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[dramatic music]
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- This is the biggest day
of my entire life.
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- [exhales sharply]
cool.
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Okay, keep it together.
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- I'm all of a sudden,
like, super [bleep] nervous.
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- ♪ I am feeling nauseous ♪
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- Ooh, gotta try not to crack.
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♪ ♪
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- Did I do the right thing?
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- We are back at the start
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Of a new
"married at first sight"
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Season in san diego.
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- ♪ it's your wedding day ♪
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♪ it's your wedding day, hey ♪
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- After an extensive
matchmaking process,
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The "married at first sight"
experts have carefully matched
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Five couples that will put
their hearts on the line
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In order to find love...
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- My hands are shaking.
My heart is pumping.
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- And marry
a complete stranger.
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- [groaning]
I just want to meet him.
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- I'm insane.
I'm nuts.
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I'm nuts.
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- Tonight, we'll get to know
all five san diego couples
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Even better
as we explore who they are
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And what makes them tick.
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- I'm the life of the party.
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- I played semi-pro football.
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- I'm looking
for a mental connection.
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They only want to see
if I'm packing or not.
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- We'll predict which matches
will have a bright future...
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- I think they're cute
as a couple.
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- This love will work.
This love is alive.
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- It's hot people, hot weather.
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- And which ones will
fail to find a spark.
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- Absolutely not.
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- This is a sorority girl.
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This woman is not
a low maintenance woman.
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- We'll have some
exclusive sneak peeks
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From the upcoming season...
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- Whoo!
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- That's what
I'm talking about.
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Come on, get comfy, baby.
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- We're gonna
get married today.
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Oh, I've never met him.
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- Wow.
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- I was like, oh, god, I just
want to fall out the seat.
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And we'll be joined
by some very special guests
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That you do not want to miss.
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Are y'all dating yet?
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- Whatever your gut
tells you, go with it.
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- Could there be a romantic
future for you and lindsey?
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- Um...
- We're here now.
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Let's go.
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In just one week,
the weddings will begin.
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- Whoo-hoo!
- Let's get married!
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- I have a lot to offer,
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And I deserve
to be somebody's husband.
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I genuinely hope
this is my person.
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- [bleep]
[laughs]
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This could be
the worst decision of my life.
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- Getting realer
and realer by the second.
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- This is ridiculous.
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- Would you please stand?
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- What the [bleep] am I doing?
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- Babe?
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Where art thou?
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- [sobbing]
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- Oh, don't cry, baby.
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- ♪ it's all or nothing ♪
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- The "married at first sight"
san diego kickoff special
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Starts now.
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- ♪ no other way ♪
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♪ it's all or nothing ♪
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- Hello, everyone,
I'm kevin frazier,
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And we are here tonight
for the kickoff special
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Of "married at first sight"
in san diego.
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Now, this is going
to be a great night.
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We're gonna take a deep dive
into each of the new couples
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And discuss everything.
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And when I say everything,
I mean everything...
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- Mm-hmm.
- There is to know about them.
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We're gonna get you all set.
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And now, here to help me
dissect these matches
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And predict if they will
make it past decision day,
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I have my returning panelists
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And "married at first sight"
aficionados,
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As I like to call them,
in the house.
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Let's give a big hello
to senior entertainment writer
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For "variety,"
angelique jackson,
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Senior director
of entertainment partnerships,
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"essence," nicole haynes,
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And creator
of the youtube channel
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"from rizzo with love,"
donna rizzo.
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I just got to ask y'all,
can you believe
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That we are here again
at the start of another season?
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- Listen.
[sighs]
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Recovering
from last season still.
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It's so stressful
to see all these couples
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Go through all this drama
throughout the season.
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- You have boston ptsd.
- Ptsd, yes.
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- Yeah, get used to it, girl.
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- It's a thing. It's a thing.
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- How do you feel about
the location of san diego?
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Because when I hear san diego,
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I think of beautiful people,
beautiful beaches...
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- Oh, yeah.
- Beautiful weather, right?
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- You know, it's california.
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I'm so excited we're finally
on the west coast, west side.
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- Now, that one--okay, okay.
[laughter]
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- I mean--
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- You know,
I'm a west coast girl.
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- I know.
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- I'm so excited
that we're finally
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Out here living the cali life.
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- Listen, I'm ready
for, like, a season of love,
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A season of zen.
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I mean,
it's hot people, hot weather.
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I want this to work out.
I don't want hot tempers.
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- Oh, you don't want hot mess
is what you're saying.
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- Yes.
- Hot people, no hot messes.
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All right, you all saw
the matchmaking special.
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What are your thoughts
about these ten hopefuls?
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- You know, everybody
seems pretty zen right now,
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Flip-flop-ish,
you know, by the beach.
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But doesn't it always
start out like this?
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- Right, it always starts out
love and happiness, doesn't it?
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- Boom, flips up.
- Right, and then boom.
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- I like that people are
a little older this season.
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I think that it is
always nice to see
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Some kind of, like, later 30s.
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We've got a 40-plus this time.
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You know, maybe we're
into some stability.
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- But is that bad
because people
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Are already set in their ways?
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- It could be.
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- That's what I was gonna say
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Because it's hard
to be malleable.
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- Okay.
- So we'll see.
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- Well,
here's a question, nicole.
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Whose relationship are you
excited to see unfold?
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- Well, you know,
I am 6 feet tall.
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So I'm going
with my amazonian couple.
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- Yes!
[laughter]
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- And we call 'em aj,
alexis and justin.
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She brings a lot of energy.
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She brings a lot of excitement.
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And I want to see how his 6'8"
physique handles all of that.
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- You know,
this is interesting
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Because she reminds me
a little bit of you.
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- You know, I saw a little bit
of me in her too.
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- Okay, that's what
I was gonna say.
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All right, all right.
- I wasn't mad at it.
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I'm not mad at it.
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So I just want
to see how they unfold.
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And I want to, you know,
see how he handles all--
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Because she's bringing a lot.
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- Oh, there's a lot of heat.
- She's bringing a whole lot.
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- I hope he's ready.
- I think he better buckle up.
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- Yeah.
- It's about to be a ride.
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- What couple, donna,
are you excited to see?
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- Our girl stacia and nate,
two independent,
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Very independent people
who aren't used to walking
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To anyone else's beat.
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I don't know if you can come
together and make it work.
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- I mean,
those are, I think,
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The two most explosive couples.
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I'm excited to see
what happens with somebody
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Like a krysten and mitch.
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I think that they're
a really well matched couple.
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- I agree.
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- Listen, she has fire in her.
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But I don't think he's gonna
bring her to that point.
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I think that they're gonna be--
some nice love there.
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Maybe they'll be kind
of like the adults
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Of the group kind of helping
mentor everybody else.
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- All right,
let me just tell you this,
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We're gonna talk
about all these couples
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Throughout the course
of the night.
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Now, before we start,
I just want to remind everyone
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That this beautiful trophy
that's sitting right here
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In the middle of a table,
it's up for grabs for whoever
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Gets the most predictions right
on which couples will
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Stay married or get divorced
on decision day
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Will be declared the winner.
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Later tonight, we will go over
our predictions from boston.
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Do y'all remember
your predictions?
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- No.
- Okay.
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- [laughs]
- they were bad.
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- I remember
there was predictions.
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- And someone will
get to take home that trophy.
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There's a clear winner
in the room.
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All right, let's kick things
off with our first couple,
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Alexis and justin.
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[upbeat music]
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Tired of both being
objectified in their past,
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Alexis and justin are in search
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Of a deep
and meaningful relationship,
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One that is built on attraction
to personality over looks.
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Let's watch.
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- I want a man.
Ooh, I want a man.
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I am an old-school lover.
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I love hard.
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I'm just genuine, like,
what you see is what you get.
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And I'm like that
from day one.
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- I'm a leader.
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I'm family-oriented.
I'm me.
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I'm not who society
wants me to be.
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I want somebody who's just
comfortable in their own skin,
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Somebody that's gonna love me.
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- I've always been
a girlfriend girl.
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I've been a girlfriend
five years here,
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Four years here,
three years there.
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And I just feel like
I keep dating the same guy,
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Just different names.
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- I think the reason I'm single
is I feel like the women
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That I keep meeting go
to the next best thing.
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I'm tired of giving pieces
of myself to women.
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I want to feel connected
to that person
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So I feel secure
in my relationship,
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And I don't have to question
where I stand with you,
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Oh, you got my heart, girl.
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- I like someone
who's athletic for sure.
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I just--I love
that about a man.
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I really love sports.
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I played semi-pro football.
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- Wow.
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- Look, let me just--
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[laughs]
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- Okay, I'm nervous.
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- As far
as physical characteristics,
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Tall, tall, tall, tall.
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Please, tall.
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Please, please, please, tall.
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Please.
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Please.
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- I've literally done
everything I've wanted to do,
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And I'm at that point
in my life
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Where I want to share
my time with someone.
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I feel like I've lived my life
the way I want to alone,
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But I'm ready to do it
with someone else now.
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[soft music]
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- ♪ are you down
with a little love? ♪
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♪ one kiss, and it's obvious ♪
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- I've always been,
like, a free spirit,
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But I feel like going
head-first and committing
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Is what I need because I don't
need any, like, what-ifs.
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It's just like
I know why we're here.
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We're here to get married.
250
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- Will this
be the first wedding
251
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We had to have a custom tuxedo
in "married at first sight"?
252
00:08:34,756 --> 00:08:36,239
- Right.
- Absolutely.
253
00:08:36,332 --> 00:08:38,499
- Because, look,
alexis wanted a tall guy.
254
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She got justin at 6'8".
255
00:08:40,187 --> 00:08:41,594
- Hello.
256
00:08:41,688 --> 00:08:45,081
- Will these two be
attracted to each other?
257
00:08:45,174 --> 00:08:47,250
- Well,
they're both, you know,
258
00:08:47,269 --> 00:08:48,585
Not focused on the physical.
259
00:08:48,603 --> 00:08:50,011
It's more of the mental--
260
00:08:50,030 --> 00:08:52,088
- No, no, will these two--
see, everybody says this.
261
00:08:52,107 --> 00:08:53,681
And this is my favorite
part of the show.
262
00:08:53,775 --> 00:08:55,534
When everybody walks in,
they're like,
263
00:08:55,685 --> 00:08:56,943
"I want this,
and I want that."
264
00:08:57,095 --> 00:08:58,595
And then they walk out,
and they're like,
265
00:08:58,613 --> 00:09:00,096
"I just wasn't attracted
to her."
266
00:09:00,189 --> 00:09:02,207
So let's get back
to what really matters
267
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Because we know
it matters on this show.
268
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Will they be attracted
to each other?
269
00:09:05,937 --> 00:09:07,437
- I say, yes,
and she's gonna see his height
270
00:09:07,530 --> 00:09:09,272
And automatically
be attracted.
271
00:09:09,365 --> 00:09:11,198
He's gonna see her
on the wedding day.
272
00:09:11,218 --> 00:09:12,792
She looked gorgeous--
we saw the package.
273
00:09:12,886 --> 00:09:14,110
He's gonna be attracted.
274
00:09:14,203 --> 00:09:16,871
- Okay, what do you think
of this match?
275
00:09:16,965 --> 00:09:20,225
- I think that it's really cool
to see that justin is someone
276
00:09:20,452 --> 00:09:22,635
Who actually understands
and really seems
277
00:09:22,788 --> 00:09:25,880
To get the work that is needed
in terms of communication.
278
00:09:25,974 --> 00:09:28,291
- I'm on the fence about it.
279
00:09:28,384 --> 00:09:30,460
I want them to work.
I really do.
280
00:09:30,478 --> 00:09:32,796
The thing about her is,
she's probably been
281
00:09:32,814 --> 00:09:35,148
Picking the same type of guy,
which is the linebacker.
282
00:09:35,300 --> 00:09:37,075
- You want linebacker-type?
283
00:09:37,302 --> 00:09:38,818
- Yeah.
- [sighs]
284
00:09:38,912 --> 00:09:42,063
I don't know how many tall,
huge people--
285
00:09:42,157 --> 00:09:43,640
- That's fair.
My thing is--
286
00:09:43,658 --> 00:09:44,824
- You know what I'm saying?
287
00:09:44,976 --> 00:09:45,900
- I'm really flexible.
- You are?
288
00:09:45,994 --> 00:09:47,735
Are you flexible?
- I am.
289
00:09:47,829 --> 00:09:49,312
- Okay, because--
- except the height.
290
00:09:49,405 --> 00:09:51,405
- He's the complete opposite
of that.
291
00:09:51,425 --> 00:09:52,999
- That's an interesting point.
292
00:09:53,151 --> 00:09:54,818
- And she said she wanted
to go in a different direction.
293
00:09:54,911 --> 00:09:57,337
So they matched her
with the tall guy,
294
00:09:57,489 --> 00:09:59,413
But he's understanding.
295
00:09:59,507 --> 00:10:01,248
He's a communicator.
296
00:10:01,343 --> 00:10:03,935
He's a nurturer.
He's a lover.
297
00:10:04,162 --> 00:10:05,937
And he just wants
to take care of his family.
298
00:10:06,164 --> 00:10:09,515
So I think it would
be her changing the way
299
00:10:09,610 --> 00:10:12,669
Of thinking for her to be open
to this type of dude.
300
00:10:12,687 --> 00:10:14,504
- And I think she is, right?
301
00:10:14,597 --> 00:10:16,005
Because she was
essentially like,
302
00:10:16,099 --> 00:10:18,524
"I was expecting
everything to be perfect,
303
00:10:18,619 --> 00:10:21,344
"and now I realize, okay, it's
not this image that I have,
304
00:10:21,437 --> 00:10:23,346
And I can work
with the person."
305
00:10:23,439 --> 00:10:25,515
So I think she's willing
to work with him,
306
00:10:25,608 --> 00:10:28,017
And he just wants
a marriage by any means,
307
00:10:28,036 --> 00:10:29,610
So he's going to work with her.
308
00:10:29,630 --> 00:10:32,947
- I was almost married once
about 4 1/2 years ago.
309
00:10:33,041 --> 00:10:35,041
We split literally one month
before our wedding.
310
00:10:35,193 --> 00:10:36,784
It just didn't work out.
311
00:10:36,803 --> 00:10:38,303
And I really had
the opportunity
312
00:10:38,530 --> 00:10:40,546
To rediscover the person
that I wanted to become.
313
00:10:40,641 --> 00:10:42,807
- Oh, yeah, he's been wanting
to be married forever.
314
00:10:42,959 --> 00:10:43,883
- For four years,
he's been ready.
315
00:10:43,977 --> 00:10:45,459
- Yes.
- Yeah.
316
00:10:45,479 --> 00:10:48,037
- Okay, she has been
engaged three times--
317
00:10:48,131 --> 00:10:49,296
- No, not engaged.
- Proposed to.
318
00:10:49,391 --> 00:10:50,707
- Proposed to.
- Proposed to.
319
00:10:50,800 --> 00:10:52,558
- I'm sorry.
Proposed to three times.
320
00:10:52,653 --> 00:10:54,468
What does that tell you?
321
00:10:54,488 --> 00:10:55,895
- She's a girl that guys want.
322
00:10:55,989 --> 00:10:57,213
Those type of guys,
those linebacker guys,
323
00:10:57,306 --> 00:10:58,657
They want to have
sports babies.
324
00:10:58,808 --> 00:10:59,883
- You know what?
325
00:10:59,976 --> 00:11:01,050
That's interesting
you say that.
326
00:11:01,144 --> 00:11:02,218
If you're proposed to
three times,
327
00:11:02,237 --> 00:11:03,736
You are very desirable.
328
00:11:03,889 --> 00:11:08,149
And you are you are
exhibiting habits and traits
329
00:11:08,168 --> 00:11:11,318
That make men want
to lock you down.
330
00:11:11,413 --> 00:11:12,912
- Oh, yeah, she's total
wifey material in all ways.
331
00:11:13,064 --> 00:11:15,156
- I agree, I agree.
332
00:11:15,175 --> 00:11:17,400
- These athletic men
want athletic babies.
333
00:11:17,419 --> 00:11:18,751
- Did you see her
throw the football?
334
00:11:18,845 --> 00:11:20,494
- Yeah, tight spiral.
335
00:11:20,514 --> 00:11:22,422
- Let me just tell you,
you know, as a former athlete,
336
00:11:22,574 --> 00:11:25,684
A 6-foot woman, I mean,
the men are like,
337
00:11:25,835 --> 00:11:28,578
Athletic kids, superstars.
338
00:11:28,596 --> 00:11:30,021
I mean, she's totally outgoing.
339
00:11:30,173 --> 00:11:31,748
She seems like
you walk in a room,
340
00:11:31,766 --> 00:11:33,525
And she wants
to be friends with everybody.
341
00:11:33,676 --> 00:11:35,509
I think the key
for her is stability.
342
00:11:35,603 --> 00:11:37,270
I want her to be happy.
343
00:11:37,364 --> 00:11:39,346
So I'm hoping that he can bring
everything that she needs.
344
00:11:39,366 --> 00:11:41,182
- We do.
345
00:11:41,276 --> 00:11:42,850
I think if there is a joy and
a light that we see with her...
346
00:11:42,944 --> 00:11:44,703
Both: Yeah.
- And we want her to win.
347
00:11:44,854 --> 00:11:48,022
Now, justin says he needs
a woman who will hype him up,
348
00:11:48,116 --> 00:11:50,099
Be his cheerleader.
349
00:11:50,118 --> 00:11:52,769
- What brings out the best in
you in a woman's personality?
350
00:11:52,787 --> 00:11:56,456
- Oh, what brings
out the best in me?
351
00:11:56,550 --> 00:12:00,051
You know, encouraging words,
like hyping me up.
352
00:12:00,203 --> 00:12:01,886
You know, even if it's
not gonna go in my way,
353
00:12:02,113 --> 00:12:03,279
Hype me up.
354
00:12:03,298 --> 00:12:04,797
That brings the best out of me.
355
00:12:04,950 --> 00:12:06,725
So I'm just like, I'm going
in with a different mindset.
356
00:12:06,876 --> 00:12:09,802
It's like I got my cheerleaders
and my squad on the sideline.
357
00:12:09,955 --> 00:12:11,287
They got me.
That's what get me.
358
00:12:11,380 --> 00:12:12,546
It's simple,
but it's hard to do.
359
00:12:12,566 --> 00:12:15,382
Hype me up.
You know, that's what gets me.
360
00:12:15,477 --> 00:12:17,810
- Now, this is
where I get concerned
361
00:12:17,963 --> 00:12:19,237
About this relationship
362
00:12:19,464 --> 00:12:22,315
Because once again,
alexis says, "I want a man."
363
00:12:22,409 --> 00:12:24,409
I don't think she wants
to have to, you know, get up
364
00:12:24,636 --> 00:12:26,578
Every morning and be like,
"baby, you are great.
365
00:12:26,729 --> 00:12:28,562
Hercules, hercules,
hercules, hercules, hercules."
366
00:12:28,582 --> 00:12:30,915
- But I think that's
naturally who she is, though.
367
00:12:31,142 --> 00:12:33,901
I mean, so if she's not
having to overdo it,
368
00:12:33,995 --> 00:12:35,311
Then it'll be okay.
369
00:12:35,330 --> 00:12:36,737
It's just gonna be
a situation with like,
370
00:12:36,757 --> 00:12:39,665
If it gets to be too much,
if he can't do anything
371
00:12:39,818 --> 00:12:41,834
Without, you know,
a constant hand-holding,
372
00:12:41,987 --> 00:12:43,486
She gon' be like, okay.
373
00:12:43,579 --> 00:12:44,821
- Mm-hmm.
- All right, look.
374
00:12:44,914 --> 00:12:46,247
I have a little clip
I want to play
375
00:12:46,341 --> 00:12:48,491
Of justin's interview
during the matchmaking process
376
00:12:48,584 --> 00:12:49,842
With pastor cal
that will give you
377
00:12:49,936 --> 00:12:52,011
A little more insight
into who justin is.
378
00:12:52,163 --> 00:12:54,497
Just watch.
379
00:12:54,516 --> 00:12:56,441
- You know,
what I'm dealing with is,
380
00:12:56,668 --> 00:13:00,278
I'm looked at
like a piece of meat.
381
00:13:00,429 --> 00:13:01,428
- Okay, okay.
- I'm so serious.
382
00:13:01,523 --> 00:13:03,006
- Hold up, hold up.
383
00:13:03,024 --> 00:13:05,024
They look at you
like a piece of meat.
384
00:13:05,176 --> 00:13:06,692
- Yes.
- Explain.
385
00:13:06,787 --> 00:13:08,453
- They love my height.
386
00:13:08,604 --> 00:13:09,862
You know, and when
I connect with them,
387
00:13:10,015 --> 00:13:11,180
I realize, you know,
388
00:13:11,274 --> 00:13:12,940
I'm looking
for a mental connection.
389
00:13:13,034 --> 00:13:14,851
- Right.
- And they're not.
390
00:13:14,869 --> 00:13:17,295
They only want to see
if I'm packing or not.
391
00:13:19,282 --> 00:13:20,799
- Stop.
- So serious.
392
00:13:21,026 --> 00:13:24,377
- Usually, they just want
to know whether you're packing?
393
00:13:24,529 --> 00:13:26,362
[chuckles]
- I'm serious.
394
00:13:26,381 --> 00:13:28,031
They really want one thing.
395
00:13:28,124 --> 00:13:29,307
You know,
and then that's what--
396
00:13:29,534 --> 00:13:31,701
- So they want to bed you.
- They want to bed me.
397
00:13:31,794 --> 00:13:35,480
And it's frustrating--
- poor guy.
398
00:13:35,631 --> 00:13:40,209
- My friends say
that's a great problem to have,
399
00:13:40,228 --> 00:13:42,469
But sexual intimacy
is only good for me
400
00:13:42,564 --> 00:13:43,988
If there's a mental connection.
401
00:13:44,140 --> 00:13:45,565
I want to feel connected
to that person,
402
00:13:45,659 --> 00:13:48,401
So I've been celibate for
a year and a half by choice.
403
00:13:48,553 --> 00:13:50,403
- Okay, I can respect that.
404
00:13:50,497 --> 00:13:53,056
I respect that.
405
00:13:53,074 --> 00:13:55,816
- I guess
he's been driven to celibacy
406
00:13:55,910 --> 00:13:57,168
By those women out there.
407
00:13:57,320 --> 00:13:58,152
- How dare they?
- Oh, evil women.
408
00:13:58,171 --> 00:13:59,579
- How dare you, women?
409
00:13:59,731 --> 00:14:01,080
- But you know what?
410
00:14:01,174 --> 00:14:03,157
- How dare you women out there
sexualize this man?
411
00:14:03,176 --> 00:14:04,325
- You know what?
412
00:14:04,344 --> 00:14:05,510
I think what part
of the problem is,
413
00:14:05,737 --> 00:14:09,589
He might run into
like my smalls right here.
414
00:14:09,741 --> 00:14:11,332
- My smalls.
415
00:14:11,351 --> 00:14:13,500
- And when they stand up,
his crotch is right there.
416
00:14:13,595 --> 00:14:15,078
So they may not even--
[laughs]
417
00:14:15,171 --> 00:14:16,913
- She said my smalls.
- Be doing it on purpose.
418
00:14:16,931 --> 00:14:19,082
- She called them my smalls.
419
00:14:19,175 --> 00:14:21,342
Okay, donna,
do you feel bad for him?
420
00:14:21,361 --> 00:14:23,027
- No.
421
00:14:23,254 --> 00:14:25,846
Do you know how many
small men would want
422
00:14:25,866 --> 00:14:27,348
To be in his shoes right now?
423
00:14:27,367 --> 00:14:28,867
Live your life, king.
424
00:14:29,094 --> 00:14:30,201
- But you know what?
425
00:14:30,428 --> 00:14:32,704
He's more of a cerebral type
of individual.
426
00:14:32,855 --> 00:14:35,781
So you know,
this objectifying him
427
00:14:35,934 --> 00:14:37,542
Without connecting
with him first
428
00:14:37,693 --> 00:14:39,210
Is probably not his thing.
429
00:14:39,362 --> 00:14:40,770
- Hold on.
430
00:14:40,863 --> 00:14:42,271
There's something
we're missing here
431
00:14:42,290 --> 00:14:45,108
Because having been a man
all my life, I don't think--
432
00:14:45,126 --> 00:14:46,626
- You bring a
different perspective.
433
00:14:46,720 --> 00:14:48,111
- I don't think
that there's a lot of guys
434
00:14:48,204 --> 00:14:49,203
Who go like,
"I went to the club--"
435
00:14:49,297 --> 00:14:50,630
- "they're looking at me."
436
00:14:50,782 --> 00:14:51,781
- "and somebody wanna
go home with me again.
437
00:14:51,799 --> 00:14:53,040
"they keep looking at me.
438
00:14:53,134 --> 00:14:54,726
I just want her to come over--"
439
00:14:54,953 --> 00:14:55,952
- "I wish she would
talk to me."
440
00:14:55,970 --> 00:14:57,562
- "talk to me."
- but you know what?
441
00:14:57,789 --> 00:14:59,305
He's a relationship
kind of guy.
442
00:14:59,457 --> 00:15:00,547
He might be tired
of the one-night stand.
443
00:15:00,567 --> 00:15:01,900
- He said it.
444
00:15:02,127 --> 00:15:04,385
He said he doesn't like
the one-night stand.
445
00:15:04,404 --> 00:15:07,054
- Justin wants to feel valued
for his personality,
446
00:15:07,073 --> 00:15:08,297
Not his body.
447
00:15:08,316 --> 00:15:10,633
Will alexis
give him that validation,
448
00:15:10,652 --> 00:15:12,226
Do you believe?
449
00:15:12,320 --> 00:15:14,654
- I think the thing for her
will be their connection.
450
00:15:14,806 --> 00:15:18,416
If he can keep up with her
enough to keep her interested,
451
00:15:18,567 --> 00:15:19,809
If he can
keep her interested...
452
00:15:19,902 --> 00:15:21,402
- Right, right, right, right.
453
00:15:21,421 --> 00:15:22,979
- Then I think everything
else will fall into place.
454
00:15:23,072 --> 00:15:24,088
- Because he's gonna
be interested.
455
00:15:24,315 --> 00:15:25,256
- Oh, yeah.
456
00:15:25,408 --> 00:15:26,482
- There's no question
in my mind.
457
00:15:26,575 --> 00:15:27,408
- Do you think
they will have sex
458
00:15:27,427 --> 00:15:29,152
Sooner than eight weeks?
459
00:15:29,170 --> 00:15:30,595
- Um...
460
00:15:30,746 --> 00:15:32,096
- Yeah, I give it
like two weeks in.
461
00:15:32,323 --> 00:15:33,656
- Oh, I'm going a little
bit longer than two weeks.
462
00:15:33,675 --> 00:15:34,840
- You think?
- Yeah.
463
00:15:34,993 --> 00:15:36,342
I think they need
to connect first.
464
00:15:36,494 --> 00:15:38,770
She needs to feel
comfortable with this shift
465
00:15:38,997 --> 00:15:40,997
In type of guy
she's dealing with
466
00:15:41,015 --> 00:15:43,775
And understand that he's
probably a good thing for her.
467
00:15:44,002 --> 00:15:46,760
And he needs to be comfortable,
connect with her.
468
00:15:46,780 --> 00:15:49,355
So it'll happen, but later on.
469
00:15:49,449 --> 00:15:53,509
- I think it's gonna take
the experts sex kind of visit
470
00:15:53,528 --> 00:15:55,602
For them both say like,
"oh, I want this.
471
00:15:55,697 --> 00:15:56,937
"you want this?
Oh, I'm comfortable.
472
00:15:57,031 --> 00:15:57,956
I'm connected."
473
00:15:58,107 --> 00:15:59,457
And then that night, boom.
474
00:16:03,779 --> 00:16:05,037
I am kevin frazier.
475
00:16:05,190 --> 00:16:06,522
I'm joined by my panel,
my team, my squad,
476
00:16:06,615 --> 00:16:08,299
Angelique jackson,
nicole haynes,
477
00:16:08,451 --> 00:16:10,451
And donna rizzo.
478
00:16:10,470 --> 00:16:12,028
Things are just
getting started,
479
00:16:12,046 --> 00:16:14,030
And we have got
a lot more to cover
480
00:16:14,123 --> 00:16:15,956
As we break down
each and every one
481
00:16:16,050 --> 00:16:17,700
Of the san diego couples.
482
00:16:17,793 --> 00:16:20,219
We're about to be joined though
by one of our favorite couples
483
00:16:20,371 --> 00:16:21,646
From last season in boston.
484
00:16:21,797 --> 00:16:25,224
The last time I saw them,
there was a new proposal
485
00:16:25,318 --> 00:16:26,467
And a huge ring.
486
00:16:26,486 --> 00:16:30,229
Let's welcome
katina and olajuwon.
487
00:16:30,381 --> 00:16:32,156
Hey, y'all, what's going on?
- Hey, hey!
488
00:16:32,308 --> 00:16:33,899
[laughter]
489
00:16:34,052 --> 00:16:35,994
- What is up?
How are you doing, katina?
490
00:16:36,145 --> 00:16:37,311
- How are you?
- Good to see you.
491
00:16:37,330 --> 00:16:38,496
How've you been?
- Hello, I'm great.
492
00:16:38,647 --> 00:16:40,498
- Good, good, good.
My man, my man, my man.
493
00:16:40,649 --> 00:16:42,483
- How you doing, big man?
- You've been working out, huh?
494
00:16:42,502 --> 00:16:44,227
You still in the gym, huh?
- Yeah.
495
00:16:44,245 --> 00:16:45,986
- He's still in the gym,
getting it in.
496
00:16:46,006 --> 00:16:47,747
- Swole.
- Okay, yeah, right.
497
00:16:47,899 --> 00:16:49,749
- Swole, yes.
- [laughs]
498
00:16:49,901 --> 00:16:51,325
- So what's new with you two?
499
00:16:51,344 --> 00:16:54,403
- Right now, we've just been
enjoying living together.
500
00:16:54,422 --> 00:16:56,830
And he's trying
to convince us to get a pet.
501
00:16:56,924 --> 00:16:58,424
What did you want, a cat?
502
00:16:58,518 --> 00:17:00,167
- Well, first,
we start off with a ferret.
503
00:17:00,261 --> 00:17:01,260
But too many people say--
504
00:17:01,412 --> 00:17:02,578
- You're not gonna
get a ferret.
505
00:17:02,597 --> 00:17:04,247
- No, too many people
say they stink.
506
00:17:04,340 --> 00:17:06,858
So a dog's too much
of a responsibility for us
507
00:17:07,009 --> 00:17:08,192
Because we do a lot
of traveling.
508
00:17:08,344 --> 00:17:09,752
- Traveling and stuff.
509
00:17:09,771 --> 00:17:11,087
Find a baby sitter
for the dog and stuff.
510
00:17:11,105 --> 00:17:12,438
- We're going to panama
in like two weeks.
511
00:17:12,590 --> 00:17:13,847
- In a couple weeks, yeah.
512
00:17:13,867 --> 00:17:15,091
- Oh, so y'all are
all over the place.
513
00:17:15,109 --> 00:17:16,092
- Yeah, yeah.
- Yeah.
514
00:17:16,185 --> 00:17:17,109
- We're living.
We're living.
515
00:17:17,262 --> 00:17:18,185
- How is that traveling,
516
00:17:18,204 --> 00:17:19,445
Getting to know
each other like?
517
00:17:19,539 --> 00:17:20,930
What have you learned more
about each other?
518
00:17:20,948 --> 00:17:23,023
- Since the show ended,
kev, I say,
519
00:17:23,043 --> 00:17:25,434
Marriage is nothing
like any relationship.
520
00:17:25,528 --> 00:17:26,619
It changes you.
It really does.
521
00:17:26,771 --> 00:17:28,120
You have to say, every day,
522
00:17:28,273 --> 00:17:30,364
I'ma work harder,
harder, harder.
523
00:17:30,383 --> 00:17:31,957
It makes you a better person.
524
00:17:32,110 --> 00:17:33,367
I was a kid when I met her.
525
00:17:33,461 --> 00:17:34,777
I am a man now.
526
00:17:34,870 --> 00:17:36,387
Our love, every time
I think we reached
527
00:17:36,539 --> 00:17:39,965
Our maximum capacity of love,
it's just, we go somewhere,
528
00:17:40,060 --> 00:17:41,450
We try something new,
529
00:17:41,469 --> 00:17:43,119
And it's--she opens
my world again.
530
00:17:43,137 --> 00:17:45,212
I love this woman to death.
531
00:17:45,231 --> 00:17:46,972
Because my whole life,
I had people give up on me,
532
00:17:47,125 --> 00:17:48,974
So I could say
she's truly the first person
533
00:17:49,069 --> 00:17:50,976
Who's not blood-related
who's never given up on me.
534
00:17:51,071 --> 00:17:52,719
- I love that.
535
00:17:52,739 --> 00:17:54,054
Can we talk
about the baby timeline?
536
00:17:54,148 --> 00:17:55,798
How's that going?
537
00:17:55,817 --> 00:17:56,982
[tense music]
538
00:17:57,135 --> 00:17:59,635
- Oh, so babies, um--
539
00:17:59,654 --> 00:18:02,080
- What was that look for?
What was that, like, oh?
540
00:18:02,231 --> 00:18:05,141
- Babies are on hold.
541
00:18:05,159 --> 00:18:08,235
I'm not looking
to be pregnant any time soon.
542
00:18:08,254 --> 00:18:11,238
So definitely,
I know we're going through--
543
00:18:11,332 --> 00:18:12,590
We said a couple years.
544
00:18:12,817 --> 00:18:14,984
So I'm adding a couple
more years on top of that.
545
00:18:15,077 --> 00:18:17,595
- Looking back, what was
the best part of this--
546
00:18:17,822 --> 00:18:19,597
Your favorite part
of this process?
547
00:18:19,748 --> 00:18:23,659
- My favorite part,
I would say just meeting you.
548
00:18:23,752 --> 00:18:25,252
That was my favorite part.
549
00:18:25,271 --> 00:18:26,604
- What does that mean to you?
550
00:18:26,831 --> 00:18:28,255
- Man, kev is trying
to get me--you want
551
00:18:28,274 --> 00:18:29,607
To get me teary eyed
out here, man.
552
00:18:29,758 --> 00:18:31,517
- No, I mean, honestly,
I see the way you look
553
00:18:31,669 --> 00:18:32,852
At her and the way you feel.
554
00:18:33,004 --> 00:18:34,445
What does that mean, you know?
- It's real.
555
00:18:34,597 --> 00:18:35,838
It's authentic, kev.
556
00:18:35,857 --> 00:18:37,931
I've been with so many--
you guys already know.
557
00:18:37,951 --> 00:18:39,766
I mean,
so many people in my life,
558
00:18:39,786 --> 00:18:42,678
And I would--if I had
to do it all again,
559
00:18:42,697 --> 00:18:44,363
Kev, to find true love,
I would do it again
560
00:18:44,457 --> 00:18:46,940
In a heartbeat.
561
00:18:46,960 --> 00:18:50,186
I'll never forget the first day
I laid eyes on katina,
562
00:18:50,204 --> 00:18:51,778
Taking that left,
looking at me.
563
00:18:51,798 --> 00:18:53,447
I just knew.
564
00:18:53,466 --> 00:18:55,191
And her vows, one thing
she always said to me is,
565
00:18:55,209 --> 00:18:57,209
"I'll be loyal,
and I won't give up on you."
566
00:18:57,303 --> 00:18:58,952
That was in your vows.
567
00:18:59,046 --> 00:19:00,787
I just--[snaps fingers]
568
00:19:00,807 --> 00:19:03,382
And I hope you stand
by that, baby.
569
00:19:03,476 --> 00:19:06,126
[soft music]
570
00:19:06,220 --> 00:19:07,219
- We have
a new batch of folks
571
00:19:07,313 --> 00:19:08,704
That are in san diego.
