1 00:00:02,167 --> 00:00:03,417 - ♪ But she fell 2 00:00:03,500 --> 00:00:06,292 ♪ She fell from heaven for you ♪ 3 00:00:06,375 --> 00:00:10,083 - Eight great singles decided to change their lives forever 4 00:00:10,167 --> 00:00:13,333 by getting married to strangers sight unseen. 5 00:00:13,417 --> 00:00:16,542 ♪ 6 00:00:16,667 --> 00:00:17,625 - ♪ It's morning 7 00:00:17,708 --> 00:00:20,417 [vocalizing] 8 00:00:20,500 --> 00:00:23,458 - Last time, Michael met with us, the experts, 9 00:00:23,542 --> 00:00:26,000 to restart his "Married At First Sight" journey. 10 00:00:26,083 --> 00:00:28,958 - You said, I want someone really nice, sweet. 11 00:00:29,042 --> 00:00:31,000 - You found a person? 12 00:00:31,042 --> 00:00:32,667 - I think we have. 13 00:00:32,750 --> 00:00:36,583 Are you willing to get married at first sight again? 14 00:00:36,667 --> 00:00:38,417 - I most definitely am, yes. 15 00:00:38,500 --> 00:00:39,875 [laughter] 16 00:00:39,958 --> 00:00:41,667 - And our remaining couples celebrated 17 00:00:41,750 --> 00:00:44,875 their one-month anniversary as husband and wife. 18 00:00:44,958 --> 00:00:46,542 ♪ 19 00:00:46,625 --> 00:00:48,167 Becca and Austin. 20 00:00:48,250 --> 00:00:49,375 - Glad we made it to a month. 21 00:00:49,500 --> 00:00:50,583 - [laughs] 22 00:00:50,667 --> 00:00:52,000 - Proud of us. 23 00:00:52,042 --> 00:00:53,833 - Love liking you. 24 00:00:53,917 --> 00:00:56,458 ♪ 25 00:00:56,542 --> 00:00:58,333 - Emily and Brennan. 26 00:00:58,375 --> 00:01:00,042 - I think we're just taking it day by day. 27 00:01:00,125 --> 00:01:01,958 - Hearing, like, the day by day thing 28 00:01:02,042 --> 00:01:04,917 one more time is going to make me snap. 29 00:01:04,917 --> 00:01:06,250 I don't want to resent you. 30 00:01:06,333 --> 00:01:09,250 That will happen if you don't make changes. 31 00:01:09,333 --> 00:01:12,208 - Clare and Cameron. 32 00:01:12,292 --> 00:01:14,833 - On the count of three, say you want a divorce-- 33 00:01:14,958 --> 00:01:16,708 - Oh, no! - No! 34 00:01:16,708 --> 00:01:17,833 - Or you want to keep trying. 35 00:01:17,917 --> 00:01:18,875 - I'm scared. 36 00:01:18,958 --> 00:01:23,167 - 1, 2, 3-- 37 00:01:23,208 --> 00:01:24,500 - Separated. - Divorce. 38 00:01:24,583 --> 00:01:26,083 ♪ 39 00:01:26,167 --> 00:01:28,417 - And tonight, with less than four weeks 40 00:01:28,500 --> 00:01:30,000 left until Decision Day-- 41 00:01:30,083 --> 00:01:32,208 - She is really great with children, 42 00:01:32,292 --> 00:01:34,917 and seeing that is very important to me. 43 00:01:35,000 --> 00:01:37,750 - Why do you want to do the reset? 44 00:01:37,875 --> 00:01:39,167 - I really want to, like, make sure we give our all 45 00:01:39,208 --> 00:01:40,500 to, like, figure this out. 46 00:01:40,542 --> 00:01:41,833 I wouldn't be here if I didn't think 47 00:01:41,917 --> 00:01:43,250 there was still room for us to grow. 48 00:01:43,375 --> 00:01:44,833 - Down the line, could have developed. 49 00:01:44,875 --> 00:01:46,833 - Who's to say? 50 00:01:46,958 --> 00:01:49,917 - Our couples will have to overcome all obstacles 51 00:01:50,000 --> 00:01:52,125 in their way to truly know 52 00:01:52,208 --> 00:01:54,667 if they want to stay married or get a divorce. 53 00:01:54,750 --> 00:01:57,917 - We've tried what we thought was in our capabilities 54 00:01:58,042 --> 00:02:03,542 and just reached a point where it's, like, what do we do? 55 00:02:03,625 --> 00:02:07,958 - Since I moved out, I've developed a heart condition. 56 00:02:08,042 --> 00:02:12,167 Did the stress of my separation from Clare 57 00:02:12,250 --> 00:02:14,000 lead to this heart problem? 58 00:02:14,042 --> 00:02:16,458 Maybe it accelerated it. 59 00:02:16,542 --> 00:02:19,333 - Past few weeks have been, like, very, very, very hard. 60 00:02:19,375 --> 00:02:22,042 I can't keep being, like, treated the way that I am. 61 00:02:22,125 --> 00:02:23,708 - So you want me to faint? 62 00:02:23,792 --> 00:02:26,000 - Oh, my God. You're fine. You need to [bleep] suck it up. 63 00:02:26,042 --> 00:02:27,875 - Can you not? 64 00:02:27,875 --> 00:02:33,375 ♪ 65 00:02:33,458 --> 00:02:34,667 - ♪ It's all or nothing 66 00:02:34,708 --> 00:02:37,292 - This is "Married at First Sight." 67 00:02:37,375 --> 00:02:39,333 - ♪ There's no other way 68 00:02:39,417 --> 00:02:40,917 ♪ 69 00:02:41,000 --> 00:02:43,000 ♪ It's all or nothing 70 00:02:43,083 --> 00:02:45,583 ♪ 71 00:02:45,708 --> 00:02:47,500 - ♪ I'm a believer 72 00:02:47,542 --> 00:02:50,042 ♪ 73 00:02:50,125 --> 00:02:52,500 ♪ In what I feel 74 00:02:52,542 --> 00:02:58,375 ♪ 75 00:02:58,458 --> 00:03:00,083 - Waking up in the apartment, 76 00:03:00,208 --> 00:03:02,958 knowing that Cameron and I are not together, 77 00:03:03,042 --> 00:03:04,792 it just feels strange. 78 00:03:04,875 --> 00:03:06,875 It's something that we both knew was coming. 79 00:03:06,875 --> 00:03:10,333 It's just--I didn't know how it would feel in the moments 80 00:03:10,458 --> 00:03:12,250 where I'm just all alone and... 81 00:03:12,333 --> 00:03:14,500 and that's just hard. 82 00:03:14,542 --> 00:03:18,125 - Every couple has their own marriage journey. 83 00:03:18,208 --> 00:03:20,208 - This is "Survivor," marriage edition. 84 00:03:20,292 --> 00:03:22,750 - [laughs] 85 00:03:22,833 --> 00:03:25,708 - With less than four weeks left before Decision Day, 86 00:03:25,833 --> 00:03:28,583 it's important for them to dive deeper into the issues 87 00:03:28,667 --> 00:03:30,750 and concerns that are surfacing, 88 00:03:30,875 --> 00:03:34,833 as they navigate these last few weeks before Decision Day. 89 00:03:34,875 --> 00:03:36,792 - [yawns] - Oh, my. 90 00:03:36,875 --> 00:03:39,333 - And now we rest, 91 00:03:39,417 --> 00:03:41,875 and that's how sleeping works. 92 00:03:41,958 --> 00:03:45,833 - [laughs] 93 00:03:45,875 --> 00:03:47,500 That's how living goes. 94 00:03:47,625 --> 00:03:50,125 - Yep. - In case you didn't know. 95 00:03:50,208 --> 00:03:55,875 ♪ 96 00:03:55,958 --> 00:03:59,000 - I was just so mad with Brennan last night. 97 00:03:59,125 --> 00:04:02,333 And on top of everything else, Brennan didn't text me. 98 00:04:02,417 --> 00:04:04,417 And he usually says bye to me when I'm, like, 99 00:04:04,500 --> 00:04:06,250 sleeping in and he didn't, so I texted him, like, 100 00:04:06,333 --> 00:04:08,500 when he was coming home tonight? 101 00:04:08,583 --> 00:04:11,000 And yeah, 102 00:04:11,083 --> 00:04:14,167 he basically was just upset with me 103 00:04:14,250 --> 00:04:16,042 acting crazy last night, whatever that means. 104 00:04:16,125 --> 00:04:18,625 He put up a wall, and he's finding a way 105 00:04:18,708 --> 00:04:22,250 to find a reason for this to not work. 106 00:04:22,333 --> 00:04:25,000 And while he says he's not running, 107 00:04:25,125 --> 00:04:27,042 and that's something he's done in the past, like, to me, 108 00:04:27,042 --> 00:04:28,500 it feels like he is. 109 00:04:28,583 --> 00:04:31,125 But he doesn't know it, which is the issue. 110 00:04:31,208 --> 00:04:34,667 I just don't feel like we-- 111 00:04:34,792 --> 00:04:37,292 I just feel like we could not be here right now. 112 00:04:37,375 --> 00:04:40,958 And I won't lie when I say, like, 113 00:04:41,042 --> 00:04:44,667 the past few weeks have been, like, very, very, very hard. 114 00:04:44,750 --> 00:04:46,833 ♪ 115 00:04:46,917 --> 00:04:49,500 And I think it's, like-- it's not like it's hard for me 116 00:04:49,542 --> 00:04:51,208 in different ways that I don't-- 117 00:04:51,292 --> 00:04:52,583 and I think part of the issue 118 00:04:52,667 --> 00:04:53,792 of why I feel it's been we're in this position, 119 00:04:53,875 --> 00:04:57,542 he just doesn't fully, like, understand 120 00:04:57,667 --> 00:04:59,292 or hear me when I'm trying to, like, 121 00:04:59,375 --> 00:05:01,542 tell him a lot of this stuff. 122 00:05:01,625 --> 00:05:05,000 And it--like, I just can't be with someone 123 00:05:05,083 --> 00:05:07,875 and love someone who doesn't, 124 00:05:07,958 --> 00:05:12,000 like, show me more effort that I know that I deserve. 125 00:05:12,042 --> 00:05:13,625 Just have a problem with the way 126 00:05:13,708 --> 00:05:15,875 he makes me feel and talks to me sometimes, 127 00:05:16,000 --> 00:05:17,250 and it's, like, really sad. 128 00:05:17,375 --> 00:05:19,000 It is. It's very sad. 129 00:05:19,083 --> 00:05:22,542 ♪ 130 00:05:22,667 --> 00:05:25,833 - ♪ Be with you, I can relax 131 00:05:25,917 --> 00:05:30,833 ♪ Because I know you've got my back ♪ 132 00:05:30,875 --> 00:05:33,000 ♪ Backs, backs 133 00:05:33,125 --> 00:05:35,042 ♪ You've got my back 134 00:05:35,125 --> 00:05:36,333 - Ooh. 135 00:05:36,375 --> 00:05:38,083 - Welcome to a photo studio. 136 00:05:38,167 --> 00:05:39,917 - Look at this. 137 00:05:40,042 --> 00:05:42,500 - This is one of the photo studios that I shoot at. 138 00:05:42,583 --> 00:05:43,500 - Ooh. 139 00:05:43,583 --> 00:05:44,917 Photo studios. - Yeah. 140 00:05:45,042 --> 00:05:46,333 So I thought-- - I love that. 141 00:05:46,417 --> 00:05:49,000 - I could teach you a thing or two about 142 00:05:49,042 --> 00:05:51,167 taking some pictures. - Great. 143 00:05:51,292 --> 00:05:52,958 - Shall we take a seat? 144 00:05:53,042 --> 00:05:56,417 I think it's awesome to show Austin, like, my passion. 145 00:05:56,542 --> 00:05:59,042 It's not only just my hobby, but it's also my career. 146 00:05:59,125 --> 00:06:01,750 And I think it's an important part of a relationship. 147 00:06:01,750 --> 00:06:03,458 ♪ 148 00:06:04,750 --> 00:06:06,833 [gasps] And I have a surprise for you. 149 00:06:06,917 --> 00:06:08,542 - Hi. - Hello. 150 00:06:08,667 --> 00:06:10,875 - We have some subjects that we can shoot. 151 00:06:11,000 --> 00:06:12,292 - [laughs] - Hi. 152 00:06:12,375 --> 00:06:14,333 - Hi. 153 00:06:14,375 --> 00:06:16,042 - Oh, my goodness. 154 00:06:16,125 --> 00:06:17,083 Look at you-- - Surprise! 155 00:06:17,167 --> 00:06:19,667 [laughs] 156 00:06:19,750 --> 00:06:21,583 - It's good to see you. - 'Sup, punk? 157 00:06:21,708 --> 00:06:23,292 - You do get to see Austin. - Found it. 158 00:06:23,375 --> 00:06:24,667 Found it. There it is. 159 00:06:24,750 --> 00:06:26,375 There we go. - [giggles] 160 00:06:26,458 --> 00:06:28,250 - But I thought we could photograph 161 00:06:28,333 --> 00:06:29,167 some of your friends. - Sure. 162 00:06:29,208 --> 00:06:30,417 - Oh, my goodness. 163 00:06:30,500 --> 00:06:32,167 And the cutest subjects in the world. 164 00:06:32,208 --> 00:06:35,292 - ♪ Take a snapshot 165 00:06:35,375 --> 00:06:37,292 - Pee-ew! It smells like poo! 166 00:06:37,375 --> 00:06:38,500 - [giggles] 167 00:06:38,542 --> 00:06:40,000 - ♪ Moment tonight 168 00:06:40,042 --> 00:06:42,875 ♪ 169 00:06:44,542 --> 00:06:46,625 - Stop watching you? 170 00:06:46,708 --> 00:06:48,625 OK, I won't watch you. 171 00:06:48,708 --> 00:06:50,167 But you're going to have to watch my booty. 172 00:06:50,208 --> 00:06:51,500 - [giggles] 173 00:06:51,542 --> 00:06:53,167 - You're going to have to watch my booty. 174 00:06:53,250 --> 00:06:55,708 The ABCs, can I sing it with you? 175 00:06:55,833 --> 00:06:57,833 ♪ D, E, F, G 176 00:06:57,875 --> 00:07:00,417 - She is really great with children. 177 00:07:00,500 --> 00:07:03,375 And seeing that is very important to me. 178 00:07:03,458 --> 00:07:05,667 - What is this finger doing? - You like that? 179 00:07:05,708 --> 00:07:07,375 - Get that out of here. 180 00:07:08,208 --> 00:07:09,958 - Get that out of here. 181 00:07:10,125 --> 00:07:11,000 - Thats an at-home thing. 182 00:07:11,208 --> 00:07:13,125 - [giggles] 183 00:07:13,333 --> 00:07:17,375 - I would be lying if I, like, I said that I hadn't really 184 00:07:17,500 --> 00:07:20,125 ever thought about how we were going to, like, 185 00:07:20,208 --> 00:07:21,625 raise children together, 186 00:07:21,708 --> 00:07:23,375 even though we have, like, different beliefs. 187 00:07:23,500 --> 00:07:25,583 But seeing her in her element 188 00:07:25,667 --> 00:07:27,625 really, like, opened my eyes to, like, 189 00:07:27,708 --> 00:07:29,292 how good of a parent she could be. 190 00:07:29,375 --> 00:07:33,667 And I hope that we can, 191 00:07:33,792 --> 00:07:35,458 hopefully, come to, like, 192 00:07:35,542 --> 00:07:37,500 some sort of agreement about religion, 193 00:07:37,542 --> 00:07:39,417 because if we were to start a family, 194 00:07:39,417 --> 00:07:41,833 it would be really awesome. 195 00:07:41,875 --> 00:07:43,833 - Ashley, if you want to do, like, some little Eskimo kisses 196 00:07:43,917 --> 00:07:46,667 with him, just a little nose nuzzle. 197 00:07:46,750 --> 00:07:48,458 - Becca is sunshine in a bottle. 198 00:07:48,542 --> 00:07:51,542 So I think she would be excellent with children. 