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- There we go!
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- Don't shake my hand.
Give me a hug.
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- Ten singles
searching for true love
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Took a blind leap of faith
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And married
complete strangers.
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[all cheering]
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[dramatic music]
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Last time...
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- Puerto vallarta, mexico.
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- I knew it!
- Let's go!
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- For most of our couples,
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It was
their first official day
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As husband and wife.
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- ♪ I'm ready, ready ♪
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- To our honeymoon.
- Honeymoon.
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- ♪ this is my moment ♪
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- Stacia and nate.
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- Let's get in.
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- Big enough for two people.
- Yeah.
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This is the perfect environment
for us to both loosen up.
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I'm definitely hopeful
to consummate the marriage.
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- ♪ oh,
you make a lucky scene ♪
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- Lindy and miguel.
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- There's been physicality.
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This exists.
- What does that mean?
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- It basically means
me making a move
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And her turning me down.
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- [laughs]
all: Oh.
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- Alexis and justin.
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- The more I get to know her,
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The stronger
that connection is,
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The better sex is
for me and us.
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You know what I'm saying?
- Yeah, same.
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- Yeah.
- Well, I woke up.
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Excuse my language,
but let me say,
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My [bleep] was
so [bleep] damn hard.
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[laughter]
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- Morgan and binh.
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- I promise to honor, cherish,
and love you
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Through all
of life's adventures.
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No matter where we go,
we go together.
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This I vow to you.
- Thank you.
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- You may now call yourself
and each other
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Husband and wife.
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[cheers and applause]
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♪ ♪
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- Krysten and mitch.
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- I just want to make sure
every single day,
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Even if it's just a small
iota of a progression,
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That it's there.
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- I think I'm maybe being
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A little more guarded
than I'd hoped,
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But it doesn't hurt that I like
you, you know what I mean?
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Just--that doesn't hurt.
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Like, we're off--
it's a good start.
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- Good.
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- ♪ I like you
right by my side ♪
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- And tonight, our couples
continue to grow closer.
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- ♪ we go together ♪
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♪ wherever you go, I go ♪
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- She wants to [bleep].
[laughing]
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- I know I want to spend
the rest of my life with you.
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- How do you know?
- 'cause I love you.
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♪ ♪
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- You want me to say
I love you?
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Because it's too much.
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[music slows to a stop]
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- I do feel like
it's beneficial
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To have a post-nup.
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- Dang, you don't have faith
in your boy?
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- If we do get to decision day
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And I don't have sex from you
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Or an "I love you" from you,
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I will ask for a divorce.
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♪ ♪
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- ♪ it's all or nothing ♪
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- This is
"married at first sight."
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- ♪ there's no other way ♪
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♪ ♪
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♪ it's all or nothing ♪
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- ♪ it's the way
that the waves ♪
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♪ of your love crash over me ♪
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♪ I can breathe,
I can lay back ♪
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♪ with the stars
all around us ♪
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♪ every moment is bringing us
closer to paradise ♪
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- Wake up, hubby.
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It's our first day in paradise.
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- Morning.
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♪ ♪
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- [groans]
what?
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- Rise and shine.
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Wakey, wakey.
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- Yes. Is there bacon?
- I'm hungry.
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- Four of our newlywed couples
are waking up
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In beautiful puerto vallarta,
mexico,
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For their first official day
of their honeymoon.
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This time away
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Without the distractions
of everyday life
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Is crucial for them
to continue to grow and learn
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About their stranger spouse.
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Because in less
than eight weeks,
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They'll have to decide
if they want to stay married
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Or get a divorce.
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- Look at that beautiful
setting we got.
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We're about to eat
like kings and queens
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Because we are.
- We are.
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I'm getting in now.
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♪ ♪
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- Whoa.
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♪ ♪
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- Last night,
the shower definitely gave me
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A preview of what
my husband's capable of.
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I feel like he has experience,
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Which I'm very intrigued
to see.
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I definitely wanted
to have sex with him,
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But I'm just trying to build
the sexual tension
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For when the time does come.
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I don't want to have
meaningless sex.
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I don't want to go
off of a feeling of--
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From my body.
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I want to go off of a feeling
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From my heart and my soul.
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First morning,
breakfast in a hot tub.
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We starting early, huh?
- Just a little baby one.
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- We starting real early.
- We're doing baby shots.
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- Tequila!
- Tequila!
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- ♪ I'm so tempted
to tell you ♪
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♪ that you might be the one,
girl ♪
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- How'd you sleep?
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- I slept good, actually.
Yeah. How about you?
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- Uh...
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Yeah, no, actually,
last night was, like,
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The best night of sleep
I've had
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Probably in
the last three weeks.
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- Did my--
did my snoring wake--
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- Oh, my god.
Your snoring is hilarious.
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You're like--
[imitates snoring]
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- [laughs]
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And then a little one.
[both laugh]
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- I'm still, like,
wrapping my head around...
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Waking up to my wife,
being married.
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We're very much attracted
to each other.
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The sexual tension is there.
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There's, you know,
a strong possibility
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That I could very well
fall in love with lindy.
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And now's the time,
you know, on our honeymoon
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And the weeks to come to truly
try to see if we get there.
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- I was raised
seventh-day adventist,
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Which is like a christianity--
branch of christianity.
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And I was only in
seventh-day adventist schools
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My entire life.
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So with that comes
a lot of, like,
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Marry within what people
believe that you believe.
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I basically, you know,
was also engaged
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At a very early age in college.
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- Okay.
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- The, like, joke is,
like, "ring before spring."
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Like, find your man and, like--
right before graduation.
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I met this guy.
It was very, like--just fast.
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And it just--like, it clicked
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For what we, like,
thought we wanted
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And what we were looking for.
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We did move in together,
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And we started having those,
like, real conversations
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Of what we wanted
and what we were looking for.
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Let's move back to indiana,
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And, like, let's start
our family.
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That's what he wanted
and proposed.
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And I was like, "oh, you know,
I want to go to grad school.
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I want my education.
I want my independence."
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Also, being
completely transparent,
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I did lose my virginity to him.
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He's honestly the only man
I've ever told I loved.
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- Wait, how long ago--
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- We went out
for a couple years,
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So maybe 23?
- I see.
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So from 23 up until 29...
- Yeah.
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- You haven't been in love
with another guy?
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- Mm-mm.
- Wow.
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For me, I've had
a couple situations,
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Like, where, you know,
three months in or so,
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I can tell I'm not gaining,
like, those feelings.
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- You're not building that.
- I'm not building it.
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And it sucks because sometimes
I do like the person,
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And I am attracted to them
or whatever.
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But there's, like,
a missing component,
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And that's caused me
to kind of, like, end it
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And then seek
something else out.
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- And that, like, terrifies me
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Because I'm like,
this is, like, so scary.
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Like, what if you
just never build that?
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For me,
that's the vulnerable...
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- I know.
- Terrifying part.
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- It is terrifying.
It is terrifying.
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- But I do feel like
the things that can change--
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Like, if it's stupid little
stuff about me and my quirks,
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I hope that you're, like,
gently enough like, "hey,
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"can we, like,
figure this out together?
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"this is how it feels to me,
and I"--
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You know, just the conversation
is just, like--
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Like, communication,
conversation is everything,
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'cause I just don't want
to be blindsided.
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- No.
- To me, love is a choice.
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And I know
that you disagree with that.
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You need a feeling.
- I know. Yeah.
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- So it's just--
it's really scary.
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- Yeah. Yeah.
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- It's so hard
to, like, open up to him
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If he's just like,
"yeah, I don't know.
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"like, who knows?
We'll find out.
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Let's see," when I'm,
like, a real person
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Right in front of him,
and I am his wife.
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So it just feels pretty,
like, callous and harsh,
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Which is terrifying
when you're literally married
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And trying to start your life
and fall in love with someone.
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- There's the potential
for a spark.
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I definitely feel it.
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But whether I fall in love
with you or not,
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I can't choose that.
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♪ ♪
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[upbeat music]
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♪ ♪
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- Atv time.
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- Are you scared?
- Hell no!
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- I'm a little scared.
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What happens, like,
if you go too fast?
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Are you gonna leave me, or...
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- No, I'ma look out for you.
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- You're not gonna leave me,
right?
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- I mean, what if
you leave me behind?
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- Then you catch up.
- What if I get scared?
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- Then I'ma be like,
"stop being a little wuss."
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I've never done this before.
He's never done it before.
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And it's just, like,
really cute
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That he planned this for us.
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And I'm looking forward to see
how he looks out for me.
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I want to know, like,
is he just gonna, like,
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Leave me in his dust
because he's, like,
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Trying to go all fast
and be all crazy,
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Or is he gonna stay up with me
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And just to make sure, like,
I'm good, like, I'm okay,
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Or is he just gonna
kind of do his own thing?
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♪ ♪
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Okay, how we do this?
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[quirky music]
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It's a lot of stuff to put on.
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How do I make this tighter?
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♪ ♪
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I feel like my ears are,
like, underneath that.
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Ow!
- Sorry, sorry.
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♪ ♪
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Okay?
- Do I have a seat belt
253
00:09:04,545 --> 00:09:05,877
Or anything?
- No.
254
00:09:06,029 --> 00:09:07,787
- Hey, let's go!
255
00:09:07,881 --> 00:09:09,697
- Are you good, husband?
256
00:09:09,791 --> 00:09:11,383
- Yes, ma'am.
Let's do this.
257
00:09:11,534 --> 00:09:12,792
[engine revving]
258
00:09:12,886 --> 00:09:14,611
[upbeat rock music]
259
00:09:14,704 --> 00:09:15,887
- Oh, wow.
260
00:09:16,114 --> 00:09:17,556
♪ ♪
261
00:09:17,707 --> 00:09:19,132
- [laughs]
262
00:09:19,284 --> 00:09:26,147
♪ ♪
263
00:09:28,126 --> 00:09:30,402
- Whoo!
264
00:09:30,553 --> 00:09:32,053
Oh, no. Hold on.
265
00:09:32,147 --> 00:09:34,147
- Let's go.
Pick up the pace, girl!
266
00:09:34,241 --> 00:09:35,481
- Don't crash into me.
267
00:09:35,576 --> 00:09:37,467
Why are you so close?
268
00:09:37,560 --> 00:09:38,577
- Go fast.
269
00:09:38,804 --> 00:09:41,562
- Whoa, whoa, whoa, whoa,
whoa, whoa, whoa.
270
00:09:41,656 --> 00:09:43,748
Man, this is rocky as hell.
271
00:09:43,975 --> 00:09:45,992
♪ ♪
272
00:09:46,144 --> 00:09:47,811
- Get some views real quick.
273
00:09:47,829 --> 00:09:51,256
[quirky music]
274
00:09:51,407 --> 00:09:52,740
- Where'd he go?
275
00:09:52,834 --> 00:09:55,501
He is nowhere to be found.
276
00:09:55,596 --> 00:09:58,822
You always need to have an eye
on me, make sure I'm good.
277
00:09:58,915 --> 00:10:01,007
I don't know
where the hell he is.
278
00:10:01,159 --> 00:10:03,993
- [laughs]
yo, I gotta get this, though.
279
00:10:04,087 --> 00:10:06,846
All right, [bleep] it.
I'm getting it.
280
00:10:06,998 --> 00:10:08,998
Yo.
281
00:10:09,092 --> 00:10:11,167
- Did I lose my--
my husband again?
282
00:10:11,186 --> 00:10:15,021
- We're about to get
eaten up by pythons,
283
00:10:15,173 --> 00:10:17,023
Anacondas, bears, tigers.
284
00:10:17,175 --> 00:10:19,192
This [bleep] kinda scary.
285
00:10:19,344 --> 00:10:21,102
I hear [bleep] squeaking
in the background.
286
00:10:21,121 --> 00:10:22,454
I'm about to get ate.
287
00:10:22,605 --> 00:10:24,789
- Is he [bleep]
recording again?
288
00:10:24,941 --> 00:10:27,016
- Out here atving.
289
00:10:27,035 --> 00:10:28,201
What's up, babes?
290
00:10:28,353 --> 00:10:30,520
- Come on, ig model.
291
00:10:30,538 --> 00:10:34,190
[engines revving]
292
00:10:34,209 --> 00:10:41,097
♪ ♪
293
00:10:45,220 --> 00:10:46,369
- Whoo!
294
00:10:46,388 --> 00:10:47,553
♪ ♪
295
00:10:47,706 --> 00:10:48,480
I'ma go chill over there.
296
00:10:48,631 --> 00:10:50,982
- Look at my--
is my hair gross?
297
00:10:51,134 --> 00:10:52,317
- No, it's actually clean.
298
00:10:52,468 --> 00:10:54,544
Yo, when we started getting
deep in that jungle?
299
00:10:54,562 --> 00:10:56,546
- I got scared.
300
00:10:56,639 --> 00:10:58,715
That was fun, though.
- Hell yeah.
301
00:10:58,808 --> 00:11:00,233
And I recorded
a lot of stuff too.
302
00:11:00,385 --> 00:11:01,993
- My ig husband,
he off back there.
303
00:11:02,220 --> 00:11:05,054
- Had to get it.
Had to get it, you know?
304
00:11:05,148 --> 00:11:06,998
You know, how many times
you go to mexico?
305
00:11:07,150 --> 00:11:08,057
Gotta get it.
306
00:11:08,151 --> 00:11:09,483
- It's our first time
in mexico.
307
00:11:09,577 --> 00:11:10,894
I understand that.
- Right.
308
00:11:10,987 --> 00:11:12,486
- But there has to be
a balance between
309
00:11:12,580 --> 00:11:14,321
Enjoying the actual activity...
310
00:11:14,341 --> 00:11:16,323
- Oh, yeah.
- And recording.
311
00:11:16,343 --> 00:11:17,342
- Yeah, I got my bits.
312
00:11:17,569 --> 00:11:18,918
♪ ♪
313
00:11:19,070 --> 00:11:20,178
- Bits?
- Yeah.
314
00:11:20,405 --> 00:11:22,013
- It was, like, half the ride,
you were over here,
315
00:11:22,240 --> 00:11:23,848
"oh, look at this."
316
00:11:24,000 --> 00:11:26,576
- I was multitasking.
I was riding and recording.
317
00:11:26,669 --> 00:11:29,429
It was fun, but I was like,
"I want to, like--
318
00:11:29,523 --> 00:11:30,930
I just wanna go fast."
319
00:11:31,024 --> 00:11:33,024
- I just feel like, you know,
320
00:11:33,176 --> 00:11:35,342
You were kind of doing
your own thing.
321
00:11:35,362 --> 00:11:36,419
- Right.
322
00:11:36,512 --> 00:11:39,864
- You know,
with us getting married,
323
00:11:40,091 --> 00:11:43,368
It's trying to find the balance
in that transition period
324
00:11:43,519 --> 00:11:45,704
From, like, single life,
doing whatever you want to do,
325
00:11:45,931 --> 00:11:47,780
Whenever you want to do it,
to, like, now married life.
326
00:11:47,933 --> 00:11:48,781
And you have
to include somebody.
327
00:11:48,875 --> 00:11:50,191
- You know, this is new.
328
00:11:50,210 --> 00:11:52,026
You know, I can't just
flip a switch and be like,
329
00:11:52,120 --> 00:11:53,194
"all right, relationship mode."
330
00:11:53,288 --> 00:11:55,362
Like, you know,
I'm still transitioning
331
00:11:55,382 --> 00:11:57,941
And trying to be
more conscious.
332
00:11:57,959 --> 00:12:00,126
- Nate moves to the beat
of his own drum.
333
00:12:00,220 --> 00:12:02,128
It's definitely something
that I'm looking at
334
00:12:02,280 --> 00:12:03,888
Because I don't want this
to become
335
00:12:04,040 --> 00:12:05,890
A consistent issue for us.
336
00:12:06,117 --> 00:12:11,212
♪ ♪
337
00:12:11,231 --> 00:12:14,457
Music]
338
00:12:14,476 --> 00:12:20,463
♪ ♪
339
00:12:20,556 --> 00:12:22,315
- They have like rocks
and not, like, seashells.
340
00:12:22,409 --> 00:12:24,801
- They do. Watch your step.
- Oh, horses.
341
00:12:24,819 --> 00:12:25,969
- Look at that.
342
00:12:25,987 --> 00:12:27,579
- I'm excited. This is nice.
- I know.
343
00:12:27,730 --> 00:12:28,913
Come here.
344
00:12:29,065 --> 00:12:30,081
- This is really nice.
345
00:12:30,233 --> 00:12:31,916
- It is.
- I love it.
346
00:12:32,068 --> 00:12:32,917
I want the fast one.
347
00:12:33,069 --> 00:12:34,586
- Just don't slap
his ass, baby.
348
00:12:34,737 --> 00:12:37,071
- You the one
into slapping asses,
349
00:12:37,090 --> 00:12:38,998
Especially this morning,
'cause baby...
350
00:12:39,150 --> 00:12:41,317
- You something.
- [laughs]
351
00:12:41,336 --> 00:12:44,487
♪ ♪
352
00:12:44,506 --> 00:12:46,264
- Damn, my neck
gonna be stuck like that
353
00:12:46,415 --> 00:12:47,824
Dang. Right.
354
00:12:47,842 --> 00:12:50,510
Like, I'm gonna be stuck
like that the rest of my life.
355
00:12:50,662 --> 00:12:51,828
Jeez.
356
00:12:51,921 --> 00:12:53,087
- Hola.
- Hey, big boy. Hola.
357
00:12:53,106 --> 00:12:54,439
- I don't want that one.
- How you guys doing?
358
00:12:54,666 --> 00:12:55,756
- Pretty good.
How are you doing?
359
00:12:55,776 --> 00:12:57,275
- Nice meeting you guys.
- Nice to meet you.
360
00:12:57,426 --> 00:12:59,593
- So who wants to get on first?
- Let's get her on first.
361
00:12:59,613 --> 00:13:01,504
- I want that one. Yeah.
- You want that one?
362
00:13:01,597 --> 00:13:02,839
- Okay, I'll get
on this one then.
363
00:13:02,857 --> 00:13:04,598
♪ ♪
364
00:13:04,618 --> 00:13:06,175
You ever seen
"harder they fall"?
365
00:13:06,194 --> 00:13:08,511
It genuinely feels surreal.
366
00:13:08,604 --> 00:13:10,013
I still had a moment,
like, "wake up, justin.
367
00:13:10,031 --> 00:13:10,938
Wake up."
368
00:13:10,957 --> 00:13:12,106
- Right. What's his name again?
369
00:13:12,200 --> 00:13:13,516
Her name?
- Pinocchio.
370
00:13:13,535 --> 00:13:15,109
- I'm sorry, pinocchio.
371
00:13:15,128 --> 00:13:17,278
You got the thick one.
- Let's do it.
372
00:13:17,297 --> 00:13:18,779
I've always dreamed of this.
373
00:13:18,799 --> 00:13:20,447
I've pictured this,
and I didn't think
374
00:13:20,467 --> 00:13:21,800
It was gonna really happen,
you know?
375
00:13:22,027 --> 00:13:24,618
And so for me to take this
leap of faith the way I did
376
00:13:24,638 --> 00:13:27,621
And marry a stranger and to be
this comfortable with her,
377
00:13:27,641 --> 00:13:29,307
It gets me emotional
'cause it's like
378
00:13:29,458 --> 00:13:31,217
Everything I manifested,
you know,
379
00:13:31,311 --> 00:13:33,478
Years and years and years ago
is really happening.
380
00:13:33,705 --> 00:13:36,722
It's like, "wow, like,
I'm here with my wife
381
00:13:36,875 --> 00:13:38,650
On a beach, riding horses."
382
00:13:38,877 --> 00:13:40,710
You read stuff like this
in magazines, man.
383
00:13:40,728 --> 00:13:41,727
You know what I'm saying?
384
00:13:41,880 --> 00:13:43,321
Well, rich people
do stuff like this.
385
00:13:43,472 --> 00:13:46,215
But, like, this is--
this is one for the books.
386
00:13:46,309 --> 00:13:48,551
- ♪ I just want you
to hold me ♪
387
00:13:48,570 --> 00:13:50,328
♪ be my one and only ♪
388
00:13:50,479 --> 00:13:52,646
♪ come on and pull me close ♪
389
00:13:52,666 --> 00:13:54,999
♪ want you to take over ♪
390
00:13:55,151 --> 00:13:59,170
♪ I just want you to hold me,
be my one and only ♪
391
00:14:02,750 --> 00:14:04,158
- What, you gonna propose
to me or something?
392
00:14:04,177 --> 00:14:05,902
- Nope, I just wanna hug you.
- Oh.
393
00:14:05,920 --> 00:14:07,679
♪ ♪
394
00:14:07,830 --> 00:14:12,241
I'm typically the one who's
cool, calm, and collected,
395
00:14:12,260 --> 00:14:15,428
And it takes me a while
to fall for somebody.
396
00:14:15,580 --> 00:14:18,081
But I am losing control,
397
00:14:18,099 --> 00:14:21,008
And that is pretty scary.
398
00:14:21,027 --> 00:14:22,251
- Watch it,
it's wet right there.
399
00:14:22,270 --> 00:14:23,603
- It's wet everywhere.
We're at the beach.
400
00:14:23,755 --> 00:14:25,346
It's okay. It's fine. I'm okay.
401
00:14:25,365 --> 00:14:27,031
- Okay.
- Ooh!
402
00:14:27,183 --> 00:14:28,533
- How you feeling?
403
00:14:28,684 --> 00:14:29,775
- I like the scenery.
404
00:14:29,870 --> 00:14:31,852
I like doing it with you,
because it was like,
405
00:14:31,946 --> 00:14:33,112
I felt safe.
- Yeah.
406
00:14:33,264 --> 00:14:35,039
- It's just that look
that he gives me.
407
00:14:35,266 --> 00:14:36,599
I can tell.
408
00:14:36,618 --> 00:14:39,435
I know my husband has not
yet to say that he loves me,
409
00:14:39,454 --> 00:14:40,953
But I can tell that he loves me
by looking--
410
00:14:41,106 --> 00:14:42,213
The way he looks at me.
411
00:14:42,440 --> 00:14:43,956
I've never felt that
in my life.
412
00:14:44,109 --> 00:14:45,291
And the way he looks at me,
I'm just, like,
413
00:14:45,443 --> 00:14:46,776
"oh, this man loves me."
414
00:14:46,869 --> 00:14:48,628
- I'll put myself
in harm's way for you
415
00:14:48,780 --> 00:14:50,963
'cause I feel like
that's my job as a man.
416
00:14:51,116 --> 00:14:52,465
That's my job
as your husband, you know?
417
00:14:52,617 --> 00:14:54,225
So yeah, that's the feeling...
418
00:14:54,377 --> 00:14:56,802
- Ew, ew, emotions!
419
00:14:56,955 --> 00:14:58,621
Ugh!
- That's the feeling I want.
420
00:14:58,714 --> 00:15:00,231
- [groans]
- hey, look.
421
00:15:00,458 --> 00:15:01,307
Look at me.
422
00:15:01,459 --> 00:15:02,567
♪ ♪
423
00:15:02,718 --> 00:15:03,735
I got you, girl.
424
00:15:03,886 --> 00:15:07,296
- I know.
That's why it's just like, ugh.
425
00:15:07,315 --> 00:15:08,314
Sappy stuff.
426
00:15:08,466 --> 00:15:09,649
For me, emotions fluctuate.
