1 00:00:07,083 --> 00:00:09,000 [dramatic music] 2 00:00:09,125 --> 00:00:11,333 - Five couples searching to find love 3 00:00:11,375 --> 00:00:13,458 took a gallant leap of faith 4 00:00:13,583 --> 00:00:15,417 and got married at first sight. 5 00:00:15,500 --> 00:00:16,875 Last time... 6 00:00:16,958 --> 00:00:18,833 - I feel like a giddy little girl. 7 00:00:18,875 --> 00:00:21,208 Like, he's making me blush. 8 00:00:21,292 --> 00:00:24,000 - I got it. I got it. - [laughs] 9 00:00:24,083 --> 00:00:26,333 Is that broccoli? [laughs] 10 00:00:26,417 --> 00:00:28,167 - What's wrong with broccoli? 11 00:00:28,208 --> 00:00:29,917 - [laughing] We're gonna fix that. 12 00:00:30,042 --> 00:00:31,125 - So are we gonna try out 13 00:00:31,208 --> 00:00:32,375 the big spoon, little spoon tonight? 14 00:00:32,458 --> 00:00:34,000 - I'd love to. I'm a cuddler, so yeah. 15 00:00:34,167 --> 00:00:35,500 - [laughs] All right, perfect. Me, too. 16 00:00:35,542 --> 00:00:37,500 - Mm. 17 00:00:37,583 --> 00:00:38,875 - Oh, man. 18 00:00:38,958 --> 00:00:40,625 I do feel a level of chemistry, 19 00:00:40,708 --> 00:00:42,208 so we'll see how this goes. 20 00:00:42,292 --> 00:00:43,542 [chuckling] TBD. 21 00:00:43,542 --> 00:00:45,417 [upbeat music] 22 00:00:45,417 --> 00:00:47,000 - I'm not really ashamed of living in my parents' basement 23 00:00:47,083 --> 00:00:48,458 because I choose to. 24 00:00:48,542 --> 00:00:52,792 - I appreciate, like, this, like, communication. 25 00:00:52,875 --> 00:00:55,000 ♪ 26 00:00:55,083 --> 00:00:56,792 - You will be heading to Mexico! 27 00:00:56,875 --> 00:00:58,042 - Yeah! 28 00:00:58,042 --> 00:00:59,667 - Should we bring these as well? 29 00:00:59,792 --> 00:01:00,667 [laughter] 30 00:01:00,792 --> 00:01:03,500 ♪ 31 00:01:03,583 --> 00:01:04,625 - And tonight... 32 00:01:04,708 --> 00:01:06,083 [overlapping chatter] 33 00:01:06,167 --> 00:01:08,583 Our newlyweds leave for their honeymoons. 34 00:01:08,667 --> 00:01:09,833 - It's like you looked at me on our wedding night. 35 00:01:09,833 --> 00:01:11,542 - [laughing] Ah! 36 00:01:11,625 --> 00:01:14,167 - But first, each spouse will meet individually 37 00:01:14,292 --> 00:01:16,708 with their new family and friends 38 00:01:16,833 --> 00:01:18,667 in order to get to know who they just married. 39 00:01:18,750 --> 00:01:21,167 - I do just want to be, like, a super realist. 40 00:01:21,250 --> 00:01:22,500 Like, we don't know anything about each other. 41 00:01:22,583 --> 00:01:23,583 - Right. 42 00:01:23,667 --> 00:01:26,375 - Is this really ready for marriage, 43 00:01:26,375 --> 00:01:29,375 looking for love, or is this an opportunity? 44 00:01:29,458 --> 00:01:30,667 ♪ 45 00:01:30,792 --> 00:01:33,958 - How you make your money? 46 00:01:34,042 --> 00:01:36,375 - Are you not 100% in? 47 00:01:36,458 --> 00:01:40,750 - This is my daughter. And I'm watching you, bro. 48 00:01:40,833 --> 00:01:42,167 - Are you my typical type that I have dated? 49 00:01:42,292 --> 00:01:44,917 - Yeah. - Not necessarily. 50 00:01:45,000 --> 00:01:47,750 Who would choose to live with their parents at 36 years old? 51 00:01:47,833 --> 00:01:49,958 Your mommy doing all your, like, things for you? 52 00:01:50,042 --> 00:01:51,667 Like, that's not-- that's a turnoff to me. 53 00:01:51,750 --> 00:01:54,667 [dramatic music] 54 00:01:54,708 --> 00:01:56,333 - ♪ It's all or nothing 55 00:01:56,375 --> 00:01:58,833 - This is "Married at First Sight." 56 00:01:58,958 --> 00:02:02,667 - ♪ There's no other way 57 00:02:02,667 --> 00:02:04,792 ♪ It's all or nothing 58 00:02:04,875 --> 00:02:07,500 - ♪ Not gonna stop us now 59 00:02:07,542 --> 00:02:09,833 ♪ Nothing can bring us down 60 00:02:09,917 --> 00:02:11,208 ♪ Never gonna turn around 61 00:02:11,292 --> 00:02:14,083 ♪ I know where I belong 62 00:02:14,208 --> 00:02:16,000 - Good morning. 63 00:02:16,083 --> 00:02:17,542 - First night was a success, for sure. 64 00:02:17,667 --> 00:02:19,250 - I fully agree. 65 00:02:19,333 --> 00:02:21,167 I don't think there was any snores. 66 00:02:21,167 --> 00:02:23,250 - No. - I didn't get a little-- 67 00:02:23,375 --> 00:02:24,500 none of the little purrs that you were talking about. 68 00:02:24,583 --> 00:02:26,333 - None of the purrs. [both chuckle] 69 00:02:26,500 --> 00:02:28,833 - Good morning. - Morning. 70 00:02:28,917 --> 00:02:30,917 - Good morning. What do you say? 71 00:02:31,000 --> 00:02:32,708 Good morning, wife? - Mm. 72 00:02:32,708 --> 00:02:34,625 - What does one say? - Good morning, husband. 73 00:02:34,708 --> 00:02:36,000 - No. 74 00:02:36,083 --> 00:02:37,625 It's kind of just good morning. Like-- 75 00:02:37,625 --> 00:02:38,875 - We'll figure it out. - We'll figure it out. 76 00:02:38,958 --> 00:02:40,208 - We'll figure it out. 77 00:02:40,292 --> 00:02:41,667 - I don't think we slept very well. 78 00:02:41,750 --> 00:02:44,542 - No, I believe that we tossed and turned. 79 00:02:44,667 --> 00:02:47,542 I'm possibly gonna go to the gym in a little bit, 80 00:02:47,625 --> 00:02:49,208 get in my workout in before brunch. 81 00:02:49,292 --> 00:02:51,083 So I'm even actually hungrier. 82 00:02:51,208 --> 00:02:52,250 - I am not gonna do any of that. 83 00:02:52,333 --> 00:02:54,333 [both chuckle] 84 00:02:54,375 --> 00:02:59,000 - Just had a really good night and we snuggled a little bit. 85 00:02:59,083 --> 00:03:01,208 And it just felt right. So-- 86 00:03:01,292 --> 00:03:03,542 - Yeah, he was a good big spoon, I must say. 87 00:03:03,667 --> 00:03:05,000 Nothing crazy. 88 00:03:05,083 --> 00:03:06,792 You know, kept it PG for night one. 89 00:03:06,875 --> 00:03:09,000 Night one was clean. 90 00:03:09,000 --> 00:03:10,625 - [chuckles] - TBD on the rest. 91 00:03:10,708 --> 00:03:11,792 [both chuckle] 92 00:03:11,875 --> 00:03:15,042 [upbeat music] 93 00:03:15,125 --> 00:03:18,625 ♪ 94 00:03:18,708 --> 00:03:21,333 - How are you feeling after last night? 95 00:03:21,375 --> 00:03:23,583 - Yeah, no, I'm-- - It was so fun. 96 00:03:23,667 --> 00:03:24,542 How's my bed head? 97 00:03:24,542 --> 00:03:26,792 - It is gorgeous. - [laughs] 98 00:03:26,875 --> 00:03:28,292 - Morning kiss. 99 00:03:28,375 --> 00:03:31,250 both: Mm. [smooching] 100 00:03:31,333 --> 00:03:34,083 - So? [knock at door] 101 00:03:34,208 --> 00:03:35,750 - ♪ Food [both chuckle] 102 00:03:35,875 --> 00:03:39,083 - Let's hope they're OK with some broccoli here. 103 00:03:39,167 --> 00:03:40,292 - [laughs] 104 00:03:42,375 --> 00:03:44,375 Ooh, they left it here. 105 00:03:44,458 --> 00:03:45,500 - Oh. 106 00:03:45,583 --> 00:03:46,667 ♪ 107 00:03:46,750 --> 00:03:48,083 - There we go. 108 00:03:48,167 --> 00:03:50,333 I'm definitely feeling optimistic. 109 00:03:50,458 --> 00:03:52,333 I'm feeling a connection. 110 00:03:52,458 --> 00:03:55,667 I'm feeling a lot of hope for what we can become. 111 00:03:55,667 --> 00:03:59,500 [chuckles] It's very surreal. 112 00:03:59,583 --> 00:04:01,042 - So what's something you're, like, most excited about 113 00:04:01,125 --> 00:04:02,875 over the next couple of weeks? 114 00:04:02,958 --> 00:04:05,542 - Oh, man. Well... 115 00:04:05,542 --> 00:04:07,625 let me cover up my junk here. 116 00:04:07,708 --> 00:04:08,667 - [laughs] 117 00:04:08,750 --> 00:04:11,417 - [chuckles] That's-- [laughter] 118 00:04:11,500 --> 00:04:13,333 - Yeah, get your sausage away from my breakfast sausage. 119 00:04:13,417 --> 00:04:15,125 - Oh. - [laughs] 120 00:04:15,208 --> 00:04:17,833 - The thing that I'm excited about is really, 121 00:04:17,917 --> 00:04:21,833 you know, how we get along, you know, on the day-to-day. 122 00:04:21,958 --> 00:04:24,125 You know, what are those buttons that, like, 123 00:04:24,208 --> 00:04:24,917 I'm sure there's gonna be something... 124 00:04:25,042 --> 00:04:26,542 - Yeah. 125 00:04:26,625 --> 00:04:28,542 - That you're gonna be like, Allen, cool it. 126 00:04:28,667 --> 00:04:31,500 [laughter] Like, at some point. 127 00:04:31,583 --> 00:04:33,833 So, you know, finding that out. 128 00:04:33,958 --> 00:04:37,125 Like, that's-- that's the real life, right? 129 00:04:37,208 --> 00:04:38,167 You know, that's... - Yeah. 130 00:04:38,292 --> 00:04:40,542 - How we interact when, you know, 131 00:04:40,625 --> 00:04:44,208 it's not a whole big shindig. - Right, right. 132 00:04:44,375 --> 00:04:47,375 - Did you actually prepare any questions or thoughts 133 00:04:47,458 --> 00:04:50,542 or anything like that for my family? 134 00:04:50,542 --> 00:04:53,167 - I did have a couple in mind, but I kind of just want 135 00:04:53,208 --> 00:04:55,125 to have a conversation and just, you know-- 136 00:04:55,208 --> 00:04:56,167 - See where it goes? 137 00:04:56,250 --> 00:04:57,667 - Hear their concerns, you know? 138 00:04:57,750 --> 00:05:02,250 What are some things that I should know about you? 139 00:05:02,375 --> 00:05:05,583 You know, my last relationship was three years ago. 140 00:05:05,708 --> 00:05:08,167 But you did say that yours was, like, a year and a half ago. 141 00:05:08,292 --> 00:05:10,542 - I did. - That's not that long ago. 142 00:05:10,667 --> 00:05:12,417 - You don't think so? - No. 143 00:05:12,542 --> 00:05:14,208 I feel like a year goes by so fast. 144 00:05:14,292 --> 00:05:16,125 - [clears throat] I mean, time flies. 145 00:05:16,208 --> 00:05:19,042 But there was a reason, 146 00:05:19,125 --> 00:05:22,833 you know, why it ended. 147 00:05:22,917 --> 00:05:25,708 And, you know, 148 00:05:25,708 --> 00:05:28,542 towards the end, you could tell this is, like, not healthy. 149 00:05:28,542 --> 00:05:30,625 I mean, it was a four-year relationship. 150 00:05:30,708 --> 00:05:32,458 So it's not like, yeah, I'm over it in two weeks. 151 00:05:32,542 --> 00:05:33,833 - Right. - You know? 152 00:05:33,917 --> 00:05:37,000 But I did go and, you know, my therapist, 153 00:05:37,083 --> 00:05:39,708 you know, and he, you know, helped me through 154 00:05:39,875 --> 00:05:41,875 and kind of put things in perspective. 155 00:05:41,958 --> 00:05:44,375 - No, I love that you went back to therapy. 156 00:05:44,458 --> 00:05:46,208 I think that's so important. 157 00:05:46,292 --> 00:05:49,750 And I feel like not a lot of people 158 00:05:49,833 --> 00:05:51,708 will do that work on themselves. 159 00:05:51,792 --> 00:05:53,000 So that's awesome. 160 00:05:53,083 --> 00:05:54,000 - I don't understand why there's, 161 00:05:54,083 --> 00:05:55,542 like, a stigma against it. 162 00:05:55,667 --> 00:05:57,125 - I don't, either. I think it's so important. 163 00:05:57,208 --> 00:05:59,500 And the more that people talk about it 164 00:05:59,583 --> 00:06:03,667 and, you know, socialize that it's OK-- 165 00:06:03,750 --> 00:06:05,583 [laughs] To work on your mental health. 166 00:06:05,667 --> 00:06:07,667 I think the better for everybody, honestly. 167 00:06:07,708 --> 00:06:09,333 We're all a little screwed up with something, 168 00:06:09,417 --> 00:06:10,875 - Yeah. Right? 169 00:06:11,000 --> 00:06:12,750 We can all use a little chit-chat once in a while. 170 00:06:12,875 --> 00:06:14,417 - For sure. 171 00:06:14,542 --> 00:06:16,458 Yeah, when was the last time that you ever, like, 172 00:06:16,542 --> 00:06:18,917 lived with anybody, whether it was even, like, a roommate or-- 173 00:06:19,000 --> 00:06:21,375 - I did live with my ex. 174 00:06:21,458 --> 00:06:23,000 I think we lived together for, like, a year and a half. 175 00:06:23,083 --> 00:06:24,667 - OK. - So. 176 00:06:24,833 --> 00:06:27,292 - Well, I've never lived with any of my-- 177 00:06:27,375 --> 00:06:29,958 - Like, a partner? - Mm-mm. Past relationships. 178 00:06:30,042 --> 00:06:31,458 Do you have any weird habits? 179 00:06:31,542 --> 00:06:33,542 - I typically don't go on camera for my meetings. 180 00:06:33,625 --> 00:06:34,917 - OK. 181 00:06:35,000 --> 00:06:38,167 - Because I'm usually, you know, not decent. 182 00:06:38,250 --> 00:06:39,625 - [laughs] 183 00:06:39,708 --> 00:06:42,125 - So, like, I walk around the apartment, 184 00:06:42,208 --> 00:06:43,750 like, throughout the whole day. 185 00:06:43,875 --> 00:06:46,500 Like, if I don't have to get dressed, I don't get dressed. 186 00:06:46,583 --> 00:06:47,708 - What do you typically wear then? 187 00:06:47,792 --> 00:06:48,750 - This. 188 00:06:48,833 --> 00:06:51,250 - Broccoli underwear? [laughs] 189 00:06:51,333 --> 00:06:52,667 - I like my vegetables. 190 00:06:52,750 --> 00:06:54,542 - So excited to see all the variations of vegetables 191 00:06:54,625 --> 00:06:56,708 you have on your ass in the morning. 192 00:06:56,792 --> 00:06:59,417 - Yeah, there's-- [laughter] 193 00:06:59,417 --> 00:07:02,208 There's gonna be-- there's gonna be quite a few. 194 00:07:02,333 --> 00:07:03,375 [chuckles] It's-- 195 00:07:03,375 --> 00:07:04,667 - Get out of my bed. [laughs] 196 00:07:04,792 --> 00:07:06,167 ♪ 197 00:07:06,167 --> 00:07:07,708 - [chuckles] 198 00:07:07,792 --> 00:07:13,542 ♪ 199 00:07:13,625 --> 00:07:15,792 - It was good to wake up as a married man. 200 00:07:15,875 --> 00:07:17,958 - Mm-hmm. I loved our cuddles. 201 00:07:17,958 --> 00:07:20,000 - We cuddled a lot. Yeah, that was nice. 202 00:07:20,042 --> 00:07:22,417 - I loved how any time, like, I turned around, 203 00:07:22,542 --> 00:07:23,833 you would come and, like, look for me. 204 00:07:23,917 --> 00:07:25,792 - Yeah. - So the cuddles continued. 205 00:07:25,875 --> 00:07:28,083 - I was coming in hot. - Mm-hmm. 206 00:07:28,208 --> 00:07:30,458 [soft upbeat music] 207 00:07:30,542 --> 00:07:32,958 Are you hungry? We should order something. 208 00:07:33,042 --> 00:07:34,542 A little cafecito with your breakfast? 209 00:07:34,625 --> 00:07:38,167 - Cafecito. Let's do it. 210 00:07:38,250 --> 00:07:40,167 - I am still kind of in shock 211 00:07:40,208 --> 00:07:43,333 that I literally just got married to a stranger. 212 00:07:43,375 --> 00:07:44,875 I'm gonna freshen up. - All right. 213 00:07:44,958 --> 00:07:48,000 - But I love sharing cuddles and kisses, 214 00:07:48,042 --> 00:07:52,375 so I'm just thankful that there's natural chemistry. 215 00:07:52,458 --> 00:07:55,375 - And on the seventh day, there was breakfast. 216 00:07:55,458 --> 00:07:56,833 - Beautiful. - [laughs] 217 00:07:56,875 --> 00:07:59,125 - You want coffee? Would you like creamer? 218 00:07:59,125 --> 00:08:00,833 - Yes, a little cream. 219 00:08:00,833 --> 00:08:03,542 You're gonna get me used to spoiling me. 220 00:08:03,625 --> 00:08:06,083 - Hey, I'm gonna do my best. 221 00:08:06,167 --> 00:08:07,167 Ch-ch-ch. 222 00:08:10,458 --> 00:08:11,625 What do you think? Did I earn a tip? 223 00:08:11,625 --> 00:08:13,000 I've never been a server, so-- 224 00:08:13,083 --> 00:08:14,083 - Neither have I. 225 00:08:14,208 --> 00:08:16,458 I'll give you a good tip later on. 226 00:08:16,458 --> 00:08:17,917 - Hell, yeah. - Mm-hmm. 227 00:08:18,000 --> 00:08:19,458 - I could have made improvements 228 00:08:19,458 --> 00:08:21,042 by consolidating the order. 229 00:08:21,125 --> 00:08:23,417 - Right, but I enjoyed watching you walk back and forth. 230 00:08:23,542 --> 00:08:27,958 So can you stir me? - Absolutely. I got you. 231 00:08:28,042 --> 00:08:29,167 That's what I'm here for, you know what I'm saying? 232 00:08:29,292 --> 00:08:30,250 - Thank you, mister. 233 00:08:30,333 --> 00:08:31,875 - Absolutely. 234 00:08:31,958 --> 00:08:34,000 I actually only drink coffee on the weekends. 235 00:08:34,125 --> 00:08:35,917 - Really? 236 00:08:36,000 --> 00:08:37,750 - During the week, I only drink orange juice and carrot juice. 237 00:08:37,833 --> 00:08:39,208 That's my jam right there. - I love all juices. 238 00:08:39,292 --> 00:08:40,792 - Yeah? 239 00:08:40,792 --> 00:08:42,417 Do you have a juicer or something? 240 00:08:42,500 --> 00:08:43,958 - No, I go get 'em. 241 00:08:43,958 --> 00:08:46,917 - Oh, my God. You spend a fortune on juice. 242 00:08:47,000 --> 00:08:49,375 - Remember I told you money is energy? 243 00:08:49,500 --> 00:08:51,708 - Yeah. - [bleep] is what I believe. 244 00:08:51,792 --> 00:08:53,458 - Oh, yeah? [laughter] 245 00:08:53,542 --> 00:08:55,625 Those damn juices are expensive as hell. 246 00:08:55,708 --> 00:08:58,750 Juices are like $10 a pop. 247 00:08:58,833 --> 00:09:01,208 - Actually, they're $13. 248 00:09:01,333 --> 00:09:02,583 But maybe that's-- 249 00:09:02,583 --> 00:09:04,292 you know, he doesn't need to know all that. 250 00:09:04,375 --> 00:09:05,917 - I can make them at home. I have-- 251 00:09:06,042 --> 00:09:07,375 - Well, now you can make them for us. 252 00:09:07,375 --> 00:09:08,167 - Absolutely. 253 00:09:09,708 --> 00:09:12,333 [upbeat music] 254 00:09:12,417 --> 00:09:16,042 ♪ 255 00:09:16,125 --> 00:09:18,667 - How'd you feel about last night overall? 256 00:09:18,750 --> 00:09:21,833 - I was so, so glad that you don't snore. 257 00:09:21,917 --> 00:09:24,333 I was, like, really worried about that. 258 00:09:24,417 --> 00:09:26,083 - [indistinct] 259 00:09:26,208 --> 00:09:28,958 Yeah, I just kept thinking about worst-case scenarios 260 00:09:29,042 --> 00:09:31,792 and, like, we're not gonna vibe. 261 00:09:31,875 --> 00:09:32,833 Like, we're not gonna-- 262 00:09:32,958 --> 00:09:34,875 we're just gonna be too different. 263 00:09:35,000 --> 00:09:37,333 - I know. - And it was just like-- 264 00:09:37,375 --> 00:09:39,417 and honestly, it ended up being one of the best-case scenarios. 265 00:09:39,500 --> 00:09:40,750 Everything went perfect. 266 00:09:40,833 --> 00:09:42,625 Just, I don't know. 267 00:09:42,708 --> 00:09:44,250 I just--I feel like I've known you for a while, 268 00:09:44,333 --> 00:09:45,542 even though I just met you. 269 00:09:45,625 --> 00:09:47,125 - Yeah, it's kind of like that comfort level 270 00:09:47,208 --> 00:09:48,583 right from the get-go. 271 00:09:48,667 --> 00:09:50,167 Definitely the good conversation helps. 272 00:09:50,208 --> 00:09:52,792 Like, I feel like we didn't stop talking at all yesterday, 273 00:09:52,875 --> 00:09:54,875 so that definitely helped. 274 00:09:54,958 --> 00:09:56,417 - I'm just looking forward to getting to know you more. 275 00:09:56,500 --> 00:09:57,917 - I know. I agree. 276 00:09:58,042 --> 00:09:59,458 I think we're just, like, scratching the surface. 277 00:09:59,542 --> 00:10:00,958 Even though we've been talking about a lot, 278 00:10:01,042 --> 00:10:03,333 it's like there's still so much more to find out. 279 00:10:03,375 --> 00:10:05,042 - Yeah. 280 00:10:05,125 --> 00:10:08,792 So have you ever seen anybody that was older than you? 281 00:10:08,875 --> 00:10:11,167 - The oldest guy that I've gone on a date with, 282 00:10:11,250 --> 00:10:13,000 I think he was 41. 283 00:10:13,083 --> 00:10:15,792 I actually kind of like guys that are older than me. 284 00:10:15,875 --> 00:10:18,750 Just yeah, because the odds are a little higher 285 00:10:18,833 --> 00:10:20,458 that they'll be a little more mature 286 00:10:20,542 --> 00:10:21,750 or just have a little better idea 287 00:10:21,833 --> 00:10:24,333 of what they want out of life. 288 00:10:24,375 --> 00:10:26,333 - Yeah, I think us older men 289 00:10:26,375 --> 00:10:27,542 have a little bit more seasoning. 290 00:10:27,667 --> 00:10:29,292 - [laughing] Yeah. 291 00:10:29,292 --> 00:10:30,458 - Like, not just the salt and pepper in our hair. 292 00:10:30,542 --> 00:10:31,583 - Right, right. Yeah. 293 00:10:31,667 --> 00:10:34,292 - But we've been seasoned by life. 294 00:10:34,375 --> 00:10:37,167 Having the ten-year age gap, 295 00:10:37,208 --> 00:10:40,000 that's definitely somewhat of a concern for me. 296 00:10:40,042 --> 00:10:42,208 I do want to, you know, have a family soon. 297 00:10:42,292 --> 00:10:45,500 That is something that is in the back of my mind. 298 00:10:45,583 --> 00:10:47,875 So I do have to worry about that a little bit. 299 00:10:47,958 --> 00:10:50,500 But right now, I'm really looking forward 300 00:10:50,625 --> 00:10:53,833 to getting to learn more about Camille. 301 00:10:53,917 --> 00:10:55,875 - Yeah, my sister, I talked to her last night. 302 00:10:55,958 --> 00:10:58,000 She's like, I can't believe he's 42. 303 00:10:58,083 --> 00:11:01,833 Like, I literally-- I thought he was like 30 or 32. 304 00:11:01,917 --> 00:11:03,417 So-- - I get it from my mama. 305 00:11:03,500 --> 00:11:05,125 - Yeah. [laughs] 306 00:11:08,208 --> 00:11:10,375 [upbeat music] 307 00:11:10,500 --> 00:11:12,667 - ♪ You make me happy 308 00:11:12,708 --> 00:11:15,083 - Good morning there. - Morning. 309 00:11:15,208 --> 00:11:16,125 - How are you? 310 00:11:16,208 --> 00:11:17,958 - I can't believe you went to the gym. 311 00:11:18,042 --> 00:11:20,125 - [laughs] Something that just makes me happy in the morning. 312 00:11:20,125 --> 00:11:22,000 - Yeah. - Gets the body going. 313 00:11:22,083 --> 00:11:24,125 And I figured you could sleep in a little bit. 314 00:11:24,125 --> 00:11:26,917 - Right. I feel like I have, like, zero energy, 315 00:11:26,917 --> 00:11:28,833 but maybe if I would have gone-- 316 00:11:28,917 --> 00:11:30,083 - Nah, that might have made you even more tired, though. 317 00:11:30,167 --> 00:11:31,625 - That's true. 318 00:11:31,708 --> 00:11:32,500 - Did you hear me get out of the bed last night? 319 00:11:32,583 --> 00:11:33,958 - No, I didn't. 320 00:11:34,042 --> 00:11:36,417 And I felt like I did not sleep very well. 321 00:11:36,500 --> 00:11:38,125 Like, I think it was just like-- 322 00:11:38,208 --> 00:11:39,500 I was, like, so tired. 323 00:11:39,583 --> 00:11:40,500 But then, like-- and I wasn't even, 324 00:11:40,583 --> 00:11:41,875 like, thinking of anything. 325 00:11:41,958 --> 00:11:43,958 I feel like I just, like, laid here, like, blank. 326 00:11:44,042 --> 00:11:46,208 - Yeah, I tossed and turned. 327 00:11:46,292 --> 00:11:47,917 And then obviously, you heard me snoring, 328 00:11:48,000 --> 00:11:50,000 so I do apologize, but-- - Oh, OK. 329 00:11:50,042 --> 00:11:52,375 - And then sure as [bleep] I lay back in bed 330 00:11:52,375 --> 00:11:54,500 and I was about to doze off and my work alarm went off. 331 00:11:54,583 --> 00:11:56,125 - I did hear that. 332 00:11:56,208 --> 00:11:57,667 It was early, like 4:40. - Yeah. 333 00:11:57,750 --> 00:12:00,167 Yeah, 4:45 is typically when I wake up. 334 00:12:00,208 --> 00:12:02,167 Now I'm on second shift, which doesn't start till 2:00, 335 00:12:02,208 --> 00:12:05,125 so I don't have to leave my house until like 1:00. 336 00:12:05,208 --> 00:12:06,542 What time do you start work? - 8:30. 337 00:12:06,625 --> 00:12:08,000 - 8:30? 338 00:12:08,042 --> 00:12:09,875 - When do you think we'll see each other? 339 00:12:10,000 --> 00:12:13,875 - Um, bright and early when you wake up. 340 00:12:13,958 --> 00:12:16,583 I'll definitely be up around that 5:00, 6:00. 341 00:12:16,667 --> 00:12:17,792 My body's just set to that. - OK. 342 00:12:17,875 --> 00:12:19,750 - So we'll have our hours there. 343 00:12:19,833 --> 00:12:21,667 And then definitely have to communicate 344 00:12:21,708 --> 00:12:24,500 through telephone a lot. 345 00:12:24,542 --> 00:12:26,500 - Yeah. 346 00:12:26,500 --> 00:12:28,792 - But hopefully I'm not on this shift for too long. 347 00:12:28,875 --> 00:12:31,750 I've requested to go back on first shift, 348 00:12:31,833 --> 00:12:33,042 which will get me off at 2:30. - OK. 349 00:12:33,167 --> 00:12:35,667 - So I'll be home before you get off of work. 350 00:12:35,833 --> 00:12:37,583 [knock at door] 351 00:12:37,708 --> 00:12:40,042 - Ooh, breakfast. - Hello. 352 00:12:40,125 --> 00:12:45,917 ♪ 353 00:12:46,042 --> 00:12:48,708 - Yay. - Hey. Well, hello there. 354 00:12:48,792 --> 00:12:52,917 - Do you need help? 355 00:12:52,917 --> 00:12:56,500 - Thank you kindly. 356 00:12:56,542 --> 00:12:59,833 ♪ 357 00:12:59,875 --> 00:13:01,708 Nothing like breakfast in bed. - That's true. 358 00:13:01,708 --> 00:13:03,875 - [laughs] - Do you eat in bed? 359 00:13:03,958 --> 00:13:05,708 - I snack in bed. - OK. 360 00:13:05,708 --> 00:13:09,417 - How about yourself? - Mm, rarely. 361 00:13:09,417 --> 00:13:12,958 - Yeah, that is definitely what I'm going for right now. 362 00:13:19,208 --> 00:13:21,083 - Um... 363 00:13:21,167 --> 00:13:23,208 do you think, like, it's hard to date people, 364 00:13:23,208 --> 00:13:25,875 like, while you're living at home with your parents? 365 00:13:26,000 --> 00:13:27,125 Because I've like-- I'm like, thinking. 366 00:13:27,208 --> 00:13:30,000 I'm like, I don't know, like, someone in their-- 367 00:13:30,083 --> 00:13:31,917 - 30s. - 30s, high 30s... 368 00:13:32,042 --> 00:13:34,042 - I'm that guy. I always-- that's what I fear about. 369 00:13:34,125 --> 00:13:35,167 - Who like living with their parents. 370 00:13:35,333 --> 00:13:36,167 Like, to me, like, that's, like... 371 00:13:36,375 --> 00:13:38,042 - A red flag. - Not attractive. 372 00:13:38,125 --> 00:13:39,667 [suspenseful music] 373 00:13:39,708 --> 00:13:40,875 But I hope that's not, like, 374 00:13:40,958 --> 00:13:42,917 your plan for, like, the rest of-- 375 00:13:42,917 --> 00:13:44,708 - Oh, no, definitely not the plan of my rest of my life. 376 00:13:44,792 --> 00:13:46,667 I could have moved out a long time ago. 377 00:13:46,667 --> 00:13:48,375 - Yeah, yeah. 378 00:13:48,458 --> 00:13:51,042 - But why am I gonna go pay when I could just save money 379 00:13:51,167 --> 00:13:53,250 literally just waking up, using a bed? 380 00:13:53,333 --> 00:13:57,708 Like, it's literally a little dungeon down there. 381 00:13:57,792 --> 00:13:59,125 I'm cool with it. I'm happy. 382 00:13:59,208 --> 00:14:00,292 - But is there, like, a kitchen and stuff? 383 00:14:00,375 --> 00:14:02,000 - Yeah, I got a kitchen. I got a bathroom. 384 00:14:02,042 --> 00:14:03,625 I got a laundry room. I got two bedrooms. 385 00:14:03,708 --> 00:14:05,000 It's like kind of a own apartment. 386 00:14:05,125 --> 00:14:06,750 They have their own entrance and I have my own. 387 00:14:06,875 --> 00:14:09,667 So, like, I don't ever run into my parents. 388 00:14:09,750 --> 00:14:12,167 Michelle is being completely honest with me, 389 00:14:12,292 --> 00:14:15,000 and that's something that I've asked for in marriage. 390 00:14:15,083 --> 00:14:16,833 But financially, for me, 391 00:14:16,917 --> 00:14:19,000 I choose to live at my parents' house. 392 00:14:19,042 --> 00:14:20,542 Hopefully she can come around to that 393 00:14:20,625 --> 00:14:22,833 because I know that I could be a great husband. 394 00:14:22,833 --> 00:14:24,417 But at the same time, we just got married. 395 00:14:24,500 --> 00:14:28,125 She doesn't know me, I don't know her, so I get it. 396 00:14:28,208 --> 00:14:29,875 I'm very independent. - Yeah. 397 00:14:30,000 --> 00:14:31,958 - So don't worry. 398 00:14:32,375 --> 00:14:37,500 ♪ 399 00:14:41,625 --> 00:14:44,250 - ♪ Baby, baby, slow down and don't rush ♪ 400 00:14:44,333 --> 00:14:46,500 ♪ Honey, honey, show me your best stuff ♪ 401 00:14:46,500 --> 00:14:49,000 ♪ Honey, honey, show me your best stuff ♪ 402 00:14:49,125 --> 00:14:52,167 - We got married last night. 403 00:14:52,250 --> 00:14:54,167 - Saying it makes it more real. - Mm? 404 00:14:54,250 --> 00:14:56,375 - The more times you say it. - Mm-hmm. 405 00:14:56,542 --> 00:14:58,167 - It's like, eventually we have to go to work and be like, 406 00:14:58,292 --> 00:15:01,125 so my wife, she said this the other day. 407 00:15:01,208 --> 00:15:03,000 - I'm gonna be like, yeah, my husband. 408 00:15:03,083 --> 00:15:05,042 My husband was saying the other day. 409 00:15:05,125 --> 00:15:06,917 - How do you think your clients will-- 410 00:15:07,000 --> 00:15:08,708 your long-term clients, how you think-- 411 00:15:08,792 --> 00:15:10,042 - Oh, they're gonna be confused. 412 00:15:10,125 --> 00:15:12,750 - As hell. - They're gonna be confused. 413 00:15:12,833 --> 00:15:15,458 - When did this happen? Who is she? 414 00:15:15,542 --> 00:15:18,167 - Wait, when? What? - We've never heard about it. 415 00:15:18,208 --> 00:15:20,000 It's like, [bleep] I never heard about them, either. 416 00:15:20,125 --> 00:15:21,500 - Things happened very quickly. [laughs] 417 00:15:21,500 --> 00:15:22,833 - You know. 418 00:15:22,875 --> 00:15:24,167 - Things happened very quickly, you know? 419 00:15:24,250 --> 00:15:26,750 - So how did you sleep last night? 420 00:15:26,875 --> 00:15:29,333 - I slept good. Can't complain. 421 00:15:29,375 --> 00:15:30,750 - I don't even know why I asked that question, 422 00:15:30,875 --> 00:15:32,417 because you wouldn't wake up. 423 00:15:32,500 --> 00:15:35,000 - I needed some extra hours, you know? 424 00:15:35,083 --> 00:15:36,958 You got to sleep in at least once. 425 00:15:37,042 --> 00:15:38,875 - I mean, I slept in just-- 426 00:15:38,958 --> 00:15:40,875 no, I'm lying. - [laughs] 427 00:15:41,000 --> 00:15:42,458 - I'm usually up. I'm usually at the gym. 428 00:15:42,542 --> 00:15:44,792 - OK, that makes sense. That makes sense. 429 00:15:44,875 --> 00:15:46,667 - Because that's like the coffee for me. 430 00:15:46,792 --> 00:15:48,583 I don't drink coffee. - Me neither. 431 00:15:48,667 --> 00:15:52,458 - So, like, I have to go wake up in the gym. 432 00:15:52,542 --> 00:15:55,167 I don't want to talk, though. I just want to, like, work out. 433 00:15:55,250 --> 00:15:57,167 - You just want to work out. 434 00:15:57,208 --> 00:15:58,500 You're not one of those people who wakes up like, 435 00:15:58,583 --> 00:15:59,500 good morning! - Hell no. 436 00:15:59,542 --> 00:16:01,833 - Hi, how are you? - Did I wake you up? 437 00:16:01,917 --> 00:16:03,833 - No, no. - No, it's not gonna happen. 