1 00:00:01,752 --> 00:00:03,382 - You look phenomenal. - Thank you. 2 00:00:03,420 --> 00:00:06,010 - Eight bold singles took a leap of faith 3 00:00:06,048 --> 00:00:08,168 in order to find love. 4 00:00:08,217 --> 00:00:09,837 They married as complete strangers. 5 00:00:09,885 --> 00:00:12,435 [cheers and applause] 6 00:00:12,471 --> 00:00:13,761 - ♪ Hey, hey, hey 7 00:00:13,805 --> 00:00:15,135 ♪ Ready, set, let’s go 8 00:00:15,182 --> 00:00:16,682 - Last time, our couples spent 9 00:00:16,725 --> 00:00:19,305 their first official night as husband and wife. 10 00:00:19,353 --> 00:00:20,653 ♪ Step into my world 11 00:00:20,687 --> 00:00:22,017 ♪ Hey, hey, hey 12 00:00:22,064 --> 00:00:23,484 - Becca and Austin. 13 00:00:23,524 --> 00:00:27,244 - I had an exploratory surgery. 14 00:00:27,277 --> 00:00:30,197 It turned into a diagnosis of endometriosis. 15 00:00:30,239 --> 00:00:32,659 And in past relationships, 16 00:00:32,699 --> 00:00:35,619 I have felt like a burden to them. 17 00:00:35,661 --> 00:00:37,541 - That sucks that you, like, had to go through that. 18 00:00:37,579 --> 00:00:38,539 I’m not like that. 19 00:00:38,580 --> 00:00:40,000 Should--should be good. 20 00:00:40,040 --> 00:00:41,290 - No, gonna be perfect. It’s great. 21 00:00:41,375 --> 00:00:42,425 - [laughs] 22 00:00:42,459 --> 00:00:44,839 ♪ Step into my world 23 00:00:44,878 --> 00:00:46,248 - Lauren and Orion. 24 00:00:46,296 --> 00:00:47,916 - Just as, like, a rule of thumb, 25 00:00:47,965 --> 00:00:49,095 I would just--if he’s working, just give him 26 00:00:49,174 --> 00:00:50,474 like 10 minutes afterwards. 27 00:00:50,509 --> 00:00:52,389 - Like now that I have these heads up, 28 00:00:52,427 --> 00:00:53,677 I think it’ll be good for us moving forward 29 00:00:53,720 --> 00:00:54,800 because I’m an overthinker. 30 00:00:54,846 --> 00:00:56,466 - She is one of those individuals 31 00:00:56,515 --> 00:00:58,145 that sometimes she does get in her head a lot. 32 00:00:58,183 --> 00:00:59,353 - Get lost sometimes? - Yeah. 33 00:00:59,393 --> 00:01:00,603 Sometimes you may have to reel her in. 34 00:01:00,644 --> 00:01:02,064 - That can be something you all can 35 00:01:02,104 --> 00:01:03,694 work on navigating together. 36 00:01:03,730 --> 00:01:06,020 - Emily and Brennan. 37 00:01:06,066 --> 00:01:07,356 - Fun one piece. 38 00:01:07,401 --> 00:01:08,941 I don’t really know how it goes on yet. 39 00:01:08,986 --> 00:01:10,396 We’ll probably get to, like, figure each other out 40 00:01:10,445 --> 00:01:11,945 in, like, the bedroom more. 41 00:01:11,989 --> 00:01:13,909 I did pack all my bachelorette props, 42 00:01:13,949 --> 00:01:15,659 fuzzy handcuffs, lingerie. 43 00:01:15,701 --> 00:01:18,331 I did not bring the whip. 44 00:01:18,370 --> 00:01:20,460 I think it’s just too aggressive. 45 00:01:20,497 --> 00:01:22,497 - Clare and Cameron. 46 00:01:22,541 --> 00:01:24,921 - Guys in the past who don’t express that they care. 47 00:01:24,960 --> 00:01:27,000 To me, that’s very, very hurtful. 48 00:01:27,045 --> 00:01:29,085 Inside, I do want the physical affection. 49 00:01:29,131 --> 00:01:31,341 It would be nice to feel cared for. 50 00:01:31,383 --> 00:01:32,383 - Sure. 51 00:01:32,426 --> 00:01:33,966 [pop music] 52 00:01:34,011 --> 00:01:36,761 - ♪ No rules, just do, do what I wanna ♪ 53 00:01:36,805 --> 00:01:39,595 - And tonight, the couples look to grow closer 54 00:01:39,641 --> 00:01:41,891 as the honeymoon begins. 55 00:01:41,935 --> 00:01:43,185 - Wild sides out. 56 00:01:43,228 --> 00:01:44,688 [laughter] 57 00:01:44,730 --> 00:01:45,610 - This is the type of relationship 58 00:01:45,647 --> 00:01:46,647 I’ve always wanted. 59 00:01:46,690 --> 00:01:47,860 I’m just hoping I don’t puke. 60 00:01:47,899 --> 00:01:48,859 - ♪ Get it, girl 61 00:01:48,900 --> 00:01:49,860 ♪ Get it, girl 62 00:01:49,901 --> 00:01:50,821 - You’re just very sweet. 63 00:01:50,861 --> 00:01:52,111 - Aw, thank you. 64 00:01:52,112 --> 00:01:53,492 - And I like you a lot. 65 00:01:53,530 --> 00:01:54,950 - Is this conversation uncomfortable for you? 66 00:01:54,990 --> 00:01:56,160 - No. No, it’s not. 67 00:01:56,199 --> 00:01:57,329 - No? OK. 68 00:01:57,367 --> 00:01:58,577 I’m actually glad we had this talk. 69 00:01:58,619 --> 00:01:59,659 I don’t know how you feel about it. 70 00:01:59,703 --> 00:02:00,953 - I’m a little heated. 71 00:02:00,996 --> 00:02:02,706 [dramatic music] 72 00:02:02,748 --> 00:02:04,618 - I’m sorry that it’s turned into, like, 73 00:02:04,666 --> 00:02:07,336 the big deal that it is. 74 00:02:07,377 --> 00:02:10,297 - I feel like you have to be willing to go through-- 75 00:02:10,339 --> 00:02:12,669 put yourself out--I mean, you think that things that 76 00:02:12,716 --> 00:02:14,966 you deserve just come upon you? 77 00:02:15,010 --> 00:02:17,300 You don’t have to work for them? 78 00:02:17,346 --> 00:02:19,716 - So you’re trying to make what you said 79 00:02:19,765 --> 00:02:21,815 or what came up seem-- 80 00:02:21,850 --> 00:02:23,350 - Less offensive than what it was? 81 00:02:23,393 --> 00:02:25,273 - It seemed like you tried to minimize. 82 00:02:25,312 --> 00:02:28,902 [dramatic music] 83 00:02:28,940 --> 00:02:30,980 - ♪ It’s all or nothing 84 00:02:31,026 --> 00:02:33,186 - This is "Married At First Sight." 85 00:02:33,236 --> 00:02:35,106 - ♪ There’s no other way 86 00:02:35,155 --> 00:02:36,815 ♪ 87 00:02:36,865 --> 00:02:38,985 ♪ It’s all or nothing 88 00:02:39,034 --> 00:02:42,084 [lively music] 89 00:02:42,120 --> 00:02:46,370 ♪ 90 00:02:46,416 --> 00:02:48,246 - I don’t know how to say that. 91 00:02:48,335 --> 00:02:50,045 A few days ago, Austin was a stranger. 92 00:02:50,087 --> 00:02:51,457 And now we’re on our honeymoon, 93 00:02:51,505 --> 00:02:53,135 but I’m feeling excited. 94 00:02:53,215 --> 00:02:55,975 I think it’ll be awesome to be able to actually talk, 95 00:02:56,009 --> 00:02:57,339 get to know each other, 96 00:02:57,386 --> 00:03:00,046 figure out, like, what his life is like. 97 00:03:00,097 --> 00:03:04,307 And I’m ready to see what our marriage has in store. 98 00:03:04,351 --> 00:03:06,851 - What are you guys really excited to do in Mexico? 99 00:03:06,895 --> 00:03:08,015 Because this is some people’s-- - Hot air balloon. 100 00:03:08,063 --> 00:03:09,563 - First time, right? 101 00:03:09,606 --> 00:03:11,106 - We’re not going on a hot air balloon. 102 00:03:11,149 --> 00:03:12,899 - We need to do, like, something really, 103 00:03:12,943 --> 00:03:14,113 like, just physically-- 104 00:03:14,152 --> 00:03:15,112 something physical. - Yeah. 105 00:03:15,153 --> 00:03:16,743 - Something physical? - Yeah. 106 00:03:16,780 --> 00:03:18,700 - That is the point of the honeymoon after all, Lauren. 107 00:03:18,740 --> 00:03:20,030 - What? 108 00:03:20,075 --> 00:03:21,285 - To do something physical. 109 00:03:21,326 --> 00:03:22,786 [laughter] 110 00:03:22,828 --> 00:03:24,198 - Can I take it more like, hike, swim? 111 00:03:24,246 --> 00:03:26,076 - Yeah, I agree. - Yeah. 112 00:03:26,123 --> 00:03:27,623 - Sex. 113 00:03:27,666 --> 00:03:28,876 - I mean, this is the first time we’re all, 114 00:03:28,917 --> 00:03:30,497 like, living with each other. 115 00:03:30,544 --> 00:03:31,504 - This is like--this is like a sample of like-- 116 00:03:31,545 --> 00:03:32,965 - I know. 117 00:03:33,004 --> 00:03:34,014 It’s like, will I get really annoyed? 118 00:03:34,047 --> 00:03:35,217 Maybe. [laughter] 119 00:03:35,257 --> 00:03:36,377 - I think-- 120 00:03:36,425 --> 00:03:37,475 I think it’s a strong maybe. 121 00:03:37,509 --> 00:03:38,509 [laughter] 122 00:03:38,552 --> 00:03:40,302 - Uh-oh. 123 00:03:40,345 --> 00:03:41,595 We’ll be--it’ll be OK. 124 00:03:41,638 --> 00:03:43,678 - I feel really lucky, honestly. 125 00:03:43,724 --> 00:03:46,524 I know it’s kind of early, but I already feel, like, 126 00:03:46,560 --> 00:03:47,770 physically attracted to him. 127 00:03:47,811 --> 00:03:49,311 He’s really considerate. 128 00:03:49,354 --> 00:03:51,814 So I’m pretty happy right now. 129 00:03:51,857 --> 00:03:53,647 - It’s been great, honestly. 130 00:03:53,734 --> 00:03:55,994 So I’m really enjoying this time 131 00:03:56,027 --> 00:03:58,527 and getting to know you has really been a pleasure. 132 00:03:58,613 --> 00:04:00,573 - Aw. - Yeah. 133 00:04:00,615 --> 00:04:04,155 - I would say that, for me, it has exceeded my expectations. 134 00:04:04,202 --> 00:04:05,202 - Oh, yeah. 135 00:04:05,245 --> 00:04:06,865 - And I’m very happy. 136 00:04:06,872 --> 00:04:09,962 I mean, it could have gone way worse, but you’re OK. 137 00:04:10,000 --> 00:04:11,170 [laughter] 138 00:04:11,209 --> 00:04:12,629 - OK. 139 00:04:12,669 --> 00:04:14,379 - I wanted to let you into, you know, OK. 140 00:04:14,421 --> 00:04:16,011 All right. 141 00:04:16,047 --> 00:04:17,047 - Just got to keep you on your toes, you know? 142 00:04:17,090 --> 00:04:18,220 - That’s totally fair. 143 00:04:18,258 --> 00:04:19,628 Yeah. 144 00:04:19,676 --> 00:04:21,886 I mean, I think we vibe pretty well. 145 00:04:21,928 --> 00:04:23,428 And so far, so good. 146 00:04:23,472 --> 00:04:25,272 So... 147 00:04:25,307 --> 00:04:27,517 - I feel like Cameron and I are very different people. 148 00:04:27,559 --> 00:04:28,729 - Uh-oh. 149 00:04:28,769 --> 00:04:29,939 - And that’s not a bad thing. 150 00:04:29,978 --> 00:04:31,398 No, no, no--hey, listen. 151 00:04:31,438 --> 00:04:32,608 That’s not a bad thing. 152 00:04:32,647 --> 00:04:34,437 I think it works to our advantage. 153 00:04:34,483 --> 00:04:36,533 And I think that we have a lot of learning 154 00:04:36,568 --> 00:04:39,448 to do about each other, but I’m excited to get to know 155 00:04:39,488 --> 00:04:41,778 Cameron more on this honeymoon. 156 00:04:41,823 --> 00:04:45,663 - I think I’ve probably not been the easiest person to be 157 00:04:45,702 --> 00:04:48,332 around, and I can be a lot. 158 00:04:48,371 --> 00:04:50,211 And Clare is taking it like a champ. 159 00:04:50,248 --> 00:04:51,498 [laughter] 160 00:04:51,541 --> 00:04:52,961 - Thank you. - OK, what... 161 00:04:53,001 --> 00:04:53,881 - What about you guys? - About you two? 162 00:04:53,919 --> 00:04:54,919 - Twinsies. 163 00:04:54,961 --> 00:04:55,921 - We nailed it. 164 00:04:55,962 --> 00:04:57,512 - Done. 165 00:04:57,547 --> 00:04:59,257 - No issues. - Move on. 166 00:04:59,299 --> 00:05:00,589 - Really? - I feel like-- 167 00:05:00,592 --> 00:05:02,142 - Just like that? 168 00:05:02,177 --> 00:05:04,387 - I just always imagined, like, just this, like, blob. 169 00:05:04,429 --> 00:05:06,259 And then, like, when I actually saw him, I was like-- 170 00:05:06,306 --> 00:05:07,766 - Oh, a hairy blob. [laughter] 171 00:05:07,808 --> 00:05:09,638 - Nice. 172 00:05:09,684 --> 00:05:13,904 - Hearing Austin talk about his relationship with Becca, 173 00:05:13,939 --> 00:05:15,609 it’s making me a little jealous. 174 00:05:15,649 --> 00:05:20,989 I’m not sure exactly why Clare and I are progressing 175 00:05:21,029 --> 00:05:23,699 slower than the other couples, but it does 176 00:05:23,740 --> 00:05:27,620 make me curious as to maybe why Clare and I are struggling 177 00:05:27,661 --> 00:05:30,041 to engage intimately. 178 00:05:30,080 --> 00:05:32,580 - Is sex on the table for any of you guys? 179 00:05:32,624 --> 00:05:35,294 - There is a specific thing I’m looking for, 180 00:05:35,335 --> 00:05:37,045 which maybe it’s the same thing. 181 00:05:37,087 --> 00:05:39,127 But I’m looking for the spark. 182 00:05:39,214 --> 00:05:40,632 - Yeah. 183 00:05:40,632 --> 00:05:42,722 - Something--that thing that happens, 184 00:05:42,759 --> 00:05:44,679 you know, in the first few dates sometimes. 185 00:05:44,719 --> 00:05:47,349 You know, and I want-- 186 00:05:47,389 --> 00:05:49,309 I want that to happen on our honeymoon. 187 00:05:49,349 --> 00:05:50,979 I think that there’s-- 188 00:05:51,017 --> 00:05:53,977 I hope that there’s a moment in our future 189 00:05:54,020 --> 00:05:57,360 where we maybe even without necessarily having 190 00:05:57,399 --> 00:05:58,729 to communicate it, we feel it. 191 00:05:58,775 --> 00:05:59,725 And then it’s on the table. 192 00:05:59,776 --> 00:06:00,816 - Right-- - And then-- 193 00:06:00,861 --> 00:06:01,691 - But with zero pressure involved. 194 00:06:01,736 --> 00:06:03,146 - Bingo. 195 00:06:03,196 --> 00:06:05,196 But once that feeling that it’s on the table, 196 00:06:05,240 --> 00:06:06,870 then it’s something, like, we can be like, OK, 197 00:06:06,908 --> 00:06:07,988 is this something we’re doing right now or not, right? 198 00:06:07,993 --> 00:06:09,243 - Right. 199 00:06:09,286 --> 00:06:10,196 - Once you know it’s on the table-- 200 00:06:10,245 --> 00:06:11,375 - There’s a... - Then... 201 00:06:11,454 --> 00:06:12,754 - There’s a... - That’s how I feel. 202 00:06:12,789 --> 00:06:14,249 - There’s a--there’s a moment of chemistry 203 00:06:14,291 --> 00:06:16,331 where it’s like, you’re like, oh, wait. 204 00:06:16,376 --> 00:06:18,126 There’s something--oh, this might be about to get-- 205 00:06:18,169 --> 00:06:19,709 [laughter] 206 00:06:19,754 --> 00:06:22,974 - Facial expressions. 207 00:06:23,008 --> 00:06:25,048 - I would rather wait until like the intimacy 208 00:06:25,135 --> 00:06:26,553 is just so built. 209 00:06:26,553 --> 00:06:28,353 Like, we have that initial foundation of trust 210 00:06:28,388 --> 00:06:29,928 and intimacy, and we’re at the point where 211 00:06:30,015 --> 00:06:31,185 we literally want to rip each other’s clothes off. 212 00:06:31,224 --> 00:06:32,434 - Mm-hmm. 213 00:06:32,475 --> 00:06:33,385 - Like, that’s what I want to get to. 214 00:06:33,393 --> 00:06:34,983 - Yeah. Yeah. 215 00:06:35,020 --> 00:06:36,350 Well, this will just be the longest 216 00:06:36,396 --> 00:06:37,606 foreplay any of us ever-- 217 00:06:37,647 --> 00:06:38,647 - Exactly. 218 00:06:38,690 --> 00:06:39,900 It’s kind of fun. 219 00:06:39,941 --> 00:06:41,031 - Yeah, I love foreplay. 220 00:06:41,067 --> 00:06:42,317 - Yeah. 221 00:06:42,360 --> 00:06:44,110 ♪ 222 00:06:44,112 --> 00:06:46,532 [upbeat music] 223 00:06:46,615 --> 00:06:50,375 - ♪ Lead the way in the starlight in the morning ♪ 224 00:06:50,410 --> 00:06:52,660 ♪ Put your hands in the air 225 00:06:52,704 --> 00:06:55,214 - It’s our first day, and it’s raining. 226 00:06:55,248 --> 00:06:56,578 - So exciting. 227 00:06:56,625 --> 00:06:58,505 - But we’ll make anything fun. 228 00:06:58,543 --> 00:07:00,093 - Sure will. 229 00:07:00,128 --> 00:07:03,508 - Cameron likes to sleep in, and I’m an early riser. 230 00:07:03,548 --> 00:07:05,048 I’m hungry. I’m a breakfast girl. 231 00:07:05,091 --> 00:07:08,471 And so I’m like, he can wake up any minute now. 232 00:07:08,511 --> 00:07:10,811 - I’m excited for today. 233 00:07:10,847 --> 00:07:12,307 I love an adventure, so-- 234 00:07:12,349 --> 00:07:13,429 - Right? Yeah. - I’m excited 235 00:07:13,433 --> 00:07:15,023 for what we got going tonight. 236 00:07:15,060 --> 00:07:16,190 - We get to give ourselves some time to go look for it. 237 00:07:16,227 --> 00:07:17,767 - Yeah. 238 00:07:17,854 --> 00:07:19,114 - Oh, not bad. 239 00:07:19,147 --> 00:07:20,567 - No. 240 00:07:20,607 --> 00:07:22,107 It looks like it’s clearing--clearing up. 241 00:07:22,150 --> 00:07:23,530 - It’s still a little cloudy. 