1 00:00:02,500 --> 00:00:06,042 - Ten singles desperate for love did the unthinkable. 2 00:00:06,125 --> 00:00:07,958 They married complete strangers. 3 00:00:08,042 --> 00:00:10,417 [cheers and applause] 4 00:00:10,500 --> 00:00:12,792 - ♪ So here we are, here we are ♪ 5 00:00:12,875 --> 00:00:14,542 - Last time, Chloe and Michael 6 00:00:14,625 --> 00:00:18,417 had just gotten settled in after their honeymoon 7 00:00:18,542 --> 00:00:21,375 while everyone else embarked on a couples retreat 8 00:00:21,458 --> 00:00:23,500 in hopes of deepening their bond. 9 00:00:25,958 --> 00:00:30,333 - I felt defeated and rejected when he ended up 10 00:00:30,458 --> 00:00:32,000 spending the night in another room. 11 00:00:32,042 --> 00:00:34,750 But he did apologize. 12 00:00:34,833 --> 00:00:36,417 I know any relationship, any marriage 13 00:00:36,500 --> 00:00:39,333 has its trials and tribulations. 14 00:00:39,375 --> 00:00:41,333 But the whole point is to push through 15 00:00:41,417 --> 00:00:42,542 and figure it out together. 16 00:00:42,625 --> 00:00:43,500 - Yeah. Aw. 17 00:00:43,542 --> 00:00:45,000 - Oh. 18 00:00:45,125 --> 00:00:46,625 The hat is just so sexy. 19 00:00:46,708 --> 00:00:48,000 - [laughs] 20 00:00:50,458 --> 00:00:52,750 - It's like, I do wanna have a conversation with Cameron. 21 00:00:52,833 --> 00:00:55,167 But at the same time, like, when he goes through stuff, 22 00:00:55,292 --> 00:00:57,167 he likes to do it alone. - Right. 23 00:00:57,250 --> 00:00:58,708 - I wish he did kind of, you know, 24 00:00:58,792 --> 00:01:00,167 lean on me maybe a little more. 25 00:01:00,250 --> 00:01:01,958 But I realize we're not all the same in that, 26 00:01:02,042 --> 00:01:04,042 and he just wants to process by himself. 27 00:01:06,167 --> 00:01:08,500 - There are all of these elements 28 00:01:08,625 --> 00:01:10,250 that I've always wanted. 29 00:01:10,375 --> 00:01:13,875 And if someone a little more feminine than what I've always 30 00:01:13,958 --> 00:01:16,417 gone for is where I'm gonna find it, 31 00:01:16,500 --> 00:01:17,750 we're gonna give it our best shot. 32 00:01:20,042 --> 00:01:23,167 [upbeat music] 33 00:01:23,208 --> 00:01:25,167 - Is she all right? [bleep]. 34 00:01:25,250 --> 00:01:26,667 - No, she's bleeding a lot. 35 00:01:26,750 --> 00:01:28,917 ♪ 36 00:01:29,000 --> 00:01:30,500 This is [bleep] bad. 37 00:01:30,583 --> 00:01:33,917 [siren wailing] 38 00:01:34,000 --> 00:01:36,625 - ♪ Kissing all the faces 39 00:01:36,708 --> 00:01:40,125 - And tonight, we're halfway through the couples retreat. 40 00:01:40,208 --> 00:01:41,542 Hopefully this could be an opportunity 41 00:01:41,625 --> 00:01:43,708 for our remaining couples to reach a new level 42 00:01:43,792 --> 00:01:45,833 of depth and intimacy 43 00:01:45,875 --> 00:01:48,500 that can light their pathway to Decision Day. 44 00:01:48,583 --> 00:01:50,708 [yelling] 45 00:01:50,792 --> 00:01:52,750 [cheering] 46 00:01:52,833 --> 00:01:54,458 - That's your man! 47 00:01:54,542 --> 00:01:57,833 - When it comes to watching him kick ass, 48 00:01:57,875 --> 00:01:59,417 it's a total turn on. 49 00:01:59,500 --> 00:02:01,958 - We had a little accident. 50 00:02:02,042 --> 00:02:03,125 Emily crashed into a tree... 51 00:02:03,208 --> 00:02:06,000 [tense music] 52 00:02:06,083 --> 00:02:09,542 And got a gash in her head, so. 53 00:02:09,667 --> 00:02:11,500 - Whoa. - Emily. 54 00:02:11,542 --> 00:02:14,292 - I would really like to build a bridge 55 00:02:14,375 --> 00:02:18,208 because I am missing our connection. 56 00:02:18,292 --> 00:02:22,000 - Doesn't feel good to, like, have to beg to be wanted. 57 00:02:22,042 --> 00:02:24,500 - I was hoping tonight would end on, like, a good note. 58 00:02:24,625 --> 00:02:26,500 Now I feel like that's not happening. 59 00:02:26,625 --> 00:02:30,083 ♪ 60 00:02:30,167 --> 00:02:32,000 - ♪ It's all or nothing 61 00:02:32,083 --> 00:02:34,375 - This is "Married at First Sight." 62 00:02:34,500 --> 00:02:37,792 - ♪ There's no other way 63 00:02:37,875 --> 00:02:40,208 ♪ It's all or nothing 64 00:02:40,292 --> 00:02:43,333 [dramatic music] 65 00:02:43,417 --> 00:02:45,167 ♪ 66 00:02:45,250 --> 00:02:47,250 - We get to the hospital. 67 00:02:47,375 --> 00:02:49,208 The doctor confirms she doesn't have a concussion. 68 00:02:49,292 --> 00:02:51,958 So we just, you know, breathe a sigh of relief there 69 00:02:52,042 --> 00:02:54,625 and just await her getting stitches. 70 00:02:54,708 --> 00:02:57,000 [line trills] 71 00:02:57,083 --> 00:03:00,000 ♪ 72 00:03:00,125 --> 00:03:02,667 - Hey, what's up? 73 00:03:02,750 --> 00:03:06,542 - Well, as you guys know, we went ATV-ing. 74 00:03:06,625 --> 00:03:09,000 And we had a little accident. 75 00:03:09,042 --> 00:03:13,000 Emily crashed into a tree and got a gash in her head. 76 00:03:13,042 --> 00:03:15,250 - Whoa. - Emily. 77 00:03:15,375 --> 00:03:16,667 - Gash in her head? 78 00:03:16,750 --> 00:03:19,833 - Yeah, the branch went under her helmet. 79 00:03:19,917 --> 00:03:23,042 And she's got a nice little cut from it, so... 80 00:03:23,125 --> 00:03:24,667 - Damn. 81 00:03:24,708 --> 00:03:26,500 - We're waiting now to get some stitches. 82 00:03:26,500 --> 00:03:28,833 She missed every major part she could have damaged, 83 00:03:28,917 --> 00:03:30,500 so nothing major happened, 84 00:03:30,625 --> 00:03:33,042 and we just gotta get this wound closed up 85 00:03:33,125 --> 00:03:36,167 and get her back to her pretty self. 86 00:03:36,292 --> 00:03:38,167 - Is she there with you? 87 00:03:38,250 --> 00:03:39,167 - Yeah, she's right here. 88 00:03:39,292 --> 00:03:40,250 - Can we talk to her? 89 00:03:40,375 --> 00:03:41,500 - Yeah, of course. 90 00:03:41,583 --> 00:03:43,167 - I'm so sorry. 91 00:03:45,333 --> 00:03:48,500 - No. - Emily! 92 00:03:48,583 --> 00:03:51,833 Oh, my gosh. 93 00:03:51,875 --> 00:03:53,667 I just wanna give you a hug. 94 00:03:53,750 --> 00:03:56,667 ♪ 95 00:03:56,708 --> 00:03:59,167 I mean, that's a very scary thing to happen. 96 00:03:59,250 --> 00:04:00,542 - Yeah. 97 00:04:00,542 --> 00:04:03,750 Yeah, it was-- it was very scary. 98 00:04:03,833 --> 00:04:08,042 But I'm happy that I'm okay, honestly, 'cause I did not know 99 00:04:08,125 --> 00:04:09,667 if I was for a minute. 100 00:04:09,750 --> 00:04:12,583 ♪ 101 00:04:12,708 --> 00:04:15,500 - Well, we love you, and we'll see you soon. 102 00:04:15,625 --> 00:04:16,958 - Okay, love you guys too. 103 00:04:17,042 --> 00:04:18,792 - Love you. Bye. - Love you. 104 00:04:18,875 --> 00:04:23,208 ♪ 105 00:04:23,333 --> 00:04:24,917 - It's gonna be okay. 106 00:04:25,000 --> 00:04:25,917 We got your back. 107 00:04:26,042 --> 00:04:28,833 ♪ 108 00:04:28,958 --> 00:04:32,250 - ♪ I don't care what people think ♪ 109 00:04:32,333 --> 00:04:37,208 ♪ I feel so free doing me 110 00:04:37,333 --> 00:04:40,167 - I cannot wait to see 111 00:04:40,250 --> 00:04:42,667 what the couples have to say about that skirt. 112 00:04:42,708 --> 00:04:45,667 [laughs] 113 00:04:45,708 --> 00:04:48,333 - How surprised would you be if one of the other guys 114 00:04:48,417 --> 00:04:51,042 was wearing something almost identical? 115 00:04:51,125 --> 00:04:52,583 - Oh, there is not-- 116 00:04:52,667 --> 00:04:58,042 I would bet every last dime of the Powerball 117 00:04:58,125 --> 00:05:00,500 that I don't have to worry about that. 118 00:05:00,583 --> 00:05:02,250 You know, it's still taking me some time 119 00:05:02,333 --> 00:05:05,167 to get used to it with Michael's fashion choices. 120 00:05:05,250 --> 00:05:08,167 I don't want to dwell on it. 121 00:05:08,250 --> 00:05:10,333 But you know, it's not easy when 122 00:05:10,417 --> 00:05:11,875 this is what he's wearing. 123 00:05:11,875 --> 00:05:14,667 - You know, you got chunky-ass sweater over here. 124 00:05:14,708 --> 00:05:15,708 - I do. Yeah. 125 00:05:15,792 --> 00:05:17,000 - I have... - A chunky ass sweater. 126 00:05:17,125 --> 00:05:18,000 - A chunky ass sweater. 127 00:05:18,083 --> 00:05:19,500 - Yeah, I got jeans. 128 00:05:19,542 --> 00:05:20,917 You've got skirts. - Some denim action there. 129 00:05:21,000 --> 00:05:22,667 How dare you? 130 00:05:22,708 --> 00:05:24,708 How dare you? 131 00:05:24,833 --> 00:05:26,500 - But the more I get to know Michael 132 00:05:26,583 --> 00:05:29,417 and the more I learn who he is, 133 00:05:29,500 --> 00:05:31,333 I'm hoping that these fashion choices 134 00:05:31,417 --> 00:05:34,292 just become less of a concern. 135 00:05:34,375 --> 00:05:35,500 - Are you kind of looking forward 136 00:05:35,583 --> 00:05:37,625 to being in a group setting? 137 00:05:37,708 --> 00:05:39,833 - Yeah, I actually really, really am. 138 00:05:39,875 --> 00:05:44,375 I'm excited to get to spend some time with the ladies 139 00:05:44,500 --> 00:05:46,500 because we didn't get much of that at the... 140 00:05:46,625 --> 00:05:48,333 - Wedding. Yeah, yeah. - Wedding. 141 00:05:48,458 --> 00:05:49,792 So I'm excited to be at the retreat. 142 00:05:49,875 --> 00:05:51,042 - We were a little busy at the wedding, you know? 143 00:05:51,042 --> 00:05:52,875 - You know, it's just this whole 144 00:05:52,958 --> 00:05:54,500 getting married thing really got in the way. 145 00:05:54,583 --> 00:05:55,625 - Yeah. 146 00:05:55,708 --> 00:05:57,917 I'm really just kind of interested to-- 147 00:05:58,000 --> 00:05:59,750 to see what we learn. 148 00:05:59,833 --> 00:06:02,417 They've been at this a little bit longer than we have. 149 00:06:02,500 --> 00:06:05,875 I'm hoping we'll be able to feel like, okay, you know, 150 00:06:05,958 --> 00:06:07,917 I'm learning something just by seeing 151 00:06:08,042 --> 00:06:09,125 how they're interacting. 152 00:06:09,208 --> 00:06:10,875 - Yeah. 153 00:06:11,000 --> 00:06:13,792 - Do you have any more things you need to throw in that bag? 154 00:06:13,875 --> 00:06:15,750 - Nope. 155 00:06:15,833 --> 00:06:19,000 All good. 156 00:06:19,083 --> 00:06:20,792 Let's blow this pop stand. 157 00:06:20,875 --> 00:06:23,292 And let's go get our retreat on. 158 00:06:23,375 --> 00:06:25,250 And you get your-- your runway on. 159 00:06:25,250 --> 00:06:27,000 - [chuckles] My runway on. 160 00:06:27,125 --> 00:06:30,208 ♪ 161 00:06:30,333 --> 00:06:31,500 - You ready? - Yes. 162 00:06:31,542 --> 00:06:32,792 Here, I got the door. 163 00:06:32,875 --> 00:06:34,292 - No, no, no, after you... - Thank you. 164 00:06:34,375 --> 00:06:35,917 - Prince. 165 00:06:36,042 --> 00:06:41,958 ♪ 166 00:06:42,042 --> 00:06:44,958 - ♪ Love me until the first sight ♪ 167 00:06:45,042 --> 00:06:47,375 ♪ First sight 168 00:06:47,458 --> 00:06:49,958 ♪ Ooh 169 00:06:50,042 --> 00:06:51,625 ♪ Ooh 170 00:06:51,708 --> 00:06:57,792 ♪ 171 00:06:57,875 --> 00:06:58,833 - Hey, baby. 172 00:06:58,917 --> 00:07:01,417 ♪ 173 00:07:01,500 --> 00:07:03,333 How are you doing? 174 00:07:03,417 --> 00:07:05,000 - I can't even get out of bed. 175 00:07:05,125 --> 00:07:08,083 - Becca, she got hit with a stomach bug, 176 00:07:08,167 --> 00:07:12,208 which sucks because, like, we wanted to put more effort 177 00:07:12,208 --> 00:07:16,167 into our physical connection tonight. 178 00:07:16,292 --> 00:07:18,292 - I just don't feel good. - That's okay. 179 00:07:18,375 --> 00:07:19,875 You gotta take care of yourself. 180 00:07:19,958 --> 00:07:24,583 But I just hope we can continue to grow our intimacy 181 00:07:24,667 --> 00:07:26,333 when she feels better. 182 00:07:26,458 --> 00:07:28,958 All right, one more. 183 00:07:29,042 --> 00:07:30,542 Bye. 184 00:07:30,625 --> 00:07:32,333 - Have fun. You look hot. 185 00:07:32,375 --> 00:07:34,250 - Thanks, babes. 186 00:07:34,375 --> 00:07:41,417 ♪ 187 00:07:41,500 --> 00:07:44,333 - Thanks for staying here all day. 188 00:07:44,375 --> 00:07:46,708 - I wouldn't miss it for the world. 189 00:07:46,792 --> 00:07:48,833 - Truly an experience. 190 00:07:48,917 --> 00:07:52,167 I don't think this is getting topped anytime soon. 191 00:07:52,250 --> 00:07:53,875 ♪ 192 00:07:54,000 --> 00:07:55,458 - Let's hope not. 193 00:07:55,542 --> 00:07:57,125 - I don't think you can learn more about each other 194 00:07:57,208 --> 00:07:59,042 in an event like today. 195 00:07:59,125 --> 00:08:01,750 And I think you learned about me that I really do need 196 00:08:01,833 --> 00:08:04,625 to be monitored at all times-- 197 00:08:04,708 --> 00:08:06,500 - No more operating vehicles unsupervised. 198 00:08:06,542 --> 00:08:09,667 - And that, yeah, I bleed a lot. 199 00:08:09,708 --> 00:08:11,292 - Yeah. You did good. 200 00:08:11,375 --> 00:08:12,625 - Yeah. 201 00:08:12,708 --> 00:08:15,542 - Remained calm, breathed the whole time. 202 00:08:15,667 --> 00:08:19,542 You were a total warrior, like, honestly. 203 00:08:19,542 --> 00:08:22,292 - Yeah, I'm warriored out, though. 204 00:08:22,375 --> 00:08:23,833 - Yeah? 205 00:08:23,917 --> 00:08:25,958 - Yeah, this can-- like, really puts stuff 206 00:08:26,042 --> 00:08:27,458 into perspective when you're, like, 207 00:08:27,542 --> 00:08:29,500 kind of unwell for a little bit. 208 00:08:29,625 --> 00:08:32,667 - I had, like, your life in my hands. 