438 00:16:03,917 --> 00:16:06,000 But, I mean, I'm usually up 5:00, 6:00. 439 00:16:06,083 --> 00:16:07,333 And especially the last two weeks, 440 00:16:07,375 --> 00:16:09,417 I really hadn't slept. - Oh, yeah? 441 00:16:09,500 --> 00:16:12,250 - Yeah, so it was like, wake up at 4:00, stare at the wall. 442 00:16:12,250 --> 00:16:15,417 What's she gonna be like? - [laughs] 443 00:16:15,500 --> 00:16:18,000 - My issue and my thought was that, like, 444 00:16:18,083 --> 00:16:19,917 what if I'm not enough for her? - Mm. 445 00:16:20,000 --> 00:16:21,208 - Like, when she comes down the aisle, 446 00:16:21,292 --> 00:16:24,542 she look at me and be like, what y'all did? 447 00:16:24,625 --> 00:16:26,375 - You know, that was the number one thing I said. 448 00:16:26,500 --> 00:16:28,000 I was like, what if he's not attracted to me? 449 00:16:28,083 --> 00:16:29,333 They like, what do you mean? 450 00:16:29,417 --> 00:16:31,708 I said not everyone likes everyone, OK? 451 00:16:31,792 --> 00:16:34,333 - What I know is, like, 452 00:16:34,375 --> 00:16:37,625 last night while you were sleeping, our skin touched. 453 00:16:37,708 --> 00:16:38,958 - Ooh! 454 00:16:39,083 --> 00:16:42,000 - My God, today. - [laughs] 455 00:16:42,083 --> 00:16:45,417 - My God in heaven. [laughs] 456 00:16:45,500 --> 00:16:48,667 - We didn't do nothing, but-- [laughs] 457 00:16:48,708 --> 00:16:50,000 - No, we did. 458 00:16:50,042 --> 00:16:52,250 What do you mean? We connected physically. 459 00:16:52,333 --> 00:16:53,917 - Far more intimate. - That counts. 460 00:16:54,042 --> 00:16:56,792 - ♪ Loving you is all I want to do, yeah ♪ 461 00:16:56,875 --> 00:16:59,167 ♪ All I want to do 462 00:16:59,292 --> 00:17:00,833 - You should probably get up and get ready 463 00:17:00,875 --> 00:17:03,375 since you have to go meet with my family. 464 00:17:03,458 --> 00:17:05,667 - Yeah. I don't really want to go, though. 465 00:17:05,708 --> 00:17:07,958 - Oh, my God, Ikechi. 466 00:17:08,042 --> 00:17:11,708 Why would you--why would you-- [laughter] 467 00:17:11,792 --> 00:17:12,792 You don't want to leave me? 468 00:17:12,792 --> 00:17:15,292 - That's what it is. - Mm, OK. 469 00:17:15,417 --> 00:17:17,208 [laughs] 470 00:17:17,292 --> 00:17:18,417 ♪ 471 00:17:18,500 --> 00:17:19,875 - You not supposed to encourage this. 472 00:17:19,958 --> 00:17:21,875 [laughter] 473 00:17:21,958 --> 00:17:25,875 - ♪ You gave me goosebumps 474 00:17:26,000 --> 00:17:27,250 ♪ Oh-oh-oh 475 00:17:27,333 --> 00:17:29,542 ♪ You give me goosebumps 476 00:17:29,625 --> 00:17:33,833 - Hello! How's it going? 477 00:17:33,917 --> 00:17:36,000 It's good to see you guys. 478 00:17:36,083 --> 00:17:37,708 - Welcome, welcome. - How you doing? 479 00:17:37,833 --> 00:17:39,333 Good to see you. - Lovely, lovely. 480 00:17:39,417 --> 00:17:41,208 - Good morning. 481 00:17:41,333 --> 00:17:44,042 - Well, you look beautiful. - Oh, thank you. 482 00:17:44,125 --> 00:17:45,792 A little recovered from yesterday. 483 00:17:45,875 --> 00:17:47,000 - [chuckles] - Yeah. 484 00:17:47,083 --> 00:17:48,792 - Did you--did you feel the difference now 485 00:17:48,875 --> 00:17:50,667 that it's like husband and wife? 486 00:17:50,750 --> 00:17:52,333 Did that click? Is it hitting? 487 00:17:52,417 --> 00:17:54,500 - I feel like it's still kind of surreal. 488 00:17:54,583 --> 00:17:56,167 You know? - Yeah. 489 00:17:56,292 --> 00:17:58,458 - Yesterday was crazy and it brought it all to life. 490 00:17:58,542 --> 00:17:59,667 But I think, like, waking up today, I was like, 491 00:17:59,750 --> 00:18:01,375 oh, I haven't slept with somebody next to me 492 00:18:01,458 --> 00:18:03,875 in so long that wasn't, like, a friend of mine. 493 00:18:04,042 --> 00:18:06,125 - Right. - So, like, it was good. 494 00:18:06,208 --> 00:18:07,667 It was nice. 495 00:18:07,708 --> 00:18:10,375 - How did you feel about the families last night? 496 00:18:10,375 --> 00:18:12,917 Were you surprised? Were you happy with it? 497 00:18:13,000 --> 00:18:15,167 - I was extremely relieved. 498 00:18:15,292 --> 00:18:18,417 I mean, hugely important to me is, you know, blending 499 00:18:18,500 --> 00:18:22,208 and sharing those connected family moments and stuff. 500 00:18:22,292 --> 00:18:24,667 You know, as, you know, this works out 501 00:18:24,708 --> 00:18:26,917 and kids came into the picture down the road, 502 00:18:27,000 --> 00:18:28,542 you have a Christmas or something. 503 00:18:28,625 --> 00:18:30,250 We're OK, now which house do we go to, you know? 504 00:18:30,375 --> 00:18:32,167 - How soon do you want kids? 505 00:18:32,250 --> 00:18:33,667 - I mean-- - You know, you're 35. 506 00:18:33,750 --> 00:18:35,000 Do you want kids next year? 507 00:18:35,208 --> 00:18:37,333 - I'd say two years would probably be the soonest. 508 00:18:37,417 --> 00:18:40,292 - So and that brings up a delicate question. 509 00:18:40,375 --> 00:18:41,833 - [chuckling] Oh, OK. 510 00:18:41,875 --> 00:18:43,500 - Topic of sex. 511 00:18:43,583 --> 00:18:45,333 And then I think it's super important 512 00:18:45,417 --> 00:18:47,625 before you guys decide to be intimate at all 513 00:18:47,708 --> 00:18:50,833 that you get tested. 514 00:18:50,958 --> 00:18:52,333 [quirky tense music] 515 00:18:52,417 --> 00:18:53,750 - [chuckling] Am I red? - You are. 516 00:18:53,875 --> 00:18:55,375 - A little bit, yeah. - It's hot in here. 517 00:18:55,375 --> 00:18:58,208 - Well, it's not every time your wife's dad asks that. 518 00:18:58,292 --> 00:19:00,417 No, yeah, no, actually, number one, 519 00:19:00,500 --> 00:19:03,375 I haven't really been sexually active for a while. 520 00:19:03,458 --> 00:19:05,333 I was with the same person for four years. 521 00:19:05,417 --> 00:19:10,292 But because I want to show her that she could trust me, 522 00:19:10,375 --> 00:19:12,917 I think, like, three weeks ago was when I went in. 523 00:19:13,000 --> 00:19:14,958 So. - Fantastic. 524 00:19:15,042 --> 00:19:17,000 Madison still needs to see the results. 525 00:19:17,042 --> 00:19:18,583 - No, we're on the same page, so. 526 00:19:18,667 --> 00:19:20,292 - Great. 527 00:19:20,375 --> 00:19:22,625 That's a good basis, a good foundation for trust. 528 00:19:22,708 --> 00:19:24,250 - Yeah. 529 00:19:24,333 --> 00:19:26,167 - Allen wants a family. - Yeah. 530 00:19:26,250 --> 00:19:28,500 - He wants somebody who will support him and be loyal. 531 00:19:28,542 --> 00:19:29,667 - Yeah. 532 00:19:29,750 --> 00:19:31,000 - So are you looking at this as just, like, 533 00:19:31,125 --> 00:19:33,458 kind of an adventure or-- 534 00:19:33,542 --> 00:19:35,500 - No, I think that's a very valid question. 535 00:19:35,542 --> 00:19:38,292 I--like, I've gone into this wholeheartedly, 536 00:19:38,375 --> 00:19:40,250 like, wanting a partner out of it 537 00:19:40,333 --> 00:19:42,458 and a, you know, a lifelong commitment. 538 00:19:42,542 --> 00:19:44,208 And marrying a stranger is not conventional, 539 00:19:44,292 --> 00:19:46,208 by any means, to do that. 540 00:19:46,208 --> 00:19:49,125 But, you know, I have had a really hard time dating 541 00:19:49,125 --> 00:19:52,833 and finding people to want to commit in my past 542 00:19:52,917 --> 00:19:55,042 and, you know, want to actually put in that effort 543 00:19:55,125 --> 00:19:58,250 for, you know, a long-term relationship. 544 00:19:58,333 --> 00:20:00,375 And we both have put ourselves out there 545 00:20:00,458 --> 00:20:01,917 and we're wanting-- 546 00:20:02,042 --> 00:20:05,500 we're wanting the same end goal here: to find our person. 547 00:20:05,583 --> 00:20:07,500 - I'm curious. 548 00:20:07,542 --> 00:20:10,125 Would I have a chance with her just walking down the street? 549 00:20:10,208 --> 00:20:11,417 - No. - No? 550 00:20:11,500 --> 00:20:12,417 - No. - Absolutely not. 551 00:20:12,500 --> 00:20:14,375 - OK. - No chance. 552 00:20:14,375 --> 00:20:16,125 - [laughs] But she--physically, she does have a type. 553 00:20:16,208 --> 00:20:17,583 Pretty boy. 554 00:20:17,667 --> 00:20:20,042 And so I think you're complete opposite of that. 555 00:20:20,125 --> 00:20:21,958 - OK. 556 00:20:22,042 --> 00:20:25,125 - So initially, my initial reaction was like, oh, my gosh. 557 00:20:25,208 --> 00:20:26,917 But then when you started talking, 558 00:20:27,000 --> 00:20:29,042 your personality was like-- 559 00:20:29,125 --> 00:20:31,708 completely won me over. - [chuckles] 560 00:20:31,833 --> 00:20:33,583 - You seem like you know what you're doing, 561 00:20:33,667 --> 00:20:36,000 and you're, like, at that level 562 00:20:36,083 --> 00:20:37,375 to be able to commit to somebody. 563 00:20:37,542 --> 00:20:38,792 And I think that's what she needs. 564 00:20:38,875 --> 00:20:40,333 - It seems like there's a spark there. 565 00:20:40,458 --> 00:20:41,458 You know... - Yeah. 566 00:20:41,542 --> 00:20:44,417 - This could be something. 567 00:20:44,500 --> 00:20:49,125 - You need to support him, to love him. 568 00:20:49,250 --> 00:20:52,125 - I think that's-- - To relax him for me. 569 00:20:52,208 --> 00:20:54,042 - Yeah. - I'm sure she-- 570 00:20:54,125 --> 00:20:55,375 I'm sure she will. 571 00:20:55,500 --> 00:20:57,000 She'll--she'll do a great job at that. 572 00:20:57,083 --> 00:20:58,708 - [sobs] - But-- 573 00:20:58,792 --> 00:21:00,500 - Yeah. 574 00:21:00,542 --> 00:21:02,167 - Don't cry. This is a good time. 575 00:21:02,292 --> 00:21:03,500 - Yeah, it's all good. - This is a good moment. 576 00:21:03,583 --> 00:21:05,875 - I'm just--because she's--she's so wonderful. 577 00:21:06,000 --> 00:21:07,042 - [chuckling] Aw. - Yeah, no. 578 00:21:07,125 --> 00:21:08,542 - Thank you. 579 00:21:08,708 --> 00:21:10,792 - They're already married. [laughter] 580 00:21:10,875 --> 00:21:13,500 - Yeah, we said I do. 581 00:21:13,583 --> 00:21:16,500 - We need a successful, good marriage. 582 00:21:16,583 --> 00:21:18,875 - I'm so hopeful for me and Allen, but I also-- 583 00:21:18,958 --> 00:21:20,458 you know, I don't want to break his mother's heart 584 00:21:20,542 --> 00:21:21,792 if it doesn't work out 585 00:21:21,875 --> 00:21:23,500 and I don't want to break his friends' hearts. 586 00:21:23,583 --> 00:21:26,625 And, you know, I want it to be a hopeful, 587 00:21:26,708 --> 00:21:28,292 you know, union between us. 588 00:21:28,375 --> 00:21:30,292 But I also don't want to let anybody down. 589 00:21:30,375 --> 00:21:31,333 And I love that they're already so supportive. 590 00:21:31,417 --> 00:21:32,917 It's really great. 591 00:21:33,042 --> 00:21:35,125 But it also scares the [bleep] out of me. [laughs] 592 00:21:35,208 --> 00:21:36,417 - He has a really good heart. - Yeah? 593 00:21:36,542 --> 00:21:38,125 - He'll try everything to make it work. 594 00:21:38,208 --> 00:21:40,000 - He will. - He's a dreamer, right? 595 00:21:40,083 --> 00:21:42,292 So for him, it's gonna happen. 596 00:21:42,292 --> 00:21:43,583 We're gonna be staying married. 597 00:21:43,667 --> 00:21:45,333 There's gonna be babies, puppies, like... 598 00:21:45,375 --> 00:21:46,792 - Yeah, yeah. - All that good stuff, right? 599 00:21:46,875 --> 00:21:49,208 - I--I do just want to be, like, a super realist. 600 00:21:49,333 --> 00:21:50,708 Like, we don't know anything about each other. 601 00:21:50,833 --> 00:21:52,292 - Right, exactly. - We have no idea. 602 00:21:52,375 --> 00:21:55,625 Like, all we have is one day and I want both of us 603 00:21:55,708 --> 00:21:59,417 to go in this with, you know, optimistic expectations 604 00:21:59,500 --> 00:22:01,458 for us and our marriage. 605 00:22:01,542 --> 00:22:03,375 But we have a lot to, you know, get through. 606 00:22:03,458 --> 00:22:04,708 And, like, marriage is a lifetime. 607 00:22:04,833 --> 00:22:06,000 - Yeah, definitely. 608 00:22:06,375 --> 00:22:07,667 - And we need to see if we are compatible. 609 00:22:07,708 --> 00:22:08,708 - Yeah. 610 00:22:08,708 --> 00:22:09,792 [uneasy music] 611 00:22:13,458 --> 00:22:14,458 - ♪ It's all or nothing 612 00:22:14,750 --> 00:22:15,542 - ♪ Looking good when you look my way ♪ 613 00:22:15,833 --> 00:22:17,333 ♪ Looking good every single day ♪ 614 00:22:17,333 --> 00:22:19,417 ♪ Looks like together we look good ♪ 615 00:22:19,500 --> 00:22:22,208 - Man, how you doing? - I'm good. 616 00:22:22,208 --> 00:22:23,250 - Yeah. 617 00:22:23,333 --> 00:22:25,292 - Hello. - Hey, hey. 618 00:22:25,375 --> 00:22:26,417 - How are you? - How are you? 619 00:22:26,500 --> 00:22:27,833 - How are you? 620 00:22:27,917 --> 00:22:29,500 [upbeat music] 621 00:22:29,542 --> 00:22:31,042 - How y'all feeling? - Good, good, man. 622 00:22:31,125 --> 00:22:32,708 Tired, tired. How about yourself? 623 00:22:32,792 --> 00:22:34,167 - I'm even more tired than y'all. 624 00:22:34,250 --> 00:22:37,667 I promise you. - I am positive of that. 625 00:22:37,792 --> 00:22:40,125 We used to waking up married, though, so. 626 00:22:40,208 --> 00:22:41,625 - Yeah. [Ikechi laughs] 627 00:22:41,708 --> 00:22:43,167 - Right. - How was that? 628 00:22:43,208 --> 00:22:45,667 - It was new. It was real new. 629 00:22:45,750 --> 00:22:47,708 For one, she did not wake up, 630 00:22:47,833 --> 00:22:51,667 so it was really on some knocked out seven alarms. 631 00:22:51,708 --> 00:22:53,042 You know, I was just like, so you... 632 00:22:53,208 --> 00:22:54,375 - Yeah. - You don't want to get that? 633 00:22:54,500 --> 00:22:56,583 Like, it was-- it was really real. 634 00:22:56,708 --> 00:22:59,000 - So the night went smoothly? 635 00:22:59,042 --> 00:23:00,250 - Yes, it did. - OK. 636 00:23:00,333 --> 00:23:01,833 - We passed out. 637 00:23:01,875 --> 00:23:03,167 - Yeah? [laughter] 638 00:23:03,250 --> 00:23:05,042 - Passed out. - We went to sleep-sleep. 639 00:23:05,125 --> 00:23:06,250 - I said it's about to get good. 640 00:23:06,333 --> 00:23:08,250 Y'all did what? OK, all right. 641 00:23:08,333 --> 00:23:09,500 - To sleep-sleep. - Yeah, sleep-sleep. 642 00:23:09,625 --> 00:23:11,125 - I'm talking about underneath-- 643 00:23:11,208 --> 00:23:12,917 - Not before a little conversation, though, right? 644 00:23:13,000 --> 00:23:15,625 - Ah, I wish we got to talk. - No conversation? 645 00:23:15,708 --> 00:23:17,833 - We got to chat a little bit. - OK. 646 00:23:17,917 --> 00:23:21,000 - But not as much as we-- we both were just so exhausted. 647 00:23:21,083 --> 00:23:22,333 - OK. - Yeah. 648 00:23:22,417 --> 00:23:23,917 - So what did you learn night one? 649 00:23:24,000 --> 00:23:25,667 - Night one. - Ooh. 650 00:23:25,750 --> 00:23:27,708 - I learned that he's an early riser. [laughs] 651 00:23:27,792 --> 00:23:29,167 - He's an early riser? - Yes. 652 00:23:29,250 --> 00:23:31,417 - Oh, goodness. - He wakes up early. 653 00:23:31,500 --> 00:23:33,500 - OK. - Yes, but it was good. 654 00:23:33,625 --> 00:23:35,458 It was--it was a great night. - Yeah. 655 00:23:35,542 --> 00:23:36,833 - OK. - Mm-hmm. 656 00:23:36,875 --> 00:23:39,542 - What--what made you want to get married? 657 00:23:39,625 --> 00:23:44,458 - Uh, it's been a desire for a while. 658 00:23:44,542 --> 00:23:45,958 I have been engaged. 659 00:23:46,042 --> 00:23:47,833 I've been engaged once about 12 years ago. 660 00:23:47,917 --> 00:23:49,458 It was actually my last relationship. 661 00:23:49,542 --> 00:23:51,333 And I'll be honest. 662 00:23:51,458 --> 00:23:54,833 I'm the person that sabotaged the relationship. 663 00:23:54,875 --> 00:23:57,375 - How so? - What does that mean? 664 00:23:57,458 --> 00:24:01,875 - Being 25 and not knowing yourself 665 00:24:02,000 --> 00:24:03,167 but then telling someone that you're in love with them. 666 00:24:03,292 --> 00:24:04,833 - Mm-hmm. 667 00:24:04,917 --> 00:24:07,708 - It was a growth process that I was not ready for, 668 00:24:07,792 --> 00:24:10,125 and in the process, I hurt someone. 669 00:24:10,208 --> 00:24:11,708 - Mm. - You know? 670 00:24:11,708 --> 00:24:14,333 It was a mutual decision to not be married. 671 00:24:14,375 --> 00:24:16,292 It didn't hurt any less, you know? 672 00:24:16,375 --> 00:24:19,708 It was still a grieving process, 673 00:24:19,792 --> 00:24:23,375 mourning and depression, the whole thing. 674 00:24:23,500 --> 00:24:25,417 At the same time, I found myself, like, 675 00:24:25,542 --> 00:24:28,250 kind of stopping myself from getting further 676 00:24:28,375 --> 00:24:30,292 than a certain point with people. 677 00:24:30,375 --> 00:24:31,833 - In just kind of hearing you talking, 678 00:24:31,958 --> 00:24:33,917 I am wondering, what have you learned 679 00:24:34,000 --> 00:24:36,667 about yourself having a former fiancée 680 00:24:36,750 --> 00:24:39,375 and now you're in this situation? 681 00:24:39,542 --> 00:24:41,500 - I learned to listen. 682 00:24:41,625 --> 00:24:45,667 When people tell me things, I believe them. 683 00:24:45,750 --> 00:24:47,958 It's like, if you tell me, oh, I'm crazy, 684 00:24:48,042 --> 00:24:49,500 and you like, no, you're not crazy... 685 00:24:49,542 --> 00:24:50,542 [Krissy laughs] 686 00:24:50,625 --> 00:24:52,000 Then the crazy comes out, 687 00:24:52,083 --> 00:24:53,958 and you be like, wow, she wasn't lying, you know? 688 00:24:54,042 --> 00:24:55,375 - Yeah. 689 00:24:55,458 --> 00:24:56,833 - And at this point, like, 690 00:24:56,917 --> 00:24:59,792 I don't have the energy to waste on nonsense. 691 00:24:59,875 --> 00:25:02,542 I mean, I've met more people who are dope. 692 00:25:02,625 --> 00:25:05,417 They just weren't for me. 693 00:25:05,500 --> 00:25:07,583 - So he is an author 694 00:25:07,667 --> 00:25:12,167 and he has become rather popular on social media. 695 00:25:12,250 --> 00:25:15,917 So how would you feel running into people and they know him? 696 00:25:16,000 --> 00:25:18,542 And he's a poet as well, you know? 697 00:25:18,625 --> 00:25:22,208 So I guess I'm trying to put it mildly. 698 00:25:22,208 --> 00:25:23,667 The ladies love. [laughs] 699 00:25:23,750 --> 00:25:25,500 - Ladies love. - Yes. 700 00:25:25,583 --> 00:25:27,208 What's gonna be your approach to-- 701 00:25:27,333 --> 00:25:28,583 - I would say... 702 00:25:28,708 --> 00:25:30,375 - Staying secure in where you guys are? 703 00:25:30,458 --> 00:25:32,333 - He's gonna make sure that I'm secure in where we are. 704 00:25:32,417 --> 00:25:34,125 - OK, OK. 705 00:25:34,208 --> 00:25:37,375 - I'm not worried about anybody who sees him on the street. 706 00:25:37,458 --> 00:25:40,750 As long as he makes me feel comfortable, I'll stay there. 707 00:25:40,833 --> 00:25:42,625 - OK. - I'll stay right there. 708 00:25:42,625 --> 00:25:45,417 But I do want to ask you guys, why is he still single? 709 00:25:45,500 --> 00:25:46,667 Why is he not-- 710 00:25:46,792 --> 00:25:49,000 - I keep asking the same question. 711 00:25:49,083 --> 00:25:53,292 But my husband always says Ike is looking for a unicorn. 712 00:25:53,375 --> 00:25:55,458 He's looking for something that's totally different. 713 00:25:55,542 --> 00:25:56,958 - Mm-hmm. 714 00:25:57,042 --> 00:25:58,708 - And I think he's looking for perfection. 715 00:25:58,875 --> 00:26:01,875 And perfection doesn't exist, in my opinion. 716 00:26:01,958 --> 00:26:02,958 - Yeah. 717 00:26:03,042 --> 00:26:04,042 - There are some things 718 00:26:04,125 --> 00:26:05,708 that you're not gonna like about each other, 719 00:26:05,792 --> 00:26:07,000 but every day, you're gonna choose to be together. 720 00:26:07,000 --> 00:26:08,083 - Yeah. 721 00:26:08,167 --> 00:26:09,958 - So it's just finding someone that-- 722 00:26:09,958 --> 00:26:11,167 - Chooses. 723 00:26:11,208 --> 00:26:12,583 - Chooses to be with you 724 00:26:12,708 --> 00:26:14,042 and is gonna choose to be with you every day. 725 00:26:14,125 --> 00:26:15,667 - Mm. - Yeah. 726 00:26:15,750 --> 00:26:16,958 - That was actually part of my vows, to be honest. 727 00:26:17,042 --> 00:26:19,667 - I know. I loved it. - To be honest, to be honest. 728 00:26:19,750 --> 00:26:22,458 - So Emem kind of talked about it yesterday. 729 00:26:22,542 --> 00:26:24,458 You tried to go on "Married at First Sight" 730 00:26:24,542 --> 00:26:27,458 in Houston and now doing it in Chicago, 731 00:26:27,542 --> 00:26:28,958 going through all of this twice. 732 00:26:29,042 --> 00:26:32,167 Like, I'm just gonna ask it bluntly. 733 00:26:32,292 --> 00:26:35,542 Like, is this really you ready for marriage, 734 00:26:35,625 --> 00:26:40,083 looking for love, or is this an opportunity? 735 00:26:40,167 --> 00:26:42,333 - Not to, like, shade your question, 736 00:26:42,417 --> 00:26:44,958 but I don't know if you know anything about the process, 737 00:26:45,042 --> 00:26:47,500 but it is not a-- it's not light, you know? 738 00:26:47,583 --> 00:26:49,583 - Yeah. - It's--it's homework. 739 00:26:49,708 --> 00:26:52,583 And at the same time as a Black man, 740 00:26:52,667 --> 00:26:56,000 it's not the easiest thing for us to be vulnerable. 741 00:26:56,083 --> 00:27:00,792 So my wanting to do "Married at First Sight" 742 00:27:00,875 --> 00:27:05,375 was like, hey, we want love. 743 00:27:05,458 --> 00:27:07,042 We want marriage. 744 00:27:07,125 --> 00:27:09,667 But, like, how do you find people in this day and age? 745 00:27:09,750 --> 00:27:12,375 This was the most vulnerable. 746 00:27:12,500 --> 00:27:17,875 Like, you have to be so open to the possibility of failing 747 00:27:17,958 --> 00:27:21,125 in front of millions and millions of people. 748 00:27:21,208 --> 00:27:22,958 I promise you, if-- 749 00:27:23,042 --> 00:27:27,167 if I saw it any other way, I would have done that first. 750 00:27:27,292 --> 00:27:28,917 - Oh. That's cool. 751 00:27:29,000 --> 00:27:30,292 I mean, obviously, we gonna be feeling you out. 752 00:27:30,375 --> 00:27:32,167 Like, you know? - I expect it. 753 00:27:32,250 --> 00:27:36,958 - I mean, not the FBI or anything, but pretty close. 754 00:27:37,042 --> 00:27:38,667 - ♪ I just want to make a, make a change ♪ 755 00:27:38,708 --> 00:27:42,000 [upbeat music] 756 00:27:42,042 --> 00:27:45,000 ♪ 757 00:27:45,083 --> 00:27:46,833 - So I bring this pad of paper 758 00:27:46,875 --> 00:27:49,375 because literally I can't remember everything, 759 00:27:49,375 --> 00:27:52,833 but I am detailed-orientated that I want to remember 760 00:27:53,000 --> 00:27:55,500 and it means, to me, a lot that I'm gonna remember 761 00:27:55,583 --> 00:27:57,000 things about you... - Yes. Oh, I love that. 762 00:27:57,083 --> 00:27:58,333 - Instead of ask you over and over again. 763 00:27:58,333 --> 00:27:59,417 - Yeah. 764 00:27:59,500 --> 00:28:00,542 - I don't want to overwhelm you. 765 00:28:00,625 --> 00:28:01,750 - It feels intimidating, but I like it. 766 00:28:01,833 --> 00:28:03,750 I like your style. [laughs] 767 00:28:03,833 --> 00:28:07,750 - All right, let's see. 768 00:28:07,833 --> 00:28:09,792 What would be a pet peeve for you? 769 00:28:09,875 --> 00:28:11,417 - I don't like when men wear flip-flops. 770 00:28:11,500 --> 00:28:14,000 I don't know why that's a pet peeve, but it's a weird one. 771 00:28:14,083 --> 00:28:16,250 - [laughs] - What are his? 772 00:28:16,333 --> 00:28:17,875 Like, what would he answer? 773 00:28:18,000 --> 00:28:21,833 - I think his pet peeve is if he doesn't get to work out. 774 00:28:21,875 --> 00:28:24,292 - Oh, he woke up this morning and worked out. 775 00:28:24,375 --> 00:28:26,667 - Yeah, that's his thing. - And food right after. 776 00:28:26,750 --> 00:28:29,167 - Yeah, OK. Like, he's like routine. 777 00:28:29,250 --> 00:28:30,875 Like, always has a routine. - Yeah. 778 00:28:31,042 --> 00:28:32,625 - Is there anything you want to know about David? 779 00:28:32,708 --> 00:28:35,583 - Right after the ceremony, we walked out 780 00:28:35,583 --> 00:28:37,208 and, like, right away, he kind of was like, 781 00:28:37,292 --> 00:28:40,542 just so you know, like, I live with my parents. 782 00:28:40,625 --> 00:28:41,917 And then he was like, and I smoke. 783 00:28:42,000 --> 00:28:44,208 And I'm like, whoa, whoa, whoa. [laughs] 784 00:28:44,292 --> 00:28:45,375 Why do you think he, like, 785 00:28:45,458 --> 00:28:46,583 wanted to get that off his chest so quickly? 786 00:28:46,667 --> 00:28:47,417 - Because I think he was concerned-- 787 00:28:47,500 --> 00:28:49,042 I think he's concerned 788 00:28:49,167 --> 00:28:52,167 that the living at home with the parents. 789 00:28:52,208 --> 00:28:54,000 - Yeah, OK. - But it's an apartment. 790 00:28:54,125 --> 00:28:55,542 It's his own apartment downstairs. 791 00:28:55,667 --> 00:28:57,667 - Yeah, OK. - He's his own individual. 792 00:28:57,708 --> 00:29:00,125 It's not because he has to depend on us. 793 00:29:00,208 --> 00:29:01,750 - Yeah. - He's an independent person. 794 00:29:01,833 --> 00:29:05,333 - OK. - He's ready to be on his own. 795 00:29:05,375 --> 00:29:08,750 My biggest fear, and it has been from the beginning, 796 00:29:08,750 --> 00:29:11,000 is I just don't want to see him getting hurt. 797 00:29:11,125 --> 00:29:12,500 - Yeah. 798 00:29:12,625 --> 00:29:14,875 - Because he is going 100% into this. 799 00:29:15,000 --> 00:29:17,042 - Yeah. And I don't want to do that. 800 00:29:17,125 --> 00:29:19,875 Like, for the record, I do feel like he is, 801 00:29:20,000 --> 00:29:22,458 like, fully in this, which is great, 802 00:29:22,542 --> 00:29:24,542 because I feel like I've got, like, a couple of hesitations, 803 00:29:24,625 --> 00:29:26,208 so I'm worried about that. 804 00:29:26,208 --> 00:29:28,375 - Meaning? 805 00:29:28,458 --> 00:29:30,167 Are you not 100% in? 806 00:29:30,292 --> 00:29:32,417 [suspenseful music] 807 00:29:32,500 --> 00:29:33,833 - I just think I-- 808 00:29:33,875 --> 00:29:35,833 - Are you skeptical? - I'm overwhelmed. 809 00:29:35,833 --> 00:29:37,750 Like, I'm like-- - OK. 810 00:29:37,833 --> 00:29:39,000 - Like, he's still a stranger to me. 811 00:29:39,125 --> 00:29:40,458 - Right now it's like the-- 812 00:29:40,542 --> 00:29:42,333 - I mean, he's-- he's so easygoing. 813 00:29:42,417 --> 00:29:43,625 - Yeah. 814 00:29:43,708 --> 00:29:44,833 I think if David's fully committed, 815 00:29:44,917 --> 00:29:47,583 which he is, and if she's just giving halfway 816 00:29:47,583 --> 00:29:49,958 and not her authentic self and if she does break his heart, 817 00:29:50,042 --> 00:29:52,167 it does concern me because he's moving forward, 818 00:29:52,250 --> 00:29:53,875 and he's grown through this process. 819 00:29:53,958 --> 00:29:56,292 So I don't want to see him take steps back. 820 00:29:56,375 --> 00:29:58,333 - Are you happy with what you've seen so far? 821 00:29:58,375 --> 00:30:00,000 - Yeah, I'm happy. 822 00:30:00,083 --> 00:30:02,333 I just feel like it's like information overload right now. 823 00:30:02,417 --> 00:30:05,208 Like, I haven't had time to process a lot of things. 824 00:30:05,208 --> 00:30:06,833 And, like, my intentions are pure, 825 00:30:06,917 --> 00:30:08,667 and I hope this works out. - Good. That's all we need. 826 00:30:08,750 --> 00:30:10,042 - Because that means a lot. - Yeah. 827 00:30:10,125 --> 00:30:12,292 - It means a lot. - Right. 828 00:30:12,375 --> 00:30:13,750 [upbeat music] 829 00:30:13,875 --> 00:30:15,167 - That's all a parent can ask for, right? 830 00:30:15,208 --> 00:30:16,167 - Yep. 831 00:30:16,292 --> 00:30:19,167 ♪ 832 00:30:23,542 --> 00:30:24,708 - ♪ It's all or nothing 833 00:30:24,708 --> 00:30:25,833 - ♪ So I take one step closer ♪ 834 00:30:25,833 --> 00:30:27,875 ♪ Put my heart on the line 835 00:30:27,875 --> 00:30:29,667 ♪ 'Cause I don't want to be on my own ♪ 836 00:30:30,042 --> 00:30:31,500 - Where are you sitting? 837 00:30:31,583 --> 00:30:32,958 - I am sitting right here, and then you guys can sit. 838 00:30:33,083 --> 00:30:35,417 - Perfect. - OK. 839 00:30:35,500 --> 00:30:36,792 - And how was your morning this morning? 840 00:30:36,875 --> 00:30:38,833 - Good. - Pretty good. 841 00:30:38,875 --> 00:30:41,167 How about you? - We were a little exhausted. 842 00:30:41,250 --> 00:30:43,042 I actually was able to make it up 843 00:30:43,125 --> 00:30:45,167 and go to the gym this morning. 844 00:30:45,250 --> 00:30:47,833 - Yeah. - [chuckles] Still surreal. 845 00:30:47,875 --> 00:30:49,375 Processing everything. 846 00:30:49,458 --> 00:30:51,125 You know, when I went to the gym this morning, 847 00:30:51,208 --> 00:30:53,125 see the ring in the mirror, the reflection, I was like, 848 00:30:53,208 --> 00:30:55,125 wow, you know, I'm-- I'm actually married. 849 00:30:55,208 --> 00:30:56,917 I have a wife. 850 00:30:57,000 --> 00:30:58,667 So I'm taking it all in, 851 00:30:58,708 --> 00:31:02,667 still trying to figure out 852 00:31:02,750 --> 00:31:05,667 how to get to know her better. 853 00:31:05,708 --> 00:31:07,042 - How do you think she feels about you? 854 00:31:07,125 --> 00:31:09,167 - That is tough to answer. 855 00:31:09,292 --> 00:31:11,083 - Are you feeling-- are you getting vibes 856 00:31:11,208 --> 00:31:13,000 from her about how she's feeling? 857 00:31:13,083 --> 00:31:15,958 - I'm getting some vibes. She was very overwhelmed. 858 00:31:16,042 --> 00:31:18,583 So at this point, I want to do everything in my power 859 00:31:18,708 --> 00:31:21,500 to show her that I can be the man for her 860 00:31:21,583 --> 00:31:23,542 and the husband that she's been looking for. 861 00:31:23,542 --> 00:31:24,500 - Patience is key. 862 00:31:24,583 --> 00:31:26,042 - Mm-hmm. - Yeah. 863 00:31:26,167 --> 00:31:27,167 - Our parents were divorced when we were five, 864 00:31:27,250 --> 00:31:28,917 so we grew up in an all-female home. 865 00:31:29,042 --> 00:31:30,417 I mean, we've been doing everything 866 00:31:30,500 --> 00:31:32,167 on our own as females. 