- All right, y’all, let’s get this done quick.
- Last week on part one
of the "Married At First Sight: Boston Reunion,"
I sat down with all the couples
from this past season and got the inside scoop
on what’s happened since the came ras went away.
There were sweet moments that showed us
that love can prevail.
You’re still happily married, right?
- Of course we are.
[laughter]
- Katina, I couldn’t be any more happier
to call you my wife.
- And some big surprises that came as quite a shock.
- We are not together, no.
[tense music]
- Are you still Mrs. Mark the Shark?
- Absolutely not.
- No? - We’re not together.
- And we revisited some issues that have not
and probably will not be resolved.
- I would put Lindsey at the top for the way
I was threatened and bullied like that.
- I truly believe that I was putting in
more of an effort than he was.
- Alyssa, did Lindsey make you uncomfortable?
- Mm-hmm. - In what way?
- Every way?
- Nothing was off-limits, and tonight,
we’re gonna dive even deeper.
Do you think she’s a good person?
- [chuckles] - Yeah.
It’s a loaded question, but it...
[dramatic music]
Olajuwon, I’m about to throw you
under the bus a little bit.
Noi and Steve,
did you guys work everything out?
- I don’t know what to believe.
- You cannot say that I did not try.
And you didn’t hit me up at--
- So--so this is what I-- - I’m not done talking.
- I hate reliving this.
- We also have the "Married At First Sight" experts.
- You both destroyed the marriage.
- Ooh, I have so many opinions.
- I was told I wouldn’t feel like I was being attacked,
and I do feel that way.
- You’re gonna go back into the dating pool like,
"What the frick was I thinking?"
- The entire cast will come together
to hash out the season’s most talked about conflicts.
- I cussed Olajuwon out so many times.
- I definitely didn’t see that coming.
- Alyssa, you blocked me, like, sending messages
to my husband privately on Instagram.
- I will not stand up for lies.
- Did you go too far?
- This is my line, don’t pass it, respect me.
- All that and much more...
Mark says you spit on him.
As the "Married At First Sight: Boston Reunion" continues.
Wow! - [laughs]
- Bombshell!
Boom, head exploded!
♪ ♪
Welcome back to part two
of the "Married At First Sight: Boston Reunion."
I’m your host, Kevin Frazier,
and we have so much to cover tonight.
Last time, we met with all the couples from Boston,
and I’m joined now on the stage by all the ladies.
Now, this group of women really brought the heat
with their powerful and unique personalities,
and they didn’t always get along, but that’s okay.
Ladies, first of all, I love the colors
and I love the look.
I mean, you look great. - Thank you.
- We had to make sure we didn’t wear the same color.
- We did. - We’re trying to bring
the rainbow here. - [chuckles]
- Okay, you guys all-- when you first met,
what were your initial impressions?
- Well, my initial impression,
I was like, Lindsey, she’s high energy.
Noi, I was like, she’s so sweet.
Jasmina, I was like, ooh, I could tell
that’s gonna be my homegirl.
- [laughs] - And then Alyssa, I could tell
Alyssa was the type where I gotta warm up to you first,
but you were friendly, you know what I mean?
So...
- So who stays in touch with who?
- I think we’re all pretty much in touch.
- Yeah, I have-- we have a group chat,
we literally talk every single day.
- Yeah? - Katina and I talk
on the phone all the time.
Noi and I have been talking
a lot more and going out more.
- Now, have some of y’all
blocked each other on social media?
You said that Alyssa blocked you
on social media. - Yeah.
- Is that true? - Yeah, yeah.
I went, you know, when we first met
at the bachelorette party,
we all went around and asked each other,
what are your biggest flaws?
And I remember I said, you know, like,
I’m intense, I need somebody to reel me in.
And we had all gone around.
And when we got to Alyssa, she said, "Me?
Nothing," and I was like,
"Oh, self-awareness, got it."
And she blocked me then
before the second half of the night,
and I remember calling her the next day to be like,
"I’m sorry if that hurt your feelings,
I’d love to talk about it."
But she couldn’t be bothered, so...
- That’s not what happened.
Lindsey wasn’t saying nice things about me
at the bachelorette party, and it made me uncomfortable
to be friends on social media with somebody
who was talking poorly about me.
And the next day, she did call me,
but it wasn’t to apologize.
It was actually very rude.
And I actually had to say, "Lindsey, you know,
"I have no problem talking to you.
"But if you’re gonna talk like that to me
and say not nice things, then I’m gonna hang up."
And I did.
- Okay.
Does anybody else have Lindsey blocked?
- I don’t have her blocked, but I unfollowed her.
[dramatic music]
- Okay, all right, we’ll get to that in a second.
Since Decision Day,
Jasmina and Michael called it quits,
and so did Lindsey and Mark.
Were you all surprised by any of those decisions?
- It wasn’t that it was a surprise.
I had had conversations with Lindsey before and Mark
where I could kind of see that they were, like, butting heads.
And then with Mike and Jasmina,
it was the same thing.
It’s like they both tried,
and then it just didn’t work out.
- Noi, were you surprised?
- I was surprised.
I thought that Mike and Jasmina,
I know they had their troubles with communication.
- [chuckles]
- They struggled a bit in the beginning,
but I really thought that they could have worked out.
I thought they would find their flow, I guess.
So I was surprised by that.
And then Mark and Lindsey,
I was surprised that that happened so fast too,
because they had just moved in together.
I think there was a lot of intense emotions
going between you guys, but I didn’t really
expect it to happen so soon.
- Let’s talk about Katina and Olajuwon,
which, I mean, you want to talk about a couple
that just makes you smile,
and it has been a beautiful journey.
But in the beginning...
[laughter] Olajuwon might have been
a little confused about what he expected out of his wife.
I want to show you all this clip--
- Oh, gosh. - Of a dinner you two had
where Olajuwon was laying out his expectations.
- Oh, yeah. [laughter]
- I can’t settle with somebody if I think they don’t
have a base on just being a adult
because they don’t have enough life experience.
And that’s the disconnection that I’m having with you.
That’s how I truly feel inside with me.
I have to see what you picked up.
What does my wife-- can--is she a fast learner?
I need to know who I’m married to.
- You know what? I need a break.
- Watching that back now,
what does that make you think, Jasmina, when you saw that?
- I would always hear about it.
I cussed Olajuwon out so many times, honestly.
Mike and I got so close with Katina and Olajuwon
because we just always spoke about things
in our marriage that we just needed advice on.
Olajuwon and I had, like, one on one conversations
where, you know, I spoke to him about
how he talks to her or about the cooking thing.
And I’m like, "You don’t cook either."
- [chuckling] - You know,
and I told him, like, "I’m somebody
that doesn’t believe in gender roles,"
you know, like, "She also works a job.
She also wants to come home to a meal as well."
- So you got after Olajuwon, huh?
- Yeah, a couple times.
[laughter] A couple times.
- Lindsey, you and Olajuwon have become friends.
Watching that, what did you think?
- You know, I love Olajuwon.
He wears his heart on his sleeve,
and he can say when he’s wrong and say "I’m sorry."
- He’s done a fantastic job. - Yeah.
- Mm-hmm. - I, uh, I wanted
to add to that.
It’s one thing, like, he is the type of person
that when he’s angry, he says a lot of things in the moment.
- Yup. - But what people
don’t see is when he catches himself.
- Yeah. - They--they don’t see him
correcting himself.
They don’t see him admitting that
he was wrong and him apologizing.
- Yeah, no doubt.
And I mean, no one has grown like he has grown.
And by the way, Katina, how do you handle Olajuwon these days?
- Oh, now I just talk [bleep] back.
[laughter]
[upbeat music]
- And--and I got to say again,
Olajuwon came out and he said, "I saw that,
"and I hated it.
And I knew I had to be better."
And he has, and--how about that beautiful ring?
Come on now. - It’s ginormous.
- I think she earned every stone on that ring.
- He did good. Right.
He’s like, "This is for all the times
I embarrassed you on camera."
[laughter]
- It’s big, it’s big.
Let’s talk about Noi and Steve,
and were y’all a little surprised
when you saw there was friction between them?
- Yes!
- Yeah, when you first--listen. - I always wondered what
their arguments looked like. - No, because
we were so open and honest about things
that we, like, went through,
and they would always be chilling.
And then the first time they said they had a problem,
we were like, "What happened?" - "Really?"
Yeah. - [laughter]
- Are you comfortable talking about it,
or do you not want to talk about it here, or...
- I’d rather not.
- Any reason?
- I just don’t feel like it.
- Okay. Um...
[tense music]
- We had a pretty easy beginning,
and then once we had tension and started arguing,
it was like, what do we do now?
- What did you all think about Steve
not having full-time employment initially?
- [high-pitched] Mm.
- For me, when I heard Steve, like,
traveled across country and he said he didn’t have a job,
I was like, "Well, he has to have money."
- Right. - So in my opinion,
I didn’t judge him because he didn’t have a job.
As long as he can take care of you and himself
and bills are paid, I don’t see what the issue is.
- Lindsey, you thought differently.
- No, I was like, "This man needs a job."
- [chuckles] - Like, she grew up
in a refugee camp.
She said she wanted a six-figure man.
I don’t care if your family has money or you have money,
I want to see your drive on a job.
- No, I think we all agree that he should have a job.
But what we’re saying is we didn’t judge him--
- We didn’t judge him. - Off of that right away.
- Right. - Yeah.
- Because we wanted to hear
why he didn’t have a job and what the plan was.
- Who here thinks that Noi and Steve
will be the first to have babies?
[upbeat music]
Katina, you raised that hand quick.
[laughter] Katina raised her hand quick.
- I thought they would’ve made one on the honeymoon!
