00:15:36,500 ♪ 'Cause when I think of you, it sends me... ♪ 411 00:15:36,542 --> 00:15:37,500 - Hi. - Good morning. 412 00:15:37,583 --> 00:15:38,792 - Good morning. 413 00:15:38,875 --> 00:15:41,792 We woke up married today. [chuckles] 414 00:15:41,875 --> 00:15:43,708 - I'm still here. - Still here. 415 00:15:43,792 --> 00:15:46,125 We are now bonnet buddies. 416 00:15:46,208 --> 00:15:47,833 She's helping me out with some hair care. 417 00:15:47,875 --> 00:15:49,167 Feels nice. 418 00:15:49,250 --> 00:15:51,125 - He's a good cuddler. [giggles] 419 00:15:51,208 --> 00:15:52,958 - I woke up to, like, 8 million texts. 420 00:15:53,042 --> 00:15:54,625 I think everyone's, like, really intrigued to know 421 00:15:54,708 --> 00:15:56,000 who this mystery man is. 422 00:15:56,042 --> 00:15:57,500 - What's up, everyone? 423 00:15:57,583 --> 00:15:59,125 - Here he is. 424 00:15:59,208 --> 00:16:01,917 Yeah, going to be a good day. 425 00:16:02,042 --> 00:16:03,667 - Had an incredible time yesterday. 426 00:16:03,750 --> 00:16:06,958 - Retweet. [laughter] 427 00:16:07,042 --> 00:16:09,083 - She's a nerd. - He said the word. 428 00:16:09,167 --> 00:16:12,500 - And I'm weird, so it works. [laughs] 429 00:16:12,625 --> 00:16:15,458 [screams silently] 430 00:16:15,542 --> 00:16:17,875 ♪ 431 00:16:17,958 --> 00:16:19,667 - How'd you sleep? 432 00:16:19,708 --> 00:16:21,708 - Ah, fine enough. 433 00:16:21,833 --> 00:16:23,500 - [laughs] Not great. 434 00:16:23,583 --> 00:16:25,792 I slept phenomenal. 435 00:16:25,875 --> 00:16:27,958 Waking up, I had to remind myself, like, 436 00:16:28,042 --> 00:16:29,667 of who you were for a moment. 437 00:16:29,792 --> 00:16:31,333 You know what I mean? 438 00:16:31,417 --> 00:16:32,750 It's, like, not natural to be like, oh, I know this guy, 439 00:16:32,833 --> 00:16:34,083 you know? 440 00:16:34,208 --> 00:16:35,542 - Yeah. - Yeah. 441 00:16:35,625 --> 00:16:38,333 - I mostly just ignored that you were even there. 442 00:16:38,375 --> 00:16:40,208 ♪ 443 00:16:40,292 --> 00:16:41,958 - Last night was kind of, like, a little awkward, 444 00:16:42,042 --> 00:16:43,208 not going to lie. 445 00:16:43,333 --> 00:16:44,750 He's not an awkward person. 446 00:16:44,833 --> 00:16:47,208 But it's just an awkward situation. 447 00:16:47,333 --> 00:16:50,167 It is hard to understand what he's thinking. 448 00:16:50,250 --> 00:16:53,083 And, you know, we didn't cuddle. 449 00:16:53,167 --> 00:16:55,167 I think, again, that's going to take some time. 450 00:16:55,167 --> 00:16:57,250 Like, there are sparks that are there 451 00:16:57,333 --> 00:16:59,500 that just need to, like, develop. 452 00:16:59,583 --> 00:17:01,833 But we're in it for the long haul. 453 00:17:01,917 --> 00:17:04,875 And I think we have to be okay with that. 454 00:17:04,958 --> 00:17:06,833 ♪ 455 00:17:06,958 --> 00:17:09,875 I'm about to-- Interesting. 456 00:17:09,958 --> 00:17:11,875 - Is that salmon? I mean, it's got to be salmon, right? 457 00:17:11,958 --> 00:17:13,333 - Yeah. 458 00:17:13,375 --> 00:17:14,875 - Did you just order avocado toast? 459 00:17:14,958 --> 00:17:16,625 - Is that a carrot? - Oh, maybe, yeah. 460 00:17:16,708 --> 00:17:19,000 My grandmother-- 461 00:17:19,083 --> 00:17:21,042 she was part of perpetrating the myth 462 00:17:21,125 --> 00:17:22,875 that carrots help you see at night. 463 00:17:22,958 --> 00:17:25,750 ♪ 464 00:17:25,833 --> 00:17:28,375 She was a lieutenant in World War II, 465 00:17:28,458 --> 00:17:30,625 and she ran a bunch of the-- 466 00:17:30,708 --> 00:17:33,917 like, the Morse code girls, for lack of a better description. 467 00:17:34,000 --> 00:17:36,125 And so part of her Morse code division 468 00:17:36,208 --> 00:17:39,542 was to just send messages about needing to buy more carrots. 469 00:17:41,375 --> 00:17:44,875 And the Germans launched a whole operation 470 00:17:44,875 --> 00:17:48,167 so that their pilots could have carrots to see at night. 471 00:17:48,292 --> 00:17:50,625 And it was all bull[bleep]. 472 00:17:50,708 --> 00:17:52,625 - Whoa. - Yeah. 473 00:17:52,708 --> 00:17:54,208 - She sounds like a boss. 474 00:17:54,333 --> 00:17:56,333 - She's the only person, like, that I've met that I can say 475 00:17:56,417 --> 00:17:58,667 is very similar to me, like, as in-- 476 00:17:58,792 --> 00:18:01,208 like, almost genetically, like, who I am, she is, 477 00:18:01,292 --> 00:18:02,833 like, the same kind of person. 478 00:18:02,875 --> 00:18:04,750 Like, she loves me to death, and I love her to death. 479 00:18:04,833 --> 00:18:07,000 But she's never once told me that she loves me. 480 00:18:07,083 --> 00:18:08,583 ♪ 481 00:18:08,708 --> 00:18:10,083 - Oh, that is not-- 482 00:18:10,167 --> 00:18:11,958 No, that's not how I grew up at all. 483 00:18:12,042 --> 00:18:13,917 - Yeah, and so then that 484 00:18:14,000 --> 00:18:15,208 snowballs into me, right? - Mm-hmm. 485 00:18:15,333 --> 00:18:16,792 Like, I could be walking around all day 486 00:18:16,875 --> 00:18:18,167 thinking about how much I love you, 487 00:18:18,208 --> 00:18:19,667 and I just haven't said it. 488 00:18:19,750 --> 00:18:21,417 - Ooh, that might be a problem. 489 00:18:21,500 --> 00:18:23,667 - But because the moment I see you, I jump all over you. 490 00:18:23,750 --> 00:18:25,208 ♪ 491 00:18:25,292 --> 00:18:28,250 Like, I'm very physical with my affection... 492 00:18:28,333 --> 00:18:30,375 - Right. - Like, kissing and cuddling. 493 00:18:30,458 --> 00:18:32,167 - Okay. [chuckles] That's good to know. 494 00:18:32,292 --> 00:18:33,667 I appreciate that. 495 00:18:33,792 --> 00:18:37,125 But I came from a very, like, say how you feel, 496 00:18:37,208 --> 00:18:40,500 express yourself, have deeper conversations. 497 00:18:40,583 --> 00:18:42,750 And, also, that's just my personality, too. 498 00:18:42,833 --> 00:18:44,292 And so it's like, 499 00:18:44,375 --> 00:18:46,500 even if you don't want to tell me your feel-- 500 00:18:46,500 --> 00:18:48,167 I would hope that you'd be open to doing that. 501 00:18:48,208 --> 00:18:49,500 - Yeah. - Right? 502 00:18:49,542 --> 00:18:50,542 - Yeah. - Okay. 503 00:18:50,625 --> 00:18:52,292 - I feel like I work on that every day. 504 00:18:52,375 --> 00:18:54,042 And I can tell you, you'll feel loved. 505 00:18:54,125 --> 00:18:55,708 - Okay. [chuckles] 506 00:18:55,792 --> 00:18:59,333 ♪ 507 00:18:59,417 --> 00:19:01,583 - ♪ Nothing like the smell of the air ♪ 508 00:19:01,667 --> 00:19:04,500 ♪ When you got no cares around ♪ 509 00:19:04,583 --> 00:19:06,958 - How did you think last night's cuddle session went? 510 00:19:07,042 --> 00:19:09,667 - It was great. - Yeah. 511 00:19:09,708 --> 00:19:11,667 It felt very nice. 512 00:19:11,708 --> 00:19:14,042 - Usually married couples have sex on their wedding night, 513 00:19:14,125 --> 00:19:16,292 but I decided no. 514 00:19:16,375 --> 00:19:18,125 I kind of got the impression 515 00:19:18,208 --> 00:19:20,625 that he wants to take it slower. 516 00:19:20,708 --> 00:19:22,792 I need that because I think I'm jumping the gun there 517 00:19:22,875 --> 00:19:24,667 a lot of the time. 518 00:19:24,750 --> 00:19:27,167 We truly just need time in order to get there. 519 00:19:27,208 --> 00:19:30,167 But I love waking up next to my new husband. 520 00:19:30,250 --> 00:19:32,667 And I think it's just the first day of many, 521 00:19:32,792 --> 00:19:34,875 and it's only going to get better from here, 522 00:19:34,958 --> 00:19:36,500 which I'm excited about. 523 00:19:36,542 --> 00:19:39,000 Would you say you're, like, a big morning person? 524 00:19:39,125 --> 00:19:40,375 - You know, it's weird. 525 00:19:40,458 --> 00:19:42,333 I can get work done in the morning, 526 00:19:42,417 --> 00:19:45,250 but, like, the clouds don't clear my head until, like-- 527 00:19:45,333 --> 00:19:47,000 - Yeah, my brain's better in the afternoon, too, 528 00:19:47,042 --> 00:19:48,333 and at night. - Yeah. 529 00:19:48,458 --> 00:19:50,208 - I also, like, blare music when I wake up, 530 00:19:50,292 --> 00:19:52,208 but I can change that. - Right. 531 00:19:52,292 --> 00:19:54,625 - I can put my AirPods in. 532 00:19:54,708 --> 00:19:56,333 That's, like, how I get my day going-- 533 00:19:56,417 --> 00:19:58,958 some good old EDM at 7:00 in the morning. 534 00:19:59,042 --> 00:20:00,375 - Mm-hmm. 535 00:20:00,458 --> 00:20:02,333 That and AC... - Yeah. 536 00:20:02,375 --> 00:20:04,125 - It's the only two things blasting. 537 00:20:04,250 --> 00:20:06,000 - We agreed on the new temp. - Mm-hmm. 538 00:20:06,083 --> 00:20:07,750 68. 539 00:20:07,833 --> 00:20:09,667 We can do that... - Yeah. 540 00:20:09,750 --> 00:20:13,333 - As long as it's not higher than 70. 541 00:20:13,458 --> 00:20:15,000 - That's a perfect middle ground. 542 00:20:15,083 --> 00:20:17,125 - Do you like windows open? 543 00:20:17,208 --> 00:20:19,375 - Not in the winter. 544 00:20:19,375 --> 00:20:21,250 Got some more air circulating in here last night. 545 00:20:21,333 --> 00:20:22,833 - Do you? - I do. 546 00:20:22,875 --> 00:20:24,292 I actually love the windows open in the winter. 547 00:20:24,375 --> 00:20:25,667 - [chuckles] 548 00:20:25,708 --> 00:20:27,875 - That's something I could compromise. 549 00:20:27,958 --> 00:20:29,583 - Uh-huh. [chuckles] I love that. 550 00:20:29,667 --> 00:20:32,167 It's surreal waking up as a husband. 551 00:20:32,292 --> 00:20:33,667 It's just exciting. 552 00:20:33,708 --> 00:20:35,250 It's definitely also an adjustment. 553 00:20:35,333 --> 00:20:36,958 You know, I might have to wear a sweater to bed. 554 00:20:37,042 --> 00:20:39,667 But it should be doable. 555 00:20:39,708 --> 00:20:41,958 Wait. What's your number? - Oh, yeah. 556 00:20:42,042 --> 00:20:43,167 I guess I should do that. 557 00:20:43,292 --> 00:20:46,208 The basic things... 558 00:20:46,333 --> 00:20:48,167 - What did you put as the-- - I just put my name. 559 00:20:48,208 --> 00:20:49,333 - Okay, great. 560 00:20:49,375 --> 00:20:50,792 - "Hubby"? - I put "hubby." 561 00:20:50,875 --> 00:20:52,750 [laughs] - I like hubby. 562 00:20:52,875 --> 00:20:54,708 But it's probably good that you put your last name, 563 00:20:54,792 --> 00:20:57,167 so I could start, like, having, like, recognition. 564 00:20:57,292 --> 00:21:03,625 ♪ 565 00:21:05,750 --> 00:21:09,333 - Can I scratch you? - [laughing] I guess. 566 00:21:09,500 --> 00:21:12,042 Yeah, that's nice. 567 00:21:12,125 --> 00:21:15,458 Yesterday was awesome, 568 00:21:15,542 --> 00:21:17,500 like, an amazing time. 569 00:21:17,583 --> 00:21:20,667 Like, I couldn't have asked for anything better, so... 570 00:21:20,708 --> 00:21:22,167 - Yeah. Same. 571 00:21:22,250 --> 00:21:23,667 - Yeah. Yeah. 572 00:21:23,792 --> 00:21:24,917 - Oh, food! 573 00:21:25,000 --> 00:21:26,583 - Brunch. 574 00:21:26,667 --> 00:21:28,250 - When we woke up, it felt just like it did yesterday, 575 00:21:28,375 --> 00:21:29,750 just, like, comfortable. 576 00:21:29,875 --> 00:21:32,417 And I didn't feel like he was a stranger. 577 00:21:32,500 --> 00:21:35,000 I just felt like it was always supposed to happen. 578 00:21:35,125 --> 00:21:37,417 Good-looking bellboy. [laughter] 579 00:21:37,500 --> 00:21:39,083 I'll crawl into bed with him for the rest of my life. 580 00:21:39,167 --> 00:21:40,417 Let's go. 581 00:21:40,500 --> 00:21:43,625 Look at these mini pickles. - [laughs] 582 00:21:43,708 --> 00:21:45,833 - Should put the baby Cholula on your mini pickles. 