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- I'm getting married.
Oh, my god.
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- I know I'm gonna
fall in love with her.
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I know for a fact I'm gonna
fall in love with her.
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- He's a freak in the sheets.
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[dramatic music]
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- Ten singles
are about to meet
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For the very first time.
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- I don't know
what he looks like.
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- They will legally marry
and commit their lives
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To a complete stranger.
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- I have not told my dad.
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I'm gonna tell him
on the wedding day.
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♪ ♪
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- Once the couples say I do,
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There's only one way out,
and that's divorce.
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- Did I do the right thing?
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[sobbing]
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♪ ♪
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- We're in san diego.
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- It's truly happening.
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- And this
is the biggest...
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- I am freaking out right now.
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- Most shocking "married
at first sight" season
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In history.
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- Why didn't anybody
talk me out of this?
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- We, the experts
use rigorous interviews,
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Data collection,
and social science
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To match five couples who will
be married at first sight.
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In two weeks,
you're getting married.
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Congratulations.
- Thank you. [screams]
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- Oh, my god.
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I'm marrying a complete
stranger, but I don't care.
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This is like the day that I've
been waiting for all my life.
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I'm going to be a whole wife.
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- And tonight,
our singles will prepare
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For their wedding...
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- God, who is she?
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[all cheering]
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- Celebrate their bachelor
and bachelorette parties...
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- Get on your knees.
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All:
Whoa!
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- And prepare
to walk down the aisle...
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- What the [bleep] am I doing?
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- And meet the spouse
they have never seen before.
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- Oh, [bleep].
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- You got this, mitch.
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I'm taking a huge risk,
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Putting everything
on the line.
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- We're gonna get
married today.
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I'm a daddy's girl,
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So if he doesn't approve
of this, I'll be devastated.
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- I think you're insane.
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- I'm starting to get
really nervous now.
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It's terrifying.
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- It's a different type
of nerve that just hit.
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Oh, that's gonna crack.
- Oh, my god.
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♪ ♪
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- Oh, [bleep].
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- ♪ it's all or nothing ♪
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- This is
"married at first sight."
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- ♪ it's all worth the wait ♪
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♪ ♪
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♪ it's all or nothing ♪
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[upbeat music]
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- ♪ chasing birds and bees ♪
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♪ dancing in the sea ♪
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- We use scientific methods
to match ten singles
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And reveal to them that
they'll be getting
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Legally married
in just two weeks.
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- Hey, broski.
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- Now it's time
to break the news
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To their family and friends.
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- Hi, mom.
- Hi.
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- How are you?
- Good.
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- As this is not
the traditional way
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To get married...
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- Hey, cheers to a good night.
- Yeah.
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- This news could be a
fantastic surprise to some...
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- Oh, what's up, man.
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- And a major shock to others.
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- The first couple
is lindy and miguel.
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The ultimate romantic, miguel,
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Is ready to sweep the person
who becomes his wife
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Off her feet.
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An open-hearted lindy is ready
to leave the commitment-phobes
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And the dating apps
behind and find herself a man
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Who's certain
he's ready for forever.
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- I am going to go
tell my friends
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That I'm getting married.
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This is a huge decision,
and it's pretty scary
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To do without
the people closest to you.
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So I really need
their support today.
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Definitely.
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- Oh, yay, lindy's here.
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- Hey.
- What's up, girl?
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- We ordered you
a plate already.
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- Oh, perfect.
You guys know me so well.
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[all laugh]
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So you guys have been through
all my crazy terrible
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Dating app experiences.
- Yeah.
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- And I'm definitely
ready to settle down.
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I'm so sick of these boys.
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- We get it.
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- You know, there's no men.
I want a man.
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Some of you know I've been
like in this long
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Application process
and working with the experts
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As far as like trying to
find a match and everything,
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And they found me a match.
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[all cheering]
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- That's so exciting!
- You're gonna have a husband!
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- ♪ oh, oh-oh, oh ♪
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♪ ♪
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♪ oh, oh-oh, oh ♪
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- I feel pretty awkward
most of the time
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Because I'm an
anxious overthinker.
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Well, actually,
I currently don't feel
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Like I'm an overthinker.
I don't know.
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Now I'm overthinking it.
[laughter]
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♪ ♪
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I grew up really sheltered.
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Like, I'm not kidding you,
my eighth grade
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Graduating class was me
and one other girl.
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I was raised
a seventh day adventist,
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Which is a denomination
of christianity.
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And they're just very strict,
like, rules on, like, jewelry
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And no dancing,
which was hard because
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I'm definitely, like,
a free spirit.
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♪ ♪
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Because of my
religious upbringing,
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Dating has been
horrible for me.
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My mom, you know,
really enforced,
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Like, no sex before marriage.
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And then I have, you know,
like, the one-night stand,
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Which is, like, insane,
and just stuff like that,
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Which is normal
in your early 20s,
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But if you've never seen that
and no one around you
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Has done it, it feels crazy.
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So it's kind of just, like,
"jekyll and hyde"
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In my head all the time.
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It's like,
what would the church say?
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Like, screw the church.
[laughs]
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♪ ♪
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I am a physical therapist.
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I have a clinical doctorate.
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In the hospital,
my favorite thing to do
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Is ask patients
about their spouse
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And how long
they've been married.
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I'm always like, "you've been
married for 38 years?"
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Like, "okay,
what's the secret?"
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Because I am
a really bad picker.
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I pick men who are
emotionally unavailable
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And who are not ready
for the level of commitment
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That I'm looking for.
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♪ ♪
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I'm ready to start
my life with someone
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And know that
they're already committed
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To doing that with someone
without ever meeting them.
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I'm just ready for a real man.
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I want a man.
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- Make sure you tell him
about when you start
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To get hungry, 'cause girl--
- that's what I was gonna say!
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- When you start
to shut down, you shut down.
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- I get crazy.
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- Can you have him wait at the
altar with a meal for you?
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- Honestly.
- Just like a baguette.
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- He has to be good at,
like, handling confrontation
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'cause I feel like
your emotions
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Can get heightened.
- Yes.
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- And to have somebody
that's, like, can be able
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To be calm enough
to, like, talk you through it.
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If you're like, "oh, my god,
I'm so irrationally mad
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About this one little thing."
- yes.
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I don't want somebody
to escalate and, like,
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Just kind of go down a wormhole
of, like, what-ifs and anxiety
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And all that stuff.
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- Lindy's a pretty
emotional person
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And I think sometimes that
can get the best of her.
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She always means well,
but it--she can
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Get a little crazy sometimes.
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- You're so great, and, like,
you deserve someone
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Who loves you, and, like,
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I feel like you've been
looking for--for a long time,
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And like now you have someone
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That's potentially, like,
a great match for you,
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And I'm so excited
for it to work out.
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- It's a gamble, but I
feel hopeful because
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I wanna spend forever with him.
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- Yeah.
- Absolutely.
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- But they have to
wanna have kids.
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Like, I'm so ready.
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I-I got these birthing hips.
[laughter]
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Like, let them walk out,
let's just go.
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♪ ♪
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- Lindy just revealed
to her friends
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That she's getting
married at first sight.
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Now it's miguel's turn.
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- ♪ time to bring
this make-believe ♪
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- Where's our game master?
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- Where is our game master?
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♪ ♪
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- My friends haven't approved
our prior relationships
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And I'm going to
reveal that I'm
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Getting married
to a complete stranger.
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All: Hey.
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- Hello, my fellow adventurers.
206
00:08:03,633 --> 00:08:05,391
Sorry, I'm a little late.
- Welcome.
207
00:08:05,486 --> 00:08:06,985
- It's kinda heavy.
208
00:08:07,212 --> 00:08:11,472
So I'm definitely anxious
to see their reactions.
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They could become monsters,
trolls, ogres, goblins.
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I'm getting scared.
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I'm getting scared out
of my mind is more accurate.
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As you know, I haven't had
the best luck in relationships.
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- Some of your girlfriends
were wah-wah.
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- Why--why do you say that?
Why do--
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- Sometimes I think
you want to force
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These relationships that are
not necessarily the right fit.
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- You want to be loved.
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You want to love someone,
you want to be
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In a loving relationship,
I think more than anybody
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I've ever met.
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And I feel like you tend
to avoid red flags.
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When you find text messages
on somebody's phone
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And give them
a second chance and then
224
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Find more text messages
on somebody's phone
225
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And give them another chance.
226
00:09:03,860 --> 00:09:06,545
And then a third time.
- Oh, god.
227
00:09:06,772 --> 00:09:08,121
Yeah, but--and you're
absolutely right, frankie,
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The red flags
have been glaring,
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Staring me in the face.
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- And I feel like
some people have a lot
231
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Of barriers and you don't.
232
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Bear-iers.
- Bear-iers.
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[laughter]
234
00:09:21,711 --> 00:09:24,229
- Well as you know,
I'm in the running
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To get married
at first sight...
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♪ ♪
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And there may be
an occasion to celebrate.
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♪ ♪
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- Maybe?
- It--it may require drinks.
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So in about two weeks...
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♪ ♪
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I am going to get married.
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- Oh!
244
00:09:47,070 --> 00:09:49,479
- God.
- That's insane. Oh, my god.
245
00:09:49,497 --> 00:09:52,073
- Well, we gotta cheers
to that one.
246
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- You don't have it in you.
- Party foul.
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- I'm so excited.
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- My cup runneth over
with excitement.
249
00:10:00,659 --> 00:10:03,343
- ♪ oh, we dancing
till the daylight ♪
250
00:10:03,495 --> 00:10:05,829
♪ we can do it all ♪
251
00:10:05,847 --> 00:10:08,348
- I have a lot of layers.
I'm a dork, I'm a jock,
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I'm a lover, I'm a fighter,
I'm a hopeless romantic,
253
00:10:10,852 --> 00:10:15,839
And I love writing creatively,
either short stories, poetry.
254
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And I think the
romantic aspect of me
255
00:10:17,859 --> 00:10:19,618
Manifested even then
when I was a child.
256
00:10:19,769 --> 00:10:22,937
I'd like to write little love
sappy poems,
257
00:10:22,956 --> 00:10:24,030
But yeah, and that's something
that I still do now
258
00:10:24,182 --> 00:10:26,866
As an adult.
259
00:10:27,018 --> 00:10:30,629
I've always found escapes
in, like, fantasy and sci-fi,
260
00:10:30,856 --> 00:10:33,523
Being video games,
being comic books.
261
00:10:33,541 --> 00:10:36,450
I would love to introduce
my wife to the magical world
262
00:10:36,470 --> 00:10:39,379
That is "dungeons & dragons."
263
00:10:39,531 --> 00:10:42,031
It's improv based
in a fantasy setting.
264
00:10:42,050 --> 00:10:43,475
We role-play.
265
00:10:43,626 --> 00:10:46,219
- Does any of this
role-playing manifest itself
266
00:10:46,313 --> 00:10:48,054
In your life sexually?
267
00:10:48,148 --> 00:10:50,056
- It doesn't.
268
00:10:50,208 --> 00:10:53,710
I'm very vanilla,
but not boring.
269
00:10:53,728 --> 00:10:55,820
- ♪ I just want your love ♪
270
00:10:56,047 --> 00:10:58,990
- I have my doctorate.
I have my phd in neuroscience,
271
00:10:59,142 --> 00:11:02,218
But I gave up the science
research life in place
272
00:11:02,311 --> 00:11:04,496
For being a medical writer.
273
00:11:04,723 --> 00:11:06,906
♪ ♪
274
00:11:07,000 --> 00:11:09,167
My parents are puerto rican.
275
00:11:09,394 --> 00:11:12,003
When I was ten, my dad
did move to puerto rico.
276
00:11:12,230 --> 00:11:14,580
I moved to puerto rico
with my siblings.
277
00:11:14,733 --> 00:11:18,902
My mom left, and that's kinda
been, like, a recurring theme,
278
00:11:18,995 --> 00:11:21,404
Like, just women
that I can't really
279
00:11:21,423 --> 00:11:24,349
Rely on or feel safe with.
280
00:11:24,576 --> 00:11:27,076
And it's not for a lack
of trying with me.
281
00:11:27,095 --> 00:11:30,246
- ♪ some people say
fate is fictional ♪
282
00:11:30,265 --> 00:11:31,764
- I'm taking the leap of
faith and getting married
283
00:11:31,917 --> 00:11:35,585
At first sight
because I've been the one
284
00:11:35,603 --> 00:11:39,589
To really put in the efforts
in relationships.
285
00:11:39,607 --> 00:11:42,850
And the return on investment
has been pretty bad for me.
286
00:11:42,944 --> 00:11:47,521
Not many people get me the way
I would like to be understood.
287
00:11:47,541 --> 00:11:49,115
I need someone open-minded.
288
00:11:49,267 --> 00:11:50,357
I need someone
that's a good listener,
289
00:11:50,377 --> 00:11:52,452
That cares to know about me.
290
00:11:52,604 --> 00:11:54,879
And so I get dissatisfied
when they're not present.
291
00:11:55,106 --> 00:11:56,697
And that's kinda, like,
the emotional depth
292
00:11:56,717 --> 00:11:58,942
That I require, but it's also
the emotional depth
293
00:11:59,035 --> 00:12:00,610
That I bring
to the relationship.
294
00:12:00,703 --> 00:12:02,962
- ♪ here I am again,
here I am ♪
295
00:12:03,056 --> 00:12:06,783
- I'm a serial monogamist,
and married is the end game.
296
00:12:06,876 --> 00:12:09,043
- ♪ here I am again ♪
297
00:12:09,062 --> 00:12:10,787
- Like, what happens
after you get married?
298
00:12:10,880 --> 00:12:11,896
- We live happily ever after.
299
00:12:12,123 --> 00:12:14,958
♪ ♪
300
00:12:14,976 --> 00:12:17,643
- My biggest concern
for miguel is not
301
00:12:17,796 --> 00:12:21,130
Finding the right person
and this not being
302
00:12:21,224 --> 00:12:23,074
Everything he wants it to be.
303
00:12:23,301 --> 00:12:25,744
I think that he deserves
someone amazing,
304
00:12:25,895 --> 00:12:28,913
And I know that he wants it,
to find love, so I'm--
305
00:12:29,065 --> 00:12:31,732
I'm really concerned
that this person might not
306
00:12:31,826 --> 00:12:33,309
Be the right match for him.
307
00:12:33,328 --> 00:12:36,329
I-I hope that she
doesn't become a person
308
00:12:36,481 --> 00:12:39,499
Who takes advantage of you.
309
00:12:39,651 --> 00:12:41,484
- I mean, I-I generally
assume if--if I--
310
00:12:41,503 --> 00:12:43,577
If I let the person in
that they have
311
00:12:43,671 --> 00:12:44,988
My best interests at heart.
312
00:12:45,006 --> 00:12:46,839
♪ ♪
313
00:12:46,933 --> 00:12:48,841
It's kinda a leap of faith;
you don't really know until--
314
00:12:48,935 --> 00:12:51,010
Until you know for sure.
315
00:12:51,104 --> 00:12:52,437
- I think we just need to clean
your rose-colored lenses
316
00:12:52,588 --> 00:12:53,663
Just a little bit.
317
00:12:53,681 --> 00:12:56,399
♪ ♪
318
00:12:58,945 --> 00:13:01,838
- I rolled well, yeah.
319
00:13:01,931 --> 00:13:04,282
Your prospects look good.
[laughter]
320
00:13:04,509 --> 00:13:06,509
♪ ♪
321
00:13:06,528 --> 00:13:10,104
- We matched lindy and miguel
because they desire a partner
322
00:13:10,123 --> 00:13:12,457
With high emotional
intelligence,
323
00:13:12,608 --> 00:13:14,851
Who is ready
to work through issues
324
00:13:14,869 --> 00:13:17,962
And not throw in the towel
at the first sign of trouble.
325
00:13:18,114 --> 00:13:20,873
Lindy is a self-admitted
over-thinker
326
00:13:20,967 --> 00:13:25,286
Who is joyful and exuberant,
but can sometimes spiral out,
327
00:13:25,380 --> 00:13:29,974
And miguel's calm nature
will help put her at ease.
328
00:13:30,201 --> 00:13:32,869
Meanwhile, miguel has
a history of putting in
329
00:13:32,887 --> 00:13:34,887
More work
into his relationships
330
00:13:35,040 --> 00:13:36,481
Than his partners.
331
00:13:36,632 --> 00:13:38,708
And lindy is eager
to be in a marriage
332
00:13:38,726 --> 00:13:41,319
Where each spouse
is giving their all.
333
00:13:41,546 --> 00:13:43,470
♪ ♪
334
00:13:43,565 --> 00:13:45,990
- ♪ hold on, hold on,
hold on ♪
335
00:13:46,142 --> 00:13:49,160
- Our second couple
is alexis and justin.
336
00:13:49,387 --> 00:13:51,812
♪ ♪
337
00:13:51,906 --> 00:13:55,667
Alexis and justin are both
highly caring individuals
338
00:13:55,818 --> 00:13:58,561
Who are looking for a spouse
they can cater to.
339
00:13:58,654 --> 00:14:01,564
Alexis desires a husband
like justin,
340
00:14:01,657 --> 00:14:04,417
Who is more low-key
than herself.
341
00:14:04,511 --> 00:14:07,587
And justin is looking for
an enthusiastic cheerleader
342
00:14:07,681 --> 00:14:11,240
Like alexis, who can encourage
him to strive for his best.
343
00:14:11,334 --> 00:14:12,684
- Oh, what's up, man?
- What's up, man?
344
00:14:12,835 --> 00:14:15,669
'sup, 'sup, boy.
345
00:14:15,763 --> 00:14:17,004
- ♪ the future
looking bright ♪
346
00:14:17,098 --> 00:14:19,265
- Single life has been lonely,
347
00:14:19,359 --> 00:14:22,009
And I do want to just share
my time and share my life,
348
00:14:22,103 --> 00:14:24,696
Share my experience,
share my feelings with someone.
349
00:14:24,923 --> 00:14:30,351
So I-I really hope my brother
is on board with this.
350
00:14:30,370 --> 00:14:33,705
My brother raised me
from the age of 14 to 19.
351
00:14:33,932 --> 00:14:35,598
He really--he made
a man out of me, you know.
352
00:14:35,617 --> 00:14:37,024
According to him, I was
a crybaby when I was a kid.
353
00:14:37,118 --> 00:14:39,043
I don't--I don't remember that.
354
00:14:39,270 --> 00:14:41,437
But you know, his opinion
just matters to me
355
00:14:41,530 --> 00:14:43,439
Because he's not
only my brother,
356
00:14:43,458 --> 00:14:46,885
But he's also
a-a father figure.
357
00:14:47,112 --> 00:14:48,628
I'm gonna go ahead
and jump right into it.
358
00:14:48,722 --> 00:14:52,298
So you know, I've been
living here seven months.
359
00:14:52,392 --> 00:14:56,227
I started dating, but it just--
just hasn't been my thing.
360
00:14:56,454 --> 00:14:58,971
I want to feel something,
like, mental, you know,
361
00:14:59,124 --> 00:15:00,289
And I want
that-that connection,
362
00:15:00,308 --> 00:15:01,548
And I'm not getting that.
363
00:15:01,643 --> 00:15:08,314
And so I recently applied to...
364
00:15:08,466 --> 00:15:12,226
♪ ♪
365
00:15:12,245 --> 00:15:16,973
Basically what I wanna share
with you guys is that
366
00:15:17,066 --> 00:15:19,325
I'm marrying
a stranger in two weeks.
367
00:15:19,477 --> 00:15:21,568
- [laughing]
- what?
368
00:15:21,588 --> 00:15:23,421
- Oh, [bleep].
369
00:15:23,648 --> 00:15:25,423
- ♪ it gets so hard
to please ♪
370
00:15:25,650 --> 00:15:27,984
♪ ♪
371
00:15:28,077 --> 00:15:30,319
♪ you're way too hard
to please ♪
372
00:15:30,413 --> 00:15:31,671
- I may be tall,
dark, and handsome,
373
00:15:31,765 --> 00:15:34,933
But I am not a piece of meat.
374
00:15:35,160 --> 00:15:38,010
The worst part about being
single for me is,
375
00:15:38,163 --> 00:15:40,104
Women were just curious about,
you know,
376
00:15:40,331 --> 00:15:41,755
If I was packing or not,
or, you know,
377
00:15:41,849 --> 00:15:44,333
What's it like
being with a 6'8" guy.
378
00:15:44,352 --> 00:15:45,851
I was having a
conversation with a girl.
379
00:15:45,946 --> 00:15:47,687
I was trying to be vulnerable.
380
00:15:47,781 --> 00:15:49,263
I was being open,
just kinda tell her, you know,
381
00:15:49,357 --> 00:15:50,615
What I'm interested in.
382
00:15:50,842 --> 00:15:51,857
And the entire time,
she's looking at me
383
00:15:51,952 --> 00:15:53,785
Like I was a snack.
[laughs]
384
00:15:54,012 --> 00:15:57,271
♪ ♪
385
00:15:57,290 --> 00:15:59,031
Growing up was challenging,
you know.
386
00:15:59,184 --> 00:16:00,959
I was 5'3" in third grade.
387
00:16:01,110 --> 00:16:03,186
I was 5'10 by fifth grade.
388
00:16:03,279 --> 00:16:04,537
You know, I didn't
get the opportunity
389
00:16:04,631 --> 00:16:05,964
To even pick basketball.
390
00:16:06,191 --> 00:16:08,800
Like, people picked it for me
'cause I was tall.
391
00:16:08,951 --> 00:16:10,301
You know, I wish they
would--they would've told me
392
00:16:10,528 --> 00:16:12,303
Growing up that like,
"hey, it's really hard
393
00:16:12,455 --> 00:16:14,030
"to make the nba, you know,
you not just gonna
394
00:16:14,048 --> 00:16:15,548
Make it 'cause you're 6'8"."
395
00:16:15,700 --> 00:16:18,959
♪ ♪
396
00:16:18,979 --> 00:16:21,721
I was engaged previously,
but we split, like,
397
00:16:21,815 --> 00:16:23,539
A month before our wedding.
398
00:16:23,558 --> 00:16:26,042
The reason it didn't
work out is,
399
00:16:26,060 --> 00:16:28,486
She didn't want somebody
that was 23, 24.
400
00:16:28,713 --> 00:16:31,322
She wanted somebody that
was 54, 55, not literally,
401
00:16:31,549 --> 00:16:34,158
But on a financial basis,
that's what she wanted.
402
00:16:34,310 --> 00:16:37,662
She wanted a daddy
to take care of her.
403
00:16:37,813 --> 00:16:40,498
And she wasn't honest
with me about that,
404
00:16:40,649 --> 00:16:41,907
So she didn't really
give me the opportunity
405
00:16:42,002 --> 00:16:43,559
To even work on those things.
406
00:16:43,652 --> 00:16:45,152
You know, she just kinda--
407
00:16:45,246 --> 00:16:48,397
She just kinda called it quits.
408
00:16:48,491 --> 00:16:50,416
Because of my
previous engagement,
409
00:16:50,568 --> 00:16:53,327
I'm a lot more cautious now.
I am very cautious.
410
00:16:53,346 --> 00:16:56,739
I'm cautious with people's
actions, what they say.
411
00:16:56,758 --> 00:16:59,925
I pay attention to red flags.
412
00:17:00,020 --> 00:17:03,095
So I decided to be celibate,
and I've been celibate
413
00:17:03,189 --> 00:17:06,524
For a year and a half.
414
00:17:06,751 --> 00:17:11,011
- ♪ I've been giving well,
you just take it off ♪
415
00:17:11,105 --> 00:17:12,530
- It's just sex.
416
00:17:12,681 --> 00:17:13,680
You know, I want
something more than that.
417
00:17:13,700 --> 00:17:15,258
I want something
deeper than that.
418
00:17:15,276 --> 00:17:17,093
And the women that I was
just--I was choosing,
419
00:17:17,111 --> 00:17:19,278
You know, they
just wanted the d.
420
00:17:19,430 --> 00:17:20,446
And so I got to a point
where I was like,
421
00:17:20,540 --> 00:17:22,373
You know what, I'm good.
422
00:17:22,600 --> 00:17:25,101
I'm good.
423
00:17:25,119 --> 00:17:27,361
I don't wanna keep
adding to my body count.
424
00:17:27,380 --> 00:17:29,438
I'm serious about,
you know, wanting to connect
425
00:17:29,532 --> 00:17:31,716
With a person mentally,
emotionally,
426
00:17:31,943 --> 00:17:35,369
But that person
is hard to find.
427
00:17:35,463 --> 00:17:37,280
Five years of all this
still single?
428
00:17:37,298 --> 00:17:39,115
Uh-uh. My way isn't working.
429
00:17:39,133 --> 00:17:41,450
I'm doing my best
to do it right,
430
00:17:41,544 --> 00:17:43,302
But I keep going out
for what I want
431
00:17:43,396 --> 00:17:44,804
Versus what I need.
432
00:17:44,898 --> 00:17:45,955
And so here I am.
433
00:17:45,973 --> 00:17:47,807
♪ ♪
434
00:17:47,959 --> 00:17:49,292
- I don't know, man.
435
00:17:49,310 --> 00:17:50,568
- Give me your feedback.
I wanna hear it.
436
00:17:50,795 --> 00:17:52,904
- I don't know why
you rushing to get married
437
00:17:53,131 --> 00:17:54,297
And then you wanna get
married to somebody
438
00:17:54,315 --> 00:17:55,981
You don't even much know?
439
00:17:56,076 --> 00:17:58,743
- I mean, apparently, the way
I'm doing it ain't working.
440
00:17:58,970 --> 00:18:02,138
- I just think it's a--
it's a huge commitment,
441
00:18:02,156 --> 00:18:05,065
And I'm not sure
if you--if you're just
442
00:18:05,085 --> 00:18:06,642
Ready for that just yet.
443
00:18:06,735 --> 00:18:08,160
- I mean, five years ago,
I almost got married,
444
00:18:08,254 --> 00:18:11,405
And I was ready then.
445
00:18:11,499 --> 00:18:13,073
Now, why you shaking
your head, man?
446
00:18:13,167 --> 00:18:14,759
- You know, you don't know
anything about this person
447
00:18:14,986 --> 00:18:17,153
That's you're about to marry.
Nothing.
448
00:18:17,171 --> 00:18:22,992
♪ ♪
449
00:18:23,010 --> 00:18:24,585
- I, you know, I pictured
this conversation
450
00:18:24,604 --> 00:18:27,330
Going smooth in my head.
451
00:18:27,423 --> 00:18:29,515
You know, like,
you raised me, you know?
452
00:18:29,609 --> 00:18:34,837
And so, like, to come to you
and like, not fully get,
453
00:18:34,856 --> 00:18:36,263
You know what I'm saying?
454
00:18:36,357 --> 00:18:39,024
Sorry I'm getting emotional.
My bad.
455
00:18:39,119 --> 00:18:42,436
I guess, you know, like, I just
thought that you was gonna
456
00:18:42,530 --> 00:18:43,955
Be super excited for a man.
457
00:18:44,106 --> 00:18:45,456
- You just spring
this on us, man.
458
00:18:45,608 --> 00:18:46,624
What you expect?
459
00:18:46,851 --> 00:18:50,519
♪ ♪
460
00:18:50,613 --> 00:18:52,946
I feel like this
is like a hail mary,
461
00:18:52,966 --> 00:18:55,782
And he putting all
the chips on the table.
462
00:18:55,877 --> 00:18:57,693
When you're doing something
like this, it's kinda forced.
463
00:18:57,712 --> 00:19:00,471
It's not natural.
464
00:19:00,698 --> 00:19:02,956
And my fear is,
if this doesn't work out,
465
00:19:03,050 --> 00:19:04,550
Like, where does he go?
466
00:19:04,702 --> 00:19:07,203
Does he give up on,
you know, love all together?
467
00:19:07,296 --> 00:19:08,537
And I just don't want
to see that.
468
00:19:08,556 --> 00:19:09,564
♪ ♪
469
00:19:11,559 --> 00:19:15,728
I'm just worried that,
man, if you go into this
470
00:19:15,822 --> 00:19:19,991
And it doesn't work out,
you gonna be broken.
471
00:19:20,142 --> 00:19:22,976
And I remember how
things were for you
472
00:19:22,996 --> 00:19:25,312
After your--your last
engagement.
473
00:19:25,406 --> 00:19:26,813
I know that was
a hard time for you.
474
00:19:26,908 --> 00:19:29,650
I mean, you left the state.
475
00:19:29,669 --> 00:19:32,486
I--it didn't happen for me
the first time, you know,
476
00:19:32,505 --> 00:19:37,157
And I think this is a
good opportunity, you know,
477
00:19:37,177 --> 00:19:39,159
To do it, to--to move
forward with exactly
478
00:19:39,253 --> 00:19:40,494
What I've been wanting.
479
00:19:40,588 --> 00:19:43,572
I've had a lot
of time to work on me.
480
00:19:43,666 --> 00:19:46,350
I am happy internally
with myself,
481
00:19:46,577 --> 00:19:48,686
But I'll be so much happier
if I had a partner.
482
00:19:48,913 --> 00:19:51,171
♪ ♪
483
00:19:51,191 --> 00:19:52,356
- I think you're
making a mistake.
484
00:19:52,583 --> 00:19:57,695
♪ ♪
485
00:20:01,534 --> 00:20:04,093
[upbeat music]
486
00:20:04,186 --> 00:20:06,612
- ♪ this is all for everyone ♪
487
00:20:06,764 --> 00:20:09,114
- We have matched five couples
to be married at first sight.
488
00:20:09,267 --> 00:20:12,117
Our second couple
is alexis and justin.
489
00:20:12,270 --> 00:20:14,027
♪ ♪
490
00:20:14,047 --> 00:20:16,288
Justin just dropped
the bombshell
491
00:20:16,382 --> 00:20:18,549
That he's getting married
to a stranger.
492
00:20:18,776 --> 00:20:21,110
Now alexis is going
to give her friends
493
00:20:21,128 --> 00:20:23,537
The surprise of their lives.
494
00:20:23,556 --> 00:20:25,389
- All right, you ready?
Set, go!
495
00:20:25,616 --> 00:20:27,725
Hut!
496
00:20:27,876 --> 00:20:30,210
There we go. There we go!
Touchdown!
497
00:20:30,304 --> 00:20:31,954
- ♪ like a runaway phrase ♪
498
00:20:31,973 --> 00:20:33,380
♪ reach persistence,
I know you feel me ♪
499
00:20:33,399 --> 00:20:35,307
♪ hold my horses
and stop on a dime ♪
500
00:20:35,401 --> 00:20:36,567
♪ like a meteorite
headed for earth ♪
501
00:20:36,719 --> 00:20:38,127
♪ I'm making headlines ♪
502
00:20:38,145 --> 00:20:42,240
♪ ♪
503
00:20:42,391 --> 00:20:44,408
- [laughing]
incoming, incoming!
504
00:20:44,560 --> 00:20:46,302
- She caught that.
That's a touchdown.
505
00:20:46,320 --> 00:20:48,971
- My male friends
are very protective of me.
506
00:20:48,990 --> 00:20:51,490
They do look at me like
a little sister in a way.
507
00:20:51,584 --> 00:20:55,235
So the worst-case scenario
is that they aren't a fan
508
00:20:55,329 --> 00:20:57,329
Of me marrying a stranger.
509
00:20:57,423 --> 00:20:59,906
That was fun.
510
00:20:59,926 --> 00:21:01,484
Going through the process
without the support
511
00:21:01,502 --> 00:21:04,929
Of my friends
would be very lonely.
512
00:21:05,080 --> 00:21:07,673
It would just--
it would be awful.
513
00:21:07,767 --> 00:21:12,661
So y'all know I been not
doing the best with dating.
514
00:21:12,680 --> 00:21:14,997
Um, and I've been going
through this process
515
00:21:15,016 --> 00:21:18,684
Of "married at first sight."
516
00:21:18,836 --> 00:21:22,688
Well, I don't
have to be anxious anymore...
517
00:21:22,840 --> 00:21:25,841
♪ ♪
518
00:21:25,860 --> 00:21:28,177
Because I'm getting
married in two weeks, guys.
519
00:21:28,195 --> 00:21:29,862
- Oh, sh--
520
00:21:29,956 --> 00:21:31,680
♪ ♪
521
00:21:31,699 --> 00:21:33,015
Like, married, married?
522
00:21:33,034 --> 00:21:34,199
- Today, two weeks from now?
523
00:21:34,294 --> 00:21:35,626
- Yeah.
524
00:21:35,778 --> 00:21:37,536
Married, married, like.
- Like...
525
00:21:37,688 --> 00:21:38,854
- Like, I'm engaged
technically.
526
00:21:38,873 --> 00:21:41,023
♪ ♪
527
00:21:41,042 --> 00:21:44,451
- Congratulations.
[laughter]
528
00:21:44,470 --> 00:21:46,137
- I'm a fiancée.
Do I look different?
529
00:21:46,364 --> 00:21:47,305
'cause I'm a fiancée,
now, you know.
530
00:21:47,532 --> 00:21:50,624
- [indistinct]
- it might be sweat.