- Noi wants three kids, she’s got to get on it, you know?
- Everybody’s around to babysit?
- Of course. - No.
- Nah, I’m in California-- - I work with children, so...
- You kind of have to come and drop them off.
I’ll watch them while you go to wine country.
- Okay. [laughs] Perfect.
- All right, well--well, since you’re in California,
let’s switch gears and talk about y’all.
During this journey, there were points where
you rubbed some of the other ladies the wrong way,
whether it was a look or something you’ve said.
Let’s take a look.
[laughter]
I was just triggered.
- You know you triggered that moment for yourself, right?
You know?
- It’s not my fault that this happened.
Please don’t do that, Lindsey, while I’m talking.
- [laughs] I’m not doing anything.
- Look at your wife introducing you to things.
- Does she blindfold you too?
- No, but it’s like-- - I would, though.
[laughs] Let’s take you to the bedroom.
[laughs]
- Who is most likely to start a fight?
- Lindsey. - I said Lindsey too.
- Lindsey. - Lindsey.
- I don’t give a [bleep] what y’all think.
- The laugh is classic.
- [laughs]
- Has your lack of a filter
gotten you in trouble in the past?
- Oh, of course, absolutely. - Yeah?
- I would be lying if I said it didn’t.
Of course I put my foot in my mouth at times,
but I think I can always learn and, like,
I love feedback and I’m receptive to it.
♪ ♪
- Alyssa, did Lindsey make you uncomfortable
in the short time that you were on the show?
- Mm-hmm.
I felt uncomfortable every time, yeah.
- What do you think about that?
- Ooh, I have so many opinions.
Let’s just cut right to the chase.
Alyssa, you blocked me, but you were sending
messages to my husband privately on Instagram.
- No.
- I don’t believe you.
- That’s not the truth.
And I mean, I have the messages.
- You also were told
not to be at the apartment, but showed up
and talked badly about me to everybody you could.
And I’d hear about it.
And I was like, "Mark, she doesn’t wish our
"marriage well, she doesn’t wish her well.
"You don’t need to be friends with her.
She’s not a good person."
[dramatic music]
And I just really felt like
we’re here for marriage, and you’re not, so stay home.
♪ ♪
- Um...
♪ ♪
- Alyssa, you blocked me,
but you were sending messages to my husband
privately on Instagram.
- No.
- You also talked badly about me
to everybody you could,
and I just really felt like
we’re here for marriage, and you’re not, so stay home.
[dramatic music]
- Um...
can I chime in for a second?
- Sure, please. - Okay.
Because a lot of--Lindsey, what you’re saying isn’t true,
and I’m not sure where the confusion is
with me and Mark talking,
but Mark is the one that reached out to me.
And I’m grateful for that because he
wanted to check on me and make sure I was okay.
- Mm-hmm. - And that means a lot to me,
and I never, ever talked badly about their relationship.
You guys can attest to that.
- I just want to say I did see the messages
with Mark and Alyssa, and they weren’t inappropriate.
She texts Olajuwon-- - I text Olajuwon all the time,
we talk on the phone. - Lindsey texts Olajuwon.
It was the same conversation. - Yes.
- I text Steve, it was just regular--
- We all text, like, we’re friends.
[chuckles]
- So it was just passive messages?
Like, "Hey, you’re okay?" - Well...
- Yeah. - Sort of.
There was a moment when we got off the bus to the airport
and I was like, "Alyssa, I just want to talk to you.
I’m so clumsy, I’m just gonna blurt it all out."
And I was like, "Everybody I’ve
interacted with has said..." - [scoffs]
- "That you have been rude," and you were like,
"I am literally the nicest person."
And I was like, "But you’re not."
I’m constantly hearing that you’re rude
and belittling them. - I’ve never been rude
to anyone on--
- I know, you’re the nicest person.
- [sighs] Lindsey.
Just because we aren’t friends doesn’t mean
that you have to come at people like that.
I have been nothing but respectful of you.
I have not talked bad about Lindsey to any of the girls.
All I’ve said is, like, we don’t get along
and the fact that she makes up stories and lies
is the problem that I have.
- [high-pitched] Mm.
- I own up to everything I’ve said on the show,
as you’ve seen, and everything I’ve done,
and I’ve apologized for things that I’ve done and said,
but I will not stand up for lies.
I won’t do it.
- I will say
Alyssa does not talk about her.
She doesn’t, like-- - Never.
- Yeah, she doesn’t talk about you.
- Because she doesn’t care.
She knows, like, I was friends with Lindsey,
and I don’t like when people
are talking about somebody that I’m friends with.
- Lindsey, do you feel like
there is something there, or is it squashed?
- I know my truth, and I know that’s not it.
So I’m just gonna leave it where it is.
I have no love lost.
- Okay, okay.
Jasmina, I also heard
through the grapevine-- - Uh-uh, what you heard?
Oh, my God. - I’ma tell you right now,
I’ma break it down for you
right now, here we go,
that there had been some conflict
between you and Lindsey at the airport
following a taping of the Afterparty show.
- Yes, there was.
Noi and I were riding
to the airport with Lindsey,
and we kind of got into it
because she was just talking about Alyssa,
just saying all these really nasty things,
and I’m like, "She’s not here. She’s my friend.
Please don’t talk about her."
And then she wouldn’t stop, she was like,
"Of course you’re gonna be on her side."
I’m like, "It’s not on her side.
I just don’t like that mean girl stuff."
And she told me to stop talking or get out her car.
When we got to the airport, I sent her a message
and I said, "That’s very disrespectful.
"Like, that was really uncalled for.
"And that’s the rudest thing
"that anybody has ever said to me.
"So moving forward,
I don’t want your energy around me."
- Did you feel bad after that?
- Yeah, you know, we--I had to remember, she said to me,
"You know, when Alyssa talks bad about you, I tell her
I don’t want to hear it, so I don’t want to hear it either."
- But I don’t ever.
- That’s not what I said. - Never once.
- ’Cause she was getting loud and I was like,
"Uh-uh, nuh-uh,
"I’m not waking up at 6:00 a.m. to have you get loud at me.
"If you want to get loud, the airport’s right there.
You can get off and walk up that ramp."
- So Noi was there in the car. - Mm-hmm.
- And hearing my story and hearing Lindsey’s story,
whose story would you say was accurate?
- I don’t remember Jasmina getting loud,
but she was establishing a boundary and just saying,
you know, like, "I’m not comfortable
talking about Alyssa when she’s not here."
- Mm-mm.
- Thank you for clarifying that.
- Yeah. - That I wasn’t being loud
and that’s not what happened. - But--
Jasmina wasn’t yelling.
- All right, let me ask you about this.
Lindsey, on Afterparty, you said Alyssa
was actually told by her psychic
that she was meant to be with a man
with a lion tattoo, not an eagle tattoo.
- Alyssa was very specific
on the vision of the man she wanted.
She wanted a man with a lion tattoo and big muscles.
- Yeah, she said something about her psychic
that I guess her soul mate would have, like,
an eagle tattoo or something. - She said it was a lion.
- Where did you hear this story from?
Because...
- I had heard it from Chris’s groomsman.
- And the reason she changed it to an eagle tattoo
is because Steve has a lion tattoo,
and that upset Noi.
- Mm-hmm, that’s what I had heard from all the boys.
It was already circling around and I was like,
"Noi, just breathe deep, it’s cool.
"Don’t stress about it.
I think it’s probably just a miss--miss thing.
Maybe it was your soul mate who got that lion tattoo."
[tense music]
- I would like to comment on that.
- Yeah, sure. - When I just hear things
that just really aren’t the truth, it just bothers me.
Lindsey actually messaged me and Katina on Instagram
and was like, "Check your DMs."
And she was like, "Oh, it’s a lion tattoo.
Steve has it," dah-dah-dah-dah.
And I think because she already didn’t like Alyssa,
she just wanted to keep, like, stirring the pot.
- Mm-hmm. - And even when we were
on our way to the airport,
Lindsey came in and told Noi, "Check your Instagram."
And when she said that, I automatically knew
she was gonna tell Noi about the tattoo,
and she did it right in front of Alyssa.
And I just thought it was just super messy.
But, like, for her to, like, sit there and, like,
try to play it down when, like,
she’s the one that was telling all of the girls...
- Yeah. - It’s like, we didn’t need
to know that, that wasn’t our business.
- No. - But she wanted us to know it
to get a reaction out of us
to make it look-- Alyssa look, like, crazy.
- Noi, what do you believe?
- I don’t know what to believe.
I mean, I think Lindsey really did
get the information that it was a lion tattoo.
I don’t think that’s a lie.
And I--I do believe that it was an eagle tattoo.
- Mm-hmm. - But I think what I was
upset about when it finally came to me was like,
"Okay, well, I just met my husband.
"I don’t want someone thinking that my husband
is their soul mate." - Is theirs.
- Because I don’t know what to do.
I’m like, "Okay, this is upsetting."
- Totally. - But I wasn’t upset at you.
- I know, I know. - I wasn’t upset at you.
- So we can solve this once and for all.
Steve was not meant to be Alyssa’s husband.
- Correct. - Uh, no.
- Clearly not. - Obviously, Steve was meant
to be Noi’s husband. - Yeah.
- I just want to make sure that everybody knows,
everybody knows here. - I mean...
- We have solved the puzzle. - Yes.
- Steve is supposed to be with Noi.
- Yes. - Thank you.
- Okay, I do want to ask one question.
Mark the Shark didn’t work out.
What kind of man would you recommend for Lindsey?
- I would say someone who’s adventurous,
patient, and someone who has money.
[laughs]
- Thank you, girl, I appreciate that.
- Jasmina?
- Honestly, I agree with everything she said.
And somebody that’d make her orgasm
a couple of times, she said.