867 00:31:32,208 --> 00:31:35,167 And Michelle's very successful on her own. 868 00:31:35,208 --> 00:31:37,667 - Yes. Has she lived with anyone else? 869 00:31:37,792 --> 00:31:39,042 - No, she's-- - So this will be the first? 870 00:31:39,042 --> 00:31:40,167 - Always supported herself. 871 00:31:40,250 --> 00:31:42,000 - OK. - Very independent. 872 00:31:42,042 --> 00:31:44,500 - I have lived with another significant other before, 873 00:31:44,542 --> 00:31:47,542 but right now, I do live in my parents' basement. 874 00:31:47,625 --> 00:31:49,500 - OK. Do you pay rent? Are you paying bills? 875 00:31:49,583 --> 00:31:50,875 - I do pay rent. I pay bills. 876 00:31:50,958 --> 00:31:52,833 I have my insurance. I have student loans. 877 00:31:52,875 --> 00:31:56,167 But I just choose to live there. 878 00:31:56,250 --> 00:31:58,333 - I'm sure the issue of you living at home 879 00:31:58,458 --> 00:32:01,500 probably didn't go over well with her. 880 00:32:01,625 --> 00:32:04,708 I think she would probably-- 881 00:32:04,792 --> 00:32:06,833 I think Michelle's just more like 882 00:32:06,958 --> 00:32:09,833 she wants someone who can, you know, 883 00:32:09,917 --> 00:32:11,833 be on their own, you know, 884 00:32:11,958 --> 00:32:13,667 show the capability that they can. 885 00:32:13,708 --> 00:32:15,458 And--you know, and I'm not questioning 886 00:32:15,542 --> 00:32:17,333 that you can afford to be on your own or anything like that. 887 00:32:17,375 --> 00:32:18,958 Obviously, that's none of my business, 888 00:32:19,042 --> 00:32:21,000 but I'm sure that's something she's thinking about. 889 00:32:21,042 --> 00:32:22,417 - Oh, yeah, I definitely-- 890 00:32:22,542 --> 00:32:24,833 I definitely have the opportunity and can. 891 00:32:24,833 --> 00:32:28,667 But I definitely hear that in her voice and the hesitation 892 00:32:28,792 --> 00:32:31,125 in regards to that this morning when we were talking. 893 00:32:31,208 --> 00:32:34,000 - What was her reaction? What did she actually-- 894 00:32:34,083 --> 00:32:36,167 - Um, she was just hesitant. 895 00:32:36,250 --> 00:32:37,500 She said she was very hesitant 896 00:32:37,542 --> 00:32:40,167 in the whole "living with the parent" thing. 897 00:32:40,250 --> 00:32:42,833 And it kind of stopped there just for the simple fact 898 00:32:42,958 --> 00:32:44,458 she is overwhelmed with everything. 899 00:32:44,542 --> 00:32:46,417 I think I came off the gun a little too hot 900 00:32:46,500 --> 00:32:48,208 with, like, certain things, asking her questions 901 00:32:48,292 --> 00:32:49,375 because I wanted to get to know her. 902 00:32:49,500 --> 00:32:50,708 I was anxious, you know? 903 00:32:50,792 --> 00:32:52,458 This buildup of see who you're getting married to 904 00:32:52,542 --> 00:32:56,042 and who they are and what they're like, how they feel. 905 00:32:56,125 --> 00:32:57,708 But she has mentioned to me 906 00:32:57,875 --> 00:33:01,167 that I am moving a little too fast for her. 907 00:33:01,292 --> 00:33:04,083 - Yeah, you might honestly be a little too pushy for her. 908 00:33:04,208 --> 00:33:05,667 Like, pump the brakes. 909 00:33:05,750 --> 00:33:07,917 [tense music] 910 00:33:08,042 --> 00:33:09,917 - Yeah, and she-- and she stated that-- 911 00:33:09,917 --> 00:33:10,917 that was one of her-- - Yeah. 912 00:33:11,000 --> 00:33:12,667 - Like, she guards-- 913 00:33:12,708 --> 00:33:14,167 - She's just like--it's like you need to tell her something, 914 00:33:14,208 --> 00:33:15,542 and then she needs to, like... - Process it. 915 00:33:15,625 --> 00:33:17,708 - Take it in, and, like, you know, analyze it. 916 00:33:17,708 --> 00:33:19,000 - That's what she was saying. - And then be like, oh, OK. 917 00:33:19,167 --> 00:33:20,500 Like, this is good. 918 00:33:20,542 --> 00:33:22,333 Like, we can, you know, work through this. 919 00:33:22,417 --> 00:33:23,833 But then when you come with so much information, 920 00:33:23,875 --> 00:33:27,833 she just doesn't respond to that very well. 921 00:33:27,875 --> 00:33:29,583 It's almost like baby steps. 922 00:33:29,667 --> 00:33:32,542 - When you talk, it flows out real fast. 923 00:33:32,625 --> 00:33:36,083 And after a while, you've lost her attention. 924 00:33:36,167 --> 00:33:37,792 When she starts getting quiet, 925 00:33:37,917 --> 00:33:39,833 then that's your sign that it's-- 926 00:33:39,917 --> 00:33:41,167 - Yeah, shut the [bleep] up. 927 00:33:41,250 --> 00:33:43,333 [laughter] - That's right. 928 00:33:43,417 --> 00:33:45,792 [upbeat music] 929 00:33:45,875 --> 00:33:48,208 - ♪ Bring joy 930 00:33:48,292 --> 00:33:50,042 ♪ Every day of your life 931 00:33:50,125 --> 00:33:52,417 ♪ Spread love 932 00:33:52,500 --> 00:33:55,292 - How is your day? - Very good. 933 00:33:55,375 --> 00:33:57,417 - Very good, very good so far. - Good, good, good. 934 00:33:57,500 --> 00:33:58,833 - How are y'all? - Good. How are you? 935 00:33:58,917 --> 00:33:59,958 - Good to see you. - Buenos días. 936 00:34:00,042 --> 00:34:01,500 - How are you? - How are you doing? 937 00:34:01,542 --> 00:34:03,542 - Estoy bien. 938 00:34:03,625 --> 00:34:04,750 - Did you enjoy yesterday? 939 00:34:04,833 --> 00:34:06,333 - Oh, yeah. - Yeah. 940 00:34:06,417 --> 00:34:07,333 - So good. - It was excellent. 941 00:34:07,417 --> 00:34:10,250 - It was amazing. - Yes, good. 942 00:34:10,250 --> 00:34:12,500 My family loved everyone. 943 00:34:12,542 --> 00:34:14,167 Everyone was so happy. 944 00:34:14,208 --> 00:34:15,708 - It was really special. 945 00:34:15,833 --> 00:34:18,000 I think that, like, both families, 946 00:34:18,083 --> 00:34:20,125 like, have, like, really good connection. 947 00:34:20,208 --> 00:34:22,000 - Uh-huh, it just blended. 948 00:34:22,125 --> 00:34:24,292 So tell me about Juancho. 949 00:34:24,375 --> 00:34:26,667 - [chuckles] - What do you want to know? 950 00:34:26,708 --> 00:34:29,625 - Um, what makes him happy? 951 00:34:29,708 --> 00:34:33,417 - A lot of things. He's so happy all the time. 952 00:34:33,500 --> 00:34:36,917 - I think that he's happy, like, with everything. 953 00:34:36,917 --> 00:34:38,833 Like, the-- he really appreciate, 954 00:34:38,917 --> 00:34:41,583 like, little things in life. 955 00:34:41,583 --> 00:34:44,458 He is like, OK, I want to learn this or do this. 956 00:34:44,542 --> 00:34:47,417 And he's like, let's do it. - Right. 957 00:34:47,417 --> 00:34:50,167 - For example, he learned how to play guitar. 958 00:34:50,208 --> 00:34:51,625 - It was so funny. 959 00:34:51,708 --> 00:34:53,542 So yesterday, he played the guitar for me. 960 00:34:53,625 --> 00:34:55,833 And I promise you, when I used to talk-- 961 00:34:55,917 --> 00:34:57,333 I talk to God all the time. 962 00:34:57,458 --> 00:34:59,208 So I talk to God and I say, 963 00:34:59,292 --> 00:35:01,000 I want someone who plays instruments 964 00:35:01,083 --> 00:35:02,458 and I want him to sing to me. 965 00:35:02,542 --> 00:35:05,042 And then that's exactly what he did yesterday. 966 00:35:05,042 --> 00:35:06,500 - I want to know-- 967 00:35:06,542 --> 00:35:09,917 I want to know how you make your money. 968 00:35:10,042 --> 00:35:13,167 [suspenseful music] 969 00:35:13,208 --> 00:35:15,167 - Um, I'm a hairstylist, 970 00:35:15,333 --> 00:35:18,833 Pilates instructor, and sound healer. 971 00:35:18,875 --> 00:35:20,375 - And you feel good? You love it? 972 00:35:20,458 --> 00:35:21,667 - It's amazing. - You like it? 973 00:35:21,708 --> 00:35:24,667 I started my own business two years ago, 974 00:35:24,792 --> 00:35:26,167 so I'm looking to grow. 975 00:35:26,250 --> 00:35:28,333 - And are you flying or-- 976 00:35:28,417 --> 00:35:30,208 - I'm flying. I'm high. 977 00:35:30,292 --> 00:35:32,000 [laughter] I'm flying high. 978 00:35:32,167 --> 00:35:34,792 - And are you ready to help Mr. Juan? 979 00:35:34,875 --> 00:35:36,458 - Yeah. - Yeah? [chuckles] 980 00:35:36,542 --> 00:35:38,500 - He's building a business, I'm building a business. 981 00:35:38,542 --> 00:35:42,208 So obviously, we have to both contribute 982 00:35:42,208 --> 00:35:44,667 and we both have to make life work. 983 00:35:44,750 --> 00:35:47,708 But eventually when I do have children, 984 00:35:47,833 --> 00:35:51,875 I would like to be able to raise my children. 985 00:35:51,958 --> 00:35:54,833 - I'm curious to know, what are your expectations? 986 00:35:54,917 --> 00:35:57,750 Like, do you want Karla to work? 987 00:35:57,875 --> 00:35:59,583 How do you guys see that, 988 00:35:59,667 --> 00:36:01,750 or, like, how do you see your marriage with your wife? 989 00:36:01,833 --> 00:36:03,000 - [chuckling] Yeah, so-- 990 00:36:03,083 --> 00:36:04,167 - What are your expectations of that? 991 00:36:04,333 --> 00:36:06,250 - So at the moment, I need Karla to work 992 00:36:06,333 --> 00:36:08,083 just because I have a start-up. 993 00:36:08,167 --> 00:36:09,333 You know? - Yeah, yeah. 994 00:36:09,375 --> 00:36:11,458 - It's not easy, so I'm not-- I don't-- 995 00:36:11,458 --> 00:36:13,458 I'm not gonna need, like, her income to support me 996 00:36:13,542 --> 00:36:15,667 or anything like that type of situation. 997 00:36:15,708 --> 00:36:18,958 But we both have to contribute, you know? 998 00:36:19,083 --> 00:36:21,583 - OK. And then when it, you know, shoots in, 999 00:36:21,708 --> 00:36:24,333 everyone is using it, and it becomes this huge, 1000 00:36:24,375 --> 00:36:26,333 you know, app that everyone's using, 1001 00:36:26,458 --> 00:36:28,000 are you comfortable with Karla staying at home 1002 00:36:28,083 --> 00:36:29,500 and taking care of the children? 1003 00:36:29,542 --> 00:36:32,792 - I mean, you know, it depends on when that happens. 1004 00:36:32,875 --> 00:36:34,750 ♪ 1005 00:36:34,833 --> 00:36:38,917 - Juan spend 50% and you will spend 50%. 1006 00:36:39,042 --> 00:36:40,708 I believe that is the way. 1007 00:36:40,792 --> 00:36:42,542 But sometimes in my case-- 1008 00:36:42,625 --> 00:36:45,083 - So you believe in 50/50? - 50/50. 1009 00:36:45,208 --> 00:36:47,667 - I'm OK with 50/50. 1010 00:36:47,708 --> 00:36:51,542 Or I should say I feel in a marriage, it depends. 1011 00:36:51,542 --> 00:36:52,708 Right? - Yeah. 1012 00:36:52,792 --> 00:36:54,375 - Everything depends, everything depends. 1013 00:36:54,458 --> 00:36:58,208 If we are in a place where we both have to contribute, 1014 00:36:58,292 --> 00:37:00,625 I mean, obviously, we have to decide 1015 00:37:00,708 --> 00:37:03,375 what we want our lifestyle to look like 1016 00:37:03,458 --> 00:37:06,333 and then how we're both gonna make that happen. 1017 00:37:06,417 --> 00:37:08,667 If I want to be a gypsy in the jungle 1018 00:37:08,750 --> 00:37:11,208 and he wants a mansion... - Yeah. 1019 00:37:11,292 --> 00:37:13,500 - Then we need to figure that out. 1020 00:37:13,583 --> 00:37:16,333 So that's a conversation that needs to be had. 1021 00:37:16,458 --> 00:37:18,208 - All right. - Yes. 1022 00:37:18,333 --> 00:37:20,333 [upbeat music] 1023 00:37:20,500 --> 00:37:22,750 - ♪ I just want to shout it 1024 00:37:22,750 --> 00:37:23,958 ♪ Scream it 1025 00:37:24,042 --> 00:37:27,333 ♪ Make the world believe it 1026 00:37:27,375 --> 00:37:28,750 - Hey. [chuckles] - Hey. 1027 00:37:28,833 --> 00:37:32,417 - ♪ Something to believe in now ♪ 1028 00:37:32,500 --> 00:37:37,208 ♪ I needed something to believe in now ♪ 1029 00:37:37,292 --> 00:37:40,083 - So how'd the first night go? 1030 00:37:40,208 --> 00:37:42,083 - Really well. 1031 00:37:42,167 --> 00:37:43,917 We're having a good time, I think. 1032 00:37:44,042 --> 00:37:45,333 We relate on a lot of things. 1033 00:37:45,417 --> 00:37:46,833 We actually have a lot of things in common, 1034 00:37:46,958 --> 00:37:48,250 which I wasn't expecting. 1035 00:37:48,333 --> 00:37:50,250 - Was yesterday what you expected? 1036 00:37:50,333 --> 00:37:53,000 - It actually-- it exceeded my expectations. 1037 00:37:53,042 --> 00:37:54,458 It's only been one day, 1038 00:37:54,583 --> 00:37:56,667 but everything's been really, really amazing. 1039 00:37:56,750 --> 00:38:00,167 And I haven't seen any caution or red flags of my own. 1040 00:38:00,208 --> 00:38:02,792 - I hope that she's really able to, like, 1041 00:38:02,875 --> 00:38:04,292 be vulnerable with you. 1042 00:38:04,417 --> 00:38:07,542 Because when she does get upset, 1043 00:38:07,625 --> 00:38:10,833 she can get a little, like, on the defense. 1044 00:38:10,958 --> 00:38:12,458 So don't shut down 1045 00:38:12,542 --> 00:38:16,708 and definitely try to keep working through things. 1046 00:38:16,792 --> 00:38:18,500 - That's gonna be a struggle for both of us. 1047 00:38:18,583 --> 00:38:20,417 And it's not, like, my strong suit. 1048 00:38:20,500 --> 00:38:23,000 I try to avoid conflict if possible. 1049 00:38:23,042 --> 00:38:26,292 For the most part, what I've done is I've been silent. 1050 00:38:26,375 --> 00:38:28,958 So I let the other person do a lot of the talking. 1051 00:38:29,042 --> 00:38:32,375 But the problem with that is you bottle all these emotions. 1052 00:38:32,458 --> 00:38:34,167 You really haven't expressed yourself. 1053 00:38:34,167 --> 00:38:36,667 So then you build up this resentment 1054 00:38:36,750 --> 00:38:40,333 and this disdain towards the situation or the person. 1055 00:38:40,417 --> 00:38:42,917 - When things get rough or tough or whatever... 1056 00:38:43,000 --> 00:38:44,042 - Mm-hmm? 1057 00:38:44,125 --> 00:38:45,625 - How do you reassure me that 1058 00:38:45,708 --> 00:38:46,875 this might be different for you? 1059 00:38:47,000 --> 00:38:51,333 - I've had four years or so to work on myself 1060 00:38:51,375 --> 00:38:54,333 and really discover those things about me 1061 00:38:54,458 --> 00:38:56,167 that would lead me to those behaviors. 1062 00:38:56,292 --> 00:38:58,333 I put in the personal development 1063 00:38:58,375 --> 00:39:01,583 and I respect the institution of marriage. 1064 00:39:01,583 --> 00:39:04,333 And it's not something that you can just go into lightly. 1065 00:39:04,375 --> 00:39:06,333 - I am a little worried that 1066 00:39:06,375 --> 00:39:08,708 Camille could get her heart broken again. 1067 00:39:08,833 --> 00:39:12,417 She is counting on this so much to, 1068 00:39:12,500 --> 00:39:14,708 you know, be the final relationship. 1069 00:39:14,792 --> 00:39:17,000 So how do you know you're ready to be a husband? 1070 00:39:17,083 --> 00:39:18,833 - I feel like my last relationships 1071 00:39:18,875 --> 00:39:21,625 were a trial by fire. 1072 00:39:21,708 --> 00:39:25,042 I think I went in hesitant, like I always do. 1073 00:39:25,167 --> 00:39:26,542 And what I learned was 1074 00:39:26,625 --> 00:39:29,500 you can't keep your thoughts to yourself 1075 00:39:29,542 --> 00:39:31,750 regardless of how minor you think that may be, 1076 00:39:31,875 --> 00:39:33,833 because you guys have to know what each other are thinking. 1077 00:39:33,917 --> 00:39:36,708 But also, back to the vulnerability piece. 1078 00:39:36,708 --> 00:39:38,500 It can be scary. 1079 00:39:38,583 --> 00:39:40,750 It can be embarrassing to open up to someone 1080 00:39:40,833 --> 00:39:42,833 because there's that fear of rejection, 1081 00:39:42,875 --> 00:39:46,000 there's that fear of judgment, but you have to do it. 1082 00:39:46,042 --> 00:39:49,417 Because otherwise, you're not being intimate with the person. 1083 00:39:49,500 --> 00:39:51,458 I think that's the highest form of intimacy you can have 1084 00:39:51,542 --> 00:39:53,208 with a partner. 1085 00:39:53,292 --> 00:39:56,500 And that's how I try to go into conflict now. 1086 00:39:56,625 --> 00:39:58,833 - As a father, I've enjoyed meeting you, 1087 00:39:58,958 --> 00:40:01,167 but this is my daughter. 1088 00:40:01,250 --> 00:40:05,792 And I take this very seriously, what's happening with her. 1089 00:40:05,875 --> 00:40:09,000 My expectations are large. [chuckles] 1090 00:40:09,083 --> 00:40:11,792 So I hope that your intentions 1091 00:40:11,875 --> 00:40:16,333 and how you two work at your relationship 1092 00:40:16,417 --> 00:40:18,542 will be fulfilling for both of you. 1093 00:40:18,625 --> 00:40:21,542 I like what I'm seeing on the front end, 1094 00:40:21,625 --> 00:40:24,542 but, you know, I still got my guard up. 1095 00:40:24,625 --> 00:40:25,833 - I can talk all day, 1096 00:40:25,958 --> 00:40:27,750 but actions speak louder than words, 1097 00:40:27,875 --> 00:40:29,833 so I definitely want to earn you guys' trust as well. 1098 00:40:29,917 --> 00:40:32,333 And I think my actions will earn that trust. 1099 00:40:32,792 --> 00:40:36,333 - Your role in her life and your partnership with her 1100 00:40:36,375 --> 00:40:39,167 is something that you still got to earn to me. 1101 00:40:39,208 --> 00:40:40,917 I'm watching you, bro. 1102 00:40:45,125 --> 00:40:46,208 - ♪ It's all or nothing 1103 00:40:46,208 --> 00:40:47,083 - ♪ Got to make a change 1104 00:40:47,083 --> 00:40:48,083 ♪ Live your life 1105 00:40:48,167 --> 00:40:49,167 ♪ So you succeed 1106 00:40:49,250 --> 00:40:51,042 ♪ 1107 00:40:51,750 --> 00:40:53,417 - [sighs] How are you guys doing? 1108 00:40:53,500 --> 00:40:54,708 Thank you. 1109 00:40:54,833 --> 00:40:56,083 - We're feeling good. - Good. 1110 00:40:56,208 --> 00:40:57,542 - We're excited. 1111 00:40:57,625 --> 00:40:58,375 We just, like, have so many questions 1112 00:40:58,458 --> 00:41:00,000 running through our minds. 1113 00:41:00,125 --> 00:41:01,417 - I know, I know. 1114 00:41:01,500 --> 00:41:02,625 - And I'm sure you have a ton for us 1115 00:41:02,792 --> 00:41:04,750 to find out more about Tom. - Yeah, exactly. 1116 00:41:04,833 --> 00:41:07,000 Get a little more inside scoop. [laughter] 1117 00:41:07,083 --> 00:41:08,875 - When you met him, what did you think? 1118 00:41:09,000 --> 00:41:12,667 - How crazy it is that he fits literally, exactly, 1119 00:41:12,750 --> 00:41:14,750 like, what I'm looking for, what I need. 1120 00:41:14,875 --> 00:41:17,500 Just kind of like the core values that he holds 1121 00:41:17,583 --> 00:41:19,042 and, like, the things he wants out of life, 1122 00:41:19,042 --> 00:41:21,000 they're literally, like, exactly the same. 1123 00:41:21,083 --> 00:41:23,500 But we definitely have personality differences. 1124 00:41:23,625 --> 00:41:26,083 So I think kind of what I can bring to the table 1125 00:41:26,167 --> 00:41:27,375 is just the exact, like, 1126 00:41:27,542 --> 00:41:30,000 complement to him and vice versa. 1127 00:41:30,083 --> 00:41:31,792 And I can help bring him out of his shell more, 1128 00:41:31,792 --> 00:41:33,333 bring, like, that fun side to things. 1129 00:41:33,417 --> 00:41:34,833 Yeah. 1130 00:41:34,917 --> 00:41:36,708 - I really think my brother needs that. 1131 00:41:36,792 --> 00:41:38,792 But you may have to push him a little bit. 1132 00:41:38,875 --> 00:41:40,750 - So yeah, flipping the script, 1133 00:41:40,750 --> 00:41:43,375 what would you guys say if Tom's having a bad day 1134 00:41:43,458 --> 00:41:45,750 or if he has any, like, triggers or anything? 1135 00:41:45,833 --> 00:41:48,667 - Yeah, I think Tom likes joking, 1136 00:41:48,750 --> 00:41:51,708 but he doesn't like harsh criticism. 1137 00:41:51,792 --> 00:41:55,125 That will often cause him to pull away. 1138 00:41:55,208 --> 00:41:58,333 - Does he just get kind of quiet and then he needs space? 1139 00:41:58,333 --> 00:42:01,042 - He may just go be by himself. 1140 00:42:01,125 --> 00:42:04,208 It doesn't happen often, but just approach it gingerly. 1141 00:42:04,292 --> 00:42:05,792 - Yeah, it was one of those like, 1142 00:42:05,875 --> 00:42:07,792 it's scary to be vulnerable. 1143 00:42:07,875 --> 00:42:10,625 So that is something that I'm actively working on. 1144 00:42:10,708 --> 00:42:12,750 I think that he seems like he'll be a great person 1145 00:42:12,750 --> 00:42:14,833 to work on that with. 1146 00:42:14,917 --> 00:42:16,958 - He's definitely a good listener. 1147 00:42:17,042 --> 00:42:18,500 I will say that about Tom. - Oh, yes. 1148 00:42:18,542 --> 00:42:19,333 - That's good. Yeah, that's good. 1149 00:42:19,417 --> 00:42:20,750 That's what I need. 1150 00:42:20,875 --> 00:42:24,000 - I feel like I'm more of the aggressive type, 1151 00:42:24,083 --> 00:42:25,833 and he's more, like, receptive. - Mm-hmm. 1152 00:42:25,917 --> 00:42:29,667 - So like, it helps me and he makes me a better person. 1153 00:42:29,750 --> 00:42:33,125 So I hope that he can help you, and you both work on, 1154 00:42:33,208 --> 00:42:34,625 you know, each other's issues together. 1155 00:42:34,708 --> 00:42:36,000 - Yeah, yeah. - That makes me smile. 1156 00:42:36,125 --> 00:42:38,042 Because that's, like, literally exactly how 1157 00:42:38,167 --> 00:42:40,167 my sister would describe her and I's relationship. 1158 00:42:40,292 --> 00:42:43,042 She's kind of like a receive and unload kind of person, 1159 00:42:43,042 --> 00:42:45,750 whereas I'm just usually that, like, receptor. 1160 00:42:45,833 --> 00:42:47,333 - And then you're, like, digesting it. 1161 00:42:47,375 --> 00:42:49,000 - Yeah, exactly, yeah. It's funny. 1162 00:42:49,000 --> 00:42:51,500 We both have--we're both the sponges of our group. 1163 00:42:51,583 --> 00:42:53,125 So it's like, you know, it'll be-- 1164 00:42:53,208 --> 00:42:55,167 it'll be interesting to see, like, how much we can then, 1165 00:42:55,250 --> 00:42:56,583 like, pour back into each other 1166 00:42:56,708 --> 00:42:58,958 and allow that other person to be that for us. 1167 00:42:59,042 --> 00:43:00,167 - Yeah. 1168 00:43:00,208 --> 00:43:01,792 - I'm interested how, like, 1169 00:43:01,875 --> 00:43:04,583 if you do find out a bad habit or how would you approach that? 1170 00:43:04,667 --> 00:43:05,875 - You know, I feel like 1171 00:43:05,958 --> 00:43:07,750 it would depend on what the habit is. 1172 00:43:07,833 --> 00:43:09,250 - What the habit is. 1173 00:43:09,333 --> 00:43:12,417 - Like, he's very meticulous about how he eats. 1174 00:43:12,500 --> 00:43:14,250 How would you approach that? 1175 00:43:14,333 --> 00:43:16,250 - Yeah, you know, I think, like, 1176 00:43:16,250 --> 00:43:18,750 that's really just something that makes him him. 1177 00:43:18,875 --> 00:43:20,417 Eat your food however you want to. 1178 00:43:20,417 --> 00:43:21,500 You know, that won't necessarily, like, 1179 00:43:21,583 --> 00:43:23,083 directly affect me. 1180 00:43:23,208 --> 00:43:24,833 And I told him, ironically, like, I'm someone that, 1181 00:43:24,917 --> 00:43:27,500 like, eats pretty much one thing at a time. 1182 00:43:27,542 --> 00:43:29,208 - That is so funny that you both do that. 1183 00:43:29,292 --> 00:43:31,167 - Exactly. Yeah, so. 1184 00:43:31,208 --> 00:43:32,667 - That's amazing. 1185 00:43:32,708 --> 00:43:33,833 I got to ask you, what are your intentions? 1186 00:43:33,958 --> 00:43:35,458 What do you want out of this? 1187 00:43:35,542 --> 00:43:37,833 - Yeah, I definitely-- it sounds cliché, 1188 00:43:37,833 --> 00:43:41,333 but I really am just looking for that lifelong partner 1189 00:43:41,458 --> 00:43:44,708 that just kind of working through highs and lows together 1190 00:43:44,792 --> 00:43:48,083 and just--yeah, really just that companion. 1191 00:43:48,208 --> 00:43:50,625 - Anything specific that happened in relationships 1192 00:43:50,708 --> 00:43:54,583 in your past that made you say, OK, I need to do this? 1193 00:43:54,667 --> 00:43:56,667 - For me, it was-- yeah, just kind of like 1194 00:43:56,708 --> 00:43:58,250 the last relationship was just kind of the last straw. 1195 00:43:58,333 --> 00:43:59,750 Like, all right, I don't know what I'm doing here. 1196 00:43:59,833 --> 00:44:02,000 Like, it was almost like that-- 1197 00:44:02,083 --> 00:44:03,458 it would just be perfect if someone could just, 1198 00:44:03,542 --> 00:44:04,667 like, pick someone for me. 1199 00:44:04,750 --> 00:44:06,000 - It's crazy, but it's working, right? 1200 00:44:06,083 --> 00:44:07,333 - Yeah, I know. 1201 00:44:07,417 --> 00:44:08,250 - Like, they did a great job, right? 1202 00:44:08,333 --> 00:44:09,625 - I know. - So. 1203 00:44:09,708 --> 00:44:11,208 - You do know Tom wants children, right? 1204 00:44:11,292 --> 00:44:12,625 - Yep, and I do, too, yeah. 1205 00:44:12,708 --> 00:44:15,250 So that's definitely on my radar. 1206 00:44:15,375 --> 00:44:17,208 - Like in the next five years, the next two years? 1207 00:44:17,333 --> 00:44:18,875 What is your time frame? 1208 00:44:18,958 --> 00:44:20,875 - I would say probably within the next two years. 1209 00:44:21,000 --> 00:44:23,500 I think I would definitely be down for that, yeah. 1210 00:44:23,583 --> 00:44:24,875 - That's so great. - Isn't that exciting? 1211 00:44:24,958 --> 00:44:26,208 That's good news? - Yeah. 1212 00:44:26,292 --> 00:44:27,833 - That's great news, that's great news. 1213 00:44:27,875 --> 00:44:29,792 We're not getting any younger, you know? 1214 00:44:29,875 --> 00:44:33,250 I've been waiting to have a niece or nephew from Tom 1215 00:44:33,375 --> 00:44:34,750 because I'm like, ideally, 1216 00:44:34,875 --> 00:44:38,000 I wanted my kid to grow up with his kid. 1217 00:44:38,083 --> 00:44:40,583 - [laughs] For sure. No, that's awesome. 1218 00:44:40,667 --> 00:44:42,000 That's definitely something 1219 00:44:42,083 --> 00:44:44,292 that, you know, we both agree on. 1220 00:44:44,375 --> 00:44:47,500 - I think you're going to be a fantastic partner for Tom. 1221 00:44:47,542 --> 00:44:48,833 - Aw, thank you. - I really do. 1222 00:44:48,917 --> 00:44:50,750 - I love the positivity. Yeah, I appreciate that. 1223 00:44:50,875 --> 00:44:52,917 - I think you guys are a beautiful couple. 1224 00:44:53,042 --> 00:44:55,792 I just ask that you protect his heart 1225 00:44:55,875 --> 00:44:57,458 because he's gonna protect yours. 1226 00:44:57,542 --> 00:45:01,417 And just always keep each other in mind when you make decisions 1227 00:45:01,500 --> 00:45:04,292 and never leave each other in the dark, never close up. 1228 00:45:04,375 --> 00:45:05,667 - Yeah. 1229 00:45:05,750 --> 00:45:09,667 [upbeat music] 1230 00:45:09,667 --> 00:45:12,542 - ♪ Heads or tails 1231 00:45:12,625 --> 00:45:15,667 ♪ Baby, yeah, heads or tails 1232 00:45:15,750 --> 00:45:17,375 ♪ Oh, yeah 1233 00:45:17,500 --> 00:45:18,833 - How are you? - I'm good. 1234 00:45:18,917 --> 00:45:21,125 How are you? - Good, good. 1235 00:45:21,208 --> 00:45:24,167 Just came from sitting with your family. 1236 00:45:24,250 --> 00:45:27,125 Thank you. [chuckles] 1237 00:45:27,208 --> 00:45:27,958 Thank you. 1238 00:45:29,292 --> 00:45:31,000 - [sighs] - Ooh. 1239 00:45:31,083 --> 00:45:33,917 - So how was your lunch with my mom and Melvin? 1240 00:45:33,917 --> 00:45:36,333 - It was good. I learned a lot. 1241 00:45:36,375 --> 00:45:37,500 - Did you? - Yes, I did. 1242 00:45:37,583 --> 00:45:39,042 - You scared yet? 1243 00:45:39,167 --> 00:45:41,583 - [laughs] No, I'm not scared. 1244 00:45:41,667 --> 00:45:43,500 - What did they tell you? - You know. 1245 00:45:43,583 --> 00:45:47,625 Hoo, they said that, uh, you're looking for a unicorn. 1246 00:45:47,708 --> 00:45:49,833 - A unicorn? 1247 00:45:49,917 --> 00:45:52,542 - As it pertains to dating. 1248 00:45:52,667 --> 00:45:54,333 - I mean, who's not? 1249 00:45:54,375 --> 00:45:55,333 [upbeat music] 1250 00:45:55,417 --> 00:45:56,750 - OK. 1251 00:45:56,875 --> 00:45:59,167 Tell me a little bit more about this unicorn. 1252 00:45:59,208 --> 00:46:02,083 - I mean, it's a unicorn. Nobody ever seen them, so. 1253 00:46:02,208 --> 00:46:03,167 [chuckles] 1254 00:46:03,250 --> 00:46:04,625 ♪ 1255 00:46:04,708 --> 00:46:06,333 - Oh, thank you. 1256 00:46:06,417 --> 00:46:08,333 ♪ 1257 00:46:08,417 --> 00:46:12,000 Um, my ears did perk up a little bit when she mentioned, 1258 00:46:12,083 --> 00:46:16,167 you know, you were searching for a unicorn or perfection. 1259 00:46:16,250 --> 00:46:20,292 - You know, we can go with less mythical creatures. 1260 00:46:20,375 --> 00:46:21,708 - I am not perfect. 1261 00:46:21,792 --> 00:46:23,875 - And--and I think that's a-- 1262 00:46:23,958 --> 00:46:26,292 a reach, you know? - Mm-hmm. 1263 00:46:26,417 --> 00:46:29,208 - LEGO pieces come in different shapes, sizes, and colors. 1264 00:46:29,333 --> 00:46:30,750 - Yes, they do. - But they still fit together. 1265 00:46:30,875 --> 00:46:31,750 - Yes, they do. 1266 00:46:31,875 --> 00:46:33,167 - No matter the shape, 1267 00:46:33,250 --> 00:46:34,542 no matter the size, they still fit together. 1268 00:46:34,625 --> 00:46:36,250 - Mm-hmm. 1269 00:46:36,333 --> 00:46:37,750 - And I'm just really trying to find somebody that fits 1270 00:46:37,833 --> 00:46:41,667 and I fit them in a very reciprocated way. 1271 00:46:41,750 --> 00:46:42,583 Like, it's not just one-sided. 