1 00:00:02,001 --> 00:00:02,878 {\an1}- You may kiss your bride. - I will. 2 00:00:03,003 --> 00:00:04,129 {\an1}- Ooh, I like that! 3 00:00:04,296 --> 00:00:06,089 {\an1}- Every marriage is different. 4 00:00:06,173 --> 00:00:07,132 {\an1}Some are smooth sailing. 5 00:00:07,216 --> 00:00:08,592 {\an1}- I love to be around you. 6 00:00:08,717 --> 00:00:09,968 {\an1}Why would I let you walk away? 7 00:00:10,052 --> 00:00:11,637 {\an1}- Others, a rocky road. 8 00:00:11,803 --> 00:00:13,138 {\an1}- Jamie. God damn it! 9 00:00:13,263 --> 00:00:15,766 {\an1}Why didn't anybody take up for me then? 10 00:00:15,891 --> 00:00:17,434 {\an1}- Throughout the first 14 season 11 00:00:17,518 --> 00:00:19,686 {\an1}of "Married at First Sight," we've seen it all. 12 00:00:19,853 --> 00:00:23,815 {\an1}54 totally unique marriages with epic twists and turns 13 00:00:23,941 --> 00:00:24,942 {\an1}that were fascinating... 14 00:00:25,067 --> 00:00:27,819 {\an1}- Oh, my God. It's Johnny. 15 00:00:27,945 --> 00:00:28,820 {\an1}- Frustrating... 16 00:00:28,987 --> 00:00:29,821 {\an1}- Where did that come from? 17 00:00:29,988 --> 00:00:31,657 {\an1}- From you acting like a bitch. 18 00:00:31,782 --> 00:00:32,698 {\an1}- And even heartbreaking. 19 00:00:32,824 --> 00:00:35,869 {\an1}- Luke and I just kissed for the first time, 20 00:00:35,994 --> 00:00:38,497 {\an1}and he said that he just felt repulsed. 21 00:00:38,580 --> 00:00:40,165 {\an1}- Along the way, there have been 22 00:00:40,290 --> 00:00:42,376 {\an1}plenty of examples of what to do... 23 00:00:42,501 --> 00:00:44,920 {\an1}- I feel like Matt and my intimacy is growing. 24 00:00:45,003 --> 00:00:46,838 {\an1}- And what not to do... 25 00:00:46,964 --> 00:00:49,841 {\an1}- I can't even look at you right now. 26 00:00:49,967 --> 00:00:50,968 {\an1}- When embarking on this journey 27 00:00:51,093 --> 00:00:53,095 {\an1}to a happily ever after. 28 00:00:53,178 --> 00:00:54,137 {\an1}- Oh, God! - [laughs] 29 00:00:54,263 --> 00:00:55,847 {\an1}- Whoa! - Whoo! 30 00:00:56,014 --> 00:00:57,349 {\an1}- Tonight, we're going to let you in 31 00:00:57,516 --> 00:00:59,059 {\an1}on some insider information 32 00:00:59,184 --> 00:01:02,187 {\an1}on making that first trip to the altar your last. 33 00:01:02,354 --> 00:01:04,480 {\an1}- We're also going to be breaking open the vault 34 00:01:04,605 --> 00:01:05,649 {\an1}of past seasons 35 00:01:05,774 --> 00:01:08,193 {\an1}to uncover what the other couples have learned 36 00:01:08,360 --> 00:01:11,154 {\an1}after saying "I do" to their spouses. 37 00:01:11,280 --> 00:01:14,950 {\an1}- There will be highs, lows, and big oh, no's... 38 00:01:15,033 --> 00:01:17,911 {\an1}- I'm a virgin. 39 00:01:18,036 --> 00:01:19,871 {\an1}- But one thing we can guarantee... 40 00:01:19,997 --> 00:01:23,584 {\an1}- Is the next two hours will be chock full of romance... 41 00:01:23,709 --> 00:01:25,919 {\an1}- Regrets... - Criminal accusations... 42 00:01:26,044 --> 00:01:29,131 {\an1}- In regards to her arrest, she does know the accuser. 43 00:01:29,214 --> 00:01:30,299 {\an1}- Crazy dance moves... 44 00:01:30,382 --> 00:01:31,633 {\an1}- Heartfelt memories. 45 00:01:31,717 --> 00:01:33,301 {\an1}- Awkward exchanges... 46 00:01:33,384 --> 00:01:36,221 {\an1}- And sexy fantasies. 47 00:01:36,346 --> 00:01:39,433 {\an1}- This is "Married at First Sight: Rules of Marriage." 48 00:01:39,558 --> 00:01:41,101 {\an1}- ♪ There's no other way ♪ 49 00:01:41,226 --> 00:01:42,769 {\an1}♪ ♪ 50 00:01:42,894 --> 00:01:44,854 {\an1}♪ It's all or nothing ♪ 51 00:01:44,979 --> 00:01:46,481 {\an1}- Welcome, everyone. 52 00:01:46,648 --> 00:01:49,276 {\an1}I'm Briana Myles Morales. - And I'm Beth Bice. 53 00:01:49,359 --> 00:01:51,027 {\an1}- The "Married at First Sight" process is 54 00:01:51,152 --> 00:01:52,321 {\an1}a window into marriage, 55 00:01:52,446 --> 00:01:54,323 {\an1}one that we get to peer into 56 00:01:54,448 --> 00:01:56,991 {\an1}and see the inner workings of a growing relationship. 57 00:01:57,116 --> 00:01:58,785 {\an1}Hopefully, these tools of the trade 58 00:01:58,869 --> 00:02:01,288 {\an1}will make life just a little bit easier 59 00:02:01,413 --> 00:02:03,415 {\an1}for those on their way to the altar. 60 00:02:03,540 --> 00:02:05,792 {\an1}- I know I wish I had some rules to follow. 61 00:02:05,876 --> 00:02:08,878 {\an1}Jamie and I would have avoided a whole lot of drama. 62 00:02:09,003 --> 00:02:11,757 {\an1}- Hey, me and Vincent hit some bumps in the roads too. 63 00:02:11,882 --> 00:02:12,924 {\an1}- All right, are you ready 64 00:02:13,050 --> 00:02:16,094 {\an1}to share the "Married at First Sight" rules of marriage? 65 00:02:16,178 --> 00:02:18,138 {\an1}- Let's do it! - Yes. 66 00:02:18,263 --> 00:02:21,350 {\an1}[exciting music] 67 00:02:21,475 --> 00:02:24,436 {\an1}- A marriage can get off to the right or wrong start, 68 00:02:24,561 --> 00:02:26,730 {\an1}even before the wedding day. 69 00:02:26,855 --> 00:02:29,483 {\an1}What to wear on your special day is a huge deal. 70 00:02:29,566 --> 00:02:31,401 {\an1}The first glance your bride or groom gets 71 00:02:31,526 --> 00:02:32,653 {\an1}when you're coming down the aisle 72 00:02:32,819 --> 00:02:35,822 {\an1}can set the tone for the entire ceremony. 73 00:02:35,989 --> 00:02:37,031 {\an1}- Sure can. 74 00:02:37,156 --> 00:02:38,492 {\an1}- This can be a stressful day, 75 00:02:38,575 --> 00:02:40,869 {\an1}but we've come up with our top five rules 76 00:02:40,994 --> 00:02:42,704 {\an1}to make sure picking out a wedding dress 77 00:02:42,829 --> 00:02:45,165 {\an1}or a tuxedo goes off without a hitch. 78 00:02:45,290 --> 00:02:47,292 {\an1}Let's check them out. 79 00:02:47,417 --> 00:02:49,211 {\an1}- Number five. 80 00:02:49,336 --> 00:02:52,631 {\an1}You know what they say: mom always knows best. 81 00:02:52,756 --> 00:02:54,675 {\an1}So don't forget to bring her along. 82 00:02:54,800 --> 00:02:57,636 {\an1}- I brought my mom, 'cause she knows her stuff. 83 00:02:57,761 --> 00:03:00,347 {\an1}- Traditional, traditional, traditional. 84 00:03:00,514 --> 00:03:03,892 {\an1}You'll look back ten years from now--hopefully-- 85 00:03:04,017 --> 00:03:05,977 {\an1}and it'll still be, you know, gorgeous. 86 00:03:06,103 --> 00:03:06,978 {\an1}♪ ♪ 87 00:03:07,062 --> 00:03:08,021 {\an1}- Oh. - Wow. 88 00:03:08,188 --> 00:03:09,022 {\an1}- This is my mom's pick. 89 00:03:09,147 --> 00:03:11,942 {\an1}- [gasps] Oh, my God. - This is your pick. 90 00:03:12,025 --> 00:03:14,653 {\an1}I knew it was gonna look like that on you! 91 00:03:14,820 --> 00:03:17,364 {\an1}She looks like a goddess in that dress. 92 00:03:17,489 --> 00:03:19,491 {\an1}- Yep. - [laughs] 93 00:03:19,658 --> 00:03:20,909 {\an1}- So, what do you think, Mom? 94 00:03:21,034 --> 00:03:23,161 {\an1}- A little problem, okay? 95 00:03:23,286 --> 00:03:26,081 {\an1}In my country, we have this. 96 00:03:26,206 --> 00:03:26,790 {\an1}That's no good. 97 00:03:26,915 --> 00:03:29,292 {\an1}- The pearls. It's a bad omen. 98 00:03:29,459 --> 00:03:31,294 {\an1}- Pearls are a bad omen? 99 00:03:31,378 --> 00:03:32,295 {\an1}- On a wedding dress... - No way! 100 00:03:32,421 --> 00:03:34,464 {\an1}in her country, yes. 101 00:03:34,589 --> 00:03:35,799 {\an1}- Oh, yeah! - Ooh! 102 00:03:35,924 --> 00:03:37,926 {\an1}- Ooh, I like that! - Yeah! Yeah! 103 00:03:38,009 --> 00:03:38,969 {\an1}- I love that! 104 00:03:39,136 --> 00:03:41,304 {\an1}♪ ♪ 105 00:03:41,430 --> 00:03:43,515 {\an1}- Number four. 106 00:03:43,682 --> 00:03:47,561 {\an1}Guys, this is your opportunity to dress like a legend, 107 00:03:47,686 --> 00:03:50,731 {\an1}so bring our your best Bond, James Bond. 108 00:03:50,856 --> 00:03:52,941 {\an1}- You look official. - Thank you. 109 00:03:53,066 --> 00:03:55,152 {\an1}- James Bond, reporting for duty here. 110 00:03:55,317 --> 00:03:56,486 {\an1}- License to thrill. 111 00:03:56,611 --> 00:03:57,779 {\an1}- Almost look like James Bond. 112 00:03:57,863 --> 00:03:59,322 {\an1}- Dude, honestly, I'm excited. It's gonna be awesome. 113 00:03:59,489 --> 00:04:01,324 {\an1}- It's the one you're gonna be standing up at the altar with. 114 00:04:01,450 --> 00:04:03,452 {\an1}- I feel like a '80s James Bond. 115 00:04:03,577 --> 00:04:05,162 {\an1}- You kind of look like James Bond right now. 116 00:04:05,287 --> 00:04:06,246 {\an1}- That's what I was thinking too. 117 00:04:06,371 --> 00:04:08,165 {\an1}I look like a husband. 118 00:04:08,248 --> 00:04:08,832 {\an1}- 007. 119 00:04:08,957 --> 00:04:10,709 {\an1}[laughter] - Black Bond. 120 00:04:10,876 --> 00:04:12,627 {\an1}- Definitely feel like I'm in a James Bond movie. 121 00:04:12,753 --> 00:04:14,546 {\an1}[flashy jazz music] 122 00:04:14,671 --> 00:04:15,922 {\an1}- Number three. 123 00:04:16,005 --> 00:04:18,966 {\an1}There are no second chances at a first impression, 124 00:04:19,050 --> 00:04:21,428 {\an1}so let your personality shine through. 125 00:04:21,553 --> 00:04:25,348 {\an1}- I think something, like, floofy. 126 00:04:25,515 --> 00:04:26,725 {\an1}Texture-y. - Okay. 127 00:04:26,850 --> 00:04:29,644 {\an1}- That's a floofer, all right. - [wheezes] 128 00:04:29,770 --> 00:04:31,313 {\an1}- You look--looking like Hugh Hefner in that. 129 00:04:31,396 --> 00:04:32,397 {\an1}- He does, right? 130 00:04:32,522 --> 00:04:33,774 {\an1}- I want white. 131 00:04:33,857 --> 00:04:35,192 {\an1}White. - White-white. True white. 132 00:04:35,317 --> 00:04:38,278 {\an1}- The whole point of me in the white wedding dress is purity. 133 00:04:38,361 --> 00:04:39,070 {\an1}Honestly, this right here is 134 00:04:39,196 --> 00:04:40,489 {\an1}a little too dark for me. - Okay. 135 00:04:40,572 --> 00:04:41,490 {\an1}- I hope that 136 00:04:41,615 --> 00:04:43,742 {\an1}when I tell him about my virginity, 137 00:04:43,867 --> 00:04:46,495 {\an1}I hope he's patient of it and understanding. 138 00:04:46,578 --> 00:04:47,788 {\an1}both: Cheers. 139 00:04:47,913 --> 00:04:49,748 {\an1}- Here's all I've got-- is this hat, 140 00:04:49,873 --> 00:04:51,875 {\an1}which I'd like to use as, like, a base. 141 00:04:51,957 --> 00:04:53,627 {\an1}I've worn this for... - As your inspiration? 142 00:04:53,752 --> 00:04:54,753 {\an1}- Weddings in the past. Uh-huh. 143 00:04:54,878 --> 00:04:56,129 {\an1}- Are you going to wear this down the aisle? 144 00:04:56,254 --> 00:04:58,423 {\an1}- I would like to, yeah. - [chuckles] 145 00:04:58,548 --> 00:04:59,758 {\an1}- Oh, there's pockets! - Oh, there are. 146 00:04:59,841 --> 00:05:01,176 {\an1}- Holy [bleep], there's pockets! 147 00:05:01,343 --> 00:05:03,762 {\an1}- Okay, this one's a-- - [speaking Chinese] 148 00:05:03,887 --> 00:05:05,555 {\an1}- Oh, my God, I love it. - Yes. See? There you go. 149 00:05:05,680 --> 00:05:07,224 {\an1}- God, and they're deep pockets. 150 00:05:07,349 --> 00:05:10,310 {\an1}I could stash all kinds of food in here. 151 00:05:10,435 --> 00:05:12,437 {\an1}- Number two. 152 00:05:12,521 --> 00:05:14,314 {\an1}Always remember to bring tissues 153 00:05:14,481 --> 00:05:17,818 {\an1}and waterproof mascara because there's gonna be tears. 154 00:05:17,984 --> 00:05:19,402 {\an1}- Oh, that's the best. 155 00:05:19,528 --> 00:05:21,696 {\an1}- Don't do that right now. 156 00:05:21,863 --> 00:05:25,742 {\an1}Aww, Katie, done do that right now. 157 00:05:25,867 --> 00:05:27,369 {\an1}- I'm a bride. 158 00:05:27,536 --> 00:05:29,329 {\an1}- Ahh! No! 159 00:05:29,496 --> 00:05:32,082 {\an1}- Ma, are you seriously crying? - So beautiful. 160 00:05:32,207 --> 00:05:33,667 {\an1}- Oh, my God. 161 00:05:33,792 --> 00:05:35,544 {\an1}- It's just-- I'm overwhelmed. 162 00:05:35,669 --> 00:05:36,628 {\an1}[sentimental music] 163 00:05:36,753 --> 00:05:39,714 {\an1}[laughter] 164 00:05:39,840 --> 00:05:42,634 {\an1}- Oh, my God. I'm gonna cry. 165 00:05:42,801 --> 00:05:45,011 {\an1}- You're just, like, walking around. 166 00:05:45,136 --> 00:05:46,304 {\an1}- Are you gonna cry? - Yeah. 167 00:05:46,429 --> 00:05:47,389 {\an1}- Yeah? - Aww. 168 00:05:47,514 --> 00:05:49,266 {\an1}- Me too. Aw, me too. 169 00:05:49,349 --> 00:05:51,101 {\an1}♪ ♪ 170 00:05:51,183 --> 00:05:52,477 {\an1}- Oh, my gosh. 171 00:05:52,602 --> 00:05:54,646 {\an1}- [sniffles] - Shawniece. 172 00:05:54,813 --> 00:05:56,815 {\an1}- So, Shawniece, have we found your gown? 173 00:05:56,940 --> 00:06:00,402 {\an1}Is this the one? - This is every girl's dream. 174 00:06:00,527 --> 00:06:02,404 {\an1}- Number one. 175 00:06:02,529 --> 00:06:04,197 {\an1}This is your big day. 176 00:06:04,322 --> 00:06:06,658 {\an1}Don't settle for less than perfection. 177 00:06:06,783 --> 00:06:08,827 {\an1}[quirky music] 178 00:06:08,952 --> 00:06:10,537 {\an1}- Do you feel like a bride yet? - No. 179 00:06:10,704 --> 00:06:11,872 {\an1}- All right, well then we're not there. 180 00:06:11,997 --> 00:06:13,874 {\an1}We're not there. On to the next. 181 00:06:14,040 --> 00:06:15,542 {\an1}- Is this the suit you're gonna-- 182 00:06:15,667 --> 00:06:17,085 {\an1}- No. Absolutely not. both: No? 183 00:06:17,168 --> 00:06:19,129 {\an1}both: Why not? - I look like a deacon. 184 00:06:19,254 --> 00:06:20,505 {\an1}[laughter] 185 00:06:20,672 --> 00:06:21,631 {\an1}all: Meh... - Yeah. 186 00:06:21,798 --> 00:06:22,924 {\an1}- [laughs] 187 00:06:23,008 --> 00:06:24,759 {\an1}Let's go to the next one. 188 00:06:24,885 --> 00:06:26,553 {\an1}- This is it. - That's it? 189 00:06:26,678 --> 00:06:27,512 {\an1}- This is the suit. - That's it. 190 00:06:27,637 --> 00:06:30,724 {\an1}- Ooh! - I like that way better. 191 00:06:30,849 --> 00:06:34,436 {\an1}- I am obsessed with it, actually. 192 00:06:34,519 --> 00:06:35,770 {\an1}[squeals] 193 00:06:35,854 --> 00:06:37,147 {\an1}- Oh, yeah. - Better? 194 00:06:37,230 --> 00:06:37,939 {\an1}- Moving in the right direction. 195 00:06:38,064 --> 00:06:39,149 {\an1}- Yep. Yep. - All right. 196 00:06:39,274 --> 00:06:40,609 {\an1}- Hey, the wife will appreciate that. 197 00:06:40,692 --> 00:06:42,152 {\an1}- I'm gonna say that this is it. 198 00:06:42,277 --> 00:06:44,654 {\an1}I'm feeling like this is the dress. 199 00:06:44,738 --> 00:06:46,364 {\an1}I think so. - That's it. 200 00:06:46,489 --> 00:06:47,991 {\an1}- This is it! 201 00:06:48,074 --> 00:06:50,827 {\an1}- I mean, I'm gonna have to give kudos to you, Briana. 202 00:06:50,911 --> 00:06:52,162 {\an1}If I could do it all over again, 203 00:06:52,287 --> 00:06:54,456 {\an1}I would pick your dress out, 'cause I was in love with it. 204 00:06:54,539 --> 00:06:55,624 {\an1}Still, hands down, today, 205 00:06:55,707 --> 00:06:58,418 {\an1}is my favorite dress on the whole, entire series. 206 00:06:58,501 --> 00:06:59,377 {\an1}- Thank you. - Yeah. 207 00:06:59,502 --> 00:07:01,212 {\an1}- I was really trying to go for, like, 208 00:07:01,338 --> 00:07:03,381 {\an1}classy, elegant, but I needed 209 00:07:03,506 --> 00:07:05,175 {\an1}a little bit of my personality shining through. 210 00:07:05,342 --> 00:07:07,218 {\an1}- Oh, you nailed it. - So I added the slit. 211 00:07:07,344 --> 00:07:09,596 {\an1}- Oh, it was all about the slit in that dress. 212 00:07:09,679 --> 00:07:10,639 {\an1}- Oh, yeah. Oh, yeah. Loved it. 213 00:07:10,722 --> 00:07:11,723 {\an1}- That slit, like, made it. 214 00:07:11,848 --> 00:07:13,767 {\an1}- I needed a little va-va-voom, you know? 215 00:07:13,850 --> 00:07:15,435 {\an1}- Gotta look a little sexy for your husband. 216 00:07:15,518 --> 00:07:16,937 {\an1}- Oh, yeah. - You know, you set the tone. 217 00:07:17,062 --> 00:07:18,605 {\an1}You set a sexy tone. - I tried it. 218 00:07:18,688 --> 00:07:19,898 {\an1}I tried it. I tried it. - Yeah. 219 00:07:20,023 --> 00:07:22,817 {\an1}- All right, let's move on to our next set of rules. 220 00:07:22,901 --> 00:07:25,946 {\an1}[upbeat music] 221 00:07:26,029 --> 00:07:29,866 {\an1}- Before settling down into a life of married bliss, 222 00:07:30,033 --> 00:07:32,577 {\an1}most brides and grooms to be want one last night 223 00:07:32,702 --> 00:07:37,165 {\an1}to let loose and live that single life one final time. 224 00:07:37,290 --> 00:07:39,292 {\an1}Of course, we're all talking 225 00:07:39,459 --> 00:07:41,336 {\an1}about everyone's favorite tradition, 226 00:07:41,461 --> 00:07:44,172 {\an1}the bachelor and bachelorette parties. 227 00:07:44,339 --> 00:07:46,174 {\an1}- Well, as we've seen over the years 228 00:07:46,341 --> 00:07:49,094 {\an1}on "Married at First Sight," these sensational send-offs 229 00:07:49,219 --> 00:07:51,721 {\an1}can go from mild to wild real quick. 230 00:07:51,846 --> 00:07:54,099 {\an1}So here are the top five rules we want to share with you 231 00:07:54,182 --> 00:07:56,643 {\an1}in order to make your bachelor or bachelorette party 232 00:07:56,726 --> 00:07:58,353 {\an1}a night you won't forget. 233 00:07:58,478 --> 00:08:00,313 {\an1}Number five. 234 00:08:00,438 --> 00:08:03,566 {\an1}It's a party, so hit the dance floor and bust a move. 235 00:08:03,692 --> 00:08:05,527 {\an1}[cheers] 236 00:08:05,694 --> 00:08:07,445 {\an1}- ♪ Hey-yo, hey-yeah ♪ 237 00:08:07,529 --> 00:08:08,989 {\an1}♪ Hey-oh ♪ 238 00:08:09,072 --> 00:08:10,490 {\an1}- ♪ The beat goes bang, bang, bang ♪ 239 00:08:10,573 --> 00:08:12,492 {\an1}♪ Work your body, move that thing ♪ 240 00:08:12,617 --> 00:08:14,035 {\an1}♪ Girl, you got it ♪ - We're having a great time. 241 00:08:14,202 --> 00:08:17,622 {\an1}This is the best night I've ever had in my life! 242 00:08:17,747 --> 00:08:20,082 {\an1}- ♪ Oh, oh, oh, yeah ♪ 243 00:08:20,207 --> 00:08:22,210 {\an1}- Number four. 244 00:08:22,335 --> 00:08:25,338 {\an1}Nobody likes a party pooper, so don't be a buzzkill. 245 00:08:25,505 --> 00:08:27,674 {\an1}- I'm just, like, happy to, like, sit in the corner 246 00:08:27,841 --> 00:08:30,802 {\an1}with my friends and, like, chitchat. 247 00:08:30,927 --> 00:08:33,513 {\an1}And, like--you know, that's my personality, 248 00:08:33,679 --> 00:08:36,265 {\an1}and I'm not gonna change that. 249 00:08:36,390 --> 00:08:38,476 {\an1}- Oh, no. 250 00:08:38,643 --> 00:08:39,852 {\an1}No, no, no, no, no. 251 00:08:40,020 --> 00:08:41,938 {\an1}- It's not a bachelorette party 252 00:08:42,022 --> 00:08:43,565 {\an1}without some wine and champagne. 253 00:08:43,690 --> 00:08:45,900 {\an1}- I'm-I'm not-- I'm not cool with this. 254 00:08:46,026 --> 00:08:48,153 {\an1}[music fades] 255 00:08:48,236 --> 00:08:50,822 {\an1}- It's time for another shot. 256 00:08:50,905 --> 00:08:53,491 {\an1}You ready? No? 257 00:08:53,616 --> 00:08:56,911 {\an1}Christina is a total, like, buzzkill. 258 00:08:57,037 --> 00:08:58,955 {\an1}This is a time for us to be, like, 259 00:08:59,080 --> 00:09:01,374 {\an1}whoo, let's get excited about us getting married 260 00:09:01,499 --> 00:09:03,460 {\an1}and not, like, worried, as we've been. 261 00:09:03,585 --> 00:09:06,463 {\an1}- Like, I feel more comfortable up here. 262 00:09:06,588 --> 00:09:07,922 {\an1}- Number three. 263 00:09:08,048 --> 00:09:09,090 {\an1}- Ohh! 264 00:09:09,174 --> 00:09:11,676 {\an1}- Always be nice to the entertainment. 265 00:09:11,801 --> 00:09:13,136 {\an1}[laughter] 266 00:09:13,261 --> 00:09:16,222 {\an1}- [screams] [cheers] 267 00:09:16,347 --> 00:09:18,725 {\an1}Whoo! That's more like it! 268 00:09:18,850 --> 00:09:20,393 {\an1}- This is my habitat. 269 00:09:20,518 --> 00:09:21,686 {\an1}[both laugh] 270 00:09:21,853 --> 00:09:22,979 {\an1}- Olajuwon! 271 00:09:23,146 --> 00:09:24,189 {\an1}- ♪ This time ♪ 272 00:09:24,355 --> 00:09:27,150 {\an1}♪ You got me buggin', buggin', buggin' ♪ 273 00:09:27,275 --> 00:09:29,527 {\an1}♪ This time, you got me buggin', buggin' ♪ 274 00:09:29,652 --> 00:09:31,237 {\an1}- Is there an Anthony here by any chance? 275 00:09:31,362 --> 00:09:32,739 {\an1}all: Oh! 276 00:09:35,325 --> 00:09:36,993 {\an1}- I was so surprised. 277 00:09:37,077 --> 00:09:39,788 {\an1}- Don't be shy. - Whoo! Whoo! 278 00:09:39,913 --> 00:09:41,581 {\an1}- She was such a nice lady. 279 00:09:41,706 --> 00:09:43,540 {\an1}- Number two. 280 00:09:43,665 --> 00:09:45,335 {\an1}- Oh, God damn! Shots! 281 00:09:45,460 --> 00:09:48,963 {\an1}- Have a good time, but be careful on how much you drink. 