1 00:00:07,333 --> 00:00:08,542 - ♪ Everybody just wants to live ♪ 2 00:00:08,667 --> 00:00:10,375 - Eight singles said "I do" 3 00:00:10,458 --> 00:00:12,375 to marrying a complete stranger 4 00:00:12,458 --> 00:00:14,667 in front of their friends and family. 5 00:00:14,750 --> 00:00:17,708 [applause] 6 00:00:17,833 --> 00:00:19,083 - I've always wanted to be married. 7 00:00:19,083 --> 00:00:21,000 I wanted that fairy-tale ending, 8 00:00:21,042 --> 00:00:22,375 if you will, and today, I got that. 9 00:00:22,500 --> 00:00:23,750 I'm a wife. 10 00:00:23,833 --> 00:00:25,917 This is the start of a beautiful journey to come. 11 00:00:26,000 --> 00:00:27,333 - Absolutely. - [laughs] 12 00:00:27,417 --> 00:00:30,000 - My favorite obviously is salsa, like Colombia. 13 00:00:30,083 --> 00:00:31,708 - You're gonna have to teach me how to dance salsa. 14 00:00:31,708 --> 00:00:32,833 I just pretend. - Yeah. 15 00:00:32,875 --> 00:00:34,750 - I just, like, do a little bit of that. 16 00:00:34,833 --> 00:00:36,667 - She's very talkative, and she's got a lot of energy. 17 00:00:36,750 --> 00:00:37,833 She's spunky. 18 00:00:37,917 --> 00:00:39,667 I can tell that she's gonna be fun. 19 00:00:39,750 --> 00:00:41,458 - I said, "She better be Black." 20 00:00:41,542 --> 00:00:43,250 [laughter] - I said, "I want a leader." 21 00:00:43,333 --> 00:00:46,542 And I said, "I want--I want a man who dates Black women." 22 00:00:46,667 --> 00:00:49,167 - I mean, here I am. [laughs] - And here you are. 23 00:00:49,167 --> 00:00:50,833 - Good first impression? 24 00:00:50,917 --> 00:00:52,917 [giggles] - Come on now. 25 00:00:53,042 --> 00:00:56,000 Really? I almost-- jaw almost dropped. 26 00:00:56,125 --> 00:00:57,708 Like, it's a hell of a day. 27 00:00:57,792 --> 00:00:59,333 I'm absolutely speechless. 28 00:00:59,375 --> 00:01:04,000 I don't know if I could have dreamed up a better situation. 29 00:01:04,042 --> 00:01:06,167 - I'm really kind of nervous about, the--like, 30 00:01:06,250 --> 00:01:10,042 the whole, um, you live in your parents' basement. 31 00:01:10,125 --> 00:01:12,958 So I just hope she understands. 32 00:01:13,042 --> 00:01:14,292 - He's getting a beautiful girl. 33 00:01:14,375 --> 00:01:15,667 He's getting a good lady. 34 00:01:15,750 --> 00:01:17,500 - Yes. [laughs] 35 00:01:17,542 --> 00:01:19,708 - And he'll be getting more of me if he ever messes with ya. 36 00:01:19,833 --> 00:01:20,833 [laughter] 37 00:01:20,917 --> 00:01:22,500 - Noted. 38 00:01:22,542 --> 00:01:23,750 - ♪ Oh, oh 39 00:01:23,833 --> 00:01:25,333 - Hello, everybody. 40 00:01:25,375 --> 00:01:26,625 [laughs] 41 00:01:26,708 --> 00:01:29,083 - And tonight, the wedding day continues. 42 00:01:29,167 --> 00:01:30,083 - Please stand. 43 00:01:30,167 --> 00:01:32,708 [anticipatory music] 44 00:01:32,792 --> 00:01:33,750 - ♪ Tonight 45 00:01:33,875 --> 00:01:35,542 - You, um, really, like, my type. 46 00:01:35,667 --> 00:01:37,458 Like, usually the type I go for, looks-wise. 47 00:01:37,542 --> 00:01:39,208 - OK, well, that's a good start. 48 00:01:39,292 --> 00:01:40,958 - Looking at each other. 49 00:01:41,042 --> 00:01:43,083 Aw, there we go. 50 00:01:43,167 --> 00:01:45,333 - I'm very excited to keep kissing her lips. 51 00:01:45,417 --> 00:01:47,417 I'm very excited to keep getting to know her. 52 00:01:47,500 --> 00:01:48,667 - [giggling] 53 00:01:48,750 --> 00:01:49,833 - We cheated. 54 00:01:49,917 --> 00:01:51,333 [dramatic musical sting] 55 00:01:51,417 --> 00:01:52,833 - You both have, like, strong personality. 56 00:01:52,875 --> 00:01:54,125 You are gonna be struggling. 57 00:01:54,208 --> 00:01:56,000 [tense music] 58 00:01:56,042 --> 00:01:57,958 - I would be made to feel like [bleep]. 59 00:01:58,042 --> 00:02:00,542 - What have you done to heal yourself? 60 00:02:00,625 --> 00:02:01,833 - I don't know you. 61 00:02:01,875 --> 00:02:05,125 You might say one thing, and your actions show another. 62 00:02:05,208 --> 00:02:06,208 [upbeat music] 63 00:02:06,333 --> 00:02:08,125 - ♪ It's all or nothing 64 00:02:08,208 --> 00:02:10,667 - This is "Married at First Sight." 65 00:02:10,708 --> 00:02:14,167 ♪ There's no other way 66 00:02:14,250 --> 00:02:16,500 - ♪ It's all or nothing 67 00:02:16,625 --> 00:02:20,208 - ♪ We're gonna give it all right now ♪ 68 00:02:20,208 --> 00:02:24,042 ♪ We're gonna take it up to the sky ♪ 69 00:02:24,125 --> 00:02:25,125 - God, I love you. 70 00:02:25,208 --> 00:02:26,542 - Aw, love you too, Dad. 71 00:02:26,708 --> 00:02:28,625 Thank you for coming. 72 00:02:28,708 --> 00:02:31,083 ♪ 73 00:02:31,167 --> 00:02:32,292 Goodness. 74 00:02:32,417 --> 00:02:35,333 ♪ 75 00:02:35,458 --> 00:02:38,458 - I can only imagine how she feels right now. 76 00:02:41,375 --> 00:02:45,292 - I am nervous, obviously, because I am so independent. 77 00:02:45,375 --> 00:02:46,958 Like, I've been single for six years. 78 00:02:47,083 --> 00:02:49,417 Am I too set in my ways now? 79 00:02:49,417 --> 00:02:51,750 Like, will I be able to share my independence 80 00:02:51,833 --> 00:02:53,125 with somebody else? 81 00:02:53,208 --> 00:02:54,417 But I think the bigger risk is like, 82 00:02:54,500 --> 00:02:56,458 the what if I never do this? 83 00:02:56,542 --> 00:02:59,500 So let's start this big journey together. 84 00:02:59,625 --> 00:03:03,250 It's been a lot of buildup to this moment. 85 00:03:03,375 --> 00:03:06,417 So... [clicks tongue] I'm ready to head on down. 86 00:03:06,542 --> 00:03:08,167 [tense music] 87 00:03:08,250 --> 00:03:09,667 - Oh, man. 88 00:03:09,708 --> 00:03:14,250 ♪ 89 00:03:14,333 --> 00:03:16,667 [exhales] - Please stand. 90 00:03:16,708 --> 00:03:23,542 ♪ 91 00:03:31,417 --> 00:03:33,000 - Oh. [chuckles] 92 00:03:33,083 --> 00:03:34,250 - [laughs] 93 00:03:34,250 --> 00:03:37,667 - ♪ Making new beginnings 94 00:03:37,750 --> 00:03:39,167 ♪ Let your heart... 95 00:03:39,292 --> 00:03:40,917 - Hi, new friends. 96 00:03:41,000 --> 00:03:42,875 [both laugh] 97 00:03:43,000 --> 00:03:45,500 Hey! - [laughs] 98 00:03:45,583 --> 00:03:48,042 [upbeat music] 99 00:03:48,167 --> 00:03:49,833 Hello, beautiful. 100 00:03:49,917 --> 00:03:52,625 - Hey! [giggles] 101 00:03:52,708 --> 00:03:54,125 - Ah. 102 00:03:54,250 --> 00:03:56,292 - Hi. 103 00:03:56,375 --> 00:03:57,500 - Well, hello there. - Nice to meet you! 104 00:03:57,542 --> 00:03:58,833 - It's a pleasure to meet you. - [laughing] 105 00:03:58,875 --> 00:04:00,417 - Wow. 106 00:04:00,500 --> 00:04:02,167 And is this your mother? 107 00:04:02,292 --> 00:04:03,042 - Yep, this is my mom and dad. 108 00:04:03,167 --> 00:04:04,458 - I'm David. 109 00:04:04,458 --> 00:04:05,958 - Oh, this is David. 110 00:04:06,083 --> 00:04:08,250 - Oh, sorry. [laughs] - Is that what he said? Is th-- 111 00:04:08,333 --> 00:04:11,417 - [bleep] that one up, didn't I? 112 00:04:11,417 --> 00:04:13,292 You have a very courageous daughter. 113 00:04:13,375 --> 00:04:15,417 And thank you guys for supporting her as a family. 114 00:04:15,417 --> 00:04:17,042 Family means everything to me as well... 115 00:04:17,125 --> 00:04:18,375 - Awesome. - So it's a great start. 116 00:04:18,500 --> 00:04:19,792 - Yes, it is. - [laughs] 117 00:04:19,875 --> 00:04:20,917 - How you doing, sir? - Nice to meet you. 118 00:04:21,000 --> 00:04:22,000 - Thank you very much. - Kent. 119 00:04:22,125 --> 00:04:23,375 - Kent? A pleasure to meet you, sir. 120 00:04:23,458 --> 00:04:25,042 - It was David, right? - Yes, it is David. 121 00:04:25,167 --> 00:04:26,667 And yours is? - I'm--ooh, I'm Michelle. 122 00:04:26,792 --> 00:04:29,500 - Hello, Michelle. - [laughing] Yes. 123 00:04:29,542 --> 00:04:30,833 Are you nervous? - Oh. 124 00:04:30,833 --> 00:04:32,167 I've been shaking in my boots all day. 125 00:04:32,250 --> 00:04:34,833 - OK. Same. [laughter] 126 00:04:34,833 --> 00:04:37,333 - Michelle, meet for the very first time, 127 00:04:37,375 --> 00:04:40,875 David, your husband-to-be. 128 00:04:41,000 --> 00:04:44,667 David, Michelle's family and friends want you to know, 129 00:04:44,750 --> 00:04:46,917 although she may be a small-town, 130 00:04:47,042 --> 00:04:49,250 country girl at heart... 131 00:04:49,333 --> 00:04:50,667 Michelle has always been destined 132 00:04:50,708 --> 00:04:53,083 to live her life in the big city. 133 00:04:53,208 --> 00:04:56,625 She's one of the most sincere and genuine people you'll meet. 134 00:04:56,708 --> 00:05:00,208 She is a perfect balance of tough and sensitive. 135 00:05:00,333 --> 00:05:04,042 Michelle loves an exciting weekend out in the city, 136 00:05:04,167 --> 00:05:07,000 however, cherishes a quiet Friday night 137 00:05:07,042 --> 00:05:09,333 chilling on the couch with her three babies, 138 00:05:09,417 --> 00:05:12,250 Walter, Trixie, and Lily. 139 00:05:12,333 --> 00:05:15,833 [gentle music] 140 00:05:15,917 --> 00:05:16,917 - They're animals. 141 00:05:17,042 --> 00:05:20,250 [laughter] 142 00:05:20,333 --> 00:05:22,375 - Michelle beats to her own drum 143 00:05:22,500 --> 00:05:24,875 but will happily welcome anybody that wants 144 00:05:25,000 --> 00:05:26,625 to march along with her. 145 00:05:26,625 --> 00:05:30,250 We have no doubt she will make a great wife. 146 00:05:30,333 --> 00:05:32,333 - That was good. - Yes. 147 00:05:32,417 --> 00:05:35,000 That was music to my ears. - [laughs] 148 00:05:35,083 --> 00:05:36,625 Aw. 149 00:05:36,708 --> 00:05:37,833 - Michelle... - Ooh, yes, your turn. 150 00:05:38,000 --> 00:05:39,750 - [laughs] 151 00:05:39,875 --> 00:05:43,042 - David's family and friends want you to know 152 00:05:43,167 --> 00:05:45,250 that family means everything to David. 153 00:05:45,333 --> 00:05:48,833 He is a loyal son, uncle, and brother. 154 00:05:48,917 --> 00:05:52,167 We are so excited to add husband to that list 155 00:05:52,250 --> 00:05:55,000 and welcome you into this big, loud family. 156 00:05:55,042 --> 00:05:57,833 - [giggles] 157 00:05:57,875 --> 00:06:00,333 - David is a mama's boy. 158 00:06:00,458 --> 00:06:02,833 His mom means the world to him. - Aw. 159 00:06:02,875 --> 00:06:06,542 - He gets his big heart and his strength from her. 160 00:06:06,667 --> 00:06:09,917 And while she's sad to be losing her firstborn, 161 00:06:10,042 --> 00:06:13,042 she couldn't be happier to gain another strong woman 162 00:06:13,125 --> 00:06:15,083 into the Tremble family. 163 00:06:16,708 --> 00:06:19,250 - Yes, that is my last name, Tremble. 164 00:06:19,250 --> 00:06:22,417 [laughter] 165 00:06:22,417 --> 00:06:24,875 - Although he may look like a caveman... 166 00:06:24,958 --> 00:06:27,500 [laughter] 167 00:06:27,583 --> 00:06:31,000 - An upgraded caveman. - Uh, yeah. [laughs] 168 00:06:31,000 --> 00:06:35,125 - He's really a gentle giant with a teddy-bear heart 169 00:06:35,208 --> 00:06:38,875 who gives the biggest teddy-bear hugs. 170 00:06:38,875 --> 00:06:42,083 You have also written your own vows. 171 00:06:42,167 --> 00:06:43,667 Michelle? - Yeah. 172 00:06:43,708 --> 00:06:45,500 - Would you share your vows first? 173 00:06:45,542 --> 00:06:48,208 - OK, where have you been hiding? 174 00:06:48,333 --> 00:06:50,792 Seriously, where have you been? 175 00:06:50,875 --> 00:06:53,208 When I dreamed about this day, I would have never imagined 176 00:06:53,292 --> 00:06:54,750 I would have to enlist experts 177 00:06:54,833 --> 00:06:58,000 to find you and hand-deliver you down here to me. 178 00:06:58,042 --> 00:06:59,833 But here we are. 179 00:07:00,000 --> 00:07:01,333 And it feels good to be in the company of someone 180 00:07:01,417 --> 00:07:03,500 just as insane as myself. 181 00:07:03,542 --> 00:07:05,292 So nice to meet you, David. 182 00:07:05,292 --> 00:07:07,750 - Oh, it's a pleasure to meet you. 183 00:07:07,875 --> 00:07:10,625 - So today is the beginning of the next chapters of our lives. 184 00:07:10,708 --> 00:07:12,417 And I truly can't wait to see what's in store 185 00:07:12,542 --> 00:07:13,875 for the two of us. 186 00:07:14,000 --> 00:07:16,375 I know you don't know me, but I can promise you 187 00:07:16,458 --> 00:07:17,833 I will always be there to make you smile 188 00:07:17,958 --> 00:07:19,500 after a hard day. 189 00:07:19,625 --> 00:07:22,708 I will laugh at your jokes even when they aren't funny. 190 00:07:22,792 --> 00:07:25,500 I will push you to be the best version of yourself. 191 00:07:25,583 --> 00:07:27,542 I will strive to see both sides of the story 192 00:07:27,625 --> 00:07:28,958 even when it's hard. 193 00:07:29,042 --> 00:07:31,500 And finally, I will dream big with you. 194 00:07:31,583 --> 00:07:33,667 Can't wait to build an amazing life with you 195 00:07:33,708 --> 00:07:36,083 from this day forward. 196 00:07:36,208 --> 00:07:37,667 - That was beautiful. [laughs] 197 00:07:37,792 --> 00:07:39,292 So I guess it's my turn, right? 198 00:07:39,375 --> 00:07:42,500 - It's your turn. 199 00:07:42,583 --> 00:07:45,125 - So there are three things that we need 200 00:07:45,208 --> 00:07:46,958 to create our love, 201 00:07:47,042 --> 00:07:50,000 and those are loyalty, honesty, and respect. 202 00:07:50,083 --> 00:07:53,333 And with those three things, our love can be created 203 00:07:53,458 --> 00:07:56,042 as we have a clean slate to build our adventure, 204 00:07:56,042 --> 00:07:58,958 our empire, our love for one another. 205 00:07:59,042 --> 00:08:02,500 From this day forward, I promise to cherish your love, 206 00:08:02,583 --> 00:08:04,792 your mind, and your body. 207 00:08:04,792 --> 00:08:07,333 And with our loyalty, our honesty, our love, 208 00:08:07,417 --> 00:08:09,625 and our respect, I am very confident 209 00:08:09,708 --> 00:08:11,958 we can succeed together in this journey hand in hand 210 00:08:12,042 --> 00:08:13,042 and forever and forever. 211 00:08:13,125 --> 00:08:15,333 - Yes. 212 00:08:15,417 --> 00:08:17,333 That was good. 213 00:08:17,417 --> 00:08:20,333 - Michelle, will you take David 214 00:08:20,417 --> 00:08:22,333 to be your lawful wedded husband? 215 00:08:22,417 --> 00:08:25,542 Will you love him, comfort him, 216 00:08:25,625 --> 00:08:29,208 honor and keep him so long as you both shall live? 217 00:08:29,292 --> 00:08:30,458 - I do. 218 00:08:30,542 --> 00:08:34,042 [cheers and applause] 219 00:08:34,125 --> 00:08:35,125 - And David? 220 00:08:35,208 --> 00:08:37,042 - I do. 221 00:08:37,042 --> 00:08:38,625 - Yay. 222 00:08:38,708 --> 00:08:41,833 [cheers and applause] 223 00:08:41,875 --> 00:08:44,625 - May we have the rings, please? 224 00:08:44,708 --> 00:08:46,542 Michelle? - Mm-hmm? 225 00:08:46,667 --> 00:08:50,500 - Please take David's hand and repeat after me. 226 00:08:50,583 --> 00:08:52,792 - OK. - With this ring... 227 00:08:52,875 --> 00:08:54,500 - With this ring... - I wed you, David... 228 00:08:54,625 --> 00:08:55,875 - I wed you, David... 229 00:08:55,958 --> 00:08:58,750 - With this ring, I wed you, Michelle... 230 00:08:58,875 --> 00:09:01,833 - For today and tomorrow and for all the years to come. 231 00:09:02,000 --> 00:09:04,208 - Please wear this as a sign of my commitment... 232 00:09:04,292 --> 00:09:06,500 - And a notice to the entire world that I am your wife. 233 00:09:06,583 --> 00:09:10,292 - That I am your husband. [chuckles] 234 00:09:10,375 --> 00:09:13,250 Oh, it's snug. It's not coming off now. 235 00:09:13,333 --> 00:09:16,500 [laughter] 236 00:09:16,583 --> 00:09:20,042 - And now, by the authority vested in me, 237 00:09:20,125 --> 00:09:23,792 I now pronounce you a married couple. 238 00:09:23,875 --> 00:09:28,000 [cheers and applause] 239 00:09:28,042 --> 00:09:31,833 David, you may now kiss your bride, Michelle. 240 00:09:31,917 --> 00:09:33,208 Go for it. 241 00:09:33,375 --> 00:09:38,708 [cheers and applause] 242 00:09:38,792 --> 00:09:42,500 Ladies and gentlemen, it is my pleasure to introduce, 243 00:09:42,542 --> 00:09:47,375 for the first time as husband and wife, Michelle and David. 244 00:09:47,375 --> 00:09:48,625 - Yes! 245 00:09:48,708 --> 00:09:50,042 [Wizardz of Oz's "More Than Love"] 246 00:09:50,167 --> 00:09:52,667 - ♪ One kiss, the world comes down ♪ 247 00:09:52,750 --> 00:09:56,208 - ♪ And time stands still 248 00:09:56,208 --> 00:09:59,792 ♪ This is more than love 249 00:09:59,875 --> 00:10:02,667 ♪ This is more than us 250 00:10:02,750 --> 00:10:04,667 - Who would've thunk? [both laugh] 251 00:10:04,708 --> 00:10:06,292 - You crazy. 252 00:10:06,375 --> 00:10:08,167 - Nah, we are both crazy. 253 00:10:08,250 --> 00:10:09,500 - Aw. 254 00:10:09,625 --> 00:10:10,958 [giggles] 255 00:10:11,042 --> 00:10:12,167 - [vocalizes] 256 00:10:12,250 --> 00:10:15,417 ♪ 257 00:10:15,500 --> 00:10:16,458 Oh, this is pretty. 258 00:10:16,542 --> 00:10:17,958 - Oh, very pretty. 259 00:10:18,042 --> 00:10:19,708 [sighs] 260 00:10:19,792 --> 00:10:22,792 That's a sigh of relief right there. 261 00:10:22,875 --> 00:10:24,625 - OK, should we do this? 262 00:10:24,708 --> 00:10:26,458 - I'm down if you are. - Yeah, let's do it. 263 00:10:26,542 --> 00:10:28,042 - Just hit the jackpot. 264 00:10:28,167 --> 00:10:30,167 Yeah, I don't know when I'm gonna stop smiling. 265 00:10:30,250 --> 00:10:31,708 [laughs] 266 00:10:31,875 --> 00:10:33,375 [cork pops] Ooh. 267 00:10:33,375 --> 00:10:35,625 Hey. [chuckles] - Whoo. 268 00:10:35,708 --> 00:10:37,500 - All right, where's someone coming out 269 00:10:37,583 --> 00:10:39,333 and saying I just got punked? 270 00:10:39,458 --> 00:10:42,458 That's what I want to know. 271 00:10:42,542 --> 00:10:44,708 I'm just lost for words. I'm just in shock. 272 00:10:44,792 --> 00:10:46,000 - [laughs] Yeah. - I'm happy. 273 00:10:46,083 --> 00:10:47,833 I'm so happy, you don't even know. 274 00:10:47,875 --> 00:10:50,667 Like, that's why, like, this grin is hurting my face. 275 00:10:50,708 --> 00:10:51,792 - [laughs] - I've been doing this all day. 276 00:10:51,792 --> 00:10:53,750 - Did you have, like, a vision 277 00:10:53,833 --> 00:10:55,958 of, like, what you thought I would look like? 278 00:10:56,042 --> 00:10:58,333 - Um, yes, and actually, they nailed it 279 00:10:58,417 --> 00:11:00,000 to [bleep] T. - Really? 280 00:11:00,042 --> 00:11:02,583 - The first thing I noticed was her blonde hair. 281 00:11:02,708 --> 00:11:03,958 And that was something that I asked about. 282 00:11:04,042 --> 00:11:07,458 So right off the bat, I was... really locked in. 283 00:11:07,542 --> 00:11:09,125 She has dark blue eyes. 284 00:11:09,208 --> 00:11:11,708 As her family was describing her personality, 285 00:11:11,875 --> 00:11:13,375 that she's independent, 286 00:11:13,458 --> 00:11:15,083 I asked for a independent woman, 287 00:11:15,167 --> 00:11:18,167 as I like to do my own things, give her her time. 288 00:11:18,250 --> 00:11:19,458 We have our time. 289 00:11:19,583 --> 00:11:21,042 So, uh, yeah, 290 00:11:21,042 --> 00:11:23,042 I'm a very happy husband right now. 291 00:11:25,333 --> 00:11:27,000 And how old are you? - I'm 38. 292 00:11:27,042 --> 00:11:28,667 - 38. Ah, yes. 293 00:11:28,792 --> 00:11:31,125 Your husband just turned 36 today. 294 00:11:31,208 --> 00:11:32,542 - Oh--today? - Yes. 295 00:11:32,625 --> 00:11:34,167 - Oh, my gosh. Happy Birthday. 296 00:11:34,208 --> 00:11:35,833 - [laughs] - Really? 297 00:11:35,833 --> 00:11:36,917 - Yes, I was waiting for the right time to tell you. 298 00:11:37,000 --> 00:11:38,875 I didn't want to take away from our moment. 299 00:11:38,958 --> 00:11:40,250 - Oh, my gosh. - Yeah. 300 00:11:40,333 --> 00:11:42,417 - Sorry to steal your big day! - No, no. 301 00:11:42,500 --> 00:11:43,750 No. You're not stealing my day. 302 00:11:43,917 --> 00:11:45,542 This is the best present that I could get right now. 303 00:11:45,542 --> 00:11:46,708 - Oh, my gosh, that's crazy. 304 00:11:46,792 --> 00:11:49,417 - My father and my brother got married 305 00:11:49,500 --> 00:11:51,417 on their birthdays as well. - Whoa. 306 00:11:51,500 --> 00:11:52,542 - I wanted to tell you one on one. 307 00:11:52,542 --> 00:11:53,833 - I wasn't prepared with a gift. 308 00:11:53,958 --> 00:11:55,667 - No, you don't-- you are my gift, 309 00:11:55,708 --> 00:11:57,375 so don't worry about that. 310 00:11:57,375 --> 00:11:58,875 Now this is gonna be our day. 311 00:11:58,958 --> 00:12:02,042 - Aw. 312 00:12:02,042 --> 00:12:03,792 - Do you drink a lot or-- 313 00:12:03,875 --> 00:12:06,333 - Um, socially. - Socially. 314 00:12:06,375 --> 00:12:07,333 - I wouldn't say a lot. 315 00:12:10,375 --> 00:12:12,292 Thank you. Do you? 316 00:12:12,375 --> 00:12:14,833 - No, I mean, socially, like, when I'm doing activities-- 317 00:12:14,917 --> 00:12:16,333 softball, darts, and whatnot. 318 00:12:16,458 --> 00:12:18,708 But when I'm at home, I don't crack open a beer. 319 00:12:18,833 --> 00:12:20,375 - Yeah, same, I never drink at home. 320 00:12:20,458 --> 00:12:22,708 - Yeah, no, that's not me. 321 00:12:22,792 --> 00:12:24,792 I do have to say, I do socially smoke, though. 322 00:12:24,875 --> 00:12:26,417 - Oh, like cigarettes? - Yeah. 323 00:12:26,500 --> 00:12:27,667 - Oh, God, that's gross. 324 00:12:27,750 --> 00:12:29,167 [laughter] 325 00:12:29,250 --> 00:12:30,708 - I had to admit it to you, though. 326 00:12:30,833 --> 00:12:33,042 - OK, I was like, oh, goodness. 327 00:12:33,125 --> 00:12:34,542 - And that is something that I'm willing to stop, though. 328 00:12:34,625 --> 00:12:35,792 I just do it-- - OK. You should-- 329 00:12:35,917 --> 00:12:36,958 you should quit that for your own health. 330 00:12:37,042 --> 00:12:39,167 - Yes, yes, I should. 331 00:12:39,208 --> 00:12:41,792 I just want her to know off the bat I am real. 332 00:12:41,875 --> 00:12:43,042 And, like, I ain't got nothing to hide. 333 00:12:43,167 --> 00:12:46,083 So I'm just gonna go with the vaping 334 00:12:46,167 --> 00:12:48,500 and then try and teeter off, 335 00:12:48,667 --> 00:12:50,708 'cause I do not want that to be a factor. 336 00:12:50,792 --> 00:12:52,500 I'm not losing that beauty over 337 00:12:52,583 --> 00:12:53,708 some [bleep] 16 pack of cigarettes. 338 00:12:53,792 --> 00:12:54,833 [chuckles] 339 00:12:54,917 --> 00:12:56,958 But I just wanted to let you know. 340 00:12:57,042 --> 00:12:59,292 I want to get everything-- we got a clean slate, so-- 341 00:12:59,417 --> 00:13:01,542 - Yep. 342 00:13:01,667 --> 00:13:03,042 - So do you live in the city? Do you live in the suburbs? 343 00:13:03,125 --> 00:13:05,000 - I live in the city. - OK. You live downtown? 344 00:13:05,083 --> 00:13:07,333 - I live in the West Loop. - OK. 345 00:13:07,458 --> 00:13:09,458 - I am an absolute city person. 346 00:13:09,542 --> 00:13:14,417 I, um--I've lived in the city for 13 years, I think. 347 00:13:14,542 --> 00:13:16,625 I can, like, walk to work. I-- 348 00:13:16,708 --> 00:13:18,250 - So I don't--I drive to work. - OK. 349 00:13:18,333 --> 00:13:21,542 I currently live in my parents' house. 350 00:13:21,625 --> 00:13:24,542 - Oh, my gosh. Crazy. 351 00:13:24,625 --> 00:13:26,167 - I choose to live at home because I have family 352 00:13:26,250 --> 00:13:28,000 that accepts me and whatever. 353 00:13:28,042 --> 00:13:31,000 I have my two careers. Um, so it's just, like-- 354 00:13:31,042 --> 00:13:32,500 - But, like, you don't want to live at home forever? 