1272 00:46:42,667 --> 00:46:44,542 It has to be, like, 1273 00:46:44,667 --> 00:46:47,958 I balance you and you balance me. 1274 00:46:48,042 --> 00:46:48,917 - Tight. - You know what I mean? 1275 00:46:49,042 --> 00:46:52,292 - Mm-hmm. - So perfection is-- 1276 00:46:52,292 --> 00:46:53,667 it's impossible to do. 1277 00:46:53,708 --> 00:46:55,167 You know, it's impossible to find. 1278 00:46:55,292 --> 00:46:56,667 - Mm-hmm. 1279 00:46:56,750 --> 00:46:58,250 I ain't everybody's cup of tea, 1280 00:46:58,375 --> 00:47:00,875 but I'm somebody's Crown Royal on ice. 1281 00:47:00,875 --> 00:47:02,792 - No, right? [chuckles] 1282 00:47:02,875 --> 00:47:04,500 I like that. 1283 00:47:04,583 --> 00:47:06,917 - But I mean, I am looking for something that's dope. 1284 00:47:07,042 --> 00:47:08,667 Like, I mean, why wouldn't you? 1285 00:47:08,750 --> 00:47:10,750 Like, who--who--who-- - Who wants regular? 1286 00:47:10,833 --> 00:47:12,542 - Yeah. Who wants regular? - Who wants regular? 1287 00:47:12,625 --> 00:47:13,667 I don't want regular. - You know? 1288 00:47:13,667 --> 00:47:15,667 - [laughs] 1289 00:47:15,667 --> 00:47:20,042 But you are also looking for... 1290 00:47:20,125 --> 00:47:22,167 what's perfect for you. 1291 00:47:22,208 --> 00:47:26,083 And I'm hoping that, you know, during this process, 1292 00:47:26,167 --> 00:47:30,167 you see attributes in me that make you say, 1293 00:47:30,250 --> 00:47:33,667 OK, yeah, this is what I'm doing. 1294 00:47:33,750 --> 00:47:35,083 This is my wife. 1295 00:47:35,167 --> 00:47:36,792 I mean, technically, I am your wife. 1296 00:47:36,875 --> 00:47:38,833 - I mean, this is very, very true. 1297 00:47:38,958 --> 00:47:41,667 - [laughs] I am your wife, but yeah. 1298 00:47:41,708 --> 00:47:43,667 - I see these things, 1299 00:47:43,750 --> 00:47:45,917 intrinsic values that everybody don't have. 1300 00:47:46,000 --> 00:47:49,750 I can see success with you. 1301 00:47:49,750 --> 00:47:53,292 ♪ 1302 00:47:53,417 --> 00:47:55,208 - ♪ Sky's the limit 1303 00:47:55,292 --> 00:47:57,708 ♪ Yeah, I can just feel it 1304 00:47:57,792 --> 00:48:01,875 ♪ It's time to shine out louder ♪ 1305 00:48:01,958 --> 00:48:06,125 ♪ To find the one that's gonna take your heart ♪ 1306 00:48:06,208 --> 00:48:08,583 - Hello. - Well, hello there, gorgeous. 1307 00:48:08,708 --> 00:48:10,458 - How are you? - I'm doing wonderful. 1308 00:48:10,542 --> 00:48:12,417 How are you doing? - Good. 1309 00:48:12,500 --> 00:48:13,958 - Another espresso martini? 1310 00:48:14,042 --> 00:48:16,875 - Yep, another pick-me-up. - [laughs] 1311 00:48:16,958 --> 00:48:20,167 - 100%. - Aw. 1312 00:48:20,208 --> 00:48:23,042 - OK, so how was the brunch? 1313 00:48:23,167 --> 00:48:25,167 - Oh, brunch was good. - Yeah? 1314 00:48:25,208 --> 00:48:26,542 Did they hit you with the hard ones? 1315 00:48:26,667 --> 00:48:28,458 - They did. - Ooh. 1316 00:48:28,583 --> 00:48:29,667 - They did hit me. 1317 00:48:29,750 --> 00:48:31,083 One thing that came up was 1318 00:48:31,167 --> 00:48:32,292 you've been saying that you've been overwhelmed. 1319 00:48:32,417 --> 00:48:33,917 - Yeah. 1320 00:48:34,000 --> 00:48:35,792 - And I've gotten that and tried to express to them 1321 00:48:35,875 --> 00:48:39,125 that I may be rambling off a lot. 1322 00:48:39,208 --> 00:48:42,708 And they told me I just need to slow down the pace. 1323 00:48:42,792 --> 00:48:44,417 - I take a while to process. 1324 00:48:44,417 --> 00:48:47,833 - And that is what they were instilling 1325 00:48:47,875 --> 00:48:49,792 and nailing in me today. 1326 00:48:49,875 --> 00:48:52,333 And I was like, OK, I think I know the route 1327 00:48:52,375 --> 00:48:55,750 that I kind of want to take on that and-- 1328 00:48:55,875 --> 00:48:57,167 - What is that route? 1329 00:48:57,250 --> 00:48:58,833 - The route is just taking it day by day. 1330 00:48:58,917 --> 00:49:00,875 - Yeah. - Slower pace. 1331 00:49:00,958 --> 00:49:02,042 - Yeah. - And giving you time-- 1332 00:49:02,125 --> 00:49:03,958 - Music to my ears. - Yes. 1333 00:49:04,042 --> 00:49:06,042 And I'm willing to work at that pace. 1334 00:49:06,042 --> 00:49:08,167 - Have you had, like, a meltdown at all yet? 1335 00:49:08,208 --> 00:49:10,000 Like, have, like, you broken down 1336 00:49:10,042 --> 00:49:11,958 and be like, oh, my gosh, like-- 1337 00:49:11,958 --> 00:49:12,833 - Yeah, when I was in the shower this morning. 1338 00:49:12,958 --> 00:49:14,042 - OK. 1339 00:49:14,125 --> 00:49:15,833 - Sat in front of the mirror 1340 00:49:15,833 --> 00:49:17,000 and seeing the ring for the first time 1341 00:49:17,042 --> 00:49:20,875 and kind of the meltdown was just trying to like, 1342 00:49:20,958 --> 00:49:22,625 how does this work? 1343 00:49:22,708 --> 00:49:26,250 How, you know, do I get to know somebody so quick? 1344 00:49:26,333 --> 00:49:29,000 But yet in a matter of time where-- 1345 00:49:29,083 --> 00:49:30,458 - Yeah, like under pressure. 1346 00:49:30,542 --> 00:49:32,000 - I'm not pressing and yeah, and pressure. 1347 00:49:32,083 --> 00:49:33,417 And you know, I felt like yesterday, 1348 00:49:33,500 --> 00:49:36,458 when everything was done and we were just laying in bed, 1349 00:49:36,542 --> 00:49:39,167 I felt that was our calmest and realest moment. 1350 00:49:39,208 --> 00:49:41,500 - Yeah. Did you see my meltdown at the wedding? 1351 00:49:41,542 --> 00:49:42,833 - No, I did not. 1352 00:49:42,875 --> 00:49:45,292 - Oh, OK. I cried at the wedding. 1353 00:49:45,375 --> 00:49:47,042 - Oh, and when was--where? - Yeah. 1354 00:49:47,042 --> 00:49:48,958 - Was I not paying attention? Was I around? 1355 00:49:49,042 --> 00:49:50,708 - No, I was, like, talking to my friends 1356 00:49:50,792 --> 00:49:52,167 and then I got really embarrassed. 1357 00:49:52,292 --> 00:49:53,833 And I, like, didn't want everyone to see me crying. 1358 00:49:53,917 --> 00:49:55,125 So I to the bathroom for a little bit, 1359 00:49:55,208 --> 00:49:57,833 but then I just lost it. - This is news to my ears. 1360 00:49:57,833 --> 00:49:59,458 I thought you were all happy-go-lucky. 1361 00:49:59,542 --> 00:50:01,583 - I was trying very hard because I'm a people-pleaser 1362 00:50:01,583 --> 00:50:04,250 that I didn't want to, like, ruin the moment. 1363 00:50:04,333 --> 00:50:06,458 - Well, I--I definitely didn't notice. 1364 00:50:06,542 --> 00:50:08,375 And I do apologize, but at the same time-- 1365 00:50:08,458 --> 00:50:11,667 - No, I, like, kept it under wraps. 1366 00:50:11,750 --> 00:50:13,000 And, like, you're like, I'm all-in. 1367 00:50:13,083 --> 00:50:15,375 Like, no hesitations, no flags. 1368 00:50:15,375 --> 00:50:17,292 And I'm like, oh, my God, I just bawled my eyes out 1369 00:50:17,375 --> 00:50:19,458 ten times tonight, like, freaking out. 1370 00:50:19,542 --> 00:50:22,292 - Makes me, you know, wonder about the honeymoon 1371 00:50:22,292 --> 00:50:24,833 and if that's something that you're still thinking about 1372 00:50:24,917 --> 00:50:27,167 or would want to do. - Yeah, yeah. 1373 00:50:27,292 --> 00:50:30,083 - And that's a worry of mine. - Right. 1374 00:50:30,083 --> 00:50:31,875 Yeah, I'm planning on coming to the airport. 1375 00:50:31,875 --> 00:50:33,333 - All right, all right. 1376 00:50:33,417 --> 00:50:35,708 I can let my shoulders down and breathe a little bit. 1377 00:50:35,833 --> 00:50:37,625 I'm not a mind reader. 1378 00:50:37,625 --> 00:50:39,500 I don't want to piddle-paddle around [bleep]. 1379 00:50:39,625 --> 00:50:42,583 So she's just keeping it-- she's keeping it 100. 1380 00:50:42,708 --> 00:50:45,500 So I feel like we're moving in the right direction right now. 1381 00:50:45,583 --> 00:50:47,500 And hopefully, we can try to keep those thoughts 1382 00:50:47,542 --> 00:50:48,708 out of her head. 1383 00:50:48,792 --> 00:50:49,917 - OK, so what else? 1384 00:50:50,000 --> 00:50:51,042 - They also talked about 1385 00:50:51,167 --> 00:50:52,708 the whole living at home situation. 1386 00:50:52,792 --> 00:50:54,167 - OK. - Because they asked me-- 1387 00:50:54,208 --> 00:50:55,625 - I didn't know if they knew that. 1388 00:50:55,708 --> 00:50:56,875 - Well, I had told them. 1389 00:50:56,958 --> 00:50:58,833 They asked me what may be a problem. 1390 00:50:58,917 --> 00:51:02,042 So that was a little tough for me to express to them. 1391 00:51:02,125 --> 00:51:03,375 I'm not one to get embarrassed easily. 1392 00:51:03,500 --> 00:51:05,167 - Are you embarrassed that you live at home? 1393 00:51:05,208 --> 00:51:06,958 Or are you just embarrassed to tell people that? 1394 00:51:07,042 --> 00:51:08,833 - I'm not-- 1395 00:51:08,917 --> 00:51:10,708 I kind of am a little bit embarrassed to live at home. 1396 00:51:10,792 --> 00:51:12,333 I think just with the whole mama boy persona 1397 00:51:12,500 --> 00:51:14,083 and then living in the basement, 1398 00:51:14,167 --> 00:51:16,333 that kind of, like, one and one goes hand in hand. 1399 00:51:16,417 --> 00:51:18,458 So it's a little embarrassing, 1400 00:51:18,542 --> 00:51:19,958 but I don't want you to worry about it. 1401 00:51:20,042 --> 00:51:21,542 Like, I'm not that-- - I'm worried about it. 1402 00:51:21,625 --> 00:51:23,208 - I know, and I see it. 1403 00:51:23,333 --> 00:51:25,333 And I can--I don't know if there's anything I could say 1404 00:51:25,417 --> 00:51:28,625 or do or show you that I can-- 1405 00:51:28,708 --> 00:51:29,917 I don't want to be there. 1406 00:51:30,000 --> 00:51:32,125 I just-- I choose to live at home. 1407 00:51:32,208 --> 00:51:34,000 I have two incomes. 1408 00:51:34,125 --> 00:51:35,708 It's more, I was living on my own 1409 00:51:35,792 --> 00:51:38,292 for 2 1/2 years, and I just moved back eight months ago. 1410 00:51:38,292 --> 00:51:40,042 - Yeah. - Rather than paying, 1411 00:51:40,125 --> 00:51:42,208 you know, $1,700 for something, 1412 00:51:42,208 --> 00:51:43,500 for a one bedroom or studio in Chicago-- 1413 00:51:43,625 --> 00:51:45,500 I know how expensive it is-- it's like, 1414 00:51:45,625 --> 00:51:47,292 you know, I help my parents pay their mortgage 1415 00:51:47,375 --> 00:51:49,000 or their rent and whatnot. 1416 00:51:49,042 --> 00:51:51,208 So it's kind of more of that aspect as well. 1417 00:51:51,292 --> 00:51:54,000 But obviously, it is time to leave the nest. 1418 00:51:54,042 --> 00:51:55,208 We're gonna have more time to talk about it. 1419 00:51:55,292 --> 00:51:58,083 But I do want to give you security 1420 00:51:58,167 --> 00:51:59,708 that I know that I need to get out. 1421 00:51:59,708 --> 00:52:01,583 I don't want to stay there for the rest of my life. 1422 00:52:01,667 --> 00:52:02,958 So yeah. 1423 00:52:03,042 --> 00:52:04,958 - And I get that, for the record. 1424 00:52:05,042 --> 00:52:06,833 Like, I understand that you're-- 1425 00:52:06,917 --> 00:52:08,792 it was a question I had for your-- 1426 00:52:08,875 --> 00:52:09,875 - I'm sure you did. 1427 00:52:09,958 --> 00:52:11,500 - For your family as well. 1428 00:52:11,542 --> 00:52:14,708 But I think that, like, I'm, like, hung up on it. 1429 00:52:14,792 --> 00:52:16,292 Like-- 1430 00:52:16,375 --> 00:52:18,458 - And it's gonna take time to process. 1431 00:52:18,542 --> 00:52:20,083 I mean, we officially haven't been 1432 00:52:20,208 --> 00:52:21,583 married probably for 24 hours. 1433 00:52:21,667 --> 00:52:24,875 So I don't want that to be a major thing. 1434 00:52:25,000 --> 00:52:26,167 - See, I think it's a major thing. 1435 00:52:26,208 --> 00:52:27,458 - OK. - Yeah. 1436 00:52:27,542 --> 00:52:31,500 [tense music] 1437 00:52:31,625 --> 00:52:33,292 Like, I--like, I feel like that's the number-one thing 1438 00:52:33,375 --> 00:52:35,167 I'm hung up on. - OK. 1439 00:52:35,208 --> 00:52:37,167 - And I don't--you're saying all the right things. 1440 00:52:37,292 --> 00:52:39,417 Like, I do see. Like, I like the small things. 1441 00:52:39,542 --> 00:52:41,083 Like, you brought me a glass of water. 1442 00:52:41,167 --> 00:52:42,542 You, like, pick up my train. 1443 00:52:42,625 --> 00:52:44,000 Like, I do see those small things. 1444 00:52:44,125 --> 00:52:46,083 So I don't want you to think that just because I'm hung up 1445 00:52:46,208 --> 00:52:49,833 on the living at home, like, I don't recognize 1446 00:52:49,958 --> 00:52:51,625 all the other things. 1447 00:52:51,708 --> 00:52:53,458 Like, I want to, like, start, like, a life with you. 1448 00:52:53,542 --> 00:52:55,333 Like, you're saying the right things. 1449 00:52:55,375 --> 00:52:58,125 And I think now it's, like, on me, whether, like-- 1450 00:52:59,042 --> 00:53:01,000 how I deal with it. 1451 00:53:01,083 --> 00:53:04,125 ♪ 1452 00:53:10,417 --> 00:53:13,042 - ♪ It all comes back to you 1453 00:53:13,042 --> 00:53:16,833 ♪ Yeah, it all comes back to you ♪ 1454 00:53:16,958 --> 00:53:17,917 - Hello. - Hey. 1455 00:53:18,000 --> 00:53:19,167 - How's it going? 1456 00:53:19,208 --> 00:53:20,833 - Welcome. Welcome, welcome. 1457 00:53:20,917 --> 00:53:22,333 - Welcome. 1458 00:53:22,417 --> 00:53:24,833 - Long time no see. - I know. I know. 1459 00:53:24,875 --> 00:53:26,000 How was your day? 1460 00:53:26,083 --> 00:53:27,250 - It was a long day. 1461 00:53:27,333 --> 00:53:28,792 - Yeah, yeah. 1462 00:53:28,875 --> 00:53:30,875 - There was a couple questions, 1463 00:53:30,958 --> 00:53:33,208 you know, that, you know, your pops threw out, 1464 00:53:33,292 --> 00:53:36,875 the old sexually transmitted disease question. 1465 00:53:36,958 --> 00:53:38,500 - [laughs] - I'm glad it came up. 1466 00:53:38,583 --> 00:53:40,792 I did actually, a couple weeks back, 1467 00:53:40,875 --> 00:53:43,417 you know, I did-- I have a free and clear test. 1468 00:53:43,500 --> 00:53:45,125 - [laughing] OK, perfect. 1469 00:53:45,208 --> 00:53:46,792 Dad was satisfied with the answer? 1470 00:53:46,875 --> 00:53:48,292 - Yeah. 1471 00:53:48,375 --> 00:53:51,042 How did your conversation go with the-- 1472 00:53:51,167 --> 00:53:52,125 - Friends and fam? - Yeah. 1473 00:53:52,125 --> 00:53:53,792 - It was good. 1474 00:53:53,875 --> 00:53:55,208 Your friends and family definitely have, like, 1475 00:53:55,292 --> 00:53:57,125 a good, you know, perspective of you, 1476 00:53:57,208 --> 00:53:59,500 and they say you're very loving and caring. 1477 00:53:59,583 --> 00:54:02,125 And, you know, when you go into things, 1478 00:54:02,208 --> 00:54:03,458 you go into them full force and-- 1479 00:54:03,542 --> 00:54:04,667 - Yeah. 1480 00:54:04,792 --> 00:54:07,125 - One thing that your friends had mentioned 1481 00:54:07,208 --> 00:54:09,042 is that you're a little bit of a dreamer, 1482 00:54:09,125 --> 00:54:10,000 and not necessarily in a bad way. 1483 00:54:10,167 --> 00:54:11,417 - No, I am. 1484 00:54:11,542 --> 00:54:14,042 - But, like, I want to make sure 1485 00:54:14,125 --> 00:54:15,667 that we're, like-- 1486 00:54:15,750 --> 00:54:17,542 obviously, I'm not gonna tell you how you should feel, 1487 00:54:17,542 --> 00:54:19,333 but I want us to just be on that same page 1488 00:54:19,458 --> 00:54:20,667 of we're still just getting-- 1489 00:54:20,708 --> 00:54:21,667 we are getting to know each other. 1490 00:54:21,792 --> 00:54:23,333 - 1,000%. - We are husband and wife, 1491 00:54:23,375 --> 00:54:25,500 but, like, we're gonna run into things that aren't-- 1492 00:54:25,583 --> 00:54:27,292 we're not gonna necessarily agree on 1493 00:54:27,375 --> 00:54:29,000 or that we are gonna have to talk through. 1494 00:54:29,042 --> 00:54:31,125 And it could be big things. It could be little things. 1495 00:54:31,208 --> 00:54:34,125 And we, you know, will take it as it comes 1496 00:54:34,208 --> 00:54:37,792 and just be open and honest with each other along the way. 1497 00:54:37,875 --> 00:54:41,958 - I mean, so with that, you know, I mean, I guess, 1498 00:54:42,042 --> 00:54:44,667 like, physically, do you-- 1499 00:54:44,708 --> 00:54:46,167 is this, like, outside of your... 1500 00:54:46,292 --> 00:54:47,708 [both laugh] 1501 00:54:47,792 --> 00:54:52,250 Your comfort zone or-- or do you think, 1502 00:54:52,375 --> 00:54:56,417 you know, the attraction, you know, is there at all? 1503 00:54:56,500 --> 00:54:58,833 - Are you my typical type that I have dated? 1504 00:54:58,875 --> 00:55:00,500 Not necessarily. - Yeah. 1505 00:55:00,583 --> 00:55:03,917 - So, you know, it's different, but, like, 1506 00:55:04,042 --> 00:55:06,792 I don't think it's necessarily in a bad way, either. 1507 00:55:06,875 --> 00:55:08,833 So... - I don't know. 1508 00:55:08,917 --> 00:55:11,333 I don't really, I guess, know what a pretty boy is. 1509 00:55:11,375 --> 00:55:15,958 So how would-- what is a pretty boy? 1510 00:55:16,042 --> 00:55:17,792 [both laugh] 1511 00:55:17,875 --> 00:55:21,875 - Very, like, clean-shaven, like, overly groomed, I guess. 1512 00:55:22,000 --> 00:55:23,792 - OK. - Very, like, metro. 1513 00:55:23,875 --> 00:55:26,500 The pretty boy incorporated a lot of, like, the gym too. 1514 00:55:26,583 --> 00:55:27,958 - Yeah. 1515 00:55:28,042 --> 00:55:31,083 - So, like, that has been my typical type for a while. 1516 00:55:31,208 --> 00:55:34,667 But yeah, like, the attraction is definitely there, for sure. 1517 00:55:34,667 --> 00:55:37,500 - Glad to hear that. - Yeah. 1518 00:55:37,542 --> 00:55:40,500 - I'm just trying to, you know, I guess gauge 1519 00:55:40,583 --> 00:55:44,208 what makes Madison happy, you know? 1520 00:55:44,292 --> 00:55:47,167 - I think we have, you know, a great start... 1521 00:55:47,250 --> 00:55:48,958 - Yeah. 1522 00:55:49,042 --> 00:55:51,042 - To build something really cool and, like, amazing. 1523 00:55:51,125 --> 00:55:52,292 We just have so much to learn still 1524 00:55:52,375 --> 00:55:53,750 and so much to go through. 1525 00:55:53,833 --> 00:55:55,583 - There's a lot to work through, yeah. 1526 00:55:58,333 --> 00:56:01,958 - ♪ All my life, I've been waiting for someone like you ♪ 1527 00:56:02,042 --> 00:56:04,083 ♪ 1528 00:56:04,167 --> 00:56:06,000 - Oh, we have a gift. 1529 00:56:06,042 --> 00:56:08,125 Oh, snap. - Uh-oh. 1530 00:56:08,208 --> 00:56:09,750 - Got some shirts and some kind of note. 1531 00:56:09,833 --> 00:56:11,708 - "Congratulations on your marriage. 1532 00:56:11,708 --> 00:56:13,750 "Always remember the person next to you is your spouse 1533 00:56:13,833 --> 00:56:15,667 "and you both have made a commitment 1534 00:56:15,667 --> 00:56:17,792 to work every day towards a lifetime of marriage." 1535 00:56:17,875 --> 00:56:19,917 - "We hope that your upcoming honeymoon will be fun, 1536 00:56:20,000 --> 00:56:22,750 relaxing, and an exciting opportunity to connect." 1537 00:56:22,833 --> 00:56:24,792 - "You will be heading to Mexico!" 1538 00:56:24,875 --> 00:56:26,125 - Yay! - [laughs] 1539 00:56:26,208 --> 00:56:27,583 - I told you. 1540 00:56:27,667 --> 00:56:30,667 We're going to Mexico, which I'm so excited for. 1541 00:56:30,750 --> 00:56:32,542 - ♪ They say there's something in the water ♪ 1542 00:56:32,667 --> 00:56:35,375 - I was low key trying to manifest 1543 00:56:35,458 --> 00:56:37,458 going there in the first place. 1544 00:56:37,542 --> 00:56:40,125 So finding out that that's where we're going, 1545 00:56:40,125 --> 00:56:41,833 I'm like, yes. 1546 00:56:41,958 --> 00:56:45,833 My third eye is activated, and I manifested that [bleep]. 1547 00:56:45,958 --> 00:56:47,208 - You ready to pack? We can pack like this. 1548 00:56:47,292 --> 00:56:48,458 - Yes, actually. Wanna go upstairs? 1549 00:56:48,542 --> 00:56:50,000 - Yeah? Awesome. 1550 00:56:50,042 --> 00:56:53,375 Let's do this. 1551 00:56:53,500 --> 00:56:57,375 - What you think about this? 1552 00:56:57,500 --> 00:56:59,833 - Oh, OK. - [laughs] 1553 00:56:59,875 --> 00:57:01,167 - I love it. 1554 00:57:01,250 --> 00:57:03,250 - Left him speechless. - Yeah. 1555 00:57:03,333 --> 00:57:05,083 - Yeah, so, you know, this is just 1556 00:57:05,167 --> 00:57:06,542 a little something that, you know, 1557 00:57:06,625 --> 00:57:08,167 might make an appearance on the honeymoon. 1558 00:57:08,250 --> 00:57:09,500 We'll see. 1559 00:57:09,583 --> 00:57:13,375 - Well, I do got some nice plaid underwear. 1560 00:57:13,375 --> 00:57:14,917 - Oh, right, now we're talking. 1561 00:57:15,000 --> 00:57:17,375 - So if you're into patterns, I got you. 1562 00:57:17,458 --> 00:57:19,167 - I love me some pattern. - Look. 1563 00:57:19,292 --> 00:57:21,375 - [laughs] 1564 00:57:21,458 --> 00:57:23,333 I'm gonna need the full body roll. 1565 00:57:23,375 --> 00:57:24,958 - I'm gonna be gyrating hips in these. 1566 00:57:25,042 --> 00:57:26,917 [both laugh] 1567 00:57:26,917 --> 00:57:28,333 - I can't wait. I can't wait to see it. 1568 00:57:28,500 --> 00:57:30,250 [laughs] 1569 00:57:30,333 --> 00:57:31,667 - How do you like to travel? 1570 00:57:31,708 --> 00:57:33,333 - I'm a very good packer. 1571 00:57:33,375 --> 00:57:35,792 I use my little packing cubes. I get everything organized. 1572 00:57:35,875 --> 00:57:38,542 - I see you. I see you. That's very heavy. 1573 00:57:38,625 --> 00:57:39,708 Your suitcase was very heavy, not gonna lie. 1574 00:57:39,833 --> 00:57:41,750 - Got a lot in here. A lot going on. 1575 00:57:41,875 --> 00:57:43,250 - Can you unzip my dress, please? 1576 00:57:43,333 --> 00:57:45,458 - Absolutely, I can do that. 1577 00:57:45,542 --> 00:57:47,917 Hold on one second. 1578 00:57:48,042 --> 00:57:49,625 All right. 1579 00:57:49,708 --> 00:57:53,000 - I'm gonna sit on this suitcase for a second. 1580 00:57:53,083 --> 00:57:57,000 - [laughs] Want me to zip? 1581 00:57:57,083 --> 00:57:58,333 Got to-- - Yep 1582 00:57:58,458 --> 00:57:59,833 - Double-team this guy. - Double-team. 1583 00:57:59,917 --> 00:58:01,375 - There we go. 1584 00:58:01,458 --> 00:58:03,750 I've never actually seen the sit on the suitcase in person. 1585 00:58:03,833 --> 00:58:05,750 - Well, there's a first time for everything. 1586 00:58:05,833 --> 00:58:07,292 - I think we're gonna enjoy Mexico. 1587 00:58:07,375 --> 00:58:08,958 - You know, I-- 1588 00:58:08,958 --> 00:58:11,542 I hope, you know, a couple balconies, 1589 00:58:11,625 --> 00:58:13,083 you know, balcony experiences. 1590 00:58:13,167 --> 00:58:14,833 - Mm-hmm. 1591 00:58:14,875 --> 00:58:16,417 - Just time to get to know you a little bit better. 1592 00:58:16,500 --> 00:58:17,958 - For sure. 1593 00:58:18,042 --> 00:58:22,292 - I want to just, like, bask in the--in the Em. 1594 00:58:22,417 --> 00:58:24,708 - All right. I'm gonna go change real quick. 1595 00:58:24,708 --> 00:58:26,708 - I just want to understand who she is. 1596 00:58:26,792 --> 00:58:28,042 I just want to get to know her. 1597 00:58:28,125 --> 00:58:29,917 The rest of it, you know, 1598 00:58:30,000 --> 00:58:31,542 if something happen on the balcony, 1599 00:58:31,667 --> 00:58:33,333 then something happens on the balcony. 1600 00:58:33,417 --> 00:58:35,583 [laughs] 1601 00:58:35,667 --> 00:58:37,833 - Should we bring these as well? 1602 00:58:37,875 --> 00:58:39,500 - [laughs] Hey, you know what? 1603 00:58:39,542 --> 00:58:41,083 Throw them in the bag. - OK. 1604 00:58:41,167 --> 00:58:42,125 - You never know. [laughs] 1605 00:58:43,417 --> 00:58:45,750 You never know what might happen in paradise. 1606 00:58:45,833 --> 00:58:46,250 [laughs] 1607 00:58:51,083 --> 00:58:53,500 - ♪ You know I love it 1608 00:58:54,042 --> 00:58:55,833 ♪ I love it, boy 1609 00:58:55,917 --> 00:58:57,458 - What am I supposed to do with these? 1610 00:58:57,542 --> 00:58:59,167 [squeals] 1611 00:58:59,292 --> 00:59:01,167 - Go ahead. - Thank you. 1612 00:59:01,292 --> 00:59:03,875 - ♪ I can't help myself 1613 00:59:03,958 --> 00:59:05,292 - Thinking that your stuff was light. 1614 00:59:05,375 --> 00:59:06,417 [both laugh] 1615 00:59:06,417 --> 00:59:08,542 ♪ 1616 00:59:08,625 --> 00:59:10,208 - You want me to carry yours real quick? 1617 00:59:10,292 --> 00:59:11,875 - Let's see if I can do it. 1618 00:59:11,958 --> 00:59:13,167 - [laughs] 1619 00:59:13,292 --> 00:59:14,917 [grunts] 1620 00:59:15,000 --> 00:59:17,042 - Good morning. - Good morning. 1621 00:59:17,125 --> 00:59:18,333 - Morning. Good morning. - How are ya? 1622 00:59:18,333 --> 00:59:20,083 - [sighs] 1623 00:59:20,167 --> 00:59:22,250 It's early. It's early. 1624 00:59:22,250 --> 00:59:23,458 I'm Michelle, by the way. 1625 00:59:23,542 --> 00:59:24,500 - I'm Ikechi. - What was it? 1626 00:59:24,667 --> 00:59:26,083 - Ikechi. - Ikechi? 1627 00:59:26,167 --> 00:59:27,333 Nice to meet you. - Nice to meet you as well. 1628 00:59:27,375 --> 00:59:28,958 - David. - Emem. 1629 00:59:29,042 --> 00:59:31,208 - Ooh. Hello! 1630 00:59:31,292 --> 00:59:32,500 - What's up? - Hello! 1631 00:59:32,542 --> 00:59:33,667 Welcome, welcome. 1632 00:59:33,708 --> 00:59:34,917 - I'm David, by the way. 1633 00:59:35,000 --> 00:59:36,833 - Madison. - Hello, Madison. 1634 00:59:36,917 --> 00:59:38,167 - How you doing, Madison? - Nice to meet you. 1635 00:59:38,333 --> 00:59:39,667 - Ikechi. - Hi. 1636 00:59:39,750 --> 00:59:41,417 - Emem. - Hello. 1637 00:59:41,542 --> 00:59:42,542 - Good morning. 1638 00:59:42,625 --> 00:59:43,917 I'm Karla. 1639 00:59:44,000 --> 00:59:45,333 - Morning. 1640 00:59:45,417 --> 00:59:46,792 - Hey, what's up, y'all? I'm Juan. 1641 00:59:46,875 --> 00:59:48,417 - Hi, nice to meet you. 1642 00:59:48,500 --> 00:59:50,375 - We're gonna have a party, y'all. 1643 00:59:50,458 --> 00:59:52,250 - [bleep]. - Hey, y'all! 1644 00:59:52,333 --> 00:59:53,667 - Good morning, good morning. 1645 00:59:53,750 --> 00:59:55,208 - It's the new wolfpack now. 1646 00:59:55,333 --> 00:59:57,333 - I know. 1647 00:59:57,375 --> 00:59:59,125 - They did a good job, though. I'll just say that. 1648 00:59:59,208 --> 01:00:01,083 They did a good job. - Yeah, I think so too. 1649 01:00:01,167 --> 01:00:02,292 [laughter] 1650 01:00:02,292 --> 01:00:04,083 - Everybody looks good together. 1651 01:00:04,208 --> 01:00:07,167 - I'm legit thinking, did they meet their spouses 1652 01:00:07,167 --> 01:00:08,458 before this moment? 1653 01:00:08,542 --> 01:00:10,792 Like, how is everyone so at ease? 1654 01:00:10,875 --> 01:00:12,042 Some of them are even, like, hugging, 1655 01:00:12,125 --> 01:00:13,625 like, touching each other, and, like, seem, 1656 01:00:13,708 --> 01:00:15,167 like, so into each other. I'm like, what? 1657 01:00:15,250 --> 01:00:18,458 Like, I'm still processing even I got married. 1658 01:00:18,542 --> 01:00:20,875 So it's just wild to me. 1659 01:00:20,958 --> 01:00:22,708 - Did everybody kiss at the altar? 1660 01:00:22,833 --> 01:00:24,167 - Oh, yeah. - For sure. 1661 01:00:24,333 --> 01:00:25,792 - Yeah. - I got kissed. 1662 01:00:25,875 --> 01:00:27,500 [laughter] - Ooh. 1663 01:00:27,583 --> 01:00:29,292 - He was OK. - [laughs] 1664 01:00:29,375 --> 01:00:30,542 - It was all right. 1665 01:00:30,625 --> 01:00:32,167 - I was--I was going to ask. 1666 01:00:32,250 --> 01:00:33,750 I didn't even get to say words. It was like-- 1667 01:00:33,833 --> 01:00:35,458 - I wanted to let him know it was OK. 1668 01:00:35,542 --> 01:00:37,125 - I was like-- [speaks gibberish] 1669 01:00:37,208 --> 01:00:39,000 [laughter] 1670 01:00:41,042 --> 01:00:47,583 ♪ 1671 01:00:47,708 --> 01:00:49,167 - First order of business. - Yes. 1672 01:00:49,208 --> 01:00:50,500 - Finding some drinks. 1673 01:00:50,667 --> 01:00:52,125 - Mine's gone already, though. I was thirsty. 1674 01:00:52,208 --> 01:00:53,750 - He already polished it off on the walk back. 1675 01:00:53,875 --> 01:00:54,833 - Yeah. I'm ready to go. 1676 01:00:54,917 --> 01:00:56,333 We're ready to fly, right? 1677 01:00:56,375 --> 01:00:58,167 [signal chimes] 1678 01:00:58,333 --> 01:01:02,667 - I'm ready to eat some pescado frito, mojarra. 1679 01:01:02,708 --> 01:01:05,167 - Have a piña colada on the beach. 1680 01:01:05,292 --> 01:01:08,458 - What's up, girl? What you doing back there? 1681 01:01:08,542 --> 01:01:10,750 [both laugh] Over and out. 1682 01:01:10,875 --> 01:01:13,042 See you guys in Cancun. 1683 01:01:15,417 --> 01:01:17,750 ♪ 1684 01:01:17,833 --> 01:01:20,833 - [singing in Spanish] 1685 01:01:20,917 --> 01:01:25,833 ♪ 1686 01:01:25,917 --> 01:01:27,458 - ♪ You know I want it 1687 01:01:27,542 --> 01:01:30,667 ♪ I just can't get enough 1688 01:01:30,750 --> 01:01:32,333 ♪ You know I got it 1689 01:01:32,417 --> 01:01:34,000 ♪ It's flowing in my blood 1690 01:01:34,083 --> 01:01:35,917 - Whoa. 1691 01:01:35,917 --> 01:01:38,667 - ♪ La pasión en fuego 1692 01:01:38,708 --> 01:01:40,333 ♪ It burns inside of me 1693 01:01:40,458 --> 01:01:42,542 ♪ You know I want it 1694 01:01:42,625 --> 01:01:45,667 ♪ I just can't get enough 1695 01:01:45,792 --> 01:01:47,667 - Don't slip on the marble. 1696 01:01:47,708 --> 01:01:50,417 - Mexico! Mexico! Mexico! 1697 01:01:50,500 --> 01:01:53,375 - Mexico. México. - Hey, we made it. 1698 01:01:53,458 --> 01:01:54,625 - We made it. - Safe and sound. 1699 01:01:54,708 --> 01:01:56,417 - We made it! - We made it. We are here. 1700 01:01:56,500 --> 01:01:58,458 - Whoo! - Mama, we made it. 1701 01:01:58,542 --> 01:02:01,458 - All right, friends, I've got a good toast to introduce us 1702 01:02:01,542 --> 01:02:02,958 to our wonderful honeymoon. 1703 01:02:03,042 --> 01:02:04,958 - Let's hear it. - Let's hear it. 1704 01:02:05,042 --> 01:02:07,667 - It's a Myers traditional, so hope you guys appreciate it. 1705 01:02:07,750 --> 01:02:09,500 All right, here's to the breezes 1706 01:02:09,542 --> 01:02:11,500 that blows through the treeses that lifts the girl's skirts 1707 01:02:11,583 --> 01:02:13,958 above the kneeses, that reveals the spot 1708 01:02:14,042 --> 01:02:16,125 that teases, squeezes, pleases, 1709 01:02:16,208 --> 01:02:18,750 oh, [bleep], free from-- - Oh, [bleep]! 1710 01:02:18,833 --> 01:02:20,542 - Free from diseases. Here's to this [bleep]. 