199 00:07:51,667 --> 00:07:53,833 - We got ourselves a big old rattle fish. 200 00:07:53,958 --> 00:07:56,083 - [laughs] 201 00:07:56,167 --> 00:07:57,875 - She comes across as 202 00:07:58,000 --> 00:07:59,708 a legitimate child whisperer to me. 203 00:07:59,792 --> 00:08:01,500 - ♪ Shake your booty 204 00:08:01,542 --> 00:08:03,583 - Seeing these interactions, she just totally, 205 00:08:03,667 --> 00:08:06,250 like, blew me away. She's awesome. 206 00:08:06,333 --> 00:08:09,000 - What happens if mommy and daddy kiss? 207 00:08:09,083 --> 00:08:10,500 Should we see if mommy and daddy kiss? 208 00:08:10,542 --> 00:08:12,792 [gasps] Oh! 209 00:08:12,875 --> 00:08:14,458 - [laughs] 210 00:08:14,542 --> 00:08:16,292 - That's his thumb. 211 00:08:16,375 --> 00:08:19,167 Do you have a thumb? 212 00:08:19,250 --> 00:08:22,167 That's your thumb? - Close. 213 00:08:22,250 --> 00:08:25,417 - [giggles] Thumbs up, dude. 214 00:08:25,500 --> 00:08:27,917 Oh, those are so cute, Austin. 215 00:08:28,000 --> 00:08:29,458 - You guys can take them anytime you want. 216 00:08:29,542 --> 00:08:31,333 - [laughs] - I'm ready for him. 217 00:08:31,417 --> 00:08:33,792 - [giggles] - [chuckles] 218 00:08:33,875 --> 00:08:40,625 ♪ 219 00:08:41,375 --> 00:08:43,250 - Clare and Cameron decided to separate 220 00:08:43,333 --> 00:08:44,750 after their one month anniversary. 221 00:08:44,833 --> 00:08:46,583 So I want to check in with them 222 00:08:46,708 --> 00:08:48,708 to see if there's anything I can do to help, 223 00:08:48,792 --> 00:08:52,000 and make sure that they've truly exhausted all options. 224 00:08:52,042 --> 00:08:54,500 [line ringing] 225 00:08:54,583 --> 00:08:56,458 - Hello? - Hi, Clare. It's Dr. Pia. 226 00:08:56,542 --> 00:08:58,708 How are you? 227 00:08:58,792 --> 00:09:00,042 - Um, 228 00:09:00,125 --> 00:09:03,000 Cameron is, like, not doing the best. 229 00:09:03,042 --> 00:09:05,208 And so I just--yeah. 230 00:09:05,292 --> 00:09:06,417 I've been better. [chuckles] 231 00:09:06,500 --> 00:09:07,917 He has, like, some-- 232 00:09:08,000 --> 00:09:09,917 some health concerns going on right now. 233 00:09:10,042 --> 00:09:13,667 And so I was apprehensive to even have, like, a phone call 234 00:09:13,792 --> 00:09:16,208 just because I feel like, 235 00:09:16,292 --> 00:09:18,833 you know, I don't want to focus on the relationship 236 00:09:18,875 --> 00:09:21,167 when the number one thing is his health at this time. 237 00:09:21,250 --> 00:09:23,500 - Anything that I can do to help support you 238 00:09:23,542 --> 00:09:26,917 as you're supporting him? 239 00:09:27,042 --> 00:09:30,292 - Um... 240 00:09:30,375 --> 00:09:31,833 [crying] I don't know. 241 00:09:31,875 --> 00:09:33,958 I just feel, like, guilty. 242 00:09:34,042 --> 00:09:35,667 - Oh, no. 243 00:09:35,750 --> 00:09:38,833 - Yeah, I just feel sad that he's in this position. 244 00:09:38,875 --> 00:09:40,333 And I just--I don't know. 245 00:09:40,417 --> 00:09:42,875 I just feel sad for him. 246 00:09:43,000 --> 00:09:45,208 - Yeah. Tell me about the guilt. 247 00:09:45,292 --> 00:09:47,583 Why are you feeling guilty? 248 00:09:47,667 --> 00:09:50,375 - [sniffling] I just feel sad that, 249 00:09:50,458 --> 00:09:54,250 like, you know, he's been so stressed about all of this, 250 00:09:54,333 --> 00:09:56,542 that, like, maybe it's caused him to have, 251 00:09:56,667 --> 00:09:58,250 like, these health concerns. 252 00:09:58,333 --> 00:10:00,375 And it's not fair. - Mm. 253 00:10:00,458 --> 00:10:02,292 Mm-hmm. It's not fair. 254 00:10:02,375 --> 00:10:04,292 And I mean, you don't have to go into details with me 255 00:10:04,375 --> 00:10:05,750 as to what the health concerns are. 256 00:10:05,833 --> 00:10:08,167 I want to, you know, respect his privacy with that, 257 00:10:08,208 --> 00:10:10,417 though I can't imagine 258 00:10:10,500 --> 00:10:14,458 that you are to cause any of this. 259 00:10:14,542 --> 00:10:15,833 - Yeah. 260 00:10:15,917 --> 00:10:18,167 I mean, I know that it's not my fault. 261 00:10:18,208 --> 00:10:20,167 - Yeah. - It's just-- 262 00:10:20,208 --> 00:10:22,333 I just feel sad for him. 263 00:10:22,417 --> 00:10:23,875 - Sure. Sure. 264 00:10:24,000 --> 00:10:26,083 Has he shared with you how he needs you 265 00:10:26,167 --> 00:10:28,750 or wants you to show up for him, or support him? 266 00:10:28,833 --> 00:10:30,917 - He said that the way that I can help him 267 00:10:31,000 --> 00:10:32,667 is to just stop worrying so much, 268 00:10:32,708 --> 00:10:36,167 which is typical for him to say that. 269 00:10:36,250 --> 00:10:38,083 - Mm-hmm. - You know? 270 00:10:38,208 --> 00:10:40,708 But I think he is so strong that it's just-- 271 00:10:40,792 --> 00:10:42,167 it's hard when I know 272 00:10:42,208 --> 00:10:44,417 he's trying to feel strong and I just-- 273 00:10:44,542 --> 00:10:45,708 I can't be strong for him right now 274 00:10:45,792 --> 00:10:47,042 because I just feel so bad. 275 00:10:47,125 --> 00:10:49,250 Like, you know, we are separating. 276 00:10:49,375 --> 00:10:51,083 And so I just feel like, 277 00:10:51,167 --> 00:10:53,500 what role does he want me to play, you know? 278 00:10:53,583 --> 00:10:54,875 It's just-- - Yeah. 279 00:10:54,958 --> 00:10:57,167 - I feel confused about that right now. 280 00:10:57,292 --> 00:10:58,833 - Yeah. 281 00:10:58,958 --> 00:11:01,458 And I can understand wanting to give him time to process. 282 00:11:01,542 --> 00:11:03,625 Who do you have to support you right now 283 00:11:03,708 --> 00:11:06,875 as you're managing your emotions? 284 00:11:06,958 --> 00:11:08,667 - You know, I have my family. 285 00:11:08,708 --> 00:11:12,500 I have--I just talked to my mom earlier. 286 00:11:12,583 --> 00:11:15,583 And yeah, so I have a lot of support. 287 00:11:15,667 --> 00:11:17,292 And I'm grateful for that. 288 00:11:17,375 --> 00:11:19,958 And--and it just makes me sad thinking, like, 289 00:11:20,042 --> 00:11:21,625 Cameron's family is not here either, and so-- 290 00:11:21,708 --> 00:11:23,167 - Ah. 291 00:11:23,250 --> 00:11:24,875 - When I think about the support I have, 292 00:11:24,958 --> 00:11:26,625 I think about the familial support that he doesn't, 293 00:11:26,708 --> 00:11:28,667 and that also makes me sad. - Sure. 294 00:11:28,750 --> 00:11:30,875 I'm curious if you might be able to offer him 295 00:11:31,000 --> 00:11:33,375 the support of your friends, your family, your network, 296 00:11:33,500 --> 00:11:34,750 so that he doesn't feel alone. 297 00:11:34,833 --> 00:11:36,542 - Yeah. Yeah, definitely. 298 00:11:36,667 --> 00:11:37,625 I'll definitely offer him that. 299 00:11:37,708 --> 00:11:39,333 - Yeah. 300 00:11:39,417 --> 00:11:41,667 - I want to support him in any way that I can. 301 00:11:41,792 --> 00:11:44,333 It's just--it's hard. 302 00:11:44,458 --> 00:11:45,125 ♪ 303 00:11:49,167 --> 00:11:54,208 ♪ 304 00:11:56,167 --> 00:12:00,500 - Trying to get my heart rate down. 305 00:12:00,583 --> 00:12:03,792 I've developed a heart condition. 306 00:12:03,875 --> 00:12:06,458 The doctors don't really have much to say, 307 00:12:06,542 --> 00:12:11,792 other than I'm going to need a procedure done on my heart. 308 00:12:11,875 --> 00:12:14,167 It's going to be sometime in the next couple of weeks. 309 00:12:14,292 --> 00:12:19,833 Did the stress of my separation from Clare 310 00:12:19,958 --> 00:12:22,250 lead to this heart problem? 311 00:12:22,333 --> 00:12:24,083 Yeah, yeah. 312 00:12:24,167 --> 00:12:25,875 It's probably something that was going to happen. 313 00:12:25,958 --> 00:12:27,667 Maybe it accelerated it. 314 00:12:27,750 --> 00:12:31,167 So I haven't been doing anything. 315 00:12:31,250 --> 00:12:36,833 Walking, meeting people, gets my heart rate over 100, 316 00:12:36,875 --> 00:12:39,667 and that's where I'll be causing 317 00:12:39,750 --> 00:12:41,250 permanent damage to my heart. 318 00:12:41,375 --> 00:12:45,167 So, you know, I haven't been meeting with experts. 319 00:12:45,292 --> 00:12:48,125 I haven't been doing anything really. 320 00:12:48,208 --> 00:12:50,917 ♪ 321 00:12:50,917 --> 00:12:53,458 I guess it's just not gonna go down. 322 00:12:53,542 --> 00:13:00,375 ♪ 323 00:13:01,625 --> 00:13:03,500 - ♪ Oh 324 00:13:03,625 --> 00:13:07,042 ♪ It's on the outside of the fire ♪ 325 00:13:07,167 --> 00:13:08,125 ♪ I got to get my heart's desire ♪ 326 00:13:08,208 --> 00:13:10,500 - So Lillie is on her way over 327 00:13:10,583 --> 00:13:12,375 and we're going to have a little chat. 328 00:13:12,500 --> 00:13:14,958 And I texted her yesterday 'cause I was so upset. 329 00:13:15,042 --> 00:13:17,875 So it'll be good to have her opinion there. 330 00:13:18,000 --> 00:13:20,000 [knocking on door] 331 00:13:20,042 --> 00:13:26,458 ♪ 332 00:13:26,542 --> 00:13:28,583 Honey! - Hi. 333 00:13:28,708 --> 00:13:30,125 - Oh, [indistinct]. 334 00:13:30,208 --> 00:13:31,750 - How are you? 335 00:13:31,833 --> 00:13:34,167 - You know, just hanging on. 336 00:13:34,250 --> 00:13:35,833 - [laughs] 337 00:13:35,875 --> 00:13:37,333 - I'm making us a salad 'cause I'm starving. 338 00:13:37,417 --> 00:13:39,833 - Oh, nice. Healthy. 339 00:13:39,917 --> 00:13:41,167 - No, it's because I realize, like, 340 00:13:41,292 --> 00:13:42,667 I haven't had arugula in so long, 341 00:13:42,708 --> 00:13:44,500 and Whole Foods always has it. - Nice. 342 00:13:44,625 --> 00:13:46,542 Oh, your prosciutto one. 343 00:13:46,625 --> 00:13:47,625 Nice. 344 00:13:47,708 --> 00:13:49,333 - How was your day? 345 00:13:49,417 --> 00:13:51,167 - It was long. - Yeah. 346 00:13:51,208 --> 00:13:54,500 I'm happy that we finally just have us time 347 00:13:54,542 --> 00:13:56,833 since I haven't seen you. 348 00:13:56,875 --> 00:13:58,917 Brennan's, like, why are you talking to Lillie? 349 00:13:59,000 --> 00:14:00,500 I'm like, I don't think you understand. 350 00:14:00,625 --> 00:14:02,083 This is so taxing. 351 00:14:02,167 --> 00:14:03,917 And, like, literally, like, even the other day, 352 00:14:04,000 --> 00:14:06,917 like, everything changes in a day. 353 00:14:07,000 --> 00:14:09,458 - Yeah, we'll need to unpack that. 354 00:14:09,542 --> 00:14:12,500 From what I've heard, things might not be going as well. 355 00:14:12,583 --> 00:14:15,792 - Um, so, like, want to migrate to the couch? 356 00:14:15,875 --> 00:14:17,417 - Yeah. 357 00:14:17,500 --> 00:14:19,167 - You know, I'm just going to bring the bottle of wine. 358 00:14:19,208 --> 00:14:22,708 Because realistically, that's going to be gone. 359 00:14:22,792 --> 00:14:24,333 Um... 360 00:14:24,375 --> 00:14:26,250 ♪ 361 00:14:26,375 --> 00:14:29,250 Where was I? 362 00:14:29,333 --> 00:14:31,792 So we have, like, our one month dinner, 363 00:14:31,875 --> 00:14:33,625 and I, like, lost my cool. 364 00:14:33,708 --> 00:14:35,000 And like, it's just, 365 00:14:35,083 --> 00:14:38,292 I don't deserve these lack of responses-- 366 00:14:38,375 --> 00:14:40,000 you looking miserable 367 00:14:40,042 --> 00:14:41,667 when other couples are getting divorced 368 00:14:41,750 --> 00:14:43,750 and they're talking more than us. 369 00:14:43,833 --> 00:14:45,417 If I'm not carrying the conversation, 370 00:14:45,500 --> 00:14:47,333 and, like, the same answers, "we're taking it day by day, 371 00:14:47,375 --> 00:14:48,958 and, like, we have fun." 372 00:14:49,042 --> 00:14:51,250 I'm, like, I just don't deserve that at all. 373 00:14:51,333 --> 00:14:52,875 - Do you think he's not showing up, 374 00:14:52,958 --> 00:14:54,750 or he's just, like, he's doing the best that he can, 375 00:14:54,833 --> 00:14:56,333 but it's, like, just not enough for you? 376 00:14:56,458 --> 00:14:59,167 - I think it's--like, I know he has this in him 377 00:14:59,250 --> 00:15:01,250 and that he's better than this. 378 00:15:01,375 --> 00:15:04,708 I'm just not--like, I'm tired of being this drain. 379 00:15:04,708 --> 00:15:09,167 And, like, him just--yeah, not really showing any effort. 380 00:15:09,250 --> 00:15:11,000 It's embarrassing, and it's, like, 381 00:15:11,083 --> 00:15:13,333 getting to the point, like, I feel stupid. 382 00:15:13,417 --> 00:15:15,667 And he never even knows when I'm upset, which is scary. 383 00:15:15,708 --> 00:15:19,833 I'm, like, everyone clearly saw I'm either smiling or I'm not. 384 00:15:19,917 --> 00:15:21,167 For someone, like-- that's another problem, 385 00:15:21,208 --> 00:15:23,042 is they have to tell you I'm upset. 386 00:15:23,125 --> 00:15:25,208 And I'm like, are you [bleep] kidding me? 387 00:15:25,292 --> 00:15:28,208 And that was literally the last straw. 388 00:15:28,292 --> 00:15:31,125 And then you're telling me that now you need space, 389 00:15:31,208 --> 00:15:32,875 when that was never the plan? 390 00:15:33,000 --> 00:15:36,583 I'm never going to win. 391 00:15:36,667 --> 00:15:39,667 - And he wouldn't give you any further details? 392 00:15:39,750 --> 00:15:43,417 - Um, he came to me with a solution. 393 00:16:05,542 --> 00:16:08,542 - It's like--it's just very much on his terms. 394 00:16:08,625 --> 00:16:13,000 - Well, why do you want to do the reset? 