1 00:00:02,127 --> 00:00:03,247 {\an1}[dramatic music] 2 00:00:03,378 --> 00:00:05,128 {\an1}- Love requires great risk. 3 00:00:05,214 --> 00:00:07,304 {\an1}So I’m willing to take that leap of faith. 4 00:00:07,382 --> 00:00:08,972 {\an1}- You better kiss your bride. 5 00:00:09,051 --> 00:00:11,141 {\an1}- Eight weeks ago, the experts 6 00:00:11,220 --> 00:00:14,140 {\an1}chose ten singles in Boston, Massachusetts, 7 00:00:14,223 --> 00:00:17,023 {\an1}to be married at first sight. 8 00:00:17,100 --> 00:00:19,390 {\an1}For one couple, their marital journey 9 00:00:19,520 --> 00:00:21,190 {\an1}quickly came to an end. 10 00:00:21,271 --> 00:00:22,561 {\an1}- I want a divorce. 11 00:00:22,648 --> 00:00:25,688 {\an1}♪ ♪ 12 00:00:25,776 --> 00:00:29,066 {\an1}- Now the time has finally come for the remaining couples 13 00:00:29,154 --> 00:00:32,534 {\an1}to choose each other or choose a divorce. 14 00:00:32,616 --> 00:00:34,026 {\an1}- Definitely nervous. I don’t know 15 00:00:34,117 --> 00:00:35,987 {\an1}what our final answers are gonna be. 16 00:00:36,078 --> 00:00:38,368 {\an1}- This one decision has the power 17 00:00:38,455 --> 00:00:41,205 {\an1}to affect the rest of their lives, 18 00:00:41,291 --> 00:00:43,961 {\an1}for better or for worse. 19 00:00:44,086 --> 00:00:46,876 {\an1}- Everything is so perfect, but we still can’t hide 20 00:00:46,964 --> 00:00:48,674 {\an1}what our problems are. 21 00:00:48,757 --> 00:00:51,177 {\an1}- I feel like I don’t know you enough. 22 00:00:51,260 --> 00:00:52,550 {\an1}- Yeah. 23 00:00:52,636 --> 00:00:55,926 {\an1}- I need a 5- and 10-year plan from you, buddy. 24 00:00:56,056 --> 00:01:00,056 {\an1}- I don’t wanna feel like I’m just doing everything. 25 00:01:00,143 --> 00:01:01,393 {\an1}- Am I working on a friendship, 26 00:01:01,478 --> 00:01:04,977 {\an1}or am I working on a marriage and my wife? 27 00:01:05,107 --> 00:01:07,817 {\an1}- If I’m not feeling it, I’m not feeling it. 28 00:01:07,943 --> 00:01:10,903 {\an1}- And I just never feel that way with him. 29 00:01:10,988 --> 00:01:12,818 {\an1}- The last meal I had was not edible. 30 00:01:12,948 --> 00:01:15,408 {\an1}Katina doesn’t have that skill. 31 00:01:15,492 --> 00:01:16,742 {\an1}- I’m telling you how it makes me feel, 32 00:01:16,827 --> 00:01:20,327 {\an1}and it’s up for you to determine the next steps. 33 00:01:20,455 --> 00:01:21,495 {\an1}- I think... 34 00:01:21,623 --> 00:01:23,213 {\an1}♪ ♪ 35 00:01:23,292 --> 00:01:26,462 {\an1}- Do you want to stay married or get a divorce? 36 00:01:26,545 --> 00:01:29,135 {\an1}♪ ♪ 37 00:01:29,256 --> 00:01:31,166 {\an1}- [sniffling] 38 00:01:31,300 --> 00:01:32,220 {\an1}[upbeat music] 39 00:01:32,301 --> 00:01:33,471 {\an1}- ♪ It’s all or nothing ♪ 40 00:01:33,594 --> 00:01:36,054 {\an1}- This is "Married at First Sight." 41 00:01:36,138 --> 00:01:38,218 {\an1}- ♪ There’s no other way ♪ 42 00:01:38,307 --> 00:01:39,676 {\an1}♪ ♪ 43 00:01:39,808 --> 00:01:41,938 {\an1}♪ It’s all or nothing ♪ 44 00:01:42,019 --> 00:01:43,729 {\an1}- ♪ It was worth the wait ♪ 45 00:01:43,812 --> 00:01:46,232 {\an1}♪ ♪ 46 00:01:46,315 --> 00:01:47,905 {\an1}♪ Every second, every minute ♪ 47 00:01:47,983 --> 00:01:50,533 {\an1}♪ Every hour of the day ♪ 48 00:01:50,652 --> 00:01:53,532 {\an1}- It’s 5:00 in the morning. The time has come. 49 00:01:53,655 --> 00:01:55,615 {\an1}The day has finally arrived. 50 00:01:55,699 --> 00:01:57,739 {\an1}- Today is Decision Day. 51 00:01:57,826 --> 00:01:59,866 {\an1}- I didn’t get much sleep last night. 52 00:01:59,995 --> 00:02:03,415 {\an1}I had to wake up at 5:45 a.m. this morning, 53 00:02:03,498 --> 00:02:04,538 {\an1}get my makeup done, 54 00:02:04,666 --> 00:02:05,666 {\an1}’cause, you know, I gotta look nice. 55 00:02:05,792 --> 00:02:06,962 {\an1}Especially if I’m getting denied. 56 00:02:07,044 --> 00:02:09,554 {\an1}Definitely gotta have my face done. 57 00:02:09,670 --> 00:02:12,841 {\an1}- We hope this night away has given the couples time 58 00:02:12,966 --> 00:02:16,796 {\an1}to reflect on how far they’ve come in the last eight weeks 59 00:02:16,887 --> 00:02:19,007 {\an1}and whether or not they want their journey forward 60 00:02:19,097 --> 00:02:20,767 {\an1}to include one another. 61 00:02:20,849 --> 00:02:25,269 {\an1}- Last night, I was thinking a lot about all the things 62 00:02:25,353 --> 00:02:26,774 {\an1}that we still need to work on. 63 00:02:26,855 --> 00:02:29,105 {\an1}It makes me a little bit nervous. 64 00:02:29,191 --> 00:02:30,691 {\an1}- A bit fearful that, 65 00:02:30,776 --> 00:02:33,606 {\an1}you know, in the time we spent apart 66 00:02:33,695 --> 00:02:36,105 {\an1}Noi would-- were to get cold feet. 67 00:02:36,198 --> 00:02:37,778 {\an1}- I’m feeling content in my decision. 68 00:02:37,866 --> 00:02:40,026 {\an1}I-I’m also feeling just very anxious, 69 00:02:40,118 --> 00:02:42,078 {\an1}not knowing how everything’s gonna unfold, 70 00:02:42,204 --> 00:02:44,164 {\an1}not knowing what Jasmina’s answer is. 71 00:02:44,247 --> 00:02:45,707 {\an1}- Definitely nervous. 72 00:02:45,791 --> 00:02:48,501 {\an1}I don’t know what our final answers are gonna be. 73 00:02:48,585 --> 00:02:51,204 {\an1}Our marriage right now is a lot just as it is. 74 00:02:51,296 --> 00:02:54,506 {\an1}So now we’re taking in everything to consider 75 00:02:54,591 --> 00:02:58,551 {\an1}and traveling and maybe kids in the future and stuff. 76 00:02:58,679 --> 00:03:00,599 {\an1}This is--this is things that you gotta worry about. 77 00:03:00,722 --> 00:03:06,272 {\an1}So yeah, today should be definitely interesting. 78 00:03:06,395 --> 00:03:07,905 {\an1}- ♪ The time is now ♪ 79 00:03:08,021 --> 00:03:10,271 {\an1}♪ The time is now ♪ 80 00:03:10,399 --> 00:03:12,149 {\an1}♪ Some way, somehow ♪ 81 00:03:12,234 --> 00:03:14,194 {\an1}♪ Some way, somehow ♪ 82 00:03:14,277 --> 00:03:15,947 {\an1}♪ The time is now ♪ 83 00:03:16,071 --> 00:03:18,661 {\an1}♪ It’s the time, it’s the time ♪ 84 00:03:18,740 --> 00:03:20,410 {\an1}♪ The time is now ♪ 85 00:03:20,534 --> 00:03:23,834 {\an1}♪ The time is now The time is now ♪ 86 00:03:23,912 --> 00:03:25,792 {\an1}♪ ♪ 87 00:03:25,914 --> 00:03:29,754 {\an1}- ♪ Although it’s hard to understand it now ♪ 88 00:03:29,835 --> 00:03:32,755 {\an1}♪ ♪ 89 00:03:32,838 --> 00:03:36,168 {\an1}- Jasmina and Mike, maybe a strong finish. 90 00:03:36,258 --> 00:03:37,258 {\an1}We’ll find out today. 91 00:03:37,384 --> 00:03:38,554 {\an1}- I want her to want him. 92 00:03:38,635 --> 00:03:40,175 {\an1}- I don’t know what’s going on. 93 00:03:40,262 --> 00:03:41,352 {\an1}- They haven’t done it, 94 00:03:41,430 --> 00:03:42,640 {\an1}and I didn’t expect that from these two. 95 00:03:42,764 --> 00:03:44,644 {\an1}- When you say it-- - You know what I mean. 96 00:03:44,766 --> 00:03:46,305 {\an1}They haven’t had sex. 97 00:03:46,435 --> 00:03:47,485 {\an1}- It’s okay, yeah. 98 00:03:47,602 --> 00:03:48,902 {\an1}I think that--I think that’s the key. 99 00:03:48,978 --> 00:03:51,939 {\an1}If she can show interest and attraction, 100 00:03:52,023 --> 00:03:53,653 {\an1}even if it’s a little bit. 101 00:03:53,775 --> 00:03:57,275 {\an1}- Honestly, it could go either way. 102 00:03:57,404 --> 00:04:01,244 {\an1}Jasmina and Michael are both highly compassionate people. 103 00:04:01,324 --> 00:04:03,914 {\an1}They both cherish their large families 104 00:04:03,994 --> 00:04:06,294 {\an1}and their shared morals. 105 00:04:06,371 --> 00:04:10,381 {\an1}But the one thing holding them back is intimacy. 106 00:04:10,459 --> 00:04:12,999 {\an1}Are they committed to married life, 107 00:04:13,128 --> 00:04:15,758 {\an1}or are they just friends? 108 00:04:15,839 --> 00:04:18,219 {\an1}I would hope that Jasmina and Michael 109 00:04:18,300 --> 00:04:21,089 {\an1}could be truly vulnerable with one another, 110 00:04:21,178 --> 00:04:23,298 {\an1}truly trust one another, 111 00:04:23,388 --> 00:04:26,558 {\an1}and become physically intimate with one another. 112 00:04:26,641 --> 00:04:28,021 {\an1}I think that would be 113 00:04:28,143 --> 00:04:30,483 {\an1}the trifecta that would bring them together. 114 00:04:30,562 --> 00:04:33,522 {\an1}♪ ♪ 115 00:04:33,648 --> 00:04:36,318 {\an1}- When I first seen Jasmina, she was breathtaking. 116 00:04:36,443 --> 00:04:37,943 {\an1}Wow. 117 00:04:38,028 --> 00:04:40,318 {\an1}- ♪ As long as I’m here on this Earth ♪ 118 00:04:40,447 --> 00:04:43,067 {\an1}- She is the woman that I asked the experts for. 119 00:04:43,158 --> 00:04:45,738 {\an1}- Well, you come here often? - [laughs] 120 00:04:45,827 --> 00:04:47,117 {\an1}She is intelligent, 121 00:04:47,204 --> 00:04:48,834 {\an1}and she is the epitome of a strong Black woman. 122 00:04:48,955 --> 00:04:50,705 {\an1}- If we have any questions, who do we go to? 123 00:04:50,832 --> 00:04:52,002 {\an1}The--which boss? The-- 124 00:04:52,082 --> 00:04:53,883 {\an1}- The real boss. [laughter] 125 00:04:54,002 --> 00:04:57,052 {\an1}- When she laughs, it makes my heart smile. 126 00:04:57,172 --> 00:04:58,672 {\an1}- ♪ Loving you like I love you ♪ 127 00:04:58,757 --> 00:05:00,797 {\an1}- And Jas really, she cares for me. 128 00:05:00,884 --> 00:05:02,184 {\an1}She’s really looking out for me. 129 00:05:02,260 --> 00:05:05,310 {\an1}Jasmina is beautiful, sophisticated. 130 00:05:05,388 --> 00:05:08,058 {\an1}- I’m sorry, can you give me one second, please? 131 00:05:08,183 --> 00:05:09,733 {\an1}- But she is opinionated. 132 00:05:09,851 --> 00:05:12,061 {\an1}- I expect you to talk to me respectfully. 133 00:05:12,187 --> 00:05:15,267 {\an1}You want me to apologize to you how you want me to. 134 00:05:15,357 --> 00:05:18,397 {\an1}I’m not going to do that. 135 00:05:18,527 --> 00:05:20,647 {\an1}- The beginning of our marriage was rocky. 136 00:05:20,737 --> 00:05:22,157 {\an1}- I don’t need to journal to Michael. 137 00:05:22,239 --> 00:05:23,319 {\an1}I don’t need to journal. 138 00:05:23,406 --> 00:05:24,316 {\an1}- I don’t need to journal either. 139 00:05:24,407 --> 00:05:25,617 {\an1}- I’m not done, Michael. 140 00:05:25,700 --> 00:05:27,080 {\an1}- I’m telling you to help me. 141 00:05:27,202 --> 00:05:28,872 {\an1}- Calm down. - I’m not--see? 142 00:05:28,954 --> 00:05:30,254 {\an1}You say calm down. - Or you can calm down. 143 00:05:30,372 --> 00:05:31,582 {\an1}- I’m just speaking passionately. 144 00:05:31,706 --> 00:05:33,076 {\an1}- You’re saying, "I’m telling you to help me." 145 00:05:33,207 --> 00:05:34,418 {\an1}- I felt hopeless when things weren’t working out 146 00:05:34,543 --> 00:05:35,673 {\an1}with me and Jasmina. 147 00:05:35,752 --> 00:05:36,922 {\an1}- It’s okay. 148 00:05:37,045 --> 00:05:39,705 {\an1}♪ ♪ 149 00:05:39,798 --> 00:05:42,838 {\an1}- But the moment I let go is when magic happened. 150 00:05:42,926 --> 00:05:44,426 {\an1}- Aww. 151 00:05:44,553 --> 00:05:49,563 {\an1}- ♪ I’m feeling like I could love you forever ♪ 152 00:05:49,641 --> 00:05:51,311 {\an1}- We started connecting in ways 153 00:05:51,393 --> 00:05:53,353 {\an1}that I never thought would happen before. 154 00:05:53,436 --> 00:05:55,646 {\an1}- Do you feel like--like you’re falling for her? 155 00:05:55,730 --> 00:05:57,690 {\an1}You are--look, you’re smiling. 156 00:05:57,774 --> 00:06:00,324 {\an1}- Although our marriage took a turn for the best, 157 00:06:00,402 --> 00:06:02,242 {\an1}the worst still scares me. 158 00:06:02,320 --> 00:06:04,200 {\an1}Regardless of how great of friends we are, 159 00:06:04,281 --> 00:06:05,201 {\an1}we didn’t come here to-- 160 00:06:05,282 --> 00:06:06,492 {\an1}- Be friends. - To be friends. 161 00:06:06,575 --> 00:06:11,835 {\an1}♪ ♪ 162 00:06:11,913 --> 00:06:15,543 {\an1}- I admire so many things about Michael. 163 00:06:15,625 --> 00:06:17,415 {\an1}- ♪ Peace, thanks ♪ 164 00:06:17,544 --> 00:06:19,714 {\an1}- Let’s see if I can carve our names here. 165 00:06:19,796 --> 00:06:23,586 {\an1}- Michael is loyal, humble, kind, 166 00:06:23,717 --> 00:06:25,127 {\an1}and has a heart of gold. 167 00:06:25,260 --> 00:06:28,600 {\an1}Oh, my God. I love it. 168 00:06:28,680 --> 00:06:30,850 {\an1}Someone that’s just always gonna be there for you. 169 00:06:30,932 --> 00:06:33,852 {\an1}- Put your foot on the gas. - [laughs] 170 00:06:33,935 --> 00:06:35,345 {\an1}He is super silly. 171 00:06:35,437 --> 00:06:37,267 {\an1}Ew, did you really just eat those? 172 00:06:37,355 --> 00:06:38,435 {\an1}- These are really good though. 173 00:06:38,565 --> 00:06:40,025 {\an1}- He’s helped me realize 174 00:06:40,108 --> 00:06:42,188 {\an1}that I should listen before I speak. 175 00:06:42,277 --> 00:06:44,027 {\an1}And I didn’t cut you off at all. 176 00:06:44,112 --> 00:06:45,282 {\an1}- You need, like, a whole week of that. 177 00:06:45,363 --> 00:06:47,283 {\an1}- What is that? 178 00:06:47,365 --> 00:06:48,485 {\an1}- You’re corny as hell. - [laughs] 179 00:06:48,617 --> 00:06:50,487 {\an1}He has shown up in our marriage, 180 00:06:50,619 --> 00:06:52,579 {\an1}even when I thought he didn’t know how. 181 00:06:52,662 --> 00:06:54,002 {\an1}[laughs] 182 00:06:54,122 --> 00:06:57,082 {\an1}- We cook with feeling in Chef Morency’s kitchen. 183 00:06:57,167 --> 00:06:58,167 {\an1}- I didn’t know you had a girl roommate. 184 00:06:58,293 --> 00:06:59,173 {\an1}- Yeah. 185 00:06:59,294 --> 00:07:01,304 {\an1}[dramatic music] 186 00:07:01,421 --> 00:07:04,721 {\an1}- Sometimes Michael’s lack of accountability frustrates me 187 00:07:04,799 --> 00:07:06,179 {\an1}to the point where I don’t know 188 00:07:06,301 --> 00:07:08,511 {\an1}if I can continue on in this marriage. 189 00:07:08,637 --> 00:07:10,887 {\an1}And it’s not just one, it’s two women. 190 00:07:10,972 --> 00:07:12,222 {\an1}- What does that mean? 191 00:07:12,307 --> 00:07:13,927 {\an1}Like, what would I be trying to get away with? 192 00:07:14,017 --> 00:07:16,227 {\an1}- ♪ Who do you think that you are ♪ 193 00:07:16,311 --> 00:07:17,601 {\an1}♪ You’re not the only one ♪ 194 00:07:17,687 --> 00:07:19,767 {\an1}- When Mike and I are by ourselves, 195 00:07:19,856 --> 00:07:22,476 {\an1}the communication goes right out of the door. 196 00:07:22,609 --> 00:07:23,819 {\an1}- Are you done? 197 00:07:23,902 --> 00:07:25,532 {\an1}- I feel like it’s just his way or no way. 198 00:07:25,654 --> 00:07:27,664 {\an1}I can’t help but feel like this 199 00:07:27,781 --> 00:07:29,491 {\an1}is not how it should be in a marriage. 200 00:07:29,616 --> 00:07:32,116 {\an1}He used a tone with me that I didn’t like. 201 00:07:32,202 --> 00:07:34,252 {\an1}- Oh, no. You don’t like any tone. 202 00:07:34,329 --> 00:07:37,709 {\an1}- While I do enjoy spending time with Michael, 203 00:07:37,832 --> 00:07:38,882 {\an1}I’m not in a place where I have 204 00:07:39,000 --> 00:07:40,250 {\an1}romantic feelings for him yet. 205 00:07:40,335 --> 00:07:44,215 {\an1}- Any sort of hand-holding or hugs or kisses, cuddling? 206 00:07:44,339 --> 00:07:45,669 {\an1}- If I have no connection with you, 207 00:07:45,799 --> 00:07:48,509 {\an1}my vagina not getting wet for you. 208 00:07:48,593 --> 00:07:51,553 {\an1}I see Michael as my laughing partner and my friend, 209 00:07:51,680 --> 00:07:53,890 {\an1}but I don’t know if I see him as my husband. 210 00:07:54,015 --> 00:07:59,305 {\an1}♪ ♪ 211 00:07:59,396 --> 00:08:01,146 {\an1}[soft music] 212 00:08:01,231 --> 00:08:03,151 {\an1}- Hey, there. - Hello. 213 00:08:03,233 --> 00:08:05,283 {\an1}- What’s up, young man? 214 00:08:05,360 --> 00:08:07,320 {\an1}- How are you doing? - How are you doing, man. 215 00:08:07,404 --> 00:08:08,494 {\an1}- Good to see you. - Good to see you too. 216 00:08:08,571 --> 00:08:09,821 {\an1}- Cool suit. - Thank you so much. 217 00:08:09,906 --> 00:08:11,406 {\an1}- I like it. 218 00:08:11,533 --> 00:08:13,333 {\an1}- Me and Jas have made a great connection, right? 219 00:08:13,410 --> 00:08:15,160 {\an1}This--I can easily say we’re friends, 220 00:08:15,245 --> 00:08:19,295 {\an1}but I didn’t come here just to get married to a friend. 221 00:08:19,374 --> 00:08:20,884 {\an1}I came for a wife. - Mm-hmm. 222 00:08:21,001 --> 00:08:22,541 {\an1}- Okay, suit. - Jesus. 223 00:08:22,669 --> 00:08:24,549 {\an1}- Okay, suit. Look at you. You look nice. 224 00:08:24,629 --> 00:08:26,339 {\an1}- You look good too. - How are you? 225 00:08:26,423 --> 00:08:28,553 {\an1}- You smell good. - Thank you. 226 00:08:28,633 --> 00:08:30,263 {\an1}- Uh-huh. 227 00:08:30,385 --> 00:08:34,725 {\an1}- I feel like I did everything that I should have done. 228 00:08:34,847 --> 00:08:36,138 {\an1}The sweat, the tears, 229 00:08:36,224 --> 00:08:38,234 {\an1}the--everything that’s gone into this, 230 00:08:38,308 --> 00:08:40,808 {\an1}it’s not an easy decision to make. 231 00:08:40,895 --> 00:08:42,225 {\an1}- It’s a big day. - Thank you. 232 00:08:42,313 --> 00:08:44,823 {\an1}- It’s Decision Day for you and Michael. 233 00:08:44,899 --> 00:08:46,399 {\an1}- Oh, my God, I’m so nervous. 234 00:08:46,484 --> 00:08:48,074 {\an1}- Don’t be, don’t be. We’re your friends. 235 00:08:48,153 --> 00:08:50,243 {\an1}- I mean, it is a big day, though. 236 00:08:50,321 --> 00:08:55,031 {\an1}- I don’t know how Michael is going to react to my decision. 237 00:08:55,118 --> 00:08:57,198 {\an1}You never know with how people are feeling last-minute 238 00:08:57,287 --> 00:09:02,707 {\an1}about things, but we’ll see how it goes. 239 00:09:02,792 --> 00:09:07,512 {\an1}- How has it been? Let’s say the last few weeks. 240 00:09:07,589 --> 00:09:09,969 {\an1}- Good. - Yeah? 241 00:09:10,091 --> 00:09:12,181 {\an1}- [laughs] - Tell me more. 242 00:09:12,260 --> 00:09:17,310 {\an1}- So I feel like me and Jas have made a lot of progress. 243 00:09:17,432 --> 00:09:21,772 {\an1}As y’all know, we started off rocky, like really rocky. 244 00:09:21,895 --> 00:09:24,615 {\an1}Being vulnerable isn’t something that comes 245 00:09:24,689 --> 00:09:26,189 {\an1}ridiculously easy for me. 246 00:09:26,274 --> 00:09:27,904 {\an1}Like, I came into this saying I was gonna be vulnerable, 247 00:09:27,984 --> 00:09:31,154 {\an1}but in practice, it’s still not that easy. 248 00:09:31,279 --> 00:09:33,159 {\an1}Like, I remember when I first opened up to you, 249 00:09:33,281 --> 00:09:35,031 {\an1}it was super uncomfortable 250 00:09:35,116 --> 00:09:36,906 {\an1}because we weren’t at a space where-- 251 00:09:36,993 --> 00:09:39,043 {\an1}well, I wasn’t at a space where, like, 252 00:09:39,120 --> 00:09:41,250 {\an1}I feel like our connection was there 253 00:09:41,331 --> 00:09:43,501 {\an1}to where I wanted to open up to you in that way. 254 00:09:43,625 --> 00:09:44,795 {\an1}So it was super uncomfortable. 255 00:09:44,876 --> 00:09:48,456 {\an1}But now, like, I feel like now I’m at a space 256 00:09:48,588 --> 00:09:52,008 {\an1}where opening up to you isn’t uncomfortable anymore. 257 00:09:52,133 --> 00:09:54,183 {\an1}But there’s one piece in our relationship 258 00:09:54,302 --> 00:09:56,262 {\an1}that’s still been kind of stagnant, 259 00:09:56,346 --> 00:09:58,966 {\an1}which is, like, the-- 260 00:09:59,057 --> 00:10:01,387 {\an1}the romance part of our relationship. 261 00:10:01,476 --> 00:10:03,556 {\an1}The physical intimacy is still just at a place 262 00:10:03,645 --> 00:10:06,485 {\an1}where it’s kinda at a standstill, and-- 263 00:10:06,564 --> 00:10:08,324 {\an1}- You said kinda. 264 00:10:08,399 --> 00:10:09,569 {\an1}[tense music] 265 00:10:09,651 --> 00:10:10,861 {\an1}- It’s at a standstill. 