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This is my life.

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It's my life Hey I
love you Yeah brittany!

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Yay so good Hi, honey.

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What's up man Good
to see you, man.

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Tonight it's the Married
at First Sight.

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Must see reunion.

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There's just like,
so much they don't know.

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We had the most
yeses on Decision Day

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in Married at First Sight
history With all five couples

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saying yes.

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He's the light of my life.

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God knew that we
needed to meet.

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I was on cloud nine.

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This is probably
the best we've been.

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It's time to face
the truth and each other.

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I was in a tailspin.

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Stand up and be
a man and just say.

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This is what I want.

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Here we go again.

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And here comes the moment that
you've all been waiting for.

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Are you still married.

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Are either of you dating.

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If you want me to tell my side
of the story, then shut up.

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Shh hello, everyone,
and welcome

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to the Married at First
Sight season 19 reunion

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I'm your host, Kevin Frazier,
and I want to thank all of you

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for being here.

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This season has
really had it all.

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From post UPS to barking pups,
from communication errors

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to night terrors, from no move
and plan to no for Burning man.

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It's been a year and a half
since all five couples decided

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to stay married
on Decision Day,

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and now we are dying to know
what's been going on I just

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want to say hello to everyone.

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And I want to thank all
of you for being here.

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We're going to have
a lot of fun.

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Nice love it.

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Nice I heard that
you and the ladies

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have become really
tight through.

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This would explain
that relationship

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and how it's blossomed.

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We're all really
close, you know.

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All of us are really close.

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Brittany and I work out
at F45 all the time.

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Chad and I are
very close as well.

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I work underneath him.

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He helps me on real
estate stuff all the time

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and I'm close with all of them.

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We all love each other.

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That's great.
That's great.

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We have the women
on one side and

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now the men on the other side.

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And throughout
this reunion, we're

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going to reveal who's still
married and who is not.

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Jalen and Josh, I want to start
with you on your wedding day.

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Jalen you got from Josh
a ticket for Burning man.

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Did you use it Yeah I mean, I
got to see Josh in his element.

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I understood why he
was passionate about it

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and I had a good
time I look good too.

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And I was up until o'clock AM.

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Great Josh, tell us
about the Burning

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man experience with Jalen.

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I mean, that experience
was really important to me.

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Being able to experience
that with her

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and see her really give
in to that and enjoy it

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meant a lot to me.

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We were really mostly
by ourselves for most of it,

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so we bonded a lot
OK, let's take a look.

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All right.

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We're heading
into the Burning man game.

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I'm still a little
mind blown that you

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actually came Yeah, I don't
know what I was thinking.

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It's Jalen, the builder.

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Cannot say I'm not
adventurous ever again Hey,

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I've just been living off
Celsius and hand sanitizer.

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Come on gotta keep going.

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You gotta build it up
Oh oh, that's all right.

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I adapted to his life.

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I wore the outfits.

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I had my out like
I was living it.

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I was up till o'clock AM.

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Jalen, I'm sorry, but I
just looked at your finger,

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and I noticed that
big sparkly ring

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that you got on the honeymoon
from Josh isn't there.

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Jalen and Josh, are
you still married.

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We are no longer together.

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We broke up three
months ago Wow and yeah,

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it was very out of nowhere.

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I was in shock.

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We were on vacation and he
looked at me and he said,

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I don't feel connected
to you anymore.

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I want to break up.

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And I was just like, whoa.

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Like what's happening.

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Like, you've never expressed
that you were unhappy.

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Ever I was just like, what.

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Where is this coming from.

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I don't understand, like, how
can you one day just decide

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you're done with the marriage.

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Josh, what happened
happen for you.

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What changed for you.

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Well, first of all, we
didn't break up on vacation.

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We broke up at home,
so Oh, well, actually,

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he broke up with
me on vacation.

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I begged him, I said,
this is the first time I'm

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hearing that you're unhappy.

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Can we please work it out.

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And he said, that's fair
Yes then three days later,

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we were out at a concert.

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I'm insecure as right now.

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This man just broke up
with me out of nowhere.

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I'm walking on eggshells trying
to like, not push the envelope.

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I'm trying to like,
be happy with him.

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And a girl came up to us, which
he knew a lot of people there.

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He was there a lot.

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And she looked at us
like she knew him, but.

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And like they knew each other.

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It was weird.

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And so I was like,
oh, who was that.

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And he goes, I'm
not sure I don't.

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And I was like, what do
you mean you don't know.

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And I'm like, did you
have sex with her.

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Was that all.

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I would like to change
that, because the

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immediately as soon as I
didn't have the answer for her,

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she looked at me.
At me.

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She said, did you her.

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Did you her.

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Maybe I said, big
deal, I don't care.

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Did you her.

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And you're like, you look at me
and you go, we're leaving.

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We get in the car and I'm
like, hey, I'm sorry.

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I'm feeling really insecure
from what's happened.

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I said, I don't know why
you're acting so cold.

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He said, I'm not
acting cold, I am cold.

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You need to pack
your things tonight.

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It was 12 o'clock.

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This conversation is
not going in your favor.

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Remotely normal, correct No.

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It is.

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Let's hear what
in your opinion.

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What? hey without a single
word in the car and she says,

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look, I get it.

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You don't want to be
with me anymore.

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And I said, you are right.

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You should pack your things
when we get home.

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She just said it was
like a flip of a switch.

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It was out of nowhere.

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It was crazy.

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I thought we were
just so happy and fun.

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And so I said, like,
what has happened.

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Like, what have I done.

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He said that I'm a level
2 on the adventure scale

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and he's a 10.

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I understand if I was
a level 2 when you met me Yes

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but I have gone
to five raves I've gone

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to Burning man for 10 days.

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Every Festival I
said I wouldn't do,

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I did, I did it all
and that blew my mind.

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I wrote a Shark like
I'm a level 2 still.

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And he said he realized
it was happening

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when he bought a new
motorcycle and a new truck.

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So I was confused.

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And he said, I make impulse
decisions when I'm unhappy,

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you to make this work.

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I wanted to give it literally
every single last bit

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of my being to make sure
that I made it work.

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And I think that there's
nobody in this room that

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can say that I didn't love
that woman right there

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to the best of my ability.

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The reality is I lost
myself in doing so.

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And once I realized
that, I knew I

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had to do something about it.

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When you say you lost
yourself and I'm just

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trying to understand, what
were you missing out on

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or how did you change.

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The thing was is we weren't
missing out on the things

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that I enjoy doing,
but I just realized

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that some of these things
were so important to me

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that I wanted my partner to
have that same love for them.

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And I can't say
that she had even

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remotely as close
to the same passion for it

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as I did Of course not.

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We knew that OK OK.

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And I wanted somebody who
I could share that with.

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I think he kind of chases
these highs and then it falls.

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I think he needs
a constant rush

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and like, shiny new objects.

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And I think I fell
into that, by the way.

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Will you keep
making these faces.

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You're killing me.

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What's going on with the faces
you're making right now.

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I'm not sure if I'm
at liberty to be the one

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to speak on that
Hey, come on now Yes,

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I spoke with Josh
a couple of times

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and I'm trying to see things
from everybody's side,

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but I wasn't there.

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And I think that we
can't fix everything.

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You know you can't.

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Megan and Brittany, you all
are very close with Jalen.

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What did you think when
Josh broke up with Jalen.

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I was very shocked
Yes very shocked.

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I didn't realize
that there were

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any issues because she
tried so hard Yeah,

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I feel like she did so much.

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You know she really put herself
out of her comfort zone.

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You even in the beginning
with skydiving, you

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she went to Burning
man like she did go.

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She did go.

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And I will give her that.

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And I was going to go again.

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I will give her that.

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You guys were doing a lot of
the things that you like to do.

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And so for me, I just
felt like shocked.

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She would always
ask me constantly.

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She would constantly ask me
if I was happy and I really

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and truly was.

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And so I would tell her,
yes, until I finally

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realized that I wasn't.

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And I'm sorry once again
for how abrasive and how abrupt

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it was.

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We had challenges.

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We had issues like he
lied about little things

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all the time within the last.

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Can I have an example.

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Give me an example.

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I will give you the example.

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The biggest example
and the most recent

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was he had an assistant and we
were just in the kitchen.

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And I knew he was
getting an assistant.

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And I was like, oh, like,
who's your assistant.

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And he said, oh, she's like
a 40-year-old or something.

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And she wasn't 40.

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She's like in her 20s.

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And he purposely
lied about that.

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That's nonsense.

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Completely nonsense.

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Well, let me ask you this.

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Since the breakup, have
you been dating anybody.

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I have gone on a couple
of dates Yeah Jalen Watts OK.

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The faces let's.

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I just think it's.

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It's what.

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Say it.

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I'm OK with.

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I don't care when Josh
states how fast he

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could have dated the next day.

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But we got videos.

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They got videos
of Josh with all

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over someone, which is fine.

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If that's his
girlfriend, that's great.

252
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I don't need to see the videos,
but they were sent to me of him

253
00:11:15,300 --> 00:11:17,260
with the girl all
over each other.

254
00:11:17,344 --> 00:11:19,888
And to tell my friends
to lie to me about you.

255
00:11:20,013 --> 00:11:21,681
Dating is weird.

256
00:11:21,806 --> 00:11:23,641
You're allowed to date
whenever you want to lie.

257
00:11:23,683 --> 00:11:27,103
You said, hey, I think it would
be really silly to tell Jalen.

258
00:11:27,187 --> 00:11:28,438
That's verbatim.

259
00:11:28,521 --> 00:11:29,522
I have a screenshot,
so I wouldn't.

260
00:11:29,647 --> 00:11:30,648
That's fine.

261
00:11:30,690 --> 00:11:32,317
That's called lying to Jalen.

262
00:11:32,400 --> 00:11:34,152
That's not No, that's
just not telling you.

263
00:11:34,194 --> 00:11:36,071
It's not lying to you.

264
00:11:36,154 --> 00:11:39,532
That's how I view it No if I
had a really good friend they

265
00:11:39,657 --> 00:11:42,285
would probably go, my God,
my best friend with this woman,

266
00:11:42,369 --> 00:11:43,453
I was at my best friend.

267
00:11:43,536 --> 00:11:44,871
How was that.

268
00:11:45,038 --> 00:11:46,623
How is that me telling
them to lie to you.

269
00:11:46,706 --> 00:11:49,751
But, Josh, let let's
let's understand this.

270
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If it was one
of your dudes, you

271
00:11:52,420 --> 00:11:56,341
would expect them to come
up and say, no, I actually

272
00:11:56,508 --> 00:11:58,468
personally you
would I personally

273
00:11:58,551 --> 00:12:00,929
wouldn't want to know I
just didn't want to hurt

274
00:12:01,012 --> 00:12:02,681
you more than I already had.