395 00:16:13,042 --> 00:16:15,167 - I mean, for me, I really want to, like, 396 00:16:15,208 --> 00:16:16,875 make sure we give our all to, like, figure this out. 397 00:16:16,958 --> 00:16:21,292 I really do think he cares, but he has no idea how to show it. 398 00:16:21,375 --> 00:16:23,542 - Yeah, I guess that's just, like, the thing that 399 00:16:23,625 --> 00:16:27,000 I feel like I've been continuing to say to you is, like, 400 00:16:27,042 --> 00:16:32,208 why are you trying so hard when he's not, 401 00:16:32,292 --> 00:16:34,000 or doesn't seem to be? 402 00:16:34,125 --> 00:16:36,167 - Because I know how he felt before. 403 00:16:36,208 --> 00:16:38,167 And I just don't believe him in all of this. 404 00:16:38,292 --> 00:16:39,583 Because I was, like-- something switched, 405 00:16:39,708 --> 00:16:42,000 and I think he, like, put a block or a hurdle up 406 00:16:42,083 --> 00:16:44,667 that has, like, created these issues 407 00:16:44,750 --> 00:16:47,375 when things were, like, progressing in the right way. 408 00:16:47,458 --> 00:16:49,125 - I mean, it's-- - And it's exhausting. 409 00:16:49,208 --> 00:16:52,583 - It's definitely, like, not great to be in a relationship 410 00:16:52,667 --> 00:16:57,792 with someone that doesn't make you feel great about yourself. 411 00:16:57,875 --> 00:17:01,667 I think you should use the time to, like-- 412 00:17:01,750 --> 00:17:04,500 try to step back because that's the hardest thing to do 413 00:17:04,583 --> 00:17:07,000 in a relationship, is when you're in it, 414 00:17:07,083 --> 00:17:09,833 it's, like, so hard to know what's happening 415 00:17:09,917 --> 00:17:11,125 and what's going on. 416 00:17:11,208 --> 00:17:14,417 Focus on how you can be better. 417 00:17:14,500 --> 00:17:15,750 - And that's what I told him last night-- 418 00:17:15,833 --> 00:17:18,500 - Yeah, and use it as, like, a growing opportunity. 419 00:17:18,583 --> 00:17:20,250 - I said I wouldn't be here if I didn't think 420 00:17:20,333 --> 00:17:21,792 there was still room for us to grow individually 421 00:17:21,875 --> 00:17:23,000 and collectively, and, like, 422 00:17:23,083 --> 00:17:24,875 if you keep not even giving me, like, 423 00:17:24,958 --> 00:17:28,875 the respect as a friend, that's where, like-- 424 00:17:29,000 --> 00:17:30,292 and we keep going at the rate we're going, 425 00:17:30,375 --> 00:17:33,333 like, I can't keep doing this. 426 00:17:33,417 --> 00:17:34,667 - Yeah. 427 00:17:34,792 --> 00:17:36,833 - ♪ Got to make a change 428 00:17:36,875 --> 00:17:39,375 ♪ Got to find a way 429 00:17:39,458 --> 00:17:46,500 ♪ 430 00:17:46,542 --> 00:17:48,542 - After Michael's first wedding 431 00:17:48,625 --> 00:17:51,583 didn't even get past the altar, we wanted to know 432 00:17:51,667 --> 00:17:54,125 if he was willing to take another chance. 433 00:17:54,208 --> 00:17:56,708 Would you want to face that moment again? 434 00:17:56,792 --> 00:18:00,250 - I would 100% do this again. 435 00:18:00,333 --> 00:18:03,125 - My fellow experts and I took some time to dive deeply 436 00:18:03,208 --> 00:18:05,625 into the pool of singles who had originally 437 00:18:05,708 --> 00:18:07,333 applied to be matched. 438 00:18:07,417 --> 00:18:08,958 - I've lived an unconventional life. 439 00:18:09,042 --> 00:18:12,125 I'm ready to meet my partner in a really unconventional way. 440 00:18:12,208 --> 00:18:14,542 - The first time around, we thought it was important 441 00:18:14,625 --> 00:18:18,167 to take into account Michael's elevated style and taste. 442 00:18:18,250 --> 00:18:19,750 - He definitely needs a wife 443 00:18:19,833 --> 00:18:22,292 that's going to be appreciative of his unique flair 444 00:18:22,375 --> 00:18:24,167 and standout personality. 445 00:18:24,208 --> 00:18:25,667 - How's she going to feel about his Gucci-- 446 00:18:25,708 --> 00:18:27,500 - And his Versace? Yeah. 447 00:18:27,542 --> 00:18:29,125 - You know, all his brand names. 448 00:18:29,208 --> 00:18:30,083 He loves to live large and beautifully. 449 00:18:30,167 --> 00:18:31,667 - Right. 450 00:18:31,708 --> 00:18:33,708 - But after we spent more time with Michael, 451 00:18:33,833 --> 00:18:37,583 he opened up to us about what he truly wants in a spouse. 452 00:18:37,667 --> 00:18:39,625 - I think maybe what I didn't articulate as well 453 00:18:39,708 --> 00:18:41,917 is how much I appreciate, like, silliness, too. 454 00:18:42,042 --> 00:18:43,542 - Mm. - I know it doesn't 455 00:18:43,625 --> 00:18:46,708 come out here as much, but I'm a pretty silly person. 456 00:18:46,792 --> 00:18:50,000 But I would also reiterate that sweetness, like-- 457 00:18:50,042 --> 00:18:52,292 yeah, you might be a hard ass at work, 458 00:18:52,292 --> 00:18:55,250 but there's that sweet nature 459 00:18:55,333 --> 00:18:58,167 that really you foster inside of you. 460 00:18:58,208 --> 00:19:01,208 - After making those qualities our top priority 461 00:19:01,292 --> 00:19:03,333 for finding Michael a new match, 462 00:19:03,417 --> 00:19:06,542 we realized that we already had the right woman for him. 463 00:19:06,625 --> 00:19:08,917 - I'm going to go to bat for Chloe. 464 00:19:09,000 --> 00:19:10,417 - Mm-hmm. 465 00:19:10,500 --> 00:19:12,625 - Because I think they could be a power couple. 466 00:19:12,708 --> 00:19:16,083 And also, I think she's-- she's much--she's very sweet. 467 00:19:16,167 --> 00:19:17,833 - Well-- - She's very kind. 468 00:19:17,875 --> 00:19:20,625 - She's very sweet, and I like that about her. 469 00:19:20,625 --> 00:19:22,458 - I really did like Chloe in the interview. 470 00:19:22,542 --> 00:19:24,333 And I got to do her home visit. 471 00:19:24,458 --> 00:19:26,417 I think she is an All-American sweetheart, right? 472 00:19:26,542 --> 00:19:28,417 She's the philanthropist. 473 00:19:28,500 --> 00:19:31,292 Being in her house, it was very minimalistic. 474 00:19:31,375 --> 00:19:33,958 Everything was just right, just so. 475 00:19:34,042 --> 00:19:34,917 - [giggles] - And why no-- 476 00:19:35,000 --> 00:19:36,375 why no nightstand? 477 00:19:36,458 --> 00:19:39,708 - Um, because I'm a minimalist. 478 00:19:39,833 --> 00:19:41,458 - You're a minimalist. 479 00:19:41,542 --> 00:19:43,000 - And I hate the aesthetic of just, like, chunky nightstands. 480 00:19:43,083 --> 00:19:44,667 - OK. 481 00:19:44,750 --> 00:19:47,042 So there's a certain level of rigidity that she has. 482 00:19:47,042 --> 00:19:49,708 I think that she is desperate for marriage. 483 00:19:49,792 --> 00:19:51,458 She is desperate for love. - She is. She is. 484 00:19:51,542 --> 00:19:53,250 - I mean, she's really in this for real. 485 00:19:53,333 --> 00:19:54,875 - I'm just ready for a good man. 486 00:19:54,958 --> 00:19:56,375 I'm 39. 487 00:19:56,500 --> 00:19:58,667 I've been dating for a really long time. 488 00:19:58,750 --> 00:20:01,167 And I've just been on the hunt for that man 489 00:20:01,250 --> 00:20:03,792 that was going to be an amazing match for me. 490 00:20:03,875 --> 00:20:06,000 - What kind of partner are you going to be? 491 00:20:06,083 --> 00:20:07,792 - As empathetic as I can be. 492 00:20:07,875 --> 00:20:09,833 I'm the person that just wants to love and be loved. 493 00:20:09,875 --> 00:20:11,167 - Yeah. 494 00:20:11,250 --> 00:20:13,292 - And so I'm here in hopes that 495 00:20:13,375 --> 00:20:15,458 we can find that person 496 00:20:15,542 --> 00:20:18,250 who also wants to love and be loved. 497 00:20:18,333 --> 00:20:19,667 - I think she's such a great woman. 498 00:20:19,750 --> 00:20:23,500 She's so warm, and so calm, and so, you know, 499 00:20:23,542 --> 00:20:26,083 empathic that I think she deserves 500 00:20:26,167 --> 00:20:27,667 someone to dote on her. - She does. 501 00:20:27,708 --> 00:20:29,500 - And maybe she just hasn't had that experience yet. 502 00:20:29,542 --> 00:20:31,833 - Based on the three core traits 503 00:20:31,917 --> 00:20:34,667 that Michael realized were essential for him 504 00:20:34,750 --> 00:20:37,500 in a partner, we decided that Chloe 505 00:20:37,583 --> 00:20:39,708 is the better choice for Michael. 506 00:20:39,833 --> 00:20:43,333 And we feel that Chloe, who is looking for a man with heart 507 00:20:43,375 --> 00:20:45,500 and substance, would do well with 508 00:20:45,542 --> 00:20:49,083 an eccentric and articulate professional like Michael. 509 00:20:49,167 --> 00:20:52,125 We're sure that she should have been standing at the altar 510 00:20:52,208 --> 00:20:54,500 the first time. 511 00:20:54,542 --> 00:20:57,375 - If you asked me in my early 20s 512 00:20:57,375 --> 00:21:00,458 what I wanted in a man, what I wanted then 513 00:21:00,542 --> 00:21:04,750 and what I want now are two completely different things. 514 00:21:04,875 --> 00:21:08,958 I have an opportunity to do something I've never imagined 515 00:21:09,042 --> 00:21:12,000 in my life doing ever. 516 00:21:12,125 --> 00:21:15,625 Really thinking about being married at first sight... 517 00:21:15,708 --> 00:21:18,083 - Oh, my God. 518 00:21:18,167 --> 00:21:20,125 [chuckles] Really? 519 00:21:20,208 --> 00:21:22,583 - I'm that person that for my whole life, 520 00:21:22,708 --> 00:21:27,333 I wanted to exude this very specific image 521 00:21:27,458 --> 00:21:32,000 of being super successful, and super capable, 522 00:21:32,042 --> 00:21:35,792 and able to take on the world, and didn't need anybody. 523 00:21:35,875 --> 00:21:39,500 I think that's why I ended up being in the relationships 524 00:21:39,542 --> 00:21:41,167 with the men that I was in 525 00:21:41,250 --> 00:21:44,000 because they were perfect on paper. 526 00:21:44,042 --> 00:21:47,000 - You're always in control of everything in your life. 527 00:21:47,042 --> 00:21:49,458 And this time-- - Not going to have control. 528 00:21:49,542 --> 00:21:51,333 - You have zero control. - No control. 529 00:21:51,417 --> 00:21:53,667 - And that's the beauty of it, I think. 530 00:21:53,750 --> 00:21:56,083 - I just think that now to be at this place, 531 00:21:56,208 --> 00:21:57,667 it just makes sense. 532 00:21:57,750 --> 00:22:00,500 And if it all comes to fruition, 533 00:22:00,625 --> 00:22:03,667 I feel like I'm going to have one heck of a story 534 00:22:03,750 --> 00:22:06,167 when we're 90 looking back on our lives. 535 00:22:06,250 --> 00:22:07,208 - All of us will. - It's like wow. 536 00:22:07,292 --> 00:22:09,000 [laughter] 537 00:22:09,042 --> 00:22:10,958 - Hi, everyone. 538 00:22:11,042 --> 00:22:12,708 Can I join you? - Hi. 539 00:22:12,792 --> 00:22:14,833 - Good to see you. - Oh, my goodness. 540 00:22:14,875 --> 00:22:16,875 Hi. [laughs] 541 00:22:16,958 --> 00:22:19,000 - Well--yes? 542 00:22:19,042 --> 00:22:20,083 I can sit down? - Yes. 543 00:22:20,208 --> 00:22:21,417 [laughter] 544 00:22:21,542 --> 00:22:23,000 - Chloe, you're so rude. 545 00:22:23,083 --> 00:22:25,292 [laughter] 546 00:22:25,375 --> 00:22:27,667 - So you are all friends of Chloe's, right? 547 00:22:27,750 --> 00:22:28,833 - We are. 548 00:22:28,875 --> 00:22:30,583 - Best friends. 549 00:22:30,667 --> 00:22:35,042 - So I am, you know, an expert in "Married at First Sight." 550 00:22:35,125 --> 00:22:38,125 And I'm here with good news. 551 00:22:38,208 --> 00:22:40,750 - I'm going to throw up. [laughs] 552 00:22:40,833 --> 00:22:42,833 - Throw up is not the response I want here. 553 00:22:42,875 --> 00:22:44,458 [laughs] 554 00:22:44,542 --> 00:22:47,458 You are going to be a wife in a couple of days. 555 00:22:47,542 --> 00:22:49,417 - Ah! - [gasps] 556 00:22:49,542 --> 00:22:51,167 - I know. I know. 557 00:22:51,208 --> 00:22:52,667 - Oh, my God! 558 00:22:52,708 --> 00:22:55,375 - You are going to be married at first sight. 559 00:22:55,458 --> 00:22:59,000 - Is that really happening? [laughter] 560 00:22:59,125 --> 00:23:01,667 - ♪ Because I get what I want when I want it, that's right ♪ 561 00:23:01,750 --> 00:23:04,250 ♪ Brand new car, better tell him that's mine ♪ 562 00:23:04,333 --> 00:23:05,500 ♪ Brand new girl, girl, that's my life ♪ 563 00:23:05,583 --> 00:23:07,333 - I really am a bleeding heart. 564 00:23:07,417 --> 00:23:10,875 So I took the nonprofit route in life. 565 00:23:10,958 --> 00:23:14,000 And so I am the senior director of development 566 00:23:14,083 --> 00:23:15,542 in the nonprofit sector. 567 00:23:15,625 --> 00:23:16,792 I feel like I can be passionate 568 00:23:16,875 --> 00:23:18,333 just about anything. 569 00:23:18,500 --> 00:23:23,167 But for me, I love all animals. 570 00:23:23,250 --> 00:23:25,542 Like, I would rescue a raccoon 571 00:23:25,625 --> 00:23:28,000 if I didn't think it would give me rabies. 572 00:23:28,042 --> 00:23:31,042 So I've had 10 senior pups 573 00:23:31,125 --> 00:23:33,750 in the past seven years. 574 00:23:33,875 --> 00:23:37,458 Anyone that needs a home, deserves one with me. 575 00:23:37,542 --> 00:23:40,375 - ♪ Can lead the life of my dreams ♪ 576 00:23:40,458 --> 00:23:44,167 - I am what I consider a recovering perfectionist. 