282 00:09:49,089 --> 00:09:51,424 {\an1}- I want a husband who's like, 283 00:09:51,508 --> 00:09:53,635 {\an1}"Yeah, you want to go out? Let's go out." 284 00:09:53,802 --> 00:09:58,264 {\an1}Like, I want someone who's gonna add to those fun times, 285 00:09:58,348 --> 00:09:59,015 {\an1}I guess. 286 00:09:59,182 --> 00:10:01,976 {\an1}[retching] 287 00:10:02,060 --> 00:10:03,478 {\an1}- She's wasted. 288 00:10:03,603 --> 00:10:04,813 {\an1}- [whistles] 289 00:10:04,896 --> 00:10:06,648 {\an1}Hey, ladies. We got shots. 290 00:10:06,773 --> 00:10:07,732 {\an1}[lively music] 291 00:10:07,857 --> 00:10:09,317 {\an1}- Oh, my God. 292 00:10:09,442 --> 00:10:11,486 {\an1}- To leaving the single life! 293 00:10:11,653 --> 00:10:13,113 {\an1}all: Whoo! 294 00:10:13,196 --> 00:10:15,281 {\an1}- I party way too hard. 295 00:10:15,365 --> 00:10:17,117 {\an1}Can you hold my--thank you. - Bucket. Bucket. Bucket. 296 00:10:17,242 --> 00:10:18,243 {\an1}- Get the bucket. - The bucket. 297 00:10:18,368 --> 00:10:21,162 {\an1}Where's the bucket? - Where's the bucket? 298 00:10:21,287 --> 00:10:22,497 {\an1}- [retching] [record scratches] 299 00:10:22,664 --> 00:10:23,832 {\an1}- Get it out, girl. 300 00:10:23,957 --> 00:10:25,500 {\an1}- Number one. 301 00:10:25,583 --> 00:10:27,418 {\an1}♪ ♪ 302 00:10:27,502 --> 00:10:29,129 {\an1}Live it up. 303 00:10:29,254 --> 00:10:31,005 {\an1}This is your last night of freedom. 304 00:10:31,172 --> 00:10:33,716 {\an1}- Cheers to getting married tomorrow! 305 00:10:33,842 --> 00:10:36,136 {\an1}Yeah! [cheers] 306 00:10:36,219 --> 00:10:38,847 {\an1}- I'm ready to go turn up for the very last time 307 00:10:39,013 --> 00:10:43,059 {\an1}as single women, so I'm excited. 308 00:10:43,184 --> 00:10:44,686 {\an1}- Oh, my God! 309 00:10:44,853 --> 00:10:45,895 {\an1}Whoo! [cheers] 310 00:10:46,020 --> 00:10:47,397 {\an1}[laughs] 311 00:10:47,522 --> 00:10:49,649 {\an1}- Oh, wow. - Oh, my God. 312 00:10:49,774 --> 00:10:51,985 {\an1}[laughter] 313 00:10:52,068 --> 00:10:54,112 {\an1}It is so big! [laughter] 314 00:10:54,195 --> 00:10:56,322 {\an1}all: More! More! More! - More! 315 00:10:56,406 --> 00:10:59,492 {\an1}My future wife has no idea what she's getting into. 316 00:10:59,576 --> 00:11:01,202 {\an1}[cheers] 317 00:11:01,369 --> 00:11:04,664 {\an1}- Oh, my gosh, all that dancing just makes me so happy. 318 00:11:04,747 --> 00:11:06,416 {\an1}I don't understand how you can't have fun 319 00:11:06,541 --> 00:11:08,251 {\an1}at your own bachelorette party. 320 00:11:08,334 --> 00:11:10,003 {\an1}- I'm not gonna lie, I may have had 321 00:11:10,128 --> 00:11:12,297 {\an1}a little too much fun with the entertainment 322 00:11:12,380 --> 00:11:14,674 {\an1}at the bachelorette party, but you know what, 323 00:11:14,841 --> 00:11:17,594 {\an1}sometimes I just always lean into a situation. 324 00:11:17,719 --> 00:11:19,137 {\an1}- Yeah, I feel like you gotta live it up. 325 00:11:19,304 --> 00:11:21,181 {\an1}- I totally get it. I do. - [laughs] 326 00:11:21,347 --> 00:11:24,475 {\an1}Also, lap dances? Are we okay with that? 327 00:11:24,601 --> 00:11:27,061 {\an1}- Yeah. I mean, a lap dance is a lap dance. 328 00:11:27,187 --> 00:11:29,147 {\an1}Is Vincent a lap dancer kind of guy? 329 00:11:29,230 --> 00:11:30,273 {\an1}- I mean, I give him lap dances. 330 00:11:30,356 --> 00:11:32,150 {\an1}- I was about to say, so you mean to tell me 331 00:11:32,317 --> 00:11:34,611 {\an1}you give Vincent lap dances? 332 00:11:34,736 --> 00:11:37,488 {\an1}- I mean, happy husband, happy life. 333 00:11:37,614 --> 00:11:38,323 {\an1}That's not the saying. - No. 334 00:11:38,448 --> 00:11:39,991 {\an1}It's happy wife, happy life. 335 00:11:40,116 --> 00:11:41,034 {\an1}- Well, I'm happy. [laughs] 336 00:11:41,159 --> 00:11:42,702 {\an1}- I think that's so awesome you do that. 337 00:11:42,827 --> 00:11:43,828 {\an1}I love it. 338 00:11:43,912 --> 00:11:45,163 {\an1}- That was so much fun, 339 00:11:45,246 --> 00:11:46,873 {\an1}but we are just getting started. 340 00:11:50,627 --> 00:11:52,170 {\an1}As we both know, marriage isn't 341 00:11:52,337 --> 00:11:53,546 {\an1}for the faint of heart. - No. 342 00:11:53,671 --> 00:11:55,131 {\an1}- It takes a lot of work to make it last, 343 00:11:55,256 --> 00:11:57,342 {\an1}so we've gone through the last 14 seasons 344 00:11:57,467 --> 00:11:59,052 {\an1}of "Married at First Sight" to research 345 00:11:59,177 --> 00:12:02,013 {\an1}all the must-dos for a successful marriage 346 00:12:02,138 --> 00:12:03,514 {\an1}and the must-don'ts 347 00:12:03,681 --> 00:12:06,059 {\an1}for ensuring it doesn't go off the rails. 348 00:12:06,184 --> 00:12:07,644 {\an1}So, let's keep going. 349 00:12:07,769 --> 00:12:10,688 {\an1}[upbeat music] 350 00:12:10,813 --> 00:12:13,566 {\an1}It's the day you've dreamed of your whole life. 351 00:12:13,691 --> 00:12:15,818 {\an1}Well, for some of us. [both laugh] 352 00:12:15,902 --> 00:12:17,362 {\an1}The pressure is on. 353 00:12:17,487 --> 00:12:19,822 {\an1}- You only get one wedding day-- 354 00:12:19,948 --> 00:12:21,115 {\an1}well, hopefully-- 355 00:12:21,241 --> 00:12:23,034 {\an1}and you don't want to mess it up, 356 00:12:23,159 --> 00:12:25,495 {\an1}so let's start with the top five rules 357 00:12:25,620 --> 00:12:27,664 {\an1}to help kick off the big day 358 00:12:27,830 --> 00:12:30,208 {\an1}as you prepare to walk down the aisle. 359 00:12:30,375 --> 00:12:31,626 {\an1}Number five. 360 00:12:31,751 --> 00:12:33,795 {\an1}Giving a gift before the wedding 361 00:12:33,962 --> 00:12:35,004 {\an1}can be a sweet gesture. 362 00:12:35,129 --> 00:12:38,091 {\an1}Just make sure it sets the right tone for the day. 363 00:12:38,174 --> 00:12:40,009 {\an1}- Whoa! - What does it say? 364 00:12:40,134 --> 00:12:42,178 {\an1}- "Last chance." [laughter] 365 00:12:42,345 --> 00:12:43,513 {\an1}- "Last chance"? 366 00:12:43,638 --> 00:12:45,181 {\an1}- Last chance to run? - Adore. 367 00:12:45,306 --> 00:12:46,432 {\an1}- Oh, he's a witty man. 368 00:12:46,516 --> 00:12:47,517 {\an1}- I agree. - You should marry him. 369 00:12:47,684 --> 00:12:48,643 {\an1}He's the one. 370 00:12:48,726 --> 00:12:51,020 {\an1}- "This blue speaker, it's been my wingman 371 00:12:51,145 --> 00:12:52,355 {\an1}"on so many wonderful trips. 372 00:12:52,480 --> 00:12:54,732 {\an1}"Music has always been such an incredible outlet for me. 373 00:12:54,857 --> 00:12:56,317 {\an1}"Ultimately, one day I hope we can create 374 00:12:56,442 --> 00:12:57,568 {\an1}"our own soundtrack. 375 00:12:57,694 --> 00:12:58,736 {\an1}See you soon." 376 00:12:58,861 --> 00:13:00,029 {\an1}- "I wrapped the gifts 377 00:13:00,196 --> 00:13:03,449 {\an1}"using a home and away jersey, 378 00:13:03,533 --> 00:13:05,868 {\an1}'cause I hope you're into sports." 379 00:13:06,035 --> 00:13:08,121 {\an1}What? Oh, no. - Oh. Oh, no. 380 00:13:08,246 --> 00:13:10,331 {\an1}- Number four. 381 00:13:10,456 --> 00:13:14,502 {\an1}Gentlemen, it is okay to let your emotions flow. 382 00:13:14,669 --> 00:13:16,838 {\an1}- Like, meeting me wife, I don't care about anything else. 383 00:13:16,963 --> 00:13:18,589 {\an1}- Uh-huh. - Yep. 384 00:13:18,673 --> 00:13:21,551 {\an1}- You don't understand, like, how much I wanted this. 385 00:13:21,676 --> 00:13:24,929 {\an1}- Greg. - [sobbing quietly] 386 00:13:25,054 --> 00:13:27,056 {\an1}- It's cool bro. - Got you, bro. 387 00:13:27,181 --> 00:13:29,100 {\an1}- It's cool, bro. - It's all good. 388 00:13:29,225 --> 00:13:30,935 {\an1}- We got you, okay? - Just let it flow. 389 00:13:31,060 --> 00:13:33,104 {\an1}- It's an emotional day. - Yeah. 390 00:13:33,187 --> 00:13:35,273 {\an1}- [chuckles] - Oh, I feel it now. 391 00:13:35,356 --> 00:13:37,150 {\an1}- I told you it was gonna hit you. 392 00:13:37,275 --> 00:13:38,943 {\an1}- Number three. 393 00:13:39,027 --> 00:13:42,238 {\an1}Ladies, if you're having a wardrobe malfunction, 394 00:13:42,363 --> 00:13:43,406 {\an1}keep your cool. 395 00:13:43,531 --> 00:13:44,657 {\an1}- You look so pretty. 396 00:13:44,741 --> 00:13:48,494 {\an1}I love this dress. - You look so pretty. 397 00:13:48,619 --> 00:13:51,205 {\an1}- What's wrong? - What's wrong? 398 00:13:51,331 --> 00:13:52,332 {\an1}- My dress is too big. 399 00:13:52,457 --> 00:13:55,126 {\an1}And I'm freaking out. Like-- - You look fine. 400 00:13:55,293 --> 00:13:57,337 {\an1}- What's-what's too big about your dress? 401 00:13:57,462 --> 00:13:59,088 {\an1}- "Hey, husband, you want a free show?" 402 00:13:59,213 --> 00:14:01,924 {\an1}Like, what is this? 403 00:14:02,050 --> 00:14:05,511 {\an1}- Like, look how ridiculous this hem job is. 404 00:14:05,636 --> 00:14:08,473 {\an1}I just feel out of character, all over the place today. 405 00:14:08,598 --> 00:14:11,142 {\an1}Like, I don't look like me. 406 00:14:11,267 --> 00:14:13,144 {\an1}- This doesn't feel like it fits. 407 00:14:13,269 --> 00:14:14,812 {\an1}I just feel horrible. 408 00:14:14,937 --> 00:14:16,397 {\an1}I-I feel weird all over, 409 00:14:16,522 --> 00:14:19,942 {\an1}so let's just [bleep] get this show on the road. 410 00:14:20,068 --> 00:14:21,110 {\an1}- Number two. 411 00:14:21,235 --> 00:14:24,322 {\an1}Even though they might think you're a little crazy 412 00:14:24,489 --> 00:14:25,698 {\an1}for marrying a stranger, 413 00:14:25,823 --> 00:14:27,617 {\an1}family will always be there for you. 414 00:14:27,700 --> 00:14:29,660 {\an1}Appropriate their support. 415 00:14:29,827 --> 00:14:31,913 {\an1}- How do you feel about me getting married? 416 00:14:32,038 --> 00:14:34,999 {\an1}- I'm most excited about you sharing a life with someone, 417 00:14:35,124 --> 00:14:37,293 {\an1}and not feeling alone. 418 00:14:37,418 --> 00:14:39,212 {\an1}You deserve to be happy. 419 00:14:39,337 --> 00:14:40,922 {\an1}- You know... 420 00:14:47,345 --> 00:14:48,721 {\an1}- Thank you. 421 00:14:48,846 --> 00:14:50,932 {\an1}- We want you to end up with the right person, 422 00:14:51,015 --> 00:14:52,600 {\an1}and that's what we've always wanted. 423 00:14:52,725 --> 00:14:54,560 {\an1}- And be happy. Happy forever. 424 00:14:54,685 --> 00:14:56,437 {\an1}You're so special. - I know. 425 00:14:56,562 --> 00:14:58,314 {\an1}- You are. 426 00:14:58,398 --> 00:15:00,650 {\an1}- No, no, no, no, no, no. You cannot faint. 427 00:15:00,733 --> 00:15:03,653 {\an1}If you think you're gonna faint, look at Mama 428 00:15:03,778 --> 00:15:05,905 {\an1}and say, "Mama, I got this." 429 00:15:06,030 --> 00:15:07,323 {\an1}- Number one. 430 00:15:07,448 --> 00:15:09,742 {\an1}- I am so anxious. 431 00:15:09,867 --> 00:15:10,660 {\an1}- Don't lose your nerve. 432 00:15:10,827 --> 00:15:12,829 {\an1}It's only natural to feel anxious. 433 00:15:12,954 --> 00:15:15,081 {\an1}You're marrying a stranger! 434 00:15:15,206 --> 00:15:16,082 {\an1}- I'm scared. 435 00:15:16,207 --> 00:15:17,083 {\an1}I'm not ready. 436 00:15:17,208 --> 00:15:18,793 {\an1}My mind is going crazy. 437 00:15:18,918 --> 00:15:22,922 {\an1}[chuckles] I'm feeling a little cry-y. 438 00:15:23,005 --> 00:15:25,091 {\an1}- Oh, my God. I feel sick to my stomach. 439 00:15:25,216 --> 00:15:28,136 {\an1}- Can we all please stand? 440 00:15:28,219 --> 00:15:29,720 {\an1}- Oh, [bleep]. 441 00:15:29,846 --> 00:15:32,306 {\an1}- Calm down. - No, I'm not calm. 442 00:15:32,432 --> 00:15:33,266 {\an1}- Don't let me fall. 443 00:15:33,349 --> 00:15:34,517 {\an1}Today is, you know, 444 00:15:34,642 --> 00:15:36,477 {\an1}one of the most important days of my life, 445 00:15:36,602 --> 00:15:39,021 {\an1}and I'm freaking out a little bit. 446 00:15:39,147 --> 00:15:40,064 {\an1}It's definitely starting to sink in 447 00:15:40,189 --> 00:15:43,109 {\an1}that I'm about to be someone's wife. 448 00:15:43,234 --> 00:15:45,486 {\an1}I, like, literally feel sick right now. 449 00:15:45,611 --> 00:15:46,487 {\an1}[dramatic music] 450 00:15:46,612 --> 00:15:47,822 {\an1}- [sobbing] 451 00:15:47,947 --> 00:15:49,449 {\an1}I'm getting more and more nervous. 452 00:15:49,532 --> 00:15:50,700 {\an1}♪ ♪ 453 00:15:50,825 --> 00:15:53,494 {\an1}This is crazy. What am I doing? 454 00:15:53,578 --> 00:15:54,954 {\an1}Oh, my God, I'm about to have a panic attack. 455 00:15:55,079 --> 00:15:56,414 {\an1}This is insane. 456 00:15:56,539 --> 00:15:58,833 {\an1}I'm screaming on the inside. 457 00:15:58,958 --> 00:16:00,376 {\an1}♪ ♪ 458 00:16:00,501 --> 00:16:02,170 {\an1}- You want to know what my favorite part is? 459 00:16:02,295 --> 00:16:03,296 {\an1}The tears. 460 00:16:03,379 --> 00:16:05,965 {\an1}How about the tears from those men? 461 00:16:06,090 --> 00:16:07,967 {\an1}- I absolutely loved it. 462 00:16:08,050 --> 00:16:09,969 {\an1}I mean, it just kind of, like, lets me know 463 00:16:10,094 --> 00:16:11,596 {\an1}that they have feelings. 464 00:16:11,679 --> 00:16:13,764 {\an1}Like, you're getting emotional just like me. 465 00:16:13,890 --> 00:16:15,850 {\an1}If I cry, it's okay for you to cry too, you know? 466 00:16:16,017 --> 00:16:17,643 {\an1}- I think it's a moment of vulnerability. 467 00:16:17,727 --> 00:16:19,729 {\an1}Like, if a guy wants to cry over, 468 00:16:19,854 --> 00:16:21,439 {\an1}you know, a beautiful wedding day, 469 00:16:21,564 --> 00:16:22,899 {\an1}I mean, that's a win in my book. 470 00:16:23,024 --> 00:16:24,150 {\an1}- Yeah, me too. Me too. - Yeah. 471 00:16:24,317 --> 00:16:25,902 {\an1}- Let the tears flow, okay? 472 00:16:26,027 --> 00:16:28,112 {\an1}For me, I think having my friends and family there 473 00:16:28,196 --> 00:16:30,114 {\an1}for support was the most important thing. 474 00:16:30,198 --> 00:16:32,241 {\an1}Like--a little behind the scenes moment-- 475 00:16:32,366 --> 00:16:35,495 {\an1}my dad walked in and saw me, like, makeup done, in my dress, 476 00:16:35,620 --> 00:16:36,787 {\an1}and he started boo-hooing, and I was like, 477 00:16:36,871 --> 00:16:39,123 {\an1}"No! Get him out of here, 'cause I'm gonna cry," like-- 478 00:16:39,207 --> 00:16:41,918 {\an1}- Oh, yeah. Absolutely. I know exactly what you mean. 479 00:16:42,001 --> 00:16:43,461 {\an1}There was just something about looking at your dad 480 00:16:43,586 --> 00:16:44,462 {\an1}on that wedding day. 481 00:16:44,587 --> 00:16:45,796 {\an1}It was just, like, so sentimental. 482 00:16:45,922 --> 00:16:48,299 {\an1}Like, you're no longer just his little girl anymore. 483 00:16:48,424 --> 00:16:49,550 {\an1}- Yeah. 484 00:16:49,675 --> 00:16:51,010 {\an1}Okay, so you're all ready, 485 00:16:51,177 --> 00:16:52,803 {\an1}and the big moment finally arrives. 486 00:16:52,929 --> 00:16:55,348 {\an1}Let's talk about the ceremony. 487 00:16:55,473 --> 00:16:58,476 {\an1}- Yes! This is my favorite part. 488 00:16:58,643 --> 00:17:00,353 {\an1}All right, Briana, this is the moment. 489 00:17:00,520 --> 00:17:01,979 {\an1}The nerves. The lack of sleep. 490 00:17:02,104 --> 00:17:04,815 {\an1}The anticipation of marrying a stranger. 491 00:17:04,898 --> 00:17:07,777 {\an1}It's the main event. It's the wedding ceremony. 492 00:17:07,859 --> 00:17:10,238 {\an1}- What can you do to make this moment special 493 00:17:10,363 --> 00:17:11,781 {\an1}and uniquely yours? 494 00:17:11,864 --> 00:17:12,990 {\an1}Here are the top five rules 495 00:17:13,115 --> 00:17:15,910 {\an1}for making the most out of the wedding ceremony. 496 00:17:16,035 --> 00:17:17,828 {\an1}Number five. 497 00:17:17,954 --> 00:17:19,872 {\an1}It's called "Married at First Sight." 498 00:17:20,039 --> 00:17:22,250 {\an1}This is the moment you've both been waiting for, 499 00:17:22,375 --> 00:17:24,585 {\an1}so make that first look count. 500 00:17:24,669 --> 00:17:26,212 {\an1}- Hi. - Hello. 501 00:17:26,337 --> 00:17:28,422 {\an1}- Hi. I'm Lindsey. - Nice to meet you. I'm Mark. 502 00:17:28,506 --> 00:17:29,298 {\an1}- What's your name? - Mark. 503 00:17:29,423 --> 00:17:30,258 {\an1}- What's your last name? - Maher. 504 00:17:30,383 --> 00:17:31,634 {\an1}- Oh, nice. An easy one! 505 00:17:31,759 --> 00:17:33,803 {\an1}I love you for that! - Yeah. Yeah. 506 00:17:33,928 --> 00:17:38,516 {\an1}- Tall. Check. Beard. Check. Handsome. Check. 507 00:17:38,641 --> 00:17:40,935 {\an1}[giggles] 508 00:17:41,060 --> 00:17:42,562 {\an1}- Nice to meet you! - Nice to meet you. 509 00:17:42,687 --> 00:17:43,938 {\an1}Hello. Hello. - You're gorgeous. 510 00:17:44,021 --> 00:17:45,147 {\an1}- Oh, thank you. You're gorgeous. 511 00:17:45,231 --> 00:17:46,816 {\an1}[laughter] 512 00:17:46,941 --> 00:17:49,402 {\an1}- [gasps] - I know him. 513 00:17:49,527 --> 00:17:51,821 {\an1}I think he knows me. [music fades] 514 00:17:51,904 --> 00:17:54,115 {\an1}Oh, my God. It's Johnny. 515 00:17:54,198 --> 00:17:56,325 {\an1}You're all red, Johnny. - I am. 516 00:17:56,450 --> 00:17:57,660 {\an1}[laughter] 517 00:17:57,785 --> 00:17:59,287 {\an1}- Number four. 518 00:17:59,370 --> 00:18:00,955 {\an1}- May I have the broom, please? 519 00:18:01,038 --> 00:18:02,957 {\an1}- Add traditional elements to your wedding ceremony 520 00:18:03,040 --> 00:18:05,418 {\an1}to honor your past and culture. 521 00:18:05,543 --> 00:18:07,003 {\an1}- So, this is called a pha biang. 522 00:18:07,169 --> 00:18:10,464 {\an1}I was wondering if it was okay if I put this on you. 523 00:18:10,590 --> 00:18:12,216 {\an1}- Of course. Yeah. - Okay, perfect. 524 00:18:12,341 --> 00:18:13,718 {\an1}[tender music] 525 00:18:13,843 --> 00:18:16,012 {\an1}Yeah, that looks good. Okay. - All right. 526 00:18:16,137 --> 00:18:19,307 {\an1}- Jose and Rachel and chosen the lasso ritual. 527 00:18:19,432 --> 00:18:20,433 {\an1}With full awareness, 528 00:18:20,516 --> 00:18:23,436 {\an1}know that within this lasso, you are bound together 529 00:18:23,519 --> 00:18:26,897 {\an1}before your friends and before your family. 530 00:18:27,023 --> 00:18:29,358 {\an1}- We'll participate in the African-American tradition 531 00:18:29,483 --> 00:18:30,484 {\an1}jumping the broom. 532 00:18:30,651 --> 00:18:32,862 {\an1}all: One. Two. Three. 533 00:18:33,029 --> 00:18:34,905 {\an1}- Jump! - [laughs] 534 00:18:35,031 --> 00:18:36,198 {\an1}[cheers and applause] 535 00:18:36,324 --> 00:18:37,033 {\an1}- Jump! 536 00:18:37,158 --> 00:18:39,076 {\an1}[cheers and applause] - All right! 537 00:18:39,201 --> 00:18:40,411 {\an1}- Go! 538 00:18:40,536 --> 00:18:44,373 {\an1}[cheers and applause] 539 00:18:44,498 --> 00:18:47,460 {\an1}- The tea ceremony is a joining of two families. 540 00:18:47,543 --> 00:18:49,420 {\an1}- We honor our ancestors 541 00:18:49,503 --> 00:18:52,882 {\an1}and ask them to watch over our bride and groom 542 00:18:53,007 --> 00:18:56,385 {\an1}as they begin their lives as husband and wife. 543 00:18:56,510 --> 00:19:00,139 {\an1}[laughter and applause] 544 00:19:00,264 --> 00:19:01,599 {\an1}- Number three. 545 00:19:01,724 --> 00:19:04,477 {\an1}Remember, this is still your wedding. 546 00:19:04,602 --> 00:19:05,311 {\an1}You can also make it unique 547 00:19:05,436 --> 00:19:07,146 {\an1}and create your own traditions. 548 00:19:07,313 --> 00:19:09,982 {\an1}[laughter] 549 00:19:10,107 --> 00:19:11,984 {\an1}[quirky music] 550 00:19:12,151 --> 00:19:14,028 {\an1}- The groom would like a special blindfolded moment 551 00:19:14,195 --> 00:19:15,946 {\an1}with his soon-to-be wife 552 00:19:16,072 --> 00:19:17,239 {\an1}so that they may have an opportunity 553 00:19:17,365 --> 00:19:19,992 {\an1}to hold each other's hands and feel one another 554 00:19:20,117 --> 00:19:22,328 {\an1}before they make this lifelong commitment together. 555 00:19:22,453 --> 00:19:23,579 {\an1}- [exhales sharply] - All right. 556 00:19:23,704 --> 00:19:26,749 {\an1}One. Two. Three. 557 00:19:26,874 --> 00:19:29,001 {\an1}- Hi. - Hi. 558 00:19:29,126 --> 00:19:32,463 {\an1}- Welcome, ladies, gentlemen, canines. 559 00:19:32,588 --> 00:19:35,466 {\an1}[tender music] 560 00:19:35,549 --> 00:19:38,886 {\an1}♪ ♪ 561 00:19:39,011 --> 00:19:40,471 {\an1}- Number two. 562 00:19:40,554 --> 00:19:43,641 {\an1}Your vows set the tone for a lifelong commitment, 563 00:19:43,766 --> 00:19:45,351 {\an1}so choose your words carefully. 