355 00:13:32,542 --> 00:13:33,875 - No, no, not whatsoever. 356 00:13:33,958 --> 00:13:35,500 It's just, like, I had-- 357 00:13:35,583 --> 00:13:38,292 for the last three years, I'd been living in a empty bar 358 00:13:38,417 --> 00:13:41,792 that I turned into my condo, 2,500 square feet. 359 00:13:41,875 --> 00:13:42,917 And, like, it was getting lonely. 360 00:13:43,000 --> 00:13:44,833 I was like-- - Yeah. 361 00:13:44,875 --> 00:13:46,958 - And then, so we decided to sell. 362 00:13:47,042 --> 00:13:48,667 And I was like, let me just go back home for a little while 363 00:13:48,708 --> 00:13:50,292 and then just see what I'm gonna do. 364 00:13:50,375 --> 00:13:52,333 And then here we are now. [chuckles] 365 00:13:52,375 --> 00:13:53,750 So... - Yeah, crazy. 366 00:13:53,875 --> 00:13:56,458 [tense music] 367 00:14:00,542 --> 00:14:01,167 [punchy music] 368 00:14:01,208 --> 00:14:02,792 ♪ 369 00:14:02,875 --> 00:14:04,375 - Hey! [laughs] 370 00:14:04,458 --> 00:14:06,667 [cheers and applause] 371 00:14:06,750 --> 00:14:08,500 - ♪ And I'm feeling good 372 00:14:08,667 --> 00:14:09,667 ♪ How 'bout you? 373 00:14:09,750 --> 00:14:11,125 - Did y'all meet my husband? 374 00:14:11,208 --> 00:14:12,917 - How you doing? - Nice to meet you, brother. 375 00:14:13,000 --> 00:14:14,750 - Oh, now--oh--oh, OK, now. 376 00:14:14,833 --> 00:14:16,750 - [laughs] - OK. 377 00:14:16,833 --> 00:14:17,833 - Ay, she want to know if you got a brother. 378 00:14:17,875 --> 00:14:18,833 - [exclaims] 379 00:14:18,917 --> 00:14:20,875 [laughs] 380 00:14:20,875 --> 00:14:22,500 - Your bouquet. And just have it on the side. 381 00:14:22,625 --> 00:14:23,875 Your banana. 382 00:14:23,958 --> 00:14:25,542 We need to do the banana shot. - Oh. 383 00:14:25,667 --> 00:14:27,500 - Hold the banana up. 384 00:14:27,583 --> 00:14:29,333 - 1-800-HotHusband alert. 385 00:14:29,417 --> 00:14:31,500 [laughter] 386 00:14:31,625 --> 00:14:33,500 - ♪ It's a mood 387 00:14:33,583 --> 00:14:35,542 ♪ And I'm feeling good 388 00:14:35,625 --> 00:14:38,375 ♪ How 'bout you? 389 00:14:38,458 --> 00:14:40,333 - Close--get closer. 390 00:14:40,417 --> 00:14:43,375 ♪ 391 00:14:43,458 --> 00:14:45,500 - Yes, I love the chemistry. Look at that. 392 00:14:45,542 --> 00:14:46,875 - Mm. 393 00:14:46,958 --> 00:14:49,417 - Looking at each other. 394 00:14:49,500 --> 00:14:52,625 - Ah, there we go. 395 00:14:52,708 --> 00:14:55,042 - Kissing my husband feels so right. 396 00:14:55,042 --> 00:14:56,833 I hope he gets used to it, 'cause I love kissing, 397 00:14:56,958 --> 00:14:58,333 and I love giving kisses. 398 00:14:58,375 --> 00:15:00,875 - Here, let me carry-- I'll carry it for you. 399 00:15:00,958 --> 00:15:02,917 I'm very excited to keep kissing her lips. 400 00:15:02,917 --> 00:15:04,875 I'm very excited to keep getting to know her. 401 00:15:05,000 --> 00:15:06,500 So--so-- - And the flowers, 402 00:15:06,542 --> 00:15:07,417 do you want me to hold them? 403 00:15:07,500 --> 00:15:08,500 - Is your mother here? 404 00:15:08,583 --> 00:15:09,708 Or is she--she's not here or? 405 00:15:09,708 --> 00:15:11,375 - No, both of my parents aren't here. 406 00:15:11,500 --> 00:15:13,458 - OK. No, listen. I totally understand. 407 00:15:13,542 --> 00:15:15,208 Like, we can be OK-- - Yeah, you--I mean-- 408 00:15:15,292 --> 00:15:17,333 - Like, this is-- this is a little bit crazy. 409 00:15:17,458 --> 00:15:19,042 - It's just, one, my dad's, like, super-- 410 00:15:19,125 --> 00:15:20,625 like, he doesn't even take pictures. 411 00:15:20,708 --> 00:15:22,375 He's just, like, behind the scenes, 412 00:15:22,458 --> 00:15:24,333 like, macho man, you know? - Got it. Yeah. Yeah. 413 00:15:24,417 --> 00:15:27,583 Just, like--and then my mom's, like, so supportive of my dad. 414 00:15:27,667 --> 00:15:28,792 So my mom's like, oh, my God, 415 00:15:28,917 --> 00:15:30,333 I can't go and then your dad not go. 416 00:15:30,375 --> 00:15:31,292 - Yeah. It makes sense. Yeah. Yeah. 417 00:15:31,458 --> 00:15:32,500 - So I was like-- but I love that. 418 00:15:32,625 --> 00:15:33,833 - Yeah, yeah. My dad-- 419 00:15:33,875 --> 00:15:34,583 my parents would be the same way. 420 00:15:34,708 --> 00:15:36,000 - Yeah. Right. 421 00:15:36,083 --> 00:15:38,167 - Honestly, like, my parents are, like, tight. 422 00:15:38,208 --> 00:15:39,875 And my family is-- you're gonna-- 423 00:15:39,958 --> 00:15:41,125 you're in for a treat, I think. 424 00:15:41,208 --> 00:15:45,375 [cheers and applause] 425 00:15:45,500 --> 00:15:49,292 [upbeat music] 426 00:15:49,375 --> 00:15:51,625 - Yeah, boy! 427 00:15:51,708 --> 00:15:53,625 - [speaking Spanish] 428 00:15:53,708 --> 00:15:55,542 - [speaking Spanish] - Hola. 429 00:16:00,208 --> 00:16:01,792 [laughs] 430 00:16:01,917 --> 00:16:03,083 - [speaking Spanish] 431 00:16:03,167 --> 00:16:04,667 - Hi, I'm [indistinct]. 432 00:16:08,042 --> 00:16:08,958 - And you guys are all cheering. 433 00:16:09,042 --> 00:16:10,292 You ready, guys? 434 00:16:10,375 --> 00:16:12,042 [cheering] 435 00:16:12,125 --> 00:16:14,458 - ♪ We were meant to be 436 00:16:14,542 --> 00:16:17,792 ♪ 437 00:16:17,875 --> 00:16:19,500 ♪ Oh, ah 438 00:16:19,625 --> 00:16:21,667 ♪ 439 00:16:21,750 --> 00:16:23,667 - [speaking Spanish] 440 00:16:25,708 --> 00:16:26,708 - Yeah. - [chuckles] 441 00:16:26,792 --> 00:16:28,792 - One, two, three. 442 00:16:28,875 --> 00:16:30,833 One, two, three. 443 00:16:30,875 --> 00:16:32,542 - I do wish my parents were here. 444 00:16:32,667 --> 00:16:34,000 This is such a special moment. 445 00:16:34,167 --> 00:16:36,042 And I'm so happy. 446 00:16:36,167 --> 00:16:38,333 And then just feeling the love 447 00:16:38,417 --> 00:16:41,375 that my husband has with his family, 448 00:16:41,458 --> 00:16:42,875 I know would warm my dad's heart. 449 00:16:43,042 --> 00:16:45,042 And I'm just, like, so excited to go back 450 00:16:45,125 --> 00:16:47,542 and be like, I'm married, Mom and Dad. 451 00:16:47,625 --> 00:16:49,583 And I--and I like him. 452 00:16:49,667 --> 00:16:51,125 I'm excited. 453 00:16:51,208 --> 00:16:53,333 - ♪ I need it 454 00:16:53,417 --> 00:16:56,167 ♪ I want it 455 00:16:56,250 --> 00:16:59,208 - Whoo! 456 00:16:59,292 --> 00:17:01,667 - ♪ Keep on going higher 457 00:17:01,750 --> 00:17:03,042 ♪ Burning with desire 458 00:17:03,042 --> 00:17:04,625 - And look like this? Forehead? Temple? 459 00:17:04,708 --> 00:17:05,458 - You can start off-- - OK. 460 00:17:05,542 --> 00:17:06,875 - Forehead? Oh. 461 00:17:07,000 --> 00:17:08,458 he said "Temples," didn't he? 462 00:17:08,542 --> 00:17:10,792 [laughs] - It's OK. We'll learn anatomy. 463 00:17:10,792 --> 00:17:12,125 [laughter] 464 00:17:12,208 --> 00:17:14,583 - ♪ Keep on going higher 465 00:17:14,667 --> 00:17:16,000 ♪ Burning with desire 466 00:17:16,167 --> 00:17:19,000 - I'm so happy right now, I honestly am. 467 00:17:19,042 --> 00:17:21,500 Like, I'm married. [giggles] 468 00:17:21,500 --> 00:17:23,583 He's definitely not, like, my typical type 469 00:17:23,667 --> 00:17:26,417 that I've ever gone after, which is groomed up, 470 00:17:26,500 --> 00:17:28,333 a little bit more metro, I guess, 471 00:17:28,333 --> 00:17:30,167 with, like, more of an athletic body. 472 00:17:30,250 --> 00:17:32,208 But honestly, I can definitely see why the experts 473 00:17:32,208 --> 00:17:33,208 put Allen and I together, for sure. 474 00:17:33,292 --> 00:17:35,417 Like, he's super funny-- 475 00:17:35,500 --> 00:17:38,417 - And nuzzle your nose on her temple. 476 00:17:38,500 --> 00:17:39,375 - What am I doing? 477 00:17:39,458 --> 00:17:41,042 - Nuzzle your nose on my temple. 478 00:17:41,042 --> 00:17:43,333 - What am I, a bear? - [laughs] 479 00:17:43,417 --> 00:17:44,875 Light-hearted. 480 00:17:44,958 --> 00:17:45,875 But he's got, like, a very gentle 481 00:17:46,000 --> 00:17:49,333 and, like, kind way about him. 482 00:17:49,458 --> 00:17:51,708 Allen and I have both decided that we want marriage. 483 00:17:51,792 --> 00:17:52,958 And we want partnership. 484 00:17:53,042 --> 00:17:54,000 And we want, like, love. 485 00:17:54,167 --> 00:17:55,917 And it's very clear 486 00:17:56,000 --> 00:17:59,333 that he's, you know, ready for that. 487 00:17:59,417 --> 00:18:00,500 [laughs] 488 00:18:00,583 --> 00:18:01,875 - I can't help-- 489 00:18:01,958 --> 00:18:03,167 - Hey, I'm not-- I'm not blaming it. 490 00:18:03,292 --> 00:18:04,958 - All right. Good, good. 491 00:18:05,042 --> 00:18:08,375 I don't know if I could have dreamed up a better situation. 492 00:18:08,500 --> 00:18:12,042 You know, I already can see us creating a life together 493 00:18:12,125 --> 00:18:15,333 and have that together, loving family, 494 00:18:15,417 --> 00:18:18,167 you know, the family that I never had. 495 00:18:18,292 --> 00:18:19,333 - Beautiful, guys. 496 00:18:19,417 --> 00:18:21,958 - So right now, I'm thinkin', 497 00:18:22,042 --> 00:18:23,750 how have I not found you before? 498 00:18:23,833 --> 00:18:25,167 Where have you been? 499 00:18:25,208 --> 00:18:27,542 Why did I have to wait this long to find you? 500 00:18:27,625 --> 00:18:30,250 ♪ 501 00:18:30,333 --> 00:18:31,833 [Vanacore Music's "Let Me Introduce Myself"] 502 00:18:31,833 --> 00:18:33,333 - ♪ Ooh, ooh, ooh 503 00:18:33,375 --> 00:18:34,667 ♪ Hey, hey, hey, hey 504 00:18:34,875 --> 00:18:36,583 - At this time, we'd like to welcome our newlyweds. 505 00:18:36,667 --> 00:18:41,500 [cheers and applause] 506 00:18:41,500 --> 00:18:44,667 - ♪ Nothing wrong, nothing bad ♪ 507 00:18:44,708 --> 00:18:46,167 - Hell yeah. - [laughs] 508 00:18:46,208 --> 00:18:47,792 - ♪ Got that flow, got that glow ♪ 509 00:18:47,875 --> 00:18:49,333 ♪ Yeah, it's happenin' 510 00:18:49,375 --> 00:18:50,917 ♪ I'm feeling pretty 511 00:18:51,042 --> 00:18:53,167 ♪ Let me introduce myself 512 00:18:53,250 --> 00:18:54,500 ♪ This my city 513 00:18:54,667 --> 00:18:57,208 ♪ Yeah, I love to show and tell ♪ 514 00:18:57,208 --> 00:19:00,667 ♪ So write this down, 'cause we might let loud ♪ 515 00:19:00,833 --> 00:19:01,958 ♪ I'm feeling pretty 516 00:19:02,042 --> 00:19:06,875 ♪ Let me introduce myself 517 00:19:06,958 --> 00:19:09,000 [country music] 518 00:19:09,000 --> 00:19:12,833 [cheers and applause] 519 00:19:12,917 --> 00:19:14,083 - OK. 520 00:19:14,167 --> 00:19:15,875 - ♪ I love to feel the way 521 00:19:15,958 --> 00:19:18,500 ♪ You softly whisper 522 00:19:18,583 --> 00:19:22,417 ♪ I can smell the summer in your hair ♪ 523 00:19:22,500 --> 00:19:24,583 - Now I got one big question for you. 524 00:19:24,708 --> 00:19:27,042 - Oh, gosh, OK. 525 00:19:27,125 --> 00:19:29,667 - The expectations when I-- when you see me walking down-- 526 00:19:29,708 --> 00:19:31,125 - Oh, like, my first, like, impression? 527 00:19:31,208 --> 00:19:32,708 - Yeah. - OK. 528 00:19:32,833 --> 00:19:34,208 You know what--like, first impression was, I was like, 529 00:19:34,292 --> 00:19:36,042 you look like the genie-- - [laughs] 530 00:19:36,125 --> 00:19:38,083 - Is that good or bad? 531 00:19:38,208 --> 00:19:40,250 - Uh, that's a new one. - Oh, OK. 532 00:19:40,333 --> 00:19:42,250 That's what I thought. 533 00:19:42,250 --> 00:19:44,167 - I haven't heard that one before, so-- 534 00:19:44,208 --> 00:19:45,583 - Well, yeah, it was like, the-- 535 00:19:45,708 --> 00:19:47,042 - I love it. - OK. 536 00:19:47,042 --> 00:19:49,375 [laughter] Oh, what was yours? 537 00:19:49,500 --> 00:19:51,167 - Uh, once I seen the blonde hair... 538 00:19:51,208 --> 00:19:53,625 - Yeah. - My--I started to smile. 539 00:19:53,708 --> 00:19:55,125 And then I knew you had blue eyes. 540 00:19:55,208 --> 00:19:56,542 - Yeah. - And I was just-- 541 00:19:56,625 --> 00:19:58,458 I--everything that I asked for. 542 00:19:58,542 --> 00:20:00,833 - Aww. 543 00:20:00,917 --> 00:20:02,542 Yeah, um-- 544 00:20:02,542 --> 00:20:04,417 - And how are you feeling at this moment? 545 00:20:04,500 --> 00:20:07,125 - Yeah, I--very overwhelmed. - Me too. 546 00:20:07,208 --> 00:20:09,083 - And, like, everyone's staring at us right now. 547 00:20:09,208 --> 00:20:10,250 A lot of pressure. - Yeah, well, 548 00:20:10,375 --> 00:20:11,417 we're good-looking. 549 00:20:11,542 --> 00:20:12,333 [laughter] 550 00:20:12,375 --> 00:20:14,167 - How are you feeling? 551 00:20:14,250 --> 00:20:16,500 - I'm feeling happy as can be. - Yeah. OK. 552 00:20:16,542 --> 00:20:17,792 - Like, everything's fell into place. 553 00:20:17,875 --> 00:20:19,625 - Oh, gosh, yeah. 554 00:20:19,708 --> 00:20:21,125 - I know that may be a little too much 555 00:20:21,208 --> 00:20:23,208 for you right now, but-- - Yeah. [chuckles] 556 00:20:23,333 --> 00:20:24,667 I'm still very overwhelmed. 557 00:20:24,750 --> 00:20:27,792 I don't love how he lives with his parents. 558 00:20:27,875 --> 00:20:29,167 I am focused on that. 559 00:20:29,250 --> 00:20:31,375 But I'm going to try to not make that my only focus. 560 00:20:31,458 --> 00:20:34,125 I'm the only one putting pressure on myself right now. 561 00:20:34,208 --> 00:20:38,250 And so I just need to chill. [laughs] 562 00:20:38,375 --> 00:20:40,625 - Spin her! Spin her! 563 00:20:40,708 --> 00:20:43,708 [cheering] 564 00:20:43,708 --> 00:20:50,458 ♪ 565 00:20:54,375 --> 00:20:57,417 [soft music] 566 00:20:57,500 --> 00:20:59,375 - You do look beautiful. - Aww, thank you. 567 00:20:59,458 --> 00:21:00,917 - That was a good selection on the dress. 568 00:21:01,000 --> 00:21:02,208 - Thank you, thank you. 569 00:21:02,208 --> 00:21:03,375 You look very dapper too. 570 00:21:03,458 --> 00:21:05,000 - I was going for the Don Draper look. 571 00:21:05,083 --> 00:21:06,125 - Yeah. - [chuckles] 572 00:21:06,208 --> 00:21:08,958 - Yeah. [laughter] 573 00:21:09,042 --> 00:21:12,292 - You, um-- really like my type. 574 00:21:12,375 --> 00:21:14,333 Like, usually the type I go for looks-wise, so-- 575 00:21:14,417 --> 00:21:15,792 - OK, well, that's a good start. 576 00:21:15,875 --> 00:21:17,667 - I was like, hopefully she has a good personality, 577 00:21:17,708 --> 00:21:19,875 which you do, so. - Yeah, I know. 578 00:21:20,000 --> 00:21:21,500 Thank you. Thank you. - Yeah. 579 00:21:21,583 --> 00:21:23,708 I know my dad would be proud because he'd be happy 580 00:21:23,833 --> 00:21:26,500 that I've finally taken that step into marriage. 581 00:21:26,583 --> 00:21:29,458 You know, in my past, I've had trouble sticking 582 00:21:29,542 --> 00:21:31,333 with, you know, commitment on things. 583 00:21:31,458 --> 00:21:33,250 And I've done a lot of work on myself. 584 00:21:33,333 --> 00:21:35,167 So this time around, 585 00:21:35,250 --> 00:21:37,833 I've, you know, put myself out there 586 00:21:37,958 --> 00:21:40,875 and didn't overthink things, and I committed to Camille. 587 00:21:41,042 --> 00:21:42,500 And it just feels good. 588 00:21:42,542 --> 00:21:44,917 - I feel a lot less nervous now. 589 00:21:45,042 --> 00:21:47,417 So that's--just, you could tell you got a good head 590 00:21:47,500 --> 00:21:50,458 on your shoulders and a good family. 591 00:21:50,583 --> 00:21:52,125 And family's important, so that's-- 592 00:21:52,208 --> 00:21:53,458 - You as well. 593 00:21:53,542 --> 00:21:54,583 I just heard you say some of those things 594 00:21:54,667 --> 00:21:55,708 that I was like-- like, my eyes lit up 595 00:21:55,792 --> 00:21:57,708 because that's, you know... - Yeah. 596 00:21:57,792 --> 00:22:00,250 - Exactly what I'm looking for, so. 597 00:22:00,375 --> 00:22:02,500 I'm older, and, you know, this is, like, 598 00:22:02,583 --> 00:22:04,167 something I didn't know was gonna happen, 599 00:22:04,208 --> 00:22:05,625 or didn't think was gonna happen, 600 00:22:05,708 --> 00:22:08,875 so it's a pleasant surprise. - Unexpected. Yeah. 601 00:22:08,958 --> 00:22:11,083 I think it's for a reason. - Yeah, absolutely. 602 00:22:11,167 --> 00:22:13,458 I'm past the point in my life where I want to play games 603 00:22:13,458 --> 00:22:15,333 or do any of that dumb stuff. 604 00:22:15,458 --> 00:22:17,833 - Yeah. - So I feel good about it, so. 605 00:22:17,958 --> 00:22:19,125 - Well, good, good. 606 00:22:19,208 --> 00:22:22,208 That's what I need to hear, for sure. 607 00:22:22,333 --> 00:22:25,625 I'm feeling like I think this is someone 608 00:22:25,708 --> 00:22:27,833 that I'm gonna be safe with, 609 00:22:27,917 --> 00:22:30,500 someone that I'm going to be comfortable with, 610 00:22:30,542 --> 00:22:34,167 and someone who's not going to play around with my heart. 611 00:22:34,208 --> 00:22:36,000 Looking back on my past relationships, 612 00:22:36,042 --> 00:22:39,417 they weren't really ready for actually being married. 613 00:22:39,542 --> 00:22:42,750 And I've never met the man before today. 614 00:22:42,875 --> 00:22:44,125 But a lot of the stuff he's telling me, 615 00:22:44,208 --> 00:22:46,000 it's really-- it's heartwarming. 616 00:22:46,083 --> 00:22:48,708 And it's helping me let the guard down a little bit 617 00:22:48,708 --> 00:22:51,500 with knowing that this person's true intention 618 00:22:51,625 --> 00:22:54,542 is to be together for the long--long run. 619 00:22:54,542 --> 00:22:56,500 So I'm loving that, and it's kind of setting the tone 620 00:22:56,542 --> 00:22:58,625 for what I think's to come. 621 00:22:58,708 --> 00:23:01,542 ♪ 622 00:23:01,625 --> 00:23:03,375 My hopes are that, you know, 623 00:23:03,500 --> 00:23:05,875 we just choose each other, you know, every day, 624 00:23:05,958 --> 00:23:08,917 and we can both agree to see that through. 625 00:23:09,000 --> 00:23:10,208 - Mm-hmm. 626 00:23:10,208 --> 00:23:12,708 - ♪ I believe 627 00:23:12,792 --> 00:23:18,958 ♪ We're right where we are meant to be ♪ 628 00:23:23,042 --> 00:23:24,667 - ♪ There's a whole world outside ♪ 629 00:23:24,750 --> 00:23:27,667 ♪ All we've got is tonight 630 00:23:27,750 --> 00:23:30,333 ♪ Let the lights go out 631 00:23:30,417 --> 00:23:31,333 ♪ Let the lights go out 632 00:23:31,417 --> 00:23:34,000 [glasses clinking] 633 00:23:34,042 --> 00:23:36,000 - Whoo! 634 00:23:36,083 --> 00:23:38,583 - I'm gonna be chiming myself. 635 00:23:38,708 --> 00:23:40,042 You have to kiss me. - Oh, yeah? 636 00:23:40,167 --> 00:23:41,375 - Mm-hmm. 637 00:23:41,458 --> 00:23:42,375 [giggles] - Is that what that means? 638 00:23:42,500 --> 00:23:44,000 - Yeah. - Oh, really? I had no idea. 639 00:23:44,083 --> 00:23:45,208 [together] Aww! 640 00:23:45,292 --> 00:23:46,833 - [laughs] 641 00:23:46,958 --> 00:23:49,250 - You look very beautiful. - Mm-hmm, thank you. 642 00:23:49,375 --> 00:23:52,000 [light rhythmic music] 643 00:23:52,083 --> 00:23:53,667 - Salad kisses. 644 00:23:53,750 --> 00:23:56,333 [laughter] 645 00:23:56,417 --> 00:23:58,000 - Is that cumbia? 646 00:23:58,125 --> 00:24:00,333 - Yes, I love cumbia. 647 00:24:00,417 --> 00:24:03,125 - Hey. [speaking Spanish] 648 00:24:03,208 --> 00:24:05,333 - You do salsa, and I do cumbia. 649 00:24:05,417 --> 00:24:06,792 - There you go. - Uh-huh. 650 00:24:09,458 --> 00:24:11,500 - My mom, she can dance, man. She's pretty good. 651 00:24:11,542 --> 00:24:13,375 - She's so cute. - Right? And she's so cute. 652 00:24:13,458 --> 00:24:16,125 - Mm-hmm. - [laughs] 653 00:24:16,208 --> 00:24:17,583 - Does she live here? 654 00:24:17,708 --> 00:24:19,667 - She lives in North Carolina. - OK. 655 00:24:19,750 --> 00:24:21,833 - Both my parents live in North Carolina, so I try-- 656 00:24:21,917 --> 00:24:23,500 - Are you the only one here then? 657 00:24:23,500 --> 00:24:24,667 - Yeah, I moved here by myself. - Oh, my gosh. 658 00:24:24,708 --> 00:24:26,667 - I was born in Bogotá. 659 00:24:26,750 --> 00:24:28,375 But I was raised, till I was seven, 660 00:24:28,375 --> 00:24:29,833 in Barranquilla-- the beach, you know? 661 00:24:29,875 --> 00:24:32,292 It's cool. You're gonna love Barranquilla. 662 00:24:32,375 --> 00:24:33,542 - Yes, we'll have to go. 663 00:24:33,667 --> 00:24:35,083 - You are gonna be in ecstasy. 664 00:24:35,208 --> 00:24:36,125 That's how much fun it is. - I can't wait. 665 00:24:36,208 --> 00:24:37,708 - It's cool. 666 00:24:37,792 --> 00:24:40,000 Yeah, a lot of dancing, a lot of singin'... 667 00:24:40,042 --> 00:24:41,500 - Mm-hmm. - Laughin'. 668 00:24:41,583 --> 00:24:44,375 - Good times. 669 00:24:44,458 --> 00:24:46,042 - What's, like, your week look like usually? 670 00:24:46,125 --> 00:24:47,542 Like, what is your-- like, a normal week for you? 671 00:24:47,625 --> 00:24:49,458 - Whatever I want it to-- it changes every day. 672 00:24:49,542 --> 00:24:50,875 - Yeah? - Yeah. 673 00:24:50,958 --> 00:24:52,833 So I'm able to, like, manage my schedule. 674 00:24:52,917 --> 00:24:55,750 So I'm able to just, like, decide that week, like, 675 00:24:55,875 --> 00:24:57,458 what hours I want to work 676 00:24:57,542 --> 00:24:59,583 or just whatever it is I want to do. 677 00:24:59,667 --> 00:25:01,625 - You're gonna find that I'm, like, 678 00:25:01,708 --> 00:25:03,417 as far as--I have a lot of routine in my life, 679 00:25:03,500 --> 00:25:04,458 as far as, like... - Ooh! 680 00:25:04,458 --> 00:25:06,708 - Monday through Friday. - Really? 681 00:25:06,833 --> 00:25:09,083 I'm so far from routine. 682 00:25:09,167 --> 00:25:11,250 - The reason is 'cause, like, I do work in construction. 683 00:25:11,250 --> 00:25:13,833 And, dude, these guys that are in construction, 684 00:25:13,917 --> 00:25:15,167 they're up at 4:00 in the morning. 685 00:25:15,250 --> 00:25:18,000 And then also, I developed an app, like a mobile app. 686 00:25:18,083 --> 00:25:19,375 So I launched an app. - What kind of app? 687 00:25:19,458 --> 00:25:20,958 - It's a social-media app to connect-- 688 00:25:21,042 --> 00:25:22,667 I used to be a frequent flyer for work. 689 00:25:22,792 --> 00:25:24,000 So I got to the airport, and I was like, 690 00:25:24,083 --> 00:25:25,875 man, like, all these people show up here 691 00:25:25,875 --> 00:25:28,458 an hour, two or three hours before their flight. 692 00:25:28,542 --> 00:25:29,667 Nobody's interacting. 693 00:25:29,708 --> 00:25:30,417 People are traveling for business. 694 00:25:30,542 --> 00:25:32,000 Nobody's networking. 695 00:25:32,125 --> 00:25:33,750 So I was like, you know, I'm gonna connect these people. 696 00:25:33,750 --> 00:25:35,333 Is there an app to connect these people? 697 00:25:35,417 --> 00:25:36,792 And I searched, and there wasn't. 698 00:25:36,875 --> 00:25:37,833 So I was like, all right, [bleep] it. 699 00:25:37,917 --> 00:25:38,958 I'm just gonna launch this thing. 700 00:25:39,042 --> 00:25:40,667 - That's amazing. Yes. 701 00:25:40,750 --> 00:25:44,000 - Developing a piece of tech is not easy, and it's not cheap. 702 00:25:44,083 --> 00:25:46,792 So the app is not generating any revenue yet. 703 00:25:46,875 --> 00:25:48,500 - To me, money is energy. 704 00:25:48,583 --> 00:25:50,125 I don't really care anything about money. 705 00:25:50,208 --> 00:25:52,042 To me, like, it comes and goes. - Thank you for saying that. 706 00:25:52,125 --> 00:25:54,250 Absolutely. - I mean, I truly don't care. 707 00:25:54,250 --> 00:25:57,875 I had this moment of, like, enlightenment in life, like... 708 00:25:57,958 --> 00:25:58,667 - Tell me about it. - Where it was just, like, 709 00:25:58,750 --> 00:26:00,917 a sudden shift of just, like, 710 00:26:01,042 --> 00:26:04,000 my mindset and just, like, what I wanted in my life. 711 00:26:04,042 --> 00:26:08,667 It's like, I think, like, we're all light beings. 