583 00:21:45,875 --> 00:21:49,000 - [laughs] I actually don't like pickles. 584 00:21:49,083 --> 00:21:50,833 - Okay, well-- - Is that a difference? 585 00:21:50,875 --> 00:21:52,333 Is that one of our different things? 586 00:21:52,375 --> 00:21:54,125 - Nope. That's absolutely the same. 587 00:21:54,208 --> 00:21:56,250 - Wait. Really? - Yeah. Yeah. 588 00:21:56,333 --> 00:21:58,333 - What else don't you like, food-wise? 589 00:21:58,458 --> 00:21:59,500 - Oh, mushroom. - Oh, interesting. 590 00:21:59,542 --> 00:22:00,833 I like mushrooms. 591 00:22:00,875 --> 00:22:02,250 - Well, [bleep], that's the first thing. 592 00:22:02,333 --> 00:22:03,625 - Olives? 593 00:22:03,708 --> 00:22:06,333 - Olives, like, I'm compatible with. 594 00:22:06,375 --> 00:22:07,875 But, like, I certainly don't, like, 595 00:22:08,000 --> 00:22:09,500 ask to put olives on a pizza. 596 00:22:09,542 --> 00:22:11,333 - I don't like olives. 597 00:22:11,375 --> 00:22:14,167 - I'm more okay with mushrooms than olives, 598 00:22:14,208 --> 00:22:16,375 because olives have a similar flavor profile where it just, 599 00:22:16,500 --> 00:22:19,000 like, takes over everything. - Yeah, they're very salty. 600 00:22:19,083 --> 00:22:21,375 I like them in a martini, but you wouldn't know. 601 00:22:21,458 --> 00:22:23,792 [laughter] 602 00:22:23,875 --> 00:22:26,000 Sorry. You told me you, like, don't drink a lot. 603 00:22:26,083 --> 00:22:27,208 - That's true. That's true. 604 00:22:27,208 --> 00:22:29,208 I mean, I've had a martini before, you know? 605 00:22:29,333 --> 00:22:30,542 - Fair enough. - Yeah, yeah, yeah. 606 00:22:30,625 --> 00:22:32,042 [laughs] 607 00:22:32,125 --> 00:22:36,250 So last night you were asleep. 608 00:22:36,333 --> 00:22:38,667 - You were a corpse. - [chuckles] I was. 609 00:22:38,750 --> 00:22:41,917 - But I do want to tell you something while you're awake 610 00:22:41,917 --> 00:22:43,125 and alert... - Oh. 611 00:22:43,208 --> 00:22:46,833 - So you can process a little easier. 612 00:22:46,875 --> 00:22:50,667 Basically, I had an exploratory surgery, 613 00:22:50,750 --> 00:22:55,458 and it turned into a diagnosis of endometriosis, 614 00:22:55,542 --> 00:22:58,875 and that turned into a much more extensive surgery 615 00:22:58,958 --> 00:23:01,208 than they thought it was going to be. 616 00:23:01,292 --> 00:23:03,500 Basically, they just went in 617 00:23:03,583 --> 00:23:06,167 and saw that I was in pretty rough shape internally. 618 00:23:06,250 --> 00:23:07,500 And so they went in. 619 00:23:07,625 --> 00:23:09,583 They did some nice housekeeping, 620 00:23:09,667 --> 00:23:11,333 which caused a lot of pain. 621 00:23:11,417 --> 00:23:14,125 I'm feeling better now, but it does impact, like... 622 00:23:14,208 --> 00:23:15,917 ♪ 623 00:23:16,042 --> 00:23:18,917 Like, I can't go cliff jumping on our honeymoon, 624 00:23:19,000 --> 00:23:20,833 you know, even though I would normally. 625 00:23:20,875 --> 00:23:24,250 I also have an autoimmune disorder 626 00:23:24,333 --> 00:23:25,958 called ankylosing spondylitis. 627 00:23:26,042 --> 00:23:28,500 But it's basically just where my immune system 628 00:23:28,583 --> 00:23:29,667 attacks my spine. 629 00:23:29,792 --> 00:23:31,792 Like, it thinks that something's wrong 630 00:23:31,875 --> 00:23:33,667 with my spine, but I have an injection that I take for that 631 00:23:33,750 --> 00:23:35,333 that basically, like, tells my immune system 632 00:23:35,417 --> 00:23:36,625 to, like, shut the [bleep] up. 633 00:23:36,708 --> 00:23:37,583 ♪ 634 00:23:37,667 --> 00:23:39,792 - Is it, like, a constant-- 635 00:23:39,875 --> 00:23:41,833 Like, are you in pain now? Are you a constant thing? 636 00:23:41,875 --> 00:23:44,333 Or is it-- - Yeah, I'm always in pain. 637 00:23:44,417 --> 00:23:46,125 - Always in pain. 638 00:23:46,208 --> 00:23:47,500 - But I've also, like, never known, 639 00:23:47,583 --> 00:23:49,167 like, in the last ten years, like-- 640 00:23:49,208 --> 00:23:50,833 - Anything different? - Yeah. 641 00:23:50,958 --> 00:23:52,792 So, like, it's just what feels normal to me. 642 00:23:52,875 --> 00:23:55,625 - I appreciate, like, you being open with me 643 00:23:55,708 --> 00:23:57,833 about all that, especially, like, so early on. 644 00:23:57,917 --> 00:23:59,083 - Mm-hmm. 645 00:23:59,167 --> 00:24:01,125 - Were you nervous to talk to me about that? 646 00:24:01,208 --> 00:24:02,250 ♪ 647 00:24:02,375 --> 00:24:04,875 - Before I knew who you were, 648 00:24:04,958 --> 00:24:09,792 I was really nervous just because I didn't know. 649 00:24:09,875 --> 00:24:12,583 Like, not all people react positively to it, 650 00:24:12,583 --> 00:24:13,833 and that's okay. - Yeah. 651 00:24:13,917 --> 00:24:16,167 - You know, in past relationships, 652 00:24:16,250 --> 00:24:19,125 I have felt like a burden to them. 653 00:24:19,208 --> 00:24:21,250 - It sucks that you, like, had to go through that. 654 00:24:21,375 --> 00:24:23,667 I'm not like that, so it should be good. 655 00:24:23,750 --> 00:24:26,167 - No, because you're perfect. [laughter] 656 00:24:26,250 --> 00:24:27,792 ♪ 657 00:24:27,875 --> 00:24:29,542 - ♪ I'm stronger than ever 658 00:24:33,375 --> 00:24:38,583 ♪ 659 00:24:38,667 --> 00:24:40,000 - I can't make coffee. 660 00:24:40,042 --> 00:24:42,500 I don't know how to, like, use a coffee pot. 661 00:24:42,542 --> 00:24:44,167 - I have an Nespresso, so I don't need to-- 662 00:24:44,208 --> 00:24:46,125 - Oh, perfect. - Yeah. 663 00:24:46,208 --> 00:24:48,500 - I do love espresso martinis, like, for, like-- 664 00:24:48,583 --> 00:24:50,042 - Those are strong. 665 00:24:50,125 --> 00:24:51,500 ♪ 666 00:24:51,542 --> 00:24:53,667 - I woke up as a wife. 667 00:24:53,750 --> 00:24:54,583 ♪ 668 00:24:54,708 --> 00:24:56,167 We didn't have sex. 669 00:24:56,250 --> 00:25:00,625 We did discuss sex last night, not in lengthy detail, 670 00:25:00,708 --> 00:25:04,375 but we discussed that it's on the table for both of us. 671 00:25:04,458 --> 00:25:06,417 But we just really want to build 672 00:25:06,500 --> 00:25:08,375 that intimate foundation first 673 00:25:08,500 --> 00:25:10,542 before we take the intimacy to sex. 674 00:25:10,625 --> 00:25:12,333 What's your, like-- 675 00:25:12,333 --> 00:25:13,833 my morning routine is a little-- 676 00:25:13,875 --> 00:25:15,667 Like, I have different morning routines. 677 00:25:15,750 --> 00:25:17,792 But, like, in general, like, what do you usually do? 678 00:25:17,875 --> 00:25:19,875 - I like quiet mornings. - Okay. 679 00:25:19,875 --> 00:25:22,375 - I think we just have to see how 680 00:25:22,458 --> 00:25:24,750 we, like, coexist together. - Coexist, yeah. 681 00:25:24,833 --> 00:25:27,500 - I've been living alone for a year and a half now. 682 00:25:27,542 --> 00:25:30,500 And so I've gotten into, like, just being selfish 683 00:25:30,542 --> 00:25:32,625 and, like, my own routine, or lack thereof. 684 00:25:32,708 --> 00:25:34,417 - Of course, yeah. 685 00:25:34,542 --> 00:25:36,500 - Sometimes I get in these moods where I just-- 686 00:25:36,542 --> 00:25:39,125 talking about feelings sometimes 687 00:25:39,208 --> 00:25:41,667 can be a little difficult for me, like, in the moment. 688 00:25:41,708 --> 00:25:44,375 I don't have the mental capacity to do that. 689 00:25:44,458 --> 00:25:45,958 And we're just going to argue a lot. 690 00:25:46,042 --> 00:25:47,500 - Right. - And I don't like arguing. 691 00:25:47,583 --> 00:25:49,250 - Well, I think it's also nice to know, like, 692 00:25:49,333 --> 00:25:50,917 if you can't have the conversation 693 00:25:51,042 --> 00:25:53,083 or you don't have the mental capacity in the moment, 694 00:25:53,208 --> 00:25:55,500 you know, then I think it would actually be nice 695 00:25:55,542 --> 00:25:56,750 to vocalize that. 696 00:25:56,833 --> 00:25:58,792 So we can kind of both understand, 697 00:25:58,875 --> 00:26:00,667 like, we can revisit this later. 698 00:26:00,708 --> 00:26:03,375 - Okay. Shake on it. 699 00:26:03,458 --> 00:26:04,792 - That's our first marriage deal. 700 00:26:04,875 --> 00:26:06,625 - That's our first marriage deal. 701 00:26:06,708 --> 00:26:08,667 - Outside of we're married, this is our second deal. 702 00:26:10,917 --> 00:26:13,625 For brunch, who am I going to be meeting with? 703 00:26:13,708 --> 00:26:16,333 - You're going to be meeting with my mom and sister. 704 00:26:16,417 --> 00:26:17,750 - So that should be fun. - Yeah. 705 00:26:17,833 --> 00:26:20,292 Well, honestly, initially, I was a little scared 706 00:26:20,375 --> 00:26:21,625 for them to meet you... - Mm-hmm. 707 00:26:21,708 --> 00:26:23,583 - Because they are very strong in their opinions. 708 00:26:23,667 --> 00:26:25,750 But then when it got closer, I'm like, 709 00:26:25,875 --> 00:26:28,083 well, I got to really know, you know? 710 00:26:28,208 --> 00:26:31,000 So, like, just, you know, have a field day about it. 711 00:26:31,042 --> 00:26:32,542 - I told the same thing to my dad. 712 00:26:32,667 --> 00:26:34,250 - He got after it. 713 00:26:34,333 --> 00:26:37,000 - Orion, you know it really doesn't matter anything we say 714 00:26:37,042 --> 00:26:39,208 or ask you because you're already married. 715 00:26:39,208 --> 00:26:40,542 - Sure. [laughter] 716 00:26:40,667 --> 00:26:42,000 - So it's not like you need my approval. 717 00:26:42,042 --> 00:26:43,542 It's a done deal. 718 00:26:43,708 --> 00:26:46,917 - But I also would still like your approval. 719 00:26:46,917 --> 00:26:49,417 - Okay. Well, I have to wait and see. 720 00:26:49,542 --> 00:26:51,333 ♪ 721 00:26:51,375 --> 00:26:54,333 - Luckily, you won't be meeting with him today, though. 722 00:26:54,417 --> 00:26:55,583 Do you have any advice for me 723 00:26:55,667 --> 00:26:59,958 when I meet mama bear and sister cub? 724 00:27:00,042 --> 00:27:02,167 - Just be ready for out-of-pocket questions. 725 00:27:02,250 --> 00:27:03,750 - Okay. 726 00:27:03,833 --> 00:27:05,208 Are they going to ask me, like, sex questions? 727 00:27:05,292 --> 00:27:06,833 - No. - Okay. 728 00:27:06,875 --> 00:27:09,125 - No. [clears throat] We're really big on respect. 729 00:27:09,208 --> 00:27:11,000 And then there's always that, you know, 730 00:27:11,083 --> 00:27:13,458 just open-minded to who we are as a people, 731 00:27:13,542 --> 00:27:15,333 who we are as a community. 732 00:27:15,375 --> 00:27:17,625 You know, they kind of feel out your stance. 733 00:27:17,750 --> 00:27:20,083 And then they'll take a second and look at you 734 00:27:20,167 --> 00:27:22,667 and just kind of see, what do you think, you know, 735 00:27:22,792 --> 00:27:25,708 or kind of, like, how do you react to that? 736 00:27:25,792 --> 00:27:27,292 - Okay. Yeah. Yeah. 737 00:27:27,375 --> 00:27:29,000 You're going to have it easier. I'm meeting your mom. 738 00:27:29,042 --> 00:27:30,542 Like, you're her baby. - Mm-hmm. 739 00:27:30,667 --> 00:27:32,000 - Exactly. You're like, mm-hmm. 740 00:27:32,083 --> 00:27:33,542 Yeah. - Yep. 741 00:27:33,625 --> 00:27:35,333 - I should be shaking in my boots right now. 742 00:27:35,417 --> 00:27:41,750 ♪ 743 00:27:41,875 --> 00:27:44,417 - What's up, guys? all: Hey! 744 00:27:44,500 --> 00:27:46,208 - Hello. 