242 00:07:23,568 --> 00:07:25,648 - There’s--there’s some blue. 243 00:07:25,695 --> 00:07:28,605 [upbeat music] 244 00:07:28,657 --> 00:07:32,827 ♪ 245 00:07:32,869 --> 00:07:37,829 - I like that we’re both, like, monsters in the morning, 246 00:07:37,832 --> 00:07:39,132 but, like, happy monsters. 247 00:07:39,167 --> 00:07:40,837 [laughter] 248 00:07:40,877 --> 00:07:43,337 Austin’s morning noises are that 249 00:07:43,380 --> 00:07:50,090 of a pterodactyl that mated with a newborn corgi puppy. 250 00:07:50,136 --> 00:07:53,006 [screeching] 251 00:07:53,056 --> 00:07:55,386 - [laughing] 252 00:07:55,433 --> 00:07:56,433 Hey, yeah. 253 00:07:56,476 --> 00:07:57,476 That was [bleep] it. 254 00:07:57,519 --> 00:07:58,979 That was--you nailed it. 255 00:07:59,020 --> 00:08:00,350 That was 100%, right? 256 00:08:00,397 --> 00:08:02,937 - And then you talk to yourself a little bit, 257 00:08:02,983 --> 00:08:04,653 and then you just roll over and you’re like-- 258 00:08:04,734 --> 00:08:06,864 [gurgling] 259 00:08:06,903 --> 00:08:10,033 Austin and I are equal parts weird. 260 00:08:10,073 --> 00:08:11,913 Like I didn’t really ask for weird, 261 00:08:11,950 --> 00:08:13,660 I don’t think, from the experts. 262 00:08:13,702 --> 00:08:17,542 But the expert said, you need this, which they were right, 263 00:08:17,580 --> 00:08:19,120 because I’m also that weird. 264 00:08:19,165 --> 00:08:20,495 - You like papaya? 265 00:08:20,542 --> 00:08:21,462 - A-pa-pa-ya? 266 00:08:21,501 --> 00:08:22,671 - Papaya. 267 00:08:22,711 --> 00:08:27,881 - A-pa-pa-ya! A-pa-pa-pa-ya! 268 00:08:27,924 --> 00:08:30,224 - All right, howler monkey. 269 00:08:30,260 --> 00:08:34,510 - Whoa, that papaya tastes savory. 270 00:08:34,556 --> 00:08:39,226 - One thing that is kind of cool about our relationship 271 00:08:39,269 --> 00:08:43,019 is we’re a good balance of silly and serious. 272 00:08:43,064 --> 00:08:46,324 And after only knowing each other for a few days, 273 00:08:46,359 --> 00:08:48,239 it’s insane. 274 00:08:48,278 --> 00:08:51,158 It’s so weird that I might have met someone 275 00:08:51,197 --> 00:08:56,367 who is the one. 276 00:08:56,411 --> 00:08:59,871 Aliens, are they real? 277 00:08:59,873 --> 00:09:01,713 - Yeah. - Yeah. 278 00:09:01,750 --> 00:09:07,510 I totally believe that there are other living entities 279 00:09:07,547 --> 00:09:09,507 in our grand universe. 280 00:09:09,549 --> 00:09:11,129 - Yeah. 281 00:09:11,176 --> 00:09:13,386 There’s no way that we are the only dumb ones 282 00:09:13,428 --> 00:09:16,138 who are doing this [bleep]. 283 00:09:16,181 --> 00:09:19,601 There are other life forces eating fruit 284 00:09:19,642 --> 00:09:21,142 in a tub somewhere. 285 00:09:21,186 --> 00:09:22,476 Or maybe not, maybe we’re the dumb ones. 286 00:09:22,520 --> 00:09:24,020 [laughter] 287 00:09:24,064 --> 00:09:26,444 - ♪ Can you handle this 288 00:09:26,483 --> 00:09:28,113 ♪ Don’t say I didn’t warn you ♪ 289 00:09:28,151 --> 00:09:30,151 ♪ Can you handle this 290 00:09:30,195 --> 00:09:32,115 ♪ It might be too much for you ♪ 291 00:09:32,155 --> 00:09:33,865 - Mm. Pain. 292 00:09:33,907 --> 00:09:34,817 - So you didn’t fall this morning, correct? 293 00:09:34,866 --> 00:09:35,826 - No-- - OK. 294 00:09:35,867 --> 00:09:36,907 - It was last night. 295 00:09:36,951 --> 00:09:38,201 - Oh, wait. Really? 296 00:09:38,244 --> 00:09:39,544 - Yeah. 297 00:09:39,579 --> 00:09:40,869 Last night, while we’re in the shower, 298 00:09:40,872 --> 00:09:43,792 I left the shower to go get more towels. 299 00:09:43,833 --> 00:09:46,713 And when I took a turn, I took a tumble. 300 00:09:46,753 --> 00:09:48,753 You didn’t hear the big kaboom? 301 00:09:48,797 --> 00:09:50,917 [laughter] 302 00:09:50,965 --> 00:09:55,965 We did take, like, the PG-13 shower, mostly naked. 303 00:09:56,054 --> 00:09:57,764 The shower was good, until I slipped 304 00:09:57,806 --> 00:09:59,466 and, like, broke my hand. 305 00:09:59,516 --> 00:10:02,936 But that was the most unclothed we’ve been 306 00:10:02,977 --> 00:10:04,187 because we’re just not there yet. 307 00:10:04,229 --> 00:10:05,729 We haven’t had the sex talk. 308 00:10:05,814 --> 00:10:08,364 So, like, taking it slow while still being together. 309 00:10:08,399 --> 00:10:10,279 I was like, oh, that was graceful. 310 00:10:10,318 --> 00:10:12,318 [laughter] 311 00:10:12,362 --> 00:10:13,362 Just gonna go walk this off. 312 00:10:13,404 --> 00:10:14,784 - Wow. 313 00:10:14,823 --> 00:10:15,823 So you woke up, and it still hurts? 314 00:10:15,865 --> 00:10:16,815 - Mm-hmm. - That’s sucks. 315 00:10:16,866 --> 00:10:18,326 Got to ice it. 316 00:10:18,368 --> 00:10:20,618 - I didn’t want to tell you because I didn’t 317 00:10:20,662 --> 00:10:22,332 want to be a little bitch. 318 00:10:22,413 --> 00:10:23,873 And then I was like, you know, I’ll be fine. 319 00:10:23,915 --> 00:10:25,465 And then I couldn’t feel my hand this morning, 320 00:10:25,500 --> 00:10:29,710 and then it was time to make sure it was OK. 321 00:10:29,712 --> 00:10:32,512 - Drama in paradise. 322 00:10:32,549 --> 00:10:34,179 Well, cheers to being committed. 323 00:10:34,217 --> 00:10:35,927 [laughs] - Cheers. 324 00:10:35,969 --> 00:10:39,599 [upbeat music] 325 00:10:39,639 --> 00:10:41,519 - This coffee is so good. 326 00:10:41,558 --> 00:10:42,978 I’m so happy. How’s your drink? 327 00:10:43,017 --> 00:10:44,017 - Good. 328 00:10:44,060 --> 00:10:44,980 - Food’s good. 329 00:10:45,019 --> 00:10:46,309 - Mm-hmm. 330 00:10:46,354 --> 00:10:48,564 - In the morning, I cook eggs-- 331 00:10:48,606 --> 00:10:51,776 eggs and cheese with a little peanut butter toast. 332 00:10:51,818 --> 00:10:53,068 - Oh. 333 00:10:53,111 --> 00:10:54,741 - Would you like that? - Mm-hmm. 334 00:10:54,779 --> 00:10:55,989 I don’t really love peanut butter though. 335 00:10:56,030 --> 00:10:58,280 I like jelly on toast. 336 00:10:58,324 --> 00:10:59,334 - So jelly on yours? 337 00:10:59,367 --> 00:11:00,907 - Mm-hmm, strawberry. 338 00:11:00,952 --> 00:11:02,912 - OK, I think I can do that. 339 00:11:02,954 --> 00:11:04,624 - It’s kind of like what Costco has. 340 00:11:04,664 --> 00:11:05,924 It’s like what I eat too. 341 00:11:05,957 --> 00:11:06,957 - So I’ll cook breakfast, you cook dinner? 342 00:11:07,000 --> 00:11:08,080 - Mm-hmm. - Perfect. 343 00:11:08,126 --> 00:11:09,586 It’s gonna be nice. 344 00:11:09,627 --> 00:11:11,417 - I want that. Like, I need a routine. 345 00:11:11,462 --> 00:11:12,592 I need a better balance. 346 00:11:12,630 --> 00:11:14,170 - I’m so good at that. 347 00:11:14,215 --> 00:11:15,755 - Great. 348 00:11:15,800 --> 00:11:18,550 I have a bad work-life balance right now, 349 00:11:18,553 --> 00:11:19,603 but I want to get better. 350 00:11:19,637 --> 00:11:22,057 - You’re just so busy. - Yeah. 351 00:11:22,098 --> 00:11:24,388 But also, I haven’t really had to stop for anyone, you know? 352 00:11:24,392 --> 00:11:26,482 It’s hard for me to shut off my laptop 353 00:11:26,519 --> 00:11:28,019 because there’s money to be made, you know? 354 00:11:28,062 --> 00:11:30,272 - Are you still hungry to make more money? 355 00:11:30,315 --> 00:11:32,115 - I am. 356 00:11:32,150 --> 00:11:34,190 - I never want you to, like, lose that drive like that. 357 00:11:34,235 --> 00:11:35,645 - Yeah. - Like that’s our flame. 358 00:11:35,695 --> 00:11:37,145 You know what I mean? 359 00:11:37,197 --> 00:11:38,487 Like my mom’s worked for 30 years doing-- 360 00:11:38,531 --> 00:11:40,031 - Yeah, I’m not-- 361 00:11:40,033 --> 00:11:41,083 - I don’t think I have it in me to, 362 00:11:41,117 --> 00:11:42,947 like, not work a little bit. 363 00:11:42,952 --> 00:11:46,002 - Like I want to just build, like, our legacy, 364 00:11:46,039 --> 00:11:47,999 build something that, like, we’re very proud of. 365 00:11:48,041 --> 00:11:49,541 - And I think it just comes down to being, 366 00:11:49,584 --> 00:11:53,304 like--having, like, drive and a good work ethic. 367 00:11:53,338 --> 00:11:54,958 I just feel like money always follows that. 368 00:11:55,006 --> 00:11:56,046 - Yeah. 369 00:11:56,090 --> 00:11:57,170 - And, like, I’m successful. 370 00:11:57,217 --> 00:11:58,757 I know you’re successful. 371 00:11:58,801 --> 00:12:00,551 And, like, I think it’s important to be 372 00:12:00,595 --> 00:12:03,395 on the same page that we’re gonna, like, keep that up. 373 00:12:03,431 --> 00:12:06,101 - Agreed. 374 00:12:06,142 --> 00:12:07,982 - Power couple. 375 00:12:08,019 --> 00:12:10,309 - Power couple, it’s got a nice ring to it, huh? 376 00:12:10,313 --> 00:12:11,483 - It does. 377 00:12:11,522 --> 00:12:13,482 - For me, my-- 378 00:12:13,524 --> 00:12:15,574 like, I’ve worked this hard because 379 00:12:15,610 --> 00:12:19,200 I want to be able to provide the best life for our family. 380 00:12:19,239 --> 00:12:24,989 So I want someone who understands the grind 381 00:12:25,036 --> 00:12:27,996 because I’ve just been storing, stashing, stashing. 382 00:12:28,039 --> 00:12:29,579 - I don’t like math. 383 00:12:29,624 --> 00:12:30,544 I don’t really get it. 384 00:12:30,583 --> 00:12:31,583 - Yeah. 385 00:12:31,626 --> 00:12:33,536 - I’m bad at budgeting. 386 00:12:33,586 --> 00:12:35,416 I just like to do what I want when I want 387 00:12:35,463 --> 00:12:36,593 and, like, have the money to do it. 388 00:12:36,631 --> 00:12:38,261 - Have like a-- 389 00:12:38,299 --> 00:12:39,629 - I like traveling, go out, eat where I want. 390 00:12:39,676 --> 00:12:41,086 I would like my money to go farther... 391 00:12:41,135 --> 00:12:42,505 - Yeah. 392 00:12:42,553 --> 00:12:44,813 - In, like, a lot of different ways. 393 00:12:44,847 --> 00:12:48,387 But I don’t really know where my money goes, to be honest. 394 00:12:48,434 --> 00:12:50,354 [tense music] 395 00:12:50,395 --> 00:12:52,945 - I’m very big on living below our means. 396 00:12:52,981 --> 00:12:54,151 Do you feel-- - That’s how you should do. 397 00:12:54,190 --> 00:12:55,520 - Do you feel that way too? 398 00:12:55,566 --> 00:12:57,106 - I feel like I believe that, 399 00:12:57,151 --> 00:12:59,111 but I can do better at living that way. 400 00:12:59,112 --> 00:13:00,992 ♪ 401 00:13:01,030 --> 00:13:04,240 - I got to look into this, see what’s going on over there. 402 00:13:06,703 --> 00:13:09,833 Where all that money is going, we’ll find out real quick. 403 00:13:09,872 --> 00:13:11,922 - [chuckles] 404 00:13:11,958 --> 00:13:15,038 - Audit--auditor Brennan over here, all of a sudden. 405 00:13:15,086 --> 00:13:17,756 - Room for growth for me. 406 00:13:17,797 --> 00:13:22,427 Openness, though, for you to take the reins on this. 407 00:13:22,468 --> 00:13:24,298 - I have no issues with that. 408 00:13:24,345 --> 00:13:26,255 [laughter] 409 00:13:30,226 --> 00:13:31,556 - ♪ Why do you come 410 00:13:31,561 --> 00:13:34,901 ♪ Why do you go away 411 00:13:34,939 --> 00:13:36,899 - We just had a yummy breakfast. 412 00:13:36,941 --> 00:13:38,191 We’re ready to take on the day. 413 00:13:38,234 --> 00:13:39,614 We’re both caffeinated. 414 00:13:39,652 --> 00:13:42,322 Um... 415 00:13:42,363 --> 00:13:44,373 I’ve been up for hours. 416 00:13:44,407 --> 00:13:45,777 I’m gonna need a nap pretty soon. 417 00:13:45,825 --> 00:13:47,235 And you got the swim trunks. 418 00:13:47,285 --> 00:13:48,335 - Togs. 419 00:13:48,369 --> 00:13:49,949 - Or do these match, or no? 420 00:13:49,996 --> 00:13:51,656 - Not on purpose. 421 00:13:51,706 --> 00:13:53,496 - No, they don’t--no, they don’t match, though. 422 00:13:53,541 --> 00:13:55,211 These are two different patterns. 423 00:13:55,251 --> 00:13:57,091 No, that’s a good-- good look. 424 00:13:57,128 --> 00:13:58,208 - Oh, yeah. 425 00:13:58,296 --> 00:13:59,126 - Oh, wow. - Now that-- 426 00:13:59,172 --> 00:14:00,842 - You look like-- 427 00:14:00,882 --> 00:14:02,382 - That is a boy who is ready to paddleboard. 428 00:14:02,425 --> 00:14:06,725 - [laughs] I don’t even know what to say. 429 00:14:06,763 --> 00:14:08,473 I mean, you’ve even got the shoes and everything. 430 00:14:08,473 --> 00:14:09,683 - Yes. I told you, water shoes. 431 00:14:09,724 --> 00:14:10,854 - Yeah. 432 00:14:10,892 --> 00:14:12,392 - No, it looks great. 433 00:14:12,435 --> 00:14:15,105 - It fit all in my--in my-- in my little suitcase 434 00:14:15,146 --> 00:14:17,856 that apparently no one believes that I can bring anything in. 435 00:14:17,899 --> 00:14:19,779 So last night, Clare and I, we had 436 00:14:19,817 --> 00:14:24,407 a good discussion about physical touch and intimacy. 437 00:14:24,447 --> 00:14:28,117 And I’m--honestly, I think I might be a little more 438 00:14:28,159 --> 00:14:31,909 confused because, personally, 439 00:14:31,913 --> 00:14:34,543 I didn’t get a clear understanding 440 00:14:34,582 --> 00:14:36,502 of what she wants. 441 00:14:36,542 --> 00:14:38,672 - You look like a dad. 442 00:14:38,711 --> 00:14:39,841 [laughs] 443 00:14:39,879 --> 00:14:41,339 - Well, I am a husband. - Right. 444 00:14:41,381 --> 00:14:42,551 - I mean, that’s close. That’s one step. 445 00:14:42,590 --> 00:14:44,010 - It’s just looks like you should 446 00:14:44,050 --> 00:14:45,630 have, like, three kiddos falling 447 00:14:45,676 --> 00:14:47,296 behind you for some reason. 448 00:14:47,345 --> 00:14:49,055 - I’d be the coolest dad in-- 449 00:14:49,097 --> 00:14:50,677 - That outfit is... - The whole wide world. 450 00:14:50,723 --> 00:14:51,723 Thank you very much. 451 00:14:51,766 --> 00:14:53,846 - It’s very interesting 452 00:14:53,935 --> 00:14:58,445 - It’s very important to me to get an energy 453 00:14:58,481 --> 00:15:04,071 of comfort and safety from the woman I’m with, 454 00:15:04,112 --> 00:15:07,452 and I usually make the first move. 455 00:15:07,490 --> 00:15:09,700 But she keeps making jokes 456 00:15:09,742 --> 00:15:11,872 about my lack of fashion sense. 457 00:15:11,911 --> 00:15:15,041 And in this moment, my feeling is 458 00:15:15,081 --> 00:15:17,171 that she doesn’t feel comfortable enough 459 00:15:17,208 --> 00:15:18,458 with me yet. 460 00:15:18,501 --> 00:15:20,881 So I’m waiting. 461 00:15:20,920 --> 00:15:22,300 - You ready? 462 00:15:22,338 --> 00:15:23,508 - It’s pretty--pretty rough out there. 463 00:15:23,548 --> 00:15:24,668 I hope we’re not going out there. 464 00:15:24,715 --> 00:15:26,465 - It’s a little choppy. 465 00:15:26,509 --> 00:15:28,469 OK, let’s go. 466 00:15:28,511 --> 00:15:32,391 [upbeat music] 467 00:15:32,432 --> 00:15:33,602 - This is gonna be fun. 468 00:15:33,641 --> 00:15:35,391 - I know. I’m excited. 469 00:15:35,393 --> 00:15:36,393 All right. 470 00:15:36,436 --> 00:15:37,596 - Here you go. 471 00:15:37,645 --> 00:15:38,935 - Awesome, thank you. 472 00:15:38,980 --> 00:15:40,560 - You’re welcome. 473 00:15:40,606 --> 00:15:41,646 Are we nervous? 474 00:15:41,691 --> 00:15:43,231 - It’s a little windy. 475 00:15:43,276 --> 00:15:44,646 So that’s--that’s what’s kind of making me nervous. 