1 00:00:02,042 --> 00:00:03,583 - ♪ The way that you pull me close ♪ 2 00:00:03,667 --> 00:00:04,833 ♪ The way that you kiss me 3 00:00:04,917 --> 00:00:06,167 ♪ When I'm dancing on the ceiling ♪ 4 00:00:06,500 --> 00:00:09,000 - Four newlywed couples put their trust in the experts 5 00:00:09,000 --> 00:00:10,250 to find love. 6 00:00:10,333 --> 00:00:12,750 They marry as total strangers. 7 00:00:12,750 --> 00:00:15,500 ♪ 8 00:00:15,542 --> 00:00:17,708 Last time, they began their honeymoon 9 00:00:17,792 --> 00:00:20,167 in beautiful Cancún, Mexico. 10 00:00:20,250 --> 00:00:23,458 ♪ 11 00:00:23,542 --> 00:00:24,917 - [laughs] 12 00:00:25,000 --> 00:00:26,583 Being out on the water with Austin, 13 00:00:26,583 --> 00:00:28,583 you get all those jitters and those butterflies. 14 00:00:28,667 --> 00:00:29,875 But then at the same time, 15 00:00:29,958 --> 00:00:31,500 it also feels like we've been together 16 00:00:31,542 --> 00:00:32,542 for, like, four years. 17 00:00:32,625 --> 00:00:34,375 So we're like, yep, we got this. 18 00:00:34,458 --> 00:00:35,917 [shouts] - Ooh! 19 00:00:35,917 --> 00:00:37,833 - Yeah, this feels right. [chuckles] 20 00:00:37,958 --> 00:00:41,583 ♪ 21 00:00:41,667 --> 00:00:43,333 - What about, like, sex? 22 00:00:43,333 --> 00:00:44,917 - I think we're building on it. 23 00:00:45,000 --> 00:00:47,292 Like, the physical is coming naturally, 24 00:00:47,292 --> 00:00:48,667 which is really nice. 25 00:00:48,750 --> 00:00:50,458 How do you feel about it? 26 00:00:50,458 --> 00:00:54,833 - I am willing to just take your lead. 27 00:00:54,833 --> 00:00:57,542 ♪ 28 00:00:57,542 --> 00:00:59,750 - I'm learning that we are very different people. 29 00:00:59,833 --> 00:01:01,583 - I think we're very similar 30 00:01:01,667 --> 00:01:04,542 with very different viewpoints and perspectives, 31 00:01:04,542 --> 00:01:06,500 which I actually think is really interesting. 32 00:01:06,542 --> 00:01:08,000 - I mean, we'll figure it out at some point. 33 00:01:08,083 --> 00:01:09,833 It's just--it's a lot to take in right now. 34 00:01:09,958 --> 00:01:13,000 ♪ 35 00:01:13,083 --> 00:01:15,542 - There is massive amount of pride, you know, 36 00:01:15,542 --> 00:01:17,500 in who I am and where I come from. 37 00:01:17,583 --> 00:01:19,500 - And I see that, and I respect that. 38 00:01:19,583 --> 00:01:22,042 - I would never want you to feel heated 39 00:01:22,125 --> 00:01:23,417 in the way that I did 40 00:01:23,542 --> 00:01:25,958 because I said something I wasn't aware of. 41 00:01:26,042 --> 00:01:27,000 - Okay. 42 00:01:27,000 --> 00:01:28,833 ♪ 43 00:01:28,917 --> 00:01:31,875 [upbeat music] 44 00:01:31,875 --> 00:01:33,500 ♪ 45 00:01:33,542 --> 00:01:36,833 - And tonight the honeymoon continues... 46 00:01:36,958 --> 00:01:40,958 before they return back to their lives in the real world. 47 00:01:41,042 --> 00:01:42,708 [laughter] 48 00:01:42,792 --> 00:01:45,875 - Seeing her smiling and having fun around me 49 00:01:45,958 --> 00:01:49,542 makes me think that she's feeling more attracted to me. 50 00:01:49,625 --> 00:01:51,667 - Me being an overthinker, I'm already thinking 51 00:01:51,667 --> 00:01:53,500 about the things that will go wrong when we're back. 52 00:01:53,583 --> 00:01:56,167 - Trust for me is one of the biggest things I look for, 53 00:01:56,292 --> 00:01:59,875 and I feel like you're really starting to earn my trust. 54 00:01:59,875 --> 00:02:02,000 - I'm not in the circle yet. 55 00:02:02,125 --> 00:02:04,208 - If we continue to let that happen, 56 00:02:04,208 --> 00:02:07,333 it would be a very disastrous situation. 57 00:02:07,375 --> 00:02:08,333 - Yeah. 58 00:02:08,375 --> 00:02:09,792 ♪ 59 00:02:09,875 --> 00:02:12,708 - How do you feel that I had sex two months ago? 60 00:02:12,792 --> 00:02:15,375 - Being honest, uh... 61 00:02:15,458 --> 00:02:17,875 it kind of took sex off the table for me. 62 00:02:17,875 --> 00:02:20,833 ♪ 63 00:02:20,875 --> 00:02:22,625 - ♪ It's all or nothing 64 00:02:22,625 --> 00:02:25,000 - This is "Married at First Sight." 65 00:02:25,042 --> 00:02:27,333 - ♪ There's no other way 66 00:02:27,417 --> 00:02:28,875 ♪ 67 00:02:28,875 --> 00:02:30,958 ♪ It's all or nothing 68 00:02:31,042 --> 00:02:34,500 - [vocalizing] 69 00:02:34,583 --> 00:02:36,167 ♪ Come on, baby, where you going? ♪ 70 00:02:36,250 --> 00:02:39,583 [vocalizing] 71 00:02:39,708 --> 00:02:43,083 ♪ Come on, baby, quédate conmigo ♪ 72 00:02:43,208 --> 00:02:45,833 - It's A and B, live from the honeymoon. 73 00:02:45,917 --> 00:02:47,750 We are sleepy. - [mumbles] 74 00:02:47,833 --> 00:02:50,000 - He is sleepy. She is sleepy. 75 00:02:50,000 --> 00:02:51,875 - [chuckles] 76 00:02:51,958 --> 00:02:55,417 - Emily, do you need sunscreen? 77 00:02:55,500 --> 00:02:58,458 - I'm a little concerned about my hand. 78 00:02:58,542 --> 00:03:01,667 A little, since my fingers are so swollen. 79 00:03:01,750 --> 00:03:05,125 - Our couples are midway through their honeymoons. 80 00:03:05,208 --> 00:03:06,667 - Is that your size? Maybe a little longer-- 81 00:03:06,750 --> 00:03:09,167 I mean, your swim trunks were a little short. 82 00:03:09,208 --> 00:03:10,417 I'm not going to lie. 83 00:03:10,500 --> 00:03:11,792 What do you think, Cameron? 84 00:03:11,875 --> 00:03:13,542 - I thought that was something you were into. 85 00:03:13,625 --> 00:03:15,458 - Oh, well, that was an assumption. 86 00:03:15,542 --> 00:03:17,750 - And we hope they use these last few days 87 00:03:17,833 --> 00:03:21,625 to further get to know the stranger they just married... 88 00:03:21,708 --> 00:03:24,208 - Sir, how do you feel... - Get closer. 89 00:03:24,292 --> 00:03:27,667 - When you hear about strangers marrying each other? 90 00:03:27,708 --> 00:03:29,333 ♪ 91 00:03:29,417 --> 00:03:31,250 Do you think we have a chance? 92 00:03:31,375 --> 00:03:34,250 [indistinct chatter] 93 00:03:34,250 --> 00:03:35,500 Thank you for your time. 94 00:03:35,583 --> 00:03:38,000 - Because in just over seven weeks, 95 00:03:38,083 --> 00:03:39,875 they'll have to make a decision, 96 00:03:39,958 --> 00:03:43,042 whether they want to stay married or get a divorce. 97 00:03:43,125 --> 00:03:47,750 - Last night I started to sleep separately from my husband 98 00:03:47,875 --> 00:03:49,625 just to give some more space. 99 00:03:49,708 --> 00:03:52,917 I'm trying to figure some things out for myself too. 100 00:03:53,000 --> 00:03:56,583 I did eventually go upstairs and get in the bed 101 00:03:56,667 --> 00:03:58,833 around 5:00 a.m. 102 00:03:58,875 --> 00:04:02,542 just so that he wouldn't wake up to me not in the bed. 103 00:04:02,542 --> 00:04:06,292 - So things do feel a bit offbeat. 104 00:04:06,375 --> 00:04:10,417 But, you know, today I am really looking forward 105 00:04:10,542 --> 00:04:14,042 to opening a narrative with Lauren. 106 00:04:14,042 --> 00:04:16,167 ♪ 107 00:04:16,250 --> 00:04:18,375 - ♪ Oh, give it to me 108 00:04:18,375 --> 00:04:21,292 ♪ Give it, give it to me 109 00:04:21,375 --> 00:04:23,333 ♪ Oh, give it to me 110 00:04:23,458 --> 00:04:26,792 - On our way to go flyboarding. I've always wanted to do this. 111 00:04:26,875 --> 00:04:29,125 I've only seen videos of people doing it, 112 00:04:29,208 --> 00:04:30,500 and it looked really fun. 113 00:04:30,708 --> 00:04:32,333 So it's definitely been on the bucket list for a while now. 114 00:04:32,458 --> 00:04:33,542 - Might be a little difficult, 115 00:04:33,625 --> 00:04:35,167 considering I can't feel my hand. 116 00:04:35,208 --> 00:04:36,667 I walked out of the shower, slipped, 117 00:04:36,750 --> 00:04:38,667 and, like, severely sprained my hand. 118 00:04:38,708 --> 00:04:40,167 - So... - My goal is to just not be 119 00:04:40,250 --> 00:04:41,708 a flopping fish. - Okay. 120 00:04:41,708 --> 00:04:44,833 - [vocalizing] 121 00:04:44,917 --> 00:04:47,917 [upbeat music] 122 00:04:48,042 --> 00:04:52,167 ♪ 123 00:04:52,292 --> 00:04:54,000 - Good luck. [engine turning over] 124 00:04:54,083 --> 00:04:56,000 ♪ 125 00:04:56,042 --> 00:04:58,542 I feel like he's going to do backflips and stuff. 126 00:04:58,625 --> 00:05:01,625 [upbeat rock music] 127 00:05:01,708 --> 00:05:05,042 ♪ 128 00:05:05,042 --> 00:05:06,167 [music fades, stops] 129 00:05:06,208 --> 00:05:08,042 This is not looking good for me. 130 00:05:08,042 --> 00:05:09,667 - Are you okay? 131 00:05:09,708 --> 00:05:11,000 - Whoo! 132 00:05:11,083 --> 00:05:12,542 ♪ 133 00:05:12,542 --> 00:05:14,292 Whoo! 134 00:05:14,292 --> 00:05:15,875 - Wish I could clap. 135 00:05:15,875 --> 00:05:18,208 - ♪ Everybody wait for the count ♪ 136 00:05:18,208 --> 00:05:20,167 ♪ Takewon coming at you 137 00:05:20,250 --> 00:05:21,750 - Whoo! 138 00:05:21,750 --> 00:05:23,708 - ♪ Come on, you can't argue with that ♪ 139 00:05:23,792 --> 00:05:25,667 - He did so well. 140 00:05:25,750 --> 00:05:28,000 I'm not good when I'm not good at things. 141 00:05:28,042 --> 00:05:29,917 I wish my hand didn't hurt. 142 00:05:29,917 --> 00:05:31,917 If anything, it'll be entertaining to watch me. 143 00:05:31,917 --> 00:05:33,000 That's for sure. [chuckles] 144 00:05:33,125 --> 00:05:35,208 - ♪ You're checking me out 145 00:05:35,333 --> 00:05:37,167 - You're going to kill it. - Okay. 146 00:05:37,250 --> 00:05:38,625 - Was it hard? - Um, yeah. [chuckles] 147 00:05:38,625 --> 00:05:40,250 - Oh, great. Super. - Are you ready? 148 00:05:40,375 --> 00:05:41,333 - Yes. - Have fun. 149 00:05:41,417 --> 00:05:42,833 - Thanks. - Good luck. 150 00:05:42,833 --> 00:05:44,500 - That stressed me out a little bit more. 151 00:05:44,583 --> 00:05:46,292 - Just use your "leggies." Go do it. 152 00:05:46,375 --> 00:05:48,042 - I'm going to struggle. 153 00:05:48,042 --> 00:05:48,833 ♪ 154 00:05:48,917 --> 00:05:50,167 - Do it, girl. 155 00:05:50,250 --> 00:05:51,292 I'm not worried. 156 00:05:51,375 --> 00:05:53,167 My ring almost fell off. 157 00:05:53,292 --> 00:05:55,083 I'm excited to see this. 158 00:05:55,167 --> 00:05:56,708 She's probably going to kill it. 159 00:05:56,708 --> 00:05:59,875 ♪ 160 00:05:59,875 --> 00:06:01,625 [music stops] 161 00:06:01,625 --> 00:06:02,833 Come on, Em. You got it. 162 00:06:02,875 --> 00:06:05,958 [rock music] 163 00:06:06,042 --> 00:06:08,000 ♪ 164 00:06:08,083 --> 00:06:10,125 She's going to get on this one. 165 00:06:10,208 --> 00:06:11,875 Yes, yes. 166 00:06:11,875 --> 00:06:13,750 ♪ 167 00:06:13,833 --> 00:06:15,708 [scattered cheers] 168 00:06:15,708 --> 00:06:18,417 ♪ 169 00:06:18,542 --> 00:06:20,333 - Yeah! Let's go! 170 00:06:20,375 --> 00:06:22,042 - Yeah! Balance. 171 00:06:22,125 --> 00:06:23,958 - ♪ Some girls know how to have some fun ♪ 172 00:06:24,042 --> 00:06:26,042 - Atta girl! Good job. 173 00:06:26,125 --> 00:06:28,500 - ♪ Some girls get anything they want ♪ 174 00:06:28,583 --> 00:06:31,125 - Emily is flyboarding with, you know, a hurt wrist, 175 00:06:31,208 --> 00:06:34,500 and it just shows that she's motivated and passionate, 176 00:06:34,542 --> 00:06:35,917 and I just love that. 177 00:06:36,000 --> 00:06:37,917 Just nothing, you know, knocks her down. 178 00:06:38,000 --> 00:06:40,458 I think she's a catch, and I think she's awesome. 179 00:06:40,458 --> 00:06:43,292 So, yeah, I'm excited about our life together. 180 00:06:43,375 --> 00:06:44,958 Good job. - Thanks. 181 00:06:45,042 --> 00:06:46,417 - You did good. - Did I? 182 00:06:46,500 --> 00:06:47,708 - Yeah, you did. 183 00:06:47,708 --> 00:06:49,292 - I got some air at the end, right? 184 00:06:49,375 --> 00:06:50,333 - Yeah, you did. 185 00:06:50,583 --> 00:06:52,458 That feeling of shooting out of the water is, 186 00:06:52,542 --> 00:06:54,458 like, the coolest thing ever. - I know. It's great. 187 00:06:54,542 --> 00:06:56,667 It was kind of fun being tossed around in the water. 188 00:06:56,708 --> 00:06:59,458 - [laughs] Okay. - Like, whoo. 189 00:06:59,542 --> 00:07:01,708 - I'm proud of you. - Thanks. 190 00:07:01,708 --> 00:07:03,875 That was fun. I'm glad we did that. 191 00:07:03,958 --> 00:07:06,333 ♪ 192 00:07:06,333 --> 00:07:08,458 [seagull cries] 193 00:07:08,542 --> 00:07:12,750 - ♪ Eyes wide shut to what's right in front ♪ 194 00:07:12,750 --> 00:07:14,875 ♪ Where do we go from here? 195 00:07:14,875 --> 00:07:17,625 ♪ Where do we go from here? 196 00:07:17,708 --> 00:07:19,792 ♪ Lost the trust 197 00:07:19,792 --> 00:07:22,167 ♪ But we're still in love 198 00:07:22,167 --> 00:07:24,250 ♪ Where do we go from here? 199 00:07:24,333 --> 00:07:27,958 ♪ Where do we go from... 200 00:07:28,042 --> 00:07:31,333 - Last night was--it was difficult for both of us. 201 00:07:31,375 --> 00:07:33,792 ♪ 202 00:07:33,875 --> 00:07:35,667 Oh, it's cold. 203 00:07:35,708 --> 00:07:37,333 I put him in a predicament 204 00:07:37,375 --> 00:07:39,583 where he not only felt offended, 205 00:07:39,667 --> 00:07:41,583 but he also had to give a history lesson. 206 00:07:41,667 --> 00:07:44,167 And it's like, when a minority has to do that, 207 00:07:44,208 --> 00:07:45,667 it's like insult to injury. 208 00:07:45,708 --> 00:07:48,125 ♪ 209 00:07:48,125 --> 00:07:49,958 We're still getting to know each other. 210 00:07:50,042 --> 00:07:52,708 And so navigating difficult conflict 211 00:07:52,792 --> 00:07:55,417 is going to take some time to see 212 00:07:55,500 --> 00:07:57,875 what's best for both of us. 213 00:07:57,958 --> 00:08:00,667 But, you know, we're trying. [sighs] 214 00:08:00,750 --> 00:08:03,042 ♪ 215 00:08:03,125 --> 00:08:05,833 Oh, no. 216 00:08:05,917 --> 00:08:08,000 So this is nice to kind of, like, just get 217 00:08:08,083 --> 00:08:10,500 out of the city a little bit and get off the resort. 218 00:08:10,583 --> 00:08:12,292 - Kind of where the noise isn't. 219 00:08:12,375 --> 00:08:13,750 - Yeah. - Mm-hmm. 220 00:08:13,833 --> 00:08:17,333 - How are you feeling since yesterday? 221 00:08:17,417 --> 00:08:20,333 - Well, like, okay. 222 00:08:20,417 --> 00:08:21,667 - Yeah? - Yeah. 223 00:08:21,750 --> 00:08:23,333 - Just okay. - Just okay? 224 00:08:23,417 --> 00:08:24,667 - Yeah. 225 00:08:24,750 --> 00:08:26,542 ♪ 226 00:08:26,542 --> 00:08:30,292 Nothing that was said yesterday was out of malice. 227 00:08:30,292 --> 00:08:31,708 - It was a lot. 228 00:08:31,708 --> 00:08:32,583 - Yeah. 229 00:08:32,667 --> 00:08:35,042 - It was a lot. 230 00:08:35,042 --> 00:08:38,500 There are a lot of things I don't move on. 231 00:08:38,583 --> 00:08:39,833 - Mm-hmm. 232 00:08:39,917 --> 00:08:42,667 - And as you discovered yesterday, 233 00:08:42,708 --> 00:08:46,833 one of them is who I am, where I come from, you know. 234 00:08:46,833 --> 00:08:50,667 and I hold a lot of pride in it, and I know you do too. 235 00:08:50,750 --> 00:08:53,083 I did, you know, take a walk. 236 00:08:53,083 --> 00:08:54,625 You know, I wasn't upset. 