275
00:12:02,764 --> 00:12:05,433
Josh, at what point were
you going to ever say,

276
00:12:05,517 --> 00:12:07,143
hey, I think I'm
losing myself Hey, I

277
00:12:07,227 --> 00:12:09,646
think I'm unhappy Hey,
I think something's

278
00:12:09,688 --> 00:12:11,314
feeling unfulfilled.

279
00:12:11,398 --> 00:12:14,109
You just like, acted
completely fine.

280
00:12:14,150 --> 00:12:16,903
We got a dog, and we
were living together

281
00:12:17,028 --> 00:12:18,822
for a year and three months.

282
00:12:18,905 --> 00:12:20,949
We were looking to go
to Burning man again.

283
00:12:21,032 --> 00:12:22,992
By the way, who got
custody of the dog.

284
00:12:23,034 --> 00:12:24,911
The new dog Yeah me.

285
00:12:24,994 --> 00:12:28,039
My baby Yeah, yeah, yeah.

286
00:12:28,123 --> 00:12:31,668
The dog is with you Yeah
And he's the light of my life.

287
00:12:31,751 --> 00:12:35,171
And I think God knew
that we needed to meet.

288
00:12:35,338 --> 00:12:36,631
So I could have this dog.

289
00:12:36,715 --> 00:12:39,175
Because he's
literally my child.

290
00:12:39,217 --> 00:12:42,721
So that is the biggest
takeaway from our relationship,

291
00:12:42,804 --> 00:12:46,182
is I am the proudest dog
mom to the cutest dog

292
00:12:46,307 --> 00:12:47,976
in the world No
offense, but like, he

293
00:12:48,059 --> 00:12:50,645
is the cutest dog ever.

294
00:12:50,770 --> 00:12:53,106
Well, glad you love the dog
and I'm glad that worked out.

295
00:12:53,189 --> 00:12:54,566
And you know what.

296
00:12:54,649 --> 00:12:55,525
Thank you guys
for sharing because I'm

297
00:12:55,567 --> 00:12:57,152
sure it wasn't easy.

298
00:12:57,318 --> 00:12:59,779
And the way your marriage
ended was not easy at all.

299
00:12:59,863 --> 00:13:00,822
So thanks for sharing that.

300
00:13:00,864 --> 00:13:01,781
All right.

301
00:13:01,865 --> 00:13:03,366
Let's keep moving.

302
00:13:03,450 --> 00:13:04,993
Jalen things may not
have worked out for you,

303
00:13:05,076 --> 00:13:07,328
but in the very first
for married at first sight

304
00:13:07,454 --> 00:13:09,247
we had a mother daughter duo.

305
00:13:09,289 --> 00:13:11,416
And your mom also got married.

306
00:13:11,499 --> 00:13:12,417
Belinda and Chad.

307
00:13:12,459 --> 00:13:13,501
Are you still married.

308
00:13:21,885 --> 00:13:23,678
Belinda and Chad.

309
00:13:23,762 --> 00:13:29,934
Are you still married No catch
me up on what's going on.

310
00:13:33,313 --> 00:13:35,857
It seemed like you guys had
a great emotional connection.

311
00:13:35,899 --> 00:13:37,984
In the beginning,
it seemed that way.

312
00:13:38,109 --> 00:13:39,694
It seemed like it
was really good.

313
00:13:39,819 --> 00:13:42,947
We were together on our wedding
night, so showering.

314
00:13:42,989 --> 00:13:45,950
So I mean, you can only
get so comfortable.

315
00:13:45,992 --> 00:13:47,786
So, I mean, we were
comfortable with that

316
00:13:47,827 --> 00:13:49,329
and everything was fine.

317
00:13:49,412 --> 00:13:51,706
And then honeymoon,
everything was fine.

318
00:13:51,790 --> 00:13:53,541
And then we got back
to the apartment

319
00:13:53,667 --> 00:13:56,378
and everything changed.

320
00:13:56,461 --> 00:13:58,505
What changed.

321
00:13:58,630 --> 00:14:02,050
Well, the intimacy
level changed.

322
00:14:02,133 --> 00:14:04,135
On whose part.

323
00:14:04,219 --> 00:14:08,807
I mean, I'm not really
an initiator for the most part.

324
00:14:08,890 --> 00:14:10,767
But there were times
when I was trying

325
00:14:10,809 --> 00:14:13,395
to like, tell him, like, hey,
if you want to be intimate

326
00:14:13,520 --> 00:14:14,896
or something.

327
00:14:15,021 --> 00:14:16,106
We don't have to have
the dog in here.

328
00:14:16,189 --> 00:14:17,440
Like, we can get the dog out.

329
00:14:17,482 --> 00:14:19,901
But it just wasn't.

330
00:14:19,984 --> 00:14:21,444
Nothing was changing.

331
00:14:21,528 --> 00:14:24,155
And, I mean, I didn't
get married to like,

332
00:14:24,239 --> 00:14:25,407
be sleeping alone.

333
00:14:27,701 --> 00:14:29,369
Chad, was it just too
much to come in and

334
00:14:29,411 --> 00:14:33,957
throw that dog out of the way
or what was going on No,

335
00:14:33,998 --> 00:14:35,667
I don't sleep.

336
00:14:35,709 --> 00:14:38,169
Very seldom do I sleep.

337
00:14:38,253 --> 00:14:40,880
I'm used to turning the TV
on or listening to music,

338
00:14:41,006 --> 00:14:43,383
and I sit there
and I decompress.

339
00:14:43,508 --> 00:14:46,386
And normally I go
to bed around one 130.

340
00:14:46,469 --> 00:14:49,139
If I fall asleep.

341
00:14:49,180 --> 00:14:54,352
But I feel like my biggest
issue was the drinking.

342
00:14:54,436 --> 00:14:56,104
It got to a point
where every night

343
00:14:56,187 --> 00:14:58,898
it was him sitting
on the couch,

344
00:14:59,024 --> 00:15:00,650
drinking, drinking, drinking.

345
00:15:00,775 --> 00:15:02,318
There were times I'd like
at o'clock o'clock, three

346
00:15:02,402 --> 00:15:04,112
o'clock in the morning
and I would actually

347
00:15:04,154 --> 00:15:05,947
go move the glass from his
hand because I was afraid it

348
00:15:06,072 --> 00:15:07,824
might fall and break.

349
00:15:07,949 --> 00:15:10,952
And, I mean, we did end up
having a talk at the end.

350
00:15:11,036 --> 00:15:13,121
And and I told
him, like, I'm not

351
00:15:13,163 --> 00:15:16,750
the type of woman
who will love someone

352
00:15:16,875 --> 00:15:18,585
and not hold them accountable.

353
00:15:21,588 --> 00:15:23,965
Belinda, you said yes
to staying with Chad.

354
00:15:24,049 --> 00:15:27,510
What happened
after Decision Day.

355
00:15:27,635 --> 00:15:31,056
After Decision Day, I
was going to go move in.

356
00:15:31,139 --> 00:15:35,810
And we kind of had
a moment where Chad

357
00:15:35,894 --> 00:15:37,479
brought his cat downstairs.

358
00:15:37,520 --> 00:15:39,898
The cat that no one
ever saw all season

359
00:15:39,939 --> 00:15:43,068
because she's anxious.

360
00:15:43,109 --> 00:15:44,694
My dog approached them.

361
00:15:44,778 --> 00:15:46,363
He didn't bark or jump on Chad.

362
00:15:46,446 --> 00:15:47,989
He already knew not to.

363
00:15:48,073 --> 00:15:50,867
She got spooked
and climbed on him

364
00:15:50,950 --> 00:15:54,704
and may have maybe scratched
him a little so he got upset.

365
00:15:54,746 --> 00:15:57,624
He was yelling, saying
the dog was being aggressive

366
00:15:57,707 --> 00:15:59,918
and I told him he's
just a curious dog.

367
00:15:59,959 --> 00:16:02,420
And then he yelled at me and
said that the dog was untrained

368
00:16:02,462 --> 00:16:04,464
and didn't know how to behave.

369
00:16:04,547 --> 00:16:08,176
And I kind of just
like, froze because I

370
00:16:08,301 --> 00:16:10,637
felt the panic come up.

371
00:16:10,679 --> 00:16:12,514
And in that moment, I
grabbed all my things

372
00:16:12,555 --> 00:16:15,058
from the kitchen table and I
started loading up the dog

373
00:16:15,141 --> 00:16:17,227
into my car and I left.

374
00:16:17,268 --> 00:16:20,021
Chad, what were you thinking
watching her walk out.

375
00:16:20,146 --> 00:16:24,567
I'm human and I've been
dealing with anxiety issues

376
00:16:24,609 --> 00:16:26,277
at times like that.

377
00:16:26,361 --> 00:16:28,947
It's it's not necessarily
the rational person that's

378
00:16:28,988 --> 00:16:30,281
dealing with what's going on.

379
00:16:30,407 --> 00:16:32,367
I was in a tailspin.

380
00:16:32,409 --> 00:16:34,494
I'm going to pause you right
there for a second, Chad.

381
00:16:34,536 --> 00:16:36,037
We need to help
our viewers understand

382
00:16:36,162 --> 00:16:37,664
what's going on here.

383
00:16:37,747 --> 00:16:39,332
We have some never
before seen footage

384
00:16:39,457 --> 00:16:42,043
five days after Decision
Day, which is also the day

385
00:16:42,085 --> 00:16:44,129
after Belinda moved
out of Chad's place.

386
00:16:44,212 --> 00:16:46,089
The cameras kept
rolling and the group

387
00:16:46,172 --> 00:16:48,425
gathered for a crawfish party.

388
00:16:48,466 --> 00:16:50,885
Let's take a quick
look at this.

389
00:16:50,927 --> 00:16:54,347
Thank you so much
Hi this is gorgeous.

390
00:16:54,472 --> 00:16:57,100
Thank you Hi Hey Oh,
you look so pretty.

391
00:16:57,225 --> 00:16:59,185
Like, slowly going through
your whole house Oh, yeah.

392
00:16:59,310 --> 00:17:01,604
Did you see it all No
Well, I'll show you later.

393
00:17:01,688 --> 00:17:03,815
How are you Mom, what
have you been up to.

394
00:17:06,943 --> 00:17:08,319
I'm stress eating.

395
00:17:08,361 --> 00:17:09,988
What's going on with
you and Chad.

396
00:17:10,071 --> 00:17:12,699
I was supposed to move
into Chad's, but

397
00:17:12,824 --> 00:17:13,992
there was, like, a blow up.

398
00:17:14,117 --> 00:17:16,161
It didn't go well.

399
00:17:16,244 --> 00:17:19,205
I mean, I've tolerated
the dog for two months.

