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- [sobbing]
- oh, don't cry, baby.
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Hey, look--
- I don't know.
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I'm scared.
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- I'm putting
everything on the line.
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I'm feeling nervous
and overwhelmed.
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- Am I even gonna
be able to do this?
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- It's a gamble
because I don't
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Know what's gonna happen.
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The future
is unwritten for us.
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- I cannot believe I'm going
to marry a stranger today.
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This could be the worst
decision of my life.
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- It's scary,
but deep down,
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I didn't think
I'd ever get married.
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Today means everything to me,
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So I'm ready
to walk down the aisle.
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- "married at first sight"
is back.
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[upbeat music]
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And we're headed to san diego.
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We're searching for ten
outstanding californians
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That are ready to put
their hearts on the line
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And marry a complete stranger.
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- I am ready for marriage.
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I was made for marriage.
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- I didn't know you were
gonna be swinging by today.
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- In their search
to find true love,
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They're willing to put
their fate in our hands
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As we find them the perfect
match that, we believe,
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Will make a marriage
that will last a lifetime.
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- This is what we want.
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- I'm excited to see
who we can find for her.
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- This is gonna be a match
really made in the stars.
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[dramatic music]
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- But bringing two compatible
strangers together isn't easy.
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I want to help you,
and you're, like,
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Throwing up serious roadblocks.
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- Are you ready
to trust and love again?
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- Tonight...
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- So who are you looking for?
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- We're giving you
a behind the scenes look...
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Why you want to get
married at first sight?
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At the complicated process
it takes to set
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Our couples up for success...
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- What are your deal breakers?
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- And the difficult decisions
we have to make along the way.
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We want to match everybody,
but we can't.
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The stakes are high.
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- I do long for someone
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That I can really
spend my life with.
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- I just want to be married.
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It's the missing piece.
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- Just like our
couples in the past,
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Our san diego single
will enter
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A legally binding marriage,
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And the only way out...
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- I want a divorce.
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- Is divorce.
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- [crying]
I can't do this anymore.
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I'm sorry.
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- Over 14 seasons and more
than 78,000 applicants,
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"married at first sight"
has proven
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That our modern take
on arranged marriages
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Can and does work.
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To date, there are 14 "married
at first sight" couples
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Still together and ten babies.
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- Yeah!
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♪ ♪
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- Who will be the
next five couples
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To embark on the journey
of a lifetime,
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As they meet their future
spouse at the altar?
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- This is gonna
force me to take
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The highest level
of commitment
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That there is
in a relationship.
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- [groans]
everything is at risk today.
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This is my whole life.
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But I'm ready,
and I want this so bad.
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- Find out tonight on the
"married at first sight"
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San diego matchmaking special.
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[upbeat music]
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- ♪ I'll be by your side ♪
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♪ to california coast ♪
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- We're back,
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"married at first sight"
season 15.
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- "married at first sight"
is in california,
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On the west coast
for the very first time.
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It's exciting.
- I love san diego.
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I mean, look around.
We're on a beach.
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- You know,
it is a beautiful marriage
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Of big city life and nature,
such a great city.
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We have run
into so many singles
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Who are tired
of the dating game.
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- Who I know are looking
to find love.
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- And we have a really
interesting population.
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First of all, this is
a big military town.
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- Yes.
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- Secondly,
there's a lot of tech.
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Third, there's the surfers
and the outdoor people.
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And hopefully, we'll be
talking to some of them.
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- Absolutely,
and finding people,
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Their matches,
and true love,
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I mean,
that's pretty exciting to me.
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- You really never know
how things are gonna go
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Until we're in the process...
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- Right.
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- Because it's not
just like we could
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Wave a magic wand and,
poof, you're happily married.
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- They have to be willing
to put in the work
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And take our guidance.
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I mean, we have the tools.
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And we've invited
some special guest experts
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To step in along the way.
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- Yeah.
- Well, time to get to work.
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You ready?
- I am.
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- Let's go match them.
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- This season, over 1,200
hopeful san diego singles
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Applied to be matched
with a stranger
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And get married
at first sight.
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- The dating scene down here
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Is pretty difficult
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In terms of finding
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The right partner.
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- They're fine with, like,
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Renting their whole lives,
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And surfing, and partying.
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And I'm like, no,
I want to grow up.
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- Literally, everything
that is out there to try,
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Other than this, I have tried.
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- A lot of people right now
are just not really interested
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In serious relationships,
being committed,
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And doing the work to try
and make a marriage work.
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- I'm in my early 40s now.
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I'm lonely, and I do--
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I know in my heart of hearts,
I want commitment,
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And I want marriage,
and maybe even a family.
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- I'm tired of being the only,
like, stable person
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In the relationship.
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- I want someone
who's willing to just
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Be weird at different times
of the day with me.
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- We were on deployment,
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And I found out my fiancée
was having an affair
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An affair with someone else.
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- I want a wife.
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My mom wants me to have a wife.
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My dad wants me
to have grandkids.
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- Your success rate's
higher than mine currently.
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My success rate is zero.
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♪ ♪
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- Not everyone is right
for this process,
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So only the ones that we
feel have real potential
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To be matched move forward.
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After extensive
background checks
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And psychological evaluation,
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We selected 58 candidates
to meet with us in person
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For in-depth interviews.
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- Hi, there, come on in.
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- We're committed
to creating matches
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That will lead
to long-lasting love.
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- Please sit down.
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- So we need
to know everything
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About what
makes these people tick.
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Dude, are you kidding me?
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Nothing is off-limits.
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- I think I can handle it.
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[upbeat music]
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- Why get married
at first sight?
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- I'm exhausted
with the dating experience.
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I am an old-school lover.
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'90s r&b songs,
like "singin' in the rain,"
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Like, that's me.
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And it's uncommon nowadays,
you know?
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And so many people don't
really want monogamy.
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It's rough.
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- I've been on so many first,
second dates.
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I'm just not even, like,
having fun anymore.
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- I can't find love here.
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People,
they like my personality.
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They love my height.
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But I'm looking
for a mental connection.
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- Right.
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- And they only want to see
if I'm packing or not.
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- I mean, the reason why I date
is to find a husband.
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But I feel like
I intimidate men.
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I think they kind of see me
as a threat more than an asset.
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- I have everything I want.
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I just don't have someone
in my life that's important,
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Besides my mother.
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- It seems so basic but,
also, so hard to find.
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♪ ♪
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- Why would you make
a great husband?
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- I'm outside of the box.
I think different.
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I'm very ambitious.
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And I'm a team player,
you know what I mean?
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And I'm just looking
for my equal.
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- I'm one of the most easygoing
people you'll ever meet.
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- I think I have stuff planned
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Pretty much every day
of the week.
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I golf on tuesdays.
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I got movie nights
on wednesdays.
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I play kickball on thursdays,
softball on fridays
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And then usually have
some outings with friends
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On saturdays and sundays.
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- Oh, my god.
- I know.
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- You were brought up
in a very religious household.
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- Yes, growing up was a lot
of rules,
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Church every weekend.
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We weren't allowed to dance
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All through high school
or college.
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- My goal is to be
financially free by 40,
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To spend time with my kids
and with my wife,
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And do things
that I genuinely enjoy.
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- A lot of energy goes
into my poetry,
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Reading, comic books,
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Playing dungeons and dragons
with my friends.
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I'm a huge dork.
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♪ ♪
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- So who is he?
Who are we looking for here?
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- I want a man.
Ooh, I want a man.
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- They're confident.
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It's somebody who can
tell me when I'm wrong,
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Hold me accountable
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'cause I'ma do the same
for them.
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- I kind of like
a strong personality.
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- The burlier,
masculine type...
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- Some scruff, you know?
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- Who likes to hang out
outside and chop wood.
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- [laughing]
okay.
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- I'm not looking for,
like, a super macho man...
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- Okay.
- Or, like, a super feminine.
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Just, like, a normal, fun,
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Sporty, good guy.
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- So I'm kind of a nerd,
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So it would be great if,
like, a guy could,
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Like, do that
kind of nerdy stuff with me,
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Video games, anime.
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- It doesn't entice me
when a woman gets
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Breast implants
or lip injections.
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Like, I like natural beauty.
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- I find intelligence
very attractive.
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I find independence
attractive as well.
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Someone who's funny
is attractive.
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I think I'm just describing
the most perfect person
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In the world but, you know.
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- I want somebody
who's very active.
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There's, like, this old--
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It's probably
a latin expression,
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But I know it in greek.
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[speaking greek]
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A healthy mind
and a healthy body.
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- I'm not too picky on what
he really looks like.
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I just want him to be,
like, funny,
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And outgoing, and,
you know, just someone
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Who can hang with me
'cause I'm pretty adventurous,
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And I kind of bop
around a lot.
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- Physical attraction
is very important to me,
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Petite and curvy,
not too straight up and down.
255
00:08:54,368 --> 00:08:57,035
I really like small waists,
nice ass, really smooth legs,
256
00:08:57,186 --> 00:08:59,538
Boobs, lingerie, always
getting their toes done,
257
00:08:59,765 --> 00:09:01,431
Very feminine,
and have cute feet, whatever.
258
00:09:01,524 --> 00:09:04,100
And yeah, that's about it.
259
00:09:04,119 --> 00:09:06,360
- All right, well,
we'll do our best.
260
00:09:06,380 --> 00:09:07,620
- Absolutely.
261
00:09:07,714 --> 00:09:10,123
[upbeat music]
262
00:09:10,217 --> 00:09:11,716
- What are your deal breakers?
What do you not want?
263
00:09:11,943 --> 00:09:13,777
- Ooh, um...
264
00:09:13,870 --> 00:09:16,054
- Not someone super needy
or smothering.
265
00:09:16,281 --> 00:09:18,798
- Snoring, hard pass,
hard stop, no snoring.
266
00:09:18,892 --> 00:09:21,618
- Someone who's vegan.
267
00:09:21,711 --> 00:09:22,952
- I don't want to be put
with someone
268
00:09:22,971 --> 00:09:24,454
That's, like, really shy.
269
00:09:24,472 --> 00:09:26,047
- I don't believe
I could be with a virgin.
270
00:09:26,066 --> 00:09:27,640
- Okay, okay.
271
00:09:27,793 --> 00:09:29,216
- Somebody
who doesn't want kids,
272
00:09:29,311 --> 00:09:30,960
That's a deal breaker
'cause I really want a family.
273
00:09:30,979 --> 00:09:32,645
- I do not want children.
- I'm a tall guy.
274
00:09:32,798 --> 00:09:33,813
But I kind of have--
275
00:09:33,965 --> 00:09:35,073
I have small hands
and big feet.
276
00:09:35,300 --> 00:09:37,058
So maybe, I get
a little intimidated
277
00:09:37,077 --> 00:09:39,135
If a woman's hands are, like,
that much bigger than mine.
278
00:09:39,228 --> 00:09:40,153
Like, geez, like,
that's just weird.
279
00:09:40,305 --> 00:09:41,971
Like, I'm the guy.
- Right.
280
00:09:41,990 --> 00:09:45,083
♪ ♪
281
00:09:45,310 --> 00:09:46,993
- What about sex?
How important is it to you?
282
00:09:47,145 --> 00:09:48,995
- I have a sex bucket list
because why not?
283
00:09:49,089 --> 00:09:50,663
- I've traveled a lot,
284
00:09:50,816 --> 00:09:51,998
And I've tasted a lot
of different flavors.
285
00:09:52,092 --> 00:09:54,150
[laughter]
286
00:09:54,243 --> 00:09:55,985
- How often would
you want to have sex?
287
00:09:56,004 --> 00:09:57,654
- If there is
an opportunity for it,
288
00:09:57,672 --> 00:09:59,656
Probably daily.
289
00:09:59,674 --> 00:10:02,325
- Two to three times a day,
maybe four.
290
00:10:02,344 --> 00:10:03,918
- At least once a week.
291
00:10:03,937 --> 00:10:05,845
- If she want it
four times a day,
292
00:10:05,997 --> 00:10:07,606
I'ma be a happy man.
293
00:10:07,757 --> 00:10:08,848
- I've yet to be with someone
who has a drive
294
00:10:08,942 --> 00:10:09,924
As high as mine.
295
00:10:10,018 --> 00:10:11,184
- Where's your turn on?
296
00:10:11,278 --> 00:10:12,760
- Bde.
- Bee?
297
00:10:12,854 --> 00:10:14,279
- Big [bleep] energy.
[laughs]
298
00:10:14,430 --> 00:10:16,673
- Big [bleep] energy,
I get it, okay.
299
00:10:16,766 --> 00:10:18,174
See what we can do...
- Okay.
300
00:10:18,193 --> 00:10:19,676
- As I say to everyone.
301
00:10:19,769 --> 00:10:21,936
- How often does
someone have a team
302
00:10:22,030 --> 00:10:24,438
Of experts working together
to find them true love?
303
00:10:24,532 --> 00:10:25,790
That's pretty rare.
304
00:10:26,017 --> 00:10:27,792
- Well, I hope that we can
put the pieces together.
305
00:10:28,019 --> 00:10:29,519
Thank you very much.
- Thank you.
306
00:10:29,612 --> 00:10:30,778
- Thank you for your honesty.
307
00:10:30,797 --> 00:10:31,963
Thanks, buddy.
308
00:10:32,190 --> 00:10:33,465
- All right.
309
00:10:33,692 --> 00:10:35,859
- After our interviews,
we figure out
310
00:10:35,952 --> 00:10:38,528
Who will continue on
in the process
311
00:10:38,621 --> 00:10:41,306
And who will not make it
for the next round.
312
00:10:41,457 --> 00:10:44,458
So now we just have to figure
out who we're going to go
313
00:10:44,478 --> 00:10:46,035
And visit for our home visits.
314
00:10:46,129 --> 00:10:48,054
- All right,
let's start first, alexis.
315
00:10:48,206 --> 00:10:51,374
- Oh, my gosh.
- She's so nice and so bright.
316
00:10:51,393 --> 00:10:53,893
- Her personality
is ridiculously fun.
317
00:10:54,045 --> 00:10:55,320
She's professional.
318
00:10:55,471 --> 00:10:56,896
She's a star.
- She's a star.
319
00:10:57,048 --> 00:10:58,882
- Stacia.
- I present another star.
320
00:10:58,900 --> 00:11:00,975
- She's smart.
She's very accomplished.
321
00:11:01,069 --> 00:11:02,902
She wants a power couple.
322
00:11:03,054 --> 00:11:05,905
- Poised, and warm,
and fun, and beautiful.
323
00:11:06,057 --> 00:11:07,557
- She's like a
renaissance woman.
324
00:11:07,575 --> 00:11:08,500
- She really is.
- She does everything.
325
00:11:08,651 --> 00:11:10,894
Miguel santiago.
326
00:11:10,912 --> 00:11:12,412
- Ah ha-ha.
- Yeah.
327
00:11:12,564 --> 00:11:14,839
- He's, like,
got a quiet masculinity...
328
00:11:14,991 --> 00:11:16,991
- Yeah.
- Very smart.
329
00:11:17,010 --> 00:11:20,920
And I love the combination
of the science geek and a poet.
330
00:11:21,072 --> 00:11:23,998
- Nate barnes,
he's really ambitious.
331
00:11:24,092 --> 00:11:26,743
- Yeah, there's a kindness
and a sweetness about him,
332
00:11:26,761 --> 00:11:28,912
But also a determination.
333
00:11:29,005 --> 00:11:30,855
The only thing I worry
about with him,
334
00:11:31,007 --> 00:11:32,190
If there's no
physical attraction,
335
00:11:32,341 --> 00:11:33,525
It's pretty much all over.
336
00:11:33,676 --> 00:11:36,194
I like lindy too.
- One of my favorites.
337
00:11:36,421 --> 00:11:38,679
- You know, she's so sweet,
very pretty.
338
00:11:38,699 --> 00:11:40,106
She is a physical therapist.
339
00:11:40,258 --> 00:11:41,758
- I would love to find out
more about her.
340
00:11:41,776 --> 00:11:43,034
- Let's see who's next.
341
00:11:43,261 --> 00:11:45,094
- Dimetrus collins,
I like him,
342
00:11:45,113 --> 00:11:47,597
But I just don't feel
as though he's ready.
343
00:11:47,690 --> 00:11:52,101
- Frankie krygsman,
I sense walls, no.
344
00:11:52,120 --> 00:11:54,879
- Deija james,
she told me who she was.
345
00:11:55,106 --> 00:11:57,790
And who she was is a person
who's not ready to be married.
346
00:11:57,943 --> 00:11:59,792
- I really like andrew.
347
00:11:59,886 --> 00:12:01,961
- Yeah, if you have to choose
between sweet and swag,
348
00:12:02,113 --> 00:12:03,613
He's sweet.
349
00:12:03,631 --> 00:12:05,949
- Kristen, take a look.
She's the all-american girl.
350
00:12:06,042 --> 00:12:07,726
- She's sweet.
She's funny.
351
00:12:07,953 --> 00:12:08,968
- I think she could go
with a number of people.
352
00:12:09,120 --> 00:12:11,120
- We have brian steffy.
353
00:12:11,214 --> 00:12:12,731
- I thought
he was totally charming,
354
00:12:12,882 --> 00:12:14,232
And interesting, and open.
355
00:12:14,459 --> 00:12:17,460
- Binh trinh,
incredibly frugal.
356
00:12:17,553 --> 00:12:20,146
He's excited.
He's ready for this.
357
00:12:20,298 --> 00:12:22,073
- I really want to see him.
- All right, my man justin.
358
00:12:22,225 --> 00:12:23,908
He's so tall.
359
00:12:24,060 --> 00:12:26,819
- He's so engaging,
and playful, and smart,
360
00:12:26,913 --> 00:12:29,305
And humble, and sweet.
361
00:12:29,324 --> 00:12:31,232
This guy has it together.
362
00:12:31,326 --> 00:12:33,326
- This woman,
this is what we want.
363
00:12:33,478 --> 00:12:35,086
She is the whole deal.
Let's give her a look.
364
00:12:35,313 --> 00:12:36,904
This is another
really good woman.
365
00:12:36,998 --> 00:12:38,906
She has a huge personality.
366
00:12:38,925 --> 00:12:40,741
- She's wife material.
- Okay.
367
00:12:40,835 --> 00:12:43,428
- Next, mitch silverstein.
368
00:12:43,655 --> 00:12:45,154
- You know, he's here
to save the oceans.
369
00:12:45,248 --> 00:12:46,598
He's a kind of a beach guy.
- Yeah.
370
00:12:46,825 --> 00:12:49,100
He has a kindness
and a sincerity about him
371
00:12:49,327 --> 00:12:51,677
That I found
to be really appealing.
372
00:12:51,830 --> 00:12:53,346
He's in touch
with his emotions,
373
00:12:53,440 --> 00:12:54,939
And I respected that.
374
00:12:55,166 --> 00:12:59,611
- Aaron rosengreen,
super smart, he's quirky.
375
00:12:59,838 --> 00:13:03,430
If I was 40 years younger,
this would be my guy.
376
00:13:03,450 --> 00:13:05,675
Morgan bell, she's very warm.
377
00:13:05,693 --> 00:13:07,510
She's very intelligent.
378
00:13:07,529 --> 00:13:09,954
She's direct and real
in every way.
379
00:13:10,106 --> 00:13:12,865
- I'm willing to find out more.
Krysten collins.
380
00:13:12,959 --> 00:13:14,183
- She just lights up a room.
381
00:13:14,277 --> 00:13:16,369
- She's so full of energy
and so engaging.
382
00:13:16,463 --> 00:13:18,296
I think a guy would
really be happy to see
383
00:13:18,447 --> 00:13:19,689
Her coming down the aisle.
384
00:13:19,707 --> 00:13:22,634
All right, so we
have our home visits.
385
00:13:22,861 --> 00:13:25,361
- I really think there's
an outstanding group.
386
00:13:25,380 --> 00:13:26,620
- I'm excited about it.
387
00:13:26,714 --> 00:13:28,197
- I want to see
who they really are
388
00:13:28,291 --> 00:13:29,715
In their own turf,
so let's do it.
389
00:13:29,810 --> 00:13:31,142
- Let's take care of it.
390
00:13:35,649 --> 00:13:40,376
- ♪ omg, I can't believe,
let's do it again ♪
391
00:13:40,469 --> 00:13:43,713
♪ it's the california
screening ♪
392
00:13:43,731 --> 00:13:45,882
- Well, the next step
in the process
393
00:13:45,975 --> 00:13:48,551
Is to go visit people
in their homes.
394
00:13:48,644 --> 00:13:51,888
But the fact is,
we cannot visit everyone.
395
00:13:51,906 --> 00:13:54,332
So we can really
only pick those people
396
00:13:54,559 --> 00:13:58,652
Who have real possibility
to do everything they can
397
00:13:58,672 --> 00:14:00,229
To make these marriages work.
398
00:14:00,248 --> 00:14:02,489
- I learn so much about them
during the home visits.
399
00:14:02,509 --> 00:14:03,749
I learn about their families.
400
00:14:03,902 --> 00:14:05,751
One thing that I
really like to see
401
00:14:05,904 --> 00:14:08,012
Is what the pictures
are in their homes.
402
00:14:08,239 --> 00:14:09,848
I mean, do they have pictures
of their families?
403
00:14:09,999 --> 00:14:12,758
- Are they very neat,
or are they very messy?
404
00:14:12,911 --> 00:14:14,260
Because that's
an important thing
405
00:14:14,354 --> 00:14:16,079
Sometimes, to match people on.
406
00:14:16,097 --> 00:14:17,747
- Do they cook?
407
00:14:17,840 --> 00:14:19,415
- I tend to look
at the women's underwear.
408
00:14:19,434 --> 00:14:20,433
I understand where you're
409
00:14:20,585 --> 00:14:21,842
A little uncomfortable
with that.
410
00:14:21,862 --> 00:14:24,345
- I'm definitely
not as nosy as you.