476 00:15:44,735 --> 00:15:46,065 But... - But there’s no rain... 477 00:15:46,112 --> 00:15:47,152 - At the same... - So we should be OK. 478 00:15:47,196 --> 00:15:48,526 - Time, if I fall, I fall. 479 00:15:48,614 --> 00:15:50,414 And that is--that is what it is. 480 00:15:50,450 --> 00:15:51,700 Nice. 481 00:15:51,742 --> 00:15:52,952 - And I’m gonna push you on. 482 00:15:52,994 --> 00:15:54,294 - Ah! 483 00:15:54,328 --> 00:15:55,748 All right, we’re going. Later, Cameron. 484 00:15:55,788 --> 00:15:56,868 - Bye. 485 00:15:56,873 --> 00:15:58,003 - You’re gonna the middle. 486 00:15:58,040 --> 00:15:59,040 The middle of the-- 487 00:15:59,083 --> 00:15:59,963 - See you back at the room. 488 00:16:00,001 --> 00:16:01,751 - OK. 489 00:16:01,752 --> 00:16:03,052 - Wait, where am I going? - Ready? 490 00:16:03,087 --> 00:16:04,127 - Ready. 491 00:16:04,172 --> 00:16:05,262 - You’re up. 492 00:16:17,518 --> 00:16:19,438 - This is a very good place to start. 493 00:16:19,479 --> 00:16:21,899 I think, you know, we’re both having fun, 494 00:16:21,939 --> 00:16:24,399 and we actually are, like-- enjoy each other’s presence. 495 00:16:24,442 --> 00:16:26,572 - ♪ Underneath is where she’s hiding ♪ 496 00:16:26,611 --> 00:16:28,491 ♪ But you’re fighting 497 00:16:28,529 --> 00:16:30,949 - We’re learning, how do we ignite the spark? 498 00:16:30,990 --> 00:16:32,070 How do we make it grow? 499 00:16:32,116 --> 00:16:34,616 - ♪ If she don’t know it 500 00:16:34,660 --> 00:16:36,620 ♪ Then she can’t fake it 501 00:16:36,662 --> 00:16:40,122 ♪ And I’m not gonna make her take something that I’ve got ♪ 502 00:16:40,166 --> 00:16:42,206 - I think, you know, we’re making those baby steps. 503 00:16:42,251 --> 00:16:43,881 They’re not huge steps. 504 00:16:43,920 --> 00:16:46,510 They’re not massive steps, but they’re baby steps. 505 00:16:46,547 --> 00:16:48,377 That was fun. 506 00:16:48,424 --> 00:16:51,144 Cameron, taking his sweet, sweet, sweet time. 507 00:16:51,177 --> 00:16:54,967 - ♪ Let’s get away, holiday 508 00:16:55,056 --> 00:17:00,186 ♪ Warm breeze, salty air 509 00:17:00,228 --> 00:17:02,308 - It’s our first vacation together. 510 00:17:02,313 --> 00:17:03,313 - Yeah. 511 00:17:03,314 --> 00:17:05,154 It’s been crazy. 512 00:17:10,029 --> 00:17:12,159 Do you want to get warmer? 513 00:17:12,198 --> 00:17:13,158 - Yes. 514 00:17:13,199 --> 00:17:15,949 - Yes, OK. 515 00:17:15,993 --> 00:17:17,833 - Away from the wind. 516 00:17:17,870 --> 00:17:19,960 - Yeah, be a little warmer. 517 00:17:19,997 --> 00:17:21,667 Oh, this is actually even better. 518 00:17:21,707 --> 00:17:22,747 - Is it? 519 00:17:22,792 --> 00:17:23,962 - Yeah, this is nice. 520 00:17:24,001 --> 00:17:24,961 - Oh, yeah. 521 00:17:25,002 --> 00:17:26,342 I like this. OK. 522 00:17:26,379 --> 00:17:28,549 First night, how you feel? First day-- 523 00:17:28,589 --> 00:17:29,419 - First day? I feel good today. 524 00:17:29,465 --> 00:17:30,755 - Yeah. 525 00:17:30,800 --> 00:17:31,760 - I feel good today. You know-- 526 00:17:31,801 --> 00:17:33,221 - Yesterday was a lot. 527 00:17:33,261 --> 00:17:34,551 - Yesterday was definitely a lot, 528 00:17:34,554 --> 00:17:36,104 kind of just all the traveling. 529 00:17:36,138 --> 00:17:38,518 And then we’re still very new to each other. 530 00:17:38,558 --> 00:17:39,978 - We’re not strangers. 531 00:17:40,017 --> 00:17:42,477 - We’re not strangers. No, we got past that. 532 00:17:42,520 --> 00:17:44,400 - We passed the stranger-- stranger danger. 533 00:17:44,438 --> 00:17:47,898 - But, you know, I do want to make sure that you do feel 534 00:17:47,942 --> 00:17:50,192 safe through all of this-- safe, comfortable. 535 00:17:50,236 --> 00:17:52,906 It’s kind of my biggest priority right now 536 00:17:52,947 --> 00:17:54,867 and then getting to know you. 537 00:17:54,907 --> 00:17:56,327 - I appreciate that. 538 00:17:56,367 --> 00:17:58,237 - Yeah. 539 00:17:58,286 --> 00:18:01,116 - Hearing him say that, it kind of just 540 00:18:01,163 --> 00:18:04,173 makes me feel really excited because one thing 541 00:18:04,208 --> 00:18:06,208 my mom stressed is that 542 00:18:06,252 --> 00:18:08,302 she wanted me to be with a strong man 543 00:18:08,337 --> 00:18:10,087 that made me feel safe. 544 00:18:10,131 --> 00:18:12,931 And once I feel safe enough to be vulnerable, 545 00:18:12,967 --> 00:18:18,507 safe enough to just be my authentic self with him, 546 00:18:18,514 --> 00:18:21,564 that will make me feel loved and supported by him. 547 00:18:21,601 --> 00:18:25,021 And we can just go deeper from there. 548 00:18:25,062 --> 00:18:26,312 - You know, I do have to say. 549 00:18:26,314 --> 00:18:28,234 I really enjoyed our conversation 550 00:18:28,274 --> 00:18:29,614 last night at the aqua bar. 551 00:18:29,650 --> 00:18:30,900 Yeah. 552 00:18:30,943 --> 00:18:32,363 - We touched on a lot of things. 553 00:18:32,403 --> 00:18:33,403 You know, only one kid. 554 00:18:33,446 --> 00:18:34,856 - One kid. 555 00:18:34,905 --> 00:18:35,945 - One kid, but open for adoption. 556 00:18:35,990 --> 00:18:37,280 - Open for adoption. 557 00:18:37,325 --> 00:18:39,335 - Open for adoption, which, I think, 558 00:18:39,368 --> 00:18:42,158 is honestly really amazing because there’s a lot of kids 559 00:18:42,204 --> 00:18:45,544 out there who, you know, they don’t have-- 560 00:18:45,583 --> 00:18:48,343 they don’t have things. 561 00:18:48,377 --> 00:18:50,167 You know, and I don’t know. 562 00:18:50,212 --> 00:18:51,632 You know, being someone who gives, someone who likes to-- 563 00:18:51,672 --> 00:18:52,922 - Like, we’re good providers. - Yeah. 564 00:18:52,965 --> 00:18:53,965 Yeah. 565 00:18:54,008 --> 00:18:55,468 - We’re givers. 566 00:18:55,509 --> 00:18:56,889 I could tell that off--based upon you 567 00:18:56,927 --> 00:18:59,257 and things that I’ve seen. 568 00:18:59,305 --> 00:19:01,185 So I think--one, I think when that time comes, 569 00:19:01,223 --> 00:19:02,563 we would make great parents. 570 00:19:02,600 --> 00:19:04,390 And it would be great to, you know, 571 00:19:04,435 --> 00:19:05,815 just keep our options open... 572 00:19:05,895 --> 00:19:07,065 - Sure. 573 00:19:07,104 --> 00:19:08,114 - Outside of natural births... 574 00:19:08,147 --> 00:19:09,227 - Right. 575 00:19:09,273 --> 00:19:10,273 - With adoption, you know? 576 00:19:10,274 --> 00:19:11,904 - OK. 577 00:19:11,942 --> 00:19:14,362 Well, you know, I think you’d make a great mother. 578 00:19:14,403 --> 00:19:16,743 And honestly, you know, I say that confidently, 579 00:19:16,781 --> 00:19:18,991 you know, knowing you for as short as I have. 580 00:19:19,033 --> 00:19:20,283 - Right? 581 00:19:20,326 --> 00:19:23,116 - But no, just you’re very warm. 582 00:19:23,162 --> 00:19:26,872 You have a very warm aura about you, you know? 583 00:19:26,874 --> 00:19:28,794 And I don’t know. 584 00:19:28,834 --> 00:19:30,884 As a kid, I definitely needed that growing up. 585 00:19:30,920 --> 00:19:33,090 So, you know, just that alone, 586 00:19:33,130 --> 00:19:38,180 I know that you’re--you’re just years ahead of anybody else. 587 00:19:38,219 --> 00:19:40,299 - Thanks. 588 00:19:40,346 --> 00:19:42,176 I think, for me, like, when we have 589 00:19:42,223 --> 00:19:45,313 these kind of conversations about the future, 590 00:19:45,351 --> 00:19:47,481 it gives me a little bit more reassurance, like, in the now. 591 00:19:47,520 --> 00:19:48,850 - Gotcha. 592 00:19:48,896 --> 00:19:49,976 - And I get that we don’t need to, 593 00:19:50,022 --> 00:19:51,022 like, plan everything out-- 594 00:19:51,065 --> 00:19:52,325 - Right. But it’s... 595 00:19:52,358 --> 00:19:53,278 - But it’s-- - Nice to hear. 596 00:19:53,317 --> 00:19:54,317 - Yeah. - OK. 597 00:19:54,360 --> 00:19:56,200 It’s nice to hear. 598 00:19:56,237 --> 00:19:59,107 It’s very comforting to talk about the future 599 00:19:59,156 --> 00:20:01,406 and what that holds because I am 600 00:20:01,450 --> 00:20:03,580 looking for everlasting love. 601 00:20:03,619 --> 00:20:05,789 So, you know, I think it is really 602 00:20:05,830 --> 00:20:09,540 amazing how well we got matched together by the experts. 603 00:20:09,583 --> 00:20:12,003 Honestly, as feelings are growing, the chemistry, 604 00:20:12,044 --> 00:20:13,424 it really does just, you know--just 605 00:20:13,462 --> 00:20:16,672 start to build more and more. 606 00:20:16,674 --> 00:20:20,894 It’s nice to feel nice, to feel seen, to feel heard. 607 00:20:20,928 --> 00:20:22,758 And that’s why I’m enjoying this so much. 608 00:20:22,805 --> 00:20:24,475 That’s why I’m enjoying you so much. 609 00:20:24,515 --> 00:20:25,775 - I’m glad you feel that way. 610 00:20:25,808 --> 00:20:29,018 I think we both had like-- 611 00:20:29,061 --> 00:20:30,851 what’s the word? 612 00:20:30,896 --> 00:20:32,476 Maybe, like, underwhelming relationships in the past, 613 00:20:32,523 --> 00:20:33,823 or just not fulfilling. 614 00:20:33,858 --> 00:20:35,108 - They just kind of fizzled out. 615 00:20:35,151 --> 00:20:36,651 - Fizz--that’s actually the exact 616 00:20:36,736 --> 00:20:38,146 word I’ve used in the past. 617 00:20:38,195 --> 00:20:40,195 And I think if we just, like, continue 618 00:20:40,239 --> 00:20:44,119 to make it a habit of getting to know 619 00:20:44,160 --> 00:20:47,500 who Lauren and Orion are today at this moment, 620 00:20:47,538 --> 00:20:48,908 there can’t be a fizzle. 621 00:20:48,956 --> 00:20:51,456 - I would definitely boast about my marriage 622 00:20:51,500 --> 00:20:54,380 to anybody, which like, you know, we don’t have a problem. 623 00:20:54,420 --> 00:20:55,750 And if we do, we figure it out together. 624 00:20:55,796 --> 00:20:57,546 - Yeah. 625 00:20:57,590 --> 00:20:58,670 You know, I think we’re pretty good at this marriage thing. 626 00:20:58,716 --> 00:21:00,376 - I think so too. Yeah. 627 00:21:00,426 --> 00:21:02,586 - ♪ ’Cause everything that I could dream ♪ 628 00:21:02,636 --> 00:21:06,176 ♪ Will turn into an island fling ♪ 629 00:21:06,223 --> 00:21:09,183 [upbeat music] 630 00:21:09,226 --> 00:21:13,356 ♪ 631 00:21:13,397 --> 00:21:14,857 - That was fun. What did do you think? 632 00:21:14,899 --> 00:21:16,779 - I liked it very much. 633 00:21:16,817 --> 00:21:19,857 - Yeah, I felt like your balance surprised me. 634 00:21:19,904 --> 00:21:20,904 - Oh, thank you. 635 00:21:20,946 --> 00:21:22,356 - Neither of us fell. 636 00:21:22,406 --> 00:21:24,196 - Nice job. - Love that. 637 00:21:24,241 --> 00:21:25,241 - You were fast. 638 00:21:25,284 --> 00:21:26,744 I couldn’t keep up. 639 00:21:26,786 --> 00:21:28,746 This was my first time paddle boarding. 640 00:21:28,788 --> 00:21:32,418 And, you know, to--to be able to do that with you, I think, 641 00:21:32,458 --> 00:21:34,708 has, like, a whole extra element to it. 642 00:21:34,752 --> 00:21:39,342 I think we got to see at least a little bit 643 00:21:39,381 --> 00:21:43,591 of a different side of each other, 644 00:21:43,636 --> 00:21:47,216 which I think any of that, for me, personally, is good. 645 00:21:47,264 --> 00:21:49,064 - I could not agree more. 646 00:21:49,099 --> 00:21:53,649 - The more I get to know the fun side of Clare, 647 00:21:53,687 --> 00:21:56,437 the more I feel comfortable advancing 648 00:21:56,482 --> 00:21:58,482 my physical connection with Clare. 649 00:21:58,526 --> 00:22:00,526 I do find her attractive, and I do like her. 650 00:22:00,569 --> 00:22:05,029 And I hope moving forward that we can just be more relaxed 651 00:22:05,074 --> 00:22:06,494 around each other, and I hope that 652 00:22:06,575 --> 00:22:08,785 that will lead to more opportunity 653 00:22:08,828 --> 00:22:10,748 for physical intimacy. 654 00:22:10,788 --> 00:22:12,538 Well, I think we-- 655 00:22:12,581 --> 00:22:15,461 we bonded against our common enemy, the wind and the water. 656 00:22:15,501 --> 00:22:16,501 - I agree. 657 00:22:16,544 --> 00:22:18,134 - Now--now we-- 658 00:22:18,170 --> 00:22:20,300 - But also, about the fact that we were having fun. 659 00:22:20,339 --> 00:22:21,379 - Yeah. 660 00:22:21,423 --> 00:22:22,553 - We bonded on that as well. 661 00:22:22,591 --> 00:22:23,591 - Yeah. 662 00:22:23,634 --> 00:22:24,594 I had a lot of fun. 663 00:22:24,635 --> 00:22:25,725 How are you feeling? 664 00:22:25,761 --> 00:22:26,971 - I’m feeling good. 665 00:22:27,012 --> 00:22:29,472 Yeah, no, I think that 666 00:22:29,515 --> 00:22:31,525 it’s a beautiful setting. 667 00:22:31,559 --> 00:22:35,309 And I think, how can you not have just a great time? 668 00:22:35,354 --> 00:22:36,564 And that’s what we’re doing. - Yeah. 669 00:22:36,605 --> 00:22:38,015 - So I’m feeling-- - Yeah. 670 00:22:38,065 --> 00:22:39,015 - I’m feeling great. 671 00:22:39,066 --> 00:22:40,566 - Yeah. 672 00:22:42,069 --> 00:22:44,319 What--what do you-- 673 00:22:44,363 --> 00:22:46,743 what do you want to know? 674 00:22:46,782 --> 00:22:49,162 You want to get to know me? - [laughs] 675 00:22:49,201 --> 00:22:50,991 Just anything? 676 00:22:51,036 --> 00:22:53,366 - I don’t know. - What do I want to know? 677 00:22:53,455 --> 00:22:57,875 - So you--you’re still in school--like you’re-- 678 00:22:57,918 --> 00:22:59,498 I don’t want to say still in school like 679 00:22:59,545 --> 00:23:00,465 it’s a bad thing, but you’re... - Yeah. 680 00:23:00,504 --> 00:23:01,554 - Still in school? 681 00:23:01,589 --> 00:23:02,589 - I’m in my last year 682 00:23:02,631 --> 00:23:05,301 of my master’s program. 683 00:23:05,342 --> 00:23:08,222 - Yeah, and you’re-- you fix bikes, correct? 684 00:23:08,262 --> 00:23:09,722 - Yeah. 685 00:23:09,763 --> 00:23:11,183 I mean, I didn’t do my master’s in bike fixing. 686 00:23:11,223 --> 00:23:12,523 - Right. 687 00:23:12,558 --> 00:23:14,518 - Do you ever get, like, bored of that? 688 00:23:14,560 --> 00:23:16,020 - I mean, I-- 689 00:23:16,061 --> 00:23:17,601 - I feel like that gets very repetitive. 690 00:23:17,646 --> 00:23:19,016 - I mean, every-- 691 00:23:19,064 --> 00:23:20,824 every fracture is different. 692 00:23:20,858 --> 00:23:22,648 It’s kind of like a surgeon. 693 00:23:22,735 --> 00:23:23,825 Like, do surgeons get bored? 694 00:23:23,861 --> 00:23:25,361 I mean, I guess at some point. 695 00:23:25,404 --> 00:23:26,364 But, like, every-- 696 00:23:26,405 --> 00:23:27,445 - Yeah, right. 697 00:23:27,489 --> 00:23:29,239 So every bike is different? 698 00:23:29,283 --> 00:23:30,993 - Every single one, the way they break is different. 699 00:23:31,035 --> 00:23:32,745 - Yeah. You love your job? 700 00:23:32,786 --> 00:23:34,076 - Yeah, I do. I do. 701 00:23:34,121 --> 00:23:36,541 Like for--for a lot of people in Boulder, 702 00:23:36,582 --> 00:23:38,502 their bikes are, like-- they’re their lives. 703 00:23:38,542 --> 00:23:42,382 Like it’s their--it’s their entire social network. 704 00:23:42,421 --> 00:23:44,761 It’s like if they don’t have their bicycle, 705 00:23:44,798 --> 00:23:46,298 their mental health starts to decline, you know? 706 00:23:46,342 --> 00:23:47,722 - Right. 707 00:23:47,760 --> 00:23:49,220 - Like the stories that we heard of, 708 00:23:49,261 --> 00:23:50,511 like, people in lockdown and all that. 709 00:23:50,554 --> 00:23:52,474 And just, like, knowing-- 710 00:23:52,514 --> 00:23:55,354 like, knowing that their only escape was that they could, 711 00:23:55,392 --> 00:23:56,982 like, go outside and do the... - Right, which is... 712 00:23:57,019 --> 00:23:58,439 - One thing that they loved. - Nice that you offer that. 713 00:23:58,479 --> 00:23:59,899 I think that’s really cool. - I mean... 714 00:23:59,939 --> 00:24:01,309 - That’s very cool. - It’s important to me. 715 00:24:01,357 --> 00:24:03,977 It’s--I care about the engineering and the materials, 716 00:24:04,026 --> 00:24:06,316 but the people side of it is just as important. 