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[dramatic music]
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- Oh, my god, I'm so happy
to finally meet you.
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- Me too.
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- Ten singles put their trust
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In the experts to find love.
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They married
as complete strangers.
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♪ ♪
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- Yes!
- Cheers!
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- Last time, they continued
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Their honeymoons in mexico.
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[upbeat music]
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- I know I want to spend
the rest of my life with you.
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- How do you know?
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You know, my mom said it--
- 'cause I love you.
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Does it scare you?
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- It scares me
because it's unfamiliar,
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But I shouldn't be afraid
of something like this.
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- ♪ you take the risk,
no hiding ♪
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- Oh!
- [laughing]
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- Cupcakes?
- Happy birthday!
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- Damn.
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I turned 30.
I got a wife.
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- [laughs]
- breakfast in bed.
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- And we're about to go
on a honeymoon too.
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- Yeah, I can't lose right now.
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- No.
[laughter]
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- When we do
consummate the marriage,
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It is a really big deal to me.
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- I do want to express myself
affectionately using sex.
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For me, it is, you know, like,
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The signature
on the dotted line.
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- ♪ lick it,
lick it till you hit ♪
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♪ the center
like a tootsie pop ♪
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- So what about, like, kids?
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- You tell me.
Like, what is your timeline?
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- In a year.
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- My ideal was like two
to three years, give or take.
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- Okay.
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- But it has to be
with the right person.
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You're definitely--
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- What do you mean,
the right person?
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We're married.
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- I definitely would be
comfortable advancing
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In the physical
sexual department.
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- It's just not quite there
for me right now.
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- One second,
we're having dinner,
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And he's not attracted to me.
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The next second, we're eating
chocolate-covered strawberries
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With champagne and tequila.
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If we do get to decision day,
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And I don't have sex from you
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Or an "I love you" from you,
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I will ask for a divorce.
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[dramatic music]
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- ♪ yes, I'm
gonna save the world ♪
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All: Arriba.
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- Tonight, our couples
spend the final days
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Of their honeymoon together
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Before returning
to the real world.
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- We've been
with our wives for a while,
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And we gon' find out
who [bleep] first.
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- [snorts]
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- He pounced on me
like a tiger.
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- What?
- What?
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- Pounced.
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- Is this just a two-month
experiment for you?
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- I don't know.
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- He's like, "I don't know.
I'm giving you eight weeks."
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- Quiet, no, those were not--
- that feels like [bleep].
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- The thing
that I wanted private isn't.
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- I'm sorry.
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- That broke my trust
because I trusted you.
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- Let's not get too far
ahead of ourselves.
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I'd be full of [bleep]
if I was to tell you,
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"oh, yeah, I already know."
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- I don't know
what the hell's happened.
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- I come with a lot,
and I don't know
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If he knows the depths of that.
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- ♪ it's all or nothing ♪
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- This is
"married at first sight."
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- ♪ there's no other way ♪
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♪ it's all or nothing ♪
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[serene music]
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♪ ♪
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- We are just waking up after--
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- Morning!
- No.
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You is way too lit
right now in the morning time.
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I still have, like, eye boogers
and [bleep] in my eyes.
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I'm so tired.
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- I just like waking up
next to you.
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- Oh, my gosh.
- That's it.
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- I like waking up next
to you too, but damn.
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- It's another day in paradise.
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- Buenos días.
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- Oh, buenos días.
Cómo éstas?
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- Bien, y tú?
- Muy bien.
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I slept so good last night.
- Nice.
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- Most of our couples are now
on day five of their marriage.
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- I'm going out with the wives.
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- I'm going out
with the fellas.
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- And we're gonna
go have brunch
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While they tequila taste,
so I feel gypped!
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And then what am I
gonna do with you
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Once you come back all drunk
and stuff?
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- I won't come back drunk.
I promise you I'm not.
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- You can.
- I can.
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- Mm-hmm.
- I get to come back drunk.
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[laughter]
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- And while all
of our newlyweds
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Are learning about each other,
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One pair still has
some catching up to do.
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- Do I snore in my sleep?
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- No, you don't snore
in your sleep.
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You're a quiet sleeper.
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I don't even think you move
when you sleep.
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- I feel like I do.
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- I feel like I toss and turn,
but, like,
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I don't feel like you move
that much.
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- But we hope that all these
couples use the final days
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Of their honeymoon
to further understand
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The stranger they married
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Because
in just over seven weeks,
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These couples
will have to make one
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Of the most significant
decisions of their lives.
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They'll have to decide whether
they want to stay married
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Or get a divorce.
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- ♪ I'm so fresh,
I'm so clean ♪
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♪ pull up on them
with a gangsta lean ♪
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♪ I'm so fly, I'm so sick ♪
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♪ when I walk in the room... ♪
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- Look at how pretty this is!
- Oh, my god, I love this.
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- That's what we needed!
- Oh, my god!
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- I guess we're gonna
have some drinks.
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- Hello, good morning.
Buenos días.
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- Good morning.
- Buenos días.
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- To girl's day!
- Girl's day.
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- Girls' day, finally.
- Cheers!
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- You know the guys are doing
tequila tasting right now.
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- I'm just a little jealous.
- I was so jealous.
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- Yeah, that's what I said!
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- I want to be on tequila time.
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- Yes!
- Me too!
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- Arriba!
All: Arriba!
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- Abajo!
All: Abajo!
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- Al centro!
All: Al centro!
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- Say, coochie-coochie!
All: Coochie-coochie!
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- Pa dentro.
All the way, let's go.
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♪ ♪
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- Hey.
All: Pa dentro.
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- Honestly,
I threw that tequila shot
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'cause I ain't gonna [bleep],
you know what I'm saying?
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I'ma be lit.
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♪ ♪
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- I mean, I, like, want to
start off with I am impressed,
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Like, by all four
of you ladies.
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And just because
maybe my journey
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Is going a little different,
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I do not want
to take light away from yours.
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I was hoping to hear a couple--
about how things are going
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For y'all before I popped off.
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- We're gonna spill some tea.
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We're going to spill some tea,
you know what I mean?
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We've been with our wives
for a while.
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We've been connecting.
- Yeah.
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- And we gon' find out
who [bleep] first.
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- [snorts]
- period!
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Let's start off with you.
Spill the tea, bro.
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- Honestly, man,
ain't no tea to spill, bro.
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- Okay.
- You know?
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We've just been kissing
and touching a lot.
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You know what I'm saying?
Intimate, we cuddle a lot.
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And I think right now,
it's just--
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We're still getting comfortable
with each other.
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- Okay.
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- I think we're
at the point right now
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Where we're walking
around the place naked.
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So that's a start.
- Okay.
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That's definitely progress.
- A good start, yeah.
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- She really respects
my celibacy, like, deadass.
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She's like, "baby, like,
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Whenever you're comfortable,"
you know what I'm saying?
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- Okay, question, though.
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You said you love her.
- I do.
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- You do, yeah.
- I do.
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- Okay.
- So do you feel comfortable?
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Because I mean,
you actually love her.
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So that's your question, right?
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Like, you feel comfortable.
You said the l-word.
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- Right.
- Like, what's up, bro?
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- Right, like, what more?
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- The approach
that I'm taking, like,
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When it happens,
it's gonna be,
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Like, we just feeling it.
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And one thing's
gonna lead to another.
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I would much rather it
happen like that
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'cause it's more authentic
than it being forced.
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- So justin, he's celibate.
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You know, no sex
between the both of them.
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And I think it's because
he gets [bleep] whipped.
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I don't think
he wants to get excited.
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And so maybe that's
his way of going slow.
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So I think once
they do actually have sex,
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[chuckles]
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- The only spe--I mean,
tea I really got to spill
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Is that she recognized
that I'm sensitive,
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But what I like--that
doesn't bother her
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Because, you know,
she shared last night.
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She's like,
"baby, you sensitive,
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But you can hold your own."
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- Right, right, right.
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- "you'll tell somebody off
if need be,
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"or, you know what I'm saying,
you can put your foot down
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On x, y, and z."
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So I think that's a huge step
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Because some women
don't like sensitive men.
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- Yeah, that's true.
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- Like, me crying
at my wedding, like,
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They wouldn't like that,
but it's being embraced,
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So I think that's a big step,
you know what I'm saying?
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- It's hard.
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My husband is sensitive,
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And, like, I joke about it
a lot being hard,
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But it's genuinely hard for me.
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The experts giving me someone
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Who is completely opposite
than me,
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Which is good for me
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Because I need
to grow in that way.
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Every day, I have to work
to consider his feelings.
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And he considers me
in everything he does.
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Every single thing he does.
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And sometimes, I feel guilty
because it's just like,
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That's not how
I'm naturally wired to do,
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But I have to force myself
to think like that
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Because he's like,
"I'm in love with you."
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Like, he says it all the time.
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- He already says it!
So sweet.
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- And I'm just like, you know,
say it with your chest.
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You know, like,
I'm just really...
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Like, morgan, I feel like
we're just in that way.
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- Well, our husbands are
very similar in that way.
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They're both very sensitive
and very aware of, like,
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What they say
and how they speak.
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- Do you think the experts
did a good job?
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- Yeah, I think so, yeah.
248
00:08:43,582 --> 00:08:44,581
- What about like,
are you guys getting along
249
00:08:44,599 --> 00:08:46,191
On a personality level?
250
00:08:46,342 --> 00:08:48,026
- Yeah, like,
on a personality level,
251
00:08:48,253 --> 00:08:50,028
But, like, we haven't gone
in-depth, just cuddling.
252
00:08:50,179 --> 00:08:52,088
I'm big spoon for sure,
you know what I mean?
253
00:08:52,107 --> 00:08:55,775
- So there is some initial
physical intimacy, though.
254
00:08:55,869 --> 00:08:58,036
- Yeah, but her friends told me
she's a certified freak.
255
00:08:58,263 --> 00:08:59,520
- I'm dead.
256
00:08:59,540 --> 00:09:01,522
- You can get nasty.
- [laughs]
257
00:09:01,616 --> 00:09:03,524
She may get nasty?
Dang.
258
00:09:03,544 --> 00:09:04,709
- Are you excited about that?
259
00:09:04,936 --> 00:09:06,378
- I got to work
on my hip thrust.
260
00:09:06,529 --> 00:09:07,712
[laughter]
261
00:09:07,939 --> 00:09:09,606
- We're here,
but we're not, like, here.
262
00:09:09,699 --> 00:09:10,957
Like, in our face.
- Yeah, yeah, yeah.
263
00:09:11,109 --> 00:09:12,609
- But, like,
behind closed doors,
264
00:09:12,627 --> 00:09:14,110
He's like,
been like topping me a lot
265
00:09:14,129 --> 00:09:15,887
And, like, touching
and everything.
266
00:09:16,114 --> 00:09:17,722
And so this morning--
- she said "everything."
267
00:09:17,874 --> 00:09:18,965
- And, like, this morning,
I was like,
268
00:09:19,117 --> 00:09:20,225
"no, like, we need to stop,
269
00:09:20,452 --> 00:09:21,785
Or else we're gonna be late,"
kind of a thing.
270
00:09:21,803 --> 00:09:24,211
So I feel like
a little bit more time--
271
00:09:24,231 --> 00:09:25,880
- Is there--yeah, you guys
have just been in a rush.
272
00:09:25,899 --> 00:09:27,457
- And we're just--
- there's time to do a quickie.
273
00:09:27,475 --> 00:09:29,125
- Yeah, no, because he's like,
"we got ten minutes," right.
274
00:09:29,144 --> 00:09:30,476
I'm like,
you don't need ten minutes!
275
00:09:30,571 --> 00:09:32,237
Like, we're gonna be longer
than that, stop that.
276
00:09:32,464 --> 00:09:34,406
I'm--no, no, no, no.
- Not for the first time.
277
00:09:34,633 --> 00:09:36,800
- No, I was like, no,
ten minutes is not good.
278
00:09:36,893 --> 00:09:39,469
So we're--yes,
it--I don't know.
279
00:09:39,487 --> 00:09:40,412
It'll happen tonight.
- It's there.
280
00:09:40,563 --> 00:09:41,638
- Yep, definitely.
- [laughter]
281
00:09:41,656 --> 00:09:43,248
- Definitely.
- Maybe.
282
00:09:43,399 --> 00:09:45,083
Maybe, because he is hot.
Like, his body, mm-mm.
283
00:09:45,310 --> 00:09:46,810
- Yeah, he's a cutie.
- Oh, my [bleep] god.
284
00:09:46,828 --> 00:09:48,253
[upbeat music]
285
00:09:48,404 --> 00:09:51,314
- [giggles]
- dear lord, like, stop.
286
00:09:51,333 --> 00:09:53,091
- He works out, for sure.
- You've gotta be kidding me.
287
00:09:53,242 --> 00:09:54,667
Like, you know,
he sleeps in his underwear.
288
00:09:54,820 --> 00:09:56,261
I'm like, [bleep], boy!
289
00:09:56,488 --> 00:09:59,322
Like, you can't do this to me!
Oh, my god.
290
00:09:59,415 --> 00:10:01,007
Okay, anyways, anyways,
I got to stop.
291
00:10:01,159 --> 00:10:02,416
I gotta stop talking
about my husband like that.
292
00:10:02,436 --> 00:10:03,843
- She's getting worked up.
- I am getting worked up.
293
00:10:03,995 --> 00:10:06,512
- Are you guys building
intimacy as well?
294
00:10:06,665 --> 00:10:10,016
- Um, things are progressing
295
00:10:10,168 --> 00:10:13,427
In different ways, and...
296
00:10:13,521 --> 00:10:15,930
- What does that mean?
- Lindy!
297
00:10:16,024 --> 00:10:17,765
- We're all just like, what?
298
00:10:17,784 --> 00:10:19,676
- What are you saying?
- What are you guys hiding?
299
00:10:19,694 --> 00:10:21,511
- Say it, lindy!
- What is it?
300
00:10:21,604 --> 00:10:23,604
- We're doing what
married couples do.
301
00:10:23,698 --> 00:10:26,199
- [squealing]
- okay, okay!
302
00:10:26,351 --> 00:10:28,793
- Oh, wow!
- On their honeymoon!
303
00:10:28,945 --> 00:10:30,277
- Oh!
- Okay!
304
00:10:30,297 --> 00:10:32,705
- We knew it, I knew it!
- Tell us, tell us!
305
00:10:32,799 --> 00:10:34,466
Okay, like--
- you filthy woman, I knew it!
306
00:10:34,693 --> 00:10:36,283
- I know.
307
00:10:36,303 --> 00:10:37,694
- I never would've guessed
you would have been the person.
308
00:10:37,712 --> 00:10:39,286
I never would've guessed.
- I never--
309
00:10:39,306 --> 00:10:41,139
- No, never!
- Never!
310
00:10:41,366 --> 00:10:42,974
- Especially,
I was like--going into this,
311
00:10:43,201 --> 00:10:44,959
I was like, I'm gonna be,
like, this, that, and--
312
00:10:44,978 --> 00:10:46,645
Like, you can't
have those expectations...
313
00:10:46,796 --> 00:10:47,795
- Yes.
- Because you don't know.
314
00:10:47,814 --> 00:10:49,722
But, like, it just was--
315
00:10:49,875 --> 00:10:51,465
It was natural,
it was, you know,
316
00:10:51,485 --> 00:10:52,800
There was no pressure.
317
00:10:52,894 --> 00:10:55,636
It just--it was really nice.
318
00:10:55,730 --> 00:10:57,547
So I feel good about that.
319
00:10:57,565 --> 00:11:00,233
I'm hoping he's saying the same
thing right now to the guys.
320
00:11:00,327 --> 00:11:01,885
- Yeah.
- So yeah.
321
00:11:01,903 --> 00:11:02,994
- Just a nice progression
in our relationship.
322
00:11:03,146 --> 00:11:04,237
- Oh, my gosh.
323
00:11:04,389 --> 00:11:05,664
- Yesterday,
we made love, yeah.
324
00:11:05,815 --> 00:11:07,056
- Oh!
- Wait.
325
00:11:07,075 --> 00:11:08,908
- You made love?
- You broke her back?