577 00:23:44,250 --> 00:23:48,667 Whatever I felt I needed to be at the time, I went for it. 578 00:23:48,750 --> 00:23:50,958 And I went hard, you know, from having 579 00:23:51,042 --> 00:23:54,000 the perfect apartment, and the perfect car, 580 00:23:54,125 --> 00:23:55,500 and the perfect job. 581 00:23:55,542 --> 00:23:57,667 And so I spent a lot of time making sure 582 00:23:57,750 --> 00:23:59,833 that I never made mistakes. 583 00:23:59,917 --> 00:24:02,917 I was a 4.0 student all the way through my senior year 584 00:24:02,917 --> 00:24:04,375 of college. 585 00:24:04,542 --> 00:24:06,083 And I realized now I spent so much time 586 00:24:06,167 --> 00:24:07,792 focused on the destination. 587 00:24:07,875 --> 00:24:10,500 I didn't have any fun with the journey. 588 00:24:10,542 --> 00:24:13,167 - ♪ You just caught my attention ♪ 589 00:24:13,208 --> 00:24:16,167 - So when I think about my previous relationships, 590 00:24:16,292 --> 00:24:19,333 I absolutely, unequivocally, 591 00:24:19,375 --> 00:24:21,542 projected my own perfectionist tendencies. 592 00:24:21,625 --> 00:24:24,625 And because of that, 593 00:24:24,708 --> 00:24:27,833 partners I've had have never been as open. 594 00:24:27,917 --> 00:24:32,042 I think it boils down to an emotional unavailability. 595 00:24:32,125 --> 00:24:36,417 They weren't as available as I needed them to be. 596 00:24:36,500 --> 00:24:39,333 And therefore, that translated into 597 00:24:39,375 --> 00:24:42,667 probably some pretty unnecessary conflict. 598 00:24:42,750 --> 00:24:44,542 - ♪ Don't need another heartbreak ♪ 599 00:24:44,667 --> 00:24:47,833 - I was working obscene hours. 600 00:24:47,917 --> 00:24:51,667 And I realized that with every single passing moment, 601 00:24:51,708 --> 00:24:54,417 I was working myself to absolute death. 602 00:24:54,542 --> 00:24:57,375 ♪ 603 00:24:57,458 --> 00:25:01,542 Now, I try to find the fun in every situation 604 00:25:01,542 --> 00:25:03,750 no matter how boring and dull it might be. 605 00:25:03,833 --> 00:25:06,000 - ♪ Cause I'm alive 606 00:25:06,083 --> 00:25:07,792 - And I love being moved by the world. 607 00:25:07,875 --> 00:25:10,500 So I really try to immerse myself 608 00:25:10,542 --> 00:25:12,542 in all of the things that allow me to feel 609 00:25:12,625 --> 00:25:14,958 every single last emotions. 610 00:25:15,042 --> 00:25:19,833 I am more ready for marriage than I've ever been. 611 00:25:19,917 --> 00:25:24,000 I am excited about what I have to offer. 612 00:25:24,125 --> 00:25:26,958 And there's really no better time to find that partner 613 00:25:27,042 --> 00:25:29,708 than when you're whole. 614 00:25:29,792 --> 00:25:31,625 There's nothing I want more than the thought 615 00:25:31,708 --> 00:25:37,333 of growing super old together and dying "Notebook" style. 616 00:25:37,417 --> 00:25:39,500 Like, we're both just cuddled up in bed, 617 00:25:39,542 --> 00:25:42,292 and we say that's it, it's over. 618 00:25:42,375 --> 00:25:44,417 Cut scene. That would be awesome. 619 00:25:44,417 --> 00:25:47,500 ♪ 620 00:25:47,583 --> 00:25:49,833 I am obviously a little overwhelmed, 621 00:25:49,958 --> 00:25:54,083 and deeply, deeply, deeply, deeply grateful. 622 00:25:54,208 --> 00:25:59,833 - What about you made you pick this journey in the beginning? 623 00:25:59,875 --> 00:26:05,208 - I am a very strong woman, very independent woman. 624 00:26:05,292 --> 00:26:08,875 I'm also really, really ready for a partner, 625 00:26:08,875 --> 00:26:12,625 and someone that wants to do life with me. 626 00:26:12,708 --> 00:26:16,167 And I feel like I haven't found the right ways 627 00:26:16,250 --> 00:26:17,708 to find a partner. 628 00:26:17,708 --> 00:26:19,542 And you get to a point where you're like, well, dang, 629 00:26:19,625 --> 00:26:21,250 I don't think I want to try anymore. 630 00:26:21,333 --> 00:26:22,708 This is crazy. 631 00:26:22,792 --> 00:26:25,333 I think it's crazier not to do it. 632 00:26:25,417 --> 00:26:26,708 - Truth. 633 00:26:26,792 --> 00:26:30,458 - Well, OK, so what would you say 634 00:26:30,542 --> 00:26:32,708 that Chloe has to watch out for 635 00:26:32,792 --> 00:26:35,625 in order to be successful in this marriage? 636 00:26:35,708 --> 00:26:37,958 - I would say you always need to have 637 00:26:38,042 --> 00:26:43,542 an open mind to every argument that you guys might have. 638 00:26:43,708 --> 00:26:47,292 Open mind, open heart, being a good listener-- 639 00:26:47,375 --> 00:26:49,000 that's very important. 640 00:26:49,042 --> 00:26:50,833 - You mean, I can't be stubborn? 641 00:26:50,875 --> 00:26:52,667 And when I don't want to talk about it, slam the door? 642 00:26:52,750 --> 00:26:54,458 - Well, you can do that. [laughter] 643 00:26:54,542 --> 00:26:57,208 What's going to happen after? 644 00:26:57,292 --> 00:26:59,542 Based on what we said or not, what we just say-- 645 00:26:59,667 --> 00:27:01,500 - I think... 646 00:27:01,625 --> 00:27:04,000 ♪ 647 00:27:04,042 --> 00:27:06,333 Letting go. 648 00:27:06,375 --> 00:27:09,125 I've been in control of every decision I've ever made. 649 00:27:09,208 --> 00:27:11,583 I've been in control of everything I've ever done. 650 00:27:11,708 --> 00:27:12,833 And-- - Yes. 651 00:27:12,958 --> 00:27:17,167 - And I think just letting go, 652 00:27:17,208 --> 00:27:21,042 and feeling safe enough to allow someone in, 653 00:27:21,125 --> 00:27:23,083 someone that wants to take care of me, 654 00:27:23,208 --> 00:27:24,583 someone that wants to be with me, 655 00:27:24,708 --> 00:27:26,625 someone that wants to love me. 656 00:27:26,708 --> 00:27:28,667 And so now instead of being the person that's like, 657 00:27:28,792 --> 00:27:30,375 oh, gosh, this is going really well. 658 00:27:30,458 --> 00:27:31,958 When's the other shoe going to drop? 659 00:27:32,042 --> 00:27:35,125 It's settling into, wow, this is going really well. 660 00:27:35,208 --> 00:27:37,667 And it's just going to keep going really well. 661 00:27:37,792 --> 00:27:39,875 - All three of us experts really think the world 662 00:27:39,958 --> 00:27:41,792 of your future husband. 663 00:27:41,875 --> 00:27:43,708 - That's reassuring. That's--really is. 664 00:27:43,792 --> 00:27:45,792 - And I--100% behind that. 665 00:27:45,875 --> 00:27:48,000 I think the man you're going to marry 666 00:27:48,083 --> 00:27:51,583 has great capacity for a role as a husband and partner. 667 00:27:51,667 --> 00:27:52,958 I really do. 668 00:27:53,042 --> 00:27:54,667 - Does he know we're getting married? 669 00:27:54,750 --> 00:27:56,000 - He doesn't know who he's getting married. 670 00:27:56,083 --> 00:27:58,000 - But he knows he's getting married. 671 00:27:58,083 --> 00:27:59,208 - He knows he's getting married. 672 00:27:59,292 --> 00:28:01,167 - Oh, my gosh. - And he's all for it. 673 00:28:01,250 --> 00:28:07,000 And I believe he is completely committed to this process. 674 00:28:07,083 --> 00:28:10,875 We felt that telling Chloe about the unique circumstances 675 00:28:10,958 --> 00:28:13,167 of her marriage beforehand 676 00:28:13,292 --> 00:28:15,583 would create a lot of unnecessary doubt 677 00:28:15,667 --> 00:28:17,333 about the potential of the marriage. 678 00:28:17,417 --> 00:28:19,958 If she came into this marriage with uncertainty, 679 00:28:20,042 --> 00:28:22,625 she might put up walls that would prevent her from getting 680 00:28:22,708 --> 00:28:24,833 to know who Michael really is, 681 00:28:24,917 --> 00:28:28,750 and hurt their opportunity to have a lifetime together. 682 00:28:28,833 --> 00:28:31,667 - Well, we trust you to find her husband. 683 00:28:31,750 --> 00:28:33,083 So thank you so much. - That's done. 684 00:28:33,167 --> 00:28:34,458 - There you go. There you go. 685 00:28:34,458 --> 00:28:35,667 - The hard work is done. 686 00:28:35,750 --> 00:28:37,500 Now it's putting the actual work in. 687 00:28:37,542 --> 00:28:39,708 - Check. 688 00:28:39,792 --> 00:28:43,292 - I've never been more excited about anything 689 00:28:43,375 --> 00:28:45,167 in my entire life. 690 00:28:45,250 --> 00:28:48,333 ♪ 691 00:28:52,375 --> 00:28:57,792 ♪ 692 00:28:58,417 --> 00:28:59,375 - Ready, honey? - Mm-hmm. 693 00:28:59,458 --> 00:29:01,667 - It's fish time. 694 00:29:01,708 --> 00:29:03,458 Be free. 695 00:29:03,542 --> 00:29:05,875 - Yeah, sink that bad boy in. 696 00:29:05,958 --> 00:29:07,417 Oh, it's still in there. Still in there. 697 00:29:07,542 --> 00:29:09,750 - Ah! Oh, God. 698 00:29:09,833 --> 00:29:11,250 I almost killed him. 699 00:29:11,375 --> 00:29:12,750 - All right. 700 00:29:12,833 --> 00:29:14,417 - Look at how much space you guys have! 701 00:29:14,500 --> 00:29:16,917 - [chuckles] 702 00:29:17,000 --> 00:29:19,000 Not trapped in a plastic bag anymore. 703 00:29:19,125 --> 00:29:20,917 - No. 704 00:29:21,000 --> 00:29:24,000 - Becca and I, we both want to raise children together, 705 00:29:24,042 --> 00:29:27,875 but I think, you know, taking that leap right away 706 00:29:27,958 --> 00:29:29,667 might be, like, a little challenging. 707 00:29:29,750 --> 00:29:31,333 - Hi, honeys. 708 00:29:31,458 --> 00:29:35,917 - So we are substituting a kid for a couple fish. 709 00:29:35,917 --> 00:29:37,542 - Hey, little ladies. - It's the main one. 710 00:29:37,625 --> 00:29:39,333 Come on, come up to the top. 711 00:29:39,417 --> 00:29:41,125 Come eat your food. 712 00:29:41,208 --> 00:29:42,833 - Perfect. 713 00:29:42,875 --> 00:29:45,833 They said if whatever's not gone in three minutes, 714 00:29:45,875 --> 00:29:47,792 we take out. 715 00:29:47,875 --> 00:29:49,417 Wow! Look at 'em eat! 716 00:29:49,500 --> 00:29:51,167 - I know. 717 00:29:51,208 --> 00:29:52,667 - What is fish food? 'Cause it smells like fish. 718 00:29:52,708 --> 00:29:54,667 - They go up. 719 00:29:54,750 --> 00:29:57,083 - It's shrimp. 720 00:29:57,208 --> 00:29:58,500 - Shrimp flakes. 721 00:29:58,542 --> 00:29:59,833 - So they're-- they're cannibals. 722 00:29:59,917 --> 00:30:01,125 - Carnivores. 723 00:30:01,208 --> 00:30:02,875 - No, cannibals. 724 00:30:03,000 --> 00:30:04,500 Isn't a shrimp a fish? 725 00:30:04,583 --> 00:30:05,958 No. - Yeah. 726 00:30:06,042 --> 00:30:07,333 - Mm, I already said that out loud. 727 00:30:07,458 --> 00:30:10,167 - [chuckles] 728 00:30:10,208 --> 00:30:13,250 - Chicken of the sea, baby. 729 00:30:13,333 --> 00:30:15,292 It's fun to watch them. 730 00:30:15,375 --> 00:30:17,750 - You definitely got to have everyone up to see them. 731 00:30:17,750 --> 00:30:19,583 - Yeah. 732 00:30:19,708 --> 00:30:22,708 Like, when you have a new baby, and you have, like, a-- 733 00:30:22,792 --> 00:30:23,958 - Baby shower? - Christening? 734 00:30:24,042 --> 00:30:25,292 - A christening? - A baptism. 735 00:30:25,375 --> 00:30:26,375 - Oh. 736 00:30:26,500 --> 00:30:28,042 - I'll let us baptize our fish. 737 00:30:28,125 --> 00:30:30,333 - [chuckles] Interesting. 738 00:30:30,417 --> 00:30:31,833 All right. 739 00:30:31,875 --> 00:30:34,667 - The power of shrimp compels you. 740 00:30:34,750 --> 00:30:36,542 We'll be in the other room if you need us. 741 00:30:36,625 --> 00:30:43,417 ♪ 742 00:30:48,875 --> 00:30:50,792 - Since I saw you last, a lot has gone down. 743 00:30:50,875 --> 00:30:52,167 [chuckles] - Yeah. 744 00:30:52,250 --> 00:30:56,500 - And Cameron and I, you know, have separated. 745 00:30:56,542 --> 00:30:59,000 Um, 746 00:30:59,000 --> 00:31:01,250 so now I'm just kind of, like, hit with the reality 747 00:31:01,333 --> 00:31:04,333 of that, you know? 748 00:31:04,375 --> 00:31:06,250 - Yeah. 749 00:31:06,375 --> 00:31:09,625 - We realized we needed a time to just, like, be alone. 750 00:31:09,708 --> 00:31:11,250 - Yeah. 751 00:31:11,333 --> 00:31:13,250 - Because I think it was just getting to-- 752 00:31:13,333 --> 00:31:15,833 not a toxic point, but just, like, we were too in our heads. 753 00:31:15,917 --> 00:31:17,208 It just did not feel right for us. 754 00:31:17,292 --> 00:31:18,375 - Right. 755 00:31:18,458 --> 00:31:19,667 - And so we were like, we need to take time 756 00:31:19,708 --> 00:31:21,208 to just, like, separate. - Yeah. 757 00:31:21,292 --> 00:31:22,833 - And so that's where we're at. 758 00:31:22,875 --> 00:31:24,542 And then on top of that, 759 00:31:24,625 --> 00:31:26,417 he's having, like, health concerns. 760 00:31:26,500 --> 00:31:30,083 And so it's like, you know, we talk and I check in. 761 00:31:30,208 --> 00:31:31,625 And I'm trying to be as supportive as I can. 762 00:31:31,708 --> 00:31:33,375 - Yeah. 763 00:31:33,458 --> 00:31:37,833 - But I just feel like we're very much distant right now. 764 00:31:37,917 --> 00:31:39,958 And so that feels kind of strange 765 00:31:40,042 --> 00:31:42,583 to go from, like, literally being with someone 24/7. 766 00:31:42,667 --> 00:31:43,917 - Totally. - All the time, 767 00:31:44,000 --> 00:31:45,500 talking all the time, to just nothing. 768 00:31:45,542 --> 00:31:47,583 - Also, not even 24/7. 769 00:31:47,667 --> 00:31:49,792 But the first time you meet, 770 00:31:49,875 --> 00:31:51,458 and then you're with someone, like, 24/7. 