717 00:24:06,362 --> 00:24:07,862 - For sure. 718 00:24:07,905 --> 00:24:10,455 And I think that’s something we bond on too is, like, 719 00:24:10,491 --> 00:24:13,331 I think some people are OK in a job that they don’t love, 720 00:24:13,369 --> 00:24:15,659 because whether it makes them money or whatever. 721 00:24:15,704 --> 00:24:18,674 And it is, for me, it’s, like, that’s not what matters. 722 00:24:18,707 --> 00:24:20,667 It’s the fact that you enjoy doing what you do... 723 00:24:20,709 --> 00:24:21,669 - Yeah. - You know? 724 00:24:21,710 --> 00:24:22,790 I respect that. 725 00:24:22,836 --> 00:24:24,956 ♪ 726 00:24:28,926 --> 00:24:30,636 [salsa music] 727 00:24:30,636 --> 00:24:31,966 ♪ 728 00:24:32,012 --> 00:24:33,812 - I’m gonna brush my teeth... 729 00:24:33,847 --> 00:24:34,967 - OK. - Real quick. 730 00:24:35,057 --> 00:24:36,137 - I’m gonna finish my make-- 731 00:24:36,183 --> 00:24:37,893 I’m almost done. 732 00:24:37,935 --> 00:24:39,815 Actually, I got to lay my edges down. 733 00:24:39,853 --> 00:24:42,233 - Can I watch you put your edges down? 734 00:24:42,272 --> 00:24:43,772 - Did you say put my edges down? 735 00:24:43,857 --> 00:24:45,727 - No, just watch, just watch. 736 00:24:45,818 --> 00:24:47,238 - But what did you call it? - Edges? 737 00:24:47,277 --> 00:24:48,237 - But what did you say? 738 00:24:48,278 --> 00:24:49,738 Say the whole thing. 739 00:24:49,780 --> 00:24:52,200 - Can I watch you put your edges down? 740 00:24:52,241 --> 00:24:53,371 - Lay, I’m gonna lay... - Oh. 741 00:24:53,409 --> 00:24:54,369 - The edges. 742 00:24:54,410 --> 00:24:55,990 - Lay your edges. 743 00:24:56,036 --> 00:24:59,746 - Yes, you can definitely watch me lay my edges. 744 00:24:59,790 --> 00:25:01,210 Gel, brush... 745 00:25:01,250 --> 00:25:02,250 - OK. 746 00:25:02,292 --> 00:25:03,252 - Comb. 747 00:25:03,293 --> 00:25:04,753 - Nice. 748 00:25:04,795 --> 00:25:07,215 - So first, comb the little naps out. 749 00:25:07,297 --> 00:25:10,337 [laughs] That’s what that sound is. 750 00:25:10,384 --> 00:25:11,684 Take a little gel. 751 00:25:11,719 --> 00:25:13,219 I really like a little sideburn action. 752 00:25:13,262 --> 00:25:14,642 - Mm-hmm. 753 00:25:14,680 --> 00:25:16,100 - So I always ask my braiders, like, 754 00:25:16,140 --> 00:25:17,720 leave a little hair out on the side, 755 00:25:17,766 --> 00:25:20,346 so I can get a nice little swoopity-swoop. 756 00:25:20,394 --> 00:25:22,444 - Usually getting ready for, like, pow-wows, 757 00:25:22,479 --> 00:25:24,109 getting in regalia and things like that, 758 00:25:24,148 --> 00:25:26,528 I think my mom and Bronte, they spent 759 00:25:26,567 --> 00:25:29,527 about two hours doing hair. 760 00:25:29,570 --> 00:25:31,196 Yeah, just pulling it tight... 761 00:25:31,196 --> 00:25:32,316 - Just making sure it, like... - Getting it braided. 762 00:25:32,364 --> 00:25:33,324 - Looks perfect... - Mm-hmm. 763 00:25:33,365 --> 00:25:34,275 - At least enough. 764 00:25:34,324 --> 00:25:35,334 - Yeah. 765 00:25:35,367 --> 00:25:36,617 - And they have long hair. 766 00:25:36,660 --> 00:25:38,540 So I bet it does take two hours. 767 00:25:38,579 --> 00:25:41,499 This is why we call it laying the edges down, just to, 768 00:25:41,540 --> 00:25:42,870 like, make sure-- - Oh, and it helps... 769 00:25:42,916 --> 00:25:43,996 - Yeah. - Lay it down? 770 00:25:44,043 --> 00:25:45,253 - Yeah, just to... - OK 771 00:25:45,294 --> 00:25:46,844 - Help it lay down. - Yeah. 772 00:25:46,879 --> 00:25:48,169 - There’s no right or wrong way to tie it, 773 00:25:48,213 --> 00:25:50,716 just as long as it’s tight around. 774 00:25:50,716 --> 00:25:55,296 - I think it is really amazing that she’s able to, you know, 775 00:25:55,345 --> 00:25:57,555 just let me in on her culture. 776 00:25:57,556 --> 00:25:59,676 Everything I could learn about that, you know, and the ways 777 00:25:59,725 --> 00:26:02,436 that I can show support, you know, 778 00:26:02,436 --> 00:26:06,606 for her background and her even familial traditions, you know? 779 00:26:06,648 --> 00:26:07,768 I’m there for it. 780 00:26:07,858 --> 00:26:09,028 - You smell good. 781 00:26:09,068 --> 00:26:10,358 I want to smell good too. 782 00:26:10,402 --> 00:26:11,492 - I will say that. 783 00:26:11,528 --> 00:26:13,198 You have smelled phenomenal. 784 00:26:13,238 --> 00:26:14,198 - Thank you. 785 00:26:14,239 --> 00:26:15,739 I appreciate that. 786 00:26:15,783 --> 00:26:18,203 It’s all for you, baby. 787 00:26:18,243 --> 00:26:19,913 [upbeat music] 788 00:26:19,953 --> 00:26:22,213 - ♪ It’s all you, girl 789 00:26:22,247 --> 00:26:23,957 ♪ Watch you move 790 00:26:23,999 --> 00:26:26,589 ♪ You’re so cool, girl 791 00:26:26,627 --> 00:26:28,087 ♪ You’re so cool 792 00:26:28,128 --> 00:26:29,168 - The boat. - The boat. 793 00:26:29,213 --> 00:26:31,513 - The boat! 794 00:26:31,548 --> 00:26:32,548 I’m on a boat. 795 00:26:32,591 --> 00:26:33,931 Hi. - Hello. 796 00:26:33,967 --> 00:26:35,887 How are you? - Good, and you? 797 00:26:35,928 --> 00:26:36,968 both: Good. 798 00:26:37,012 --> 00:26:38,182 - Mighty nice. 799 00:26:38,222 --> 00:26:39,312 - It’s just like the weather. 800 00:26:39,348 --> 00:26:41,848 - Aw, you’re so cute. 801 00:26:41,892 --> 00:26:42,932 - You’re so cute. 802 00:26:43,018 --> 00:26:45,395 [laughter] 803 00:26:45,395 --> 00:26:48,355 [soft guitar music] 804 00:26:48,357 --> 00:26:50,317 ♪ 805 00:26:50,359 --> 00:26:51,529 - A little pelican. 806 00:26:51,568 --> 00:26:54,528 - That’s not a pelican. 807 00:26:54,571 --> 00:26:56,201 You put your hand here. 808 00:26:56,240 --> 00:26:57,490 - Put where? 809 00:26:57,533 --> 00:26:58,703 - There. - There? 810 00:26:58,742 --> 00:26:59,952 - I want to grab it. - Oh, OK, 811 00:26:59,993 --> 00:27:01,663 in case we hit turbulence? 812 00:27:01,703 --> 00:27:03,793 [laughter] 813 00:27:03,831 --> 00:27:05,711 - Something that I’ve learned about you 814 00:27:05,749 --> 00:27:07,209 which I was pleasantly surprised about 815 00:27:07,251 --> 00:27:12,631 is how equally sensitive and goofy you are. 816 00:27:12,673 --> 00:27:15,263 You’re very good at, like, being in tune with, like, 817 00:27:15,300 --> 00:27:17,010 when I need something and then, like, 818 00:27:17,052 --> 00:27:19,552 being affectionate with the way that you give me that. 819 00:27:19,596 --> 00:27:21,256 Whether it be, like, picking up my suitcase or, like, 820 00:27:21,306 --> 00:27:22,466 doing any little thing. 821 00:27:22,516 --> 00:27:23,846 - Aw, the little things. 822 00:27:23,892 --> 00:27:25,062 - I need to be reassured often... 823 00:27:25,102 --> 00:27:26,192 - OK. 824 00:27:26,228 --> 00:27:27,728 - For my overthinking mind. 825 00:27:27,771 --> 00:27:29,061 - Am I good at doing that or do I need to get better? 826 00:27:29,106 --> 00:27:30,856 - You’ve already gotten better. - Oh, OK. Great. 827 00:27:30,899 --> 00:27:32,359 - Yeah, like, I feel like sometimes 828 00:27:32,401 --> 00:27:35,401 I have to look at you and say, I’m feeling this way. 829 00:27:35,445 --> 00:27:36,945 Please tell me otherwise. 830 00:27:36,989 --> 00:27:38,529 Then you do. 831 00:27:38,574 --> 00:27:40,534 - I don’t think that’s getting better, but-- 832 00:27:40,617 --> 00:27:41,527 - I think it is. 833 00:27:41,618 --> 00:27:42,618 - OK. 834 00:27:42,661 --> 00:27:45,001 - And I’m learning-- 835 00:27:45,038 --> 00:27:46,958 I’m learning how great of a guy you are. 836 00:27:46,999 --> 00:27:50,129 I already knew that, but it’s nice to like-- 837 00:27:50,169 --> 00:27:51,589 - It’s a long journey. 838 00:27:51,628 --> 00:27:53,088 Sometimes it takes time to get there. 839 00:27:53,130 --> 00:27:55,720 - It’s nice to, like, witness what 840 00:27:55,757 --> 00:27:57,797 all of your friends and family have said 841 00:27:57,843 --> 00:27:59,053 and, like, see that it’s true. 842 00:27:59,094 --> 00:28:00,184 - Aw. 843 00:28:00,220 --> 00:28:01,760 I think one thing I’ve learned is, 844 00:28:01,805 --> 00:28:03,925 like, how strong of a person you are and how, 845 00:28:03,974 --> 00:28:06,394 like, capable-- 846 00:28:06,435 --> 00:28:09,235 after, like, you shared, you know, your details 847 00:28:09,271 --> 00:28:13,861 about your surgery and your health issues, like, you know, 848 00:28:13,901 --> 00:28:18,451 I feel like a lot of people don’t see how it affects you. 849 00:28:18,488 --> 00:28:20,368 And I think that’s purposeful. 850 00:28:20,407 --> 00:28:22,907 And you’re, like, strong enough to, like, keep your composure 851 00:28:22,951 --> 00:28:26,711 and so, like, in tune with yourself enough to, 852 00:28:26,747 --> 00:28:31,787 like, actually enjoy a moment, whether you’re in pain or not. 853 00:28:31,835 --> 00:28:32,785 And I, like-- 854 00:28:32,836 --> 00:28:34,086 I really admire that. 855 00:28:34,129 --> 00:28:35,759 I think that’s-- that’s incredible. 856 00:28:35,797 --> 00:28:37,667 - That means a lot that you see that because it’s 857 00:28:37,716 --> 00:28:39,546 so hard to share that... - Well, you’re also-- 858 00:28:39,593 --> 00:28:41,303 - Moment. - Yeah, of course. Yeah. 859 00:28:41,345 --> 00:28:44,565 - I don’t share that side of me with a lot of people, 860 00:28:44,598 --> 00:28:49,098 and I don’t share when I’m in pain 861 00:28:49,144 --> 00:28:51,194 or what I’ve gone through with everyone. 862 00:28:51,230 --> 00:28:54,770 For him to be ingesting it and, like, 863 00:28:54,858 --> 00:28:57,188 interpreting it in that way rather than a negative 864 00:28:57,236 --> 00:28:59,896 is amazing. 865 00:28:59,947 --> 00:29:01,357 We’re learning a lot. 866 00:29:01,406 --> 00:29:02,776 - Learning a lot. 867 00:29:02,824 --> 00:29:04,994 Excited to keep-- keep learning. 868 00:29:05,035 --> 00:29:07,165 - Taking notes. 869 00:29:07,204 --> 00:29:08,544 Can I kiss you? 870 00:29:08,580 --> 00:29:10,120 - Yes. 871 00:29:10,165 --> 00:29:15,375 - Austin makes me feel seen and appreciated, 872 00:29:15,420 --> 00:29:17,460 and I want to do this every day. 873 00:29:17,506 --> 00:29:20,676 - ♪ Give it all that I have 874 00:29:20,717 --> 00:29:24,007 ♪ No holding me back 875 00:29:24,054 --> 00:29:25,555 - Not get married to a stranger every day, 876 00:29:25,555 --> 00:29:27,845 just be with him on a honeymoon every day. 877 00:29:27,891 --> 00:29:29,891 - ♪ The whole world is watching ♪ 878 00:29:29,935 --> 00:29:32,565 ♪ And I need to show them who I am ♪ 879 00:29:32,604 --> 00:29:35,444 - I wouldn’t want to be doing this with anybody else. 880 00:29:35,482 --> 00:29:37,442 - ♪ Because I’m a believer 881 00:29:37,484 --> 00:29:41,534 ♪ And I won’t stop until the end of the road ♪ 882 00:29:41,571 --> 00:29:46,491 ♪ Yeah, unstoppable 883 00:29:46,535 --> 00:29:47,495 [upbeat music] 884 00:29:47,577 --> 00:29:49,867 - ♪ Hey, yeah 885 00:29:49,913 --> 00:29:51,663 ♪ You’re dancing for me 886 00:29:51,707 --> 00:29:53,667 ♪ Look, see 887 00:29:53,709 --> 00:29:55,129 ♪ You’re smiling for me 888 00:29:55,168 --> 00:29:56,418 - Oh, it’s nice. - Yeah. 889 00:29:56,461 --> 00:29:57,501 - Cool. 890 00:29:57,546 --> 00:29:58,836 - You want to sit over here? 891 00:29:58,880 --> 00:30:00,220 - This is nice. 892 00:30:00,299 --> 00:30:02,679 - How many shots do you think we’re gonna get? 893 00:30:02,718 --> 00:30:03,838 - Probably a lot. 894 00:30:03,885 --> 00:30:04,885 - I’m, like, nervous. 895 00:30:04,928 --> 00:30:06,388 I’ve never have mezcal. 896 00:30:06,430 --> 00:30:08,560 So this is gonna be quite interesting. 897 00:30:08,598 --> 00:30:09,888 - Buenas tardes. - Buenas tardes. 898 00:30:09,933 --> 00:30:10,933 - Oh, wow. 899 00:30:11,018 --> 00:30:12,138 - How are you? 900 00:30:12,185 --> 00:30:14,225 It’s mezcal el viejo. 901 00:30:14,271 --> 00:30:16,356 - OK. - OK. 902 00:30:16,356 --> 00:30:17,566 - Are we supposed to drink the whole thing? 903 00:30:17,607 --> 00:30:19,527 - Yes. - Oh. 904 00:30:19,568 --> 00:30:20,688 [glasses clinking] 905 00:30:20,777 --> 00:30:21,687 - Salud. 906 00:30:21,778 --> 00:30:22,898 - Uh-oh. 907 00:30:22,946 --> 00:30:25,486 [salsa music] 908 00:30:25,532 --> 00:30:26,532 Mmm. 909 00:30:26,575 --> 00:30:27,955 - OK. 910 00:30:27,993 --> 00:30:29,043 Maybe we take a little break from this. 911 00:30:29,077 --> 00:30:30,367 - Hey, no, no, no, no, no, no, no. 912 00:30:30,412 --> 00:30:32,042 You’re gonna do all of these. 913 00:30:32,080 --> 00:30:33,290 - Cheers. 914 00:30:33,332 --> 00:30:36,042 [glasses clinking] 915 00:30:36,084 --> 00:30:37,424 ♪ 916 00:30:37,461 --> 00:30:39,211 Mmm. Not bad. 917 00:30:39,254 --> 00:30:43,634 ♪ 918 00:30:43,675 --> 00:30:45,385 Delicious. 919 00:30:45,427 --> 00:30:46,587 What is that, brownie? 920 00:30:46,636 --> 00:30:47,716 - [laughs] 921 00:30:47,763 --> 00:30:49,313 - It’s so good. 922 00:30:51,641 --> 00:30:53,311 Oh, look, there’s more. 923 00:30:53,352 --> 00:30:55,442 OK. 924 00:30:55,479 --> 00:30:59,149 - I’m gonna do yours and see if I cry after, like today. 925 00:30:59,191 --> 00:31:00,611 - I don’t cry. 926 00:31:00,650 --> 00:31:01,570 That was sweat. 927 00:31:01,610 --> 00:31:02,900 - [laughs] 928 00:31:02,944 --> 00:31:05,034 - God. - Wild sides out. 929 00:31:05,072 --> 00:31:08,492 [laughter] 930 00:31:08,533 --> 00:31:10,243 - And cheers. All right, ready? 931 00:31:10,285 --> 00:31:11,865 We got to do the whole fancy thing. 932 00:31:11,912 --> 00:31:14,582 I know it’s a little-- all right, hold on. 933 00:31:14,623 --> 00:31:17,173 I’m gonna come in here. 934 00:31:17,209 --> 00:31:19,129 - ♪ It all starts with one spark ♪ 935 00:31:19,169 --> 00:31:22,629 ♪ Let your colors shine right from the heart ♪ 936 00:31:22,672 --> 00:31:24,092 - This is the type of relationship I’ve always 937 00:31:24,132 --> 00:31:26,012 wanted, just getting to try new experiences 938 00:31:26,051 --> 00:31:27,391 that I’ve never done before. 939 00:31:27,427 --> 00:31:29,297 And I’m just hoping I don’t puke. 940 00:31:29,346 --> 00:31:32,386 [laughs] 941 00:31:32,432 --> 00:31:33,312 - Where are you from, Long Island? 942 00:31:33,350 --> 00:31:34,350 - Mm-hmm. 943 00:31:34,393 --> 00:31:36,063 - I’m from Long Island. 944 00:31:36,103 --> 00:31:37,403 I’m in New York. I like pizza. 945 00:31:37,437 --> 00:31:38,647 - Yeah. 946 00:31:38,688 --> 00:31:41,398 [laughter] 947 00:31:41,441 --> 00:31:43,276 - Were you a partier in college? 948 00:31:43,276 --> 00:31:45,646 - I wouldn’t say I’m a partier, but, like, I had fun. 949 00:31:45,737 --> 00:31:47,027 - I was a huge partier. 950 00:31:47,072 --> 00:31:48,322 - Huge? - Yeah. 951 00:31:48,365 --> 00:31:49,825 - Uh-oh. 952 00:31:49,866 --> 00:31:50,656 - I feel like I went to a big party school. 953 00:31:50,700 --> 00:31:51,700 It’s hard to. 954 00:31:51,743 --> 00:31:54,253 It’s all in the past... 955 00:31:54,287 --> 00:31:55,247 ish. 956 00:31:55,288 --> 00:31:56,868 - Open up. 957 00:31:56,915 --> 00:31:57,915 - I’m a married woman now. 958 00:31:57,916 --> 00:31:59,246 - A married woman. 