427
00:15:09,743 --> 00:15:12,135
So that scares me in a sense
to where it's just like,
428
00:15:12,228 --> 00:15:14,228
"oh, my gosh,
if he makes me too happy,
429
00:15:14,247 --> 00:15:15,729
Then he can also make me sad."
430
00:15:15,749 --> 00:15:17,823
I just spent
my whole life being hard
431
00:15:17,976 --> 00:15:18,975
That it's kind of scary.
432
00:15:19,068 --> 00:15:21,477
Like, you really
trying to turn me soft.
433
00:15:21,496 --> 00:15:22,921
- It is a scary thing,
you know what I'm saying?
434
00:15:23,072 --> 00:15:24,647
But I got you.
435
00:15:24,666 --> 00:15:27,833
♪ ♪
436
00:15:27,928 --> 00:15:32,672
- ♪ it's a good day
to enjoy yourself, yeah ♪
437
00:15:32,824 --> 00:15:35,341
♪ sun is shining so bright ♪
438
00:15:35,435 --> 00:15:37,176
- All right, I'm pumped.
439
00:15:37,328 --> 00:15:38,995
I'm so happy to be outside.
440
00:15:39,013 --> 00:15:40,346
- Me too.
This is--this is my element.
441
00:15:40,498 --> 00:15:41,497
- This is my element too.
442
00:15:41,516 --> 00:15:42,589
- It's a little windy,
but that's cool.
443
00:15:42,684 --> 00:15:44,000
How's your paddle height?
444
00:15:44,093 --> 00:15:45,168
You probably want it
a little bit taller than you.
445
00:15:45,186 --> 00:15:46,519
You want me to help you out
with that?
446
00:15:46,671 --> 00:15:48,279
- You want to adjust it?
- Yeah, if you can hold that.
447
00:15:48,506 --> 00:15:50,782
Stand-up paddle boarding
is something that I do.
448
00:15:50,933 --> 00:15:52,024
So I think it's a good way
449
00:15:52,118 --> 00:15:54,694
To just kind of feel
comfortable, goof around.
450
00:15:54,846 --> 00:15:56,028
Yeah, that'll kind of
put me at ease.
451
00:15:56,181 --> 00:15:57,363
Like, I'm not in a position
452
00:15:57,515 --> 00:15:58,623
Where I'm kind of worrying
about the pressure
453
00:15:58,774 --> 00:16:00,866
Or how I may or may not feel
about my wife.
454
00:16:00,961 --> 00:16:02,109
This is something
that's easy for me.
455
00:16:02,203 --> 00:16:03,352
It's fun for me.
456
00:16:03,371 --> 00:16:05,538
It is de-stressing for me.
457
00:16:05,690 --> 00:16:08,615
So this is a good
first activity for sure.
458
00:16:08,635 --> 00:16:10,134
- All right,
you ready to do this?
459
00:16:10,286 --> 00:16:11,194
- Paddles up.
460
00:16:11,212 --> 00:16:12,637
♪ ♪
461
00:16:12,788 --> 00:16:15,214
Also, I'm gonna see her in
a bikini for the first time.
462
00:16:15,366 --> 00:16:16,975
Hey, it's nice to be out on
the beach in the water finally.
463
00:16:17,126 --> 00:16:18,792
- It feels so good.
464
00:16:18,812 --> 00:16:20,536
Wow, he's up.
465
00:16:20,555 --> 00:16:21,962
♪ ♪
466
00:16:22,056 --> 00:16:24,131
- ♪ la, la, la, la ♪
467
00:16:24,225 --> 00:16:25,708
♪ yeah, yeah.
468
00:16:25,801 --> 00:16:28,227
♪ I gotta dance on the river ♪
469
00:16:28,379 --> 00:16:30,046
♪ gotta jump to the clouds ♪
470
00:16:30,064 --> 00:16:31,714
- She's down!
- ♪ gotta run on a rainbow ♪
471
00:16:31,807 --> 00:16:34,233
- Wife is down!
- She's down! Wife down!
472
00:16:34,327 --> 00:16:39,646
- ♪ take the world
and turn it upside down ♪
473
00:16:39,666 --> 00:16:41,982
♪ la, la la, la, hey, hey ♪
474
00:16:42,002 --> 00:16:44,076
♪ la, la, la, la,
hey, hey ♪
475
00:16:44,229 --> 00:16:46,337
♪ la, la, la, la, hey, hey ♪
476
00:16:46,489 --> 00:16:47,730
- That was really fun.
477
00:16:47,749 --> 00:16:49,507
- I'm glad you're
into stand-up paddleboarding.
478
00:16:49,658 --> 00:16:50,733
It's fun to goof around
out there.
479
00:16:50,826 --> 00:16:52,159
- Yeah, it was
definitely goofy.
480
00:16:52,253 --> 00:16:53,903
- And you know,
any day on the water
481
00:16:53,921 --> 00:16:55,662
Is a good day
where I'm coming from.
482
00:16:55,682 --> 00:16:56,997
And it sounds like
you feel the same.
483
00:16:57,091 --> 00:16:59,017
- Yeah, so far,
484
00:16:59,168 --> 00:17:00,760
You're a really easy
travel buddy,
485
00:17:00,912 --> 00:17:02,103
So I appreciate it.
- Thanks.
486
00:17:05,433 --> 00:17:09,027
- One thing that, like, I--
487
00:17:09,178 --> 00:17:10,936
Well, first of all, I remember
my entire questionnaire,
488
00:17:11,089 --> 00:17:12,938
Because I took it
really seriously.
489
00:17:13,091 --> 00:17:14,699
- All 567 questions?
490
00:17:14,926 --> 00:17:17,869
- It took me days
to fill it out.
491
00:17:18,020 --> 00:17:20,020
And it's really important.
492
00:17:20,040 --> 00:17:22,615
And one of my
non-negotiables was
493
00:17:22,767 --> 00:17:23,875
Someone who was passionate.
494
00:17:24,026 --> 00:17:25,543
- Meaning you wanted
someone who is passionate.
495
00:17:25,694 --> 00:17:26,769
- Yes.
- Okay.
496
00:17:26,788 --> 00:17:29,196
- I wanted someone
who is passionate.
497
00:17:29,215 --> 00:17:31,365
And I think
I even specifically wrote
498
00:17:31,459 --> 00:17:34,535
That I wanted someone who was
passionate about their career.
499
00:17:34,629 --> 00:17:37,037
I don't consider
myself wasteful,
500
00:17:37,057 --> 00:17:39,706
But it's nice
for you to remind me
501
00:17:39,726 --> 00:17:42,060
How we can still
experience and indulge,
502
00:17:42,287 --> 00:17:43,561
But we can be
more responsible about it.
503
00:17:43,712 --> 00:17:44,878
So I appreciate that.
504
00:17:44,898 --> 00:17:45,805
- Aww, thanks so much.
- Yeah.
505
00:17:45,957 --> 00:17:46,789
- That's really sweet,
actually.
506
00:17:46,882 --> 00:17:49,049
- Yeah.
It doesn't go unnoticed.
507
00:17:49,069 --> 00:17:51,569
- Yeah, because as you know,
one of my fears was like,
508
00:17:51,720 --> 00:17:53,312
"ah, like, oh, man.
509
00:17:53,464 --> 00:17:54,463
"my wife's gonna just think
510
00:17:54,557 --> 00:17:56,557
I'm this radical extremist,
you know?"
511
00:17:56,576 --> 00:17:58,242
But I don't really think
I am, so...
512
00:17:58,394 --> 00:17:59,985
- I've always wanted you
to be you,
513
00:18:00,138 --> 00:18:01,228
And I'm always gonna be me,
514
00:18:01,247 --> 00:18:03,063
And that's the only way that--
515
00:18:03,083 --> 00:18:06,084
If we build an authentic
romantic relationship one day,
516
00:18:06,311 --> 00:18:07,418
That's the only way
we're gonna get there
517
00:18:07,570 --> 00:18:08,494
Is if we be authentic.
518
00:18:08,646 --> 00:18:09,420
So I think that we have
519
00:18:09,572 --> 00:18:10,922
A really similar style
of humor.
520
00:18:11,073 --> 00:18:14,166
And that was, like, those--
the passion and the humor.
521
00:18:14,319 --> 00:18:15,835
And you have
both of those things, so...
522
00:18:15,987 --> 00:18:17,503
- Yeah.
I'm glad you laugh at my jokes.
523
00:18:17,655 --> 00:18:18,763
I think yours are funny too.
524
00:18:18,990 --> 00:18:21,099
So that's a good sign
if we're kind of--
525
00:18:21,250 --> 00:18:24,844
If our minds are already going
to the inappropriate humor
526
00:18:24,996 --> 00:18:26,829
Together as a--as what?
527
00:18:26,922 --> 00:18:28,272
As a...
Both: Married couple.
528
00:18:28,424 --> 00:18:29,273
- Yeah, so...
529
00:18:29,500 --> 00:18:31,667
'cause you know,
even sex is funny.
530
00:18:31,686 --> 00:18:33,669
- Is it?
- I mean, it's--
531
00:18:33,762 --> 00:18:37,690
[laughing]
532
00:18:37,784 --> 00:18:38,950
I find it to be.
533
00:18:39,177 --> 00:18:41,026
Like when you're--
you know, human interaction
534
00:18:41,121 --> 00:18:43,846
Is funny from a to z.
535
00:18:43,865 --> 00:18:45,865
- We'll--we'll--we'll see.
- We'll see.
536
00:18:46,017 --> 00:18:48,033
- I really, really want
to be married,
537
00:18:48,186 --> 00:18:50,035
And I feel attraction
538
00:18:50,188 --> 00:18:51,612
And I am enjoying
our time together.
539
00:18:51,706 --> 00:18:53,131
But we're moving slower
540
00:18:53,282 --> 00:18:55,133
Than I personally would want
to move.
541
00:18:55,360 --> 00:18:57,877
I think he's just maybe
a little uncomfortable
542
00:18:58,029 --> 00:18:59,620
With the whole experience.
543
00:18:59,639 --> 00:19:02,956
But I hope to continue
to grow deeper--
544
00:19:03,050 --> 00:19:04,308
A deeper of a connection.
545
00:19:04,460 --> 00:19:07,720
Let's do a little pinky promise
to keep laughing
546
00:19:07,872 --> 00:19:10,130
And keep seeing
the beauty in each other.
547
00:19:10,224 --> 00:19:11,223
- Let's keep this moving.
548
00:19:11,317 --> 00:19:13,058
- ♪ I'm okay being real ♪
549
00:19:13,211 --> 00:19:14,894
♪ I don't have to pretend ♪
550
00:19:14,988 --> 00:19:17,213
- The pinky promise is
like our version of a kiss.
551
00:19:17,231 --> 00:19:18,447
- [laughs]
552
00:19:20,234 --> 00:19:29,816
♪ ♪
553
00:19:29,836 --> 00:19:33,487
♪ oh, and there's only
one thing that I want to do ♪
554
00:19:33,506 --> 00:19:35,173
- Hey.
555
00:19:35,324 --> 00:19:37,824
Are we going in here? Oh.
Oh, this is gonna be--
556
00:19:37,844 --> 00:19:38,901
Okay.
557
00:19:38,920 --> 00:19:40,252
This is fun.
558
00:19:40,346 --> 00:19:44,073
It's officially official
that I'm finally married.
559
00:19:44,091 --> 00:19:45,591
I just feel so much better now.
560
00:19:45,685 --> 00:19:46,909
No more nerves.
561
00:19:46,928 --> 00:19:48,502
Don't touch me.
562
00:19:48,521 --> 00:19:51,022
[both laugh]
- that's my bad.
563
00:19:51,173 --> 00:19:52,932
- It was just kind of
us talking,
564
00:19:53,084 --> 00:19:55,008
And us, like, really, like,
getting to know each other,
565
00:19:55,102 --> 00:19:56,510
Like, the witty banter.
566
00:19:56,604 --> 00:19:58,087
- Yo, we're getting good
at this.
567
00:19:58,105 --> 00:19:59,271
[both laugh]
568
00:19:59,424 --> 00:20:01,440
- We're gonna get
real comfortable right now.
569
00:20:01,592 --> 00:20:03,367
Gotta keep staring
at each other.
570
00:20:03,594 --> 00:20:05,519
And then, like,
really seeing how we are.
571
00:20:05,538 --> 00:20:07,038
Like, do we have
that connection there?
572
00:20:07,189 --> 00:20:09,189
Do we have
that intimacy at all?
573
00:20:09,209 --> 00:20:10,541
And I feel like
we're starting to.
574
00:20:10,693 --> 00:20:13,602
- Start just, like, moving
your hands back and forth.
575
00:20:13,696 --> 00:20:14,787
Putting a little motion
into it,
576
00:20:14,881 --> 00:20:16,439
Looking at each other
while you're doing it.
577
00:20:16,457 --> 00:20:17,623
[both laugh]
578
00:20:17,717 --> 00:20:20,776
- Definitely--something is
definitely building.
579
00:20:20,869 --> 00:20:22,202
Something's stirring
in the pot.
580
00:20:22,222 --> 00:20:24,129
- You guys want to do
a little hard style?
581
00:20:24,282 --> 00:20:25,798
Ah, yeah.
- Oh, no.
582
00:20:25,950 --> 00:20:27,391
Oh, no, something just ripped.
- I heard it.
583
00:20:27,543 --> 00:20:29,118
I heard it.
- Something just ripped.
584
00:20:29,136 --> 00:20:31,062
- I'll do the crouch
by myself, right?
585
00:20:31,213 --> 00:20:32,879
- Oh, yeah. There we go.
Tough as nails.
586
00:20:32,974 --> 00:20:34,715
- ♪ you got the good stuff ♪
587
00:20:34,734 --> 00:20:36,734
♪ you give me goose bumps
with your sweet love ♪
588
00:20:36,961 --> 00:20:41,405
♪ I never felt so ready,
so ready for this ♪
589
00:20:41,632 --> 00:20:43,908
♪ make me feel
like the only one ♪
590
00:20:44,135 --> 00:20:45,651
♪ make me feel like
the only one ♪
591
00:20:45,803 --> 00:20:48,654
♪ ♪
592
00:20:48,806 --> 00:20:50,806
- ♪ I've known it
from the first kiss ♪
593
00:20:50,825 --> 00:20:54,067
♪ I saw you once,
now I can't get enough ♪
594
00:20:54,161 --> 00:20:56,087
♪ it's a new kind of love ♪
595
00:20:56,314 --> 00:20:58,756
♪ I've never felt
quite like this ♪
596
00:20:58,907 --> 00:21:01,408
- Oh, this is so pretty.
- It's nice.
597
00:21:01,502 --> 00:21:03,094
Hey, cheers.
- Cheers.
598
00:21:05,323 --> 00:21:06,264
- Mmm.
599
00:21:08,268 --> 00:21:10,676
- So when you cheers,
you have to do eye contact.
600
00:21:10,770 --> 00:21:12,270
- I know. It's bad luck.
601
00:21:12,497 --> 00:21:14,438
Let's do it again.
- If you don't--yeah.
602
00:21:14,665 --> 00:21:16,774
- We're good at eye contact.
Cheers.
603
00:21:17,001 --> 00:21:18,834
Our wedding day,
all we did was have to stare
604
00:21:18,853 --> 00:21:20,503
Into each other's eyes.
It was so--
605
00:21:20,521 --> 00:21:22,187
- We got eye contact for, like,
a year, so we're actually good.
606
00:21:22,340 --> 00:21:23,263
- Whoa.
607
00:21:23,283 --> 00:21:24,448
We sped that [bleep] up.
608
00:21:24,600 --> 00:21:27,785
Like, that was a lot
of intense eye contact.
609
00:21:28,012 --> 00:21:28,953
- That was.
610
00:21:29,180 --> 00:21:30,621
But you have pretty eyes,
so I didn't mind.
611
00:21:30,773 --> 00:21:32,957
- Mm. Thank you.
612
00:21:33,108 --> 00:21:35,442
What year did you graduate
high school?
613
00:21:35,461 --> 00:21:38,129
- I graduated high school
in 2003.
614
00:21:38,356 --> 00:21:40,873
- Wow, 2003?
615
00:21:41,025 --> 00:21:42,449
- Yeah.
616
00:21:42,468 --> 00:21:43,859
You finished in 2011?
617
00:21:43,952 --> 00:21:45,878
- '11 was my graduating year.
618
00:21:46,030 --> 00:21:47,287
- Why are you so young?
619
00:21:47,307 --> 00:21:49,715
- I don't know.
Why are you so old?
620
00:21:49,867 --> 00:21:51,291
So you can teach me.
621
00:21:51,311 --> 00:21:53,644
[quirky music]
622
00:21:53,871 --> 00:21:55,204
[laughs]
623
00:21:55,222 --> 00:21:58,149
♪ ♪
624
00:21:58,300 --> 00:21:59,558
Tell me more
about your upbringing.
625
00:21:59,710 --> 00:22:00,709
Like, whatever you want
to share,
626
00:22:00,728 --> 00:22:01,710
I want to listen.
627
00:22:01,729 --> 00:22:03,136
- Sure.
628
00:22:03,156 --> 00:22:04,547
Grew up in queens.
629
00:22:04,640 --> 00:22:07,992
And then when I was around ten,
my parents divorced.
630
00:22:08,219 --> 00:22:10,069
I mean, my dad moved us
to puerto rico.
631
00:22:10,221 --> 00:22:11,311
- Okay.
632
00:22:11,331 --> 00:22:14,056
- And then I get there
and I look the part.
633
00:22:14,149 --> 00:22:15,224
I look very puerto rican,
right?
634
00:22:15,242 --> 00:22:17,226
Dark skin, have the features.
- Mm-hmm.
635
00:22:17,244 --> 00:22:18,985
- But then I didn't speak
any spanish.
636
00:22:19,005 --> 00:22:21,672
That was my first exposure
into, like, identity crisis,
637
00:22:21,824 --> 00:22:23,065
Like, not really knowing--
638
00:22:23,158 --> 00:22:24,583
- Who am I?
- Where do I fit in?
639
00:22:24,735 --> 00:22:25,901
- Where do I come from?
- Yeah.
640
00:22:25,994 --> 00:22:27,236
'cause then
shortly after, like,
641
00:22:27,254 --> 00:22:30,163
I felt like I had a little bit
of a social delay.
642
00:22:30,183 --> 00:22:31,515
And I just retreated.
643
00:22:31,667 --> 00:22:33,258
I just started reading
comic books,
644
00:22:33,411 --> 00:22:34,927
Playing video games,
645
00:22:35,079 --> 00:22:36,169
You know?
646
00:22:36,189 --> 00:22:39,081
And I think I briefly
mentioned it to you.
647
00:22:39,174 --> 00:22:42,008
My mom suffers
from schizophrenia
648
00:22:42,103 --> 00:22:44,862
And abandoned the family.
649
00:22:45,013 --> 00:22:47,031
I just thought--I was like,
"my mom just gave up on us."
650
00:22:47,182 --> 00:22:49,108
And it wasn't until I got
much, much older
651
00:22:49,260 --> 00:22:50,759
And I understood the disease,
652
00:22:50,778 --> 00:22:52,018
Because of my
neuroscience background,
653
00:22:52,038 --> 00:22:53,095
I was like, "oh, my god.
654
00:22:53,114 --> 00:22:55,598
She was going through,
like, hell."
655
00:22:55,616 --> 00:22:58,376
I know she does care about me,
and she tries,
656
00:22:58,603 --> 00:23:01,379
Which sometimes is enough,
'cause I know
657
00:23:01,530 --> 00:23:03,214
How challenging it must be
for her.
658
00:23:03,365 --> 00:23:05,290
And it kind of breaks my heart,
to be honest.
659
00:23:05,385 --> 00:23:08,552
It breaks my heart in that
I treated her so coldly
660
00:23:08,704 --> 00:23:12,056
As an adolescent and even
in my early adulthood,
661
00:23:12,207 --> 00:23:14,058
Because I--she was
always reaching out.
662
00:23:14,209 --> 00:23:15,375
I was just ignoring her
and pushing her away.
663
00:23:15,395 --> 00:23:16,710
- Because you thought
she had rejected you.
664
00:23:16,729 --> 00:23:17,878
- Right.
665
00:23:17,897 --> 00:23:19,471
- But you didn't understand...
Both: Why.
666
00:23:19,624 --> 00:23:24,050
- You have so much empathy
for her,
667
00:23:24,070 --> 00:23:26,237
Even though there's
so much hurt and pain,
668
00:23:26,388 --> 00:23:29,148
And I think that's, like,
so beautiful, and, like,
669
00:23:29,242 --> 00:23:32,301
There's--you have so much
compassion and strength,
670
00:23:32,319 --> 00:23:34,227
Even though you've been
so wounded by somebody
671
00:23:34,247 --> 00:23:36,580
Who is supposed to care
for you.
672
00:23:36,732 --> 00:23:40,993
I do feel like people do
the best that they can,
673
00:23:41,145 --> 00:23:43,087
Because my parents' divorce--
674
00:23:43,314 --> 00:23:45,164
My dad served my mom
with divorce papers
675
00:23:45,258 --> 00:23:46,649
Basically, like--
676
00:23:46,667 --> 00:23:48,259
- Your dad served your mom?
677
00:23:48,410 --> 00:23:51,244
- Yeah, basically,
like, eighth grade.
678
00:23:51,264 --> 00:23:53,931
So it was
a very messy situation
679
00:23:54,158 --> 00:23:56,492
That I was very happy
to be removed from.
680
00:23:56,510 --> 00:23:58,343
And one of my high-school--
681
00:23:58,496 --> 00:24:01,254
Like, my high-school boyfriend,
I actually stayed
682
00:24:01,274 --> 00:24:02,940
With his parents for a summer.
683
00:24:03,167 --> 00:24:06,502
So I was able to see
a healthy relationship
684
00:24:06,520 --> 00:24:09,171
And see how his parents
would, like, play and laugh
685
00:24:09,190 --> 00:24:13,192
And communicate and "argue,"
but not--you know,
686
00:24:13,344 --> 00:24:15,268
Argue is like--it sounds like
a trigger word, but it's not.
687
00:24:15,288 --> 00:24:16,345
- Thank you for saying that.
Yeah.
688
00:24:16,363 --> 00:24:17,680
- It's not.
- It's not.
689
00:24:17,698 --> 00:24:19,031
- You have to argue
because you have to figure out
690
00:24:19,183 --> 00:24:19,957
Where you can compromise.
691
00:24:20,184 --> 00:24:21,684
- Not all argument is bad.
- No.
692
00:24:21,777 --> 00:24:24,870
- Yeah.
- With me and you,
693
00:24:24,964 --> 00:24:26,613
My hope for--
694
00:24:26,632 --> 00:24:28,190
I don't know if I should say
"me and you."
695
00:24:28,283 --> 00:24:33,971
I'll just say for me, my hope
is that I can break the cycle.
696
00:24:34,122 --> 00:24:36,548
So it's amazing to me
the empathy
697
00:24:36,701 --> 00:24:39,810
And understanding
that you give your parents.
698
00:24:43,040 --> 00:24:44,315
Yeah, it's just
a really beautiful thing.
699
00:24:44,466 --> 00:24:48,227
- Yeah, what's helped me is
to not take it personally,
700
00:24:48,321 --> 00:24:50,062
To understand, like,
these people really try
701
00:24:50,214 --> 00:24:53,640
To do their best,
given, you know, the hands
702
00:24:53,659 --> 00:24:55,217
They were dealt, in a sense.
- Yeah.
703
00:24:55,236 --> 00:24:57,569
That's a very easy way
of putting it.