411
00:14:24,364 --> 00:14:25,771
- But it's important.
412
00:14:25,866 --> 00:14:28,608
You have to dig to see
who these people really are
413
00:14:28,702 --> 00:14:30,610
And how they live.
414
00:14:30,704 --> 00:14:33,687
Nonetheless, I get so much
for these visits.
415
00:14:33,707 --> 00:14:37,600
I cannot imagine doing this
without a home visit.
416
00:14:37,619 --> 00:14:41,880
[upbeat music]
417
00:14:42,031 --> 00:14:43,882
[doorbell rings]
418
00:14:44,109 --> 00:14:46,459
- Hey, it's pastor cal.
- What's up, man?
419
00:14:46,553 --> 00:14:49,112
- Hi.
[both laugh]
420
00:14:49,205 --> 00:14:50,871
- How you doing, man?
- Pretty great.
421
00:14:50,891 --> 00:14:52,465
- I did not expect you today.
422
00:14:52,617 --> 00:14:54,559
- That's the point.
423
00:14:54,786 --> 00:14:57,120
- [laughing]
424
00:14:57,213 --> 00:14:59,455
- How are you?
- Good, how are you?
425
00:14:59,474 --> 00:15:02,141
- Good to see you.
- You guys, you guys--
426
00:15:02,235 --> 00:15:03,643
- Did I surprise you?
427
00:15:03,737 --> 00:15:05,294
- This is a prank show now?
That's what y'all doing?
428
00:15:05,313 --> 00:15:06,979
- Why are you making
all that noise?
429
00:15:07,073 --> 00:15:09,056
- Do you want some wine?
430
00:15:09,150 --> 00:15:10,408
- It's a little early
for me, wine.
431
00:15:10,635 --> 00:15:12,818
I love wine, but I can't
do it before lunch.
432
00:15:12,913 --> 00:15:15,304
- Oh no!
- Oh no?
433
00:15:15,398 --> 00:15:16,915
- I didn't buy new underwear.
434
00:15:17,066 --> 00:15:18,824
- [laughs]
435
00:15:18,977 --> 00:15:21,252
So it is interesting.
- Oh, god!
436
00:15:21,404 --> 00:15:24,405
- I don't know if I've seen
a freezer quite like that.
437
00:15:24,499 --> 00:15:25,924
- We are a hosting house.
438
00:15:26,151 --> 00:15:28,426
A lot of girls come over,
and we make drinks.
439
00:15:28,577 --> 00:15:29,576
We like to make cocktails.
440
00:15:29,596 --> 00:15:31,262
- Pretty impressive.
- Yes.
441
00:15:31,414 --> 00:15:34,507
- Let's go get a seat.
- Okay.
442
00:15:34,659 --> 00:15:37,602
- Tell me
about your dating life.
443
00:15:37,829 --> 00:15:39,662
Tell me
about the worst dating story
444
00:15:39,681 --> 00:15:40,772
You can think of.
445
00:15:40,923 --> 00:15:41,998
- Oh, gosh.
- Oh, gosh, said you--
446
00:15:42,091 --> 00:15:45,109
- One of my favorites
is definitely--
447
00:15:45,336 --> 00:15:46,836
I show up on time.
I wasn't late.
448
00:15:46,854 --> 00:15:48,762
And this guy was trashed.
449
00:15:48,782 --> 00:15:50,523
- Oh, my gosh.
450
00:15:50,675 --> 00:15:52,341
- And this was a 3:00 date.
451
00:15:52,435 --> 00:15:54,527
Yeah, he paid
the bill at the end.
452
00:15:54,621 --> 00:15:57,121
And I think it was, like,
11 margaritas he had.
453
00:15:57,348 --> 00:15:59,198
- Oh, wow
454
00:15:59,350 --> 00:16:00,959
- And he thought that
that was a good date.
455
00:16:01,186 --> 00:16:02,443
Like, at the end of the date,
he was like,
456
00:16:02,462 --> 00:16:03,628
"when am I gonna
see you again?"
457
00:16:03,779 --> 00:16:05,354
And I was just like--
- as in, never.
458
00:16:05,373 --> 00:16:07,039
- "get a clue."
459
00:16:07,192 --> 00:16:09,300
Like, you're drunk.
460
00:16:09,527 --> 00:16:11,952
- What are the things
that are important to you,
461
00:16:11,972 --> 00:16:13,620
And you would hope
they might be important
462
00:16:13,715 --> 00:16:15,473
To a man you would marry?
463
00:16:15,624 --> 00:16:18,718
- Because I am kind of all over
the place and loving to live,
464
00:16:18,870 --> 00:16:20,645
I really appreciate
when someone's able
465
00:16:20,796 --> 00:16:24,207
To kind of, like,
de-escalate a situation.
466
00:16:24,300 --> 00:16:25,650
It kind of makes you
be like, oh, yeah,
467
00:16:25,877 --> 00:16:28,135
I am acting
a little emotional,
468
00:16:28,154 --> 00:16:30,546
Or I'm making this
into a big deal
469
00:16:30,565 --> 00:16:32,215
When it's not a big deal.
470
00:16:32,233 --> 00:16:34,717
- What are the things you would
like to do most as a couple?
471
00:16:34,810 --> 00:16:38,054
- I think just having,
like, that physical spark
472
00:16:38,072 --> 00:16:39,831
And connection, you know?
473
00:16:39,982 --> 00:16:41,891
Like, the banter,
and the teasing,
474
00:16:41,909 --> 00:16:44,818
And just having that
with someone is something
475
00:16:44,912 --> 00:16:46,229
That I'm definitely missing.
476
00:16:46,322 --> 00:16:48,397
I'm hoping someone,
you know, can go
477
00:16:48,491 --> 00:16:52,918
And do fun things with me
and just not feel alone.
478
00:16:53,013 --> 00:16:54,420
Not that I feel alone.
479
00:16:54,572 --> 00:16:56,014
I don't want to sound,
like, super desperate.
480
00:16:56,165 --> 00:16:57,181
But you know, like...
- I understand.
481
00:16:57,408 --> 00:16:58,741
- I want a partner.
482
00:16:58,834 --> 00:17:00,518
I just--I think
it would be fun
483
00:17:00,669 --> 00:17:02,520
To have someone
to do life with.
484
00:17:02,671 --> 00:17:04,080
- You bet.
485
00:17:04,098 --> 00:17:05,672
[upbeat music]
486
00:17:05,692 --> 00:17:07,083
- Do you surf?
487
00:17:07,176 --> 00:17:09,085
- Yeah, so I live a mile
from the beach,
488
00:17:09,103 --> 00:17:11,512
Which is why I got a lot
of surfboards,
489
00:17:11,531 --> 00:17:13,347
Stand up paddleboards.
490
00:17:13,366 --> 00:17:15,925
- All right, mr. Bachelor.
- Yeah, definitely a bachelor.
491
00:17:15,943 --> 00:17:17,518
Remember that movie
"the 40 year old virgin"?
492
00:17:17,612 --> 00:17:19,203
- Yeah, right.
[laughs]
493
00:17:19,430 --> 00:17:20,521
- He has, like,
toys and [bleep] everywhere.
494
00:17:20,615 --> 00:17:21,873
It's--I'm kind of like that,
495
00:17:22,100 --> 00:17:23,041
But it's more, like,
surfboards and stuff.
496
00:17:23,192 --> 00:17:25,192
- And the virgin part,
I don't--
497
00:17:25,211 --> 00:17:27,211
- No, not a virgin.
- Okay, okay.
498
00:17:27,363 --> 00:17:28,954
Yeah, that's all
my reusable stuff
499
00:17:29,049 --> 00:17:31,123
'cause I try not to use
any plastic that's throw away.
500
00:17:31,276 --> 00:17:32,699
So I use everything reusable.
- Oh, really?
501
00:17:32,719 --> 00:17:35,035
All right, great.
Well, let's sit down, man.
502
00:17:35,055 --> 00:17:35,961
- You want to hang out
in the living room?
503
00:17:36,056 --> 00:17:37,371
- Yeah
- all right
504
00:17:37,390 --> 00:17:38,556
- You're really
into the environment, huh?
505
00:17:38,783 --> 00:17:41,875
- Yeah, definitely.
- That's impressive.
506
00:17:41,895 --> 00:17:42,952
It really is.
507
00:17:42,970 --> 00:17:44,545
- The way that I make decisions
508
00:17:44,564 --> 00:17:46,305
About the things I do
in my life,
509
00:17:46,457 --> 00:17:48,307
That's always gonna
be a factor,
510
00:17:48,459 --> 00:17:49,792
Is the environment.
511
00:17:49,885 --> 00:17:52,311
- So tell me
what you're missing out on
512
00:17:52,405 --> 00:17:53,979
By not being married.
513
00:17:54,074 --> 00:17:56,148
- I just feel lonely.
514
00:17:56,242 --> 00:17:58,225
I mean, I thrive with people.
515
00:17:58,319 --> 00:18:00,078
I thrive
in a social environment.
516
00:18:00,229 --> 00:18:02,396
I miss having--I want
to have someone around.
517
00:18:02,415 --> 00:18:04,473
If she's a surfer, we can go
to the beach together.
518
00:18:04,492 --> 00:18:07,159
We can ride bikes together,
like, even just
519
00:18:07,253 --> 00:18:09,236
When I go to work functions,
and you know,
520
00:18:09,255 --> 00:18:10,588
They say
I can bring a plus one,
521
00:18:10,739 --> 00:18:12,090
And I don't have anyone
to bring, it's just--
522
00:18:12,241 --> 00:18:13,833
- Yeah, yeah, that sucks.
- Sucks, yeah.
523
00:18:13,927 --> 00:18:17,153
I just want to have someone
to be a partner in crime.
524
00:18:17,171 --> 00:18:18,412
- Why do you think
you're ready for marriage,
525
00:18:18,506 --> 00:18:19,580
I mean,
at this stage in your life?
526
00:18:19,599 --> 00:18:21,265
I mean, you're 41.
I get it.
527
00:18:21,492 --> 00:18:23,326
- Yeah, yeah, I would say
I was a late bloomer
528
00:18:23,419 --> 00:18:26,086
In all ways
in terms of relationships,
529
00:18:26,106 --> 00:18:28,606
And I just think I'm finally
at a point in my life
530
00:18:28,833 --> 00:18:31,834
Where I do have a career path
that feels stable.
531
00:18:31,853 --> 00:18:33,836
- Let's talk a little bit
about children.
532
00:18:33,855 --> 00:18:35,429
Is that a priority for you?
533
00:18:35,448 --> 00:18:36,763
- Definitely,
I'm good with kids.
534
00:18:36,858 --> 00:18:37,690
And they seem
to really like me too.
535
00:18:37,842 --> 00:18:39,191
I want kids.
536
00:18:39,344 --> 00:18:41,953
My brother and sister-in-law
have two daughters.
537
00:18:42,104 --> 00:18:44,288
And I just--I love
my nieces to death.
538
00:18:44,440 --> 00:18:47,032
I was her manny
for like a year and a half.
539
00:18:47,185 --> 00:18:49,018
So I'm just ready to settle
540
00:18:49,111 --> 00:18:51,445
For the first time
in my whole life.
541
00:18:51,539 --> 00:18:54,298
- Okay, I want you to think of
your marriage like the ocean.
542
00:18:54,450 --> 00:18:56,876
- [laughs]
543
00:18:57,028 --> 00:18:59,620
- You do whatever
you can to save it, okay?
544
00:18:59,639 --> 00:19:01,973
- Yeah, that's how
I'm gonna go into this.
545
00:19:02,124 --> 00:19:03,716
I'm going to give it
my 100%, for sure.
546
00:19:03,810 --> 00:19:05,125
- Okay, all right.
547
00:19:05,219 --> 00:19:08,795
[upbeat music]
548
00:19:08,815 --> 00:19:11,040
- A lot of nerd books.
- Yeah?
549
00:19:11,133 --> 00:19:12,650
- Math, these are
more math focused.
550
00:19:12,877 --> 00:19:14,377
- Well, nothing I like better
than to sit down
551
00:19:14,395 --> 00:19:16,379
And read
about differential equations.
552
00:19:16,397 --> 00:19:18,381
- I know, it just gets me out
of bed in the morning, right?
553
00:19:18,474 --> 00:19:19,824
- [laughs]
554
00:19:19,975 --> 00:19:21,384
- So what's your favorite dish?
- Avocado toast.
555
00:19:21,477 --> 00:19:23,327
I mean, it's california.
I gotta go avocado toast.
556
00:19:23,554 --> 00:19:25,145
- This is california
completely.
557
00:19:25,165 --> 00:19:26,889
We're talking about a piece
of toast with avocado.
558
00:19:26,908 --> 00:19:28,057
- Yeah.
559
00:19:28,150 --> 00:19:29,575
- I just--
- you're missing out.
560
00:19:29,669 --> 00:19:33,062
- I have this total urge to
move you into a bigger space.
561
00:19:33,080 --> 00:19:35,898
- So originally,
I was looking at houses.
562
00:19:35,917 --> 00:19:39,902
But if I find a match,
I've seen some of the couples
563
00:19:39,921 --> 00:19:40,920
Where they feel
uncomfortable moving
564
00:19:41,014 --> 00:19:42,513
Into the person's space.
565
00:19:42,740 --> 00:19:43,572
- I see what you mean.
- You see what I mean?
566
00:19:43,666 --> 00:19:44,849
And so--
- so you're waiting?
567
00:19:45,076 --> 00:19:47,334
- Exactly, that's exactly--
- that's so lovable.
568
00:19:47,353 --> 00:19:50,337
Oh, I like that.
Let's go sit down and talk.
569
00:19:50,356 --> 00:19:54,250
So what are the things
that you're most missing now
570
00:19:54,343 --> 00:19:55,693
That, when you think
of a partner,
571
00:19:55,844 --> 00:19:57,420
You're looking forward
to doing?
572
00:19:57,513 --> 00:19:59,255
- I like talking
about the future.
573
00:19:59,348 --> 00:20:00,756
One of the things
I'm really excited about
574
00:20:00,849 --> 00:20:03,275
Is to see where her mind
is future-wise.
575
00:20:03,369 --> 00:20:06,537
Like, what type of house
you want to live in, you know?
576
00:20:06,764 --> 00:20:08,264
Where are some dream places
you want to go?
577
00:20:08,357 --> 00:20:09,856
'cause that gets me happy,
you know?
578
00:20:09,951 --> 00:20:12,359
- So tell me more about her.
579
00:20:12,378 --> 00:20:15,104
You know, what brings
out the best in you
580
00:20:15,122 --> 00:20:16,772
In a woman's personality?
581
00:20:16,791 --> 00:20:19,625
- Honestly, positivity,
you know, encouraging words,
582
00:20:19,777 --> 00:20:21,702
Like, hyping me up.
583
00:20:21,721 --> 00:20:24,296
Personality-wise,
goofy, outgoing.
584
00:20:24,449 --> 00:20:25,965
I don't care if she's
more successful than me.
585
00:20:26,117 --> 00:20:27,466
I don't care about that either,
you know,
586
00:20:27,618 --> 00:20:29,543
Because at the end of the day,
we're a team.
587
00:20:29,637 --> 00:20:31,712
- Can you tell a woman
what you need?
588
00:20:31,731 --> 00:20:34,790
- Yeah, yes, I'm very direct.
589
00:20:34,809 --> 00:20:36,901
I'm very careful
with the words that I choose.
590
00:20:37,052 --> 00:20:38,794
I'm very careful
with my delivery.
591
00:20:38,887 --> 00:20:41,722
And I'm very careful
with my tone.
592
00:20:41,741 --> 00:20:43,299
And I've learned that.
593
00:20:43,392 --> 00:20:45,726
Being 6'8" and not
being aware of that,
594
00:20:45,745 --> 00:20:47,653
You learn that you come off
a certain type of way.
595
00:20:47,747 --> 00:20:49,229
So I worked on it.
596
00:20:49,249 --> 00:20:50,973
- So you think you're ready
for marriage?
597
00:20:50,992 --> 00:20:53,142
- I've been ready for marriage.
I was ready 4 1/2 years ago.
598
00:20:53,160 --> 00:20:54,418
- Okay.
599
00:20:54,570 --> 00:20:56,495
- You know, but honestly,
I feel like I'm a catch.
600
00:20:56,647 --> 00:21:00,316
I really feel like I can be
a great husband to someone.
601
00:21:00,334 --> 00:21:02,743
♪ ♪
602
00:21:02,762 --> 00:21:07,080
- You put all of your books
with the titles backward
603
00:21:07,174 --> 00:21:09,158
Because you like them as white?
604
00:21:09,251 --> 00:21:10,676
- My friends make fun of me.
- Yeah
605
00:21:10,828 --> 00:21:12,085
- Yeah.
[both laugh]
606
00:21:12,105 --> 00:21:13,679
- Of course they made fun
of you, all right.
607
00:21:13,831 --> 00:21:15,514
Okay, let's go sit down
and talk.
608
00:21:15,666 --> 00:21:18,276
- Yeah, yeah, so the reason
I'm open to something like this
609
00:21:18,503 --> 00:21:22,929
Is because I've been trying
to date in san diego myself
610
00:21:23,024 --> 00:21:25,766
Without any help,
and I'm still single
611
00:21:25,785 --> 00:21:27,952
And still desire
getting married
612
00:21:28,103 --> 00:21:29,528
And having a life partner,
613
00:21:29,680 --> 00:21:32,957
And I feel like I'm
maybe looking for someone
614
00:21:33,184 --> 00:21:35,534
That can match my energy,
not the same necessarily.
615
00:21:35,686 --> 00:21:38,445
I don't need that 'cause I know
I have a big personality,
616
00:21:38,539 --> 00:21:41,206
But I think it would be nice
to have a partner who--
617
00:21:41,301 --> 00:21:44,284
I don't know--is just social,
is outgoing.
618
00:21:44,378 --> 00:21:46,137
I think that would be something
I'm really looking for.
619
00:21:46,364 --> 00:21:49,198
- What's your life been
like without a man in it?
620
00:21:49,216 --> 00:21:51,142
What do you miss?
621
00:21:51,369 --> 00:21:54,294
- I miss just having a partner
who I can talk to
622
00:21:54,388 --> 00:21:56,221
When something good
or bad happens,
623
00:21:56,374 --> 00:21:57,481
As small as that is.
624
00:21:57,708 --> 00:22:00,893
I find, when those
exciting moments happen,
625
00:22:01,045 --> 00:22:02,378
I'll pick up the phone,
626
00:22:02,471 --> 00:22:04,822
And all my friends are married
and are have kids,
627
00:22:05,049 --> 00:22:08,067
And I know they're busy with
bath time or whatever it is.
628
00:22:08,219 --> 00:22:10,328
So I don't always call,
you know?
629
00:22:10,555 --> 00:22:12,738
And just someone
who is thinking about me
630
00:22:12,832 --> 00:22:16,075
During the day and is checking
in on me during the day,
631
00:22:16,227 --> 00:22:18,227
I feel like everyone
around me has that,
632
00:22:18,245 --> 00:22:20,229
And I just want that too.
633
00:22:20,247 --> 00:22:22,322
♪ ♪
634
00:22:22,342 --> 00:22:26,085
- All right, very nice, well,
you have good quality stuff.
635
00:22:26,179 --> 00:22:28,587
- Right, not a lot of stuff.
I don't like clutter.
636
00:22:28,681 --> 00:22:30,422
- Do you cook?
637
00:22:30,516 --> 00:22:32,591
- I do cook sometimes.
638
00:22:32,743 --> 00:22:34,577
- But I mean, you can--
- yeah, I can cook.
639
00:22:34,670 --> 00:22:35,853
- You can--you do
a little something-something.
640
00:22:36,080 --> 00:22:37,021
- Yeah.
641
00:22:37,248 --> 00:22:38,004
- All right,
I just want to know.
642
00:22:38,099 --> 00:22:39,506
- I haven't even been on a date
643
00:22:39,525 --> 00:22:40,858
Probably in almost two years.
644
00:22:41,085 --> 00:22:42,360
♪ ♪
645
00:22:42,587 --> 00:22:44,362
- It's not like you
can't go on a date.
646
00:22:44,589 --> 00:22:47,013
- Like, the problem is not,
like, getting a man.
647
00:22:47,108 --> 00:22:49,200
It's just, like,
finding a quality man.
648
00:22:49,427 --> 00:22:51,610
- Quality man, okay,
there's people--okay.
649
00:22:51,704 --> 00:22:53,445
- You want to sit?
650
00:22:53,539 --> 00:22:57,099
- I need to know whether or not
you can go the distance.
651
00:22:57,118 --> 00:22:59,118
- I can, I can.
652
00:22:59,212 --> 00:23:01,695
I finished school.
653
00:23:01,714 --> 00:23:03,530
I have a good career.
- Uh-huh.
654
00:23:03,624 --> 00:23:05,290
- I want a husband.
- Uh-huh.
655
00:23:05,385 --> 00:23:10,203
- I'm gonna put my all into it,
100%, 1,000%.
656
00:23:10,223 --> 00:23:12,890
- As you said, you're
looking for a "quality" man.
657
00:23:13,041 --> 00:23:15,618
- Yes.
- What is that?
658
00:23:15,636 --> 00:23:19,063
- Somebody
who is reliable and loyal,
659
00:23:19,214 --> 00:23:21,899
Somebody that I can
really count on, you know?
660
00:23:22,126 --> 00:23:24,068
I don't want there
to ever be a question
661
00:23:24,219 --> 00:23:25,961
If you're being honest
or telling you the truth.
662
00:23:25,980 --> 00:23:27,980
- So you want integrity?
- Yes.
663
00:23:28,074 --> 00:23:29,982
- So tell me, what's
the worst part of being single?
664
00:23:30,134 --> 00:23:32,317
- Having to vet all these guys
and find the right person
665
00:23:32,470 --> 00:23:33,560
That works for you.