266 00:10:10,985 --> 00:10:12,485 {\an1}♪ ♪ 267 00:10:12,570 --> 00:10:15,110 {\an1}It just makes me wonder, am I working on a friendship, 268 00:10:15,198 --> 00:10:17,868 {\an1}or am I working on a marriage and my wife? 269 00:10:17,992 --> 00:10:19,702 {\an1}♪ ♪ 270 00:10:19,828 --> 00:10:21,658 {\an1}- Would you agree with that? 271 00:10:21,746 --> 00:10:24,246 {\an1}- I mean, we aren’t, like, kissing or anything like that, 272 00:10:24,332 --> 00:10:26,172 {\an1}just because I’m not there yet. 273 00:10:26,251 --> 00:10:27,881 {\an1}If I’m not feeling it, I’m not feeling it. 274 00:10:28,002 --> 00:10:30,592 {\an1}And that’s just because I am just somebody 275 00:10:30,672 --> 00:10:32,922 {\an1}that just goes off of an emotional connection. 276 00:10:33,007 --> 00:10:34,547 {\an1}Sometimes people forget the first month 277 00:10:34,676 --> 00:10:36,336 {\an1}that we had together and that it wasn’t great 278 00:10:36,427 --> 00:10:37,887 {\an1}and that we didn’t speak. 279 00:10:38,012 --> 00:10:44,232 {\an1}And if I’m being honest, there’s been two times 280 00:10:44,352 --> 00:10:47,312 {\an1}that I was, like, ready for a divorce 281 00:10:47,397 --> 00:10:49,357 {\an1}or where, like, I thought about a divorce. 282 00:10:49,440 --> 00:10:51,530 {\an1}♪ ♪ 283 00:10:51,609 --> 00:10:55,149 {\an1}- Look, every relationship has an adjustment period, 284 00:10:55,238 --> 00:10:57,778 {\an1}and so there’s no surprise 285 00:10:57,866 --> 00:10:59,776 {\an1}that your relationship had a rocky start. 286 00:10:59,868 --> 00:11:01,118 {\an1}- Yeah. - I-I’m not--I’m not 287 00:11:01,202 --> 00:11:02,912 {\an1}I don’t trip about that. - Yeah. 288 00:11:03,037 --> 00:11:04,207 {\an1}- But I look at the progression, 289 00:11:04,330 --> 00:11:06,960 {\an1}’cause you’re changing and he’s changing. 290 00:11:07,041 --> 00:11:12,711 {\an1}- I have this fear that I maybe won’t get there 291 00:11:12,839 --> 00:11:15,469 {\an1}romantically with him, but we hold hands. 292 00:11:15,550 --> 00:11:17,090 {\an1}You know, if we’re sitting next to each other, 293 00:11:17,218 --> 00:11:20,048 {\an1}I have my legs on him or I’m leaning on him. 294 00:11:20,138 --> 00:11:23,768 {\an1}I don’t ever snatch back my hand if he tries to, like... 295 00:11:23,892 --> 00:11:25,732 {\an1}- You cuddle? - Hold it. 296 00:11:25,810 --> 00:11:27,020 {\an1}You know, he did cuddle me the other day. 297 00:11:27,103 --> 00:11:28,353 {\an1}He--he touched my booty, 298 00:11:28,438 --> 00:11:30,228 {\an1}and I told him the next morning. 299 00:11:30,356 --> 00:11:31,766 {\an1}- What it a slap? 300 00:11:31,900 --> 00:11:36,820 {\an1}- No, like, I-I--he rolled over 301 00:11:36,905 --> 00:11:40,035 {\an1}and then, like, cuddled me, and then his hand was just-- 302 00:11:40,116 --> 00:11:41,326 {\an1}- Palmed it. 303 00:11:41,409 --> 00:11:44,579 {\an1}- Just a palm on my butt. And I was like-- 304 00:11:44,704 --> 00:11:45,914 {\an1}- Was that okay? 305 00:11:46,039 --> 00:11:47,289 {\an1}- Did you--did you tell him it was okay? 306 00:11:47,415 --> 00:11:48,665 {\an1}- I was just taken back. 307 00:11:48,750 --> 00:11:51,090 {\an1}Like, I woke up ’cause it was just like--like 308 00:11:51,169 --> 00:11:53,299 {\an1}it just randomly happened, but he was sleep. 309 00:11:53,421 --> 00:11:54,671 {\an1}- I was dead sleep. I swear. 310 00:11:54,756 --> 00:11:56,506 {\an1}- You were "asleep"? - I was sleep. 311 00:11:56,591 --> 00:11:59,801 {\an1}- And a pat on the booty is usually kind of fun. 312 00:11:59,928 --> 00:12:01,718 {\an1}So if you’re not feeling that way... 313 00:12:01,804 --> 00:12:05,274 {\an1}- I--when it happened, I wasn’t like, "Oh, hell no." 314 00:12:05,391 --> 00:12:06,811 {\an1}- Okay. So you were okay? 315 00:12:06,935 --> 00:12:08,235 {\an1}- Which is a step in the direct direction. 316 00:12:08,311 --> 00:12:09,521 {\an1}- Yeah, that’s a--yeah, it is. 317 00:12:09,604 --> 00:12:12,274 {\an1}Even though you were "unconscious." 318 00:12:12,357 --> 00:12:13,857 {\an1}- No, no quotations. I was sleep. 319 00:12:13,942 --> 00:12:15,282 {\an1}- You were asleep. Even though you were asleep. 320 00:12:15,360 --> 00:12:16,490 {\an1}Okay. 321 00:12:16,611 --> 00:12:19,321 {\an1}How did her reaction to that make you feel? 322 00:12:19,447 --> 00:12:22,577 {\an1}- Uh, she wasn’t really that taken back. 323 00:12:22,659 --> 00:12:23,869 {\an1}It was more just, like, 324 00:12:23,952 --> 00:12:25,372 {\an1}just let you know, this is what you did. 325 00:12:25,453 --> 00:12:26,623 {\an1}Wasn’t sure she wants to happen again. 326 00:12:26,704 --> 00:12:28,834 {\an1}It just was-- you know what I mean, like? 327 00:12:28,957 --> 00:12:30,707 {\an1}- Okay, but was it something that you felt, 328 00:12:30,792 --> 00:12:31,832 {\an1}like, was a mistake? 329 00:12:31,960 --> 00:12:33,880 {\an1}Like it should not happen again. 330 00:12:33,962 --> 00:12:35,672 {\an1}♪ ♪ 331 00:12:35,797 --> 00:12:38,127 {\an1}- No, I didn’t think that far. 332 00:12:38,216 --> 00:12:40,046 {\an1}- Is that a correct feeling? 333 00:12:40,134 --> 00:12:41,764 {\an1}- Yeah, we joke-- we joked around about it. 334 00:12:41,844 --> 00:12:43,394 {\an1}- Okay, I know you joke-- you joke about everything, 335 00:12:43,471 --> 00:12:44,641 {\an1}but I’m not talking about joking. 336 00:12:44,764 --> 00:12:46,224 {\an1}But was is it okay... - Yeah. 337 00:12:46,307 --> 00:12:48,097 {\an1}- With her, if you touch-- is it okay with you 338 00:12:48,184 --> 00:12:49,484 {\an1}if he touches your booty? 339 00:12:49,602 --> 00:12:51,942 {\an1}That’s all I’m saying. I’m sorry. 340 00:12:52,021 --> 00:12:54,821 {\an1}- Okay, okay, - I totally wanna know. 341 00:12:54,941 --> 00:12:56,071 {\an1}I-I wanna know as well. 342 00:12:56,150 --> 00:12:58,240 {\an1}- We’re all on the booty train here. 343 00:12:58,319 --> 00:12:59,739 {\an1}- [laughs] 344 00:12:59,821 --> 00:13:03,121 {\an1}- The booty train. Thank you, Pepper. 345 00:13:03,199 --> 00:13:04,409 {\an1}I don’t wanna make a big issue of it, 346 00:13:04,492 --> 00:13:05,992 {\an1}but do you understand what I’m saying? 347 00:13:06,077 --> 00:13:10,117 {\an1}’Cause the deep-- the deeper meaning here is, 348 00:13:10,206 --> 00:13:12,536 {\an1}is it okay to put him 349 00:13:12,667 --> 00:13:18,007 {\an1}to initiate unsolicited acts 350 00:13:18,089 --> 00:13:21,049 {\an1}of affection or intimacy? 351 00:13:21,175 --> 00:13:22,585 {\an1}- I think you--you would know 352 00:13:22,677 --> 00:13:25,467 {\an1}if it’s a-- if you can do that or not. 353 00:13:25,555 --> 00:13:27,145 {\an1}- The thing is I haven’t known. 354 00:13:27,223 --> 00:13:28,973 {\an1}That’s why I haven’t acted on it. 355 00:13:29,058 --> 00:13:32,388 {\an1}- I guess what we’re all saying here is that the intimacy 356 00:13:32,520 --> 00:13:35,230 {\an1}is not far removed from your relationship. 357 00:13:35,356 --> 00:13:40,566 {\an1}- But I do think that it’s still something that is not 358 00:13:40,695 --> 00:13:42,785 {\an1}making us feel 100% in this marriage. 359 00:13:42,864 --> 00:13:46,584 {\an1}- You know, we’ve seen couples after couple after couple 360 00:13:46,701 --> 00:13:48,081 {\an1}talk about, "Well, we’re friends. 361 00:13:48,202 --> 00:13:49,702 {\an1}We’re friends, we’re friends." 362 00:13:49,787 --> 00:13:51,497 {\an1}And I think that somewhat-- sometimes in our mind, 363 00:13:51,581 --> 00:13:56,001 {\an1}we have this--this separation between friends-married, 364 00:13:56,085 --> 00:13:58,875 {\an1}friends-married, friends-lovers. 365 00:13:58,963 --> 00:14:00,633 {\an1}And we all three of us are married. 366 00:14:00,715 --> 00:14:03,805 {\an1}And are you friends with your spouse? 367 00:14:03,885 --> 00:14:05,935 {\an1}- Definitely, I can be friends with my spouse. 368 00:14:06,054 --> 00:14:07,304 {\an1}- Are you friends with yours? 369 00:14:07,388 --> 00:14:09,138 {\an1}- On a good day, yeah. - Yeah, yeah. 370 00:14:09,223 --> 00:14:10,563 {\an1}[laughter] 371 00:14:10,683 --> 00:14:13,063 {\an1}- Yeah, and for me, my wife is my best friend, okay? 372 00:14:13,144 --> 00:14:14,354 {\an1}And so I-I want you to know 373 00:14:14,437 --> 00:14:19,357 {\an1}that the friend-romantic person is not exclusive, 374 00:14:19,442 --> 00:14:22,822 {\an1}and sometimes people can get stuck into one of those places 375 00:14:22,904 --> 00:14:25,074 {\an1}and say, "This is--this is who we are. 376 00:14:25,198 --> 00:14:26,408 {\an1}And this is where we are." 377 00:14:26,532 --> 00:14:29,542 {\an1}You know, but no, it does merge. 378 00:14:29,619 --> 00:14:31,289 {\an1}Don’t separate in your mind the difference between, okay, 379 00:14:31,412 --> 00:14:33,502 {\an1}we’re--we’re friends and that’s all we can-- 380 00:14:33,581 --> 00:14:36,211 {\an1}that’s--that’s crap. 381 00:14:36,292 --> 00:14:38,422 {\an1}- But it’s not us who makes the decision. 382 00:14:38,503 --> 00:14:39,503 {\an1}It’s you, guys. 383 00:14:39,587 --> 00:14:41,087 {\an1}- Oh, I like how she did that there. 384 00:14:41,172 --> 00:14:42,262 {\an1}- Nice segue. 385 00:14:42,382 --> 00:14:45,932 {\an1}- So the time has come, actually. 386 00:14:46,010 --> 00:14:48,800 {\an1}We thank you so much for sharing honestly, openly. 387 00:14:48,930 --> 00:14:51,220 {\an1}All of us are impressed with your commitment 388 00:14:51,307 --> 00:14:52,637 {\an1}to the process. 389 00:14:52,767 --> 00:14:56,437 {\an1}But the time has come for you to decide whether or not 390 00:14:56,521 --> 00:14:59,981 {\an1}you want to stay married or you want to get a divorce. 391 00:15:00,108 --> 00:15:02,988 {\an1}[suspenseful music] 392 00:15:03,111 --> 00:15:04,111 {\an1}♪ ♪ 393 00:15:04,195 --> 00:15:06,995 {\an1}- We have come a long way. 394 00:15:07,115 --> 00:15:09,375 {\an1}- Understatement. 395 00:15:09,450 --> 00:15:11,450 {\an1}- I didn’t think that 396 00:15:11,536 --> 00:15:16,326 {\an1}in the last month of our marriage, 397 00:15:16,457 --> 00:15:19,707 {\an1}I would even want to be around you. 398 00:15:19,794 --> 00:15:23,674 {\an1}But at the end of the day, I feel like this just... 399 00:15:23,798 --> 00:15:27,678 {\an1}♪ ♪ 400 00:15:27,802 --> 00:15:32,432 {\an1}I feel like I don’t-- I don’t know you enough. 401 00:15:32,515 --> 00:15:35,985 {\an1}- Yeah. - Um So... 402 00:15:36,060 --> 00:15:40,980 {\an1}♪ ♪ 403 00:15:44,902 --> 00:15:47,822 {\an1}- So, you know... 404 00:15:47,947 --> 00:15:50,157 {\an1}I want to get to know you more and stay married. 405 00:15:50,241 --> 00:15:52,331 {\an1}- That was the longest yes I’ve ever heard of. 406 00:15:52,452 --> 00:15:53,492 {\an1}- What’d she say? 407 00:15:53,578 --> 00:15:55,658 {\an1}- She says she wants to stay married. 408 00:15:55,746 --> 00:15:57,156 {\an1}[laughter] 409 00:15:57,248 --> 00:15:58,288 {\an1}Got her answer. - Okay. 410 00:15:58,374 --> 00:15:59,294 {\an1}- And now... 411 00:15:59,375 --> 00:16:03,335 {\an1}♪ ♪ 412 00:16:06,132 --> 00:16:09,132 {\an1}- Hi. - What’s up? 413 00:16:09,218 --> 00:16:11,178 {\an1}- Um... 414 00:16:11,262 --> 00:16:16,022 {\an1}I went into this marriage very serious. 415 00:16:16,142 --> 00:16:18,852 {\an1}I said I was gonna put 100% effort in. 416 00:16:18,936 --> 00:16:23,186 {\an1}And I feel like, 417 00:16:23,274 --> 00:16:26,154 {\an1}in this marriage, I’ve done everything I could. 418 00:16:26,235 --> 00:16:28,105 {\an1}And I think you have as well, and obviously, 419 00:16:28,196 --> 00:16:30,856 {\an1}we have one big elephant in the room in our marriage. 420 00:16:30,948 --> 00:16:35,198 {\an1}My biggest worry is, if we continue, 421 00:16:35,328 --> 00:16:36,698 {\an1}and what if we never get there? 422 00:16:36,787 --> 00:16:39,997 {\an1}That terrifies me, 423 00:16:40,082 --> 00:16:43,592 {\an1}but I’m not ready to walk away from this marriage. 424 00:16:43,711 --> 00:16:46,211 {\an1}[both chuckling] 425 00:16:46,297 --> 00:16:52,717 {\an1}That I feel like if we remove all of the cameras, 426 00:16:52,803 --> 00:16:59,353 {\an1}remove all the extra-ness that this situation puts us in, 427 00:16:59,435 --> 00:17:00,885 {\an1}I really feel like if we didn’t have 428 00:17:01,020 --> 00:17:03,400 {\an1}all the extra--extra ish, 429 00:17:03,481 --> 00:17:05,401 {\an1}this would probably be further along. 430 00:17:05,483 --> 00:17:06,573 {\an1}- I agree. 431 00:17:06,651 --> 00:17:08,241 {\an1}- So, Michael? - Yes. 432 00:17:08,319 --> 00:17:11,239 {\an1}- He hasn’t said it. Can you say it, please? 433 00:17:11,364 --> 00:17:12,414 {\an1}- Yes. 434 00:17:12,531 --> 00:17:13,912 {\an1}Yes, I wanna stay married to you. 435 00:17:14,032 --> 00:17:15,913 {\an1}both: Yes! 436 00:17:16,035 --> 00:17:17,535 {\an1}[laughter] - Yes, yes. 437 00:17:17,619 --> 00:17:19,869 {\an1}- Congratulations. 438 00:17:19,955 --> 00:17:21,996 {\an1}♪ ♪ 439 00:17:22,083 --> 00:17:25,042 {\an1}- I’m relieved that he didn’t say no to me, 440 00:17:25,127 --> 00:17:27,087 {\an1}’cause I was gon’ flip the table. 441 00:17:27,213 --> 00:17:29,343 {\an1}[cheers] 442 00:17:29,423 --> 00:17:31,973 {\an1}Now we can just spend time by ourselves 443 00:17:32,093 --> 00:17:33,343 {\an1}and truly work on our connection 444 00:17:33,427 --> 00:17:36,177 {\an1}without having other people involved in our life. 445 00:17:36,264 --> 00:17:37,604 {\an1}That’s the true test. 446 00:17:37,682 --> 00:17:40,102 {\an1}I see the potential in Michael and where we are 447 00:17:40,184 --> 00:17:42,774 {\an1}and how far we’ve come in the last month. 448 00:17:42,853 --> 00:17:46,363 {\an1}- You guys weathered the storm. 449 00:17:46,440 --> 00:17:49,280 {\an1}You’ve gone through some challenges, some hard times, 450 00:17:49,360 --> 00:17:52,780 {\an1}and you found out just the beginning 451 00:17:52,905 --> 00:17:54,905 {\an1}of how beautiful marriage can be. 452 00:17:54,991 --> 00:17:56,531 {\an1}And I only wish you success from here on out. 453 00:17:56,617 --> 00:17:57,737 {\an1}It’s gonna be awesome. - Cheers. 454 00:17:57,827 --> 00:17:58,867 {\an1}- Cheers to that. - Cheers. 455 00:17:58,953 --> 00:18:00,583 {\an1}- Cheers to this. - Yay! 456 00:18:00,663 --> 00:18:02,253 {\an1}- I’m feeling really good about my decision. 457 00:18:02,331 --> 00:18:04,961 {\an1}We have too much progress that has been made 458 00:18:05,084 --> 00:18:06,794 {\an1}and we have too much of a great foundation 459 00:18:06,877 --> 00:18:09,797 {\an1}for us to say bye to each other. 460 00:18:09,880 --> 00:18:11,720 {\an1}Of course, we have things to work through, 461 00:18:11,799 --> 00:18:14,469 {\an1}but we’ve been on the up and up for the past month. 462 00:18:14,552 --> 00:18:15,802 {\an1}Next steps for me and Jasmina 463 00:18:15,886 --> 00:18:17,506 {\an1}is to continue on the trajectory 464 00:18:17,638 --> 00:18:20,138 {\an1}that we--we have been on. 465 00:18:20,266 --> 00:18:22,176 {\an1}This is like our new day one. 466 00:18:22,310 --> 00:18:25,350 {\an1}This is like the real first start of our marriage. 467 00:18:25,479 --> 00:18:26,859 {\an1}- Go be married. 468 00:18:26,981 --> 00:18:29,481 {\an1}- ♪ Ooh, love you till the wheels fall off ♪ 469 00:18:29,567 --> 00:18:31,147 {\an1}♪ ♪ 470 00:18:31,277 --> 00:18:35,027 {\an1}♪ Never, never fall off ♪ 471 00:18:35,156 --> 00:18:37,066 {\an1}- ♪ Go too hard, too hype on the demo ♪ 472 00:18:37,158 --> 00:18:38,328 {\an1}♪ Left foot slide ♪ 473 00:18:38,451 --> 00:18:39,871 {\an1}♪ Right get it from the get-go ♪ 474 00:18:39,994 --> 00:18:41,544 {\an1}♪ Bento box, get loose, good drum roll ♪ 475 00:18:41,662 --> 00:18:44,002 {\an1}♪ Tempo, right, ring ring like hello ♪ 476 00:18:44,081 --> 00:18:45,751 {\an1}- This is a marriage that both of them 477 00:18:45,833 --> 00:18:47,293 {\an1}seemed very committed to. 478 00:18:47,376 --> 00:18:48,836 {\an1}They’ve worked through issues. 479 00:18:48,919 --> 00:18:50,669 {\an1}They’ve got all the makings of it. 480 00:18:50,796 --> 00:18:52,336 {\an1}- They’re getting in trouble about their future, 481 00:18:52,423 --> 00:18:53,673 {\an1}not the present. 482 00:18:53,758 --> 00:18:55,258 {\an1}- Well, exactly. It sounds like an excuse. 483 00:18:55,343 --> 00:18:57,343 {\an1}I mean, look, married people go to school. 484 00:18:57,470 --> 00:18:58,600 {\an1}Married people travel. 485 00:18:58,679 --> 00:19:01,469 {\an1}There has to be mutual compromise 486 00:19:01,557 --> 00:19:03,517 {\an1}or else it’s not going to work. 487 00:19:03,601 --> 00:19:05,351 {\an1}- I think this is a power play. 488 00:19:05,436 --> 00:19:08,806 {\an1}It seems like he is setting an expectation and testing her. 489 00:19:08,898 --> 00:19:11,108 {\an1}And if she passes it, he finds something else. 490 00:19:11,192 --> 00:19:12,902 {\an1}Another hoop for her to jump in. 491 00:19:13,027 --> 00:19:14,647 {\an1}I feel like that’s gonna get old for her. 492 00:19:14,737 --> 00:19:17,027 {\an1}And then she’s gonna be feeling either stuck 493 00:19:17,114 --> 00:19:18,494 {\an1}or she’s gonna have to run. 494 00:19:18,574 --> 00:19:20,204 {\an1}- It’s--it’s really a question of 495 00:19:20,284 --> 00:19:23,084 {\an1}seeing how they put together a life. 496 00:19:23,204 --> 00:19:25,584 {\an1}- This is gonna be tough. 497 00:19:25,706 --> 00:19:28,326 {\an1}- Katina and Olajuwon were both ready 498 00:19:28,417 --> 00:19:32,877 {\an1}to throw in the towel on their single partying lifestyle. 499 00:19:32,963 --> 00:19:35,053 {\an1}They’re a great match because they both 500 00:19:35,132 --> 00:19:37,052 {\an1}have fun-loving personalities 501 00:19:37,176 --> 00:19:40,176 {\an1}but are ready to settle down for themselves 502 00:19:40,262 --> 00:19:42,852 {\an1}and for their future children. 503 00:19:42,932 --> 00:19:47,022 {\an1}But Olajuwon has been very critical of Katina sometimes, 504 00:19:47,103 --> 00:19:51,983 {\an1}and Katina has been slow to be vulnerable and open up, 505 00:19:52,066 --> 00:19:54,896 {\an1}but growing trust and vulnerability 506 00:19:54,985 --> 00:19:56,395 {\an1}has brought them back together. 507 00:19:56,529 --> 00:20:00,409 {\an1}So I am hoping that they will continue along that path 508 00:20:00,533 --> 00:20:01,913 {\an1}and become the great couple 509 00:20:01,992 --> 00:20:05,202 {\an1}we always thought they could be. 510 00:20:05,287 --> 00:20:09,077 {\an1}- ♪ I didn’t know how hard I’d been hit ♪ 511 00:20:09,166 --> 00:20:10,456 {\an1}♪ ♪ 512 00:20:10,584 --> 00:20:12,924 {\an1}- You are beautiful. - Thank you. 513 00:20:13,003 --> 00:20:14,423 {\an1}My first impression of Olajuwon 514 00:20:14,505 --> 00:20:19,265 {\an1}was that he’s very handsome and he has a nice smile, 515 00:20:19,385 --> 00:20:22,265 {\an1}but also, he has a nice body. 516 00:20:22,346 --> 00:20:25,636 {\an1}- ♪ I feel when something comes easy ♪ 517 00:20:25,766 --> 00:20:27,886 {\an1}- I enjoy spending time with the Olajuwon 518 00:20:27,977 --> 00:20:29,437 {\an1}because we speak our own language. 519 00:20:29,562 --> 00:20:31,192 {\an1}- You look sexy. 520 00:20:31,272 --> 00:20:33,272 {\an1}[both laughing] 521 00:20:33,357 --> 00:20:34,437 {\an1}- Do you want kids? 522 00:20:34,525 --> 00:20:36,445 {\an1}- Yeah, in the future, in the future. 523 00:20:36,569 --> 00:20:38,279 {\an1}- Olajuwon is very big on family, 524 00:20:38,362 --> 00:20:39,952 {\an1}and I really like that about him. 525 00:20:40,072 --> 00:20:41,452 {\an1}Aww! 526 00:20:41,574 --> 00:20:43,914 {\an1}- I want you to know that this is real. 527 00:20:43,993 --> 00:20:46,453 {\an1}- He is attentive and thoughtful. 528 00:20:46,579 --> 00:20:49,079 {\an1}- And I hope this truly is a lifetime. 