1711 01:02:20,625 --> 01:02:22,792 Down the hatch. [laughter] 1712 01:02:22,875 --> 01:02:25,167 - Free from diseases! - All right. 1713 01:02:25,292 --> 01:02:26,750 - ♪ Ring the alarm 1714 01:02:26,875 --> 01:02:29,375 ♪ It's about to go off 1715 01:02:29,458 --> 01:02:31,292 ♪ Ring the alarm 1716 01:02:31,375 --> 01:02:32,625 - Thank you. 1717 01:02:32,708 --> 01:02:34,000 - To the bar. 1718 01:02:34,083 --> 01:02:35,125 Hey. 1719 01:02:35,250 --> 01:02:37,000 - This is cute. 1720 01:02:37,042 --> 01:02:40,417 This is where you can find me. - [laughs] 1721 01:02:40,417 --> 01:02:41,708 - ♪ La, la, la, la, la 1722 01:02:41,792 --> 01:02:43,667 ♪ La, la, la, la, la 1723 01:02:43,792 --> 01:02:45,167 ♪ Whoa! 1724 01:02:45,208 --> 01:02:47,000 - Are we supposed to blow into this? 1725 01:02:47,083 --> 01:02:48,500 [laughter] 1726 01:02:48,583 --> 01:02:50,500 - I don't think it's that kind of-- 1727 01:02:50,583 --> 01:02:52,000 [laughter] 1728 01:02:52,083 --> 01:02:53,125 - I think you're supposed to suck into it. 1729 01:02:53,208 --> 01:02:55,333 - Yeah, I tried both. [laughter] 1730 01:02:55,375 --> 01:02:58,625 - So how does everyone feel that got paired? 1731 01:02:58,708 --> 01:02:59,875 - So far, it's been good. 1732 01:02:59,958 --> 01:03:02,958 I've enjoyed everything about you. 1733 01:03:03,042 --> 01:03:04,625 - Question mark. - Aww! 1734 01:03:04,708 --> 01:03:06,042 - Dot, dot, dot. 1735 01:03:06,125 --> 01:03:07,875 - That was more of like, "Can I say this right now?" 1736 01:03:07,958 --> 01:03:09,625 - I mean, you know, it's like, I don't want 1737 01:03:09,708 --> 01:03:10,875 to blow her head up too much. 1738 01:03:10,958 --> 01:03:12,667 - [laughs] - Yeah. 1739 01:03:12,708 --> 01:03:14,042 - But no, no, I've had a good time so far. 1740 01:03:14,125 --> 01:03:17,333 - I think for us, we, like, just had 1741 01:03:17,417 --> 01:03:19,750 this chemistry right off the bat that was undeniable. 1742 01:03:19,875 --> 01:03:22,375 And I never believed in, like-- 1743 01:03:22,500 --> 01:03:25,292 like, love at first sight or, like, just really 1744 01:03:25,375 --> 01:03:27,375 being infatuated with anybody right off the bat. 1745 01:03:27,500 --> 01:03:29,833 But this process is starting to change my mind because... 1746 01:03:29,917 --> 01:03:31,333 - Come on. - The biggest-- 1747 01:03:31,458 --> 01:03:32,833 - Aww. - Oh, damn. 1748 01:03:32,875 --> 01:03:34,083 - The biggest thing for me is, like, 1749 01:03:34,083 --> 01:03:35,917 I struggle with vulnerability, 1750 01:03:36,000 --> 01:03:38,500 and I already feel safe around you. 1751 01:03:38,583 --> 01:03:40,208 And, like, that's, like, step one. 1752 01:03:40,292 --> 01:03:43,333 - Such a compliment. - So yeah, so... 1753 01:03:43,417 --> 01:03:45,125 - Oh, I love that. 1754 01:03:45,208 --> 01:03:47,000 - I'm really looking forward to one-on-one time with you. 1755 01:03:47,083 --> 01:03:48,417 I feel like I just got a taste, 1756 01:03:48,542 --> 01:03:50,458 and I want, you know, to see the whole platter. 1757 01:03:50,542 --> 01:03:52,750 So, like-- [laughter] 1758 01:03:52,833 --> 01:03:54,875 - Damn! - Hey! OK. 1759 01:03:55,000 --> 01:03:57,167 - Goodness! - Yes. 1760 01:03:57,250 --> 01:03:58,833 - I'm looking forward to the duck-offs. 1761 01:03:58,917 --> 01:04:00,167 - Oh, my goodness. 1762 01:04:00,250 --> 01:04:01,542 - The what? - The duck-off. 1763 01:04:01,625 --> 01:04:03,333 To be able to get away from y'all. 1764 01:04:03,458 --> 01:04:04,625 [laughter] 1765 01:04:04,708 --> 01:04:06,292 - Oh, damn. 1766 01:04:06,375 --> 01:04:07,792 - You know, I mean, you know, you know... 1767 01:04:07,875 --> 01:04:09,833 - We're together. We're together. 1768 01:04:09,875 --> 01:04:11,625 - I'm just looking forward to just getting 1769 01:04:11,708 --> 01:04:14,292 to know you completely wholly. 1770 01:04:14,375 --> 01:04:16,333 I don't know that that will happen all on this trip, 1771 01:04:16,417 --> 01:04:19,083 but more so than anything. 1772 01:04:19,167 --> 01:04:21,958 - For me personally, I think we had a freaking amazing time, 1773 01:04:22,042 --> 01:04:23,167 like, in our wedding. 1774 01:04:23,250 --> 01:04:24,417 But, you know, at the same time, 1775 01:04:24,542 --> 01:04:25,833 we don't know each other. 1776 01:04:25,875 --> 01:04:27,667 You know, we-- we got to get to-- 1777 01:04:27,708 --> 01:04:29,083 - Yeah, I think the-- 1778 01:04:29,208 --> 01:04:30,500 - We got to get to the-- like, the feelings. 1779 01:04:30,583 --> 01:04:32,458 - The reality kind of set in a little bit of, like, 1780 01:04:32,542 --> 01:04:35,833 OK, it's like, we are around each other for 1781 01:04:35,917 --> 01:04:37,875 a lot of time. 1782 01:04:37,958 --> 01:04:40,708 So I haven't been with anybody in, like, three years. 1783 01:04:40,792 --> 01:04:42,833 And it's always been, you know, 1784 01:04:42,917 --> 01:04:44,500 I don't have to answer to anybody. 1785 01:04:44,583 --> 01:04:45,750 I don't have to tell anybody, like, where I'm going, 1786 01:04:45,833 --> 01:04:47,125 what I'm doing. 1787 01:04:47,208 --> 01:04:48,625 I've never lived with a boy before. 1788 01:04:48,708 --> 01:04:50,333 - Oh. 1789 01:04:50,375 --> 01:04:53,833 - So I'm like, holy [bleep], this is, like, impending. 1790 01:04:53,917 --> 01:04:55,333 Like, I'm, like, scared of [bleep]. 1791 01:04:55,333 --> 01:04:57,167 - Absolutely. 1792 01:04:57,250 --> 01:04:59,875 - Like I went into this knowing that, like, I cannot be 1793 01:05:00,000 --> 01:05:01,958 just, like, my normal single self. 1794 01:05:02,042 --> 01:05:04,000 Like, I have to be-- - Gotta think about the person. 1795 01:05:04,083 --> 01:05:05,625 - Normal and I have to be a partner. 1796 01:05:05,708 --> 01:05:07,500 Like, so that's what's, like, caused more anxiety for me 1797 01:05:07,583 --> 01:05:09,167 of, like, sitting in my, like, own thoughts 1798 01:05:09,250 --> 01:05:10,875 of, like, holy [bleep], OK, like, this is real. 1799 01:05:10,958 --> 01:05:12,875 Like, this is what we're going into. 1800 01:05:12,875 --> 01:05:14,500 And, like, it is just a lot. 1801 01:05:14,708 --> 01:05:17,292 [tense music] 1802 01:05:22,250 --> 01:05:24,625 - Like, that's what's, like, caused more anxiety for me 1803 01:05:24,708 --> 01:05:26,750 of, like, sitting in my, like, own thoughts of, like, 1804 01:05:26,833 --> 01:05:28,375 holy [bleep], OK, like, this is real. 1805 01:05:28,375 --> 01:05:30,000 Like, this is what we're going into. 1806 01:05:30,083 --> 01:05:33,000 And, like, it is just a lot. 1807 01:05:33,125 --> 01:05:38,167 - Hearing that Madison's having anxiety over this marriage, 1808 01:05:38,208 --> 01:05:43,667 it kind of puts me in a little, like, whoa, [bleep], OK. 1809 01:05:43,833 --> 01:05:46,292 I was not getting that vibe at all. 1810 01:05:46,375 --> 01:05:49,167 I didn't realize that, you know, 1811 01:05:49,208 --> 01:05:51,667 it was weighing on her that much. 1812 01:05:51,708 --> 01:05:54,125 - We all knew what we were getting into but not fully. 1813 01:05:54,208 --> 01:05:55,875 Like, none of us has been married. 1814 01:05:55,875 --> 01:05:57,458 - You go through all the stages. 1815 01:05:57,542 --> 01:05:58,917 - Yeah, you go through all the stages. 1816 01:05:59,000 --> 01:06:01,083 - Oh, I'm excited. Oh, my God, what did I do? 1817 01:06:01,167 --> 01:06:02,792 Oh, my God, I got to get out of this. 1818 01:06:02,792 --> 01:06:04,875 No, but wait. You like him. Wait. 1819 01:06:05,000 --> 01:06:07,167 - It's OK to disconnect a little bit, you know? 1820 01:06:07,250 --> 01:06:08,792 You got to process your feelings. 1821 01:06:08,875 --> 01:06:10,375 You got to process where you're at. 1822 01:06:10,458 --> 01:06:12,667 But the whole wedding was one of the best nights 1823 01:06:12,750 --> 01:06:14,333 that I think I had in a long time. 1824 01:06:14,417 --> 01:06:17,500 So I want to see if the chemistry that we had 1825 01:06:17,542 --> 01:06:20,000 exists beyond that night. 1826 01:06:20,042 --> 01:06:23,417 If--if we have any element of that, 1827 01:06:23,542 --> 01:06:25,500 like, if I could just sprinkle some water on it, 1828 01:06:25,583 --> 01:06:28,167 let that [bleep] grill, like, you know, 1829 01:06:28,250 --> 01:06:30,208 I'm gonna do everything I can to do that. 1830 01:06:30,292 --> 01:06:31,917 We're gonna figure each other out... 1831 01:06:32,000 --> 01:06:32,958 - Absolutely. - And go from there. 1832 01:06:33,042 --> 01:06:34,542 - What's meant to be will be. 1833 01:06:34,667 --> 01:06:36,000 - I'm in the same boat as well. 1834 01:06:36,042 --> 01:06:37,667 I haven't been in a marriage for 3 1/2--or-- 1835 01:06:37,750 --> 01:06:38,792 - A marriage. [laughter] 1836 01:06:38,875 --> 01:06:39,833 Oh, secrets. 1837 01:06:39,917 --> 01:06:41,000 - I understand. 1838 01:06:41,083 --> 01:06:43,167 Confess. Tell everything. 1839 01:06:43,250 --> 01:06:45,667 - In three years as well. And it's difficult. 1840 01:06:45,750 --> 01:06:47,208 You know, I got to take a step back from everything. 1841 01:06:47,292 --> 01:06:48,792 And, you know, when people ask me, 1842 01:06:48,875 --> 01:06:50,208 "Oh, we got a Labor Day party," 1843 01:06:50,292 --> 01:06:51,458 usually it's like, [bleep] yeah. 1844 01:06:51,542 --> 01:06:52,458 But you know what? 1845 01:06:52,458 --> 01:06:53,708 Let me ask my wife first, you know? 1846 01:06:53,833 --> 01:06:55,875 - Right. Right. - See what she says. 1847 01:06:56,000 --> 01:06:56,958 You know, it's all about compromise. 1848 01:06:57,042 --> 01:06:58,292 - Yeah, it's totally different. 1849 01:06:58,375 --> 01:07:00,083 - Like, Pastor Cal, like, in the beginning, 1850 01:07:00,208 --> 01:07:02,208 he always said that, you know, we're probably gonna mix you 1851 01:07:02,333 --> 01:07:05,083 with someone that needs to help you open up a side of you 1852 01:07:05,167 --> 01:07:07,250 that you didn't know or that can make 1853 01:07:07,333 --> 01:07:08,750 you better as an individual. 1854 01:07:08,833 --> 01:07:11,000 So I definitely see that 100%. 1855 01:07:11,042 --> 01:07:13,042 I blabbed right off the bat 1856 01:07:13,042 --> 01:07:14,500 because my past two relationships, 1857 01:07:14,583 --> 01:07:15,833 it was hard to get [bleep] out of me. 1858 01:07:15,833 --> 01:07:17,167 - Yeah. 1859 01:07:17,208 --> 01:07:18,875 - I was trying to get everything off my bat, 1860 01:07:18,958 --> 01:07:20,417 which kind of overwhelmed her a little bit 1861 01:07:20,500 --> 01:07:22,500 and took us back a little bit, so... 1862 01:07:22,583 --> 01:07:24,917 - I'm having a little bit of a hard time. 1863 01:07:25,000 --> 01:07:26,583 - Yeah. - No, no, it's OK to say that. 1864 01:07:26,583 --> 01:07:27,792 Like, it's a lot. 1865 01:07:27,875 --> 01:07:29,750 - It's, like, a lot really fast. 1866 01:07:29,833 --> 01:07:31,417 And, like, I know you talk about it, 1867 01:07:31,542 --> 01:07:33,292 and, like, you, like, picture things, 1868 01:07:33,375 --> 01:07:35,250 but then when it actually happens, it's different. 1869 01:07:35,333 --> 01:07:36,833 - And I think it's OK to say that. 1870 01:07:36,958 --> 01:07:39,167 Like, we literally all just met each other. 1871 01:07:39,208 --> 01:07:40,125 Like-- - And got married. 1872 01:07:40,125 --> 01:07:41,458 - And got married. 1873 01:07:41,542 --> 01:07:43,167 Like, it does not need to be this fantasy, 1874 01:07:43,208 --> 01:07:44,375 "Oh, my gosh, we're meant to be." 1875 01:07:44,500 --> 01:07:46,167 Maybe, like, you two, but it's fine because-- 1876 01:07:46,250 --> 01:07:48,000 - No, you guys are-- you guys are all, like-- 1877 01:07:48,083 --> 01:07:49,833 - Who, us? What? 1878 01:07:49,875 --> 01:07:51,375 That's crazy. That's crazy. 1879 01:07:51,458 --> 01:07:52,542 - Wild. 1880 01:07:52,625 --> 01:07:55,000 - I think it's hard just in general. 1881 01:07:55,000 --> 01:07:56,833 Like, I've been single for six years. 1882 01:07:56,917 --> 01:07:58,250 Like, I've lived alone for six years. 1883 01:07:58,333 --> 01:08:01,208 So it's like, it's so much coming at me. 1884 01:08:01,292 --> 01:08:03,667 Like, I'm not--I'm only used to thinking about myself. 1885 01:08:03,750 --> 01:08:05,042 And that sounds selfish, but-- 1886 01:08:05,125 --> 01:08:06,500 - No, but it's real-- it's reality. 1887 01:08:06,542 --> 01:08:07,667 - It's just like, and now, like, it's like, 1888 01:08:07,708 --> 01:08:09,208 someone's checking in. 1889 01:08:09,333 --> 01:08:10,500 I'm like, oh, my God, get out of here, you know? 1890 01:08:10,625 --> 01:08:12,208 Like, it's just a lot. 1891 01:08:12,292 --> 01:08:13,792 I'm really happy for you guys, but I'm like, 1892 01:08:13,875 --> 01:08:15,917 I'm probably not getting there as fast as you, 1893 01:08:16,000 --> 01:08:17,333 you know what I mean? - What did we do? 1894 01:08:17,458 --> 01:08:18,875 - What did we do? - What did we do? 1895 01:08:19,042 --> 01:08:20,667 - You guys are constantly, like, touching. 1896 01:08:20,750 --> 01:08:22,208 So it's like-- 1897 01:08:22,292 --> 01:08:23,083 - Like, your chemistry is, like, radiating 1898 01:08:23,167 --> 01:08:24,542 in the best way. 1899 01:08:24,667 --> 01:08:26,208 - No, it's a compliment. It's a compliment. 1900 01:08:26,208 --> 01:08:27,458 - For sure. - Come on, radiate. 1901 01:08:27,542 --> 01:08:29,250 Come on, I see you. - Come on, shine. 1902 01:08:29,250 --> 01:08:31,125 - She's like, "I'm gonna radiate on you later." 1903 01:08:31,208 --> 01:08:32,500 - OK. - We love it. 1904 01:08:32,625 --> 01:08:34,042 We love it. 1905 01:08:34,042 --> 01:08:35,500 - No, I mean, the crazy part is that, like, 1906 01:08:35,583 --> 01:08:37,667 we're getting married and then we date. 1907 01:08:37,708 --> 01:08:39,250 - Right. - You know? 1908 01:08:39,333 --> 01:08:41,042 It's like, it's kind of ass-backwards 1909 01:08:41,125 --> 01:08:43,208 from what we're used to doing, you know? 1910 01:08:43,333 --> 01:08:45,958 - My approach is, look, I'm open to anything. 1911 01:08:46,042 --> 01:08:47,667 I want to have as much fun as possible. 1912 01:08:47,708 --> 01:08:49,208 I want to respect her. - Juancho loves fun. 1913 01:08:49,333 --> 01:08:51,083 - I want to--yeah. 1914 01:08:51,208 --> 01:08:53,000 I want to respect her as much as possible. 1915 01:08:53,167 --> 01:08:54,958 And I want to work on myself and my weaknesses 1916 01:08:55,042 --> 01:08:56,458 with her help. 1917 01:08:56,458 --> 01:08:58,125 She's a very spiritual, peaceful person, 1918 01:08:58,208 --> 01:09:00,500 and I'm a very business-oriented person. 1919 01:09:00,583 --> 01:09:02,875 So there's a lot to learn from each other. 1920 01:09:03,000 --> 01:09:04,000 I don't think there's a right way 1921 01:09:04,083 --> 01:09:05,417 or a wrong way to do this. 1922 01:09:05,500 --> 01:09:08,917 I think we all need to focus on having a great time 1923 01:09:09,000 --> 01:09:11,625 because they may find out in two weeks 1924 01:09:11,708 --> 01:09:14,083 that things aren't as--you see, I'm not hoping that happens. 1925 01:09:14,167 --> 01:09:16,000 - Why would you say that? [laughter] 1926 01:09:16,042 --> 01:09:18,167 - What I'm saying--what I'm saying is that just like-- 1927 01:09:18,208 --> 01:09:19,833 just like they're having a great moment now, 1928 01:09:19,833 --> 01:09:21,917 you may have a great moment in--in two weeks. 1929 01:09:22,042 --> 01:09:23,667 - Shut up. - You know what I'm saying? 1930 01:09:23,750 --> 01:09:25,833 So I think--I really think just enjoy the ride, man. 1931 01:09:25,958 --> 01:09:27,375 Just have fun with it. 1932 01:09:27,500 --> 01:09:29,125 And I think her and I are just having a good time. 1933 01:09:29,208 --> 01:09:31,292 - And I feel like we live life like that. 1934 01:09:31,375 --> 01:09:33,708 So now it's just like him and I. 1935 01:09:33,792 --> 01:09:36,292 Like--like, is there enough 1936 01:09:36,375 --> 01:09:37,750 to keep us together or just interested? 1937 01:09:37,833 --> 01:09:39,625 - Right. 1938 01:09:39,708 --> 01:09:41,792 - Is there enough to keep us interested in each other? 1939 01:09:41,875 --> 01:09:43,833 So we shall see, Juancho. 1940 01:09:44,000 --> 01:09:45,917 [laughter] 1941 01:09:46,000 --> 01:09:48,333 - You already got a little-- - Ah, look at that. 1942 01:09:48,333 --> 01:09:49,542 - Why don't we have a handshake? 1943 01:09:49,625 --> 01:09:51,208 No. [laughter] 1944 01:09:51,208 --> 01:09:53,167 - Hey, this marriage is just-- 1945 01:09:53,250 --> 01:09:54,500 it's gonna be a test for all of us here. 1946 01:09:54,583 --> 01:09:56,000 - Yeah. 1947 01:09:56,083 --> 01:09:57,333 - And no one said it was gonna be easy. 1948 01:09:57,375 --> 01:09:58,958 It's definitely not going to be. 1949 01:09:59,042 --> 01:10:00,542 But I think we're up for the challenge 1950 01:10:00,667 --> 01:10:02,375 because we're all sitting here right now together. 1951 01:10:02,375 --> 01:10:02,417 because we're all sitting here right now together. 1952 01:10:03,875 --> 01:10:05,042 So we're just gonna see who's gonna fight for one another 1953 01:10:05,125 --> 01:10:06,792 and just continue to move forward. 1954 01:10:06,792 --> 01:10:08,708 [upbeat music] 1955 01:10:13,958 --> 01:10:16,833 - [vocalizing] 1956 01:10:17,375 --> 01:10:19,000 - Top of the morning. 1957 01:10:19,083 --> 01:10:20,417 - Morning. [both laugh] 1958 01:10:20,417 --> 01:10:22,583 - Got a good night's rest. 1959 01:10:22,667 --> 01:10:24,542 - It got really cold and-- - What? 1960 01:10:24,667 --> 01:10:27,125 - You did not keep me warm. - Whatever. 1961 01:10:27,208 --> 01:10:29,333 I'm always so hot when I sleep. 1962 01:10:29,417 --> 01:10:32,000 So I think at one point, I was probably like, 1963 01:10:32,042 --> 01:10:33,167 "I need you to back up. 1964 01:10:33,250 --> 01:10:34,542 I'm burning up." 1965 01:10:34,708 --> 01:10:36,875 - [laughs] 1966 01:10:38,083 --> 01:10:40,958 [bluegrass music playing] 1967 01:10:41,042 --> 01:10:43,250 ♪ 1968 01:10:43,333 --> 01:10:45,667 - There's nothing like bluegrass in the morning. 1969 01:10:45,750 --> 01:10:51,583 ♪ 1970 01:10:51,667 --> 01:10:53,333 Hell yeah! 1971 01:10:53,375 --> 01:10:55,125 [bleep] yeah. 1972 01:10:55,208 --> 01:10:56,542 - Let me see you dance. 1973 01:10:56,542 --> 01:10:58,000 - This is the yeehaw type stuff. 1974 01:10:58,042 --> 01:10:59,458 - Let me see how you dance to this. 1975 01:10:59,542 --> 01:11:02,375 ♪ 1976 01:11:02,458 --> 01:11:04,333 - This is how you [bleep] dance to this [bleep]. 1977 01:11:04,417 --> 01:11:06,208 - Don't kick me in the face. 1978 01:11:06,292 --> 01:11:09,208 I'm loving being able to develop our own, 1979 01:11:09,292 --> 01:11:10,625 like, morning routine. 1980 01:11:10,708 --> 01:11:14,208 The music gets turned on as soon as we wake up. 1981 01:11:14,208 --> 01:11:16,208 - Come on! 1982 01:11:16,208 --> 01:11:17,500 Yeehaw! 1983 01:11:17,583 --> 01:11:21,167 - Entertainment in your bedroom at 7:30 AM. 1984 01:11:21,250 --> 01:11:24,125 Wake up. It's time to wake up. 1985 01:11:24,208 --> 01:11:26,292 - [laughs] 1986 01:11:26,375 --> 01:11:29,500 [upbeat music] 1987 01:11:29,542 --> 01:11:33,917 ♪ 1988 01:11:34,042 --> 01:11:35,375 - Morning. 1989 01:11:37,875 --> 01:11:39,583 I was so tired. 1990 01:11:39,667 --> 01:11:41,167 - I'm pretty sure my phone didn't help that cause 1991 01:11:41,250 --> 01:11:42,333 last night going off at 4:45. 1992 01:11:42,375 --> 01:11:43,833 - No, no, no. Yeah. 1993 01:11:43,917 --> 01:11:46,292 - I will make sure-- - That needs to be fixed. 1994 01:11:46,375 --> 01:11:49,500 - Yes, I will fix that ASAP. 1995 01:11:49,583 --> 01:11:51,417 Alarms are changed. 1996 01:11:51,500 --> 01:11:53,333 Just totally take off. 1997 01:11:53,375 --> 01:11:55,292 And that's set for the gym and work purposes. 1998 01:11:55,292 --> 01:11:57,333 So that's why it's going off. 1999 01:11:57,458 --> 01:12:02,292 I usually get off-- get up at, like, 6:00-- 2000 01:12:02,375 --> 01:12:04,500 or 4:45 is when I start getting ready. 2001 01:12:04,542 --> 01:12:06,667 I either go to the gym first or go straight to work. 2002 01:12:06,708 --> 01:12:08,500 I know I wasn't in the bed this morning, 2003 01:12:08,583 --> 01:12:10,750 but I slept on the couch. 2004 01:12:10,875 --> 01:12:12,042 - OK. - [chuckles] 2005 01:12:12,125 --> 01:12:13,500 - So what'd you do out there? 2006 01:12:13,583 --> 01:12:14,750 - First was getting food. 2007 01:12:14,750 --> 01:12:16,917 Got six chicken tacos last night. 2008 01:12:17,000 --> 01:12:18,792 - Oh, wow. 2009 01:12:18,792 --> 01:12:20,375 At what time? 2010 01:12:20,458 --> 01:12:21,875 - I want to say this was probably, like, 2011 01:12:22,000 --> 01:12:23,667 1:00 or something. - Oh, OK. 2012 01:12:23,750 --> 01:12:25,667 - And just passed out, actually, on the couch. 2013 01:12:25,667 --> 01:12:27,167 - Nice. 2014 01:12:27,250 --> 01:12:29,167 To be honest, him sleeping on the couch 2015 01:12:29,208 --> 01:12:32,833 isn't really surprising to me, but it is a little concerning 2016 01:12:32,917 --> 01:12:35,208 that we're not at a place right now 2017 01:12:35,292 --> 01:12:37,292 that we want to spend time sleeping 2018 01:12:37,292 --> 01:12:38,958 together in the same bed. 2019 01:12:39,042 --> 01:12:40,500 Maybe eventually down the road, I'll get there. 2020 01:12:40,542 --> 01:12:44,375 But right now, we're just not there yet. 2021 01:12:44,458 --> 01:12:47,833 I can't get over that you ordered food so late. 2022 01:12:47,833 --> 01:12:49,458 - I used to eat six times a day. 2023 01:12:49,542 --> 01:12:50,917 That's when I was competing. 2024 01:12:51,000 --> 01:12:52,250 So it's kind of like, I, like, I need that-- 2025 01:12:52,375 --> 01:12:53,750 - Competing? 2026 01:12:53,750 --> 01:12:54,750 - Yeah, I did physique fitness... 2027 01:12:54,875 --> 01:12:56,583 - Oh. 2028 01:12:56,667 --> 01:12:58,833 - In the bodybuilding world when I was in my 20s. 2029 01:12:58,917 --> 01:13:00,667 And that was just for fitness purposes. 2030 01:13:00,708 --> 01:13:02,667 But it's not-- yeah, I'm not trying to-- 2031 01:13:02,750 --> 01:13:03,792 - Yeah. 2032 01:13:03,875 --> 01:13:05,333 - Become that. 2033 01:13:05,417 --> 01:13:06,583 I already, you know, have two jobs, 2034 01:13:06,667 --> 01:13:08,333 and now I have a wife, so... 2035 01:13:08,417 --> 01:13:09,375 - Are you saying I'm a lot of work? 2036 01:13:09,375 --> 01:13:11,917 - No, not you. [laughs] 2037 01:13:12,000 --> 01:13:13,500 It takes a lot of work to make a marriage work. 2038 01:13:13,583 --> 01:13:16,000 - 'Cause you just put me into, like, your third job. 2039 01:13:16,042 --> 01:13:17,500 - No. 2040 01:13:17,583 --> 01:13:20,833 It takes a lot to make a marriage work, though, 2041 01:13:20,875 --> 01:13:23,500 as my parents have told me, my grandparents. 2042 01:13:23,583 --> 01:13:25,375 And that's the advice that they had given. 2043 01:13:25,500 --> 01:13:27,167 It just takes a lot of work and time. 2044 01:13:27,292 --> 01:13:31,250 - So do you think, like, going back to your living situation-- 2045 01:13:31,333 --> 01:13:32,875 I don't want to keep harping on it, 2046 01:13:32,875 --> 01:13:34,792 but, like, who would choose to live with their parents 2047 01:13:34,875 --> 01:13:36,333 at 36 years old? 2048 01:13:36,417 --> 01:13:38,000 - I don't see them like you think I see them. 2049 01:13:38,083 --> 01:13:39,292 - Like, are you motivated to-- 2050 01:13:39,375 --> 01:13:40,917 like, to get out of your parents' place? 2051 01:13:41,000 --> 01:13:42,292 Are you motivated to, like, do things on your own? 2052 01:13:42,375 --> 01:13:43,875 - 100%. 2053 01:13:43,958 --> 01:13:45,667 - Like, your mommy doing all your, like, things for you, 2054 01:13:45,667 --> 01:13:47,667 like, that's not-- that's a turnoff to me. 2055 01:13:47,750 --> 01:13:51,375 Like, I want someone who, like, is independent 2056 01:13:51,458 --> 01:13:52,917 and, like, does their own thing. 2057 01:13:53,000 --> 01:13:54,708 And I'm not getting that vibe from you. 2058 01:13:54,875 --> 01:13:56,208 - I know how to cook. I know how to clean. 2059 01:13:56,292 --> 01:13:57,667 I've lived with a woman before. 2060 01:13:57,750 --> 01:14:00,333 So I am--I am ready to get the [bleep] out of there. 2061 01:14:00,458 --> 01:14:02,500 Like, when I say I choose, I choose to. 2062 01:14:02,625 --> 01:14:03,958 - I won't ever understand that. 2063 01:14:04,042 --> 01:14:05,542 Because in my mind, I would never-- 2064 01:14:05,625 --> 01:14:08,667 I would never make that choice. 2065 01:14:08,750 --> 01:14:10,375 - I feel a little thrown back because I thought we were 2066 01:14:10,500 --> 01:14:12,042 moving in the right direction. 2067 01:14:12,125 --> 01:14:14,000 But the living situation, she's still hung up on, 2068 01:14:14,042 --> 01:14:17,417 so I'm just kind of in a no-man's land 2069 01:14:17,542 --> 01:14:19,000 right now because I thought we were moving forward. 2070 01:14:19,042 --> 01:14:21,833 I thought we were in a progressive state. 2071 01:14:21,875 --> 01:14:24,750 But it seems that she's in a stale state. 2072 01:14:24,833 --> 01:14:27,417 And I don't want to overwhelm her again. 2073 01:14:27,500 --> 01:14:31,167 So I'm just a little thrown back. 2074 01:14:31,250 --> 01:14:33,375 I mean, yeah, if there's something that I need to do, 2075 01:14:33,458 --> 01:14:36,292 I'm definitely willing to. 2076 01:14:36,292 --> 01:14:38,000 - All right. 2077 01:14:38,083 --> 01:14:40,250 Well, I'm sure we'll continue having this one 2078 01:14:40,375 --> 01:14:41,833 a couple more times. [both laugh] 2079 01:14:41,958 --> 01:14:43,375 - Whenever you want to bring it up, 2080 01:14:43,458 --> 01:14:44,708 I'm open to talk about it. 2081 01:14:47,750 --> 01:14:49,542 - ♪ Do what you want 2082 01:14:49,625 --> 01:14:51,875 ♪ Do what you want, yeah 2083 01:14:52,000 --> 01:14:54,042 ♪ You are a star 2084 01:14:54,167 --> 01:14:56,042 ♪ Open your heart 2085 01:14:56,167 --> 01:14:57,500 ♪ Do what you want 2086 01:14:57,583 --> 01:14:59,042 - Buenas tardes. - Buenas tardes. 2087 01:14:59,125 --> 01:15:00,292 Cómo estás? - Hola. 2088 01:15:00,417 --> 01:15:02,417 - Good, and you? - Cansada. 2089 01:15:02,500 --> 01:15:03,708 - Ooh. - [speaks Spanish] 2090 01:15:03,792 --> 01:15:06,417 - Sí. - Look at these snacks. 2091 01:15:06,542 --> 01:15:08,500 Just what I needed. 2092 01:15:08,583 --> 01:15:10,500 I like to eat just about everything. 2093 01:15:10,542 --> 01:15:12,292 There is not too much of anything 2094 01:15:12,375 --> 01:15:13,458 that I would say no to. 2095 01:15:13,542 --> 01:15:15,167 - Chitlins. 2096 01:15:15,208 --> 01:15:16,417 - You don't like chitlins? 2097 01:15:16,500 --> 01:15:17,917 - It's over. 2098 01:15:18,000 --> 01:15:19,292 We can go ahead and wrap this thing up. 2099 01:15:19,375 --> 01:15:20,917 - It's a wrap? - It's a wrap. 2100 01:15:21,042 --> 01:15:23,000 - I love chitlins. - You love chitlins? 2101 01:15:23,042 --> 01:15:24,500 - Yeah, put a little hot sauce on there. 2102 01:15:24,583 --> 01:15:26,708 - Well, you by yourself on that one, doc. 2103 01:15:26,792 --> 01:15:28,042 I don't even eat meat, and you want me 2104 01:15:28,125 --> 01:15:28,875 to eat some booty noodles? 2105 01:15:29,000 --> 01:15:30,792 - [laughs] 2106 01:15:30,875 --> 01:15:33,208 How you feel about liver? 2107 01:15:33,292 --> 01:15:35,375 - I mean, I'm not eating it. 2108 01:15:35,542 --> 01:15:37,167 - I love liver. - You love liver? 2109 01:15:37,250 --> 01:15:38,417 Who loves liver? 2110 01:15:38,500 --> 01:15:40,333 - Kidney? - Kidney? 2111 01:15:40,417 --> 01:15:42,583 Why you taking out they--no. 2112 01:15:42,667 --> 01:15:44,500 - Gizzards? 2113 01:15:44,542 --> 01:15:47,583 - Ma'am, we already established that I'm not--no. 2114 01:15:47,667 --> 01:15:49,125 - Those are all the best parts. 2115 01:15:49,250 --> 01:15:51,708 - Of the what? - [laughs] 2116 01:15:51,792 --> 01:15:54,792 - Leave the animal alone. 2117 01:15:54,917 --> 01:15:56,333 This is where you find out who-- 2118 01:15:56,375 --> 01:15:58,542 who you married. 2119 01:15:58,625 --> 01:16:00,625 - This is the moment. - This is the moment. 2120 01:16:00,708 --> 01:16:02,083 - This is the moment. 2121 01:16:02,167 --> 01:16:03,292 - It is made of intestines. 2122 01:16:03,375 --> 01:16:05,125 And I'm good on that. 2123 01:16:05,125 --> 01:16:07,500 I don't care how clean them things is. 2124 01:16:07,542 --> 01:16:08,458 No, sir. 2125 01:16:08,583 --> 01:16:10,667 [sighs] 2126 01:16:10,750 --> 01:16:13,500 I'm gonna step away from this moment of chitterlings 2127 01:16:13,625 --> 01:16:15,958 and say that I don't have a lot of pet peeves. 2128 01:16:16,042 --> 01:16:17,708 - OK. 2129 01:16:17,792 --> 01:16:20,875 - But ignorance is, like, high on my list of pet peeves, 2130 01:16:20,875 --> 01:16:22,750 like, not wanting to know anything more 2131 01:16:22,833 --> 01:16:25,083 than what you know. 2132 01:16:25,208 --> 01:16:28,792 So I'm curious, have you ever been engaged? 2133 01:16:28,875 --> 01:16:30,833 - I have been engaged before. 2134 01:16:30,917 --> 01:16:32,333 I have. 2135 01:16:32,458 --> 01:16:35,000 I was younger, almost ten years ago. 2136 01:16:35,083 --> 01:16:39,083 It was to someone I dated while I was in early college. 2137 01:16:39,167 --> 01:16:42,833 You know, we had some issues, infidelities, 2138 01:16:42,875 --> 01:16:47,417 and, you know, forgiveness and got back together. 2139 01:16:47,542 --> 01:16:49,000 And it just did not work out. 2140 01:16:49,125 --> 01:16:51,625 Our futures just weren't in alignment. 