572
00:19:08,723 --> 00:19:11,557
And we've been talking
about alexis and justin.
573
00:19:11,709 --> 00:19:13,467
Justin kind of laid low,
574
00:19:13,486 --> 00:19:15,544
Took a two-year sabbatical
from sex.
575
00:19:15,563 --> 00:19:17,213
- Yeah.
576
00:19:17,231 --> 00:19:19,157
- Olajuwon, you said you--
no, but you said
577
00:19:19,384 --> 00:19:21,400
That you, you know,
stepped away
578
00:19:21,552 --> 00:19:23,327
For a second from the ladies
579
00:19:23,554 --> 00:19:24,829
To get ready
for this experience.
580
00:19:24,980 --> 00:19:26,722
- Absolutely.
581
00:19:26,741 --> 00:19:29,650
- So can you relate to justin
taking a two-year sabbatical?
582
00:19:29,669 --> 00:19:31,744
- Power to him, justin.
[whistles]
583
00:19:31,896 --> 00:19:33,153
Justin's ready for marriage.
584
00:19:33,173 --> 00:19:34,897
Justin's ready for marriage.
- Yes.
585
00:19:34,990 --> 00:19:37,082
- Okay, what do you think
about alexis, katina?
586
00:19:37,235 --> 00:19:38,734
- Oh, I think she's so pretty.
587
00:19:38,753 --> 00:19:41,161
She seems like
she knows what she wants.
588
00:19:41,255 --> 00:19:42,922
She seems like
she's a go-getter.
589
00:19:43,074 --> 00:19:46,017
- I think that she needs a guy
that's more soft-spoken.
590
00:19:46,168 --> 00:19:49,169
Justin is her good balance
because his softness
591
00:19:49,263 --> 00:19:52,248
Is the key component
to this marriage.
592
00:19:52,266 --> 00:19:54,099
I think my man, justin,
he's a romantic guy.
593
00:19:54,194 --> 00:19:55,418
I think he's gonna
sweep her off her feet.
594
00:19:55,511 --> 00:19:57,102
- I have
an exclusive sneak peek
595
00:19:57,255 --> 00:19:58,345
From the upcoming season
that I want to play
596
00:19:58,439 --> 00:19:59,939
For all you guys.
597
00:20:00,033 --> 00:20:03,183
This is justin and his brother
at the bachelor party.
598
00:20:03,203 --> 00:20:05,018
Remember yours, right?
- Yeah.
599
00:20:05,112 --> 00:20:08,264
Yeah, I do.
- We all remember that.
600
00:20:08,357 --> 00:20:09,874
- It's not married
for eight weeks.
601
00:20:10,025 --> 00:20:11,267
You getting married
for the rest of your life.
602
00:20:11,285 --> 00:20:12,785
- I'm looking forward
to the change.
603
00:20:12,937 --> 00:20:15,120
I'm ready for it.
I'm just like, let's do it.
604
00:20:15,215 --> 00:20:17,440
- This is not how I pictured
justin getting married.
605
00:20:17,458 --> 00:20:19,533
So I'm still devastated
and terrified
606
00:20:19,627 --> 00:20:21,610
That he's getting married
to a complete stranger.
607
00:20:21,704 --> 00:20:23,279
You're really
making me nervous
608
00:20:23,297 --> 00:20:24,613
Because if I'm being
really authentic,
609
00:20:24,632 --> 00:20:26,115
No, I don't think you're ready
to be married.
610
00:20:26,133 --> 00:20:27,725
[dramatic music]
611
00:20:27,876 --> 00:20:29,785
- Bruh, I'm not trying to
prove anything to you, though.
612
00:20:29,804 --> 00:20:31,954
- I'm absolutely gonna
hold you accountable.
613
00:20:31,973 --> 00:20:33,380
And I'm gonna tell you
when you're [bleep] up,
614
00:20:33,399 --> 00:20:34,957
Or when I think
you're [bleep] up.
615
00:20:35,050 --> 00:20:36,717
- I'm a grown-ass man.
I'm 33.
616
00:20:36,736 --> 00:20:38,236
I don't need you
to chastise me.
617
00:20:38,387 --> 00:20:39,795
I've been taking care
of myself since I was 19, bruh.
618
00:20:39,888 --> 00:20:41,221
So what do you need
to chastise?
619
00:20:41,315 --> 00:20:42,556
What do you need to teach me
that I don't even know?
620
00:20:42,575 --> 00:20:43,799
- I won't say
nothing else, justin.
621
00:20:43,818 --> 00:20:45,409
I understand
you're not ready to listen.
622
00:20:45,636 --> 00:20:46,911
- All right.
623
00:20:47,138 --> 00:20:48,804
If you feel like I'm not
ready to listen, then bye.
624
00:20:48,897 --> 00:20:50,306
Because I'm listening.
I can't--
625
00:20:50,324 --> 00:20:51,582
- You're not listening.
You're here.
626
00:20:51,734 --> 00:20:52,750
- All right, cool.
627
00:20:52,901 --> 00:20:55,253
All right, well,
in that case, bye.
628
00:20:55,480 --> 00:20:57,663
- Justin, you acting
like a little bitch.
629
00:20:57,757 --> 00:21:00,983
- Night-night.
630
00:21:01,076 --> 00:21:03,986
- Okay, there's a lot
to unpack there, a lot.
631
00:21:04,005 --> 00:21:05,671
- [laughs]
632
00:21:05,823 --> 00:21:09,433
- What do you see, olajuwon,
in that reaction right there?
633
00:21:09,585 --> 00:21:11,769
- I think because he had
a lot of time to himself,
634
00:21:11,920 --> 00:21:13,437
He thinks he knows it all.
635
00:21:13,589 --> 00:21:15,255
You're walking
away from a leader.
636
00:21:15,275 --> 00:21:16,774
Your brother's
trying to guide you.
637
00:21:17,001 --> 00:21:18,109
He don't have to do that.
- Right, right.
638
00:21:18,260 --> 00:21:19,335
- He cares for you.
He loves you.
639
00:21:19,428 --> 00:21:21,020
- Panel, what did you all
think of that?
640
00:21:21,172 --> 00:21:23,339
- It felt like he was
being a little childish.
641
00:21:23,357 --> 00:21:25,524
And so that actually
made me more concerned,
642
00:21:25,676 --> 00:21:27,285
Because I was like,
oh, if you're so secure
643
00:21:27,512 --> 00:21:28,844
And ready for this,
644
00:21:28,863 --> 00:21:31,622
His challenge to you
of not being ready
645
00:21:31,849 --> 00:21:34,350
Shouldn't trigger you
as much as it did.
646
00:21:34,443 --> 00:21:38,037
- Now, in terms of him,
you know, raising up,
647
00:21:38,189 --> 00:21:39,355
I was a little proud.
648
00:21:39,373 --> 00:21:40,447
I was like, okay,
you're not gonna let
649
00:21:40,541 --> 00:21:41,966
This girl run through you.
650
00:21:42,193 --> 00:21:43,617
Because he's gonna need
to bring that out
651
00:21:43,636 --> 00:21:45,544
Because she has
a strong personality,
652
00:21:45,696 --> 00:21:47,530
And she wants a man
at the end of the day.
653
00:21:47,548 --> 00:21:48,622
- Yeah.
654
00:21:48,716 --> 00:21:52,384
- I saw that level of manliness
655
00:21:52,478 --> 00:21:54,628
That she's asking for.
656
00:21:54,647 --> 00:21:55,813
- Do you think there'll
be attraction
657
00:21:55,964 --> 00:21:57,540
Between this couple?
658
00:21:57,558 --> 00:22:00,376
- I think he's gonna
find alexis very attractive.
659
00:22:00,394 --> 00:22:02,561
I don't think alexis is
gonna find him her type.
660
00:22:02,713 --> 00:22:03,988
- I think
at the beginning--
661
00:22:04,139 --> 00:22:05,323
- Wow.
- I know.
662
00:22:05,474 --> 00:22:06,807
- Yeah, I think
at the beginning,
663
00:22:06,826 --> 00:22:09,568
She will be happy
about the height thing
664
00:22:09,720 --> 00:22:11,570
Because that's what she wanted.
665
00:22:11,664 --> 00:22:14,573
I think that she will grow
to be attracted to him.
666
00:22:14,667 --> 00:22:16,316
- Yes.
667
00:22:16,336 --> 00:22:17,393
- Okay, panel,
it's time to lock in
668
00:22:17,486 --> 00:22:18,911
Your official predictions.
669
00:22:19,005 --> 00:22:21,564
I really am dying to hear
what you think will happen
670
00:22:21,582 --> 00:22:23,248
Between alexis and justin.
671
00:22:23,343 --> 00:22:24,491
Let's do this.
672
00:22:24,510 --> 00:22:25,826
Do you think
they will stay married
673
00:22:25,845 --> 00:22:27,678
Or get a divorce
on decision day?
674
00:22:27,830 --> 00:22:29,180
Angelique, you first.
675
00:22:29,331 --> 00:22:31,407
- I actually think, yes.
I know.
676
00:22:31,425 --> 00:22:33,184
I know, I felt like
I was being hard on them.
677
00:22:33,335 --> 00:22:37,855
But I do think that it's gonna
be an up and down road,
678
00:22:38,082 --> 00:22:39,915
But I think
they both really want this.
679
00:22:40,008 --> 00:22:41,767
And if he can show her
what she needs,
680
00:22:41,919 --> 00:22:43,919
Then she's gonna go for it.
681
00:22:43,938 --> 00:22:46,680
I do think alexis is
the deciding factor here.
682
00:22:46,699 --> 00:22:48,257
- Yes.
683
00:22:48,275 --> 00:22:49,925
- But I do think
they'll stay together.
684
00:22:49,944 --> 00:22:51,869
- Nicole.
685
00:22:52,020 --> 00:22:56,448
- I am gonna cautiously say yes
and pray that it happens.
686
00:22:56,542 --> 00:22:59,602
- Rizzo?
- I'm clearly a yes.
687
00:22:59,695 --> 00:23:01,862
They both said
they wanted a teammate.
688
00:23:01,956 --> 00:23:03,381
She's attracted to him.
689
00:23:03,532 --> 00:23:04,715
He's gonna be attracted to her.
This is going to work.
690
00:23:04,942 --> 00:23:07,109
- But guess what,
this isn't going to work.
691
00:23:07,128 --> 00:23:08,961
Unfortunately, this couple
is not going to work.
692
00:23:09,055 --> 00:23:14,967
I mean, alexis is too much
for him, unfortunately.
693
00:23:15,061 --> 00:23:17,210
And she said, "I want a man."
694
00:23:17,230 --> 00:23:19,288
- She does.
- And she wants a man.
695
00:23:19,306 --> 00:23:21,899
And I think that he wants
someone to be a cheerleader.
696
00:23:22,126 --> 00:23:23,475
So he's gonna be looking
for a cheerleader.
697
00:23:23,628 --> 00:23:24,960
She's gonna be looking
for a man.
698
00:23:24,979 --> 00:23:27,646
They're gonna walk right
past each other.
699
00:23:27,798 --> 00:23:28,964
I want to hear your prediction.
700
00:23:28,983 --> 00:23:31,224
- Justin and alexis,
I'ma give you a yes.
701
00:23:31,244 --> 00:23:32,484
I hope you make it
702
00:23:32,637 --> 00:23:33,802
And we see you
on the other side.
703
00:23:33,821 --> 00:23:35,304
- Katina?
704
00:23:35,322 --> 00:23:37,489
- Deep down
in my soul and my spirit,
705
00:23:37,642 --> 00:23:40,142
I feel like that this is
gonna be one of those
706
00:23:40,161 --> 00:23:42,569
Where he's going to say yes
707
00:23:42,588 --> 00:23:45,330
And she might
potentially say no.
708
00:23:45,483 --> 00:23:47,591
That's what my gut
is telling me,
709
00:23:47,743 --> 00:23:49,743
But you know, I have a lot
of rope for people, clearly.
710
00:23:49,837 --> 00:23:53,097
So I hope they make it.
711
00:23:53,324 --> 00:23:54,765
[laughs]
712
00:23:54,992 --> 00:23:56,675
- Olajuwon and katrina,
it is always a pleasure
713
00:23:56,827 --> 00:23:58,160
Sitting down
and talking to you.
714
00:23:58,253 --> 00:23:59,895
And thanks for being here.
- Thank you.
715
00:24:04,518 --> 00:24:06,426
Lindy and miguel are
both serial monogamists
716
00:24:06,520 --> 00:24:07,836
Who have been searching
for their forever person,
717
00:24:07,930 --> 00:24:09,354
Yet have struck out
time after time.
718
00:24:09,507 --> 00:24:11,282
Both are seemingly
great catches
719
00:24:11,433 --> 00:24:13,676
And unable to explain
why they're still single.
720
00:24:13,694 --> 00:24:15,360
Will they finally
find what they've been
721
00:24:15,513 --> 00:24:17,270
Searching for in each other?
722
00:24:17,364 --> 00:24:19,181
Let's take a look
at lindy and miguel.
723
00:24:19,200 --> 00:24:22,184
- ♪ whoa-oh-oh-oh ♪
724
00:24:22,203 --> 00:24:23,368
♪ ♪
725
00:24:23,521 --> 00:24:25,688
♪ whoa-oh-oh-oh ♪
726
00:24:25,781 --> 00:24:27,447
- I went to a really
strict religious school,
727
00:24:27,467 --> 00:24:29,616
So it was like "ring by spring"
was like the thing.
728
00:24:29,635 --> 00:24:31,860
Like, everyone was gonna be
engaged before we graduate
729
00:24:31,879 --> 00:24:33,119
'cause they tell you
you're never gonna
730
00:24:33,214 --> 00:24:35,547
Find someone in the real world.
731
00:24:35,641 --> 00:24:37,457
And I laughed at that,
but look at me now.
732
00:24:37,477 --> 00:24:38,867
Look where I am.
733
00:24:38,886 --> 00:24:41,645
- ♪ I'm so sick
of playing dumb ♪
734
00:24:41,797 --> 00:24:44,315
♪ I just want
to have some fun ♪
735
00:24:44,542 --> 00:24:47,392
- For whatever reason,
finding a wife has eluded me,
736
00:24:47,487 --> 00:24:49,061
And not for a lack of trying.
737
00:24:49,155 --> 00:24:51,880
It sounds so cheesy,
but what brings me here today
738
00:24:51,974 --> 00:24:53,306
Is to find love,
to find someone
739
00:24:53,326 --> 00:24:55,384
That I can grow old with,
and be happy with,
740
00:24:55,402 --> 00:24:58,645
And truly experience
the wonders of life with.
741
00:24:58,739 --> 00:25:00,239
[upbeat music]
742
00:25:00,391 --> 00:25:01,724
- I don't know
why I'm single.
743
00:25:01,742 --> 00:25:03,242
I try.
744
00:25:03,394 --> 00:25:06,562
I think I just get
swept up really easily.
745
00:25:06,580 --> 00:25:08,655
I love getting to know people.
746
00:25:08,749 --> 00:25:11,400
And what really draws me in
is their personality.
747
00:25:11,418 --> 00:25:13,736
So like, outgoing people,
funny people,
748
00:25:13,754 --> 00:25:15,346
I immediately am just like,
I have a crush.
749
00:25:15,573 --> 00:25:16,588
I crush very easily.
750
00:25:16,682 --> 00:25:18,240
[laughs]
751
00:25:18,259 --> 00:25:20,333
I was engaged shortly.
752
00:25:20,427 --> 00:25:22,411
He was very much a homebody.
753
00:25:22,429 --> 00:25:24,355
Never wanted to go
and explore and do things.
754
00:25:24,582 --> 00:25:25,856
And then it just
got to the point
755
00:25:26,008 --> 00:25:27,507
Where, like, he was wanting me
to drop out
756
00:25:27,527 --> 00:25:28,917
Of physical therapy school,
757
00:25:28,936 --> 00:25:30,361
And he wanted
to start a family.
758
00:25:30,512 --> 00:25:32,588
And I just am independent.
759
00:25:32,681 --> 00:25:34,106
I didn't want
to be reliant on someone.
760
00:25:34,258 --> 00:25:36,108
I think
that we just got engaged
761
00:25:36,202 --> 00:25:38,110
Way too soon, too young.
762
00:25:38,204 --> 00:25:40,204
- I've been in relationships
where there's lots
763
00:25:40,355 --> 00:25:42,022
Of attraction,
physical attraction,
764
00:25:42,041 --> 00:25:43,282
And then vice versa.
765
00:25:43,434 --> 00:25:44,542
I've been in relationships
766
00:25:44,693 --> 00:25:46,618
Where I am
with my best friend,
767
00:25:46,712 --> 00:25:49,529
But then there's the attraction
lacking, the passion.
768
00:25:49,549 --> 00:25:52,365
- Look at these thighs.
Look at these tree trunks.
769
00:25:52,385 --> 00:25:55,444
- So I want to find
a best friend
770
00:25:55,537 --> 00:25:57,946
That I'm also
just really attracted to.
771
00:25:57,965 --> 00:26:01,207
- I would love someone
who has similar interests
772
00:26:01,302 --> 00:26:03,802
As far as being adventurous,
and trying new restaurants,
773
00:26:03,954 --> 00:26:05,470
And going to the beach,
you know,
774
00:26:05,623 --> 00:26:06,897
Simple things like that,
775
00:26:07,049 --> 00:26:08,807
And just have
that companionship.
776
00:26:08,901 --> 00:26:10,309
- Sorry, future wife.
777
00:26:10,461 --> 00:26:12,385
You probably don't
make your bed like this.
778
00:26:12,405 --> 00:26:13,904
I am a little old-fashioned.
779
00:26:14,056 --> 00:26:16,556
It is the man's job
to provide protection
780
00:26:16,576 --> 00:26:18,483
And to make sure
his wife feels safe
781
00:26:18,636 --> 00:26:19,910
And secure and comfortable.
782
00:26:20,062 --> 00:26:22,395
But with that said,
I want my wife
783
00:26:22,415 --> 00:26:25,641
To make me feel protected
in the sense
784
00:26:25,659 --> 00:26:26,975
That she's there
when I need her.
785
00:26:26,994 --> 00:26:28,493
She can provide support.
786
00:26:28,588 --> 00:26:30,921
- Deal breaker is someone
who's passive.
787
00:26:31,148 --> 00:26:33,315
I really need somebody
who's firm.
788
00:26:33,334 --> 00:26:35,818
I've learned that
in past relationships,
789
00:26:35,911 --> 00:26:38,095
I tend to kind of take over
and dominate.
790
00:26:38,246 --> 00:26:39,412
So somebody who knows how to,
you know,
791
00:26:39,432 --> 00:26:40,598
Check me a little bit,
792
00:26:40,749 --> 00:26:42,099
Put me in my place
in a respectful way.
793
00:26:42,250 --> 00:26:43,583
- That's why she's single.
794
00:26:43,603 --> 00:26:45,102
- And then somebody
who doesn't want kids.
795
00:26:45,253 --> 00:26:46,937
That's a deal breaker
because I really want a family.
796
00:26:47,164 --> 00:26:48,939
I really want
to start my life with someone,
797
00:26:49,166 --> 00:26:51,091
And I just feel ready
to know that someone is ready
798
00:26:51,110 --> 00:26:54,002
To commit to me, sight unseen.
799
00:26:54,096 --> 00:26:56,262
And if someone's ready
to marry a stranger,
800
00:26:56,282 --> 00:26:57,597
I'm hoping they're ready
for that commitment
801
00:26:57,617 --> 00:26:59,174
Because it's a big deal.
802
00:26:59,267 --> 00:27:01,267
- Life is fun,
but as most things,
803
00:27:01,287 --> 00:27:03,454
There's only so much fun
you can have by yourself.
804
00:27:03,605 --> 00:27:05,681
And to have a best friend
that you're able
805
00:27:05,774 --> 00:27:08,608
To enjoy that with,
that you are in love with,
806
00:27:08,702 --> 00:27:09,960
I mean, that's the goal.
807
00:27:10,187 --> 00:27:12,445
That's the dream.
808
00:27:12,465 --> 00:27:16,024
- Well, your first impressions
of lindy and miguel.
809
00:27:16,118 --> 00:27:17,693
Angelique?
810
00:27:17,711 --> 00:27:19,452
- I really am not sure
about this one,
811
00:27:19,472 --> 00:27:21,713
But I'm hopeful.
812
00:27:21,866 --> 00:27:24,791
While, like, on paper they seem
very well matched that,
813
00:27:24,885 --> 00:27:28,220
You know, they both kind of are
into nerdier things,
814
00:27:28,372 --> 00:27:31,390
I don't know if his rigidity
815
00:27:31,542 --> 00:27:34,985
And her, you know, very free
spirit nature are gonna match.
816
00:27:35,137 --> 00:27:37,562
I think that he might be
a little bit too,
817
00:27:37,715 --> 00:27:39,305
Like, you know, precise,
818
00:27:39,325 --> 00:27:41,641
The way he wants, you know,
to make his bed just so,
819
00:27:41,661 --> 00:27:42,885
Things like that.
820
00:27:42,903 --> 00:27:44,811
She is totally
this free spirit
821
00:27:44,830 --> 00:27:48,148
Who's kind of broken out of
her very sheltered childhood.
822
00:27:48,242 --> 00:27:51,484
And I don't know if he's gonna
quite be as in tune with that.
823
00:27:51,504 --> 00:27:53,228
- Mm-hmm.
- Hm, interesting.
824
00:27:53,247 --> 00:27:55,822
Nicole?
- Well, I am aligned with you.
825
00:27:55,841 --> 00:28:00,493
I am not so sure
about this pairing.
826
00:28:00,513 --> 00:28:03,997
First of all, he's giving me
jose vibes a little bit,
827
00:28:04,016 --> 00:28:08,260
Where he's the man, and he's,
you know, kind of in charge,
828
00:28:08,354 --> 00:28:09,687
Which she wants,
829
00:28:09,914 --> 00:28:11,430
But I think
it may get to a point
830
00:28:11,582 --> 00:28:13,081
Where it's
a little bit too much.
831
00:28:13,100 --> 00:28:16,193
And then she also said
that she needs a man to,
832
00:28:16,344 --> 00:28:19,530
You know, calm her down or,
you know--
833
00:28:19,757 --> 00:28:22,591
- De-escalate.
- De-escalate a situation.
834
00:28:22,609 --> 00:28:26,203
- Because I am kind of all over
the place and loving to live,
835
00:28:26,430 --> 00:28:28,205
I really appreciate
when someone's able
836
00:28:28,356 --> 00:28:31,616
To kind of, like,
de-escalate a situation.
837
00:28:31,711 --> 00:28:33,285
It kind of makes you be like,
838
00:28:33,437 --> 00:28:35,546
"oh, yeah, I am acting
a little emotional,"
839
00:28:35,697 --> 00:28:37,606
Or, "I am making this
into a big deal
840
00:28:37,624 --> 00:28:38,941
When it's not a big deal."
841
00:28:38,959 --> 00:28:41,109
- So are you buck wild?
842
00:28:41,203 --> 00:28:43,036
Like, what are we about
to be in for right here?
843
00:28:43,055 --> 00:28:44,537
I'm a little nervous.
844
00:28:44,557 --> 00:28:47,299
- Are we about to meet lindsey,
not lindy?
845
00:28:47,451 --> 00:28:48,784
Both: Right.
846
00:28:48,802 --> 00:28:50,394
- Yeah, so I'm worried
about that.
847
00:28:50,621 --> 00:28:52,212
If you need somebody
to de-escalate you,
848
00:28:52,306 --> 00:28:54,231
That tells me you have an issue
that you need to resolve
849
00:28:54,458 --> 00:28:55,548
Before you get here.
850
00:28:55,568 --> 00:28:57,459
- But I think
she has potentially,
851
00:28:57,478 --> 00:28:59,737
Like, a strong style
of conflict resolution.
852
00:28:59,888 --> 00:29:01,813
It's just the concern
of whether or not
853
00:29:01,966 --> 00:29:05,558
She's gonna be interested
in really talking it out.
854
00:29:05,578 --> 00:29:08,245
- I'm typically attracted
to, like, tall guys
855
00:29:08,396 --> 00:29:10,581
With, like, dark hair,
brown hair.
856
00:29:10,808 --> 00:29:12,565
But I do like someone
who's a little nerdy,
857
00:29:12,659 --> 00:29:13,809
Like has, like, quirks,
858
00:29:13,902 --> 00:29:16,069
And isn't afraid
to be themselves.
859
00:29:16,163 --> 00:29:20,148
- I think she would be
down-to-earth, adventurous,
860
00:29:20,167 --> 00:29:23,927
Energetic,
open-minded to the idea
861
00:29:24,154 --> 00:29:25,504
That I do play
"dungeons and dragons."
862
00:29:25,656 --> 00:29:28,599
I'm a huge dork, yeah.
863
00:29:28,750 --> 00:29:31,009
- I mean, a grown man
in a bear costume
864
00:29:31,161 --> 00:29:32,436
Going to do "dungeons
and dragons" is a little--
865
00:29:32,663 --> 00:29:34,679
- Some people are into that.
- It's different.
866
00:29:34,774 --> 00:29:36,681
It's different strokes
for different folks.
867
00:29:36,834 --> 00:29:38,333
- No, no, I get it.
868
00:29:38,352 --> 00:29:39,943
- That's not something
that I would be interested in,
869
00:29:40,095 --> 00:29:41,945
But she did say
she likes nerdy guys,
870
00:29:42,097 --> 00:29:43,763
And that's
kind of a nerdy thing.
871
00:29:43,857 --> 00:29:46,099
- It's max level right there.
- Yes.
872
00:29:46,118 --> 00:29:48,118
- But if you noticed one thing,
he was working out.
873
00:29:48,270 --> 00:29:50,436
And it seems like
maybe they can
874
00:29:50,456 --> 00:29:52,939
Go play volleyball together
or something like that.
875
00:29:52,958 --> 00:29:55,200
Is there any chance that
miguel will balance her out?
876
00:29:55,352 --> 00:29:57,352
- He's a nerd,
and she's a rebel.
877
00:29:57,445 --> 00:29:59,871
She's been rebelling
against the church
878
00:30:00,024 --> 00:30:04,301
And how she grew up so much
that that whole nice package
879
00:30:04,528 --> 00:30:06,786
That we got, I don't
think lindy is what we're
880
00:30:06,806 --> 00:30:08,547
Gonna see most of the time.
I think it's lindsey.
881
00:30:08,641 --> 00:30:11,975
- Maybe he's not prepared
for lindsey instead of lindy.
882
00:30:12,127 --> 00:30:13,552
What do you think?
883
00:30:13,646 --> 00:30:15,795
- No, I don't think
he's prepared for that at all.
884
00:30:15,815 --> 00:30:17,463
I mean, he likes to have fun.
885
00:30:17,483 --> 00:30:19,708
He likes to play
his "dungeons and dragons."
886
00:30:19,726 --> 00:30:22,210
She will find that
to be cute for a while.
887
00:30:22,304 --> 00:30:24,229
But like she said,
her last relationship ended
888
00:30:24,381 --> 00:30:27,399
Because her partner
didn't want to go do things.
889
00:30:27,551 --> 00:30:30,160
He wanted her to be at home,
have babies.
890
00:30:30,312 --> 00:30:33,313
She's been in this rigid system
her entire life.
891
00:30:33,332 --> 00:30:35,648
That's the exact opposite
of what she wants.
892
00:30:35,668 --> 00:30:37,059
- But she did tell the experts
893
00:30:37,152 --> 00:30:39,394
That she falls
very hard very fast.
894
00:30:39,487 --> 00:30:41,321
And the fact that she
wants to have children,
895
00:30:41,340 --> 00:30:45,083
That she's ready to be married,
that they both seem ready,
896
00:30:45,177 --> 00:30:47,493
Do you think that'll
help them get to a place
897
00:30:47,513 --> 00:30:50,088
Where they can consummate
their marriage very quickly?
898
00:30:50,240 --> 00:30:51,831
- I'm a huge fan
of making love
899
00:30:51,851 --> 00:30:53,925
More so than just having sex.
900
00:30:54,019 --> 00:30:56,687
I think being able
to connect with your person
901
00:30:56,838 --> 00:30:58,504
On an emotional level
is really important.
902
00:30:58,599 --> 00:31:00,248
And it turns me on.
It's really sexy.
903
00:31:00,267 --> 00:31:02,584
- I am definitely
pretty simple
904
00:31:02,603 --> 00:31:04,086
When it comes to sex.
905
00:31:04,104 --> 00:31:05,511
I'm sure down the line
when we're bored,
906
00:31:05,531 --> 00:31:07,606
You know, 20 years from now,
fine, we'll spice it up,
907
00:31:07,758 --> 00:31:10,534
But definitely
not any time soon.
908
00:31:10,761 --> 00:31:12,202
♪ ♪
909
00:31:12,354 --> 00:31:13,929
- Well, I think initially,
910
00:31:13,947 --> 00:31:15,113
They're gonna be
very attracted to each other.
911
00:31:15,265 --> 00:31:16,615
- Mm-hmm.
- Really?
912
00:31:16,767 --> 00:31:17,616
- Yeah, I think so.
913
00:31:17,768 --> 00:31:19,192
I just think
their compatibility
914
00:31:19,211 --> 00:31:21,194
On how they live life,
915
00:31:21,213 --> 00:31:23,622
Like, if she's down to play
"dungeons and dragons" all day
916
00:31:23,716 --> 00:31:25,774
As her extracurricular,
I think that's gonna be cool.
917
00:31:25,792 --> 00:31:27,050
- Ain't no way.
918
00:31:27,202 --> 00:31:28,552
- But he's not gonna
be going the club.
919
00:31:28,703 --> 00:31:30,203
He's not gonna be doing any
of that free flowing stuff
920
00:31:30,222 --> 00:31:31,388
That she does.
921
00:31:31,539 --> 00:31:33,873
And you know what
also troubled me?
922
00:31:33,893 --> 00:31:37,210
The poems he's been writing
to his imaginary wife.
923
00:31:37,304 --> 00:31:38,954
- Yeah.
- So--
924
00:31:38,972 --> 00:31:40,880
- I think right now
because I'm single,
925
00:31:40,974 --> 00:31:43,400
A lot of energy
goes into my poetry.
926
00:31:43,627 --> 00:31:45,736
Feeling pinned down
by the weight of a sun,
927
00:31:45,963 --> 00:31:47,979
Dragging around searching
for what's to come.
928
00:31:48,132 --> 00:31:50,056
Since day one,
been up against the world.
929
00:31:50,150 --> 00:31:52,058
But gone done the run
to get the girl,
930
00:31:52,077 --> 00:31:54,469
And done the dive
to find the pearl.
931
00:31:54,488 --> 00:31:56,655
So what more in this life
is there to unfurl?
932
00:31:56,749 --> 00:31:58,248
The answer's got to be plenty
933
00:31:58,400 --> 00:32:00,566
Because I'm getting antsy
with feeling this empty.
934
00:32:00,661 --> 00:32:03,979
- Wow. All right, my man.
935
00:32:04,072 --> 00:32:05,480
- Let's unpack this
for a moment.
936
00:32:05,573 --> 00:32:06,739
[laughter]
937
00:32:06,759 --> 00:32:08,074
- Why?
938
00:32:08,168 --> 00:32:09,742
That's beautiful.
He's getting ready.
939
00:32:09,762 --> 00:32:10,928
- That's a beautiful thing.
- He's getting ready to--
940
00:32:11,079 --> 00:32:12,320
- Stop it.
941
00:32:12,414 --> 00:32:14,156
- It's a beautiful thing
on the surface,
942
00:32:14,174 --> 00:32:16,767
But he already has a perception
of who his wife is.
943
00:32:16,918 --> 00:32:19,661
And if she is not fitting
into this square
944
00:32:19,680 --> 00:32:22,180
Of who this imaginary wife is
that he's writing to,
945
00:32:22,332 --> 00:32:23,756
Oh, there's gonna
be some problems.
946
00:32:23,776 --> 00:32:25,091
- Right.
- That's good, that's good.
947
00:32:25,110 --> 00:32:26,001
- Oh, that is a great,
great point.
948
00:32:26,019 --> 00:32:30,355
- Yeah.
949
00:32:30,507 --> 00:32:32,023
Right now,
I want to continue to talk
950
00:32:32,176 --> 00:32:33,433
About lindy and miguel,
951
00:32:33,452 --> 00:32:35,118
And I have some
important people backstage
952
00:32:35,345 --> 00:32:36,861
That want to contribute
to the conversation.
953
00:32:36,956 --> 00:32:38,530
All right, let's give a big
welcome to jessica and austin
954
00:32:38,624 --> 00:32:40,773
From "married at first sight"
washington, dc.
955
00:32:40,867 --> 00:32:43,126
Hey, hey.
- Hi.
956
00:32:43,353 --> 00:32:46,037
- How are y'all doing?
Hey, hey, good to see you.
957
00:32:46,131 --> 00:32:48,540
- Oh, good, good, good.
- Good, good, good.
958
00:32:48,692 --> 00:32:49,615
- Good to see you again.
- Good to see you.
959
00:32:49,635 --> 00:32:51,026
How you been?
- It's been a while.
960
00:32:51,044 --> 00:32:53,119
- It has been a minute.
Y'all have been busy.
961
00:32:53,138 --> 00:32:54,546
- Coordinated.
- We've been a little busy.
962
00:32:54,640 --> 00:32:57,641
- You've been doing a lot,
like having a baby.
963
00:32:57,868 --> 00:32:59,459
- Yeah.
- We did do that, yeah.
964
00:32:59,478 --> 00:33:00,644
- How's that going?
How are you doing?
965
00:33:00,795 --> 00:33:02,704
- Oh, it's great.
It really is.
966
00:33:02,723 --> 00:33:04,964
He's just the perfect
little baby, and--
967
00:33:05,058 --> 00:33:06,149
- Not biased at all, but--
968
00:33:06,301 --> 00:33:08,043
[laughter]
969
00:33:08,061 --> 00:33:10,136
- We've been really enjoying
being parents now.
970
00:33:10,155 --> 00:33:11,730
- How has your life
really changed
971
00:33:11,824 --> 00:33:13,565
Now since having westin?
972
00:33:13,717 --> 00:33:16,218
- I would say definitely we're
more focused on westin, and--
973
00:33:16,236 --> 00:33:17,828
- More scheduled
because we're so focused
974
00:33:18,055 --> 00:33:19,830
On having him,
like, to a schedule.
975
00:33:19,981 --> 00:33:21,999
So that kind of keeps us
pretty scheduled as well.
976
00:33:22,226 --> 00:33:23,575
It's a process,
a lot that she has
977
00:33:23,727 --> 00:33:26,244
To go through
breastfeeding and pumping.
978
00:33:26,396 --> 00:33:27,838
I hear a lot about it, but--
- yeah, yeah.
979
00:33:28,065 --> 00:33:30,248
- Pumping, you hear that sound.
- He supports me.
980
00:33:30,342 --> 00:33:31,842
[mimics grinding sound]
- it's a schedule, yeah, yeah.
981
00:33:32,069 --> 00:33:34,660
There it goes again.
Yeah, yeah.
982
00:33:34,680 --> 00:33:36,179
No, it's a very
scheduled life now,
983
00:33:36,331 --> 00:33:37,739
But it's been great.
984
00:33:37,758 --> 00:33:38,998
- That's amazing.
985
00:33:39,018 --> 00:33:40,666
Why have I seen
that outfit before?
986
00:33:40,686 --> 00:33:42,744
- Oh, so I actually wore this
on our decision day.
987
00:33:42,837 --> 00:33:44,170
- That--see?
Look, you see that?
988
00:33:44,189 --> 00:33:45,580
You see that?
989
00:33:45,599 --> 00:33:47,582
- Look at you, kevin,
so impressed.
990
00:33:47,675 --> 00:33:49,008
- I set myself a goal
to get into it,
991
00:33:49,028 --> 00:33:50,343
And here I am.
