1 00:00:02,294 --> 00:00:04,884 {\an1}- Six weeks ago, ten courageous individuals 2 00:00:04,963 --> 00:00:08,263 {\an1}put everything on the line in order to find love. 3 00:00:08,383 --> 00:00:09,183 {\an1}[cheering] 4 00:00:09,259 --> 00:00:12,509 {\an1}They married as total strangers. 5 00:00:13,722 --> 00:00:16,392 {\an1}- ♪ But what you get is what you see ♪ 6 00:00:16,475 --> 00:00:19,485 {\an1}- Last time, our couples asked the tough questions 7 00:00:19,561 --> 00:00:21,101 {\an1}they had about their spouses. 8 00:00:21,230 --> 00:00:23,570 {\an1}- ♪ This isn’t your lane ♪ 9 00:00:23,649 --> 00:00:25,229 {\an1}♪ You can’t change me ♪ 10 00:00:25,359 --> 00:00:26,939 {\an1}- Noi and Steve. 11 00:00:27,069 --> 00:00:28,779 {\an1}- When you’re talking about kids, 12 00:00:28,904 --> 00:00:30,914 {\an1}what time frame were you thinking of? 13 00:00:31,031 --> 00:00:35,241 {\an1}- I would love to have my first child within the next year. 14 00:00:35,327 --> 00:00:36,787 {\an1}- That’s something I’m definitely comfortable with. 15 00:00:36,912 --> 00:00:37,792 {\an1}Yeah, totally. - Oh, really? 16 00:00:37,913 --> 00:00:40,083 {\an1}- ♪ What you get is what you see ♪ 17 00:00:40,207 --> 00:00:42,037 {\an1}- Jasmina and Michael. 18 00:00:42,125 --> 00:00:43,585 {\an1}- I don’t really know you as a person. 19 00:00:43,710 --> 00:00:44,590 {\an1}- Mm-hmm. - You know? 20 00:00:44,711 --> 00:00:46,461 {\an1}Like, I wanna be able to know my husband 21 00:00:46,588 --> 00:00:48,338 {\an1}inside out, front, back, side to side. 22 00:00:48,423 --> 00:00:51,473 {\an1}- I’m at a place with you where I’m willing 23 00:00:51,593 --> 00:00:52,973 {\an1}and want to have those conversations. 24 00:00:53,095 --> 00:00:54,105 {\an1}- Okay. 25 00:00:54,179 --> 00:00:56,349 {\an1}- Katina and Olajuwon. 26 00:00:56,431 --> 00:00:57,431 {\an1}- That’s one of the best things 27 00:00:57,558 --> 00:01:00,978 {\an1}I love about my marriage and I’m not in love. 28 00:01:01,103 --> 00:01:02,313 {\an1}- Love is making a decision 29 00:01:02,437 --> 00:01:05,607 {\an1}to commit to fulfilling another person’s legitimate needs. 30 00:01:05,691 --> 00:01:08,151 {\an1}- I can’t know if I could say the L word yet, 31 00:01:08,277 --> 00:01:11,817 {\an1}but, um, I am 100% committed to my wife. 32 00:01:12,281 --> 00:01:14,071 {\an1}- Lindsey and Mark. 33 00:01:14,157 --> 00:01:17,787 {\an1}- If I didn’t see enough good in you, 34 00:01:17,869 --> 00:01:20,499 {\an1}I wouldn’t be here. I ain’t going anywhere. 35 00:01:20,622 --> 00:01:22,252 {\an1}- It’s really nice to hear 36 00:01:22,332 --> 00:01:24,002 {\an1}exactly what I wanted to hear. 37 00:01:24,126 --> 00:01:26,666 {\an1}This feels exciting. This feels hopeful. 38 00:01:26,795 --> 00:01:30,295 {\an1}♪ ♪ 39 00:01:30,424 --> 00:01:32,223 {\an1}- And tonight... - Let’s do this. 40 00:01:32,301 --> 00:01:33,761 {\an1}- We’re sending these couples to Vermont... 41 00:01:33,844 --> 00:01:36,054 {\an1}- Oh, wow. - Oh! 42 00:01:36,138 --> 00:01:39,018 {\an1}- On a retreat that will help them collectively bond... 43 00:01:39,140 --> 00:01:41,140 {\an1}[all cheering] - Got it! 44 00:01:41,226 --> 00:01:43,556 {\an1}- Have fun, and ultimately strengthen 45 00:01:43,645 --> 00:01:45,055 {\an1}their individual marriages. 46 00:01:45,146 --> 00:01:46,857 {\an1}- Who is most likely to start a fight? 47 00:01:46,982 --> 00:01:48,152 {\an1}- I chose Lindsey. 48 00:01:48,275 --> 00:01:49,155 {\an1}- Lindsey. - Lindsey. 49 00:01:49,234 --> 00:01:51,654 {\an1}- Oh, boy. This is not gonna be fun. 50 00:01:51,777 --> 00:01:53,358 {\an1}- How much more do you have left in school? 51 00:01:53,488 --> 00:01:54,358 {\an1}- Two years. 52 00:01:54,489 --> 00:01:55,869 {\an1}- So how you gonna have kids in two years 53 00:01:55,991 --> 00:01:58,031 {\an1}if you’re just coming out of school? 54 00:01:58,160 --> 00:01:59,700 {\an1}- This is hurting our marriage, 55 00:01:59,828 --> 00:02:02,368 {\an1}and this is hurting me and--and it’s hurting us. 56 00:02:02,497 --> 00:02:03,997 {\an1}If everybody’s telling you 57 00:02:04,082 --> 00:02:05,922 {\an1}something’s wrong with what you’re doing, 58 00:02:06,001 --> 00:02:08,001 {\an1}then you probably should listen. 59 00:02:08,127 --> 00:02:09,168 {\an1}- Since I have known you, 60 00:02:09,295 --> 00:02:11,836 {\an1}pieces of your life have been falling apart. 61 00:02:11,965 --> 00:02:13,295 {\an1}- Kind of a dig right now. 62 00:02:13,383 --> 00:02:14,883 {\an1}Oh, [bleep], here we go. 63 00:02:15,010 --> 00:02:17,260 {\an1}- Love me. I got God in my heart. 64 00:02:17,346 --> 00:02:18,846 {\an1}I don’t give a [bleep] what y’all think. 65 00:02:18,972 --> 00:02:22,812 {\an1}- Do you really want to be married to me? 66 00:02:22,893 --> 00:02:24,353 {\an1}- ♪ It’s all or nothing ♪ 67 00:02:24,436 --> 00:02:26,766 {\an1}- This is "Married at First Sight." 68 00:02:26,855 --> 00:02:30,355 {\an1}- ♪ There’s no other way ♪ 69 00:02:30,484 --> 00:02:32,744 {\an1}♪ It’s all or nothing ♪ 70 00:02:32,861 --> 00:02:36,361 {\an1}- ♪ We are the young, the young at heart ♪ 71 00:02:36,490 --> 00:02:39,870 {\an1}♪ Change the world to save it all ♪ 72 00:02:39,993 --> 00:02:41,413 {\an1}♪ Oh, whoa ♪ 73 00:02:41,536 --> 00:02:44,206 {\an1}- Road trip time. - I know. 74 00:02:44,289 --> 00:02:46,289 {\an1}The moment you’ve been dying for. 75 00:02:46,375 --> 00:02:48,675 {\an1}- Decision Day is just two weeks away 76 00:02:48,752 --> 00:02:50,552 {\an1}and our remaining four couples 77 00:02:50,671 --> 00:02:52,591 {\an1}are about to go on a retreat together. 78 00:02:52,714 --> 00:02:54,424 {\an1}- You gonna show them your cooking up there? 79 00:02:54,549 --> 00:02:56,049 {\an1}Your cooking skills you developed? 80 00:02:56,176 --> 00:02:57,426 {\an1}- Oh, my God. You know I don’t wanna cook 81 00:02:57,552 --> 00:02:59,392 {\an1}for a group of people. - [laughs] 82 00:02:59,513 --> 00:03:02,393 {\an1}- You know where we going, right? 83 00:03:02,474 --> 00:03:05,104 {\an1}- To Vermont. 84 00:03:05,227 --> 00:03:07,057 {\an1}The weekend. - Oh. 85 00:03:07,187 --> 00:03:10,437 {\an1}- Do you know who you married? [both laugh] 86 00:03:10,565 --> 00:03:13,105 {\an1}- What was our packing list? 87 00:03:13,235 --> 00:03:14,445 {\an1}- Warm clothes. 88 00:03:14,569 --> 00:03:15,739 {\an1}- All right, I got my Vermont look. 89 00:03:15,862 --> 00:03:17,782 {\an1}Get ready for it. 90 00:03:17,906 --> 00:03:20,826 {\an1}♪ ♪ 91 00:03:20,909 --> 00:03:23,909 {\an1}- Awesome, okay. That’s nice and warm. 92 00:03:23,995 --> 00:03:26,454 {\an1}- Maybe if you’re lucky I’ll let you wear the coat. 93 00:03:26,581 --> 00:03:28,421 {\an1}- It feels weird to not have Sushi here. 94 00:03:28,542 --> 00:03:32,091 {\an1}I was sad to say bye to him. - [chuckles] 95 00:03:32,212 --> 00:03:34,091 {\an1}- And then everyone’s like, "Is he dying?" 96 00:03:34,214 --> 00:03:36,674 {\an1}I’m like, "Oh, my God, no. 97 00:03:36,758 --> 00:03:38,428 {\an1}I’m just going away for the weekend." 98 00:03:38,510 --> 00:03:39,550 {\an1}- You gotta be careful about 99 00:03:39,636 --> 00:03:41,636 {\an1}what you post on social media. People really might 100 00:03:41,763 --> 00:03:43,263 {\an1}get the wrong impression... - Yeah, whatever. 101 00:03:43,348 --> 00:03:44,308 {\an1}- About, you know, what things are. 102 00:03:44,433 --> 00:03:45,643 {\an1}- Whatever. 103 00:03:45,767 --> 00:03:48,097 {\an1}- The couples’ retreat will be an opportunity to share 104 00:03:48,186 --> 00:03:50,186 {\an1}and learn from one another as they prepare to make 105 00:03:50,272 --> 00:03:52,442 {\an1}the biggest decision of their lives: 106 00:03:52,524 --> 00:03:55,864 {\an1}whether to stay married or get a divorce. 107 00:03:55,944 --> 00:03:57,954 {\an1}- This is a two-day trip. Yeah. 108 00:03:58,071 --> 00:04:00,281 {\an1}- Yeah, okay. 109 00:04:00,365 --> 00:04:02,025 {\an1}- Whoa! - Hey. 110 00:04:02,117 --> 00:04:03,617 {\an1}- Hey, guys. 111 00:04:03,702 --> 00:04:05,662 {\an1}- Hopefully you still think you caught me. 112 00:04:05,787 --> 00:04:09,117 {\an1}Still call me your husband after this. 113 00:04:09,249 --> 00:04:12,169 {\an1}[upbeat music] 114 00:04:12,294 --> 00:04:13,134 {\an1}♪ ♪ 115 00:04:13,253 --> 00:04:14,343 {\an1}- Road trip. 116 00:04:14,463 --> 00:04:16,173 {\an1}- Yup, road trippy. 117 00:04:16,298 --> 00:04:17,218 {\an1}- I had all the systems. 118 00:04:17,298 --> 00:04:18,589 {\an1}We don’t wet willy while we drive the car. 119 00:04:18,675 --> 00:04:19,795 {\an1}It’s a rule in Massachusetts. 120 00:04:19,926 --> 00:04:22,096 {\an1}- You don’t touch your wife’s hand while she’s driving. 121 00:04:22,179 --> 00:04:23,679 {\an1}You’re touching-- - I didn’t touch you! 122 00:04:23,805 --> 00:04:25,635 {\an1}You can’t touch me. - I’m not touching you. 123 00:04:25,766 --> 00:04:28,016 {\an1}- I’m excited. I’ve never been to Vermont. 124 00:04:28,143 --> 00:04:29,943 {\an1}I get to go to sleep while you drive. 125 00:04:30,020 --> 00:04:32,400 {\an1}- You’re not falling asleep. Let’s get that out of the way. 126 00:04:32,481 --> 00:04:33,521 {\an1}That’s not happening. 127 00:04:33,648 --> 00:04:36,528 {\an1}- You think anybody’s gonna get sloppy drunk? 128 00:04:36,651 --> 00:04:40,321 {\an1}- Me. No, sir. [both laugh] 129 00:04:40,447 --> 00:04:43,317 {\an1}- Who am I gonna talk to? 130 00:04:43,408 --> 00:04:44,578 {\an1}- God. 131 00:04:44,659 --> 00:04:45,539 {\an1}- Daskin Road. 132 00:04:45,659 --> 00:04:47,330 {\an1}My first boyfriend lived off of here. 133 00:04:47,454 --> 00:04:49,874 {\an1}- Of course, he did. You have boyfriends in every-- 134 00:04:49,998 --> 00:04:53,207 {\an1}every single highway exit we drove by. 135 00:04:53,335 --> 00:04:55,715 {\an1}Sounds like some commitment issues right there. 136 00:04:55,837 --> 00:05:02,637 {\an1}♪ ♪ 137 00:05:02,719 --> 00:05:04,219 {\an1}- Read the sign, read the sign. 138 00:05:04,346 --> 00:05:05,806 {\an1}- What--what sign? - Oh, you missed it. 139 00:05:05,889 --> 00:05:07,219 {\an1}- What it say, "bear crossing"? 140 00:05:07,349 --> 00:05:08,519 {\an1}- No, it said, "Moose next 5 miles." 141 00:05:08,600 --> 00:05:10,020 {\an1}- [gasps] 142 00:05:10,101 --> 00:05:10,981 {\an1}No, it didn’t. - I swear. 143 00:05:11,061 --> 00:05:12,731 {\an1}It doesn’t mean there’s gonna be a moose 144 00:05:12,854 --> 00:05:14,194 {\an1}in the next five miles-- - But that just means 145 00:05:14,272 --> 00:05:16,572 {\an1}that they’re around. - They around, yeah. 146 00:05:16,691 --> 00:05:18,031 {\an1}- Oh, my God. I’m so excited now. 147 00:05:18,109 --> 00:05:19,279 {\an1}- Yeah, yeah. 148 00:05:19,361 --> 00:05:22,071 {\an1}Me and Jas have made a lot of progress 149 00:05:22,197 --> 00:05:23,407 {\an1}that we should be proud of. 150 00:05:23,532 --> 00:05:25,832 {\an1}We’re having more conversations. 151 00:05:25,909 --> 00:05:27,449 {\an1}What are you the most excited about? 152 00:05:27,536 --> 00:05:29,076 {\an1}- I like sitting by the fire pit. 153 00:05:29,204 --> 00:05:31,334 {\an1}- Mm. - And telling scary stories. 154 00:05:31,414 --> 00:05:34,884 {\an1}- But we still have, you know, a lot of work to do 155 00:05:35,001 --> 00:05:37,051 {\an1}because, you know, we’re both happy at where we are, 156 00:05:37,170 --> 00:05:39,880 {\an1}but I’m still not sure if this is enough to say yes. 157 00:05:40,006 --> 00:05:42,926 {\an1}Given that we only have two weeks left, 158 00:05:43,051 --> 00:05:46,351 {\an1}what do you think we need to focus on right now? 159 00:05:46,429 --> 00:05:48,969 {\an1}- Building a deeper connection. 160 00:05:49,057 --> 00:05:52,187 {\an1}- What does that really look like? 161 00:05:52,269 --> 00:05:54,058 {\an1}- It’s just a feeling that I feel with someone, 162 00:05:54,187 --> 00:05:57,727 {\an1}and it can happen at, like, any moment. 163 00:05:57,816 --> 00:05:59,226 {\an1}- So where are we at now? 164 00:05:59,359 --> 00:06:01,439 {\an1}So one being... 165 00:06:01,570 --> 00:06:03,820 {\an1}we’re enemies in life. [both chuckle] 166 00:06:03,905 --> 00:06:05,195 {\an1}one being we’re enemies 167 00:06:05,282 --> 00:06:08,082 {\an1}and we really don’t rock with each other. 168 00:06:08,201 --> 00:06:11,791 {\an1}Five being just in the middle. It can go either way. 169 00:06:11,913 --> 00:06:15,043 {\an1}Ten being Will and Jada. 170 00:06:15,125 --> 00:06:17,795 {\an1}- Chill, you’re so aggy. 171 00:06:17,919 --> 00:06:19,669 {\an1}I would say we’re right in the middle. 172 00:06:19,754 --> 00:06:21,014 {\an1}- Five? - Yeah. 173 00:06:21,089 --> 00:06:22,799 {\an1}- Do you feel, like, the chemistry 174 00:06:22,924 --> 00:06:25,134 {\an1}has to be at a ten on Decision Day 175 00:06:25,260 --> 00:06:28,850 {\an1}for you to feel comfortable for us to continue? 176 00:06:28,930 --> 00:06:31,430 {\an1}- No, I don’t feel like it has to be at a ten, 177 00:06:31,558 --> 00:06:34,978 {\an1}but I would have to be more than at the halfway mark, 178 00:06:35,103 --> 00:06:35,983 {\an1}for sure. 179 00:06:36,104 --> 00:06:41,904 {\an1}♪ ♪ 180 00:06:41,985 --> 00:06:44,325 {\an1}- ♪ To New York ♪ 181 00:06:44,446 --> 00:06:46,776 {\an1}♪ To Long Island ♪ 182 00:06:46,907 --> 00:06:52,657 {\an1}♪ To the summer house, to the summer house ♪ 183 00:06:52,787 --> 00:06:55,457 {\an1}- Ooh, how pretty. 184 00:06:58,043 --> 00:07:01,303 {\an1}I want that bedroom with the big clear window. 185 00:07:01,421 --> 00:07:02,671 {\an1}Let’s do this! 186 00:07:02,797 --> 00:07:05,127 {\an1}All right, babe, divide and conquer. 187 00:07:05,258 --> 00:07:07,588 {\an1}They’re not far behind. 188 00:07:07,677 --> 00:07:10,137 {\an1}Ooh, I’m not gonna care about my shoes 189 00:07:10,263 --> 00:07:11,853 {\an1}’cause it’s not our house. - Lots of towels. 190 00:07:11,973 --> 00:07:15,313 {\an1}♪ ♪ 191 00:07:15,435 --> 00:07:18,515 {\an1}- Okay, one bedroom here. 192 00:07:18,647 --> 00:07:20,817 {\an1}Oh, I found it! Right here. 193 00:07:20,941 --> 00:07:23,731 {\an1}Oh, this is it. This is the one. 194 00:07:23,818 --> 00:07:25,148 {\an1}- Let’s do this. 195 00:07:25,278 --> 00:07:27,988 {\an1}- Oh, my God, it’s so big. 196 00:07:28,114 --> 00:07:29,164 {\an1}Damn, Lindsey and Mark beat us. - Oh, this is dope. 197 00:07:29,282 --> 00:07:30,872 {\an1}Oh, they’re here already? - Yes. 198 00:07:30,992 --> 00:07:32,872 {\an1}- Oh, [bleep]. - [chuckles] 199 00:07:32,994 --> 00:07:34,834 {\an1}♪ ♪ 200 00:07:34,913 --> 00:07:37,173 {\an1}Hey, you beat us. 201 00:07:37,290 --> 00:07:39,380 {\an1}- We made sure we held spots on the bunk beds 202 00:07:39,501 --> 00:07:40,501 {\an1}for the two of you. 203 00:07:40,627 --> 00:07:43,207 {\an1}- Get the hell outta here. - There’s not bunk beds. 204 00:07:43,338 --> 00:07:44,548 {\an1}- You better-- you better go quick. 205 00:07:44,673 --> 00:07:46,053 {\an1}♪ ♪ 206 00:07:46,174 --> 00:07:48,264 {\an1}- Right here is the best room. 207 00:07:48,343 --> 00:07:50,013 {\an1}- Did you grab it? - No, I took the-- 208 00:07:50,136 --> 00:07:51,676 {\an1}it’s the second best rooms, okay? 209 00:07:51,805 --> 00:07:53,225 {\an1}So the second best rooms are here. 210 00:07:53,348 --> 00:07:55,098 {\an1}- Ooh. 211 00:07:55,183 --> 00:07:56,733 {\an1}- Is this room taken, or no? - No. 212 00:07:56,851 --> 00:07:58,231 {\an1}Put something there and claim it. 213 00:07:58,353 --> 00:08:01,193 {\an1}- [grunts] 214 00:08:01,272 --> 00:08:02,732 {\an1}All right. So far so good. 215 00:08:02,857 --> 00:08:05,737 {\an1}[energetic music] 216 00:08:05,860 --> 00:08:10,110 {\an1}♪ ♪ 217 00:08:10,198 --> 00:08:11,658 {\an1}- How do you feel about 218 00:08:11,741 --> 00:08:13,581 {\an1}Decision Day just around the corner? 219 00:08:13,702 --> 00:08:16,542 {\an1}Feel like there’s more you need from me? 220 00:08:16,621 --> 00:08:19,291 {\an1}- I feel like we made some good headway. 221 00:08:19,374 --> 00:08:21,294 {\an1}I don’t know. Don’t you feel like we are closer now 222 00:08:21,376 --> 00:08:24,416 {\an1}because of that conversation? - Yeah. 223 00:08:24,546 --> 00:08:26,086 {\an1}- I think so too. 224 00:08:26,214 --> 00:08:29,094 {\an1}- I mean, the only unresolved thing I feel like 225 00:08:29,217 --> 00:08:32,297 {\an1}needs to come to some type of, hopefully, an agreement 226 00:08:32,386 --> 00:08:33,927 {\an1}or hopefully some type of understanding 227 00:08:34,054 --> 00:08:35,885 {\an1}is just the social media stuff, really. 228 00:08:36,015 --> 00:08:37,385 {\an1}- Oh. 229 00:08:37,517 --> 00:08:39,057 {\an1}- You posted you deserve better. 230 00:08:39,184 --> 00:08:40,765 {\an1}So whether or not it’s about me, 231 00:08:40,895 --> 00:08:43,105 {\an1}people are gonna assume that it’s something 232 00:08:43,231 --> 00:08:44,941 {\an1}that you’re going through now that you’re married. 233 00:08:45,066 --> 00:08:46,606 {\an1}- It wasn’t about you. 234 00:08:46,735 --> 00:08:48,905 {\an1}But sometimes I feel that way 235 00:08:49,029 --> 00:08:51,949 {\an1}in our marriage. 236 00:08:52,073 --> 00:08:53,073 {\an1}- [sighs] 237 00:08:53,199 --> 00:08:54,779 {\an1}Well, though the thing is, 238 00:08:54,909 --> 00:08:56,949 {\an1}the posts that I have a problem with 239 00:08:57,078 --> 00:08:59,408 {\an1}aren’t about you, they are about me. 240 00:08:59,539 --> 00:09:03,129 {\an1}So if it was something that was more specifically about you. 241 00:09:03,251 --> 00:09:04,791 {\an1}If you were saying, you know, 242 00:09:04,919 --> 00:09:08,009 {\an1}"Hey, I’m having a hard time in the relationship. 243 00:09:08,089 --> 00:09:09,629 {\an1}Relationships are tough." 244 00:09:09,758 --> 00:09:11,678 {\an1}You know, or it’s speaking in general terms, 245 00:09:11,760 --> 00:09:14,300 {\an1}or even if you were talking about the things that you-- 246 00:09:14,429 --> 00:09:16,259 {\an1}- But they weren’t general though. 247 00:09:16,389 --> 00:09:18,269 {\an1}- They weren’t. They were pretty directed. 248 00:09:18,349 --> 00:09:19,429 {\an1}- They were not. 249 00:09:19,517 --> 00:09:21,347 {\an1}- It was--it was you deserve more, 250 00:09:21,436 --> 00:09:22,896 {\an1}and you were in reference to me or you-- 251 00:09:22,979 --> 00:09:24,689 {\an1}- But that’s how you perceived it. I-I-- 252 00:09:24,773 --> 00:09:25,773 {\an1}- This isn’t-- this isn’t good enough 253 00:09:25,857 --> 00:09:27,147 {\an1}and it was in reference to me. - Okay, Steve. 254 00:09:27,275 --> 00:09:28,565 {\an1}But that’s your perception of it and I literally told you 255 00:09:28,651 --> 00:09:30,571 {\an1}it wasn’t about you... - I know you--you-- 256 00:09:30,653 --> 00:09:32,533 {\an1}- And you were still like, "No, it’s about me." 257 00:09:32,614 --> 00:09:34,074 {\an1}I was like, "Okay." - You told me it was about me. 258 00:09:34,157 --> 00:09:36,617 {\an1}- It wasn’t really but if you want me to say it 259 00:09:36,743 --> 00:09:38,493 {\an1}just so you can, like, have your arguments. 260 00:09:38,620 --> 00:09:40,660 {\an1}- It is. Because you had an issue with me. 261 00:09:40,789 --> 00:09:42,079 {\an1}You--you were upset with me. 262 00:09:42,165 --> 00:09:45,135 {\an1}- Not everything is about you. - But you said it was though. 263 00:09:45,251 --> 00:09:46,841 {\an1}- I have other relationships outside of-- 264 00:09:46,961 --> 00:09:48,961 {\an1}- So who--so who’s it about then? 265 00:09:49,047 --> 00:09:51,007 {\an1}You think that somebody’s gonna read that 266 00:09:51,132 --> 00:09:52,882 {\an1}and not think it’s about me? - I don’t know. 267 00:09:52,967 --> 00:09:54,007 {\an1}Maybe they’ll think it’s about you. 268 00:09:54,135 --> 00:09:56,175 {\an1}Maybe they’ll think it’s about something else. 269 00:09:56,304 --> 00:09:58,184 {\an1}- If somebody reads your post, you think that 270 00:09:58,306 --> 00:09:59,716 {\an1}they’re not gonna think it’s about me? 271 00:09:59,808 --> 00:10:01,678 {\an1}- We can go back and forth about this all day. 272 00:10:01,810 --> 00:10:03,190 {\an1}I can tell you that it wasn’t about you, 273 00:10:03,311 --> 00:10:05,271 {\an1}’cause it wasn’t about you, but you can just, 274 00:10:05,355 --> 00:10:07,325 {\an1}whatever, keep thinking it’s about you. 275 00:10:07,440 --> 00:10:10,400 {\an1}- So you’re saying that you are unwilling 276 00:10:10,485 --> 00:10:11,825 {\an1}to make an adjustment 277 00:10:11,903 --> 00:10:15,203 {\an1}to--to respect my need for privacy? 