666
00:23:33,654 --> 00:23:34,987
- Tell me about these questions
667
00:23:35,139 --> 00:23:36,414
That you ask
on your first dates.
668
00:23:36,565 --> 00:23:38,474
- Like have you
ever been married?
669
00:23:38,492 --> 00:23:41,994
How many kids do you have,
credit score?
670
00:23:42,146 --> 00:23:43,069
- Seriously?
- Seriously.
671
00:23:43,164 --> 00:23:44,496
- On the first date?
672
00:23:44,649 --> 00:23:46,740
- Yeah.
673
00:23:46,834 --> 00:23:49,743
That probably scared them away.
674
00:23:49,762 --> 00:23:53,097
- Stacia, I want to help you,
675
00:23:53,324 --> 00:23:55,933
And you're, like,
throwing up serious roadblocks.
676
00:23:56,160 --> 00:23:57,351
♪ ♪
677
00:24:01,441 --> 00:24:02,681
Tell me about these questions
678
00:24:02,833 --> 00:24:03,941
That you ask
on your first dates.
679
00:24:04,092 --> 00:24:05,276
- Like, have you
ever been married?
680
00:24:05,503 --> 00:24:08,020
How many kids do you have,
credit score?
681
00:24:08,114 --> 00:24:09,521
♪ ♪
682
00:24:09,674 --> 00:24:12,024
That probably scared them away.
683
00:24:12,176 --> 00:24:15,694
- Stacia, I want to help you,
684
00:24:15,846 --> 00:24:19,198
And you're, like,
throwing up serious roadblocks.
685
00:24:19,292 --> 00:24:21,775
Tell me your motivation
for asking these questions.
686
00:24:21,794 --> 00:24:23,461
- I'm weeding you out
as fast as possible.
687
00:24:23,688 --> 00:24:25,278
- Why?
688
00:24:25,298 --> 00:24:27,965
- Because those are things
that I can't really work with.
689
00:24:28,116 --> 00:24:30,283
Like, how am I gonna work
with if, like,
690
00:24:30,377 --> 00:24:31,543
You have horrible credit?
691
00:24:31,696 --> 00:24:33,045
You're not responsible.
692
00:24:33,139 --> 00:24:35,047
I feel like that shows you
what type of person
693
00:24:35,199 --> 00:24:36,381
Or where you are in life.
694
00:24:36,476 --> 00:24:37,958
I get it, you want someone
who's responsible.
695
00:24:37,977 --> 00:24:39,201
- Yeah, yeah.
- That's the bottom line.
696
00:24:39,294 --> 00:24:41,220
Someone who looks
at those things
697
00:24:41,372 --> 00:24:43,038
And takes them seriously.
698
00:24:43,057 --> 00:24:45,040
- Exactly.
- Right, okay.
699
00:24:45,059 --> 00:24:47,151
I want you to be
a little flexible in that area,
700
00:24:47,302 --> 00:24:49,320
Okay, because everybody is
working on their stuff.
701
00:24:49,547 --> 00:24:51,304
- I hope so.
As long as you working.
702
00:24:51,324 --> 00:24:53,306
[upbeat music]
703
00:24:53,326 --> 00:24:55,884
- ♪ shake, shake, shake ♪
704
00:24:55,903 --> 00:24:58,662
♪ I want to see you
shake, shake, shake ♪
705
00:24:58,814 --> 00:25:00,389
- Here's my tortoise.
706
00:25:00,482 --> 00:25:01,332
You could see him, pastor cal.
707
00:25:01,483 --> 00:25:02,891
Oh, he got scared.
708
00:25:02,910 --> 00:25:05,077
- Oh, my gosh, you actually
have a pet tortoise.
709
00:25:05,171 --> 00:25:06,504
- Yeah!
710
00:25:06,655 --> 00:25:08,413
- Teeny-weeny
little underwears.
711
00:25:08,566 --> 00:25:10,156
- Oh, my gosh.
- [laughs]
712
00:25:10,176 --> 00:25:12,067
Well, but, you know,
it tells me something.
713
00:25:12,086 --> 00:25:13,844
These are meant to be seen.
714
00:25:14,071 --> 00:25:16,238
- Not a lot of magic
happens in here, huh?
715
00:25:16,257 --> 00:25:17,515
- I mean, every now and again.
- Every now and again.
716
00:25:17,666 --> 00:25:18,924
- Now and again.
- Okay.
717
00:25:19,076 --> 00:25:21,577
- My record player,
a little old soul in me.
718
00:25:21,670 --> 00:25:23,020
I love old records.
- What do you got?
719
00:25:23,171 --> 00:25:24,170
Okay, you got
to stop right there.
720
00:25:24,190 --> 00:25:25,356
What do you have?
721
00:25:25,507 --> 00:25:27,266
- My favorite's
dusty springfield.
722
00:25:27,418 --> 00:25:28,675
- Oh, my gosh,
I'll give you major credit now
723
00:25:28,769 --> 00:25:31,028
'cause you got the vinyl, girl.
724
00:25:31,179 --> 00:25:33,030
- Yeah, oh, my goodness.
725
00:25:33,181 --> 00:25:35,090
- Girl, girl.
726
00:25:35,109 --> 00:25:36,608
- You don't have leather chaps?
727
00:25:36,761 --> 00:25:38,035
- So these are
like prince chaps.
728
00:25:38,186 --> 00:25:40,371
- When I put my prince
album on, I put those on.
729
00:25:40,598 --> 00:25:43,523
- I mean, you don't just
put these on, right?
730
00:25:43,543 --> 00:25:45,543
[laughs]
731
00:25:45,770 --> 00:25:47,786
Why is this a good time
for you to get married?
732
00:25:47,880 --> 00:25:49,547
- I know I want
to start that next chapter.
733
00:25:49,698 --> 00:25:51,273
I'm ready
for that companionship.
734
00:25:51,366 --> 00:25:52,941
I do like caring for my man.
735
00:25:52,960 --> 00:25:54,293
I'm grocery shopping like,
736
00:25:54,387 --> 00:25:56,036
What do you want for dinner,
babe, you know?
737
00:25:56,055 --> 00:25:58,447
- How much does
personality factor in?
738
00:25:58,465 --> 00:26:01,559
- Oh, 70-30,
so 70 personality, 30 looks.
739
00:26:01,710 --> 00:26:02,968
- Oh, really?
- Yeah.
740
00:26:03,120 --> 00:26:04,303
- Height, that's a major thing.
- Okay.
741
00:26:04,455 --> 00:26:06,138
- Like athletic body types.
742
00:26:06,290 --> 00:26:07,714
- You want linebacker type?
743
00:26:07,808 --> 00:26:11,735
- Yeah, ooh, yeah.
744
00:26:11,962 --> 00:26:14,980
- I don't know how
many tall, huge people.
745
00:26:15,132 --> 00:26:16,632
- That's fair.
My thing is--
746
00:26:16,650 --> 00:26:17,800
- You know what I'm saying?
747
00:26:17,893 --> 00:26:19,076
Unless I can find
a linebacker for you.
748
00:26:19,227 --> 00:26:20,135
- Can you?
- No.
749
00:26:20,154 --> 00:26:21,153
- Okay.
750
00:26:21,305 --> 00:26:23,730
- So why, then, have you denied
751
00:26:23,749 --> 00:26:25,732
Three engagements?
752
00:26:25,751 --> 00:26:27,751
- Because I--
- three proposals rather.
753
00:26:27,978 --> 00:26:29,420
- I just had
this unrealistic concept
754
00:26:29,647 --> 00:26:30,996
Of what it was
gonna look like, you know?
755
00:26:31,148 --> 00:26:32,238
'cause when I
was a little girl,
756
00:26:32,258 --> 00:26:34,407
I just imagined
perfect relationships,
757
00:26:34,501 --> 00:26:35,593
And everything was just--
758
00:26:35,744 --> 00:26:37,002
- But tell me,
how has it changed?
759
00:26:37,096 --> 00:26:38,003
And what changed you?
760
00:26:38,097 --> 00:26:39,263
- It's just--
761
00:26:39,414 --> 00:26:41,414
I had to fall
in love with myself.
762
00:26:41,434 --> 00:26:43,750
I'm like, yo,
you got some crap, you know?
763
00:26:43,769 --> 00:26:46,678
So it's like, when I fell
in love with the insecurities
764
00:26:46,772 --> 00:26:49,665
Of mine and just
the little things with myself,
765
00:26:49,683 --> 00:26:52,276
I'm like, why would
I expect above and beyond
766
00:26:52,503 --> 00:26:53,777
When don't even have
that to offer?
767
00:26:54,004 --> 00:26:55,687
The biggest thing
to me is just kindness,
768
00:26:55,840 --> 00:26:58,431
And patience,
and communication.
769
00:26:58,451 --> 00:27:00,284
So if you shut down
and you want to sleep
770
00:27:00,435 --> 00:27:01,785
In the other room,
I'ma come and sleep right there
771
00:27:01,937 --> 00:27:03,528
With you because we not going
to sleep mad, you know?
772
00:27:03,623 --> 00:27:06,272
Like, we gon' talk about this,
and we gon' work through it.
773
00:27:06,292 --> 00:27:07,607
And I just want
to commit to somebody
774
00:27:07,701 --> 00:27:08,792
And have that mutual connection
775
00:27:09,019 --> 00:27:10,702
To where I know
that we're in this,
776
00:27:10,796 --> 00:27:14,298
And we're gonna ride
and have that full commitment.
777
00:27:14,525 --> 00:27:15,707
- We're gonna
see what we can do.
778
00:27:15,860 --> 00:27:17,617
- Please.
779
00:27:17,711 --> 00:27:18,710
- I'm gonna snoop.
780
00:27:18,863 --> 00:27:20,286
You have a ring light in here.
781
00:27:20,381 --> 00:27:21,472
What do you use that for?
782
00:27:21,623 --> 00:27:24,533
- I document
my day trading life.
783
00:27:24,626 --> 00:27:25,959
You know,
what I'm experiencing,
784
00:27:25,978 --> 00:27:27,219
If I'm making money,
losing money,
785
00:27:27,371 --> 00:27:30,314
Whatever my strategy is
that works, right?
786
00:27:30,465 --> 00:27:33,299
I just want to, you know,
just give back, impact people,
787
00:27:33,394 --> 00:27:34,652
And change people's lives.
788
00:27:34,803 --> 00:27:37,396
- Well I'm in the change
people's life business,
789
00:27:37,490 --> 00:27:39,990
So it's okay.
790
00:27:40,142 --> 00:27:42,384
Why are you
marrying a stranger?
791
00:27:42,403 --> 00:27:43,552
- I'm up for the challenge.
792
00:27:43,645 --> 00:27:45,570
And I'm ready
to partner with someone
793
00:27:45,723 --> 00:27:47,331
And go to the next level.
794
00:27:47,482 --> 00:27:48,891
That way,
we can build something,
795
00:27:48,909 --> 00:27:50,742
Whether it be our family,
796
00:27:50,895 --> 00:27:52,728
Whether it be
some sort of cool business.
797
00:27:52,821 --> 00:27:55,321
- You described
a power couple, right?
798
00:27:55,416 --> 00:27:56,748
- Yes, absolutely.
799
00:27:56,901 --> 00:27:58,158
- What if she's
already a power person?
800
00:27:58,177 --> 00:28:00,344
- Then great,
fuel the fire, let's get it.
801
00:28:00,571 --> 00:28:02,662
- I like that reaction,
whoo, okay.
802
00:28:02,682 --> 00:28:04,756
You are great.
You're good-looking.
803
00:28:04,850 --> 00:28:07,242
You have a good future.
You're a nice person.
804
00:28:07,261 --> 00:28:09,745
Why don't you already
have somebody?
805
00:28:09,838 --> 00:28:13,098
- I think a lot of it
has to do with me
806
00:28:13,250 --> 00:28:14,583
Finding myself, you know?
807
00:28:14,676 --> 00:28:16,009
I was kind of a late bloomer.
808
00:28:16,028 --> 00:28:17,602
I didn't have the best career
when I was younger.
809
00:28:17,697 --> 00:28:20,197
But surrounding myself
810
00:28:20,424 --> 00:28:22,199
And getting
into different environments,
811
00:28:22,350 --> 00:28:24,109
I started picking up
other things.
812
00:28:24,203 --> 00:28:26,203
You know, I really needed
to focus on myself.
813
00:28:26,354 --> 00:28:29,765
And I feel like it leads up
to who I am as a person.
814
00:28:29,783 --> 00:28:31,950
- Some of the people
you've dated in the past...
815
00:28:32,102 --> 00:28:33,193
- Mm-hmm.
816
00:28:33,212 --> 00:28:34,861
- You're all
incredibly beautiful.
817
00:28:34,880 --> 00:28:38,774
- Yeah, yeah,
I do like what I like.
818
00:28:38,792 --> 00:28:42,886
But a personality is
definitely a lot more important
819
00:28:43,038 --> 00:28:46,298
To me these days
because if I can't,
820
00:28:46,450 --> 00:28:48,633
Like, have a conversation
821
00:28:48,786 --> 00:28:50,452
And it can't flow, you know,
822
00:28:50,471 --> 00:28:52,120
She could be the baddest...
823
00:28:52,214 --> 00:28:53,230
- I get that.
- In the world.
824
00:28:53,457 --> 00:28:55,381
But it's just not
gonna be sustainable
825
00:28:55,401 --> 00:28:57,234
Because we don't
have anything in common.
826
00:28:57,385 --> 00:28:58,961
- How would you define
827
00:28:59,054 --> 00:29:00,812
What you're gonna bring
as a husband?
828
00:29:00,965 --> 00:29:02,981
- I'm mature.
I'm responsible.
829
00:29:03,075 --> 00:29:05,484
I'm comfortable enough,
and I know myself enough
830
00:29:05,636 --> 00:29:09,229
To find my partner
and get serious.
831
00:29:09,248 --> 00:29:12,082
Wherever my wife is,
she should definitely
832
00:29:12,234 --> 00:29:14,918
Be able to appreciate what
I can bring to the table.
833
00:29:15,145 --> 00:29:16,903
And then, she should
be able to reciprocate
834
00:29:16,997 --> 00:29:19,831
If she's out there.
835
00:29:19,984 --> 00:29:21,741
- Well, we hope she is.
836
00:29:21,835 --> 00:29:24,002
I mean, we wouldn't be here if
we didn't think we had some--
837
00:29:24,154 --> 00:29:25,411
- Let's do it.
- Ability to.
838
00:29:25,431 --> 00:29:27,322
- Let's do this.
Let's do this, yeah.
839
00:29:27,341 --> 00:29:29,767
♪ ♪
840
00:29:29,994 --> 00:29:32,661
- This is not
your usual bachelor pad.
841
00:29:32,679 --> 00:29:34,104
- This is definitely
a bachelor pad.
842
00:29:34,256 --> 00:29:35,606
Have you seen
the professor chair?
843
00:29:35,833 --> 00:29:37,924
Got the fire, you know,
a little bit of tequila
844
00:29:37,943 --> 00:29:39,184
Always on hand.
845
00:29:39,336 --> 00:29:41,003
- I think you haven't
seen a lot
846
00:29:41,021 --> 00:29:42,354
Of bachelor pads.
847
00:29:42,506 --> 00:29:44,264
- What's the dead bird?
- Oh that's old mal.
848
00:29:44,283 --> 00:29:46,341
That's my--my dad took
me on a hunting trip
849
00:29:46,360 --> 00:29:47,618
For my 12th birthday, and--
850
00:29:47,769 --> 00:29:48,952
- And you shot this guy?
- Mm-hmm.
851
00:29:49,104 --> 00:29:50,621
Been with me ever since.
852
00:29:50,772 --> 00:29:52,105
- Does anyone live here?
853
00:29:52,124 --> 00:29:53,624
I mean--
- yeah.
854
00:29:53,775 --> 00:29:56,018
- Ooh, binh,
there's nothing here.
855
00:29:56,111 --> 00:29:57,519
- Yeah.
- There's one cup.
856
00:29:57,538 --> 00:29:59,129
- I'm not gonna say
I'm a minimalist, but--
857
00:29:59,281 --> 00:30:00,539
- You could say that.
858
00:30:00,691 --> 00:30:02,966
- My mom comes,
like, every two months.
859
00:30:03,118 --> 00:30:04,784
She gives me homemade food.
This is my favorite from her.
860
00:30:04,878 --> 00:30:05,861
It's like a seafood soup.
861
00:30:05,879 --> 00:30:07,029
You need a woman.
862
00:30:07,047 --> 00:30:08,530
- I need a woman--I do.
863
00:30:08,549 --> 00:30:10,215
That's what my mom says.
- That's what she said?
864
00:30:10,367 --> 00:30:11,533
- That's what my momma said.
865
00:30:11,626 --> 00:30:14,202
- Your mom is very wise.
- Yeah.
866
00:30:14,221 --> 00:30:16,647
- The kind of woman
that you said you wanted was...
867
00:30:16,874 --> 00:30:19,483
- A selfless,
inspiring individual,
868
00:30:19,634 --> 00:30:21,134
I definitely want
somebody caring
869
00:30:21,228 --> 00:30:22,727
Because my mom is caring.
870
00:30:22,880 --> 00:30:24,396
And I feel like--
not necessarily
871
00:30:24,490 --> 00:30:27,065
That I compare every girl
to my mom in my life,
872
00:30:27,217 --> 00:30:28,733
But she's such
an amazing person.
873
00:30:28,886 --> 00:30:30,810
She pushes me to be better.
874
00:30:30,830 --> 00:30:33,497
And her selfless demeanor
is something that I admire.
875
00:30:33,648 --> 00:30:37,650
So in any sense of that
emotional side that I can get
876
00:30:37,670 --> 00:30:39,394
In a significant other
one day is something
877
00:30:39,487 --> 00:30:41,563
That I would definitely value.
878
00:30:41,656 --> 00:30:43,656
- Oh, wow.
You're so frugal.
879
00:30:43,676 --> 00:30:45,676
Tell me a little bit about that
and why that is, man.
880
00:30:45,903 --> 00:30:47,827
- Mm-hmm, yeah, I think
it started with my mom.
881
00:30:47,921 --> 00:30:50,681
Even to this day, she makes
decent money for what it is.
882
00:30:50,832 --> 00:30:52,257
And she still shops
at goodwill.
883
00:30:52,409 --> 00:30:53,517
Like, her work clothes
are from goodwill.
884
00:30:53,744 --> 00:30:55,668
So it was kind of
conditioned into me.
885
00:30:55,688 --> 00:30:58,671
- Very good,
I so respect your discipline.
886
00:30:58,691 --> 00:31:00,357
That's awesome, man.
That's awesome.
887
00:31:00,584 --> 00:31:05,420
So why risk it all,
take this huge risk?
888
00:31:05,439 --> 00:31:07,105
- It's been hard,
889
00:31:07,257 --> 00:31:10,425
Especially in today's
dating culture where,
890
00:31:10,444 --> 00:31:12,685
Like, I've met people,
girls, guys are talking
891
00:31:12,705 --> 00:31:14,538
To ten different people,
you know...
892
00:31:14,689 --> 00:31:15,706
- Wow.
- Just playing options.
893
00:31:15,933 --> 00:31:17,374
And I think,
for me, like, I don't--
894
00:31:17,525 --> 00:31:18,767
I'm more traditional
in that sense.
895
00:31:18,785 --> 00:31:20,210
I don't want to waste time.
896
00:31:20,362 --> 00:31:22,120
I don't want to waste money
on ten different people.
897
00:31:22,214 --> 00:31:24,956
I honestly feel like,
at this state in my life,
898
00:31:25,109 --> 00:31:27,718
Especially where I grew up,
a lot of people are married.
899
00:31:27,945 --> 00:31:30,220
And I can see it where
they're starting families.
900
00:31:30,372 --> 00:31:33,557
Even my sister, my brother,
and my mom's like,
901
00:31:33,708 --> 00:31:35,041
"yo, where's your girlfriend?
Like, what's up?"
902
00:31:35,060 --> 00:31:36,709
- Right.
903
00:31:36,729 --> 00:31:39,045
- And so I think when I
finished my master's program,
904
00:31:39,064 --> 00:31:41,640
The next step
in my mental blueprint
905
00:31:41,792 --> 00:31:42,974
Was to find a wife.
906
00:31:43,127 --> 00:31:45,477
Now I'm at a place
where I can have somebody
907
00:31:45,629 --> 00:31:47,979
Come into my life, hopefully.
908
00:31:48,073 --> 00:31:49,648
I'm almost 30.
909
00:31:49,800 --> 00:31:51,466
So I'm not seeing--
- would you stop it?
910
00:31:51,485 --> 00:31:54,244
Would you stop it?
What's this almost 30?
911
00:31:54,396 --> 00:31:56,304
What is 30, dude?
- Where she at, where she at?
912
00:31:56,323 --> 00:31:58,140
- You're funny.
913
00:31:58,158 --> 00:32:01,418
♪ ♪
914
00:32:01,569 --> 00:32:04,146
- I am really into health
and wellness.
915
00:32:04,164 --> 00:32:05,405
I love cooking.
916
00:32:05,499 --> 00:32:07,649
I made lasagna for a date.
917
00:32:07,742 --> 00:32:10,485
Didn't go well, clearly.
- [laughs]
918
00:32:10,504 --> 00:32:11,595
- Why don't we go sit down
and talk some more.
919
00:32:11,746 --> 00:32:12,912
- Absolutely.
920
00:32:12,932 --> 00:32:14,431
- You know, it's interesting.
921
00:32:14,582 --> 00:32:16,675
When I first met you
and you were so enthusiastic,
922
00:32:16,769 --> 00:32:20,845
I thought, gosh, she's like
president of a sorority.
923
00:32:20,998 --> 00:32:22,681
You are president.
- I was!
924
00:32:22,775 --> 00:32:24,107
- I nailed that.
925
00:32:24,259 --> 00:32:27,002
- I have a lot of energy,
a lot of love to give.