992
00:33:50,437 --> 00:33:52,011
- You go, girl.
993
00:33:52,105 --> 00:33:53,421
- Thought it would bring luck
for the next couples too.
994
00:33:53,440 --> 00:33:54,364
- There you go.
995
00:33:54,516 --> 00:33:55,699
So looking back,
996
00:33:55,926 --> 00:33:57,259
What was your favorite part
of this process?
997
00:33:57,352 --> 00:33:59,018
- Well, I got a husband
out of it.
998
00:33:59,038 --> 00:34:00,853
And now we got a kid.
- I mean, now it's our kid.
999
00:34:00,873 --> 00:34:03,431
And I mean, yeah.
It was an adventure.
1000
00:34:03,450 --> 00:34:04,599
I think both
of us had the mindset
1001
00:34:04,618 --> 00:34:06,101
Of adventure going in,
1002
00:34:06,119 --> 00:34:09,362
And we, yeah,
got that going out.
1003
00:34:09,381 --> 00:34:11,214
It's a whirlwind.
It is great for us.
1004
00:34:11,441 --> 00:34:13,124
I mean, not so great
for some people, though,
1005
00:34:13,218 --> 00:34:15,126
But I don't know,
a whirlwind and adventure.
1006
00:34:15,220 --> 00:34:17,888
- I'd say too, you learn a lot
about yourself...
1007
00:34:18,039 --> 00:34:19,297
- Yeah.
- Too from the process.
1008
00:34:19,449 --> 00:34:21,116
- Yeah, and a success story
1009
00:34:21,134 --> 00:34:22,467
That turns into a "married
at first sight" baby.
1010
00:34:22,561 --> 00:34:23,727
- Yeah, yeah.
- You know, that's what it is.
1011
00:34:23,878 --> 00:34:25,120
A "married
at first sight" baby.
1012
00:34:25,138 --> 00:34:26,955
- You guys
took things a little slow,
1013
00:34:26,973 --> 00:34:28,732
In particular the l word.
1014
00:34:28,959 --> 00:34:30,308
Love was something
that you guys had
1015
00:34:30,460 --> 00:34:33,219
To figure out how to get to.
1016
00:34:33,238 --> 00:34:34,905
You know, what kind
of advice do you have
1017
00:34:35,056 --> 00:34:38,057
For people about either
jumping in and saying it,
1018
00:34:38,077 --> 00:34:40,318
Or, you know, being patient
while you wait
1019
00:34:40,470 --> 00:34:42,079
For the other person
to be ready?
1020
00:34:42,230 --> 00:34:43,729
- Yes, I wanted
to be patient
1021
00:34:43,749 --> 00:34:46,141
Because it did
hold a lot of meaning.
1022
00:34:46,234 --> 00:34:47,992
And things were just so good.
1023
00:34:48,087 --> 00:34:51,588
Jess, I truly see you
have my back every single day,
1024
00:34:51,815 --> 00:34:54,740
And it makes me know
that I love you.
1025
00:34:54,835 --> 00:34:56,651
[upbeat music]
1026
00:34:56,744 --> 00:34:58,820
- I love you too.
- I know.
1027
00:34:58,839 --> 00:35:01,431
I mean, you're jumping
into marriage.
1028
00:35:01,583 --> 00:35:03,416
I did not want to jump
into the l word, I guess.
1029
00:35:03,510 --> 00:35:06,586
And advice is, it's different,
I think, for everybody,
1030
00:35:06,605 --> 00:35:08,438
But I think for me,
I know I needed
1031
00:35:08,590 --> 00:35:10,498
To take my time with it.
1032
00:35:10,517 --> 00:35:12,425
It's also--to put things
in perspective,
1033
00:35:12,444 --> 00:35:14,185
We just got married
at first sight.
1034
00:35:14,279 --> 00:35:17,096
It's just--slow some things
down when you can.
1035
00:35:17,116 --> 00:35:18,523
- How have you guys been able
1036
00:35:18,617 --> 00:35:20,951
To have this, like,
happy, healthy family?
1037
00:35:21,102 --> 00:35:23,862
Jess runs every day.
You guys are both working.
1038
00:35:23,956 --> 00:35:26,364
You got a pet, a child,
everything going on.
1039
00:35:26,458 --> 00:35:27,940
How have you been able
to hold that together?
1040
00:35:28,034 --> 00:35:29,275
- I don't--
- teamwork.
1041
00:35:29,294 --> 00:35:31,019
- Yeah, I would say
that we definitely
1042
00:35:31,112 --> 00:35:33,021
Have to work together.
- Yeah.
1043
00:35:33,039 --> 00:35:35,039
- Because it is a lot
when you put it all out there,
1044
00:35:35,192 --> 00:35:36,782
And just being able
to support each other.
1045
00:35:36,877 --> 00:35:38,209
- We're a team.
1046
00:35:38,303 --> 00:35:39,878
We know each other's
strengths and weaknesses.
1047
00:35:40,030 --> 00:35:41,212
And I mean, that's what
a relationship should be, so...
1048
00:35:41,306 --> 00:35:42,973
- Yeah.
1049
00:35:43,200 --> 00:35:43,974
- You guys are
pretty much couple goals
1050
00:35:44,125 --> 00:35:45,625
From the beginning.
1051
00:35:45,644 --> 00:35:48,219
What do you think was the key
to you guys' success?
1052
00:35:48,372 --> 00:35:49,980
- We really wanted
to make it work.
1053
00:35:50,131 --> 00:35:52,040
- Yeah. I mean, yeah.
1054
00:35:52,058 --> 00:35:55,393
And I know a goal
of mine going into it was to,
1055
00:35:55,545 --> 00:35:57,654
I guess, show humility.
1056
00:35:57,805 --> 00:35:59,472
I think
that does go a long way.
1057
00:35:59,566 --> 00:36:00,973
Like, I was here for her.
1058
00:36:00,993 --> 00:36:03,568
I wanted to be goofy
and just be easygoing.
1059
00:36:03,720 --> 00:36:04,903
So I made her feel comfortable.
1060
00:36:05,055 --> 00:36:06,388
I think that went a long way.
1061
00:36:06,406 --> 00:36:07,313
I mean,
that's who I am as a person,
1062
00:36:07,407 --> 00:36:08,890
But I think that--
1063
00:36:08,909 --> 00:36:10,000
- Yeah, so maybe this will
work with miguel then.
1064
00:36:10,227 --> 00:36:11,668
- There you go, yeah.
- All right.
1065
00:36:11,895 --> 00:36:12,894
Let's talk
about miguel and lindy.
1066
00:36:12,913 --> 00:36:14,337
What do you think
of this couple?
1067
00:36:14,489 --> 00:36:16,322
- I think that they're
gonna be a good match.
1068
00:36:16,416 --> 00:36:18,566
- Do you all notice something,
that when the couples come on,
1069
00:36:18,585 --> 00:36:20,177
They always think
everything is gonna work.
1070
00:36:20,404 --> 00:36:21,511
They're like,
"it's going to work."
1071
00:36:21,663 --> 00:36:23,329
- I know, I know.
I'm optimistic.
1072
00:36:23,423 --> 00:36:26,332
I'm always gonna be optimistic
because it worked for us.
1073
00:36:26,351 --> 00:36:27,759
- Well, yeah.
1074
00:36:27,911 --> 00:36:31,170
- But I think
they seem really compatible.
1075
00:36:31,190 --> 00:36:32,747
I think that they're
gonna be a good match.
1076
00:36:32,766 --> 00:36:34,006
- Yeah?
1077
00:36:34,026 --> 00:36:35,250
- I think there's
gonna be definitely,
1078
00:36:35,343 --> 00:36:37,009
Like, an initial spark
for them.
1079
00:36:37,103 --> 00:36:40,104
He seems very emotional--a
lot of emotional depth to him.
1080
00:36:40,199 --> 00:36:42,848
I just worry maybe he's gonna
rush into some things.
1081
00:36:42,868 --> 00:36:44,201
I don't know.
1082
00:36:44,428 --> 00:36:45,427
That's the only thing
that stood out to me
1083
00:36:45,445 --> 00:36:46,611
That could be a red flag.
1084
00:36:46,705 --> 00:36:48,763
But I think they're gonna be,
yeah, good.
1085
00:36:48,782 --> 00:36:50,540
- You guys
had a playful relationship.
1086
00:36:50,767 --> 00:36:53,601
Do you see that as
a possibility with these two?
1087
00:36:53,620 --> 00:36:55,545
- Well, he is into...
- "dungeons and"--
1088
00:36:55,772 --> 00:36:57,272
- "dungeons and dragons."
[laughter]
1089
00:36:57,290 --> 00:36:59,457
- Everybody brings that up.
- We know.
1090
00:36:59,551 --> 00:37:00,866
- Speaking of playful,
1091
00:37:00,886 --> 00:37:02,627
I have a special
sneak peek of miguel
1092
00:37:02,779 --> 00:37:04,779
On the day he told
his friends he was going
1093
00:37:04,872 --> 00:37:06,389
To be married at first sight.
1094
00:37:06,541 --> 00:37:07,465
Just watch.
1095
00:37:07,617 --> 00:37:11,377
[upbeat electronic music]
1096
00:37:11,471 --> 00:37:14,564
- Where's our game master?
- Where is our game master?
1097
00:37:14,716 --> 00:37:18,068
- My friends haven't approved
of prior relationships,
1098
00:37:18,295 --> 00:37:20,962
And I'm going to reveal
that I'm getting married
1099
00:37:20,981 --> 00:37:21,887
To a complete stranger.
1100
00:37:21,907 --> 00:37:23,222
- Hey.
- Hey!
1101
00:37:23,316 --> 00:37:24,649
- Hey.
- Game master is here!
1102
00:37:24,743 --> 00:37:26,225
- Hello, adventurers.
Sorry I'm a little late.
1103
00:37:26,319 --> 00:37:28,578
Hopefully--
- welcome.
1104
00:37:28,730 --> 00:37:30,396
- As you know,
1105
00:37:30,415 --> 00:37:33,808
I haven't had the best luck
in relationships, so--
1106
00:37:33,827 --> 00:37:36,644
- Some of your girlfriends
were like, wah-wah!
1107
00:37:36,738 --> 00:37:38,997
- As you know,
I'm in the running
1108
00:37:39,149 --> 00:37:40,999
To get married at first sight.
1109
00:37:41,093 --> 00:37:44,502
[tense music]
1110
00:37:44,654 --> 00:37:47,672
So in about two weeks...
1111
00:37:47,766 --> 00:37:50,325
♪ ♪
1112
00:37:50,343 --> 00:37:52,494
I am going to get married.
1113
00:37:52,587 --> 00:37:54,086
- Really?
- I'm serious.
1114
00:37:54,106 --> 00:37:56,606
- God.
- That's insane, my god.
1115
00:37:56,833 --> 00:37:58,942
- Well, we got
to cheers to that one.
1116
00:37:59,093 --> 00:38:00,777
- You don't have--oh.
- [laughs]
1117
00:38:01,004 --> 00:38:02,762
- Party foul.
- He's so excited.
1118
00:38:02,781 --> 00:38:04,339
- Party foul.
1119
00:38:04,357 --> 00:38:06,691
- My cup runneth over
with excitement.
1120
00:38:06,785 --> 00:38:09,677
- So what do you think
will be lindy's reaction
1121
00:38:09,771 --> 00:38:11,846
To the world
of "dungeons and dragons"?
1122
00:38:11,865 --> 00:38:13,197
- I hope--
1123
00:38:13,350 --> 00:38:14,682
- I don't really know much
about that world.
1124
00:38:14,701 --> 00:38:16,184
[laughter]
1125
00:38:16,202 --> 00:38:17,961
So I hope that
she is very open-minded.
1126
00:38:18,188 --> 00:38:19,370
- Yeah.
1127
00:38:19,523 --> 00:38:21,039
- It's cool to be passionate
about something,
1128
00:38:21,133 --> 00:38:22,465
And someone sharing it
at least a little bit.
1129
00:38:22,692 --> 00:38:24,208
I wouldn't say
she has to join in,
1130
00:38:24,361 --> 00:38:26,194
But maybe be supportive.
1131
00:38:26,287 --> 00:38:27,453
- Did you notice?
- 100%.
1132
00:38:27,472 --> 00:38:28,863
- Everyone had--
1133
00:38:28,956 --> 00:38:31,032
They were coupled up
except for miguel.
1134
00:38:31,125 --> 00:38:32,958
He needs to bring his woman.
1135
00:38:33,053 --> 00:38:35,628
- And by the way, by the way,
is it bad if your husband
1136
00:38:35,722 --> 00:38:37,388
Is at the comic book store?
1137
00:38:37,541 --> 00:38:38,648
He could be at the club,
or the dispensary,
1138
00:38:38,800 --> 00:38:39,965
Or someplace crazy.
1139
00:38:39,985 --> 00:38:41,543
But no,
he's at the comic book store.
1140
00:38:41,561 --> 00:38:43,061
- She'll always know
where to find him.
1141
00:38:43,155 --> 00:38:44,487
- Yeah!
[laughter]
1142
00:38:44,714 --> 00:38:46,047
- And there's something
to be said for that.
1143
00:38:46,140 --> 00:38:47,565
- I want
to get predictions, okay?
1144
00:38:47,717 --> 00:38:50,051
Will they stay married or get
a divorce on decision day?
1145
00:38:50,070 --> 00:38:51,644
Angelique?
1146
00:38:51,663 --> 00:38:54,814
- I think that their
personalities seem so similar,
1147
00:38:54,833 --> 00:38:57,225
And they seem like
the best match,
1148
00:38:57,243 --> 00:38:59,577
But when they actually get
into this marriage,
1149
00:38:59,671 --> 00:39:02,339
It has some potential
to be a little combustible.
1150
00:39:02,490 --> 00:39:06,067
So I don't know if,
once the hard work starts,
1151
00:39:06,086 --> 00:39:08,753
If they're both
actually gonna make it
1152
00:39:08,905 --> 00:39:10,162
Through that part at the end.
1153
00:39:10,182 --> 00:39:11,739
So I'm gonna go with no
on this one.
1154
00:39:11,758 --> 00:39:13,683
- Nicole, stay married
or get a divorce?
1155
00:39:13,835 --> 00:39:15,000
- You know what?
1156
00:39:15,020 --> 00:39:16,519
You guys totally
changed my mind.
1157
00:39:16,671 --> 00:39:17,762
Just kidding.
1158
00:39:17,856 --> 00:39:20,005
[laughter]
1159
00:39:20,100 --> 00:39:22,508
Absolutely not.
1160
00:39:22,527 --> 00:39:24,861
It is not working.
Game over.
1161
00:39:25,012 --> 00:39:26,270
- And donna?
1162
00:39:26,423 --> 00:39:28,089
- They're gonna both choose
to get a divorce
1163
00:39:28,108 --> 00:39:30,367
Because lindy is still
out here living her life,
1164
00:39:30,518 --> 00:39:31,759
Enjoying life.
1165
00:39:31,853 --> 00:39:33,703
She's not ready
to stop partying.
1166
00:39:33,855 --> 00:39:36,373
This man wants to sit down,
play "dungeons and dragons,"
1167
00:39:36,600 --> 00:39:38,116
Go home, make the bed,
and that's it.
1168
00:39:38,268 --> 00:39:39,617
- What if they can
find a comic book store
1169
00:39:39,769 --> 00:39:41,102
That serves drinks, though?
1170
00:39:41,195 --> 00:39:42,361
- Mm, she could
be the bartender.
1171
00:39:42,381 --> 00:39:43,880
- Okay, that's what I'm saying.
1172
00:39:44,107 --> 00:39:45,865
I think these two
will stay together.
1173
00:39:45,959 --> 00:39:49,552
I believe that this will work
somehow some weird way.
1174
00:39:49,704 --> 00:39:51,054
- Wow.
- Some weird way.
1175
00:39:51,281 --> 00:39:53,297
On decision day,
they will be together.
1176
00:39:53,450 --> 00:39:54,616
Now, if the next day,
1177
00:39:54,709 --> 00:39:56,300
They decide to break up,
I get it.
1178
00:39:56,395 --> 00:39:59,470
But on decision day,
she's gonna go all in
1179
00:39:59,564 --> 00:40:01,289
And head into the world
of "dungeons and dragons."
1180
00:40:01,307 --> 00:40:02,640
Just remember
I told you that, okay?
1181
00:40:02,734 --> 00:40:04,401
[laughter]
1182
00:40:04,552 --> 00:40:07,720
Jessica and austin, what do you
think about this relationship?
1183
00:40:07,739 --> 00:40:08,963
- They're both highly educated,
1184
00:40:08,982 --> 00:40:11,466
And they both seem
emotionally intelligent.
1185
00:40:11,559 --> 00:40:13,243
I think that they are
gonna be a match.
1186
00:40:13,394 --> 00:40:15,245
- All right, austin.
- I agree.
1187
00:40:15,472 --> 00:40:16,654
I think they're
gonna be a match.
1188
00:40:16,748 --> 00:40:18,806
They do seem to have a lot
in common in terms
1189
00:40:18,900 --> 00:40:19,991
Of where they're at
in their life
1190
00:40:20,143 --> 00:40:21,476
And what they want out of life.
1191
00:40:21,569 --> 00:40:23,995
- Mm, okay.
So that's a big yes.
1192
00:40:24,089 --> 00:40:26,481
It's always great when we
get a chance to sit down
1193
00:40:26,499 --> 00:40:27,832
With you, jess and austin,
1194
00:40:27,984 --> 00:40:29,817
Because this is where
we want to end up,
1195
00:40:29,911 --> 00:40:31,819
Five of these,
each and every time.
1196
00:40:31,838 --> 00:40:34,989
We don't get it, but we
want it each and every time.
1197
00:40:35,082 --> 00:40:36,658
- Maybe this is the season.
1198
00:40:36,751 --> 00:40:37,508
- Maybe this is
the season we're--
1199
00:40:37,602 --> 00:40:39,251
- Some positivity.
1200
00:40:39,345 --> 00:40:41,271
- Positivity, positivity.
1201
00:40:41,422 --> 00:40:43,940
These two are just a bundle
of joy and positivity.
1202
00:40:44,091 --> 00:40:46,109
Listen, always great to talk
to you, jess and austin.
1203
00:40:46,336 --> 00:40:47,502
Thanks for coming by
and seeing us.
1204
00:40:47,520 --> 00:40:52,857
- Yeah, thanks for having us.
- Yeah.
1205
00:40:52,951 --> 00:40:54,192
I'm kevin frazier.
1206
00:40:54,344 --> 00:40:55,601
I'm joined
by angelique jackson,
1207
00:40:55,695 --> 00:40:57,454
Nicole haynes, and donna rizzo.
1208
00:40:57,681 --> 00:40:58,771
We are taking a deep dive
into all the couples
1209
00:40:58,790 --> 00:41:00,623
From the new san diego season.
1210
00:41:00,850 --> 00:41:03,275
So let's keep going
with our next couple.
1211
00:41:03,369 --> 00:41:04,702
Binh is in search of a wife
who can share the same values.
1212
00:41:04,796 --> 00:41:08,206
Those very values
made binh the reliable man
1213
00:41:08,358 --> 00:41:12,117
That morgan has described she
wants and needs in a husband.
1214
00:41:12,137 --> 00:41:15,196
Let's take a look
at morgan and binh.
1215
00:41:15,215 --> 00:41:16,622
- Everything I buy is
on clearance, almost.
1216
00:41:16,641 --> 00:41:17,882
Everything I try
to get on sale,
1217
00:41:17,976 --> 00:41:19,884
Meat, shoes, everything.
1218
00:41:20,036 --> 00:41:22,461
I don't do laundry during
peak hours, 4:00 to 9:00.
1219
00:41:22,555 --> 00:41:24,981
- Snack. A whole snack.
1220
00:41:25,208 --> 00:41:27,391
- I make sure to do it
before or after.
1221
00:41:27,544 --> 00:41:28,710
It's part of my lifestyle.
1222
00:41:28,728 --> 00:41:31,154
My goal is to be
financially free by 40.
1223
00:41:31,381 --> 00:41:33,490
So trying to find a way
to be financially free
1224
00:41:33,717 --> 00:41:36,718
To spend time with my kids
and with my wife.
1225
00:41:36,736 --> 00:41:38,161
- You know, some people want,
like, the man
1226
00:41:38,312 --> 00:41:39,887
To be the head of the household
and want them
1227
00:41:39,981 --> 00:41:41,889
To, like, make all
the decisions.
1228
00:41:41,908 --> 00:41:43,391
But I just want an equal.
1229
00:41:43,484 --> 00:41:45,076
If I'm gonna be married
to someone,
1230
00:41:45,228 --> 00:41:46,911
We're gonna be
having equal incomes,
1231
00:41:47,063 --> 00:41:48,654
Equal decision-making,
1232
00:41:48,673 --> 00:41:50,507
Especially in, like,
life decisions.
1233
00:41:50,734 --> 00:41:52,734
- I'm okay modern.
I'm okay traditional.
1234
00:41:52,752 --> 00:41:53,918
I'm not gonna say
I'm a good cook,
1235
00:41:54,070 --> 00:41:55,586
But I can cook,
or I can do the dishes.
1236
00:41:55,739 --> 00:41:56,904
It doesn't matter.
1237
00:41:56,923 --> 00:41:58,573
I think we come
together as a team
1238
00:41:58,591 --> 00:42:00,517
Depending on our strengths
and weaknesses.
1239
00:42:00,668 --> 00:42:03,244
- Growing up, I didn't watch,
like, the usual cartoons.
1240
00:42:03,337 --> 00:42:04,854
It was a lot of, like,
"dragon ball z"
1241
00:42:05,006 --> 00:42:06,189
And "sailor moon."
1242
00:42:06,340 --> 00:42:08,599
So that carried over
1243
00:42:08,752 --> 00:42:10,843
Into my adult life as well.
1244
00:42:10,862 --> 00:42:12,436
He doesn't have to have,
like, exactly
1245
00:42:12,589 --> 00:42:14,179
The same interests as me,
1246
00:42:14,274 --> 00:42:17,367
But I'd like to have him have,
like, a geeky side to him.
1247
00:42:17,594 --> 00:42:19,035
Like, something that kind
of makes him a little bit
1248
00:42:19,186 --> 00:42:20,428
Of a nerd would be nice.
1249
00:42:20,521 --> 00:42:22,205
- I work in corporate america
as an engineer,
1250
00:42:22,432 --> 00:42:24,541
But I find passion
in helping others,
1251
00:42:24,692 --> 00:42:27,602
So nutrition and health
is an avenue to do that.
1252
00:42:27,620 --> 00:42:30,195
And that one hour
personal-training somebody,
1253
00:42:30,290 --> 00:42:32,106
It almost gives me more energy
1254
00:42:32,199 --> 00:42:33,941
Than my whole entire
nine-to-five.
1255
00:42:33,960 --> 00:42:36,201
- I go to the gym quite often,
so I want someone
1256
00:42:36,221 --> 00:42:38,054
Who can go
to the gym with me,
1257
00:42:38,281 --> 00:42:40,131
You know, take good care
of their health.
1258
00:42:40,283 --> 00:42:43,968
As a nurse, I've always really
enjoyed taking care of people,
1259
00:42:44,120 --> 00:42:47,455
And being the one saying that,
like, "you're gonna be okay.
1260
00:42:47,548 --> 00:42:49,123
I'm gonna help you
through this."
1261
00:42:49,142 --> 00:42:51,809
You know,
that's really life-changing.
1262
00:42:51,961 --> 00:42:53,385
- My mom is selfless,
1263
00:42:53,405 --> 00:42:55,146
So I compare
every girl in my life,
1264
00:42:55,298 --> 00:42:56,981
Like, is she gonna be able
to be selfless?
1265
00:42:57,133 --> 00:42:59,075
You know, do the little things
add up?
1266
00:42:59,302 --> 00:43:00,893
- There was a lot
of instability in my childhood,
1267
00:43:00,987 --> 00:43:02,412
But it was like,
1268
00:43:02,563 --> 00:43:03,913
Out of all the things
that were happening,
1269
00:43:04,140 --> 00:43:05,564
It was my mom that, like,
really made
1270
00:43:05,584 --> 00:43:07,417
My childhood a good childhood.
1271
00:43:07,568 --> 00:43:09,660
- I feel like
I'm at a point financially,
1272
00:43:09,813 --> 00:43:11,145
Spiritually, emotionally,
1273
00:43:11,238 --> 00:43:12,571
Where I am ready
to get married.
1274
00:43:12,591 --> 00:43:15,592
- You have so many different
characters in san diego,
1275
00:43:15,743 --> 00:43:17,335
So you have to sift
through all those characters.
1276
00:43:17,429 --> 00:43:19,987
So I'm like, I'm just ready
1277
00:43:20,006 --> 00:43:22,156
For the one
to walk into my life.
1278
00:43:22,175 --> 00:43:24,267
I'm in such a good spot
in my life,
1279
00:43:24,494 --> 00:43:26,251
Where I'm like,
okay, like, bring him in.
1280
00:43:26,271 --> 00:43:28,771
We're good.
Toss him in with me.
1281
00:43:28,923 --> 00:43:32,350
- The happily ever after dream
for me is to find someone
1282
00:43:32,502 --> 00:43:34,018
That's gonna make me better
1283
00:43:34,112 --> 00:43:36,170
And just go through everything
in life together.
1284
00:43:36,189 --> 00:43:37,672
- All right.
1285
00:43:37,690 --> 00:43:39,173
So, ladies, what do you
think of morgan and binh?
1286
00:43:39,266 --> 00:43:41,192
- I love them.
- Yeah?
1287
00:43:41,286 --> 00:43:43,027
- I think they are perfect.
I know I say that a lot.
1288
00:43:43,179 --> 00:43:44,195
But I was right
on steve and noi.
1289
00:43:44,347 --> 00:43:45,604
I think they're perfect.
1290
00:43:45,624 --> 00:43:47,773
They both like
an athletic partner.
1291
00:43:47,792 --> 00:43:49,517
They're both
into the physical.
1292
00:43:49,535 --> 00:43:51,185
These are
two very attractive people.
1293
00:43:51,204 --> 00:43:53,871
Binh, very attractive man.
1294
00:43:54,023 --> 00:43:54,872
[laughter]
I think it's gonna work.
1295
00:43:55,024 --> 00:43:56,190
- Okay!
1296
00:43:56,283 --> 00:43:57,634
- Knew there was
a little something there.
1297
00:43:57,785 --> 00:43:59,043
- When binh came on the screen,
what did you say?
1298
00:43:59,195 --> 00:44:00,285
What did you say
when he came on the screen?
1299
00:44:00,305 --> 00:44:01,971
- She said
he looked like a snack.
1300
00:44:02,123 --> 00:44:03,139
- Oh, a snack, yeah.
1301
00:44:03,290 --> 00:44:04,548
- Literally,
he came on the screen,
1302
00:44:04,701 --> 00:44:06,033
You were like, snack.
1303
00:44:06,052 --> 00:44:09,053
- I am concerned that--
1304
00:44:09,205 --> 00:44:11,539
Just how independent she is.
1305
00:44:11,557 --> 00:44:16,635
- I really need someone
settled, career-oriented.
1306
00:44:16,729 --> 00:44:19,380
You know, they're also, like,
in a really good place in life
1307
00:44:19,399 --> 00:44:20,973
Like I am.
1308
00:44:20,992 --> 00:44:24,402
- I don't think she wants
to be, you know, helping him
1309
00:44:24,496 --> 00:44:25,887
Get himself together.
1310
00:44:25,980 --> 00:44:27,221
She's like,
if he has a problem,
1311
00:44:27,240 --> 00:44:28,890
She's gonna be like,
"okay, you go solve it.
1312
00:44:28,983 --> 00:44:30,482
And then come back to me."
1313
00:44:30,576 --> 00:44:33,077
Not in a way that she's not
nurturing or doesn't care
1314
00:44:33,171 --> 00:44:35,171
About how he's feeling,
but in a way that,
1315
00:44:35,398 --> 00:44:37,415
You know,
she completely changed her life
1316
00:44:37,567 --> 00:44:39,417
When things weren't going well,
1317
00:44:39,511 --> 00:44:41,585
And she's very confident
and just making things better.
1318
00:44:41,738 --> 00:44:42,995
I think she's gonna be like,
1319
00:44:43,014 --> 00:44:44,847
"well, why can't you
do the same?"
1320
00:44:45,074 --> 00:44:47,166
- I think
they're cute as a couple, I do,
1321
00:44:47,185 --> 00:44:49,243
But there are a couple
of red flags for me.
1322
00:44:49,262 --> 00:44:51,837
The whole mama's boy thing,
you know,
1323
00:44:51,856 --> 00:44:53,356
I'm not really
into the mama's boy
1324
00:44:53,507 --> 00:44:56,100
'cause then they're either
with their mama all the time
1325
00:44:56,252 --> 00:44:57,752
Or want you to be their mom.
1326
00:44:57,770 --> 00:44:59,344
And I'm not trying to do that.
I'm your partner.
1327
00:44:59,439 --> 00:45:02,031
- And no one will ever be
at the level your mother is.
1328
00:45:02,258 --> 00:45:03,682
- And it'll sabotage
every relationship.
1329
00:45:03,702 --> 00:45:05,776
- 100%, that's what
I was just about to say.
1330
00:45:05,929 --> 00:45:08,204
Like, if she's not
like his mom,
1331
00:45:08,355 --> 00:45:10,189
Then bye, felicia.
1332
00:45:10,208 --> 00:45:12,767
Nobody can measure up
to your mama.
1333
00:45:12,785 --> 00:45:14,268
- Nobody.
1334
00:45:14,361 --> 00:45:15,770
- And then
this whole frugal thing.
1335
00:45:15,788 --> 00:45:17,547
- Growing up,
I had immigrant parents
1336
00:45:17,774 --> 00:45:19,048
Who grew up
in low socioeconomic areas,
1337
00:45:19,200 --> 00:45:20,624
Skipping meals
and stuff like that.
1338
00:45:20,719 --> 00:45:22,701
The reason why I am frugal
is because of that.
1339
00:45:22,795 --> 00:45:26,538
And I understand that money
is a source to where I want
1340
00:45:26,558 --> 00:45:27,706
To get to financial freedom.
1341
00:45:27,800 --> 00:45:29,300
And I don't care
about the money,
1342
00:45:29,394 --> 00:45:31,060
But I care about the freedom
to live life on my own terms.
1343
00:45:31,287 --> 00:45:33,471
- I mean, I get
where it's coming from.
1344
00:45:33,565 --> 00:45:36,215
He came from, you know,
meager upbringing.
1345
00:45:36,234 --> 00:45:39,643
She did too, so it could work.
1346
00:45:39,796 --> 00:45:41,979
But that would annoy
the hell out of me.
1347
00:45:42,073 --> 00:45:43,555
I'm like, come on, dude.
1348
00:45:43,575 --> 00:45:44,907
We can't go to the store
without you cutting coupons?
1349
00:45:45,059 --> 00:45:46,817
[laughter]
1350
00:45:46,970 --> 00:45:47,910
- Morgan isn't a big spender.
1351
00:45:48,137 --> 00:45:49,487
We're not saying
she spends a lot of money,
1352
00:45:49,639 --> 00:45:50,821
But binh doesn't
spend any money.
1353
00:45:50,974 --> 00:45:52,064
We talked about the coupons.
1354
00:45:52,083 --> 00:45:53,732
But I mean,
how are they gonna nav--
1355
00:45:53,752 --> 00:45:54,992
How do you think that'll mesh?
1356
00:45:55,144 --> 00:45:56,068
Will they find a happy...
- I don't know.
1357
00:45:56,087 --> 00:45:57,495
- Point.
1358
00:45:57,647 --> 00:45:58,479
- Because she might
just do her own thing
1359
00:45:58,498 --> 00:45:59,981
And with her own money.
1360
00:45:59,999 --> 00:46:01,740
- She's like, "I got my money.
Do what you want to do."
1361
00:46:01,760 --> 00:46:03,167
- She's not gonna
compromise anyway.
1362
00:46:03,319 --> 00:46:04,576
- She doesn't care.
- She's so not realistic.
1363
00:46:04,596 --> 00:46:06,320
Both: I know.
1364
00:46:06,339 --> 00:46:08,931
- So when it comes
to finances in a marriage,
1365
00:46:09,158 --> 00:46:11,250
I don't believe
in mixing the finances,
1366
00:46:11,344 --> 00:46:13,010
Sharing a bank account.
1367
00:46:13,162 --> 00:46:14,920
I want things to be separate
because I want us
1368
00:46:15,014 --> 00:46:17,164
To be our own
independent people
1369
00:46:17,183 --> 00:46:20,001
While also working together
at the same time.
1370
00:46:20,019 --> 00:46:21,944
- Once you get married,
it's everybody's money.
1371
00:46:22,096 --> 00:46:24,614
You know?
- You're in a marriage.
1372
00:46:24,765 --> 00:46:26,616
And you're cohabitating
and sharing everything.
1373
00:46:26,767 --> 00:46:28,934
I mean, I think it's healthy
to have your own accounts.
1374
00:46:28,953 --> 00:46:31,120
But there has to be,
in my opinion,
1375
00:46:31,347 --> 00:46:34,015
One account that's shared,
where you put money in
1376
00:46:34,033 --> 00:46:36,793
For the bills
to take care of the household.
1377
00:46:36,944 --> 00:46:39,703
But I think it's good that
they do have separate accounts
1378
00:46:39,798 --> 00:46:42,447
Because clearly, we see he is
living a certain type of way
1379
00:46:42,467 --> 00:46:44,191
With his finances.
1380
00:46:44,210 --> 00:46:45,617
And she needs the financial
independence to do
1381
00:46:45,711 --> 00:46:47,044
Whatever she needs to do.
1382
00:46:47,138 --> 00:46:48,546
- Doesn't sound like
she's willing to even
1383
00:46:48,698 --> 00:46:50,047
Have the joint account.
1384
00:46:50,141 --> 00:46:52,809
And that's the thing
that I'm mostly nervous about.
1385
00:46:53,036 --> 00:46:54,702
- Yeah, she's gonna have
to compromise on that one.
1386
00:46:54,720 --> 00:46:56,312
- Yeah.
1387
00:46:56,463 --> 00:46:58,297
- Morgan says that she wants
a man she can depend on.
1388
00:46:58,316 --> 00:47:00,708
- I've really always
been attracted to someone
1389
00:47:00,726 --> 00:47:02,376
Who, like,
kind of has it together.
1390
00:47:02,395 --> 00:47:05,655
Career-oriented,
confident in who they are.
1391
00:47:05,806 --> 00:47:08,566
Just someone who can
be grounded and stable,
1392
00:47:08,718 --> 00:47:09,992
Who can, like, be there for me
1393
00:47:10,144 --> 00:47:11,810
Like I'm gonna be there
for them.
1394
00:47:11,830 --> 00:47:13,812
- Do you think
that binh is too focused
1395
00:47:13,906 --> 00:47:16,332
On his future and work?
1396
00:47:16,483 --> 00:47:18,909
He's an engineer, and he
also does personal training.
1397
00:47:19,003 --> 00:47:20,485
He's a busy, busy man.
1398
00:47:20,505 --> 00:47:22,396
Oh, and he does some
day trading on the side.
1399
00:47:22,415 --> 00:47:24,323
He is gonna make that money
for his family,
1400
00:47:24,342 --> 00:47:26,750
But would it be too much
where he can't focus on her?
1401
00:47:26,845 --> 00:47:28,994
- I do like the fact
that he said he likes to train
1402
00:47:29,013 --> 00:47:29,920
Because he likes to give back.
1403
00:47:30,014 --> 00:47:31,347
She's a nurse,
1404
00:47:31,574 --> 00:47:34,517
And they both have
this giving thing about them.
1405
00:47:34,668 --> 00:47:37,854
So I think that's gonna
really make her fall for him.