400
00:17:19,330 --> 00:17:21,124
I just got tired
of it last night.

401
00:17:21,166 --> 00:17:24,753
And the anxiety that the cat
dug her claws into my chest.

402
00:17:24,878 --> 00:17:26,629
It triggered me.

403
00:17:26,671 --> 00:17:28,298
The dog came up.

404
00:17:28,340 --> 00:17:30,759
I pushed his head down,
and it just didn't go well.

405
00:17:30,800 --> 00:17:33,595
I mean, I'm only hearing it
from your side right now.

406
00:17:33,636 --> 00:17:35,513
And so at the end
of the day, I don't

407
00:17:35,597 --> 00:17:36,806
think that this is
anything that you

408
00:17:36,890 --> 00:17:38,433
guys can't work through.

409
00:17:38,475 --> 00:17:40,143
That's up to her.

410
00:17:40,185 --> 00:17:42,729
And I'm not going to play
second fiddle to a dog.

411
00:17:42,812 --> 00:17:44,272
I'm just not going to do it.

412
00:17:44,314 --> 00:17:45,940
I'm the alpha in my house.

413
00:17:48,401 --> 00:17:50,153
It makes me sad.

414
00:17:50,236 --> 00:17:53,656
You guys are having challenges.

415
00:17:53,740 --> 00:17:56,076
You guys have worked so hard.

416
00:17:56,159 --> 00:17:59,371
I think the dog is
the trigger Really Yeah.

417
00:17:59,412 --> 00:18:04,125
Strictly over a dog Yeah, yeah,
I could see it being a trigger,

418
00:18:04,250 --> 00:18:07,253
but I don't think that's
like y'all's end all be all.

419
00:18:07,337 --> 00:18:09,255
I'm not saying everything
in front of cameras.

420
00:18:09,381 --> 00:18:11,049
I'm just not going to do it.

421
00:18:11,174 --> 00:18:12,759
And if that's where we're
going with all the cameras,

422
00:18:12,884 --> 00:18:14,719
then y'all are going
to be disappointed.

423
00:18:14,844 --> 00:18:18,139
My thing is that you said
the cameras were triggers and

424
00:18:18,264 --> 00:18:20,266
your anxiety, and you
said production

425
00:18:20,308 --> 00:18:23,561
was a trigger Yeah, well,
so now it's not even that.

426
00:18:23,645 --> 00:18:25,980
Now it's just the dog
Oh, so anxiety can only

427
00:18:26,022 --> 00:18:28,066
be tied to production
No, no, no, Chad,

428
00:18:28,108 --> 00:18:29,776
that's not what she's saying.

429
00:18:29,818 --> 00:18:30,860
That's what I'm hearing.
Hold on.

430
00:18:30,902 --> 00:18:31,820
Well, don't.

431
00:18:31,861 --> 00:18:33,196
Well, just wait a second.

432
00:18:33,238 --> 00:18:34,447
That's not fair.

433
00:18:34,531 --> 00:18:37,450
That's not fair I'm done.

434
00:18:37,534 --> 00:18:40,453
I'm not talking about
this anymore Of course Oh,

435
00:18:40,537 --> 00:18:44,332
of course, of course No,
no, no, let's not do that.

436
00:18:44,374 --> 00:18:45,458
Your mom's got it.

437
00:18:47,627 --> 00:18:48,586
y'all.

438
00:18:48,628 --> 00:18:49,671
Get this mic off of me.

439
00:18:49,796 --> 00:18:50,839
I'm going home.

440
00:18:50,922 --> 00:18:52,757
That was That was an ambush.

441
00:18:52,799 --> 00:18:55,176
y'all get this mic off of me.

442
00:18:57,929 --> 00:19:00,390
I want to give you
a second to just

443
00:19:00,473 --> 00:19:06,646
address that OK,
well, first of all,

444
00:19:07,772 --> 00:19:08,773
thanks for bringing that up.

445
00:19:13,570 --> 00:19:17,032
But poquito sarcasm there
No, I I know it was sarcasm,

446
00:19:17,115 --> 00:19:20,910
but what I want to say
to you is that that moment,

447
00:19:20,952 --> 00:19:22,328
it didn't play well.

448
00:19:24,372 --> 00:19:26,166
If you want me to tell
my side of the story,

449
00:19:26,291 --> 00:19:30,128
then shut up and let me
tell my side of the story.

450
00:19:36,426 --> 00:19:38,178
Look, I don't want
you to feel like we're

451
00:19:38,261 --> 00:19:40,096
here to jump on your back.

452
00:19:40,138 --> 00:19:41,973
But you got up, and you cursed
at everyone, and that was.

453
00:19:42,098 --> 00:19:43,725
That's that's harsh.

454
00:19:43,808 --> 00:19:45,810
I understand the frustrations,
but when you speak

455
00:19:45,977 --> 00:19:48,480
to people like that sticks.

456
00:19:48,605 --> 00:19:53,234
I agree it was a culmination
of a long, long, crazy time.

457
00:19:53,318 --> 00:19:55,195
And I'm sorry.

458
00:19:55,236 --> 00:19:58,365
I wish I could rewind
it, but I can't Sure,

459
00:19:58,406 --> 00:20:00,325
it's embarrassing
to see yourself

460
00:20:00,367 --> 00:20:02,410
lose control like that.

461
00:20:02,494 --> 00:20:05,038
I judge myself harder
than anybody in this room

462
00:20:05,121 --> 00:20:06,956
or anybody on that TV set.

463
00:20:07,082 --> 00:20:12,170
So as somebody who did kind of
act a little bit off the cusp,

464
00:20:12,212 --> 00:20:14,172
I think you felt ambushed.

465
00:20:14,255 --> 00:20:17,759
And then later, looking
back at it, you're like,

466
00:20:17,842 --> 00:20:19,803
damn, I could have handled
that a little better.

467
00:20:19,844 --> 00:20:21,971
I wish I'd handled it a lot
differently, but yeah,

468
00:20:22,055 --> 00:20:23,682
I can't Yeah we can't.

469
00:20:23,765 --> 00:20:26,267
I mean, hindsight is 2020,
but you we learn from it.

470
00:20:26,351 --> 00:20:27,435
We're not our worst moments.

471
00:20:27,519 --> 00:20:29,145
None of us.

472
00:20:29,187 --> 00:20:30,897
We all had instances and
moments where we just didn't

473
00:20:31,022 --> 00:20:32,607
know how to handle the moment.

474
00:20:32,732 --> 00:20:35,985
You're not your worst
moment, OK.

475
00:20:36,069 --> 00:20:38,571
Why did you do the show.

476
00:20:38,738 --> 00:20:40,156
Well, nothing else had worked.

477
00:20:40,281 --> 00:20:42,242
I was hoping maybe this
was divine intervention

478
00:20:42,283 --> 00:20:44,619
and it seemed like it
was working at first.

479
00:20:44,744 --> 00:20:46,204
It did.

480
00:20:46,246 --> 00:20:48,498
It was just so much going on.

481
00:20:48,665 --> 00:20:52,419
Not just with the show,
but with with everything.

482
00:20:52,460 --> 00:20:54,546
I just kind of got
overwhelming.

483
00:20:54,587 --> 00:20:57,799
I got a lot of texts from Chad.

484
00:20:57,924 --> 00:21:01,511
I knew he was struggling
with production.

485
00:21:01,594 --> 00:21:06,641
But I also want to reiterate,
you Chad has a heart of gold.

486
00:21:06,808 --> 00:21:09,978
And I think that he felt
more and more cornered,

487
00:21:10,103 --> 00:21:13,690
and it affected him more
and more OK Belinda,

488
00:21:13,815 --> 00:21:15,734
how did this moment
affect your relationship.

489
00:21:15,859 --> 00:21:18,945
I mean, as far as what we
just saw, that is a turnoff.

490
00:21:18,987 --> 00:21:20,405
It's a turnoff
when people treat

491
00:21:20,447 --> 00:21:23,742
other people rude or ugly.

492
00:21:23,783 --> 00:21:27,871
And I did tell him that I was
triggered by that behavior.

493
00:21:27,954 --> 00:21:30,165
And you mentioned that
that something in your past

494
00:21:30,206 --> 00:21:32,292
concerned you when
he raised his voice

495
00:21:32,334 --> 00:21:38,131
or what was that Yeah
my previous marriage had

496
00:21:38,298 --> 00:21:40,592
those moments where
he would blow up

497
00:21:40,633 --> 00:21:42,010
and I was like seeing it again.

498
00:21:42,093 --> 00:21:44,179
I just felt like
I was in the same

499
00:21:44,220 --> 00:21:46,556
position where it's
like, there's this

500
00:21:46,598 --> 00:21:47,932
person and they're.

501
00:21:48,016 --> 00:21:49,976
And they're good
and they're fun and and

502
00:21:50,101 --> 00:21:51,519
everything is perfectly fine.

503
00:21:51,561 --> 00:21:53,021
And then all of a sudden
there's this blow up

504
00:21:53,146 --> 00:21:54,647
and you never know when
it's going to happen

505
00:21:54,731 --> 00:21:56,941
and you're walking
on eggshells I could

506
00:21:57,025 --> 00:21:59,694
see my producers walking
on eggshells at times,

507
00:21:59,778 --> 00:22:01,905
and he was trying
to manipulate me

508
00:22:01,946 --> 00:22:04,908
into thinking producers
were trying to do something

509
00:22:04,949 --> 00:22:07,285
when I knew very well
the producers weren't doing

510
00:22:07,410 --> 00:22:10,121
anything to me or to him.

511
00:22:10,163 --> 00:22:13,583
I mean, they went out of their
way to try to accommodate him,

512
00:22:13,750 --> 00:22:16,378
and that's when I started
to take steps back.

513
00:22:16,503 --> 00:22:18,922
I started to get
the feeling that the way

514
00:22:18,963 --> 00:22:21,925
he is treating them, eventually
he'll treat me that way.

515
00:22:21,966 --> 00:22:23,009
And then he did.

516
00:22:25,053 --> 00:22:26,596
All right, let's get
to the bottom of something

517
00:22:26,638 --> 00:22:28,056
else that went down.

518
00:22:28,223 --> 00:22:31,059
And Chad, when you
spoke with Belinda,

519
00:22:31,142 --> 00:22:32,769
you said that you
exchanged texts

520
00:22:32,936 --> 00:22:36,064
with Josh about your
frustrations with production

521
00:22:36,106 --> 00:22:38,733
and that Josh kind
of agreed with you.

522
00:22:38,775 --> 00:22:42,028
However, Belinda said you
were not telling the truth.

523
00:22:42,112 --> 00:22:44,406
What was in the text with
your conversation with Josh

524
00:22:44,489 --> 00:22:46,032
that you pulled up.