745 00:27:46,292 --> 00:27:48,917 - Our couples are still getting to know each other. 746 00:27:49,042 --> 00:27:52,500 So to help provide some insight into who they just married... 747 00:27:52,583 --> 00:27:54,250 - How are you guys? 748 00:27:54,333 --> 00:27:56,167 - We've asked them each to sit down 749 00:27:56,250 --> 00:27:59,417 with their new partner's closest friends and family 750 00:27:59,542 --> 00:28:01,375 before heading out on their honeymoon. 751 00:28:01,458 --> 00:28:03,458 ♪ 752 00:28:03,542 --> 00:28:06,500 - How was last night? - It was good. 753 00:28:06,583 --> 00:28:08,333 I feel like we have so much to talk about. 754 00:28:08,417 --> 00:28:10,042 We just still haven't been able to get through it all. 755 00:28:10,125 --> 00:28:11,583 But I think we all recognize, 756 00:28:11,708 --> 00:28:13,542 like, we have a lot of similar traits. 757 00:28:13,625 --> 00:28:16,917 So we're trying to figure out, like, what that means for us 758 00:28:17,000 --> 00:28:18,667 or, like, how that's going to go. 759 00:28:18,750 --> 00:28:20,125 - We were wondering that, too. 760 00:28:20,208 --> 00:28:21,958 I think it's a good thing, but it also 761 00:28:22,042 --> 00:28:23,667 could create challenges, so it'll be interesting to see. 762 00:28:23,667 --> 00:28:24,708 - What was your first thought 763 00:28:24,833 --> 00:28:26,083 when Emily first came in the door? 764 00:28:26,208 --> 00:28:27,458 - I thought she was beautiful. - Aww. 765 00:28:27,542 --> 00:28:28,833 - Yeah. 766 00:28:28,875 --> 00:28:30,167 - We could tell she was, like, super excited 767 00:28:30,250 --> 00:28:31,542 when we walked in. 768 00:28:31,625 --> 00:28:33,917 But was her energy, like, too much for you? 769 00:28:34,000 --> 00:28:35,792 - No, it was awesome. 770 00:28:35,875 --> 00:28:37,458 Sometimes I get, like, low energy and everything, 771 00:28:37,542 --> 00:28:39,375 so I kind of need that to, like, pull me out of it. 772 00:28:39,458 --> 00:28:41,708 You know? So it's good. 773 00:28:41,833 --> 00:28:43,917 It's a good balance there, for sure. 774 00:28:44,000 --> 00:28:46,458 - So what kind of wife do you think you're going to be? 775 00:28:46,542 --> 00:28:48,500 - So I want to be a great wife. 776 00:28:48,625 --> 00:28:50,167 And I think my mom was a great wife 777 00:28:50,208 --> 00:28:52,000 and why my parents are very happily married. 778 00:28:52,125 --> 00:28:55,625 While I want to be that same, like-- 779 00:28:55,708 --> 00:28:57,417 I don't know what the right word is. 780 00:28:57,500 --> 00:28:58,917 - Nurturing. - Nurturing. 781 00:28:59,000 --> 00:29:01,042 I also think I'm a little bit more, like, career driven. 782 00:29:01,125 --> 00:29:03,375 But I want to, like, have a blend of the both. 783 00:29:03,458 --> 00:29:04,708 Like, still, I haven't decided 784 00:29:04,792 --> 00:29:06,417 if I want to be a stay-at-home mom. 785 00:29:06,500 --> 00:29:07,917 I just do really like work. 786 00:29:08,000 --> 00:29:10,125 Really like having my own little purpose 787 00:29:10,208 --> 00:29:11,500 and now, like, ours, like, to contribute. 788 00:29:11,625 --> 00:29:12,875 ♪ 789 00:29:12,958 --> 00:29:14,458 - Emily tends to work 790 00:29:14,542 --> 00:29:15,667 long days of work. - Yeah. 791 00:29:15,750 --> 00:29:17,833 - Will you be okay if she has to work late? 792 00:29:17,917 --> 00:29:20,333 - I think if we, like, openly communicate about it, 793 00:29:20,417 --> 00:29:22,000 you know, if she tells me, like, ahead of time, 794 00:29:22,083 --> 00:29:23,875 but if it's kind of, like, the last minute 795 00:29:24,000 --> 00:29:25,417 and it happens, like, multiple times, 796 00:29:25,500 --> 00:29:26,750 it's probably going to-- 797 00:29:26,833 --> 00:29:28,667 we need to have a conversation, for sure. 798 00:29:28,750 --> 00:29:30,333 - She loves her job. 799 00:29:30,417 --> 00:29:33,125 She works really hard, and she's really good at it. 800 00:29:33,208 --> 00:29:35,667 So she's quite a worker bee. - Yeah, she is. 801 00:29:35,792 --> 00:29:37,917 ♪ 802 00:29:38,000 --> 00:29:41,208 - How do you feel, like, you are with dealing with conflict? 803 00:29:41,292 --> 00:29:44,167 Like, do you think that's something that you're good at, 804 00:29:44,250 --> 00:29:45,958 you'll be able to handle with Emily? 805 00:29:46,042 --> 00:29:47,667 - I mean, I'm always trying to get better 806 00:29:47,750 --> 00:29:49,375 at dealing with conflict. 807 00:29:49,458 --> 00:29:51,375 You know, I'm not perfect, but I'm working on it, so... 808 00:29:51,458 --> 00:29:52,750 - Okay. 809 00:29:54,375 --> 00:29:58,667 I just feel like there's more I want to know about him. 810 00:29:58,708 --> 00:30:02,042 And I think for me, I just want to see how he is with Emily, 811 00:30:02,125 --> 00:30:05,708 because I think that's more of, like, the true way 812 00:30:05,792 --> 00:30:07,542 to tell his personality 813 00:30:07,625 --> 00:30:09,375 and just how he deals with my sister. 814 00:30:09,458 --> 00:30:10,792 ♪ 815 00:30:10,875 --> 00:30:12,792 - He can be stubborn sometimes. 816 00:30:12,875 --> 00:30:15,083 If something isn't exactly how he wanted it to be, 817 00:30:15,167 --> 00:30:17,458 he might get too hung up on it. 818 00:30:17,542 --> 00:30:20,083 - He does tend to be... 819 00:30:20,167 --> 00:30:22,458 here and there, he tends to be abrupt. 820 00:30:22,542 --> 00:30:24,708 - Abrupt as in, like, a temper? 821 00:30:24,792 --> 00:30:27,000 - He gets a little temper, definitely. 822 00:30:27,125 --> 00:30:28,958 He gets a little temper. 823 00:30:29,042 --> 00:30:33,167 He gets annoyed when things don't go his way. 824 00:30:33,250 --> 00:30:35,167 Sounds about right. - That's fair, yeah. 825 00:30:35,250 --> 00:30:37,625 - Right. 826 00:30:37,708 --> 00:30:41,083 They're both so independent and so driven. 827 00:30:41,167 --> 00:30:43,292 It seems like they're both perfectionists 828 00:30:43,375 --> 00:30:44,833 in their own way. 829 00:30:44,875 --> 00:30:49,167 And perfectionist is a wonderful quality for work. 830 00:30:49,250 --> 00:30:53,125 But those intense perfectionist qualities 831 00:30:53,208 --> 00:30:57,833 at home between two extremely stubborn individuals 832 00:30:57,917 --> 00:30:59,708 is a definite concern of mine. 833 00:30:59,792 --> 00:31:01,750 ♪ 834 00:31:01,875 --> 00:31:04,583 - Emily hasn't been in a serious relationship. 835 00:31:04,667 --> 00:31:07,792 Do you think that that's going to be a challenging issue? 836 00:31:07,875 --> 00:31:09,667 - It wasn't like a, you know, 837 00:31:09,750 --> 00:31:11,542 oh, she wasn't in a relationship, 838 00:31:11,667 --> 00:31:13,167 like, sirens going off. 839 00:31:13,208 --> 00:31:15,667 It's just, I wonder how it's going to be, 840 00:31:15,750 --> 00:31:18,042 because when you, you know, have flings and all that, 841 00:31:18,125 --> 00:31:20,333 it's a totally different kind of vibe 842 00:31:20,458 --> 00:31:23,167 than with someone you're romantically involved with. 843 00:31:23,208 --> 00:31:25,208 There's going to be challenges, you know? 844 00:31:25,333 --> 00:31:27,042 We're just going to have to get through them together. 845 00:31:27,125 --> 00:31:29,333 And we're doing-- 846 00:31:29,375 --> 00:31:31,500 we're establishing that open communication right now. 847 00:31:31,542 --> 00:31:33,000 - Good. 848 00:31:33,083 --> 00:31:35,292 - So we're going to have to rely on each other 849 00:31:35,375 --> 00:31:37,250 to get each other out of, like, our own heads 850 00:31:37,333 --> 00:31:40,208 because this is going to be tough. 851 00:31:40,292 --> 00:31:42,458 ♪ 852 00:31:42,542 --> 00:31:45,708 - So how do you feel about changing your life 853 00:31:45,792 --> 00:31:47,333 from being independent, 854 00:31:47,375 --> 00:31:50,292 never having to be in a relationship? 855 00:31:50,375 --> 00:31:52,250 - Mm-hmm. - And how are you going to-- 856 00:31:52,333 --> 00:31:54,875 what are you going to do to try to adjust to that? 857 00:31:54,958 --> 00:31:56,667 - I mean, I think I have a lot to adjust to, 858 00:31:56,750 --> 00:31:58,708 but that's what I want to, like, be open with him about. 859 00:31:58,833 --> 00:32:00,333 Like, because it's my first relationship, 860 00:32:00,375 --> 00:32:01,958 like, we just need to communicate. 861 00:32:02,042 --> 00:32:03,500 And, like, we're diving into something 862 00:32:03,583 --> 00:32:06,333 pretty crazy and fast together. 863 00:32:06,375 --> 00:32:10,000 But I think we're both here to start figuring out, 864 00:32:10,083 --> 00:32:11,667 like, what our life means together. 865 00:32:11,708 --> 00:32:13,333 ♪ 866 00:32:13,417 --> 00:32:16,542 - I'm worried about her not having past relationships. 867 00:32:16,667 --> 00:32:20,042 I know he's going into this with a very good mindset, 868 00:32:20,125 --> 00:32:21,542 that this is going to work, 869 00:32:21,625 --> 00:32:24,042 so I'm hopeful that she feels the same way. 870 00:32:24,125 --> 00:32:26,083 It sounds like she's at a point in her life 871 00:32:26,167 --> 00:32:28,000 where she's ready to settle down and have her husband. 872 00:32:28,083 --> 00:32:31,125 But, again, I think words can only do so much. 873 00:32:31,208 --> 00:32:32,333 It's going to be about how-- 874 00:32:32,458 --> 00:32:33,958 once they get to the real world, 875 00:32:34,042 --> 00:32:35,458 how this is actually going to play out. 876 00:32:35,542 --> 00:32:38,333 - You know, don't know what lies ahead. 877 00:32:38,417 --> 00:32:41,958 But for me, divorce is not an option in my mind at all. 878 00:32:42,042 --> 00:32:44,167 Like, this has to work, so... 879 00:32:44,250 --> 00:32:45,958 - You're stuck with us? - [laughs] 880 00:32:46,042 --> 00:32:47,625 - More like you're stuck with me. 881 00:32:47,708 --> 00:32:49,375 [laughter] So... 882 00:32:49,500 --> 00:32:50,958 - We'll be happy to be stuck with you. 883 00:32:51,042 --> 00:32:51,917 - Me as well. 884 00:32:55,750 --> 00:32:56,833 [upbeat rock music] 885 00:32:56,875 --> 00:33:00,500 ♪ 886 00:33:00,583 --> 00:33:02,208 - How's the rest of your guys's night? 887 00:33:02,292 --> 00:33:04,333 How you feeling today? - Tired? 888 00:33:04,458 --> 00:33:07,000 What was it like waking up this morning? 889 00:33:07,083 --> 00:33:08,792 - Oh, you're going straight for this morning. 890 00:33:08,875 --> 00:33:10,292 - Yeah. [laughter] 891 00:33:10,375 --> 00:33:12,292 - It was, like, a slow rise. It was really nice. 892 00:33:12,375 --> 00:33:14,167 It seems like she's, like, a night owl. 893 00:33:14,208 --> 00:33:15,667 - Yeah. - Totally. 894 00:33:15,750 --> 00:33:18,500 - Are you a night owl? - I am inherently a night owl. 895 00:33:18,583 --> 00:33:19,833 I work from home. 896 00:33:19,917 --> 00:33:21,917 - Do you like your job? - Yeah. Yeah. 897 00:33:22,000 --> 00:33:24,250 [laughter] I don't know. 898 00:33:24,333 --> 00:33:25,542 I don't like my job as in, like-- 899 00:33:25,708 --> 00:33:26,917 it's not what defines me. - It's not the long haul. 900 00:33:27,000 --> 00:33:28,292 - Does that makes sense? 