704
00:24:57,722 --> 00:25:00,164
- Yeah.
- Yeah.
705
00:25:00,315 --> 00:25:01,907
Thank you for sharing.
706
00:25:02,001 --> 00:25:03,334
[soft music]
707
00:25:03,485 --> 00:25:04,893
- Thank you for listening.
708
00:25:04,912 --> 00:25:06,170
- [laughs]
- no, I'm serious.
709
00:25:06,321 --> 00:25:07,579
I mean it.
710
00:25:07,732 --> 00:25:09,064
- Of course. You make it easy.
711
00:25:09,083 --> 00:25:10,323
I love getting to know you.
712
00:25:10,417 --> 00:25:13,252
It's just, like--
connecting like this is just--
713
00:25:13,404 --> 00:25:15,328
You know,
it's what we need right--
714
00:25:15,348 --> 00:25:17,998
Well, maybe what I need
right now.
715
00:25:18,092 --> 00:25:21,593
I hope that you feel closer
to me as you share this stuff.
716
00:25:21,746 --> 00:25:23,521
But this is how I feel
closer to you, for sure.
717
00:25:23,672 --> 00:25:24,930
- Absolutely.
718
00:25:25,024 --> 00:25:27,432
- ♪ standing tall
till they break your walls ♪
719
00:25:27,585 --> 00:25:29,175
♪ you let them in ♪
720
00:25:29,270 --> 00:25:31,177
♪ they take it all ♪
721
00:25:31,197 --> 00:25:34,031
- I do still have my walls up,
but they are, like--
722
00:25:34,182 --> 00:25:35,607
It's like a hedge.
723
00:25:35,760 --> 00:25:39,870
You can just, like, step on
over and, like, peep through.
724
00:25:40,022 --> 00:25:41,597
I still want
to protect myself,
725
00:25:41,615 --> 00:25:44,041
But I'm also just like,
I'm falling for this man.
726
00:25:44,268 --> 00:25:47,711
And it's just--it's vulnerable,
and it's scary,
727
00:25:47,863 --> 00:25:49,713
But he's being
vulnerable with me,
728
00:25:49,940 --> 00:25:51,382
And I'm only gonna meet him
where he's at.
729
00:25:51,533 --> 00:25:52,716
And so since
he showed me tonight
730
00:25:52,943 --> 00:25:55,110
That he can show up
and open up,
731
00:25:55,129 --> 00:25:56,779
My walls are gonna
start coming down.
732
00:25:56,797 --> 00:26:01,116
- ♪ oh, I was so reckless ♪
733
00:26:01,135 --> 00:26:02,467
- Whoo!
734
00:26:02,562 --> 00:26:05,137
- ♪ mm-mm ♪
735
00:26:05,231 --> 00:26:08,807
♪ mm-mm ♪
736
00:26:08,959 --> 00:26:09,900
- ♪ sorry I don't love you ♪
737
00:26:10,127 --> 00:26:12,644
♪ like I'm supposed to,
supposed to ♪
738
00:26:12,738 --> 00:26:15,555
♪ you deserve better,
baby, you do, you do ♪
739
00:26:15,649 --> 00:26:17,149
♪ you deserve better ♪
740
00:26:17,243 --> 00:26:18,409
♪ like you're supposed to.
Supposed to ♪
741
00:26:18,560 --> 00:26:20,744
[line rings]
- hello?
742
00:26:20,896 --> 00:26:21,987
- Hey, matty, it's me.
743
00:26:22,139 --> 00:26:23,414
- Hey, man.
- Hey, bro.
744
00:26:23,565 --> 00:26:26,250
How are you?
Nice to hear your voice.
745
00:26:26,401 --> 00:26:27,476
- It's good to talk
to you too, man.
746
00:26:27,494 --> 00:26:28,752
How's it going?
747
00:26:28,904 --> 00:26:30,421
- Just, you know--
748
00:26:30,572 --> 00:26:32,238
It's just so much--
I just feel so--
749
00:26:32,258 --> 00:26:34,758
I'm just putting so much
tremendous pressure on myself,
750
00:26:34,985 --> 00:26:37,410
Because, like,
everything on paper adds up.
751
00:26:37,430 --> 00:26:39,096
I can see
why the experts matched us--
752
00:26:39,323 --> 00:26:41,506
The compatibility,
like, the kind of life goals.
753
00:26:41,601 --> 00:26:44,827
And she's--she's definitely,
like, an awesome person.
754
00:26:44,845 --> 00:26:46,586
And I'm, like, really enjoying
to get to know her,
755
00:26:46,606 --> 00:26:48,772
But I'm just kind of not
feeling that physical spark.
756
00:26:48,924 --> 00:26:50,182
I just wish
it wasn't like this.
757
00:26:50,334 --> 00:26:51,925
And I don't know how to--
758
00:26:51,944 --> 00:26:53,018
I don't know what to do.
759
00:26:53,112 --> 00:26:54,612
[dramatic music]
760
00:26:54,763 --> 00:26:56,171
I know I'm threading
a needle here
761
00:26:56,190 --> 00:26:58,098
Because, like, I made a vow.
762
00:26:58,192 --> 00:26:59,842
I'm not gonna lie to her.
763
00:26:59,860 --> 00:27:01,526
I gotta be true to my vows
and to myself
764
00:27:01,621 --> 00:27:02,953
And to her as my wife.
765
00:27:03,105 --> 00:27:04,771
You don't lie to your wife,
you know what I'm saying?
766
00:27:04,790 --> 00:27:06,365
Like, that's--that's rule one.
767
00:27:06,517 --> 00:27:08,183
- You didn't vow
to, like, have
768
00:27:08,276 --> 00:27:09,943
An immediate attraction
to her,
769
00:27:09,962 --> 00:27:12,296
And you can't control that,
but you can still--
770
00:27:12,523 --> 00:27:14,465
You can still follow through
with your vows.
771
00:27:14,692 --> 00:27:17,117
You can still make
your best effort
772
00:27:17,136 --> 00:27:19,303
To, like, you know,
get to know her.
773
00:27:19,454 --> 00:27:21,880
You know what I mean?
Because she is cute.
774
00:27:22,032 --> 00:27:24,308
It's not a foregone conclusion
that you're--
775
00:27:24,535 --> 00:27:26,126
You're never gonna
develop feelings for her.
776
00:27:26,145 --> 00:27:27,886
- Yeah, no. And I agree.
777
00:27:28,038 --> 00:27:29,629
And I totally acknowledge that.
778
00:27:29,723 --> 00:27:30,814
And that's the thing, too.
779
00:27:31,041 --> 00:27:33,651
Like, it's--
there's nothing wrong with her.
780
00:27:33,878 --> 00:27:35,802
Like, she's actually
a pretty amazing person.
781
00:27:35,821 --> 00:27:37,303
You know, I just can't pretend
782
00:27:37,323 --> 00:27:38,881
That something's there
inside of me
783
00:27:38,899 --> 00:27:39,898
That's not there, you know?
784
00:27:40,050 --> 00:27:41,066
Like, that's really
what's happening.
785
00:27:41,218 --> 00:27:43,309
That's it, you know?
786
00:27:43,329 --> 00:27:46,980
- It's a pickle, man,
because you don't want to--
787
00:27:46,999 --> 00:27:48,332
You don't want to hurt her.
788
00:27:48,483 --> 00:27:49,574
You don't want to--
you don't want
789
00:27:49,727 --> 00:27:51,001
To make her feel terrible.
790
00:27:51,153 --> 00:27:53,729
But at the same time,
you don't want to--you know,
791
00:27:53,747 --> 00:27:54,913
I think you're gonna
need to have
792
00:27:55,065 --> 00:27:56,748
Some kind of a chat with her.
793
00:27:56,901 --> 00:27:58,842
♪ ♪
794
00:27:59,069 --> 00:28:01,753
- Ooh, thanks for being here
with me, man.
795
00:28:01,906 --> 00:28:04,497
- I'm available anytime
you want to talk, so...
796
00:28:04,517 --> 00:28:06,350
- All right.
All right, cool, man. Thanks.
797
00:28:06,501 --> 00:28:08,427
Tell everyone I said hi.
798
00:28:08,579 --> 00:28:09,761
- Okay.
799
00:28:09,914 --> 00:28:13,265
♪ ♪
800
00:28:13,417 --> 00:28:14,933
- [sighs]
801
00:28:15,085 --> 00:28:17,269
♪ ♪
802
00:28:17,363 --> 00:28:19,755
[crying softly]
803
00:28:19,773 --> 00:28:22,199
- You know, usually I do
really good under pressure
804
00:28:22,426 --> 00:28:24,517
In other areas of my life,
but, like, this?
805
00:28:24,537 --> 00:28:25,869
She's not even putting
pressure on me,
806
00:28:26,021 --> 00:28:27,279
But, like,
I'm putting it on me.
807
00:28:27,373 --> 00:28:29,873
I don't actually really know
how she feels about me.
808
00:28:30,100 --> 00:28:32,284
I'm actually just building
myself up in my head,
809
00:28:32,378 --> 00:28:34,545
Based on, like--
810
00:28:34,696 --> 00:28:36,696
Based on just how much her
family and friends seem to be,
811
00:28:36,716 --> 00:28:37,606
Like, rooting for me.
812
00:28:37,624 --> 00:28:39,216
Like, I don't actually know.
813
00:28:39,443 --> 00:28:41,868
Like, she might not
even be that into me.
814
00:28:41,962 --> 00:28:44,947
Hopefully, I can get my act
together and have this dinner.
815
00:28:44,965 --> 00:28:49,893
♪ ♪
816
00:28:50,120 --> 00:28:52,637
Wow.
817
00:28:52,732 --> 00:28:58,460
This is way harder
than I thought it would be.
818
00:28:58,553 --> 00:29:01,405
♪ your love hits me
to the ground ♪
819
00:29:01,556 --> 00:29:04,483
♪ bang, pow ♪
820
00:29:04,635 --> 00:29:05,909
- Got my little fit on.
821
00:29:06,061 --> 00:29:08,895
Got my babe over here,
doing her makeup.
822
00:29:08,914 --> 00:29:10,247
- In one shoe.
823
00:29:10,398 --> 00:29:11,473
- In one shoe.
824
00:29:11,492 --> 00:29:13,417
I got a serious question
for you, stacia.
825
00:29:13,568 --> 00:29:14,977
- Me?
- Yeah.
826
00:29:15,070 --> 00:29:18,071
So how long do you take
to get ready?
827
00:29:18,165 --> 00:29:20,240
'cause I took a shower, and,
828
00:29:20,334 --> 00:29:21,483
You know, I was ready
in 30 minutes.
829
00:29:21,576 --> 00:29:23,260
You were kind of still
getting ready, like.
830
00:29:23,487 --> 00:29:24,820
- Like, an hour and a half
to two hours.
831
00:29:24,913 --> 00:29:26,505
If I'm just like--
- that's kinda long.
832
00:29:26,657 --> 00:29:28,673
- If I'm just, like,
going to the store,
833
00:29:28,768 --> 00:29:30,434
And I'm putting
some leggings on, my hair up,
834
00:29:30,661 --> 00:29:33,512
No makeup, yeah,
I'll be ready in 15 minutes.
835
00:29:33,606 --> 00:29:36,089
- As long as we're not, like,
running late for stuff...
836
00:29:36,108 --> 00:29:38,091
- No.
- I'm totally fine. Okay.
837
00:29:38,110 --> 00:29:40,002
- I don't--I'm punctual.
- Okay.
838
00:29:40,095 --> 00:29:41,686
Making sure
we're on the same page
839
00:29:41,839 --> 00:29:44,281
'cause I'm still waiting
over here.
840
00:29:44,508 --> 00:29:46,116
[laughs]
841
00:29:46,343 --> 00:29:48,693
- ♪ you're cold as ice
and sinking ♪
842
00:29:48,788 --> 00:29:50,621
♪ all the ships at night ♪
843
00:29:50,848 --> 00:29:54,683
♪ don't want to lose you,
but I can't see through ♪
844
00:29:54,776 --> 00:29:56,293
♪ you reach the surface ♪
845
00:29:56,444 --> 00:29:58,870
♪ tell me that it's
worth it, but ♪
846
00:29:59,023 --> 00:30:00,446
♪ I need to know you.
847
00:30:00,466 --> 00:30:03,467
♪ I need to see through ♪
848
00:30:03,694 --> 00:30:05,544
- I'm trying to be
as optimistic as I can.
849
00:30:05,638 --> 00:30:08,454
But I do want a little more
than a pinky promise.
850
00:30:08,474 --> 00:30:13,051
I'm hoping for a kiss,
for even just a hand graze.
851
00:30:13,145 --> 00:30:14,478
I'm hoping for a look.
852
00:30:14,629 --> 00:30:17,556
I just want to know
that he's interested in me,
853
00:30:17,708 --> 00:30:19,558
Is all I'm kind of
hoping for at this point.
854
00:30:19,652 --> 00:30:21,877
- Hey.
- Hey, hubs.
855
00:30:21,895 --> 00:30:22,969
This is gorgeous.
856
00:30:23,063 --> 00:30:24,488
- Yeah, you look great.
How are you?
857
00:30:24,715 --> 00:30:26,139
- Thanks. I'm good.
858
00:30:26,158 --> 00:30:28,474
I had a great day,
and now I'm hungry, so...
859
00:30:28,494 --> 00:30:29,642
- [chuckles]
right?
860
00:30:29,662 --> 00:30:32,312
- Feeling good,
looking good, both of us.
861
00:30:32,331 --> 00:30:34,239
- Thanks.
- [laughs]
862
00:30:34,333 --> 00:30:35,999
This is so wonderful.
863
00:30:36,226 --> 00:30:37,317
- Yeah.
864
00:30:37,411 --> 00:30:38,743
- Today was my favorite day.
865
00:30:38,838 --> 00:30:40,562
I mean, the wedding was great.
866
00:30:40,655 --> 00:30:41,730
But today was,
like, the first day
867
00:30:41,748 --> 00:30:44,733
That we got to just relax
and have fun.
868
00:30:44,751 --> 00:30:45,843
And I had a lot of fun.
Did you have fun?
869
00:30:46,070 --> 00:30:46,902
- Oh, yeah.
870
00:30:46,920 --> 00:30:49,513
I mean, I--today was great.
871
00:30:49,740 --> 00:30:51,590
I feel, like, set up
for a good time
872
00:30:51,684 --> 00:30:53,350
And I'm looking forward
to getting to know you better.
873
00:30:53,577 --> 00:30:55,168
And I love the fact
that it was fun
874
00:30:55,262 --> 00:30:56,186
To stand-up paddle with you.
875
00:30:56,413 --> 00:30:57,746
I mean, we didn't go out
for that long.
876
00:30:57,839 --> 00:30:59,172
We didn't go out for that far.
877
00:30:59,266 --> 00:31:01,024
And the boards we had
weren't ideal.
878
00:31:01,176 --> 00:31:03,251
But, you know, it was fun,
879
00:31:03,270 --> 00:31:05,921
And, you know, I just--
880
00:31:05,939 --> 00:31:07,364
I was really happy to--
881
00:31:07,515 --> 00:31:09,441
Be able to catch
a few waves and--
882
00:31:09,593 --> 00:31:10,609
And that you didn't mind.
883
00:31:10,703 --> 00:31:12,202
- Of course.
- That was good too, you know?
884
00:31:12,429 --> 00:31:14,779
♪ ♪
885
00:31:14,932 --> 00:31:16,206
- Thank you.
886
00:31:16,433 --> 00:31:18,950
♪ ♪
887
00:31:19,103 --> 00:31:20,377
Cheers.
- Cheers.
888
00:31:20,604 --> 00:31:25,716
♪ ♪
889
00:31:25,943 --> 00:31:28,944
I just really appreciate
that you've been down
890
00:31:29,037 --> 00:31:30,629
To just kind of take it
minute by minute
891
00:31:30,781 --> 00:31:32,781
And not rush into anything.
892
00:31:32,874 --> 00:31:35,708
- I know this is crazy,
but I...
893
00:31:35,802 --> 00:31:37,895
I wouldn't say
I'm sexually frustrated.
894
00:31:38,122 --> 00:31:39,955
This is, like, our third date.
That would be wild.
895
00:31:40,048 --> 00:31:42,566
But I definitely
would be comfortable
896
00:31:42,717 --> 00:31:46,978
Advancing more in the physical,
sexual department.
897
00:31:47,131 --> 00:31:50,482
♪ ♪
898
00:31:50,634 --> 00:31:52,634
- I wish I felt a little bit
more of that at this point.
899
00:31:52,653 --> 00:31:55,579
[dramatic music]
900
00:31:55,806 --> 00:31:59,082
♪ ♪
901
00:31:59,234 --> 00:32:02,252
And it's just not quite there
for me right now.
902
00:32:02,479 --> 00:32:05,088
♪ ♪
903
00:32:05,315 --> 00:32:06,998
And--and...
904
00:32:07,151 --> 00:32:08,500
♪ ♪
905
00:32:08,594 --> 00:32:09,927
Maybe, you know...
906
00:32:10,154 --> 00:32:11,486
♪ ♪
907
00:32:11,579 --> 00:32:14,598
I may not be feeling that
physical attraction with you.
908
00:32:14,825 --> 00:32:17,559
♪ ♪
909
00:32:19,846 --> 00:32:22,255
You know, that's not easy
for either of us.
910
00:32:22,274 --> 00:32:24,090
- Sure, yeah.
911
00:32:24,109 --> 00:32:27,427
- And I'm--you know, I'm
the one with the issue here.
912
00:32:27,446 --> 00:32:28,904
It's not about you.
- Right.
913
00:32:33,268 --> 00:32:36,102
I'm sure that was very hard
to get off your chest.
914
00:32:36,196 --> 00:32:39,181
And I don't fully understand it
915
00:32:39,274 --> 00:32:40,940
Because I can tell
when you look at me
916
00:32:41,034 --> 00:32:43,293
That you think I am attractive.
917
00:32:43,520 --> 00:32:45,537
♪ ♪
918
00:32:45,631 --> 00:32:49,299
- I think the physical part's
a little slower for me.
919
00:32:49,526 --> 00:32:50,859
♪ ♪
920
00:32:50,877 --> 00:32:53,195
And physical attraction
921
00:32:53,288 --> 00:32:54,972
Really has to take
the whole thing in.
922
00:32:55,199 --> 00:32:57,474
I mean, of course
I can look at, I don't know,
923
00:32:57,701 --> 00:33:00,793
Like, a pinup girl,
supermodel, or whatever, and--
924
00:33:00,813 --> 00:33:02,646
And that's kind of--
be sprung or whatever.
925
00:33:02,873 --> 00:33:05,540
But--but even then,
like, I don't know her.
926
00:33:05,633 --> 00:33:07,726
- I am not gonna sit here
and convince you
927
00:33:07,878 --> 00:33:11,471
That I am attractive
and a catch.
928
00:33:11,565 --> 00:33:14,883
- Yeah, you should never
have to do that.
929
00:33:14,976 --> 00:33:16,735
I want things
to develop organically.
930
00:33:16,829 --> 00:33:20,722
And just because I might not
have those feelings right now,
931
00:33:20,741 --> 00:33:23,058
It doesn't mean I'm throwing
in the towel and this--
932
00:33:23,151 --> 00:33:25,393
And gonna--you know, and run.
933
00:33:25,412 --> 00:33:27,229
You know, I'm not
cutting and running.
934
00:33:27,247 --> 00:33:29,231
I'm still in this and committed
935
00:33:29,249 --> 00:33:31,341
To seeing this through with you
day by day.
936
00:33:31,568 --> 00:33:33,401
♪ ♪
937
00:33:33,420 --> 00:33:36,496
- I think that if I poked
and prodded you
938
00:33:36,515 --> 00:33:41,501
For specifics that it would
ultimately just,
939
00:33:41,595 --> 00:33:43,503
You know, hurt my feelings.
940
00:33:43,522 --> 00:33:45,247
Let's take it a day at a time.
941
00:33:45,340 --> 00:33:47,582
Building attraction
over time is fine.
942
00:33:47,601 --> 00:33:50,527
[somber music]
943
00:33:50,754 --> 00:33:56,591
♪ ♪
944
00:33:56,610 --> 00:33:59,928
And I'm still hopeful for that.
945
00:33:59,946 --> 00:34:03,040
♪ ♪
946
00:34:03,267 --> 00:34:05,433
- Me too.
947
00:34:05,452 --> 00:34:06,859
- I am a little confused.
948
00:34:06,879 --> 00:34:08,361
I'm feeling confused.
949
00:34:08,455 --> 00:34:10,714
I just feel blindsided by him
950
00:34:10,865 --> 00:34:15,126
Because his actions are
showing me constantly
951
00:34:15,279 --> 00:34:16,945
That he is into me.
952
00:34:17,038 --> 00:34:18,871
I'm kind of just hoping
he is filled
953
00:34:18,965 --> 00:34:20,706
With anxiety and in his head.
954
00:34:20,726 --> 00:34:22,708
I genuinely believe
that there's a chance
955
00:34:22,803 --> 00:34:24,786
That he could get there
on his own.
956
00:34:24,879 --> 00:34:27,289
But I'm not doing
any convincing.
957
00:34:27,307 --> 00:34:28,807
I'm gonna keep being myself.
958
00:34:28,959 --> 00:34:30,809
I'm gonna have fun.
959
00:34:30,961 --> 00:34:32,627
And even though this is
960
00:34:32,720 --> 00:34:34,312
Probably the worst-case
scenario--
961
00:34:34,464 --> 00:34:37,223
You know, my husband
not being attracted to me--
962
00:34:37,242 --> 00:34:39,467
I think maybe it'd be
different if, like,
963
00:34:39,561 --> 00:34:41,411
We didn't have
so much fun together
964
00:34:41,563 --> 00:34:44,322
And have
such great conversations.
965
00:34:44,416 --> 00:34:45,916
I don't know. But we do.
966
00:34:46,067 --> 00:34:47,325
[soft music]
967
00:34:47,477 --> 00:34:49,160
- Well, thanks for taking--
thanks for just being,
968
00:34:49,313 --> 00:34:51,254
Like, amazing about this.
969
00:34:51,481 --> 00:34:54,591
I mean, this--this could
have been so much worse.
970
00:34:54,742 --> 00:34:59,262
- ♪ it's time to reap
the things I've sown ♪
971
00:34:59,489 --> 00:35:02,081
- You're an amazing person,
and you're a beautiful person.
972
00:35:02,175 --> 00:35:08,271
- ♪ it's time for a rescue ♪
973
00:35:08,498 --> 00:35:10,515
- I think it's good that we're
taking it minute by minute,
974
00:35:10,609 --> 00:35:12,609
And we're both trying.
975
00:35:12,760 --> 00:35:14,260
It's all we can do.
- Totally.
976
00:35:14,279 --> 00:35:16,671
Would you like
some more champagne?
977
00:35:16,690 --> 00:35:18,340
- [bleep] it.
- [laughs]
978
00:35:18,358 --> 00:35:20,266
[upbeat music]
979
00:35:20,360 --> 00:35:21,767
- ♪ now would be the time ♪
980
00:35:21,787 --> 00:35:24,437
♪ just let me know right now ♪
981
00:35:24,456 --> 00:35:28,274
♪ if you can't love me,
just let me go ♪
982
00:35:28,293 --> 00:35:32,129
♪ if you can't love me,
just let me go ♪
983
00:35:32,356 --> 00:35:34,189
- Look at this setup.
- This is beautiful.
984
00:35:34,207 --> 00:35:36,358
- Yeah.