564 00:19:45,476 --> 00:19:48,354 {\an1}- I knew from the first time I saw you, you were the one. 565 00:19:48,479 --> 00:19:50,106 {\an1}- I promise to never encourage you 566 00:19:50,231 --> 00:19:52,191 {\an1}to marry a complete stranger again. 567 00:19:52,316 --> 00:19:54,985 {\an1}- I vow to let you share my closet space for your clothes. 568 00:19:55,069 --> 00:19:56,278 {\an1}- [laughs] 569 00:19:56,404 --> 00:19:59,156 {\an1}- ...to never get angry at you for honest mistakes, 570 00:19:59,281 --> 00:20:01,242 {\an1}even if you forget to make the bed every morning 571 00:20:01,367 --> 00:20:02,660 {\an1}or you leave the toilet seat up. 572 00:20:02,743 --> 00:20:04,662 {\an1}But please don't. - Okay. 573 00:20:04,745 --> 00:20:07,998 {\an1}- So, I promise to be that man that you've also sought after-- 574 00:20:08,082 --> 00:20:10,751 {\an1}that supporter, that provider-- not only financially 575 00:20:10,835 --> 00:20:13,963 {\an1}but emotionally, spiritually, independently...sexually. 576 00:20:14,088 --> 00:20:16,757 {\an1}[laughter] 577 00:20:16,882 --> 00:20:18,092 {\an1}- Number one. 578 00:20:18,217 --> 00:20:20,678 {\an1}You did it. You're married. 579 00:20:20,845 --> 00:20:23,639 {\an1}Don't forget to seal it with a kiss. 580 00:20:23,764 --> 00:20:24,765 {\an1}- ♪ Whoa, ♪ 581 00:20:24,849 --> 00:20:27,685 {\an1}- You may kiss your bride. - I will. 582 00:20:27,810 --> 00:20:30,646 {\an1}[cheers and applause] 583 00:20:30,771 --> 00:20:33,691 {\an1}♪ ♪ 584 00:20:33,816 --> 00:20:36,026 {\an1}- You may now kiss your bride. 585 00:20:36,152 --> 00:20:39,363 {\an1}- [giggles] - Ooh. Ooh, I like that! 586 00:20:39,488 --> 00:20:40,573 {\an1}[laughter] 587 00:20:40,698 --> 00:20:44,201 {\an1}- [vocalizing] 588 00:20:44,326 --> 00:20:47,288 {\an1}- Oh, my God, he did that! 589 00:20:47,413 --> 00:20:49,457 {\an1}[sighs] Briana, I can't even lie. 590 00:20:49,582 --> 00:20:52,001 {\an1}Every time I watch Jamie and I's first kiss, 591 00:20:52,126 --> 00:20:54,462 {\an1}it still gives me, like, butterflies in my stomach, 592 00:20:54,545 --> 00:20:57,089 {\an1}because I couldn't have imagined it going any better. 593 00:20:57,173 --> 00:20:59,049 {\an1}- Me and Vincent had a little peck at the altar. 594 00:20:59,175 --> 00:21:01,594 {\an1}I think both of us were, like, unsure. 595 00:21:01,677 --> 00:21:04,805 {\an1}But also, I had never kissed anyone in front of my family, 596 00:21:04,889 --> 00:21:06,140 {\an1}which that's a good thing. 597 00:21:06,223 --> 00:21:08,184 {\an1}It's like my husband is the first man. 598 00:21:08,309 --> 00:21:10,853 {\an1}- Once again, I say, just lean into it. 599 00:21:10,978 --> 00:21:12,396 {\an1}- Just let it fly. - Yeah. 600 00:21:16,233 --> 00:21:19,153 {\an1}- Let's continue with our next rules of marriage. 601 00:21:19,320 --> 00:21:21,614 {\an1}- Let's do it. - Yes. 602 00:21:21,739 --> 00:21:24,617 {\an1}[upbeat music] 603 00:21:24,700 --> 00:21:26,744 {\an1}- Okay, Briana, the wedding reception gets so real. 604 00:21:26,869 --> 00:21:27,828 {\an1}- Oh, yeah. 605 00:21:27,912 --> 00:21:28,996 {\an1}We've seen a lot 606 00:21:29,121 --> 00:21:31,290 {\an1}of fun "Married at First Sight" receptions, 607 00:21:31,415 --> 00:21:34,877 {\an1}and we've discovered there are certain dos and don'ts 608 00:21:35,002 --> 00:21:37,087 {\an1}to throwing this party. 609 00:21:37,171 --> 00:21:39,256 {\an1}Let's check out the top five rules 610 00:21:39,340 --> 00:21:42,134 {\an1}of hosting a successful wedding reception. 611 00:21:42,259 --> 00:21:43,803 {\an1}- Number five. 612 00:21:43,886 --> 00:21:46,055 {\an1}Be careful of who you ask 613 00:21:46,180 --> 00:21:47,640 {\an1}to give a speech at your reception. 614 00:21:47,765 --> 00:21:51,143 {\an1}- I noticed her tag on her car had expired. 615 00:21:51,268 --> 00:21:53,646 {\an1}In this envelope is her renewal 616 00:21:53,771 --> 00:21:55,564 {\an1}and a prepaid Visa, 'cause I don't want you 617 00:21:55,689 --> 00:21:56,315 {\an1}to pay yet... - All right. all right. 618 00:21:56,440 --> 00:21:57,733 {\an1}- The amount of the renewal, 619 00:21:57,858 --> 00:21:58,984 {\an1}plus the late fees. 620 00:21:59,109 --> 00:22:00,820 {\an1}Jamie's gonna help you... - I got it. I got it. 621 00:22:00,945 --> 00:22:03,072 {\an1}- 'Cause Dad's not helping you anymore. 622 00:22:03,197 --> 00:22:05,449 {\an1}- He's close with his mom 623 00:22:05,533 --> 00:22:08,160 {\an1}that he comes to the house and he goes shopping. 624 00:22:08,285 --> 00:22:11,539 {\an1}He comes back, he gives her her credit card. 625 00:22:11,664 --> 00:22:13,874 {\an1}"Oh, Ma, by the way, I bought the things you need, 626 00:22:14,041 --> 00:22:16,293 {\an1}but I filled up my car with gas." 627 00:22:16,418 --> 00:22:17,336 {\an1}- Oh, God. 628 00:22:17,461 --> 00:22:19,255 {\an1}- So, the bad thing about him getting married: 629 00:22:19,338 --> 00:22:21,298 {\an1}he's gonna shop for two. 630 00:22:21,423 --> 00:22:22,675 {\an1}[laughter] 631 00:22:22,800 --> 00:22:25,845 {\an1}- Daughter, your daddy, 632 00:22:26,011 --> 00:22:28,514 {\an1}he been talking [bleep] to me all night. 633 00:22:28,681 --> 00:22:31,016 {\an1}And this [bleep] thought I wouldn't get on this mic 634 00:22:31,183 --> 00:22:33,185 {\an1}and talk [bleep] about his gray-haired ass. 635 00:22:33,310 --> 00:22:35,479 {\an1}It's a [bleep] lie. - Oh, no. 636 00:22:35,563 --> 00:22:36,856 {\an1}[tense music] 637 00:22:37,022 --> 00:22:39,066 {\an1}No, I'm just playing. [laughter] 638 00:22:39,191 --> 00:22:40,609 {\an1}- Number four. 639 00:22:40,693 --> 00:22:43,445 {\an1}This is a day you'll want to remember forever. 640 00:22:43,571 --> 00:22:45,531 {\an1}Make sure you take lots of pictures. 641 00:22:45,698 --> 00:22:46,699 {\an1}- Just relax. 642 00:22:46,824 --> 00:22:48,117 {\an1}- I'm not kissing him. 643 00:22:48,200 --> 00:22:50,661 {\an1}Act like I love you. - I love you. 644 00:22:50,744 --> 00:22:52,788 {\an1}- Can you give David a little kiss on the cheek, please? 645 00:22:52,913 --> 00:22:54,582 {\an1}- I don't want to do kissing. 646 00:22:54,707 --> 00:22:56,125 {\an1}- I'm gonna put my hand on your butt. 647 00:22:56,250 --> 00:22:58,168 {\an1}- Oh, God. [both laugh] 648 00:22:58,294 --> 00:23:00,588 {\an1}- Smile. - Smile, everybody. 649 00:23:00,671 --> 00:23:02,590 {\an1}- ♪ Emotions ♪ 650 00:23:02,715 --> 00:23:04,675 {\an1}- Save it for the honeymoon. [cheers and applause] 651 00:23:04,800 --> 00:23:05,801 {\an1}- ♪ Come on ♪ 652 00:23:05,926 --> 00:23:08,596 {\an1}♪ ♪ 653 00:23:08,679 --> 00:23:10,306 {\an1}- Number three. 654 00:23:10,431 --> 00:23:12,766 {\an1}Don't forget the classic reception tradition 655 00:23:12,850 --> 00:23:15,060 {\an1}that everyone loves. 656 00:23:15,185 --> 00:23:16,896 {\an1}[clinking glasses] - What does that mean? 657 00:23:18,230 --> 00:23:19,648 {\an1}- Oh, that's what that means? 658 00:23:19,773 --> 00:23:20,774 {\an1}[clinking glasses] 659 00:23:20,858 --> 00:23:23,444 {\an1}- Oh, they kissed! [cheers] 660 00:23:23,527 --> 00:23:24,862 {\an1}- I got you! 661 00:23:24,987 --> 00:23:27,239 {\an1}[laughter and applause] 662 00:23:27,364 --> 00:23:29,700 {\an1}- I'm sorry if I hit someone in the face with this. 663 00:23:29,867 --> 00:23:31,201 {\an1}- Three. 664 00:23:31,327 --> 00:23:32,870 {\an1}[cheers] - Yes, girl! 665 00:23:33,037 --> 00:23:34,246 {\an1}[lively music] 666 00:23:34,371 --> 00:23:37,374 {\an1}[vocalizing] 667 00:23:37,499 --> 00:23:43,005 {\an1}♪ ♪ 668 00:23:43,172 --> 00:23:45,841 {\an1}- What the hell was that? 669 00:23:46,008 --> 00:23:47,885 {\an1}- Number two. 670 00:23:48,010 --> 00:23:50,095 {\an1}As you get to know your new spouse, 671 00:23:50,220 --> 00:23:52,306 {\an1}keep an open mind if you're having any doubts. 672 00:23:52,389 --> 00:23:53,807 {\an1}There's no turning back now. 673 00:23:53,891 --> 00:23:56,560 {\an1}- I'm not necessarily attracted to him. 674 00:23:56,685 --> 00:23:58,228 {\an1}You know, I wanted, like, the butterflies, 675 00:23:58,354 --> 00:24:03,275 {\an1}and I wanted all of that, and it didn't happen. 676 00:24:03,400 --> 00:24:05,986 {\an1}[solemn music] 677 00:24:06,111 --> 00:24:07,488 {\an1}- Do you cook a lot? 678 00:24:07,613 --> 00:24:08,989 {\an1}- I mostly just eat steak and eggs. 679 00:24:09,073 --> 00:24:10,282 {\an1}[quirky music] 680 00:24:10,366 --> 00:24:11,367 {\an1}It's kind of weird. - Yeah. 681 00:24:11,533 --> 00:24:13,494 {\an1}I don't think I can do steak and eggs every meal. 682 00:24:13,619 --> 00:24:17,081 {\an1}♪ ♪ 683 00:24:17,206 --> 00:24:19,500 {\an1}- Are you a virgin? - No. 684 00:24:19,625 --> 00:24:20,292 {\an1}- Oh, okay. 685 00:24:20,417 --> 00:24:22,711 {\an1}Are you on contraceptions? 686 00:24:22,836 --> 00:24:25,005 {\an1}- What? - What? 687 00:24:25,130 --> 00:24:27,132 {\an1}♪ ♪ 688 00:24:27,257 --> 00:24:28,509 {\an1}- Some of them are just losers... 689 00:24:28,676 --> 00:24:29,385 {\an1}- Yeah. - Like, who don't deserve 690 00:24:29,510 --> 00:24:31,261 {\an1}a type of person like me, you know? 691 00:24:31,345 --> 00:24:33,222 {\an1}- Yeah. Yeah. - Like, [bleep] you. 692 00:24:33,347 --> 00:24:34,765 {\an1}[bleep] you, [bleep] you. You, you're cool. 693 00:24:34,848 --> 00:24:37,810 {\an1}- Yeah. Yeah, I can see that. - I'm out. 694 00:24:37,893 --> 00:24:39,061 {\an1}♪ ♪ 695 00:24:39,186 --> 00:24:41,063 {\an1}- Number one. 696 00:24:41,188 --> 00:24:44,525 {\an1}At the end of the day, it's a party to celebrate you. 697 00:24:44,650 --> 00:24:46,026 {\an1}Have fun. 698 00:24:46,193 --> 00:24:48,237 {\an1}- We ready to get this thing started, so... 699 00:24:48,362 --> 00:24:50,280 {\an1}- ♪ Dancing ♪ 700 00:24:50,364 --> 00:24:53,701 {\an1}♪ There's no, there's no right way to do it ♪ 701 00:24:53,867 --> 00:24:55,202 {\an1}- I feel great that Ashley's my wife. 702 00:24:55,369 --> 00:24:56,453 {\an1}She's beautiful. 703 00:24:56,578 --> 00:24:58,622 {\an1}The fact that our families get together so well 704 00:24:58,706 --> 00:25:01,500 {\an1}from day one is-- that means the world. 705 00:25:01,625 --> 00:25:04,503 {\an1}- ♪ There is someone out there for you ♪ 706 00:25:04,628 --> 00:25:07,006 {\an1}♪ Someone, I'm looking for true love ♪ 707 00:25:07,172 --> 00:25:10,009 {\an1}♪ I'm looking for true love ♪ 708 00:25:10,175 --> 00:25:12,678 {\an1}- I'm so corny when it comes to weddings. 709 00:25:12,845 --> 00:25:14,471 {\an1}Like, I want all the right songs. 710 00:25:14,596 --> 00:25:16,390 {\an1}You better throw that bouquet. 711 00:25:16,515 --> 00:25:18,434 {\an1}You better smash that cake in my face. 712 00:25:18,559 --> 00:25:20,477 {\an1}Like, we're going full shebang. - Yeah. 713 00:25:20,561 --> 00:25:22,146 {\an1}- We're going all-in wedding day: 714 00:25:22,271 --> 00:25:24,148 {\an1}Ceremony, traditions, all of it. 715 00:25:24,273 --> 00:25:25,816 {\an1}- All right. Let's keep going. 716 00:25:25,941 --> 00:25:29,319 {\an1}[upbeat music] 717 00:25:29,486 --> 00:25:31,321 {\an1}- So, you've made it through the big day, 718 00:25:31,405 --> 00:25:33,657 {\an1}and it's finally time for you and your new spouse 719 00:25:33,782 --> 00:25:37,494 {\an1}to spend your first night together as man and wife. 720 00:25:37,619 --> 00:25:39,663 {\an1}Let's check out these top five rules 721 00:25:39,788 --> 00:25:41,999 {\an1}to make a special night unforgettable. 722 00:25:42,166 --> 00:25:43,500 {\an1}Number five. 723 00:25:43,625 --> 00:25:45,794 {\an1}- Grab my wife. - [laughs] 724 00:25:45,919 --> 00:25:48,213 {\an1}- Kick the night off with a classic move. 725 00:25:48,338 --> 00:25:49,548 {\an1}- I'm ready. Whoo! 726 00:25:49,673 --> 00:25:51,508 {\an1}[both laugh] 727 00:25:51,633 --> 00:25:53,802 {\an1}- ♪ You lift me up and up ♪ 728 00:25:53,927 --> 00:25:55,846 {\an1}♪ ♪ 729 00:25:55,971 --> 00:25:58,307 {\an1}♪ Yeah, only you know how to love, love ♪ 730 00:25:58,432 --> 00:25:59,933 {\an1}- We gotta do this the right way. 731 00:26:00,017 --> 00:26:02,144 {\an1}♪ There, by my side ♪ 732 00:26:02,269 --> 00:26:04,855 {\an1}- [grunts] Okay, we're good. - [yelps] 733 00:26:05,022 --> 00:26:06,148 {\an1}- Number four. 734 00:26:06,315 --> 00:26:07,649 {\an1}This is the first time 735 00:26:07,775 --> 00:26:09,359 {\an1}your spouse will see the real you. 736 00:26:09,526 --> 00:26:10,986 {\an1}Choose your sleepwear carefully. 737 00:26:11,111 --> 00:26:14,239 {\an1}- That is a very nice dress that you're wearing. 738 00:26:14,364 --> 00:26:17,076 {\an1}- Oh, thank you. - Wow. You look wonderful. 739 00:26:17,201 --> 00:26:19,620 {\an1}- You got nice PJs yourself. - Thanks. 740 00:26:19,745 --> 00:26:22,039 {\an1}- Oh, my God. No, you didn't. 741 00:26:22,206 --> 00:26:25,125 {\an1}Oh, my God. Oh, God. 742 00:26:25,250 --> 00:26:27,211 {\an1}[laughs] I can't. 743 00:26:27,336 --> 00:26:29,379 {\an1}I can't even look at you right now. 744 00:26:29,505 --> 00:26:30,506 {\an1}Please take that off. 745 00:26:30,672 --> 00:26:32,049 {\an1}Please take that off right now. Please. 746 00:26:32,174 --> 00:26:33,634 {\an1}- Maybe this is too much for-- 747 00:26:33,717 --> 00:26:36,470 {\an1}- Yeah. - Okay. 10-4. 748 00:26:36,553 --> 00:26:38,013 {\an1}- Number three. 749 00:26:38,180 --> 00:26:39,431 {\an1}Take it from me: 750 00:26:39,515 --> 00:26:41,642 {\an1}don't be afraid to bare it all. 751 00:26:41,725 --> 00:26:43,143 {\an1}Thank you. - You're welcome. 752 00:26:43,310 --> 00:26:45,854 {\an1}- I actually am a very sexual person, 753 00:26:45,979 --> 00:26:47,648 {\an1}so honestly it wouldn't surprise me 754 00:26:47,773 --> 00:26:50,484 {\an1}if something happened between us. 755 00:26:50,609 --> 00:26:54,029 {\an1}Oh, wow, my vows came out of my boobs. 756 00:26:54,196 --> 00:26:55,030 {\an1}- Jeez, girl. 757 00:26:58,283 --> 00:26:59,785 {\an1}- [laughs] 758 00:26:59,910 --> 00:27:02,162 {\an1}She's half-naked. 759 00:27:02,287 --> 00:27:03,163 {\an1}Damn, my wife's hot. 760 00:27:03,288 --> 00:27:05,833 {\an1}[laughs] 761 00:27:05,999 --> 00:27:07,376 {\an1}- I took my dress off 762 00:27:07,501 --> 00:27:10,379 {\an1}'cause I'm actually more comfortable naked. 763 00:27:10,504 --> 00:27:12,923 {\an1}But I think he liked it. I do. 764 00:27:13,048 --> 00:27:14,133 {\an1}Number two. 765 00:27:14,258 --> 00:27:17,594 {\an1}You're hopping into bed with someone you just met. 766 00:27:17,719 --> 00:27:20,389 {\an1}Be prepared for it to be weird. 767 00:27:20,514 --> 00:27:25,978 {\an1}- It's off to a better start than I envisioned. 768 00:27:26,103 --> 00:27:27,479 {\an1}- I don't know what to do. 769 00:27:27,563 --> 00:27:29,106 {\an1}- I don't know what to say to that. 770 00:27:29,189 --> 00:27:30,732 {\an1}- Okay. 771 00:27:30,858 --> 00:27:33,318 {\an1}So, I guess, like, we get ready for bed? 772 00:27:33,402 --> 00:27:34,611 {\an1}- [mumbles] Have sex. - Wait, what? 773 00:27:34,695 --> 00:27:36,864 {\an1}- Yeah. No. I just-- - Uh, yeah. 774 00:27:36,989 --> 00:27:39,074 {\an1}- [chuckles] I can't. 775 00:27:39,199 --> 00:27:41,243 {\an1}- As far as, like, the sexual aspects and all that stuff, 776 00:27:41,368 --> 00:27:42,619 {\an1}I'm not too worried about it. 777 00:27:42,744 --> 00:27:44,621 {\an1}I think nature will take its course. 778 00:27:44,746 --> 00:27:46,623 {\an1}You know, I'm all for going with whatever's natural. 779 00:27:46,748 --> 00:27:49,418 {\an1}- Well, it's been a long day. I'm tired. 780 00:27:49,501 --> 00:27:51,753 {\an1}[quirky music] 781 00:27:51,879 --> 00:27:54,131 {\an1}- I mean, that couch was really comfortable. 782 00:27:54,256 --> 00:27:55,465 {\an1}I was thinking maybe you could sleep-- 783 00:27:55,549 --> 00:27:56,592 {\an1}- Yeah, that was--yeah, if you like that, that's fine. 784 00:27:56,717 --> 00:27:58,969 {\an1}- Oh, I thought for you. You really liked it. 785 00:27:59,052 --> 00:28:00,804 {\an1}- Can I sleep on the bed? 786 00:28:00,971 --> 00:28:02,014 {\an1}- You can sleep on that side. - Okay. 787 00:28:02,181 --> 00:28:03,640 {\an1}- And I'll sleep on this side. - All right. 788 00:28:03,724 --> 00:28:06,101 {\an1}- So, you want, like, a foot rub before you go to sleep? 789 00:28:08,228 --> 00:28:09,521 {\an1}- Okay, cool. 790 00:28:09,646 --> 00:28:11,982 {\an1}So, don't say I didn't offer. 791 00:28:13,400 --> 00:28:16,820 {\an1}- Uh, night-night. 792 00:28:16,904 --> 00:28:18,864 {\an1}- Uh, you ready to hear this from your wife? 793 00:28:18,989 --> 00:28:19,948 {\an1}- Sure. 794 00:28:20,032 --> 00:28:21,533 {\an1}- [whimpers] 795 00:28:21,700 --> 00:28:23,452 {\an1}[dramatic music] 796 00:28:23,535 --> 00:28:25,579 {\an1}So, guess what? - What's that? 797 00:28:25,704 --> 00:28:27,456 {\an1}- I'm a virgin. 798 00:28:27,539 --> 00:28:30,918 {\an1}♪ ♪ 799 00:28:31,001 --> 00:28:32,753 {\an1}- For real? - Yeah. 800 00:28:32,836 --> 00:28:34,254 {\an1}♪ ♪ 801 00:28:34,338 --> 00:28:37,299 {\an1}I'll give you a second. I'll let you ponder on that. 802 00:28:37,382 --> 00:28:39,134 {\an1}- Ooh... 803 00:28:39,259 --> 00:28:40,802 {\an1}- Number one. 804 00:28:40,928 --> 00:28:42,638 {\an1}If you're feeling it, get sexy. 805 00:28:42,763 --> 00:28:44,306 {\an1}After all, you're married. 806 00:28:44,431 --> 00:28:45,641 {\an1}- Sheila fine. 807 00:28:45,724 --> 00:28:47,976 {\an1}Sheila is gorgeous. Like, stunning. 808 00:28:48,101 --> 00:28:50,604 {\an1}Got the whole Halle Berry haircut going on too. 809 00:28:50,687 --> 00:28:53,857 {\an1}[sensual music] 810 00:28:53,982 --> 00:28:56,652 {\an1}- I'm happy I met you, for real. 811 00:28:56,735 --> 00:29:00,155 {\an1}And I hope that this is longer than just the process. 812 00:29:00,280 --> 00:29:00,989 {\an1}- Well, it will be. 813 00:29:01,114 --> 00:29:02,449 {\an1}We're married. - I know. 814 00:29:02,574 --> 00:29:03,659 {\an1}- You're like, "Yeah, but you know." 815 00:29:03,784 --> 00:29:05,452 {\an1}- You might take off on a brother. 816 00:29:05,535 --> 00:29:07,829 {\an1}- No, I don't think so. 817 00:29:07,913 --> 00:29:09,414 {\an1}- Hi. 818 00:29:09,539 --> 00:29:11,500 {\an1}There we go. Ooh, I like this. 819 00:29:11,583 --> 00:29:13,126 {\an1}- Mm. 820 00:29:13,210 --> 00:29:14,461 {\an1}- Feeling good? - Mm-hmm. 821 00:29:14,586 --> 00:29:17,214 {\an1}- You good? - I'm good. 822 00:29:17,339 --> 00:29:19,174 {\an1}- I would love to kiss her for the rest of the night 823 00:29:19,299 --> 00:29:21,468 {\an1}and take it to the next level. 824 00:29:21,635 --> 00:29:22,719 {\an1}We'll find out. [chuckles] 825 00:29:22,844 --> 00:29:25,389 {\an1}- ♪ That brought me to you ♪ 826 00:29:25,514 --> 00:29:27,808 {\an1}- Yeah, I totally stripped down. 827 00:29:27,933 --> 00:29:30,644 {\an1}Jamie needed to know what level of comfortable I was... 828 00:29:30,727 --> 00:29:32,688 {\an1}- I love that about you. - At the beginning. 829 00:29:32,854 --> 00:29:34,982 {\an1}- No regrets, right? - No. No. It's a rule. 830 00:29:35,148 --> 00:29:36,566 {\an1}That's a rule of marriage. - That's a rule. 831 00:29:36,692 --> 00:29:37,859 {\an1}- Don't be afraid to bare it all. 832 00:29:38,026 --> 00:29:39,528 {\an1}- Be comfortable with yourself. - Yeah. 833 00:29:39,653 --> 00:29:41,113 {\an1}I'm just trying to follow the rules. 834 00:29:41,238 --> 00:29:42,656 {\an1}- Mm-hmm. Next up, 835 00:29:42,739 --> 00:29:44,283 {\an1}we're moving on to the honeymoon, 836 00:29:44,408 --> 00:29:48,620 {\an1}and you know those are always full of fun and drama. 837 00:29:52,416 --> 00:29:54,084 {\an1}We've gathered some insider info 838 00:29:54,209 --> 00:29:56,211 {\an1}as to what we think helps build a solid foundation 839 00:29:56,336 --> 00:29:57,838 {\an1}for an everlasting love. 840 00:29:58,005 --> 00:30:00,507 {\an1}We've done the work so you don't have to, 841 00:30:00,632 --> 00:30:02,676 {\an1}so bring on some more rules of marriage. 842 00:30:02,843 --> 00:30:04,886 {\an1}- This next part of most people's marriage 843 00:30:05,012 --> 00:30:07,764 {\an1}is definitely a highlight that everyone looks forward to. 844 00:30:07,848 --> 00:30:09,391 {\an1}Can you guess what it is? 845 00:30:09,516 --> 00:30:11,518 {\an1}- That's easy: the honeymoon! 846 00:30:11,685 --> 00:30:14,771 {\an1}[upbeat music] 847 00:30:14,855 --> 00:30:16,606 {\an1}- Let's watch these top five rules 848 00:30:16,690 --> 00:30:19,026 {\an1}for making sure the honeymoon is full of romance, 849 00:30:19,192 --> 00:30:22,154 {\an1}relaxation, and memories that will last a lifetime. 