- I appreciate that too.
[laughter] - Okay.
We hit uncharted ground.
I didn’t know we were going there.
Noi? - [chuckles]
- Yeah, I think Lindsey needs someone
who’s really strong and stable.
And someone who will love and accept you
for everything you are.
- Mm-hmm.
- Lindsey, what kind of man do you think Jasmina needs?
- I think probably family-focused
might be the most important thing.
I know Jasmina holds family at a high point.
I know you’re gonna be a good mom.
You really want kids. - Thank you.
- So I hope the man that you end up with
is a good father and a patient man with a kind heart.
- Thank you, Lindsey, I really appreciate that.
- The two sides of Lindsey are amazing
because she can be the sweetest pe--
you can be the sweetest person in the world.
- Yeah, she can. - Mm-hmm.
- But boy, you’ll cut a person, won’t you?
You’d cut ’em. - If you come for me,
I’m gonna bite back. - I know you will cut somebody.
Whew! - [growls]
- Noi, what kind of man do you think Jasmina needs?
- I think Jasmina needs somebody
who is really intellectual.
I think Jasmina is very smart and, you know,
she likes to have in-depth conversations.
- I think she needs someone who’s kind
and caring and compassionate, who wants a family
and someone who’s gonna take care of her.
- I’m not gonna lie, we’re really describing Mike
in a lot of ways.
- I know. - Isn’t that interesting?
Isn’t that interesting? - But, you know,
not one of y’all said communication!
[laughter]
- What kind of man does Alyssa need?
- Oh, God, all right.
- Can I actually answer it?
- Well, you can, but let Katina do what she gotta do.
- Please, ’cause, like, I’m-- - Hold on, hold on.
- Yours would probably be more accurate, but...
You know those country, like--
- She needs a cowboy. - You just gotta be country,
the cowboy type person.
- I was just gonna say she needs a cowboy.
[laughter]
- All--you got all worked up. - What does that mean, y’all?
- That’s--that’s why I said let me go first.
- You got all worked up to just say cowboy.
- What does that mean? - And what does that mean?
- Like, the boots and the hat. - Yes.
- Yes, her aesthetic. - There’s dudes in Bos--
there’s dudes in Boston like that.
- Yeah, with the straw--
like the straw in his-- - Like the hay in the mouth.
- And they just go like this. - With the--
- That’s just what she
always describes. - He likes to line dance?
- Listen, I love the country lifestyle.
I ride horses, I shoot guns, I love to be in the country,
I like to ride four wheelers.
That’s just what I like to do.
And so that’s what I’m attracted to.
- It really was fun talking to you ladies,
sitting out here, having a chat
and going back and forth a little bit.
We’re gonna switch out those chairs
and bring the men in.
Look, there has been a lot of drama on the stage tonight,
and things are just getting started.
Now it is time to hear from the fellas.
I’d like to welcome all the husbands
from this past season in Boston.
Gentlemen, how are we doing?
- Great. - Feeling good.
- Good. - Good, okay,
I love to hear that.
Has this become a real bromance?
- Oh, yeah. - For sure, for sure.
- Yep. - Yeah, out the gate.
- Really? - Easily, yeah.
- Yeah. - Out the gate, out the gate.
- Mark, I will say this:
you seem like a different person
when you’re not with Lindsey.
- 100%. - Yeah?
- Well, with the guys, it’s just more positivity.
It feels good to be with the guys.
- Do you guys feel like you needed
to, in many ways, stand up and defend
and help Mark stand up to what he was going through?
- Absolutely. - Yeah.
- [clears throat] Again, he was partnered
with somebody--I don’t think she has bad intentions,
but she don’t take
accountability for her own actions.
And she’s easy to point the finger
but never looks at herself before she makes her judgement.
- She does not hesitate to talk about your mama
or your grandmother. - No, mm-mm.
- Does that bother you?
- It bothers me because it’s irrelevant to our relationship.
- Mm-hmm. - So when she takes these digs,
I’m like, "You know, you’re just trying to find ways
to hurt me because you’re hurt emotionally."
You know, the last time that we got into a blowout,
she spit on my shirt.
And I thought that was the worst thing
you can do to a person.
Like, I’ve been bullied a lot as a kid,
and this was probably the worst bullying to my face
I’ve--I’ve dealt with.
Like, uh, I shook a lot of times when we fought.
I got really frightened of her.
But I had the support of these guys and, you know,
they never said, "Here we go again."
It was like, "Oh, like, we’re here for you,"
like, "We’ll get you through it," so...
- Absolutely. - Yeah.
- Outside of your marriage, there was a lot
going on in your life during this process.
Let’s take a look at it.
- I feel a little embarrassed because there was, like,
a bedbug situation in my whole apartment.
It’s kind of a hot mess up there.
- I’ll hold it, you dump it. - Okay.
[upbeat music]
- Oh.
What is this?
- Those are "90210" CDs.
- All right, this is gonna be trash.
- I need to find work, so I have to kind of see
what’s out there and see what’s available right now.
- You can work on getting to know me in this marriage.
- So I think it’s probably in his best interest, then,
that I say goodbye.
[soft music]
♪ ♪
- You’re a good cat dad.
- ♪ Goodbye, goodbye, my friend ♪
- [sniffles]
Let’s go.
- Okay.
- All right, first of all, how’s everything going?
How are you doing now?
- Life’s good now, you know? - Yeah.
It was a tough moment, though.
There were tough moments. - Yeah.
It’s tough when, like, you know,
you go into this for the reasons of--
of, you know, finding love,
and you know, Lindsay has good--good,
you know, reasons behind her, and she has good--
good intentions, but it’s tough when, you know,
you pair with someone that you--you fight with.
It triggers a lot, and the cat passed away,
and I think it’s just hard
to, you know, put an animal down,
especially on this type of a platform.
It was--there was a lot that day,
but--and she was there to support me.
But, you know, it was-- it was probably
the most emotional thing I’ve ever been through
in this much time, you know?
- Yeah. - So...
- Lindsey was there for a lot of those moments
where you needed her.
Because of that, do you guys think
he should have--that Mark should have tried harder?
- She does a lot of great things.
But when you do all the other negative things
that we’re talking about, the condescending,
the--the low blows, the--the things that just seem
like, "Why are you trying to attack me?"
It doesn’t cancel each other out
just because you’re doing good stuff.
- I believe Mark is much better off without Lindsey.
The things that--that she did put him through,
nobody should have to go through.
- Absolutely not.
- I hear you, and look, it is beautiful that you have
the brotherhood to kind of at least have people
to go to and talk to and help you through that time.
That’s great.
Let’s move on.
Were y’all surprised when you heard the things
Alyssa said about Chris?
- So I knew they had their issues.
I didn’t know it was to that extent.
When I heard some of the things she was saying, like,
when she didn’t know the cameras were rolling,
I was just like, shoot,
I didn’t know that’s how hard she was going on Chris.
- She kept saying she was a good person.
- [chuckles]
- I’m not a bad person,
and I’m a really [bleep] good person.
This is the person that I’m going to be shown as,
and that’s not okay,
because I’m a really [bleep] good person.
And I came here with the right intention.
Like, I’m not a bad person, and I’m a good person, and...
[sniffles]
It just upsets me that he tries
to make it look otherwise.
♪ ♪
- Do you think she’s a good person?
- [chuckles] That’s a lo--
the most loaded question of questions.
- Yeah, it’s a loaded question.
- [laughs] - But it--yeah.
- Uh, I mean, what do you do when you’re
matched with somebody that you don’t want to be with, right?
How do you handle that?
That’s a really tough situation.
I don’t know that, in that pressure situation,
she handled it the way that she should have.
- Mm, I hear you.
It--but as you said, it was...
[exhales] It was a lot
that he went through. - Yeah.
- Steve, you had a bit of a bomb
dropped on you when you found out
that your wife wasn’t planning on moving in with you
at the end of this process.
All of your plans got just thrown right out the window.
I mean, that hit you out of nowhere.
I mean, usually you get married and you move in together.
How shocked were you?
- So I definitely didn’t see that coming.
It was just, you know, in my head, hey,
you go through the process, you get married.
If on Decision Day you say yes,
you move in and you live your life.
So when she had that different opinion or different thought,
I was just like, "Whoa, okay, what’s going on here?"
- Yeah. - You know, and I really
had to weigh that out.
I understand it, and as you know,
one of my challenges is she holds back
so much of what she feels and what’s going on internally.
But I still need a level of certainty
that you are committed to this, you are serious about this.
If you can give me that, then you can live wherever you want.
- But is that the kind of thing, guys,
you think that should have come up before you got married,
or at least early on in the process,
not at the end?
- You’ve got to respect her decision,
but as time goes on,
you want to see growth together.
- Yeah. - Right.
Olajuwon, let’s talk about you right now
because you made quite a stir this season.
- Yeah. - Talking about your wife
and your idea of what a wife should do and be.
Right? - [groans]
Yeah.
- [laughter] - Well, why’re you
giving me that? - Yeah.
- Here we go again.
- I do want to know what you guys think about that,
with the fact that his wife should have
a hot meal on the table every night...
- Just waiting for you. - And she should be cooking
and cleaning in the house?
- It’s not my marriage. [laughter]
- I--I think that Olajuwon
has learned a lot through this process.
- Yeah, for real. - I do, I do.
I think--I think-- - No one has learned more!
- No, 100%, 100%. - [laughs]
- I think he came into this, you know,
we all have some type of level of expectation.
We have to kind of, you know, bring those down
because we don’t know what to expect.
But Olajuwon had these certain things
and we all have deal-breakers and we have things that we
realize that aren’t deal-breakers.
- Mm-hmm. - Yeah.