531
00:21:50,643 --> 00:21:51,884
- ♪ why you gotta be
such a basic ♪
532
00:21:52,036 --> 00:21:54,628
♪ ♪
533
00:21:54,647 --> 00:21:56,555
♪ who are you gonna put
in that love heart frame ♪
534
00:21:56,649 --> 00:21:58,816
- I have never been engaged
before, however,
535
00:21:58,967 --> 00:22:00,376
I've been proposed to
three times.
536
00:22:00,394 --> 00:22:02,895
No comment.
537
00:22:03,047 --> 00:22:06,215
[laughs]
538
00:22:06,308 --> 00:22:07,658
What you see is what you get.
539
00:22:07,885 --> 00:22:10,235
I'm very transparent
and direct,
540
00:22:10,330 --> 00:22:12,496
And I'm also a badass.
Am I allowed to say ass?
541
00:22:12,723 --> 00:22:14,239
No.
542
00:22:14,392 --> 00:22:15,666
I always wanted to be married.
543
00:22:15,818 --> 00:22:17,393
I always saw myself
as a wife,
544
00:22:17,486 --> 00:22:18,502
But when the time
presented itself,
545
00:22:18,654 --> 00:22:20,729
I obviously got cold feet.
546
00:22:20,823 --> 00:22:22,231
I always felt like I would
547
00:22:22,324 --> 00:22:24,658
Change expectations
inconsistently.
548
00:22:24,677 --> 00:22:28,846
So I think I was afraid
of a marriage that failed.
549
00:22:29,073 --> 00:22:31,682
But I do consider myself
someone who loves fast
550
00:22:31,834 --> 00:22:34,760
And loves with everything
they have.
551
00:22:34,912 --> 00:22:36,854
My dog is like my little baby.
552
00:22:37,005 --> 00:22:40,749
Newton is the world to me.
553
00:22:40,768 --> 00:22:43,510
My mom definitely treats him
like her grandchild.
554
00:22:43,529 --> 00:22:45,754
That little boy,
she buys him outfit.
555
00:22:45,848 --> 00:22:47,773
She gives him oatmeal baths.
556
00:22:47,867 --> 00:22:49,700
She was like, "I do what I can
with what I have
557
00:22:49,852 --> 00:22:50,851
'cause y'all
won't get me kids."
558
00:22:50,945 --> 00:22:52,703
- ♪ I've been running ♪
559
00:22:52,855 --> 00:22:54,372
♪ I've been reaching ♪
560
00:22:54,599 --> 00:22:55,781
- I'm the youngest
of three girls.
561
00:22:55,933 --> 00:22:57,933
I'm very spoiled.
562
00:22:57,952 --> 00:23:00,878
My parents didn't really
have a great marriage.
563
00:23:01,029 --> 00:23:03,363
My mom and dad really just
stayed together for the love
564
00:23:03,457 --> 00:23:05,624
Of us, their daughters.
565
00:23:05,776 --> 00:23:08,627
So they did whatever they had
to until my 18th birthday,
566
00:23:08,721 --> 00:23:10,112
And they're like, "yo,
we're getting a divorce."
567
00:23:10,131 --> 00:23:11,463
And we're like, "thank god."
568
00:23:11,557 --> 00:23:14,133
♪ ♪
569
00:23:14,285 --> 00:23:17,395
Watching my parents' marriage
fail, it affected me.
570
00:23:17,622 --> 00:23:19,955
- ♪ run, run, run,
can't catch me ♪
571
00:23:19,974 --> 00:23:21,399
- I always thought
everything had to be perfect,
572
00:23:21,626 --> 00:23:23,292
And if it wasn't perfect,
I didn't want it,
573
00:23:23,310 --> 00:23:25,552
Which were unrealistic
in retrospect.
574
00:23:25,646 --> 00:23:28,814
I've come to realize, like,
no, we gotta work this out.
575
00:23:28,966 --> 00:23:30,741
Like everything doesn't end
576
00:23:30,968 --> 00:23:32,801
In me running away
or me quitting.
577
00:23:32,820 --> 00:23:35,228
- ♪ watch me shine ♪
578
00:23:35,248 --> 00:23:37,415
♪ watch me rise ♪
579
00:23:37,642 --> 00:23:39,642
- I'm getting married
at first sight
580
00:23:39,660 --> 00:23:41,660
To stop myself
from getting in my own way.
581
00:23:41,754 --> 00:23:43,570
♪ ♪
582
00:23:43,664 --> 00:23:45,572
I wanna have a partner.
583
00:23:45,666 --> 00:23:47,833
I wanna have my homey.
I wanna have my best friends.
584
00:23:47,985 --> 00:23:49,427
Like, I'm tired of
writing my mom's name down
585
00:23:49,578 --> 00:23:51,153
As emergency contact.
586
00:23:51,172 --> 00:23:53,097
Like it--it's getting
a little out of control.
587
00:23:53,324 --> 00:23:55,599
I just wanna give
all this love
588
00:23:55,751 --> 00:23:59,011
And pour it
into a fine, tall man.
589
00:23:59,163 --> 00:24:00,921
♪ ♪
590
00:24:00,940 --> 00:24:02,681
[laughs]
591
00:24:02,833 --> 00:24:05,258
See how I threw that in there.
592
00:24:05,352 --> 00:24:07,611
So what do you guys think,
like, I should like, work on
593
00:24:07,838 --> 00:24:09,838
That you've seen in me
that somebody
594
00:24:09,857 --> 00:24:11,674
May not fare well with
just meeting 'em
595
00:24:11,692 --> 00:24:12,783
'cause they are a stranger.
596
00:24:12,935 --> 00:24:15,268
- Delivery, delivery.
597
00:24:15,288 --> 00:24:16,120
- I'm tactful.
598
00:24:18,015 --> 00:24:19,515
- [laughs]
yeah.
599
00:24:19,533 --> 00:24:21,517
- Crickets?
600
00:24:21,535 --> 00:24:23,627
- I think you need a man,
a strong man that can--
601
00:24:23,854 --> 00:24:25,370
If you get outta hand,
you go crazy.
602
00:24:25,523 --> 00:24:27,131
You know, that kinda like--
- I do that?
603
00:24:27,282 --> 00:24:29,282
[laughter]
604
00:24:29,302 --> 00:24:31,618
- You got a lot of energy,
you know what I'm saying?
605
00:24:31,637 --> 00:24:33,362
- One that can keep that
under control.
606
00:24:33,455 --> 00:24:35,364
- What if he is...
- What if, what if.
607
00:24:35,382 --> 00:24:37,216
- The perfect guy for you,
matches your energy--
608
00:24:37,310 --> 00:24:38,701
- Everything, check all
the boxes, but he's like--
609
00:24:38,719 --> 00:24:40,219
- He's my height.
610
00:24:40,371 --> 00:24:41,720
- Don't speak that evil
over my life, tommy.
611
00:24:41,872 --> 00:24:42,721
Don't do it.
612
00:24:42,873 --> 00:24:44,965
♪ ♪
613
00:24:45,059 --> 00:24:46,650
Aw, I'm not worried.
614
00:24:46,802 --> 00:24:48,393
I wasn't worried until
I started talking to y'all.
615
00:24:48,546 --> 00:24:52,973
♪ ♪
616
00:24:52,992 --> 00:24:55,159
- Alexis and justin
are a strong match
617
00:24:55,310 --> 00:24:57,828
Because they can balance
each other out in the areas
618
00:24:57,980 --> 00:24:59,738
Where they recognize
they're lacking.
619
00:24:59,890 --> 00:25:02,833
Sensitive and emotionally
available justin
620
00:25:03,060 --> 00:25:04,818
Can help alexis,
who is used to playing
621
00:25:04,912 --> 00:25:06,987
The position of strong female,
622
00:25:07,006 --> 00:25:09,898
Feel more comfortable
being vulnerable.
623
00:25:09,917 --> 00:25:12,901
While devoted alexis
will provide justin
624
00:25:12,995 --> 00:25:15,087
With the commitment
he's long been
625
00:25:15,239 --> 00:25:17,422
Searching for after
his failed engagement.
626
00:25:17,517 --> 00:25:19,925
- ♪ I don't wanna be
your best friend ♪
627
00:25:20,077 --> 00:25:21,760
♪ I only wanna
be your girlfriend ♪
628
00:25:21,912 --> 00:25:25,005
- Our third couple
is krysten and mitch.
629
00:25:25,099 --> 00:25:27,916
We've matched outdoor
enthusiasts krysten and mitch
630
00:25:27,935 --> 00:25:30,419
Because mitch has the
self-sufficiency
631
00:25:30,437 --> 00:25:32,771
That krysten is looking for
in a husband.
632
00:25:32,865 --> 00:25:36,033
And kristen shares
mitch's strong desire
633
00:25:36,184 --> 00:25:39,928
To start the family that
is so important to him.
634
00:25:39,947 --> 00:25:41,930
- Ready for some wine.
- I know you.
635
00:25:42,024 --> 00:25:43,615
- I know, it's gorgeous.
- So cute.
636
00:25:43,709 --> 00:25:46,285
I would be very hurt if my
friends don't approve of me
637
00:25:46,437 --> 00:25:47,770
Getting married
at first sight.
638
00:25:47,788 --> 00:25:50,864
It would hugely impact
our friendship.
639
00:25:50,883 --> 00:25:54,943
I mean, marriage is something
that I want so badly,
640
00:25:54,962 --> 00:25:56,962
And I've stood by
my friend's sides
641
00:25:57,114 --> 00:25:59,039
As they've gotten married.
642
00:25:59,058 --> 00:26:01,784
So it would really hurt if
they don't stand by my side
643
00:26:01,802 --> 00:26:03,877
As I'm getting married.
644
00:26:03,896 --> 00:26:05,621
So you know I've been kinda
going through
645
00:26:05,714 --> 00:26:07,973
This matchmaking process.
- Mm-hmm.
646
00:26:08,125 --> 00:26:09,567
- Hmm.
647
00:26:09,718 --> 00:26:13,219
- But what you guys
don't know is that
648
00:26:13,239 --> 00:26:16,240
I am getting married
in two weeks.
649
00:26:16,391 --> 00:26:18,317
I'm engaged,
and they found me a match.
650
00:26:18,411 --> 00:26:20,911
- Oh, my god.
651
00:26:21,063 --> 00:26:23,247
- Wait.
- What?
652
00:26:23,474 --> 00:26:24,564
- Are you speechless?
- Wait, what?
653
00:26:24,584 --> 00:26:25,916
Who's the guy?
654
00:26:26,143 --> 00:26:29,253
- He's coming--
- he's coming from where?
655
00:26:29,480 --> 00:26:30,979
- At this exact moment,
I know nothing.
656
00:26:30,998 --> 00:26:32,739
- Are you--wow.
657
00:26:32,833 --> 00:26:35,667
- And I am not going to know
anything until the wedding.
658
00:26:35,761 --> 00:26:38,095
- Oh, my god.
659
00:26:38,322 --> 00:26:39,763
- How can you get
married at first sight?
660
00:26:39,990 --> 00:26:41,748
Like, what?
661
00:26:41,767 --> 00:26:43,325
You haven't even seen the guy,
you don't know the guy.
662
00:26:43,418 --> 00:26:45,436
Who's his family?
What's his name?
663
00:26:45,587 --> 00:26:46,937
What's his last name?
664
00:26:47,164 --> 00:26:48,772
What is his--
like, is he religious?
665
00:26:48,924 --> 00:26:50,833
Does he want kids?
There's just so many questions.
666
00:26:50,851 --> 00:26:52,443
I mean, it's crazy.
- Yeah.
667
00:26:52,594 --> 00:26:54,019
- It's crazy, but--
- it's crazy.
668
00:26:54,171 --> 00:26:55,854
- It's krysten.
[laughter]
669
00:26:55,948 --> 00:26:58,431
- Oh, my god.
670
00:26:58,525 --> 00:27:01,601
- ♪ come on, baby, tell me
about the way that you move ♪
671
00:27:01,695 --> 00:27:04,270
♪ 'cause you move it right ♪
672
00:27:04,290 --> 00:27:07,866
- This morning, I woke up
to my dog being the big spoon.
673
00:27:08,018 --> 00:27:11,277
Her face was kind of in my
butt and I said,
674
00:27:11,297 --> 00:27:13,446
"oh, my god,
please find me a man.
675
00:27:13,466 --> 00:27:14,706
I cannot wake up
like this again."
676
00:27:14,859 --> 00:27:18,469
♪ ♪
677
00:27:18,620 --> 00:27:22,197
Ever since I was a little girl,
I never imagined
678
00:27:22,290 --> 00:27:24,308
That I would see
my mid-thirties
679
00:27:24,459 --> 00:27:26,718
Without being married.
680
00:27:26,871 --> 00:27:28,537
But unfortunately,
things don't always
681
00:27:28,630 --> 00:27:30,722
Work out the way you imagine.
682
00:27:30,875 --> 00:27:32,207
♪ ♪
683
00:27:32,226 --> 00:27:33,225
- ♪ yeah, yeah, yeah ♪
684
00:27:33,377 --> 00:27:36,879
When I was about 23, I met my,
685
00:27:36,972 --> 00:27:40,048
What I thought would be
my husband.
686
00:27:40,067 --> 00:27:42,976
I met my ex-fiancé
in my apartment building.
687
00:27:43,070 --> 00:27:46,664
He was actually staying
on the couch of the neighbor,
688
00:27:46,815 --> 00:27:48,724
Which I should have taken
as a red flag,
689
00:27:48,742 --> 00:27:51,743
But I just leaned right in.
690
00:27:51,896 --> 00:27:54,672
We dated for five
and a half years.
691
00:27:54,823 --> 00:27:57,582
And I planned my wedding
that was supposed to happen
692
00:27:57,735 --> 00:27:59,751
Almost four years ago.
693
00:27:59,904 --> 00:28:02,162
I planned a gorgeous
destination,
694
00:28:02,181 --> 00:28:07,426
Lavish wedding that I spent
my entire life savings on.
695
00:28:07,578 --> 00:28:11,747
About two weeks before
I was supposed to get married,
696
00:28:11,765 --> 00:28:15,508
My fiancé's mistress
approached me and told me
697
00:28:15,528 --> 00:28:17,677
That they had been
sleeping together
698
00:28:17,697 --> 00:28:20,531
For the past six months.
699
00:28:20,758 --> 00:28:23,942
So me and all my friends,
we went
700
00:28:24,036 --> 00:28:27,596
To the destination wedding
without a groom there.
701
00:28:27,614 --> 00:28:29,765
Yeah, I mean the
life budget was spent;
702
00:28:29,783 --> 00:28:33,769
Might as well enjoy it,
and it was incredible.
703
00:28:33,787 --> 00:28:37,548
We turned something so sad
and lonely and dark
704
00:28:37,699 --> 00:28:39,624
To one of the best weeks
of my life.
705
00:28:39,777 --> 00:28:42,202
♪ ♪
706
00:28:42,221 --> 00:28:44,722
- ♪ life is hard,
I should make it, yeah, yeah ♪
707
00:28:44,873 --> 00:28:49,393
- My biggest fear in life is
dying alone with no children.
708
00:28:49,620 --> 00:28:52,971
I absolutely 100%
want children,
709
00:28:53,065 --> 00:28:56,458
And I want to raise someone
like I was raised.
710
00:28:56,477 --> 00:28:57,976
- ♪ I could place,
I'm moving at my own pace ♪
711
00:28:58,070 --> 00:29:00,979
- Growing up, I had
an incredible childhood.
712
00:29:01,131 --> 00:29:03,815
I'm the oldest of three girls.
713
00:29:03,968 --> 00:29:06,151
My parents were together
until I was about 14.
714
00:29:06,245 --> 00:29:08,820
They divorced.
715
00:29:08,973 --> 00:29:11,473
Being a child of divorce,
716
00:29:11,492 --> 00:29:14,159
As well as
my engagement falling through,
717
00:29:14,311 --> 00:29:16,736
They could label me
as doomed at love,
718
00:29:16,756 --> 00:29:19,831
But just because
outside experiences
719
00:29:19,984 --> 00:29:23,076
Have happened to me
does not disqualify me
720
00:29:23,095 --> 00:29:25,078
From finding love.
721
00:29:25,097 --> 00:29:26,412
- ♪ you gotta
keep your head up ♪
722
00:29:26,432 --> 00:29:29,916
- I want a match
made perfect for me.
723
00:29:30,010 --> 00:29:31,417
And I know that I deserve it.
724
00:29:31,437 --> 00:29:35,272
I have been through it
to get here.
725
00:29:35,499 --> 00:29:37,332
Marrying a stranger
is definitely a risk,
726
00:29:37,425 --> 00:29:40,002
But I heard before that
in order
727
00:29:40,095 --> 00:29:42,613
To have something
you've never had,
728
00:29:42,840 --> 00:29:44,840
You must do something
you've never done.
729
00:29:44,858 --> 00:29:47,785
- ♪ you're gonna be
all right ♪
730
00:29:47,936 --> 00:29:49,845
- So what happens?
Like, of course,
731
00:29:49,938 --> 00:29:51,455
You hope that
the attraction's there,
732
00:29:51,606 --> 00:29:53,624
So like, if the sex sucks,
733
00:29:53,851 --> 00:29:55,684
Like, what happens--
what happens?
734
00:29:55,702 --> 00:29:58,462
- And the size is not ideal?
- Yeah.
735
00:29:58,613 --> 00:30:00,446
- Did you have to fill out
the size on the questionnaire?
736
00:30:00,466 --> 00:30:01,857
- No!
737
00:30:01,950 --> 00:30:03,300
Guys, I wasn't
even thinking about that.
738
00:30:03,451 --> 00:30:05,710
- Really? The color.
739
00:30:05,863 --> 00:30:07,304
Yeah, chug, take a sip.
740
00:30:07,531 --> 00:30:10,474
- This is crazy,
but at the same time,
741
00:30:10,625 --> 00:30:13,293
It's very krysten-esque.
742
00:30:13,387 --> 00:30:14,812
She's a risk-taker.
743
00:30:15,039 --> 00:30:17,889
She loves operating
outside the box.
744
00:30:18,042 --> 00:30:21,151
- So there's something
I should tell you.
745
00:30:21,303 --> 00:30:23,545
I have told my mom
and my sisters.
746
00:30:23,638 --> 00:30:25,823
- Uh-huh.
- Who are super excited.
747
00:30:26,050 --> 00:30:28,158
- Oh, good.
- I have not told my dad.
748
00:30:28,385 --> 00:30:29,976
Him and I are very close,
and his opinion
749
00:30:30,070 --> 00:30:31,161
Is really important to me.
750
00:30:31,388 --> 00:30:33,055
But I have this idea
where I'm gonna
751
00:30:33,148 --> 00:30:35,557
Tell him on the wedding day.
752
00:30:35,650 --> 00:30:36,333
- Oh, how does he
come to there?
753
00:30:36,484 --> 00:30:38,393
- Krysten!
- What?
754
00:30:38,412 --> 00:30:40,337
- Wait, does he wear,
like, a suit and tie to--
755
00:30:40,488 --> 00:30:41,988
I-I don't understand.
756
00:30:42,007 --> 00:30:44,324
- I've told him
to be somewhere at x day
757
00:30:44,343 --> 00:30:46,568
And x time and look nice.
- Oh, my god.
758
00:30:46,587 --> 00:30:48,328
- He's gonna show up
to your wedding
759
00:30:48,347 --> 00:30:49,996
And not know you're getting
married on the day of?
760
00:30:50,015 --> 00:30:52,257
- 100%.
- Krysten!
761
00:30:52,409 --> 00:30:53,925
- Okay.
762
00:30:54,019 --> 00:30:55,093
- Oh, man.
763
00:30:55,187 --> 00:30:59,523
♪ ♪
764
00:31:03,437 --> 00:31:06,438
- ♪ our sun stopped rising ♪
765
00:31:06,532 --> 00:31:09,925
♪ the world quit spinning
in our way ♪
766
00:31:09,943 --> 00:31:13,871
- Our third couple
is krysten and mitch.
767
00:31:14,098 --> 00:31:15,947
Krysten just revealed
to her friends
768
00:31:16,041 --> 00:31:18,024
That she's getting
married at first sight.
769
00:31:18,043 --> 00:31:19,935
Now mitch is about
to spring the news
770
00:31:20,028 --> 00:31:22,528
On his unsuspecting family.
771
00:31:22,623 --> 00:31:24,289
- 'sup man.
- Hey, bro.
772
00:31:24,441 --> 00:31:25,865
Good to see you, man.
Thanks for coming.
773
00:31:25,885 --> 00:31:28,293
I know this was
a little unexpected.
774
00:31:28,387 --> 00:31:29,444
- Yeah, yeah, no,
I'm happy to be here, man.
775
00:31:29,463 --> 00:31:31,279
- All right. Have a seat.
776
00:31:31,298 --> 00:31:32,964
We're gonna get--
we're gonna get steph
777
00:31:33,058 --> 00:31:35,708
And the kids and mom on zoom.
- Okay, cool.
778
00:31:35,728 --> 00:31:37,227
- I'm gonna tell
my whole family,
779
00:31:37,379 --> 00:31:39,287
Drop the bomb on 'em.
780
00:31:39,306 --> 00:31:40,397
Hey, kiddos.
781
00:31:40,624 --> 00:31:41,973
- Hi.
782
00:31:42,126 --> 00:31:44,292
- My dad passed away in 2014,
783
00:31:44,311 --> 00:31:47,053
So it's become
really important for me
784
00:31:47,147 --> 00:31:49,389
Over the last few years
to be close to my family.
785
00:31:49,408 --> 00:31:50,741
I need to have their support.
786
00:31:50,968 --> 00:31:52,058
I don't think
I could do this alone.
787
00:31:52,077 --> 00:31:53,802
So hey,
thanks for coming in on this.
788
00:31:53,820 --> 00:31:56,154
I know I've been giving you,
like, little tidbits
789
00:31:56,306 --> 00:31:57,822
Of updates
on this whole process
790
00:31:57,975 --> 00:31:59,750
That I've been going through
for the last couple months.
791
00:31:59,977 --> 00:32:01,084
- Mm-hmm.
- You guys are my fam.
792
00:32:01,311 --> 00:32:02,477
I don't wanna do stuff
without you.
793
00:32:02,496 --> 00:32:04,996
So do you guys feel like
I should still be
794
00:32:05,149 --> 00:32:06,572
In the running here?
795
00:32:06,667 --> 00:32:09,317
- Yes!
- Yeah?
796
00:32:09,336 --> 00:32:11,244
Emi, you think--
you think uncle mitch
797
00:32:11,338 --> 00:32:13,430
Should try to find a wife?
798
00:32:13,657 --> 00:32:14,506
[both laugh]
799
00:32:14,600 --> 00:32:15,748
Mama?
800
00:32:15,768 --> 00:32:17,768
- Those girls need cousins.
801
00:32:17,995 --> 00:32:19,844
- Let's not get
ahead of ourselves.
802
00:32:19,939 --> 00:32:21,271
- No.
803
00:32:21,498 --> 00:32:23,165
- Okay, good.
Well, here's the deal.
804
00:32:23,183 --> 00:32:25,609
Pastor cal and the experts
have found a match,
805
00:32:25,836 --> 00:32:27,611
And I am getting married
in two weeks.
806
00:32:27,762 --> 00:32:29,947
- What? Oh!
807
00:32:30,098 --> 00:32:32,524
- This is happening.
- Oh, I can't believe it.
808
00:32:32,676 --> 00:32:34,267
- I'm so excited!
809
00:32:34,286 --> 00:32:35,527
Oh, my god, I can't
believe this is happening.
810
00:32:35,679 --> 00:32:36,695
- I'm getting wifed up.
811
00:32:36,789 --> 00:32:42,775
♪ ♪
812
00:32:42,795 --> 00:32:44,536
I love the ocean.
I love to surf.
813
00:32:44,630 --> 00:32:46,855
♪ ♪
814
00:32:46,873 --> 00:32:49,024
Ocean is a refuge for me
815
00:32:49,042 --> 00:32:50,950
At some of the best times
of my life,
816
00:32:50,970 --> 00:32:53,361
But I really started
to see trash
817
00:32:53,380 --> 00:32:56,122
All the time in the ocean
and kind of,
818
00:32:56,216 --> 00:32:57,382
It raised my awareness.
819
00:32:57,476 --> 00:33:00,719
♪ ♪
820
00:33:00,813 --> 00:33:03,480
I kinda grew up
with a rebellious instinct
821
00:33:03,631 --> 00:33:05,890
To the world and I was kind
of a rebel without a cause.
822
00:33:05,985 --> 00:33:09,227
And I feel just lucky
and fortunate to have found
823
00:33:09,321 --> 00:33:11,971
A cause worth fighting for,
making the planet
824
00:33:11,991 --> 00:33:13,715
A better place
for future generations.
825
00:33:13,734 --> 00:33:15,717
♪ ♪
826
00:33:15,736 --> 00:33:18,644
As soon as I got the job
that I'm in now,
827
00:33:18,664 --> 00:33:20,739
It just kind of took over
my life on such a level
828
00:33:20,833 --> 00:33:23,558
That I didn't make time to--
to date and think
829
00:33:23,651 --> 00:33:25,151
About relationships
'cause I got
830
00:33:25,245 --> 00:33:26,895
Really focused on my own self.
831
00:33:26,988 --> 00:33:29,339
I mean, I think
as a 41-year-old guy,
832
00:33:29,566 --> 00:33:30,732
I probably should have
a couple four-
833
00:33:30,825 --> 00:33:32,658
Or five-year relationships.
834
00:33:32,678 --> 00:33:34,511
The longest relationships
I've had
835
00:33:34,738 --> 00:33:36,662
Are probably two
to three years.
836
00:33:36,757 --> 00:33:38,089
I'm a bit of a loud mouth.
837
00:33:38,183 --> 00:33:40,425
I have a very inappropriate
sense of humor,
838
00:33:40,577 --> 00:33:42,835
But I mean, my biggest flaw
839
00:33:42,855 --> 00:33:45,597
Is just,
I've had commitment issues.
840
00:33:45,749 --> 00:33:48,750
- ♪ the road is never easy ♪
841
00:33:48,843 --> 00:33:50,360
- Growing up, my parents
did divorce
842
00:33:50,587 --> 00:33:52,254
When I was probably
three years old.
843
00:33:52,272 --> 00:33:55,924
So I don't really remember
having a mom and dad
844
00:33:55,942 --> 00:33:58,201
In the same home, and I think
if I didn't have my brother
845
00:33:58,428 --> 00:34:00,037
And sister-in-law
as role models
846
00:34:00,264 --> 00:34:02,021
For what
a healthy marriage looks like,
847
00:34:02,041 --> 00:34:04,282
I might not be
in this situation today
848
00:34:04,434 --> 00:34:06,451
Where I feel--where I actually
feel ready to get married.
849
00:34:06,545 --> 00:34:08,937
- ♪ whoa, whoa ♪
850
00:34:08,955 --> 00:34:11,456
- My brother is
two years older than me.
851
00:34:11,608 --> 00:34:13,291
He's currently married,
and they've got
852
00:34:13,443 --> 00:34:15,960
Two beautiful daughters
who are my nieces
853
00:34:16,113 --> 00:34:17,462
Who I love to death.
854
00:34:17,556 --> 00:34:19,723
I actually took care
of my older niece
855
00:34:19,874 --> 00:34:21,966
For a year and a half
kind of between careers,
856
00:34:22,061 --> 00:34:26,471
So I was--I was a
full-on nanny, a manny.
857
00:34:26,565 --> 00:34:29,048
I think I excelled
as a caretaker to a child,
858
00:34:29,068 --> 00:34:31,643
And I think I'd be a great dad.
859
00:34:31,795 --> 00:34:35,130
- ♪ oh, he can turn it up ♪
860
00:34:35,148 --> 00:34:36,965
- I wanna get married
at first sight
861
00:34:36,983 --> 00:34:39,134
Because it's probably the only
way I'm gonna get married.
862
00:34:39,152 --> 00:34:41,244
I need help to get out of my
comfort zone here, you know,
863
00:34:41,396 --> 00:34:43,488
So this is gonna force me
to take the highest level
864
00:34:43,582 --> 00:34:45,990
Of commitment that there is
in relationship
865
00:34:46,143 --> 00:34:47,918
When I've really failed at even
866
00:34:48,069 --> 00:34:49,419
The lowest levels
of commitment.
867
00:34:49,571 --> 00:34:51,813
So I think it's just the
right--it's the right thing
868
00:34:51,906 --> 00:34:53,998
For me at the right time.
869
00:34:54,093 --> 00:34:57,152
- ♪ oh, oh, oh ♪
870
00:34:57,170 --> 00:34:59,912
- Can't stop thinking
about who is she?
871
00:35:00,006 --> 00:35:01,673
- What's--what's my ideal wife?
872
00:35:01,825 --> 00:35:03,325
What do we hope she is?
873
00:35:03,343 --> 00:35:05,084
- I guess a-a strong--
a stronger woman,
874
00:35:05,104 --> 00:35:09,331
Like, able to speak her mind.
875
00:35:09,349 --> 00:35:11,424
- A woman who's not strong
opinion who doesn't have
876
00:35:11,518 --> 00:35:13,426
A strong will, who doesn't
have a lot of determination,
877
00:35:13,520 --> 00:35:15,261
To me, that seems boring.
878
00:35:15,280 --> 00:35:16,762
- Yeah, yeah, respect.
- A badass.
879
00:35:16,857 --> 00:35:18,115
- You need someone that
you respect and you admire.
880
00:35:18,266 --> 00:35:19,599
- Yeah, yeah.
881
00:35:19,618 --> 00:35:21,343
- He's a little rough
around the edges.
882
00:35:21,361 --> 00:35:22,677
I don't know
if I would've thought
883
00:35:22,696 --> 00:35:25,347
He was ready for marriage,
but he's a good guy.
884
00:35:25,365 --> 00:35:26,623
- Bye, bye.
885
00:35:26,774 --> 00:35:28,458
- Bye, bye.
886
00:35:28,610 --> 00:35:31,686
- He's never been in a real
committed relationship.
887
00:35:31,705 --> 00:35:33,279
You know, he, hasn't had
to suffer through some
888
00:35:33,298 --> 00:35:35,523
Of those really
hard conversations
889
00:35:35,617 --> 00:35:37,467
Where you just don't
see eye to eye,
890
00:35:37,619 --> 00:35:39,861
But you have to come
to some sort of agreement.
891
00:35:39,880 --> 00:35:41,972
So he might think
that he can walk away
892
00:35:42,123 --> 00:35:44,716
Or he might want to just,
you know, say eff this.
893
00:35:44,868 --> 00:35:46,643
You know, you've always been
kind of a rebel,
894
00:35:46,794 --> 00:35:49,646
And you've always resisted
conforming, you know.
895
00:35:49,797 --> 00:35:52,983
There's gonna be arguments,
and the--the one thing
896
00:35:53,210 --> 00:35:56,302
I would say is like,
try not to say anything
897
00:35:56,321 --> 00:35:59,305
That you are gonna
have trouble taking back.
898
00:35:59,324 --> 00:36:01,049
- Yeah, and you know me,
I mean, I'm cra--I'm fiery.
899
00:36:01,067 --> 00:36:02,884
I don't--I don't
back down about anything,
900
00:36:02,903 --> 00:36:05,236
And I don't want to ever
compromise my integrity.
901
00:36:05,389 --> 00:36:07,055
- Right.
902
00:36:07,073 --> 00:36:08,481
- You know, with--
you know, the plastic thing,
903
00:36:08,500 --> 00:36:10,225
It's like ridiculous.
I mean, I'm almost ridiculous.
904
00:36:10,243 --> 00:36:12,169
I'm the guy that
causes scene at a café
905
00:36:12,320 --> 00:36:14,412
'cause they won't fill up
my cup, you know what I mean?
906
00:36:14,564 --> 00:36:17,007
- So what if you're
with your future wife,
907
00:36:17,158 --> 00:36:19,009
And she was just hoping to
have, like, a nice night out?
908
00:36:19,236 --> 00:36:22,161
♪ ♪
909
00:36:22,181 --> 00:36:25,590
- I'll learn,
you know, I'll be cool.
910
00:36:25,742 --> 00:36:26,850
Mitch is committed now.
911
00:36:27,001 --> 00:36:28,426
[both laugh]
912
00:36:28,520 --> 00:36:33,172
♪ ♪
913
00:36:33,192 --> 00:36:35,341
- Krysten and mitch
are a great match because
914
00:36:35,435 --> 00:36:37,861
They journeyed to become
the people that they are today,
915
00:36:38,012 --> 00:36:41,105
And they're secure in
themselves and what they want.
916
00:36:41,200 --> 00:36:43,700
Krysten is looking
for a man with passion
917
00:36:43,927 --> 00:36:46,036
For what he does,
and mitch's passion
918
00:36:46,263 --> 00:36:47,704
For his work as an
environmentalist
919
00:36:47,855 --> 00:36:49,614
Knows no bounds.
920
00:36:49,708 --> 00:36:51,599
Krysten will find security
in the fact
921
00:36:51,693 --> 00:36:53,785
That self-sufficient
mitch will not
922
00:36:53,879 --> 00:36:56,438
Take advantage of her
like other men in the past.
923
00:36:56,456 --> 00:36:59,123
Most importantly,
they both care deeply
924
00:36:59,218 --> 00:37:02,385
About starting a family
in the not-too-distant future.