529 00:20:49,165 --> 00:20:50,625 {\an1}- Thank you. 530 00:20:50,750 --> 00:20:52,790 {\an1}I told the experts I didn’t want a passive man, 531 00:20:52,918 --> 00:20:54,798 {\an1}but I think I got more than I bargained for. 532 00:20:54,920 --> 00:20:56,420 {\an1}This is old. - The fact that 533 00:20:56,505 --> 00:20:58,915 {\an1}it’s still there on your phone, it’s spit in my face. 534 00:20:59,008 --> 00:21:00,628 {\an1}- Being married is more work than I thought. 535 00:21:00,760 --> 00:21:02,300 {\an1}- How much more do you have left in school? 536 00:21:02,386 --> 00:21:03,506 {\an1}- Two years. 537 00:21:03,637 --> 00:21:04,637 {\an1}- So how you gonna have kids in two years 538 00:21:04,764 --> 00:21:06,014 {\an1}if you’re just coming out of school? 539 00:21:06,140 --> 00:21:08,180 {\an1}- Olajuwon doesn’t think I can go to school 540 00:21:08,309 --> 00:21:10,309 {\an1}and be a wife, but I know what I’m capable of. 541 00:21:10,436 --> 00:21:13,146 {\an1}I can do it all, and if Olajuwon doesn’t believe that, 542 00:21:13,272 --> 00:21:14,732 {\an1}maybe he’s not the man for me. 543 00:21:14,815 --> 00:21:16,725 {\an1}This makes me feel like I’m not, like-- 544 00:21:16,817 --> 00:21:18,817 {\an1}like I’m not good enough. 545 00:21:18,944 --> 00:21:22,164 {\an1}But at the end of the day, Olajuwon is a good man. 546 00:21:22,239 --> 00:21:25,119 {\an1}And you got me roses. 547 00:21:25,201 --> 00:21:26,831 {\an1}He has a really big heart. 548 00:21:26,952 --> 00:21:28,502 {\an1}I know Olajuwon cares for me. 549 00:21:28,621 --> 00:21:29,961 {\an1}- I don’t think anybody could have made me feel 550 00:21:30,039 --> 00:21:32,709 {\an1}the way you made me feel or made me learn about myself. 551 00:21:32,833 --> 00:21:35,043 {\an1}So I see why the experts chose you. 552 00:21:35,169 --> 00:21:38,009 {\an1}- You gonna make me shed a tear. 553 00:21:38,088 --> 00:21:39,878 {\an1}- It’s true. For real. 554 00:21:40,007 --> 00:21:41,837 {\an1}For a new chapter, for love. 555 00:21:41,967 --> 00:21:43,297 {\an1}- [indistinct cheer] 556 00:21:43,385 --> 00:21:44,545 {\an1}- I wanted to get married 557 00:21:44,678 --> 00:21:46,008 {\an1}because I was tired of being a playboy 558 00:21:46,096 --> 00:21:47,716 {\an1}and giving my body to just anyone. 559 00:21:47,848 --> 00:21:51,178 {\an1}- ♪ Bottle, bottle, baby, bottle, bottle, baby ♪ 560 00:21:51,268 --> 00:21:53,188 {\an1}- When I first saw Katina, 561 00:21:53,270 --> 00:21:55,020 {\an1}my initial reaction is, "Wow, she’s beautiful." 562 00:21:55,105 --> 00:21:55,975 {\an1}You ready? 563 00:21:56,065 --> 00:21:58,325 {\an1}- Yeah. - Ooh. 564 00:21:58,400 --> 00:22:00,070 {\an1}- Mm-hmm. Thank you. - No problem. 565 00:22:00,194 --> 00:22:01,904 {\an1}Our chemistry is so easy. 566 00:22:02,029 --> 00:22:05,029 {\an1}It’s natural. She’s funny. 567 00:22:05,157 --> 00:22:07,487 {\an1}But I want a traditional wife. 568 00:22:07,576 --> 00:22:09,486 {\an1}Someone who enjoys cooking and cleaning. 569 00:22:09,578 --> 00:22:11,538 {\an1}When we talk about a wife level-- 570 00:22:11,664 --> 00:22:12,964 {\an1}- I know, and I un-- 571 00:22:13,040 --> 00:22:14,170 {\an1}- I need to see where you are as a woman. 572 00:22:14,250 --> 00:22:16,210 {\an1}I can’t settle with somebody 573 00:22:16,293 --> 00:22:19,253 {\an1}if I think they don’t have a base on just being a adult. 574 00:22:19,380 --> 00:22:22,050 {\an1}- You know what? I-I need a break. 575 00:22:22,174 --> 00:22:23,384 {\an1}- She’s getting better. 576 00:22:23,467 --> 00:22:25,087 {\an1}Morning. - Morning. 577 00:22:25,219 --> 00:22:26,719 {\an1}- But she’s not fully there yet. 578 00:22:26,846 --> 00:22:28,096 {\an1}- You’ve been saying like, "I wanna travel. 579 00:22:28,222 --> 00:22:29,852 {\an1}I wanna travel." 580 00:22:29,932 --> 00:22:32,182 {\an1}This makes it feel like we’re away from home. 581 00:22:32,268 --> 00:22:34,348 {\an1}- Katina wants to travel, become a mom, 582 00:22:34,436 --> 00:22:35,896 {\an1}and finish school. 583 00:22:36,021 --> 00:22:38,071 {\an1}But if she’s doing all those things, how can I be sure 584 00:22:38,148 --> 00:22:40,898 {\an1}that she is going to make me happy every single day? 585 00:22:41,026 --> 00:22:44,526 {\an1}When you start going to school and all that stuff, 586 00:22:44,613 --> 00:22:46,533 {\an1}you have to put it to the light that it will be tough. 587 00:22:46,615 --> 00:22:47,775 {\an1}I really care for Katina, 588 00:22:47,908 --> 00:22:49,278 {\an1}but if we can’t get on the same page, 589 00:22:49,410 --> 00:22:51,200 {\an1}we’re gonna have to end this chapter. 590 00:22:51,287 --> 00:22:53,497 {\an1}This is our lives. 591 00:22:53,581 --> 00:22:55,371 {\an1}We gotta make our own decisions, 592 00:22:55,457 --> 00:22:58,247 {\an1}based off what we think is best for us. 593 00:22:58,377 --> 00:23:02,087 {\an1}- ♪ Breathing, keep breathing, oh ♪ 594 00:23:05,926 --> 00:23:08,846 {\an1}[dramatic music] 595 00:23:08,929 --> 00:23:11,139 {\an1}♪ ♪ 596 00:23:16,770 --> 00:23:18,610 {\an1}- Hey, there. Hello. - How are you doing? 597 00:23:18,689 --> 00:23:20,069 {\an1}- All right. - What’s up young man? 598 00:23:20,149 --> 00:23:21,359 {\an1}- How you doing, brother? 599 00:23:21,442 --> 00:23:22,442 {\an1}- Good to see you, man. - How are you doing? 600 00:23:22,568 --> 00:23:23,488 {\an1}- I’m good. - Yeah. 601 00:23:23,611 --> 00:23:24,611 {\an1}- Gosh, you’re all so well-dressed. 602 00:23:24,695 --> 00:23:26,615 {\an1}- I know. You look so lovely. 603 00:23:26,697 --> 00:23:27,657 {\an1}- Hello, there. - Hi. 604 00:23:27,781 --> 00:23:29,571 {\an1}- Wow. - Have a seat. 605 00:23:29,658 --> 00:23:30,778 {\an1}- All right. - Well, look at you. 606 00:23:30,910 --> 00:23:33,290 {\an1}You--you changed your hairstyle since-- 607 00:23:33,412 --> 00:23:34,792 {\an1}- Yeah, a lot. - I like it. 608 00:23:34,872 --> 00:23:36,002 {\an1}- Yeah, I know. 609 00:23:36,123 --> 00:23:38,003 {\an1}This whole process changed me. For real. 610 00:23:38,125 --> 00:23:39,785 {\an1}- It’s great place to start. - Welcome to marriage. 611 00:23:39,919 --> 00:23:41,169 {\an1}- Yeah. - Yeah. 612 00:23:41,295 --> 00:23:45,015 {\an1}- Hey, there she is. You better--you better walk. 613 00:23:45,132 --> 00:23:46,472 {\an1}- Yeah. - Look at that smile. 614 00:23:46,550 --> 00:23:47,800 {\an1}- Looking pretty good, huh? 615 00:23:47,885 --> 00:23:50,685 {\an1}- She brought it. - Hey. How are you? 616 00:23:50,804 --> 00:23:52,144 {\an1}Within the past eight weeks, 617 00:23:52,264 --> 00:23:54,564 {\an1}I’ve definitely grown closer to Olajuwon. 618 00:23:54,642 --> 00:23:57,522 {\an1}I feel like our relationship is on a incline. 619 00:23:57,645 --> 00:23:59,405 {\an1}Wait, incline? Is that--okay. 620 00:23:59,480 --> 00:24:00,650 {\an1}On a incline, 621 00:24:00,731 --> 00:24:02,771 {\an1}but I’m concerned 622 00:24:02,858 --> 00:24:07,148 {\an1}just maybe the differences in where we are in life 623 00:24:07,237 --> 00:24:09,947 {\an1}might be a deal-breaker. 624 00:24:10,032 --> 00:24:14,242 {\an1}- This is Decision Day, and I know it’s been a long journey. 625 00:24:14,328 --> 00:24:16,248 {\an1}So how you feeling today? 626 00:24:16,330 --> 00:24:18,370 {\an1}[soft music] 627 00:24:18,499 --> 00:24:19,829 {\an1}- This is the longest I’ve been away from you... 628 00:24:19,959 --> 00:24:20,919 {\an1}- Yeah. - Since we’ve been married. 629 00:24:21,001 --> 00:24:22,001 {\an1}- Yeah, yeah. 630 00:24:22,127 --> 00:24:24,877 {\an1}- Did you find yourself missing him? 631 00:24:25,005 --> 00:24:27,165 {\an1}- Mm... - You can be honest with her. 632 00:24:28,842 --> 00:24:31,892 {\an1}- Yeah. - How does it feel to see her? 633 00:24:32,012 --> 00:24:33,852 {\an1}- It feels good. It feels good. 634 00:24:33,973 --> 00:24:35,273 {\an1}It’s always good to see you. 635 00:24:35,349 --> 00:24:36,769 {\an1}I always smile when I see you. You know that. 636 00:24:36,850 --> 00:24:38,020 {\an1}- Mm-hmm. 637 00:24:38,143 --> 00:24:40,353 {\an1}♪ ♪ 638 00:24:40,437 --> 00:24:42,687 {\an1}- I love that. That’s awesome. 639 00:24:42,815 --> 00:24:45,535 {\an1}What have been some of the best things 640 00:24:45,651 --> 00:24:48,361 {\an1}that you’ve experienced in this marriage? 641 00:24:48,445 --> 00:24:50,525 {\an1}- Just, like, the time that we spend together, 642 00:24:50,614 --> 00:24:52,744 {\an1}the way that we laugh with each other, 643 00:24:52,866 --> 00:24:55,116 {\an1}and how you get me out of my comfort zone. 644 00:24:55,202 --> 00:24:57,752 {\an1}For me, it was like the--when we did the horse-riding, 645 00:24:57,871 --> 00:25:00,001 {\an1}that was, like, all over the place, 646 00:25:00,082 --> 00:25:01,252 {\an1}but then when we did it-- 647 00:25:01,375 --> 00:25:02,675 {\an1}something else with the animals, 648 00:25:02,751 --> 00:25:04,591 {\an1}I got to see, like, my growth and, like, 649 00:25:04,712 --> 00:25:06,802 {\an1}it was more of, like, a fun experience. 650 00:25:06,880 --> 00:25:09,930 {\an1}And then I would say the gondola ride that we had. 651 00:25:10,050 --> 00:25:13,300 {\an1}- The "gonjola" ride was definitely--was--was amazing. 652 00:25:13,387 --> 00:25:15,057 {\an1}It was amazing. I told her I like to travel, 653 00:25:15,139 --> 00:25:16,719 {\an1}and I never did a "gonjola" ride. 654 00:25:16,849 --> 00:25:17,809 {\an1}Surprised I’m saying that right. 655 00:25:17,891 --> 00:25:18,981 {\an1}[laughs] - Oh. 656 00:25:19,059 --> 00:25:22,899 {\an1}- And she brought Italy to Boston. 657 00:25:23,022 --> 00:25:23,902 {\an1}- Wow, that’s very cool. 658 00:25:24,023 --> 00:25:24,943 {\an1}- Yeah. - Love it. 659 00:25:25,065 --> 00:25:26,265 {\an1}- Very cool. - Yeah, that’s deep. 660 00:25:26,400 --> 00:25:29,950 {\an1}- And what have been some of the tougher moments? 661 00:25:30,070 --> 00:25:32,240 {\an1}- Some of the tougher moments I would definitely say 662 00:25:32,364 --> 00:25:34,244 {\an1}was when I felt embarrassment, 663 00:25:34,324 --> 00:25:37,414 {\an1}because he saw an app on my phone. 664 00:25:37,494 --> 00:25:40,004 {\an1}You know, I feel like that was, like, one of, 665 00:25:40,080 --> 00:25:43,420 {\an1}like, our bigger arguments that we got into. 666 00:25:43,500 --> 00:25:44,580 {\an1}- I think that would be it. 667 00:25:44,668 --> 00:25:46,918 {\an1}I mean, it was definitely the app. 668 00:25:47,004 --> 00:25:49,924 {\an1}Definitely that situation, but also it showed us that 669 00:25:50,007 --> 00:25:51,927 {\an1}there’s growth from it too. 670 00:25:52,009 --> 00:25:53,089 {\an1}I mean, she got to see 671 00:25:53,177 --> 00:25:54,757 {\an1}that she has a husband that cares. 672 00:25:54,887 --> 00:25:56,257 {\an1}I think that might’ve been a test. 673 00:25:56,388 --> 00:25:57,678 {\an1}I think everything happens for a reason, right? 674 00:25:57,765 --> 00:25:59,025 {\an1}- Absolutely. 675 00:25:59,099 --> 00:26:01,769 {\an1}- But it showed that anything can be fixed. 676 00:26:01,852 --> 00:26:04,942 {\an1}- I’m glad you said that. Anything can be fixed. 677 00:26:05,022 --> 00:26:06,272 {\an1}- Some things. [laughter] 678 00:26:06,398 --> 00:26:07,818 {\an1}- He said--remember that line. 679 00:26:07,941 --> 00:26:09,281 {\an1}- No, no, no. 680 00:26:09,359 --> 00:26:10,649 {\an1}Those situations can be fixed. 681 00:26:10,778 --> 00:26:12,778 {\an1}- I was gonna do "Married at First Sight" t-shirts. 682 00:26:12,863 --> 00:26:15,123 {\an1}"Anything can be fixed." I like that. 683 00:26:15,199 --> 00:26:17,119 {\an1}- Hey, you know, that was--that was fixed. 684 00:26:17,201 --> 00:26:19,791 {\an1}It was crazy. - You--you said it. 685 00:26:19,870 --> 00:26:22,080 {\an1}- Have you felt like the closeness 686 00:26:22,164 --> 00:26:25,254 {\an1}between the two of you has grown? 687 00:26:25,334 --> 00:26:26,634 {\an1}- Absolutely. 688 00:26:26,752 --> 00:26:28,802 {\an1}Our connection definitely has grown. 689 00:26:28,879 --> 00:26:31,339 {\an1}Our connection is very genuine, 690 00:26:31,465 --> 00:26:33,975 {\an1}it’s beautiful, and it’s real. 691 00:26:34,093 --> 00:26:36,093 {\an1}Because the chemistry is there--our chemistry-- 692 00:26:36,178 --> 00:26:38,808 {\an1}you ask me, I think we have one of the strongest chemistry. 693 00:26:38,889 --> 00:26:40,309 {\an1}- But from what I’ve gathered, 694 00:26:40,432 --> 00:26:43,982 {\an1}you have held off with your physical intimacy. 695 00:26:44,061 --> 00:26:46,441 {\an1}What do you think that’s about, and how has it-- 696 00:26:46,522 --> 00:26:48,402 {\an1}how do you think it’s affected your marriage? 697 00:26:50,192 --> 00:26:52,822 {\an1}- I honestly think it--it made our marriage stronger. 698 00:26:52,903 --> 00:26:54,993 {\an1}You know, you-- you give yourself away 699 00:26:55,072 --> 00:26:58,162 {\an1}and you stop caring about who you are as a person. 700 00:26:58,283 --> 00:27:00,493 {\an1}But I’m pretty sure that she wanted to. 701 00:27:00,577 --> 00:27:01,827 {\an1}That’s why, you know, 702 00:27:01,954 --> 00:27:03,334 {\an1}we had our--I was in the shower, I let her, 703 00:27:03,413 --> 00:27:04,503 {\an1}she just looked at me and things like that. 704 00:27:04,623 --> 00:27:06,003 {\an1}And it’s okay, ’cause that’s my wife. 705 00:27:06,125 --> 00:27:07,675 {\an1}[laughter] 706 00:27:07,793 --> 00:27:09,673 {\an1}And I--so I know the desire was there, 707 00:27:09,795 --> 00:27:10,925 {\an1}she knows my desire was there, 708 00:27:11,004 --> 00:27:13,014 {\an1}but at--there’s a point where I--for myself, 709 00:27:13,090 --> 00:27:17,010 {\an1}I just felt like, do something you’ve never, never done. 710 00:27:17,094 --> 00:27:19,724 {\an1}Meet this girl on a spiritual, mental level. 711 00:27:19,847 --> 00:27:21,847 {\an1}And you can’t do that if I just give my body. 712 00:27:21,974 --> 00:27:23,184 {\an1}I’m just being honest with you guys. 713 00:27:23,308 --> 00:27:25,058 {\an1}I know myself, and if I’d done it, 714 00:27:25,185 --> 00:27:26,725 {\an1}we wouldn’t have this type of chemistry. 715 00:27:26,854 --> 00:27:28,864 {\an1}It wouldn’t have been there. I know it sounds crazy-- 716 00:27:28,939 --> 00:27:29,859 {\an1}- No. - No. 717 00:27:29,982 --> 00:27:31,022 {\an1}- But I know myself. 718 00:27:31,150 --> 00:27:32,570 {\an1}I have to--I have to care about this person 719 00:27:32,693 --> 00:27:34,073 {\an1}before I-I start touching this person. 720 00:27:34,194 --> 00:27:35,534 {\an1}- That’s perfectly okay. 721 00:27:35,654 --> 00:27:37,414 {\an1}- I think that we’re definitely at the point 722 00:27:37,531 --> 00:27:40,531 {\an1}where, like, it would-- it could happen. 723 00:27:40,659 --> 00:27:45,079 {\an1}We still--we made it to the end, but if we say yes 724 00:27:45,205 --> 00:27:47,865 {\an1}then I’m sure, next time you guys see me, 725 00:27:47,958 --> 00:27:49,378 {\an1}I’ll be like, "Hey." 726 00:27:49,501 --> 00:27:51,711 {\an1}[laughter] 727 00:27:51,837 --> 00:27:53,417 {\an1}- This is all great. 728 00:27:53,547 --> 00:27:56,797 {\an1}I’m just curious, when I visited you last week, 729 00:27:56,884 --> 00:27:59,434 {\an1}there seemed to be a serious stumbling block 730 00:27:59,553 --> 00:28:05,143 {\an1}about timing schedules between having a child, 731 00:28:05,225 --> 00:28:08,395 {\an1}traveling, and finishing your education. 732 00:28:08,520 --> 00:28:10,190 {\an1}Have you made any progress? 733 00:28:10,272 --> 00:28:14,902 {\an1}- I definitely wouldn’t compromise on my education. 734 00:28:15,027 --> 00:28:16,397 {\an1}I can still travel with you, 735 00:28:16,528 --> 00:28:18,738 {\an1}but it might not be twice a month like you want. 736 00:28:18,864 --> 00:28:22,584 {\an1}And then children, I want children in two years, 737 00:28:22,659 --> 00:28:25,749 {\an1}but I’m not pressed to have a child within two years. 738 00:28:25,871 --> 00:28:27,911 {\an1}I’m more so saying like, okay, two years, 739 00:28:27,998 --> 00:28:29,078 {\an1}see what life is like, 740 00:28:29,208 --> 00:28:31,288 {\an1}and then if it fits in, then, okay, 741 00:28:31,418 --> 00:28:33,168 {\an1}I’d be willing to have a child. 742 00:28:33,253 --> 00:28:34,803 {\an1}And if it doesn’t and then we have to wait a year, 743 00:28:34,922 --> 00:28:36,092 {\an1}like, okay. 744 00:28:36,173 --> 00:28:38,263 {\an1}♪ ♪ 745 00:28:38,342 --> 00:28:39,932 {\an1}- All this is in the future, right? 746 00:28:40,052 --> 00:28:42,102 {\an1}So we can’t really say how things are gonna be perfect. 747 00:28:42,179 --> 00:28:44,309 {\an1}It’s not gonna be perfect, but these are the things 748 00:28:44,431 --> 00:28:47,141 {\an1}that we got to figure out. 749 00:28:47,267 --> 00:28:48,687 {\an1}- How have you guys been doing? 750 00:28:48,769 --> 00:28:51,439 {\an1}I mean, have you guys started to define your own roles 751 00:28:51,563 --> 00:28:53,483 {\an1}and your own place in the relationship? 752 00:28:53,607 --> 00:28:55,937 {\an1}Do you feel comfortable? 753 00:28:56,818 --> 00:29:00,238 {\an1}- He’s definitely is, like, a traditional man 754 00:29:00,322 --> 00:29:04,032 {\an1}where he wants, like, his wife to cook and clean. 755 00:29:04,117 --> 00:29:06,537 {\an1}- We struggled on that because I have to make sure 756 00:29:06,620 --> 00:29:08,000 {\an1}when I come home, my kids could eat, 757 00:29:08,121 --> 00:29:09,541 {\an1}I could eat, and we could go to bed. 758 00:29:09,623 --> 00:29:11,963 {\an1}But that’s a big sacrifice for me, 759 00:29:12,042 --> 00:29:15,592 {\an1}’cause Katina doesn’t have that skill. 760 00:29:15,671 --> 00:29:17,461 {\an1}- What do you mean? - She doesn’t cook? 761 00:29:17,589 --> 00:29:18,879 {\an1}- No, as in like-- - ’Cause she can’t cook. 762 00:29:18,966 --> 00:29:21,216 {\an1}- Yeah, she can’t cook. - That’s not true. 763 00:29:21,301 --> 00:29:22,471 {\an1}- When you say she can’t cook, do you mean 764 00:29:22,594 --> 00:29:23,974 {\an1}she can’t cook well? 765 00:29:24,096 --> 00:29:25,676 {\an1}- No, like it’s--it has to be edible. 766 00:29:25,806 --> 00:29:28,806 {\an1}- I’m no chef, but my food is edible. 767 00:29:28,934 --> 00:29:30,144 {\an1}♪ ♪ 768 00:29:30,227 --> 00:29:31,977 {\an1}- The last meal I had was not edible. 769 00:29:32,062 --> 00:29:33,402 {\an1}- Olajuwon, I want you 770 00:29:33,480 --> 00:29:35,520 {\an1}to choose your words very carefully, okay? 771 00:29:35,649 --> 00:29:36,979 {\an1}- ♪ I’m lying to myself ♪ 772 00:29:37,109 --> 00:29:39,569 {\an1}♪ If I say I know where this is going ♪ 773 00:29:39,653 --> 00:29:41,493 {\an1}♪ ♪ 774 00:29:45,325 --> 00:29:46,615 {\an1}- [chuckling] Olajuwon, I want you 775 00:29:46,702 --> 00:29:47,702 {\an1}to choose your words very carefully. 776 00:29:47,828 --> 00:29:49,078 {\an1}- ’Cause I know this is important to you-- 777 00:29:49,162 --> 00:29:50,582 {\an1}- No, important to me. 778 00:29:50,664 --> 00:29:51,624 {\an1}- You know, so I’m not minimizing it. 779 00:29:51,707 --> 00:29:52,787 {\an1}- Yes, I’m not--yeah. 780 00:29:52,874 --> 00:29:53,964 {\an1}- But I’m saying it’s solvable. 781 00:29:54,042 --> 00:29:54,832 {\an1}When I’m thinking of marriages, I think, 782 00:29:54,960 --> 00:29:56,500 {\an1}what’s solvable and what isn’t? 783 00:29:56,628 --> 00:29:58,168 {\an1}- This is something that I gotta make a decision on 784 00:29:58,255 --> 00:29:59,515 {\an1}myself, but there’s-- there’s nobody 785 00:29:59,589 --> 00:30:01,009 {\an1}who could tell me anything. 786 00:30:01,091 --> 00:30:02,681 {\an1}If my mind’s met, it’s met, it doesn’t, you know-- 787 00:30:02,759 --> 00:30:05,469 {\an1}if it hurts people’s feelings, it is what it is. 788 00:30:05,554 --> 00:30:07,314 {\an1}We have respect for each other, 789 00:30:07,389 --> 00:30:09,969 {\an1}but we’re just not being met with each other right now. 790 00:30:10,058 --> 00:30:13,018 {\an1}That sound harsh? 