- And, you know, now it’s like,
"Hey, I’m actually getting what I want."
And, you know, it seems to be finding a way
that it makes it work for both of you.
- Right.
- I talk to O all the time,
so the time that she cooks,
he calls me like, "Oh, my wife put it down.
My wife put it down, Mike!" - [laughter]
- "My wife put it down, Mike!"
- And one other thing is he had an expectation of cooking.
He didn’t say what.
Now, all of a sudden, he’s like, "She’s making
gourmet meals and stuff I’ve never had before."
- She’s making shrimp-- she makes--
boiling shrimp and lobster, wasn’t it?
- There was a lobster tail that--
- She turned him on to lobster tail.
- Lobs--yep! - She turned him on
and he had no idea. - He sent me pictures
all happy. - Yeah.
- Let’s talk about Michael and Jasmina.
Do you think that there was anything
that Michael could have done differently?
I said you should have romanced her
a little more, you know.
But do you guys think there’s anything
that he could have done differently?
- I want to hear this, guys, I need this.
- I think with Mike, I think the one thing I wish
is that he could have just been more relaxed
and not overthought things.
I know Mike cared a lot about doing the right thing
in the right moment, which is--which is huge
because not many people do that, they’re just impulsive.
And I Mike cared so much about it
that it caused a little overthinking.
And I think with Mike, I just hope that
next situation, try to relax a little bit,
because you have so many qualities
that any woman in America would love.
- Listen, guys, this has been so much fun
and there is still a lot more ahead
when we get everybody back on the stage a little bit later.
And what do you guys think?
Is there gonna be some drama when everybody gets--
- Drama? With us? No. - No, not at all.
- Not with this group. - Everybody gets along,
everybody loves everybody. - [chuckles]
- They said it, not me.
It is now time to talk to the three people
responsible for these matches,
and we get a chance to pick their brains
on how they think it all turned out.
All right, let’s welcome the experts:
Dr. Pepper, Pastor Cal, and Dr. Viviana.
Oh, so glad to see y’all. - Good to see you.
- You too.
- Hey, Kevin. - Great.
- Okay.
- Well, this is my favorite segment,
because now let’s-- let’s talk about these folks
and what we saw this season.
Let me ask you right off the bat,
what surprised you most about this season?
Dr. Pepper?
- I didn’t expect Lindsey and Mark
to be that combustible.
I really was surprised.
Really.
- It continues.
Pastor Cal? - [laughs]
- Oh, gosh, the biggest surprise
was probably Alyssa and Chris.
- Mm-hmm, yeah.
- Oh, yeah, sorry. - Yeah, yeah.
- Let me go back there. - We’re going way back.
- Yeah. - Forgot about that.
- I third--I third that one.
- Yeah, okay, that’s right. - Yeah, we expected more.
We expected--look, any time we put people together,
we expect them to come here and try.
- Yeah. - Right.
- You know, give it your absolute best effort
because you’re here because you want to be married.
- She never tried.
- And personally, I thought Chris
was just a fabulous guy.
- Yeah. - I spent a lot of time
picking him out, I thought--
I thought he was just
a wonderful gift to somebody.
And so I was shocked that she didn’t see anything.
- He was exactly who we thought--
who we thought he was, yeah. - He was.
- Mm-hmm, mm-hmm.
Did you anticipate on Decision Day
that all four couples would say yes?
No way, right? - No.
- Right? - No.
- We were hoping.
- So I always start off
every season very hopeful.
And this one, it exceeded my expectations.
- Mm-hmm. - I was like, all right,
the one time I go a little low, they went high.
- They went high, and I--
I thought it was a magical moment.
Do it--did it feel like magic?
Like, all of a sudden, this thing really
does work all the time?
- Well, it’s not that magical.
[laughter] - Right.
Well, we know it wasn’t-- - I mean, it was--
- In the end. - Yeah.
- Okay, we know it wasn’t in the end.
- But I--no, we truly believe
that we can create lifetime marriages.
We do. - Yeah.
- But we also know there’s so much we can’t know.
- Right. - So the fact that
the four couples who went the distance
said yes was incredibly satisfying to all of us.
- After Decision Day,
were you frustrated to hear that
some of the couples split up?
- [groans] - Or was--did you expect that?
- I didn’t expect any of them to split up.
I mean, we knew that there were issues,
we knew there were challenges,
but, you know, we weren’t--we were hoping.
- You thought Mark and Lindsey were gonna make it.
- [laughs] - I did!
- She was always a champion for Mark and Lindsey.
- Yeah, we’re gonna give you that one.
- I’m gonna give you that one.
- What I thought,
and what I was really hoping for,
was that after the cameras were gone,
that they would find their-- a more mellow place.
- You thought that Lindsey would calm down
after the cameras left.
- I thought that they would settle
into something that was more viable and healthy.
- Let’s move on.
Let’s talk about a success story,
something that made us happy.
- Thank you. - And brought joy to everyone.
Katina and Olajuwon.
- To our anniversary. - To our anniversary.
- This is amazing.
- [laughs]
- You know, you all were blunt with Olajuwon,
that he needed to talk to his wife
in a respectful manner
and treat her in a respectful way.
Let’s take a look.
- I have, like, a level from my wife and I expect,
like, hey, you know, you cook.
Like, we talked about it.
- And I don’t want people to look at Olajuwon and say,
"Olajuwon is a Neanderthal, Olajuwon wants a woman
to stay pregnant, barefoot, and in the kitchen."
- There’s a lot of demeaning things that are being said
to Katina and a lot of feelings that we’re--you’re demanding,
you know, service from her as opposed to a partnership.
- Anybody wants to say something,
they could say it to me because I don’t play those games.
If she feels that I treat her that way,
then she should say no on Decision Day.
- Let me say this, first of all.
Olajuwon sat out here,
and he was like, "I look crazy."
- Oh, good. - Yes!
- And it was so beautiful-- - Yeah.
- And special. - Yes.
- And he talked about how much he’s learned
and grown and how this has been a great experience for him.
So I do want to say that.
- Yay, O!
- And I also--Katina, girl.
- Nobody--
- So patient. - So patient.
Can I just say something?
You hit a home run there.
- Whoo-hoo! - That was--
it is so perfect, even though in the beginning
I was like, "There’s no way this works, they’re crazy!"
You were on the money.
- Yep.
- Olajuwon and Katina, congratulations.
- Yeah. - It’s beautiful.
This is beautiful.
Now to Steve and Noi.
How proud are you of this couple?
Dr. Viviana?
- He shocked me.
- What a cute idea.
- Here we go. - Oh, my God,
we’re going out into the water now with a ton of sushi.
I love my life.
[laughter]
- He came out of the gate
with so much insight, thoughtfulness.
I mean, the guy could be a therapist on the side.
- Mm-hmm. - Absolutely.
- He could definitely help people in that way.
He’s got such a calm demeanor,
but he’s so thoughtful,
and he uses it for good in his marriage.
So I think that made all the difference.
- Mm-hmm. - He’s analytical,
but he uses it in the right way and at the right tone.
- They’re not living together.
What do you think about that?
- Well, you know, I’m always in a--
- Let’s--let’s just stop for a second.
This was the revelation of the season for me, y’all.
- [laughs] - I didn’t know.
- And let me just say,
just so I’m not a hypocrite to myself.
Just so you know-- - Do you live separately?
- I live separately. - [gasps]
Oh, my God! - Dun dun dun!
- Wow! - [laughs]
- Well, I didn’t know it was a bombshell, but, you know--
- Bombshell! - [laughs]
- Boom, head exploded!
Dr. Pepper, I was watching the TV, like,
I was like, "Wha?"
- Well, okay, big difference.
- Talk to me. - You know,
we’re a lot older than them.
- Yes, yes. - We have had our kids
with previous partners.
- Yeah. - We didn’t have to
form that kind of union.
- Right. - We’ve been living in homes
that we loved,
and so we thought, "Well, why does anybody
"have to give one up?
We’ll just go back and forth."
- Right. - And in our marriage,
it really works.
16 years together,
and I’m still, like, excited when I see him.
So it can’t be bad, right? - Right.
- That doesn’t mean that’s a good answer for everyone.
And when you’re just learning each other
and building your emotional community,
I think that it’s dangerous not to spend
all your--your available time together.
I think that this must be the way that Noi needs to do it
to get the trust and security she needs, so be it.
You know, it wouldn’t be my first recommendation,
but on the other hand, I really believe
people should do things their way.
- I’m not a big fan of the fact
that they’re not living together
for the reasons that they’ve shared.
This is not like a Carrie and Big sort of thing.
They--I think that-- - [chuckles]
- Hope not.
- Wow. - I think that unfortunately,
with this situation,
I feel like a new marriage needs more time.
- It does. - I think that they
need the opportunity.
And how is he not gonna get insecure about this?
What are they going to do to make sure--it just adds
a lot of layers and pressure and more communication
that I think this new marriage
doesn’t need to have. - Yeah.
- I do know that she absolutely adores Steve.
- Yeah. - I believe that.
I mean, just from the conversations
I’ve had with her that she really does.
She has to--to get over some fears and some apprehensions.
But I think they’re gonna be good.
- I think that now Sriracha’s all in, everything’s good.
- Yes. - Approval.
- Sriracha was the key. - The key.
- What do you think of their marriage?
- I think it’s cute.
- [giggles] - What does that mean?
- It’s cute. - What does that mean?
Are you happy for your sister now?
- Yes, I’m very happy.
- Yeah? - Yeah.
- I think they’re a lovely couple,
and I’m so happy that they’re together.
I’m Kevin Frazier, and I’m here with
Dr. Pepper, Pastor Cal, and Dr. Viviana.
Since Decision Day,
Jasmina and Michael came to the conclusion
that they are better off without each other.