278 00:10:15,323 --> 00:10:17,743 {\an1}- And you’re unwilling to make adjustments to understand 279 00:10:17,826 --> 00:10:22,156 {\an1}that I wanna have freedom to express how I feel? 280 00:10:22,247 --> 00:10:24,367 {\an1}- Certain things, I’m very okay with 281 00:10:24,499 --> 00:10:26,249 {\an1}that you can post online about our relationship. 282 00:10:26,334 --> 00:10:27,214 {\an1}But our problems-- - You don’t have to be okay 283 00:10:27,335 --> 00:10:28,495 {\an1}with things I post and don’t post. 284 00:10:28,628 --> 00:10:30,548 {\an1}- All right, well then, we’ll always have a problem 285 00:10:30,672 --> 00:10:31,592 {\an1}in our relationship. 286 00:10:31,673 --> 00:10:34,223 {\an1}- I guess you will. - I will? No, we will. 287 00:10:34,342 --> 00:10:35,682 {\an1}- I guess you will. - I guess we will. 288 00:10:35,802 --> 00:10:37,012 {\an1}Because you’re gonna do something 289 00:10:37,095 --> 00:10:38,265 {\an1}that I’m not okay with. 290 00:10:38,346 --> 00:10:39,386 {\an1}You know, like, you’re actively 291 00:10:39,514 --> 00:10:41,684 {\an1}doing things that hurt me and I’m expressing that 292 00:10:41,766 --> 00:10:43,556 {\an1}and you’re saying, "I don’t care." 293 00:10:43,685 --> 00:10:46,735 {\an1}♪ ♪ 294 00:10:46,855 --> 00:10:49,525 {\an1}I’m a bit surprised that Noi still has this stance 295 00:10:49,649 --> 00:10:52,689 {\an1}after not only talking to me, her husband, 296 00:10:52,777 --> 00:10:55,697 {\an1}but Pastor Cal, a marriage and relationship expert. 297 00:10:55,780 --> 00:10:59,700 {\an1}It seems like she just isn’t receiving it from anybody 298 00:10:59,826 --> 00:11:01,696 {\an1}because she has made up her mind. 299 00:11:01,828 --> 00:11:04,618 {\an1}But if everybody’s telling you something’s wrong 300 00:11:04,706 --> 00:11:06,036 {\an1}with what you’re doing, 301 00:11:06,166 --> 00:11:08,166 {\an1}then you probably should listen. 302 00:11:08,251 --> 00:11:11,211 {\an1}If this is something that is going against the marriage, 303 00:11:11,337 --> 00:11:14,217 {\an1}this is hurting our marriage and this is hurting me 304 00:11:14,299 --> 00:11:15,589 {\an1}and--and it’s hurting us, 305 00:11:15,717 --> 00:11:18,927 {\an1}it’s an unresolved problem. 306 00:11:19,053 --> 00:11:20,643 {\an1}- Okay. 307 00:11:20,722 --> 00:11:26,142 {\an1}That’s great. 308 00:11:26,227 --> 00:11:27,397 {\an1}[chill hip-hop beat] 309 00:11:27,520 --> 00:11:33,940 {\an1}♪ ♪ 310 00:11:34,068 --> 00:11:35,068 {\an1}- I mean, I’m battling, like, 311 00:11:35,195 --> 00:11:36,955 {\an1}being upset from the fight that we just had 312 00:11:37,071 --> 00:11:38,911 {\an1}because there’s still a lot we need to address, 313 00:11:39,032 --> 00:11:41,082 {\an1}but I’m not ready to discuss it 314 00:11:41,201 --> 00:11:43,081 {\an1}with the other couples at this point. 315 00:11:43,203 --> 00:11:44,583 {\an1}[screams] - Hey. 316 00:11:44,662 --> 00:11:46,712 {\an1}- Hi. 317 00:11:46,789 --> 00:11:48,079 {\an1}- What’s going on? - Hi, guys. 318 00:11:48,208 --> 00:11:50,248 {\an1}- How was your ride? - I fell asleep. 319 00:11:50,376 --> 00:11:51,956 {\an1}- After she fell asleep, I took a little nap too. 320 00:11:52,086 --> 00:11:53,086 {\an1}[laughter] 321 00:11:53,213 --> 00:11:55,593 {\an1}- You know, we’re not here to fight. 322 00:11:55,715 --> 00:11:57,255 {\an1}You know, we’re here to have a good time 323 00:11:57,342 --> 00:11:58,472 {\an1}and just move forward. 324 00:11:58,593 --> 00:11:59,553 {\an1}So for now, 325 00:11:59,636 --> 00:12:01,796 {\an1}I’m just gonna pretend everything is normal. 326 00:12:01,930 --> 00:12:03,930 {\an1}- I think this is good. 327 00:12:04,057 --> 00:12:05,467 {\an1}- Yeah, don’t worry. Just search the place out. 328 00:12:05,600 --> 00:12:07,100 {\an1}No, I’ll be up--I’ll meet you. 329 00:12:07,227 --> 00:12:08,977 {\an1}Don’t worry. I’ll get there eventually. 330 00:12:09,103 --> 00:12:10,443 {\an1}- Hey. - What up, what up? 331 00:12:10,563 --> 00:12:12,443 {\an1}- You didn’t tell me you were here. 332 00:12:12,565 --> 00:12:14,105 {\an1}Wow, this is gorgeous. I love it. 333 00:12:14,234 --> 00:12:15,944 {\an1}- Mansion. It’s a mansion. - A palace. 334 00:12:16,069 --> 00:12:18,109 {\an1}- It’s like ten rooms, five bathrooms. 335 00:12:18,238 --> 00:12:21,448 {\an1}- A hot tub, a heated pool, and a fire pit. 336 00:12:21,574 --> 00:12:23,084 {\an1}- Go ahead, girl. 337 00:12:23,159 --> 00:12:26,289 {\an1}[snorts] Just kidding. 338 00:12:26,412 --> 00:12:29,712 {\an1}♪ ♪ 339 00:12:29,791 --> 00:12:30,961 {\an1}- Oh, I got you, baby. 340 00:12:31,084 --> 00:12:32,504 {\an1}- Ooh! You have cold hands. 341 00:12:32,627 --> 00:12:33,787 {\an1}Thank you. 342 00:12:33,920 --> 00:12:34,920 {\an1}- There is stairs, you know. 343 00:12:35,004 --> 00:12:36,134 {\an1}- Oh, my God. 344 00:12:36,214 --> 00:12:38,634 {\an1}- It feels nice, right? - Ah. 345 00:12:38,758 --> 00:12:40,628 {\an1}- Oh, hey girl. - Hello. 346 00:12:40,718 --> 00:12:41,968 {\an1}- Come join us. 347 00:12:42,095 --> 00:12:44,645 {\an1}- Oh, this feels nice, guys. 348 00:12:44,764 --> 00:12:47,644 {\an1}- What are the guys making? - I have no idea. 349 00:12:47,725 --> 00:12:48,475 {\an1}- What do you cook, Mark? 350 00:12:48,601 --> 00:12:49,981 {\an1}- Huh? - What do you cook? 351 00:12:50,061 --> 00:12:51,191 {\an1}- Cold cereal. 352 00:12:51,312 --> 00:12:53,522 {\an1}Toast. [both chuckle] 353 00:12:53,648 --> 00:12:54,818 {\an1}- I wonder what they making. - Probably spaghetti. 354 00:12:54,899 --> 00:12:58,149 {\an1}You know that’s--you know that’s men’s go-to, spaghetti. 355 00:12:58,236 --> 00:13:00,646 {\an1}- The men are cooking for our ladies. 356 00:13:00,780 --> 00:13:03,320 {\an1}Mark said he’s a good cook. Steve said he’s a good cook. 357 00:13:03,449 --> 00:13:04,489 {\an1}Mike says he’s a good cook 358 00:13:04,617 --> 00:13:06,657 {\an1}but Jasmina said she had raw shrimp at one point. 359 00:13:06,786 --> 00:13:07,656 {\an1}So I ain’t going with Mike. 360 00:13:07,787 --> 00:13:10,117 {\an1}- Okay, I’m putting together a pasta, 361 00:13:10,206 --> 00:13:13,076 {\an1}with some meat sauce and shrimp and Alfredo. 362 00:13:13,167 --> 00:13:14,457 {\an1}You down? Is the water boiling? 363 00:13:14,544 --> 00:13:16,344 {\an1}- Yeah. 364 00:13:16,462 --> 00:13:18,012 {\an1}- Um... 365 00:13:18,089 --> 00:13:21,679 {\an1}- I feel like I contribute more over here. 366 00:13:21,759 --> 00:13:24,259 {\an1}I’ll do the tasting. I’ll say it needs more salt, gentlemen. 367 00:13:24,345 --> 00:13:25,845 {\an1}More salt. 368 00:13:25,972 --> 00:13:28,272 {\an1}- So how’s everything gone since volleyball? 369 00:13:28,349 --> 00:13:29,929 {\an1}Since we last saw you? You know, how do you feel? 370 00:13:30,018 --> 00:13:32,978 {\an1}- I feel like--I feel like it’s been interesting. 371 00:13:33,062 --> 00:13:35,692 {\an1}I mean, we got two weeks out and it’s been three days 372 00:13:35,815 --> 00:13:39,275 {\an1}of just peace where we haven’t argued. 373 00:13:39,360 --> 00:13:42,860 {\an1}Everything’s good so, like, you know. 374 00:13:42,947 --> 00:13:44,737 {\an1}I mean, I said in the beginning, 375 00:13:44,866 --> 00:13:47,156 {\an1}I mean, granted, on day one, I was like, 376 00:13:47,243 --> 00:13:49,873 {\an1}"Yeah, I would love to be in love at the end of this." 377 00:13:49,996 --> 00:13:52,036 {\an1}But throughout the weeks, two week, three week, 378 00:13:52,123 --> 00:13:53,123 {\an1}I was, like, "I don’t have to be in love, 379 00:13:53,207 --> 00:13:55,537 {\an1}but it has to be, like, "I enjoy so much of you. 380 00:13:55,668 --> 00:13:56,708 {\an1}I wanna see where it goes." 381 00:13:56,794 --> 00:13:58,554 {\an1}As each week was happening, I’m like, "Damn, 382 00:13:58,629 --> 00:14:00,379 {\an1}it’s literally so hot and cold." 383 00:14:00,506 --> 00:14:03,546 {\an1}I’m not gonna say no. I can’t say yes. 384 00:14:03,676 --> 00:14:04,636 {\an1}- Yeah. 385 00:14:06,220 --> 00:14:10,220 {\an1}- So, like, Mark has been hit with life so hard. 386 00:14:10,308 --> 00:14:11,518 {\an1}At every angle. 387 00:14:11,601 --> 00:14:13,891 {\an1}Eviction, job, 388 00:14:14,020 --> 00:14:15,770 {\an1}and so, like, I can’t even think about two weeks 389 00:14:15,897 --> 00:14:16,767 {\an1}’cause I got all this stuff next week 390 00:14:16,898 --> 00:14:18,398 {\an1}I gotta help him with in order for him 391 00:14:18,524 --> 00:14:19,984 {\an1}to just be able to breathe. 392 00:14:20,068 --> 00:14:22,238 {\an1}But, like, there has to be a balance. 393 00:14:22,320 --> 00:14:23,110 {\an1}I just can’t come in as the role 394 00:14:23,237 --> 00:14:26,407 {\an1}of mother and caregiver. - Yeah. 395 00:14:26,532 --> 00:14:27,322 {\an1}- And many positives. 396 00:14:27,408 --> 00:14:28,578 {\an1}She’s there for me no matter what, 397 00:14:28,701 --> 00:14:31,081 {\an1}she’s there for my mom, she’s there for my cats. 398 00:14:31,162 --> 00:14:33,252 {\an1}There’s nothing she wouldn’t do. 399 00:14:33,373 --> 00:14:37,593 {\an1}So I’m thinking she’s a good partner. 400 00:14:37,668 --> 00:14:39,418 {\an1}If we can stay healthy, 401 00:14:39,504 --> 00:14:42,054 {\an1}I feel good about my connection to continue. 402 00:14:42,131 --> 00:14:43,261 {\an1}- He has a really good heart 403 00:14:43,383 --> 00:14:45,303 {\an1}and I wanna help him because of that. 404 00:14:45,426 --> 00:14:47,546 {\an1}But man, that’s a full-time-- that’s a job. 405 00:14:47,637 --> 00:14:49,597 {\an1}I wasn’t really looking to sign up for it. 406 00:14:49,722 --> 00:14:50,762 {\an1}- Yeah. 407 00:14:50,890 --> 00:14:53,640 {\an1}- I definitely think Lindsey is a dramatic person. 408 00:14:53,768 --> 00:14:55,598 {\an1}I go back and forth 409 00:14:55,686 --> 00:14:57,436 {\an1}on whether or not they will stay together 410 00:14:57,522 --> 00:15:00,772 {\an1}because they do have a lot of conflicts 411 00:15:00,900 --> 00:15:03,860 {\an1}and sometimes I feel like they can get through it 412 00:15:03,945 --> 00:15:05,575 {\an1}and sometimes I feel like they can’t. 413 00:15:05,655 --> 00:15:08,745 {\an1}- I don’t know what the hell I’m gonna do. 414 00:15:08,825 --> 00:15:11,205 {\an1}- You and Jaz are definitely getting closer. 415 00:15:11,285 --> 00:15:13,495 {\an1}- It took some time. - I even prayed on it. 416 00:15:13,621 --> 00:15:14,461 {\an1}- Did you really? - Yeah, I’m dead serious. 417 00:15:14,539 --> 00:15:15,499 {\an1}- For real? - I’m dead serious. 418 00:15:15,623 --> 00:15:16,793 {\an1}- It’s like we’re in a good space, 419 00:15:16,874 --> 00:15:19,924 {\an1}but damn, if only we could have been here... 420 00:15:20,002 --> 00:15:21,092 {\an1}- Earlier. - Earlier. 421 00:15:21,170 --> 00:15:23,130 {\an1}It’s almost like now we’re, like, racing the clock. 422 00:15:23,214 --> 00:15:24,134 {\an1}- To getting better. - We’re at a point where 423 00:15:24,257 --> 00:15:25,797 {\an1}we can’t stall, we can’t go backwards. 424 00:15:25,925 --> 00:15:27,125 {\an1}- Okay, okay. - So if there’s steady progress 425 00:15:27,260 --> 00:15:28,470 {\an1}all the way to Decision Day, 426 00:15:28,594 --> 00:15:30,184 {\an1}then I’m gonna assume 427 00:15:30,304 --> 00:15:32,354 {\an1}that we’re gonna reach that next level where we both 428 00:15:32,473 --> 00:15:34,353 {\an1}can comfortably say yes on Decision Day. 429 00:15:34,475 --> 00:15:36,265 {\an1}- But I would recommend, you know, when you’re saying 430 00:15:36,352 --> 00:15:37,852 {\an1}"steady progress," you also gotta remember 431 00:15:37,979 --> 00:15:39,809 {\an1}the dips can be progress too, right? 432 00:15:39,897 --> 00:15:41,317 {\an1}’Cause you dip and then you can-- 433 00:15:41,441 --> 00:15:42,861 {\an1}if when you come back, you’re stronger, 434 00:15:42,984 --> 00:15:44,154 {\an1}that’s progress. 435 00:15:44,277 --> 00:15:45,487 {\an1}- So I guess-- - I feel like so 436 00:15:45,611 --> 00:15:47,361 {\an1}in my situ--usually I would agree. 437 00:15:47,488 --> 00:15:49,158 {\an1}- Hmm. - Yeah, usually. 438 00:15:49,282 --> 00:15:51,412 {\an1}- Like usually, I’d be like, "Yo, you are right." 439 00:15:51,492 --> 00:15:53,492 {\an1}But in my situation, 440 00:15:53,619 --> 00:15:55,409 {\an1}we don’t even have time to dip. 441 00:15:55,496 --> 00:15:56,496 {\an1}- Your dip is so deep. 442 00:15:56,581 --> 00:15:58,671 {\an1}- Yeah, we can’t-- we can’t dip right now. 443 00:15:58,790 --> 00:16:00,001 {\an1}- You think a dip would be a cliff? 444 00:16:00,126 --> 00:16:02,336 {\an1}- Yeah. We can’t dip. 445 00:16:02,462 --> 00:16:05,512 {\an1}- You’ve come a long way in these six weeks, girl. 446 00:16:05,590 --> 00:16:06,800 {\an1}- Haven’t we? - I know. 447 00:16:06,883 --> 00:16:08,723 {\an1}- Yeah. - You came a long way. 448 00:16:08,843 --> 00:16:11,473 {\an1}- I mean, I’m nervous that I won’t have, 449 00:16:11,554 --> 00:16:12,434 {\an1}like, any feelings for him 450 00:16:12,513 --> 00:16:15,353 {\an1}and, you know, like, we have two weeks. 451 00:16:15,475 --> 00:16:17,395 {\an1}I’m nervous that Decision Day is gonna come 452 00:16:17,518 --> 00:16:18,638 {\an1}and I’m gonna be, like-- 453 00:16:18,728 --> 00:16:19,768 {\an1}- You still not sure. - I know. 454 00:16:19,854 --> 00:16:21,364 {\an1}- I’m just not, I’m not sure. 455 00:16:21,481 --> 00:16:23,361 {\an1}’Cause, like, when you think about it, 456 00:16:23,483 --> 00:16:24,943 {\an1}we didn’t have two months. - Mm-hmm. 457 00:16:25,026 --> 00:16:26,736 {\an1}- We had one month of, like, no talking. 458 00:16:26,861 --> 00:16:28,701 {\an1}So this month we really had to, like-- 459 00:16:28,779 --> 00:16:29,859 {\an1}- Dive full in. 460 00:16:29,947 --> 00:16:32,867 {\an1}- Yeah, like, so it’s really just me going off of-- 461 00:16:32,992 --> 00:16:34,202 {\an1}- This month. - This month. 462 00:16:34,327 --> 00:16:36,157 {\an1}You know, and-- - How do you feel? 463 00:16:36,245 --> 00:16:38,535 {\an1}- Yeah, where would you rate this month? 464 00:16:38,623 --> 00:16:39,583 {\an1}- Like, this month has been good. 465 00:16:39,707 --> 00:16:41,207 {\an1}I’m still hopeful, like, at the end of the day. 466 00:16:41,334 --> 00:16:43,424 {\an1}We still made a promise that, 467 00:16:43,544 --> 00:16:45,054 {\an1}you know, every day, we treat it like Decision Day 468 00:16:45,171 --> 00:16:46,091 {\an1}and we really try. 469 00:16:46,214 --> 00:16:50,224 {\an1}And I see him, you know, trying for sure, so. 470 00:16:50,343 --> 00:16:52,393 {\an1}- Hopefully, this weekend, some sparks. 471 00:16:52,512 --> 00:16:53,432 {\an1}- Yeah. - It can get-- 472 00:16:53,554 --> 00:16:55,144 {\an1}- While you’re-- - Can get ignited-- 473 00:16:55,223 --> 00:16:56,813 {\an1}- While you’re trying to build that fire, 474 00:16:56,891 --> 00:16:58,231 {\an1}you’re gonna ignite your passion for each other. 475 00:16:58,351 --> 00:17:00,691 {\an1}- We gon’ be like this over y’all. 476 00:17:00,770 --> 00:17:02,560 {\an1}- We’ll give you guys plenty alone time. 477 00:17:02,688 --> 00:17:04,647 {\an1}You guys can have the hot tub. [all chuckling] 478 00:17:04,732 --> 00:17:06,232 {\an1}- We’re gonna leave you guys alone. 479 00:17:06,317 --> 00:17:07,396 {\an1}- It’s nice to see that everybody’s, like, 480 00:17:07,527 --> 00:17:09,277 {\an1}alive, alert, feeling good. 481 00:17:09,403 --> 00:17:11,323 {\an1}- There’s been one more issue though. 482 00:17:11,405 --> 00:17:12,984 {\an1}Let me--let me get your guys’ feedback. 483 00:17:13,074 --> 00:17:15,374 {\an1}All right, so the main thing is 484 00:17:15,451 --> 00:17:18,701 {\an1}can we resolve our issues without 485 00:17:18,788 --> 00:17:21,248 {\an1}Noi bringing it to social media? 486 00:17:21,374 --> 00:17:23,714 {\an1}- So what do you mean? Like, write on a status and say, 487 00:17:23,792 --> 00:17:24,752 {\an1}this is what’s going on like that? 488 00:17:24,835 --> 00:17:26,244 {\an1}- No, no, it’ll be like subliminal, right? 489 00:17:26,337 --> 00:17:27,877 {\an1}- It’s just, yeah, it’s a story. 490 00:17:27,964 --> 00:17:30,924 {\an1}And it said, "When you feel like-- 491 00:17:31,008 --> 00:17:34,258 {\an1}the moment you feel like you deserve better, you do." 492 00:17:34,387 --> 00:17:36,097 {\an1}Right? So, like, for me, it’s just like, 493 00:17:36,180 --> 00:17:37,930 {\an1}I’m saying what you’re doing is hurting me 494 00:17:38,015 --> 00:17:39,925 {\an1}and she’s like, "Well, you’re-- 495 00:17:40,059 --> 00:17:41,729 {\an1}"you’re constricting what I’m saying. 496 00:17:41,811 --> 00:17:44,941 {\an1}You’re censoring me from expressing myself.’ 497 00:17:45,022 --> 00:17:47,232 {\an1}I mean, if you guys--you guys agree with her at all? 498 00:17:47,316 --> 00:17:49,106 {\an1}Can you see where she’s coming from? 499 00:17:49,235 --> 00:17:50,945 {\an1}Or is there a way that there’s a middle ground? 500 00:17:51,070 --> 00:17:53,110 {\an1}I just don’t feel like there’s a middle ground, really. 501 00:17:53,239 --> 00:17:54,619 {\an1}- Hurt your feeling-- if it hurt your feelings 502 00:17:54,740 --> 00:17:57,700 {\an1}in some type of shape or form, it needs to stop. 503 00:17:57,785 --> 00:18:00,115 {\an1}Definitely, when you say, "I feel like I deserve better." 504 00:18:00,246 --> 00:18:01,576 {\an1}That’s a-- that’s a strong statement. 505 00:18:01,664 --> 00:18:02,874 {\an1}- Seriously, man. 506 00:18:02,957 --> 00:18:05,787 {\an1}- Maybe she doesn’t realize how strong it is. That’s why. 507 00:18:05,918 --> 00:18:06,838 {\an1}- Decision Day is right around the corner, right? 508 00:18:06,961 --> 00:18:08,251 {\an1}- Absolutely. - I feel like I’m out here 509 00:18:08,337 --> 00:18:10,627 {\an1}doing the most, right? - Yeah, bro, you do your thing. 510 00:18:10,715 --> 00:18:11,675 {\an1}- This is what I’m doing, like, you know... 511 00:18:11,799 --> 00:18:12,929 {\an1}- Keep doing your thing. - Five nights a week. 512 00:18:13,009 --> 00:18:14,929 {\an1}And then I’m like, "This is not good enough?" 513 00:18:15,011 --> 00:18:17,261 {\an1}- You do this five days a week? - I do it often, man. 514 00:18:17,346 --> 00:18:20,806 {\an1}I do--I cook a lot. So I’m just like, I don’t know. 515 00:18:20,933 --> 00:18:22,483 {\an1}This is--this is tough 516 00:18:22,602 --> 00:18:25,562 {\an1}because I haven’t been able to get through to her 517 00:18:25,646 --> 00:18:28,766 {\an1}and I have no idea what to do. 518 00:18:28,858 --> 00:18:32,488 {\an1}It’s really hard to give her feedback 519 00:18:32,612 --> 00:18:34,152 {\an1}without upsetting her. 520 00:18:34,280 --> 00:18:37,160 {\an1}And I need to know if we can resolve this 521 00:18:37,283 --> 00:18:38,663 {\an1}before Decision Day. 522 00:18:38,784 --> 00:18:45,624 {\an1}♪ ♪ 523 00:18:45,708 --> 00:18:47,378 {\an1}- ♪ You just got what it takes ♪ 524 00:18:47,501 --> 00:18:49,251 {\an1}♪ I’m thinking we can make this happen ♪ 525 00:18:49,337 --> 00:18:52,167 {\an1}♪ Are you thinking we can make this happen? ♪ 526 00:18:52,256 --> 00:18:54,166 {\an1}- Mark, we sitting here? 527 00:18:54,258 --> 00:18:55,178 {\an1}- You can sit there. - I will. 528 00:18:55,259 --> 00:18:58,299 {\an1}- [laughs] I think you’re sitting there. 529 00:18:58,387 --> 00:18:59,967 {\an1}- You guys can sit next to each other if you want. 530 00:19:00,056 --> 00:19:02,886 {\an1}I understand this relationship. It’s okay. 531 00:19:03,017 --> 00:19:04,017 {\an1}- My dawg. 532 00:19:04,101 --> 00:19:06,691 {\an1}So the guys were supposed to cook dinner today, 533 00:19:06,771 --> 00:19:07,691 {\an1}but if I’m being honest, 534 00:19:07,772 --> 00:19:10,022 {\an1}Steve really did most of the cooking, 535 00:19:10,107 --> 00:19:12,187 {\an1}but me and other guys are really sous chefs. 536 00:19:12,276 --> 00:19:14,356 {\an1}Breaking the pasta and putting it into the water. 537 00:19:14,445 --> 00:19:16,075 {\an1}- Thank you, Stevie. - Yeah. 538 00:19:16,197 --> 00:19:19,027 {\an1}- And sous chefs. all: Cheers. 539 00:19:19,158 --> 00:19:20,578 {\an1}- [chuckles] - Why are you laughing? 540 00:19:20,701 --> 00:19:21,701 {\an1}Why are you laughing? 541 00:19:21,827 --> 00:19:25,207 {\an1}- If people hear that you broke the pasta... 542 00:19:25,289 --> 00:19:27,079 {\an1}- I boiled the pasta. - You’re gonna be judged. 543 00:19:27,208 --> 00:19:29,078 {\an1}- I boiled the water, put salt in, 544 00:19:29,210 --> 00:19:31,040 {\an1}which is still an important part of the process. 