1406
00:47:38,081 --> 00:47:39,914
- Physically,
I think they would have
1407
00:47:39,932 --> 00:47:42,841
To be fit in any capacity,
whether that's,
1408
00:47:42,861 --> 00:47:44,602
They're into yoga,
or into pilates,
1409
00:47:44,754 --> 00:47:45,936
Or anything like that.
1410
00:47:46,030 --> 00:47:47,679
She would have
to be physically fit for me
1411
00:47:47,773 --> 00:47:49,031
To be turned on, for sure.
1412
00:47:49,258 --> 00:47:50,849
- I thought
it was interesting how much
1413
00:47:50,869 --> 00:47:52,259
He kind of expected
his wife to do
1414
00:47:52,278 --> 00:47:54,261
Like a yoga or a pilates.
1415
00:47:54,280 --> 00:47:56,931
And he's gonna be like,
oh, my wife does muay thai.
1416
00:47:56,949 --> 00:47:59,950
I wasn't expecting, you know,
such an active,
1417
00:48:00,103 --> 00:48:02,044
Aggressive style of workout.
1418
00:48:02,271 --> 00:48:03,604
- Right, right.
- He's in for a big shock.
1419
00:48:03,623 --> 00:48:04,881
- Well, that's another thing
1420
00:48:05,032 --> 00:48:07,775
That I do kind of worry
about a little bit is,
1421
00:48:07,793 --> 00:48:11,888
He seems kind of soft-spoken
and not like a tough guy.
1422
00:48:12,039 --> 00:48:16,133
And I feel like she's kind
of looking for a tough guy.
1423
00:48:16,285 --> 00:48:18,802
- Sex is pretty big
in a relationship.
1424
00:48:18,897 --> 00:48:22,064
I want a man who's, you know,
like a man,
1425
00:48:22,216 --> 00:48:23,807
Who's gonna grab me
and be like, "let's have sex."
1426
00:48:23,902 --> 00:48:25,050
I'm like, yes.
1427
00:48:25,144 --> 00:48:27,069
- Oh, she said, sex me.
1428
00:48:27,296 --> 00:48:30,055
- I want to know
you want me, you know?
1429
00:48:30,149 --> 00:48:31,390
Because that's important.
1430
00:48:31,409 --> 00:48:32,891
- How often would
you want to have sex?
1431
00:48:32,911 --> 00:48:34,911
- So I actually looked up
the average number
1432
00:48:35,062 --> 00:48:36,303
For a married couple,
1433
00:48:36,397 --> 00:48:38,230
And it's
about 1.2 times a week.
1434
00:48:38,249 --> 00:48:39,415
- That's interesting.
- Yeah.
1435
00:48:39,642 --> 00:48:41,066
- 1.2.
1436
00:48:41,085 --> 00:48:43,235
- So anywhere around there,
you know,
1437
00:48:43,254 --> 00:48:44,979
I like to excel
in a lot of things.
1438
00:48:44,997 --> 00:48:49,074
So I think maybe 1.5 to 2,
I'm not sure.
1439
00:48:49,093 --> 00:48:51,652
- I'm not sure
what that 0.5 is in sex.
1440
00:48:51,745 --> 00:48:53,654
- 0.5,
maybe one person is lazy,
1441
00:48:53,747 --> 00:48:56,157
And the other person
does all the work.
1442
00:48:56,175 --> 00:48:57,416
- That was interesting.
1443
00:48:57,435 --> 00:48:58,842
- That was like--
I'm like--
1444
00:48:58,995 --> 00:49:00,436
- I was like, wait.
1445
00:49:00,587 --> 00:49:01,845
I asked angelique, I was like,
"what did he just say?"
1446
00:49:01,940 --> 00:49:02,846
- How many is that?
- Can I do some math?
1447
00:49:02,941 --> 00:49:04,348
- Right.
1448
00:49:04,500 --> 00:49:06,684
- Can the mathlete give me
some more details?
1449
00:49:06,778 --> 00:49:08,760
- I thought he was saying
a day, but he was saying--
1450
00:49:08,780 --> 00:49:10,521
- Come on, kevin.
Come on with a day.
1451
00:49:10,673 --> 00:49:12,431
- Right.
No, that's a week?
1452
00:49:12,450 --> 00:49:13,841
- When you first get married,
you're like,
1453
00:49:13,859 --> 00:49:15,100
"ain't nobody else here.
It's just us."
1454
00:49:15,194 --> 00:49:16,677
- Right.
- "let's go."
1455
00:49:16,770 --> 00:49:18,195
- He's too analytical overall.
- Yeah.
1456
00:49:18,347 --> 00:49:20,456
- 1.5 times a week?
1457
00:49:20,683 --> 00:49:22,107
- That ain't gonna
work for her.
1458
00:49:22,126 --> 00:49:23,350
She's gonna look
at him and be like,
1459
00:49:23,369 --> 00:49:24,776
"oh, it's about
to be on and popping.
1460
00:49:24,796 --> 00:49:25,944
"look at his arms.
1461
00:49:25,964 --> 00:49:27,279
He about to pick me up and--"
1462
00:49:27,373 --> 00:49:29,131
"uh, one time per week, honey."
1463
00:49:29,283 --> 00:49:30,782
[laughter]
1464
00:49:30,802 --> 00:49:31,467
- I just hope that works out.
1465
00:49:35,622 --> 00:49:37,956
We're joined by noi and steve
from last season in boston.
1466
00:49:37,976 --> 00:49:39,717
Come on out, y'all.
Hey, hey, hey.
1467
00:49:39,869 --> 00:49:41,293
- Hi!
- Oh, wow.
1468
00:49:41,312 --> 00:49:43,628
- With a bowtie.
- Okay, steve, okay.
1469
00:49:43,648 --> 00:49:46,148
- Looking fabulous!
- He brought the swagger today.
1470
00:49:46,375 --> 00:49:48,467
How are you doing?
- Good to see you too.
1471
00:49:48,486 --> 00:49:50,044
- Good to see you.
Okay, okay.
1472
00:49:50,062 --> 00:49:51,303
- Good to see you again.
- Okay, baller.
1473
00:49:51,322 --> 00:49:52,471
I see you, man.
Good to see you.
1474
00:49:52,490 --> 00:49:53,638
Okay.
- Hi.
1475
00:49:53,658 --> 00:49:55,065
- Hi.
- Nice to meet you guys.
1476
00:49:55,159 --> 00:49:56,900
- Okay, was that your choice,
1477
00:49:57,053 --> 00:49:58,143
Or was that his choice?
1478
00:49:58,162 --> 00:50:00,663
- It's all me, baby.
- I love that.
1479
00:50:00,814 --> 00:50:02,239
I'm not mad at you.
1480
00:50:02,391 --> 00:50:03,666
What's new since
the last time we saw y'all?
1481
00:50:03,893 --> 00:50:06,651
- We've just been
spending time together,
1482
00:50:06,671 --> 00:50:09,672
Hanging out with friends
and family, yeah,
1483
00:50:09,899 --> 00:50:11,232
And just having more
of a normal routine.
1484
00:50:11,250 --> 00:50:13,917
- Have you officially
moved in together?
1485
00:50:14,012 --> 00:50:16,178
- We haven't yet.
1486
00:50:16,405 --> 00:50:18,180
We have talked
about a timeline for that.
1487
00:50:18,407 --> 00:50:19,907
- What's the holdup?
1488
00:50:19,925 --> 00:50:21,851
Can you please tell me
what's going on?
1489
00:50:22,002 --> 00:50:25,763
- I think we're just getting
off of this whole, you know,
1490
00:50:25,857 --> 00:50:29,433
Being married to a stranger
and trying to figure out,
1491
00:50:29,527 --> 00:50:31,843
You know, what makes
the most sense for us.
1492
00:50:31,937 --> 00:50:35,272
So we're really trying
to do it on our own timeline.
1493
00:50:35,424 --> 00:50:37,349
- One important thing
for us is just really,
1494
00:50:37,368 --> 00:50:39,276
You know,
ironing out everything--
1495
00:50:39,370 --> 00:50:40,944
I mean, you know, we've had
our issues on the show
1496
00:50:41,039 --> 00:50:42,613
As well as things afterwards--
1497
00:50:42,707 --> 00:50:44,765
And just making sure, you know,
everything's in alignment.
1498
00:50:44,858 --> 00:50:46,450
We don't want
to be tying up loose ends
1499
00:50:46,602 --> 00:50:50,046
When we're, you know,
taking that next step.
1500
00:50:50,273 --> 00:50:52,456
- I know it wasn't that long
ago that we saw each other,
1501
00:50:52,608 --> 00:50:55,217
But how's the family planning
coming along?
1502
00:50:55,444 --> 00:50:57,386
- [chuckles]
1503
00:50:57,613 --> 00:50:59,871
- We've been practicing.
[laughter]
1504
00:50:59,891 --> 00:51:01,706
- I'm not mad at you.
I'm not mad at you.
1505
00:51:01,726 --> 00:51:03,951
There you go.
- Yeah, we're practicing.
1506
00:51:03,969 --> 00:51:05,636
- Yeah, I know your parents
are like, let's go.
1507
00:51:05,788 --> 00:51:06,787
- That's the first time I met--
- yeah.
1508
00:51:06,806 --> 00:51:07,730
- Her mom.
1509
00:51:07,957 --> 00:51:08,806
- I'm pretty sure
that was, like,
1510
00:51:08,958 --> 00:51:09,807
One of the first conversations
1511
00:51:09,959 --> 00:51:11,049
My mom had
with him at the wedding.
1512
00:51:11,143 --> 00:51:12,643
- I know,
that's what I mean.
1513
00:51:12,795 --> 00:51:14,052
So are they, like, knocking
on the door every day like,
1514
00:51:14,146 --> 00:51:15,554
Hey, guys, what you doing?
1515
00:51:15,573 --> 00:51:17,073
- Yeah.
- Got a baby in there yet?
1516
00:51:17,300 --> 00:51:19,057
- Every time my mom calls me,
she's like, so what's new?
1517
00:51:19,077 --> 00:51:20,651
And I know what
she's asking is,
1518
00:51:20,803 --> 00:51:22,319
So like, is there any news?
1519
00:51:22,471 --> 00:51:23,895
- Her terminology--
- really?
1520
00:51:23,915 --> 00:51:25,414
- Is, "I want good news."
- yeah, yeah.
1521
00:51:25,566 --> 00:51:26,657
- That's her terminology.
- Aw.
1522
00:51:26,809 --> 00:51:28,142
- I want good news.
1523
00:51:28,235 --> 00:51:30,144
[laughter]
1524
00:51:30,237 --> 00:51:31,478
Do y'all have any questions
for noi and steve?
1525
00:51:31,497 --> 00:51:33,923
- Yes.
- What happened?
1526
00:51:34,150 --> 00:51:36,258
- You know, you're my dude.
I love you.
1527
00:51:36,485 --> 00:51:39,911
You're a great communicator.
You're a good catch.
1528
00:51:39,931 --> 00:51:42,840
You know, my one thing
with you all season
1529
00:51:42,992 --> 00:51:45,843
Was this employment situation.
1530
00:51:45,995 --> 00:51:47,661
- Oh, I didn't see it coming.
1531
00:51:47,680 --> 00:51:49,496
[laughter]
1532
00:51:49,515 --> 00:51:50,922
- Can we get
to the real issue at heart?
1533
00:51:50,942 --> 00:51:53,609
Because, I mean,
steve's job status--
1534
00:51:53,836 --> 00:51:55,185
- He doesn't want a job!
- Exactly.
1535
00:51:55,279 --> 00:51:56,670
- Ain't no hard time!
1536
00:51:56,689 --> 00:51:58,597
- Nicole, do you
feel passionately about this?
1537
00:51:58,691 --> 00:52:00,116
- I just feel bad for noi
1538
00:52:00,343 --> 00:52:01,784
'cause the girl had
to work her ass off...
1539
00:52:02,011 --> 00:52:03,435
- She did.
- To get where she is.
1540
00:52:03,454 --> 00:52:05,179
And they hook her up
with this dude
1541
00:52:05,197 --> 00:52:06,864
That wants her
to be his sugar mama.
1542
00:52:07,016 --> 00:52:10,367
So what is your status?
1543
00:52:10,519 --> 00:52:13,129
- Um...
1544
00:52:13,356 --> 00:52:14,463
I'm not looking
for a sugar mama,
1545
00:52:14,615 --> 00:52:17,358
As some of you
may have alluded to.
1546
00:52:17,376 --> 00:52:18,801
- He's been sitting
on that one for a minute.
1547
00:52:18,952 --> 00:52:20,803
- He's like, I can't wait
to get in front of nicole.
1548
00:52:21,030 --> 00:52:23,046
- Was it sugar, sug--
- let me tell you.
1549
00:52:23,199 --> 00:52:24,623
- Right.
- He's like, okay.
1550
00:52:24,642 --> 00:52:26,200
- But yeah, no.
1551
00:52:26,218 --> 00:52:27,977
I have a plan,
and I have a timetable.
1552
00:52:28,128 --> 00:52:29,311
Me and noi,
we're gonna reconnect
1553
00:52:29,463 --> 00:52:31,388
And talk
about where things stand.
1554
00:52:31,540 --> 00:52:32,890
Is she happy where it's at?
1555
00:52:33,042 --> 00:52:35,058
Does she want me to get a job,
1556
00:52:35,153 --> 00:52:37,153
Or are things going well
1557
00:52:37,304 --> 00:52:39,730
In the other creative outlets
that I'm doing?
1558
00:52:39,824 --> 00:52:41,157
- Right.
1559
00:52:41,308 --> 00:52:42,549
- But yeah,
I've been exploring
1560
00:52:42,643 --> 00:52:43,734
Whether I should stay
in the tech field
1561
00:52:43,886 --> 00:52:45,219
Or do something else.
1562
00:52:45,312 --> 00:52:46,662
But that's as far
as the job goes.
1563
00:52:46,813 --> 00:52:48,164
- Let me ask you this.
1564
00:52:48,315 --> 00:52:49,573
Financially,
you're comfortable?
1565
00:52:49,725 --> 00:52:51,742
- Yeah, I'm comfortable.
I've been comfortable.
1566
00:52:51,836 --> 00:52:54,228
We haven't had a problem,
any problems, financially.
1567
00:52:54,321 --> 00:52:56,172
So as far as that,
I feel like that's covered.
1568
00:52:56,323 --> 00:52:58,674
- Noi, are you comfortable
with the situation?
1569
00:52:58,825 --> 00:53:02,327
- It's still a little,
like, unnerving for me.
1570
00:53:02,346 --> 00:53:06,089
But I also understand
his need to explore
1571
00:53:06,242 --> 00:53:07,908
And be creative and work on,
1572
00:53:07,927 --> 00:53:09,501
You know,
his dreams and aspirations.
1573
00:53:09,595 --> 00:53:14,248
So we've worked on a timeline,
so that makes me feel better.
1574
00:53:14,266 --> 00:53:16,358
- So when steve reveals
his millions to you,
1575
00:53:16,585 --> 00:53:20,345
What kind of creative things
would you like to do
1576
00:53:20,364 --> 00:53:21,755
That you haven't told him yet?
1577
00:53:21,774 --> 00:53:24,015
- Yeah, I would love
to do a travel blog.
1578
00:53:24,035 --> 00:53:25,701
I would love to see the world.
1579
00:53:25,852 --> 00:53:26,944
- Love it.
1580
00:53:27,096 --> 00:53:30,021
- I love to work with kids.
1581
00:53:30,041 --> 00:53:31,707
So there's a lot
of different things
1582
00:53:31,934 --> 00:53:34,117
That I want to do
that are probably more creative
1583
00:53:34,270 --> 00:53:36,937
And not, you know,
the standard nine-to-five.
1584
00:53:37,030 --> 00:53:39,106
- I love that.
- That's amazing.
1585
00:53:39,124 --> 00:53:40,382
- By the way,
did y'all go on the road trip?
1586
00:53:40,534 --> 00:53:42,459
- Yeah.
- Yes.
1587
00:53:42,553 --> 00:53:43,794
- How was it?
1588
00:53:43,946 --> 00:53:46,447
- I am not about that van life.
1589
00:53:46,540 --> 00:53:48,873
[laughter]
- I didn't think so.
1590
00:53:48,893 --> 00:53:50,059
- But that's not a surprise.
- Nope.
1591
00:53:50,210 --> 00:53:51,393
[laughter]
1592
00:53:51,545 --> 00:53:52,895
- He's like, look--
1593
00:53:53,122 --> 00:53:54,730
- I did it, though.
- She tried.
1594
00:53:54,881 --> 00:53:55,898
- Can't you get,
like, a winnebago,
1595
00:53:56,049 --> 00:53:57,140
Something luxurious?
1596
00:53:57,293 --> 00:53:58,809
Clearly, your wife is not--
1597
00:53:58,961 --> 00:54:01,128
Like, your wife is
not down with van life.
1598
00:54:01,146 --> 00:54:02,463
- We need something
that props out,
1599
00:54:02,481 --> 00:54:03,814
And a queen size bed rolls out,
and maybe--
1600
00:54:03,966 --> 00:54:05,132
- Yeah.
- A tv on the wall.
1601
00:54:05,150 --> 00:54:06,467
You're right.
Maybe we'll try again.
1602
00:54:06,560 --> 00:54:08,151
Maybe we'll try again, right?
- Yeah.
1603
00:54:08,246 --> 00:54:09,303
- She said, wait, no.
1604
00:54:09,396 --> 00:54:10,395
That's not what
I signed up for.
1605
00:54:10,414 --> 00:54:11,896
- Call me in a year.
- No.
1606
00:54:11,916 --> 00:54:13,916
- We'll give it some time.
- Yeah.
1607
00:54:14,067 --> 00:54:17,311
- Let's continue chatting
about morgan and binh.
1608
00:54:17,329 --> 00:54:19,146
What do you think
of morgan and binh?
1609
00:54:19,164 --> 00:54:20,998
- I mean, from what
I've seen so far,
1610
00:54:21,150 --> 00:54:22,316
Morgan seems like a sweetheart.
1611
00:54:22,409 --> 00:54:25,168
She seems like
she knows what she wants.
1612
00:54:25,321 --> 00:54:26,653
I'm a bit concerned.
1613
00:54:26,672 --> 00:54:28,489
It seems like binh
maybe doesn't have
1614
00:54:28,507 --> 00:54:30,099
As much relationship
experience,
1615
00:54:30,250 --> 00:54:31,916
Which, I mean,
don't get me wrong,
1616
00:54:31,936 --> 00:54:34,770
This guy, across the board,
baller--asian baller.
1617
00:54:34,997 --> 00:54:35,996
So you know, he has
a piece of my heart.
1618
00:54:36,015 --> 00:54:37,606
[laughter]
1619
00:54:37,758 --> 00:54:41,259
It's just, coming into the
"married at first sight" world
1620
00:54:41,279 --> 00:54:42,761
Without that
relationship experience,
1621
00:54:42,855 --> 00:54:44,095
I'm a bit scared for him.
1622
00:54:44,115 --> 00:54:45,339
- And get ready
for that, right?
1623
00:54:45,357 --> 00:54:46,690
- Yeah.
1624
00:54:46,842 --> 00:54:48,358
- So at the bachelorette party,
1625
00:54:48,511 --> 00:54:49,768
Morgan revealed that she has
a little bit of a wild side.
1626
00:54:49,862 --> 00:54:52,195
I mean, it just came out.
1627
00:54:52,348 --> 00:54:53,622
Here's a sneak peek.
1628
00:54:53,774 --> 00:54:56,700
[cheering]
1629
00:54:56,852 --> 00:54:59,686
[upbeat rock music]
1630
00:54:59,705 --> 00:55:04,358
♪ ♪
1631
00:55:04,376 --> 00:55:09,454
- Morgan is so spunky
and so surprising.
1632
00:55:09,473 --> 00:55:10,973
And she was a little quiet
at first,
1633
00:55:11,200 --> 00:55:12,791
But I was like,
I know that there's more.
1634
00:55:12,885 --> 00:55:14,535
I'm here for it.
1635
00:55:14,553 --> 00:55:17,646
Her husband,
he's in for a really good time.
1636
00:55:17,798 --> 00:55:20,983
- I just want someone
who looks at me and who's like,
1637
00:55:21,134 --> 00:55:23,727
[bleep], you know?
1638
00:55:23,879 --> 00:55:26,563
I want him to come on to me.
1639
00:55:26,715 --> 00:55:28,732
I want him to initiate.
1640
00:55:28,884 --> 00:55:32,069
- Girl, you have been bitching
about the lack
1641
00:55:32,163 --> 00:55:33,978
Of sexual intimacy for--
1642
00:55:33,998 --> 00:55:35,164
- July.
- Quite some time.
1643
00:55:35,315 --> 00:55:36,406
July?
- July.
1644
00:55:36,559 --> 00:55:38,483
- It's been,
like, seven months.
1645
00:55:38,502 --> 00:55:40,002
- What would be your reaction
if you saw your wife
1646
00:55:40,229 --> 00:55:43,505
Climbing across the bar
with drawers out?
1647
00:55:43,732 --> 00:55:46,066
- You know, it could
either be a turnoff for him,
1648
00:55:46,159 --> 00:55:47,325
Or it could very
much turn him on.
1649
00:55:47,419 --> 00:55:49,236
You never know.
- Yeah, that's true.
1650
00:55:49,329 --> 00:55:52,330
- I appreciate her energy,
I will say.
1651
00:55:52,424 --> 00:55:54,741
I like that she's having fun.
- Right, right, right.
1652
00:55:54,760 --> 00:55:55,759
- Like, she's
about to get married,
1653
00:55:55,911 --> 00:55:57,168
And she's really just like,
1654
00:55:57,188 --> 00:55:58,412
"I don't care.
I just want to have fun."
1655
00:55:58,430 --> 00:56:00,581
And I like that.
I like that about her.
1656
00:56:00,674 --> 00:56:02,749
- Binh says
he wants to have sex
1657
00:56:02,768 --> 00:56:05,694
About 1.5 times a week.
1658
00:56:05,846 --> 00:56:07,863
Morgan says she wants a man
who's just gonna come
1659
00:56:08,014 --> 00:56:10,515
And grab her
and be passionate.
1660
00:56:10,534 --> 00:56:13,110
What advice could you give
to binh right now
1661
00:56:13,262 --> 00:56:15,186
About sex 1.5 times a week?
1662
00:56:15,280 --> 00:56:17,355
I'm just curious.
1663
00:56:17,375 --> 00:56:19,375
- Maybe we should pump those
numbers up a little bit.
1664
00:56:19,526 --> 00:56:21,210
[laughter]
1665
00:56:21,437 --> 00:56:22,711
Yeah.
1666
00:56:22,863 --> 00:56:24,454
I mean, I don't know how
he's gonna pull that off.
1667
00:56:24,607 --> 00:56:26,773
- I don't understand the 0.5.
1668
00:56:26,792 --> 00:56:28,217
- That's the confusing part.
- Can you explain that?
1669
00:56:28,368 --> 00:56:30,552
- Well, we know it's three
times every two weeks, okay?
1670
00:56:30,779 --> 00:56:32,963
- Oh, yeah, okay,
stretch it out over the--
1671
00:56:33,115 --> 00:56:34,390
[laughter]
- yeah, I mean--
1672
00:56:34,541 --> 00:56:35,949
- I think--yeah, you know,
1673
00:56:35,968 --> 00:56:37,467
I think maybe
don't put a hard number on it.
1674
00:56:37,620 --> 00:56:38,802
Maybe see, you know,
what the energy is like
1675
00:56:38,896 --> 00:56:40,470
That week and next week.
1676
00:56:40,623 --> 00:56:42,064
- Okay.
1677
00:56:42,215 --> 00:56:43,899
It's time to vote on what
we think will happen.
1678
00:56:44,050 --> 00:56:46,402
Will they stay married or
get divorced on decision day?
1679
00:56:46,553 --> 00:56:47,978
Panelists first.
1680
00:56:48,130 --> 00:56:49,405
Angelique,
you always lead the way.
1681
00:56:49,556 --> 00:56:50,981
What do you think?
1682
00:56:51,075 --> 00:56:55,802
- I'm going to be really
optimistic here and say yes
1683
00:56:55,821 --> 00:56:57,971
Because I think
they're gonna fight
1684
00:56:57,990 --> 00:56:59,081
Through their problems.
1685
00:56:59,232 --> 00:57:00,824
I was not so sure.
1686
00:57:00,918 --> 00:57:03,310
You know, I went back and forth
with you guys and thought,
1687
00:57:03,328 --> 00:57:04,736
It's gonna be really easy,
and then I was like,
1688
00:57:04,755 --> 00:57:06,755
"oh, maybe this is a little
tougher than I thought."
1689
00:57:06,907 --> 00:57:09,316
But you guys stuck with it,
and I think they might too.
1690
00:57:09,409 --> 00:57:11,334
- Nicole?
- All right, that's beautiful.
1691
00:57:11,429 --> 00:57:13,077
[laughs]
1692
00:57:13,172 --> 00:57:14,430
- Will they stay together
1693
00:57:14,581 --> 00:57:15,431
Or get divorced
on decision day?
1694
00:57:15,582 --> 00:57:16,765
- Oh, man.
1695
00:57:16,992 --> 00:57:19,509
I want them to stay
together, obviously.
1696
00:57:19,603 --> 00:57:21,845
I want everybody to win.
1697
00:57:21,997 --> 00:57:24,848
But I don't think so.
1698
00:57:24,942 --> 00:57:26,608
- No?
- No.
1699
00:57:26,760 --> 00:57:28,760
I think there's just a couple
fundamental differences
1700
00:57:28,779 --> 00:57:30,946
That are gonna drive a wedge.
1701
00:57:31,097 --> 00:57:33,598
- I think morgan is gonna
have a hard time compromising,
1702
00:57:33,617 --> 00:57:35,600
But I do think,
at the end of the day,
1703
00:57:35,619 --> 00:57:37,527
Both of these guys
really want it.
1704
00:57:37,621 --> 00:57:39,455
And so I think they're gonna
choose to stay married.
1705
00:57:39,682 --> 00:57:41,623
- This is gonna work out.
I think he'll compromise.
1706
00:57:41,775 --> 00:57:42,866
She'll be into him.
1707
00:57:42,960 --> 00:57:44,126
He's a--
- snack.
1708
00:57:44,353 --> 00:57:45,852
- Thank you.
1709
00:57:45,871 --> 00:57:47,370
He's a snack,
so it won't even matter.
1710
00:57:47,523 --> 00:57:49,298
He's a snack.
He's a snack.
1711
00:57:49,449 --> 00:57:51,208
Noi and steve,
what will happen?
1712
00:57:51,302 --> 00:57:53,117
Do you think they will stay
together on decision day
1713
00:57:53,212 --> 00:57:55,137
Or get a divorce?
1714
00:57:55,364 --> 00:57:59,866
- I think it'll be,
like, a slow growth
1715
00:57:59,885 --> 00:58:01,218
With them in the beginning,
1716
00:58:01,312 --> 00:58:03,386
But I think they'll
choose each other, yeah.
1717
00:58:03,481 --> 00:58:05,296
- Steve?
1718
00:58:05,390 --> 00:58:08,967
- Yeah, I think they both have
a determined, fighting spirit,
1719
00:58:08,986 --> 00:58:11,044
So I think they both
will do what it takes,
1720
00:58:11,063 --> 00:58:13,213
You know, that's necessary
to make it work.
1721
00:58:13,232 --> 00:58:14,715
I hope so.
1722
00:58:14,733 --> 00:58:16,066
You know, I definitely
want to support them.
1723
00:58:16,160 --> 00:58:18,051
So I'm gonna vote yes.
1724
00:58:18,070 --> 00:58:20,144
- Maybe they'll call for help.
They'll call for advice.
1725
00:58:20,164 --> 00:58:21,888
- Yeah, give me a call
if you need anything, guys.
1726
00:58:21,982 --> 00:58:24,148
- It is great seeing y'all.
I love the outfit.
1727
00:58:24,168 --> 00:58:25,316
- Thank you.
- I love that.
1728
00:58:25,336 --> 00:58:26,560
And we're going
to noi's apartment
1729
00:58:26,578 --> 00:58:27,819
To get her stuff tonight,
y'all, okay?
1730
00:58:27,838 --> 00:58:30,080
- You guys ready?
- Let's go.
1731
00:58:30,174 --> 00:58:32,007
- Noi and steve, thank you
so much for being here.
1732
00:58:36,162 --> 00:58:36,903
Please say hello
to lindsey and mark.
1733
00:58:36,922 --> 00:58:38,847
- Hello.
- Hi.
1734
00:58:39,074 --> 00:58:40,590
How are you?
1735
00:58:40,743 --> 00:58:41,575
Hello, hello.
- Hi.
1736
00:58:41,593 --> 00:58:43,093
Hey. How are you?
1737
00:58:43,245 --> 00:58:44,427
- Hello, friend.
- Look at you.
1738
00:58:44,580 --> 00:58:46,337
- How are you doing?
Mark, what's going on?
1739
00:58:46,357 --> 00:58:47,748
- What's up, buddy?
How you doing?
1740
00:58:47,841 --> 00:58:48,690
- Look at you, man.
- Right?
1741
00:58:48,842 --> 00:58:50,083
I know, all svelte.
1742
00:58:50,176 --> 00:58:51,418
- Okay, lady in red.
Okay.
1743
00:58:51,511 --> 00:58:52,677
- Bringing it.
- Okay.
1744
00:58:52,771 --> 00:58:54,012
How are y'all doing?
1745
00:58:54,031 --> 00:58:55,772
Mark, look at you.
- Doing good, doing good.
1746
00:58:55,924 --> 00:58:56,940
Can't complain.
- You working out, man?
1747
00:58:57,092 --> 00:58:57,924
- Every day.
- Yeah?
1748
00:58:57,943 --> 00:58:59,276
- Yeah.
1749
00:58:59,428 --> 00:59:00,610
- Wow, you brought
your sexy game here, huh?
1750
00:59:00,704 --> 00:59:02,262
[laughter]
1751
00:59:02,355 --> 00:59:03,354
And, lindsey,
how have you been?
1752
00:59:03,374 --> 00:59:05,040
- I've been so good.
- Yeah?
1753
00:59:05,267 --> 00:59:06,858
- Yeah, I just feel
really lucky.
1754
00:59:06,877 --> 00:59:08,935
- You moved out west.
- I did.
1755
00:59:09,029 --> 00:59:11,046
- How's that going for you?
1756
00:59:11,197 --> 00:59:13,549
- It's going better than
I could have ever imagined.
1757
00:59:13,700 --> 00:59:15,217
- Oh, wow, okay.
- Okay.
1758
00:59:15,368 --> 00:59:17,553
I have some pretty interesting
never-before-seen footage
1759
00:59:17,704 --> 00:59:19,963
From "where are they now?"
that I want y'all to watch.
1760
00:59:20,057 --> 00:59:21,557
It's fun.
1761
00:59:21,708 --> 00:59:23,283
- Okay,
you said that at reunion.
1762
00:59:23,376 --> 00:59:24,226
I don't know if I believe you.
1763
00:59:24,377 --> 00:59:25,561
[laughter]
1764
00:59:28,957 --> 00:59:30,548
♪ ♪
1765
00:59:30,642 --> 00:59:32,216
- Oh, my god, you were so much.
1766
00:59:32,236 --> 00:59:34,127
I cut you off.
1767
00:59:34,220 --> 00:59:35,887
Love your, like, furry hair.
1768
00:59:35,981 --> 00:59:37,314
- Yeah?
- Yeah.
1769
00:59:37,408 --> 00:59:38,723
Okay.
- Okay.
1770
00:59:38,817 --> 00:59:40,058
- Ooh!
- Okay!
1771
00:59:40,077 --> 00:59:41,577
- You was here
for five seconds.
1772
00:59:42,746 --> 00:59:44,971
- Mark.
1773
00:59:45,065 --> 00:59:46,415
- Oh, he asked me
to cuddle with him
1774
00:59:46,566 --> 00:59:47,490
And lie down with him.
1775
00:59:47,585 --> 00:59:49,084
It went on till today.
1776
00:59:57,486 --> 00:59:58,501
- Aww.
1777
00:59:58,596 --> 01:00:00,153
[laughter]
1778
01:00:00,172 --> 01:00:01,763
- Bring it in.
- Oh!
1779
01:00:12,425 --> 01:00:15,259
- Okay.
All right, mark.
1780
01:00:15,279 --> 01:00:16,686
- This is what marriage
to mark is like,
1781
01:00:16,839 --> 01:00:18,004
A lot of hot and cold.
1782
01:00:18,098 --> 01:00:19,189
- We had so much fun.
- Yeah.
1783
01:00:19,283 --> 01:00:22,025
- Make out already!
Just make out already.
1784
01:00:22,119 --> 01:00:23,860
♪ ♪
1785
01:00:24,012 --> 01:00:26,363
- Wow, well, that was a--
- okay.
1786
01:00:26,457 --> 01:00:28,698
- So did anything happen
between y'all that night?
1787
01:00:28,792 --> 01:00:31,518
- Um...
1788
01:00:31,536 --> 01:00:32,869
- No.
- No, no, no.
1789
01:00:32,963 --> 01:00:34,630
- No, okay.
- No.
1790
01:00:34,781 --> 01:00:37,023
- All right, mark, what did
you think about that video?
1791
01:00:37,042 --> 01:00:38,708
- Um...
1792
01:00:38,861 --> 01:00:41,378
It was interesting to see it.
1793
01:00:41,472 --> 01:00:44,197
No, I think the way
we interacted that day,
1794
01:00:44,290 --> 01:00:46,808
It was just nice
because we had come
1795
01:00:46,960 --> 01:00:50,294
From such
a really tough reunion.
1796
01:00:50,314 --> 01:00:51,538
- But hold on.
Let me just ask.
1797
01:00:51,631 --> 01:00:52,964
Were you hoping to rekindle?
1798
01:00:52,983 --> 01:00:54,465
- No.
- Were you hoping one last--
1799
01:00:54,485 --> 01:00:55,984
- But it was nice
to laugh with lindsey.
1800
01:00:56,136 --> 01:00:57,560
It was nice
to enjoy a good time
1801
01:00:57,713 --> 01:00:59,303
Without having fights.
1802
01:00:59,323 --> 01:01:00,972
When we have fun, it's great.
1803
01:01:00,991 --> 01:01:02,899
When we don't, it's fighting.
1804
01:01:02,993 --> 01:01:04,642
- Mm-hmm.
1805
01:01:04,662 --> 01:01:06,903
- So it's--literally,
there's no, like, in between.
1806
01:01:07,055 --> 01:01:08,479
It's one or the other.
1807
01:01:08,499 --> 01:01:09,981
- Could there
be a romantic future...
1808
01:01:10,000 --> 01:01:11,149
- No.
- For you and lindsey?
1809
01:01:11,168 --> 01:01:12,409
- No, no.
- No, I have my guy.
1810
01:01:12,561 --> 01:01:14,244
- Hold on,
I was asking mark.
1811
01:01:14,338 --> 01:01:15,504
I was asking mark.
1812
01:01:15,655 --> 01:01:16,913
- As friends, sure.
1813
01:01:17,007 --> 01:01:20,400
As anything more, no.
1814
01:01:20,419 --> 01:01:21,751
- Lindsey, you said
you have your guy.
1815
01:01:21,845 --> 01:01:23,069
- [laughs]
1816
01:01:23,088 --> 01:01:26,756
So it's my long-lost love
back again.
1817
01:01:26,850 --> 01:01:31,169
11 years ago today,
we were in costa rica together.
1818
01:01:31,188 --> 01:01:33,079
We talked for years
after we broke up
1819
01:01:33,173 --> 01:01:34,839
Because I really loved him.
1820
01:01:34,858 --> 01:01:36,750
But he wanted to get married,
and I wasn't ready.
1821
01:01:36,768 --> 01:01:38,919
So I moved away,
and I kind of really hurt him.
1822
01:01:38,937 --> 01:01:40,511
And I literally thought
of him the other day,
1823
01:01:40,531 --> 01:01:41,697
And I saw a message from him.