237 00:08:54,708 --> 00:08:57,750 I just--my ducks were not in a row. 238 00:08:57,750 --> 00:08:59,042 - Yeah. 239 00:08:59,125 --> 00:09:02,917 - So, with that, I wasn't able to formulate words 240 00:09:03,000 --> 00:09:06,917 where I felt like I would be respectful to you. 241 00:09:07,000 --> 00:09:08,750 - Mm-hmm. - You know, and so with that, 242 00:09:08,750 --> 00:09:12,292 you know, there's no need for me to say anything. 243 00:09:12,375 --> 00:09:14,042 - I think taking space in that moment 244 00:09:14,125 --> 00:09:16,083 was the best for both of us. - Mm-hmm. 245 00:09:16,167 --> 00:09:19,208 - Like you said, I wasn't mad or angry in that time. 246 00:09:19,333 --> 00:09:23,417 I did spend a lot of time just reflecting on, what can we do? 247 00:09:23,417 --> 00:09:26,625 What can I do to make sure that my husband 248 00:09:26,708 --> 00:09:29,542 feels safe and valued and seen in this marriage? 249 00:09:29,667 --> 00:09:32,833 Because I know that you don't necessarily feel safe 250 00:09:32,875 --> 00:09:35,208 and valued and seen in this world, 251 00:09:35,333 --> 00:09:38,875 and I want to be sure that you feel that at home... 252 00:09:38,958 --> 00:09:40,208 genuinely. 253 00:09:40,208 --> 00:09:42,167 - And the same goes for you. 254 00:09:42,167 --> 00:09:45,167 The same goes for you. 255 00:09:45,167 --> 00:09:46,458 - As it pertains to race, 256 00:09:46,458 --> 00:09:49,167 I think that in just culture in general, 257 00:09:49,292 --> 00:09:53,125 we both deal with just, like, a lot of insincere 258 00:09:53,125 --> 00:09:55,833 and ignorant comments almost, like, every day. 259 00:09:55,958 --> 00:09:57,875 And neither one of us should have 260 00:09:57,958 --> 00:10:00,833 to come back home to that same ignorance 261 00:10:00,958 --> 00:10:02,542 and ruin what we're trying to create. 262 00:10:02,667 --> 00:10:03,833 - Absolutely. 263 00:10:03,958 --> 00:10:05,333 - Because I think that we're trying 264 00:10:05,417 --> 00:10:06,833 to create something beautiful. 265 00:10:06,917 --> 00:10:08,875 And I still do think we can create 266 00:10:08,875 --> 00:10:10,583 something beautiful together. 267 00:10:10,667 --> 00:10:13,542 - Every conversation, every situation, 268 00:10:13,625 --> 00:10:15,875 even if it's hard, you know, 269 00:10:16,000 --> 00:10:18,292 I don't want us to run away from it. 270 00:10:18,292 --> 00:10:19,625 You know? 271 00:10:19,875 --> 00:10:24,250 Race, religion, things that people hold core values in, 272 00:10:24,333 --> 00:10:27,583 it's always going to be an intense conversation 273 00:10:27,583 --> 00:10:28,833 because it's guaranteed 274 00:10:28,958 --> 00:10:30,917 there's going to be an opposing side about something. 275 00:10:31,000 --> 00:10:33,083 - Always. And not even just opposing, 276 00:10:33,208 --> 00:10:35,208 sometimes just differing. - Yeah. 277 00:10:35,292 --> 00:10:37,167 And so I feel like... 278 00:10:37,292 --> 00:10:39,958 the conversation had to happen at some point-- 279 00:10:40,042 --> 00:10:41,500 I don't know, in some way. - But-- 280 00:10:41,583 --> 00:10:44,167 - But if there's any upside to this, 281 00:10:44,208 --> 00:10:47,292 we have the time and the space to do this, 282 00:10:47,375 --> 00:10:49,500 like, really trying to, like, 283 00:10:49,542 --> 00:10:52,042 take advantage of this opportunity we have 284 00:10:52,167 --> 00:10:54,458 on our honeymoon to, like, dig deep. 285 00:10:54,542 --> 00:10:57,042 And it's kind of hard to stay mad in paradise, I think. 286 00:10:57,125 --> 00:10:58,542 - Exactly. 287 00:10:58,625 --> 00:11:00,333 - Because I could see this going differently 288 00:11:00,375 --> 00:11:03,792 if we were, like, at home, and we also had all the other tasks 289 00:11:03,875 --> 00:11:05,875 we have when we get back. - Mm-hmm. 290 00:11:05,875 --> 00:11:08,667 - So I think it's good for us to... 291 00:11:08,750 --> 00:11:10,750 learn how to navigate this 292 00:11:10,750 --> 00:11:15,167 so that if something--when something else comes up, 293 00:11:15,167 --> 00:11:17,833 no matter what it is, we'll be-- 294 00:11:17,833 --> 00:11:20,375 just know how to do it better. 295 00:11:20,458 --> 00:11:22,875 - We got this. - Yeah. Yeah. 296 00:11:22,958 --> 00:11:27,875 - ♪ 'Cause I, I've got you 297 00:11:27,875 --> 00:11:30,833 ♪ I know I'm stronger 298 00:11:30,833 --> 00:11:32,708 ♪ I know that I've got you 299 00:11:36,542 --> 00:11:37,292 [upbeat tropical music] 300 00:11:37,375 --> 00:11:42,542 ♪ 301 00:11:42,625 --> 00:11:45,417 - Ooh, look at this. - Hola. 302 00:11:45,500 --> 00:11:47,417 - Oh, we're about to have fun. 303 00:11:47,500 --> 00:11:48,542 - Wow, this is going to get messy. 304 00:11:48,667 --> 00:11:50,000 - ¿Cómo están? How are you? 305 00:11:50,083 --> 00:11:51,500 - Bien, ¿y tú? - Good. 306 00:11:51,500 --> 00:11:53,208 - Excelente, excelente, señores. 307 00:11:53,208 --> 00:11:55,625 - I feel like my relationship with Cameron 308 00:11:55,708 --> 00:11:58,083 has been very, um... 309 00:11:58,167 --> 00:11:59,375 serious. 310 00:11:59,458 --> 00:12:02,875 [giggles] Like, I want to see a side of him 311 00:12:02,875 --> 00:12:06,000 that is more than just, like, the serious side. 312 00:12:06,125 --> 00:12:07,875 I think this is a very, like, fun space, 313 00:12:07,958 --> 00:12:09,583 and it's just going to be a more playful experience, 314 00:12:09,667 --> 00:12:11,375 so I'm excited. 315 00:12:11,500 --> 00:12:13,208 Cameron, are you a good painter? 316 00:12:13,292 --> 00:12:15,500 - Yeah, I was born with a paintbrush in my hand. 317 00:12:15,583 --> 00:12:16,875 - That's news to me. - That was-- 318 00:12:17,042 --> 00:12:20,875 - You're very--[laughing] - That was not accurate either. 319 00:12:21,000 --> 00:12:24,208 - I don't know if Cameron has romantic feelings for me yet. 320 00:12:24,333 --> 00:12:25,833 I think maybe there's attraction there, 321 00:12:25,958 --> 00:12:28,542 but I'm not fully sure. 322 00:12:28,625 --> 00:12:30,375 He's very apprehensive, and so am I. 323 00:12:30,500 --> 00:12:33,000 Like, we're both kind of like, are we attracted to each other? 324 00:12:33,125 --> 00:12:34,958 Are we not? Like, I don't know. 325 00:12:35,042 --> 00:12:37,292 It's a very confusing point of the relationship. 326 00:12:37,375 --> 00:12:39,375 - When I count to three, 327 00:12:39,375 --> 00:12:42,667 you're going to flick the first splatter on your canvas. 328 00:12:42,750 --> 00:12:45,167 One, two, three, señores. 329 00:12:45,250 --> 00:12:48,208 Eso. Mero. There you go. - Look at that. 330 00:12:48,208 --> 00:12:50,292 We're having fun. We're having fun. 331 00:12:50,375 --> 00:12:53,375 You just want it all one color? - I have a process. 332 00:12:53,500 --> 00:12:55,000 Thank you very much. - Okay. 333 00:12:55,083 --> 00:12:58,250 Again, you have a logical way of doing this, I'm sure. 334 00:12:58,250 --> 00:13:00,250 ♪ 335 00:13:00,333 --> 00:13:03,000 Okay. [giggles] 336 00:13:03,083 --> 00:13:04,833 Can I add one to yours or no? 337 00:13:04,958 --> 00:13:06,500 - No. - Okay. 338 00:13:06,542 --> 00:13:07,875 - I know it needs something. 339 00:13:07,875 --> 00:13:09,667 I'm just trying to decide what it needs. 340 00:13:09,708 --> 00:13:11,167 ♪ 341 00:13:11,208 --> 00:13:12,500 Oi! 342 00:13:14,750 --> 00:13:16,167 - Mine, I think-- 343 00:13:16,208 --> 00:13:18,125 - I would never disrupt an artist. 344 00:13:18,208 --> 00:13:20,042 - No, I'm just-- 345 00:13:20,042 --> 00:13:21,500 Go ahead. - You got it. 346 00:13:21,625 --> 00:13:24,333 - No, you. This is all you. 347 00:13:24,333 --> 00:13:25,792 ♪ 348 00:13:25,875 --> 00:13:27,875 Oh. Oh, oh! 349 00:13:27,958 --> 00:13:32,042 [laughs] Are you kidding me? 350 00:13:32,125 --> 00:13:34,625 [laughter, indistinct chatter] 351 00:13:34,625 --> 00:13:37,542 Hold me back. Hold me back. 352 00:13:37,625 --> 00:13:40,500 [laughing] 353 00:13:40,583 --> 00:13:42,875 ♪ 354 00:13:42,958 --> 00:13:44,875 I'm getting screwed over. 355 00:13:44,958 --> 00:13:47,792 - You know, I would always be careful around me. 356 00:13:47,875 --> 00:13:49,417 - [laughs] 357 00:13:49,417 --> 00:13:51,708 You win. You win. 358 00:13:51,708 --> 00:13:53,375 Maybe that was pent-up, like, energy 359 00:13:53,500 --> 00:13:55,333 that I just needed to express. 360 00:13:55,417 --> 00:13:58,167 And I think he is feeling the same way. 361 00:13:58,250 --> 00:14:00,625 - Paso uno, señores. Perfecto. 362 00:14:00,708 --> 00:14:02,708 Paso dos. 363 00:14:02,792 --> 00:14:04,250 And paso tres! 364 00:14:04,250 --> 00:14:05,500 - That's cheating! 365 00:14:05,583 --> 00:14:07,500 - I like Clare. [chuckles] 366 00:14:07,625 --> 00:14:11,208 Seeing her smiling and having fun around me 367 00:14:11,292 --> 00:14:15,083 makes me think that she's feeling more attracted to me. 368 00:14:15,167 --> 00:14:16,667 - That was completely against the rules. 369 00:14:16,750 --> 00:14:18,500 - The rules of marriage? - [laughs] 370 00:14:18,583 --> 00:14:21,833 - So I hope maybe the splattering of the paint 371 00:14:21,833 --> 00:14:25,833 has allowed her and me to come to a place 372 00:14:25,917 --> 00:14:29,333 where we can find a romantic connection between us. 373 00:14:29,375 --> 00:14:31,000 - So much fun. 374 00:14:31,083 --> 00:14:32,792 Wow, to the right. 375 00:14:32,875 --> 00:14:35,625 Sticky, slimy situation. 376 00:14:35,625 --> 00:14:39,208 I do sometimes feel like, yeah, you're just a large kid. 377 00:14:39,208 --> 00:14:41,542 ♪ 378 00:14:41,625 --> 00:14:42,958 All right. 379 00:14:44,417 --> 00:14:46,167 I feel gross. [laughs] 380 00:14:46,250 --> 00:14:48,125 - Yep. - I need a shower. 381 00:14:48,208 --> 00:14:49,708 - Not me. 382 00:14:49,792 --> 00:14:52,125 - [laughs] I could not look worse. 383 00:14:52,208 --> 00:14:54,333 - Covered in goo, lovely wife. 384 00:14:54,375 --> 00:14:56,625 - I'm sure I look the best I ever have right now. 385 00:14:56,625 --> 00:14:58,167 - Stunning. - Stunning. 386 00:14:58,167 --> 00:14:59,792 But, yeah, that was fun. 387 00:14:59,792 --> 00:15:03,167 - Yeah. No, I think you took my... 388 00:15:03,167 --> 00:15:05,708 my aggressive play well. 389 00:15:05,708 --> 00:15:06,958 - It was funny. 390 00:15:07,042 --> 00:15:08,667 - Yeah, yeah. 391 00:15:08,667 --> 00:15:11,292 - And that was really great to not be so serious, you know? 392 00:15:11,375 --> 00:15:12,500 - Yes, yes. 393 00:15:12,583 --> 00:15:14,292 - And I think that's important that we remember 394 00:15:14,375 --> 00:15:15,958 that we can have fun. - Yeah. 395 00:15:16,042 --> 00:15:18,625 - Every activity we do, I'm seeing a different side, 396 00:15:18,625 --> 00:15:20,500 and I am grateful for that. 397 00:15:20,583 --> 00:15:23,875 Cheers to new experiences and to getting to know 398 00:15:24,000 --> 00:15:25,208 different sides of each other. 399 00:15:25,542 --> 00:15:27,667 - Do you think they'll let us jump in the pool like this? 400 00:15:27,792 --> 00:15:29,458 - [laughs] 401 00:15:29,542 --> 00:15:33,167 - ♪ Why don't you fly away with me? ♪ 402 00:15:33,292 --> 00:15:35,500 ♪ Why don't we start again? 403 00:15:35,583 --> 00:15:37,500 - Today was so fun. 404 00:15:37,542 --> 00:15:42,250 We got to do the Jet Ski thing--"thingamabobber." 405 00:15:42,375 --> 00:15:44,167 Unfortunately, my hair has turned 406 00:15:44,250 --> 00:15:45,708 into huge dreads coming out of that. 407 00:15:45,792 --> 00:15:49,042 So now we're in a little bit of a situation, but it's okay. 408 00:15:49,042 --> 00:15:51,875 Now I get to go spend time with the girls 409 00:15:51,875 --> 00:15:54,750 and then brush out these dreads 410 00:15:54,833 --> 00:15:56,542 for probably the rest of the time. 411 00:15:56,542 --> 00:15:58,125 ♪ 412 00:15:58,125 --> 00:16:01,083 - ♪ From here to eternity 413 00:16:01,167 --> 00:16:02,833 - We haven't had time to, like, just chill at the pool. 414 00:16:02,917 --> 00:16:04,250 - Or hang out with just us. - Right. 415 00:16:04,375 --> 00:16:06,208 - Or just the girls, you know. - So I'm excited. 416 00:16:06,292 --> 00:16:07,667 - We haven't had a proper girls' day. 417 00:16:07,708 --> 00:16:08,833 - Later, boys. We don't need you. 418 00:16:08,917 --> 00:16:10,292 - Cheers, boys. - Good seeing you guys. 419 00:16:10,375 --> 00:16:12,208 - It's nice to have a sunny day. 420 00:16:12,292 --> 00:16:14,208 - I'm just saying, it's nice to, like, bond 421 00:16:14,292 --> 00:16:15,625 with you guys about this. all: Yes. 422 00:16:15,708 --> 00:16:17,500 - That's a good part of this process, honestly. 423 00:16:17,583 --> 00:16:19,500 - I think they're very happy to be together. 424 00:16:19,625 --> 00:16:21,042 - Right. - I'm sure they are. 425 00:16:21,042 --> 00:16:22,500 - Just like we're very happy to be together. 426 00:16:22,542 --> 00:16:26,375 - So being married, how do we like that? 427 00:16:26,500 --> 00:16:28,167 - It's kind of crazy, right? - yeah. 428 00:16:28,250 --> 00:16:30,000 - Like, you just meet a stranger-- 429 00:16:30,125 --> 00:16:31,917 - Get along with them so incredibly well. 430 00:16:32,042 --> 00:16:33,458 both: Yeah. 431 00:16:33,542 --> 00:16:35,000 - Are you guys all getting along really well? 432 00:16:35,083 --> 00:16:37,333 - I think Clare and I-- today we had a bit 433 00:16:37,375 --> 00:16:38,875 of, like, a breakthrough moment. 434 00:16:38,875 --> 00:16:40,250 - Yeah? 435 00:16:40,333 --> 00:16:42,583 - She's a lot more playful than I realized. 436 00:16:42,667 --> 00:16:45,083 We have a lot of intense conversations, 437 00:16:45,083 --> 00:16:48,167 and we're both this really weird mixture 438 00:16:48,250 --> 00:16:50,500 of, like, silly and serious. 439 00:16:50,583 --> 00:16:54,833 We both get stuck in the same mode at the same time. 440 00:16:54,917 --> 00:16:57,167 And it actually makes it really hard 441 00:16:57,167 --> 00:16:59,042 to progress in a relationship. 442 00:16:59,125 --> 00:17:00,958 But she is so good 443 00:17:01,042 --> 00:17:03,833 at communicating exactly how she feels, 444 00:17:03,917 --> 00:17:08,333 but she's not great at helping me understand what she wants. 445 00:17:08,417 --> 00:17:10,208 - Cameron and I aren't the most... 446 00:17:10,292 --> 00:17:11,792 - I'm going to sit. - Yeah, sit. 447 00:17:11,875 --> 00:17:13,000 No, this is a conversation-- 448 00:17:13,042 --> 00:17:15,250 - This feels like a sitting conversation. 449 00:17:15,333 --> 00:17:16,708 - My ass is... - We're getting in. 450 00:17:16,875 --> 00:17:19,833 - Cameron and I, we aren't the most physically affectionate. 