525
00:22:46,116 --> 00:22:49,077
I don't recall the details
of that, but I mean,

526
00:22:49,119 --> 00:22:51,871
we used each other
as a sounding board.

527
00:22:51,913 --> 00:22:53,790
Josh, do you
remember that text.

528
00:22:53,832 --> 00:22:56,584
And and were you guys
talking about the problems

529
00:22:56,668 --> 00:22:58,253
that Chad was experiencing.

530
00:22:58,294 --> 00:23:02,549
I don't remember any
texts that came from Chad

531
00:23:02,674 --> 00:23:04,592
specifically about production.

532
00:23:04,676 --> 00:23:08,388
So, yeah, I think it did catch
me off guard a little bit

533
00:23:08,513 --> 00:23:10,098
whenever I was
brought into that.

534
00:23:10,223 --> 00:23:12,434
And I personally
don't feel like I ever

535
00:23:12,475 --> 00:23:14,561
had any issues with
production interfering

536
00:23:14,686 --> 00:23:16,771
with my relationship
Yeah I also

537
00:23:16,896 --> 00:23:19,733
did not feel like production
was driving any wedges.

538
00:23:19,816 --> 00:23:23,778
We had a great experience
with production all around.

539
00:23:23,903 --> 00:23:25,780
I mean, I knew that
the requirements were

540
00:23:25,822 --> 00:23:28,366
going to be pretty
heavy and I signed up

541
00:23:28,491 --> 00:23:32,454
knowing that know you put
your life a little bit on hold,

542
00:23:32,620 --> 00:23:34,456
like, and you have
to work around it,

543
00:23:34,539 --> 00:23:37,792
but you're signing up not
just to do some weird reality.

544
00:23:37,834 --> 00:23:39,294
You're signing up
to find your partner.

545
00:23:39,336 --> 00:23:41,087
And I think that's
a bigger trade off.

546
00:23:41,129 --> 00:23:44,382
So that's the way
I looked at it.

547
00:23:44,466 --> 00:23:46,926
Chad is there anything
you want to say.

548
00:23:47,010 --> 00:23:50,055
I'm terribly sorry
that I hurt people,

549
00:23:50,138 --> 00:23:52,140
and I wish I could go
back and hurt people.

550
00:23:55,894 --> 00:23:56,978
But I can't.

551
00:23:57,062 --> 00:23:59,147
And you deserve to be happy.

552
00:23:59,230 --> 00:24:02,359
And I hope you can find it.

553
00:24:02,400 --> 00:24:04,361
For me, it's.

554
00:24:04,444 --> 00:24:06,821
It's all said and done.

555
00:24:06,863 --> 00:24:08,656
Belinda, have you
started dating again.

556
00:24:08,782 --> 00:24:10,825
I have, yeah.

557
00:24:10,950 --> 00:24:13,286
I wasn't thinking I was
going to actively be dating.

558
00:24:13,328 --> 00:24:16,456
I just happened
to meet someone.

559
00:24:16,623 --> 00:24:18,333
Jalen, have you
met the new guy.

560
00:24:18,458 --> 00:24:19,501
I have.

561
00:24:19,584 --> 00:24:20,794
What do you think about him.

562
00:24:20,835 --> 00:24:21,878
Tell me what you
think about him.

563
00:24:21,920 --> 00:24:23,421
He's great.
He's sweet.

564
00:24:23,463 --> 00:24:26,883
And he seems to be so far.

565
00:24:26,925 --> 00:24:29,386
I mean, some someone that
I could see my mom with.

566
00:24:29,469 --> 00:24:31,221
So I'm happy for her.

567
00:24:31,262 --> 00:24:32,931
Well, look, Belinda and Chad,
thank you for sharing

568
00:24:33,056 --> 00:24:34,474
your story with us.

569
00:24:34,516 --> 00:24:36,059
And I know this wasn't
easy for you I know it,

570
00:24:36,101 --> 00:24:37,644
and I appreciate it.

571
00:24:37,727 --> 00:24:39,270
And I respect the fact
that you sat here

572
00:24:39,354 --> 00:24:40,897
and you talked about it
and you answered the questions.

573
00:24:40,980 --> 00:24:42,565
All right I do.

574
00:24:42,649 --> 00:24:44,275
Because this ain't easy.

575
00:24:44,359 --> 00:24:46,778
All right, look,
let's switch gears and

576
00:24:46,820 --> 00:24:48,446
lighten the mood for a minute.

577
00:24:48,530 --> 00:24:51,408
You physical intimacy is
a key part of marriage,

578
00:24:51,533 --> 00:24:54,369
but it's not just about
the closeness in the bedroom.

579
00:24:54,411 --> 00:24:56,371
Sometimes it means
learning truths that

580
00:24:56,454 --> 00:24:58,039
are downright embarrassing.

581
00:24:58,123 --> 00:25:00,583
These clips may
have unlocked some

582
00:25:00,709 --> 00:25:07,215
of the things our couples
were not prepared for OK,

583
00:25:07,257 --> 00:25:08,883
I don't know what's
going through his head.

584
00:25:12,721 --> 00:25:16,641
Now I mean it was
this weird to you.

585
00:25:16,766 --> 00:25:19,102
This is the intimacy box.

586
00:25:19,227 --> 00:25:23,606
What have you used before
Oh oh, you just pulled out

587
00:25:23,648 --> 00:25:28,903
everything you've used
before Yes Woo Oh, man OK

588
00:25:29,029 --> 00:25:30,071
nipple clamps.

589
00:25:30,155 --> 00:25:31,406
Does it hurt.

590
00:25:31,531 --> 00:25:32,949
It looks stupid,
but it doesn't hurt.

591
00:25:33,074 --> 00:25:38,872
Tell me what you want me
to do to your body Wait

592
00:25:39,039 --> 00:25:42,167
are you trying
to actually hurt me.

593
00:25:42,292 --> 00:25:44,627
Megan, who do you think has
had more sexual partners.

594
00:25:44,794 --> 00:25:45,628
You or me.

595
00:25:45,795 --> 00:25:47,088
You righty.

596
00:25:47,213 --> 00:25:48,173
That's awkward.

597
00:25:48,298 --> 00:25:49,799
I'm going to drink.

598
00:25:49,841 --> 00:25:51,593
Get comfortable.

599
00:25:51,676 --> 00:25:54,804
Dude damn Hey, man, I don't
want your beans in my face.

600
00:25:54,929 --> 00:26:00,018
He has cute little balls Ooh I
used to pick my toenails, like,

601
00:26:00,101 --> 00:26:05,523
rip em off Yes I have
a confession to make Oh,

602
00:26:05,565 --> 00:26:09,527
I forgot your name OK, this
is what happens when you have

603
00:26:09,569 --> 00:26:12,947
a 63-year-old on the show.

604
00:26:13,073 --> 00:26:14,157
Come on.

605
00:26:14,199 --> 00:26:16,326
Those were some fun moments.

606
00:26:16,368 --> 00:26:17,911
Weren't those.

607
00:26:17,994 --> 00:26:20,330
Your reaction to the toenail
thing was classic.

608
00:26:20,413 --> 00:26:22,832
Did you pull the bed sheet back
up and look at her toenails

609
00:26:22,999 --> 00:26:24,501
at night.

610
00:26:24,668 --> 00:26:25,543
There were a couple times
he looked at my toes

611
00:26:25,710 --> 00:26:26,920
and they were fine.

612
00:26:26,961 --> 00:26:28,213
I don't think he
ever had any like.

613
00:26:28,380 --> 00:26:29,297
They look great today.

614
00:26:29,381 --> 00:26:30,382
They look great.

615
00:26:30,423 --> 00:26:31,716
They look amazing tonight.

616
00:26:31,758 --> 00:26:33,468
I just wanted to tell you that.

617
00:26:33,551 --> 00:26:35,637
And your defense, Brittany,
I do it I do it too.

618
00:26:35,762 --> 00:26:38,890
I don't know if that
makes you feel better.

619
00:26:39,057 --> 00:26:40,684
All right, don't move.

620
00:26:40,725 --> 00:26:42,185
We'll be back with more from
the Married at First

621
00:26:42,227 --> 00:26:43,478
Sight reunion.

622
00:26:48,316 --> 00:26:50,694
Was it my ashes when I
stood up for megan's?

623
00:26:50,777 --> 00:26:52,487
Yes, I agree.

624
00:26:52,570 --> 00:26:53,780
Rhonda got that.

625
00:26:53,905 --> 00:26:56,241
Is Rhonda got that
dress a little

626
00:26:56,366 --> 00:27:01,454
shorter underneath than I
thought Yeah, my are short.

627
00:27:01,579 --> 00:27:03,373
You want me to do
you good OK OK.

628
00:27:03,540 --> 00:27:04,416
All right.

629
00:27:04,541 --> 00:27:05,834
Let's keep moving.

630
00:27:05,917 --> 00:27:07,335
Our next couple.

631
00:27:07,377 --> 00:27:09,295
She doesn't use sheets
with her bedding.

632
00:27:09,337 --> 00:27:11,172
And he talked
about the Crusades

633
00:27:11,256 --> 00:27:13,049
on the night of his wedding.

634
00:27:13,216 --> 00:27:15,176
Brittany and will.

635
00:27:15,301 --> 00:27:16,803
Will, I want to ask
you right now,

636
00:27:16,886 --> 00:27:18,555
what is the current state
of your relationship

637
00:27:18,596 --> 00:27:20,557
with Brittany.

638
00:27:20,640 --> 00:27:22,684
There isn't one.

639
00:27:22,767 --> 00:27:24,602
We haven't spoken
in a long time.

640
00:27:24,728 --> 00:27:27,981
Really Brittany, when was
the last time you guys spoke.

641
00:27:28,023 --> 00:27:30,817
Like over a year
and a half ago.

642
00:27:30,942 --> 00:27:33,695
Because we are no
longer together,

643
00:27:33,737 --> 00:27:37,741
so we don't speak
after a Decision Day.

644
00:27:37,866 --> 00:27:40,618
I left that evening,
so I was gone for a week.

645
00:27:40,660 --> 00:27:42,120
Things didn't sit well.

646
00:27:42,203 --> 00:27:45,665
And so when I got back,
I ended things there.

647
00:27:45,749 --> 00:27:48,585
Why didn't you say
no on Decision Day.

648
00:27:48,668 --> 00:27:52,839
Honestly, it was
in the moment I do adore her

649
00:27:52,881 --> 00:27:54,674
and I didn't want
to see her sad.

650
00:27:54,799 --> 00:27:56,634
Either she was
crying and I mean,

651
00:27:56,801 --> 00:28:00,055
I made things more difficult
by saying no than saying yes

652
00:28:00,096 --> 00:28:03,224
and then being gone
for three or four days.

653
00:28:03,350 --> 00:28:07,729
Brittany, do you wish he
had said no on Decision Day.