959 00:31:59,292 --> 00:32:01,592 - But still fun. 960 00:32:01,628 --> 00:32:03,458 Very important. 961 00:32:03,505 --> 00:32:04,715 - I feel like we balance each other out. 962 00:32:04,756 --> 00:32:06,256 - Yeah, like, we’re similar, but we do 963 00:32:06,299 --> 00:32:07,679 have our own personalities. 964 00:32:07,717 --> 00:32:09,047 It works with each other. 965 00:32:09,094 --> 00:32:10,644 Like I’m really emotional. 966 00:32:10,679 --> 00:32:12,389 - Sometimes I get sappy. 967 00:32:12,431 --> 00:32:13,391 - Oh, you have emotions? 968 00:32:13,432 --> 00:32:14,392 - Sap. - Sap. 969 00:32:14,433 --> 00:32:15,643 - Yeah. 970 00:32:15,684 --> 00:32:17,564 - Where does sap-- like down here? 971 00:32:17,602 --> 00:32:20,692 - It’s like pride to the left next to the dessert section, 972 00:32:20,730 --> 00:32:21,940 if I’m being honest. 973 00:32:21,982 --> 00:32:24,282 [light music] 974 00:32:24,317 --> 00:32:27,567 I feel like I’ve known you for a long time. 975 00:32:27,612 --> 00:32:29,282 And it’s just really nice to, like, hang out with you, 976 00:32:29,322 --> 00:32:30,452 honestly. 977 00:32:30,490 --> 00:32:31,910 It just kind of feels like we’re 978 00:32:31,950 --> 00:32:32,780 picking up where we left off. - Mm-hmm. 979 00:32:32,826 --> 00:32:33,736 - You know? 980 00:32:33,785 --> 00:32:35,365 - Mm-hmm. 981 00:32:35,412 --> 00:32:37,872 We’re very similar. 982 00:32:37,914 --> 00:32:40,044 - The same values, which is, like, pretty cool, 983 00:32:40,083 --> 00:32:42,293 the real important stuff. 984 00:32:42,377 --> 00:32:43,797 All this time, like, dating, I thought, 985 00:32:43,837 --> 00:32:46,047 like, am I just different? 986 00:32:46,089 --> 00:32:48,339 Like, I feel like I can say something, 987 00:32:48,383 --> 00:32:51,593 and you wouldn’t, like, judge me for it. 988 00:32:51,636 --> 00:32:53,296 I feel like you would be like, yeah. 989 00:32:53,346 --> 00:32:54,346 - Hell, yeah. 990 00:32:54,389 --> 00:32:55,679 - Is that scary for you? 991 00:32:55,724 --> 00:32:56,894 - It’s not scary. 992 00:32:56,933 --> 00:32:58,393 It’s just, like, crazy. 993 00:32:58,435 --> 00:33:00,025 Like I’ve just never met anyone like-- 994 00:33:00,061 --> 00:33:03,691 like me, let alone, like, someone I like. 995 00:33:03,732 --> 00:33:05,442 You know? 996 00:33:05,484 --> 00:33:07,944 - ♪ Feeling so anxious and nervous ♪ 997 00:33:07,986 --> 00:33:09,526 ♪ But I know that you will be worth it ♪ 998 00:33:09,571 --> 00:33:11,571 ♪ More than I ever dreamed 999 00:33:11,615 --> 00:33:13,665 ♪ I guess this is happening 1000 00:33:13,700 --> 00:33:14,870 - I’m gonna take another shot. 1001 00:33:14,910 --> 00:33:16,330 Do you want one? - Yeah. 1002 00:33:16,369 --> 00:33:17,619 Cheers. 1003 00:33:17,662 --> 00:33:18,752 Where have you been my whole life? 1004 00:33:18,788 --> 00:33:20,038 - I don’t know. [glasses clinking] 1005 00:33:24,377 --> 00:33:25,877 - ♪ Tonight, this feeling so sweet ♪ 1006 00:33:25,879 --> 00:33:28,969 ♪ This rhythm taking over me, oh ♪ 1007 00:33:29,007 --> 00:33:30,467 - You want me to get on that side? 1008 00:33:30,509 --> 00:33:31,299 - Yeah, you want to try this? - Yeah. 1009 00:33:31,343 --> 00:33:32,643 - All right. 1010 00:33:32,677 --> 00:33:34,137 I think we should both sit down-- 1011 00:33:34,179 --> 00:33:35,389 - Like both sit down at the same time. 1012 00:33:35,430 --> 00:33:36,310 - At the same time. - Oh, [bleep]. 1013 00:33:36,348 --> 00:33:37,308 - And-- - Ooh. 1014 00:33:37,349 --> 00:33:38,469 - Oh, look at that. 1015 00:33:38,475 --> 00:33:39,355 - Yeah, you went for it. You got it. 1016 00:33:39,392 --> 00:33:40,602 - Oh, sh-- 1017 00:33:40,644 --> 00:33:41,484 - I got to give you some more room. 1018 00:33:41,520 --> 00:33:43,350 - Oh, no. Oh, no. 1019 00:33:43,355 --> 00:33:44,565 - You good? [laughs] 1020 00:33:44,606 --> 00:33:46,146 - Yeah. Yeah, I’m good. 1021 00:33:46,191 --> 00:33:47,191 I’m good. I’m good. 1022 00:33:47,234 --> 00:33:48,074 - OK. You got enough room? 1023 00:33:48,109 --> 00:33:49,149 - [sighs] 1024 00:33:49,194 --> 00:33:50,864 - Hammocks are relaxing. 1025 00:33:50,904 --> 00:33:52,914 - You know, I could probably just hang out 1026 00:33:52,948 --> 00:33:54,118 here for the rest of the day. 1027 00:33:54,157 --> 00:33:56,027 - Oh, thank you so much. 1028 00:33:56,076 --> 00:33:57,866 - Thank you. 1029 00:33:57,911 --> 00:33:58,871 Cheers. 1030 00:33:58,912 --> 00:34:00,542 - Cheers. 1031 00:34:00,580 --> 00:34:02,460 - I still, like, wake up and think like this [bleep] 1032 00:34:02,499 --> 00:34:04,749 is crazy, that we did this. - All the time. All the time. 1033 00:34:04,793 --> 00:34:07,253 - But it’s also, like, going so well that I’m like-- 1034 00:34:07,337 --> 00:34:09,837 - It feels really natural. 1035 00:34:09,881 --> 00:34:11,671 - But we’re still crazy as [bleep] for doing this. 1036 00:34:11,716 --> 00:34:12,876 - Yeah. 1037 00:34:12,926 --> 00:34:14,046 - I mean, but I wouldn’t want to do it... 1038 00:34:14,094 --> 00:34:15,554 - Cheers to crazy. - With anyone else. 1039 00:34:15,595 --> 00:34:17,005 - Aw, thanks, babe. 1040 00:34:17,097 --> 00:34:18,347 Cheers to crazy. 1041 00:34:18,390 --> 00:34:19,640 - Mm-hmm. 1042 00:34:19,683 --> 00:34:21,563 - Thanks. - Aw. 1043 00:34:21,601 --> 00:34:22,891 - What did we book? 1044 00:34:22,978 --> 00:34:24,018 Oh, we did Mexican food for dinner. 1045 00:34:24,062 --> 00:34:25,192 - Yeah, Mexican food. 1046 00:34:25,230 --> 00:34:26,610 I’m a big foodie, honestly. 1047 00:34:26,648 --> 00:34:28,438 - I really love that you can cook. 1048 00:34:28,483 --> 00:34:30,153 I haven’t had too many partners that cook well. 1049 00:34:30,193 --> 00:34:31,743 - Ooh, OK. 1050 00:34:31,778 --> 00:34:34,238 So you believe in gender roles in the house? 1051 00:34:34,281 --> 00:34:35,871 - Yeah. 1052 00:34:35,907 --> 00:34:38,117 I think there’s room for flexible gender roles 1053 00:34:38,159 --> 00:34:40,039 too, especially as it talks--as it pertains 1054 00:34:40,078 --> 00:34:41,198 to, like, household stuff. - Right, of course. 1055 00:34:41,246 --> 00:34:42,956 - Yeah, yeah, yeah. 1056 00:34:42,956 --> 00:34:44,786 So, like, do I think I should be in the kitchen cooking? 1057 00:34:44,833 --> 00:34:46,213 No, like, all the time. 1058 00:34:46,251 --> 00:34:47,541 Do I want to cook for my man though? 1059 00:34:47,586 --> 00:34:48,416 - But you should know how to cook. 1060 00:34:48,461 --> 00:34:49,881 - Yeah. 1061 00:34:49,921 --> 00:34:51,711 I think every adult should know how to cook. 1062 00:34:51,715 --> 00:34:54,435 But also, like, do I also, like, stereotypically, like, 1063 00:34:54,467 --> 00:34:55,467 want to cook for my man? 1064 00:34:55,510 --> 00:34:57,300 Yes, I do. 1065 00:34:57,345 --> 00:34:58,715 And things like that, I’m like, yeah, I still want to do. 1066 00:34:58,763 --> 00:35:01,603 Like I still want to be a wife to you. 1067 00:35:01,641 --> 00:35:02,811 - Mm-hmm. 1068 00:35:02,851 --> 00:35:04,191 And I still want to be a husband. 1069 00:35:04,227 --> 00:35:06,517 - Yeah, like how we talked about, 1070 00:35:06,563 --> 00:35:08,193 like, financial roles in the house. 1071 00:35:08,231 --> 00:35:09,771 - Yeah. Yeah. 1072 00:35:09,858 --> 00:35:13,528 - I feel like, yeah, you should be the provider. 1073 00:35:13,570 --> 00:35:15,450 - The 60-40, 70-30. 1074 00:35:15,488 --> 00:35:16,948 - No, you said 80-20. 1075 00:35:16,990 --> 00:35:18,370 I think I like that number. - No--I-- 1076 00:35:18,408 --> 00:35:19,828 - But no, we can stick... - No, no, no. 1077 00:35:19,868 --> 00:35:21,738 - At 70-30. - I did, because... 1078 00:35:21,786 --> 00:35:23,826 no, and I said 80-20 because that is naturally how I like... 1079 00:35:23,872 --> 00:35:24,912 - How you are. - To be. 1080 00:35:24,956 --> 00:35:26,166 - I love that. - Yeah. 1081 00:35:26,207 --> 00:35:27,787 - I love that. 1082 00:35:27,834 --> 00:35:30,634 - It can take a little bit to get there. 1083 00:35:30,670 --> 00:35:32,760 It is something that I want to give you, though. 1084 00:35:32,797 --> 00:35:34,167 - Yeah? - Mm-hmm. 1085 00:35:34,257 --> 00:35:36,507 - I do get the vibes that, OK, 1086 00:35:36,551 --> 00:35:38,591 you want to provide for the household 1087 00:35:38,637 --> 00:35:40,555 and be, like, the man of the house. 1088 00:35:40,555 --> 00:35:42,885 And I appreciate that because that’s what I’m looking for. 1089 00:35:42,932 --> 00:35:46,442 But with that being said, I also want to give. 1090 00:35:46,478 --> 00:35:48,348 I don’t want you to feel the burden 1091 00:35:48,396 --> 00:35:51,316 and the weight of household financial duties alone. 1092 00:35:51,358 --> 00:35:52,858 - Right. 1093 00:35:52,901 --> 00:35:54,651 - I very much want you to feel like we’re 1094 00:35:54,694 --> 00:35:56,244 a partnership in this. - Absolutely 1095 00:35:56,279 --> 00:35:57,779 - So-- - Yeah, we’re a team in this. 1096 00:35:57,822 --> 00:35:59,115 - Yeah. 1097 00:35:59,115 --> 00:35:59,985 Well, we’ll figure that out as we go. 1098 00:36:00,033 --> 00:36:01,493 - Of course. 1099 00:36:01,534 --> 00:36:02,624 - But I’m glad that we talked about that 1100 00:36:02,661 --> 00:36:03,995 because it was on my mind. 1101 00:36:03,995 --> 00:36:05,405 But I know when it comes to money-- 1102 00:36:05,497 --> 00:36:06,907 - It can be touchy for a lot of people. 1103 00:36:06,956 --> 00:36:08,166 - Especially men... - Sure, yeah. 1104 00:36:08,208 --> 00:36:09,538 - To be honest. 1105 00:36:09,584 --> 00:36:11,094 And that’s why I wanted you to like... 1106 00:36:11,127 --> 00:36:12,247 - Yeah. - Bring that up on your time. 1107 00:36:12,337 --> 00:36:13,457 - Honestly, that’s why I initiated it. 1108 00:36:13,505 --> 00:36:14,635 - Yeah. I was like-- - That’s why... 1109 00:36:14,673 --> 00:36:15,673 - Because I was not-- - I initiated it. 1110 00:36:15,715 --> 00:36:16,835 - I was not going to initiate 1111 00:36:16,883 --> 00:36:18,513 the money conversation at all. 1112 00:36:18,551 --> 00:36:20,011 I don’t feel comfortable doing that with men. 1113 00:36:20,053 --> 00:36:21,893 I just prefer y’all to do that. 1114 00:36:21,930 --> 00:36:23,180 You to do that. 1115 00:36:23,223 --> 00:36:25,143 - Yeah. Yeah. Yeah. 1116 00:36:25,183 --> 00:36:29,023 - So, like, what’s your, like, manscaping, like, 1117 00:36:29,062 --> 00:36:32,152 below and above the waist like? 1118 00:36:32,190 --> 00:36:33,650 I just got to know-- - OK. 1119 00:36:33,692 --> 00:36:34,692 - Just so I know what to prepare for. 1120 00:36:34,734 --> 00:36:36,114 - Well-- - Is it a jungle? 1121 00:36:36,152 --> 00:36:37,402 - No, I was gonna say it’s nothing prehistoric. 1122 00:36:37,445 --> 00:36:38,445 - Is it a forest? 1123 00:36:38,488 --> 00:36:39,448 - It’s nothing prehistoric. 1124 00:36:39,489 --> 00:36:40,659 It’s nothing prehistoric. 1125 00:36:40,699 --> 00:36:42,069 You know, I keep it low. - OK. 1126 00:36:42,117 --> 00:36:43,447 - I keep it soft. 1127 00:36:43,493 --> 00:36:45,123 - How do you keep it soft? 1128 00:36:45,161 --> 00:36:47,081 - So for Christmas, 1129 00:36:47,122 --> 00:36:48,915 I got something from my brother. 1130 00:36:48,915 --> 00:36:50,625 It was called Manscape. 1131 00:36:50,667 --> 00:36:51,997 It was, like, a whole kit. 1132 00:36:52,043 --> 00:36:54,796 So I get, like, aftershave for my nuts... 1133 00:36:54,796 --> 00:36:56,546 [laughter] 1134 00:36:56,589 --> 00:36:57,879 Things like that. 1135 00:36:57,924 --> 00:36:59,134 - We’re adults. 1136 00:36:59,217 --> 00:37:00,377 - You know. Yeah. Yeah. 1137 00:37:00,427 --> 00:37:01,837 You know, I’m just-- I don’t know. 1138 00:37:01,886 --> 00:37:02,966 I take care of myself. - So it’s soft? 1139 00:37:03,012 --> 00:37:03,932 - Yeah. I take care of myself. 1140 00:37:03,972 --> 00:37:04,932 - OK. So you keep it low. 1141 00:37:04,973 --> 00:37:06,223 - Yeah. - OK. 1142 00:37:06,266 --> 00:37:07,176 I like low over no, honestly. - Yeah. 1143 00:37:07,225 --> 00:37:08,265 I keep it low, not bald. 1144 00:37:08,309 --> 00:37:09,849 - For men, I like low over no. 1145 00:37:09,894 --> 00:37:11,444 - Yeah, low, not bold. 1146 00:37:11,479 --> 00:37:12,979 - Your eyelashes are really pretty. 1147 00:37:13,022 --> 00:37:14,232 - Thank you. 1148 00:37:14,274 --> 00:37:15,574 - They’re real sexy like. 1149 00:37:15,608 --> 00:37:18,608 - Ooh. - Mm, mm. [laughs] 1150 00:37:18,653 --> 00:37:20,573 [soft music] 1151 00:37:20,613 --> 00:37:22,703 - ♪ I don’t know what you put on me ♪ 1152 00:37:22,741 --> 00:37:25,121 ♪ You got me going crazy 1153 00:37:25,160 --> 00:37:27,080 ♪ Don’t know what you put upon me ♪ 1154 00:37:27,120 --> 00:37:28,290 ♪ On me 1155 00:37:28,329 --> 00:37:30,869 ♪ You got me so in love 1156 00:37:30,915 --> 00:37:32,745 ♪ I want to play it rough 1157 00:37:32,792 --> 00:37:34,752 ♪ I’m gonna turn it up 1158 00:37:34,794 --> 00:37:36,754 ♪ 1159 00:37:36,796 --> 00:37:38,916 - ♪ Loving you like you’re mine ♪ 1160 00:37:38,965 --> 00:37:41,215 ♪ Giving you everything I’ve got ♪ 1161 00:37:41,259 --> 00:37:42,639 ♪ I’m gonna change your life 1162 00:37:42,677 --> 00:37:45,177 - Gonna eat so much food. - Steak. 1163 00:37:45,221 --> 00:37:48,351 - And then we’re not gonna fit in our clothes. 1164 00:37:48,391 --> 00:37:49,391 - These hot, sexy clothes. 1165 00:37:49,434 --> 00:37:50,394 - Ooh! 1166 00:37:50,435 --> 00:37:51,525 We cute! 1167 00:37:51,561 --> 00:37:52,691 - Ooh! 1168 00:37:52,729 --> 00:37:54,809 - He’s cute. 1169 00:37:54,898 --> 00:37:56,358 I’ll keep him. 1170 00:37:56,399 --> 00:37:59,359 - ♪ Look me in your eyes 1171 00:37:59,402 --> 00:38:02,202 ♪ ’Cause I’ve been loving you like you’re mine ♪ 1172 00:38:02,238 --> 00:38:03,568 - Should I grab your chair for you? 1173 00:38:03,656 --> 00:38:04,866 - No. - Oh, that’d be nice. 1174 00:38:04,908 --> 00:38:06,488 - [bleep] the patriarchy. [laughs] 1175 00:38:06,534 --> 00:38:07,494 - [laughs] OK. 1176 00:38:07,577 --> 00:38:09,447 [laughter] 1177 00:38:09,537 --> 00:38:10,787 You got it. 1178 00:38:10,830 --> 00:38:12,540 - Just kidding. 1179 00:38:12,582 --> 00:38:14,212 Do you want me to pull your chair out for you? 1180 00:38:14,250 --> 00:38:15,210 - I don’t think it works like that. 1181 00:38:15,251 --> 00:38:16,841 - I’m just kidding. 1182 00:38:16,878 --> 00:38:18,088 Do you want to know what the best view is? 1183 00:38:18,129 --> 00:38:19,756 Your face. - I was gonna say. 1184 00:38:19,756 --> 00:38:20,756 This one right here? 1185 00:38:20,799 --> 00:38:22,719 - Just your face. 1186 00:38:22,759 --> 00:38:24,759 Your face, my face. 1187 00:38:24,803 --> 00:38:26,723 We haven’t even known each other that long, 1188 00:38:26,763 --> 00:38:29,603 and I just think you’re just very sweet. 1189 00:38:29,641 --> 00:38:30,891 - Aw, thank you. 1190 00:38:30,934 --> 00:38:32,435 - And I like you a lot. 1191 00:38:32,435 --> 00:38:34,435 - Aw, I like you too. 1192 00:38:34,479 --> 00:38:37,315 ♪ 1193 00:38:37,315 --> 00:38:38,605 - What were you like as a kid? 1194 00:38:38,650 --> 00:38:41,110 - Wild, a handful. 1195 00:38:41,152 --> 00:38:43,032 - That’s what your mom said. 1196 00:38:43,071 --> 00:38:46,571 - [laughs] You grew up in the suburbs of Chicago? 