326
00:11:09,002 --> 00:11:11,411
- It was very--it was more
passionate than I thought
327
00:11:11,563 --> 00:11:13,413
It was gonna be
because that first time
328
00:11:13,507 --> 00:11:16,065
With a new partner,
right, you don't know.
329
00:11:16,084 --> 00:11:17,567
- You don't know.
330
00:11:17,585 --> 00:11:19,068
- So there's always
that worry, like,
331
00:11:19,087 --> 00:11:20,236
You're very much in the moment.
332
00:11:20,255 --> 00:11:22,329
You're aroused.
333
00:11:22,349 --> 00:11:24,090
[soft music]
334
00:11:24,242 --> 00:11:26,000
But, yeah, everything--
it was perfect.
335
00:11:26,094 --> 00:11:28,077
I mean, I will say I felt--
336
00:11:28,096 --> 00:11:30,079
I kind of felt one
with the universe.
337
00:11:30,098 --> 00:11:32,265
I felt holy, if you will.
338
00:11:32,359 --> 00:11:35,585
I felt, like,
empowered by a divine being.
339
00:11:35,603 --> 00:11:37,754
I don't know,
it felt--it was nice.
340
00:11:37,847 --> 00:11:39,698
It was--no,
it was very special.
341
00:11:39,925 --> 00:11:41,774
- All right, nate.
- He been happy over here.
342
00:11:41,927 --> 00:11:43,017
Spill the tea, brother.
343
00:11:43,111 --> 00:11:44,594
- I mean, everything's good.
344
00:11:44,612 --> 00:11:46,871
You can kind of tell
that we're vibing all the time.
345
00:11:47,098 --> 00:11:49,857
And even though I'm,
like, very extroverted,
346
00:11:49,876 --> 00:11:52,210
I'm very comfortable,
347
00:11:52,361 --> 00:11:55,288
You know, no lovemaking,
you know, no sex.
348
00:11:55,440 --> 00:11:57,048
- Wait.
- What?
349
00:11:57,200 --> 00:11:59,700
- Yeah, I mean,
we--I want to respect my wife.
350
00:11:59,794 --> 00:12:00,944
- I feel that.
- Yeah.
351
00:12:00,962 --> 00:12:03,629
- And, you know, as guys,
352
00:12:03,724 --> 00:12:06,057
We've all tried to get it in,
like, earlier than later,
353
00:12:06,284 --> 00:12:09,135
Sooner than later,
and that messes things up.
354
00:12:09,287 --> 00:12:10,729
- It does.
- It makes things complicated.
355
00:12:10,880 --> 00:12:12,455
- Why does it make
things complicated?
356
00:12:12,474 --> 00:12:13,973
That's what I don't understand
because, like, to me,
357
00:12:14,125 --> 00:12:15,382
There's nothing more natural
than, like,
358
00:12:15,402 --> 00:12:16,901
Feeling attracted to someone,
359
00:12:17,053 --> 00:12:17,885
Especially in this case,
lindy, my wife.
360
00:12:17,904 --> 00:12:18,811
- Sure, sure.
361
00:12:18,905 --> 00:12:20,238
- Being attracted to her
362
00:12:20,389 --> 00:12:22,073
And wanting
to express that affection.
363
00:12:22,225 --> 00:12:27,579
- So my opinion
on that is when men--
364
00:12:27,730 --> 00:12:31,157
Or any couple gets together,
right, physically,
365
00:12:31,251 --> 00:12:34,994
Early on in the stage,
366
00:12:35,088 --> 00:12:37,404
You're--we're lacking that
understanding of each other.
367
00:12:37,424 --> 00:12:38,998
- Yep.
368
00:12:39,092 --> 00:12:40,592
- We're lacking, you know,
if we have the same vision.
369
00:12:40,819 --> 00:12:43,762
We're lacking, you know,
if we have the same goals.
370
00:12:43,913 --> 00:12:46,264
We're lacking--if we have
the same lifestyle, right?
371
00:12:46,491 --> 00:12:47,766
- Yeah.
372
00:12:47,993 --> 00:12:50,493
- And so, you know,
I'm in this for a reason.
373
00:12:50,586 --> 00:12:53,921
I have a purpose,
and I want a wife,
374
00:12:53,940 --> 00:12:56,775
And I want to have
a long-term relationship.
375
00:12:57,002 --> 00:12:59,519
- I--yo, no, I don't know.
I'm not buying it.
376
00:12:59,671 --> 00:13:00,837
- That's what
I'm talking about.
377
00:13:00,855 --> 00:13:02,338
Come on, get comfy, baby.
378
00:13:02,431 --> 00:13:03,264
- [laughs]
- get comfy.
379
00:13:03,358 --> 00:13:07,619
[upbeat music]
380
00:13:07,770 --> 00:13:10,437
- Like, I think
nate is having sex.
381
00:13:10,532 --> 00:13:13,199
He's just not talking about it.
382
00:13:13,351 --> 00:13:15,126
- Me and nate took
a bath together.
383
00:13:15,353 --> 00:13:16,352
- Ooh.
- That was--that was nice.
384
00:13:16,445 --> 00:13:18,129
- Conserving water.
- [laughter]
385
00:13:18,356 --> 00:13:20,298
- I mean, yeah,
you know, shout out, mitch.
386
00:13:20,449 --> 00:13:21,949
[laughter]
387
00:13:21,968 --> 00:13:23,784
- He's happy, yeah.
- He always says that.
388
00:13:23,878 --> 00:13:25,528
- Love that.
- Yes, yes.
389
00:13:25,621 --> 00:13:27,788
Find other intimate ways--
- yeah.
390
00:13:27,882 --> 00:13:29,140
- Rather than just sex.
391
00:13:29,292 --> 00:13:30,366
- Yes.
- Mm-hmm.
392
00:13:30,459 --> 00:13:31,643
- I want that to be,
like, the last--
393
00:13:31,794 --> 00:13:33,036
- Yes.
- Yeah.
394
00:13:33,129 --> 00:13:34,646
- I love that.
- Build up to it, yeah.
395
00:13:34,797 --> 00:13:36,205
- Cute.
- I love that.
396
00:13:36,224 --> 00:13:37,707
- So how long are you gonna
keep us waiting, krysten?
397
00:13:37,800 --> 00:13:38,891
- Okay, I'm ready.
- Yeah, I know!
398
00:13:39,044 --> 00:13:41,227
- I'm ready, I'm ready.
- I want the tea!
399
00:13:41,321 --> 00:13:46,974
- Overall, it's going.
I wouldn't say extremely well.
400
00:13:46,993 --> 00:13:49,160
But in order for this to work,
401
00:13:49,312 --> 00:13:51,737
We're all gonna have
to still be on team mitch.
402
00:13:51,890 --> 00:13:53,222
- Yes, yes.
- You know?
403
00:13:53,241 --> 00:13:54,907
- That's the hard part--
- and it's hard.
404
00:13:55,001 --> 00:13:56,317
- Is, like, listening,
405
00:13:56,336 --> 00:13:57,560
But supporting
and not demonizing.
406
00:13:57,653 --> 00:13:58,911
- Exactly.
- You can't do that.
407
00:13:59,064 --> 00:14:00,730
With each other
and about our husbands.
408
00:14:00,823 --> 00:14:02,173
- Mm-hmm.
- And I know you wouldn't.
409
00:14:02,400 --> 00:14:04,008
But I just want to say,
I'm not doing that.
410
00:14:04,160 --> 00:14:07,161
I am going to stick
with the positive,
411
00:14:07,180 --> 00:14:11,498
And I still really,
really want to make this work.
412
00:14:11,518 --> 00:14:14,911
Okay, so a couple nights ago,
413
00:14:15,004 --> 00:14:20,007
He begins to explain to me
414
00:14:20,026 --> 00:14:24,420
That he is missing something.
415
00:14:24,439 --> 00:14:27,014
He's saying
he's not growing any sort
416
00:14:27,033 --> 00:14:29,425
Of physical attraction
towards me.
417
00:14:29,518 --> 00:14:31,870
And then we had
a really--like,
418
00:14:32,021 --> 00:14:33,613
Continued to have
a nice time together.
419
00:14:33,765 --> 00:14:35,781
We started drinking.
We were getting margaritas.
420
00:14:35,934 --> 00:14:39,268
And then,
we went up to the room,
421
00:14:39,362 --> 00:14:43,122
And he pounced on me
like a tiger.
422
00:14:43,274 --> 00:14:44,382
- What?
- What?
423
00:14:44,533 --> 00:14:45,717
- Pounced.
424
00:14:45,944 --> 00:14:47,293
I said...
425
00:14:47,445 --> 00:14:49,203
- I'm thinking, like, team
mitch, team mitch, team mitch.
426
00:14:49,297 --> 00:14:50,613
- I know!
- But it's so hard!
427
00:14:50,632 --> 00:14:52,056
- I'm trying to be
so positive right now!
428
00:14:52,283 --> 00:14:53,540
- This guy!
- We have to be team mitch.
429
00:14:53,560 --> 00:14:55,226
We have to.
He's my husband.
430
00:14:55,378 --> 00:14:57,211
- I know,
but it's hard when you--
431
00:14:57,305 --> 00:14:58,788
We love--like, we love you.
432
00:14:58,881 --> 00:15:00,547
- I love you guys.
- It's so hard.
433
00:15:00,567 --> 00:15:02,125
- That's so confusing.
- Imagine being me!
434
00:15:02,143 --> 00:15:03,550
Like, it's hard.
- That's so confusing.
435
00:15:03,570 --> 00:15:05,219
- So I said--
436
00:15:05,313 --> 00:15:07,480
I said, what is going on?
437
00:15:07,632 --> 00:15:09,632
Like, you know,
we haven't really touched
438
00:15:09,725 --> 00:15:10,891
Or kissed this whole time,
439
00:15:10,911 --> 00:15:13,244
And you just invited me
to a formal dinner
440
00:15:13,471 --> 00:15:14,820
To tell your wife
you're not attracted to her.
441
00:15:14,973 --> 00:15:16,414
So what's going on?
442
00:15:16,641 --> 00:15:19,325
And he said that
he could not believe the way
443
00:15:19,419 --> 00:15:21,085
That I handled myself
444
00:15:21,312 --> 00:15:25,406
And that it was very,
very attractive to him
445
00:15:25,500 --> 00:15:29,427
And that he wanted to get down.
446
00:15:29,654 --> 00:15:33,431
And I said, I'm gonna
flip this script on you.
447
00:15:33,582 --> 00:15:37,493
I said, I make the rules now.
- Yeah.
448
00:15:37,512 --> 00:15:40,346
- And it's not
gonna happen this way.
449
00:15:40,440 --> 00:15:43,666
- I am team mitch as long as
you want me to be team mitch,
450
00:15:43,685 --> 00:15:45,501
But if team mitch
starts being disrespectful,
451
00:15:45,520 --> 00:15:47,503
Alexis is
no longer team mitch.
452
00:15:47,522 --> 00:15:50,097
Just give me a sign.
Alexis got you.
453
00:15:50,116 --> 00:15:51,841
- I'm the captain now.
454
00:15:51,859 --> 00:15:55,286
[dramatic music]
455
00:15:59,517 --> 00:16:00,199
- ♪ why don't you
light the flame ♪
456
00:16:00,293 --> 00:16:02,034
♪ fire to guide the way ♪
457
00:16:02,187 --> 00:16:06,965
♪ show me desire, I'm waiting,
I'm waiting on your love ♪
458
00:16:08,301 --> 00:16:10,876
- Cheers to us finally
getting our honeymoon.
459
00:16:11,029 --> 00:16:12,712
- Somewhat alone time?
- Some alone time.
460
00:16:12,864 --> 00:16:13,954
- Yeah.
- On our honeymoon.
461
00:16:13,974 --> 00:16:17,200
[soft music]
462
00:16:17,218 --> 00:16:19,552
- What do you think of,
like, the other couples?
463
00:16:19,704 --> 00:16:23,556
- All of the couples are, like,
very touchy feely right now.
464
00:16:23,708 --> 00:16:25,632
- Yeah, like, I wonder--
- they're very physical.
465
00:16:25,652 --> 00:16:27,485
- I wonder what
they're doing right now.
466
00:16:27,636 --> 00:16:29,212
- You could probably imagine
what they're doing right now.
467
00:16:29,230 --> 00:16:31,047
[laughter]
468
00:16:31,065 --> 00:16:32,139
- I can imagine what
nate's doing right now.
469
00:16:32,158 --> 00:16:33,899
I can for sure.
470
00:16:33,994 --> 00:16:35,551
- Do you feel like you're
closer to any of the guys?
471
00:16:35,570 --> 00:16:38,145
- Yeah, I think--what's tree--
justin, yeah.
472
00:16:38,164 --> 00:16:39,555
- That's cute.
473
00:16:39,574 --> 00:16:40,723
Well, he already said
that he loves her.
474
00:16:40,742 --> 00:16:42,908
Like...
475
00:16:43,061 --> 00:16:47,230
- When do you think
we'd be saying that?
476
00:16:47,248 --> 00:16:48,322
- I don't know.
477
00:16:48,341 --> 00:16:49,915
- Yeah, that's kind of--
it's hard to--
478
00:16:50,068 --> 00:16:51,234
- That's really hard to gauge,
479
00:16:51,327 --> 00:16:53,327
Like, falling in love,
you know?
480
00:16:53,346 --> 00:16:54,828
That's really...
481
00:16:54,848 --> 00:16:56,422
I don't know.
482
00:16:56,574 --> 00:16:58,165
And it's so unique for,
like, different--
483
00:16:58,184 --> 00:16:59,833
- Yeah.
- With a different person.
484
00:16:59,853 --> 00:17:02,411
And, you know,
but I'm happy for them.
485
00:17:02,430 --> 00:17:03,746
They look really good together.
486
00:17:03,765 --> 00:17:05,748
Maybe we can do something
with them eventually.
487
00:17:05,767 --> 00:17:07,933
If it's not here,
then, like, back in san diego.
488
00:17:08,086 --> 00:17:11,103
- Yeah.
- Do something fun.
489
00:17:11,197 --> 00:17:13,364
Oh, how is it going to look
when we go back, though?
490
00:17:13,516 --> 00:17:16,259
Like, what do you
think's gonna happen?
491
00:17:16,352 --> 00:17:18,427
- Is your cat coming?
- Mm-hmm.
492
00:17:18,446 --> 00:17:19,929
- You sure?
I'm just kidding.
493
00:17:19,947 --> 00:17:22,114
I'm kidding.
- Absolutely, absolutely.
494
00:17:22,267 --> 00:17:24,767
- What do you normally do
on your weekends?
495
00:17:24,860 --> 00:17:26,619
- I just go
to the gym and relax
496
00:17:26,713 --> 00:17:30,531
Because I've been going so--
like, go 110% at work,
497
00:17:30,550 --> 00:17:32,108
So on the weekends,
I just like to chill and relax.
498
00:17:32,126 --> 00:17:33,217
- Decompress, yeah.
- And decompress.
499
00:17:33,369 --> 00:17:34,460
Because it's a lot.
500
00:17:34,612 --> 00:17:36,612
- It's always--no matter what,
501
00:17:36,631 --> 00:17:39,799
If it's a week from today
or a month from today,
502
00:17:39,951 --> 00:17:41,634
It's always going to be hectic.
503
00:17:41,728 --> 00:17:43,061
That's just--
504
00:17:43,212 --> 00:17:44,136
- That's just the name
of the game.
505
00:17:44,289 --> 00:17:45,229
- Nature of the beast, yeah.
506
00:17:45,381 --> 00:17:48,124
- It's just--I signed up
for it, you know?
507
00:17:48,142 --> 00:17:50,068
That's what nursing is.
508
00:17:50,219 --> 00:17:54,814
[crickets chirping]
509
00:17:54,966 --> 00:17:56,482
- How do you think we're doing?
510
00:17:56,576 --> 00:17:59,485
- I think considering
the circumstances and, like,
511
00:17:59,637 --> 00:18:00,469
The less time that we have--
512
00:18:00,488 --> 00:18:01,987
- Mm-hmm.
513
00:18:02,082 --> 00:18:04,398
- I feel like we're starting
off really, really well.
514
00:18:04,417 --> 00:18:06,066
And I feel like there's
a lot of potential
515
00:18:06,086 --> 00:18:07,493
Going further from here.