We wanted to give the experts
one more chance to speak with them
to see where things took a left turn
and if there is any hope of getting these two
back on track.
Jasmina and Michael, come on out and join us.
- Hello! - Hello, hello.
- Hi, there.
- Hey, y’all.
- Great dress. - Thank you.
- Didn’t realize how much I missed you guys.
- Yeah, man.
- All right, here we go.
I’m just gonna turn it over to the experts, okay?
- I’m shocked.
I’m sad.
I thought for sure
the cameras would be gone,
and the two of you would be like, "Okay, now it’s on."
- Yes. - In a perfect world, yeah.
- So what happened?
- We were in a good place when we both
said yes on Decision Day.
Afterwards, he called me,
but that came after we had this huge blowout.
- Okay. - You know, it wasn’t like
he just randomly called me up to say,
"Hey, let’s get a divorce."
It came after we had, like,
a nasty conversation with each other.
- Like what?
Because that would have been probably one
of the first nasty ones from what we’ve seen.
- Long story short, I wasn’t at work for, like, two days.
"I have a training day coming up and I left the work laptop.
Can I use your laptop?"
And he said yes. [tense music]
And then I had asked him
the day that I was supposed to use the laptop
like, "Hey, are you still bringing it?"
And he was like, "Well, you never said you needed it."
And I said, "Yes, I did."
It just put a bad taste in my mouth because I’m like,
like, we talked about something, but he’s like,
"I didn’t say that."
So that is what frustrated me
and ultimately made him want to ask
for the divorce right after that.
- So that can’t be what led-- - So--so--
- To y’all asking for a divorce.
I mean, we’re talking about miscommunications
that can happen all the time. - And he--he says that
I didn’t put forth an effort,
but I hit up Mike every day to have a conversation.
Not once did he text me.
Not once did he call me.
He just came over to my house one time.
I don’t know if he, like, expected as soon as,
like, Decision Day, like, every single day,
we were supposed to go out and, like, be doing something.
But, like, things just kept, like, coming up.
And he throws, in the one time he came to my house,
in my face as, like, he tried.
♪ ♪
- Can I just respond to some of the things that she said?
- Sure. - Sure, please.
- So the laptop thing, I’ma be honest,
I thought it was a ridiculous thing
to even go that far personally, okay?
So that wasn’t gonna be the reason why
I was gonna end it.
I was calling you and I told you, "You know what?
I’m not getting anything from you."
- You cannot say that I did not try
because you tried to throw in the fact that
I wasn’t calling you and I said,
"Mike, you know that I have receipts."
If you even look in our conversations,
you see that I am the one that reached out to you
every single day since and you have not made that effort.
So my question to you is, do you think that
you did everything-- - 100%.
100%. - To--so you just asked--
you just asked to come over one time
and you didn’t hit me up
- So--so--this is-- - After--I’m not done talking.
- I’m so sorry, but-- - You never not once
picked up the phone to text me,
say "Good morning, how’s your day?
Call me at night."
You never did that.
So why is it that you can sit here and say
that I didn’t put forth an effort when I did that for you?
Even with my personal stuff going on?
All you did was just come and sit on my couch.
- Okay. - That’s it.
- All I did, okay.
- Let me interject.
I think that what I’m seeing here and I think
what we all are seeing is two people who probably
still had some life left in their marriage.
However, you both had needs
that were not being realized, and you both felt that you were
doing things to meet the other person’s needs.
- Yes. - So what was missing there
was open and honest communication about
what was happening and listening to each other.
- Yeah, your perception-meter is off.
- Yeah. - You know?
It got derailed, not because you
didn’t care, but because neither of you
could see the way each of you cared.
And there still seems to be feeling here, I mean,
we’ve always felt there was a feeling in this couple.
- But what I think what we’re saying is, sure,
the romantic piece is still fluttering about.
But both of you are trying to prove
that you liked each other
and wanted to be in each other’s lives.
That’s a lot.
- Everything that you guys have experienced now,
I don’t think it’s abnormal,
but I think that you’re treating it
as though it’s fatal. - Yes.
- When in essence, it never was fatal.
And you’re kind of treating your relationship
like a dating relationship.
Most marriages, when they go through these things--
and as I’m listening, and I’m sure--you’re all married.
Everybody. - Whoo, yeah.
- We go through stuff, man.
- Stuff? - We misunderstand.
"Well, I said that," "No, you didn’t--"
oh, we go through that stuff, this is marriage.
- Right. - You push through,
you over-communicate,
till you get to the point where you understand
and you relax and you realize no one’s out to get you.
And you get to the point where you can see
the real value in the thing.
Neither of you ever got to that,
and I know you don’t want to hear that now, because--
- No, but I agree with you.
I feel like we never got to that and that was
a lot of our conversations where it’s like,
this is what happened, that’s it.
- You guys are not enemies.
And I think you were acting like you
were enemies, and you never were.
- I think the arguments we had were so bad and so hard
to come back from because there weren’t feelings.
Like, it’s different when you have feelings for somebody
and you argue, those feelings are still there.
- But you have respect.
- But when you don’t have those feelings
for someone and you consistently argue,
it’s hard to catch those feelings
because all you’re doing is just arguing
and just coming at each other.
- But Jasimna-- - So that’s what it was for me.
It just kept turning me off.
- I hear you.
How do you feel about Michael?
[soft music]
- I think he’s an amazing man.
But I don’t feel like Michael is my person,
and that’s no disrespect to him,
but it’s just being with somebody that’s just like,
"I didn’t do that, I didn’t do that."
I felt like I was just never winning with that.
It made me not want to move forward.
- I’m just telling you, you’re gonna go back into
the dating pool and you’re gonna be like,
"what the frick was I thinking?"
- Yeah, but I’m also gonna know how to handle myself
differently in situations and what I can put up with
and what I won’t put up with either.
- Experts, any final thoughts or words of advice?
- You know, of course we want to make
lifetime marriages, that’s what we’re about.
But, if we can’t do that, then the next thing
we want to do is make that person
a more capable partner for a marriage.
And in both your cases, I think that’s happened.
So I find that gratifying, and I hope you do too.
- Definitely.
- I think you all should never say never,
and don’t try to stack up points against the fact
that you all did have nice, capable partners.
Maybe it’s not the right person now,
but that doesn’t mean that down the road...
Stranger things have happened.
- Are you guys great together?
Our opinions don’t matter, because our opinions are, yes.
Our opinions are that, look, you can work through this
and if you could get through this and find
the beauty and the worth and the value in each other,
you guys would form a power couple like you’ve never seen.
- That’s what we believe.
However, at the end of the day, it’s your call.
- Right now, in this moment, I don’t want
to move forward with trying to see if that’s possible.
[dramatic music]
- Thank you two for coming out here, and thank you experts
for talking to Jasmina and Michael,
and I think we all urge them, just think about it.
- Just think about it. - Thank you.
- Think about it.
Right now we’re gonna bring out a couple
who had one of the shortest marriages
in "Married at First Sight" history.
Alyssa and Chris, come on out.
[upbeat music]
- Hi. - You can come this way.
- [laughs] - This way.
- [laughs] Good to see you again.
- Good to see you. - Okay.
- All right.
I’m gonna turn it over to the experts,
because I’m sure there are lots of questions,
because you really didn’t have a chance to talk
during the honeymoon or while this was unraveling.
- I need a few answers here.
I think Chris is a really great guy,
and we thought we were giving you a terrific husband.
And I honestly didn’t understand
why you thought he was such a failure in so many ways,
and also, I don’t know how we mismatched you so much
as you think you were,
because we went after a list of things
that you gave us, a list of things he gave us,
and they matched up really well.
We thought we had put you with somebody
that you had asked for.
- Yeah, I’m happy to explain the way I feel about it.
I respectfully disagree with what you say.
[dramatic music]
I don’t feel that the list of things or the questionnaires
that I did or the interviews that I did
align with Chris, and that’s nothing against you,
that’s just, you know, my preferences
and what I wanted in somebody,
and I don’t feel that we have anything in common,
and I don’t feel like our core values align,
and I don’t feel like he is what I asked for.
- He is exactly what you wrote down
in your questionnaire and your application.
Exactly.
- Well, I don’t agree with that.
- I have your questionnaire answers
about what you asked for.
♪ ♪
The top five most important things.
Compassionate... - Yeah.
- Funny... - Mm-hmm.
- Giving, hardworking, and loyal.
- Mm-hmm.
- Are you saying he’s none of those things?
Because you said you didn’t get anything.
- Well, I felt, I didn’t feel loyalty.
[tense music]
♪ ♪
I sat here today because I was told
I wouldn’t feel like I was being attacked,
and I do feel that way. - I’m asking you a question.
It’s just a question because you said--
- I don’t know how to articulate myself
any better than I am right now.
Do I wish that things went differently?
1,000%.
But I can’t keep sitting here saying the same thing
over and over again, because I just can’t.
- But you did start this off by, not only today,
but you’ve also said in several of the episodes
that you don’t think that we did a good job,
starting from the beginning.
- Yes. - Based off of saying
we didn’t give you anything you wanted.
I don’t want you leaving here thinking that,
because that’s an error.
That’s not true.
- I don’t agree
that we were matched appropriately,
whether he’s those four items or not.
♪ ♪
- Can I ask you what your core values are?
♪ ♪
- I don’t want to get into specifics, like, about that.
I’m... - Okay.
- Just saying that I don’t feel
like we were matched appropriately.
- The reason is because I match couples based on values.
And when I talked to you earlier,
you had said, "I see why we were matched."
- Yeah.
I don’t believe in having "a person."
I think that everybody’s gonna check some boxes
and everybody’s gonna not check some.