451 00:17:19,917 --> 00:17:24,542 And I was wondering if you have advice for me 'cause-- 452 00:17:24,542 --> 00:17:25,500 - How are you typically 453 00:17:25,583 --> 00:17:27,375 in, like, past romantic relationships? 454 00:17:27,375 --> 00:17:29,042 Like, are you super physically affectionate? 455 00:17:29,042 --> 00:17:31,917 - You know, I think that I have struggled with that in the past 456 00:17:32,000 --> 00:17:34,292 just because a lot of the guys I've been with 457 00:17:34,292 --> 00:17:38,417 haven't been willing to show me off, like, in public 458 00:17:38,500 --> 00:17:40,292 or not willing to, like, hold my hand, 459 00:17:40,375 --> 00:17:42,375 and so I think that I'm used to that. 460 00:17:42,375 --> 00:17:44,042 So, for me, it's not the weirdest thing. 461 00:17:44,125 --> 00:17:45,458 But when I see you guys, 462 00:17:45,542 --> 00:17:47,167 I'm like, well, it is kind of weird. 463 00:17:47,250 --> 00:17:49,667 The attraction that you all have with your partners 464 00:17:49,708 --> 00:17:51,542 was immediate, and that's fair to say, correct? 465 00:17:51,625 --> 00:17:53,833 both: Yeah. - That's where we differ. 466 00:17:53,875 --> 00:17:56,833 It hasn't been that experience for us. 467 00:17:56,833 --> 00:17:59,167 - I'm really attracted to Clare. 468 00:17:59,250 --> 00:18:01,542 I think she is very attractive. 469 00:18:01,542 --> 00:18:05,375 While we aren't the most intimate people yet, 470 00:18:05,458 --> 00:18:08,625 like, I'm very much looking forward to us... 471 00:18:08,708 --> 00:18:10,792 you know, getting there. 472 00:18:10,875 --> 00:18:13,208 - We have not kissed nor cuddled. 473 00:18:13,208 --> 00:18:14,417 - Have you hugged? - Yes. 474 00:18:14,500 --> 00:18:16,958 - Who would be the one to initiate it? 475 00:18:17,042 --> 00:18:18,583 - If he does do those things, 476 00:18:18,583 --> 00:18:20,333 like, try to do something back to him, 477 00:18:20,375 --> 00:18:21,875 like, 'cause that's his bit of love. 478 00:18:21,875 --> 00:18:23,542 I'm putting my arm around you. 479 00:18:23,542 --> 00:18:25,333 It might not be big, but, like-- 480 00:18:25,417 --> 00:18:26,750 - For him, it is. For him, it is big. 481 00:18:26,750 --> 00:18:27,917 - Yeah, no, definitely. 482 00:18:28,000 --> 00:18:29,208 - It might not feel comfortable. 483 00:18:29,208 --> 00:18:30,500 Like, you might just be like, meh. 484 00:18:30,583 --> 00:18:32,167 [laughter] 485 00:18:32,167 --> 00:18:33,792 Let it sit for a minute, right? Like... 486 00:18:33,875 --> 00:18:35,875 - Yeah, I mean, I don't even think he'll do that, ladies, 487 00:18:35,958 --> 00:18:37,500 to be honest, but-- - He did. 488 00:18:37,542 --> 00:18:39,167 He had his arm around you. - Yes. 489 00:18:39,167 --> 00:18:41,042 - I mean, I'm steady as a rock. - Right, so... 490 00:18:41,042 --> 00:18:43,417 - But I got a lot steadier when I saw you. 491 00:18:43,500 --> 00:18:45,833 - When I was looking around everywhere. 492 00:18:45,875 --> 00:18:47,250 - Okay, that's true. - He did. 493 00:18:47,375 --> 00:18:49,000 - Yeah. - He's trying. 494 00:18:49,042 --> 00:18:50,625 - His body language was, like, towards you. 495 00:18:50,708 --> 00:18:51,833 all: Yeah. 496 00:18:51,958 --> 00:18:53,458 - Try your best to look for the good, 497 00:18:53,458 --> 00:18:54,833 and the more you look for it, you'll see it. 498 00:18:54,917 --> 00:18:56,333 - Yeah. 499 00:18:56,583 --> 00:18:58,042 - Just literally grab his face and make out the next time 500 00:18:58,042 --> 00:18:59,625 we're all hanging out. - Oh, yeah. 501 00:18:59,625 --> 00:19:01,167 That'll be easy for us, I think. 502 00:19:01,250 --> 00:19:03,042 From zero to 100 real quick. 503 00:19:03,125 --> 00:19:04,667 - Just know that you're not the only one 504 00:19:04,708 --> 00:19:06,792 going through difficult relationship problems. 505 00:19:06,875 --> 00:19:09,292 They may be different, but we all got our own [bleep]. 506 00:19:09,292 --> 00:19:10,750 With Orion and I, we've dealt 507 00:19:10,875 --> 00:19:13,083 with some really uncomfortable conversations. 508 00:19:13,167 --> 00:19:14,833 I mean, let's be real. No one's blind. 509 00:19:14,917 --> 00:19:16,792 We're in a whole-ass interracial relationship. 510 00:19:16,875 --> 00:19:20,167 So we're trying to understand each other as individuals 511 00:19:20,208 --> 00:19:23,583 while also understanding each other's cultures. 512 00:19:23,667 --> 00:19:26,292 And so it adds, like, another layer of, like, 513 00:19:26,292 --> 00:19:27,958 [bleep] damn, [bleep] damn, [bleep] damn to this. 514 00:19:28,042 --> 00:19:29,292 both: Yeah. 515 00:19:29,458 --> 00:19:31,208 - But I think we're handling those conversations 516 00:19:31,292 --> 00:19:32,333 really well. 517 00:19:32,417 --> 00:19:33,875 We had--not our first fight 518 00:19:33,958 --> 00:19:36,292 but more like a very just, like, uncomfortable discussion 519 00:19:36,292 --> 00:19:37,875 yesterday, honestly. 520 00:19:38,000 --> 00:19:41,500 And it made us feel very, very separated from each other. 521 00:19:41,625 --> 00:19:43,542 And that was the first time we kind of looked 522 00:19:43,625 --> 00:19:45,167 at each other, like, wow, we are different. 523 00:19:45,250 --> 00:19:48,667 - I wouldn't say marriage is everything 524 00:19:48,667 --> 00:19:50,042 I thought it would be, 525 00:19:50,042 --> 00:19:52,000 you know, 'cause it is too soon to tell. 526 00:19:52,083 --> 00:19:54,167 But I would say that Lauren is everything 527 00:19:54,250 --> 00:19:55,667 that I've wanted in a partner. 528 00:19:55,750 --> 00:19:57,458 - Right on. Hell, yeah. - That's sweet. 529 00:19:57,542 --> 00:19:58,917 - Yeah. - There's something growing. 530 00:19:59,042 --> 00:20:03,250 You know, there's something there, and, yeah, it's nice. 531 00:20:03,333 --> 00:20:05,083 - I don't feel like yesterday was a loss for us. 532 00:20:05,208 --> 00:20:07,292 It's just-- I got a learning curve, y'all. 533 00:20:07,292 --> 00:20:09,000 - But the fact that you're comfortable enough 534 00:20:09,000 --> 00:20:11,417 to vocalize that to each other is a very healthy-- 535 00:20:11,500 --> 00:20:12,750 - Yeah. - We're going to say things. 536 00:20:12,875 --> 00:20:14,458 We're going to do things. It's a relationship. 537 00:20:14,542 --> 00:20:15,833 - Absolutely. - And it's hard, 538 00:20:15,833 --> 00:20:17,667 and we're going to have difficult conversations. 539 00:20:17,708 --> 00:20:19,917 But knowing that it's not just you invested 540 00:20:20,000 --> 00:20:21,333 in having that difficult conversation, 541 00:20:21,375 --> 00:20:22,917 it makes all the difference. 542 00:20:23,000 --> 00:20:24,500 - Definitely surprising to hear 543 00:20:24,583 --> 00:20:27,875 that Lauren and Orion are maybe more distant 544 00:20:27,958 --> 00:20:29,375 than I thought that they were. 545 00:20:29,458 --> 00:20:31,458 I don't know what the conversation they had was, 546 00:20:31,542 --> 00:20:33,042 but it sounds like it was something 547 00:20:33,167 --> 00:20:34,708 really, really heavy. 548 00:20:34,708 --> 00:20:37,375 So I feel sad. I also feel just surprised. 549 00:20:37,458 --> 00:20:40,375 I just hope that they can work through it, yeah. 550 00:20:40,500 --> 00:20:42,667 - We're both very resolution-oriented. 551 00:20:42,792 --> 00:20:45,458 So we're comfortable with acknowledging 552 00:20:45,542 --> 00:20:46,833 there's conflict. - That's huge. 553 00:20:46,875 --> 00:20:48,583 That is huge. - And we want to navigate it. 554 00:20:48,667 --> 00:20:50,500 - I love that. - Yeah, that's amazing. 555 00:20:50,583 --> 00:20:52,417 - Yeah. 556 00:20:52,417 --> 00:20:54,000 - I feel like I'm just waiting for the other shoe to drop. 557 00:20:54,083 --> 00:20:55,375 - That's kind of how I feel too. 558 00:20:55,500 --> 00:20:57,333 - Like, I'm like, he's got a wife and family back home. 559 00:20:57,458 --> 00:20:58,833 [laughs] - Because you-- 560 00:20:58,875 --> 00:20:59,833 So, yeah, to ask about that. 561 00:20:59,917 --> 00:21:01,208 Has that happened in the past, 562 00:21:01,208 --> 00:21:04,000 where things are going, like, swimmingly, 563 00:21:04,083 --> 00:21:07,042 and then, you know, all of a sudden, it's just like, boom? 564 00:21:07,042 --> 00:21:08,917 Why do you feel like that? - I think that's hard for me 565 00:21:08,917 --> 00:21:10,583 'cause I've never had a relationship, so I'm like-- 566 00:21:10,667 --> 00:21:12,083 - I forget about that. - Yeah. 567 00:21:12,167 --> 00:21:13,542 Oh, my God, let's talk about that. 568 00:21:13,625 --> 00:21:15,042 - First relationship, first marriage. 569 00:21:15,042 --> 00:21:17,042 - How is it to go from single to married for you? 570 00:21:17,042 --> 00:21:19,333 - I mean, it's been, luckily-- - Does it feel normal? 571 00:21:19,333 --> 00:21:21,000 - Normal, yeah, and, like, comfortable. 572 00:21:21,042 --> 00:21:22,750 - Wow. - I'm like, is this normal? 573 00:21:22,833 --> 00:21:24,250 Like, I'm trying to, like, figure out-- 574 00:21:24,333 --> 00:21:25,833 I'm almost trying to seek out an issue. 575 00:21:25,917 --> 00:21:28,417 But I, like, kind of just feel like, what is our issue? 576 00:21:28,500 --> 00:21:30,000 - It's going good. 577 00:21:30,042 --> 00:21:33,208 Really, what I wanted was a best friend and a partner. 578 00:21:33,333 --> 00:21:35,125 I'm just trying to learn more and more about her. 579 00:21:35,208 --> 00:21:37,125 Like, today we learned, like, 580 00:21:37,208 --> 00:21:39,042 just how much fun we can have together 581 00:21:39,167 --> 00:21:41,875 when we're kind of doing the things we're passionate about, 582 00:21:42,000 --> 00:21:44,042 which is trying new things. 583 00:21:44,042 --> 00:21:45,500 And it was cool to just see 584 00:21:45,625 --> 00:21:48,000 how, like, she just embraced it, like, the same way I did. 585 00:21:48,083 --> 00:21:49,208 - Yeah. 586 00:21:49,208 --> 00:21:51,375 - So it was just really refreshing, 587 00:21:51,375 --> 00:21:53,833 and excited to do more firsts with her. 588 00:21:53,833 --> 00:21:55,667 - I know you wanted to have sex on your honeymoon. 589 00:21:55,750 --> 00:21:57,167 You were like, it's going to be weird 590 00:21:57,208 --> 00:21:58,708 if we don't have sex on your honeymoon. 591 00:21:58,792 --> 00:21:59,875 Has that changed? 592 00:21:59,958 --> 00:22:01,083 - I would say for me, like, 593 00:22:01,083 --> 00:22:02,625 I'm trying to take it differently 594 00:22:02,708 --> 00:22:04,083 because this is my first relationship. 595 00:22:04,083 --> 00:22:06,708 So I've really enjoyed, like, not jumping in it 596 00:22:06,792 --> 00:22:08,500 and, like, us being on that same page 597 00:22:08,583 --> 00:22:10,333 and just really building, 598 00:22:10,375 --> 00:22:13,917 like, a more stable, emotional connection. 599 00:22:14,000 --> 00:22:15,500 So it's been different. 600 00:22:15,542 --> 00:22:17,583 I feel like that's a good thing... 601 00:22:17,667 --> 00:22:19,333 - Yeah, of course. - And change for me. 602 00:22:19,417 --> 00:22:22,250 - I feel like Brennan secretly is like a snuggle bug. 603 00:22:22,333 --> 00:22:25,333 - He likes to be touched. - Yeah, that's good. 604 00:22:25,417 --> 00:22:28,000 - He likes--yeah, yeah. - Love buggies. 605 00:22:28,083 --> 00:22:29,458 - And just, like, giggle-wise-- 606 00:22:29,625 --> 00:22:32,042 like, I catch you two just, like, giggling together a lot. 607 00:22:32,167 --> 00:22:33,833 - I thought it was just him. 608 00:22:33,917 --> 00:22:35,875 - Oh, please, smiley. - Oh, please, girl. 609 00:22:35,875 --> 00:22:38,500 - Yeah, that is.. - She is a walking smiley face. 610 00:22:38,542 --> 00:22:40,292 - Yes. - We love it. 611 00:22:40,375 --> 00:22:42,333 - Ahh... - Emily has such a good spirit. 612 00:22:42,458 --> 00:22:44,458 I mean, she's a champion. 613 00:22:44,542 --> 00:22:46,667 This girl, like, you know, her hand kind of got hurt. 614 00:22:46,750 --> 00:22:47,958 - Oh, yeah. - A little bit. 615 00:22:47,958 --> 00:22:50,042 - I slipped and, like, severely sprained 616 00:22:50,042 --> 00:22:51,792 my hand night number one. 617 00:22:51,875 --> 00:22:53,958 Yeah, and then my hair has been in dreads 618 00:22:53,958 --> 00:22:55,333 ever since this morning. 619 00:22:55,417 --> 00:22:56,833 [laughter] So... 620 00:22:56,958 --> 00:22:58,667 - Her hair was in a million different-- 621 00:22:58,667 --> 00:23:00,792 I said, wow. [laughter continues] 622 00:23:00,875 --> 00:23:02,625 But I love her attitude about it. 623 00:23:02,625 --> 00:23:04,375 - There are so many other women that would have been like, 624 00:23:04,375 --> 00:23:05,792 I can't go to this thing tonight. 625 00:23:05,875 --> 00:23:07,208 And, like, I can't do this. - Right, right. 626 00:23:07,292 --> 00:23:08,542 And she's like, no. 627 00:23:08,875 --> 00:23:10,792 She really just walked through 50 people and did not care. 628 00:23:10,875 --> 00:23:12,375 - Everything's fine. Everything's fine. 629 00:23:12,458 --> 00:23:14,750 - It's fine. - Everything's [bleep] great. 630 00:23:14,750 --> 00:23:17,167 Everything's [bleep] great. [laughter] 631 00:23:17,250 --> 00:23:19,833 - Austin, so what is going well for you? 632 00:23:19,917 --> 00:23:21,500 - I don't know. 633 00:23:21,625 --> 00:23:22,958 There's not, like, one specific thing 634 00:23:23,042 --> 00:23:25,750 that I'm, like, really attached to, so... 635 00:23:25,750 --> 00:23:28,042 - You guys look like you're literally, like, 636 00:23:28,042 --> 00:23:29,833 communicating telepathically. 637 00:23:29,958 --> 00:23:33,125 [laughter] Just you guys look so close. 638 00:23:33,208 --> 00:23:35,625 - Yeah. Um... 639 00:23:35,708 --> 00:23:37,708 So, like, yeah, I don't know. 640 00:23:37,708 --> 00:23:40,292 I just--things are going well. 641 00:23:40,375 --> 00:23:42,125 ♪ 642 00:23:42,208 --> 00:23:45,042 - We're definitely just, like, getting into things, right? 643 00:23:45,042 --> 00:23:46,375 So, like, there are topics 644 00:23:46,500 --> 00:23:48,708 that, like, we haven't talked about in depth yet, 645 00:23:48,833 --> 00:23:51,083 where I'm like, this needs to be addressed at some point. 646 00:23:51,083 --> 00:23:53,167 We haven't talked about, like, goals, religion, 647 00:23:53,250 --> 00:23:55,833 politics, like, a lot of that stuff, the heavy hitters. 648 00:23:55,917 --> 00:23:57,042 - Yeah. - Mm-hmm. 649 00:23:57,042 --> 00:23:58,917 Yeah, but, like, I typically tend to, like, go 650 00:23:59,000 --> 00:24:00,833 right into all of those right away. 651 00:24:00,917 --> 00:24:02,542 And so I don't think it's a bad thing 652 00:24:02,542 --> 00:24:03,792 that I'm waiting. - Yeah. 653 00:24:03,792 --> 00:24:05,417 It's really hard for me to stay present. 