901 00:33:28,375 --> 00:33:30,042 - I feel like Becca will totally inspire you 902 00:33:30,125 --> 00:33:32,292 to find a job that you love. - Yeah? 903 00:33:32,375 --> 00:33:35,833 - Like, whatever you go for, she's going to-- 904 00:33:35,917 --> 00:33:37,625 - Have your back. That's great. 905 00:33:37,708 --> 00:33:39,167 - Yeah, she's going to wave your flag and be like, 906 00:33:39,250 --> 00:33:40,375 go for it, go for it. - Yeah, yeah. 907 00:33:40,458 --> 00:33:42,000 - I mean, she'll go one step further, too, 908 00:33:42,083 --> 00:33:43,333 and she'll, like, plan things out. 909 00:33:43,417 --> 00:33:45,042 Like, okay, how are we going to do this? 910 00:33:45,125 --> 00:33:46,333 - Really? Great. Love that. 911 00:33:46,417 --> 00:33:47,875 - Yeah. 912 00:33:47,958 --> 00:33:50,625 Becca just thrives off doing whatever 913 00:33:50,708 --> 00:33:52,250 she wants every day all day. 914 00:33:52,375 --> 00:33:54,208 So she'll you rub off on you. - Yeah, yeah. 915 00:33:54,292 --> 00:33:55,750 Yeah. 916 00:33:55,875 --> 00:33:57,667 - Can I get a fork? I don't know how to use chopsticks. 917 00:33:57,750 --> 00:33:59,542 [laughter] 918 00:33:59,625 --> 00:34:02,833 But, anyways, Becca talked to you about her health issues. 919 00:34:02,917 --> 00:34:04,667 - Yes. - How did that go? 920 00:34:04,750 --> 00:34:06,667 - Well, the way she kind of explained it was like, 921 00:34:06,750 --> 00:34:08,083 this is what I have. 922 00:34:08,167 --> 00:34:10,417 This is what I'm doing. It's a nonissue. 923 00:34:10,500 --> 00:34:13,167 I'm like, okay. Great. Sounds good. 924 00:34:13,250 --> 00:34:15,958 - But I think, like, she will downplay it. 925 00:34:16,042 --> 00:34:17,750 Like, she'll be like, oh, it's fine. 926 00:34:17,875 --> 00:34:19,167 - Really? Yeah? 927 00:34:19,250 --> 00:34:20,792 - Like, for Christmas, for example, like, 928 00:34:20,875 --> 00:34:22,333 she just had a major surgery. - Yeah. 929 00:34:22,375 --> 00:34:24,667 - And she was alone recovering through it. 930 00:34:24,792 --> 00:34:26,167 - Oh, wow. 931 00:34:26,250 --> 00:34:28,292 - It's going to make me cry thinking about... 932 00:34:28,375 --> 00:34:30,000 [voice breaking] Because I wouldn't have been able 933 00:34:30,125 --> 00:34:31,292 to do that. 934 00:34:31,375 --> 00:34:34,250 Like, and she just... 935 00:34:34,333 --> 00:34:35,958 She just keeps going 936 00:34:36,042 --> 00:34:38,833 and just, like, sees the light in everything 937 00:34:38,917 --> 00:34:40,208 and is just like, it's fine. 938 00:34:40,333 --> 00:34:42,375 It's fine. Like, I'm going to be fine. 939 00:34:42,500 --> 00:34:44,333 And meeting you and feeling your energy and everything, 940 00:34:44,417 --> 00:34:46,417 I'm like, okay, like, she has someone that's literally going 941 00:34:46,542 --> 00:34:49,167 to be able to walk with her through this. 942 00:34:49,250 --> 00:34:52,917 And it's just--it's all she's ever wanted, you know? 943 00:34:53,042 --> 00:34:54,667 - Yeah. Yeah, yeah. 944 00:34:54,750 --> 00:34:56,583 ♪ 945 00:34:56,667 --> 00:34:58,167 It sucks to hear. 946 00:34:58,250 --> 00:35:00,292 I mean, like, especially, like, around the holidays, 947 00:35:00,375 --> 00:35:02,042 and, like, being by yourself, it's, like, rough. 948 00:35:02,167 --> 00:35:03,667 - Yeah, yeah. 949 00:35:03,708 --> 00:35:06,167 - I will look into it myself to just kind of, 950 00:35:06,208 --> 00:35:07,458 like, have more context with it. 951 00:35:07,583 --> 00:35:09,000 - Yeah. 952 00:35:09,125 --> 00:35:10,667 - If I ever need it, like, I'd love to be able 953 00:35:10,750 --> 00:35:12,542 to reach out to guys about it. - Absolutely. 954 00:35:12,667 --> 00:35:14,792 - I mean, I think I can speak for all of us 955 00:35:14,875 --> 00:35:17,167 that we're all there to do that. 956 00:35:17,250 --> 00:35:20,333 This is also your support system. 957 00:35:20,417 --> 00:35:23,292 - I think Austin passed the test with flying colors 958 00:35:23,375 --> 00:35:25,833 for me of just not feeling overwhelmed 959 00:35:25,875 --> 00:35:27,542 by Becca's health issues. - Yeah. 960 00:35:27,625 --> 00:35:30,417 - I felt really reassured by his reaction to it. 961 00:35:30,500 --> 00:35:32,375 - Becca just forever has said, I want to find my person. 962 00:35:32,375 --> 00:35:34,167 I want to find my person. 963 00:35:34,208 --> 00:35:36,000 And so I think that's just our greatest wish for her, 964 00:35:36,083 --> 00:35:38,125 is that Austin's her person. - Yeah. 965 00:35:38,208 --> 00:35:40,333 So far, so good. - Yeah. 966 00:35:40,417 --> 00:35:42,083 We're just excited for you guys. 967 00:35:42,167 --> 00:35:43,750 - Yeah, me too. - Totally. 968 00:35:43,833 --> 00:35:46,167 And then if anybody had any doubt, that first kiss, dude... 969 00:35:46,292 --> 00:35:48,667 [laughter] Damn. 970 00:35:48,750 --> 00:35:50,833 That first kiss was hot. - No, I'm not kidding. 971 00:35:50,917 --> 00:35:52,500 I was like, yes! 972 00:35:52,542 --> 00:35:55,833 - I was like, you sparked some feelings. 973 00:35:55,875 --> 00:35:57,333 So amen to that. - Mm-hmm. 974 00:35:57,417 --> 00:35:59,875 - We approve. Check. [laughter] 975 00:35:59,958 --> 00:36:05,750 ♪ 976 00:36:05,875 --> 00:36:07,958 - You need sake. - No. 977 00:36:08,083 --> 00:36:10,000 - She needs sake. 978 00:36:10,125 --> 00:36:11,417 - You need sake. both: Yes. 979 00:36:11,500 --> 00:36:13,042 - You need sake? - Bring that, sure. 980 00:36:13,167 --> 00:36:14,458 - I'll be right back with all that. 981 00:36:14,542 --> 00:36:15,500 - Thank you. 982 00:36:15,583 --> 00:36:17,542 - First thoughts after evening one? 983 00:36:17,625 --> 00:36:21,458 - Like, he's very charismatic and, like, very personable. 984 00:36:21,542 --> 00:36:24,708 So, yeah, so I'm gathering he's an extrovert 985 00:36:24,792 --> 00:36:26,125 that loves people. - Yes. 986 00:36:26,208 --> 00:36:27,917 - Yes. - Yeah. 987 00:36:28,000 --> 00:36:29,333 - Every weekend 988 00:36:29,458 --> 00:36:31,667 he is constantly hanging out with friends. 989 00:36:31,750 --> 00:36:33,792 He goes, has an activity, an itinerary. 990 00:36:33,875 --> 00:36:36,250 Would you say that you like that on the weekends? 991 00:36:36,333 --> 00:36:38,458 - I mean, we don't, like, go out, 992 00:36:38,542 --> 00:36:40,500 like, drinking or partying. 993 00:36:40,583 --> 00:36:42,917 But, like, we get together and have, like, themed nights, 994 00:36:43,000 --> 00:36:44,500 like, a muffin bake-off. 995 00:36:44,542 --> 00:36:46,417 And there's always a debate whether, like-- 996 00:36:46,542 --> 00:36:49,750 is a cupcake a muffin, or is a cupcake not a muffin? 997 00:36:49,833 --> 00:36:51,250 So... - Oh, God. 998 00:36:51,333 --> 00:36:52,625 There's another one 999 00:36:52,708 --> 00:36:55,375 I have to have these conversations with now. 1000 00:36:55,458 --> 00:36:57,458 Is a muffin a cupcake, or is a cupcake a muffin? 1001 00:36:57,542 --> 00:37:00,667 Well, you know... [laughter] 1002 00:37:00,750 --> 00:37:02,000 - I know. Sorry. 1003 00:37:02,083 --> 00:37:04,833 I literally feel like I married myself. 1004 00:37:04,917 --> 00:37:08,167 - I worry that they're total strangers to each other. 1005 00:37:08,208 --> 00:37:11,167 And it's a long process 1006 00:37:11,292 --> 00:37:13,333 to get to know somebody else. 1007 00:37:13,417 --> 00:37:16,417 And it will try both of their patience. 1008 00:37:16,542 --> 00:37:19,125 ♪ 1009 00:37:19,208 --> 00:37:21,625 - I mean, you go like, this is all great. 1010 00:37:21,708 --> 00:37:23,833 And I thought last night was phenomenal. 1011 00:37:23,875 --> 00:37:25,083 - Yeah. I agree. 1012 00:37:25,167 --> 00:37:27,125 - Yeah, I thought it was phenomenal. 1013 00:37:27,208 --> 00:37:29,958 But, you know, reality is going to slap you 1014 00:37:30,042 --> 00:37:32,125 in the face, girlfriend. 1015 00:37:32,208 --> 00:37:33,333 - Well, that's marriage. - Yeah. 1016 00:37:33,458 --> 00:37:34,917 That is marriage, yeah. 1017 00:37:35,042 --> 00:37:36,458 - Yeah. - Yeah. 1018 00:37:36,542 --> 00:37:38,625 And, you know, the thing that has always concerned me 1019 00:37:38,708 --> 00:37:41,250 is your heart, his heart. - Yeah, yeah. 1020 00:37:41,333 --> 00:37:43,208 - You know, he's my one and only. 1021 00:37:43,333 --> 00:37:44,250 - Mm-hmm. Yeah. 1022 00:37:44,333 --> 00:37:46,000 - And I'm a mama bear. 1023 00:37:46,042 --> 00:37:47,417 - Yes. 1024 00:37:47,500 --> 00:37:50,167 - My son's heart is number one. 1025 00:37:50,250 --> 00:37:52,292 [laughter] - I know that. 1026 00:37:52,375 --> 00:37:54,667 I think... 1027 00:37:54,750 --> 00:37:58,292 to fall in love is one of the scariest things 1028 00:37:58,375 --> 00:37:59,875 you can do, like, honestly. - Mm-hmm. Yeah. 1029 00:37:59,875 --> 00:38:02,167 - Like, in my head, starting another business, fine. 1030 00:38:02,292 --> 00:38:03,958 Let's go. 1031 00:38:04,042 --> 00:38:06,583 Like, I don't know, training for a triathlon, okay. 1032 00:38:06,708 --> 00:38:09,833 But falling in love, it's opening up your heart 1033 00:38:09,875 --> 00:38:12,083 and literally giving it to someone else and saying, 1034 00:38:12,208 --> 00:38:13,708 I trust you what to do with this. 1035 00:38:13,792 --> 00:38:15,292 - Yes. 1036 00:38:15,375 --> 00:38:17,417 - I think for him to be vulnerable with me 1037 00:38:17,542 --> 00:38:20,542 and for him to eventually give his heart to me 1038 00:38:20,625 --> 00:38:25,125 is one of the greatest gifts that someone can give someone. 1039 00:38:25,208 --> 00:38:26,458 - Wow. - It is. 1040 00:38:26,542 --> 00:38:27,875 - Yeah, whether it be a friendship, 1041 00:38:27,958 --> 00:38:29,167 a romantic relationship. 1042 00:38:29,250 --> 00:38:30,292 - Don't cry. I'll cry, too. 1043 00:38:30,375 --> 00:38:33,167 - Yeah. [laughter] 1044 00:38:33,250 --> 00:38:35,333 - Like, roll down my face. - I know. 1045 00:38:35,458 --> 00:38:39,250 - Good. So you realize how important that is. 1046 00:38:39,375 --> 00:38:40,833 - Yeah, yeah. 1047 00:38:40,833 --> 00:38:45,333 - And I'm trusting you with his heart. 1048 00:38:45,417 --> 00:38:46,667 - I know. 1049 00:38:46,708 --> 00:38:48,292 ♪ 1050 00:38:52,042 --> 00:38:53,458 - ♪ I feel reconnected 1051 00:38:53,458 --> 00:38:55,833 ♪ This life just leveled up 1052 00:38:55,875 --> 00:38:58,208 - Hello. - Hey. 1053 00:38:58,333 --> 00:39:00,333 - How's it going? - How are you? 1054 00:39:00,417 --> 00:39:01,792 - Hi, Cameron. - Hello. 1055 00:39:01,875 --> 00:39:03,833 - How are ya? 1056 00:39:03,917 --> 00:39:06,167 - Nice to see you. 1057 00:39:06,292 --> 00:39:07,375 - How you doing? - So... 1058 00:39:07,458 --> 00:39:08,875 I'm doing well. - Tired? 1059 00:39:09,000 --> 00:39:10,542 - I think I'm tired. 1060 00:39:10,625 --> 00:39:12,292 But I can already tell, like, this is a very good start. 1061 00:39:12,375 --> 00:39:14,208 - Oh, good, yeah. - You know what I mean? 1062 00:39:14,208 --> 00:39:16,542 Like, I feel like there is potential. 1063 00:39:16,625 --> 00:39:18,333 And that's what I know right now. 1064 00:39:18,458 --> 00:39:19,708 - That's good. - Yeah. 1065 00:39:19,792 --> 00:39:21,667 - I know I have a lot of questions. 1066 00:39:21,750 --> 00:39:23,125 Like, long term, 1067 00:39:23,208 --> 00:39:24,875 like, do you think that you're going to be with her? 1068 00:39:24,958 --> 00:39:27,500 Are you attracted to her? I have so many questions. 