712 00:26:08,750 --> 00:26:11,917 And we come to Earth to learn more about ourselves. 713 00:26:12,042 --> 00:26:15,042 And it just, like, all came to me in, like, my meditation. 714 00:26:15,167 --> 00:26:18,958 So why I'm here is to remind people, like, 715 00:26:19,042 --> 00:26:22,125 all this [bleep] means nothing unless you're one with yourself 716 00:26:22,208 --> 00:26:24,542 and you have connection with, like, others. 717 00:26:24,667 --> 00:26:26,000 So, again, connection. 718 00:26:26,125 --> 00:26:29,542 Like, my whole thing is love and connection. 719 00:26:29,667 --> 00:26:30,625 - Hopefully, you know, that's something 720 00:26:30,708 --> 00:26:32,167 that we could build together. 721 00:26:32,250 --> 00:26:33,958 And I would love to participate 722 00:26:34,042 --> 00:26:35,542 in the things that you're trying to accomplish. 723 00:26:35,625 --> 00:26:36,917 - I can't wait to teach you. 724 00:26:37,042 --> 00:26:38,125 I love that. - You know? Cheers to that. 725 00:26:38,208 --> 00:26:40,000 - Aw, we're gonna make planet Earth better. 726 00:26:40,083 --> 00:26:41,500 - 100%. - Mm-hmm. 727 00:26:41,583 --> 00:26:46,083 [soft music] 728 00:26:46,167 --> 00:26:49,250 - ♪ Ooh, ooh 729 00:26:49,333 --> 00:26:51,708 ♪ I guess they never met you 730 00:26:51,792 --> 00:26:55,458 ♪ If your love is all I got 731 00:26:55,542 --> 00:26:56,667 ♪ Then I'll be flying 732 00:26:56,750 --> 00:26:57,667 - Cheers. [glasses clinking] 733 00:26:57,708 --> 00:26:59,083 Oh. [laughs] Look, he's ready. 734 00:26:59,208 --> 00:27:00,458 - Already? Already. We just got here. 735 00:27:00,542 --> 00:27:02,583 - [laughs] Yeah. - Oh! 736 00:27:02,667 --> 00:27:05,542 [cheers and applause] 737 00:27:05,542 --> 00:27:07,625 ♪ 738 00:27:07,708 --> 00:27:10,458 - Um, this is the salad fork, I think. 739 00:27:10,542 --> 00:27:12,125 - Uh, I'm not fancy enough to know. 740 00:27:12,208 --> 00:27:13,667 - All right, cool. Well, we'll go with that. 741 00:27:13,708 --> 00:27:15,583 - Don't let the suit fool you. - Yeah. [laughs] 742 00:27:15,708 --> 00:27:18,708 - So there's some things about me 743 00:27:18,833 --> 00:27:20,167 that you'll probably find annoying. 744 00:27:20,167 --> 00:27:22,042 - Like? 745 00:27:22,125 --> 00:27:24,625 - I'm particular about stuff. - Mm, mm-hmm. 746 00:27:24,708 --> 00:27:26,958 - I eat one thing at a time on a plate. 747 00:27:27,042 --> 00:27:30,667 - Yo, no lie, so I've been told that about myself. 748 00:27:30,708 --> 00:27:32,875 And I didn't even realize it was a thing. 749 00:27:32,875 --> 00:27:34,708 But I literally find myself just, like, 750 00:27:34,833 --> 00:27:36,667 finishing one thing first, then going to the next 751 00:27:36,708 --> 00:27:38,792 and going to the next, so, you know, that's-- 752 00:27:38,875 --> 00:27:39,875 that's all right with me. 753 00:27:40,000 --> 00:27:41,667 [laughs] 754 00:27:41,708 --> 00:27:43,625 My sister swears I need someone a little more grounded 755 00:27:43,708 --> 00:27:46,500 with some good structure, and I-- 756 00:27:46,583 --> 00:27:49,167 So I think that your particular side will be-- 757 00:27:49,250 --> 00:27:50,542 she would approve of that. 758 00:27:50,625 --> 00:27:51,833 - All right, good. - [laughs] 759 00:27:51,917 --> 00:27:54,458 ♪ 760 00:27:54,542 --> 00:27:55,583 You've never been married before? 761 00:27:55,667 --> 00:27:57,042 - Nope. You? - OK. 762 00:27:57,125 --> 00:27:58,667 No, mm-mm. 763 00:27:58,708 --> 00:28:01,792 No. I know. - Um... 764 00:28:01,875 --> 00:28:02,833 I was never married, but I was in, like, 765 00:28:02,917 --> 00:28:04,208 a nine-year relationship. 766 00:28:04,208 --> 00:28:05,458 - Were you, OK? - Yeah. 767 00:28:05,542 --> 00:28:07,375 - How long ago was that? 768 00:28:07,500 --> 00:28:08,833 - About 4 1/2 years ago. 769 00:28:08,958 --> 00:28:12,250 - What kind of happened with that or-- 770 00:28:12,333 --> 00:28:16,125 - We--we kind of grew apart towards the end. 771 00:28:16,208 --> 00:28:17,500 - Mm-hmm. 772 00:28:17,583 --> 00:28:19,917 [light chatter] 773 00:28:20,000 --> 00:28:22,542 - I think I had things all figured out and thought 774 00:28:22,542 --> 00:28:24,750 I knew--I knew what I was doing, and I really didn't. 775 00:28:24,833 --> 00:28:28,333 - Was it, like, realistic expectations 776 00:28:28,417 --> 00:28:31,375 you had for yourself back then, or it was just, like, 777 00:28:31,458 --> 00:28:33,833 you kind of needed more time 778 00:28:33,875 --> 00:28:35,333 to grow into who you were gonna be? 779 00:28:35,417 --> 00:28:36,542 - I did. 780 00:28:36,667 --> 00:28:38,458 I think she wanted to be married too, 781 00:28:38,542 --> 00:28:40,833 and I wasn't sure about it. 782 00:28:40,875 --> 00:28:43,042 - Yeah, no, that's real. 783 00:28:43,125 --> 00:28:45,333 It does make me a little worried in terms 784 00:28:45,417 --> 00:28:48,250 of his ability to really commit. 785 00:28:48,375 --> 00:28:49,875 That's something that's lacked 786 00:28:50,000 --> 00:28:51,750 in a lot of my past relationships. 787 00:28:51,875 --> 00:28:53,750 So it makes me wonder if he was with someone 788 00:28:53,833 --> 00:28:55,583 for nine years, 789 00:28:55,667 --> 00:28:58,000 how is he gonna be able to know 790 00:28:58,125 --> 00:28:59,958 that he's ready to be married now? 791 00:29:00,042 --> 00:29:01,417 - So have you ever lived with a man before? 792 00:29:01,500 --> 00:29:02,708 - I haven't. 793 00:29:02,708 --> 00:29:03,750 No, I never have. - Wow. 794 00:29:03,750 --> 00:29:05,250 - I know. I never have. 795 00:29:05,333 --> 00:29:07,167 - Ooh. [laughs] - Yeah. 796 00:29:07,208 --> 00:29:09,583 My longest relationship was, like, five years. 797 00:29:09,667 --> 00:29:11,458 - Mm-hmm. 798 00:29:11,542 --> 00:29:15,708 - And that ended--that was, maybe, like, seven years ago. 799 00:29:15,792 --> 00:29:17,458 So yeah, since then I've had a couple, like, 800 00:29:17,542 --> 00:29:20,042 one-year relationships. 801 00:29:20,125 --> 00:29:23,167 But yeah, it just kind of ends up in the same place. 802 00:29:23,250 --> 00:29:26,167 Like, I think people just not really knowing fully 803 00:29:26,208 --> 00:29:28,333 what they want. 804 00:29:28,417 --> 00:29:31,958 But, hey, it all happened for a reason, I guess, 805 00:29:32,042 --> 00:29:33,667 to lead us to this spot. 806 00:29:33,750 --> 00:29:37,125 - Exactly. We're here now. 807 00:29:37,208 --> 00:29:38,708 [upbeat music] 808 00:29:38,792 --> 00:29:40,333 - ♪ I think I'm falling in love ♪ 809 00:29:40,458 --> 00:29:44,833 ♪ And I know that this feels right ♪ 810 00:29:44,917 --> 00:29:46,500 - I know we gonna talk about it later, 811 00:29:46,583 --> 00:29:48,875 but the hell made you do this? 812 00:29:48,958 --> 00:29:52,083 - I mean, I've been single for a hot minute. 813 00:29:54,500 --> 00:29:56,583 I don't like dating sites. 814 00:29:56,667 --> 00:29:58,958 I work a lot. - Mm-hmm. 815 00:29:59,042 --> 00:30:03,917 - And I don't want to focus on my career as much. 816 00:30:04,000 --> 00:30:06,833 I don't want to be single forever. 817 00:30:06,958 --> 00:30:10,792 What made you do it? 818 00:30:10,875 --> 00:30:13,000 - It's been a desire for a while. 819 00:30:13,125 --> 00:30:17,167 The problem is that I didn't want it to just be anybody. 820 00:30:17,292 --> 00:30:18,667 - Yeah. 821 00:30:18,750 --> 00:30:22,000 - So when they say that I've been, like, 822 00:30:22,125 --> 00:30:25,667 praying for you for a while, I wrote a book. 823 00:30:25,750 --> 00:30:27,042 - Mm. 824 00:30:27,125 --> 00:30:29,667 - It's a book of letters to my wife. 825 00:30:29,750 --> 00:30:30,875 - Mm. 826 00:30:31,042 --> 00:30:32,667 - So that's what they're talking about. 827 00:30:32,750 --> 00:30:35,000 - And you ain't give me that? 828 00:30:35,083 --> 00:30:36,667 - Nah, 'cause... - And you ain't give me that? 829 00:30:36,750 --> 00:30:38,167 - 'Cause I can write you a whole new set. 830 00:30:38,208 --> 00:30:40,500 - OK. 831 00:30:40,583 --> 00:30:43,208 So would you consider me your type? 832 00:30:43,292 --> 00:30:45,208 - You are definitely beautiful. - Thank you. 833 00:30:45,292 --> 00:30:46,542 - I don't necessarily have a type. 834 00:30:46,625 --> 00:30:48,208 - OK. 835 00:30:48,292 --> 00:30:49,792 - They asked me, was like, what's your type? 836 00:30:49,875 --> 00:30:51,292 A Black woman. 837 00:30:51,375 --> 00:30:52,750 - Oh, I love that. - Who's your celebrity crush? 838 00:30:52,833 --> 00:30:54,000 - A Black woman. - Kelly Rowland. 839 00:30:54,042 --> 00:30:55,667 - OK, I know that's right. - Michelle Obama. 840 00:30:55,750 --> 00:30:57,250 - OK, give me some. 841 00:30:57,333 --> 00:30:59,833 - And, I mean, I think it's more about energy 842 00:30:59,958 --> 00:31:01,875 than--than anything else. 843 00:31:01,875 --> 00:31:03,250 - Ladies and gentlemen, at this time 844 00:31:03,333 --> 00:31:05,500 we'd like to invite all of our guests 845 00:31:05,542 --> 00:31:08,833 to get out of their seats and join us over by the piano. 846 00:31:08,875 --> 00:31:12,250 - What is--oh, you know what's happenin'. 847 00:31:12,333 --> 00:31:14,125 - I know not what you speak. - OK. 848 00:31:14,208 --> 00:31:16,167 You know what's happenin'. 849 00:31:16,250 --> 00:31:19,292 [dreamy percussive music] 850 00:31:19,375 --> 00:31:20,417 ♪ 851 00:31:22,583 --> 00:31:23,958 - Mm, I love that. 852 00:31:24,958 --> 00:31:26,833 - I did hear him. 853 00:31:26,875 --> 00:31:28,167 - I love that. 854 00:31:28,167 --> 00:31:29,958 He just ain't know she was in Chicago. 855 00:31:33,792 --> 00:31:35,833 Baby. - Wait till he find out. 856 00:31:35,875 --> 00:31:38,000 - Hi, y'all. - Hey. 857 00:31:38,083 --> 00:31:40,625 - These are some of my favorite musical people. 858 00:31:40,708 --> 00:31:46,917 And I just want them to speak for me through their music. 859 00:31:47,042 --> 00:31:48,667 Wife? - Yes, husband? 860 00:31:48,708 --> 00:31:49,833 - Whoo-whoo! - Thank you. Thank you. 861 00:31:49,917 --> 00:31:51,167 - What you sayin'? 862 00:31:51,292 --> 00:31:52,500 - I'd like to present to you, wife... 863 00:31:52,583 --> 00:31:54,083 - Husband. 864 00:31:54,208 --> 00:31:56,500 - As if no one else is here but you and I. 865 00:31:56,583 --> 00:31:59,083 - OK. - Ooh. 866 00:31:59,167 --> 00:32:01,208 [gentle piano music] 867 00:32:01,292 --> 00:32:02,667 - OK. 868 00:32:02,708 --> 00:32:08,542 ♪ 869 00:32:08,667 --> 00:32:15,500 - ♪ Baby, I don't know what it is that you do to me ♪ 870 00:32:15,667 --> 00:32:20,208 ♪ But lately, you've been heavy on my mind ♪ 871 00:32:20,292 --> 00:32:22,125 ♪ And it just don't make no sense ♪ 872 00:32:22,208 --> 00:32:25,250 ♪ Maybe I'm crazy 873 00:32:25,333 --> 00:32:28,708 ♪ But this thing I've got for you, it don't compare ♪ 874 00:32:28,708 --> 00:32:33,333 ♪ To none other that I've had in my life before ♪ 875 00:32:33,417 --> 00:32:38,375 ♪ And I swear it's a feeling that I can't ignore ♪ 876 00:32:38,458 --> 00:32:41,042 ♪ See, this thing that you do to me ♪ 877 00:32:41,125 --> 00:32:45,917 ♪ Is oh-so, oh-so incredible 878 00:32:46,042 --> 00:32:47,833 both: ♪ You do that 879 00:32:47,917 --> 00:32:50,167 - ♪ Something 'bout the way you walk ♪ 880 00:32:50,250 --> 00:32:52,708 ♪ Something 'bout the way you talk ♪ 881 00:32:52,875 --> 00:32:55,083 ♪ Pretty dimples when you smile ♪ 882 00:32:55,167 --> 00:32:57,958 ♪ Oh, the sparkle in your eye 883 00:32:58,042 --> 00:33:00,208 ♪ Looked at me and oh-so sweet ♪ 884 00:33:00,292 --> 00:33:03,042 ♪ My life has now become complete ♪ 885 00:33:03,125 --> 00:33:05,792 ♪ Feeling I cannot explain 886 00:33:05,875 --> 00:33:10,042 both: ♪ You do that thing 887 00:33:10,125 --> 00:33:12,208 - ♪ To me 888 00:33:12,292 --> 00:33:17,833 ♪ You 889 00:33:17,917 --> 00:33:19,042 - Baby. 890 00:33:19,167 --> 00:33:24,250 [cheering, laughter] 891 00:33:24,375 --> 00:33:25,917 - Don't stop. [laughs] 892 00:33:26,000 --> 00:33:28,083 [light piano music] OK! 893 00:33:28,167 --> 00:33:29,250 - You do that thing. 894 00:33:29,333 --> 00:33:31,250 - Yeah! [laughter] 895 00:33:31,333 --> 00:33:32,708 - It's something about the way you walk. 896 00:33:32,792 --> 00:33:34,875 - OK. 897 00:33:34,958 --> 00:33:36,125 - Something 'bout the way you talk. 898 00:33:36,208 --> 00:33:39,167 - ♪ Something 'bout the way you talk ♪ 899 00:33:39,250 --> 00:33:41,083 - Some--dimples in your-- 900 00:33:41,167 --> 00:33:43,750 - ♪ Something 'bout the smile, yeah ♪ 901 00:33:43,833 --> 00:33:45,167 - Yeah, yeah, yeah. - [laughs] 902 00:33:45,208 --> 00:33:46,833 - Do that smile. - You do that thing. 903 00:33:46,958 --> 00:33:49,667 You do that thing. 904 00:33:49,750 --> 00:33:51,708 ♪ 905 00:33:51,708 --> 00:33:57,833 - ♪ Something about the way you, you walk and you talk ♪ 906 00:33:57,917 --> 00:34:00,083 ♪ 907 00:34:03,958 --> 00:34:05,000 [lively music] 908 00:34:05,167 --> 00:34:07,458 - ♪ All go and never slow 909 00:34:07,542 --> 00:34:09,375 ♪ Got it goin' on 910 00:34:09,458 --> 00:34:10,958 - Welcome to your intervention. 911 00:34:11,042 --> 00:34:12,667 [both laugh] 912 00:34:12,708 --> 00:34:15,875 - Intervention? I thought this was an interrogation. 913 00:34:16,000 --> 00:34:17,042 - Ah, a little bit of both. 914 00:34:17,167 --> 00:34:19,208 - Yeah. - All right. 915 00:34:19,208 --> 00:34:20,875 - Hey, hey! - Gentlemen, gentlemen! 916 00:34:20,958 --> 00:34:22,458 - Hello! - What's up? 917 00:34:22,542 --> 00:34:24,083 - The pressure's on. 918 00:34:24,167 --> 00:34:26,000 - [laughing] Pressure is on. - Grill me. 919 00:34:26,042 --> 00:34:28,875 [laughs] - So how you feelin'? 920 00:34:28,958 --> 00:34:30,500 - I'm literally on cloud nine. 921 00:34:30,542 --> 00:34:32,250 I'm--like, this has-- I feel like has been, 922 00:34:32,333 --> 00:34:34,500 like, the best that I could have ever expected. 923 00:34:34,542 --> 00:34:36,708 Like, after talking to Allen a little bit, 924 00:34:36,792 --> 00:34:39,500 I truly feel like when they matched me and Allen, 925 00:34:39,583 --> 00:34:42,042 they saw all of these similarities. 926 00:34:42,125 --> 00:34:45,042 And, like, his love and excitement 927 00:34:45,208 --> 00:34:48,333 and just, like, care in tonight, like, 928 00:34:48,375 --> 00:34:50,958 he's pulled the chair open for me every single time. 929 00:34:51,042 --> 00:34:54,125 He asked to kiss me before he kissed me, even as his wife. 930 00:34:54,208 --> 00:34:55,333 Like, he's... - Yeah. 931 00:34:55,417 --> 00:34:56,708 - Everything he's-- - That's Allen. 932 00:34:56,833 --> 00:34:59,125 - That's Allen. That's, like-- - I know, but, like, 933 00:34:59,208 --> 00:35:03,750 for me, I haven't gotten a man to do that for me 934 00:35:03,875 --> 00:35:06,875 in so long and truly mean it. 935 00:35:06,958 --> 00:35:09,833 And, like, having him do it with knowing nothing about me 936 00:35:09,917 --> 00:35:12,417 outside of the gift that I gave him, 937 00:35:12,500 --> 00:35:14,750 I'm like, this is [bleep] awesome, like. 938 00:35:14,833 --> 00:35:16,667 [laughter] 939 00:35:16,708 --> 00:35:19,000 - I want to know, 940 00:35:19,042 --> 00:35:21,833 what is your hope for this marriage? 941 00:35:21,958 --> 00:35:28,458 And what do you hope for for your future with Madison? 942 00:35:28,542 --> 00:35:31,292 - I romanticize a lot of things. 943 00:35:31,375 --> 00:35:33,417 And for me, the best possible outcome 944 00:35:33,417 --> 00:35:36,375 is gonna be, I found my person. 945 00:35:36,458 --> 00:35:40,125 You know, I found my person that, when we're 80 years old 946 00:35:40,208 --> 00:35:42,167 and I've got my walker 947 00:35:42,208 --> 00:35:44,000 and we get little tennis balls on there... 948 00:35:44,042 --> 00:35:45,208 [both laugh] - Oh, yeah. 949 00:35:45,208 --> 00:35:46,625 - And, like, and she's ahead of me, 950 00:35:46,708 --> 00:35:48,000 I'm gonna throw one of my balls at her. 951 00:35:48,083 --> 00:35:49,750 And I'll be like, I'ma go get you. 952 00:35:49,833 --> 00:35:51,125 - Wait up, my girl! 953 00:35:51,208 --> 00:35:53,042 [laughter] 954 00:35:53,042 --> 00:35:54,292 - Like, let me ask you this. 955 00:35:54,375 --> 00:35:56,500 Like, so Allen is very-- 956 00:35:56,583 --> 00:35:58,917 like, he has a certain kind of view 957 00:35:59,000 --> 00:36:01,333 of what he wants out of this, right? 958 00:36:01,458 --> 00:36:05,250 And are you kind of--like, what do you want out of this? 959 00:36:05,375 --> 00:36:07,542 - Physical attraction is important, 960 00:36:07,625 --> 00:36:10,167 but it also comes in a lot of different ways 961 00:36:10,250 --> 00:36:14,167 from emotional security, like, mental security. 962 00:36:14,250 --> 00:36:15,667 Like, that's what I'm looking for. 963 00:36:15,750 --> 00:36:18,542 Like, I personally feel like I've just dealt 964 00:36:18,625 --> 00:36:21,500 with a lot of bull[bleep] because, 965 00:36:21,583 --> 00:36:22,542 to be honest, people take one look at me. 966 00:36:22,625 --> 00:36:24,083 And they're like, you're gorgeous. 967 00:36:24,208 --> 00:36:25,958 You must be stuck up and snobby. 968 00:36:26,042 --> 00:36:28,792 And that's not the case. 969 00:36:28,875 --> 00:36:33,292 Like, I'm very humbled because I wasn't always beautiful. 970 00:36:33,375 --> 00:36:35,542 I love myself now, for sure. - Mm-hmm. 971 00:36:35,625 --> 00:36:38,875 - But, like, I have my ole slew of [bleep] 972 00:36:38,958 --> 00:36:41,042 that I, like, grew up with to get to where I am now and... 973 00:36:41,167 --> 00:36:44,625 - Yeah. - I'm looking for somebody who, 974 00:36:44,708 --> 00:36:48,292 like, appreciates me and I find attractive 975 00:36:48,375 --> 00:36:50,167 and that finds me attractive for, like, who I am 976 00:36:50,292 --> 00:36:52,917 and not, like, just from the outside. 977 00:36:53,000 --> 00:36:55,292 You know, like, I want them to know my soul and my heart 978 00:36:55,375 --> 00:36:57,167 and, like, what I bring to the table and-- 979 00:36:57,250 --> 00:36:59,583 - I will say, Allen is one of those people 980 00:36:59,667 --> 00:37:01,792 that if you're into it, he'll be into it. 981 00:37:01,875 --> 00:37:03,667 - I only want him to, like, really be into it, though, 982 00:37:03,792 --> 00:37:06,958 like, if he wants to too, because I feel like I've also 983 00:37:07,042 --> 00:37:09,500 been in places where I was kind of that same mentality of, 984 00:37:09,583 --> 00:37:11,125 yeah, if you're into it, I'll like it. 985 00:37:11,125 --> 00:37:12,542 But I could end up hating it and then, like, 986 00:37:12,708 --> 00:37:15,667 not tell you that I hate it and never want to do it again. 987 00:37:15,750 --> 00:37:18,417 - And it's not that, like, if you like it, he'll fake it. 988 00:37:18,542 --> 00:37:20,500 If you're genuinely excited about something, 989 00:37:20,542 --> 00:37:22,708 he will genuinely also be excited about it. 990 00:37:22,833 --> 00:37:25,875 - OK, cool, cool, because the one thing 991 00:37:26,000 --> 00:37:29,792 that I've just wanted so badly is, like, effort and commitment 992 00:37:29,875 --> 00:37:33,583 and just, like, somebody who wants to try. 993 00:37:33,667 --> 00:37:36,250 - So I kind of want to get into... - Yeah, please. 994 00:37:36,375 --> 00:37:37,500 - Your past. - Yeah. 995 00:37:37,500 --> 00:37:38,833 - Like, what was your past relationship? 996 00:37:39,000 --> 00:37:41,250 Why didn't it work out? - Yeah, why'd it end? 997 00:37:41,333 --> 00:37:45,083 - I was in a relationship for four years 998 00:37:45,208 --> 00:37:47,750 that ended about a year and a half ago. 999 00:37:47,833 --> 00:37:52,167 That was probably the one I thought I was gonna 1000 00:37:52,167 --> 00:37:53,792 be done with dating and everything. 1001 00:37:53,875 --> 00:37:57,500 But as the years progressed, it was just not healthy. 1002 00:37:57,583 --> 00:37:59,458 Like, I came home, and I felt like-- 1003 00:37:59,583 --> 00:38:03,667 I would be made to feel like [bleep] because it was like, 1004 00:38:03,750 --> 00:38:05,292 do you have your receipt for the gas station 1005 00:38:05,417 --> 00:38:07,750 because you're nine minutes late? 1006 00:38:07,750 --> 00:38:09,833 - Why have you done to heal yourself from that? 1007 00:38:09,875 --> 00:38:13,250 Or is that something that might come up 1008 00:38:13,375 --> 00:38:15,583 with your relationship with Madison? 1009 00:38:15,667 --> 00:38:18,667 - I am a huge advocate for mental health. 1010 00:38:18,750 --> 00:38:21,292 You know, between my mom and my dad, 1011 00:38:21,375 --> 00:38:25,333 you know, we were in custody battles for 14 years. 1012 00:38:25,375 --> 00:38:27,417 You know, there was a lot of counseling. 1013 00:38:27,542 --> 00:38:30,167 There was a lot of therapy, and I guess my intention 1014 00:38:30,208 --> 00:38:33,417 with getting married, you know, 1015 00:38:33,500 --> 00:38:36,083 is I get a lot of motivation from the things 1016 00:38:36,167 --> 00:38:39,875 that I didn't have in life, you know? 1017 00:38:39,875 --> 00:38:44,750 And eventually pray that we can form the foundation 1018 00:38:44,833 --> 00:38:46,667 that we can build, that love will grow. 1019 00:38:46,708 --> 00:38:48,500 [bright music] 1020 00:38:48,542 --> 00:38:50,625 - ♪ For your love, I'll follow ♪ 1021 00:38:50,708 --> 00:38:54,417 ♪ Been looking for this for so long, so long ♪ 1022 00:38:54,500 --> 00:38:55,667 ♪ We got something real, babe ♪ 1023 00:38:58,875 --> 00:39:00,333 - Hello, ladies. - Hi. 1024 00:39:00,375 --> 00:39:01,583 - Hi! - All right. 1025 00:39:01,708 --> 00:39:03,833 So what intel do I get from you guys? 1026 00:39:03,917 --> 00:39:06,375 - Well, congratulations. - Why, thank you kindly. 1027 00:39:06,375 --> 00:39:07,500 It's a pleasure to meet you guys. 1028 00:39:07,542 --> 00:39:09,042 - Yes. - And I wanted 1029 00:39:09,167 --> 00:39:11,000 to thank you guys right off the bat 1030 00:39:11,042 --> 00:39:12,792 for supporting Michelle. 1031 00:39:12,875 --> 00:39:14,833 I want to hear your guys' insight. 1032 00:39:14,917 --> 00:39:17,000 - I think, physically, check, check, check. 1033 00:39:17,000 --> 00:39:19,875 You meet all of the standards of her type, 100%. 1034 00:39:19,958 --> 00:39:21,875 - Why, thank you kindly. - You literally were, like, 1035 00:39:21,958 --> 00:39:23,625 what we thought you would look like. 1036 00:39:23,708 --> 00:39:24,833 And, like, I feel like everybody feels like 1037 00:39:24,917 --> 00:39:27,042 there's a big weight lifted a little bit 1038 00:39:27,125 --> 00:39:29,250 as we've, like, been able to mingle and talk. 1039 00:39:29,375 --> 00:39:32,708 But I think, like, as long as you can match her 1040 00:39:32,792 --> 00:39:36,458 without overshadowing her and, like, dulling that shine 1041 00:39:36,542 --> 00:39:38,292 that she's got that we all love about her, I think, like-- 1042 00:39:38,375 --> 00:39:39,500 - Of course. But I will tell you this, 1043 00:39:39,542 --> 00:39:41,208 I'm not gonna outshine her. 1044 00:39:41,292 --> 00:39:44,458 We're gonna work together and be together. 1045 00:39:44,542 --> 00:39:46,333 - Are you guys having fun? 1046 00:39:46,417 --> 00:39:48,375 - We are having fun. - OK, good. Yes. 1047 00:39:48,458 --> 00:39:49,875 - Have some questions. - Ooh, yes. 1048 00:39:49,958 --> 00:39:51,208 Hopefully I have answers. 