516
00:18:07,645 --> 00:18:08,811
Of course, we're gonna have,
like, ups and downs,
517
00:18:08,830 --> 00:18:09,921
And things are going to happen.
518
00:18:10,072 --> 00:18:12,072
But I feel like
we have a good, like,
519
00:18:12,092 --> 00:18:14,759
Understanding of each other
and, like, a good foundation.
520
00:18:14,910 --> 00:18:17,987
- Yeah, what do you think,
like, a good five-week plan
521
00:18:18,005 --> 00:18:22,082
For us would be
on a weekly, on a biweekly,
522
00:18:22,102 --> 00:18:24,268
Or how would we
10x our relationship
523
00:18:24,420 --> 00:18:26,253
During that time,
during the five weeks?
524
00:18:26,272 --> 00:18:28,088
- Well, do you have
any ideas of that?
525
00:18:28,108 --> 00:18:29,440
Because I feel like
that's more of, like,
526
00:18:29,592 --> 00:18:31,167
How your brain works.
527
00:18:31,260 --> 00:18:32,777
Like, what do you
think about that?
528
00:18:32,928 --> 00:18:36,430
Like, how do you think
that's going to play out?
529
00:18:36,449 --> 00:18:38,691
- I feel like
not just pillow talk
530
00:18:38,843 --> 00:18:40,934
And not just
surface level conversations,
531
00:18:40,954 --> 00:18:42,695
But at least a couple
of times a week
532
00:18:42,847 --> 00:18:44,513
Where we really get
to know each other,
533
00:18:44,532 --> 00:18:47,016
What we're about,
what we grew from our past,
534
00:18:47,034 --> 00:18:48,626
And how we can grow
moving forward.
535
00:18:48,777 --> 00:18:49,776
So we have to figure out
536
00:18:49,796 --> 00:18:52,355
What works for each other
and, yeah.
537
00:18:52,373 --> 00:18:57,301
Before you speak,
pause and take a deep breath.
538
00:18:57,453 --> 00:18:59,453
- Really make sure
you mean the things
539
00:18:59,547 --> 00:19:01,622
That you are about to say
540
00:19:01,641 --> 00:19:02,623
Because there's been
a lot of times
541
00:19:02,642 --> 00:19:04,033
Where I've been very hurt
by words.
542
00:19:04,051 --> 00:19:05,125
- Mm-hmm.
543
00:19:05,145 --> 00:19:06,627
- And that's one
of the things that's,
544
00:19:06,646 --> 00:19:08,387
Like, destroyed
relationships for me
545
00:19:08,539 --> 00:19:09,981
Is something that they said.
546
00:19:10,208 --> 00:19:12,208
And that's, like,
you can't take that back.
547
00:19:12,226 --> 00:19:14,543
You can't--you know,
you could forgive them,
548
00:19:14,562 --> 00:19:16,154
But you're never gonna
forget what they said.
549
00:19:16,305 --> 00:19:18,305
It's very important
that you know that
550
00:19:18,324 --> 00:19:20,140
Because I will take it
to heart, I will.
551
00:19:20,160 --> 00:19:23,736
Even if it's not malicious,
if it comes from someone
552
00:19:23,888 --> 00:19:25,979
That I really, really care
about, then, like,
553
00:19:25,999 --> 00:19:28,073
You know, it sucks, it hurts.
554
00:19:28,226 --> 00:19:29,575
- Yeah.
555
00:19:29,669 --> 00:19:32,561
[soft music]
556
00:19:32,580 --> 00:19:39,510
♪ ♪
557
00:19:48,262 --> 00:19:49,836
- Look at this.
- So look at--this is for you.
558
00:19:49,856 --> 00:19:52,248
- Whoa, okay, I see you.
559
00:19:52,266 --> 00:19:55,084
[upbeat music]
560
00:19:55,102 --> 00:19:57,102
♪ ♪
561
00:19:57,197 --> 00:19:58,587
- You like this?
562
00:19:58,606 --> 00:20:00,198
- It's a little picnic vibe
with the tepee.
563
00:20:00,425 --> 00:20:03,259
Wow.
564
00:20:03,277 --> 00:20:05,536
I really hope there's no bugs.
- Oh, you're like me?
565
00:20:05,688 --> 00:20:06,612
You don't like bugs?
- That would be the worst.
566
00:20:06,706 --> 00:20:08,021
Ahh!
- Ah!
567
00:20:08,041 --> 00:20:09,448
- Bruh.
- [laughs]
568
00:20:09,600 --> 00:20:12,618
- Thanks, but no thanks.
I'm out.
569
00:20:12,770 --> 00:20:14,861
It's gonna be a long picnic.
570
00:20:14,881 --> 00:20:16,363
Nah, but seriously,
thank you, though.
571
00:20:16,382 --> 00:20:18,791
- You're as jumpy
as I am with bugs?
572
00:20:18,943 --> 00:20:20,292
- Didn't you see that [bleep]?
573
00:20:20,445 --> 00:20:21,961
That [bleep] was
moving hella fast.
574
00:20:22,055 --> 00:20:23,612
- Oh!
- Ahh!
575
00:20:23,631 --> 00:20:25,223
That's a spider, okay.
- Let me ki--
576
00:20:25,374 --> 00:20:26,724
- Get that [bleep] outta here,
boy!
577
00:20:26,875 --> 00:20:28,133
Kill that.
578
00:20:28,286 --> 00:20:29,876
- Oh!
- Ah, got him.
579
00:20:29,896 --> 00:20:31,229
Guts.
580
00:20:31,456 --> 00:20:32,805
- Your wife had
to kill a spider for you.
581
00:20:32,957 --> 00:20:34,957
- Terminator.
- [giggles]
582
00:20:34,976 --> 00:20:38,477
♪ ♪
583
00:20:38,629 --> 00:20:40,071
You like doing stuff like this?
584
00:20:40,222 --> 00:20:42,222
- Absolutely.
585
00:20:42,242 --> 00:20:44,300
I'm simple, so...
586
00:20:44,318 --> 00:20:46,135
I mean, I know it took time
for you to set this up,
587
00:20:46,153 --> 00:20:49,488
But we don't have
to do everything extravagant
588
00:20:49,640 --> 00:20:50,823
Every single day, you know?
589
00:20:50,975 --> 00:20:53,142
- Yeah, I'm trying to listen...
590
00:20:53,160 --> 00:20:55,235
- I appreciate that.
- To what you like.
591
00:20:55,255 --> 00:20:57,088
- We're both listening, huh?
- Yeah.
592
00:20:57,239 --> 00:20:59,648
- And communicating.
593
00:20:59,667 --> 00:21:01,667
- Mm-hmm.
594
00:21:01,819 --> 00:21:04,003
♪ ♪
595
00:21:04,155 --> 00:21:07,247
You know, one thing
that you said to me was,
596
00:21:07,267 --> 00:21:08,266
"I'm not intimidated by you."
597
00:21:08,493 --> 00:21:09,600
- Right.
598
00:21:09,827 --> 00:21:10,676
- And that kind of,
like, stuck with me
599
00:21:10,828 --> 00:21:12,011
Because I feel like,
in my past--
600
00:21:12,163 --> 00:21:13,512
- How did it stick with you?
601
00:21:13,664 --> 00:21:15,422
- Well, in my past,
I feel like
602
00:21:15,441 --> 00:21:20,093
I've been very intimidating
to men.
603
00:21:20,113 --> 00:21:21,854
Which is--
- yeah, I can see that.
604
00:21:22,006 --> 00:21:25,190
- Like, kind of the reason
why I've been single as well.
605
00:21:25,285 --> 00:21:26,617
My last relationship was
a long-distance relationship.
606
00:21:26,769 --> 00:21:28,193
- Oh, it was?
- Yeah.
607
00:21:28,346 --> 00:21:30,029
We kind of just grew apart,
608
00:21:30,123 --> 00:21:32,105
And I didn't want to do
the long distance anymore.
609
00:21:32,125 --> 00:21:33,457
- Got it, got it.
610
00:21:33,609 --> 00:21:37,186
[soft music]
611
00:21:37,279 --> 00:21:39,279
- I mean,
I get into relationships
612
00:21:39,299 --> 00:21:40,965
For the purpose
of getting married.
613
00:21:41,116 --> 00:21:43,634
I'm not just getting into
the relationship just 'cause.
614
00:21:43,786 --> 00:21:45,803
I want to always move with
purpose and intention, but--
615
00:21:45,954 --> 00:21:47,287
- I agree, I agree.
616
00:21:47,381 --> 00:21:48,622
- After that relationship,
617
00:21:48,641 --> 00:21:51,367
I felt like I needed
to go to therapy.
618
00:21:51,385 --> 00:21:52,384
- Yeah.
619
00:21:52,537 --> 00:21:53,794
- I needed to just reevaluate
620
00:21:53,813 --> 00:21:55,371
To help me get
through certain things,
621
00:21:55,389 --> 00:21:59,708
You know, from childhood
through--to understand, like,
622
00:21:59,802 --> 00:22:02,302
What I wanted
in a relationship.
623
00:22:02,322 --> 00:22:04,213
Like, I know who I am.
I know what I want.
624
00:22:04,231 --> 00:22:06,231
- That's pretty cool.
I commend you for that.
625
00:22:06,384 --> 00:22:08,400
Like, for going to therapy.
626
00:22:08,553 --> 00:22:09,994
- Thank you.
- Yeah.
627
00:22:10,145 --> 00:22:15,148
- Would you be open to you
and I going to, like, therapy
628
00:22:15,168 --> 00:22:16,725
Just to kind of help
the relationship?
629
00:22:16,744 --> 00:22:20,838
[tense music]
630
00:22:20,989 --> 00:22:22,398
- Like, right off the bat,
631
00:22:22,491 --> 00:22:25,826
Or, like,
when we feel that, like,
632
00:22:25,845 --> 00:22:28,754
There's some imbalance,
then we go?
633
00:22:28,906 --> 00:22:30,330
Or, like--
- no.
634
00:22:30,350 --> 00:22:31,849
- Just go right away
to be proactive?
635
00:22:32,076 --> 00:22:33,909
- I don't feel like you have
to go to therapy
636
00:22:33,928 --> 00:22:35,001
Because there's a problem.
637
00:22:35,021 --> 00:22:36,261
- Right.
638
00:22:36,414 --> 00:22:37,337
- I feel like it's healthy
to go to therapy
639
00:22:37,357 --> 00:22:39,523
To kind of give us those tools
640
00:22:39,750 --> 00:22:42,693
To continue
to be a successful couple...
641
00:22:42,845 --> 00:22:44,862
- Yeah, stay sharp, okay.
- In a marriage.
642
00:22:45,089 --> 00:22:47,198
Healthy, you know.
- I'm down, let's do it.
643
00:22:47,425 --> 00:22:48,532
- Because I've never
been in a marriage.
644
00:22:48,684 --> 00:22:49,867
So I don't really know...
- Yeah, same.
645
00:22:50,094 --> 00:22:51,535
- All the tools
that are gonna be needed.
646
00:22:51,687 --> 00:22:53,537
- Right.
I agree, I agree.
647
00:22:53,689 --> 00:22:55,598
Yeah, I'm down for that.
648
00:22:55,691 --> 00:22:57,708
- It's only been
a couple of days,
649
00:22:57,935 --> 00:23:00,711
And I just hope
that I'm really getting
650
00:23:00,863 --> 00:23:03,530
The true, authentic,
genuine nate.
651
00:23:03,549 --> 00:23:07,551
I am not one that likes
any fake people around me.
652
00:23:07,703 --> 00:23:10,462
So I'm all
about being accountable,
653
00:23:10,615 --> 00:23:13,874
Transparent, and authentic.
654
00:23:13,893 --> 00:23:17,377
- Yeah, we're going
through this together, right?
655
00:23:17,397 --> 00:23:19,121
We're brand-new.
656
00:23:19,140 --> 00:23:22,474
It's very unorthodox,
so what's gonna happen
657
00:23:22,627 --> 00:23:24,309
When we jump
into the real world together?
658
00:23:24,462 --> 00:23:26,462
That's kind of scary,
you know what I mean?
659
00:23:26,480 --> 00:23:29,965
And I really hope
that what we're doing right now
660
00:23:29,984 --> 00:23:33,393
Is consistent when we get
outside of this environment
661
00:23:33,413 --> 00:23:35,061
Because I really like you,
you know?
662
00:23:35,081 --> 00:23:37,063
Like, you're
a really cool person,
663
00:23:37,083 --> 00:23:39,491
And I want us
to be that power couple
664
00:23:39,644 --> 00:23:41,085
And, like, make moves together.
665
00:23:41,236 --> 00:23:43,904
- ♪ and I know that you know ♪
666
00:23:43,923 --> 00:23:46,406
♪ that this
could be dangerous ♪
667
00:23:46,500 --> 00:23:50,319
♪ but no slow, don't know,
we're not gonna stop now ♪
668
00:23:50,337 --> 00:23:54,765
♪ ♪
669
00:23:58,679 --> 00:24:00,438
- ♪ any time you're ready ♪
670
00:24:00,589 --> 00:24:02,014
♪ like you've been
ready all your life ♪
671
00:24:02,108 --> 00:24:03,682
- Right now.
672
00:24:03,834 --> 00:24:07,445
- ♪ sometimes,
you've got to just let go ♪
673
00:24:07,672 --> 00:24:09,780
♪ gonna have
one hell of a party ♪
674
00:24:10,007 --> 00:24:12,191
- [laughing]
675
00:24:12,285 --> 00:24:13,600
♪ ♪
676
00:24:13,694 --> 00:24:15,527
- Oh, damn--whoa!
- [shrieks]
677
00:24:15,621 --> 00:24:17,863
- Whoo!
- [laughs]
678
00:24:18,015 --> 00:24:19,865
- ♪ gonna have fun ♪
679
00:24:20,017 --> 00:24:22,626
♪ today got me thinking,
things are getting crazy ♪
680
00:24:22,778 --> 00:24:26,689
♪ gonna have
to stay the night ♪
681
00:24:26,782 --> 00:24:28,281
- That was fun.
I want to do it again.
682
00:24:28,375 --> 00:24:29,950
I do want to do it again.
683
00:24:30,044 --> 00:24:31,952
I low-key wanted--we should
have went out a little further.
684
00:24:31,971 --> 00:24:34,454
- Babe, we have a lifetime.
- That's true.
685
00:24:34,474 --> 00:24:36,122
- This is not gonna
be our only vacation.
686
00:24:36,217 --> 00:24:37,641
Hopefully, you know?
687
00:24:37,793 --> 00:24:39,810
It just seems unreal, like--
- it does.
688
00:24:40,037 --> 00:24:41,887
- It seems unreal,
like, we have not had
689
00:24:41,981 --> 00:24:43,129
To worry about anything.
690
00:24:43,224 --> 00:24:44,130
And it's like--
- literally.
691
00:24:44,150 --> 00:24:45,316
- When we go back,
692
00:24:45,467 --> 00:24:46,892
We're gonna step
into our real lives.
693
00:24:47,044 --> 00:24:49,211
- Do you feel like--do you
think anything's gonna change
694
00:24:49,304 --> 00:24:50,654
When we get back to the house?
695
00:24:50,806 --> 00:24:52,156
- No, because
you work for--I feel like
696
00:24:52,307 --> 00:24:53,974
We have such
a balanced lifestyle.
697
00:24:54,068 --> 00:24:56,068
Like, you work from home,
698
00:24:56,162 --> 00:24:58,220
And you're willing to,
like, take care of the dogs,
699
00:24:58,239 --> 00:24:59,722
And have dinner, and stuff.
700
00:24:59,740 --> 00:25:01,499
Like, things I usually have
to worry about on my own.
701
00:25:01,650 --> 00:25:04,668
- And also, like,
it creates--it gives you time
702
00:25:04,895 --> 00:25:06,411
For your space,
you know what I'm saying?
703
00:25:06,564 --> 00:25:08,005
You get to be in that space.
You get to go do what you love.
704
00:25:08,232 --> 00:25:09,673
- Yeah.
- I get to do what I love.
705
00:25:09,900 --> 00:25:11,416
And then it's like,
even though it's been
706
00:25:11,569 --> 00:25:12,735
Eight hours apart from you,
it's just like,
707
00:25:12,828 --> 00:25:14,845
Damn, I miss my baby,
you know what I'm saying?