209 00:08:32,750 --> 00:08:34,375 She got quite the gash. 210 00:08:34,458 --> 00:08:37,667 Her head is split open about 4 1/2 inches from her forehead 211 00:08:37,708 --> 00:08:40,000 all the way, you know, to her scalp. 212 00:08:40,042 --> 00:08:43,458 So she's ultimately gonna need plastic surgery. 213 00:08:43,542 --> 00:08:44,958 But she's gonna be okay, 214 00:08:45,042 --> 00:08:47,667 which is a huge sigh of relief for me. 215 00:08:47,750 --> 00:08:52,208 And the fact that we were able to overcome it together 216 00:08:52,292 --> 00:08:56,667 shows the type of bond we do have and, you know, 217 00:08:56,708 --> 00:08:59,083 who we are as people and why I think we're 218 00:08:59,167 --> 00:09:00,542 meant to each other's lives. 219 00:09:00,542 --> 00:09:01,958 - Things escalated, but that is us. 220 00:09:04,083 --> 00:09:06,292 - But we're here. 221 00:09:06,375 --> 00:09:11,792 ♪ 222 00:09:11,875 --> 00:09:15,000 - ♪ I've been catching feelings ♪ 223 00:09:15,042 --> 00:09:18,625 ♪ I've been catching feelings ♪ 224 00:09:18,708 --> 00:09:20,000 - Hi, everybody. 225 00:09:20,083 --> 00:09:21,917 - Hi. - Hello. 226 00:09:22,000 --> 00:09:23,042 - I'm going first because-- - Hi. 227 00:09:23,125 --> 00:09:25,167 - Hi, I'm Austin. - I'm Chloe, Austin. 228 00:09:25,250 --> 00:09:27,583 - Nice to meet you, Chloe. - Nice to meet you. 229 00:09:27,708 --> 00:09:29,583 - I feel like I have that same skirt, Michael. 230 00:09:29,667 --> 00:09:30,708 - How you doing? - I'm feeling good, yes. 231 00:09:30,792 --> 00:09:32,625 - What's up, my guy? 232 00:09:32,708 --> 00:09:34,917 - I really wanna get to know Michael and Chloe. 233 00:09:35,000 --> 00:09:36,875 They seemed so cute together at the wedding. 234 00:09:37,000 --> 00:09:40,000 But I think it's--we also have to remember, like, 235 00:09:40,083 --> 00:09:42,250 the wedding isn't necessarily, like, a depiction 236 00:09:42,333 --> 00:09:44,208 of what the relationship is gonna be like. 237 00:09:44,292 --> 00:09:46,333 - This is beautiful, huh? 238 00:09:46,375 --> 00:09:47,833 - Isn't it stunning? - Yeah. 239 00:09:47,958 --> 00:09:49,333 - How was the honeymoon? - Yes. 240 00:09:49,458 --> 00:09:51,083 - It was good. - Yeah, we went deep. 241 00:09:51,167 --> 00:09:52,750 I don't think we could have--you touched my soul. 242 00:09:52,833 --> 00:09:55,042 I don't think we could have gone much deeper. 243 00:09:55,042 --> 00:09:57,000 - I like cute [bleep] like that. 244 00:09:57,083 --> 00:10:00,167 [laughter] 245 00:10:00,250 --> 00:10:04,000 - So I wanted to say that Becca is unfortunately 246 00:10:04,042 --> 00:10:06,958 not feeling well, so she's taking it easy. 247 00:10:07,042 --> 00:10:08,792 - And also, Emily and Brennan, 248 00:10:08,875 --> 00:10:13,000 they went on an ATV excursion today. 249 00:10:13,083 --> 00:10:14,667 It was a little bit too exciting. 250 00:10:14,667 --> 00:10:18,417 Unfortunately, Emily crashed her ATV, 251 00:10:18,542 --> 00:10:22,167 and she suffered a head wound. 252 00:10:22,208 --> 00:10:23,792 So she's getting stitches. 253 00:10:23,875 --> 00:10:26,667 - But she--she's all right? - She's okay, no concussion. 254 00:10:26,750 --> 00:10:29,000 All the scans came back clear. 255 00:10:29,083 --> 00:10:31,458 - But we're glad to have you here. 256 00:10:31,542 --> 00:10:33,042 - No, I'm glad to be here. 257 00:10:33,125 --> 00:10:35,417 - And we decided to get a personal chef. 258 00:10:35,500 --> 00:10:37,708 - So you guys can just take it easy, get ready for dinner, 259 00:10:37,833 --> 00:10:38,958 and then meet us back out here. 260 00:10:39,042 --> 00:10:41,500 - Yeah, no, for sure. - Sounds good. 261 00:10:41,542 --> 00:10:45,708 - ♪ You have the power to make me feel like I'm Superman ♪ 262 00:10:45,833 --> 00:10:48,292 ♪ I can do anything, oh, anything ♪ 263 00:10:48,417 --> 00:10:49,750 ♪ 264 00:10:49,750 --> 00:10:52,375 - Mmm, smells so good. - It does. 265 00:10:52,458 --> 00:10:54,000 - Beautiful. - We have water. 266 00:10:54,083 --> 00:10:55,500 - Yes. - Stunning, stunning. 267 00:10:55,583 --> 00:10:56,500 - This is nice. 268 00:10:56,583 --> 00:10:57,917 ♪ 269 00:10:58,042 --> 00:11:00,333 - We were gonna have a little party. 270 00:11:00,375 --> 00:11:02,417 And the theme was gonna be dress as you partner. 271 00:11:02,542 --> 00:11:04,292 [laughter] 272 00:11:04,375 --> 00:11:08,500 - Yeah, I don't think you understand how, uh, 273 00:11:08,542 --> 00:11:10,375 close to the truth that is. 274 00:11:10,458 --> 00:11:11,833 - Yes. 275 00:11:11,917 --> 00:11:13,333 Do you guys share clothes already? 276 00:11:13,417 --> 00:11:15,333 - He's got a string of my pearls 277 00:11:15,375 --> 00:11:16,833 and some of my earrings. 278 00:11:16,958 --> 00:11:19,042 - I thought you were wearing her skirt earlier. 279 00:11:19,125 --> 00:11:21,750 - I mean, it's a fair-- it's a fair assertion. 280 00:11:21,833 --> 00:11:23,125 - Oh, yeah, I'm not hating. 281 00:11:23,208 --> 00:11:24,792 - I mean, it seems right up your alley. 282 00:11:24,875 --> 00:11:27,625 - Yeah, I could rock it. 283 00:11:27,708 --> 00:11:29,167 - You should have heard this guy last night. 284 00:11:29,292 --> 00:11:30,542 Me up. 285 00:11:30,667 --> 00:11:32,708 He was having the time of his life. 286 00:11:32,833 --> 00:11:34,125 - He was singing to himself, like, for a while. 287 00:11:34,250 --> 00:11:36,208 - We had a few drinks last night. 288 00:11:36,333 --> 00:11:37,750 - Was that what it was? 289 00:11:37,875 --> 00:11:39,750 - I don't know. I had, like, a good time. 290 00:11:39,875 --> 00:11:41,667 And then I just kind of went off on my own. 291 00:11:41,750 --> 00:11:43,667 And apparently I didn't stop talking. 292 00:11:43,750 --> 00:11:46,583 - It sounds like a good night. 293 00:11:46,667 --> 00:11:48,458 - All right, everyone, who's ready for steak? 294 00:11:48,542 --> 00:11:49,833 - Yes. - Oh, wow. 295 00:11:49,875 --> 00:11:51,083 - That sounds fantastic. 296 00:11:51,167 --> 00:11:52,333 - All right, so this is chimichurri. 297 00:11:52,375 --> 00:11:54,333 - ♪ They never have 298 00:11:54,417 --> 00:11:58,417 ♪ But when I get home and see your face ♪ 299 00:11:58,500 --> 00:12:02,333 ♪ I know I'm in the right place, the right time ♪ 300 00:12:02,458 --> 00:12:06,875 ♪ 301 00:12:06,958 --> 00:12:08,833 - I'm glad we're all here because it's been 302 00:12:08,917 --> 00:12:10,750 kind of a crazy journey for us. 303 00:12:10,833 --> 00:12:14,125 And it's just nice to finally be here with all of you. 304 00:12:14,208 --> 00:12:15,542 - Cheers to that. - Yeah, cheers. 305 00:12:15,667 --> 00:12:16,500 - Cheers to that. 306 00:12:16,583 --> 00:12:17,542 - Cheers. 307 00:12:17,667 --> 00:12:19,333 - Cheers to that. 308 00:12:19,458 --> 00:12:21,083 [laughter] 309 00:12:23,083 --> 00:12:24,667 - You can't prepare for this. 310 00:12:24,750 --> 00:12:26,208 I really thought-- 311 00:12:26,333 --> 00:12:27,750 - No, no, amen. - There's no preparation. 312 00:12:27,833 --> 00:12:29,542 - That is the truth. That is the truth. 313 00:12:29,625 --> 00:12:30,875 - You can't prepare. 314 00:12:31,000 --> 00:12:32,958 - I never imagined that I would be 315 00:12:33,042 --> 00:12:35,917 that emotionally and mentally fatigued diving into topics. 316 00:12:36,000 --> 00:12:38,917 But pretty much every substantial topic that 317 00:12:39,000 --> 00:12:42,500 we've covered thus far, we have been very much aligned 318 00:12:42,625 --> 00:12:45,417 on our value system, our perspective. 319 00:12:45,542 --> 00:12:47,667 So I was just thinking what if we weren't aligned, 320 00:12:47,792 --> 00:12:49,833 like, how much more challenging would that 321 00:12:49,917 --> 00:12:51,167 have been to kind of work through 322 00:12:51,292 --> 00:12:53,292 and find a common ground of understanding? 323 00:12:53,417 --> 00:12:54,958 - Right. 324 00:12:55,042 --> 00:12:56,542 - Things are gonna get more challenging. 325 00:12:56,625 --> 00:12:57,833 I have no doubt about it. 326 00:12:57,917 --> 00:12:59,583 But the one thing I've been really 327 00:12:59,667 --> 00:13:01,250 intentional with over the past two years 328 00:13:01,333 --> 00:13:03,333 is just becoming the best possible communicator 329 00:13:03,417 --> 00:13:05,000 that I can be. 330 00:13:05,083 --> 00:13:07,000 - I think as long as you're giving each other grace 331 00:13:07,042 --> 00:13:09,708 and spaces where you're like, okay, we're strangers actually, 332 00:13:09,792 --> 00:13:12,750 you know, and we're trying to form this bond, 333 00:13:12,833 --> 00:13:14,125 you guys are gonna be great. 334 00:13:14,208 --> 00:13:15,500 - Yeah. 335 00:13:15,542 --> 00:13:19,333 - I hope I hope I'm not overstepping any boundaries. 336 00:13:19,417 --> 00:13:21,375 But we were curious on how everything was going 337 00:13:21,500 --> 00:13:23,667 in terms of, like, how your guys' respective 338 00:13:23,750 --> 00:13:25,500 journeys' have been. 339 00:13:25,583 --> 00:13:27,333 ♪ 340 00:13:27,417 --> 00:13:31,000 - Lauren and I, our marriage lasted ten days. 341 00:13:31,083 --> 00:13:33,000 It was right after the honeymoon. 342 00:13:33,042 --> 00:13:38,708 We had dealt with a lot of different intense things, 343 00:13:38,833 --> 00:13:40,750 you know, that really kind of just 344 00:13:40,875 --> 00:13:44,000 came out periodically throughout the honeymoon. 345 00:13:44,042 --> 00:13:47,875 You know, there's been a lot of tension. 346 00:13:48,042 --> 00:13:49,542 And so coming to the couples retreat, 347 00:13:49,625 --> 00:13:53,542 I was really looking forward to just being able to find 348 00:13:53,625 --> 00:13:56,208 our own peace of mind. 349 00:13:56,292 --> 00:13:59,417 You know, if it's something that Lauren is up for, 350 00:13:59,500 --> 00:14:03,417 I was looking forward with this weekend with both of us 351 00:14:03,500 --> 00:14:06,167 trying to find common ground. 352 00:14:06,208 --> 00:14:08,667 ♪ 353 00:14:08,708 --> 00:14:10,542 I'm sorry I didn't bring this up sooner. 354 00:14:10,667 --> 00:14:13,333 But you know, that is something that 355 00:14:13,417 --> 00:14:16,333 I was looking forward to this weekend if it's possible. 356 00:14:19,375 --> 00:14:20,833 ♪ 357 00:14:20,833 --> 00:14:23,417 - Orion has a great demeanor 358 00:14:23,500 --> 00:14:25,375 when it comes to addressing the group as a whole 359 00:14:25,458 --> 00:14:28,750 versus talking to me. 360 00:14:28,833 --> 00:14:31,458 In between when we film, there's no conversation. 361 00:14:31,542 --> 00:14:33,458 There is no reaching out. 362 00:14:33,542 --> 00:14:36,083 Or even last night, we spent the whole night talking 363 00:14:36,167 --> 00:14:37,917 and chatting with everyone. 364 00:14:38,042 --> 00:14:40,417 And there was never any indication of him wanting 365 00:14:40,500 --> 00:14:41,833 to have a conversation. 366 00:14:41,917 --> 00:14:43,625 So it doesn't seem authentic. 367 00:14:43,708 --> 00:14:45,083 It doesn't seem real. 368 00:14:45,167 --> 00:14:46,625 It's just frustrating. 369 00:14:46,750 --> 00:14:49,333 - Would you like to respond when I talk? 370 00:14:49,417 --> 00:14:50,583 [laughs nervously] 371 00:14:50,708 --> 00:14:51,833 - I'm just gonna drink my wine. 372 00:14:51,917 --> 00:14:54,125 ♪ 373 00:14:58,000 --> 00:14:59,875 [soft music] 374 00:14:59,958 --> 00:15:01,958 - Do you wanna go back to the retreat tonight? 375 00:15:02,042 --> 00:15:03,750 Or do you wanna go back to your house? 376 00:15:03,833 --> 00:15:05,250 What are you thinking after the surgery? 377 00:15:05,333 --> 00:15:06,750 - Yeah, I'll go back to the retreat 378 00:15:06,833 --> 00:15:08,250 just 'cause, like, everyone's there. 379 00:15:08,375 --> 00:15:10,000 I think we get to see everyone, and yeah, 380 00:15:10,042 --> 00:15:11,500 like, get hugs from people. 381 00:15:11,542 --> 00:15:13,417 ♪ 382 00:15:13,500 --> 00:15:17,167 - This day has been, you know, very challenging. 383 00:15:17,292 --> 00:15:19,500 Our marriage is, you know, bumpy. 384 00:15:19,542 --> 00:15:20,833 You know, we've had a lot of tough times 385 00:15:20,958 --> 00:15:22,292 and the good times. 386 00:15:22,292 --> 00:15:24,042 But I care a lot about her. 387 00:15:24,167 --> 00:15:26,458 And I'm just praying and hoping 388 00:15:26,542 --> 00:15:28,625 that her getting stitches goes smooth 389 00:15:28,708 --> 00:15:31,917 and everything is okay. 390 00:15:32,042 --> 00:15:35,875 But I'm here, sickness and in health. 391 00:15:36,000 --> 00:15:37,000 - To the OR we go. 392 00:15:37,042 --> 00:15:38,583 - Got everything? - I hope so. 393 00:15:38,667 --> 00:15:39,792 - All right. 394 00:15:39,875 --> 00:15:41,042 - ♪ And everything changed 395 00:15:43,250 --> 00:15:45,708 - ♪ Whole world's talking all about me ♪ 396 00:15:45,833 --> 00:15:47,333 ♪ Party won't stop without me ♪ 397 00:15:47,417 --> 00:15:50,458 - All right, so we all wrote these confessions. 398 00:15:50,542 --> 00:15:55,042 Now, the fun part is, we pick one out. 399 00:15:55,167 --> 00:15:56,958 And hopefully it isn't yours. 