1049 00:39:51,292 --> 00:39:54,458 - So what made you do this? 1050 00:39:54,542 --> 00:39:56,083 - Yeah, I think it was like, I've been single 1051 00:39:56,167 --> 00:39:59,167 for a really long time, and so, um, 1052 00:39:59,250 --> 00:40:01,500 it hasn't worked in the past for me. 1053 00:40:01,542 --> 00:40:05,875 And so I was like, maybe I am what's going wrong. 1054 00:40:05,875 --> 00:40:09,167 - OK. OK. - I've got the bad picker, 1055 00:40:09,208 --> 00:40:10,833 because I am the common denominator 1056 00:40:10,917 --> 00:40:13,375 in all these past relationships that haven't worked out. 1057 00:40:13,458 --> 00:40:15,667 So now I'm like, OK, well, like, if I'm sick, 1058 00:40:15,750 --> 00:40:17,833 I would call a doctor to help me. 1059 00:40:17,917 --> 00:40:21,667 If I can't find love, I call in the experts to help me. 1060 00:40:21,750 --> 00:40:23,542 So that's how I kind of took it. - OK. OK. 1061 00:40:23,542 --> 00:40:26,625 He literally said these experts let him open up 1062 00:40:26,708 --> 00:40:28,333 a lot more too, which is good. 1063 00:40:28,417 --> 00:40:29,667 - Yeah. - Which is good. 1064 00:40:29,750 --> 00:40:31,167 Now, is there anything you want to know? 1065 00:40:31,167 --> 00:40:34,958 - Ooh, he right away was like, putting things about him 1066 00:40:35,042 --> 00:40:37,417 that I think maybe he was, like, hesitant to tell me-- 1067 00:40:37,500 --> 00:40:39,708 he kind of threw it out there really fast. 1068 00:40:39,792 --> 00:40:41,917 And two of 'em, which I want your opinions on, like, 1069 00:40:42,000 --> 00:40:44,625 why--or, like, what you think of that. 1070 00:40:44,708 --> 00:40:46,208 He said you guys were roommates. 1071 00:40:46,292 --> 00:40:48,542 - Mm-hmm. - So I'm curious 1072 00:40:48,625 --> 00:40:51,667 as to why do we think-- 1073 00:40:51,750 --> 00:40:54,375 like, why is he living with you guys? 1074 00:40:54,458 --> 00:40:56,292 Are you like, "Get outta here"? 1075 00:40:56,375 --> 00:40:58,417 - No. - Or you embrace that? 1076 00:40:58,500 --> 00:41:01,458 - It's a temporary thing. He is ready to move on. 1077 00:41:01,458 --> 00:41:03,708 - Yeah. - I-I think he's been there 1078 00:41:03,792 --> 00:41:07,333 because we've needed him to do things 1079 00:41:07,458 --> 00:41:09,208 and he's always been supportive, 1080 00:41:09,208 --> 00:41:11,708 not that he doesn't adventure and do for his own. 1081 00:41:11,833 --> 00:41:15,458 It was just the caring and the love that we have, that's it. 1082 00:41:15,542 --> 00:41:18,458 I mean, he's ready to just move on. 1083 00:41:18,542 --> 00:41:20,042 But we've never pushed that issue 1084 00:41:20,042 --> 00:41:22,208 because our door is just always open for him. 1085 00:41:22,333 --> 00:41:24,833 So, I mean, it never will be closed. 1086 00:41:24,917 --> 00:41:27,000 - Totally, and it shouldn't. - No, exactly. 1087 00:41:27,042 --> 00:41:28,375 No. - Yeah. 1088 00:41:28,542 --> 00:41:30,583 - I want to get to know her a little bit. 1089 00:41:30,667 --> 00:41:32,833 What do you guys have to-- what makes her tick? 1090 00:41:32,917 --> 00:41:34,708 - Oh, honey, we're not done with you yet. 1091 00:41:34,708 --> 00:41:36,750 That wasn't-- - All right, OK. 1092 00:41:36,833 --> 00:41:39,083 - I like that you tried to just be like, 1093 00:41:39,208 --> 00:41:41,667 OK, we're done with this. Now let's talk about this. 1094 00:41:41,750 --> 00:41:43,125 - Are you, like, ready for this? 1095 00:41:43,208 --> 00:41:45,167 Like, really ready for this? - [bleep] yeah. 1096 00:41:45,250 --> 00:41:46,792 - After the cameras go away, 1097 00:41:46,917 --> 00:41:48,708 after, like, life starts happening? 1098 00:41:48,875 --> 00:41:50,208 - I am ready. - Your first big fight, 1099 00:41:50,292 --> 00:41:52,125 how do you come back from that? 1100 00:41:52,208 --> 00:41:55,125 - Honestly, it's listening. 1101 00:41:55,208 --> 00:41:56,667 Communication. 1102 00:41:56,792 --> 00:41:59,750 Take one day at a time and compromise. 1103 00:41:59,833 --> 00:42:00,958 I know that I'm gonna have to work on it. 1104 00:42:00,958 --> 00:42:02,333 It's not gonna be a [bleep] overnight, 1105 00:42:02,375 --> 00:42:04,667 like, hey, here, boom. 1106 00:42:04,750 --> 00:42:06,625 You know, we're both fresh at this. 1107 00:42:06,708 --> 00:42:08,792 It takes a long time. 1108 00:42:08,875 --> 00:42:11,833 So I'm just really genuine, honest, and loyal. 1109 00:42:11,917 --> 00:42:13,750 And I just want to be able to support her 1110 00:42:13,750 --> 00:42:16,708 and be up to her par, I guess. 1111 00:42:16,708 --> 00:42:19,583 So you ask me, I'm a open book. 1112 00:42:19,667 --> 00:42:21,375 If you like it, you like it. If you don't, you don't. 1113 00:42:21,458 --> 00:42:23,458 But at the same time, it's honest. 1114 00:42:23,542 --> 00:42:24,708 - Sure, sure. - So. 1115 00:42:24,792 --> 00:42:26,375 And I hope that she's the same with me. 1116 00:42:26,458 --> 00:42:28,042 And it seems that she has been 1117 00:42:28,125 --> 00:42:30,208 because I told her that I smoked cigarettes. 1118 00:42:30,292 --> 00:42:31,542 She said, "Gross." 1119 00:42:31,667 --> 00:42:32,917 I appreciated that she said "Gross" 1120 00:42:33,000 --> 00:42:35,042 rather than "Eh, that's not something I like." 1121 00:42:35,125 --> 00:42:37,125 No, just give it to me real. And then I know. 1122 00:42:37,208 --> 00:42:39,625 - He mentioned that he smokes cigarettes. 1123 00:42:39,708 --> 00:42:42,250 - Yes, I feel that he does it on a social basis. 1124 00:42:42,250 --> 00:42:44,000 - Oh, he did say that. - And he-- 1125 00:42:44,042 --> 00:42:45,417 literally, my husband... - He knows I don't like it. 1126 00:42:45,500 --> 00:42:48,500 - He doesn't like it. I'm a cancer survivor. 1127 00:42:48,583 --> 00:42:50,542 So literally, I used to smoke. - Yep. 1128 00:42:50,667 --> 00:42:51,792 - So I think that that is something 1129 00:42:51,792 --> 00:42:53,542 that just triggers him. 1130 00:42:53,625 --> 00:42:54,875 Like, he does it on a social, and... 1131 00:42:54,958 --> 00:42:56,500 - OK. OK. 1132 00:42:56,583 --> 00:42:57,792 - You just got to push him on that, that's all. 1133 00:42:57,875 --> 00:42:59,500 - Yeah, 'cause he doesn't smoke in front of me. 1134 00:42:59,625 --> 00:43:00,708 - Yeah, OK. - Yeah. Yeah. 1135 00:43:00,792 --> 00:43:02,917 - But tell me a little bit about her. 1136 00:43:03,000 --> 00:43:04,500 - All right, we'll let you ask that question now. 1137 00:43:04,583 --> 00:43:05,708 Now we'll let you-- - Now--now I can get it? 1138 00:43:05,792 --> 00:43:06,833 - We got a little more info from you. 1139 00:43:06,917 --> 00:43:07,833 - But we're gonna come back to you too. 1140 00:43:08,000 --> 00:43:08,875 - All right. - We're not done-- 1141 00:43:08,958 --> 00:43:10,375 - Yes. 1142 00:43:10,500 --> 00:43:12,792 - She likes being treated special, right? 1143 00:43:12,875 --> 00:43:16,167 So it's, you know, flowers without being asked. 1144 00:43:16,292 --> 00:43:17,333 It's... - The little gifts. 1145 00:43:17,333 --> 00:43:18,500 - Like, a little sweet treat. 1146 00:43:18,542 --> 00:43:19,625 - Be thoughtful and, like, sentimental. 1147 00:43:19,750 --> 00:43:21,083 - The little, small things? both: Yeah. 1148 00:43:21,167 --> 00:43:23,333 - She also--when she needs it, she needs her space. 1149 00:43:23,375 --> 00:43:24,833 - Hey, don't we all? - And that's OK. 1150 00:43:24,917 --> 00:43:27,167 both: Yeah. - She's not, like, 1151 00:43:27,208 --> 00:43:29,792 always open to being super vulnerable. 1152 00:43:29,875 --> 00:43:31,875 - Mm-hmm. - OK. 1153 00:43:31,958 --> 00:43:33,667 - She's a good mix, like, you know, 1154 00:43:33,750 --> 00:43:35,833 of being sensitive and, like, really tough. 1155 00:43:35,875 --> 00:43:37,792 - But strong and keeping it to herself. 1156 00:43:37,875 --> 00:43:39,000 - Yes, she'll keep her cards... - Sounds like me. 1157 00:43:39,083 --> 00:43:41,000 - Close to her vest a little bit, yeah, so. 1158 00:43:41,125 --> 00:43:42,583 - So we got to break each other down 1159 00:43:42,667 --> 00:43:43,500 or just be there for one another. 1160 00:43:43,542 --> 00:43:45,167 - Yeah. 1161 00:43:45,208 --> 00:43:47,583 - She just has really high standards for herself 1162 00:43:47,667 --> 00:43:49,958 and anybody else who's coming into her life. 1163 00:43:50,042 --> 00:43:52,417 And she doesn't put up with a lot of bull. 1164 00:43:52,500 --> 00:43:55,500 [percussive music] 1165 00:43:55,542 --> 00:43:56,583 ♪ 1166 00:44:00,542 --> 00:44:01,375 - ♪ Got nothing to prove 1167 00:44:01,375 --> 00:44:02,667 ♪ Stuck on you 1168 00:44:02,750 --> 00:44:04,417 ♪ A little bit of love 1169 00:44:04,500 --> 00:44:06,250 ♪ Baby, we can't lose 1170 00:44:10,042 --> 00:44:11,833 - Hello, guys. Hola. - [speaking Spanish] 1171 00:44:11,875 --> 00:44:12,958 - ¿Cómo estás? ¿Alejandro? 1172 00:44:12,958 --> 00:44:14,000 - Alejandro. - Alejandro y... 1173 00:44:14,042 --> 00:44:15,333 - Giuliana. - Giuliana. 1174 00:44:15,375 --> 00:44:16,708 - Yes, come here, brother. 1175 00:44:16,833 --> 00:44:18,000 - Mucho gracias. Mucho gracias. 1176 00:44:18,042 --> 00:44:19,083 Thank you, guys. 1177 00:44:19,167 --> 00:44:20,667 - Yes, of course. - The new brother-in-law. 1178 00:44:20,708 --> 00:44:22,042 - Thank you for having me. - How are you feeling? 1179 00:44:22,208 --> 00:44:24,167 - I am feeling very good. - Yeah? 1180 00:44:24,250 --> 00:44:26,542 - You guys are amazing and welcoming to me. 1181 00:44:26,625 --> 00:44:28,542 - Oh, thank you. - So that's a big deal. 1182 00:44:28,667 --> 00:44:30,042 - Absolutely. - And not only that, 1183 00:44:30,167 --> 00:44:31,625 I think your family is amazing too. 1184 00:44:31,708 --> 00:44:32,667 - Yeah, thank you. - You know what I mean? 1185 00:44:32,750 --> 00:44:35,333 So they've been so nice, so loving. 1186 00:44:35,417 --> 00:44:39,500 I mean, I can't ask anything better for Karla. 1187 00:44:39,542 --> 00:44:41,000 - Well, thank you. 1188 00:44:41,042 --> 00:44:42,542 - Are you having fun? - A lot. 1189 00:44:42,625 --> 00:44:44,833 - Yes, we are. How about you? 1190 00:44:44,917 --> 00:44:47,333 - Oh, my God, I am enjoying myself thoroughly. 1191 00:44:47,417 --> 00:44:49,250 It's been amazing. 1192 00:44:49,250 --> 00:44:50,375 - Awesome, awesome. 1193 00:44:50,458 --> 00:44:51,875 - What do you think about Juan? 1194 00:44:51,958 --> 00:44:53,667 What's your initial-- 1195 00:44:53,792 --> 00:44:56,167 - He seems so cool, like, very chill, 1196 00:44:56,250 --> 00:44:59,667 like myself, up for adventure, an entrepreneur. 1197 00:44:59,708 --> 00:45:01,875 Like, I love that he's very goal driven. 1198 00:45:01,958 --> 00:45:04,875 I feel he will help me grow with my own business 1199 00:45:04,875 --> 00:45:07,875 because I'm so in the clouds all the time. 1200 00:45:07,958 --> 00:45:09,375 And I'm, like, a dreamer. 1201 00:45:09,458 --> 00:45:11,500 I have the vision. - Uh-huh. 1202 00:45:11,500 --> 00:45:14,500 - So hopefully he can help me execute the vision. 1203 00:45:14,583 --> 00:45:18,625 And I'm hoping to bring to his life, 1204 00:45:18,708 --> 00:45:20,500 not everything has to be planned. 1205 00:45:20,583 --> 00:45:22,208 There doesn't need to be structure. 1206 00:45:22,208 --> 00:45:24,000 You can, like, go with the flow. 1207 00:45:24,083 --> 00:45:26,750 And everything always works out. 1208 00:45:26,875 --> 00:45:29,958 - He flows, but he flows with a plan. 1209 00:45:30,042 --> 00:45:31,500 - With a plan. - Right? 1210 00:45:31,625 --> 00:45:33,917 - Well, maybe that'll be the perfect balance, 1211 00:45:34,000 --> 00:45:36,667 'cause I flow with no plan. 1212 00:45:36,792 --> 00:45:38,708 You can't control life, right? 1213 00:45:38,833 --> 00:45:40,667 You just have to, like, flow with it. 1214 00:45:40,750 --> 00:45:44,250 So hopefully I can bring that, like, ease to him 1215 00:45:44,375 --> 00:45:47,167 and let him know, like, everything's gonna be OK. 1216 00:45:47,208 --> 00:45:49,375 - What made now, like, the right time for you? 1217 00:45:49,500 --> 00:45:52,542 - A lot of the decisions I've made have been based 1218 00:45:52,667 --> 00:45:55,000 on a lot of risk and adventure. 1219 00:45:55,125 --> 00:45:56,542 You know, like, you know, I'm 36. 1220 00:45:56,542 --> 00:45:58,458 I've lived a lot of life. 1221 00:45:58,542 --> 00:46:02,250 In my 20s, I would have never thought about getting married 1222 00:46:02,333 --> 00:46:03,625 or having, like, that long-term relationship 1223 00:46:03,708 --> 00:46:05,167 'cause I don't think-- 1224 00:46:05,208 --> 00:46:06,708 I don't know, I'm speaking maybe for myself-- 1225 00:46:06,833 --> 00:46:09,667 but I don't think men are mature enough in their 20s 1226 00:46:09,792 --> 00:46:10,875 to make that type of commitment to somebody. 1227 00:46:11,000 --> 00:46:12,625 - Yeah. - You know, we're more mature 1228 00:46:12,708 --> 00:46:14,917 in our 30s to be ready to, like, 1229 00:46:15,000 --> 00:46:17,125 kind of hang the gloves up and just be, like, I'm done 1230 00:46:17,208 --> 00:46:19,792 with, like, just having fun and thinking for myself. 1231 00:46:19,875 --> 00:46:21,042 - Yeah, you've done the grown up, you know? 1232 00:46:21,125 --> 00:46:22,167 - Exactly. - You've grown up already. 1233 00:46:22,208 --> 00:46:23,917 - You know, the reason I decided 1234 00:46:23,917 --> 00:46:25,750 to do it this way is because I'm very passionate, 1235 00:46:25,875 --> 00:46:27,583 and I just jump into a relationship. 1236 00:46:27,667 --> 00:46:29,000 And then I end up, like, oh, well, 1237 00:46:29,083 --> 00:46:31,167 I'm not really compatible with this person. 1238 00:46:31,250 --> 00:46:33,708 - What's something that you would say, like, you know, 1239 00:46:33,833 --> 00:46:35,167 something that you will have to work on? 1240 00:46:35,250 --> 00:46:37,208 'Cause, like, you know, I don't want to say a flaw, 1241 00:46:37,292 --> 00:46:39,750 'cause, like, we all have to work on something, right? 1242 00:46:39,833 --> 00:46:41,875 - I have to work on my softness. 1243 00:46:42,042 --> 00:46:44,208 I'm very blunt and direct. 1244 00:46:44,333 --> 00:46:46,458 And sometimes, it can come off that way, 1245 00:46:46,542 --> 00:46:48,208 and it can come off harsh. 1246 00:46:48,208 --> 00:46:51,000 But I always mean it with the best intentions 1247 00:46:51,042 --> 00:46:53,750 and, like, all the love inside my heart. 1248 00:46:53,875 --> 00:46:57,000 So hopefully we can both give each other, like, 1249 00:46:57,083 --> 00:47:00,167 space or just the time to get to know each other 1250 00:47:00,250 --> 00:47:03,000 and, like, understand how we communicate. 1251 00:47:03,083 --> 00:47:04,542 - It will be a challenge. 1252 00:47:04,667 --> 00:47:05,625 I will tell you one thing. - Yeah. 1253 00:47:05,708 --> 00:47:07,375 - Like, it will be a challenge. 1254 00:47:07,458 --> 00:47:09,167 - You both have, like, strong personalities. 1255 00:47:09,250 --> 00:47:11,750 And if you don't work in that situation, 1256 00:47:11,833 --> 00:47:14,583 you're gonna be struggling. 1257 00:47:14,667 --> 00:47:18,500 [tense music] 1258 00:47:18,583 --> 00:47:20,625 - ♪ Watch me make my move 1259 00:47:20,708 --> 00:47:22,500 ♪ Lining it up, taking my shots ♪ 1260 00:47:22,542 --> 00:47:26,250 ♪ Now I'm in my groove 1261 00:47:26,375 --> 00:47:29,375 ♪ Best believe it 1262 00:47:29,458 --> 00:47:30,583 - Hi. Hey, ladies. - Hey. 1263 00:47:30,667 --> 00:47:32,917 - How are you guys? - Join us. 1264 00:47:33,042 --> 00:47:34,833 - How are you feelin'? 1265 00:47:34,875 --> 00:47:37,000 - I actually feel fantastic. 1266 00:47:37,042 --> 00:47:39,292 I'm--I'm elated. Like, I can't stop smiling, 1267 00:47:39,375 --> 00:47:42,042 because I almost feel like I won a lottery today. 1268 00:47:42,125 --> 00:47:43,500 - Oh, we think you did. - So yeah. 1269 00:47:43,583 --> 00:47:44,500 - We know you did. 1270 00:47:44,583 --> 00:47:46,458 [laughter] 1271 00:47:46,542 --> 00:47:47,708 - When you came down the aisle, 1272 00:47:47,792 --> 00:47:48,917 were you pleasantly surprised? 1273 00:47:49,000 --> 00:47:50,542 - Yeah, definitely. 1274 00:47:50,625 --> 00:47:52,375 Yeah, he cleans up nice. 1275 00:47:52,458 --> 00:47:53,750 I was like, OK, all right. 1276 00:47:53,750 --> 00:47:56,042 This is a good starting spot. - Yeah. 1277 00:47:56,208 --> 00:47:57,625 I think he had a great feeling about you. 1278 00:47:57,708 --> 00:48:00,708 I know, like, me and him are very close. 1279 00:48:00,792 --> 00:48:02,333 So I know he was happy when he saw you. 1280 00:48:02,417 --> 00:48:04,583 - Good, good, that makes me feel better-- 1281 00:48:04,667 --> 00:48:07,083 - You shouldn't have anything to worry about in that aspect. 1282 00:48:07,167 --> 00:48:08,500 But I'm his brother. 1283 00:48:08,583 --> 00:48:10,208 I'm like, that's my best friend. 1284 00:48:10,208 --> 00:48:13,208 That's my partner. Like, we're really close. 1285 00:48:13,208 --> 00:48:15,875 And, like, my brother, because he was single, 1286 00:48:15,958 --> 00:48:17,333 he would come over, and he would join us. 1287 00:48:17,375 --> 00:48:19,917 How do you feel about, like, combining those families 1288 00:48:20,000 --> 00:48:20,958 and hanging out with each other, 1289 00:48:21,042 --> 00:48:22,167 going to barbecues, 1290 00:48:22,250 --> 00:48:26,042 doing, like, pool parties, stuff like that? 1291 00:48:26,042 --> 00:48:28,083 - Yeah, that's--I feel like that's what I thrive in. 1292 00:48:28,167 --> 00:48:29,958 Like, that's what I seek out. 1293 00:48:30,042 --> 00:48:34,000 Like, I feel like I wouldn't mesh as well 1294 00:48:34,083 --> 00:48:36,458 with someone who didn't have that kind of environment 1295 00:48:36,542 --> 00:48:38,958 and that family to lean on and be part of. 1296 00:48:39,042 --> 00:48:41,250 And that's one of the biggest things 1297 00:48:41,333 --> 00:48:42,833 that I told the experts that I need, 1298 00:48:42,917 --> 00:48:44,792 is someone who is family oriented 1299 00:48:44,875 --> 00:48:48,625 and really wants family to be top priority. 1300 00:48:48,708 --> 00:48:51,042 - Oh, awesome. 1301 00:48:51,125 --> 00:48:55,208 - So how long was your longest relationship? 1302 00:48:55,208 --> 00:48:58,167 - My longest relationship was nine years. 1303 00:48:58,250 --> 00:49:02,500 - Wow, and can I ask what happened or why it ended? 1304 00:49:02,625 --> 00:49:05,833 - Um, if I'm being 100% honest with myself, 1305 00:49:05,875 --> 00:49:09,708 I was not a good boyfriend at the end of that relationship. 1306 00:49:09,833 --> 00:49:10,875 - What do you mean? 1307 00:49:10,958 --> 00:49:12,125 - What makes you feel like that? 1308 00:49:12,208 --> 00:49:14,792 - I stepped outside of our relationship. 1309 00:49:14,792 --> 00:49:16,667 - I mean, when you say you stepped out, 1310 00:49:16,708 --> 00:49:18,125 do you mean, like, you stepped out, 1311 00:49:18,208 --> 00:49:20,792 like cheating or you, like... - Yeah. Like, I-- 1312 00:49:20,875 --> 00:49:23,417 - Checked out. - No, like infidelity. 1313 00:49:23,500 --> 00:49:26,958 - Wow. All right. 1314 00:49:27,042 --> 00:49:30,667 - Obviously, Tom was in a long-term relationship, 1315 00:49:30,708 --> 00:49:32,292 nine years it sounded like. 1316 00:49:32,292 --> 00:49:35,125 And so, you know, he was telling me 1317 00:49:35,208 --> 00:49:37,167 that he just didn't really feel like he was ready 1318 00:49:37,208 --> 00:49:39,750 to fully commit with her, and, you know, 1319 00:49:39,875 --> 00:49:41,250 she wanted marriage. He wasn't ready. 1320 00:49:41,333 --> 00:49:45,083 So would that be any issue or area of concern, is like, 1321 00:49:45,167 --> 00:49:49,000 would you say there's any commitment issues in general? 1322 00:49:49,042 --> 00:49:55,167 - Um... I think he kind of got stuck in something. 1323 00:49:55,208 --> 00:49:59,000 And then, I think, like, he just felt compelled to stay 1324 00:49:59,083 --> 00:50:00,917 in something that wasn't really the best fit for him. 1325 00:50:01,000 --> 00:50:02,250 - Yeah. I see. 1326 00:50:02,333 --> 00:50:04,000 - So I think he just couldn't 1327 00:50:04,042 --> 00:50:05,458 hit the eject button on that, so. 1328 00:50:05,542 --> 00:50:07,458 - Yeah. 1329 00:50:07,542 --> 00:50:10,125 - That was actually a really tough time for me. 1330 00:50:10,208 --> 00:50:11,417 It was probably one of my lowest points. 1331 00:50:11,417 --> 00:50:15,333 But I definitely put a lot of work in on myself. 1332 00:50:15,333 --> 00:50:18,333 And following that, I did some therapy. 1333 00:50:18,417 --> 00:50:20,125 I saw a therapist for, like, six months 1334 00:50:20,208 --> 00:50:21,833 because I wanted to find the root 1335 00:50:21,875 --> 00:50:23,417 of what my actions were, 1336 00:50:23,542 --> 00:50:25,958 'cause there's reasons people do things like that. 1337 00:50:26,042 --> 00:50:27,875 You can't just chalk it up to, I made a mistake. 1338 00:50:27,958 --> 00:50:29,708 I think you really got to examine that. 1339 00:50:29,792 --> 00:50:32,208 And one of the key takeaways I took from it is, 1340 00:50:32,292 --> 00:50:34,792 you have to be open and honest, and you have to communicate. 1341 00:50:34,875 --> 00:50:35,833 Otherwise, you're not gonna know 1342 00:50:35,875 --> 00:50:38,500 what the other person's feeling. 1343 00:50:38,625 --> 00:50:42,375 - My advice would be, I read my brother really well. 1344 00:50:42,458 --> 00:50:46,125 And sometimes he's closed off. 1345 00:50:46,250 --> 00:50:49,667 To me, that could be a issue in a relationship, 1346 00:50:49,750 --> 00:50:51,292 and especially a marriage. 1347 00:50:53,083 --> 00:50:57,917 I would challenge you to open him up, 1348 00:50:58,042 --> 00:50:59,792 for lack of better words. 1349 00:50:59,917 --> 00:51:02,208 Like, our upbringing was tough. 1350 00:51:02,208 --> 00:51:04,167 Like, my dad was a military man. 1351 00:51:04,292 --> 00:51:06,750 Uh, he was very disciplined. 1352 00:51:06,833 --> 00:51:09,083 And he had--you know, 1353 00:51:09,167 --> 00:51:11,250 we didn't really show our emotions so much. 1354 00:51:11,333 --> 00:51:14,250 So sometimes we'd bury it inside, especially him. 1355 00:51:14,333 --> 00:51:17,083 He'll see his body language kind of closes off. 1356 00:51:17,167 --> 00:51:20,542 I would encourage you to encourage him to open up 1357 00:51:20,625 --> 00:51:23,417 and speak freely because it could affect 1358 00:51:23,500 --> 00:51:24,833 the trajectory of your relationship. 1359 00:51:24,875 --> 00:51:27,125 - Yeah. 1360 00:51:27,208 --> 00:51:29,958 - How long were you in your relationship 1361 00:51:30,083 --> 00:51:31,833 before you realized that, OK, this isn't-- 1362 00:51:31,875 --> 00:51:34,500 this isn't where I want it to go? 1363 00:51:34,583 --> 00:51:37,375 Because I don't want it to seem like you're in this-- 1364 00:51:37,458 --> 00:51:39,208 - Eight weeks is such a short amount of time, like-- 1365 00:51:39,292 --> 00:51:40,542 - Yeah. - Right. How will you know? 1366 00:51:40,750 --> 00:51:43,083 - Like, are you gonna know, like, this is my forever, 1367 00:51:43,167 --> 00:51:44,208 in just eight weeks, you know? 1368 00:51:44,208 --> 00:51:46,542 - Or be able to, like, recognize when 1369 00:51:46,708 --> 00:51:48,208 some of those same feelings are coming up 1370 00:51:48,292 --> 00:51:50,042 and be able to work through them? 1371 00:51:50,042 --> 00:51:52,250 - Yeah, I think that I am, 1372 00:51:52,333 --> 00:51:55,542 because that was a different situation, obviously. 