The question is, how many do you need checked
to then say, "I can work on the rest"?
And some boxes are bigger and some boxes are smaller.
We never really got to a point where I was able
to evaluate the same thing on the other side,
because the boxes that I didn’t check for her
were either too many, or the big ones.
So... - Right.
- But all I know is that I feel sad for the both of us
that we are put into, like, a not-good situation
when I know why I came into this,
which was to find a person,
and I wanted to find that person so bad that I was
willing to do anything to find that.
- But I think what you wanted,
which is exactly what we don’t want,
is you have a vision.
And if I’d known this, believe me,
I wouldn’t have matched you.
- Yeah, I said, I said if you don’t find
the person I’m asking for, please don’t match me.
- Well, we didn’t know that you had a very,
very narrow template of what this person was.
That’s exactly what we try to avoid.
- Absolutely. - And so I’m shocked.
- I just, I couldn’t see it.
And I was, you know, heartbroken about...
that I really wanted to find my person,
and I’m sure you did as well.
But I guess, you know, the bottom line is that,
I’m gonna keep saying is, I didn’t feel it was right.
- I just want you to realize, though,
going forward, that when you’ve judged someone,
whether it’s wrongly or rightly or whatever,
you need to recognize that you’re going to then go forward
only looking at the bad,
and you need to get out of there.
Because it’s terrible.
It’s a terrible look, but it’s also terrible for you inside.
- I know this is, like, a running joke
and everybody’s laughing about it, me saying
I’m, like, a good person all the time, but...
[sniffs]
You know, I’m gonna keep saying it,
because I am a good person, and, you know, I was shown
in a light that’s not who I am, and I’m sad about that.
- There’s all these passive things,
"You were shown."
We put no words in your mouth. - I’m not--
Okay. - We didn’t do your actions.
- I guess I’m not explaining it correctly.
- Chris, I feel for you,
because when you first saw Alyssa, you thought,
"Oh, my gosh, this is what I want."
You were feeling really positive
and happy with who she seemed to be.
And then it all crashed down pretty damn quickly.
So how did you feel and how have you been feeling
since then?
- I think the day of the wedding,
I felt kind of like a big, dumb idiot.
Like, this is fun. This is what I wanted.
This will work.
She’s beautiful, like, it’s great.
I have all this, like, potential energy for marriage,
for relationships, for it,
and I didn’t get to put it anywhere.
I don’t feel heartbreak
’cause we were never really in a relationship.
I don’t regret having done the process.
I don’t think I’d do it again.
But I don’t regret
having gone through the process
’cause I learned so much about myself,
and I feel like I can bring that
to every relationship going forward.
- For the future.
Going forward though, you say you wouldn’t do
this process again, but you are still looking
for love, you want to be married.
- Yeah.
Yeah, and still willing to do the work.
- Alyssa, if-- just one piece of advice.
If you could make that list not so long and not so perfect,
I think you can find that human being.
- I have faith that I will find my person.
And when the time is right, they’ll come.
♪ ♪
- Listen, I know it’s hard for you to come out here,
so we appreciate you coming out here,
sitting down, and at least talking to the experts
and giving your side of the story.
It was important, I think, to wrap a bow on this,
so thank you both for coming out here.
Now it is time for the experts to talk to another couple
who decided to part ways after Decision Day.
Things might be well beyond repair for these two,
but we feel it’s important that they get a chance
to sit down and discuss why things went wrong
and take ownership for those things,
hopefully in a very calm, cool, and collected manner.
Let’s welcome Lindsey and Mark.
Come on out and join us.
- Hello. - Hello.
- You all look so good.
- Oh, you look gorgeous. - Great dress. Look beautiful.
- Thanks, you know, we always match up.
[laughs] - Hey there, pretty girl.
- What’s up, big guy? - How you doing?
[upbeat music]
- Thank you for, first of all, sitting down with the experts,
and I just want to turn things right over to them,
to get right into this and the way things have
devolved since your Decision Day.
- So when, after Decision Day, did things really start to get
to a place where you all were like, we don’t care
how much we connected, this is not gonna work for us?
- For me, it was on my birthday.
- How many weeks after Decision Day?
- Seven days. Seven days after Decision Day.
We had spent those seven days
refinishing his three-family home
and my one request was, like, I just want to be done
by my birthday and have a dinner and a massage.
That’s all I want.
And he gave me an IOU. [laughs]
And six weeks went by, and I was like,
"Mark, are you ever gonna give me
that IOU for the birthday gift?"
And he’s like, "Well, at this point, it doesn’t even matter.
It’s too late, I think." And I was like, "No.
If you make me a promise, I need you to deliver on it."
- Okay.
- And he said a few things to me about, like,
"You know, I don’t know if you could stay here.
You don’t actually have any rights to this house."
And I was like, "This is my last bag that’s unpacked
"and somebody is moving into my apartment today.
Why would you have had me give up my apartment?"
I asked you to keep it.
You told me we’re not splitting up the family,
we’re not splitting up the cats,
we’re staying together, we’re doing this.
So that, and then on the day my grandma died,
he said, "I’m out."
- Yeah, after Decision Day, we spent a week getting
the place ready because it’s not up to her standards.
So I’m gonna do everything I can to make her happy,
because the move-in date
was pretty much her birthday weekend.
But the issue was, is that, there was too many threats made
in the house that just ruined it for us.
Like, we got in a fight that night
specifically because I was like, "Listen,
"I’m not going back to work, and I can’t just sit around.
"I get you don’t like the split shift, you don’t like the pay,
"you don’t like the industry, you don’t get any of it.
"You don’t like my coworkers on top of it.
"So you don’t want me to go there at all.
But I got to go back to work."
"If you go back there, we’re gonna get divorced."
Why does it gotta be such extremes?
- Seven days after I gave up my apartment,
per your instructions, and moved in with you,
you said, "I think I’m gonna go back to split shifts.
We might have to move. I don’t want to commute."
And I said, "Wait a minute.
I’m not moving. I just gave up my apartment."
You said, "You have no rights here.
You’re gonna have to leave here if I tell you to."
And I was just dumbfounded that, as my husband,
you would leave me in this situation,
specifically knowing my past history and my vulnerabilities.
- It’s just, it’s like... - Yeah.
- I’m not somebody
that would ever throw you on the street,
no matter how mean you could be to me.
- You tried to. - No, I didn’t.
You stayed in the apartment for three months, free rent.
You made out great, you could have stayed there
five more months-- I can’t legally do anything.
Stay as long as you want. - Mark.
- I would’ve never--[sighs]
- I hear you. I hate to cut you off,
but I got to say something here.
What I see here is a prime example of two people
who just completely lost respect for each other.
And you’re acting out of that.
You both destroyed the marriage.
[soft music]
You both did.
- But I think she has a side of her that just--
it gets too much.
It gets too violent for me.
It’s too threatening.
Like, I’ve been bullied.
This is the worst I’ve been bullied in my life.
- Do you agree, Lindsey?
Do you believe that you bullied Mark?
- No, I think that I went into fight mode versus flight mode.
- Well the problem, as we’ve talked about,
which I would really like you to work on,
is that when you’re hurt,
your response is anger and lashing out.
And you’re very bright, so when you lash out, you hit bone.
I mean, you--you get it. - The jugular.
- Yeah, you’re effective in a way
that’s not fun to watch and not fun to receive.
You have so much going for you, Lindsey, as a big heart,
as an organized and effective person,
but this stuff is killing a relationship
and will hurt you too.
- No, I agree with you. - You know?
And Mark, I understand that you’ve been hurt by this,
and I’m so sorry, but I think you too,
when you say provoked, you have to think about, like,
what am I withholding in a conscious way?
- Mm-hmm. - I know you had gratitude.
I don’t know if it got transferred to the person
who needed it. - Mm-hmm.
- We want you to be your better selves,
your more effective selves in the future.
And that’s why, when we say hold accountability,
responsibility, not in a punishing way,
but who’s gonna be the better you?
- Mm-hmm. - Yeah.
- Very well said.
I want to know what Mark’s feeling.
What’s going on?
- [scoffs]
- I just--I hate reliving this.
Having these conversations, it’s just too much.
You know? - Yeah.
It was pretty traumatic?
- Mm-hmm. - Yeah.
Lindsey, I want to ask you a question.
How do you feel about how he’s responding?
If I’m being very honest-- - No. No, no, no, no, no.
I don’t think she needs to be very honest if it’s not
gonna have tact, ’cause that’s just more of you--
- Listen--no, it’s okay. - Viv, you’re cutting me off,
and... - I know--well, because--
- Left and right. - Because I feel like
I need to if this is so one-sided.
- I know you’re very Team Mark. - It is, but I wanna hear it.
Let me hear it. I wanna hear it.
- But I don’t feel as though he is genuine.
- There we go. So one more dig.
- It’s okay. Let’s do that. - No, it’s my impression.
I don’t feel as though it’s genuine.
So when I see these tears, I don’t have compassion for him
’cause I don’t feel like they’re sincere.
- Now, let me stop right there, and let me say this.
That shows that you’ve lost value for him.
And you’ve lost respect for him.
- Yes.
- We understand the marriage is over.
But one thing you can never lose is empathy.
- For people I don’t respect?
[tense music]
- Look, I mean, he’s not a crybaby.
And you cry a lot as well.
- Oh, I know that, I’m a crier.
- But there’s nothing wrong with him shedding tears,
and I don’t want you to make him feel bad
about having an emotional side.
- I hate to say this.
Y’all are very similar, and the fact that y’all
don’t like each other says more about how you feel
about yourselves than each other.
- Mark, I know you feel upset, and I’m so sorry
you’re so disappointed and sad, but what have you learned
about yourself that’s positive, through this experience?