400 00:15:57,083 --> 00:15:59,333 Read it and guess who said it. 401 00:15:59,458 --> 00:16:02,125 ♪ 402 00:16:02,208 --> 00:16:06,375 This one says, I used to have an afro from age 19 to 21. 403 00:16:06,500 --> 00:16:08,917 And I would blow dry it upside down. 404 00:16:11,000 --> 00:16:14,958 Mike, clearly. 405 00:16:15,042 --> 00:16:17,875 - I mean, there's only so many options. 406 00:16:17,958 --> 00:16:18,875 It's clearly a clear thing. 407 00:16:18,958 --> 00:16:20,833 - That's my husband. 408 00:16:20,917 --> 00:16:22,000 Yeah. 409 00:16:22,083 --> 00:16:24,250 - It's my turn to draw here. 410 00:16:24,333 --> 00:16:25,833 All right. 411 00:16:25,875 --> 00:16:29,292 I used to have a bowl cut--one of my favorites, by the way-- 412 00:16:29,375 --> 00:16:32,542 and thought it would be a good idea to also get a perm. 413 00:16:32,667 --> 00:16:33,833 - That has to be you. 414 00:16:33,917 --> 00:16:34,917 - It was not me. 415 00:16:35,000 --> 00:16:36,292 - You, huh? 416 00:16:36,375 --> 00:16:38,833 - What about me screams bowl cut? 417 00:16:38,917 --> 00:16:40,125 - Yes. 418 00:16:40,208 --> 00:16:41,542 I'm sorry, yeah, it was terrible. 419 00:16:41,625 --> 00:16:43,250 Shout out to my mom for that. - I did. 420 00:16:43,333 --> 00:16:44,208 I had a perm. - What I would do... 421 00:16:44,333 --> 00:16:46,583 - And I was proud of it. Yeah. 422 00:16:46,708 --> 00:16:48,833 - To see photographic evidence of this bowl cut. 423 00:16:48,917 --> 00:16:50,167 - No, you won't. 424 00:16:50,167 --> 00:16:51,333 The evidence is burned. 425 00:16:51,417 --> 00:16:53,000 [laughs] 426 00:16:53,042 --> 00:16:54,833 It's nowhere. 427 00:16:54,917 --> 00:16:57,000 - Oh. 428 00:16:57,042 --> 00:16:59,875 Well, I open-mouth kissed a donkey. 429 00:16:59,875 --> 00:17:01,167 - Ew. 430 00:17:01,250 --> 00:17:04,042 ♪ 431 00:17:04,125 --> 00:17:06,167 - Yeah, I did definitely do a lot of dumb [bleep] 432 00:17:06,250 --> 00:17:07,542 when I was young. 433 00:17:07,625 --> 00:17:08,875 - No, I love donkeys. 434 00:17:09,000 --> 00:17:10,500 I just don't know if I'm going around 435 00:17:10,542 --> 00:17:12,500 open-mouth kissing them. 436 00:17:12,583 --> 00:17:15,000 Okay, got it. Got it. 437 00:17:15,083 --> 00:17:16,792 - Well, I don't have much to say after that. 438 00:17:16,875 --> 00:17:20,667 ♪ 439 00:17:20,750 --> 00:17:22,333 - Oh, now, see, we're in trouble 440 00:17:22,375 --> 00:17:24,750 'cause I'm not supposed to read my own, right? 441 00:17:24,833 --> 00:17:26,375 - Well, can we-- can we see yours? 442 00:17:26,500 --> 00:17:28,417 - So one of the most embarrassing moments 443 00:17:28,500 --> 00:17:30,375 of my entire life was when I poured 444 00:17:30,500 --> 00:17:33,958 an entire Jagerbomb all over Benji from Good Charlotte. 445 00:17:34,042 --> 00:17:35,000 - That is embarrassing. - So yeah, anyway. 446 00:17:35,125 --> 00:17:36,875 - How did you-- - I love that. 447 00:17:36,958 --> 00:17:38,375 - I need details, like you purposely did it? 448 00:17:38,458 --> 00:17:40,333 - Poured it on him. - It was, like, a paper cup. 449 00:17:40,417 --> 00:17:43,083 And the Jager had started to eat through it. 450 00:17:43,167 --> 00:17:45,958 And it collapsed, and it went all over him. 451 00:17:46,042 --> 00:17:48,583 - What scenario were you with him? 452 00:17:48,708 --> 00:17:50,167 - I was at-- 453 00:17:50,250 --> 00:17:52,708 - They used to date. - Wow. 454 00:17:52,708 --> 00:17:55,125 - I was at a party that 'NSYNC was throwing. 455 00:17:55,208 --> 00:17:57,000 And then I was battling whether or not to actually 456 00:17:57,167 --> 00:17:58,500 swallow that Jager. 457 00:17:58,583 --> 00:17:59,625 And I was like, I don't wanna do it. 458 00:17:59,708 --> 00:18:00,708 Well, you gotta do it. 459 00:18:00,792 --> 00:18:03,125 So I'm like, I'll do it, and... 460 00:18:03,208 --> 00:18:05,458 - Why did you get the invite to 'NSYNC's party? 461 00:18:05,542 --> 00:18:08,083 - I mean... 462 00:18:08,167 --> 00:18:11,000 21 and full of hope, baby, 21 and full of hope. 463 00:18:11,125 --> 00:18:12,708 - Who is this woman? 464 00:18:12,833 --> 00:18:15,042 And what else is she hiding? 465 00:18:15,167 --> 00:18:17,875 Either way, I'm into it. 466 00:18:17,958 --> 00:18:19,042 I forgot about Jagerbombs. 467 00:18:19,125 --> 00:18:21,833 That's what I forgot about. 468 00:18:21,917 --> 00:18:23,042 That was my drink in college. 469 00:18:23,125 --> 00:18:25,208 And that is straight poison now. 470 00:18:25,292 --> 00:18:27,042 - Well, I mean, I'd take one. 471 00:18:27,042 --> 00:18:30,000 - See, he's actually ready right now. 472 00:18:30,125 --> 00:18:33,708 - ♪ I see words coming out your mouth ♪ 473 00:18:33,792 --> 00:18:38,375 ♪ But I can't tell what you're saying ♪ 474 00:18:38,458 --> 00:18:40,708 - You know, hearing about what happened to Emily 475 00:18:40,792 --> 00:18:43,542 makes me kind of think about the things that really matter. 476 00:18:43,542 --> 00:18:46,333 And for me, that's my relationships. 477 00:18:46,417 --> 00:18:49,000 Would you be okay if I stole your ear for a second? 478 00:18:49,083 --> 00:18:50,708 - Yeah. - Okay. 479 00:18:50,833 --> 00:18:52,375 - Have a seat. 480 00:18:52,375 --> 00:18:57,042 - So I really just want the ability to honestly create 481 00:18:57,125 --> 00:19:00,625 a new narrative with Lauren, just one that's more positive 482 00:19:00,708 --> 00:19:05,000 and all of this tension just isn't present. 483 00:19:05,083 --> 00:19:06,375 I mean, honestly, Lauren, I would-- 484 00:19:06,500 --> 00:19:10,333 I would really like to build a bridge 485 00:19:10,458 --> 00:19:14,667 because I am missing our connection. 486 00:19:14,750 --> 00:19:16,583 I don't know if at dinner me saying what 487 00:19:16,708 --> 00:19:18,375 my intentions were about being here 488 00:19:18,458 --> 00:19:21,000 kind of caught you off guard. 489 00:19:21,042 --> 00:19:23,292 I just, I wanna be able to get to a point 490 00:19:23,375 --> 00:19:25,250 to where we can actually team up 491 00:19:25,375 --> 00:19:27,500 in a conversation like dinner and be like, yo, 492 00:19:27,583 --> 00:19:29,208 this is what we went through. 493 00:19:29,333 --> 00:19:31,417 This is the kind of [bleep] we dealt with. 494 00:19:31,500 --> 00:19:33,833 And this is how we got through it. 495 00:19:33,917 --> 00:19:36,667 ♪ 496 00:19:36,792 --> 00:19:40,833 - I will start with saying, it doesn't seem fair for you 497 00:19:40,917 --> 00:19:45,000 to wanna, like, team up and be partners in our divorce 498 00:19:45,083 --> 00:19:48,458 when I feel like I didn't get that type of partnership 499 00:19:48,542 --> 00:19:50,042 in our marriage. 500 00:19:50,042 --> 00:19:51,667 I didn't get that type of partnership 501 00:19:51,750 --> 00:19:55,500 when you solely decided you wanted a divorce. 502 00:19:55,542 --> 00:19:58,292 Like, I didn't get a say in what happened with this. 503 00:19:58,375 --> 00:19:59,833 And that really hurt my feelings. 504 00:19:59,917 --> 00:20:02,208 You could have just pulled me to the side yesterday 505 00:20:02,292 --> 00:20:03,750 and said, hey, at some point I do wanna have 506 00:20:03,875 --> 00:20:05,250 a conversation with you. 507 00:20:05,333 --> 00:20:06,792 You could have texted. 508 00:20:06,875 --> 00:20:09,583 You could have called. 509 00:20:09,708 --> 00:20:12,292 And it just feels like you only put me on the spot 510 00:20:12,375 --> 00:20:14,000 in front of other couples. 511 00:20:14,083 --> 00:20:17,833 So when you bring things up, it just doesn't feel real. 512 00:20:17,875 --> 00:20:18,833 - Okay. 513 00:20:21,500 --> 00:20:24,375 I'm very sorry I didn't make you feel like 514 00:20:24,542 --> 00:20:27,708 we were a team in our marriage. 515 00:20:27,792 --> 00:20:29,708 I'm very sorry about that. 516 00:20:29,792 --> 00:20:35,833 I know I really haven't been too in communication with you. 517 00:20:35,875 --> 00:20:38,500 But I'm really afraid to say something wrong 518 00:20:38,625 --> 00:20:41,833 and then things just kind of go south. 519 00:20:41,917 --> 00:20:47,000 And so that's where a lot of my just silence comes from. 520 00:20:47,125 --> 00:20:48,333 But that'll change. 521 00:20:48,375 --> 00:20:50,167 And I'm sorry about that. 522 00:20:50,250 --> 00:20:52,125 Is that what needs to happen? 523 00:20:52,208 --> 00:20:55,000 ♪ 524 00:20:55,042 --> 00:20:57,500 - I don't know what needs to happen right now, Orion. 525 00:20:57,500 --> 00:20:58,833 - Okay. 526 00:20:58,875 --> 00:21:00,833 - I'm at a point where it's like a battle 527 00:21:00,875 --> 00:21:02,667 of heart versus head. 528 00:21:02,708 --> 00:21:06,042 Head is like, what am I getting out of this? 529 00:21:06,125 --> 00:21:07,792 Why do I need to do this? 530 00:21:07,875 --> 00:21:09,542 This is some bull-[bleep]. 531 00:21:09,667 --> 00:21:12,000 That's what my head is saying. - Okay. 532 00:21:12,083 --> 00:21:14,583 - My heart is like, you still care. 533 00:21:14,667 --> 00:21:17,583 You still, like, want to have some type of clarity on this. 534 00:21:17,667 --> 00:21:20,208 You still want to have some type of forward progress. 535 00:21:20,292 --> 00:21:23,208 And I still feel this state of confusion. 536 00:21:23,333 --> 00:21:26,833 - That's on me. That is on me. 537 00:21:26,875 --> 00:21:29,333 You know, I haven't had the best approach 538 00:21:29,417 --> 00:21:30,833 when it comes to pulling you aside 539 00:21:30,917 --> 00:21:31,875 to talk about these things. 540 00:21:32,000 --> 00:21:34,500 But I'm wanting to do that. 541 00:21:34,542 --> 00:21:36,667 I am wanting to do that. 542 00:21:39,042 --> 00:21:42,375 - I mean... 543 00:21:42,375 --> 00:21:46,167 I can take that and sit with it for a while. 544 00:21:46,250 --> 00:21:50,542 It's just, I have to do what's best for me... 545 00:21:50,667 --> 00:21:51,875 - Absolutely. - At this point. 546 00:21:52,000 --> 00:21:56,625 Because like, I feel like I am a teammate of one. 547 00:21:56,708 --> 00:21:58,958 In our marriage, I understand that you reached 548 00:21:58,958 --> 00:22:00,208 your emotional capacity. 549 00:22:00,292 --> 00:22:03,042 But for me post marriage, it almost 550 00:22:03,125 --> 00:22:05,042 feels like I've reached mine. 551 00:22:05,167 --> 00:22:08,208 And I--I don't know, Orion. 552 00:22:08,292 --> 00:22:09,125 I just don't know. 553 00:22:09,208 --> 00:22:12,833 ♪ 554 00:22:16,750 --> 00:22:18,667 - ♪ All they do is sit and talk about you ♪ 555 00:22:18,708 --> 00:22:21,792 ♪ And they'll believe what the rumors are true ♪ 556 00:22:21,875 --> 00:22:24,583 - Oh, there's our bleeding princess. 557 00:22:24,708 --> 00:22:26,333 - I'm back. 558 00:22:26,417 --> 00:22:28,292 - Baby. - How are we? 559 00:22:28,375 --> 00:22:30,250 - How are you? - Had a day. 560 00:22:30,333 --> 00:22:33,125 - Oh, no, sweetie. 561 00:22:33,208 --> 00:22:34,708 - Hugs are welcome. 562 00:22:34,792 --> 00:22:36,375 - Please, I don't wanna overwhelm you, but-- 563 00:22:36,542 --> 00:22:38,500 - No, no, no. Hugs are great. - Okay. 564 00:22:38,542 --> 00:22:40,667 - Oh, God, girl. Oh, hi, sweetheart. 565 00:22:40,750 --> 00:22:44,958 ♪ 566 00:22:45,042 --> 00:22:47,667 - I've never seen that much blood for myself. 567 00:22:47,750 --> 00:22:49,208 - Yeah. 568 00:22:49,292 --> 00:22:50,917 - Yeah. 569 00:22:51,000 --> 00:22:54,042 Didn't know if I was fully gonna make it there for a sec. 570 00:22:54,125 --> 00:22:56,917 - Can you explain the story and what happened? 571 00:22:57,000 --> 00:22:58,667 - It was snowy and icy. 572 00:22:58,792 --> 00:23:00,417 And then, like, there was just this branch, 573 00:23:00,500 --> 00:23:02,042 and then I knew I was going right into the tree. 574 00:23:02,125 --> 00:23:03,583 And then I saw blood. 575 00:23:03,708 --> 00:23:05,333 I was like, oh, [bleep], I got a bloody nose. 576 00:23:05,417 --> 00:23:06,750 And I was like-- 577 00:23:06,833 --> 00:23:08,375 - This is more than a bloody nose. 578 00:23:08,458 --> 00:23:09,458 - I was like, where's the blood coming from? 579 00:23:09,542 --> 00:23:11,458 And then he got off. 580 00:23:11,542 --> 00:23:13,375 And he said he saw, like, blood drip down my face. 581 00:23:13,458 --> 00:23:14,667 - She was in the tree. 582 00:23:14,750 --> 00:23:15,750 And I was like, oh, [bleep]. 583 00:23:15,833 --> 00:23:17,333 So I just darted. 584 00:23:17,417 --> 00:23:18,500 - Yeah, he was, like, the only one that was, like, 585 00:23:18,625 --> 00:23:19,625 had a little bit of urgency. 586 00:23:19,708 --> 00:23:22,417 'Cause I was like, ooh. 587 00:23:22,500 --> 00:23:24,625 - And then I was like, call 911, like, immediately. 588 00:23:24,708 --> 00:23:26,625 - Oh, man. - You're a trooper, Emily. 589 00:23:26,708 --> 00:23:28,458 - Literally this is why you always wear [bleep] helmets, 590 00:23:28,542 --> 00:23:29,875 you guys. Like, I would have been dead. 591 00:23:29,958 --> 00:23:31,417 Everyone told me. 592 00:23:31,500 --> 00:23:33,375 So it was a day. 593 00:23:33,458 --> 00:23:36,208 Unexpected, woke up, looked great, came back. 594 00:23:36,333 --> 00:23:39,375 Now I look like Frankenstein. 595 00:23:39,375 --> 00:23:40,667 But I'm alive. 596 00:23:40,750 --> 00:23:42,667 - But you're in such good spirits. 