1373 00:51:55,625 --> 00:51:58,208 But that was--that was over a long period of time, 1374 00:51:58,292 --> 00:52:00,833 and we were both, like, young when that started. 1375 00:52:00,875 --> 00:52:01,917 - You stayed because of the time. 1376 00:52:02,042 --> 00:52:05,542 - Yeah. 1377 00:52:05,625 --> 00:52:08,208 - Do you guys feel like he is ready to be married now? 1378 00:52:08,333 --> 00:52:10,542 Or you think it is more of the, 1379 00:52:10,542 --> 00:52:13,000 you know, not wanting to be, like, 1380 00:52:13,167 --> 00:52:14,875 the single friend that's kind of driving that? 1381 00:52:14,958 --> 00:52:17,333 Do you guys really feel like he's ready to be married now? 1382 00:52:17,375 --> 00:52:18,667 - Ab-- 1383 00:52:18,708 --> 00:52:21,167 - You want to answer? - Yeah. Ab-absolutely. 1384 00:52:21,167 --> 00:52:23,125 'Cause, like, before, 1385 00:52:23,208 --> 00:52:25,417 he wouldn't really even talk about the subject. 1386 00:52:25,500 --> 00:52:28,833 This is the most committed and focused 1387 00:52:28,875 --> 00:52:30,167 I have ever seen him on anything. 1388 00:52:30,250 --> 00:52:32,208 And, like, when he gets committed and focused 1389 00:52:32,292 --> 00:52:34,000 on something, he's gon' do it. 1390 00:52:34,000 --> 00:52:35,500 - OK. 1391 00:52:35,583 --> 00:52:38,083 - Is there something you see in Tom thus far, 1392 00:52:38,208 --> 00:52:40,250 in this short amount of time, 1393 00:52:40,375 --> 00:52:44,125 that makes you feel a little more confident in... 1394 00:52:44,208 --> 00:52:46,333 - I'm already starting to pick up on what you said 1395 00:52:46,375 --> 00:52:49,542 about him when he's committed to something being committed. 1396 00:52:49,625 --> 00:52:53,542 And I think he's taking marriage seriously. 1397 00:52:53,542 --> 00:52:58,375 And I don't think it's just gonna be a phase for him. 1398 00:52:58,375 --> 00:52:59,500 At least I hope not. 1399 00:52:59,625 --> 00:53:01,125 [laughter] 1400 00:53:05,208 --> 00:53:07,500 - ♪ Let the fire ignite 1401 00:53:07,625 --> 00:53:10,167 ♪ Put out the darkness with your light ♪ 1402 00:53:10,208 --> 00:53:11,667 - Hello, fellas. 1403 00:53:11,750 --> 00:53:13,208 - Hey. - Hello. 1404 00:53:13,292 --> 00:53:14,458 - Hey, what's happening? - How are y'all doing? 1405 00:53:14,583 --> 00:53:16,250 both: Doing well. - How are you doing? 1406 00:53:16,375 --> 00:53:17,750 - I'm good. I'm married. 1407 00:53:17,833 --> 00:53:19,042 both: Yeah. - Right? 1408 00:53:19,125 --> 00:53:20,917 - You's married. - I'm good. I'm married now. 1409 00:53:20,917 --> 00:53:22,167 - Translation--better now. - OK. 1410 00:53:22,292 --> 00:53:23,708 - Better now. - Better now. 1411 00:53:23,708 --> 00:53:25,208 - And, you know, this is a time for us 1412 00:53:25,375 --> 00:53:26,917 to get to know you a little bit more. 1413 00:53:27,000 --> 00:53:30,667 So, like, what's the story that got you to marrying a stranger? 1414 00:53:30,708 --> 00:53:33,750 - [laughs] So I'm a nurse practitioner. 1415 00:53:33,875 --> 00:53:35,417 I own my own practice. 1416 00:53:35,542 --> 00:53:39,375 And honestly, for the last 15-ish years, 1417 00:53:39,458 --> 00:53:41,042 I've focused on my career. 1418 00:53:41,125 --> 00:53:43,333 And now I'm 35 at this point. 1419 00:53:43,333 --> 00:53:45,292 And I'm like, OK, wait, 1420 00:53:45,292 --> 00:53:47,083 I'm ready to share my life with someone. 1421 00:53:47,208 --> 00:53:50,042 And then the guys I've been encountering dating, 1422 00:53:50,125 --> 00:53:51,042 they're not ready for commitment. 1423 00:53:51,125 --> 00:53:52,292 - Wow. 1424 00:53:52,375 --> 00:53:54,708 - Yeah, so it's been hard. 1425 00:53:54,792 --> 00:53:57,000 - It's crazy because, um-- and it's emotional for us too, 1426 00:53:57,083 --> 00:54:00,083 because I once feared that Ike would never wander off 1427 00:54:00,167 --> 00:54:02,667 into the love space again because, 1428 00:54:02,750 --> 00:54:05,750 you know, he was really in love with a young lady. 1429 00:54:05,833 --> 00:54:07,167 And this was a long time ago, but he was really 1430 00:54:07,208 --> 00:54:08,167 in love with a young lady. 1431 00:54:08,333 --> 00:54:09,500 And she broke his heart, 1432 00:54:09,583 --> 00:54:12,792 you know, cheated on him. 1433 00:54:12,875 --> 00:54:14,500 He had given everything. 1434 00:54:14,542 --> 00:54:16,417 So he carried that for a long time. 1435 00:54:16,417 --> 00:54:20,375 You know, I think that made him-- 1436 00:54:20,375 --> 00:54:22,500 kind of shaped his decision-making with, 1437 00:54:22,542 --> 00:54:24,333 you know, relationships, like, nah, 1438 00:54:24,417 --> 00:54:26,458 I'm not gon' completely be vulnerable, yeah. 1439 00:54:26,542 --> 00:54:28,000 You know, I'm not gonna 1440 00:54:28,042 --> 00:54:30,125 completely open up, 'cause I remember what happened. 1441 00:54:30,208 --> 00:54:31,500 - Absolutely. 1442 00:54:31,667 --> 00:54:34,458 - But, I mean, you know, you seem like you all-in. 1443 00:54:34,583 --> 00:54:37,042 - I'm all-in. I'm very much so all-in. 1444 00:54:37,042 --> 00:54:40,042 I know that Ike wanted a wife. 1445 00:54:40,042 --> 00:54:41,542 And I want a husband. - Uh-huh. 1446 00:54:41,625 --> 00:54:43,625 - And we got lucky enough that we vibe well. 1447 00:54:43,708 --> 00:54:45,625 - Wow. 1448 00:54:45,708 --> 00:54:47,792 And then that's the pressure on the situation, man, 1449 00:54:47,875 --> 00:54:51,333 because, I mean, Ike has been writing to his future wife... 1450 00:54:51,417 --> 00:54:54,167 - Mm-hmm. - Like, for a minute. 1451 00:54:54,208 --> 00:54:55,542 - For a while now. - Like, how long? 1452 00:54:55,542 --> 00:54:57,333 both: Forever. - Like, he's been writing. 1453 00:54:57,375 --> 00:54:59,250 And it's also immense amount of pressure, too, 1454 00:54:59,375 --> 00:55:01,000 because it's like, that's you. 1455 00:55:01,083 --> 00:55:03,583 - Whew. 1456 00:55:03,667 --> 00:55:05,750 - Oh, man, I'm here like a big brother today, man. 1457 00:55:05,833 --> 00:55:08,708 So I got to drill you in a little bit, you know? 1458 00:55:08,833 --> 00:55:10,458 So I hope you don't mind, man. - I don't, man. 1459 00:55:10,542 --> 00:55:12,042 - I know it's your time to shine, 1460 00:55:12,125 --> 00:55:13,708 but, you know, it's some things we just got to figure out. 1461 00:55:13,792 --> 00:55:15,583 - I get it. I get it. - You get it? 1462 00:55:15,708 --> 00:55:17,333 - When's the last serious relationship you had? 1463 00:55:17,375 --> 00:55:18,667 - 12 years ago. 1464 00:55:18,750 --> 00:55:21,333 - SO, in 12 years, you telling me 1465 00:55:21,500 --> 00:55:23,708 you haven't dealt with a woman seriously? 1466 00:55:23,792 --> 00:55:27,167 - I've dealt with women seriously. 1467 00:55:27,250 --> 00:55:30,792 But it hasn't gone past a certain point. 1468 00:55:30,875 --> 00:55:33,625 - Never been close--engaged? - I have been engaged before. 1469 00:55:33,708 --> 00:55:35,417 - How many times? - Once. 1470 00:55:35,500 --> 00:55:36,833 - Once. And what happened with her. 1471 00:55:36,875 --> 00:55:38,500 - It didn't. 1472 00:55:38,583 --> 00:55:39,833 - I mean, it didn't because of her or because of you? 1473 00:55:39,917 --> 00:55:42,083 - Because of me. 1474 00:55:42,208 --> 00:55:44,000 - OK, so you just walked out on her? 1475 00:55:44,083 --> 00:55:45,375 - It wasn't that. 1476 00:55:45,458 --> 00:55:46,500 We decided not to-- 1477 00:55:46,583 --> 00:55:48,333 - Mutually? - Mutually. 1478 00:55:48,375 --> 00:55:50,792 In my 20s. - In your 20s. 1479 00:55:50,875 --> 00:55:53,333 What was the longest relationship you had 1480 00:55:53,375 --> 00:55:56,250 since that last engagement? 1481 00:55:56,333 --> 00:55:58,292 - Six, seven months. - Six, seven months. 1482 00:55:58,375 --> 00:56:01,000 And it always just a flop? 1483 00:56:01,083 --> 00:56:03,250 - I listened to what they said. 1484 00:56:03,333 --> 00:56:05,250 I listened to them 1485 00:56:05,333 --> 00:56:06,625 saying that they didn't want to have children, 1486 00:56:06,708 --> 00:56:08,042 they didn't want to be married. 1487 00:56:08,167 --> 00:56:09,500 I listened to them say 1488 00:56:09,583 --> 00:56:10,708 that they didn't want things that I want. 1489 00:56:10,792 --> 00:56:12,167 - I mean, you're 41 years old, right? 1490 00:56:12,292 --> 00:56:13,458 - I am. 1491 00:56:13,542 --> 00:56:14,958 - And so you still want children? 1492 00:56:15,042 --> 00:56:16,500 - I do. - How many? 1493 00:56:16,542 --> 00:56:18,000 - I'll take "a" at this point in life. 1494 00:56:18,125 --> 00:56:19,250 - You'll take one? - I'll take "a." 1495 00:56:19,333 --> 00:56:20,792 - OK, OK. 1496 00:56:20,875 --> 00:56:22,667 Now, another thing is when people move to Chicago, 1497 00:56:22,708 --> 00:56:24,042 they feel like they want to move back home. 1498 00:56:24,125 --> 00:56:25,708 So that's another thing-- like, at the end of the day, 1499 00:56:25,833 --> 00:56:27,417 she doesn't have that much family here. 1500 00:56:27,500 --> 00:56:28,917 - Yeah. Yeah. - But Chicago's her home. 1501 00:56:29,000 --> 00:56:31,000 You know, her friends have became her family. 1502 00:56:31,083 --> 00:56:34,500 But, I mean, you just coming to Chicago from Texas. 1503 00:56:34,583 --> 00:56:36,250 - Mm-hmm. - I mean, what are you-- 1504 00:56:36,250 --> 00:56:37,208 Are you planning on staying here? 1505 00:56:37,292 --> 00:56:38,750 - Yeah. 1506 00:56:38,833 --> 00:56:40,417 I just re-signed my contract. - OK. 1507 00:56:40,542 --> 00:56:42,542 - And, I mean, I thought about buying a place here. 1508 00:56:42,667 --> 00:56:45,625 - From a man-to-man standpoint, I mean, 1509 00:56:45,708 --> 00:56:48,292 you seem, on paper, just like a real eligible bachelor. 1510 00:56:48,417 --> 00:56:49,625 But, I mean, at the end of day, 1511 00:56:49,708 --> 00:56:51,292 what makes you ready at this given time? 1512 00:56:51,375 --> 00:56:52,917 I mean, you had your whole life. 1513 00:56:53,000 --> 00:56:55,375 You had chances, you know-- you may have felt 1514 00:56:55,500 --> 00:56:57,042 like they wasn't the one for you. 1515 00:56:57,167 --> 00:56:59,125 But what makes you feel like she's the one for you? 1516 00:56:59,208 --> 00:57:01,500 And what you gonna do to keep her, keep her the one? 1517 00:57:01,542 --> 00:57:05,125 - I'm here with, like, an open mind, an open heart 1518 00:57:05,208 --> 00:57:06,375 to see what can happen. 1519 00:57:06,458 --> 00:57:08,750 I don't know but the information 1520 00:57:08,875 --> 00:57:10,583 that I've just learned about her. 1521 00:57:10,708 --> 00:57:13,000 And what I know about her is she's dope. 1522 00:57:13,083 --> 00:57:14,292 - OK. 1523 00:57:14,375 --> 00:57:16,167 - I mean, I know for a fact she's dope 1524 00:57:16,208 --> 00:57:18,000 because you wouldn't be here grilling me if she wasn't dope. 1525 00:57:18,083 --> 00:57:19,417 - Exactly. 1526 00:57:19,500 --> 00:57:21,125 - You wouldn't be trying to protect her heart. 1527 00:57:21,208 --> 00:57:23,333 And, I mean, that speaks volumes. 1528 00:57:23,375 --> 00:57:25,292 - Mm-hmm. - I mean, I can't tell you 1529 00:57:25,375 --> 00:57:28,875 that it's gon' be the best thing ever. 1530 00:57:28,875 --> 00:57:31,792 What I can do is, I can promise you that while she's around me, 1531 00:57:31,792 --> 00:57:33,125 she's gonna be safe. - OK. 1532 00:57:33,208 --> 00:57:34,625 - While she's around me, 1533 00:57:34,708 --> 00:57:37,500 she'll have the respect that she deserves. 1534 00:57:37,583 --> 00:57:40,625 And that I'm going to make sure that she's good. 1535 00:57:40,708 --> 00:57:42,708 - I mean, you have a way with words. 1536 00:57:42,708 --> 00:57:44,833 But I mean, at the end of day, like, I don't know you. 1537 00:57:44,958 --> 00:57:47,792 You might say one thing, and your actions show another. 1538 00:57:47,875 --> 00:57:50,583 You might have just went ahead and said your vows. 1539 00:57:50,667 --> 00:57:52,500 I mean, very great vows. 1540 00:57:52,542 --> 00:57:55,542 I mean, you dress sharp. It seems like you're ready. 1541 00:57:55,667 --> 00:57:57,125 But, I mean, things are gonna move fast. 1542 00:57:57,208 --> 00:57:58,500 - Yeah. 1543 00:57:58,583 --> 00:58:00,708 - And I'm just really hoping 1544 00:58:00,792 --> 00:58:02,583 that you make the right decision. 1545 00:58:02,667 --> 00:58:04,125 I mean, he's a man. 1546 00:58:04,208 --> 00:58:06,167 You know, I mean, what are your intentions? 1547 00:58:06,250 --> 00:58:08,667 And what are your motives? 1548 00:58:08,708 --> 00:58:11,500 He sees that she's ambitious and she's established. 1549 00:58:11,583 --> 00:58:14,042 Is he looking for somebody to take a ride with? 1550 00:58:14,208 --> 00:58:16,208 I mean, he speaks on, he has a house in Houston. 1551 00:58:16,333 --> 00:58:18,667 But why did you leave Houston? Are you running from things? 1552 00:58:18,750 --> 00:58:20,458 I mean, a number of different things 1553 00:58:20,542 --> 00:58:21,750 run through my head. 1554 00:58:21,833 --> 00:58:23,500 It's like, that's her husband. 1555 00:58:23,583 --> 00:58:25,542 But then I'm like, that's a stranger. 1556 00:58:25,625 --> 00:58:28,333 So this is all a big, like, question mark to me. 1557 00:58:28,458 --> 00:58:29,792 It's gonna take some time. 1558 00:58:29,875 --> 00:58:31,083 You know, it's gonna take some time for me 1559 00:58:31,167 --> 00:58:32,500 to just open my hands 1560 00:58:32,583 --> 00:58:34,000 and just, like, all right, bro, you my bro... 1561 00:58:34,042 --> 00:58:35,542 - Yeah. - You know, um, 1562 00:58:35,667 --> 00:58:37,417 because I have to see how you're treating her. 1563 00:58:37,542 --> 00:58:40,167 - I get your concerns. I understand your concerns. 1564 00:58:40,250 --> 00:58:42,500 I mean, everything is a question. 1565 00:58:42,583 --> 00:58:44,083 - But we're just gonna make the best of it 1566 00:58:44,208 --> 00:58:45,708 and hope for the best. 1567 00:58:45,792 --> 00:58:49,167 ♪ 1568 00:58:53,083 --> 00:58:58,000 - ♪ La, la, la, la, la, la, I can't hear you ♪ 1569 00:58:58,042 --> 00:59:00,917 ♪ 1570 00:59:01,042 --> 00:59:03,833 [rapping rapidly] 1571 00:59:03,917 --> 00:59:05,917 ♪ 1572 00:59:06,000 --> 00:59:07,333 - [squeals] 1573 00:59:07,417 --> 00:59:08,958 - Whoo! 1574 00:59:09,042 --> 00:59:11,625 [all cheering] 1575 00:59:13,375 --> 00:59:14,833 - No, you're not done. 1576 00:59:14,917 --> 00:59:21,167 ♪ 1577 00:59:28,833 --> 00:59:30,208 - ♪ They bring that attitude ♪ 1578 00:59:30,292 --> 00:59:31,750 ♪ That's when you clap back 1579 00:59:31,833 --> 00:59:33,583 ♪ Ain't never need for words 1580 00:59:33,667 --> 00:59:35,125 ♪ 'Cause they ain't worth that ♪ 1581 00:59:35,208 --> 00:59:38,000 ♪ No, they ain't worth that, no need to get mad ♪ 1582 00:59:38,125 --> 00:59:40,083 ♪ That's when you put your hands together ♪ 1583 00:59:40,167 --> 00:59:42,083 ♪ And just clap back 1584 00:59:42,167 --> 00:59:45,333 - So what do you think? 1585 00:59:45,375 --> 00:59:47,583 - I like him. - Yeah. 1586 00:59:47,667 --> 00:59:50,375 - He's really adorable. He seems like-- 1587 00:59:50,458 --> 00:59:52,000 - He seems like a good dude. 1588 00:59:52,042 --> 00:59:54,083 - I really have been enjoying talking to him 1589 00:59:54,208 --> 00:59:57,875 because I think I've been able to dig to the deeper. 1590 00:59:58,042 --> 01:00:00,208 And, like, his core values are amazing. 1591 01:00:00,292 --> 01:00:04,042 - Your values and your morals are very similar. 1592 01:00:04,125 --> 01:00:06,500 But... 1593 01:00:06,583 --> 01:00:09,083 he did openly admit 1594 01:00:09,167 --> 01:00:12,458 to stepping out of his relationship. 1595 01:00:12,542 --> 01:00:14,458 ♪ 1596 01:00:14,542 --> 01:00:17,917 Basically, he cheated. - Mm. 1597 01:00:18,000 --> 01:00:20,000 - That's something that doesn't align with you. 1598 01:00:20,125 --> 01:00:21,583 - Right. 1599 01:00:21,667 --> 01:00:22,833 - Yeah, that's, like, a nonnegotiable for you. 1600 01:00:22,833 --> 01:00:24,583 That's what I said. - Yeah. 1601 01:00:24,667 --> 01:00:26,625 - Like, obviously you guys, like, dug deeper. 1602 01:00:26,708 --> 01:00:28,417 Was this something that it was, like, in the heart 1603 01:00:28,500 --> 01:00:29,667 of the relationship? 1604 01:00:29,750 --> 01:00:31,708 Or, like, at the end, it was over with? 1605 01:00:31,792 --> 01:00:33,375 - Where he checked out. - Yeah. 1606 01:00:33,500 --> 01:00:35,333 - And he wasn't vocal enough to admit that he checked out. 1607 01:00:35,417 --> 01:00:36,667 - Yeah. 1608 01:00:36,750 --> 01:00:38,667 - Let me add that he said 1609 01:00:38,708 --> 01:00:40,375 after that, he did go through therapy. 1610 01:00:40,458 --> 01:00:42,042 - Yeah. - Mm. 1611 01:00:42,125 --> 01:00:44,167 - He wanted to figure out why he took that step. 1612 01:00:44,208 --> 01:00:46,167 - So he has that self-reflection. 1613 01:00:46,208 --> 01:00:48,792 - Yeah, and it's been, he said, over five years ago. 1614 01:00:48,875 --> 01:00:51,625 So he feel like, with that time that he spent 1615 01:00:51,708 --> 01:00:53,917 getting to understand why he did that, 1616 01:00:54,042 --> 01:00:56,708 now is ready to be in a committed relationship. 1617 01:00:56,792 --> 01:00:58,833 - That kind of seems on par. 1618 01:00:58,958 --> 01:01:00,708 I've heard across the board that he's the type-- 1619 01:01:00,833 --> 01:01:03,083 when he wants to commit to something, like, he's all-in. 1620 01:01:03,208 --> 01:01:05,833 And, like, it... 1621 01:01:05,875 --> 01:01:08,792 it makes everything else, like, more attractive 1622 01:01:08,875 --> 01:01:10,667 as a whole package. both: Yeah. 1623 01:01:10,708 --> 01:01:12,500 - It sounds like you're feeling him already, so... 1624 01:01:12,583 --> 01:01:15,208 - So, with that being said... 1625 01:01:15,333 --> 01:01:16,833 - [chuckles] 1626 01:01:16,958 --> 01:01:18,500 - What's on the agenda for tonight? 1627 01:01:18,625 --> 01:01:20,333 - [chuckles] Tonight? 1628 01:01:20,375 --> 01:01:21,667 - Please don't let me down 1629 01:01:21,708 --> 01:01:23,625 'cause I was swearing up and down, 1630 01:01:23,708 --> 01:01:25,375 my girl ain't gonna do nothing. 1631 01:01:25,458 --> 01:01:26,542 [laughter] Lord. 1632 01:01:26,625 --> 01:01:28,083 - Is that on the table for tonight? 1633 01:01:28,083 --> 01:01:30,958 - [giggles] I don't know that tonight's going 1634 01:01:31,042 --> 01:01:32,583 to be the night, but, you know, maybe. 1635 01:01:32,708 --> 01:01:36,208 [laughter] 1636 01:01:36,292 --> 01:01:39,667 - ♪ Oh, oh, oh 1637 01:01:39,792 --> 01:01:42,542 ♪ It's a beautiful life, yeah ♪ 1638 01:01:42,625 --> 01:01:43,958 - Oh, girl, yeah. - That's it. Hey, hey. 1639 01:01:44,042 --> 01:01:45,833 - Mm, mm, mm! - Hey, hey, hey! 1640 01:01:45,875 --> 01:01:47,917 - Where's my drink? - How you doing? 1641 01:01:48,000 --> 01:01:49,917 - How you feeling? What you doing? 1642 01:01:50,000 --> 01:01:52,792 - I'm having the best time. - Oh. 1643 01:01:52,875 --> 01:01:55,833 - Oh, thank you. - Thank you. 1644 01:01:55,917 --> 01:01:58,167 - That's great. [laughs] 1645 01:01:58,208 --> 01:02:01,167 I was talking to, like, all of his groomsmen. 1646 01:02:01,250 --> 01:02:05,500 And I think, like, the one, like, red flag 1647 01:02:05,583 --> 01:02:08,333 of that that I got is that... 1648 01:02:08,458 --> 01:02:12,250 they've said that he is so accommodating and loving... 1649 01:02:12,375 --> 01:02:14,208 - Yes. - Which is amazing. 1650 01:02:14,208 --> 01:02:17,833 But I'm like, being a giver can only do so much for you 1651 01:02:17,875 --> 01:02:19,458 without it becoming, like, resentful. 1652 01:02:19,542 --> 01:02:21,417 But I want to hear your opinion. 1653 01:02:21,542 --> 01:02:25,250 - I do think his last relationship was pretty toxic. 1654 01:02:25,333 --> 01:02:26,792 - Yeah, very toxic. 1655 01:02:26,875 --> 01:02:28,625 - And he also has family trauma. 1656 01:02:28,708 --> 01:02:30,167 - Yes. 1657 01:02:30,292 --> 01:02:33,208 - His parents had a 14-year custody battle 1658 01:02:33,333 --> 01:02:34,958 with him. 1659 01:02:35,042 --> 01:02:36,958 ♪ 1660 01:02:37,083 --> 01:02:41,875 And you have your own past family trauma. 1661 01:02:42,000 --> 01:02:44,750 - So you guys have already gotten more than I have. 1662 01:02:44,833 --> 01:02:47,417 - Yeah, you haven't been able to touch on it yet. 1663 01:02:47,542 --> 01:02:49,875 - Like, the fact that he told you guys that almost makes me, 1664 01:02:49,958 --> 01:02:52,167 like, a little bit happier... - Yeah. 1665 01:02:52,208 --> 01:02:54,625 - Because I feel like he didn't want to tell me it 1666 01:02:54,708 --> 01:02:56,167 because he didn't want to, like... 1667 01:02:56,208 --> 01:02:57,500 - It's heavy. 1668 01:02:57,667 --> 01:02:59,000 - He didn't want to trauma-bond. 1669 01:02:59,083 --> 01:03:00,875 - Well, and he wants to have time for you two to talk. 1670 01:03:00,958 --> 01:03:02,500 - Yeah, when it's right. When it's right. 1671 01:03:02,583 --> 01:03:04,042 When it's right. - When you feel it. 1672 01:03:04,125 --> 01:03:06,833 - Like, everything from today, I've felt on cloud nine. 1673 01:03:06,917 --> 01:03:08,167 I still feel on cloud nine. Like-- 1674 01:03:08,250 --> 01:03:10,708 - Yeah. We can tell. - Good. Yeah, we know. 1675 01:03:10,792 --> 01:03:12,375 - Every one of us. 1676 01:03:12,500 --> 01:03:14,333 - I'm honestly, like, overwhelmed with just, 1677 01:03:14,458 --> 01:03:17,083 like, a lot of-- they're, like, good feelings. 1678 01:03:17,208 --> 01:03:19,083 Like... - Yeah. 1679 01:03:19,208 --> 01:03:26,333 ♪ 1680 01:03:26,333 --> 01:03:30,500 - So, after speaking with him, what are we thinking? 1681 01:03:30,583 --> 01:03:32,500 What are we feeling? 1682 01:03:32,583 --> 01:03:35,667 - It's nice to see that he's serious 1683 01:03:35,750 --> 01:03:37,333 about being in a committed relationship. 1684 01:03:37,417 --> 01:03:38,833 - Yeah. 1685 01:03:38,875 --> 01:03:40,458 - And he puts loyalty and respect 1686 01:03:40,542 --> 01:03:42,292 high up on his list of things. 1687 01:03:42,375 --> 01:03:45,083 I hope that stays consistent with who he is 1688 01:03:45,167 --> 01:03:46,875 as you go through this process. 1689 01:03:46,875 --> 01:03:49,917 - Yeah, like, I do see why we've been paired. 1690 01:03:50,000 --> 01:03:52,500 Like, I see the similarities. - Oh, for sure. 1691 01:03:52,583 --> 01:03:54,667 - And, like, I do see that. 1692 01:03:54,708 --> 01:03:57,708 Now I thinking it's, like... 1693 01:03:57,833 --> 01:03:59,667 There's, like, small things that, like, 1694 01:03:59,708 --> 01:04:01,917 I am, like, getting a little bit stuck on 1695 01:04:02,000 --> 01:04:03,250 in my head that I'm, like-- 1696 01:04:03,333 --> 01:04:04,833 I don't even want to say them out loud. 1697 01:04:04,875 --> 01:04:06,083 But, like, you know what I mean? 1698 01:04:06,208 --> 01:04:07,583 Like, I'm like, OK, you told yourself 1699 01:04:07,667 --> 01:04:09,750 you're going to be open-- like, continue doing that. 1700 01:04:09,875 --> 01:04:11,208 - I think, on your wedding day, 1701 01:04:11,292 --> 01:04:13,833 it's very natural to feel overwhelmed. 