926
00:32:27,020 --> 00:32:28,094
- Okay, so--
927
00:32:28,188 --> 00:32:30,505
- Yeah, not a wallflower.
928
00:32:30,524 --> 00:32:32,524
- You left virginia
because you had
929
00:32:32,676 --> 00:32:34,284
This terrible engagement story.
930
00:32:34,511 --> 00:32:37,679
Your husband to be
had a woman on the side.
931
00:32:37,772 --> 00:32:40,940
- Yeah, you know,
that was a wake-up call.
932
00:32:40,960 --> 00:32:44,795
And we get to choose the people
who we want in our life.
933
00:32:45,022 --> 00:32:48,298
I didn't want anything
to do with that.
934
00:32:48,525 --> 00:32:51,359
And after that happened,
I was like,
935
00:32:51,378 --> 00:32:53,044
I'm gonna go live my best life.
936
00:32:53,197 --> 00:32:54,863
And that's exactly what I did.
937
00:32:54,881 --> 00:32:56,122
- So given all this background,
938
00:32:56,141 --> 00:32:58,049
Are you ready
to trust and love again?
939
00:32:58,202 --> 00:32:59,459
- [sighs]
940
00:32:59,478 --> 00:33:02,646
You know, the trust,
I've worked very hard
941
00:33:02,873 --> 00:33:06,057
Over the last three years
to gain that back.
942
00:33:06,151 --> 00:33:09,377
And the way I look at it is,
I know that there has
943
00:33:09,471 --> 00:33:11,304
To be someone
out there like me,
944
00:33:11,323 --> 00:33:15,567
Or at least open
to exploring this with me
945
00:33:15,719 --> 00:33:17,402
And being faithful to me.
946
00:33:17,554 --> 00:33:20,238
- Anything that is
a serious deal breaker,
947
00:33:20,390 --> 00:33:21,723
Tell me now.
948
00:33:21,742 --> 00:33:24,167
- It's very important,
deal breaker for sure,
949
00:33:24,319 --> 00:33:27,320
To be passionate, motivated,
adventurous, and athletic,
950
00:33:27,414 --> 00:33:30,841
Very caring as well.
951
00:33:31,068 --> 00:33:34,085
I have, like,
a dream of cooking out
952
00:33:34,238 --> 00:33:37,848
And watching football,
and he's at the grill,
953
00:33:37,999 --> 00:33:39,832
And we kind of eat together
and laugh.
954
00:33:39,852 --> 00:33:42,519
And I just--
I hope it happens for me.
955
00:33:42,670 --> 00:33:44,837
- Well, it sounds
like you're ready.
956
00:33:44,857 --> 00:33:45,856
- I'm so ready.
957
00:33:50,529 --> 00:33:54,939
- ♪ oh, you're so good
for me ♪
958
00:33:55,034 --> 00:33:57,183
♪ oh, oh, oh ♪
959
00:33:57,277 --> 00:33:59,536
- Oh good, hi.
- Oh, hi!
960
00:33:59,763 --> 00:34:02,188
Hello, I wasn't expecting you
to be here.
961
00:34:02,282 --> 00:34:04,115
- I know.
That's the way it's planned.
962
00:34:04,268 --> 00:34:05,709
- Okay.
[both laugh]
963
00:34:05,860 --> 00:34:07,360
- I did a lot
of traveling in asia
964
00:34:07,454 --> 00:34:09,437
Right before I did the remodel,
965
00:34:09,456 --> 00:34:12,031
And so I just modeled it
after a lot of the bathrooms.
966
00:34:12,051 --> 00:34:14,459
Yeah, it's a japanese toilet.
So it opens for you.
967
00:34:14,611 --> 00:34:16,127
It closes for you.
- Oh, really?
968
00:34:16,221 --> 00:34:17,962
This is gonna come in handy
if we can find you a wife.
969
00:34:18,115 --> 00:34:19,798
- I like that idea.
970
00:34:19,892 --> 00:34:21,616
- Is there anything really,
really dressy in here?
971
00:34:21,635 --> 00:34:24,786
- I'm not like a super fancy,
get dressed up person,
972
00:34:24,879 --> 00:34:27,138
Like, nice restaurants,
eh, not a fan.
973
00:34:27,291 --> 00:34:29,124
I'd rather go to like a brewery
or somewhere I can, like,
974
00:34:29,217 --> 00:34:30,400
Relax with people,
and hang out,
975
00:34:30,552 --> 00:34:32,069
And just have a good time,
you know?
976
00:34:32,296 --> 00:34:34,387
- So you're not a girly-girl.
- Not really.
977
00:34:34,406 --> 00:34:36,631
- Okay, let's go talk.
- Okay.
978
00:34:36,724 --> 00:34:38,817
- So tell me,
what is your age range?
979
00:34:38,911 --> 00:34:42,320
- So usually, I date men in,
like, their early 30s.
980
00:34:42,414 --> 00:34:45,248
I mean, the last guy
I tried dating, he was my age,
981
00:34:45,475 --> 00:34:47,417
And, like, the maturity
was just not there.
982
00:34:47,644 --> 00:34:49,160
He was also
at the age where he's like,
983
00:34:49,313 --> 00:34:51,088
I want to go have fun and,
like, do all the things,
984
00:34:51,239 --> 00:34:52,756
And I'm not gonna
take anything seriously.
985
00:34:52,983 --> 00:34:54,758
No, I need you
to take some things seriously,
986
00:34:54,985 --> 00:34:56,093
You know?
987
00:34:56,244 --> 00:34:57,761
It's not gonna work out
if it doesn't.
988
00:34:57,912 --> 00:35:01,098
So it's hard 'cause, you know,
people my age are either--
989
00:35:01,325 --> 00:35:03,491
You know, had their
serious relationship,
990
00:35:03,510 --> 00:35:04,917
Doesn't want to do it again
991
00:35:04,937 --> 00:35:06,828
Or is focused on their career,
992
00:35:06,921 --> 00:35:08,588
And they just want to do that.
993
00:35:08,607 --> 00:35:11,499
So I just need someone to,
like, meet me in the middle
994
00:35:11,518 --> 00:35:13,518
And say like,
"yeah, I'm also ready
995
00:35:13,670 --> 00:35:15,337
For that serious thing
with you."
996
00:35:15,430 --> 00:35:16,688
- You know,
when you're with somebody,
997
00:35:16,840 --> 00:35:18,506
What's the best part
of being with them?
998
00:35:18,525 --> 00:35:20,784
- It'll just feel, like,
comfortable, you know?
999
00:35:20,935 --> 00:35:22,285
It'll feel secure.
1000
00:35:22,512 --> 00:35:23,954
It'll feel like
that person is there for me
1001
00:35:24,181 --> 00:35:26,272
And waking up next
to them, you know?
1002
00:35:26,291 --> 00:35:28,458
It's something that, I want
to bring in another person
1003
00:35:28,685 --> 00:35:30,794
In this routine,
and be comfortable with that,
1004
00:35:31,021 --> 00:35:33,037
And feel very secured
with that man.
1005
00:35:33,190 --> 00:35:34,965
- What is marriage material?
1006
00:35:35,192 --> 00:35:39,285
- I really need someone
settled and stable,
1007
00:35:39,304 --> 00:35:42,121
Health conscious,
career oriented.
1008
00:35:42,141 --> 00:35:43,548
You know, they're also, like,
1009
00:35:43,700 --> 00:35:45,884
In a really good place
in life like I am.
1010
00:35:45,978 --> 00:35:47,477
I have a good career.
1011
00:35:47,704 --> 00:35:48,887
I have a good place.
1012
00:35:49,039 --> 00:35:50,981
I'm happy
with how far I've gotten.
1013
00:35:51,208 --> 00:35:53,541
So I'm just really proud
of myself for, like,
1014
00:35:53,635 --> 00:35:55,968
Being able to create that,
essentially.
1015
00:35:56,062 --> 00:35:59,214
I'm at the point in life where
everything else has lined up.
1016
00:35:59,307 --> 00:36:01,883
I just need
that one extra thing.
1017
00:36:01,976 --> 00:36:05,811
And that would just be
a husband, essentially.
1018
00:36:05,831 --> 00:36:10,408
- Yeah, so lots of pictures,
again, lots of books all over,
1019
00:36:10,502 --> 00:36:11,984
I read a lot.
1020
00:36:12,078 --> 00:36:13,003
- Oh, that's good, that's good.
1021
00:36:13,154 --> 00:36:14,078
So you do read a lot.
- Yeah.
1022
00:36:14,231 --> 00:36:15,063
- Well, I mean,
you're a teacher.
1023
00:36:15,081 --> 00:36:16,231
- I am a teacher.
1024
00:36:16,324 --> 00:36:17,323
- What grade
do you teach again?
1025
00:36:17,417 --> 00:36:18,157
- High school math.
- Oh, good, good.
1026
00:36:18,177 --> 00:36:19,825
- Yeah
1027
00:36:19,920 --> 00:36:21,419
- So tell me a little bit
about why you're doing this.
1028
00:36:21,571 --> 00:36:23,405
You're smart.
You're attractive.
1029
00:36:23,423 --> 00:36:24,830
You have your own home.
1030
00:36:24,925 --> 00:36:26,499
- I just want to be married.
1031
00:36:26,593 --> 00:36:28,410
I just feel like I--
1032
00:36:28,428 --> 00:36:30,412
- Is that the missing piece?
- Yeah, it's the missing piece.
1033
00:36:30,505 --> 00:36:32,689
I feel like
I live a really good life.
1034
00:36:32,916 --> 00:36:35,525
And the one thing
that I want in addition
1035
00:36:35,677 --> 00:36:37,752
To my really good life is
to be married
1036
00:36:37,771 --> 00:36:40,271
And a partner,
and then kids, eventually.
1037
00:36:40,424 --> 00:36:43,775
- Okay, let's talk a little bit
about this person
1038
00:36:43,869 --> 00:36:46,352
We have to find for you.
1039
00:36:46,446 --> 00:36:48,279
- Yeah, I want him to be funny.
1040
00:36:48,373 --> 00:36:50,098
- Okay, funny is good.
1041
00:36:50,191 --> 00:36:51,616
- Super important,
funny is good.
1042
00:36:51,710 --> 00:36:56,104
I would love an east coaster
because I'm straight forward.
1043
00:36:56,197 --> 00:36:58,122
And there's just--
there's something
1044
00:36:58,217 --> 00:37:00,550
Different about east coasters
versus west coasters.
1045
00:37:00,777 --> 00:37:03,795
I don't think that I'm
asking for unreasonable.
1046
00:37:03,947 --> 00:37:05,538
But what do I get in return?
1047
00:37:05,632 --> 00:37:07,557
I get, like,
this train wreck,
1048
00:37:07,784 --> 00:37:09,375
This train wreck,
this train wreck.
1049
00:37:09,469 --> 00:37:11,394
I mean, yeah, I want normal.
1050
00:37:11,621 --> 00:37:13,121
- Okay.
- Yeah.
1051
00:37:13,139 --> 00:37:15,398
[upbeat music]
1052
00:37:15,550 --> 00:37:17,125
- You're big
into dungeons and dragons.
1053
00:37:17,218 --> 00:37:18,551
- Oh, yeah.
- I know nothing about it.
1054
00:37:18,570 --> 00:37:19,811
No, it's actually good stuff.
1055
00:37:19,905 --> 00:37:21,646
This is what you need to play.
1056
00:37:21,740 --> 00:37:23,556
This is what you need if you're
gonna be a dungeon master.
1057
00:37:23,650 --> 00:37:24,816
And then, this is
the "monster manual"
1058
00:37:24,910 --> 00:37:26,726
That has all the little
creatures that you're
1059
00:37:26,745 --> 00:37:27,911
Gonna battle throughout.
1060
00:37:28,138 --> 00:37:29,746
A tiefling,
that's like a devil person.
1061
00:37:29,897 --> 00:37:31,731
- Okay.
- We'll play one day.
1062
00:37:31,825 --> 00:37:33,808
- Yeah, okay, yeah.
1063
00:37:33,901 --> 00:37:35,159
Well, let's just
go have a seat, man.
1064
00:37:35,312 --> 00:37:36,586
- Okay.
1065
00:37:36,813 --> 00:37:37,737
- I need to find out
more about you, miguel.
1066
00:37:37,756 --> 00:37:38,922
- Yes, I'm an open book.
1067
00:37:39,073 --> 00:37:41,741
Ask me anything.
- We'll see, we'll see.
1068
00:37:41,835 --> 00:37:43,668
Why hasn't it worked out, dude?
1069
00:37:43,762 --> 00:37:45,653
Why are you on the market?
I'm not understanding this.
1070
00:37:45,672 --> 00:37:47,322
- That's the question.
I don't know.
1071
00:37:47,340 --> 00:37:50,249
I dated someone for four years,
then someone for six years,
1072
00:37:50,269 --> 00:37:52,084
Then someone for two years,
and then, most recently,
1073
00:37:52,178 --> 00:37:53,678
Someone for a year.
1074
00:37:53,772 --> 00:37:57,089
Like, I went into each and
every one of those with the,
1075
00:37:57,109 --> 00:37:59,501
You know,
idea of marrying them,
1076
00:37:59,594 --> 00:38:02,112
You know, if things worked out,
and they didn't.
1077
00:38:02,339 --> 00:38:04,355
So I'm like, you know,
what am I doing wrong?
1078
00:38:04,508 --> 00:38:06,674
And I wouldn't say
I'm ever lonely.
1079
00:38:06,768 --> 00:38:10,936
But I do long
for finding someone
1080
00:38:11,031 --> 00:38:12,697
That I can really
spend my life with.
1081
00:38:12,849 --> 00:38:14,291
And it's something very me.
1082
00:38:14,518 --> 00:38:17,185
Like even at a young age,
I've been made fun--
1083
00:38:17,203 --> 00:38:18,778
Like, my dad would
make fun of me.
1084
00:38:18,872 --> 00:38:20,872
Friends would make fun of me.
1085
00:38:20,966 --> 00:38:22,874
I've always been, like,
the romantic, the passionate,
1086
00:38:22,968 --> 00:38:27,028
The very, like, in tune with
my emotions and understanding,
1087
00:38:27,047 --> 00:38:30,698
I remember, younger, thinking,
by 35, I have a house,
1088
00:38:30,717 --> 00:38:32,475
I have a wife,
I have kids, you know?
1089
00:38:32,627 --> 00:38:34,627
I'm living the dream,
and now I'm 35,
1090
00:38:34,721 --> 00:38:37,205
And I realize, I am ready.
1091
00:38:37,223 --> 00:38:38,723
I think it's just who I am
kind of deep down.
1092
00:38:38,875 --> 00:38:40,208
- Really?
1093
00:38:40,301 --> 00:38:42,652
- Like, my core,
I'm very family oriented.
1094
00:38:42,879 --> 00:38:46,214
So my brother lived with me
for two years from 16 to 18.
1095
00:38:46,307 --> 00:38:47,549
- Oh, wow.
1096
00:38:47,642 --> 00:38:48,641
- I remember him telling me,
he's like,
1097
00:38:48,735 --> 00:38:50,643
"you're the most masculine,
1098
00:38:50,662 --> 00:38:53,646
Feminine guy I know."
1099
00:38:53,665 --> 00:38:56,482
He meant to say I'm very,
like, maternal and present
1100
00:38:56,501 --> 00:38:58,168
With my own masculine energy.
1101
00:38:58,395 --> 00:39:00,837
But I would love
the feminine energy aspect
1102
00:39:00,988 --> 00:39:03,565
To complete me in a sense,
you know?
1103
00:39:03,658 --> 00:39:05,416
- Right, this is good.
You're a decent guy, man.
1104
00:39:05,510 --> 00:39:06,901
I think there's nothing weird.
1105
00:39:06,920 --> 00:39:09,420
- I know, on paper,
I'm pretty weird.
1106
00:39:09,573 --> 00:39:10,680
But then, you get to meet me,
and you're like,
1107
00:39:10,832 --> 00:39:11,997
Oh, this is a regular guy.
1108
00:39:12,017 --> 00:39:13,424
- Yeah, exactly.
1109
00:39:13,518 --> 00:39:14,926
- Super happy to be a part
of the process,
1110
00:39:15,020 --> 00:39:17,912
And hopefully, there's
a match out there for me.
1111
00:39:18,005 --> 00:39:20,023
- All right, great.
This was good.
1112
00:39:20,174 --> 00:39:25,845
- ♪ knock us down,
but we get up again ♪
1113
00:39:25,864 --> 00:39:28,606
♪ ooh, ooh, ooh ♪
1114
00:39:28,758 --> 00:39:30,108
- Pepper.
- Yeah?
1115
00:39:30,260 --> 00:39:34,019
- We know as much
as we could possibly know
1116
00:39:34,039 --> 00:39:35,538
About these individuals.
1117
00:39:35,765 --> 00:39:37,281
- Yes.
1118
00:39:37,376 --> 00:39:39,601
- And after several rounds
of interviews and home visits,
1119
00:39:39,694 --> 00:39:42,695
I think we have a good handle
on who we believe
1120
00:39:42,789 --> 00:39:44,622
Would make amazing matches.
1121
00:39:44,774 --> 00:39:47,366
- I think we have a really
good group of finalists.
1122
00:39:47,386 --> 00:39:49,034
I'm excited.
- Should we do some matching?
1123
00:39:49,054 --> 00:39:50,387
- Let's do it.
1124
00:39:50,614 --> 00:39:52,705
- Okay, let's start
with my man, miguel.
1125
00:39:52,799 --> 00:39:54,707
I did miguel's home visit.
1126
00:39:54,726 --> 00:39:56,467
I like this guy.
1127
00:39:56,620 --> 00:39:59,562
He has this interesting balance
of artistic sensitivity
1128
00:39:59,789 --> 00:40:01,064
And intellectualism.
1129
00:40:01,215 --> 00:40:02,214
- He's kind
of a renaissance guy.
1130
00:40:02,308 --> 00:40:03,566
- He really is.
1131
00:40:03,793 --> 00:40:05,960
- He's a science writer,
heavily degreed.
1132
00:40:05,979 --> 00:40:07,737
- He not only
has this great career,
1133
00:40:07,964 --> 00:40:10,389
This heady career,
but he has a fun side.
1134
00:40:10,409 --> 00:40:12,316
He likes
his dungeons and dragons.
1135
00:40:12,469 --> 00:40:13,910
He likes his comic books.
1136
00:40:14,137 --> 00:40:16,320
- I like that about him.
It's nerdy, right?
1137
00:40:16,473 --> 00:40:17,639
- Oh, absolutely, yeah.
1138
00:40:17,732 --> 00:40:19,565
- I thought he was thoughtful,
1139
00:40:19,584 --> 00:40:22,660
Charming, interesting, smart,
1140
00:40:22,754 --> 00:40:25,738
And really wants this.
1141
00:40:25,832 --> 00:40:28,332
- He's so fun to talk to.
1142
00:40:28,427 --> 00:40:29,834
I found him so engaging.
1143
00:40:29,928 --> 00:40:31,428
I'm excited to see who
we can find for him.
1144
00:40:31,655 --> 00:40:32,820
- I am too.
1145
00:40:32,839 --> 00:40:33,838
- I believe we have
some people, though.
1146
00:40:33,990 --> 00:40:35,598
- Let's take a look.
1147
00:40:35,825 --> 00:40:38,843
- Rebecca, I think
she's a very sweet person,
1148
00:40:38,937 --> 00:40:40,328
A lot of fun,
1149
00:40:40,346 --> 00:40:42,180
And she could bring
a lot of excitement
1150
00:40:42,332 --> 00:40:45,090
To his sort of routine life.
1151
00:40:45,110 --> 00:40:47,944
But I'm curious
about your opinion
1152
00:40:48,171 --> 00:40:50,838
As to whether
or not they are a match.
1153
00:40:50,857 --> 00:40:52,857
- Well, I like rebecca.
1154
00:40:52,951 --> 00:40:55,343
But there is some things
that truly give me pause.
1155
00:40:55,361 --> 00:40:56,369
[dramatic music]
1156
00:41:03,110 --> 00:41:05,853
- We have
a couple possibilities
1157
00:41:05,872 --> 00:41:07,797
That we've narrowed down to
for miguel.
1158
00:41:07,949 --> 00:41:09,373
- Yeah, let's get them up.
1159
00:41:09,526 --> 00:41:11,209
- Let's take a look.
1160
00:41:11,361 --> 00:41:14,378
- Rebecca, I think
she's a very sweet person,
1161
00:41:14,473 --> 00:41:15,805
A lot of fun.
1162
00:41:16,032 --> 00:41:18,624
But I'm curious
about your opinion
1163
00:41:18,643 --> 00:41:21,369
As to whether or not
they are a match.
1164
00:41:21,387 --> 00:41:23,705
- Well, I like rebecca,
1165
00:41:23,723 --> 00:41:27,466
But there are some things
that truly give me pause.
1166
00:41:27,486 --> 00:41:30,653
For one thing, she didn't
strike me as having something
1167
00:41:30,880 --> 00:41:32,730
That she was passionate
about doing.
1168
00:41:32,882 --> 00:41:35,049
And it was very important
to miguel
1169
00:41:35,068 --> 00:41:36,809
That he have someone
who is passionate
1170
00:41:36,828 --> 00:41:38,328
About their work
and their life.
1171
00:41:38,479 --> 00:41:40,145
- Yeah.
- She's a lot of fun.
1172
00:41:40,165 --> 00:41:42,165
I thought she might even
be a little much for him.
1173
00:41:42,392 --> 00:41:44,667
I mean,
she's very big personality,
1174
00:41:44,894 --> 00:41:47,170
And I think, you know,
it's kind of--
1175
00:41:47,397 --> 00:41:48,579
You do want the yin
and the yang,
1176
00:41:48,673 --> 00:41:51,566
But you don't want
maybe more in one direction
1177
00:41:51,659 --> 00:41:53,234
That that person could handle.