2141 01:16:51,750 --> 01:16:54,500 - Yeah, I have been engaged as well. 2142 01:16:54,667 --> 01:16:57,083 It was at the end of college. 2143 01:16:57,083 --> 01:16:58,917 - Mm-hmm. 2144 01:16:59,042 --> 01:17:01,833 - And we were together for four years. 2145 01:17:01,958 --> 01:17:03,583 Like you, there was infidelity, 2146 01:17:03,667 --> 01:17:06,042 and there was mistrust on my part. 2147 01:17:06,125 --> 01:17:08,167 - Mm. 2148 01:17:08,292 --> 01:17:10,958 - That was, ooh, 12 years ago. 2149 01:17:11,042 --> 01:17:12,625 I did someone wrong, and I never want to ever do 2150 01:17:12,708 --> 01:17:13,833 anybody wrong like that again. 2151 01:17:13,958 --> 01:17:16,500 - Mm-hmm. 2152 01:17:16,542 --> 01:17:18,292 Well, that was a lot of serious talk. 2153 01:17:18,375 --> 01:17:19,833 - Wasn't it? - OK. 2154 01:17:20,000 --> 01:17:21,458 Now let's go hit this pool. 2155 01:17:21,542 --> 01:17:24,208 I have had the tendency to ignore 2156 01:17:24,292 --> 01:17:27,208 red flags in relationships, but I do honestly 2157 01:17:27,333 --> 01:17:29,125 believe people can grow. 2158 01:17:29,208 --> 01:17:31,833 And I think that, you know, 12, 13 years ago, 2159 01:17:31,958 --> 01:17:34,208 I'm sure he's not the same man he was then. 2160 01:17:34,208 --> 01:17:35,542 Come on. 2161 01:17:35,708 --> 01:17:36,750 - I feel like I got too many clothes on. 2162 01:17:36,833 --> 01:17:40,167 - OK, well, take it off. 2163 01:17:40,250 --> 01:17:43,208 Take it off then. 2164 01:17:43,292 --> 01:17:44,208 Should've been took it off. 2165 01:17:44,333 --> 01:17:45,500 That was on you. 2166 01:17:45,542 --> 01:17:47,583 You want to be naked. 2167 01:17:47,667 --> 01:17:49,500 I want you to be naked. 2168 01:17:49,583 --> 01:17:54,208 - ♪ So sweet like lemonade 2169 01:17:54,292 --> 01:17:57,625 ♪ I still remember that taste ♪ 2170 01:17:58,417 --> 01:18:00,250 - This is how you looked at me on our wedding night. 2171 01:18:00,333 --> 01:18:02,500 - [laughs] 2172 01:18:02,625 --> 01:18:03,625 Finna get me in trouble. 2173 01:18:03,708 --> 01:18:05,833 - Right. [both laugh] 2174 01:18:06,000 --> 01:18:09,000 - ♪ And you're sweet like lemonade ♪ 2175 01:18:14,208 --> 01:18:17,333 ♪ 2176 01:18:18,042 --> 01:18:20,708 - Thank you. 2177 01:18:20,792 --> 01:18:21,917 - Thank you. 2178 01:18:21,917 --> 01:18:23,167 - All right, look at this. 2179 01:18:23,250 --> 01:18:24,375 Nice little setup. 2180 01:18:24,500 --> 01:18:26,042 Thank you so much. 2181 01:18:27,708 --> 01:18:31,375 So a little-- 2182 01:18:31,500 --> 01:18:33,708 [both laugh] 2183 01:18:33,708 --> 01:18:35,583 For later, maybe. 2184 01:18:35,708 --> 01:18:36,667 - Love it. - Cocktails. 2185 01:18:36,750 --> 01:18:38,625 - Oh, wonderful. 2186 01:18:38,625 --> 01:18:41,917 - Thank you. - Dirty martini. 2187 01:18:42,000 --> 01:18:43,208 - Solid. 2188 01:18:43,292 --> 01:18:44,958 - Thank you. 2189 01:18:45,042 --> 01:18:47,333 Cheers. - Well, cheers to-- 2190 01:18:47,417 --> 01:18:48,458 - Our first technical date. 2191 01:18:48,542 --> 01:18:50,083 [laughs] - This is true. 2192 01:18:52,208 --> 01:18:55,958 - No, I--I wanted to apologize for just kind of being weird. 2193 01:18:56,042 --> 01:18:57,875 [laughs] [clears throat] 2194 01:18:57,958 --> 01:19:00,625 I think I've just been feeling, like I had mentioned, 2195 01:19:00,750 --> 01:19:02,750 just, you know, anxious and-- 2196 01:19:02,833 --> 01:19:03,875 - Ooh, look at this. 2197 01:19:03,958 --> 01:19:07,042 Dear God. - Jeez. 2198 01:19:07,125 --> 01:19:09,125 - I'm still having my cheese. 2199 01:19:09,208 --> 01:19:11,542 - The steak scallops with mashed potato and vegetable 2200 01:19:11,667 --> 01:19:12,833 and mushroom sauce. - Thank you so much. 2201 01:19:12,917 --> 01:19:15,042 - Wow. Thank you. 2202 01:19:15,125 --> 01:19:17,833 - You know, you mentioned the anxiety part. 2203 01:19:17,917 --> 01:19:22,875 Was--was there something that, like, triggered that? 2204 01:19:22,958 --> 01:19:25,958 Or was it like--what-- 2205 01:19:26,083 --> 01:19:29,042 like, how did that go about for you, I guess? 2206 01:19:29,125 --> 01:19:31,250 - Coming off of, like, our wedding was fantastic. 2207 01:19:31,250 --> 01:19:33,000 Like, our friends and family were so supportive 2208 01:19:33,042 --> 01:19:34,292 and got along, and, like, we were 2209 01:19:34,375 --> 01:19:35,583 hitting it off, and, like, there was 2210 01:19:35,667 --> 01:19:37,042 definitely chemistry there. 2211 01:19:37,125 --> 01:19:39,167 And then I think when I just kind of-- 2212 01:19:39,208 --> 01:19:42,917 being by myself just was able to really think 2213 01:19:43,042 --> 01:19:45,333 about, OK, this is a lot. 2214 01:19:45,458 --> 01:19:46,958 We're actually married. 2215 01:19:47,042 --> 01:19:48,667 Like, we're going on a honeymoon together. 2216 01:19:48,750 --> 01:19:50,625 I don't technically know this person, 2217 01:19:50,708 --> 01:19:52,917 and I think it just kind of all hit me. 2218 01:19:53,000 --> 01:19:55,667 But I do really want to have fun with you because I think, 2219 01:19:55,708 --> 01:19:57,500 like, something for me that I've always, like, 2220 01:19:57,583 --> 01:19:59,833 pictured in a marriage or, like, 2221 01:19:59,917 --> 01:20:02,208 in, like, a really good relationship is excitement. 2222 01:20:02,375 --> 01:20:04,000 - Yeah. - I want dates. 2223 01:20:04,042 --> 01:20:08,167 I want, you know, a lot of, like, romance and, like, fun. 2224 01:20:08,250 --> 01:20:10,333 And I want it to be, like, exciting. 2225 01:20:10,417 --> 01:20:12,375 And so-- 2226 01:20:12,375 --> 01:20:14,250 - I mean, girl, I'll take you on a magic carpet ride. 2227 01:20:14,333 --> 01:20:16,125 [both laugh] 2228 01:20:16,208 --> 01:20:17,583 Like, come on. 2229 01:20:17,708 --> 01:20:21,333 Like, I love that kind of stuff. 2230 01:20:21,417 --> 01:20:25,083 I think we have a great recipe for success, you know? 2231 01:20:25,167 --> 01:20:29,542 I mean, I think we're extremely complementary. 2232 01:20:29,625 --> 01:20:33,792 I mean, there's--there's a lot there, you know, and I'm-- 2233 01:20:33,875 --> 01:20:36,917 I'm happy to explore it. 2234 01:20:37,000 --> 01:20:39,167 But, you know, at the same time, 2235 01:20:39,292 --> 01:20:44,083 I don't want to give you that anxiety, you know? 2236 01:20:44,167 --> 01:20:47,208 Like, I'm--honestly, like, I'm a little-- 2237 01:20:47,292 --> 01:20:49,958 like, I'm very-- not very, but I'm fearful 2238 01:20:50,042 --> 01:20:51,833 to, like, you know, as we're walking in, 2239 01:20:51,917 --> 01:20:55,042 like, to hold your hand or to do something like that. 2240 01:20:55,125 --> 01:20:59,333 So is there anything that, you know, I could do, 2241 01:20:59,417 --> 01:21:04,875 or--you know, I'm happy even if it's just patience. 2242 01:21:04,958 --> 01:21:07,250 - Like, we can hold hands, and, like, it's OK for you 2243 01:21:07,333 --> 01:21:08,750 to touch, like, the small of my back 2244 01:21:08,875 --> 01:21:10,250 if we're walking into a restaurant. 2245 01:21:10,375 --> 01:21:12,083 Like, I don't want you to feel like you can't touch me. 2246 01:21:12,167 --> 01:21:13,292 - I'm trying to be super delicate. 2247 01:21:13,375 --> 01:21:14,875 Like, I'm like-- 2248 01:21:14,958 --> 01:21:16,417 - I know, but I don't want you to walk on eggshells. 2249 01:21:16,542 --> 01:21:17,792 Like-- - That's a good way-- 2250 01:21:17,875 --> 01:21:18,958 - It's not gonna help because I think it's gonna 2251 01:21:19,042 --> 01:21:20,625 make me more aware of it. 2252 01:21:20,708 --> 01:21:24,333 Because I feel like we're both very in tune with, like, 2253 01:21:24,417 --> 01:21:27,208 one, how we feel, and also, how the other person feels. 2254 01:21:27,292 --> 01:21:29,417 And it's like, I feel like you can read 2255 01:21:29,500 --> 01:21:31,375 if I'm feeling uncomfy, 2256 01:21:31,375 --> 01:21:33,708 but then you almost, like, don't want to do anything 2257 01:21:33,792 --> 01:21:34,958 to make it more uncomfy. 2258 01:21:35,042 --> 01:21:37,042 - That's exactly it. 2259 01:21:37,125 --> 01:21:39,292 - I obviously want to move, you know, away from that, 2260 01:21:39,292 --> 01:21:41,958 and I want to, you know, feel that connection that we had, 2261 01:21:42,042 --> 01:21:43,292 you know, at our wedding. 2262 01:21:43,375 --> 01:21:45,000 And I don't want you to feel like 2263 01:21:45,083 --> 01:21:47,292 I'm just pushing you away 100%. 2264 01:21:47,375 --> 01:21:49,667 Like, I'm still working through some things, 2265 01:21:49,750 --> 01:21:52,167 and, like-- but I really am trying. 2266 01:21:52,208 --> 01:21:53,708 I have a lot of respect for you, 2267 01:21:53,792 --> 01:21:56,042 and, like, I care for you already. 2268 01:21:56,125 --> 01:21:58,000 Like, I feel like we already have this, like, trust. 2269 01:21:58,083 --> 01:21:59,667 Like, this is the most vulnerable, 2270 01:21:59,750 --> 01:22:00,833 like, I've ever been in my whole life, 2271 01:22:00,917 --> 01:22:03,542 like, this whole journey. 2272 01:22:03,625 --> 01:22:06,333 Marrying a complete stranger, like, it's a lot. 2273 01:22:06,417 --> 01:22:08,667 And, like, I appreciate you being 2274 01:22:08,792 --> 01:22:11,000 as, like, communicative and vulnerable 2275 01:22:11,125 --> 01:22:13,250 and, like, supportive. 2276 01:22:13,333 --> 01:22:16,583 Because it's making this a lot easier, honestly. 2277 01:22:16,667 --> 01:22:18,917 So, like, thank you for that. - Absolutely. 2278 01:22:19,000 --> 01:22:20,333 And I can see-- 2279 01:22:20,458 --> 01:22:22,167 I can--I can literally see it, like, 2280 01:22:22,250 --> 01:22:24,250 in you and your body language and how you're 2281 01:22:24,333 --> 01:22:26,208 looking at me and everything. 2282 01:22:26,292 --> 01:22:28,417 At the end of the conversation, 2283 01:22:28,500 --> 01:22:31,833 every conversation we've had is literally easier. 2284 01:22:31,875 --> 01:22:33,042 - Yeah. 2285 01:22:33,167 --> 01:22:34,792 - Or, like, a load off kind of a thing. 2286 01:22:34,875 --> 01:22:38,042 - Right. Yeah. - So, hey, to many more. 2287 01:22:38,125 --> 01:22:40,542 - Yes, great. This is a lot. 2288 01:22:40,667 --> 01:22:45,000 - ♪ All I need is you 2289 01:22:45,125 --> 01:22:46,667 ♪ All I need is 2290 01:22:46,750 --> 01:22:48,667 ♪ All I need is you 2291 01:22:48,750 --> 01:22:50,333 - Next time... 2292 01:22:50,417 --> 01:22:51,792 - Here's to the swallows that bring no babies. 2293 01:22:51,875 --> 01:22:54,667 [all cheering] 2294 01:22:54,750 --> 01:22:56,500 - Yes, in sync. 2295 01:22:56,583 --> 01:22:58,167 I got us. 2296 01:22:58,208 --> 01:22:59,625 - Anything that gets me wet, I'm happy. 2297 01:22:59,708 --> 01:23:01,000 [both laugh] 2298 01:23:01,083 --> 01:23:03,833 - Oh, no. - [screams] 2299 01:23:03,958 --> 01:23:05,417 There's never a dull moment with Juan. 2300 01:23:05,500 --> 01:23:08,250 - The thing that I like is that Em is the homie. 2301 01:23:08,375 --> 01:23:09,750 - You called me the homie? 2302 01:23:09,833 --> 01:23:12,000 [dramatic music] 2303 01:23:12,042 --> 01:23:15,750 - Trust and trusting people, I think, subconsciously, 2304 01:23:15,833 --> 01:23:18,167 that affected me. 2305 01:23:18,208 --> 01:23:22,583 - What I need is to feel like you want to take care of me. 2306 01:23:22,708 --> 01:23:23,833 - I can't do that. I'm sorry. 2307 01:23:23,917 --> 01:23:26,875 Like, I just don't have the money to do it. 2308 01:23:26,958 --> 01:23:28,375 - I don't want to call you, like, a pushover 2309 01:23:28,500 --> 01:23:30,000 because that's, like, a harsh term. 2310 01:23:30,167 --> 01:23:33,333 - OK, well, now you're just being an ass[bleep]. 2311 01:23:33,417 --> 01:23:35,667 - I just-- I'm feeling smothered. 2312 01:23:35,750 --> 01:23:37,333 Like, back off a little bit. 2313 01:23:37,375 --> 01:23:39,375 - You want your [bleep] space, I'll give it to you. 2314 01:23:39,375 --> 01:23:42,292 ♪ 2315 01:23:42,292 --> 01:23:44,500 - I don't even know if I want to try. 2316 01:23:44,542 --> 01:23:49,125 ♪ 2317 01:23:51,417 --> 01:23:53,125 - ♪ Get up, get up, get up, get up ♪ 2318 01:23:53,208 --> 01:23:58,583 ♪ We about to get it started 2319 01:23:58,667 --> 01:23:59,833 ♪ Let's go 2320 01:23:59,958 --> 01:24:01,458 - Hello, everyone, and welcome 2321 01:24:01,542 --> 01:24:03,417 to the "Married at First Sight Afterparty." 2322 01:24:03,500 --> 01:24:05,458 I'm your host, Keshia Knight Pulliam, 2323 01:24:05,542 --> 01:24:08,250 and I can't wait to chat about tonight's episode 2324 01:24:08,333 --> 01:24:10,417 with Emem, Thomas and Allen. 2325 01:24:10,542 --> 01:24:12,500 Welcome to the Afterparty, guys. 2326 01:24:12,583 --> 01:24:14,167 - Thank you. - Thank you very much. 2327 01:24:14,250 --> 01:24:15,750 - It's your first time. - Yeah, yeah. 2328 01:24:15,875 --> 01:24:17,583 - You're Afterparty virgins. - We are. 2329 01:24:17,708 --> 01:24:19,083 - It's good to go on. - Yes. 2330 01:24:19,167 --> 01:24:20,000 - Get into the dirt. 2331 01:24:20,083 --> 01:24:21,417 - Absolutely. 2332 01:24:21,500 --> 01:24:24,333 So on tonight's hour-long episode, 2333 01:24:24,417 --> 01:24:26,667 I'll be sitting down with you first. 2334 01:24:26,792 --> 01:24:30,000 And later, Karla, Madison and David 2335 01:24:30,083 --> 01:24:32,708 will be joining me to give me their take. 2336 01:24:32,792 --> 01:24:36,833 Now that the weddings are over, what was the most memorable 2337 01:24:36,917 --> 01:24:38,958 moment of your wedding day? 2338 01:24:39,042 --> 01:24:41,333 - I had no idea what was gonna come through. 2339 01:24:41,375 --> 01:24:46,125 And I just remember, like my eyes were like-- 2340 01:24:46,208 --> 01:24:47,125 - You look pleased. - [bleep]. 2341 01:24:47,208 --> 01:24:48,875 - You looked pleased. - Yeah. 2342 01:24:49,000 --> 01:24:50,292 No, I was-- - Very much so. 2343 01:24:50,375 --> 01:24:52,333 - I was happy, you know? - Okay. 2344 01:24:52,417 --> 01:24:55,583 - And I think there was a lot of similarities in our intent. 2345 01:24:55,667 --> 01:24:57,458 - Okay, understood. 2346 01:24:57,542 --> 01:24:59,333 Emem, what was a memorable moment from your wedding? 2347 01:24:59,417 --> 01:25:01,500 - The most memorable moment of my wedding 2348 01:25:01,625 --> 01:25:03,167 would have to be our vows. - Okay. 2349 01:25:03,292 --> 01:25:06,042 - Just being able to be vulnerable 2350 01:25:06,167 --> 01:25:09,500 and speak to what I want in a partner was everything. 2351 01:25:09,500 --> 01:25:11,417 - Okay. Good. Thomas, anything? 2352 01:25:11,500 --> 01:25:13,667 - Us having so many things that aligned 2353 01:25:13,708 --> 01:25:15,417 with each other, so many commonalities 2354 01:25:15,417 --> 01:25:17,500 and just having a great time. 2355 01:25:17,542 --> 01:25:19,000 It was just-- it was a euphoric, 2356 01:25:19,083 --> 01:25:20,000 like, intoxicating feeling. 2357 01:25:20,083 --> 01:25:21,500 - Aw, I love it. 2358 01:25:21,583 --> 01:25:23,625 Well, now that you are all married 2359 01:25:23,708 --> 01:25:25,667 and beginning your journey as newlyweds, 2360 01:25:25,708 --> 01:25:28,833 we are calling tonight's signature cocktail 2361 01:25:28,958 --> 01:25:31,833 the Vow Voyage Vodka Soda. 2362 01:25:31,875 --> 01:25:33,708 - Okay. - Oh, God. 2363 01:25:33,708 --> 01:25:35,000 - This twist on a vodka soda 2364 01:25:35,167 --> 01:25:36,875 contains muddled mint and strawberries, 2365 01:25:36,958 --> 01:25:39,333 vodka, soda and lime. 2366 01:25:39,375 --> 01:25:41,958 Cheers to the beginning of a wonderful journey. 2367 01:25:42,042 --> 01:25:45,625 all: Cheers. 2368 01:25:45,708 --> 01:25:47,583 - Is it good? - Yeah, it's pretty good. 2369 01:25:47,667 --> 01:25:49,125 - Delicious. - Very well. Very all right. 2370 01:25:49,250 --> 01:25:50,583 - All right, well, let's get started. 2371 01:25:50,583 --> 01:25:54,375 Allen, let's take a look back at the first time 2372 01:25:54,458 --> 01:25:56,167 you woke up next to your wife. 2373 01:25:56,208 --> 01:25:57,250 Roll the clip. 2374 01:25:59,667 --> 01:26:02,000 - So what's something you're most excited about 2375 01:26:02,083 --> 01:26:03,750 over the next couple of weeks? 2376 01:26:03,875 --> 01:26:05,250 - Oh, man. 2377 01:26:05,250 --> 01:26:08,167 Well, let me cover up my junk here. 2378 01:26:08,250 --> 01:26:11,875 [laughter] 2379 01:26:12,000 --> 01:26:13,875 - Yeah, get your sausage away from my breakfast sausage. 2380 01:26:13,958 --> 01:26:15,500 - Oh. 2381 01:26:15,542 --> 01:26:17,167 The thing that I'm excited about 2382 01:26:17,208 --> 01:26:20,625 is really how we get along. 2383 01:26:20,708 --> 01:26:24,583 On the day to day, what are those buttons that-- 2384 01:26:24,667 --> 01:26:26,333 like I'm sure there's gonna be something that-- 2385 01:26:26,417 --> 01:26:28,000 - Yeah. 2386 01:26:28,042 --> 01:26:30,000 - You're gonna be like, Allen, cool it. 2387 01:26:30,083 --> 01:26:33,458 - Oh, how does it feel watching that back? 2388 01:26:33,542 --> 01:26:36,500 - I don't know if I'm a big fan of these A shirts anymore. 2389 01:26:36,583 --> 01:26:38,292 I think I'm gonna retire those. 2390 01:26:38,375 --> 01:26:40,000 - Yeah, seeing it in hindsight maybe gives you a-- 2391 01:26:40,083 --> 01:26:41,958 - I always thought you looked like a baller with those things 2392 01:26:42,042 --> 01:26:43,167 but-- - Oh. 2393 01:26:43,250 --> 01:26:44,500 [laughter] - No. 2394 01:26:44,583 --> 01:26:45,583 I don't-- - I mean, I don't know. 2395 01:26:45,708 --> 01:26:47,042 I mean, there's a lot we gotta unpack 2396 01:26:47,167 --> 01:26:48,000 with the broccoli underwear. 2397 01:26:48,083 --> 01:26:49,750 - Oh, God. 2398 01:26:49,833 --> 01:26:53,875 - But I noticed there was so much chemistry 2399 01:26:53,958 --> 01:26:55,625 between you and Madison-- - Yeah. 2400 01:26:55,750 --> 01:26:56,792 - At the wedding. 2401 01:26:56,875 --> 01:26:59,042 - You couldn't ask for better, honestly. 2402 01:26:59,125 --> 01:27:02,542 The way the whole night went and then getting into bed, 2403 01:27:02,625 --> 01:27:04,333 there could be a little awkwardness, 2404 01:27:04,458 --> 01:27:05,542 but there was none of that. 2405 01:27:05,625 --> 01:27:06,750 And it was-- it really put me at ease. 2406 01:27:06,833 --> 01:27:08,417 - Okay. Well, good. 2407 01:27:08,417 --> 01:27:12,125 So I'm interested to know, was there any conversation 2408 01:27:12,208 --> 01:27:14,750 that was had after the cameras went away 2409 01:27:14,833 --> 01:27:17,167 that we weren't privy to between the two of you? 2410 01:27:17,250 --> 01:27:19,000 - Yeah, absolutely. 2411 01:27:19,125 --> 01:27:22,667 I mean, I think we probably had a good hour and a half or so 2412 01:27:22,750 --> 01:27:24,583 of just talking. 2413 01:27:24,667 --> 01:27:27,167 - Any cuddling? Any you know? 2414 01:27:27,250 --> 01:27:28,625 - Little head on the chest kind of thing. 2415 01:27:28,708 --> 01:27:29,875 - Little cuddling, little getting to know, 2416 01:27:29,958 --> 01:27:31,500 little getting cozy. Okay. 2417 01:27:31,542 --> 01:27:33,833 Emem, tell me what you're thinking 2418 01:27:33,917 --> 01:27:35,833 watching this interaction. 2419 01:27:35,875 --> 01:27:37,500 What do you see? 2420 01:27:37,542 --> 01:27:40,583 - Looking at Madison and Allen, they look 2421 01:27:40,583 --> 01:27:42,500 like they are hitting it off. - They do. Right? 2422 01:27:42,583 --> 01:27:44,667 - They look like they are having a great time. 2423 01:27:44,792 --> 01:27:47,167 They're happy to have each other and ready 2424 01:27:47,250 --> 01:27:48,500 for this journey. 2425 01:27:48,583 --> 01:27:50,333 - How about--Thomas, how about you? 2426 01:27:50,417 --> 01:27:53,167 - Yeah, they look comfortable. 2427 01:27:53,208 --> 01:27:57,042 Allen's firing off the jokes about sausage 2428 01:27:57,125 --> 01:27:58,500 and adjusting themselves. 2429 01:27:58,542 --> 01:28:00,542 So there's some level of comfort there, 2430 01:28:00,625 --> 01:28:03,000 and they look like a natural couple together. 2431 01:28:03,042 --> 01:28:04,500 - Yeah, and that's what I noticed 2432 01:28:04,625 --> 01:28:06,542 about a lot of the couples. Because we'll get to you too. 2433 01:28:06,625 --> 01:28:10,917 It felt not like two strangers who had just met 2434 01:28:11,000 --> 01:28:12,292 and were married. 2435 01:28:12,375 --> 01:28:14,917 Okay, well, let's move on to you, Thomas, 2436 01:28:15,000 --> 01:28:17,000 and take a look at your first day of marriage with Camille. 2437 01:28:17,083 --> 01:28:17,875 Roll the clip. 2438 01:28:20,750 --> 01:28:22,792 - It was just like-- 2439 01:28:22,875 --> 01:28:24,708 that has to end up being one of the best case scenarios. 2440 01:28:24,833 --> 01:28:26,125 Everything went perfect. 2441 01:28:26,208 --> 01:28:27,708 It just--I don't know. 2442 01:28:27,792 --> 01:28:29,500 I just I feel like I've known you for a while 2443 01:28:29,583 --> 01:28:31,042 even though I just met you. - Yeah. 2444 01:28:31,167 --> 01:28:34,167 It's kind of like that comfort level right from the get go. 2445 01:28:34,250 --> 01:28:35,792 Definitely the good conversation helps. 2446 01:28:35,875 --> 01:28:38,250 Like, I feel like we didn't stop talking at all yesterday. 2447 01:28:38,333 --> 01:28:39,958 - Yeah. - So that definitely helped. 2448 01:28:40,083 --> 01:28:41,750 - I'm just looking forward to getting to know you more. 2449 01:28:41,875 --> 01:28:43,208 - I know. I agree. 2450 01:28:43,292 --> 01:28:45,167 I think we're just like scratching the surface. 2451 01:28:45,250 --> 01:28:46,750 Even though we've been talking about a lot, 2452 01:28:46,833 --> 01:28:48,667 it's like there's still so much more to find out. 2453 01:28:48,708 --> 01:28:49,792 - Yeah. 2454 01:28:49,875 --> 01:28:51,375 - I mean, it's evident. 2455 01:28:51,458 --> 01:28:52,708 You can feel the chemistry. 2456 01:28:52,792 --> 01:28:56,125 You're like, this is the best case scenario. 2457 01:28:56,208 --> 01:28:58,042 Like, what are you thinking when 2458 01:28:58,167 --> 01:28:59,667 she's coming down the aisle and you're 2459 01:28:59,750 --> 01:29:01,333 seeing her for the first time? 2460 01:29:01,375 --> 01:29:04,375 - It feels like a dream. 2461 01:29:04,458 --> 01:29:08,083 And back to the best case scenario, 2462 01:29:08,167 --> 01:29:10,917 you have all these variables going on in your head. 2463 01:29:11,000 --> 01:29:13,250 And I'm watching her walk down the aisle. 2464 01:29:13,375 --> 01:29:17,542 And I'm just elated and relieved at the same time. 2465 01:29:17,625 --> 01:29:19,333 - I love watching the two of you, 2466 01:29:19,375 --> 01:29:21,333 and I haven't had the opportunity 2467 01:29:21,417 --> 01:29:23,792 to talk to you guys, like, after the weddings 2468 01:29:23,875 --> 01:29:26,042 and what have you, because I talked to your spouses 2469 01:29:26,167 --> 01:29:28,542 about your gifts. 2470 01:29:28,625 --> 01:29:30,500 What gift-- - Oh, God. 2471 01:29:30,583 --> 01:29:31,917 - Yeah, the banana. - No. 2472 01:29:32,000 --> 01:29:33,042 - What about? - Oh. 2473 01:29:33,125 --> 01:29:34,875 No, the bracelet? - The bracelet. 2474 01:29:34,958 --> 01:29:36,167 - I lost it. 2475 01:29:36,250 --> 01:29:37,167 - Tell me about the lost bracelet. 2476 01:29:37,250 --> 01:29:39,000 - I don't know if somebody, 2477 01:29:39,083 --> 01:29:41,667 when I hosted a little gathering, just took it? 2478 01:29:41,708 --> 01:29:42,708 - Oh, somebody stole the bracelet? 2479 01:29:42,792 --> 01:29:44,625 - At my house, yeah. - Oh. 2480 01:29:44,708 --> 01:29:47,417 - So I immediately, like, got on Google. 2481 01:29:47,500 --> 01:29:49,250 I'm like, where's the closest Tiffany's? 2482 01:29:49,333 --> 01:29:51,875 Luckily, it was like a couple of blocks away. 2483 01:29:52,000 --> 01:29:53,667 I called the store. 2484 01:29:53,708 --> 01:29:55,333 I'm like, hey, I need this, buy it. 2485 01:29:55,375 --> 01:29:57,000 And then I sent my friend to go get it. 2486 01:29:57,042 --> 01:29:58,500 And so, yeah. 2487 01:29:58,583 --> 01:30:00,167 - So you never found the other bracelet? 2488 01:30:00,250 --> 01:30:01,708 - Never found it. 2489 01:30:01,792 --> 01:30:03,208 That's why I think somebody ended up janking it. 2490 01:30:03,292 --> 01:30:05,125 - Well, you know what? 2491 01:30:05,208 --> 01:30:06,667 When things like that happen to me, I know it can be annoying, 2492 01:30:06,708 --> 01:30:09,458 but what I tell myself is that that person 2493 01:30:09,542 --> 01:30:10,958 needed it more than I do. 2494 01:30:11,042 --> 01:30:13,500 - That's really a good perspective to have. 2495 01:30:13,542 --> 01:30:15,500 - So we're gonna move on. 2496 01:30:15,542 --> 01:30:17,375 - Thomas, it seems like things between you 2497 01:30:17,458 --> 01:30:19,708 and Camille are off to a great start. 2498 01:30:19,833 --> 01:30:23,500 And Emem, I could say the same thing for you and your husband. 2499 01:30:23,542 --> 01:30:25,125 So take a look at this clip. 2500 01:30:27,042 --> 01:30:31,125 - What I know is last night, while you were sleeping, 2501 01:30:31,208 --> 01:30:33,000 our skin touched. 2502 01:30:33,083 --> 01:30:34,417 - Ooh. 2503 01:30:34,500 --> 01:30:36,250 - My God, today. 2504 01:30:36,333 --> 01:30:37,500 No. 2505 01:30:37,583 --> 01:30:39,667 - My God in heaven. 2506 01:30:39,750 --> 01:30:41,292 [laughter] 2507 01:30:41,292 --> 01:30:44,375 - We didn't do nothing but-- 2508 01:30:44,458 --> 01:30:45,625 - No, we did. What do you mean? 2509 01:30:45,708 --> 01:30:47,667 We connected physically. 2510 01:30:47,750 --> 01:30:49,542 - Far more intimate. - That counts. 2511 01:30:49,542 --> 01:30:53,750 - ♪ Loving you is all I wanna do, yeah ♪ 2512 01:30:53,833 --> 01:30:55,667 - I wanna know what part of the skin touched. 2513 01:30:55,750 --> 01:30:58,375 [laughter] - Ooh, good question. 2514 01:30:58,375 --> 01:30:59,833 - That's my question. - Yeah, right? 2515 01:30:59,917 --> 01:31:03,625 - Well, had some skin to skin, leg to leg, you know? 2516 01:31:03,625 --> 01:31:05,333 And he said, it feels like butter. 2517 01:31:05,375 --> 01:31:07,542 So you know. 2518 01:31:07,625 --> 01:31:09,417 - That's it? - That's it. 2519 01:31:09,500 --> 01:31:11,042 That's all that touched that evening. 2520 01:31:11,125 --> 01:31:12,583 That is it. 2521 01:31:12,667 --> 01:31:14,167 - Y'all call Jesus and them into it. 2522 01:31:14,250 --> 01:31:15,833 So I'm just asking. 2523 01:31:15,917 --> 01:31:18,250 - Well, it's always good to call on the Lord. 2524 01:31:18,333 --> 01:31:19,500 [laughter] 2525 01:31:19,583 --> 01:31:21,667 It's always good to call on the Lord. 2526 01:31:21,792 --> 01:31:25,625 So we did connect that night. 2527 01:31:25,708 --> 01:31:29,167 Like that first touch, something about it is just-- 2528 01:31:29,250 --> 01:31:30,833 it warms your heart. 2529 01:31:30,875 --> 01:31:32,833 It warms your heart. - Okay, fair enough. 2530 01:31:32,917 --> 01:31:34,250 I love it. 2531 01:31:34,375 --> 01:31:35,500 So I know you said your family-- 2532 01:31:35,542 --> 01:31:36,500 you're from Nigeria, correct? - Yes. 2533 01:31:36,542 --> 01:31:37,750 - Originally? - Yes. 2534 01:31:37,875 --> 01:31:38,833 - I got some Nigerian friends. Right? 2535 01:31:38,875 --> 01:31:40,542 - Yes. 2536 01:31:40,625 --> 01:31:41,833 - And when it comes to weddings, 2537 01:31:41,917 --> 01:31:43,875 they are a whole situation. - Yes. 2538 01:31:43,958 --> 01:31:45,833 - So I saw the money throwing. I know that's very Nigerian. 2539 01:31:45,875 --> 01:31:47,958 - Yeah. - I'm aware of that. 2540 01:31:48,042 --> 01:31:50,708 But were there any other things that you 2541 01:31:50,833 --> 01:31:53,167 incorporated into your wedding that we maybe didn't see? 2542 01:31:53,292 --> 01:31:54,750 And why not? 2543 01:31:54,875 --> 01:31:58,125 - There is so much that goes into a Nigerian wedding. 2544 01:31:58,208 --> 01:32:00,000 I am American born. 2545 01:32:00,083 --> 01:32:03,708 My parents were both born in Nigeria, first generation 2546 01:32:03,875 --> 01:32:08,125 immigrants, and they came over at young ages, 18 years old. 2547 01:32:08,208 --> 01:32:11,208 And for them, they didn't get that chance to have 2548 01:32:11,292 --> 01:32:13,042 their Nigerian wedding. 2549 01:32:13,042 --> 01:32:16,750 I didn't wanna cheapen a Nigerian wedding by trying 2550 01:32:16,875 --> 01:32:18,500 to squeeze it into two weeks. 2551 01:32:18,583 --> 01:32:20,000 - Okay. - I didn't wanna-- 2552 01:32:20,083 --> 01:32:21,500 - You didn't wanna half-- you didn't wanna half-ass it. 2553 01:32:21,542 --> 01:32:22,750 - Just a little taste. I didn't wanna half-ass it. 2554 01:32:22,833 --> 01:32:24,417 - I'm not mad at that. - Yeah. 2555 01:32:24,542 --> 01:32:25,625 - And I like that you were like, 2556 01:32:25,708 --> 01:32:27,708 so what's my new last name? 2557 01:32:27,708 --> 01:32:29,667 - And the fact that he has an Igbo name and it kind of fits 2558 01:32:29,708 --> 01:32:32,000 in the theme as to what my name is, 2559 01:32:32,083 --> 01:32:34,375 based on the tribe my father comes from, 2560 01:32:34,458 --> 01:32:36,042 is just--it's great. It works out. 2561 01:32:36,125 --> 01:32:37,625 - Listen, that made my heart smile. 2562 01:32:37,708 --> 01:32:39,000 I'm not gonna lie. It made my heart smile. 2563 01:32:39,083 --> 01:32:41,042 But now that all of your weddings are over, 2564 01:32:41,125 --> 01:32:42,875 do you feel like everything went smoothly? 2565 01:32:42,958 --> 01:32:44,500 - Yeah. - Everything went smooth? 2566 01:32:44,625 --> 01:32:46,167 - Absolutely. - Yeah. I-- 2567 01:32:46,292 --> 01:32:49,542 - Only thing that sticks in my mind is the music selection, 2568 01:32:49,625 --> 01:32:52,875 I think, was mostly Madison and her girls. 