545 00:19:31,128 --> 00:19:32,548 {\an1}- Is very important. - It is. 546 00:19:32,630 --> 00:19:33,960 {\an1}- Ooh, these vegetables look good. 547 00:19:34,048 --> 00:19:35,548 {\an1}You cut the onions, didn’t you? - Yeah. 548 00:19:35,633 --> 00:19:36,883 {\an1}- Mark, no noodles? 549 00:19:36,967 --> 00:19:38,587 {\an1}- Somebody’s getting nice and trim. 550 00:19:38,719 --> 00:19:40,139 {\an1}I’ve been watching you lately. 551 00:19:40,221 --> 00:19:41,891 {\an1}- No carbs, Mark, or what? 552 00:19:41,972 --> 00:19:43,222 {\an1}- Or it’s ’cause his wife started limiting 553 00:19:43,349 --> 00:19:44,889 {\an1}his salt intake? - That too. 554 00:19:44,975 --> 00:19:46,135 {\an1}- He told me he hasn’t been this fit 555 00:19:46,227 --> 00:19:47,437 {\an1}since his twenties. I was like, man, 556 00:19:47,561 --> 00:19:49,151 {\an1}your wife’s the best thing that ever happened to you, Boo. 557 00:19:49,230 --> 00:19:50,110 {\an1}- Dang. - [chuckles] 558 00:19:50,231 --> 00:19:52,111 {\an1}- You down into your twenties weight? 559 00:19:52,233 --> 00:19:53,903 {\an1}You’re in fighting mode. 560 00:19:53,984 --> 00:19:57,204 {\an1}Mm-mm! Mm! 561 00:19:57,279 --> 00:20:00,069 {\an1}- So who here needed this couple retreat? 562 00:20:00,157 --> 00:20:02,077 {\an1}Do you guys think it’s gonna, like, 563 00:20:02,159 --> 00:20:05,249 {\an1}help with your marriage, with bonding, you know? 564 00:20:05,329 --> 00:20:07,409 {\an1}- One of you will not be leaving this weekend. 565 00:20:07,540 --> 00:20:10,750 {\an1}[laughter] 566 00:20:10,876 --> 00:20:13,916 {\an1}- [laughing maniacally] 567 00:20:16,757 --> 00:20:17,967 {\an1}- Girl. 568 00:20:18,092 --> 00:20:20,142 {\an1}- [laughter continues] 569 00:20:20,261 --> 00:20:23,101 {\an1}[tense music] 570 00:20:23,222 --> 00:20:24,562 {\an1}♪ ♪ 571 00:20:24,640 --> 00:20:26,560 {\an1}- Oh, I [bleep] love a good murder mystery. 572 00:20:26,642 --> 00:20:28,272 {\an1}[laughs] 573 00:20:28,352 --> 00:20:29,982 {\an1}- Your laugh is crazy, girl. 574 00:20:30,104 --> 00:20:33,654 {\an1}It’s scary. Stop! [both laugh] 575 00:20:33,774 --> 00:20:34,944 {\an1}Uh... 576 00:20:35,025 --> 00:20:36,935 {\an1}- Never know who’s gonna say what. 577 00:20:37,027 --> 00:20:39,317 {\an1}[laughter] 578 00:20:39,447 --> 00:20:41,817 {\an1}- Lindsey is quirky and funny 579 00:20:41,949 --> 00:20:43,739 {\an1}and kinda loud. 580 00:20:43,826 --> 00:20:46,326 {\an1}It’s a lot. It’s a lot. 581 00:20:46,454 --> 00:20:49,334 {\an1}- Since the last time we seen you guys, since volleyball, 582 00:20:49,457 --> 00:20:51,287 {\an1}how’ve you gu-- how you guys doing? 583 00:20:51,375 --> 00:20:54,795 {\an1}- I would say one of the issues that we’ve had 584 00:20:54,879 --> 00:20:56,629 {\an1}was Jasmina felt like she didn’t know me enough. 585 00:20:56,714 --> 00:20:57,634 {\an1}- Yeah. 586 00:20:57,715 --> 00:20:59,475 {\an1}- She felt like we weren’t having, like, 587 00:20:59,592 --> 00:21:01,012 {\an1}deep conversations of where she felt like 588 00:21:01,135 --> 00:21:02,475 {\an1}she understood who I was 589 00:21:02,595 --> 00:21:03,975 {\an1}and that I wasn’t opening up on her. 590 00:21:04,054 --> 00:21:06,144 {\an1}- Yeah. - I would say since then, 591 00:21:06,223 --> 00:21:07,723 {\an1}I would say I’ve done that more. 592 00:21:07,808 --> 00:21:09,388 {\an1}You can agree or disagree, but I feel like 593 00:21:09,477 --> 00:21:12,597 {\an1}we can connect more because I’ve been doing that. 594 00:21:12,688 --> 00:21:13,768 {\an1}- Disagree. - What? 595 00:21:13,856 --> 00:21:16,146 {\an1}[tense tone] 596 00:21:16,233 --> 00:21:17,863 {\an1}- I’m joking. [laughter] 597 00:21:17,985 --> 00:21:20,815 {\an1}- Oh, my God. I was like, "Damn, dawg." 598 00:21:20,946 --> 00:21:23,156 {\an1}That was so beautiful. 599 00:21:23,240 --> 00:21:24,490 {\an1}Mike and Jasmina, it seems like 600 00:21:24,575 --> 00:21:25,665 {\an1}the communication’s getting better. 601 00:21:25,743 --> 00:21:26,993 {\an1}The energy is getting a lot-- 602 00:21:27,077 --> 00:21:28,497 {\an1}you see how close they were sitting next to each other? 603 00:21:28,621 --> 00:21:29,501 {\an1}- Mm-hmm. 604 00:21:29,580 --> 00:21:30,660 {\an1}- Come on, I know everybody’s seen that. 605 00:21:30,790 --> 00:21:31,830 {\an1}- I feel their energy. 606 00:21:31,957 --> 00:21:33,497 {\an1}- What about you guys? - Yeah, what about you guys? 607 00:21:33,626 --> 00:21:34,956 {\an1}- I thought-- - What about us? 608 00:21:35,044 --> 00:21:37,004 {\an1}- I thought we had-- we’ve had a good week. 609 00:21:37,129 --> 00:21:40,009 {\an1}- Yeah. What I really like about Mark is, like, 610 00:21:40,090 --> 00:21:41,090 {\an1}I had a week a few moments ago 611 00:21:41,175 --> 00:21:43,185 {\an1}where I let myself get the best of my head 612 00:21:43,302 --> 00:21:45,182 {\an1}and I kind of get in that negative cycle 613 00:21:45,262 --> 00:21:46,972 {\an1}and he’s like, "Hey, 614 00:21:47,056 --> 00:21:49,176 {\an1}this is just a blip. Don’t get into that." 615 00:21:49,266 --> 00:21:51,016 {\an1}And so what I value about Mark is that he’s able 616 00:21:51,101 --> 00:21:52,061 {\an1}to pull me out in that moment. - "A blip." I like that. 617 00:21:52,186 --> 00:21:54,516 {\an1}- I like that. - I’ma start using that term. 618 00:21:54,605 --> 00:21:55,735 {\an1}- It’s a blip. - It’s just a blip. 619 00:21:55,856 --> 00:21:56,936 {\an1}- Taking that to the streets. 620 00:21:57,024 --> 00:21:59,654 {\an1}- That’s street. I love it 621 00:21:59,735 --> 00:22:01,525 {\an1}- You know, me and my shorty had a blip. 622 00:22:01,612 --> 00:22:03,662 {\an1}- I’m a trendsetter. 623 00:22:03,739 --> 00:22:05,199 {\an1}- She out here, blipping out here, trippin’. 624 00:22:05,282 --> 00:22:07,872 {\an1}[laughter] 625 00:22:07,952 --> 00:22:09,702 {\an1}- Well, I’m glad you guys are in a--a better place. 626 00:22:09,787 --> 00:22:11,497 {\an1}- Mark is smiling right now. 627 00:22:11,580 --> 00:22:13,370 {\an1}- He’s so pretty. - He didn’t give the eyes. 628 00:22:13,457 --> 00:22:15,127 {\an1}Like, wondering what she was about to say-- 629 00:22:15,209 --> 00:22:16,709 {\an1}- He does that. Big eyes. 630 00:22:16,794 --> 00:22:18,214 {\an1}- No, he didn’t do it today. - I know. 631 00:22:18,295 --> 00:22:21,375 {\an1}You see that, Pastor Cal? [chuckles] 632 00:22:21,507 --> 00:22:23,217 {\an1}- What about you guys? - How’re you guys? 633 00:22:23,300 --> 00:22:25,300 {\an1}- I feel like we’ve been doing really good. 634 00:22:25,386 --> 00:22:27,006 {\an1}We haven’t had any issue-- 635 00:22:27,096 --> 00:22:28,256 {\an1}- Blips. - Blips. 636 00:22:28,389 --> 00:22:29,219 {\an1}- No blips. 637 00:22:29,306 --> 00:22:30,386 {\an1}Not to be boring. 638 00:22:30,474 --> 00:22:32,314 {\an1}- I’d say the same thing, like, we have any blips. 639 00:22:32,393 --> 00:22:35,903 {\an1}- I feel like we’re on, like, a good, like, streak. 640 00:22:35,980 --> 00:22:37,560 {\an1}- I’ma give Katina most of the credit 641 00:22:37,690 --> 00:22:39,110 {\an1}for our marriage being so smooth. 642 00:22:39,233 --> 00:22:40,733 {\an1}I’ma do that tonight. 643 00:22:40,818 --> 00:22:42,688 {\an1}Katina has held it down, 644 00:22:42,778 --> 00:22:43,778 {\an1}put an effort in, 645 00:22:43,904 --> 00:22:45,114 {\an1}put in effort every-- 646 00:22:45,239 --> 00:22:46,159 {\an1}I can say that every week, 647 00:22:46,240 --> 00:22:49,080 {\an1}your effort has reached higher and higher. 648 00:22:49,201 --> 00:22:50,241 {\an1}- Thank you. 649 00:22:50,327 --> 00:22:52,037 {\an1}- It’s nice to see that. I’m happy for you guys. 650 00:22:52,121 --> 00:22:53,251 {\an1}- You disgust me. 651 00:22:53,330 --> 00:22:55,420 {\an1}- I know. I’m over here like, "Ew, feelings?" 652 00:22:55,499 --> 00:22:57,079 {\an1}[laughter] 653 00:22:57,209 --> 00:22:59,249 {\an1}- This is the first relationship I have been in 654 00:22:59,336 --> 00:23:00,586 {\an1}that I’m not a leader 655 00:23:00,713 --> 00:23:02,713 {\an1}but it works better when I-I-- 656 00:23:02,798 --> 00:23:04,258 {\an1}- We’re in a partnership. 657 00:23:04,341 --> 00:23:06,431 {\an1}- Yeah, when I’m in a partnership, 658 00:23:06,510 --> 00:23:08,350 {\an1}I appreciate you. Thank you, Katina. 659 00:23:08,429 --> 00:23:10,639 {\an1}- You’re welcome. 660 00:23:10,764 --> 00:23:11,684 {\an1}- What about you guys? 661 00:23:11,765 --> 00:23:14,095 {\an1}’Cause, you know, the last time we saw you, 662 00:23:14,226 --> 00:23:15,886 {\an1}remember you said Noi-- Noi’s not here 663 00:23:15,978 --> 00:23:17,268 {\an1}so you didn’t wanna mention something-- 664 00:23:17,354 --> 00:23:18,614 {\an1}- You had one question that you tabled. 665 00:23:18,731 --> 00:23:19,821 {\an1}- Ooh, now that she’s had that drink, 666 00:23:19,940 --> 00:23:22,690 {\an1}she’s ready to spill the tea. - Look at Noi’s face. 667 00:23:22,776 --> 00:23:24,946 {\an1}- So, all right, it’s around the--the social media one. 668 00:23:25,029 --> 00:23:26,699 {\an1}- Yeah. - Do you want-- 669 00:23:26,780 --> 00:23:28,160 {\an1}are you comfortable talking about it 670 00:23:28,282 --> 00:23:29,952 {\an1}or do you not wanna talk about it here? 671 00:23:30,075 --> 00:23:32,615 {\an1}- Um, I’d rather not, no. 672 00:23:36,874 --> 00:23:39,134 {\an1}- All right, any reason? 673 00:23:39,209 --> 00:23:42,209 {\an1}- I just don’t feel like it. 674 00:23:42,296 --> 00:23:44,296 {\an1}- Okay. Um... 675 00:23:44,381 --> 00:23:48,471 {\an1}♪ ♪ 676 00:23:48,594 --> 00:23:50,144 {\an1}I’ll just say one thing about it though. 677 00:23:50,262 --> 00:23:53,062 {\an1}Like, the nature of it is kind of, like, you know, 678 00:23:53,140 --> 00:23:55,810 {\an1}what somebody else is saying in, like, a public setting 679 00:23:55,893 --> 00:23:57,643 {\an1}so it’s kind of, like, a bit strange 680 00:23:57,728 --> 00:23:58,648 {\an1}that you don’t wanna talk about it here 681 00:23:58,729 --> 00:24:01,819 {\an1}but you’re okay talking about it there. 682 00:24:01,899 --> 00:24:06,109 {\an1}♪ ♪ 683 00:24:06,195 --> 00:24:07,745 {\an1}- I feel like he’s intentionally 684 00:24:07,821 --> 00:24:11,411 {\an1}trying to ambush me in front of all the other couples. 685 00:24:11,492 --> 00:24:14,492 {\an1}It really makes me so mad. 686 00:24:14,578 --> 00:24:15,618 {\an1}Honestly. 687 00:24:15,704 --> 00:24:17,164 {\an1}- I know we didn’t come to a resolution, we know, 688 00:24:17,247 --> 00:24:19,207 {\an1}we at least get to talk about it further down the road, 689 00:24:19,333 --> 00:24:20,333 {\an1}which is good. 690 00:24:20,417 --> 00:24:22,997 {\an1}I--you know, if at least we’re talking about it, 691 00:24:23,087 --> 00:24:25,007 {\an1}I feel like that’s progress, 692 00:24:25,089 --> 00:24:26,509 {\an1}but we do not need to talk about it 693 00:24:26,590 --> 00:24:28,840 {\an1}if you don’t wanna talk about it. 694 00:24:28,926 --> 00:24:30,256 {\an1}- Okay. 695 00:24:30,344 --> 00:24:33,264 {\an1}[tense music] 696 00:24:33,347 --> 00:24:36,557 {\an1}♪ ♪ 697 00:24:38,394 --> 00:24:41,354 {\an1}[gentle upbeat music] 698 00:24:41,438 --> 00:24:44,518 {\an1}♪ ♪ 699 00:24:44,608 --> 00:24:46,938 {\an1}- I can’t believe you brought those candles. 700 00:24:47,027 --> 00:24:48,857 {\an1}- Gotta keep the vibe going. 701 00:24:48,988 --> 00:24:50,608 {\an1}Put that on your side. 702 00:24:50,698 --> 00:24:52,868 {\an1}♪ ♪ 703 00:24:52,992 --> 00:24:55,082 {\an1}- [indistinct], baby. 704 00:24:55,202 --> 00:24:57,042 {\an1}- Pumpkin. 705 00:24:57,121 --> 00:24:58,831 {\an1}- [laughs] Stop. - Gonna get under the sheets? 706 00:24:58,914 --> 00:25:01,214 {\an1}I’m fine--I’m pretty good. I’m on top of the sheets. 707 00:25:01,291 --> 00:25:03,501 {\an1}Come on, this is PG. 708 00:25:03,585 --> 00:25:05,205 {\an1}This isn’t NC-17. 709 00:25:05,295 --> 00:25:10,545 {\an1}♪ ♪ 710 00:25:10,634 --> 00:25:13,394 {\an1}- This is a nice big bed, huh? 711 00:25:13,470 --> 00:25:16,560 {\an1}- Yeah. 712 00:25:16,640 --> 00:25:18,600 {\an1}[sighs] 713 00:25:19,977 --> 00:25:25,567 {\an1}So I know you didn’t really wanna talk about it at dinner. 714 00:25:25,649 --> 00:25:29,399 {\an1}Are you ready to talk about it now or would you rather? 715 00:25:29,486 --> 00:25:31,146 {\an1}- I don’t really wanna talk about it 716 00:25:31,238 --> 00:25:33,238 {\an1}because I feel like it’s something that 717 00:25:33,323 --> 00:25:34,413 {\an1}we’ll just go back and forth about 718 00:25:34,491 --> 00:25:38,371 {\an1}and I don’t wanna bicker in front of, like, everyone. 719 00:25:38,454 --> 00:25:40,664 {\an1}So I just don’t think it was a good time 720 00:25:40,748 --> 00:25:42,868 {\an1}or place to talk about it. 721 00:25:42,958 --> 00:25:44,168 {\an1}- Do you know a good time 722 00:25:44,251 --> 00:25:45,541 {\an1}and place when we could do that? 723 00:25:45,627 --> 00:25:47,547 {\an1}- Probably just not when we’re on a trip 724 00:25:47,629 --> 00:25:49,919 {\an1}with the other couples. - Okay. 725 00:25:50,007 --> 00:25:51,587 {\an1}Um, I mean, I agree. 726 00:25:51,675 --> 00:25:54,385 {\an1}I think we came a long way in the last couple of weeks, 727 00:25:54,470 --> 00:25:56,100 {\an1}especially this last week. 728 00:25:56,221 --> 00:25:57,311 {\an1}And, yeah, you know, we haven’t been able 729 00:25:57,431 --> 00:25:58,351 {\an1}to resolve this one, 730 00:25:58,432 --> 00:26:00,432 {\an1}but it doesn’t mean that this weekend at all 731 00:26:00,559 --> 00:26:03,349 {\an1}is the place that we need to do that. 732 00:26:03,437 --> 00:26:04,597 {\an1}It’s--you know, this is a retreat, 733 00:26:04,730 --> 00:26:08,650 {\an1}so it can be good if we can just get back on the same page 734 00:26:08,776 --> 00:26:11,106 {\an1}and have a great time while we’re here. 735 00:26:11,195 --> 00:26:12,785 {\an1}- Mm-hmm. 736 00:26:12,863 --> 00:26:13,953 {\an1}- I know you originally said 737 00:26:14,031 --> 00:26:16,121 {\an1}you wanted the left side of the bed. 738 00:26:16,200 --> 00:26:18,540 {\an1}Are you good over there or do you wanna swap out later? 739 00:26:18,619 --> 00:26:20,329 {\an1}- Oh, yeah, I’m on the wrong side of the bed. 740 00:26:20,454 --> 00:26:21,964 {\an1}I think we should switch spots. 741 00:26:22,081 --> 00:26:24,211 {\an1}- All right. 742 00:26:24,291 --> 00:26:26,461 {\an1}I don’t wanna go to bed mad and wake up, you know, 743 00:26:26,543 --> 00:26:28,713 {\an1}in that awkward tension between us. 744 00:26:28,796 --> 00:26:30,336 {\an1}I’d just rather do our best 745 00:26:30,464 --> 00:26:32,634 {\an1}to leave whatever happened in that day 746 00:26:32,716 --> 00:26:35,296 {\an1}and continue to work on it if need be 747 00:26:35,385 --> 00:26:36,635 {\an1}or come to a resolution. 748 00:26:36,720 --> 00:26:39,680 {\an1}Can you come here for a minute before we go to bed, at least? 749 00:26:39,807 --> 00:26:42,597 {\an1}I don’t like to go to bed with an issue 750 00:26:42,684 --> 00:26:44,234 {\an1}and we can have a really fun day tomorrow. 751 00:26:46,230 --> 00:26:50,320 {\an1}- Thank you. 752 00:26:50,400 --> 00:26:52,990 {\an1}You’re still--you’re still crossing your arms though. 753 00:26:53,070 --> 00:26:56,320 {\an1}Can you--can you let me in a little bit? 754 00:26:56,406 --> 00:26:58,156 {\an1}- ♪ Closer to the dream ♪ 755 00:27:01,662 --> 00:27:02,832 {\an1}[upbeat music] 756 00:27:02,955 --> 00:27:04,755 {\an1}♪ ♪ 757 00:27:04,832 --> 00:27:06,922 {\an1}- Good morning. Today’s the first day 758 00:27:07,000 --> 00:27:09,790 {\an1}of our couple retreat 759 00:27:09,878 --> 00:27:11,498 {\an1}and we’re excited. 760 00:27:11,630 --> 00:27:13,670 {\an1}- We’re doing some activities today. 761 00:27:13,799 --> 00:27:15,969 {\an1}- Mm-hmm. - We’re gonna have a picnic. 762 00:27:16,051 --> 00:27:19,351 {\an1}We’re seeing some-- something with animals again, 763 00:27:19,429 --> 00:27:21,179 {\an1}but I’m excited. 764 00:27:21,265 --> 00:27:22,855 {\an1}- We’re gonna have fun. - Yep. 765 00:27:22,975 --> 00:27:24,525 {\an1}- Let’s go play with some animals. 766 00:27:24,643 --> 00:27:25,693 {\an1}- Oh, God. 767 00:27:25,811 --> 00:27:27,061 {\an1}- Good morning. 768 00:27:27,187 --> 00:27:28,517 {\an1}- Good morning. How’d you sleep? 769 00:27:28,605 --> 00:27:31,185 {\an1}- Like a baby. 770 00:27:31,316 --> 00:27:33,776 {\an1}- Yeah? What are you looking forward to today? 771 00:27:33,861 --> 00:27:36,701 {\an1}- I’m looking forward to field day. 772 00:27:36,822 --> 00:27:38,532 {\an1}- Yeah, I’m excited for that too. 773 00:27:38,615 --> 00:27:39,565 {\an1}[clears throat] 774 00:27:39,700 --> 00:27:41,790 {\an1}I’m a little nervous about this medium though. 775 00:27:41,869 --> 00:27:43,539 {\an1}- Yeah? - Yeah. 776 00:27:43,662 --> 00:27:45,502 {\an1}I’ve never done anything like that before. 777 00:27:45,581 --> 00:27:47,041 {\an1}- You didn’t even know what a medium was. 778 00:27:47,166 --> 00:27:48,706 {\an1}- I know. 779 00:27:48,834 --> 00:27:50,884 {\an1}- Do you believe in stuff like that? 780 00:27:51,003 --> 00:27:51,803 {\an1}- I do. 781 00:27:51,879 --> 00:27:53,049 {\an1}What resonates with me, I’ll take. 782 00:27:53,172 --> 00:27:56,052 {\an1}What doesn’t resonate with me, I’ll let fall off. 783 00:27:56,175 --> 00:27:57,135 {\an1}What do you think? 784 00:27:57,217 --> 00:27:59,047 {\an1}- I just want you to be mentally prepared 785 00:27:59,178 --> 00:28:01,008 {\an1}because a medium is no joke. 786 00:28:01,096 --> 00:28:04,016 {\an1}A medium can say things that 787 00:28:04,099 --> 00:28:06,229 {\an1}only you would really know. 788 00:28:06,310 --> 00:28:07,270 {\an1}It’s something that you really have to be 789 00:28:07,394 --> 00:28:10,904 {\an1}mentally prepared for and ready to receive. 790 00:28:11,023 --> 00:28:12,733 {\an1}I’m excited ’cause I’ve, you know, 791 00:28:12,816 --> 00:28:15,236 {\an1}watched a bunch of shows about mediums 792 00:28:15,319 --> 00:28:17,569 {\an1}and I believe in stuff like that 793 00:28:17,654 --> 00:28:21,074 {\an1}so I do believe that this will bring me closer to Michael 794 00:28:21,158 --> 00:28:22,578 {\an1}and vice-versa. 795 00:28:22,659 --> 00:28:25,249 {\an1}You know, just talking about our past 796 00:28:25,329 --> 00:28:27,749 {\an1}and also to see what the future might look like. 797 00:28:27,873 --> 00:28:31,673 {\an1}But, at the same time, I knew doing this that 798 00:28:31,752 --> 00:28:33,712 {\an1}he’s somebody that’s very reserved, 799 00:28:33,795 --> 00:28:36,415 {\an1}especially when it comes to his feelings and emotions 800 00:28:36,548 --> 00:28:39,468 {\an1}so I just wanna make sure that if he’s doing this, 801 00:28:39,593 --> 00:28:41,933 {\an1}it’s for himself and not for me. 802 00:28:42,012 --> 00:28:43,602 {\an1}- I’m going open. 803 00:28:43,680 --> 00:28:46,730 {\an1}- I’ll be there. 804 00:28:46,808 --> 00:28:49,348 {\an1}I’ll fight her too. Just kidding. 805 00:28:49,436 --> 00:28:52,356 {\an1}- You made him cry. 806 00:28:52,439 --> 00:28:53,309 {\an1}- I just don’t want you to feel like 807 00:28:53,440 --> 00:28:56,940 {\an1}you have to do something like that. 808 00:28:57,069 --> 00:29:01,109 {\an1}♪ ♪ 809 00:29:01,198 --> 00:29:04,118 {\an1}[cheerful music] 810 00:29:04,243 --> 00:29:11,123 {\an1}♪ ♪ 811 00:29:11,250 --> 00:29:15,920 {\an1}- [whispering] Good morning. 812 00:29:16,004 --> 00:29:17,304 {\an1}- Can you stop? 813 00:29:17,381 --> 00:29:19,421 {\an1}- It’s time to wake up, love bug. 814 00:29:19,508 --> 00:29:24,928 {\an1}- Okay. 815 00:29:25,013 --> 00:29:26,973 {\an1}- Stop, please. 816 00:29:27,099 --> 00:29:30,439 {\an1}This is not how you wake me up in the morning. 817 00:29:30,519 --> 00:29:32,019 {\an1}- How would you like me to wake you up? 818 00:29:32,145 --> 00:29:34,015 {\an1}- Just give me like a, "Hey, it’s time to get up." 819 00:29:34,147 --> 00:29:37,477 {\an1}You don’t have to kiss me like I’m a piece of candy. 820 00:29:37,609 --> 00:29:39,149 {\an1}I’m not licorice. 821 00:29:39,236 --> 00:29:40,986 {\an1}Stop. 822 00:29:41,071 --> 00:29:42,821 {\an1}- Is it? Okay, why don’t you get up 823 00:29:42,948 --> 00:29:43,738 {\an1}and go on the porch? 824 00:29:43,824 --> 00:29:44,994 {\an1}I’ll meet you there in like an hour. 825 00:29:45,075 --> 00:29:46,995 {\an1}Go ahead. - [chuckles] 826 00:29:47,077 --> 00:29:49,157 {\an1}I need somebody who’s got more life in them. 827 00:29:49,288 --> 00:29:50,368 {\an1}- Okay, well, you have a little bit-- 828 00:29:50,497 --> 00:29:53,167 {\an1}you have enough life for seven people in one person. 