1824
01:01:41,848 --> 01:01:43,014
And it said,
"hey, how are you?"
1825
01:01:43,033 --> 01:01:44,515
And I said,
"hey, I'm in california."
1826
01:01:44,535 --> 01:01:47,035
He lives in california.
He said, "well, what part?"
1827
01:01:47,187 --> 01:01:48,537
I said, "san francisco."
1828
01:01:48,764 --> 01:01:49,854
He said, "well,
I'm on a flight right now
1829
01:01:49,873 --> 01:01:51,540
Landing in san francisco
in two hours."
1830
01:01:51,691 --> 01:01:53,283
And he was
at my house in three.
1831
01:01:53,435 --> 01:01:55,377
I've been down there
to visit him twice.
1832
01:01:55,604 --> 01:01:57,454
He's been up here
to visit me twice.
1833
01:01:57,548 --> 01:02:00,957
And we're just navigating
how to make it work
1834
01:02:01,051 --> 01:02:02,884
While he's in long beach
and I'm in san francisco
1835
01:02:03,036 --> 01:02:04,611
Until we can be
in the same house
1836
01:02:04,704 --> 01:02:06,446
And have a family
and get married
1837
01:02:06,465 --> 01:02:07,705
And do the whole thing.
1838
01:02:07,799 --> 01:02:09,282
- Wow.
- Wow.
1839
01:02:09,301 --> 01:02:10,784
- Yeah.
1840
01:02:10,802 --> 01:02:12,227
- And you're seeing
somebody else now?
1841
01:02:12,454 --> 01:02:15,213
- Um...
1842
01:02:15,307 --> 01:02:16,714
Been chatting with someone,
1843
01:02:16,734 --> 01:02:18,625
But just--I think,
from the marriage,
1844
01:02:18,643 --> 01:02:21,294
It's, you know,
breathable is good.
1845
01:02:21,387 --> 01:02:23,463
You know, nothing too serious.
1846
01:02:23,482 --> 01:02:25,131
- What about crystal
that you went on a date with
1847
01:02:25,150 --> 01:02:26,149
From "where are they now?"
1848
01:02:26,301 --> 01:02:28,726
- It was a great date.
1849
01:02:28,820 --> 01:02:30,136
You know, she's a good person.
1850
01:02:30,155 --> 01:02:32,305
It just--it wasn't
in the cards, so...
1851
01:02:32,324 --> 01:02:34,232
- But you seem happy now.
1852
01:02:34,326 --> 01:02:35,584
- Yeah, I think, you know,
1853
01:02:35,811 --> 01:02:38,828
How I was
prior to getting married,
1854
01:02:38,981 --> 01:02:40,497
You know, I kind of longed--
I wanted this,
1855
01:02:40,649 --> 01:02:43,316
I wanted this,
and then going through it,
1856
01:02:43,409 --> 01:02:45,168
You know,
it definitely changed me.
1857
01:02:45,320 --> 01:02:47,487
It changed me in a way where
I don't really, like, need it.
1858
01:02:47,506 --> 01:02:49,765
If it comes, cool.
If it doesn't, I'm good.
1859
01:02:49,916 --> 01:02:51,825
You know,
I'm so much different now
1860
01:02:51,918 --> 01:02:53,435
Than I was
prior to the wedding.
1861
01:02:53,586 --> 01:02:54,770
- Interesting.
1862
01:02:54,997 --> 01:02:56,012
- I mean, we heard a lot
about what you need.
1863
01:02:56,106 --> 01:02:57,606
What do you need now?
1864
01:02:57,757 --> 01:02:58,665
After having watched this,
like,
1865
01:02:58,683 --> 01:03:00,424
What do you actually need?
1866
01:03:00,444 --> 01:03:01,943
- I don't know.
1867
01:03:02,095 --> 01:03:05,614
It kind of, like,
changed me where,
1868
01:03:05,841 --> 01:03:07,173
Like, I don't know
how long it's gonna be
1869
01:03:07,267 --> 01:03:08,675
Till I want to date again.
1870
01:03:08,693 --> 01:03:10,844
- Don't get too comfortable.
You deserve love.
1871
01:03:10,937 --> 01:03:12,178
You know how to love people.
1872
01:03:12,197 --> 01:03:13,346
Don't get too comfortable
by yourself.
1873
01:03:13,365 --> 01:03:15,123
- I'm pretty content
with my peace now.
1874
01:03:15,275 --> 01:03:17,517
It's like
a whole different person
1875
01:03:17,536 --> 01:03:19,294
Compared to who I was
prior to getting married.
1876
01:03:19,521 --> 01:03:21,871
I mean, would I like
to find love again?
1877
01:03:21,965 --> 01:03:26,709
Sure, but, you know,
it was just a lot, so...
1878
01:03:26,804 --> 01:03:28,619
- Yeah, no,
I can appreciate where you are.
1879
01:03:28,639 --> 01:03:31,289
I mean, you wanted
marriage so much.
1880
01:03:31,383 --> 01:03:33,624
You did it, and you're like,
okay, it is what it is.
1881
01:03:33,718 --> 01:03:35,051
I'm good.
- Yeah.
1882
01:03:35,203 --> 01:03:36,386
- When it happens, it happens.
1883
01:03:36,538 --> 01:03:37,704
You know, I can
appreciate where you are.
1884
01:03:37,722 --> 01:03:40,131
- What's crazy is,
I would do it again
1885
01:03:40,150 --> 01:03:42,892
Because as much of,
like, a roller coaster we had,
1886
01:03:43,045 --> 01:03:46,137
And it was, like,
difficult in many ways,
1887
01:03:46,156 --> 01:03:47,547
Like I told lindsey
at the reunion,
1888
01:03:47,640 --> 01:03:49,382
The things I got
from it were so much more
1889
01:03:49,475 --> 01:03:50,992
Than what I ever expected.
- Mm-hmm.
1890
01:03:51,144 --> 01:03:54,070
- I would go
through tough times
1891
01:03:54,222 --> 01:03:55,980
To get the things I got.
1892
01:03:55,999 --> 01:03:58,667
- What is the piece of advice
that you would give
1893
01:03:58,818 --> 01:04:00,393
Your next, you know,
1894
01:04:00,412 --> 01:04:02,228
The other one's future partner
if there was one thing
1895
01:04:02,322 --> 01:04:03,321
That you could tell them...
1896
01:04:03,340 --> 01:04:04,822
- Whoa.
- That you learned?
1897
01:04:04,842 --> 01:04:05,990
- That's a good question.
- That's a great question.
1898
01:04:06,084 --> 01:04:07,567
- Okay, so, mark,
1899
01:04:07,586 --> 01:04:09,252
What would you tell
lindsey's future partner?
1900
01:04:09,346 --> 01:04:12,572
- I would say
1901
01:04:12,591 --> 01:04:14,257
Just accept you
for who you are, I guess.
1902
01:04:14,409 --> 01:04:16,259
Because when I met your dad,
I was like,
1903
01:04:16,353 --> 01:04:17,744
I'm not going to try
to change your daughter.
1904
01:04:17,762 --> 01:04:18,928
I'm not trying
to give her my two cents,
1905
01:04:19,081 --> 01:04:20,263
And she's gonna figure it out,
1906
01:04:20,415 --> 01:04:21,764
Or she's not gonna
figure it out.
1907
01:04:21,917 --> 01:04:23,674
So I would say continue
being who you are,
1908
01:04:23,694 --> 01:04:25,085
And they're
gonna love you for you,
1909
01:04:25,178 --> 01:04:26,753
And don't change who you are.
1910
01:04:26,771 --> 01:04:29,255
And someone will
accept the good things
1911
01:04:29,274 --> 01:04:32,534
And the bad things,
and that's how it should be.
1912
01:04:32,685 --> 01:04:35,537
- For me,
I'm a little old-school.
1913
01:04:35,688 --> 01:04:36,946
Like, I like
to keep it in house.
1914
01:04:37,040 --> 01:04:38,373
You know?
1915
01:04:38,600 --> 01:04:40,858
So I would say,
depending on your partner,
1916
01:04:40,952 --> 01:04:43,027
If she's old-school like me,
1917
01:04:43,121 --> 01:04:47,273
She should probably know that
your family is your community.
1918
01:04:47,292 --> 01:04:49,700
You're an only child,
and you get a lot
1919
01:04:49,720 --> 01:04:52,795
Of your feedback
from external resources.
1920
01:04:52,890 --> 01:04:56,374
And so I would say
just to, like, be secure,
1921
01:04:56,393 --> 01:04:58,468
Whoever that female is,
just to be secure.
1922
01:04:58,562 --> 01:05:02,288
You know, you're not
being shady on purpose,
1923
01:05:02,307 --> 01:05:06,384
And you're not, like, trying
to tell everybody about things.
1924
01:05:06,403 --> 01:05:08,628
Like, you have
good intentions with her.
1925
01:05:08,647 --> 01:05:11,131
But just, like--
- lindsey, why are you just--
1926
01:05:11,149 --> 01:05:12,465
I mean, you're just
tearing him apart.
1927
01:05:12,558 --> 01:05:14,317
- No!
- It's like, damn.
1928
01:05:14,469 --> 01:05:15,410
- He talked about me--
- it's like, man--
1929
01:05:15,637 --> 01:05:17,153
- Do you know
how many messages--
1930
01:05:17,305 --> 01:05:18,154
- Tell him something
about their partner.
1931
01:05:18,248 --> 01:05:19,897
Hey, he's untrustworthy.
1932
01:05:19,991 --> 01:05:21,082
And I'm like, oh, god, I just
want to fall out the seat.
1933
01:05:21,309 --> 01:05:23,401
- This was
our biggest issue, kevin.
1934
01:05:23,495 --> 01:05:24,920
This was our biggest issue,
1935
01:05:25,147 --> 01:05:26,496
And this is why
I couldn't go back.
1936
01:05:26,648 --> 01:05:28,089
- Okay, okay, okay.
1937
01:05:28,316 --> 01:05:29,257
- You can't talk
about your marriage
1938
01:05:29,484 --> 01:05:30,408
Outside your marriage
to everyone.
1939
01:05:30,427 --> 01:05:31,651
- Right, right.
1940
01:05:31,670 --> 01:05:33,169
- You can't talk
about your relationship
1941
01:05:33,263 --> 01:05:34,930
Outside your relationship to
everyone unless it's positive.
1942
01:05:35,081 --> 01:05:38,491
And so I would just say, like,
keep it in-house together.
1943
01:05:38,510 --> 01:05:41,511
You know, protect it.
Keep it sacred.
1944
01:05:41,663 --> 01:05:43,663
- Hey, you know
what we should talk about?
1945
01:05:43,682 --> 01:05:45,999
We should talk about san diego.
- Yes.
1946
01:05:46,092 --> 01:05:47,517
- You want to show us
some people?
1947
01:05:47,669 --> 01:05:49,093
- Can you tell us,
what are your thoughts
1948
01:05:49,187 --> 01:05:50,428
About the new group?
1949
01:05:50,447 --> 01:05:51,521
- You know I love
that sustainable person.
1950
01:05:51,673 --> 01:05:52,781
You know I...
- Mitch.
1951
01:05:52,932 --> 01:05:54,023
- Love a man.
- Mitch, mitch.
1952
01:05:54,176 --> 01:05:56,693
- Oh, yes, low plastic.
1953
01:05:56,787 --> 01:05:59,603
Let's get microplastics
out of the ocean.
1954
01:05:59,623 --> 01:06:01,531
I know he uses
a reusable water bottle.
1955
01:06:01,683 --> 01:06:04,275
- Probably.
- Ooh, that's right.
1956
01:06:04,369 --> 01:06:06,869
- Mark, you got any advice
for the folks in san diego?
1957
01:06:07,022 --> 01:06:08,705
- Yeah, I mean, just, uh...
1958
01:06:08,799 --> 01:06:12,041
♪ ♪
1959
01:06:12,194 --> 01:06:13,134
Pray.
1960
01:06:13,286 --> 01:06:16,196
[laughter]
1961
01:06:16,214 --> 01:06:18,047
- Rip. We're down to two.
1962
01:06:18,200 --> 01:06:20,883
- I am always excited
to have y'all here
1963
01:06:20,978 --> 01:06:22,051
Because you know what?
1964
01:06:22,204 --> 01:06:23,645
There's always fireworks.
1965
01:06:23,796 --> 01:06:25,705
But damn it, we've got
to take a breather, y'all.
1966
01:06:25,724 --> 01:06:27,298
[laughter]
1967
01:06:27,317 --> 01:06:28,799
- In through the nose,
out through the mouth, kevin.
1968
01:06:28,893 --> 01:06:30,210
- Look, stay on good terms.
1969
01:06:30,303 --> 01:06:31,469
I love it when y'all
are on good terms.
1970
01:06:31,563 --> 01:06:32,879
Even when you're on good terms,
1971
01:06:32,972 --> 01:06:34,305
Shots can
still get fired, though.
1972
01:06:34,324 --> 01:06:37,233
Remember that.
Lindsey, good to see you.
1973
01:06:37,385 --> 01:06:38,660
- Thank you.
- All right.
1974
01:06:38,811 --> 01:06:44,332
Mark, good to see you too.
- Good to see you too.
1975
01:06:44,484 --> 01:06:46,409
Krysten and mitch.
1976
01:06:46,503 --> 01:06:48,895
Krysten always goes
for the same type of man.
1977
01:06:48,988 --> 01:06:51,840
In her own words,
she described this guy
1978
01:06:51,991 --> 01:06:53,750
As a person who's in their 30s,
hot, afraid of commitment,
1979
01:06:53,902 --> 01:06:55,585
And has lots of swagger.
1980
01:06:55,737 --> 01:06:59,347
But putting swag over sweet
has gotten her into trouble.
1981
01:06:59,574 --> 01:07:02,075
Will mitch be the sweet guy
she knows she needs
1982
01:07:02,168 --> 01:07:05,520
While still exciting her
like the men in her past?
1983
01:07:05,671 --> 01:07:08,172
Let's take a look.
1984
01:07:08,266 --> 01:07:10,600
[upbeat music]
1985
01:07:10,752 --> 01:07:13,936
- I do tend
to like the burlier,
1986
01:07:14,031 --> 01:07:17,348
Masculine, american type
1987
01:07:17,367 --> 01:07:20,184
Who likes to hangout
outside and chop wood.
1988
01:07:20,203 --> 01:07:21,685
[laughs]
1989
01:07:21,780 --> 01:07:24,873
I love boats, swimming.
1990
01:07:25,024 --> 01:07:27,100
I'll learn anything--
how to surf,
1991
01:07:27,118 --> 01:07:28,451
How to snowboard.
1992
01:07:28,603 --> 01:07:31,212
You know, I'm there for it.
1993
01:07:31,439 --> 01:07:33,715
- I love to surf.
I'm pretty outdoorsy.
1994
01:07:33,942 --> 01:07:36,200
I like when a woman knows
what she wants,
1995
01:07:36,219 --> 01:07:37,535
Knows what she likes to do.
1996
01:07:37,554 --> 01:07:39,128
I like when she talks a lot.
1997
01:07:39,281 --> 01:07:42,282
I talk a lot, myself,
so it's relaxing
1998
01:07:42,375 --> 01:07:44,450
For me to have a woman who's
actually, like--
1999
01:07:44,469 --> 01:07:46,544
Just talks a lot.
2000
01:07:46,638 --> 01:07:48,045
It just, like--it just takes
2001
01:07:48,065 --> 01:07:49,639
The pressure off me
or something.
2002
01:07:49,733 --> 01:07:51,457
- I'm the life of the party.
2003
01:07:51,551 --> 01:07:54,402
I'm not afraid to go over
and make new friends.
2004
01:07:54,554 --> 01:07:56,720
I was president
of my sorority.
2005
01:07:56,815 --> 01:07:59,799
It was, like, 200 people.
I lived in the sorority house.
2006
01:07:59,818 --> 01:08:02,226
You know, I had
the whole elle woods kind
2007
01:08:02,320 --> 01:08:03,411
Of thing going on.
2008
01:08:03,563 --> 01:08:06,081
And I have a lot
of those friends still.
2009
01:08:06,308 --> 01:08:08,083
Oh, gosh, I've been to--
I think I lost count--
2010
01:08:08,234 --> 01:08:10,326
12 weddings
in the last two years.
2011
01:08:10,478 --> 01:08:11,978
I've been a maid of honor
2012
01:08:11,996 --> 01:08:13,737
And a bridesmaid
in maybe seven of them.
2013
01:08:13,832 --> 01:08:16,165
I'm there.
Never say no.
2014
01:08:16,318 --> 01:08:18,651
- I've not been in love in
the way that I want it to be.
2015
01:08:18,670 --> 01:08:22,822
I've definitely pined over
a few choice women in my life,
2016
01:08:22,841 --> 01:08:24,599
But those relationships
never worked out.
2017
01:08:24,826 --> 01:08:26,250
When I look
at the best parts of myself
2018
01:08:26,269 --> 01:08:28,661
And how committed
I am to my friends,
2019
01:08:28,680 --> 01:08:31,088
My family, my job, my nieces,
2020
01:08:31,182 --> 01:08:32,774
I know I have it in me
2021
01:08:33,001 --> 01:08:35,110
To commit
to a relationship as well.
2022
01:08:35,261 --> 01:08:37,837
And I am slow to commit,
but when I do, I'm all in.
2023
01:08:37,856 --> 01:08:41,098
- I am ready for marriage.
I was made for marriage.
2024
01:08:41,192 --> 01:08:43,526
When, you know, you're young
and you're growing up,
2025
01:08:43,678 --> 01:08:44,861
You have these dreams
of your life,
2026
01:08:44,955 --> 01:08:46,195
And you envision it.
2027
01:08:46,348 --> 01:08:48,790
And I've gotten everything
I've ever wanted
2028
01:08:48,941 --> 01:08:50,774
Except the family
and the husband.
2029
01:08:50,869 --> 01:08:53,461
I was engaged previously.
2030
01:08:53,613 --> 01:08:56,447
And then two weeks
before our wedding,
2031
01:08:56,466 --> 01:09:00,376
His mistress approached me
and told me everything.
2032
01:09:00,528 --> 01:09:02,786
I thanked her,
I walked out,
2033
01:09:02,881 --> 01:09:05,381
And I put all his belongings
on our front porch.
2034
01:09:05,533 --> 01:09:07,867
And I only lit a couple
on fire.
2035
01:09:07,960 --> 01:09:10,052
- It's funny, like,
on the dating profiles,
2036
01:09:10,205 --> 01:09:12,814
It's very popular to be like,
"oh, I love to travel."
2037
01:09:12,965 --> 01:09:14,707
"let's travel."
and I like that.
2038
01:09:14,726 --> 01:09:16,876
Like, I'm cool with that,
but what I'm really
2039
01:09:16,969 --> 01:09:18,394
Looking for is, like,
someone who's like,
2040
01:09:18,488 --> 01:09:20,638
Yeah, I live in san diego,
and I love living here,
2041
01:09:20,657 --> 01:09:23,658
And I love doing lots of fun
stuff in my own neighborhood,
2042
01:09:23,809 --> 01:09:26,143
And I can make going
to trader joe's super fun.
2043
01:09:26,237 --> 01:09:27,737
That's really what
I'm looking for.
2044
01:09:27,889 --> 01:09:29,906
It's day-to-day
that matters most to me.
2045
01:09:30,058 --> 01:09:31,666
Marriage means commitment,
2046
01:09:31,893 --> 01:09:33,226
And that's definitely
the scary part,
2047
01:09:33,244 --> 01:09:36,078
But marriage also means
having a partner in crime,
2048
01:09:36,173 --> 01:09:37,914
Having someone
to take on the world with.
2049
01:09:38,066 --> 01:09:39,248
And in my heart of hearts,
2050
01:09:39,401 --> 01:09:40,842
I really do want
to get married.
2051
01:09:40,993 --> 01:09:43,069
- I really want
to be married.
2052
01:09:43,087 --> 01:09:45,071
Gosh, I was
watching the sunset
2053
01:09:45,164 --> 01:09:46,681
With my dog the other day,
2054
01:09:46,908 --> 01:09:49,500
And there was this older
couple next to me,
2055
01:09:49,594 --> 01:09:51,427
Popped open a bottle of wine.
2056
01:09:51,521 --> 01:09:54,096
They were telling jokes.
And I was just with the dog.
2057
01:09:54,249 --> 01:09:56,582
You know,
she was slobbering on me.
2058
01:09:56,601 --> 01:10:00,177
And I was like,
wow, I am just so ready.
2059
01:10:00,197 --> 01:10:03,272
I'm ready for my love story.
2060
01:10:03,366 --> 01:10:05,200
- Okay, well,
2061
01:10:05,351 --> 01:10:07,351
Krysten likened herself
to elle woods.
2062
01:10:07,445 --> 01:10:09,762
I like that.
Is mitch her luke wilson?
2063
01:10:09,781 --> 01:10:11,873
I mean, is this the guy
for her, angelique?
2064
01:10:12,024 --> 01:10:13,099
- I hope so.
2065
01:10:13,117 --> 01:10:14,525
I'm gonna be
very disappointed
2066
01:10:14,544 --> 01:10:16,118
If this pair doesn't work out.
2067
01:10:16,271 --> 01:10:18,028
I said it earlier.
They're my favorites.
2068
01:10:18,048 --> 01:10:20,030
I think they are
very evenly matched.
2069
01:10:20,050 --> 01:10:21,699
It seems like they want a lot
2070
01:10:21,718 --> 01:10:23,125
Of the same things
out of life.
2071
01:10:23,278 --> 01:10:24,886
I think she's gonna be
very attracted to the fact
2072
01:10:25,113 --> 01:10:28,281
That he's, you know,
this kind of manny man,
2073
01:10:28,299 --> 01:10:30,466
And has this relationship
with his nieces,
2074
01:10:30,560 --> 01:10:32,727
And will hopefully be
a good dad someday.
2075
01:10:32,878 --> 01:10:35,045
I can see them, you know,
doing some yoga on the beach,
2076
01:10:35,065 --> 01:10:37,457
And then popping open
that bottle of wine,
2077
01:10:37,475 --> 01:10:39,383
And then enjoying
a beautiful sunset together.
2078
01:10:39,402 --> 01:10:40,960
I don't know.
2079
01:10:40,979 --> 01:10:43,629
I will be very bummed
if they can't make this work.
2080
01:10:43,723 --> 01:10:45,222
- Nicole,
krysten said that she
2081
01:10:45,242 --> 01:10:47,224
Likes a man with a bald head.
2082
01:10:47,244 --> 01:10:48,910
- I kind of like bald guys.
2083
01:10:49,061 --> 01:10:51,246
So don't turn away a good man
because he's bald.
2084
01:10:51,473 --> 01:10:52,805
I like it.
2085
01:10:52,898 --> 01:10:54,231
- She's good with that.
Okay.
2086
01:10:54,325 --> 01:10:56,584
Hey, props to you, but--
- absolutely.
2087
01:10:56,736 --> 01:11:01,814
- Will mitch have enough swag
to pull this off?
2088
01:11:01,833 --> 01:11:04,000
- Unlike myrla,
this is definitely gonna
2089
01:11:04,152 --> 01:11:06,427
Work out in her favor.
2090
01:11:06,654 --> 01:11:09,264
But I think
he has a lot of swag.
2091
01:11:09,415 --> 01:11:12,008
He's very passionate,
and I think that exudes
2092
01:11:12,160 --> 01:11:14,327
Through all aspects
of his life.
2093
01:11:14,420 --> 01:11:18,347
And he doesn't give me any kind
of vibe that he's not mannish.
2094
01:11:18,500 --> 01:11:20,775
Like, I get
real man out of him.
2095
01:11:21,002 --> 01:11:23,444
I think that this is
a pretty good match.
2096
01:11:23,671 --> 01:11:25,688
- Donna, mitch says
that he is attracted
2097
01:11:25,840 --> 01:11:29,175
To an effortlessly
beautiful woman.
2098
01:11:29,193 --> 01:11:31,452
- I don't think I can handle
a woman who is like,
2099
01:11:31,679 --> 01:11:33,454
You know, could never leave
the house without putting on
2100
01:11:33,606 --> 01:11:35,698
A lot of makeup or have
to look a certain way.
2101
01:11:35,792 --> 01:11:37,683
Like, I kind of am attracted
2102
01:11:37,777 --> 01:11:40,128
To that effortlessly
beautiful kind of girl.
2103
01:11:40,355 --> 01:11:41,945
I'm really casual.
2104
01:11:41,965 --> 01:11:43,706
I don't want
to deal with that stuff.
2105
01:11:43,800 --> 01:11:47,451
- What does that mean,
and is krysten that?
2106
01:11:47,470 --> 01:11:50,212
- That means a more, like,
natural, doesn't have to,
2107
01:11:50,365 --> 01:11:53,290
Like, work on it, doesn't
really get too dolled up.
2108
01:11:53,310 --> 01:11:57,703
This is a sorority girl,
the president of her sorority.
2109
01:11:57,722 --> 01:11:59,388
This woman is not
a low-maintenance woman.
2110
01:11:59,541 --> 01:12:01,057
- You know,
even though she was
2111
01:12:01,209 --> 01:12:02,875
In a sorority and president,
2112
01:12:02,894 --> 01:12:06,062
She didn't look
that high-maintenance to me.
2113
01:12:06,214 --> 01:12:08,323
- I mean, I think we got
to see a wide range.
2114
01:12:08,550 --> 01:12:10,641
I mean, obviously, she looks
so gorgeous at the wedding,
2115
01:12:10,660 --> 01:12:12,218
And nice, and all dolled up,
2116
01:12:12,236 --> 01:12:13,903
But she can
kind of have a range
2117
01:12:14,055 --> 01:12:15,663
Of, you know,
very casual looks.
2118
01:12:15,815 --> 01:12:17,147
He's looking
for someone who is,
2119
01:12:17,167 --> 01:12:18,891
As he said, a natural beauty.
2120
01:12:18,910 --> 01:12:20,818
And, you know,
when she's just out there
2121
01:12:20,912 --> 01:12:22,486
Sitting,
meditating at the beach,
2122
01:12:22,580 --> 01:12:25,247
She's just as beautiful,
and I think he will see that.
2123
01:12:25,342 --> 01:12:27,567
- What do you think
about their nine-year age gap?
2124
01:12:27,585 --> 01:12:30,403
He's 41, she's 32, right?
2125
01:12:30,421 --> 01:12:31,846
- She's okay with that.
2126
01:12:32,073 --> 01:12:34,164
She mentioned that the age
wouldn't be an issue for her.
2127
01:12:34,184 --> 01:12:36,409
But I think with an older man,
2128
01:12:36,427 --> 01:12:39,078
She would also think there's
a little more financial--
2129
01:12:39,097 --> 01:12:41,080
- Financial stability.
- Stability, yes.
2130
01:12:41,173 --> 01:12:42,857
- My ambition is
less about income
2131
01:12:43,084 --> 01:12:45,175
And more about impact.
- Oh, I like that.
2132
01:12:45,195 --> 01:12:47,344
- You know, I do nonprofit
environmental work,
2133
01:12:47,364 --> 01:12:48,921
Political campaigns.
2134
01:12:48,940 --> 01:12:50,590
I'm trying to save the ocean.
- I mean, I'm a fan.
2135
01:12:50,608 --> 01:12:52,425
- That's my ambition is,
I'm very ambitious
2136
01:12:52,443 --> 01:12:54,927
In that sense,
less so in terms of just,
2137
01:12:54,946 --> 01:12:56,204
Like, paycheck.
2138
01:12:56,431 --> 01:12:58,539
- I'm very personable, social.
I love sales.
2139
01:12:58,766 --> 01:13:03,269
I like making a lot of money,
well into the six figures.
2140
01:13:03,287 --> 01:13:05,880
And for my husband,
I think similar
2141
01:13:06,107 --> 01:13:09,609
Would be preferred,
not a deal-breaker.
2142
01:13:09,702 --> 01:13:11,627
- Go ahead, nicole.
- [laughs]
2143
01:13:11,779 --> 01:13:15,297
It's kind of like,
I'm going back and forth
2144
01:13:15,392 --> 01:13:17,299
On this because she does
make a lot of money,
2145
01:13:17,394 --> 01:13:19,394
But I think that
she can appreciate the fact
2146
01:13:19,621 --> 01:13:21,712
That he's so passionate
about saving the world.
2147
01:13:21,731 --> 01:13:23,456
Like, how can you
be mad at somebody
2148
01:13:23,549 --> 01:13:25,215
Who wants
to save the environment?
2149
01:13:25,309 --> 01:13:26,717
- As long as he's, you know,
going out
2150
01:13:26,811 --> 01:13:28,069
And going to work every day,
2151
01:13:28,220 --> 01:13:29,404
Picking up recycling,
you know--
2152
01:13:29,555 --> 01:13:30,721
Listen, more power to him.
2153
01:13:30,815 --> 01:13:32,240
There's something
about that passion,
2154
01:13:32,467 --> 01:13:33,799
As you said,
that I think she's gonna
2155
01:13:33,818 --> 01:13:35,317
Find really attractive.
2156
01:13:35,412 --> 01:13:37,653
- And maybe, you know,
she seems like a go-getter.
2157
01:13:37,747 --> 01:13:41,565
Maybe she could tunnel
that environmentalist spirit
2158
01:13:41,584 --> 01:13:43,809
And create some sort
of business that could
2159
01:13:43,903 --> 01:13:47,329
Create some sort of income.
2160
01:13:47,424 --> 01:13:51,592
- Do you think that she can be
eco-friendly enough for him?
2161
01:13:51,819 --> 01:13:53,319
Because he's
an environmentalist,
2162
01:13:53,337 --> 01:13:56,597
And that, you know, her carbon
footprint will matter.
2163
01:13:56,749 --> 01:13:58,582
Can you imagine what happens
when you walk in the house
2164
01:13:58,601 --> 01:14:00,268
And he's like, no, I threw
a bunch of your stuff away
2165
01:14:00,419 --> 01:14:01,677
Because it has
a big carbon footprint.
2166
01:14:01,771 --> 01:14:03,663
- He's like that was--
she had a lot of hairspray.
2167
01:14:03,756 --> 01:14:05,106
We're gonna really have
to work on that.
2168
01:14:05,257 --> 01:14:06,832
- Right.
- But no.
2169
01:14:06,851 --> 01:14:08,668
I mean, he said that it
wasn't a total deal-breaker
2170
01:14:08,686 --> 01:14:11,279
If his wife wasn't
as eco-conscious as he is.
2171
01:14:11,506 --> 01:14:16,192
- How important is it that
she espouses the same values,
2172
01:14:16,286 --> 01:14:18,010
The same concerns?
2173
01:14:18,103 --> 01:14:20,012
- I don't need a wife
who is as radical
2174
01:14:20,031 --> 01:14:21,289
About this stuff as me.
2175
01:14:21,516 --> 01:14:24,107
Part of life is compromise...
- Absolutely.
2176
01:14:24,202 --> 01:14:26,794
- And I think it's more
important on a practical level
2177
01:14:26,946 --> 01:14:29,689
Because the way that I make
decisions about the things
2178
01:14:29,707 --> 01:14:32,633
I do in my life,
it's always gonna be a factor,
2179
01:14:32,860 --> 01:14:33,801
Is the environment.
2180
01:14:34,028 --> 01:14:35,303
- Okay, so you're
not unreasonable.
2181
01:14:35,454 --> 01:14:36,971
- No, I'm very reasonable,
yeah.
2182
01:14:37,198 --> 01:14:38,622
- And she seems like
she's someone
2183
01:14:38,641 --> 01:14:39,807
Who's kind of malleable.
2184
01:14:39,959 --> 01:14:41,959
Like, those are things
that she probably
2185
01:14:41,978 --> 01:14:44,386
Wouldn't be so wrapped up in.
2186
01:14:44,539 --> 01:14:46,481
If he is sort of, like, can we
use, you know, reusable bags
2187
01:14:46,708 --> 01:14:48,057
Instead of plastic?
2188
01:14:48,151 --> 01:14:49,633
I think she would be like,
okay, I see where
2189
01:14:49,727 --> 01:14:51,210
You're going with this.
2190
01:14:51,229 --> 01:14:53,379
If it's that important
to you, sure.
2191
01:14:53,397 --> 01:14:55,639
- Also, they got to get to it
to have some children, right?
2192
01:14:55,658 --> 01:14:57,216
- Yep.
- Oh, yeah.
2193
01:14:57,235 --> 01:14:58,734
- You don't have time to waste.
2194
01:14:58,828 --> 01:15:01,070
- I love kids, and they seem
to really like me.
2195
01:15:01,222 --> 01:15:04,481
And I have two nieces,
and I'm very close with them.
2196
01:15:04,501 --> 01:15:06,650
I actually took care
of my older niece
2197
01:15:06,744 --> 01:15:07,835
For a year and a half.
2198
01:15:08,062 --> 01:15:10,320
I was a full-on nanny--
a manny.
2199
01:15:10,340 --> 01:15:11,914
- A manny.
- I do have paternal instincts.
2200
01:15:12,066 --> 01:15:13,508
I'm good with kids.
2201
01:15:13,659 --> 01:15:15,510
I think I'd be a great dad
and a good family man,
2202
01:15:15,737 --> 01:15:17,494
And I'm up for that.
2203
01:15:17,588 --> 01:15:20,406
- Wanting to have children,
that is important to me.
2204
01:15:20,424 --> 01:15:22,925
It does not have
to be right away.
2205
01:15:23,019 --> 01:15:26,187
I don't mind if I have
a first baby at 40.
2206
01:15:26,338 --> 01:15:28,171
You know,
I'll keep trucking along
2207
01:15:28,191 --> 01:15:29,506
And trying
to stay fit and healthy
2208
01:15:29,526 --> 01:15:31,417
For as long as I can.
2209
01:15:31,510 --> 01:15:33,528
- Do they have it together,
and are they ready
2210
01:15:33,755 --> 01:15:34,695
To have children,
do you think, both of them?
2211
01:15:34,922 --> 01:15:36,105
- Yeah, I think
if there's a spark
2212
01:15:36,199 --> 01:15:37,532
And they really connect,
2213
01:15:37,759 --> 01:15:39,033
They would start
having kids really quickly
2214
01:15:39,184 --> 01:15:41,110
Because he's ready
to be a dad,
2215
01:15:41,262 --> 01:15:42,762
And she's ready to be a mom.
2216
01:15:42,780 --> 01:15:45,022
- He was a nanny
for almost two years,
2217
01:15:45,041 --> 01:15:47,283
And that's a big undertaking.
2218
01:15:47,435 --> 01:15:49,101
So what do you make of that?
2219
01:15:49,120 --> 01:15:51,361
- I think that's great for her
because she wanted this family
2220
01:15:51,381 --> 01:15:53,122
With that guy
she was engaged to.
2221
01:15:53,216 --> 01:15:55,124
Now coming into this knowing
that there's a person
2222
01:15:55,276 --> 01:15:57,293
Who also wants
to get married and knowing
2223
01:15:57,445 --> 01:16:00,112
That someone can
take on those family roles
2224
01:16:00,131 --> 01:16:02,557
And did that for two years
is gonna be great for her.
2225
01:16:02,708 --> 01:16:03,949
- Do you think
that they'll just
2226
01:16:04,043 --> 01:16:05,393
Spend a lot of time--like,
2227
01:16:05,620 --> 01:16:07,286
They both seem
to enjoy the beach.
2228
01:16:07,305 --> 01:16:08,804
And so that seems like
there's another place
2229
01:16:08,898 --> 01:16:10,398
Where they could bond.
2230
01:16:10,549 --> 01:16:12,458
When he gets out to go surfing,
she'll want to go sit
2231
01:16:12,551 --> 01:16:13,568
Out there and hang with him.
2232
01:16:13,719 --> 01:16:15,052
- 100%, they are
san diego beach people.
2233
01:16:15,071 --> 01:16:16,629
Both: Yeah.