1178
00:41:53,327 --> 00:41:55,069
I think, for those reasons,
1179
00:41:55,162 --> 00:41:56,513
That we shouldn't
make that match.
1180
00:41:56,664 --> 00:41:58,330
- I agree with you.
1181
00:41:58,350 --> 00:42:01,851
- So given how we both feel,
I think we should move on.
1182
00:42:02,078 --> 00:42:05,246
And I'm very happy
to say that we should
1183
00:42:05,339 --> 00:42:06,748
Take a closer look at lindy.
1184
00:42:06,766 --> 00:42:08,599
- I like lindy.
1185
00:42:08,693 --> 00:42:11,419
- Lindy, I think, has a lot
going for this match.
1186
00:42:11,437 --> 00:42:12,529
I really do.
1187
00:42:12,680 --> 00:42:15,089
First of all,
she also has a phd.
1188
00:42:15,108 --> 00:42:20,019
She is a bright,
smiling, up presence.
1189
00:42:20,113 --> 00:42:21,871
She's also very frugal.
1190
00:42:22,023 --> 00:42:24,766
She has the right spirit
for this match.
1191
00:42:24,784 --> 00:42:26,209
- She does.
1192
00:42:26,360 --> 00:42:28,953
- Well, I am a big fan
of lindy and miguel.
1193
00:42:29,105 --> 00:42:30,288
They're both educated.
1194
00:42:30,382 --> 00:42:33,608
I believe they both
are very family oriented.
1195
00:42:33,626 --> 00:42:35,367
Both want kids.
1196
00:42:35,387 --> 00:42:38,629
I think she would
love his geeky side,
1197
00:42:38,782 --> 00:42:40,873
The dungeons and dragons side.
1198
00:42:40,892 --> 00:42:42,392
- Yeah, I agree.
1199
00:42:42,543 --> 00:42:44,043
- I think she's
his physical type.
1200
00:42:44,062 --> 00:42:45,620
And he's hers.
1201
00:42:45,638 --> 00:42:47,397
She might be a little
more extroverted than him,
1202
00:42:47,624 --> 00:42:49,548
But I think
that's good in this case.
1203
00:42:49,568 --> 00:42:50,900
- I like the fact
that they both
1204
00:42:51,127 --> 00:42:52,402
Have been
in committed relationships,
1205
00:42:52,553 --> 00:42:55,296
Which shows that they're
not afraid of marriage.
1206
00:42:55,315 --> 00:42:57,148
- I think we both agree
1207
00:42:57,242 --> 00:42:59,300
That lindy and miguel
are a great match.
1208
00:42:59,319 --> 00:43:00,635
- I agree.
1209
00:43:00,728 --> 00:43:03,471
- It's official,
lindy and miguel.
1210
00:43:03,489 --> 00:43:07,642
- Yes, so happy,
one down, four to go.
1211
00:43:07,735 --> 00:43:09,902
- All right.
- I love it.
1212
00:43:09,921 --> 00:43:12,571
- I think it'd be great
if we talked about alexis.
1213
00:43:12,591 --> 00:43:15,425
- Oh, wow, yeah,
let's talk about alexis.
1214
00:43:15,576 --> 00:43:17,001
- I think
she's something special.
1215
00:43:17,153 --> 00:43:18,336
- Yeah.
1216
00:43:18,488 --> 00:43:19,929
- You remember,
she totally entertained
1217
00:43:20,156 --> 00:43:21,931
And charmed us
when we interviewed her.
1218
00:43:22,083 --> 00:43:23,491
She's full of energy.
1219
00:43:23,584 --> 00:43:25,250
And of course, she's gorgeous.
1220
00:43:25,345 --> 00:43:26,994
She's about 5"10'.
1221
00:43:27,088 --> 00:43:29,421
And so she needs someone tall.
1222
00:43:29,441 --> 00:43:32,442
- I mean,
her personality is massive.
1223
00:43:32,593 --> 00:43:34,018
She's full of life.
1224
00:43:34,112 --> 00:43:35,761
She's full of energy.
1225
00:43:35,780 --> 00:43:38,281
She's not afraid
to voice her opinions,
1226
00:43:38,432 --> 00:43:41,951
In fact, sometimes,
I think a little too much.
1227
00:43:42,103 --> 00:43:43,453
- I think
she's an ambitious woman.
1228
00:43:43,680 --> 00:43:45,622
She's going on
for further degrees.
1229
00:43:45,773 --> 00:43:49,200
So she needs somebody bright
and somebody who's forward,
1230
00:43:49,294 --> 00:43:51,185
You know, moving into
the future with some goals.
1231
00:43:51,204 --> 00:43:52,854
She sparkles.
1232
00:43:52,872 --> 00:43:55,447
She mentioned three proposals
that she turned down.
1233
00:43:55,467 --> 00:43:58,801
- I know, but she signed up
to be married at first sight,
1234
00:43:58,953 --> 00:44:02,305
And maybe, it's because
she wants to get beyond,
1235
00:44:02,532 --> 00:44:05,457
You know, all that
and just get committed.
1236
00:44:05,477 --> 00:44:07,385
- You know, I think
it's pretty clear who
1237
00:44:07,537 --> 00:44:08,645
We should match alexis with.
1238
00:44:08,872 --> 00:44:10,388
- Oh, yeah.
1239
00:44:10,540 --> 00:44:12,815
- We've talked about justin.
1240
00:44:12,967 --> 00:44:16,468
And I'm of the mindset that,
you know, he's the right guy.
1241
00:44:16,488 --> 00:44:18,379
- It looks like
an obvious fit to me.
1242
00:44:18,472 --> 00:44:20,990
Justin is a mountain of a man.
1243
00:44:21,142 --> 00:44:25,978
This guy is, like,
this really tall
1244
00:44:25,997 --> 00:44:30,725
But gentle, kind,
sweet human being.
1245
00:44:30,743 --> 00:44:34,337
- And maybe errs
on the sensitive side, truly.
1246
00:44:34,488 --> 00:44:36,230
- Yes, you know, he wears
his heart on his sleeve.
1247
00:44:36,249 --> 00:44:37,915
- What is important is love.
1248
00:44:38,067 --> 00:44:39,842
He really,
really does want a wife.
1249
00:44:40,069 --> 00:44:42,236
- Yeah, I think
that justin would
1250
00:44:42,255 --> 00:44:44,163
Be a great match for alexis.
1251
00:44:44,257 --> 00:44:47,909
First of all, they both are
very spiritual based people.
1252
00:44:47,927 --> 00:44:51,412
In addition to that,
they're both animal lovers,
1253
00:44:51,431 --> 00:44:53,931
Which is so cool, you know?
1254
00:44:54,083 --> 00:44:55,007
I know some people might think,
1255
00:44:55,101 --> 00:44:56,341
"so what?
They like dogs."
1256
00:44:56,361 --> 00:44:58,102
It says a lot about you.
1257
00:44:58,196 --> 00:45:01,105
I think they have
the same goals and ambitions.
1258
00:45:01,257 --> 00:45:03,107
They're very compatible
as far as where
1259
00:45:03,201 --> 00:45:04,442
They want to go in life.
1260
00:45:04,594 --> 00:45:06,594
- He's very respectful.
1261
00:45:06,687 --> 00:45:08,538
- Mm-hmm.
- And she needs that.
1262
00:45:08,765 --> 00:45:11,432
She has felt objectified
in the past.
1263
00:45:11,525 --> 00:45:13,025
- But I think both of them,
1264
00:45:13,044 --> 00:45:15,861
They want to see deeper
than the physical.
1265
00:45:15,955 --> 00:45:17,863
- One of the things he said
was that he wanted someone
1266
00:45:17,882 --> 00:45:19,106
Who was positive,
1267
00:45:19,200 --> 00:45:21,217
Someone
who was his cheerleader,
1268
00:45:21,368 --> 00:45:23,386
Who could make him
more and grow.
1269
00:45:23,537 --> 00:45:25,221
That's really important to him.
- It's very important.
1270
00:45:25,372 --> 00:45:26,948
Alexis is such
1271
00:45:26,966 --> 00:45:31,710
A just massive personality,
you know?
1272
00:45:31,730 --> 00:45:33,621
- He does have a very calm way
of presenting himself.
1273
00:45:33,714 --> 00:45:35,139
- He really does.
- He does.
1274
00:45:35,233 --> 00:45:38,550
- It is a very gentle
and thoughtful approach.
1275
00:45:38,570 --> 00:45:40,461
And I think she will find
that's something
1276
00:45:40,480 --> 00:45:42,296
That soothes her.
1277
00:45:42,315 --> 00:45:46,558
- Well, do we agree that alexis
and justin are a great match?
1278
00:45:46,578 --> 00:45:47,969
Yes!
1279
00:45:48,062 --> 00:45:49,136
- I think
they're a great match.
1280
00:45:49,230 --> 00:45:50,972
I really do.
- Let's do this.
1281
00:45:50,990 --> 00:45:51,973
Should we make it official?
1282
00:45:51,991 --> 00:45:53,491
- It's official, two down...
1283
00:45:53,643 --> 00:45:56,235
- And...
Both: Three to go.
1284
00:45:56,329 --> 00:45:58,829
- So let's keep matching.
1285
00:45:58,923 --> 00:46:01,315
How about mitch?
1286
00:46:01,334 --> 00:46:04,743
- Yes, mitch,
so I'm excited about mitch
1287
00:46:04,763 --> 00:46:06,487
And the possibility
of him being
1288
00:46:06,506 --> 00:46:08,080
A great husband for somebody.
1289
00:46:08,174 --> 00:46:09,599
He's a nonprofit manager.
1290
00:46:09,750 --> 00:46:11,842
He wants
to save the oceans, okay?
1291
00:46:11,995 --> 00:46:13,418
- He wants to save the world,
as I remember.
1292
00:46:13,438 --> 00:46:15,254
- Yes, he's starting
with the oceans.
1293
00:46:15,273 --> 00:46:16,497
He's gonna end with the world.
1294
00:46:16,516 --> 00:46:18,015
He's had some relationships.
1295
00:46:18,167 --> 00:46:20,167
I think he's ready
to settle down
1296
00:46:20,186 --> 00:46:21,444
And to do some things
that are a little more stable.
1297
00:46:21,595 --> 00:46:23,095
- I liked him a lot.
1298
00:46:23,189 --> 00:46:25,189
He is san diego, right?
1299
00:46:25,341 --> 00:46:26,765
- Yeah.
- He's a beach person.
1300
00:46:26,785 --> 00:46:29,193
- He loves family.
He wants children.
1301
00:46:29,287 --> 00:46:32,346
- He nannied for one
of his siblings for two years.
1302
00:46:32,365 --> 00:46:33,681
- Yeah.
1303
00:46:33,774 --> 00:46:35,683
- I think
he's very egalitarian,
1304
00:46:35,701 --> 00:46:39,186
Very modern about male
and female roles that way.
1305
00:46:39,280 --> 00:46:40,963
He's not the traditional guy.
1306
00:46:41,190 --> 00:46:43,541
- Well, we met
two different kristens
1307
00:46:43,635 --> 00:46:46,451
Who we believed
would be a good match for him.
1308
00:46:46,471 --> 00:46:51,032
And the question is, do we
choose kristen with an "I"
1309
00:46:51,050 --> 00:46:54,385
Or krysten with a "y"?
1310
00:46:54,479 --> 00:46:56,795
- Um...
1311
00:46:56,815 --> 00:46:57,939
It's a tough one.
1312
00:47:02,654 --> 00:47:05,713
- ♪ baby, I think
we're on to something ♪
1313
00:47:05,731 --> 00:47:06,805
♪ it's the way that the waves
of your love crash over me ♪
1314
00:47:06,899 --> 00:47:08,899
- So let's keep matching.
1315
00:47:08,993 --> 00:47:11,160
How about mitch?
1316
00:47:11,387 --> 00:47:14,238
- Well, we met
two different kristens
1317
00:47:14,332 --> 00:47:16,574
Who we believe would be
a good match for him.
1318
00:47:16,668 --> 00:47:21,170
And the question is, do we
choose kristen with an "I"
1319
00:47:21,322 --> 00:47:24,489
Or krysten with a "y"?
1320
00:47:24,584 --> 00:47:26,067
- It's a tough one.
1321
00:47:26,085 --> 00:47:28,569
Let's talk about kristen
with an "I" first.
1322
00:47:28,588 --> 00:47:30,071
- Okay.
1323
00:47:30,089 --> 00:47:31,496
[upbeat music]
1324
00:47:31,516 --> 00:47:32,907
- She's 32.
1325
00:47:33,000 --> 00:47:34,851
She's a teacher, loves kids.
1326
00:47:35,002 --> 00:47:36,577
She's really a sweetheart.
1327
00:47:36,596 --> 00:47:39,338
And I liked her quite a bit.
1328
00:47:39,357 --> 00:47:40,857
- She's very successful.
1329
00:47:41,008 --> 00:47:42,766
She's done very well
for herself.
1330
00:47:42,861 --> 00:47:45,010
And she was saying that what
she wants in her life now
1331
00:47:45,029 --> 00:47:46,604
Is love and a family.
1332
00:47:46,756 --> 00:47:48,606
- I think they have a lot
of compatibilities,
1333
00:47:48,758 --> 00:47:51,425
But she wants someone
who's younger,
1334
00:47:51,444 --> 00:47:54,428
Which might make a big
difference raising kids...
1335
00:47:54,521 --> 00:47:55,779
- Yeah, yeah.
- You know?
1336
00:47:55,932 --> 00:48:00,618
And I don't think
she's attracted to bald men.
1337
00:48:00,712 --> 00:48:03,270
Now, of course,
she's very foolish about that.
1338
00:48:03,289 --> 00:48:04,455
- And everybody
can't pull this off.
1339
00:48:04,607 --> 00:48:06,031
But it's okay.
- No, it's true.
1340
00:48:06,125 --> 00:48:07,699
So we want to make sure
that they get what they want.
1341
00:48:07,719 --> 00:48:09,868
So I'm a little worried
about that
1342
00:48:09,888 --> 00:48:11,870
'cause those things, I think,
were important to her.
1343
00:48:11,890 --> 00:48:13,205
- Yeah.
- Bald isn't for everyone.
1344
00:48:13,224 --> 00:48:15,558
- Yeah, yeah, yeah,
I know, I've heard that.
1345
00:48:15,785 --> 00:48:19,211
But that's why I think
krysten with "y"
1346
00:48:19,305 --> 00:48:22,123
Is actually just perfect.
1347
00:48:22,141 --> 00:48:26,218
Krysten is very successful
as a software sales rep.
1348
00:48:26,237 --> 00:48:29,647
She's also just a lover
of the beach.
1349
00:48:29,799 --> 00:48:32,633
She spends time on the beach
doing yoga.
1350
00:48:32,652 --> 00:48:35,486
And I think that also,
she wants the stability
1351
00:48:35,638 --> 00:48:37,729
Of family and children.
1352
00:48:37,749 --> 00:48:40,991
- But she is bright,
optimistic, energetic,
1353
00:48:41,144 --> 00:48:42,585
Very attractive person.
1354
00:48:42,812 --> 00:48:44,253
I think she would
be really committed
1355
00:48:44,405 --> 00:48:46,088
And really,
really try to make it work
1356
00:48:46,240 --> 00:48:48,740
Because she so wants this.
1357
00:48:48,760 --> 00:48:50,334
- Her energy is
just so contagious.
1358
00:48:50,486 --> 00:48:51,594
- Yes.
1359
00:48:51,821 --> 00:48:52,577
- And I think
that this is what
1360
00:48:52,672 --> 00:48:54,579
He would absolutely just love.
1361
00:48:54,674 --> 00:48:56,081
She's so supportive.
1362
00:48:56,100 --> 00:48:58,601
She would be
his ride or die person.
1363
00:48:58,752 --> 00:49:00,327
And I'm looking
forward to that.
1364
00:49:00,346 --> 00:49:02,587
So I really like this match.
1365
00:49:02,607 --> 00:49:05,683
- I think krysten will
really find him attractive.
1366
00:49:05,835 --> 00:49:08,836
I think she will be
1367
00:49:08,854 --> 00:49:12,931
That happy, funny spark
that he's looking for.
1368
00:49:12,951 --> 00:49:14,784
She's miss positivity.
1369
00:49:14,935 --> 00:49:16,953
That's exactly what
he said he wanted.
1370
00:49:17,104 --> 00:49:18,287
- Yeah, absolutely.
1371
00:49:18,514 --> 00:49:19,513
- You know,
and they both are ready
1372
00:49:19,606 --> 00:49:20,790
To have kids, almost tomorrow.
1373
00:49:20,941 --> 00:49:22,366
They're looking
for someone who is
1374
00:49:22,460 --> 00:49:25,186
Just as enthusiastic
and just as ready as they are.
1375
00:49:25,204 --> 00:49:27,964
So the thing I should
mention that he is older.
1376
00:49:28,191 --> 00:49:29,781
He's nine years older
than krysten.
1377
00:49:29,801 --> 00:49:32,284
- Yes.
- But she likes older men.
1378
00:49:32,378 --> 00:49:35,546
And I think that that will
actually work well for them...
1379
00:49:35,698 --> 00:49:36,788
- I think so.
- As opposed to be a problem.
1380
00:49:36,808 --> 00:49:38,716
- Krysten makes a good income,
1381
00:49:38,810 --> 00:49:40,625
And she will be fine
making more than mitch.
1382
00:49:40,720 --> 00:49:42,979
He'll be fine with it too.
- Oh, I think he'll be fine.
1383
00:49:43,130 --> 00:49:44,480
- So yeah, I think that
will turn into a strength.
1384
00:49:44,631 --> 00:49:47,041
I think we have
an official match.
1385
00:49:47,059 --> 00:49:51,136
- Let's make it official,
krysten and mitch.
1386
00:49:51,230 --> 00:49:53,397
Whoo, let's do it.
1387
00:49:53,549 --> 00:49:55,216
- This is so much fun.
I love doing this.
1388
00:49:55,309 --> 00:49:57,051
- Yeah!
- Let's keep matching.
1389
00:49:57,144 --> 00:49:58,219
- I think we might keep going.
1390
00:49:58,237 --> 00:49:59,311
- Okay.
- All right.
1391
00:49:59,330 --> 00:50:01,388
Let's talk about binh.
1392
00:50:01,482 --> 00:50:05,484
Binh is one
of the nicest people,
1393
00:50:05,503 --> 00:50:08,004
I think, that I've talked to.
1394
00:50:08,231 --> 00:50:11,065
He's very kind.
He's very sensitive.
1395
00:50:11,083 --> 00:50:15,177
But he's very structured,
and this man is frugal.
1396
00:50:15,404 --> 00:50:18,514
- But he's determined too
because he's doing that
1397
00:50:18,665 --> 00:50:22,000
To amass money so that he can
retire early and enjoy life.
1398
00:50:22,020 --> 00:50:23,260
- Yeah, that's great.
1399
00:50:23,412 --> 00:50:25,763
He's very attached
to his family.
1400
00:50:25,857 --> 00:50:29,933
It's so important to him
that he finds someone
1401
00:50:30,086 --> 00:50:32,936
Who loves family,
someone who respects family,
1402
00:50:33,089 --> 00:50:34,438
And who wants to have children.
1403
00:50:34,532 --> 00:50:36,774
- The other thing, I think,
he's made himself proud
1404
00:50:36,926 --> 00:50:38,517
Of himself
is his physical fitness.
1405
00:50:38,536 --> 00:50:40,761
- Oh, he's
in incredible physical shape.
1406
00:50:40,780 --> 00:50:42,763
- He's a personal trainer
on the side.
1407
00:50:42,782 --> 00:50:44,948
I mean, his main career
is an engineer,
1408
00:50:45,101 --> 00:50:47,209
But he likes to help
people help themselves.
1409
00:50:47,436 --> 00:50:49,861
- Yeah, yeah,
so he's quite a catch.
1410
00:50:49,881 --> 00:50:51,272
I like who he is.
1411
00:50:51,290 --> 00:50:52,882
I like what he brings
to the table,
1412
00:50:53,109 --> 00:50:56,385
And I believe that,
for the right person,
1413
00:50:56,537 --> 00:50:58,220
I think he could
be a great husband.
1414
00:50:58,447 --> 00:51:00,948
So are we still thinking
that morgan
1415
00:51:00,966 --> 00:51:02,707
Would be a good match
for binh?
1416
00:51:02,802 --> 00:51:04,226
- Morgan would be great.
1417
00:51:04,453 --> 00:51:07,137
She's a very independent
person, very nice.
1418
00:51:07,231 --> 00:51:09,065
She's not materialistic.
1419
00:51:09,216 --> 00:51:11,233
She's not someone who spends
a lot of money on clothes,
1420
00:51:11,385 --> 00:51:12,793
And shoes, and whatever.
1421
00:51:12,886 --> 00:51:15,145
She's very serious
about muay thai.
1422
00:51:15,298 --> 00:51:18,890
And I think she's pretty
physically fit all around.
1423
00:51:18,910 --> 00:51:20,968
That's important to her.
- Yeah.
1424
00:51:20,986 --> 00:51:22,653
- I think she's a strong woman.
1425
00:51:22,747 --> 00:51:25,472
She feels like she's, you know,
made her way in the world,
1426
00:51:25,491 --> 00:51:27,141
And that's important to her.
1427
00:51:27,159 --> 00:51:29,143
- She now just wants love
in her life.
1428
00:51:29,236 --> 00:51:31,587
And I think that
that's a very good thing.
1429
00:51:31,738 --> 00:51:34,757
- What morgan considers
marriage material is somebody
1430
00:51:34,984 --> 00:51:37,242
Who's in a good place
with themself,
1431
00:51:37,336 --> 00:51:39,653
Stable, has a good job,
1432
00:51:39,746 --> 00:51:42,489
Somebody who is oriented
towards marriage.