1197 00:38:46,658 --> 00:38:48,078 - Mm-hmm. 1198 00:38:48,117 --> 00:38:50,867 I grew up pretty privileged, just, like, 1199 00:38:50,912 --> 00:38:53,502 upper middle class, great school system. 1200 00:38:53,540 --> 00:38:56,080 I had a great group of friends. 1201 00:38:56,125 --> 00:38:59,745 A little wild as a high schooler and middle schooler. 1202 00:38:59,796 --> 00:39:02,796 But, um--but, yeah, I feel like just a relatively 1203 00:39:02,841 --> 00:39:05,551 pretty normal childhood. 1204 00:39:05,593 --> 00:39:07,053 Yes, thank you. 1205 00:39:07,136 --> 00:39:08,386 - Ooh, I’m excited. 1206 00:39:08,429 --> 00:39:10,349 - Yum. 1207 00:39:10,390 --> 00:39:11,890 How about you? 1208 00:39:11,933 --> 00:39:15,443 - Yes, I grew up in Boulder, and my life is pretty, 1209 00:39:15,478 --> 00:39:17,978 like, normal and boring. - Mm-hmm. 1210 00:39:18,022 --> 00:39:19,572 - I didn’t have a sibling, so, like, 1211 00:39:19,607 --> 00:39:22,147 that time growing up, I was, like, stuck at my--my house... 1212 00:39:22,193 --> 00:39:23,193 - Mm-hmm. 1213 00:39:23,236 --> 00:39:25,236 - And, like, bored. 1214 00:39:25,280 --> 00:39:26,950 - Were you ever jealous of, like, your friends 1215 00:39:26,990 --> 00:39:29,075 who grew up with siblings? 1216 00:39:29,075 --> 00:39:31,575 - No, I wasn’t jealous. 1217 00:39:31,619 --> 00:39:33,249 I didn’t mind being an only child. 1218 00:39:33,288 --> 00:39:37,708 I think, like, it-- 1219 00:39:37,750 --> 00:39:39,540 I think, like, if I were to have kids, 1220 00:39:39,586 --> 00:39:41,126 I would want to have two. 1221 00:39:41,170 --> 00:39:42,760 - Mm-hmm. 1222 00:39:42,797 --> 00:39:44,837 - Do you have, like, a number of kids you want 1223 00:39:44,883 --> 00:39:47,635 to, like, aim for or not or-- 1224 00:39:47,635 --> 00:39:50,755 - I feel like I’ve imagined my life either way, 1225 00:39:50,805 --> 00:39:53,385 with or without kids. 1226 00:39:53,433 --> 00:39:55,273 - OK. 1227 00:39:55,310 --> 00:40:01,190 - But I think largely, the decision lies in, like, 1228 00:40:01,232 --> 00:40:03,822 what my partner wants, not because I don’t know 1229 00:40:03,860 --> 00:40:05,990 what I want, but because, like, truly, either way, 1230 00:40:06,029 --> 00:40:07,609 I would be so happy. 1231 00:40:07,697 --> 00:40:09,447 Because if I didn’t have kids, like, 1232 00:40:09,490 --> 00:40:12,490 it would allow me to, like, foster kids or, you know, 1233 00:40:12,577 --> 00:40:16,367 serve my community in ways that you can’t when you have kids. 1234 00:40:16,414 --> 00:40:17,754 - Yeah. - But... 1235 00:40:17,790 --> 00:40:19,250 - Yeah. 1236 00:40:19,292 --> 00:40:20,842 - If you were to want kids, that would be fun. 1237 00:40:20,877 --> 00:40:22,667 - [laughs] Yeah, I want to have kids. 1238 00:40:22,712 --> 00:40:23,712 - [laughs] 1239 00:40:23,755 --> 00:40:25,595 - I want to have kids. 1240 00:40:25,632 --> 00:40:27,052 - I’m gonna throw up. - You think I was wild? 1241 00:40:27,091 --> 00:40:28,631 - Mm-hmm. 1242 00:40:28,635 --> 00:40:29,805 - That kid would be something--our kids 1243 00:40:29,844 --> 00:40:31,394 are gonna be something else. 1244 00:40:31,429 --> 00:40:34,219 [laughter] 1245 00:40:34,265 --> 00:40:35,465 - When do you want two kids? 1246 00:40:35,516 --> 00:40:37,435 - Maybe like a three-year spread. 1247 00:40:37,435 --> 00:40:39,145 I’ve got, like, a lot of other things I want to do-- 1248 00:40:39,187 --> 00:40:40,347 - Yeah. 1249 00:40:40,396 --> 00:40:41,646 - Before I have kids. - Same. 1250 00:40:41,689 --> 00:40:43,109 - Like date you. 1251 00:40:43,149 --> 00:40:45,319 [laughs] 1252 00:40:50,198 --> 00:40:51,698 - ♪ Don’t want out 1253 00:40:51,699 --> 00:40:53,409 ♪ Feeling love, feeling love 1254 00:40:53,451 --> 00:40:54,951 ♪ And you’re all that you got ♪ 1255 00:40:54,994 --> 00:40:56,544 - Cheers. 1256 00:40:56,579 --> 00:40:59,789 - Ah, to not falling in. 1257 00:40:59,832 --> 00:41:01,502 - Good for us. 1258 00:41:01,542 --> 00:41:03,632 When I--there could have been several moments. 1259 00:41:05,797 --> 00:41:09,177 [chuckles] Oh, thank you. 1260 00:41:09,258 --> 00:41:10,468 That looks delish. 1261 00:41:10,510 --> 00:41:11,760 - Do you want me to put it here? 1262 00:41:11,803 --> 00:41:12,763 - Yeah. 1263 00:41:12,804 --> 00:41:13,804 Thank you. 1264 00:41:13,846 --> 00:41:15,256 - Thank you. Perfect. 1265 00:41:15,306 --> 00:41:16,306 Thank you. 1266 00:41:16,349 --> 00:41:18,019 - Appreciate that. 1267 00:41:18,059 --> 00:41:19,519 - Ooh. 1268 00:41:19,560 --> 00:41:22,060 Ooh, this is soft. - [laughs] 1269 00:41:22,105 --> 00:41:25,325 - How does it feel to be on a date with me, your husband? 1270 00:41:25,358 --> 00:41:27,068 - I’m having fun. 1271 00:41:27,110 --> 00:41:29,200 [upbeat music] 1272 00:41:29,237 --> 00:41:31,527 - Um... 1273 00:41:31,572 --> 00:41:33,372 I think we can kind of, you know, 1274 00:41:33,408 --> 00:41:38,448 use this dinner as the start point for a fun night. 1275 00:41:38,538 --> 00:41:41,916 - Mm-hmm, yeah. 1276 00:41:41,916 --> 00:41:44,126 I know I’m having a good time when I’m laughing a lot. 1277 00:41:44,168 --> 00:41:45,498 - Mm. 1278 00:41:45,545 --> 00:41:46,465 - That’s when it’s like, OK, she-- 1279 00:41:46,504 --> 00:41:47,714 she’s having a good time. 1280 00:41:47,755 --> 00:41:49,165 - Well, you laugh all the time around me. 1281 00:41:49,215 --> 00:41:51,465 - Yeah, ’cause I think you’re goofy, in a good way. 1282 00:41:51,509 --> 00:41:53,009 - Mm. - No, not--no, goofy is-- 1283 00:41:53,052 --> 00:41:54,302 - I didn’t know goofy-- 1284 00:41:54,345 --> 00:41:55,965 I didn’t know goofy was in a bad way. 1285 00:41:56,014 --> 00:41:57,644 - Oh, OK, good. 1286 00:41:57,682 --> 00:41:59,517 I don’t know, because I think some people hear goofy, 1287 00:41:59,517 --> 00:42:00,887 and they’re like-- 1288 00:42:00,935 --> 00:42:02,765 which I--I said, like, I appreciate a goofy-- 1289 00:42:02,812 --> 00:42:06,192 I asked for a goofy person because I feel like my job, 1290 00:42:06,232 --> 00:42:08,612 I can get really serious sometimes because it is 1291 00:42:08,651 --> 00:42:10,241 a very serious thing, right? 1292 00:42:10,278 --> 00:42:11,278 - Mm-hmm, mm-hmm. 1293 00:42:11,320 --> 00:42:13,030 - It’s people’s health. 1294 00:42:13,072 --> 00:42:14,372 It’s their--their minds, 1295 00:42:14,407 --> 00:42:16,117 and so I take that very seriously. 1296 00:42:16,159 --> 00:42:19,659 And sometimes I lose sight of, like, the fun parts of things. 1297 00:42:19,704 --> 00:42:20,914 - Yeah. - You know? 1298 00:42:20,955 --> 00:42:21,955 - Yeah. 1299 00:42:21,998 --> 00:42:23,708 - Have you gone to therapy? 1300 00:42:23,750 --> 00:42:24,670 - As a kid, not as-- 1301 00:42:24,709 --> 00:42:25,709 - Yeah. 1302 00:42:25,752 --> 00:42:27,252 - Not as an adult, yeah. 1303 00:42:27,295 --> 00:42:29,215 - Do you feel like you could benefit or, like-- 1304 00:42:29,255 --> 00:42:31,335 I mean, obviously, it’s something that is-- 1305 00:42:31,382 --> 00:42:32,632 it’s very important to me. - Yeah. 1306 00:42:32,675 --> 00:42:33,925 - You know? - Yeah. 1307 00:42:33,968 --> 00:42:35,758 - I understand therapy. 1308 00:42:35,803 --> 00:42:37,853 I think it would be difficult for anyone to say earnestly 1309 00:42:37,889 --> 00:42:40,516 that, like, therapy wouldn’t--couldn’t do 1310 00:42:40,516 --> 00:42:41,426 something good for them. 1311 00:42:41,476 --> 00:42:42,636 - Right. 1312 00:42:42,685 --> 00:42:44,265 - But, you know, the-- 1313 00:42:44,312 --> 00:42:45,732 the reason I think that would stop people 1314 00:42:45,772 --> 00:42:48,362 is they’re unfamiliar, so they don’t know 1315 00:42:48,399 --> 00:42:50,069 how much good it would do. - Right. 1316 00:42:50,109 --> 00:42:52,319 - Or they think that there’s some stigma to it. 1317 00:42:52,361 --> 00:42:53,741 - But what about you? 1318 00:42:53,780 --> 00:42:55,240 - I think it’s good. - Yeah. 1319 00:42:55,281 --> 00:42:57,116 - Yeah. - But why don’t you go? 1320 00:42:57,116 --> 00:42:58,866 - It’s just not right now in my life 1321 00:42:58,910 --> 00:43:00,700 something that I want to do. 1322 00:43:00,745 --> 00:43:04,755 Things that I need find me when I need them. 1323 00:43:04,791 --> 00:43:06,921 It’s not--I’m not saying that that’s a-- 1324 00:43:06,959 --> 00:43:10,669 I’m not saying that that is the right way to go about life, 1325 00:43:10,713 --> 00:43:14,173 but I feel like things that you might call interventions 1326 00:43:14,258 --> 00:43:15,088 or however you want to define it-- 1327 00:43:15,134 --> 00:43:16,434 - Mm-hmm. 1328 00:43:16,469 --> 00:43:17,259 - If it’s therapy or something else... 1329 00:43:17,303 --> 00:43:18,393 - Right. 1330 00:43:18,429 --> 00:43:20,429 - My experience is that I find 1331 00:43:20,473 --> 00:43:23,313 that intervention, that specific intervention, 1332 00:43:23,351 --> 00:43:24,601 when I need it. 1333 00:43:24,644 --> 00:43:26,404 - I totally look at life differently, 1334 00:43:26,437 --> 00:43:27,397 but I respect that. 1335 00:43:27,438 --> 00:43:29,188 - Mm-hmm. 1336 00:43:29,232 --> 00:43:31,072 - I feel like you have to be willing to go through-- 1337 00:43:31,109 --> 00:43:32,569 put yourself out there. 1338 00:43:32,610 --> 00:43:34,860 I mean, you think that things that you deserve 1339 00:43:34,904 --> 00:43:36,414 just come upon you? 1340 00:43:36,447 --> 00:43:37,907 You don’t have to work for them? 1341 00:43:37,949 --> 00:43:39,239 That’s what I’m hearing. 1342 00:43:39,283 --> 00:43:41,913 - I think yes. 1343 00:43:41,953 --> 00:43:43,583 - That’s what you’re saying. 1344 00:43:43,621 --> 00:43:45,581 - To answer your question more directly, yes, 1345 00:43:45,623 --> 00:43:47,083 but I would change the-- - I disagree. 1346 00:43:47,125 --> 00:43:48,505 - But I would change the words. 1347 00:43:48,543 --> 00:43:49,963 - OK. 1348 00:43:50,002 --> 00:43:51,252 - Everyone is presented with opportunity. 1349 00:43:51,295 --> 00:43:52,875 - Mm-hmm. 1350 00:43:52,922 --> 00:43:55,632 - The question is, do you-- 1351 00:43:55,675 --> 00:43:58,895 do you take-- do you take advantage 1352 00:43:58,928 --> 00:44:00,178 of the opportunity that... - Mm-hmm. 1353 00:44:00,221 --> 00:44:02,101 - Has been offered to you? 1354 00:44:02,140 --> 00:44:06,140 So I’m--I’m the person who when the door opens, 1355 00:44:06,185 --> 00:44:07,975 I walk through it. - Mm-hmm. 1356 00:44:08,020 --> 00:44:09,940 But I think that’s such a privileged way of thinking. 1357 00:44:09,981 --> 00:44:11,651 - Why? 1358 00:44:11,691 --> 00:44:13,901 - Because it’s like saying, OK, yeah, if it comes to me, 1359 00:44:13,943 --> 00:44:15,863 I will-- you don’t have to work for-- 1360 00:44:15,903 --> 00:44:17,823 hard for what you have. 1361 00:44:17,864 --> 00:44:19,164 - I had to be there. 1362 00:44:19,198 --> 00:44:20,868 - Right. 1363 00:44:20,908 --> 00:44:22,788 - I had to be where the door was. 1364 00:44:22,827 --> 00:44:25,657 - But what if you had to work to be--to get to the door? 1365 00:44:25,705 --> 00:44:27,505 I think we just view things very, very differently 1366 00:44:27,540 --> 00:44:29,000 is what I’m hearing. 1367 00:44:29,041 --> 00:44:30,671 - You’re saying that to find the opportunity... 1368 00:44:30,710 --> 00:44:31,710 - Mm-hmm. 1369 00:44:31,752 --> 00:44:33,382 - You have to have drive? 1370 00:44:33,421 --> 00:44:34,631 - You do. 1371 00:44:34,672 --> 00:44:35,802 - You--you find more doors with drive. 1372 00:44:35,840 --> 00:44:37,510 - Mm-hmm. 1373 00:44:37,550 --> 00:44:39,840 - But people who have no drive have opportunity-- 1374 00:44:39,886 --> 00:44:41,216 - So would you say you have no drive? 1375 00:44:41,262 --> 00:44:43,012 - Of course not. 1376 00:44:43,055 --> 00:44:44,715 - Well, I don’t know. 1377 00:44:44,765 --> 00:44:46,385 You’re telling me things just come to you. 1378 00:44:46,434 --> 00:44:47,894 And it’s like, I have no drive in order to-- 1379 00:44:47,935 --> 00:44:49,185 - Things come to everybody. 1380 00:44:49,228 --> 00:44:51,398 ♪ 1381 00:44:51,439 --> 00:44:53,439 - I’m learning that we are very different people 1382 00:44:53,482 --> 00:44:56,692 who have very different viewpoints, 1383 00:44:56,777 --> 00:44:59,527 who have very different personalities. 1384 00:44:59,572 --> 00:45:03,242 But that doesn’t mean that we can’t find 1385 00:45:03,284 --> 00:45:05,744 some common things, you know. 1386 00:45:05,786 --> 00:45:08,326 Um, I think it’s very cool that 1387 00:45:08,372 --> 00:45:11,632 we can have healthy discussions and have them 1388 00:45:11,667 --> 00:45:13,417 not feel like an argument. 1389 00:45:13,461 --> 00:45:14,711 You know? 1390 00:45:14,754 --> 00:45:16,804 - Yes. 1391 00:45:16,839 --> 00:45:21,389 I think we’re very similar people with very different 1392 00:45:21,427 --> 00:45:23,717 viewpoints and perspectives, which I actually think 1393 00:45:23,763 --> 00:45:25,556 is really interesting. 1394 00:45:25,556 --> 00:45:28,516 And I think can be very, very complementary 1395 00:45:28,559 --> 00:45:30,809 and beneficial to a relationship. 1396 00:45:30,853 --> 00:45:32,273 - Yeah. 1397 00:45:32,313 --> 00:45:33,363 - I mean, you don’t want to be dating, like, 1398 00:45:33,439 --> 00:45:34,979 someone who’s identical to you. - Right. 1399 00:45:35,024 --> 00:45:36,444 I mean, we’ll figure it out at some point. 1400 00:45:36,484 --> 00:45:38,784 It’s just--it’s a lot to take in right now. 1401 00:45:38,819 --> 00:45:41,779 [dramatic music] 1402 00:45:45,576 --> 00:45:48,366 - [singing in Spanish] 1403 00:45:48,371 --> 00:45:51,921 ♪ 1404 00:45:51,958 --> 00:45:54,708 - Dude, I love this so much. 1405 00:45:54,752 --> 00:45:56,002 It’s been so long since I’ve just had this, like, 1406 00:45:56,045 --> 00:45:57,555 wave of love. 1407 00:45:57,588 --> 00:45:58,838 - I feel like you just need to go on vacation. 1408 00:45:58,881 --> 00:45:59,921 - I know. 1409 00:45:59,966 --> 00:46:01,296 Well, like, just-- 1410 00:46:01,342 --> 00:46:02,802 I don’t know. - Happy. 1411 00:46:02,843 --> 00:46:04,393 - Yeah. 1412 00:46:04,428 --> 00:46:06,678 - And it’s so nice, like, disconnecting, and just-- 1413 00:46:06,722 --> 00:46:09,272 I just feel like we’re so, like, present. 1414 00:46:09,308 --> 00:46:10,768 Don’t you think? 1415 00:46:10,810 --> 00:46:12,100 - You think that’s gonna change when 1416 00:46:12,144 --> 00:46:13,437 we get back to civilization? 1417 00:46:13,437 --> 00:46:15,437 - Yeah, a bit. 1418 00:46:15,481 --> 00:46:17,021 - I think we’ll still be able to, 1419 00:46:17,066 --> 00:46:19,736 like, focus on what matters, which is us. 1420 00:46:19,819 --> 00:46:23,409 - I feel like so, like, blah, lovey-dovey, 1421 00:46:23,447 --> 00:46:25,277 like, happy saying it. 1422 00:46:25,324 --> 00:46:26,704 But, like, I really couldn’t have imagined it, like, 1423 00:46:26,742 --> 00:46:28,242 going as great as it has. 1424 00:46:28,286 --> 00:46:29,866 - Yeah. 1425 00:46:29,912 --> 00:46:31,122 - I could have hoped for, like, something 1426 00:46:31,163 --> 00:46:32,373 to be like natural and, like, fun. 1427 00:46:32,415 --> 00:46:33,375 - I feel the same. 1428 00:46:33,416 --> 00:46:35,206 Like, it’s just-- 1429 00:46:35,251 --> 00:46:41,671 I’m just enjoying it, and I’m very happy with, like, 1430 00:46:41,716 --> 00:46:43,626 how things are progressing. 