597 00:23:42,750 --> 00:23:44,667 I know this is, like, a little thing, a little silver lining. 598 00:23:44,708 --> 00:23:49,083 But I do love that you're always just like, yeah. 599 00:23:49,167 --> 00:23:50,417 - I've never had a black eye. 600 00:23:50,500 --> 00:23:52,667 I've never been in an ambulance. 601 00:23:52,750 --> 00:23:54,458 - So you're knocking all the... 602 00:23:54,542 --> 00:23:56,833 - Never had a head injury. - Bucket list items. 603 00:23:56,917 --> 00:23:58,208 - Things that weren't-- things that weren't even 604 00:23:58,292 --> 00:24:00,250 on her bucket list. 605 00:24:00,375 --> 00:24:01,833 - You know, if you weren't looking at her 606 00:24:01,958 --> 00:24:03,208 and just hearing her, you would think 607 00:24:03,292 --> 00:24:04,625 that nothing ever happened. 608 00:24:04,708 --> 00:24:06,167 You know, I think a lot of people 609 00:24:06,292 --> 00:24:07,875 would have handled the situation very differently. 610 00:24:07,958 --> 00:24:11,542 And the fact that she is taking it so positively 611 00:24:11,625 --> 00:24:15,750 and being so good about everything just shows, 612 00:24:15,833 --> 00:24:18,250 you know, a testament to her character. 613 00:24:18,333 --> 00:24:22,458 But I know that I need to step up and be there for her. 614 00:24:22,458 --> 00:24:24,042 So I wanna do everything in my power 615 00:24:24,125 --> 00:24:27,333 to make sure that she has a speedy and healthy recovery. 616 00:24:27,375 --> 00:24:29,750 - I'm ready to get back in that bed. 617 00:24:29,833 --> 00:24:31,458 All right, love you guys. - Okay, night, night. 618 00:24:31,542 --> 00:24:34,083 - Bye. - Good night. 619 00:24:34,167 --> 00:24:38,667 - Holy [bleep]. 620 00:24:38,750 --> 00:24:39,917 - Stitches was this small. - Yeah, you said 15 stitches. 621 00:24:40,042 --> 00:24:41,542 - 15 stitches was like this. - You lied. 622 00:24:41,625 --> 00:24:43,333 - Yo. - It's like this. 623 00:24:43,417 --> 00:24:46,875 - That was much bigger than I ever thought it would be. 624 00:24:47,000 --> 00:24:48,750 - I'm glad Brennan was there for her, 625 00:24:48,833 --> 00:24:51,417 and I'm glad he was very quick acting with everything, 626 00:24:51,500 --> 00:24:53,833 'cause it could have been so much worse. 627 00:24:53,958 --> 00:25:00,708 ♪ 628 00:25:00,792 --> 00:25:05,375 - I'm still sick in bed. 629 00:25:05,458 --> 00:25:08,708 I was throwing up last night, so I'm definitely not well. 630 00:25:08,792 --> 00:25:11,500 Austin slept in another bed. 631 00:25:11,542 --> 00:25:14,250 This is hell. 632 00:25:14,333 --> 00:25:18,083 I hope I feel better soon so that I can get back out there 633 00:25:18,167 --> 00:25:21,125 and see everyone and also to not look like this. 634 00:25:21,208 --> 00:25:23,667 I am the walking dead. 635 00:25:23,708 --> 00:25:26,625 Although, actually, Em is the walking dead. 636 00:25:26,708 --> 00:25:30,667 I'm just, like, the walking semi-alive. 637 00:25:30,708 --> 00:25:32,250 - Do we know how Becca is feeling today? 638 00:25:32,375 --> 00:25:34,167 - I don't know. Hopefully better. 639 00:25:34,250 --> 00:25:37,583 This'll be a fun little way to unwind, ladies. 640 00:25:37,583 --> 00:25:38,833 - This is a great idea. 641 00:25:38,917 --> 00:25:39,750 - I agree. 642 00:25:39,833 --> 00:25:41,375 - Shout out to Chloe. 643 00:25:41,458 --> 00:25:42,583 - Got the cucumbers. - Yes. 644 00:25:42,667 --> 00:25:43,667 - I love it. 645 00:25:43,750 --> 00:25:44,708 - Who wants what? 646 00:25:44,792 --> 00:25:46,375 - I wanna do a foot mask. 647 00:25:46,458 --> 00:25:47,583 - You want a foot mask? - Yes. 648 00:25:47,667 --> 00:25:49,208 - I'm gonna get a face mask. 649 00:25:49,292 --> 00:25:51,208 - I wonder if the boys are doing face masks. 650 00:25:51,292 --> 00:25:52,917 [laughter] 651 00:25:53,000 --> 00:25:55,167 - All right, who wants to lose all their money? 652 00:25:55,292 --> 00:25:57,333 ♪ 653 00:25:57,417 --> 00:25:59,250 - I like this energy, Brennan. 654 00:25:59,333 --> 00:26:02,500 Like, I feel like we're gonna be competing at everything 655 00:26:02,583 --> 00:26:04,042 and I'm here for it. 656 00:26:04,125 --> 00:26:05,875 - All right, bro, careful what you wish for. 657 00:26:05,875 --> 00:26:09,000 - I done wished it twice. - Uh-huh. 658 00:26:09,083 --> 00:26:10,875 - Thank you, sir. - Texas Hold 'Em? 659 00:26:10,958 --> 00:26:12,000 - Yeah. 660 00:26:12,083 --> 00:26:14,750 ♪ 661 00:26:14,833 --> 00:26:16,958 - Good morning, sunshine. - Hey, guys. 662 00:26:17,042 --> 00:26:17,958 - Morning. 663 00:26:18,042 --> 00:26:19,542 - How you doing? 664 00:26:19,542 --> 00:26:20,958 - No, I slept like a baby. 665 00:26:21,042 --> 00:26:22,875 - You did? 666 00:26:22,958 --> 00:26:24,333 - I don't think anyone else could have come in 667 00:26:24,417 --> 00:26:25,708 looking like that, Emily. 668 00:26:25,792 --> 00:26:26,625 - That's what I said. I was like-- 669 00:26:26,708 --> 00:26:27,917 - Beautiful. 670 00:26:28,000 --> 00:26:29,250 - I was like, you look beautiful. 671 00:26:29,250 --> 00:26:31,625 - Like, a little ombre with the blood going on. 672 00:26:31,708 --> 00:26:32,833 - Yeah, it looked like pink highlights at one point. 673 00:26:32,917 --> 00:26:34,708 - It was like pink highlights. 674 00:26:34,792 --> 00:26:36,167 - I thought I was gonna have permanent pink highlights. 675 00:26:36,292 --> 00:26:37,917 Like, it's the worst to get out of your hair. 676 00:26:38,042 --> 00:26:39,125 And I'm like, this is the worst color to-- 677 00:26:39,208 --> 00:26:40,792 - Yeah. 678 00:26:40,875 --> 00:26:43,167 - It's crazy. I'm just glad she's okay, you know? 679 00:26:43,292 --> 00:26:45,542 - We're glad she's okay. 680 00:26:45,625 --> 00:26:48,458 - Handling it like a champ. 681 00:26:48,542 --> 00:26:50,708 - I don't think I could have handled it as well as she has. 682 00:26:50,792 --> 00:26:52,958 - Yeah, no, I don't know how she's 683 00:26:53,042 --> 00:26:56,750 just in such good spirits and has been so positive. 684 00:26:56,833 --> 00:27:01,333 It's really great. 685 00:27:01,375 --> 00:27:04,417 - Chloe told us that her and Michael are doing well. 686 00:27:04,542 --> 00:27:06,000 - Yay. 687 00:27:06,083 --> 00:27:07,500 - I wanna hear everything because I missed it all. 688 00:27:07,542 --> 00:27:09,208 Honeymoon-- - It's been a whirlwind. 689 00:27:09,333 --> 00:27:11,333 And I just don't think you could ever be prepared for it. 690 00:27:11,375 --> 00:27:14,875 But I think if there were any stranger that was going 691 00:27:14,958 --> 00:27:16,625 to make it really easy to marry him, 692 00:27:16,708 --> 00:27:19,458 it's gonna be Michael, just a really good man. 693 00:27:19,542 --> 00:27:20,417 He's got a good heart. 694 00:27:20,542 --> 00:27:23,000 And he's hilarious. 695 00:27:23,000 --> 00:27:24,500 - I'll be like, you know, I'm-- 696 00:27:24,542 --> 00:27:26,250 I'm gonna take your earrings, and I'm gonna wear them. 697 00:27:26,375 --> 00:27:28,958 You know? 698 00:27:29,042 --> 00:27:30,583 - Did that actually happen, where you were like, 699 00:27:30,708 --> 00:27:32,375 I'll wear your earrings? 700 00:27:32,458 --> 00:27:33,875 - Oh, yeah, I literally was like-- 701 00:27:33,875 --> 00:27:35,458 - How did she respond to that? Like, did she laugh? 702 00:27:35,542 --> 00:27:37,125 - Yeah, she laughed. 703 00:27:37,208 --> 00:27:39,500 I mean, I'm not gonna snatch them off her ear or nothing. 704 00:27:39,583 --> 00:27:41,833 - Are you trying to be funny, or you were just actually, 705 00:27:41,917 --> 00:27:43,375 like, trying to wear them. 706 00:27:43,458 --> 00:27:44,458 - Oh, no, I mean, it's kind of both. 707 00:27:44,542 --> 00:27:45,750 You know what I'm saying? 708 00:27:45,833 --> 00:27:47,000 Like, I'll throw it out there as a joke. 709 00:27:47,083 --> 00:27:48,333 But if she's like, you can wear him, 710 00:27:48,417 --> 00:27:49,708 then I'll be like, all right, cool. 711 00:27:49,792 --> 00:27:51,583 Then pop one in, you know? 712 00:27:51,667 --> 00:27:52,667 But I'm not gonna be like, hey, you know, 713 00:27:52,708 --> 00:27:54,292 remember that other day when I said 714 00:27:54,375 --> 00:27:56,208 I would wear your earrings, it's been 48 hours. 715 00:27:56,292 --> 00:27:57,667 [laughter] 716 00:27:57,792 --> 00:28:01,792 - He is high fashion to the max. 717 00:28:01,875 --> 00:28:04,667 So it's just been a lot of fun to watch. 718 00:28:04,708 --> 00:28:06,292 I've really enjoyed, like... - The skirt. 719 00:28:06,375 --> 00:28:07,792 - Watching him. 720 00:28:07,875 --> 00:28:09,375 That man rolled in with a skirt. 721 00:28:09,458 --> 00:28:10,958 The best thing, he didn't even tell me it was coming. 722 00:28:11,042 --> 00:28:12,792 He was just like, ready to go to the retreat? 723 00:28:12,875 --> 00:28:13,750 And I was like, oh. 724 00:28:13,875 --> 00:28:15,417 - Everybody, ready? 725 00:28:15,500 --> 00:28:17,208 - You're like, love that. - Great. 726 00:28:17,292 --> 00:28:18,750 Love that for you. 727 00:28:18,750 --> 00:28:20,792 But when it comes to the sexual attraction, 728 00:28:20,875 --> 00:28:23,917 having that flair and that really 729 00:28:24,000 --> 00:28:27,417 fashion forward personality has been a challenge 730 00:28:27,500 --> 00:28:29,000 for me, which is hard. 731 00:28:29,083 --> 00:28:30,083 - I know in all my relationships, 732 00:28:30,208 --> 00:28:31,792 I'm big on just saying you know what? 733 00:28:31,875 --> 00:28:33,042 I think I'm getting triggered right now. 734 00:28:33,125 --> 00:28:34,958 I don't know what is going on. 735 00:28:35,042 --> 00:28:36,750 But this is triggering me a lot. 736 00:28:36,875 --> 00:28:38,167 - I like the way you just put that. 737 00:28:38,167 --> 00:28:39,625 You don't know what's gonna trigger you 738 00:28:39,708 --> 00:28:41,542 until you're in the moment. You're like, ooh. 739 00:28:41,625 --> 00:28:42,708 - No. - That's so true. 740 00:28:42,792 --> 00:28:44,417 - Yikes, that's triggering me. 741 00:28:44,542 --> 00:28:47,000 How do I tell him it's triggering me? 742 00:28:47,083 --> 00:28:48,667 - When we were at the honeymoon, 743 00:28:48,750 --> 00:28:50,792 it felt like sort of in the-- 744 00:28:50,875 --> 00:28:54,000 in the realm that we've been having, like, playful banter. 745 00:28:54,042 --> 00:28:57,042 Like, I feel like it kind of just--it fits. 746 00:28:57,125 --> 00:29:01,333 - So I know you and Emily are focusing on being friends. 747 00:29:01,417 --> 00:29:03,667 Do you think what's happening right now is gonna change 748 00:29:03,708 --> 00:29:05,333 that dynamic in any way? 749 00:29:05,375 --> 00:29:09,000 - Yeah, so you know, since the accident, obviously, 750 00:29:09,083 --> 00:29:10,958 everything changed quite a bit. 751 00:29:11,042 --> 00:29:13,250 You know, we went through a traumatic experience. 752 00:29:13,333 --> 00:29:17,167 And we're honestly trying to give it the best shot we can. 753 00:29:17,292 --> 00:29:21,167 And I think it's going well so far. 754 00:29:21,208 --> 00:29:24,208 - He was, like, amazing yesterday, honestly. 755 00:29:24,292 --> 00:29:29,000 He saw a lot of blood, saw a lot of my inside of my head. 756 00:29:29,083 --> 00:29:32,333 After, like, going through something like that, like, 757 00:29:32,417 --> 00:29:35,333 it was--yeah. 758 00:29:35,458 --> 00:29:39,167 Crazy, but, like, wouldn't have wanted anyone else there. 759 00:29:39,292 --> 00:29:40,708 - I know. I know. 760 00:29:40,792 --> 00:29:42,833 - Sorry. - We're all coming. 761 00:29:42,958 --> 00:29:44,917 - We're all coming. 762 00:29:45,000 --> 00:29:48,000 - But, yeah, it's crazy what really brings you together. 763 00:29:48,042 --> 00:29:49,667 - No. 764 00:29:49,708 --> 00:29:51,500 - I mean, obviously, I didn't want something that traumatic. 765 00:29:51,583 --> 00:29:54,125 But, yeah, I think it just really 766 00:29:54,208 --> 00:29:55,958 brought stuff into perspective. 767 00:29:56,042 --> 00:30:01,667 - ♪ I won't give up on you 768 00:30:01,708 --> 00:30:04,875 ♪ 769 00:30:05,000 --> 00:30:08,000 - She's eatin' toast. 770 00:30:08,125 --> 00:30:10,500 And it's staying in my belly. 771 00:30:10,625 --> 00:30:12,875 I'm doing better. 772 00:30:12,958 --> 00:30:15,000 We're gonna really rally here. 773 00:30:15,083 --> 00:30:18,500 - ♪ Ooh, I came to win 774 00:30:18,625 --> 00:30:20,417 ♪ Right now, ooh, got me 775 00:30:20,500 --> 00:30:23,292 ♪ Ooh, like I'm glittering like gold, yeah ♪ 776 00:30:23,375 --> 00:30:27,125 ♪ Ooh, so let's begin right now ♪ 777 00:30:27,208 --> 00:30:29,125 - Should I take my shoes off? 778 00:30:29,208 --> 00:30:30,667 - Hi. 779 00:30:30,750 --> 00:30:31,667 - Hello. 780 00:30:31,750 --> 00:30:34,125 - Hello, hello. 781 00:30:34,208 --> 00:30:37,083 - This couples retreat has been a little jarring. 782 00:30:37,167 --> 00:30:39,542 - Whoa, I don't wanna be in front. 783 00:30:39,667 --> 00:30:40,833 - No pressure. 784 00:30:40,917 --> 00:30:42,333 - I'm just gonna sit down. 785 00:30:42,417 --> 00:30:44,542 - And so I thought we could do some yoga. 786 00:30:44,625 --> 00:30:46,208 I'm just hoping that this can just 787 00:30:46,292 --> 00:30:48,958 bring a spirit of tranquility to the house 788 00:30:49,042 --> 00:30:53,458 and just help us all on our individual journeys. 