708
00:25:15,072 --> 00:25:16,680
So I think
it's definitely a great love.
709
00:25:16,907 --> 00:25:19,183
It fits.
Everything fits, doesn't it?
710
00:25:19,334 --> 00:25:20,425
- You can stay home
with the dogs.
711
00:25:20,520 --> 00:25:21,760
- Right.
- And baloo.
712
00:25:21,912 --> 00:25:22,761
- You might get
a little jealous, though.
713
00:25:22,913 --> 00:25:24,021
- I know.
714
00:25:24,248 --> 00:25:25,748
- You gonna come home
to three animals
715
00:25:25,841 --> 00:25:27,249
That is happy to see you,
716
00:25:27,268 --> 00:25:28,417
And a really happy husband
with them.
717
00:25:28,435 --> 00:25:30,102
I'm serious, bro.
718
00:25:30,254 --> 00:25:34,606
- So do you feel like you being
a stay-at-home puppy father
719
00:25:34,759 --> 00:25:36,867
And me making more than you,
do you think, like,
720
00:25:37,094 --> 00:25:38,685
That will eventually
affect your ego,
721
00:25:38,779 --> 00:25:40,037
Or are you good with that?
722
00:25:40,856 --> 00:25:42,097
- Okay, cool.
723
00:25:42,190 --> 00:25:43,707
- It's going
to the same account.
724
00:25:43,934 --> 00:25:45,042
- Is it?
725
00:25:45,269 --> 00:25:46,359
- I mean, we're gonna have
the same account
726
00:25:46,379 --> 00:25:47,619
And separate accounts.
727
00:25:47,713 --> 00:25:49,288
- That's what I do want
to do when we get back
728
00:25:49,382 --> 00:25:51,865
To the apartment, like,
well, to the new apartment.
729
00:25:51,959 --> 00:25:53,551
I want to sit down and talk
about budgeting and financials.
730
00:25:53,778 --> 00:25:56,202
- All right, same, same.
I like that.
731
00:25:56,297 --> 00:25:57,555
- I know that everybody's like,
732
00:25:57,782 --> 00:26:00,373
"marriage is hard.
You got to put in hard work."
733
00:26:00,467 --> 00:26:02,284
And right now,
I'm just like,
734
00:26:02,377 --> 00:26:03,376
Still waiting for it
to be hard.
735
00:26:03,396 --> 00:26:04,970
- Right.
736
00:26:05,122 --> 00:26:06,805
- So since you're gonna--
737
00:26:06,957 --> 00:26:09,567
[bleep]!
738
00:26:09,794 --> 00:26:11,235
- I got you.
739
00:26:11,386 --> 00:26:12,570
- [laughs]
740
00:26:12,721 --> 00:26:13,887
- Ooh, look at--
lucky being tall, baby.
741
00:26:13,906 --> 00:26:16,407
- Hey!
- Whoo!
742
00:26:16,558 --> 00:26:18,300
I turned into superman,
girl, let me tell you.
743
00:26:18,393 --> 00:26:20,986
That was
my perfect opportunity.
744
00:26:21,080 --> 00:26:23,138
She got a chance
to see what my reflexes are.
745
00:26:23,157 --> 00:26:24,656
And I'm not gonna think twice,
746
00:26:24,809 --> 00:26:26,642
Especially if it's somebody
that I love and care about.
747
00:26:26,660 --> 00:26:28,160
I'm gonna take you
out of harm's way
748
00:26:28,312 --> 00:26:29,494
And do what I can,
whether I get hurt or not,
749
00:26:29,589 --> 00:26:30,737
As long as she's good.
750
00:26:30,756 --> 00:26:32,648
- Thank you, baby.
751
00:26:32,741 --> 00:26:34,925
- All right, come again.
- I know.
752
00:26:35,152 --> 00:26:38,078
See, you protected me!
You saved me!
753
00:26:38,172 --> 00:26:39,171
- Hope y'all caught that!
754
00:26:39,323 --> 00:26:40,580
Protecting my wife!
755
00:26:40,600 --> 00:26:42,157
[grunts]
756
00:26:42,250 --> 00:26:43,583
- ♪ party, party, party ♪
757
00:26:43,603 --> 00:26:46,270
♪ because it feels so great ♪
758
00:26:46,421 --> 00:26:49,348
♪ party, party, party,
with you every day ♪
759
00:26:49,500 --> 00:26:51,333
- Have you done this before?
- Yeah, a few times.
760
00:26:51,352 --> 00:26:52,610
- A few times?
- But, like, as a kid.
761
00:26:52,761 --> 00:26:54,519
- Okay.
- But you--you're a nurse.
762
00:26:54,614 --> 00:26:55,929
- I'm a nurse, so I can
do a little mouth-to-mouth
763
00:26:56,023 --> 00:26:57,172
If you need it, you know.
764
00:26:57,265 --> 00:26:58,507
I'll save your life.
- Okay, no tongue?
765
00:26:58,525 --> 00:26:59,691
- Yeah, yeah, for sure.
- All right.
766
00:26:59,844 --> 00:27:01,343
- Yeah!
767
00:27:01,436 --> 00:27:05,623
♪ oh, baby,
when you come to me ♪
768
00:27:05,774 --> 00:27:09,368
♪ show me,
show me everything ♪
769
00:27:09,462 --> 00:27:14,298
♪ your every waking moment
feels brand-new ♪
770
00:27:14,449 --> 00:27:15,949
♪ new ♪
771
00:27:15,968 --> 00:27:17,876
♪ you're totally my type ♪
772
00:27:17,970 --> 00:27:24,290
♪ ♪
773
00:27:24,385 --> 00:27:29,313
♪ you're totally my type,
you're totally my type ♪
774
00:27:29,464 --> 00:27:32,224
- [laughs]
775
00:27:32,376 --> 00:27:33,892
I feel it.
776
00:27:34,044 --> 00:27:36,728
You know, I feel something,
some, like, sexual tension.
777
00:27:36,822 --> 00:27:39,490
So sex will happen.
778
00:27:39,717 --> 00:27:42,142
Definitely,
because my husband's hot.
779
00:27:42,236 --> 00:27:46,664
Like, my husband's hot,
you know, like that body, oof.
780
00:27:46,891 --> 00:27:48,481
- Good, that was fun.
- Yeah, it was fun.
781
00:27:48,501 --> 00:27:50,334
- Yeah.
Um...
782
00:27:53,230 --> 00:27:54,579
Remember what we were
talking about yesterday?
783
00:27:54,732 --> 00:27:56,081
- Mm-hmm.
784
00:27:56,175 --> 00:27:59,084
- I definitely want to talk
more about other things.
785
00:27:59,236 --> 00:28:00,736
We've only done, like,
surface layer stuff.
786
00:28:00,829 --> 00:28:02,754
For me, it's all
about family and finance,
787
00:28:02,907 --> 00:28:04,181
Like, that's
the most important.
788
00:28:04,332 --> 00:28:05,349
- I want to make sure
we're, like, good
789
00:28:05,500 --> 00:28:06,684
Before we have
that conversation.
790
00:28:06,911 --> 00:28:09,687
And we're not, like,
in an emotionally unstable,
791
00:28:09,838 --> 00:28:12,247
You know,
"we're stressed" state.
792
00:28:12,340 --> 00:28:14,024
You know,
my relationship with my family
793
00:28:14,176 --> 00:28:15,767
Is maybe not as good as,
like, the average person.
794
00:28:15,861 --> 00:28:17,194
- Mm-hmm.
795
00:28:17,421 --> 00:28:18,587
- I haven't had
a relationship with my dad
796
00:28:18,605 --> 00:28:22,515
For the past several years,
you know?
797
00:28:22,535 --> 00:28:24,426
- I think it's hard
for me to relate to that
798
00:28:24,519 --> 00:28:26,428
Because I feel like
I never really had
799
00:28:26,521 --> 00:28:28,613
A super toxic relationship.
800
00:28:28,708 --> 00:28:31,450
♪ ♪
801
00:28:31,602 --> 00:28:35,287
I kind of just need
a little bit more clarity
802
00:28:35,439 --> 00:28:38,290
With the family stuff,
because coming into this--
803
00:28:38,442 --> 00:28:40,217
And you see how close
I was with my family.
804
00:28:40,368 --> 00:28:41,443
And that is, like...
- Absolutely.
805
00:28:41,462 --> 00:28:44,221
- A big aspect
of this whole process.
806
00:28:44,372 --> 00:28:47,373
Like, I wanted to bring someone
into my family
807
00:28:47,393 --> 00:28:50,561
That could just come in,
and vibe with them,
808
00:28:50,712 --> 00:28:52,378
And also had
a great relationship
809
00:28:52,398 --> 00:28:53,731
With their family too.
810
00:28:53,958 --> 00:28:56,734
So when somebody doesn't
have a strong relationship
811
00:28:56,885 --> 00:29:02,555
With their family,
it's a question mark for me.
812
00:29:02,575 --> 00:29:05,558
And, like, your mom was telling
me that you're gonna--
813
00:29:05,578 --> 00:29:09,988
You were still in student debt
and how you're going--
814
00:29:10,140 --> 00:29:12,082
Still want to go
to nurse practitioner school,
815
00:29:12,234 --> 00:29:13,825
And I'm trying
to build right now--
816
00:29:13,978 --> 00:29:15,660
I'm trying to build
financial freedom right now.
817
00:29:15,813 --> 00:29:20,591
And I'm not sure how that
aligns with everything.
818
00:29:23,095 --> 00:29:25,262
- But it seems like
you're very closed off
819
00:29:25,413 --> 00:29:28,156
To understanding my situation,
though.
820
00:29:28,175 --> 00:29:30,267
It seems like
you're very much like,
821
00:29:30,418 --> 00:29:32,418
"she has student loan.
It's awful."
822
00:29:32,438 --> 00:29:35,180
And I need you
to be understanding of that
823
00:29:35,332 --> 00:29:38,350
And, like, trust me
when I say that I'm gonna
824
00:29:38,502 --> 00:29:40,502
Have it paid off,
and it's not gonna be something
825
00:29:40,521 --> 00:29:42,613
That's gonna weigh us down.
826
00:29:42,840 --> 00:29:44,689
I'm never gonna ask you
to give me a cent.
827
00:29:44,784 --> 00:29:46,432
I don't want your money.
828
00:29:46,452 --> 00:29:48,527
I don't want any of it.
I don't want your investments.
829
00:29:48,679 --> 00:29:50,862
I'm never gonna tell you
how to spend your money,
830
00:29:50,956 --> 00:29:54,349
Or how to invest, or what you
need to do with your money.
831
00:29:54,368 --> 00:29:57,519
So I need you to be--
I need to be patient with that
832
00:29:57,538 --> 00:29:59,688
Because I'm not
at the point in my life
833
00:29:59,781 --> 00:30:01,356
Where I'm exactly
where you're at.
834
00:30:01,449 --> 00:30:03,467
And I need you
to look at that and see
835
00:30:03,694 --> 00:30:05,302
That I'm not the same place
as you are.
836
00:30:10,551 --> 00:30:13,626
- I was super, super open.
837
00:30:13,646 --> 00:30:15,979
Wanted this,
even read books,
838
00:30:16,131 --> 00:30:19,149
And was 100% honest
from the beginning
839
00:30:19,301 --> 00:30:23,879
With who I was,
what I was about,
840
00:30:23,897 --> 00:30:26,565
What I wanted,
what I felt I needed.
841
00:30:26,659 --> 00:30:29,309
But, yeah.
842
00:30:29,328 --> 00:30:30,977
- Do you feel like
we're not matched well?
843
00:30:30,996 --> 00:30:33,905
[tense music]
844
00:30:34,058 --> 00:30:38,293
♪ ♪
845
00:30:42,082 --> 00:30:43,006
[tense music]
846
00:30:43,233 --> 00:30:46,068
♪ ♪
847
00:30:46,161 --> 00:30:48,070
- I just wish you saw
the good in me, you know?
848
00:30:48,088 --> 00:30:49,754
- I do, though.
849
00:30:49,849 --> 00:30:53,241
I feel like the surface layers,
we have a lot in common.
850
00:30:53,335 --> 00:30:59,022
Gym, intermittent fasting,
good vibes.
851
00:30:59,174 --> 00:31:02,767
But the stuff
that I preached was,
852
00:31:02,862 --> 00:31:05,845
Yeah, family, and finances,
and being 100% honest.
853
00:31:05,865 --> 00:31:07,531
- Okay.
- From the beginning.
854
00:31:07,758 --> 00:31:09,533
From the beginning,
100% honest.
855
00:31:09,760 --> 00:31:11,535
No lies, no [bleep].
856
00:31:11,686 --> 00:31:13,370
- Yeah.
- Just straight honesty.
857
00:31:13,597 --> 00:31:15,205
- Last night,
she brought me aside,
858
00:31:15,357 --> 00:31:16,615
And she said,
"don't tell anyone,
859
00:31:16,767 --> 00:31:20,619
But I have one course left
on my bsn--my bachelor,"
860
00:31:20,713 --> 00:31:23,363
And to me, that means
bachelor of science in nursing.
861
00:31:23,457 --> 00:31:26,550
So in my mind, I'm like,
so wait she's not a nurse yet.
862
00:31:26,777 --> 00:31:29,444
So she told the experts
something else
863
00:31:29,463 --> 00:31:30,888
Than what she actually is.
864
00:31:31,115 --> 00:31:34,057
And I just wanted answers.
I just wanted clarity.
865
00:31:48,298 --> 00:31:50,198
- But you're treating it
like I lied to you.
866
00:31:53,913 --> 00:31:55,820
- And I explained to you
that situation too.
867
00:31:55,973 --> 00:31:58,974
My bachelor's program is
to advance my career.
868
00:31:58,992 --> 00:32:00,325
It's for the pay raise.
869
00:32:00,477 --> 00:32:03,587
It's not--you know,
it's not my nursing program.
870
00:32:03,814 --> 00:32:05,830
It's a bachelor's degree.
Like, I am a nurse.
871
00:32:05,983 --> 00:32:07,999
I've been working
as a nurse this entire time.
872
00:32:08,093 --> 00:32:10,928
[tense music]
873
00:32:11,155 --> 00:32:15,157
♪ ♪
874
00:32:15,175 --> 00:32:17,750
Like, I thought we came
to a resolution last night,
875
00:32:17,844 --> 00:32:19,085
And I thought we were good,
876
00:32:19,179 --> 00:32:20,829
But by you going
to someone else shows me
877
00:32:20,922 --> 00:32:22,164
That you weren't good
and that you were still
878
00:32:22,182 --> 00:32:23,273
Really thinking about it,
879
00:32:23,500 --> 00:32:24,332
And you were still
really hurt about it.
880
00:32:24,351 --> 00:32:25,667
- No, we said--
881
00:32:25,760 --> 00:32:26,759
- And I thought--
I think that hurts me,
882
00:32:26,779 --> 00:32:30,021
That I didn't know that.
883
00:32:30,174 --> 00:32:32,115
That came out of nowhere.
884
00:32:32,342 --> 00:32:37,603
It blows my mind that I told
him everything very openly,
885
00:32:37,623 --> 00:32:43,185
And I apologized profusely
for not being more truthful
886
00:32:43,278 --> 00:32:45,462
About having
that last class left.
887
00:32:45,689 --> 00:32:48,465
And yet here we are.
888
00:32:48,616 --> 00:32:52,527
Binh went behind my back
and told justin
889
00:32:52,620 --> 00:32:56,364
That I've been lying,
and that hurts.
890
00:32:56,383 --> 00:33:00,227
Now it's--now, like, the thing
that I wanted private...
891
00:33:02,147 --> 00:33:04,106
Isn't.
892
00:33:05,726 --> 00:33:08,801
- I'm sorry for,
I guess, overreacting,
893
00:33:08,895 --> 00:33:11,488
And then telling tree about it.
894
00:33:13,050 --> 00:33:14,307
- We promised each other
we weren't gonna talk
895
00:33:14,326 --> 00:33:18,403
About it until later.
896
00:33:18,497 --> 00:33:21,573
- It was just us talking
both about our relationships
897
00:33:21,725 --> 00:33:25,669
And how we were--
basically asking for advice.