1433
00:51:42,583 --> 00:51:44,916
And boy,
does that sound like binh?
1434
00:51:44,936 --> 00:51:46,510
It does.
1435
00:51:46,604 --> 00:51:48,846
- I do believe that
morgan and binh, you know,
1436
00:51:48,998 --> 00:51:51,849
Would be a good match
because, you know,
1437
00:51:52,001 --> 00:51:53,834
They both are heavily
into physical fitness.
1438
00:51:53,853 --> 00:51:55,111
- Oh, yeah.
1439
00:51:55,262 --> 00:51:57,762
And in addition to that,
financially,
1440
00:51:57,782 --> 00:52:01,358
They are really both
very focused on saving
1441
00:52:01,452 --> 00:52:03,844
And making sure that their
financial lives are secure
1442
00:52:03,937 --> 00:52:05,454
Going forward in the future.
1443
00:52:05,681 --> 00:52:07,439
- And I think
she would really appreciate
1444
00:52:07,458 --> 00:52:08,866
The close-knit ties
of his family,
1445
00:52:08,960 --> 00:52:10,017
- I think so.
1446
00:52:10,035 --> 00:52:11,685
- She wants an extended family,
1447
00:52:11,704 --> 00:52:13,129
And he would have that for her.
1448
00:52:13,280 --> 00:52:16,632
- That would be a serious area
of compatibility for them.
1449
00:52:16,783 --> 00:52:18,359
- They really want
to build something.
1450
00:52:18,452 --> 00:52:19,877
- Yeah.
- He's achieved a lot.
1451
00:52:19,971 --> 00:52:22,805
She's achieved a lot.
They both want family.
1452
00:52:22,956 --> 00:52:26,291
And if that's what
they can connect on,
1453
00:52:26,310 --> 00:52:29,294
The fact of creating
a home, stability,
1454
00:52:29,313 --> 00:52:31,889
I think that
that is a really important key
1455
00:52:31,983 --> 00:52:34,132
To their future.
1456
00:52:34,152 --> 00:52:35,967
- I believe
that binh and morgan,
1457
00:52:35,987 --> 00:52:37,820
That they certainly
have the potential
1458
00:52:37,971 --> 00:52:39,655
For a successful marriage.
1459
00:52:39,806 --> 00:52:42,307
- I do too.
So do we have a match?
1460
00:52:42,326 --> 00:52:44,142
- I believe we do.
1461
00:52:44,162 --> 00:52:45,402
And I feel good
about it, actually.
1462
00:52:45,496 --> 00:52:46,737
- Okay.
1463
00:52:46,889 --> 00:52:49,406
- All right, binh and morgan!
1464
00:52:49,558 --> 00:52:52,668
Four down and one to go, whoo!
1465
00:52:57,900 --> 00:52:59,750
- ♪ why don't
you light the flame ♪
1466
00:52:59,902 --> 00:53:01,585
♪ fire to guide the way ♪
1467
00:53:01,679 --> 00:53:02,827
- One more match to make.
Let's do it, dr. Pepper.
1468
00:53:02,922 --> 00:53:04,071
- [laughs]
okay.
1469
00:53:04,164 --> 00:53:05,923
- Should we talk about stacia?
1470
00:53:06,075 --> 00:53:08,242
- Love to, love her,
love to talk about her.
1471
00:53:08,335 --> 00:53:11,412
- Stacia is a strong woman.
1472
00:53:11,430 --> 00:53:13,505
I mean, she's kind of
a powerful force here.
1473
00:53:13,524 --> 00:53:16,083
She has
a very substantial income,
1474
00:53:16,101 --> 00:53:20,845
But I think that she's actually
going to make a great wife.
1475
00:53:20,865 --> 00:53:24,107
Stacia's a great blend
of accomplishment
1476
00:53:24,202 --> 00:53:25,609
And sensitivity.
1477
00:53:25,761 --> 00:53:27,870
- From the beginning,
I thought she stood out,
1478
00:53:28,097 --> 00:53:31,448
Warm, available,
approachable, focused.
1479
00:53:31,600 --> 00:53:33,116
- Some of the things
that she's been afraid of
1480
00:53:33,269 --> 00:53:34,768
Is whether or not
someone wants her
1481
00:53:34,861 --> 00:53:36,378
Because of her accomplishments
1482
00:53:36,530 --> 00:53:38,439
Or wants her because
they feel she's beautiful,
1483
00:53:38,457 --> 00:53:41,032
But not really want her
because of who she is,
1484
00:53:41,126 --> 00:53:43,610
Which is why she feels this
is a perfect thing for her.
1485
00:53:43,629 --> 00:53:45,779
I think that
if we can find the right man
1486
00:53:45,798 --> 00:53:47,389
Who is intimidated by her,
1487
00:53:47,541 --> 00:53:49,225
Who's here
for the right reasons,
1488
00:53:49,376 --> 00:53:50,784
I believe
we'll have a good match.
1489
00:53:50,877 --> 00:53:53,044
- She is a powerful force,
1490
00:53:53,064 --> 00:53:54,621
But she's also someone
who wants
1491
00:53:54,640 --> 00:53:57,215
To have a deep connection.
1492
00:53:57,235 --> 00:53:59,793
- So who do we want
to match stacia with?
1493
00:53:59,812 --> 00:54:03,054
- Well, I think that nate
is the obvious choice.
1494
00:54:03,074 --> 00:54:05,132
I like nate.
1495
00:54:05,150 --> 00:54:06,725
He's thoughtful.
1496
00:54:06,744 --> 00:54:09,745
He's younger
in--a little bit in age,
1497
00:54:09,972 --> 00:54:12,564
But I think also younger
in his career.
1498
00:54:12,658 --> 00:54:14,250
He's doing well.
- Yeah.
1499
00:54:14,401 --> 00:54:16,919
- But you know, he's not
everywhere he's gonna go.
1500
00:54:17,070 --> 00:54:19,088
- I like the fact
that he's focused.
1501
00:54:19,239 --> 00:54:21,832
He's driven.
He has great ambition.
1502
00:54:21,926 --> 00:54:22,925
I like him a lot.
1503
00:54:23,076 --> 00:54:24,985
- He may have to work
1504
00:54:25,004 --> 00:54:26,929
To get her needs satisfied,
1505
00:54:27,156 --> 00:54:29,765
But I think
that this is gonna be
1506
00:54:29,916 --> 00:54:31,934
A match really made
in the stars.
1507
00:54:32,161 --> 00:54:35,012
- Yeah, boy.
- I think nate's our guy.
1508
00:54:35,106 --> 00:54:36,179
I really do.
- Wow.
1509
00:54:36,332 --> 00:54:38,015
They do share values.
1510
00:54:38,167 --> 00:54:40,276
They do have the same values.
1511
00:54:40,503 --> 00:54:44,004
In addition to that,
their desire for family,
1512
00:54:44,023 --> 00:54:46,023
That's one
of their compatible areas.
1513
00:54:46,117 --> 00:54:48,675
- Lifestyle-wise, I think
they're very much in sync.
1514
00:54:48,694 --> 00:54:51,345
They both like nice places,
nice things,
1515
00:54:51,363 --> 00:54:53,289
And just, I think they're
really matched in that.
1516
00:54:53,440 --> 00:54:54,773
- They are.
1517
00:54:54,792 --> 00:54:56,458
They sort of have
a conservative swag.
1518
00:54:56,610 --> 00:54:58,018
That's great.
1519
00:54:58,037 --> 00:55:00,370
We want couples who can
connect on those levels.
1520
00:55:00,464 --> 00:55:03,690
- One thing I feel is
that nate will be just fine
1521
00:55:03,709 --> 00:55:06,284
With the fact that
stacia makes a lot of money.
1522
00:55:06,304 --> 00:55:09,788
And I also think
that they both have
1523
00:55:09,807 --> 00:55:12,382
Really ambitious
entrepreneurial goals
1524
00:55:12,535 --> 00:55:16,961
And that they will
do things together that will,
1525
00:55:16,981 --> 00:55:18,539
You know,
probably lift his income up,
1526
00:55:18,632 --> 00:55:19,964
And he'll be fine with that.
1527
00:55:19,984 --> 00:55:21,725
- So I believe
they have the potential
1528
00:55:21,819 --> 00:55:23,468
To be a power couple,
1529
00:55:23,487 --> 00:55:25,470
Which is what
I believe they both want.
1530
00:55:25,489 --> 00:55:26,880
- I agree totally.
1531
00:55:26,973 --> 00:55:28,549
- So we've talked it all out.
1532
00:55:28,567 --> 00:55:30,326
I think we're ready to call it.
1533
00:55:30,553 --> 00:55:33,737
Should we confirm our fifth
and final match,
1534
00:55:33,831 --> 00:55:35,072
Stacia and nate?
1535
00:55:35,224 --> 00:55:37,057
- This is an official moment.
1536
00:55:37,076 --> 00:55:39,150
Stacia and nate
should get married.
1537
00:55:39,170 --> 00:55:41,578
We did it!
We matched five couples.
1538
00:55:41,730 --> 00:55:43,730
- [laughing]
we did, we did.
1539
00:55:43,749 --> 00:55:45,824
We have alexis and justin,
1540
00:55:45,918 --> 00:55:47,568
Krysten and mitch,
1541
00:55:47,586 --> 00:55:49,419
Morgan and binh,
1542
00:55:49,572 --> 00:55:52,664
And last but not least,
lindy and miguel.
1543
00:55:52,683 --> 00:55:55,242
[upbeat music]
1544
00:55:55,335 --> 00:55:56,593
How do you feel about it?
1545
00:55:56,687 --> 00:55:58,837
- I really feel great
about these five couples.
1546
00:55:58,856 --> 00:56:00,097
- Yeah, me too.
1547
00:56:00,249 --> 00:56:01,523
- I think they have
great possibilities.
1548
00:56:01,750 --> 00:56:04,768
So now we get to do
what we really love to do...
1549
00:56:04,920 --> 00:56:06,195
- Yeah.
1550
00:56:06,422 --> 00:56:08,438
- Is go reveal to them
that they are now engaged,
1551
00:56:08,532 --> 00:56:09,865
And in two weeks,
1552
00:56:10,092 --> 00:56:11,700
They are gonna be
married at first sight.
1553
00:56:11,927 --> 00:56:13,777
- So exciting.
You know what, pepper?
1554
00:56:13,929 --> 00:56:18,356
We are going to change
their lives forever.
1555
00:56:18,376 --> 00:56:20,358
- We really are.
1556
00:56:20,378 --> 00:56:25,363
- ♪ oh, it's
a beautiful life ♪
1557
00:56:25,457 --> 00:56:27,716
- The first couple we're going
to surprise with the news
1558
00:56:27,868 --> 00:56:30,110
That they'll be getting
married at first sight
1559
00:56:30,129 --> 00:56:33,705
Is krysten and mitch.
1560
00:56:33,799 --> 00:56:36,725
- Krysten's a bundle of energy
with a caring heart,
1561
00:56:36,877 --> 00:56:39,210
A great job,
and zest for life.
1562
00:56:39,304 --> 00:56:40,637
- Mitch is passionate
1563
00:56:40,789 --> 00:56:43,123
About his career
and his beliefs.
1564
00:56:43,216 --> 00:56:45,216
And he's looking for a woman
1565
00:56:45,236 --> 00:56:47,069
Who will appreciate
his maturity
1566
00:56:47,220 --> 00:56:50,313
And his devotion
to an eco-friendly lifestyle.
1567
00:56:50,466 --> 00:56:52,816
We believe their similar
life philosophies,
1568
00:56:52,968 --> 00:56:55,302
Their love of the outdoors,
1569
00:56:55,320 --> 00:56:57,746
And their light-hearted,
outgoing personalities
1570
00:56:57,898 --> 00:57:00,707
Will create
the perfect california couple.
1571
00:57:01,902 --> 00:57:04,661
[upbeat rock music]
1572
00:57:04,755 --> 00:57:06,313
♪ ♪
1573
00:57:06,331 --> 00:57:07,664
Hey!
1574
00:57:07,758 --> 00:57:09,407
♪ ♪
1575
00:57:09,427 --> 00:57:10,926
[laughs]
1576
00:57:13,097 --> 00:57:14,488
- Plastic.
1577
00:57:14,581 --> 00:57:16,156
- Oh, that's what you do,
right.
1578
00:57:16,175 --> 00:57:17,266
- What's up, man?
1579
00:57:17,417 --> 00:57:19,083
- How you doing, buddy?
- Great.
1580
00:57:19,103 --> 00:57:20,510
- I want to talk
to you a little bit.
1581
00:57:20,663 --> 00:57:21,995
- Okay.
1582
00:57:22,014 --> 00:57:23,605
- I know that--look,
this is what you do,
1583
00:57:23,757 --> 00:57:25,107
I mean, like, the plastic.
1584
00:57:25,258 --> 00:57:26,775
You're really into your job.
- Yes.
1585
00:57:27,002 --> 00:57:28,351
- Is there room
to fit somebody into that?
1586
00:57:28,504 --> 00:57:29,853
- Yeah, I think there is.
1587
00:57:29,947 --> 00:57:32,005
There's definitely room
for a wife in my life.
1588
00:57:32,098 --> 00:57:33,690
You know, I work really hard.
1589
00:57:33,842 --> 00:57:35,358
And yeah,
I'm kind of a workaholic,
1590
00:57:35,453 --> 00:57:38,028
But at the same time,
I have priorities, you know?
1591
00:57:38,122 --> 00:57:40,030
And if I'm with someone,
that's gonna be my priority.
1592
00:57:40,124 --> 00:57:41,439
- Yeah.
1593
00:57:41,459 --> 00:57:42,941
- So I'm the kind of guy
who's like,
1594
00:57:43,035 --> 00:57:45,352
Once put in enough work
or commit to something enough,
1595
00:57:45,370 --> 00:57:47,537
I don't want to cut out
and cut and run then.
1596
00:57:47,631 --> 00:57:49,798
- I'm glad you told me that
because in two weeks,
1597
00:57:49,950 --> 00:57:52,116
Two weeks,
you're getting married.
1598
00:57:52,136 --> 00:57:54,285
- Wait, for reals?
- For reals.
1599
00:57:54,305 --> 00:57:56,287
- Like you found a match?
- I found a match.
1600
00:57:56,381 --> 00:57:58,381
- Oh, god.
- [laughs]
1601
00:57:58,534 --> 00:57:59,700
- [bleep]
1602
00:57:59,718 --> 00:58:02,035
- You are officially
off the market.
1603
00:58:02,054 --> 00:58:03,870
- [bleep], man.
1604
00:58:03,889 --> 00:58:05,539
I'm excited about the fact
1605
00:58:05,557 --> 00:58:07,298
That this is something
that could really work.
1606
00:58:07,318 --> 00:58:09,559
That's the best case
scenario in that,
1607
00:58:09,712 --> 00:58:12,321
It just sets me up
for a lifetime of love,
1608
00:58:12,472 --> 00:58:15,232
And marriage,
and kids, and all that,
1609
00:58:15,384 --> 00:58:17,384
You know, happily ever after.
1610
00:58:17,477 --> 00:58:20,070
- You are engaged
to be married.
1611
00:58:20,222 --> 00:58:22,146
- All right, well,
I got to get to work.
1612
00:58:22,241 --> 00:58:24,224
- You got to get to work, baby!
1613
00:58:24,243 --> 00:58:26,985
You got to get to work.
Here we go.
1614
00:58:27,004 --> 00:58:29,913
[upbeat music]
1615
00:58:30,065 --> 00:58:36,845
♪ ♪
1616
00:58:42,335 --> 00:58:44,928
- Oh, oh, my gosh!
1617
00:58:45,080 --> 00:58:47,523
Oh, my god, I'm speechless,
oh, my god.
1618
00:58:47,674 --> 00:58:49,173
- Oh, my gosh,
I know, I was--
1619
00:58:49,193 --> 00:58:51,175
- I am shook!
1620
00:58:51,195 --> 00:58:53,587
- First of all,
how has this been for you?
1621
00:58:53,680 --> 00:58:57,199
- Oh, it's been--
it's a roller coaster,
1622
00:58:57,350 --> 00:58:59,593
But overall,
I'm really excited
1623
00:58:59,686 --> 00:59:02,095
And ready for it
if I am chosen.
1624
00:59:02,114 --> 00:59:04,781
- Yeah, I mean, we think
you're a great person.
1625
00:59:04,875 --> 00:59:06,858
But I don't want to match
you with someone just
1626
00:59:06,877 --> 00:59:08,285
Because you're a great person.
1627
00:59:08,437 --> 00:59:09,878
- Okay.
1628
00:59:16,295 --> 00:59:17,719
- How is this been for you?
1629
00:59:17,946 --> 00:59:20,280
- Overall, I'm really excited
and ready for it
1630
00:59:20,299 --> 00:59:21,948
If I am chosen.
1631
00:59:21,967 --> 00:59:23,725
- Yeah, I mean, we think
you're a great person.
1632
00:59:23,877 --> 00:59:25,619
But I don't want to match
you with someone
1633
00:59:25,637 --> 00:59:26,803
Just because you're
a great person.
1634
00:59:26,955 --> 00:59:28,121
- Okay.
1635
00:59:28,214 --> 00:59:29,456
- We're trying
to figure out, okay,
1636
00:59:29,474 --> 00:59:31,141
What is it that we
can find about krysten
1637
00:59:31,293 --> 00:59:34,144
That would make her magical?
1638
00:59:34,296 --> 00:59:35,979
- Yeah.
1639
00:59:36,131 --> 00:59:38,890
I am a flawed woman,
1640
00:59:38,909 --> 00:59:44,228
But I feel like I have a lot
of good love to give.
1641
00:59:44,248 --> 00:59:45,322
- Right.
1642
00:59:45,416 --> 00:59:46,415
- And I'm gonna fight
1643
00:59:46,566 --> 00:59:50,419
For this marriage
and this love.
1644
00:59:52,739 --> 00:59:54,497
- Yeah, yeah,
I'm happy to hear that.
1645
00:59:54,650 --> 00:59:56,650
Honestly, I really am
because in two weeks,
1646
00:59:56,668 --> 00:59:57,834
You're getting married.
1647
00:59:57,928 --> 01:00:00,487
- [gasps]
ahh!
1648
01:00:00,505 --> 01:00:02,598
♪ ♪
1649
01:00:02,749 --> 01:00:04,825
You found someone for me?
- Yes.
1650
01:00:04,843 --> 01:00:08,770
- Oh, my god, oh, my god.
1651
01:00:08,922 --> 01:00:10,105
- Congratulations!
- Thank you!
1652
01:00:10,332 --> 01:00:11,181
Ahh!
1653
01:00:11,275 --> 01:00:13,925
I am so excited.
1654
01:00:14,019 --> 01:00:15,502
I'm ready for this.
1655
01:00:15,595 --> 01:00:18,447
This is my calling,
to be married.
1656
01:00:18,598 --> 01:00:21,024
I just have this feeling
that it's gonna work out.
1657
01:00:21,118 --> 01:00:22,342
I know this is a risk.
1658
01:00:22,435 --> 01:00:24,511
I'm well aware
that this is a risk.
1659
01:00:24,529 --> 01:00:27,364
This is a leap of faith
that I'm excited to take,
1660
01:00:27,516 --> 01:00:29,516
And I know
that the other person
1661
01:00:29,609 --> 01:00:31,201
At the end
of that altar is gonna want
1662
01:00:31,295 --> 01:00:32,853
To be married too,
1663
01:00:32,946 --> 01:00:34,779
And I'm really excited
about that.
1664
01:00:34,798 --> 01:00:36,131
- Take care, and we will talk.
1665
01:00:36,358 --> 01:00:37,466
- Okay.
1666
01:00:37,617 --> 01:00:38,800
- Bye, bye-bye.
- See you again soon!
1667
01:00:38,952 --> 01:00:40,636
[chuckles]
1668
01:00:40,787 --> 01:00:44,622
All right, let's get
this girl married, cheers!
1669
01:00:44,642 --> 01:00:48,885
- The next couple is
alexis and justin.
1670
01:00:48,979 --> 01:00:51,980
- Alexis is tired of dating
the wrong kind of guys
1671
01:00:52,207 --> 01:00:55,133
And wants to find a reliable,
successful man
1672
01:00:55,152 --> 01:00:58,545
Who can turn her on
intellectually and physically,
1673
01:00:58,563 --> 01:01:00,213
The taller the better.
1674
01:01:00,232 --> 01:01:02,473
- Justin is heads
above the rest
1675
01:01:02,567 --> 01:01:04,493
When it comes
to being a smart,
1676
01:01:04,720 --> 01:01:07,237
Confident, ambitious guy
who's ready to commit
1677
01:01:07,331 --> 01:01:09,906
To a loving partner.
1678
01:01:10,058 --> 01:01:13,727
We believe alexis' fun,
positive energy
1679
01:01:13,745 --> 01:01:15,729
Will be just what justin needs
1680
01:01:15,822 --> 01:01:18,231
To make him feel
supported and valued
1681
01:01:18,324 --> 01:01:19,490
As they build
their life together.
1682
01:01:19,584 --> 01:01:23,494
[dramatic music]
1683
01:01:23,514 --> 01:01:26,497
- ♪ it's not
for the faint of heart ♪
1684
01:01:26,517 --> 01:01:29,167
♪ no, it's not for everybody ♪
1685
01:01:29,186 --> 01:01:30,852
[doorbell rings]
1686
01:01:32,839 --> 01:01:35,524
- Oh, my gosh,
1687
01:01:35,675 --> 01:01:37,842
You guys have
to stop doing this to me.
1688
01:01:37,936 --> 01:01:39,936
- Well, we love the surprise.
- Hi.
1689
01:01:40,088 --> 01:01:42,756
- All right, so as you know,
1690
01:01:42,774 --> 01:01:44,107
I've been
on "married at first sight"
1691
01:01:44,201 --> 01:01:45,701
For a very long time.