You have a nice view behind me?
985
00:35:36,376 --> 00:35:38,042
- I have a nice view
in front of me.
986
00:35:38,137 --> 00:35:39,210
- Oh, I like that.
987
00:35:39,304 --> 00:35:40,971
- [laughs]
988
00:35:41,198 --> 00:35:42,973
- I like the intimate moments
that we have.
989
00:35:43,200 --> 00:35:45,200
- Like what?
- Like just--like this.
990
00:35:45,218 --> 00:35:46,368
Like, we're just talking.
991
00:35:46,386 --> 00:35:48,794
And it's refreshing,
but it's also like,
992
00:35:48,814 --> 00:35:51,222
You coming around with
your emotions, and I dig it.
993
00:35:51,316 --> 00:35:54,559
- Every time I express
my emotions just is hard.
994
00:35:54,711 --> 00:35:57,045
Like, I feel like
vulnerability essentially
995
00:35:57,063 --> 00:36:00,048
Means that you're allowing
somebody else to hurt you.
996
00:36:00,141 --> 00:36:02,050
You're showing
all your cards at once.
997
00:36:02,068 --> 00:36:03,976
So for me, it's like,
you never do that.
998
00:36:03,996 --> 00:36:06,554
You never let somebody
have the upper hand.
999
00:36:06,648 --> 00:36:09,240
And if you can make me happy,
1000
00:36:09,334 --> 00:36:11,393
Then you also have the ability
to make me sad,
1001
00:36:11,486 --> 00:36:12,744
Angry, upset, and everything.
1002
00:36:12,896 --> 00:36:15,172
And I don't want you to have
that control over me.
1003
00:36:15,399 --> 00:36:17,507
Like, yes, I would like you
to contribute to my happiness,
1004
00:36:17,734 --> 00:36:19,158
But I don't want you
to be the main source of it,
1005
00:36:19,178 --> 00:36:21,586
Because then if you go,
my happiness goes.
1006
00:36:21,738 --> 00:36:22,995
And I want to be happy
on my own.
1007
00:36:23,089 --> 00:36:24,514
But I still want
to enjoy your company.
1008
00:36:24,741 --> 00:36:25,924
♪ ♪
1009
00:36:26,018 --> 00:36:28,243
You're made for me, you know?
1010
00:36:28,261 --> 00:36:29,744
Like, I need you.
1011
00:36:29,763 --> 00:36:30,929
Ugh!
1012
00:36:31,023 --> 00:36:32,522
Oh, my gosh, my stomach.
1013
00:36:32,674 --> 00:36:35,266
Oh, my goodness.
1014
00:36:35,360 --> 00:36:36,434
No, like, I meant it.
1015
00:36:36,586 --> 00:36:37,435
But the fact that I meant it
and was...
1016
00:36:37,587 --> 00:36:38,344
- Oh, I know. Oh, I know.
1017
00:36:38,438 --> 00:36:39,587
- My body knew
that I meant it,
1018
00:36:39,681 --> 00:36:41,364
Oh, my gosh,
and I said it out loud
1019
00:36:41,591 --> 00:36:42,757
To another human being.
- Say it one more time.
1020
00:36:42,850 --> 00:36:43,775
- I will not--
- say it one more time.
1021
00:36:43,927 --> 00:36:45,685
- You get one next year,
once a year.
1022
00:36:45,704 --> 00:36:47,445
- Once a year?
- Mm. Annually.
1023
00:36:47,597 --> 00:36:48,872
- Yeah?
- Annually.
1024
00:36:49,099 --> 00:36:50,114
- Okay.
1025
00:36:50,267 --> 00:36:51,875
- Golly, baby steps.
1026
00:36:52,102 --> 00:36:53,952
I don't think
you know this feeling.
1027
00:36:54,046 --> 00:36:56,120
Like, it almost hurts.
1028
00:36:56,215 --> 00:36:59,941
Like, oh, like, every nice word
that comes out of me
1029
00:36:59,960 --> 00:37:01,960
Is like, "ugh!"
1030
00:37:02,112 --> 00:37:04,279
This is so not like me.
1031
00:37:04,297 --> 00:37:05,555
Oh!
1032
00:37:05,782 --> 00:37:06,781
Oh, gosh.
1033
00:37:06,800 --> 00:37:09,300
I just met you
x amount of days ago.
1034
00:37:09,453 --> 00:37:11,210
- I like when you're
emotional around me.
1035
00:37:11,304 --> 00:37:13,212
- I know.
You keep just egging it on.
1036
00:37:13,306 --> 00:37:15,381
- Mm-hmm.
- Just egging it on.
1037
00:37:15,400 --> 00:37:17,125
- I'ma bring so much out.
I like it.
1038
00:37:17,143 --> 00:37:19,794
I'm looking forward to being
the best husband I can be
1039
00:37:19,813 --> 00:37:21,887
To you, being the best
version of myself,
1040
00:37:21,982 --> 00:37:23,314
And bringing out
the best in you.
1041
00:37:23,467 --> 00:37:26,301
I want to do whatever it takes
to keep you, you know?
1042
00:37:26,394 --> 00:37:29,320
I know I want kids by you.
You know?
1043
00:37:29,473 --> 00:37:31,306
And I know I want to spend
the rest of my life with you,
1044
00:37:31,399 --> 00:37:32,582
'cause, like,
when I think about you,
1045
00:37:32,734 --> 00:37:33,825
I think about my partner,
you know what I'm saying,
1046
00:37:33,919 --> 00:37:34,976
My lifelong partner--
1047
00:37:34,995 --> 00:37:37,254
Lifelong partner.
1048
00:37:37,481 --> 00:37:38,830
- How do you know,
like, you want to spend
1049
00:37:38,982 --> 00:37:40,090
The rest of my life--
'cause, you know--
1050
00:37:40,317 --> 00:37:42,259
- 'cause I love you.
1051
00:37:42,486 --> 00:37:46,154
- [laughing]
1052
00:37:46,247 --> 00:37:47,264
Excuse me?
1053
00:37:47,415 --> 00:37:48,673
- I love you.
1054
00:37:48,825 --> 00:37:49,841
And I'm in love with you.
1055
00:37:49,935 --> 00:37:51,659
And it's not hard,
you know what I'm saying?
1056
00:37:51,678 --> 00:37:52,844
Like, I think it'd be--
1057
00:37:52,996 --> 00:37:54,437
I think guys would be
a fool if they didn't.
1058
00:37:54,664 --> 00:37:56,088
- You didn't have to say it.
- I don't mind.
1059
00:37:56,182 --> 00:37:57,423
- You don't have to.
- I don't mind.
1060
00:37:57,442 --> 00:37:58,924
You know what?
1061
00:37:58,944 --> 00:38:01,278
Like, the reason I'm okay
and comfortable with saying it
1062
00:38:01,505 --> 00:38:03,171
Is 'cause you made it
easy for me to say it.
1063
00:38:03,264 --> 00:38:04,856
You created
a comfort zone for me.
1064
00:38:05,008 --> 00:38:07,600
You just--
you make me comfortable.
1065
00:38:07,619 --> 00:38:09,935
And I know it comes
with a risk, but I'm willing.
1066
00:38:09,955 --> 00:38:10,954
I'm willing to take that risk.
1067
00:38:11,181 --> 00:38:13,272
So I'm telling you
exactly what I feel.
1068
00:38:13,366 --> 00:38:15,850
I knew at the altar that--
1069
00:38:15,869 --> 00:38:17,294
I was like,
"I'm gonna love this woman."
1070
00:38:17,445 --> 00:38:19,796
Does it scare you?
1071
00:38:19,947 --> 00:38:21,356
- Yes and no.
1072
00:38:21,449 --> 00:38:25,117
It scares me
because it's unfamiliar.
1073
00:38:25,211 --> 00:38:27,137
But, like, I shouldn't be
afraid of something like this,
1074
00:38:27,364 --> 00:38:28,120
You know?
1075
00:38:28,214 --> 00:38:29,306
- I'm sorry if that scares you.
1076
00:38:29,533 --> 00:38:32,291
♪ ♪
1077
00:38:32,385 --> 00:38:33,718
How are you feeling?
1078
00:38:33,870 --> 00:38:35,812
- Like I want to walk away.
1079
00:38:41,878 --> 00:38:43,878
♪ ♪
1080
00:38:43,897 --> 00:38:46,305
- Can you see yourself
falling in love with me?
1081
00:38:46,325 --> 00:38:47,324
- Maybe.
1082
00:38:47,551 --> 00:38:48,383
You want me to say
"I love you"?
1083
00:38:48,401 --> 00:38:49,567
'cause it's too much for me
1084
00:38:49,661 --> 00:38:50,902
Right now in this very moment.
1085
00:38:51,054 --> 00:38:52,554
And I can't.
I'm not willing to.
1086
00:38:52,572 --> 00:38:57,058
♪ ♪
1087
00:38:57,077 --> 00:39:03,006
Etter ♪
1088
00:39:03,233 --> 00:39:04,082
- Maybe.
1089
00:39:04,176 --> 00:39:05,491
You want me to say,
"I love you"?
1090
00:39:05,585 --> 00:39:06,343
'cause it's too much for me
1091
00:39:06,494 --> 00:39:07,677
Right now in this very moment.
1092
00:39:07,829 --> 00:39:09,495
And I can't.
I'm not willing to.
1093
00:39:09,514 --> 00:39:11,497
[somber music]
1094
00:39:11,516 --> 00:39:13,575
I'm not ready to say
I love him yet.
1095
00:39:13,593 --> 00:39:15,352
So I want to make sure.
1096
00:39:15,579 --> 00:39:17,837
And I also--it's hard
to pull yourself out.
1097
00:39:17,931 --> 00:39:20,190
If you really love somebody,
like, I love them forever.
1098
00:39:20,417 --> 00:39:23,860
So for me, it's just like,
I need to know for sure.
1099
00:39:24,087 --> 00:39:27,197
♪ ♪
1100
00:39:27,348 --> 00:39:29,774
This too much for you?
1101
00:39:29,868 --> 00:39:32,093
Okay. Now look at me.
1102
00:39:32,112 --> 00:39:33,111
Is this too much for you?
1103
00:39:33,205 --> 00:39:34,445
- Mm-mm.
- You sure?
1104
00:39:34,539 --> 00:39:37,189
♪ ♪
1105
00:39:37,283 --> 00:39:39,784
You sure?
- Mm-hmm.
1106
00:39:39,878 --> 00:39:42,437
I don't know, you just--
1107
00:39:42,530 --> 00:39:44,196
When I saw you,
you was everything
1108
00:39:44,216 --> 00:39:47,366
If I had to design
my perfect person.
1109
00:39:47,460 --> 00:39:49,219
And then every single day,
1110
00:39:49,446 --> 00:39:51,796
You just made it easy
to just open up.
1111
00:39:51,890 --> 00:39:54,039
You made it easy to just--
to just be honest.
1112
00:39:54,134 --> 00:39:58,061
You made it easy for me to
walk around the resort naked.
1113
00:39:58,212 --> 00:39:59,637
Deadass,
you know what I'm saying?
1114
00:39:59,731 --> 00:40:01,046
I don't feel judged.
You know what I'm saying?
1115
00:40:01,141 --> 00:40:02,473
I don't feel like--
1116
00:40:02,626 --> 00:40:04,550
I don't feel uncomfortable,
you know what I'm saying?
1117
00:40:04,644 --> 00:40:06,218
And so I felt that.
1118
00:40:06,238 --> 00:40:09,130
It's almost like if someone--
like, when we was at the altar,
1119
00:40:09,149 --> 00:40:10,798
It was like everything
was just before our eyes,
1120
00:40:10,817 --> 00:40:11,891
You know what I'm saying?
1121
00:40:11,910 --> 00:40:13,968
And I don't know.
1122
00:40:14,061 --> 00:40:15,578
I do.
That's what I feel.
1123
00:40:15,805 --> 00:40:16,729
That's what I feel
in the moment.
1124
00:40:16,823 --> 00:40:17,805
And it's not lust.
1125
00:40:17,824 --> 00:40:19,657
It's not anything else.
1126
00:40:19,809 --> 00:40:21,901
Like, I genuinely want to spend
1127
00:40:21,920 --> 00:40:23,645
The rest of my life with you,
you know?
1128
00:40:23,663 --> 00:40:26,330
They say love at first sight
is a thing that--
1129
00:40:26,425 --> 00:40:28,316
They say it's not,
but I think it's a thing.
1130
00:40:28,334 --> 00:40:29,484
You know?
1131
00:40:29,502 --> 00:40:31,428
And I fell in love
with you at the altar.
1132
00:40:33,414 --> 00:40:34,580
I'm sorry if that scares you.
1133
00:40:34,599 --> 00:40:36,658
- No, it doesn't.
It doesn't.
1134
00:40:36,676 --> 00:40:38,601
It doesn't. It doesn't.
1135
00:40:43,275 --> 00:40:44,999
Does this feel like--
does it feel like to you
1136
00:40:45,018 --> 00:40:46,592
That I love you?
- Yes.
1137
00:40:46,686 --> 00:40:49,170
- Hmm. Hmm.
- Mm-hmm.
1138
00:40:49,263 --> 00:40:50,855
- Hmm.
- It does. I mean--
1139
00:40:51,007 --> 00:40:52,449
- So it doesn't matter
if I never tell you.
1140
00:40:52,600 --> 00:40:53,508
- It's okay.
1141
00:40:53,601 --> 00:40:54,767
I go by actions
more than words.
1142
00:40:54,786 --> 00:40:57,102
Every moment with you
has been perfect.
1143
00:40:57,122 --> 00:41:00,123
[upbeat music]
1144
00:41:00,274 --> 00:41:02,033
It's not guaranteed that she's
gonna fall in love with me.
1145
00:41:02,127 --> 00:41:04,535
It's not guaranteed that this
marriage is gonna work out.
1146
00:41:04,688 --> 00:41:07,112
But I'm optimistic
and I feel hopeful.
1147
00:41:07,207 --> 00:41:10,191
And I feel like if I continue--
specifically I continue
1148
00:41:10,284 --> 00:41:11,876
Connecting with her emotions,
1149
00:41:12,028 --> 00:41:13,528
Then I'ma win her heart.
1150
00:41:13,621 --> 00:41:17,974
I want you to be aware of where
I stand and just where we are.
1151
00:41:18,201 --> 00:41:19,383
I love you.
1152
00:41:19,536 --> 00:41:21,478
Whenever you are--
when you are ready, I'm here.
1153
00:41:21,629 --> 00:41:26,131
- ♪ all I need is your love ♪
1154
00:41:26,226 --> 00:41:29,486
♪ your love is all I need ♪
1155
00:41:32,824 --> 00:41:36,734
[dance music]
1156
00:41:36,886 --> 00:41:39,737
- ♪ I don't really care
about the way that you move ♪
1157
00:41:39,831 --> 00:41:43,241
♪ 'cause you move me right,
move me right ♪
1158
00:41:43,335 --> 00:41:46,728
♪ ♪
1159
00:41:46,821 --> 00:41:48,487
- I don't really drink wine.
1160
00:41:48,507 --> 00:41:50,398
- Oh, yeah.
- I drink, like, beer.
1161
00:41:50,491 --> 00:41:51,916
So...
- Yeah, I'm not--
1162
00:41:52,068 --> 00:41:53,176
- I'm gonna look like
I'm enjoying this.
1163
00:41:53,403 --> 00:41:54,677
- Oh, yeah.
You want to do a picture?
1164
00:41:54,829 --> 00:41:56,829
You want to do it?
- Yes. Okay.
1165
00:41:56,848 --> 00:41:58,256
- Cheers to...
- Cheers to--
1166
00:41:58,408 --> 00:42:00,165
- A good night
and then a good honeymoon.
1167
00:42:00,260 --> 00:42:01,576
- And your birthday.
1168
00:42:01,669 --> 00:42:03,261
- And my birthday.
- Yes, yes.
1169
00:42:03,355 --> 00:42:05,429
♪ ♪
1170
00:42:05,524 --> 00:42:07,582
Melissa in the blue dress
does the kickboxing with me.
1171
00:42:07,675 --> 00:42:10,026
She's one that got me into it.
1172
00:42:10,253 --> 00:42:11,936
Yeah, she'll show you
her tooth.
1173
00:42:12,088 --> 00:42:13,029
- Oh, you fought her?
1174
00:42:13,256 --> 00:42:14,531
You hit her?
1175
00:42:14,758 --> 00:42:16,348
So I gotta--
- we weren't fighting.
1176
00:42:16,442 --> 00:42:17,867
Okay, let me--let me
1177
00:42:18,094 --> 00:42:19,702
Explain the physics
of what was happening.
1178
00:42:19,929 --> 00:42:23,114
So we're focusing
on, like, grabbing
1179
00:42:23,266 --> 00:42:24,615
And kneeing them in the face.
1180
00:42:24,709 --> 00:42:27,192
But the glove wasn't
close enough to her chest,
1181
00:42:27,212 --> 00:42:29,528
So I kneed her in the face,
and it chipped her tooth.
1182
00:42:29,622 --> 00:42:31,439
- I like my smile.
1183
00:42:31,457 --> 00:42:34,125
I like my smile, so I'm scared
of our first fight.
1184
00:42:34,219 --> 00:42:35,552
- Oh, god.
1185
00:42:35,779 --> 00:42:37,111
- My wife--
I definitely feel like
1186
00:42:37,204 --> 00:42:38,963
She could be an alpha female.
1187
00:42:39,115 --> 00:42:41,391
She broke her friend's tooth
doing muay thai,
1188
00:42:41,542 --> 00:42:44,227
So I'm definitely not gonna
get on her bad side.
1189
00:42:44,454 --> 00:42:47,880
♪ ♪
1190
00:42:47,899 --> 00:42:49,457
- Hello.
- Hi.
1191
00:42:49,550 --> 00:42:50,716
- Hi.
- Hi, how are you?
1192
00:42:50,735 --> 00:42:51,976
- Hi, there.
- Pretty good.
1193
00:42:52,070 --> 00:42:53,236
I see you.
1194
00:42:53,463 --> 00:42:55,738
- Well, it's really nice
to meet you guys finally.
1195
00:42:55,890 --> 00:42:57,407
I'm sure you've been
very anxious
1196
00:42:57,558 --> 00:42:59,483
For whoever I was, so...
1197
00:42:59,578 --> 00:43:02,970
- Yeah, actually, excited
and nervous, you know,
1198
00:43:02,989 --> 00:43:06,474
Because he been with me
for a long time.
1199
00:43:06,567 --> 00:43:08,142
- Yeah, and I love that too.
1200
00:43:08,161 --> 00:43:10,253
I love how he has a really good
relationship with his family.
1201
00:43:14,259 --> 00:43:15,574
- A mom's son.
1202
00:43:15,594 --> 00:43:17,151
- I love that.
1203
00:43:17,244 --> 00:43:18,152
- How many children
do you want?
1204
00:43:18,171 --> 00:43:20,154
[laughter]
1205
00:43:20,247 --> 00:43:21,764
It's okay. I was just joking.
1206
00:43:21,991 --> 00:43:23,174
That's a little much.
I did not--
1207
00:43:23,326 --> 00:43:24,917
- No, I definitely--
1208
00:43:25,011 --> 00:43:26,160
- Do you want a family?
1209
00:43:26,253 --> 00:43:27,252
- I definitely--I love kids.
1210
00:43:27,272 --> 00:43:28,938
Like, I'm open.
1211
00:43:29,090 --> 00:43:29,831
How many would you like?
1212
00:43:29,924 --> 00:43:31,165
Or is that something that--
1213
00:43:31,184 --> 00:43:33,351
- I have--I don't know.
1214
00:43:33,503 --> 00:43:34,777
I'm not gonna say.
You'll have to ask her.
1215
00:43:34,929 --> 00:43:36,446
- Okay, I'll ask her.
[laughter]
1216
00:43:36,597 --> 00:43:39,357
- It is traditional,
like, the--
1217
00:43:39,509 --> 00:43:44,028
The oldest son in the family
have children.
1218
00:43:44,180 --> 00:43:47,198
So I just wonder
how many you like to have.
1219
00:43:47,292 --> 00:43:48,625
[laughter]
1220
00:43:48,852 --> 00:43:50,442
- Oh, gosh.
1221
00:43:50,536 --> 00:43:52,945
[quirky music]
1222
00:43:53,039 --> 00:43:56,132
I want to do a lot with my life
before I'm able to, like,
1223
00:43:56,283 --> 00:43:58,134
Even think
about having children.
1224
00:43:58,285 --> 00:43:59,952
But, you know,
being married now,
1225
00:43:59,971 --> 00:44:01,971
That's--if that's something
that's really important
1226
00:44:02,198 --> 00:44:03,698
To binh, then I think
that's something
1227
00:44:03,716 --> 00:44:05,549
That we should talk about.
1228
00:44:05,644 --> 00:44:09,036
♪ ♪
1229
00:44:09,055 --> 00:44:10,554
- And do you know
if she wants to have--
1230
00:44:10,649 --> 00:44:12,223
Or is that a discussion
I have to have with her?
1231
00:44:12,317 --> 00:44:16,468
- You know, she is kind of
leaning more on the,
1232
00:44:16,562 --> 00:44:17,728
"I don't want kids."
1233
00:44:17,881 --> 00:44:20,047
- I definitely--
I definitely love children,
1234
00:44:20,066 --> 00:44:22,049
So that's something
that I would want to have.
1235
00:44:22,068 --> 00:44:26,554
- I remember asking her,
"if you met the right person,
1236
00:44:26,572 --> 00:44:29,332
Would you change your mind
and have children?"
1237
00:44:29,483 --> 00:44:32,484
And she said,
"I think I would."
1238
00:44:32,504 --> 00:44:34,003
So hopefully...
1239
00:44:34,155 --> 00:44:35,913
[laughter]
you can change her mind.
1240
00:44:36,007 --> 00:44:38,508
[laughter]
1241
00:44:38,735 --> 00:44:40,343
- So what are your expectations
for tonight?
1242
00:44:40,494 --> 00:44:41,678
I mean,
it's your wedding night.
1243
00:44:41,905 --> 00:44:43,921
- Yeah.
- Do you have expectations?
1244
00:44:44,073 --> 00:44:45,848
- What are your expectations?
1245
00:44:46,000 --> 00:44:47,350
- I'm coming into it
open-minded.
1246
00:44:47,577 --> 00:44:48,910
I'm not coming in to it
being like,
1247
00:44:49,003 --> 00:44:50,169
"it's gonna happen
one way or another."
1248
00:44:50,263 --> 00:44:53,764
But I'm just open
to whatever happens, happens.
1249
00:44:53,858 --> 00:44:55,191
- I mean, do you feel
the same for the honeymoon?
1250
00:44:55,342 --> 00:44:57,601
Or--is it, like,
the whole process?
1251
00:44:57,696 --> 00:44:59,845
Like, you're just like,
"whatever happens, happens"?
1252
00:44:59,939 --> 00:45:02,031
Or you feel like you're gonna
be like, "okay, you're cute."
1253
00:45:02,258 --> 00:45:03,682
- I gotta make moves?
- Yeah, "you cute.
1254
00:45:03,702 --> 00:45:05,109
Like, can we"...
1255
00:45:05,203 --> 00:45:06,260
[laughter]
1256
00:45:06,279 --> 00:45:07,611
'cause she can get nasty.
1257
00:45:07,706 --> 00:45:08,871
- Oh, no.