925
00:37:02,537 --> 00:37:08,299
- ♪ I just want your loving,
your loving ♪
926
00:37:08,393 --> 00:37:12,303
- Our fourth couple
is morgan and binh.
927
00:37:12,397 --> 00:37:15,065
We've matched morgan
and binh because binh
928
00:37:15,216 --> 00:37:18,476
Is the dependable nice guy
that morgan knows she needs
929
00:37:18,628 --> 00:37:20,720
But never attracts.
930
00:37:20,814 --> 00:37:23,815
And fearless morgan will be
the willing adventure partner
931
00:37:23,967 --> 00:37:26,985
That binh has been
searching for.
932
00:37:27,079 --> 00:37:29,246
- Cute.
933
00:37:29,473 --> 00:37:31,489
- I love the view.
- Oh, this is really cute.
934
00:37:31,583 --> 00:37:33,566
- This is really nice.
935
00:37:33,660 --> 00:37:37,312
I'm really excited to tell
my friends that I am engaged.
936
00:37:37,330 --> 00:37:39,756
Now, I know there's gonna
be a lot of questions,
937
00:37:39,907 --> 00:37:43,334
A lot of concerns,
probably shock and confusion
938
00:37:43,428 --> 00:37:46,337
With me marrying a total,
complete stranger,
939
00:37:46,431 --> 00:37:49,173
But I hope they will
be truly supportive
940
00:37:49,326 --> 00:37:51,159
Of this entire process.
941
00:37:51,177 --> 00:37:53,937
If not, I can--
I can throw a punch. [laughs]
942
00:37:54,164 --> 00:37:56,922
Cheers to a great night out.
- Yes.
943
00:37:57,017 --> 00:37:58,850
- To a lot of fun.
Thank you.
944
00:37:59,002 --> 00:38:00,685
- Only single person.
[laughter]
945
00:38:00,779 --> 00:38:02,612
- Hey, not now.
946
00:38:02,764 --> 00:38:06,116
- I always say you'll find it
when you least expect it.
947
00:38:06,267 --> 00:38:08,860
- Yeah.
- It could be tomorrow.
948
00:38:09,012 --> 00:38:10,120
- It could be tomorrow.
949
00:38:10,347 --> 00:38:13,531
It could be
in a couple of weeks.
950
00:38:13,625 --> 00:38:15,199
- It could be
in a couple weeks, who knows?
951
00:38:15,294 --> 00:38:16,960
- There's someone out there
for me right now.
952
00:38:17,187 --> 00:38:19,203
- Of course.
953
00:38:19,356 --> 00:38:21,689
- There is, because I'm--I'm
getting married in two weeks.
954
00:38:21,708 --> 00:38:23,374
Cheers.
955
00:38:23,468 --> 00:38:25,360
♪ ♪
956
00:38:25,378 --> 00:38:28,530
- Just so you know,
I don't care.
957
00:38:28,548 --> 00:38:31,215
♪ shut up,
I don't wanna hear it ♪
958
00:38:31,368 --> 00:38:34,369
- I know a lot of guys wish
they could have that woman
959
00:38:34,387 --> 00:38:36,796
Who is a little bit more
laid back and, "oh, yeah,
960
00:38:36,815 --> 00:38:38,798
"whatever you wanna
do, babe, that's fine.
961
00:38:38,817 --> 00:38:40,041
"oh, you want to
watch a sports game?
962
00:38:40,060 --> 00:38:41,484
Cool, let's go together."
963
00:38:41,636 --> 00:38:43,728
No, I don't wanna go watch
your stupid sports game.
964
00:38:43,822 --> 00:38:46,472
- ♪ coming in fast
like a jet plane ♪
965
00:38:46,491 --> 00:38:49,067
- When I tell guys that I'm
into, like, video games
966
00:38:49,161 --> 00:38:51,903
And muay thai and working out
and lifting weights,
967
00:38:51,997 --> 00:38:55,239
At first, they're really
intrigued, but I've noticed
968
00:38:55,334 --> 00:38:57,834
That a lot of the times
that, like, guys can be stuck
969
00:38:57,985 --> 00:39:00,244
In the mindset of,
"oh, I want this passive woman
970
00:39:00,397 --> 00:39:01,913
Who's gonna follow me."
971
00:39:02,007 --> 00:39:04,341
So they get to know me
and they're like,
972
00:39:04,568 --> 00:39:06,417
Maybe she's a little bit
too headstrong for me.
973
00:39:06,511 --> 00:39:08,845
Maybe she's a little bit
too independent for me.
974
00:39:09,072 --> 00:39:10,922
♪ ♪
975
00:39:11,016 --> 00:39:12,907
- ♪ yeah, yeah ♪
976
00:39:12,926 --> 00:39:14,242
- A year and a half ago,
977
00:39:14,260 --> 00:39:15,593
I was going through a lot
in that time.
978
00:39:15,745 --> 00:39:17,745
My relationship sucked.
979
00:39:17,764 --> 00:39:21,099
My career sucked,
and I had no relationship
980
00:39:21,251 --> 00:39:22,508
Between me and my father.
981
00:39:22,527 --> 00:39:24,677
It was everything all at once.
982
00:39:24,771 --> 00:39:26,771
I was gaining weight, I was
unhappy with how I looked.
983
00:39:26,865 --> 00:39:29,849
♪ ♪
984
00:39:29,868 --> 00:39:32,184
There were a lot of times
I broke down
985
00:39:32,204 --> 00:39:33,595
To my mom, and I was just like,
986
00:39:33,613 --> 00:39:35,688
"I don't know
what I'm doing right now."
987
00:39:35,707 --> 00:39:37,765
And she's like,
"morgan, you come
988
00:39:37,784 --> 00:39:40,526
From such a strong line
of hukuwi women,
989
00:39:40,620 --> 00:39:42,604
And you need to remember that."
990
00:39:42,622 --> 00:39:45,623
Hukuwi, it's my
japanese family name.
991
00:39:45,775 --> 00:39:49,702
And so that was, like,
the turning point.
992
00:39:49,721 --> 00:39:51,295
Turned everything
around there--
993
00:39:51,390 --> 00:39:53,390
I got out of the relationship,
make career moves.
994
00:39:53,617 --> 00:39:55,133
Made moves that, like,
made me happier,
995
00:39:55,285 --> 00:39:57,635
Healthier, mentally stronger.
996
00:39:57,787 --> 00:40:00,972
So now I look at myself now,
and I'm, like, extremely happy
997
00:40:01,066 --> 00:40:02,548
That I went through that
because now I'm, like,
998
00:40:02,567 --> 00:40:04,292
Such a better person
because of it.
999
00:40:04,310 --> 00:40:06,294
But I'm alone,
1000
00:40:06,312 --> 00:40:09,572
And I want to share
my life with someone.
1001
00:40:09,724 --> 00:40:12,057
I'm tired of dating,
1002
00:40:12,077 --> 00:40:14,318
And at this point,
there's obviously something
1003
00:40:14,471 --> 00:40:15,912
That I'm doing wrong.
1004
00:40:16,063 --> 00:40:19,416
So if these matchmakers
can see something in me
1005
00:40:19,643 --> 00:40:22,585
That I'm not seeing
and they can find someone
1006
00:40:22,737 --> 00:40:26,089
That meets those standards,
then I'm--I'm ready.
1007
00:40:26,240 --> 00:40:27,498
Let's do it.
Let's get married.
1008
00:40:27,592 --> 00:40:29,241
♪ ♪
1009
00:40:29,335 --> 00:40:30,485
- What are you--
- jesus.
1010
00:40:30,578 --> 00:40:32,762
- And you're casually just--
1011
00:40:32,914 --> 00:40:34,656
- Just casually.
1012
00:40:34,674 --> 00:40:35,748
I know, it's just,
gotta get married real quick.
1013
00:40:35,767 --> 00:40:37,341
- Like, you're just casually--
1014
00:40:37,436 --> 00:40:39,827
- No, no, like, this is,
this is like a real marriage.
1015
00:40:39,921 --> 00:40:41,345
This is, like, a real serious--
- dude--
1016
00:40:41,440 --> 00:40:43,514
- Like, we're--we're
actually getting married.
1017
00:40:43,608 --> 00:40:45,333
- That's so crazy.
1018
00:40:45,351 --> 00:40:46,668
- Yeah.
1019
00:40:46,761 --> 00:40:48,445
- I've known you
through nursing school,
1020
00:40:48,672 --> 00:40:50,188
And we worked
together for a bit.
1021
00:40:50,340 --> 00:40:51,856
And if anything,
you're a leader.
1022
00:40:51,950 --> 00:40:53,599
You're not a follower.
- You like your freedom.
1023
00:40:53,693 --> 00:40:55,693
- I do like my freedom.
1024
00:40:55,787 --> 00:40:58,604
I like my freedom and my
independence and my control.
1025
00:40:58,623 --> 00:41:01,015
- He needs to understand
that, that you are powerful.
1026
00:41:01,034 --> 00:41:02,775
- Yeah.
1027
00:41:02,794 --> 00:41:04,109
- And if he can't handle that,
it's not gonna work.
1028
00:41:04,129 --> 00:41:06,871
- It's just
who I am as a person.
1029
00:41:06,965 --> 00:41:09,207
- Morgan can be a little
intense sometimes.
1030
00:41:09,301 --> 00:41:12,802
You can see my tooth
is a little chipped right now.
1031
00:41:12,954 --> 00:41:16,547
We do kickboxing together,
and yeah, she did this
1032
00:41:16,700 --> 00:41:18,700
With a nice knee to the face.
1033
00:41:18,718 --> 00:41:20,885
So you know, guys just
gonna have to deal
1034
00:41:21,037 --> 00:41:22,537
With that stuff with morgan.
1035
00:41:22,630 --> 00:41:25,297
So good luck to him.
[laughs]
1036
00:41:25,317 --> 00:41:27,317
- Well, I hope they
found you a man
1037
00:41:27,468 --> 00:41:29,486
That can handle a strong woman,
'cause that's definitely you.
1038
00:41:29,637 --> 00:41:32,230
- Thank you.
1039
00:41:32,324 --> 00:41:34,991
They're giving me, like,
this picture-perfect man
1040
00:41:35,142 --> 00:41:38,477
That's essentially for me.
1041
00:41:38,497 --> 00:41:40,738
I'm ready to just
get married already.
1042
00:41:40,832 --> 00:41:42,665
♪ ♪
1043
00:41:46,821 --> 00:41:49,506
- ♪ I wanted to dance
to your frequency ♪
1044
00:41:49,657 --> 00:41:51,916
♪ do you hear my ♪
1045
00:41:52,010 --> 00:41:54,159
- We've matched five couples
to be married at first sight.
1046
00:41:54,179 --> 00:41:57,830
Our fourth couple
is morgan and binh.
1047
00:41:57,849 --> 00:41:59,498
Morgan just revealed
that she's getting
1048
00:41:59,592 --> 00:42:01,184
Married at first sight.
1049
00:42:01,411 --> 00:42:03,669
Now binh's going to tell
his closest buddies.
1050
00:42:03,688 --> 00:42:06,597
[upbeat music]
1051
00:42:06,750 --> 00:42:08,024
♪ ♪
1052
00:42:08,175 --> 00:42:13,345
[laughter]
1053
00:42:13,365 --> 00:42:15,014
- All my friends are married
or in a relationship.
1054
00:42:15,033 --> 00:42:18,183
I feel like I'm a step behind,
so it's hard for me.
1055
00:42:18,203 --> 00:42:19,761
I'm tired of being
the ninth wheel.
1056
00:42:19,779 --> 00:42:21,687
So I'm super excited
to tell them
1057
00:42:21,706 --> 00:42:23,706
That I'm getting married
at first sight.
1058
00:42:23,858 --> 00:42:25,858
They could be skeptical,
but we've been there
1059
00:42:25,877 --> 00:42:26,951
Through the good
and the bad and--
1060
00:42:27,103 --> 00:42:29,712
And I want them to be there now
1061
00:42:29,864 --> 00:42:32,215
In potentially the
happiest moment of my life.
1062
00:42:32,442 --> 00:42:34,700
- Hey, I miss living
with this guy, man.
1063
00:42:34,719 --> 00:42:35,626
- We were roommates
for, like, what?
1064
00:42:35,720 --> 00:42:37,111
A year--almost a year?
1065
00:42:37,204 --> 00:42:38,871
- Yeah, since he moved
out, you--you got
1066
00:42:38,890 --> 00:42:40,298
No girls moving in with you?
- Yeah.
1067
00:42:40,450 --> 00:42:41,616
- You've replaced him?
Dude, what's going on?
1068
00:42:41,634 --> 00:42:43,059
- You know, I'm trying--
trying to figure it out.
1069
00:42:43,210 --> 00:42:44,376
You know, it's been--it's
been some--some lonely nights
1070
00:42:44,396 --> 00:42:45,711
And then, like,
I see you guys all,
1071
00:42:45,805 --> 00:42:47,121
All happy with your girls.
1072
00:42:47,140 --> 00:42:48,714
Like, you guys all
moved in with your girl.
1073
00:42:48,733 --> 00:42:50,975
- Binh, you got--
you got two degrees.
1074
00:42:51,127 --> 00:42:53,069
You fit, you muscular, bro.
1075
00:42:53,220 --> 00:42:54,904
Like, you're super smart,
which you've gotten to a point
1076
00:42:55,131 --> 00:42:56,406
Where you can filter yourself
where you,
1077
00:42:56,633 --> 00:42:58,466
"I want somebody
that's smart and she fine."
1078
00:42:58,484 --> 00:42:59,967
And you're gonna get
both of them, bro.
1079
00:42:59,986 --> 00:43:01,652
- Honestly, kyle,
my mama says the same thing,
1080
00:43:01,805 --> 00:43:04,396
But I'm still waiting, man.
1081
00:43:04,416 --> 00:43:05,973
- ♪ it's your party, baby ♪
1082
00:43:06,067 --> 00:43:07,733
♪ work it out if you want to ♪
1083
00:43:07,752 --> 00:43:09,401
♪ rock it out if you want to ♪
1084
00:43:09,495 --> 00:43:10,995
- I'm I a mama's boy?
1085
00:43:11,147 --> 00:43:13,739
To a certain extent, yes.
1086
00:43:13,833 --> 00:43:15,925
My mama is someone
that I can go to for anything.
1087
00:43:16,152 --> 00:43:18,836
And when I talk to her,
she makes my day.
1088
00:43:18,988 --> 00:43:20,579
She makes me smile.
1089
00:43:20,599 --> 00:43:23,825
- ♪ hey, mama,
I need you in my life ♪
1090
00:43:23,918 --> 00:43:25,417
- Every girl
that I have in my life,
1091
00:43:25,437 --> 00:43:26,828
I always compare to my mom.
1092
00:43:26,921 --> 00:43:29,105
She's the kindest person
I know.
1093
00:43:29,256 --> 00:43:30,681
And growing up with that,
I've always felt like I wanted
1094
00:43:30,834 --> 00:43:31,833
My wife to be the same way.
1095
00:43:31,851 --> 00:43:34,777
♪ ♪
1096
00:43:34,929 --> 00:43:37,505
My parents left vietnam
in 1975 with very little
1097
00:43:37,598 --> 00:43:39,115
And met at a refugee camp.
1098
00:43:39,266 --> 00:43:41,951
- ♪ take a look and see
what you wanna be ♪
1099
00:43:42,178 --> 00:43:44,011
- Growing up, my parents
were very traditional.
1100
00:43:44,030 --> 00:43:45,288
It's kind of like
you have to pick
1101
00:43:45,515 --> 00:43:47,515
Engineer, lawyer, or doctor,
and for me,
1102
00:43:47,608 --> 00:43:49,626
One of the things
that I kinda excelled at
1103
00:43:49,777 --> 00:43:51,777
Was at mathematics.
1104
00:43:51,871 --> 00:43:55,523
I was on the--I was a mathlete
and as an engineer, you know,
1105
00:43:55,541 --> 00:43:57,634
I work a sedentary lifestyle.
I'm on the computer all day.
1106
00:43:57,785 --> 00:44:00,136
So when I'm outside of work,
I love to go on hikes.
1107
00:44:00,363 --> 00:44:03,030
I love to work out
and go into the beach,
1108
00:44:03,049 --> 00:44:04,382
Doing a lot of things that
san diego has to offer,
1109
00:44:04,476 --> 00:44:06,125
But also going and adventuring
1110
00:44:06,144 --> 00:44:08,127
In other parts of the world
as well,
1111
00:44:08,146 --> 00:44:10,388
As long as it's affordable.
1112
00:44:10,482 --> 00:44:12,482
[laughs]
1113
00:44:12,709 --> 00:44:15,634
- ♪ money, money,
I just can't get enough ♪
1114
00:44:15,654 --> 00:44:17,302
- I'm a super frugal person,
1115
00:44:17,322 --> 00:44:19,489
And that's because
of my--my mom and my dad.
1116
00:44:19,640 --> 00:44:21,899
- ♪ money, money ♪
1117
00:44:22,051 --> 00:44:23,217
- I don't do laundry
from 4:00 to 9:00.
1118
00:44:23,236 --> 00:44:24,309
Those are peak hours.
1119
00:44:24,329 --> 00:44:25,644
I don't use air conditioning.
1120
00:44:25,738 --> 00:44:27,221
I don't use the heater.
1121
00:44:27,240 --> 00:44:28,572
I just open the window.
1122
00:44:28,667 --> 00:44:30,333
- ♪ money, money ♪
1123
00:44:30,484 --> 00:44:32,335
- My frugalness does,
to a certain extent,
1124
00:44:32,486 --> 00:44:34,562
Dictate relationships on the
fact that, like,
1125
00:44:34,580 --> 00:44:36,488
I-I really don't wanna
do bottle service.
1126
00:44:36,508 --> 00:44:38,157
I don't wanna go out
every weekend.
1127
00:44:38,176 --> 00:44:39,583
If I'm accruing debt,
that's something
1128
00:44:39,736 --> 00:44:41,252
That I can't compromise.
1129
00:44:41,404 --> 00:44:43,237
♪ ♪
1130
00:44:43,330 --> 00:44:45,164
People see a lot
of external things from me.
1131
00:44:45,183 --> 00:44:48,000
They see a master's program.
They see the fit body.
1132
00:44:48,019 --> 00:44:52,337
They see my stable job,
but for me, when I come home,
1133
00:44:52,357 --> 00:44:55,174
I come home to emptiness,
and I would honestly take away
1134
00:44:55,193 --> 00:44:57,251
My master's program
if it meant having a wife
1135
00:44:57,344 --> 00:44:59,529
And--and a happy marriage.
1136
00:44:59,756 --> 00:45:02,365
I wanna find somebody,
a best friend,
1137
00:45:02,516 --> 00:45:05,259
But I've been having
a rough time in san diego
1138
00:45:05,352 --> 00:45:06,852
With--with the
dating apps or--
1139
00:45:06,871 --> 00:45:09,113
Or meeting people in person.
1140
00:45:09,207 --> 00:45:10,873
And it's hard at the gym
because everyone has rbf.
1141
00:45:11,100 --> 00:45:12,950
[laughs]
1142
00:45:13,102 --> 00:45:14,860
I won't cuss for my mom.
1143
00:45:14,879 --> 00:45:17,271
I won't cuss.
1144
00:45:17,290 --> 00:45:19,048
What are you guys doing
in two weeks?
1145
00:45:19,200 --> 00:45:21,384
- Two weeks?
- Two weeks. Yeah.
1146
00:45:21,535 --> 00:45:22,868
- I think I'm free, bro.
1147
00:45:22,887 --> 00:45:24,111
I mean, well, it depends.
For you?
1148
00:45:24,205 --> 00:45:25,537
I mean, for you,
I'll make time.
1149
00:45:25,557 --> 00:45:26,948
- For--okay.
- Just working, like whatever.
1150
00:45:26,966 --> 00:45:28,391
- I'm getting married
in two weeks.
1151
00:45:28,618 --> 00:45:30,059
- Let's go!
1152
00:45:30,286 --> 00:45:31,210
- Yeah, I'm getting married
in two weeks, yeah.
1153
00:45:31,229 --> 00:45:32,544
I'm getting married in philly.
1154
00:45:32,564 --> 00:45:34,397
You feel me?
No more seventh wheel.
1155
00:45:34,548 --> 00:45:36,807
- Ever since I've known binh,
he's definitely not
1156
00:45:36,901 --> 00:45:39,551
Had the best luck with ladies.
1157
00:45:39,571 --> 00:45:42,721
And I lived with him
for almost a year.
1158
00:45:42,815 --> 00:45:46,300
You know, definitely didn't
have some very good nights,
1159
00:45:46,319 --> 00:45:48,894
And you know,
nothing really lasted for him.
1160
00:45:48,988 --> 00:45:51,247
So I, you know, I really hope
these experts can help him out
1161
00:45:51,474 --> 00:45:53,416
And, you know,
find what he's looking for.
1162
00:45:53,643 --> 00:45:55,493
- I mean, I feel like when
I dedicate to something,
1163
00:45:55,587 --> 00:45:57,086
Like, I-I for sure, like,
I feel like put my time in.
1164
00:45:57,313 --> 00:45:59,422
- You always see it to the end.
- Yeah.
1165
00:45:59,649 --> 00:46:01,332
- You--you that type
of guy that always,
1166
00:46:01,484 --> 00:46:03,651
You know, has best intentions.
1167
00:46:03,669 --> 00:46:04,652
- Which is, like,
crazy 'cause I've been
1168
00:46:04,670 --> 00:46:06,487
In some crazy relationships.
1169
00:46:06,506 --> 00:46:07,671
- Yeah.
- Like, you know what I mean?
1170
00:46:07,824 --> 00:46:09,340
That first girl that--
remember--remember--
1171
00:46:09,492 --> 00:46:11,083
We don't even--I won't
even speak of her name
1172
00:46:11,177 --> 00:46:13,177
Like she's voldemort but--
1173
00:46:13,271 --> 00:46:15,921
- She cheated on you, huh?
- She done cheated on me.
1174
00:46:16,015 --> 00:46:18,165
Yeah, she cheated on me
after like two, three years.
1175
00:46:18,184 --> 00:46:19,776
- It's probably 'cause
you cheap as hell bro.
1176
00:46:20,003 --> 00:46:21,277
- I mean,
that's subjective, right?
1177
00:46:21,504 --> 00:46:23,279
- No.
1178
00:46:23,430 --> 00:46:25,448
- Ever since I've known you,
every--every day for lunch,
1179
00:46:25,599 --> 00:46:27,766
You have a peanut butter
sandwich and a banana, bro.
1180
00:46:27,786 --> 00:46:29,193
- What about,
what about the quinoa?
1181
00:46:29,287 --> 00:46:30,678
What about the quinoa?
1182
00:46:30,696 --> 00:46:32,938
- Binh's had a 401(k)
since he was 15.
1183
00:46:32,957 --> 00:46:34,698
- Like, literally.
1184
00:46:34,793 --> 00:46:36,684
- Everything I do, I put it
into crypto and stocks
1185
00:46:36,777 --> 00:46:38,628
And stuff like that.
- Damn, bro!
1186
00:46:38,855 --> 00:46:40,371
But you need to take
your next girl out, bro.
1187
00:46:40,523 --> 00:46:41,464
- Yeah.
I mean, we can go hiking.
1188
00:46:41,615 --> 00:46:44,025
[laughter]
1189
00:46:44,043 --> 00:46:45,860
- You gotta splurge
sometimes, though,
1190
00:46:45,878 --> 00:46:47,303
Because if your girl wants,
you know,
1191
00:46:47,454 --> 00:46:49,121
Ben and jerry's
you might have--
1192
00:46:49,140 --> 00:46:50,531
- Ben and jerry's
the double scoop--
1193
00:46:50,624 --> 00:46:52,383
- Sacrifice.
- She gets a single scoop.
1194
00:46:52,535 --> 00:46:54,626
No cone.
- No cone?
1195
00:46:54,646 --> 00:46:55,961
- That's--that's lavish.
- Oh, dang.
1196
00:46:55,980 --> 00:46:58,706
- I-I don't know
the last time he bought
1197
00:46:58,724 --> 00:47:01,058
Any jewelry for any girl.
1198
00:47:01,210 --> 00:47:04,395
Binh would probably be
buying his new fiancée
1199
00:47:04,547 --> 00:47:07,064
A onion ring, or something.
1200
00:47:07,158 --> 00:47:08,658
- Yeah, so for her birthday
and like, anniversaries,
1201
00:47:08,885 --> 00:47:10,901
I'ma buy her stocks.
1202
00:47:10,995 --> 00:47:12,903
- She ain't gonna like that.
- She--she want a tesla.
1203
00:47:13,056 --> 00:47:14,980
We'll get a tesla stock.
1204
00:47:15,074 --> 00:47:16,815
- My phone will be open
at night when you wanna talk
1205
00:47:16,835 --> 00:47:18,559
'cause you gonna be
sleeping in your car.
1206
00:47:18,578 --> 00:47:22,004
♪ ♪
1207
00:47:22,231 --> 00:47:24,674
- Morgan and binh are a solid
match because
1208
00:47:24,825 --> 00:47:27,492
They both work hard
on themselves in order to be
1209
00:47:27,512 --> 00:47:29,570
Ready to be
a supportive partner
1210
00:47:29,589 --> 00:47:31,514
In a healthy relationship.
1211
00:47:31,665 --> 00:47:34,350
Morgan needs someone
like happy-go-lucky binh,
1212
00:47:34,577 --> 00:47:36,594
Who isn't intimidated
by her natural
1213
00:47:36,688 --> 00:47:38,929
Independence and leadership.
1214
00:47:39,082 --> 00:47:41,749
Additionally, this active
and physically fit couple
1215
00:47:41,767 --> 00:47:43,342
Will have
a lot of fun together--
1216
00:47:43,361 --> 00:47:46,178
As long as their adventures
are not too expensive
1217
00:47:46,272 --> 00:47:48,531
For binh's frugal side.
1218
00:47:48,682 --> 00:47:52,684
- ♪ heartbreak never
gonna stop me now ♪
1219
00:47:52,704 --> 00:47:56,688
- Our fifth couple
is stacia and nate.
1220
00:47:56,708 --> 00:47:59,433
Stacia and nate
are a natural match.
1221
00:47:59,452 --> 00:48:02,361
These two stylish
and good-natured individuals
1222
00:48:02,380 --> 00:48:04,455
Are both looking
for their other half
1223
00:48:04,607 --> 00:48:06,883
To create
the ultimate power couple,
1224
00:48:07,034 --> 00:48:09,460
Build wealth, and provide
for their future family.
1225
00:48:09,612 --> 00:48:11,870
♪ ♪
1226
00:48:11,890 --> 00:48:14,891
- So I just pulled up
to tell my mom
1227
00:48:15,118 --> 00:48:17,042
That I am getting married
at first sight.
1228
00:48:17,136 --> 00:48:19,061
I am super, super excited.
1229
00:48:19,288 --> 00:48:20,545
I'm nervous.
1230
00:48:20,565 --> 00:48:22,806
I'm not sure what
she's going to say
1231
00:48:22,959 --> 00:48:24,716
Or how she's going to respond.
1232
00:48:24,810 --> 00:48:27,478
How are you?
- Good.
1233
00:48:27,630 --> 00:48:30,907
- I'm just hoping that she is
real supportive of all of this
1234
00:48:31,058 --> 00:48:35,819
Because my mom is pretty much
the only parent that I have.
1235
00:48:35,914 --> 00:48:38,472
So you know, I've been
on the search for a husband
1236
00:48:38,491 --> 00:48:39,898
For what is it?
1237
00:48:39,918 --> 00:48:41,733
What am I, 37?
1238
00:48:41,753 --> 00:48:44,328
I mean, do the math,
about 15 years.
1239
00:48:44,422 --> 00:48:46,830
[both laugh]
- yeah, yeah.
1240
00:48:46,925 --> 00:48:49,425
- But I was so focused
on trying to build myself up,
1241
00:48:49,576 --> 00:48:52,336
Like, going to school,
working on my business,
1242
00:48:52,488 --> 00:48:55,489
And you know I've been going
through this whole process.
1243
00:48:55,508 --> 00:48:57,416
- Mm-hmm.
1244
00:48:57,435 --> 00:48:59,251
- And they're doing
everything that they can
1245
00:48:59,270 --> 00:49:01,829
Try and find me
a perfect match.
1246
00:49:01,847 --> 00:49:06,500
So I just wanted to know
if you would be open to going
1247
00:49:06,519 --> 00:49:08,444
Dress shopping with me
on Thursday...
1248
00:49:10,782 --> 00:49:12,764
Because I'm getting married
to a stranger
1249
00:49:12,858 --> 00:49:14,175
In less than two weeks.
1250
00:49:14,193 --> 00:49:17,102
- Ah, say what?
1251
00:49:17,121 --> 00:49:18,770
You're getting married
in two weeks?
1252
00:49:18,864 --> 00:49:20,605
- Yes.
They found me a match.
1253
00:49:20,625 --> 00:49:22,183
- You've not met this person?
1254
00:49:22,201 --> 00:49:23,608
- I know nothing about him.
1255
00:49:23,628 --> 00:49:25,444
♪ ♪
1256
00:49:25,463 --> 00:49:27,521
[laughs]
1257
00:49:27,540 --> 00:49:29,190
Who are you praying for?
- That's for him.
1258
00:49:29,208 --> 00:49:31,467
[both laugh]
1259
00:49:31,618 --> 00:49:34,303
- ♪ you know when you rolling
with the big boss ♪
1260
00:49:34,530 --> 00:49:36,880
♪ you ain't gotta worry
about what it costs ♪
1261
00:49:36,975 --> 00:49:40,551
- I've spent numerous years
building my empire.
1262
00:49:40,703 --> 00:49:42,794
You know, I don't need a man.
I want a man.
1263
00:49:42,888 --> 00:49:44,221
- ♪ I've been
making millions ♪
1264
00:49:44,315 --> 00:49:45,889
♪ and I spend it
on the dance floor ♪
1265
00:49:46,042 --> 00:49:47,541
- I am definitely a boss.
1266
00:49:47,560 --> 00:49:49,543
I am no nonsense.
1267
00:49:49,562 --> 00:49:51,729
I'm gonna come in there,
get the job done.
1268
00:49:51,823 --> 00:49:54,806
Nobody's gonna try and
persuade me any type of way.
1269
00:49:54,900 --> 00:49:56,475
- ♪ na, na, na, na, na ♪
1270
00:49:56,494 --> 00:49:58,160
♪ you can call me bossy ♪
1271
00:49:58,312 --> 00:50:01,222
- I definitely think that
I'm single because of me
1272
00:50:01,240 --> 00:50:03,224
Being intimidating to men.
1273
00:50:03,317 --> 00:50:04,816
You know, I will
stand up for myself.
1274
00:50:04,910 --> 00:50:06,894
I will put you in your place,
1275
00:50:06,912 --> 00:50:08,838
And I will hold you
accountable.
1276
00:50:08,989 --> 00:50:10,822
Not in a bad way though.
1277
00:50:10,842 --> 00:50:14,493
- ♪ better say it right,
eyes on me tonight ♪
1278
00:50:14,587 --> 00:50:17,738
I haven't done anything to
try and find anybody to date.
1279
00:50:17,757 --> 00:50:21,925
I've just been
working and grinding.
1280
00:50:22,078 --> 00:50:23,410
I'm in the finance world.
1281
00:50:23,504 --> 00:50:25,670
I also have
investment properties
1282
00:50:25,690 --> 00:50:27,857
That I renovate and rent out.
1283
00:50:28,008 --> 00:50:31,418
I'm definitely about
creating generational wealth.
1284
00:50:31,437 --> 00:50:33,437
I'm addicted to only
two things in this world,
1285
00:50:33,589 --> 00:50:35,923
And that's coffee and success.
1286
00:50:35,941 --> 00:50:37,867
♪ ♪
1287
00:50:38,018 --> 00:50:40,928
I think I got my work ethic
from not having.
1288
00:50:40,946 --> 00:50:44,114
I saw things on tv
and wanted those things.
1289
00:50:44,208 --> 00:50:46,358
So I was always told
we didn't have enough money
1290
00:50:46,377 --> 00:50:48,102
Or you can't have those things.
1291
00:50:48,120 --> 00:50:49,787
So I knew that
if I wanted something,
1292
00:50:49,881 --> 00:50:51,547
I had to work for it.
1293
00:50:51,698 --> 00:50:54,775
- ♪ in a world
where everyone is phony ♪
1294
00:50:54,794 --> 00:50:57,778
- I don't know
my biological father,
1295
00:50:57,871 --> 00:51:00,130
But I was raised
by my mom and my stepdad.
1296
00:51:00,283 --> 00:51:02,783
- ♪ get it, really show me ♪
1297
00:51:02,802 --> 00:51:04,376
- When I was
in high school, my mom
1298
00:51:04,395 --> 00:51:06,287
Wanted to move out
of the city,
1299
00:51:06,305 --> 00:51:08,898
And I'm, like, on the
varsity volleyball team,
1300
00:51:09,049 --> 00:51:10,791
I've been growing up
with all of these people
1301
00:51:10,810 --> 00:51:13,235
Since I was
in the first grade.
1302
00:51:13,387 --> 00:51:16,072
So me being the stubborn
person that I am, I was like,
1303
00:51:16,299 --> 00:51:19,909
"no, I'm not doing that.