829 00:29:53,250 --> 00:29:55,840 {\an1}- I’m just the type of person that I like to get out of bed 830 00:29:55,961 --> 00:29:57,341 {\an1}and make the most of my day. 831 00:29:57,462 --> 00:29:58,842 {\an1}- You’re not gonna get any coffee 832 00:29:58,964 --> 00:30:01,344 {\an1}if you can’t act like an adult. 833 00:30:01,425 --> 00:30:03,685 {\an1}- A what? A what? - Stop, stop. 834 00:30:03,760 --> 00:30:05,680 {\an1}Stop means stop. 835 00:30:05,762 --> 00:30:09,182 {\an1}- So trying to get my husband out of bed for hours. 836 00:30:09,308 --> 00:30:11,268 {\an1}That’s a challenge. 837 00:30:11,351 --> 00:30:12,351 {\an1}- This is black. - Thank you. 838 00:30:12,477 --> 00:30:14,017 {\an1}I mean, he’s the first one to go to bed, 839 00:30:14,104 --> 00:30:15,314 {\an1}the last one to wake up, 840 00:30:15,397 --> 00:30:16,937 {\an1}the first one to crawl in for a nap. 841 00:30:17,024 --> 00:30:19,444 {\an1}It’s just-- 842 00:30:19,526 --> 00:30:22,066 {\an1}there’s gotta be a medium. 843 00:30:22,195 --> 00:30:24,025 {\an1}- We’re having a sound bath today. 844 00:30:24,114 --> 00:30:26,324 {\an1}Calm the day. To relax. 845 00:30:26,408 --> 00:30:27,908 {\an1}Because you get so hyper, 846 00:30:28,035 --> 00:30:29,705 {\an1}it might be nice... - Okay. 847 00:30:29,786 --> 00:30:31,366 {\an1}- To-- - That’s rude. 848 00:30:31,496 --> 00:30:32,706 {\an1}- How’s it being rude? 849 00:30:32,831 --> 00:30:34,871 {\an1}Come on, I’m joking. 850 00:30:35,000 --> 00:30:36,920 {\an1}- I think that’s rude. - I was joking around. 851 00:30:37,044 --> 00:30:39,554 {\an1}- Okay. I’m telling you that’s rude. 852 00:30:39,629 --> 00:30:42,379 {\an1}So are you trying to be insulting? 853 00:30:42,507 --> 00:30:44,677 {\an1}- No, I was joking. 854 00:30:44,760 --> 00:30:45,760 {\an1}- Well, it wasn’t a joke. 855 00:30:45,886 --> 00:30:47,636 {\an1}There’s no funny ha-ha. 856 00:30:47,721 --> 00:30:50,061 {\an1}- It was funny hee-hee. It wasn’t funny ha-ha. 857 00:30:50,182 --> 00:30:52,892 {\an1}♪ ♪ 858 00:30:53,018 --> 00:30:55,978 {\an1}How’s the coffee? - It’s okay. 859 00:30:56,063 --> 00:30:59,073 {\an1}- That’s it? 860 00:30:59,191 --> 00:31:00,901 {\an1}- I’m sorry, I don’t really wanna talk. 861 00:31:01,026 --> 00:31:04,236 {\an1}I’m not interested in a conversation right now. 862 00:31:04,363 --> 00:31:06,363 {\an1}- Okay. 863 00:31:11,036 --> 00:31:12,406 {\an1}- Yeah. 864 00:31:12,537 --> 00:31:14,997 {\an1}- I just thought that was really rude of him. 865 00:31:15,082 --> 00:31:17,212 {\an1}There’s a difference between, like, being fun and playful 866 00:31:17,292 --> 00:31:19,252 {\an1}and then just making rude comments. 867 00:31:19,378 --> 00:31:20,918 {\an1}- I wasn’t being rude. I’m sick of ’em, frankly. 868 00:31:21,004 --> 00:31:23,094 {\an1}It’s just constant. All morning. 869 00:31:23,215 --> 00:31:24,595 {\an1}Since the minute you got out of bed. 870 00:31:24,674 --> 00:31:27,804 {\an1}- Oh, okay. A little sensitive. 871 00:31:27,928 --> 00:31:30,928 {\an1}- I told him like, "You keep taking digs at me 872 00:31:31,056 --> 00:31:34,426 {\an1}"left and right, and I-I brush them off 873 00:31:34,518 --> 00:31:37,398 {\an1}"and I don’t say anything, but they still affect me. 874 00:31:37,479 --> 00:31:39,399 {\an1}"And then I try to laugh and make a joke of it 875 00:31:39,481 --> 00:31:43,111 {\an1}"so, like, we can move on 876 00:31:43,235 --> 00:31:46,155 {\an1}but I just feel like a punching bag." 877 00:31:46,279 --> 00:31:48,279 {\an1}- Oh, my God. 878 00:31:48,365 --> 00:31:49,785 {\an1}Always about her. 879 00:31:49,908 --> 00:31:52,118 {\an1}It’s okay for Lindsey to get rambunctious 880 00:31:52,244 --> 00:31:54,624 {\an1}and I tell her to stop and she doesn’t listen. 881 00:31:54,704 --> 00:31:56,464 {\an1}But if I make a joke, 882 00:31:56,581 --> 00:31:57,581 {\an1}now you’re gonna turn this around 883 00:31:57,666 --> 00:32:00,126 {\an1}and make this all about you and just be pissy. 884 00:32:00,252 --> 00:32:01,132 {\an1}If you’re gonna stay in a funk 885 00:32:01,253 --> 00:32:02,673 {\an1}and just be pissed, then stay pissed 886 00:32:02,796 --> 00:32:05,466 {\an1}’cause I wasn’t trying to go that route. 887 00:32:05,590 --> 00:32:07,180 {\an1}- I learned really quickly in life 888 00:32:07,300 --> 00:32:10,090 {\an1}that if I based how I felt on the way others spoke to me 889 00:32:10,178 --> 00:32:11,798 {\an1}that I wouldn’t feel very good. 890 00:32:11,930 --> 00:32:14,970 {\an1}I’ve stopped allowing people like my mother into my life 891 00:32:15,058 --> 00:32:16,808 {\an1}because of that 892 00:32:16,935 --> 00:32:20,805 {\an1}and this might just be another one of those situations. 893 00:32:20,939 --> 00:32:22,149 {\an1}I’m gonna help his cat on Wednesday 894 00:32:22,232 --> 00:32:24,982 {\an1}and then send him on his merry way. 895 00:32:25,068 --> 00:32:26,988 {\an1}That’s it. Bye. 896 00:32:27,112 --> 00:32:32,912 {\an1}♪ ♪ 897 00:32:32,993 --> 00:32:36,253 {\an1}- ♪ Somewhere out there, in the air ♪ 898 00:32:36,329 --> 00:32:38,159 {\an1}- ♪ There’s someone like you ♪ - ♪ All along ♪ 899 00:32:38,248 --> 00:32:39,998 {\an1}♪ Don’t be scared, take that dare ♪ 900 00:32:40,125 --> 00:32:43,595 {\an1}- ♪ There’s so much you can do ♪ 901 00:32:43,670 --> 00:32:45,590 {\an1}- Got me out here in the wild. 902 00:32:45,672 --> 00:32:47,802 {\an1}Even though, riding a horse on our honeymoon 903 00:32:47,883 --> 00:32:50,723 {\an1}probably wasn’t the best idea... 904 00:32:50,844 --> 00:32:53,014 {\an1}Uh-uh-uh, slow down. You’re gonna see a-- 905 00:32:53,096 --> 00:32:56,176 {\an1}ooh, you’re about to piss me off. 906 00:32:56,308 --> 00:32:58,688 {\an1}Olajuwon, he really loves animals 907 00:32:58,810 --> 00:33:01,520 {\an1}so I really wanted to, like, put my best foot forward 908 00:33:01,646 --> 00:33:03,686 {\an1}and, like, even though I was freaking out on the inside, 909 00:33:03,773 --> 00:33:05,193 {\an1}I really wanted to, like, 910 00:33:05,275 --> 00:33:08,245 {\an1}have some, like, more self-control. 911 00:33:08,361 --> 00:33:11,531 {\an1}You know, I wanna be fearless like him, so yeah. 912 00:33:11,656 --> 00:33:13,826 {\an1}- Oh, you’re gonna love walking these guys. 913 00:33:13,909 --> 00:33:15,829 {\an1}They’re very, very docile 914 00:33:15,911 --> 00:33:17,871 {\an1}and we just-- actually, something awesome 915 00:33:17,996 --> 00:33:18,906 {\an1}just happened here at the farm. 916 00:33:19,039 --> 00:33:22,499 {\an1}We just had a little alpaca baby be born. 917 00:33:22,584 --> 00:33:23,544 {\an1}both: Oh, wow. 918 00:33:23,627 --> 00:33:25,707 {\an1}- Like, literally 15 minutes before you came. 919 00:33:25,795 --> 00:33:29,375 {\an1}Only about 2% of all alpacas are born in captivity. 920 00:33:29,508 --> 00:33:30,548 {\an1}- Oh, wow. 921 00:33:30,675 --> 00:33:32,255 {\an1}- And there’s only 50,000 in America 922 00:33:32,385 --> 00:33:33,715 {\an1}so what you’re about to see is very, very rare. 923 00:33:33,845 --> 00:33:35,555 {\an1}So if you wanna come over and check this out. 924 00:33:35,680 --> 00:33:36,560 {\an1}- Oh, wow. 925 00:33:36,681 --> 00:33:37,931 {\an1}- Look at that little baby right there. 926 00:33:38,058 --> 00:33:39,178 {\an1}- Yo. - Isn’t that beautiful? 927 00:33:39,267 --> 00:33:40,687 {\an1}- Wow. - Wow, so cute. 928 00:33:40,769 --> 00:33:43,559 {\an1}- They’re beautiful animals. 929 00:33:43,647 --> 00:33:45,357 {\an1}Baby, baby’s coming over. 930 00:33:45,440 --> 00:33:46,730 {\an1}- You see how close we are-- 931 00:33:46,858 --> 00:33:48,068 {\an1}- Yeah, close to the house. 932 00:33:48,151 --> 00:33:49,401 {\an1}- She’s so cute. 933 00:33:49,486 --> 00:33:51,486 {\an1}- She was--she just born-- - Oh, [bleep]. 934 00:33:51,571 --> 00:33:53,781 {\an1}- Oh, holy-- - She just born-- 935 00:33:53,907 --> 00:33:55,067 {\an1}- Oh, [bleep]. 936 00:33:55,158 --> 00:33:56,908 {\an1}- Oh, hold up, hold up. 937 00:33:57,035 --> 00:33:59,785 {\an1}- Welcome to the farm. Welcome to the farm. 938 00:33:59,913 --> 00:34:01,543 {\an1}- Whoa, what is that? - Look at that. 939 00:34:01,623 --> 00:34:04,253 {\an1}- Look, she’s delivering the afterbirth, the placenta. 940 00:34:04,334 --> 00:34:05,294 {\an1}- Ooh. 941 00:34:05,418 --> 00:34:07,838 {\an1}- The dogs are gonna rip that apart. 942 00:34:07,921 --> 00:34:10,091 {\an1}- Look at-- - Oh, my goodness, God. 943 00:34:10,215 --> 00:34:12,094 {\an1}- Oh, my God. Be a lady. 944 00:34:12,175 --> 00:34:14,215 {\an1}No, I’m joking. 945 00:34:14,302 --> 00:34:16,181 {\an1}- She’s never gonna wanna have children now. 946 00:34:16,263 --> 00:34:17,513 {\an1}Never. That’s it. 947 00:34:17,597 --> 00:34:18,927 {\an1}- I’m over here like "Holy [bleep]." 948 00:34:19,056 --> 00:34:23,137 {\an1}[laughter] 949 00:34:23,270 --> 00:34:25,270 {\an1}- So it’s the first time I ever seen a placenta. 950 00:34:25,355 --> 00:34:27,324 {\an1}In just in ne--in general. 951 00:34:27,440 --> 00:34:29,070 {\an1}I thought that was cool. I was more freaked out 952 00:34:29,150 --> 00:34:31,530 {\an1}that he said that the dogs were gonna eat it. 953 00:34:32,487 --> 00:34:33,447 {\an1}Well, he’s gonna wanna go this way 954 00:34:33,530 --> 00:34:35,110 {\an1}so why don’t you go that way-- - All right. 955 00:34:35,239 --> 00:34:37,409 {\an1}- And hold him like that and have fun. 956 00:34:37,492 --> 00:34:39,581 {\an1}- Come on, Hershey. Me and you. 957 00:34:39,661 --> 00:34:41,291 {\an1}Me and you are done with the streets, bruh. 958 00:34:41,371 --> 00:34:43,621 {\an1}[cheerful music] 959 00:34:43,706 --> 00:34:45,286 {\an1}- Oh, nice. No, look how nice. 960 00:34:45,417 --> 00:34:46,627 {\an1}Hold, hold, hold it. He’s not--he doesn’t even pull. 961 00:34:46,751 --> 00:34:48,630 {\an1}It’s like literally a baby-- - I don’t wanna play this game. 962 00:34:48,753 --> 00:34:50,132 {\an1}- I’ma walk with you. 963 00:34:50,255 --> 00:34:51,014 {\an1}There you go, baby. 964 00:34:51,130 --> 00:34:53,170 {\an1}- I’m the captain of this ship now. 965 00:34:53,300 --> 00:34:54,760 {\an1}- Yeah, slow it down though. You don’t want him running. 966 00:34:54,842 --> 00:34:55,973 {\an1}- ’Cause I will release him. 967 00:34:56,094 --> 00:34:57,224 {\an1}[both laugh] 968 00:34:57,304 --> 00:34:59,224 {\an1}Wait. - You go first, you go first. 969 00:34:59,306 --> 00:35:00,466 {\an1}Katina, you go first. 970 00:35:00,557 --> 00:35:01,887 {\an1}- I know. - You got it. 971 00:35:01,975 --> 00:35:03,815 {\an1}- You do it, you do it. - All right. 972 00:35:03,893 --> 00:35:06,733 {\an1}Come on, Hershey, come on, baby, come on, come on. 973 00:35:06,813 --> 00:35:09,153 {\an1}- I can only walk him straight. That’s too much for me. 974 00:35:09,274 --> 00:35:10,614 {\an1}- This is actually cool. 975 00:35:10,692 --> 00:35:12,822 {\an1}This is called-- this is called rich living. 976 00:35:12,944 --> 00:35:14,154 {\an1}We don’t even walk dogs, 977 00:35:14,237 --> 00:35:16,197 {\an1}we’re walking-- what’s this called again? 978 00:35:16,323 --> 00:35:19,453 {\an1}We’re walking gazebos. That’s definitely not it. 979 00:35:19,534 --> 00:35:21,494 {\an1}It’s llamas, I don’t know. It’s one of those animals. 980 00:35:21,620 --> 00:35:23,500 {\an1}[chuckles] 981 00:35:23,580 --> 00:35:25,830 {\an1}- It’s called a alpaca. 982 00:35:25,915 --> 00:35:28,165 {\an1}- ♪ I believe in love ♪ 983 00:35:28,251 --> 00:35:30,341 {\an1}- ♪ This is my deal, we walking kinda funky ♪ 984 00:35:30,420 --> 00:35:33,010 {\an1}♪ But I don’t care ♪ - ♪ Don’t care ♪ 985 00:35:33,089 --> 00:35:35,009 {\an1}♪ Now I believe it ♪ 986 00:35:35,133 --> 00:35:37,013 {\an1}- I can’t wait. Mike ain’t gonna believe it. 987 00:35:37,135 --> 00:35:39,345 {\an1}And you got him galloping up there? 988 00:35:39,471 --> 00:35:41,011 {\an1}- Oh, [bleep]. Ah! 989 00:35:41,139 --> 00:35:44,679 {\an1}- I got you, I got you, I got you. 990 00:35:44,768 --> 00:35:46,388 {\an1}It’s--it’s going great. 991 00:35:46,519 --> 00:35:48,519 {\an1}Seeing my wife with the animals. 992 00:35:48,605 --> 00:35:50,905 {\an1}She’s engaging, she’s fully involved. 993 00:35:51,024 --> 00:35:52,694 {\an1}The last time we were with animals, 994 00:35:52,776 --> 00:35:55,696 {\an1}we were with horses and my wife didn’t want any part 995 00:35:55,779 --> 00:36:00,369 {\an1}so for her to be in--be so involved in this right now 996 00:36:00,492 --> 00:36:03,202 {\an1}with the animals, it’s so sexy and so attractive. 997 00:36:03,286 --> 00:36:04,446 {\an1}- ♪ I believe in love ♪ 998 00:36:04,537 --> 00:36:06,537 {\an1}- ♪ This is my deal, we walking kinda funky ♪ 999 00:36:06,665 --> 00:36:09,385 {\an1}♪ But I don’t care ♪ - ♪ Don’t care ♪ 1000 00:36:09,501 --> 00:36:12,211 {\an1}♪ No, no, no ♪ - ♪ Now I believe it ♪ 1001 00:36:12,295 --> 00:36:16,755 {\an1}- ♪ Yeah, I believe in love ♪ - ♪ Ooh, ooh, oh, yeah ♪ 1002 00:36:16,883 --> 00:36:19,723 {\an1}♪ Yeah, yeah, yeah ♪ - ♪ I believe in love ♪ 1003 00:36:19,844 --> 00:36:21,684 {\an1}- Well, that was fun. - That was definitely fun. 1004 00:36:21,763 --> 00:36:23,893 {\an1}- Bye, Hershey. - See you later, Hersh. 1005 00:36:24,015 --> 00:36:26,385 {\an1}- Hey guys, thanks for coming. both: Thank you so much. 1006 00:36:26,518 --> 00:36:28,388 {\an1}- Enjoy Vermont. - Thank you, thank you. 1007 00:36:28,478 --> 00:36:30,728 {\an1}You ready to eat? - Let’s do it. 1008 00:36:30,855 --> 00:36:33,975 {\an1}Gotta get you away from Hershey before he steal you too. 1009 00:36:34,067 --> 00:36:34,977 {\an1}- Being in Vermont, 1010 00:36:35,068 --> 00:36:37,898 {\an1}I’m loving where we are in this getaway 1011 00:36:38,029 --> 00:36:40,409 {\an1}because I feel like we’re having a real, like, 1012 00:36:40,532 --> 00:36:42,412 {\an1}unplugged moment. 1013 00:36:42,534 --> 00:36:43,534 {\an1}- All right. 1014 00:36:43,618 --> 00:36:46,368 {\an1}- Okay, so we have some cheese and crackers. 1015 00:36:46,454 --> 00:36:48,924 {\an1}I just feel like we’re just hitting, like, 1016 00:36:49,040 --> 00:36:51,630 {\an1}a new level together in our relationship, 1017 00:36:51,751 --> 00:36:54,091 {\an1}and, yeah, we popped a bottle. 1018 00:36:54,212 --> 00:36:57,092 {\an1}Cheers to our Vermont getaway. 1019 00:36:57,215 --> 00:36:59,375 {\an1}- Mm-hmm. 1020 00:36:59,467 --> 00:37:01,797 {\an1}To more to come. - Mm-hmm. 1021 00:37:03,430 --> 00:37:06,100 {\an1}- What else do you wanna experience 1022 00:37:06,224 --> 00:37:08,434 {\an1}while we’re here? - On this weekend? 1023 00:37:08,518 --> 00:37:12,608 {\an1}I would say just having, like, deeper conversations with you. 1024 00:37:12,689 --> 00:37:13,649 {\an1}- As in? 1025 00:37:13,773 --> 00:37:16,943 {\an1}- You know, about our future and everything. 1026 00:37:17,068 --> 00:37:19,858 {\an1}- You know what I was thinking? I know you want-- 1027 00:37:19,946 --> 00:37:21,776 {\an1}you say you wanna have kids in two years, right? 1028 00:37:21,906 --> 00:37:22,866 {\an1}- Mm-hmm. 1029 00:37:22,949 --> 00:37:24,869 {\an1}- How long--much more do you have left in school? 1030 00:37:24,951 --> 00:37:25,951 {\an1}- Two years. 1031 00:37:26,077 --> 00:37:28,617 {\an1}- So how are you gonna have kids in two years 1032 00:37:28,747 --> 00:37:30,787 {\an1}if you’re just coming out of school? 1033 00:37:30,874 --> 00:37:32,294 {\an1}- People have kids all the time. 1034 00:37:32,417 --> 00:37:35,287 {\an1}- Well it puts a hold on your career. 1035 00:37:35,420 --> 00:37:38,050 {\an1}- No, maybe my mindset is a little different 1036 00:37:38,131 --> 00:37:41,131 {\an1}because I grew up in a single-parent household. 1037 00:37:41,217 --> 00:37:46,967 {\an1}Like, you can have a family and still have a career 1038 00:37:47,098 --> 00:37:48,468 {\an1}at the same time. 1039 00:37:48,600 --> 00:37:49,890 {\an1}But I understand what you’re saying. 1040 00:37:49,976 --> 00:37:51,266 {\an1}You’re saying it would be a strain. 1041 00:37:51,352 --> 00:37:54,982 {\an1}- Yeah, because when I was in my first two years of my career 1042 00:37:55,064 --> 00:37:58,194 {\an1}it was huge and I made it so I have no bills, nothing. 1043 00:37:58,318 --> 00:37:59,608 {\an1}School, everything is taken care of. 1044 00:37:59,694 --> 00:38:00,704 {\an1}House, everything is done. 1045 00:38:00,820 --> 00:38:04,200 {\an1}Now, it’s just me enjoying what I-I sacrificed. 1046 00:38:04,324 --> 00:38:05,784 {\an1}You did the opposite. 1047 00:38:05,867 --> 00:38:07,827 {\an1}You enjoyed your life these last five years 1048 00:38:07,952 --> 00:38:09,372 {\an1}and now you’re trying to like, 1049 00:38:09,496 --> 00:38:11,326 {\an1}"Hey, it’s time for me to lock in." 1050 00:38:11,456 --> 00:38:12,666 {\an1}And it’s okay. There’s nothing wrong with it. 1051 00:38:12,791 --> 00:38:13,831 {\an1}- I know. - A lot of people do that. 1052 00:38:13,958 --> 00:38:15,168 {\an1}I know, I just don’t want you to get offensive 1053 00:38:15,293 --> 00:38:16,843 {\an1}or feel like I’m coming at you. - I’m not offended. 1054 00:38:16,961 --> 00:38:17,961 {\an1}- ’Cause I’m not. 1055 00:38:18,046 --> 00:38:21,966 {\an1}It’s just something that I’ve been thinking about. 1056 00:38:22,050 --> 00:38:23,680 {\an1}- You’re saying I might have to adjust my timeline? 1057 00:38:23,802 --> 00:38:25,012 {\an1}- Yeah, or something. I don’t know. 1058 00:38:25,136 --> 00:38:28,346 {\an1}Because it affects me if you have kids right when you start, 1059 00:38:28,473 --> 00:38:31,023 {\an1}because you’re not fully established on your own. 1060 00:38:31,142 --> 00:38:32,022 {\an1}- Mm-hmm. 1061 00:38:32,143 --> 00:38:34,693 {\an1}- I’m not gonna put that load on me 1062 00:38:34,813 --> 00:38:36,983 {\an1}because that’s why I banged out all these bills 1063 00:38:37,065 --> 00:38:38,195 {\an1}so I could live the life I live. 1064 00:38:38,316 --> 00:38:40,356 {\an1}- Mm-hmm. - And I know you’re older. 1065 00:38:40,443 --> 00:38:43,703 {\an1}I know you want babies at 32, 33. 1066 00:38:43,822 --> 00:38:47,202 {\an1}Talking about traveling and all that, it’s not realistic. 1067 00:38:47,283 --> 00:38:48,783 {\an1}- It is, it is realistic. 1068 00:38:48,868 --> 00:38:51,198 {\an1}- But I wanna travel. I wanna travel a lot. - It’s definitely realistic. 1069 00:38:51,287 --> 00:38:53,207 {\an1}- Okay. - I literally waited five years 1070 00:38:53,331 --> 00:38:54,621 {\an1}without doing anything. - Mm-hmm. 1071 00:38:54,707 --> 00:38:57,377 {\an1}- So like I could go on two or three--two trips in a month. 1072 00:38:57,460 --> 00:38:58,630 {\an1}- Okay. - And, like, 1073 00:38:58,711 --> 00:38:59,751 {\an1}I’m not saying you can’t do it. 1074 00:38:59,879 --> 00:39:02,879 {\an1}I’m saying is that it’s-- - I know what I can do. 1075 00:39:03,007 --> 00:39:03,877 {\an1}I know. 1076 00:39:04,008 --> 00:39:05,588 {\an1}- Within two years, I want a baby, 1077 00:39:05,718 --> 00:39:08,218 {\an1}but I want a woman that’s in her career. 1078 00:39:08,346 --> 00:39:10,716 {\an1}And I don’t want a kid where I’m-- 1079 00:39:10,849 --> 00:39:13,389 {\an1}I’m taking care of a kid and somebody else. 1080 00:39:13,518 --> 00:39:15,188 {\an1}But I like Katina. We’re deep. 1081 00:39:15,270 --> 00:39:16,400 {\an1}That’s why I haven’t walked out of this 1082 00:39:16,479 --> 00:39:18,479 {\an1}because I think she’s worth it. 1083 00:39:18,565 --> 00:39:22,905 {\an1}But our timeline is not meeting and at the end, 1084 00:39:22,986 --> 00:39:25,396 {\an1}you know, these are--these are decisions that I have to make 1085 00:39:25,530 --> 00:39:26,990 {\an1}when it gets close to Decision Day. 1086 00:39:27,073 --> 00:39:28,743 {\an1}- He’s very, like, militant 1087 00:39:28,867 --> 00:39:30,077 {\an1}in the sense where it’s like, 1088 00:39:30,201 --> 00:39:32,241 {\an1}"This needs to be this way, this needs to be this way, 1089 00:39:32,370 --> 00:39:33,410 {\an1}this needs to be this way". 