2234
01:16:16,647 --> 01:16:18,814
- And that is
a perfect connection point
2235
01:16:18,908 --> 01:16:20,074
For the both of them.
2236
01:16:20,225 --> 01:16:21,409
I mean, if she was
not a beach person,
2237
01:16:21,560 --> 01:16:22,702
This would be a problem.
- Fair.
2238
01:16:27,417 --> 01:16:28,249
Let's welcome amber
and iris from charlotte.
2239
01:16:28,400 --> 01:16:29,399
- Hey.
- Oh, hey.
2240
01:16:29,493 --> 01:16:30,976
- Hey, ladies.
- Hi.
2241
01:16:30,995 --> 01:16:32,661
- Hi!
- How are y'all doing?
2242
01:16:32,814 --> 01:16:34,571
Good to see you.
How have you been?
2243
01:16:34,591 --> 01:16:36,482
- Good, how about you?
- How are you?
2244
01:16:36,575 --> 01:16:38,241
- I'm fantastic.
Good to see y'all.
2245
01:16:38,336 --> 01:16:39,594
- Good to see you, too.
2246
01:16:39,821 --> 01:16:41,337
- In happier times,
I'm glad to see y'all.
2247
01:16:41,489 --> 01:16:43,931
- Yes, much happier times.
- Right?
2248
01:16:44,158 --> 01:16:45,749
I mean, geez.
Let's start with you.
2249
01:16:45,768 --> 01:16:47,676
How are you doing?
What you been up to?
2250
01:16:47,829 --> 01:16:49,419
- I'm good.
2251
01:16:49,513 --> 01:16:51,922
I'm still working as a teacher,
and I teach college classes.
2252
01:16:51,941 --> 01:16:53,165
- Are you dating?
2253
01:16:53,258 --> 01:16:56,518
- No--well,
I mean, yes and no, but...
2254
01:16:56,671 --> 01:16:58,613
- I mean,
look, I just got to know.
2255
01:16:58,840 --> 01:17:00,764
In charlotte,
do you ever bump into matt?
2256
01:17:00,783 --> 01:17:03,692
[cheers and applause]
2257
01:17:03,786 --> 01:17:05,102
[soft music]
2258
01:17:05,196 --> 01:17:07,680
- All right, cheers.
2259
01:17:07,773 --> 01:17:10,199
- Cheers to forever, right?
2260
01:17:10,351 --> 01:17:12,943
♪ ♪
2261
01:17:12,962 --> 01:17:16,113
- Matt, is he still around?
- I think he, like, moved.
2262
01:17:16,207 --> 01:17:18,615
So from what I've understood,
I don't really know for sure,
2263
01:17:18,635 --> 01:17:19,967
But I think he moved.
2264
01:17:20,119 --> 01:17:21,710
- Finally got him
to sign those divorce papers.
2265
01:17:21,863 --> 01:17:22,803
You were like--
- yeah.
2266
01:17:22,955 --> 01:17:23,787
It took a long time,
but we got it.
2267
01:17:23,881 --> 01:17:25,455
We got the divorce.
2268
01:17:25,475 --> 01:17:26,957
- You finally got divorced.
Iris, what you been up to?
2269
01:17:27,051 --> 01:17:28,384
- Nothing much, I mean,
2270
01:17:28,536 --> 01:17:29,977
Me and amber and lilly
hang out all the time.
2271
01:17:30,204 --> 01:17:32,554
- Do you?
- We go to games together.
2272
01:17:32,649 --> 01:17:34,556
Like, we made it to the
jumbotron a couple times.
2273
01:17:34,651 --> 01:17:35,891
Like, we literally--
- no, she made it--
2274
01:17:36,043 --> 01:17:37,226
- Wait a minute--
- to the jumbotron.
2275
01:17:37,378 --> 01:17:38,802
- Y'all go
to basketball games together?
2276
01:17:38,821 --> 01:17:40,804
Aren't you--I would think
you were done with basketball.
2277
01:17:40,823 --> 01:17:42,231
- No, I am a season
ticket holder.
2278
01:17:42,383 --> 01:17:43,899
- No, they can call me, no.
- Oh, you are?
2279
01:17:44,051 --> 01:17:46,719
- I'm a season ticket holder.
- Yes, so we go all the time.
2280
01:17:46,737 --> 01:17:48,220
- Are you dating still?
2281
01:17:48,239 --> 01:17:49,997
- I'm, you know,
working on iris.
2282
01:17:50,149 --> 01:17:51,724
[laughter]
2283
01:17:51,742 --> 01:17:54,059
And I'm just always like,
whatever god's plan is,
2284
01:17:54,153 --> 01:17:55,411
Full circle, I'm here for it.
2285
01:17:55,563 --> 01:17:57,746
- In your season,
your virginity was a big...
2286
01:17:57,840 --> 01:17:59,507
- Yes.
- Big issue.
2287
01:17:59,658 --> 01:18:01,583
- So guess what?
2288
01:18:01,736 --> 01:18:04,086
- What's up?
- I'm a virgin.
2289
01:18:04,180 --> 01:18:07,423
[soft music]
2290
01:18:07,575 --> 01:18:10,834
- For real?
- Yeah.
2291
01:18:10,853 --> 01:18:13,929
I'll give you a second
and let you ponder on that.
2292
01:18:14,081 --> 01:18:16,248
- Oh.
2293
01:18:16,267 --> 01:18:18,083
- Have you met the one yet?
2294
01:18:18,177 --> 01:18:19,585
You know what
I'm talking about.
2295
01:18:19,603 --> 01:18:22,179
- I mean,
I think that there's
2296
01:18:22,198 --> 01:18:24,198
Definitely the one somewhere.
2297
01:18:24,425 --> 01:18:26,258
- You waiting for that man.
- I am.
2298
01:18:26,351 --> 01:18:28,035
- I love that.
- Yes, I am.
2299
01:18:28,187 --> 01:18:29,445
I'm still waiting.
- That is good.
2300
01:18:29,597 --> 01:18:30,779
You be you--
- thank you.
2301
01:18:30,873 --> 01:18:32,448
- And enjoy it.
2302
01:18:32,600 --> 01:18:34,116
We're talking about san diego
and the couples.
2303
01:18:34,268 --> 01:18:35,434
What do you think so far?
2304
01:18:35,527 --> 01:18:36,952
- I have a lot of opinions.
2305
01:18:37,046 --> 01:18:38,695
- Amber's, like,
literally been chatting it up.
2306
01:18:38,715 --> 01:18:40,030
She got a lot to say.
- Bring it.
2307
01:18:40,124 --> 01:18:41,382
- Okay, I like krysten.
2308
01:18:41,609 --> 01:18:42,883
Like, she gives me a lot
of beth vibes.
2309
01:18:43,035 --> 01:18:44,719
- I think it's only
because of the energy.
2310
01:18:44,870 --> 01:18:47,037
Like, how excited she was,
especially when she got told,
2311
01:18:47,056 --> 01:18:48,797
Like, you know, you're getting
married in two weeks.
2312
01:18:48,950 --> 01:18:50,282
- Because in two weeks,
you're getting married.
2313
01:18:50,301 --> 01:18:54,119
- [gasps]
ahh!
2314
01:18:54,138 --> 01:18:56,288
Oh, my god.
2315
01:18:56,307 --> 01:18:57,623
- Shut up.
2316
01:18:57,716 --> 01:18:58,715
- You are gonna
marry a stranger.
2317
01:18:58,809 --> 01:19:00,626
- Oh, my god!
Holy [bleep].
2318
01:19:00,644 --> 01:19:02,644
Can I say that?
2319
01:19:02,739 --> 01:19:04,630
Yay! Oh, my god.
2320
01:19:04,648 --> 01:19:06,073
Whoo!
- Congratulations!
2321
01:19:06,225 --> 01:19:07,800
- Thank you! Yeah!
2322
01:19:07,818 --> 01:19:10,319
I'm so excited.
2323
01:19:10,413 --> 01:19:13,396
- I mean, hey, I think we all
were super excited as well.
2324
01:19:13,416 --> 01:19:15,398
So I think that that's maybe
what we're kind of seeing.
2325
01:19:15,418 --> 01:19:17,734
But I still feel like when it
comes to, like, you know,
2326
01:19:17,754 --> 01:19:19,828
Her previous engagement
and all that kind of stuff,
2327
01:19:19,981 --> 01:19:21,589
I really think that
that's gonna be something
2328
01:19:21,740 --> 01:19:23,406
That she's gonna have
to keep an eye on
2329
01:19:23,426 --> 01:19:24,908
For herself, like, internally.
2330
01:19:24,927 --> 01:19:26,910
And because she mentioned
that she's one
2331
01:19:26,929 --> 01:19:28,411
That wants to take the reins--
I'm here.
2332
01:19:28,506 --> 01:19:29,764
I want to take control.
2333
01:19:29,915 --> 01:19:31,991
But when it comes to,
like, mitch,
2334
01:19:32,009 --> 01:19:33,826
I think it's--he has also
said he takes control.
2335
01:19:33,919 --> 01:19:35,102
He wants the reins.
- He worries me.
2336
01:19:35,254 --> 01:19:37,254
- Really?
- Oh, well, come on.
2337
01:19:37,273 --> 01:19:39,498
- Because he said something
about commitment issues,
2338
01:19:39,517 --> 01:19:41,667
And so I'm just
getting red flag central.
2339
01:19:41,685 --> 01:19:43,519
- Yeah, and I feel like
she's just not gonna be
2340
01:19:43,613 --> 01:19:45,337
The person that's gonna
be taking any of that.
2341
01:19:45,356 --> 01:19:46,522
- Well, what are the positives
about these two?
2342
01:19:46,616 --> 01:19:48,357
- I liked her personality.
- I'm just curious.
2343
01:19:48,451 --> 01:19:50,009
- Oh, I just gave a positive.
- Well, no, no.
2344
01:19:50,027 --> 01:19:51,844
I'm talking about the positives
in the relationship.
2345
01:19:51,862 --> 01:19:53,287
- Oh, okay,
him being so passionate--
2346
01:19:53,438 --> 01:19:54,622
I feel like
she's just very ambitious,
2347
01:19:54,849 --> 01:19:56,123
So that's gonna
be really important.
2348
01:19:56,350 --> 01:19:57,533
That's something
they can bond over.
2349
01:19:57,685 --> 01:20:00,369
- Yeah, I think that
their love for the earth,
2350
01:20:00,521 --> 01:20:01,945
I think it's what's going
to bring them together.
2351
01:20:01,964 --> 01:20:04,023
They may have, honestly,
a lot of good conversations
2352
01:20:04,041 --> 01:20:06,358
And really down-to-earth things
if they just go to the beach.
2353
01:20:06,377 --> 01:20:07,635
Like, if I can
give them one thing--
2354
01:20:07,862 --> 01:20:08,952
Both: Go to the beach.
- And talk it out.
2355
01:20:09,046 --> 01:20:10,546
And I feel like that can
really bring a lot of,
2356
01:20:10,640 --> 01:20:13,456
Like, let's get back
to the basics of what we need
2357
01:20:13,476 --> 01:20:15,309
If we're here
in a basic situation
2358
01:20:15,460 --> 01:20:16,811
That really is grounding
for us.
2359
01:20:16,962 --> 01:20:18,554
So I think that that
could be a really great thing
2360
01:20:18,706 --> 01:20:19,796
For them going forward.
2361
01:20:19,816 --> 01:20:22,041
- What advice would
you have for them?
2362
01:20:22,059 --> 01:20:23,800
- I think it's gonna be
really important for him
2363
01:20:23,820 --> 01:20:26,487
To just sit back
and let her somewhat
2364
01:20:26,638 --> 01:20:28,564
Guide the relationship,
but that's just my advice.
2365
01:20:28,716 --> 01:20:29,882
What's your advice?
2366
01:20:29,975 --> 01:20:31,567
- I want mitch
to take a look at himself
2367
01:20:31,661 --> 01:20:33,310
And be like, "I'm
in this committed relationship
2368
01:20:33,404 --> 01:20:34,811
"for the long run.
2369
01:20:34,831 --> 01:20:36,163
"not for two months,
not for the eight weeks,
2370
01:20:36,390 --> 01:20:37,665
"not for this one
little conversation
2371
01:20:37,816 --> 01:20:39,316
"or the move-in date.
2372
01:20:39,410 --> 01:20:40,909
I really want to do this."
2373
01:20:41,003 --> 01:20:42,169
And actually reflect with each
other on how that can work.
2374
01:20:42,321 --> 01:20:43,337
- But let me ask you this.
2375
01:20:43,488 --> 01:20:44,988
Mitch seems very set
in his ways.
2376
01:20:45,007 --> 01:20:47,824
Now, as two people who have
gone through this process,
2377
01:20:47,844 --> 01:20:50,344
Does that concern you
that he is very set in his ways
2378
01:20:50,495 --> 01:20:52,421
And lived alone
for a long time?
2379
01:20:52,515 --> 01:20:55,074
- Yeah, that concerns me
a lot because the person
2380
01:20:55,092 --> 01:20:56,575
That I was married to
said the same thing,
2381
01:20:56,668 --> 01:20:57,910
And he was just like,
"well, I--"
2382
01:20:58,003 --> 01:20:59,186
- Well,
he was in the streets.
2383
01:20:59,338 --> 01:21:00,929
[laughter]
- out there.
2384
01:21:01,023 --> 01:21:02,189
- I don't know that mitch
was born in the streets.
2385
01:21:02,416 --> 01:21:03,524
- But he kept
talking about how he was--
2386
01:21:03,751 --> 01:21:05,100
- This man was in the streets.
[laughter]
2387
01:21:05,194 --> 01:21:07,194
- He kept talking about how
he was, like, set in his ways.
2388
01:21:07,421 --> 01:21:08,696
Like, "well, I'm used
to being a bachelor.
2389
01:21:08,847 --> 01:21:10,013
I'm used to being single."
2390
01:21:10,032 --> 01:21:11,681
And he could not ever change.
2391
01:21:11,701 --> 01:21:14,034
So, like, when you take on
a relationship,
2392
01:21:14,261 --> 01:21:15,685
You got to take on
the relationship.
2393
01:21:15,779 --> 01:21:17,538
Like, you have to change.
2394
01:21:17,689 --> 01:21:20,040
- Yeah, I had to learn
that myself on my season.
2395
01:21:20,192 --> 01:21:21,542
You know what I mean?
I had to figure that out.
2396
01:21:21,693 --> 01:21:23,452
I didn't figure it out until
a little later, but still.
2397
01:21:23,604 --> 01:21:24,953
Figuring out that,
you know, hey,
2398
01:21:25,106 --> 01:21:26,380
This is kind of like the life
you've been living
2399
01:21:26,607 --> 01:21:28,048
And the person
that you kind of are,
2400
01:21:28,200 --> 01:21:30,959
But you have to really conform
yourself to what's going on.
2401
01:21:31,112 --> 01:21:32,628
- All right, I want
to show y'all something
2402
01:21:32,722 --> 01:21:34,463
Because in a "married
at first sight" first--
2403
01:21:34,615 --> 01:21:36,115
You're not gonna
believe this--
2404
01:21:36,208 --> 01:21:38,133
A bride decided
not to tell her father
2405
01:21:38,227 --> 01:21:40,786
That she was getting
married until she what?
2406
01:21:40,879 --> 01:21:42,212
Was about to walk
down the aisle.
2407
01:21:42,306 --> 01:21:44,899
Please watch this bomb
that krysten drops on her papa.
2408
01:21:45,126 --> 01:21:48,794
- So you know
that I've been doing
2409
01:21:48,812 --> 01:21:51,238
This matchmaking journey.
2410
01:21:51,465 --> 01:21:52,965
- Yes.
2411
01:21:53,058 --> 01:21:54,408
- There's just
a few more details
2412
01:21:54,635 --> 01:21:56,726
That I would like
to just kind of explain--
2413
01:21:56,746 --> 01:21:58,820
I wanted to explain
in person with you here.
2414
01:21:58,973 --> 01:22:00,563
- Okay.
2415
01:22:00,583 --> 01:22:04,143
- Two weeks ago,
they told me that
2416
01:22:04,161 --> 01:22:06,645
They had found me a match.
2417
01:22:06,664 --> 01:22:08,163
- Nice.
- And--yeah.
2418
01:22:08,315 --> 01:22:10,165
Well, there's more.
2419
01:22:10,317 --> 01:22:13,001
So the only, kind of, I guess--
2420
01:22:13,154 --> 01:22:14,744
I don't want
to call it a catch,
2421
01:22:14,764 --> 01:22:19,767
But would be that it is
a legal, binding marriage.
2422
01:22:19,918 --> 01:22:21,435
- Wow, so a marriage.
2423
01:22:21,586 --> 01:22:22,603
- A marriage.
2424
01:22:22,754 --> 01:22:24,830
- Really?
- Yeah.
2425
01:22:24,848 --> 01:22:26,423
- Seriously?
2426
01:22:26,442 --> 01:22:28,517
- Just to be clear,
we're gonna get married today.
2427
01:22:28,669 --> 01:22:29,944
- Wow.
2428
01:22:30,095 --> 01:22:33,948
- And, oh,
kind of another big piece
2429
01:22:34,175 --> 01:22:36,433
Of the puzzle is,
I've never met him.
2430
01:22:36,527 --> 01:22:38,193
You won't meet him.
2431
01:22:38,345 --> 01:22:40,028
You and I will meet him,
hopefully,
2432
01:22:40,181 --> 01:22:41,622
If you are okay
with all of this,
2433
01:22:41,849 --> 01:22:44,792
Together at the altar,
where I hope
2434
01:22:44,943 --> 01:22:48,520
That you would
walk me down the aisle.
2435
01:22:48,539 --> 01:22:50,856
[tense music]
2436
01:22:50,874 --> 01:22:52,782
- I don't know.
2437
01:22:52,876 --> 01:22:54,951
Sure you want to do this?
2438
01:22:54,971 --> 01:22:58,621
I mean, you know,
I've went on vacation
2439
01:22:58,716 --> 01:23:01,200
With people I didn't know,
and it turned into a disaster.
2440
01:23:01,218 --> 01:23:03,626
This is not a vacation.
- This is not a vacation.
2441
01:23:03,646 --> 01:23:06,371
But I tried
the traditional route already,
2442
01:23:06,390 --> 01:23:09,650
And it flopped pretty hard.
2443
01:23:09,877 --> 01:23:12,302
And it's time
to try something new.
2444
01:23:12,396 --> 01:23:15,063
- Yeah, it's different.
2445
01:23:15,216 --> 01:23:17,883
It's different, for sure.
2446
01:23:17,901 --> 01:23:20,719
- I can't possibly
walk down that aisle alone
2447
01:23:20,812 --> 01:23:22,237
Without my dad next to me.
2448
01:23:22,331 --> 01:23:23,980
Not an option.
2449
01:23:24,000 --> 01:23:26,408
Will you walk me down
the aisle in about an hour?
2450
01:23:26,502 --> 01:23:33,415
♪ ♪
2451
01:23:33,567 --> 01:23:35,067
- Poor dad.
2452
01:23:35,085 --> 01:23:36,826
- Her daddy looked like,
"girl, what you done did?"
2453
01:23:36,846 --> 01:23:38,328
- Right.
- You know?
2454
01:23:38,347 --> 01:23:39,588
- He was confused.
2455
01:23:39,740 --> 01:23:40,589
He was like,
"what are you talking about?"
2456
01:23:40,683 --> 01:23:41,998
- He was like, "why?"
2457
01:23:42,018 --> 01:23:43,425
- I think
this says something, though,
2458
01:23:43,519 --> 01:23:44,834
The fact that you felt
you had to wait to tell him.
2459
01:23:44,854 --> 01:23:46,336
- Yeah.
- Right.
2460
01:23:46,355 --> 01:23:47,855
- You know, like, when
someone's done something bad
2461
01:23:48,006 --> 01:23:50,432
And they're like, "but I
promise it's not that bad"?
2462
01:23:50,584 --> 01:23:52,342
Like, she's trying to,
like, convince him.
2463
01:23:52,361 --> 01:23:54,511
- Do you guys think that he
walked her down the aisle?
2464
01:23:54,530 --> 01:23:56,421
- I hope so
because for that father
2465
01:23:56,440 --> 01:23:58,032
And daughter moment is huge.
2466
01:23:58,183 --> 01:24:01,443
- All right, the time has come
to predict if krysten and mitch
2467
01:24:01,595 --> 01:24:05,039
Will stay married or get
a divorce on decision day.
2468
01:24:05,190 --> 01:24:06,373
Ladies, what do you think?
2469
01:24:06,525 --> 01:24:08,116
- I like this pair.
2470
01:24:08,210 --> 01:24:12,529
I think if mitch is able
to kind of give krysten
2471
01:24:12,548 --> 01:24:14,940
That kind of love
and support that she needs
2472
01:24:14,958 --> 01:24:17,459
And not be that, you know,
cut-and-run kind of guy,
2473
01:24:17,611 --> 01:24:19,111
That he could be her one.
2474
01:24:19,204 --> 01:24:20,721
So I'm gonna say yes.
- Nicole?
2475
01:24:20,948 --> 01:24:22,447
- Hmm.
2476
01:24:22,466 --> 01:24:26,560
You know, I'm kind of
optimistic about this couple.
2477
01:24:26,711 --> 01:24:28,303
Both a little older,
they seem like
2478
01:24:28,455 --> 01:24:31,065
They really know what
they want.
2479
01:24:31,292 --> 01:24:34,384
I'm just hopeful
that his job is gonna be
2480
01:24:34,478 --> 01:24:36,478
Sufficient enough for her.
2481
01:24:36,630 --> 01:24:38,297
So I'm going to go
with my first gut instinct
2482
01:24:38,315 --> 01:24:39,573
And say yes.
2483
01:24:39,724 --> 01:24:41,075
- Okay, donna?
2484
01:24:41,226 --> 01:24:42,467
- Yeah, I came
into this a hard no,
2485
01:24:42,561 --> 01:24:44,912
But you guys convinced me
a little bit.
2486
01:24:45,139 --> 01:24:47,155
Not that they are great
for each other,
2487
01:24:47,308 --> 01:24:49,658
But that I think she's
gonna choose to stay
2488
01:24:49,810 --> 01:24:50,900
With him because she wants
to be married
2489
01:24:50,994 --> 01:24:52,160
By any means necessary.
2490
01:24:52,313 --> 01:24:53,903
So I'm gonna say they're
gonna stay married.
2491
01:24:53,923 --> 01:24:55,147
- You know what,
I feel like mr. Optimistic.
2492
01:24:55,240 --> 01:24:56,665
I feel like
this love will work,
2493
01:24:56,817 --> 01:24:58,150
This love is alive,
2494
01:24:58,168 --> 01:25:00,761
That these two,
on decision day, will say yes.
2495
01:25:00,988 --> 01:25:02,096
It doesn't mean
that the next week,
2496
01:25:02,247 --> 01:25:03,746
They might not break up.
2497
01:25:03,841 --> 01:25:05,933
He might be sailing off on
his surfboard somewhere else.
2498
01:25:06,160 --> 01:25:07,917
But I'm just saying,
at decision day,
2499
01:25:07,937 --> 01:25:09,085
They'll say yes.
2500
01:25:09,179 --> 01:25:10,253
Ladies, what do you think?
2501
01:25:10,272 --> 01:25:11,830
- On decision day,
they will say yes.
2502
01:25:11,849 --> 01:25:13,332
But I'm telling you guys,
when they come back
2503
01:25:13,425 --> 01:25:14,666
For the reunion
or the follow-up,
2504
01:25:14,759 --> 01:25:16,092
It's probably gonna be a no.
2505
01:25:16,186 --> 01:25:17,502
- I think it's a no.
2506
01:25:17,596 --> 01:25:18,779
She's president
of the sorority.
2507
01:25:19,006 --> 01:25:20,447
He's, like,
mr. Environmentalist.
2508
01:25:20,599 --> 01:25:23,766
I don't see
that coming together.
2509
01:25:23,786 --> 01:25:25,193
I just don't.
2510
01:25:25,346 --> 01:25:26,528
- Amber and iris,
it's always great
2511
01:25:26,680 --> 01:25:27,621
Catching up with you,
thank you for coming by.
2512
01:25:32,019 --> 01:25:33,869
Now, we have one
more san diego couple
2513
01:25:34,021 --> 01:25:35,295
Left to talk about tonight.
2514
01:25:35,522 --> 01:25:37,022
And I'm excited
about this couple,
2515
01:25:37,040 --> 01:25:39,524
Stacia and nate.
2516
01:25:39,543 --> 01:25:41,969
Stacia is a firecracker,
a go-getter, a real boss.
2517
01:25:42,120 --> 01:25:44,138
Nate has a presence
about him, though,
2518
01:25:44,289 --> 01:25:47,366
And a self-proclaimed
entrepreneurial spirit.
2519
01:25:47,384 --> 01:25:49,534
Will these two become
the power couple
2520
01:25:49,628 --> 01:25:51,553
They have the potential to be?
2521
01:25:51,647 --> 01:25:53,872
Well, let's watch.
2522
01:25:53,891 --> 01:25:55,816
- I really feel
like I'm a catch.
2523
01:25:55,967 --> 01:25:57,467
I stay fit.
I eat healthy.
2524
01:25:57,561 --> 01:25:59,211
I take care of myself.
2525
01:25:59,304 --> 01:26:01,471
I'm just looking for my equal.
2526
01:26:01,565 --> 01:26:02,823
- I ask all
the hard questions.
2527
01:26:03,050 --> 01:26:04,549
The questions
that nobody wants to ask,
2528
01:26:04,643 --> 01:26:06,067
I'm the one that asks those.
2529
01:26:06,220 --> 01:26:08,737
I mean, "cia" is not
in my name for nothing.
2530
01:26:08,831 --> 01:26:10,555
- In the past, financially,
2531
01:26:10,574 --> 01:26:13,074
I didn't make
really good decisions.
2532
01:26:13,169 --> 01:26:15,485
And I started growing up,
getting into self-improvement,
2533
01:26:15,504 --> 01:26:16,837
Reading books.
2534
01:26:17,064 --> 01:26:18,914
And it literally changed
the course of my life.
2535
01:26:19,066 --> 01:26:20,415
You know,
when I was in my mid-20s,
2536
01:26:20,567 --> 01:26:22,009
I just got into my career.
2537
01:26:22,236 --> 01:26:23,735
I was making
little commission checks,
2538
01:26:23,754 --> 01:26:25,345
And I caught
the entrepreneurial bug, right?
2539
01:26:25,572 --> 01:26:28,015
Essentially, I was just
really focused on work.
2540
01:26:28,242 --> 01:26:30,592
You know, I wasn't really
focused on relationships.
2541
01:26:30,744 --> 01:26:32,686
But now I'm at my prime,
you know what I mean?
2542
01:26:32,913 --> 01:26:34,413
Like, I want to build
something with someone.
2543
01:26:34,431 --> 01:26:36,915
- I feel like
I intimidate men.
2544
01:26:36,934 --> 01:26:39,193
Just the other day,
I had somebody come up to me
2545
01:26:39,420 --> 01:26:41,028
And say, "you're beautiful,
but you're probably
2546
01:26:41,255 --> 01:26:42,587
Out of my tax bracket,"
and kept walking.
2547
01:26:42,606 --> 01:26:43,846
- Dang.
- I think they kind of see me
2548
01:26:43,941 --> 01:26:45,924
As a threat
more than an asset.
2549
01:26:46,017 --> 01:26:47,943
- I grew up
in a single-father home.
2550
01:26:48,037 --> 01:26:49,945
He did what he could.
2551
01:26:50,097 --> 01:26:52,280
I used to gravitate towards,
you know, my friends' houses
2552
01:26:52,433 --> 01:26:55,209
That had a solid
family foundation.
2553
01:26:55,360 --> 01:26:57,711
And so I wanted
to be a part of that.
2554
01:26:57,938 --> 01:26:59,862
- I emancipated myself
at 17 years old.
2555
01:26:59,957 --> 01:27:02,107
I've always been on my own,
2556
01:27:02,200 --> 01:27:04,885
Never told what
I could do--even my mom.
2557
01:27:05,112 --> 01:27:06,869
You know, I will stand up
for myself.
2558
01:27:06,889 --> 01:27:09,631
I will put you
in your place very quickly.
2559
01:27:09,725 --> 01:27:11,616
I will tell you, like,
what's right and wrong.
2560
01:27:11,710 --> 01:27:13,894
And I will hold you
accountable.
2561
01:27:14,045 --> 01:27:16,455
I feel like I want more of,
like, a partner.
2562
01:27:16,473 --> 01:27:18,623
I want them to see, like,
if I'm struggling in a day,
2563
01:27:18,642 --> 01:27:21,293
Like, don't make me have
to go get the kids
2564
01:27:21,386 --> 01:27:22,885
And cook dinner
and go pick up this
2565
01:27:22,980 --> 01:27:24,238
And pick up that.
2566
01:27:24,465 --> 01:27:27,299
If you already know I have
a full plate, help me.
2567
01:27:27,392 --> 01:27:29,076
- Looking for a ride or die.
2568
01:27:29,227 --> 01:27:31,411
I want to get married because
I believe in partnership.
2569
01:27:31,563 --> 01:27:33,472
I believe
in building something.
2570
01:27:33,565 --> 01:27:35,474
I believe in, you know,
legacy.
2571
01:27:35,492 --> 01:27:38,085
And I truly think
that how life works,
2572
01:27:38,312 --> 01:27:39,828
You know, you're supposed
to have a partner.
2573
01:27:39,922 --> 01:27:41,663
- She's so pretty.
2574
01:27:41,815 --> 01:27:43,482
- ♪ you know
I could be your everything ♪
2575
01:27:43,500 --> 01:27:45,074
- I don't like dating.
2576
01:27:45,094 --> 01:27:47,076
I just want
to have my one person
2577
01:27:47,096 --> 01:27:49,821
That I can rely on,
that I can share
2578
01:27:49,840 --> 01:27:52,157
All my deepest
and dark secrets with,
2579
01:27:52,175 --> 01:27:54,917
Someone that I can trust,
who's going to be loyal to me,
2580
01:27:55,012 --> 01:27:57,020
Love me, with no judgment.
2581
01:27:59,090 --> 01:28:00,423
- All right,
so what do you guys think?
2582
01:28:00,442 --> 01:28:02,851
Right off the--there are
a lot of "hmms" and "huhs."
2583
01:28:02,945 --> 01:28:03,944
And what do y'all think?
2584
01:28:04,171 --> 01:28:05,428
- The good things
are that they are
2585
01:28:05,522 --> 01:28:06,780
Used to being very independent.
2586
01:28:07,007 --> 01:28:07,948
- Yes.
2587
01:28:08,099 --> 01:28:09,674
- So I think they'll bond
on that.
2588
01:28:09,693 --> 01:28:11,768
- Yeah, and they do have
some things in common.
2589
01:28:11,787 --> 01:28:14,012
You know,
she was raised by her mom.
2590
01:28:14,031 --> 01:28:15,530
He was raised by his dad.
2591
01:28:15,624 --> 01:28:18,033
They both like style.
2592
01:28:18,185 --> 01:28:19,960
Yeah they're both
ambitious, so--
2593
01:28:20,111 --> 01:28:21,353
- They're both attractive.
2594
01:28:21,446 --> 01:28:22,945
- There are
some positives here.
2595
01:28:22,965 --> 01:28:25,857
- Yeah, and they both
have had childhoods
2596
01:28:25,950 --> 01:28:28,618
Where it hasn't been
a very stable environment,
2597
01:28:28,637 --> 01:28:30,119
Which is something that,
you know,
2598
01:28:30,139 --> 01:28:33,048
Kind of as you mentioned,
could bring them together.
2599
01:28:33,200 --> 01:28:36,384
That understanding of not
having a ton of stability
2600
01:28:36,537 --> 01:28:37,719
As a young person
and wanting to build that
2601
01:28:37,813 --> 01:28:38,979
With someone else.
2602
01:28:39,206 --> 01:28:42,983
- Okay, we know nate
is very into looks.
2603
01:28:43,210 --> 01:28:46,044
- Physical attraction
is very important to me.
2604
01:28:46,137 --> 01:28:48,380
I want someone
who's very feminine,
2605
01:28:48,398 --> 01:28:50,973
Petite and curvy,
not too straight up and down.
2606
01:28:51,068 --> 01:28:52,308
I really like small waists.
2607
01:28:52,328 --> 01:28:53,735
She has to have a nice ass,
2608
01:28:53,887 --> 01:28:55,904
Really smooth legs,
and have cute feet.
2609
01:28:56,056 --> 01:28:57,647
- I mean, I think
he's got a win right now,
2610
01:28:57,666 --> 01:28:59,741
That he'll be happy
when he sees her, right?
2611
01:28:59,893 --> 01:29:01,168
Are you guys convinced of this?
- Yeah.
2612
01:29:01,395 --> 01:29:02,727
- Oh, yeah. She's stunning.
- No, I agree.
2613
01:29:02,821 --> 01:29:04,729
- So I think he's
gonna be okay with the looks.
2614
01:29:04,823 --> 01:29:07,323
I don't--is she going
to be attracted to him?
2615
01:29:07,343 --> 01:29:08,917
I don't know.
2616
01:29:09,069 --> 01:29:11,903
I mean, he's not
a bad-looking guy.
2617
01:29:11,996 --> 01:29:13,238
- Stacia also said
that she's very big
2618
01:29:13,331 --> 01:29:14,255
On if you're gonna
do something,
2619
01:29:14,408 --> 01:29:16,074
Do it extra special.
2620
01:29:16,167 --> 01:29:19,427
- I like to do things
where we create memories.
2621
01:29:19,521 --> 01:29:22,080
Let's do something
where we go see a movie
2622
01:29:22,173 --> 01:29:25,934
Where the sound
was a live orchestra.
2623
01:29:26,086 --> 01:29:29,846
Or let's do yoga,
but let's do goat yoga.
2624
01:29:29,865 --> 01:29:32,424
Random, off-the-wall,
crazy things
2625
01:29:32,517 --> 01:29:35,202
To create that experience
and that memory.
2626
01:29:35,429 --> 01:29:36,686
- Is that realistic
in marriage?
2627
01:29:36,780 --> 01:29:38,096
- Not all the time,
2628
01:29:38,115 --> 01:29:39,373
But I think
you can have those dates.
2629
01:29:39,600 --> 01:29:41,041
And I honestly think
nate will step up to it.
2630
01:29:41,268 --> 01:29:42,767
- Really?
2631
01:29:42,786 --> 01:29:44,102
- Yeah, I think
he would want to impress her
2632
01:29:44,195 --> 01:29:46,546
To show that he has things
figured out.
2633
01:29:46,773 --> 01:29:48,607
- He loves bougie restaurants.
- I was gonna say.
2634
01:29:48,700 --> 01:29:50,108
- And what is
a bougie restaurant?
2635
01:29:50,127 --> 01:29:52,386
- You know, I do like
to dress up and go out to eat.
2636
01:29:52,613 --> 01:29:54,112
I like to go to, like,
bougie restaurants
2637
01:29:54,131 --> 01:29:55,705
And try out new food.
2638
01:29:55,799 --> 01:29:57,039
That's part of my lifestyle.
2639
01:29:57,059 --> 01:29:58,950
- The issue with that,
though, is she seems
2640
01:29:58,969 --> 01:30:00,785
Like she wants something
more creative
2641
01:30:00,879 --> 01:30:02,787
Versus it just being
about the money.
2642
01:30:02,806 --> 01:30:04,139
So if he just wants to take her
2643
01:30:04,233 --> 01:30:05,715
To, like, a five-star
restaurant every night,
2644
01:30:05,734 --> 01:30:06,883
She's like,
yeah, yeah, that's cool.
2645
01:30:06,902 --> 01:30:08,402
Like, I can afford that.
2646
01:30:08,629 --> 01:30:10,386
But, like, I want you
to do something that shows
2647
01:30:10,480 --> 01:30:12,964
That you're listening and hear,
2648
01:30:13,057 --> 01:30:15,150
You know,
what I'm interested in.