I wanna stay here."
1304
00:51:20,136 --> 00:51:22,653
I ended up emancipating myself
and then living
1305
00:51:22,805 --> 00:51:24,246
With one of my teammates.
1306
00:51:24,473 --> 00:51:27,750
And I definitely saw,
like, the contrast
1307
00:51:27,977 --> 00:51:30,994
Of having, like, the mom
be home and, like,
1308
00:51:31,147 --> 00:51:33,163
Having a dad who comes home
1309
00:51:33,316 --> 00:51:35,591
And eats dinner
with the family.
1310
00:51:35,742 --> 00:51:37,651
That was something
that I wanted.
1311
00:51:37,670 --> 00:51:39,762
- ♪ I'm ready to see what's
next, feeling good today ♪
1312
00:51:39,913 --> 00:51:42,765
- I feel like I have everything
and achieve all my goals
1313
00:51:42,992 --> 00:51:47,177
That I had set, but the
marriage, the family,
1314
00:51:47,330 --> 00:51:49,939
This is my missing piece.
1315
00:51:50,090 --> 00:51:53,258
You know, with me being
37 years old, you know,
1316
00:51:53,277 --> 00:51:55,594
Once I hit 40 years old,
am I still gonna
1317
00:51:55,688 --> 00:51:57,446
Be able to have a family?
1318
00:51:57,673 --> 00:52:00,282
Like, you know,
I want, like, two kids.
1319
00:52:00,434 --> 00:52:04,178
So you know, 37 to 40, like,
I need to get started quick.
1320
00:52:04,271 --> 00:52:05,937
Married at first sight
is probably
1321
00:52:06,031 --> 00:52:08,106
The last option for me.
1322
00:52:08,126 --> 00:52:11,109
I'm--I'm excited.
I'm scared.
1323
00:52:11,129 --> 00:52:13,354
I have so many
different emotions.
1324
00:52:13,447 --> 00:52:15,280
- It is--it's nuts.
- Yeah, it's nuts.
1325
00:52:15,374 --> 00:52:17,616
- It's nuts.
- Yeah.
1326
00:52:17,635 --> 00:52:20,377
But I feel like as I get older,
1327
00:52:20,471 --> 00:52:22,972
It's pushing me
a little bit further back,
1328
00:52:23,123 --> 00:52:24,974
Like with having kids.
- Mm-hmm.
1329
00:52:25,125 --> 00:52:28,369
- So I need to find somebody
who's as serious and committed
1330
00:52:28,462 --> 00:52:30,479
To wanting to, you know,
build a family.
1331
00:52:30,706 --> 00:52:31,705
- Get into a real relationship.
- Yeah.
1332
00:52:31,724 --> 00:52:33,482
- Yeah.
1333
00:52:33,634 --> 00:52:37,319
So because you've taken
all this time to develop
1334
00:52:37,546 --> 00:52:40,990
Your business and acquiring
property investments
1335
00:52:41,141 --> 00:52:42,641
And stuff like that,
1336
00:52:42,660 --> 00:52:45,068
Is there a possibility
of a postnup?
1337
00:52:45,221 --> 00:52:48,998
♪ ♪
1338
00:52:49,149 --> 00:52:53,502
- Yeah, I-I absolutely--
I mean, I'm 100% for that.
1339
00:52:53,654 --> 00:52:54,578
- What if he's not?
1340
00:52:54,730 --> 00:52:56,338
♪ ♪
1341
00:52:56,490 --> 00:52:57,840
What would you do?
1342
00:52:58,067 --> 00:52:59,733
- That's a-a deal breaker.
Yeah.
1343
00:52:59,752 --> 00:53:03,012
♪ ♪
1344
00:53:06,833 --> 00:53:08,242
- ♪ through the fire ♪
1345
00:53:08,335 --> 00:53:09,018
♪ 'cause I crawl right back
to the top ♪
1346
00:53:09,169 --> 00:53:10,411
♪ and watch me ♪
1347
00:53:10,429 --> 00:53:12,429
♪ I can climb higher ♪
1348
00:53:12,581 --> 00:53:15,340
- Our fifth couple
is stacia and nate.
1349
00:53:15,359 --> 00:53:17,342
Stacia just
surprised her mother
1350
00:53:17,436 --> 00:53:20,529
With the unexpected news that
she's marrying a stranger.
1351
00:53:20,756 --> 00:53:25,183
Now it's nate's turn
to surprise his friends.
1352
00:53:25,277 --> 00:53:26,702
- Nate.
- Game night.
1353
00:53:26,853 --> 00:53:28,262
Let's get it.
1354
00:53:28,355 --> 00:53:30,522
- How are you?
- I'm doing good.
1355
00:53:30,616 --> 00:53:32,266
What's up, kelli?
- Hi.
1356
00:53:32,359 --> 00:53:33,951
- My friends
are really important to me
1357
00:53:34,045 --> 00:53:36,045
Because I have a small family.
They don't live here.
1358
00:53:36,272 --> 00:53:38,288
So you know, that is
literally my family
1359
00:53:38,382 --> 00:53:40,607
Out here in san diego.
1360
00:53:40,626 --> 00:53:43,868
♪ ♪
1361
00:53:43,888 --> 00:53:46,947
If I had to go through this
process with my friends
1362
00:53:46,966 --> 00:53:49,800
Not supporting me,
I would feel devastated.
1363
00:53:49,894 --> 00:53:51,227
I would feel lonely,
1364
00:53:51,454 --> 00:53:54,396
And my anxiety levels
would skyrocket.
1365
00:53:54,548 --> 00:53:58,567
You know, you guys know that
I'm going through this process
1366
00:53:58,719 --> 00:54:02,796
With getting married
and like, I just feel like
1367
00:54:02,889 --> 00:54:05,299
It's, like, a huge risk
if I'm chosen,
1368
00:54:05,317 --> 00:54:08,393
But you know, I'm--I'm 34.
1369
00:54:08,487 --> 00:54:12,806
And I've done a lot of work to
do the improvement on myself.
1370
00:54:12,899 --> 00:54:14,583
Kind of got into my little
hustle mode,
1371
00:54:14,810 --> 00:54:16,827
And now I-I just
wanna move forward
1372
00:54:16,921 --> 00:54:18,312
And--and--and find my partner.
1373
00:54:18,330 --> 00:54:19,813
♪ ♪
1374
00:54:19,906 --> 00:54:22,907
So I just wanna
let you guys know that
1375
00:54:23,002 --> 00:54:24,501
They actually did find a match.
1376
00:54:24,653 --> 00:54:26,411
- Oh! Did they?
- What?
1377
00:54:26,430 --> 00:54:28,264
- Oh, my god.
1378
00:54:28,491 --> 00:54:30,007
- So happy for you.
1379
00:54:30,159 --> 00:54:31,675
- Yeah, I'm getting married
in two weeks.
1380
00:54:31,827 --> 00:54:34,586
I'm getting married.
- Oh, bless her heart.
1381
00:54:34,605 --> 00:54:36,588
- ♪ okay, watch my face go ♪
1382
00:54:36,682 --> 00:54:38,181
♪ boom, boom, boom ♪
1383
00:54:38,334 --> 00:54:40,167
♪ wobble, wobble, wobble ♪
1384
00:54:40,260 --> 00:54:44,838
- I would say I'm an
unorthodox risk taker.
1385
00:54:44,857 --> 00:54:47,508
I'm not afraid
of challenging the status quo.
1386
00:54:47,526 --> 00:54:49,676
♪ ♪
1387
00:54:49,770 --> 00:54:51,345
Growing up, I always
had that, like,
1388
00:54:51,363 --> 00:54:54,123
Entrepreneurial spirit
in my dna.
1389
00:54:54,274 --> 00:54:57,351
I was that guy that would,
like, sell replica louis bags.
1390
00:54:57,369 --> 00:54:58,685
- ♪ that's right,
little bit of blood ♪
1391
00:54:58,779 --> 00:55:00,296
♪ that's what I want ♪
1392
00:55:00,523 --> 00:55:02,039
- And I would literally
pull up the barbershop
1393
00:55:02,133 --> 00:55:03,540
And sell that stuff.
1394
00:55:03,634 --> 00:55:06,302
It got to the point
where metro pd, like,
1395
00:55:06,453 --> 00:55:08,045
They actually called me
and they were like, "hey,
1396
00:55:08,197 --> 00:55:09,954
"you need to shut this down
or you're gonna--
1397
00:55:10,049 --> 00:55:12,199
You're gonna go to jail."
1398
00:55:12,217 --> 00:55:14,217
And so I immediately stopped,
but you know,
1399
00:55:14,370 --> 00:55:17,295
Like, things like that kinda,
like, course corrected me.
1400
00:55:17,315 --> 00:55:18,981
- ♪ don't know no better ♪
1401
00:55:19,132 --> 00:55:22,893
♪ I can get her wetter ♪
1402
00:55:22,987 --> 00:55:26,304
- So what led up to me being
financially savvy is--
1403
00:55:26,324 --> 00:55:28,549
Is just, like,
a lot of hardships.
1404
00:55:28,642 --> 00:55:30,217
You know,
I've been broke a lot.
1405
00:55:30,235 --> 00:55:33,904
I slept in my car,
and I was willing to hit
1406
00:55:34,056 --> 00:55:38,667
Rock bottom multiple times
to get that upside potential.
1407
00:55:38,894 --> 00:55:41,578
I started, like, getting
into self-improvement,
1408
00:55:41,730 --> 00:55:43,246
Reading books, and so now,
1409
00:55:43,399 --> 00:55:45,566
Like, I'm day trading,
and I'm in sales.
1410
00:55:45,659 --> 00:55:49,828
I-I sell advertising
to retail chains
1411
00:55:49,847 --> 00:55:52,739
Like shopping malls or big,
you know, restaurants.
1412
00:55:52,833 --> 00:55:54,999
- ♪ I'm the topic
in the topic ♪
1413
00:55:55,019 --> 00:55:57,669
- And now that I can actually
take care of myself,
1414
00:55:57,763 --> 00:56:00,189
I'm ready for a partner that
I can actually take care of.
1415
00:56:00,340 --> 00:56:02,599
- ♪ baby, it's magic ♪
1416
00:56:02,751 --> 00:56:08,012
♪ ♪
1417
00:56:08,032 --> 00:56:10,682
- I believe that
I'm a good guy overall,
1418
00:56:10,701 --> 00:56:14,428
And I'm ready to be a husband.
1419
00:56:14,446 --> 00:56:17,447
But sometimes it could
just be hard for women
1420
00:56:17,541 --> 00:56:19,933
To get over my past.
1421
00:56:19,952 --> 00:56:21,602
♪ ♪
1422
00:56:21,620 --> 00:56:25,714
I'm tired of trying
to find my partner.
1423
00:56:25,866 --> 00:56:28,108
I believe in consulting
with professionals.
1424
00:56:28,127 --> 00:56:30,702
And if there's really
good upside potential,
1425
00:56:30,721 --> 00:56:32,446
I'm gonna trust that process.
1426
00:56:32,464 --> 00:56:34,038
♪ ♪
1427
00:56:34,133 --> 00:56:36,283
- ♪ baby, it's magic ♪
1428
00:56:36,301 --> 00:56:37,968
- I don't wanna
be lonely anymore.
1429
00:56:38,120 --> 00:56:40,120
I want us to level up.
1430
00:56:40,139 --> 00:56:42,881
I want us to just be
a power couple.
1431
00:56:42,975 --> 00:56:44,791
That's what I truly want.
1432
00:56:44,810 --> 00:56:47,385
♪ ♪
1433
00:56:47,479 --> 00:56:49,963
Like, I'm just done with, like,
going out, smashing chicks.
1434
00:56:49,982 --> 00:56:51,573
Like, I did that in my 20s.
1435
00:56:51,725 --> 00:56:54,968
And so I deleted, like,
literally all the dating apps,
1436
00:56:54,987 --> 00:56:57,487
And I'm gonna take it
serious and--and like,
1437
00:56:57,640 --> 00:56:58,639
It's just time for me.
1438
00:56:58,657 --> 00:57:00,582
- Nate 100% deserves this,
1439
00:57:00,809 --> 00:57:03,902
And the typical, like,
modern-day dating scene
1440
00:57:03,921 --> 00:57:05,403
Just doesn't
really vibe with him.
1441
00:57:05,423 --> 00:57:07,314
- Everybody's out
partying and drinking.
1442
00:57:07,407 --> 00:57:08,832
Nate is like,
I've got work to do.
1443
00:57:08,984 --> 00:57:10,984
I'm focused. I'm grinding.
1444
00:57:11,003 --> 00:57:13,487
Like, nate is such
a unique person.
1445
00:57:13,580 --> 00:57:16,915
He's one of the, like,
good guy friends we have.
1446
00:57:16,934 --> 00:57:18,434
I moved out here a year ago.
1447
00:57:18,661 --> 00:57:20,160
He's one of the first
people I met out here,
1448
00:57:20,179 --> 00:57:23,605
And he was so sweet and
caring and, and hopefully,
1449
00:57:23,757 --> 00:57:25,924
She really likes us and
appreciates him for who he is
1450
00:57:25,943 --> 00:57:28,277
'cause he is
a really awesome soul.
1451
00:57:28,428 --> 00:57:30,595
What if she isn't okay with
you having female friends?
1452
00:57:30,614 --> 00:57:32,263
Like, is--is that
a concern for you?
1453
00:57:32,283 --> 00:57:33,782
I mean, obviously,
it is for us 'cause
1454
00:57:33,934 --> 00:57:35,951
We really care about you
and want the best for you.
1455
00:57:36,178 --> 00:57:38,345
- I never even really
thought about that.
1456
00:57:38,363 --> 00:57:42,607
If she has like, really,
really, like, I guess
1457
00:57:42,626 --> 00:57:44,793
Hard, strict rules on like,
"oh, you can't hang out
1458
00:57:45,020 --> 00:57:50,114
With any females period,"
that might be an issue.
1459
00:57:50,134 --> 00:57:52,693
Hopefully,
she's not the jealous type.
1460
00:57:52,711 --> 00:57:58,891
♪ ♪
1461
00:58:01,720 --> 00:58:04,221
- We match stacia and nate
because they both share
1462
00:58:04,373 --> 00:58:06,873
The entrepreneurial spirit
and goal
1463
00:58:06,892 --> 00:58:09,726
Of accumulating wealth
for their future family.
1464
00:58:09,878 --> 00:58:12,562
Spirited and creative nate
will be able to bring out
1465
00:58:12,715 --> 00:58:15,882
A more playful side
in exacting stacia
1466
00:58:15,901 --> 00:58:17,826
While stacia will be
the encouraging
1467
00:58:17,978 --> 00:58:20,053
And enthusiastic partner
nate needs
1468
00:58:20,072 --> 00:58:21,738
To keep him on the path
to success.
1469
00:58:21,890 --> 00:58:29,004
♪ ♪
1470
00:58:30,508 --> 00:58:32,323
- ♪ vibing in the shadows
in the club like ♪
1471
00:58:32,343 --> 00:58:34,067
♪ hit me
with the cold drinks ♪
1472
00:58:34,160 --> 00:58:35,493
♪ dj told 'em
throw it up like ♪
1473
00:58:35,587 --> 00:58:37,070
♪ up like ♪
1474
00:58:37,163 --> 00:58:38,255
♪ dj told 'em
throw it up like ♪
1475
00:58:38,349 --> 00:58:40,682
♪ up like ♪
1476
00:58:40,909 --> 00:58:43,685
- Our ten singles are
less than two weeks away
1477
00:58:43,837 --> 00:58:46,429
From taking the biggest
risk of their lives,
1478
00:58:46,582 --> 00:58:48,339
But they won't be
doing it alone.
1479
00:58:48,433 --> 00:58:49,416
- Hey.
- What's up, man?
1480
00:58:49,434 --> 00:58:50,433
- How you doing it up, man?
1481
00:58:50,528 --> 00:58:52,343
- I'm good.
- I'm nathan.
1482
00:58:52,363 --> 00:58:53,362
- Nathan, nice to meet you.
- Nice to meet you, man.
1483
00:58:58,277 --> 00:58:59,701
- The soon-to-be
brides and grooms
1484
00:58:59,853 --> 00:59:02,520
Will be meeting each other
for the very first time.
1485
00:59:02,540 --> 00:59:04,114
- Hello.
1486
00:59:04,208 --> 00:59:06,449
- Hi.
- I'm lindy.
1487
00:59:06,602 --> 00:59:08,877
- Hi, lindy.
I'm stacia.
1488
00:59:09,104 --> 00:59:12,381
- Marrying a stranger is
extremely non-traditional,
1489
00:59:12,532 --> 00:59:15,700
And our hope is that these
men and women will be able
1490
00:59:15,719 --> 00:59:17,219
To encourage and support
each other
1491
00:59:17,446 --> 00:59:19,796
During this exciting
new chapter of their lives.
1492
00:59:19,948 --> 00:59:21,223
- Nice to meet you.
1493
00:59:21,450 --> 00:59:23,225
You guys ready to get
married next week?
1494
00:59:23,452 --> 00:59:25,302
- The nervousness is
just hitting me now.
1495
00:59:25,454 --> 00:59:28,379
♪ ♪
1496
00:59:28,473 --> 00:59:30,732
- It's so nice to have friends
to go through the same thing.
1497
00:59:30,884 --> 00:59:32,383
- Yeah, you guys know
what I'm going through.
1498
00:59:32,403 --> 00:59:33,460
We're all going through
the same things.
1499
00:59:33,478 --> 00:59:35,404
- Yeah.
1500
00:59:35,555 --> 00:59:37,072
- I feel better already, like,
just chilling with you guys.
1501
00:59:37,223 --> 00:59:38,815
- That part I'm
really refreshing
1502
00:59:38,967 --> 00:59:40,967
'cause I just feel like we
really gonna need each other.
1503
00:59:41,061 --> 00:59:42,226
- It's like you confide
in your friends,
1504
00:59:42,246 --> 00:59:43,970
They don't really know...
- No.
1505
00:59:44,064 --> 00:59:46,473
- What's really going on.
- They don't understand.
1506
00:59:46,566 --> 00:59:48,975
- Or they think
you're out of your mind.
1507
00:59:48,994 --> 00:59:50,752
- Yeah, I've gotten that.
- Oh, yeah.
1508
00:59:50,904 --> 00:59:53,146
Like why would you do that?
- Right.
1509
00:59:53,165 --> 00:59:55,740
- Why wouldn't I, actually?
1510
00:59:55,759 --> 00:59:57,259
So how old is everybody?
I'm 29.
1511
00:59:57,486 --> 00:59:59,261
- I'm 27.
- Okay.
1512
00:59:59,412 --> 01:00:01,746
- I am 32.
- I'm 37.
1513
01:00:01,765 --> 01:00:03,432
- 29.
- Okay.
1514
01:00:03,659 --> 01:00:05,750
- I'm the old guy.
- How old are you, mitch?
1515
01:00:05,844 --> 01:00:08,270
- 41.
- You're 41? No, really?
1516
01:00:08,421 --> 01:00:09,830
- Yeah, you look good.
- You ain't cracking, bro.
1517
01:00:09,923 --> 01:00:12,090
Let me tell you.
- You get close up, you'll see.
1518
01:00:12,109 --> 01:00:13,834
How about you?
1519
01:00:13,852 --> 01:00:15,277
33? Okay.
1520
01:00:15,428 --> 01:00:17,337
How about you?
1521
01:00:17,356 --> 01:00:22,025
- Ah, I'm a--I'm a man child,
so it's fine.
1522
01:00:22,119 --> 01:00:24,177
- Has anyone been married
or engaged before?
1523
01:00:24,196 --> 01:00:27,105
- No.
- Or lived with a man before.
1524
01:00:27,199 --> 01:00:30,125
- Never been engaged, but I've
been proposed to three times.
1525
01:00:30,276 --> 01:00:32,628
- Oh, my--what, just casually,
she's like, yeah, three men.
1526
01:00:32,779 --> 01:00:34,688
- It's like my
dirty little secret.
1527
01:00:34,706 --> 01:00:36,114
I've said no to the
three different people.
1528
01:00:36,133 --> 01:00:38,616
- Why?
1529
01:00:38,710 --> 01:00:40,284
- I had a skewed perspective of
what I thought a relationship
1530
01:00:40,304 --> 01:00:41,803
Took and what a marriage took.
1531
01:00:42,030 --> 01:00:43,380
And at that time, I was--
the first one was,
1532
01:00:43,532 --> 01:00:44,973
Like, my high school boyfriend.
1533
01:00:45,125 --> 01:00:47,625
Second one
was my college friend,
1534
01:00:47,645 --> 01:00:52,296
And the third one was my
college romance or whatever.
1535
01:00:52,316 --> 01:00:55,133
- Alexis is very outspoken.
1536
01:00:55,152 --> 01:00:57,210
Everything is out in the open.
1537
01:00:57,303 --> 01:00:58,803
She's been proposed to
three times.
1538
01:00:58,822 --> 01:01:02,899
And so I just hope that
the man that the experts have
1539
01:01:02,993 --> 01:01:04,734
Chosen for her are, like,
the one that she's ready
1540
01:01:04,828 --> 01:01:06,720
To say yes to.
1541
01:01:06,813 --> 01:01:08,330
- I-I'm a lover.
- Yeah.
1542
01:01:08,557 --> 01:01:10,056
You love being in
a relationship.
1543
01:01:10,075 --> 01:01:11,500
- Love, love.
- I do.
1544
01:01:11,651 --> 01:01:12,742
- How come you
haven't been able
1545
01:01:12,836 --> 01:01:14,561
To find like a-a solid chick?
1546
01:01:14,579 --> 01:01:16,730
- Man, realistically...
- Yeah, yeah.
1547
01:01:16,748 --> 01:01:17,839
- Women look at me
like a piece of meat, dog.
1548
01:01:17,991 --> 01:01:19,508
[laughter]
1549
01:01:19,659 --> 01:01:21,677
I'm--I'm being honest.
Like, that's what's up.
1550
01:01:21,904 --> 01:01:23,069
- So like a good piece of meat?
- Yeah.
1551
01:01:23,088 --> 01:01:24,846
- Or like a vegetarian.
1552
01:01:24,998 --> 01:01:27,924
- Well, we talking--we talking
like ribeye steak or wagyu?
1553
01:01:28,018 --> 01:01:29,667
- Right.
1554
01:01:29,687 --> 01:01:31,094
- It means, they see me,
they don't--they not
1555
01:01:31,246 --> 01:01:32,503
Interested in conversation.
1556
01:01:32,523 --> 01:01:34,597
They just wanna know
if I'm packing or not.
1557
01:01:34,750 --> 01:01:37,508
♪ ♪
1558
01:01:37,528 --> 01:01:39,510
- Justin just kept surprising
me 'cause he just kind
1559
01:01:39,604 --> 01:01:41,588
Of seemed like he'd be
more of like a--
1560
01:01:41,606 --> 01:01:44,441
He seems, like,
somehow humble but also
1561
01:01:44,593 --> 01:01:46,201
Confident at the same time.
1562
01:01:46,352 --> 01:01:48,762
- I'm a very insecure person.
You know what I'm saying?
1563
01:01:48,780 --> 01:01:50,947
- Like, I did not
expect for him to say,
1564
01:01:51,041 --> 01:01:53,208
"women just want to see
if I'm packing the goods."
1565
01:01:53,435 --> 01:01:54,784
I was like, "what?"
1566
01:01:54,937 --> 01:01:57,879
Like, I wish
I had that problem.
1567
01:01:58,031 --> 01:01:59,881
- What are you
most nervous about?
1568
01:02:00,033 --> 01:02:01,958
- I feel a lot of pressure
to--to like who they chose,
1569
01:02:02,052 --> 01:02:03,293
You know what I mean?
1570
01:02:03,445 --> 01:02:04,886
And if after end
of the week--after
1571
01:02:05,038 --> 01:02:07,630
The end of eight weeks,
like I'm not into her,
1572
01:02:07,783 --> 01:02:10,541
I feel, like, guilty.
You know what I mean?
1573
01:02:10,561 --> 01:02:11,952
- So what's some
red flags for you guys?
1574
01:02:11,970 --> 01:02:14,545
♪ ♪
1575
01:02:14,565 --> 01:02:17,899
- I feel like the guys
that are in--
1576
01:02:18,126 --> 01:02:21,886
In their late 30s and they've
never been in love before,
1577
01:02:21,980 --> 01:02:24,072
And they've never had a
serious relationship before.
1578
01:02:24,224 --> 01:02:27,968
- I thought I was in shape.
[bleep].
1579
01:02:27,986 --> 01:02:30,912
- Is he ready to settle down
if he's almost 40
1580
01:02:31,064 --> 01:02:32,305
And he hasn't yet?
1581
01:02:32,324 --> 01:02:34,808
♪ ♪
1582
01:02:34,826 --> 01:02:36,643
That worries me a little bit.
- Yeah.
1583
01:02:36,661 --> 01:02:40,981
♪ ♪
1584
01:02:40,999 --> 01:02:42,758
[upbeat music]
1585
01:02:42,985 --> 01:02:45,001
- I feel like the guys
that are
1586
01:02:45,153 --> 01:02:47,912
In their late 30s and they've
never been in love before,
1587
01:02:47,931 --> 01:02:51,157
And they've never had
a serious relationship before.
1588
01:02:51,251 --> 01:02:53,159
That worries me a little bit.
- Yeah.
1589
01:02:53,178 --> 01:02:54,494
- Because there's something
to love about everyone.
1590
01:02:54,513 --> 01:02:56,179
- Yeah.
1591
01:02:56,273 --> 01:02:58,665
- For me, if I'm not
immediately attracted,
1592
01:02:58,758 --> 01:03:00,591
I'm gonna find
something I like.
1593
01:03:00,685 --> 01:03:03,111
I can latch onto that one thing
I love and have it grow.
1594
01:03:03,263 --> 01:03:06,597
But if he doesn't like me,
what am I gonna do?
1595
01:03:06,691 --> 01:03:08,950
Not be me? No.
All: No.
1596
01:03:09,177 --> 01:03:10,010
- I don't know how to--
how to not be me.
1597
01:03:10,028 --> 01:03:11,602
- Never dim your light.
1598
01:03:11,622 --> 01:03:13,288
- So that would be my fear
is that he's just like,
1599
01:03:13,439 --> 01:03:16,032
"she's too much,"
or I don't know.
1600
01:03:16,126 --> 01:03:18,442
- Maybe he was just imagining
something different.
1601
01:03:18,462 --> 01:03:19,294
- Ready?
1602
01:03:21,023 --> 01:03:27,193
♪ ♪
1603
01:03:27,212 --> 01:03:28,361
- What?
- Whoo-hoo.
1604
01:03:28,380 --> 01:03:29,712
- Hey! Let's go.
- Yeah.
1605
01:03:29,865 --> 01:03:31,881
- That was professional
level right there.
1606
01:03:32,034 --> 01:03:34,200
- Thanks for making me
look good.
1607
01:03:34,294 --> 01:03:36,294
- Nate has a mean
volleyball game.
1608
01:03:36,313 --> 01:03:37,813
Mean spike.
1609
01:03:38,040 --> 01:03:41,632
- ♪ bright lights,
crowded nights ♪
1610
01:03:41,726 --> 01:03:43,151
- They all just
seem like cool guys.
1611
01:03:43,378 --> 01:03:45,136
I think these ladies
are in for a treat.
1612
01:03:45,230 --> 01:03:47,047
It's like I'm watching
"top gun."
1613
01:03:47,065 --> 01:03:51,234
- ♪ so keep swinging, baby ♪
1614
01:03:51,328 --> 01:03:56,314
♪ oh, oh, oh ♪
1615
01:03:56,408 --> 01:03:58,558
♪ she loves the adrenaline ♪
1616
01:03:58,651 --> 01:04:01,061
- Go ahead, binh.
- Oh, [bleep].
1617
01:04:01,154 --> 01:04:03,154
- I thought it was gonna roll.
- It's all right.
1618
01:04:03,173 --> 01:04:06,991
- So to justin's wife, I would
say hope you like tall guys.
1619
01:04:07,010 --> 01:04:08,343
- Ready?
- I'm ready.
1620
01:04:08,570 --> 01:04:10,587
♪ ♪
1621
01:04:10,739 --> 01:04:12,405
- But he's not the
best volleyball player
1622
01:04:12,424 --> 01:04:14,074
Out of all of us.
1623
01:04:14,092 --> 01:04:16,852
- Sheesh.
1624
01:04:17,079 --> 01:04:18,578
- I got a serious question
for you guys.
1625
01:04:18,597 --> 01:04:20,413
What's something
you guys learned
1626
01:04:20,506 --> 01:04:22,506
From your past relationships,
you know,
1627
01:04:22,601 --> 01:04:24,250
That you're not gonna bring
to your new relationship?
1628
01:04:24,344 --> 01:04:28,271
- I think for me, you know,
always like having
1629
01:04:28,365 --> 01:04:30,699
Some sort of like side hustle.
1630
01:04:30,926 --> 01:04:33,927
I was more selfish
with my own time,
1631
01:04:33,945 --> 01:04:38,098
And I didn't really give
when I, like,
1632
01:04:38,191 --> 01:04:40,116
Was in like work mode,
you know.
1633
01:04:40,210 --> 01:04:41,376
- That's fair.
1634
01:04:41,527 --> 01:04:43,436
- And so my ex
at the time, she,
1635
01:04:43,455 --> 01:04:47,123
Like, valued quality time,
and I wasn't
1636
01:04:47,275 --> 01:04:49,125
Giving her that--that much.
1637
01:04:49,219 --> 01:04:51,628
And so it put a strain
on our relationship.
1638
01:04:51,722 --> 01:04:54,890
Communication wasn't good,
and it didn't work out.
1639
01:04:55,041 --> 01:04:57,300
- My issue has been, like,
just trying to find somebody
1640
01:04:57,452 --> 01:04:59,119
With just intentions...
- Yeah.
1641
01:04:59,137 --> 01:05:01,045
- Like, knows exactly
what they want.
1642
01:05:01,064 --> 01:05:02,546
- Exactly.
- And, you know, moves in that.
1643
01:05:02,641 --> 01:05:05,792
I want a guy who's
ambitious like me.
1644
01:05:05,810 --> 01:05:08,052
Like, I feel, like,
I'm very, very ambitious.
1645
01:05:08,146 --> 01:05:10,647
- I like independent women,
you know,
1646
01:05:10,799 --> 01:05:12,574
That have some sort
of ambition.
1647
01:05:12,801 --> 01:05:14,300
- So you don't have
to be as ambitious,
1648
01:05:14,319 --> 01:05:16,819
But just, you know,
have some type of goals
1649
01:05:16,972 --> 01:05:19,973
That you're reaching for.
- Yeah.
1650
01:05:19,991 --> 01:05:22,976
- I think stacia's new husband,
he could be a little
1651
01:05:23,069 --> 01:05:25,587
Intimidated by her
only because she is
1652
01:05:25,814 --> 01:05:27,738
So well put together,
well-spoken
1653
01:05:27,758 --> 01:05:29,591
Knows exactly what she wants.
1654
01:05:29,742 --> 01:05:32,594
I think he could love that
right off the bat,
1655
01:05:32,821 --> 01:05:37,081
Or he could need
a little bit to feel
1656
01:05:37,100 --> 01:05:39,083
Like he is worthy
of everything that
1657
01:05:39,102 --> 01:05:42,328
She has done and accomplished.
1658
01:05:42,347 --> 01:05:43,921
- What do you do?
1659
01:05:43,941 --> 01:05:45,348
- I'm--I'm in the
engineering space.
1660
01:05:45,500 --> 01:05:47,333
I'm an engineer, but to me,
it's not fulfilling.
1661
01:05:47,352 --> 01:05:49,519
You know, I'm not in the
position to help others.
1662
01:05:49,613 --> 01:05:52,447
So in my time, pre-covid,
I got into personal training,
1663
01:05:52,598 --> 01:05:54,932
And like I went to peru
to volunteer at an orphanage,
1664
01:05:55,026 --> 01:05:57,101
Just helping out with the kids,
trying to teach them nutrition,
1665
01:05:57,120 --> 01:05:59,012
Just doing physical activity.
1666
01:05:59,030 --> 01:06:00,847
- That's what's up.
- That's amazing.
1667
01:06:00,865 --> 01:06:02,515
- And--and there's
no money involved.
1668
01:06:02,534 --> 01:06:03,850
It just generally
makes me feel better.
1669
01:06:03,868 --> 01:06:05,535
Like, it's a feeling
I can't duplicate
1670
01:06:05,687 --> 01:06:07,278
In my engineering job.
1671
01:06:07,297 --> 01:06:09,038
So I would love to volunteer
with my wife somewhere.
1672
01:06:09,191 --> 01:06:10,281
It's just an amazing feeling.
- I love that. That's dope.
1673
01:06:10,300 --> 01:06:12,192
- That's pretty cool, man.
- Yeah.
1674
01:06:12,210 --> 01:06:14,469
- Hope she's civic-minded.
1675
01:06:14,696 --> 01:06:16,120
- I really wanna go to japan.
- Oh, wow.
1676
01:06:16,139 --> 01:06:18,122
- My mom's japanese.
- Ooh.