1069 00:39:27,542 --> 00:39:29,333 - I'm definitely attracted to her. 1070 00:39:29,417 --> 00:39:31,625 It's hard for me to answer the longer-term question. 1071 00:39:31,708 --> 00:39:33,167 - 'Cause you got to find out what you like about her. 1072 00:39:33,250 --> 00:39:35,000 - Yes. 1073 00:39:35,042 --> 00:39:36,583 - So you don't really know what you like about her yet. 1074 00:39:36,667 --> 00:39:38,208 - Yes. - Other than we all love her. 1075 00:39:38,292 --> 00:39:40,292 - Yes. Of course. - Right. 1076 00:39:40,375 --> 00:39:42,333 - How many serious relationships 1077 00:39:42,375 --> 00:39:44,583 have you been in? 1078 00:39:44,667 --> 00:39:47,667 - There's about five that have lasted around the year mark. 1079 00:39:47,833 --> 00:39:50,375 It's usually, like, be in relationship for a year, 1080 00:39:50,458 --> 00:39:52,583 then, like, decompress for a year, 1081 00:39:52,667 --> 00:39:55,000 be in a relationship for a year, like, do me for a year, 1082 00:39:55,083 --> 00:39:56,667 you know? - Mm-hmm. 1083 00:39:56,708 --> 00:39:58,250 - So what makes us think you're not going to do that? 1084 00:39:58,375 --> 00:40:00,083 [laughter] 1085 00:40:00,167 --> 00:40:02,208 Are you going to decompress for a year from my sis? 1086 00:40:02,292 --> 00:40:03,833 'Cause I'll be out for you, so... 1087 00:40:03,917 --> 00:40:05,667 ♪ 1088 00:40:05,708 --> 00:40:08,208 - Well, this is a very different circumstance. 1089 00:40:08,292 --> 00:40:10,083 - Yeah. [chuckles] 1090 00:40:10,167 --> 00:40:12,542 - Do you guys feel like he's ready for marriage, though? 1091 00:40:12,625 --> 00:40:14,500 - Yeah, I don't think he would have signed up 1092 00:40:14,625 --> 00:40:16,208 for this if he wasn't. - Yeah. Okay. 1093 00:40:16,292 --> 00:40:17,833 - He comes off, like, super confident. 1094 00:40:17,917 --> 00:40:20,250 And so you really have to, like, get to know him 1095 00:40:20,333 --> 00:40:21,750 so you get to see, like, his sweet side. 1096 00:40:21,833 --> 00:40:23,167 - Right. 1097 00:40:23,250 --> 00:40:25,458 - As much as he has very logical, 1098 00:40:25,542 --> 00:40:27,542 you know, the engineering mind, 1099 00:40:27,625 --> 00:40:30,167 like, he does have a strong, like, emotional intelligence. 1100 00:40:30,250 --> 00:40:31,875 - Yeah. Would you say he's romantic? 1101 00:40:31,958 --> 00:40:33,333 ♪ 1102 00:40:33,375 --> 00:40:34,833 No. 1103 00:40:34,958 --> 00:40:36,167 - We don't really know. 1104 00:40:36,208 --> 00:40:38,167 ♪ 1105 00:40:38,250 --> 00:40:40,042 - I'm more the kind of person where 1106 00:40:40,042 --> 00:40:44,667 I show my love and affection with my partner physically. 1107 00:40:44,750 --> 00:40:47,000 She verbalizes her feelings. 1108 00:40:47,083 --> 00:40:49,500 This could become a problem. 1109 00:40:49,583 --> 00:40:51,500 If I want to share how I feel, 1110 00:40:51,542 --> 00:40:54,250 I'm going to want to pace the physical side faster. 1111 00:40:54,333 --> 00:40:55,667 - Great, yeah. 1112 00:40:55,667 --> 00:40:57,708 - But I have to be receptive... - Right. 1113 00:40:57,833 --> 00:41:00,458 - That if she's not ready for that, 1114 00:41:00,542 --> 00:41:02,625 that that pacing has to be slowed down. 1115 00:41:02,708 --> 00:41:06,292 And because we are going to do this kind of dance where, 1116 00:41:06,375 --> 00:41:08,792 you know, she's expressing herself verbally 1117 00:41:08,875 --> 00:41:11,375 and I'm trying to figure out, does that mean I kiss you-- 1118 00:41:11,458 --> 00:41:13,167 [laughter] - Yeah. 1119 00:41:13,250 --> 00:41:14,750 Yeah, that's tough. 1120 00:41:14,833 --> 00:41:18,375 - And there's going to be, like, kind of this dance. 1121 00:41:18,458 --> 00:41:19,958 And that will be interesting. 1122 00:41:20,042 --> 00:41:21,292 ♪ 1123 00:41:21,375 --> 00:41:23,167 - I still feel overwhelmed. 1124 00:41:23,250 --> 00:41:25,667 I'm glad we know him now. He seems like a nice guy. 1125 00:41:25,750 --> 00:41:27,542 I still have lots of questions for him. 1126 00:41:27,625 --> 00:41:29,125 I still don't know him. 1127 00:41:29,208 --> 00:41:31,500 I don't know the dynamic between him and Clare yet, 1128 00:41:31,542 --> 00:41:33,667 so there's a lot still to think about. 1129 00:41:33,708 --> 00:41:36,167 I do think you need to be very communicative 1130 00:41:36,333 --> 00:41:38,000 and, like, make sure that you guys are 1131 00:41:38,083 --> 00:41:40,208 in constant communication about how you feel. 1132 00:41:40,292 --> 00:41:41,667 ♪ 1133 00:41:41,708 --> 00:41:44,000 - It's on you guys. - Yeah, exactly. 1134 00:41:44,125 --> 00:41:46,167 Exactly. No pressure. 1135 00:41:46,250 --> 00:41:49,125 [laughter] 1136 00:41:49,208 --> 00:41:56,000 ♪ 1137 00:41:58,208 --> 00:42:00,000 - Hey. - Hello. How are you? 1138 00:42:00,083 --> 00:42:01,250 all: Hi. 1139 00:42:01,375 --> 00:42:02,792 - How are you? So nice to see you again. 1140 00:42:02,875 --> 00:42:05,000 - I know. It's so nice to see you as well. 1141 00:42:05,000 --> 00:42:07,042 - How y'all feeling after last night? 1142 00:42:07,125 --> 00:42:08,333 - Ooh, tired. - Tired? 1143 00:42:08,458 --> 00:42:09,750 [laughter] 1144 00:42:09,833 --> 00:42:11,875 - To marriage and hard questions. 1145 00:42:11,958 --> 00:42:13,917 - Cheers. - Not hard questions. 1146 00:42:14,000 --> 00:42:15,125 [laughter] 1147 00:42:15,250 --> 00:42:17,250 - So, I mean, just, like, right off the bat, 1148 00:42:17,375 --> 00:42:19,500 what are your intentions with my brother? 1149 00:42:19,625 --> 00:42:20,917 - Yeah, yeah, for sure. 1150 00:42:21,000 --> 00:42:23,542 Now that I actually have a face to the person 1151 00:42:23,542 --> 00:42:25,625 I've committed to this whole time, 1152 00:42:25,708 --> 00:42:28,583 I don't know right now-- 1153 00:42:28,667 --> 00:42:30,708 like, I feel like I have a lot to offer someone. 1154 00:42:30,833 --> 00:42:33,042 Honestly, I just want to be 1155 00:42:33,125 --> 00:42:35,167 as loving as a partner as he deserves 1156 00:42:35,292 --> 00:42:37,875 and as loving as a partner that I would want, honestly. 1157 00:42:37,958 --> 00:42:39,917 - That's honestly amazing to hear 1158 00:42:40,000 --> 00:42:43,333 because he's all about reciprocation. 1159 00:42:43,417 --> 00:42:46,542 - Do you think that you are the person 1160 00:42:46,625 --> 00:42:49,542 or could be a good person for her? 1161 00:42:49,625 --> 00:42:51,833 - I think I have the capabilities 1162 00:42:51,958 --> 00:42:53,792 of being a great husband. - Okay. 1163 00:42:53,875 --> 00:42:57,333 - You know, the way I grew up, you know, I had a father. 1164 00:42:57,458 --> 00:42:59,042 You know, he left when I was very young. 1165 00:42:59,125 --> 00:43:00,500 You know, it really-- 1166 00:43:00,583 --> 00:43:02,750 it shifted something in me where, you know, 1167 00:43:02,833 --> 00:43:06,000 I really just wanted to protect my family in any way I can. 1168 00:43:06,042 --> 00:43:07,833 Just whatever they need, you know, 1169 00:43:07,917 --> 00:43:10,833 I really do put myself in the line of fire 1170 00:43:10,917 --> 00:43:13,500 to make sure that they're feeling all right. 1171 00:43:13,542 --> 00:43:15,292 You know, and that's definitely something 1172 00:43:15,292 --> 00:43:18,292 that I would not have an issue doing with Lauren. 1173 00:43:18,375 --> 00:43:20,458 - How do you feel 1174 00:43:20,542 --> 00:43:22,583 now that you are married 1175 00:43:22,667 --> 00:43:24,708 to a strong, independent Black woman? 1176 00:43:24,792 --> 00:43:26,250 - Yeah. - Like, how are you feeling 1177 00:43:26,333 --> 00:43:27,458 in terms of that? 1178 00:43:27,542 --> 00:43:29,208 - Honestly, I'm feeling empowered 1179 00:43:29,292 --> 00:43:31,833 just being her husband. 1180 00:43:31,917 --> 00:43:34,625 You know, I grew up in--the household was ran by women. 1181 00:43:34,708 --> 00:43:39,042 And so women as a whole I hold at a higher regard. 1182 00:43:39,125 --> 00:43:42,167 Being the minority, I would say it's held even higher. 1183 00:43:42,250 --> 00:43:43,833 ♪ 1184 00:43:43,917 --> 00:43:46,333 - I really want us to be able to mesh our cultures 1185 00:43:46,458 --> 00:43:47,875 as much as possible. - Yeah. 1186 00:43:48,042 --> 00:43:49,708 - And, like, I really want this 1187 00:43:49,792 --> 00:43:51,417 to feel like our relationship, 1188 00:43:51,500 --> 00:43:53,500 our home. - Mm-hmm. Yeah. 1189 00:43:53,542 --> 00:43:55,667 - I want him to feel like he belongs. 1190 00:43:55,750 --> 00:43:57,167 - I love that... - Yeah. 1191 00:43:57,208 --> 00:43:59,208 - Yeah, especially the emphasis on belonging... 1192 00:43:59,208 --> 00:44:01,125 - Yeah. - Because, I mean, me and Orion 1193 00:44:01,208 --> 00:44:03,083 both being biracial and, you know, being 1194 00:44:03,208 --> 00:44:05,917 from the reservation and then now living in Denver, 1195 00:44:06,000 --> 00:44:07,667 you know, that was definitely something that we both 1196 00:44:07,708 --> 00:44:09,333 sort of, like, had challenges with. 1197 00:44:09,417 --> 00:44:11,125 So that's-- I love hearing that. 1198 00:44:11,208 --> 00:44:12,833 - Yeah. 1199 00:44:12,875 --> 00:44:15,167 - Do you have any concerns about your age difference? 1200 00:44:15,250 --> 00:44:17,000 - I'm not going to say it's not a concern. 1201 00:44:17,042 --> 00:44:18,542 - Mm-hmm. - But I think 1202 00:44:18,667 --> 00:44:20,458 the concern is diminished now that I've met him. 1203 00:44:20,542 --> 00:44:21,750 - I got you. 1204 00:44:21,875 --> 00:44:23,167 - Even with him living at home, 1205 00:44:23,250 --> 00:44:25,167 like, we talked about that yesterday. 1206 00:44:25,250 --> 00:44:27,458 And I just asked, like, okay, with your time living at home, 1207 00:44:27,542 --> 00:44:29,208 like, what are you doing? 1208 00:44:29,333 --> 00:44:31,500 - It's important for Lauren to be with someone 1209 00:44:31,500 --> 00:44:33,542 who is financially stable. 1210 00:44:33,542 --> 00:44:34,917 - Sure. - Would you say that you are? 1211 00:44:35,042 --> 00:44:36,500 ♪ 1212 00:44:36,500 --> 00:44:38,083 - You know, right now, you know, 1213 00:44:38,208 --> 00:44:39,750 I have the consistent check coming in. 1214 00:44:39,875 --> 00:44:41,500 There's always a job to walk. 1215 00:44:41,542 --> 00:44:43,917 You know, there's more people to talk to. 1216 00:44:44,000 --> 00:44:47,375 So I definitely am very focused on my career 1217 00:44:47,458 --> 00:44:49,708 and what I want to do with it. 1218 00:44:49,833 --> 00:44:51,333 - Just as, like, a rule of thumb, I would just-- 1219 00:44:51,417 --> 00:44:53,833 if he's working, just give him, like, ten minutes after work. 1220 00:44:53,958 --> 00:44:55,375 He doesn't really like to, like, you know, 1221 00:44:55,542 --> 00:44:57,083 get, like, hugs or, you know-- 1222 00:44:57,167 --> 00:44:58,750 It's not personal. - Yeah, that's good to know. 1223 00:44:58,833 --> 00:45:00,542 - He's just--Yeah. 1224 00:45:00,625 --> 00:45:02,083 - Because I'm a very affectionate person. 