898
00:33:25,820 --> 00:33:27,653
- But you see how trust is
such a huge thing for me.
899
00:33:27,673 --> 00:33:30,081
Like, by going to him,
900
00:33:30,234 --> 00:33:31,508
And then him going
to someone else,
901
00:33:31,735 --> 00:33:32,734
And that someone else
going to someone else.
902
00:33:32,827 --> 00:33:34,160
Like, do you see
the chain effect?
903
00:33:34,254 --> 00:33:36,496
And that's--like,
that broke my trust.
904
00:33:36,590 --> 00:33:38,348
Yeah, I'm just, I'm--
- and I didn't--
905
00:33:38,500 --> 00:33:40,575
- I'm frustrated.
- I needed to go to somebody.
906
00:33:40,594 --> 00:33:41,926
I didn't know who else to--
907
00:33:42,079 --> 00:33:44,003
- But you see how, like,
it circled around?
908
00:33:44,097 --> 00:33:45,413
- Came straight to--yeah.
909
00:33:45,507 --> 00:33:48,600
- You should've come
to me instead.
910
00:33:48,694 --> 00:33:52,345
The person I thought binh was
is completely gone.
911
00:33:52,439 --> 00:33:54,939
I don't know him
like I thought I did.
912
00:33:55,034 --> 00:33:57,259
It's disappointing
because his family,
913
00:33:57,352 --> 00:33:58,276
His friends were like,
"oh, my god.
914
00:33:58,370 --> 00:33:59,761
"binh's gonna put you first.
915
00:33:59,854 --> 00:34:01,263
Binh's always gonna have
your back."
916
00:34:01,356 --> 00:34:03,874
But that's not
the binh that I got.
917
00:34:04,101 --> 00:34:06,768
I'm pissed.
918
00:34:06,861 --> 00:34:09,362
- Is there anything
that I can do
919
00:34:09,456 --> 00:34:11,273
Tangibly or in this moment?
920
00:34:11,291 --> 00:34:13,216
- I don't know.
921
00:34:13,443 --> 00:34:14,551
[sighs]
922
00:34:14,778 --> 00:34:16,720
Um...
923
00:34:16,947 --> 00:34:18,797
♪ ♪
924
00:34:18,949 --> 00:34:20,223
You broke my trust.
925
00:34:20,450 --> 00:34:25,562
♪ ♪
926
00:34:25,789 --> 00:34:27,564
- I'm sorry.
927
00:34:27,791 --> 00:34:30,792
♪ ♪
928
00:34:30,811 --> 00:34:33,737
[upbeat music]
929
00:34:33,964 --> 00:34:36,981
♪ ♪
930
00:34:37,076 --> 00:34:39,484
- Hi, gorg!
- How you doing?
931
00:34:39,578 --> 00:34:42,746
- You look stunning as always.
- Thank you, so do you.
932
00:34:42,973 --> 00:34:44,639
- Thank you so much
for being here and...
933
00:34:44,658 --> 00:34:46,141
- Oh!
- Coming to hang out with me.
934
00:34:46,159 --> 00:34:48,143
- No problem, any time.
935
00:34:48,161 --> 00:34:49,477
- I really appreciate it.
936
00:34:49,496 --> 00:34:51,313
You know how much I value
937
00:34:51,406 --> 00:34:53,164
Your strength
and your directness.
938
00:34:53,317 --> 00:34:54,482
- Says the strongest girl
out here,
939
00:34:54,501 --> 00:34:56,484
But continue, continue.
940
00:34:56,503 --> 00:34:58,653
- I mean, I've never
met anyone like you.
941
00:34:58,746 --> 00:35:00,171
- Oh!
- And I'm just so grateful.
942
00:35:00,265 --> 00:35:01,656
I don't know--
943
00:35:01,749 --> 00:35:02,991
Without you as,
like, a little bit
944
00:35:03,009 --> 00:35:04,601
Of a sounding board
for me.
945
00:35:04,828 --> 00:35:06,161
I mean, I'm strong.
946
00:35:06,254 --> 00:35:08,997
I know that I am,
but just having you gals
947
00:35:09,015 --> 00:35:11,683
As a support system
has been incredible,
948
00:35:11,777 --> 00:35:13,759
And it's just--
949
00:35:13,854 --> 00:35:17,447
I expected--
you know, I expected us
950
00:35:17,674 --> 00:35:21,509
To kind of jump in, and be
attracted, and--I don't know.
951
00:35:21,528 --> 00:35:22,786
- Passionate and lustful--
- passionate!
952
00:35:22,937 --> 00:35:24,287
- And ripping each
other's clothes off.
953
00:35:24,439 --> 00:35:26,105
- Yes, I did!
954
00:35:26,125 --> 00:35:30,852
And I'm mostly concerned
because he has said
955
00:35:30,871 --> 00:35:33,037
Many, many times,
he's been very open,
956
00:35:33,190 --> 00:35:36,800
That he hasn't been
in a serious relationship
957
00:35:37,027 --> 00:35:38,360
In a very long time.
958
00:35:38,378 --> 00:35:40,211
- So how committed is he?
959
00:35:40,364 --> 00:35:42,121
- I know.
960
00:35:42,215 --> 00:35:44,883
I have been wanting
to get married,
961
00:35:45,035 --> 00:35:49,053
Married, married
for almost my entire life.
962
00:35:49,206 --> 00:35:50,296
- I think you have
to count small wins with him.
963
00:35:50,315 --> 00:35:51,964
- Yes.
964
00:35:51,984 --> 00:35:53,391
- And if it's starting
to feel like a relationship,
965
00:35:53,485 --> 00:35:55,377
And he hasn't been in
a relationship for a long time,
966
00:35:55,395 --> 00:35:56,711
That's something.
967
00:35:56,730 --> 00:35:58,638
- Yes.
- You know, that is something.
968
00:35:58,732 --> 00:36:00,048
And it may be silver lining.
969
00:36:00,141 --> 00:36:01,566
It may be
the smallest of things.
970
00:36:01,660 --> 00:36:02,884
But sometimes, you have to meet
people where they're at.
971
00:36:02,977 --> 00:36:04,310
- Yeah.
- Team mitch.
972
00:36:04,404 --> 00:36:05,720
- Team mitch.
- Team mitch.
973
00:36:05,813 --> 00:36:07,497
- And, you know,
what I'm about to say--
974
00:36:07,724 --> 00:36:09,166
- Oh, gosh, please, my heart.
- It's okay.
975
00:36:09,393 --> 00:36:10,650
I want your--this is,
like, the biggest reason
976
00:36:10,669 --> 00:36:11,576
I wanted your advice.
977
00:36:11,728 --> 00:36:13,061
- Okay.
978
00:36:13,079 --> 00:36:14,579
- The actions are showing me
979
00:36:14,673 --> 00:36:17,340
Every day how much he wants me
on many different levels.
980
00:36:17,567 --> 00:36:18,675
- Okay.
981
00:36:18,902 --> 00:36:20,418
- He's now starting
to talk about the future.
982
00:36:20,512 --> 00:36:25,089
I do feel like I'm walking
on eggshells a little bit.
983
00:36:25,184 --> 00:36:28,743
I feel like I am being myself.
984
00:36:28,836 --> 00:36:31,671
But, I mean, how long
can I dance on this line?
985
00:36:31,765 --> 00:36:32,522
- I can't answer
that question for you.
986
00:36:32,749 --> 00:36:33,748
- I know.
987
00:36:33,767 --> 00:36:35,025
- It's something
that krysten has
988
00:36:35,252 --> 00:36:36,359
To have a conversation
with krysten and say--
989
00:36:36,586 --> 00:36:37,919
- Yeah.
990
00:36:38,012 --> 00:36:40,197
- I do want to be married,
but to what extent?
991
00:36:40,348 --> 00:36:42,032
And it's always--
we all signed up
992
00:36:42,183 --> 00:36:43,608
Knowing
that there was a chance...
993
00:36:43,702 --> 00:36:45,368
- Yes, yes.
- That this couldn't work out.
994
00:36:45,595 --> 00:36:47,429
- It's like, when I think
of mitch I think of,
995
00:36:47,522 --> 00:36:48,930
You can't teach an
old dog new tricks.
996
00:36:49,023 --> 00:36:51,524
No pun intended,
because he is 41.
997
00:36:51,618 --> 00:36:52,934
But you get what I'm saying?
998
00:36:53,027 --> 00:36:54,436
Like, it's gonna
take some time,
999
00:36:54,529 --> 00:36:56,271
But at the same time,
he is attracted to you,
1000
00:36:56,364 --> 00:36:58,106
And at one point,
he was saying,
1001
00:36:58,124 --> 00:36:58,957
There's no physical attraction.
1002
00:36:59,109 --> 00:37:00,533
- Yep, yep.
1003
00:37:00,552 --> 00:37:02,201
- And it seems like
that's a very meaningful part
1004
00:37:02,295 --> 00:37:03,962
Of the relationship for him.
1005
00:37:04,056 --> 00:37:05,463
Let me remind you,
1006
00:37:05,615 --> 00:37:07,390
I could have been
with justin six months ago.
1007
00:37:07,617 --> 00:37:08,725
- Wild.
1008
00:37:08,876 --> 00:37:11,061
- But I looked at his profile,
and I was like,
1009
00:37:11,212 --> 00:37:12,896
He's a little skinny,
and I just--
1010
00:37:13,047 --> 00:37:14,564
He looked too nice for me.
1011
00:37:14,791 --> 00:37:15,899
- Yeah.
1012
00:37:16,050 --> 00:37:18,568
- Like my superficial way
almost had me
1013
00:37:18,720 --> 00:37:20,720
Miss the greatest blessing
of my life.
1014
00:37:20,739 --> 00:37:23,389
And I hope that mitch looks
at you and has that coming to,
1015
00:37:23,483 --> 00:37:24,574
You know, his senses moment.
1016
00:37:24,801 --> 00:37:26,150
- Yeah.
1017
00:37:26,245 --> 00:37:27,410
- And I know he will 'cause
you're a beautiful woman.
1018
00:37:27,637 --> 00:37:28,561
- Thank you.
1019
00:37:28,655 --> 00:37:29,913
- I just think he has to get
1020
00:37:30,140 --> 00:37:31,806
Out of his own way
and really just realize, like,
1021
00:37:31,899 --> 00:37:34,066
"I'm about to let
an amazing woman go."
1022
00:37:34,086 --> 00:37:35,326
- Yes.
1023
00:37:35,479 --> 00:37:36,494
- "there's a chance
that I might
1024
00:37:36,646 --> 00:37:37,921
Based
on something superficial."
1025
00:37:38,148 --> 00:37:39,330
- Yeah.
1026
00:37:39,483 --> 00:37:40,757
[extreme music's
"start again"]
1027
00:37:40,908 --> 00:37:42,926
- ♪ start believing ♪
1028
00:37:43,153 --> 00:37:44,761
♪ sing it out,
sing it out, sing it out ♪
1029
00:37:48,767 --> 00:37:49,582
[dramatic music]
1030
00:37:49,601 --> 00:37:51,935
- ♪ yeah ♪
1031
00:37:52,162 --> 00:37:54,329
♪ yeah, every loss turns
to a lesson ♪
1032
00:37:54,347 --> 00:37:55,921
♪ the clock is running out ♪
1033
00:37:55,941 --> 00:37:57,849
♪ let me hear you shout ♪
1034
00:37:57,943 --> 00:37:59,425
♪ fanatic, yeah ♪
1035
00:37:59,444 --> 00:38:00,944
♪ you know we gotta win ♪
1036
00:38:01,095 --> 00:38:03,763
♪ fanatic, see it to the end ♪
1037
00:38:03,782 --> 00:38:05,115
♪ fanatic ♪
1038
00:38:05,266 --> 00:38:06,783
♪ yeah, we gotta win ♪
1039
00:38:06,934 --> 00:38:10,361
♪ fanatic, see it to the end ♪
1040
00:38:10,514 --> 00:38:12,030
- Game.
- Yeah.
1041
00:38:12,182 --> 00:38:14,291
[bleep]
1042
00:38:14,442 --> 00:38:16,275
- Man, right--that was
a good work out though.
1043
00:38:16,369 --> 00:38:18,795
- Yeah, we got to do it
when we get back to san diego.
1044
00:38:18,946 --> 00:38:20,371
- We got to make
that part of--like--
1045
00:38:20,465 --> 00:38:22,857
- Seriously, man.
- Part of our everyday for real.
1046
00:38:22,876 --> 00:38:24,192
- So how's everything, man?
1047
00:38:24,210 --> 00:38:25,618
- We're working
through some things.
1048
00:38:25,637 --> 00:38:26,786
Morgan's mad at me right now
because of everything
1049
00:38:26,880 --> 00:38:28,305
We talked about with her stuff.
1050
00:38:28,456 --> 00:38:30,140
And there was no,
like, ill intentions,
1051
00:38:30,367 --> 00:38:32,625
But she's frustrated
because I came to you
1052
00:38:32,644 --> 00:38:34,035
Instead of going to her.
1053
00:38:34,128 --> 00:38:35,294
Even though like,
I respect you,
1054
00:38:35,314 --> 00:38:36,813
And I really wanted
to hear your opinion,
1055
00:38:36,964 --> 00:38:38,631
I should have asked her
before I came to you.
1056
00:38:38,650 --> 00:38:40,058
- That's fair.
I respect that.
1057
00:38:40,210 --> 00:38:41,651
- She thinks that
she got stabbed in the back,
1058
00:38:41,803 --> 00:38:43,636
Which, through the process,
she did,
1059
00:38:43,730 --> 00:38:45,396
But it wasn't intentional.
1060
00:38:45,549 --> 00:38:48,307
It's tough 'cause now, like,
there's no trust on her end,
1061
00:38:48,327 --> 00:38:51,052
And she said doesn't trust me
with these important things,
1062
00:38:51,145 --> 00:38:53,330
And the only way to build trust
is for her to give me something
1063
00:38:53,557 --> 00:38:55,223
To trust her with
and to prove to her
1064
00:38:55,241 --> 00:38:56,407
That I can be trustworthy.
1065
00:38:56,560 --> 00:38:59,151
- Do you trust her?
1066
00:38:59,245 --> 00:39:01,396
- She hasn't done anything to--
1067
00:39:01,414 --> 00:39:04,156
Except for--
and it wasn't even a lie.
1068
00:39:04,176 --> 00:39:06,826
I overreacted.
1069
00:39:06,920 --> 00:39:08,920
- I'm just exhausted right now.
1070
00:39:09,072 --> 00:39:11,664
We had a really
emotional conversation.
1071
00:39:11,683 --> 00:39:13,591
It was a lot.
1072
00:39:13,743 --> 00:39:16,836
- Is it just the whirlwind
of, like, everything going on,
1073
00:39:16,855 --> 00:39:19,747
Or is there a specific thing
that's actually bothering you?
1074
00:39:19,841 --> 00:39:21,933
- He came in
with the expectation
1075
00:39:22,085 --> 00:39:25,587
Of someone with a really
good family relationship
1076
00:39:25,605 --> 00:39:26,921
And really good at finances.
1077
00:39:26,940 --> 00:39:28,514
I have student loan debt.
1078
00:39:28,533 --> 00:39:31,759
- [scoffs]
- okay.
1079
00:39:31,778 --> 00:39:34,204
- Like, sorry, sorry.
- Same, same.
1080
00:39:34,355 --> 00:39:35,597
- I don't know much
about crypto.
1081
00:39:35,690 --> 00:39:36,781
I don't know much
about stocks.
1082
00:39:36,933 --> 00:39:38,766
He has a lot of investments,
a lot of assets,
1083
00:39:38,785 --> 00:39:41,360
And I'm like, I'm not there.
1084
00:39:41,380 --> 00:39:42,770
- Wow.
1085
00:39:42,864 --> 00:39:44,455
- We had the conversation
before, like,
1086
00:39:44,549 --> 00:39:47,717
"we're not gonna talk
about finances or anything.
1087
00:39:47,944 --> 00:39:49,535
We're going to talk
about it when we get back."
1088
00:39:49,554 --> 00:39:50,703
Then he hits me with it.
1089
00:39:50,797 --> 00:39:51,963
- Ooh.
- Oh, really?