771 00:31:51,542 --> 00:31:52,958 - Constantly. - Like, that's really crazy. 772 00:31:53,042 --> 00:31:54,625 - It was not a gradual thing. 773 00:31:54,708 --> 00:31:56,000 It was like boom, we're together, 774 00:31:56,083 --> 00:31:57,792 and now boom, we're apart all of a sudden. 775 00:31:57,875 --> 00:31:59,333 - Totally. 776 00:31:59,375 --> 00:32:01,833 - So it feels like empty and a little bit sad. 777 00:32:01,917 --> 00:32:04,083 - So since you and Cameron have been apart, 778 00:32:04,208 --> 00:32:05,792 like, how has that been for you? 779 00:32:05,917 --> 00:32:07,833 - There's good parts, and there's bad-- 780 00:32:07,917 --> 00:32:09,917 - Yeah. - Parts. 781 00:32:10,000 --> 00:32:11,167 The good parts are it's like, wow, 782 00:32:11,208 --> 00:32:12,917 I'm getting moments to reflect. 783 00:32:13,000 --> 00:32:14,750 I now have that space to be like, 784 00:32:14,833 --> 00:32:17,208 oh, this is what happened in the past couple of weeks 785 00:32:17,292 --> 00:32:19,625 where when I was in it, it was hard to see beyond that. 786 00:32:19,708 --> 00:32:21,333 - Yeah. - And I think, you know-- 787 00:32:21,417 --> 00:32:23,792 the bad part of it is just, like, it is sad 788 00:32:23,875 --> 00:32:26,667 because to go from conversation 789 00:32:26,708 --> 00:32:29,292 and feeling very open with another human being, 790 00:32:29,375 --> 00:32:30,792 and having that reciprocated, 791 00:32:30,875 --> 00:32:32,458 like, that was a really good feeling. 792 00:32:32,542 --> 00:32:33,958 And then all of a sudden, it was like, 793 00:32:34,042 --> 00:32:35,167 all right, that's gone. - Yeah. 794 00:32:35,250 --> 00:32:36,500 - Later. 795 00:32:36,583 --> 00:32:38,333 I hope you had fun with that because it's gone. 796 00:32:38,375 --> 00:32:39,833 And it's like whoa, that just-- 797 00:32:39,917 --> 00:32:42,042 it was a little too immediate for me. 798 00:32:42,125 --> 00:32:45,333 It might have not have gone maybe 799 00:32:45,417 --> 00:32:48,667 how we wanted it to, or maybe expected it to, 800 00:32:48,792 --> 00:32:50,375 or hoped it to. - Yeah. Mm-hmm. 801 00:32:50,458 --> 00:32:53,417 - But it did go a lot better than it could have, you know? 802 00:32:53,500 --> 00:32:56,167 - Totally. Totally. - He's a nice guy. 803 00:32:56,250 --> 00:32:57,833 - Right. - You're lovely. 804 00:32:57,875 --> 00:32:59,375 You guys seem to get along. 805 00:32:59,500 --> 00:33:01,500 And I think that that's really important as well. 806 00:33:01,542 --> 00:33:03,500 - This person is an important person to me. 807 00:33:03,583 --> 00:33:05,958 And so the relationship I wanted to continue to develop 808 00:33:06,042 --> 00:33:07,542 is just, like, the checking in, 809 00:33:07,667 --> 00:33:10,125 the supporting, the being there for one another, 810 00:33:10,208 --> 00:33:12,500 and he doesn't really have family here 811 00:33:12,542 --> 00:33:14,792 to support him during his medical stuff. 812 00:33:14,875 --> 00:33:16,333 - Totally. 813 00:33:16,417 --> 00:33:17,833 - And so if I can be any source of that-- 814 00:33:17,875 --> 00:33:20,125 I mean, I got a whole family here, who's ready to love, 815 00:33:20,208 --> 00:33:22,333 support, and I think part of that 816 00:33:22,375 --> 00:33:24,167 is, like, maybe we were meant to be in each other's life, 817 00:33:24,250 --> 00:33:25,708 you know? - Yeah. 818 00:33:25,792 --> 00:33:29,417 - So I'm looking beyond just, like, the marriage title. 819 00:33:29,500 --> 00:33:31,333 You know? Because it's--our relationship 820 00:33:31,375 --> 00:33:33,333 is so much more than that title. 821 00:33:33,417 --> 00:33:35,250 You know, there's some sort of, like, man, 822 00:33:35,333 --> 00:33:37,708 I wish this could have been a relationship kind of thing. 823 00:33:37,792 --> 00:33:40,000 Like, he was all the things that I asked for. 824 00:33:40,083 --> 00:33:43,333 He was goofy, you know, smart-- - Athletic. 825 00:33:43,458 --> 00:33:47,125 - Athletic, genuine, outgoing, and a kind person. 826 00:33:47,208 --> 00:33:50,500 It's just the compatibility part. 827 00:33:50,625 --> 00:33:52,333 - Yeah. 828 00:33:52,417 --> 00:33:55,000 - And so for me, I'm mourning the loss of what I thought 829 00:33:55,042 --> 00:33:59,667 could be, you know, an eternal marriage. 830 00:33:59,708 --> 00:34:03,792 - I think what makes a good relationship, in general-- 831 00:34:03,875 --> 00:34:05,333 - Mm-hmm. 832 00:34:05,375 --> 00:34:07,125 - Is having some type of friendship. 833 00:34:07,208 --> 00:34:09,042 - Right. Right. - You know? 834 00:34:09,125 --> 00:34:11,583 Down the line, could have developed. 835 00:34:11,667 --> 00:34:13,250 - Who's to say? 836 00:34:13,250 --> 00:34:15,625 ♪ 837 00:34:15,708 --> 00:34:16,625 Yeah. 838 00:34:21,333 --> 00:34:22,708 - ♪ Oh 839 00:34:22,792 --> 00:34:25,167 ♪ You changed my heart 840 00:34:25,208 --> 00:34:27,208 - Hi, there. - Hello. 841 00:34:27,292 --> 00:34:28,542 - Good to see you. - Good to see you. 842 00:34:28,625 --> 00:34:31,083 - Don't you look gorgeous. - Thank you. 843 00:34:31,167 --> 00:34:34,375 This Dr. Pepper visit is going to be interesting, 844 00:34:34,458 --> 00:34:36,875 considering we haven't spoken too much 845 00:34:36,958 --> 00:34:39,167 since the one month dinner. 846 00:34:39,292 --> 00:34:41,625 It was Brennan's idea to, like, do a little reset. 847 00:34:41,708 --> 00:34:44,833 And I'm simply just going along with that 848 00:34:44,875 --> 00:34:48,875 because I think this will be our best opportunity 849 00:34:49,000 --> 00:34:50,417 to figure this out. 850 00:34:50,417 --> 00:34:54,000 So I really, like, honestly am hoping she can help us 851 00:34:54,083 --> 00:34:56,000 navigate this marriage. 852 00:34:56,083 --> 00:34:59,667 - I understand that it has 853 00:34:59,792 --> 00:35:04,333 not been exactly a romantic time. 854 00:35:04,417 --> 00:35:06,500 Tell me about what's been going on with you two. 855 00:35:06,542 --> 00:35:10,333 - We've tried, you know, to the best of our abilities 856 00:35:10,417 --> 00:35:12,708 what we thought was in our capabilities 857 00:35:12,833 --> 00:35:18,000 and just reached a point where it's like, what do we do? 858 00:35:18,083 --> 00:35:20,333 Do we just reset and try something fresh, 859 00:35:20,375 --> 00:35:24,208 and just take the pressure off, and just enjoy each other and-- 860 00:35:24,292 --> 00:35:27,542 - Could you define reset for me? 861 00:35:27,625 --> 00:35:30,167 ♪ 862 00:35:30,250 --> 00:35:32,417 - Like, literally starting from, 863 00:35:32,500 --> 00:35:34,083 hey, I'm Brennan, hi, I'm Emily. 864 00:35:34,167 --> 00:35:35,833 And going from there. 865 00:35:35,875 --> 00:35:39,125 Just making sure that we're not crossing boundaries. 866 00:35:39,208 --> 00:35:40,833 And we're establishing those 867 00:35:40,958 --> 00:35:42,083 and respecting each other's boundaries. 868 00:35:42,208 --> 00:35:44,958 - OK. 869 00:35:45,042 --> 00:35:46,167 What are the boundaries you have 870 00:35:46,250 --> 00:35:47,667 that need to be respected? 871 00:35:47,792 --> 00:35:50,042 - Just being cognizant that it's OK to take time 872 00:35:50,042 --> 00:35:51,500 for yourself through all this. 873 00:35:51,583 --> 00:35:53,958 And I think it'll be good for us to do that. 874 00:35:54,042 --> 00:35:56,208 So just respecting that, and not, like, 875 00:35:56,333 --> 00:35:59,000 making it seem like it's a big deal or anything. 876 00:35:59,125 --> 00:36:01,375 So instead of focusing on the marriage, 877 00:36:01,458 --> 00:36:04,250 just focus on the friendship and take all the pressure off, 878 00:36:04,333 --> 00:36:06,708 and do something completely different 879 00:36:06,792 --> 00:36:10,833 than what is expected of us. 880 00:36:10,917 --> 00:36:12,417 - OK. 881 00:36:12,417 --> 00:36:16,000 So when you say focus on the friendship, 882 00:36:16,083 --> 00:36:17,333 is this--by the way, 883 00:36:17,333 --> 00:36:19,875 is that what you also think reset means? 884 00:36:19,958 --> 00:36:21,333 - Yeah. 885 00:36:21,417 --> 00:36:23,250 I think, like, with some less pressure, 886 00:36:23,333 --> 00:36:25,500 that'll be our best opportunity for us to, like, 887 00:36:25,542 --> 00:36:28,250 say we tried everything, and for time to just naturally, 888 00:36:28,333 --> 00:36:31,333 like, clarify what our future is. 889 00:36:31,417 --> 00:36:34,375 - OK. Just trying to get what we're doing here. 890 00:36:34,458 --> 00:36:36,708 - Yeah. 891 00:36:36,792 --> 00:36:39,083 - When you say friendship, 892 00:36:39,208 --> 00:36:41,792 you know, I think of two kinds of friendships. 893 00:36:41,875 --> 00:36:43,500 - OK. 894 00:36:43,583 --> 00:36:46,375 - I think of people I hang out with, I enjoy, et cetera. 895 00:36:46,500 --> 00:36:48,625 And then I think of my really close friends. 896 00:36:48,708 --> 00:36:50,667 Those are really meaningful friendships. 897 00:36:50,708 --> 00:36:52,208 - Yeah. 898 00:36:52,292 --> 00:36:55,500 - Which of these two are you two talking about? 899 00:36:55,542 --> 00:36:58,292 - I think we're figuring that out. 900 00:36:58,375 --> 00:37:00,083 Because we don't want to give up. 901 00:37:00,167 --> 00:37:02,833 And that was-- 902 00:37:02,875 --> 00:37:07,500 the last thing we could think of in terms of a solution, so... 903 00:37:07,583 --> 00:37:09,833 ♪ 904 00:37:09,875 --> 00:37:11,333 - Yeah, I think what's most important is, like, 905 00:37:11,375 --> 00:37:14,000 we just want to be in each other's lives. 906 00:37:14,000 --> 00:37:16,708 ♪ 907 00:37:16,792 --> 00:37:19,833 - I mean, obviously, 908 00:37:19,875 --> 00:37:21,958 what we want is something... 909 00:37:22,042 --> 00:37:25,667 [chuckles] More, um, 910 00:37:25,750 --> 00:37:27,708 of a romantic bond. 911 00:37:27,792 --> 00:37:29,333 - Yeah. - Yeah. 912 00:37:29,375 --> 00:37:32,750 - But--but sometimes that doesn't immediately happen. 913 00:37:32,833 --> 00:37:33,875 - Mm-hmm. 914 00:37:34,042 --> 00:37:36,333 - Tell me a little bit 915 00:37:36,417 --> 00:37:39,125 about what you really like about each other. 916 00:37:39,208 --> 00:37:41,625 Give me five things that 917 00:37:41,708 --> 00:37:44,000 you think are really great about her. 918 00:37:44,042 --> 00:37:47,625 - Um... 919 00:37:47,708 --> 00:37:49,167 ♪ 920 00:37:49,250 --> 00:37:50,708 I think she's really caring. 921 00:37:50,792 --> 00:37:52,833 Um... 922 00:37:52,917 --> 00:37:54,833 Uhm... 923 00:37:54,917 --> 00:37:59,542 ♪ 924 00:37:59,625 --> 00:38:03,375 I think she's really awesome to hang out with. 925 00:38:03,500 --> 00:38:07,500 Um, and I think we just have a lot of fun together. 926 00:38:07,583 --> 00:38:10,333 So I appreciate her for all those things. 927 00:38:10,375 --> 00:38:13,958 - Um, I would say you are caring, loyal, 928 00:38:14,042 --> 00:38:18,708 smart, funny, and trustworthy. 929 00:38:18,792 --> 00:38:21,417 - I like your list a little better than your list. 930 00:38:21,417 --> 00:38:22,833 [laughs] - That's usually how this goes. 931 00:38:22,958 --> 00:38:25,667 - Is it? - I use more words. 932 00:38:25,750 --> 00:38:27,542 - Obviously, we're starting off in a place 933 00:38:27,625 --> 00:38:29,167 we don't like to start off in. 934 00:38:29,208 --> 00:38:31,708 ♪ 935 00:38:31,792 --> 00:38:33,667 But given that there are things 936 00:38:33,750 --> 00:38:37,500 that you really like about each other, 937 00:38:37,583 --> 00:38:40,542 I think maybe what we try and do 938 00:38:40,625 --> 00:38:42,833 is build an intimate friendship here, 939 00:38:42,917 --> 00:38:46,542 to know, and like, and respect each other even more. 940 00:38:46,625 --> 00:38:48,417 You know, hopefully, it can build 941 00:38:48,500 --> 00:38:50,500 another way through liking and enjoying 942 00:38:50,583 --> 00:38:52,333 that person's company. - Yeah. 943 00:38:52,375 --> 00:38:54,333 - Where all that is. - And, like, I want to be clear 944 00:38:54,375 --> 00:38:58,000 that, like, I still have some sort of hope 945 00:38:58,042 --> 00:39:02,583 because of our strong emotional connection. 946 00:39:02,667 --> 00:39:05,167 - She talks about a strong emotional connection. 947 00:39:05,208 --> 00:39:06,250 Do you feel that as well? 948 00:39:06,250 --> 00:39:09,333 - Yeah, absolutely. 949 00:39:09,375 --> 00:39:11,375 - So what is it about each other 950 00:39:11,500 --> 00:39:15,000 that creates the strong emotional connection? 951 00:39:15,083 --> 00:39:16,667 - I think it's our values. 952 00:39:16,708 --> 00:39:18,417 You know, we have the same goals 953 00:39:18,542 --> 00:39:20,958 on how relationships should be, you know, 954 00:39:21,042 --> 00:39:23,500 raising kids, religion. 955 00:39:23,583 --> 00:39:26,500 So it just makes it really easy to talk about stuff. 