789 00:30:53,542 --> 00:30:54,583 You brought a sandwich? 790 00:30:54,708 --> 00:30:57,458 [laughter] 791 00:30:57,542 --> 00:31:02,292 ♪ 792 00:31:02,375 --> 00:31:03,750 - All right. 793 00:31:03,875 --> 00:31:05,208 Hello, everyone. How's everyone doing? 794 00:31:05,292 --> 00:31:06,500 - Good. - Good. 795 00:31:06,583 --> 00:31:10,750 - My name is Lesley, also known as the Ebony Yogini. 796 00:31:10,750 --> 00:31:14,333 And I'm excited to be here with you today. 797 00:31:14,417 --> 00:31:17,792 We're going to be working through a flow of open throat 798 00:31:17,875 --> 00:31:19,667 chakra and open heart chakra. 799 00:31:19,750 --> 00:31:21,333 And the things that those promote 800 00:31:21,333 --> 00:31:25,000 are excellent communication and open compassion. 801 00:31:25,042 --> 00:31:26,083 - Thank you for being here. 802 00:31:26,083 --> 00:31:27,292 - Happy to have you guys. 803 00:31:27,292 --> 00:31:28,750 - We need the zen. 804 00:31:28,833 --> 00:31:31,167 - Yes, and we are happy to provide. 805 00:31:31,250 --> 00:31:33,125 Well, in this moment, I'll have you just find 806 00:31:33,208 --> 00:31:34,792 a comfortable seat for yourself, 807 00:31:34,875 --> 00:31:37,208 whatever that looks like for you. 808 00:31:37,292 --> 00:31:39,208 When you're ready, go ahead and relax your shoulders down. 809 00:31:39,292 --> 00:31:41,917 And from here, I'll have you extend both arms up above you. 810 00:31:42,000 --> 00:31:43,750 Take some time to interlace your fingers. 811 00:31:43,833 --> 00:31:46,125 Press your palms up towards the sky. 812 00:31:46,208 --> 00:31:48,167 Drop your chin towards your chest. 813 00:31:48,250 --> 00:31:51,875 Take a few deep breaths here. 814 00:31:51,958 --> 00:31:54,917 We're tapping into our compassion space, our space 815 00:31:55,000 --> 00:31:58,333 that allows us to connect not only with ourselves 816 00:31:58,417 --> 00:32:00,625 but with others. 817 00:32:00,708 --> 00:32:02,833 - Looking cute, Austin. 818 00:32:02,875 --> 00:32:04,500 - And exhale. 819 00:32:04,542 --> 00:32:05,583 We're coming down, switching sides, hands up. 820 00:32:05,667 --> 00:32:06,792 - Do I look cute? - Yeah. 821 00:32:06,875 --> 00:32:11,875 [laughter] 822 00:32:11,958 --> 00:32:12,792 - It's a good look for you, bro. 823 00:32:12,875 --> 00:32:14,125 - To roll your wrists. 824 00:32:21,875 --> 00:32:24,000 - Hop your feet forward to meet your hands. 825 00:32:24,083 --> 00:32:27,167 Rising back up, exhale, cactus your arms open, 826 00:32:27,292 --> 00:32:29,667 deeper back bend. How far can you go? 827 00:32:29,708 --> 00:32:32,167 Lift your heart. Lift your gaze. 828 00:32:32,250 --> 00:32:37,083 Compassion, inhale, rising up, taking this moment 829 00:32:37,167 --> 00:32:41,208 to consider what truths it is you have to share 830 00:32:41,333 --> 00:32:43,750 and how you can best communicate those, 831 00:32:43,833 --> 00:32:46,292 what love you have to give, 832 00:32:46,375 --> 00:32:49,292 and how it can best be directed. 833 00:32:49,375 --> 00:32:51,000 - Em, careful. 834 00:32:51,042 --> 00:32:53,458 Just head up. - Okay. 835 00:32:53,542 --> 00:32:55,542 - That's, like, the one thing you're not supposed to do. 836 00:32:55,667 --> 00:32:57,000 - Fantastic. 837 00:32:57,083 --> 00:32:59,125 I'll have you press back into a comfortable seat. 838 00:32:59,208 --> 00:33:03,917 And since we are leaning into the concept of love, 839 00:33:04,000 --> 00:33:06,708 compassion, and communication, 840 00:33:06,833 --> 00:33:08,500 what does that really mean to you? 841 00:33:08,583 --> 00:33:14,458 And how can you best show compassion in your marriage? 842 00:33:14,542 --> 00:33:17,875 - I show compassion by trying to be as empathetic 843 00:33:18,042 --> 00:33:20,958 and understanding as I can be. 844 00:33:21,042 --> 00:33:22,833 You know, Emily and I went through something 845 00:33:22,875 --> 00:33:24,500 pretty traumatic yesterday. 846 00:33:24,583 --> 00:33:26,375 And I think she needed a lot of compassion. 847 00:33:26,458 --> 00:33:29,208 And you know, just try to be there for her 848 00:33:29,292 --> 00:33:31,625 and give her whatever she needed. 849 00:33:31,750 --> 00:33:35,750 - I would say that I practice compassion first by extending 850 00:33:35,875 --> 00:33:40,333 it to myself just because you can't count on someone else 851 00:33:40,417 --> 00:33:42,250 to extend it to you all the time. 852 00:33:42,375 --> 00:33:44,833 But you can definitely practice it within yourself. 853 00:33:44,917 --> 00:33:48,167 And I think by giving that compassion to yourself first, 854 00:33:48,208 --> 00:33:52,125 it allows you to just freely give it to others. 855 00:33:52,250 --> 00:33:53,792 - You know, right now, Lauren and I, 856 00:33:53,792 --> 00:33:56,375 we're in a weird, tough spot. 857 00:33:56,458 --> 00:34:00,542 But you know, moving forward, I'd like to show compassion 858 00:34:00,625 --> 00:34:03,250 and being more welcoming, you know, reaching out, 859 00:34:03,333 --> 00:34:05,333 more opening lines of communication, 860 00:34:05,417 --> 00:34:07,500 be it, you know, phone calls, texts, FaceTime, 861 00:34:07,583 --> 00:34:12,250 whatever it may be, you know, and also just 862 00:34:12,250 --> 00:34:14,083 coming at you in a very genuine way. 863 00:34:14,208 --> 00:34:17,333 And, you know, ultimately, you know, things start to move 864 00:34:17,375 --> 00:34:19,917 in a more positive light for both of us. 865 00:34:20,000 --> 00:34:23,500 - Absolutely, I think we have some valuable lessons just 866 00:34:23,542 --> 00:34:27,792 in total in regards to how we care for ourselves, 867 00:34:27,875 --> 00:34:29,833 how we care for each other. 868 00:34:29,875 --> 00:34:34,417 And I think it is of utmost importance in partnership 869 00:34:34,500 --> 00:34:38,667 and in relationship to understand that you are not 870 00:34:38,708 --> 00:34:43,625 enemies and that you are not in battle with each other, 871 00:34:43,708 --> 00:34:46,958 that ultimately, though you may not be seeing 872 00:34:47,042 --> 00:34:50,333 eye-to-eye in a moment, understanding that 873 00:34:50,417 --> 00:34:53,792 if you extend your most kind and compassionate self, 874 00:34:53,875 --> 00:34:57,333 then that will always lend towards an effective progress 875 00:34:57,417 --> 00:35:00,000 that is beautiful and paramount. 876 00:35:00,083 --> 00:35:03,708 - ♪ The strength in all we are ♪ 877 00:35:08,667 --> 00:35:10,375 - ♪ Ooh, where we go 878 00:35:10,500 --> 00:35:12,333 - So how was sitting in on the yoga thing? 879 00:35:12,417 --> 00:35:14,500 - I think you guys did great. 880 00:35:14,542 --> 00:35:16,792 It was weird, I was like a spectator to yoga, 881 00:35:16,875 --> 00:35:18,292 watching everybody. - Yeah. 882 00:35:18,375 --> 00:35:19,833 It's not a very thrilling sport to watch. 883 00:35:19,875 --> 00:35:21,000 - Aw, I loved it. - Yeah? 884 00:35:21,125 --> 00:35:22,708 All right. 885 00:35:22,792 --> 00:35:26,667 I'm glad to see you're feeling well enough to at least 886 00:35:26,708 --> 00:35:28,167 sit there for that long. 887 00:35:28,250 --> 00:35:29,125 It feels like you've been sleeping 888 00:35:29,208 --> 00:35:31,000 for the past 24 hours. 889 00:35:31,125 --> 00:35:32,417 - I have. 890 00:35:32,500 --> 00:35:34,833 No, honestly, Em is inspiring to me. 891 00:35:34,917 --> 00:35:38,667 I'm like, if Em can sit out there, I can sit out there. 892 00:35:38,792 --> 00:35:40,458 So, yeah, it was good. 893 00:35:40,542 --> 00:35:43,167 Glad to be back, sad I missed last night and stuff. 894 00:35:43,208 --> 00:35:46,458 - Yeah, I'm definitely sad you missed last night too. 895 00:35:46,583 --> 00:35:50,542 You would have enjoyed all the conversations. 896 00:35:50,625 --> 00:35:53,458 You know, I know this weekend hasn't, like, 897 00:35:53,542 --> 00:35:57,667 really looked like what we wanted it to. 898 00:35:57,750 --> 00:36:00,375 So I guess I just wanted to check in with you to see 899 00:36:00,500 --> 00:36:02,750 how that is sitting with you. 900 00:36:02,833 --> 00:36:08,167 - Yeah, I mean, obviously nothing intimacy-wise 901 00:36:08,250 --> 00:36:10,167 was gonna happen last night. - Yeah. 902 00:36:10,208 --> 00:36:12,000 - In fact, I kicked you out of the bedroom. 903 00:36:12,083 --> 00:36:13,125 - Yes, you did. 904 00:36:13,208 --> 00:36:16,000 - I said, please don't be here. 905 00:36:16,083 --> 00:36:18,292 Yeah, and you know, a month in a marriage, 906 00:36:18,375 --> 00:36:21,000 I feel like nobody needs to see their spouse puking. 907 00:36:21,042 --> 00:36:23,208 - Well. [both laugh] 908 00:36:23,333 --> 00:36:28,167 I think I would like to, like, focus on enjoying 909 00:36:28,250 --> 00:36:29,833 the rest of the day together. 910 00:36:29,917 --> 00:36:32,875 - Mm-hmm. Totally. 911 00:36:32,958 --> 00:36:35,250 - And then, like, seeing if we can get back into 912 00:36:35,333 --> 00:36:40,667 that head space and seeing what happens, like, 913 00:36:40,708 --> 00:36:42,625 tonight and after that. 914 00:36:42,708 --> 00:36:48,042 - I think I just need, like, some effort, some flirting. 915 00:36:48,208 --> 00:36:51,333 Like, you know, like, the basic things 916 00:36:51,458 --> 00:36:52,500 that you need in a relationship. 917 00:36:52,583 --> 00:36:54,375 - Yeah. 918 00:36:54,458 --> 00:37:01,208 ♪ 919 00:37:01,292 --> 00:37:03,167 - Well, thank you for-- 920 00:37:03,250 --> 00:37:05,917 you know, thank you so much for bringing those two. 921 00:37:06,000 --> 00:37:09,000 It was spiritually opening for me. 922 00:37:09,083 --> 00:37:10,417 - I'm glad that it helped. 923 00:37:10,542 --> 00:37:12,167 I hoped that it would. 924 00:37:12,250 --> 00:37:14,917 Just my intention was very much so 925 00:37:15,000 --> 00:37:18,042 for it to just get us all in a different head space, 926 00:37:18,125 --> 00:37:19,417 a different heart space. 927 00:37:19,500 --> 00:37:21,167 So I feel like-- - It's quite effective. 928 00:37:21,250 --> 00:37:23,750 - It worked. - Yeah, it's quite effective. 929 00:37:23,833 --> 00:37:28,125 - My emotions towards you are open to being open. 930 00:37:28,208 --> 00:37:29,708 - Yeah? 931 00:37:29,792 --> 00:37:33,000 - I mean, you already said that you wanted to just, 932 00:37:33,125 --> 00:37:34,500 like, reopen lines of communication. 933 00:37:34,542 --> 00:37:38,458 So I feel like doing that, check. 934 00:37:38,542 --> 00:37:41,000 But I don't know how to navigate divorce. 935 00:37:41,083 --> 00:37:43,208 So I don't know what that looks like. 936 00:37:43,292 --> 00:37:47,333 I don't know how much... 937 00:37:47,417 --> 00:37:50,583 I can receive of you in divorce. 938 00:37:50,708 --> 00:37:52,333 - Sure. 939 00:37:52,375 --> 00:37:53,542 - Yeah, I don't know where I am. 940 00:37:53,625 --> 00:37:55,042 I don't know. - That's okay. 941 00:37:55,125 --> 00:37:56,292 I don't know either. 942 00:37:56,375 --> 00:37:58,625 - I think that we are doing a good job 943 00:37:58,708 --> 00:38:02,917 in these group settings of being civil, 944 00:38:03,000 --> 00:38:06,167 of being friendly. 945 00:38:06,292 --> 00:38:08,833 Genuine friendship, I don't know. 946 00:38:08,958 --> 00:38:10,625 Right now, if I'm being honest, 947 00:38:10,708 --> 00:38:13,500 I just don't know how much value I would see 948 00:38:13,625 --> 00:38:16,583 in us having a friendship. 949 00:38:16,667 --> 00:38:20,500 I want intentional friendships in my life at this point. 950 00:38:20,583 --> 00:38:22,125 I want valuable friendships. 951 00:38:22,208 --> 00:38:25,833 And I just... 952 00:38:25,875 --> 00:38:27,167 - Just not there yet. 953 00:38:27,250 --> 00:38:30,542 - I'm not there with you right now. 954 00:38:30,667 --> 00:38:32,542 This time, like, three, four weeks ago, 955 00:38:32,667 --> 00:38:34,667 I was in a very different mental state, 956 00:38:34,750 --> 00:38:38,042 a very different heart state, 957 00:38:38,125 --> 00:38:40,333 definitely holding out on love. 958 00:38:40,500 --> 00:38:42,167 And I don't know why I was holding out 959 00:38:42,208 --> 00:38:44,667 for so long for you to reach out. 960 00:38:44,750 --> 00:38:47,792 - I had no idea. 961 00:38:47,875 --> 00:38:49,667 - I didn't expect it to feel like a real breakup 962 00:38:49,750 --> 00:38:52,375 considering it was so short, but it did. 963 00:38:52,458 --> 00:38:55,500 But I feel like, yeah, like, 964 00:38:55,542 --> 00:38:57,000 all this would have been, like, really good 965 00:38:57,083 --> 00:38:59,333 for my soul three weeks ago, 966 00:38:59,417 --> 00:39:02,542 really good for maybe us three weeks ago. 967 00:39:02,667 --> 00:39:06,250 But now, it's like to me, it feels like 968 00:39:06,333 --> 00:39:07,875 this is a great effort and a great step. 969 00:39:07,958 --> 00:39:13,333 But it's, like, still, damn, where was this? 970 00:39:13,417 --> 00:39:15,917 That's all, but... 971 00:39:16,000 --> 00:39:17,833 - That's understandable. 