1090
00:39:52,115 --> 00:39:53,556
- Mm-hmm.
1091
00:39:53,708 --> 00:39:54,874
- I don't like
surface layer stuff.
1092
00:39:54,893 --> 00:39:56,208
What's the score to the game?
1093
00:39:56,228 --> 00:39:57,969
Let's go to the gym and cook.
1094
00:39:58,121 --> 00:39:59,712
Like, let's talk about,
like, in-depth,
1095
00:39:59,731 --> 00:40:01,472
What we're gonna do,
how we're gonna grow.
1096
00:40:01,625 --> 00:40:03,048
- Yeah, I feel that.
1097
00:40:03,068 --> 00:40:04,567
You know, my opinion,
1098
00:40:04,719 --> 00:40:08,296
Not to offend anyone else,
I think you deserve
1099
00:40:08,389 --> 00:40:10,723
The perfect wife,
because I know
1100
00:40:10,817 --> 00:40:12,316
From knowing you you're
gonna be the perfect husband,
1101
00:40:12,469 --> 00:40:13,576
You know what I'm saying?
1102
00:40:13,728 --> 00:40:15,637
Financially, you know,
emotionally,
1103
00:40:15,655 --> 00:40:17,080
I don't know about physically,
but--
1104
00:40:17,231 --> 00:40:19,064
I'm just playing.
[laughs]
1105
00:40:19,084 --> 00:40:20,083
- You don't know that yet.
- I don't know.
1106
00:40:20,310 --> 00:40:21,809
- Yeah.
- You know what I'm saying?
1107
00:40:21,903 --> 00:40:23,586
But, like,
you're just a great guy.
1108
00:40:23,738 --> 00:40:24,979
You're like a needle
in a haystack,
1109
00:40:25,072 --> 00:40:26,405
Is the way
I'd describe it.
1110
00:40:26,425 --> 00:40:29,092
And so when a woman
is lucky to have you,
1111
00:40:29,243 --> 00:40:30,835
And vice versa,
it's important to be truthful.
1112
00:40:30,987 --> 00:40:32,170
- Yeah.
1113
00:40:32,322 --> 00:40:33,263
- You know what I'm saying,
about everything,
1114
00:40:33,414 --> 00:40:34,489
Despite how it makes
the person feel.
1115
00:40:34,507 --> 00:40:36,007
- And that's why I came to her,
1116
00:40:36,101 --> 00:40:37,750
And that's why we're having
these hard conversations first
1117
00:40:37,769 --> 00:40:39,510
Because that's who I am.
1118
00:40:39,604 --> 00:40:41,921
- I came into this wanting
a man who was proud of me,
1119
00:40:42,015 --> 00:40:43,606
Who saw me and was like--
1120
00:40:43,758 --> 00:40:45,758
- Right.
- "that's my [bleep] wife."
1121
00:40:45,777 --> 00:40:47,852
"I'm so proud of her."
1122
00:40:48,004 --> 00:40:50,596
And you're coming in and being
like, "ooh, her finances."
1123
00:40:50,690 --> 00:40:52,190
You know, it sucks.
1124
00:40:52,342 --> 00:40:53,599
And I wish he would
have come into this
1125
00:40:53,618 --> 00:40:54,859
With no expectations.
1126
00:40:55,011 --> 00:40:56,286
- Just an open mind.
1127
00:40:56,437 --> 00:40:58,121
- Yeah, well he's like,
this is what I wanted.
1128
00:40:58,272 --> 00:41:01,440
I wanted a woman like x,
y, and z, and I'm like...
1129
00:41:01,460 --> 00:41:04,702
[tense music]
1130
00:41:04,854 --> 00:41:06,688
- I'm a human.
That's so painful.
1131
00:41:06,706 --> 00:41:08,131
- Yeah, we're not check boxes.
- We're not check boxes.
1132
00:41:08,358 --> 00:41:10,616
- I was like, "but this is me."
- oh, no.
1133
00:41:10,710 --> 00:41:13,695
- Mm-hmm, oh, yeah.
1134
00:41:13,713 --> 00:41:17,140
A lot of trust has been broken.
1135
00:41:17,291 --> 00:41:18,958
- That's tough, like--
- yeah.
1136
00:41:19,052 --> 00:41:20,551
- And that's huge for me.
1137
00:41:20,704 --> 00:41:22,537
Like, once that's broken,
I'm like,
1138
00:41:22,630 --> 00:41:24,372
I don't know how
to rebuild trust.
1139
00:41:24,390 --> 00:41:25,297
- That's the hard part.
- It's hard.
1140
00:41:25,317 --> 00:41:26,891
- Yeah, he asked me that too,
1141
00:41:27,043 --> 00:41:28,151
And he was like,
"how do I rebuild your trust?"
1142
00:41:28,378 --> 00:41:30,320
And I was like, I've never
navigated this before.
1143
00:41:30,547 --> 00:41:32,304
Because once it's gone,
it's gone for me.
1144
00:41:32,324 --> 00:41:34,215
I usually just walk away
at this point, so...
1145
00:41:34,308 --> 00:41:36,384
- Yeah, oof.
- Yeah, it's hard.
1146
00:41:36,402 --> 00:41:37,735
- I don't want you
to walk away, though.
1147
00:41:37,829 --> 00:41:39,570
- No, I'm still here, like--
- you're gonna fight.
1148
00:41:39,723 --> 00:41:41,664
- I still got the ring on.
- You're literally a fighter.
1149
00:41:41,816 --> 00:41:44,334
- Yeah, like, so I'm here.
1150
00:41:44,485 --> 00:41:46,151
You know, I'm showing up
for our marriage.
1151
00:41:46,246 --> 00:41:48,062
- But I want to validate that
what you're feeling is painful.
1152
00:41:48,081 --> 00:41:49,247
- Yeah.
- And it's real.
1153
00:41:49,399 --> 00:41:50,915
- Yeah.
1154
00:41:51,009 --> 00:41:54,511
- He really expected me to be
this, like, perfect person.
1155
00:41:54,662 --> 00:41:56,012
- So what are your next steps,
you know,
1156
00:41:56,163 --> 00:41:57,238
When you get back
to the apartment?
1157
00:41:57,257 --> 00:41:58,923
What does that look like
for you guys?
1158
00:41:59,075 --> 00:42:01,075
- Mm-hmm, it's just
more honest conversation,
1159
00:42:01,094 --> 00:42:04,687
And me building that trust,
and every day small wins,
1160
00:42:04,839 --> 00:42:07,506
Whatever--small and big wins,
whatever that is,
1161
00:42:07,526 --> 00:42:09,192
Like, just building momentum.
1162
00:42:09,343 --> 00:42:12,529
- One thing I do want to share,
man, is I had a relationship--
1163
00:42:12,756 --> 00:42:14,680
A lot of my relationships
similar, you know,
1164
00:42:14,699 --> 00:42:17,200
Back in the day, it was just,
I never put myself first,
1165
00:42:17,427 --> 00:42:18,760
And I would, like,
suppress my feelings.
1166
00:42:18,853 --> 00:42:20,370
- Yeah.
- And it can break you.
1167
00:42:20,521 --> 00:42:23,447
So when you express
how you feel,
1168
00:42:23,542 --> 00:42:26,951
Express it in a way and make
sure you remind yourself that,
1169
00:42:27,103 --> 00:42:28,360
When you tell her this,
you're telling her this
1170
00:42:28,454 --> 00:42:29,879
Because you do care.
1171
00:42:30,031 --> 00:42:31,363
You care about your feelings.
- I want it to work.
1172
00:42:31,383 --> 00:42:32,607
That's why I'm bringing it up.
1173
00:42:32,700 --> 00:42:33,532
Like, I wouldn't
have brought it up
1174
00:42:33,552 --> 00:42:35,109
If I didn't care.
1175
00:42:35,128 --> 00:42:36,553
If I genuinely didn't care.
- Yeah.
1176
00:42:36,704 --> 00:42:38,446
- It's just all bad all around,
and the only way
1177
00:42:38,539 --> 00:42:39,630
To work it out
is to really talk it out.
1178
00:42:39,724 --> 00:42:41,465
- Yeah.
1179
00:42:41,618 --> 00:42:44,135
- And like, I take ownership
for everything that's happened,
1180
00:42:44,287 --> 00:42:47,564
And I take ownership
for how I'm going to fix it.
1181
00:42:47,791 --> 00:42:49,624
- Despite the situation,
I'm here, bro.
1182
00:42:49,642 --> 00:42:51,475
If it's 3:00 in the morning,
1183
00:42:51,628 --> 00:42:52,794
I might be a little irritated,
you know what I'm saying--
1184
00:42:52,887 --> 00:42:54,796
- Yeah, no,
I'll call you at 3:00 p.M.
1185
00:42:54,889 --> 00:42:56,981
- [laughs]
- but I got you bro, like--
1186
00:42:57,133 --> 00:42:58,633
- Actually, you can call me--
you can call--
1187
00:42:58,651 --> 00:43:00,318
Before 3:00 a.M.,
like, 2:59 is cool.
1188
00:43:00,470 --> 00:43:01,393
After--
- 2:59.
1189
00:43:01,413 --> 00:43:02,912
[laughs]
1190
00:43:03,139 --> 00:43:04,822
Nah, that works, dude.
You ready to go about now?
1191
00:43:04,974 --> 00:43:06,657
- Yeah, let's get it.
- Let me get a hand.
1192
00:43:06,751 --> 00:43:08,233
Getting old, boy.
1193
00:43:08,253 --> 00:43:10,328
Whoa.
1194
00:43:10,480 --> 00:43:11,829
My knees.
1195
00:43:11,923 --> 00:43:13,481
[soft music]
1196
00:43:13,499 --> 00:43:14,816
- Miguel and I talk
a lot about this,
1197
00:43:14,909 --> 00:43:16,167
It's managing expectations.
1198
00:43:16,319 --> 00:43:17,743
- Yeah.
1199
00:43:17,837 --> 00:43:19,578
- It's just gonna take a lot.
- It's going to take time.
1200
00:43:19,598 --> 00:43:22,432
And nothing happens overnight.
1201
00:43:22,659 --> 00:43:24,917
And the whole point is
to be seen,
1202
00:43:24,936 --> 00:43:27,511
And heard, and accepted.
1203
00:43:27,664 --> 00:43:31,774
- But it sounds like there's
a lot of inconsistency here.
1204
00:43:31,926 --> 00:43:36,354
You know,
you shared that miguel--
1205
00:43:36,448 --> 00:43:39,857
He had tried you know,
to have sex with you, right?
1206
00:43:40,009 --> 00:43:41,676
- Mm-hmm.
1207
00:43:41,769 --> 00:43:43,286
- That's not what you wanted.
1208
00:43:43,437 --> 00:43:45,270
You wanted
to build this connection.
1209
00:43:45,290 --> 00:43:47,773
If you're like, "I don't
want to have sex with you,"
1210
00:43:47,792 --> 00:43:50,201
How did that switch
to where you felt comfortable?
1211
00:43:50,295 --> 00:43:52,687
- We've been getting to know
each other, asking questions.
1212
00:43:52,705 --> 00:43:54,372
I feel so connected to him.
1213
00:43:54,524 --> 00:43:56,540
He makes me feel
comfortable and confident.
1214
00:43:56,635 --> 00:43:58,784
And if I wasn't having
that connection with him,
1215
00:43:58,878 --> 00:44:00,862
We wouldn't have had sex.
1216
00:44:00,880 --> 00:44:02,880
- And I just wanted to make
sure that it was your decision,
1217
00:44:03,032 --> 00:44:04,382
And you weren't being pressured
or anything like that--
1218
00:44:04,476 --> 00:44:06,309
- Oh, my--no.
1219
00:44:06,460 --> 00:44:07,702
- Now I'm starting
to get triggered from things
1220
00:44:07,795 --> 00:44:09,312
That I've been through,
and I'm like,
1221
00:44:09,463 --> 00:44:10,888
"I don't want her
to feel like me."
1222
00:44:10,982 --> 00:44:12,315
- No, no, no, no.
1223
00:44:12,466 --> 00:44:14,133
- Like, just going through
what I went through,
1224
00:44:14,152 --> 00:44:16,060
And I didn't want you
to go through that as well.
1225
00:44:16,212 --> 00:44:17,803
- Oh, no.
1226
00:44:17,822 --> 00:44:20,398
- I can reassure you,
it was very mutual.
1227
00:44:20,550 --> 00:44:21,824
♪ ♪
1228
00:44:21,976 --> 00:44:24,235
He's my husband.
It was beautiful.
1229
00:44:24,329 --> 00:44:25,736
- But I just--
1230
00:44:25,889 --> 00:44:27,388
It's still so soon,
1231
00:44:27,407 --> 00:44:30,074
And I know
we're wearing these rings.
1232
00:44:30,168 --> 00:44:32,243
But giving yourself
to someone like that...
1233
00:44:32,337 --> 00:44:33,728
- Yeah.
1234
00:44:33,746 --> 00:44:36,247
- That's just something
so precious.
1235
00:44:36,399 --> 00:44:39,008
I've been in situations
to where I felt like
1236
00:44:39,235 --> 00:44:42,086
I had to have sex
to keep my partner happy,
1237
00:44:42,180 --> 00:44:44,681
And I didn't know what would
happen if I didn't do it,
1238
00:44:44,832 --> 00:44:46,015
So I just--
1239
00:44:46,242 --> 00:44:49,686
I didn't want lindy
to feel that.
1240
00:44:49,837 --> 00:44:52,355
- I hear you,
but I also grew up
1241
00:44:52,582 --> 00:44:55,416
With so much judgement
and shame around sex
1242
00:44:55,509 --> 00:44:57,752
That all I want
from you guys is support
1243
00:44:57,770 --> 00:44:59,178
Because it was my decision.
1244
00:44:59,272 --> 00:45:00,679
It was our decision.
- Okay.
1245
00:45:00,773 --> 00:45:02,273
- And I'm happy about it.
1246
00:45:02,425 --> 00:45:04,258
It's something beautiful,
and it was amazing.
1247
00:45:04,277 --> 00:45:05,702
- Okay, good, good.
- Good.
1248
00:45:05,929 --> 00:45:07,519
- I'm so happy
you're looking out for me,
1249
00:45:07,539 --> 00:45:08,946
And I will come to you crying.
1250
00:45:09,098 --> 00:45:10,781
It's gonna come.
It's gonna happen.
1251
00:45:10,875 --> 00:45:15,286
But right now, this is not--
it's not it, but--
1252
00:45:15,438 --> 00:45:16,695
- Yeah.
1253
00:45:16,715 --> 00:45:18,381
- I wanted to talk
to you about some stuff
1254
00:45:18,532 --> 00:45:20,365
That me and miguel
were speaking about
1255
00:45:20,385 --> 00:45:22,885
Because it doesn't feel right
not talking to you about it
1256
00:45:23,112 --> 00:45:24,278
Because you're my girl,
you're my friend.
1257
00:45:24,297 --> 00:45:25,888
- Right, right.
1258
00:45:26,040 --> 00:45:30,560
- So miguel has questioned
nate's authenticity.
1259
00:45:30,711 --> 00:45:33,471
- Miguel thinks
that nate is not--
1260
00:45:33,565 --> 00:45:35,231
- Genuine.
1261
00:45:36,717 --> 00:45:39,643
Nate's just, like, so curated.
1262
00:45:39,796 --> 00:45:41,145
I don't know--like,
I'm not behind the scenes
1263
00:45:41,239 --> 00:45:42,463
With you guys--
1264
00:45:42,556 --> 00:45:43,981
- Nothing that you say
is gonna hurt me,
1265
00:45:44,133 --> 00:45:45,575
I want you to give me your--
- I know, I know.
1266
00:45:45,726 --> 00:45:47,301
Just like you're not
in our bedroom
1267
00:45:47,320 --> 00:45:48,803
While me and miguel
are connecting,
1268
00:45:48,821 --> 00:45:50,395
I'm not in your bedroom
when you guys are connecting
1269
00:45:50,415 --> 00:45:51,822
And what you're talking about.
1270
00:45:51,975 --> 00:45:54,399
But I'm so immersed
in this experience and,
1271
00:45:54,494 --> 00:45:56,252
Like, getting to know you
and getting to know my husband
1272
00:45:56,479 --> 00:45:59,088
That, like, I never know
where my phone is.