791 00:30:13,145 --> 00:30:15,565 {\an1}- If you value and respect each other, 792 00:30:15,689 --> 00:30:17,019 {\an1}whenever you have a problem, 793 00:30:17,149 --> 00:30:19,689 {\an1}don’t attach the problem to the person. 794 00:30:19,818 --> 00:30:21,528 {\an1}How have you guys been doing as far as, 795 00:30:21,653 --> 00:30:23,243 {\an1}I know you talked about the cooking and everything, 796 00:30:23,363 --> 00:30:25,953 {\an1}but as far as, you know, how you fit into the marriage 797 00:30:26,033 --> 00:30:27,873 {\an1}as--as a wife? 798 00:30:27,993 --> 00:30:29,703 {\an1}- I was looking forward to doing, 799 00:30:29,828 --> 00:30:31,248 {\an1}like, traditional things. 800 00:30:31,371 --> 00:30:34,871 {\an1}At the same time, it is, like, a 50-50 relationship 801 00:30:35,000 --> 00:30:38,210 {\an1}where, you know, I don’t need to cook every day. 802 00:30:38,295 --> 00:30:41,015 {\an1}Like, I know what I’m capable of and that’s all 803 00:30:41,089 --> 00:30:44,969 {\an1}I can--I feel like that’s all I can really say. 804 00:30:45,052 --> 00:30:46,222 {\an1}- I-I guess I’m more traditional 805 00:30:46,303 --> 00:30:47,723 {\an1}than I thought I was. 806 00:30:47,804 --> 00:30:49,514 {\an1}We made sacrifices in-- 807 00:30:49,598 --> 00:30:52,558 {\an1}in certain areas, but it’s still up in the air 808 00:30:52,642 --> 00:30:56,352 {\an1}as if, was the sacrifice big enough? 809 00:30:56,438 --> 00:31:01,398 {\an1}- It’s up to you guys to decide your future. 810 00:31:01,485 --> 00:31:04,035 {\an1}- We hope everything you’ve learned has led you 811 00:31:04,112 --> 00:31:07,782 {\an1}to make the right decision. 812 00:31:07,908 --> 00:31:11,238 {\an1}Do you want to stay married or get a divorce? 813 00:31:11,370 --> 00:31:15,160 {\an1}[suspenseful music] 814 00:31:15,248 --> 00:31:20,248 {\an1}- So, you know, I enjoy my time with you, 815 00:31:20,337 --> 00:31:23,757 {\an1}and I feel a bond with you, and even though 816 00:31:23,882 --> 00:31:26,052 {\an1}you feel like our timelines aren’t matching up, 817 00:31:26,134 --> 00:31:29,304 {\an1}I feel like it’s not--for me, it’s not a deal-breaker. 818 00:31:29,429 --> 00:31:30,759 {\an1}[soft music] 819 00:31:30,889 --> 00:31:34,229 {\an1}So my decision is, you know, I wanna stay married to you, 820 00:31:34,309 --> 00:31:38,609 {\an1}because I feel like our marriage needs more time 821 00:31:38,730 --> 00:31:39,980 {\an1}than just the eight weeks. 822 00:31:40,107 --> 00:31:43,227 {\an1}- Hmm. - Wow. 823 00:31:43,318 --> 00:31:45,188 {\an1}- Olajuwon. 824 00:31:45,278 --> 00:31:47,988 {\an1}- [clears throat] 825 00:31:48,115 --> 00:31:49,825 {\an1}Hope you take this the right way. 826 00:31:49,950 --> 00:31:51,120 {\an1}- Okay. 827 00:31:51,201 --> 00:31:55,201 {\an1}- Um, when I came into this marriage, 828 00:31:55,288 --> 00:32:00,128 {\an1}I asked for a woman who’s more established in life, 829 00:32:00,210 --> 00:32:02,130 {\an1}and those are the reasons why I would say no today. 830 00:32:02,212 --> 00:32:08,972 {\an1}♪ ♪ 831 00:32:09,094 --> 00:32:11,764 {\an1}But I will say this. 832 00:32:11,847 --> 00:32:14,967 {\an1}I love our chemistry, 833 00:32:15,100 --> 00:32:17,310 {\an1}I love who you are as a person, 834 00:32:17,436 --> 00:32:19,476 {\an1}I love to be around you, 835 00:32:19,563 --> 00:32:23,613 {\an1}and your effort is what made me overlook all those things. 836 00:32:23,692 --> 00:32:25,362 {\an1}My dad used to always tell me 837 00:32:25,485 --> 00:32:28,195 {\an1}you don’t always need to know what’s next for you. 838 00:32:28,321 --> 00:32:30,071 {\an1}Sometimes you need to live in the moment 839 00:32:30,157 --> 00:32:32,827 {\an1}and enjoy the people around you. 840 00:32:32,951 --> 00:32:35,331 {\an1}And I said this before I got married. 841 00:32:35,454 --> 00:32:36,704 {\an1}I think my dad have-- 842 00:32:36,830 --> 00:32:38,330 {\an1}has made me go through this process, 843 00:32:38,457 --> 00:32:40,327 {\an1}and he has chosen the woman for me. 844 00:32:40,417 --> 00:32:41,667 {\an1}I don’t think any of you guys know, 845 00:32:41,793 --> 00:32:44,053 {\an1}today’s my dad’s birthday. 846 00:32:44,171 --> 00:32:47,051 {\an1}[somber music] 847 00:32:47,174 --> 00:32:54,184 {\an1}♪ ♪ 848 00:33:01,855 --> 00:33:05,735 {\an1}- Yeah, me too. - Thank you. Thank you. 849 00:33:05,859 --> 00:33:08,699 {\an1}- There’s no way I could ignore your effort. 850 00:33:08,820 --> 00:33:10,150 {\an1}I would rather have a girl 851 00:33:10,238 --> 00:33:12,198 {\an1}who--who doesn’t have anything, 852 00:33:12,282 --> 00:33:14,282 {\an1}who will try to make everything 853 00:33:14,367 --> 00:33:16,657 {\an1}than to be with somebody who has everything 854 00:33:16,745 --> 00:33:19,545 {\an1}and doesn’t show any effort. 855 00:33:19,623 --> 00:33:21,963 {\an1}And my respect level is so high for you, 856 00:33:22,042 --> 00:33:23,712 {\an1}it’s like, why would I walk away 857 00:33:23,835 --> 00:33:25,205 {\an1}and give it to somebody else? 858 00:33:25,295 --> 00:33:27,555 {\an1}Why would I let you walk away? 859 00:33:27,672 --> 00:33:33,642 {\an1}So it means a lot to me to say 860 00:33:33,720 --> 00:33:37,020 {\an1}that I would love to continue my marriage with you. 861 00:33:37,098 --> 00:33:42,058 {\an1}♪ ♪ 862 00:33:42,187 --> 00:33:43,727 {\an1}- Man, you mess-- 863 00:33:43,813 --> 00:33:45,573 {\an1}you--you mess me up. 864 00:33:45,690 --> 00:33:47,070 {\an1}- You had me scared. 865 00:33:47,150 --> 00:33:49,440 {\an1}I was like, "Oh, [bleep], here it comes." 866 00:33:49,569 --> 00:33:51,649 {\an1}For this to be the Decision Day 867 00:33:51,738 --> 00:33:53,738 {\an1}and also his father’s birthday, 868 00:33:53,865 --> 00:33:55,235 {\an1}it just feels right. 869 00:33:55,325 --> 00:33:57,245 {\an1}So I’m like, I was a wife before, 870 00:33:57,327 --> 00:33:59,697 {\an1}but now I’m really a wife. 871 00:33:59,788 --> 00:34:01,248 {\an1}It’s the beginning of a new story, 872 00:34:01,331 --> 00:34:02,871 {\an1}a new chapter in my life. 873 00:34:02,958 --> 00:34:05,418 {\an1}[laughter] 874 00:34:05,502 --> 00:34:06,712 {\an1}- You know, we’re over the hump. 875 00:34:06,795 --> 00:34:08,505 {\an1}We both made our decision. It’s finalized. 876 00:34:08,588 --> 00:34:10,208 {\an1}I got a ring on at the end of this day. 877 00:34:10,297 --> 00:34:12,628 {\an1}Katina still continues with her ring. 878 00:34:12,759 --> 00:34:14,929 {\an1}- Whoo! - Yeah, man. 879 00:34:15,011 --> 00:34:16,101 {\an1}It’s time to reach the next level with Katina. 880 00:34:16,221 --> 00:34:18,391 {\an1}Get the bottle, baby. We on, we going. 881 00:34:18,473 --> 00:34:19,603 {\an1}[laughs] 882 00:34:19,724 --> 00:34:23,603 {\an1}- ♪ We’re getting closer, oh, oh ♪ 883 00:34:23,687 --> 00:34:27,766 {\an1}- The fact that you came here today and chose this love, 884 00:34:27,857 --> 00:34:32,147 {\an1}this lifetime together, I’m just so happy for you, 885 00:34:32,279 --> 00:34:36,069 {\an1}but also, I just feel like you’ve earned it. 886 00:34:36,157 --> 00:34:37,117 {\an1}- Oh, yeah. 887 00:34:37,242 --> 00:34:40,621 {\an1}- You earned this love, so congrats. 888 00:34:40,745 --> 00:34:42,114 {\an1}- ♪ To know that I was capable ♪ 889 00:34:42,205 --> 00:34:43,655 {\an1}all: Cheers! 890 00:34:43,790 --> 00:34:46,080 {\an1}- ♪ Unmistakable love ♪ 891 00:34:46,167 --> 00:34:48,456 {\an1}♪ ♪ 892 00:34:48,545 --> 00:34:50,135 {\an1}- Congratulations, guys. 893 00:34:50,213 --> 00:34:51,382 {\an1}You guys look so good together. 894 00:34:51,464 --> 00:34:52,804 {\an1}It’s awesome. 895 00:34:52,924 --> 00:34:53,934 {\an1}Well, look, guys. Here, take this with you. 896 00:34:54,009 --> 00:34:54,969 {\an1}- I was gonna say, can we take that? 897 00:34:55,051 --> 00:34:56,011 {\an1}- And here’s the cork. 898 00:34:56,136 --> 00:34:57,466 {\an1}- Thank you. - All right, guys. 899 00:34:57,554 --> 00:34:59,434 {\an1}- Here’s the cork. - Yes, thank you. 900 00:34:59,514 --> 00:35:01,274 {\an1}- So long. - Oh, my gosh. 901 00:35:01,349 --> 00:35:02,599 {\an1}Go do what married folk do. 902 00:35:02,684 --> 00:35:05,814 {\an1}- Yes. - Yes. 903 00:35:05,895 --> 00:35:06,975 {\an1}- ♪ I fell in love, yeah ♪ 904 00:35:10,859 --> 00:35:12,939 {\an1}- ♪ You’re one of a kind ♪ 905 00:35:13,028 --> 00:35:15,948 {\an1}♪ One of a kind ♪ 906 00:35:16,031 --> 00:35:18,571 {\an1}- Noi and Steven, they have struggled. 907 00:35:18,658 --> 00:35:20,488 {\an1}Because he wasn’t working, 908 00:35:20,577 --> 00:35:22,867 {\an1}she felt he should do all of the housework. 909 00:35:22,996 --> 00:35:24,156 {\an1}- Yeah, for him to step in there 910 00:35:24,289 --> 00:35:26,539 {\an1}and not have a plan, a financial plan, 911 00:35:26,666 --> 00:35:28,536 {\an1}was kind of freaking her out. I think that’s been 912 00:35:28,668 --> 00:35:30,288 {\an1}the biggest struggle in their relationship. 913 00:35:30,378 --> 00:35:31,498 {\an1}- I don’t blame her. 914 00:35:31,630 --> 00:35:33,170 {\an1}- No, I don’t either. I don’t either. No. 915 00:35:33,298 --> 00:35:37,298 {\an1}- And I think it is up to him to reassure her with plans. 916 00:35:37,385 --> 00:35:41,175 {\an1}- She told him, "I need to see you working." 917 00:35:41,306 --> 00:35:44,636 {\an1}That never happened, so now resentment and fear 918 00:35:44,726 --> 00:35:48,396 {\an1}and anxiety about Decision Day are all rolled into one. 919 00:35:48,521 --> 00:35:49,981 {\an1}♪ ♪ 920 00:35:50,065 --> 00:35:52,365 {\an1}We matched fellow romantics Noi and Steve 921 00:35:52,484 --> 00:35:54,404 {\an1}because they both come from close-knit families 922 00:35:54,527 --> 00:35:56,857 {\an1}with a strong desire to have children. 923 00:35:56,988 --> 00:35:59,528 {\an1}They have the foundation for a long-lasting marriage, 924 00:35:59,616 --> 00:36:01,076 {\an1}but only if they can work through 925 00:36:01,201 --> 00:36:02,371 {\an1}their financial issues 926 00:36:02,452 --> 00:36:05,082 {\an1}and can both feel secure with trusting each other. 927 00:36:05,205 --> 00:36:09,255 {\an1}- ♪ One of a kind ♪ 928 00:36:09,376 --> 00:36:10,666 {\an1}- Here we go. 929 00:36:10,752 --> 00:36:12,042 {\an1}- We’re going out into the water now 930 00:36:12,128 --> 00:36:14,208 {\an1}with a ton of sushi-- I love my life. 931 00:36:14,297 --> 00:36:16,257 {\an1}- I’m in love with Noi for so many reasons. 932 00:36:16,383 --> 00:36:20,053 {\an1}- ♪ Come together now ♪ 933 00:36:20,178 --> 00:36:21,388 {\an1}- Can we jump on the bed? 934 00:36:21,513 --> 00:36:23,763 {\an1}- ♪ Scream and shout ♪ 935 00:36:23,890 --> 00:36:27,890 {\an1}- I love her playful, bubbly, and fun-loving personality. 936 00:36:28,019 --> 00:36:32,059 {\an1}- We should have sex in a public place. 937 00:36:32,190 --> 00:36:33,940 {\an1}[both laughing] 938 00:36:34,067 --> 00:36:35,897 {\an1}Ahh! 939 00:36:36,027 --> 00:36:37,237 {\an1}Her laugh is infectious. 940 00:36:37,362 --> 00:36:38,822 {\an1}Come here. 941 00:36:38,905 --> 00:36:41,115 {\an1}She’s beautiful, and I’m proud to be her husband. 942 00:36:41,241 --> 00:36:43,621 {\an1}- Cheese. 943 00:36:43,743 --> 00:36:45,583 {\an1}- Noi wears her heart on her sleeve 944 00:36:45,704 --> 00:36:47,214 {\an1}and her emotions on her face. 945 00:36:47,288 --> 00:36:48,408 {\an1}- He doesn’t know, like, 946 00:36:48,540 --> 00:36:49,920 {\an1}the full extent of, like, how I grew up. 947 00:36:49,999 --> 00:36:51,709 {\an1}- She comes from humble beginnings. 948 00:36:51,793 --> 00:36:53,753 {\an1}- I don’t want my kids to worry about money. 949 00:36:53,878 --> 00:36:57,048 {\an1}I was always scared of expressing myself as a child. 950 00:36:57,132 --> 00:36:59,382 {\an1}- And I’m constantly learning more and more about her. 951 00:36:59,467 --> 00:37:02,427 {\an1}- I would like to be in a relationship 952 00:37:02,554 --> 00:37:05,774 {\an1}where we’re both contributing financially. 953 00:37:05,849 --> 00:37:08,059 {\an1}- Your doubt that I’m capable of making money? 954 00:37:08,143 --> 00:37:09,643 {\an1}Sometimes I feel like Noi 955 00:37:09,769 --> 00:37:11,399 {\an1}may not think I’m good enough for her. 956 00:37:11,479 --> 00:37:13,939 {\an1}Just because I don’t fit a standard definition 957 00:37:14,065 --> 00:37:15,395 {\an1}of employed 958 00:37:15,483 --> 00:37:18,113 {\an1}doesn’t mean that I don’t take care of my priorities. 959 00:37:18,194 --> 00:37:19,784 {\an1}- The bathrooms need to get cleaned. 960 00:37:19,863 --> 00:37:21,113 {\an1}- How about we split tasks? 961 00:37:21,197 --> 00:37:22,237 {\an1}You do the one, I do the other. 962 00:37:22,323 --> 00:37:24,283 {\an1}Pleasure doing business with you. 963 00:37:25,702 --> 00:37:27,332 {\an1}- I’m tired of having to prove myself. 964 00:37:27,454 --> 00:37:28,454 {\an1}Just because we’re married, 965 00:37:28,580 --> 00:37:30,210 {\an1}it doesn’t mean it’s gonna work. 966 00:37:30,290 --> 00:37:31,290 {\an1}Something has to change 967 00:37:31,416 --> 00:37:34,286 {\an1}because this isn’t sustainable. 968 00:37:34,419 --> 00:37:36,749 {\an1}- Oh, my God. [laughs] 969 00:37:36,838 --> 00:37:39,758 {\an1}The moment I saw Steve, I was so relieved. 970 00:37:39,841 --> 00:37:41,181 {\an1}- I’m going into this with an open heart, 971 00:37:41,301 --> 00:37:43,591 {\an1}an open mind, and with the highest of hopes. 972 00:37:43,678 --> 00:37:47,468 {\an1}- ♪ Committed, I wonder if I want you ♪ 973 00:37:47,557 --> 00:37:48,927 {\an1}- Steve is a dreamer, 974 00:37:49,017 --> 00:37:51,307 {\an1}adventurous, and a free spirit. 975 00:37:51,394 --> 00:37:52,814 {\an1}I admire how he is able 976 00:37:52,896 --> 00:37:55,646 {\an1}to live his life on his own terms. 977 00:37:55,732 --> 00:37:57,152 {\an1}- Everyone’s always concerned. 978 00:37:57,275 --> 00:37:58,605 {\an1}What if you don’t get along? What if this and that? 979 00:37:58,693 --> 00:38:00,653 {\an1}I was like, what if I have to poop for the first time? 980 00:38:00,779 --> 00:38:02,359 {\an1}- That’s what I thought! [both laughing] 981 00:38:02,489 --> 00:38:06,329 {\an1}He knows how to make me laugh and brings out my inner child. 982 00:38:06,409 --> 00:38:07,989 {\an1}- I’m finally ready 983 00:38:08,077 --> 00:38:10,707 {\an1}to let you know that I love you. 984 00:38:10,830 --> 00:38:12,160 {\an1}- You do? 985 00:38:12,248 --> 00:38:13,788 {\an1}- ♪ Oh ♪ 986 00:38:13,875 --> 00:38:17,385 {\an1}- I love that he will sing and dance with me. 987 00:38:17,504 --> 00:38:20,844 {\an1}- ♪ I’m so glad you got down on that knee ♪ 988 00:38:20,965 --> 00:38:22,835 {\an1}- Come here, we’re gonna put you on this ramp. 989 00:38:22,967 --> 00:38:26,347 {\an1}- Seeing him interact with Sushi truly warms my heart. 990 00:38:26,429 --> 00:38:28,719 {\an1}- Is this dog currently house trained? 991 00:38:28,848 --> 00:38:30,218 {\an1}- We do need to pick up his poop. 992 00:38:30,350 --> 00:38:32,180 {\an1}- Yeah. 993 00:38:32,268 --> 00:38:34,018 {\an1}- But I worry that Steve 994 00:38:34,103 --> 00:38:36,313 {\an1}may not be able to contribute financially. 995 00:38:36,397 --> 00:38:39,187 {\an1}I don’t wanna be the sole breadwinner in my marriage. 996 00:38:39,275 --> 00:38:41,145 {\an1}- If it’s so important for me to get a job, 997 00:38:41,236 --> 00:38:43,026 {\an1}this place is not gonna be as clean 998 00:38:43,112 --> 00:38:44,822 {\an1}and the food’s not gonna be as good. 999 00:38:44,906 --> 00:38:47,526 {\an1}- To me, it just sounds like excuses. 1000 00:38:47,659 --> 00:38:50,619 {\an1}I wonder if he will ever trust me unconditionally. 1001 00:38:50,703 --> 00:38:52,203 {\an1}- You posted you deserve better. 1002 00:38:52,330 --> 00:38:54,210 {\an1}- It wasn’t about you, but you can just-- 1003 00:38:54,332 --> 00:38:55,622 {\an1}whatever keep thinking it’s about you. 1004 00:38:55,708 --> 00:38:57,668 {\an1}- Do I trust her with my emotions? 1005 00:38:57,752 --> 00:38:58,752 {\an1}Do I trust her to keep my secrets? 1006 00:38:58,878 --> 00:39:00,378 {\an1}It’s constantly fluctuating. 1007 00:39:00,463 --> 00:39:01,803 {\an1}- You just prefer that I handle conflict 1008 00:39:01,881 --> 00:39:04,841 {\an1}the exact way that you do, and I’m not you. 1009 00:39:04,926 --> 00:39:06,886 {\an1}I know for a fact, if we don’t address 1010 00:39:06,970 --> 00:39:10,180 {\an1}these issues, like, we’re just doomed to fail. 1011 00:39:10,265 --> 00:39:13,025 {\an1}Think I’m, like, scared, too, you know. 1012 00:39:13,101 --> 00:39:14,731 {\an1}- Do really want to be married to me? 1013 00:39:14,811 --> 00:39:17,611 {\an1}♪ ♪ 1014 00:39:17,730 --> 00:39:20,440 {\an1}- ♪ You won’t find your throne in me ♪ 1015 00:39:20,567 --> 00:39:23,027 {\an1}♪ ♪ 1016 00:39:23,111 --> 00:39:24,901 {\an1}- Hi. - Hello. 1017 00:39:24,988 --> 00:39:27,068 {\an1}- Hi, everyone. - Ms. Noi. 1018 00:39:27,198 --> 00:39:28,568 {\an1}- How are you guys doing? 1019 00:39:28,658 --> 00:39:31,538 {\an1}- Oh, pretty in pink. - I know. You look gorgeous. 1020 00:39:31,619 --> 00:39:34,159 {\an1}- Hi, sweetie. It’s good to see you. 1021 00:39:34,247 --> 00:39:36,917 {\an1}- I just wish that we had a little more time together 1022 00:39:37,041 --> 00:39:38,751 {\an1}before we had to make this decision. 1023 00:39:38,877 --> 00:39:41,747 {\an1}- Aw, Mr. Romantic. 1024 00:39:41,880 --> 00:39:45,760 {\an1}- We probably could have ironed out some of the issues 1025 00:39:45,884 --> 00:39:47,094 {\an1}that we were struggling with. 1026 00:39:47,218 --> 00:39:48,388 {\an1}- We know they’re not for us, but-- 1027 00:39:48,469 --> 00:39:49,549 {\an1}- No, they’re not. 1028 00:39:49,637 --> 00:39:53,517 {\an1}- Okay. - Oh, they are? 1029 00:39:53,600 --> 00:39:54,890 {\an1}- Feeling a bit nervous. 1030 00:39:54,976 --> 00:39:57,896 {\an1}I definitely have a little bit of butterflies 1031 00:39:57,979 --> 00:40:00,939 {\an1}when I start to think about my decision. 1032 00:40:01,065 --> 00:40:03,775 {\an1}No matter how today goes, I just want Noi to know 1033 00:40:03,860 --> 00:40:05,440 {\an1}that I care about her deeply, 1034 00:40:05,570 --> 00:40:07,910 {\an1}and I wish her the best, no matter what. 1035 00:40:07,989 --> 00:40:10,569 {\an1}- So this is Decision Day. 1036 00:40:10,658 --> 00:40:13,288 {\an1}I know you’ve been separated for a day. 1037 00:40:13,411 --> 00:40:15,081 {\an1}Did you miss each other? 1038 00:40:15,163 --> 00:40:16,503 {\an1}- Yeah. 1039 00:40:16,623 --> 00:40:18,373 {\an1}- Yeah, it was hard being away from him. 1040 00:40:18,458 --> 00:40:21,288 {\an1}Um... 1041 00:40:21,419 --> 00:40:23,459 {\an1}- How’d it go? 1042 00:40:23,588 --> 00:40:25,088 {\an1}- I-I made it through, but like-- 1043 00:40:25,173 --> 00:40:26,513 {\an1}- No, I mean, just how’d everything-- 1044 00:40:26,633 --> 00:40:28,093 {\an1}I mean, just in general-- 1045 00:40:28,176 --> 00:40:29,466 {\an1}[laughter] Not about us being apart. 1046 00:40:29,594 --> 00:40:30,594 {\an1}- She made it through. - Yeah. 1047 00:40:30,678 --> 00:40:33,218 {\an1}[laughter] 1048 00:40:33,306 --> 00:40:35,016 {\an1}[soft music] 1049 00:40:35,141 --> 00:40:36,431 {\an1}- What do you remember about the wedding? 1050 00:40:36,517 --> 00:40:38,057 {\an1}What was that like for you? 1051 00:40:38,144 --> 00:40:41,864 {\an1}- We had an incredible wedding. 