972 00:39:17,917 --> 00:39:21,167 So would you like to check in in maybe a week or so, 973 00:39:21,250 --> 00:39:23,083 maybe a couple days? 974 00:39:23,167 --> 00:39:24,833 - You know, maybe let me drive that. 975 00:39:24,875 --> 00:39:26,125 - Sure. 976 00:39:26,208 --> 00:39:27,333 - And I'll reach out if that's-- 977 00:39:27,417 --> 00:39:28,833 if that's okay with you. - Absolutely. 978 00:39:28,833 --> 00:39:29,875 ♪ 979 00:39:33,875 --> 00:39:35,125 - ♪ Not that the pressure, pressure ♪ 980 00:39:35,125 --> 00:39:38,167 ♪ Pressure brings you down 981 00:39:38,250 --> 00:39:42,333 ♪ Not that you're better when there's no one else around ♪ 982 00:39:42,375 --> 00:39:43,333 - Hi, guys. - Good seeing you. 983 00:39:43,375 --> 00:39:44,500 - How it's going? - Hey. 984 00:39:44,542 --> 00:39:46,250 - How you doing? - Hello. 985 00:39:46,333 --> 00:39:47,542 - Hi, I'm Clare. 986 00:39:47,625 --> 00:39:49,625 - Clare, nice to meet you. 987 00:39:49,708 --> 00:39:51,083 - We're just gonna get you warmed up really quick, 988 00:39:51,167 --> 00:39:52,833 make sure that we're safe on all the obstacles. 989 00:39:52,917 --> 00:39:54,333 And then we'll hop on that course, okay? 990 00:39:54,375 --> 00:39:55,333 - Sweet. - Sound good? 991 00:39:55,458 --> 00:39:57,042 - Let's do it. Yeah. - Yes. 992 00:39:57,125 --> 00:40:00,042 - With all the things like Emily's accident 993 00:40:00,125 --> 00:40:03,583 and then Becca being sick, I'm just hoping that 994 00:40:03,667 --> 00:40:06,958 this obstacle course gives us a chance to, like, 995 00:40:07,042 --> 00:40:10,375 bond as a group and slack off and have fun and not, 996 00:40:10,500 --> 00:40:13,667 like, always be so serious. 997 00:40:13,708 --> 00:40:15,333 - This is our swoop slider. 998 00:40:15,417 --> 00:40:17,083 Really the only rules with the air bag is, 999 00:40:17,208 --> 00:40:18,583 you just can't land on your head. 1000 00:40:18,583 --> 00:40:20,958 And you cannot put your arms behind you when you land. 1001 00:40:21,042 --> 00:40:23,292 Goal would be to grab those two hanging handles. 1002 00:40:23,375 --> 00:40:24,583 Those are called the flying squirrels. 1003 00:40:24,667 --> 00:40:26,542 Hayden's gonna demo for you. 1004 00:40:26,625 --> 00:40:29,000 Just pop that bar off the top. 1005 00:40:29,083 --> 00:40:32,208 ♪ 1006 00:40:32,292 --> 00:40:34,167 - Yeah. - I see. 1007 00:40:34,208 --> 00:40:35,708 - Becca seems so happy. 1008 00:40:35,792 --> 00:40:37,042 - This is crazy. - I'm nervous. 1009 00:40:37,125 --> 00:40:38,417 - Just like that. 1010 00:40:38,500 --> 00:40:40,125 - Way to go, you. - Yeah, that was great. 1011 00:40:40,208 --> 00:40:41,542 - You're good to go. 1012 00:40:41,667 --> 00:40:43,792 Just step off, and it'll take you down. 1013 00:40:43,875 --> 00:40:45,125 There you go. 1014 00:40:45,208 --> 00:40:47,208 ♪ 1015 00:40:47,292 --> 00:40:48,917 [cheering] 1016 00:40:49,000 --> 00:40:50,417 - There you go. 1017 00:40:50,500 --> 00:40:52,125 - Oh, man, now I gotta get to the next one. 1018 00:40:52,208 --> 00:40:53,167 What a beast. 1019 00:40:53,292 --> 00:40:55,417 [all groan] 1020 00:40:55,500 --> 00:40:56,458 - Clare. 1021 00:40:56,542 --> 00:40:57,875 - You got this. 1022 00:40:57,958 --> 00:40:59,083 - Whoo! 1023 00:40:59,208 --> 00:41:01,208 - Just like a little gymnast. 1024 00:41:01,333 --> 00:41:02,417 - You got it, you got it, you got it! 1025 00:41:02,542 --> 00:41:04,542 [all cheering] 1026 00:41:04,625 --> 00:41:06,458 - Look at her [bleep] back. 1027 00:41:06,542 --> 00:41:07,667 - Yes, Clare. - Yes, Clare. 1028 00:41:07,750 --> 00:41:09,167 - Hope it gives me enough momentum. 1029 00:41:09,208 --> 00:41:10,000 - Come on. - You got it. 1030 00:41:10,042 --> 00:41:11,167 - Little monkey. 1031 00:41:11,250 --> 00:41:12,875 - That was hard. 1032 00:41:13,000 --> 00:41:14,000 That was really hard. 1033 00:41:14,042 --> 00:41:15,833 - Give me a B. 1034 00:41:15,875 --> 00:41:17,292 both: B. 1035 00:41:17,375 --> 00:41:19,292 - Give me an R. both: R. 1036 00:41:19,375 --> 00:41:21,000 - ♪ Danger, danger 1037 00:41:21,042 --> 00:41:22,333 - Holy [bleep]. 1038 00:41:22,375 --> 00:41:25,292 - Brennan! Oh! 1039 00:41:25,375 --> 00:41:27,000 - Now I'm scared. I'm nervous. 1040 00:41:27,083 --> 00:41:28,167 - I'm kind of nervous. - You guys got this. 1041 00:41:28,250 --> 00:41:29,417 - I'm nervous. 1042 00:41:29,500 --> 00:41:30,958 - ♪ Danger, danger 1043 00:41:31,042 --> 00:41:32,667 - Yeah, buddy. 1044 00:41:32,750 --> 00:41:34,667 Yeah, buddy. - Hey, hey. 1045 00:41:34,750 --> 00:41:36,208 - Hey. 1046 00:41:36,375 --> 00:41:38,000 He did that with ease. - You good, Mike? 1047 00:41:38,125 --> 00:41:40,083 ♪ 1048 00:41:40,208 --> 00:41:43,250 - Nice. - Wow, so graceful. 1049 00:41:43,333 --> 00:41:44,333 - Okay, show off. 1050 00:41:44,417 --> 00:41:46,583 - Nice. 1051 00:41:46,667 --> 00:41:48,083 - Monkey man. - Last one. 1052 00:41:48,208 --> 00:41:49,458 - Monkey Mike. - Monkey Mike. 1053 00:41:49,542 --> 00:41:50,833 - Monkey Mike. 1054 00:41:50,958 --> 00:41:54,917 [cheering] 1055 00:41:55,000 --> 00:41:57,042 - Wow, like, my husband is crushing it. 1056 00:41:57,125 --> 00:41:59,750 So I'm super turned on by Michael right now. 1057 00:41:59,875 --> 00:42:01,292 Determined. 1058 00:42:01,375 --> 00:42:02,333 - Let's go, Lauren. 1059 00:42:02,417 --> 00:42:04,417 - Yeah, girl. 1060 00:42:04,500 --> 00:42:06,250 - That didn't take me there. 1061 00:42:06,375 --> 00:42:07,417 [cheering] 1062 00:42:07,500 --> 00:42:09,333 - You're too tall. 1063 00:42:09,417 --> 00:42:12,625 - Here we go, Austin, here we go. 1064 00:42:12,708 --> 00:42:15,125 - Hey, I was waiting for the backflip. 1065 00:42:15,208 --> 00:42:16,542 - Let's go, Chloe. 1066 00:42:16,625 --> 00:42:18,458 [laughter] 1067 00:42:18,542 --> 00:42:21,458 [applause] 1068 00:42:21,542 --> 00:42:22,833 - That was-- - A for effort. 1069 00:42:22,917 --> 00:42:24,750 - That was a beautiful dismount. 1070 00:42:24,833 --> 00:42:26,417 - Why is this marriage so adventurous? 1071 00:42:26,500 --> 00:42:29,458 [laughs] 1072 00:42:29,542 --> 00:42:32,375 Ah! Thank you, husband. 1073 00:42:32,458 --> 00:42:34,250 - This looks kind of like a slide, 1074 00:42:34,333 --> 00:42:35,417 but it's not a slide. 1075 00:42:35,500 --> 00:42:36,750 So don't go down on your butt. 1076 00:42:36,833 --> 00:42:38,500 - Definitely too steep to be a slide. 1077 00:42:38,583 --> 00:42:41,583 So just face the wall on the way up and the way down. 1078 00:42:41,667 --> 00:42:44,750 So this would be the goal, to get to the top. 1079 00:42:44,875 --> 00:42:47,167 [cheering] 1080 00:42:47,250 --> 00:42:48,792 - Whoa. - Nice. 1081 00:42:48,875 --> 00:42:50,542 - Yeah, there's no way. 1082 00:42:50,625 --> 00:42:51,625 - This is not for the shorties of the world. 1083 00:42:51,708 --> 00:42:53,167 - All righty. - Who's going first? 1084 00:42:53,250 --> 00:42:56,292 - Who's first? - I'll try to walk up the 10. 1085 00:42:56,375 --> 00:42:58,500 - You can run up the 10. You'll make it no problem. 1086 00:42:58,542 --> 00:43:01,917 - ♪ La, la, la, la, la 1087 00:43:02,000 --> 00:43:04,667 ♪ La, la, la 1088 00:43:04,667 --> 00:43:07,833 - It's hard 'cause you see it coming, and then-- 1089 00:43:07,875 --> 00:43:13,167 - ♪ Ooh, ooh, ooh, show me what you can do ♪ 1090 00:43:13,250 --> 00:43:15,542 ♪ 1091 00:43:15,625 --> 00:43:17,083 - See, it's deceiving. 1092 00:43:17,167 --> 00:43:20,125 - Ow, ow, ow, ow. 1093 00:43:20,208 --> 00:43:21,500 - I don't think that hurt. 1094 00:43:21,667 --> 00:43:22,458 - Go, Lauren. 1095 00:43:22,583 --> 00:43:26,833 [cheering] 1096 00:43:26,917 --> 00:43:28,458 - I'll do this one. - Clare. 1097 00:43:28,583 --> 00:43:29,833 - Clare. - Clare. 1098 00:43:29,917 --> 00:43:31,333 - Clare. - I don't think I have this. 1099 00:43:31,458 --> 00:43:32,583 This is like-- did you start back here? 1100 00:43:32,708 --> 00:43:33,667 - Give me a C. - All the way? 1101 00:43:33,708 --> 00:43:34,958 - C. - Give me an L. 1102 00:43:35,042 --> 00:43:36,125 - L. 1103 00:43:36,208 --> 00:43:37,500 - Give me an A. - A. 1104 00:43:37,542 --> 00:43:41,958 ♪ 1105 00:43:42,042 --> 00:43:43,208 - An I, an I. 1106 00:43:43,292 --> 00:43:45,375 - R, E. - R, E. 1107 00:43:45,500 --> 00:43:46,833 [cheering] 1108 00:43:46,958 --> 00:43:47,792 Clare! 1109 00:43:47,875 --> 00:43:49,542 - Our little muffin. 1110 00:43:49,625 --> 00:43:51,083 - Who's next? - Why not? 1111 00:43:51,167 --> 00:43:52,333 - You got it. 1112 00:43:52,458 --> 00:43:53,875 You're, like, as tall as this thing. 1113 00:43:54,000 --> 00:43:56,375 - You got, bud. Let's go. 1114 00:43:56,458 --> 00:43:58,250 - M. - M. 1115 00:43:58,333 --> 00:43:59,333 - Go, go, go. 1116 00:43:59,417 --> 00:44:00,375 - This is it. 1117 00:44:00,458 --> 00:44:03,167 [cheering] 1118 00:44:03,292 --> 00:44:05,208 - That's your man. 1119 00:44:05,292 --> 00:44:06,667 What? 1120 00:44:06,792 --> 00:44:09,667 - I am loving watching my husband 1121 00:44:09,750 --> 00:44:12,208 absolutely dominate this obstacle course. 1122 00:44:12,292 --> 00:44:15,333 He's a man that definitely leans into his feminine side. 1123 00:44:15,417 --> 00:44:19,750 But when it comes to watching him kick [bleep] ass, 1124 00:44:19,833 --> 00:44:21,500 it's a total turn on. 1125 00:44:21,583 --> 00:44:23,667 Didn't know I was married to a ninja. 1126 00:44:23,708 --> 00:44:25,583 - You know, that's all that martial arts practicing 1127 00:44:25,667 --> 00:44:27,833 while watching kung fu movies. 1128 00:44:27,917 --> 00:44:31,750 ♪ 1129 00:44:31,833 --> 00:44:33,083 - You guys were animals out there. 1130 00:44:33,208 --> 00:44:34,667 - Animals. I'm proud of you two. 1131 00:44:34,792 --> 00:44:35,958 - Just animals. - Are you kidding? 1132 00:44:36,042 --> 00:44:37,917 - You can get through it. 1133 00:44:38,000 --> 00:44:39,000 - I'm gonna come to y'all's Decisions Days 1134 00:44:39,042 --> 00:44:40,250 and do pom poms. 1135 00:44:40,333 --> 00:44:42,167 [laughter] 1136 00:44:42,208 --> 00:44:44,500 - Can we talk about how Michael secretly 1137 00:44:44,542 --> 00:44:45,875 does this in his free time? 1138 00:44:45,958 --> 00:44:47,167 - I'm not just a boxer. 1139 00:44:47,250 --> 00:44:48,792 I'm also a ninja. - Yes. 1140 00:44:48,875 --> 00:44:50,167 - That's what he said. 1141 00:44:50,250 --> 00:44:53,000 Also, Brennan was, like, too strong for this [bleep]. 1142 00:44:53,042 --> 00:44:55,042 - I'm surprised there wasn't a hole in that wall. 1143 00:44:55,125 --> 00:44:56,667 [laughter] 1144 00:44:56,792 --> 00:44:57,833 - It's how hard you could hit it, 1145 00:44:57,833 --> 00:44:59,667 not how high you could climb. 1146 00:44:59,750 --> 00:45:02,417 - Brennan smash. 1147 00:45:02,500 --> 00:45:03,417 - Smash. 1148 00:45:03,500 --> 00:45:04,958 - That was fun. 1149 00:45:05,042 --> 00:45:07,000 - It's a good weekend. It's a good weekend. 1150 00:45:07,083 --> 00:45:08,250 - We're flowing. 1151 00:45:08,333 --> 00:45:09,875 - Flowing, baby. - Flowing. 1152 00:45:09,958 --> 00:45:13,792 - I think for us, you know, we went through something 1153 00:45:13,875 --> 00:45:15,375 very traumatic together. 1154 00:45:15,458 --> 00:45:20,167 And I really believe as unfortunate as it was, 1155 00:45:20,208 --> 00:45:22,083 if we look at it from, like, a positive standpoint, 1156 00:45:22,167 --> 00:45:24,708 I think it really brought us closer together. 1157 00:45:24,792 --> 00:45:29,000 And wish we went about it a different way, but-- 1158 00:45:29,042 --> 00:45:30,875 - What doesn't kill you makes you stronger. 1159 00:45:30,958 --> 00:45:32,792 ♪ 1160 00:45:32,875 --> 00:45:33,875 - I feel like we got stronger, 1161 00:45:34,000 --> 00:45:35,583 which was what I ultimately wanted. 1162 00:45:35,667 --> 00:45:37,542 - Yeah, me too. 1163 00:45:37,625 --> 00:45:40,125 Yeah, I wouldn't have ever imagined 1164 00:45:40,208 --> 00:45:42,208 it would have gone down this way. 1165 00:45:42,292 --> 00:45:45,000 While it was very extreme, I think it brought us stronger. 1166 00:45:45,083 --> 00:45:49,500 And now I'm excited to, like, go into a normal week together. 1167 00:45:49,542 --> 00:45:53,375 - Yeah, I'd say I know we had a couple of little hiccups. 1168 00:45:53,458 --> 00:45:55,000 And I apologize for that. 1169 00:45:55,083 --> 00:45:57,292 But I feel like one thing that I need to really do is, 1170 00:45:57,375 --> 00:45:59,375 like, up my romance game. 1171 00:45:59,458 --> 00:46:01,792 I think that's been lacking a little bit lately. 1172 00:46:01,917 --> 00:46:03,875 So if you have any ideas, holler. 1173 00:46:03,958 --> 00:46:05,250 - I don't know, man. She saw you at yoga today. 1174 00:46:05,375 --> 00:46:07,292 [laughter] 1175 00:46:07,375 --> 00:46:08,958 - That ass. 1176 00:46:09,042 --> 00:46:11,958 - That was hilarious. You were like, I look cute? 1177 00:46:12,042 --> 00:46:13,958 - Still have tonight. - Still have tonight. 1178 00:46:14,042 --> 00:46:15,750 - Yeah, still got tonight. 1179 00:46:15,833 --> 00:46:17,292 - ♪ We came to, we came to win, not play ♪ 1180 00:46:17,375 --> 00:46:18,417 ♪ 1181 00:46:22,250 --> 00:46:25,667 - ♪ High rise, sitting on a line tight ♪ 1182 00:46:25,708 --> 00:46:29,125 ♪ I'm just living love's dream ♪ 1183 00:46:29,208 --> 00:46:32,458 ♪ 1184 00:46:32,542 --> 00:46:35,542 - [laughing] 1185 00:46:35,625 --> 00:46:37,458 - See, this is a 10. 