850 00:30:22,279 --> 00:30:23,488 {\an1}♪ ♪ 851 00:30:23,572 --> 00:30:25,157 {\an1}- Number five. 852 00:30:25,282 --> 00:30:26,825 {\an1}Just like your new marriage, 853 00:30:26,908 --> 00:30:28,577 {\an1}your honeymoon is an adventure. 854 00:30:28,702 --> 00:30:30,329 {\an1}Don't be afraid to try new things. 855 00:30:30,454 --> 00:30:33,415 {\an1}[exciting music] 856 00:30:33,540 --> 00:30:37,377 {\an1}♪ ♪ 857 00:30:37,502 --> 00:30:39,463 {\an1}- Whoa! 858 00:30:39,588 --> 00:30:40,964 {\an1}- You can let go now. - Oh my God! 859 00:30:41,089 --> 00:30:43,467 {\an1}- Whoa! - Whoo! 860 00:30:43,592 --> 00:30:48,138 {\an1}- This is insane. - [chuckles] 861 00:30:48,305 --> 00:30:50,682 {\an1}- [chuckles] - Whoo-hoo! 862 00:30:50,849 --> 00:30:52,142 {\an1}- There. There we go. 863 00:30:52,309 --> 00:30:54,311 {\an1}- You did it. - Thank you. 864 00:30:54,394 --> 00:30:56,813 {\an1}- We are swimming with stingrays. 865 00:30:56,938 --> 00:30:59,149 {\an1}Experiencing this with my husband 866 00:30:59,316 --> 00:31:01,234 {\an1}for the first time, I am really excited. 867 00:31:01,360 --> 00:31:03,028 {\an1}- Hey, he rubbed on us. 868 00:31:03,195 --> 00:31:04,863 {\an1}- [wheezes] Hold on. 869 00:31:04,988 --> 00:31:06,031 {\an1}- Are you good? - Okay, okay. 870 00:31:06,156 --> 00:31:07,199 {\an1}See? I'm doing it. - Okay, go. 871 00:31:07,324 --> 00:31:08,742 {\an1}- I'm doing it. I'm doing it. - You are doing it. 872 00:31:08,867 --> 00:31:10,994 {\an1}- But I don't know how to stop. 873 00:31:11,161 --> 00:31:11,995 {\an1}- It's not turning. 874 00:31:12,079 --> 00:31:13,538 {\an1}[quirky music] 875 00:31:13,663 --> 00:31:15,165 {\an1}- Oh! - God damn it. 876 00:31:15,332 --> 00:31:16,375 {\an1}- Oh, crap! 877 00:31:16,500 --> 00:31:18,502 {\an1}Ahh! - Oh, [bleep]! 878 00:31:18,668 --> 00:31:20,003 {\an1}[bleep]. Are you all right, Christina? 879 00:31:20,170 --> 00:31:21,380 {\an1}I was almost a widow. 880 00:31:21,505 --> 00:31:22,881 {\an1}- Number four. 881 00:31:23,006 --> 00:31:25,175 {\an1}Honeymoons are supposed to be fun. 882 00:31:25,342 --> 00:31:26,343 {\an1}Keep it light. 883 00:31:26,510 --> 00:31:28,804 {\an1}After all, you have the rest of your lives to argue. 884 00:31:28,929 --> 00:31:30,305 {\an1}- Nate is very aggressive, 885 00:31:30,430 --> 00:31:34,643 {\an1}and he is taking this a lot more serious than I. 886 00:31:34,768 --> 00:31:35,811 {\an1}- Oh, yeah. 887 00:31:35,936 --> 00:31:38,397 {\an1}- I don't like you in competitive things. 888 00:31:38,522 --> 00:31:39,398 {\an1}- 'Cause I'm a competitor? 889 00:31:39,523 --> 00:31:41,066 {\an1}- No, 'cause you're a sore loser. 890 00:31:41,191 --> 00:31:42,651 {\an1}[tense music] 891 00:31:42,818 --> 00:31:43,944 {\an1}- Don't do that again, 892 00:31:44,069 --> 00:31:45,821 {\an1}'cause that's, like, borderline, like, disrespect. 893 00:31:45,987 --> 00:31:47,906 {\an1}Please don't do that again. 894 00:31:48,031 --> 00:31:51,451 {\an1}- You know, I feel gypped, you feel gypped, 895 00:31:51,576 --> 00:31:53,829 {\an1}and this sucks for both of us. 896 00:31:53,912 --> 00:31:55,747 {\an1}- There was never a point in this process 897 00:31:55,872 --> 00:31:56,998 {\an1}where you put in an effort. 898 00:31:57,082 --> 00:31:58,125 {\an1}I am at this-- - That's not true. 899 00:31:58,208 --> 00:31:59,292 {\an1}- I am, at this point-- - And I'm not gonna 900 00:31:59,418 --> 00:32:01,294 {\an1}stand here on camera if he's gonna say that. 901 00:32:01,420 --> 00:32:02,421 {\an1}- I-- - Mm-mm. 902 00:32:02,504 --> 00:32:04,464 {\an1}He just called me a [bleep] liar. 903 00:32:04,631 --> 00:32:08,802 {\an1}♪ ♪ 904 00:32:08,927 --> 00:32:09,845 {\an1}- I just have a lot of guy friends. 905 00:32:10,011 --> 00:32:12,681 {\an1}- A guy and a girl can never be friends, ever, 906 00:32:12,806 --> 00:32:14,349 {\an1}except for a few things-- 907 00:32:14,516 --> 00:32:17,310 {\an1}one being, like, if they're with one of your best friends, 908 00:32:17,394 --> 00:32:19,146 {\an1}you know, if they're gay. 909 00:32:19,312 --> 00:32:20,647 {\an1}- So I can only be friends with people 910 00:32:20,814 --> 00:32:22,983 {\an1}if they're gay or dating my friends? 911 00:32:23,066 --> 00:32:25,068 {\an1}- You're my wife now. That's it. 912 00:32:25,193 --> 00:32:28,155 {\an1}I'm supposed to be the only guy. 913 00:32:28,238 --> 00:32:29,531 {\an1}- Number three. 914 00:32:29,656 --> 00:32:31,158 {\an1}Don't let your fellow honeymooners 915 00:32:31,283 --> 00:32:33,827 {\an1}put a damper on your good time. 916 00:32:33,952 --> 00:32:34,828 {\an1}- What would you rate your marriage, 917 00:32:34,953 --> 00:32:37,372 {\an1}on a scale of one to ten, ten being perfect? 918 00:32:37,539 --> 00:32:40,333 {\an1}- That's ridiculous. 919 00:32:40,417 --> 00:32:42,335 {\an1}I'm not gonna trivialize something as complex 920 00:32:42,502 --> 00:32:45,630 {\an1}as interhuman relationships by assigning a value to it. 921 00:32:45,714 --> 00:32:47,507 {\an1}- Mm. - That's so stupid. 922 00:32:47,674 --> 00:32:49,217 {\an1}- I have one. - All right. 923 00:32:49,342 --> 00:32:51,761 {\an1}- Never have I ever... 924 00:32:51,845 --> 00:32:53,305 {\an1}♪ ♪ 925 00:32:53,388 --> 00:32:54,806 {\an1}- Oh! - Uh-huh. 926 00:32:54,931 --> 00:32:57,476 {\an1}- Damn, I married a cheater. Damn. 927 00:32:57,559 --> 00:33:00,479 {\an1}- There were jokes that was made 928 00:33:00,645 --> 00:33:02,063 {\an1}in front of the whole group 929 00:33:02,189 --> 00:33:05,150 {\an1}that was inappropriate from your wife. 930 00:33:05,275 --> 00:33:06,151 {\an1}- You are out of line, dude. - Let me finish. 931 00:33:06,276 --> 00:33:07,611 {\an1}Let me finish. Let me finish. - No. 932 00:33:07,694 --> 00:33:08,987 {\an1}You know what? - Please. 933 00:33:09,112 --> 00:33:10,322 {\an1}Please. Please. - We're gonna go. 934 00:33:10,447 --> 00:33:13,825 {\an1}- Whatever you want to do, bro. Whatever you want to do. 935 00:33:13,950 --> 00:33:16,119 {\an1}Whatever you want to do, bro. I swear. 936 00:33:16,244 --> 00:33:18,121 {\an1}- Dude, what are you doing? - I'm just saying. 937 00:33:18,246 --> 00:33:20,624 {\an1}- What are you doing right now? - We're leaving. 938 00:33:20,707 --> 00:33:23,376 {\an1}♪ ♪ 939 00:33:23,502 --> 00:33:25,003 {\an1}- Number two. 940 00:33:25,170 --> 00:33:27,255 {\an1}Don't drop a huge bomb on your new spouse. 941 00:33:27,339 --> 00:33:29,424 {\an1}Save that for later. 942 00:33:29,508 --> 00:33:32,969 {\an1}- So, you know how we were talking the other day? 943 00:33:33,094 --> 00:33:35,805 {\an1}About a common friend we have? 944 00:33:35,931 --> 00:33:40,268 {\an1}It did come up that one of his friends, I had dated. 945 00:33:40,393 --> 00:33:41,311 {\an1}When we get back, 946 00:33:41,436 --> 00:33:45,148 {\an1}I just don't want you to think about it more. 947 00:33:45,315 --> 00:33:47,484 {\an1}- The whole thing is pretty [bleep]. 948 00:33:47,651 --> 00:33:51,321 {\an1}If I had known this going in, I would have dropped out. 949 00:33:51,446 --> 00:33:54,241 {\an1}- Has anybody--has ever messed with a woman or a man 950 00:33:54,366 --> 00:33:55,867 {\an1}and then messed with, like, their family after that? 951 00:33:56,034 --> 00:33:56,993 {\an1}Like, their cousin? - Never. 952 00:33:57,160 --> 00:33:58,328 {\an1}- No. - Okay. 953 00:33:58,495 --> 00:33:59,663 {\an1}- Who'd you mess with? 954 00:33:59,829 --> 00:34:01,665 {\an1}What did you do? - With who? 955 00:34:01,831 --> 00:34:03,124 {\an1}- I messed with a mom and her daughter. 956 00:34:03,208 --> 00:34:03,959 {\an1}- Oh. 957 00:34:04,000 --> 00:34:07,796 {\an1}[pensive music] 958 00:34:07,921 --> 00:34:09,130 {\an1}- So, what are you telling everybody 959 00:34:09,214 --> 00:34:11,132 {\an1}that you can't tell me? 960 00:34:11,299 --> 00:34:13,009 {\an1}♪ ♪ 961 00:34:14,511 --> 00:34:19,808 {\an1}♪ ♪ 962 00:34:19,933 --> 00:34:23,395 {\an1}- I'm really numb right now. 963 00:34:23,520 --> 00:34:25,772 {\an1}So I told you he was engaged and all that stuff. 964 00:34:25,855 --> 00:34:26,982 {\an1}Right? - Yeah. 965 00:34:27,107 --> 00:34:28,900 {\an1}- I just found out she's pregnant. 966 00:34:29,025 --> 00:34:29,985 {\an1}- What the [bleep]? 967 00:34:30,068 --> 00:34:31,360 {\an1}- Number one. 968 00:34:31,485 --> 00:34:35,156 {\an1}Most importantly, enjoy your time in paradise 969 00:34:35,322 --> 00:34:38,368 {\an1}before you have to go back to the real world. 970 00:34:40,411 --> 00:34:41,830 {\an1}[tender music] 971 00:34:41,996 --> 00:34:43,665 {\an1}- This is beautiful. 972 00:34:43,748 --> 00:34:46,626 {\an1}No one has ever done anything like this for me before. 973 00:34:46,751 --> 00:34:47,960 {\an1}- No? - No. 974 00:34:48,128 --> 00:34:49,462 {\an1}- I really like you. 975 00:34:49,545 --> 00:34:51,630 {\an1}- The feelings are mutual. 976 00:34:51,797 --> 00:34:53,466 {\an1}- Yeah? - Yes. 977 00:34:53,550 --> 00:34:57,220 {\an1}♪ ♪ 978 00:34:57,345 --> 00:34:58,972 {\an1}- Come here. 979 00:34:59,097 --> 00:35:01,057 {\an1}- My head is all over the place, 980 00:35:01,182 --> 00:35:02,183 {\an1}but at the same time, 981 00:35:02,350 --> 00:35:06,396 {\an1}he makes me feel safe and secure with him. 982 00:35:06,521 --> 00:35:08,982 {\an1}- Okay. - Aww. 983 00:35:09,065 --> 00:35:12,152 {\an1}This is so cute. 984 00:35:12,277 --> 00:35:14,988 {\an1}- I want to be a romantic husband for my wife. 985 00:35:15,113 --> 00:35:16,573 {\an1}She should always feel special. 986 00:35:16,698 --> 00:35:18,658 {\an1}Sometimes you just gotta show your love. 987 00:35:18,783 --> 00:35:20,994 {\an1}♪ ♪ 988 00:35:21,077 --> 00:35:23,163 {\an1}- You know what, I'm not gonna lie, 989 00:35:23,330 --> 00:35:25,582 {\an1}Jamie and I definitely broke one of those rules 990 00:35:25,707 --> 00:35:28,209 {\an1}on the honeymoon, and we definitely fought. 991 00:35:28,335 --> 00:35:30,962 {\an1}And that would be my biggest advice 992 00:35:31,087 --> 00:35:32,255 {\an1}to anybody going on these honeymoons: 993 00:35:32,380 --> 00:35:34,132 {\an1}just don't fight. Let it go. 994 00:35:34,299 --> 00:35:36,468 {\an1}Go stare at the ocean. Go do whatever. 995 00:35:36,551 --> 00:35:38,887 {\an1}Just don't fight. It's not worth it. 996 00:35:39,012 --> 00:35:41,139 {\an1}- Besides that one fight you guys got in, 997 00:35:41,306 --> 00:35:42,807 {\an1}how was your honeymoon experience? 998 00:35:42,932 --> 00:35:44,476 {\an1}- Oh, my gosh, it was really fun. 999 00:35:44,643 --> 00:35:46,978 {\an1}Besides that little hiccup, we were in paradise. 1000 00:35:47,103 --> 00:35:48,938 {\an1}Jamie and I were getting up every morning, 1001 00:35:49,022 --> 00:35:50,774 {\an1}taking beautiful walks. 1002 00:35:50,857 --> 00:35:51,691 {\an1}I mean, I think at one point, 1003 00:35:51,816 --> 00:35:53,985 {\an1}we even went out, looked up at the stars, 1004 00:35:54,069 --> 00:35:56,029 {\an1}and talked about if aliens were real or not. 1005 00:35:56,154 --> 00:35:56,946 {\an1}So, we had a lot of fun 1006 00:35:57,030 --> 00:35:58,365 {\an1}and a lot of good conversations. 1007 00:35:58,490 --> 00:36:01,493 {\an1}And I would say I got to know Jamie really well. 1008 00:36:01,660 --> 00:36:03,578 {\an1}- That's great. - What about you and Vincent? 1009 00:36:03,703 --> 00:36:05,997 {\an1}Did you guys have any kind of drama on the honeymoon? 1010 00:36:06,122 --> 00:36:07,582 {\an1}- Oh, we had all the drama on the honeymoon. 1011 00:36:07,707 --> 00:36:09,834 {\an1}- Whoa. Whoa. Sorry, I almost forgot. 1012 00:36:09,959 --> 00:36:13,421 {\an1}- Yeah, I will honestly say the other couples' drama 1013 00:36:13,505 --> 00:36:16,716 {\an1}definitely put a damper on our honeymoon experience, 1014 00:36:16,841 --> 00:36:18,301 {\an1}so we got to do a redo. 1015 00:36:18,426 --> 00:36:20,762 {\an1}- Clearly someone's never had a table flipped on him, 1016 00:36:20,887 --> 00:36:21,638 {\an1}and they maybe should have. 1017 00:36:25,475 --> 00:36:27,811 {\an1}Beth and I found our happily ever after 1018 00:36:27,936 --> 00:36:30,605 {\an1}when we met our husbands and got married at first sight. 1019 00:36:30,689 --> 00:36:32,524 {\an1}We went through some major ups and downs in our relationships, 1020 00:36:32,649 --> 00:36:36,152 {\an1}and I think we can both agree that marriage isn't easy. 1021 00:36:36,236 --> 00:36:37,570 {\an1}- I think so. - All right. 1022 00:36:37,696 --> 00:36:40,156 {\an1}Let's move on to our next set of rules. 1023 00:36:40,281 --> 00:36:43,535 {\an1}[upbeat music] 1024 00:36:43,660 --> 00:36:47,205 {\an1}There's a reason for that old saying "the honeymoon's over." 1025 00:36:47,330 --> 00:36:48,540 {\an1}Adjusting to the real world 1026 00:36:48,707 --> 00:36:51,501 {\an1}after a romantic, tropical getaway can be a harsh reality. 1027 00:36:51,668 --> 00:36:53,878 {\an1}It's hard for newlyweds that are living together 1028 00:36:54,003 --> 00:36:55,130 {\an1}for the first time to get used 1029 00:36:55,213 --> 00:36:57,716 {\an1}to each other's habits and quirks. 1030 00:36:57,841 --> 00:36:58,925 {\an1}But it can be done. 1031 00:36:59,008 --> 00:37:02,053 {\an1}- The good news is, we've come up with five rules 1032 00:37:02,178 --> 00:37:03,972 {\an1}that we're gonna share with you tonight 1033 00:37:04,055 --> 00:37:05,807 {\an1}that just might make living together 1034 00:37:05,932 --> 00:37:07,600 {\an1}go a little more smoothly. 1035 00:37:07,684 --> 00:37:08,977 {\an1}Let's take a look. 1036 00:37:09,060 --> 00:37:10,979 {\an1}- Number five. 1037 00:37:11,062 --> 00:37:12,564 {\an1}When you first move in together, 1038 00:37:12,689 --> 00:37:15,275 {\an1}make sure to surround yourself with good energy. 1039 00:37:15,358 --> 00:37:16,568 {\an1}- So, I got some sage, 1040 00:37:16,693 --> 00:37:20,363 {\an1}and basically what it does is just, like, detoxes the air 1041 00:37:20,488 --> 00:37:24,701 {\an1}of, like, any negativity or any kind of energy 1042 00:37:24,868 --> 00:37:27,370 {\an1}that's been left behind by someone else. 1043 00:37:27,537 --> 00:37:28,329 {\an1}- It already feels better in here. 1044 00:37:28,496 --> 00:37:29,664 {\an1}- Does it? - Uh-huh. 1045 00:37:29,789 --> 00:37:30,707 {\an1}- Number four. 1046 00:37:30,832 --> 00:37:34,252 {\an1}Guys, here's the deal: women love shoes. 1047 00:37:34,335 --> 00:37:36,129 {\an1}So make room in your closet for her. 1048 00:37:36,212 --> 00:37:37,964 {\an1}- You got a boatload of clothes. 1049 00:37:38,089 --> 00:37:39,841 {\an1}Golly! 1050 00:37:39,966 --> 00:37:42,635 {\an1}Louis Vuitton. Marciano. 1051 00:37:42,761 --> 00:37:45,221 {\an1}What these run you? 'Cause I know Louis' expensive. 1052 00:37:45,346 --> 00:37:47,307 {\an1}- I think they were, like, 800 or 900. 1053 00:37:47,390 --> 00:37:49,100 {\an1}- [blows raspberry] 1054 00:37:49,184 --> 00:37:50,518 {\an1}- ♪ And vogue ♪ 1055 00:37:50,685 --> 00:37:52,270 {\an1}- I can't reach the shoes. 1056 00:37:52,353 --> 00:37:54,189 {\an1}Can I pass them down to you? 1057 00:37:54,314 --> 00:37:57,317 {\an1}- Which ones out of the 100 or so shoes? 1058 00:37:57,442 --> 00:37:58,359 {\an1}- It's not hundreds. 1059 00:37:58,485 --> 00:38:01,070 {\an1}It's, like-- maybe, like, 70 or 80. 1060 00:38:01,196 --> 00:38:03,490 {\an1}[both laugh] 1061 00:38:03,573 --> 00:38:05,825 {\an1}- I keep my shoes in my cabinets. 1062 00:38:05,950 --> 00:38:07,076 {\an1}- You what now? 1063 00:38:07,202 --> 00:38:10,121 {\an1}- I keep my shoes in my cabinets. 1064 00:38:10,205 --> 00:38:11,164 {\an1}- You're [bleep] with me. 1065 00:38:11,289 --> 00:38:13,124 {\an1}[quirky music] 1066 00:38:13,249 --> 00:38:14,834 {\an1}- Number three. 1067 00:38:14,959 --> 00:38:17,712 {\an1}If your husband has questionable decorating style, 1068 00:38:17,837 --> 00:38:19,172 {\an1}and he probably will, 1069 00:38:19,339 --> 00:38:21,174 {\an1}be prepared to bring a woman's touch. 1070 00:38:21,341 --> 00:38:23,593 {\an1}- I see you like hats. - A little bit. 1071 00:38:23,676 --> 00:38:26,888 {\an1}- I'm definitely not interested in having a hat wall. 1072 00:38:27,013 --> 00:38:30,517 {\an1}Are you trying to have, like, a hat wall in our house? 1073 00:38:30,642 --> 00:38:33,436 {\an1}- If-if--no, not in the room. - Okay. 1074 00:38:33,520 --> 00:38:35,146 {\an1}- Probably in my closet or something, you know? 1075 00:38:35,271 --> 00:38:37,148 {\an1}- It doesn't really go with my aesthetic, so... 1076 00:38:37,232 --> 00:38:38,399 {\an1}- Yeah. 1077 00:38:38,525 --> 00:38:39,651 {\an1}[tense music] 1078 00:38:39,734 --> 00:38:40,485 {\an1}[lively music] 1079 00:38:40,568 --> 00:38:41,861 {\an1}- ♪ Hey, hey, hey, hey ♪ 1080 00:38:42,028 --> 00:38:45,031 {\an1}♪ Oh, oh, oh, oh ♪ 1081 00:38:45,198 --> 00:38:46,115 {\an1}- Who is that? - Oh. 1082 00:38:46,241 --> 00:38:47,325 {\an1}[laughs] 1083 00:38:47,450 --> 00:38:51,079 {\an1}This was a painting that a friend drew for me. 1084 00:38:51,204 --> 00:38:52,622 {\an1}This isn't anybody in particular. 1085 00:38:52,747 --> 00:38:54,833 {\an1}- Oh. - It was a birthday gift. 1086 00:38:54,958 --> 00:38:57,126 {\an1}- If you say so. - Yeah. 1087 00:38:57,210 --> 00:38:58,962 {\an1}♪ ♪ 1088 00:38:59,087 --> 00:39:00,296 {\an1}- This is-- 1089 00:39:00,421 --> 00:39:02,966 {\an1}- The '80s bro room? 1090 00:39:03,049 --> 00:39:04,259 {\an1}- That's a better name, yes. 1091 00:39:04,342 --> 00:39:06,928 {\an1}- He was not joking about loving the '80s. 1092 00:39:07,011 --> 00:39:09,931 {\an1}- You don't like neon? - I don't like neon. 1093 00:39:10,056 --> 00:39:11,891 {\an1}- It's necessary neon. - Mm-hmm. 1094 00:39:12,016 --> 00:39:13,518 {\an1}- I love it. Well... 1095 00:39:13,643 --> 00:39:15,144 {\an1}- The deer. That's probably not your style. 1096 00:39:15,228 --> 00:39:16,563 {\an1}- Ooh! Scared me. 1097 00:39:16,688 --> 00:39:18,439 {\an1}- But I-I usually dress him up. 1098 00:39:18,565 --> 00:39:20,400 {\an1}- Oh, my God. I can't. 1099 00:39:20,525 --> 00:39:24,404 {\an1}Um, surprise deer head in the bedroom. 1100 00:39:24,529 --> 00:39:26,906 {\an1}Not shocked, but not a fan. 1101 00:39:27,031 --> 00:39:28,658 {\an1}- Number two. 1102 00:39:28,783 --> 00:39:29,826 {\an1}Living with your new spouse 1103 00:39:29,951 --> 00:39:32,495 {\an1}might also mean sharing space with their pet, 1104 00:39:32,662 --> 00:39:35,248 {\an1}so try to accept them as your own. 1105 00:39:35,373 --> 00:39:37,333 {\an1}- Hi, Cookie. - Just give her a hug. 1106 00:39:37,458 --> 00:39:39,419 {\an1}And love on her and all that. 1107 00:39:39,544 --> 00:39:41,296 {\an1}[quirky music] 1108 00:39:41,462 --> 00:39:43,590 {\an1}- Boys, come on. 1109 00:39:43,673 --> 00:39:45,633 {\an1}- We got five cats now between us, 1110 00:39:45,758 --> 00:39:49,804 {\an1}and I've never put my animals in a room with other animals. 1111 00:39:49,888 --> 00:39:51,431 {\an1}- You like to keep your distance. 1112 00:39:51,556 --> 00:39:53,016 {\an1}- Oh, well, they're coming to meet you. 1113 00:39:53,141 --> 00:39:55,476 {\an1}[laughs] [dogs bark] 1114 00:39:55,602 --> 00:39:59,314 {\an1}These are my monsters. They're being good right now. 1115 00:39:59,397 --> 00:40:00,481 {\an1}This is the quietest they've been. 1116 00:40:00,607 --> 00:40:01,649 {\an1}- I'm a dog whisperer. 1117 00:40:01,774 --> 00:40:04,611 {\an1}- Sushi has, like, two, three beds in here. 1118 00:40:04,736 --> 00:40:06,988 {\an1}So, this is his bed. That's his bed. 1119 00:40:07,155 --> 00:40:07,906 {\an1}This is also his bed. 1120 00:40:08,031 --> 00:40:09,616 {\an1}- And then the main bed too? - Yeah. 1121 00:40:09,741 --> 00:40:10,825 {\an1}- Yeah, it's pretty much his house. 1122 00:40:10,909 --> 00:40:12,660 {\an1}- It's Sushi's house. - It's Sushi's house. 1123 00:40:12,785 --> 00:40:14,954 {\an1}♪ ♪ 1124 00:40:15,038 --> 00:40:16,414 {\an1}- Number one. 1125 00:40:16,539 --> 00:40:18,541 {\an1}Living together will bring out the best 1126 00:40:18,708 --> 00:40:20,960 {\an1}and worst of each other, so give it some time 1127 00:40:21,044 --> 00:40:22,962 {\an1}to get used to each other's way of life. 1128 00:40:23,087 --> 00:40:24,339 {\an1}- It's pretty intense. 