2649
01:30:15,244 --> 01:30:17,560
- I think it's if she asks,
and he'll want to impress her.
2650
01:30:17,579 --> 01:30:19,304
Like, he wants to be more--
he's creative, right?
2651
01:30:19,322 --> 01:30:20,472
- Yeah.
2652
01:30:20,490 --> 01:30:22,231
- He's that
entrepreneurial spirit.
2653
01:30:22,325 --> 01:30:23,642
He may want
to do that for his wife
2654
01:30:23,660 --> 01:30:25,810
To show that he can lead.
2655
01:30:25,904 --> 01:30:27,328
- She has worked very hard
to get where she is
2656
01:30:27,423 --> 01:30:29,814
In her career today,
and she is building an empire.
2657
01:30:29,908 --> 01:30:31,650
Do you see this as a success?
2658
01:30:31,743 --> 01:30:33,743
Can he aid her
in building her empire?
2659
01:30:33,837 --> 01:30:35,336
Can they work well together?
2660
01:30:35,489 --> 01:30:37,580
- He will benefit
from her motivation, right?
2661
01:30:37,674 --> 01:30:39,749
She will push him to do better.
2662
01:30:39,768 --> 01:30:41,601
But I wonder
if she's gonna be pushing him
2663
01:30:41,753 --> 01:30:43,178
And he's not doing
anything for her.
2664
01:30:43,330 --> 01:30:45,180
So you know.
- Nicole?
2665
01:30:45,332 --> 01:30:46,998
- I've just seen
this type of woman before.
2666
01:30:47,017 --> 01:30:48,183
- Okay.
- I mean, she's 37.
2667
01:30:48,277 --> 01:30:49,759
She's not married.
2668
01:30:49,778 --> 01:30:51,761
I mean, she's very ambitious.
2669
01:30:51,855 --> 01:30:54,506
And, you know,
she has high standards
2670
01:30:54,524 --> 01:30:56,524
And high goals.
2671
01:30:56,677 --> 01:30:59,194
And the standards
she has for a man
2672
01:30:59,346 --> 01:31:01,455
I think are a little
different than what
2673
01:31:01,606 --> 01:31:03,773
She's being presented
with this gentleman right here.
2674
01:31:03,792 --> 01:31:05,700
I mean, I'm not saying
that he's a bad guy.
2675
01:31:05,852 --> 01:31:09,020
I mean, he's moving
in the right direction.
2676
01:31:09,039 --> 01:31:10,464
But I don't know.
2677
01:31:10,691 --> 01:31:12,448
I think that something is
just not going to connect
2678
01:31:12,468 --> 01:31:13,800
Between the two of them.
2679
01:31:14,027 --> 01:31:15,710
- Angelique, do you think
he's a little cocky?
2680
01:31:15,862 --> 01:31:17,971
- Ooh, he's--I mean,
he's very confident.
2681
01:31:18,122 --> 01:31:19,639
- [laughs]
2682
01:31:19,866 --> 01:31:20,957
- At the same time,
2683
01:31:20,976 --> 01:31:23,201
I'm really sad
for her in the sense
2684
01:31:23,294 --> 01:31:25,386
That, like, so many men
have told her
2685
01:31:25,539 --> 01:31:26,646
They're intimidated by her.
2686
01:31:26,873 --> 01:31:28,873
All she wants is someone
who is already there,
2687
01:31:28,892 --> 01:31:30,150
Already ready on her level.
2688
01:31:30,377 --> 01:31:32,486
- I prefer
a modern relationship.
2689
01:31:32,713 --> 01:31:34,470
You know, if the woman
is a breadwinner,
2690
01:31:34,564 --> 01:31:36,047
And she's very independent,
2691
01:31:36,066 --> 01:31:38,066
You know, I'm not gonna
stop her from that.
2692
01:31:38,218 --> 01:31:41,477
- He's okay with the fact that
she makes more money than him.
2693
01:31:41,497 --> 01:31:43,238
I mean, who wouldn't--
2694
01:31:43,332 --> 01:31:44,664
I don't want to say
who wouldn't be okay with that,
2695
01:31:44,891 --> 01:31:46,649
But I just don't think
they're on the same plane.
2696
01:31:46,668 --> 01:31:49,318
And that's the thing
that I'm mostly nervous about.
2697
01:31:49,412 --> 01:31:51,338
- Mm, mm.
- I don't know.
2698
01:31:51,565 --> 01:31:53,565
- Yeah, she's a
no-nonsense type of person.
2699
01:31:53,583 --> 01:31:56,417
But, you know, he may be
the man of her dreams.
2700
01:31:56,570 --> 01:31:58,828
- Now, one of the things that
I think will be very important
2701
01:31:58,847 --> 01:32:00,347
Is that stacia said
in the past she would
2702
01:32:00,498 --> 01:32:03,165
Ask a man on their first date
his credit score.
2703
01:32:03,185 --> 01:32:04,592
- Yep.
2704
01:32:04,686 --> 01:32:06,853
- So when I'm dating,
like the first date,
2705
01:32:07,005 --> 01:32:09,414
I'm trying to get
as much information as I can.
2706
01:32:09,432 --> 01:32:10,915
What do you do for a living?
2707
01:32:10,934 --> 01:32:12,192
What's your credit score?
2708
01:32:12,343 --> 01:32:15,695
I just don't want to get
to date six and I'm like,
2709
01:32:15,922 --> 01:32:18,681
Oh, man, I could have
found this out on day one.
2710
01:32:18,700 --> 01:32:20,033
- Is it possible
2711
01:32:20,184 --> 01:32:22,369
That she could scare off nate
in the very beg--
2712
01:32:22,596 --> 01:32:25,021
When they have that
conversation at the wedding
2713
01:32:25,115 --> 01:32:27,707
Where she's like, "okay, well,
before you have the champagne,
2714
01:32:27,859 --> 01:32:29,025
I need your credit score."
2715
01:32:29,119 --> 01:32:30,451
- He would be so freaked out
2716
01:32:30,546 --> 01:32:32,212
If that was their conversation
2717
01:32:32,439 --> 01:32:34,864
As they're, like, trying to,
you know, eat their dinner,
2718
01:32:34,958 --> 01:32:37,792
And she was like, "so, um,
can I get your credit score?"
2719
01:32:37,886 --> 01:32:39,294
- Stacia also said
2720
01:32:39,446 --> 01:32:42,280
That she spends
her leisure time working,
2721
01:32:42,373 --> 01:32:44,299
That she is deep
in it all the time,
2722
01:32:44,451 --> 01:32:45,466
That she doesn't
even watch television.
2723
01:32:45,619 --> 01:32:46,893
- Okay.
2724
01:32:47,120 --> 01:32:48,728
- Do you think
that nate is ready for that,
2725
01:32:48,880 --> 01:32:50,288
And will that be
a deal-breaker?
2726
01:32:50,307 --> 01:32:52,957
- Yeah, there's things
that are gonna have to change.
2727
01:32:53,051 --> 01:32:54,734
Maybe that's one
of the reasons she hasn't
2728
01:32:54,886 --> 01:32:56,644
Been able to find a man
because she's working
2729
01:32:56,738 --> 01:32:58,220
All the damn time.
2730
01:32:58,240 --> 01:33:00,632
Like, you got to be able
to have some work-life balance.
2731
01:33:00,725 --> 01:33:02,317
And now you want
to get married,
2732
01:33:02,469 --> 01:33:04,986
You're going to have to create
that space within your world.
2733
01:33:05,080 --> 01:33:07,155
So it'll be interesting
to see if she's open to that.
2734
01:33:07,249 --> 01:33:09,974
- There's also this fact,
which maybe it's a good thing,
2735
01:33:09,993 --> 01:33:11,492
Maybe it's a bad thing.
2736
01:33:11,587 --> 01:33:13,661
Stacia says she hasn't been
on a date in two years.
2737
01:33:13,814 --> 01:33:14,921
That's what
she told pastor cal.
2738
01:33:15,148 --> 01:33:16,314
Why not?
2739
01:33:16,333 --> 01:33:19,984
- She has had many dates
with her laptop.
2740
01:33:20,078 --> 01:33:21,428
[laughter]
2741
01:33:21,579 --> 01:33:23,004
I mean,
she's gonna need to create
2742
01:33:23,098 --> 01:33:24,505
Some sort of boundaries.
2743
01:33:24,658 --> 01:33:26,157
You cannot work all day--
- yeah.
2744
01:33:26,250 --> 01:33:27,267
- Especially
if you want a spouse.
2745
01:33:27,418 --> 01:33:29,251
Your spouse is not gonna
be cool with that.
2746
01:33:29,271 --> 01:33:30,753
He's gonna want
to take a break.
2747
01:33:30,772 --> 01:33:32,330
He's gonna want to, you know,
get things cracking.
2748
01:33:32,423 --> 01:33:34,515
When are you gonna have kids?
She's 37.
2749
01:33:34,668 --> 01:33:36,501
He's probably, you know,
getting there too.
2750
01:33:36,519 --> 01:33:39,613
So there's a lot of things...
- There's a lot there...
2751
01:33:39,840 --> 01:33:41,506
- That need to be tweaked
with her lifestyle.
2752
01:33:41,524 --> 01:33:42,616
- That we need to unpack.
2753
01:33:42,843 --> 01:33:45,285
And you also mentioned kids,
you know.
2754
01:33:45,436 --> 01:33:49,789
- Yeah, it seems like
he is interested, in theory,
2755
01:33:50,016 --> 01:33:51,850
In having a family
and building a family.
2756
01:33:51,868 --> 01:33:55,128
But, you know, given in a
situation where your mother
2757
01:33:55,355 --> 01:33:58,373
Walked out and you have
no relationship with her,
2758
01:33:58,467 --> 01:34:00,950
There may be some issues
that you've got to kind of work
2759
01:34:00,969 --> 01:34:02,377
Through with your wife
before you're ready
2760
01:34:02,529 --> 01:34:04,453
To become a parent.
2761
01:34:04,547 --> 01:34:05,805
- You know,
a lot of times, though,
2762
01:34:06,032 --> 01:34:07,641
I see those people
who come from single parents,
2763
01:34:07,868 --> 01:34:10,535
They want to be what
that parent wasn't for them.
2764
01:34:10,553 --> 01:34:11,811
- Mm-hmm.
2765
01:34:12,038 --> 01:34:13,388
- So I think they may
complement each other.
2766
01:34:13,482 --> 01:34:15,131
- But is that hard because
you haven't seen the example
2767
01:34:15,225 --> 01:34:16,465
Of what you're trying to--
2768
01:34:16,559 --> 01:34:17,558
- Emulate.
- Mimic, yeah.
2769
01:34:17,653 --> 01:34:18,818
- Oh, absolutely.
2770
01:34:18,970 --> 01:34:20,136
- That might not
be bad, though,
2771
01:34:20,155 --> 01:34:21,562
Because if you came
from a lot of trauma,
2772
01:34:21,715 --> 01:34:27,810
You can define
that for yourself.
2773
01:34:27,829 --> 01:34:28,736
Myrla and johnny.
2774
01:34:28,889 --> 01:34:30,555
Oh! Okay.
- Okay!
2775
01:34:30,573 --> 01:34:32,073
- Oh, you came out fancy.
2776
01:34:32,225 --> 01:34:33,649
- Always.
- Oh, you came out fa--
2777
01:34:33,669 --> 01:34:34,817
- Always.
- Good to see you.
2778
01:34:34,836 --> 01:34:36,002
How are you?
- I'm good, how are you?
2779
01:34:36,154 --> 01:34:37,228
- Good to see you.
2780
01:34:37,321 --> 01:34:38,897
We have a lot to discuss.
We do.
2781
01:34:38,915 --> 01:34:40,915
But let's not--we won't leave
anything on the table.
2782
01:34:41,067 --> 01:34:42,324
Right off the bat,
are y'all dating yet?
2783
01:34:42,419 --> 01:34:46,162
[tense music]
2784
01:34:46,181 --> 01:34:47,238
- No.
2785
01:34:47,331 --> 01:34:48,515
[laughter]
2786
01:34:48,666 --> 01:34:50,684
- I'm sorry to disappoint.
- No, real--
2787
01:34:50,835 --> 01:34:53,169
Was there ever something
going on between you two?
2788
01:34:53,188 --> 01:34:54,837
- Never.
2789
01:34:54,856 --> 01:34:56,856
Two people of the opposite
sex can, like, be friends.
2790
01:34:57,008 --> 01:34:58,340
- Okay.
- I mean, like--
2791
01:34:58,360 --> 01:34:59,934
- I hear that.
- We're friends.
2792
01:35:00,028 --> 01:35:02,011
- Okay. All right, all right.
Are you dating someone now?
2793
01:35:02,105 --> 01:35:03,755
- I am actively dating.
2794
01:35:03,848 --> 01:35:04,864
- Oh, okay.
This one--
2795
01:35:05,016 --> 01:35:05,940
- Actively dating.
2796
01:35:06,092 --> 01:35:07,867
- You like, houston, hello.
2797
01:35:08,019 --> 01:35:09,202
[laughter]
2798
01:35:09,353 --> 01:35:10,595
I hear you.
2799
01:35:10,613 --> 01:35:11,687
And, johnny,
what's going on with you?
2800
01:35:11,781 --> 01:35:13,206
- I'm slowly getting
back out there.
2801
01:35:13,433 --> 01:35:14,782
- Slowly?
2802
01:35:14,876 --> 01:35:16,358
- I'm not back on, like,
any dating apps or anything,
2803
01:35:16,453 --> 01:35:18,786
But I'm meeting people through,
like, friends of friends
2804
01:35:18,880 --> 01:35:20,438
Or just being out.
2805
01:35:20,457 --> 01:35:21,456
- By the way,
what's the reaction--
2806
01:35:21,608 --> 01:35:23,624
Houston is a small big town.
2807
01:35:23,777 --> 01:35:26,202
What's it like when people
see you out and about?
2808
01:35:26,221 --> 01:35:29,464
- Actually, yeah, it is.
We get recognized quite a bit.
2809
01:35:29,558 --> 01:35:31,540
Actually, the thing they
always tell me is that--
2810
01:35:31,560 --> 01:35:34,877
[upbeat music]
2811
01:35:34,971 --> 01:35:38,790
They always tell me they like
me, but they don't like myrla.
2812
01:35:38,808 --> 01:35:40,400
- Shocking.
[laughter]
2813
01:35:40,627 --> 01:35:42,051
- They always say that.
I don't get it.
2814
01:35:42,070 --> 01:35:43,403
And I don't understand
because I feel like
2815
01:35:43,630 --> 01:35:44,963
I always tell them,
I love myrla,
2816
01:35:44,981 --> 01:35:46,555
And myrla is, like, real.
2817
01:35:46,649 --> 01:35:48,408
She knows what she wants.
She doesn't settle for less.
2818
01:35:48,559 --> 01:35:50,151
Like, why do you hate
someone for that?
2819
01:35:50,303 --> 01:35:52,895
I tell everybody to give
her a second chance.
2820
01:35:52,914 --> 01:35:54,639
- Let's just be honest.
- Come on.
2821
01:35:54,732 --> 01:35:56,657
- In the end,
y'all's situation--
2822
01:35:56,810 --> 01:35:58,901
I'm talking about houston--
got a little messy.
2823
01:35:58,920 --> 01:36:03,423
There was this and that and he
with her and all that stuff.
2824
01:36:03,650 --> 01:36:06,408
Johnny, how was that
for you, in watching
2825
01:36:06,503 --> 01:36:09,262
The other relationships unfold?
2826
01:36:09,413 --> 01:36:11,097
- After the show?
- After.
2827
01:36:11,249 --> 01:36:12,599
Oh, yes.
You know who I'm talking about.
2828
01:36:12,750 --> 01:36:13,674
[laughter]
2829
01:36:13,769 --> 01:36:15,660
Bao and zack.
2830
01:36:15,753 --> 01:36:17,678
How did michaela
and johnny take the news,
2831
01:36:17,831 --> 01:36:19,497
And have you spoken to them?
2832
01:36:19,590 --> 01:36:21,090
- I don't really know
how they took the news,
2833
01:36:21,109 --> 01:36:22,758
And honestly,
I don't really care.
2834
01:36:22,778 --> 01:36:24,426
- I didn't tell either of them.
2835
01:36:24,446 --> 01:36:26,187
- Yeah, no.
I wish them the best.
2836
01:36:26,339 --> 01:36:27,839
It's time for us to move on.
2837
01:36:27,857 --> 01:36:29,007
So I don't really care
how they took it.
2838
01:36:29,100 --> 01:36:31,618
- I never thought
that was a real thing.
2839
01:36:31,769 --> 01:36:32,768
- You don't
think it was a real thing?
2840
01:36:32,788 --> 01:36:34,436
- No.
2841
01:36:34,456 --> 01:36:35,696
- You don't think there was
some natural attraction?
2842
01:36:35,791 --> 01:36:37,698
Because they proclaimed
that they had a...
2843
01:36:37,851 --> 01:36:39,108
- Yeah.
- Relationship.
2844
01:36:39,127 --> 01:36:40,535
- I feel like they
proclaim a lot of things.
2845
01:36:40,687 --> 01:36:42,203
[laughter]
- really?
2846
01:36:42,355 --> 01:36:43,463
Really?
- Yeah.
2847
01:36:43,614 --> 01:36:45,131
I think bao just--
2848
01:36:45,283 --> 01:36:51,546
I think she was looking for
anyone else on the season.
2849
01:36:51,698 --> 01:36:54,623
I know she struck out first.
2850
01:36:54,717 --> 01:36:56,458
- You're saying there was
somebody else besides zack?
2851
01:36:56,478 --> 01:36:58,703
- Oh yeah.
- [gasps] what?
2852
01:36:58,796 --> 01:36:59,813
Oh, you got to
spill it, johnny.
2853
01:36:59,964 --> 01:37:01,205
- Ooh-whee!
2854
01:37:01,299 --> 01:37:02,482
- Well, johnny,
now we're there.
2855
01:37:02,709 --> 01:37:04,225
- Here we go, guys.
- Let's go. We're here now.
2856
01:37:04,319 --> 01:37:05,985
- Here we go.
- Let's go.
2857
01:37:06,137 --> 01:37:06,986
Who was it?
2858
01:37:07,213 --> 01:37:09,730
♪ ♪
2859
01:37:09,883 --> 01:37:11,716
- I think it was
a one-sided thing.
2860
01:37:11,734 --> 01:37:14,643
I think bao liked ryan, but
ryan didn't reciprocate it.
2861
01:37:14,737 --> 01:37:16,237
- So it was ryan.
- Yeah.
2862
01:37:16,389 --> 01:37:17,813
So I think she struck out
with him first,
2863
01:37:17,907 --> 01:37:19,574
And the only person that's
left, if you think about it,
2864
01:37:19,668 --> 01:37:21,909
Is zack.
2865
01:37:22,062 --> 01:37:23,394
- Wow.
2866
01:37:23,487 --> 01:37:25,004
So zack was the last resort,
and it worked out.
2867
01:37:25,156 --> 01:37:26,822
- Yeah, but he was never
serious about any of them.
2868
01:37:26,842 --> 01:37:28,508
Wasn't committed to bao.
2869
01:37:28,735 --> 01:37:30,993
He wasn't even committed to,
like, michaela.
2870
01:37:31,087 --> 01:37:34,163
He was just going around
sleeping with half of houston.
2871
01:37:34,182 --> 01:37:36,257
- Ooh.
2872
01:37:36,351 --> 01:37:39,260
- Well, now. Okay.
2873
01:37:39,354 --> 01:37:43,598
Myrla, have you had a chance
to catch up with gil?
2874
01:37:43,692 --> 01:37:45,249
- No.
2875
01:37:45,268 --> 01:37:47,026
After decision day,
there were things
2876
01:37:47,178 --> 01:37:50,922
That I found out about
that he had lied about.
2877
01:37:50,940 --> 01:37:54,183
When somebody cannot afford to
pay their first month of half
2878
01:37:54,202 --> 01:37:56,185
Of rent, and you
don't tell me, like,
2879
01:37:56,204 --> 01:37:57,686
Why blindside me
like that on the day
2880
01:37:57,706 --> 01:37:59,597
That we're moving together?
- What did he lie about?
2881
01:37:59,616 --> 01:38:01,708
Because from my understanding--
and I'm just saying,
2882
01:38:01,935 --> 01:38:05,103
Look, enlighten me--
he makes a good living.
2883
01:38:05,196 --> 01:38:06,362
- I don't care
how much you make, kevin,
2884
01:38:06,381 --> 01:38:08,030
If you don't
manage your money well
2885
01:38:08,049 --> 01:38:09,440
And you can't make rent.
2886
01:38:09,459 --> 01:38:11,367
We're 35 and 36.
We're not 22.
2887
01:38:11,386 --> 01:38:14,795
I've never not paid rent
on time in my life.
2888
01:38:14,948 --> 01:38:16,872
- So that really
was the foundation
2889
01:38:16,892 --> 01:38:18,783
Of what led you to sit
here that day and be like--
2890
01:38:18,876 --> 01:38:20,301
- I mean, it was a
couple more things.
2891
01:38:20,395 --> 01:38:22,620
But, like, it was just to me,
it was a dishonesty.
2892
01:38:22,713 --> 01:38:24,380
And the fact that
he did not think
2893
01:38:24,399 --> 01:38:25,640
There was anything
wrong with that
2894
01:38:25,792 --> 01:38:28,960
And he did not apologize,
like, really, gil?
2895
01:38:29,053 --> 01:38:30,461
- Well, I'm glad to hear
your side of the story.
2896
01:38:30,480 --> 01:38:31,963
I really am glad--
- I mean--
2897
01:38:32,056 --> 01:38:33,239
- That you get to tell
your side of the story.
2898
01:38:33,391 --> 01:38:34,649
I am glad.
2899
01:38:34,801 --> 01:38:37,410
- Aside from the shopping
and the, you know,
2900
01:38:37,637 --> 01:38:40,062
Perceived complaining,
what, for each of you,
2901
01:38:40,081 --> 01:38:43,917
Was the biggest misconception
about you during the season?
2902
01:38:44,068 --> 01:38:46,235
- I think it's twofold
that I am high-maintenance
2903
01:38:46,254 --> 01:38:47,995
And not willing to compromise.
2904
01:38:48,148 --> 01:38:49,330
- I would say those are--
I would--
2905
01:38:49,424 --> 01:38:51,832
- I'm actually, like,
a pretty chill person.
2906
01:38:51,927 --> 01:38:56,821
♪ ♪
2907
01:38:56,839 --> 01:38:58,264
- Johnny?
2908
01:38:58,416 --> 01:38:59,415
- I felt like
I expressed myself very
2909
01:38:59,434 --> 01:39:01,659
Plainly and without a filter.
2910
01:39:01,678 --> 01:39:03,102
I just said what I was
thinking at the time.
2911
01:39:03,254 --> 01:39:06,755
What I meant to do was just
speak with a goal in mind.
2912
01:39:06,849 --> 01:39:08,424
Like, don't just say it
2913
01:39:08,443 --> 01:39:10,501
Like word vomit,
how you're feeling.
2914
01:39:10,594 --> 01:39:12,837
If you want the habit
to change or the behavior
2915
01:39:12,855 --> 01:39:15,931
To change, say,
this is what I would prefer,
2916
01:39:15,951 --> 01:39:18,526
Versus, like, I hate it
when this happens.
2917
01:39:18,678 --> 01:39:20,027
- All right,
let's talk san diego
2918
01:39:20,180 --> 01:39:21,270
Because the reason
you two are here
2919
01:39:21,289 --> 01:39:23,848
To talk about stacia and nate.
2920
01:39:23,866 --> 01:39:26,017
- Stacia and nate,
I think, are well-matched.
2921
01:39:26,035 --> 01:39:27,535
I think they're both
very attractive people.
2922
01:39:27,629 --> 01:39:31,297
It seems like if she
has everything together,
2923
01:39:31,449 --> 01:39:33,800
But he's got most
of it together
2924
01:39:34,027 --> 01:39:36,970
And he's ambitious
and will get there eventually,
2925
01:39:37,121 --> 01:39:38,696
I think that's enough,
especially
2926
01:39:38,715 --> 01:39:39,955
If they're physically
attracted to one another
2927
01:39:39,975 --> 01:39:41,290
And there's chemistry.
2928
01:39:41,309 --> 01:39:43,292
- I mean, I think they look
like they have
2929
01:39:43,311 --> 01:39:45,294
The similar values
of things that they want.
2930
01:39:45,313 --> 01:39:47,388
Like, they're both ambitious,
they're both driven,
2931
01:39:47,540 --> 01:39:48,982
They both want to travel.
2932
01:39:49,133 --> 01:39:52,468
I think if the connection,
the chemistry, is there,
2933
01:39:52,487 --> 01:39:54,212
Like, it could be really good.
2934
01:39:54,305 --> 01:39:56,397
- Nate had a lot of fun
at the bachelor party.
2935
01:39:56,549 --> 01:39:57,806
Watch this.
2936
01:39:57,826 --> 01:39:58,825
- Let's go!
2937
01:39:58,976 --> 01:40:00,384
- ♪ no price on the tag, uh ♪
2938
01:40:00,403 --> 01:40:01,643
♪ she got it like that ♪
2939
01:40:01,663 --> 01:40:03,663
- Hey!
- Yes, sir!
2940
01:40:03,890 --> 01:40:05,481
- Okay.
2941
01:40:05,500 --> 01:40:06,907
It's a bachelor party now, man.
2942
01:40:07,060 --> 01:40:08,893
- Let's go.
2943
01:40:08,911 --> 01:40:09,910
Hey, go ahead
and turn me up, girl.
2944
01:40:10,063 --> 01:40:12,396
I need that.
2945
01:40:12,415 --> 01:40:14,582
Oh, yeah. Hey.
- Wow.
2946
01:40:14,676 --> 01:40:17,010
- I'm definitely a freak.
I'm not gonna hold that back.
2947
01:40:17,161 --> 01:40:19,403
That's what I'm talking about.
Come on. Get comfy, baby.
2948
01:40:19,497 --> 01:40:21,180
Get comfy.
2949
01:40:21,332 --> 01:40:22,498
- Now he's ready
to get married.
2950
01:40:22,592 --> 01:40:24,759
- Yeah, I'm ready.
2951
01:40:24,911 --> 01:40:26,001
- Wow.
2952
01:40:26,021 --> 01:40:27,094
- We going to need to change
his name
2953
01:40:27,188 --> 01:40:28,746
To nate dogg.
2954
01:40:28,839 --> 01:40:31,098
[laughter]
2955
01:40:31,251 --> 01:40:32,917
- So what did you think?
Myrla?
2956
01:40:32,935 --> 01:40:35,253
♪ ♪
2957
01:40:35,271 --> 01:40:38,013
- I mean, he's out there.
2958
01:40:38,107 --> 01:40:40,199
- Yeah, he seems just like a
free-spirited guy--active,
2959
01:40:40,351 --> 01:40:42,426
Social, likes to have fun.
2960
01:40:42,520 --> 01:40:44,762
- How do you think stacia
will feel about this?
2961
01:40:44,855 --> 01:40:46,113
- I don't think anybody
would be happy about it.
2962
01:40:46,207 --> 01:40:47,189
- There's levels. Right?
2963
01:40:47,283 --> 01:40:48,266
- Yeah.
- There's levels.
2964
01:40:48,284 --> 01:40:49,375
Like, you can have fun.
2965
01:40:49,527 --> 01:40:51,544
But this is like,
you represent me.
2966
01:40:51,771 --> 01:40:54,029
- I'm getting
olajuwon vibes because he was
2967
01:40:54,123 --> 01:40:56,290
A wild man at his
bachelor party,
2968
01:40:56,442 --> 01:40:58,959
But he was stone cold in love.
- Exactly.
2969
01:40:59,054 --> 01:41:01,112
And olajuwon was very clear
that he was like,
2970
01:41:01,205 --> 01:41:04,373
I would want my wife
to be there with me, not--
2971
01:41:04,467 --> 01:41:06,875
- That's true.
- This is like, yeah,
2972
01:41:06,969 --> 01:41:08,561
If she is not
with it, then that's--
2973
01:41:08,712 --> 01:41:10,621
There's something wrong
with her.
2974
01:41:10,714 --> 01:41:11,956
- What advice would you
have for a couple that
2975
01:41:12,049 --> 01:41:13,549
Is going to go through this?
2976
01:41:13,568 --> 01:41:15,902
- I would say trust your gut.
2977
01:41:16,053 --> 01:41:18,129
Whatever your gut
tells you, go with it.
2978
01:41:18,222 --> 01:41:19,480
And, you know,
you wouldn't have
2979
01:41:19,632 --> 01:41:21,649
Been chosen by the experts
if you weren't ready.
2980
01:41:21,743 --> 01:41:23,634
- I mean, I would just say,
stay true to you.
2981
01:41:23,653 --> 01:41:26,245
The whole process
is just so intense,
2982
01:41:26,397 --> 01:41:28,139
There's nothing that you
can do to prepare for it.
2983
01:41:28,232 --> 01:41:29,657
Just try your best
to be true to you
2984
01:41:29,809 --> 01:41:31,325
And, like, to your core values.
- Okay.
2985
01:41:31,477 --> 01:41:34,328
Ladies, let's get
your predictions.
2986
01:41:34,480 --> 01:41:35,588
Angelique, you first.
2987
01:41:35,739 --> 01:41:38,091
On decision day,
will they remain married,
2988
01:41:38,242 --> 01:41:40,075
Or will they get divorced?
2989
01:41:40,095 --> 01:41:42,002
- I'm going to have to stick
with my gut on this one
2990
01:41:42,155 --> 01:41:44,171
And say no.
[both gasp]
2991
01:41:44,324 --> 01:41:45,765
And I think it's on her end.
2992
01:41:45,992 --> 01:41:47,825
I don't think he's
the right man for her,
2993
01:41:47,844 --> 01:41:50,661
And I think she will probably
stand up and say that.
2994
01:41:50,754 --> 01:41:52,847
- Nicole?
- My gut says no.
2995
01:41:52,999 --> 01:41:55,349
There's just something
about her.
2996
01:41:55,501 --> 01:41:57,518
I don't think she's
gonna like him enough.
2997
01:41:57,612 --> 01:41:58,760
- Okay.
2998
01:41:58,780 --> 01:42:00,504
Well, donna,
it comes down to you.
2999
01:42:00,523 --> 01:42:02,764
- This couple will be the
first couple to consummate.
3000
01:42:02,784 --> 01:42:04,433
So just going to
put that out there.
3001
01:42:04,527 --> 01:42:05,785
- Okay.
- Right.
3002
01:42:05,936 --> 01:42:07,620
- But that's going
to mess with things,
3003
01:42:07,771 --> 01:42:10,348
And she's going to realize
he's not the man she wants.
3004
01:42:10,366 --> 01:42:13,126
She needs this, like,
blue suit, cufflinks,
3005
01:42:13,277 --> 01:42:15,128
Finance guy to match
her energy.
3006
01:42:15,279 --> 01:42:17,037
He's not it, so they're
going to get a divorce.
3007
01:42:17,132 --> 01:42:18,798
- I think they're actually
going to work out.
3008
01:42:19,025 --> 01:42:20,374
I think she's going
to level him up.
3009
01:42:20,526 --> 01:42:22,193
And I think that they're
going to work out,
3010
01:42:22,211 --> 01:42:24,862
And that he's going to see the
direction and the possibility,
3011
01:42:24,881 --> 01:42:26,955
And that they're going to
be on a straight and narrow
3012
01:42:26,975 --> 01:42:28,532
And a miracle is
going to happen.
3013
01:42:28,626 --> 01:42:29,700
These two
are going to work out.
3014
01:42:29,719 --> 01:42:31,202
Myrla and johnny?
3015
01:42:31,295 --> 01:42:32,703
- I think
they're gonna make it.
3016
01:42:32,722 --> 01:42:34,205
- Okay.
3017
01:42:34,223 --> 01:42:35,539
- He seems like an easygoing
guy, likes to have fun.
3018
01:42:35,558 --> 01:42:37,725
He might bend
to whatever she needs.
3019
01:42:37,819 --> 01:42:39,986
And they're both attractive,
so that always helps.
3020
01:42:40,213 --> 01:42:41,562
- Myrla?
3021
01:42:41,714 --> 01:42:43,156
- I think if the chemistry
is there from the start,
3022
01:42:43,307 --> 01:42:45,140
I think they'll stay together.
- Okay.
3023
01:42:45,160 --> 01:42:47,051
I am so glad
y'all came here today.
3024
01:42:47,144 --> 01:42:48,494
We had so much
to talk about, didn't we?
3025
01:42:48,646 --> 01:42:49,811
- So much.
3026
01:42:49,831 --> 01:42:50,812
- We had stuff to clear up,
right?
3027
01:42:50,832 --> 01:42:52,072
- Yeah. Yeah.
- All right.
3028
01:42:52,225 --> 01:42:53,391
Just one last time--
y'all aren't dating?
3029
01:42:53,484 --> 01:42:55,668
[laughter]
3030
01:42:55,895 --> 01:42:57,486
But thanks
for being here, y'all.
3031
01:42:57,505 --> 01:42:59,505
And take care, and hope
to see you soon, all right?
3032
01:42:59,657 --> 01:43:00,923
- Thanks.
- Okay. Thanks, y'all.
3033
01:43:05,087 --> 01:43:06,679
I'm here with my
amazing panelists
3034
01:43:06,906 --> 01:43:07,663
And "married at first sight"
aficionados,
3035
01:43:07,757 --> 01:43:09,573
And it's that time.
3036
01:43:09,592 --> 01:43:11,425
All right, we're going
to see who is taking home
3037
01:43:11,519 --> 01:43:12,685
That beautiful trophy.
3038
01:43:12,912 --> 01:43:13,744
The "married at first sight"
cup,
3039
01:43:13,763 --> 01:43:15,354
We should call it, right?
3040
01:43:15,506 --> 01:43:16,672
Or what should we call it?
We have to get a name for it.
3041
01:43:16,691 --> 01:43:18,098
- I like that.
- But anyway.
3042
01:43:18,193 --> 01:43:20,251
I hate to admit that
for the houston season,
3043
01:43:20,269 --> 01:43:24,255
Nicole was the big winner.
- Whoop! Whoop! Mvp.
3044
01:43:24,273 --> 01:43:25,756
- Sometimes it happens.
3045
01:43:25,849 --> 01:43:27,942
You got the most
predictions right
3046
01:43:28,036 --> 01:43:30,444
On which couples would stay
married or get a divorce
3047
01:43:30,538 --> 01:43:31,687
On decision day, nicole.
3048
01:43:31,706 --> 01:43:32,872
Your victory ends
tonight, though.
3049
01:43:33,099 --> 01:43:34,523
You know it's over.
- You know what--
3050
01:43:34,617 --> 01:43:35,541
- Give it back.
- It's hard.
3051
01:43:35,768 --> 01:43:37,210
- It's all good.
- Give it back now.
3052
01:43:37,437 --> 01:43:38,769
- I once had to do the same.
You'll be all right.
3053
01:43:38,788 --> 01:43:40,046
- Yes, I will make it through.
- Okay, are y'all ready?
3054
01:43:40,273 --> 01:43:41,047
Let's start with
jasmina and michael.
3055
01:43:41,274 --> 01:43:42,606
Take a look.
3056
01:43:42,625 --> 01:43:44,866
[upbeat music]
3057
01:43:44,961 --> 01:43:46,110
- He's an introvert.
3058
01:43:46,128 --> 01:43:47,445
He's not gonna
open up quick enough.
3059
01:43:47,463 --> 01:43:48,537
I don't think she's gonna be
attracted to him.
3060
01:43:48,556 --> 01:43:50,614
So uh, uh, no.