1677
01:06:18,216 --> 01:06:20,200
- So we have like
distant family there
1678
01:06:20,218 --> 01:06:23,219
And then my ancestors
were samurai.
1679
01:06:23,313 --> 01:06:26,706
So we have a shrine there
with our family samurai sword.
1680
01:06:26,725 --> 01:06:30,819
There's a specific--there's a
specific like prefecture town,
1681
01:06:31,046 --> 01:06:32,712
Like, named after our family...
- That's amazing.
1682
01:06:32,805 --> 01:06:34,155
- One of the goals is to,
like, go there--
1683
01:06:34,307 --> 01:06:36,549
- You shouldn't casually throw
this in the conversation.
1684
01:06:36,568 --> 01:06:38,401
Morgan, she's a
little firecracker.
1685
01:06:38,495 --> 01:06:40,996
Like, you know, you don't
know what to expect with her.
1686
01:06:41,147 --> 01:06:44,073
- I'm a strong believer in
taking care of yourself, so.
1687
01:06:44,226 --> 01:06:46,075
I've been really into
muay thai fighting lately.
1688
01:06:46,228 --> 01:06:48,003
- Really?
- Whoa.
1689
01:06:48,230 --> 01:06:50,230
- So kicking, punching, you can
throw them to the ground,
1690
01:06:50,248 --> 01:06:52,582
Kind of a thing.
- Wow.
1691
01:06:52,676 --> 01:06:54,843
- You think she's just
this pleasant, sweet nurse.
1692
01:06:54,994 --> 01:06:57,328
And then she's like, I do
muay thai and, you know,
1693
01:06:57,347 --> 01:07:00,073
So I-I-I like morgan.
1694
01:07:00,166 --> 01:07:02,091
- Would that be a deal-breaker
if your husband
1695
01:07:02,185 --> 01:07:03,743
Wasn't like--he was just like,
1696
01:07:03,762 --> 01:07:04,853
Let's save money,
I don't wanna travel?
1697
01:07:05,080 --> 01:07:06,746
- Yeah.
1698
01:07:06,839 --> 01:07:08,081
- Yeah, definitely.
- That's fair.
1699
01:07:08,099 --> 01:07:09,916
- That's totally fair.
- That's fair.
1700
01:07:09,934 --> 01:07:11,751
- I'm pretty frugal.
I didn't come from a lot.
1701
01:07:11,770 --> 01:07:14,195
And so I'm always
trying to save money.
1702
01:07:14,422 --> 01:07:16,089
I'm always thinking that
my money can make money.
1703
01:07:16,107 --> 01:07:18,424
So I'm gonna, it's gonna be
hard to have--we're gonna
1704
01:07:18,443 --> 01:07:19,776
Have to have that conversation.
1705
01:07:19,928 --> 01:07:21,519
But something that I'm
open to compromise.
1706
01:07:21,538 --> 01:07:23,354
Pastor cal told me that
I need to compromise that.
1707
01:07:23,448 --> 01:07:25,856
- I'm like, I guess I'm--
I'm a little like that too.
1708
01:07:25,950 --> 01:07:28,209
I work for an
environmental nonprofit.
1709
01:07:28,361 --> 01:07:30,436
So I'm not necessarily,
like, bringing home the bacon.
1710
01:07:30,530 --> 01:07:32,196
- But it's for a good reason.
- Yeah.
1711
01:07:32,215 --> 01:07:35,625
So, yeah, and then my whole
environmental thing, you know,
1712
01:07:35,777 --> 01:07:37,293
Part of being sustainable
or trying to live
1713
01:07:37,445 --> 01:07:40,704
That kind of lifestyle
is maybe not always buying
1714
01:07:40,724 --> 01:07:42,615
Stuff you don't need, so...
- I feel that.
1715
01:07:42,634 --> 01:07:44,133
- That's a little hard,
you know, if--if
1716
01:07:44,227 --> 01:07:46,119
I'm trying to impress my wife.
1717
01:07:46,137 --> 01:07:47,954
- He doesn't
necessarily have to be,
1718
01:07:47,972 --> 01:07:51,232
You know, fully, extremely
successful, a millionaire.
1719
01:07:51,384 --> 01:07:53,884
But I did want him to be
passionate about his work
1720
01:07:53,904 --> 01:07:55,570
And excited to go to work.
- Yeah.
1721
01:07:55,721 --> 01:07:58,073
- That's what I wanted.
That was more important to me.
1722
01:07:58,224 --> 01:08:00,133
- There's nothing
like a guy who's
1723
01:08:00,226 --> 01:08:01,559
Just unhappy with where
they're at in their life
1724
01:08:01,578 --> 01:08:03,136
And their career.
1725
01:08:03,229 --> 01:08:04,320
And so that was
important to me.
1726
01:08:04,414 --> 01:08:06,897
- Yeah, yeah.
1727
01:08:06,917 --> 01:08:08,750
- What were your deal breakers?
1728
01:08:08,977 --> 01:08:11,494
- I mean, the normal things
like liars.
1729
01:08:11,646 --> 01:08:14,163
- Mine--mine was definitely
like a passive personality.
1730
01:08:14,257 --> 01:08:16,332
Like, I definitely
need a man who's, like,
1731
01:08:16,484 --> 01:08:18,501
Assertive who, like,
can speak up for me,
1732
01:08:18,653 --> 01:08:19,761
Knows what he wants.
1733
01:08:19,912 --> 01:08:22,155
Like, can come to me
with his problems.
1734
01:08:22,173 --> 01:08:24,657
- That's what I guess what
we're all looking for too.
1735
01:08:24,750 --> 01:08:26,584
- Because I just will walk,
I've walked over--
1736
01:08:26,603 --> 01:08:29,920
Like, just be brutally honest,
I will walk over these men--
1737
01:08:30,014 --> 01:08:31,347
- I'm right there with you.
1738
01:08:31,499 --> 01:08:32,923
- If they cannot
hold their ground.
1739
01:08:32,943 --> 01:08:35,276
I will just eat you alive
so he's better--he's gotta
1740
01:08:35,428 --> 01:08:37,112
Like be ready to like
to come swinging.
1741
01:08:37,339 --> 01:08:41,599
- Spicy.
[laughter]
1742
01:08:41,618 --> 01:08:45,286
- Lindy she's--she--she's cool.
1743
01:08:45,513 --> 01:08:47,605
She's--she's cool.
She's--she's a great girl.
1744
01:08:47,624 --> 01:08:49,124
Somebody's gonna love
the heck outta her.
1745
01:08:51,019 --> 01:08:53,277
- All right, so, um...
1746
01:08:53,296 --> 01:08:55,779
She talks a lot.
1747
01:08:55,799 --> 01:08:58,541
- I'm very just
like kinda flirty.
1748
01:08:58,635 --> 01:09:00,710
Like, I've lived a lot
of different places,
1749
01:09:00,862 --> 01:09:02,804
But then, so I was just
like, "hi, how are you?
1750
01:09:03,031 --> 01:09:04,380
I'm getting married in
two weeks," you know.
1751
01:09:04,532 --> 01:09:06,123
Like, what if my body's
just like, "nope,
1752
01:09:06,143 --> 01:09:07,867
[bleep] this, I'm outta here."
1753
01:09:07,886 --> 01:09:10,203
I just keep moving forward,
like, just the momentum
1754
01:09:10,221 --> 01:09:11,387
Because it's happening.
1755
01:09:11,539 --> 01:09:12,814
Whether we're
right here or not.
1756
01:09:12,965 --> 01:09:16,484
We gotta hold on tight
because it's happening.
1757
01:09:16,711 --> 01:09:19,821
- Um, I talk a lot as well,
but I-I don't think
1758
01:09:19,972 --> 01:09:21,805
She cares what other people
are thinking.
1759
01:09:21,825 --> 01:09:25,735
You know, I think she's
not personable in that way.
1760
01:09:25,829 --> 01:09:30,573
- I can be sometimes
like overly sensitive,
1761
01:09:30,725 --> 01:09:32,742
'cause it's--it's, you know,
choosing my battles
1762
01:09:32,836 --> 01:09:34,894
Ju--ju--judiciously like,
trying to figure out like,
1763
01:09:34,987 --> 01:09:36,153
"okay, how should
I bring this up?
1764
01:09:36,173 --> 01:09:37,914
What should I focus on?"
1765
01:09:38,066 --> 01:09:39,248
So I think for me,
that's like something
1766
01:09:39,342 --> 01:09:41,825
Like my sensitivities,
my--my insecurities.
1767
01:09:41,845 --> 01:09:43,252
I have been known to,
like, sweat
1768
01:09:43,346 --> 01:09:44,921
The small things in the past.
1769
01:09:45,073 --> 01:09:47,740
- To miguel's wife,
I'd say he's really sincere
1770
01:09:47,759 --> 01:09:50,426
And seems like an upfront
communicator, which is just
1771
01:09:50,578 --> 01:09:53,337
So good because I think
that's where a lot of men
1772
01:09:53,356 --> 01:09:55,264
Typically fall short.
1773
01:09:55,417 --> 01:09:58,434
So I think calling miguel out
and prying and make sure
1774
01:09:58,528 --> 01:10:00,086
That you get a good sense
of how he's feeling
1775
01:10:00,104 --> 01:10:01,754
Is gonna be key with him.
1776
01:10:01,847 --> 01:10:04,014
- I have a creative side,
I got the dorky side.
1777
01:10:04,034 --> 01:10:05,867
I also have like a softer side
'cause I also write poetry.
1778
01:10:06,094 --> 01:10:07,518
- What?
- Yeah.
1779
01:10:07,537 --> 01:10:08,686
- Then can you help
me with my vows?
1780
01:10:08,705 --> 01:10:09,871
- Spit it right now.
Come on, man.
1781
01:10:10,022 --> 01:10:11,539
- No, I'll--I'll
share with you.
1782
01:10:11,691 --> 01:10:13,115
This is like possibly the
best thing I've ever written.
1783
01:10:13,268 --> 01:10:15,043
Super short.
1784
01:10:15,194 --> 01:10:18,938
"I'm too in it
to see otherwise.
1785
01:10:18,957 --> 01:10:20,957
"too interwoven into the
fabric of my own lies.
1786
01:10:21,051 --> 01:10:23,943
♪ ♪
1787
01:10:24,036 --> 01:10:26,612
"how do I keep sight of
the forest for the trees
1788
01:10:26,631 --> 01:10:29,115
"when I'm too preoccupied
with the water
1789
01:10:29,133 --> 01:10:32,209
To nourish the leaves."
1790
01:10:32,229 --> 01:10:34,878
[crickets chirping]
1791
01:10:34,898 --> 01:10:36,456
- You know,
you get past the shell
1792
01:10:36,549 --> 01:10:38,716
And everyone's--
everyone's kind--
1793
01:10:38,735 --> 01:10:40,793
We're all kind of weirdos
on--on the inside.
1794
01:10:40,812 --> 01:10:44,297
So yeah, miguel,
full of surprises too.
1795
01:10:44,390 --> 01:10:46,390
I love that
he's got all his quirks.
1796
01:10:46,409 --> 01:10:47,800
- You're like,
you're like, well balanced.
1797
01:10:47,893 --> 01:10:49,059
- Yeah, you're the balance--
- yeah, seriously.
1798
01:10:49,079 --> 01:10:50,970
- Your wife's gonna like you.
- I hope so.
1799
01:10:50,989 --> 01:10:52,638
- She's gonna like that poetry.
- For real.
1800
01:10:52,657 --> 01:10:56,668
♪ ♪
1801
01:11:01,591 --> 01:11:04,317
- ♪ westward, new mexico ♪
1802
01:11:04,335 --> 01:11:07,336
♪ 80 miles an hour
on the open road ♪
1803
01:11:07,489 --> 01:11:10,265
♪ never felt so small
on all those stars ♪
1804
01:11:10,416 --> 01:11:14,494
♪ it's the only thing I want ♪
1805
01:11:14,512 --> 01:11:16,846
- Our singles are getting
married at first sight,
1806
01:11:16,998 --> 01:11:19,440
Literally, in just
a week and a half.
1807
01:11:19,592 --> 01:11:21,609
So shopping
for the wedding dresses
1808
01:11:21,761 --> 01:11:23,836
And tuxedos they'll wear
on that day
1809
01:11:23,929 --> 01:11:26,430
Is particularly important.
1810
01:11:26,449 --> 01:11:29,117
- Welcome in, ladies.
- Hello.
1811
01:11:29,268 --> 01:11:31,694
- Because this will be
the outfit they're in
1812
01:11:31,846 --> 01:11:35,014
When they make
their very first impression.
1813
01:11:35,107 --> 01:11:37,016
- ♪ I'm going up to the top ♪
1814
01:11:37,109 --> 01:11:39,685
♪ leaving everything behind ♪
1815
01:11:39,704 --> 01:11:41,704
- Hi, welcome to luv.
- Hi!
1816
01:11:41,856 --> 01:11:44,874
- Hi!
- Are you excited?
1817
01:11:44,968 --> 01:11:47,860
- I'm extremely excited
now that I'm in this room.
1818
01:11:47,953 --> 01:11:50,212
Two weeks ago, I was single,
1819
01:11:50,365 --> 01:11:51,472
And now I'm shopping
for a wedding dress.
1820
01:11:51,624 --> 01:11:55,959
[laughter]
1821
01:11:55,979 --> 01:11:58,554
After three proposals,
it feels like an emotional
1822
01:11:58,706 --> 01:11:59,963
Roller coaster being here.
1823
01:12:00,058 --> 01:12:01,724
I always wanted to be married.
1824
01:12:01,818 --> 01:12:04,393
I always saw myself as a
wife, but the more I kind of
1825
01:12:04,546 --> 01:12:07,547
Had failed relationships,
the more I just
1826
01:12:07,565 --> 01:12:09,715
Didn't make it
to where I wanted to be.
1827
01:12:09,734 --> 01:12:12,552
It didn't seem like
it was gonna ever happen.
1828
01:12:12,645 --> 01:12:13,903
- Seen anything that's
kinda jumping out
1829
01:12:13,997 --> 01:12:15,571
Even as if it's a no or a yes?
1830
01:12:15,723 --> 01:12:17,390
- I-I like--this is pretty,
but it's too simple for me.
1831
01:12:17,408 --> 01:12:18,249
- Okay.
1832
01:12:20,670 --> 01:12:22,895
- I'm looking
for a wedding dress.
1833
01:12:22,914 --> 01:12:26,399
I don't I think I did it.
1834
01:12:26,492 --> 01:12:29,235
You guys have capes?
[laughter]
1835
01:12:29,328 --> 01:12:30,828
- No, we don't have capes.
No.
1836
01:12:30,847 --> 01:12:32,162
- I don't know!
1837
01:12:32,256 --> 01:12:33,756
I don't--I'm not
one of those girls
1838
01:12:33,850 --> 01:12:37,501
Who having a pinterest board
since they were five.
1839
01:12:37,520 --> 01:12:39,245
I don't know.
1840
01:12:39,263 --> 01:12:40,246
All I know is,
this is the first time
1841
01:12:40,264 --> 01:12:41,856
That this man will ever see me.
1842
01:12:42,083 --> 01:12:45,418
So first impressions
are at the utmost high.
1843
01:12:45,436 --> 01:12:47,420
- Did you look at this?
1844
01:12:47,438 --> 01:12:48,754
- No, jackie, that's a
little boring for me.
1845
01:12:48,773 --> 01:12:51,366
♪ ♪
1846
01:12:51,517 --> 01:12:54,443
- ♪ you ain't seen
nothing yet ♪
1847
01:12:54,596 --> 01:12:56,095
- What brings you in today?
1848
01:12:56,114 --> 01:12:57,372
- I am getting married.
1849
01:12:57,599 --> 01:12:59,857
- Oh, congratulations,
and when is the wedding?
1850
01:12:59,951 --> 01:13:01,434
- Only a few days away.
1851
01:13:01,452 --> 01:13:03,211
I know I'm last minute,
but I'm here.
1852
01:13:03,438 --> 01:13:06,029
The tux fitting
is making it real for me.
1853
01:13:06,124 --> 01:13:07,865
I am a little emotional
if I'm being genuinely honest,
1854
01:13:07,959 --> 01:13:09,609
You know what I'm saying?
1855
01:13:09,627 --> 01:13:12,202
There's some ptsd
from my previous engagement,
1856
01:13:12,222 --> 01:13:14,614
But overall,
I'm super excited.
1857
01:13:14,707 --> 01:13:17,450
♪ I'm gonna be a married man ♪
1858
01:13:17,468 --> 01:13:19,376
♪ ♪
1859
01:13:19,396 --> 01:13:20,953
- These fellas with you?
1860
01:13:20,972 --> 01:13:22,897
- Yeah, that's my brother
and my nephew.
1861
01:13:23,124 --> 01:13:24,232
- Hey, gentlemen.
- Thank you, sir.
1862
01:13:24,383 --> 01:13:25,975
Thank you, thank you.
I appreciate your nature.
1863
01:13:26,127 --> 01:13:27,050
- What's up, dude?
- What's up, what's up?
1864
01:13:27,070 --> 01:13:28,552
- Hello, fellas.
1865
01:13:28,571 --> 01:13:30,071
Having my brother here today
1866
01:13:30,222 --> 01:13:32,815
Hit a little bit different,
being honest.
1867
01:13:32,967 --> 01:13:35,225
It doesn't seem like he's
fully on board and it hurts.
1868
01:13:35,319 --> 01:13:36,636
I ain't gonna sit here
and pretend like it doesn't
1869
01:13:36,729 --> 01:13:39,580
'cause he matters to me,
you know?
1870
01:13:39,807 --> 01:13:41,974
- Go on ahead, man.
Get yourself a wedding.
1871
01:13:41,993 --> 01:13:45,920
♪ ♪
1872
01:13:46,147 --> 01:13:47,422
- Let's remain open.
1873
01:13:47,573 --> 01:13:49,832
That's the theme
of this marriage,
1874
01:13:49,926 --> 01:13:53,928
But what do you think?
1875
01:13:54,155 --> 01:13:56,322
- I like where it's going
with, like, the sleeves
1876
01:13:56,340 --> 01:13:58,099
But showing a little bit more.
- Okay.
1877
01:13:58,250 --> 01:14:01,677
- I don't think
I love the high neck.
1878
01:14:01,829 --> 01:14:03,496
I think something
a little more fitted too.
1879
01:14:03,514 --> 01:14:05,831
♪ ♪
1880
01:14:05,925 --> 01:14:08,668
- Okay, onto the next one.
1881
01:14:08,686 --> 01:14:13,781
♪ ♪
1882
01:14:14,008 --> 01:14:15,450
- I will say, this is not
my particular style.
1883
01:14:15,601 --> 01:14:16,951
- Oh, okay.
1884
01:14:17,102 --> 01:14:18,953
- Why not?
- Why do you say that? Yeah.
1885
01:14:19,104 --> 01:14:22,198
- Let me turn around
and tell you guys.
1886
01:14:22,292 --> 01:14:24,350
- I want something
a little more discreet.
1887
01:14:24,443 --> 01:14:25,460
- I like that one, though.
1888
01:14:25,687 --> 01:14:27,019
- You do?
- Yeah.
1889
01:14:27,038 --> 01:14:28,187
- I like the fit of it.
1890
01:14:28,206 --> 01:14:31,466
♪ ♪
1891
01:14:31,693 --> 01:14:33,526
- We're good on this one.
- Okay.
1892
01:14:33,619 --> 01:14:36,637
- Alex, we got the vision.
- Onto the next one.
1893
01:14:36,864 --> 01:14:38,197
- I think she's trying
to be too traditional.
1894
01:14:38,290 --> 01:14:39,289
- Yeah, she's trying
to be reserved
1895
01:14:39,309 --> 01:14:40,641
And that's not who she is.
- Yeah.
1896
01:14:40,868 --> 01:14:42,702
Stop being so reserved
and, you know,
1897
01:14:42,720 --> 01:14:44,553
Let lex come out and he's
gonna appreciate it.
1898
01:14:44,706 --> 01:14:46,388
- If not, scoot over.
1899
01:14:46,541 --> 01:14:47,965
- That's right.
- 100%.
1900
01:14:47,984 --> 01:14:49,041
- Right.
1901
01:14:49,060 --> 01:14:51,301
♪ ♪
1902
01:14:51,321 --> 01:14:54,547
- What kind of woman would
you like to see him with?
1903
01:14:54,565 --> 01:14:55,973
- I hope she's not shy.
1904
01:14:56,067 --> 01:14:57,066
It's someone
that you could probably
1905
01:14:57,160 --> 01:14:58,384
Like feel comfortable around.
1906
01:14:58,477 --> 01:14:59,735
- You're not awkward.
- Yeah.
1907
01:14:59,829 --> 01:15:01,144
- Not just sitting there like.
1908
01:15:01,239 --> 01:15:03,239
- Just sitting
with awkward hands like.
1909
01:15:03,333 --> 01:15:04,740
- You know, that's what
his last fiancée was like.
1910
01:15:04,834 --> 01:15:06,742
She was kind of awkward.
1911
01:15:06,836 --> 01:15:09,729
Justin's perfect wife
is gonna be someone that
1912
01:15:09,822 --> 01:15:13,249
Challenges him while also
being very nurturing,
1913
01:15:13,343 --> 01:15:14,926
Caring, and adventurous.
1914
01:15:17,680 --> 01:15:18,996
♪ ♪
1915
01:15:19,090 --> 01:15:20,573
- Not the ones I've
just described.
1916
01:15:20,591 --> 01:15:22,591
♪ ♪
1917
01:15:22,685 --> 01:15:25,427
- Okay.
- I like that one.
1918
01:15:25,522 --> 01:15:29,339
- Justin has a thing with
looking for what he wants,
1919
01:15:29,359 --> 01:15:32,268
Rather than looking for the
things that he actually needs.
1920
01:15:32,362 --> 01:15:35,938
- I mean, ooh.
1921
01:15:36,090 --> 01:15:38,348
- And I'm hoping this is
the woman that he needs,
1922
01:15:38,368 --> 01:15:41,927
But, you know, this is
a farfetched chance.
1923
01:15:41,946 --> 01:15:43,612
- I mean, damn.
1924
01:15:43,706 --> 01:15:46,098
- Nah, you look like you
about to serve a drink, man.
1925
01:15:46,191 --> 01:15:48,434
- [bleep]. That's cold.
[laughter]
1926
01:15:48,452 --> 01:15:50,027
♪ ♪
1927
01:15:50,121 --> 01:15:51,954
- ♪ we gon' get it ♪
1928
01:15:52,106 --> 01:15:53,548
♪ yeah, yeah, yeah,
we gon' get it ♪
1929
01:15:53,775 --> 01:15:55,107
- I might feel a little drunk,
a little bit,
1930
01:15:55,200 --> 01:15:56,884
You know what I'm saying?
I might be like.
1931
01:15:57,036 --> 01:15:58,886
- ♪ oh, yeah, we gon' get it ♪
1932
01:15:59,113 --> 01:16:00,221
- That's it.
1933
01:16:00,372 --> 01:16:02,798
- I like that one.
- That's it.
1934
01:16:02,892 --> 01:16:04,450
- ♪ can't turn back now ♪
1935
01:16:04,543 --> 01:16:06,452
- I like how I look,
and I'm excited to see
1936
01:16:06,545 --> 01:16:08,470
How my wife thinks I look.
1937
01:16:08,623 --> 01:16:10,547
I mean--I mean, like when
you walk out you be like,
1938
01:16:10,567 --> 01:16:12,792
"that's my man."
I'll be like, "girl, I'm it.
1939
01:16:12,885 --> 01:16:14,384
I'm it, girl."
you know what I'm saying?
1940
01:16:14,478 --> 01:16:15,811
Like, I gotta try
my hardest not
1941
01:16:15,905 --> 01:16:16,737
To drop the coat like this.
1942
01:16:16,964 --> 01:16:20,390
♪ ♪
1943
01:16:20,410 --> 01:16:21,576
That hurt, but.
1944
01:16:21,803 --> 01:16:23,485
♪ ♪
1945
01:16:23,638 --> 01:16:24,820
- What do you think, fellas?
1946
01:16:24,914 --> 01:16:27,306
- Mm.
- Yeah.
1947
01:16:27,325 --> 01:16:29,642
- That suit said,
"yes, let's do it."
1948
01:16:29,660 --> 01:16:31,085
We're going with what
the suit says.
1949
01:16:31,312 --> 01:16:33,070
I feel good.
1950
01:16:33,164 --> 01:16:36,332
- And this is a--
it's a big day, bro.
1951
01:16:36,426 --> 01:16:38,000
About to meet the woman
that you might be spending
1952
01:16:38,152 --> 01:16:39,501
The rest of your life with.
1953
01:16:39,654 --> 01:16:41,487
- When I revealed
the news, like,
1954
01:16:41,505 --> 01:16:43,747
Do you feel the exact same way,
or?
1955
01:16:43,766 --> 01:16:46,175
- I'm still terrified.
1956
01:16:46,269 --> 01:16:48,085
- That's fair.
- You know?
1957
01:16:48,104 --> 01:16:50,329
- My brother's nervousness
make me feel
1958
01:16:50,422 --> 01:16:52,681
Like I'm making a mistake,
1959
01:16:52,834 --> 01:16:54,500
But I know that, you know,
1960
01:16:54,593 --> 01:16:55,668
That's the risk
I'm willing to take,
1961
01:16:55,686 --> 01:16:57,670
'cause I can meet my soulmate,
1962
01:16:57,688 --> 01:17:00,597
You know, mother of my kids,
and that's what I want.
1963
01:17:00,617 --> 01:17:02,174
- Just don't wanna
see you get hurt.
1964
01:17:02,193 --> 01:17:04,118
♪ ♪
1965
01:17:04,269 --> 01:17:06,103
- ♪ feel the heat ♪
- ♪ I'm a badass ♪
1966
01:17:06,122 --> 01:17:09,181
♪ I'm a badass, baby,
I'm a badass ♪
1967
01:17:09,200 --> 01:17:12,109
♪ ♪
1968
01:17:12,128 --> 01:17:13,777
- ♪ feeling like
my whole life ♪
1969
01:17:13,871 --> 01:17:17,356
- Oh, my gosh.
- Wow.
1970
01:17:17,375 --> 01:17:20,968
- That is so hot and so pretty.
1971
01:17:21,120 --> 01:17:24,788
Whoa. Oh, my gosh.
1972
01:17:24,807 --> 01:17:28,476
- Mm.
1973
01:17:28,703 --> 01:17:30,144
- What do you think
your fiancé?
1974
01:17:30,295 --> 01:17:33,314
What do you think he'd say
if he saw you in this dress?
1975
01:17:33,541 --> 01:17:35,316
- That's such a hard question
because if he's wholesome,
1976
01:17:35,467 --> 01:17:37,042
He might not like it.
- Mm-hmm.
1977
01:17:37,061 --> 01:17:38,969
- But if he like a little,
1978
01:17:39,063 --> 01:17:42,731
Little nasty sumn',
he might love it.
1979
01:17:42,884 --> 01:17:44,566
- What are you hoping
for him to be like?
1980
01:17:44,661 --> 01:17:45,993
- Somewhere in between,
and I feel like this dress
1981
01:17:46,220 --> 01:17:48,070
Could be in between.
- Oh, yeah.
1982
01:17:48,164 --> 01:17:50,072
- How do you feel about it?
How do you feel in it?
1983
01:17:50,224 --> 01:17:53,334
- I feel confident in it.
It's comfortable.
1984
01:17:53,561 --> 01:17:58,488
I'm not mad at it,
but I wanna be a lady so bad.
1985
01:17:58,508 --> 01:18:00,657
Help me.
- No, relax.
1986
01:18:00,677 --> 01:18:02,251
You know what I mean?
1987
01:18:02,345 --> 01:18:03,994
- I'm not a traditional woman.
1988
01:18:04,088 --> 01:18:08,331
I'm not--nothing about me
has ever been cookie cutter.
1989
01:18:08,351 --> 01:18:12,094
So if there's a man who wants
like this delicate
1990
01:18:12,246 --> 01:18:17,266
Little thing, I'm nervous that
I might scare him away
1991
01:18:17,360 --> 01:18:19,585
Because I am playing sports.
1992
01:18:19,678 --> 01:18:21,362
I'm just one of the boys,
1993
01:18:21,589 --> 01:18:24,773
But also, I am a lover,
and I'm a giver.
1994
01:18:24,867 --> 01:18:27,017
So I want somebody
who is just gonna take time
1995
01:18:27,036 --> 01:18:29,036
To get to know all that I am.
1996
01:18:29,263 --> 01:18:31,038
♪ ♪
1997
01:18:31,190 --> 01:18:32,781
This is the dress.
1998
01:18:32,934 --> 01:18:35,025
- It's so pretty. I love it.
- This is the dress.
1999
01:18:35,119 --> 01:18:36,026
- Oh, my gosh.
- Nice touch.
2000
01:18:36,120 --> 01:18:38,195
- You look like a little angel.
2001
01:18:38,214 --> 01:18:42,441
- My god, who is she?
2002
01:18:42,460 --> 01:18:47,129
[laughter]
oh, my god.
2003
01:18:47,281 --> 01:18:48,538
- Who's gonna be walking
you down the aisle?
2004
01:18:48,632 --> 01:18:50,299
- My mother.
- Mm-hmm.
2005
01:18:50,451 --> 01:18:53,118
- My best friend, I wouldn't
be here without her.
2006
01:18:53,212 --> 01:18:54,395
She's made me the woman I am.
- Mm-hmm.
2007
01:18:54,622 --> 01:18:55,712
- She's made me the woman
that my husband
2008
01:18:55,732 --> 01:18:58,048
Will fall in love with someday.
2009
01:18:58,067 --> 01:19:00,067
Everything I am is
because of her,
2010
01:19:00,294 --> 01:19:02,127
And that's how
I wanna honor her.
2011
01:19:02,146 --> 01:19:04,387
- She's gonna be
so proud of you.
2012
01:19:04,482 --> 01:19:07,132
- ♪ I got demons
in my rearview ♪
2013
01:19:07,226 --> 01:19:08,725
♪ oh ♪
2014
01:19:08,819 --> 01:19:11,637
- I'm really just
emotional right now.
2015
01:19:11,730 --> 01:19:13,639
- ♪ tell me do you
see 'em too ♪
2016
01:19:13,732 --> 01:19:15,824
- I feel like this
dress expresses
2017
01:19:15,918 --> 01:19:19,478
Who I want my husband
to know me as, you know.
2018
01:19:19,497 --> 01:19:21,313
- Yeah.
2019
01:19:21,332 --> 01:19:24,984
- This dress makes me
feel like, this is it.
2020
01:19:25,077 --> 01:19:27,244
- ♪ so don't forget
to breathe ♪
2021
01:19:27,338 --> 01:19:28,929
- I'm gonna be somebody's wife.
2022
01:19:29,156 --> 01:19:31,599
I really--just a lot
to take in.
2023
01:19:31,750 --> 01:19:33,342
- ♪ forget to breathe ♪
2024
01:19:33,436 --> 01:19:37,420
♪ oh, oh ♪
2025
01:19:37,440 --> 01:19:38,355
♪ don't forget to breathe ♪
2026
01:19:42,503 --> 01:19:44,261
- ♪ every king needs a queen,
yeah ♪
2027
01:19:44,280 --> 01:19:46,672
♪ so put me on my throne ♪
2028
01:19:46,690 --> 01:19:50,267
[upbeat music]
2029
01:19:50,361 --> 01:19:52,845
- Hi, ladies.
- Hi.
2030
01:19:52,863 --> 01:19:54,455
- Welcome to luv.
2031
01:19:54,606 --> 01:19:55,364
- Oh, my god,
there are so many--
2032
01:19:55,516 --> 01:19:57,458
- Are you excited?
- Yes!
2033
01:19:57,685 --> 01:20:00,110
I'm really excited.
I'm really nervous.
2034
01:20:00,129 --> 01:20:03,522
It's starting to become very,
very real at this point.
2035
01:20:03,541 --> 01:20:06,634
- ♪ I run the ship,
I run the show ♪
2036
01:20:06,861 --> 01:20:09,044
- What about something
super simple?
2037
01:20:09,138 --> 01:20:10,304
- Nope. I'm not simple.
- There's a classic.
2038
01:20:10,531 --> 01:20:13,382
- No basic, no basic,
no simple, okay?
2039
01:20:13,534 --> 01:20:15,217
♪ ♪
2040
01:20:15,369 --> 01:20:17,961
I'm definitely a woman
who knows what I want,
2041
01:20:18,055 --> 01:20:23,651
And I hope I can find the
perfect dress to express that.
2042
01:20:23,802 --> 01:20:25,635
I want his first
impression of me
2043
01:20:25,655 --> 01:20:29,715
To be that I carry myself
with class and respect.
2044
01:20:29,808 --> 01:20:31,492
- Well, I have
a couple in mind.
2045
01:20:31,643 --> 01:20:33,143
- Show me what you got.
- Okay, girl, come over here.
2046
01:20:33,162 --> 01:20:35,145
- Okay, let's go.
2047
01:20:35,239 --> 01:20:41,226
And I just hope that he can
see immediately I'm 100% in.
2048
01:20:41,245 --> 01:20:43,228
- So we're thinking maybe sexy,
but elegant.
2049
01:20:43,247 --> 01:20:44,897
- Yes.
- I'm the right girl for you.