1129 00:40:24,505 --> 00:40:26,549 {\an1}The "must shower before bed thing." 1130 00:40:26,674 --> 00:40:27,800 {\an1}I-- - I prefer. 1131 00:40:27,884 --> 00:40:28,968 {\an1}I prefer the shower before bed. - Okay. Okay. 1132 00:40:29,052 --> 00:40:32,597 {\an1}Because I'm gonna say, I'm not gonna do that. 1133 00:40:32,680 --> 00:40:35,266 {\an1}I know it's your preference. That is not my preference. 1134 00:40:35,350 --> 00:40:37,101 {\an1}- Okay. 1135 00:40:37,226 --> 00:40:41,189 {\an1}- Her toothpaste. My toothpaste. 1136 00:40:41,314 --> 00:40:43,316 {\an1}I don't know. Differences. 1137 00:40:43,441 --> 00:40:44,817 {\an1}- Do you want me to wash your clothes? 1138 00:40:44,943 --> 00:40:47,070 {\an1}- Please. - I'm gonna wash my clothes. 1139 00:40:47,195 --> 00:40:48,821 {\an1}Is your stuff separated? 1140 00:40:48,905 --> 00:40:51,950 {\an1}- Nope. - Of course. 1141 00:40:52,075 --> 00:40:53,576 {\an1}- My [bleep] right on the floor. 1142 00:40:53,701 --> 00:40:55,078 {\an1}- If you want me to wash your clothes, 1143 00:40:55,203 --> 00:40:56,871 {\an1}you need to be separating that [bleep]. 1144 00:40:56,996 --> 00:40:57,830 {\an1}- All right. 1145 00:40:57,956 --> 00:41:00,500 {\an1}- Clothes on a pile on the floor. 1146 00:41:00,667 --> 00:41:02,919 {\an1}Something is wrong with him. 1147 00:41:03,002 --> 00:41:04,504 {\an1}♪ ♪ 1148 00:41:04,629 --> 00:41:06,798 {\an1}- You know, Briana, I'll say this: 1149 00:41:06,965 --> 00:41:08,800 {\an1}living together, that was probably 1150 00:41:08,925 --> 00:41:11,552 {\an1}one of my favorite moments of the whole process. 1151 00:41:11,678 --> 00:41:14,222 {\an1}I really got to show Jamie a piece of me. 1152 00:41:14,347 --> 00:41:15,473 {\an1}I just started right off. 1153 00:41:15,598 --> 00:41:17,475 {\an1}I just threw him right into my saging ceremonies. 1154 00:41:17,600 --> 00:41:19,435 {\an1}- You know, I think you have to cleanse the air. 1155 00:41:19,560 --> 00:41:22,438 {\an1}- You do. And now, actually, he sages too. 1156 00:41:22,522 --> 00:41:23,564 {\an1}- Oh, yeah? - Oh, yeah. 1157 00:41:23,690 --> 00:41:26,651 {\an1}We have our own saging ceremonies and everything. 1158 00:41:26,776 --> 00:41:28,403 {\an1}- I love that, actually. 1159 00:41:28,528 --> 00:41:29,988 {\an1}All right. What's next? 1160 00:41:30,113 --> 00:41:32,573 {\an1}- Well, Briana, I'll give you a hint. 1161 00:41:32,699 --> 00:41:35,994 {\an1}I like it basic Caucasian style. 1162 00:41:36,119 --> 00:41:39,163 {\an1}[upbeat music] 1163 00:41:39,247 --> 00:41:41,958 {\an1}- We have put together five fun and frisky rules 1164 00:41:42,041 --> 00:41:44,627 {\an1}for keeping your marriage hot and heavy in the bedroom. 1165 00:41:44,752 --> 00:41:46,921 {\an1}- Number five. 1166 00:41:47,005 --> 00:41:49,298 {\an1}If you want to get the passion flowing, 1167 00:41:49,382 --> 00:41:51,759 {\an1}try getting wet and wild. 1168 00:41:51,884 --> 00:41:54,762 {\an1}- I feel like Matt and my intimacy is growing. 1169 00:41:54,846 --> 00:41:56,597 {\an1}The chemistry is there, obviously. 1170 00:41:56,681 --> 00:42:00,768 {\an1}And I am ready to take this to the next level. 1171 00:42:00,893 --> 00:42:03,563 {\an1}And who knows what will happen? 1172 00:42:03,688 --> 00:42:04,564 {\an1}- He's very kissable. 1173 00:42:04,689 --> 00:42:07,483 {\an1}Like, we just have a lot of chemistry. 1174 00:42:07,567 --> 00:42:09,527 {\an1}- We've got a lot of chemistry going on, 1175 00:42:09,652 --> 00:42:11,362 {\an1}and it just feels natural. 1176 00:42:11,529 --> 00:42:14,323 {\an1}- We are still, like, feeling each other out, I guess, 1177 00:42:14,449 --> 00:42:16,200 {\an1}but I don't know, With those lips, 1178 00:42:16,367 --> 00:42:18,327 {\an1}I don't know how long I'll be able to hold off. 1179 00:42:18,411 --> 00:42:21,122 {\an1}[sensual music] 1180 00:42:21,205 --> 00:42:22,665 {\an1}- Number four. 1181 00:42:22,749 --> 00:42:24,208 {\an1}- Please give me lap dance. 1182 00:42:24,333 --> 00:42:25,418 {\an1}- Sex should also be fun. 1183 00:42:25,501 --> 00:42:28,421 {\an1}Incorporate some games to help you get things started. 1184 00:42:28,546 --> 00:42:30,548 {\an1}- All right, lap dance time. 30 seconds. 1185 00:42:30,673 --> 00:42:32,300 {\an1}[bouncy music] 1186 00:42:32,467 --> 00:42:33,718 {\an1}All right. 1187 00:42:33,843 --> 00:42:35,928 {\an1}Body shot. My--oh, it's cold. 1188 00:42:36,012 --> 00:42:37,847 {\an1}[both laugh] 1189 00:42:37,972 --> 00:42:39,432 {\an1}♪ ♪ 1190 00:42:39,515 --> 00:42:41,476 {\an1}[sensual music] 1191 00:42:41,601 --> 00:42:43,227 {\an1}- [laughs] - Don't tell me. 1192 00:42:43,352 --> 00:42:45,354 {\an1}Just do it. - Oh, my God. 1193 00:42:45,480 --> 00:42:47,315 {\an1}Oh, no. 1194 00:42:47,440 --> 00:42:50,818 {\an1}- Whoa! Where is this going? 1195 00:42:50,943 --> 00:42:53,905 {\an1}Oh, my God! - [laughs] 1196 00:42:54,030 --> 00:42:56,741 {\an1}That was it. - Oh, that's it? 1197 00:42:56,866 --> 00:42:58,993 {\an1}- We're having fun. - We are having fun. 1198 00:42:59,077 --> 00:43:05,666 {\an1}"How should I communicate that I'm in the mood for sex?" 1199 00:43:05,750 --> 00:43:07,460 {\an1}- Just grab me. [blocks tumble] 1200 00:43:07,585 --> 00:43:11,631 {\an1}[laughs] Okay. Okay. 1201 00:43:11,756 --> 00:43:15,134 {\an1}[both laugh] 1202 00:43:15,259 --> 00:43:16,969 {\an1}- Number three. 1203 00:43:17,095 --> 00:43:18,721 {\an1}Building a solid marriage 1204 00:43:18,846 --> 00:43:20,640 {\an1}always requires the right tools. 1205 00:43:20,765 --> 00:43:22,642 {\an1}Dress the part that gets her going. 1206 00:43:22,767 --> 00:43:25,311 {\an1}- Hey, so... - Oh, my God. 1207 00:43:25,394 --> 00:43:27,730 {\an1}- I told you at the bar I needed to come over 1208 00:43:27,855 --> 00:43:30,650 {\an1}and show you how good of a carpenter I am, so... 1209 00:43:30,775 --> 00:43:32,026 {\an1}Jackie told me that she's more attracted 1210 00:43:32,193 --> 00:43:33,861 {\an1}to carpenters than firefighters, 1211 00:43:33,986 --> 00:43:36,656 {\an1}and I was like, well, lucky for you, I'm both. 1212 00:43:36,739 --> 00:43:38,658 {\an1}What's better than this right here? 1213 00:43:38,783 --> 00:43:41,452 {\an1}- Ryan looks-- he just looks hot. 1214 00:43:41,536 --> 00:43:45,331 {\an1}- What do you think is the best tool in my tool belt? 1215 00:43:45,456 --> 00:43:46,707 {\an1}[jack hammer whirs] 1216 00:43:46,874 --> 00:43:48,584 {\an1}- Oh, my God. 1217 00:43:48,709 --> 00:43:50,128 {\an1}[grunts] - [laughs] 1218 00:43:50,253 --> 00:43:52,588 {\an1}- I can't breathe with this thing on. 1219 00:43:52,672 --> 00:43:54,549 {\an1}[muffled] You need to--hold up. 1220 00:43:54,674 --> 00:43:58,970 {\an1}- [laughs] - There you go. Yeah. 1221 00:43:59,095 --> 00:44:02,557 {\an1}- [muffled laughter] - You sound like a dolphin. 1222 00:44:02,682 --> 00:44:04,100 {\an1}- Oh, you 'posed to-- hell no, 1223 00:44:04,183 --> 00:44:05,768 {\an1}you ain't putting it on my neck as I'm your dog. 1224 00:44:05,852 --> 00:44:07,186 {\an1}- Yeah, I put it-- - Hell no. 1225 00:44:07,311 --> 00:44:09,230 {\an1}- I put it right here. 1226 00:44:09,355 --> 00:44:11,524 {\an1}And then I be like, "Come on, Olajuwon." 1227 00:44:11,649 --> 00:44:13,401 {\an1}- [laughs] 1228 00:44:13,526 --> 00:44:15,444 {\an1}What? - Don't. 1229 00:44:15,528 --> 00:44:19,323 {\an1}[both laugh] 1230 00:44:19,448 --> 00:44:20,825 {\an1}- Number two. 1231 00:44:20,992 --> 00:44:23,161 {\an1}You'll always remember your first time. 1232 00:44:23,244 --> 00:44:25,580 {\an1}Consummating your marriage is a big deal. 1233 00:44:25,705 --> 00:44:27,123 {\an1}Embrace the moment. 1234 00:44:27,206 --> 00:44:29,125 {\an1}- Have you consummated the marriage yet? 1235 00:44:29,208 --> 00:44:30,960 {\an1}[music fades] - Uh... 1236 00:44:31,043 --> 00:44:33,588 {\an1}[laughs] 1237 00:44:33,671 --> 00:44:36,465 {\an1}You're gonna make me answer that? 1238 00:44:36,591 --> 00:44:37,758 {\an1}- Wow. 1239 00:44:37,842 --> 00:44:38,885 {\an1}- I know. - [laughs] 1240 00:44:39,010 --> 00:44:41,679 {\an1}- Um, well, we had a pretty great night. 1241 00:44:41,804 --> 00:44:42,680 {\an1}- Oh, yeah. 1242 00:44:42,847 --> 00:44:45,099 {\an1}It finally happened. We had sex. 1243 00:44:45,224 --> 00:44:46,976 {\an1}The first time was amazing. 1244 00:44:47,101 --> 00:44:49,312 {\an1}It was very quick, but it was amazing. 1245 00:44:51,397 --> 00:44:54,108 {\an1}- Last night, Anthony and I had sex. 1246 00:44:54,192 --> 00:44:56,277 {\an1}[laughs] 1247 00:44:56,402 --> 00:44:58,362 {\an1}- Turned my neck a few times too many. 1248 00:44:58,529 --> 00:44:59,697 {\an1}- I wonder why. 1249 00:44:59,864 --> 00:45:02,283 {\an1}It was good. It was--it was good. 1250 00:45:02,366 --> 00:45:05,661 {\an1}- Pretty awesome, so let's just say it didn't happen just once. 1251 00:45:05,786 --> 00:45:06,913 {\an1}[chuckles] 1252 00:45:07,038 --> 00:45:08,664 {\an1}- Number one. 1253 00:45:08,748 --> 00:45:10,541 {\an1}Don't forget to bring the heat. 1254 00:45:10,708 --> 00:45:13,461 {\an1}[door creaks] 1255 00:45:13,586 --> 00:45:14,754 {\an1}- [laughs] 1256 00:45:14,879 --> 00:45:17,048 {\an1}Welcome, honey. 1257 00:45:17,173 --> 00:45:18,966 {\an1}- Have to roll up my sleeves for this. 1258 00:45:19,091 --> 00:45:21,802 {\an1}- You want to see my tricks? - Yeah. 1259 00:45:21,886 --> 00:45:23,804 {\an1}Let's go! Let's go! 1260 00:45:23,930 --> 00:45:25,264 {\an1}- ♪ There's fire ♪ 1261 00:45:25,348 --> 00:45:29,810 {\an1}♪ ♪ 1262 00:45:29,936 --> 00:45:32,188 {\an1}- Oh! [both laugh] 1263 00:45:32,313 --> 00:45:34,482 {\an1}- "Take a body shot." - Mm. 1264 00:45:34,565 --> 00:45:35,524 {\an1}[lively music] 1265 00:45:35,650 --> 00:45:38,945 {\an1}- This is not ideal. 1266 00:45:39,028 --> 00:45:40,863 {\an1}I don't know how to do this. 1267 00:45:40,988 --> 00:45:43,491 {\an1}- Just open wide. [both laugh] 1268 00:45:43,616 --> 00:45:48,162 {\an1}- [chuckles] I've never taken a body shot before. Ever. 1269 00:45:48,246 --> 00:45:49,664 {\an1}♪ ♪ 1270 00:45:49,747 --> 00:45:51,499 {\an1}- [chuckles] You got it. 1271 00:45:51,582 --> 00:45:53,042 {\an1}[sensual music] 1272 00:45:53,167 --> 00:45:55,670 {\an1}- ♪ I keep thinking ♪ 1273 00:45:55,836 --> 00:45:57,088 {\an1}- Damn, babe. 1274 00:45:57,213 --> 00:45:59,924 {\an1}I find my wife crazy sexy. 1275 00:46:00,007 --> 00:46:00,883 {\an1}- Look in my eyes, though. 1276 00:46:01,008 --> 00:46:02,468 {\an1}Don't look down here. - [laughs] 1277 00:46:02,593 --> 00:46:03,302 {\an1}My eyes are up here. 1278 00:46:03,386 --> 00:46:05,221 {\an1}- This is where my real heart is. 1279 00:46:05,346 --> 00:46:08,724 {\an1}We just cannot keep our hands off each other. 1280 00:46:08,849 --> 00:46:11,060 {\an1}- ♪ Touch me here, touch me there ♪ 1281 00:46:11,185 --> 00:46:13,271 {\an1}♪ Touch me everywhere, I don't care ♪ 1282 00:46:13,354 --> 00:46:15,898 {\an1}- So, is Jamie super into lingerie? 1283 00:46:16,023 --> 00:46:17,525 {\an1}Do you put that on a lot? - Oh, my gosh. Oh, yes. 1284 00:46:17,650 --> 00:46:19,819 {\an1}Jamie, like, even goes out and buys me lingerie. 1285 00:46:19,986 --> 00:46:20,695 {\an1}- Oh, really? - Like, yeah. 1286 00:46:20,861 --> 00:46:22,280 {\an1}And I love that he does that, 1287 00:46:22,363 --> 00:46:24,073 {\an1}because it kind of gives me an idea 1288 00:46:24,198 --> 00:46:26,117 {\an1}of, like, what he really thinks is sexy 1289 00:46:26,242 --> 00:46:27,159 {\an1}and, like, what he wants to see. 1290 00:46:27,326 --> 00:46:29,328 {\an1}And I think that's important. - I love that. 1291 00:46:29,412 --> 00:46:32,456 {\an1}Vincent, you hear that? Buying lingerie, boo. 1292 00:46:32,581 --> 00:46:34,000 {\an1}- It's on you, Vincent. 1293 00:46:34,166 --> 00:46:35,710 {\an1}- We have so much more ground 1294 00:46:35,835 --> 00:46:37,461 {\an1}and so many more rules to cover. 1295 00:46:41,382 --> 00:46:43,884 {\an1}After digging through the "Married at First Sight" vault, 1296 00:46:44,010 --> 00:46:45,594 {\an1}we've come up with a few pointers 1297 00:46:45,720 --> 00:46:47,096 {\an1}that we think will keep your marriage going strong. 1298 00:46:47,179 --> 00:46:49,056 {\an1}And we're here to share them with you. 1299 00:46:49,181 --> 00:46:52,393 {\an1}- All right, let's move on to our next set of rules. 1300 00:46:52,518 --> 00:46:55,396 {\an1}[upbeat music] 1301 00:46:55,521 --> 00:46:58,399 {\an1}- This is a big one, especially for me and Jamie. 1302 00:46:58,524 --> 00:47:01,319 {\an1}Every marriage is gonna have their fair share of arguments. 1303 00:47:01,444 --> 00:47:02,486 {\an1}There's no getting around it. 1304 00:47:02,611 --> 00:47:06,324 {\an1}But there are some things you should never do 1305 00:47:06,449 --> 00:47:08,200 {\an1}when you go head-to-head with your spouse. 1306 00:47:08,326 --> 00:47:10,953 {\an1}- We've come up with five rules to keep your fights fair 1307 00:47:11,037 --> 00:47:12,663 {\an1}so you don't sink your relationship. 1308 00:47:12,788 --> 00:47:13,998 {\an1}Let's watch. 1309 00:47:14,165 --> 00:47:15,499 {\an1}Number five. 1310 00:47:15,583 --> 00:47:17,209 {\an1}When you're having an argument, 1311 00:47:17,335 --> 00:47:19,754 {\an1}it's important to be direct with your partner. 1312 00:47:19,837 --> 00:47:21,255 {\an1}- I just thought, you know, 1313 00:47:21,339 --> 00:47:24,258 {\an1}like, you were, like, really smart with me. 1314 00:47:24,342 --> 00:47:27,678 {\an1}A lot of, like, smart comments that I don't appreciate. 1315 00:47:27,803 --> 00:47:29,764 {\an1}- Can you give me an example? 1316 00:47:29,889 --> 00:47:31,307 {\an1}- "Is Vinnie an idiot?" - No. 1317 00:47:31,474 --> 00:47:33,017 {\an1}I would never call you an idiot. 1318 00:47:33,142 --> 00:47:35,478 {\an1}- I'm just saying I didn't like that, 1319 00:47:35,644 --> 00:47:36,729 {\an1}whatever you meant. 1320 00:47:36,854 --> 00:47:38,647 {\an1}[tense music] 1321 00:47:38,731 --> 00:47:41,400 {\an1}- You said if I don't have sex with you by the honeymoon, 1322 00:47:41,525 --> 00:47:43,152 {\an1}you don't know if you want to be in this marriage. 1323 00:47:43,277 --> 00:47:45,363 {\an1}- What I said is this-- - Yes or no? 1324 00:47:45,529 --> 00:47:48,824 {\an1}Did you say that on the plane? - Yes and no, so-- 1325 00:47:48,991 --> 00:47:51,452 {\an1}- Okay, this not gonna work if you can't be honest, honestly. 1326 00:47:51,535 --> 00:47:53,329 {\an1}♪ ♪ 1327 00:47:53,412 --> 00:47:55,206 {\an1}- I could never imagine myself 1328 00:47:55,331 --> 00:47:57,666 {\an1}living a life where I gave up on my dreams. 1329 00:47:57,750 --> 00:47:59,335 {\an1}- Mm... 1330 00:47:59,460 --> 00:48:00,961 {\an1}- What's wrong with having dreams? 1331 00:48:01,045 --> 00:48:02,421 {\an1}- You have so many. - What-what-- 1332 00:48:02,505 --> 00:48:05,049 {\an1}- So many that I can't even [bleep] keep track. 1333 00:48:05,174 --> 00:48:06,092 {\an1}I feel like your dreams, to you, 1334 00:48:06,175 --> 00:48:07,760 {\an1}are more than this marriage. 1335 00:48:07,843 --> 00:48:09,762 {\an1}♪ ♪ 1336 00:48:09,887 --> 00:48:11,013 {\an1}- Number four. 1337 00:48:11,138 --> 00:48:14,934 {\an1}Low blows are never the way to go, so keep it classy. 1338 00:48:15,017 --> 00:48:16,227 {\an1}- At some point, when you look at me 1339 00:48:16,352 --> 00:48:17,311 {\an1}and you go, "Yeah, you're attractive, 1340 00:48:17,436 --> 00:48:19,855 {\an1}"but I went and [bleep] this pike with my friend 1341 00:48:19,980 --> 00:48:21,607 {\an1}and I won't touch you when you sleep next to me," 1342 00:48:21,690 --> 00:48:22,441 {\an1}how do you think that makes me feel? 1343 00:48:22,566 --> 00:48:24,443 {\an1}- Okay, you going below the belt 1344 00:48:24,568 --> 00:48:26,195 {\an1}and bringing up college [bleep]? 1345 00:48:26,320 --> 00:48:29,532 {\an1}How [bleep] dare you? [bleep] yourself. 1346 00:48:29,698 --> 00:48:32,034 {\an1}- You shouldn't have said that. Like, it's awkward. 1347 00:48:32,159 --> 00:48:33,160 {\an1}I feel awkward when you do that. 1348 00:48:33,244 --> 00:48:34,286 {\an1}- I don't like to brush things under the rug. 1349 00:48:34,412 --> 00:48:35,579 {\an1}I like direct-- - Okay, well this is a team. 1350 00:48:35,704 --> 00:48:36,997 {\an1}And if you can't get that, this isn't gonna work. 1351 00:48:37,123 --> 00:48:38,499 {\an1}Okay, I'm good. I'm good. - You're asking about a team. 1352 00:48:38,624 --> 00:48:39,708 {\an1}- I'm good. I'm good. - That's what I thought. 1353 00:48:39,834 --> 00:48:41,460 {\an1}Walk away. Call your mom. - Okay. Okay. 1354 00:48:41,585 --> 00:48:42,920 {\an1}- See if she can let you in tonight. 1355 00:48:43,003 --> 00:48:45,631 {\an1}- Have another drink. 1356 00:48:45,798 --> 00:48:48,384 {\an1}- There have been points in this process where I feel like 1357 00:48:48,509 --> 00:48:51,178 {\an1}I wish I had been matched with literally anyone else. 1358 00:48:51,345 --> 00:48:53,931 {\an1}- You've said a lot of mean things. 1359 00:48:54,014 --> 00:48:55,474 {\an1}- Number three. 1360 00:48:55,641 --> 00:48:57,852 {\an1}Know what's important and what isn't. 1361 00:48:57,977 --> 00:48:59,145 {\an1}Don't fight over petty things. 1362 00:48:59,270 --> 00:49:00,187 {\an1}- Dude, you gotta go. 1363 00:49:00,312 --> 00:49:02,481 {\an1}- Hey. - He needs to get out of here. 1364 00:49:02,565 --> 00:49:04,775 {\an1}I know you love him to death, and I do too, 1365 00:49:04,859 --> 00:49:06,152 {\an1}but you do know that he has a couple little things-- 1366 00:49:06,277 --> 00:49:07,403 {\an1}manners things. 1367 00:49:07,528 --> 00:49:08,904 {\an1}That's not what Tex does. 1368 00:49:09,029 --> 00:49:09,989 {\an1}- Like, I've never had a dog. 1369 00:49:10,114 --> 00:49:11,657 {\an1}Like, I need to learn how to train him. 1370 00:49:11,740 --> 00:49:13,367 {\an1}- You know how difficult this is for me right now 1371 00:49:13,534 --> 00:49:14,577 {\an1}to try to, like, talk to you? - Okay. 1372 00:49:14,702 --> 00:49:16,996 {\an1}You know difficult everything is for me right now? 1373 00:49:17,121 --> 00:49:18,998 {\an1}- Okay. 1374 00:49:19,081 --> 00:49:21,250 {\an1}♪ ♪ 1375 00:49:21,375 --> 00:49:25,796 {\an1}- So, tonight, Rachel calls me by another man's name. 1376 00:49:25,921 --> 00:49:27,715 {\an1}♪ ♪ 1377 00:49:40,436 --> 00:49:42,480 {\an1}- Your friend drunk all my lemonade. 1378 00:49:42,563 --> 00:49:44,148 {\an1}- They know if they come over to my apartment, 1379 00:49:44,273 --> 00:49:45,483 {\an1}they can take whatever they want. 1380 00:49:45,566 --> 00:49:48,194 {\an1}- It's just hoping that they would respect our boundaries 1381 00:49:48,360 --> 00:49:49,778 {\an1}as a married couple. 1382 00:49:49,904 --> 00:49:51,947 {\an1}- About juice? 1383 00:49:52,072 --> 00:49:53,741 {\an1}♪ ♪ 1384 00:49:53,866 --> 00:49:55,117 {\an1}- Number two. 1385 00:49:55,242 --> 00:49:56,869 {\an1}Be careful what you say. 1386 00:49:56,994 --> 00:49:59,872 {\an1}If you tell your wife to shut up, tables will turn. 1387 00:49:59,997 --> 00:50:02,041 {\an1}- We are so glad-- - I feel like I'm at home. 1388 00:50:02,208 --> 00:50:03,250 {\an1}I grew up around this. - First thing we're gonna do-- 1389 00:50:03,375 --> 00:50:05,127 {\an1}- Shut up and listen. 1390 00:50:05,294 --> 00:50:06,962 {\an1}- Watch the safety video. Um... 1391 00:50:07,087 --> 00:50:09,465 {\an1}- Shut up for five minutes. 1392 00:50:09,590 --> 00:50:12,259 {\an1}- When you told me to shut up in front of everyone, 1393 00:50:12,343 --> 00:50:13,511 {\an1}I was embarrassed. 1394 00:50:13,677 --> 00:50:14,720 {\an1}I felt stupid. 1395 00:50:14,845 --> 00:50:16,972 {\an1}Why didn't anyone take up for me? 1396 00:50:17,056 --> 00:50:18,098 {\an1}Jamie, God damn it! 1397 00:50:18,182 --> 00:50:21,060 {\an1}Why didn't anybody take up for me then? 1398 00:50:21,185 --> 00:50:23,103 {\an1}I'm so sick of this! 1399 00:50:23,229 --> 00:50:24,563 {\an1}- Number one. 1400 00:50:24,688 --> 00:50:26,565 {\an1}They say "never go to bed angry," 1401 00:50:26,690 --> 00:50:28,901 {\an1}but if leaving is your best option, do it. 1402 00:50:29,026 --> 00:50:30,486 {\an1}- Like, at this point, this conversation is 1403 00:50:30,569 --> 00:50:32,488 {\an1}gonna go nowhere else but south, 1404 00:50:32,613 --> 00:50:34,823 {\an1}so I am going to go to bed. 1405 00:50:34,949 --> 00:50:36,575 {\an1}This conversation is done. - So, you're doing 1406 00:50:36,700 --> 00:50:38,327 {\an1}what you hate about me right now. 1407 00:50:38,452 --> 00:50:39,828 {\an1}- So, now you know how it feels. 