1273
00:45:59,240 --> 00:46:01,665
I don't know where my phone is.
Like, I haven't texted anyone.
1274
00:46:01,760 --> 00:46:04,409
I haven't taken any videos.
Like, it's just gone.
1275
00:46:04,504 --> 00:46:07,764
And like, nate, he's very like,
1276
00:46:07,991 --> 00:46:10,491
"look what we're doing.
Look at my wife."
1277
00:46:10,584 --> 00:46:12,268
And that's just
maybe his personality,
1278
00:46:12,419 --> 00:46:14,011
But from
my outside perspective,
1279
00:46:14,105 --> 00:46:15,846
I worry like,
1280
00:46:15,999 --> 00:46:18,182
Why does he care so much
about--I don't know.
1281
00:46:18,334 --> 00:46:19,834
It's me and miguel,
1282
00:46:19,852 --> 00:46:21,260
We overthink together
all the time.
1283
00:46:21,279 --> 00:46:22,503
- Right, right, right.
1284
00:46:22,596 --> 00:46:23,854
- I just want to know,
is that something
1285
00:46:23,948 --> 00:46:26,841
That you're questioning,
or you feel good about his--
1286
00:46:26,859 --> 00:46:28,785
He feels real and authentic.
1287
00:46:28,936 --> 00:46:30,769
- No it's definitely
something I've questioned.
1288
00:46:30,863 --> 00:46:32,363
- Yeah.
- Yeah.
1289
00:46:32,515 --> 00:46:35,182
♪ ♪
1290
00:46:35,201 --> 00:46:37,794
I do question the intention.
1291
00:46:37,945 --> 00:46:40,538
- Yeah.
- I do question why he's here.
1292
00:46:40,690 --> 00:46:42,206
You know, I want him
to peel back the layers.
1293
00:46:42,358 --> 00:46:43,524
- Yeah.
1294
00:46:43,543 --> 00:46:44,692
- And at that time, I think
1295
00:46:44,710 --> 00:46:45,968
I'd be a little bit
more comfortable,
1296
00:46:46,195 --> 00:46:48,195
But absolutely,
and I'm gonna find out.
1297
00:46:48,289 --> 00:46:49,547
- That's valid.
- I'll find out.
1298
00:46:49,641 --> 00:46:52,550
[dramatic music]
1299
00:46:52,644 --> 00:46:54,101
♪ ♪
1300
00:46:57,890 --> 00:46:59,223
[upbeat music]
1301
00:46:59,375 --> 00:47:03,135
♪ ♪
1302
00:47:03,229 --> 00:47:05,470
- I am on the beach.
1303
00:47:05,565 --> 00:47:07,657
Hubby is surfing.
1304
00:47:07,884 --> 00:47:09,900
I think you can see him
back there,
1305
00:47:09,994 --> 00:47:13,220
That little dot?
1306
00:47:13,314 --> 00:47:14,738
It is a dream to be able
to go on your honeymoon
1307
00:47:14,891 --> 00:47:16,148
And watch your husband surf.
1308
00:47:16,242 --> 00:47:18,893
I support all his interests,
1309
00:47:18,911 --> 00:47:21,896
Especially when it comes
to being on the water.
1310
00:47:21,989 --> 00:47:23,898
And it just feels good
to be able to watch him
1311
00:47:23,916 --> 00:47:25,324
In his element,
1312
00:47:25,343 --> 00:47:27,068
And this is
what he wanted to do.
1313
00:47:27,086 --> 00:47:31,405
And he's really happy doing it,
so I'm happy to be here too.
1314
00:47:31,424 --> 00:47:33,832
♪ ♪
1315
00:47:33,852 --> 00:47:38,354
- ♪ I can see the ocean
from my window ♪
1316
00:47:38,581 --> 00:47:42,341
♪ the golden sun is
coming up in your eyes ♪
1317
00:47:42,435 --> 00:47:47,254
♪ we could stay right here,
keep all day in love ♪
1318
00:47:47,348 --> 00:47:50,515
- Let's get some air
in this bitch!
1319
00:47:50,610 --> 00:47:52,276
- ♪ let's make some waves ♪
1320
00:47:52,370 --> 00:47:55,371
- I have nothing but respect
and admiration for miguel,
1321
00:47:55,598 --> 00:47:58,207
And that hasn't wavered
or changed at all
1322
00:47:58,434 --> 00:47:59,600
The past few days
that we've been
1323
00:47:59,693 --> 00:48:01,544
Getting to know each other.
1324
00:48:01,695 --> 00:48:05,272
I do think that like,
my butterflies and feelings
1325
00:48:05,291 --> 00:48:08,459
Are gonna continue to increase
the more I understand him
1326
00:48:08,553 --> 00:48:09,944
And get to know him.
1327
00:48:09,962 --> 00:48:11,962
Oh, my gosh that is--
that was heavier--
1328
00:48:12,056 --> 00:48:14,281
- Heavier than it looks, right?
- Oh, [bleep].
1329
00:48:14,300 --> 00:48:17,042
♪ ♪
1330
00:48:17,136 --> 00:48:19,136
- Overall that was good though?
- That was really--
1331
00:48:19,288 --> 00:48:21,213
- Positive, yeah.
- Yeah.
1332
00:48:21,307 --> 00:48:23,715
- Not too bad
we didn't get into like,
1333
00:48:23,809 --> 00:48:25,234
A relationship ending fight.
1334
00:48:25,461 --> 00:48:27,886
- Oh, my god.
- I've seen--you joke.
1335
00:48:27,980 --> 00:48:30,722
I've seen people--yeah.
1336
00:48:30,816 --> 00:48:32,891
- Is this what does it?
- Like, end.
1337
00:48:32,911 --> 00:48:34,652
- That's easy.
1338
00:48:34,746 --> 00:48:37,321
Like, this is supposed
to be the fun part.
1339
00:48:37,415 --> 00:48:39,990
If there's any fights, like,
with this kind of stuff,
1340
00:48:40,084 --> 00:48:41,751
I don't know, that would be
definitely a red flag for me.
1341
00:48:41,978 --> 00:48:43,252
But it's just so easy
to talk to you
1342
00:48:43,479 --> 00:48:45,829
And, like,
just open up and have fun.
1343
00:48:45,924 --> 00:48:47,423
Like, I love that we're
just so goofy with each other.
1344
00:48:47,574 --> 00:48:48,816
That's, like--
1345
00:48:48,909 --> 00:48:52,169
That's what makes life easier.
1346
00:48:52,263 --> 00:48:53,337
- I agree.
1347
00:48:53,431 --> 00:48:56,766
- But, I do feel like,
1348
00:48:56,993 --> 00:48:59,101
Because we're so different,
you know,
1349
00:48:59,253 --> 00:49:01,328
Like, I just want to, like,
throw it all out there
1350
00:49:01,347 --> 00:49:03,497
And just let you know
all of my everything.
1351
00:49:03,590 --> 00:49:05,015
- Yeah you do, I know.
- You know?
1352
00:49:05,109 --> 00:49:06,758
- I just want it out there
so that we can like,
1353
00:49:06,778 --> 00:49:08,169
Figure it out.
1354
00:49:08,262 --> 00:49:09,928
And then your personality,
you're like,
1355
00:49:10,022 --> 00:49:11,596
"let it come.
It will happen."
1356
00:49:11,616 --> 00:49:15,117
But then I have this pressure
where you've told me
1357
00:49:15,344 --> 00:49:16,619
That you want
to fall in love with me.
1358
00:49:16,846 --> 00:49:18,195
- I do.
1359
00:49:18,347 --> 00:49:19,789
- But you need
to see the emotional side,
1360
00:49:20,016 --> 00:49:22,792
You need to be attracted
to my intellectual--
1361
00:49:23,019 --> 00:49:25,035
My physical--
like you're so analytical,
1362
00:49:25,129 --> 00:49:27,371
And it's so many boxes
1363
00:49:27,523 --> 00:49:29,373
That it's
so much pressure on me.
1364
00:49:29,525 --> 00:49:31,425
- I'm sorry about that.
1365
00:49:33,137 --> 00:49:35,379
- Because of course I want us
to fall in love too,
1366
00:49:35,531 --> 00:49:36,714
But it's like, holy [bleep].
1367
00:49:36,808 --> 00:49:38,048
Everything I'm saying
and doing, I'm like,
1368
00:49:38,142 --> 00:49:39,883
"is this in his box?
Is this outside of his box?"
1369
00:49:39,978 --> 00:49:41,293
- Well, don't do that.
1370
00:49:41,312 --> 00:49:43,037
Be yourself
'cause at the end of the day,
1371
00:49:43,130 --> 00:49:44,629
If I do fall in love with you,
1372
00:49:44,649 --> 00:49:45,964
I want to fall in love
with lindy.
1373
00:49:45,984 --> 00:49:47,966
Don't try to fit
into what you think I want.
1374
00:49:47,986 --> 00:49:49,968
You be you,
and if I pick up what
1375
00:49:49,988 --> 00:49:51,562
You're putting down, right,
in the long run,
1376
00:49:51,656 --> 00:49:52,822
That's what you want.
1377
00:49:53,049 --> 00:49:53,823
You want someone
that signs up for you,
1378
00:49:54,050 --> 00:49:55,065
Who you are.
1379
00:49:55,159 --> 00:49:56,475
- Yeah, and accepts my quirks,
1380
00:49:56,494 --> 00:49:57,994
And thinks it's cute,
and this, and that.
1381
00:49:58,145 --> 00:50:00,237
And same thing with you,
like, when you're being you,
1382
00:50:00,389 --> 00:50:01,572
I'm not gonna try
to control you.
1383
00:50:01,666 --> 00:50:03,557
I'm gonna like that's miguel.
He's a pervert.
1384
00:50:03,650 --> 00:50:06,002
You know, I love that
about him, right?
1385
00:50:06,153 --> 00:50:08,062
Fine.
- Yeah.
1386
00:50:08,155 --> 00:50:09,672
- Like, I'm not gonna be like,
1387
00:50:09,899 --> 00:50:11,232
You know like,
I don't want to be like,
1388
00:50:11,250 --> 00:50:12,324
"you're offending me.
Don't say it like..."
1389
00:50:12,343 --> 00:50:13,676
- Right.
1390
00:50:13,903 --> 00:50:15,753
- That's what we want,
is to just be ourselves,
1391
00:50:15,847 --> 00:50:19,348
And complement,
and accept those parts of us.
1392
00:50:19,575 --> 00:50:21,166
- Right.
1393
00:50:21,185 --> 00:50:22,351
You know, it's true,
and right now,
1394
00:50:22,503 --> 00:50:23,427
To be perfectly honest
with you,
1395
00:50:23,579 --> 00:50:26,856
I don't know
quite where I'm at.
1396
00:50:27,007 --> 00:50:31,585
Like, going into this the way
I initially envisioned it
1397
00:50:31,678 --> 00:50:33,604
Was like, okay,
I'm gonna give it my all
1398
00:50:33,698 --> 00:50:35,606
For like eight weeks,
1399
00:50:35,700 --> 00:50:38,200
And then that's when I decide.
1400
00:50:38,427 --> 00:50:41,095
♪ ♪
1401
00:50:41,113 --> 00:50:45,857
- Keep me in your mind process
because I need to know--
1402
00:50:45,877 --> 00:50:49,436
I--like, how much
to protect myself.
1403
00:50:49,455 --> 00:50:51,714
♪ ♪
1404
00:50:53,276 --> 00:50:55,217
I can't let my guard down
if you're like,
1405
00:50:55,369 --> 00:50:58,128
"yeah, this is two months,
and then it is what it is."
1406
00:50:58,222 --> 00:51:00,705
Is this just a two month
experiment for you,
1407
00:51:00,800 --> 00:51:02,374
Or is this a real marriage
1408
00:51:02,393 --> 00:51:04,560
That you want to try
to last forever?
1409
00:51:04,787 --> 00:51:06,787
- I don't know.
I want this to work.
1410
00:51:06,880 --> 00:51:08,122
And I'm going
to try everything I can--
1411
00:51:08,140 --> 00:51:09,473
- Yeah.
1412
00:51:09,625 --> 00:51:11,400
- But I don't know
the person I'm marrying,
1413
00:51:11,627 --> 00:51:13,627
And so we shall see.
1414
00:51:13,646 --> 00:51:16,630
- To me this is, like,
an actual, I want a lifelong--
1415
00:51:16,723 --> 00:51:18,074
- Me too, me too.
- Partner.
1416
00:51:18,225 --> 00:51:19,391
And I don't want
to freak you out,
1417
00:51:19,485 --> 00:51:22,152
But that's why
I got married.
1418
00:51:22,246 --> 00:51:24,747
[dramatic music]
1419
00:51:24,974 --> 00:51:27,583
♪ ♪
1420
00:51:27,734 --> 00:51:32,813
- ♪ hey, she said you gotta
break your soft heart ♪
1421
00:51:32,906 --> 00:51:34,906
♪ you've got to levitate ♪
1422
00:51:35,000 --> 00:51:36,817
- Can I get a sex on the beach?
1423
00:51:36,836 --> 00:51:38,652
- Straight to the point, baby?
- Yeah, straight to the point.
1424
00:51:38,671 --> 00:51:40,930
- All righty, I mean,
we are on a beach.
1425
00:51:41,081 --> 00:51:44,842
- Ooh, spicy mama!
Wow!
1426
00:51:44,936 --> 00:51:46,435
Hi, beautiful couple.
1427
00:51:46,662 --> 00:51:47,770
- Good to see y'all again.
- Hi!
1428
00:51:47,921 --> 00:51:49,847
- Surprise!
- Oh, my goodness.
1429
00:51:49,999 --> 00:51:52,108
- Did you guys call each other?
- We're wearing the same color!
1430
00:51:52,259 --> 00:51:54,926
- Did you guys call each other?
- Your hoops, oh, my goodness.
1431
00:51:54,946 --> 00:51:56,261
- Thank you,
I brought the hoops out.
1432
00:51:56,355 --> 00:51:58,355
- Doesn't she look nice?
Yeah.
1433
00:51:58,507 --> 00:52:00,858
- I love your natural hair.
1434
00:52:00,952 --> 00:52:02,509
- You look so pretty.
- Hey, look who's here.
1435
00:52:02,528 --> 00:52:03,861
- Hi.
- Hey!
1436
00:52:03,955 --> 00:52:05,179
- Hello, sorry.
1437
00:52:05,272 --> 00:52:07,014
- Hello, hello.
- What's up, friends?
1438
00:52:07,032 --> 00:52:09,350
- So this is it, guys.
This is a wonderful honeymoon.
1439
00:52:09,443 --> 00:52:11,518
- Oh, my god.
- What are your thoughts?
1440
00:52:11,537 --> 00:52:12,870
- I can't believe
it's the last night already.
1441
00:52:12,964 --> 00:52:14,130
It just was like, pshew.
1442
00:52:14,357 --> 00:52:16,373
- Yeah, it was pretty quick.
- Yeah.
1443
00:52:16,467 --> 00:52:19,360
- I know, we didn't get
any time, but that's okay.
1444
00:52:19,378 --> 00:52:21,862
- I mean, we have had
really intimate conversations,
1445
00:52:21,955 --> 00:52:24,140
But maybe not as much
as you guys have.
1446
00:52:24,367 --> 00:52:26,367
- We had a really,
really hard one.
1447
00:52:26,385 --> 00:52:28,719
Feels good though 'cause,
like, it did make us better.
1448
00:52:28,813 --> 00:52:30,204
- We understand.
1449
00:52:30,222 --> 00:52:32,556
I mean, you know,
we're all on a crash course,
1450
00:52:32,650 --> 00:52:35,317
And, like, you guys will be
living together soon,
1451
00:52:35,544 --> 00:52:37,060
So you guys got plenty
of time to make up.
1452
00:52:37,213 --> 00:52:39,155
- Yeah.
- Time to talk.
1453
00:52:39,306 --> 00:52:41,732
- Sorry to, like, put you
on blast in front of everyone,
1454
00:52:41,826 --> 00:52:44,476
But I'm just not sure if this
is an eight-week thing,
1455
00:52:44,495 --> 00:52:45,995
Or, like,
where you're at with that.