1052 00:40:41,981 --> 00:40:45,321 {\an1}- Yeah, I think, I mean, it was just really comforting 1053 00:40:45,401 --> 00:40:47,651 {\an1}and nice to just instantly hit it off. 1054 00:40:47,737 --> 00:40:51,117 {\an1}- Yeah, like, you know, we had a lot of fun times 1055 00:40:51,199 --> 00:40:53,989 {\an1}during the honeymoon, and I told him right away, 1056 00:40:54,077 --> 00:40:56,827 {\an1}I think it was maybe day two or three where I felt like 1057 00:40:56,955 --> 00:40:59,965 {\an1}I was developing real feelings for him. 1058 00:41:00,041 --> 00:41:02,461 {\an1}- Wow. - Yeah, I did use the L word. 1059 00:41:02,543 --> 00:41:03,843 {\an1}I said, "I feel like 1060 00:41:03,962 --> 00:41:07,172 {\an1}I’m slowly falling in love with you," so... 1061 00:41:07,298 --> 00:41:09,508 {\an1}- That’s very cool. - Yeah. 1062 00:41:09,634 --> 00:41:11,514 {\an1}- How’ve you been feeling leading up to this day, though? 1063 00:41:11,636 --> 00:41:16,176 {\an1}Leading up to Decision Day? How’ve you been feeling? 1064 00:41:16,265 --> 00:41:18,765 {\an1}- I’ve been feeling pretty good 1065 00:41:18,851 --> 00:41:20,351 {\an1}for the last few weeks. 1066 00:41:20,436 --> 00:41:23,186 {\an1}I think things are really well 1067 00:41:23,314 --> 00:41:25,524 {\an1}and we’re, you know, just in a really great place 1068 00:41:25,608 --> 00:41:27,278 {\an1}and--and enjoying each other’s company. 1069 00:41:27,360 --> 00:41:30,910 {\an1}It’s just like, okay, this feels right, you know? 1070 00:41:31,030 --> 00:41:32,990 {\an1}♪ ♪ 1071 00:41:33,074 --> 00:41:37,544 {\an1}- Yeah, I mean, I just love how in the middle 1072 00:41:37,620 --> 00:41:40,000 {\an1}of an argument or when we’re really having a rough time 1073 00:41:40,081 --> 00:41:42,541 {\an1}and you look after me in those moments. 1074 00:41:42,667 --> 00:41:44,037 {\an1}So even when I’m upset 1075 00:41:44,168 --> 00:41:47,508 {\an1}and it’s probably not the most fun time for you, 1076 00:41:47,588 --> 00:41:50,508 {\an1}you are so wonderful at comforting me 1077 00:41:50,591 --> 00:41:53,841 {\an1}and holding me when I’m upset. 1078 00:41:53,928 --> 00:41:55,888 {\an1}And I know that I’m safe with you. 1079 00:41:55,972 --> 00:41:59,932 {\an1}♪ ♪ 1080 00:42:00,059 --> 00:42:03,059 {\an1}And so thank you for doing that. 1081 00:42:03,187 --> 00:42:04,357 {\an1}- Come here. 1082 00:42:04,439 --> 00:42:11,399 {\an1}♪ ♪ 1083 00:42:11,946 --> 00:42:12,906 {\an1}- Thank you. 1084 00:42:12,989 --> 00:42:16,579 {\an1}♪ ♪ 1085 00:42:16,701 --> 00:42:19,041 {\an1}- Why--why does that touch you so much? 1086 00:42:19,120 --> 00:42:23,250 {\an1}The fact that he comforts you or he makes you feel safe? 1087 00:42:23,332 --> 00:42:25,422 {\an1}Why--why is that so important? 1088 00:42:25,543 --> 00:42:32,263 {\an1}- I think I haven’t really felt, like, 1089 00:42:32,341 --> 00:42:38,061 {\an1}safe to express these emotions and really, like, 1090 00:42:38,139 --> 00:42:41,929 {\an1}open up in this way in my past relationships. 1091 00:42:42,060 --> 00:42:44,400 {\an1}I didn’t feel safe in those moments, you know? 1092 00:42:44,479 --> 00:42:45,979 {\an1}Like, I’d be like, "Oh, I don’t know 1093 00:42:46,105 --> 00:42:48,065 {\an1}"if this person is judging me or they think I’m crazy 1094 00:42:48,149 --> 00:42:50,279 {\an1}for being emotional or whatever." 1095 00:42:50,401 --> 00:42:52,241 {\an1}And I just never feel that way with him. 1096 00:42:52,320 --> 00:42:56,120 {\an1}Like, I don’t ever feel like he’s ever judging me 1097 00:42:56,199 --> 00:42:59,289 {\an1}for, you know, thinking any less of me. 1098 00:42:59,410 --> 00:43:02,620 {\an1}And it just makes me emotional because, I mean, 1099 00:43:02,705 --> 00:43:04,915 {\an1}I just haven’t felt that in a long time. 1100 00:43:04,999 --> 00:43:07,459 {\an1}♪ ♪ 1101 00:43:07,543 --> 00:43:10,463 {\an1}But despite all that, 1102 00:43:10,588 --> 00:43:14,548 {\an1}I feel like we still have things we need to work out. 1103 00:43:14,634 --> 00:43:17,394 {\an1}[tense music] 1104 00:43:17,470 --> 00:43:20,760 {\an1}We’re very similar people in that our values 1105 00:43:20,848 --> 00:43:22,138 {\an1}are very similar. 1106 00:43:22,225 --> 00:43:25,065 {\an1}You know, family means a lot to the both of us. 1107 00:43:25,144 --> 00:43:27,064 {\an1}We’re both very playful 1108 00:43:27,146 --> 00:43:30,146 {\an1}and kind of free-spirited people, 1109 00:43:30,233 --> 00:43:35,153 {\an1}but we also butt heads about doing things in the house. 1110 00:43:35,238 --> 00:43:38,118 {\an1}Like him feeling like if I’m doing, you know, 1111 00:43:38,199 --> 00:43:41,789 {\an1}all this stuff in the house, like, 1112 00:43:41,869 --> 00:43:43,119 {\an1}I should be able to ask you 1113 00:43:43,204 --> 00:43:45,584 {\an1}to do stuff too, so we can be fair. 1114 00:43:45,665 --> 00:43:46,795 {\an1}- Yeah, okay. 1115 00:43:46,874 --> 00:43:47,964 {\an1}- And like, that’s not realistic. 1116 00:43:48,042 --> 00:43:50,342 {\an1}It’s never gonna be 50/50, right? 1117 00:43:50,419 --> 00:43:54,669 {\an1}♪ ♪ 1118 00:43:54,757 --> 00:43:56,837 {\an1}- So I understand that. 1119 00:43:56,968 --> 00:43:58,758 {\an1}But I’m cooking. 1120 00:43:58,845 --> 00:44:01,355 {\an1}I’m gonna have to clean. I am doing all these things. 1121 00:44:01,472 --> 00:44:03,972 {\an1}It would be nice if you did something too, you know, 1122 00:44:04,058 --> 00:44:07,558 {\an1}to contribute to the things that we need to do. 1123 00:44:07,687 --> 00:44:09,477 {\an1}It shouldn’t be too much to ask. 1124 00:44:09,564 --> 00:44:13,534 {\an1}You know, I should be able to freely ask you for help 1125 00:44:13,651 --> 00:44:16,861 {\an1}just as you do for me. 1126 00:44:16,946 --> 00:44:18,696 {\an1}- When you’re with someone, I feel like 1127 00:44:18,823 --> 00:44:23,083 {\an1}you should give freely and do things without even, 1128 00:44:23,202 --> 00:44:24,752 {\an1}you know, really thinking twice about it. 1129 00:44:24,871 --> 00:44:26,541 {\an1}And I feel like, for you, 1130 00:44:26,622 --> 00:44:30,382 {\an1}it’s really important that you count these things 1131 00:44:30,501 --> 00:44:31,841 {\an1}and you bring it to my attention, 1132 00:44:31,919 --> 00:44:33,589 {\an1}whereas, like, when I do things for you, 1133 00:44:33,713 --> 00:44:34,883 {\an1}I don’t necessarily do that, 1134 00:44:35,006 --> 00:44:37,796 {\an1}but I just do it because, like, I love you. 1135 00:44:37,884 --> 00:44:39,724 {\an1}- I do need some type of balance, right? 1136 00:44:39,802 --> 00:44:43,682 {\an1}I don’t wanna feel like I’m just doing everything. 1137 00:44:43,764 --> 00:44:44,894 {\an1}- ♪ And can you promise me ♪ 1138 00:44:44,974 --> 00:44:47,854 {\an1}♪ And tell me where I’ll come ♪ 1139 00:44:47,935 --> 00:44:50,395 {\an1}♪ In the end ♪ 1140 00:44:54,233 --> 00:44:56,193 {\an1}If this is how it is now, what happens 1141 00:44:56,277 --> 00:44:58,487 {\an1}when we have children when there are more tasks at hand? 1142 00:44:58,571 --> 00:45:00,911 {\an1}It feels like I will have to be responsible 1143 00:45:00,990 --> 00:45:03,200 {\an1}for taking a significant load, 1144 00:45:03,284 --> 00:45:06,374 {\an1}and it sorta makes me afraid that that’s how it will be. 1145 00:45:06,454 --> 00:45:08,584 {\an1}♪ ♪ 1146 00:45:08,706 --> 00:45:10,866 {\an1}- You just have to trust that where 1147 00:45:10,958 --> 00:45:12,838 {\an1}I can pick up the slack, I will. 1148 00:45:12,919 --> 00:45:16,169 {\an1}And, you know, and also do that for me. 1149 00:45:16,255 --> 00:45:17,335 {\an1}♪ ♪ 1150 00:45:17,423 --> 00:45:20,343 {\an1}Especially since you’re still not working. 1151 00:45:20,426 --> 00:45:22,886 {\an1}♪ ♪ 1152 00:45:22,970 --> 00:45:25,220 {\an1}- Does it ever hurt your feelings, Steve, 1153 00:45:25,306 --> 00:45:27,386 {\an1}when Noi makes comments or references 1154 00:45:27,475 --> 00:45:30,565 {\an1}about you not having a job? 1155 00:45:30,645 --> 00:45:33,485 {\an1}♪ ♪ 1156 00:45:33,606 --> 00:45:35,436 {\an1}- It has been challenging. 1157 00:45:35,524 --> 00:45:37,114 {\an1}It was just-- it’s a sensitive area 1158 00:45:37,193 --> 00:45:39,533 {\an1}because it’s like, I’m sure of myself 1159 00:45:39,612 --> 00:45:41,572 {\an1}and I know, you know, what I’m capable of, 1160 00:45:41,656 --> 00:45:44,616 {\an1}but it’s--it’s, you know, sometimes it feels like 1161 00:45:44,700 --> 00:45:46,200 {\an1}she may be giving off the impression 1162 00:45:46,285 --> 00:45:48,945 {\an1}that she doesn’t either believe what I’m capable of 1163 00:45:49,038 --> 00:45:50,618 {\an1}or that I am incapable. 1164 00:45:50,748 --> 00:45:52,118 {\an1}And, you know, that’s not-- that-- 1165 00:45:52,208 --> 00:45:53,378 {\an1}that doesn’t sit right with me. 1166 00:45:53,459 --> 00:45:56,749 {\an1}♪ ♪ 1167 00:45:56,837 --> 00:45:58,957 {\an1}- When my wife met me, when we met, 1168 00:45:59,048 --> 00:46:00,298 {\an1}I was "between jobs." 1169 00:46:00,383 --> 00:46:03,643 {\an1}But I had mad skills and a lot going on 1170 00:46:03,719 --> 00:46:06,049 {\an1}and, you know, it was kinda like where you are. 1171 00:46:06,138 --> 00:46:07,718 {\an1}That’s probably why I connected with this guy 1172 00:46:07,807 --> 00:46:09,807 {\an1}so well, because I saw that, and I said, 1173 00:46:09,934 --> 00:46:11,144 {\an1}"Wow, I see myself in him," 1174 00:46:11,227 --> 00:46:12,727 {\an1}you know, somewhat, because I believe 1175 00:46:12,812 --> 00:46:15,402 {\an1}that he’s on his way to stratospheric heights. 1176 00:46:15,481 --> 00:46:17,231 {\an1}♪ ♪ 1177 00:46:17,316 --> 00:46:19,646 {\an1}Noi, just because Steve doesn’t have a job now 1178 00:46:19,777 --> 00:46:21,487 {\an1}doesn’t mean he won’t be able to provide 1179 00:46:21,612 --> 00:46:23,452 {\an1}for your family later on. 1180 00:46:23,531 --> 00:46:25,571 {\an1}These eight weeks are only a snippet 1181 00:46:25,658 --> 00:46:27,278 {\an1}of what your marriage can be. 1182 00:46:27,368 --> 00:46:32,748 {\an1}♪ ♪ 1183 00:46:32,832 --> 00:46:34,502 {\an1}- We appreciate you having been 1184 00:46:34,583 --> 00:46:37,003 {\an1}open and honest with us today, 1185 00:46:37,086 --> 00:46:41,336 {\an1}but the time has come for you to decide whether or not 1186 00:46:41,465 --> 00:46:44,675 {\an1}you want to stay married or you want to get a divorce. 1187 00:46:44,760 --> 00:46:47,680 {\an1}[suspenseful music] 1188 00:46:47,805 --> 00:46:51,425 {\an1}♪ ♪ 1189 00:46:51,517 --> 00:46:54,897 {\an1}- Noi, when we talk about our future 1190 00:46:55,021 --> 00:46:58,521 {\an1}and when we make these dreams and we just stay up 1191 00:46:58,607 --> 00:47:00,607 {\an1}all hours of the night getting to know each other 1192 00:47:00,693 --> 00:47:03,863 {\an1}and, you know, feeling so comfortable around each other, 1193 00:47:03,988 --> 00:47:07,618 {\an1}never feeling judged, it makes me feel really special. 1194 00:47:07,700 --> 00:47:12,200 {\an1}And can’t think of anyone else I’d rather do this with. 1195 00:47:12,288 --> 00:47:16,328 {\an1}Build a family with and have arguably three children with, 1196 00:47:16,417 --> 00:47:18,167 {\an1}maybe two or three, hopefully. 1197 00:47:18,252 --> 00:47:20,212 {\an1}Two. [laughs] 1198 00:47:20,296 --> 00:47:22,506 {\an1}But yes, my answer is absolutely yes. 1199 00:47:23,883 --> 00:47:25,303 {\an1}- Noi? 1200 00:47:26,844 --> 00:47:29,724 {\an1}[soft music] 1201 00:47:29,847 --> 00:47:36,647 {\an1}♪ ♪ 1202 00:47:36,729 --> 00:47:38,019 {\an1}- Um... 1203 00:47:38,105 --> 00:47:39,645 {\an1}♪ ♪ 1204 00:47:39,732 --> 00:47:42,192 {\an1}Before coming into this day, 1205 00:47:42,276 --> 00:47:44,736 {\an1}we were talking about some of our issues 1206 00:47:44,820 --> 00:47:48,910 {\an1}and how we haven’t come to a resolution, 1207 00:47:49,033 --> 00:47:52,243 {\an1}and I feel like 1208 00:47:52,370 --> 00:47:55,660 {\an1}there’s maybe still some trust issues there. 1209 00:47:55,748 --> 00:47:57,998 {\an1}♪ ♪ 1210 00:47:58,084 --> 00:47:59,594 {\an1}We couldn’t get to a place 1211 00:47:59,710 --> 00:48:02,460 {\an1}where you could really trust me. 1212 00:48:02,588 --> 00:48:07,428 {\an1}I think you’re, like, still learning how to do that. 1213 00:48:07,510 --> 00:48:10,010 {\an1}But, like, you at least trust me enough 1214 00:48:10,096 --> 00:48:12,846 {\an1}to take the next step. 1215 00:48:12,932 --> 00:48:15,562 {\an1}So... 1216 00:48:15,643 --> 00:48:20,193 {\an1}I would love to stay married with you. 1217 00:48:20,272 --> 00:48:22,692 {\an1}♪ ♪ 1218 00:48:22,775 --> 00:48:25,445 {\an1}In a very short amount of time, 1219 00:48:25,528 --> 00:48:29,568 {\an1}you have taught me what it means to be vulnerable. 1220 00:48:29,657 --> 00:48:31,197 {\an1}You’ve opened up a part of me 1221 00:48:31,283 --> 00:48:35,623 {\an1}that has been dormant for so long. 1222 00:48:35,704 --> 00:48:39,924 {\an1}I feel like I can be my true self around you. 1223 00:48:40,000 --> 00:48:42,540 {\an1}And I feel like you love and accept me 1224 00:48:42,628 --> 00:48:44,708 {\an1}for all that I am. 1225 00:48:44,797 --> 00:48:46,207 {\an1}♪ ♪ 1226 00:48:46,298 --> 00:48:47,968 {\an1}- Aww. 1227 00:48:48,050 --> 00:48:50,970 {\an1}[uplifting music] 1228 00:48:51,095 --> 00:48:57,815 {\an1}♪ ♪ 1229 00:48:57,935 --> 00:48:59,805 {\an1}- Congratulations. - Yes. 1230 00:48:59,895 --> 00:49:01,145 {\an1}You got us in pieces here. 1231 00:49:01,230 --> 00:49:02,980 {\an1}- I can’t even shed a man tear. 1232 00:49:03,107 --> 00:49:05,437 {\an1}Y’all got me over here blubbering. 1233 00:49:05,526 --> 00:49:08,566 {\an1}- I’m still a married man, and it feels great. 1234 00:49:08,654 --> 00:49:10,954 {\an1}- Whoo! - Hey! 1235 00:49:11,031 --> 00:49:13,911 {\an1}This is the outcome that I was hoping for. 1236 00:49:13,993 --> 00:49:16,663 {\an1}It just felt really good to officially hear it 1237 00:49:16,787 --> 00:49:19,707 {\an1}and know that we finally have our decision. 1238 00:49:19,832 --> 00:49:22,582 {\an1}- You guys have had an incredible journey, 1239 00:49:22,668 --> 00:49:24,668 {\an1}and you--you made this look easy, 1240 00:49:24,753 --> 00:49:26,093 {\an1}and I know it’s not. 1241 00:49:26,172 --> 00:49:28,342 {\an1}Cheers to you for better, for worse. 1242 00:49:28,424 --> 00:49:32,594 {\an1}For richer, for richer. In sickness and in health. 1243 00:49:32,678 --> 00:49:34,718 {\an1}Forsaking all others till death do you part. 1244 00:49:34,847 --> 00:49:37,677 {\an1}You’re in this now, and we’re gonna make it work. 1245 00:49:37,808 --> 00:49:38,848 {\an1}- Yes. - Thanks. 1246 00:49:38,934 --> 00:49:40,194 {\an1}- I’ll say cheers-- cheers to that. 1247 00:49:40,311 --> 00:49:45,611 {\an1}- ♪ It is a fairy tale ♪ 1248 00:49:45,691 --> 00:49:50,701 {\an1}♪ You are my fairy tale ♪ 1249 00:49:50,779 --> 00:49:52,989 {\an1}- I am so relieved. 1250 00:49:53,073 --> 00:49:54,993 {\an1}I feel really happy and excited 1251 00:49:55,075 --> 00:49:58,285 {\an1}because there’s so much here to fight for. 1252 00:49:58,370 --> 00:50:00,960 {\an1}I know that the love that we’ve built together 1253 00:50:01,040 --> 00:50:03,330 {\an1}will really kind of pull us 1254 00:50:03,417 --> 00:50:05,377 {\an1}through any storms that we’ll go through. 1255 00:50:05,503 --> 00:50:07,713 {\an1}I know that I made the right decision. 1256 00:50:07,838 --> 00:50:09,258 {\an1}- Wow. - You feel good? 1257 00:50:09,381 --> 00:50:10,631 {\an1}- I feel great. - Oh, my gosh. 1258 00:50:10,716 --> 00:50:12,046 {\an1}The way y’all look at each other. 1259 00:50:12,134 --> 00:50:14,184 {\an1}- I know. It’s--it’s ridiculous. 1260 00:50:14,261 --> 00:50:15,301 {\an1}It’s ridiculous. - It’s wonderful. 1261 00:50:15,387 --> 00:50:16,637 {\an1}- It’s just amazing. 1262 00:50:16,722 --> 00:50:17,892 {\an1}- You guys are a beautiful couple. 1263 00:50:18,015 --> 00:50:19,345 {\an1}- I hope you always look at each other like that. 1264 00:50:19,433 --> 00:50:20,433 {\an1}[laughter] - Yeah. 1265 00:50:20,559 --> 00:50:22,729 {\an1}- I am now a married woman forever. 1266 00:50:22,811 --> 00:50:24,811 {\an1}[laughs] 1267 00:50:24,897 --> 00:50:27,147 {\an1}- ♪ Now I know ♪ 1268 00:50:27,233 --> 00:50:30,243 {\an1}♪ Now it’s a happy ending ♪ 1269 00:50:30,319 --> 00:50:32,069 {\an1}♪ It’s a happy ending ♪ 1270 00:50:35,908 --> 00:50:37,328 {\an1}- ♪ Driving me, driving me, driving me crazy ♪ 1271 00:50:37,409 --> 00:50:40,369 {\an1}♪ Crazy ♪ 1272 00:50:40,454 --> 00:50:43,254 {\an1}- There is no couple more rollercoaster 1273 00:50:43,332 --> 00:50:44,712 {\an1}than Lindsey and Mark. 1274 00:50:44,792 --> 00:50:45,752 {\an1}- Yeah. 1275 00:50:45,876 --> 00:50:47,746 {\an1}- There’s a lot of love, obviously, 1276 00:50:47,878 --> 00:50:51,008 {\an1}but then they are jabbing 1277 00:50:51,090 --> 00:50:52,760 {\an1}and sticking and pushing buttons. 1278 00:50:52,841 --> 00:50:55,761 {\an1}- And then they make up. And then they’re okay again. 1279 00:50:55,844 --> 00:50:57,434 {\an1}They have very unique personalities. 1280 00:50:57,513 --> 00:50:58,723 {\an1}Each of them do. 1281 00:50:58,806 --> 00:51:00,466 {\an1}I think that they are--they are matched well. 1282 00:51:00,599 --> 00:51:04,019 {\an1}As long as they don’t become accustomed to misery. 1283 00:51:04,103 --> 00:51:08,613 {\an1}They just have such a volatile marriage, up and down. 1284 00:51:08,691 --> 00:51:10,281 {\an1}I don’t know where they are today. 1285 00:51:10,359 --> 00:51:12,649 {\an1}They could have been great yesterday. 1286 00:51:12,778 --> 00:51:16,778 {\an1}And then on the ride here... 1287 00:51:16,907 --> 00:51:18,487 {\an1}- ♪ Yeah ♪ 1288 00:51:18,617 --> 00:51:20,617 {\an1}- Lindsey and Mark are a natural match 1289 00:51:20,703 --> 00:51:22,293 {\an1}because they’re both high-energy, 1290 00:51:22,371 --> 00:51:23,791 {\an1}outgoing personalities 1291 00:51:23,914 --> 00:51:26,834 {\an1}who also have a deep caring side. 1292 00:51:26,959 --> 00:51:29,459 {\an1}They both strive for a future and family together, 1293 00:51:29,587 --> 00:51:32,007 {\an1}but explosive fights and difficult communication 1294 00:51:32,131 --> 00:51:33,221 {\an1}has been their downfall. 1295 00:51:33,299 --> 00:51:35,049 {\an1}- ♪ Crazy ♪ 1296 00:51:35,134 --> 00:51:37,344 {\an1}- ♪ Oh-oh-oh, oh-oh-oh ♪ 1297 00:51:37,469 --> 00:51:38,469 {\an1}- I’m Lindsey. - Nice to meet you. I’m Mark. 1298 00:51:38,596 --> 00:51:39,466 {\an1}- What’s your name? - Mark. 1299 00:51:39,597 --> 00:51:40,467 {\an1}- What’s your last name? - Maher. 1300 00:51:40,598 --> 00:51:41,848 {\an1}- Oh, nice. An easy one. 1301 00:51:41,974 --> 00:51:43,144 {\an1}- Yeah. - I was hoping for that! 1302 00:51:43,267 --> 00:51:44,387 {\an1}[laughter] Yeah! 1303 00:51:44,476 --> 00:51:45,846 {\an1}- I took a leap of faith 1304 00:51:45,978 --> 00:51:47,978 {\an1}and came into this marriage wicked committed. 1305 00:51:48,063 --> 00:51:49,943 {\an1}- If I get dairy by accident, 1306 00:51:50,024 --> 00:51:52,784 {\an1}I projectile vomit for 12 hours. 1307 00:51:52,860 --> 00:51:54,650 {\an1}I’m ready for the honeymoon. 1308 00:51:54,737 --> 00:51:56,237 {\an1}- Lindsey is one of a kind. 1309 00:51:56,322 --> 00:51:57,492 {\an1}- That’s what you have to look forward to. 1310 00:51:57,573 --> 00:51:59,323 {\an1}- I can’t wait. - [laughs] 1311 00:52:02,620 --> 00:52:03,950 {\an1}- ♪ We’re living the dream ♪ 1312 00:52:04,038 --> 00:52:05,828 {\an1}- Lindsey’s laugh can be real infectious... 1313 00:52:05,956 --> 00:52:07,496 {\an1}[laughter] 1314 00:52:07,625 --> 00:52:09,175 {\an1}But it can also scare you to death. 1315 00:52:09,293 --> 00:52:11,503 {\an1}[laughter] 1316 00:52:11,629 --> 00:52:12,669 {\an1}- If I get bedbug bites, 1317 00:52:12,796 --> 00:52:15,006 {\an1}I’m gonna want so much TLC from you. 1318 00:52:15,132 --> 00:52:17,552 {\an1}- Lindsey is always thinking about me first. 1319 00:52:17,676 --> 00:52:21,046 {\an1}I’ve always appreciated you. If I don’t say it a lot. 1320 00:52:21,180 --> 00:52:23,850 {\an1}- Well, I’m feeling it tonight, and I’m hearing it, 1321 00:52:23,932 --> 00:52:25,522 {\an1}so tha--so thank you. 1322 00:52:25,601 --> 00:52:27,811 {\an1}- Lindsey is kind and genuine. 