1692
01:01:45,852 --> 01:01:49,353
What I've seen as maybe
the most important ingredient
1693
01:01:49,448 --> 01:01:51,707
Of success is commitment.
1694
01:01:51,934 --> 01:01:53,266
- Yeah.
1695
01:01:53,285 --> 01:01:55,043
- So I look
at your personal history.
1696
01:01:55,270 --> 01:01:58,271
The shape of it is
that you have no problem
1697
01:01:58,290 --> 01:02:00,457
Getting guys to love you.
1698
01:02:00,609 --> 01:02:04,127
So I need to know,
what makes you think now
1699
01:02:04,221 --> 01:02:06,446
You're ready to not run away?
1700
01:02:06,465 --> 01:02:07,889
- I'm tired of running.
1701
01:02:08,116 --> 01:02:09,391
I'm tired of running
from my emotions.
1702
01:02:09,618 --> 01:02:10,800
I'm tired of running
from my problems.
1703
01:02:10,894 --> 01:02:13,119
I'm tired of acting
like it doesn't matter
1704
01:02:13,213 --> 01:02:14,730
'cause it does,
and I'm so in love
1705
01:02:14,957 --> 01:02:19,550
With just commitment to myself,
to my job, to my world.
1706
01:02:19,644 --> 01:02:21,570
Like, I'm just
so committed, myself,
1707
01:02:21,797 --> 01:02:23,463
To so many different things
to where it's like,
1708
01:02:23,556 --> 01:02:24,573
I don't want
to be scared anymore.
1709
01:02:24,800 --> 01:02:26,241
I don't want
to run from anything anymore
1710
01:02:26,468 --> 01:02:27,968
'cause I never
considered myself a quitter,
1711
01:02:28,061 --> 01:02:31,638
But looking back,
some would say I was.
1712
01:02:31,656 --> 01:02:33,473
So I'm over it, you know?
1713
01:02:33,566 --> 01:02:35,658
I'm confronting
everything headfirst.
1714
01:02:35,811 --> 01:02:37,735
I can handle it.
I'm not giving up.
1715
01:02:37,829 --> 01:02:39,162
I'm not doing it.
1716
01:02:39,314 --> 01:02:41,572
- I think it's important
that you recognize
1717
01:02:41,666 --> 01:02:47,245
That your days of being
a runaway fiancée are over.
1718
01:02:47,264 --> 01:02:49,097
And it's especially important
1719
01:02:49,249 --> 01:02:51,082
Because you're gonna be
married in two weeks.
1720
01:02:51,176 --> 01:02:54,585
- Oh!
[laughs]
1721
01:02:54,679 --> 01:02:56,663
[upbeat music]
1722
01:02:56,681 --> 01:03:00,000
I almost peed
on this couch, y'all.
1723
01:03:00,018 --> 01:03:04,687
I got engaged.
I got engaged.
1724
01:03:04,840 --> 01:03:07,598
- Ooh!
All right.
1725
01:03:07,618 --> 01:03:10,118
- Oh, my gosh!
1726
01:03:10,270 --> 01:03:11,435
We're gonna rock this out.
1727
01:03:11,530 --> 01:03:13,696
We are going to ride
for each other.
1728
01:03:13,791 --> 01:03:16,458
I feel like I'm born again,
like a born-again virgin.
1729
01:03:16,685 --> 01:03:18,351
[laughs]
1730
01:03:18,370 --> 01:03:20,462
- All right, I think
my job here is done.
1731
01:03:20,689 --> 01:03:22,280
- Thank you so much.
1732
01:03:22,299 --> 01:03:23,632
- Oh, you're welcome, honey.
This is really great.
1733
01:03:23,783 --> 01:03:24,691
- Oh, my goodness.
1734
01:03:24,709 --> 01:03:26,117
♪ ♪
1735
01:03:26,136 --> 01:03:31,197
- ♪ you'll see
much better next time ♪
1736
01:03:31,216 --> 01:03:33,550
♪ ♪
1737
01:03:33,644 --> 01:03:35,477
- What is that?
1738
01:03:35,628 --> 01:03:37,720
Is that a bird?
You see that bird?
1739
01:03:37,873 --> 01:03:39,797
There's two of them.
1740
01:03:39,817 --> 01:03:42,633
Come here, come here.
1741
01:03:42,727 --> 01:03:44,468
You got to look that way.
1742
01:03:44,488 --> 01:03:46,470
Look that way.
1743
01:03:46,490 --> 01:03:49,491
Oh, [bleep]!
[laughs]
1744
01:03:49,718 --> 01:03:51,809
♪ ♪
1745
01:03:51,903 --> 01:03:53,311
- How you doing, man?
- I'm good, man.
1746
01:03:53,405 --> 01:03:54,329
How you doing?
- Good.
1747
01:03:54,480 --> 01:03:55,497
I want to talk
to you for a sec.
1748
01:03:55,648 --> 01:03:56,906
Sit, yeah.
1749
01:03:57,059 --> 01:03:58,667
We're coming down
to the wire, man.
1750
01:03:58,894 --> 01:04:00,168
This is where we have
to dig deep and ask,
1751
01:04:00,395 --> 01:04:02,504
You know, some
of the more serious questions.
1752
01:04:02,731 --> 01:04:04,840
Why are you ready now
at this point
1753
01:04:05,067 --> 01:04:07,734
To settle down
and come off the market?
1754
01:04:07,827 --> 01:04:09,493
- I want to share
my time, you know?
1755
01:04:09,588 --> 01:04:11,421
I want to share my finances.
1756
01:04:11,515 --> 01:04:14,683
I want to share my mind
and share my vulnerability.
1757
01:04:14,834 --> 01:04:16,351
I want to just--
1758
01:04:16,578 --> 01:04:17,668
I want to do all that
with somebody, you know?
1759
01:04:17,688 --> 01:04:22,006
- Yeah, this has really
been enlightening.
1760
01:04:22,100 --> 01:04:24,417
And it's really gets tough,
1761
01:04:24,510 --> 01:04:26,086
You know,
right down near the end,
1762
01:04:26,104 --> 01:04:29,089
Because we have
to start removing people.
1763
01:04:29,182 --> 01:04:31,032
And this is the hard part
'cause I hate
1764
01:04:31,259 --> 01:04:32,759
To disappoint people
and tell them, you know,
1765
01:04:32,852 --> 01:04:34,444
Whether or not
you're gonna be selected.
1766
01:04:34,538 --> 01:04:38,098
We want to match everybody,
but we can't.
1767
01:04:38,116 --> 01:04:39,523
You know?
- All right.
1768
01:04:39,618 --> 01:04:41,543
- You okay?
- Yeah, I'm good.
1769
01:04:41,770 --> 01:04:43,044
Just--I'm all right.
1770
01:04:43,196 --> 01:04:44,604
- What is it, man?
1771
01:04:44,697 --> 01:04:46,439
- I mean,
it's 20 people, you know?
1772
01:04:46,532 --> 01:04:47,957
And--
- well here's a good thing.
1773
01:04:48,110 --> 01:04:49,551
Here's a good thing, justin.
1774
01:04:49,702 --> 01:04:50,944
The good thing
about it is that you're
1775
01:04:51,037 --> 01:04:53,204
Getting married in two weeks.
1776
01:04:53,223 --> 01:04:55,539
[laughs]
1777
01:04:55,634 --> 01:04:59,636
- Man, pastor cal, y'all need--
1778
01:04:59,730 --> 01:05:01,471
That's exciting news.
1779
01:05:01,565 --> 01:05:03,806
That's exciting.
1780
01:05:03,901 --> 01:05:07,460
I can't believe y'all are
here seeing me crying.
1781
01:05:07,553 --> 01:05:09,145
- It's perfect.
Look, it's okay.
1782
01:05:09,297 --> 01:05:10,647
It takes a real man to cry.
1783
01:05:10,741 --> 01:05:12,056
Real men cry.
1784
01:05:12,075 --> 01:05:13,408
- Oh, my god.
1785
01:05:13,635 --> 01:05:14,725
♪ ♪
1786
01:05:14,745 --> 01:05:15,744
There it goes.
1787
01:05:15,971 --> 01:05:17,245
I'm really excited.
1788
01:05:17,472 --> 01:05:18,747
I want to scream
from the top of my lungs.
1789
01:05:18,974 --> 01:05:20,306
I'm getting married.
1790
01:05:20,400 --> 01:05:22,751
- Commitment starts today.
- Indeed.
1791
01:05:22,978 --> 01:05:25,253
I've been waiting
to get married for five years.
1792
01:05:25,480 --> 01:05:27,923
This is happening,
and it makes me happy.
1793
01:05:28,150 --> 01:05:29,240
It's like, we want
the exact same thing,
1794
01:05:29,259 --> 01:05:31,000
So how can it not
be successful?
1795
01:05:31,153 --> 01:05:32,743
I'm excited, I'm excited.
1796
01:05:32,837 --> 01:05:35,338
- Ah, all right, buddy.
- Thank you.
1797
01:05:35,490 --> 01:05:37,098
- Take care.
1798
01:05:37,325 --> 01:05:38,491
♪ ♪
1799
01:05:38,584 --> 01:05:40,268
- That surprise caught me.
1800
01:05:41,663 --> 01:05:44,105
- You got me good, girl.
You got me good.
1801
01:05:44,257 --> 01:05:45,273
I'm so mad at you.
1802
01:05:47,444 --> 01:05:49,852
- I just--it would've
been nice for a heads up.
1803
01:05:50,005 --> 01:05:52,172
You said trust you,
and it turned out well.
1804
01:05:52,190 --> 01:05:54,174
So I am gonna trust you,
so thank you.
1805
01:05:54,192 --> 01:05:55,742
♪ ♪
1806
01:06:00,624 --> 01:06:02,849
- The next couple
to surprise with the news
1807
01:06:02,867 --> 01:06:04,867
That they'll be getting
married at first sight
1808
01:06:04,962 --> 01:06:07,854
Is lindy and miguel.
1809
01:06:07,872 --> 01:06:09,706
- ♪ I used feel
like I was undercover ♪
1810
01:06:09,858 --> 01:06:11,691
- Miguel takes
his career seriously,
1811
01:06:11,710 --> 01:06:14,952
But he's also a self-described
comic book nerd,
1812
01:06:14,972 --> 01:06:17,547
Who's looking for the perfect
romantic sidekick.
1813
01:06:17,699 --> 01:06:19,808
- Lindy is open, outgoing,
1814
01:06:20,035 --> 01:06:21,959
And sometimes
a little over the top.
1815
01:06:21,979 --> 01:06:23,553
She's at a point
where she wants
1816
01:06:23,647 --> 01:06:26,964
Her personal life to match
her professional success.
1817
01:06:27,058 --> 01:06:30,634
We believe that miguel's
masculine yet sensitive nature
1818
01:06:30,654 --> 01:06:32,470
Will be the perfect balance
1819
01:06:32,489 --> 01:06:34,656
For lindy's
vivacious personality.
1820
01:06:34,883 --> 01:06:37,066
And their mutual passion
for adventure
1821
01:06:37,219 --> 01:06:39,810
And their more traditional
ideas of romance
1822
01:06:39,904 --> 01:06:43,740
Make these two a dynamic duo
that will go the distance.
1823
01:06:43,892 --> 01:06:49,487
♪ ♪
1824
01:06:49,506 --> 01:06:51,322
- Anything good?
1825
01:06:51,341 --> 01:06:53,566
- Hey.
[laughs]
1826
01:06:53,659 --> 01:06:56,252
Yeah, lots of good stuff,
actually.
1827
01:06:56,404 --> 01:06:58,254
- So I have bunch of questions.
1828
01:06:58,406 --> 01:07:01,516
But obviously, I'm finding you
in your happy place here.
1829
01:07:01,743 --> 01:07:03,018
- This is very much
my happy place, yeah.
1830
01:07:03,245 --> 01:07:05,762
I could--I mean, I have
invested hours of my life
1831
01:07:05,914 --> 01:07:07,338
Reading comic books.
1832
01:07:07,357 --> 01:07:09,749
- I'm looking
at all these superheroes,
1833
01:07:09,842 --> 01:07:12,252
And I'm trying to think,
you know,
1834
01:07:12,270 --> 01:07:14,011
Like batman over there.
1835
01:07:14,031 --> 01:07:16,347
- Right.
- He had his robin.
1836
01:07:16,366 --> 01:07:18,849
I suppose,
if it were you,
1837
01:07:18,869 --> 01:07:20,535
You'd have
to have your robinette.
1838
01:07:20,686 --> 01:07:22,945
- Right, yeah.
- And you know what?
1839
01:07:23,098 --> 01:07:25,040
I think we have one for you.
1840
01:07:25,267 --> 01:07:26,690
In two weeks,
you're gonna be married.
1841
01:07:26,785 --> 01:07:28,951
- Oh, my god, okay.
1842
01:07:29,104 --> 01:07:31,046
Uh...
- How are you feeling?
1843
01:07:31,273 --> 01:07:33,030
- Pretty overwhelmed,
not gonna lie,
1844
01:07:33,050 --> 01:07:37,201
Overcome with emotion,
super excited,
1845
01:07:37,220 --> 01:07:39,128
I've been
kind of dreaming about this.
1846
01:07:39,281 --> 01:07:40,871
This is all I've ever wanted.
1847
01:07:40,891 --> 01:07:42,390
I'm super excited
because she's probably
1848
01:07:42,542 --> 01:07:43,950
Someone super special,
1849
01:07:44,043 --> 01:07:45,709
And I can't wait to meet her.
1850
01:07:45,804 --> 01:07:48,212
To be told that I'm getting
married in a comic book shop,
1851
01:07:48,231 --> 01:07:52,716
This is like my happy place,
the place where, as a kid,
1852
01:07:52,736 --> 01:07:54,143
I found myself.
1853
01:07:54,296 --> 01:07:56,296
It's pretty special.
1854
01:07:56,314 --> 01:07:58,481
Cheers, thank you, sammy.
- How do you feel right now?
1855
01:07:58,575 --> 01:08:02,652
- I'm, like, the happiest
I've been in a minute.
1856
01:08:02,804 --> 01:08:05,638
Everything I've done has
led me to this point.
1857
01:08:05,731 --> 01:08:07,307
From this moment on
that I know,
1858
01:08:07,400 --> 01:08:10,143
Officially, I'm part of this.
1859
01:08:10,161 --> 01:08:11,994
We're in this together,
and let's see where it goes.
1860
01:08:12,147 --> 01:08:18,484
♪ ♪
1861
01:08:18,578 --> 01:08:20,169
- Dr. Pepper, hello.
- Hi!
1862
01:08:20,322 --> 01:08:21,579
- How are you?
- I'm good.
1863
01:08:21,673 --> 01:08:23,005
This is such a cute place.
1864
01:08:23,100 --> 01:08:24,766
So this is great.
1865
01:08:24,917 --> 01:08:27,493
This is part of your vintage,
thriftiness, spendthrift thing.
1866
01:08:27,512 --> 01:08:29,771
- Yes, just expressing myself,
and getting deals,
1867
01:08:29,998 --> 01:08:31,922
And saving the environment,
you know me.
1868
01:08:31,942 --> 01:08:34,167
- Well, I can tell
there's a fun part of you
1869
01:08:34,185 --> 01:08:36,277
Because of this sparkly dress
you picked out,
1870
01:08:36,504 --> 01:08:38,596
Which I think it
looks really good on.
1871
01:08:38,690 --> 01:08:41,507
And you know what else I
think would look good with it?
1872
01:08:41,526 --> 01:08:43,860
- What?
- A husband.
1873
01:08:43,954 --> 01:08:45,769
- Stop, are you serious?
1874
01:08:45,864 --> 01:08:46,937
- I'm real serious.
1875
01:08:47,031 --> 01:08:48,623
- Dr. Pepper, what?
1876
01:08:48,850 --> 01:08:51,775
- [laughing]
1877
01:08:51,870 --> 01:08:53,277
Are you really serious?
1878
01:08:53,296 --> 01:08:55,021
Am I getting married?
1879
01:08:55,039 --> 01:08:57,023
- Yes, you 100%
are getting married.
1880
01:08:57,116 --> 01:08:59,709
You have been
instantly engaged.
1881
01:08:59,803 --> 01:09:01,210
- Oh, my gosh, you have
to get down on one knee.
1882
01:09:01,304 --> 01:09:02,286
I'm just kidding.
1883
01:09:02,380 --> 01:09:04,213
- Me?
No, I'm taken.
1884
01:09:04,307 --> 01:09:07,291
- Marrying a stranger
is really terrifying.
1885
01:09:07,310 --> 01:09:08,551
- Ah!
1886
01:09:08,703 --> 01:09:10,645
- I'm risking a lot,
1887
01:09:10,796 --> 01:09:13,314
But I feel like the risk
is worth the reward.
1888
01:09:13,466 --> 01:09:15,391
- To the future.
- Cheers.
1889
01:09:15,543 --> 01:09:19,228
♪ ♪
1890
01:09:19,381 --> 01:09:20,897
Maybe I should move
this little dinky ring
1891
01:09:21,049 --> 01:09:25,551
Over to my ring finger.
1892
01:09:25,570 --> 01:09:27,478
My heart is beating so fast.
1893
01:09:27,572 --> 01:09:29,146
I'm getting married!
1894
01:09:29,240 --> 01:09:33,393
- Up next is stacia and nate.
1895
01:09:33,411 --> 01:09:36,229
- Stacia has worked hard
to achieve her success,
1896
01:09:36,247 --> 01:09:38,506
And she's ready
to find a confident man
1897
01:09:38,658 --> 01:09:41,992
Who can hold his own
with a powerful woman.
1898
01:09:42,012 --> 01:09:44,420
- Nate has been successful
in changing the course
1899
01:09:44,514 --> 01:09:47,182
Of his life to get
to where he is today.
1900
01:09:47,333 --> 01:09:49,091
He's established
in his own right
1901
01:09:49,186 --> 01:09:52,762
And enjoys the finer things
in life and love.
1902
01:09:52,914 --> 01:09:55,765
These two are both
ambitious and motivated
1903
01:09:55,917 --> 01:09:57,600
To go after what they want.
1904
01:09:57,694 --> 01:10:00,269
And their shared vision
for a future family
1905
01:10:00,363 --> 01:10:04,257
Will surely set them
on the path to happiness.
1906
01:10:04,275 --> 01:10:07,260
[upbeat music]
1907
01:10:07,278 --> 01:10:10,705
♪ ♪
1908
01:10:10,856 --> 01:10:13,766
- What's up, speed racer?
Slow down, slow down.
1909
01:10:13,785 --> 01:10:15,117
- Oh, my god, what the hell?
1910
01:10:15,212 --> 01:10:17,045
What's going on?
1911
01:10:17,196 --> 01:10:18,862
- How you doing, man?
1912
01:10:18,957 --> 01:10:20,122
- Oh, man, I'm doing good.
1913
01:10:20,275 --> 01:10:22,108
- I want to know,
how do you know
1914
01:10:22,201 --> 01:10:24,460
You're ready to be a husband?
1915
01:10:24,554 --> 01:10:26,221
- It's a gut feeling,
you know what I mean?
1916
01:10:26,372 --> 01:10:28,872
Like, I'm 34.
I'm able to provide.
1917
01:10:28,892 --> 01:10:30,783
You know,
I have my stuff together...
1918
01:10:30,876 --> 01:10:32,468
- Okay.
- You know, and just level up.
1919
01:10:32,620 --> 01:10:34,395
- I'm trying
to figure out here,
1920
01:10:34,547 --> 01:10:37,290
What is your level
of flexibility,
1921
01:10:37,308 --> 01:10:39,383
Your level of adaptability?
1922
01:10:39,402 --> 01:10:41,719
- I'm able
to evolve with someone.
1923
01:10:41,813 --> 01:10:43,145
That's what I want to do.
1924
01:10:43,240 --> 01:10:45,406
So when it comes
to flexibility, that's a yes.
1925
01:10:45,558 --> 01:10:47,075
- Yeah, okay.
- I'm flexible.
1926
01:10:47,302 --> 01:10:48,484
- That's really,
really important, man,
1927
01:10:48,578 --> 01:10:50,745
Because you're
getting married in two weeks.
1928
01:10:50,972 --> 01:10:52,805
- Say what?
1929
01:10:52,898 --> 01:10:55,141
You're joking.
- I don't joke.
1930
01:10:55,234 --> 01:10:56,251
- Is this for real
happening right now?
1931
01:10:56,402 --> 01:10:58,494
- You are getting
married two weeks.
1932
01:10:58,646 --> 01:11:00,646
♪ ♪
1933
01:11:00,665 --> 01:11:01,905
- Let's go!
1934
01:11:01,925 --> 01:11:03,574
That's what I'm
talking about, yeah!
1935
01:11:03,593 --> 01:11:04,650
- We're gonna celebrate here.
1936
01:11:04,669 --> 01:11:06,261
- This is nuts.
1937
01:11:06,488 --> 01:11:07,336
I'm about to be
somebody's husband.
1938
01:11:07,489 --> 01:11:09,155
I feel like
I'm a unique person,
1939
01:11:09,173 --> 01:11:10,840
So she has to be unique
1940
01:11:10,934 --> 01:11:12,433
Because she's
doing this crazy [bleep] too.
1941
01:11:12,585 --> 01:11:14,844
I already think that's,
like, special in itself.
1942
01:11:14,996 --> 01:11:16,512
- Absolutely, it is.
1943
01:11:16,664 --> 01:11:18,514
- To my future wife,
I'm looking forward
1944
01:11:18,608 --> 01:11:22,443
To getting to know you
personally, spiritually.
1945
01:11:22,670 --> 01:11:24,670
I'm looking
for my best friend.
1946
01:11:24,764 --> 01:11:27,340
It's really time
for me to be a husband,
1947
01:11:27,358 --> 01:11:29,358
And I hope you're ready too.
1948
01:11:29,511 --> 01:11:31,527
- All right, my man,
well, look, I will see you.