1702 01:04:13,917 --> 01:04:17,042 Like, with what you know right now, 1703 01:04:17,167 --> 01:04:20,917 do you feel like, OK, this has some legs to it? 1704 01:04:21,000 --> 01:04:24,250 - Yeah. No, I definitely think that. 1705 01:04:24,333 --> 01:04:27,125 I think I am-- 1706 01:04:27,208 --> 01:04:28,833 [bleep]. 1707 01:04:28,875 --> 01:04:30,708 - It's OK. Take a breath. 1708 01:04:30,792 --> 01:04:32,500 ♪ 1709 01:04:32,583 --> 01:04:35,792 - [voice breaking] He's, like-- he is very excited. 1710 01:04:35,875 --> 01:04:37,833 And I'm being hesitant. 1711 01:04:37,917 --> 01:04:39,792 - It's OK. - And that's OK. 1712 01:04:39,875 --> 01:04:42,333 - And I feel bad. I don't want to, like... 1713 01:04:42,417 --> 01:04:44,708 - A lot of stuff has been thrown at you today. 1714 01:04:44,792 --> 01:04:47,625 - Yeah, it's a lot. - It's a lot. 1715 01:04:47,708 --> 01:04:49,708 ♪ 1716 01:04:49,833 --> 01:04:51,417 - OK, take a breather. 1717 01:04:51,500 --> 01:04:53,250 - [whispering] I don't want his family to see. 1718 01:04:53,333 --> 01:04:54,708 - I know, it's OK. 1719 01:04:54,833 --> 01:04:56,500 - Do you want to go to the bathroom? 1720 01:04:56,583 --> 01:04:58,208 - Yeah. - OK, let's go. 1721 01:04:58,292 --> 01:04:59,167 ♪ 1722 01:04:59,250 --> 01:05:00,708 - You think she's into you? 1723 01:05:00,792 --> 01:05:02,625 - The initial feel was a good vibe. 1724 01:05:02,750 --> 01:05:04,083 Like, yeah. - Hey. 1725 01:05:04,083 --> 01:05:05,750 - Yeah, like, right now she's very overwhelmed, 1726 01:05:05,833 --> 01:05:07,292 but I want this. 1727 01:05:07,375 --> 01:05:09,083 And I want to make it [bleep] work. 1728 01:05:21,417 --> 01:05:22,958 - OK, OK, so... 1729 01:05:27,542 --> 01:05:29,458 - Breathe. Just breathe. 1730 01:05:29,542 --> 01:05:30,292 - Yeah. 1731 01:05:37,208 --> 01:05:38,417 - It's OK, it's OK. 1732 01:05:42,542 --> 01:05:45,042 [dramatic music] 1733 01:05:48,417 --> 01:05:49,250 - Yeah. 1734 01:06:01,333 --> 01:06:02,917 - Yeah. Yeah. 1735 01:06:05,333 --> 01:06:06,500 - OK. 1736 01:06:06,625 --> 01:06:07,833 - That's OK. - I feel better. 1737 01:06:07,875 --> 01:06:09,292 I can pull it together. - Yeah. 1738 01:06:09,375 --> 01:06:11,292 - You've got it. - Let's go. 1739 01:06:11,375 --> 01:06:15,833 ♪ 1740 01:06:15,958 --> 01:06:17,250 [indistinct chatter] 1741 01:06:17,250 --> 01:06:19,458 - Where's my wife? [chuckles] 1742 01:06:19,542 --> 01:06:22,917 ♪ 1743 01:06:23,042 --> 01:06:24,500 - There she is. 1744 01:06:24,625 --> 01:06:28,958 ♪ 1745 01:06:29,042 --> 01:06:30,542 Well, welcome back, babe. - I know. 1746 01:06:30,625 --> 01:06:33,292 I had to have one moment. - How you feeling? 1747 01:06:33,375 --> 01:06:37,375 - I mean, it's a lot, but good. 1748 01:06:37,458 --> 01:06:40,000 - As long as it's good. - Yeah. Yes. 1749 01:06:40,083 --> 01:06:41,375 - That's all I need to hear. 1750 01:06:41,458 --> 01:06:43,750 - How are you feeling? - I feel good. 1751 01:06:43,875 --> 01:06:45,500 I'm tired. But I'm happy, though. 1752 01:06:45,583 --> 01:06:47,167 - I know. 1753 01:06:47,250 --> 01:06:49,458 I feel like I'm having a moment. 1754 01:06:49,458 --> 01:06:52,417 But I think I'm a little overly tired. 1755 01:06:52,542 --> 01:06:53,833 - Oh, no, that's fine. 1756 01:06:53,917 --> 01:06:55,833 The espresso didn't do it. - Yeah, I know. 1757 01:06:55,875 --> 01:06:58,375 I'm like, I need ten! [chuckles] 1758 01:06:58,500 --> 01:07:00,167 But, yeah. 1759 01:07:00,250 --> 01:07:03,208 - Hello, hello, everybody. 1760 01:07:03,208 --> 01:07:06,125 I want to say this is their night. 1761 01:07:06,208 --> 01:07:09,000 But it is a special day for David. 1762 01:07:09,083 --> 01:07:11,667 Happy birthday. Happy 36th. 1763 01:07:11,792 --> 01:07:12,958 - Whoo! 1764 01:07:13,042 --> 01:07:15,667 - This is the last one you get, so... 1765 01:07:15,750 --> 01:07:17,292 [laughter] 1766 01:07:17,417 --> 01:07:19,708 Love you. Love you. - Aw. 1767 01:07:19,792 --> 01:07:21,250 - Bag of hot Cheetos? 1768 01:07:21,375 --> 01:07:23,292 - Hot Cheetos. - Ooh-hoo, hey! 1769 01:07:23,375 --> 01:07:25,000 - Snacks! 1770 01:07:25,042 --> 01:07:27,000 - You get hot Cheetos! 1771 01:07:27,083 --> 01:07:30,000 You get hot Cheetos! You get some! 1772 01:07:30,125 --> 01:07:32,125 You get hot Cheetos! 1773 01:07:32,208 --> 01:07:34,542 - I will take those, for sure. 1774 01:07:34,625 --> 01:07:35,875 [laughter] 1775 01:07:36,000 --> 01:07:38,333 [all shouting] 1776 01:07:38,417 --> 01:07:40,958 ♪ 1777 01:07:41,042 --> 01:07:44,333 - ♪ La, la, la, 'cause love makes the world go round ♪ 1778 01:07:44,417 --> 01:07:46,708 all: Hey! Hey! Hey! Hey! 1779 01:07:46,833 --> 01:07:48,750 Hey! Hey! Hey! Hey! 1780 01:07:48,833 --> 01:07:50,500 Hey! Hey! Hey! Hey! 1781 01:07:50,583 --> 01:07:52,125 ♪ 1782 01:07:52,208 --> 01:07:54,167 - This is my husband! 1783 01:07:54,208 --> 01:07:56,583 I feel amazing. 1784 01:07:56,667 --> 01:08:00,000 When you're on the dance floor, it comes from nothing but love, 1785 01:08:00,083 --> 01:08:02,167 and you're there to have a good time 1786 01:08:02,292 --> 01:08:05,000 and just release this energy. 1787 01:08:05,083 --> 01:08:06,708 It feels so good. 1788 01:08:06,708 --> 01:08:07,958 ♪ 1789 01:08:08,042 --> 01:08:10,375 - ♪ Now we finally know 1790 01:08:10,500 --> 01:08:13,167 ♪ That love makes the world go round ♪ 1791 01:08:13,292 --> 01:08:15,042 - The wedding is bliss. 1792 01:08:15,167 --> 01:08:17,458 All of her sisters and cousins were hyping her up, 1793 01:08:17,542 --> 01:08:19,333 and all of my friends were hyping me up. 1794 01:08:19,458 --> 01:08:21,667 Everyone's getting along. 1795 01:08:21,750 --> 01:08:24,542 - ♪ We've been calling out for answers ♪ 1796 01:08:24,667 --> 01:08:26,250 ♪ Now we finally know 1797 01:08:26,333 --> 01:08:29,208 - I'm just ready for the rest of my life. 1798 01:08:29,333 --> 01:08:33,667 - Hey! Hey! - Whoo! 1799 01:08:33,708 --> 01:08:37,125 I can see this being my forever person, 1800 01:08:37,208 --> 01:08:39,833 my forever dance partner, 1801 01:08:39,917 --> 01:08:42,208 my forever best friend. 1802 01:08:42,333 --> 01:08:44,833 That makes me cheesy. 1803 01:08:44,958 --> 01:08:47,167 I feel like a giddy little girl. 1804 01:08:47,250 --> 01:08:49,667 Like, he's making me blush. 1805 01:08:49,708 --> 01:08:51,083 - Oh, [bleep]. 1806 01:08:51,167 --> 01:08:53,000 - I got you. I got you. - Thank you. 1807 01:08:53,167 --> 01:08:56,500 [both laugh] 1808 01:08:56,542 --> 01:08:59,500 - ♪ I'm dreaming, baby, 'bout you and me ♪ 1809 01:08:59,583 --> 01:09:04,333 ♪ If only I could make this a reality ♪ 1810 01:09:04,375 --> 01:09:07,958 - I always wanted that kind of fairy-tale ending, if you will. 1811 01:09:08,042 --> 01:09:09,083 And today I got that. 1812 01:09:09,208 --> 01:09:10,625 [cheers and applause] 1813 01:09:10,750 --> 01:09:13,875 I really feel he can sweep me off my feet, 1814 01:09:14,000 --> 01:09:17,333 be my own Prince Charming, the version that I need. 1815 01:09:17,458 --> 01:09:19,000 - ♪ Or is it just a dream? 1816 01:09:19,000 --> 01:09:21,083 - I'm so happy. 1817 01:09:21,167 --> 01:09:23,833 - ♪ Or is it just a dream? 1818 01:09:23,875 --> 01:09:26,167 ♪ Oh, oh, yeah 1819 01:09:26,292 --> 01:09:27,875 - You good? - I'm great. 1820 01:09:27,958 --> 01:09:30,875 - Well, good. - I'm great. 1821 01:09:31,000 --> 01:09:34,500 Tonight knowing I'm married is crazy. 1822 01:09:34,542 --> 01:09:36,333 ♪ 1823 01:09:36,375 --> 01:09:38,333 - ♪ Tell me who you want to be ♪ 1824 01:09:38,417 --> 01:09:41,000 - I've been living my life this whole time 1825 01:09:41,125 --> 01:09:44,375 focusing on myself, focusing on my career. 1826 01:09:44,458 --> 01:09:47,375 And now is my time to fall in love. 1827 01:09:47,458 --> 01:09:49,458 And I do see him as someone 1828 01:09:49,542 --> 01:09:52,583 that I would definitely fall in love with. 1829 01:09:52,667 --> 01:09:54,083 So I'm excited. 1830 01:09:54,167 --> 01:09:55,917 I'm excited to see what comes next. 1831 01:09:55,917 --> 01:09:59,750 ♪ 1832 01:09:59,833 --> 01:10:02,042 [indistinct chatter] 1833 01:10:02,167 --> 01:10:04,542 - Oh, what was that? - I don't know. 1834 01:10:04,625 --> 01:10:07,500 - My wife is bad as hell. [chuckles] 1835 01:10:07,542 --> 01:10:10,750 - ♪ When words are on the line ♪ 1836 01:10:10,875 --> 01:10:12,458 - She checks all those marks, 1837 01:10:12,542 --> 01:10:14,542 and her friends said I hit every box physically. 1838 01:10:14,625 --> 01:10:16,542 So she's more than I could ask for, 1839 01:10:16,625 --> 01:10:18,458 the best birthday gift as well. 1840 01:10:18,458 --> 01:10:20,250 - ♪ So if you're ready to go 1841 01:10:20,375 --> 01:10:21,667 ♪ Just take it out to the floor ♪ 1842 01:10:21,750 --> 01:10:24,250 - I think we can make this work. 1843 01:10:24,375 --> 01:10:27,167 I honestly, truly feel that this was meant to be. 1844 01:10:27,250 --> 01:10:29,167 Ready to go, and there's the [bleep] elevator. 1845 01:10:29,250 --> 01:10:30,792 - Whoo! - Hey! 1846 01:10:30,917 --> 01:10:33,167 - ♪ We're ready to go 1847 01:10:33,250 --> 01:10:36,083 - Pressing all the buttons now. - [laughs] 1848 01:10:36,167 --> 01:10:37,458 - We'll be back. 1849 01:10:40,125 --> 01:10:42,833 - [laughs] - No idea. 1850 01:10:42,917 --> 01:10:44,500 No idea. 1851 01:10:44,625 --> 01:10:47,000 ♪ 1852 01:10:47,083 --> 01:10:49,542 I'm happy. I'm married. 1853 01:10:49,667 --> 01:10:50,792 I'm ecstatic. 1854 01:10:50,875 --> 01:10:52,833 [object pops, both cheer] 1855 01:10:52,917 --> 01:10:56,208 [objects popping, all cheering] 1856 01:10:56,333 --> 01:10:57,750 I just can't believe, 1857 01:10:57,833 --> 01:11:00,792 within a couple hours of meeting my wife, 1858 01:11:00,875 --> 01:11:04,500 that we had this kind of connection, you know? 1859 01:11:04,625 --> 01:11:06,542 It's... 1860 01:11:06,542 --> 01:11:07,833 unearthly. 1861 01:11:07,917 --> 01:11:09,167 ♪ 1862 01:11:09,250 --> 01:11:10,667 - [giggling] - Get over here. 1863 01:11:10,792 --> 01:11:12,250 ♪ 1864 01:11:12,250 --> 01:11:14,208 - [giggling] 1865 01:11:18,417 --> 01:11:20,833 - ♪ Ah, oh, ah-oh 1866 01:11:20,958 --> 01:11:23,667 ♪ Ah, oh, ah, oh, whoa 1867 01:11:23,708 --> 01:11:25,958 - Ready? - Yes. 1868 01:11:26,042 --> 01:11:28,792 - ♪ Ah, oh, ah, oh 1869 01:11:28,875 --> 01:11:30,417 - Thank you. 1870 01:11:30,500 --> 01:11:32,167 - We're here. - We made it. 1871 01:11:32,292 --> 01:11:33,667 - Finally. 1872 01:11:33,750 --> 01:11:36,208 - Swoop me up from here. Oh, gosh. 1873 01:11:36,292 --> 01:11:37,875 OK. [giggles] 1874 01:11:37,958 --> 01:11:40,625 ♪ 1875 01:11:40,625 --> 01:11:42,167 Yay. 1876 01:11:42,292 --> 01:11:44,000 - Oh, birthday balloons. - Oh. 1877 01:11:44,083 --> 01:11:45,750 - Cute. 1878 01:11:45,833 --> 01:11:47,500 - ♪ Give me something to believe in ♪ 1879 01:11:47,583 --> 01:11:50,792 [both sigh] - We made it. 1880 01:11:50,875 --> 01:11:52,500 - ♪ Keep on fighting 1881 01:11:52,625 --> 01:11:56,625 ♪ I'll be here to stay, taking it all the way ♪ 1882 01:11:56,708 --> 01:11:59,083 ♪ All the way 1883 01:11:59,167 --> 01:12:02,208 ♪ Ah, oh, ah, oh 1884 01:12:02,292 --> 01:12:05,750 ♪ Ah, oh, ah, oh, whoa 1885 01:12:05,833 --> 01:12:07,167 - Oh. - [sighs] 1886 01:12:07,292 --> 01:12:08,792 - Holy [bleep], that feels amazing. 1887 01:12:08,875 --> 01:12:10,875 - Yeah. 1888 01:12:10,958 --> 01:12:12,167 How do you think today went? 1889 01:12:12,333 --> 01:12:14,500 - I think today went fantastic, 1890 01:12:14,583 --> 01:12:16,125 to be completely honest. - Good, yeah. 1891 01:12:16,208 --> 01:12:17,833 - I'm excited... - Yeah. 1892 01:12:17,917 --> 01:12:20,708 - To move to the next chapter of my life. 1893 01:12:20,833 --> 01:12:23,167 - Yeah. Do you have any hesitations? 1894 01:12:23,208 --> 01:12:25,292 - At this moment in time, 1895 01:12:25,375 --> 01:12:27,125 I do not have any hesitations. - Yeah. OK. 1896 01:12:27,208 --> 01:12:28,625 - I'm easygoing, go with the flow. 1897 01:12:28,708 --> 01:12:30,375 So I just want you to feel comfortable. 1898 01:12:30,458 --> 01:12:31,667 - Yeah. - So I want you-- 1899 01:12:31,833 --> 01:12:33,208 - And I think it'll probably take me, 1900 01:12:33,208 --> 01:12:34,625 like, a little bit more time 1901 01:12:34,750 --> 01:12:38,042 to, like, really let, like, everything, like, set in. 1902 01:12:38,042 --> 01:12:39,833 - Take your time, be yourself. - Yeah, totally. 1903 01:12:39,917 --> 01:12:41,875 - If there's things that you need to ask 1904 01:12:42,000 --> 01:12:43,583 or know... - Right. 1905 01:12:43,667 --> 01:12:45,833 - Be more than welcome to open up. 1906 01:12:45,917 --> 01:12:47,917 - Yeah, totally. Do you think, like-- 1907 01:12:48,000 --> 01:12:49,750 Like, that, like, caused me a little bit of pause 1908 01:12:49,875 --> 01:12:52,458 when you're like, oh, I live... - OK. 1909 01:12:52,542 --> 01:12:54,792 - Like, at home. - Mm-hmm. 1910 01:12:54,792 --> 01:12:56,917 - I'm like, oh, like, I wasn't expecting that. 1911 01:12:57,000 --> 01:12:59,500 - I'm sure you weren't expecting that, 100%. 1912 01:12:59,583 --> 01:13:02,875 That's why I was willing to tell you right off the bat, 1913 01:13:03,000 --> 01:13:04,792 because I don't think that's something 1914 01:13:04,875 --> 01:13:06,792 that you should find out from anybody else but myself... 1915 01:13:06,875 --> 01:13:08,417 - Yeah, totally. 1916 01:13:08,500 --> 01:13:10,417 - Or, like, walk into that situation, like, ah-- 1917 01:13:10,500 --> 01:13:12,333 And I felt like if I kept those close, 1918 01:13:12,417 --> 01:13:15,667 then I would have been ashamed of how it was. 1919 01:13:15,750 --> 01:13:17,417 - Yeah. - And I'm not really ashamed 1920 01:13:17,500 --> 01:13:19,333 of living in my parents' basement because I choose to. 1921 01:13:19,375 --> 01:13:20,958 It's not like I have to. 1922 01:13:21,042 --> 01:13:22,458 'Cause there was no reason for me to move out, 1923 01:13:22,542 --> 01:13:24,292 just go get something for myself 1924 01:13:24,375 --> 01:13:25,750 to do, what, the same thing? 1925 01:13:25,833 --> 01:13:27,542 Go to work, do all my activities, 1926 01:13:27,667 --> 01:13:29,375 and come home and sleep. Like... 1927 01:13:29,500 --> 01:13:32,167 So now this is my window to move forward 1928 01:13:32,292 --> 01:13:34,333 and start my chapter and... - Mm-hmm. 1929 01:13:34,458 --> 01:13:35,917 Yeah, and I think, like, 1930 01:13:36,000 --> 01:13:38,583 I appreciate, like, this, like, communication. 1931 01:13:38,667 --> 01:13:40,625 Just, like, I, like, don't want to, like-- 1932 01:13:40,625 --> 01:13:42,417 Sometimes I'm holding things in. 1933 01:13:42,500 --> 01:13:44,542 I'm like, no, just, like, say what you're feeling. 1934 01:13:44,625 --> 01:13:46,542 'Cause I don't want you to, like, draw your own conclusions 1935 01:13:46,542 --> 01:13:48,167 of what I'm thinking. - Oh, no. 1936 01:13:48,208 --> 01:13:50,292 When I told you in my vows we have a clean slate, 1937 01:13:50,375 --> 01:13:52,208 I came into this-- a no-judgment zone. 1938 01:13:52,292 --> 01:13:53,667 I guess that's why I'm so laid-back... 1939 01:13:53,792 --> 01:13:55,292 - Yeah. 1940 01:13:55,375 --> 01:13:57,333 - 'Cause I'm not scared to be honest with you. 1941 01:13:57,417 --> 01:13:59,417 So, at this point... 1942 01:13:59,500 --> 01:14:02,000 it's a good day, positive day. - Yeah. 1943 01:14:02,083 --> 01:14:04,083 - So on to day two. - Right. 1944 01:14:04,167 --> 01:14:05,833 - And let's make that a good day. 1945 01:14:05,917 --> 01:14:07,250 - Agreed. 1946 01:14:07,333 --> 01:14:09,375 - ♪ What do I do? 1947 01:14:09,500 --> 01:14:13,750 ♪ No, I don't want to be careful anymore ♪ 1948 01:14:13,833 --> 01:14:15,667 - Let's go ahead and get ready for bed. 1949 01:14:15,708 --> 01:14:17,125 - Yes. 1950 01:14:17,208 --> 01:14:19,292 - ♪ Oh, it feels like summer 1951 01:14:19,375 --> 01:14:21,417 ♪ Breathing in the colors 1952 01:14:21,500 --> 01:14:23,000 - Oh, how cute. - OK. 1953 01:14:23,083 --> 01:14:26,167 - How cute is this? 1954 01:14:26,250 --> 01:14:28,417 - Ooh. Oh. 1955 01:14:28,542 --> 01:14:31,292 Look. 1956 01:14:31,375 --> 01:14:33,500 - Welcome to your bed. 1957 01:14:33,542 --> 01:14:37,167 - Welcome to our bed. - Oh, yes, welcome to our bed. 1958 01:14:37,250 --> 01:14:39,792 ♪ 1959 01:14:39,875 --> 01:14:43,292 - Cheers to us as husband and wife for the first time. 1960 01:14:43,375 --> 01:14:44,500 First night together. 1961 01:14:44,625 --> 01:14:47,458 - Are you nervous at all? - No, 100%. 1962 01:14:47,583 --> 01:14:49,042 No questions asked. - No nerves? 1963 01:14:49,125 --> 01:14:50,417 - No nerves. - OK. 1964 01:14:50,542 --> 01:14:52,500 - Yeah, I need you to help me undress... 1965 01:14:52,625 --> 01:14:53,917 - Yeah, let me know what you need me to do. 1966 01:14:54,042 --> 01:14:55,583 - My dress. - Undress the dress. 1967 01:14:55,667 --> 01:14:58,000 - [giggles] - Shall we? 1968 01:14:58,042 --> 01:14:59,375 I do like the tattoos. 1969 01:14:59,458 --> 01:15:01,083 - Thank you. 1970 01:15:01,167 --> 01:15:03,000 - ♪ 'Cause I love the way 1971 01:15:03,125 --> 01:15:07,333 ♪ That you do what you do, what you do ♪ 1972 01:15:07,417 --> 01:15:09,417 - Damn, girl. - Yeah, no underwear. 1973 01:15:09,542 --> 01:15:12,333 [squeals, laughing] 1974 01:15:12,417 --> 01:15:14,542 ♪ 1975 01:15:14,625 --> 01:15:16,667 - [bleep]. 1976 01:15:16,708 --> 01:15:19,333 - ♪ Girl, you know you're sexy, and you know it's true ♪ 1977 01:15:19,333 --> 01:15:22,042 ♪ And that's just you being you ♪ 1978 01:15:22,125 --> 01:15:23,917 ♪ 'Cause I love the way 1979 01:15:24,042 --> 01:15:25,125 - Mmm. 1980 01:15:25,208 --> 01:15:27,292 ♪ 1981 01:15:27,375 --> 01:15:28,333 - Oh, man. 1982 01:15:28,417 --> 01:15:29,875 ♪ 1983 01:15:29,958 --> 01:15:31,958 I do feel a level of chemistry. 1984 01:15:32,042 --> 01:15:35,958 I do feel a nearness that can't be explained. 1985 01:15:36,042 --> 01:15:38,250 I've been smiling since we met. 1986 01:15:38,375 --> 01:15:40,000 So we'll see how this goes. 1987 01:15:40,042 --> 01:15:42,000 [laughs] TBD. 1988 01:15:42,042 --> 01:15:44,708 ♪ 1989 01:15:44,792 --> 01:15:47,333 - ♪ There's not a place 1990 01:15:47,375 --> 01:15:49,500 ♪ There's not a time 1991 01:15:49,583 --> 01:15:51,625 - Oh, my stars. 1992 01:15:51,708 --> 01:15:54,708 - ♪ This feels right 1993 01:15:54,792 --> 01:15:57,542 ♪ Do you want to be right here ♪ 1994 01:15:57,625 --> 01:16:00,292 ♪ Stuck inside this loop? 1995 01:16:00,375 --> 01:16:02,375 - Usually I sleep naked. 1996 01:16:02,500 --> 01:16:04,375 So the fact that I have 1997 01:16:04,458 --> 01:16:08,292 any type of clothes on right now is a new comfort for me, 1998 01:16:08,375 --> 01:16:11,292 because I'm meeting my husband for the first night. 1999 01:16:11,375 --> 01:16:14,125 So I hope he likes it. 2000 01:16:14,208 --> 01:16:17,042 - ♪ If it's all right 2001 01:16:17,125 --> 01:16:20,167 - It's, like, a lot of lines that... 2002 01:16:20,250 --> 01:16:21,583 you're trying not to cross. 2003 01:16:21,667 --> 01:16:23,500 But they're very difficult not to cross. 2004 01:16:23,583 --> 01:16:25,500 It's temptation. 2005 01:16:25,542 --> 01:16:27,583 Temptation is here. 2006 01:16:27,667 --> 01:16:31,333 - ♪ I don't want to waste any more time ♪ 2007 01:16:31,417 --> 01:16:33,542 ♪ Waste, waste 2008 01:16:33,542 --> 01:16:35,750 - All right. Would you like some champagne? 2009 01:16:35,833 --> 01:16:37,125 - Yeah. - Champaña. 2010 01:16:37,208 --> 01:16:38,667 - Some champaña, yeah. 2011 01:16:38,750 --> 01:16:40,333 - All right, let's do this. 2012 01:16:40,375 --> 01:16:43,375 ♪ 2013 01:16:43,458 --> 01:16:44,958 [cork pops] 2014 01:16:45,042 --> 01:16:46,333 All right. 2015 01:16:46,375 --> 01:16:49,167 ♪ 2016 01:16:49,208 --> 01:16:51,042 Cheers to our... - To us. 2017 01:16:51,167 --> 01:16:52,708 - First night together. 2018 01:16:52,792 --> 01:16:54,417 This is incredible. 2019 01:16:54,500 --> 01:16:55,917 - Yes, salud. So far, so good. 2020 01:16:56,000 --> 01:16:58,500 - So far, so good. - Mm-hmm. 2021 01:16:58,542 --> 01:17:00,917 - Mm, I love that you, like, looked 2022 01:17:01,000 --> 01:17:02,792 into my eyes the whole way-- I saw that. 2023 01:17:02,875 --> 01:17:05,125 - Yes, I'm ready for you to play the guitar for me. 2024 01:17:05,208 --> 01:17:07,833 - All right, let's do this. - Mm-hmm. 2025 01:17:07,875 --> 01:17:09,417 - So... 2026 01:17:09,500 --> 01:17:11,292 - I'm real special. 2027 01:17:11,375 --> 01:17:12,625 Mm. 2028 01:17:12,625 --> 01:17:14,083 - So we're going to do this. 2029 01:17:14,167 --> 01:17:16,167 I think we're going to go with this. 2030 01:17:16,292 --> 01:17:18,417 Do you freestyle? - Mm-mm. 2031 01:17:18,417 --> 01:17:20,458 [guitar playing lightly] 2032 01:17:20,542 --> 01:17:23,292 - ♪ Today was a very special day ♪ 2033 01:17:23,292 --> 01:17:27,042 ♪ Yeah, we got married, married at first sight ♪ 2034 01:17:27,125 --> 01:17:28,750 ♪ You know 2035 01:17:28,875 --> 01:17:30,375 ♪ 2036 01:17:30,458 --> 01:17:33,375 ♪ I saw you walking down the aisle ♪ 2037 01:17:33,458 --> 01:17:35,500 ♪ You looked so good - Mm. 2038 01:17:35,583 --> 01:17:38,167 - ♪ You mesmerized me with your looks ♪ 2039 01:17:38,250 --> 01:17:39,917 ♪ 2040 01:17:40,000 --> 01:17:41,958 ♪ Yo, I'm coming with the flow, yes ♪ 2041 01:17:41,958 --> 01:17:44,500 ♪ I'm coming in hot, yeah, you make it hot ♪ 2042 01:17:44,583 --> 01:17:46,958 ♪ Unh, yeah, we combine our energies ♪ 2043 01:17:47,042 --> 01:17:49,542 ♪ We just having fun tonight, unh ♪ 2044 01:17:49,667 --> 01:17:51,667 ♪ Petals and the flowers on the bed ♪ 2045 01:17:51,750 --> 01:17:53,667 ♪ I'm not used to that, but it's all right ♪ 2046 01:17:53,667 --> 01:17:57,667 ♪ Unh, we having a good time, yo, unh ♪ 2047 01:17:57,708 --> 01:17:59,333 Go ahead, try it out. Why not? 2048 01:17:59,417 --> 01:18:01,333 - I loved it. - You want to give it a shot? 2049 01:18:01,333 --> 01:18:05,000 - No. Bravo. Bravo. Bravo. - [laughs] All right. 2050 01:18:05,042 --> 01:18:07,333 - No, that was beautiful. I loved it. 2051 01:18:07,417 --> 01:18:09,333 Mm. 2052 01:18:09,417 --> 01:18:11,167 - All right. - That was perfect. 2053 01:18:11,250 --> 01:18:14,958 - Yeah, it was good? - That was a beautiful way to-- 2054 01:18:15,042 --> 01:18:17,167 - End the night? - Yes, end the night. 2055 01:18:17,250 --> 01:18:21,833 - So how would you-- Is this your normal bed attire? 2056 01:18:21,875 --> 01:18:24,375 - No, I usually sleep naked. 2057 01:18:24,542 --> 01:18:25,333 ♪ 2058 01:18:25,458 --> 01:18:26,833 - I do, too. 2059 01:18:26,875 --> 01:18:28,625 - I mean, you can sleep naked if you want. 2060 01:18:28,708 --> 01:18:30,042 - Yeah? - [giggles] 2061 01:18:30,167 --> 01:18:33,250 - ♪ Get down, get down, get down ♪ 2062 01:18:33,375 --> 01:18:35,750 ♪ Get down 2063 01:18:40,042 --> 01:18:40,500 ♪ 2064 01:18:41,208 --> 01:18:43,667 - Hello, husband. - Hey, wifey. How are you? 2065 01:18:43,750 --> 01:18:45,333 - [giggles] Good. I feel so much better now. 2066 01:18:45,375 --> 01:18:46,708 - Good. 2067 01:18:46,792 --> 01:18:48,375 - I brought my special pillow case. 2068 01:18:48,458 --> 01:18:51,542 So this is part of what keeps the hair flourishing, 2069 01:18:51,667 --> 01:18:54,125 is the silk pillowcase, so... 2070 01:18:54,125 --> 01:18:57,125 - Yeah, I've heard of that. both: Yeah. 2071 01:18:57,208 --> 01:18:58,750 - Sorry, I already jumped on the bed. 2072 01:18:58,833 --> 01:19:00,042 - That's all right. 