1323 00:52:27,895 --> 00:52:29,355 {\an1}- I’m a little bit of a mama bear. 1324 00:52:29,480 --> 00:52:31,150 {\an1}- Okay. - I don’t like what I’ve seen. 1325 00:52:31,231 --> 00:52:33,691 {\an1}- But will tell you how it is whether you like it or not. 1326 00:52:33,776 --> 00:52:36,066 {\an1}- You’re [bleep] clueless, is what makes me so mad. 1327 00:52:36,195 --> 00:52:38,745 {\an1}- I wish Lindsey was more empathetic towards me. 1328 00:52:38,864 --> 00:52:41,414 {\an1}- Your life is in chaos and you’re always complaining. 1329 00:52:41,533 --> 00:52:42,453 {\an1}- It’s really not. 1330 00:52:42,534 --> 00:52:43,704 {\an1}Sometimes I feel like 1331 00:52:43,786 --> 00:52:44,996 {\an1}a punching bag in this marriage. 1332 00:52:45,079 --> 00:52:46,619 {\an1}I tell her stop. Stop, stop, stop, stop, stop. 1333 00:52:46,705 --> 00:52:48,615 {\an1}- And--and you don’t stop? 1334 00:52:48,707 --> 00:52:51,537 {\an1}- Stop, stop, stop. Stop. Stop. 1335 00:52:51,669 --> 00:52:53,709 {\an1}I’m not the things that you wanted in a husband, 1336 00:52:53,837 --> 00:52:54,877 {\an1}and I’m sorry. 1337 00:52:54,963 --> 00:52:56,173 {\an1}I’d rather be alone 1338 00:52:56,256 --> 00:52:57,546 {\an1}than fight with someone every single day. 1339 00:52:57,633 --> 00:52:59,553 {\an1}- I’m done with you. - Cool. Okay. 1340 00:52:59,635 --> 00:53:02,105 {\an1}♪ ♪ 1341 00:53:02,221 --> 00:53:03,311 {\an1}Oh. 1342 00:53:03,389 --> 00:53:04,719 {\an1}- It happens a lot too. 1343 00:53:04,807 --> 00:53:05,887 {\an1}- This is gonna be-- this gonna be a wild time. 1344 00:53:05,974 --> 00:53:07,144 {\an1}- For sure. - I can tell. 1345 00:53:07,226 --> 00:53:08,556 {\an1}- From day one, I knew 1346 00:53:08,644 --> 00:53:09,944 {\an1}why I was matched with Mark. 1347 00:53:10,062 --> 00:53:12,942 {\an1}- ♪ Are you listening? ♪ 1348 00:53:13,065 --> 00:53:16,865 {\an1}♪ With your ear upon my chest ♪ 1349 00:53:16,944 --> 00:53:19,994 {\an1}- I like how kind and caring you are 1350 00:53:20,072 --> 00:53:23,202 {\an1}to everybody in every situation. 1351 00:53:23,283 --> 00:53:26,753 {\an1}Mark makes me laugh harder than anybody 1352 00:53:26,870 --> 00:53:29,920 {\an1}I’ve ever been with. 1353 00:53:29,998 --> 00:53:32,078 {\an1}- Looking like I still got stuff in the tank. 1354 00:53:32,167 --> 00:53:34,247 {\an1}Don’t have to go get a refill. 1355 00:53:34,378 --> 00:53:36,088 {\an1}- You got the dad jokes lined up. 1356 00:53:36,171 --> 00:53:38,301 {\an1}I know one day that Mark will be a good dad. 1357 00:53:38,424 --> 00:53:41,264 {\an1}He’s so supportive and caring and nurturing. 1358 00:53:41,343 --> 00:53:46,103 {\an1}- If I didn’t see enough good in you, I wouldn’t be here. 1359 00:53:46,181 --> 00:53:49,891 {\an1}- But I wish Mark would show how he appreciates me more. 1360 00:53:49,977 --> 00:53:52,267 {\an1}- You are very here with just saying something. 1361 00:53:52,396 --> 00:53:53,436 {\an1}Just, no matter what. 1362 00:53:53,564 --> 00:53:55,444 {\an1}- I can slow back, but I pull way back. 1363 00:53:55,566 --> 00:53:57,226 {\an1}Come on, dude. You’re so stupid. 1364 00:53:57,317 --> 00:53:59,607 {\an1}There’s a difference between pulling back and pulling out. 1365 00:53:59,737 --> 00:54:01,607 {\an1}And I’m telling you, I feel like you’ve pulled out. 1366 00:54:01,697 --> 00:54:03,987 {\an1}Mark’s worst habit is the social media use. 1367 00:54:04,116 --> 00:54:08,076 {\an1}I just can’t get his attention even for five seconds. 1368 00:54:08,162 --> 00:54:09,452 {\an1}In my vows, I said, 1369 00:54:09,538 --> 00:54:12,118 {\an1}"I’m always gonna consider you first." 1370 00:54:12,207 --> 00:54:15,787 {\an1}I haven’t really gotten any of that from you. 1371 00:54:15,878 --> 00:54:18,588 {\an1}He is falling short in every way. 1372 00:54:18,672 --> 00:54:20,722 {\an1}I am furious, and he is clueless. 1373 00:54:20,799 --> 00:54:22,969 {\an1}All I asked for was consistency. 1374 00:54:23,051 --> 00:54:23,971 {\an1}- When we’re together, it makes me feel 1375 00:54:24,094 --> 00:54:25,104 {\an1}uncomfortable when you do that. 1376 00:54:25,179 --> 00:54:26,349 {\an1}Don’t do that. - But you know what? 1377 00:54:26,472 --> 00:54:27,642 {\an1}I don’t like to brush things under the rug. 1378 00:54:27,723 --> 00:54:29,433 {\an1}- Have another drink. I can’t do this anymore. 1379 00:54:29,516 --> 00:54:30,976 {\an1}- Any time we have a conversation 1380 00:54:31,059 --> 00:54:32,479 {\an1}about of our honeymoon-- - Stop, stop, stop. Stop. 1381 00:54:32,561 --> 00:54:33,651 {\an1}You don’t have to, like, grip me like that. 1382 00:54:33,729 --> 00:54:35,149 {\an1}- I’m done. 1383 00:54:35,230 --> 00:54:36,820 {\an1}He’s definitely gonna be my first husband. 1384 00:54:36,940 --> 00:54:38,610 {\an1}He might not be my last. 1385 00:54:38,692 --> 00:54:40,782 {\an1}- ♪ It’s you ♪ 1386 00:54:40,861 --> 00:54:44,951 {\an1}♪ ♪ 1387 00:54:45,032 --> 00:54:46,282 {\an1}- What’s up, man? - What’s up? 1388 00:54:46,366 --> 00:54:48,656 {\an1}- Look at you. Looking good, dude. 1389 00:54:48,786 --> 00:54:49,826 {\an1}- Thank you. - How you doing, buddy? 1390 00:54:49,953 --> 00:54:51,203 {\an1}- Good. How you doing? 1391 00:54:51,330 --> 00:54:54,000 {\an1}It has been such a roller coaster marriage 1392 00:54:54,082 --> 00:54:56,042 {\an1}for both of us, I would say. 1393 00:54:56,168 --> 00:54:57,668 {\an1}We’ve argued a lot in this marriage, 1394 00:54:57,753 --> 00:55:00,803 {\an1}and I’m pretty confident in which direction 1395 00:55:00,881 --> 00:55:02,261 {\an1}I have to go today. 1396 00:55:02,341 --> 00:55:06,851 {\an1}I am curious to see if we are on the same page, 1397 00:55:06,929 --> 00:55:09,349 {\an1}but I am ready, in a matter of minutes, 1398 00:55:09,473 --> 00:55:11,813 {\an1}to make one of the biggest decisions of my life. 1399 00:55:11,892 --> 00:55:14,022 {\an1}And I hope it’s the right one. 1400 00:55:14,144 --> 00:55:16,984 {\an1}- Hello, hello. - Hi, there. 1401 00:55:17,064 --> 00:55:20,904 {\an1}- It’s been a lot of hard hits for Mark in these eight weeks. 1402 00:55:21,026 --> 00:55:22,236 {\an1}I feel like I’m dodging 1403 00:55:22,361 --> 00:55:27,201 {\an1}and diving through all of his life hurdles. 1404 00:55:27,282 --> 00:55:28,742 {\an1}Oh, you look pretty good. 1405 00:55:28,867 --> 00:55:32,197 {\an1}- Oh. - Look at y’all. 1406 00:55:32,329 --> 00:55:33,619 {\an1}- You look nice. - You look nice. 1407 00:55:33,705 --> 00:55:35,535 {\an1}- Is that something I wanna buckle up for? 1408 00:55:35,624 --> 00:55:37,294 {\an1}Is that his normal? Because I’m not sure 1409 00:55:37,376 --> 00:55:39,876 {\an1}I wanna do that for the rest of my life. 1410 00:55:39,962 --> 00:55:41,962 {\an1}- I know you two didn’t talk together, 1411 00:55:42,047 --> 00:55:43,377 {\an1}but you look well matched. 1412 00:55:43,465 --> 00:55:44,835 {\an1}- I know, look at this. 1413 00:55:44,925 --> 00:55:46,725 {\an1}- Aw. - You little cutie. 1414 00:55:46,802 --> 00:55:47,892 {\an1}- Aw. - Thanks. You look nice. 1415 00:55:48,011 --> 00:55:50,721 {\an1}- Thanks. You look pretty good too. 1416 00:55:50,806 --> 00:55:53,176 {\an1}- How have you been feeling leading up to Decision Day? 1417 00:55:53,267 --> 00:55:55,847 {\an1}How have you been feeling? 1418 00:55:55,936 --> 00:56:00,936 {\an1}- Uh, for me, the last two weeks 1419 00:56:01,066 --> 00:56:04,396 {\an1}have been pretty healthy. 1420 00:56:04,528 --> 00:56:07,568 {\an1}A lot of things have happened where we have shown up 1421 00:56:07,656 --> 00:56:09,656 {\an1}for each other, been helpful, been supportive. 1422 00:56:09,741 --> 00:56:11,531 {\an1}I think if it was like week four, 1423 00:56:11,618 --> 00:56:13,578 {\an1}week five, I’d be more anxious. 1424 00:56:13,704 --> 00:56:16,414 {\an1}- I think for me, I--I’d be lying if I were saying like, 1425 00:56:16,540 --> 00:56:17,920 {\an1}"Yeah, the last two weeks have been great for me." 1426 00:56:18,041 --> 00:56:20,711 {\an1}No. The last week has been great for me. 1427 00:56:20,794 --> 00:56:23,214 {\an1}I’ve had his focus this week, I would say. 1428 00:56:23,297 --> 00:56:26,087 {\an1}- What has given you joy with one another? 1429 00:56:26,216 --> 00:56:27,376 {\an1}Each one of you tell me. 1430 00:56:27,467 --> 00:56:32,057 {\an1}- I liked that, you know, more so in the last 1431 00:56:32,139 --> 00:56:34,769 {\an1}fewer weeks, things I like to eat. 1432 00:56:34,850 --> 00:56:36,560 {\an1}I mean, those are the things that... 1433 00:56:36,643 --> 00:56:38,103 {\an1}- Basically, what we’re learning here 1434 00:56:38,228 --> 00:56:40,518 {\an1}is that the heart of a man is through his stomach. 1435 00:56:40,606 --> 00:56:41,766 {\an1}- Yeah, yeah. - I’ve heard that. 1436 00:56:41,899 --> 00:56:43,109 {\an1}- Goldfish and sushi. - Yeah. 1437 00:56:43,191 --> 00:56:45,991 {\an1}- You’re the shark. - Yeah, yeah. 1438 00:56:46,111 --> 00:56:51,121 {\an1}So I think there was just a night where you were like, 1439 00:56:51,241 --> 00:56:53,621 {\an1}"I wanna put on a movie, eat some food, 1440 00:56:53,702 --> 00:56:55,292 {\an1}throw on sweats, and hop on the couch." 1441 00:56:55,412 --> 00:56:58,462 {\an1}And I was like, "Okay." 1442 00:56:58,540 --> 00:57:01,710 {\an1}[laughter] "We can do that." 1443 00:57:01,793 --> 00:57:04,003 {\an1}Those are the little moments that I look forward to 1444 00:57:04,129 --> 00:57:08,169 {\an1}where I feel a connection with you that’s really warm. 1445 00:57:08,300 --> 00:57:11,300 {\an1}- When I think about the really good times with Mark, 1446 00:57:11,428 --> 00:57:13,848 {\an1}it’s just being stupid together. 1447 00:57:13,972 --> 00:57:16,472 {\an1}What were we laughing about the other night? 1448 00:57:16,558 --> 00:57:17,598 {\an1}- Nothing. 1449 00:57:17,684 --> 00:57:18,984 {\an1}- I didn’t think it was anything. 1450 00:57:19,102 --> 00:57:21,152 {\an1}- You--I did a fake laugh. You did your-- 1451 00:57:21,229 --> 00:57:23,309 {\an1}- I made a joke, and you made a laugh. 1452 00:57:23,440 --> 00:57:24,980 {\an1}- And then your laugh-- - Oh, it was a fake laugh, now? 1453 00:57:25,067 --> 00:57:26,187 {\an1}- Well, it’s aggressive. 1454 00:57:26,318 --> 00:57:30,658 {\an1}- [laughing] - It’s a little scary. 1455 00:57:30,781 --> 00:57:33,661 {\an1}[laughter] 1456 00:57:33,784 --> 00:57:35,294 {\an1}- Like that one? - Like that one? 1457 00:57:35,369 --> 00:57:37,039 {\an1}- It’s very, like, Cruella. 1458 00:57:37,162 --> 00:57:38,792 {\an1}It’s like, "I’m gonna kill you." 1459 00:57:38,872 --> 00:57:41,082 {\an1}- Yeah. [laughter] 1460 00:57:41,166 --> 00:57:43,206 {\an1}- Okay, well... 1461 00:57:43,335 --> 00:57:44,635 {\an1}- You’re not gonna wake up tomorrow. 1462 00:57:44,711 --> 00:57:47,381 {\an1}[laughs] 1463 00:57:47,506 --> 00:57:48,836 {\an1}- Y’all--but y’all have-- 1464 00:57:48,924 --> 00:57:50,844 {\an1}it’s weird, because you sprinkle in-- 1465 00:57:50,926 --> 00:57:52,296 {\an1}okay, you have a lot of fun, 1466 00:57:52,386 --> 00:57:55,346 {\an1}and you’ve got, like, this childlike energy at times. 1467 00:57:55,472 --> 00:57:59,392 {\an1}And then y’all deal with really big adult stuff. 1468 00:57:59,518 --> 00:58:01,348 {\an1}You did a fertility test. 1469 00:58:01,436 --> 00:58:02,846 {\an1}- Sure. I’m at that age 1470 00:58:02,980 --> 00:58:05,480 {\an1}where I think that it would be important information. 1471 00:58:05,565 --> 00:58:08,065 {\an1}And I have always imagined 1472 00:58:08,193 --> 00:58:09,943 {\an1}traveling the world with my husband. 1473 00:58:10,028 --> 00:58:12,028 {\an1}Bringing the baby in the backpack, you know, 1474 00:58:12,114 --> 00:58:15,204 {\an1}to Dubai, like nothing is gonna hold me back. 1475 00:58:15,325 --> 00:58:17,535 {\an1}Even if I have a small child, we’ll still go to Africa 1476 00:58:17,661 --> 00:58:19,041 {\an1}or Australia. 1477 00:58:19,162 --> 00:58:21,212 {\an1}And I think that that’s not for everyone. 1478 00:58:21,289 --> 00:58:22,869 {\an1}Some people want a house with the picket fence 1479 00:58:23,000 --> 00:58:24,710 {\an1}and see the neighbors on their bikes. 1480 00:58:24,793 --> 00:58:28,713 {\an1}And I think that that’s Mark at his core. 1481 00:58:28,797 --> 00:58:30,507 {\an1}And Mark has such a hard time 1482 00:58:30,590 --> 00:58:32,010 {\an1}talking about the future, and I’m like, 1483 00:58:32,092 --> 00:58:34,262 {\an1}"I need a 5- and 10-year plan from you, buddy." 1484 00:58:34,386 --> 00:58:37,136 {\an1}And he is so eager to live moment by moment. 1485 00:58:37,222 --> 00:58:39,352 {\an1}Sometimes he’s just looking at his phone 1486 00:58:39,433 --> 00:58:41,023 {\an1}instead of the path in front of him. 1487 00:58:41,101 --> 00:58:44,151 {\an1}Mark was on his phone on social media a lot. 1488 00:58:44,229 --> 00:58:45,399 {\an1}It drove me nuts. 1489 00:58:45,480 --> 00:58:47,570 {\an1}And I’ve been thinking about this a lot. 1490 00:58:47,649 --> 00:58:49,939 {\an1}Social media, to me, 1491 00:58:50,068 --> 00:58:52,528 {\an1}is a filter that adds negativity. 1492 00:58:52,612 --> 00:58:55,992 {\an1}It is immature to post selfies with filters 1493 00:58:56,074 --> 00:58:57,914 {\an1}and, like, screenshots or, like-- 1494 00:58:58,035 --> 00:58:58,995 {\an1}- So is he doing that? 1495 00:58:59,077 --> 00:59:00,747 {\an1}- Yeah, and I know a lot of times 1496 00:59:00,829 --> 00:59:02,789 {\an1}you kinda doomsday things too. 1497 00:59:02,914 --> 00:59:04,584 {\an1}Like, "Oh, it’s a lot. She’s a lot." It’s negative. 1498 00:59:04,708 --> 00:59:06,078 {\an1}And I think-- 1499 00:59:06,209 --> 00:59:07,629 {\an1}- Are you saying he posts that? 1500 00:59:07,753 --> 00:59:09,633 {\an1}- He sends messages like that, yeah. 1501 00:59:09,755 --> 00:59:11,465 {\an1}And I’m like, you may think it’s nothing, 1502 00:59:11,590 --> 00:59:14,090 {\an1}but there’s receipts everywhere in the world today. 1503 00:59:14,217 --> 00:59:16,087 {\an1}So what you say about me, they will never-- 1504 00:59:16,219 --> 00:59:17,549 {\an1}I will never not know. 1505 00:59:17,637 --> 00:59:19,177 {\an1}Let’s just be very clear about that. 1506 00:59:19,264 --> 00:59:21,064 {\an1}Whatever you say about me on social media 1507 00:59:21,141 --> 00:59:24,351 {\an1}will 100% end up in my hands, and I think that 1508 00:59:24,436 --> 00:59:26,306 {\an1}that’s something you need to consider going forward. 1509 00:59:26,438 --> 00:59:29,318 {\an1}[dramatic music] 1510 00:59:29,441 --> 00:59:33,951 {\an1}♪ ♪ 1511 00:59:37,741 --> 00:59:38,911 {\an1}[tense music] 1512 00:59:38,992 --> 00:59:40,292 {\an1}♪ ♪ 1513 00:59:40,410 --> 00:59:42,790 {\an1}- I-I would never wanna feel, 1514 00:59:42,871 --> 00:59:44,461 {\an1}like, controlled, in a sense. 1515 00:59:44,539 --> 00:59:46,789 {\an1}- I’m never gonna tell you to do something. 1516 00:59:46,917 --> 00:59:48,627 {\an1}I’m telling you how it makes me feel, 1517 00:59:48,752 --> 00:59:52,302 {\an1}and it’s up for you to determine the next steps. 1518 00:59:54,049 --> 00:59:57,969 {\an1}- So what I think is, there’s a problem here. 1519 00:59:58,095 --> 01:00:00,815 {\an1}And there’s some feelings here. 1520 01:00:00,931 --> 01:00:03,181 {\an1}You both want happiness. 1521 01:00:03,308 --> 01:00:07,148 {\an1}And to me, I feel like behind your comments 1522 01:00:07,229 --> 01:00:09,309 {\an1}is there’s unfinished business about loyalty... 1523 01:00:09,439 --> 01:00:11,149 {\an1}- Yeah - And trust... 1524 01:00:11,233 --> 01:00:12,733 {\an1}- Absolutely. - And--and feeling secure. 1525 01:00:12,818 --> 01:00:15,108 {\an1}And--and that’s what we have to work on to make sure 1526 01:00:15,195 --> 01:00:17,785 {\an1}that you feel like your husband’s there for you 1527 01:00:17,864 --> 01:00:19,664 {\an1}in--in those ways. 1528 01:00:19,783 --> 01:00:21,663 {\an1}- Well, if you wanna shut something down 1529 01:00:21,743 --> 01:00:23,793 {\an1}without knowing the likes about it, 1530 01:00:23,870 --> 01:00:25,120 {\an1}that would be a concern. 1531 01:00:25,205 --> 01:00:27,465 {\an1}If you don’t know the good things I enjoy about it, 1532 01:00:27,541 --> 01:00:29,631 {\an1}versus the things that just immediately frustrate you. 1533 01:00:29,709 --> 01:00:31,249 {\an1}- What do you enjoy about it? 1534 01:00:31,336 --> 01:00:34,506 {\an1}- I enjoy--when I think with social media 1535 01:00:34,631 --> 01:00:36,511 {\an1}is the more out there you are, 1536 01:00:36,591 --> 01:00:38,511 {\an1}the more connections you have, you need something, 1537 01:00:38,593 --> 01:00:41,143 {\an1}you can get it faster than not even being on the internet. 1538 01:00:41,221 --> 01:00:42,721 {\an1}- So networking? - The network, yeah. 1539 01:00:42,848 --> 01:00:44,138 {\an1}- See, there’s a lot to learn here. 1540 01:00:44,224 --> 01:00:46,184 {\an1}- Yeah, for me, I just look at it like attention. 1541 01:00:46,309 --> 01:00:48,139 {\an1}- Well... - Like, if I’m in a bad mood, 1542 01:00:48,228 --> 01:00:49,518 {\an1}I’m gonna post a picture of myself 1543 01:00:49,646 --> 01:00:51,686 {\an1}so I get a bunch of messages saying, "You look good." 1544 01:00:51,773 --> 01:00:52,693 {\an1}- Can I say something here? - Sure. 1545 01:00:52,774 --> 01:00:54,864 {\an1}- Especially for you, Mark. 1546 01:00:54,985 --> 01:00:58,205 {\an1}There--there’s something that I tell guys in marriage. 1547 01:00:58,321 --> 01:01:00,871 {\an1}Sometimes you have to take an L, okay? 1548 01:01:00,949 --> 01:01:01,819 {\an1}You know what that means, right? 1549 01:01:01,908 --> 01:01:02,828 {\an1}- Mm-hmm. 1550 01:01:02,909 --> 01:01:04,409 {\an1}- Take a loss. - Mm-hmm. 1551 01:01:04,536 --> 01:01:07,746 {\an1}- Because if my wife tells me I’m not comfortable with this, 1552 01:01:07,873 --> 01:01:09,333 {\an1}my job is to make her comfortable. 1553 01:01:09,416 --> 01:01:10,536 {\an1}- Right. - Now, of course, 1554 01:01:10,667 --> 01:01:11,577 {\an1}ultimately, you make your own decision. 1555 01:01:11,710 --> 01:01:12,710 {\an1}I’m just giving you my, you know, 1556 01:01:12,836 --> 01:01:13,996 {\an1}my--my two cents here. - Sure, sure. 1557 01:01:14,087 --> 01:01:15,707 {\an1}- But I-I do think that there are times 1558 01:01:15,839 --> 01:01:18,379 {\an1}when it’s okay, and on the other side, 1559 01:01:18,508 --> 01:01:20,718 {\an1}there are times when it’s okay if he does it. 1560 01:01:20,802 --> 01:01:22,892 {\an1}♪ ♪ 1561 01:01:23,013 --> 01:01:28,023 {\an1}Now, with that said, the time is here for you to decide. 1562 01:01:29,060 --> 01:01:32,560 {\an1}Do you want to stay married or get a divorce? 1563 01:01:32,689 --> 01:01:35,609 {\an1}[suspenseful music] 1564 01:01:35,734 --> 01:01:36,734 {\an1}♪ ♪ 1565 01:01:36,818 --> 01:01:39,608 {\an1}- Through this marriage, 1566 01:01:39,738 --> 01:01:42,068 {\an1}you have pushed me 1567 01:01:42,157 --> 01:01:46,237 {\an1}more than people have pushed me before. 1568 01:01:46,369 --> 01:01:47,369 {\an1}And... 1569 01:01:47,454 --> 01:01:51,754 {\an1}♪ ♪ 1570 01:01:51,875 --> 01:01:55,595 {\an1}I think I wouldn’t have grown as much in just eight weeks 1571 01:01:55,670 --> 01:01:58,840 {\an1}had you not been selected as my wife. 1572 01:01:58,924 --> 01:02:02,764 {\an1}And I think that you’re worth it 1573 01:02:02,844 --> 01:02:07,064 {\an1}to say yes and continue 1574 01:02:07,140 --> 01:02:09,810 {\an1}and see where life takes us together. 1575 01:02:09,935 --> 01:02:12,775 {\an1}So my answer is yes, I wanna stay married. 1576 01:02:12,854 --> 01:02:16,114 {\an1}I feel that we have a good foundation 1577 01:02:16,191 --> 01:02:17,611 {\an1}of the things that are important to us 1578 01:02:17,692 --> 01:02:20,742 {\an1}to continue moving forward and see how it develops. 