2569 01:32:52,958 --> 01:32:54,375 - Oh. 2570 01:32:54,375 --> 01:32:56,125 So I wanna hear, what would your music selection-- 2571 01:32:56,208 --> 01:32:57,333 - No, I-- - What song? 2572 01:32:57,417 --> 01:32:58,583 - Pop Smoke, "Dior." - Oh, okay. 2573 01:32:58,667 --> 01:33:00,500 - Okay. - Throw some of this. 2574 01:33:00,583 --> 01:33:02,875 And the funny part, as soon as that came on, 2575 01:33:02,875 --> 01:33:05,750 all the women just got off the dance floor. 2576 01:33:05,833 --> 01:33:07,500 And then it's my ass on the dance floor with my buddy 2577 01:33:07,583 --> 01:33:09,208 or so. - But it's okay. 2578 01:33:09,292 --> 01:33:10,833 It's your wedding too. - It was good, though. 2579 01:33:10,875 --> 01:33:12,667 Yeah, I'm like, I gotta hear my-- 2580 01:33:12,792 --> 01:33:14,792 I'm not doing any interviews until you play some Pop Smoke. 2581 01:33:14,875 --> 01:33:16,542 - You think? [laughter] 2582 01:33:16,625 --> 01:33:18,625 Okay, I'm not mad at it. 2583 01:33:18,708 --> 01:33:20,292 Well, it sounds like all three of your marriages 2584 01:33:20,375 --> 01:33:22,083 are starting off strong. 2585 01:33:26,042 --> 01:33:27,000 All right, Allen. 2586 01:33:27,208 --> 01:33:28,875 Madison's family put you through the wringer, 2587 01:33:28,958 --> 01:33:30,750 but you certainly rolled with the punches. 2588 01:33:30,875 --> 01:33:32,083 Take a look at this clip. 2589 01:33:34,500 --> 01:33:36,250 - I'm curious. 2590 01:33:36,375 --> 01:33:39,208 Would I have a chance with her just walking down the street? 2591 01:33:39,292 --> 01:33:40,667 - No. - No? 2592 01:33:40,750 --> 01:33:42,917 - Absolutely not. - Okay, okay. 2593 01:33:43,000 --> 01:33:46,625 - But she--physically, she does have a type, pretty boy. 2594 01:33:46,708 --> 01:33:48,958 And so I think you're complete opposite of that. 2595 01:33:49,042 --> 01:33:50,833 - Okay. 2596 01:33:50,917 --> 01:33:54,083 - So initially, my initial reaction was like, oh, my gosh. 2597 01:33:54,167 --> 01:33:56,167 But then when you started talking, 2598 01:33:56,208 --> 01:34:00,000 your personality was like, completely won me over. 2599 01:34:00,000 --> 01:34:02,000 ♪ 2600 01:34:02,042 --> 01:34:04,542 - So let's start with sister first. 2601 01:34:04,625 --> 01:34:06,042 When she said that, when you-- 2602 01:34:06,167 --> 01:34:08,833 would you be her type and she was like, absolutely not, 2603 01:34:08,917 --> 01:34:09,875 what is going through your mind? 2604 01:34:09,958 --> 01:34:11,417 Do tell. Like explain that to me. 2605 01:34:11,542 --> 01:34:13,625 - I still don't fully even know what a pretty boy is. 2606 01:34:13,708 --> 01:34:17,750 I've got the understanding of common expressions. 2607 01:34:17,875 --> 01:34:19,458 Like, I mean, terminology nowadays, 2608 01:34:19,542 --> 01:34:22,208 like I thought I'd come across as like, 2609 01:34:22,292 --> 01:34:25,875 that pretty boy, preppy, whatever, like, aesthetically. 2610 01:34:25,958 --> 01:34:28,042 Personality wise, not a chance. I get that. 2611 01:34:28,167 --> 01:34:30,500 And honestly, Madison is probably 2612 01:34:30,583 --> 01:34:33,917 one of the first, like, truly American, like white girls 2613 01:34:34,042 --> 01:34:36,500 that I've dated. - Who--Allen? 2614 01:34:36,583 --> 01:34:38,708 - I'm a hit in Europe, I think. 2615 01:34:38,792 --> 01:34:40,542 [laughter] 2616 01:34:40,625 --> 01:34:41,875 Like I was raised-- 2617 01:34:42,000 --> 01:34:43,167 - He said, I'm a hit in Europe, y'all. 2618 01:34:43,250 --> 01:34:45,083 [laughter] 2619 01:34:45,167 --> 01:34:48,125 What is it about European girls that you get a-- 2620 01:34:48,208 --> 01:34:50,917 what is different, I guess, from American girls 2621 01:34:51,000 --> 01:34:52,333 versus European girls? 2622 01:34:52,375 --> 01:34:54,083 - Just little nuances. 2623 01:34:54,083 --> 01:34:56,042 Like if you go to your girlfriend's parents 2624 01:34:56,125 --> 01:34:58,708 and the mom just keeps putting food on your plate, 2625 01:34:58,792 --> 01:35:02,583 you don't leave the table until that's all done 2626 01:35:02,667 --> 01:35:09,500 or sharing a certain type of shot with one of my exes' dads 2627 01:35:09,542 --> 01:35:10,833 or something like that. 2628 01:35:10,875 --> 01:35:14,708 There's certain meaning behind gestures. 2629 01:35:14,792 --> 01:35:16,500 - No, I get it. That's interesting. 2630 01:35:16,583 --> 01:35:17,917 This is--I'm just curious because it does 2631 01:35:17,917 --> 01:35:21,958 come up with your in-laws. 2632 01:35:22,042 --> 01:35:24,042 And they're like, so when is the last time 2633 01:35:24,125 --> 01:35:25,833 you've gotten tested for STDs? 2634 01:35:25,917 --> 01:35:27,125 I was sitting there like-- - Whoa. 2635 01:35:27,208 --> 01:35:28,500 - What? - Oh, yeah. 2636 01:35:28,542 --> 01:35:29,625 Yeah, yeah. 2637 01:35:29,708 --> 01:35:31,458 - I was like, what? 2638 01:35:31,542 --> 01:35:33,708 Allen was like, yes. 2639 01:35:33,792 --> 01:35:35,333 I went to the doctor and I've been tested. 2640 01:35:35,375 --> 01:35:38,125 Did you all take that--did you all have those conversations 2641 01:35:38,208 --> 01:35:40,833 at all, even, with your new husband or wife? 2642 01:35:40,875 --> 01:35:43,000 - I didn't have the conversation. 2643 01:35:43,083 --> 01:35:45,042 However, as a medical professional and someone 2644 01:35:45,167 --> 01:35:47,083 who's just in the field, I automatically 2645 01:35:47,167 --> 01:35:50,917 do that every six months and before any new partners. 2646 01:35:51,000 --> 01:35:52,833 - Okay, okay. - Yeah. 2647 01:35:52,917 --> 01:35:55,667 And we had a bit of a conversation about it 2648 01:35:55,708 --> 01:35:57,417 and just discussed it. 2649 01:35:57,542 --> 01:36:00,042 Because if you are living that lifestyle, you wanna be safe, 2650 01:36:00,042 --> 01:36:01,708 you wanna protect yourself and your partners. 2651 01:36:01,792 --> 01:36:03,292 So we did have that conversation, 2652 01:36:03,375 --> 01:36:07,417 but we both were responsible with our behaviors 2653 01:36:07,417 --> 01:36:09,125 and our actions. - Okay. 2654 01:36:09,208 --> 01:36:12,750 Well, Allen definitely got lucky and came 2655 01:36:12,750 --> 01:36:14,042 out of the brunch unscathed. 2656 01:36:14,167 --> 01:36:16,000 I must say, you handled yourself well. 2657 01:36:16,083 --> 01:36:18,875 Now let's take a look at Camille's brunch 2658 01:36:19,000 --> 01:36:20,458 with her new in-laws. 2659 01:36:20,542 --> 01:36:22,417 Roll the clip. [laughs] 2660 01:36:24,208 --> 01:36:27,417 - You do know Tom wants children, right? 2661 01:36:27,542 --> 01:36:29,083 - Yep, and I do too. Yeah. 2662 01:36:29,208 --> 01:36:31,333 So that's definitely on my radar. 2663 01:36:31,417 --> 01:36:32,875 - Like in the next five years, next two years? 2664 01:36:33,000 --> 01:36:34,542 What is your time frame? 2665 01:36:34,708 --> 01:36:36,875 - Yeah, I would say, probably within the next two years. 2666 01:36:36,958 --> 01:36:38,667 I think I would definitely be down for that. 2667 01:36:38,667 --> 01:36:40,167 Yeah. - Oh, my. 2668 01:36:40,250 --> 01:36:41,250 That's so pleasing. - Isn't that exciting? 2669 01:36:41,333 --> 01:36:42,708 That's good news. 2670 01:36:42,792 --> 01:36:43,833 - That's great news. That's great news. 2671 01:36:43,917 --> 01:36:45,500 We're not getting any younger. 2672 01:36:45,542 --> 01:36:49,125 I've been waiting to have a niece or nephew from Tom, 2673 01:36:49,208 --> 01:36:52,042 because I'm like, ideally, I wanted my kid 2674 01:36:52,125 --> 01:36:53,833 to grow up with his kid. 2675 01:36:53,917 --> 01:36:55,167 [laughter] 2676 01:36:55,208 --> 01:36:56,333 - For sure. 2677 01:36:56,458 --> 01:36:58,208 No, that's awesome. 2678 01:36:58,292 --> 01:37:01,250 - Your mom is serious about them grandbabies. 2679 01:37:01,333 --> 01:37:03,167 How do you feel watching that interaction? 2680 01:37:03,167 --> 01:37:05,417 - I feel like they should have asked some tougher questions, 2681 01:37:05,500 --> 01:37:07,333 to be honest. - Like what? 2682 01:37:07,375 --> 01:37:09,208 What do you think they should have asked? 2683 01:37:09,292 --> 01:37:10,208 - They should have gotten to the nitty gritty. 2684 01:37:10,375 --> 01:37:12,917 They should have just asked her some-- 2685 01:37:13,000 --> 01:37:16,917 maybe some bad habits that she may have. 2686 01:37:17,000 --> 01:37:18,667 I felt she got some softball questions. 2687 01:37:18,750 --> 01:37:20,167 - Okay. 2688 01:37:20,250 --> 01:37:24,292 - But no, watching them interact, 2689 01:37:24,375 --> 01:37:27,542 these are things that my family really wants for me. 2690 01:37:27,667 --> 01:37:31,375 My brother, as he states, he really 2691 01:37:31,375 --> 01:37:35,042 wanted to have like us raise children together 2692 01:37:35,125 --> 01:37:36,667 and us do all those things. 2693 01:37:36,708 --> 01:37:38,000 - Because did your brother have kids yet? 2694 01:37:38,042 --> 01:37:40,250 - Yeah, my brother has a daughter. 2695 01:37:40,333 --> 01:37:42,000 - How old is she? - And she's 22, so. 2696 01:37:42,042 --> 01:37:43,625 - Oh. So he has an older daughter. 2697 01:37:43,750 --> 01:37:45,708 - Yeah. He has an adult daughter. 2698 01:37:45,792 --> 01:37:46,667 - So now he's ready to have younger kids. 2699 01:37:46,750 --> 01:37:48,250 - Right, right. 2700 01:37:48,375 --> 01:37:49,833 - So that you all can do it together. 2701 01:37:49,917 --> 01:37:51,042 - So he's been pushing this on me for a while. 2702 01:37:51,167 --> 01:37:52,417 - Okay. Come on. What you doing? 2703 01:37:52,500 --> 01:37:54,958 - I know. Slow and steady, I thought, won the race, 2704 01:37:55,042 --> 01:37:58,167 but that's not the case. 2705 01:37:58,250 --> 01:38:01,500 It's interesting to see Camille interact with my family. 2706 01:38:01,542 --> 01:38:03,917 She is well spoken, and she has a good head on her shoulders. 2707 01:38:04,000 --> 01:38:07,875 So she's answering the questions without any fear 2708 01:38:07,958 --> 01:38:09,833 and providing a lot of comfort for my family, 2709 01:38:09,875 --> 01:38:11,792 which makes me feel good. 2710 01:38:11,875 --> 01:38:13,333 And she just fits in with everybody. 2711 01:38:13,333 --> 01:38:15,875 - So I haven't asked you about this. 2712 01:38:15,958 --> 01:38:19,458 Your twin brother, what does he think of your bride? 2713 01:38:19,542 --> 01:38:22,667 - I asked him about Camille right after the wedding, 2714 01:38:22,792 --> 01:38:24,375 and I shoot him a text. 2715 01:38:24,500 --> 01:38:27,750 And he sends this long paragraph about how wonderful 2716 01:38:27,833 --> 01:38:33,375 she is and how she's my type and all the pieces are aligning 2717 01:38:33,458 --> 01:38:35,125 and falling into place. 2718 01:38:35,208 --> 01:38:37,167 And he's making me feel like there's an opportunity 2719 01:38:37,208 --> 01:38:38,583 for a great future with her. 2720 01:38:38,667 --> 01:38:40,208 - I love it. I love it. 2721 01:38:40,333 --> 01:38:41,750 So I wanna move on to you, Emem. 2722 01:38:41,833 --> 01:38:43,958 Based on what you know about Camille, 2723 01:38:44,042 --> 01:38:46,167 do you think that she's a good match for Thomas? 2724 01:38:46,250 --> 01:38:49,042 - I think that Camille is a great match for Thomas. 2725 01:38:49,125 --> 01:38:52,042 She allows him to be who he is. 2726 01:38:52,125 --> 01:38:55,000 And Camille is open to learning who Thomas is. 2727 01:38:55,083 --> 01:38:57,583 So I think that this is gonna be a match made in heaven. 2728 01:38:57,708 --> 01:38:59,958 - Okay, fair enough. 2729 01:39:00,042 --> 01:39:01,958 Well, Emem, while we're talking about these brunches, 2730 01:39:02,042 --> 01:39:05,000 I'd like to bring up your brunch with Ikechi's family, 2731 01:39:05,042 --> 01:39:08,375 because something that was said caught my attention. 2732 01:39:08,458 --> 01:39:11,958 - My husband always says, Ike is looking for a unicorn. 2733 01:39:12,042 --> 01:39:14,792 He's looking for something that's totally different. 2734 01:39:14,875 --> 01:39:17,208 And I think he's looking for perfection. 2735 01:39:17,292 --> 01:39:20,292 And perfection doesn't exist, in my opinion. 2736 01:39:20,375 --> 01:39:21,542 - Yeah. 2737 01:39:21,708 --> 01:39:24,125 - How does that statement resonate with you, Emem? 2738 01:39:24,208 --> 01:39:26,833 - Hearing that a man wants a unicorn-- 2739 01:39:26,917 --> 01:39:28,500 - Sets the bar pretty high, huh? 2740 01:39:28,542 --> 01:39:30,083 - Makes me wanna run in the other direction. 2741 01:39:30,208 --> 01:39:31,083 - Yeah. 2742 01:39:31,167 --> 01:39:33,333 - It makes me wanna head out. 2743 01:39:33,458 --> 01:39:38,708 Asking for anyone to be this magical creature 2744 01:39:38,792 --> 01:39:40,500 just seems unfair. - Yeah. 2745 01:39:40,542 --> 01:39:42,958 - I don't believe that there is perfection. 2746 01:39:43,042 --> 01:39:44,708 I don't consider myself perfect. 2747 01:39:44,875 --> 01:39:45,875 I would hope that Ikechi doesn't 2748 01:39:45,958 --> 01:39:48,125 consider himself perfect. 2749 01:39:48,208 --> 01:39:50,917 So I wanted this to be a relationship where we accept 2750 01:39:51,000 --> 01:39:53,083 each other where we are. - Fair enough. 2751 01:39:53,083 --> 01:39:55,500 But it sounds like he also took accountability for it. 2752 01:39:55,542 --> 01:39:56,958 - He took-- - Which is really important. 2753 01:39:57,042 --> 01:39:58,500 - Great accountability. - Okay. 2754 01:40:02,292 --> 01:40:03,500 Now that we've covered the friends and family brunches, 2755 01:40:03,583 --> 01:40:07,333 let's switch things up and talk about the honeymoon. 2756 01:40:07,375 --> 01:40:08,375 Roll the clip. 2757 01:40:10,125 --> 01:40:12,167 - They did a good job, though. I have to say that. 2758 01:40:12,208 --> 01:40:15,083 They did a good job. - Yeah, I think so too. 2759 01:40:15,208 --> 01:40:17,333 - Everyone looks good together. 2760 01:40:17,375 --> 01:40:20,042 - I'm legit thinking, did they meet their spouses 2761 01:40:20,167 --> 01:40:21,667 before this moment? 2762 01:40:21,750 --> 01:40:23,833 Like, how is everyone so at ease? 2763 01:40:23,875 --> 01:40:25,333 Some of them are even like, hugging, 2764 01:40:25,417 --> 01:40:27,333 like touching each other, seem like so into each other. 2765 01:40:27,417 --> 01:40:28,958 I'm like, what? 2766 01:40:29,042 --> 01:40:31,750 Like, I'm still processing even I got married. 2767 01:40:31,875 --> 01:40:34,208 So it's just wild to me. 2768 01:40:34,292 --> 01:40:36,542 - Can you all feel that Michelle 2769 01:40:36,625 --> 01:40:38,083 is a little uncomfortable? 2770 01:40:38,167 --> 01:40:40,208 - 100%. - You can? 2771 01:40:40,333 --> 01:40:41,875 - Michelle's body language made it very clear 2772 01:40:42,000 --> 01:40:43,333 that she was uncomfortable. 2773 01:40:43,417 --> 01:40:45,708 It's like she was sitting kind of away 2774 01:40:45,833 --> 01:40:47,708 from the entire situation that was 2775 01:40:47,833 --> 01:40:49,500 her husband right next to her. 2776 01:40:49,667 --> 01:40:52,375 So, I mean, she's just a little bit slower to warm. 2777 01:40:52,458 --> 01:40:54,042 - She's a little slower to warm up. 2778 01:40:54,042 --> 01:40:55,875 - At this point, it's pretty fresh. 2779 01:40:55,958 --> 01:40:59,500 But you can definitely feel a space there. 2780 01:40:59,542 --> 01:41:01,042 - Absolutely. 2781 01:41:01,125 --> 01:41:03,000 - And I think, if you're choosing to get married 2782 01:41:03,083 --> 01:41:06,167 at first sight, I don't think it's uncommon for you 2783 01:41:06,250 --> 01:41:09,417 to show some kind of affection, even though it is the first day 2784 01:41:09,500 --> 01:41:11,167 you're meeting the person. - Yeah. 2785 01:41:11,250 --> 01:41:13,333 - If that connection is there, there's gonna be 2786 01:41:13,458 --> 01:41:14,833 some kind of physical connection. 2787 01:41:14,917 --> 01:41:16,542 It doesn't have to be kissing, but it 2788 01:41:16,625 --> 01:41:18,000 could be like holding hands, sitting close to each other, 2789 01:41:18,125 --> 01:41:19,125 whatever it may be. 2790 01:41:19,208 --> 01:41:20,917 - Just a touch on the arm or a-- 2791 01:41:21,000 --> 01:41:22,167 - Yeah. - You know what I mean? 2792 01:41:22,250 --> 01:41:23,625 - And it's also very early. 2793 01:41:23,708 --> 01:41:25,458 So you still wanna respect that person's journey. 2794 01:41:25,542 --> 01:41:26,875 And-- - Yeah. 2795 01:41:26,875 --> 01:41:28,667 - I don't know any of you all. - Right. 2796 01:41:28,708 --> 01:41:31,417 - So it's kind of like, let them experience it. 2797 01:41:31,500 --> 01:41:33,583 Time will tell. - How is it traveling? 2798 01:41:33,667 --> 01:41:36,000 Because traveling tells you a lot about a person. 2799 01:41:36,042 --> 01:41:38,583 People travel and vacation, just how they family different, 2800 01:41:38,667 --> 01:41:41,167 people travel different. People vacation different. 2801 01:41:41,208 --> 01:41:43,833 - I'm learning that he needs to steam every item-- 2802 01:41:43,833 --> 01:41:45,708 - What? - On this trip. 2803 01:41:45,875 --> 01:41:47,500 - Dear God. 2804 01:41:47,542 --> 01:41:49,042 - Every day, we are pulling out this steamer 2805 01:41:49,167 --> 01:41:51,083 so that we can steam his shirts 2806 01:41:51,208 --> 01:41:53,167 so we can get them ready for the day. 2807 01:41:53,250 --> 01:41:55,292 - That's funny, because I-- 2808 01:41:55,375 --> 01:41:57,167 if I have to iron it, I'm probably not wearing it. 2809 01:41:57,250 --> 01:41:58,542 But go ahead. I'm sorry. 2810 01:41:58,625 --> 01:42:00,458 - Yeah. 2811 01:42:00,542 --> 01:42:03,458 Camille and I are packing in similar ways. 2812 01:42:03,542 --> 01:42:05,833 I'm very particular with how I fold 2813 01:42:05,958 --> 01:42:07,958 so they don't get wrinkles. 2814 01:42:08,042 --> 01:42:12,292 But I'm learning about Camille, that she has motion sickness. 2815 01:42:12,375 --> 01:42:13,500 So-- - She has motion sickness. 2816 01:42:13,625 --> 01:42:15,708 - Yeah. 2817 01:42:15,792 --> 01:42:17,833 So when we're--even car, in cars, boats, trains, airplanes, 2818 01:42:17,875 --> 01:42:20,542 it don't matter what it is. 2819 01:42:20,542 --> 01:42:23,667 So I'm starting to learn that as we're going and traveling 2820 01:42:23,708 --> 01:42:25,958 and being a little bit more conscious of it 2821 01:42:26,042 --> 01:42:28,000 as we get further down the trip. 2822 01:42:28,042 --> 01:42:30,833 - I'm usually the guy that gets like there 2823 01:42:30,917 --> 01:42:32,750 15 minutes before boarding and-- 2824 01:42:32,833 --> 01:42:34,625 - Sprint to the airport. 2825 01:42:34,708 --> 01:42:36,292 - I better get through security in six minutes, 2826 01:42:36,375 --> 01:42:37,625 because that's my allowance. 2827 01:42:37,708 --> 01:42:39,333 - Yeah. - So-- 2828 01:42:39,417 --> 01:42:40,667 - I'm getting better with that. 2829 01:42:40,750 --> 01:42:42,292 - I'm guilty. 2830 01:42:42,375 --> 01:42:43,250 - Listen, kids has made me have to do 2831 01:42:43,250 --> 01:42:44,958 a little better with that. 2832 01:42:45,042 --> 01:42:46,583 - That's understandable, yeah. 2833 01:42:46,667 --> 01:42:48,792 - But I am that person who used to pack the morning of. 2834 01:42:48,875 --> 01:42:50,458 - Oh, wow. 2835 01:42:50,542 --> 01:42:52,125 - Morning of, go to the airport with just enough time 2836 01:42:52,208 --> 01:42:53,833 to walk through security, get on the plane. 2837 01:42:53,875 --> 01:42:55,458 That is who I am. 2838 01:42:55,542 --> 01:42:57,958 But I've had to learn to do something different. 2839 01:42:58,042 --> 01:43:00,875 But per usual, I can't wait to see 2840 01:43:01,000 --> 01:43:02,500 how these honeymoons unfold. 2841 01:43:02,542 --> 01:43:04,333 And Emem, it looks like you and Ikechi 2842 01:43:04,417 --> 01:43:06,333 are off to a solid start. 2843 01:43:06,417 --> 01:43:08,250 Take a look at this clip. 2844 01:43:10,583 --> 01:43:12,000 - Come on. 2845 01:43:12,042 --> 01:43:13,000 - I feel like I got too many clothes on. 2846 01:43:13,042 --> 01:43:14,375 - Okay, well, take it off. 2847 01:43:14,458 --> 01:43:16,625 ♪ 2848 01:43:16,750 --> 01:43:19,417 Take it off then. 2849 01:43:19,542 --> 01:43:20,667 Should have been took it off. 2850 01:43:20,708 --> 01:43:21,833 That was on you. 2851 01:43:21,875 --> 01:43:24,000 You wanted to be naked. 2852 01:43:24,042 --> 01:43:25,750 I want you to be naked. 2853 01:43:25,875 --> 01:43:29,208 - ♪ So sweet that lemonade 2854 01:43:29,375 --> 01:43:31,000 - That's how you looked at me on our wedding night. 2855 01:43:31,083 --> 01:43:33,458 [laughter] 2856 01:43:33,542 --> 01:43:35,000 - Gonna get me in trouble. - Right. 2857 01:43:35,083 --> 01:43:36,417 [laughter] 2858 01:43:36,500 --> 01:43:41,042 - ♪ Got me sweet like lemonade ♪ 2859 01:43:41,125 --> 01:43:43,167 - Okay. 2860 01:43:43,250 --> 01:43:45,375 First of all, yes to the Beyoncé fan that you 2861 01:43:45,500 --> 01:43:48,208 apparently had positioned as you 2862 01:43:48,375 --> 01:43:50,083 were having your conversation. 2863 01:43:50,208 --> 01:43:52,083 But how does it feel watching that? 2864 01:43:52,167 --> 01:43:53,375 You two look real, real comfortable. 2865 01:43:53,458 --> 01:43:55,083 - Yes. 2866 01:43:55,167 --> 01:43:58,167 It feels good seeing Ikechi and I enjoying our first day 2867 01:43:58,208 --> 01:44:00,042 of honeymoon together. 2868 01:44:00,167 --> 01:44:01,250 - Y'all seen each other naked yet? 2869 01:44:01,375 --> 01:44:04,208 - No, we have not seen each other naked, 2870 01:44:04,333 --> 01:44:06,750 but there was a lot of talk about it. 2871 01:44:06,833 --> 01:44:07,833 That's all. - Okay. 2872 01:44:07,958 --> 01:44:09,833 - We like to talk-- 2873 01:44:09,833 --> 01:44:12,500 we are keeping things close to the cuff but having fun. 2874 01:44:12,583 --> 01:44:15,167 - Okay, because I heard you like, yeah, take it off. 2875 01:44:15,167 --> 01:44:16,625 - Take it off. - Okay. 2876 01:44:16,708 --> 01:44:18,208 - I want my husband to feel wanted. 2877 01:44:18,292 --> 01:44:20,750 - I love that. - I want him to feel wanted. 2878 01:44:20,833 --> 01:44:22,625 So if I have to tell him to take it off, 2879 01:44:22,708 --> 01:44:24,667 I'm gonna tell him to take it off, take it off. 2880 01:44:24,708 --> 01:44:25,875 - I ain't mad at you. I am not mad at you. 2881 01:44:25,958 --> 01:44:27,083 Do you feel wanted? 2882 01:44:27,208 --> 01:44:29,292 - I feel very wanted by Ikechi. 2883 01:44:29,375 --> 01:44:33,000 I feel like we are exposing our vulnerabilities 2884 01:44:33,042 --> 01:44:34,625 with one another. - Okay. 2885 01:44:34,708 --> 01:44:37,167 So I wanna talk about the conversation you 2886 01:44:37,250 --> 01:44:38,875 guys were having at the pool. 2887 01:44:38,958 --> 01:44:41,500 - I have been engaged as well. 2888 01:44:41,583 --> 01:44:46,125 It was at the end of college, 2889 01:44:46,208 --> 01:44:49,000 and we were together for four years. 2890 01:44:49,083 --> 01:44:50,542 Like you, there was infidelity 2891 01:44:50,667 --> 01:44:53,667 and there was mistrust on my part. 2892 01:44:53,750 --> 01:44:57,042 - So when you hear Ikechi say that he 2893 01:44:57,125 --> 01:45:01,500 has been unfaithful previously, is that a red flag for you? 2894 01:45:01,625 --> 01:45:03,292 Or how do you feel hearing that information? 2895 01:45:03,375 --> 01:45:05,333 - I do feel like it's a red flag, 2896 01:45:05,417 --> 01:45:07,208 but he was able to share with me 2897 01:45:07,333 --> 01:45:09,333 that he does feel like he ruined 2898 01:45:09,417 --> 01:45:11,333 a very good thing for him. 2899 01:45:11,417 --> 01:45:14,833 So that remorse lets me know that he 2900 01:45:14,958 --> 01:45:16,083 did grow from that experience. 2901 01:45:16,208 --> 01:45:17,917 - Okay. Okay. 2902 01:45:18,000 --> 01:45:20,458 Well, Thomas and Allen, it seems like a few people 2903 01:45:20,542 --> 01:45:23,542 this season have had previous engagements. 2904 01:45:23,542 --> 01:45:26,542 Have either of you ever come close to getting 2905 01:45:26,667 --> 01:45:29,833 engaged or married? You were engaged. 2906 01:45:29,875 --> 01:45:31,542 Or y'all weren't engaged, y'all was-- 2907 01:45:31,625 --> 01:45:33,333 - The intent was there. The ring was there. 2908 01:45:33,417 --> 01:45:35,125 But I never-- - Okay. 2909 01:45:35,208 --> 01:45:37,333 - Got to the point where-- 2910 01:45:37,417 --> 01:45:39,125 I felt I wanted to be healthy before I presented that 2911 01:45:39,250 --> 01:45:41,000 with our situation. 2912 01:45:41,042 --> 01:45:43,083 So unofficially, yes. 2913 01:45:43,167 --> 01:45:45,000 Officially, no. - Okay. 2914 01:45:45,083 --> 01:45:47,833 - I probably should have previously been engaged. 2915 01:45:47,833 --> 01:45:52,500 I've been in long relationships and just 2916 01:45:52,583 --> 01:45:54,000 never pulled the trigger. 2917 01:45:54,083 --> 01:45:55,333 There was like a failure to launch. 2918 01:45:55,458 --> 01:45:57,083 And just-- - What were you afraid of? 2919 01:45:57,167 --> 01:45:59,167 - Failing, to be honest. 2920 01:45:59,167 --> 01:46:03,583 And that was one of the main reasons I chose to do 2921 01:46:03,708 --> 01:46:06,667 the "Married at First Sight" is that 2922 01:46:06,708 --> 01:46:10,958 I needed to really push myself to take that commitment. 2923 01:46:10,958 --> 01:46:12,333 - You fail 100% of the things you don't try, though, right? 2924 01:46:12,375 --> 01:46:14,500 - That is correct. 2925 01:46:14,625 --> 01:46:15,875 - Okay, fair enough. Fair enough. 2926 01:46:19,792 --> 01:46:22,250 I'm sitting down with Karla, Madison, and David. 2927 01:46:22,250 --> 01:46:23,917 Welcome back to the show, guys. 2928 01:46:24,042 --> 01:46:26,000 - Thank you. - Feel excited? 2929 01:46:26,042 --> 01:46:27,792 - Yes. 2930 01:46:27,875 --> 01:46:29,792 - I just finished sitting down with Emem, Thomas, and Allen, 2931 01:46:29,875 --> 01:46:32,292 and they had plenty to say about tonight's episode. 2932 01:46:32,375 --> 01:46:36,333 Now, I am eager to hear your perspectives. 2933 01:46:36,458 --> 01:46:38,833 So I kind of overheard something backstage, 2934 01:46:38,875 --> 01:46:43,917 and Allen was talking about a leaky bus? 2935 01:46:44,000 --> 01:46:48,625 - I was wet the entire time and not in the places I prefer. 2936 01:46:48,750 --> 01:46:51,125 [laughter] 2937 01:46:51,125 --> 01:46:52,833 - So what exactly happened? 2938 01:46:52,875 --> 01:46:54,667 Please fill me in. 2939 01:46:54,708 --> 01:46:56,750 - So I'm on my romantic honeymoon, 2940 01:46:56,875 --> 01:47:00,792 on my way with my lovely husband. 2941 01:47:00,792 --> 01:47:05,250 And it's pouring and storming outside. 2942 01:47:05,333 --> 01:47:07,083 - Who got leaked on? 2943 01:47:07,167 --> 01:47:09,500 - We all did. - Everybody. 2944 01:47:09,583 --> 01:47:11,167 - Big adventure, you know what I'm saying? 2945 01:47:11,208 --> 01:47:13,000 - And you would think it would stay on the outside, 2946 01:47:13,042 --> 01:47:15,833 but it's also pouring on the inside as well. 2947 01:47:15,958 --> 01:47:17,667 So just drenched. 2948 01:47:17,708 --> 01:47:20,375 My hair is not hairing. 2949 01:47:20,375 --> 01:47:22,042 It is-- - It's not hairing. 2950 01:47:22,125 --> 01:47:23,708 - It's not. It's not. 2951 01:47:23,833 --> 01:47:24,958 - So is your hair naturally curly? 2952 01:47:25,042 --> 01:47:26,583 - Yes. - Okay. 2953 01:47:26,667 --> 01:47:28,250 - And in the humidity, it just turns into like lioness. 2954 01:47:28,333 --> 01:47:29,667 So that's-- - Okay. 2955 01:47:29,792 --> 01:47:31,250 - I was a lion inside the bus. 2956 01:47:31,333 --> 01:47:32,708 - Understood. 2957 01:47:32,792 --> 01:47:35,458 So let's jump into tonight's episode. 2958 01:47:35,542 --> 01:47:38,167 David, it seems like your wedding went great 2959 01:47:38,208 --> 01:47:40,417 from your perspective, but Michelle had a little bit 2960 01:47:40,500 --> 01:47:41,792 of a different story. 2961 01:47:41,875 --> 01:47:43,542 Let's take a look at this clip. 2962 01:47:45,250 --> 01:47:48,042 - Did you see my meltdown at the wedding? 2963 01:47:48,125 --> 01:47:49,417 - No, I did not. - Oh, okay. 2964 01:47:49,500 --> 01:47:51,167 I cried at the wedding. 2965 01:47:51,250 --> 01:47:52,917 - Oh, and when was--where? - Yeah. 2966 01:47:53,042 --> 01:47:55,000 - Was I not paying attention? Was I alone? 2967 01:47:55,083 --> 01:47:56,625 - No, I was like talking to my friends and I-- 2968 01:47:56,708 --> 01:47:57,833 and then I got really embarrassed, 2969 01:47:57,917 --> 01:47:59,583 and I didn't want everyone to see me crying, 2970 01:47:59,667 --> 01:48:00,833 so I went to the bathroom for a little bit, 2971 01:48:01,000 --> 01:48:02,583 but then I just lost it. 2972 01:48:02,667 --> 01:48:04,500 And like, you're like, I'm all in, like, 2973 01:48:04,542 --> 01:48:06,833 no hesitations, no flags, and I'm like, oh, my God. 2974 01:48:06,917 --> 01:48:08,542 I just bawled my eyes out ten times 2975 01:48:08,625 --> 01:48:10,542 tonight, like freaking out. 2976 01:48:10,667 --> 01:48:13,458 - So what are your thoughts as Michelle is telling you, 2977 01:48:13,542 --> 01:48:16,083 I was crying ten times at the wedding? 2978 01:48:16,208 --> 01:48:19,083 - It was something that I would have liked to have known, 2979 01:48:19,167 --> 01:48:20,833 I guess. 2980 01:48:20,917 --> 01:48:22,792 Just being unaware of it, it made me kind of feel like, 2981 01:48:22,875 --> 01:48:24,167 damn, I wasn't doing my part as a husband 2982 01:48:24,250 --> 01:48:25,417 right off the bat. It hurts. 