1186 00:46:37,542 --> 00:46:39,792 This is a 10. You see? - Oh, no. 1187 00:46:39,875 --> 00:46:42,708 - Look at the shoulder test, the depth. 1188 00:46:42,792 --> 00:46:45,167 - No, no, no, this is a 15. 1189 00:46:45,292 --> 00:46:47,625 - Well, you see. You see what I'm saying. 1190 00:46:47,708 --> 00:46:49,292 - Yeah, I see what you're saying. 1191 00:46:49,292 --> 00:46:51,667 Okay, this is fabulous. 1192 00:46:51,750 --> 00:46:53,208 - It is. 1193 00:46:53,292 --> 00:46:54,625 I found these candles, kind of set the mood, 1194 00:46:54,708 --> 00:46:56,708 a little incense in the background. 1195 00:46:56,792 --> 00:46:59,667 I'm in the zone right now. 1196 00:46:59,750 --> 00:47:01,917 - I wasn't expecting you to just, you know, 1197 00:47:02,042 --> 00:47:03,833 be the whole reason that they created 1198 00:47:03,917 --> 00:47:05,750 an entire obstacle course. 1199 00:47:05,875 --> 00:47:08,458 - In transparency, I didn't expect that, either. 1200 00:47:08,542 --> 00:47:11,917 I was fully prepared to snap a hip at some point. 1201 00:47:12,042 --> 00:47:13,917 I couldn't let the young kids know, like, you know, 1202 00:47:14,000 --> 00:47:15,417 - I feel like going-- 1203 00:47:15,500 --> 00:47:16,750 - This is what the old people have to do 1204 00:47:16,833 --> 00:47:18,250 after doing an obstacle course like that. 1205 00:47:18,375 --> 00:47:19,458 We gotta soak. 1206 00:47:19,542 --> 00:47:25,167 ♪ 1207 00:47:25,250 --> 00:47:31,167 - So how have you sort of taken in this couples retreat? 1208 00:47:31,250 --> 00:47:34,000 This is kind of the first time for me seeing everything, 1209 00:47:34,042 --> 00:47:39,125 so I'm curious to get your intake, your feedback. 1210 00:47:39,208 --> 00:47:40,708 - Yeah, I mean, well, first and foremost, 1211 00:47:40,833 --> 00:47:43,292 it was just nice to hang out with them. 1212 00:47:43,417 --> 00:47:45,667 I was surprised at some of the challenges, 1213 00:47:45,708 --> 00:47:47,583 surprised but not shocked. 1214 00:47:47,667 --> 00:47:50,917 I think surprised because, you know, I had optimism 1215 00:47:51,000 --> 00:47:52,833 for all the couples even though I didn't 1216 00:47:52,917 --> 00:47:54,500 spend any significant time with them. 1217 00:47:54,583 --> 00:47:59,542 I think just from my own mental and emotional comfort, 1218 00:47:59,625 --> 00:48:01,042 I had that level of optimism. 1219 00:48:01,125 --> 00:48:02,542 - Yeah. - How about you? 1220 00:48:02,667 --> 00:48:03,875 - That sounds fair. 1221 00:48:04,042 --> 00:48:05,000 - I mean, with this first full contact 1222 00:48:05,083 --> 00:48:06,333 with all of them, how was it? 1223 00:48:06,333 --> 00:48:09,292 - I was surprised at how many journeys 1224 00:48:09,375 --> 00:48:13,917 had veered in the direction that they have. 1225 00:48:14,042 --> 00:48:19,000 But the one thing I probably took from our time 1226 00:48:19,125 --> 00:48:21,125 with everybody else today is really 1227 00:48:21,208 --> 00:48:25,000 how well we have managed to communicate with one another. 1228 00:48:25,042 --> 00:48:27,042 I feel like the one thing that's 1229 00:48:27,125 --> 00:48:28,625 broken everybody else apart has been 1230 00:48:28,708 --> 00:48:30,833 a lack of communication, and... 1231 00:48:30,875 --> 00:48:31,833 - It does sound that way. 1232 00:48:31,958 --> 00:48:33,333 - We've done a really good job 1233 00:48:33,458 --> 00:48:35,083 at making sure that we're leaning into 1234 00:48:35,208 --> 00:48:37,292 each other's communication styles. 1235 00:48:37,375 --> 00:48:39,583 Communication has been our top priority with each other 1236 00:48:39,667 --> 00:48:41,083 from the moment that we met. 1237 00:48:41,167 --> 00:48:43,792 And, honestly, it's just sexy. 1238 00:48:43,875 --> 00:48:46,458 It's sexy watching him talk and communicate 1239 00:48:46,542 --> 00:48:51,167 and be open and most importantly shirtless. 1240 00:48:51,250 --> 00:48:52,333 I've thoroughly enjoyed watching you 1241 00:48:52,417 --> 00:48:53,750 take a bubble bath. 1242 00:48:53,875 --> 00:48:55,500 Thank you for allowing me this moment. 1243 00:48:55,583 --> 00:48:58,083 - Sure. 1244 00:48:58,167 --> 00:49:00,542 - ♪ It's new love, it's new love ♪ 1245 00:49:00,667 --> 00:49:03,417 ♪ It's new love, baby 1246 00:49:03,542 --> 00:49:10,292 ♪ 1247 00:49:11,875 --> 00:49:15,042 - Get all set up for movie night. 1248 00:49:15,125 --> 00:49:16,958 Today was long. - Mm-hmm. 1249 00:49:17,042 --> 00:49:19,167 - But it was fun. - Rallied. 1250 00:49:19,250 --> 00:49:20,625 - You rallied. I'm proud of you. 1251 00:49:20,708 --> 00:49:21,917 - Thank you. 1252 00:49:22,000 --> 00:49:24,000 - Kicking that cold's butt. - Cold? 1253 00:49:24,042 --> 00:49:27,417 - I don't know, whatever stomach bug thing you had, 1254 00:49:27,500 --> 00:49:30,292 whatever it was. 1255 00:49:30,375 --> 00:49:34,083 You were able to, like, come to Ninja Warrior. 1256 00:49:34,208 --> 00:49:36,542 - Yep. - Sit in on yoga. 1257 00:49:36,625 --> 00:49:38,250 - Yep. 1258 00:49:38,333 --> 00:49:40,958 I loved couples retreat for, like, the friends, 1259 00:49:41,042 --> 00:49:42,667 like, all the time we got to spend with our friends. 1260 00:49:42,708 --> 00:49:45,083 And we love our friends. 1261 00:49:47,542 --> 00:49:49,708 Friday, our, like, one night here, 1262 00:49:49,792 --> 00:49:52,167 was definitely disappointing for me. 1263 00:49:52,250 --> 00:49:55,375 ♪ 1264 00:49:55,458 --> 00:50:01,625 I think I just heard you talk a lot about, like, intimacy 1265 00:50:01,708 --> 00:50:04,500 and, like, working on intimacy and, like, getting closer. 1266 00:50:04,583 --> 00:50:07,042 And it started off on like a really-- 1267 00:50:07,125 --> 00:50:09,083 - Poor note. 1268 00:50:09,167 --> 00:50:11,875 I think it was me. I get it. 1269 00:50:12,000 --> 00:50:15,833 And I'm sorry that that wasn't the mindset 1270 00:50:15,917 --> 00:50:17,333 I was in that night. 1271 00:50:17,417 --> 00:50:21,083 ♪ 1272 00:50:21,208 --> 00:50:24,000 - [breathing shakily] 1273 00:50:29,917 --> 00:50:32,125 ♪ 1274 00:50:32,208 --> 00:50:34,083 - It's not just the couples retreat, 1275 00:50:34,167 --> 00:50:36,250 but it's, like, leading up to couples retreat, 1276 00:50:36,333 --> 00:50:38,083 I just, like, keep waiting. 1277 00:50:38,208 --> 00:50:40,500 And then there was, like, this build-up to this weekend 1278 00:50:40,625 --> 00:50:42,708 where you were like, I'm really excited for couples retreat. 1279 00:50:42,792 --> 00:50:45,583 I'm really excited, and then-- 1280 00:50:45,708 --> 00:50:49,333 so I just, like, keep waiting. 1281 00:50:49,417 --> 00:50:52,875 It doesn't feel good to, like, have to beg to be wanted. 1282 00:50:53,000 --> 00:50:55,167 - Yeah, and I understand 1283 00:50:55,208 --> 00:50:57,083 why you're feeling the way you are. 1284 00:50:57,208 --> 00:50:58,500 And I do want to make it better. 1285 00:50:58,542 --> 00:51:01,250 And I feel like I have expressed that, like, 1286 00:51:01,333 --> 00:51:05,333 just a rehashing of this conversation 1287 00:51:05,375 --> 00:51:07,167 that I thought we have gotten past 1288 00:51:07,292 --> 00:51:09,500 that we keep coming back to. 1289 00:51:09,583 --> 00:51:11,667 - I think you have moved past it. 1290 00:51:11,750 --> 00:51:14,167 I think it's still very much difficult for me. 1291 00:51:14,250 --> 00:51:16,958 I don't feel like-- 1292 00:51:17,042 --> 00:51:19,750 I haven't gained a lot of clarity from-- 1293 00:51:19,833 --> 00:51:23,208 - Okay, well, I'm happy to keep talking about it. 1294 00:51:23,292 --> 00:51:25,292 - No, I'm not saying we have to keep talking about it. 1295 00:51:25,375 --> 00:51:27,833 I just--but now I can tell 1296 00:51:27,958 --> 00:51:29,458 that you don't wanna talk about it. 1297 00:51:29,542 --> 00:51:32,625 - I admit my fault, but if you include 1298 00:51:32,708 --> 00:51:34,708 this entire experience, I think we've 1299 00:51:34,792 --> 00:51:35,917 had a lot of progression. 1300 00:51:36,042 --> 00:51:37,500 I mean, maybe it's like one-- 1301 00:51:37,583 --> 00:51:38,958 - You think we've had a lot of progression? 1302 00:51:39,042 --> 00:51:40,750 I think we've made out a lot. 1303 00:51:40,875 --> 00:51:42,917 ♪ 1304 00:51:43,042 --> 00:51:44,208 - Okay. 1305 00:51:44,292 --> 00:51:46,000 I mean, intimacy isn't just physical. 1306 00:51:46,083 --> 00:51:48,083 But, yeah, let's-- but you're right. 1307 00:51:48,167 --> 00:51:51,417 It should be going further more often. 1308 00:51:51,500 --> 00:51:53,667 - It sounds good to hear you say that. 1309 00:51:53,708 --> 00:51:55,667 It just sounds like this is a conversation 1310 00:51:55,708 --> 00:51:57,667 that we have repeatedly, 1311 00:51:57,750 --> 00:52:01,667 and it's always left with a promise of I will do better. 1312 00:52:01,792 --> 00:52:03,042 I promise I desire you. 1313 00:52:03,125 --> 00:52:08,333 And...what happens is nothing. 1314 00:52:08,375 --> 00:52:12,833 ♪ 1315 00:52:12,917 --> 00:52:15,500 - Do you think this is going well, this conversation? 1316 00:52:15,583 --> 00:52:20,667 - I don't think that talking about it 1317 00:52:20,750 --> 00:52:23,500 is unhelpful for me. 1318 00:52:23,583 --> 00:52:27,167 Like, I just want you to want me. 1319 00:52:27,167 --> 00:52:30,833 And that hasn't really happened yet. 1320 00:52:30,917 --> 00:52:32,250 - Well, I do. 1321 00:52:32,333 --> 00:52:35,500 And I thought you, like, believed me. 1322 00:52:35,542 --> 00:52:37,500 - I do want to believe you. 1323 00:52:37,625 --> 00:52:39,333 ♪ 1324 00:52:39,417 --> 00:52:40,667 - Okay. 1325 00:52:44,583 --> 00:52:47,000 I was hoping tonight would end on a good note 1326 00:52:47,083 --> 00:52:50,208 so we could see what would happen, 1327 00:52:50,292 --> 00:52:51,792 and now I feel like... 1328 00:52:51,875 --> 00:52:56,625 ♪ 1329 00:52:56,708 --> 00:52:58,333 That's not happening. 1330 00:52:58,417 --> 00:53:00,542 ♪ 1331 00:53:04,667 --> 00:53:06,208 [upbeat music] 1332 00:53:06,208 --> 00:53:10,750 - ♪ We're not talking anymore ♪ 1333 00:53:10,833 --> 00:53:16,000 ♪ And we can no longer ignore ♪ 1334 00:53:16,083 --> 00:53:18,042 - My wrist is just, like, really hurting. 1335 00:53:18,125 --> 00:53:20,042 - How is that? - It hurts. 1336 00:53:20,125 --> 00:53:23,917 - Yeah, you got a gnarly little bruise here. 1337 00:53:24,042 --> 00:53:25,000 - Brennan stepped up to the plate 1338 00:53:25,083 --> 00:53:27,333 in, like, every way possible. 1339 00:53:27,375 --> 00:53:28,792 Yeah, my fingers are all bruised. 1340 00:53:28,875 --> 00:53:30,875 I tried packing. 1341 00:53:30,958 --> 00:53:32,375 - You did? How'd it go? 1342 00:53:32,458 --> 00:53:35,000 - Well, like, I organized. I just have to roll. 1343 00:53:35,083 --> 00:53:37,083 Sadly, while this was a traumatic event, 1344 00:53:37,167 --> 00:53:39,958 I think it did really show a lot to us both about how much 1345 00:53:40,042 --> 00:53:41,583 we care about each other, 1346 00:53:41,708 --> 00:53:43,250 and with Decision Day right around the corner, 1347 00:53:43,333 --> 00:53:44,708 time's a-ticking. 1348 00:53:44,792 --> 00:53:47,208 But I feel like we just reached new heights. 1349 00:53:47,292 --> 00:53:48,333 - You just stay there, and I'll just start 1350 00:53:48,417 --> 00:53:50,167 throwing stuff in a bag. - Okay. 1351 00:54:01,833 --> 00:54:03,417 ♪ 1352 00:54:03,500 --> 00:54:05,250 - I'm feeling disconnected from Austin. 1353 00:54:05,375 --> 00:54:08,500 I'm feeling sad about how last night went 1354 00:54:08,583 --> 00:54:14,333 and how I still had hope after that conversation on the couch 1355 00:54:14,375 --> 00:54:17,250 that we were maybe gonna still try to at least connect 1356 00:54:17,333 --> 00:54:18,833 with each other in some way. 1357 00:54:18,917 --> 00:54:20,667 And we didn't. 1358 00:54:20,750 --> 00:54:22,208 - I don't know. 1359 00:54:22,292 --> 00:54:25,833 Do you wanna talk about everything? 1360 00:54:25,917 --> 00:54:27,958 ♪ 1361 00:54:28,042 --> 00:54:31,333 - Do you--do you want to? 1362 00:54:31,417 --> 00:54:33,625 - So like, what do you think? 1363 00:54:33,708 --> 00:54:36,667 Where are you at? 1364 00:54:36,750 --> 00:54:39,583 - I think going to bed last night and, like, 1365 00:54:39,667 --> 00:54:42,708 you not wanting to snuggle or, like, anything, 1366 00:54:42,792 --> 00:54:44,458 like, was difficult. 1367 00:54:44,542 --> 00:54:47,500 And, like, this morning, I also feel that a little bit. 1368 00:54:47,542 --> 00:54:48,833 ♪ 1369 00:54:48,958 --> 00:54:51,833 - I think it's just, like, the rehashing of it, 1370 00:54:51,917 --> 00:54:57,375 constantly, that is, like, making it challenging for me 1371 00:54:57,458 --> 00:54:59,375 to get to a place where I am okay. 1372 00:54:59,458 --> 00:55:01,667 But I think just, like, 1373 00:55:01,708 --> 00:55:08,042 it just kind of keeps reopening the fresh wound in my opinion. 