1408 00:50:39,954 --> 00:50:41,664 {\an1}♪ ♪ 1409 00:50:41,747 --> 00:50:45,376 {\an1}- I'll look for houses 24 hours a day, for all I care. 1410 00:50:45,501 --> 00:50:47,545 {\an1}- Wow, that was fake. That was fake. 1411 00:50:47,670 --> 00:50:50,005 {\an1}That was bad. - I learn from the best. 1412 00:50:50,172 --> 00:50:51,131 {\an1}- Please? - It was a joke. 1413 00:50:51,215 --> 00:50:52,383 {\an1}- Could you please leave? - I was just jabbing... 1414 00:50:52,508 --> 00:50:53,676 {\an1}- All right, I'll leave. - Like you jab. 1415 00:50:53,842 --> 00:50:54,468 {\an1}- [bleep] you. 1416 00:50:54,635 --> 00:50:56,136 {\an1}- So you're leaving here 1417 00:50:56,303 --> 00:50:57,513 {\an1}and we never even talked it out? 1418 00:50:57,680 --> 00:50:59,306 {\an1}- [laughs] - You won. 1419 00:50:59,431 --> 00:51:00,307 {\an1}He's getting in the car. 1420 00:51:00,432 --> 00:51:02,226 {\an1}Ryan, if you're saying it's not helping, 1421 00:51:02,351 --> 00:51:03,310 {\an1}then get in the car with him. 1422 00:51:03,394 --> 00:51:05,020 {\an1}[bleep]... 1423 00:51:05,187 --> 00:51:07,690 {\an1}- There's nothing we can do to make him not leave. 1424 00:51:07,815 --> 00:51:09,400 {\an1}♪ ♪ 1425 00:51:09,525 --> 00:51:12,736 {\an1}- This is a topic I really know a lot about. 1426 00:51:12,861 --> 00:51:15,447 {\an1}I have definitely applied all of these rules 1427 00:51:15,573 --> 00:51:16,657 {\an1}to our marriage at this point. 1428 00:51:16,782 --> 00:51:19,493 {\an1}- Yeah. like, in the moment, you can get so worked up, 1429 00:51:19,618 --> 00:51:21,078 {\an1}but you just have to calm yourself down. 1430 00:51:21,203 --> 00:51:22,496 {\an1}- Yeah. Absolutely. 1431 00:51:22,621 --> 00:51:23,872 {\an1}The interesting thing here is 1432 00:51:23,998 --> 00:51:26,000 {\an1}that most of the couples we've seen here, 1433 00:51:26,125 --> 00:51:28,877 {\an1}who went below the belt, aren't together anymore. 1434 00:51:29,003 --> 00:51:30,838 {\an1}And I really want to touch on this subject 1435 00:51:30,963 --> 00:51:32,798 {\an1}because I know Jamie and I definitely broke 1436 00:51:32,881 --> 00:51:34,800 {\an1}a lot of those rules that we just went over, 1437 00:51:34,883 --> 00:51:37,803 {\an1}and it's just really important that you know 1438 00:51:37,928 --> 00:51:41,640 {\an1}that there are healthier ways to get your point across. 1439 00:51:41,765 --> 00:51:43,767 {\an1}As long as you're both willing to learn and grow from it, 1440 00:51:43,851 --> 00:51:45,352 {\an1}I think that's the most important, 1441 00:51:45,477 --> 00:51:47,396 {\an1}and that's how Jamie and I have been able 1442 00:51:47,521 --> 00:51:49,189 {\an1}to persevere through all of this. 1443 00:51:49,356 --> 00:51:51,191 {\an1}- Agreed. Agreed. 100%. 1444 00:51:51,358 --> 00:51:53,944 {\an1}- Let's move on to another set of rules. 1445 00:51:54,028 --> 00:51:56,572 {\an1}[upbeat music] 1446 00:51:56,697 --> 00:51:59,408 {\an1}Anniversaries are a super special occasion 1447 00:51:59,533 --> 00:52:02,119 {\an1}and mark an important milestone in every marriage. 1448 00:52:02,244 --> 00:52:06,248 {\an1}However, if you don't properly plan for this very joyous day, 1449 00:52:06,373 --> 00:52:08,000 {\an1}it could go horribly wrong. 1450 00:52:08,083 --> 00:52:10,711 {\an1}So take our advice and enjoy the five ways 1451 00:52:10,836 --> 00:52:12,588 {\an1}to celebrate your anniversary 1452 00:52:12,713 --> 00:52:14,757 {\an1}that will be remembered forever. 1453 00:52:14,882 --> 00:52:16,133 {\an1}Number five. 1454 00:52:16,258 --> 00:52:19,470 {\an1}A great way to make your anniversary special 1455 00:52:19,595 --> 00:52:22,014 {\an1}is to make it unique to your partner's interest. 1456 00:52:22,139 --> 00:52:23,098 {\an1}- Whenever you want to take your blindfold off, 1457 00:52:23,182 --> 00:52:25,893 {\an1}you can take it off. - I can take it off now? 1458 00:52:26,018 --> 00:52:28,395 {\an1}Oh! [laughs] 1459 00:52:28,520 --> 00:52:29,772 {\an1}Aw! 1460 00:52:29,855 --> 00:52:32,816 {\an1}Oh, this is cool. Oh, my gosh! 1461 00:52:32,900 --> 00:52:34,652 {\an1}To really take one of my interests, 1462 00:52:34,777 --> 00:52:36,111 {\an1}something I've always wanted to do, 1463 00:52:36,236 --> 00:52:39,865 {\an1}and actually make it into our one-month anniversary 1464 00:52:39,990 --> 00:52:42,576 {\an1}just really shows how thoughtful he is, 1465 00:52:42,701 --> 00:52:43,994 {\an1}how romantic he is. 1466 00:52:44,078 --> 00:52:45,621 {\an1}[tender music] 1467 00:52:45,704 --> 00:52:47,164 {\an1}- Oh, [bleep], this is very nice. 1468 00:52:47,247 --> 00:52:48,290 {\an1}- You like it? 1469 00:52:48,374 --> 00:52:49,500 {\an1}- You planned this? - Yeah. 1470 00:52:49,625 --> 00:52:51,752 {\an1}- Oh, my goodness. - [laughs] 1471 00:52:51,877 --> 00:52:53,629 {\an1}- This is like a actual studio. - Yeah, it is. 1472 00:52:53,796 --> 00:52:56,465 {\an1}- Holy [bleep]. - It's an actual studio. 1473 00:52:56,590 --> 00:52:58,884 {\an1}- [vocalizing] 1474 00:52:59,009 --> 00:53:01,220 {\an1}- Hey! - Hey! 1475 00:53:01,345 --> 00:53:02,805 {\an1}- Thank you. - Yeah. 1476 00:53:02,930 --> 00:53:04,473 {\an1}♪ ♪ 1477 00:53:04,556 --> 00:53:05,808 {\an1}- Very cute. - Yeah. 1478 00:53:05,974 --> 00:53:08,102 {\an1}All right, let's go for a walk. 1479 00:53:08,227 --> 00:53:10,437 {\an1}So this is where-- - Oh, nice. A grill. 1480 00:53:10,562 --> 00:53:12,022 {\an1}Oh, we can make a pizza out of the oven. 1481 00:53:12,147 --> 00:53:12,690 {\an1}- Yeah. 1482 00:53:12,856 --> 00:53:14,233 {\an1}- Oh, I love that. - Yeah. 1483 00:53:14,358 --> 00:53:18,153 {\an1}- This is exactly how I'd want to spend my anniversary. 1484 00:53:18,278 --> 00:53:20,155 {\an1}I really like this. 1485 00:53:20,280 --> 00:53:21,323 {\an1}Thank you. - Yeah. 1486 00:53:21,448 --> 00:53:23,283 {\an1}[chuckles] 1487 00:53:23,367 --> 00:53:24,785 {\an1}- Number four. 1488 00:53:24,868 --> 00:53:26,412 {\an1}Remember the good times. 1489 00:53:26,537 --> 00:53:28,706 {\an1}It's never too early to be sentimental 1490 00:53:28,831 --> 00:53:31,500 {\an1}with a walk down memory lane. 1491 00:53:31,583 --> 00:53:34,920 {\an1}[cheers and applause] - All right! 1492 00:53:35,045 --> 00:53:36,463 {\an1}- Yes! 1493 00:53:36,547 --> 00:53:37,840 {\an1}- [chuckles] - That feels right. 1494 00:53:37,965 --> 00:53:38,841 {\an1}- Yeah, it does. - That was it. 1495 00:53:38,966 --> 00:53:40,509 {\an1}- That felt right. Yeah, that was it. 1496 00:53:40,634 --> 00:53:43,721 {\an1}Whoo! We did it! - [chuckles] 1497 00:53:43,846 --> 00:53:46,140 {\an1}- Do you remember our first dance? 1498 00:53:46,223 --> 00:53:47,474 {\an1}- I do. 1499 00:53:47,599 --> 00:53:49,017 {\an1}We started like this. - Was it like this? 1500 00:53:49,184 --> 00:53:50,394 {\an1}- Mm-hmm. - [chuckles] 1501 00:53:50,519 --> 00:53:51,478 {\an1}I'm blown away. 1502 00:53:51,603 --> 00:53:53,814 {\an1}I did not expect this out of him. 1503 00:53:53,981 --> 00:53:56,817 {\an1}It's the most romantic thing that he's done so far. 1504 00:53:56,942 --> 00:53:59,445 {\an1}- This is a super cute, little date you put together. 1505 00:53:59,528 --> 00:54:01,447 {\an1}- Happy one-month. 1506 00:54:01,530 --> 00:54:02,823 {\an1}- Number three. 1507 00:54:02,948 --> 00:54:06,201 {\an1}Sometimes the best gifts are the ones you don't buy. 1508 00:54:06,326 --> 00:54:07,161 {\an1}Be original. 1509 00:54:07,286 --> 00:54:08,412 {\an1}- Okay, do you want your gift? - Of course. 1510 00:54:08,537 --> 00:54:09,455 {\an1}Of course. Sure. 1511 00:54:09,538 --> 00:54:11,165 {\an1}- It's a song. I wrote you a song. 1512 00:54:11,248 --> 00:54:14,084 {\an1}- Oh, wow! - [chuckles] 1513 00:54:14,209 --> 00:54:19,882 {\an1}♪ Oh, I love the way it feels coming home to you ♪ 1514 00:54:20,007 --> 00:54:21,800 {\an1}♪ Want to be with you all the time ♪ 1515 00:54:21,925 --> 00:54:24,219 {\an1}- The fact that someone who I adore so much 1516 00:54:24,344 --> 00:54:25,137 {\an1}not only made something 1517 00:54:25,262 --> 00:54:29,391 {\an1}but made something for me is so moving. 1518 00:54:29,516 --> 00:54:31,477 {\an1}Wow. That was so nice. 1519 00:54:31,602 --> 00:54:32,978 {\an1}- See what you got, sweets. 1520 00:54:33,061 --> 00:54:34,313 {\an1}♪ ♪ 1521 00:54:34,438 --> 00:54:35,981 {\an1}- Aww. 1522 00:54:36,064 --> 00:54:39,026 {\an1}"Good for one candlelit dinner." 1523 00:54:39,151 --> 00:54:42,237 {\an1}"A foot massage." - Mm-hmm. 1524 00:54:42,362 --> 00:54:45,199 {\an1}- "Sex in the shower"? - [laughs] 1525 00:54:45,365 --> 00:54:47,659 {\an1}- That's deep. 1526 00:54:47,743 --> 00:54:49,286 {\an1}- Number two. 1527 00:54:49,369 --> 00:54:50,996 {\an1}Be adventurous. 1528 00:54:51,121 --> 00:54:54,166 {\an1}Celebrate by taking your relationship to new heights. 1529 00:54:54,291 --> 00:54:55,083 {\an1}- Oh! 1530 00:54:55,209 --> 00:54:57,669 {\an1}- It is our one-month anniversary, 1531 00:54:57,795 --> 00:54:58,879 {\an1}so we're celebrating one month together 1532 00:54:59,004 --> 00:55:00,672 {\an1}by taking a big leap of faith. 1533 00:55:00,798 --> 00:55:01,715 {\an1}Let's do this. 1534 00:55:01,840 --> 00:55:02,925 {\an1}- ♪ Jump in the air ♪ 1535 00:55:03,050 --> 00:55:04,760 {\an1}♪ Just jump, touch the sky ♪ 1536 00:55:04,843 --> 00:55:05,803 {\an1}♪ Just jump ♪ 1537 00:55:05,928 --> 00:55:07,304 {\an1}- [screams] 1538 00:55:07,429 --> 00:55:08,347 {\an1}- Oh, yeah! 1539 00:55:08,472 --> 00:55:11,058 {\an1}- Can you do that zero gravity thing or no? 1540 00:55:11,183 --> 00:55:13,352 {\an1}- We're going down. - [screams] 1541 00:55:13,519 --> 00:55:15,020 {\an1}- ♪ Like one, hey ♪ 1542 00:55:15,145 --> 00:55:16,814 {\an1}♪ Whoa-oh, oh, oh ♪ 1543 00:55:16,897 --> 00:55:19,650 {\an1}♪ Hey, whoa-oh, oh, oh ♪ 1544 00:55:19,775 --> 00:55:21,443 {\an1}- [laughs] That was cool. 1545 00:55:21,527 --> 00:55:22,486 {\an1}♪ Like one ♪ 1546 00:55:22,611 --> 00:55:24,154 {\an1}♪ ♪ 1547 00:55:24,238 --> 00:55:25,489 {\an1}- Number one. 1548 00:55:25,614 --> 00:55:29,159 {\an1}Go big with the romance for a night you'll cherish forever. 1549 00:55:29,284 --> 00:55:31,161 {\an1}- You made dinner? - I made dinner. 1550 00:55:31,245 --> 00:55:32,579 {\an1}- I don't believe it. - You don't believe it. 1551 00:55:32,704 --> 00:55:33,497 {\an1}- Mm-mm. - Well, you gotta taste it 1552 00:55:33,664 --> 00:55:34,456 {\an1}to believe it. 1553 00:55:34,581 --> 00:55:36,625 {\an1}Thank you for looking amazing 1554 00:55:36,708 --> 00:55:38,752 {\an1}and being an amazing person. 1555 00:55:38,836 --> 00:55:40,462 {\an1}Somebody that I want to keep forever. 1556 00:55:40,629 --> 00:55:42,339 {\an1}- Well, I guess. 1557 00:55:42,464 --> 00:55:43,757 {\an1}- And...there you go. 1558 00:55:43,882 --> 00:55:45,509 {\an1}♪ ♪ 1559 00:55:45,634 --> 00:55:47,386 {\an1}- Oh, this is so pretty. 1560 00:55:47,511 --> 00:55:49,054 {\an1}- I know, right? 1561 00:55:49,179 --> 00:55:52,641 {\an1}- Wow, this is so beautiful. 1562 00:55:52,724 --> 00:55:54,643 {\an1}I'm literally speechless. 1563 00:55:54,768 --> 00:55:56,979 {\an1}Good job, husband. 1564 00:55:57,104 --> 00:55:59,481 {\an1}- Oh, hey. Fancy meeting you here. 1565 00:55:59,606 --> 00:56:01,900 {\an1}- Wow. - Are surprised, or no? 1566 00:56:02,025 --> 00:56:04,444 {\an1}- Stepping up the game with the music. 1567 00:56:04,528 --> 00:56:05,904 {\an1}And you have sunflowers. 1568 00:56:06,029 --> 00:56:08,323 {\an1}- Sunflowers, yes. I do remember that. 1569 00:56:08,407 --> 00:56:11,243 {\an1}- Wow. You listen. 1570 00:56:11,368 --> 00:56:13,036 {\an1}- So, when it comes to anniversaries, 1571 00:56:13,203 --> 00:56:15,122 {\an1}I'll be very honest, I'm more sentimental, 1572 00:56:15,205 --> 00:56:18,041 {\an1}so I like to do things versus getting gifts. 1573 00:56:18,208 --> 00:56:19,626 {\an1}Jamie and I's first anniversary, 1574 00:56:19,710 --> 00:56:21,628 {\an1}we were supposed to go to, like, Italy, 1575 00:56:21,753 --> 00:56:24,339 {\an1}and we never got to really go and do that. 1576 00:56:24,506 --> 00:56:27,009 {\an1}So we had, like, the cutest one-year anniversary. 1577 00:56:27,134 --> 00:56:28,760 {\an1}Jamie cooked this beautiful dinner. 1578 00:56:28,844 --> 00:56:30,888 {\an1}And I'll remember that anniversary forever. 1579 00:56:31,013 --> 00:56:32,306 {\an1}- That's awesome. I love that. 1580 00:56:32,431 --> 00:56:36,643 {\an1}Our first anniversary literally just passed not too long ago, 1581 00:56:36,768 --> 00:56:39,479 {\an1}and Vincent planned this nice dinner 1582 00:56:39,563 --> 00:56:42,316 {\an1}at this really fancy restaurant I had never heard of. 1583 00:56:42,441 --> 00:56:43,692 {\an1}And got a ring. 1584 00:56:43,817 --> 00:56:44,985 {\an1}- Oh, look at you! - Mm-hmm. 1585 00:56:45,068 --> 00:56:46,153 {\an1}- You're decorated. - Oh, yeah. 1586 00:56:46,236 --> 00:56:49,239 {\an1}- He put a ring on it. Okay. - He put a ring on it. 1587 00:56:53,076 --> 00:56:54,661 {\an1}After watching the first 14 seasons 1588 00:56:54,828 --> 00:56:57,164 {\an1}of "Married at First Sight," we've learned a thing or two 1589 00:56:57,289 --> 00:56:58,832 {\an1}about what we think makes a successful union. 1590 00:56:58,999 --> 00:57:00,918 {\an1}So we've put together some rules of marriage, 1591 00:57:01,001 --> 00:57:03,086 {\an1}and we're sharing them with you tonight. 1592 00:57:03,211 --> 00:57:04,963 {\an1}Hopefully, you can use these examples 1593 00:57:05,088 --> 00:57:07,466 {\an1}as a guide for a happy and healthy marriage. 1594 00:57:07,591 --> 00:57:09,217 {\an1}So, let's keep going. 1595 00:57:09,343 --> 00:57:12,304 {\an1}[upbeat music] 1596 00:57:12,387 --> 00:57:13,847 {\an1}Over the years on "Married at First Sight," 1597 00:57:14,014 --> 00:57:15,182 {\an1}we've seen many examples 1598 00:57:15,307 --> 00:57:17,809 {\an1}of how honesty is always the best policy, 1599 00:57:17,935 --> 00:57:19,561 {\an1}so we've come up with the five rules 1600 00:57:19,686 --> 00:57:22,481 {\an1}to help keep every marriage on the straight and narrow 1601 00:57:22,564 --> 00:57:23,649 {\an1}when it comes to the truth. 1602 00:57:23,774 --> 00:57:25,108 {\an1}- Number five. 1603 00:57:25,192 --> 00:57:29,321 {\an1}Your past will always catch up with you, so don't hide it. 1604 00:57:29,488 --> 00:57:31,823 {\an1}- What's the deal with this Jordan guy? 1605 00:57:31,949 --> 00:57:34,242 {\an1}- That name doesn't even ring a bell. 1606 00:57:34,368 --> 00:57:36,036 {\an1}- So, you don't know who that is? 1607 00:57:36,203 --> 00:57:39,247 {\an1}- No. I mean, I know of him. 1608 00:57:39,373 --> 00:57:41,875 {\an1}- So, last night, Mia and I were talking in bed, 1609 00:57:42,000 --> 00:57:44,127 {\an1}and she came clean with-- there were some things 1610 00:57:44,252 --> 00:57:46,046 {\an1}that she just was not honest about. 1611 00:57:46,171 --> 00:57:47,965 {\an1}She does know the accuser, 1612 00:57:48,090 --> 00:57:50,050 {\an1}and they did have a brief relationship. 1613 00:57:50,175 --> 00:57:52,260 {\an1}And even though that I appreciate her honesty, 1614 00:57:52,344 --> 00:57:55,263 {\an1}it still really hurt that it took her all week 1615 00:57:55,389 --> 00:57:57,265 {\an1}just to come clean and tell me. 1616 00:57:57,391 --> 00:57:59,977 {\an1}- I thought you said you had a female roommate. 1617 00:58:00,102 --> 00:58:01,645 {\an1}- That's not what I meant. 1618 00:58:01,812 --> 00:58:03,230 {\an1}- So, you have two female roommates? 1619 00:58:03,355 --> 00:58:05,816 {\an1}- Yeah, like, I currently live with women. 1620 00:58:05,983 --> 00:58:07,109 {\an1}I don't think it makes me, like-- 1621 00:58:07,192 --> 00:58:09,319 {\an1}like I'm trying to hide something. 1622 00:58:09,486 --> 00:58:11,530 {\an1}- Well, that's what it seems like when there's been plenty 1623 00:58:11,655 --> 00:58:13,740 {\an1}of opportunities to bring it up, and you didn't. 1624 00:58:13,865 --> 00:58:16,952 {\an1}[tense music] 1625 00:58:17,035 --> 00:58:19,788 {\an1}- Oh. - What's that? 1626 00:58:19,913 --> 00:58:22,082 {\an1}♪ ♪ 1627 00:58:22,207 --> 00:58:23,667 {\an1}- Whose boobs are those? 1628 00:58:23,792 --> 00:58:25,669 {\an1}♪ ♪ 1629 00:58:25,794 --> 00:58:27,921 {\an1}- [chuckles] My bad. 1630 00:58:28,046 --> 00:58:29,589 {\an1}- Number four. 1631 00:58:29,715 --> 00:58:31,133 {\an1}Honesty is great, 1632 00:58:31,299 --> 00:58:33,927 {\an1}but remember that sometimes the truth hurts. 1633 00:58:34,052 --> 00:58:36,930 {\an1}- We rated you guys. 1634 00:58:37,014 --> 00:58:39,057 {\an1}- Are you serious? What did you rate me? 1635 00:58:39,182 --> 00:58:41,643 {\an1}- A seven and a half. - [gasps] 1636 00:58:41,768 --> 00:58:43,270 {\an1}Oh, my God. Are you kidding me? 1637 00:58:43,395 --> 00:58:44,396 {\an1}- Is that mean? - Yes. 1638 00:58:44,521 --> 00:58:46,440 {\an1}- That's a pretty good rating. - No, it's not. 1639 00:58:46,565 --> 00:58:47,816 {\an1}- No one's a ten. 1640 00:58:47,941 --> 00:58:51,153 {\an1}- Danielle is a ten, apparently. 1641 00:58:51,319 --> 00:58:54,489 {\an1}- Luke and I just kissed for the first time, 1642 00:58:54,573 --> 00:58:57,534 {\an1}and I could sense something was wrong. 1643 00:58:57,659 --> 00:58:59,161 {\an1}And so, he pulled away. 1644 00:58:59,286 --> 00:59:00,203 {\an1}I asked him if he was okay, 1645 00:59:00,370 --> 00:59:04,374 {\an1}and he said that he felt dead inside. 1646 00:59:04,499 --> 00:59:06,460 {\an1}And then, he went to the bathroom. 1647 00:59:06,585 --> 00:59:09,755 {\an1}And I asked him if he was okay again, 1648 00:59:09,880 --> 00:59:12,591 {\an1}and he said that he just felt repulsed. 1649 00:59:12,716 --> 00:59:15,385 {\an1}And I'm just kind of in shock. 1650 00:59:15,510 --> 00:59:17,763 {\an1}- That's why you called me a bitch? 1651 00:59:17,888 --> 00:59:18,930 {\an1}- Just own up to it. 1652 00:59:19,056 --> 00:59:22,142 {\an1}- Answer my question. Where did that come from? 1653 00:59:22,309 --> 00:59:23,977 {\an1}- From you acting like a bitch. 1654 00:59:24,102 --> 00:59:25,812 {\an1}♪ ♪ 1655 00:59:25,896 --> 00:59:28,023 {\an1}- Number three. 1656 00:59:28,148 --> 00:59:29,983 {\an1}Get your story straight. 1657 00:59:30,150 --> 00:59:31,943 {\an1}- So, you here go. 1658 00:59:32,069 --> 00:59:34,071 {\an1}Talks about the salary right here. 1659 00:59:34,196 --> 00:59:36,114 {\an1}The actual take-home salary is this. 1660 00:59:36,239 --> 00:59:39,159 {\an1}- But this is, like, a double-digit difference. 1661 00:59:39,284 --> 00:59:40,327 {\an1}And it says gross, 1662 00:59:40,452 --> 00:59:42,829 {\an1}and gross means before anything is taken out. 1663 00:59:42,954 --> 00:59:44,623 {\an1}This guy can't be serious. 1664 00:59:44,706 --> 00:59:48,293 {\an1}Like, it's very clear to me he's not being honest about it. 1665 00:59:48,418 --> 00:59:50,754 {\an1}I need to step away from this. 1666 00:59:50,879 --> 00:59:52,964 {\an1}Like, why not just be honest? 1667 00:59:53,048 --> 00:59:54,966 {\an1}♪ ♪ 1668 00:59:55,092 --> 00:59:56,760 {\an1}- Like, you don't have your ring on. 1669 00:59:56,843 --> 00:59:59,387 {\an1}And to me, like, that's, like, a sign that you weren't, 1670 00:59:59,513 --> 01:00:01,014 {\an1}like, taking our marriage seriously last night. 1671 01:00:01,139 --> 01:00:04,226 {\an1}♪ ♪ 1672 01:00:04,351 --> 01:00:08,814 {\an1}- I mean, I took it off to work out, and just left. 1673 01:00:08,980 --> 01:00:10,315 {\an1}I thought I was gonna come back 1674 01:00:10,482 --> 01:00:13,819 {\an1}even before I went out with the guys. 1675 01:00:13,902 --> 01:00:15,779 {\an1}Um... 1676 01:00:15,904 --> 01:00:17,781 {\an1}♪ ♪ 1677 01:00:17,906 --> 01:00:19,825 {\an1}Um... 1678 01:00:19,950 --> 01:00:21,159 {\an1}- Number two. 1679 01:00:21,284 --> 01:00:23,787 {\an1}Don't sneak around behind your wife's back. 1680 01:00:23,912 --> 01:00:24,663 {\an1}You'll get caught. 