654 00:24:05,500 --> 00:24:08,042 Like, I've had to work on practicing and learning 655 00:24:08,125 --> 00:24:09,625 how to stay present. 656 00:24:09,708 --> 00:24:11,167 I know for a lot of people, it just comes naturally, 657 00:24:11,292 --> 00:24:12,542 and it just doesn't for me. 658 00:24:12,625 --> 00:24:14,333 It's something that, in relationships, 659 00:24:14,375 --> 00:24:16,375 can definitely cause complications 660 00:24:16,500 --> 00:24:17,667 and rightfully so. 661 00:24:17,750 --> 00:24:19,542 I watch, like, how patient he is with me, 662 00:24:19,625 --> 00:24:20,917 because sometimes I'm like, 663 00:24:20,917 --> 00:24:22,500 well, we should talk about this right now. 664 00:24:22,583 --> 00:24:23,833 And he's just like, yeah, but what about if we talked 665 00:24:23,875 --> 00:24:26,375 about chips and salsa? [laughter] 666 00:24:26,375 --> 00:24:28,375 I'm more, like, let's figure this out now. 667 00:24:28,375 --> 00:24:29,750 - He's definitely not that person. 668 00:24:29,750 --> 00:24:31,542 - [laughing] I know. I know. - Truly. 669 00:24:31,625 --> 00:24:33,208 - So, like, with that said, 670 00:24:33,333 --> 00:24:34,833 just because, like, me and Austin 671 00:24:34,875 --> 00:24:36,625 are more physically affectionate 672 00:24:36,708 --> 00:24:38,000 with each other right now 673 00:24:38,042 --> 00:24:39,667 does not mean that, like, we're more likely to last. 674 00:24:39,708 --> 00:24:40,917 - Right. - Like, when you look 675 00:24:41,042 --> 00:24:42,625 at, like, friends and past relationships, 676 00:24:42,708 --> 00:24:44,667 where it's like, oh, my gosh, like, the chemistry was there, 677 00:24:44,750 --> 00:24:46,708 everything was there, and then it's like, what happened? 678 00:24:46,833 --> 00:24:49,000 I don't know which side I'd rather be on--grass is greener. 679 00:24:49,083 --> 00:24:51,167 Sometimes, I, like, look at your situation, 680 00:24:51,167 --> 00:24:52,667 and I'm like, that feels better because there's actually room 681 00:24:52,750 --> 00:24:54,292 for it to go uphill... - Sure. 682 00:24:54,375 --> 00:24:55,917 versus, like, right now it feels 683 00:24:56,000 --> 00:24:57,958 like there's only room for it to go downhill. 684 00:24:58,042 --> 00:24:59,333 You know? 685 00:24:59,417 --> 00:25:01,583 ♪ 686 00:25:05,375 --> 00:25:06,292 - ♪ I think that maybe 687 00:25:06,375 --> 00:25:08,042 ♪ We're just getting started 688 00:25:08,042 --> 00:25:14,333 ♪ 689 00:25:14,417 --> 00:25:18,167 ♪ We're just getting started 690 00:25:18,167 --> 00:25:21,042 - Ca-caw! - [chuckles] Ca-caw! 691 00:25:21,042 --> 00:25:22,708 What's up, love? 692 00:25:22,792 --> 00:25:24,500 - [laughing] What are you doing? 693 00:25:24,542 --> 00:25:26,917 - I don't know. I'm trapped. - [laughs] 694 00:25:27,000 --> 00:25:28,333 - Come join me. 695 00:25:28,417 --> 00:25:29,792 - Where should I join you? - Right here. 696 00:25:29,875 --> 00:25:31,625 - Oh, no. - Oh, yeah. 697 00:25:31,708 --> 00:25:33,542 - Oh, no. - There we go. 698 00:25:33,542 --> 00:25:35,167 [chuckles] - Hi. 699 00:25:35,250 --> 00:25:36,625 - You're slightly lifted. 700 00:25:36,708 --> 00:25:38,792 - Wait, this is comfy. 701 00:25:38,875 --> 00:25:40,000 - Good night. - Good night. 702 00:25:40,167 --> 00:25:41,417 Hi. - What's up? 703 00:25:41,500 --> 00:25:42,875 - Not much. - Oh, my butt's touching. 704 00:25:42,958 --> 00:25:44,167 - Is it? - Yep. 705 00:25:44,167 --> 00:25:45,750 - Is it sandy? - Yep. 706 00:25:45,833 --> 00:25:48,167 - Did you play volleyball? - Nope. 707 00:25:48,250 --> 00:25:50,458 - What'd you do? - We sat around and talked. 708 00:25:50,542 --> 00:25:51,917 - Yeah? - Yeah. 709 00:25:52,000 --> 00:25:55,542 Like, how's your marriage going, and... 710 00:25:55,625 --> 00:25:57,500 and how much do you love your wife? 711 00:25:57,583 --> 00:25:59,250 And... [laughs] You know, man stuff. 712 00:25:59,333 --> 00:26:02,125 - What can you work on, and how good is communication? 713 00:26:02,208 --> 00:26:04,125 - Literally, exactly. 714 00:26:04,208 --> 00:26:06,042 I... 715 00:26:06,167 --> 00:26:07,625 downplayed... - Mm. 716 00:26:07,708 --> 00:26:09,875 - Our relationship to them 717 00:26:09,875 --> 00:26:13,542 because I don't want them to feel bad... 718 00:26:13,625 --> 00:26:15,542 - Mm. - About us. 719 00:26:15,625 --> 00:26:17,958 - So I'm going to be hurt instead of them. 720 00:26:18,042 --> 00:26:22,417 - Well, no, because we know our relationship. 721 00:26:22,500 --> 00:26:24,500 - Mm. - And I don't think about-- 722 00:26:24,542 --> 00:26:27,000 I mean, I don't know. Would you be hurt? 723 00:26:27,083 --> 00:26:29,333 - Um... 724 00:26:29,375 --> 00:26:31,042 I mean, it depends on what you said. 725 00:26:31,042 --> 00:26:32,708 [both laugh] 726 00:26:32,708 --> 00:26:34,542 I don't know what you said. - I didn't say anything bad. 727 00:26:34,625 --> 00:26:36,500 Promise--all good things... - Yeah. 728 00:26:36,500 --> 00:26:38,833 - Just not over-the-top good things. 729 00:26:38,917 --> 00:26:40,333 - Oh, good. - No, no, no. 730 00:26:40,375 --> 00:26:42,542 - I talked over-the-top good things, but that's good. 731 00:26:42,542 --> 00:26:44,708 - No, no, no, no. I meant--I just, like-- 732 00:26:44,833 --> 00:26:48,208 I can imagine that it's hard 733 00:26:48,208 --> 00:26:50,042 for other couples 734 00:26:50,042 --> 00:26:52,750 when they aren't instantly connected 735 00:26:52,875 --> 00:26:54,042 like we are. - Mm-hmm. 736 00:26:54,125 --> 00:26:55,792 - And I don't want to discourage them 737 00:26:55,875 --> 00:26:58,250 from thinking that their relationships 738 00:26:58,333 --> 00:27:01,375 are right and good just because they don't have what we have. 739 00:27:01,458 --> 00:27:03,958 - But by extinguishing your own candle, 740 00:27:03,958 --> 00:27:06,333 you don't light someone else's. - Wait. 741 00:27:06,375 --> 00:27:08,875 Wait, do you think I'm extinguishing our candle? 742 00:27:08,875 --> 00:27:11,500 - No. No, I'm saying, like, by downplaying what you have, 743 00:27:11,542 --> 00:27:13,625 you don't give something to somebody else. 744 00:27:13,708 --> 00:27:15,375 - I don't know. I think we're good. 745 00:27:15,375 --> 00:27:19,458 So do I need to rub it in the faces of other people 746 00:27:19,542 --> 00:27:21,375 that we're doing so well? - No. 747 00:27:21,375 --> 00:27:23,583 - That seems insensitive to me. - That's not what I did. 748 00:27:23,583 --> 00:27:25,167 - Okay. 749 00:27:25,250 --> 00:27:27,875 - They asked if we had, like, discussed big topics. 750 00:27:27,875 --> 00:27:31,000 And I just said, not yet, but that that's hard for me 751 00:27:31,000 --> 00:27:33,875 because I like to talk about deep things. 752 00:27:33,958 --> 00:27:37,250 - [chuckles] Yeah, I appreciate that. 753 00:27:37,375 --> 00:27:39,375 Thank you. - You're welcome. 754 00:27:39,375 --> 00:27:41,208 - Yeah. 755 00:27:41,208 --> 00:27:45,625 ♪ 756 00:27:45,708 --> 00:27:47,625 - So I had a good day. 757 00:27:47,708 --> 00:27:49,750 Yeah, I met up with the guys on the beach. 758 00:27:49,833 --> 00:27:51,333 - Yeah. - We actually mostly 759 00:27:51,417 --> 00:27:53,625 kind of just, like, hung out... 760 00:27:53,708 --> 00:27:55,333 gossiped, you know. 761 00:27:55,333 --> 00:27:57,875 - Talked about your feelings. - Yeah, like, a bunch of hens. 762 00:27:58,000 --> 00:27:59,292 - [laughs] 763 00:27:59,375 --> 00:28:02,833 - Made myself a little bit vulnerable to the guys. 764 00:28:02,875 --> 00:28:06,042 I said something that I'm noticing 765 00:28:06,125 --> 00:28:09,667 about being married specifically to you... 766 00:28:09,667 --> 00:28:11,000 - Mm-hmm. 767 00:28:11,042 --> 00:28:13,167 - Is that I thought I was a great communicator, 768 00:28:13,250 --> 00:28:16,083 but you're on, like, a whole other level. 769 00:28:16,167 --> 00:28:18,083 And maybe it's through your training, you know, 770 00:28:18,167 --> 00:28:20,583 or it's just who you are. - That's so nice. 771 00:28:20,708 --> 00:28:22,667 - And that I kind of feel behind. 772 00:28:22,667 --> 00:28:24,583 There are things that I can be better at. 773 00:28:24,583 --> 00:28:25,667 ♪ 774 00:28:25,750 --> 00:28:27,292 - First of all, thank you for that. 775 00:28:27,292 --> 00:28:28,583 I think that's really sweet. 776 00:28:28,708 --> 00:28:30,458 It's not saying that I'm right and you're wrong. 777 00:28:30,542 --> 00:28:31,958 They're just different, and that's okay. 778 00:28:32,042 --> 00:28:34,625 I think I need to realize, too, that not 779 00:28:34,708 --> 00:28:36,333 everyone communicates the way that I do, 780 00:28:36,417 --> 00:28:38,667 in a very open, honest way. 781 00:28:38,708 --> 00:28:40,083 But I think same here. 782 00:28:40,167 --> 00:28:42,208 Like, with the girls, I think it's also 783 00:28:42,208 --> 00:28:44,333 a very vulnerable position for me to be in, too, 784 00:28:44,333 --> 00:28:46,292 because it seemed like I was comparing with them 785 00:28:46,375 --> 00:28:48,167 and what they're doing and what we're not doing. 786 00:28:48,167 --> 00:28:49,917 And from their advice, it was just, like-- 787 00:28:50,042 --> 00:28:52,042 they had mentioned they noticed 788 00:28:52,042 --> 00:28:53,917 that you were putting your arm around me, 789 00:28:54,000 --> 00:28:55,792 and I didn't even, like, acknowledge that. 790 00:28:55,875 --> 00:28:58,542 And I feel bad in that way because I feel like, 791 00:28:58,667 --> 00:29:03,125 wow, I haven't even focused on the amount that he is trying. 792 00:29:03,125 --> 00:29:06,625 And I'm sorry that I haven't been more, like, aware of that. 793 00:29:06,708 --> 00:29:08,500 - Thank you. I appreciate you saying that. 794 00:29:08,500 --> 00:29:12,167 I think it's fair to say we are both trying, right? 795 00:29:12,250 --> 00:29:13,500 - Yeah. - Yeah. 796 00:29:13,542 --> 00:29:15,833 ♪ 797 00:29:15,917 --> 00:29:17,125 - I'm really hot. - Yeah. 798 00:29:17,208 --> 00:29:18,375 - I feel like I'm going to pass out. 799 00:29:18,458 --> 00:29:19,792 - The water is super hot. 800 00:29:19,917 --> 00:29:21,958 I think today we saw the other side of us... 801 00:29:21,958 --> 00:29:23,583 - Mm-hmm. - Where we can play 802 00:29:23,667 --> 00:29:25,250 and be goofy and have a good time. 803 00:29:25,333 --> 00:29:27,208 - Right. Yeah, which we need to do more, I feel. 804 00:29:27,292 --> 00:29:29,875 - Yes, maybe we just need to, you know, relax 805 00:29:29,958 --> 00:29:32,042 and have, like, the time like we did today... 806 00:29:32,042 --> 00:29:34,083 - Right. - And just kind of have fun. 807 00:29:34,167 --> 00:29:38,875 I'm actually super optimistic about our future. 808 00:29:38,875 --> 00:29:42,167 - I agree. I totally agree. 809 00:29:42,167 --> 00:29:45,125 ♪ 810 00:29:46,750 --> 00:29:49,750 - Hey, stranger. [giggles] - Hey, how are you? 811 00:29:49,833 --> 00:29:52,125 What are these? - Got you some ice cream. 812 00:29:52,208 --> 00:29:54,458 - Yeah, what kind? - Favorite flavor. 813 00:29:54,458 --> 00:29:56,375 - Oh, you remembered. - I do. 814 00:29:56,375 --> 00:29:58,125 I like to remember things about my husband. 815 00:29:58,208 --> 00:29:59,542 - I only brought it up once too. 816 00:29:59,708 --> 00:30:02,042 - Do you like mint chocolate? - I do like mint chocolate. 817 00:30:02,125 --> 00:30:03,250 - Me too. 818 00:30:03,417 --> 00:30:05,208 I feel like people either love it, or they hate it. 819 00:30:05,208 --> 00:30:06,625 - I like mint chocolate or strawberry ice cream. 820 00:30:06,708 --> 00:30:08,208 - Strawberry ice cream, okay. 821 00:30:08,292 --> 00:30:09,708 I got a good memory. 822 00:30:09,833 --> 00:30:12,042 - Yeah? - Mm-hmm. 823 00:30:12,125 --> 00:30:13,833 You know, I met with the girls. 824 00:30:13,875 --> 00:30:15,375 We did, like, some pool time, lady chitchat. 825 00:30:15,500 --> 00:30:16,542 - How was that? - It was cute. 826 00:30:16,542 --> 00:30:18,000 You know, it was real cute. 827 00:30:18,042 --> 00:30:19,833 Everyone's like, you guys are so cute. 828 00:30:19,833 --> 00:30:21,375 You guys are so this. 829 00:30:21,375 --> 00:30:23,250 And it's like, we are, but we are also navigating... 830 00:30:23,375 --> 00:30:24,750 - Our own big things. 831 00:30:24,750 --> 00:30:26,542 - And that's why I want them to know, like, we're not perfect. 832 00:30:26,667 --> 00:30:28,667 We're literally just two people committed to the marriage. 833 00:30:28,667 --> 00:30:29,708 - Yeah, yeah. 834 00:30:29,708 --> 00:30:31,167 - And this is what it looks like 835 00:30:31,208 --> 00:30:33,417 when you're committed to the person that you're married to. 836 00:30:33,542 --> 00:30:36,083 - Agreed. Even with our... 837 00:30:36,167 --> 00:30:38,208 conversation, you know, on the balcony-- 838 00:30:38,292 --> 00:30:41,083 - I've used terms that, when I was younger, 839 00:30:41,167 --> 00:30:43,042 that I didn't even know were derogatory. 840 00:30:43,125 --> 00:30:44,375 - Redskin? - No. 841 00:30:44,458 --> 00:30:46,292 I didn't even know what redskin means, honestly. 842 00:30:46,375 --> 00:30:49,667 Oh, I do. I just looked at your face. 843 00:30:49,750 --> 00:30:51,083 ♪ 844 00:30:51,333 --> 00:30:53,333 I didn't--I didn't--I'm sorry. - That was a little rough. 845 00:30:53,417 --> 00:30:55,208 - That was a little rough? I'm sorry. 846 00:30:55,292 --> 00:30:56,958 - I still have trust in you, 100%. 847 00:30:56,958 --> 00:30:58,958 - I'm glad, because I was worried about that. 848 00:30:59,042 --> 00:31:00,375 I was really worried about how-- 849 00:31:00,458 --> 00:31:02,875 like, even if you didn't have trust, 850 00:31:02,958 --> 00:31:06,042 I was worried about how much was gone, you know? 851 00:31:06,125 --> 00:31:08,333 - Right. - Yeah, because I know that-- 852 00:31:08,417 --> 00:31:10,250 you know, that could be hard to rebuild. 853 00:31:10,333 --> 00:31:12,042 It's much easier to destroy. - Yeah. Yes. 854 00:31:12,042 --> 00:31:13,583 - And so I was really hoping-- 855 00:31:13,583 --> 00:31:15,417 I think that was where a lot of my emotions came from too. 856 00:31:15,500 --> 00:31:18,042 Like, damn, I [bleep] this up, you know? 857 00:31:18,042 --> 00:31:19,667 So it feels really comforting. 858 00:31:19,708 --> 00:31:21,333 - But you didn't. You didn't. 859 00:31:21,417 --> 00:31:22,375 - Thanks. 860 00:31:22,375 --> 00:31:24,125 ♪ 861 00:31:24,208 --> 00:31:26,583 I tend to bask in shame and guilt 862 00:31:26,583 --> 00:31:28,042 when I make mistakes a lot, 863 00:31:28,125 --> 00:31:30,458 and so it feels good to get grace from my husband. 