654
00:28:07,896 --> 00:28:09,647
I mean, it's easy
for me to say like,

655
00:28:09,814 --> 00:28:13,068
yeah, if he really wanted to
say no, he could have said no.

656
00:28:13,109 --> 00:28:16,905
But, when he came
home, I had an inkling

657
00:28:16,988 --> 00:28:19,491
that it was going to happen.

658
00:28:19,532 --> 00:28:25,747
And I had prepared myself to
have a conversation about it.

659
00:28:25,789 --> 00:28:28,249
But the way that it
happened threw me off.

660
00:28:28,291 --> 00:28:32,087
He was overly rude,
stern, and I felt very

661
00:28:32,170 --> 00:28:34,005
cold, like he was very cold.

662
00:28:34,047 --> 00:28:35,548
So I ensured Brittany fashion.

663
00:28:35,715 --> 00:28:37,967
I tried, I tried to fight it.

664
00:28:38,051 --> 00:28:40,011
Well, I mean,
since you mentioned

665
00:28:40,053 --> 00:28:42,847
it, let's take a look at some
never before seen footage shot

666
00:28:42,889 --> 00:28:46,559
a week after Decision Day from
your breakup at your apartment

667
00:28:46,601 --> 00:28:49,187
and the aftermath that
followed the next day

668
00:28:49,229 --> 00:28:51,439
at a group pool party.

669
00:28:51,481 --> 00:28:53,775
I think it was such
an emotional week

670
00:28:53,817 --> 00:28:55,360
because we didn't
have the opportunity

671
00:28:55,443 --> 00:28:58,613
to have the conversation
after everything that

672
00:28:58,738 --> 00:29:01,199
happened with Decision
Day I know you felt

673
00:29:01,324 --> 00:29:03,284
like it was tough for you.

674
00:29:07,330 --> 00:29:12,502
It was tough for me too I
know I haven't married him.

675
00:29:12,585 --> 00:29:14,796
So yeah.

676
00:29:16,798 --> 00:29:23,805
Now it's just like OK can
you tell me what happened.

677
00:29:30,020 --> 00:29:32,480
We're not.

678
00:29:32,522 --> 00:29:39,487
We haven't seen y'all
since Decision date.

679
00:29:42,240 --> 00:29:43,241
Smells good.

680
00:29:43,283 --> 00:29:44,743
I haven't eaten all day.

681
00:29:44,826 --> 00:29:48,121
Just haven't had much
of an appetite Really.

682
00:29:48,246 --> 00:29:50,040
Tricks of the trade, you know.

683
00:29:50,081 --> 00:29:51,541
Life sucks.

684
00:29:51,666 --> 00:29:56,171
Yo, I like that shirt
Oh thank you, Thank you.

685
00:29:56,212 --> 00:29:59,632
I like the Tigers giving
real big LSU vibes.

686
00:29:59,674 --> 00:30:01,718
Chad, how are you,
bro I'm alive.

687
00:30:01,801 --> 00:30:06,056
I'm here Good y'all want to
move to the chairs Yeah yeah.

688
00:30:06,222 --> 00:30:08,767
Let's do it.

689
00:30:08,933 --> 00:30:10,560
All right, you two.

690
00:30:10,602 --> 00:30:11,770
And you're sitting
on opposite sides of the room.

691
00:30:11,936 --> 00:30:13,438
Well, what's going on.

692
00:30:13,480 --> 00:30:15,023
Moving on with my life.

693
00:30:15,148 --> 00:30:17,108
I'm figuring that out
and how to do that.

694
00:30:17,233 --> 00:30:18,610
And what's going on.

695
00:30:18,693 --> 00:30:21,613
What have I done that's
so bad to where you have

696
00:30:21,654 --> 00:30:23,990
to treat me like I'm nothing.

697
00:30:24,115 --> 00:30:25,325
Treating you like
you're nothing.

698
00:30:25,450 --> 00:30:26,451
Well, the way you talk to me.

699
00:30:26,618 --> 00:30:27,869
Am I allowed to speak.

700
00:30:27,994 --> 00:30:29,037
Can I speak now
Yeah, you can speak.

701
00:30:29,079 --> 00:30:30,330
Thank you.

702
00:30:30,455 --> 00:30:32,165
Well, just like
that, that's even.

703
00:30:32,207 --> 00:30:33,708
I think that's
just like, not OK.

704
00:30:33,750 --> 00:30:35,377
I was trying to respond
and she cut me off.

705
00:30:35,418 --> 00:30:37,837
Sarcastic I was not
trying to be hurtful.

706
00:30:37,962 --> 00:30:39,589
I just wanted
to make this stop.

707
00:30:39,673 --> 00:30:41,758
I wanted it to be over.

708
00:30:41,841 --> 00:30:44,427
I was never able to be enough
for her No matter what I did,

709
00:30:44,469 --> 00:30:45,845
it was never enough.

710
00:30:45,887 --> 00:30:47,597
She was either running
to tell someone

711
00:30:47,639 --> 00:30:49,057
that I wasn't being vulnerable
or not doing something,

712
00:30:49,140 --> 00:30:50,725
but it just pushed me away.

713
00:30:50,850 --> 00:30:52,352
So after that, I just
decided I didn't want this.

714
00:30:52,519 --> 00:30:54,562
But I never said
you weren't enough.

715
00:30:54,604 --> 00:30:57,065
I said, I don't know
if I'm enough for you.

716
00:30:57,232 --> 00:30:59,901
I never once said that
you were just as stupid.

717
00:30:59,984 --> 00:31:01,945
I never once said that you
were not enough for me.

718
00:31:02,028 --> 00:31:03,196
I never in my life said that.

719
00:31:03,279 --> 00:31:04,531
Because that is not true.

720
00:31:04,656 --> 00:31:05,699
The conversation
where you did say

721
00:31:05,865 --> 00:31:06,616
that you didn't feel anything.

722
00:31:06,700 --> 00:31:08,326
You stated that.

723
00:31:08,410 --> 00:31:09,661
Well, maybe if you don't
like me doing things for you,

724
00:31:09,828 --> 00:31:11,454
I'm not the person for you.

725
00:31:11,621 --> 00:31:13,998
And that was enough for you
to to want to divorce me.

726
00:31:14,082 --> 00:31:16,084
Really like all of the issues
that we've been going through.

727
00:31:16,209 --> 00:31:17,961
That's enough for you
to just say, it.

728
00:31:18,003 --> 00:31:25,093
I don't want to be married
anymore Yes Brittany,

729
00:31:32,976 --> 00:31:34,519
how hard was that moment.

730
00:31:34,561 --> 00:31:37,480
I was difficult, it was.

731
00:31:37,605 --> 00:31:44,612
It was devastating Yeah
I mean, it was tough.

732
00:31:48,700 --> 00:31:51,703
I don't take pride
or enjoyment out of being mean.

733
00:31:51,745 --> 00:31:53,329
Especially not to her.

734
00:31:53,496 --> 00:31:57,000
But I think that I had
to do that to be succinct.

735
00:31:57,167 --> 00:32:00,420
Why Because I was told that
when I'm softer with those

736
00:32:00,462 --> 00:32:03,006
mannerisms, that
it's giving her hope.

737
00:32:03,089 --> 00:32:04,799
Even though I'm telling her no.

738
00:32:04,883 --> 00:32:07,886
So I think I had
to be overly rude.

739
00:32:07,969 --> 00:32:09,888
I was not trying
to lead her on.

740
00:32:09,929 --> 00:32:11,890
I wanted to make sure that we
were at least concrete on that.

741
00:32:11,973 --> 00:32:15,685
And I felt as if that was the
only other that was the route

742
00:32:15,769 --> 00:32:17,270
to take in that moment.

743
00:32:17,354 --> 00:32:19,606
I mean, he it clear
that he was done.

744
00:32:19,731 --> 00:32:21,649
He made it very clear
that he was done.

745
00:32:21,775 --> 00:32:25,111
And I wanted to have
a conversation.

746
00:32:25,195 --> 00:32:26,446
I was persistent.

747
00:32:26,613 --> 00:32:28,365
I wanted to keep
fighting for it.

748
00:32:28,490 --> 00:32:31,409
Brittany reached out a couple
of times and some really

749
00:32:31,451 --> 00:32:33,244
rude things were said.

750
00:32:33,328 --> 00:32:37,082
So I said bye
and blocked her number.

751
00:32:37,207 --> 00:32:39,376
After will blocked you, did
you continue to try and get

752
00:32:39,459 --> 00:32:41,378
in touch with him Yeah,
I wrote him a letter

753
00:32:41,419 --> 00:32:43,546
and dropped off that letter.

754
00:32:43,713 --> 00:32:47,842
I was still trying to fight
for our our marriage

755
00:32:47,967 --> 00:32:49,469
in that moment.

756
00:32:49,552 --> 00:32:51,721
I conveyed how much
I loved him like,

757
00:32:51,805 --> 00:32:53,473
I don't feel like this is over.

758
00:32:53,556 --> 00:32:54,849
It's not the end.

759
00:32:55,016 --> 00:32:56,768
We didn't give
ourselves a fair shake.

760
00:32:56,893 --> 00:33:03,191
We didn't fight for it Yeah
Did you read the letter No,

761
00:33:04,192 --> 00:33:05,193
I did not.

762
00:33:08,405 --> 00:33:12,867
So what happened when Brittany
showed up to drop it off.

763
00:33:12,951 --> 00:33:14,869
I wasn't there.

764
00:33:14,953 --> 00:33:16,621
And then there was
a note on my door saying

765
00:33:16,663 --> 00:33:18,748
that she paid some visits.

766
00:33:18,915 --> 00:33:20,542
I'm sorry.

767
00:33:20,625 --> 00:33:21,751
They said that you'd been
there more than once.

768
00:33:21,835 --> 00:33:23,336
Who was they.

769
00:33:23,420 --> 00:33:24,754
People in the leasing
office never know.

770
00:33:24,838 --> 00:33:26,798
See, the only time,
that I was There

771
00:33:26,881 --> 00:33:29,634
was when I dropped off
that letter OK, perfect.

772
00:33:29,759 --> 00:33:33,221
Maybe if they've seen me,
it's because she lives there.

773
00:33:33,263 --> 00:33:35,890
And I've been to her
place a couple of times.

774
00:33:36,016 --> 00:33:37,600
So you've been back
to the building,

775
00:33:37,642 --> 00:33:40,770
but you're there to see
the building because of Jaylen.

776
00:33:40,937 --> 00:33:44,441
And that's as of recently
considering that he

777
00:33:44,524 --> 00:33:46,026
didn't read the letter.

778
00:33:46,067 --> 00:33:47,569
Is there anything you
want to say to him now.