1681 01:00:24,830 --> 01:00:26,164 {\an1}- You haven't been in touch 1682 01:00:26,248 --> 01:00:29,000 {\an1}with, like, my friends or anything like that, right? 1683 01:00:29,126 --> 01:00:30,794 {\an1}- Yeah, um... 1684 01:00:30,919 --> 01:00:33,130 {\an1}Lindsay has reached out to me. 1685 01:00:33,255 --> 01:00:35,132 {\an1}- Do you think maybe you should tell me 1686 01:00:35,298 --> 01:00:36,800 {\an1}that you're having a friendship on the side 1687 01:00:36,883 --> 01:00:38,093 {\an1}with one of my friends? 1688 01:00:38,218 --> 01:00:40,887 {\an1}- [clicks tongue] Um... 1689 01:00:41,012 --> 01:00:43,390 {\an1}♪ ♪ 1690 01:00:43,515 --> 01:00:46,852 {\an1}- Got a text from a friend, like, ten minutes ago 1691 01:00:46,977 --> 01:00:51,481 {\an1}that showed that you were on a dating app 1692 01:00:51,606 --> 01:00:53,984 {\an1}and matched with someone that I know. 1693 01:00:54,151 --> 01:00:56,153 {\an1}You got, like, one week left, man. 1694 01:00:56,236 --> 01:00:58,488 {\an1}Couldn't have waited to jump back in there? 1695 01:00:58,655 --> 01:01:02,325 {\an1}♪ ♪ 1696 01:01:02,409 --> 01:01:04,202 {\an1}- He dropped me off in front of the apartment. 1697 01:01:04,369 --> 01:01:07,080 {\an1}And then, when he came back, he, like, kissed me, 1698 01:01:07,205 --> 01:01:10,167 {\an1}and I was like, "You smell like an ashtray." 1699 01:01:10,333 --> 01:01:12,085 {\an1}And he was like, "I don't know how." 1700 01:01:12,169 --> 01:01:13,420 {\an1}I was just like, "It's so weird. 1701 01:01:13,503 --> 01:01:15,422 {\an1}I think I smell, like, a cigarette on your breath." 1702 01:01:15,505 --> 01:01:17,299 {\an1}Whatever. He just got really, really defensive. 1703 01:01:17,424 --> 01:01:19,009 {\an1}And I don't know. Then, I just knew. 1704 01:01:19,134 --> 01:01:22,220 {\an1}- I think just past, like, the cigarette part. 1705 01:01:22,345 --> 01:01:23,346 {\an1}Everything else. 1706 01:01:23,513 --> 01:01:24,431 {\an1}Why would I ever lie? - It's not the cigarette. 1707 01:01:24,514 --> 01:01:26,558 {\an1}- It's the lie, Doug. - I know. 1708 01:01:26,683 --> 01:01:28,643 {\an1}♪ ♪ 1709 01:01:28,727 --> 01:01:30,437 {\an1}- Number one. 1710 01:01:30,520 --> 01:01:33,273 {\an1}Remember, the truth will always set you free, 1711 01:01:33,356 --> 01:01:34,816 {\an1}so trust your partner. 1712 01:01:34,941 --> 01:01:40,155 {\an1}- So, my brother was probably the first harsh loss. 1713 01:01:40,238 --> 01:01:42,616 {\an1}One night, we get, like, a frantic knock at the door 1714 01:01:42,699 --> 01:01:45,410 {\an1}at 3:00 in the morning, and it's one of his friends. 1715 01:01:45,535 --> 01:01:46,995 {\an1}And he's just saying "Vladymir got shot. 1716 01:01:47,120 --> 01:01:48,496 {\an1}Vladymir got shot." 1717 01:01:48,622 --> 01:01:52,709 {\an1}And...yeah, that's just it. [sniffles] 1718 01:01:52,876 --> 01:01:56,296 {\an1}That's just my first example of, like, grief, and... 1719 01:01:56,421 --> 01:01:58,965 {\an1}- I'm afraid to give birth. 1720 01:01:59,090 --> 01:02:01,134 {\an1}♪ ♪ 1721 01:02:01,259 --> 01:02:03,261 {\an1}You know I have high blood pressure, right? 1722 01:02:03,386 --> 01:02:06,431 {\an1}When you become pregnant, like, it's elevated. 1723 01:02:06,556 --> 01:02:10,435 {\an1}So, if mine is already elevated and it's even more elevated, 1724 01:02:10,518 --> 01:02:12,354 {\an1}that would cause, like, 1725 01:02:12,479 --> 01:02:14,773 {\an1}something to happen to me and my life 1726 01:02:14,856 --> 01:02:17,692 {\an1}or the life of the child. 1727 01:02:17,817 --> 01:02:19,819 {\an1}♪ ♪ 1728 01:02:19,986 --> 01:02:21,196 {\an1}- So, a couple years ago, 1729 01:02:21,321 --> 01:02:23,281 {\an1}I was diagnosed with clinical depression. 1730 01:02:23,406 --> 01:02:24,324 {\an1}So, like, there's days where, like, 1731 01:02:24,491 --> 01:02:26,159 {\an1}I don't want to get out of bed. 1732 01:02:26,284 --> 01:02:28,995 {\an1}There's days where I just want to be by myself. 1733 01:02:29,079 --> 01:02:30,622 {\an1}I take medication for it, 1734 01:02:30,747 --> 01:02:33,124 {\an1}but, like, I'm especially being cognizant of the fact 1735 01:02:33,250 --> 01:02:34,501 {\an1}that, like, I have a responsibility 1736 01:02:34,626 --> 01:02:36,002 {\an1}to, like, let you know how I'm feeling, 1737 01:02:36,127 --> 01:02:38,880 {\an1}'cause I know that can also affect you. 1738 01:02:39,005 --> 01:02:42,217 {\an1}- Okay. Thank you for sharing. 1739 01:02:42,342 --> 01:02:44,177 {\an1}- "Dear Little Bang Bao. 1740 01:02:44,344 --> 01:02:46,888 {\an1}"Your father is struggling with PTSD, 1741 01:02:47,013 --> 01:02:51,309 {\an1}"and no one in your family and community at the time 1742 01:02:51,393 --> 01:02:53,019 {\an1}"is equipped to manage it. 1743 01:02:53,144 --> 01:02:58,024 {\an1}"I promise you that there is light beyond these dark times. 1744 01:02:58,149 --> 01:03:00,777 {\an1}Love, Bigger Bang Bao." 1745 01:03:00,860 --> 01:03:01,945 {\an1}[chuckles weakly] 1746 01:03:02,070 --> 01:03:04,197 {\an1}♪ ♪ 1747 01:03:04,322 --> 01:03:06,992 {\an1}- Thanks for sharing it. - Mm-hmm. 1748 01:03:07,117 --> 01:03:08,410 {\an1}- So, Beth, be honest. 1749 01:03:08,535 --> 01:03:10,161 {\an1}Have you ever lied to Jamie? 1750 01:03:10,328 --> 01:03:11,705 {\an1}- I think I've had, like, maybe, like, 1751 01:03:11,871 --> 01:03:12,956 {\an1}a few little white lies. 1752 01:03:13,039 --> 01:03:15,750 {\an1}Maybe, like, I didn't want to fully, like, say something 1753 01:03:15,875 --> 01:03:17,961 {\an1}that might have hurt him. - Mm-hmm. 1754 01:03:18,044 --> 01:03:20,630 {\an1}- But nothing to the point of, like, where it's gonna, like, 1755 01:03:20,755 --> 01:03:22,716 {\an1}destroy our marriage or anything like that. 1756 01:03:22,841 --> 01:03:23,925 {\an1}- Yeah. - What about you and Vincent? 1757 01:03:24,050 --> 01:03:28,305 {\an1}- I may, you know, lie a little bit about shopping. 1758 01:03:28,430 --> 01:03:29,306 {\an1}- Yeah. - [laughs] 1759 01:03:29,431 --> 01:03:31,141 {\an1}- You know, the truth hurts. - Yeah. 1760 01:03:31,224 --> 01:03:32,434 {\an1}- And I don't want to hurt him sometimes. 1761 01:03:32,559 --> 01:03:33,643 {\an1}- Yeah, sometimes I think-- 1762 01:03:33,727 --> 01:03:35,270 {\an1}I think we should just leave some of that out. 1763 01:03:35,353 --> 01:03:36,938 {\an1}- Absolutely. - Like, it's okay. 1764 01:03:40,775 --> 01:03:42,652 {\an1}- Let's talk about when it's time 1765 01:03:42,819 --> 01:03:44,779 {\an1}to bring in some professional help. 1766 01:03:44,904 --> 01:03:46,197 {\an1}[upbeat music] 1767 01:03:46,323 --> 01:03:48,658 {\an1}With some help from our "MAFS" expects, 1768 01:03:48,742 --> 01:03:50,577 {\an1}here are our top five rules 1769 01:03:50,702 --> 01:03:52,329 {\an1}for how you can make the most 1770 01:03:52,412 --> 01:03:54,831 {\an1}out of seeking a little professional coaching 1771 01:03:54,998 --> 01:03:56,416 {\an1}to improve your marriage. 1772 01:03:56,541 --> 01:03:58,626 {\an1}- Number five. 1773 01:03:58,710 --> 01:04:00,545 {\an1}Couples therapy isn't easy. 1774 01:04:00,670 --> 01:04:02,422 {\an1}Get ready for some tough love. 1775 01:04:02,547 --> 01:04:04,549 {\an1}- You did some lousy things early on. 1776 01:04:04,674 --> 01:04:07,385 {\an1}She did something that I think is not cool at all. 1777 01:04:07,510 --> 01:04:10,305 {\an1}So, okay, we can still go on from that. 1778 01:04:10,388 --> 01:04:13,308 {\an1}- You know that if you can't turn it around, 1779 01:04:13,433 --> 01:04:15,226 {\an1}respect this woman, 1780 01:04:15,352 --> 01:04:18,980 {\an1}be the man that I'm expecting you to be, 1781 01:04:19,105 --> 01:04:20,231 {\an1}then you need to get the heck up out of here. 1782 01:04:20,357 --> 01:04:21,816 {\an1}[tense music] 1783 01:04:21,983 --> 01:04:25,153 {\an1}- Have you been perfect in this marriage? 1784 01:04:25,278 --> 01:04:26,446 {\an1}- No. 1785 01:04:26,571 --> 01:04:31,493 {\an1}- Why are you kind of almost expecting her to be? 1786 01:04:31,618 --> 01:04:36,539 {\an1}- The impression I get is that you talk down to her. 1787 01:04:36,706 --> 01:04:42,837 {\an1}I have heard that you told her that she's got no life skills, 1788 01:04:43,004 --> 01:04:46,674 {\an1}that she's behind you in terms of maturation. 1789 01:04:46,841 --> 01:04:48,301 {\an1}So, I'd like to hear your side of that. 1790 01:04:48,426 --> 01:04:50,303 {\an1}- Um... 1791 01:04:50,387 --> 01:04:51,971 {\an1}[laughs] Dr. Pepper, like-- 1792 01:04:52,138 --> 01:04:54,265 {\an1}- I want to know. That's all. 1793 01:04:54,349 --> 01:04:55,308 {\an1}- Here's the deal, Matt. 1794 01:04:55,392 --> 01:04:57,977 {\an1}Man, we thought you were a good guy, 1795 01:04:58,103 --> 01:05:00,980 {\an1}but your behavior is saying that you've been 1796 01:05:01,147 --> 01:05:03,775 {\an1}a lousy husband. - Mm. 1797 01:05:03,858 --> 01:05:07,362 {\an1}- Honestly, I don't think you've given it your all, 1798 01:05:07,529 --> 01:05:10,281 {\an1}because if you did, you'd be living here. 1799 01:05:10,365 --> 01:05:11,449 {\an1}♪ ♪ 1800 01:05:11,533 --> 01:05:13,034 {\an1}- Number four. 1801 01:05:13,201 --> 01:05:14,661 {\an1}These are professionals. 1802 01:05:14,786 --> 01:05:15,745 {\an1}They know what they're talking about, 1803 01:05:15,870 --> 01:05:17,747 {\an1}so listen to what they're telling you. 1804 01:05:17,872 --> 01:05:21,709 {\an1}- I want you to start to really imagine 1805 01:05:21,835 --> 01:05:24,254 {\an1}that you're building a marriage. 1806 01:05:24,337 --> 01:05:26,798 {\an1}This isn't roommates. 1807 01:05:26,881 --> 01:05:27,924 {\an1}Behave in a way 1808 01:05:28,049 --> 01:05:31,469 {\an1}that you've always wanted a married life to look like. 1809 01:05:31,553 --> 01:05:33,805 {\an1}Because you're married. - Mm, yeah. 1810 01:05:33,888 --> 01:05:35,640 {\an1}♪ ♪ 1811 01:05:35,723 --> 01:05:38,685 {\an1}- Finances are not the number one reason for divorce. 1812 01:05:38,810 --> 01:05:41,688 {\an1}How you communicate about finances is. 1813 01:05:41,855 --> 01:05:46,651 {\an1}You must trust that the other person is not your enemy, okay? 1814 01:05:46,776 --> 01:05:49,821 {\an1}You're just simply trying to resolve an issue. 1815 01:05:49,904 --> 01:05:50,822 {\an1}♪ ♪ 1816 01:05:50,947 --> 01:05:54,200 {\an1}- If you want your marriage to be successful, 1817 01:05:54,325 --> 01:05:56,744 {\an1}you can't lie to your wife. 1818 01:05:56,870 --> 01:06:00,707 {\an1}It's not an unknown human characteristic by any of us. 1819 01:06:00,832 --> 01:06:03,501 {\an1}So I think you have to work on developing trust, 1820 01:06:03,668 --> 01:06:05,420 {\an1}and that means you both have to give. 1821 01:06:05,503 --> 01:06:07,297 {\an1}- There is no perfect woman, Johnny. 1822 01:06:07,422 --> 01:06:08,631 {\an1}You've been looking for her. 1823 01:06:08,798 --> 01:06:10,717 {\an1}No one can live up to that standard. 1824 01:06:10,842 --> 01:06:13,970 {\an1}Now, we found someone who's imperfectly perfect for you. 1825 01:06:14,053 --> 01:06:16,764 {\an1}And she will be an incredible wife to you. 1826 01:06:16,890 --> 01:06:18,308 {\an1}I think you get in your own head 1827 01:06:18,433 --> 01:06:19,476 {\an1}and you get in your own way. 1828 01:06:19,559 --> 01:06:21,394 {\an1}♪ ♪ 1829 01:06:21,519 --> 01:06:23,688 {\an1}Ball's in your court, man. 1830 01:06:23,813 --> 01:06:25,315 {\an1}♪ ♪ 1831 01:06:25,440 --> 01:06:26,816 {\an1}- Number three. 1832 01:06:26,983 --> 01:06:29,444 {\an1}Sex therapy can be a game changer, 1833 01:06:29,527 --> 01:06:32,822 {\an1}so be open to discussing those intimate details. 1834 01:06:32,947 --> 01:06:35,575 {\an1}- It's okay for y'all to look at each other and just say, 1835 01:06:35,700 --> 01:06:39,621 {\an1}"Let's assume we are having a healthier sex life." 1836 01:06:39,746 --> 01:06:42,415 {\an1}It's okay to kind of fantasize a little bit about it. 1837 01:06:42,540 --> 01:06:44,834 {\an1}Any little thing that y'all do to bond, 1838 01:06:44,918 --> 01:06:46,961 {\an1}to feel comfortable, to communicate, 1839 01:06:47,086 --> 01:06:50,840 {\an1}is adding to your sexuality, whether you believe it or not. 1840 01:06:50,965 --> 01:06:54,302 {\an1}- I have no experience with sex meaning anything. 1841 01:06:54,385 --> 01:06:56,304 {\an1}I have never had a sexual relationship 1842 01:06:56,429 --> 01:06:58,640 {\an1}that was anything other than sex. 1843 01:06:58,723 --> 01:07:01,768 {\an1}- There is kind of a switch that can happen 1844 01:07:01,851 --> 01:07:04,812 {\an1}when you have two people who do have feelings for each other 1845 01:07:04,896 --> 01:07:07,273 {\an1}and have that emotional bond. 1846 01:07:07,398 --> 01:07:09,734 {\an1}Then, sex isn't just sex. 1847 01:07:09,859 --> 01:07:11,819 {\an1}If the feelings are there emotionally, 1848 01:07:11,945 --> 01:07:15,156 {\an1}I do believe that sex will mean more to you. 1849 01:07:15,281 --> 01:07:17,492 {\an1}♪ ♪ 1850 01:07:17,617 --> 01:07:19,661 {\an1}What does sex mean to you? - I don't know. 1851 01:07:19,744 --> 01:07:20,995 {\an1}It means, like, being connected to somebody 1852 01:07:21,120 --> 01:07:22,997 {\an1}and having, like, a deeper, special bond 1853 01:07:23,081 --> 01:07:25,166 {\an1}that you just don't have with other people. 1854 01:07:25,291 --> 01:07:27,961 {\an1}- So, it's sex and connection. 1855 01:07:28,086 --> 01:07:31,172 {\an1}Let's have more things that we're focusing on, 1856 01:07:31,297 --> 01:07:33,007 {\an1}and build and grow. 1857 01:07:33,174 --> 01:07:35,176 {\an1}And I think that could be a really great way 1858 01:07:35,343 --> 01:07:37,595 {\an1}to then also have more assurance 1859 01:07:37,720 --> 01:07:40,139 {\an1}and get that reassurance in different ways. 1860 01:07:40,223 --> 01:07:41,391 {\an1}♪ ♪ 1861 01:07:41,516 --> 01:07:42,809 {\an1}- Number two. 1862 01:07:42,934 --> 01:07:45,728 {\an1}The experts are here to help you improve your relationship, 1863 01:07:45,853 --> 01:07:47,814 {\an1}so you have to do your homework. 1864 01:07:47,897 --> 01:07:49,732 {\an1}- I'm very excited about doing the activity 1865 01:07:49,857 --> 01:07:52,110 {\an1}that Dr. Viviana suggested for us. 1866 01:07:52,235 --> 01:07:54,153 {\an1}Ooh! 1867 01:07:54,279 --> 01:07:56,864 {\an1}"Taste. Take a body shot." 1868 01:07:56,990 --> 01:07:59,158 {\an1}- Yeah, we're not gonna do that. 1869 01:07:59,284 --> 01:08:00,410 {\an1}- Why not? 1870 01:08:00,535 --> 01:08:02,161 {\an1}- I have never done body shots, 1871 01:08:02,245 --> 01:08:03,955 {\an1}and it's not something that I would want to do. 1872 01:08:04,080 --> 01:08:07,834 {\an1}- "How could I fill one of your romantic fantasies?" 1873 01:08:07,917 --> 01:08:11,796 {\an1}- You could wear some glasses and, like, um-- 1874 01:08:11,879 --> 01:08:13,464 {\an1}like, put your hair back or something 1875 01:08:13,590 --> 01:08:15,049 {\an1}and, like, have, like, a-- 1876 01:08:15,174 --> 01:08:17,385 {\an1}like, a librarian type of look going on. 1877 01:08:17,510 --> 01:08:18,969 {\an1}- Okay. - Yeah. 1878 01:08:19,094 --> 01:08:22,098 {\an1}- "Place syrup on your partner anywhere, 1879 01:08:22,181 --> 01:08:23,182 {\an1}and you can lick it off." 1880 01:08:23,308 --> 01:08:24,976 {\an1}- Don't-- - [chuckles] 1881 01:08:25,059 --> 01:08:26,269 {\an1}- [laughs] 1882 01:08:26,352 --> 01:08:28,813 {\an1}[mischievous music] 1883 01:08:28,896 --> 01:08:31,190 {\an1}- Okay! Okay! - You got some more. 1884 01:08:31,357 --> 01:08:32,358 {\an1}- Number one. 1885 01:08:32,524 --> 01:08:36,154 {\an1}Talk about the tough issues, even if it isn't easy. 1886 01:08:36,279 --> 01:08:39,073 {\an1}Couples therapy is the perfect place to let your guard down. 1887 01:08:39,198 --> 01:08:42,327 {\an1}- I think she deserves to hear what you're thinking. 1888 01:08:42,410 --> 01:08:43,827 {\an1}[tense music] 1889 01:08:43,952 --> 01:08:45,455 {\an1}- I don't know. [chuckles] 1890 01:08:45,580 --> 01:08:47,707 {\an1}I'm just worried that I have put her in a situation 1891 01:08:47,832 --> 01:08:49,000 {\an1}where she's not comfortable. 1892 01:08:49,083 --> 01:08:50,752 {\an1}- And drinking is a result of that? 1893 01:08:50,835 --> 01:08:51,753 {\an1}- Yeah, it's a result of that. 1894 01:08:51,835 --> 01:08:52,754 {\an1}- I'm really upset 1895 01:08:52,879 --> 01:08:55,340 {\an1}that you didn't tell me any of this. 1896 01:08:55,465 --> 01:09:00,053 {\an1}- It sounds like she's further along towards liking you. 1897 01:09:00,178 --> 01:09:02,055 {\an1}- She's awesome. She's incredibly attractive. 1898 01:09:02,180 --> 01:09:03,973 {\an1}But I'm just waiting for that feeling 1899 01:09:04,057 --> 01:09:07,143 {\an1}that I'm, like, yes, yes, yes. 1900 01:09:07,226 --> 01:09:08,603 {\an1}- What are you thinking over there? 1901 01:09:08,728 --> 01:09:10,563 {\an1}- It's too familiar. [sniffles] 1902 01:09:10,688 --> 01:09:12,482 {\an1}♪ ♪ 1903 01:09:12,607 --> 01:09:14,984 {\an1}And I didn't want that to be this. 1904 01:09:15,109 --> 01:09:16,736 {\an1}♪ ♪ 1905 01:09:16,861 --> 01:09:19,112 {\an1}- Do you feel grateful that he's in your life? 1906 01:09:19,197 --> 01:09:22,032 {\an1}- I think I knew I would be happy in marriage, 1907 01:09:22,200 --> 01:09:25,286 {\an1}but I didn't think that, you know, 1908 01:09:25,370 --> 01:09:29,457 {\an1}I would get everything I wanted and more in marriage. 1909 01:09:29,582 --> 01:09:32,919 {\an1}♪ ♪ 1910 01:09:33,002 --> 01:09:34,295 {\an1}- I love hearing that. 1911 01:09:34,379 --> 01:09:36,089 {\an1}♪ ♪ 1912 01:09:36,172 --> 01:09:38,131 {\an1}- I think, out of all the experts, 1913 01:09:38,216 --> 01:09:41,135 {\an1}Dr. Pepper definitely calls you out on your [bleep], 1914 01:09:41,219 --> 01:09:42,929 {\an1}and she gives you the tough love that you need 1915 01:09:43,012 --> 01:09:44,471 {\an1}to help you through your relationship. 1916 01:09:44,639 --> 01:09:45,473 {\an1}- Oh, yeah. - Yeah. 1917 01:09:45,598 --> 01:09:47,183 {\an1}- Sometimes--even when she sat down with me, 1918 01:09:47,350 --> 01:09:49,309 {\an1}I'm like, oh, [bleep]. - It's like my mom-- 1919 01:09:49,434 --> 01:09:50,937 {\an1}- "Give it to me hard, Dr. Pepper." 1920 01:09:51,062 --> 01:09:52,229 {\an1}- My mom coming to tell me, "You're wrong, 1921 01:09:52,354 --> 01:09:53,648 {\an1}and you need to fix it." - Right? 1922 01:09:53,731 --> 01:09:55,191 {\an1}Oh, man, it can be painful, 1923 01:09:55,316 --> 01:09:56,234 {\an1}but you know they're-- it's painful 1924 01:09:56,359 --> 01:09:57,527 {\an1}because you know they're right. - Yeah. 1925 01:10:01,364 --> 01:10:04,701 {\an1}- All right, let's move on to our next set of rules. 1926 01:10:04,867 --> 01:10:06,911 {\an1}[upbeat music] 1927 01:10:07,036 --> 01:10:08,496 {\an1}We've seen a lot of fantastic vacations 1928 01:10:08,621 --> 01:10:10,540 {\an1}on "Married at First Sight," and we've come away 1929 01:10:10,707 --> 01:10:12,541 {\an1}with a few rules to help guide you 1930 01:10:12,666 --> 01:10:13,960 {\an1}to a glorious getaway. 1931 01:10:14,085 --> 01:10:15,545 {\an1}Check them out. 1932 01:10:15,670 --> 01:10:17,505 {\an1}Number five. 1933 01:10:17,630 --> 01:10:20,216 {\an1}Vacations are meant to bring you closer together. 1934 01:10:20,341 --> 01:10:23,761 {\an1}Don't let one bad moment tear you apart. 1935 01:10:23,844 --> 01:10:26,139 {\an1}- The way you talk to me and treat me 1936 01:10:26,264 --> 01:10:29,225 {\an1}is not any different from the way you treat every other girl. 1937 01:10:29,350 --> 01:10:31,227 {\an1}- Okay. Okay, Well, I'm not sorry I'm trying 1938 01:10:31,352 --> 01:10:33,478 {\an1}to initiate [bleep] sex with you on your period. 1939 01:10:33,603 --> 01:10:36,858 {\an1}The last time I [bleep] tried making a move, you said no. 1940 01:10:36,983 --> 01:10:38,109 {\an1}- I'm done. 1941 01:10:38,192 --> 01:10:40,445 {\an1}- I'm trying to understand. - No, you're not. 1942 01:10:40,528 --> 01:10:41,446 {\an1}- Katie, I'm gonna follow you for the next-- 1943 01:10:41,529 --> 01:10:43,906 {\an1}- Please do not follow me. Please do not-- 1944 01:10:44,031 --> 01:10:45,282 {\an1}[tense music] 1945 01:10:45,366 --> 01:10:47,869 {\an1}- If marriage with me is so hard, 1946 01:10:47,994 --> 01:10:49,245 {\an1}then why even continue 1947 01:10:49,370 --> 01:10:51,539 {\an1}any kind of relationship with me after this? 1948 01:10:51,664 --> 01:10:52,373 {\an1}- If we got a divorce, right, 1949 01:10:52,498 --> 01:10:53,624 {\an1}then we wouldn't be married anymore. 