1579 01:02:20,820 --> 01:02:22,410 {\an1}There’s always gonna be some difficult times, 1580 01:02:22,489 --> 01:02:24,909 {\an1}but I think we have figured out a way to navigate it. 1581 01:02:24,991 --> 01:02:26,281 {\an1}- Thanks. - Sure. 1582 01:02:26,409 --> 01:02:27,539 {\an1}[laughter] 1583 01:02:27,619 --> 01:02:29,119 {\an1}Now what’s your answer? 1584 01:02:29,246 --> 01:02:32,286 {\an1}- Can I get back to you in 24-48 hours? 1585 01:02:32,415 --> 01:02:33,785 {\an1}[laughter] 1586 01:02:33,875 --> 01:02:35,245 {\an1}- You gotta make a decision. 1587 01:02:35,335 --> 01:02:37,135 {\an1}- Okay, I’ve thought about it long and hard. 1588 01:02:37,212 --> 01:02:38,422 {\an1}- That was--oh, jeez. 1589 01:02:38,505 --> 01:02:40,305 {\an1}- Oh, there’s a button in here. 1590 01:02:40,423 --> 01:02:42,803 {\an1}[tense music] 1591 01:02:42,884 --> 01:02:44,764 {\an1}Do you know what color it is? 1592 01:02:44,844 --> 01:02:46,644 {\an1}- If it’s not green, 1593 01:02:46,721 --> 01:02:48,601 {\an1}I’m gonna let go of your hand and leave fast. 1594 01:02:48,682 --> 01:02:50,272 {\an1}♪ ♪ 1595 01:02:50,350 --> 01:02:52,940 {\an1}- Mark... 1596 01:02:53,019 --> 01:02:56,019 {\an1}♪ ♪ 1597 01:02:56,147 --> 01:02:58,017 {\an1}You may not be what I envisioned 1598 01:02:58,149 --> 01:03:00,489 {\an1}as far as, like, adventure and food palate, 1599 01:03:00,568 --> 01:03:03,778 {\an1}but I feel as though you are genuinely 1600 01:03:03,863 --> 01:03:08,623 {\an1}good and kind, and... 1601 01:03:08,702 --> 01:03:11,542 {\an1}♪ ♪ 1602 01:03:11,663 --> 01:03:12,963 {\an1}- Yes, yes, yes, yes, yes. 1603 01:03:13,039 --> 01:03:16,039 {\an1}[laughter] - Whoo! 1604 01:03:16,167 --> 01:03:17,667 {\an1}- Now we got your answer. - Okay. 1605 01:03:17,752 --> 01:03:20,802 {\an1}- Aw, congratulations. 1606 01:03:20,880 --> 01:03:22,630 {\an1}- Thank you. - Awesome, thank you. 1607 01:03:22,716 --> 01:03:23,836 {\an1}- Are we ready for champagne? 1608 01:03:23,925 --> 01:03:24,965 {\an1}- Yes! 1609 01:03:25,051 --> 01:03:26,141 {\an1}[laughter] - Yay! 1610 01:03:26,219 --> 01:03:28,889 {\an1}- Congratulations. Mark, you did it, my man. 1611 01:03:29,014 --> 01:03:30,314 {\an1}- Thank you. - Congratulations. 1612 01:03:30,390 --> 01:03:35,350 {\an1}- Mark was not everything I asked for, 1613 01:03:35,437 --> 01:03:36,767 {\an1}but he’s everything I need. 1614 01:03:36,855 --> 01:03:38,025 {\an1}- Oh, my gosh. 1615 01:03:38,106 --> 01:03:39,896 {\an1}- We have a big yes here today. 1616 01:03:40,025 --> 01:03:43,995 {\an1}I think Mark and I have had a meeting of the minds 1617 01:03:44,070 --> 01:03:47,700 {\an1}and we’re ready to grow old and die together. 1618 01:03:47,782 --> 01:03:53,162 {\an1}- ♪ We took some wrong turns, but we’ll be all right ♪ 1619 01:03:53,246 --> 01:03:55,156 {\an1}- He’s not leaving me before death. 1620 01:03:55,248 --> 01:03:57,708 {\an1}Till death do us part. 1621 01:03:57,792 --> 01:03:58,712 {\an1}- Oh! - All right. 1622 01:03:58,835 --> 01:04:00,455 {\an1}- Hey. - Dramatic. 1623 01:04:00,545 --> 01:04:02,545 {\an1}- I feel, for where I’m at today, 1624 01:04:02,672 --> 01:04:03,802 {\an1}I made the right decision. 1625 01:04:03,882 --> 01:04:06,012 {\an1}Think we’ve gone through some hurdles, 1626 01:04:06,092 --> 01:04:08,552 {\an1}and I think we’re in a good place to move forward, 1627 01:04:08,678 --> 01:04:11,008 {\an1}and I think now it’s up to us to continue the momentum 1628 01:04:11,097 --> 01:04:12,387 {\an1}and take the tools we learn, 1629 01:04:12,474 --> 01:04:15,524 {\an1}and we can grow together and make more memories. 1630 01:04:15,602 --> 01:04:17,352 {\an1}♪ ♪ 1631 01:04:17,437 --> 01:04:19,017 {\an1}- Buckle up, baby. 1632 01:04:19,105 --> 01:04:23,025 {\an1}You’re going on a twisty-turny upside-down rollercoaster. 1633 01:04:23,109 --> 01:04:24,689 {\an1}Hang on for dear life. 1634 01:04:24,778 --> 01:04:26,568 {\an1}To the Mahers. - Congratulations. 1635 01:04:26,696 --> 01:04:28,236 {\an1}The Mahers. - The Mahers. 1636 01:04:28,323 --> 01:04:29,783 {\an1}- ♪ Oh, oh, oh ♪ 1637 01:04:29,908 --> 01:04:30,738 {\an1}♪ Be all right ♪ 1638 01:04:34,621 --> 01:04:36,751 {\an1}♪ I wanna be the one that makes you feel that way ♪ 1639 01:04:36,873 --> 01:04:39,333 {\an1}♪ Feel that way, feel that way ♪ 1640 01:04:39,417 --> 01:04:41,457 {\an1}♪ The one that makes you feel ♪ 1641 01:04:41,586 --> 01:04:42,706 {\an1}- Packing day. 1642 01:04:42,796 --> 01:04:44,546 {\an1}- With Decision Day now in the past, 1643 01:04:44,631 --> 01:04:45,881 {\an1}it’s time for our couples 1644 01:04:45,965 --> 01:04:47,875 {\an1}to start looking ahead to the future. 1645 01:04:47,967 --> 01:04:50,257 {\an1}We’ve all helped them up to this point, 1646 01:04:50,345 --> 01:04:51,605 {\an1}but now it’s up to them 1647 01:04:51,679 --> 01:04:53,719 {\an1}with how they wanna shape their marriage. 1648 01:04:53,807 --> 01:04:56,227 {\an1}- It’s good to see you smiling now. 1649 01:04:56,309 --> 01:04:57,639 {\an1}- Yeah, I was stressed. 1650 01:04:57,769 --> 01:05:01,899 {\an1}- I am happy that, you know, we came to our answers. 1651 01:05:01,981 --> 01:05:04,071 {\an1}I feel so much more relaxed. - Mm-hmm. 1652 01:05:04,150 --> 01:05:06,530 {\an1}- You start packing while we--while we gossip, 1653 01:05:06,611 --> 01:05:08,991 {\an1}’cause I know you could talk all day and night. 1654 01:05:09,114 --> 01:05:11,124 {\an1}I’m excited Katina, my pain in the butt, 1655 01:05:11,199 --> 01:05:13,869 {\an1}is officially Mrs. Dickerson. 1656 01:05:13,952 --> 01:05:16,332 {\an1}It’s not too much stuff we got left in here. 1657 01:05:16,454 --> 01:05:18,414 {\an1}You know, this is a lifetime dream to find love. 1658 01:05:18,498 --> 01:05:21,078 {\an1}I’m excited to see what the future holds for us. 1659 01:05:21,167 --> 01:05:22,457 {\an1}You gonna cry when you’re not here no more? 1660 01:05:22,544 --> 01:05:23,634 {\an1}- Maybe. 1661 01:05:23,711 --> 01:05:25,211 {\an1}- Next chapter for me and my wife 1662 01:05:25,296 --> 01:05:26,256 {\an1}is to travel. 1663 01:05:26,339 --> 01:05:27,589 {\an1}We’re gonna live life. 1664 01:05:27,674 --> 01:05:29,804 {\an1}You better not cry as we leave this apartment. 1665 01:05:29,884 --> 01:05:31,224 {\an1}And then after she finishes school, 1666 01:05:31,302 --> 01:05:33,432 {\an1}hopefully, we’ll start planning on babies 1667 01:05:33,513 --> 01:05:35,933 {\an1}and life and kids and things like that. 1668 01:05:36,015 --> 01:05:38,885 {\an1}- Can’t forget this, our photo album. 1669 01:05:38,977 --> 01:05:41,477 {\an1}What the future holds for the Dickersons, 1670 01:05:41,563 --> 01:05:42,653 {\an1}I don’t even know. 1671 01:05:42,730 --> 01:05:43,770 {\an1}A lot of traveling, 1672 01:05:43,857 --> 01:05:44,977 {\an1}just living, 1673 01:05:45,108 --> 01:05:47,318 {\an1}creating a new everyday life with each other. 1674 01:05:47,402 --> 01:05:49,492 {\an1}Give me one more kiss in our apartment. 1675 01:05:49,612 --> 01:05:53,162 {\an1}I’m so happy that I finished this journey 1676 01:05:53,241 --> 01:05:55,911 {\an1}and I get to leave here with my husband by my side. 1677 01:05:55,994 --> 01:05:57,914 {\an1}- I have enough faith in us 1678 01:05:57,996 --> 01:05:59,906 {\an1}that we could develop this energy anywhere. 1679 01:05:59,998 --> 01:06:01,418 {\an1}- ’Cause we’re the ones who make it a home. 1680 01:06:01,499 --> 01:06:04,959 {\an1}- Exactly. So it’s been real. - Bye. 1681 01:06:05,044 --> 01:06:06,594 {\an1}- There’s a lot more memories to go. 1682 01:06:06,671 --> 01:06:07,841 {\an1}Goodbye, apartment. 1683 01:06:07,964 --> 01:06:09,094 {\an1}This is really a dream come true. 1684 01:06:09,174 --> 01:06:10,344 {\an1}This is a fairy tale. 1685 01:06:10,467 --> 01:06:13,967 {\an1}- ♪ Ooh ♪ 1686 01:06:14,053 --> 01:06:18,313 {\an1}♪ Ooh ♪ 1687 01:06:18,391 --> 01:06:20,771 {\an1}- Are you kinda sad? I’m kinda sad. 1688 01:06:20,852 --> 01:06:23,352 {\an1}- Yeah, I’m sad to have to leave the beach. 1689 01:06:23,438 --> 01:06:25,858 {\an1}- Before I move in, do you want to, like, spruce up the place? 1690 01:06:25,940 --> 01:06:28,440 {\an1}Get it, like, ready? Like, wife-ready? 1691 01:06:28,526 --> 01:06:30,146 {\an1}Probably get rid of that couch, 1692 01:06:30,236 --> 01:06:32,026 {\an1}’cause I don’t like the way it looks. 1693 01:06:35,950 --> 01:06:37,700 {\an1}- [laughing quietly] Sure. 1694 01:06:37,785 --> 01:06:39,445 {\an1}- We kind of need to be living in the same place 1695 01:06:39,537 --> 01:06:42,367 {\an1}if we’re going to have a child, I think. 1696 01:06:42,457 --> 01:06:44,167 {\an1}- Oh, wow, okay. 1697 01:06:44,250 --> 01:06:48,300 {\an1}So--so you see the benefits of living together, interesting. 1698 01:06:48,379 --> 01:06:50,879 {\an1}I mean, you’ve come a long way in these last few weeks. 1699 01:06:50,965 --> 01:06:52,675 {\an1}- I really have. Aren’t you proud of me? 1700 01:06:52,759 --> 01:06:54,969 {\an1}- Yeah, good job. - [laughs] 1701 01:06:55,053 --> 01:07:00,393 {\an1}We’re both just excited to start planning our future. 1702 01:07:00,517 --> 01:07:03,637 {\an1}And I think travel’s gonna be on our calendars. 1703 01:07:03,728 --> 01:07:05,188 {\an1}We might get another dog. 1704 01:07:05,271 --> 01:07:07,731 {\an1}I’m trying to talk him into it, but I don’t know yet. 1705 01:07:07,815 --> 01:07:11,395 {\an1}- Are you gonna post all about it on social media? 1706 01:07:11,486 --> 01:07:14,856 {\an1}- I will post, but I will ask my husband 1707 01:07:14,948 --> 01:07:16,868 {\an1}if he’s okay with it. 1708 01:07:16,950 --> 01:07:18,910 {\an1}Then I will post it. 1709 01:07:19,035 --> 01:07:21,195 {\an1}- ♪ Give you my love ♪ 1710 01:07:21,287 --> 01:07:25,577 {\an1}♪ Say, say love, give you my love ♪ 1711 01:07:25,708 --> 01:07:28,588 {\an1}[upbeat music] 1712 01:07:28,711 --> 01:07:31,551 {\an1}♪ ♪ 1713 01:07:31,631 --> 01:07:33,511 {\an1}- This is like a party-size, 1714 01:07:33,591 --> 01:07:36,221 {\an1}family-size coffee, not finished. 1715 01:07:36,302 --> 01:07:38,012 {\an1}- Coffee is not good for you. 1716 01:07:38,096 --> 01:07:39,346 {\an1}- You just made that up. 1717 01:07:39,430 --> 01:07:40,600 {\an1}- You never got told growing up that coffee 1718 01:07:40,682 --> 01:07:42,932 {\an1}makes you stop growing? 1719 01:07:43,017 --> 01:07:45,597 {\an1}You never got told that? - No. 1720 01:07:45,728 --> 01:07:46,938 {\an1}That would make a lot of sense, though. 1721 01:07:47,021 --> 01:07:49,771 {\an1}[both laughing] 1722 01:07:49,857 --> 01:07:52,187 {\an1}Leaving this apartment, it’s definitely bittersweet. 1723 01:07:52,277 --> 01:07:54,107 {\an1}Me and Jasmina had a lot of good times here, 1724 01:07:54,195 --> 01:07:57,025 {\an1}but we aren’t moving in with each other immediately. 1725 01:07:57,115 --> 01:07:59,415 {\an1}This is my least favorite part of the process. 1726 01:07:59,492 --> 01:08:02,702 {\an1}There’s been so much other pressures on our marriage. 1727 01:08:02,787 --> 01:08:06,577 {\an1}The hope is once the cameras and extra-ness goes away, 1728 01:08:06,666 --> 01:08:09,786 {\an1}that me and Jasmina’s marriage will flourish going forward. 1729 01:08:09,919 --> 01:08:11,799 {\an1}♪ ♪ 1730 01:08:11,921 --> 01:08:15,631 {\an1}So being that we’re not living together immediately, 1731 01:08:15,758 --> 01:08:17,798 {\an1}I think putting, like, a specific number on it 1732 01:08:17,926 --> 01:08:19,926 {\an1}is probably gonna put more pressure on us than we need. 1733 01:08:20,013 --> 01:08:21,183 {\an1}- Mm-hmm. 1734 01:08:21,306 --> 01:08:23,306 {\an1}- Then we should just take it day by day 1735 01:08:23,390 --> 01:08:25,231 {\an1}and then when it make sense to move in together... 1736 01:08:25,309 --> 01:08:26,639 {\an1}- Yeah. - We’ll make that decision. 1737 01:08:26,769 --> 01:08:28,559 {\an1}- No, I agree. 1738 01:08:28,646 --> 01:08:30,606 {\an1}Even though we decided to live separately, 1739 01:08:30,690 --> 01:08:32,899 {\an1}I’m really looking forward to seeing, you know, 1740 01:08:32,984 --> 01:08:34,654 {\an1}how things end up with us. 1741 01:08:34,736 --> 01:08:38,026 {\an1}So we’re definitely gonna use this time to work on things, 1742 01:08:38,156 --> 01:08:39,406 {\an1}you know, on our own time to see 1743 01:08:39,490 --> 01:08:41,620 {\an1}if we can get there romantically. 1744 01:08:41,701 --> 01:08:43,081 {\an1}Why is it that I have way more stuff 1745 01:08:43,161 --> 01:08:45,161 {\an1}but I’m done packing before you? 1746 01:08:45,246 --> 01:08:48,496 {\an1}- Trying to spend as much time with you as possible. 1747 01:08:48,583 --> 01:08:49,792 {\an1}Not knowing how things are gonna unfold 1748 01:08:49,876 --> 01:08:51,286 {\an1}is anxiety-inducing. 1749 01:08:51,377 --> 01:08:52,586 {\an1}We’ve made a lot of progress, 1750 01:08:52,670 --> 01:08:54,670 {\an1}but we also have a lot of work to do, 1751 01:08:54,755 --> 01:08:56,296 {\an1}and it’s not gonna be easy. 1752 01:08:56,381 --> 01:08:57,512 {\an1}- Oh, my God. 1753 01:08:57,592 --> 01:08:59,592 {\an1}- This is nothing like I pictured, 1754 01:08:59,676 --> 01:09:01,346 {\an1}but at the end of the day, I felt ready, 1755 01:09:01,429 --> 01:09:03,179 {\an1}and I felt like I made the right decision. 1756 01:09:03,264 --> 01:09:05,644 {\an1}So now it’s just up to me and her, 1757 01:09:05,725 --> 01:09:08,485 {\an1}and I’m looking forward to it. 1758 01:09:08,560 --> 01:09:11,021 {\an1}- ♪ Feels so right ♪ 1759 01:09:11,147 --> 01:09:13,767 {\an1}♪ ♪ 1760 01:09:13,858 --> 01:09:16,237 {\an1}[upbeat music] 1761 01:09:16,361 --> 01:09:17,951 {\an1}- Ahh! 1762 01:09:18,029 --> 01:09:23,328 {\an1}♪ ♪ 1763 01:09:23,408 --> 01:09:24,828 {\an1}Ahh! - [laughs] 1764 01:09:24,911 --> 01:09:25,871 {\an1}- In the throat. 1765 01:09:25,952 --> 01:09:27,202 {\an1}[laughter] 1766 01:09:27,288 --> 01:09:28,538 {\an1}Oh! 1767 01:09:28,622 --> 01:09:30,212 {\an1}Okay, you win. 1768 01:09:30,333 --> 01:09:31,542 {\an1}- Okay. 1769 01:09:31,667 --> 01:09:32,708 {\an1}- Are you excited 1770 01:09:32,794 --> 01:09:35,174 {\an1}to be packing up our first place? 1771 01:09:35,254 --> 01:09:36,884 {\an1}- Kind of. - Yeah. 1772 01:09:36,964 --> 01:09:39,634 {\an1}Lindsey and I are moving in together. 1773 01:09:39,717 --> 01:09:42,506 {\an1}I do have a surprise for you, though. 1774 01:09:42,594 --> 01:09:43,795 {\an1}- Okay. 1775 01:09:43,888 --> 01:09:45,508 {\an1}♪ ♪ 1776 01:09:45,598 --> 01:09:47,728 {\an1}- What are these? - Keys to our place. 1777 01:09:47,850 --> 01:09:50,059 {\an1}- Okay, we got a place. - Yeah. 1778 01:09:50,144 --> 01:09:51,064 {\an1}Awesome. - Thanks, love. 1779 01:09:51,187 --> 01:09:53,397 {\an1}- Oh, my gosh! 1780 01:09:53,481 --> 01:09:56,071 {\an1}- Redoing my grandmother’s house, 1781 01:09:56,192 --> 01:09:59,742 {\an1}and who knows what’s gonna be in store after that? 1782 01:09:59,821 --> 01:10:01,911 {\an1}But that’s one big project 1783 01:10:02,031 --> 01:10:03,661 {\an1}that we’re both gonna do together. 1784 01:10:03,741 --> 01:10:05,991 {\an1}- I’m a little nervous-- all the work it needs. 1785 01:10:06,077 --> 01:10:07,237 {\an1}- Well, that’s the fun part. 1786 01:10:07,327 --> 01:10:08,788 {\an1}We get to have fun in doing that. 1787 01:10:08,913 --> 01:10:10,753 {\an1}- If you could be a fly on the wall 1788 01:10:10,832 --> 01:10:13,252 {\an1}during the renovations-- whew, buckle up. 1789 01:10:13,334 --> 01:10:15,174 {\an1}- Hey, watch-- 1790 01:10:15,253 --> 01:10:16,553 {\an1}- Hey, respect my knife. 1791 01:10:16,629 --> 01:10:19,759 {\an1}There’s ER visits in our future, guys. 1792 01:10:19,841 --> 01:10:21,380 {\an1}- How are we gonna pack all this up? 1793 01:10:21,467 --> 01:10:23,297 {\an1}- I don’t know. That’s why I got a husband. 1794 01:10:23,428 --> 01:10:24,508 {\an1}- Oh. 1795 01:10:24,594 --> 01:10:26,135 {\an1}- We’ve gone through so much 1796 01:10:26,264 --> 01:10:27,934 {\an1}and still not murdered each other. 1797 01:10:28,014 --> 01:10:30,175 {\an1}- [grunting] 1798 01:10:30,268 --> 01:10:32,518 {\an1}- So I think that this is just the beginning 1799 01:10:32,603 --> 01:10:33,603 {\an1}for Mark and Lindsey. 1800 01:10:33,730 --> 01:10:35,110 {\an1}I think these are ours. 1801 01:10:35,189 --> 01:10:37,689 {\an1}And I think that we are going to surprise you. 1802 01:10:37,775 --> 01:10:39,105 {\an1}- ♪ Say it to me, love you ♪ 1803 01:10:42,947 --> 01:10:45,527 {\an1}- ♪ Watch out, I’m coming through ♪ 1804 01:10:45,616 --> 01:10:47,616 {\an1}♪ Stacking up my Ws ♪ 1805 01:10:47,702 --> 01:10:50,041 {\an1}♪ On the go, it’s nothing new ♪ 1806 01:10:50,121 --> 01:10:51,541 {\an1}♪ ♪ 1807 01:10:51,621 --> 01:10:54,382 {\an1}all: Hi - Hey. 1808 01:10:54,459 --> 01:10:56,129 {\an1}- Hey, guys. - Hey. 1809 01:10:56,252 --> 01:10:57,592 {\an1}- Look at you. - Hey, friends. 1810 01:10:57,670 --> 01:11:00,260 {\an1}- What’s going on? - Hi. 1811 01:11:00,339 --> 01:11:02,469 {\an1}- I’m really excited to see all the couples 1812 01:11:02,592 --> 01:11:03,632 {\an1}and hear their decisions. 1813 01:11:03,718 --> 01:11:04,798 {\an1}The past eight weeks have been 1814 01:11:04,886 --> 01:11:07,255 {\an1}a lot of learning and growth for everyone. 1815 01:11:07,346 --> 01:11:10,636 {\an1}So, like, who knows what to expect with these people? 1816 01:11:10,725 --> 01:11:12,105 {\an1}[laughs] 1817 01:11:12,184 --> 01:11:14,355 {\an1}♪ ♪ 1818 01:11:14,478 --> 01:11:16,939 {\an1}- Oh. - Ooh. 1819 01:11:17,023 --> 01:11:20,483 {\an1}[all exclaiming] 1820 01:11:20,610 --> 01:11:22,240 {\an1}- Chris is in the building. 1821 01:11:22,320 --> 01:11:23,280 {\an1}- Look at you go. 1822 01:11:23,362 --> 01:11:26,412 {\an1}- Wow. - Looking sharp. 1823 01:11:26,491 --> 01:11:29,451 {\an1}- It is very, very good to see everybody. 1824 01:11:29,535 --> 01:11:32,615 {\an1}I’m excited to be back. I’m excited to be here. 1825 01:11:32,705 --> 01:11:34,705 {\an1}[all exclaiming] 1826 01:11:34,832 --> 01:11:37,462 {\an1}- Look at you. - Hey. 1827 01:11:37,543 --> 01:11:40,673 {\an1}- I’m not really excited to see Alyssa, 1828 01:11:40,755 --> 01:11:43,264 {\an1}but I just want to hear the updates 1829 01:11:43,341 --> 01:11:45,471 {\an1}from everybody else and to put a big, 1830 01:11:45,550 --> 01:11:47,511 {\an1}beautiful bow on this whole process. 1831 01:11:47,637 --> 01:11:48,677 {\an1}- Hi. - Hi. How are you? 1832 01:11:48,763 --> 01:11:50,933 {\an1}- Good. How are you? - Good. 1833 01:11:51,014 --> 01:11:53,475 {\an1}- I have not spoken to Chris at all. 1834 01:11:53,559 --> 01:11:57,349 {\an1}I think the last time that I saw everyone was at bowling 1835 01:11:57,438 --> 01:12:00,858 {\an1}when we told everyone our decision. 1836 01:12:00,942 --> 01:12:02,862 {\an1}- When Pastor Cal came, 1837 01:12:02,985 --> 01:12:06,355 {\an1}it was a tough conversation for both of us. 1838 01:12:06,489 --> 01:12:10,699 {\an1}And we landed on getting divorced. 1839 01:12:10,827 --> 01:12:13,327 {\an1}♪ ♪ 1840 01:12:13,412 --> 01:12:16,541 {\an1}- You know, I feel like I’ve gotten past that, and... 1841 01:12:16,624 --> 01:12:19,964 {\an1}I just hope that everyone’s marriage 1842 01:12:20,044 --> 01:12:21,924 {\an1}lasted a little longer than mine. 1843 01:12:22,046 --> 01:12:23,376 {\an1}[laughs] 1844 01:12:23,505 --> 01:12:25,046 {\an1}- I love this dress, Alyssa. 1845 01:12:25,174 --> 01:12:26,054 {\an1}- Thank you. - I know. 1846 01:12:26,175 --> 01:12:27,335 {\an1}- The sparkle. - It’s sparkling. 1847 01:12:27,425 --> 01:12:29,046 {\an1}- You know, hits the sun the right way. 1848 01:12:29,178 --> 01:12:33,468 {\an1}- Alyssa walks in like it was her ex-husband’s funeral. 