1225 00:45:02,208 --> 00:45:03,833 So, when he comes home, I'm like, 1226 00:45:03,833 --> 00:45:05,208 I'm going to want to talk to you and hug you. 1227 00:45:05,292 --> 00:45:06,875 And, like, now that I have these heads-up, 1228 00:45:07,000 --> 00:45:08,708 I think it'll be good for us moving forward 1229 00:45:08,708 --> 00:45:10,083 because I'm an overthinker. - Yeah. 1230 00:45:10,167 --> 00:45:12,042 - And so without knowing that, I'd be like, 1231 00:45:12,167 --> 00:45:13,167 you don't like me? 1232 00:45:13,208 --> 00:45:14,667 ♪ 1233 00:45:14,708 --> 00:45:16,208 - She is one of those individuals 1234 00:45:16,292 --> 00:45:18,000 that sometimes she does get in her head a lot. 1235 00:45:18,042 --> 00:45:19,250 - Get lost in thoughts. - Yeah. 1236 00:45:19,458 --> 00:45:21,417 Sometimes you may have to reel her in and say, hey, 1237 00:45:21,500 --> 00:45:22,792 we're in the present. 1238 00:45:22,875 --> 00:45:24,333 Remember where we are. 1239 00:45:24,417 --> 00:45:26,667 - Because she's so used to doing everything herself. 1240 00:45:26,750 --> 00:45:28,958 She's always had to be independent. 1241 00:45:28,958 --> 00:45:30,833 She's a strong Black woman. 1242 00:45:30,917 --> 00:45:32,500 - It will take some getting used to probably 1243 00:45:32,583 --> 00:45:33,750 as well for her. - Yeah. 1244 00:45:33,875 --> 00:45:34,875 - That could be something 1245 00:45:35,000 --> 00:45:37,000 you all can work navigating together. 1246 00:45:37,083 --> 00:45:39,292 And that's going to take time. - Yeah. Okay. 1247 00:45:39,375 --> 00:45:42,708 ♪ 1248 00:45:46,667 --> 00:45:47,667 ♪ 1249 00:45:47,875 --> 00:45:49,833 - ♪ All along, heading in the... ♪ 1250 00:45:49,917 --> 00:45:51,583 - I'm back. - How'd it go? 1251 00:45:51,708 --> 00:45:53,292 - Mm. How are you? 1252 00:45:53,375 --> 00:45:55,000 - Doing well. 1253 00:45:55,042 --> 00:45:57,167 - How you doing? - [laughing] Good. 1254 00:45:57,250 --> 00:46:00,583 - How are you doing? - I'm good. 1255 00:46:00,667 --> 00:46:02,417 - How did talking to my family go? 1256 00:46:02,500 --> 00:46:03,625 - It went well. 1257 00:46:03,708 --> 00:46:05,208 - Really? - Oh, yeah. 1258 00:46:05,208 --> 00:46:07,750 - Okay, good. - I learned... 1259 00:46:07,833 --> 00:46:10,083 I think what we suspected... - Right. 1260 00:46:10,208 --> 00:46:13,250 - Which is that we're going to have to work 1261 00:46:13,333 --> 00:46:14,708 on our communication 1262 00:46:14,833 --> 00:46:17,167 when it comes to our feelings about each other. 1263 00:46:17,250 --> 00:46:21,583 There's potentially going to be crossed wires or... 1264 00:46:21,708 --> 00:46:23,667 - Yikes. - Misread messages. 1265 00:46:23,708 --> 00:46:24,833 - Right. Yeah. 1266 00:46:24,917 --> 00:46:26,708 - So what happened with the parents? 1267 00:46:26,833 --> 00:46:29,000 - Parents was good. 1268 00:46:29,125 --> 00:46:32,125 Your mom, like, asked about the relationship stuff again. 1269 00:46:32,208 --> 00:46:34,000 And I was just like, it wasn't-- 1270 00:46:34,083 --> 00:46:35,875 like, it wasn't a concern knowing 1271 00:46:35,958 --> 00:46:38,625 that you weren't in a relationship. 1272 00:46:38,708 --> 00:46:40,125 - That's what I was kind of saying, too, 1273 00:46:40,208 --> 00:46:41,500 is, like, why I want to focus 1274 00:46:41,542 --> 00:46:43,000 on communication, because, like, obviously, 1275 00:46:43,042 --> 00:46:44,333 I haven't been in relationships. 1276 00:46:44,375 --> 00:46:46,000 Like, even though I am an open book, 1277 00:46:46,125 --> 00:46:47,875 I'm sure there are going to be times where it's not 1278 00:46:47,958 --> 00:46:49,375 going to be, like, as easy. 1279 00:46:49,458 --> 00:46:52,167 - Never hold back on me. That's all I ask. 1280 00:46:52,167 --> 00:46:54,833 Like, if you want to cuddle, just grab me, like, 1281 00:46:54,875 --> 00:46:57,333 to do whatever you want to do, you know what I mean? 1282 00:46:57,500 --> 00:46:59,667 We're going to figure it out because, you know, 1283 00:46:59,792 --> 00:47:01,500 I'm, like, super into you. - Yeah. 1284 00:47:01,542 --> 00:47:03,042 - So, like, yeah. 1285 00:47:03,042 --> 00:47:04,833 ♪ 1286 00:47:04,958 --> 00:47:06,667 - I got my hair braided for the honeymoon. 1287 00:47:06,708 --> 00:47:08,292 - Ooh, that's exciting. 1288 00:47:08,375 --> 00:47:09,833 - Could you just lay my hair down, so I can, 1289 00:47:09,917 --> 00:47:11,792 like, lay my edges down? - Okay. 1290 00:47:11,792 --> 00:47:14,292 - You know what that means? - Yes, I do. I do. 1291 00:47:14,375 --> 00:47:16,083 - Yeah, so I'm just going to keep it on till tomorrow? 1292 00:47:16,167 --> 00:47:17,667 - How was the appointment? - It was good. 1293 00:47:17,750 --> 00:47:19,167 It was a nice catching up with her. 1294 00:47:19,250 --> 00:47:20,083 I hadn't seen her in a minute, so it was good. 1295 00:47:20,208 --> 00:47:21,792 - Nice. - A little long. 1296 00:47:21,875 --> 00:47:24,583 - Is she your usual go-to? 1297 00:47:24,667 --> 00:47:25,792 - I have two main braiders, yeah. 1298 00:47:25,875 --> 00:47:27,208 - Okay. Okay. 1299 00:47:27,292 --> 00:47:28,917 [knock at door] - Who's that? 1300 00:47:29,000 --> 00:47:30,458 - Let's see. I'll get it. I'll get it. 1301 00:47:30,542 --> 00:47:31,458 - Okay. 1302 00:47:34,042 --> 00:47:35,292 - Ooh. 1303 00:47:35,375 --> 00:47:37,667 We got gifts, baby. - Oh, no way. 1304 00:47:37,750 --> 00:47:40,208 - We got gifts. - Exciting. 1305 00:47:40,292 --> 00:47:41,958 - I wonder what this could be. 1306 00:47:42,042 --> 00:47:45,292 - [vocalizing] - What's that? 1307 00:47:45,375 --> 00:47:48,167 both: Ooh. 1308 00:47:48,208 --> 00:47:52,833 - "Tomorrow you will be heading to the Grand Palla"-- 1309 00:47:52,917 --> 00:47:54,833 Help. [laughter] 1310 00:47:54,917 --> 00:47:58,000 - The Grand Palladium Costa-- What? 1311 00:47:58,125 --> 00:48:00,208 How do I pronounce that? - Mujeres. 1312 00:48:00,292 --> 00:48:01,542 - Resort. 1313 00:48:01,667 --> 00:48:02,833 A spa in beautiful... 1314 00:48:02,875 --> 00:48:04,917 both: Cancún, Mexico. 1315 00:48:05,000 --> 00:48:06,375 - Viva la México! 1316 00:48:06,458 --> 00:48:08,042 Where's our flag? 1317 00:48:08,125 --> 00:48:09,667 ♪ 1318 00:48:09,750 --> 00:48:11,583 - I burn quick. - You burn quick? 1319 00:48:11,667 --> 00:48:13,000 - Very, very quick. 1320 00:48:13,125 --> 00:48:14,750 And, yeah, I've got the Irish skin. 1321 00:48:14,875 --> 00:48:16,792 - I mean, I could be used as a traffic signal. 1322 00:48:16,875 --> 00:48:19,417 - Right. [laughter] 1323 00:48:19,542 --> 00:48:21,833 - They got us T-shirts. - "Wifey." Yeah. 1324 00:48:21,875 --> 00:48:24,875 - Hawaiian shirts. 1325 00:48:24,958 --> 00:48:27,125 - We're going to have no friends. 1326 00:48:27,208 --> 00:48:28,875 - First travel trip. - I know. 1327 00:48:28,958 --> 00:48:30,792 - Now we got to take this and go pack. 1328 00:48:30,792 --> 00:48:32,000 - And hope for the best. 1329 00:48:32,042 --> 00:48:33,708 Cheers. - To the best. 1330 00:48:33,792 --> 00:48:36,125 - Beach towels, some sunscreen... 1331 00:48:36,208 --> 00:48:37,667 - How does that look? 1332 00:48:37,750 --> 00:48:39,500 Ooh, I got to drop my ponytail. 1333 00:48:39,583 --> 00:48:41,208 - You look cute. I love that. 1334 00:48:41,292 --> 00:48:42,667 ♪ 1335 00:48:42,750 --> 00:48:44,625 - So I really like color. 1336 00:48:44,708 --> 00:48:46,833 I got orange, a fun one-piece. 1337 00:48:46,875 --> 00:48:48,000 I don't really know how it goes on yet. 1338 00:48:48,042 --> 00:48:50,333 I got to figure that out. 1339 00:48:50,417 --> 00:48:53,667 I'm so happy to get out of this tundra. 1340 00:48:53,708 --> 00:48:56,208 I think we'll probably get to figure each other out 1341 00:48:56,208 --> 00:48:57,458 in, like, the bedroom more. 1342 00:48:57,542 --> 00:48:59,625 I did pack all my bachelorette props-- 1343 00:48:59,708 --> 00:49:01,250 fuzzy handcuffs, lingerie. 1344 00:49:01,375 --> 00:49:04,500 I did not bring the whip, though. 1345 00:49:04,625 --> 00:49:06,208 It takes up too much space, 1346 00:49:06,333 --> 00:49:08,500 and I think it's just too aggressive. 1347 00:49:08,542 --> 00:49:09,667 Yep. 1348 00:49:11,208 --> 00:49:13,958 ♪ 1349 00:49:14,042 --> 00:49:16,375 - Check out that. [laughs] - I like it. 1350 00:49:16,458 --> 00:49:19,083 I feel like it would look nice on me 1351 00:49:19,208 --> 00:49:21,042 with this pattern that's already happening. 1352 00:49:21,125 --> 00:49:23,708 You've got a tiny head. That fit me perfectly. 1353 00:49:23,792 --> 00:49:25,208 - Do you have a tiny head? 1354 00:49:25,292 --> 00:49:27,000 - I don't know. Do I have a big head? 1355 00:49:27,042 --> 00:49:28,792 - Maybe you just have a normal head. 1356 00:49:28,875 --> 00:49:30,500 Why can't we just both be normal? 1357 00:49:30,542 --> 00:49:32,917 [both chuckle] - Certainly not in the cards. 1358 00:49:33,042 --> 00:49:34,458 ♪ 1359 00:49:34,542 --> 00:49:35,667 Wow. 1360 00:49:35,750 --> 00:49:37,667 Show me them swimmers, boy. 1361 00:49:37,792 --> 00:49:39,250 I wish I could do the... 1362 00:49:39,375 --> 00:49:41,083 [imitates wolf-whistle] Whistle. 1363 00:49:41,167 --> 00:49:43,708 [imitates wolf-whistle] - That's great. 1364 00:49:43,792 --> 00:49:45,500 I'm really hot in three shirts. 1365 00:49:45,583 --> 00:49:47,500 - Well, you did it to yourself. - [laughs] 1366 00:49:47,542 --> 00:49:48,833 - Take it off and pack it, right? 1367 00:49:48,917 --> 00:49:50,250 - What? 1368 00:49:50,375 --> 00:49:51,833 - Take off your clothes and pack them. 1369 00:49:51,833 --> 00:49:53,042 - [laughs] 1370 00:49:53,125 --> 00:49:54,833 That's a good point. 1371 00:49:54,833 --> 00:49:56,542 - We're going to have fun. 1372 00:49:56,625 --> 00:49:57,917 We already have fun in a room with nothing to do 1373 00:49:58,000 --> 00:49:59,542 and nowhere to go, 1374 00:49:59,625 --> 00:50:02,542 so it already feels like, put us in an activity, 1375 00:50:02,625 --> 00:50:04,750 and the sky's the limit. 1376 00:50:04,833 --> 00:50:06,375 Can I see you naked? 1377 00:50:06,458 --> 00:50:07,500 - [chuckles] 1378 00:50:11,542 --> 00:50:13,750 [upbeat music] 1379 00:50:13,750 --> 00:50:15,792 ♪ 1380 00:50:15,875 --> 00:50:17,792 - Are you excited? - So excited. 1381 00:50:17,875 --> 00:50:19,125 - I'm very excited. 1382 00:50:19,208 --> 00:50:21,292 I just can't believe how small... 1383 00:50:21,375 --> 00:50:23,833 - So we're about to go to Mexico. 1384 00:50:23,875 --> 00:50:25,167 I'm a light packer. - Yeah. 1385 00:50:25,292 --> 00:50:27,125 That's a good thing, you know, minimalist. 1386 00:50:27,208 --> 00:50:29,875 - You have my clothes as well, right? 1387 00:50:30,000 --> 00:50:31,625 - No. You have-- [laughs] 1388 00:50:31,708 --> 00:50:33,500 ♪ 1389 00:50:33,625 --> 00:50:36,167 - Obviously, Clare needs to get used to my sense of humor, 1390 00:50:36,208 --> 00:50:37,875 I think, so hopefully-- - I think you're hilarious. 1391 00:50:38,000 --> 00:50:39,667 I'm laughing. 1392 00:50:39,792 --> 00:50:43,167 - So hopefully, you know, a few days in a foreign country 1393 00:50:43,208 --> 00:50:45,458 will really get her used to that. 1394 00:50:45,542 --> 00:50:47,167 - Hey. - Hello. 1395 00:50:47,250 --> 00:50:48,250 - What's up? - I'm Clare. 1396 00:50:48,333 --> 00:50:50,417 both: Nice to meet you. 1397 00:50:50,417 --> 00:50:51,917 - Congratulations on the marriage. 1398 00:50:52,000 --> 00:50:53,000 - Thank you. You too. 1399 00:50:53,042 --> 00:50:54,583 - Hell, yeah. - Hi. I'm Becca. 1400 00:50:54,667 --> 00:50:57,083 both: Nice to meet you. 1401 00:50:57,167 --> 00:50:58,875 - You guys look great. - Hi. 1402 00:50:58,958 --> 00:51:00,125 - Brennan... 