864 00:31:30,458 --> 00:31:32,042 I'm not stupid. 865 00:31:32,125 --> 00:31:34,000 I know we're going to have more conflicts in the marriage. 866 00:31:34,083 --> 00:31:35,833 It feels good to make it past one. 867 00:31:35,875 --> 00:31:37,333 Like, yeah, I [bleep] up. 868 00:31:37,458 --> 00:31:40,250 But if there's one feeling and one adjective I want 869 00:31:40,333 --> 00:31:42,292 my husband to feel, it's safe. 870 00:31:42,375 --> 00:31:45,000 We're, like, halfway through the honeymoon already. 871 00:31:45,125 --> 00:31:48,708 I want to set that standard now that no matter what happens 872 00:31:48,708 --> 00:31:50,417 throughout the night, in the morning, 873 00:31:50,500 --> 00:31:52,875 we get those cuddles in, those kisses in, 874 00:31:52,958 --> 00:31:55,583 whatever it looks like for what mood we're in. 875 00:31:55,583 --> 00:31:59,542 And we just get to go about our day feeling like, all right, 876 00:31:59,542 --> 00:32:04,417 I'm cared by this person, and this person feels cared by me. 877 00:32:04,417 --> 00:32:06,958 - You know, I love that. 878 00:32:07,042 --> 00:32:08,917 I absolutely love that. - I'm glad you do. 879 00:32:09,000 --> 00:32:12,250 - Because, you know, I've not had anybody like that. 880 00:32:12,375 --> 00:32:15,500 I have never had consistent reciprocation. 881 00:32:15,625 --> 00:32:17,292 - Me neither, so... - Mm-hmm. 882 00:32:17,375 --> 00:32:19,292 - I think we get that about each other, 883 00:32:19,417 --> 00:32:21,458 and that's why we're working... - Yeah. 884 00:32:21,542 --> 00:32:24,333 - Because we're both givers. - Mm-hmm. 885 00:32:24,375 --> 00:32:26,708 - And we deserve to be in a relationship 886 00:32:26,833 --> 00:32:28,542 where it's reciprocated. - Yeah. 887 00:32:28,542 --> 00:32:31,208 ♪ 888 00:32:31,292 --> 00:32:33,583 - I'm happy. - I'm very happy too. 889 00:32:35,208 --> 00:32:37,500 - Let's continue that. - Yeah. 890 00:32:37,583 --> 00:32:39,875 - Because life might get crazy after this, okay? 891 00:32:39,875 --> 00:32:41,042 - Yep. 892 00:32:41,125 --> 00:32:42,417 - ♪ So good, so good 893 00:32:42,417 --> 00:32:44,042 ♪ I want to be here in the moment ♪ 894 00:32:44,042 --> 00:32:45,917 ♪ 'Cause I'd really like to get to know ya ♪ 895 00:32:49,708 --> 00:32:50,667 - [singing in Spanish] 896 00:32:50,750 --> 00:32:52,500 ♪ 897 00:32:52,542 --> 00:32:55,875 - Cameron, where are you? - I'm in Cancún. 898 00:32:55,958 --> 00:32:57,083 - [laughs] 899 00:32:57,250 --> 00:32:59,958 Today we are meeting up with the other couples. 900 00:33:00,042 --> 00:33:03,042 And I think we're going to go on a boat. 901 00:33:03,167 --> 00:33:04,875 This is the first, like, group activity that we've done. 902 00:33:05,000 --> 00:33:06,500 Cameron... 903 00:33:06,500 --> 00:33:08,292 - Do you think we're going to see dolphins? 904 00:33:08,375 --> 00:33:10,375 - Who knows if that'll happen? But that would be pretty cool. 905 00:33:10,375 --> 00:33:12,083 - The dolphins will have to decide for us. 906 00:33:12,083 --> 00:33:14,000 - Right. Okay, let's go. 907 00:33:14,042 --> 00:33:15,875 - Let's go. 908 00:33:15,958 --> 00:33:17,542 - ♪ You're droppin' down to the floor ♪ 909 00:33:17,625 --> 00:33:19,500 ♪ You're making me want you more ♪ 910 00:33:19,542 --> 00:33:21,458 - You excited to go boating today? 911 00:33:21,542 --> 00:33:22,833 - I love boats. - Yeah. 912 00:33:22,917 --> 00:33:24,458 - Later, nerds. 913 00:33:24,542 --> 00:33:26,000 ♪ 914 00:33:26,083 --> 00:33:29,000 - Yo, the vibes today are immaculate. 915 00:33:29,042 --> 00:33:30,458 I'm just saying. - Vibin' high, baby. 916 00:33:30,458 --> 00:33:31,500 - Whoo-hoo. 917 00:33:31,542 --> 00:33:32,750 ♪ 918 00:33:32,833 --> 00:33:34,333 - I feel like we're in third grade. 919 00:33:34,417 --> 00:33:36,458 - [laughs] - Where's our field trip today? 920 00:33:36,458 --> 00:33:37,833 both: A boat! 921 00:33:37,917 --> 00:33:39,333 - Y'all trying shake some ass on the boat? 922 00:33:39,417 --> 00:33:40,875 - Yeah, let's shake some ass. 923 00:33:40,958 --> 00:33:42,292 - We're going to shake some ass on the boat. 924 00:33:42,375 --> 00:33:43,833 - There's some dark clouds over there. 925 00:33:43,917 --> 00:33:45,042 - I know, right? 926 00:33:45,042 --> 00:33:46,042 - I'm going to have to do Em's hair. 927 00:33:46,125 --> 00:33:47,917 So you scooch in this way, 928 00:33:47,917 --> 00:33:50,625 and then Brennan will sit right here. 929 00:33:50,708 --> 00:33:52,042 - So you're moving? - Yeah. 930 00:33:52,125 --> 00:33:53,250 - Oh, okay. 931 00:33:53,375 --> 00:33:54,375 - Hi, honey. 932 00:33:54,458 --> 00:33:55,625 - Yo. - Yo. 933 00:33:55,625 --> 00:33:57,708 - How are you feeling about your hair? 934 00:33:57,708 --> 00:33:59,167 - Great. - [laughs] 935 00:33:59,250 --> 00:34:00,625 - Oh, Lord. - Oh, my God. 936 00:34:00,708 --> 00:34:03,500 - Do you want to touch it? - Oh, my God. 937 00:34:03,542 --> 00:34:05,083 Holy [bleep]. 938 00:34:05,083 --> 00:34:07,000 - Okay, that's going to make her feel better. 939 00:34:07,042 --> 00:34:08,667 - Not good. - I mean-- 940 00:34:08,708 --> 00:34:10,250 - Let's all just scream holy [bleep] and look at her hair. 941 00:34:10,333 --> 00:34:11,875 - It's literally, like, matted. 942 00:34:11,958 --> 00:34:14,500 - Are there birds in there? - Yeah, it's a bird's nest. 943 00:34:14,542 --> 00:34:16,333 - There's creatures living in the hair. 944 00:34:16,375 --> 00:34:18,208 Critters are living in that hair. 945 00:34:18,292 --> 00:34:19,583 - It's all good. It's all good. 946 00:34:19,667 --> 00:34:20,583 - It's great. 947 00:34:20,708 --> 00:34:22,000 She rocks the space bun. 948 00:34:22,083 --> 00:34:23,625 Imagine if she couldn't rock a space bun. 949 00:34:23,708 --> 00:34:25,875 - This is what Princess Leia looks like 950 00:34:26,000 --> 00:34:28,708 when she takes her braids out. [laughter] 951 00:34:28,833 --> 00:34:32,167 - I just keep saying, at least her face is so pretty. 952 00:34:32,250 --> 00:34:33,958 My hair is what makes me pretty. 953 00:34:34,042 --> 00:34:36,542 If I ever had to go bald, bad news. 954 00:34:36,625 --> 00:34:38,000 - No way. 955 00:34:38,083 --> 00:34:39,417 - But now I'm married, so he can't leave. 956 00:34:39,542 --> 00:34:40,458 [laughter] 957 00:34:40,542 --> 00:34:42,667 - What'd you say? - Nothing. 958 00:34:42,667 --> 00:34:44,208 - Who whispered something? 959 00:34:44,292 --> 00:34:47,708 - It looks--it looks so much better, so much better. 960 00:34:47,792 --> 00:34:49,875 - Space buns are the move. 961 00:34:49,958 --> 00:34:51,625 Brennan, you can have your wife back. 962 00:34:51,708 --> 00:34:54,375 - Look at this magic that has been worked. 963 00:34:54,375 --> 00:34:56,292 - Wow, wow. Holy [bleep]. 964 00:34:56,375 --> 00:34:59,000 - She's a new girl. - That literally looks amazing. 965 00:34:59,042 --> 00:35:00,542 - Everything's fine. - Everything's fine. 966 00:35:00,625 --> 00:35:02,042 - Well done. 967 00:35:02,042 --> 00:35:03,792 - They get you that appointment, Emily? 968 00:35:03,875 --> 00:35:06,875 - Yep, I'm really scared to trust someone with my hair. 969 00:35:06,875 --> 00:35:09,917 [laughing] But desperate times... 970 00:35:10,042 --> 00:35:15,333 ♪ 971 00:35:15,375 --> 00:35:17,000 - The weather has officially failed us. 972 00:35:17,083 --> 00:35:18,208 - Not yet. It could pass. 973 00:35:18,500 --> 00:35:20,042 - The weather changes really fast here, though. 974 00:35:20,042 --> 00:35:21,458 - Like, it rains, and then it stops. 975 00:35:21,542 --> 00:35:22,708 - Yeah, so... 976 00:35:22,792 --> 00:35:25,917 - Hopefully there's, like, a cover on the boat. 977 00:35:26,000 --> 00:35:27,542 - Yeah, the port is over here. 978 00:35:27,667 --> 00:35:29,500 [thunder rumbles] 979 00:35:29,625 --> 00:35:34,208 ♪ 980 00:35:36,417 --> 00:35:37,500 - Mm-hmm. 981 00:35:37,625 --> 00:35:38,792 ♪ 982 00:35:38,875 --> 00:35:41,167 - Now everybody's sleepy. 983 00:35:41,250 --> 00:35:43,750 [peaceful music] 984 00:35:43,833 --> 00:35:46,042 [light snoring] 985 00:35:46,042 --> 00:35:48,625 ♪ 986 00:35:49,792 --> 00:35:51,250 - I was just... 987 00:35:52,875 --> 00:35:55,875 ♪ 988 00:35:55,875 --> 00:35:57,500 - Hello, guys! - Hola. 989 00:35:57,542 --> 00:35:59,167 all: Hola! 990 00:35:59,250 --> 00:36:03,083 - So, unfortunately, it's raining a lot. 991 00:36:03,167 --> 00:36:05,667 The boat is not going to happen, so... 992 00:36:05,708 --> 00:36:07,333 - No. - Unfortunately. 993 00:36:07,417 --> 00:36:08,833 - So now we just turn around? 994 00:36:08,917 --> 00:36:10,375 ♪ 995 00:36:10,375 --> 00:36:12,500 - Yeah, probably. We'll see. 996 00:36:12,583 --> 00:36:14,500 - Thank you. - All right, see you. 997 00:36:14,500 --> 00:36:17,292 ♪ 998 00:36:17,375 --> 00:36:18,542 - I don't know why you moved. 999 00:36:18,625 --> 00:36:20,208 I mean, you could put your legs that way. 1000 00:36:20,333 --> 00:36:22,167 - Yeah, I know, but for me to be comfortable, 1001 00:36:22,250 --> 00:36:24,375 I would have had to have gone back quite a bit. 1002 00:36:24,500 --> 00:36:26,083 - You could've. - Oh, okay. 1003 00:36:26,167 --> 00:36:27,417 - Mm-hmm. - I'm sorry. 1004 00:36:27,500 --> 00:36:29,292 I just--I made a poor assumption, then. 1005 00:36:29,375 --> 00:36:30,583 - You did. That was an assumption. 1006 00:36:30,667 --> 00:36:32,917 - I didn't realize I had my pillow right here. 1007 00:36:33,042 --> 00:36:34,958 - Mm-hmm. 1008 00:36:35,042 --> 00:36:37,792 - ♪ Say we can make this work ♪ 1009 00:36:37,792 --> 00:36:40,333 ♪ We can make this work 1010 00:36:40,417 --> 00:36:43,042 ♪ We can make this work 1011 00:36:43,125 --> 00:36:44,667 ♪ 1012 00:36:44,750 --> 00:36:47,042 - Wow. - Well... 1013 00:36:47,125 --> 00:36:48,583 - Wow. 1014 00:36:48,583 --> 00:36:51,125 - Well... - Well, well, well... 1015 00:36:51,208 --> 00:36:53,083 - Could you pass me that sandwich plate? 1016 00:36:53,167 --> 00:36:55,708 - Oh, the bagels. 1017 00:36:55,708 --> 00:36:58,292 - What's that, Becca? - A box. [laughs] 1018 00:36:58,292 --> 00:37:01,083 Okay, I know we're bummed that we're not on the boat. 1019 00:37:01,167 --> 00:37:02,667 Waa. - Waa. 1020 00:37:02,750 --> 00:37:03,792 - Waa. - Waa. 1021 00:37:03,875 --> 00:37:05,750 - I have some questions for us to answer, 1022 00:37:05,833 --> 00:37:07,292 if we feel interested. 1023 00:37:07,417 --> 00:37:09,708 They're meant mainly for more, like, intimate conversations, 1024 00:37:09,708 --> 00:37:11,250 but I feel like when you pick up a card, 1025 00:37:11,375 --> 00:37:13,250 you can just choose who you want to ask it to. 1026 00:37:13,375 --> 00:37:15,167 - Oh, that's good. - So, like, pick up a card. 1027 00:37:15,250 --> 00:37:17,833 Read the question, and then ask whoever. 1028 00:37:17,875 --> 00:37:19,542 Okay, so I'll go first. 1029 00:37:19,625 --> 00:37:23,500 Cameron, what's your biggest pet peeve? 1030 00:37:23,542 --> 00:37:25,000 - If I walk into a grocery store 1031 00:37:25,083 --> 00:37:26,917 that doesn't have self-checkout, 1032 00:37:27,000 --> 00:37:28,583 I literally walk right back out. 1033 00:37:28,667 --> 00:37:30,792 [laughter] - I am not standing in line. 1034 00:37:30,875 --> 00:37:32,875 I'd rather go hungry. 1035 00:37:32,958 --> 00:37:34,417 - Love that answer. 1036 00:37:34,417 --> 00:37:36,292 - Becca... - Mm-hmm. 1037 00:37:36,375 --> 00:37:37,750 Yes? - [chuckles] 1038 00:37:37,875 --> 00:37:40,708 In what areas of your life do you feel most fulfilled? 1039 00:37:40,875 --> 00:37:43,708 - Mm. I feel like... 1040 00:37:43,833 --> 00:37:45,875 my first answer... 1041 00:37:47,417 --> 00:37:49,458 Is romance right now. 1042 00:37:49,542 --> 00:37:51,750 all: Aw. - I feel very happy. 1043 00:37:51,833 --> 00:37:54,000 all: Yeah. 1044 00:37:54,083 --> 00:37:55,333 - Okay, I got one for Lauren. 1045 00:37:55,417 --> 00:37:57,458 And I think this is a good one for you too. 1046 00:37:57,542 --> 00:37:59,875 Who in your life can you be the most vulnerable with? 1047 00:37:59,875 --> 00:38:03,625 What about them makes you feel the most comfortable? 1048 00:38:03,708 --> 00:38:05,375 - I feel like I can be the most vulnerable 1049 00:38:05,458 --> 00:38:06,958 with my little sister. 1050 00:38:07,042 --> 00:38:09,542 Before her, it was my mom, so I was just like... 1051 00:38:09,542 --> 00:38:10,958 [sighs] 1052 00:38:11,042 --> 00:38:12,708 But my little sister, for sure. 1053 00:38:12,792 --> 00:38:14,875 Like, we have a very similar sense of humor. 1054 00:38:14,958 --> 00:38:17,042 She doesn't judge me. 1055 00:38:17,042 --> 00:38:19,042 - How old is she? - She's 27. 1056 00:38:19,167 --> 00:38:20,667 Her and my husband, the same age. 1057 00:38:20,750 --> 00:38:22,458 all: Wow. 1058 00:38:22,542 --> 00:38:25,292 - I always forget you're 27. - Me too. 1059 00:38:25,375 --> 00:38:26,875 - This one's for Emily. 1060 00:38:26,958 --> 00:38:30,667 What are you curious about that you haven't explored yet? 1061 00:38:30,750 --> 00:38:33,542 - I would say I'm most curious 1062 00:38:33,625 --> 00:38:35,958 about actually being in love, 1063 00:38:36,042 --> 00:38:38,167 which is why I'm here, 1064 00:38:38,208 --> 00:38:40,000 'cause I haven't had a relationship 1065 00:38:40,083 --> 00:38:41,458 and I haven't had that chance. 1066 00:38:41,542 --> 00:38:44,667 But I feel like so far, so good. 1067 00:38:44,708 --> 00:38:47,042 ♪ 1068 00:38:47,042 --> 00:38:48,958 - What am I teaching you? 1069 00:38:49,042 --> 00:38:50,958 - Mm-hmm. 1070 00:38:50,958 --> 00:38:54,333 - You're teaching me how to talk about the future. 1071 00:38:54,417 --> 00:38:56,625 You know, and in doing that, 1072 00:38:56,625 --> 00:38:58,792 you know, I kind of caught feelings. 1073 00:38:58,875 --> 00:39:00,333 - I know. [laughter] 1074 00:39:00,333 --> 00:39:02,042 - Yeah, yeah. 1075 00:39:02,042 --> 00:39:03,583 - [clears throat] - Okay. 1076 00:39:03,583 --> 00:39:05,417 - You're teaching me a lot. 1077 00:39:05,542 --> 00:39:09,458 What am I teaching you in our relationship? 1078 00:39:09,458 --> 00:39:12,167 - I don't think I was not good at this before, 1079 00:39:12,250 --> 00:39:14,542 but I think you're helping me expand on just 1080 00:39:14,708 --> 00:39:17,333 what it actually looks like to give grace in action 1081 00:39:17,458 --> 00:39:18,833 and to be really patient-- 1082 00:39:18,917 --> 00:39:20,750 not that you've tested my patience so much, 1083 00:39:20,833 --> 00:39:23,875 but I think you are just very patient and kind 1084 00:39:24,000 --> 00:39:25,583 and gentle with me. 1085 00:39:25,667 --> 00:39:27,000 And because I haven't had that so much, 1086 00:39:27,083 --> 00:39:30,375 it's helping me to, like, be more of that for you. 1087 00:39:30,458 --> 00:39:32,333 And I really appreciate that because it's like, 1088 00:39:32,458 --> 00:39:35,833 I get to be comfortable doing that too. 1089 00:39:35,833 --> 00:39:37,667 I haven't been able to be comfortable 1090 00:39:37,708 --> 00:39:39,667 doing that with someone, and so it feels nice 1091 00:39:39,750 --> 00:39:42,542 to kind of, like, get to do that in action. 