1374 00:55:08,167 --> 00:55:09,542 You know? - I know. 1375 00:55:09,708 --> 00:55:11,417 I'm just nervous, that's all. 1376 00:55:11,500 --> 00:55:13,375 'Cause I just feel you-- - And that's okay. 1377 00:55:13,458 --> 00:55:15,958 And you can be nervous. 1378 00:55:16,042 --> 00:55:20,708 But I feel like I'm expressing, like, where I'm at and, like, 1379 00:55:20,792 --> 00:55:25,542 and how I feel about just re-having these conversations. 1380 00:55:25,625 --> 00:55:30,500 It just feels like we're rehashing... 1381 00:55:30,625 --> 00:55:33,708 and re-opening the same, like, wound over and over again. 1382 00:55:33,833 --> 00:55:37,667 My apology about this weekend is sincere. 1383 00:55:37,750 --> 00:55:41,000 And, like, it seems like you do understand 1384 00:55:41,042 --> 00:55:43,458 where I'm coming from, and I appreciate that. 1385 00:55:43,458 --> 00:55:48,292 I'm not any type of way towards you. 1386 00:55:51,083 --> 00:55:53,958 I don't think that, like... 1387 00:55:54,042 --> 00:55:57,000 - Just felt that way a little last night and this morning. 1388 00:55:57,042 --> 00:56:00,208 - I'm sorry. 1389 00:56:00,292 --> 00:56:04,167 - Just a little kiss goes a long way. 1390 00:56:04,250 --> 00:56:05,708 - Hey. 1391 00:56:08,000 --> 00:56:15,000 ♪ 1392 00:56:15,083 --> 00:56:18,667 It's okay. We'll be good. 1393 00:56:18,750 --> 00:56:20,750 We are good now. 1394 00:56:20,833 --> 00:56:23,375 I do feel bad about the first night of couples retreat. 1395 00:56:23,458 --> 00:56:26,208 You know, I definitely would have changed that night, 1396 00:56:26,333 --> 00:56:28,333 and I would have taken it a little easier 1397 00:56:28,417 --> 00:56:32,833 and would have liked to have, like, you know, 1398 00:56:32,958 --> 00:56:35,542 prioritized her and kind of made that first night, like, 1399 00:56:35,667 --> 00:56:37,833 special for the both of us. 1400 00:56:37,875 --> 00:56:41,000 Hopefully we can fix that and move forward. 1401 00:56:41,042 --> 00:56:42,833 - ♪ And I know, yeah, I know, yeah, I know ♪ 1402 00:56:42,875 --> 00:56:45,125 ♪ Yeah, I know it's hard for you now ♪ 1403 00:56:45,208 --> 00:56:47,792 ♪ It's gonna be better, it's gonna get better ♪ 1404 00:56:47,875 --> 00:56:50,625 ♪ You're gonna be all right 1405 00:56:50,708 --> 00:56:53,125 - Goof. 1406 00:56:53,208 --> 00:56:54,917 - ♪ Whoa, oh 1407 00:56:55,000 --> 00:56:56,667 ♪ Whoa-oh-oh-oh-oh 1408 00:56:56,708 --> 00:56:58,708 - All right, let's rock and roll. 1409 00:56:58,792 --> 00:57:01,542 ♪ 1410 00:57:01,625 --> 00:57:05,375 This weekend was long with a lot of emotions 1411 00:57:05,458 --> 00:57:07,167 considering what happened yesterday. 1412 00:57:07,208 --> 00:57:10,500 But I do think that there is hope. 1413 00:57:10,583 --> 00:57:16,000 Because after this, honestly anything is possible. 1414 00:57:16,083 --> 00:57:18,458 - Oh, you're just rolling it. 1415 00:57:18,542 --> 00:57:21,292 - ♪ We're ready to go 1416 00:57:21,375 --> 00:57:24,042 ♪ The rulers, the rulers 1417 00:57:24,042 --> 00:57:25,917 ♪ We're the rulers of the weekend ♪ 1418 00:57:30,375 --> 00:57:31,875 ♪ Feeling good inside, all right ♪ 1419 00:57:31,958 --> 00:57:33,500 - ♪ Good inside 1420 00:57:33,542 --> 00:57:38,250 - ♪ Getting loose, I'm loving the vibe ♪ 1421 00:57:38,375 --> 00:57:39,792 ♪ 1422 00:57:39,875 --> 00:57:41,417 - Ooh. 1423 00:57:41,542 --> 00:57:43,292 - Is that a wolf, or is it you? 1424 00:57:43,375 --> 00:57:45,417 - Awoo. - Woof, woof, woof. 1425 00:57:45,542 --> 00:57:46,833 Are you excited? 1426 00:57:46,875 --> 00:57:48,750 - I'm very excited. - Yeah? 1427 00:57:48,833 --> 00:57:50,500 - Couples retreat kind of didn't go 1428 00:57:50,583 --> 00:57:54,083 too well for Becca and myself. 1429 00:57:54,208 --> 00:57:58,458 And I don't think I really handled it appropriately. 1430 00:57:58,542 --> 00:58:01,333 So on our way back home, 1431 00:58:01,375 --> 00:58:03,958 hoping to make up for it. 1432 00:58:04,042 --> 00:58:07,833 So we're gonna have fun amongst the wolves. 1433 00:58:07,917 --> 00:58:11,875 And I'm just hoping we can kind of, like, 1434 00:58:11,875 --> 00:58:14,500 get back on, like, a good track 1435 00:58:14,542 --> 00:58:16,375 'cause it feels like we kinda got derailed 1436 00:58:16,458 --> 00:58:18,375 with, like, everything that happened. 1437 00:58:18,500 --> 00:58:20,833 Kind of nervous 'cause I want them to love me, 1438 00:58:20,917 --> 00:58:23,333 and if they don't, I'm gonna be really sad. 1439 00:58:23,375 --> 00:58:25,042 - Yeah, well, I'm sure they'll-- 1440 00:58:25,125 --> 00:58:26,292 - Or if they, like, you know, bite my arm off, 1441 00:58:26,375 --> 00:58:27,958 that'd be pretty bad too. 1442 00:58:28,042 --> 00:58:30,833 - Well, as a fellow puppy, I'm sure they will love you. 1443 00:58:30,917 --> 00:58:32,208 - Hi. - Hi. 1444 00:58:32,292 --> 00:58:33,500 - Hi, guys. - Hi. 1445 00:58:33,625 --> 00:58:35,458 You've got Raven here. - Perfect. 1446 00:58:35,458 --> 00:58:37,000 - She is our almost one-year-old wolf, 1447 00:58:37,042 --> 00:58:39,000 and she is very excited to meet you guys. 1448 00:58:39,083 --> 00:58:40,375 - Wow, she's so big. 1449 00:58:40,458 --> 00:58:41,750 - We're gonna head in and say hello to her. 1450 00:58:41,875 --> 00:58:43,042 - Oh, she's just a puppy. - She is very big already. 1451 00:58:43,125 --> 00:58:44,500 - I know. That's crazy. 1452 00:58:44,542 --> 00:58:46,167 - She will give you kisses likely. 1453 00:58:46,250 --> 00:58:47,667 It's a greeting for these guys. 1454 00:58:47,792 --> 00:58:49,333 So she does wanna give you kisses. 1455 00:58:49,375 --> 00:58:50,958 We recommend that you take those 1456 00:58:51,042 --> 00:58:54,500 because if you turn away from them, she might get offended. 1457 00:58:54,542 --> 00:58:57,125 All right, well, if you guys wanna follow us in. 1458 00:58:57,208 --> 00:58:59,167 - That's good, thank you. 1459 00:58:59,333 --> 00:59:02,250 - You nervous? 1460 00:59:02,375 --> 00:59:03,500 - I think this will be a great spot. 1461 00:59:03,542 --> 00:59:05,417 - Right here in the sun. 1462 00:59:05,500 --> 00:59:08,375 - Raven! Yep. Yeah. 1463 00:59:08,458 --> 00:59:10,500 - Beautiful. - Hi, sweetie. 1464 00:59:10,542 --> 00:59:13,708 - Oh, kisses. 1465 00:59:13,792 --> 00:59:15,292 - Thank you so much. 1466 00:59:15,375 --> 00:59:16,917 - A belly rub. 1467 00:59:17,000 --> 00:59:19,708 - And she's a wolf, so she does what she wants. 1468 00:59:19,792 --> 00:59:21,958 If she did not wanna be sitting right next to you guys 1469 00:59:22,042 --> 00:59:25,667 getting this love, she'd be all the way over there. 1470 00:59:25,792 --> 00:59:27,125 Are you gonna sit in their laps? 1471 00:59:27,208 --> 00:59:28,792 - Oh, that's a sweetie. - So she has been doing that 1472 00:59:28,875 --> 00:59:30,625 ever since she was a little puppy. 1473 00:59:30,708 --> 00:59:33,417 - I mean, I think we have to get a wolf. 1474 00:59:33,500 --> 00:59:35,083 - We're just gonna walk down and around. 1475 00:59:35,167 --> 00:59:37,125 - Bye, Raven. - Bye, Raven, we love you. 1476 00:59:37,208 --> 00:59:38,542 - Bye, sweetie. 1477 00:59:38,625 --> 00:59:39,417 Yeah, you can come walk with us out. 1478 00:59:39,542 --> 00:59:42,000 - We love you. 1479 00:59:42,083 --> 00:59:44,708 - Mates are very, very special to these guys. 1480 00:59:44,708 --> 00:59:46,917 We actually do matchmaking. 1481 00:59:47,000 --> 00:59:50,375 So we will do arranged marriages right here as well. 1482 00:59:50,458 --> 00:59:51,875 So this is Denali, 1483 00:59:51,958 --> 00:59:54,458 and he's living in our matchmaker enclosure, 1484 00:59:54,542 --> 00:59:57,375 where we're able to make these lovely matches 1485 00:59:57,458 --> 00:59:59,042 between our wolves. 1486 00:59:59,167 --> 01:00:01,167 So it's got this side and that side over there, 1487 01:00:01,250 --> 01:00:03,792 and we'll have them living side-by-side as neighbors 1488 01:00:03,875 --> 01:00:05,500 to kind of monitor their body language 1489 01:00:05,583 --> 01:00:07,125 and their behavior to see if they're 1490 01:00:07,208 --> 01:00:09,000 interested in one another. 1491 01:00:09,042 --> 01:00:11,292 And then if all has gone well at that point, 1492 01:00:11,375 --> 01:00:12,917 we'll open up both doors. 1493 01:00:13,042 --> 01:00:15,000 They get a chance to have that first play date. 1494 01:00:15,042 --> 01:00:18,417 And we'll see lots of kisses, lots of fun and frisky play. 1495 01:00:18,500 --> 01:00:20,833 And at that point, we know that they have chosen each other 1496 01:00:20,958 --> 01:00:22,667 for the rest of their lives. 1497 01:00:22,750 --> 01:00:24,583 - That is adorable. 1498 01:00:24,667 --> 01:00:26,458 - Because wolves mate for life, 1499 01:00:26,542 --> 01:00:27,958 this is such an important process 1500 01:00:28,042 --> 01:00:29,583 that we're going through with them 1501 01:00:29,667 --> 01:00:31,333 to make sure that they are gonna be happy 1502 01:00:31,417 --> 01:00:33,083 with that other wolf forever. 1503 01:00:33,167 --> 01:00:35,167 - Yeah, you're, like, the experts. 1504 01:00:35,292 --> 01:00:36,625 - Oh, yeah. 1505 01:00:36,708 --> 01:00:37,833 So you guys didn't have an enclosure like this 1506 01:00:37,917 --> 01:00:39,500 to kind of... - No. 1507 01:00:39,542 --> 01:00:40,750 - See each other from afar, right? 1508 01:00:40,833 --> 01:00:45,625 - No, no, just at the end of the aisle. 1509 01:00:45,708 --> 01:00:47,792 - It's not always a very obvious pairing. 1510 01:00:47,875 --> 01:00:51,333 It takes a lot of work and commitment from both animals, 1511 01:00:51,417 --> 01:00:53,208 like it does with humans as well. 1512 01:00:53,333 --> 01:00:56,333 - The wolves really are pretty dependent 1513 01:00:56,375 --> 01:00:58,333 on their partners for happiness. 1514 01:00:58,417 --> 01:01:01,667 And it's a good reminder that I didn't go into this 1515 01:01:01,792 --> 01:01:03,750 evaluating whether I wanted my marriage 1516 01:01:03,833 --> 01:01:05,542 to be successful or unsuccessful. 1517 01:01:05,667 --> 01:01:07,875 To me, there was really only one option, 1518 01:01:07,958 --> 01:01:09,667 was for it to succeed. 1519 01:01:09,750 --> 01:01:11,750 - ♪ You make me smile 1520 01:01:11,833 --> 01:01:13,833 ♪ You make me love 1521 01:01:13,917 --> 01:01:16,875 - Sometimes relationships and marriage take hard work 1522 01:01:17,000 --> 01:01:19,000 and getting your hands dirty, 1523 01:01:19,083 --> 01:01:21,000 and, you know, even when you're tired, 1524 01:01:21,083 --> 01:01:23,042 trying to connect with your partner. 1525 01:01:23,125 --> 01:01:24,667 And we just need to move forward 1526 01:01:24,708 --> 01:01:27,625 and get out of our heads, because I want it to last, 1527 01:01:27,708 --> 01:01:29,500 and I wanna be together forever. 1528 01:01:29,583 --> 01:01:31,708 - These guys meet and end up spending 1529 01:01:31,792 --> 01:01:34,792 the rest of their lives with the one true wolf, right? 1530 01:01:34,875 --> 01:01:36,000 - That's incredible. - Yeah. 1531 01:01:36,083 --> 01:01:37,625 [wolf howling] 1532 01:01:37,708 --> 01:01:39,333 - Oh! There it goes. 1533 01:01:39,417 --> 01:01:42,417 [both howling] 1534 01:01:42,500 --> 01:01:44,417 [wolf howling] 1535 01:01:44,500 --> 01:01:46,375 [laughter] 1536 01:01:46,458 --> 01:01:47,917 I'm howling your face. 1537 01:01:48,042 --> 01:01:49,958 Rawr, rawr, rawr, rawr, rawr. 1538 01:01:50,042 --> 01:01:53,958 ♪ I love the way it feels waking up to you ♪ 1539 01:01:54,042 --> 01:01:56,292 ♪ 1540 01:01:56,375 --> 01:01:58,000 - You did it. 1541 01:01:58,125 --> 01:02:00,000 - Next time on "Married at First Sight"... 1542 01:02:00,042 --> 01:02:02,125 - You know what tequila does. - Why do you think I got some? 1543 01:02:02,208 --> 01:02:04,875 - Our couples do everything it takes 1544 01:02:04,958 --> 01:02:07,250 to deepen their bond before Decision Day. 1545 01:02:07,333 --> 01:02:09,000 - I really liked him at the wedding. 1546 01:02:09,042 --> 01:02:11,083 I know you did too. - He is the greatest. 1547 01:02:11,167 --> 01:02:12,875 - Like, I'm going to stay together 1548 01:02:12,958 --> 01:02:14,667 with her on Decision Day. 1549 01:02:14,750 --> 01:02:17,000 - You really have been committed, 1550 01:02:17,042 --> 01:02:18,042 and, like, I have felt that. 1551 01:02:18,125 --> 01:02:20,042 ♪ 1552 01:02:20,125 --> 01:02:23,667 - I've appreciated, like, so much, like, you being here. 1553 01:02:23,708 --> 01:02:26,583 Who would have thought a tree would pull me in? 1554 01:02:26,667 --> 01:02:28,500 - So how has married life been? 1555 01:02:28,583 --> 01:02:32,458 - I have been overwhelmed. 1556 01:02:32,542 --> 01:02:34,292 Everything is moving so quickly, 1557 01:02:34,375 --> 01:02:39,417 so what I was thinking about was taking a few days apart. 1558 01:02:39,500 --> 01:02:40,458 - Like, oh, well, wait a minute, 1559 01:02:40,542 --> 01:02:43,333 do you not wanna be with me? 1560 01:02:43,375 --> 01:02:45,292 - All of these fights and all of these things 1561 01:02:45,292 --> 01:02:48,750 are, like, days and nights of rejection. 1562 01:02:48,875 --> 01:02:50,458 - Becca, do you want this marriage? 1563 01:02:50,542 --> 01:02:53,333 [dramatic music] 1564 01:02:53,417 --> 01:02:58,250 ♪