1849 01:12:33,558 --> 01:12:35,388 {\an1}[both laughing] 1850 01:12:35,476 --> 01:12:37,476 {\an1}That’s how you look when you about to see your ex-husband. 1851 01:12:37,562 --> 01:12:39,362 {\an1}- And she came last, and she came last. 1852 01:12:39,438 --> 01:12:40,978 {\an1}- Ooh. - Walking in fashionably late. 1853 01:12:41,065 --> 01:12:44,985 {\an1}♪ ♪ 1854 01:12:45,068 --> 01:12:46,609 {\an1}- How have you been, Alyssa? 1855 01:12:46,737 --> 01:12:49,567 {\an1}- Yeah, give us a update. 1856 01:12:49,699 --> 01:12:52,529 {\an1}- I’ve been good. 1857 01:12:52,618 --> 01:12:56,248 {\an1}This wasn’t the easiest process for me. 1858 01:12:56,330 --> 01:12:58,000 {\an1}And, you know, I’m disappointed 1859 01:12:58,082 --> 01:12:59,882 {\an1}it didn’t go the way that I hoped, 1860 01:12:59,959 --> 01:13:03,379 {\an1}but I’ve just been having a really good summer. 1861 01:13:03,462 --> 01:13:06,922 {\an1}What has everyone else been up to? 1862 01:13:07,008 --> 01:13:09,388 {\an1}- Life has been calmer. 1863 01:13:09,468 --> 01:13:12,758 {\an1}I don’t quite have that stress or anxiety all day of feeling 1864 01:13:12,847 --> 01:13:16,927 {\an1}like you’re having to push through things, 1865 01:13:17,018 --> 01:13:18,388 {\an1}but things have been really, really good. 1866 01:13:18,477 --> 01:13:22,267 {\an1}And I have since started dating again. 1867 01:13:22,398 --> 01:13:25,068 {\an1}[cheers] - Yay. 1868 01:13:25,151 --> 01:13:26,281 {\an1}- Back on the field. 1869 01:13:26,402 --> 01:13:27,322 {\an1}- Chin-chin, my friend. 1870 01:13:27,445 --> 01:13:28,615 {\an1}- Appreciate it. 1871 01:13:28,737 --> 01:13:31,778 {\an1}- That’s amazing. 1872 01:13:31,866 --> 01:13:33,736 {\an1}- Chris is thriving. 1873 01:13:33,826 --> 01:13:37,076 {\an1}I mean, it sounds like after going through this process 1874 01:13:37,163 --> 01:13:39,423 {\an1}he realized how great he is and what he brings 1875 01:13:39,498 --> 01:13:41,958 {\an1}to the table and what he doesn’t want. 1876 01:13:48,174 --> 01:13:49,304 {\an1}I think Alyssa is gonna be doing 1877 01:13:49,383 --> 01:13:51,013 {\an1}the same thing for a while. 1878 01:13:51,135 --> 01:13:53,094 {\an1}I don’t see any growth or change from her, 1879 01:13:53,179 --> 01:13:56,929 {\an1}so...hopefully one day. 1880 01:13:57,016 --> 01:13:57,976 {\an1}- I’m in a good place, and I’m happy, 1881 01:13:58,100 --> 01:13:59,480 {\an1}and I’m happy I did it. 1882 01:13:59,602 --> 01:14:02,562 {\an1}I’m excited to hear what’s going on with all of you guys. 1883 01:14:02,647 --> 01:14:04,897 {\an1}- We decided that we are gonna stay married. 1884 01:14:04,982 --> 01:14:06,782 {\an1}- Yay! - Yeah! 1885 01:14:06,859 --> 01:14:09,489 {\an1}- Whoo! 1886 01:14:11,155 --> 01:14:12,775 {\an1}- Consummated. - Well... 1887 01:14:12,865 --> 01:14:14,315 {\an1}- After Decision Day, 1888 01:14:14,407 --> 01:14:16,288 {\an1}I had to let loose and go home with my wife. 1889 01:14:16,369 --> 01:14:18,159 {\an1}[laughter] - Hey! 1890 01:14:18,245 --> 01:14:21,205 {\an1}[cheers and applause] 1891 01:14:21,332 --> 01:14:23,791 {\an1}- Just wanna let you know it was well worth the wait. 1892 01:14:23,876 --> 01:14:26,956 {\an1}[laughter] 1893 01:14:27,046 --> 01:14:28,335 {\an1}♪ ♪ 1894 01:14:28,464 --> 01:14:30,554 {\an1}- After Decision Day, the night was young. 1895 01:14:30,675 --> 01:14:31,805 {\an1}It was hot. 1896 01:14:31,884 --> 01:14:33,804 {\an1}We laid in the bed expressing how we felt 1897 01:14:33,886 --> 01:14:35,966 {\an1}about each other and the growth we had, 1898 01:14:36,055 --> 01:14:39,025 {\an1}and then Katina and I finally consummated our marriage, 1899 01:14:39,100 --> 01:14:41,940 {\an1}and it means so much to me, because we’re over the hump. 1900 01:14:42,019 --> 01:14:42,939 {\an1}We both made our decision. 1901 01:14:43,020 --> 01:14:44,020 {\an1}It’s finalized. 1902 01:14:44,105 --> 01:14:46,525 {\an1}It was beautiful. It was great. 1903 01:14:46,607 --> 01:14:49,277 {\an1}- I’m happy that you chose to, you know, 1904 01:14:49,360 --> 01:14:52,360 {\an1}lead with your emotions before your penis... 1905 01:14:52,446 --> 01:14:53,526 {\an1}- Yeah. - Because, you know, 1906 01:14:53,656 --> 01:14:54,656 {\an1}you also mentioned that when you 1907 01:14:54,740 --> 01:14:55,870 {\an1}usually get that from a woman, like, 1908 01:14:55,950 --> 01:14:57,490 {\an1}you--you don’t really care afterwards, 1909 01:14:57,576 --> 01:14:59,996 {\an1}and so, you know, I’m glad that you-- 1910 01:15:00,079 --> 01:15:01,119 {\an1}- He care now. - You waited. 1911 01:15:01,205 --> 01:15:03,535 {\an1}- You hear that, ladies? He care now. 1912 01:15:03,624 --> 01:15:06,134 {\an1}[laughter] 1913 01:15:06,210 --> 01:15:08,420 {\an1}- I-I think that the dopest thing is he’s had 1914 01:15:08,546 --> 01:15:12,335 {\an1}the life of, you know, dating around and, you know-- 1915 01:15:12,425 --> 01:15:13,344 {\an1}- Hoeing. 1916 01:15:13,425 --> 01:15:14,466 {\an1}- I was trying to figure out 1917 01:15:14,552 --> 01:15:16,222 {\an1}a nicer way to say it. - [laughs] 1918 01:15:16,344 --> 01:15:17,795 {\an1}- He wanted this to be different. 1919 01:15:17,888 --> 01:15:19,638 {\an1}He didn’t want to make the same mistakes. 1920 01:15:19,724 --> 01:15:22,394 {\an1}- Happy for my sis. [laughs] 1921 01:15:22,476 --> 01:15:23,726 {\an1}Sis looks like she happy too. 1922 01:15:23,811 --> 01:15:26,021 {\an1}[both laughing] 1923 01:15:26,105 --> 01:15:29,155 {\an1}- It was intense. It was very intense. [laughs] 1924 01:15:29,233 --> 01:15:32,193 {\an1}- So, Mike and Lindsey, can we get a answer? 1925 01:15:32,278 --> 01:15:34,568 {\an1}- It was a very interesting marriage. 1926 01:15:34,697 --> 01:15:38,907 {\an1}Lots of ups and downs and laughs, but... 1927 01:15:38,993 --> 01:15:41,163 {\an1}- [laughing] 1928 01:15:41,245 --> 01:15:44,115 {\an1}[laughter] 1929 01:15:44,248 --> 01:15:46,668 {\an1}[quirky music] 1930 01:15:46,751 --> 01:15:48,710 {\an1}- It was a lot of ups and downs. 1931 01:15:48,794 --> 01:15:50,424 {\an1}A lot of life hurdles. 1932 01:15:50,504 --> 01:15:52,844 {\an1}[laughing] 1933 01:15:52,923 --> 01:15:56,683 {\an1}- But we said yes. - Yeah! 1934 01:15:56,761 --> 01:15:58,891 {\an1}[cheers and applause] 1935 01:15:58,971 --> 01:16:00,311 {\an1}- I’m not surprised 1936 01:16:00,431 --> 01:16:02,061 {\an1}that Mark and Lindsey stayed together, honestly. 1937 01:16:02,141 --> 01:16:06,231 {\an1}I mean, they’ve had major blowups, major blowups, 1938 01:16:06,312 --> 01:16:08,942 {\an1}but they’re honestly like two peas in a pod. 1939 01:16:09,023 --> 01:16:11,943 {\an1}I mean, they can definitely make it work 1940 01:16:12,068 --> 01:16:14,318 {\an1}if they don’t give up on each other. 1941 01:16:14,445 --> 01:16:16,115 {\an1}- Jasmina and Mike? - Oh, yeah, Jasmina and Mike. 1942 01:16:16,237 --> 01:16:18,368 {\an1}- Yeah, yeah, what’s going on over there? 1943 01:16:18,449 --> 01:16:19,369 {\an1}♪ ♪ 1944 01:16:19,450 --> 01:16:22,290 {\an1}Um... 1945 01:16:22,411 --> 01:16:28,251 {\an1}I mean, you guys know Mike and I had a not-so-good start. 1946 01:16:28,334 --> 01:16:30,714 {\an1}- Yeah. - And... 1947 01:16:30,795 --> 01:16:32,635 {\an1}Oh--mm. 1948 01:16:32,755 --> 01:16:34,055 {\an1}♪ ♪ 1949 01:16:34,130 --> 01:16:35,721 {\an1}- Oh, my God, don’t break my heart. 1950 01:16:35,800 --> 01:16:38,180 {\an1}- But we decided we need more time, and we stayed married. 1951 01:16:38,302 --> 01:16:40,472 {\an1}[all cheering] 1952 01:16:40,554 --> 01:16:42,644 {\an1}- I’m so excited! - Oh, my God. 1953 01:16:42,723 --> 01:16:44,933 {\an1}She--she thought they were gonna say no. 1954 01:16:45,017 --> 01:16:46,807 {\an1}[indistinct chatter] - Ah! 1955 01:16:46,894 --> 01:16:48,154 {\an1}I knew it! 1956 01:16:48,270 --> 01:16:50,610 {\an1}Mike and Jasmina, staying together. 1957 01:16:50,689 --> 01:16:52,769 {\an1}I think if anybody out of these couples 1958 01:16:52,858 --> 01:16:55,068 {\an1}was gonna stand the test of longevity, 1959 01:16:55,152 --> 01:16:56,782 {\an1}besides Mark and I, 1960 01:16:56,862 --> 01:17:00,121 {\an1}if any other couple is gonna make it forever, 1961 01:17:00,199 --> 01:17:01,579 {\an1}it’s them. 1962 01:17:01,659 --> 01:17:03,989 {\an1}- So really why we said yes is we feel like 1963 01:17:04,120 --> 01:17:05,830 {\an1}without, you know, all the cameras, 1964 01:17:05,913 --> 01:17:07,163 {\an1}things will flow better, 1965 01:17:07,248 --> 01:17:08,708 {\an1}and we’re just hoping that, you know, 1966 01:17:08,833 --> 01:17:10,293 {\an1}we can just take it day by day and not put 1967 01:17:10,376 --> 01:17:12,835 {\an1}all the pressure that this puts on us. 1968 01:17:12,962 --> 01:17:15,802 {\an1}- Yeah, and I always said that I would never 1969 01:17:15,880 --> 01:17:17,091 {\an1}leave any type of relationship 1970 01:17:17,174 --> 01:17:20,554 {\an1}if I felt like I didn’t give 100%, 1971 01:17:20,678 --> 01:17:22,548 {\an1}and I can’t say that I gave 100% 1972 01:17:22,680 --> 01:17:25,430 {\an1}if I don’t try after--after this. 1973 01:17:25,516 --> 01:17:27,925 {\an1}So we’re gonna see how it goes. 1974 01:17:28,018 --> 01:17:29,348 {\an1}♪ ♪ 1975 01:17:29,478 --> 01:17:32,188 {\an1}- Steve and Noi, it’s on to you guys. 1976 01:17:32,314 --> 01:17:35,864 {\an1}- So we decided... 1977 01:17:35,985 --> 01:17:37,195 {\an1}to stay married. 1978 01:17:37,278 --> 01:17:38,568 {\an1}- Oh, yes! 1979 01:17:38,696 --> 01:17:40,526 {\an1}Most successful. 1980 01:17:40,656 --> 01:17:41,986 {\an1}- Like, we didn’t know. 1981 01:17:42,074 --> 01:17:44,034 {\an1}- I know. - Cheers. 1982 01:17:44,160 --> 01:17:46,370 {\an1}- Four out of five couples stayed together. 1983 01:17:46,452 --> 01:17:48,293 {\an1}It’s just great to see that, 1984 01:17:48,371 --> 01:17:50,041 {\an1}through everyone’s tough times, 1985 01:17:50,166 --> 01:17:51,706 {\an1}they were able to get back to a place 1986 01:17:51,791 --> 01:17:53,382 {\an1}of why you got married 1987 01:17:53,502 --> 01:17:55,842 {\an1}and why your wife or husband is good for you 1988 01:17:55,921 --> 01:17:58,050 {\an1}if you really think about it. 1989 01:17:58,132 --> 01:18:00,722 {\an1}- So me and Noi had a bit of a tradition. 1990 01:18:00,843 --> 01:18:04,303 {\an1}On our wedding day, I gave her a ring pop, 1991 01:18:04,388 --> 01:18:06,888 {\an1}and I just wanted to do it one--one last time. 1992 01:18:06,974 --> 01:18:07,934 {\an1}all: Aw. 1993 01:18:08,058 --> 01:18:10,518 {\an1}- Oh, my God. - No. 1994 01:18:10,603 --> 01:18:11,813 {\an1}- Wait, are you doing this right now? 1995 01:18:11,896 --> 01:18:13,726 {\an1}- It’s--yeah, it’s blue. 1996 01:18:13,814 --> 01:18:15,443 {\an1}- Whoo! - Don’t eat it now, 1997 01:18:15,566 --> 01:18:16,646 {\an1}’cause you know what happens to your lips 1998 01:18:16,734 --> 01:18:17,943 {\an1}after you eat the blue one. 1999 01:18:18,068 --> 01:18:20,648 {\an1}I just wanted, you know, do it one last time 2000 01:18:20,737 --> 01:18:23,737 {\an1}when I ask you, will you be mine? 2001 01:18:23,824 --> 01:18:27,744 {\an1}- Aw. - Yes. Thanks, honey. 2002 01:18:27,870 --> 01:18:30,660 {\an1}It’s beautiful. It’s just the size I wanted. 2003 01:18:30,748 --> 01:18:32,327 {\an1}[laughter] 2004 01:18:32,416 --> 01:18:34,996 {\an1}- Same. - That’s so sweet. 2005 01:18:35,085 --> 01:18:36,915 {\an1}- And, you know, in-- 2006 01:18:37,004 --> 01:18:39,264 {\an1}in that same respect, to our wedding, 2007 01:18:39,380 --> 01:18:42,261 {\an1}I also wanted to let you know that I got you a second ring. 2008 01:18:42,343 --> 01:18:44,053 {\an1}- Wait, what? - Just in case you didn’t-- 2009 01:18:44,136 --> 01:18:46,556 {\an1}[all exclaiming] - That’s how you do it. 2010 01:18:46,639 --> 01:18:47,929 {\an1}- No, no, I’m gonna cry. - What? 2011 01:18:48,057 --> 01:18:52,597 {\an1}- I wanted to ask you if you’d be my adventure buddy, 2012 01:18:52,728 --> 01:18:54,438 {\an1}my Sushi father, 2013 01:18:54,563 --> 01:18:56,573 {\an1}and my partner in life. 2014 01:18:56,648 --> 01:18:59,529 {\an1}- [sobbing] 2015 01:18:59,610 --> 01:19:03,740 {\an1}♪ ♪ 2016 01:19:03,822 --> 01:19:06,452 {\an1}Wait, what? I get two rings? 2017 01:19:06,532 --> 01:19:09,083 {\an1}- [laughing] Yes. 2018 01:19:09,161 --> 01:19:10,291 {\an1}Will you accept this one? 2019 01:19:10,412 --> 01:19:12,412 {\an1}- It’s so beautiful. - It’s so beautiful. 2020 01:19:12,498 --> 01:19:14,958 {\an1}- I’m sorry. I’m still crying. 2021 01:19:15,041 --> 01:19:16,962 {\an1}Oh, my God, yeah. 2022 01:19:17,044 --> 01:19:20,464 {\an1}- ♪ La la la la la la la la la la la la la ♪ 2023 01:19:20,547 --> 01:19:23,377 {\an1}♪ La la la la la la la la la la la ♪ 2024 01:19:23,467 --> 01:19:25,007 {\an1}♪ You got me speechless ♪ 2025 01:19:25,135 --> 01:19:27,425 {\an1}- That’s how you do it. Cheers, you guys. 2026 01:19:27,513 --> 01:19:28,893 {\an1}- Cheers. Try it on. 2027 01:19:28,973 --> 01:19:31,643 {\an1}- Okay. Do you know my size? 2028 01:19:31,725 --> 01:19:33,264 {\an1}- I think it’s the only thing 2029 01:19:33,352 --> 01:19:35,152 {\an1}I knew about you before this process. 2030 01:19:35,228 --> 01:19:36,939 {\an1}- Oh, it’s beautiful. 2031 01:19:37,022 --> 01:19:41,152 {\an1}- ♪ La la la la la, you got me speechless ♪ 2032 01:19:41,277 --> 01:19:43,817 {\an1}♪ Speechless ♪ 2033 01:19:43,904 --> 01:19:47,284 {\an1}- Oh, my God, it’s so pretty. [sobs] 2034 01:19:47,366 --> 01:19:49,576 {\an1}- Don’t ugly cry, girl. You look so pretty. 2035 01:19:49,660 --> 01:19:51,410 {\an1}- I can’t help it. 2036 01:19:51,495 --> 01:19:53,325 {\an1}- That’s so pretty. 2037 01:19:53,455 --> 01:19:55,455 {\an1}♪ ♪ 2038 01:19:55,541 --> 01:19:59,541 {\an1}[cheers and applause] 2039 01:19:59,670 --> 01:20:01,250 {\an1}- Are we invited to the wedding? 2040 01:20:01,338 --> 01:20:02,758 {\an1}[laughter] 2041 01:20:02,840 --> 01:20:05,760 {\an1}- Of course. Oh, my God. 2042 01:20:05,843 --> 01:20:08,053 {\an1}I am so obsessed with my new engagement ring. 2043 01:20:08,178 --> 01:20:09,678 {\an1}It’s so cute. 2044 01:20:09,805 --> 01:20:11,425 {\an1}Getting married at first sight, you know, 2045 01:20:11,514 --> 01:20:13,594 {\an1}you’re already making a commitment to being married, 2046 01:20:13,684 --> 01:20:17,023 {\an1}but for my husband to actually ask again, 2047 01:20:17,146 --> 01:20:18,436 {\an1}it was really special. 2048 01:20:18,522 --> 01:20:20,272 {\an1}I feel like we’re both 2049 01:20:20,357 --> 01:20:24,277 {\an1}just excited to enjoy our new life together. 2050 01:20:24,361 --> 01:20:28,031 {\an1}- ♪ I need you ♪ 2051 01:20:28,115 --> 01:20:29,575 {\an1}- I’m glad I did this. 2052 01:20:29,700 --> 01:20:32,040 {\an1}I’m glad that Lindsey was there for me through a lot 2053 01:20:32,119 --> 01:20:33,789 {\an1}of the tough times in this process. 2054 01:20:33,871 --> 01:20:34,751 {\an1}I’m glad I met everyone here. 2055 01:20:34,871 --> 01:20:35,832 {\an1}Everyone was very helpful 2056 01:20:35,914 --> 01:20:39,214 {\an1}to the difficulties in this marriage 2057 01:20:39,335 --> 01:20:40,545 {\an1}and the good times in this marriage. 2058 01:20:40,627 --> 01:20:43,127 {\an1}And I definitely consider everyone here 2059 01:20:43,213 --> 01:20:44,553 {\an1}friends for life. 2060 01:20:44,673 --> 01:20:46,053 {\an1}I’d do it again. 2061 01:20:46,133 --> 01:20:49,683 {\an1}- I’m so happy that we all decided to stay married. 2062 01:20:49,762 --> 01:20:51,892 {\an1}I feel like it’s like a dream come true. 2063 01:20:52,014 --> 01:20:54,314 {\an1}And I can’t wait to start 2064 01:20:54,391 --> 01:20:57,731 {\an1}this new chapter of my life with Olajuwon. 2065 01:20:57,853 --> 01:20:59,903 {\an1}- ♪ Only, only, if it comes to you ♪ 2066 01:21:00,022 --> 01:21:02,442 {\an1}- It’s kind of, like, sad to think about the end of this 2067 01:21:02,566 --> 01:21:06,316 {\an1}because these are people that I truly consider family. 2068 01:21:06,403 --> 01:21:09,532 {\an1}And I’m glad that we went through this together. 2069 01:21:09,615 --> 01:21:11,585 {\an1}[laughter] 2070 01:21:11,657 --> 01:21:13,407 {\an1}- ♪ Oh ♪ 2071 01:21:13,535 --> 01:21:16,495 {\an1}- It has been a great journey together. 2072 01:21:16,580 --> 01:21:18,080 {\an1}So many memories, 2073 01:21:18,207 --> 01:21:21,166 {\an1}so many things I wouldn’t change for a second. 2074 01:21:21,251 --> 01:21:25,761 {\an1}I’m just really grateful that I got selected 2075 01:21:25,839 --> 01:21:28,839 {\an1}to find a wife and go through this, 2076 01:21:28,925 --> 01:21:32,466 {\an1}and the future looks so bright from here. 2077 01:21:32,596 --> 01:21:34,846 {\an1}I think it’s gonna be a good life ahead. 2078 01:21:34,932 --> 01:21:36,562 {\an1}♪ ♪ 2079 01:21:36,642 --> 01:21:37,932 {\an1}- "Marriage is hard" on three. 2080 01:21:38,018 --> 01:21:41,978 {\an1}all: One, two, three, marriage is hard! 2081 01:21:42,106 --> 01:21:46,356 {\an1}- ♪ Come together now ♪ 2082 01:21:46,443 --> 01:21:47,903 {\an1}♪ ♪ 2083 01:21:47,986 --> 01:21:49,906 {\an1}- Next time on the "Married at First Sight" 2084 01:21:49,987 --> 01:21:51,448 {\an1}Boston reunion... 2085 01:21:51,532 --> 01:21:54,082 {\an1}[laughter] - The cats! 2086 01:21:54,159 --> 01:21:55,539 {\an1}- The couples are back... 2087 01:21:55,619 --> 01:21:56,699 {\an1}- I thought everything was perfect. 2088 01:21:56,787 --> 01:21:59,117 {\an1}- And ready to reveal everything. 2089 01:21:59,206 --> 01:22:00,996 {\an1}- You were sending messages to my husband 2090 01:22:01,125 --> 01:22:03,295 {\an1}privately on Instagram. 2091 01:22:03,419 --> 01:22:04,749 {\an1}- Mark is full of [bleep]. 2092 01:22:04,837 --> 01:22:07,207 {\an1}Why have sex with her? 2093 01:22:07,297 --> 01:22:10,427 {\an1}- Mike and I got into a very nasty argument. 2094 01:22:10,509 --> 01:22:12,259 {\an1}- Oh, okay. 2095 01:22:12,344 --> 01:22:14,394 {\an1}- The job search-- are you looking or no? 2096 01:22:14,471 --> 01:22:16,061 {\an1}- Um... 2097 01:22:16,139 --> 01:22:17,930 {\an1}- He said your food was inedible. 2098 01:22:18,016 --> 01:22:19,346 {\an1}- It hurt my feelings. 2099 01:22:19,476 --> 01:22:23,096 {\an1}- How do you feel about how he’s responding? 2100 01:22:23,188 --> 01:22:24,608 {\an1}- If I’m being very honest-- 2101 01:22:24,690 --> 01:22:26,270 {\an1}- I--well-- - No. No, no, no, no, no. 2102 01:22:26,358 --> 01:22:28,608 {\an1}- Viv, you’re cutting me off. 2103 01:22:28,693 --> 01:22:30,744 {\an1}- There will be more secrets to reveal. 2104 01:22:30,821 --> 01:22:31,951 {\an1}- Like, that freaked me out. 2105 01:22:32,030 --> 01:22:34,120 {\an1}- More unsettled issues to resolve. 2106 01:22:34,199 --> 01:22:35,119 {\an1}- None of that [bleep] matters. 2107 01:22:35,200 --> 01:22:37,160 {\an1}- And more healing to be done. 2108 01:22:37,244 --> 01:22:39,124 {\an1}- I know this is like a running joke, 2109 01:22:39,204 --> 01:22:41,714 {\an1}but I am a good person. 2110 01:22:41,832 --> 01:22:42,922 {\an1}- You’re just not worth my time. 2111 01:22:43,000 --> 01:22:45,170 {\an1}- Dude, you sound like an ass. 2112 01:22:45,252 --> 01:22:46,291 {\an1}- That was really uncalled for. 2113 01:22:46,378 --> 01:22:47,798 {\an1}- Mike slammed the door on me. 2114 01:22:47,880 --> 01:22:49,510 {\an1}- I don’t know what to believe. 2115 01:22:49,590 --> 01:22:51,380 {\an1}- Next time on the "Married at First Sight" 2116 01:22:51,508 --> 01:22:53,508 {\an1}Boston reunion. 2117 01:22:53,594 --> 01:22:55,353 {\an1}You’re still happily married, right? 2118 01:22:55,429 --> 01:22:56,849 {\an1}- About that, Kevin... 2119 01:22:56,972 --> 01:23:00,182 {\an1}♪ ♪