1090 00:39:33,538 --> 00:39:35,458 {\an1}As opposed to me, it’s more so like, 1091 00:39:35,582 --> 00:39:37,122 {\an1}"Okay, when two years comes, 1092 00:39:37,250 --> 00:39:38,920 {\an1}we’ll see what our life looks like." 1093 00:39:39,002 --> 00:39:41,092 {\an1}But if he feels like that’s something that 1094 00:39:41,212 --> 00:39:43,262 {\an1}he needs to consider to figure out 1095 00:39:43,339 --> 00:39:45,299 {\an1}if he still wants to be married, 1096 00:39:45,425 --> 00:39:46,685 {\an1}then that’s what he has to do. 1097 00:39:46,759 --> 00:39:47,759 {\an1}- Our time’s limited now 1098 00:39:47,886 --> 00:39:49,596 {\an1}so if it’s something that you really want, 1099 00:39:49,679 --> 00:39:51,309 {\an1}you should think about it for yourself too. 1100 00:39:51,431 --> 00:39:53,271 {\an1}Does my timeline need to change? 1101 00:39:53,391 --> 00:39:54,931 {\an1}of course, I want you to say, you know, 1102 00:39:55,018 --> 00:39:56,768 {\an1}you’re happy being with me and all that but 1103 00:39:56,895 --> 00:39:59,235 {\an1}I want you to be realistic, that’s all. 1104 00:39:59,314 --> 00:40:01,484 {\an1}[tense music] 1105 00:40:05,069 --> 00:40:09,119 {\an1}- ♪ Oh, oh, oh, oh, oh ♪ 1106 00:40:09,240 --> 00:40:12,950 {\an1}- [laughing] Are those the slides? 1107 00:40:13,077 --> 00:40:14,617 {\an1}That looks so cool. 1108 00:40:14,746 --> 00:40:17,786 {\an1}I usually like really fun adventurous dates so... 1109 00:40:17,874 --> 00:40:19,924 {\an1}I think this is it. - All right. 1110 00:40:20,001 --> 00:40:21,881 {\an1}- It’s something that’s right up our alley. 1111 00:40:21,961 --> 00:40:24,461 {\an1}We’re both pretty playful, adventurous people. 1112 00:40:24,589 --> 00:40:25,969 {\an1}I’m actually really afraid of heights 1113 00:40:26,090 --> 00:40:27,340 {\an1}but I love doing this stuff. 1114 00:40:27,467 --> 00:40:31,507 {\an1}- Yeah, let’s do it. - Whoo. 1115 00:40:31,638 --> 00:40:33,428 {\an1}Where are we going? 1116 00:40:33,514 --> 00:40:35,144 {\an1}- We’re going up. 1117 00:40:35,224 --> 00:40:36,184 {\an1}- This isn’t that bad yet. 1118 00:40:36,309 --> 00:40:37,849 {\an1}I think it’s going slow enough that, like, 1119 00:40:37,977 --> 00:40:39,977 {\an1}I’m not freaking out yet. 1120 00:40:40,104 --> 00:40:41,654 {\an1}- But if you look back though-- 1121 00:40:41,773 --> 00:40:43,653 {\an1}- No, I can’t do it. 1122 00:40:43,775 --> 00:40:46,495 {\an1}[exciting music] 1123 00:40:46,611 --> 00:40:49,611 {\an1}Whee! - ♪ Can’t stop ♪ 1124 00:40:49,697 --> 00:40:51,487 {\an1}- Oh, no! 1125 00:40:51,616 --> 00:40:54,286 {\an1}♪ ♪ 1126 00:40:54,369 --> 00:40:56,289 {\an1}- ♪ Can’t stop ♪ 1127 00:40:56,371 --> 00:40:59,171 {\an1}- Whoa! 1128 00:40:59,290 --> 00:41:00,830 {\an1}♪ ♪ 1129 00:41:00,917 --> 00:41:02,667 {\an1}[screams] [both laugh] 1130 00:41:02,794 --> 00:41:04,924 {\an1}♪ ♪ 1131 00:41:05,004 --> 00:41:08,014 {\an1}Whee! - [laughing] 1132 00:41:08,132 --> 00:41:10,302 {\an1}- I’m getting tired. [laughs] 1133 00:41:10,385 --> 00:41:11,845 {\an1}This is a workout. 1134 00:41:11,970 --> 00:41:16,890 {\an1}♪ ♪ 1135 00:41:17,016 --> 00:41:19,016 {\an1}- You ready for some swinging? - Oh, my God. 1136 00:41:19,143 --> 00:41:22,693 {\an1}This thing is going all the way up. 1137 00:41:22,814 --> 00:41:24,364 {\an1}[screams] 1138 00:41:24,482 --> 00:41:26,692 {\an1}♪ ♪ 1139 00:41:26,776 --> 00:41:30,856 {\an1}[both laughing] 1140 00:41:30,989 --> 00:41:32,159 {\an1}Oh, my God. 1141 00:41:32,240 --> 00:41:34,280 {\an1}[sighs] 1142 00:41:34,367 --> 00:41:35,737 {\an1}That was fun. - Yeah. 1143 00:41:35,868 --> 00:41:39,208 {\an1}- Did you have fun? What was your favorite? 1144 00:41:39,330 --> 00:41:40,710 {\an1}- I liked the slide. 1145 00:41:40,832 --> 00:41:41,872 {\an1}I think that was probably my favorite. 1146 00:41:42,000 --> 00:41:43,080 {\an1}- Yeah, that was pretty fun. 1147 00:41:43,209 --> 00:41:45,379 {\an1}- I’d say this one was probably your favorite. 1148 00:41:45,503 --> 00:41:47,713 {\an1}- Yeah, it’s fun, right? - Yeah, that was a lot of fun. 1149 00:41:47,839 --> 00:41:49,219 {\an1}- I think it’ll really be important for us 1150 00:41:49,340 --> 00:41:51,050 {\an1}to continue, like, setting up time 1151 00:41:51,134 --> 00:41:53,554 {\an1}where we can go someplace fun and different 1152 00:41:53,678 --> 00:41:54,718 {\an1}especially ’cause we didn’t have that time 1153 00:41:54,804 --> 00:41:55,724 {\an1}to do that stuff. 1154 00:41:55,805 --> 00:41:57,895 {\an1}We just, like, got married which was fun, 1155 00:41:57,974 --> 00:42:01,894 {\an1}but then it was just serious discussion. 1156 00:42:01,978 --> 00:42:03,098 {\an1}- Yeah, I agree. 1157 00:42:03,229 --> 00:42:05,689 {\an1}I think there’s definitely time to resolve our issues. 1158 00:42:05,773 --> 00:42:08,073 {\an1}I just would like to find the middle ground on 1159 00:42:08,192 --> 00:42:11,322 {\an1}our main unresolved issue, you know. 1160 00:42:11,404 --> 00:42:12,914 {\an1}I think Noi wants to sweep past 1161 00:42:13,031 --> 00:42:15,871 {\an1}the whole social media conversation because, 1162 00:42:15,950 --> 00:42:17,740 {\an1}you know, she-- she really wants to hold on 1163 00:42:17,827 --> 00:42:20,077 {\an1}to certain rights to post freely. 1164 00:42:20,204 --> 00:42:23,004 {\an1}And it’s still a lot of tension when it comes to that. 1165 00:42:23,082 --> 00:42:24,752 {\an1}- Yeah, that’s like last night. 1166 00:42:24,834 --> 00:42:27,424 {\an1}I just didn’t feel like talking about it. 1167 00:42:27,545 --> 00:42:30,585 {\an1}Because we still have so much tension about that topic, 1168 00:42:30,715 --> 00:42:31,925 {\an1}for me, I just didn’t feel like, 1169 00:42:32,008 --> 00:42:34,088 {\an1}"Okay, I’m gonna now tell 1170 00:42:34,218 --> 00:42:35,588 {\an1}"all the other women about this 1171 00:42:35,720 --> 00:42:38,930 {\an1}"when we haven’t really come to a place 1172 00:42:39,057 --> 00:42:42,267 {\an1}where we can even talk about it without like fighting." 1173 00:42:42,393 --> 00:42:43,603 {\an1}- Is that fair though? 1174 00:42:43,686 --> 00:42:46,436 {\an1}You’re--you’re saying you’re free to say whatever you want, 1175 00:42:46,522 --> 00:42:48,942 {\an1}regardless of my feelings, on social media, 1176 00:42:49,067 --> 00:42:50,777 {\an1}but here I couldn’t talk about 1177 00:42:50,902 --> 00:42:53,242 {\an1}what I wanted to talk about for your feelings. 1178 00:42:53,321 --> 00:42:54,611 {\an1}- But you did bring it up. You said, 1179 00:42:54,739 --> 00:42:55,779 {\an1}"Oh, I just think it’s a double standard 1180 00:42:55,865 --> 00:42:58,125 {\an1}that you can post, but I can’t talk about this." 1181 00:42:58,242 --> 00:43:00,542 {\an1}- I definitely brought up that fact. I totally-- 1182 00:43:00,620 --> 00:43:01,700 {\an1}- That is bringing up the issue though. 1183 00:43:01,788 --> 00:43:03,538 {\an1}- That’s--that’s not the issue. 1184 00:43:03,623 --> 00:43:04,673 {\an1}That’s not the issue. 1185 00:43:04,791 --> 00:43:05,831 {\an1}I just feel like it’s-- 1186 00:43:05,958 --> 00:43:08,168 {\an1}we just have to have an expectation of what’s fair. 1187 00:43:08,294 --> 00:43:10,804 {\an1}What are we okay with sharing outside our marriage 1188 00:43:10,922 --> 00:43:12,802 {\an1}and what are we not okay with? 1189 00:43:12,924 --> 00:43:15,634 {\an1}- I think we’re still learning how to trust each other. 1190 00:43:15,718 --> 00:43:17,928 {\an1}[tense music] 1191 00:43:18,012 --> 00:43:22,472 {\an1}- ♪ Sometimes it seems like they won’t change ♪ 1192 00:43:22,558 --> 00:43:27,478 {\an1}♪ No matter how hard they try, they’re still the same ♪ 1193 00:43:27,563 --> 00:43:32,533 {\an1}♪ People always let you down in time ♪ 1194 00:43:32,652 --> 00:43:36,992 {\an1}♪ ♪ 1195 00:43:37,073 --> 00:43:38,493 {\an1}- It’s pretty good, right? 1196 00:43:38,574 --> 00:43:40,624 {\an1}- Uh, I’ve seen better. 1197 00:43:40,701 --> 00:43:41,951 {\an1}♪ ♪ 1198 00:43:42,036 --> 00:43:44,326 {\an1}- First solo fire. 1199 00:43:47,041 --> 00:43:48,211 {\an1}- I’m not happy with you. 1200 00:43:48,334 --> 00:43:50,174 {\an1}- Why don’t you sit? Enjoy the fire. 1201 00:43:50,294 --> 00:43:53,514 {\an1}♪ ♪ 1202 00:43:53,631 --> 00:43:56,181 {\an1}- I think I’m just getting frustrated. 1203 00:43:56,300 --> 00:43:59,010 {\an1}It’s just hard for Mark to understand 1204 00:43:59,137 --> 00:44:01,347 {\an1}how he’s hurt me when I try to make the best of a situation 1205 00:44:01,472 --> 00:44:03,682 {\an1}’cause he thinks, "Oh, look, it’s all better." 1206 00:44:03,808 --> 00:44:05,478 {\an1}The damage is still done. 1207 00:44:05,560 --> 00:44:07,140 {\an1}I do find you to be more negative 1208 00:44:07,228 --> 00:44:08,348 {\an1}than positive at times, 1209 00:44:08,479 --> 00:44:11,859 {\an1}and this morning was definitely one of those times. 1210 00:44:11,983 --> 00:44:13,903 {\an1}I’ve been taking that advice Pastor Cal 1211 00:44:14,026 --> 00:44:15,646 {\an1}gave you of saying like, "I’m not going to take that. 1212 00:44:15,736 --> 00:44:17,196 {\an1}That’s not okay," and walking away. 1213 00:44:17,321 --> 00:44:18,491 {\an1}And--and that’s why I just was like, 1214 00:44:18,573 --> 00:44:21,373 {\an1}I’m going to avoid this energy completely right now. 1215 00:44:21,450 --> 00:44:22,700 {\an1}- I didn’t mean to joke with you 1216 00:44:22,827 --> 00:44:24,197 {\an1}if you were gonna get upset. 1217 00:44:24,328 --> 00:44:25,538 {\an1}Even if I’m joking, 1218 00:44:25,663 --> 00:44:27,873 {\an1}she shifts the attention to her to make me the bad guy. 1219 00:44:27,999 --> 00:44:28,999 {\an1}Which I’m not trying to be the bad guy. 1220 00:44:29,083 --> 00:44:29,793 {\an1}I was just joking with her. 1221 00:44:29,876 --> 00:44:31,706 {\an1}Now she’s gonna be all pissy. 1222 00:44:31,836 --> 00:44:35,376 {\an1}- Okay, Mark, you’re so quick to say, "Oh, it was a joke." 1223 00:44:35,464 --> 00:44:36,224 {\an1}Or, "I didn’t mean that." 1224 00:44:36,299 --> 00:44:37,549 {\an1}Or, "You took it the wrong way." 1225 00:44:37,675 --> 00:44:41,255 {\an1}When really all I need to hear from you is "I’m sorry." 1226 00:44:41,387 --> 00:44:43,007 {\an1}And I don’t even think you’re really aware of it, 1227 00:44:43,097 --> 00:44:44,927 {\an1}but it’s wearing on me. 1228 00:44:45,057 --> 00:44:47,687 {\an1}It’s literally constant little digs. 1229 00:44:47,768 --> 00:44:50,688 {\an1}And the way I look at it is that you just think less of me. 1230 00:44:50,771 --> 00:44:51,771 {\an1}You speak to me like that, 1231 00:44:51,898 --> 00:44:53,858 {\an1}I feel like it’s your way of trying to put me down 1232 00:44:53,941 --> 00:44:57,031 {\an1}and belittle me to make me feel less than 1233 00:44:57,111 --> 00:44:59,201 {\an1}so that you can feel better. 1234 00:44:59,280 --> 00:45:00,780 {\an1}- You thought all of that 1235 00:45:00,907 --> 00:45:04,737 {\an1}from that small interaction upstairs? 1236 00:45:04,869 --> 00:45:06,249 {\an1}- Yes. 1237 00:45:06,329 --> 00:45:07,499 {\an1}- I feel a little annoyed. 1238 00:45:07,580 --> 00:45:10,750 {\an1}This is the [bleep] I don’t want to deal with all day now. 1239 00:45:10,833 --> 00:45:12,753 {\an1}This is what happens when she gets in a mood. 1240 00:45:12,835 --> 00:45:15,245 {\an1}So have your mood, have your temper tantrum 1241 00:45:15,338 --> 00:45:16,168 {\an1}and continue to be pissy. 1242 00:45:16,255 --> 00:45:17,755 {\an1}- I just had this really great morning. 1243 00:45:17,882 --> 00:45:19,382 {\an1}I’m feeling really centered. 1244 00:45:19,467 --> 00:45:21,257 {\an1}I think that might intimidate you at times 1245 00:45:21,344 --> 00:45:24,224 {\an1}and you kinda wanna put me down when I’m in my power. 1246 00:45:24,305 --> 00:45:28,485 {\an1}- You don’t intimidate me. I don’t try to put you down. 1247 00:45:28,601 --> 00:45:30,691 {\an1}But I didn’t mean to upset you. 1248 00:45:30,770 --> 00:45:32,440 {\an1}So I’m sorry if that upset you. 1249 00:45:32,563 --> 00:45:34,233 {\an1}- Thank you. 1250 00:45:34,315 --> 00:45:37,115 {\an1}♪ ♪ 1251 00:45:37,193 --> 00:45:40,113 {\an1}[tense music] 1252 00:45:40,238 --> 00:45:44,238 {\an1}♪ ♪ 1253 00:45:44,325 --> 00:45:46,295 {\an1}- Hi. - Hey, how are you doing? 1254 00:45:46,410 --> 00:45:48,620 {\an1}- I’m Jasmina. - Nice to meet you. 1255 00:45:48,704 --> 00:45:50,084 {\an1}- Mike. - Hi, nice to meet you. 1256 00:45:50,164 --> 00:45:51,294 {\an1}- Nice to meet you as well. - I’m Lauren. 1257 00:45:51,415 --> 00:45:52,915 {\an1}Don’t worry. I’m not gonna scare you. 1258 00:45:53,000 --> 00:45:54,000 {\an1}I promise. - It’s too late. 1259 00:45:54,126 --> 00:45:56,796 {\an1}I’m already scared. [laughter] 1260 00:45:56,921 --> 00:45:58,011 {\an1}- So nice to meet you guys. 1261 00:45:58,130 --> 00:46:00,590 {\an1}- Nice to meet you as well. - And congratulations. 1262 00:46:00,675 --> 00:46:02,805 {\an1}both: Thank you. - On your wedding. 1263 00:46:02,927 --> 00:46:05,547 {\an1}What could I do to help you and make you feel comfortable? 1264 00:46:05,638 --> 00:46:06,968 {\an1}- I would just say whatever you feel, 1265 00:46:07,056 --> 00:46:09,386 {\an1}you should tell us or wanna tell me or us 1266 00:46:09,475 --> 00:46:11,805 {\an1}and I’m open to it. 1267 00:46:11,936 --> 00:46:13,976 {\an1}- So my whole thing is helping people, you know? 1268 00:46:14,105 --> 00:46:16,155 {\an1}It’s like being natural and being, you know, 1269 00:46:16,274 --> 00:46:17,614 {\an1}helping them to heal. 1270 00:46:17,692 --> 00:46:19,822 {\an1}So you know, there’s a lot of healing for you 1271 00:46:19,902 --> 00:46:21,652 {\an1}that needs to be done. - Mm-hmm. 1272 00:46:21,779 --> 00:46:23,819 {\an1}- There’s something about three to five years old for you. 1273 00:46:23,948 --> 00:46:25,198 {\an1}Was there anything life-changing 1274 00:46:25,324 --> 00:46:26,494 {\an1}that was huge for you? 1275 00:46:26,575 --> 00:46:30,155 {\an1}- Yeah, my brother passed when I was like five, six-ish. 1276 00:46:30,288 --> 00:46:31,408 {\an1}- There you go you go, three to five. 1277 00:46:31,497 --> 00:46:33,287 {\an1}- Yup. - Okay. What happened? 1278 00:46:33,374 --> 00:46:35,334 {\an1}- Uh, he got shot. 1279 00:46:35,418 --> 00:46:36,838 {\an1}- Was it in the chest? - Yeah. 1280 00:46:36,919 --> 00:46:38,299 {\an1}- ’Cause I feel like there was a traumatic 1281 00:46:38,379 --> 00:46:39,209 {\an1}blow to the chest. - Yeah, yeah. 1282 00:46:39,338 --> 00:46:42,168 {\an1}Mm-hmm. - Okay. Was there like a 13? 1283 00:46:42,300 --> 00:46:43,510 {\an1}What was it a 13 year difference? 1284 00:46:43,634 --> 00:46:44,684 {\an1}- 13. - Or-- 1285 00:46:44,802 --> 00:46:47,012 {\an1}- Hold on. Hold on. Hold up. 1286 00:46:47,138 --> 00:46:48,598 {\an1}Damn, yeah. That’s 13--I’m sorry. 1287 00:46:48,681 --> 00:46:50,181 {\an1}Yeah, there was a 13 year difference. 1288 00:46:50,266 --> 00:46:51,516 {\an1}- He’s good. - Okay. 1289 00:46:51,642 --> 00:46:52,852 {\an1}- He said but it took him a while 1290 00:46:52,935 --> 00:46:54,345 {\an1}to get to the other side. - Mm-hmm. 1291 00:46:54,478 --> 00:46:56,858 {\an1}- You have had some messages from him 1292 00:46:56,981 --> 00:46:58,571 {\an1}and he’s telling me you have seen him 1293 00:46:58,691 --> 00:46:59,691 {\an1}in dreams. - Yup. 1294 00:46:59,817 --> 00:47:01,317 {\an1}- He’s just connecting to you through that way. 1295 00:47:01,402 --> 00:47:02,112 {\an1}- Okay. 1296 00:47:02,194 --> 00:47:04,154 {\an1}- That is very shocking to hear 1297 00:47:04,238 --> 00:47:06,368 {\an1}that, you know, she knows all of this stuff, 1298 00:47:06,490 --> 00:47:09,330 {\an1}but it just makes me put my trust in--in her 1299 00:47:09,410 --> 00:47:11,540 {\an1}even more and really listen to what she has to say. 1300 00:47:11,662 --> 00:47:13,212 {\an1}- Anything with prostate stuff 1301 00:47:13,331 --> 00:47:15,041 {\an1}going on with your family at all? 1302 00:47:15,124 --> 00:47:17,214 {\an1}- Yeah, my father. I wasn’t too close to my father 1303 00:47:17,293 --> 00:47:18,713 {\an1}but that’s how he passed. 1304 00:47:18,836 --> 00:47:20,546 {\an1}- Oh, okay. 1305 00:47:20,671 --> 00:47:22,511 {\an1}’Cause I just heard that. All right. 1306 00:47:22,590 --> 00:47:25,260 {\an1}That makes sense. 1307 00:47:25,384 --> 00:47:27,894 {\an1}- I’m feeling myself getting a little emotional 1308 00:47:28,012 --> 00:47:29,722 {\an1}as Lauren is talking to Michael 1309 00:47:29,847 --> 00:47:32,557 {\an1}about his brother and how his dad passed. 1310 00:47:32,683 --> 00:47:35,063 {\an1}I’m worried about how this might take a toll on him. 1311 00:47:35,186 --> 00:47:37,856 {\an1}♪ ♪ 1312 00:47:37,938 --> 00:47:40,608 {\an1}- So are there a lot of boys in your family? 1313 00:47:40,733 --> 00:47:42,403 {\an1}- Actually, a lot of girls in my family. 1314 00:47:42,526 --> 00:47:44,736 {\an1}- Okay, ’cause I feel like you’re gonna have some boys. 1315 00:47:44,862 --> 00:47:46,742 {\an1}Lots of boys. - Okay. 1316 00:47:46,864 --> 00:47:49,034 {\an1}- So do twins run in the family at all on either side? 1317 00:47:49,116 --> 00:47:50,906 {\an1}- I have triplets in my family, not twins. 1318 00:47:50,993 --> 00:47:52,583 {\an1}- Ooh. I’m hearing twins. 1319 00:47:52,661 --> 00:47:54,581 {\an1}I do see twins a year and a half from now. 1320 00:47:54,663 --> 00:47:56,463 {\an1}- Hey, oh. - Is that-- 1321 00:47:56,582 --> 00:47:57,712 {\an1}[laughter] 1322 00:47:57,792 --> 00:47:58,922 {\an1}You’re like, "No, don’t do that. 1323 00:47:59,001 --> 00:48:00,251 {\an1}- A year and a half? Man. 1324 00:48:00,378 --> 00:48:03,088 {\an1}- I’ve always said that I wanted twins. 1325 00:48:03,172 --> 00:48:05,882 {\an1}I just know that they don’t run in my family. 1326 00:48:05,966 --> 00:48:09,546 {\an1}So in a way I was like, "Damn, how’d she know that?" 1327 00:48:09,637 --> 00:48:10,887 {\an1}- Why do I see you, like, in--you’re in-- 1328 00:48:10,971 --> 00:48:11,891 {\an1}are you in a sunny state? 1329 00:48:11,972 --> 00:48:14,272 {\an1}I see you living in like California. 1330 00:48:14,350 --> 00:48:15,930 {\an1}Are you planning on moving there 1331 00:48:16,060 --> 00:48:17,770 {\an1}or were you talking about it at all? 1332 00:48:17,895 --> 00:48:20,185 {\an1}- It’s--I’ve always had it in the back of my head 1333 00:48:20,272 --> 00:48:25,362 {\an1}that I would eventually end up in a sunny place. 1334 00:48:25,444 --> 00:48:27,454 {\an1}- Hmm. 1335 00:48:27,530 --> 00:48:28,360 {\an1}What’s your with the boat 1336 00:48:28,447 --> 00:48:30,317 {\an1}too--guys getting a boat or what? 1337 00:48:30,449 --> 00:48:32,739 {\an1}- Are we getting a boat? 1338 00:48:32,827 --> 00:48:35,617 {\an1}- Oh, we got a house in California, we got a boat. 1339 00:48:35,746 --> 00:48:36,786 {\an1}- What’s about to happen to our life? 1340 00:48:36,914 --> 00:48:38,464 {\an1}- Damn, we got some money. 1341 00:48:38,541 --> 00:48:41,291 {\an1}- I’m seeing a boat too. - Oh, wow, a boat. 1342 00:48:41,419 --> 00:48:42,709 {\an1}- Okay. 1343 00:48:42,795 --> 00:48:44,135 {\an1}- In terms of you two, 1344 00:48:44,255 --> 00:48:46,805 {\an1}you two really have a beautiful bond, 1345 00:48:46,924 --> 00:48:50,184 {\an1}but he was really scared to do this. 1346 00:48:50,302 --> 00:48:51,972 {\an1}- Yeah. 1347 00:48:52,096 --> 00:48:53,306 {\an1}- But when you did see her, 1348 00:48:53,431 --> 00:48:56,431 {\an1}you did fall in love with her right away. 1349 00:48:56,517 --> 00:48:58,767 {\an1}That was a moment-- that was love at first sight. 1350 00:48:58,853 --> 00:49:01,313 {\an1}It literally was love at first sight. 1351 00:49:01,439 --> 00:49:02,939 {\an1}- ’Cause, you know, I say he was crying on our wedding day. 1352 00:49:03,023 --> 00:49:04,443 {\an1}He said wasn’t. - I didn’t cry. 1353 00:49:04,525 --> 00:49:08,615 {\an1}- You--you loved her the moment you saw her. 1354 00:49:08,696 --> 00:49:09,986 {\an1}Come on. 1355 00:49:10,114 --> 00:49:12,704 {\an1}- I would-- I will say I did, like, 1356 00:49:12,825 --> 00:49:14,995 {\an1}my breath was taken away when I seen her. 1357 00:49:15,077 --> 00:49:18,827 {\an1}- I really feel like it was, you just were like, "That’s it. 1358 00:49:18,956 --> 00:49:21,576 {\an1}That’s the girl. I know it." 1359 00:49:21,667 --> 00:49:23,167 {\an1}And you--you can always say no, 1360 00:49:23,294 --> 00:49:24,344 {\an1}I want people to be honest with me. 1361 00:49:24,462 --> 00:49:26,512 {\an1}- I’ll give you that, yeah. - Okay. All right, good. 1362 00:49:26,630 --> 00:49:28,550 {\an1}All right, what else do you wanna know? 1363 00:49:28,674 --> 00:49:31,184 {\an1}What do you also wanna know? Anything. 