956 00:39:26,583 --> 00:39:28,792 - I think we have a lot of room to grow there 957 00:39:28,875 --> 00:39:31,333 and, like, continue to, like, build that. 958 00:39:31,375 --> 00:39:33,625 And that's what we were going to work on. 959 00:39:33,625 --> 00:39:35,625 I think that has to build in order for us 960 00:39:35,708 --> 00:39:40,708 to fully understand if this will or will not work. 961 00:39:40,792 --> 00:39:44,583 - Well, I think my hope for you would be to keep discovering 962 00:39:44,667 --> 00:39:49,375 things about each other that are meaningful and important, 963 00:39:49,500 --> 00:39:52,667 and allow yourself to be vulnerable-- 964 00:39:52,708 --> 00:39:55,083 that is, to say things about yourself, 965 00:39:55,208 --> 00:39:57,042 or share things about yourself. 966 00:39:57,125 --> 00:40:00,750 I think part of what you should do is a fishbowl. 967 00:40:00,875 --> 00:40:03,208 You put a lot of questions in the fishbowl 968 00:40:03,292 --> 00:40:05,208 that you can ask each other. 969 00:40:05,292 --> 00:40:09,208 They're all values, thoughts, 970 00:40:09,333 --> 00:40:12,000 experiences, sharing. 971 00:40:12,042 --> 00:40:13,667 ♪ 972 00:40:13,750 --> 00:40:17,125 There's a whole life to draw in here. 973 00:40:17,208 --> 00:40:21,208 And then I would say is to have fun, share a lot, 974 00:40:21,292 --> 00:40:23,917 be vulnerable, be kind, 975 00:40:24,000 --> 00:40:27,292 and remember all the good things about this person. 976 00:40:27,375 --> 00:40:30,750 - ♪ I will walk through the fire ♪ 977 00:40:30,875 --> 00:40:32,917 ♪ Yeah 978 00:40:37,042 --> 00:40:41,833 ♪ 979 00:40:41,958 --> 00:40:43,167 - How do you think tonight went? 980 00:40:43,208 --> 00:40:45,292 - Good. 981 00:40:45,375 --> 00:40:46,917 Yeah. - Yeah. 982 00:40:47,042 --> 00:40:50,833 - I think tonight went as well as it could. 983 00:40:50,917 --> 00:40:53,875 I think this will be our best opportunity 984 00:40:53,958 --> 00:40:58,208 to figure this out--what exactly we are at the end of this. 985 00:40:58,333 --> 00:41:02,958 And hopefully, we are able to get romantic, stay married. 986 00:41:03,042 --> 00:41:04,375 I feel, like, if you feel good about it, 987 00:41:04,458 --> 00:41:05,625 I feel good about it. 988 00:41:05,708 --> 00:41:08,500 - I feel great. - Mm-hmm. 989 00:41:08,542 --> 00:41:12,167 - I thought she was really sweet and reflective. 990 00:41:12,208 --> 00:41:16,167 And I liked her tasks, so... 991 00:41:16,167 --> 00:41:19,667 - I think these are tasks we absolutely should do. 992 00:41:19,708 --> 00:41:21,167 - Yeah. 993 00:41:21,208 --> 00:41:23,375 - They're very attainable. 994 00:41:23,542 --> 00:41:26,042 - Something to look forward to. 995 00:41:26,042 --> 00:41:27,833 - Mm-hmm. I agree. 996 00:41:27,875 --> 00:41:29,875 ♪ 997 00:41:29,875 --> 00:41:34,417 In order for this to work, he needs to still be vulnerable 998 00:41:34,542 --> 00:41:36,417 and he still needs to be open. 999 00:41:36,500 --> 00:41:38,167 If we're going to do this reset, 1000 00:41:38,250 --> 00:41:42,292 like, we really have to do it and do it right from the start. 1001 00:41:42,375 --> 00:41:49,083 ♪ 1002 00:41:50,708 --> 00:41:53,875 - So I got rid of all the old wedding gifts. 1003 00:41:53,958 --> 00:41:57,583 I wanted to really kind of, you know, reflect my commitment 1004 00:41:57,708 --> 00:42:00,500 and dedication to this journey. 1005 00:42:00,583 --> 00:42:04,208 For me, it's really been about setting the proper tone, 1006 00:42:04,333 --> 00:42:05,750 especially this time around. 1007 00:42:05,833 --> 00:42:08,042 I really want to seize that opportunity 1008 00:42:08,125 --> 00:42:10,000 to get her excited, to get her happy, 1009 00:42:10,083 --> 00:42:12,500 to let her know that this is going to be a great journey 1010 00:42:12,583 --> 00:42:14,917 for the both of us. 1011 00:42:15,000 --> 00:42:17,875 - ♪ Something, baby, that way you move ♪ 1012 00:42:17,958 --> 00:42:20,500 ♪ Yeah, it's so good, so right ♪ 1013 00:42:20,625 --> 00:42:21,583 ♪ It's that look in your eyes ♪ 1014 00:42:21,583 --> 00:42:22,792 - Hi. - Hey. 1015 00:42:22,875 --> 00:42:24,458 - Welcome to [indistinct] Bridal. 1016 00:42:24,542 --> 00:42:26,833 - Hi. Thank you. - Hi. I'm Toby. 1017 00:42:26,875 --> 00:42:29,083 - I'm Chloe, the bride. - Nice to meet you. 1018 00:42:29,167 --> 00:42:30,667 - [giggles] Oh, my gosh. 1019 00:42:30,708 --> 00:42:32,458 I never in a million years imagined 1020 00:42:32,542 --> 00:42:34,042 I would be wedding dress shopping. 1021 00:42:34,167 --> 00:42:35,333 [cork pops] - Ooh. 1022 00:42:35,375 --> 00:42:36,875 - Yeah. - Fabulous. 1023 00:42:36,958 --> 00:42:38,917 - I pictured when I met my partner 1024 00:42:39,000 --> 00:42:41,542 and we decided to commit to one another forever 1025 00:42:41,625 --> 00:42:45,042 that we would be eloping on a mountaintop somewhere. 1026 00:42:45,042 --> 00:42:47,375 So very nervous about finding the right dress, 1027 00:42:47,458 --> 00:42:50,458 but I'm also really excited. 1028 00:42:50,542 --> 00:42:52,583 What is calling out? 1029 00:42:52,667 --> 00:42:54,875 I just know it's going to speak to me. 1030 00:42:54,875 --> 00:42:56,958 I'm just going to walk by it, and it's going to call out. 1031 00:42:57,042 --> 00:42:59,458 - It will. Yes. - Say, Chloe, I'm here. 1032 00:42:59,542 --> 00:43:01,000 - [chuckles] I was made for you. 1033 00:43:01,125 --> 00:43:03,000 - I was made for you. 1034 00:43:03,167 --> 00:43:05,375 Just like your soon-to-be stranger husband 1035 00:43:05,500 --> 00:43:06,500 was made for you. 1036 00:43:06,500 --> 00:43:08,208 I can feel it. 1037 00:43:08,333 --> 00:43:09,375 The fact that I'm here, and now, 1038 00:43:09,458 --> 00:43:11,125 looking for my wedding dress, 1039 00:43:11,208 --> 00:43:13,375 getting ready to have this amazing wedding 1040 00:43:13,458 --> 00:43:14,458 with the man of my dreams. 1041 00:43:14,542 --> 00:43:17,417 It's kind of surreal. 1042 00:43:17,500 --> 00:43:19,917 I think I am finally at a place where 1043 00:43:20,000 --> 00:43:21,833 I've learned to stop trying to control the outcome 1044 00:43:21,917 --> 00:43:23,417 and just enjoy the journey. 1045 00:43:23,500 --> 00:43:26,167 And that's a little scary. 1046 00:43:26,250 --> 00:43:29,875 But it's also something that's such a great feeling. 1047 00:43:29,958 --> 00:43:32,750 I am definitely more brave and bold 1048 00:43:32,833 --> 00:43:34,875 than I should be in a lot of ways. 1049 00:43:34,958 --> 00:43:38,458 But I mean, got me here. So I am so excited to be here. 1050 00:43:38,542 --> 00:43:39,875 I can't believe we're here. [chuckles] 1051 00:43:40,000 --> 00:43:41,667 - I know, but we are. It's happening. 1052 00:43:41,750 --> 00:43:44,417 - We are. It's happening. 1053 00:43:44,500 --> 00:43:45,750 In just a few days. 1054 00:43:45,875 --> 00:43:47,458 - So do you have any insecurities 1055 00:43:47,542 --> 00:43:50,042 about when he sees you? 1056 00:43:50,125 --> 00:43:52,750 - Oh, every single time, I think about it. 1057 00:43:52,833 --> 00:43:54,167 Every single time-- - Why, though? 1058 00:43:54,208 --> 00:43:55,667 - I think about it. I don't know. 1059 00:43:55,792 --> 00:43:58,708 It's like, I know I'm going to like him. 1060 00:43:58,833 --> 00:44:01,167 I can feel it with every fiber of my being. 1061 00:44:01,167 --> 00:44:04,208 I know that the experts have matched me 1062 00:44:04,333 --> 00:44:08,042 with someone that they feel wholeheartedly is my person. 1063 00:44:08,042 --> 00:44:09,333 I know that with my whole heart. 1064 00:44:09,417 --> 00:44:12,167 There's no doubt in my mind. 1065 00:44:12,208 --> 00:44:14,875 But what if he's got this vision of 1066 00:44:15,000 --> 00:44:17,667 the wife that he was expecting. 1067 00:44:17,750 --> 00:44:20,458 And all of a sudden, I've got to stand 1068 00:44:20,542 --> 00:44:23,125 at the end of this aisle, looking at this man in the eye. 1069 00:44:23,208 --> 00:44:25,542 And he's like, oh, no. 1070 00:44:25,667 --> 00:44:26,625 - You're underestimating yourself. 1071 00:44:26,708 --> 00:44:27,833 - Ugh. - Absolutely. 1072 00:44:27,875 --> 00:44:28,750 - Can you stop that? - It's so scary. 1073 00:44:28,875 --> 00:44:30,667 It's just such a scary thought. 1074 00:44:30,708 --> 00:44:34,292 And I, more than anything, just want for him to say, 1075 00:44:34,375 --> 00:44:36,250 she's exactly what I want. 1076 00:44:36,375 --> 00:44:38,125 - I do. - I do. 1077 00:44:38,208 --> 00:44:39,500 [laughter] 1078 00:44:39,583 --> 00:44:40,750 - Oh. - Me, too. 1079 00:44:40,875 --> 00:44:43,000 - Wow, here she comes. 1080 00:44:43,083 --> 00:44:45,000 Hope he likes pink. - Good luck. 1081 00:44:45,083 --> 00:44:46,375 - OK. 1082 00:44:46,458 --> 00:44:49,417 ♪ 1083 00:44:49,542 --> 00:44:51,208 - You got this. - I'll be back. 1084 00:44:51,292 --> 00:44:52,458 - [chuckles] Ohh, we'll be right here. 1085 00:44:52,542 --> 00:44:54,250 - [laughs] 1086 00:44:54,333 --> 00:44:56,000 - She's too calm about-- 1087 00:44:56,042 --> 00:44:57,792 like, she's keeping it together really well. 1088 00:44:57,875 --> 00:44:59,083 - Yeah. - [laughs] 1089 00:44:59,167 --> 00:45:00,708 - And then some. 1090 00:45:00,792 --> 00:45:02,792 When she told me this was happening, I was like, what? 1091 00:45:02,875 --> 00:45:04,625 You're doing what? - I know. 1092 00:45:04,708 --> 00:45:07,333 - Dress number one. - We're ready. 1093 00:45:07,375 --> 00:45:09,000 ♪ 1094 00:45:09,083 --> 00:45:10,833 [gasps] 1095 00:45:10,917 --> 00:45:12,375 - You look so cute. - Wow! 1096 00:45:12,500 --> 00:45:13,500 - Gorgeous. 1097 00:45:13,542 --> 00:45:15,167 - [chuckles] 1098 00:45:15,208 --> 00:45:17,042 - Oh. 1099 00:45:17,125 --> 00:45:18,417 - What do you think? Like-- 1100 00:45:18,500 --> 00:45:20,542 - [giggles] I feel like-- 1101 00:45:20,625 --> 00:45:21,958 - Do you feel like a princess? 1102 00:45:22,042 --> 00:45:23,833 - Cotton candy dream. 1103 00:45:23,917 --> 00:45:25,958 - That's what I was going for. [laughter] 1104 00:45:26,042 --> 00:45:27,417 She looked like cotton candy. 1105 00:45:27,542 --> 00:45:30,000 - I feel like a cotton candy dream. 1106 00:45:30,083 --> 00:45:34,417 What do you think my husband is going to think? 1107 00:45:34,500 --> 00:45:38,167 - I think it definitely makes the first impression. 1108 00:45:38,250 --> 00:45:39,417 That's a statement. 1109 00:45:39,542 --> 00:45:42,708 This was-- probably make him feel 1110 00:45:42,792 --> 00:45:45,125 a little bit uncertain of our future. 1111 00:45:45,208 --> 00:45:46,625 [laughter] 1112 00:45:46,708 --> 00:45:49,333 - Intimidated, for sure. That's great, that. 1113 00:45:49,375 --> 00:45:52,458 - I think that it's a little bit of a selfish choice. 1114 00:45:52,458 --> 00:45:56,417 If I walk out of this, I've made the day all about me. 1115 00:45:56,500 --> 00:45:59,000 I want to make the day about us. 1116 00:45:59,042 --> 00:46:00,583 I think we're going to keep looking. 1117 00:46:00,708 --> 00:46:02,333 - On to the next one. 1118 00:46:02,417 --> 00:46:04,167 - Yes. 1119 00:46:04,250 --> 00:46:05,958 - I can't wait. 1120 00:46:06,042 --> 00:46:08,208 I honestly--I'm so curious to see, like, what he's like, 1121 00:46:08,292 --> 00:46:10,958 and see if he's kind because I think that's what 1122 00:46:11,042 --> 00:46:14,167 we all need in a partner. 1123 00:46:14,208 --> 00:46:15,833 And so I can't wait to see, like, 1124 00:46:15,917 --> 00:46:17,875 who she is actually matched with. 1125 00:46:17,875 --> 00:46:19,500 [both gasp] 1126 00:46:19,542 --> 00:46:21,667 - Wow! 1127 00:46:21,792 --> 00:46:25,000 - ♪ Hello, Mr. Sun, shining on me ♪ 1128 00:46:25,042 --> 00:46:27,667 ♪ We're dancing on the yard 1129 00:46:27,667 --> 00:46:29,583 - Wow. OK. 1130 00:46:29,667 --> 00:46:32,667 Now we're talking. [laughs] 1131 00:46:32,750 --> 00:46:34,250 - ♪ Hello 1132 00:46:34,375 --> 00:46:36,625 ♪ Let's go, Mr. Sun, keep shining ♪ 1133 00:46:36,708 --> 00:46:38,125 - I love that one. - I love that one, too. 1134 00:46:38,208 --> 00:46:39,750 - I feel like this is the one. 1135 00:46:39,833 --> 00:46:41,167 - I love it. - That was-- 1136 00:46:41,250 --> 00:46:42,583 - What do we think? - My favorite since-- 1137 00:46:42,708 --> 00:46:43,958 - It's your favorite? - At first sight. 1138 00:46:44,042 --> 00:46:46,000 - Oh. [laughter] 1139 00:46:46,042 --> 00:46:48,833 ♪ 1140 00:46:48,917 --> 00:46:50,500 I can't believe that in just a few short days, 1141 00:46:50,625 --> 00:46:52,333 I'm going to be a wife. 1142 00:46:52,417 --> 00:46:57,042 I am terrified of not making that right first impression. 1143 00:46:57,042 --> 00:47:01,375 But perfectionism has unequivocally 1144 00:47:01,458 --> 00:47:03,958 held me back from many of the relationships 1145 00:47:04,042 --> 00:47:06,333 that I could have been in. 1146 00:47:06,417 --> 00:47:09,750 I have always been fiercely independent, 1147 00:47:09,833 --> 00:47:11,208 but I'm about to give my all. 1148 00:47:11,292 --> 00:47:12,917 I'm about to be raw, and vulnerable, 1149 00:47:13,042 --> 00:47:15,000 and open, and available. 1150 00:47:15,083 --> 00:47:17,250 And I'm about to feel every single last emotion 1151 00:47:17,375 --> 00:47:18,917 with this man. 1152 00:47:19,042 --> 00:47:21,958 And I've dreamed of the day that I had someone as committed 1153 00:47:22,042 --> 00:47:23,917 to creating something special as I am. 1154 00:47:24,000 --> 00:47:25,500 - How are you feeling? 