2050
01:20:44,915 --> 01:20:48,067
- All right.
Let go, let's go.
2051
01:20:48,160 --> 01:20:49,159
- Ooh, free drink.
- Don't drink.
2052
01:20:49,178 --> 01:20:51,494
- Wanna drink it.
2053
01:20:51,514 --> 01:20:54,831
- For my tuxedo, I want
something sophisticated, sexy.
2054
01:20:54,851 --> 01:20:57,184
You know, I want something
that's bold.
2055
01:20:57,336 --> 01:20:58,260
Gonna take care
of my boy, right?
2056
01:20:58,412 --> 01:20:59,761
- Yeah, absolutely.
2057
01:20:59,914 --> 01:21:00,670
- We want him fitted,
suited, and booted.
2058
01:21:00,764 --> 01:21:02,414
- Yes, sir.
- Yeah.
2059
01:21:02,433 --> 01:21:05,417
- I feel like I encompass
a lot of those traits,
2060
01:21:05,436 --> 01:21:06,919
And that's why I'm here
to pick something out
2061
01:21:07,012 --> 01:21:09,271
That's straight-up drip,
period.
2062
01:21:09,423 --> 01:21:11,031
I'm--I'm willing to
take a risk, you know,
2063
01:21:11,183 --> 01:21:13,425
Like, I-I think
my personality is
2064
01:21:13,518 --> 01:21:14,927
Just naturally a risk-taker.
2065
01:21:15,020 --> 01:21:16,778
You know, I day trade,
you know, I'm--
2066
01:21:16,873 --> 01:21:19,039
I'm always looking
for like one-off opportunities.
2067
01:21:19,191 --> 01:21:21,617
- She's taking a risk, too,
so that could be a great sign.
2068
01:21:21,711 --> 01:21:23,602
Like, she signed up
for this same way you did.
2069
01:21:23,621 --> 01:21:24,879
- Right, right.
2070
01:21:25,030 --> 01:21:26,213
- And then with
your track record,
2071
01:21:26,440 --> 01:21:28,607
I mean, it's always it--
no, with your track record
2072
01:21:28,626 --> 01:21:30,867
Of taking risks.
- It's a track record.
2073
01:21:30,887 --> 01:21:31,886
- I thought you was
about to say something--
2074
01:21:32,113 --> 01:21:33,220
- No.
2075
01:21:33,447 --> 01:21:34,555
- Something else
about my track record.
2076
01:21:34,706 --> 01:21:35,556
I was about to chug
this [bleep], bro.
2077
01:21:35,707 --> 01:21:37,540
[laughter]
2078
01:21:37,560 --> 01:21:40,119
- ♪ this is a new beginning ♪
2079
01:21:40,137 --> 01:21:41,970
- Wow.
- Oh, my god.
2080
01:21:42,123 --> 01:21:44,231
- That is gorgeous.
- Gorgeous.
2081
01:21:44,458 --> 01:21:45,974
- Wow.
2082
01:21:46,127 --> 01:21:48,402
♪ ♪
2083
01:21:48,553 --> 01:21:49,811
- That's really pretty.
- It's gorgeous.
2084
01:21:49,964 --> 01:21:52,239
- It is gorgeous.
- Very beautiful.
2085
01:21:52,391 --> 01:21:54,057
- It's a really,
really pretty dress.
2086
01:21:54,076 --> 01:21:56,468
- I love that one.
- I like it.
2087
01:21:56,487 --> 01:21:57,803
- But you don't love it.
- But...
2088
01:21:57,896 --> 01:21:59,488
- But I don't love it.
- Okay.
2089
01:21:59,582 --> 01:22:00,806
- Yeah.
2090
01:22:00,899 --> 01:22:02,399
- Are you getting
any cold feet?
2091
01:22:02,418 --> 01:22:04,734
- Mm-hmm.
- Oh, I'm already past that.
2092
01:22:04,828 --> 01:22:06,903
Yeah.
- That's good.
2093
01:22:06,923 --> 01:22:08,981
- What about let him
be the leader?
2094
01:22:08,999 --> 01:22:10,482
'cause, you know.
2095
01:22:10,575 --> 01:22:11,817
- Are you able
to be submissive?
2096
01:22:11,835 --> 01:22:13,410
- What?
I don't even know that word.
2097
01:22:13,504 --> 01:22:16,004
What?
[laughter]
2098
01:22:16,157 --> 01:22:17,247
- It doesn't mean
you lose control.
2099
01:22:17,341 --> 01:22:18,991
- Yeah.
- Nope.
2100
01:22:19,009 --> 01:22:20,325
- You have confidence in him
to lead the relationship.
2101
01:22:20,419 --> 01:22:22,327
- But he has to show me that.
2102
01:22:22,346 --> 01:22:24,680
- You know that requires
opportunities, right?
2103
01:22:24,774 --> 01:22:26,331
- Well, yeah, I have to give
him the opportunities.
2104
01:22:26,350 --> 01:22:29,184
They gonna be
baby steps, you know?
2105
01:22:29,336 --> 01:22:30,519
- Yeah.
2106
01:22:30,671 --> 01:22:32,004
- Babe, can you pick
a restaurant
2107
01:22:32,022 --> 01:22:33,763
For us to eat at?
2108
01:22:33,783 --> 01:22:36,008
Can you do that?
2109
01:22:36,101 --> 01:22:39,119
Okay, I'll give you
a little bit more.
2110
01:22:39,271 --> 01:22:41,196
Marriage is scary.
2111
01:22:41,290 --> 01:22:43,791
This is not just somebody
that I can see
2112
01:22:43,942 --> 01:22:46,126
When I'm not busy or doing
everything else that I have.
2113
01:22:46,353 --> 01:22:48,370
Like, that person
has to become my priority.
2114
01:22:48,464 --> 01:22:50,022
I'm just gonna be like,
"hey, you're my husband,
2115
01:22:50,115 --> 01:22:51,873
Take all this responsibility."
2116
01:22:52,026 --> 01:22:53,283
Like, it's a partnership,
how about that?
2117
01:22:53,377 --> 01:22:54,710
- It is.
- It is a partnership.
2118
01:22:54,862 --> 01:22:57,713
♪ ♪
2119
01:22:57,865 --> 01:23:00,032
- ♪ money, money, money ♪
2120
01:23:00,125 --> 01:23:02,868
- Okay.
- Oh, I love the blue.
2121
01:23:02,961 --> 01:23:05,795
- Mind your swag.
[laughter]
2122
01:23:05,815 --> 01:23:07,130
- That's the one?
- I like that one.
2123
01:23:07,224 --> 01:23:10,967
- This is, this it.
Period.
2124
01:23:10,987 --> 01:23:12,894
This suit is the one.
2125
01:23:12,989 --> 01:23:15,714
I want my wife to be
like, "damn, he's fine."
2126
01:23:15,733 --> 01:23:17,974
Like, you know,
"oh, wow, he's, you know,
2127
01:23:17,994 --> 01:23:20,385
"he's real sharp and
like put together.
2128
01:23:20,404 --> 01:23:22,237
He--he's a smart guy," right?
2129
01:23:22,331 --> 01:23:25,224
I've changed so much
in the last ten years.
2130
01:23:25,242 --> 01:23:28,410
I don't think I would
be ready for a marriage
2131
01:23:28,562 --> 01:23:31,563
Without that growth that I
got, but I'm definitely ready.
2132
01:23:31,582 --> 01:23:33,841
I feel confident.
I feel like I'm a businessman.
2133
01:23:33,992 --> 01:23:36,844
When I come into that wedding
with all that confidence,
2134
01:23:36,995 --> 01:23:39,071
She's gonna feel it,
and she might
2135
01:23:39,164 --> 01:23:40,681
Be turned on by it as well.
2136
01:23:40,832 --> 01:23:43,925
Wifey, she ain't ready, bro.
She ain't ready, like.
2137
01:23:44,078 --> 01:23:47,855
♪ ♪
2138
01:23:48,006 --> 01:23:52,026
- Oh, my goodness.
2139
01:23:52,177 --> 01:23:53,435
- She's so pretty.
2140
01:23:53,587 --> 01:23:55,420
- Wow.
2141
01:23:55,439 --> 01:23:56,922
- ♪ something
they wanna have ♪
2142
01:23:56,940 --> 01:23:59,608
- I look like a barbie.
2143
01:23:59,760 --> 01:24:00,868
- Is this the dress?
2144
01:24:01,019 --> 01:24:02,519
- This is the dress.
2145
01:24:02,613 --> 01:24:05,706
- Yay, we have our dress.
2146
01:24:05,857 --> 01:24:09,451
- I'm classy and I'm sassy
and a little smartassy.
2147
01:24:09,545 --> 01:24:11,861
[laughter]
2148
01:24:11,881 --> 01:24:13,939
- ♪ some would
give up everything ♪
2149
01:24:14,032 --> 01:24:16,884
♪ 'cause they want it
that bad ♪
2150
01:24:17,111 --> 01:24:20,295
- I feel like a princess
in this dress.
2151
01:24:20,447 --> 01:24:23,373
I feel like a real bride.
2152
01:24:23,467 --> 01:24:26,118
- ♪ I've been waiting
on this moment all my life ♪
2153
01:24:26,136 --> 01:24:27,786
- This is real.
2154
01:24:27,879 --> 01:24:31,306
It's really real.
Oh, wow. Okay.
2155
01:24:31,458 --> 01:24:34,976
- I have to share you
with somebody now.
2156
01:24:35,129 --> 01:24:37,738
- Oh, no. See, come on now.
2157
01:24:37,965 --> 01:24:39,798
- All right.
- You'll mess up my makeup.
2158
01:24:39,817 --> 01:24:42,076
[laughter]
2159
01:24:42,227 --> 01:24:43,893
I can't believe it.
2160
01:24:43,987 --> 01:24:48,657
I'm gonna have a husband and
somebody to share life with.
2161
01:24:48,751 --> 01:24:50,733
It's just something
that I've always wanted.
2162
01:24:50,828 --> 01:24:53,403
Someone to call my person.
2163
01:24:53,422 --> 01:24:55,589
It's probably like
20 years of emotion
2164
01:24:55,816 --> 01:24:56,924
That I've probably
just kept down.
2165
01:24:57,151 --> 01:24:58,650
Make it stop.
- Look, you're crying.
2166
01:24:58,743 --> 01:25:01,578
- Make it stop already.
- No.
2167
01:25:01,672 --> 01:25:04,005
- Why do I keep crying so much?
2168
01:25:04,158 --> 01:25:06,266
♪ ♪
2169
01:25:06,418 --> 01:25:09,436
I'm supposed to be a thug.
[laughs]
2170
01:25:13,442 --> 01:25:14,666
- ♪ I'm ready for this,
I've been dreaming ♪
2171
01:25:14,685 --> 01:25:15,592
♪ this will give
everything meaning ♪
2172
01:25:15,611 --> 01:25:17,260
♪ I've been counting it down ♪
2173
01:25:17,279 --> 01:25:19,279
♪ bring it here and now ♪
2174
01:25:19,431 --> 01:25:20,689
- Let's go.
2175
01:25:20,841 --> 01:25:23,008
- Tonight,
before their big day,
2176
01:25:23,026 --> 01:25:25,268
Our ten singles will have
one last chance
2177
01:25:25,287 --> 01:25:27,287
To get together and celebrate
2178
01:25:27,439 --> 01:25:29,698
Before leaving
their single life behind.
2179
01:25:29,850 --> 01:25:31,941
- Shots on me only for tonight.
- Okay.
2180
01:25:32,035 --> 01:25:34,686
- Only for tonight.
- Okay.
2181
01:25:34,779 --> 01:25:36,705
- Because in just over
a week, our couples
2182
01:25:36,799 --> 01:25:39,115
Will enter into legally
binding marriages
2183
01:25:39,135 --> 01:25:41,193
With complete strangers.
2184
01:25:41,286 --> 01:25:43,119
- ♪ I keep getting in my way ♪
2185
01:25:43,139 --> 01:25:47,474
[all cheering]
2186
01:25:47,701 --> 01:25:49,718
- It is finally my
bachelorette party
2187
01:25:49,870 --> 01:25:51,794
With all the other brides,
and it's just
2188
01:25:51,889 --> 01:25:53,221
So comforting
knowing that they are
2189
01:25:53,374 --> 01:25:54,556
All here with me right now.
2190
01:25:54,650 --> 01:25:58,819
[all cheering]
2191
01:25:59,046 --> 01:26:00,896
We're literally getting
married to a stranger.
2192
01:26:01,048 --> 01:26:03,548
So it's nice being able
to just like de-stress,
2193
01:26:03,642 --> 01:26:05,384
Have some drinks,
have some fun.
2194
01:26:05,477 --> 01:26:06,902
- To beautiful new
beginnings.
2195
01:26:06,996 --> 01:26:08,904
- Yes.
- To new beginnings.
2196
01:26:08,998 --> 01:26:10,664
All:
Whoo!
2197
01:26:10,891 --> 01:26:12,557
- Let's [bleep] go!
2198
01:26:12,651 --> 01:26:14,559
- ♪ don't stop, make it last ♪
2199
01:26:14,653 --> 01:26:15,818
♪ don't stop,
make-make it last ♪
2200
01:26:15,838 --> 01:26:18,413
- Tonight is my bachelor party.
2201
01:26:18,565 --> 01:26:21,066
It's also all
of our bachelor party.
2202
01:26:21,159 --> 01:26:22,659
We've got a good vibe going.
2203
01:26:22,753 --> 01:26:23,902
- ♪ let's go ♪
2204
01:26:23,921 --> 01:26:25,179
♪ no price in the tag, uh ♪
2205
01:26:25,330 --> 01:26:26,996
♪ she got it like that, yeah ♪
2206
01:26:27,016 --> 01:26:28,998
- Hey!
- Yes, sir.
2207
01:26:29,092 --> 01:26:30,425
- All right. Okay.
2208
01:26:30,577 --> 01:26:33,836
- It's a bachelor party
now, man.
2209
01:26:33,856 --> 01:26:36,005
- I'm--I'm engaged, I ain't
even looking that way.
2210
01:26:36,025 --> 01:26:39,342
I'm--I'm good--I'm good.
2211
01:26:39,361 --> 01:26:41,420
I've been celibate
for quite some time by choice,
2212
01:26:41,513 --> 01:26:43,104
And I'm not into strippers.
2213
01:26:43,257 --> 01:26:45,181
Realistically,
when I go to a strip club,
2214
01:26:45,275 --> 01:26:46,925
My [bleep] don't get hard.
2215
01:26:46,944 --> 01:26:49,352
You can be so fine and my
[bleep] won't get hard.
2216
01:26:49,371 --> 01:26:51,354
I'm just being honest.
2217
01:26:51,448 --> 01:26:52,764
But if we got that mental
connection, you're attractive,
2218
01:26:52,857 --> 01:26:55,042
And we got a, like,
emotional connection?
2219
01:26:55,193 --> 01:26:56,859
See, yo,
I'm making love to you.
2220
01:26:56,954 --> 01:26:58,378
- Now go ahead
and turn me up, girl.
2221
01:26:58,605 --> 01:27:00,121
I need that.
2222
01:27:00,216 --> 01:27:03,291
Oh, yes. Hey.
2223
01:27:03,385 --> 01:27:05,552
I'm definitely a freak.
I'm not gonna hold that back.
2224
01:27:05,779 --> 01:27:06,720
Little bit harder.
Come on, come on.
2225
01:27:06,947 --> 01:27:09,130
All:
Oh!
2226
01:27:09,225 --> 01:27:10,224
- Oh, he next.
2227
01:27:10,375 --> 01:27:12,208
- The stripers
are intimidating.
2228
01:27:12,228 --> 01:27:14,135
- Oh!
2229
01:27:14,230 --> 01:27:17,456
- The whips and everything.
Like, I'm scared.
2230
01:27:17,549 --> 01:27:19,140
I hope my wife isn't
into stuff like that.
2231
01:27:19,235 --> 01:27:22,978
[all cheering]
2232
01:27:23,072 --> 01:27:28,967
♪ ♪
2233
01:27:28,986 --> 01:27:33,896
- Morgan is so spunky
and so surprising.
2234
01:27:33,991 --> 01:27:35,415
And she was a little
quiet at first,
2235
01:27:35,642 --> 01:27:37,233
But I was like, I know
that there's more.
2236
01:27:37,253 --> 01:27:39,160
I'm here for it.
2237
01:27:39,255 --> 01:27:42,481
Her husband, he's--he's in
for a really good time.
2238
01:27:42,499 --> 01:27:43,832
- How are you gonna
connect with, you know,
2239
01:27:43,926 --> 01:27:45,984
This total stranger who
is suddenly your wife now?
2240
01:27:46,077 --> 01:27:49,078
- I can tell you
how they gonna connect.
2241
01:27:49,172 --> 01:27:50,246
- Physically or emotionally?
2242
01:27:50,266 --> 01:27:51,765
- That's how you
gotta connect, man.
2243
01:27:51,916 --> 01:27:53,508
If y'all married,
you gotta, you gotta connect.
2244
01:27:53,602 --> 01:27:56,511
- I just want someone who looks
at me and who's like,
2245
01:27:56,663 --> 01:27:58,680
"[bleep]," you know.
2246
01:27:58,832 --> 01:28:01,833
I want him to come onto me.
2247
01:28:01,852 --> 01:28:04,278
I want him to initiate.
2248
01:28:04,505 --> 01:28:06,021
- You gonna have sex
on the wedding day?
2249
01:28:06,115 --> 01:28:07,614
- For me on my--on my end,
it's on the table,
2250
01:28:07,766 --> 01:28:09,116
But I'm gonna leave that
to her.
2251
01:28:09,267 --> 01:28:10,525
- You're gonna
have sex on the--
2252
01:28:10,677 --> 01:28:11,343
- If my shirt is off
and she pounces me?
2253
01:28:11,361 --> 01:28:13,011
I'm not stopping.
2254
01:28:13,104 --> 01:28:16,290
- Girl, you have been
bitching about the lack
2255
01:28:16,517 --> 01:28:18,033
Of sexual intimacy
for quite some--
2256
01:28:18,185 --> 01:28:20,185
- July.
- July?
2257
01:28:20,278 --> 01:28:22,203
- July.
- It's been like seven months.
2258
01:28:22,356 --> 01:28:24,689
- If y'all not having sex
with y'all married for?
2259
01:28:24,708 --> 01:28:27,116
- I'ma--I'ma let you know
right when we have sex then.
2260
01:28:27,136 --> 01:28:28,468
- All right.
- Yeah, yeah.
2261
01:28:28,695 --> 01:28:29,861
I'll call you before
I call my mom.
2262
01:28:29,954 --> 01:28:32,288
[laughter]
2263
01:28:32,308 --> 01:28:33,882
- ♪ been looking
for some time ♪
2264
01:28:33,976 --> 01:28:38,294
[all cheering]
2265
01:28:38,314 --> 01:28:41,297
- So how are you feeling?
Like, it's coming up quick?
2266
01:28:41,317 --> 01:28:42,816
- She's either gonna
like me or she's not.
2267
01:28:43,043 --> 01:28:44,484
I mean, there's no
black and white with me.
2268
01:28:44,711 --> 01:28:46,561
I'm hardcore mitch, so.
- Yeah.
2269
01:28:46,713 --> 01:28:48,638
One of the harder things
has been
2270
01:28:48,732 --> 01:28:50,490
Just sticking
with it for mitch.
2271
01:28:50,642 --> 01:28:53,068
So in this case,
he's gonna be kind of forced
2272
01:28:53,220 --> 01:28:54,569
To work things out where
in the past, you know,
2273
01:28:54,721 --> 01:28:55,978
He may have just went
a different direction
2274
01:28:56,073 --> 01:28:57,405
Or looked
for a different girl.
2275
01:28:57,558 --> 01:28:59,891
So I-I really hope
it works out for him.
2276
01:28:59,984 --> 01:29:02,227
- Any regrets?
Any last moment like cold feet?
2277
01:29:02,320 --> 01:29:04,654
- Absolutely not, 100% no.
2278
01:29:04,673 --> 01:29:06,731
I'm all in.
I'm ready to be married.
2279
01:29:06,750 --> 01:29:09,659
You know I'm not
a good single person.
2280
01:29:09,753 --> 01:29:14,239
This guy's gonna get a ride or
die wife and I have his back.
2281
01:29:14,257 --> 01:29:16,499
I don't know him,
but I have his back.
2282
01:29:16,518 --> 01:29:18,593
- I think part
of this process is learning
2283
01:29:18,745 --> 01:29:20,169
That you don't have to be,
like, black or white.
2284
01:29:20,189 --> 01:29:21,838
You don't have to be
like all mitch or else
2285
01:29:21,857 --> 01:29:24,099
You're like, you know,
you're compromising
2286
01:29:24,251 --> 01:29:25,934
Your integrity, right?
- I mean--
2287
01:29:26,086 --> 01:29:27,602
- You have to--
- a little bit, but yeah.
2288
01:29:27,696 --> 01:29:29,512
We'll see, yeah.
- We'll see.
2289
01:29:29,531 --> 01:29:31,940
You're not ready to--to even
agree with that principle yet.
2290
01:29:32,092 --> 01:29:34,275
- I'm not ready for that.
- Yeah.
2291
01:29:34,370 --> 01:29:38,372
[all cheering]
2292
01:29:38,523 --> 01:29:40,615
- ♪ two time for the dj
with some hip-hop ♪
2293
01:29:40,767 --> 01:29:41,933
♪ 'cause the party don't stop
till the record drop ♪
2294
01:29:41,952 --> 01:29:43,359
- I wasn't allowed
to dance growing up,
2295
01:29:43,453 --> 01:29:44,953
So I'm really like awkward.
2296
01:29:45,105 --> 01:29:46,271
- What do you mean
you weren't allowed to dance?
2297
01:29:46,289 --> 01:29:48,215
- Everyone's had background
in dance.
2298
01:29:48,366 --> 01:29:49,791
- So I don't know
how to dance.
2299
01:29:49,885 --> 01:29:52,444
I'm just like over here like,
bulldog, sprinkler.
2300
01:29:52,462 --> 01:29:54,221
- Can I ask what
religion--what religion?
2301
01:29:54,372 --> 01:29:56,114
- Yeah, I grew up
seventh day adventist.
2302
01:29:56,133 --> 01:29:57,449
So, like, we weren't allowed
to dance, so I've never
2303
01:29:57,542 --> 01:29:59,059
Been to, like, a formal dance
in my whole life.
2304
01:29:59,210 --> 01:30:01,043
- ♪ I like the way
you move your body ♪
2305
01:30:01,063 --> 01:30:02,637
♪ work, now you my hobby ♪
2306
01:30:02,731 --> 01:30:06,400
[all cheering]
2307
01:30:06,627 --> 01:30:09,236
- What's happening?
2308
01:30:09,387 --> 01:30:11,888
- I haven't found that
sweet spot to where
2309
01:30:11,982 --> 01:30:13,573
I can relate to lindy yet.
2310
01:30:13,800 --> 01:30:16,985
We're both marrying strangers;
other than that,
2311
01:30:17,137 --> 01:30:19,137
Conversation gets real slim.
2312
01:30:19,156 --> 01:30:20,488
- I need a drink.
2313
01:30:20,582 --> 01:30:23,250
♪ ♪
2314
01:30:23,477 --> 01:30:25,568
- ♪ grew up on the corner
as a young'un ♪
2315
01:30:25,587 --> 01:30:27,069
♪ straight from the block
I've been hustling ♪
2316
01:30:27,164 --> 01:30:28,588
- You prefer a pretty boy--
2317
01:30:28,815 --> 01:30:30,239
- Or like rough
around the edges?
2318
01:30:30,259 --> 01:30:31,833
- Tattoos.
- Yeah.
2319
01:30:31,985 --> 01:30:33,151
- I mean, I think, like,
the problem with me
2320
01:30:33,244 --> 01:30:34,836
Is, like, I've been
trying to get that
2321
01:30:34,988 --> 01:30:36,430
Fairy tale with that thug,
right?
2322
01:30:36,657 --> 01:30:38,006
- Yeah, yeah.
- That's where my problem is.
2323
01:30:38,100 --> 01:30:40,492
You know, I like the little
rough, I like the tattoos.
2324
01:30:40,510 --> 01:30:42,494
I like that little edge,
you know what I mean?
2325
01:30:42,512 --> 01:30:45,755
But I also like, well
put together, clean cut.
2326
01:30:45,849 --> 01:30:47,182
- Well, if he gets
a lot of attention
2327
01:30:47,276 --> 01:30:48,667
From like other females.
2328
01:30:48,760 --> 01:30:49,759
- That's what I'm
talking about.
2329
01:30:49,853 --> 01:30:51,278
Come on, get comfy, baby.
2330
01:30:51,429 --> 01:30:53,505
Get comfy.
- I love it.
2331
01:30:53,523 --> 01:30:54,764
- Okay.
- I love it.
2332
01:30:54,783 --> 01:30:57,451
- I would not be
insecure at one bit
2333
01:30:57,602 --> 01:31:01,346
If he was getting attention,
looks from other women.
2334
01:31:01,439 --> 01:31:04,365
What upsets me is when
the boundary is crossed
2335
01:31:04,460 --> 01:31:07,535
Because he's inviting it in
and he's communicating
2336
01:31:07,688 --> 01:31:09,204
And he's not setting the
boundary with those women.
2337
01:31:09,298 --> 01:31:12,023
- Get on your knees right now.
2338
01:31:12,042 --> 01:31:16,136
♪ ♪
2339
01:31:20,291 --> 01:31:22,959
- What upsets me is when
the boundary is crossed
2340
01:31:22,978 --> 01:31:25,145
Because he's inviting it in
and he's communicating
2341
01:31:25,296 --> 01:31:26,871
And he's not setting
the boundary with those women.
2342
01:31:26,965 --> 01:31:29,983
- Get on your knees right now.
2343
01:31:30,210 --> 01:31:33,302
All: Oh!
2344
01:31:33,322 --> 01:31:35,730
- And that's when my issue
becomes with him.
2345
01:31:35,882 --> 01:31:38,216
Not them.
2346
01:31:38,309 --> 01:31:40,160
- You gotta get on
your [bleep] knees.
2347
01:31:40,387 --> 01:31:41,995
- [shrieks]
2348
01:31:42,222 --> 01:31:44,556
- I think his wife
may take issue with some
2349
01:31:44,649 --> 01:31:46,816
Of the behavior seen tonight.
2350
01:31:46,835 --> 01:31:48,502
Now he's ready to get married.
2351
01:31:48,653 --> 01:31:49,911
- Yeah, I'm ready.
2352
01:31:50,005 --> 01:31:53,231
♪ ♪
2353
01:31:53,250 --> 01:31:56,568
- So how would you guys
feel with an uncircumcised?
2354
01:31:56,586 --> 01:31:58,345
- Oh.
- Oh.
2355
01:31:58,496 --> 01:32:00,663
- Turtleneck, let's go.
I got a sweater.
2356
01:32:00,682 --> 01:32:04,000
- Oh, my god.
2357
01:32:04,019 --> 01:32:06,094
- I've never seen one.
I've never seen one in my life.
2358
01:32:06,246 --> 01:32:07,579
- Really?
2359
01:32:07,597 --> 01:32:09,839
- I feel like I'd be terrified.
2360
01:32:09,858 --> 01:32:12,417
If my husband
was uncircumcised...
2361
01:32:12,435 --> 01:32:15,695
[laughing]
2362
01:32:15,847 --> 01:32:17,772
Like, I wouldn't
know what to do.
2363
01:32:17,866 --> 01:32:19,941
I've never seen one.
I've never touched one.
2364
01:32:20,093 --> 01:32:21,259
I've never smelled one.
2365
01:32:21,352 --> 01:32:22,869
Like, I don't know
what it feels like.
2366
01:32:23,021 --> 01:32:24,612
- No, it's different.
2367
01:32:24,706 --> 01:32:27,432
- No, it all works the same
and goes the same place.
2368
01:32:27,525 --> 01:32:31,452
- I'm scared.
What if he is? [laughs]
2369
01:32:31,605 --> 01:32:33,438
- ♪ I think I need it
right now. ♪
2370
01:32:33,531 --> 01:32:36,365
♪ I don't wanna wait for it ♪
2371
01:32:36,385 --> 01:32:38,701
♪ not another day for it ♪
2372
01:32:38,720 --> 01:32:40,202
- It's not married for eight
weeks, you getting married
2373
01:32:40,297 --> 01:32:41,388
For the rest of your life.
2374
01:32:41,615 --> 01:32:42,872
- I'm looking forward
to the change
2375
01:32:42,891 --> 01:32:46,284
'cause I'm ready for it.
I'm just like, let's do it.
2376
01:32:46,303 --> 01:32:48,395
- This is not how I pictured
justin getting married.
2377
01:32:48,622 --> 01:32:50,471
So I'm still devastated
and terrified
2378
01:32:50,566 --> 01:32:52,290
That he's getting married
to a complete stranger.
2379
01:32:52,383 --> 01:32:54,142
You about to get married.
- I know.
2380
01:32:54,294 --> 01:32:55,794
- You about to get locked down.
2381
01:32:55,812 --> 01:32:57,404
You about to get some
handcuffs placed on you.
2382
01:32:57,631 --> 01:32:58,738
You about to have
a probation officer
2383
01:32:58,890 --> 01:33:00,315
Checking on you every day.
2384
01:33:00,467 --> 01:33:02,150
♪ ♪
2385
01:33:02,244 --> 01:33:05,061
You understand what that means?
It's your life, man.
2386
01:33:05,080 --> 01:33:07,080
- Bro, I'm not trying to
prove anything to you though.
2387
01:33:07,307 --> 01:33:08,473
- You not--don't have
to prove to it me.
2388
01:33:08,566 --> 01:33:09,899
- But you want me to, I can--
2389
01:33:09,918 --> 01:33:11,326
- I'm not asking you
to prove anything.
2390
01:33:11,478 --> 01:33:13,086
I hope this works out
for you, but if I'm
2391
01:33:13,313 --> 01:33:14,479
Being really authentic,
no, I don't think
2392
01:33:14,497 --> 01:33:16,405
You're ready to be married.
2393
01:33:16,425 --> 01:33:18,425
I'm absolutely gonna
hold you accountable.
2394
01:33:18,652 --> 01:33:20,242
And I'm gonna tell you
when you [bleep] up
2395
01:33:20,262 --> 01:33:21,428
Or when I think
you're [bleep] up.
2396
01:33:21,655 --> 01:33:23,154
- I'm--I'm a grown-ass man.
I'm 33.
2397
01:33:23,247 --> 01:33:24,580
I don't need you
to chastise me.
2398
01:33:24,600 --> 01:33:26,266
I've been taking care of
myself since I was 19, bro.
2399
01:33:26,493 --> 01:33:27,992
So what, what do you
need to chastise?
2400
01:33:28,011 --> 01:33:29,160
What do you need to teach me
that I don't even know?
2401
01:33:29,179 --> 01:33:30,270
- I won't say nothing
else, justin.
2402
01:33:30,497 --> 01:33:31,771
I understand
you're not ready to listen.
2403
01:33:31,998 --> 01:33:33,440
- All right.
2404
01:33:33,667 --> 01:33:35,424
If you feel like I'm not
ready to listen, then bye.
2405
01:33:35,444 --> 01:33:36,684
Like, cause I'm listening.
I-I can listen.
2406
01:33:36,837 --> 01:33:38,002
- You're not listening.
2407
01:33:38,021 --> 01:33:39,112
You here,
and then you're saying bye.
2408
01:33:39,339 --> 01:33:41,781
- All right, cool.
Well, in that case, bye.
2409
01:33:42,008 --> 01:33:45,009
- Justin, you acting
like a little bitch.
2410
01:33:45,028 --> 01:33:47,195
♪ ♪
2411
01:33:47,289 --> 01:33:49,271
I really don't feel like
this was a good idea.
2412
01:33:49,366 --> 01:33:50,865
He's not ready to be married.
2413
01:33:51,017 --> 01:33:52,459
♪ ♪
2414
01:33:52,686 --> 01:33:54,035
I just want him
to understand what
2415
01:33:54,187 --> 01:33:56,187
He's really about to get into.
2416
01:33:56,206 --> 01:33:57,355
'cause this [bleep] is real.
2417
01:33:57,374 --> 01:33:59,524
♪ ♪
2418
01:33:59,542 --> 01:34:02,360
- Night, night.
2419
01:34:02,453 --> 01:34:04,954
- ♪ we're the new way, honey ♪
2420
01:34:04,973 --> 01:34:06,865
♪ ever runnin' ♪
2421
01:34:06,883 --> 01:34:09,717
♪ ♪
2422
01:34:09,811 --> 01:34:12,720
- Do you think that
picking an engagement ring
2423
01:34:12,873 --> 01:34:15,373
Before knowing your wife
is a weird experience?
2424
01:34:15,392 --> 01:34:17,392
- Well, duh.
2425
01:34:17,486 --> 01:34:20,061
Like, this is, like, crazy
'cause, like, I don't know
2426
01:34:20,155 --> 01:34:22,213
If she's gonna like it
or not, but literally,
2427
01:34:22,232 --> 01:34:26,475
This website, jamesallen.Com,
has like over 200,000 diamonds.
2428
01:34:26,495 --> 01:34:28,236
- She has to like
something in here.