1431 00:46:43,676 --> 00:46:46,296 And I just learn more and more about you, 1432 00:46:46,345 --> 00:46:48,805 and it just makes you more and more comfortable and more 1433 00:46:48,848 --> 00:46:50,468 and more attracted to you. 1434 00:46:50,516 --> 00:46:53,686 So I just want to carry on this momentum... 1435 00:46:53,728 --> 00:46:54,898 - Mm-hmm. 1436 00:46:54,979 --> 00:46:56,359 - And just, like, see where we go. 1437 00:46:56,397 --> 00:46:59,147 - What about sex? 1438 00:46:59,191 --> 00:47:00,941 - What about it? 1439 00:47:00,985 --> 00:47:04,238 - Like, do you think, like, you’re there with me? 1440 00:47:04,238 --> 00:47:05,778 - I think we’re building on it. 1441 00:47:05,823 --> 00:47:08,783 Like, we’re getting more and more, like, touchy. 1442 00:47:08,826 --> 00:47:11,196 And, like, I think, because we’re, 1443 00:47:11,245 --> 00:47:13,865 like, building our emotional, like, I think that’s just-- 1444 00:47:13,914 --> 00:47:15,834 the physical is coming naturally, 1445 00:47:15,875 --> 00:47:18,295 which is really nice. 1446 00:47:18,336 --> 00:47:19,836 How do you feel about it? 1447 00:47:19,837 --> 00:47:26,387 - I am willing to just take your lead. 1448 00:47:26,427 --> 00:47:27,337 - I appreciate that. 1449 00:47:27,386 --> 00:47:28,676 - Yeah. 1450 00:47:28,721 --> 00:47:29,721 - Obviously, sex is super important. 1451 00:47:29,764 --> 00:47:31,524 But-- - Mm-hmm. 1452 00:47:31,557 --> 00:47:33,307 - Like, past relationships, it’s kind of, like, 1453 00:47:33,351 --> 00:47:35,891 changed the dynamic of the relationship. 1454 00:47:35,936 --> 00:47:39,726 So I think we have the luxury now where we can really focus 1455 00:47:39,774 --> 00:47:41,284 on the things that matter-- - Yeah. 1456 00:47:41,317 --> 00:47:46,407 - Versus focusing on that which could cloud. 1457 00:47:46,447 --> 00:47:47,407 - So where’s the link? 1458 00:47:47,448 --> 00:47:48,618 Feel it out. 1459 00:47:48,699 --> 00:47:50,117 - I’ve never focused on building 1460 00:47:50,117 --> 00:47:51,237 the emotional connection first. 1461 00:47:51,285 --> 00:47:52,865 - Yeah, I really haven’t either. 1462 00:47:52,912 --> 00:47:54,122 - But apparently, if you do that first and then-- 1463 00:47:54,163 --> 00:47:56,213 - Great. 1464 00:47:56,248 --> 00:47:59,328 - Focus on the physical, it’s, like, that much better. 1465 00:47:59,418 --> 00:48:02,878 So I’m excited to see how that works. 1466 00:48:07,843 --> 00:48:10,263 - ♪ You make it easy, fun for you ♪ 1467 00:48:10,304 --> 00:48:12,564 ♪ Looking at me like what should we do? ♪ 1468 00:48:12,598 --> 00:48:14,428 ♪ You make it so easy 1469 00:48:14,475 --> 00:48:16,275 ♪ You make it so easy 1470 00:48:16,310 --> 00:48:20,150 - Is that a mermaid? 1471 00:48:20,189 --> 00:48:22,109 - I have sensitive elbows. 1472 00:48:22,149 --> 00:48:23,729 - [laughs] 1473 00:48:23,776 --> 00:48:26,236 - Can’t touch the water-- whoa, in my trunks. 1474 00:48:26,278 --> 00:48:27,738 - Are you serious? 1475 00:48:27,780 --> 00:48:29,110 - [laughs] 1476 00:48:29,156 --> 00:48:30,406 - Oh, he keeps getting taller. 1477 00:48:30,449 --> 00:48:32,118 - I know. It’s weird. 1478 00:48:32,118 --> 00:48:33,118 - You have sensitive elbows? 1479 00:48:33,160 --> 00:48:36,040 - Here’s your water. [laughs] 1480 00:48:36,080 --> 00:48:39,750 What are you doing on the bar all sexy like? 1481 00:48:39,792 --> 00:48:41,172 - I’m modeling. - Yes. 1482 00:48:41,210 --> 00:48:42,210 Love it. 1483 00:48:42,253 --> 00:48:43,253 - No. 1484 00:48:43,295 --> 00:48:45,085 I’m too cold. 1485 00:48:45,131 --> 00:48:49,721 - So you thought the bar was a good place to stay warm. 1486 00:48:49,760 --> 00:48:53,560 [soft music] 1487 00:48:53,597 --> 00:48:54,887 - Yeah, I did. 1488 00:48:54,932 --> 00:48:56,102 - Good. 1489 00:48:56,142 --> 00:48:59,232 - Thanks for making me laugh. 1490 00:48:59,270 --> 00:49:01,610 - No problemo. 1491 00:49:01,647 --> 00:49:03,187 - The bar goddess. 1492 00:49:03,232 --> 00:49:06,322 - [chuckles] The bar goddess. 1493 00:49:06,360 --> 00:49:08,240 - I’m sorry that I’m not feeling 1494 00:49:08,279 --> 00:49:13,989 well enough to get in the pool and make out with you. 1495 00:49:14,034 --> 00:49:15,044 - It’s OK. 1496 00:49:15,077 --> 00:49:16,117 We can make out here. 1497 00:49:16,162 --> 00:49:17,292 Then we’ll go in the hot tub. 1498 00:49:17,329 --> 00:49:19,409 [laughter] 1499 00:49:19,498 --> 00:49:21,998 I totally understand. 1500 00:49:22,042 --> 00:49:24,712 I mean, you’ve just had surgery. 1501 00:49:24,753 --> 00:49:30,933 And, like, the water’s not exactly warm, 1502 00:49:30,968 --> 00:49:35,718 and I appreciate you being here with me. 1503 00:49:35,764 --> 00:49:37,604 - I just feel bad. 1504 00:49:37,641 --> 00:49:39,271 - Don’t feel bad. - I know. 1505 00:49:39,310 --> 00:49:40,270 - It’s OK. 1506 00:49:40,311 --> 00:49:42,191 It’s your health. 1507 00:49:42,229 --> 00:49:43,609 That’s the most important thing. 1508 00:49:43,647 --> 00:49:46,727 ♪ 1509 00:49:46,775 --> 00:49:50,395 It’s awesome that we can just, like, have fun 1510 00:49:50,446 --> 00:49:52,486 no matter what circumstance we’re in. 1511 00:49:52,531 --> 00:49:57,791 I think marriage is about being there for that other person 1512 00:49:57,828 --> 00:50:01,118 and sacrificing your needs for them. 1513 00:50:01,165 --> 00:50:06,005 I am more than willing to do that and excited to do that. 1514 00:50:06,045 --> 00:50:08,015 Yeah. You good? 1515 00:50:08,047 --> 00:50:09,457 I’m good. We good? 1516 00:50:09,507 --> 00:50:15,927 ♪ 1517 00:50:20,017 --> 00:50:22,597 - ♪ Beachside with my toes in the sand ♪ 1518 00:50:22,603 --> 00:50:24,523 ♪ Like I’m on vacation forever ♪ 1519 00:50:24,563 --> 00:50:26,113 - You getting hot? 1520 00:50:26,148 --> 00:50:28,568 - Yeah, I’m just gonna sit out for a second. 1521 00:50:28,609 --> 00:50:29,529 - It is toasty. 1522 00:50:29,568 --> 00:50:31,528 - Yeah. 1523 00:50:31,570 --> 00:50:33,110 And it’s like, it’s not, like, cool air when you get out, 1524 00:50:33,155 --> 00:50:34,275 really. - Mm-hmm. 1525 00:50:34,323 --> 00:50:35,493 - So it’s just, like, hot, warm. 1526 00:50:35,533 --> 00:50:36,833 - Yeah. This is, like, 1527 00:50:36,867 --> 00:50:38,117 a happy medium I’m feeling right now. 1528 00:50:38,160 --> 00:50:39,330 - And I’m drinking... - Right now? 1529 00:50:39,370 --> 00:50:40,790 - I don’t usually drink in my bathtubs. 1530 00:50:40,829 --> 00:50:43,749 - Yeah, no, it definitely kicks it in--kicks in a lot 1531 00:50:43,791 --> 00:50:45,001 faster in the hot tub. 1532 00:50:45,042 --> 00:50:49,502 ♪ 1533 00:50:49,547 --> 00:50:53,217 So what is-- 1534 00:50:53,259 --> 00:50:55,589 what’s one thing you want to find out about me 1535 00:50:55,636 --> 00:50:57,256 before this honeymoon ends? 1536 00:50:57,304 --> 00:50:58,854 - Before the honeymoon ends? 1537 00:50:58,889 --> 00:51:00,849 - Mm-hmm. 1538 00:51:00,891 --> 00:51:02,061 - I got a question. 1539 00:51:02,142 --> 00:51:03,352 - OK. 1540 00:51:03,394 --> 00:51:04,354 - You ready? 1541 00:51:04,395 --> 00:51:05,521 - Maybe. 1542 00:51:05,521 --> 00:51:06,691 [chuckles] 1543 00:51:06,730 --> 00:51:10,030 - Do you use the N word? 1544 00:51:10,067 --> 00:51:11,107 - No. 1545 00:51:11,151 --> 00:51:12,531 - Have you ever? - I have. 1546 00:51:12,570 --> 00:51:13,700 - Yeah, like, in your-- - Ignorantly. 1547 00:51:13,737 --> 00:51:14,647 - Younger years? - Ignorantly... 1548 00:51:14,697 --> 00:51:15,907 - Yeah. 1549 00:51:15,948 --> 00:51:16,988 - And singing along with songs. 1550 00:51:17,032 --> 00:51:18,452 - Can I punch you for my ancestors? 1551 00:51:18,492 --> 00:51:19,492 - Absolutely, yes. Thank you. 1552 00:51:19,535 --> 00:51:20,705 - All right. - You could-- 1553 00:51:20,744 --> 00:51:22,004 - All right, we’re good now. 1554 00:51:22,037 --> 00:51:22,947 - Probably do that a lot, honestly. 1555 00:51:22,997 --> 00:51:24,407 - We’re good now. 1556 00:51:24,456 --> 00:51:26,206 - Yeah, no, I mean, you know, I was definitely, 1557 00:51:26,250 --> 00:51:27,580 you know, an ignorant kid-- - Mm-hmm. 1558 00:51:27,626 --> 00:51:29,246 - You know, not knowing stuff. 1559 00:51:29,295 --> 00:51:31,765 And I’ve had, you know, some of my own community, 1560 00:51:31,797 --> 00:51:32,877 you know, talk to me, mostly my mom-- 1561 00:51:32,923 --> 00:51:34,973 - Mm-hmm. 1562 00:51:35,009 --> 00:51:36,719 - Was just like, hey, you know, don’t joke about that. 1563 00:51:36,760 --> 00:51:39,640 And so it was really just a big learning process growing up. 1564 00:51:39,680 --> 00:51:43,480 - No, I think that that is OK because I’ve used terms that-- 1565 00:51:43,517 --> 00:51:44,977 when I was younger that I didn’t even know 1566 00:51:45,019 --> 00:51:46,059 were derogatory. 1567 00:51:46,103 --> 00:51:47,773 - Redskin? - No. 1568 00:51:47,813 --> 00:51:49,313 I don’t think I’ve ever used that language. 1569 00:51:49,356 --> 00:51:50,476 But, like-- - Yeah. 1570 00:51:50,524 --> 00:51:52,404 - But, no, I’ve actually never-- 1571 00:51:52,443 --> 00:51:53,903 I don’t even know what "redskin" means, honestly. 1572 00:51:53,944 --> 00:51:55,654 Oh, I do. 1573 00:51:55,696 --> 00:51:58,026 I just looked at your face. 1574 00:51:58,073 --> 00:52:00,953 [tense music] 1575 00:52:00,993 --> 00:52:02,293 I didn’t--I didn’t. - That was a little rough. 1576 00:52:02,328 --> 00:52:03,328 - I’m sorry. That was a little-- 1577 00:52:03,370 --> 00:52:04,540 I’m sorry. - That was rough. 1578 00:52:04,622 --> 00:52:05,832 - That was rough? - A little bit, yeah. 1579 00:52:05,873 --> 00:52:07,833 - Yeah? I’m sorry. - Yeah, a little bit. 1580 00:52:07,875 --> 00:52:09,335 - I’m actually just looking at the fact 1581 00:52:09,376 --> 00:52:10,956 that you’re sunburned right now around your nose. 1582 00:52:11,003 --> 00:52:11,963 But still, I-- - Sure. 1583 00:52:12,004 --> 00:52:12,964 - Shouldn’t have said that. 1584 00:52:13,005 --> 00:52:13,925 But I just actually never even 1585 00:52:13,964 --> 00:52:14,884 knew what that meant. 1586 00:52:14,923 --> 00:52:16,343 I’m sorry. 1587 00:52:16,383 --> 00:52:17,763 - Do you want to know what it means? 1588 00:52:17,801 --> 00:52:19,511 - If you want to, you can explain it. 1589 00:52:19,553 --> 00:52:20,723 - If you’d like to know, I’ll tell you. 1590 00:52:20,763 --> 00:52:22,353 - Yeah. 1591 00:52:22,389 --> 00:52:25,019 - So where the term came from is, 1592 00:52:25,059 --> 00:52:27,849 you know, when colonization started, 1593 00:52:27,895 --> 00:52:32,525 you know, what was more valuable than gold to them 1594 00:52:32,566 --> 00:52:33,936 was the scalp of an Indian. 1595 00:52:33,984 --> 00:52:35,904 - Mm. - And so for that, 1596 00:52:35,944 --> 00:52:37,154 when you scalp-- - I see it. 1597 00:52:37,196 --> 00:52:38,656 - That’s where that... 1598 00:52:38,697 --> 00:52:40,277 - That’s disgusting. 1599 00:52:40,324 --> 00:52:42,414 - Yep. - That’s absolutely disgusting, 1600 00:52:42,451 --> 00:52:44,491 and I’m sorry that I even-- 1601 00:52:44,536 --> 00:52:46,616 like, I wasn’t making the joke, necessarily. 1602 00:52:46,664 --> 00:52:51,844 But I’m sorry I even, like, fed into that hurt for you 1603 00:52:51,877 --> 00:52:53,917 and that pain for you and your community. 1604 00:52:53,921 --> 00:52:55,961 - [chuckles] I don’t know. 1605 00:52:56,006 --> 00:52:57,046 You know, things like that, it’s just-- 1606 00:52:57,091 --> 00:52:59,011 that’s not a joke. 1607 00:52:59,051 --> 00:53:00,719 - You want to punch me from your ancestors? 1608 00:53:00,719 --> 00:53:02,549 - No. 1609 00:53:02,596 --> 00:53:05,716 - So how do you decide whether you feel offended 1610 00:53:05,766 --> 00:53:09,136 or like it was a joke? 1611 00:53:09,186 --> 00:53:10,556 Or is there no line? 1612 00:53:10,604 --> 00:53:12,194 It’s just always offended? 1613 00:53:12,231 --> 00:53:15,401 - It’s--it’s on the delivery. 1614 00:53:15,401 --> 00:53:18,201 You can hear ignorance, you know, when it does come up. 1615 00:53:18,237 --> 00:53:19,607 And that’s kind of what happened, you know, 1616 00:53:19,655 --> 00:53:21,825 when we were headed to the airport. 1617 00:53:21,865 --> 00:53:23,155 You know, jokes came out. 1618 00:53:23,200 --> 00:53:25,040 - We do got to be careful in Cancún. 1619 00:53:25,077 --> 00:53:26,197 So, like, we just-- 1620 00:53:26,245 --> 00:53:27,835 - That’s what I hear. 1621 00:53:27,871 --> 00:53:29,921 - We can’t go too off the reservation. 1622 00:53:29,957 --> 00:53:31,287 - Not the reserva--[laughs] - No, you’re fine. 1623 00:53:31,333 --> 00:53:32,923 You’re good. - Wow. 1624 00:53:32,960 --> 00:53:34,340 - But it’s OK. 1625 00:53:34,378 --> 00:53:35,838 I can hear ignorance, and you’re fine. 1626 00:53:35,879 --> 00:53:37,419 - Ooh. - You’re fine. 1627 00:53:37,464 --> 00:53:39,344 I understand ignorance, 1628 00:53:39,383 --> 00:53:41,053 and I’ll call it for what it is. 1629 00:53:41,093 --> 00:53:45,893 But also, like, just be ready for someone to say something. 1630 00:53:45,931 --> 00:53:49,271 - I think for me, like, as a Black woman in America, 1631 00:53:49,309 --> 00:53:51,269 the--we’re, like, the butt of jokes a lot. 1632 00:53:51,311 --> 00:53:53,061 So I’ve just developed a tough skin. 1633 00:53:53,105 --> 00:53:55,195 And I’m just like, sometimes [bleep] is just funny. 1634 00:53:55,232 --> 00:53:56,272 Sometimes it’s funny. - Sure. 1635 00:53:56,316 --> 00:53:57,686 - Sometimes it is offensive. 1636 00:53:57,735 --> 00:53:59,575 I think it’s just that we’ve been able to find 1637 00:53:59,611 --> 00:54:02,111 so much humor within our pain. - Sure. 1638 00:54:02,156 --> 00:54:04,986 - And I think that’s, like, maybe a difference with us. 1639 00:54:05,033 --> 00:54:07,583 - You know, growing up, you know, what came from my elders 1640 00:54:07,661 --> 00:54:11,001 and my Mom was just you don’t say that, you know? 1641 00:54:11,039 --> 00:54:13,379 And you just don’t do it because, I mean, 1642 00:54:13,417 --> 00:54:16,087 I don’t know--because it minimizes who you are. 1643 00:54:16,128 --> 00:54:19,208 And then, you know, making a joke out of the pain, 1644 00:54:19,256 --> 00:54:20,876 I would say my cultural background 1645 00:54:20,924 --> 00:54:22,634 has a very different approach. 1646 00:54:22,676 --> 00:54:24,506 - It’s just different, I guess. I think it’s just different. 1647 00:54:24,553 --> 00:54:26,013 - Yeah? - Yeah. 1648 00:54:26,054 --> 00:54:27,974 - Um, what do you think the difference is? 1649 00:54:28,015 --> 00:54:30,601 - Like, yes, we are minorities, but we came from 1650 00:54:30,601 --> 00:54:32,101 two totally different backgrounds. 1651 00:54:32,144 --> 00:54:34,404 - Sure. - Our cultures are different. 1652 00:54:34,438 --> 00:54:37,438 Our cultures, the way we came about in this country 1653 00:54:37,483 --> 00:54:38,733 is very different. 1654 00:54:38,776 --> 00:54:40,236 Like, you all were here. 1655 00:54:40,277 --> 00:54:42,317 We were brought here against our will. 1656 00:54:42,362 --> 00:54:44,242 And so I feel like there’s just, 1657 00:54:44,281 --> 00:54:46,200 like, those subtle differences in our culture. 