- I think that, like, if I ever encounter
another relationship where I need to speak up,
yeah, speak up early on, set the tone
out the gate, don’t wait too long,
’cause then it’s too hard to do it then.
You know, out the gate, be like,
"Listen, I don’t put up with that."
In a tone that lets them know,
"Hey, I’m not gonna accept that."
- Yeah, everybody should move forward.
I think it’s time for everybody.
And we want the best for you. That’s what I’m saying.
We want the best, we want you to be happy
and live a good life.
Life is short. It’s not--
- Oh, my God. - It’s so short.
Let’s welcome back the entire Boston cast.
Welcome back, y’all. - Thank you.
- Hello. - Nice to see you guys.
- It’s great to see everybody together.
- It’s a family at this point, right?
There’s a very small number of people
who have gone through this,
even if you look at all the seasons.
So--and it really does feel like family.
- And there was also a lot of fun.
You guys had a lot of fun together, right?
- Absolutely, thinking about our retreat,
we were having a dance party.
Some really special moments between all of us.
- "Mark the Shark" was the DJ.
- So that’s gonna be the new move right now.
DJ Shark or DJ MTS, he hasn’t fully picked it yet,
but it’s coming. - Okay.
All right, DJ.
I’ll call you if I have a wedding or a party.
All right.
Let’s go back to the honeymoon.
You know, you get there, you get together.
It wasn’t too long before a disagreement broke out
between Lindsey and Olajuwon,
over Lindsey telling Olajuwon to speak Spanish.
- She was trying to tell people in this bus
what language to speak here.
We’re all adults.
You want to speak English, you want to speak Spanish,
you speak what you want.
Don’t come over here telling people what to do,
’cause we’re adults, and we don’t play that.
- Remember that, right?
- Hola.
[laughter]
- Si.
- He’s working on it.
- Si. [laughter]
What was that moment like?
Because it started things a little bumpy, right?
- Yeah, it was a tough moment for me and Lindsey,
but I think that’s how we learned our line
and when to push and not push.
Me and Lindsey, are a ball of fire,
so, you know, put it together, you make big flames.
- And I mean, I really respect O.
Like, I knew day one I would like him.
I could tell like, oh, we’re both rough around the edges,
we’re gonna be able to have fun together.
- Olajuwon, do you get Lindsey,
do you understand Lindsey, you think?
- I get Lindsey.
We had a one-on-one,
and we really, like, hey, you know, let’s let this out.
Let’s let each other know, like, who we are.
Hey, you know, this is my line, don’t pass it.
Respect me. - I felt like that was
a big turning point for us, O,
like, the fact that I was sitting there,
and you and I were just having that one-on-one conversation,
just hashed it all out.
- And I think that we learned each other
and we started getting advice from each other,
because we’re kind of the same way when that energy is high.
- So were you giving her advice when everything was
falling apart between the two of them?
- Yeah, absolutely, I gave them a lot of therapy.
Absolutely, they know that. They know that.
- Olajuwon said, "I was the expert."
- Absolutely. - Dr. Olajuwon was deep in it.
- Yeah. We did it a lot.
We did it with Mike and Jasmina.
We somehow find to get on the same page,
and it’s amazing. - I love it.
Then why didn’t you fix these relationships?
- Because I’m not a expert, Kev.
[laughter]
- Olajuwon, I’m about to throw you under the bus
a little bit, because it has been brought
to my attention that you didn’t know your wife’s name...
- Oh, that’s easy. - On the honeymoon.
I want you to check out this package real quick.
Okay, just watch this. - Okay.
- What’s your wife’s name? - Janita.
[laughter]
- Janita? - [bleep].
Jeanette, Jeanette. Jeanette.
Sorry, my wife’s name’s Jeanette.
I almost forgot her name. Her name’s Jeanette.
- Your wife’s name is Jeanette? - He’s so confident!
- Yeah. Oh, Kanet. Kanet, sorry, Kanet.
- That’s her name? - [bleep].
Wifey! - Her name’s Katina.
- [bleep].
Yeah, her name is Katina,
and I’m happy I’m married to her.
[laughter]
- Did you know that your husband
thought your name was Jeanette?
- No, but-- I did not know this,
but it makes sense why he kept calling me "wife" now.
[laughter] He kept calling me "wife."
So now I know. - Now you understand, Jeanette.
- To be fair, he’s bad with names.
- He’s horrible. - He’s horrible with names,
it’s not just her. - He is, with everyone.
- I can see Olajuwon getting a tattoo with the wrong name.
[laughter]
- Don’t get Jeanette.
- Too bad they didn’t give you a wife that rhymes
with your last name, it’d make it a lot easier.
- I know, to make it match.
- All right. Lindsey, you had
a lot of amazing things to say
about your husband out of the gate.
Some really great things while you were
on the honeymoon, and then things turned.
- Yeah. - Especially the night
of bowling, things got ugly.
Let’s watch.
- You shouldn’t have said that.
Like, it’s awkward.
I feel awkward when you do that.
- I don’t like to brush things under the rug.
- Okay well, this is a team and if you
can’t get that, this isn’t gonna work.
- I’m not a team for you when I put my [bleep]
hazmat suit on and give up a day of work?
- Okay, I’m good. I’m good. I’m good.
- That’s what I thought, walk away.
- Okay. - Call your Mom, see if she
can let you in tonight.
- I just can’t, I can’t do this anymore.
[tense music]
♪ ♪
- Oh, wow.
- Your dad said that you have a vicious tongue.
- Mm-hmm. - Did you go too far?
- Yeah, I mean,
I definitely feel bad
about the delivery of the things that I was feeling.
And I think that I should have probably used
kinder words and a kinder message.
- Yes. Are you working on
the way and the things you say?
- Yeah, I am.
- Because you had a tendency to go right to,
"I’m done with him, I hate him, and here’s the worst things
I can say about him to humiliate him."
- Well, he wasn’t there, and I wasn’t trying to say
those to him or around him, I was really just trying
to, like, bitch in a corner by myself.
- Yeah, but you were bitching to other people.
♪ ♪
Are you working on figuring out
how to, in those moments, be better
at expressing yourself
and not being so tough and vicious?
- I am. I think, for me,
and you’ll see it a lot in the show,
there’s times where I’m like, "I need a minute."
Because when I see red, I’m just gonna see red.
In that time, I let that get the best of me,
you know, and it’s a learning process.
- Mark, what do you have to say about that?
- Um, I just think it’s kind of sad
that you can see that and not kind of feel bad
that’s how you spoke.
- I just said I felt bad.
- It didn’t really sound that way.
When you feel bad about something, it comes right out.
You feel bad.
I do feel bad.
♪ ♪
- You probably should apologize to him.
He’s right there.
♪ ♪
- We were talking about accountability.
This is the moment.
♪ ♪
[tense music]
- You probably should apologize to him.
He’s right there.
♪ ♪
- We were talking about accountability.
This is the moment.
♪ ♪
- You know, Mark, I just...
I’m sorry that I hurt your feelings.
And then I just like,
got so angry, so quickly.
- Okay.
- I can’t take it back.
If I could, I would,
but I can’t... - Okay.
- And I hope you can accept that.
- All right. - Mark, is there anything else
you need an apology for?
♪ ♪
- No, I’m fine. I don’t--I’m good.
- No, Mark, speak--speak up. This is your moment.
Is there something else you need an apology for?
’Cause you guys are having a moment,
and you may never be sitting on a chair together again.
♪ ♪
- I’m good. I’m good.
- Here’s what’s happening, Lindsey.
Mark says you spit on him. Did you spit on him?
- No.
- Mark, did Lindsey spit on you?
- She spit on my shirt.
- So she spit on you? - Mm-hmm.
- No.
I--no, I said, "I want to spit on you,
but I don’t have spit to spit." [laughs]
- I think he’s really hurt about what he perceives
as being spit on, that’s something that hurt him.
- I’m sure.
- Well no, he’s hurt. He’s hurt.
And let’s all acknowledge our portion in what went down.
- It’s okay. If it happened,
it’s never too late to say "I’m sorry."
You are not with him no more.
You owe him nothing, except that apology
if you did that, Linds. - I understand that.
- I’m telling you now as your friend,
leaving this couch and letting everybody look at you
who doesn’t believe you, it makes you look bad.
I’m telling you just ’cause I care.
For both of you.
If he feels that way, at least give him that apology,
because he was good to you.
- Yeah, we had some good times.
- So then--I’m not gonna say no more, Linds.
I’m trying to look out for you.
- You know, Mark...
I’m sorry.
I’m sorry in that argument
that we got into such-- that toxic level.
I’m sorry if,
in this, like, close-contact conversation,
there was spit that landed on you,
because I think that’s super disrespectful.
- I think that’s what hurt the most, you know?
’Cause I remember it like it was yesterday.
♪ ♪
- Let’s say this.
At the end of the day, you apologize.
Apologize, that’s it.
All right, can we switch to a lighter note
and let’s talk about the intimacy exercises
that you all received from Dr. Viviana.
Let’s watch how each of you pushed the boundaries
with each other.
- Tell your partner one intimate fantasy.
We should...try
to have sex in a semi-public place.
[both laughing]
[sensual music]
- [giggles] - [shrieks]
- [giggling]
- Is that water-- is that liquor?
- Press against each other.
- Michael and I are putting our hands on each other,
and it feels good being, you know,
close to him and letting him receive all of me, in a sense.
- See if you can hear her heartbeat.
[soft vocalizing]
- Oh, my God.
- [laughs]
- I can’t even breathe with this thing on.
- Mark looks like a pig in a Polynesian buffet
that did not quite get the apple stuffed in his mouth.
I have to tell you, I’ve never known that
this is what sexual attraction really is.
- This is it.
- What the...