1364 00:49:31,302 --> 00:49:33,182 {\an1}- We have, you know, 1365 00:49:33,304 --> 00:49:38,024 {\an1}two more weeks until our Decision Day. 1366 00:49:38,142 --> 00:49:39,852 {\an1}- I really feel like 1367 00:49:39,935 --> 00:49:41,845 {\an1}you are supposed to be together. 1368 00:49:41,937 --> 00:49:44,187 {\an1}You’re really not gonna find anybody else like her 1369 00:49:44,315 --> 00:49:45,325 {\an1}for a very long time. 1370 00:49:45,399 --> 00:49:47,859 {\an1}You’re gonna have like five years, my friend-- 1371 00:49:47,985 --> 00:49:49,695 {\an1}Five. Five. 1372 00:49:49,820 --> 00:49:54,870 {\an1}Before you find somebody else that’s gonna be like her. 1373 00:49:54,992 --> 00:49:55,992 {\an1}And with you, Jasmina, 1374 00:49:56,076 --> 00:49:58,696 {\an1}I feel like you decide you don’t want to stay, 1375 00:49:58,787 --> 00:49:59,537 {\an1}I feel like you’ll meet somebody 1376 00:49:59,663 --> 00:50:01,423 {\an1}about next year and a half or so, 1377 00:50:01,540 --> 00:50:03,540 {\an1}but you’re gonna really regret 1378 00:50:03,667 --> 00:50:06,207 {\an1}the moment of not staying in this marriage 1379 00:50:06,337 --> 00:50:08,877 {\an1}because you’re gonna say, "I really did love him." 1380 00:50:08,964 --> 00:50:10,474 {\an1}And he’s gonna stand by your side 1381 00:50:10,549 --> 00:50:11,589 {\an1}and it’s gonna take time 1382 00:50:11,717 --> 00:50:14,257 {\an1}but you’re gonna have a beautiful relationship. 1383 00:50:14,386 --> 00:50:15,716 {\an1}And it’s--it’s mutual. 1384 00:50:15,804 --> 00:50:18,974 {\an1}This is really mutual but you just don’t both know that yet. 1385 00:50:19,058 --> 00:50:22,228 {\an1}- ♪ Yeah, I finally found ♪ 1386 00:50:22,311 --> 00:50:23,811 {\an1}♪ A reason to believe ♪ 1387 00:50:27,358 --> 00:50:28,528 {\an1}[soft music] 1388 00:50:28,609 --> 00:50:32,779 {\an1}♪ ♪ 1389 00:50:32,905 --> 00:50:34,075 {\an1}[bowls ringing] 1390 00:50:34,156 --> 00:50:35,696 {\an1}[sustaining flute note] 1391 00:50:35,783 --> 00:50:37,083 {\an1}- [coughing] 1392 00:50:37,159 --> 00:50:39,699 {\an1}So today, I set up a beautiful day 1393 00:50:39,787 --> 00:50:42,077 {\an1}for me and Lindsey to do a sound bath. 1394 00:50:42,164 --> 00:50:43,714 {\an1}And I don’t think she will like it 1395 00:50:43,791 --> 00:50:45,081 {\an1}- You guys ready? - Yeah. 1396 00:50:45,167 --> 00:50:48,087 {\an1}But I’m hoping that they’ll relax her 1397 00:50:48,170 --> 00:50:49,590 {\an1}and kinda calm her down. 1398 00:50:49,672 --> 00:50:52,222 {\an1}Which way do we lay? Facing up this way? 1399 00:50:52,299 --> 00:50:54,259 {\an1}- Yeah. I mean, that’s totally really up to you. 1400 00:50:54,343 --> 00:50:56,393 {\an1}- Maybe it will relax the mood from this morning. 1401 00:50:57,930 --> 00:50:59,890 {\an1}- You ever try yoga or anything like that? 1402 00:50:59,974 --> 00:51:01,644 {\an1}- Um, not that often. 1403 00:51:01,767 --> 00:51:03,387 {\an1}- If you know anything about your chakra system 1404 00:51:03,477 --> 00:51:05,057 {\an1}and your metaphysical body, 1405 00:51:05,145 --> 00:51:08,605 {\an1}every note represents a different chakra. 1406 00:51:08,732 --> 00:51:10,732 {\an1}So that’s what the sound bath is gonna be focusing on. 1407 00:51:10,818 --> 00:51:14,238 {\an1}Just relax and focus on your breath. 1408 00:51:14,321 --> 00:51:15,571 {\an1}Try to clear your mind 1409 00:51:15,656 --> 00:51:16,946 {\an1}and just make sure you’re comfortable. 1410 00:51:17,074 --> 00:51:19,084 {\an1}Starting with the root chakra. 1411 00:51:20,077 --> 00:51:23,997 {\an1}[deep note resonating] 1412 00:51:24,123 --> 00:51:27,003 {\an1}[relaxing music playing] 1413 00:51:27,126 --> 00:51:34,126 {\an1}♪ ♪ 1414 00:51:45,144 --> 00:51:47,314 {\an1}- The sound bath is really relaxing. 1415 00:51:47,438 --> 00:51:50,108 {\an1}I am surprised that 1416 00:51:50,190 --> 00:51:52,110 {\an1}what is triggering within me 1417 00:51:52,192 --> 00:51:54,362 {\an1}and the emotions it’s bringing to the surface. 1418 00:51:54,486 --> 00:51:55,776 {\an1}- And the next is your third eye. 1419 00:51:55,863 --> 00:52:00,833 {\an1}♪ ♪ 1420 00:52:00,909 --> 00:52:03,619 {\an1}- The minute we hit the third eye chakra, 1421 00:52:03,704 --> 00:52:07,624 {\an1}I just had this overwhelming sense 1422 00:52:07,708 --> 00:52:09,628 {\an1}of my grandfather’s presence. 1423 00:52:09,710 --> 00:52:13,130 {\an1}♪ ♪ 1424 00:52:13,213 --> 00:52:16,473 {\an1}And he was a really special person to me. 1425 00:52:16,550 --> 00:52:19,300 {\an1}Like, I could feel his aura and his energy 1426 00:52:19,386 --> 00:52:22,636 {\an1}and how he made me feel so cared for and loved, 1427 00:52:22,723 --> 00:52:26,103 {\an1}and it’s comforting. 1428 00:52:26,185 --> 00:52:27,645 {\an1}It was beautiful. 1429 00:52:27,728 --> 00:52:34,818 {\an1}♪ ♪ 1430 00:52:48,832 --> 00:52:52,462 {\an1}- All right, so whenever you guys feel comfortable, 1431 00:52:52,544 --> 00:52:55,054 {\an1}you can sit up. 1432 00:53:04,723 --> 00:53:08,893 {\an1}- You have a spider on you. - Oh, my God. 1433 00:53:09,019 --> 00:53:11,859 {\an1}You put that there. - No, I didn’t. 1434 00:53:11,939 --> 00:53:15,399 {\an1}I wish Mark could have met my grandfather. 1435 00:53:15,526 --> 00:53:17,026 {\an1}He was very stubborn 1436 00:53:17,111 --> 00:53:19,071 {\an1}and set in his ways and difficult. 1437 00:53:19,196 --> 00:53:22,526 {\an1}Oh, my God. I’m so used to difficult men. 1438 00:53:22,616 --> 00:53:24,576 {\an1}Wow, foreshadowing. 1439 00:53:24,660 --> 00:53:26,870 {\an1}- ♪ Will you stand, will you fall ♪ 1440 00:53:26,954 --> 00:53:29,374 {\an1}♪ Will you care through it all ♪ 1441 00:53:29,456 --> 00:53:32,456 {\an1}♪ Will you go ♪ 1442 00:53:32,584 --> 00:53:34,134 {\an1}♪ Go your own way ♪ 1443 00:53:34,253 --> 00:53:38,013 {\an1}♪ ♪ 1444 00:53:38,090 --> 00:53:41,050 {\an1}[hip-hop music] 1445 00:53:41,135 --> 00:53:47,395 {\an1}♪ ♪ 1446 00:53:47,474 --> 00:53:49,484 {\an1}- Beyonce’s here. - Beyonce? 1447 00:53:49,601 --> 00:53:50,441 {\an1}- There they are. 1448 00:53:50,561 --> 00:53:53,401 {\an1}- They love to sing and dance. [laughter] 1449 00:53:53,480 --> 00:53:54,440 {\an1}- All right, ya’ll. 1450 00:53:54,565 --> 00:53:58,245 {\an1}- Today, we are the hostess with the mostest. 1451 00:53:58,318 --> 00:53:59,438 {\an1}- That’s so corny. 1452 00:53:59,528 --> 00:54:00,488 {\an1}I can’t co-sign that. 1453 00:54:00,612 --> 00:54:02,452 {\an1}Hostess with the mostest. 1454 00:54:02,573 --> 00:54:04,323 {\an1}- Hello. 1455 00:54:04,450 --> 00:54:05,780 {\an1}Nice to meet me. 1456 00:54:05,868 --> 00:54:07,948 {\an1}- Today, we are the hosts of field day. 1457 00:54:08,036 --> 00:54:09,116 {\an1}We are the bosses of field day. 1458 00:54:09,246 --> 00:54:12,326 {\an1}- That’s right, "the real boss" and just "the boss." 1459 00:54:12,458 --> 00:54:13,118 {\an1}- I’ll take it. 1460 00:54:13,250 --> 00:54:14,540 {\an1}We have three different games. 1461 00:54:14,626 --> 00:54:17,626 {\an1}We have flip cup, dodge-ball, and we have kickball. 1462 00:54:17,755 --> 00:54:19,765 {\an1}- Were gonna split up into two teams. 1463 00:54:19,840 --> 00:54:22,930 {\an1}Michael and I are gonna be with Noi and Steve 1464 00:54:23,010 --> 00:54:25,050 {\an1}and you four will be on one team. 1465 00:54:25,137 --> 00:54:27,347 {\an1}- Let’s do it. They didn’t want this power. 1466 00:54:27,473 --> 00:54:28,643 {\an1}This is what I--this is what I didn’t want to happen. 1467 00:54:28,724 --> 00:54:30,144 {\an1}Now it’s gonna get real. 1468 00:54:30,225 --> 00:54:31,805 {\an1}- If we have any questions who do we go to? 1469 00:54:31,894 --> 00:54:32,984 {\an1}The--which boss--to the? 1470 00:54:33,103 --> 00:54:35,313 {\an1}- The real boss. The real boss. 1471 00:54:35,397 --> 00:54:37,147 {\an1}- So of course, we’re assuming we’re gonna win. 1472 00:54:37,232 --> 00:54:38,612 {\an1}That’s the plan. - Off bat. 1473 00:54:38,692 --> 00:54:39,652 {\an1}- Off bat. That’s why we’re in uniform. 1474 00:54:39,777 --> 00:54:41,437 {\an1}We mean business, we got the shades on. 1475 00:54:41,528 --> 00:54:42,648 {\an1}We’re not playing with them today 1476 00:54:42,738 --> 00:54:45,198 {\an1}because when these shades come on, there’s no joke. 1477 00:54:45,324 --> 00:54:47,954 {\an1}It’s no joke. - No joke. 1478 00:54:48,035 --> 00:54:50,125 {\an1}My eyelashes is low key touching my shades. 1479 00:54:50,204 --> 00:54:51,664 {\an1}[both laugh] 1480 00:54:51,747 --> 00:54:53,667 {\an1}- We’re gonna call ourselves "The Undertakers." 1481 00:54:53,749 --> 00:54:55,249 {\an1}- We’re called "The Grave Diggers." 1482 00:54:55,334 --> 00:54:56,544 {\an1}[rock music] 1483 00:54:56,668 --> 00:54:58,958 {\an1}- ♪ Ow! ♪ 1484 00:54:59,046 --> 00:55:01,716 {\an1}- This is how you start. You go down, tap, down, 1485 00:55:01,840 --> 00:55:03,010 {\an1}and start drinking, all right? - NFL style. 1486 00:55:03,133 --> 00:55:06,143 {\an1}[exciting music] 1487 00:55:06,220 --> 00:55:08,220 {\an1}- One, two, three go. 1488 00:55:08,347 --> 00:55:11,927 {\an1}- Drink. 1489 00:55:12,017 --> 00:55:12,977 {\an1}- Yes, sir. - Boom. 1490 00:55:13,060 --> 00:55:14,350 {\an1}- Go, go, go, go. 1491 00:55:14,436 --> 00:55:16,726 {\an1}- Wow, you’re spinning that badly. 1492 00:55:16,855 --> 00:55:18,475 {\an1}♪ ♪ 1493 00:55:18,565 --> 00:55:19,815 {\an1}Watching you flip cup is like 1494 00:55:19,900 --> 00:55:22,940 {\an1}watching a man need a [bleep]. 1495 00:55:23,028 --> 00:55:25,318 {\an1}- We can’t use that. I’m sorry, we can’t use that. 1496 00:55:25,405 --> 00:55:27,025 {\an1}- He was just trying to find clitoris. 1497 00:55:27,157 --> 00:55:28,327 {\an1}- Okay. - Good. 1498 00:55:28,408 --> 00:55:29,738 {\an1}- Uh! - Come on, come on, come on. 1499 00:55:29,868 --> 00:55:30,868 {\an1}- He’s gonna lose. 1500 00:55:30,994 --> 00:55:32,084 {\an1}- One shot. Watch that. Boom. 1501 00:55:32,204 --> 00:55:33,374 {\an1}- There you go. 1502 00:55:33,455 --> 00:55:34,495 {\an1}- Oh, no, no. 1503 00:55:34,581 --> 00:55:36,371 {\an1}- Yeah, go. 1504 00:55:36,500 --> 00:55:38,500 {\an1}all: Oh, no! 1505 00:55:38,585 --> 00:55:40,995 {\an1}[cheering] 1506 00:55:41,088 --> 00:55:42,338 {\an1}- That’s one. - Way to go. 1507 00:55:42,422 --> 00:55:44,172 {\an1}- That’s one. - Who’s the shirt? 1508 00:55:44,258 --> 00:55:45,258 {\an1}The real boss. - Yes, yes, yes, yes! 1509 00:55:45,384 --> 00:55:48,854 {\an1}- A’ight, so we’re gonna move on to the next game. 1510 00:55:48,929 --> 00:55:52,889 {\an1}♪ ♪ 1511 00:55:53,016 --> 00:55:54,596 {\an1}- Let’s go, Katina. 1512 00:55:54,726 --> 00:55:57,686 {\an1}♪ ♪ 1513 00:55:57,771 --> 00:55:59,311 {\an1}- Go, girl. - Go get it. Go get it. 1514 00:55:59,398 --> 00:56:01,108 {\an1}- Wow. 1515 00:56:01,233 --> 00:56:03,903 {\an1}♪ ♪ 1516 00:56:03,986 --> 00:56:05,646 {\an1}- Oh, [bleep]. 1517 00:56:05,737 --> 00:56:08,697 {\an1}Oh, now it’s our turn now. 1518 00:56:08,782 --> 00:56:12,952 {\an1}♪ ♪ 1519 00:56:13,078 --> 00:56:15,158 {\an1}- Run, run. Jasmina, go, go. 1520 00:56:15,247 --> 00:56:16,077 {\an1}- Two, three. 1521 00:56:16,206 --> 00:56:18,036 {\an1}- You guys got three. Three to two. 1522 00:56:18,125 --> 00:56:19,545 {\an1}♪ ♪ 1523 00:56:19,626 --> 00:56:21,496 {\an1}[laughter] - That’s out, that’s out! 1524 00:56:21,587 --> 00:56:23,377 {\an1}- [bleep]. - You guys know that! 1525 00:56:23,463 --> 00:56:25,093 {\an1}- I was fixing myself. That don’t count. 1526 00:56:25,215 --> 00:56:26,415 {\an1}- That’s out. - That a foul. 1527 00:56:26,508 --> 00:56:27,758 {\an1}- I think that I’m doing the worst 1528 00:56:27,885 --> 00:56:29,395 {\an1}because I’m not really doing anything. 1529 00:56:29,469 --> 00:56:31,219 {\an1}- No, but that’s still important to the team. 1530 00:56:31,305 --> 00:56:32,435 {\an1}You need that person. 1531 00:56:32,556 --> 00:56:34,056 {\an1}So I wouldn’t say you doing the worst. 1532 00:56:34,141 --> 00:56:35,141 {\an1}- Okay. - I would say-- 1533 00:56:35,267 --> 00:56:36,807 {\an1}- So then I will say Mike is doing the worst. 1534 00:56:36,935 --> 00:56:38,595 {\an1}[laughs] 1535 00:56:38,729 --> 00:56:41,149 {\an1}- Two, three. We score three. One more. 1536 00:56:41,273 --> 00:56:42,443 {\an1}Give them a shark special. 1537 00:56:42,566 --> 00:56:43,816 {\an1}Here it is. 1538 00:56:43,942 --> 00:56:46,902 {\an1}♪ ♪ 1539 00:56:46,987 --> 00:56:49,697 {\an1}- Oh, oh! 1540 00:56:49,781 --> 00:56:51,241 {\an1}All right, you guys won this round. 1541 00:56:51,325 --> 00:56:52,085 {\an1}- All right. 1542 00:56:52,159 --> 00:56:54,869 {\an1}- Was that hard to say? [laughs] 1543 00:56:54,953 --> 00:56:57,583 {\an1}Babe, who’s the most competitive couple besides us? 1544 00:56:57,664 --> 00:56:59,754 {\an1}- Jasmina and Mike. - Definitely. 1545 00:56:59,833 --> 00:57:00,923 {\an1}We’re The Undertakers 1546 00:57:01,001 --> 00:57:03,461 {\an1}’cause you’re about to go to the funeral home. 1547 00:57:03,545 --> 00:57:06,085 {\an1}- [laughs mockingly] 1548 00:57:06,173 --> 00:57:09,183 {\an1}Jasmina and Mike came out with all the freshest gear. 1549 00:57:09,301 --> 00:57:10,971 {\an1}- But their game-- - Not as good. 1550 00:57:11,094 --> 00:57:12,054 {\an1}- Not as good. - Not as good. 1551 00:57:12,137 --> 00:57:13,097 {\an1}- Not as good. 1552 00:57:13,180 --> 00:57:14,140 {\an1}- Ready! 1553 00:57:14,222 --> 00:57:17,982 {\an1}♪ ♪ 1554 00:57:18,101 --> 00:57:20,101 {\an1}- Set! Go! 1555 00:57:20,187 --> 00:57:22,727 {\an1}♪ ♪ 1556 00:57:22,814 --> 00:57:24,274 {\an1}- All of a sudden, I’m falling... 1557 00:57:24,358 --> 00:57:26,108 {\an1}[screams in slow motion] 1558 00:57:26,193 --> 00:57:29,283 {\an1}And nobody notices that I fall 1559 00:57:29,363 --> 00:57:30,823 {\an1}and I get back up. - Except everyone notices. 1560 00:57:30,906 --> 00:57:32,156 {\an1}- And I continue playing. 1561 00:57:32,282 --> 00:57:33,492 {\an1}You noticed and you didn’t help me? 1562 00:57:33,617 --> 00:57:35,867 {\an1}- I saw you in the corner of my eye but I can’t go back. 1563 00:57:35,994 --> 00:57:37,084 {\an1}It’s too late. The game started. 1564 00:57:37,162 --> 00:57:38,792 {\an1}- This is not working with him. This is my husband. 1565 00:57:38,872 --> 00:57:41,122 {\an1}♪ ♪ 1566 00:57:41,208 --> 00:57:43,498 {\an1}- Shot my wife! Oh! 1567 00:57:43,585 --> 00:57:45,795 {\an1}- [screams] - Oh, my God! 1568 00:57:45,879 --> 00:57:50,679 {\an1}- Hold on, hold on. - Oh, my God. 1569 00:57:50,759 --> 00:57:52,639 {\an1}- If somebody catches it what happens? 1570 00:57:52,719 --> 00:57:55,639 {\an1}- Shot my wife. - Hold on, hold on. 1571 00:57:55,722 --> 00:57:57,222 {\an1}- Man, I went down. 1572 00:57:57,349 --> 00:57:59,389 {\an1}Why every time we play a sport, I fall down? 1573 00:57:59,518 --> 00:58:01,138 {\an1}- Steve gave you a sucker hit. That’s what happened. 1574 00:58:01,228 --> 00:58:02,938 {\an1}- Oh! - [screams] 1575 00:58:03,021 --> 00:58:04,691 {\an1}- Oh, my God! - Oh. 1576 00:58:04,773 --> 00:58:06,903 {\an1}- Boom, got you. 1577 00:58:07,025 --> 00:58:08,435 {\an1}I got you, baby. 1578 00:58:08,527 --> 00:58:09,987 {\an1}- Noi and Katina are out. 1579 00:58:10,070 --> 00:58:11,240 {\an1}- It hit your leg. 1580 00:58:11,363 --> 00:58:13,573 {\an1}- Oh! - Ah! 1581 00:58:13,699 --> 00:58:15,199 {\an1}♪ ♪ 1582 00:58:15,283 --> 00:58:16,533 {\an1}- Got you. 1583 00:58:16,618 --> 00:58:18,448 {\an1}- You got my man out? - Yeah. 1584 00:58:18,537 --> 00:58:19,827 {\an1}- Get him. - [screams] 1585 00:58:19,913 --> 00:58:21,583 {\an1}[laughter] 1586 00:58:21,707 --> 00:58:23,417 {\an1}all: Oh! 1587 00:58:25,919 --> 00:58:29,009 {\an1}- My dawg! - Whoo! 1588 00:58:29,089 --> 00:58:30,089 {\an1}- We won. 1589 00:58:30,215 --> 00:58:31,215 {\an1}- Good job. - Good job. 1590 00:58:31,299 --> 00:58:32,469 {\an1}- I’m feeling good. 1591 00:58:32,551 --> 00:58:34,341 {\an1}Mike and I have been in a good place. 1592 00:58:34,428 --> 00:58:36,848 {\an1}I know that there were times 1593 00:58:36,930 --> 00:58:37,970 {\an1}where I did hold myself back 1594 00:58:38,056 --> 00:58:40,886 {\an1}and I know that I’m not in that place anymore. 1595 00:58:41,018 --> 00:58:42,768 {\an1}And I think now we have every intent 1596 00:58:42,894 --> 00:58:44,314 {\an1}to get this marriage right 1597 00:58:44,396 --> 00:58:46,936 {\an1}so I’m excited to do it, for sure. 1598 00:58:47,065 --> 00:58:49,685 {\an1}For sure. I feel it. - I feel it too. 1599 00:58:49,776 --> 00:58:50,566 {\an1}- Can’t believe I didn’t catch that. 1600 00:58:50,694 --> 00:58:52,574 {\an1}That was right in the hand zone. 1601 00:58:52,696 --> 00:58:54,156 {\an1}- ♪ Breathing in, breathing out ♪ 1602 00:58:54,239 --> 00:58:55,409 {\an1}♪ Make you scream, make you shout ♪ 1603 00:58:55,532 --> 00:58:57,532 {\an1}♪ ’Cause there’s nothing that you can’t do ♪ 1604 00:58:57,617 --> 00:58:58,737 {\an1}- Yo, taste that, taste that. 1605 00:58:58,869 --> 00:59:01,039 {\an1}- ♪ And it’s our time, don’t waste it now ♪ 1606 00:59:01,121 --> 00:59:02,331 {\an1}- That’s the thing. 1607 00:59:02,414 --> 00:59:04,424 {\an1}- ♪ And it’s your time ♪ 1608 00:59:04,541 --> 00:59:06,711 {\an1}- Can I have your attention, please? 1609 00:59:06,793 --> 00:59:08,293 {\an1}- Yes. - For what? 1610 00:59:08,420 --> 00:59:11,670 {\an1}- So we’re gonna play a game tonight, okay? 1611 00:59:11,757 --> 00:59:12,917 {\an1}It’s called "Most Likely." 1612 00:59:15,927 --> 00:59:17,217 {\an1}- Oh, I get it. - Oh, that’s fun. 1613 00:59:17,304 --> 00:59:19,684 {\an1}- Okay, I will give you an example. 1614 00:59:19,765 --> 00:59:21,565 {\an1}Who’s most likely 1615 00:59:21,641 --> 00:59:23,891 {\an1}to get drunk and get arrested, right? 1616 00:59:23,977 --> 00:59:26,347 {\an1}You take your board, you write the person’s name down, 1617 00:59:26,438 --> 00:59:27,358 {\an1}we’ll show it. 1618 00:59:27,439 --> 00:59:28,979 {\an1}And whoever has the most "likelys" loses. 1619 00:59:29,107 --> 00:59:30,017 {\an1}- Yup. 1620 00:59:30,108 --> 00:59:32,108 {\an1}- I’m excited to play this game because, 1621 00:59:32,194 --> 00:59:33,904 {\an1}you know, we know each other as a partner, 1622 00:59:33,987 --> 00:59:38,577 {\an1}so we’re gonna see how well we know each other as friends. 1623 00:59:38,658 --> 00:59:39,948 {\an1}So I think it’ll be very interesting 1624 00:59:40,035 --> 00:59:41,585 {\an1}to see what we all think of each other. 1625 00:59:41,661 --> 00:59:42,911 {\an1}You guys ready? - Ouch. 1626 00:59:42,996 --> 00:59:44,076 {\an1}- You understand the game? - Mm-hmm. 1627 00:59:44,164 --> 00:59:47,674 {\an1}- Who is most likely to have cosmetic surgery? 1628 00:59:47,793 --> 00:59:50,673 {\an1}[playful music] 1629 00:59:50,796 --> 00:59:53,416 {\an1}♪ ♪ 1630 00:59:53,507 --> 00:59:55,007 {\an1}- Let’s start with Lindsey. 1631 00:59:55,133 --> 00:59:56,303 {\an1}- Oh, I almost-- 1632 00:59:56,384 --> 00:59:57,724 {\an1}- Sorry, baby. 1633 00:59:57,803 --> 00:59:59,143 {\an1}I love you. [laughter] 1634 00:59:59,221 --> 01:00:00,811 {\an1}- We ’bout to fight! 1635 01:00:00,889 --> 01:00:02,429 {\an1}- I was just [bleep] around with you. 1636 01:00:02,516 --> 01:00:05,556 {\an1}I put me too. [laughter] 1637 01:00:05,644 --> 01:00:06,814 {\an1}- I love you. 1638 01:00:06,937 --> 01:00:10,607 {\an1}- And I’m glad I didn’t go first but same difference. 1639 01:00:10,690 --> 01:00:12,030 {\an1}- Next question is, 1640 01:00:12,150 --> 01:00:14,280 {\an1}who is most likely 1641 01:00:14,361 --> 01:00:17,321 {\an1}to be the best liar in the group? 1642 01:00:17,405 --> 01:00:18,985 {\an1}- It’s pretty funny. 1643 01:00:19,074 --> 01:00:22,664 {\an1}- Who is most likely to be the best liar in the group? 1644 01:00:22,744 --> 01:00:24,374 {\an1}♪ ♪ 1645 01:00:24,496 --> 01:00:26,156 {\an1}- I picked Noi. 1646 01:00:26,248 --> 01:00:27,868 {\an1}- "Worst liar too." - What? 1647 01:00:27,999 --> 01:00:28,829 {\an1}- Worst liar and best liar. 1648 01:00:28,959 --> 01:00:31,419 {\an1}- Well, you know what? I picked you too. 1649 01:00:31,503 --> 01:00:32,803 {\an1}- I said you. 1650 01:00:32,879 --> 01:00:36,509 {\an1}You don’t lie, but if you did lie, 1651 01:00:36,633 --> 01:00:38,683 {\an1}I feel like I wouldn’t know that you’re lying. 1652 01:00:38,802 --> 01:00:40,182 {\an1}- She’s smiling like she knows it’s the truth. 1653 01:00:40,303 --> 01:00:41,263 {\an1}Making her nervous. 