1949
01:11:31,679 --> 01:11:32,770
This is about to go down, baby.
1950
01:11:32,789 --> 01:11:34,030
It is.
1951
01:11:34,182 --> 01:11:35,531
- San diego style,
let's get it.
1952
01:11:35,625 --> 01:11:38,293
- San diego, all right,
take care yourself.
1953
01:11:38,444 --> 01:11:40,703
- Man, see you later.
- All right.
1954
01:11:40,855 --> 01:11:43,798
- Thanks for the surprise.
- Absolutely.
1955
01:11:44,025 --> 01:11:46,116
- ♪ raise your glass,
don't be last ♪
1956
01:11:46,136 --> 01:11:47,468
♪ shake it
on the dance floor ♪
1957
01:11:47,695 --> 01:11:50,454
♪ dj, hey, dj,
that's my song ♪
1958
01:11:50,473 --> 01:11:52,456
♪ play it loud
all night long ♪
1959
01:11:52,475 --> 01:11:55,601
♪ I want
to rule the dance floor ♪
1960
01:11:56,704 --> 01:11:58,387
- Hello.
1961
01:11:58,540 --> 01:11:59,705
- What's going on?
There's somebody in there.
1962
01:11:59,724 --> 01:12:00,723
- Hi.
- Hi.
1963
01:12:00,817 --> 01:12:02,800
[laughter]
1964
01:12:02,819 --> 01:12:03,985
- Hi, dr. Pepper.
1965
01:12:04,136 --> 01:12:06,303
- Hello, sorry.
Hi, I'm pepper.
1966
01:12:06,323 --> 01:12:07,971
- I'm tamika.
Nice to meet you.
1967
01:12:08,066 --> 01:12:10,140
- Nice to meet you too.
All right, let's take a selfie.
1968
01:12:10,234 --> 01:12:11,384
And then we'll talk.
1969
01:12:11,477 --> 01:12:12,552
- I will leave
y'all to it then.
1970
01:12:12,570 --> 01:12:13,811
- Okay.
- All right.
1971
01:12:13,830 --> 01:12:14,996
- We'll do this great.
1972
01:12:15,147 --> 01:12:16,739
All right, my first
double selfie.
1973
01:12:16,833 --> 01:12:18,741
♪ ♪
1974
01:12:18,893 --> 01:12:20,651
The first thing I've
been hearing about you...
1975
01:12:20,745 --> 01:12:22,912
- I hope it's good.
1976
01:12:23,064 --> 01:12:25,898
- It sounds to me like
you make a lot of money,
1977
01:12:25,917 --> 01:12:27,583
Which is a great thing.
1978
01:12:27,735 --> 01:12:28,843
- Thank you.
1979
01:12:29,070 --> 01:12:32,421
- But the chances
that we've got somebody
1980
01:12:32,515 --> 01:12:37,018
Who is making as much
or more than you are small.
1981
01:12:37,169 --> 01:12:40,246
Is that gonna cause you
to disrespect someone?
1982
01:12:40,339 --> 01:12:42,172
- As long as they can,
you know,
1983
01:12:42,192 --> 01:12:43,916
Take care of themselves,
1984
01:12:44,009 --> 01:12:46,194
And their bills
are paid on time,
1985
01:12:46,345 --> 01:12:49,088
And take me out on a date,
that's all that really matters.
1986
01:12:49,181 --> 01:12:50,940
- It sounds
incredibly sensible.
1987
01:12:51,092 --> 01:12:52,942
I have to tell you,
I've never been in one
1988
01:12:53,094 --> 01:12:55,428
Of these selfie rooms before.
1989
01:12:55,446 --> 01:12:59,040
And I don't think you
should do selfies anymore.
1990
01:12:59,191 --> 01:13:01,767
I think you should change,
1991
01:13:01,786 --> 01:13:05,046
And I think you should do them
with your husband.
1992
01:13:07,550 --> 01:13:08,049
- What?
1993
01:13:17,394 --> 01:13:18,634
- What?
1994
01:13:18,728 --> 01:13:19,952
- Well, your husband,
1995
01:13:20,045 --> 01:13:21,120
You're gonna be
married in two weeks.
1996
01:13:21,213 --> 01:13:22,045
- Oh, my god.
- Isn't that great?
1997
01:13:22,065 --> 01:13:24,214
- Oh, my god.
1998
01:13:24,308 --> 01:13:26,459
I'm, like, gonna to cry.
- That's okay.
1999
01:13:26,552 --> 01:13:28,736
[laughter]
2000
01:13:28,888 --> 01:13:30,554
Isn't it?
- Oh, my god!
2001
01:13:30,573 --> 01:13:31,906
I need a tissue.
2002
01:13:32,057 --> 01:13:33,983
- There you go.
Come on over here.
2003
01:13:34,077 --> 01:13:37,394
- Yo, yo, I'm engaged.
2004
01:13:37,488 --> 01:13:39,580
- You're engaged?
2005
01:13:39,807 --> 01:13:42,491
- This is the end-all,
be-all for me.
2006
01:13:42,644 --> 01:13:44,085
I want to be a wife.
2007
01:13:44,236 --> 01:13:46,421
Is my makeup okay, though?
2008
01:13:46,572 --> 01:13:47,980
Okay, I cried.
2009
01:13:48,073 --> 01:13:49,498
When was the last time
you seen tears?
2010
01:13:49,651 --> 01:13:52,334
And I'm basically
risking it all.
2011
01:13:52,487 --> 01:13:54,762
I am taking my life,
2012
01:13:54,989 --> 01:13:57,765
And I am living outside
of my comfort zone.
2013
01:13:57,992 --> 01:14:00,268
So I'm hoping that
this is a great return.
2014
01:14:00,419 --> 01:14:01,844
It's real.
2015
01:14:01,996 --> 01:14:04,013
I'm getting married.
2016
01:14:04,165 --> 01:14:11,028
♪ ♪
2017
01:14:12,840 --> 01:14:16,008
- We have just one final couple
to surprise with the news
2018
01:14:16,101 --> 01:14:17,768
That they'll be getting married
at first sight
2019
01:14:17,787 --> 01:14:19,195
In just two weeks,
2020
01:14:19,289 --> 01:14:23,032
Morgan and binh.
2021
01:14:23,184 --> 01:14:25,776
- Morgan's got
an independent spirit,
2022
01:14:25,870 --> 01:14:28,688
But she's ready to find
a husband who can be her equal
2023
01:14:28,781 --> 01:14:31,040
And provide
a strong partnership.
2024
01:14:31,192 --> 01:14:33,209
- Binh is particular.
2025
01:14:33,361 --> 01:14:34,877
He knows what he wants,
2026
01:14:34,971 --> 01:14:37,287
And he's motivated to
improve his life physically,
2027
01:14:37,381 --> 01:14:39,474
Financially, and romantically.
2028
01:14:39,701 --> 01:14:42,643
We think morgan
and binh will both value
2029
01:14:42,795 --> 01:14:45,146
Each other's
practical sensibilities.
2030
01:14:45,373 --> 01:14:48,057
These two are both ready
to fight for love.
2031
01:14:48,151 --> 01:14:51,060
[upbeat rock music]
2032
01:14:51,212 --> 01:14:58,075
♪ ♪
2033
01:15:01,889 --> 01:15:03,906
- Well, that's really great.
2034
01:15:04,000 --> 01:15:05,224
- Oh, hi.
- Hi!
2035
01:15:05,243 --> 01:15:07,168
- You coming to join me?
- No!
2036
01:15:07,319 --> 01:15:08,744
- 'cause we really have
to talk.
2037
01:15:08,896 --> 01:15:10,004
- Okay.
- Okay.
2038
01:15:10,155 --> 01:15:12,898
- Let's talk.
2039
01:15:12,992 --> 01:15:16,402
- So a lot of fun
to come here--
2040
01:15:16,420 --> 01:15:18,254
- Yes.
- But serious questions.
2041
01:15:18,406 --> 01:15:19,922
I think one of them,
2042
01:15:20,074 --> 01:15:22,016
Which is such
an admirable thing about you,
2043
01:15:22,243 --> 01:15:25,594
Is how much you've done
by yourself
2044
01:15:25,688 --> 01:15:27,413
For your own welfare,
2045
01:15:27,506 --> 01:15:30,358
Setting up a life with nothing
2046
01:15:30,509 --> 01:15:32,418
That anyone else
prepared for you.
2047
01:15:32,436 --> 01:15:36,272
But I keep wondering,
is there any room for the kind
2048
01:15:36,366 --> 01:15:38,607
Of bend you need for marriage?
2049
01:15:38,701 --> 01:15:40,034
Where's the give in you?
2050
01:15:40,261 --> 01:15:42,686
- Yeah, well, I think
it's because I've come
2051
01:15:42,780 --> 01:15:45,522
To such a good place that it's
kind of at the point in my life
2052
01:15:45,542 --> 01:15:48,617
Where I am completely open
to that change,
2053
01:15:48,711 --> 01:15:50,193
And I'm ready for it.
2054
01:15:50,213 --> 01:15:53,105
I'm just so stable
in where I'm at in life
2055
01:15:53,124 --> 01:15:57,051
And who I am as a person that
letting someone in like that,
2056
01:15:57,278 --> 01:15:59,612
I'm completely prepared
for at this point.
2057
01:15:59,630 --> 01:16:02,798
Going into this, I've already,
you know, told myself,
2058
01:16:02,892 --> 01:16:05,467
I need to come into this
completely open-minded.
2059
01:16:05,620 --> 01:16:07,469
I want someone
who can be my best friend,
2060
01:16:07,564 --> 01:16:10,623
And be there, and also be
my partner at the same time.
2061
01:16:10,716 --> 01:16:12,567
- Do you have
sparring partners here?
2062
01:16:12,794 --> 01:16:14,051
- Mm-hmm.
2063
01:16:14,070 --> 01:16:15,736
- What are the rules
for sparring partners?
2064
01:16:15,963 --> 01:16:18,573
- I mean, you can't
go too hard, too fast,
2065
01:16:18,800 --> 01:16:20,390
Making sure
there's that mutual respect
2066
01:16:20,484 --> 01:16:21,742
There to where you're, okay,
2067
01:16:21,969 --> 01:16:23,393
I'm not gonna completely
beat you up right now.
2068
01:16:23,487 --> 01:16:25,729
- Sounds like good training,
in some ways, for marriage.
2069
01:16:25,748 --> 01:16:27,139
- It is.
2070
01:16:27,232 --> 01:16:29,417
- Okay, I'm gonna
hang up my gloves.
2071
01:16:29,568 --> 01:16:33,236
And I'm glad you
took yours off.
2072
01:16:33,331 --> 01:16:35,164
[both laughing]
2073
01:16:35,316 --> 01:16:38,167
And I want you to keep 'em off
for your husband...
2074
01:16:38,319 --> 01:16:39,652
- Okay.
2075
01:16:39,670 --> 01:16:40,577
- Because you are going
2076
01:16:40,671 --> 01:16:42,838
To get married in two weeks.
2077
01:16:42,932 --> 01:16:44,414
- Really?
[laughs]
2078
01:16:44,434 --> 01:16:45,749
- Would I lie?
2079
01:16:45,843 --> 01:16:47,343
Would I lie on that?
No.
2080
01:16:47,437 --> 01:16:49,829
- Oh, my god,
you actually found someone.
2081
01:16:49,847 --> 01:16:51,755
- I did.
- Oh, my god.
2082
01:16:51,849 --> 01:16:53,757
- We did.
- That's crazy.
2083
01:16:53,776 --> 01:16:55,592
Okay, yeah!
[laughs]
2084
01:16:55,686 --> 01:16:57,445
Let's get married in two weeks.
2085
01:16:57,672 --> 01:16:59,614
When I get married
to this man in two weeks,
2086
01:16:59,841 --> 01:17:03,175
I need to fully
let myself have no walls,
2087
01:17:03,268 --> 01:17:05,861
Guards down,
come into this open-minded
2088
01:17:06,013 --> 01:17:07,529
With an open heart.
2089
01:17:07,624 --> 01:17:11,367
- Here's to marriage and love.
- Cheers, thank you.
2090
01:17:11,461 --> 01:17:13,110
- And don't hurt him.
- No
2091
01:17:13,129 --> 01:17:16,113
[laughs]
I won't, I promise.
2092
01:17:16,132 --> 01:17:17,948
I know I'm extremely caring.
2093
01:17:18,042 --> 01:17:19,875
I'm also extremely loyal.
2094
01:17:19,969 --> 01:17:22,211
So I hope he sees how much
I'm willing to fight for him
2095
01:17:22,305 --> 01:17:25,139
Because I really do want
to make this marriage work.
2096
01:17:25,290 --> 01:17:27,892
- Congratulations.
- Thank you so much.
2097
01:17:30,037 --> 01:17:31,812
- Whoo!
2098
01:17:32,039 --> 01:17:38,819
♪ ♪
2099
01:17:47,221 --> 01:17:48,329
- What's up, pastor cal?
- What's up, baller?
2100
01:17:48,556 --> 01:17:50,665
- You said we're gonna move.
Are you ready?
2101
01:17:50,892 --> 01:17:52,482
- How you doing, man?
- Good, good.
2102
01:17:52,502 --> 01:17:53,726
You came
to challenge me one on one?
2103
01:17:53,819 --> 01:17:55,002
- I want to talk
to you for a minute.
2104
01:17:55,154 --> 01:17:57,246
Tell me,
'cause I know you are--
2105
01:17:57,398 --> 01:17:59,248
You're tight
with a dollar, man.
2106
01:17:59,400 --> 01:18:01,066
- Yeah, yeah, I am.
2107
01:18:01,085 --> 01:18:03,511
Yeah, yeah,
I am about financial freedom
2108
01:18:03,738 --> 01:18:04,995
And all this stuff,
2109
01:18:05,014 --> 01:18:06,496
But I also like
to have fun along the way.
2110
01:18:06,516 --> 01:18:08,182
- Right, absolutely, well,
the good news, though, man,
2111
01:18:08,409 --> 01:18:11,427
With you, though,
is that you actually
2112
01:18:11,521 --> 01:18:15,597
Are already a champion
2113
01:18:15,750 --> 01:18:17,340
Because you're
getting married in two weeks.
2114
01:18:17,360 --> 01:18:18,934
- Are you serious?
2115
01:18:19,028 --> 01:18:20,419
I'm going to--so what is this?
2116
01:18:20,438 --> 01:18:22,697
This is the--
I hit the buzzer beater?
2117
01:18:22,848 --> 01:18:26,258
- You hit
the buzzer beater, baby.
2118
01:18:26,351 --> 01:18:28,777
- I appreciate it, pastor.
2119
01:18:28,930 --> 01:18:30,262
- What's going on
in your mind right now?
2120
01:18:30,355 --> 01:18:32,540
- I don't know
'cause I'm engaged.
2121
01:18:32,691 --> 01:18:35,209
I'm a fiancé.
- You are a fiancé, dude.
2122
01:18:35,436 --> 01:18:36,877
- Dang, I don't even know
what finger it goes on.
2123
01:18:37,029 --> 01:18:38,938
Is it this finger?
- [laughing]
2124
01:18:39,031 --> 01:18:40,530
I don't even know.
- It's that one.
2125
01:18:40,550 --> 01:18:42,032
It's that one.
2126
01:18:42,051 --> 01:18:45,052
- Pastor cal came
and just changed my world.
2127
01:18:45,204 --> 01:18:48,447
Just thinking of all the times
that it didn't work out,
2128
01:18:48,540 --> 01:18:50,725
And now having the chance
for it to all work out
2129
01:18:50,952 --> 01:18:53,227
Is just something
that is a blessing.
2130
01:18:53,454 --> 01:18:54,711
- You think your mom
want to hear right now?
2131
01:18:54,731 --> 01:18:56,063
- I don't know
if she'll answer.
2132
01:18:56,290 --> 01:18:57,639
But we can try I guess.
- Want to give it a shot?
2133
01:18:57,734 --> 01:18:58,899
- Yeah, we'll give it a shot.
- Let's give it a shot, man.
2134
01:18:59,051 --> 01:18:59,883
Yeah.
- Okay.
2135
01:18:59,902 --> 01:19:00,976
- Hi, binh.
2136
01:19:01,128 --> 01:19:02,628
- [speaking vietnamese]
2137
01:19:02,646 --> 01:19:04,221
- [speaking vietnamese]
2138
01:19:04,315 --> 01:19:06,389
- Yeah, remember when I talked
to you about the show?
2139
01:19:06,409 --> 01:19:07,742
- Oh, yeah.
2140
01:19:07,969 --> 01:19:09,651
- Yeah, so how do you
feel about me marrying
2141
01:19:09,746 --> 01:19:11,320
Somebody I don't know?
2142
01:19:11,414 --> 01:19:14,139
- Um, excited.
2143
01:19:14,233 --> 01:19:15,657
- Excited?
- And nervous.
2144
01:19:15,810 --> 01:19:18,235
- Excited and nervous, yeah.
I'm getting married.
2145
01:19:18,329 --> 01:19:19,645
Pastor cal is here.
2146
01:19:19,738 --> 01:19:21,238
- Hi, mom!
- He's excited.
2147
01:19:21,257 --> 01:19:23,907
Yeah, so I promise
to make you guys proud.
2148
01:19:24,001 --> 01:19:25,150
I love you so much.
2149
01:19:25,169 --> 01:19:27,261
- We love you so much.
2150
01:19:31,250 --> 01:19:33,768
- Okay.
[speaking vietnamese].
2151
01:19:33,995 --> 01:19:35,828
- Awesome, my man,
well, look, dude--
2152
01:19:35,921 --> 01:19:37,104
- That went better
than I expected.
2153
01:19:37,256 --> 01:19:39,181
[laughter]
2154
01:19:39,333 --> 01:19:40,499
- All right, buddy.
- All right, pastor.
2155
01:19:40,518 --> 01:19:41,591
- Take care of yourself.
- Thanks for everything.
2156
01:19:41,685 --> 01:19:42,851
I appreciate it,
see you soon, hopefully.
2157
01:19:42,945 --> 01:19:44,111
- You absolutely will.
2158
01:19:44,263 --> 01:19:46,280
- Yay, oh, let's go, dude.
2159
01:19:46,507 --> 01:19:49,675
- Thank you, thank you
for everything, thank you.
2160
01:19:49,693 --> 01:19:52,102
- Next week on
"married at first sight"
2161
01:19:52,121 --> 01:19:53,287
Kick-off special...
2162
01:19:53,438 --> 01:19:55,014
- We are back at the start
2163
01:19:55,107 --> 01:19:56,773
Of a new "married
at first sight" season
2164
01:19:56,793 --> 01:19:58,183
In san diego.
2165
01:19:58,277 --> 01:20:00,127
- ♪ it's your wedding day ♪
2166
01:20:00,279 --> 01:20:03,872
- We'll get to know all five
san diego couples even better,
2167
01:20:04,025 --> 01:20:07,376
As we explore who they are
and what makes them tick.
2168
01:20:07,470 --> 01:20:10,287
- I was made for marriage.
I'm ready for my love story.
2169
01:20:10,381 --> 01:20:13,532
- We'll predict which matches
will have a bright future...
2170
01:20:13,625 --> 01:20:15,625
- I think they're cute
as a couple.
2171
01:20:15,645 --> 01:20:17,703
- This love will work.
This love is alive.
2172
01:20:17,721 --> 01:20:20,539
- And which ones will fail
to find a spark.
2173
01:20:20,632 --> 01:20:21,874
- I'm gonna have
to stick with my gut
2174
01:20:21,892 --> 01:20:23,058
On this one and say no.
2175
01:20:23,152 --> 01:20:24,893
- Absolutely not.
2176
01:20:25,046 --> 01:20:26,803
- We'll have some
exclusive sneak peeks
2177
01:20:26,897 --> 01:20:27,988
From the upcoming season.
2178
01:20:28,140 --> 01:20:29,048
- That's what I'm
talking about.
2179
01:20:29,066 --> 01:20:30,473
- You better buckle up.
2180
01:20:30,493 --> 01:20:32,234
It's about to be a ride.
2181
01:20:32,328 --> 01:20:34,887
- And we'll be joined
by some very special guests
2182
01:20:34,905 --> 01:20:36,405
That you do not want to miss.
2183
01:20:36,557 --> 01:20:38,557
- Could there be a romantic
future for you and lindsey?
2184
01:20:38,576 --> 01:20:40,075
- Um...
2185
01:20:40,227 --> 01:20:42,411
- We're here now, let's go.
2186
01:20:42,505 --> 01:20:46,065
- And in two weeks,
the san diego weddings begin.
2187
01:20:46,083 --> 01:20:48,325
- Would you please stand?
2188
01:20:48,344 --> 01:20:50,736
- I am freaking out right now.
2189
01:20:50,829 --> 01:20:52,404
- [bleep].
What the [bleep] am I doing?
2190
01:20:52,423 --> 01:20:53,830
- Did I do the right thing?
2191
01:20:53,850 --> 01:20:56,592
[crying]
2192
01:20:56,686 --> 01:20:58,243
- You got this, mitch.
2193
01:20:58,262 --> 01:20:59,745
I'm taking a huge risk,
2194
01:20:59,838 --> 01:21:01,430
Putting everything
on the line.
2195
01:21:01,582 --> 01:21:04,600
- I'm shocked.
- I want to finally meet her.
2196
01:21:04,752 --> 01:21:06,176
- I'm starting
to get really nervous now.
2197
01:21:06,270 --> 01:21:08,195
It's terrifying.
2198
01:21:08,422 --> 01:21:10,347
- It's a different type
of nerves that just hit.
2199
01:21:10,441 --> 01:21:12,015
Oh, I gotta try not to cry.
2200
01:21:12,034 --> 01:21:13,759
- Oh, my god.
2201
01:21:13,777 --> 01:21:16,762
[dramatic music]
2202
01:21:16,780 --> 01:21:21,000
♪ ♪