[laughter]
1258
00:45:16,289 --> 00:45:19,941
♪ ♪
1259
00:45:19,959 --> 00:45:24,887
- So my mom had called me
a little while ago,
1260
00:45:25,039 --> 00:45:26,630
And she was just asking
how everything was going.
1261
00:45:26,725 --> 00:45:27,798
- Really?
1262
00:45:27,951 --> 00:45:30,451
- I told her, yeah,
it was going good.
1263
00:45:30,470 --> 00:45:32,711
And I asked her,
like, how did she feel
1264
00:45:32,805 --> 00:45:35,306
About you and the brunch?
1265
00:45:35,458 --> 00:45:38,217
And she was like, "oh, I just
think you guys are perfect."
1266
00:45:38,236 --> 00:45:40,294
- Wow.
1267
00:45:40,313 --> 00:45:41,479
- She did bring up
one thing, though.
1268
00:45:41,573 --> 00:45:42,797
- What's that?
1269
00:45:42,890 --> 00:45:45,649
- She did say something
about a bankruptcy.
1270
00:45:45,802 --> 00:45:48,745
- The business that I ran,
I had to do, like, a bankruptcy
1271
00:45:48,896 --> 00:45:49,820
For that business.
1272
00:45:49,914 --> 00:45:53,082
And we had to dissolve
the business.
1273
00:45:53,234 --> 00:45:55,977
And then we had
some debts tied to it as well.
1274
00:45:55,995 --> 00:45:57,736
[dramatic music]
1275
00:45:57,756 --> 00:46:00,239
Yeah.
1276
00:46:00,333 --> 00:46:02,258
So I was running a business.
1277
00:46:02,409 --> 00:46:04,318
I partnered up with a guy.
1278
00:46:04,337 --> 00:46:06,337
We funded the business
with our personal money.
1279
00:46:06,489 --> 00:46:08,339
I put my heart--
how do you say it?
1280
00:46:08,491 --> 00:46:09,657
Blood, sweat,
and tears into it.
1281
00:46:09,675 --> 00:46:11,100
- Yeah.
1282
00:46:11,327 --> 00:46:14,345
- And, you know,
we filed bankruptcy on it.
1283
00:46:14,497 --> 00:46:16,180
My credit got messed up.
1284
00:46:16,332 --> 00:46:17,607
It was--it was
devastating to me.
1285
00:46:17,758 --> 00:46:21,110
And that was the whole reason
why I moved to san diego,
1286
00:46:21,262 --> 00:46:23,854
Just to get a restart
and just, like, move forward...
1287
00:46:24,007 --> 00:46:25,856
- Okay.
- With my life.
1288
00:46:26,009 --> 00:46:27,283
- So that's all in the past?
1289
00:46:27,434 --> 00:46:29,677
- Yeah, it's in the past.
- It doesn't show up anymore?
1290
00:46:29,695 --> 00:46:30,845
It wouldn't hinder us
going forward?
1291
00:46:30,863 --> 00:46:31,954
- No, no.
1292
00:46:32,181 --> 00:46:35,274
Within six months,
like, everything is--
1293
00:46:35,368 --> 00:46:36,775
It's almost like a reset.
1294
00:46:36,795 --> 00:46:38,702
And so eventually,
your credit score
1295
00:46:38,855 --> 00:46:41,355
Goes back to normal.
1296
00:46:41,374 --> 00:46:45,968
- I would say I have
some yellow flags.
1297
00:46:46,120 --> 00:46:48,379
Finances in general are
just important to me.
1298
00:46:48,473 --> 00:46:51,307
I have worked really hard
for what I have.
1299
00:46:51,534 --> 00:46:54,885
I've--don't want to struggle
if I don't have to.
1300
00:46:55,038 --> 00:46:57,647
And I want to make sure
that if I have a family
1301
00:46:57,874 --> 00:47:01,633
That it is going to be
successful.
1302
00:47:01,727 --> 00:47:03,711
You know, I know stuff
is gonna happen,
1303
00:47:03,729 --> 00:47:07,806
But I don't want
to introduce more stress
1304
00:47:07,900 --> 00:47:09,808
When it doesn't need
to be introduced.
1305
00:47:09,828 --> 00:47:14,238
I do feel like it's beneficial
1306
00:47:14,390 --> 00:47:16,815
To have a post-nup.
1307
00:47:16,835 --> 00:47:18,317
- A who?
1308
00:47:18,336 --> 00:47:20,002
- A post-nup, so like a prenup,
1309
00:47:20,154 --> 00:47:21,320
But since
we're already married,
1310
00:47:21,339 --> 00:47:23,898
To just kind of protect
my assets.
1311
00:47:23,916 --> 00:47:27,009
[tense music]
1312
00:47:27,236 --> 00:47:30,012
I'm trying to be
as open as possible
1313
00:47:30,164 --> 00:47:32,239
As long as bills
are being paid.
1314
00:47:32,258 --> 00:47:35,092
But I do want to protect
my assets.
1315
00:47:35,244 --> 00:47:36,519
That's a dealbreaker for me.
1316
00:47:36,670 --> 00:47:39,355
If nate doesn't want
to sign it, then I'm done.
1317
00:47:39,582 --> 00:47:41,673
- Dang, you don't have
faith in your boy?
1318
00:47:41,767 --> 00:47:44,418
- I don't know what, you know,
could possibly happen.
1319
00:47:44,437 --> 00:47:48,255
♪ ♪
1320
00:47:48,274 --> 00:47:50,424
- This is a crash course
to understand
1321
00:47:50,443 --> 00:47:52,368
If we're gonna be compatible
or not.
1322
00:47:52,595 --> 00:47:54,945
And if you want to do that,
that's fair.
1323
00:47:55,039 --> 00:47:56,372
♪ ♪
1324
00:47:56,599 --> 00:47:57,856
- Okay.
- Yeah.
1325
00:47:57,876 --> 00:47:59,116
Whatever makes you
feel comfortable.
1326
00:47:59,268 --> 00:48:00,525
- I appreciate that.
1327
00:48:00,545 --> 00:48:02,861
- Cheers to comfortability,
if that's even a word.
1328
00:48:02,955 --> 00:48:03,954
- Cheers to a post-nup.
1329
00:48:04,048 --> 00:48:06,107
- Oh, my gosh.
1330
00:48:06,125 --> 00:48:08,200
We've only known each other
for three days,
1331
00:48:08,294 --> 00:48:10,794
So I want to be practical
about her--
1332
00:48:10,947 --> 00:48:12,129
Her recommendation.
1333
00:48:12,281 --> 00:48:15,616
Finances is important
for any relationship.
1334
00:48:15,635 --> 00:48:18,135
But it still hurts
because I feel
1335
00:48:18,287 --> 00:48:19,970
Like she doesn't trust me.
1336
00:48:20,123 --> 00:48:22,547
So I have a lot of work
to do to build trust.
1337
00:48:22,567 --> 00:48:23,566
It doesn't happen overnight.
1338
00:48:23,793 --> 00:48:26,718
And I'm all for it.
1339
00:48:26,812 --> 00:48:28,821
- So what about, like, kids?
1340
00:48:34,153 --> 00:48:35,578
- Kids?
1341
00:48:35,729 --> 00:48:37,821
- Why you do that?
1342
00:48:37,916 --> 00:48:40,991
- You know, you being
a little bit older than me,
1343
00:48:41,144 --> 00:48:41,900
You tell me.
1344
00:48:41,994 --> 00:48:44,086
Like, what is your timeline
1345
00:48:44,238 --> 00:48:45,755
When you want actual kids?
1346
00:48:45,906 --> 00:48:46,756
- In a year.
1347
00:48:46,907 --> 00:48:48,907
- In a year?
1348
00:48:48,927 --> 00:48:49,926
Okay.
1349
00:48:52,004 --> 00:48:53,745
You being deadass right now?
- Yeah, I'm being deadass.
1350
00:48:53,839 --> 00:48:54,838
- Like, for real?
1351
00:48:54,991 --> 00:48:57,266
365 days? That's fast.
1352
00:48:57,418 --> 00:49:00,327
- I would want to know
where we are in life in a year.
1353
00:49:00,346 --> 00:49:03,088
If we're rocky,
I might not be, like,
1354
00:49:03,107 --> 00:49:04,498
"oh, I want to have kids
right now."
1355
00:49:04,591 --> 00:49:07,851
- I definitely want to have
kids sooner than later.
1356
00:49:08,004 --> 00:49:11,096
But my ideal was,
like, two to three years,
1357
00:49:11,115 --> 00:49:12,523
Give or take, or...
- Okay
1358
00:49:12,675 --> 00:49:14,099
- But it has to be
with the right person.
1359
00:49:14,118 --> 00:49:15,192
And like, you're definitely--
1360
00:49:15,344 --> 00:49:16,527
- What do you mean
"the right person"?
1361
00:49:16,621 --> 00:49:19,196
We're married.
1362
00:49:19,348 --> 00:49:20,364
Like, I want a relationship.
1363
00:49:20,458 --> 00:49:21,791
I want a family.
1364
00:49:22,018 --> 00:49:23,626
That's my priority.
1365
00:49:23,777 --> 00:49:26,187
Everything else is
kind of secondary to that now.
1366
00:49:26,205 --> 00:49:29,373
♪ ♪
1367
00:49:29,525 --> 00:49:33,952
- ♪ oh,
you're so good for me ♪
1368
00:49:34,046 --> 00:49:37,807
[upbeat music]
1369
00:49:37,958 --> 00:49:41,535
- And now it's time
for the cutting of our cake.
1370
00:49:41,554 --> 00:49:42,870
♪ ♪
1371
00:49:42,888 --> 00:49:44,629
- Okay, put some muscles
into it.
1372
00:49:44,724 --> 00:49:46,965
There we go. There we go.
There we go.
1373
00:49:46,985 --> 00:49:48,726
Yeah, yeah, there we go.
There we go.
1374
00:49:48,878 --> 00:49:52,304
[cheers and applause]
1375
00:49:52,323 --> 00:49:54,398
I got married at first sight
1376
00:49:54,550 --> 00:49:56,492
Because I wanted
the opportunity
1377
00:49:56,643 --> 00:49:58,402
To meet my perfect person.
1378
00:49:58,496 --> 00:50:00,554
- You want a big piece?
- Sure, that's fine.
1379
00:50:00,647 --> 00:50:03,390
Love, love, love, love
that he's so driven.
1380
00:50:03,409 --> 00:50:06,002
And he's also so warm,
and he's so nice.
1381
00:50:06,153 --> 00:50:08,838
So I cannot wait to see
where this is gonna go.
1382
00:50:08,989 --> 00:50:14,084
- ♪ oooh, where we go
when we are alone ♪
1383
00:50:14,237 --> 00:50:15,160
- I hope this marriage is
1384
00:50:15,254 --> 00:50:17,496
The best experience
of my life.
1385
00:50:17,590 --> 00:50:20,832
I want that love
and that passion.
1386
00:50:20,852 --> 00:50:23,335
And I want to build
something that lasts.
1387
00:50:23,354 --> 00:50:24,669
- ♪ let's come together ♪
1388
00:50:24,689 --> 00:50:26,413
[all cheering]
1389
00:50:26,432 --> 00:50:28,858
♪ feeling this love
lasts forever ♪
1390
00:50:29,009 --> 00:50:31,435
- This feels so surreal
'cause I woke up single.
1391
00:50:31,587 --> 00:50:32,361
Today, I'm married.
1392
00:50:32,588 --> 00:50:34,679
I'm super grateful
that the experts
1393
00:50:34,774 --> 00:50:36,181
Matched me with morgan.
1394
00:50:36,200 --> 00:50:39,017
She's ambitious, fun, cute.
1395
00:50:39,037 --> 00:50:41,095
Morgan is definitely
checking off all my boxes,
1396
00:50:41,113 --> 00:50:42,204
Except for the muay thai.
1397
00:50:42,431 --> 00:50:43,522
I'm kind of scared.
1398
00:50:43,541 --> 00:50:46,767
- ♪ let's come together ♪
1399
00:50:46,786 --> 00:50:48,269
- Hi.
- Hey.
1400
00:50:48,287 --> 00:50:49,879
- We made it.
- Yup.
1401
00:50:50,030 --> 00:50:50,938
- Gotta go
to the honeymoon suite now.
1402
00:50:50,956 --> 00:50:51,881
- Okay.
1403
00:50:52,032 --> 00:50:53,123
You cool with being
a small spoon?
1404
00:50:53,276 --> 00:50:54,550
Or is that something--
1405
00:50:54,701 --> 00:50:56,201
- Oh, are you a little spoon,
or are you a big spoon?
1406
00:50:56,220 --> 00:50:57,386
- I'm cool with being
a big spoon.
1407
00:50:57,613 --> 00:50:59,221
- Oh, big spoon?
Okay, that's fine.
1408
00:50:59,373 --> 00:51:02,040
I can do, like, a little
jetpack action and like--
1409
00:51:02,060 --> 00:51:03,617
- You want to be big spoon?
Okay.
1410
00:51:03,636 --> 00:51:05,135
- I mean, I could be
if you want me to.
1411
00:51:05,229 --> 00:51:06,562
I don't know.
- ♪ let's come together ♪
1412
00:51:06,713 --> 00:51:13,644
[both laugh]
1413
00:51:13,738 --> 00:51:19,466
♪ whoa,
never want to let you down ♪
1414
00:51:19,485 --> 00:51:21,059
- You want me to pick you up?
- No.
1415
00:51:21,079 --> 00:51:22,152
No, you don't have to do that.
1416
00:51:22,305 --> 00:51:23,395
No, absolutely not. That's--
1417
00:51:23,414 --> 00:51:25,397
- I'm just kidding.
- No.
1418
00:51:25,491 --> 00:51:28,900
Maybe if we buy a home one day,
then we can do that.
1419
00:51:28,994 --> 00:51:32,737
But...Let's look.
1420
00:51:32,832 --> 00:51:34,924
Oh, this is cute.
1421
00:51:35,075 --> 00:51:40,078
- ♪ whoa, I never
want to let you down ♪
1422
00:51:40,172 --> 00:51:41,338
- So how are you doing?
1423
00:51:41,432 --> 00:51:42,323
- I'm good. How are you?
1424
00:51:42,341 --> 00:51:44,174
Is it relief?
[both laugh]
1425
00:51:44,327 --> 00:51:45,993
I think one word is relieved.
1426
00:51:46,011 --> 00:51:48,420
- I'm, like, so relieved.
- I definitely feel good.
1427
00:51:48,439 --> 00:51:50,164
I feel like my family
really likes you.
1428
00:51:50,257 --> 00:51:51,756
- Your parents are lovely.
1429
00:51:51,776 --> 00:51:53,109
- My parents--
what were the questions--
1430
00:51:53,336 --> 00:51:55,519
- They are, like, the cutest
people that I've ever met.
1431
00:51:55,671 --> 00:51:59,173
- Yeah, so they came here
when war took--
1432
00:51:59,191 --> 00:52:00,432
War struck their homeland.
1433
00:52:00,451 --> 00:52:02,526
And they met at a refugee camp
in new orleans.
1434
00:52:02,678 --> 00:52:03,768
- Oh, that's really special.
1435
00:52:03,863 --> 00:52:06,513
- Yeah, so they've been
together since 1975.
1436
00:52:06,607 --> 00:52:08,773
- Oh, my gosh.
- Yeah.
1437
00:52:08,868 --> 00:52:11,276
I hope that we'll be together
as long as they were.
1438
00:52:11,295 --> 00:52:13,129
- Yeah. I'm excited for this.
- Yeah.
1439
00:52:13,280 --> 00:52:14,946
- 'cause this is starting off
really, really well.
1440
00:52:14,966 --> 00:52:15,965
Like, better than I thought
it would.
1441
00:52:16,116 --> 00:52:18,208
- Oh, completely. Yeah.
[both laugh]
1442
00:52:18,361 --> 00:52:23,973
- ♪ so you stole my heart ♪
1443
00:52:24,124 --> 00:52:26,124
♪ you stole my ♪
1444
00:52:26,144 --> 00:52:27,476
- Want to get changed
and go to bed?
1445
00:52:27,703 --> 00:52:29,870
- Yeah, I think we should just
get changed and go to bed.
1446
00:52:29,963 --> 00:52:35,042
- ♪ boy, you stole my heart ♪
1447
00:52:35,135 --> 00:52:37,302
♪ you stole my heart ♪
1448
00:52:37,396 --> 00:52:40,138
- Oh, my god!
- That's cereal.
1449
00:52:40,232 --> 00:52:42,491
- It's not a bowl of cereal,
it's a bowl of condoms.
1450
00:52:42,643 --> 00:52:44,234
- Dang. I--
- [bleep].
1451
00:52:44,328 --> 00:52:46,387
What do they think
we're gonna do tonight?
1452
00:52:46,480 --> 00:52:48,889
- I don't know.
- Oh, my god.
1453
00:52:48,908 --> 00:52:50,815
Okay. Should I...
- Go ahead. Do you need help?
1454
00:52:50,910 --> 00:52:51,909
- Go first?
- Yeah.
1455
00:52:52,061 --> 00:52:53,169
- Okay, so I'll go first,
1456
00:52:53,396 --> 00:52:55,654
And I'll just get changed,
I guess.
1457
00:52:55,748 --> 00:52:59,066
- ♪ trying, trying
just to get your attention ♪
1458
00:52:59,084 --> 00:53:00,992
- Tonight's my birthday
at 12:00 p.M.
1459
00:53:01,012 --> 00:53:04,829
So if my wife, morgan,
is open to giving me some
1460
00:53:04,849 --> 00:53:07,908
On my birthday,
I can't turn down gifts.
1461
00:53:08,001 --> 00:53:10,411
- ♪ aim for the heart ♪
1462
00:53:10,504 --> 00:53:12,763
♪ don't get a reaction ♪
1463
00:53:12,915 --> 00:53:15,173
♪ I'm back at the start ♪
1464
00:53:15,193 --> 00:53:17,418
♪ did I make a mistake? ♪
1465
00:53:17,436 --> 00:53:19,010
- This is--this is it.
1466
00:53:19,030 --> 00:53:22,198
He gets to see
the whole morgan,
1467
00:53:22,425 --> 00:53:24,683
With all my skin issues
and everything.
1468
00:53:24,702 --> 00:53:25,850
But it's fine.
1469
00:53:25,945 --> 00:53:27,703
[tender music]
1470
00:53:27,854 --> 00:53:29,613
- ♪ yeah, yeah ♪
1471
00:53:29,765 --> 00:53:30,873
- I'm not too worried.
1472
00:53:31,024 --> 00:53:32,282
I'm comfortable
in my own skin.
1473
00:53:32,435 --> 00:53:35,786
I think I'm gonna hold
a couple of farts in until--
1474
00:53:35,938 --> 00:53:38,272
Until we build
that connection, for sure.
1475
00:53:38,290 --> 00:53:39,548
♪ ♪
1476
00:53:39,700 --> 00:53:42,218
- ♪ yeah, yeah ♪
1477
00:53:42,445 --> 00:53:44,962
- Expectations for, like,
walking out there
1478
00:53:45,056 --> 00:53:49,874
And getting into bed is just
to sit down and relax
1479
00:53:49,894 --> 00:53:51,969
And hang out with each other.
1480
00:53:52,121 --> 00:53:53,787
♪ ♪
1481
00:53:53,806 --> 00:53:57,124
I'm so glad to get
all that junk off my face.
1482
00:53:57,142 --> 00:53:59,884
- You--actually, do you care,
left or right?
1483
00:53:59,904 --> 00:54:01,812
- No, I don't care.
- Yeah, doesn't matter to me.
1484
00:54:01,964 --> 00:54:03,146
- I mean, you obviously
placed yourself
1485
00:54:03,299 --> 00:54:05,148
Closer to the condoms, so...
1486
00:54:05,243 --> 00:54:07,818
[both laugh]
one, two, three.
1487
00:54:07,970 --> 00:54:09,152
[laughs]
1488
00:54:09,305 --> 00:54:10,821
That didn't really work.
Hold on.
1489
00:54:10,915 --> 00:54:13,307
Okay, that's better.
[laughs]
1490
00:54:13,400 --> 00:54:14,825
Do you sleep
with your shirt off?
1491
00:54:14,977 --> 00:54:16,977
Like, how do you usually sleep?
- I literally sleep naked.
1492
00:54:16,996 --> 00:54:18,645
- You literally sleep naked?
See, that's fine.
1493
00:54:18,664 --> 00:54:20,572
- Just in my boxers.
- In your boxers?
1494
00:54:20,666 --> 00:54:22,165
See, that's okay.
1495
00:54:22,318 --> 00:54:24,093
- You like to sleep
with the ac on and stuff?
1496
00:54:24,244 --> 00:54:25,168
- Like, lately
I've been sleeping
1497
00:54:25,263 --> 00:54:26,411
With, like, the heat on.
1498
00:54:26,505 --> 00:54:28,171
- With the heat on?
- 'cause I'm freezing.
1499
00:54:28,324 --> 00:54:30,657
I'm freezing.
- What temperature were you--
1500
00:54:30,676 --> 00:54:31,916
- No, it's not that.
That's what I'm saying.
1501
00:54:32,011 --> 00:54:33,343
- [inaudible] the heater?
1502
00:54:33,496 --> 00:54:34,511
- No, it's really not that bad.
1503
00:54:34,663 --> 00:54:35,920
It's just to get, like,
the chill
1504
00:54:36,015 --> 00:54:37,664
Out of the air, you know?
1505
00:54:37,758 --> 00:54:39,608
- I can't lie.
I use the ac at my place.
1506
00:54:39,760 --> 00:54:41,001
- I--I know
you probably doubt--
1507
00:54:41,020 --> 00:54:42,594
- But it's a--it's a studio.
1508
00:54:42,613 --> 00:54:44,613
- Oh, gosh. Okay.
- That's what happens.
1509
00:54:44,840 --> 00:54:46,673
[both laugh]
1510
00:54:46,692 --> 00:54:48,842
♪ ♪
1511
00:54:48,861 --> 00:54:50,286
Right, so you are you,
like, a side sleeper?
1512
00:54:50,513 --> 00:54:52,195
You sleep on your stomach?
Do you snore?
1513
00:54:52,290 --> 00:54:53,438
What's the deal?
1514
00:54:53,457 --> 00:54:56,125
- I don't know if I snore.
[both laugh]
1515
00:54:56,276 --> 00:54:59,186
Please don't slap me
with the pillow.
1516
00:54:59,279 --> 00:55:01,188
Good night, wifey.
- Ooh, that's good.
1517
00:55:01,206 --> 00:55:02,447
I like that.
- I might...
1518
00:55:02,466 --> 00:55:05,450
- Okay, good night.
- Good night.
1519
00:55:05,469 --> 00:55:08,879
- ♪ said you wouldn't
break my heart ♪
1520
00:55:09,031 --> 00:55:11,698
♪ but you broke it anyway ♪
1521
00:55:11,717 --> 00:55:12,957
- Such a beautiful night.
1522
00:55:13,052 --> 00:55:18,705
- So tequila before we get
into the water or after?
1523
00:55:18,724 --> 00:55:20,816
- I think tequila
as soon as possible
1524
00:55:20,967 --> 00:55:22,042
Is always the option--
1525
00:55:22,135 --> 00:55:23,877
- Right.
- And the answer.
1526
00:55:23,896 --> 00:55:25,637
- Yeah.
1527
00:55:25,731 --> 00:55:27,898
- Okay, I think we have
to think about this cheers.
1528
00:55:28,050 --> 00:55:29,232
This is an important one.