1950 01:10:53,708 --> 01:10:55,501 {\an1}So then, we would be in different circumstances. 1951 01:10:55,626 --> 01:10:58,171 {\an1}So, we'd see what happens then. That's why. 1952 01:10:58,296 --> 01:10:59,797 {\an1}♪ ♪ 1953 01:10:59,880 --> 01:11:01,674 {\an1}- I can't! I can't! I can't! 1954 01:11:01,799 --> 01:11:04,343 {\an1}I'm sorry. I [bleep] can't. 1955 01:11:04,469 --> 01:11:06,971 {\an1}Like, I can't make this [bleep] up. 1956 01:11:07,138 --> 01:11:09,766 {\an1}- You're going the wrong way. - This look like-- 1957 01:11:09,891 --> 01:11:11,559 {\an1}- I went every way you told me to go. 1958 01:11:11,684 --> 01:11:12,434 {\an1}- No, you didn't. 1959 01:11:12,559 --> 01:11:15,396 {\an1}I said, "Yo, this doesn't look right." 1960 01:11:15,521 --> 01:11:16,522 {\an1}- Just 'cause you like 1961 01:11:16,647 --> 01:11:17,773 {\an1}to enjoy whatever-- - All right, so [bleep] this. 1962 01:11:17,857 --> 01:11:20,735 {\an1}Seriously, no. You're gonna be grumpy. 1963 01:11:20,860 --> 01:11:21,652 {\an1}- This is why it's not working, 1964 01:11:21,778 --> 01:11:23,237 {\an1}because we're not working together. 1965 01:11:23,362 --> 01:11:24,530 {\an1}I give up. 1966 01:11:24,655 --> 01:11:25,990 {\an1}♪ ♪ 1967 01:11:26,115 --> 01:11:27,742 {\an1}- Number four. 1968 01:11:27,867 --> 01:11:29,202 {\an1}It only takes one person 1969 01:11:29,327 --> 01:11:30,995 {\an1}to bring down the mood of a whole group. 1970 01:11:31,162 --> 01:11:32,663 {\an1}Don't be that person. 1971 01:11:32,789 --> 01:11:35,041 {\an1}- This is a big orgy here. 1972 01:11:35,166 --> 01:11:36,876 {\an1}Does Luke already have a boner? 1973 01:11:37,001 --> 01:11:39,085 {\an1}[scattered laughter] 1974 01:11:39,170 --> 01:11:41,088 {\an1}- AJ makes everyone feel uncomfortable. 1975 01:11:41,214 --> 01:11:43,883 {\an1}- Are you more of a top or more of a bottom, Luke? 1976 01:11:44,008 --> 01:11:46,761 {\an1}- AJ, just bring it back a notch. 1977 01:11:46,844 --> 01:11:48,429 {\an1}- Don't try to go against me. That's gonna make me hate you. 1978 01:11:48,513 --> 01:11:50,139 {\an1}♪ ♪ 1979 01:11:50,223 --> 01:11:52,934 {\an1}- All right, come on, let's get ready to go to bed then. 1980 01:11:53,017 --> 01:11:54,393 {\an1}♪ ♪ 1981 01:11:54,519 --> 01:11:55,520 {\an1}- The loser is-- 1982 01:11:55,645 --> 01:11:58,648 {\an1}the person who is most likely to lose this game... 1983 01:11:58,731 --> 01:12:01,943 {\an1}[drumroll] It is... 1984 01:12:02,026 --> 01:12:03,778 {\an1}Lindsey. 1985 01:12:03,861 --> 01:12:05,862 {\an1}all: Oh! - [imitates bugle] 1986 01:12:05,987 --> 01:12:07,698 {\an1}- I don't give a [bleep] what y'all think. 1987 01:12:07,824 --> 01:12:11,661 {\an1}♪ ♪ 1988 01:12:11,786 --> 01:12:12,995 {\an1}- I'm not really sure, like, what I've learned 1989 01:12:13,120 --> 01:12:15,039 {\an1}holistically, like, yet. 1990 01:12:15,206 --> 01:12:16,707 {\an1}[quirky music] 1991 01:12:16,874 --> 01:12:19,877 {\an1}This has been one, like, long, bad first date for me. 1992 01:12:20,002 --> 01:12:22,880 {\an1}[tense music] 1993 01:12:23,005 --> 01:12:24,674 {\an1}- All right. 1994 01:12:24,799 --> 01:12:26,800 {\an1}♪ ♪ 1995 01:12:26,884 --> 01:12:28,719 {\an1}- Awkward. [laughs] 1996 01:12:28,844 --> 01:12:30,388 {\an1}- Number three. 1997 01:12:30,513 --> 01:12:33,224 {\an1}Vacations are all about the memories, 1998 01:12:33,349 --> 01:12:35,809 {\an1}so be daring and step outside your comfort zone. 1999 01:12:35,934 --> 01:12:38,646 {\an1}- Ants. - Mmm. 2000 01:12:38,771 --> 01:12:41,065 {\an1}- Grubs. 2001 01:12:41,190 --> 01:12:42,441 {\an1}And beetles. 2002 01:12:42,567 --> 01:12:44,652 {\an1}- Can I try one? - Yeah, of course you can. 2003 01:12:44,777 --> 01:12:48,573 {\an1}[dramatic music] 2004 01:12:48,698 --> 01:12:49,991 {\an1}- It's sour. - Yeah. 2005 01:12:50,074 --> 01:12:53,160 {\an1}- We just had a little alpaca baby be born. 2006 01:12:53,244 --> 01:12:54,202 {\an1}- Oh, look at that! - Oh, what is that? 2007 01:12:54,327 --> 01:12:55,288 {\an1}- Watch out. Look, look. 2008 01:12:55,371 --> 01:12:57,540 {\an1}Delivering the afterbirth, the placenta. 2009 01:12:57,665 --> 01:13:00,418 {\an1}- Ooh. - Oh, my goodness, God. 2010 01:13:00,501 --> 01:13:02,210 {\an1}- Oh, my God. Be a lady. 2011 01:13:02,335 --> 01:13:04,463 {\an1}No, sorry. I'm joking. 2012 01:13:04,630 --> 01:13:07,133 {\an1}- She's never gonna want to have children now, ever. 2013 01:13:07,258 --> 01:13:07,967 {\an1}That's it. - I'm over here like, 2014 01:13:08,092 --> 01:13:11,762 {\an1}holy [bleep]. [laughter] 2015 01:13:11,888 --> 01:13:12,638 {\an1}- Jeez, man. - It's okay. 2016 01:13:12,722 --> 01:13:15,099 {\an1}He's okay. Walk straight towards me. 2017 01:13:15,224 --> 01:13:16,601 {\an1}- I'm super nervous. 2018 01:13:16,684 --> 01:13:18,311 {\an1}- You're fine. It's all good. 2019 01:13:18,436 --> 01:13:19,645 {\an1}- Never rode a horse before. 2020 01:13:19,770 --> 01:13:20,980 {\an1}I'll try to get on. - All right. 2021 01:13:21,147 --> 01:13:22,189 {\an1}Go ahead. Pull yourself up. 2022 01:13:22,356 --> 01:13:23,733 {\an1}Jump. 2023 01:13:23,858 --> 01:13:25,151 {\an1}Sit. 2024 01:13:25,234 --> 01:13:26,986 {\an1}Look at that. Like a pro. 2025 01:13:27,153 --> 01:13:28,654 {\an1}- Okay. - All right. 2026 01:13:28,779 --> 01:13:29,780 {\an1}- [chuckles] 2027 01:13:29,864 --> 01:13:31,324 {\an1}[calming music] 2028 01:13:31,449 --> 01:13:34,660 {\an1}- Every note represents a different chakra, 2029 01:13:34,785 --> 01:13:37,246 {\an1}so that's what this sound bath is gonna be focusing on. 2030 01:13:37,371 --> 01:13:44,462 {\an1}♪ ♪ 2031 01:13:45,504 --> 01:13:46,964 {\an1}- [whispers] You have a spider on you. 2032 01:13:47,089 --> 01:13:50,134 {\an1}- Huh? Oh, my God. 2033 01:13:50,217 --> 01:13:51,802 {\an1}- Number two. 2034 01:13:51,886 --> 01:13:53,094 {\an1}Include your friends. 2035 01:13:53,219 --> 01:13:55,932 {\an1}Game nights are a great way to get to know people better. 2036 01:13:56,014 --> 01:13:59,059 {\an1}- "Which husband has a fear of balloon animals?" 2037 01:13:59,184 --> 01:14:01,478 {\an1}- We all know that. [laughter] 2038 01:14:01,603 --> 01:14:03,230 {\an1}- Somehow knew this one was coming up. 2039 01:14:03,356 --> 01:14:05,900 {\an1}[laughter] 2040 01:14:06,025 --> 01:14:10,862 {\an1}- Does your husband fold or crumple their toilet paper? 2041 01:14:10,987 --> 01:14:13,157 {\an1}[laughter] 2042 01:14:13,240 --> 01:14:14,532 {\an1}- Fold. - Whoo-hoo! 2043 01:14:14,659 --> 01:14:17,662 {\an1}One point for Henry and Christina! 2044 01:14:17,787 --> 01:14:20,246 {\an1}- Most likely to leave a party early. 2045 01:14:20,373 --> 01:14:21,332 {\an1}- Myrla. - Myrla. 2046 01:14:21,457 --> 01:14:23,334 {\an1}- Myrla. Myrla. 2047 01:14:23,459 --> 01:14:26,045 {\an1}- That is 1,000% accurate. [chuckles] 2048 01:14:26,170 --> 01:14:27,338 {\an1}- Myrla. - Princesa. 2049 01:14:27,463 --> 01:14:30,174 {\an1}Princesita. - Princesa. 2050 01:14:30,341 --> 01:14:31,467 {\an1}- Number one. 2051 01:14:31,592 --> 01:14:35,012 {\an1}You left home for a reason, so relax and unwind. 2052 01:14:35,137 --> 01:14:36,639 {\an1}- Cheers. - Cheers, guys. 2053 01:14:36,764 --> 01:14:38,599 {\an1}- Ooh. - Let the party begin. 2054 01:14:38,724 --> 01:14:40,184 {\an1}- You look like a natural. 2055 01:14:40,351 --> 01:14:43,145 {\an1}[upbeat music] 2056 01:14:43,270 --> 01:14:45,147 {\an1}♪ ♪ 2057 01:14:45,272 --> 01:14:48,109 {\an1}- [laughs] - Oh, he's not playing. 2058 01:14:48,192 --> 01:14:50,068 {\an1}- Ahh! - Whoa! 2059 01:14:50,193 --> 01:14:51,570 {\an1}- Being adventurous with Jon, 2060 01:14:51,696 --> 01:14:54,156 {\an1}that's definitely one of our strong points in our marriage. 2061 01:14:54,281 --> 01:14:56,032 {\an1}- Go! 2062 01:14:56,157 --> 01:15:00,329 {\an1}♪ ♪ 2063 01:15:00,496 --> 01:15:02,123 {\an1}- Here we go. 2064 01:15:02,248 --> 01:15:04,125 {\an1}All right. 2065 01:15:04,208 --> 01:15:05,251 {\an1}This is a dream come true. 2066 01:15:05,334 --> 01:15:07,920 {\an1}♪ ♪ 2067 01:15:08,004 --> 01:15:09,296 {\an1}- Ahh, babe! 2068 01:15:09,380 --> 01:15:11,549 {\an1}- Come on, Michaela, You got this. 2069 01:15:11,674 --> 01:15:12,925 {\an1}all: Oh! - Let's go, Michaela! Let's go! 2070 01:15:13,050 --> 01:15:17,138 {\an1}- This is why I got married--to have these fun, silly moments, 2071 01:15:17,263 --> 01:15:18,889 {\an1}where it's just like, let loose. 2072 01:15:19,014 --> 01:15:21,600 {\an1}Let's just hang out and have a really good time. 2073 01:15:21,726 --> 01:15:25,021 {\an1}- Briana, how do you and Vincent vacation together? 2074 01:15:25,187 --> 01:15:28,023 {\an1}- Oh, my gosh, we love a great, luxurious vacation, 2075 01:15:28,190 --> 01:15:30,526 {\an1}but also, I think just the getaway in general. 2076 01:15:30,651 --> 01:15:33,320 {\an1}So, we have traveled to, like, Aruba. 2077 01:15:33,487 --> 01:15:36,657 {\an1}We'll go to Florida. We'll go to LA. 2078 01:15:36,824 --> 01:15:39,535 {\an1}You know, those--we like to go to the beach, I will say that. 2079 01:15:39,660 --> 01:15:40,661 {\an1}- Yeah, there's a pattern there. 2080 01:15:40,745 --> 01:15:41,662 {\an1}- Yeah. 2081 01:15:41,746 --> 01:15:43,581 {\an1}- Jamie and I-- I'm a huge mountain person. 2082 01:15:43,706 --> 01:15:46,000 {\an1}I love to go hiking and things like that. 2083 01:15:46,166 --> 01:15:46,959 {\an1}I'm really adventurous 2084 01:15:47,084 --> 01:15:49,085 {\an1}and Jamie's more on, like, the chill side, 2085 01:15:49,170 --> 01:15:51,297 {\an1}so, like, we'll have to, like, split vacations, like, where 2086 01:15:51,422 --> 01:15:53,716 {\an1}I'm, like, going and getting us on something adventurous, 2087 01:15:53,841 --> 01:15:55,300 {\an1}and then he's like-- we'll go, like, 2088 01:15:55,425 --> 01:15:57,303 {\an1}do a relaxing vacation the next time. 2089 01:15:57,428 --> 01:15:59,472 {\an1}So, we really just are very considerate 2090 01:15:59,597 --> 01:16:00,723 {\an1}about how we vacation with each other, 2091 01:16:00,848 --> 01:16:03,309 {\an1}'cause we both have two ideas of what vacation is. 2092 01:16:03,476 --> 01:16:04,643 {\an1}- Yeah. - Yeah. 2093 01:16:04,727 --> 01:16:07,813 {\an1}- What is your ultimate dream vacation destination? 2094 01:16:07,938 --> 01:16:10,858 {\an1}- Like, a wellness retreat in Bali, I think. 2095 01:16:11,025 --> 01:16:12,151 {\an1}Just--yeah. 2096 01:16:12,276 --> 01:16:14,612 {\an1}- My dream vacation would be-- 2097 01:16:14,695 --> 01:16:15,612 {\an1}I want to go on Yacht Week. 2098 01:16:15,696 --> 01:16:17,406 {\an1}I want to do Yacht Week, and I just want 2099 01:16:17,531 --> 01:16:20,493 {\an1}to lay out on a yacht and enjoy myself. 2100 01:16:20,618 --> 01:16:21,827 {\an1}- You want to be yacht-rich. 2101 01:16:21,952 --> 01:16:22,995 {\an1}- I get it. - Yeah. Yeah, exactly. 2102 01:16:23,079 --> 01:16:24,455 {\an1}- I totally get it. - Look, we're getting-- 2103 01:16:24,580 --> 01:16:25,998 {\an1}we're gonna get there. - We're gonna get there. 2104 01:16:26,082 --> 01:16:28,541 {\an1}- Well, hopefully we've given you some food for thought 2105 01:16:28,666 --> 01:16:31,003 {\an1}about how to make a marriage last the test of time. 2106 01:16:34,840 --> 01:16:36,550 {\an1}As we reach our last category, 2107 01:16:36,675 --> 01:16:37,468 {\an1}we want to highlight one important step 2108 01:16:37,635 --> 01:16:38,803 {\an1}in the marriage process 2109 01:16:38,928 --> 01:16:41,013 {\an1}that is specific to "Married at First Sight." 2110 01:16:41,138 --> 01:16:44,934 {\an1}Oh, yes, we are talking about Decision Day. 2111 01:16:45,059 --> 01:16:48,020 {\an1}[upbeat music] 2112 01:16:48,145 --> 01:16:50,439 {\an1}Let's reveal the five rules to live by 2113 01:16:50,523 --> 01:16:53,359 {\an1}when Decision Day finally comes around. 2114 01:16:53,526 --> 01:16:55,528 {\an1}Number five. 2115 01:16:55,653 --> 01:16:57,530 {\an1}Now is your chance to propose. 2116 01:16:57,655 --> 01:16:59,657 {\an1}Make it a day you'll both never forget. 2117 01:16:59,782 --> 01:17:01,617 {\an1}- These eight weeks have been 2118 01:17:01,742 --> 01:17:04,036 {\an1}the absolute best eight weeks of my life, 2119 01:17:04,161 --> 01:17:08,499 {\an1}and I want to know if you'll be with me forever. 2120 01:17:08,624 --> 01:17:10,334 {\an1}[tender music] 2121 01:17:10,501 --> 01:17:11,960 {\an1}- Oh, my gosh. 2122 01:17:12,044 --> 01:17:15,589 {\an1}I'm just completely head over heels in love with you. 2123 01:17:15,714 --> 01:17:21,887 {\an1}- ♪ When you finally find the one ♪ 2124 01:17:22,012 --> 01:17:26,809 {\an1}- So, Virginia, will you stay married to me? 2125 01:17:26,892 --> 01:17:28,059 {\an1}♪ ♪ 2126 01:17:28,184 --> 01:17:30,478 {\an1}- Yes, baby. 2127 01:17:30,603 --> 01:17:33,482 {\an1}- You have brought so much joy in my life, 2128 01:17:33,607 --> 01:17:36,986 {\an1}and you're all that I've been missing. 2129 01:17:37,111 --> 01:17:40,614 {\an1}But there's something that I missed. 2130 01:17:40,739 --> 01:17:43,200 {\an1}Briana Myles, will you marry me? 2131 01:17:43,367 --> 01:17:44,827 {\an1}- Oh! Is this cheesecake? - Yes. 2132 01:17:44,994 --> 01:17:48,164 {\an1}- Oh, my God. [laughter] 2133 01:17:48,289 --> 01:17:49,456 {\an1}- Yes! 2134 01:17:49,582 --> 01:17:51,166 {\an1}[laughter] 2135 01:17:51,291 --> 01:17:52,459 {\an1}- Number four. 2136 01:17:52,626 --> 01:17:53,752 {\an1}Be brave. 2137 01:17:53,878 --> 01:17:55,087 {\an1}If you haven't said it yet, 2138 01:17:55,171 --> 01:17:56,338 {\an1}this is a great time 2139 01:17:56,463 --> 01:17:57,423 {\an1}to finally drop the "L" bomb. 2140 01:17:57,548 --> 01:17:59,967 {\an1}- I want to stay married. 2141 01:18:00,092 --> 01:18:03,469 {\an1}- Jess, I truly see you have my back every single day, 2142 01:18:03,596 --> 01:18:05,639 {\an1}and it makes me know that I love you. 2143 01:18:05,764 --> 01:18:08,517 {\an1}- I love you too. - I know. 2144 01:18:08,684 --> 01:18:11,520 {\an1}- Kristine, I can really say that I love you. 2145 01:18:11,645 --> 01:18:13,981 {\an1}♪ ♪ 2146 01:18:14,064 --> 01:18:15,148 {\an1}Are you crying? 2147 01:18:15,273 --> 01:18:16,317 {\an1}- A little bit. 2148 01:18:16,400 --> 01:18:18,152 {\an1}♪ ♪ 2149 01:18:18,235 --> 01:18:21,655 {\an1}- Ashley, I couldn't think of anyone else 2150 01:18:21,780 --> 01:18:24,491 {\an1}I'd rather spend the rest of my life with. 2151 01:18:24,657 --> 01:18:27,494 {\an1}So, Ashley, I love you. - Aww. 2152 01:18:27,577 --> 01:18:29,580 {\an1}- ♪ This love ♪ 2153 01:18:29,705 --> 01:18:32,208 {\an1}- I love you too. 2154 01:18:32,374 --> 01:18:33,709 {\an1}- Number three. 2155 01:18:33,876 --> 01:18:35,920 {\an1}Even though it's a difficult decision, 2156 01:18:36,003 --> 01:18:39,340 {\an1}be prepared to call it quits if you know there's no future. 2157 01:18:39,465 --> 01:18:40,966 {\an1}- Honestly, I'm kind of 2158 01:18:41,091 --> 01:18:47,097 {\an1}just mentally and emotionally overwhelmed. 2159 01:18:47,223 --> 01:18:49,058 {\an1}Just for my emotional and mental health, 2160 01:18:49,183 --> 01:18:55,189 {\an1}I think I need to go ahead and not stay married. 2161 01:18:55,356 --> 01:18:57,273 {\an1}[tense music] 2162 01:18:57,358 --> 01:19:00,945 {\an1}- We've had some good times, 2163 01:19:01,070 --> 01:19:06,325 {\an1}but I would like to get a divorce. 2164 01:19:06,407 --> 01:19:08,077 {\an1}♪ ♪ 2165 01:19:08,202 --> 01:19:09,327 {\an1}- I'm over it. 2166 01:19:09,452 --> 01:19:10,996 {\an1}[sighs] 2167 01:19:11,080 --> 01:19:16,627 {\an1}♪ ♪ 2168 01:19:16,752 --> 01:19:18,754 {\an1}- My answer is no. 2169 01:19:18,879 --> 01:19:21,005 {\an1}I want a divorce. 2170 01:19:21,173 --> 01:19:25,803 {\an1}Because I came into this for commitment and support, 2171 01:19:25,928 --> 01:19:28,472 {\an1}and I don't feel I got it. 2172 01:19:28,639 --> 01:19:29,974 {\an1}- Okay. 2173 01:19:30,057 --> 01:19:31,767 {\an1}♪ ♪ 2174 01:19:31,892 --> 01:19:33,434 {\an1}- Number two. 2175 01:19:33,519 --> 01:19:35,145 {\an1}This is no time for jokes. 2176 01:19:35,312 --> 01:19:37,606 {\an1}Don't take it lightly. 2177 01:19:37,690 --> 01:19:41,485 {\an1}- Woody, I would like to get a divorce. 2178 01:19:41,568 --> 01:19:44,362 {\an1}♪ ♪ 2179 01:19:44,487 --> 01:19:45,281 {\an1}Just kidding. 2180 01:19:45,364 --> 01:19:47,324 {\an1}I want to stay married. - Oh, my gosh. 2181 01:19:47,407 --> 01:19:50,035 {\an1}- You really like to ring his bells, don't you? 2182 01:19:50,160 --> 01:19:52,329 {\an1}Press his buttons? My goodness. - Okay. 2183 01:19:52,454 --> 01:19:53,998 {\an1}- Number one. 2184 01:19:54,081 --> 01:19:56,834 {\an1}Follow your heart if you want it to last. 2185 01:19:56,959 --> 01:20:00,129 {\an1}Commitment is key to any long-term relationship. 2186 01:20:00,254 --> 01:20:03,632 {\an1}- I've seen you be able to trust me and lean on me, 2187 01:20:03,799 --> 01:20:05,800 {\an1}and I want to see, like, what's possible. 2188 01:20:05,925 --> 01:20:07,678 {\an1}- I would like to stay married, 2189 01:20:07,803 --> 01:20:14,268 {\an1}because our marriage just started a few weeks ago 2190 01:20:14,351 --> 01:20:18,230 {\an1}and I'm wanting to explore where that can go. 2191 01:20:18,355 --> 01:20:19,440 {\an1}[tender music] 2192 01:20:19,523 --> 01:20:22,192 {\an1}- Our connection is very genuine. 2193 01:20:22,359 --> 01:20:23,568 {\an1}It's beautiful. 2194 01:20:23,693 --> 01:20:25,362 {\an1}And it's real. 2195 01:20:25,487 --> 01:20:28,532 {\an1}I love our chemistry. 2196 01:20:28,657 --> 01:20:30,826 {\an1}I love who you are as a person. 2197 01:20:30,951 --> 01:20:32,494 {\an1}I love to be around you. 2198 01:20:32,577 --> 01:20:36,707 {\an1}♪ ♪ 2199 01:20:36,832 --> 01:20:42,796 {\an1}- I think that I would be really crazy 2200 01:20:42,880 --> 01:20:45,049 {\an1}if I didn't stay with you, 2201 01:20:45,174 --> 01:20:47,968 {\an1}so I want to stay in this marriage. 2202 01:20:48,093 --> 01:20:51,221 {\an1}- There's too much to throw away. 2203 01:20:51,347 --> 01:20:52,848 {\an1}[dramatic music] 2204 01:20:53,014 --> 01:20:54,975 {\an1}My answer is yes, I want to stay married. 2205 01:20:55,100 --> 01:20:58,103 {\an1}- Congratulations! That's amazing. 2206 01:20:58,187 --> 01:20:59,980 {\an1}- Congratulations. - Yes! 2207 01:21:00,105 --> 01:21:01,231 {\an1}- All right, Briana, 2208 01:21:01,357 --> 01:21:04,276 {\an1}what was the most magical thing about Decision Day? 2209 01:21:04,401 --> 01:21:07,654 {\an1}- Oh, my gosh, Vincent proposed with a cheesecake. 2210 01:21:07,780 --> 01:21:10,907 {\an1}And that is my thing. Like, that's my jam. 2211 01:21:11,032 --> 01:21:13,410 {\an1}- Hey, there's no better way to win a girl's heart 2212 01:21:13,535 --> 01:21:14,827 {\an1}by a whole cheesecake. 2213 01:21:14,952 --> 01:21:16,163 {\an1}I know I couldn't wait 2214 01:21:16,288 --> 01:21:17,915 {\an1}just to, like, scream it to the rooftop, 2215 01:21:18,040 --> 01:21:20,751 {\an1}"Yes! We're gonna stay together!" 2216 01:21:20,876 --> 01:21:23,337 {\an1}- On that note, we've reached the end of the show. 2217 01:21:23,462 --> 01:21:25,130 {\an1}Beth, do you have anything else to add? 2218 01:21:25,255 --> 01:21:26,882 {\an1}- I think, Briana, honestly, 2219 01:21:27,007 --> 01:21:29,675 {\an1}I just really hope that we have inspired 2220 01:21:29,802 --> 01:21:33,555 {\an1}and helped at least one person and one marriage out there. 2221 01:21:33,680 --> 01:21:35,641 {\an1}And that's all that my main goal was. 2222 01:21:35,766 --> 01:21:36,892 {\an1}- I 100% agree. 2223 01:21:37,017 --> 01:21:38,811 {\an1}I'd say we know a thing or two 2224 01:21:38,936 --> 01:21:40,646 {\an1}about the dos and the don'ts of marriage. 2225 01:21:40,813 --> 01:21:41,855 {\an1}- I would have to agree. 2226 01:21:41,980 --> 01:21:44,148 {\an1}And to be honest, I would take advice from us. 2227 01:21:44,233 --> 01:21:45,734 {\an1}- Oh, yeah. Most definitely. 2228 01:21:45,859 --> 01:21:47,611 {\an1}We hope everyone enjoyed the show. 2229 01:21:47,693 --> 01:21:49,780 {\an1}Good night, everyone. - Night. 2230 01:21:49,862 --> 01:21:52,366 {\an1}♪ ♪