3061
01:43:50,633 --> 01:43:52,967
- I think that
the family aspect of this
3062
01:43:53,119 --> 01:43:54,560
Is going to keep the
two of them together,
3063
01:43:54,712 --> 01:43:57,563
So I'm going to, like,
cautiously give--actually,
3064
01:43:57,715 --> 01:43:59,623
One thumbs up, not two.
Not two.
3065
01:43:59,642 --> 01:44:01,216
- They're gonna force it,
and I think they're gonna
3066
01:44:01,236 --> 01:44:02,551
Come to find out
that it's not going to work,
3067
01:44:02,645 --> 01:44:04,070
So one thumb down.
3068
01:44:04,297 --> 01:44:05,404
- I think they're
actually going to make it
3069
01:44:05,556 --> 01:44:07,631
Through decision day,
but then, when it's over,
3070
01:44:07,650 --> 01:44:09,725
They're going to realize
this ain't going to work.
3071
01:44:09,744 --> 01:44:12,987
So mine is a on decision day,
a thumbs up.
3072
01:44:13,139 --> 01:44:15,806
The day after, a thumbs down.
3073
01:44:15,825 --> 01:44:17,141
- You know I want to
get to know you more
3074
01:44:17,159 --> 01:44:18,584
And stay married.
3075
01:44:18,736 --> 01:44:20,494
- I'm not ready to walk away
from this marriage.
3076
01:44:20,588 --> 01:44:22,237
- [chuckles]
- yes.
3077
01:44:22,257 --> 01:44:23,814
Yes, I want to stay
married to you.
3078
01:44:23,833 --> 01:44:25,758
[cheering]
3079
01:44:25,909 --> 01:44:27,485
- That was spot on.
3080
01:44:27,578 --> 01:44:28,744
- [laughs] you did not say--
3081
01:44:28,763 --> 01:44:30,579
- That is exactly
what happened.
3082
01:44:30,598 --> 01:44:31,931
I mean, verbatim.
3083
01:44:32,082 --> 01:44:33,991
They stayed together
on decision day, and then,
3084
01:44:34,010 --> 01:44:35,993
It was like, the day after,
it was like, peace.
3085
01:44:36,012 --> 01:44:37,161
Goodbye.
- Bye, felicia.
3086
01:44:37,179 --> 01:44:38,754
- They were out, right?
3087
01:44:38,848 --> 01:44:40,773
Right, angelique, you and I
get a point for this one.
3088
01:44:41,000 --> 01:44:42,924
Nicole, how did you do?
Oh, that's right.
3089
01:44:42,944 --> 01:44:45,260
- Boom. Double negative.
- I'm so sorry.
3090
01:44:45,280 --> 01:44:47,446
Our next couple,
alyssa and chris.
3091
01:44:47,673 --> 01:44:49,431
- I'm going to give them
one thumb up.
3092
01:44:49,450 --> 01:44:51,175
- One thumb up,
and maybe, like,
3093
01:44:51,268 --> 01:44:53,027
A half-enthusiastic second.
3094
01:44:53,179 --> 01:44:54,695
- They're going to
have their differences.
3095
01:44:54,847 --> 01:44:57,105
But at the end of the day,
they want it,
3096
01:44:57,125 --> 01:44:58,198
They're attracted
to each other,
3097
01:44:58,351 --> 01:44:59,183
And they're going to make it.
3098
01:44:59,276 --> 01:45:00,459
- This is not going to work.
3099
01:45:00,686 --> 01:45:02,110
She will not be attracted
to him.
3100
01:45:02,204 --> 01:45:04,946
It's not happening.
3101
01:45:05,041 --> 01:45:06,206
- This is my decision day.
3102
01:45:06,359 --> 01:45:07,967
- So are you saying
you want a divorce?
3103
01:45:08,118 --> 01:45:09,618
- I want a divorce.
3104
01:45:09,712 --> 01:45:12,029
- Like, I'm not a bad person,
and I'm a good person,
3105
01:45:12,048 --> 01:45:14,698
And it just upsets me
that he tries
3106
01:45:14,792 --> 01:45:16,458
To make it look otherwise.
3107
01:45:16,552 --> 01:45:19,703
- The fact that y'all didn't
see this one coming again.
3108
01:45:19,722 --> 01:45:21,314
- That was a big lapse.
3109
01:45:21,541 --> 01:45:23,223
- Pastor cal
and dr. Pepper, call me.
3110
01:45:23,318 --> 01:45:24,984
I can do this.
3111
01:45:25,135 --> 01:45:26,652
- You apparently
got this on lock.
3112
01:45:26,879 --> 01:45:29,155
- I said the second that
alyssa laid eyes on chris,
3113
01:45:29,306 --> 01:45:30,656
It would be a no for her.
- Right.
3114
01:45:30,808 --> 01:45:32,808
- And that's rough.
She never gave it a chance.
3115
01:45:32,827 --> 01:45:34,327
- It's so sad.
3116
01:45:34,554 --> 01:45:35,903
- So you
didn't know anything about him
3117
01:45:35,997 --> 01:45:37,221
To not like anything
other than how he looked.
3118
01:45:37,239 --> 01:45:38,647
- Yeah, she was
not into his looks.
3119
01:45:38,741 --> 01:45:40,407
- Who's she trying to convince?
3120
01:45:40,560 --> 01:45:41,500
- I don't know.
- Herself.
3121
01:45:41,652 --> 01:45:42,409
- She's not a bad person,
though.
3122
01:45:42,503 --> 01:45:44,003
[laughter]
3123
01:45:44,154 --> 01:45:46,747
Let's move on to lindsey
and mark the shark.
3124
01:45:46,899 --> 01:45:48,248
- He ain't going nowhere.
3125
01:45:48,343 --> 01:45:50,158
He's like, you picked me,
you picked my wife,
3126
01:45:50,252 --> 01:45:52,011
We're getting it popping.
- They're in there pop rocking.
3127
01:45:52,162 --> 01:45:54,405
- Two thumbs up.
3128
01:45:54,498 --> 01:45:56,574
- I am all for it.
I am two thumbs up.
3129
01:45:56,667 --> 01:45:59,018
- Outside of the whole
sexual chemistry,
3130
01:45:59,169 --> 01:46:01,095
I think they will be each
other's support system,
3131
01:46:01,247 --> 01:46:02,913
And that's something
that they both need,
3132
01:46:02,932 --> 01:46:04,523
And mark has wanted that,
and he's gonna
3133
01:46:04,750 --> 01:46:06,750
Make it work no matter what,
so thumbs up.
3134
01:46:06,769 --> 01:46:08,919
- I'm just telling you
that this couple,
3135
01:46:09,012 --> 01:46:11,346
Even if they do say yes,
it won't survive.
3136
01:46:11,366 --> 01:46:15,034
- [gasps]
- so I'm gonna say no.
3137
01:46:15,261 --> 01:46:17,853
- My answer is yes.
I want to stay married.
3138
01:46:17,947 --> 01:46:21,782
I feel that we have a good
foundation of the things that
3139
01:46:21,876 --> 01:46:24,284
Are important to us
to continue moving forward
3140
01:46:24,437 --> 01:46:26,103
And see how it develops.
3141
01:46:26,122 --> 01:46:27,605
There's always going to
be some difficult times,
3142
01:46:27,623 --> 01:46:29,440
But I think we have figured
out a way to navigate it.
3143
01:46:29,533 --> 01:46:31,050
- Yes, yes, yes, yes, yes.
3144
01:46:31,201 --> 01:46:33,794
[cheers and applause]
3145
01:46:33,888 --> 01:46:35,779
- I'll accept the loss,
but did y'all actually--
3146
01:46:35,798 --> 01:46:37,297
- Are you really, though?
3147
01:46:37,392 --> 01:46:39,392
- Did you actually believe
that this was going to work?
3148
01:46:39,543 --> 01:46:41,710
- On decision day, yes.
We knew.
3149
01:46:41,804 --> 01:46:45,380
- It's all good.
I got one point.
3150
01:46:45,400 --> 01:46:47,307
- I'm just casually
over here with a couple.
3151
01:46:47,460 --> 01:46:49,384
- Were you surprised that they
broke up after decision day?
3152
01:46:49,478 --> 01:46:50,794
- Not at all.
- No.
3153
01:46:50,813 --> 01:46:52,129
- I was actually surprised
that they said yes.
3154
01:46:52,222 --> 01:46:53,631
- That was the surprise.
- Shocker.
3155
01:46:53,649 --> 01:46:57,392
All right, let's move on
to katina and olajuwon.
3156
01:46:57,412 --> 01:46:58,744
- I think they're going
to push through at the end,
3157
01:46:58,971 --> 01:47:00,821
So I'm going to give them
a thumb up.
3158
01:47:00,915 --> 01:47:04,232
- I guess I'm gonna vote
for love and say yes--
3159
01:47:04,252 --> 01:47:05,643
- Look at you.
- They're going to make it.
3160
01:47:05,661 --> 01:47:08,812
- Olajuwon cannot be
more excited to end this.
3161
01:47:08,906 --> 01:47:09,997
They're gonna argue so much,
3162
01:47:10,149 --> 01:47:11,740
And he is gonna
have the time of his life
3163
01:47:11,834 --> 01:47:13,167
Once his dms open.
3164
01:47:13,319 --> 01:47:14,318
So this is not going to work.
3165
01:47:14,411 --> 01:47:15,744
We don't even need
to talk about it.
3166
01:47:15,763 --> 01:47:18,338
- He is just working
to get to those dms--
3167
01:47:18,491 --> 01:47:19,990
- Yes.
- And the day after.
3168
01:47:20,009 --> 01:47:21,508
I say no. No way.
3169
01:47:21,661 --> 01:47:23,494
- You know I want to
stay married to you
3170
01:47:23,512 --> 01:47:27,831
Because I feel like our
marriage needs more time
3171
01:47:27,850 --> 01:47:29,775
Than just the eight weeks.
3172
01:47:30,002 --> 01:47:33,595
- It means a lot
to me to say to you
3173
01:47:33,614 --> 01:47:38,192
That I would love to continue
my marriage with you.
3174
01:47:38,286 --> 01:47:39,952
- Boom.
3175
01:47:40,103 --> 01:47:41,120
- Angelique, you got, like--
- y'all were right.
3176
01:47:41,347 --> 01:47:42,771
- You winning.
- Shockingly right.
3177
01:47:42,790 --> 01:47:44,123
- You are ballin'.
- Shockingly right.
3178
01:47:44,350 --> 01:47:45,273
- You're shocked
that you were right.
3179
01:47:45,293 --> 01:47:46,608
- I'm shocked.
3180
01:47:46,627 --> 01:47:48,035
To see them still
here together today
3181
01:47:48,187 --> 01:47:49,945
Is a huge surprise to me.
3182
01:47:50,039 --> 01:47:51,630
But like I said before,
their marriage works for them.
3183
01:47:51,857 --> 01:47:53,874
So congrats.
3184
01:47:53,968 --> 01:47:55,693
- All right, let's move on
to our last couple,
3185
01:47:55,711 --> 01:47:58,453
Noi and steve.
Let's see what we all said.
3186
01:47:58,473 --> 01:48:00,030
- This is tough.
3187
01:48:00,049 --> 01:48:02,641
Like, I really want them
to work because on paper,
3188
01:48:02,793 --> 01:48:04,310
They look like
they should work.
3189
01:48:04,537 --> 01:48:06,628
I think I'm gonna go
with a thumbs down.
3190
01:48:06,647 --> 01:48:09,389
- She knows who she is.
I don't think he does yet.
3191
01:48:09,484 --> 01:48:11,892
So I'm actually gonna
give it a thumbs down.
3192
01:48:12,044 --> 01:48:14,987
- He'll bring out her, like,
fun side that she's suppressed
3193
01:48:15,138 --> 01:48:17,898
Even though she wants it out,
and she'll help him
3194
01:48:18,050 --> 01:48:19,808
Get a job a little quicker,
so thumbs up.
3195
01:48:19,902 --> 01:48:21,051
They're gonna work.
3196
01:48:21,144 --> 01:48:23,387
- I think this couple
is going to work.
3197
01:48:23,480 --> 01:48:25,647
I think that
they are matched well,
3198
01:48:25,666 --> 01:48:26,832
That there will be
enough balance,
3199
01:48:27,059 --> 01:48:29,393
And he'll get a job.
He'll be okay.
3200
01:48:29,486 --> 01:48:32,320
I'm giving them a thumbs up.
3201
01:48:32,340 --> 01:48:35,490
- I can't think of anyone else
I'd rather do this with,
3202
01:48:35,584 --> 01:48:36,842
Build a family with,
3203
01:48:37,069 --> 01:48:39,253
And have arguably
three children with.
3204
01:48:39,347 --> 01:48:40,346
Maybe two.
3205
01:48:40,497 --> 01:48:42,181
But three, hopefully.
3206
01:48:42,332 --> 01:48:46,668
[chuckles] but yes,
my answer is absolutely yes.
3207
01:48:46,687 --> 01:48:51,431
- You at least trust me enough
to take the next step,
3208
01:48:51,584 --> 01:48:57,196
So I would love to
stay married with you.
3209
01:48:57,423 --> 01:48:59,698
♪ ♪
3210
01:48:59,925 --> 01:49:01,441
- Any regrets
on that prediction?
3211
01:49:01,594 --> 01:49:04,870
- You know, seeing them here
today, it doesn't look like--
3212
01:49:05,022 --> 01:49:06,780
I don't know, they're still not
on the same page.
3213
01:49:06,932 --> 01:49:08,040
There's still a lot of issues
3214
01:49:08,191 --> 01:49:10,784
To work through
in the long run.
3215
01:49:10,936 --> 01:49:12,378
Still not sure if
they're going to make it.
3216
01:49:12,605 --> 01:49:14,713
- They've fought through a lot,
so it's possible.
3217
01:49:14,940 --> 01:49:16,382
It's just gonna take
a lot more work.
3218
01:49:16,533 --> 01:49:19,367
- So let me total this up
in my head real quick.
3219
01:49:19,387 --> 01:49:20,553
Oh, the winner is--
drum roll, please.
3220
01:49:20,704 --> 01:49:21,945
- Is it you?
3221
01:49:21,964 --> 01:49:23,463
- Well, actually,
it's a tie between...
3222
01:49:23,558 --> 01:49:25,874
♪ ♪
3223
01:49:25,893 --> 01:49:27,618
Angelique and I.
3224
01:49:27,636 --> 01:49:28,786
- Listen--
- we tied.
3225
01:49:28,879 --> 01:49:29,970
- Normally,
we're not on the same side
3226
01:49:30,064 --> 01:49:31,046
For everything.
3227
01:49:31,065 --> 01:49:32,639
But at least we can share this.
3228
01:49:32,792 --> 01:49:34,808
We can come to a compromise.
3229
01:49:34,960 --> 01:49:36,902
That's what "married at first
sight" is all about, right?
3230
01:49:37,054 --> 01:49:38,386
- Compromise.
3231
01:49:38,406 --> 01:49:39,554
- You get the trophy
one week,
3232
01:49:39,648 --> 01:49:41,315
I get the trophy the next week.
3233
01:49:41,467 --> 01:49:42,633
- Nah, it's going to my house.
3234
01:49:42,651 --> 01:49:44,151
- [laughs] no, excuse me.
3235
01:49:44,303 --> 01:49:45,485
- That thing is coming
right to my house.
3236
01:49:45,580 --> 01:49:46,987
- [laughs]
3237
01:49:47,081 --> 01:49:49,582
- This trophy, my children
will eat with this.
3238
01:49:54,088 --> 01:49:55,737
Anyway, wedding days are
just around the corner,
3239
01:49:55,831 --> 01:49:57,648
And I just want to give you all
an exclusive sneak peek
3240
01:49:57,741 --> 01:49:59,741
Into some of the bride
and grooms to see
3241
01:49:59,835 --> 01:50:01,501
How they handled their big day.
3242
01:50:01,654 --> 01:50:03,262
It's interesting.
Check this out.
3243
01:50:05,099 --> 01:50:07,582
- [exhales sharply] I'm cool.
3244
01:50:07,676 --> 01:50:09,584
I got to keep it together.
3245
01:50:09,678 --> 01:50:12,253
I cannot believe I'm going
to marry a stranger today.
3246
01:50:12,348 --> 01:50:15,182
[bleep]!
[laughs]
3247
01:50:15,276 --> 01:50:17,167
[bleep].
3248
01:50:17,186 --> 01:50:19,278
This could be the worst
decision of my life.
3249
01:50:19,429 --> 01:50:22,781
I'm trying to be ladylike.
3250
01:50:23,008 --> 01:50:25,242
But [bleep], what the [bleep]
am I doing?
3251
01:50:27,029 --> 01:50:28,528
[tense music]
3252
01:50:28,623 --> 01:50:30,364
- This is ridiculous.
3253
01:50:30,516 --> 01:50:33,016
You need to get someone in here
who knows how to tie a bow tie.
3254
01:50:33,035 --> 01:50:35,628
I'm standing here
[bleep] sweating and feeling
3255
01:50:35,855 --> 01:50:37,855
Like an [bleep] who's late
to my own wedding, so.
3256
01:50:37,873 --> 01:50:39,873
- Calm down, groomzilla.
- All right, here we go.
3257
01:50:39,967 --> 01:50:42,134
- Things keep just happening.
3258
01:50:42,285 --> 01:50:43,543
- Alexis--
- [sobs]
3259
01:50:43,638 --> 01:50:45,195
- No, no, no, no, no.
3260
01:50:45,214 --> 01:50:46,713
No, no, no, no.
3261
01:50:46,866 --> 01:50:49,475
- Having a complete meltdown.
3262
01:50:49,626 --> 01:50:50,809
- And she ain't even
seen him yet.
3263
01:50:51,036 --> 01:50:52,719
- You're beautiful.
What are you feeling?
3264
01:50:52,872 --> 01:50:54,480
What are you feeling now?
3265
01:50:58,894 --> 01:51:00,544
♪ ♪
3266
01:51:00,562 --> 01:51:03,138
- [sobbing]
3267
01:51:03,157 --> 01:51:05,324
- Oh, my goodness.
3268
01:51:05,551 --> 01:51:07,067
Oof.
3269
01:51:07,219 --> 01:51:09,310
- A lot of tears.
- Mm-hmm.
3270
01:51:09,330 --> 01:51:10,570
- What do y'all
think of that?
3271
01:51:10,665 --> 01:51:11,980
- I wouldn't call them tears.
3272
01:51:11,999 --> 01:51:13,999
Those were complete meltdowns.
3273
01:51:14,151 --> 01:51:15,834
I hope they make it
to the altar.
3274
01:51:15,986 --> 01:51:18,003
- Well, do you think
they make it to the altar?
3275
01:51:18,230 --> 01:51:19,988
- I hope so because,
you know, this is not
3276
01:51:20,007 --> 01:51:21,990
A jamie situation where
you're crying because you--
3277
01:51:22,009 --> 01:51:23,400
- Saw him, right.
3278
01:51:23,419 --> 01:51:25,068
- Saw the person
and you're not happy.
3279
01:51:25,087 --> 01:51:27,421
- I just need time,
you know, to, like,
3280
01:51:27,573 --> 01:51:28,588
Figure out what's going on.
3281
01:51:28,741 --> 01:51:29,907
I don't want to get too close.
3282
01:51:29,925 --> 01:51:33,334
♪ ♪
3283
01:51:33,429 --> 01:51:35,429
I couldn't even try to be
elegant and graceful anymore.
3284
01:51:35,523 --> 01:51:37,414
I just found a corner
and started crying.
3285
01:51:37,433 --> 01:51:41,026
♪ ♪
3286
01:51:41,178 --> 01:51:43,511
- You're really second guessing
whether or not
3287
01:51:43,605 --> 01:51:47,348
This is right for you, and this
is a big commitment to make.
3288
01:51:47,368 --> 01:51:50,185
Maybe--maybe you shouldn't
make it down the aisle.
3289
01:51:50,204 --> 01:51:51,778
- No.
- But we've seen tears before.
3290
01:51:51,931 --> 01:51:52,946
- We've seen a lot
of tears before.
3291
01:51:53,098 --> 01:51:54,022
- Jasmina.
- Yeah.
3292
01:51:54,116 --> 01:51:55,523
But I have not heard that.
3293
01:51:55,543 --> 01:51:56,709
- We haven't seen
anybody cry like that.
3294
01:51:56,936 --> 01:51:59,102
Alexis was crying.
- No, that was a sobbing,
3295
01:51:59,196 --> 01:52:01,271
In her mother's bosom--
I'm assuming her mother.
3296
01:52:01,364 --> 01:52:02,956
She was concerned.
- Next level.
3297
01:52:03,108 --> 01:52:05,366
Well, we haven't had
a runaway bride thus far.
3298
01:52:05,461 --> 01:52:07,869
Could we?
- Could we?
3299
01:52:07,888 --> 01:52:09,947
Who do you think will be
the quickest to fall in love?
3300
01:52:09,965 --> 01:52:13,133
♪ ♪
3301
01:52:13,285 --> 01:52:14,968
- Oh, maybe mitch and krysten.
3302
01:52:15,062 --> 01:52:21,883
But if not them, I feel like
I could see lindy and miguel,
3303
01:52:21,902 --> 01:52:24,052
Like, think they're in love.
3304
01:52:24,071 --> 01:52:25,812
I think they'll think
they're in love.
3305
01:52:25,965 --> 01:52:27,981
- I could see that, too,
because they'll be
3306
01:52:28,133 --> 01:52:29,742
Very attracted
to each other when they first
3307
01:52:29,893 --> 01:52:31,651
See each other, because
they're exactly, I think,
3308
01:52:31,804 --> 01:52:33,637
Exactly what
each other ordered.
3309
01:52:33,730 --> 01:52:36,231
- I think it'll be stacia
and nate because I think
3310
01:52:36,250 --> 01:52:39,142
He is going to bring some
real heat to the situation,
3311
01:52:39,236 --> 01:52:41,253
And he's going to
really woo her.
3312
01:52:41,404 --> 01:52:43,647
You know, like how
olajuwon was wooing katina.
3313
01:52:43,740 --> 01:52:46,483
Talking, whispering in
her ear, bringing game.
3314
01:52:46,502 --> 01:52:49,595
I think she's gonna get
a whole bagful of game.
3315
01:52:49,822 --> 01:52:51,321
- Is it going to be lust,
though, with him?
3316
01:52:51,340 --> 01:52:52,598
- Whether it's lust
or whatever, I think...
3317
01:52:52,825 --> 01:52:54,099
- You said love.
- It's gonna be something.
3318
01:52:54,326 --> 01:52:55,583
He's gonna bring something,
and I think
3319
01:52:55,677 --> 01:52:57,177
It's gonna capture her.
3320
01:52:57,271 --> 01:52:59,329
What I saw in the strip club
changed my mind.
3321
01:52:59,348 --> 01:53:00,514
[laughter]
3322
01:53:00,666 --> 01:53:01,999
- Yeah, he got game.
3323
01:53:02,017 --> 01:53:03,500
- [laughs] do you think
any of these couples
3324
01:53:03,519 --> 01:53:05,426
Will give us whiplash,
like michaela and zack
3325
01:53:05,446 --> 01:53:07,687
Or lindsey and mark,
in their relationship?
3326
01:53:07,840 --> 01:53:09,281
- That's where I'm going
with stacia and nate.
3327
01:53:09,508 --> 01:53:12,359
I think in the beginning,
heavy attraction.
3328
01:53:12,511 --> 01:53:14,678
Then, when she gets to know
his lifestyle a little more,
3329
01:53:14,771 --> 01:53:15,937
She's going to hate it.
- Yeah.
3330
01:53:15,956 --> 01:53:17,514
For me, that's lindy
and miguel again.
3331
01:53:17,533 --> 01:53:19,866
- I think they seem like
they're, you know,
3332
01:53:20,019 --> 01:53:21,518
Nice, sweet people,
3333
01:53:21,611 --> 01:53:24,129
But I think they actually
have some real
3334
01:53:24,281 --> 01:53:26,965
Combustible energy
if it goes south.
3335
01:53:27,117 --> 01:53:28,542
- You know,
we have seen couples
3336
01:53:28,636 --> 01:53:30,636
That have been split up,
and we've also seen couples
3337
01:53:30,787 --> 01:53:32,971
Who now are having a baby,
like jess and austin.
3338
01:53:33,198 --> 01:53:35,699
Do you think there is anyone
in this group
3339
01:53:35,717 --> 01:53:37,458
Who can go the distance
like jess and austin?
3340
01:53:37,553 --> 01:53:39,311
- I really think
morgan and binh.
3341
01:53:39,462 --> 01:53:41,388
I know we have issues
with her compromising,
3342
01:53:41,540 --> 01:53:43,206
But I think they'll make it.
3343
01:53:43,225 --> 01:53:44,708
- Nicole?
3344
01:53:44,801 --> 01:53:47,302
- Yeah, I think
that the fire starter
3345
01:53:47,396 --> 01:53:50,322
And the environmentalist--
[laughter]
3346
01:53:50,473 --> 01:53:51,715
- Krysten and mitch.
3347
01:53:51,733 --> 01:53:53,383
- Mitch and krysten, yes.
- Yes.
3348
01:53:53,402 --> 01:53:56,311
I think that they're a good
candidate in the running.
3349
01:53:56,330 --> 01:53:58,146
They both want kids.
Yeah.
3350
01:53:58,165 --> 01:53:59,647
- They're my baby-makers too.
3351
01:53:59,667 --> 01:54:02,501
I see them going the distance.
3352
01:54:02,652 --> 01:54:04,561
- What couple do you think
will grow the most?
3353
01:54:04,580 --> 01:54:06,321
'cause there are couples
who didn't stay together
3354
01:54:06,340 --> 01:54:09,249
But they have grown,
and you see people grow.
3355
01:54:09,401 --> 01:54:10,734
- Alexis and justin.
3356
01:54:10,752 --> 01:54:12,252
I think they have
a lot to learn.
3357
01:54:12,404 --> 01:54:13,679
- Did you see her crying?
3358
01:54:13,830 --> 01:54:15,405
- You saw him crying?
3359
01:54:15,424 --> 01:54:16,423
- Well, like,
they was both crying.
3360
01:54:16,575 --> 01:54:18,592
- I know.
They couldn't believe it.
3361
01:54:18,686 --> 01:54:20,427
They were so concerned,
and then they get together
3362
01:54:20,579 --> 01:54:22,521
And realize how great this is.
3363
01:54:22,672 --> 01:54:23,914
Maybe some issues.
3364
01:54:23,932 --> 01:54:25,506
They'll have to grow
and compromise.
3365
01:54:25,526 --> 01:54:27,767
They've been alone for a while,
each individually.
3366
01:54:27,862 --> 01:54:30,845
I think they'll grow
the most this season.
3367
01:54:30,865 --> 01:54:33,514
- I don't--I don't know.
Okay, okay. Nicole?
3368
01:54:33,534 --> 01:54:35,850
- I think there's gonna be
a lot of growth
3369
01:54:35,870 --> 01:54:40,780
For binh and morgan because
he's very set in his ways,
3370
01:54:40,875 --> 01:54:42,766
And she is too.
3371
01:54:42,859 --> 01:54:45,360
So there's gonna have
to be a lot of compromise
3372
01:54:45,379 --> 01:54:47,437
Through these eight weeks,
and that's gonna,
3373
01:54:47,530 --> 01:54:48,939
You know,
promote a lot of growth.
3374
01:54:48,957 --> 01:54:50,382
I don't know if they're
gonna stay together,
3375
01:54:50,533 --> 01:54:52,943
But they're definitely
gonna grow as individuals.
3376
01:54:53,036 --> 01:54:55,445
- You know, each city
has a different flavor.
3377
01:54:55,464 --> 01:54:57,372
Do you think the makeup
of san diego--
3378
01:54:57,391 --> 01:55:00,041
It has a heavy military
influence, people go there,
3379
01:55:00,135 --> 01:55:01,727
And they live out
their lives there--
3380
01:55:01,954 --> 01:55:04,638
Do you think that adds
to how these couples
3381
01:55:04,790 --> 01:55:06,306
Will or won't work out?
3382
01:55:06,400 --> 01:55:08,734
- I think there's definitely
a family type-oriented place,
3383
01:55:08,885 --> 01:55:10,961
A place where you put
down roots, like you said.
3384
01:55:10,979 --> 01:55:13,146
A lot of entrepreneurs,
a lot of california love.
3385
01:55:13,298 --> 01:55:14,722
Like, I think
this is a uniquely
3386
01:55:14,816 --> 01:55:16,483
San diego cast, for sure.
3387
01:55:16,577 --> 01:55:19,319
- Yeah, I like san diego,
especially because
3388
01:55:19,471 --> 01:55:22,230
It's really a family space.
3389
01:55:22,324 --> 01:55:25,475
And it's totally laid back,
and people are real down there.
3390
01:55:25,568 --> 01:55:27,252
- Yeah, and I really
do think that adds
3391
01:55:27,404 --> 01:55:28,662
Into the family atmosphere.
- Yes.
3392
01:55:28,814 --> 01:55:30,071
- People have kids.
3393
01:55:30,165 --> 01:55:31,648
They go to school.
You know--
3394
01:55:31,667 --> 01:55:33,258
- Yeah.
These are settle down vibes.
3395
01:55:33,410 --> 01:55:35,761
I mean, I think that's why
we were all kind of feeling
3396
01:55:35,912 --> 01:55:37,654
Like maybe more
of these couples
3397
01:55:37,747 --> 01:55:39,673
Will work out
than past seasons,
3398
01:55:39,825 --> 01:55:42,342
Because all these folks are
just a little more ready to,
3399
01:55:42,494 --> 01:55:44,436
Like, take it easy
and hopefully
3400
01:55:44,587 --> 01:55:46,346
Find real, lasting love.
3401
01:55:46,498 --> 01:55:47,773
- Yeah, hang out at the beach.
3402
01:55:47,924 --> 01:55:49,332
- Well, you always
have the beach, that's a thing.
3403
01:55:49,426 --> 01:55:50,925
In other cities,
you don't have the beach.
3404
01:55:51,019 --> 01:55:52,778
You can always go to the beach
and just watch the sun go down
3405
01:55:52,929 --> 01:55:55,021
And say, baby, let's talk
after the sun goes down.
3406
01:55:55,174 --> 01:55:56,448
Like, just let's look
in each other's eyes
3407
01:55:56,599 --> 01:55:57,857
And enjoy the moment.
3408
01:55:58,010 --> 01:55:59,693
I will say this,
that of all these couples,
3409
01:55:59,845 --> 01:56:01,102
We wish them the best because,
3410
01:56:01,121 --> 01:56:02,770
Once again,
this is an experiment.
3411
01:56:02,790 --> 01:56:05,273
We want love to win.
- Right.
3412
01:56:05,292 --> 01:56:07,534
- We want these people
to find their forever person
3413
01:56:07,628 --> 01:56:09,519
On this show.
3414
01:56:09,612 --> 01:56:12,355
We literally can never
predict it all,
3415
01:56:12,374 --> 01:56:14,191
But sometimes we can
predict a lot of it.
3416
01:56:14,209 --> 01:56:15,616
[laughter]
3417
01:56:15,636 --> 01:56:17,527
Sometimes we get it right,
you know?
3418
01:56:17,546 --> 01:56:19,546
But anyway,
I'm confident that we will
3419
01:56:19,698 --> 01:56:21,214
Have a good time watching it.
3420
01:56:21,366 --> 01:56:22,975
I want to thank all of you
for this trophy
3421
01:56:23,126 --> 01:56:24,884
And also
for joining us tonight.
3422
01:56:24,979 --> 01:56:26,961
The "married at first sight"
san diego season premiere
3423
01:56:26,981 --> 01:56:28,963
Is just one week away
from today.
3424
01:56:29,057 --> 01:56:30,890
And I don't think
you're gonna believe
3425
01:56:30,985 --> 01:56:32,317
What you're gonna see.
3426
01:56:32,544 --> 01:56:34,728
Here's a preview of next week's
premiere episode.
3427
01:56:34,822 --> 01:56:36,713
Good night, everybody.
3428
01:56:36,732 --> 01:56:38,064
♪ ♪
3429
01:56:38,217 --> 01:56:40,066
- The nerves are just--
3430
01:56:40,219 --> 01:56:42,310
[exhales loudly]
[bleep].
3431
01:56:42,329 --> 01:56:44,312
I can't cuss
in front of my husband.
3432
01:56:44,331 --> 01:56:45,831
- I want to finally meet her.
3433
01:56:45,982 --> 01:56:47,148
Who am I marrying?
3434
01:56:47,242 --> 01:56:48,908
- This is it,
and it's my time.
3435
01:56:49,061 --> 01:56:51,561
It's finally here.
3436
01:56:51,580 --> 01:56:53,488
- Ten singles
are about to meet
3437
01:56:53,582 --> 01:56:55,156
For the very first time.
3438
01:56:55,175 --> 01:56:57,234
- I don't know
what he looks like.
3439
01:56:57,252 --> 01:56:59,586
- They will legally marry
and commit their lives
3440
01:56:59,738 --> 01:57:01,162
To a complete stranger.
3441
01:57:01,181 --> 01:57:05,500
- He's a freak in the sheets.
That's what they say.
3442
01:57:05,519 --> 01:57:08,669
- Once the couples say I do,
3443
01:57:08,689 --> 01:57:11,672
There's only one way out,
and that's divorce.
3444
01:57:11,767 --> 01:57:14,751
- I think I might throw up
before I walk down the aisle.
3445
01:57:14,770 --> 01:57:17,420
♪ ♪
3446
01:57:17,439 --> 01:57:18,438
- We're in san diego.
3447
01:57:18,532 --> 01:57:20,090
- Oh, my god.
3448
01:57:20,183 --> 01:57:21,274
- And this
is the biggest...
3449
01:57:21,426 --> 01:57:23,276
- I am freaking out right now.
3450
01:57:23,428 --> 01:57:25,779
- Most shocking
"married at first sight"
3451
01:57:25,931 --> 01:57:27,597
Season in history.
3452
01:57:27,616 --> 01:57:30,042
- Why didn't anybody
talk me out of this?
3453
01:57:30,269 --> 01:57:32,118
- And next week,
our singles will
3454
01:57:32,212 --> 01:57:33,545
Prepare for their wedding...
3455
01:57:33,696 --> 01:57:38,458
- God, who is she?
3456
01:57:38,552 --> 01:57:41,611
- Celebrate their bachelor
and bachelorette parties...
3457
01:57:41,704 --> 01:57:44,114
- Get on your knees.
All: Whoa!
3458
01:57:44,132 --> 01:57:46,449
- And prepare
to walk down the aisle...
3459
01:57:46,543 --> 01:57:48,209
- Breathe.
3460
01:57:48,228 --> 01:57:50,896
- And meet the spouse
they have never seen before.
3461
01:57:51,123 --> 01:57:53,807
- Feel like my heart
is about to explode.
3462
01:57:53,959 --> 01:57:55,475
- Let's get this girl married.
3463
01:57:55,569 --> 01:57:57,218
- You got this, mitch.
3464
01:57:57,312 --> 01:57:58,570
I'm taking a huge risk,
3465
01:57:58,721 --> 01:58:00,388
Putting everything
on the line.
3466
01:58:00,407 --> 01:58:01,907
- I'm shocked.
3467
01:58:02,134 --> 01:58:04,150
- The anticipation
is killing me right now.
3468
01:58:04,303 --> 01:58:05,635
- I'm starting to get
really nervous now.
3469
01:58:05,654 --> 01:58:07,971
It's terrifying.
3470
01:58:07,989 --> 01:58:09,897
- That's a different type
of nerves that just hit.
3471
01:58:09,917 --> 01:58:11,491
Ooh. I got to try not to cry.
3472
01:58:11,585 --> 01:58:12,475
- Oh, my god.
3473
01:58:12,494 --> 01:58:15,236
♪ ♪
3474
01:58:15,255 --> 01:58:16,980
- Oh, [bleep].
3475
01:58:16,998 --> 01:58:20,592
♪ ♪