779
00:33:57,287 --> 00:34:02,917
Brittany, is there anything you
want to say to him now No

780
00:34:06,046 --> 00:34:07,839
no, no.

781
00:34:08,006 --> 00:34:13,470
Is there anything you want
to say to her Yes I apologize

782
00:34:13,511 --> 00:34:16,306
for not being present and doing
a better job of trying

783
00:34:16,389 --> 00:34:18,892
to understand how to hear you.

784
00:34:18,975 --> 00:34:21,269
And then definitely,
I can be too literal

785
00:34:21,311 --> 00:34:25,106
and that makes things
difficult as well.

786
00:34:25,190 --> 00:34:26,816
I just got lost.

787
00:34:26,983 --> 00:34:31,112
Sometimes I'm like, I need
will for dummies sometimes.

788
00:34:31,196 --> 00:34:32,530
Sometimes it's a little bit.

789
00:34:32,614 --> 00:34:34,115
I was like, sometimes
talking to Will

790
00:34:34,157 --> 00:34:35,408
and I'm like, wait,
what are you saying.

791
00:34:35,450 --> 00:34:37,369
I'm getting lost.
I'm so confused.

792
00:34:37,410 --> 00:34:39,454
I think watching will explain
the different types of love

793
00:34:39,621 --> 00:34:41,456
was probably the best
thing I've ever seen.

794
00:34:41,539 --> 00:34:43,500
I want to say that
was incredible.

795
00:34:43,583 --> 00:34:45,293
Just kind of thought
that the term

796
00:34:45,377 --> 00:34:47,003
love is kind of bastardized
and people abuse it.

797
00:34:47,170 --> 00:34:49,297
So I feel like you should
be succinct and clear, but.

798
00:34:52,092 --> 00:34:54,552
Again, a will answer
a will answer.

799
00:34:54,594 --> 00:34:56,846
But you clearly
were speaking to me,

800
00:34:56,971 --> 00:34:59,307
and I was taking it a different
way than what you meant.

801
00:34:59,474 --> 00:35:01,976
So thank you for that
journey with me

802
00:35:02,060 --> 00:35:05,063
Yeah no, I appreciate that.

803
00:35:05,105 --> 00:35:06,314
I'm going to change it.

804
00:35:06,398 --> 00:35:07,774
I am going to say
something back.

805
00:35:07,857 --> 00:35:09,693
Go ahead.

806
00:35:09,776 --> 00:35:12,278
Watching it back, like I want
to clarify Not at any point

807
00:35:12,404 --> 00:35:14,030
did I think you
were a bad person.

808
00:35:14,072 --> 00:35:18,743
I don't think that you were
trying to intentionally

809
00:35:18,868 --> 00:35:20,537
hurt my feelings.

810
00:35:20,578 --> 00:35:23,581
And I don't think I ever
questioned that you loved me.

811
00:35:23,623 --> 00:35:29,546
I think what I was trying to do
is just maybe dig for more.

812
00:35:29,629 --> 00:35:31,339
But, yeah, I appreciate
what you just said.

813
00:35:31,464 --> 00:35:35,010
Like it was all just
a breakdown in communication.

814
00:35:35,051 --> 00:35:37,512
Thank you Yeah Would
either one of you

815
00:35:37,637 --> 00:35:39,764
ever get married
at first sight again.

816
00:35:39,848 --> 00:35:44,144
The Brittany I am today
Yeah is that Brittany.

817
00:35:44,227 --> 00:35:47,230
Still a hopeful romantic,
like you said you were 100%

818
00:35:47,397 --> 00:35:48,648
wedding Yeah yeah.

819
00:35:48,773 --> 00:35:51,735
She's just a lot more calm.

820
00:35:51,818 --> 00:35:53,778
She's a lot less reactionary.

821
00:35:53,862 --> 00:35:57,532
And that's with a lot
of prayer and a lot of therapy.

822
00:35:57,657 --> 00:35:59,200
And my support
system, some of which

823
00:35:59,284 --> 00:36:02,245
that are here on the stage.

824
00:36:02,287 --> 00:36:05,749
But yeah, I mean, I'm never
going to lose the desire

825
00:36:05,832 --> 00:36:07,167
to want to be married.

826
00:36:07,334 --> 00:36:09,044
You want to be
the wife that I was

827
00:36:09,127 --> 00:36:13,048
trying to present myself as.

828
00:36:13,173 --> 00:36:14,549
Thank you guys
for sharing, because I'm

829
00:36:14,632 --> 00:36:17,552
sure it wasn't easy at all.

830
00:36:17,635 --> 00:36:20,597
All right, let's let's
move on to our next couple.

831
00:36:20,680 --> 00:36:21,723
Ronda and Pat.

832
00:36:24,642 --> 00:36:29,564
Are you still married No no.

833
00:36:33,109 --> 00:36:36,529
Why did you and Pat
officially break up.

834
00:36:36,571 --> 00:36:39,616
Well, we were
together nine months,

835
00:36:39,657 --> 00:36:43,828
and then he had gone to Europe
for a month on his own.

836
00:36:43,995 --> 00:36:46,623
He did invite me to go, but I
had taken off so much time

837
00:36:46,664 --> 00:36:49,626
last year, and we we had
a lot of we did a lot of trips

838
00:36:49,751 --> 00:36:51,252
last year.

839
00:36:51,294 --> 00:36:54,255
So he came back and he
was a great listener

840
00:36:54,339 --> 00:36:57,592
that night Did he write
once for the next 10 days.

841
00:36:57,676 --> 00:36:59,469
I was on cloud nine.

842
00:36:59,636 --> 00:37:02,305
I was like, we did all
these things with friends.

843
00:37:02,389 --> 00:37:03,473
I was hanging on him.

844
00:37:03,515 --> 00:37:04,933
We were kissing.

845
00:37:05,016 --> 00:37:06,768
I was just like, I
was feeling like, this

846
00:37:06,851 --> 00:37:09,938
is probably the best we've
been since the reception

847
00:37:10,063 --> 00:37:11,064
at our wedding.

848
00:37:11,147 --> 00:37:12,273
Like it was what happened.

849
00:37:12,357 --> 00:37:14,150
It was great.

850
00:37:14,234 --> 00:37:17,112
So I wake up one morning and we
were going to go on a bike ride

851
00:37:17,195 --> 00:37:18,947
that that day,
and he was sitting

852
00:37:19,114 --> 00:37:21,825
outside listening
to a meditation on anger,

853
00:37:21,908 --> 00:37:24,077
and I was like, what
the Like really.

854
00:37:24,160 --> 00:37:27,163
Because I was like,
feeling so great about us.

855
00:37:27,247 --> 00:37:28,957
So I waited for him to finish.

856
00:37:29,040 --> 00:37:31,209
I made my coffee, I went
out there and I said, hey.

857
00:37:31,292 --> 00:37:34,504
And I asked him about it,
and I said, are you angry.

858
00:37:34,546 --> 00:37:38,049
And he said, well, I'm not
really angry right now,

859
00:37:38,133 --> 00:37:41,469
but I can feel myself
starting to get angry.

860
00:37:41,553 --> 00:37:43,805
And I said, let
me guess, is this

861
00:37:43,972 --> 00:37:46,099
because we haven't
had sex since you've

862
00:37:46,224 --> 00:37:48,727
been back the last 10 days.

863
00:37:48,768 --> 00:37:50,520
And he said honestly, yes.

864
00:37:50,687 --> 00:37:52,397
That's it.

865
00:37:52,564 --> 00:37:56,276
And then we met for dinner,
and in the first two minutes

866
00:37:56,401 --> 00:37:58,862
I was there, he
said he was done.

867
00:37:58,945 --> 00:38:01,448
And so I left.

868
00:38:01,489 --> 00:38:03,408
Were your physical
needs being met.

869
00:38:03,533 --> 00:38:05,910
I would have enjoyed more.

870
00:38:06,036 --> 00:38:07,912
So I would say no.

871
00:38:07,954 --> 00:38:12,917
And it was something that I
had felt for quite some time.

872
00:38:13,084 --> 00:38:14,961
We had been intimate.

873
00:38:15,003 --> 00:38:16,629
The wedding night,
it started off.

874
00:38:16,713 --> 00:38:18,381
It started off with
literally a bang.

875
00:38:18,465 --> 00:38:19,507
What happened.

876
00:38:19,591 --> 00:38:21,343
I'll tell you what happened.

877
00:38:21,426 --> 00:38:24,012
My experience of being
in a relationship with Pat

878
00:38:24,095 --> 00:38:28,058
was that he was
very insecure, and

879
00:38:28,099 --> 00:38:33,605
that insecurity was a complete
turnoff romantically,

880
00:38:33,688 --> 00:38:38,026
for example, Pat, as you guys
saw, showed up on Decision Day

881
00:38:38,068 --> 00:38:41,071
and said he did not
want to stay married

882
00:38:41,154 --> 00:38:42,906
and changed his mind.

883
00:38:42,947 --> 00:38:48,495
He went from being this
like, I'm going to say no to.

884
00:38:48,536 --> 00:38:51,039
And it was just I
was so confused.

885
00:38:51,122 --> 00:38:53,249
I needed somebody to stand
up and be a man and just say,

886
00:38:53,333 --> 00:38:55,085
this is what I want
and this is what I need.

887
00:38:55,126 --> 00:38:57,629
And like, it's like, you
hunched shoulders and whining

888
00:38:57,796 --> 00:39:03,134
and like, that just was like,
not a sexual turn on for me.

889
00:39:03,218 --> 00:39:06,388
But no matter what, Pat
said, I had made a commitment

890
00:39:06,471 --> 00:39:08,098
to give this a year.

891
00:39:08,139 --> 00:39:11,309
I certainly wanted to see
what our relationship

892
00:39:11,434 --> 00:39:13,061
would be like off camera.

893
00:39:13,186 --> 00:39:16,231
And I tried to explain
from my perspective

894
00:39:16,314 --> 00:39:20,402
that intimacy is more
than just sexual.

895
00:39:20,443 --> 00:39:23,029
And his response was,
I don't feel worthy

896
00:39:23,154 --> 00:39:26,116
or loved if I'm not having sex.

897
00:39:26,157 --> 00:39:30,870
The way I received it was
I. I lost respect for you

898
00:39:30,995 --> 00:39:33,248
and I wasn't attracted to you.

899
00:39:33,289 --> 00:39:39,796
And literally within
a minute or two of that,

900
00:39:39,838 --> 00:39:42,132
my switch just flipped off.

901
00:39:42,173 --> 00:39:44,259
And when it's off, it's off.

902
00:39:44,342 --> 00:39:45,593
It's just off.

903
00:39:45,719 --> 00:39:47,679
I feel like Pat
really came into this

904
00:39:47,721 --> 00:39:52,726
because he wanted a wife, and I
never felt like he wanted me.