1529
00:55:29,385 --> 00:55:31,327
To having
the tough conversations
1530
00:55:31,478 --> 00:55:32,569
And keep moving forward.
1531
00:55:32,721 --> 00:55:34,979
- You're very well-spoken,
and I agree 100%.
1532
00:55:35,074 --> 00:55:36,573
- Okay, let's see if I can
get this down in one gulp.
1533
00:55:36,667 --> 00:55:37,982
I kind of have a small mouth.
1534
00:55:38,077 --> 00:55:41,061
[quirky music]
1535
00:55:41,080 --> 00:55:42,579
♪ ♪
1536
00:55:42,731 --> 00:55:44,989
Okay, blanco. Me gusta.
1537
00:55:45,084 --> 00:55:47,492
- Yeah, I'm usually a sipper,
not a shooter, but...
1538
00:55:47,511 --> 00:55:48,902
- That one went down
pretty easily.
1539
00:55:48,921 --> 00:55:50,512
The vibe is wild.
1540
00:55:50,664 --> 00:55:52,681
I mean, I'm on
a roller coaster.
1541
00:55:52,908 --> 00:55:54,591
One second,
we're having dinner,
1542
00:55:54,743 --> 00:55:56,243
And he's not attracted to me.
1543
00:55:56,261 --> 00:56:00,505
The next second, we're eating
chocolate-covered strawberries
1544
00:56:00,524 --> 00:56:02,340
With tequila
watching the moon.
1545
00:56:02,360 --> 00:56:05,176
Like, I--I don't even know.
1546
00:56:05,196 --> 00:56:06,528
- Tequila and beer--
it just works.
1547
00:56:06,755 --> 00:56:07,754
- It kind of works.
1548
00:56:07,773 --> 00:56:09,198
I think those are
the only two, like,
1549
00:56:09,349 --> 00:56:10,924
Beer and liquors
that work so well.
1550
00:56:11,017 --> 00:56:12,534
I'm absolutely frustrated.
1551
00:56:12,686 --> 00:56:14,277
I'm absolutely confused.
1552
00:56:14,430 --> 00:56:16,038
I'm--I don't even know.
1553
00:56:16,189 --> 00:56:17,873
I think that's part
of this journey.
1554
00:56:18,100 --> 00:56:21,543
I'm hoping he sees in me
what I see in myself.
1555
00:56:21,695 --> 00:56:25,939
And I'm hoping maybe he'll
realize by all of his actions,
1556
00:56:25,958 --> 00:56:28,609
They actually mean that
he is attracted to me.
1557
00:56:28,627 --> 00:56:32,704
I know, like, maybe it could be
construed as that was, like,
1558
00:56:32,723 --> 00:56:36,558
Not the best
newlywed dinner ever.
1559
00:56:36,710 --> 00:56:38,727
I think it's important
to talk about these things
1560
00:56:38,954 --> 00:56:40,303
Instead of dance around them
and pretend
1561
00:56:40,456 --> 00:56:44,215
Like they don't exist, and then
have a blow-up one day.
1562
00:56:44,235 --> 00:56:46,217
Like, that's--that's
how it should be done.
1563
00:56:46,237 --> 00:56:47,719
So I commend you
for bringing it up.
1564
00:56:47,738 --> 00:56:50,221
Thank you again.
1565
00:56:50,241 --> 00:56:51,815
- [clears throat]
1566
00:56:51,909 --> 00:56:53,300
Having a hard time
saying "you're welcome"
1567
00:56:53,393 --> 00:56:55,077
'cause I feel like I didn't
really do you any favors.
1568
00:56:55,228 --> 00:56:57,246
But, hey, you are welcome.
1569
00:56:57,397 --> 00:56:58,563
And thank you as well.
1570
00:56:58,582 --> 00:57:00,565
[laughs]
1571
00:57:00,584 --> 00:57:02,976
- I just mean--not thank you
for feeling this way,
1572
00:57:02,995 --> 00:57:05,479
But thank you
for talking about it.
1573
00:57:05,497 --> 00:57:07,147
- Tequila's definitely helping
with a little bit
1574
00:57:07,240 --> 00:57:08,406
Of the social lubrication.
1575
00:57:08,426 --> 00:57:11,985
I just can't overstate
how impressed I am
1576
00:57:12,078 --> 00:57:15,672
With the way krysten handled
my situation.
1577
00:57:15,766 --> 00:57:18,325
And I feel kind of...
1578
00:57:18,343 --> 00:57:20,752
♪ ♪
1579
00:57:20,771 --> 00:57:22,104
Re-motivated.
1580
00:57:22,331 --> 00:57:23,922
Things are going well,
and I feel like
1581
00:57:23,941 --> 00:57:25,256
Things are actually
looking up.
1582
00:57:25,276 --> 00:57:33,523
- ♪ nothing can come
against our hearts ♪
1583
00:57:33,676 --> 00:57:36,935
- ♪ oh, crash into me too ♪
1584
00:57:37,029 --> 00:57:39,362
♪ into me too ♪
1585
00:57:39,515 --> 00:57:43,625
♪ what pulls you into me
is what pulls me into you ♪
1586
00:57:43,852 --> 00:57:46,019
♪ ♪
1587
00:57:46,112 --> 00:57:47,187
- How'd you sleep last night?
1588
00:57:47,280 --> 00:57:48,205
- I slept good.
- Yeah?
1589
00:57:48,299 --> 00:57:50,615
- But somebody
definitely kicked me.
1590
00:57:50,634 --> 00:57:52,192
- Did not kick you last night.
1591
00:57:52,211 --> 00:57:53,360
Did not kick you.
- Straight in the balls.
1592
00:57:53,453 --> 00:57:55,304
- Shut up. You're such a liar.
1593
00:57:55,531 --> 00:57:56,621
- Probably 'cause
of your muay thai.
1594
00:57:56,640 --> 00:57:57,639
- Oh, my god.
1595
00:57:57,866 --> 00:58:00,367
- It was a side--
it was a side back kick.
1596
00:58:00,385 --> 00:58:02,219
- Stop it. No, it wasn't.
1597
00:58:02,313 --> 00:58:03,370
You're ridiculous.
1598
00:58:03,463 --> 00:58:04,629
This is just kind of crazy
1599
00:58:04,723 --> 00:58:06,315
But exciting at the same time.
1600
00:58:06,542 --> 00:58:07,891
I keep playing
with my wedding ring
1601
00:58:08,043 --> 00:58:09,376
'cause it's
a very foreign thing to me,
1602
00:58:09,469 --> 00:58:10,877
But I love my wedding ring.
1603
00:58:10,971 --> 00:58:12,729
I feel amazing right now.
1604
00:58:12,823 --> 00:58:14,639
But it's really weird,
especially, like,
1605
00:58:14,733 --> 00:58:16,049
Waking up in the morning
and being like, "oh, my god.
1606
00:58:16,068 --> 00:58:17,141
"there's someone there.
1607
00:58:17,236 --> 00:58:19,569
Okay, that's fine."
1608
00:58:19,663 --> 00:58:21,888
- Oh.
[both laugh]
1609
00:58:21,982 --> 00:58:23,165
Cupcakes.
- Happy birthday.
1610
00:58:23,392 --> 00:58:24,315
- Thank you.
1611
00:58:24,335 --> 00:58:25,909
- Here, let me
have you hold this.
1612
00:58:26,003 --> 00:58:27,060
- Oh, cookies and cream?
1613
00:58:27,079 --> 00:58:29,246
You knew?
- Yeah, cookies and cream.
1614
00:58:29,340 --> 00:58:30,413
- I appreciate it.
1615
00:58:30,508 --> 00:58:32,824
Thank you so much.
- Pulled some strings.
1616
00:58:32,918 --> 00:58:34,735
All right, so cookies and cream
because we can't not
1617
00:58:34,753 --> 00:58:37,012
Celebrate your birthday
just 'cause we're here
1618
00:58:37,239 --> 00:58:38,347
And, like, doing this.
- Thank you.
1619
00:58:38,498 --> 00:58:40,240
- You're welcome.
Happy birthday.
1620
00:58:40,259 --> 00:58:41,350
Make a wish.
1621
00:58:41,577 --> 00:58:44,261
♪ ♪
1622
00:58:44,413 --> 00:58:45,670
Yay.
1623
00:58:45,764 --> 00:58:48,006
- Damn. I turned 30.
1624
00:58:48,025 --> 00:58:50,934
I got a wife, breakfast in bed.
1625
00:58:51,086 --> 00:58:52,936
- Breakfast in bed.
- Cookies and cream.
1626
00:58:53,030 --> 00:58:54,588
- And we're about to go
on a honeymoon too.
1627
00:58:54,681 --> 00:58:56,698
- Yeah, I can't lose right now.
- No.
1628
00:58:56,925 --> 00:58:59,776
- I can't lose.
I feel undefeated.
1629
00:58:59,928 --> 00:59:01,370
- [whispering]
it was perfect. It's great.
1630
00:59:01,521 --> 00:59:02,687
He looks great.
His shirt was off
1631
00:59:02,706 --> 00:59:05,098
And I was like, "oh, my god,
looks so good!"
1632
00:59:05,117 --> 00:59:08,210
Yeah. How we doing here with--
[laughs]
1633
00:59:08,437 --> 00:59:09,953
- Did you have sex
with morgan last night?
1634
00:59:10,047 --> 00:59:12,105
- So we were--we were
super tired last night.
1635
00:59:12,198 --> 00:59:13,215
We were--we were
thinking about it.
1636
00:59:13,442 --> 00:59:16,459
- Shut the [bleep] up!
[both laugh]
1637
00:59:16,554 --> 00:59:18,554
- Yeah, she wants me to--
she wants to [bleep].
1638
00:59:18,781 --> 00:59:20,113
[laughs]
1639
00:59:20,206 --> 00:59:21,640
She keeps saying it, not me.
1640
00:59:26,063 --> 00:59:28,121
- You can't tell me nothing.
It's my birthday.
1641
00:59:28,140 --> 00:59:29,139
You can't tell--
[laughs]
1642
00:59:29,291 --> 00:59:31,141
Maybe on the airplane.
1643
00:59:31,235 --> 00:59:32,142
There's tequila.
1644
00:59:32,294 --> 00:59:34,218
- Oh, is there
tequila in there?
1645
00:59:34,238 --> 00:59:35,237
Morgan and binh.
1646
00:59:35,388 --> 00:59:38,056
Okay, this is cute.
1647
00:59:38,075 --> 00:59:39,575
There's a card.
1648
00:59:39,802 --> 00:59:42,060
Okay, "morgan and binh,
congratulations
1649
00:59:42,154 --> 00:59:43,470
"on your marriage.
1650
00:59:43,488 --> 00:59:45,822
You will be heading
to puerto vallarta, mexico."
1651
00:59:45,974 --> 00:59:47,657
I love puerto vallarta.
- I've never been.
1652
00:59:47,810 --> 00:59:49,993
- Love puerto vallarta.
It's so beautiful.
1653
00:59:50,145 --> 00:59:52,813
But we need to pack
because we're kind of
1654
00:59:52,831 --> 00:59:54,331
Running behind, technically.
- Yeah. Let's do it.
1655
00:59:54,483 --> 00:59:55,498
- 'cause we had to push
everything back
1656
00:59:55,651 --> 00:59:57,000
Okay.
1657
00:59:57,094 --> 01:00:00,837
♪ ♪
1658
01:00:00,931 --> 01:00:02,989
Oh, yeah, look at this.
I have a handful of bikinis.
1659
01:00:03,008 --> 01:00:04,341
- Whoo!
- I'm ready.
1660
01:00:04,493 --> 01:00:06,417
- You want--maybe you should
try those on right now.
1661
01:00:06,437 --> 01:00:08,753
I gotta--I'll-- I'll see if--
1662
01:00:08,772 --> 01:00:11,514
Let me see if it works.
- You gotta wait for that.
1663
01:00:11,667 --> 01:00:12,774
[laughs]
1664
01:00:13,001 --> 01:00:14,610
♪ ♪
1665
01:00:14,837 --> 01:00:18,614
- ♪ my heartbeat,
it competes ♪
1666
01:00:18,841 --> 01:00:21,099
♪ with the hands
on the clock ♪
1667
01:00:21,193 --> 01:00:24,769
♪ I wish that I could stay ♪
1668
01:00:24,863 --> 01:00:30,608
♪ all day ♪
1669
01:00:30,628 --> 01:00:34,204
♪ but I've got to go,
got to go ♪
1670
01:00:34,356 --> 01:00:36,523
♪ when all I want to do
is lie here ♪
1671
01:00:36,616 --> 01:00:39,192
- That's how you wake me up?
1672
01:00:39,285 --> 01:00:40,618
- Can we order
some room service?
1673
01:00:40,638 --> 01:00:42,362
I'm getting a little hungry
and I want some coffee.
1674
01:00:42,381 --> 01:00:44,364
- Yes, please.
- Okay.
1675
01:00:44,457 --> 01:00:45,532
- The phone is on your side.
1676
01:00:45,625 --> 01:00:48,368
- I don't mind it.
I'll take care of it.
1677
01:00:48,461 --> 01:00:50,294
- It's hella early. Wake up.
1678
01:00:50,389 --> 01:00:51,813
- I don't want to get up.
1679
01:00:51,965 --> 01:00:53,982
- Come on, we got
[bleep] to do.
1680
01:00:54,209 --> 01:00:56,710
Yeah, yesterday we looked
like a thing, for sure.
1681
01:00:56,803 --> 01:00:59,396
- A thing.
- I felt it. I felt it.
1682
01:00:59,490 --> 01:01:04,493
Now you look beautiful,
and, yeah, you're really sexy.
1683
01:01:04,644 --> 01:01:06,236
- Thank you.
1684
01:01:06,330 --> 01:01:07,329
- Whoo!
1685
01:01:07,556 --> 01:01:10,165
- So you're proud
to have me as your wife?
1686
01:01:10,392 --> 01:01:11,241
- Yeah.
1687
01:01:11,335 --> 01:01:13,576
- I can match your swag?
1688
01:01:13,729 --> 01:01:15,319
- Yeah, yeah, yeah,
we match each other.
1689
01:01:15,339 --> 01:01:19,490
[upbeat music]
1690
01:01:19,584 --> 01:01:20,917
- ♪ whoa, whoa ♪
1691
01:01:21,011 --> 01:01:23,161
♪ ♪
1692
01:01:23,180 --> 01:01:25,013
- Oh, my god!
1693
01:01:25,240 --> 01:01:26,848
Look at how beautiful.
- Pretty nice.
1694
01:01:27,000 --> 01:01:28,016
That's pretty nice.
1695
01:01:28,168 --> 01:01:29,184
- All right.
1696
01:01:29,335 --> 01:01:31,928
- ♪ so excuse me, girl ♪
1697
01:01:32,022 --> 01:01:34,931
♪ are you gonna be
part of my world? ♪
1698
01:01:35,083 --> 01:01:39,677
♪ are you gonna let me leave
a smile on you forever? ♪
1699
01:01:39,771 --> 01:01:42,605
♪ if you take this chance ♪
1700
01:01:42,758 --> 01:01:45,534
♪ I will give you
everything I am ♪
1701
01:01:45,761 --> 01:01:49,538
♪ I want to see this smile
on you forever ♪
1702
01:01:49,765 --> 01:01:51,448
♪ ♪
1703
01:01:51,600 --> 01:01:53,616
- Things are looking
really, really positive.
1704
01:01:53,769 --> 01:01:55,769
Things are looking really good,
which is [bleep] amazing,
1705
01:01:55,787 --> 01:01:58,547
'cause we've only been hanging
out for, like, four days.
1706
01:01:58,698 --> 01:01:59,864
But I'm enjoying
being with her.
1707
01:01:59,883 --> 01:02:01,383
I'm very much attracted to you.
1708
01:02:01,534 --> 01:02:03,777
I sense that there's some
attraction, you know,
1709
01:02:03,870 --> 01:02:05,387
Coming from you towards me.
1710
01:02:05,614 --> 01:02:08,298
- Because I tell you
all the time?
1711
01:02:08,450 --> 01:02:09,632
- And, yeah,
the sexual tension is there.
1712
01:02:09,785 --> 01:02:11,785
We haven't quite consummated
our marriage yet,
1713
01:02:11,878 --> 01:02:13,620
But we are working on it.
1714
01:02:13,713 --> 01:02:15,063
And that's pretty much been--
1715
01:02:15,215 --> 01:02:16,214
Been what's happening,
you know?
1716
01:02:16,308 --> 01:02:17,899
Like, I'll make a move,
and I get quite,
1717
01:02:18,051 --> 01:02:19,976
You know, like--
not in a bad way.
1718
01:02:20,128 --> 01:02:21,719
She's very, like,
diplomatic about it.
1719
01:02:21,813 --> 01:02:24,222
She doesn't hurt my feelings
or anything like that.
1720
01:02:24,241 --> 01:02:26,649
There's other ways in which
my needs are being met.
1721
01:02:26,744 --> 01:02:30,136
You know how special,
like, the consecration--
1722
01:02:30,230 --> 01:02:32,730
Or not consecration,
the consummation--
1723
01:02:32,750 --> 01:02:33,898
Consecration.
[both laugh]
1724
01:02:33,992 --> 01:02:36,234
- Now we're going to church?
Wait, what's--
1725
01:02:36,328 --> 01:02:40,071
- I said, the lord--the lord
was in this bedroom with us.
1726
01:02:40,165 --> 01:02:41,239
- Please, stop.
1727
01:02:41,333 --> 01:02:44,167
- I mean, actually--
1728
01:02:44,261 --> 01:02:46,762
But, no, for me, it is,
you know, like, the signature
1729
01:02:46,913 --> 01:02:50,081
On the dotted line type thing,
not that it wasn't official.
1730
01:02:50,175 --> 01:02:51,341
But that makes it--
1731
01:02:51,435 --> 01:02:53,084
- Yeah, but that's
the, like, stamp, the seal.
1732
01:02:53,103 --> 01:02:54,177
Like, it's okay.
Like, it's done.
1733
01:02:54,329 --> 01:02:55,419
- Right.
1734
01:02:55,439 --> 01:02:57,347
It's--you know, there's, like,
1735
01:02:57,499 --> 01:03:00,183
These milestones that,
I guess, you achieve
1736
01:03:00,335 --> 01:03:02,760
Before god and with god.
1737
01:03:02,780 --> 01:03:04,671
When we have sex,
is god gonna be looking?
1738
01:03:04,764 --> 01:03:07,173
- [laughs]
- rating us?
1739
01:03:07,192 --> 01:03:08,508
- Enough with
the sacrilegious jokes.
1740
01:03:08,527 --> 01:03:09,785
- Like, a little proud?
1741
01:03:10,012 --> 01:03:11,194
- Stop.
- That's very true. Sorry.
1742
01:03:11,288 --> 01:03:14,956
♪ ♪
1743
01:03:15,108 --> 01:03:17,851
- To me, I think
because I do have
1744
01:03:17,944 --> 01:03:19,461
So much religious upbringing,
1745
01:03:19,688 --> 01:03:21,946
That abstinence
and saving yourself
1746
01:03:21,965 --> 01:03:23,523
For marriage, marriage,
marriage, saving yourself,
1747
01:03:23,542 --> 01:03:24,615
Abst, abst, abst, abst,
1748
01:03:24,635 --> 01:03:28,361
There's so much, like,
complex guilt
1749
01:03:28,454 --> 01:03:31,531
That can come
if you don't obtain that.
1750
01:03:31,550 --> 01:03:33,475
And as you know,
I didn't because I lost
1751
01:03:33,626 --> 01:03:35,201
My virginity to my fiancé.
1752
01:03:35,220 --> 01:03:37,646
So there was like, you know,
an identity crisis
1753
01:03:37,797 --> 01:03:39,873
For years that I've
worked around and unpeeled
1754
01:03:39,891 --> 01:03:42,225
Regarding the religious guilt
and shame
1755
01:03:42,319 --> 01:03:43,819
That I did experience.
1756
01:03:44,046 --> 01:03:45,821
So that's why, you know,
I've just been--
1757
01:03:46,048 --> 01:03:47,897
And as we've talked about,
I'm thankful that you're
1758
01:03:48,050 --> 01:03:50,492
Being so respectful
and patient with me.
1759
01:03:50,719 --> 01:03:52,160
I just want you to know
that, like,
1760
01:03:52,387 --> 01:03:54,387
When we do consummate
the marriage,
1761
01:03:54,480 --> 01:03:56,164
It is a really big deal to me,
1762
01:03:56,316 --> 01:03:59,317
Because it's something
that's special and--to me.
1763
01:03:59,411 --> 01:04:02,579
And it means a lot to me
because it is, like, literally
1764
01:04:02,731 --> 01:04:03,913
Two people becoming one.
1765
01:04:04,066 --> 01:04:05,507
Like, that's what's happening.
1766
01:04:05,734 --> 01:04:08,251
- You know,
on the other side of it,
1767
01:04:08,345 --> 01:04:10,661
It is also just
an expression of affection.
1768
01:04:10,681 --> 01:04:15,925
When I feel attracted
to my wife, you,
1769
01:04:16,078 --> 01:04:17,927
I do want to express
myself affectionately.
1770
01:04:18,021 --> 01:04:19,079
- Yeah.
1771
01:04:19,097 --> 01:04:21,523
- Using sex.
1772
01:04:21,750 --> 01:04:24,767
It's because
we have not had sex,
1773
01:04:24,920 --> 01:04:27,437
In which I feel like
we have to have sex,
1774
01:04:27,589 --> 01:04:28,846
If that makes sense.
1775
01:04:28,940 --> 01:04:31,515
At face value, to me,
it sounds jarring, right?
1776
01:04:31,610 --> 01:04:34,369
Like, wow, like how, you know,
like, macho does it sound?
1777
01:04:34,520 --> 01:04:36,538
Like, no, I need to have sex
before I can truly know.
1778
01:04:36,765 --> 01:04:38,598
But for me,
I'll speak for myself,
1779
01:04:38,617 --> 01:04:41,209
You know, to my own needs.
1780
01:04:41,361 --> 01:04:43,953
It is important to have
good sexual chemistry
1781
01:04:44,047 --> 01:04:46,789
And to feel like we can
express ourselves sexually.
1782
01:04:46,884 --> 01:04:48,550
You're becoming one
with your person.
1783
01:04:48,777 --> 01:04:51,869
It's special and it's
vulnerable and it's scary.
1784
01:04:51,889 --> 01:04:53,463
I know we've been having,
like, all these,
1785
01:04:53,615 --> 01:04:57,617
Like, intense conversations,
some deep stuff.
1786
01:04:57,636 --> 01:04:59,969
- Yeah, it's a lot.
- Yeah, so maybe--
1787
01:05:00,063 --> 01:05:01,545
- But it's so good, all of it.
- It is good.
1788
01:05:01,565 --> 01:05:02,397
It is good.
- We gotta do it, so...
1789
01:05:02,624 --> 01:05:03,565
- But yeah.
1790
01:05:03,792 --> 01:05:06,960
How about, would you like
a little massage?
1791
01:05:06,978 --> 01:05:08,069
♪ ♪
1792
01:05:08,221 --> 01:05:09,963
- ♪ send one of them through ♪
1793
01:05:10,056 --> 01:05:11,740
- Alleviate the tension
a little bit?
1794
01:05:11,967 --> 01:05:13,967
Let me go--
here, hold this for me.
1795
01:05:13,985 --> 01:05:16,394
Let's see what you got.
1796
01:05:16,488 --> 01:05:18,062
- ♪ oh, babe ♪
1797
01:05:18,156 --> 01:05:19,806
- Oh, my goodness.