1092 00:39:42,625 --> 00:39:44,208 Yeah. 1093 00:39:44,208 --> 00:39:46,417 Stop looking at me like that. all: Aw. 1094 00:39:46,500 --> 00:39:48,125 - That's so cute. 1095 00:39:48,208 --> 00:39:50,333 - Clare, what's one of the biggest life lessons 1096 00:39:50,417 --> 00:39:52,125 you've learned? 1097 00:39:52,208 --> 00:39:55,708 - I think for me, it's to just make sure 1098 00:39:55,792 --> 00:39:57,958 that you show the people that you care about you love them 1099 00:39:58,042 --> 00:40:00,000 because you could lose them at any moment. 1100 00:40:00,125 --> 00:40:02,500 You know what I mean? And I've lost people that are very-- 1101 00:40:02,542 --> 00:40:03,667 I lost my brother. 1102 00:40:03,750 --> 00:40:04,833 Like, and so for me, it's like, 1103 00:40:04,958 --> 00:40:06,750 if you don't show the people you care about 1104 00:40:06,750 --> 00:40:08,333 you love them, you can miss out 1105 00:40:08,458 --> 00:40:10,708 on a major opportunity to just express that love. 1106 00:40:10,708 --> 00:40:11,917 And that's a scary feeling. 1107 00:40:12,000 --> 00:40:13,750 So it's like, if you have feelings, 1108 00:40:13,833 --> 00:40:15,542 never hold back because you're afraid 1109 00:40:15,542 --> 00:40:17,792 of how it's going to be reciprocated or whatever. 1110 00:40:17,875 --> 00:40:20,292 And at the end of the day, life is very short. 1111 00:40:20,292 --> 00:40:22,125 And it's like, we all realize that, 1112 00:40:22,208 --> 00:40:24,000 because, I mean, here we are. 1113 00:40:24,042 --> 00:40:26,000 - I'm very guilty of taking people I love for granted. 1114 00:40:26,083 --> 00:40:27,917 - Mm. That's a hard thing to be self-aware of, 1115 00:40:28,000 --> 00:40:29,542 like, to come to terms with. - For sure. 1116 00:40:29,625 --> 00:40:31,250 - Anytime I think about a friend or a family member, 1117 00:40:31,333 --> 00:40:32,958 just call them and, like, tell them I appreciate them, 1118 00:40:33,042 --> 00:40:34,292 because like you say, 1119 00:40:34,375 --> 00:40:35,833 you just never know what's going to happen. 1120 00:40:35,958 --> 00:40:38,167 - Now I need to go text all my people. 1121 00:40:38,208 --> 00:40:40,917 ♪ 1122 00:40:41,000 --> 00:40:42,875 - Cameron... 1123 00:40:43,000 --> 00:40:47,167 what is the hardest part of yourself to accept? 1124 00:40:47,208 --> 00:40:49,208 ♪ 1125 00:40:49,208 --> 00:40:50,792 - It's interesting that I don't-- 1126 00:40:50,792 --> 00:40:52,333 - Hold on. Sorry. He just has a little-- 1127 00:40:52,375 --> 00:40:53,917 You just got a little-- all: Aw. 1128 00:40:54,000 --> 00:40:57,083 - Sorry. Thank you. 1129 00:40:57,208 --> 00:40:59,208 - I wish I spent that time thinking about my answer. 1130 00:40:59,292 --> 00:41:00,500 [laughter] 1131 00:41:00,708 --> 00:41:04,542 The hardest part of accepting, you know, who I am 1132 00:41:04,625 --> 00:41:07,333 is that a lot of my memories 1133 00:41:07,458 --> 00:41:10,125 don't align with who I am anymore. 1134 00:41:10,208 --> 00:41:11,167 - Hmm. 1135 00:41:11,250 --> 00:41:12,375 ♪ 1136 00:41:12,375 --> 00:41:14,292 And I have large portions of my life 1137 00:41:14,375 --> 00:41:18,417 that are like watching a movie. - Mm-hmm. 1138 00:41:18,542 --> 00:41:22,833 - And that feels difficult... 1139 00:41:22,875 --> 00:41:25,167 because they don't feel like my memories anymore. 1140 00:41:25,250 --> 00:41:26,625 - Hmm. 1141 00:41:26,708 --> 00:41:29,708 - When I was younger, I definitely hated school. 1142 00:41:29,833 --> 00:41:32,375 I was more of a troublemaker. 1143 00:41:32,375 --> 00:41:34,583 And then my parents got divorced, 1144 00:41:34,667 --> 00:41:37,167 and it affected me a lot. 1145 00:41:37,208 --> 00:41:40,458 But because of that, I just think, serendipitously, 1146 00:41:40,542 --> 00:41:42,042 things have aligned. 1147 00:41:42,125 --> 00:41:45,375 And now here we are in paradise with my wife. 1148 00:41:45,375 --> 00:41:47,083 ♪ 1149 00:41:47,167 --> 00:41:50,000 - That is your journey, and, like, you know, those are what 1150 00:41:50,083 --> 00:41:51,708 made you who you are today. - Absolutely. 1151 00:41:51,833 --> 00:41:53,417 - You learn from your experiences, 1152 00:41:53,500 --> 00:41:55,042 whether they're good or bad. - Yeah, of course. 1153 00:41:55,125 --> 00:41:57,292 - And we all love you for who you are today. 1154 00:41:57,292 --> 00:41:58,542 - Absolutely. - Thank you. 1155 00:41:58,625 --> 00:42:00,792 - So we're thankful for all the different parts 1156 00:42:00,875 --> 00:42:02,833 of you that came before... - For sure. 1157 00:42:02,875 --> 00:42:04,208 - Thank you. - Whatever that looks like. 1158 00:42:04,292 --> 00:42:05,583 ♪ 1159 00:42:05,583 --> 00:42:07,333 - I know that took a lot for him to say. 1160 00:42:07,333 --> 00:42:09,708 That's taking a lot for him to bring that up to the table. 1161 00:42:09,792 --> 00:42:11,875 And so I'm seeing a whole new side of him. 1162 00:42:11,958 --> 00:42:13,792 I'm learning so many things about him, 1163 00:42:13,875 --> 00:42:16,000 and I am feeling connected 1164 00:42:16,000 --> 00:42:17,875 through this whole conversation to him. 1165 00:42:17,958 --> 00:42:19,792 - We're all so wise. - I know. 1166 00:42:19,875 --> 00:42:21,708 - Yeah, what the hell? [laughter] 1167 00:42:21,792 --> 00:42:24,500 - We all feel like we got some really great husbands. 1168 00:42:24,542 --> 00:42:26,042 - Yeah. - We do. 1169 00:42:26,125 --> 00:42:27,875 I think we lucked out. - We're lucky. 1170 00:42:27,875 --> 00:42:29,458 - Yeah, very lucky. - Very lucky. 1171 00:42:29,542 --> 00:42:32,042 - So don't screw it up. [laughter] 1172 00:42:32,125 --> 00:42:35,750 - ♪ I really try to be my best for you ♪ 1173 00:42:39,542 --> 00:42:40,875 [upbeat music] 1174 00:42:40,958 --> 00:42:43,958 ♪ 1175 00:42:44,042 --> 00:42:46,333 - Are you going to cut the extensions out? 1176 00:42:46,417 --> 00:42:47,792 - Are you okay with that? [chuckles] 1177 00:42:47,875 --> 00:42:50,542 - I think it's happening. 1178 00:42:50,625 --> 00:42:53,125 Luckily, we did get a professional in. 1179 00:42:53,208 --> 00:42:54,500 Didn't speak English, 1180 00:42:54,583 --> 00:42:56,458 which was another extra layer of stress, 1181 00:42:56,542 --> 00:42:58,125 given everything else that was going on. 1182 00:42:58,208 --> 00:43:01,333 [tense music] 1183 00:43:01,375 --> 00:43:03,833 ♪ 1184 00:43:03,917 --> 00:43:05,458 [ripping] 1185 00:43:05,542 --> 00:43:12,333 ♪ 1186 00:43:14,375 --> 00:43:17,375 I don't know exactly what's happening behind my head. 1187 00:43:17,375 --> 00:43:18,792 ♪ 1188 00:43:18,875 --> 00:43:21,458 I'm scared that scissors are being used. 1189 00:43:21,542 --> 00:43:23,875 ♪ 1190 00:43:23,875 --> 00:43:26,958 I'm feeling a little uneasy. 1191 00:43:27,042 --> 00:43:29,958 That's one thing my hair person said to do is don't cut them. 1192 00:43:30,042 --> 00:43:31,250 ♪ 1193 00:43:31,375 --> 00:43:33,000 - Oh, yeah. 1194 00:43:33,083 --> 00:43:34,417 Progress. 1195 00:43:34,500 --> 00:43:36,417 - Surgery. - Wow. 1196 00:43:36,500 --> 00:43:38,833 I have no idea what I'm looking at. 1197 00:43:38,917 --> 00:43:40,500 I'm trying to be as supportive as I can 1198 00:43:40,625 --> 00:43:42,708 and understand the severity of the situation 1199 00:43:42,833 --> 00:43:44,292 and where she's coming from. 1200 00:43:44,375 --> 00:43:45,750 Wow. 1201 00:43:45,958 --> 00:43:49,125 I'm a guy, so when my hair gets messed up, I just brush it. 1202 00:43:49,208 --> 00:43:51,042 Let's do it up. - Yeah. 1203 00:43:51,125 --> 00:43:53,875 He's just so confused by all of this. 1204 00:43:54,042 --> 00:44:01,000 ♪ 1205 00:44:03,042 --> 00:44:05,000 Wow. [chuckles] 1206 00:44:05,042 --> 00:44:10,833 ♪ 1207 00:44:10,917 --> 00:44:12,917 Oh, my God, I'm bald now. 1208 00:44:13,042 --> 00:44:15,375 ♪ 1209 00:44:15,375 --> 00:44:17,792 I feel like I did lose hair. 1210 00:44:17,875 --> 00:44:19,833 [laughing] Pretty traumatizing. 1211 00:44:19,917 --> 00:44:21,667 ♪ 1212 00:44:21,750 --> 00:44:25,167 [upbeat music] 1213 00:44:25,167 --> 00:44:28,208 ♪ 1214 00:44:28,333 --> 00:44:29,667 - We're going on a boat! 1215 00:44:29,792 --> 00:44:32,375 - I want to catch a shark with my bare hands. 1216 00:44:32,375 --> 00:44:33,833 - He wants to swim with a shark. 1217 00:44:34,000 --> 00:44:35,125 - [roars] 1218 00:44:35,208 --> 00:44:36,750 - He doesn't want to hurt the shark, right? 1219 00:44:36,875 --> 00:44:38,125 - No, I just want to hug it. 1220 00:44:38,208 --> 00:44:39,500 - All right, let's go. 1221 00:44:39,625 --> 00:44:41,833 ♪ Let's go on a boat 1222 00:44:41,917 --> 00:44:43,708 ♪ Try number two 1223 00:44:43,792 --> 00:44:45,458 - Allow me. 1224 00:44:45,542 --> 00:44:47,083 Okay. - Oh. 1225 00:44:47,083 --> 00:44:49,750 ♪ 1226 00:44:49,833 --> 00:44:53,000 - And let the adventure begin. 1227 00:44:53,083 --> 00:44:55,333 ♪ 1228 00:44:55,417 --> 00:44:58,000 - Oh, it's raining again. - You're kidding. 1229 00:44:58,083 --> 00:45:00,625 - Oh, maybe it was the windshield wiper. 1230 00:45:00,708 --> 00:45:02,667 - It was the windshield. - Sorry to scare everyone. 1231 00:45:02,792 --> 00:45:04,833 - I was like, oh, no. 1232 00:45:04,875 --> 00:45:07,375 - Take two! [all cheer] 1233 00:45:07,458 --> 00:45:09,833 - Sun's out, buns out. 1234 00:45:09,917 --> 00:45:12,750 - Emily's buns are gone, which is nice. 1235 00:45:12,875 --> 00:45:14,750 [laughter] No more space buns. 1236 00:45:14,750 --> 00:45:17,000 - And we're thankful for that. - Mm-hmm. 1237 00:45:17,042 --> 00:45:19,417 - What did they do? - Open-weave surgery. 1238 00:45:19,417 --> 00:45:21,708 [laughter] - Brennan, did you go? 1239 00:45:21,792 --> 00:45:24,000 - I watched. I had to deliver the anesthesia. 1240 00:45:24,000 --> 00:45:26,042 - He was administering daiquiris. 1241 00:45:26,042 --> 00:45:28,333 - Administering daiquiris. [laughter] 1242 00:45:28,458 --> 00:45:29,750 ♪ 1243 00:45:29,750 --> 00:45:31,083 - ♪ Do it, do it, do it right ♪ 1244 00:45:31,167 --> 00:45:32,417 ♪ Get into it, let it slide 1245 00:45:32,500 --> 00:45:33,917 ♪ No, this ain't a vacay 1246 00:45:34,000 --> 00:45:35,042 ♪ Baby, this is just my life 1247 00:45:35,125 --> 00:45:36,375 ♪ Get it, get it every day 1248 00:45:36,458 --> 00:45:37,583 ♪ Work it out into the night 1249 00:45:37,583 --> 00:45:38,833 ♪ No, this ain't a vacay 1250 00:45:38,917 --> 00:45:40,125 ♪ Baby, this is just my life 1251 00:45:40,208 --> 00:45:42,583 - Yay, we're on a boat, guys! We made it! 1252 00:45:42,667 --> 00:45:43,708 - Thank you. 1253 00:45:43,875 --> 00:45:45,292 - We made it, guys. [scattered cheers] 1254 00:45:45,375 --> 00:45:47,750 It's been a long journey to get here, but we're here. 1255 00:45:47,833 --> 00:45:49,333 - Hoist the mainsail! 1256 00:45:49,333 --> 00:45:50,875 - Don't start without us. 1257 00:45:50,875 --> 00:45:51,833 - Who wants it in the bow? 1258 00:45:51,958 --> 00:45:53,417 - Wow. - Whoa, whoa. 1259 00:45:53,542 --> 00:45:54,875 - ♪ No this ain't a vacay 1260 00:45:54,875 --> 00:45:56,667 ♪ Baby, this is just my life 1261 00:45:56,708 --> 00:45:58,792 - Drinks. - Drinks! 1262 00:45:58,917 --> 00:46:01,167 all: Oh! - Party time, party time. 1263 00:46:01,208 --> 00:46:02,333 - Here we go. 1264 00:46:02,375 --> 00:46:04,667 - Ooh, I want this one, whatever this is. 1265 00:46:04,750 --> 00:46:06,167 Wait, what is it? 1266 00:46:06,208 --> 00:46:07,667 - Sex on the beach, tequila sunrise, margaritas. 1267 00:46:07,708 --> 00:46:09,583 - Oh, yeah. - Which one's a marg? 1268 00:46:09,708 --> 00:46:11,333 - Gracias. - Tequila, tequila. 1269 00:46:11,458 --> 00:46:13,167 - This is sex on the beach? 1270 00:46:13,208 --> 00:46:16,083 - Sex on the boat. [laughter] 1271 00:46:16,083 --> 00:46:17,333 - Cheers. 1272 00:46:17,417 --> 00:46:19,292 - Cheers for boat life. - Cheers for boat life. 1273 00:46:19,375 --> 00:46:21,375 - Cheers! - Boat life! 1274 00:46:21,375 --> 00:46:24,125 - Oh, my God, we're moving. We're leaving the dock! 1275 00:46:24,208 --> 00:46:28,708 - ♪ Let's go 1276 00:46:28,708 --> 00:46:31,417 ♪ Oh, oh, oh 1277 00:46:31,542 --> 00:46:34,625 ♪ Wherever you want to, I want to, I want you ♪ 1278 00:46:34,708 --> 00:46:38,250 ♪ Let's go 1279 00:46:38,250 --> 00:46:39,500 ♪ 1280 00:46:39,625 --> 00:46:40,875 - [giggles] - This boat's nice. 1281 00:46:41,000 --> 00:46:42,667 - I know. It is really nice. 1282 00:46:42,750 --> 00:46:45,292 - Yeah, so look at the different shades 1283 00:46:45,375 --> 00:46:46,667 of water, you know. 1284 00:46:46,750 --> 00:46:48,500 - I was noticing that as we were walking up. 1285 00:46:48,583 --> 00:46:50,125 - So pretty. - I know. It is pretty. 1286 00:46:50,208 --> 00:46:52,667 This is fun, though. - Yeah, yeah. 1287 00:46:52,708 --> 00:46:55,292 - It's fun to relax with the other couples. 1288 00:46:55,292 --> 00:46:58,042 - Oh, my God. Boats bring the best out in people. 1289 00:46:58,042 --> 00:47:00,667 It's just--it's an experience-- - You can't be mad on a boat. 1290 00:47:00,750 --> 00:47:01,708 - Yeah. 1291 00:47:01,875 --> 00:47:03,333 - And if you are, that's concerning. 1292 00:47:03,375 --> 00:47:04,708 - Yeah. - [chuckles] 1293 00:47:04,708 --> 00:47:07,083 - I love that you've just, like, 1294 00:47:07,083 --> 00:47:08,917 been great with, like, everything, 1295 00:47:08,917 --> 00:47:10,750 even me having dreads. 1296 00:47:10,875 --> 00:47:12,167 Like, it was great, 1297 00:47:12,250 --> 00:47:13,583 'cause, like, honestly, it did mean a lot. 1298 00:47:13,792 --> 00:47:16,083 I know you probably don't get that 'cause it's just hair, 1299 00:47:16,167 --> 00:47:18,625 but in this setting specifically, 1300 00:47:18,708 --> 00:47:21,542 it was very stressful, but, like, it felt, like, fine. 1301 00:47:21,667 --> 00:47:24,375 I can go to bed with, like, two bird's nests in my hair. 1302 00:47:24,375 --> 00:47:26,708 It'll be fine. - Didn't bother me at all. 1303 00:47:26,792 --> 00:47:29,042 I thought you looked great, regardless. 