905
00:39:52,851 --> 00:39:55,311
He just wanted a person
that was his wife.

906
00:39:55,478 --> 00:40:00,191
I mean, he came in looking
for physical intimacy

907
00:40:00,233 --> 00:40:02,569
that I would assume
he would hope

908
00:40:02,694 --> 00:40:04,654
would lead to a connection.

909
00:40:04,696 --> 00:40:09,200
And I feel like I came
in looking for a connection,

910
00:40:09,242 --> 00:40:13,079
and the physical intimacy would
be like the icing on the cake.

911
00:40:13,121 --> 00:40:16,124
I just really struggled
to for that connection.

912
00:40:16,207 --> 00:40:20,503
I think because of that never
got to use that safe word.

913
00:40:20,545 --> 00:40:23,381
Pineapple pineapple.

914
00:40:23,423 --> 00:40:25,050
Pineapple right. right.

915
00:40:25,133 --> 00:40:27,927
Pat, what did you learn
from this experience.

916
00:40:27,969 --> 00:40:30,430
I learned that I
put other people

917
00:40:30,513 --> 00:40:35,852
before me to my detriment
and learning

918
00:40:35,935 --> 00:40:39,147
and accepting to love myself.

919
00:40:39,314 --> 00:40:45,737
I did the I took
on the habit of saying

920
00:40:45,820 --> 00:40:49,240
to myself out loud
and God, this was awkward.

921
00:40:49,282 --> 00:40:51,409
But I love you, Patrick.

922
00:40:51,451 --> 00:40:53,661
And and did I slip up.

923
00:40:53,745 --> 00:40:54,704
yeah, I did.

924
00:40:54,746 --> 00:40:56,414
But was I making the effort.

925
00:40:56,498 --> 00:40:58,333
I really was, I
just didn't feel

926
00:40:58,416 --> 00:41:00,752
like it was being received.

927
00:41:00,919 --> 00:41:02,504
Rhonda, what did you learn.

928
00:41:02,629 --> 00:41:05,048
I think being a single
Parent for so long,

929
00:41:05,090 --> 00:41:08,802
I had to control the situation
or there would be chaos.

930
00:41:08,927 --> 00:41:11,137
And I think with
Pat, I was trying

931
00:41:11,179 --> 00:41:13,723
to control
the situation instead

932
00:41:13,765 --> 00:41:16,685
of letting it flow almost
like a salmon swimming

933
00:41:16,810 --> 00:41:19,104
upstream against
the current instead

934
00:41:19,145 --> 00:41:21,064
of just letting it flow.

935
00:41:21,147 --> 00:41:25,902
And so I think I've learned
to just like, more surrender.

936
00:41:26,027 --> 00:41:29,114
It's like you could have
given him a little more Grace

937
00:41:29,280 --> 00:41:35,787
Yeah OK, moving on to our last
couple Yes, they have jokes.

938
00:41:37,372 --> 00:41:39,040
Derek and Megan, they
were so eager to make

939
00:41:39,124 --> 00:41:41,251
their relationship work,
but was a perfect set of abs

940
00:41:41,334 --> 00:41:45,088
enough to keep this
marriage strong.

941
00:41:45,171 --> 00:41:47,340
You last time, that
we saw you two,

942
00:41:47,424 --> 00:41:49,259
you both had said
yes on Decision Day

943
00:41:49,300 --> 00:41:51,469
to staying married, and you
were actually preparing

944
00:41:51,636 --> 00:41:53,888
your house for a baby.

945
00:41:53,930 --> 00:41:56,891
How are things going
and how have things

946
00:41:56,975 --> 00:41:58,560
changed since Decision Day.

947
00:42:06,776 --> 00:42:08,069
I had a miscarriage.

948
00:42:11,823 --> 00:42:14,576
And I know that's something
very hard to talk about, having

949
00:42:14,659 --> 00:42:18,038
experienced that in my life.

950
00:42:18,163 --> 00:42:20,248
Very, very sorry to hear that.

951
00:42:20,290 --> 00:42:22,083
It was very rough.

952
00:42:22,167 --> 00:42:26,713
I feel bad for anyone that
has to go through that.

953
00:42:26,838 --> 00:42:29,174
You taking it back
to Decision Day.

954
00:42:29,341 --> 00:42:30,592
Megan was pregnant.

955
00:42:30,717 --> 00:42:31,676
We were excited.

956
00:42:31,801 --> 00:42:32,635
We were on a high.

957
00:42:32,802 --> 00:42:34,637
We said yes.

958
00:42:34,721 --> 00:42:37,098
From our perspective, it was
like, look, this this worked.

959
00:42:37,223 --> 00:42:38,683
We were really headed
down that path.

960
00:42:38,725 --> 00:42:39,976
We were family planning.

961
00:42:40,060 --> 00:42:42,228
That's what we were
thinking about.

962
00:42:42,354 --> 00:42:44,272
And then soon
after, that's when

963
00:42:44,356 --> 00:42:45,857
we got the devastating news.

964
00:42:45,982 --> 00:42:49,444
And it was extremely hard.

965
00:42:52,113 --> 00:42:54,824
Seeing what Megan
had to go through,

966
00:42:54,908 --> 00:43:01,247
what we had to go through, it
was really, really terrible.

967
00:43:01,331 --> 00:43:05,126
Megan and Derek, are
you still married.

968
00:43:14,594 --> 00:43:18,181
Once we went through
the miscarriage,

969
00:43:18,264 --> 00:43:20,392
you everything changed for us.

970
00:43:20,475 --> 00:43:23,019
We really just started
to clash on some things.

971
00:43:23,103 --> 00:43:24,270
Derek's very stubborn.

972
00:43:24,354 --> 00:43:25,563
I'm very stubborn.

973
00:43:25,605 --> 00:43:27,482
There was a lot give and take.

974
00:43:27,565 --> 00:43:30,652
I was the one that was like,
let's get into couples therapy.

975
00:43:37,283 --> 00:43:39,035
But there was a lot of issues.

976
00:43:39,077 --> 00:43:42,205
And if you don't work
on those issues, then yeah,

977
00:43:42,288 --> 00:43:44,165
it's not going to work.

978
00:43:44,249 --> 00:43:46,376
It was hard to talk
about openly.

979
00:43:46,543 --> 00:43:48,712
I mean, it was deep stuff.

980
00:43:48,795 --> 00:43:52,090
So then we had
a really bad fight.

981
00:43:55,010 --> 00:44:00,640
And when we were
fighting I told Megan

982
00:44:00,724 --> 00:44:02,100
I didn't love her anymore.

983
00:44:02,225 --> 00:44:04,019
Derek broke up with
me over the phone

984
00:44:04,102 --> 00:44:06,396
and then moved
out a week later,

985
00:44:06,479 --> 00:44:08,023
and I haven't seen him since.

986
00:44:10,150 --> 00:44:11,484
It was horrible.

987
00:44:11,651 --> 00:44:14,112
I mean, the way that
it happened was like,

988
00:44:14,154 --> 00:44:15,530
dude, that was so uncool.

989
00:44:19,117 --> 00:44:24,205
Breaking up is never there's
never a good time to do it.

990
00:44:24,330 --> 00:44:27,083
It's always going to be hard.

991
00:44:27,167 --> 00:44:33,548
I knew that this wasn't
the right person for me.

992
00:44:33,631 --> 00:44:35,050
I had to be true to myself.

993
00:44:35,133 --> 00:44:36,593
I'd be true to Megan.

994
00:44:36,718 --> 00:44:40,055
When he broke up with
me, something in my head

995
00:44:40,138 --> 00:44:42,515
changed and I couldn't
remember anything

996
00:44:42,599 --> 00:44:43,975
good from our relationship.

997
00:44:44,017 --> 00:44:46,603
I just remembered all the bad.

998
00:44:46,644 --> 00:44:48,021
And then I watched.

999
00:44:48,063 --> 00:44:50,231
And then I remembered
all the good.

1000
00:44:50,315 --> 00:44:53,026
And that was hard, because
like, a year and a half,

1001
00:44:53,068 --> 00:44:54,486
I don't remember
any of the good.

1002
00:44:54,527 --> 00:44:55,945
And then it all just came back.

1003
00:44:56,029 --> 00:44:58,823
Floodgates, everything.

1004
00:44:58,907 --> 00:45:00,909
I don't think
Derek's a bad person.

1005
00:45:00,950 --> 00:45:03,912
I don't think that
he handled it well.

1006
00:45:03,995 --> 00:45:07,332
I don't think that
was fair to me.

1007
00:45:07,415 --> 00:45:09,417
My question is, do
you think that he

1008
00:45:09,542 --> 00:45:12,796
would have said yes on Decision
Day if you were not pregnant.

1009
00:45:12,837 --> 00:45:15,131
I don't know.

1010
00:45:15,215 --> 00:45:16,758
I wasn't happy.

1011
00:45:16,883 --> 00:45:18,802
I don't think Megan was happy.

1012
00:45:18,843 --> 00:45:21,179
I think whether we said yes
or no, a Decision Day, I

1013
00:45:21,262 --> 00:45:25,433
think the the eventual outcome
would be the same Wow one of us

1014
00:45:25,517 --> 00:45:29,729
respected the other,
but it's not mutual.

1015
00:45:29,854 --> 00:45:31,439
I'm sorry, I didn't.

1016
00:45:31,523 --> 00:45:33,316
I didn't think I said
anything insulting there.

1017
00:45:33,400 --> 00:45:35,819
I think you're demeaning our
relationship, quite honestly.

1018
00:45:35,860 --> 00:45:36,861
That's fine.

1019
00:45:36,903 --> 00:45:38,279
You didn't think we'd work out.

1020
00:45:38,405 --> 00:45:39,906
That's really upsetting.

1021
00:45:39,948 --> 00:45:41,825
We were going to have
a kid together.

1022
00:45:41,908 --> 00:45:43,952
I think you're kind of taking
away from like, all the good

1023
00:45:44,035 --> 00:45:45,495
that we had.
And I really just don't.

1024
00:45:45,578 --> 00:45:47,122
I don't think
that's really fair.

1025
00:45:47,205 --> 00:45:48,123
That's fine.

1026
00:45:48,164 --> 00:45:49,165
It feels.

1027
00:45:49,207 --> 00:45:50,750
It feels cold.

1028
00:45:50,917 --> 00:45:53,211
I mean, now that I'm
even thinking about it,

1029
00:45:53,336 --> 00:45:54,629
like, I don't want
to be with somebody that

1030
00:45:54,713 --> 00:45:56,423
doesn't want to be with me.

1031
00:45:56,548 --> 00:46:00,010
Do I have things I need to work
on 100% Do I hate the way

1032
00:46:00,093 --> 00:46:04,180
that I reacted in things
Yes I look back at it

1033
00:46:04,264 --> 00:46:08,351
and I will tell you I
will be a better person.