2983 01:48:25,500 --> 01:48:27,292 It's like scary. 2984 01:48:27,375 --> 01:48:28,583 - I understand. 2985 01:48:28,667 --> 01:48:30,500 That would be pretty scary for me too. 2986 01:48:30,542 --> 01:48:32,125 Have you had a situation where there's 2987 01:48:32,208 --> 01:48:34,333 been a disconnect before? 2988 01:48:34,458 --> 01:48:37,542 And how do you navigate that? 2989 01:48:37,667 --> 01:48:39,542 - I've had disconnects in relationships before, 2990 01:48:39,625 --> 01:48:40,667 and it was communicating. 2991 01:48:40,750 --> 01:48:41,750 That's where I failed at. 2992 01:48:41,875 --> 01:48:43,417 So that's what I wanna do. 2993 01:48:43,500 --> 01:48:44,917 I wanna talk about it, try to get that-- 2994 01:48:45,000 --> 01:48:46,167 - That's why you sharing all the stuff. 2995 01:48:46,250 --> 01:48:48,500 - Opportunity, yes. 100%. - Okay. 2996 01:48:48,583 --> 01:48:50,833 - Because it's gotten me into bad spots. 2997 01:48:50,917 --> 01:48:52,625 - Understood. 2998 01:48:52,625 --> 01:48:54,875 So you're doing something different this time. 2999 01:48:54,958 --> 01:48:56,667 - 100%. - Okay. 3000 01:48:56,750 --> 01:48:58,125 Well, Karla and Madison, would you be 3001 01:48:58,208 --> 01:49:01,833 this bothered if you found out your husband still 3002 01:49:01,917 --> 01:49:04,292 lived at home with his family? 3003 01:49:04,375 --> 01:49:07,208 - No. I love my family. 3004 01:49:07,208 --> 01:49:08,958 I enjoy my family. 3005 01:49:09,042 --> 01:49:11,833 And I think I would just ask more questions. 3006 01:49:11,917 --> 01:49:14,333 - You have known each other for like two days, 3007 01:49:14,417 --> 01:49:16,250 so there's gonna be a whole lot that you 3008 01:49:16,333 --> 01:49:17,875 don't know about one another. 3009 01:49:18,000 --> 01:49:21,833 So was there any point in you all's wedding 3010 01:49:21,917 --> 01:49:24,333 where you were close to having your own version 3011 01:49:24,417 --> 01:49:27,042 of a breakdown? What do you say, Madison? 3012 01:49:27,208 --> 01:49:29,500 - Honestly, at the wedding, I don't think so. 3013 01:49:29,542 --> 01:49:31,583 - I was on such a high at the wedding, 3014 01:49:31,667 --> 01:49:33,750 and I don't think Allen and I had too serious 3015 01:49:33,875 --> 01:49:35,833 of a conversation where there was something 3016 01:49:35,958 --> 01:49:37,167 that triggered me of-- - Right. 3017 01:49:37,208 --> 01:49:38,750 - Oh, [bleep]. 3018 01:49:38,833 --> 01:49:40,458 - Right, to create that, yeah. 3019 01:49:40,542 --> 01:49:42,042 - We didn't get to that at the wedding, so. 3020 01:49:42,125 --> 01:49:43,292 - Okay. - Yeah. 3021 01:49:43,375 --> 01:49:44,667 - I'm curious. 3022 01:49:44,750 --> 01:49:45,958 What was your wedding night like? 3023 01:49:46,042 --> 01:49:48,542 Did you pick up on anything, like any piece 3024 01:49:48,667 --> 01:49:50,000 of her being uncomfortable? 3025 01:49:50,083 --> 01:49:53,875 Or was there anything, any cues? 3026 01:49:53,958 --> 01:49:55,792 - I definitely felt like there was a disconnect. 3027 01:49:55,875 --> 01:49:57,333 - Okay. 3028 01:49:57,417 --> 01:49:58,625 - I felt that she wasn't comfortable, 3029 01:49:58,708 --> 01:50:00,958 and one thing I remember my cousin 3030 01:50:00,958 --> 01:50:03,625 saying is be a respectful man, so like giving her space, 3031 01:50:03,708 --> 01:50:05,167 not sure if I'm gonna be able to sleep 3032 01:50:05,208 --> 01:50:06,375 in the same bed as her. 3033 01:50:06,458 --> 01:50:08,083 I asked her that as well. 3034 01:50:08,167 --> 01:50:09,708 She had said yes, but there was very 3035 01:50:09,708 --> 01:50:11,583 distance in regards to that. 3036 01:50:11,667 --> 01:50:13,667 - Pillow fort. - Yes. 3037 01:50:13,667 --> 01:50:15,167 So it was just kind of giving her space. 3038 01:50:15,292 --> 01:50:17,833 But at the same time, it's like, all right, it's day one. 3039 01:50:17,958 --> 01:50:20,333 There's a lot more time in this that we can work on things. 3040 01:50:20,375 --> 01:50:22,167 So I'm just-- - I love the hope. 3041 01:50:22,250 --> 01:50:23,583 - Yeah. 3042 01:50:23,667 --> 01:50:25,042 So there is--hope is always there. 3043 01:50:25,125 --> 01:50:27,167 - Okay, understood. 3044 01:50:27,250 --> 01:50:29,708 Well, what I can say is that this is just the beginning, 3045 01:50:29,792 --> 01:50:32,708 and there's still plenty of time to turn things around. 3046 01:50:32,792 --> 01:50:36,333 Now, let's take a look at Karla's 3047 01:50:36,458 --> 01:50:37,333 meeting with Juan's family. 3048 01:50:37,417 --> 01:50:38,375 Roll the clip. 3049 01:50:40,875 --> 01:50:44,500 - I want to know how you make your money. 3050 01:50:44,542 --> 01:50:48,708 ♪ 3051 01:50:48,792 --> 01:50:52,750 - I'm a hairstylist, Pilates instructor and sound healer. 3052 01:50:52,875 --> 01:50:56,167 - And are you ready to help Mr. Juan? 3053 01:50:56,167 --> 01:50:57,750 - Yes. 3054 01:50:57,875 --> 01:50:59,917 He's building a business. I'm building a business. 3055 01:51:00,042 --> 01:51:02,958 So obviously we have to both contribute, 3056 01:51:03,042 --> 01:51:05,625 and we both have to make life work. 3057 01:51:05,708 --> 01:51:08,667 But eventually, when I do have children, 3058 01:51:08,750 --> 01:51:12,708 I would like to be able to raise my children. 3059 01:51:12,708 --> 01:51:14,500 - Your face said a lot. 3060 01:51:14,625 --> 01:51:16,542 - Right. 3061 01:51:16,625 --> 01:51:18,292 - What are you thinking in this moment? 3062 01:51:18,375 --> 01:51:19,833 - Yeah. 3063 01:51:19,875 --> 01:51:24,042 I love what I do, and I'm very proud of my business 3064 01:51:24,125 --> 01:51:25,583 and the success that I've made. 3065 01:51:25,583 --> 01:51:28,500 But I'd rather get into other things. 3066 01:51:28,542 --> 01:51:30,042 Like, I wanna know what makes you happy. 3067 01:51:30,167 --> 01:51:32,500 I wanna know what fulfills your soul, 3068 01:51:32,625 --> 01:51:33,708 not how you make your money. 3069 01:51:33,708 --> 01:51:35,500 - No, no, no. I get it. 3070 01:51:35,583 --> 01:51:36,500 And clearly that's the perspective 3071 01:51:36,625 --> 01:51:38,792 in which he was raised in. 3072 01:51:38,875 --> 01:51:41,792 And it all makes sense that those are Juan's parents. 3073 01:51:41,875 --> 01:51:44,083 But I think that's something that I wanted to address that 3074 01:51:44,167 --> 01:51:46,292 I think a lot of people forget in this day and age 3075 01:51:46,375 --> 01:51:50,167 is that, when you take care of your children, 3076 01:51:50,208 --> 01:51:52,333 you are doing way more than 50% within a relationship. 3077 01:51:52,333 --> 01:51:54,167 - Right, yes. 3078 01:51:54,208 --> 01:51:56,917 - So--and there's no price tag that you can put on that, 3079 01:51:57,000 --> 01:51:58,750 because I can tell you, as a mom, 3080 01:51:58,750 --> 01:52:00,000 you don't get no sick days. - Right. 3081 01:52:00,167 --> 01:52:02,792 - You can't even go to the bathroom by yourself. 3082 01:52:02,875 --> 01:52:04,625 Your kids don't care. 3083 01:52:04,708 --> 01:52:05,750 - Thank you. 3084 01:52:05,875 --> 01:52:07,333 Can I elaborate on that? 3085 01:52:07,375 --> 01:52:08,875 - Yes. 3086 01:52:08,875 --> 01:52:10,542 - For me, it's more so like the connection. 3087 01:52:10,625 --> 01:52:12,750 - Yes. - My mom is my best friend. 3088 01:52:12,833 --> 01:52:14,375 - Mine too. 3089 01:52:14,458 --> 01:52:15,500 - And she was a stay-at-home mom. 3090 01:52:15,542 --> 01:52:17,250 Like, I wanna be there for my children 3091 01:52:17,333 --> 01:52:20,042 and I want to be their first best friend. 3092 01:52:20,125 --> 01:52:24,417 And if I'm in a financial place where I'm able to do so, 3093 01:52:24,500 --> 01:52:25,417 why wouldn't I? 3094 01:52:25,500 --> 01:52:27,167 - Absolutely. 3095 01:52:27,208 --> 01:52:30,333 So Karla, overall, how was it getting to know Juan's family? 3096 01:52:30,375 --> 01:52:33,667 And do you see how you fit within their family nucleus? 3097 01:52:33,750 --> 01:52:36,000 - Overall, it's been so good. 3098 01:52:36,042 --> 01:52:37,833 It's been so nice. It's comforting. 3099 01:52:37,958 --> 01:52:39,833 His family is very lively. 3100 01:52:39,958 --> 01:52:41,542 They include you right in. 3101 01:52:41,625 --> 01:52:43,542 And that's kind of how my family is. 3102 01:52:43,667 --> 01:52:45,667 Like, we don't really baby anyone. 3103 01:52:45,750 --> 01:52:46,875 If you're sitting in the corner, 3104 01:52:47,042 --> 01:52:48,458 we let you sit in the corner. 3105 01:52:48,542 --> 01:52:49,875 - You get baptized by fire. - Yeah. 3106 01:52:50,000 --> 01:52:51,708 You literally just have to jump right in. 3107 01:52:51,833 --> 01:52:53,708 And I feel like that's the vibe in his family too. 3108 01:52:53,792 --> 01:52:54,917 You just jump right in. 3109 01:52:55,042 --> 01:52:57,708 You are your most authentic self. 3110 01:52:57,833 --> 01:52:59,292 And I'm loving it. 3111 01:52:59,375 --> 01:53:00,875 - Yeah, absolutely. 3112 01:53:00,958 --> 01:53:03,000 Well, I'm really glad that you all 3113 01:53:03,042 --> 01:53:06,792 made it through the brunches with the in-laws in one piece. 3114 01:53:06,875 --> 01:53:08,000 Everybody did. 3115 01:53:11,958 --> 01:53:12,667 We're diving right into the honeymoons. 3116 01:53:12,750 --> 01:53:14,292 Take a look at this clip. 3117 01:53:16,083 --> 01:53:20,125 - Like I went into this knowing that I cannot be just 3118 01:53:20,208 --> 01:53:23,083 like my normal single self. Like I have to be a partner. 3119 01:53:23,167 --> 01:53:25,542 - The thing about this is-- - You're a partner. 3120 01:53:25,625 --> 01:53:27,500 - So that's what's like caused more anxiety for me of like 3121 01:53:27,542 --> 01:53:30,000 sitting in my own thoughts of like, holy [bleep], 3122 01:53:30,000 --> 01:53:31,708 Okay, like this is real. This is what we're going into. 3123 01:53:31,792 --> 01:53:33,167 - It's deep, yeah. 3124 01:53:33,250 --> 01:53:35,417 - And like, it is just a lot. 3125 01:53:35,500 --> 01:53:36,792 - Whoa, [bleep]. 3126 01:53:36,875 --> 01:53:39,208 Okay, I was not getting that vibe at all. 3127 01:53:39,292 --> 01:53:44,667 I didn't realize that it was weighing on her that much. 3128 01:53:44,792 --> 01:53:48,667 - So I wonder what shifted in you. 3129 01:53:48,667 --> 01:53:50,167 Like, what--if it was something happened 3130 01:53:50,250 --> 01:53:51,792 or did someone say something? 3131 01:53:51,875 --> 01:53:53,625 Or did he chew funny? 3132 01:53:53,708 --> 01:53:55,083 Like what--you know what I mean? 3133 01:53:55,167 --> 01:53:57,833 Like, what happened that took you a whole 180? 3134 01:53:57,958 --> 01:54:00,625 - Honestly, the night of the wedding, 3135 01:54:00,708 --> 01:54:02,708 when we like got ready for bed, 3136 01:54:02,792 --> 01:54:06,167 I was a little surprised with his choice of outfit that-- 3137 01:54:06,250 --> 01:54:07,708 - What do you think he should have worn? 3138 01:54:07,833 --> 01:54:10,542 - Okay, so I'll tell you what he did wear. 3139 01:54:10,667 --> 01:54:12,708 He comes out of the bathroom in a-- 3140 01:54:12,792 --> 01:54:14,042 - In broccoli drawers and tank top. 3141 01:54:14,125 --> 01:54:15,667 - It was a hot pink broccoli underwear 3142 01:54:15,750 --> 01:54:18,542 and a white, loose-ass tank top. 3143 01:54:18,667 --> 01:54:21,208 And I was like, okay, well, 3144 01:54:21,292 --> 01:54:22,750 this is what we're working with here. 3145 01:54:22,875 --> 01:54:26,375 So it just kind of threw me for a loop of-- 3146 01:54:26,458 --> 01:54:27,708 - Did he bring the banana? 3147 01:54:27,792 --> 01:54:29,542 - Oh! 3148 01:54:29,542 --> 01:54:31,417 - I think the banana ended up in our hotel room somewhere. 3149 01:54:31,500 --> 01:54:32,958 I'm sure he probably ate it as like a midnight snack. 3150 01:54:33,042 --> 01:54:34,167 - You know what, Karla? 3151 01:54:34,250 --> 01:54:35,250 I'm not doing this with you today. 3152 01:54:35,375 --> 01:54:37,375 I'm not doing this with you today. 3153 01:54:37,500 --> 01:54:39,292 Okay. [laughter] 3154 01:54:39,375 --> 01:54:41,417 - So I think that just kind of-- 3155 01:54:41,500 --> 01:54:43,583 it shocked me a little bit. 3156 01:54:43,667 --> 01:54:46,125 And Allen is a quirkier dude. 3157 01:54:46,125 --> 01:54:48,583 - Yeah. - Which is not a bad thing. 3158 01:54:48,667 --> 01:54:49,958 It's just something I'm not used to. 3159 01:54:50,042 --> 01:54:52,875 - Allen is a little quirky, and he has his things, 3160 01:54:52,958 --> 01:54:54,292 but he also has this interesting swag about him 3161 01:54:54,375 --> 01:54:58,208 that kind of transcend-- just in my opinion, that-- 3162 01:54:58,292 --> 01:54:59,667 [laughter] Why are you laughing? 3163 01:54:59,750 --> 01:55:01,292 Karla, what you doing over here? 3164 01:55:01,375 --> 01:55:03,542 - Nothing. - No, I can see you. 3165 01:55:03,625 --> 01:55:05,250 - I had a tickle in my stomach. 3166 01:55:05,333 --> 01:55:06,458 - I can see you. 3167 01:55:06,542 --> 01:55:10,750 But you know, but I understand better now. 3168 01:55:10,833 --> 01:55:12,500 And I feel like the viewers at home 3169 01:55:12,583 --> 01:55:16,125 will understand a little better too, because I get it. 3170 01:55:16,208 --> 01:55:17,750 - Yeah. 3171 01:55:17,833 --> 01:55:19,833 - Well, Madison, that brings us to tonight's Do-Over segment. 3172 01:55:19,875 --> 01:55:23,208 Just seeing how taken aback Allen is 3173 01:55:23,292 --> 01:55:26,750 with this new information, what would you have 3174 01:55:26,833 --> 01:55:29,167 done differently, if anything? 3175 01:55:29,250 --> 01:55:32,167 - Yeah, I would have definitely loved to have that conversation 3176 01:55:32,250 --> 01:55:33,750 with Allen without the group, 3177 01:55:33,833 --> 01:55:35,500 because we all just met each other too. 3178 01:55:35,625 --> 01:55:38,833 We weren't that-- we aren't that close yet. 3179 01:55:38,958 --> 01:55:40,833 And so I feel bad that he did feel blindsided, 3180 01:55:40,958 --> 01:55:42,167 because our wedding was so great. 3181 01:55:42,292 --> 01:55:44,000 - Right. 3182 01:55:44,083 --> 01:55:45,458 Well, the good news is you still have a couple of weeks. 3183 01:55:45,542 --> 01:55:49,833 So I'm excited to see how time can maybe 3184 01:55:49,958 --> 01:55:52,167 help bring you two a little bit closer 3185 01:55:52,250 --> 01:55:54,500 together, over the journey. 3186 01:55:54,583 --> 01:55:56,667 After this, the spouses spent the first night 3187 01:55:56,708 --> 01:55:58,208 of their honeymoon together. 3188 01:55:58,292 --> 01:56:00,500 But one of the husbands woke up on the couch. 3189 01:56:00,625 --> 01:56:02,167 Let's watch that back. 3190 01:56:04,583 --> 01:56:06,083 - I know I wasn't in the bed this morning, 3191 01:56:06,208 --> 01:56:07,667 but I slept on the-- - Yeah. 3192 01:56:07,708 --> 01:56:09,667 - I slept on the couch. - Okay. 3193 01:56:09,792 --> 01:56:10,875 So what'd you do out there? 3194 01:56:10,958 --> 01:56:12,333 - First, was getting food. 3195 01:56:12,375 --> 01:56:14,667 Got six chicken tacos last night. 3196 01:56:14,750 --> 01:56:16,417 - Oh, wow. 3197 01:56:16,500 --> 01:56:18,042 [laughs] At what time? 3198 01:56:18,125 --> 01:56:19,625 - I wanna say this was probably like, 3199 01:56:19,708 --> 01:56:21,333 1:00 or something. - Oh. Okay. 3200 01:56:21,417 --> 01:56:23,458 - And just passed out, actually, on the couch. 3201 01:56:23,542 --> 01:56:26,625 - I can't get over that you ordered food so late. 3202 01:56:26,708 --> 01:56:28,125 - I used to eat six times a day. 3203 01:56:28,208 --> 01:56:29,833 That's when I was competing. 3204 01:56:29,875 --> 01:56:31,292 So it's kind of like I had a need that-- 3205 01:56:31,375 --> 01:56:32,292 - Competing? 3206 01:56:32,375 --> 01:56:34,250 - Yeah, I did physique fitness. 3207 01:56:34,375 --> 01:56:36,000 - Oh. 3208 01:56:36,083 --> 01:56:37,792 - The bodybuilding world when I was in my 20s, 3209 01:56:37,875 --> 01:56:39,792 and that was just for fitness purposes. 3210 01:56:39,875 --> 01:56:41,458 But it's not--yeah, I'm not trying to-- 3211 01:56:41,542 --> 01:56:42,583 - Yeah. 3212 01:56:42,667 --> 01:56:44,167 - Become that. 3213 01:56:44,208 --> 01:56:46,667 I already have two jobs, and now I have a wife so-- 3214 01:56:46,750 --> 01:56:48,125 - Are you saying I'm a lot of work? 3215 01:56:48,125 --> 01:56:50,500 - No, not you. [laughter] 3216 01:56:50,583 --> 01:56:53,500 - So I guess, was there a discussion about where 3217 01:56:53,583 --> 01:56:56,208 you all--what the sleeping arrangements are 3218 01:56:56,292 --> 01:56:58,042 that we did not-- - No, there was no discussion. 3219 01:56:58,125 --> 01:56:59,125 I was in the bed. 3220 01:56:59,208 --> 01:57:00,958 And then I had got up. 3221 01:57:01,083 --> 01:57:02,042 I had like a witching hour where I get hungry 3222 01:57:02,125 --> 01:57:03,667 and I wanna go eat. 3223 01:57:03,750 --> 01:57:06,375 I'm not trying to wake her up and then be respectful. 3224 01:57:06,458 --> 01:57:08,000 I ordered food. I was like, you know what? 3225 01:57:08,125 --> 01:57:10,250 And I didn't feel comfortable also, 3226 01:57:10,333 --> 01:57:12,833 because she has kind of given that disconnect 3227 01:57:12,958 --> 01:57:14,458 or she didn't feel comfortable. 3228 01:57:14,583 --> 01:57:16,958 So it was more out of a respect thing to the couch. 3229 01:57:17,042 --> 01:57:19,417 It was like, give her her space. 3230 01:57:19,500 --> 01:57:21,583 I'm okay with it. 3231 01:57:21,667 --> 01:57:24,250 - I understand why you ended up on the couch. 3232 01:57:24,333 --> 01:57:28,667 In my opinion, I don't feel like it was a thing as much so 3233 01:57:28,792 --> 01:57:35,083 as it was by chance of you guys just have different like hours 3234 01:57:35,167 --> 01:57:36,375 and things you do. 3235 01:57:36,458 --> 01:57:38,292 - I definitely got a different hour. 3236 01:57:38,375 --> 01:57:40,500 - I mean, who doesn't want tacos at 1:00 3237 01:57:40,583 --> 01:57:42,000 in the morning in Mexico at a all you can eat resort? 3238 01:57:42,083 --> 01:57:43,417 I don't know. 3239 01:57:43,500 --> 01:57:44,625 - I'm pretty sure Allen and I were eating 3240 01:57:44,708 --> 01:57:46,208 quesadillas at the same time. 3241 01:57:46,292 --> 01:57:47,375 So like, let's be honest. 3242 01:57:47,458 --> 01:57:49,500 - So no judgment right there. 3243 01:57:49,625 --> 01:57:51,042 But what do you guys think of this situation 3244 01:57:51,167 --> 01:57:52,750 and what we just saw in the clip? 3245 01:57:52,750 --> 01:57:54,375 - For me, it's disheartening. 3246 01:57:54,458 --> 01:57:57,542 It's just like I feel like there's just so much pressure. 3247 01:57:57,542 --> 01:58:00,333 - I feel like we could see the worry on her face 3248 01:58:00,417 --> 01:58:02,750 and the overthinking going on, just by her responses. 3249 01:58:02,833 --> 01:58:05,250 - Or even just, yeah, like the comment of saying, 3250 01:58:05,375 --> 01:58:06,542 oh, you're adding me into a job. 3251 01:58:06,625 --> 01:58:08,208 - A job. 3252 01:58:08,375 --> 01:58:09,958 Like, he didn't say that, but you're-- 3253 01:58:10,042 --> 01:58:12,583 - Right, instead of just maybe like asking more questions, 3254 01:58:12,667 --> 01:58:14,958 I feel like I would have been intrigued 3255 01:58:15,042 --> 01:58:16,833 by like, oh, you bodybuild. 3256 01:58:16,875 --> 01:58:18,333 Like, tell me more. - Yeah. 3257 01:58:18,375 --> 01:58:20,667 That was an opportunity or a window 3258 01:58:20,708 --> 01:58:24,167 for her to ask questions about his interests, his past, 3259 01:58:24,208 --> 01:58:25,833 like things that he has accomplished or done. 3260 01:58:25,958 --> 01:58:28,000 So I agree with that. 3261 01:58:28,042 --> 01:58:30,083 But the good news is, is this is a process. 3262 01:58:30,167 --> 01:58:31,708 And this is just one step in the process. 3263 01:58:31,708 --> 01:58:32,208 - Yeah. 3264 01:58:36,083 --> 01:58:36,792 Marriage is a big adjustment, 3265 01:58:37,167 --> 01:58:39,083 especially when you marry a stranger. 3266 01:58:39,167 --> 01:58:41,833 But Madison, you and Allen seem to be communicating 3267 01:58:41,958 --> 01:58:43,083 through it very effectively. 3268 01:58:43,167 --> 01:58:45,083 Let's take a look at this clip. 3269 01:58:46,875 --> 01:58:50,792 - I feel like you can read if I'm feeling uncomfy, 3270 01:58:50,875 --> 01:58:52,958 but then you almost like don't wanna do anything 3271 01:58:53,042 --> 01:58:54,750 to make it more uncomfy. 3272 01:58:54,833 --> 01:58:56,583 - That's exactly-- 3273 01:58:56,708 --> 01:58:58,833 - I obviously want to move away from that 3274 01:58:58,917 --> 01:59:01,000 and I want to feel that connection 3275 01:59:01,083 --> 01:59:03,375 that we had at our wedding. 3276 01:59:03,458 --> 01:59:05,000 And I don't want you to feel like I'm 3277 01:59:05,083 --> 01:59:07,167 just pushing you away 100%. 3278 01:59:07,250 --> 01:59:10,083 Like, I'm still working through some things and like-- 3279 01:59:10,167 --> 01:59:11,417 but I really am trying. 3280 01:59:11,500 --> 01:59:14,625 I appreciate you being as communicative 3281 01:59:14,708 --> 01:59:19,750 and vulnerable and supportive, because it's making 3282 01:59:19,750 --> 01:59:20,958 this a lot easier, honestly. 3283 01:59:21,042 --> 01:59:22,167 So, like, thank you for that. 3284 01:59:22,208 --> 01:59:24,250 - Absolutely. 3285 01:59:24,375 --> 01:59:26,542 - That was such a sweet moment. 3286 01:59:26,625 --> 01:59:29,667 - I really do appreciate Allen for being very 3287 01:59:29,708 --> 01:59:33,708 communicative and patient, because I know that it 3288 01:59:33,833 --> 01:59:35,083 was a shift from the wedding. 3289 01:59:35,250 --> 01:59:38,208 And I am really trying to put my best foot forward, 3290 01:59:38,375 --> 01:59:41,375 even though, in my mind, I'm kind of going through 3291 01:59:41,500 --> 01:59:43,000 a roller coaster of feelings. 3292 01:59:43,083 --> 01:59:44,500 And it's not gonna help either of us 3293 01:59:44,542 --> 01:59:47,333 if we don't try to talk through it and move forward. 3294 01:59:47,417 --> 01:59:49,542 - Understood. So I have a question. 3295 01:59:49,625 --> 01:59:52,292 So what do you guys think of Allen and Madison as a match? 3296 01:59:52,375 --> 01:59:54,167 - They're both trying. 3297 01:59:54,292 --> 01:59:55,417 At the same time, it's not like 3298 01:59:55,500 --> 01:59:57,167 one is trying really hard and one is not. 3299 01:59:57,292 --> 01:59:58,750 I feel like Allen could be a little 3300 01:59:58,833 --> 02:00:01,917 overwhelming at times in regards to his conversations. 3301 02:00:02,042 --> 02:00:03,375 So but I feel-- - What? 3302 02:00:03,458 --> 02:00:05,500 You think somebody's overwhelming and-- 3303 02:00:05,625 --> 02:00:06,708 I'm playing. I'm playing. I'm playing. 3304 02:00:06,792 --> 02:00:09,458 - No, but I feel like they're both trying. 3305 02:00:09,542 --> 02:00:11,125 - Yeah. - That's the thing. 3306 02:00:11,208 --> 02:00:12,375 They're both trying. - Karla, how about you? 3307 02:00:12,500 --> 02:00:14,167 Is there anything else behind the scenes 3308 02:00:14,208 --> 02:00:16,208 that we might have missed? 3309 02:00:16,292 --> 02:00:18,167 - In our interactions, we're all hanging out, 3310 02:00:18,292 --> 02:00:21,292 we're all kind of just dancing. 3311 02:00:21,375 --> 02:00:22,750 It's very lighthearted. 3312 02:00:22,833 --> 02:00:24,542 We're having cocktails, and there's laughing. 3313 02:00:24,667 --> 02:00:30,458 And I was a little like taken aback seeing Allen wasn't 3314 02:00:30,542 --> 02:00:32,083 really feeling it that night. 3315 02:00:32,167 --> 02:00:34,625 He, like, wants to go back to the room. 3316 02:00:34,708 --> 02:00:36,542 And I turned around and I kind of just 3317 02:00:36,625 --> 02:00:38,833 see Allen kind of just watching Madison. 3318 02:00:38,875 --> 02:00:41,333 - Okay. 3319 02:00:41,458 --> 02:00:46,750 - It was almost like, why is he staring at her so intently? 3320 02:00:46,833 --> 02:00:51,167 - And I didn't know about this really until after the fact. 3321 02:00:51,250 --> 02:00:54,250 So it could have been a place of either 3322 02:00:54,375 --> 02:00:56,458 admiring me from afar, which is, I mean, 3323 02:00:56,542 --> 02:00:58,292 he's my husband, so it's-- 3324 02:00:58,292 --> 02:00:59,500 but I also just met the dude. 3325 02:00:59,625 --> 02:01:01,333 - Do you think that maybe he wanted 3326 02:01:01,375 --> 02:01:02,875 you to come back with him? 3327 02:01:02,958 --> 02:01:04,500 - Probably. 3328 02:01:04,542 --> 02:01:08,000 I think that's a very good point. 3329 02:01:08,083 --> 02:01:09,333 He never-- - You see what I'm saying? 3330 02:01:09,458 --> 02:01:11,333 - Yeah, he never asked. 3331 02:01:11,375 --> 02:01:12,417 - As your husband, it was one of those moments. 3332 02:01:12,542 --> 02:01:14,000 Hey, I'm going back to the room. 3333 02:01:14,083 --> 02:01:16,000 And he didn't know how to articulate, 3334 02:01:16,083 --> 02:01:18,208 okay, I want you to come too. 3335 02:01:18,292 --> 02:01:19,500 And then you did not come, because this 3336 02:01:19,542 --> 02:01:21,292 is y'all's honeymoon. 3337 02:01:21,375 --> 02:01:23,000 And then maybe he was a little salty about it. 3338 02:01:23,042 --> 02:01:24,500 I don't know. 3339 02:01:24,583 --> 02:01:25,958 - Well, and again, all of us have been single 3340 02:01:26,042 --> 02:01:27,333 for a long time still, so we're just getting back 3341 02:01:27,417 --> 02:01:28,917 to like, oh, [bleep], I'm not-- 3342 02:01:29,042 --> 02:01:30,417 - No, because you're like-- - I'm like, I have a husband. 3343 02:01:30,542 --> 02:01:31,917 - Why is my husband looking at me? 3344 02:01:32,042 --> 02:01:33,333 Because he's your husband, girl. 3345 02:01:33,458 --> 02:01:35,250 - No, and for sure. 3346 02:01:35,375 --> 02:01:37,708 But I think, initially, just meeting each other all 3347 02:01:37,792 --> 02:01:40,833 for the first time, sharing this first night together, 3348 02:01:40,875 --> 02:01:42,667 you're kind of just like-- 3349 02:01:42,708 --> 02:01:45,167 everybody's kind of looking at each other like, 3350 02:01:45,250 --> 02:01:46,667 well, they're sitting really close. 3351 02:01:46,792 --> 02:01:48,333 They're not. 3352 02:01:48,375 --> 02:01:49,958 - Everyone's observing, trying to figure out. 3353 02:01:50,042 --> 02:01:52,458 - Everybody's kind of trying to figure each other out 3354 02:01:52,542 --> 02:01:54,333 and just being like, where is everyone at? 3355 02:01:54,417 --> 02:01:56,625 Where--what is everyone's head space? 3356 02:01:56,708 --> 02:01:59,833 - I'm just--I'm interested to see how it all unfolds. 3357 02:01:59,917 --> 02:02:02,583 And just enjoy the journey. 3358 02:02:02,667 --> 02:02:04,958 Everyone always expects and is always 3359 02:02:05,042 --> 02:02:07,625 looking toward the destination, like arriving. 3360 02:02:07,708 --> 02:02:11,000 But the joy is absolutely in the journey, 3361 02:02:11,083 --> 02:02:14,542 and I can't wait to see how it all comes together. 3362 02:02:14,625 --> 02:02:17,958 But that covers tonight's amazing episode. 3363 02:02:18,042 --> 02:02:20,500 But before we go, here's a preview of what happens 3364 02:02:20,583 --> 02:02:22,625 next week on a brand-new episode 3365 02:02:22,708 --> 02:02:26,125 of "Married at First Sight." 3366 02:02:26,125 --> 02:02:28,500 - Next time. 3367 02:02:28,583 --> 02:02:30,083 - Here's to the swallows that bring no babies. 3368 02:02:30,083 --> 02:02:32,167 - Hey! [laughter] 3369 02:02:32,250 --> 02:02:33,792 - Yes, in sync. 3370 02:02:33,875 --> 02:02:35,333 I got us. 3371 02:02:35,375 --> 02:02:37,083 - Anything that gets me wet, I'm happy. 3372 02:02:37,167 --> 02:02:38,083 [laughter] 3373 02:02:38,208 --> 02:02:39,250 - Oh, no. 3374 02:02:39,375 --> 02:02:41,292 - [screams] 3375 02:02:41,375 --> 02:02:42,958 There's never a dull moment with Juan. 3376 02:02:43,042 --> 02:02:45,375 - The thing that I like is that Em is the homey. 3377 02:02:45,458 --> 02:02:47,042 - You called me the homey? 3378 02:02:47,125 --> 02:02:49,583 ♪ 3379 02:02:49,667 --> 02:02:53,542 - What I need is to feel like you want to take care of me. 3380 02:02:53,625 --> 02:02:54,875 - I can't do that. I'm sorry. 3381 02:02:54,958 --> 02:02:57,875 Like, I just don't have the money to do it. 3382 02:02:57,958 --> 02:02:59,708 - I don't wanna call you, like, a pushover, 3383 02:02:59,792 --> 02:03:01,000 because that's like a harsh term. 3384 02:03:01,083 --> 02:03:03,000 - Okay, well, now you're just being an [bleep]. 3385 02:03:03,042 --> 02:03:05,333 ♪ 3386 02:03:05,458 --> 02:03:07,667 - I don't even know if I wanna try. 3387 02:03:07,750 --> 02:03:10,000 ♪ 3388 02:03:10,042 --> 02:03:11,917 - Whoa. 3389 02:03:12,042 --> 02:03:14,125 It looks like these honeymoons get a little rocky next week. 3390 02:03:14,208 --> 02:03:17,500 Karla, Madison, David, thank you so much 3391 02:03:17,542 --> 02:03:19,667 for joining me this week 3392 02:03:19,708 --> 02:03:22,083 on the "Married at First Sight Afterparty." 3393 02:03:22,208 --> 02:03:24,500 To everyone at home, join us next week 3394 02:03:24,583 --> 02:03:27,250 for another special hour-long episode 3395 02:03:27,333 --> 02:03:30,583 where I'll be getting all the dirt about these honeymoons. 3396 02:03:30,667 --> 02:03:33,000 I'm Keshia Knight Pulliam. Good night. 3397 02:03:33,083 --> 02:03:34,583 - ♪ Pull up, pull up, pull up, pull up ♪ 3398 02:03:34,667 --> 02:03:36,375 ♪ 'Cause life should be a party ♪