2429
01:34:28,388 --> 01:34:30,071
- I see step one,
choose a setting.
2430
01:34:30,165 --> 01:34:31,239
- You already know
you want the cut to be pavé?
2431
01:34:31,391 --> 01:34:32,648
- Yeah.
2432
01:34:32,668 --> 01:34:34,058
- I want the
diamonds in the band,
2433
01:34:34,077 --> 01:34:36,336
So I need more diamonds
in the actual band.
2434
01:34:36,563 --> 01:34:38,838
- Yeah.
- This one just sticks out.
2435
01:34:39,065 --> 01:34:41,991
- Now you're gonna
have to add a diamond.
2436
01:34:42,010 --> 01:34:45,011
Now this, this is where
you put your money
2437
01:34:45,163 --> 01:34:46,996
Where your mouth is, sir.
- Okay.
2438
01:34:47,015 --> 01:34:49,516
- Oh, you can even choose
earth-created or lab-created.
2439
01:34:49,667 --> 01:34:51,592
- I like the round cut.
The round cut is classy.
2440
01:34:51,745 --> 01:34:53,094
It pops.
2441
01:34:53,246 --> 01:34:55,188
- We've got some color options.
2442
01:34:55,415 --> 01:34:59,175
We have the clarity,
the carats, and the cut, so.
2443
01:34:59,269 --> 01:35:00,509
- Look at this one.
2444
01:35:00,529 --> 01:35:02,696
- I love this.
2445
01:35:02,847 --> 01:35:04,531
This the diamond you like?
- Yes.
2446
01:35:04,758 --> 01:35:06,700
Now that I got
the diamond chosen,
2447
01:35:06,851 --> 01:35:08,851
Let's go to step three.
I'm ready.
2448
01:35:08,870 --> 01:35:10,261
- You ready
to complete the ring?
2449
01:35:10,354 --> 01:35:12,521
Oh, this is kinda cool
down here, too,
2450
01:35:12,541 --> 01:35:14,541
'cause it'll show you how
it will look based on the size
2451
01:35:14,692 --> 01:35:15,783
Of the carat you get.
2452
01:35:15,877 --> 01:35:17,544
That's gorgeous.
2453
01:35:17,771 --> 01:35:19,879
That's like perfect.
- Oh, that is amazing.
2454
01:35:20,031 --> 01:35:20,955
- See that? Like those.
- That's actually really nice.
2455
01:35:21,049 --> 01:35:22,549
- Yeah.
2456
01:35:22,776 --> 01:35:26,052
- Should we select this?
- Yeah, pick it.
2457
01:35:26,279 --> 01:35:27,795
- Oh, my gosh.
That is a gorgeous ring.
2458
01:35:27,948 --> 01:35:30,114
Full 360.
2459
01:35:30,133 --> 01:35:31,725
Don't you think it was so easy?
2460
01:35:31,876 --> 01:35:33,226
Just one, two, three,
2461
01:35:33,377 --> 01:35:35,453
Choose a setting,
choose a diamond,
2462
01:35:35,546 --> 01:35:37,046
And then complete your ring.
2463
01:35:37,065 --> 01:35:38,565
- Oh, my god.
2464
01:35:38,716 --> 01:35:40,066
- So that means when you
see that in the lights,
2465
01:35:40,218 --> 01:35:41,234
You're like ching-ling,
ching, ching.
2466
01:35:41,385 --> 01:35:43,552
- She's a-liking that.
2467
01:35:43,572 --> 01:35:45,071
- This is so easy.
2468
01:35:45,223 --> 01:35:46,906
- It is very easy.
2469
01:35:47,133 --> 01:35:48,483
- Look at this one,
something like this, right?
2470
01:35:48,635 --> 01:35:51,319
But it's--it's this one.
- So many options.
2471
01:35:51,471 --> 01:35:53,395
Ooh.
2472
01:35:53,415 --> 01:35:54,414
- Wow, that one's
actually pretty nice.
2473
01:35:54,641 --> 01:35:55,974
- This--it's this one.
It's this one.
2474
01:35:56,067 --> 01:35:57,250
- That's it.
- I like that one.
2475
01:35:57,401 --> 01:35:58,476
- This is the one.
This is the one.
2476
01:35:58,495 --> 01:36:00,402
- My gosh, this is
gonna be the ring.
2477
01:36:00,422 --> 01:36:01,813
- My hands are sweaty.
Feel it, feel it.
2478
01:36:01,831 --> 01:36:03,314
- Oh, they are.
2479
01:36:03,407 --> 01:36:04,758
- Yeah, yeah.
- This is...
2480
01:36:04,909 --> 01:36:06,317
- Wow.
- So pretty.
2481
01:36:06,336 --> 01:36:07,761
- That thing is amazing,
serious, though.
2482
01:36:07,912 --> 01:36:10,746
- It's huge.
- It is.
2483
01:36:10,766 --> 01:36:12,932
- Nobody's gonna
miss that ring.
2484
01:36:13,084 --> 01:36:14,342
Everyone's gonna know
that's your girl.
2485
01:36:14,494 --> 01:36:20,940
♪ ♪
2486
01:36:25,355 --> 01:36:27,688
- ♪ I'm on my way,
on my way here right now ♪
2487
01:36:27,783 --> 01:36:30,266
♪ ♪
2488
01:36:30,285 --> 01:36:34,103
- It's finally, finally
the night before the wedding.
2489
01:36:34,122 --> 01:36:36,848
I've been extremely nauseous
all day today.
2490
01:36:36,941 --> 01:36:38,199
I don't know what
to do with myself
2491
01:36:38,351 --> 01:36:40,201
And my nerves at this point.
2492
01:36:40,295 --> 01:36:42,295
- Not that I'm nervous
to sleep with my wife,
2493
01:36:42,446 --> 01:36:45,373
But my roommate in college
told me that I eat in my sleep.
2494
01:36:45,525 --> 01:36:47,542
So hopefully she doesn't
slap me with a pillow
2495
01:36:47,694 --> 01:36:49,527
Whenever I'm
eating in my sleep.
2496
01:36:49,546 --> 01:36:51,863
♪ ♪
2497
01:36:51,881 --> 01:36:55,308
- I-I have been waiting
my entire life to have
2498
01:36:55,535 --> 01:36:57,977
A full commitment from someone.
32 years.
2499
01:36:58,204 --> 01:37:00,647
I've been waiting a while.
I'm ready.
2500
01:37:00,798 --> 01:37:04,633
- I really can't wait to have
a beautiful wife next to me.
2501
01:37:04,653 --> 01:37:06,802
I hope she likes
to be called wifey,
2502
01:37:06,822 --> 01:37:09,047
'cause I always thought
that was cute.
2503
01:37:09,140 --> 01:37:11,065
In all my favorite r&b songs.
2504
01:37:11,159 --> 01:37:13,660
♪ ♪
2505
01:37:13,887 --> 01:37:17,388
- Best case scenario,
he's super handsome
2506
01:37:17,407 --> 01:37:20,241
And just, like,
really charismatic.
2507
01:37:20,335 --> 01:37:22,894
- I'm calling it right now,
instant fireworks.
2508
01:37:22,912 --> 01:37:26,155
As soon as we see each other,
it's like two lost souls
2509
01:37:26,249 --> 01:37:27,656
Finding each other.
2510
01:37:27,676 --> 01:37:28,916
- I'd be shocked
if that happened,
2511
01:37:29,010 --> 01:37:30,510
But that would be great.
2512
01:37:30,737 --> 01:37:34,681
- I still think that any
and all risks pale
2513
01:37:34,832 --> 01:37:37,575
In comparison
to what is to gain.
2514
01:37:37,594 --> 01:37:40,261
♪ ♪
2515
01:37:40,355 --> 01:37:42,689
- My husband, he's somewhere
thinking about me,
2516
01:37:42,840 --> 01:37:45,083
You know, like, we're sharing
thoughts right now.
2517
01:37:45,101 --> 01:37:46,359
Like, I'm thinking about
you thinking about me,
2518
01:37:46,510 --> 01:37:48,436
Thinking about us.
2519
01:37:48,588 --> 01:37:51,513
- Woke up at about,
I don't know, 6:30.
2520
01:37:51,533 --> 01:37:54,200
I was like, "oh, I'm getting
married in 24 hours".
2521
01:37:54,352 --> 01:37:57,111
And it hit me right there.
2522
01:37:57,263 --> 01:37:59,372
I went in the bathroom,
and I threw up.
2523
01:37:59,523 --> 01:38:01,949
I was just like, oh, like,
I was sweating, sweating.
2524
01:38:02,043 --> 01:38:04,285
♪ ♪
2525
01:38:04,379 --> 01:38:07,881
- [laughs] I can't believe
I'm gonna be a wife.
2526
01:38:08,032 --> 01:38:11,867
Oh, my god, I'm gonna
have a husband.
2527
01:38:11,887 --> 01:38:13,869
I didn't think that
this day would happen,
2528
01:38:13,963 --> 01:38:15,537
But it's happening.
2529
01:38:15,557 --> 01:38:17,539
- I really want this,
and I-I really want
2530
01:38:17,559 --> 01:38:19,117
To connect with someone.
2531
01:38:19,210 --> 01:38:21,043
I really want to find my love.
2532
01:38:21,062 --> 01:38:22,303
I want a partner.
2533
01:38:22,397 --> 01:38:25,047
- Goodnight, husband.
2534
01:38:25,066 --> 01:38:27,049
I gotta practice.
2535
01:38:27,068 --> 01:38:28,976
- All right, wifey,
see you tomorrow at the altar.
2536
01:38:29,070 --> 01:38:31,070
- Good night.
2537
01:38:31,297 --> 01:38:32,572
- This anticipation
has been torture.
2538
01:38:32,723 --> 01:38:35,967
So let's get married.
2539
01:38:35,985 --> 01:38:38,578
♪ ♪
2540
01:38:42,492 --> 01:38:46,160
- ♪ you only get one life ♪
2541
01:38:46,254 --> 01:38:49,147
♪ you only get one life ♪
2542
01:38:49,165 --> 01:38:52,833
- [laughs] hello!
2543
01:38:52,986 --> 01:38:55,094
- It's your big day!
2544
01:38:55,321 --> 01:38:56,930
- Thank you!
2545
01:38:57,157 --> 01:38:59,248
- For our couples,
the life-changing day
2546
01:38:59,267 --> 01:39:00,767
Is finally here.
2547
01:39:00,918 --> 01:39:03,844
- Today is my wedding day.
2548
01:39:03,997 --> 01:39:06,013
I feel like
I'm in a fairy tale.
2549
01:39:06,166 --> 01:39:08,015
I cannot believe
I'm here right now
2550
01:39:08,109 --> 01:39:10,351
And this day is finally here.
2551
01:39:10,445 --> 01:39:12,779
- I'm not gonna lie and say
I've always been imagining
2552
01:39:12,930 --> 01:39:15,840
What my wedding would be like,
'cause that's not true,
2553
01:39:15,858 --> 01:39:19,268
But I definitely never
thought it would be like this.
2554
01:39:19,362 --> 01:39:24,440
- Happy wedding day,
mystery fiancé.
2555
01:39:24,534 --> 01:39:27,776
I can't wait to meet you.
2556
01:39:27,796 --> 01:39:29,295
- Are you excited?
- Oh, hell yeah, dude. Come on.
2557
01:39:29,447 --> 01:39:31,022
- Nice.
- I'm getting married.
2558
01:39:31,040 --> 01:39:34,950
- This is the biggest leap
of faith of their lives.
2559
01:39:34,970 --> 01:39:36,377
- How I look?
- You looking good.
2560
01:39:36,529 --> 01:39:37,378
[cork pops]
both: Whoo!
2561
01:39:37,472 --> 01:39:38,972
- [bleep].
2562
01:39:39,123 --> 01:39:43,534
- As they prepare to say
I do to a total stranger.
2563
01:39:43,553 --> 01:39:44,477
- I'm getting goosebumps
for you, dude.
2564
01:39:44,704 --> 01:39:45,812
- I know.
2565
01:39:45,963 --> 01:39:47,038
[cork pops]
all: Whoo!
2566
01:39:47,056 --> 01:39:48,706
[glass shatters]
[laughter]
2567
01:39:48,725 --> 01:39:52,376
- [laughing]
oh, no!
2568
01:39:52,395 --> 01:39:54,470
- The first couple to get
married at first sight
2569
01:39:54,564 --> 01:39:56,805
Is alexis and justin.
2570
01:39:56,899 --> 01:39:59,233
- Guess what day it is.
2571
01:39:59,327 --> 01:40:01,902
Guess what day it is.
2572
01:40:01,997 --> 01:40:05,239
- ♪ it's my wedding day,
it's my wedding day ♪
2573
01:40:05,333 --> 01:40:06,332
♪ what, newton? ♪
2574
01:40:06,484 --> 01:40:07,483
♪ it's my wedding day ♪
2575
01:40:07,502 --> 01:40:08,501
♪ what, newton? ♪
2576
01:40:08,652 --> 01:40:09,910
♪ it's my wedding day ♪
2577
01:40:10,005 --> 01:40:11,320
I'm so excited.
2578
01:40:11,414 --> 01:40:14,081
I'm ready.
Like, I'm ready.
2579
01:40:14,234 --> 01:40:18,177
Well, not physically,
but mentally, I'm ready.
2580
01:40:18,404 --> 01:40:20,829
- Yeah, I feel good.
I feel really good.
2581
01:40:20,849 --> 01:40:23,016
And I'm ready to start
this new adventure together,
2582
01:40:23,167 --> 01:40:25,760
But we'll see when I put
that tux on and--and we--
2583
01:40:25,912 --> 01:40:28,746
We get closer to that time.
2584
01:40:28,765 --> 01:40:32,433
I gotta get all--
gotta look good for,
2585
01:40:32,585 --> 01:40:34,268
You know what I'm saying?
2586
01:40:34,420 --> 01:40:36,771
- Lexi!
2587
01:40:36,923 --> 01:40:40,941
♪ it's your wedding day,
it's your wedding day ♪
2588
01:40:41,094 --> 01:40:44,095
♪ way-hey-hey-hey! ♪
[laughter]
2589
01:40:44,188 --> 01:40:46,855
- I'm gonna be mrs. Last name.
2590
01:40:46,949 --> 01:40:49,709
[laughter]
- you excited?
2591
01:40:49,860 --> 01:40:52,045
- Physically,
I'm a little gassy.
2592
01:40:52,196 --> 01:40:54,438
That's how I be nervous
'cause I be so gassy.
2593
01:40:54,532 --> 01:40:57,533
[laughing]
2594
01:40:57,627 --> 01:40:59,777
Oh, man, I be
so gassy this morning,
2595
01:40:59,796 --> 01:41:01,203
But I done think
I done got it out me.
2596
01:41:01,297 --> 01:41:03,038
I'm clear.
I'm ready to go.
2597
01:41:03,132 --> 01:41:05,874
[all screaming]
2598
01:41:05,968 --> 01:41:08,119
Like, I've jumped off cliffs.
2599
01:41:08,212 --> 01:41:10,454
I went jet skiing
in a hurricane,
2600
01:41:10,473 --> 01:41:13,307
But when I was proposed to
three different times,
2601
01:41:13,401 --> 01:41:15,902
I said no, every time,
'cause I was scared.
2602
01:41:16,129 --> 01:41:17,311
[laughs]
2603
01:41:17,463 --> 01:41:18,462
[cork pops]
- whoo!
2604
01:41:18,556 --> 01:41:20,389
[laughter]
2605
01:41:20,483 --> 01:41:22,650
- Whoo, nobody died.
2606
01:41:22,802 --> 01:41:24,485
I decided to get
married at first sight
2607
01:41:24,579 --> 01:41:26,487
Because I don't have
the opportunity to run.
2608
01:41:26,639 --> 01:41:28,306
You know, I-I have to
commit to this person,
2609
01:41:28,324 --> 01:41:29,990
And I know that
on the other end,
2610
01:41:30,085 --> 01:41:32,067
They're gonna be committed
just to me as the same way.
2611
01:41:32,161 --> 01:41:35,088
So let's do it.
2612
01:41:35,315 --> 01:41:36,480
♪ ♪
2613
01:41:36,574 --> 01:41:39,092
- ♪ I salute you, salute you ♪
2614
01:41:39,243 --> 01:41:41,001
[laughter]
2615
01:41:41,096 --> 01:41:42,653
- All right.
- Ooh.
2616
01:41:42,746 --> 01:41:44,338
- It's real now.
- It's real.
2617
01:41:44,490 --> 01:41:46,340
Like, they getting married,
man.
2618
01:41:46,434 --> 01:41:48,659
- Had it hit you yet?
2619
01:41:48,678 --> 01:41:50,586
- It--it did hit me,
like hit me last night.
2620
01:41:50,605 --> 01:41:51,437
- Last night?
- You know--
2621
01:41:51,664 --> 01:41:53,088
- All right.
2622
01:41:53,182 --> 01:41:54,498
- But, you know,
the closer it gets to,
2623
01:41:54,592 --> 01:41:56,275
The more confident I feel.
2624
01:41:56,502 --> 01:41:58,111
I'ma say that until
I start putting my tux on
2625
01:41:58,338 --> 01:41:59,687
And everything, you know.
- You start freaking out.
2626
01:41:59,839 --> 01:42:01,280
Getting the wobbles
and whatnot.
2627
01:42:01,432 --> 01:42:03,007
- I-I got these tingles
in my hands right now.
2628
01:42:03,025 --> 01:42:05,176
Everything is, like,
locked up right now.
2629
01:42:05,194 --> 01:42:07,954
My knees are
low-key locking up.
2630
01:42:08,181 --> 01:42:10,348
My chest is tight,
but it's just nervousness
2631
01:42:10,441 --> 01:42:12,183
Because I want everything
to be perfect.
2632
01:42:12,201 --> 01:42:16,370
Let's cheers to new beginning,
happiness, great energy,
2633
01:42:16,464 --> 01:42:19,465
And to great success.
2634
01:42:19,692 --> 01:42:21,025
- To you and your wife, man.
- Thank you.
2635
01:42:21,118 --> 01:42:23,118
- To you and your wife.
- Cheers.
2636
01:42:23,212 --> 01:42:25,454
- This almost happened before,
2637
01:42:25,473 --> 01:42:27,047
You know,
with my last engagement,
2638
01:42:27,200 --> 01:42:28,549
And I got my heart broken,
2639
01:42:28,701 --> 01:42:30,810
And I'm afraid
of that happening again,
2640
01:42:31,037 --> 01:42:34,205
But I'm hopeful that
doing it this route,
2641
01:42:34,223 --> 01:42:36,207
I'll be a lot more successful
than doing it my way.
2642
01:42:36,300 --> 01:42:37,817
- What are you afraid of, man?
2643
01:42:38,044 --> 01:42:42,396
- My biggest fear is not
being what she imagines.
2644
01:42:42,490 --> 01:42:44,382
I wanna meet her needs in--
in every way:
2645
01:42:44,475 --> 01:42:47,718
Physical, emotional, mentally,
you know?
2646
01:42:47,737 --> 01:42:49,904
And so really, it's her
just being attracted
2647
01:42:49,998 --> 01:42:51,497
To me, you know?
2648
01:42:51,724 --> 01:42:53,891
And I feel like if she's
attracted to me, you know,
2649
01:42:53,910 --> 01:42:56,394
Everything else will
kind of come into play.
2650
01:42:56,487 --> 01:42:57,912
I just don't want it
to be one-sided.
2651
01:42:58,064 --> 01:42:59,488
♪ ♪
2652
01:42:59,507 --> 01:43:02,066
That's probably
my biggest fear.
2653
01:43:02,159 --> 01:43:03,992
- What type of husband
do y'all think,
2654
01:43:04,012 --> 01:43:05,661
"oh, yeah, this is gonna be
a good match for lex"?
2655
01:43:05,755 --> 01:43:08,255
- I am praying
for somebody fine, okay.
2656
01:43:08,349 --> 01:43:09,573
With personality.
2657
01:43:09,667 --> 01:43:11,851
- I'll take funny any day.
2658
01:43:12,078 --> 01:43:13,001
Maybe even over he--
nah, that's a bit much.
2659
01:43:13,021 --> 01:43:14,520
- Over height?
2660
01:43:14,672 --> 01:43:15,504
- I was about to say
that's a bit much, but no.
2661
01:43:15,523 --> 01:43:17,415
That's a bit much.
2662
01:43:17,508 --> 01:43:20,342
I'm about say it, but I'm like,
"ehh..."
2663
01:43:20,361 --> 01:43:23,345
Physically, I hope
to see someone tall.
2664
01:43:23,439 --> 01:43:26,590
Preferably 6'2",
6'3", 6'4", 6'5".
2665
01:43:26,609 --> 01:43:28,868
That's getting a little greedy,
but I'm--I'm willing
2666
01:43:29,095 --> 01:43:32,446
To get to know him, even if
he like--oh god, my stomach.
2667
01:43:32,598 --> 01:43:35,374
Even if he, like, 5'9".
2668
01:43:35,601 --> 01:43:38,193
Oh, I'm still willing to--
I'll be okay.
2669
01:43:38,287 --> 01:43:40,287
We'll be okay.
It's okay.
2670
01:43:40,440 --> 01:43:43,123
It's okay!
[laughs]
2671
01:43:43,276 --> 01:43:45,943
It's crazy to think that he's
somewhere in this environment,
2672
01:43:45,962 --> 01:43:47,220
You know, having these
same thoughts,
2673
01:43:47,371 --> 01:43:48,203
Like what's she look like?
What's she gonna do?
2674
01:43:48,297 --> 01:43:49,780
- Mm-hmm, true.
2675
01:43:49,873 --> 01:43:50,948
- Like, you gotta
find a connection,
2676
01:43:51,041 --> 01:43:52,466
Like, at just the
smallest level.
2677
01:43:52,560 --> 01:43:54,468
So just for me, it's just like
up at night thinking about,
2678
01:43:54,562 --> 01:43:55,895
Is he thinking about me?
2679
01:43:56,122 --> 01:43:57,455
I'm pretty sure he's
thinking about me right now.
2680
01:43:57,473 --> 01:44:00,140
- You know, like,
I'm hanging on to that.
2681
01:44:00,235 --> 01:44:01,717
- ♪ every moment is
bringing us closer ♪
2682
01:44:01,736 --> 01:44:03,903
♪ to paradise ♪
2683
01:44:04,130 --> 01:44:06,221
♪ feels so nice,
ready if you are ♪
2684
01:44:06,241 --> 01:44:09,057
♪ to join me ♪
2685
01:44:09,077 --> 01:44:11,393
- These are her rings, and I
got them from james allen.
2686
01:44:11,412 --> 01:44:13,246
- Oh.
- Yeah.
2687
01:44:13,473 --> 01:44:14,730
- Oh, it's the band
and the engagement.
2688
01:44:14,824 --> 01:44:15,731
- Yeah, man.
- Oh, wow.
2689
01:44:15,750 --> 01:44:18,158
- Wow.
2690
01:44:18,253 --> 01:44:20,478
- Are you ready for her
to say this is my husband?
2691
01:44:20,571 --> 01:44:21,662
- I've been ready
since five years ago.
2692
01:44:21,756 --> 01:44:24,648
I'm even more ready now.
2693
01:44:24,742 --> 01:44:26,667
- The bachelor party,
your brother
2694
01:44:26,819 --> 01:44:29,153
Voiced some
negative opinions about it.
2695
01:44:29,171 --> 01:44:31,155
Has he--has he
changed how he feels?
2696
01:44:31,173 --> 01:44:32,932
Is--is he supportive now?
2697
01:44:33,083 --> 01:44:35,493
- Realistically,
no, he has not.
2698
01:44:35,511 --> 01:44:37,678
♪ ♪
2699
01:44:37,830 --> 01:44:40,088
He is fully against
this whole process.
2700
01:44:40,108 --> 01:44:42,108
You know, to this day,
even though we chopped it up
2701
01:44:42,335 --> 01:44:45,427
And apologized, you know,
with what happened
2702
01:44:45,446 --> 01:44:46,928
At the bachelor party,
you know,
2703
01:44:47,023 --> 01:44:48,281
He's still uncomfortable
with it.
2704
01:44:48,432 --> 01:44:50,283
But I understand from his
perspective, you know,
2705
01:44:50,510 --> 01:44:52,026
Being an older brother
and almost
2706
01:44:52,120 --> 01:44:54,787
Being a father figure for me,
he don't wanna see me hurt.
2707
01:44:54,938 --> 01:44:56,530
But at the end of the day,
I told him, I said,
2708
01:44:56,682 --> 01:44:58,032
"hey, you know,
I know you feel this way,
2709
01:44:58,126 --> 01:45:00,017
But you gon' have to trust
the process and trust me."
2710
01:45:00,110 --> 01:45:02,853
Because I am ready
to be married.
2711
01:45:02,946 --> 01:45:05,256
And I genuinely hope
this is my person.
2712
01:45:07,193 --> 01:45:09,376
- Oh, I don't
like crying, like.
2713
01:45:09,529 --> 01:45:10,861
- It's okay to cry.
2714
01:45:10,880 --> 01:45:12,305
- I give myself
twice a year to cry,
2715
01:45:12,456 --> 01:45:13,955
And I feel it
and I'm trying to do
2716
01:45:14,050 --> 01:45:14,974
Everything I can to stop it.
2717
01:45:21,223 --> 01:45:25,209
- I'm a bride
and I look like a bride,
2718
01:45:25,302 --> 01:45:29,897
And I immediately
am slightly terrified.
2719
01:45:29,991 --> 01:45:32,325
Whoo.
2720
01:45:32,476 --> 01:45:35,719
Everything is coming
real fast at once,
2721
01:45:35,738 --> 01:45:39,147
And I am trying
to keep myself calm,
2722
01:45:39,167 --> 01:45:40,499
But looking at myself
2723
01:45:40,726 --> 01:45:44,228
Is really just
sending me over right now.
2724
01:45:44,246 --> 01:45:47,565
♪ ♪
2725
01:45:47,583 --> 01:45:49,175
It is crazy 'cause it's like...
2726
01:45:49,402 --> 01:45:51,993
♪ ♪
2727
01:45:52,088 --> 01:45:53,995
I'm doing this.
2728
01:45:54,090 --> 01:45:56,924
It's a lot.
It's a lot.
2729
01:45:57,076 --> 01:46:00,928
♪ ♪
2730
01:46:01,080 --> 01:46:04,857
All: Mommy!
2731
01:46:05,084 --> 01:46:07,360
- Hey, baby.
- You look so pretty, mommy.
2732
01:46:07,511 --> 01:46:09,344
- Thank--
oh, look at that hair.
2733
01:46:09,364 --> 01:46:11,755
- Oh, do you like it?
- That's beautiful.
2734
01:46:11,849 --> 01:46:15,368
- Do I look like a bride?
- Yes, you do.
2735
01:46:15,595 --> 01:46:18,095
- Mommy!
2736
01:46:18,114 --> 01:46:20,039
- Oh, that's beautiful.
2737
01:46:20,266 --> 01:46:24,526
♪ ♪
2738
01:46:24,545 --> 01:46:25,936
Are you ready?
2739
01:46:25,955 --> 01:46:28,939
- I don't know.
I'm scared.
2740
01:46:29,032 --> 01:46:33,794
- [sobbing]
- oh, don't cry, baby.
2741
01:46:33,888 --> 01:46:35,796
- Oh, god.
2742
01:46:35,948 --> 01:46:38,115
- This is just another journey
in your life,
2743
01:46:38,134 --> 01:46:40,709
And you've over-conquered
everything.
2744
01:46:40,728 --> 01:46:43,712
This is just--no, no, no, no.
2745
01:46:43,806 --> 01:46:48,049
No, no, no, no. No. No.
2746
01:46:48,144 --> 01:46:51,629
You're beautiful.
2747
01:46:51,722 --> 01:46:53,981
You're gonna--
you're a beautiful bride,
2748
01:46:54,133 --> 01:46:56,742
And you're just
entering another journey.
2749
01:46:56,969 --> 01:47:00,061
Oh, okay.
2750
01:47:00,081 --> 01:47:02,581
Look, look, you know
I'm always there for you
2751
01:47:02,808 --> 01:47:06,977
No matter what.
No matter what, you're my baby.
2752
01:47:06,996 --> 01:47:08,495
You know what I'm saying?
2753
01:47:08,648 --> 01:47:10,572
You're my baby girl.
2754
01:47:10,591 --> 01:47:13,592
I love you.
And I'm there no matter what.
2755
01:47:13,819 --> 01:47:15,669
♪ ♪
2756
01:47:15,763 --> 01:47:17,004
What are you feeling?
2757
01:47:17,156 --> 01:47:18,848
What are you feeling now?
2758
01:47:23,179 --> 01:47:27,106
♪ ♪
2759
01:47:27,333 --> 01:47:29,900
[sobbing]
2760
01:47:34,449 --> 01:47:41,203
♪ ♪
2761
01:47:46,852 --> 01:47:48,852
- Hey, mama.
- You look so handsome.
2762
01:47:48,946 --> 01:47:50,704
- Mm-hmm.
- What's up, man?
2763
01:47:50,856 --> 01:47:52,113
- You and your suspenders,
you look good.
2764
01:47:52,208 --> 01:47:55,025
Looking like urkel.
2765
01:47:55,044 --> 01:47:57,303
- Whew.
2766
01:47:57,454 --> 01:47:58,620
- Man, you gotta
stop crying, man.
2767
01:47:58,714 --> 01:47:59,972
You making me cry.
2768
01:48:00,199 --> 01:48:03,701
♪ ♪
2769
01:48:03,794 --> 01:48:06,127
My brother is still
not a fan of it,
2770
01:48:06,147 --> 01:48:08,647
But I think as long
as he sees that I'm happy,
2771
01:48:08,874 --> 01:48:10,207
Then eventually
he'll be on board.
2772
01:48:10,300 --> 01:48:12,634
So just him just being here,
2773
01:48:12,653 --> 01:48:14,469
And that's all that
matters to me.
2774
01:48:14,489 --> 01:48:18,048
- I'm out of words right now.
[laughs]
2775
01:48:18,067 --> 01:48:19,717
- I think you did good.
2776
01:48:19,735 --> 01:48:22,495
- I think you did
an awesome job, man.
2777
01:48:22,646 --> 01:48:24,663
Just everything.
2778
01:48:24,890 --> 01:48:27,391
- Thank you.
Gosh, that means a lot.
2779
01:48:27,409 --> 01:48:28,575
- After the bachelor party,
and my brother
2780
01:48:28,728 --> 01:48:30,986
Had a nice conversation,
2781
01:48:31,005 --> 01:48:33,989
And I'm feeling
a heck of a lot better
2782
01:48:34,083 --> 01:48:36,400
Than I did in the beginning.
2783
01:48:36,418 --> 01:48:38,752
My concerns are just being
overprotective and not really
2784
01:48:38,846 --> 01:48:43,907
Wanting to accept
the maturity he has acquired,
2785
01:48:44,001 --> 01:48:48,521
But it's just--
it's overwhelming.
2786
01:48:48,672 --> 01:48:50,914
- I'm ready. I feel better.
- I hope you're ready, man.
2787
01:48:51,008 --> 01:48:53,267
- I'm ready.
- Born ready.
2788
01:48:53,361 --> 01:48:56,344
♪ ♪
2789
01:48:56,364 --> 01:48:57,938
I wanna break
your back right now,
2790
01:48:58,090 --> 01:48:59,923
'cause I wanna hug you so hard.
2791
01:48:59,942 --> 01:49:01,182
- Give me a sign
that you know, enjoy this.
2792
01:49:01,277 --> 01:49:02,776
- I know. I love you, man.
2793
01:49:02,928 --> 01:49:05,371
I know that I want you
just remember that
2794
01:49:05,522 --> 01:49:08,874
You are the greatest man
I know.
2795
01:49:09,101 --> 01:49:13,120
♪ ♪
2796
01:49:13,272 --> 01:49:15,105
- I'm getting married.
2797
01:49:15,124 --> 01:49:16,940
Oh, my gosh.
2798
01:49:16,959 --> 01:49:20,444
♪ ♪
2799
01:49:20,462 --> 01:49:22,462
The nerves are
definitely here now.
2800
01:49:22,615 --> 01:49:24,390
It hits me hard,
and then it goes away.
2801
01:49:24,617 --> 01:49:27,226
You know, I'm realizing
like this is real.
2802
01:49:27,377 --> 01:49:28,710
This is not a joke.
2803
01:49:28,729 --> 01:49:30,788
- From your future husband.
- Mm!
2804
01:49:30,881 --> 01:49:32,639
- Wanna open it up
and check it out?
2805
01:49:32,792 --> 01:49:36,476
- I'm like nervous.
2806
01:49:36,629 --> 01:49:40,072
All: Oh!
2807
01:49:40,223 --> 01:49:42,316
- Okay, bill cosby!
2808
01:49:42,468 --> 01:49:44,151
- This is the engagement ring.
He gon' do the wedding band.
2809
01:49:44,245 --> 01:49:45,911
All: Oh!
2810
01:49:46,138 --> 01:49:48,488
- In the past,
I've had so many chances
2811
01:49:48,641 --> 01:49:51,325
To say yes to a ring,
but I didn't.