1654 01:00:41,346 --> 01:00:42,966 {\an1}- Jas. - Wow. 1655 01:00:43,056 --> 01:00:44,766 {\an1}- Oh, ooh, Jas, you lying over here, girl? 1656 01:00:44,850 --> 01:00:45,980 {\an1}- It’s that poker face. 1657 01:00:46,059 --> 01:00:47,519 {\an1}- Yo, Mike, watch out, man. 1658 01:00:47,644 --> 01:00:48,604 {\an1}- She’s probably better than what we thought. 1659 01:00:48,687 --> 01:00:49,977 {\an1}[both laughing] 1660 01:00:50,063 --> 01:00:52,823 {\an1}[laughter] 1661 01:00:52,899 --> 01:00:54,979 {\an1}- What! 1662 01:00:55,068 --> 01:00:57,488 {\an1}- I don’t like that you’s laughing--you laughing. 1663 01:00:57,571 --> 01:00:59,361 {\an1}I don’t know how I should feel about that. 1664 01:00:59,489 --> 01:01:01,619 {\an1}I should be terrified, right? 1665 01:01:01,700 --> 01:01:02,740 {\an1}- I’m not a liar, 1666 01:01:02,868 --> 01:01:05,658 {\an1}but I know that if I had to lie about something 1667 01:01:05,745 --> 01:01:10,205 {\an1}I would be pretty convincing, you know? 1668 01:01:10,292 --> 01:01:11,712 {\an1}[crickets chirping] 1669 01:01:11,835 --> 01:01:13,345 {\an1}- Hmm. - Sorry. 1670 01:01:13,420 --> 01:01:14,340 {\an1}- Who is most likely 1671 01:01:14,421 --> 01:01:16,171 {\an1}to spend the most money on their partner? 1672 01:01:16,256 --> 01:01:19,216 {\an1}♪ ♪ 1673 01:01:19,342 --> 01:01:20,932 {\an1}- All right, Noi you wanna go first? 1674 01:01:21,052 --> 01:01:22,602 {\an1}- I chose Lindsey. 1675 01:01:22,721 --> 01:01:24,181 {\an1}- I chose me too. - I knew you did. 1676 01:01:24,264 --> 01:01:25,684 {\an1}- I’m in that bag, you know. 1677 01:01:25,765 --> 01:01:28,055 {\an1}I like nice [bleep]. I buy my boo nice [bleep]. 1678 01:01:28,143 --> 01:01:30,403 {\an1}- I’ma roll with myself. - I have your back too. 1679 01:01:30,478 --> 01:01:32,358 {\an1}- 100%. 1680 01:01:32,439 --> 01:01:33,729 {\an1}- Ooh, Mark. 1681 01:01:33,815 --> 01:01:35,565 {\an1}- Talk yo’ [bleep], Mark. 1682 01:01:35,650 --> 01:01:37,400 {\an1}- [laughs] 1683 01:01:37,527 --> 01:01:38,437 {\an1}- All right. 1684 01:01:38,570 --> 01:01:43,700 {\an1}- [laughs] Sorry. 1685 01:01:43,783 --> 01:01:45,583 {\an1}- What was so funny? 1686 01:01:45,702 --> 01:01:48,082 {\an1}- Yo, is this jokes? 1687 01:01:48,205 --> 01:01:49,755 {\an1}- No. 1688 01:01:49,831 --> 01:01:53,631 {\an1}If you need something, I’d buy it. 1689 01:01:53,752 --> 01:01:55,092 {\an1}- Okay. 1690 01:01:57,464 --> 01:01:59,594 {\an1}- Next question is, 1691 01:01:59,674 --> 01:02:02,644 {\an1}who is most likely to be a stay-at-home parent? 1692 01:02:02,761 --> 01:02:04,391 {\an1}♪ ♪ 1693 01:02:04,471 --> 01:02:06,891 {\an1}- Okay, I chose myself 1694 01:02:06,973 --> 01:02:09,233 {\an1}’cause I would like to raise my kids. 1695 01:02:09,309 --> 01:02:12,559 {\an1}- You saying that working moms don’t raise their kids? 1696 01:02:12,646 --> 01:02:14,356 {\an1}- No, I just, like, would like to be 1697 01:02:14,439 --> 01:02:16,769 {\an1}home full-time with them. - Yeah, and just hands-on. 1698 01:02:16,900 --> 01:02:17,940 {\an1}Nothing wrong with that. - We get that. I get that. 1699 01:02:18,026 --> 01:02:21,236 {\an1}- Would you be okay being a one-income family? 1700 01:02:21,321 --> 01:02:23,911 {\an1}I’m a two-income family kind of bitch. 1701 01:02:25,700 --> 01:02:28,660 {\an1}- Um, yeah, if Steve makes enough money... 1702 01:02:28,787 --> 01:02:30,117 {\an1}- Okay. - For that, but yeah. 1703 01:02:30,205 --> 01:02:33,335 {\an1}- Right now, he’s got zero income. 1704 01:02:33,458 --> 01:02:35,458 {\an1}You’re gonna make enough money to support her at home? 1705 01:02:35,543 --> 01:02:37,253 {\an1}- She wants three kids. That’s a different story 1706 01:02:37,337 --> 01:02:39,127 {\an1}so that’s--that’s a different amount of money. 1707 01:02:39,256 --> 01:02:41,216 {\an1}- To be continued. - Yeah. 1708 01:02:41,299 --> 01:02:45,719 {\an1}- A jobless husband and the stay-at-home mom. 1709 01:02:45,804 --> 01:02:48,774 {\an1}Good luck, huh? [laughs] 1710 01:02:48,848 --> 01:02:50,928 {\an1}I wrote Mark. - Mark? 1711 01:02:51,017 --> 01:02:52,637 {\an1}- ’Cause somebody’s gonna bring home the bacon 1712 01:02:52,769 --> 01:02:54,059 {\an1}and somebody’s gonna cook it. 1713 01:02:54,145 --> 01:02:56,145 {\an1}And I’m bringing it and he’s cooking it. 1714 01:02:58,608 --> 01:03:01,028 {\an1}- Everything Mark feels is on his face. 1715 01:03:01,152 --> 01:03:02,612 {\an1}- [chuckles] You can see it. 1716 01:03:02,696 --> 01:03:04,606 {\an1}- Yeah, Mark’s face is like... 1717 01:03:04,698 --> 01:03:08,158 {\an1}♪ ♪ 1718 01:03:08,243 --> 01:03:09,493 {\an1}- Next question. 1719 01:03:09,619 --> 01:03:11,909 {\an1}Who is most likely to lie to their friends 1720 01:03:11,997 --> 01:03:14,787 {\an1}about their sex life in their relationship? 1721 01:03:14,874 --> 01:03:19,054 {\an1}- [laughs] - Very specific. 1722 01:03:19,170 --> 01:03:21,260 {\an1}- What kinda laugh was that, bro? 1723 01:03:21,339 --> 01:03:24,379 {\an1}- I’ma say me. 1724 01:03:24,509 --> 01:03:25,839 {\an1}- I said Steve. 1725 01:03:25,927 --> 01:03:28,257 {\an1}- What? [laughter] 1726 01:03:28,346 --> 01:03:29,806 {\an1}- Steve’s hurt about that. 1727 01:03:29,889 --> 01:03:31,679 {\an1}- Steve saying what? 1728 01:03:31,766 --> 01:03:34,346 {\an1}Why do you say Steve? - I don’t know. 1729 01:03:34,436 --> 01:03:36,896 {\an1}There’s just something about it that’s not rubbing me right. 1730 01:03:37,022 --> 01:03:39,322 {\an1}I don’t know. [laughter] 1731 01:03:39,399 --> 01:03:40,649 {\an1}Can’t answer that right now. 1732 01:03:40,734 --> 01:03:43,494 {\an1}- Lindsey? Ahh. 1733 01:03:43,570 --> 01:03:45,860 {\an1}- Wait, Mark, why do you say Lindsey? 1734 01:03:47,866 --> 01:03:49,486 {\an1}- Just-- 1735 01:03:49,576 --> 01:03:52,366 {\an1}[silence] 1736 01:03:52,495 --> 01:03:54,365 {\an1}- [laughs] 1737 01:03:54,497 --> 01:03:56,827 {\an1}[tense music] 1738 01:03:56,916 --> 01:03:58,496 {\an1}- Damn, bro. 1739 01:03:58,585 --> 01:04:00,215 {\an1}♪ ♪ 1740 01:04:00,337 --> 01:04:03,167 {\an1}- Lindsey, come on, man. 1741 01:04:03,256 --> 01:04:06,006 {\an1}- My husband is kind of selfish in bed. 1742 01:04:06,092 --> 01:04:07,472 {\an1}That’s not the way to do it. 1743 01:04:07,552 --> 01:04:09,602 {\an1}We could refine that improvement. 1744 01:04:09,721 --> 01:04:11,011 {\an1}- Why do you say Lindsey? 1745 01:04:11,097 --> 01:04:12,637 {\an1}Mark has the floor, please. 1746 01:04:12,724 --> 01:04:17,604 {\an1}- I feel she would maybe paint a picture 1747 01:04:17,729 --> 01:04:19,019 {\an1}that I maybe wouldn’t agree with 1748 01:04:19,105 --> 01:04:23,435 {\an1}and talk about it in a way that I would talk about differently. 1749 01:04:23,568 --> 01:04:25,068 {\an1}- Okay, that’s fair. - That’s fair. 1750 01:04:25,195 --> 01:04:26,075 {\an1}- There’s room for-- 1751 01:04:26,196 --> 01:04:27,356 {\an1}there’s room for improvement and growth. 1752 01:04:27,447 --> 01:04:30,907 {\an1}- Who is most likely to start a fight? 1753 01:04:30,992 --> 01:04:32,202 {\an1}- Who hasn’t started? - Yeah, O hasn’t started. 1754 01:04:32,285 --> 01:04:34,075 {\an1}- Yeah, yeah. I’ll start it off. 1755 01:04:34,204 --> 01:04:36,124 {\an1}I’ma choose Lindsey. 1756 01:04:36,247 --> 01:04:39,037 {\an1}- Katina? - I said Lindsey too. 1757 01:04:39,125 --> 01:04:41,955 {\an1}- Um...I chose Lindsey too. 1758 01:04:42,087 --> 01:04:47,717 {\an1}♪ ♪ 1759 01:04:47,801 --> 01:04:49,391 {\an1}- I chose Lindsey. 1760 01:04:49,469 --> 01:04:52,049 {\an1}♪ ♪ 1761 01:04:52,138 --> 01:04:53,888 {\an1}- Why? 1762 01:04:53,973 --> 01:04:55,773 {\an1}- I chose you only because 1763 01:04:55,850 --> 01:04:58,730 {\an1}I know of certain things that have started 1764 01:04:58,812 --> 01:05:01,612 {\an1}because of things that you’ve said. 1765 01:05:01,689 --> 01:05:04,279 {\an1}♪ ♪ 1766 01:05:04,359 --> 01:05:06,239 {\an1}- Does that mean that Lindsey started the fight 1767 01:05:06,319 --> 01:05:08,449 {\an1}on the airplane? [laughter] 1768 01:05:08,530 --> 01:05:09,860 {\an1}- Steve, gosh. 1769 01:05:09,948 --> 01:05:11,948 {\an1}- Steve, are you gonna keep saying 1770 01:05:12,075 --> 01:05:12,915 {\an1}these [bleep] things all day? 1771 01:05:12,992 --> 01:05:15,202 {\an1}Am I gonna have to come for you next? 1772 01:05:15,286 --> 01:05:16,906 {\an1}Noi, you gotta keep him in line. 1773 01:05:16,996 --> 01:05:18,246 {\an1}TWo [bleep] comments. Third one’s-- 1774 01:05:18,331 --> 01:05:19,621 {\an1}- Lindsey-- - Apologies, Lindsey. 1775 01:05:19,749 --> 01:05:20,959 {\an1}I didn’t mean to get under your skin. 1776 01:05:21,084 --> 01:05:23,254 {\an1}- I can tell that Lindsey’s getting a little bit upset 1777 01:05:23,336 --> 01:05:24,626 {\an1}about the topics. 1778 01:05:24,712 --> 01:05:27,342 {\an1}But I feel like it’s just that awkward tension in the room. 1779 01:05:27,465 --> 01:05:28,465 {\an1}- The loser is... 1780 01:05:28,591 --> 01:05:31,431 {\an1}the person who is most likely to lose this game. 1781 01:05:31,511 --> 01:05:32,431 {\an1}[drumroll] 1782 01:05:32,512 --> 01:05:34,562 {\an1}- And I’m like, "Oh, boy. 1783 01:05:34,639 --> 01:05:35,769 {\an1}This is not gonna be fun." 1784 01:05:35,849 --> 01:05:37,559 {\an1}- It is... 1785 01:05:37,642 --> 01:05:39,312 {\an1}Lindsey. 1786 01:05:39,394 --> 01:05:41,154 {\an1}[all cheering] 1787 01:05:41,229 --> 01:05:43,809 {\an1}♪ ♪ 1788 01:05:43,898 --> 01:05:46,978 {\an1}- I don’t give a [bleep] what you think about me. 1789 01:05:47,068 --> 01:05:48,648 {\an1}I love me and I love-- 1790 01:05:48,736 --> 01:05:50,146 {\an1}I go to sleep great at night 1791 01:05:50,238 --> 01:05:52,198 {\an1}and I wake up early, refreshed. 1792 01:05:52,323 --> 01:05:54,743 {\an1}And I got God in my heart and in my soul. 1793 01:05:54,826 --> 01:05:57,616 {\an1}And like, I ain’t ever [bleep] with bad mentality. 1794 01:05:57,704 --> 01:06:00,544 {\an1}Never in high school, never in college, and never now, 1795 01:06:00,665 --> 01:06:02,745 {\an1}and that’s why I’m rising to the top in life, y’all. 1796 01:06:02,834 --> 01:06:04,344 {\an1}So take note. 1797 01:06:04,419 --> 01:06:06,089 {\an1}I don’t give a [bleep] what y’all think. 1798 01:06:06,171 --> 01:06:09,131 {\an1}[dramatic music] 1799 01:06:09,215 --> 01:06:14,755 {\an1}♪ ♪ 1800 01:06:18,308 --> 01:06:19,178 {\an1}[soft dramatic music] 1801 01:06:19,309 --> 01:06:26,229 {\an1}♪ ♪ 1802 01:06:28,818 --> 01:06:30,698 {\an1}- Did you walk away to join all the production 1803 01:06:30,820 --> 01:06:32,780 {\an1}and leave me alone? 1804 01:06:32,864 --> 01:06:34,704 {\an1}- I walked away ’cause of what you said. 1805 01:06:34,782 --> 01:06:36,282 {\an1}- Oh. 1806 01:06:36,367 --> 01:06:38,037 {\an1}’Cause you wanna be part of production now, right? 1807 01:06:38,119 --> 01:06:40,039 {\an1}- No, I walked away ’cause-- - I get it. 1808 01:06:40,163 --> 01:06:41,543 {\an1}- Cool. - Got it. 1809 01:06:41,664 --> 01:06:42,674 {\an1}- Got it. - I’m done with you. 1810 01:06:42,749 --> 01:06:43,709 {\an1}- Cool, okay. 1811 01:06:43,833 --> 01:06:50,553 {\an1}♪ ♪ 1812 01:06:50,673 --> 01:06:53,553 {\an1}- I generally do not know about 1813 01:06:53,676 --> 01:06:55,336 {\an1}what is going on with Mark and Lindsey. 1814 01:06:55,428 --> 01:06:58,388 {\an1}I’d left for two seconds, came back. 1815 01:06:58,515 --> 01:07:02,395 {\an1}They were in a whole commotion, a whole fight. 1816 01:07:02,477 --> 01:07:05,057 {\an1}But it’s kinda on brand. 1817 01:07:05,188 --> 01:07:07,518 {\an1}It seems like they’re up and down a lot. 1818 01:07:07,607 --> 01:07:10,397 {\an1}So I don’t know what’s going on, 1819 01:07:10,485 --> 01:07:12,745 {\an1}but I can’t say I’m-- I’m ridiculously surprised. 1820 01:07:12,820 --> 01:07:13,740 {\an1}What’s going on? 1821 01:07:13,863 --> 01:07:17,073 {\an1}- So I go outside, 1822 01:07:17,158 --> 01:07:18,908 {\an1}sit with Lindsey. 1823 01:07:19,035 --> 01:07:19,735 {\an1}She’s like, "Let’s build a fire." 1824 01:07:19,869 --> 01:07:23,619 {\an1}I’m like, "Okay." We grab logs. 1825 01:07:23,748 --> 01:07:25,458 {\an1}And then she brought up 1826 01:07:25,583 --> 01:07:28,003 {\an1}the kerosene that was hers outside. 1827 01:07:28,086 --> 01:07:29,796 {\an1}- Okay. - And that 1828 01:07:29,921 --> 01:07:31,591 {\an1}she was pissed that I used some of it. 1829 01:07:31,714 --> 01:07:32,884 {\an1}- Okay. 1830 01:07:32,966 --> 01:07:36,636 {\an1}- And she, you know, flipped out. 1831 01:07:36,761 --> 01:07:39,261 {\an1}"These are boundaries. You’ve crossed boundaries." 1832 01:07:39,389 --> 01:07:40,429 {\an1}- Wait, because you used the kerosene? 1833 01:07:40,557 --> 01:07:41,517 {\an1}- I used the kerosene. 1834 01:07:41,599 --> 01:07:43,929 {\an1}I was like, "I--I didn’t do it to hurt you." 1835 01:07:44,060 --> 01:07:46,940 {\an1}And then she grabbed my arm 1836 01:07:47,021 --> 01:07:48,771 {\an1}and she was, like, talking to me directly. 1837 01:07:48,856 --> 01:07:50,106 {\an1}And I’m like, "Don’t grab my arm 1838 01:07:50,191 --> 01:07:52,401 {\an1}while you’re talking to me." Then she’s like, "[Bleep] off." 1839 01:07:52,485 --> 01:07:54,605 {\an1}I’m like, "All right, I’m good. I’m leaving. 1840 01:07:54,696 --> 01:07:56,106 {\an1}"You can’t control your emotions. 1841 01:07:56,239 --> 01:07:58,569 {\an1}You wanna fight with me? You wanna get tough?" 1842 01:07:58,658 --> 01:08:00,408 {\an1}Like you-- you’re just pushing me. 1843 01:08:00,493 --> 01:08:02,243 {\an1}- Right. 1844 01:08:02,328 --> 01:08:04,288 {\an1}- Like, just keep making the night awkward. 1845 01:08:04,372 --> 01:08:05,622 {\an1}- Is that something that happens a lot? 1846 01:08:05,748 --> 01:08:07,118 {\an1}Like, those types of fights? - Yeah. 1847 01:08:07,250 --> 01:08:08,630 {\an1}- Stuff like that? - Yeah. 1848 01:08:08,751 --> 01:08:11,461 {\an1}- Come on, come on, come on. 1849 01:08:17,301 --> 01:08:19,642 {\an1}- Like, you--you can’t do that. 1850 01:08:19,762 --> 01:08:22,642 {\an1}You can’t just take it to that level 1851 01:08:22,724 --> 01:08:25,103 {\an1}over kerosene. 1852 01:08:25,184 --> 01:08:28,654 {\an1}- I don’t think it’s that the kerosene is a real issue. 1853 01:08:28,771 --> 01:08:29,651 {\an1}That seems like such a small thing. 1854 01:08:29,772 --> 01:08:31,192 {\an1}I don’t think that’s the real issue. 1855 01:08:31,316 --> 01:08:36,396 {\an1}Personally, I would go to Linds and say, 1856 01:08:36,487 --> 01:08:39,157 {\an1}"What’s going on? How are you feeling right now? 1857 01:08:39,240 --> 01:08:42,490 {\an1}What’s really happening?" 1858 01:08:42,619 --> 01:08:44,658 {\an1}We all know it’s not the kerosene. 1859 01:08:44,787 --> 01:08:47,957 {\an1}- I think this argument that we’re having right now 1860 01:08:48,041 --> 01:08:52,251 {\an1}could be a mixture of the game we just played 1861 01:08:52,336 --> 01:08:55,297 {\an1}and that maybe Lindsey’s name was chosen 1862 01:08:55,380 --> 01:08:57,011 {\an1}in a bunch of situations. 1863 01:08:57,091 --> 01:08:59,011 {\an1}But I don’t know. 1864 01:08:59,135 --> 01:09:01,505 {\an1}It’s tough, but I know I have to do this 1865 01:09:01,638 --> 01:09:02,558 {\an1}to figure out, like, 1866 01:09:02,680 --> 01:09:04,889 {\an1}where is this [bleep] really coming from? 1867 01:09:15,777 --> 01:09:17,027 {\an1}[grunts] 1868 01:09:29,874 --> 01:09:32,084 {\an1}- [sniffles] 1869 01:09:34,711 --> 01:09:36,461 {\an1}- Why are you crying? 1870 01:09:41,844 --> 01:09:43,304 {\an1}- Yeah. 1871 01:10:01,406 --> 01:10:03,696 {\an1}"And what I desire... 1872 01:10:05,702 --> 01:10:09,752 {\an1}And I still have to grieve that loss." 1873 01:10:09,871 --> 01:10:12,252 {\an1}And he’s like, "I hear you, Linds. 1874 01:10:12,375 --> 01:10:14,215 {\an1}"But like, it still hurts him. 1875 01:10:14,293 --> 01:10:16,883 {\an1}"I could see it, as his friend, that that hurts him 1876 01:10:16,963 --> 01:10:18,633 {\an1}and I changed his energy." 1877 01:10:18,755 --> 01:10:21,505 {\an1}And I was like, "I don’t know how to honor him 1878 01:10:21,592 --> 01:10:23,092 {\an1}"and still honor me. 1879 01:10:23,177 --> 01:10:26,427 {\an1}"’Cause I feel as though I am honoring him, 1880 01:10:26,514 --> 01:10:29,103 {\an1}but who’s gonna honor me?" 1881 01:10:29,183 --> 01:10:31,103 {\an1}- I just--I’m listening 1882 01:10:31,184 --> 01:10:33,764 {\an1}but I have no clue what Lindsey’s trying to say. 1883 01:10:33,855 --> 01:10:34,945 {\an1}I have no clue. 1884 01:10:35,064 --> 01:10:39,193 {\an1}- I’m constantly feeling like I have to give to you. 1885 01:10:41,070 --> 01:10:45,910 {\an1}Like, since I have known you, 1886 01:10:45,992 --> 01:10:48,871 {\an1}pieces of your life have been falling apart. 1887 01:10:48,952 --> 01:10:50,043 {\an1}- Kind of a dig right now. 1888 01:10:50,121 --> 01:10:51,960 {\an1}- Is that? - Yeah. 1889 01:10:52,039 --> 01:10:53,289 {\an1}It’s not funny. 1890 01:10:53,374 --> 01:10:55,464 {\an1}I think you should relax right now 1891 01:10:55,585 --> 01:10:57,465 {\an1}and I don’t agree with your statement. 1892 01:10:57,587 --> 01:10:59,587 {\an1}- About what? - That my life’s falling apart 1893 01:10:59,672 --> 01:11:02,552 {\an1}and I should look at myself. 1894 01:11:02,633 --> 01:11:03,973 {\an1}- Really? - Yeah. 1895 01:11:04,093 --> 01:11:06,053 {\an1}- How so? 1896 01:11:06,137 --> 01:11:08,177 {\an1}- Okay, since you wanna get up and look at me, 1897 01:11:08,306 --> 01:11:10,136 {\an1}I don’t need you to say [bleep] like that to me. 1898 01:11:10,266 --> 01:11:11,636 {\an1}I don’t point out [bleep] in your life 1899 01:11:11,726 --> 01:11:13,806 {\an1}that’s not going good and your--and your-- 1900 01:11:13,936 --> 01:11:15,396 {\an1}- It’s all over again. 1901 01:11:15,480 --> 01:11:18,230 {\an1}- Awesome. Great. And your life’s perfect. 1902 01:11:18,316 --> 01:11:20,436 {\an1}- It’s not. 1903 01:11:20,526 --> 01:11:22,776 {\an1}But I’m saying 1904 01:11:22,862 --> 01:11:25,202 {\an1}this is a pattern I see 1905 01:11:25,323 --> 01:11:27,202 {\an1}that gives me pause. 1906 01:11:27,325 --> 01:11:29,335 {\an1}- Like, I wanna be there for her. 1907 01:11:29,452 --> 01:11:33,832 {\an1}But every day is just so hard. 1908 01:11:33,956 --> 01:11:35,746 {\an1}So it doesn’t give me fulfillment 1909 01:11:35,833 --> 01:11:37,843 {\an1}that we’re ever gonna arrive at a good place. 1910 01:11:37,919 --> 01:11:38,879 {\an1}- I can’t run around in circles any longer. 1911 01:11:39,003 --> 01:11:41,173 {\an1}- Okay, that’s fine. - It’s exhausting. 1912 01:11:41,297 --> 01:11:43,007 {\an1}- Okay. 1913 01:11:43,132 --> 01:11:44,842 {\an1}- I can’t. - Okay. 1914 01:11:44,967 --> 01:11:46,837 {\an1}- It’s too much work. 1915 01:11:46,969 --> 01:11:49,349 {\an1}- Okay, I--I feel the same. 1916 01:11:49,430 --> 01:11:51,430 {\an1}[tense music] 1917 01:11:51,516 --> 01:11:53,096 {\an1}I’m trying the best to give you 1918 01:11:53,184 --> 01:11:54,234 {\an1}what I can give you, 1919 01:11:54,352 --> 01:11:57,022 {\an1}and if it’s not enough, that’s all I can do. 1920 01:11:57,146 --> 01:12:04,146 {\an1}♪ ♪ 1921 01:12:10,493 --> 01:12:12,452 {\an1}[dramatic music] 1922 01:12:12,537 --> 01:12:14,617 {\an1}- I woke up this morning at 4:00 1923 01:12:14,705 --> 01:12:17,535 {\an1}really sick to my stomach, writhing in pain. 1924 01:12:17,666 --> 01:12:19,996 {\an1}I think I got something I wasn’t supposed to eat 1925 01:12:20,085 --> 01:12:22,206 {\an1}that I’m allergic to. 1926 01:12:22,338 --> 01:12:24,258 {\an1}Oh, I’m not gonna make it the whole way. 1927 01:12:24,382 --> 01:12:25,552 {\an1}- I’ll grab everything. 1928 01:12:25,675 --> 01:12:28,395 {\an1}- I would just drink fluids, but I can’t get fluids down. 1929 01:12:28,469 --> 01:12:31,179 {\an1}And that’s why I have to go to an Urgent Care. 1930 01:12:31,264 --> 01:12:32,564 {\an1}- Your phone. 1931 01:12:33,850 --> 01:12:35,850 {\an1}- Oh, yeah, of course. 1932 01:12:38,896 --> 01:12:40,936 {\an1}- Of course. 1933 01:12:44,943 --> 01:12:47,404 {\an1}- It’s okay. I want you just to get better. 1934 01:12:47,530 --> 01:12:48,360 {\an1}Lindsey’s not feeling too good. 1935 01:12:48,447 --> 01:12:50,237 {\an1}She hasn’t felt good all morning. 1936 01:12:50,366 --> 01:12:51,986 {\an1}I feel bad that she’s sick 1937 01:12:52,076 --> 01:12:53,736 {\an1}and there’s nothing I can really do, 1938 01:12:53,870 --> 01:12:55,540 {\an1}other than just kinda comfort her. 1939 01:12:55,621 --> 01:12:56,581 {\an1}So we’re going over to Urgent Care 1940 01:12:56,664 --> 01:12:57,754 {\an1}and get her taken care of. 1941 01:12:57,832 --> 01:12:59,582 {\an1}Do you guys-- you got IV fluids? 