1304 00:47:29,125 --> 00:47:30,792 I just appreciate you, like-- 1305 00:47:30,875 --> 00:47:32,500 I obviously don't know 1306 00:47:32,583 --> 00:47:34,167 what it's like. - [laughs] 1307 00:47:34,250 --> 00:47:37,292 - But I could tell it was upsetting you. 1308 00:47:37,375 --> 00:47:39,792 And you still had a smile on your face 1309 00:47:39,875 --> 00:47:41,875 and still made me smile the whole day. 1310 00:47:41,875 --> 00:47:45,125 And it didn't affect the outcome of the day. 1311 00:47:45,208 --> 00:47:47,125 - Yeah. I love that I make you smile. 1312 00:47:47,208 --> 00:47:50,250 - You do, whenever I see you. - Even in my darkest of times. 1313 00:47:50,333 --> 00:47:52,375 - Mm-hmm. Yeah. - Which means a lot. 1314 00:47:52,458 --> 00:47:54,583 It's, like, a little thing 1315 00:47:54,667 --> 00:47:57,042 that still, I think, shows, like, I know you're going to be 1316 00:47:57,125 --> 00:47:59,000 there for me, vice versa. 1317 00:47:59,125 --> 00:48:00,500 ♪ 1318 00:48:00,500 --> 00:48:02,667 And that's important to me. - Especially in a marriage. 1319 00:48:02,750 --> 00:48:04,292 - Yes. 1320 00:48:04,375 --> 00:48:05,042 - ♪ I found you, and you found me ♪ 1321 00:48:08,875 --> 00:48:09,917 - ♪ It's all or nothing 1322 00:48:10,125 --> 00:48:11,000 - ♪ Thank God for the moments like this ♪ 1323 00:48:11,208 --> 00:48:12,875 ♪ 'Cause I never could quite fit ♪ 1324 00:48:12,875 --> 00:48:15,167 - It is gorgeous out here. - It is so beautiful. 1325 00:48:15,292 --> 00:48:16,625 This is, like--this is why I like boats, 1326 00:48:16,708 --> 00:48:18,667 just kind of, like-- - Yeah, it's very relaxing. 1327 00:48:18,750 --> 00:48:20,208 - Vibing, like, beautiful views. 1328 00:48:20,292 --> 00:48:21,625 - Yeah. 1329 00:48:21,708 --> 00:48:23,542 - This has been a good honeymoon. 1330 00:48:23,542 --> 00:48:26,333 We've been wanting what we have now for so long, 1331 00:48:26,417 --> 00:48:28,792 and so that probably is what adds to the feeling 1332 00:48:28,875 --> 00:48:30,250 that we've been together for so long. 1333 00:48:30,333 --> 00:48:31,667 - Yeah, it's great to, like, have that, 1334 00:48:31,750 --> 00:48:33,250 'cause in my past relationships, 1335 00:48:33,333 --> 00:48:35,167 it hasn't been that easy. - Mm-hmm. 1336 00:48:35,292 --> 00:48:37,250 Do you think the comfort you're finding 1337 00:48:37,333 --> 00:48:39,167 in your marriage is because you have-- 1338 00:48:39,292 --> 00:48:41,042 'Cause I feel like, with us at least, 1339 00:48:41,125 --> 00:48:42,458 we have a lot of similarities. 1340 00:48:42,458 --> 00:48:44,167 Like, you guys have found, like, similarities. 1341 00:48:44,250 --> 00:48:46,167 Do you think that is what adds to the comfort 1342 00:48:46,208 --> 00:48:47,875 in your marriage, or is it something else? 1343 00:48:48,000 --> 00:48:50,542 - I definitely think that's a part of it, for sure. 1344 00:48:50,667 --> 00:48:53,500 - You know, the big thing for me was just reciprocation, 1345 00:48:53,583 --> 00:48:56,583 because I myself am just a giver in relationships, 1346 00:48:56,667 --> 00:48:58,458 friendships, whatever it is. 1347 00:48:58,542 --> 00:49:00,875 But a lot of the times, it was never reciprocated. 1348 00:49:00,875 --> 00:49:02,667 - Yeah. You told me about this. - You know? 1349 00:49:02,792 --> 00:49:04,750 And so I just kind of withered in the wind, you know? 1350 00:49:04,833 --> 00:49:05,917 both: Yeah. 1351 00:49:06,083 --> 00:49:07,875 - Because I'm such a giver, to have that, 1352 00:49:07,875 --> 00:49:10,250 even though it seems small, it's, like... 1353 00:49:10,250 --> 00:49:12,500 it's not small for me. - No. 1354 00:49:12,583 --> 00:49:14,667 - And I feel like that adds to, like, the quickness 1355 00:49:14,792 --> 00:49:16,250 of how we're feeling. both: Yeah. 1356 00:49:16,333 --> 00:49:17,333 - It definitely has. - I-- 1357 00:49:17,458 --> 00:49:19,583 - Yeah, it's a relief for me, too, 1358 00:49:19,667 --> 00:49:20,750 'cause it's like-- 1359 00:49:20,833 --> 00:49:22,875 Do you want to go? - No. 1360 00:49:22,875 --> 00:49:25,000 [laughter] You're good. I'll go next. 1361 00:49:25,042 --> 00:49:28,917 - He's going to explode. - Wah, I got something to say! 1362 00:49:29,000 --> 00:49:32,750 - But it's like, I kept asking the experts, 1363 00:49:32,750 --> 00:49:35,375 like, please just give me, like, a genuinely good person. 1364 00:49:35,375 --> 00:49:36,458 - Yes. 1365 00:49:36,458 --> 00:49:38,042 - Or, like, just, like, a normal person. 1366 00:49:38,125 --> 00:49:39,250 Well, he's pretty weird. 1367 00:49:39,250 --> 00:49:40,792 - Yeah, I don't know about normal. 1368 00:49:40,792 --> 00:49:43,458 - And so, like, when we started talking, 1369 00:49:43,458 --> 00:49:45,833 I was like, oh, my gosh, thank goodness. 1370 00:49:45,875 --> 00:49:47,292 - Mm-hmm. - So it also feels safe 1371 00:49:47,292 --> 00:49:48,917 to fall because of that. - Yeah. 1372 00:49:48,917 --> 00:49:51,750 - You made me feel incredibly safe, which isn't something 1373 00:49:51,750 --> 00:49:54,208 that, like, I wanted going into this. 1374 00:49:54,292 --> 00:49:56,375 But, like, once we-- - Now that you have it-- 1375 00:49:56,458 --> 00:49:58,167 - Yeah, now that I have it-- - It's comforting. 1376 00:49:58,250 --> 00:49:59,792 - It's so, so relieving. - Mm-hmm. 1377 00:49:59,875 --> 00:50:01,875 - Like, what a weight off my shoulders 1378 00:50:01,875 --> 00:50:05,542 to know that, like, she has my back. 1379 00:50:05,542 --> 00:50:07,167 It's incredible. 1380 00:50:07,250 --> 00:50:09,708 ♪ 1381 00:50:09,875 --> 00:50:12,708 - I feel like I wouldn't want to do this with anyone else. 1382 00:50:12,833 --> 00:50:17,000 I'm getting a best friend, which is special to me, 1383 00:50:17,083 --> 00:50:19,333 because I have a very, very close circle. 1384 00:50:19,417 --> 00:50:23,250 And, you know, I only have a couple of friends 1385 00:50:23,250 --> 00:50:26,208 that I let in, you know, my circle. 1386 00:50:26,292 --> 00:50:28,833 And the fact that you're getting close 1387 00:50:28,833 --> 00:50:32,000 to being inside the circle, I think, is a huge deal, 1388 00:50:32,083 --> 00:50:34,958 because trust, for me, is one of the biggest things 1389 00:50:35,042 --> 00:50:36,375 I look for. 1390 00:50:36,458 --> 00:50:38,208 And I feel like you're really starting 1391 00:50:38,292 --> 00:50:40,167 to earn my trust, you know, 1392 00:50:40,208 --> 00:50:42,542 which is not easy for me to say. 1393 00:50:42,542 --> 00:50:44,875 So I just appreciate you 1394 00:50:44,958 --> 00:50:47,333 and just doing all the little things 1395 00:50:47,417 --> 00:50:51,625 that make me trust you more and more each and every day. 1396 00:50:51,708 --> 00:50:53,625 - So I'm not in the circle yet? 1397 00:50:53,708 --> 00:50:56,167 - We're getting there. - We're in the outer ring. 1398 00:50:56,250 --> 00:50:58,875 - We're working on it. - Okay, I'll take that. 1399 00:50:58,958 --> 00:51:00,792 - I'm sure you have your own trust circle. 1400 00:51:00,875 --> 00:51:02,375 And... 1401 00:51:02,375 --> 00:51:04,375 - It doesn't seem as hard as yours. 1402 00:51:04,458 --> 00:51:06,917 ♪ 1403 00:51:07,000 --> 00:51:09,083 - Sorry. - [giggles] No, you're good. 1404 00:51:09,167 --> 00:51:10,208 You're good. 1405 00:51:10,292 --> 00:51:12,375 [laughs] - Um... 1406 00:51:12,458 --> 00:51:14,042 ♪ 1407 00:51:14,167 --> 00:51:15,625 [clears throat] 1408 00:51:15,708 --> 00:51:17,042 Yesterday... - Mm-hmm. 1409 00:51:17,042 --> 00:51:20,542 - There was this, like, sea change between us, 1410 00:51:20,542 --> 00:51:23,750 where everything was going in one direction, 1411 00:51:23,875 --> 00:51:26,167 but now things are going in a completely different direction, 1412 00:51:26,250 --> 00:51:27,708 changing of the tides, you know? 1413 00:51:27,792 --> 00:51:28,792 - Right. 1414 00:51:28,875 --> 00:51:30,458 - I was hesitating a lot around you, 1415 00:51:30,542 --> 00:51:32,375 I think, in things that I say... 1416 00:51:32,500 --> 00:51:34,208 - Right. - And things that I do. 1417 00:51:34,292 --> 00:51:37,500 And it's really comfortable for me now where I can-- 1418 00:51:37,542 --> 00:51:39,375 I can just-- I can hold your hand. 1419 00:51:39,500 --> 00:51:42,042 I can put my arm around you, and I'm not even-- 1420 00:51:42,042 --> 00:51:43,542 I don't even have to think about it now. 1421 00:51:43,542 --> 00:51:45,208 - Yeah, I think I feel the same. 1422 00:51:45,208 --> 00:51:46,875 I don't feel uncomfortable. 1423 00:51:46,875 --> 00:51:49,500 It doesn't feel as scary as it did. 1424 00:51:49,542 --> 00:51:51,833 Yeah, it just feels a lot more organic 1425 00:51:51,917 --> 00:51:53,333 than I thought that it would. 1426 00:51:53,458 --> 00:51:55,042 - Can I say something-- Don't, like-- 1427 00:51:55,042 --> 00:51:56,792 I'm not trying to hurt your feelings, 1428 00:51:56,875 --> 00:51:58,375 but between the two of us, 1429 00:51:58,500 --> 00:52:00,667 I think this has been hardest on you. 1430 00:52:00,792 --> 00:52:02,917 - Why would you say that? 1431 00:52:03,042 --> 00:52:05,708 - I think... 1432 00:52:05,792 --> 00:52:07,708 I'm... 1433 00:52:07,792 --> 00:52:11,167 I'm more willing to... 1434 00:52:11,250 --> 00:52:14,833 to be in an uncomfortable situation than you. 1435 00:52:14,917 --> 00:52:16,542 I think I was kind of feeding off 1436 00:52:16,625 --> 00:52:18,583 of just the energy that was between us, 1437 00:52:18,667 --> 00:52:20,583 which was, like, just-- 1438 00:52:20,667 --> 00:52:22,167 - Awkward. - Yeah. 1439 00:52:22,208 --> 00:52:23,958 - Yeah. - Yeah. 1440 00:52:24,042 --> 00:52:26,042 - Right. No, and I would agree. 1441 00:52:26,042 --> 00:52:29,167 If we continue to let that happen, 1442 00:52:29,208 --> 00:52:32,042 it would be a very disastrous situation. 1443 00:52:32,042 --> 00:52:33,625 - Yeah. 1444 00:52:33,708 --> 00:52:35,125 ♪ 1445 00:52:38,750 --> 00:52:40,125 ♪ 1446 00:52:40,208 --> 00:52:42,750 - I think I was kind of feeding off 1447 00:52:42,750 --> 00:52:44,292 of just the energy that was between us, which was like-- 1448 00:52:44,292 --> 00:52:45,542 - Awkward. - Yeah. 1449 00:52:45,542 --> 00:52:47,000 - Yeah. - Yeah. 1450 00:52:47,042 --> 00:52:50,417 - If we continue to let that happen, 1451 00:52:50,500 --> 00:52:53,375 it would be a very disastrous situation. 1452 00:52:53,458 --> 00:52:55,833 - Yeah, but I feel like we've made 1453 00:52:56,000 --> 00:52:59,417 a really big change. - Mm-hmm. 1454 00:52:59,500 --> 00:53:01,958 - And, you know, the tide was going out, 1455 00:53:02,042 --> 00:53:03,333 and now the tide is coming in. 1456 00:53:03,375 --> 00:53:04,958 That's what it feels like to me. 1457 00:53:05,042 --> 00:53:07,917 - You're on par with the sea situation. 1458 00:53:08,042 --> 00:53:09,250 - Yeah. - And I agree. 1459 00:53:09,375 --> 00:53:11,833 - You know, may as well reference the background. 1460 00:53:11,917 --> 00:53:13,042 - [laughs] 1461 00:53:13,167 --> 00:53:15,583 - But it's not just like, oh, I feel 1462 00:53:15,667 --> 00:53:17,833 more comfortable around you, so I feel less hesitant. 1463 00:53:17,917 --> 00:53:19,250 It's actually like I feel 1464 00:53:19,250 --> 00:53:21,125 like we're in a completely different relationship 1465 00:53:21,208 --> 00:53:23,208 than we were when we woke up yesterday. 1466 00:53:23,375 --> 00:53:25,333 - And I think that's a good way to look at it, 1467 00:53:25,375 --> 00:53:27,667 'cause I think for me, it's, like, we're making small steps. 1468 00:53:27,792 --> 00:53:29,667 And I don't know why I keep saying that to myself, 1469 00:53:29,667 --> 00:53:32,083 'cause it's like, no-- - We're making massive steps. 1470 00:53:32,167 --> 00:53:33,417 - Right. 1471 00:53:33,500 --> 00:53:37,208 - I'll say that I truly had 1472 00:53:37,292 --> 00:53:39,458 no idea what to expect. 1473 00:53:39,542 --> 00:53:41,542 I had no idea what to expect with you. 1474 00:53:41,625 --> 00:53:44,417 I had no idea what to expect on this honeymoon. 1475 00:53:44,542 --> 00:53:47,292 - Mm-hmm. - Specific to you, 1476 00:53:47,292 --> 00:53:51,542 I'm just unbelievably pleasantly surprised. 1477 00:53:51,667 --> 00:53:55,542 You know, you are truly such an amazing person. 1478 00:53:55,625 --> 00:53:56,958 - Aw. 1479 00:53:57,042 --> 00:53:59,750 - And it doesn't help that you're easy on the eyes. 1480 00:53:59,833 --> 00:54:01,500 I mean, it helps-- 1481 00:54:01,583 --> 00:54:03,500 it helps that you're easy on the eyes. 1482 00:54:03,583 --> 00:54:05,000 - [laughs] 1483 00:54:05,042 --> 00:54:06,833 ♪ 1484 00:54:06,875 --> 00:54:09,042 - I'm kind of excited to, like, go into real life. 1485 00:54:09,125 --> 00:54:11,042 - Mm-hmm. - Like, this is great, but-- 1486 00:54:11,125 --> 00:54:13,167 - Next step in our journey. - Yeah. 1487 00:54:13,292 --> 00:54:15,333 - I'm not worried. 1488 00:54:15,333 --> 00:54:18,083 I feel like it's just going to be less palm trees. 1489 00:54:18,167 --> 00:54:20,250 - Yeah. Yeah, honestly. - You know? 1490 00:54:20,333 --> 00:54:22,542 There's nothing I'm really, like, concerned about 1491 00:54:22,667 --> 00:54:23,833 in the future. 1492 00:54:23,917 --> 00:54:26,500 - Like, I feel like we're building this foundation 1493 00:54:26,583 --> 00:54:29,667 that's going to prepare us to take on the rest of the world. 1494 00:54:29,792 --> 00:54:31,917 - The world. [chuckles] - You know? 1495 00:54:32,042 --> 00:54:33,500 So... 1496 00:54:33,625 --> 00:54:35,500 - Power-couple vibes. - Power couple. 1497 00:54:35,542 --> 00:54:37,708 - Mm-hmm. Yeah, I'm happy. 1498 00:54:37,792 --> 00:54:40,000 - Me too. 1499 00:54:40,000 --> 00:54:43,458 - Do you guys have any fears of what might change 1500 00:54:43,542 --> 00:54:45,083 when reality comes back? 1501 00:54:45,167 --> 00:54:46,958 - Honestly speaking, like, I don't. 1502 00:54:47,042 --> 00:54:48,833 But I also... 1503 00:54:48,833 --> 00:54:50,292 - You're a very "in the moment" person. 1504 00:54:50,375 --> 00:54:51,625 - I'm in the moment, 1505 00:54:51,708 --> 00:54:53,458 and I don't like to, like, set expectations. 1506 00:54:53,542 --> 00:54:58,167 And I'm very much, like, a positive-outlook type of guy. 1507 00:54:58,208 --> 00:55:01,000 And I honestly, like, think we're going to do pretty well. 1508 00:55:01,083 --> 00:55:02,917 - Me being an overthinker, I'm already thinking 1509 00:55:03,042 --> 00:55:05,042 about the things that will go wrong when we're back. 1510 00:55:05,042 --> 00:55:06,458 But, like, what could go right? 1511 00:55:06,542 --> 00:55:08,083 - And I'm thinking more about that. 1512 00:55:08,167 --> 00:55:09,333 That's where I'm at with it. 1513 00:55:09,375 --> 00:55:10,833 Like, I've been thinking what could go right. 