2073 01:19:00,125 --> 01:19:01,792 I know it was on your mind, for sure. 2074 01:19:01,875 --> 01:19:03,833 [both laugh] - I wanted to. 2075 01:19:03,875 --> 01:19:05,708 - As soon as we walked in. - Mm. 2076 01:19:05,792 --> 01:19:08,042 - [sighs] - So which side do you like? 2077 01:19:08,167 --> 01:19:11,000 - Actually, you know, I'm pretty--I'm impartial. 2078 01:19:11,083 --> 01:19:13,625 But I might--maybe I need to take that side, 2079 01:19:13,708 --> 01:19:16,625 because I think then you can be on this side 2080 01:19:16,708 --> 01:19:18,958 and be the protector in case anyone comes in. 2081 01:19:19,042 --> 01:19:21,542 They got to--you got to fend them off first. 2082 01:19:21,625 --> 01:19:23,500 - Yeah, that was going to be my guess. 2083 01:19:23,542 --> 01:19:25,917 [both laugh] 2084 01:19:26,042 --> 01:19:28,208 ♪ 2085 01:19:28,333 --> 01:19:29,500 - [bleep]. [chuckles] 2086 01:19:29,583 --> 01:19:30,500 - Hi. - How are you? 2087 01:19:30,542 --> 01:19:32,292 - Good. 2088 01:19:32,292 --> 01:19:34,250 - I was not expecting you to be in bed right now. 2089 01:19:34,333 --> 01:19:36,167 - Aw. Surprise. 2090 01:19:36,250 --> 01:19:38,958 - That's a great surprise. - [laughs] 2091 01:19:39,042 --> 01:19:40,833 Do you mind if I share the bed with you tonight? 2092 01:19:40,875 --> 01:19:42,333 That is-- - Yeah, totally. 2093 01:19:42,417 --> 01:19:44,875 - All right, because this bed looks comfy as [bleep]. 2094 01:19:44,958 --> 01:19:46,333 - Do you care if I just, pfft, all these? 2095 01:19:46,375 --> 01:19:47,917 - [bleep], no. You want to do it together? 2096 01:19:48,000 --> 01:19:49,708 - Or is that, like, a lot of cleanup? 2097 01:19:49,833 --> 01:19:51,083 - I don't know. We're not cleaning it up. 2098 01:19:51,167 --> 01:19:53,000 You want to do this? - OK. 2099 01:19:53,042 --> 01:19:54,292 ♪ 2100 01:19:54,417 --> 01:19:56,083 Ooh, OK. 2101 01:19:56,167 --> 01:19:57,375 Aw. 2102 01:19:57,458 --> 01:19:59,167 ♪ 2103 01:19:59,250 --> 01:20:01,583 - All right, I got to do this. 2104 01:20:01,667 --> 01:20:03,458 - [laughing] Is that broccoli? 2105 01:20:03,542 --> 01:20:05,708 - It's broccoli. 2106 01:20:05,833 --> 01:20:09,167 [both laugh] What's wrong with broccoli? 2107 01:20:09,250 --> 01:20:12,042 - We're going to fix that. - [groans softly] 2108 01:20:12,167 --> 01:20:13,875 Are we? - Yeah, for sure. 2109 01:20:13,958 --> 01:20:15,458 - How are we going to fix it? 2110 01:20:15,542 --> 01:20:17,375 - 'Cause you're not going to wear a white tank top 2111 01:20:17,375 --> 01:20:18,667 and broccoli underwear. 2112 01:20:18,750 --> 01:20:20,708 - I mean, I could-- - No. 2113 01:20:20,792 --> 01:20:22,542 - OK, we got to get comfy. 2114 01:20:22,625 --> 01:20:24,083 How are we going to get comfy? 2115 01:20:24,083 --> 01:20:25,958 What's--big spoon? - Mr. Broccoli? 2116 01:20:26,042 --> 01:20:28,333 - Yeah, get your-- There we go. 2117 01:20:28,500 --> 01:20:29,875 - Well-- 2118 01:20:31,083 --> 01:20:31,917 ♪ 2119 01:20:32,042 --> 01:20:34,833 Oh, that feels so nice. 2120 01:20:34,875 --> 01:20:37,333 - Are you ready for bed? - I am. I'm ready for bed. 2121 01:20:37,417 --> 01:20:38,917 - Mm-hmm, perfect. 2122 01:20:39,000 --> 01:20:40,542 - So are we going to try out 2123 01:20:40,625 --> 01:20:42,708 the big spoon, little spoon tonight, see how that works? 2124 01:20:42,708 --> 01:20:44,750 - I mean, I'd love to. I'm a cuddler, so... 2125 01:20:44,833 --> 01:20:46,458 - All right, perfect. Me too. 2126 01:20:46,542 --> 01:20:49,292 - Ooh, you fit so perfectly. - I know, right. 2127 01:20:49,375 --> 01:20:50,750 Ah, you do, too. 2128 01:20:50,875 --> 01:20:52,250 ♪ 2129 01:20:52,333 --> 01:20:54,875 - ♪ Drowning in, skin to skin ♪ 2130 01:20:55,042 --> 01:20:57,792 ♪ The way you put your hands on my body ♪ 2131 01:20:57,875 --> 01:20:58,917 ♪ Hold my breath 2132 01:20:59,000 --> 01:21:00,292 - Sweet dreams. 2133 01:21:00,375 --> 01:21:01,500 [both smooch] 2134 01:21:01,667 --> 01:21:03,042 - Good night. 2135 01:21:03,125 --> 01:21:09,708 ♪ 2136 01:21:09,792 --> 01:21:11,333 - Mm. 2137 01:21:11,417 --> 01:21:13,583 - ♪ I swear you're driving me crazy ♪ 2138 01:21:16,958 --> 01:21:19,500 - This season on "Married at First Sight"... 2139 01:21:19,542 --> 01:21:20,792 ♪ 2140 01:21:20,875 --> 01:21:23,333 - ♪ Can you move your body 2141 01:21:23,375 --> 01:21:26,417 ♪ To the rhythm of my heartbeat? ♪ 2142 01:21:26,542 --> 01:21:30,625 ♪ I want to fall in love slowly over and over again ♪ 2143 01:21:30,708 --> 01:21:32,167 ♪ 2144 01:21:32,250 --> 01:21:34,583 - Get off my booty. My mama gonna watch this. 2145 01:21:34,667 --> 01:21:36,500 [both laugh] 2146 01:21:36,625 --> 01:21:39,417 - That partnership is the part that really excites me 2147 01:21:39,500 --> 01:21:40,542 about being in love. 2148 01:21:40,625 --> 01:21:41,833 - [squeals] - Whoo! 2149 01:21:41,917 --> 01:21:44,125 - Ooh! - [laughs] 2150 01:21:44,208 --> 01:21:45,542 - ♪ Once in a lifetime 2151 01:21:45,667 --> 01:21:47,292 ♪ Once in a lifetime 2152 01:21:47,375 --> 01:21:48,625 - Go. - Oh! 2153 01:21:48,708 --> 01:21:49,875 - Wow. 2154 01:21:49,958 --> 01:21:51,417 - It's like, oh, my God, you had sex? 2155 01:21:51,542 --> 01:21:53,083 - Yes. [all screaming] 2156 01:21:53,167 --> 01:21:55,167 [whip cracks] - Ow! Why? 2157 01:21:55,208 --> 01:21:56,833 - [smooches] - [chuckles] 2158 01:21:56,917 --> 01:21:59,000 - Just you being you is what I'm thankful for. 2159 01:21:59,083 --> 01:22:00,292 - I think it only goes up from here. 2160 01:22:00,417 --> 01:22:01,583 ♪ 2161 01:22:01,667 --> 01:22:03,333 - I just want to see you happy. 2162 01:22:03,375 --> 01:22:05,458 - I think you are super thoughtful and kind. 2163 01:22:05,542 --> 01:22:08,750 - I left my job today. 2164 01:22:08,875 --> 01:22:11,208 - Karla is in her own world. 2165 01:22:11,292 --> 01:22:13,500 You can be crazy, but you shouldn't be stupid. 2166 01:22:13,583 --> 01:22:16,167 - Your mommy doing all your, like, things for you-- 2167 01:22:16,250 --> 01:22:18,333 like, that's a turnoff to me. 2168 01:22:18,375 --> 01:22:20,167 - You act like I'm on a [bleep] pole 2169 01:22:20,250 --> 01:22:22,125 with my [bleep] out or something. 2170 01:22:22,208 --> 01:22:24,292 - What's missing is the swag factor. 2171 01:22:24,375 --> 01:22:27,042 - I had a special day with David today. 2172 01:22:27,125 --> 01:22:29,583 I'm not gonna lie-- I forgot you were there. 2173 01:22:29,708 --> 01:22:31,333 - Back off a little bit. 2174 01:22:31,375 --> 01:22:33,833 - You want your mother[bleep] space, I'll give it to you. 2175 01:22:33,917 --> 01:22:35,042 [dramatic music] 2176 01:22:35,167 --> 01:22:37,083 - [crying] I'm shut the [bleep] down. 2177 01:22:37,167 --> 01:22:39,958 - Do you see a world where we can last forever? 2178 01:22:40,042 --> 01:22:41,625 - Forever's a long time. 2179 01:22:41,708 --> 01:22:44,333 - What I need is to still feel 2180 01:22:44,375 --> 01:22:46,167 like you want to take care of me? 2181 01:22:46,208 --> 01:22:47,667 - It's not gonna happen. 2182 01:22:47,708 --> 01:22:49,000 - I don't believe you. 2183 01:22:49,125 --> 01:22:50,542 I think you're texting another girl. 2184 01:22:50,542 --> 01:22:52,500 - OK, so what do you want me to do about it? 2185 01:22:52,542 --> 01:22:53,708 - Admit the [bleep] truth. 2186 01:22:53,792 --> 01:22:54,958 - I've been texting you and calling you 2187 01:22:55,042 --> 01:22:56,292 for two [bleep] days! 2188 01:22:56,292 --> 01:22:57,750 - You haven't text me or called me. 2189 01:22:57,875 --> 01:22:59,333 - You're [bleep] lying! 2190 01:22:59,458 --> 01:23:01,500 ♪ 2191 01:23:01,542 --> 01:23:03,292 [bleep] clown. 2192 01:23:03,375 --> 01:23:05,000 Bring me a clown, you going to get a circus. 2193 01:23:05,125 --> 01:23:06,958 - [bleep] her, [bleep] her, and [bleep] you. 2194 01:23:07,042 --> 01:23:08,292 - Yeah, I just can't handle this [bleep] right now. 2195 01:23:08,375 --> 01:23:10,250 You just [bleep] lied to my face. 2196 01:23:10,375 --> 01:23:14,250 ♪ 2197 01:23:14,333 --> 01:23:16,875 - The secret affair will come out. 2198 01:23:16,958 --> 01:23:18,667 - [sniffles] - It's OK. 2199 01:23:18,750 --> 01:23:20,167 Come here. Come here, come here, 2200 01:23:20,292 --> 01:23:21,958 come here, come here, come here. 2201 01:23:22,042 --> 01:23:23,792 It's OK. - [sniffles] 2202 01:23:23,875 --> 01:23:26,750 ♪ 2203 01:23:26,875 --> 01:23:30,500 - The time has come for you to decide. 2204 01:23:30,542 --> 01:23:33,958 - Do you want to stay married or get a divorce? 2205 01:23:34,042 --> 01:23:35,292 - ♪ Where you gonna run? 2206 01:23:35,375 --> 01:23:38,083 ♪ Where you gonna hide 2207 01:23:38,167 --> 01:23:40,625 ♪ This time? 2208 01:23:40,708 --> 01:23:42,833 ♪ This time? 2209 01:23:42,917 --> 01:23:45,500 ♪ 2210 01:23:49,042 --> 01:23:50,667 - ♪ Get up, get up, get up, get up ♪ 2211 01:23:50,750 --> 01:23:53,250 ♪ We about to get it started 2212 01:23:53,375 --> 01:23:54,167 [laughter] 2213 01:23:54,208 --> 01:23:55,917 [cheers and applause] 2214 01:23:56,000 --> 01:23:57,667 ♪ Let's go 2215 01:23:57,750 --> 01:24:00,500 - Hey, "MAFS" family. Welcome to the "Afterparty." 2216 01:24:00,583 --> 01:24:02,292 I'm your host, Keshia Knight Pulliam. 2217 01:24:02,375 --> 01:24:05,167 And I cannot wait to dive into 2218 01:24:05,292 --> 01:24:08,000 the rest of this season's weddings 2219 01:24:08,042 --> 01:24:10,500 with Camille, David, and Ikechi. 2220 01:24:10,583 --> 01:24:12,667 Camille, Ikechi, welcome back, my friends. 2221 01:24:12,750 --> 01:24:14,083 - Thank you. - Thank you. 2222 01:24:14,167 --> 01:24:15,417 - Welcome back. And it's great to see you again. 2223 01:24:15,417 --> 01:24:16,833 You're looking lovely in orange. 2224 01:24:17,000 --> 01:24:18,250 - Thank you. Ditto. 2225 01:24:18,333 --> 01:24:21,000 - Thank you very much. I appreciate it. 2226 01:24:21,083 --> 01:24:24,667 Well, David, welcome to the "Afterparty," my friend. 2227 01:24:24,750 --> 01:24:26,292 - Well, thank you for having me. 2228 01:24:26,375 --> 01:24:28,333 - I am so excited for you to be here, 'cause we gotta talk. 2229 01:24:28,458 --> 01:24:29,542 - Oh. 2230 01:24:29,625 --> 01:24:31,167 - We got some things to talk about. 2231 01:24:31,250 --> 01:24:34,000 So on that note, now that you've all tied the knot, 2232 01:24:34,083 --> 01:24:35,917 we're calling tonight's signature cocktail 2233 01:24:36,042 --> 01:24:38,083 the Just-Hitched Highball. 2234 01:24:38,167 --> 01:24:39,958 - All right. - Yes. 2235 01:24:39,958 --> 01:24:42,417 This twist on a classic highball features 2236 01:24:42,542 --> 01:24:48,125 tequila, club soda, elderflower liqueur, and a lemon twist. 2237 01:24:48,208 --> 01:24:49,708 Cheers. all: Cheers. 2238 01:24:49,708 --> 01:24:51,208 - And cheers. - Cheers. 2239 01:24:51,292 --> 01:24:53,167 - Yeah, not too shabby. 2240 01:24:53,250 --> 01:24:56,333 - You can't have enough cheers, my friends. 2241 01:24:56,458 --> 01:25:01,542 So you guys are all officially married. 2242 01:25:01,625 --> 01:25:03,167 Do you feel that there is anything that could have 2243 01:25:03,250 --> 01:25:04,667 prepared you for this moment? 2244 01:25:04,792 --> 01:25:06,000 - Hell no. - Yeah? 2245 01:25:06,083 --> 01:25:07,250 [laughter] - I really don't think so. 2246 01:25:07,250 --> 01:25:08,917 - I mean, listen, I'm just asking. 2247 01:25:09,000 --> 01:25:10,500 I'm just asking, I'm just asking. 2248 01:25:10,667 --> 01:25:13,125 But let's dive into tonight's episode. 2249 01:25:13,125 --> 01:25:15,792 David, this season's wedding ceremonies 2250 01:25:15,875 --> 01:25:17,625 concluded with yours. 2251 01:25:17,708 --> 01:25:20,000 Let's look back at your wedding ceremony. 2252 01:25:20,042 --> 01:25:21,583 Roll the clip. 2253 01:25:23,333 --> 01:25:24,958 - Well, hello there. - Nice to meet you. 2254 01:25:25,042 --> 01:25:26,417 - It's a pleasure to meet you. - [laughs] 2255 01:25:26,417 --> 01:25:29,458 - [smooches] And is this your mother? 2256 01:25:29,542 --> 01:25:30,667 - Yep, this is my mom and dad. 2257 01:25:30,792 --> 01:25:32,167 - I'm David, a pleasure. 2258 01:25:32,250 --> 01:25:33,417 - Oh, this is David. - Oh, sorry. 2259 01:25:33,500 --> 01:25:35,250 - Is that what he said? Is that what he said? 2260 01:25:35,333 --> 01:25:37,125 - Kind of [bleep] that one up, didn't I? 2261 01:25:37,208 --> 01:25:38,625 [laughter] 2262 01:25:38,708 --> 01:25:40,583 You have a very courageous daughter. 2263 01:25:40,667 --> 01:25:42,833 And thank you guys for supporting her as a family. 2264 01:25:42,917 --> 01:25:44,333 Family means everything to me as well. 2265 01:25:44,417 --> 01:25:46,000 - Awesome. - So it's a great start. 2266 01:25:46,083 --> 01:25:47,625 - Yes, it is. - How are you doing, sir? 2267 01:25:47,708 --> 01:25:48,500 - Nice to meet you. - Thank you very much. 2268 01:25:48,542 --> 01:25:49,875 - Kent. 2269 01:25:49,958 --> 01:25:51,000 - Kent, a pleasure to meet you, sir. 2270 01:25:51,083 --> 01:25:52,458 - You looked pretty excited 2271 01:25:52,542 --> 01:25:54,750 when Michelle was coming down the aisle. 2272 01:25:54,750 --> 01:25:57,875 - It's just-- it's shocking, nerve-racking, 2273 01:25:57,958 --> 01:26:00,042 but exciting at the same time. 2274 01:26:00,042 --> 01:26:02,167 And she's everything that I asked for. 2275 01:26:02,208 --> 01:26:04,583 So right when I seen her walk down the aisle, 2276 01:26:04,667 --> 01:26:07,000 it was just a glow, it was a big smile. 2277 01:26:07,083 --> 01:26:08,375 - Oh. 2278 01:26:08,458 --> 01:26:09,875 What is running through your mind 2279 01:26:10,000 --> 01:26:14,833 as you were standing across from Michelle at the altar? 2280 01:26:14,875 --> 01:26:17,833 - What type of person she is. Is she a big family person? 2281 01:26:17,917 --> 01:26:20,167 What does she do? What does she like to do? 2282 01:26:20,250 --> 01:26:21,708 What does she eat, what she don't like to eat? 2283 01:26:21,792 --> 01:26:23,417 - Boy, you think of-- you had a lot going on. 2284 01:26:23,500 --> 01:26:25,125 - Oh. Oh, baby, trust me. 2285 01:26:25,208 --> 01:26:26,958 - OK, OK. [laughter] 2286 01:26:27,042 --> 01:26:28,667 OK. 2287 01:26:28,750 --> 01:26:30,250 So, Camille, what is it like for you watching this? 2288 01:26:30,333 --> 01:26:32,458 What do you see when you watch them? 2289 01:26:32,542 --> 01:26:34,417 - You know, I've been getting to know him. 2290 01:26:34,500 --> 01:26:36,042 And he's just this big teddy bear. 2291 01:26:36,167 --> 01:26:38,000 So it's just cool to see that that's 2292 01:26:38,125 --> 01:26:39,958 how he is just in all aspects. 2293 01:26:40,042 --> 01:26:43,333 And just, like, the family guy and going around to say hey 2294 01:26:43,375 --> 01:26:46,167 to all of her family members and just-- 2295 01:26:46,250 --> 01:26:47,667 yeah, kind of taking the time to do that, 2296 01:26:47,708 --> 01:26:48,625 it's really cool to see. 2297 01:26:48,708 --> 01:26:50,333 - I think I messed that up, too, 2298 01:26:50,375 --> 01:26:52,333 because I think I went up to her sister, 2299 01:26:52,375 --> 01:26:53,875 thinking it was her mother. - [gasps] 2300 01:26:53,958 --> 01:26:55,583 - That was the first-- - You did? 2301 01:26:55,708 --> 01:26:57,083 - So wait. Wait, wait, wait. Wait, wait, wait, wait. 2302 01:26:57,167 --> 01:26:58,458 Tell me about this. 2303 01:26:58,542 --> 01:27:00,333 Come on. Tell me about this. 2304 01:27:00,417 --> 01:27:03,083 - Well, when I first got there and I'm standing at the altar, 2305 01:27:03,167 --> 01:27:04,458 I looked over. 2306 01:27:04,542 --> 01:27:06,000 And I wanted to make sure that I thanked 2307 01:27:06,083 --> 01:27:07,667 her mother and her father. 2308 01:27:07,750 --> 01:27:09,708 And I just seen someone sitting in the first chair. 2309 01:27:09,792 --> 01:27:11,875 I'd like to do one thing. 2310 01:27:11,958 --> 01:27:12,958 Are you the mother? 2311 01:27:13,042 --> 01:27:15,083 - No. - She's my sister. 2312 01:27:15,167 --> 01:27:16,542 - Your sister's very courageous for doing this. 2313 01:27:16,625 --> 01:27:18,667 - Yeah. Well, so are you. 2314 01:27:18,750 --> 01:27:20,708 - Well, it sounds like you caught yourself in enough time. 2315 01:27:20,708 --> 01:27:22,000 - Oh, you know. - So it was family. 2316 01:27:22,083 --> 01:27:22,917 - Yeah, it was family. - It was family. 2317 01:27:23,042 --> 01:27:24,667 It was family. 2318 01:27:24,708 --> 01:27:27,208 You know, it shows how important family is to you. 2319 01:27:27,292 --> 01:27:28,417 And that speaks volumes. 2320 01:27:28,500 --> 01:27:30,125 It really, really does. 2321 01:27:30,208 --> 01:27:34,042 And I know your ceremony went very smoothly. 2322 01:27:34,125 --> 01:27:35,917 But I don't know if I can say the same 2323 01:27:36,000 --> 01:27:37,708 about your first conversation. 2324 01:27:37,708 --> 01:27:39,333 Let's keep watching. 2325 01:27:40,792 --> 01:27:44,208 - I currently live in my parents' house. 2326 01:27:44,333 --> 01:27:45,833 - Oh, my gosh. 2327 01:27:45,917 --> 01:27:47,208 Crazy. 2328 01:27:47,333 --> 01:27:48,333 - For the last three years, 2329 01:27:48,417 --> 01:27:50,375 I've been living in an empty bar 2330 01:27:50,542 --> 01:27:53,458 that I turned into my condo, 2,500 square feet. 2331 01:27:53,542 --> 01:27:55,125 And it was like-- it was getting lonely. 2332 01:27:55,208 --> 01:27:56,333 And I was like, well, eh. - Yeah. 2333 01:27:56,458 --> 01:27:58,833 And then so we decided to sell. 2334 01:27:58,958 --> 01:28:00,500 And I'm like, let me just go back home for a little while 2335 01:28:00,625 --> 01:28:02,208 and then just see what I'm going to do. 2336 01:28:02,292 --> 01:28:04,083 And then here we are now. - Yeah. 2337 01:28:04,208 --> 01:28:05,917 - So-- - Crazy. 2338 01:28:06,042 --> 01:28:07,208 - Oh, Lord. 2339 01:28:07,292 --> 01:28:08,542 - You just wanted to tell it all. 2340 01:28:08,708 --> 01:28:10,625 - Yeah, I mean, those are the nerves that come in. 2341 01:28:10,708 --> 01:28:12,750 And I'd rather get everything out on day one 2342 01:28:12,833 --> 01:28:14,667 than have it come three months down the line. 2343 01:28:14,750 --> 01:28:18,083 So I felt that if these things are negative to you, 2344 01:28:18,167 --> 01:28:20,167 we can work on those things. - OK. 2345 01:28:20,292 --> 01:28:21,583 Well, as you saw in tonight's episode, 2346 01:28:21,708 --> 01:28:23,167 this information caused Michelle 2347 01:28:23,292 --> 01:28:25,500 to have a breakdown at your wedding, 2348 01:28:25,542 --> 01:28:28,458 which brings us to tonight's Do-Over segment. 2349 01:28:28,542 --> 01:28:30,583 So David, in this situation, 2350 01:28:30,667 --> 01:28:32,500 what would you have done differently, if anything? 2351 01:28:32,583 --> 01:28:34,000 - What I would have done differently 2352 01:28:34,083 --> 01:28:37,000 is just let the moment play out, enjoy the wedding, 2353 01:28:37,042 --> 01:28:40,167 and just be in fathom of what I got right now, 2354 01:28:40,250 --> 01:28:42,833 that I'm married and just enjoy the moment 2355 01:28:42,875 --> 01:28:45,625 rather than trying to put it all out there. 2356 01:28:45,708 --> 01:28:47,500 - I respect that. And I understand that. 2357 01:28:47,542 --> 01:28:49,167 But one thing that I've learned is that 2358 01:28:49,292 --> 01:28:51,000 people family differently. 2359 01:28:51,042 --> 01:28:53,500 You know, my parents' house is that house for me 2360 01:28:53,625 --> 01:28:56,500 and all of my brothers because at some point in life, 2361 01:28:56,500 --> 01:28:58,667 have gone home, for whatever reason. 2362 01:28:58,750 --> 01:29:00,500 But what I've learned is that, 2363 01:29:00,583 --> 01:29:02,500 specifically when you get married, 2364 01:29:02,625 --> 01:29:06,250 is that people's definition and experience of home 2365 01:29:06,333 --> 01:29:08,500 and family is really, really different. 2366 01:29:08,583 --> 01:29:11,500 And then you have to combine to create what family 2367 01:29:11,500 --> 01:29:11,667 And then you have to combine to create what family 2368 01:29:12,292 --> 01:29:13,333 looks like to the two of you. 2369 01:29:13,542 --> 01:29:15,375 And, you know, hindsight's always 20/20. 2370 01:29:15,458 --> 01:29:16,875 I know next time you got to tell us something, 2371 01:29:16,958 --> 01:29:18,333 you're gonna be like, OK, let me figure out 2372 01:29:18,417 --> 01:29:19,542 a different way to try. - Glide on in there. 2373 01:29:19,667 --> 01:29:21,083 - Yeah. - Put your toe in. 2374 01:29:21,167 --> 01:29:22,667 - Gonna take a step back real quick. 2375 01:29:22,750 --> 01:29:24,000 - Yeah, you gonna figure it out. 2376 01:29:27,792 --> 01:29:28,875 All right, Ikechi, the poem you wrote for Emem 2377 01:29:28,875 --> 01:29:31,875 before your wedding was just the warm-up 2378 01:29:31,958 --> 01:29:33,250 to this opening act. 2379 01:29:33,375 --> 01:29:34,875 Take a look at this clip. 2380 01:29:36,458 --> 01:29:36,958 [flowing piano music] 2381 01:29:37,208 --> 01:29:38,667 [flowing piano music] 2382 01:29:38,708 --> 01:29:43,042 - ♪ Lately you've been heavy on my mind ♪ 2383 01:29:43,208 --> 01:29:45,125 ♪ And it just don't make no sense ♪ 2384 01:29:45,208 --> 01:29:48,250 ♪ Maybe I'm crazy 2385 01:29:48,333 --> 01:29:49,875 ♪ But this thing I've got for you ♪ 2386 01:29:49,958 --> 01:29:51,708 ♪ It don't compare 2387 01:29:51,792 --> 01:29:53,208 ♪ You walked in 2388 01:29:53,333 --> 01:29:57,208 [cheers and applause] 2389 01:29:57,292 --> 01:29:59,167 - OK, Mr. Smooth. - Right. 2390 01:29:59,250 --> 01:30:01,083 - So question. - What up? 2391 01:30:01,167 --> 01:30:03,000 - When you were writing this song-- 2392 01:30:03,083 --> 01:30:04,792 - No, no, no, no. - So you didn't write this? 2393 01:30:04,792 --> 01:30:06,208 - I did not write this song. - This poem? 2394 01:30:06,292 --> 01:30:07,625 - No. - Oh, help me understand. 2395 01:30:07,708 --> 01:30:10,292 Give me the origins. - My good friend, Bellamy-- 2396 01:30:10,417 --> 01:30:11,750 - OK. 2397 01:30:11,875 --> 01:30:13,167 - Who was singing-- - He wrote the song? 2398 01:30:13,208 --> 01:30:15,208 - He wrote the song. - Oh, OK. 2399 01:30:15,292 --> 01:30:17,917 - We toured together for years. 2400 01:30:18,000 --> 01:30:21,458 And I was like, hey, I need that song. 2401 01:30:21,542 --> 01:30:23,833 And this was probably ten years ago. 2402 01:30:23,958 --> 01:30:25,333 - "Whenever I get married, I need that song." 2403 01:30:25,417 --> 01:30:27,042 - Yeah, I need that song. - OK. 2404 01:30:27,125 --> 01:30:31,208 - So he flew in from Germany to be at the wedding 2405 01:30:31,292 --> 01:30:33,333 and sang that song. 2406 01:30:33,333 --> 01:30:36,000 - OK, OK. 2407 01:30:36,000 --> 01:30:38,042 Random question, how many pairs of glasses do you own? 2408 01:30:38,042 --> 01:30:39,125 - Enough. 