- I don’t know if we can unsee that, Mark.
I’m gonna let you explain.
- I mean, like, the candy cane thing,
I was like, I’m all for it, put it on.
But like, the ball thing, I was like, this is just so awkward.
This isn’t me. I’m gonna keep this
on my chin as much as I can.
But like, candy cane thing?
Sure. Take off my clothes. Put it on. Cool.
- Noi and Steve, did you guys work everything out?
- I think--I think we had a... I think...
- Did we? - What now?
- I won’t say the moment, but I think
semi-public is, uh...
[laughter]
- Well, now. - Okay.
Now we really want to know.
- It sounds like you checked that box.
- Yeah. - I can’t...
- Olajuwon. - Yeah, I mean, that was cool.
That was lit. I liked it.
I think that was a big part for us
because it was like the fir--
you know, a little building up.
Yeah, we were just building up. It was nice.
- You’re really never at a loss for words and you can’t
get a full sentence out right now.
- So it was nice. It was nice. It was fun.
- All right.
As you know, the fan base for
"Married at First Sight," they’re very fervent.
They love this show, and they watch everything
that happens and they love to talk about stuff,
so we’re gonna read a few tweets that came in.
Let y’all answer, just a little fun.
- Here we go. - Okay.
One person said, "You would have thought Noi
"said she killed somebody by the way Steve looked at her
when she said she didn’t want to go camping."
- [laughs] [laughter]
- One thing that I really love
is to find a campground on the ocean.
- Mm-hmm.
- ’Cause you wake up out of your tent
and you’re just already there.
- I don’t like to camp.
[dramatic music]
♪ ♪
[laughter]
- Were you actually bummed, Steve?
- You know, it was unfortunate
to learn that my wife wasn’t
into the same hobbies as I was.
- Since you’re in the hot seat right now, let’s keep going.
We finally discovered one of Steve’s quirks, LED lights.
- [laughs]
- Hey. - Is that real?
What’s the deal with that?
Explain. - He loves LED lights.
- We got some other settings here, like party mode.
[upbeat dance music]
[laughs]
- He has them in his car too.
I just want to let everyone know.
- Whoa. - He has them in his car.
- You get in, you can look down,
and they’re underneath each seat.
- He’s trying to set the mood.
- Okay. All right, all right.
Olajuwon, you know the fans watch
everything on this show.
I mean, like they zoom in on everything.
- Yeah, yeah, yeah. - Here’s a specific message.
"What is that stain on Olajuwon’s drawers?
"He wore these on, not only his wedding day,
"but on camera, and he has the nerve to think
"he can make demands of his new wife?
I think Katina needs to get out ASAP."
[upbeat music]
[dramatic music]
- I’m happy. I want to bring that part up.
- Let’s clear the air! - Let’s clear the air.
So, Kev, what happened was, I had a pen earlier,
I had to sign a paper, and I had a pen in my pocket.
And I was so excited picking up my wife that day...
- Yeah, yeah, yeah.
- It actually broke in my pocket.
So when I took off my pants and do my Superman jump
on the bed, it looked like I had a little
[bleep] stain on it, but that wasn’t it.
That is not the cause, I mean case.
That is not the case.
It was ink on my pocket.
- All right, Mark the Shark, next one’s for you.
"I can’t believe I’m saying this, but I agree with Lindsey.
"Mark is full of [bleep].
"Why have sex with her, then tell her
you want to take things slow?"
- Holy [bleep], like, this is a lot.
Which is great.
I want to, like, go slow in the process.
♪ ♪
- I’m just, like, frustrated and mad.
Like, why would you plan a romantic dinner with me
and then say, "I want to pull back"?
Are we done yet?
Cause there’s zero romance, and I’m ready for bed.
♪ ♪
- "Oh, those are mm-something tactics.
Mark my words, that was the end of their relationship."
- Mm.
- Somebody went hard.
- I mean, it was just, for me, things
had started off fast and things got bumpy
a little bit on the honeymoon, and I wanted to build more
of an emotional connection with Lindsey.
So I thought it would be good to just be open
and honest with her where I was at.
- Mm-hmm. After y’all had sex?
- Yeah. - Yeah. Well, yeah.
- After we spent the day flying kites and having massages.
Yeah.
- All right, how about this one?
"Every time Jasmina says, ’Now, Michael...’
Oh, she’s not for play-play."
- I was not yelling at you.
♪ ♪
- Now, Michael...
we’re not about to do this.
- She is going to be one of those moms
that puts the fear of God in her future kids
with only a few words.
What was the "Now, Michael--" you know that time.
- It’s, his comment was kind of like a shock to me.
It’s almost like--[gasp]
Now, Michael, you know that didn’t happen.
- Michael, how did that make you feel?
- It made me feel like I was one of her students.
- That was the only time I said it, though.
- Still. - That’s okay.
It was a pretty significant moment.
It was a significant moment, I mean...
People remembered it. I mean, they went in on it.
- All right, so we’ve talked about the drama
and all the sexy moments, but can we also talk about
all the fun you guys had?
And we’re gonna show some bloopers right now
and some moments that, um...
- Yeah.
- From time that you guys spent together.
I mean, I guess you’re ready. Steve’s ready.
Here are the bloopers.
[upbeat music] - [snorting]
- We got a lot of personalities here that are not shy.
- One. - One.
- Two. - Here we go, baby.
- [groans] - [laughs]
- I don’t know how to do this. [laughs]
- Just open wide.
- Cats and candy.
[laughs]
- I just hold the balls.
- [laughing]
- Grow up.
No, I just hold the ball in my--
[laughs]
- Hey!
- The group has a lot of energy.
- Okay, knock it off!
You’re a nutcase. I’m getting dizzy.
Stop, stop, stop, stop.
- [shriek] - I need help!
[laughter]
- [shrieks] Alyssa!
- Alyssa!
- We have a lot of wicked, organic good times.
[chuckling]
[both laughing]
- [giggling]
[upbeat music]
[sticks clatter]
[laughter]
- [laughing]
- Katina, you cannot do that!
- Is she tackling people?
- It was fun to build these memories together.
We’ve just been laughing and literally dancing,
which I think is my favorite part,
just watching everybody dance to the music.
It’s pretty funny.
- Marriage is hard, on three.
all: One, two, three,
marriage is hard!
♪ ♪
- That’s it.
- Deuces.
[laughter]
- I mean, you see that, and, I mean,
while this was a hard experience,
there were some really great times, right?
- Yeah, and we--we all
probably experienced a lot of firsts together too,
with just, you know, activities.
And I had so much fun with you guys.
- There’s always pros and cons in a relationship,
but I’m thankful I came here, met a bunch of strangers
and you guys became my friends and then became my sisters
and then became my brothers.
And I’m thankful, and I think it helped my marriage.
- You know what? Look, for the couples that are married,
this is fantastic, and this is what this experiment is about.
And you can walk away with someone
that you fall in love with for the rest of your life,
and that’s beautiful.
And for the rest of you, you’ve learned
an amazing lesson,
and you can take that into your next relationship.
So thank you all for coming and talking about everything.
And we talked about everything from this season in Boston.
But here’s something I’m very excited about.
For the first time, "Married at First Sight"
is coming to the West Coast.
- What? - Here’s a taste
of what’s to come from season 15 in San Diego.
- Here we are in San Diego.
We got surfers, we got beach people.
I really think there’s an outstanding group here.
- It seems like, every season, it gets better and better.
Okay. - I hope we can find her
a husband. I think she’s great.
- I’m surprised he’s single.
- Well, let’s see if we can make him not-single.
[laughs]
- I want to get married at first sight
because dating is so damn hard in San Diego.
- I guess I just, like, choose the wrong guys.
- What brings me here today is to find love,
to find my wife.
- I want to find true love.
- It seems so basic but also so hard to find.
- In two weeks, you’re getting married.
- [shrieks] - You know what?
You are engaged. - Oh, my God.
- You are engaged to be married.
[cork pops] - Ooh!
- Girl, this is real!
You are a fiancé, dude. - Dang!
- Here’s to marriage. And love.
- [sobs] I need a tissue.
[uplifting music]
- I’ve always dreamed about being a bride, being a wife.
- I am a romantic. I want to be in love.
I want to be someone’s man.
- It would mean the entire world to me to have a partner
to share this incredible journey with.
- If my marriage lasts a lifetime,
I’m gonna feel whole.
I believe this is it.
The time is now.
♪ ♪
- Wow. [laughter]
- By the way, this season isn’t over yet,
because we are heading back to Boston next week
for the "Where Are They Now?" special.
We’ll get to see how everyone has been living
since Decision Day, and with that, though,
we have reached the end
of the "Married at First Sight" season 14 Boston reunion.
I’m Kevin Frazier.
Good night, everybody.
- Next time, on "Where Are They Now?"
We’ll catch up with the entire Boston cast.
- You’re more fit than I am!
- Stop, you’re making me blush.
- I feel like it’s really my time to move on
and be a good person. [laughs]
- There’s somebody that I’m talking to.
- Oh! - Oh!
- You guys probably actually know who she is.
- Oh.
- To see how their lives have changed
since the cameras went away after Decision Day.
Here she is. So she flew up-- - Crashin’ y’all’s party.
- I haven’t been on a date in a long time.
- Oh, I got one in! - You got one in!
- Hey! - Fancy seeing you here.
- How are you? - How are you?
all: Pizza! Pizza!
- One or two kids is easy, but three is a lot.
- I don’t know what you respect
or what you want me to do about it.
- Right now, I don’t know either.
- I need to feel confident that you’re not gonna attack me
and you’re not gonna talk behind my back.
- As your friend, you think that I deserved that?
- Yes. I was hurt.
I felt played. - [laughing] What?
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