1658 00:54:46,200 --> 00:54:47,370 - Yeah. I don’t know. 1659 00:54:47,409 --> 00:54:48,789 - Is it uncomfortable? - Huh? 1660 00:54:48,827 --> 00:54:50,497 - Is this conversation uncomfortable for you? 1661 00:54:50,537 --> 00:54:51,787 - No, no, it’s not. - No? 1662 00:54:51,830 --> 00:54:52,830 OK. 1663 00:54:52,873 --> 00:54:54,833 - Yeah. 1664 00:54:54,875 --> 00:54:55,755 - I’m actually glad we had this talk. 1665 00:54:55,793 --> 00:54:56,923 I’m glad. - Yeah. 1666 00:54:56,960 --> 00:54:57,840 - I don’t know how you feel, but-- 1667 00:54:57,878 --> 00:54:58,998 - I’m a little heated. 1668 00:54:59,046 --> 00:55:02,296 [tense music] 1669 00:55:02,382 --> 00:55:04,592 - I’m not heated, but I do find some difference 1670 00:55:04,635 --> 00:55:07,055 in how you handled me, a Black woman, 1671 00:55:07,095 --> 00:55:10,465 and how you handled a joke from a white man. 1672 00:55:10,516 --> 00:55:13,016 ♪ 1673 00:55:13,101 --> 00:55:16,481 I do find a little difference in your demeanor with me. 1674 00:55:16,522 --> 00:55:18,652 And, like, your shoulders are tense. 1675 00:55:18,690 --> 00:55:20,400 You’re, like, clearly heated. - Sure. 1676 00:55:20,442 --> 00:55:22,402 - And on the bus, it was just like, oh, he’s just ignorant. 1677 00:55:22,444 --> 00:55:23,744 - Well, there’s a difference between 1678 00:55:23,779 --> 00:55:25,529 reservation and redskin. 1679 00:55:25,572 --> 00:55:27,492 ♪ 1680 00:55:27,533 --> 00:55:28,743 - That’s also fair. 1681 00:55:28,784 --> 00:55:30,204 That is also fair. 1682 00:55:30,244 --> 00:55:33,414 But I think in this moment, I wasn’t, like, 1683 00:55:33,455 --> 00:55:35,285 calling you that. - But-- 1684 00:55:35,332 --> 00:55:36,792 - I think there needs to be some clarity here, though. 1685 00:55:36,834 --> 00:55:38,504 - In what? 1686 00:55:38,544 --> 00:55:40,134 - In what just happened because you’re still tense. 1687 00:55:40,170 --> 00:55:41,550 - How so? - And you say you’re heated. 1688 00:55:41,588 --> 00:55:42,628 - Well, I mean, I’m, like, chilling right now. 1689 00:55:42,673 --> 00:55:44,013 - Well, you say you’re heated. 1690 00:55:44,049 --> 00:55:45,049 But you say you’re heated. - Well, I was, yeah. 1691 00:55:45,092 --> 00:55:46,432 - So I’m like, well, why are you-- 1692 00:55:46,468 --> 00:55:48,178 - Because, you know, there were--you know, 1693 00:55:48,262 --> 00:55:49,852 you started to make comparisons. 1694 00:55:49,888 --> 00:55:51,348 And, you know, the way I read that is 1695 00:55:51,390 --> 00:55:53,310 you’re trying to make what you said 1696 00:55:53,350 --> 00:55:55,730 or what came up seem-- 1697 00:55:55,769 --> 00:55:57,309 - Less offensive than what it was? 1698 00:55:57,354 --> 00:55:59,524 - It seemed like you tried to minimize. 1699 00:55:59,565 --> 00:56:01,945 - So I can see why you think I’m trying to minimize, 1700 00:56:01,984 --> 00:56:05,654 but I think I’m just trying to figure out what’s OK to say 1701 00:56:05,696 --> 00:56:06,946 in this relationship. 1702 00:56:06,989 --> 00:56:07,909 - I would just stay away from it. 1703 00:56:07,948 --> 00:56:08,988 - Or-- - You know I mean? 1704 00:56:09,032 --> 00:56:10,282 - Yes-- - Cracking jokes 1705 00:56:10,325 --> 00:56:11,825 about each other’s background and culture, 1706 00:56:11,869 --> 00:56:13,199 I mean, I wouldn’t deem that OK. 1707 00:56:13,245 --> 00:56:14,165 I wouldn’t do that to you. 1708 00:56:14,204 --> 00:56:16,164 - And that’s why I-- 1709 00:56:16,206 --> 00:56:17,366 OK. No, that’s fair. 1710 00:56:17,416 --> 00:56:18,916 - Right? - Yeah. 1711 00:56:18,959 --> 00:56:21,209 - There is a massive amount of pride, you know, 1712 00:56:21,253 --> 00:56:23,053 in who I am and where I come from. 1713 00:56:23,088 --> 00:56:25,378 - And I see that, and I respect that. 1714 00:56:25,424 --> 00:56:28,094 - I would never want you to feel heated in the way 1715 00:56:28,135 --> 00:56:31,605 that I did because I said something I wasn’t aware of. 1716 00:56:31,638 --> 00:56:33,518 - OK. - Would you agree with that? 1717 00:56:33,557 --> 00:56:35,427 - Yeah. - OK. 1718 00:56:35,475 --> 00:56:37,225 - I do. 1719 00:56:37,269 --> 00:56:39,649 ♪ 1720 00:56:43,567 --> 00:56:46,357 [lively music] 1721 00:56:46,361 --> 00:56:49,031 ♪ 1722 00:56:49,072 --> 00:56:50,282 - You a little hungover? 1723 00:56:50,324 --> 00:56:52,200 - Um, maybe. 1724 00:56:52,200 --> 00:56:53,330 - Just a little vom? - [laughs] 1725 00:56:53,368 --> 00:56:54,538 - A little vomit? 1726 00:56:54,578 --> 00:56:56,158 - No, no, no. 1727 00:56:56,204 --> 00:56:57,044 - You gonna be able to eat this food? 1728 00:56:57,080 --> 00:56:58,160 Hi. 1729 00:56:58,206 --> 00:56:59,366 - Hello. 1730 00:56:59,416 --> 00:57:00,746 - Thank you. 1731 00:57:00,792 --> 00:57:02,092 Yum. - Thank you. 1732 00:57:02,127 --> 00:57:03,207 - Your drink is coming too. 1733 00:57:03,253 --> 00:57:04,173 - Perfect. - Thank you. 1734 00:57:04,212 --> 00:57:06,012 ♪ 1735 00:57:06,048 --> 00:57:07,838 Does it bother you that I don’t drink? 1736 00:57:07,841 --> 00:57:09,011 - Mm-mm. 1737 00:57:09,051 --> 00:57:10,431 Not even a little bit. 1738 00:57:10,469 --> 00:57:12,099 - Nice. 1739 00:57:12,137 --> 00:57:13,717 - As long as, like, it doesn’t bother you that I drink. 1740 00:57:13,764 --> 00:57:15,354 - No, I was ordering things for you. 1741 00:57:15,390 --> 00:57:16,350 - Oh, were you? Yeah, that’s right. 1742 00:57:16,391 --> 00:57:17,391 You were. - I got you. 1743 00:57:17,434 --> 00:57:19,564 - Aw, so supportive. 1744 00:57:19,603 --> 00:57:20,563 [laughs] - Yeah. 1745 00:57:20,604 --> 00:57:23,274 Ready to get you wasted. 1746 00:57:23,315 --> 00:57:25,485 - In your experience with, like, past exes, 1747 00:57:25,525 --> 00:57:28,065 were they too different from you? 1748 00:57:28,111 --> 00:57:29,651 - Definitely a lot of guys that I’ve dated 1749 00:57:29,696 --> 00:57:32,066 have avoidant conflict styles. 1750 00:57:32,115 --> 00:57:33,405 When a conflict arises... - Yeah. 1751 00:57:33,450 --> 00:57:34,410 - They just act... - Don’t know how to. 1752 00:57:34,451 --> 00:57:35,331 - Like it doesn’t exist... 1753 00:57:35,369 --> 00:57:36,909 - Yeah. 1754 00:57:36,954 --> 00:57:38,754 - Which was difficult. And so in that way, 1755 00:57:38,789 --> 00:57:41,209 for me, I definitely need someone who’s similar. 1756 00:57:41,249 --> 00:57:42,379 How about you? 1757 00:57:42,417 --> 00:57:43,957 Have exes been opposite? 1758 00:57:43,961 --> 00:57:45,501 - Yeah. 1759 00:57:45,545 --> 00:57:46,915 I mean, I think, like, dating has showed me 1760 00:57:46,964 --> 00:57:49,264 I was, like, attracted to people 1761 00:57:49,299 --> 00:57:51,339 who were different than me. 1762 00:57:51,385 --> 00:57:53,015 - In what ways? 1763 00:57:53,053 --> 00:57:55,973 - Like, I love creative women, which, like, you are. 1764 00:57:56,014 --> 00:57:57,604 But a lot of, like, creative types 1765 00:57:57,641 --> 00:58:02,271 are introverted and, like, quiet. 1766 00:58:02,312 --> 00:58:05,902 I need someone who can, like, keep up with me socially. 1767 00:58:05,983 --> 00:58:09,033 And it’s nice when you have a partner who, like, wants 1768 00:58:09,069 --> 00:58:11,449 to do those things with you. 1769 00:58:11,488 --> 00:58:12,608 - Do you feel like I’m that? 1770 00:58:12,656 --> 00:58:13,816 - Yeah, absolutely. 1771 00:58:13,865 --> 00:58:14,865 - Nice. 1772 00:58:14,908 --> 00:58:17,328 - Great match. 1773 00:58:17,369 --> 00:58:19,159 I don’t think I could have asked for a better one. 1774 00:58:19,204 --> 00:58:20,664 - 10 out of 10, would recommend. 1775 00:58:20,706 --> 00:58:21,746 - 10 out of 10-- 1776 00:58:21,790 --> 00:58:24,380 our new life till death. 1777 00:58:24,418 --> 00:58:25,668 - Do you think about death? 1778 00:58:25,711 --> 00:58:27,381 - No. 1779 00:58:27,462 --> 00:58:29,632 I don’t think about death. I don’t know. 1780 00:58:29,673 --> 00:58:31,263 I feel like a lot of people are, like, scared to die. 1781 00:58:31,299 --> 00:58:32,259 - Mm-hmm. 1782 00:58:32,342 --> 00:58:33,432 - I’m not. 1783 00:58:33,468 --> 00:58:35,008 - Same. 1784 00:58:35,053 --> 00:58:37,563 - I just think, like, it’ll happen when it happens, 1785 00:58:37,597 --> 00:58:38,967 and that’s fine. 1786 00:58:39,016 --> 00:58:43,436 One thing that might worry me about death 1787 00:58:43,478 --> 00:58:45,768 is, like, if I have a family. 1788 00:58:45,814 --> 00:58:47,574 - Mm. 1789 00:58:47,607 --> 00:58:49,687 - ’Cause, like, right now, it’s me, right? 1790 00:58:49,735 --> 00:58:51,325 And, like, you. 1791 00:58:51,361 --> 00:58:53,071 And, like, it would be really sad if I died. 1792 00:58:53,113 --> 00:58:55,203 But, like, no one relies on me. 1793 00:58:55,240 --> 00:58:56,530 - Yeah. 1794 00:58:56,575 --> 00:58:58,455 - Does any part of that worry you? 1795 00:58:58,493 --> 00:59:00,163 - Uh-uh, nope. 1796 00:59:00,203 --> 00:59:02,463 But I used to have, like, really, really, really 1797 00:59:02,497 --> 00:59:03,617 bad anxiety, like, to the point where 1798 00:59:03,665 --> 00:59:04,995 I couldn’t get on a plane. 1799 00:59:05,042 --> 00:59:06,292 I couldn’t go to the grocery store alone, like-- 1800 00:59:06,334 --> 00:59:07,961 - Wow, you’ve come a long way. - Yeah. 1801 00:59:07,961 --> 00:59:11,801 And so, like, now that I’ve overcome that, 1802 00:59:11,840 --> 00:59:13,800 I feel like I missed out on, like, so much 1803 00:59:13,800 --> 00:59:16,550 of life that I’m like, let’s go. 1804 00:59:16,595 --> 00:59:18,722 - Let’s go. 1805 00:59:18,722 --> 00:59:20,392 - I’ve always had anxiety. 1806 00:59:20,432 --> 00:59:23,852 And I’ve just done a lot of work of finally learning 1807 00:59:23,894 --> 00:59:28,194 how to manage it, maintain it, be open and honest about it, 1808 00:59:28,231 --> 00:59:31,611 and also enjoy whatever’s happening, 1809 00:59:31,651 --> 00:59:33,361 and just deal with things as they come. 1810 00:59:33,403 --> 00:59:37,073 So I was thinking, would you be interested in kayaking? 1811 00:59:37,115 --> 00:59:38,485 - Yeah. 1812 00:59:38,533 --> 00:59:39,533 You want to go kayaking? 1813 00:59:39,576 --> 00:59:41,156 - Yeah. 1814 00:59:41,203 --> 00:59:42,753 - Yeah, that sounds great. I’d love to do that. 1815 00:59:42,788 --> 00:59:44,078 - I don’t know how much I’ll be able to do. 1816 00:59:44,081 --> 00:59:46,251 But worst-case scenario, we just sit in boats 1817 00:59:46,291 --> 00:59:47,461 and look at each other. 1818 00:59:47,542 --> 00:59:48,422 - That sounds great. 1819 00:59:48,460 --> 00:59:49,500 - Well, kayak. 1820 00:59:49,544 --> 00:59:50,714 - Yeah, that’s a boat. 1821 00:59:50,754 --> 00:59:52,764 - Well, is a raft a boat? 1822 00:59:52,798 --> 00:59:54,218 - I think anything that floats is a boat. 1823 00:59:54,257 --> 00:59:56,087 - I float. - Then you’re a boat. 1824 00:59:56,134 --> 00:59:57,594 [laughter] 1825 00:59:57,636 --> 00:59:59,466 - Do you float? 1826 00:59:59,513 --> 01:00:00,893 - I motorboat. 1827 01:00:00,931 --> 01:00:04,231 [laughter] 1828 01:00:04,267 --> 01:00:07,307 - I was waiting. 1829 01:00:07,354 --> 01:00:08,774 Let’s go. - Let’s go. 1830 01:00:08,814 --> 01:00:10,524 ♪ 1831 01:00:10,565 --> 01:00:12,225 All right, quick, get in. 1832 01:00:12,275 --> 01:00:13,185 - OK, where do I sit? 1833 01:00:13,235 --> 01:00:14,995 [screams] 1834 01:00:15,028 --> 01:00:16,528 - All right, all right. All right. 1835 01:00:16,571 --> 01:00:17,571 - Where do I sit? 1836 01:00:17,614 --> 01:00:18,874 Which way is my feet? 1837 01:00:18,907 --> 01:00:20,237 - Put your butt down. Sit. 1838 01:00:20,283 --> 01:00:21,373 - Yes, sir. - Sit up to your knees. 1839 01:00:21,409 --> 01:00:22,369 Sit up here. Sit up here. 1840 01:00:22,410 --> 01:00:24,120 - Why? I’m already sitting. 1841 01:00:24,162 --> 01:00:27,962 ♪ 1842 01:00:27,999 --> 01:00:30,079 [screams] 1843 01:00:30,127 --> 01:00:33,957 [laughter] 1844 01:00:34,005 --> 01:00:40,925 ♪ 1845 01:00:43,098 --> 01:00:44,468 Out to sea. 1846 01:00:44,516 --> 01:00:45,516 - What a wave. 1847 01:00:45,559 --> 01:00:47,769 - Where are we going? 1848 01:00:47,811 --> 01:00:50,480 Can we just run away now? 1849 01:00:50,480 --> 01:00:52,610 [screams] 1850 01:00:52,649 --> 01:00:54,399 [mellow music] 1851 01:00:54,401 --> 01:00:56,241 A pelican. 1852 01:00:56,278 --> 01:00:57,608 That’s probably the closest I’ve ever been to a pelican. 1853 01:00:57,654 --> 01:01:01,574 - ♪ ’Cause I’m alive 1854 01:01:01,616 --> 01:01:03,276 ♪ Everything that I could dream ♪ 1855 01:01:03,326 --> 01:01:04,576 - OK, easy does it. 1856 01:01:04,619 --> 01:01:06,119 Easy does it. 1857 01:01:06,121 --> 01:01:08,211 ♪ 1858 01:01:08,248 --> 01:01:09,788 Being out on the water with Austin 1859 01:01:09,833 --> 01:01:12,963 is like having a sea creature that, like, takes over. 1860 01:01:13,003 --> 01:01:14,803 But it’s fun. 1861 01:01:14,838 --> 01:01:17,468 ♪ 1862 01:01:17,507 --> 01:01:19,547 So it feels like you get all those jitters 1863 01:01:19,593 --> 01:01:21,143 and those butterflies. 1864 01:01:21,178 --> 01:01:22,638 But then, at the same time, it also feels like 1865 01:01:22,679 --> 01:01:24,509 we’ve been together for, like, four years. 1866 01:01:24,556 --> 01:01:25,716 So we’re like, yeah, we got this. 1867 01:01:25,765 --> 01:01:26,965 - There’s a wave. Here it is. 1868 01:01:27,017 --> 01:01:28,637 It’s coming. It’s coming. 1869 01:01:28,685 --> 01:01:29,685 Here we go. 1870 01:01:29,728 --> 01:01:32,188 - A little wave. 1871 01:01:32,230 --> 01:01:34,320 We won! 1872 01:01:34,357 --> 01:01:35,317 [screams] 1873 01:01:35,358 --> 01:01:36,318 - Whoo! 1874 01:01:36,359 --> 01:01:37,609 - We got this. 1875 01:01:37,652 --> 01:01:39,202 This feels right. 1876 01:01:39,237 --> 01:01:44,027 ♪ 1877 01:01:44,075 --> 01:01:45,155 - You float my boat. 1878 01:01:45,202 --> 01:01:46,162 - Aw. 1879 01:01:46,203 --> 01:01:48,713 You float my boat. 1880 01:01:48,747 --> 01:01:51,327 - [singing in Spanish] 1881 01:01:51,374 --> 01:01:55,674 - Next time, the honeymoon continues to heat up. 1882 01:01:55,712 --> 01:01:57,802 ♪ 1883 01:01:57,839 --> 01:01:59,469 - Attagirl. 1884 01:01:59,507 --> 01:02:01,217 Good job. 1885 01:02:01,259 --> 01:02:03,759 Emily is flyboarding with, you know, a hurt wrist. 1886 01:02:03,762 --> 01:02:05,892 And it’s just nothing, you know, knocks her down. 1887 01:02:05,931 --> 01:02:08,681 - She has my back. 1888 01:02:08,725 --> 01:02:10,725 It’s incredible. 1889 01:02:10,769 --> 01:02:12,849 - If we continue to let that happen, 1890 01:02:12,896 --> 01:02:15,646 it would be a very disastrous situation. 1891 01:02:15,690 --> 01:02:17,690 - Yeah. 1892 01:02:17,734 --> 01:02:21,074 - Trust, for me, is one of the biggest things I look for. 1893 01:02:21,112 --> 01:02:24,782 And I feel like you’re really starting to earn my trust. 1894 01:02:24,824 --> 01:02:27,204 - So I’m not in the circle yet. 1895 01:02:27,244 --> 01:02:29,164 - I don’t want to discourage them 1896 01:02:29,204 --> 01:02:31,874 from thinking that their relationships 1897 01:02:31,915 --> 01:02:34,755 are right and good just because they don’t have what we have. 1898 01:02:34,793 --> 01:02:36,963 - But by extinguishing your own candle, 1899 01:02:37,003 --> 01:02:39,303 you don’t light someone else’s. 1900 01:02:39,339 --> 01:02:42,009 - How do you feel that I had sex two months ago? 1901 01:02:42,050 --> 01:02:44,680 - Being honest, uh, 1902 01:02:44,719 --> 01:02:46,849 it kind of took sex off the table for me. 1903 01:02:46,888 --> 01:02:52,478 ♪