1403 00:51:00,208 --> 00:51:02,167 - And Emily are cute as hell. 1404 00:51:02,208 --> 00:51:03,750 - You guys are adorable. 1405 00:51:03,833 --> 00:51:05,458 - Oh, you're wearing the bride hat. 1406 00:51:05,542 --> 00:51:07,333 - Clare and Cameron... - There's a size difference. 1407 00:51:07,375 --> 00:51:09,458 - There's just a few inches in between them. 1408 00:51:09,542 --> 00:51:11,000 - Hey. - Hey! 1409 00:51:11,083 --> 00:51:14,208 - Orion and Lauren-- I really like them. 1410 00:51:14,292 --> 00:51:16,750 - Lauren and Orion feel like they have been together 1411 00:51:16,875 --> 00:51:17,958 for 16 years. 1412 00:51:18,042 --> 00:51:20,542 - Want to sit down? - Sure. 1413 00:51:20,625 --> 00:51:23,708 - This is their 20th anniversary honeymoon--math. 1414 00:51:23,792 --> 00:51:25,917 [laughter] 1415 00:51:26,042 --> 00:51:29,042 - Hi! - Yo. 1416 00:51:29,167 --> 00:51:31,625 - What's up, man? - Where's your wife? 1417 00:51:31,708 --> 00:51:33,667 - Oh, we'll get into that. Don't worry. 1418 00:51:33,792 --> 00:51:35,333 all: Oh. - We'll get into that. 1419 00:51:35,417 --> 00:51:36,667 - Oh, no. 1420 00:51:36,708 --> 00:51:39,208 - What's going on, if you don't mind sharing? 1421 00:51:39,292 --> 00:51:40,750 - You know, wedding day came around. 1422 00:51:40,875 --> 00:51:43,250 And she comes down. 1423 00:51:43,333 --> 00:51:47,208 She pauses for a moment and then essentially states 1424 00:51:47,292 --> 00:51:49,167 that she doesn't want to marry a stranger. 1425 00:51:49,292 --> 00:51:52,333 [serious music] 1426 00:51:52,458 --> 00:51:53,958 ♪ 1427 00:51:54,042 --> 00:51:55,875 - I wonder, like, why she decided 1428 00:51:55,958 --> 00:51:57,333 to do it, like, at the altar. - Yeah. 1429 00:51:57,417 --> 00:51:59,625 - Like, I feel like she had opportunities to, like, 1430 00:51:59,708 --> 00:52:01,542 not put you through that. - I agree. 1431 00:52:01,625 --> 00:52:04,500 - It does make you wonder, though--was she even ready? 1432 00:52:04,583 --> 00:52:06,833 - Yeah, that's--yeah. - I mean, clearly, she was not. 1433 00:52:06,917 --> 00:52:10,667 - Did you guys, like, get a chance to just, like, talk? 1434 00:52:10,792 --> 00:52:13,667 - No. So she left a note. 1435 00:52:13,708 --> 00:52:15,833 And that was our real only contact. 1436 00:52:15,958 --> 00:52:18,708 - Would that be something you want to do, is talk to her? 1437 00:52:18,875 --> 00:52:22,208 - I would definitely entertain it, but I don't need it. 1438 00:52:22,292 --> 00:52:25,542 I'm not entitled to an apology. 1439 00:52:25,625 --> 00:52:29,375 You don't need to apologize to me for making a decision 1440 00:52:29,458 --> 00:52:31,875 that you feel is best for you. 1441 00:52:31,958 --> 00:52:33,500 So those-- 1442 00:52:33,583 --> 00:52:36,167 - Mike, you're going to be a great husband. 1443 00:52:36,208 --> 00:52:38,375 - I feel like, [bleep], you do owe me an apology. 1444 00:52:38,542 --> 00:52:39,667 Like... 1445 00:52:39,708 --> 00:52:42,250 - I just wish she at least was open-minded 1446 00:52:42,375 --> 00:52:43,833 and, like, gave you a chance. 1447 00:52:43,875 --> 00:52:45,875 - You know, for me, the idea 1448 00:52:45,958 --> 00:52:48,625 of this relationship not working out, 1449 00:52:48,708 --> 00:52:51,250 I identified that as, that could be potentially 1450 00:52:51,333 --> 00:52:53,750 the biggest failure I've experienced personally. 1451 00:52:53,833 --> 00:52:57,333 And regardless of the level of control or influence 1452 00:52:57,417 --> 00:52:59,250 I had over the situation, 1453 00:52:59,333 --> 00:53:01,500 you know, unfortunately, for me, I still feel that. 1454 00:53:01,542 --> 00:53:04,125 ♪ 1455 00:53:04,208 --> 00:53:06,042 - You didn't get a shot. 1456 00:53:06,125 --> 00:53:07,500 - Yeah, and sometimes that feels worse, right? 1457 00:53:07,583 --> 00:53:08,458 ♪ 1458 00:53:08,542 --> 00:53:12,125 - I want to say your composure-- 1459 00:53:12,208 --> 00:53:14,958 it really makes me think 1460 00:53:15,042 --> 00:53:18,000 that you're the guy that we all want in our trench with us. 1461 00:53:18,042 --> 00:53:20,667 Like, you would be there no matter what. 1462 00:53:20,708 --> 00:53:23,500 It's incredible to see how you've handled this. 1463 00:53:23,625 --> 00:53:25,542 - Maybe this experience will bring you your wife, 1464 00:53:25,625 --> 00:53:27,333 just not in the way that you thought. 1465 00:53:27,375 --> 00:53:28,875 - I know. It's so cliché, but I do believe 1466 00:53:28,958 --> 00:53:30,500 everything happens for a reason. 1467 00:53:30,542 --> 00:53:32,250 So, even though, like, in this moment, you're disappointed-- 1468 00:53:32,375 --> 00:53:34,458 I think we all are--like, I believe this is going 1469 00:53:34,542 --> 00:53:36,500 to pay off for you in the long run. 1470 00:53:36,542 --> 00:53:39,000 - But you got to be there to open the door. 1471 00:53:39,125 --> 00:53:40,500 - Yeah. - Yeah. 1472 00:53:40,542 --> 00:53:42,125 - I would also like to cordially invite you 1473 00:53:42,208 --> 00:53:43,708 to the rest of our honeymoon. 1474 00:53:43,792 --> 00:53:45,375 [all cheering] - Please! 1475 00:53:45,458 --> 00:53:46,833 ♪ 1476 00:53:46,917 --> 00:53:49,250 - I promise you, you can fit in Clare's bag. 1477 00:53:49,333 --> 00:53:51,792 [laughter] - True. That's probably true. 1478 00:53:51,875 --> 00:53:54,167 - Well, thank you, guys. That means a lot. 1479 00:53:54,208 --> 00:53:55,750 - Cheers to you. - Yeah, cheers. 1480 00:53:55,875 --> 00:53:57,083 - Thank you. 1481 00:53:57,167 --> 00:53:59,375 - Cheers to Michael. - Cheers to Mike. 1482 00:53:59,458 --> 00:54:01,167 - Thank you. - And whoever finally gets 1483 00:54:01,292 --> 00:54:04,125 to marry him, like, honestly... - Thank you, guys. 1484 00:54:04,208 --> 00:54:06,250 I definitely feel a lot of love from them. 1485 00:54:06,333 --> 00:54:08,625 I mean, obviously, I'm not coming on the honeymoon. 1486 00:54:08,708 --> 00:54:11,417 But the fact that they would even entertain the idea 1487 00:54:11,542 --> 00:54:14,083 of me being there and have me be a part of their journey 1488 00:54:14,208 --> 00:54:16,208 in some way, shape, or form, you know, 1489 00:54:16,292 --> 00:54:18,875 that's extremely flattering. 1490 00:54:18,958 --> 00:54:22,625 Well, you guys have a lovely, lovely honeymoon. 1491 00:54:22,708 --> 00:54:25,292 I am insanely jealous, but not because of the honeymoon, 1492 00:54:25,375 --> 00:54:27,542 but because of all the little cuteness I see here 1493 00:54:27,625 --> 00:54:29,167 with all you guys as couples. - Aw. 1494 00:54:29,208 --> 00:54:30,667 - So you guys have a wonderful time. 1495 00:54:30,750 --> 00:54:32,667 And I'm so glad I got to meet you guys. 1496 00:54:32,708 --> 00:54:34,375 - Yeah, we'll miss you. - Take care. 1497 00:54:34,500 --> 00:54:35,500 - Bye, Mike. - Yeah. 1498 00:54:35,583 --> 00:54:37,042 Great guy, man. Great guy. 1499 00:54:37,125 --> 00:54:39,000 We love Mike. We love Mike. 1500 00:54:39,083 --> 00:54:41,500 - What's next for me is just... 1501 00:54:41,583 --> 00:54:43,500 going through what I need to go through 1502 00:54:43,625 --> 00:54:45,500 to continue to process this. 1503 00:54:45,542 --> 00:54:47,167 And there's going to be things that I know I'm not going 1504 00:54:47,292 --> 00:54:49,667 to enjoy feeling, but accepting that 1505 00:54:49,750 --> 00:54:51,208 and then allowing me to feel it 1506 00:54:51,333 --> 00:54:52,625 and kind of going from there. 1507 00:54:52,708 --> 00:54:55,750 ♪ 1508 00:54:55,875 --> 00:54:57,833 - ♪ I'm going to make my own way ♪ 1509 00:54:57,875 --> 00:55:00,250 ♪ Nothing's going to get in my way ♪ 1510 00:55:00,333 --> 00:55:02,542 ♪ I don't want to wait, no time to waste ♪ 1511 00:55:02,625 --> 00:55:04,333 ♪ Come on, let's chase the sun ♪ 1512 00:55:04,417 --> 00:55:05,958 - Hey, guys. Where we going? 1513 00:55:06,042 --> 00:55:09,250 - Cancún, Mexico! [all cheering] 1514 00:55:09,333 --> 00:55:11,667 - Are we excited? all: Yeah! 1515 00:55:11,750 --> 00:55:13,333 - ♪ Come on, let's chase the sun ♪ 1516 00:55:13,417 --> 00:55:15,458 - What are you guys most excited for? 1517 00:55:15,542 --> 00:55:17,667 - The warm weather, period, the warmth. 1518 00:55:17,750 --> 00:55:18,792 - Yeah, agreed. 1519 00:55:18,875 --> 00:55:20,000 - You two? - Tequila. 1520 00:55:20,083 --> 00:55:22,083 all: Tequila. [laughter] 1521 00:55:22,167 --> 00:55:24,042 - You two? 1522 00:55:24,125 --> 00:55:26,833 - I'm excited for adventures and apparently margaritas. 1523 00:55:26,917 --> 00:55:28,167 [laughter] 1524 00:55:28,292 --> 00:55:30,042 - Have you guys been to Cancún before? 1525 00:55:30,125 --> 00:55:31,417 - Yes. - Yes. 1526 00:55:31,542 --> 00:55:33,167 - We do got to be careful in Cancún. 1527 00:55:33,292 --> 00:55:35,042 So, like, we can't go too off the reservation. 1528 00:55:35,167 --> 00:55:37,417 - Oh. - Sorry. Sorry. 1529 00:55:37,500 --> 00:55:38,833 - No, you're fine. You're good. 1530 00:55:38,917 --> 00:55:39,917 - Wow! - No, no. 1531 00:55:40,000 --> 00:55:41,292 - What did he say? - Racist. 1532 00:55:41,375 --> 00:55:42,708 - He meant to say resort, 1533 00:55:42,833 --> 00:55:44,792 but he said, we can't go too far off the reservation. 1534 00:55:44,875 --> 00:55:47,000 And then he looks at my husband and says, oh, sorry. 1535 00:55:47,042 --> 00:55:48,750 [laughter] - It's okay. 1536 00:55:48,875 --> 00:55:51,833 I can hear ignorance, and you're fine. 1537 00:55:51,917 --> 00:55:54,625 - Ignorance is not a bad word. It just means not knowing. 1538 00:55:54,708 --> 00:55:56,583 - Yeah. Yeah. It's okay. 1539 00:55:56,667 --> 00:55:58,500 - Well, what about willful ignorance? 1540 00:55:58,583 --> 00:56:01,375 [laughter] - Jokes. 1541 00:56:01,458 --> 00:56:03,208 - This is going to be an entertaining bunch. 1542 00:56:03,292 --> 00:56:04,750 ♪ 1543 00:56:04,833 --> 00:56:06,333 - Ready for sunshine? - Vámonos. 1544 00:56:06,458 --> 00:56:08,833 - All right, let's go. - You got it. 1545 00:56:08,917 --> 00:56:10,375 - Ooh! [laughs] 1546 00:56:10,458 --> 00:56:11,833 I just jumped off. 1547 00:56:11,917 --> 00:56:12,917 - It's bigger than you, Clare, baby. 1548 00:56:13,000 --> 00:56:14,667 - I know. This thing is-- 1549 00:56:14,708 --> 00:56:15,917 Hoo. 1550 00:56:16,000 --> 00:56:18,167 - Aw, look at that. 1551 00:56:18,250 --> 00:56:21,833 ♪ 1552 00:56:21,958 --> 00:56:24,000 - I'm going to take the window seat, by the way. 1553 00:56:24,083 --> 00:56:25,250 - I want the aisle, so... 1554 00:56:25,333 --> 00:56:27,083 - Okay, great. - That's perfect. 1555 00:56:27,208 --> 00:56:28,375 - Oh, my God. 1556 00:56:28,458 --> 00:56:30,125 - Tired, hungry. - Does he sleep on a plane? 1557 00:56:30,208 --> 00:56:31,833 Does he talk on a plane? 1558 00:56:31,958 --> 00:56:34,750 Does he listen to music without headphones on a plane? 1559 00:56:34,833 --> 00:56:37,083 No, you do not. - Who doesn't? 1560 00:56:37,083 --> 00:56:39,292 - Do you really listen to music without headphones on a plane? 1561 00:56:39,375 --> 00:56:40,458 - No. Who does that? 1562 00:56:40,542 --> 00:56:41,875 - I just needed to double-check. 1563 00:56:41,958 --> 00:56:43,833 [laughs] 1564 00:56:43,875 --> 00:56:45,292 - Let's go! 1565 00:56:45,375 --> 00:56:51,500 ♪ 1566 00:56:55,542 --> 00:56:57,042 [upbeat tropical music] 1567 00:56:57,042 --> 00:56:58,417 ♪ 1568 00:56:58,417 --> 00:57:00,500 - Just touched down in Cancún. 