1514 00:55:10,875 --> 00:55:13,375 I don't think the worry has, like, actually set in 1515 00:55:13,500 --> 00:55:15,083 because it's so good. 1516 00:55:15,083 --> 00:55:18,833 So it's even hard for me to know what the worry could be, 1517 00:55:18,917 --> 00:55:22,042 especially given the topics we've already discussed. 1518 00:55:22,042 --> 00:55:24,500 And I know that there's always relationship problems, right? 1519 00:55:24,583 --> 00:55:25,750 - Yeah, exactly. - But I don't think 1520 00:55:25,833 --> 00:55:28,125 there's going to be much that could make us 1521 00:55:28,208 --> 00:55:30,000 just, like, absolutely hate each other 1522 00:55:30,042 --> 00:55:31,500 to do the D word, you know? 1523 00:55:31,542 --> 00:55:34,417 So I'm not worried yet, but I'm also an overthinker, 1524 00:55:34,500 --> 00:55:36,917 and we are in paradise right now, so I haven't... 1525 00:55:37,042 --> 00:55:39,500 - Yeah, yeah, yeah, exactly. - Had to overthink much. 1526 00:55:39,583 --> 00:55:40,542 - Yeah. 1527 00:55:40,625 --> 00:55:42,375 - And just saying, like, this feels good. 1528 00:55:42,500 --> 00:55:44,208 I feel very comfortable giving my heart to Orion. 1529 00:55:44,292 --> 00:55:45,625 You know, I'm still like, I'm going to keep 1530 00:55:45,625 --> 00:55:46,958 a little bit for me. - Yeah. 1531 00:55:47,042 --> 00:55:49,292 - But I do feel like trusting in that he's not going 1532 00:55:49,375 --> 00:55:50,708 to throw it in the ocean. 1533 00:55:50,792 --> 00:55:52,500 And like you said, I deserve this. 1534 00:55:52,583 --> 00:55:53,833 - You do. - Yeah. 1535 00:55:53,917 --> 00:55:55,667 Yeah, I think we all deserve this. 1536 00:55:55,750 --> 00:55:57,500 - Yeah. 1537 00:55:57,583 --> 00:55:58,625 ♪ 1538 00:55:58,708 --> 00:55:59,958 - ♪ We're feeling all right 1539 00:56:00,042 --> 00:56:01,083 - Oh! 1540 00:56:01,083 --> 00:56:02,833 - ♪ We're living our lives 1541 00:56:02,875 --> 00:56:04,500 [singing indistinctly] 1542 00:56:04,542 --> 00:56:08,042 ♪ We're turning loose, hey-a, hey-a, hey-a ♪ 1543 00:56:08,125 --> 00:56:09,167 ♪ We like to talk 1544 00:56:09,208 --> 00:56:11,458 ♪ Eh, eh, eh 1545 00:56:11,542 --> 00:56:13,000 [singing indistinctly] 1546 00:56:13,042 --> 00:56:14,833 ♪ Yeah, eh, eh 1547 00:56:14,875 --> 00:56:16,333 ♪ Oh, yeah 1548 00:56:16,417 --> 00:56:18,917 ♪ We like to talk in the air at night ♪ 1549 00:56:19,042 --> 00:56:20,875 ♪ We like to talk 1550 00:56:20,958 --> 00:56:22,708 - Wait, scooch that way. 1551 00:56:22,792 --> 00:56:24,792 - You're so happy. - I know. 1552 00:56:24,792 --> 00:56:27,000 - And we got a sunset cruise. - Yeah. 1553 00:56:27,000 --> 00:56:28,875 - Look out yonder. Isn't that amazing? 1554 00:56:29,000 --> 00:56:30,500 - Look at the pink! 1555 00:56:30,583 --> 00:56:32,542 - It's me in a sunset. - It's you. 1556 00:56:32,542 --> 00:56:34,250 You're in a sunset. - Do I blend in? 1557 00:56:34,333 --> 00:56:35,750 - You blend in. 1558 00:56:35,833 --> 00:56:37,625 - Wait, wait, where did Becca go, guys? 1559 00:56:37,708 --> 00:56:39,833 Where's Becca? - Becca's a chameleon. 1560 00:56:39,875 --> 00:56:42,000 - Did she fall off the boat? [laughter] 1561 00:56:42,000 --> 00:56:43,625 - So I know it's, like, kind of been, like, 1562 00:56:43,708 --> 00:56:44,667 a roller coaster for days. 1563 00:56:44,792 --> 00:56:46,250 We thought we were going boating. 1564 00:56:46,333 --> 00:56:48,000 - Now it couldn't be more perfect. 1565 00:56:48,083 --> 00:56:50,083 - But, honestly, it has been a great day for me, 1566 00:56:50,167 --> 00:56:52,292 and I feel like I've gotten closer to all of you, 1567 00:56:52,375 --> 00:56:53,792 and I love that. 1568 00:56:53,875 --> 00:56:56,000 - We got on a plane with a bunch of strangers, 1569 00:56:56,083 --> 00:56:58,208 and now we're best friends. 1570 00:56:58,292 --> 00:56:59,833 It's insane. 1571 00:56:59,917 --> 00:57:01,542 - And married. 1572 00:57:01,625 --> 00:57:05,292 - Everyone just seems like really basking in the love 1573 00:57:05,375 --> 00:57:07,042 that is in the air. 1574 00:57:07,042 --> 00:57:08,667 A lot of love being displayed 1575 00:57:08,708 --> 00:57:10,542 with everyone and their partners. 1576 00:57:10,625 --> 00:57:12,583 I feel really blessed to be around that 1577 00:57:12,583 --> 00:57:14,708 and to be also basking in that love 1578 00:57:14,708 --> 00:57:16,875 that I feel for my husband too. 1579 00:57:16,875 --> 00:57:18,875 - ♪ Oh, I love the way that you are ♪ 1580 00:57:19,000 --> 00:57:22,458 ♪ I love the way that you are, are, are ♪ 1581 00:57:22,458 --> 00:57:25,833 ♪ I love the way that you are ♪ 1582 00:57:25,833 --> 00:57:28,625 ♪ 1583 00:57:32,542 --> 00:57:33,750 - ♪ I want to be your everything ♪ 1584 00:57:33,875 --> 00:57:36,000 ♪ Now, if I was everything that you wanted ♪ 1585 00:57:36,000 --> 00:57:38,500 ♪ Every little thing that you need ♪ 1586 00:57:38,500 --> 00:57:40,833 ♪ I want to explore your boundaries ♪ 1587 00:57:40,875 --> 00:57:43,167 ♪ What we need to do to get deep ♪ 1588 00:57:43,250 --> 00:57:45,292 ♪ 1589 00:57:45,375 --> 00:57:47,542 - Ooh, this is nice. - This is nice. 1590 00:57:47,625 --> 00:57:49,333 It's cute. - Yeah. 1591 00:57:49,458 --> 00:57:51,208 - All the rose petals, that's the theme. 1592 00:57:51,208 --> 00:57:53,333 [laughter] - Yeah, the rose petals. 1593 00:57:53,375 --> 00:57:55,875 I do like the rose petals. - Yeah. 1594 00:57:55,875 --> 00:57:57,708 - Oh, it feels so good to sit down. 1595 00:57:57,708 --> 00:57:58,667 - Yeah. 1596 00:57:58,708 --> 00:58:00,417 - Did you have a good day today? 1597 00:58:00,417 --> 00:58:01,667 - I had a great day. 1598 00:58:01,917 --> 00:58:03,625 I think today was my favorite day out of all the days. 1599 00:58:03,750 --> 00:58:04,917 - Yeah? 1600 00:58:05,000 --> 00:58:06,625 - I just caught myself staring at you like, wow. 1601 00:58:06,708 --> 00:58:08,292 - Yeah! - That's my husband. 1602 00:58:08,375 --> 00:58:10,208 - Would you like some champagne? 1603 00:58:10,208 --> 00:58:12,208 - Yes, please. - Yes, please. 1604 00:58:12,208 --> 00:58:14,667 - What do you think the highlight of today was? 1605 00:58:14,750 --> 00:58:16,750 - I had a lot of fun dancing on the boat. 1606 00:58:16,833 --> 00:58:18,833 Thank you, sir. - Thank you. 1607 00:58:18,875 --> 00:58:21,458 I really enjoy touching you. 1608 00:58:21,542 --> 00:58:23,042 I feel like we got a little touchy-feely 1609 00:58:23,208 --> 00:58:24,333 with you in the van. - Yeah. 1610 00:58:24,458 --> 00:58:27,000 - I like, like, skin-to-skin contact. 1611 00:58:27,125 --> 00:58:29,500 - I really enjoyed that. 1612 00:58:29,583 --> 00:58:32,375 - Now I'm at the point where I'm, like, just imagining 1613 00:58:32,458 --> 00:58:34,917 what it would be like with you. - Yeah? 1614 00:58:35,042 --> 00:58:36,542 ♪ 1615 00:58:36,625 --> 00:58:38,042 How does that start? 1616 00:58:38,042 --> 00:58:40,125 - I feel like the foreplay probably starts 1617 00:58:40,208 --> 00:58:41,333 with fellatio from you. 1618 00:58:41,417 --> 00:58:43,333 I could see you just jumping right into it. 1619 00:58:43,417 --> 00:58:45,333 - I would say you're right. I am a giver. 1620 00:58:45,375 --> 00:58:47,708 Because for me, I think I would start... 1621 00:58:47,792 --> 00:58:49,417 - Where would you start? 1622 00:58:49,500 --> 00:58:51,500 - Head to toe-- so I like kissing, you know? 1623 00:58:51,625 --> 00:58:52,792 - You like kissing? - Yeah. 1624 00:58:52,875 --> 00:58:54,667 I like touching and kissing neck, yeah. 1625 00:58:54,750 --> 00:58:56,458 - I could see that. - Working down. 1626 00:58:56,542 --> 00:58:57,917 - Working down and around? - Mm-hmm, yeah. 1627 00:58:58,000 --> 00:58:59,833 - I like the, like, down and around, 1628 00:58:59,875 --> 00:59:01,667 like, without going, like, straight for it. 1629 00:59:01,708 --> 00:59:03,542 - Mm-hmm. - I would like that. 1630 00:59:03,542 --> 00:59:05,292 - Okay. [both giggle] 1631 00:59:05,375 --> 00:59:06,750 - I have a question. - Okay. 1632 00:59:06,833 --> 00:59:09,708 - How do you feel about sex toys 1633 00:59:09,708 --> 00:59:12,542 being involved with the sex? 1634 00:59:12,542 --> 00:59:15,250 - You know, I... 1635 00:59:15,250 --> 00:59:17,833 have a little collection of my own. 1636 00:59:17,917 --> 00:59:19,625 - What are you talking about-- a collection? 1637 00:59:19,708 --> 00:59:21,083 That means you've been building it. 1638 00:59:21,167 --> 00:59:23,333 - It's, like, less than five, less than five. 1639 00:59:23,417 --> 00:59:25,250 - Okay. - I don't have a red room. 1640 00:59:25,333 --> 00:59:27,250 - We could have that in our house. 1641 00:59:27,333 --> 00:59:28,667 - Oh, yeah? 1642 00:59:28,750 --> 00:59:31,000 Okay. - We could have a red room. 1643 00:59:31,042 --> 00:59:33,042 - It sounds like you like to explore. 1644 00:59:33,042 --> 00:59:34,333 - I love to explore. 1645 00:59:34,458 --> 00:59:35,792 I like to explore my partner's body too. 1646 00:59:35,792 --> 00:59:37,500 I feel like it's a map. 1647 00:59:37,583 --> 00:59:40,417 I really want to learn all your erogenous zones, 1648 00:59:40,500 --> 00:59:42,833 and I feel like we would do really good 1649 00:59:42,917 --> 00:59:44,542 at doing that for each other. 1650 00:59:44,542 --> 00:59:46,500 - Especially with us getting closer together... 1651 00:59:46,583 --> 00:59:48,833 - Mm-hmm. - Would be very hard to resist. 1652 00:59:48,917 --> 00:59:50,667 It would be very hard for me to resist. 1653 00:59:50,750 --> 00:59:55,500 - I want it to be, like, a very organic start to it. 1654 00:59:55,542 --> 00:59:57,500 So there's definitely no pressure here. 1655 00:59:57,583 --> 00:59:59,125 - Honestly, hearing you say that, 1656 00:59:59,208 --> 01:00:01,500 that actually brings a lot of comfort for me, 1657 01:00:01,583 --> 01:00:03,333 because going through this process, 1658 01:00:03,417 --> 01:00:05,250 when I was asked about, do I want this, 1659 01:00:05,333 --> 01:00:07,667 you know, my answer was, you know, I would love 1660 01:00:07,708 --> 01:00:09,000 to have sex with my wife, 1661 01:00:09,083 --> 01:00:11,583 but I don't expect it to happen that quick. 1662 01:00:11,667 --> 01:00:12,875 - Right. 1663 01:00:12,875 --> 01:00:14,917 - And I guess the reason for that 1664 01:00:14,917 --> 01:00:18,667 is because it's been a bit of a time 1665 01:00:18,708 --> 01:00:20,625 since I last had sex. 1666 01:00:20,708 --> 01:00:22,542 - Like, when was the last time you had sex? 1667 01:00:22,542 --> 01:00:24,000 - A little more than a year and a half... 1668 01:00:24,083 --> 01:00:25,417 - Oh, wow. 1669 01:00:25,500 --> 01:00:26,542 - That I was intimate with somebody. 1670 01:00:26,667 --> 01:00:27,792 - Okay. - Mm-hmm. 1671 01:00:27,875 --> 01:00:29,000 It's definitely something more 1672 01:00:29,083 --> 01:00:31,333 than just the physical act for me. 1673 01:00:31,417 --> 01:00:32,583 - Same. 1674 01:00:32,667 --> 01:00:34,292 It's definitely been less time for me. 1675 01:00:34,375 --> 01:00:36,500 So it was a couple months ago-- 1676 01:00:36,542 --> 01:00:39,417 two months probably to the day, honestly. 1677 01:00:39,500 --> 01:00:41,667 [dramatic note] 1678 01:00:41,750 --> 01:00:45,500 - You know, right now I am feeling a bit uncomfortable. 1679 01:00:45,583 --> 01:00:47,708 [dramatic music] 1680 01:00:47,792 --> 01:00:50,250 My mindset going into it was, 1681 01:00:50,375 --> 01:00:53,167 when they revealed it to me that they found me a match... 1682 01:00:53,250 --> 01:00:54,333 - Mm-hmm. - I was engaged. 1683 01:00:54,375 --> 01:00:56,042 - That was my mindset too. 1684 01:00:56,125 --> 01:00:57,917 Like, I had sex before the reveal. 1685 01:00:58,000 --> 01:00:59,542 - Right. - I didn't have sex, 1686 01:00:59,625 --> 01:01:01,625 like, finding out, like, oh, I'm engaged. 1687 01:01:01,708 --> 01:01:03,250 Let me go have sex now. - Right, right. 1688 01:01:03,250 --> 01:01:05,417 And it could just be just-- 1689 01:01:05,417 --> 01:01:08,417 I don't know--honestly, very different in our approach. 1690 01:01:08,542 --> 01:01:10,833 I'm at a point to where... 1691 01:01:10,917 --> 01:01:13,292 I know what I'm worth, you know. 1692 01:01:13,375 --> 01:01:16,542 And so with that, I just don't want to hand myself out. 1693 01:01:16,542 --> 01:01:18,000 ♪ 1694 01:01:18,083 --> 01:01:19,542 You know? 1695 01:01:19,667 --> 01:01:22,833 - How do you feel that I had sex two months ago? 1696 01:01:22,917 --> 01:01:24,000 ♪ 1697 01:01:24,083 --> 01:01:26,875 It's not like I'm, like, a walking horn ball. 1698 01:01:26,958 --> 01:01:28,875 [chuckles] Like.. 1699 01:01:28,958 --> 01:01:31,167 - Being honest, uh... 1700 01:01:31,250 --> 01:01:34,875 it kind of took sex off the table for me. 1701 01:01:35,000 --> 01:01:39,792 - ♪ Everything is not okay - ♪ Everything 1702 01:01:39,792 --> 01:01:41,833 ♪ Everything 1703 01:01:41,875 --> 01:01:43,958 - All right, what's next? Sex is done. 1704 01:01:43,958 --> 01:01:47,458 - ♪ Everything is not okay 1705 01:01:47,542 --> 01:01:50,625 ♪ 1706 01:01:50,625 --> 01:01:52,625 [upbeat music] 1707 01:01:52,625 --> 01:01:54,583 - Next time on "Married at First Sight"... 1708 01:01:54,583 --> 01:01:58,750 ♪ 1709 01:01:58,750 --> 01:02:00,875 - Oh. - Whoo! 1710 01:02:00,958 --> 01:02:03,333 - Our couples enjoy the final days of their honeymoon. 1711 01:02:03,375 --> 01:02:04,875 - Aw. 1712 01:02:04,958 --> 01:02:06,000 ♪ 1713 01:02:06,083 --> 01:02:08,292 - Oh, thank you. 1714 01:02:08,375 --> 01:02:10,792 - I think something that we haven't dove into super deep 1715 01:02:10,875 --> 01:02:12,125 is religion. 1716 01:02:12,125 --> 01:02:14,292 - We should talk about that. - Right now? 1717 01:02:14,375 --> 01:02:15,667 - No, probably not now. 1718 01:02:15,667 --> 01:02:17,167 ♪ 1719 01:02:17,292 --> 01:02:19,333 - Do you know how to have fun? - Do you like to have fun? 1720 01:02:19,417 --> 01:02:21,583 What the [bleep]? God. 1721 01:02:21,667 --> 01:02:23,667 - I have to go to the hospital in Cancún. 1722 01:02:23,750 --> 01:02:25,958 - Hopefully he didn't leave and go home. 1723 01:02:26,042 --> 01:02:28,542 I don't know. - It's his escape plan. 1724 01:02:28,667 --> 01:02:29,708 - Our honeymoon has been 1725 01:02:29,917 --> 01:02:31,792 a little bit of a roller coaster, I'd say. 1726 01:02:31,875 --> 01:02:33,958 - She was saying that I am lying 1727 01:02:34,042 --> 01:02:35,583 about how things played out. 1728 01:02:35,667 --> 01:02:37,250 - I just had this huge blowup with him 1729 01:02:37,333 --> 01:02:39,667 in which I was yelling and I asked for a divorce. 1730 01:02:39,750 --> 01:02:41,125 - Do you want a divorce? 1731 01:02:41,208 --> 01:02:43,875 - I have no idea where we go from here. 1732 01:02:44,042 --> 01:02:45,208 - Okay. 1733 01:02:45,292 --> 01:02:49,458 ♪