1155 00:47:25,583 --> 00:47:28,000 - I would never have married a stranger five years ago. 1156 00:47:28,042 --> 00:47:29,875 But I've never felt like I deserve something 1157 00:47:29,958 --> 00:47:31,833 more than this right now. 1158 00:47:31,875 --> 00:47:34,667 - You do. You certainly do. 1159 00:47:34,708 --> 00:47:36,542 - Let's go get married. 1160 00:47:36,708 --> 00:47:37,833 - Let's do it. - OK. 1161 00:47:41,583 --> 00:47:47,708 ♪ 1162 00:47:48,000 --> 00:47:49,500 - It's so pretty. 1163 00:47:49,583 --> 00:47:50,500 Thank you. 1164 00:47:50,625 --> 00:47:51,917 - Wow. 1165 00:47:52,000 --> 00:47:54,375 - Family is really important to me. 1166 00:47:54,458 --> 00:47:56,292 - It's beautiful. 1167 00:47:56,375 --> 00:47:59,458 - And as I've gotten closer with Becca, getting the stamp 1168 00:47:59,542 --> 00:48:02,292 of approval from my parents on Becca 1169 00:48:02,375 --> 00:48:06,125 is important because I think we are capable 1170 00:48:06,208 --> 00:48:09,875 of having that storybook love. 1171 00:48:09,958 --> 00:48:11,333 - How long did you work here? 1172 00:48:11,417 --> 00:48:12,833 - Seven years. 1173 00:48:12,917 --> 00:48:15,250 - So what age did you start, and then finish? 1174 00:48:15,333 --> 00:48:18,125 - 19 till like 26? 1175 00:48:18,208 --> 00:48:21,125 This was kind of my first job 1176 00:48:21,208 --> 00:48:23,958 in, like, a professional sense, you know? 1177 00:48:23,958 --> 00:48:25,875 This is a highly acclaimed restaurant. 1178 00:48:25,958 --> 00:48:29,125 And it definitely, like, taught me 1179 00:48:29,208 --> 00:48:31,125 a lot about food and manners, 1180 00:48:31,208 --> 00:48:33,708 and how to, like, speak professionally. 1181 00:48:33,792 --> 00:48:36,000 - And did you serve the whole time? 1182 00:48:36,167 --> 00:48:38,000 - I did everything but bartending. 1183 00:48:38,083 --> 00:48:40,375 - What was your favorite position that you worked here? 1184 00:48:40,458 --> 00:48:42,417 - I valeted the longest. 1185 00:48:42,500 --> 00:48:43,792 It was the most fun. 1186 00:48:43,875 --> 00:48:45,708 - You were born in Boulder? - Mm-hmm. 1187 00:48:45,792 --> 00:48:47,042 - Yup. - Born in Boulder. 1188 00:48:47,167 --> 00:48:48,375 - Born in Boulder. - Born and raised. 1189 00:48:48,458 --> 00:48:50,625 - He was late, of course. - Oh, yeah. 1190 00:48:50,708 --> 00:48:51,750 - Two weeks. - High school. 1191 00:48:51,833 --> 00:48:54,000 - Just was cozy. [laughter] 1192 00:48:54,125 --> 00:48:55,625 - You better come out of there. 1193 00:48:55,750 --> 00:48:57,458 - Yeah. [laughs] - Yeah. 1194 00:48:57,542 --> 00:48:58,750 - Still late to this day. 1195 00:48:58,833 --> 00:49:00,875 - Mm. I know it. - [laughs] 1196 00:49:01,000 --> 00:49:03,083 I mean, it was in both of our wedding-- 1197 00:49:03,167 --> 00:49:05,042 both--both sides-- - Oh, yes. 1198 00:49:05,125 --> 00:49:07,250 - Said that we both run late. - Yes. 1199 00:49:07,333 --> 00:49:09,708 - Maybe they matched you up. - Yeah, maybe that was it. 1200 00:49:09,792 --> 00:49:11,167 [laughter] - I feel like-- 1201 00:49:11,250 --> 00:49:12,833 - And one of your common points. 1202 00:49:12,917 --> 00:49:13,833 - Uh-huh. - Yeah. 1203 00:49:13,917 --> 00:49:15,125 - Yes. [chatter] 1204 00:49:15,208 --> 00:49:16,792 - Oh, thank you so much. - Yes. 1205 00:49:16,875 --> 00:49:17,833 Of course. - Thank you, my friend. 1206 00:49:17,917 --> 00:49:19,542 - Absolutely. - Yeah. 1207 00:49:19,625 --> 00:49:20,917 - OK. 1208 00:49:21,042 --> 00:49:22,292 - Ooh. - Wow. 1209 00:49:22,375 --> 00:49:24,042 - Absolutely. 1210 00:49:24,167 --> 00:49:27,000 So here we have hiramasa, which is a yellow fish amberjack. 1211 00:49:27,042 --> 00:49:28,250 - Wow. - Enjoy. 1212 00:49:28,250 --> 00:49:29,333 - That's-- - For sure. 1213 00:49:29,375 --> 00:49:30,542 - Really neat. - Thank you, Jack. 1214 00:49:30,667 --> 00:49:31,500 - Yeah. - You're welcome. 1215 00:49:31,625 --> 00:49:33,083 - Thank you. - My pleasure. 1216 00:49:33,208 --> 00:49:34,125 - So are you still in touch with the wedding people? 1217 00:49:34,125 --> 00:49:36,250 Derek and Bill, and-- 1218 00:49:36,250 --> 00:49:37,167 - Yeah. 1219 00:49:37,250 --> 00:49:39,333 - And your friends that were there? 1220 00:49:39,417 --> 00:49:41,667 - Yeah, so Derek's been a big part of this process. 1221 00:49:41,792 --> 00:49:43,333 He came to our housewarming. 1222 00:49:43,417 --> 00:49:46,667 Becca showed me how to take pictures, 1223 00:49:46,708 --> 00:49:49,000 and it was of Derek and Ashley and their two kids. 1224 00:49:49,083 --> 00:49:50,333 - Mm. Neat. 1225 00:49:50,458 --> 00:49:51,833 - Mm-hmm. 1226 00:49:51,917 --> 00:49:53,083 Yeah, I taught him how to use the real camera. 1227 00:49:53,167 --> 00:49:54,833 - Where did you do that? 1228 00:49:54,917 --> 00:49:56,542 - At a photo studio that I work out a lot. 1229 00:49:56,625 --> 00:49:57,542 - Oh, really? - Oh, wow. 1230 00:49:57,667 --> 00:49:58,917 That's neat. - Yep. 1231 00:49:59,000 --> 00:50:00,542 He did really good. 1232 00:50:00,625 --> 00:50:02,167 Like, I think that there are some of the ones that he-- 1233 00:50:02,250 --> 00:50:03,542 he took that-- - How did they come out? 1234 00:50:03,625 --> 00:50:05,708 - That will be framed, likely, for them. 1235 00:50:05,792 --> 00:50:08,625 - Wow, that's good to know. You have a good eye. 1236 00:50:08,708 --> 00:50:10,042 - Yeah. 1237 00:50:10,125 --> 00:50:11,333 - So was Austin always super social? 1238 00:50:11,417 --> 00:50:12,625 Like he is now? Yeah? - Mm-hmm. Mm-hmm. 1239 00:50:12,708 --> 00:50:14,250 - Yeah. 1240 00:50:14,375 --> 00:50:16,042 - But for only children, like, that's rare, you know? 1241 00:50:16,125 --> 00:50:17,208 - Yeah. I guess it is. 1242 00:50:17,292 --> 00:50:18,958 - Yeah. - Both of us work. 1243 00:50:19,042 --> 00:50:20,625 So he was always in, you know, childcare. 1244 00:50:20,708 --> 00:50:22,208 - Yeah. 1245 00:50:22,292 --> 00:50:24,125 - So it's like he had a bunch of brothers and sisters. 1246 00:50:24,208 --> 00:50:25,458 - When Austin went to college, 1247 00:50:25,542 --> 00:50:27,125 did he come and see you guys often still? 1248 00:50:27,208 --> 00:50:29,000 - No. I didn't want him to come home. 1249 00:50:29,000 --> 00:50:31,542 I wanted him to have the whole experience. 1250 00:50:31,625 --> 00:50:32,833 - Ooh, boy. 1251 00:50:32,917 --> 00:50:34,042 - Your entrée's here. - Yay. 1252 00:50:34,125 --> 00:50:35,917 - Ooh. - Yum. 1253 00:50:36,000 --> 00:50:37,292 - Look at those. 1254 00:50:37,375 --> 00:50:38,833 - Looks yummy. I'm ready. 1255 00:50:38,875 --> 00:50:40,458 - Yes. - You're welcome. 1256 00:50:40,542 --> 00:50:42,083 - I love duck. - Love me some duck. 1257 00:50:42,167 --> 00:50:43,375 - Oh, you do? - I do. 1258 00:50:43,458 --> 00:50:45,792 - Suzanne's favorite is lamb. 1259 00:50:45,875 --> 00:50:48,500 - My Bubba actually makes really good lamb chops, too. 1260 00:50:48,542 --> 00:50:50,333 So she lived with us growing up, in Connecticut. 1261 00:50:50,417 --> 00:50:51,292 So-- - Oh. 1262 00:50:51,375 --> 00:50:52,667 - OK. - How great. 1263 00:50:52,708 --> 00:50:53,500 Where in Connecticut? - Yeah. 1264 00:50:53,542 --> 00:50:54,667 - West Hartford. 1265 00:50:54,750 --> 00:50:57,000 - My ancestors were in Hartford. 1266 00:50:57,083 --> 00:50:58,667 We're going to have to look at our lines. 1267 00:50:58,792 --> 00:51:00,500 - Yeah. 1268 00:51:00,542 --> 00:51:03,167 Well, my mom knows a lot about, like, my family lineage. 1269 00:51:03,250 --> 00:51:04,792 Because she's a historian. That's her job. 1270 00:51:04,875 --> 00:51:06,167 So-- - We love history. 1271 00:51:06,208 --> 00:51:07,500 I fell in love with him for history. 1272 00:51:07,625 --> 00:51:09,042 - Really? - Yeah. 1273 00:51:09,125 --> 00:51:10,250 I love the fact that your mom loves history. 1274 00:51:10,333 --> 00:51:11,875 - Mm-hmm. It's her job. 1275 00:51:11,875 --> 00:51:13,042 It's her passion. It's like-- 1276 00:51:13,125 --> 00:51:15,042 - Yeah. - It's been so interesting. 1277 00:51:15,167 --> 00:51:16,500 - That is. - Mm-hmm. 1278 00:51:16,583 --> 00:51:18,333 - Yeah. - So how are you guys doing? 1279 00:51:18,417 --> 00:51:20,708 - We decided to get fish. 1280 00:51:20,833 --> 00:51:22,333 So we have two fish. 1281 00:51:22,375 --> 00:51:23,500 - That's a big step in a relationship. 1282 00:51:23,542 --> 00:51:25,333 - Mm. Yeah. - And they must behave. 1283 00:51:25,375 --> 00:51:26,917 - You know it's going right when you get-- 1284 00:51:27,000 --> 00:51:28,083 - Yeah. - Each other fish. 1285 00:51:28,167 --> 00:51:29,375 - Are they goldfish? 1286 00:51:29,375 --> 00:51:31,000 - They're Dalmatian fish. 1287 00:51:31,083 --> 00:51:32,542 - Dalmatian? So they're spotted? 1288 00:51:32,625 --> 00:51:34,167 - Yeah. 1289 00:51:34,250 --> 00:51:35,875 - Congratulations to the happy fish parents. 1290 00:51:35,958 --> 00:51:37,250 - Thank you so much. 1291 00:51:37,250 --> 00:51:39,833 You know, big--big step in our relationship. 1292 00:51:39,917 --> 00:51:41,500 - It is. It is. 1293 00:51:41,583 --> 00:51:44,000 - Well, you have been a very pleasant surprise for us. 1294 00:51:44,042 --> 00:51:45,500 - Yeah. Right. Blow us away. 1295 00:51:45,583 --> 00:51:47,000 - Certainly enjoyed getting to know you, 1296 00:51:47,083 --> 00:51:49,167 and hope to get to know you better. 1297 00:51:49,208 --> 00:51:50,625 - Well-- - Yeah. 1298 00:51:50,708 --> 00:51:52,958 - It's great to have in-laws that are as sweet, 1299 00:51:53,042 --> 00:51:54,667 and kind, and supportive. 1300 00:51:54,708 --> 00:51:57,458 - We're thrilled, beyond. 1301 00:51:57,542 --> 00:51:59,042 - Out of all the ways that this could go, 1302 00:51:59,125 --> 00:52:01,458 this is the best case scenario. 1303 00:52:01,542 --> 00:52:04,833 - ♪ I hope this lasts for a lifetime ♪ 1304 00:52:09,833 --> 00:52:12,708 - ♪ I'm floating like a dream through the city lights ♪ 1305 00:52:12,708 --> 00:52:17,208 - ♪ Rising up above a sky I painted red ♪ 1306 00:52:17,292 --> 00:52:19,458 - Even though I need time for myself 1307 00:52:19,542 --> 00:52:21,708 to reset and take some space, 1308 00:52:21,792 --> 00:52:24,958 I am also not giving up hope being in this marriage. 1309 00:52:25,042 --> 00:52:27,167 - Don't drop the fishbowl. 1310 00:52:27,250 --> 00:52:28,750 - We both didn't want to give up. 1311 00:52:28,875 --> 00:52:32,292 So Dr. Pepper gave us a fishbowl of questions. 1312 00:52:32,375 --> 00:52:33,625 We're trying to work on our friendship 1313 00:52:33,708 --> 00:52:35,333 and that stage of setting the foundation, 1314 00:52:35,458 --> 00:52:38,250 so that now we can just focus on having fun, 1315 00:52:38,375 --> 00:52:40,333 and, you know, just enjoy each other. 1316 00:52:40,417 --> 00:52:42,667 I can go first. - OK. 1317 00:52:42,708 --> 00:52:44,542 - All right. 1318 00:52:44,667 --> 00:52:46,833 My boundaries are-- 1319 00:52:46,875 --> 00:52:48,625 - Oh, so fitting for you. 1320 00:52:48,708 --> 00:52:50,667 - Um... 1321 00:52:50,750 --> 00:52:53,542 yeah, I think it's just having enough space 1322 00:52:53,625 --> 00:52:56,292 for when we feel like we need space, 1323 00:52:56,375 --> 00:52:58,542 and just taking the time we need, 1324 00:52:58,625 --> 00:53:00,708 and not, like, pressuring to, like, 1325 00:53:00,833 --> 00:53:02,333 hang out all the time, 1326 00:53:02,375 --> 00:53:05,583 which I think we're doing a great job of. 1327 00:53:05,667 --> 00:53:08,125 - Mm-hmm. 1328 00:53:08,208 --> 00:53:10,625 Next question. 1329 00:53:13,792 --> 00:53:18,250 The hardest thing I've had to forgive is my dad. 1330 00:53:18,333 --> 00:53:20,667 I feel like I actually have a lot of resentment issues 1331 00:53:20,708 --> 00:53:22,708 against him, for, like, 1332 00:53:22,708 --> 00:53:24,583 pushing me as hard as he did growing up, 1333 00:53:24,667 --> 00:53:26,583 definitely with sports, and, like, other stuff, 1334 00:53:26,708 --> 00:53:28,833 like, decisions he made on behalf of me 1335 00:53:28,958 --> 00:53:33,042 that I didn't have a say in, that I didn't think was fair, 1336 00:53:33,125 --> 00:53:37,042 um, that I feel like I had to, like, unpack, 1337 00:53:37,167 --> 00:53:39,333 and get through when I lived at home. 1338 00:53:39,417 --> 00:53:41,042 He definitely, like, shaped me to who I am, 1339 00:53:41,125 --> 00:53:43,083 but he just crossed the line 1340 00:53:43,167 --> 00:53:45,500 of, like, pushing too hard a lot of the time. 1341 00:53:45,542 --> 00:53:47,958 And I had to work through that in therapy. 1342 00:53:48,042 --> 00:53:51,417 ♪ 1343 00:53:51,542 --> 00:53:54,250 - Similarly, my parents, they're good people. 1344 00:53:54,333 --> 00:53:57,333 And I don't think they've had the best way 1345 00:53:57,375 --> 00:53:59,500 of dealing with situations. 