1569 00:57:00,625 --> 00:57:02,667 Ready for our honeymoon. 1570 00:57:02,750 --> 00:57:04,667 - Whee. 1571 00:57:04,667 --> 00:57:11,542 ♪ 1572 00:57:11,625 --> 00:57:14,042 - All right, we're here in Mexico. 1573 00:57:14,125 --> 00:57:15,500 Everybody say hi. 1574 00:57:15,542 --> 00:57:18,000 [all cheering] 1575 00:57:18,042 --> 00:57:21,167 - Unfortunately, Brennan and Emily couldn't make it. 1576 00:57:21,208 --> 00:57:23,792 - They came early. - Surprise. 1577 00:57:23,875 --> 00:57:24,875 - We made it. 1578 00:57:24,958 --> 00:57:31,375 ♪ 1579 00:57:31,458 --> 00:57:33,750 - Pull the handle, push the door--there we go. 1580 00:57:33,833 --> 00:57:36,333 - We're in Mexico, guys. - Yay. 1581 00:57:36,458 --> 00:57:39,000 ♪ 1582 00:57:39,083 --> 00:57:41,792 - We're thirsty. - And we have welcome drinks. 1583 00:57:41,875 --> 00:57:44,000 - Bienvenido. - Cheers to honeymoons. 1584 00:57:44,083 --> 00:57:45,250 - Cheers! - We made it. 1585 00:57:45,333 --> 00:57:47,292 - Honeymoons! - Cheers! 1586 00:57:47,375 --> 00:57:49,500 [all cheering] 1587 00:57:49,583 --> 00:57:51,375 - Let's go, guys. - Let's go. 1588 00:57:51,375 --> 00:57:52,333 - Here we go. 1589 00:57:52,375 --> 00:57:54,417 - Wow. - This is nice. 1590 00:57:54,500 --> 00:57:56,125 Look at this. 1591 00:57:56,208 --> 00:57:57,458 Oh. 1592 00:57:57,542 --> 00:57:59,500 - Ooh. Oh, it's double level. 1593 00:57:59,542 --> 00:58:00,792 - Oh, what? 1594 00:58:00,875 --> 00:58:03,125 [upbeat music] 1595 00:58:03,208 --> 00:58:04,917 - Cheers. - Cheers. 1596 00:58:05,000 --> 00:58:06,333 - Happy honeymoon. - Happy honeymoon. 1597 00:58:06,417 --> 00:58:07,833 [chuckles] 1598 00:58:07,958 --> 00:58:09,458 ♪ 1599 00:58:09,542 --> 00:58:10,958 Do you want to go unpack a little bit and kind of-- 1600 00:58:11,042 --> 00:58:12,833 - Yeah. 1601 00:58:12,958 --> 00:58:14,833 - So you're going to grab mine, and I'm going to grab yours. 1602 00:58:14,833 --> 00:58:17,000 Seems fair. - It sure does, doesn't it? 1603 00:58:17,083 --> 00:58:18,792 - [laughs] 1604 00:58:18,875 --> 00:58:20,458 - You pack all the [bleep], and I'll carry it. 1605 00:58:20,542 --> 00:58:22,167 - You didn't help me at all through the airport. 1606 00:58:22,250 --> 00:58:25,500 Cameron is always 100 million steps ahead of me. 1607 00:58:25,542 --> 00:58:27,542 I don't know where that is, but... 1608 00:58:27,625 --> 00:58:30,000 I am waiting for everyone else. 1609 00:58:30,125 --> 00:58:32,208 And he's just gone. 1610 00:58:32,292 --> 00:58:34,000 - I am-- Sorry, are you not able? 1611 00:58:34,083 --> 00:58:35,667 - No, I'm very capable. I'm just saying that... 1612 00:58:35,708 --> 00:58:37,750 - Oh, okay. - It's a kind gesture to help, 1613 00:58:37,875 --> 00:58:39,708 and you definitely were not helping me, which is fine. 1614 00:58:39,792 --> 00:58:41,167 - You weren't helping me with my bag. 1615 00:58:41,250 --> 00:58:42,208 ♪ 1616 00:58:42,333 --> 00:58:43,542 I'm just saying. 1617 00:58:43,625 --> 00:58:45,042 - I could carry this with my pinky. 1618 00:58:45,042 --> 00:58:46,625 And I think that common knowledge 1619 00:58:46,708 --> 00:58:48,167 is that you help women with their bags. 1620 00:58:48,250 --> 00:58:49,500 - I've been told it's rude 1621 00:58:49,583 --> 00:58:51,542 to assume that women can't do things, so... 1622 00:58:51,625 --> 00:58:52,875 - It would have been nice to have the assistance 1623 00:58:52,958 --> 00:58:55,000 with that large bag, you know what I mean? 1624 00:58:55,042 --> 00:58:57,000 ♪ 1625 00:58:57,083 --> 00:58:58,500 Cameron? 1626 00:58:58,542 --> 00:59:00,375 - I'm right here with your suitcase. 1627 00:59:00,458 --> 00:59:02,333 - I think Cameron is getting a sense 1628 00:59:02,458 --> 00:59:04,500 that I am pretty independent. 1629 00:59:04,583 --> 00:59:06,250 But, yeah, there's part of me that's like, 1630 00:59:06,333 --> 00:59:08,667 I wish he would just be like, hey, do you need assistance? 1631 00:59:08,708 --> 00:59:10,042 Or do you need-- You know? 1632 00:59:10,125 --> 00:59:12,250 And those kind of things, I think, 1633 00:59:12,333 --> 00:59:15,000 draw me closer to someone is when they're really asking, 1634 00:59:15,042 --> 00:59:17,708 like, hey, where are you at? What do you need? 1635 00:59:17,792 --> 00:59:19,833 Are you angry with me? I think you kind of are. 1636 00:59:19,917 --> 00:59:21,833 - I'm not angry. 1637 00:59:21,958 --> 00:59:24,167 - You're not angry? - About what? 1638 00:59:24,208 --> 00:59:25,625 - About me telling you 1639 00:59:25,708 --> 00:59:27,292 that I wish I would have had help a little bit. 1640 00:59:27,375 --> 00:59:29,083 - I appreciate-- 1641 00:59:29,167 --> 00:59:31,292 - And you were also kind of running away from me as well. 1642 00:59:31,375 --> 00:59:33,333 You got to wait for me. 1643 00:59:33,375 --> 00:59:35,792 Little legs don't work like that. 1644 00:59:35,875 --> 00:59:37,917 [laughs] He doesn't want to be anywhere around me. 1645 00:59:38,000 --> 00:59:39,500 [laughs] 1646 00:59:39,583 --> 00:59:40,833 And you know what? 1647 00:59:40,958 --> 00:59:42,792 This all goes back to communication. 1648 00:59:42,792 --> 00:59:44,542 Like, I had to remind you, like, hey, I'm short. 1649 00:59:44,625 --> 00:59:46,417 I'm going to be behind you. 1650 00:59:46,500 --> 00:59:47,833 But, hey, I would like to wait. 1651 00:59:47,875 --> 00:59:49,625 And I did see you make that change. 1652 00:59:49,625 --> 00:59:51,542 You did start to wait for me, which I appreciate. 1653 00:59:51,542 --> 00:59:52,833 - You're welcome. 1654 00:59:52,875 --> 00:59:54,667 - Is there anything that's bothering you 1655 00:59:54,792 --> 00:59:57,292 that you feel like you wish that I was doing better? 1656 00:59:57,375 --> 00:59:58,458 - No, I think you're amazing. 1657 00:59:58,542 --> 00:59:59,833 ♪ 1658 00:59:59,917 --> 01:00:01,833 - [chuckles] That sounds sarcastic. 1659 01:00:01,875 --> 01:00:03,792 [laughs] No, really, truly, 1660 01:00:03,875 --> 01:00:05,333 is there something that's annoying you 1661 01:00:05,417 --> 01:00:06,958 that you feel like-- 1662 01:00:07,042 --> 01:00:09,333 'Cause I feel like we are kind of, like, 1663 01:00:09,417 --> 01:00:10,833 comfortable with each other 1664 01:00:10,917 --> 01:00:12,958 but not to the point where it's, like, I-- 1665 01:00:13,042 --> 01:00:14,750 Like, we don't see each other romantically 1666 01:00:14,833 --> 01:00:15,958 at this moment, right? 1667 01:00:16,042 --> 01:00:16,833 ♪ 1668 01:00:19,458 --> 01:00:22,167 Right? - Sure. 1669 01:00:22,292 --> 01:00:25,500 - And so I feel like growing that a little bit 1670 01:00:25,625 --> 01:00:29,083 and working on that and trying to kind of... 1671 01:00:29,208 --> 01:00:31,333 figure that part out of us, 'cause like I said, 1672 01:00:31,375 --> 01:00:34,333 we have not touched that aspect. 1673 01:00:34,417 --> 01:00:35,625 - Yeah. - Like, this is an effort. 1674 01:00:35,708 --> 01:00:37,000 - But, I mean, do you have a plan 1675 01:00:37,042 --> 01:00:38,833 of how we can get past that? 1676 01:00:38,875 --> 01:00:41,625 - Being here, experiencing things together, 1677 01:00:41,708 --> 01:00:43,875 doing things together could definitely help that. 1678 01:00:43,958 --> 01:00:45,333 And I'm going to try my hardest 1679 01:00:45,417 --> 01:00:46,750 to make sure we get to that moment 1680 01:00:46,833 --> 01:00:48,125 so that we don't leave, 1681 01:00:48,208 --> 01:00:50,000 and, like, oh, we're moving into each other, 1682 01:00:50,083 --> 01:00:52,000 and we've literally never even held hands before. 1683 01:00:52,083 --> 01:00:53,125 - Yeah, I agree. 1684 01:00:55,250 --> 01:00:57,250 You did tell me you didn't like to do that. 1685 01:00:57,333 --> 01:00:58,792 - No, I will-- 1686 01:00:58,875 --> 01:01:00,792 Hand holding is totally fine. - Okay. 1687 01:01:00,875 --> 01:01:04,208 - But there's a difference between that and, like... 1688 01:01:04,333 --> 01:01:05,833 It's hard to explain. 1689 01:01:05,917 --> 01:01:07,500 ♪ 1690 01:01:07,542 --> 01:01:09,333 - I have been asking 1691 01:01:09,375 --> 01:01:12,333 if Clare would be open 1692 01:01:12,375 --> 01:01:14,542 to more physical touch. 1693 01:01:14,625 --> 01:01:17,667 And I've been getting a pretty strong no. 1694 01:01:17,708 --> 01:01:19,542 So, to hear her say 1695 01:01:19,625 --> 01:01:23,917 that she wants physical intimacy now, 1696 01:01:24,000 --> 01:01:26,333 all I can say is, I'm just confused. 1697 01:01:26,417 --> 01:01:28,667 - Just because I'm strong 1698 01:01:28,750 --> 01:01:31,083 does not mean that I don't want those things, you know? 1699 01:01:31,208 --> 01:01:32,750 ♪ 1700 01:01:32,875 --> 01:01:35,375 - But I'm certainly not going to advance 1701 01:01:35,500 --> 01:01:38,542 on someone who doesn't seem to know what they want. 1702 01:01:38,625 --> 01:01:39,875 - I've been with guys in the past 1703 01:01:39,958 --> 01:01:41,583 who don't express that they care. 1704 01:01:41,667 --> 01:01:44,500 And to me, that's very, very hurtful. 1705 01:01:44,583 --> 01:01:46,417 Inside, I do want the physical affection. 1706 01:01:46,500 --> 01:01:48,000 I do want-- You know what I mean? 1707 01:01:48,083 --> 01:01:49,958 Like... 1708 01:01:50,042 --> 01:01:51,833 it would be nice to feel cared for. 1709 01:01:51,917 --> 01:01:54,625 [dramatic music] 1710 01:01:54,708 --> 01:01:56,500 ♪ 1711 01:01:56,583 --> 01:01:57,542 - Okay. 1712 01:01:57,625 --> 01:01:59,333 ♪ 1713 01:01:59,417 --> 01:02:01,750 - Next time on "Married at First Sight"... 1714 01:02:01,875 --> 01:02:04,250 - [screams] 1715 01:02:04,333 --> 01:02:07,542 - Our honeymooning couples continue to grow closer... 1716 01:02:07,708 --> 01:02:09,375 [laughter] 1717 01:02:09,458 --> 01:02:11,083 - This is the type of relationship I always wanted. 1718 01:02:11,167 --> 01:02:13,000 Where have you been my whole life? 1719 01:02:13,083 --> 01:02:14,167 - I don't know. 1720 01:02:14,250 --> 01:02:16,292 - And settle into newlywed bliss. 1721 01:02:16,375 --> 01:02:19,208 - You're just very sweet. - Aw. Thank you. 1722 01:02:19,292 --> 01:02:20,708 - And I like you a lot. 1723 01:02:20,792 --> 01:02:22,500 - Is this conversation uncomfortable for you? 1724 01:02:22,583 --> 01:02:24,583 - No. No, it's not. - Oh, okay. 1725 01:02:24,667 --> 01:02:26,000 - I'm actually glad we had this talk. 1726 01:02:26,042 --> 01:02:27,417 I don't know how you feel, but-- 1727 01:02:27,500 --> 01:02:28,333 - I'm a little heated. 1728 01:02:28,375 --> 01:02:29,667 ♪ 1729 01:02:29,750 --> 01:02:31,000 - I'm sorry that it's turned 1730 01:02:31,042 --> 01:02:33,125 into, like, the big deal that it is 1731 01:02:33,250 --> 01:02:34,583 ♪ 1732 01:02:34,708 --> 01:02:36,500 - I feel like you have to be willing 1733 01:02:36,583 --> 01:02:38,042 to put yourself out there. 1734 01:02:38,167 --> 01:02:39,792 I mean, you think that things that you deserve 1735 01:02:39,917 --> 01:02:41,042 just come upon you? 1736 01:02:41,167 --> 01:02:43,375 You don't have to work for them? 1737 01:02:43,458 --> 01:02:45,500 - I understand ignorance, 1738 01:02:45,583 --> 01:02:47,625 and I'll call it for what it is. 1739 01:02:47,708 --> 01:02:49,208 Don't say that. 1740 01:02:49,292 --> 01:02:54,833 ♪