2812
01:49:51,477 --> 01:49:55,254
I was never really satisfied,
and I just
2813
01:49:55,481 --> 01:49:57,072
Had to come full circle
and say,
2814
01:49:57,091 --> 01:49:58,832
"maybe you're the problem,
alexis."
2815
01:49:58,984 --> 01:50:01,001
You know, so for me,
this is a big deal.
2816
01:50:01,095 --> 01:50:08,100
♪ ♪
2817
01:50:08,251 --> 01:50:09,509
- Hello, everyone.
2818
01:50:09,662 --> 01:50:11,270
- Hello.
2819
01:50:11,497 --> 01:50:12,855
- Thank you, guys,
for being here.
2820
01:50:14,758 --> 01:50:16,333
She gon' love that though.
2821
01:50:16,352 --> 01:50:20,170
♪ ♪
2822
01:50:20,189 --> 01:50:22,948
- It's a different type
of nerves that just hit.
2823
01:50:23,100 --> 01:50:26,176
I feel it from my toes up
to my ankles, to my knees,
2824
01:50:26,195 --> 01:50:28,345
To my hip,
from my hips to my chest,
2825
01:50:28,364 --> 01:50:31,198
From my chest to my heart,
and my heart to my throat.
2826
01:50:31,350 --> 01:50:33,033
Ooh, I gotta try not to cry.
2827
01:50:33,127 --> 01:50:34,201
Whew, [bleep].
2828
01:50:34,295 --> 01:50:36,611
♪ ♪
2829
01:50:36,705 --> 01:50:37,779
- This is not the end.
2830
01:50:37,873 --> 01:50:39,298
This is only beginning for you.
2831
01:50:39,449 --> 01:50:41,116
- This is happening.
2832
01:50:41,210 --> 01:50:43,210
- I know.
It's a lot.
2833
01:50:43,304 --> 01:50:44,303
- And I'm just trying to
process everything right now.
2834
01:50:44,454 --> 01:50:46,213
- It's a lot to take in.
2835
01:50:46,365 --> 01:50:47,865
- I talk myself out a lot
of things that I should do
2836
01:50:47,958 --> 01:50:49,716
Out of fear,
out of nervousness,
2837
01:50:49,869 --> 01:50:52,144
Out of fear that I'm settling.
2838
01:50:52,371 --> 01:50:54,480
I said no to people
that I actually knew
2839
01:50:54,631 --> 01:50:56,464
For significant
amounts of time.
2840
01:50:56,484 --> 01:50:58,058
And then to say yes
to somebody,
2841
01:50:58,210 --> 01:50:59,634
I have no idea who they are,
2842
01:50:59,654 --> 01:51:01,561
It's just like,
"what am I doing?"
2843
01:51:01,714 --> 01:51:02,655
Why y'all let me do this?
2844
01:51:04,884 --> 01:51:07,885
♪ ♪
2845
01:51:07,903 --> 01:51:10,145
- If I could design
my perfect wife,
2846
01:51:10,164 --> 01:51:12,665
She would be
caramel complexion,
2847
01:51:12,816 --> 01:51:15,559
Beautiful natural hair,
sparkling brown eyes
2848
01:51:15,577 --> 01:51:17,002
You can go swimming in,
2849
01:51:17,154 --> 01:51:19,246
And then she has
this soft voice.
2850
01:51:19,398 --> 01:51:21,507
Just--it just makes me
have goosebumps.
2851
01:51:21,734 --> 01:51:24,677
♪ ♪
2852
01:51:24,828 --> 01:51:26,845
I can't stop rubbing these
hands, god, let me tell you.
2853
01:51:27,072 --> 01:51:29,998
♪ ♪
2854
01:51:30,092 --> 01:51:32,910
But I'm nervous because
I did get my heart broken
2855
01:51:33,003 --> 01:51:34,928
In my previous engagement.
2856
01:51:35,080 --> 01:51:38,098
And I do fear not
being fully loved
2857
01:51:38,250 --> 01:51:41,435
And not being accepted
for who I am.
2858
01:51:41,529 --> 01:51:43,754
So if I get my heart broken
for the second time,
2859
01:51:43,772 --> 01:51:46,440
It'll definitely hurt
because I'm putting
2860
01:51:46,592 --> 01:51:48,534
Everything on the line.
2861
01:51:48,761 --> 01:51:55,040
♪ ♪
2862
01:51:58,713 --> 01:51:59,044
♪ ♪
2863
01:52:04,385 --> 01:52:11,223
♪ ♪
2864
01:52:13,452 --> 01:52:16,044
♪ ♪
2865
01:52:16,138 --> 01:52:19,473
- ♪ yeah, I ♪
2866
01:52:19,567 --> 01:52:23,293
♪ ♪
2867
01:52:23,386 --> 01:52:26,313
♪ I know you can feel it ♪
2868
01:52:26,407 --> 01:52:29,633
♪ we go first ♪
2869
01:52:29,726 --> 01:52:32,636
♪ no need to say a word ♪
2870
01:52:32,729 --> 01:52:35,973
♪ I can see it in your eyes ♪
2871
01:52:35,991 --> 01:52:39,067
♪ you give me life ♪
2872
01:52:39,086 --> 01:52:40,919
♪ exhale ♪
2873
01:52:41,146 --> 01:52:42,496
♪ ♪
2874
01:52:42,648 --> 01:52:45,315
- Hi.
- Hi, there.
2875
01:52:45,334 --> 01:52:47,259
- [giggles]
2876
01:52:47,410 --> 01:52:50,153
- Go ahead.
2877
01:52:50,172 --> 01:52:52,598
- Nice to meet you, I'm alexis.
- I'm justin.
2878
01:52:52,825 --> 01:52:54,582
- Nice to meet you.
- Gosh, you are stunning.
2879
01:52:54,602 --> 01:52:56,994
- Thank you.
- God did good.
2880
01:52:57,087 --> 01:52:59,012
- [laughing]
- ooh, you did good.
2881
01:52:59,106 --> 01:53:00,998
[laughter]
2882
01:53:01,091 --> 01:53:02,107
How you feeling right now?
2883
01:53:04,853 --> 01:53:06,945
We got this, we got this.
2884
01:53:10,951 --> 01:53:12,175
- You're tall.
2885
01:53:12,194 --> 01:53:14,102
[laughter]
2886
01:53:14,196 --> 01:53:15,621
- It's the shoes.
It's not me.
2887
01:53:15,848 --> 01:53:16,680
- Oh, okay.
You got platforms on?
2888
01:53:16,773 --> 01:53:18,698
- Probably the shoes, yeah.
2889
01:53:18,851 --> 01:53:20,851
- I got me lipstick
on my teeth?
2890
01:53:20,869 --> 01:53:21,701
- No, you don't.
- Okay.
2891
01:53:21,854 --> 01:53:23,186
- Not at all, at all.
2892
01:53:23,205 --> 01:53:24,963
- Okay.
2893
01:53:25,190 --> 01:53:30,135
- Alexis meet for the
very first time, justin.
2894
01:53:30,287 --> 01:53:31,878
- Hello, justin.
2895
01:53:32,031 --> 01:53:33,788
- Nice to meet you.
2896
01:53:33,808 --> 01:53:36,199
- Justin's family
would like you to know
2897
01:53:36,293 --> 01:53:40,145
That justin is a
fun, charismatic,
2898
01:53:40,297 --> 01:53:42,815
And cool character.
2899
01:53:43,042 --> 01:53:45,208
He can be a bit annoying
at times...
2900
01:53:45,227 --> 01:53:47,653
♪ ♪
2901
01:53:47,804 --> 01:53:51,048
But he's a sweetheart.
- Okay.
2902
01:53:51,066 --> 01:53:52,899
- You'll never question
how he's feeling
2903
01:53:53,052 --> 01:53:57,830
Because justin--or tree,
2904
01:53:57,981 --> 01:53:59,906
As we like to call him--
2905
01:54:00,000 --> 01:54:02,059
Is a great communicator.
2906
01:54:02,077 --> 01:54:03,318
- You can call me branch.
2907
01:54:03,412 --> 01:54:05,228
- I can dig it, see.
2908
01:54:05,322 --> 01:54:07,414
- Who speaks his mind
and is very
2909
01:54:07,566 --> 01:54:09,232
Straightforward and direct.
2910
01:54:09,326 --> 01:54:11,751
We hope you don't mind
sharing him
2911
01:54:11,904 --> 01:54:13,661
With another lady in his life.
2912
01:54:13,681 --> 01:54:15,430
- You a mama's boy?
- No.
2913
01:54:18,093 --> 01:54:19,576
- His dog.
2914
01:54:19,595 --> 01:54:22,929
- [laughing]
2915
01:54:23,082 --> 01:54:25,248
Oh, yes!
- You a dog person?
2916
01:54:25,267 --> 01:54:27,342
- Yeah, I have a--
I have a fur baby too.
2917
01:54:27,436 --> 01:54:29,528
- You do?
- Yeah.
2918
01:54:29,679 --> 01:54:33,181
[laughter]
2919
01:54:33,200 --> 01:54:37,427
- Justin can be
a little sensitive,
2920
01:54:37,520 --> 01:54:39,520
But don't let that fool you.
2921
01:54:39,540 --> 01:54:42,449
He's one of the most confident,
resilient,
2922
01:54:42,601 --> 01:54:46,044
And resourceful men
you'll come to know.
2923
01:54:46,196 --> 01:54:48,788
Take care of our guy
and he'll take care of you.
2924
01:54:48,883 --> 01:54:50,549
♪ ♪
2925
01:54:50,700 --> 01:54:51,958
- I got you.
2926
01:54:52,052 --> 01:54:53,368
- I got you too.
2927
01:54:53,387 --> 01:54:54,720
- Aw.
2928
01:54:54,947 --> 01:54:56,871
♪ ♪
2929
01:54:56,891 --> 01:55:01,059
- Justin,
alexis' family and friends
2930
01:55:01,286 --> 01:55:03,378
Would like you
to know that alexis
2931
01:55:03,472 --> 01:55:06,214
Is an absolute powerhouse.
2932
01:55:06,308 --> 01:55:08,308
- Oh, I love that.
2933
01:55:08,402 --> 01:55:13,813
- She's intelligent,
breathtakingly beautiful,
2934
01:55:13,966 --> 01:55:17,467
And filled with faith.
2935
01:55:17,486 --> 01:55:19,894
There's never
a dull moment with her.
2936
01:55:19,988 --> 01:55:22,581
Appearance matters to her,
2937
01:55:22,732 --> 01:55:25,492
So be prepared
to match her fly.
2938
01:55:25,644 --> 01:55:29,663
She loves all things fashion,
2939
01:55:29,757 --> 01:55:33,150
And she loves opportunities
to display her creativity,
2940
01:55:33,243 --> 01:55:35,335
Like making vagina molds
out of clay.
2941
01:55:35,429 --> 01:55:38,155
- Oh, my goodness.
2942
01:55:38,173 --> 01:55:42,008
[laughter]
2943
01:55:42,161 --> 01:55:43,343
- She's a confident woman.
- Oh, I like it.
2944
01:55:43,437 --> 01:55:44,995
Oh, I love it.
2945
01:55:45,013 --> 01:55:48,498
- Be prepared for the
adventure of your life.
2946
01:55:48,591 --> 01:55:50,016
- Oh, my god,
this is gonna be great.
2947
01:55:50,110 --> 01:55:52,778
[laughter]
2948
01:55:52,929 --> 01:55:55,188
I had to do it.
I got a good one.
2949
01:55:55,340 --> 01:55:59,676
[laughter and applause]
2950
01:55:59,695 --> 01:56:01,936
- Alexis and justin,
you have written your vows.
2951
01:56:02,030 --> 01:56:04,939
- Yes.
- Mm-hmm.
2952
01:56:04,959 --> 01:56:06,607
- There is not many
places to put 'em.
2953
01:56:06,627 --> 01:56:08,961
I'm so sorry.
2954
01:56:11,632 --> 01:56:13,540
I know we are strangers.
2955
01:56:13,692 --> 01:56:16,543
However, I'd like to start off
with a series of apologies.
2956
01:56:16,695 --> 01:56:18,303
I apologize for all the times
2957
01:56:18,530 --> 01:56:20,455
I wasn't there
to wipe your tears,
2958
01:56:20,474 --> 01:56:22,549
For not being there
after a long day of work
2959
01:56:22,701 --> 01:56:25,218
When you just needed a hug
and a hot meal.
2960
01:56:25,312 --> 01:56:27,479
And most importantly,
forgive me for all the times
2961
01:56:27,630 --> 01:56:29,706
You have wondered if I
would ever make it to you,
2962
01:56:29,725 --> 01:56:31,984
Or if I even ever existed.
2963
01:56:32,135 --> 01:56:35,395
I may have not been there then,
but I am here now.
2964
01:56:35,489 --> 01:56:37,897
And if you'll let me,
I vow to take care of you
2965
01:56:38,050 --> 01:56:40,993
And to give you
everything that you need.
2966
01:56:41,220 --> 01:56:43,161
I can't promise
I'll never hurt you
2967
01:56:43,388 --> 01:56:44,237
Because even
the best of intentions
2968
01:56:44,331 --> 01:56:46,556
Sometimes fall short,
2969
01:56:46,649 --> 01:56:49,242
But I can promise
to be patient with you
2970
01:56:49,336 --> 01:56:51,503
And to make our lives
exciting, adventurous,
2971
01:56:51,654 --> 01:56:53,246
And full of passion.
2972
01:56:53,340 --> 01:56:57,175
And finally, I promise
to be wid it if you wid it.
2973
01:56:57,327 --> 01:56:59,085
- I'm wid it.
2974
01:56:59,238 --> 01:57:01,421
[laughter and applause]
2975
01:57:01,515 --> 01:57:02,681
- Justin.
2976
01:57:06,428 --> 01:57:09,763
- I vow to respect,
admire, and appreciate you
2977
01:57:09,915 --> 01:57:14,267
For who you are, as well as
the person you wish to become.
2978
01:57:14,361 --> 01:57:16,920
I vow to support you
and protect your freedom.
2979
01:57:16,938 --> 01:57:19,698
Because although
our lives are intertwined,
2980
01:57:19,925 --> 01:57:20,681
Your choices
are still yours alone.
2981
01:57:20,701 --> 01:57:22,683
- Ah.
2982
01:57:22,703 --> 01:57:25,353
- I vow to always strive
to meet your needs,
2983
01:57:25,372 --> 01:57:27,539
Not out of obligation,
but because
2984
01:57:27,690 --> 01:57:31,209
It delights me
to see you happy.
2985
01:57:31,361 --> 01:57:33,620
I vow to keep our lives
exciting, adventurous,
2986
01:57:33,772 --> 01:57:34,880
And full of passion.
2987
01:57:35,107 --> 01:57:37,215
- [laughing]
2988
01:57:40,612 --> 01:57:42,721
- Great minds think alike.
- I know.
2989
01:57:42,948 --> 01:57:48,560
- And google alike.
- Yes, yes, girl.
2990
01:57:48,711 --> 01:57:51,379
I vow to treat you
with compassion over fairness
2991
01:57:51,398 --> 01:57:53,790
Because we are a team,
now and for always,
2992
01:57:53,883 --> 01:57:57,143
And lastly, I vow
to show you every day
2993
01:57:57,296 --> 01:57:58,812
That I know exactly how lucky
I am to have you in my life.
2994
01:57:58,906 --> 01:58:00,463
- Aww.
2995
01:58:00,482 --> 01:58:03,316
[applause]
2996
01:58:03,410 --> 01:58:06,411
- Oh, thank you.
2997
01:58:06,638 --> 01:58:09,489
- Alexis, will you
take justin to be
2998
01:58:09,583 --> 01:58:11,991
Your lawfully wedded husband,
to live together
2999
01:58:12,144 --> 01:58:14,402
In the holy estate
of matrimony,
3000
01:58:14,496 --> 01:58:18,498
Keeping only onto him so as
long as you both shall live?
3001
01:58:18,592 --> 01:58:20,834
- I do.
3002
01:58:20,986 --> 01:58:24,930
- Justin, will you take alexis
to be your lawful wedded wife
3003
01:58:25,081 --> 01:58:27,415
To live together in the
holy estate of matrimony,
3004
01:58:27,434 --> 01:58:29,326
So as long as you both
shall live?
3005
01:58:29,344 --> 01:58:30,677
- I do.
3006
01:58:30,771 --> 01:58:32,679
♪ ♪
3007
01:58:32,831 --> 01:58:34,523
- Take justin's hand
and repeat after me.
3008
01:58:37,002 --> 01:58:39,836
With this ring.
- With this ring.
3009
01:58:39,929 --> 01:58:44,007
- I wed you, justin, for today.
- I wed you, justin, for today.
3010
01:58:44,025 --> 01:58:47,861
- For tomorrow, and for
all of the years to come.
3011
01:58:48,013 --> 01:58:49,454
- Please wear it
as a sign of my commitment.
3012
01:58:49,681 --> 01:58:51,348
And a notice
to this whole world...
3013
01:58:51,366 --> 01:58:54,292
- That I am your husband.
- That I am your wife.
3014
01:58:54,444 --> 01:58:55,943
- With pride, girl.
3015
01:58:55,963 --> 01:58:58,021
- All right, here we go.
- There we go.
3016
01:58:58,039 --> 01:58:59,965
♪ ♪
3017
01:59:00,116 --> 01:59:03,209
- The bride has decided
to perform the ceremony
3018
01:59:03,362 --> 01:59:05,378
Of the cord of three strands.
3019
01:59:05,530 --> 01:59:07,806
- Thank you, sissy.
- That's my sister.
3020
01:59:07,957 --> 01:59:10,550
- Hey, sis.
- [laughs]
3021
01:59:10,702 --> 01:59:12,886
- This cord has three strands.
3022
01:59:13,038 --> 01:59:15,538
One represents the bride,
3023
01:59:15,557 --> 01:59:18,041
One represents the groom,
3024
01:59:18,134 --> 01:59:21,153
And a third represents love,
3025
01:59:21,304 --> 01:59:24,214
The tie that binds
two together.
3026
01:59:24,232 --> 01:59:27,325
I now ask justin for you
to please hold the ring
3027
01:59:27,552 --> 01:59:28,885
And alexis will
braid them together.
3028
01:59:28,904 --> 01:59:31,738
♪ ♪
3029
01:59:31,890 --> 01:59:33,573
- You're pretty good at this.
- I'ma put this on my resume.
3030
01:59:33,667 --> 01:59:35,241
- I mean, you did,
you like went right in.
3031
01:59:35,394 --> 01:59:37,485
- Oh, look what's up.
3032
01:59:37,504 --> 01:59:38,728
- I was just like
that's part of it.
3033
01:59:38,747 --> 01:59:40,005
I see you.
3034
01:59:40,232 --> 01:59:41,064
- I didn't even
lay the edges yet.
3035
01:59:41,082 --> 01:59:42,899
[laughter]
3036
01:59:42,992 --> 01:59:43,824
- You a good girl.
Look at it.
3037
01:59:43,844 --> 01:59:46,069
- We doing this.
3038
01:59:46,087 --> 01:59:50,073
- Mm, yes.
3039
01:59:50,166 --> 01:59:52,592
- And now by the
authority vested in me,
3040
01:59:52,744 --> 01:59:53,760
I pronounce you are married.
3041
01:59:53,854 --> 01:59:55,412
♪ ♪
3042
01:59:55,505 --> 01:59:57,004
- That's it?
- That's it.
3043
01:59:57,024 --> 01:59:58,356
- You did it.
3044
01:59:58,508 --> 02:00:00,525
[cheers and applause]
3045
02:00:00,752 --> 02:00:03,028
- Wait, do we kiss?
Do we kiss?
3046
02:00:03,179 --> 02:00:04,845
- Oh, okay. Too soon.
3047
02:00:04,865 --> 02:00:06,105
- I was just--I was
just gonna get a hug.
3048
02:00:06,258 --> 02:00:09,517
It wasn't a kiss, y'all.
3049
02:00:09,536 --> 02:00:11,110
- You may now call yourself
those cherished names--
3050
02:00:11,205 --> 02:00:12,704
Husband and wife.
3051
02:00:12,931 --> 02:00:18,710
- Justin, you may now
kiss alexis.
3052
02:00:18,861 --> 02:00:21,046
- May I kiss you?
- Yes.
3053
02:00:21,197 --> 02:00:24,441
[cheers and applause]
3054
02:00:24,459 --> 02:00:28,294
- ♪ don't you know
you give me that feeling ♪
3055
02:00:28,447 --> 02:00:32,949
- Oh.
- I--not the peck.
3056
02:00:32,968 --> 02:00:35,134
- Ladies and gentlemen,
it is my pleasure
3057
02:00:35,287 --> 02:00:36,711
To introduce for the first time
3058
02:00:36,730 --> 02:00:39,956
As husband and wife,
alexis and justin.
3059
02:00:40,049 --> 02:00:44,811
All: One, two, three, jump!
3060
02:00:44,963 --> 02:00:48,815
Whoo!
3061
02:00:48,967 --> 02:00:52,911
- ♪ yeah, don't you know
you give me that feeling ♪
3062
02:00:53,062 --> 02:00:55,413
♪ I can't describe it, baby ♪
3063
02:00:55,565 --> 02:00:57,916
♪ that feeling ♪
3064
02:00:58,143 --> 02:01:00,493
♪ don't you know
you give me that ♪
3065
02:01:00,645 --> 02:01:03,480
♪ feeling, feeling ♪
3066
02:01:03,498 --> 02:01:05,815
♪ give me that feeling,
give that feeling ♪
3067
02:01:05,834 --> 02:01:07,834
♪ give me that feeling,
give that feeling ♪
3068
02:01:07,928 --> 02:01:10,153
♪ give me that feeling,
give that feeling ♪
3069
02:01:10,171 --> 02:01:13,339
♪ give me that feeling,
give that feeling ♪
3070
02:01:13,433 --> 02:01:15,249
- So justin hall.
3071
02:01:15,269 --> 02:01:17,176
- Justin hall. That's--
- alexis hall.
3072
02:01:17,271 --> 02:01:19,012
- Mm-hmm.
3073
02:01:19,164 --> 02:01:20,513
- How tall are you?
- 6'8".
3074
02:01:20,607 --> 02:01:22,274
- Oh!
3075
02:01:22,425 --> 02:01:23,775
He's so tall.
3076
02:01:24,002 --> 02:01:26,686
Like, it's like--
6'8" is a bit much.
3077
02:01:26,838 --> 02:01:30,282
Like, I asked for tall,
but I'm like 6'8"?
3078
02:01:30,433 --> 02:01:32,008
You know like
that's a bit much.
3079
02:01:32,027 --> 02:01:33,359
That's uncomfortably tall.
3080
02:01:33,512 --> 02:01:35,345
How old are you?
- 33.
3081
02:01:35,438 --> 02:01:36,437
- Okay.
- How old are you?
3082
02:01:36,456 --> 02:01:38,105
- 29.
- Oh, snap, I like that.
3083
02:01:38,125 --> 02:01:39,682
- Little young thing.
- Right.
3084
02:01:39,776 --> 02:01:41,534
- My sugar daddy, what's up.
3085
02:01:41,686 --> 02:01:43,019
- You know, black ain't
cracking, girl.
3086
02:01:43,112 --> 02:01:44,687
Look at that. Girl, gimme some.
- Right.
3087
02:01:44,706 --> 02:01:46,706
- I mean, if you can think
about your perfect wife,
3088
02:01:46,858 --> 02:01:49,467
What would she look like? Her.
3089
02:01:49,619 --> 02:01:54,955
Beautiful hair, dark skin,
beautiful full lips.
3090
02:01:54,975 --> 02:01:57,700
I mean, personality
out this world.
3091
02:01:57,719 --> 02:02:00,795
- You got a--you got
really long eyelashes, but.
3092
02:02:00,889 --> 02:02:02,797
Sorry about that.
3093
02:02:02,816 --> 02:02:04,724
- Where are you from?
- New jersey. Where you from?
3094
02:02:04,876 --> 02:02:06,985
- Alabama.
- Ooh, what part?
3095
02:02:07,212 --> 02:02:09,212
- Mobile.
- Ooh, look at you, country!
3096
02:02:09,230 --> 02:02:11,397
- [in southern accent]
mobile, alabama.
3097
02:02:11,491 --> 02:02:12,973
- So you country?
3098
02:02:12,993 --> 02:02:14,492
- I am a little country.
It comes out.
3099
02:02:14,644 --> 02:02:15,735
It comes out a little bit.
3100
02:02:15,887 --> 02:02:17,220
- Why are you 6'8", though?
3101
02:02:17,313 --> 02:02:18,388
Like, that seems--
- it's the shoe.
3102
02:02:18,481 --> 02:02:19,647
It's the shoes.
They runs in the family.
3103
02:02:19,741 --> 02:02:21,074
- That's not the shoes.
3104
02:02:21,226 --> 02:02:22,408
- My dad in the wheelchair,
he's 6'11".
3105
02:02:22,561 --> 02:02:23,910
- Are you serious?
- Mm-hmm.
3106
02:02:24,062 --> 02:02:25,562
My grandmother was 6'1".
3107
02:02:25,580 --> 02:02:26,746
- You know what
that sounds like to me?
3108
02:02:26,898 --> 02:02:28,173
- What?
- Do you want athletes?
3109
02:02:28,400 --> 02:02:29,916
- Yes, yes.
3110
02:02:30,068 --> 02:02:31,234
- Do you want children?
3111
02:02:31,327 --> 02:02:32,159
- I do want children.
- Me too.
3112
02:02:32,253 --> 02:02:33,845
- How many?
- Maybe two.
3113
02:02:33,996 --> 02:02:35,162
- I don't like high fives
though and you keep doing it.
3114
02:02:35,256 --> 02:02:36,255
I'm sorry.
- I do it.
3115
02:02:36,408 --> 02:02:37,590
- Yeah, it's kinda corny to me.
3116
02:02:37,742 --> 02:02:38,591
- That's all right.
I can work on that.
3117
02:02:38,685 --> 02:02:40,018
- Yeah.
3118
02:02:40,245 --> 02:02:42,912
Physically, I mean,
he's not awful,
3119
02:02:43,005 --> 02:02:45,339
But he's not my type
by looking at him,
3120
02:02:45,433 --> 02:02:47,359
But as far as his just banter
3121
02:02:47,586 --> 02:02:49,361
And he makes
you feel comfortable.
3122
02:02:49,512 --> 02:02:51,196
What landed you here?
3123
02:02:53,700 --> 02:02:55,942
- So I was engaged once before.
3124
02:02:56,036 --> 02:02:59,278
♪ ♪
3125
02:02:59,373 --> 02:03:01,021
- Let's hear about this.
3126
02:03:01,116 --> 02:03:02,265
- Let's hear it.
- Do tell.
3127
02:03:02,358 --> 02:03:03,875
- I will.
- How long ago was this?
3128
02:03:04,026 --> 02:03:05,284
- Five years. Five years.
- Okay.
3129
02:03:05,379 --> 02:03:07,604
♪ ♪
3130
02:03:07,622 --> 02:03:10,957
- We split a month
before our wedding.
3131
02:03:11,051 --> 02:03:14,201
The person I am today,
she wanted that version,
3132
02:03:14,221 --> 02:03:16,129
And in order to become
this version,
3133
02:03:16,281 --> 02:03:18,390
It took trial and tribulations
and growth.
3134
02:03:18,617 --> 02:03:20,558
I found my own closure.
I moved on.
3135
02:03:20,710 --> 02:03:22,060
I worked on me, you know,
like, I got to a point
3136
02:03:22,211 --> 02:03:23,953
Where I was like,
you know what?
3137
02:03:23,972 --> 02:03:25,546
I'm just working on tree
and try to be the best version
3138
02:03:25,640 --> 02:03:27,214
I can for the next person.
3139
02:03:27,308 --> 02:03:30,718
- It does not turn me off.
3140
02:03:30,737 --> 02:03:32,386
It does not make me
feel any type of way.
3141
02:03:32,406 --> 02:03:33,905
Because--
- that's refreshing.
3142
02:03:34,056 --> 02:03:36,390
- Yeah, 'cause it's shows me
that you're willing
3143
02:03:36,410 --> 02:03:38,410
To commit to somebody.
- Okay, good.
3144
02:03:38,561 --> 02:03:40,227
I appreciate that.
3145
02:03:40,321 --> 02:03:42,321
- ♪ y'all say so much ♪
3146
02:03:42,474 --> 02:03:44,323
♪ they tell me I ♪
3147
02:03:44,476 --> 02:03:46,167
- I was proposed to
three times before.
3148
02:03:48,313 --> 02:03:49,646
I said no, every single time.
3149
02:03:49,739 --> 02:03:52,907
- Damn, I got lucky.
I love that. Mm.
3150
02:03:52,926 --> 02:03:54,426
- I had this
unrealistic expectation
3151
02:03:54,653 --> 02:03:56,076
Of what it took to be
in a marriage,
3152
02:03:56,096 --> 02:03:57,912
What it took to be
in a relationship.
3153
02:03:58,006 --> 02:03:59,431
I'm not saying no anymore.
3154
02:03:59,658 --> 02:04:01,415
Like, I'm not running
from anything anymore.
3155
02:04:01,435 --> 02:04:03,250
Like, I'm here, I'm in it.
I'm all in.
3156
02:04:03,270 --> 02:04:05,328
- Right,
saying I trust the process.
3157
02:04:05,346 --> 02:04:06,663
- Me too.
3158
02:04:06,681 --> 02:04:07,830
When you were talking up
there, I'm like,
3159
02:04:07,849 --> 02:04:09,015
Oh, I see exactly
why they matched us.
3160
02:04:09,167 --> 02:04:10,833
Like, I see exactly why.
3161
02:04:10,927 --> 02:04:12,335
- We almost had the same vow.
3162
02:04:12,428 --> 02:04:14,612
- I know.
- We almost had the same vow.
3163
02:04:14,764 --> 02:04:16,506
- Did you catch my drake lyric?
Both: Love drake.
3164
02:04:16,524 --> 02:04:18,191
[both laughing]
3165
02:04:18,285 --> 02:04:19,951
- ♪ let me know ♪
3166
02:04:20,178 --> 02:04:22,937
- Gosh, how did I
get this lucky?
3167
02:04:22,956 --> 02:04:24,271
Everything about her
is perfect.
3168
02:04:24,291 --> 02:04:27,274
This is perfect,
this is perfect.
3169
02:04:27,294 --> 02:04:29,535
- ♪ oh, no ♪
3170
02:04:29,688 --> 02:04:32,021
♪ do you love me, love me ♪
3171
02:04:32,040 --> 02:04:34,040
- We're only 15 minutes
in this marriage
3172
02:04:34,134 --> 02:04:36,617
And we have so much more
to learn about each other.
3173
02:04:36,636 --> 02:04:39,045
Good and bad,
but I'm committed,
3174
02:04:39,197 --> 02:04:41,288
'cause I hope it's forever.
3175
02:04:41,308 --> 02:04:45,459
I'm stuck and I wanna be stuck.
3176
02:04:45,553 --> 02:04:48,796
- ♪ don't you love me now ♪
3177
02:04:48,815 --> 02:04:50,798
- This is a lifetime for us.
3178
02:04:50,892 --> 02:04:52,484
[dramatic music]
3179
02:04:52,711 --> 02:04:55,302
- Next time on
"married at first sight."
3180
02:04:55,396 --> 02:04:57,714
- Three.
- Oh, my god.
3181
02:04:57,732 --> 02:05:01,050
♪ ♪
3182
02:05:01,069 --> 02:05:02,885
- All of a sudden,
like super [bleep] nervous.
3183
02:05:02,904 --> 02:05:04,496
- [bleep], what the [bleep]
am I doing?
3184
02:05:04,647 --> 02:05:05,830
- Oh, gosh.
3185
02:05:06,057 --> 02:05:07,982
♪ ♪
3186
02:05:08,076 --> 02:05:10,243
I'm taking a huge risk by
marrying someone I haven't met
3187
02:05:10,337 --> 02:05:12,395
And I'm putting everything
on the line.
3188
02:05:12,413 --> 02:05:16,582
- I hope that you would
walk me down the aisle.
3189
02:05:16,676 --> 02:05:18,492
I'm a daddy's girl.
3190
02:05:18,512 --> 02:05:22,514
So if he doesn't approve
of this, I'll be devastated.
3191
02:05:22,665 --> 02:05:24,073
- I think you're insane.
3192
02:05:24,092 --> 02:05:25,499
♪ ♪
3193
02:05:25,593 --> 02:05:26,909
- Can we please all stand?
3194
02:05:26,928 --> 02:05:29,595
♪ ♪
3195
02:05:29,689 --> 02:05:31,247
- You got this, mitch.
3196
02:05:31,266 --> 02:05:32,415
♪ ♪
3197
02:05:32,433 --> 02:05:34,192
- [groans]
3198
02:05:34,419 --> 02:05:36,694
I could be meeting
the man of my dreams
3199
02:05:36,921 --> 02:05:39,346
Or I could be meeting
the most toxic person.
3200
02:05:39,440 --> 02:05:40,606
It's terrifying.
3201
02:05:40,700 --> 02:05:43,868
♪ ♪
3202
02:05:44,020 --> 02:05:45,444
- Oh, gosh.
3203
02:05:45,539 --> 02:05:51,292
♪ ♪