1798
01:05:19,899 --> 01:05:21,082
Oh, you are a professional.
1799
01:05:21,234 --> 01:05:23,143
- Oh, yeah.
I don't mess around.
1800
01:05:23,236 --> 01:05:25,979
- ♪ thirsty
for your loving, babe ♪
1801
01:05:25,997 --> 01:05:28,314
- You're straddling me.
1802
01:05:28,408 --> 01:05:29,925
- How else am I gonna do this?
1803
01:05:30,076 --> 01:05:33,577
- ♪ but instead I'm thinking
'bout getting to you, babe ♪
1804
01:05:33,672 --> 01:05:37,265
♪ I'm in the club scrolling
through my phone, oh ♪
1805
01:05:37,492 --> 01:05:38,491
- Yeah, it's crazy
sometimes, right?
1806
01:05:38,584 --> 01:05:39,917
When you think about, like,
1807
01:05:39,937 --> 01:05:41,327
You know, like,
if all this works out,
1808
01:05:41,421 --> 01:05:43,680
Let's say, we, you know,
spend the next,
1809
01:05:43,832 --> 01:05:48,835
I don't know, 30, 40,
50 years together?
1810
01:05:48,928 --> 01:05:50,445
Hopefully you like
what you still see.
1811
01:05:50,672 --> 01:05:54,190
I'll be, like,
all prune-y, raisin-y,
1812
01:05:54,284 --> 01:05:57,285
Missing hair, maybe a teeth
or two--a teeth or two?
1813
01:05:57,437 --> 01:05:58,528
- [laughing]
oh, that's creepy.
1814
01:05:58,680 --> 01:06:00,029
- I'm missing a teeth or two.
1815
01:06:00,182 --> 01:06:02,015
- At 65?
That's not even old.
1816
01:06:02,033 --> 01:06:02,940
Why do you have no teeth?
1817
01:06:03,034 --> 01:06:05,460
- Hey, baby,
give me some sugar.
1818
01:06:05,687 --> 01:06:08,129
[both laugh]
1819
01:06:08,356 --> 01:06:09,706
Make sure you guys
get this boner.
1820
01:06:09,800 --> 01:06:13,376
- [laughing]
stop.
1821
01:06:13,528 --> 01:06:15,303
God.
1822
01:06:15,530 --> 01:06:17,806
- Feel like it's happening
in your pocket, or...
1823
01:06:18,033 --> 01:06:26,539
♪ ♪
1824
01:06:26,558 --> 01:06:29,042
♪ ♪
1825
01:06:29,135 --> 01:06:30,301
- Hola, amigos.
- Oh, my god.
1826
01:06:30,395 --> 01:06:32,136
- Hola, amigos.
1827
01:06:32,230 --> 01:06:33,713
- We made it.
- We made it.
1828
01:06:33,806 --> 01:06:35,231
Wait, don't worry.
- I'm tired.
1829
01:06:35,383 --> 01:06:36,992
We almost missed our flight.
1830
01:06:37,143 --> 01:06:40,220
We had to just run through
the airport, but we made it.
1831
01:06:40,238 --> 01:06:41,738
- We're on, like,
two hours of sleep?
1832
01:06:41,890 --> 01:06:42,998
- I guess we'll see
everyone soon, though.
1833
01:06:43,149 --> 01:06:44,499
- Yeah, can't wait.
1834
01:06:44,650 --> 01:06:46,501
- Yeah, we can't wait to see
all the rest of the couples
1835
01:06:46,652 --> 01:06:48,061
And see how they're doing.
1836
01:06:48,079 --> 01:06:50,672
♪ ♪
1837
01:06:50,899 --> 01:06:51,673
- We saw you guys
paddleboarding.
1838
01:06:51,900 --> 01:06:52,990
How was it?
1839
01:06:53,010 --> 01:06:54,567
- It was actually really fun.
1840
01:06:54,660 --> 01:06:56,011
I could not stop laughing.
1841
01:06:56,162 --> 01:06:57,403
- You were just gone.
1842
01:06:57,422 --> 01:06:59,422
- Those waves are strong.
- Yeah. They are strong.
1843
01:06:59,574 --> 01:07:02,425
- Oh, my god!
[all shouting]
1844
01:07:02,577 --> 01:07:04,911
♪ ♪
1845
01:07:04,929 --> 01:07:07,022
- You look so good!
- Good to see you.
1846
01:07:07,173 --> 01:07:09,340
- Guys, right here.
Let's get it!
1847
01:07:09,434 --> 01:07:10,525
- Hi!
- Hi.
1848
01:07:10,752 --> 01:07:12,935
We made it.
1849
01:07:13,088 --> 01:07:15,030
[all talking at once]
1850
01:07:15,181 --> 01:07:16,439
- You're here.
1851
01:07:16,591 --> 01:07:17,774
- And I brought my husband.
1852
01:07:17,868 --> 01:07:20,276
- When did you get here?
1853
01:07:20,370 --> 01:07:22,111
- Give us a little update,
because we've all
1854
01:07:22,264 --> 01:07:24,188
Been married for--we've all
been married for a few days.
1855
01:07:24,282 --> 01:07:25,874
- Yeah.
- The real?
1856
01:07:26,025 --> 01:07:27,767
- Yeah, no. Yeah.
- You go ahead.
1857
01:07:27,860 --> 01:07:29,026
- Yeah, he got covid.
All: Oh
1858
01:07:29,046 --> 01:07:31,271
- So we had to, like,
push the wedding back.
1859
01:07:31,289 --> 01:07:32,530
- It wasn't the same,
no, I have to say,
1860
01:07:32,549 --> 01:07:34,607
Like, having spent
the bachelor party with you
1861
01:07:34,626 --> 01:07:35,884
And having met you,
like, it was not the same,
1862
01:07:36,035 --> 01:07:37,277
You not being here.
- I was sad.
1863
01:07:37,295 --> 01:07:38,795
- Miguel's just been like,
"binh, binh, binh."
1864
01:07:38,947 --> 01:07:40,037
- Literally, no, it's real.
1865
01:07:40,131 --> 01:07:41,281
- I'm like,
"morgan, morgan, morgan!"
1866
01:07:41,299 --> 01:07:42,706
- I'm not gonna lie, yeah.
1867
01:07:42,726 --> 01:07:44,467
- Shall we go get on this boat?
1868
01:07:44,619 --> 01:07:47,287
Let's go. Boats and hos.
1869
01:07:47,305 --> 01:07:49,956
[upbeat steel drum music]
1870
01:07:50,049 --> 01:07:53,976
- ♪ welcome
to the ha-cha-cha-cha ♪
1871
01:07:54,129 --> 01:07:56,387
- Look at that.
- They are spoiling us.
1872
01:07:56,406 --> 01:07:58,389
- This is awesome.
- This is huge.
1873
01:07:58,408 --> 01:08:00,967
- "fat jack."
- oh, there's a bar.
1874
01:08:00,985 --> 01:08:03,078
- Now that the couples
are finally all together
1875
01:08:03,229 --> 01:08:05,321
And in one boat,
1876
01:08:05,473 --> 01:08:08,065
This is their time to not only
celebrate as newlyweds,
1877
01:08:08,085 --> 01:08:11,494
But also communicate where
they are in their marriage.
1878
01:08:11,646 --> 01:08:14,756
All: Cheers.
[all cheering]
1879
01:08:14,983 --> 01:08:18,484
- With each couple at different
stages in their marriage,
1880
01:08:18,503 --> 01:08:20,653
This excursion is a chance
to gather advice
1881
01:08:20,746 --> 01:08:22,989
And offer support
to those who need it.
1882
01:08:23,007 --> 01:08:25,992
[upbeat music]
1883
01:08:26,010 --> 01:08:31,180
♪ ♪
1884
01:08:31,333 --> 01:08:35,835
- ♪ don't have
nothing to worry about ♪
1885
01:08:35,854 --> 01:08:38,596
- There, go right there. Look.
- What? What?
1886
01:08:38,615 --> 01:08:40,281
- What?
- I just saw a black whale.
1887
01:08:40,433 --> 01:08:42,784
[all cheering]
1888
01:08:42,935 --> 01:08:44,010
- I've never seen
a whale before.
1889
01:08:44,103 --> 01:08:45,603
- Oh! Oh, my god.
It's right here.
1890
01:08:45,697 --> 01:08:47,363
- Oh.
- Aww.
1891
01:08:47,515 --> 01:08:49,106
- I feel like I'm gonna cry.
1892
01:08:49,126 --> 01:08:52,518
- Whoa, it's two of them.
- Oh, it is two!
1893
01:08:52,612 --> 01:08:53,777
Okay, so they're together.
1894
01:08:53,797 --> 01:08:54,945
- Straight up, you want
to go paddleboarding
1895
01:08:55,039 --> 01:08:56,022
With the whale?
1896
01:08:56,115 --> 01:08:58,541
Oh, you are [bleep] crazy.
1897
01:08:58,693 --> 01:08:59,950
- I'm so happy you're here.
1898
01:09:00,044 --> 01:09:01,544
- Oh, my god,
I'm so happy to be here.
1899
01:09:01,638 --> 01:09:02,545
You have no idea.
1900
01:09:02,639 --> 01:09:03,713
- You guys are so fresh.
1901
01:09:03,865 --> 01:09:04,973
Do you feel like--
does it feel like--
1902
01:09:05,124 --> 01:09:06,624
What does it feel like
for you guys right now?
1903
01:09:06,643 --> 01:09:07,958
- It feels good.
- Yeah, I think so.
1904
01:09:07,978 --> 01:09:09,051
For right now, yeah,
it feels good.
1905
01:09:09,146 --> 01:09:10,311
- And, like, even the day
of the wedding,
1906
01:09:10,463 --> 01:09:13,039
It was like, we were
laughing the entire time,
1907
01:09:13,057 --> 01:09:14,390
Like, having a great time.
1908
01:09:14,484 --> 01:09:15,633
- That's so cute.
1909
01:09:15,727 --> 01:09:17,043
- It's been good.
1910
01:09:17,061 --> 01:09:18,211
So how are you guys doing?
1911
01:09:18,229 --> 01:09:20,638
Is this, like--you guys happy,
you guys...
1912
01:09:20,657 --> 01:09:23,216
- We're good.
We're great. We're--
1913
01:09:23,309 --> 01:09:24,808
- I ain't gonna lie.
It's been perfect.
1914
01:09:24,828 --> 01:09:26,235
- Aww.
- Deadass. It has been perfect.
1915
01:09:26,388 --> 01:09:27,328
It's almost like I'm dating--
1916
01:09:27,480 --> 01:09:29,722
I'm married
to a female version of me.
1917
01:09:29,815 --> 01:09:31,649
- It's actually sickening,
1918
01:09:31,668 --> 01:09:34,060
Especially 'cause
this man's celibate.
1919
01:09:34,078 --> 01:09:35,486
I didn't--I didn't--
you guys didn't know that.
1920
01:09:35,505 --> 01:09:37,672
Yeah, he's celibate.
So we're celibate now.
1921
01:09:37,823 --> 01:09:39,749
- So like--
so, like, no sex ever?
1922
01:09:39,843 --> 01:09:41,250
- No, no, no.
1923
01:09:41,403 --> 01:09:43,178
When I do break my celibacy,
you know what I'm saying--
1924
01:09:43,329 --> 01:09:44,662
- Yeah, like you're gonna--
it's--
1925
01:09:44,756 --> 01:09:46,072
- It's gonna be a routine.
1926
01:09:46,165 --> 01:09:47,740
- Yeah, yeah!
- Morgan's like--
1927
01:09:47,833 --> 01:09:49,909
- Like, the thing is--
- gotta give it to her.
1928
01:09:49,928 --> 01:09:51,260
- Okay, I gotta sit
straight up for this one.
1929
01:09:51,413 --> 01:09:53,837
- She's gonna have a bad back
after this, you know?
1930
01:09:53,857 --> 01:09:55,523
- I'll be walking
in like, "hey, y'all.
1931
01:09:55,750 --> 01:09:57,192
Finally he's not
celibate anymore."
1932
01:09:57,343 --> 01:09:58,751
[laughter]
1933
01:09:58,770 --> 01:10:01,087
- Walking with a limp
in the aftermath.
1934
01:10:01,105 --> 01:10:03,940
♪ ♪
1935
01:10:04,034 --> 01:10:08,094
- ♪ I just wanna feel ya ♪
1936
01:10:08,187 --> 01:10:12,040
♪ I just wanna feel ya ♪
1937
01:10:12,191 --> 01:10:13,374
♪ I just wanna ♪
1938
01:10:13,526 --> 01:10:15,877
♪ unlock the doors
and take a look inside ♪
1939
01:10:16,028 --> 01:10:17,437
♪ I just wanna ♪
1940
01:10:17,455 --> 01:10:20,289
♪ ♪
1941
01:10:20,383 --> 01:10:21,624
- Mrs. Barnes?
1942
01:10:21,776 --> 01:10:22,625
- Ooh.
- Oh, thank you, baby.
1943
01:10:22,719 --> 01:10:24,944
- I'm sure he's loving
mrs. Barnes.
1944
01:10:24,963 --> 01:10:27,204
- What made you decide
to change your last name?
1945
01:10:27,224 --> 01:10:29,390
- I have no connection
to my last name.
1946
01:10:29,617 --> 01:10:31,392
I don't know who my father is.
- Mm-hmm.
1947
01:10:31,544 --> 01:10:34,637
- And I feel like every time
I've signed my name,
1948
01:10:34,789 --> 01:10:37,381
It was meaningless.
1949
01:10:37,400 --> 01:10:40,235
So going through this,
I was like,
1950
01:10:40,386 --> 01:10:41,644
I'm changing my last name.
1951
01:10:41,738 --> 01:10:43,071
I'm gonna drop this name
1952
01:10:43,222 --> 01:10:45,131
That I have
no association with.
1953
01:10:45,149 --> 01:10:46,741
And it was just like,
we're gonna change this.
1954
01:10:46,968 --> 01:10:48,559
- All in. All in.
- All in, yeah.
1955
01:10:48,578 --> 01:10:50,394
And I even told him, I was
like, even if this doesn't
1956
01:10:50,413 --> 01:10:51,821
Work, like,
I'm probably not gonna
1957
01:10:51,973 --> 01:10:53,564
Even change my name back.
1958
01:10:53,583 --> 01:10:55,157
I'm gonna continue
to keep barnes.
1959
01:10:55,252 --> 01:10:57,735
You're stuck for life.
1960
01:10:57,754 --> 01:10:59,145
- Wow.
- Yeah.
1961
01:10:59,238 --> 01:11:00,813
- You really took control
of your life by doing that.
1962
01:11:00,832 --> 01:11:01,981
- Yeah.
1963
01:11:02,000 --> 01:11:03,499
- You know, you gave the power
to yourself
1964
01:11:03,593 --> 01:11:05,075
And away from that man
you've never known.
1965
01:11:05,169 --> 01:11:07,003
- Right.
- And that's really powerful.
1966
01:11:07,155 --> 01:11:08,154
- That's beautiful.
1967
01:11:08,172 --> 01:11:11,324
- I don't know
my biological father.
1968
01:11:11,342 --> 01:11:14,160
I did have a stepdad,
but I didn't feel like
1969
01:11:14,178 --> 01:11:19,015
I was always accepted
or had a place in the family.
1970
01:11:19,167 --> 01:11:24,279
And, you know, I really want
to have a loving relationship
1971
01:11:24,430 --> 01:11:26,614
With my son or daughter.
1972
01:11:26,766 --> 01:11:30,343
And I want to be able to have
both parents in the house.
1973
01:11:30,361 --> 01:11:34,030
Nate's stuck with me
forever and ever and ever.
1974
01:11:34,124 --> 01:11:35,364
Like, I'll always be a barnes.
1975
01:11:35,517 --> 01:11:37,274
- So for me, I was like you.
1976
01:11:37,294 --> 01:11:39,035
- Oh, okay.
- I wanted to--all in.
1977
01:11:39,187 --> 01:11:41,111
Like, I mean, I know my father.
1978
01:11:41,205 --> 01:11:45,191
[somber music]
1979
01:11:45,284 --> 01:11:46,192
I didn't mean it that way.
1980
01:11:46,285 --> 01:11:47,209
I'm sorry.
- It's fine.
1981
01:11:47,304 --> 01:11:48,528
- I didn't know--no, I--
- no, it's fine.
1982
01:11:48,546 --> 01:11:50,120
- I didn't mean it
to come out that way.
1983
01:11:50,214 --> 01:11:51,973
- It's fine.
- Okay.
1984
01:11:52,124 --> 01:11:54,200
But it's like I didn't have
that connection, you know?
1985
01:11:54,218 --> 01:11:55,885
So it's almost like
I didn't really know him.
1986
01:11:56,037 --> 01:11:57,645
All: Aww.
1987
01:11:57,872 --> 01:11:59,722
- I didn't mean it.
- It's fine.
1988
01:11:59,816 --> 01:12:02,892
- I'm so proud of you.
1989
01:12:03,044 --> 01:12:04,986
- It's fine.
- It's okay to feel it all.
1990
01:12:05,137 --> 01:12:06,212
That's okay.
1991
01:12:06,230 --> 01:12:07,547
- Yeah.
- Feel it all.
1992
01:12:07,640 --> 01:12:08,548
- Feel it.
- Thank you.
1993
01:12:08,566 --> 01:12:09,490
- It's okay.
1994
01:12:09,642 --> 01:12:11,492
- I mean, I just get
really emotional
1995
01:12:11,644 --> 01:12:14,570
Because not knowing
who my father is, I feel like
1996
01:12:14,722 --> 01:12:16,739
I've always been longing
to know, like, what is
1997
01:12:16,891 --> 01:12:19,058
The other side of my identity?
1998
01:12:19,151 --> 01:12:20,835
And that's what
I've longed for.
1999
01:12:21,062 --> 01:12:22,170
- Of course.
2000
01:12:22,397 --> 01:12:23,563
- But it's nothing
that you did.
2001
01:12:23,581 --> 01:12:25,915
It's just a soft spot for me.
- You know what?
2002
01:12:26,009 --> 01:12:28,734
This is like--
justin is making me softer,
2003
01:12:28,753 --> 01:12:30,327
Because for me, it's just like
I never really had
2004
01:12:30,421 --> 01:12:31,995
To consider--
like, my families know
2005
01:12:32,090 --> 01:12:33,163
That I'm blunt and direct.
2006
01:12:33,257 --> 01:12:34,998
And I never meet it
with ill intentions.
2007
01:12:35,018 --> 01:12:36,592
But I'm learning--
- you weren't ill.
2008
01:12:36,744 --> 01:12:37,518
- Okay.
- You weren't ill.
2009
01:12:37,670 --> 01:12:40,021
It's just soft for me.
- Okay.
2010
01:12:40,172 --> 01:12:42,673
- So, gents, are your guys'
marriages is rocking so far?
2011
01:12:42,692 --> 01:12:44,250
- You know, I know it's weird.
It's only been a week.
2012
01:12:44,268 --> 01:12:46,361
But I told her I loved her
at dinner last night.
2013
01:12:46,512 --> 01:12:47,845
- [bleep].
- I did.
2014
01:12:47,864 --> 01:12:50,606
- Bro, that's a huge milestone.
[laughter]
2015
01:12:50,700 --> 01:12:51,849
- Oh, [bleep].
2016
01:12:51,943 --> 01:12:54,017
I think he is
2017
01:12:54,037 --> 01:12:56,019
Really impressed by his wife.
2018
01:12:56,039 --> 01:12:58,431
And he's just excited
about the match.
2019
01:12:58,449 --> 01:13:00,708
I think they are compatible,
but I think
2020
01:13:00,860 --> 01:13:03,527
He's a little too excited.
2021
01:13:03,546 --> 01:13:05,104
- So how did you feel
about that?
2022
01:13:05,123 --> 01:13:06,288
Were you just like,
"oh, it's too soon"?
2023
01:13:06,441 --> 01:13:08,274
- Did you reciprocate?
- Did you say it back?
2024
01:13:08,292 --> 01:13:09,775
- Does that freak you out,
or, like, draw you closer?
2025
01:13:09,869 --> 01:13:10,960
- Yeah.
- Good question.
2026
01:13:11,112 --> 01:13:13,279
- I immediately wanted
to run and take off.
2027
01:13:13,372 --> 01:13:15,114
- Ooh.
- Is that what you normally do?
2028
01:13:15,207 --> 01:13:17,374
- That's my normal go-to,
because, like,
2029
01:13:17,394 --> 01:13:18,726
No matter how long
I was with somebody
2030
01:13:18,953 --> 01:13:20,377
In the past,
I feared commitment.
2031
01:13:20,397 --> 01:13:22,121
But he was like, "baby, you
don't have to reciprocate it.
2032
01:13:22,140 --> 01:13:23,789
"your actions show me
that you care about me,
2033
01:13:23,808 --> 01:13:25,625
And that's enough."
- she's not very expressive.
2034
01:13:25,643 --> 01:13:27,568
And I think I do
really well by leading
2035
01:13:27,795 --> 01:13:29,070
Her to do that
because I'm so expressive.
2036
01:13:29,297 --> 01:13:31,797
And I create that comfort zone
for her to express herself.
2037
01:13:31,816 --> 01:13:33,649
I don't feel bad about
telling her I love her,
2038
01:13:33,801 --> 01:13:35,301
You know what I'm saying?
- No, you shouldn't.
2039
01:13:35,319 --> 01:13:36,577
If you mean it,
if you feel it, you shouldn't.
2040
01:13:36,729 --> 01:13:37,970
No, yeah.
- Exactly.
2041
01:13:38,063 --> 01:13:39,639
And everything that's happening
on my honeymoon--
2042
01:13:39,657 --> 01:13:41,249
It's always been a dream,
but I never thought
2043
01:13:41,476 --> 01:13:42,583
It would come true for me.
- Man.
2044
01:13:42,735 --> 01:13:43,734
- You know? And so--
2045
01:13:43,753 --> 01:13:45,311
- That's awesome.
- I love that, man.
2046
01:13:45,329 --> 01:13:47,980
- Dude, it's been--
it's been unreal.
2047
01:13:47,999 --> 01:13:49,315
- Do you feel like you're
getting there, though?
2048
01:13:49,333 --> 01:13:50,258
Like, do you--
- I do. I care for him.
2049
01:13:50,409 --> 01:13:51,259
I do.
- Yeah.
2050
01:13:51,410 --> 01:13:52,576
- But I'm not as--
2051
01:13:52,670 --> 01:13:53,744
I don't love as fast as--
2052
01:13:53,763 --> 01:13:55,096
- That's quick.
- That's understandable.
2053
01:13:55,247 --> 01:13:56,338
- That's quick, yeah.
2054
01:13:56,491 --> 01:13:58,324
- I wasn't ready yet,
and he supported me.
2055
01:13:58,417 --> 01:13:59,508
- He's gotta respect that.
2056
01:13:59,661 --> 01:14:01,269
Like, all of our new
boundaries and things
2057
01:14:01,420 --> 01:14:04,254
That are coming out, they have
to be respected, because--
2058
01:14:04,274 --> 01:14:06,590
That's so sweet that he's
being understanding about it.
2059
01:14:06,609 --> 01:14:07,758
- How's it going with you
and lindy?
2060
01:14:07,852 --> 01:14:09,502
- No, lindy--I mean,
lindy's a sweetheart.
2061
01:14:09,595 --> 01:14:11,428
She's an attractive woman.