1034
00:46:08,435 --> 00:46:13,231
I've learned a lot,
and I know I'm a catch.

1035
00:46:13,273 --> 00:46:15,066
I think Megan's a great person.

1036
00:46:15,150 --> 00:46:18,069
And I think that
I hope that she

1037
00:46:18,153 --> 00:46:22,032
can find someone that really,
she falls in love with.

1038
00:46:22,115 --> 00:46:23,450
I mean, she deserves it.

1039
00:46:23,491 --> 00:46:26,119
And I really hope
the best for her.

1040
00:46:26,161 --> 00:46:28,371
And I mean that
genuinely vice versa.

1041
00:46:28,455 --> 00:46:31,082
I mean, I don't
wish you bad at all.

1042
00:46:31,166 --> 00:46:33,626
I hope you find
somebody and it's great.

1043
00:46:33,752 --> 00:46:37,464
Genuinely you I've had some
fabulous dates, you and

1044
00:46:37,547 --> 00:46:39,007
people that I connect with.

1045
00:46:39,090 --> 00:46:41,134
And this is going
to sound like for tat.

1046
00:46:41,259 --> 00:46:43,762
And I don't mean it
to be by any means.

1047
00:46:43,887 --> 00:46:46,264
I felt really seen
on a lot of these dates.

1048
00:46:46,431 --> 00:46:48,683
Like, I felt like
people saw me.

1049
00:46:48,767 --> 00:46:52,312
Did you feel unseen
in your Yeah A lot of times,

1050
00:46:52,395 --> 00:46:53,897
yeah Really Yeah.

1051
00:46:53,980 --> 00:46:57,901
Derek, are you dating
Yes I've been dating

1052
00:46:58,068 --> 00:47:00,528
someone for seven months.

1053
00:47:00,653 --> 00:47:03,448
It's going really well.

1054
00:47:03,490 --> 00:47:05,408
I'm really, really happy in it.

1055
00:47:05,492 --> 00:47:08,661
And she's excited to be a mom.

1056
00:47:08,787 --> 00:47:09,913
She really loves me.

1057
00:47:09,996 --> 00:47:10,997
And I love her.

1058
00:47:11,081 --> 00:47:12,874
We do say I love you, and.

1059
00:47:15,126 --> 00:47:17,045
I'm happy I was
able to find that.

1060
00:47:17,170 --> 00:47:18,963
And I think I'm.

1061
00:47:19,047 --> 00:47:21,549
I hope that Megan, I hope
you find someone that you

1062
00:47:21,675 --> 00:47:23,009
can share that with too.

1063
00:47:23,134 --> 00:47:24,010
I really do.

1064
00:47:24,135 --> 00:47:25,220
I really do.

1065
00:47:25,303 --> 00:47:26,388
Did you know He was dating.

1066
00:47:26,429 --> 00:47:27,722
Were you.

1067
00:47:27,847 --> 00:47:29,974
I saw he was on raya
two months ago.

1068
00:47:30,058 --> 00:47:31,976
He's been dating for seven
months, but he was on raya

1069
00:47:32,060 --> 00:47:34,229
and I sent it
to Jalen and Britney.

1070
00:47:37,816 --> 00:47:38,733
And that's not shade.

1071
00:47:38,817 --> 00:47:40,068
I'm just being honest.

1072
00:47:40,151 --> 00:47:41,820
I just told Jalen
that that you're

1073
00:47:41,903 --> 00:47:45,281
not still on rye No no OK
No your girlfriend No you

1074
00:47:45,365 --> 00:47:46,533
got off of Ryan.

1075
00:47:46,616 --> 00:47:47,909
That's right OK.
All right.

1076
00:47:47,951 --> 00:47:49,452
All right.

1077
00:47:49,577 --> 00:47:51,413
What have you learned
from this experience.

1078
00:47:51,496 --> 00:47:55,083
I can be defensive
and I can get my head.

1079
00:47:55,166 --> 00:47:57,043
Let's slow it
down a little bit.

1080
00:47:57,127 --> 00:47:59,921
And, I believe in growing.

1081
00:48:00,005 --> 00:48:01,798
I just want to be
a better person.

1082
00:48:01,881 --> 00:48:03,633
I'm very happy that
you're in a relationship

1083
00:48:03,717 --> 00:48:05,468
and she appreciates you.

1084
00:48:05,510 --> 00:48:07,512
I think that's what all of us
want in a relationship is

1085
00:48:07,595 --> 00:48:08,430
to be appreciated.

1086
00:48:08,555 --> 00:48:09,889
And to be seen.

1087
00:48:09,931 --> 00:48:13,101
Thanks there's no
ill will for me.

1088
00:48:13,184 --> 00:48:15,478
I hope you have
your three babies.

1089
00:48:15,562 --> 00:48:16,938
And I hope that they're great.

1090
00:48:16,980 --> 00:48:18,273
Thank you.

1091
00:48:18,356 --> 00:48:19,607
You going to have
more babies and

1092
00:48:19,691 --> 00:48:21,192
you going to have
your children,

1093
00:48:21,276 --> 00:48:24,696
too, I. I promise you,
I promise you, Britney

1094
00:48:24,738 --> 00:48:26,281
and I always talk about.

1095
00:48:26,322 --> 00:48:27,490
We already picked
the neighborhood we're going

1096
00:48:27,574 --> 00:48:29,325
to live in next to each other.

1097
00:48:29,367 --> 00:48:30,660
Our kids are going to take
the golf course to each other.

1098
00:48:30,744 --> 00:48:31,953
Jalen's going to be there too.

1099
00:48:32,037 --> 00:48:33,496
Yeah, I'm like,
and me and Jalen's

1100
00:48:33,621 --> 00:48:35,248
going to be there
to blend, and I are going

1101
00:48:35,331 --> 00:48:36,458
to be traveling the world.

1102
00:48:36,583 --> 00:48:37,917
That's right.

1103
00:48:37,959 --> 00:48:39,878
US girls are like
a like a tribe.

1104
00:48:39,961 --> 00:48:42,422
Like we all genuinely
care about one another.

1105
00:48:42,464 --> 00:48:44,466
I texted all of these
guys, I think we

1106
00:48:44,507 --> 00:48:46,843
we share a pretty
close bond having gone

1107
00:48:46,926 --> 00:48:48,136
through what we went through.

1108
00:48:48,219 --> 00:48:49,429
We're all really close.

1109
00:48:49,512 --> 00:48:51,097
All of us.
That's great.

1110
00:48:51,222 --> 00:48:52,474
That's great.

1111
00:48:52,557 --> 00:48:54,351
Look, this has been
quite a journey.

1112
00:48:54,434 --> 00:48:57,354
And even though none of our
five couples stayed together,

1113
00:48:57,437 --> 00:49:00,106
the friendships and lifelong
bonds that have formed

1114
00:49:00,190 --> 00:49:02,025
are truly something special.

1115
00:49:02,108 --> 00:49:04,194
And I am so grateful
to all of you

1116
00:49:04,319 --> 00:49:06,321
for sharing your stories
with us tonight,

1117
00:49:06,404 --> 00:49:07,989
because it hasn't been easy.

1118
00:49:08,031 --> 00:49:09,866
And I know your marriages
may not have lasted,

1119
00:49:09,908 --> 00:49:12,619
but I hope you all have learned
something about yourselves

1120
00:49:12,744 --> 00:49:16,164
that you can take forward
as you meet new people.

1121
00:49:16,247 --> 00:49:18,041
That being said,
before we wrap up,

1122
00:49:18,166 --> 00:49:19,709
there's one more
exciting announcement.

1123
00:49:19,793 --> 00:49:21,586
Next year, there will
be an all new season

1124
00:49:21,628 --> 00:49:23,088
of Married at First sight.

1125
00:49:23,171 --> 00:49:24,631
The experiment will
head to a new city

1126
00:49:24,714 --> 00:49:26,383
with more couples than ever.

1127
00:49:26,466 --> 00:49:27,842
We want you to take
a sneak peek.

1128
00:49:31,805 --> 00:49:35,350
I'm getting married,
and I can't believe it.

1129
00:49:35,433 --> 00:49:37,435
I want a wife I would
love for it to be

1130
00:49:37,477 --> 00:49:39,354
me, someone else, and my cat.

1131
00:49:39,396 --> 00:49:40,563
I'm ready.

1132
00:49:40,647 --> 00:49:43,108
I'm excited to meet my person.

1133
00:49:46,111 --> 00:49:49,864
It's obviously scary having
someone else pick your wife

1134
00:49:49,948 --> 00:49:54,494
for you Oh, I just
walked down the aisle

1135
00:49:54,577 --> 00:49:59,499
to a stranger who actually
is not a complete stranger.

1136
00:49:59,624 --> 00:50:05,213
He's been on some shows before
Oh, my gosh, this is crazy

1137
00:50:05,255 --> 00:50:09,009
Woo Yay.

1138
00:50:14,097 --> 00:50:16,433
I haven't really had
like, a serious long term

1139
00:50:16,516 --> 00:50:21,396
relationship Oh, ever Yeah,
I see it as a red flag.

1140
00:50:23,690 --> 00:50:26,901
Some of the best parts of life
are on the other side of risk.

1141
00:50:26,985 --> 00:50:28,695
And I mean, you
can't get more risky

1142
00:50:28,778 --> 00:50:32,490
than this No need to hide.

1143
00:50:32,574 --> 00:50:35,243
I'm by your side.

1144
00:50:35,326 --> 00:50:36,911
I'll be your light.

1145
00:50:39,706 --> 00:50:40,749
That is awesome.

1146
00:50:40,874 --> 00:50:42,042
That is awesome.

1147
00:50:42,167 --> 00:50:43,835
That was great.

1148
00:50:43,918 --> 00:50:45,420
I'm Kevin Frazier, and thanks
so much for tuning in.

1149
00:50:45,503 --> 00:50:47,422
And never stop
believing in love.

1150
00:50:47,505 --> 00:50:48,923
These people are
going to find love.

1151
00:50:49,007 --> 00:50:56,097
Trust me Good night
Good You look good.

1152
00:51:04,647 --> 00:51:06,775
You look really good Hey,
Josh Good to see you.

1153
00:51:06,816 --> 00:51:08,443
You too.

1154
00:51:08,526 --> 00:51:09,652
Cute girl you're with.

1155
00:51:09,736 --> 00:51:10,945
The other night,
I saw the video.

1156
00:51:11,029 --> 00:51:14,407
Did you know that
was sent to me.

1157
00:51:14,532 --> 00:51:18,078
Enjoy yeah, yeah, yeah, I
got a show I gotta show.

1158
00:51:20,997 --> 00:51:22,248
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