1942 01:12:59,709 --> 01:13:01,249 {\an1}♪ ♪ 1943 01:13:01,377 --> 01:13:02,746 {\an1}Can you check? Can you check for me? 1944 01:13:02,879 --> 01:13:04,759 {\an1}♪ ♪ 1945 01:13:04,880 --> 01:13:06,630 {\an1}As long as she knows I’m there, 1946 01:13:06,757 --> 01:13:08,587 {\an1}no matter what happened yesterday, 1947 01:13:08,718 --> 01:13:10,258 {\an1}I’m still gonna, you know, help her, 1948 01:13:10,386 --> 01:13:12,096 {\an1}no matter what we go through. 1949 01:13:12,221 --> 01:13:14,261 {\an1}Window okay? Okay. 1950 01:13:14,389 --> 01:13:15,719 {\an1}No? Window’s not good? 1951 01:13:15,808 --> 01:13:17,518 {\an1}♪ ♪ 1952 01:13:17,602 --> 01:13:19,102 {\an1}- [groans] 1953 01:13:19,228 --> 01:13:22,058 {\an1}♪ ♪ 1954 01:13:22,148 --> 01:13:24,438 {\an1}- Gonna get out? 1955 01:13:24,567 --> 01:13:28,107 {\an1}♪ ♪ 1956 01:13:28,237 --> 01:13:29,567 {\an1}- Stop. 1957 01:13:29,655 --> 01:13:33,615 {\an1}♪ ♪ 1958 01:13:33,701 --> 01:13:36,411 {\an1}- Go around me. 1959 01:13:36,495 --> 01:13:37,365 {\an1}Go around me. 1960 01:13:37,455 --> 01:13:40,465 {\an1}Go around me, yeah. 1961 01:13:40,583 --> 01:13:42,633 {\an1}- ♪ ’Cause I’m sick in your, sick in your game ♪ 1962 01:13:42,752 --> 01:13:44,462 {\an1}♪ I’m sick in your, sick in your game ♪ 1963 01:13:44,587 --> 01:13:46,127 {\an1}♪ Hey, hey ♪ 1964 01:13:46,213 --> 01:13:46,963 {\an1}- Is Mark here? 1965 01:13:47,089 --> 01:13:48,799 {\an1}- No, Lindsey went to Urgent Care 1966 01:13:48,925 --> 01:13:50,975 {\an1}’cause she was not feeling well when she woke up. 1967 01:13:51,093 --> 01:13:52,303 {\an1}- Oh, I hope she’s all right. - I knew she was sick. 1968 01:13:52,428 --> 01:13:53,798 {\an1}I didn’t know it was that bad. - Oh, I didn’t even know that. 1969 01:13:53,930 --> 01:13:55,139 {\an1}- That’s crazy. 1970 01:13:55,264 --> 01:13:58,353 {\an1}- Lindsey was supposed to make a nice, I think, Italian dish. 1971 01:13:58,476 --> 01:13:59,976 {\an1}But because she’s not feeling well, 1972 01:14:00,102 --> 01:14:01,442 {\an1}I’m just gonna take over in the kitchen. 1973 01:14:01,520 --> 01:14:02,809 {\an1}- ♪ I’m feeling like this ’cause ♪ 1974 01:14:02,939 --> 01:14:04,978 {\an1}♪ You taste like a liquor on my lips ♪ 1975 01:14:05,107 --> 01:14:07,477 {\an1}- Can you bring these outside, please? 1976 01:14:07,610 --> 01:14:09,110 {\an1}- And I’ll be supervising the whole operation. 1977 01:14:09,195 --> 01:14:11,165 {\an1}Make sure everything goes smooth. 1978 01:14:11,280 --> 01:14:13,240 {\an1}Make sure she doesn’t poison anybody. 1979 01:14:13,324 --> 01:14:14,994 {\an1}I’m just a supervisor today. 1980 01:14:15,117 --> 01:14:16,447 {\an1}- All right. 1981 01:14:16,535 --> 01:14:17,825 {\an1}♪ ♪ 1982 01:14:17,912 --> 01:14:21,672 {\an1}[dishes clinking] 1983 01:14:21,791 --> 01:14:22,831 {\an1}- I would ask how’s the food, but everybody’s-- 1984 01:14:22,959 --> 01:14:25,169 {\an1}nobody’s talking, so that means it must be good. 1985 01:14:25,294 --> 01:14:26,674 {\an1}- It’s so good. It’s so good. 1986 01:14:26,754 --> 01:14:27,884 {\an1}- Thank you, thank you. 1987 01:14:29,005 --> 01:14:30,796 {\an1}- I’m not looking forward to going back to work. 1988 01:14:30,883 --> 01:14:32,513 {\an1}I wish we had like a few more days out here. 1989 01:14:32,593 --> 01:14:34,183 {\an1}- Yeah. - It’s been a really nice trip. 1990 01:14:34,303 --> 01:14:35,893 {\an1}- This is a really special weekend 1991 01:14:36,013 --> 01:14:38,643 {\an1}that we’re all lucky to have. - Yeah. 1992 01:14:38,724 --> 01:14:40,894 {\an1}- I had a lot of fun just trying to 1993 01:14:41,018 --> 01:14:42,098 {\an1}appreciate that this is, like, 1994 01:14:42,186 --> 01:14:44,016 {\an1}the last time we’re all gonna be together like this. 1995 01:14:44,146 --> 01:14:46,186 {\an1}- In this in this way. - In this way. 1996 01:14:46,273 --> 01:14:48,032 {\an1}So I think I’ve been trying to take in every moment, 1997 01:14:48,150 --> 01:14:50,530 {\an1}saying like, "Let me have a lot of fun and be present 1998 01:14:50,611 --> 01:14:53,701 {\an1}because we’re not gonna have this again." 1999 01:14:53,781 --> 01:14:54,871 {\an1}Not in this way. 2000 01:14:54,949 --> 01:14:57,329 {\an1}I mean, of course, we can get together on our own. 2001 01:14:57,410 --> 01:14:59,290 {\an1}And after Decision Day, of course, 2002 01:14:59,370 --> 01:15:02,540 {\an1}but this feels-- this feels different. 2003 01:15:02,623 --> 01:15:05,213 {\an1}- Mm-hmm. - Definitely. 2004 01:15:05,334 --> 01:15:07,254 {\an1}- I asked Steve a question. I asked, you know, 2005 01:15:07,378 --> 01:15:10,048 {\an1}"Do you guys feel a pressure to, like, stay together? 2006 01:15:10,172 --> 01:15:15,302 {\an1}’Cause you’re looked at as like the paradise couple?" 2007 01:15:15,386 --> 01:15:17,466 {\an1}- Um, I don’t know. 2008 01:15:17,555 --> 01:15:21,315 {\an1}I think we’re still working on our trust in each other. 2009 01:15:21,392 --> 01:15:25,022 {\an1}I think it’s not all the way there yet. 2010 01:15:25,103 --> 01:15:27,864 {\an1}And I would like us to get there 2011 01:15:27,940 --> 01:15:30,570 {\an1}before Decision Day, but I’m not sure 2012 01:15:30,651 --> 01:15:33,241 {\an1}if that’s going to happen. 2013 01:15:33,362 --> 01:15:35,782 {\an1}♪ ♪ 2014 01:15:35,906 --> 01:15:37,316 {\an1}- Yeah, I mean, for me, there’s, like, 2015 01:15:37,407 --> 01:15:38,907 {\an1}so many levels to trust, right? 2016 01:15:38,993 --> 01:15:41,702 {\an1}Like I trust her not to, you know, 2017 01:15:41,787 --> 01:15:43,327 {\an1}disappear in the middle of the night with all my stuff. 2018 01:15:43,414 --> 01:15:45,544 {\an1}Yeah, but that’s simple enough, right? 2019 01:15:45,624 --> 01:15:47,924 {\an1}Do I--yeah, do I trust her with my emotions? 2020 01:15:48,044 --> 01:15:49,254 {\an1}Do I trust her to keep my secrets? 2021 01:15:49,378 --> 01:15:50,298 {\an1}There’s all these other things. 2022 01:15:50,421 --> 01:15:51,630 {\an1}It’s like, there’s so many levels of it 2023 01:15:51,755 --> 01:15:55,085 {\an1}and it’s constantly fluctuating and it’s, like, 2024 01:15:55,217 --> 01:15:57,587 {\an1}the only way you can build that is with time. 2025 01:15:57,719 --> 01:15:59,050 {\an1}- Hmm, interesting. 2026 01:15:59,138 --> 01:16:01,178 {\an1}[all chuckle] 2027 01:16:01,264 --> 01:16:03,475 {\an1}- For us, I feel like 2028 01:16:03,601 --> 01:16:09,441 {\an1}it’s just like having more deeper conversations. 2029 01:16:09,523 --> 01:16:13,193 {\an1}- I mean, me and Katina are having those real conversations 2030 01:16:13,277 --> 01:16:16,107 {\an1}and it’s not--it’s ugly. It gets ugly. 2031 01:16:16,197 --> 01:16:17,447 {\an1}It really does. 2032 01:16:17,531 --> 01:16:18,571 {\an1}But-- [clears throat] 2033 01:16:18,657 --> 01:16:19,447 {\an1}She is strong, 2034 01:16:19,532 --> 01:16:22,123 {\an1}and I like that, you being real. 2035 01:16:24,580 --> 01:16:25,790 {\an1}- What was that word you’re saying? 2036 01:16:25,915 --> 01:16:27,375 {\an1}- No, I said there could possibly. 2037 01:16:27,458 --> 01:16:28,418 {\an1}- Did you say love? 2038 01:16:28,501 --> 01:16:29,791 {\an1}- You said it’s possible there’s love there. 2039 01:16:29,919 --> 01:16:31,959 {\an1}- What was the word you said? - I think he said "love." 2040 01:16:32,088 --> 01:16:33,878 {\an1}- Oh, my God. - So you know what I’m saying? 2041 01:16:33,964 --> 01:16:35,304 {\an1}- You got something to tell me? 2042 01:16:35,382 --> 01:16:36,472 {\an1}Aww... 2043 01:16:36,592 --> 01:16:38,552 {\an1}- Drum roll. - Drum roll. 2044 01:16:38,636 --> 01:16:39,966 {\an1}- Hit your brakes, baby. Hit the brakes. 2045 01:16:40,096 --> 01:16:42,466 {\an1}Hit the brakes, baby. Hit the brakes. 2046 01:16:42,598 --> 01:16:43,928 {\an1}- Damn. 2047 01:16:44,016 --> 01:16:46,016 {\an1}- I think for me, meeting with the medium 2048 01:16:46,143 --> 01:16:48,773 {\an1}was like the first time that I really felt like-- 2049 01:16:48,853 --> 01:16:50,984 {\an1}like, "Damn, Jas really-- she cares for me." 2050 01:16:51,107 --> 01:16:52,067 {\an1}You know, because like even before 2051 01:16:52,148 --> 01:16:53,898 {\an1}we went to the medium, you was just like, 2052 01:16:53,984 --> 01:16:56,364 {\an1}"I need you to understand what this is about to be. 2053 01:16:56,487 --> 01:16:59,107 {\an1}"I need you to understand that you might not be 2054 01:16:59,198 --> 01:17:02,278 {\an1}"in a mental space to handle 2055 01:17:02,368 --> 01:17:03,657 {\an1}"whatever the medium is gonna say. 2056 01:17:03,744 --> 01:17:06,334 {\an1}So make sure that you’re okay with this before you continue." 2057 01:17:06,455 --> 01:17:08,115 {\an1}And you mentioned how, like, 2058 01:17:08,207 --> 01:17:10,037 {\an1}you said you want me to open up. 2059 01:17:10,166 --> 01:17:13,877 {\an1}But you let me know that I don’t have to feel like 2060 01:17:14,004 --> 01:17:18,184 {\an1}I have to go to this extent to open up to you. 2061 01:17:18,300 --> 01:17:20,010 {\an1}And it just made me feel like 2062 01:17:20,094 --> 01:17:22,434 {\an1}she’s really looking out for me. 2063 01:17:22,513 --> 01:17:25,683 {\an1}That was powerful. So I really appreciate that. 2064 01:17:25,766 --> 01:17:28,596 {\an1}- [whispering] You’re welcome. 2065 01:17:28,686 --> 01:17:29,846 {\an1}I just don’t ever want you to feel like 2066 01:17:29,937 --> 01:17:34,317 {\an1}you have to do something that you don’t want to do, so. 2067 01:17:34,400 --> 01:17:37,070 {\an1}- I didn’t even know how much I trusted Jasmina 2068 01:17:37,193 --> 01:17:39,364 {\an1}until the medium was talking about, 2069 01:17:39,446 --> 01:17:41,906 {\an1}you know, things about my brother 2070 01:17:42,032 --> 01:17:43,582 {\an1}and my mom that passed. 2071 01:17:43,701 --> 01:17:47,581 {\an1}So having Jasmina there was comforting. 2072 01:17:47,705 --> 01:17:48,715 {\an1}And that’s a level of trust 2073 01:17:48,831 --> 01:17:51,251 {\an1}that you would have to have with somebody 2074 01:17:51,375 --> 01:17:53,035 {\an1}to feel that comfort. 2075 01:17:53,127 --> 01:17:55,666 {\an1}I’ve seen a compassionate side of her that, 2076 01:17:55,754 --> 01:17:57,464 {\an1}you know, I’ve--I’ve never seen. 2077 01:17:57,548 --> 01:18:00,178 {\an1}And I felt like that was another turning point for us. 2078 01:18:00,259 --> 01:18:03,259 {\an1}So I would say if we stay on this streak, 2079 01:18:03,387 --> 01:18:04,807 {\an1}then I can definitely see us, 2080 01:18:04,889 --> 01:18:06,099 {\an1}you know, growing old with each other 2081 01:18:06,223 --> 01:18:09,733 {\an1}and getting the life that we always wanted out of marriage. 2082 01:18:09,809 --> 01:18:11,400 {\an1}- I praise you on that. For real, like... 2083 01:18:11,520 --> 01:18:13,059 {\an1}- Thank you. - You being open. 2084 01:18:13,189 --> 01:18:14,228 {\an1}- Yeah. - Being vulnerable. 2085 01:18:14,356 --> 01:18:15,396 {\an1}- Yeah, I could tell you guys grew 2086 01:18:15,523 --> 01:18:17,534 {\an1}a lot closer this weekend. - That’s great to see. 2087 01:18:17,610 --> 01:18:20,400 {\an1}- Yeah, I mean that--you just know she’s looking out for you. 2088 01:18:20,529 --> 01:18:22,529 {\an1}- Yeah, that’s love. 2089 01:18:22,615 --> 01:18:24,375 {\an1}- Y’all love throwing that word around, huh? 2090 01:18:24,450 --> 01:18:25,740 {\an1}[all laughing] 2091 01:18:25,868 --> 01:18:26,827 {\an1}- She got a favorite word over there. 2092 01:18:26,911 --> 01:18:28,831 {\an1}- That’s y’all’s favorite word. - I know. 2093 01:18:28,913 --> 01:18:33,423 {\an1}- ♪ This night I was running like stars in the sky ♪ 2094 01:18:36,962 --> 01:18:38,132 {\an1}[dramatic music] 2095 01:18:38,255 --> 01:18:42,585 {\an1}♪ ♪ 2096 01:18:42,718 --> 01:18:43,968 {\an1}- [whispering] She’s been sleeping 2097 01:18:44,094 --> 01:18:48,184 {\an1}for, like, 45 minutes. 2098 01:18:48,264 --> 01:18:50,594 {\an1}She’s not shivering. 2099 01:18:50,726 --> 01:18:52,936 {\an1}She’s getting some good sleep. 2100 01:18:53,020 --> 01:18:54,770 {\an1}We got her taken care of. 2101 01:18:54,897 --> 01:18:57,147 {\an1}[dramatic music] 2102 01:18:57,273 --> 01:18:59,324 {\an1}I hope when she wakes up she’ll feel all better. 2103 01:18:59,443 --> 01:19:01,073 {\an1}I think she’ll feel better. 2104 01:19:01,153 --> 01:19:06,452 {\an1}♪ ♪ 2105 01:19:06,575 --> 01:19:08,535 {\an1}Oh, there’s the patient. 2106 01:19:08,619 --> 01:19:10,999 {\an1}- I wanna say, I am very dehydrated, so. 2107 01:19:13,415 --> 01:19:15,125 {\an1}- So long Vermont. 2108 01:19:15,209 --> 01:19:17,629 {\an1}Adios. I’ll miss you. 2109 01:19:17,710 --> 01:19:19,380 {\an1}- I’m not excited to go back to Boston. 2110 01:19:19,463 --> 01:19:21,383 {\an1}Decision Day’s two weeks away. I’m nervous. 2111 01:19:21,465 --> 01:19:23,625 {\an1}I’m confused, mixed emotions. 2112 01:19:23,759 --> 01:19:26,299 {\an1}Those unanswered questions still dangling in the air. 2113 01:19:26,428 --> 01:19:28,638 {\an1}But I also have so much passion and love 2114 01:19:28,764 --> 01:19:31,314 {\an1}and just so much care for this woman. 2115 01:19:31,433 --> 01:19:33,143 {\an1}So I’m all messed up. 2116 01:19:33,227 --> 01:19:36,147 {\an1}[upbeat music] 2117 01:19:36,272 --> 01:19:43,282 {\an1}♪ ♪ 2118 01:19:45,614 --> 01:19:48,244 {\an1}- We’re heading back to Boston. 2119 01:19:48,325 --> 01:19:49,785 {\an1}Before Decision Day, 2120 01:19:49,868 --> 01:19:51,498 {\an1}we should at least have a conversation 2121 01:19:51,577 --> 01:19:54,657 {\an1}about how our living arrangement situation 2122 01:19:54,790 --> 01:19:56,630 {\an1}would be post Decision Day. 2123 01:19:56,709 --> 01:19:57,669 {\an1}- Yeah. 2124 01:19:57,751 --> 01:19:59,291 {\an1}- Expectations, you know, 2125 01:19:59,378 --> 01:20:02,628 {\an1}like timetables, just, like, have that conversation. 2126 01:20:02,715 --> 01:20:04,385 {\an1}- Mm-hmm. 2127 01:20:04,508 --> 01:20:05,838 {\an1}It’s kind of scary ’cause it’s like, 2128 01:20:05,968 --> 01:20:08,008 {\an1}yeah, I know we got married 2129 01:20:08,137 --> 01:20:11,847 {\an1}and have committed ourselves to one another 2130 01:20:11,974 --> 01:20:13,684 {\an1}and that’s beautiful. 2131 01:20:13,767 --> 01:20:17,017 {\an1}But there’s one final step, which is saying goodbye 2132 01:20:17,146 --> 01:20:20,976 {\an1}to the life you had before getting married. 2133 01:20:21,066 --> 01:20:24,276 {\an1}Like, I haven’t fully processed everything. 2134 01:20:24,361 --> 01:20:26,531 {\an1}- You know, it sounds like you want your single life, 2135 01:20:26,655 --> 01:20:30,025 {\an1}you know, and that’s not married life. 2136 01:20:30,159 --> 01:20:32,579 {\an1}- I don’t necessarily miss my single life. 2137 01:20:32,702 --> 01:20:35,713 {\an1}It’s just that I tend to, like, 2138 01:20:35,831 --> 01:20:38,380 {\an1}put all the needs of, like, my partner before my own. 2139 01:20:38,459 --> 01:20:41,419 {\an1}And like, would this last relationship in particular, 2140 01:20:41,545 --> 01:20:44,205 {\an1}like, I moved cross-country for this, and I didn’t-- 2141 01:20:44,340 --> 01:20:46,469 {\an1}like when I came out here, I didn’t have a job. 2142 01:20:46,550 --> 01:20:47,969 {\an1}I didn’t have my family. 2143 01:20:48,052 --> 01:20:50,392 {\an1}I had never even lived on my own before. 2144 01:20:52,222 --> 01:20:55,392 {\an1}It was like my first time that I did anything for myself. 2145 01:20:55,517 --> 01:20:57,727 {\an1}♪ ♪ 2146 01:20:57,853 --> 01:21:00,273 {\an1}I consider my studio 2147 01:21:00,397 --> 01:21:02,227 {\an1}to be my safety net, 2148 01:21:02,316 --> 01:21:07,106 {\an1}because it was the first place I lived in by myself. 2149 01:21:07,237 --> 01:21:09,447 {\an1}So I don’t wanna make you feel like it’s anything to do with, 2150 01:21:09,573 --> 01:21:11,073 {\an1}like, me not trusting you 2151 01:21:11,200 --> 01:21:12,660 {\an1}or not trusting our marriage. 2152 01:21:12,743 --> 01:21:16,413 {\an1}You know, it’s just like, a big life change for me. 2153 01:21:16,538 --> 01:21:18,458 {\an1}There’s a part of me that wants to hold onto it, 2154 01:21:18,582 --> 01:21:22,212 {\an1}just in case something doesn’t work out. 2155 01:21:22,294 --> 01:21:24,054 {\an1}And, you know, 2156 01:21:24,129 --> 01:21:28,929 {\an1}that’s a bit of-- [clears throat] 2157 01:21:29,050 --> 01:21:30,091 {\an1}The fear that I have. 2158 01:21:30,219 --> 01:21:31,929 {\an1}♪ ♪ 2159 01:21:32,054 --> 01:21:34,603 {\an1}I’m just emotional because it’s like, 2160 01:21:34,723 --> 01:21:39,273 {\an1}it was just a lot, like, to get here. 2161 01:21:39,395 --> 01:21:41,485 {\an1}And I feel like so much has happened 2162 01:21:41,605 --> 01:21:43,105 {\an1}in such a short amount of time. 2163 01:21:43,190 --> 01:21:47,740 {\an1}Even, like, leading up to getting married. 2164 01:21:47,820 --> 01:21:50,950 {\an1}And now having to, 2165 01:21:51,031 --> 01:21:53,621 {\an1}I don’t know, move again. 2166 01:21:53,742 --> 01:21:56,121 {\an1}I think I’m like scared too, you know? 2167 01:21:56,245 --> 01:21:57,625 {\an1}♪ ♪ 2168 01:21:57,746 --> 01:22:00,116 {\an1}- I think forever is a big thing in her mind. 2169 01:22:00,249 --> 01:22:03,129 {\an1}I think she still has some fears about marriage. 2170 01:22:03,252 --> 01:22:05,302 {\an1}If you’re gonna 2171 01:22:05,421 --> 01:22:09,130 {\an1}take some time after Decision Day. 2172 01:22:09,258 --> 01:22:13,298 {\an1}and, you know, be proud of your accomplishments 2173 01:22:13,429 --> 01:22:16,179 {\an1}and honor this part of your life, 2174 01:22:16,306 --> 01:22:17,806 {\an1}and as far as you came, 2175 01:22:17,891 --> 01:22:20,521 {\an1}I think those are all good things. 2176 01:22:20,644 --> 01:22:24,154 {\an1}A part of me is a bit concerned because it may be a signal 2177 01:22:24,231 --> 01:22:26,941 {\an1}that she might not be taking the marriage seriously. 2178 01:22:27,025 --> 01:22:29,315 {\an1}It’s just aside from everything that you’re telling me 2179 01:22:29,445 --> 01:22:31,825 {\an1}about the general concern of, 2180 01:22:31,947 --> 01:22:33,277 {\an1}"Hey, I want to be married to you, 2181 01:22:33,365 --> 01:22:35,405 {\an1}but I don’t wanna live with you is," okay, 2182 01:22:35,492 --> 01:22:37,291 {\an1}do you really want to be married to me? 2183 01:22:37,369 --> 01:22:38,999 {\an1}♪ ♪ 2184 01:22:39,121 --> 01:22:41,671 {\an1}- ♪ Ain’t nobody ♪ 2185 01:22:41,790 --> 01:22:44,460 {\an1}♪ Gonna love you like I do ♪ 2186 01:22:44,543 --> 01:22:46,753 {\an1}♪ Ain’t nobody ♪ 2187 01:22:46,837 --> 01:22:50,507 {\an1}♪ Gonna show you the things I showed you ♪ 2188 01:22:50,632 --> 01:22:53,512 {\an1}♪ So if you wanna leave, leave ♪ 2189 01:22:53,635 --> 01:22:57,305 {\an1}♪ ♪ 2190 01:22:57,389 --> 01:22:59,849 {\an1}- Next time on "Married at First Sight." 2191 01:22:59,975 --> 01:23:01,055 {\an1}- Are you [bleep] me? 2192 01:23:01,184 --> 01:23:03,525 {\an1}- With less than two weeks before Decision Day... 2193 01:23:03,603 --> 01:23:05,693 {\an1}- Are you excited to see where I come from? 2194 01:23:05,814 --> 01:23:08,693 {\an1}- Our husbands and wives will get a glimpse 2195 01:23:08,817 --> 01:23:11,607 {\an1}into each other’s pasts as they try to build 2196 01:23:11,695 --> 01:23:14,605 {\an1}an even stronger bond with their partner. 2197 01:23:14,698 --> 01:23:16,028 {\an1}- Why no kissing and touching? 2198 01:23:16,157 --> 01:23:18,827 {\an1}- I don’t have, like, the urge. 2199 01:23:18,911 --> 01:23:21,041 {\an1}- It’s hard to hear from somebody that you wanna be 2200 01:23:21,163 --> 01:23:22,963 {\an1}in a relationship with to tell you that. 2201 01:23:23,040 --> 01:23:24,370 {\an1}- If we don’t move in together, 2202 01:23:24,500 --> 01:23:27,040 {\an1}I don’t think this can work. 2203 01:23:27,169 --> 01:23:29,799 {\an1}- You don’t wanna care. I don’t wanna care more. 2204 01:23:29,880 --> 01:23:31,590 {\an1}I don’t--I’m not gonna let you hurt me. 2205 01:23:31,715 --> 01:23:34,215 {\an1}That’s it. The walls up. You’re out. 2206 01:23:34,300 --> 01:23:36,721 {\an1}- It could be draining for me personally. 2207 01:23:36,844 --> 01:23:38,715 {\an1}- Jeez, can you just shut up for a second? 2208 01:23:38,847 --> 01:23:40,057 {\an1}♪ ♪ 2209 01:23:43,018 --> 01:23:44,228 {\an1}- [exhales]