2062
01:14:11,448 --> 01:14:12,338
And she's my wife.
2063
01:14:12,356 --> 01:14:13,689
Of course, I want to have sex.
2064
01:14:13,783 --> 01:14:15,524
And that's been a little bit
of friction in a sense,
2065
01:14:15,677 --> 01:14:16,767
Because she's--she's waiting.
2066
01:14:16,786 --> 01:14:18,602
She doesn't quite feel
comfortable with me.
2067
01:14:18,621 --> 01:14:21,289
- We're just still kind of,
like, testing the waters,
2068
01:14:21,516 --> 01:14:22,773
Figuring out
our personalities...
2069
01:14:22,867 --> 01:14:23,958
- Yeah, absolutely.
- Taking it slow.
2070
01:14:24,185 --> 01:14:25,701
- It's still new.
- It's still new.
2071
01:14:25,853 --> 01:14:27,019
- I do care about her
2072
01:14:27,038 --> 01:14:29,130
And I do want to know
where she's coming at
2073
01:14:29,281 --> 01:14:30,465
And her beliefs.
2074
01:14:30,616 --> 01:14:32,041
- The sex will be
more meaningful
2075
01:14:32,193 --> 01:14:33,134
When you actually know her too.
2076
01:14:33,285 --> 01:14:34,302
- Yeah.
- I agree.
2077
01:14:34,453 --> 01:14:35,544
It makes it ten times better.
- It does.
2078
01:14:35,697 --> 01:14:36,712
It does make it better.
2079
01:14:36,864 --> 01:14:38,455
But I've said it before,
I'll say it again.
2080
01:14:38,475 --> 01:14:40,199
I'm not opposed
to having mediocre sex
2081
01:14:40,218 --> 01:14:41,625
Until we get to that point.
2082
01:14:41,644 --> 01:14:44,370
- Can I say the chemistry
between you two...
2083
01:14:44,388 --> 01:14:46,055
- Insane.
2084
01:14:46,207 --> 01:14:47,982
- We haven't had
sex or anything,
2085
01:14:48,209 --> 01:14:50,376
But we decided to take
a shower together.
2086
01:14:50,394 --> 01:14:51,377
- Oh, yeah.
2087
01:14:51,395 --> 01:14:54,046
- So we saved
some water, buddy.
2088
01:14:54,065 --> 01:14:55,990
Stacia and I,
we have natural chemistry.
2089
01:14:56,217 --> 01:14:57,383
It's real.
2090
01:14:57,401 --> 01:14:59,051
So my gut is telling me
2091
01:14:59,070 --> 01:15:00,236
That we're gonna consummate
the marriage
2092
01:15:00,388 --> 01:15:01,496
Before the honeymoon is over.
2093
01:15:01,647 --> 01:15:02,738
I know she wants it.
2094
01:15:02,890 --> 01:15:04,332
She's just kind of holding back
right now,
2095
01:15:04,483 --> 01:15:05,558
And I respect that.
2096
01:15:05,576 --> 01:15:07,502
♪ ♪
2097
01:15:07,653 --> 01:15:09,061
But she gets really
excited, though.
2098
01:15:09,080 --> 01:15:11,506
♪ ♪
2099
01:15:11,657 --> 01:15:13,232
- Okay, what's up, morgan?
2100
01:15:13,251 --> 01:15:15,584
Do y'all have
that sexual chemistry...
2101
01:15:15,678 --> 01:15:17,086
- Oh, yeah.
- Taking it slow, you all in?
2102
01:15:17,180 --> 01:15:18,829
- Yeah, where we at on that?
- 'cause I know you feisty.
2103
01:15:18,848 --> 01:15:20,848
- We've already talked.
- I'm curious.
2104
01:15:21,000 --> 01:15:23,409
- We know
morgan is super feisty.
2105
01:15:23,427 --> 01:15:25,911
- He is on my ass 24/7.
2106
01:15:25,930 --> 01:15:27,021
Like, I'll just be,
like, laying in bed.
2107
01:15:27,248 --> 01:15:28,005
He's like,
"hey, how's it going?"
2108
01:15:28,099 --> 01:15:29,023
Like, climb on top of me.
2109
01:15:29,174 --> 01:15:30,173
Lay on--like,
what are you doing?
2110
01:15:30,193 --> 01:15:31,751
- "have I told you
you're pretty?"
2111
01:15:31,844 --> 01:15:33,844
- Yeah.
And he's, like, always joking.
2112
01:15:33,938 --> 01:15:35,938
He makes me excited
for the future.
2113
01:15:36,090 --> 01:15:37,423
He doesn't make me worried.
2114
01:15:37,516 --> 01:15:39,534
He doesn't make me question,
like, what's gonna happen.
2115
01:15:39,685 --> 01:15:42,185
I'm just--no matter what's
gonna happen, it's--
2116
01:15:42,205 --> 01:15:44,430
I'm excited
for what's next with him.
2117
01:15:44,523 --> 01:15:46,189
- Can you see yourself
falling in love with her?
2118
01:15:46,209 --> 01:15:47,357
- I can see it.
She's cool.
2119
01:15:47,377 --> 01:15:48,951
Yeah, she's good at massages.
2120
01:15:49,103 --> 01:15:49,952
- Hey.
[laughter]
2121
01:15:50,104 --> 01:15:51,361
- Is she a masseuse?
2122
01:15:51,381 --> 01:15:53,363
- No, she's a nurse, so she
likes taking care--yeah.
2123
01:15:53,383 --> 01:15:54,382
- Yeah, she's gonna
take care of you.
2124
01:15:54,609 --> 01:15:56,275
- Yeah.
- So she must--so there's been
2125
01:15:56,294 --> 01:15:58,294
A little bit of physicality
so far?
2126
01:15:58,446 --> 01:15:59,387
- It was more for the knots.
2127
01:15:59,538 --> 01:16:01,280
[laughter]
2128
01:16:01,299 --> 01:16:02,782
- Bro, for a second,
I thought you said "nuts."
2129
01:16:02,800 --> 01:16:04,133
[laughter]
2130
01:16:04,227 --> 01:16:05,801
- I was gonna say,
she massaged your nuts?
2131
01:16:05,953 --> 01:16:07,620
Damn.
- I mean...
2132
01:16:07,638 --> 01:16:09,046
[laughter]
2133
01:16:09,065 --> 01:16:11,399
- Do you have
any concerns at all?
2134
01:16:11,550 --> 01:16:13,734
- There were some concerns
about it from her bridesmaids.
2135
01:16:13,886 --> 01:16:16,571
Basically, her bridesmaids told
me that she didn't want kids,
2136
01:16:16,722 --> 01:16:17,963
Or she hasn't wanted kids.
2137
01:16:17,982 --> 01:16:19,723
And that's a discussion
that we're gonna have.
2138
01:16:19,742 --> 01:16:21,150
And then I didn't even meet
the dad,
2139
01:16:21,244 --> 01:16:22,651
So it's all in her time.
2140
01:16:22,804 --> 01:16:23,986
But, yeah, I'm like--
2141
01:16:24,138 --> 01:16:25,896
I'm super close to my family,
every one of them.
2142
01:16:25,915 --> 01:16:27,656
Like, family's first.
Family's first.
2143
01:16:27,809 --> 01:16:29,399
And yeah, there's a lot of--
2144
01:16:29,419 --> 01:16:30,567
There's a lot of questions
to ask.
2145
01:16:30,661 --> 01:16:32,253
But there just, like,
hasn't been a time.
2146
01:16:32,404 --> 01:16:33,829
- It's literally two days.
Not even.
2147
01:16:33,923 --> 01:16:35,481
- Yeah, you guys got
to get all that, like,
2148
01:16:35,499 --> 01:16:36,757
Pillow talk in
and just, like, you know,
2149
01:16:36,909 --> 01:16:38,000
Get on the same page.
2150
01:16:38,152 --> 01:16:39,985
♪ ♪
2151
01:16:40,004 --> 01:16:42,488
- It just seems like
binh and morgan are not--
2152
01:16:42,506 --> 01:16:44,340
I wouldn't say
they're off to a shaky start,
2153
01:16:44,492 --> 01:16:45,825
But they don't even know
what kind of start
2154
01:16:45,918 --> 01:16:48,010
They're off to,
'cause it's all been so fast.
2155
01:16:48,162 --> 01:16:51,831
And it just seems like out of
all the couples, you know,
2156
01:16:51,849 --> 01:16:53,833
Me and krysten and binh
and morgan are kind of
2157
01:16:53,851 --> 01:16:54,925
The wild cards right now.
2158
01:16:55,019 --> 01:16:56,426
I mean, I feel like
I'm probably the one
2159
01:16:56,520 --> 01:16:58,020
Who's maybe moving the slowest.
2160
01:16:58,172 --> 01:17:00,022
Maybe she's not, like, the type
2161
01:17:00,174 --> 01:17:02,950
That I imagined that she'd be.
2162
01:17:03,177 --> 01:17:06,028
But last night, we, like,
kind of got, you know--
2163
01:17:06,122 --> 01:17:08,623
You know, some tequila
and my wife and the honeymoon
2164
01:17:08,774 --> 01:17:10,850
And, like, I actually
just kind of--you know,
2165
01:17:10,868 --> 01:17:12,351
I felt like maybe
she was thinking I wasn't
2166
01:17:12,370 --> 01:17:13,369
Showing enough affection.
2167
01:17:13,521 --> 01:17:15,704
So at night,
I just wanted to, like,
2168
01:17:15,798 --> 01:17:17,690
Lean over and give her
a little cuddle and a kiss.
2169
01:17:17,708 --> 01:17:19,708
And before I knew it,
I was, like, fired up.
2170
01:17:19,861 --> 01:17:20,693
You know what I mean?
2171
01:17:20,711 --> 01:17:22,027
- What about you?
2172
01:17:22,046 --> 01:17:23,620
- How about you, girlfriend?
How are you doing?
2173
01:17:23,640 --> 01:17:25,547
- I knew I was next. Um...
[laughter]
2174
01:17:25,700 --> 01:17:26,957
- I, like, feel your energy.
2175
01:17:26,976 --> 01:17:28,050
And I just want you
to know, like,
2176
01:17:28,202 --> 01:17:29,644
We're not pressuring you.
- No, I know.
2177
01:17:29,795 --> 01:17:31,479
I have some things to say.
2178
01:17:31,630 --> 01:17:33,481
- Okay.
- Okay.
2179
01:17:33,708 --> 01:17:37,059
- For today, I'm gonna say
I really wanted today
2180
01:17:37,211 --> 01:17:39,378
With all the couples together--
2181
01:17:39,397 --> 01:17:40,880
I wanted it to be positive.
2182
01:17:40,973 --> 01:17:43,399
I was kind of planning on maybe
getting into the girl talk
2183
01:17:43,551 --> 01:17:44,474
When the guys were not here.
2184
01:17:44,494 --> 01:17:45,642
- We don't want
to rush you, girl.
2185
01:17:45,662 --> 01:17:46,661
- Like you're fearing
that it's gonna
2186
01:17:46,812 --> 01:17:48,721
Ruin the vibe of the day.
- Exactly.
2187
01:17:48,814 --> 01:17:50,498
If you guys wait
until tomorrow,
2188
01:17:50,649 --> 01:17:52,558
I will get
into the nitty-gritty.
2189
01:17:52,576 --> 01:17:53,668
All: Okay.
2190
01:17:53,819 --> 01:17:56,729
- I will rapid-fire
when it's just us girls.
2191
01:17:56,822 --> 01:17:58,564
And you will be,
like, shooketh.
2192
01:17:58,582 --> 01:18:00,657
[tense music]
2193
01:18:00,677 --> 01:18:02,751
- I knew
something was going on.
2194
01:18:02,904 --> 01:18:04,570
I could feel it in my spirit.
2195
01:18:04,588 --> 01:18:06,496
- When I tell you
the full day of yesterday
2196
01:18:06,516 --> 01:18:08,757
And how the day ended,
how the day started,
2197
01:18:08,910 --> 01:18:11,168
You will be like, whoa.
2198
01:18:11,187 --> 01:18:12,186
- Mitch done done
something, though.
2199
01:18:12,413 --> 01:18:13,746
And I want to know,
what did mitch do?
2200
01:18:13,764 --> 01:18:22,087
♪ ♪
2201
01:18:22,106 --> 01:18:24,106
- So we just got back
from the boat trip.
2202
01:18:24,200 --> 01:18:26,183
Everybody just seems like
they're just in this--
2203
01:18:26,202 --> 01:18:28,777
The newlywed phase, and we are.
2204
01:18:28,871 --> 01:18:30,429
And when talking
with the girls, the only thing
2205
01:18:30,448 --> 01:18:32,707
That really came up
was the fact that
2206
01:18:32,858 --> 01:18:34,208
Krysten and mitchell--
2207
01:18:34,435 --> 01:18:35,710
She didn't give us
too much details,
2208
01:18:35,937 --> 01:18:37,527
But everybody kind of felt
her vibe was off.
2209
01:18:37,621 --> 01:18:40,030
And, like, we all supported
each other, and I love that.
2210
01:18:40,049 --> 01:18:41,623
It was just like, you know,
whenever you're ready.
2211
01:18:41,776 --> 01:18:43,125
Nobody was, like,
trying to pry, like, "no,
2212
01:18:43,277 --> 01:18:44,443
Tell us what's up," you know?
2213
01:18:44,462 --> 01:18:45,945
Like, it was so unselfish.
2214
01:18:46,038 --> 01:18:47,446
And it was just so supportive,
2215
01:18:47,539 --> 01:18:49,557
Which I think it makes it
more comfortable
2216
01:18:49,708 --> 01:18:51,875
For the rest of the girls
to share.
2217
01:18:51,969 --> 01:18:55,788
- ♪ eyes wide shut
to what's right in front ♪
2218
01:18:55,881 --> 01:18:58,065
♪ where do we go from here? ♪
2219
01:18:58,217 --> 01:19:00,568
♪ where do we go from here? ♪
2220
01:19:00,719 --> 01:19:03,887
♪ where do we go from,
go from here now? ♪
2221
01:19:03,981 --> 01:19:05,981
♪ where do we go from ♪
2222
01:19:06,075 --> 01:19:07,633
♪ where do we ♪
2223
01:19:07,651 --> 01:19:09,744
♪ where do we go? ♪
2224
01:19:09,895 --> 01:19:12,413
♪ god only knows ♪
2225
01:19:12,564 --> 01:19:14,915
♪ where do we go from here? ♪
2226
01:19:15,142 --> 01:19:18,085
♪ so where do we go
from here now? ♪
2227
01:19:18,312 --> 01:19:22,314
♪ eyes wide shut
to what's right in front ♪
2228
01:19:22,407 --> 01:19:24,592
♪ where do we go from here? ♪
2229
01:19:24,743 --> 01:19:26,927
♪ where do we go from here? ♪
2230
01:19:28,672 --> 01:19:29,989
- So I guess we have to get up.
2231
01:19:30,082 --> 01:19:34,176
- Yeah, let's--let's get up
and chat a little bit.
2232
01:19:34,270 --> 01:19:35,269
[tense music]
2233
01:19:35,420 --> 01:19:37,420
- All right.
2234
01:19:37,440 --> 01:19:38,755
Oh, hello, beach.
2235
01:19:38,775 --> 01:19:40,757
Hello, world.
2236
01:19:40,777 --> 01:19:42,259
We had a good time last night.
2237
01:19:42,278 --> 01:19:44,427
We had fun,
like couples should.
2238
01:19:44,522 --> 01:19:46,005
You know, we had some tequila.
2239
01:19:46,098 --> 01:19:47,856
Everything was
socially lubricated.
2240
01:19:47,950 --> 01:19:52,286
And I wasn't actually planning
on getting so hot and heavy,
2241
01:19:52,437 --> 01:19:53,362
Or at least trying to.
2242
01:19:53,514 --> 01:19:54,847
I mean, I can be--
2243
01:19:54,865 --> 01:19:56,198
The fire can be stoked.
2244
01:19:56,350 --> 01:19:57,107
That's the good thing.
2245
01:19:57,126 --> 01:19:59,701
The fire can always be stoked.
2246
01:19:59,854 --> 01:20:03,372
How are you feeling about
just talking about last night?
2247
01:20:03,466 --> 01:20:05,707
- Yesterday was crazy
and a roller coaster.
2248
01:20:05,802 --> 01:20:10,287
I will say I was
very, very happy last night
2249
01:20:10,306 --> 01:20:15,643
After we had
that really tense dinner.
2250
01:20:15,870 --> 01:20:17,870
Our little pool session
was really, like,
2251
01:20:17,963 --> 01:20:20,556
Kind of lighter
and really nice.
2252
01:20:20,650 --> 01:20:23,709
When we went back to our suite,
it meant a lot to me
2253
01:20:23,727 --> 01:20:25,711
That you did make a move.
2254
01:20:25,804 --> 01:20:27,379
You're a really good kisser.
2255
01:20:27,398 --> 01:20:32,401
And that was--
that was a good time.
2256
01:20:32,495 --> 01:20:36,738
However, like, if you had
been attracted to me
2257
01:20:36,891 --> 01:20:39,741
From the first second
and you had given me
2258
01:20:39,836 --> 01:20:43,562
A lot more of affection
and attention then,
2259
01:20:43,581 --> 01:20:45,230
And then made
that move last night...
2260
01:20:45,324 --> 01:20:47,583
- Yeah.
- We would have gone further.
2261
01:20:47,677 --> 01:20:49,826
But since I'm--
since I'm not getting that,
2262
01:20:49,846 --> 01:20:51,679
It didn't--it didn't make sense
2263
01:20:51,830 --> 01:20:53,755
For that to be our moment.
2264
01:20:53,850 --> 01:20:56,517
- You know, I wasn't--
2265
01:20:56,668 --> 01:20:59,094
I guess I--
2266
01:20:59,188 --> 01:21:00,095
I mean, I'm a guy.
2267
01:21:00,189 --> 01:21:01,096
I've got hormones.
2268
01:21:01,190 --> 01:21:03,582
I've got desires.
2269
01:21:03,601 --> 01:21:05,601
And I did know
that I just wanted
2270
01:21:05,753 --> 01:21:08,195
To show her a little bit
of affection,
2271
01:21:08,347 --> 01:21:09,771
Show her
that I'm doing my best,
2272
01:21:09,866 --> 01:21:11,866
And show her that I care
and appreciate her.
2273
01:21:12,093 --> 01:21:15,518
And...
2274
01:21:15,538 --> 01:21:17,705
I got turned on.
2275
01:21:17,856 --> 01:21:20,023
- At some point,
little by little,
2276
01:21:20,117 --> 01:21:23,118
It would be nice for me to hear
2277
01:21:23,270 --> 01:21:26,939
That you think
I look nice or I smell nice
2278
01:21:26,957 --> 01:21:29,775
Or I'm funny,
I mean, anything at all.
2279
01:21:29,868 --> 01:21:31,218
If you feel it in your head,
2280
01:21:31,370 --> 01:21:33,112
Which I can tell
you do sometimes,
2281
01:21:33,205 --> 01:21:35,038
Then just--just even saying it
2282
01:21:35,132 --> 01:21:36,891
If it's coming naturally.
2283
01:21:37,118 --> 01:21:38,117
- Okay.
2284
01:21:38,135 --> 01:21:39,952
- That would--
that would make me feel,
2285
01:21:40,045 --> 01:21:43,213
Like, really wanted and sexy.
2286
01:21:43,307 --> 01:21:45,474
And it would make me feel good.
2287
01:21:45,568 --> 01:21:48,385
♪ ♪
2288
01:21:48,479 --> 01:21:50,479
- I mean, I really respect
everything about you so far.
2289
01:21:50,573 --> 01:21:53,073
And that's--that's a really
big thing for me.
2290
01:21:53,300 --> 01:21:54,909
So I think you're
absolutely correct.
2291
01:21:55,060 --> 01:21:57,912
Like, you need to know that if
and when it happens
2292
01:21:58,139 --> 01:22:00,806
And how it happens
needs to be true.
2293
01:22:00,824 --> 01:22:01,731
- Yeah.
- And real.
2294
01:22:01,825 --> 01:22:03,083
- Yes.
- Yeah.
2295
01:22:03,310 --> 01:22:05,235
♪ ♪
2296
01:22:05,254 --> 01:22:09,089
- And the only thing
I want to make sure--
2297
01:22:09,241 --> 01:22:12,834
I just want to make sure
we keep going that route.
2298
01:22:12,929 --> 01:22:17,097
I want to make sure we continue
going down that path.
2299
01:22:17,249 --> 01:22:19,675
- Yeah.
- And the only pressure
2300
01:22:19,769 --> 01:22:21,176
I am gonna put on you...
2301
01:22:21,270 --> 01:22:23,253
♪ ♪
2302
01:22:23,347 --> 01:22:26,089
If we do get to decision day
2303
01:22:26,108 --> 01:22:29,835
And I don't have sex from you
2304
01:22:29,928 --> 01:22:31,670
Or an "I love you" from you,
2305
01:22:31,689 --> 01:22:34,690
I will ask for a divorce.
2306
01:22:34,784 --> 01:22:36,099
- Okay.
2307
01:22:36,118 --> 01:22:38,360
- ♪ I thought
that I knew you ♪
2308
01:22:38,512 --> 01:22:40,437
♪ tried to see through you ♪
2309
01:22:40,456 --> 01:22:44,441
♪ but I guess I was wrong ♪
2310
01:22:44,535 --> 01:22:46,368
- ♪ everybody ♪
2311
01:22:46,462 --> 01:22:49,779
- Next time
on "married at first sight"...
2312
01:22:49,873 --> 01:22:51,298
- ♪ going on my spaceship,
heading to the moon ♪
2313
01:22:51,525 --> 01:22:52,466
- Game.
2314
01:22:52,617 --> 01:22:54,042
- I guess we're gonna have
some drinks.
2315
01:22:54,136 --> 01:22:56,637
[all talking at once]
2316
01:22:56,864 --> 01:22:57,879
- We will find out
who [bleep] first.
2317
01:22:57,974 --> 01:22:59,122
[laughter]
2318
01:22:59,141 --> 01:23:00,623
[dramatic music]
2319
01:23:00,718 --> 01:23:04,144
- I'm mostly concerned because
he has said he does not have
2320
01:23:04,371 --> 01:23:06,038
A lot of experience
with girlfriends
2321
01:23:06,131 --> 01:23:07,539
Or being in a relationship.
2322
01:23:07,558 --> 01:23:09,725
- So how committed is he?
2323
01:23:09,877 --> 01:23:12,135
- The thing
that I wanted private isn't.
2324
01:23:12,229 --> 01:23:14,396
- Sorry.
- That broke my trust
2325
01:23:14,490 --> 01:23:15,897
'cause I trusted you.
2326
01:23:15,992 --> 01:23:17,566
♪ ♪
2327
01:23:17,660 --> 01:23:19,067
- I don't know
what the hell is happening.
2328
01:23:19,220 --> 01:23:20,661
- I come with a lot,
2329
01:23:20,888 --> 01:23:23,889
And I don't know if he knows
the depths of that.
2330
01:23:23,907 --> 01:23:25,982
- Is this just a two-month
experiment for you?
2331
01:23:26,002 --> 01:23:27,484
- I don't know.
2332
01:23:27,503 --> 01:23:29,077
- He's like, "I don't know.
I'm giving you eight weeks."
2333
01:23:29,230 --> 01:23:30,912
- Not quite, no.
- That feels like [bleep].
2334
01:23:31,007 --> 01:23:36,093
♪ ♪