1346 00:53:59,583 --> 00:54:01,625 There was something I thought they could have handled better, 1347 00:54:01,708 --> 00:54:03,333 you know, explain that to them, 1348 00:54:03,375 --> 00:54:05,500 and go through it, and I just found myself 1349 00:54:05,583 --> 00:54:07,917 getting really frustrated because there was no, like, 1350 00:54:08,000 --> 00:54:12,667 desire to want to work on those types of things. 1351 00:54:12,750 --> 00:54:15,792 And it's hard for me because I love changing things, 1352 00:54:15,875 --> 00:54:17,833 and making things better. 1353 00:54:17,917 --> 00:54:20,667 - Um... [laughs] 1354 00:54:20,708 --> 00:54:24,458 [sighs] I want to be like, hmm, OK. 1355 00:54:24,542 --> 00:54:29,542 ♪ 1356 00:54:29,625 --> 00:54:33,458 - Name one thing you've given up for difficult reasons. 1357 00:54:35,750 --> 00:54:37,000 Um... 1358 00:54:40,917 --> 00:54:44,583 I've given up trying to have a relationship with my sister. 1359 00:54:44,667 --> 00:54:47,167 It's super hard because she is my sister. 1360 00:54:47,292 --> 00:54:49,458 And obviously, I want a relationship with her, 1361 00:54:49,542 --> 00:54:53,167 but I just got to the point where it was causing 1362 00:54:53,250 --> 00:54:54,792 a lot more suffering than happiness. 1363 00:54:54,875 --> 00:54:57,542 And, you know, in this part of my life, 1364 00:54:57,625 --> 00:54:59,750 I'm really just focused on my happiness. 1365 00:54:59,875 --> 00:55:02,542 You know, I'm not giving up on the relationship, 1366 00:55:02,667 --> 00:55:06,542 but I've given up, like, making an effort towards it. 1367 00:55:09,083 --> 00:55:11,875 - My turn. 1368 00:55:12,000 --> 00:55:13,458 I'm sweating. 1369 00:55:13,542 --> 00:55:15,458 - If you need a minute, you can take a minute. 1370 00:55:15,583 --> 00:55:17,417 She's ready to go. - When have you given up 1371 00:55:17,500 --> 00:55:20,083 on something that you wish you hadn't? 1372 00:55:20,167 --> 00:55:23,458 Tell me the story. 1373 00:55:23,542 --> 00:55:28,042 - [sighs] Can we pass on one? 1374 00:55:28,125 --> 00:55:30,917 - I think it's just, like, when have we given up on something, 1375 00:55:31,000 --> 00:55:33,958 or maybe when have you given up on something or someone? 1376 00:55:34,042 --> 00:55:38,250 ♪ 1377 00:55:38,333 --> 00:55:40,375 - I don't have one for that. 1378 00:55:43,042 --> 00:55:45,000 [bleep]. 1379 00:55:45,042 --> 00:55:47,250 - Sometimes, I wish I didn't give up on my dream. 1380 00:55:47,333 --> 00:55:48,667 And that was to be-- 1381 00:55:48,792 --> 00:55:50,542 I always wanted to be Britney Spears. 1382 00:55:50,625 --> 00:55:52,125 That wasn't going to happen. 1383 00:55:52,208 --> 00:55:53,667 But I really wanted to do broadcasting. 1384 00:55:53,792 --> 00:55:55,583 And I really wanted to be, like, a sports reporter, 1385 00:55:55,667 --> 00:55:58,083 or, like, news anchor. 1386 00:55:58,167 --> 00:55:59,333 I just wanted the microphone. 1387 00:55:59,417 --> 00:56:01,167 I just wanted to report on TV. 1388 00:56:01,208 --> 00:56:04,542 That was, like, my dream. 1389 00:56:08,792 --> 00:56:12,292 - [sighs] 1390 00:56:12,375 --> 00:56:13,792 One thing I haven't told you, 1391 00:56:13,875 --> 00:56:18,333 which would give you much more insight into who I am. 1392 00:56:18,417 --> 00:56:20,292 [sighs] - Ooh! 1393 00:56:20,375 --> 00:56:21,500 That's good. 1394 00:56:21,542 --> 00:56:23,208 - Maybe we come back to that one. 1395 00:56:23,292 --> 00:56:26,542 ♪ 1396 00:56:26,625 --> 00:56:28,542 [sighs] 1397 00:56:28,625 --> 00:56:35,542 ♪ 1398 00:56:35,625 --> 00:56:37,083 [sighs] 1399 00:56:37,208 --> 00:56:38,417 - Why is this so hard? 1400 00:56:38,500 --> 00:56:40,625 - Why is it so hard? 1401 00:56:40,708 --> 00:56:42,375 Um... 1402 00:56:42,542 --> 00:56:44,292 - Like, it's hard, but, like-- 1403 00:56:44,375 --> 00:56:46,042 - You know, you may be able to just rattle 1404 00:56:46,125 --> 00:56:49,667 really important things off like it's whatever, 1405 00:56:49,708 --> 00:56:51,708 but I'm spending, like, a lot of thought and it's-- 1406 00:56:51,708 --> 00:56:54,292 - So am I. - Um, it's hard. 1407 00:56:54,375 --> 00:56:55,875 - Yeah, it is hard, but this is hard. 1408 00:56:55,958 --> 00:56:58,667 This is what this is. 1409 00:56:58,750 --> 00:57:01,042 ♪ 1410 00:57:01,167 --> 00:57:03,292 - Putting it on camera, I don't think it does anyone any good. 1411 00:57:03,375 --> 00:57:06,000 So I only want the good to show. 1412 00:57:06,083 --> 00:57:09,250 ♪ 1413 00:57:09,333 --> 00:57:11,083 Is it your turn or my turn? 1414 00:57:11,208 --> 00:57:13,083 ♪ 1415 00:57:13,167 --> 00:57:15,208 - You want me to go? 1416 00:57:15,208 --> 00:57:18,042 - Yeah. 1417 00:57:18,042 --> 00:57:22,792 - What worries you the most at the moment? 1418 00:57:22,875 --> 00:57:24,500 Ooh. 1419 00:57:24,542 --> 00:57:29,208 What worries me in the moment is that... 1420 00:57:29,333 --> 00:57:31,417 this reset and your plan for the reset 1421 00:57:31,500 --> 00:57:33,167 is going to backfire. 1422 00:57:33,250 --> 00:57:37,875 And it's going to make us not be civil at the end of it. 1423 00:57:40,375 --> 00:57:42,500 - Same. 1424 00:57:42,542 --> 00:57:44,125 I am getting tapped out. 1425 00:57:44,208 --> 00:57:46,125 I'm losing consciousness. 1426 00:57:46,208 --> 00:57:47,792 - We were in here for two hours the other night. 1427 00:57:47,875 --> 00:57:49,042 We'll survive. 1428 00:57:49,125 --> 00:57:51,000 ♪ 1429 00:57:51,042 --> 00:57:52,333 - Do you want me to faint? 1430 00:57:52,375 --> 00:57:54,167 ♪ 1431 00:57:54,292 --> 00:57:57,083 - Oh, my God. You're fine. You need to [bleep] suck it up. 1432 00:57:57,167 --> 00:57:58,958 - Can you not? 1433 00:57:59,042 --> 00:58:00,500 ♪ 1434 00:58:04,375 --> 00:58:06,583 [tense music] 1435 00:58:06,750 --> 00:58:08,333 What have you fought the hardest for? 1436 00:58:08,458 --> 00:58:11,208 Tell me the story. 1437 00:58:11,292 --> 00:58:13,542 - You ever do push-ups in a sauna? 1438 00:58:13,667 --> 00:58:15,500 - Uh, no, by choice. 1439 00:58:15,583 --> 00:58:17,667 - Do you know why you can't last too long in a sauna 1440 00:58:17,708 --> 00:58:20,667 while doing push-ups? - 'Cause you'll faint? Oh. 1441 00:58:20,708 --> 00:58:23,583 - It's the concept of exerting energy, so-- 1442 00:58:23,667 --> 00:58:26,375 - I verbally think we're OK, but thanks for that analogy. 1443 00:58:26,458 --> 00:58:27,917 - You don't have to be like that. 1444 00:58:28,000 --> 00:58:30,625 - Because you're making it like this because it's like 1445 00:58:30,708 --> 00:58:32,500 you don't understand, like, when you act like that, 1446 00:58:32,625 --> 00:58:35,125 again, it makes me feel like [bleep]. 1447 00:58:37,792 --> 00:58:39,417 What have you fought the hardest for? 1448 00:58:39,500 --> 00:58:42,500 Tell me the story. 1449 00:58:42,583 --> 00:58:46,125 Honestly, probably for us, in this marriage. 1450 00:58:46,208 --> 00:58:48,667 - Yeah, same. 1451 00:58:48,708 --> 00:58:51,708 Our story, it's been one for the books. 1452 00:58:51,792 --> 00:58:58,625 ♪ 1453 00:58:59,583 --> 00:59:01,000 - My turn? - Yeah. 1454 00:59:01,042 --> 00:59:03,458 ♪ 1455 00:59:03,542 --> 00:59:05,708 - I can be sensitive about blank, and why? 1456 00:59:05,792 --> 00:59:07,750 ♪ 1457 00:59:07,833 --> 00:59:10,500 Sensitive about everything, and I'm sensitive to everyone. 1458 00:59:10,542 --> 00:59:12,792 A lot of times, I think I-- 1459 00:59:12,917 --> 00:59:14,500 it's because I really care. 1460 00:59:14,542 --> 00:59:16,083 Because I never want people to think that 1461 00:59:16,208 --> 00:59:20,292 I'm doing anything, like, without good intent. 1462 00:59:20,375 --> 00:59:21,792 - Yeah. 1463 00:59:21,875 --> 00:59:25,375 I think for me, I get sensitive when 1464 00:59:25,500 --> 00:59:29,000 someone questions my character, 1465 00:59:29,125 --> 00:59:31,292 or makes something bigger than what it is. 1466 00:59:31,375 --> 00:59:35,167 So, um, yeah. 1467 00:59:35,208 --> 00:59:39,833 ♪ 1468 00:59:39,875 --> 00:59:41,875 - So you don't keel over and die, 1469 00:59:41,958 --> 00:59:43,708 should we get out of here? - Keel over and die? 1470 00:59:43,792 --> 00:59:44,667 I was just saying-- you were saying-- 1471 00:59:44,792 --> 00:59:46,417 I was sitting in the hot tub 1472 00:59:46,500 --> 00:59:48,333 and you're comparing that to, like-- 1473 00:59:48,458 --> 00:59:49,667 - I'm just basically being dramatic 1474 00:59:49,750 --> 00:59:51,375 because you're being dramatic. 1475 00:59:51,500 --> 00:59:53,500 And so I was being dramatic on behalf of your being dramatic. 1476 00:59:53,542 --> 00:59:55,833 - Cool. All right. Should we head back? 1477 00:59:55,958 --> 00:59:57,250 - Yeah. 1478 00:59:57,333 --> 01:00:01,167 - ♪ Because of your belief 1479 01:00:01,250 --> 01:00:03,750 ♪ 1480 01:00:03,833 --> 01:00:07,542 - I was not expecting to feel that [bleep], 1481 01:00:07,625 --> 01:00:09,667 and somebody told me to suck it up, 1482 01:00:09,792 --> 01:00:12,875 which was interesting to hear. 1483 01:00:12,958 --> 01:00:15,750 You know, obviously, I want her to be supportive, 1484 01:00:15,833 --> 01:00:18,833 and caring, and nice, 1485 01:00:18,875 --> 01:00:24,000 but, you know, she wasn't. 1486 01:00:24,042 --> 01:00:27,042 Not a great feeling to have, so... 1487 01:00:27,208 --> 01:00:28,875 - This is what you do every time we're filming. 1488 01:00:28,958 --> 01:00:30,417 If we're doing something that's, like, 1489 01:00:30,500 --> 01:00:32,750 is vulnerability and something you know no matter what 1490 01:00:32,833 --> 01:00:34,542 they have to get through, and we're in the hot tub 1491 01:00:34,542 --> 01:00:36,083 for, like, two hours the other night. 1492 01:00:36,208 --> 01:00:38,125 We're in the hot tub longer all the time. 1493 01:00:38,208 --> 01:00:41,083 - I'm not exerting energy in the hot tub just sitting there. 1494 01:00:41,167 --> 01:00:44,667 Like, this is straight up heavy [bleep] and burning calories. 1495 01:00:44,708 --> 01:00:46,625 Like, this is a totally different experience 1496 01:00:46,708 --> 01:00:49,000 than a Wednesday night hot tub session. 1497 01:00:49,083 --> 01:00:51,375 - While I still appreciate and know this is hard for him, 1498 01:00:51,458 --> 01:00:54,000 it's--it's just... 1499 01:00:54,042 --> 01:00:56,292 ♪ 1500 01:00:56,375 --> 01:00:58,083 Unnecessary. 1501 01:00:58,167 --> 01:01:01,000 And it's the round and round, vicious cycle of just-- 1502 01:01:01,042 --> 01:01:03,667 it's all about him and his appearance, 1503 01:01:03,708 --> 01:01:05,875 and it's never about me. 1504 01:01:10,875 --> 01:01:11,875 - Um-- 1505 01:01:15,750 --> 01:01:18,333 I'm not giving up. 1506 01:01:18,417 --> 01:01:22,708 I just don't think we can even properly have a marriage 1507 01:01:22,792 --> 01:01:24,958 like we're supposed to. 1508 01:01:25,042 --> 01:01:27,667 And when he still is answering questions in the way he is 1509 01:01:27,833 --> 01:01:30,167 and acting the way that he is, regardless of it, 1510 01:01:30,208 --> 01:01:34,875 it's just--it's validating all of my thoughts, and-- 1511 01:01:34,958 --> 01:01:36,833 what I said, like, I don't know what the [bleep] 1512 01:01:36,917 --> 01:01:38,667 is going to get through to him at this rate. 1513 01:01:38,750 --> 01:01:41,500 - ♪ Do whatever, whatever it takes ♪ 1514 01:01:41,542 --> 01:01:45,500 ♪ Oh, oh, oh 1515 01:01:45,542 --> 01:01:47,708 ♪ Do whatever, whatever 1516 01:01:47,792 --> 01:01:52,000 ♪ Do whatever, whatever it takes ♪ 1517 01:01:52,167 --> 01:01:55,000 - ♪ I'ma show you how, I'm a human DIY ♪ 1518 01:01:55,125 --> 01:01:57,875 - Next time on "Married at First Sight"... 1519 01:01:57,958 --> 01:01:59,458 - Whoa. 1520 01:01:59,542 --> 01:02:01,667 - While Michael's bride-to-be goes into wedding mode-- 1521 01:02:01,750 --> 01:02:03,542 - Here we are. 1522 01:02:03,667 --> 01:02:05,667 Getting our wedding nails done. 1523 01:02:05,833 --> 01:02:07,167 - Come on, come on. 1524 01:02:07,208 --> 01:02:09,250 - The remaining couples find new ways 1525 01:02:09,333 --> 01:02:11,042 to further get to know their spouse. 1526 01:02:11,125 --> 01:02:12,500 - Ah! 1527 01:02:12,625 --> 01:02:15,167 - I haven't had a relationship that moves this slowly. 1528 01:02:15,208 --> 01:02:18,958 I don't feel, like, as desired as I have in past relationships. 1529 01:02:19,042 --> 01:02:20,458 And it's been difficult. 1530 01:02:20,542 --> 01:02:22,375 [tense music] 1531 01:02:22,500 --> 01:02:25,750 - Cameron's been having, like, some--some health concerns. 1532 01:02:25,833 --> 01:02:28,250 He is experiencing, like, heart flutter, 1533 01:02:28,375 --> 01:02:30,333 which is very serious. 1534 01:02:30,375 --> 01:02:33,833 - Going to Boulder Hospital 1535 01:02:33,875 --> 01:02:36,667 for an operation. 1536 01:02:36,750 --> 01:02:39,500 - Trying to work through it with Emily, 1537 01:02:39,542 --> 01:02:41,125 which has been a bit of a challenge. 1538 01:02:41,208 --> 01:02:44,042 - Brennan, do you trust Emily? 1539 01:02:44,125 --> 01:02:45,250 - Um... 1540 01:02:45,333 --> 01:02:48,208 [dramatic music] 1541 01:02:48,292 --> 01:02:50,875 ♪