2409 01:30:39,208 --> 01:30:40,833 - Man got-- [chuckles] 2410 01:30:40,917 --> 01:30:42,083 - Because I haven't seen you in the same ones twice yet. 2411 01:30:42,167 --> 01:30:43,125 - I probably have about 30 pair. 2412 01:30:43,208 --> 01:30:44,125 - Really? - Yeah. 2413 01:30:44,208 --> 01:30:45,417 - OK. - Yeah. 2414 01:30:45,500 --> 01:30:46,667 - That must mean they're not prescription, 2415 01:30:46,708 --> 01:30:47,917 because you, like, don't need that. 2416 01:30:48,000 --> 01:30:49,583 - I mean-- 2417 01:30:49,667 --> 01:30:50,583 - That would be expensive. - They protect my eyes. 2418 01:30:50,667 --> 01:30:51,583 That's what I need them to do. - OK. 2419 01:30:51,667 --> 01:30:52,667 - Yeah. - Don't be defensive. 2420 01:30:52,750 --> 01:30:54,208 I'm just giving you a compliment. 2421 01:30:54,292 --> 01:30:55,458 [laughter] - Thank you. 2422 01:30:55,542 --> 01:30:56,833 - But fine. - No, I wasn't on defense. 2423 01:30:56,875 --> 01:30:57,750 - OK. Because, listen, I'm simply 2424 01:30:57,833 --> 01:30:58,958 just saying your glasses are nice 2425 01:30:59,042 --> 01:31:00,833 and I noticed you have multiple pairs. 2426 01:31:00,917 --> 01:31:02,625 - I do have multiple pairs. - That's all. 2427 01:31:02,708 --> 01:31:06,833 But OK, so, Camille and David, whether it was filmed or not, 2428 01:31:06,875 --> 01:31:10,583 was there anything that you had planned on your wedding day, 2429 01:31:10,667 --> 01:31:13,792 for your husband or for your wife, that you'd always said, 2430 01:31:13,875 --> 01:31:17,042 you know, when I get married, I'm going to do this? 2431 01:31:17,125 --> 01:31:18,333 - I'm trying to think. 2432 01:31:18,458 --> 01:31:19,958 I feel like kind of growing up, 2433 01:31:20,042 --> 01:31:21,583 always being that hopeless romantic, I feel like 2434 01:31:21,708 --> 01:31:23,667 I probably had a whole playlist in my head of, like, 2435 01:31:23,750 --> 01:31:26,333 ooh, this is what I'll play at my wedding, or--you know? 2436 01:31:26,458 --> 01:31:29,625 So that's probably the biggest thing. 2437 01:31:29,708 --> 01:31:31,708 - Our wedding song for my husband and I 2438 01:31:31,792 --> 01:31:34,083 was Mary J. Blige and Redman. 2439 01:31:34,208 --> 01:31:35,917 So I get it. I get it. 2440 01:31:36,042 --> 01:31:38,833 So did any of your families do anything special 2441 01:31:38,958 --> 01:31:41,833 or have anything planned for you that maybe wasn't filmed? 2442 01:31:41,917 --> 01:31:46,875 - My brother had gifted me the book 2443 01:31:47,000 --> 01:31:49,500 that his wife had given him in regards to how to be a husband 2444 01:31:49,583 --> 01:31:51,333 and how to be a better man. 2445 01:31:51,417 --> 01:31:54,625 But it was something that I didn't see coming from him. 2446 01:31:54,708 --> 01:31:58,042 But he is a great man. He's my number one. 2447 01:31:58,042 --> 01:32:00,375 And it was something that I'll never forget. 2448 01:32:00,458 --> 01:32:02,167 - Understood. All right, Ikechi, well, 2449 01:32:02,250 --> 01:32:04,958 there is no doubt you're winning over your wife. 2450 01:32:04,958 --> 01:32:08,125 But it looks like her cousin needs a bit more convincing. 2451 01:32:08,208 --> 01:32:10,208 Take a look at this clip. 2452 01:32:11,958 --> 01:32:14,083 - When was the last serious relationship you had? 2453 01:32:14,208 --> 01:32:15,500 - 12 years ago. 2454 01:32:15,583 --> 01:32:17,583 - In 12 years, you telling me 2455 01:32:17,667 --> 01:32:19,667 you haven't dealt with a woman seriously? 2456 01:32:19,792 --> 01:32:22,958 - I've dealt with women seriously, 2457 01:32:23,042 --> 01:32:25,083 but it hasn't gone past a certain point. 2458 01:32:25,167 --> 01:32:26,792 [quirky tense music] 2459 01:32:26,875 --> 01:32:29,542 - Never been close to engaged? - I have been engaged before. 2460 01:32:29,542 --> 01:32:31,250 - How many times? - Once. 2461 01:32:31,333 --> 01:32:32,583 - Once. And what happened with her? 2462 01:32:32,708 --> 01:32:34,333 - It didn't. 2463 01:32:34,417 --> 01:32:35,500 - I mean, it didn't because of her or because of you? 2464 01:32:35,542 --> 01:32:37,917 - Because of me. 2465 01:32:38,000 --> 01:32:40,083 - So tell me about your last engagement. 2466 01:32:40,167 --> 01:32:41,500 Why didn't it work out? 2467 01:32:41,625 --> 01:32:44,667 - Me. I was the reason it didn't work out. 2468 01:32:44,750 --> 01:32:47,042 I mean, I was a young person, a young man 2469 01:32:47,167 --> 01:32:49,875 trying to navigate myself, trying to navigate art, 2470 01:32:49,958 --> 01:32:53,667 creativity, and be in a relationship. 2471 01:32:53,750 --> 01:32:55,833 And none of those worked out together. 2472 01:32:55,917 --> 01:32:57,667 - OK. 2473 01:32:57,750 --> 01:33:01,417 What are you willing to and desire to do different 2474 01:33:01,500 --> 01:33:03,583 now in this relationship based on what 2475 01:33:03,708 --> 01:33:05,833 you've learned from your previous relationships? 2476 01:33:05,917 --> 01:33:10,250 - I'm willing to communicate the things that I haven't 2477 01:33:10,333 --> 01:33:13,833 done in the past, or be as open and as vulnerable as possible. 2478 01:33:13,917 --> 01:33:16,750 I've been writing to my future wife 2479 01:33:16,875 --> 01:33:19,333 for the last seven, eight years. 2480 01:33:19,375 --> 01:33:22,667 I have a book of just letters to my future wife 2481 01:33:22,750 --> 01:33:24,333 and just say, hey, look, this is who I am. 2482 01:33:24,417 --> 01:33:26,000 I'm open. 2483 01:33:26,042 --> 01:33:30,708 I'm trying to be as transparent as possible. 2484 01:33:30,792 --> 01:33:34,833 - OK, OK. Well, wedding receptions are a party. 2485 01:33:34,875 --> 01:33:38,625 So I want to know what was going on behind the scenes? 2486 01:33:38,625 --> 01:33:41,125 Tidbits or funny stories or anything, 2487 01:33:41,208 --> 01:33:43,292 because I love this part, I must say. 2488 01:33:43,375 --> 01:33:47,833 - One of Emem's friends was just there already. 2489 01:33:47,875 --> 01:33:49,167 She-- 2490 01:33:49,208 --> 01:33:51,083 - Oh, she-- - I think she was there before. 2491 01:33:51,167 --> 01:33:52,292 - Was sauced a little bit, big pregame? 2492 01:33:52,375 --> 01:33:54,208 - Yeah. 2493 01:33:54,292 --> 01:33:56,250 So in the clip, you see the girl that's talking to her. 2494 01:33:59,292 --> 01:34:01,042 - I love that. 2495 01:34:01,167 --> 01:34:03,167 - I did hear. 2496 01:34:03,208 --> 01:34:04,875 - I love that. 2497 01:34:04,958 --> 01:34:07,083 - Like, she was, like, stop every three seconds. 2498 01:34:07,208 --> 01:34:07,250 You just-- y'all gonna be amazing. 2499 01:34:08,375 --> 01:34:09,125 You just-- y'all gonna be amazing. 2500 01:34:09,708 --> 01:34:11,958 You just gonna be--and I was just like, OK, like, let 2501 01:34:12,042 --> 01:34:16,292 me get away from you before-- I don't know who you are. 2502 01:34:20,083 --> 01:34:23,417 Camille, David, and Ikechi. Tonh 2503 01:34:23,417 --> 01:34:24,917 - Hey. - And they've been giving me 2504 01:34:24,917 --> 01:34:27,375 all the details about their wedding receptions. 2505 01:34:27,458 --> 01:34:29,875 OK, Camille, your reception was going smoothly, 2506 01:34:29,958 --> 01:34:31,167 but then this happened. 2507 01:34:31,250 --> 01:34:31,333 Play the clip. 2508 01:34:31,708 --> 01:34:32,625 Play the clip. 2509 01:34:34,292 --> 01:34:37,375 - He did openly admit 2510 01:34:37,500 --> 01:34:41,542 to stepping out of his relationship. 2511 01:34:41,625 --> 01:34:45,208 Basically, he cheated. - Mm. 2512 01:34:45,292 --> 01:34:47,500 - That's something that doesn't align with you. 2513 01:34:47,667 --> 01:34:48,750 - Yeah, that's like a non-negotiable for you. 2514 01:34:48,875 --> 01:34:49,833 - Yeah. - That's what I said. 2515 01:34:49,917 --> 01:34:51,208 - Yeah. 2516 01:34:51,292 --> 01:34:52,833 - Like, obviously, you guys, like, dug deeper. 2517 01:34:52,917 --> 01:34:54,500 Was this something that it was, like, 2518 01:34:54,542 --> 01:34:55,833 in the heart of the relationship 2519 01:34:55,917 --> 01:34:57,958 or, like, at the end it was over with? 2520 01:34:58,042 --> 01:34:59,833 - Where he checked out. - Yeah. 2521 01:34:59,917 --> 01:35:03,292 - Yeah. He wasn't vocal enough to admit that he checked out. 2522 01:35:03,375 --> 01:35:04,500 - Yeah. 2523 01:35:04,583 --> 01:35:06,708 - All right, so how did you feel 2524 01:35:06,708 --> 01:35:08,583 with your friends and family giving 2525 01:35:08,583 --> 01:35:09,833 you this piece of information? 2526 01:35:09,875 --> 01:35:11,667 Like, in this moment, how are you feeling? 2527 01:35:11,708 --> 01:35:13,125 - Yeah, it's definitely-- in this moment, 2528 01:35:13,208 --> 01:35:15,417 it's definitely like a little hit to the heart. 2529 01:35:15,500 --> 01:35:17,958 Because, you know, you got the rose-colored glasses on. 2530 01:35:18,083 --> 01:35:19,667 Everything's so great, you know? 2531 01:35:19,708 --> 01:35:21,500 You haven't really had the chance to talk 2532 01:35:21,583 --> 01:35:23,083 about these tough topics. 2533 01:35:23,167 --> 01:35:24,333 - You handled it really well, though. 2534 01:35:24,375 --> 01:35:26,000 - Thank you. 2535 01:35:26,083 --> 01:35:27,333 Yeah, you know, I'm a questions person. 2536 01:35:27,417 --> 01:35:29,333 So even in that moment, I'm asking for context. 2537 01:35:29,458 --> 01:35:34,667 But you know, I had talked to his brother a little bit 2538 01:35:34,750 --> 01:35:36,000 at that point. 2539 01:35:36,125 --> 01:35:37,667 And across the board, it was just 2540 01:35:37,792 --> 01:35:39,500 sounding like it was something 2541 01:35:39,583 --> 01:35:42,375 that was coming to an end already. 2542 01:35:42,500 --> 01:35:44,958 Again, not to justify it at all, 2543 01:35:45,042 --> 01:35:47,792 but to me, it's like, OK, 2544 01:35:47,875 --> 01:35:50,167 let me still try not to just pump the brakes 2545 01:35:50,250 --> 01:35:52,583 and all of a sudden let this derail things completely. 2546 01:35:52,667 --> 01:35:53,750 - You were trying to keep an open mind 2547 01:35:53,750 --> 01:35:54,667 still to get to know him. 2548 01:35:54,708 --> 01:35:55,708 - Yeah, exactly. 2549 01:35:55,833 --> 01:35:57,417 - So how crazy was it? 2550 01:35:57,500 --> 01:35:58,833 Because I know when I'm watching the episode, 2551 01:35:59,000 --> 01:36:00,292 and I'm looking at Thomas and his twin brother, 2552 01:36:00,375 --> 01:36:02,667 and they are, like, for-real identical twins. 2553 01:36:02,792 --> 01:36:04,208 - Yeah. 2554 01:36:04,292 --> 01:36:06,792 - How crazy was that, like, when you're talking 2555 01:36:06,875 --> 01:36:10,208 to his brother about him? - Yeah. 2556 01:36:10,292 --> 01:36:12,000 - It seems like it's almost like you're talking to him. 2557 01:36:12,125 --> 01:36:13,750 - Right, right. - Right. 2558 01:36:13,833 --> 01:36:15,750 - Yeah, it definitely was an interesting contrast. 2559 01:36:15,833 --> 01:36:17,875 And that was, you know-- 2560 01:36:17,958 --> 01:36:20,000 this kind of is my first experience 2561 01:36:20,000 --> 01:36:21,458 with identical twins, because my brother and sister 2562 01:36:21,542 --> 01:36:22,917 are twins, so, you know-- 2563 01:36:23,000 --> 01:36:24,042 - But they're not identical. - Exactly. 2564 01:36:24,125 --> 01:36:25,708 - That's the point. - Right. 2565 01:36:25,792 --> 01:36:26,708 It's like a different kind of-- 2566 01:36:26,875 --> 01:36:28,083 you know, they got that connection. 2567 01:36:28,208 --> 01:36:29,333 But it's different when you have, 2568 01:36:29,458 --> 01:36:30,208 like, almost the same face. 2569 01:36:30,292 --> 01:36:31,667 - Right. 2570 01:36:31,792 --> 01:36:33,833 - So I will say, I think I noticed just enough 2571 01:36:33,875 --> 01:36:35,542 of the most subtle differences. 2572 01:36:35,625 --> 01:36:37,000 - Right. 2573 01:36:37,083 --> 01:36:38,708 - That I could tell them apart enough. 2574 01:36:38,792 --> 01:36:40,208 - That was my next question. 2575 01:36:40,292 --> 01:36:41,667 - Yeah, to where I wasn't like going up to him 2576 01:36:41,667 --> 01:36:42,667 and being like-- - Hey! 2577 01:36:42,708 --> 01:36:44,417 - Hey, hubby! 2578 01:36:44,500 --> 01:36:46,625 Yeah, so I had at least enough of a general concept 2579 01:36:46,708 --> 01:36:48,792 to be able to tell them apart. 2580 01:36:48,875 --> 01:36:53,500 So yeah, it definitely is crazy to process at first. 2581 01:36:53,542 --> 01:36:57,125 - So, guys, did you guys, either of you, find out-- 2582 01:36:57,208 --> 01:36:58,917 because sometimes you have that one person who wants to come 2583 01:36:59,000 --> 01:37:00,917 over and just tell you stuff. 2584 01:37:01,042 --> 01:37:04,667 Did you find out anything that kind of perked your ears up, 2585 01:37:04,750 --> 01:37:07,083 maybe raised a little half-staff red flag 2586 01:37:07,208 --> 01:37:10,792 for either one of you about your wives? 2587 01:37:10,875 --> 01:37:13,542 - You? - I don't think so. 2588 01:37:13,625 --> 01:37:15,833 They--I mean, her girlfriends told me that I'm her type. 2589 01:37:15,875 --> 01:37:18,083 So I was like-- I thought that was a plus. 2590 01:37:18,208 --> 01:37:19,708 I was like, all right. - A green flag. 2591 01:37:19,708 --> 01:37:21,250 - You know? 2592 01:37:21,333 --> 01:37:22,083 Yeah, I was, like, I think that's a good thing. 2593 01:37:22,208 --> 01:37:23,333 - OK. 2594 01:37:23,375 --> 01:37:25,167 - I feel like we're on the right track. 2595 01:37:25,250 --> 01:37:28,000 - Understood. Understood. 2596 01:37:28,083 --> 01:37:30,583 - For me, it was the same friends. 2597 01:37:30,583 --> 01:37:32,167 They were just kind of adamant 2598 01:37:32,250 --> 01:37:34,083 about how good of a person this is. 2599 01:37:34,167 --> 01:37:36,250 It was kind of eerie, you know? 2600 01:37:36,250 --> 01:37:40,833 It was somebody like, she's a good person. 2601 01:37:40,875 --> 01:37:42,042 You're like, all right. 2602 01:37:42,125 --> 01:37:43,250 No, no. 2603 01:37:43,375 --> 01:37:45,083 She's a good person. 2604 01:37:45,167 --> 01:37:47,667 And I was like, I hear you. 2605 01:37:47,750 --> 01:37:48,833 - Is this the same friend though? 2606 01:37:48,958 --> 01:37:51,042 - No. This is more than one person. 2607 01:37:51,167 --> 01:37:53,000 - You're giving the same voice. - I know. 2608 01:37:53,083 --> 01:37:55,333 It was--like I said, it was eerie because just, 2609 01:37:55,417 --> 01:37:56,792 like, why are they all talking like-- 2610 01:37:56,875 --> 01:37:58,542 why are they saying this? 2611 01:37:58,625 --> 01:38:00,000 - Like, trying to convince you? 2612 01:38:00,042 --> 01:38:01,208 - Yeah it's like that was just a little-- 2613 01:38:01,292 --> 01:38:03,583 like I said, it was kind of like, 2614 01:38:03,708 --> 01:38:06,417 what the hell is this about? - OK, OK. 2615 01:38:06,542 --> 01:38:08,667 Well, Camille, how are you feeling about Thomas? 2616 01:38:08,792 --> 01:38:10,125 - I am-- 2617 01:38:10,208 --> 01:38:11,875 I'm feeling Thomas, you know? - OK. 2618 01:38:11,958 --> 01:38:14,000 - He's definitely-- - I like him. 2619 01:38:14,042 --> 01:38:15,958 - Yeah, yeah. [laughter] 2620 01:38:15,958 --> 01:38:18,333 I like him, yeah. 2621 01:38:18,375 --> 01:38:21,042 He's definitely, like, a reserved guy. 2622 01:38:21,125 --> 01:38:23,167 Like, in my past, I've always kind of gone 2623 01:38:23,167 --> 01:38:26,875 for the loud class clowns, 2624 01:38:26,958 --> 01:38:30,083 kind of, the spotlight kind of guys. 2625 01:38:30,208 --> 01:38:32,000 So yeah, he's just-- he's real put together. 2626 01:38:32,083 --> 01:38:33,250 But we're having great conversations. 2627 01:38:33,333 --> 01:38:35,167 I can tell that he has a good heart, 2628 01:38:35,250 --> 01:38:37,167 good morals, good character. 2629 01:38:37,250 --> 01:38:38,708 And that was one of the biggest things that I really-- 2630 01:38:38,708 --> 01:38:39,542 And that was one of the biggest things that I really-- 2631 01:38:39,833 --> 01:38:41,167 - His core values are intact. - Yes. 2632 01:38:41,208 --> 01:38:43,625 Yeah, and it was automatically making 2633 01:38:43,708 --> 01:38:46,125 me feel like I wanted to open up and get to know him more. 2634 01:38:46,208 --> 01:38:47,125 - I love it, I love it. 2635 01:38:50,875 --> 01:38:52,167 Marrying a stranger can be overwhelming. 2636 01:38:52,375 --> 01:38:55,000 And Michelle was certainly feeling the weight of it all. 2637 01:38:55,042 --> 01:38:56,042 Take a look at this clip. 2638 01:38:56,042 --> 01:38:57,042 Take a look at this clip. 2639 01:39:10,750 --> 01:39:12,583 - OK, OK. 2640 01:39:18,542 --> 01:39:19,542 - It's OK, it's OK. 2641 01:39:36,042 --> 01:39:38,500 - So what was it like seeing that on tonight's episode? 2642 01:39:38,583 --> 01:39:40,792 - Seeing that is-- 2643 01:39:40,875 --> 01:39:43,000 that's rough, you know? 2644 01:39:43,083 --> 01:39:47,417 Seeing somebody emotional on supposed to be 2645 01:39:47,500 --> 01:39:50,708 one of the amazing days of their lives, you know, 2646 01:39:50,708 --> 01:39:53,083 and being in the same room, not knowing that she was crying-- 2647 01:39:53,167 --> 01:39:55,500 - That was my question. - That was my-- 2648 01:39:55,583 --> 01:39:59,042 what I seen there, right there, how did I not see that? 2649 01:39:59,208 --> 01:40:01,500 That was hurtful, you know, not knowing that that happened. 2650 01:40:01,583 --> 01:40:03,333 - But, you know, I hear you being hard on yourself. 2651 01:40:03,417 --> 01:40:04,833 But what I also hear in this clip 2652 01:40:05,000 --> 01:40:06,375 is you saying, where is my wife? 2653 01:40:06,458 --> 01:40:09,292 To your credit, you are trying to find her. 2654 01:40:09,375 --> 01:40:11,250 So I want to know from you guys, what 2655 01:40:11,333 --> 01:40:14,083 do you think of Michelle here? 2656 01:40:14,167 --> 01:40:15,792 - It's very interesting to see, like, 2657 01:40:15,875 --> 01:40:20,292 the high of the night and then, like, a kind of crash moment. 2658 01:40:20,375 --> 01:40:23,000 Like, I commend you for being that vulnerable, 2659 01:40:23,042 --> 01:40:24,333 maybe not saying it the way you said it. 2660 01:40:24,417 --> 01:40:26,083 - Yeah. 2661 01:40:26,208 --> 01:40:27,333 - I think we all agree on that. - I got that one. 2662 01:40:27,417 --> 01:40:28,917 - I think we agree on that. 2663 01:40:28,917 --> 01:40:30,667 - No, I appreciate that, though. 2664 01:40:30,750 --> 01:40:31,875 - But also, I don't want you to be so hard on yourself. 2665 01:40:32,000 --> 01:40:34,333 So give yourself some grace. 2666 01:40:34,375 --> 01:40:36,000 - And you can tell he's a good dude, too, because, you know, 2667 01:40:36,083 --> 01:40:38,042 he's hearing all these tough things 2668 01:40:38,125 --> 01:40:41,042 about what Michelle's not feeling about him. 2669 01:40:41,167 --> 01:40:43,333 And he feels bad that he ruined her day. 2670 01:40:43,417 --> 01:40:45,458 Like, that just speaks a lot to his character, too. 2671 01:40:45,542 --> 01:40:48,083 So it's like, you just never really know 2672 01:40:48,167 --> 01:40:49,958 how something crazy like this is gonna play out. 2673 01:40:50,042 --> 01:40:51,167 And I think everyone comes in and kind of 2674 01:40:51,208 --> 01:40:53,042 does the best that they can. 2675 01:40:53,208 --> 01:40:54,500 - You do the best that you can with what you got. 2676 01:40:54,542 --> 01:40:55,917 - Yeah, exactly. 2677 01:40:56,000 --> 01:40:56,542 - And you don't even know what you got. 2678 01:40:56,667 --> 01:40:58,417 - Right. 2679 01:40:58,542 --> 01:40:59,417 'Cause you get into it, and you're like, oh, wait a minute, 2680 01:40:59,500 --> 01:41:01,958 I didn't think about that. - Yeah. 2681 01:41:02,042 --> 01:41:04,250 - So I mean, that's just-- it's par for the course. 2682 01:41:04,375 --> 01:41:06,833 And we are going to end tonight's episode 2683 01:41:06,917 --> 01:41:08,542 on a lighter note. 2684 01:41:08,625 --> 01:41:12,000 How was it spending your first night with your new spouse? 2685 01:41:12,042 --> 01:41:14,833 - Honestly, for me, it was-- 2686 01:41:14,875 --> 01:41:17,958 I was so tired that we just got sleep. 2687 01:41:18,042 --> 01:41:19,500 I mean, we were knocked out. 2688 01:41:19,542 --> 01:41:21,625 Like, it was-- it was like, all right, yay. 2689 01:41:21,708 --> 01:41:23,167 [groans] [laughter] 2690 01:41:23,250 --> 01:41:27,333 - Speaking of tired, when we get back to the hotel room, 2691 01:41:27,375 --> 01:41:28,500 we're still having a good time and just recapping. 2692 01:41:28,542 --> 01:41:30,750 - Did you fall asleep? - No, he basically did. 2693 01:41:30,750 --> 01:41:31,833 - I'm talking to this man. 2694 01:41:31,958 --> 01:41:33,417 - In the middle of the conversation? 2695 01:41:33,500 --> 01:41:35,042 - Man, when I tell you his blinks got longer and longer-- 2696 01:41:35,167 --> 01:41:36,208 and he was like this. And I'm like-- 2697 01:41:36,292 --> 01:41:37,917 - But did he start snoring? - No. 2698 01:41:38,000 --> 01:41:40,500 - OK, well, it's not too bad. - I know. 2699 01:41:40,542 --> 01:41:42,125 But it's still, like-- my intrusive thoughts were 2700 01:41:42,208 --> 01:41:44,125 ready to just--you know-- like, you know, just, like-- 2701 01:41:44,208 --> 01:41:45,500 - I get it. - Wake your ass up. 2702 01:41:45,542 --> 01:41:47,042 - Wake your ass up. Yeah, exactly. 2703 01:41:47,125 --> 01:41:48,542 - Man, yeah. [indistinct] 2704 01:41:48,625 --> 01:41:50,208 - Well, I guess we can say that nothing extra fresh 2705 01:41:50,292 --> 01:41:52,125 happened in any of y'all's wedding nights. 2706 01:41:52,208 --> 01:41:53,667 - Some fresh sleep. 2707 01:41:53,792 --> 01:41:55,250 - That's all that we have time for tonight. 2708 01:41:55,375 --> 01:41:57,917 But before we go, here's an exclusive preview 2709 01:41:58,000 --> 01:41:59,875 from next week's brand-new episode 2710 01:41:59,958 --> 01:42:02,583 of "Married at First Sight." 2711 01:42:02,667 --> 01:42:04,167 [upbeat music] 2712 01:42:04,208 --> 01:42:06,250 - I'm curious. 2713 01:42:06,375 --> 01:42:09,000 Would I have a chance with her, just walking down the street? 2714 01:42:09,083 --> 01:42:10,208 - No. - No? 2715 01:42:10,292 --> 01:42:11,792 - Absolutely not. - OK, OK. 2716 01:42:11,875 --> 01:42:13,583 - [laughs] But she-- 2717 01:42:13,667 --> 01:42:16,458 physically, she does have a type, pretty boy. 2718 01:42:16,542 --> 01:42:18,875 And so I think you're a complete opposite of that. 2719 01:42:19,042 --> 01:42:20,708 - OK. 2720 01:42:20,833 --> 01:42:24,167 - So initially, my initial reaction was like, oh, my gosh. 2721 01:42:24,208 --> 01:42:26,083 But then when you started talking, 2722 01:42:26,208 --> 01:42:30,875 your personality was, like, completely won me over. 2723 01:42:31,000 --> 01:42:32,333 - [laughs] 2724 01:42:32,458 --> 01:42:36,333 The brunches with the in-laws are no joke. 2725 01:42:36,417 --> 01:42:40,542 Camille, David, and Ikechi... [laughter] 2726 01:42:40,667 --> 01:42:44,083 Thank you so much for joining me at the "Afterparty" tonight. 2727 01:42:44,208 --> 01:42:46,542 I hope to see all of you again very soon. 2728 01:42:46,625 --> 01:42:50,167 And to everyone at home, join us at the "Afterparty" 2729 01:42:50,250 --> 01:42:52,792 two weeks from now for a special episode 2730 01:42:52,875 --> 01:42:54,333 that you won't want to miss. 2731 01:42:54,417 --> 01:42:56,625 I'm Keshia Knight Pulliam. Goodnight. 2732 01:42:56,625 --> 01:42:58,333 - ♪ Pull up, pull up, pull up, pull up ♪ 2733 01:42:58,458 --> 01:43:00,250 ♪ 'Cause life should be a party ♪