1456
00:52:46,222 --> 00:52:48,389
I don't have a timeline.
I don't know.
1457
00:52:48,482 --> 00:52:49,481
- We've talked
about that, yeah.
1458
00:52:49,500 --> 00:52:50,741
- And I'm still
kind of waiting.
1459
00:52:50,835 --> 00:52:52,001
- Waiting for?
1460
00:52:52,228 --> 00:52:54,395
- I don't know where
his head is at.
1461
00:52:54,413 --> 00:52:56,338
- I can give someone
my all for eight weeks,
1462
00:52:56,565 --> 00:52:58,065
And then I can decide
from that point,
1463
00:52:58,083 --> 00:53:01,068
But she's like,
"I may need more than that."
1464
00:53:01,086 --> 00:53:03,512
- I think that would be
the most painful thing ever,
1465
00:53:03,664 --> 00:53:05,997
Is to be feeling like I'm
falling in love with someone,
1466
00:53:06,091 --> 00:53:09,185
And then just be like, no,
you know, "I don't want you."
1467
00:53:09,336 --> 00:53:11,836
I think that's, like,
my biggest fear in all of this.
1468
00:53:11,931 --> 00:53:13,430
He's like, "I don't know.
I'm giving you eight weeks."
1469
00:53:13,582 --> 00:53:14,748
And that doesn't feel--
- whoa.
1470
00:53:14,767 --> 00:53:16,417
- Not quite, not quite.
1471
00:53:16,435 --> 00:53:18,435
- That feels like [bleep].
- Those were not my words.
1472
00:53:18,587 --> 00:53:20,421
- This sounds like
a sit down conversation.
1473
00:53:20,439 --> 00:53:22,031
- Maybe we should have
some food in us, yeah.
1474
00:53:22,182 --> 00:53:24,091
- Let's go eat.
Can we go eat?
1475
00:53:24,109 --> 00:53:27,352
- Just feels surprising because
we're getting along so well,
1476
00:53:27,446 --> 00:53:29,187
And we're connecting so well,
1477
00:53:29,281 --> 00:53:32,190
So, I mean, at this point,
I'm, like, on an icy road,
1478
00:53:32,284 --> 00:53:34,952
Like, going 100 miles per hour.
1479
00:53:35,046 --> 00:53:36,437
[tense music]
1480
00:53:36,455 --> 00:53:37,713
- Give me a kiss.
1481
00:53:37,940 --> 00:53:39,215
- Nah, you gonna lick me.
- I'm not gonna lick you.
1482
00:53:39,442 --> 00:53:41,366
- You gonna lick me.
- I'm not gonna lick you.
1483
00:53:41,385 --> 00:53:44,278
- I'ma lick you.
1484
00:53:44,296 --> 00:53:46,204
- So what do you guys think
about moving in together?
1485
00:53:46,298 --> 00:53:50,059
You think the honeymoon is
almost easier in some senses?
1486
00:53:50,286 --> 00:53:53,303
I mean, once we go back home,
that's when, like,
1487
00:53:53,397 --> 00:53:54,788
The rest of our lives collide.
1488
00:53:54,807 --> 00:53:56,290
- It's true, it's true.
1489
00:53:56,308 --> 00:53:58,125
- One of his concerns is,
1490
00:53:58,218 --> 00:54:01,295
Will I revert back
into just work mode?
1491
00:54:01,388 --> 00:54:03,313
And I think
it's a valid concern.
1492
00:54:03,407 --> 00:54:05,482
- Yeah, it is, it is.
1493
00:54:05,576 --> 00:54:08,393
As of right now,
stacia, she's actually building
1494
00:54:08,487 --> 00:54:09,894
A home from scratch.
1495
00:54:09,914 --> 00:54:11,488
And she invited me...
- Whoa.
1496
00:54:11,640 --> 00:54:13,398
- To live with her
in her brand-new home
1497
00:54:13,492 --> 00:54:14,750
That's being built.
1498
00:54:14,977 --> 00:54:17,311
So it's a gesture
that's telling me
1499
00:54:17,329 --> 00:54:20,238
That she's very committed
to our relationship.
1500
00:54:20,258 --> 00:54:22,240
And so--yeah,
I'm looking forward
1501
00:54:22,260 --> 00:54:25,427
To this happy wife,
happy life kind of vibe.
1502
00:54:25,579 --> 00:54:26,670
You know what I'm saying?
- Right?
1503
00:54:26,764 --> 00:54:28,005
- That's true.
1504
00:54:28,099 --> 00:54:29,914
- So basically, your wife
is building you a house.
1505
00:54:30,009 --> 00:54:31,583
- [laughing]
yes.
1506
00:54:31,602 --> 00:54:33,585
- You hit the lottery, bro!
- Yeah, you did.
1507
00:54:33,679 --> 00:54:36,588
- Yeah.
I'm very grateful, for sure.
1508
00:54:36,682 --> 00:54:39,333
- I think the honeymoon has
been a little overwhelming,
1509
00:54:39,426 --> 00:54:43,279
Maybe for some of us,
and it'll be good
1510
00:54:43,430 --> 00:54:45,930
To get
into an everyday routine.
1511
00:54:45,950 --> 00:54:47,783
I am looking forward
to dinner with you every night
1512
00:54:47,934 --> 00:54:49,526
And sleeping in the same bed
with you every night.
1513
00:54:49,678 --> 00:54:51,936
- Aww!
- I am, I am.
1514
00:54:51,956 --> 00:54:53,864
Yeah, I'm a lot.
1515
00:54:54,016 --> 00:54:55,849
I'm always doing something.
I'm talking.
1516
00:54:55,942 --> 00:54:57,626
I'm cooking.
I'm cleaning.
1517
00:54:57,853 --> 00:55:00,187
- Mitch, you gonna be able
to keep up with that?
1518
00:55:00,280 --> 00:55:01,855
- Oh, yeah.
- Yeah, mitch!
1519
00:55:01,874 --> 00:55:02,856
- Nice.
1520
00:55:02,949 --> 00:55:04,300
- I'm pretty high energy too,
1521
00:55:04,527 --> 00:55:06,284
And I actually
find it attractive
1522
00:55:06,378 --> 00:55:09,454
When I'm
with a woman who's busy,
1523
00:55:09,473 --> 00:55:12,123
And engaging,
and opinionated, and strong,
1524
00:55:12,217 --> 00:55:13,124
And just kind of
doing her thing.
1525
00:55:13,218 --> 00:55:14,643
- That's your girl.
1526
00:55:14,870 --> 00:55:16,386
- I think the important thing
for us is gonna be
1527
00:55:16,539 --> 00:55:18,722
Making sure that, in all our
craziness of both of our lives,
1528
00:55:18,816 --> 00:55:21,708
And my work schedule is
very all over the place,
1529
00:55:21,802 --> 00:55:23,560
So just making sure
that we find time,
1530
00:55:23,654 --> 00:55:26,471
Whether that's breakfast,
whether that's dinner.
1531
00:55:26,565 --> 00:55:28,973
Whatever it is that we have
time to connect still, yeah.
1532
00:55:28,993 --> 00:55:30,067
- How do you feel
about moving in?
1533
00:55:30,161 --> 00:55:31,385
- I'm excited.
1534
00:55:31,478 --> 00:55:32,310
I'm just worried
about my work schedule,
1535
00:55:32,404 --> 00:55:34,738
And how I've been a nurse
1536
00:55:34,890 --> 00:55:36,056
Through the entire pandemic,
1537
00:55:36,075 --> 00:55:38,058
And how I've coped personally
after work
1538
00:55:38,151 --> 00:55:39,651
Is going home and being
by myself.
1539
00:55:39,745 --> 00:55:41,986
- I bet.
- And de-stressing by myself.
1540
00:55:42,006 --> 00:55:43,397
It's gonna be interesting
going home
1541
00:55:43,415 --> 00:55:45,507
And having someone there.
1542
00:55:45,734 --> 00:55:49,178
I've never had that,
and I even told the experts,
1543
00:55:49,405 --> 00:55:50,904
Like, I need someone
who's gonna be able
1544
00:55:50,997 --> 00:55:52,255
To take care of themselves
1545
00:55:52,350 --> 00:55:54,165
Because when I get home,
I can't take care of him.
1546
00:55:54,185 --> 00:55:56,076
I can't.
1547
00:55:56,095 --> 00:55:58,762
I need someone to come home to
who can take care of himself,
1548
00:55:58,914 --> 00:56:01,172
Who's good
on his own by himself,
1549
00:56:01,192 --> 00:56:02,265
Because, like,
I need to de-stress
1550
00:56:02,360 --> 00:56:03,859
At the end of the day.
1551
00:56:04,086 --> 00:56:05,419
I don't want to come home
and keep taking care of people.
1552
00:56:05,437 --> 00:56:06,987
♪ ♪
1553
00:56:08,682 --> 00:56:10,348
- It's gonna be a lot of,
like, compromise
1554
00:56:10,442 --> 00:56:12,368
And a lot of communication.
1555
00:56:12,519 --> 00:56:15,929
I'm not used to talking
about my feelings about work.
1556
00:56:15,948 --> 00:56:18,281
- So my question is, how does
binh fit into this situation?
1557
00:56:18,434 --> 00:56:21,268
- That's what I was wondering.
- Yeah, that's the hard part.
1558
00:56:21,286 --> 00:56:24,630
♪ ♪
1559
00:56:28,869 --> 00:56:30,627
- It's gonna be a lot of,
like, compromise
1560
00:56:30,779 --> 00:56:32,963
And a lot of communication.
1561
00:56:33,057 --> 00:56:35,707
I'm not used to talking
about my feelings about work.
1562
00:56:35,801 --> 00:56:37,801
- So my question is, how does
binh fit into this situation?
1563
00:56:37,953 --> 00:56:39,895
- That's what I was wondering.
- That's the difficult thing.
1564
00:56:40,122 --> 00:56:41,379
- That's the hard part.
- That's the hard part.
1565
00:56:41,399 --> 00:56:45,383
- No, I'm just kidding.
[laughter]
1566
00:56:45,403 --> 00:56:46,568
- Stop!
- No, but maybe it is.
1567
00:56:46,795 --> 00:56:48,128
Maybe it is.
1568
00:56:48,147 --> 00:56:50,906
- That's a stress reliever.
- Right, it is!
1569
00:56:51,133 --> 00:56:53,075
- That's the difficult part
because I don't want
1570
00:56:53,302 --> 00:56:55,577
To have to worry
about everything he's doing
1571
00:56:55,804 --> 00:56:57,804
Every single day and trying
to take care of them
1572
00:56:57,898 --> 00:56:59,248
Because that's
who I am mentally,
1573
00:56:59,399 --> 00:57:00,991
And I want to take care...
1574
00:57:01,085 --> 00:57:03,568
I just--it's hard for me
to do that right now
1575
00:57:03,662 --> 00:57:06,313
In, like, a pandemic situation.
1576
00:57:06,331 --> 00:57:08,907
- She sort of made
everything about her.
1577
00:57:09,001 --> 00:57:10,575
Like, when I come home,
I want this,
1578
00:57:10,669 --> 00:57:12,410
When I come home,
I want that.
1579
00:57:12,430 --> 00:57:14,821
And you say you want this,
that, and the other,
1580
00:57:14,915 --> 00:57:16,598
But, like,
what about what he wants?
1581
00:57:16,825 --> 00:57:18,508
- I'm trying to figure out
where I fit in to all of that,
1582
00:57:18,661 --> 00:57:19,676
Because on top of all that,
1583
00:57:19,828 --> 00:57:21,161
It's like,
there's muay thai too.
1584
00:57:21,254 --> 00:57:22,996
- Yes.
- And then there's the gym.
1585
00:57:23,015 --> 00:57:26,349
So it's definitely--I don't
know what you would want.
1586
00:57:26,444 --> 00:57:28,518
What do you need from me
in those circumstances?
1587
00:57:28,671 --> 00:57:30,020
- Yeah, I think just like--
1588
00:57:30,114 --> 00:57:32,339
- It's just space?
1589
00:57:32,432 --> 00:57:34,007
- No, it's just more
the communication.
1590
00:57:34,100 --> 00:57:35,692
We need to talk to each other.
1591
00:57:35,786 --> 00:57:37,769
We need to see where we're at
mentally every single day--
1592
00:57:37,863 --> 00:57:39,029
- Just checking in on like--
1593
00:57:39,181 --> 00:57:40,456
- Checking in on each other,
absolutely.
1594
00:57:45,037 --> 00:57:46,703
- And that's what I do need,
is like, at work,
1595
00:57:46,855 --> 00:57:48,446
I need someone to ground me,
1596
00:57:48,466 --> 00:57:50,040
And to bring me
back to reality.
1597
00:57:50,192 --> 00:57:51,783
And to be like, how are you?
1598
00:57:51,877 --> 00:57:53,376
You know, and that's--
- I can do that.
1599
00:57:53,529 --> 00:57:54,803
- Yeah, that's what
I would really need.
1600
00:57:55,030 --> 00:57:56,972
- I just think you have
to allow him...
1601
00:57:57,123 --> 00:57:58,048
- Yeah.
- To be there for you.
1602
00:57:58,200 --> 00:57:59,199
Because you're saying like,
1603
00:57:59,292 --> 00:58:00,291
"I'm coming to do home,
and do this."
1604
00:58:00,311 --> 00:58:01,702
I, me, me, me.
1605
00:58:01,720 --> 00:58:03,145
And it's just like,
you have to open up.
1606
00:58:03,296 --> 00:58:04,371
- Yeah, I have to.
1607
00:58:04,464 --> 00:58:05,555
- Our husbands
are very similar.
1608
00:58:05,708 --> 00:58:07,316
- Yeah.
- And we are also very similar.
1609
00:58:07,467 --> 00:58:08,650
- Yeah, it's hard.
1610
00:58:08,877 --> 00:58:10,060
It's hard being the strong,
independent woman
1611
00:58:10,154 --> 00:58:12,062
And allowing a man in.
1612
00:58:12,156 --> 00:58:14,323
- The thing is, you're--
1613
00:58:14,550 --> 00:58:16,717
You're married now,
and when you took that step,
1614
00:58:16,810 --> 00:58:18,051
You basically took
that vow to open
1615
00:58:18,144 --> 00:58:19,161
Yourself up to vulnerability.
1616
00:58:19,388 --> 00:58:20,496
- Yeah.
- You know what I'm saying?
1617
00:58:20,723 --> 00:58:23,165
So you just gotta say,
you know, forget the fear.
1618
00:58:23,392 --> 00:58:24,666
Whatever happens happens,
you know what I'm saying?
1619
00:58:24,893 --> 00:58:27,410
Because right now,
when you said yes to this man,
1620
00:58:27,505 --> 00:58:29,654
And he said yes to her,
you opened that path up.
1621
00:58:29,748 --> 00:58:31,340
- Mm-hmm.
- That's true.
1622
00:58:31,567 --> 00:58:32,657
- Like, binh is a
whole other person.
1623
00:58:32,751 --> 00:58:34,676
He has his own set of needs.
1624
00:58:34,828 --> 00:58:36,011
And he needs somebody too.
1625
00:58:36,238 --> 00:58:37,846
Like, he's in this for you.
- Yeah.
1626
00:58:38,073 --> 00:58:39,740
- He wants you.
- Yeah, that's what I'm saying.
1627
00:58:39,833 --> 00:58:41,833
I'm gonna try really hard
to reciprocate
1628
00:58:41,852 --> 00:58:44,335
And to, like,
be present with you.
1629
00:58:44,429 --> 00:58:46,170
- She's irritating.
- Okay.
1630
00:58:46,265 --> 00:58:47,839
- So it'll be good.
1631
00:58:47,858 --> 00:58:49,191
It'll be a journey,
but we'll figure it out.
1632
00:58:49,418 --> 00:58:50,508
- For sure.
1633
00:58:50,528 --> 00:58:52,419
- Yeah, absolutely.
- I think so.
1634
00:58:52,437 --> 00:58:55,346
- I think
that she wants companionship,
1635
00:58:55,440 --> 00:58:56,848
But only on her terms.
1636
00:58:56,867 --> 00:58:59,760
And I think that
she hasn't really considered
1637
00:58:59,853 --> 00:59:02,020
How her husband
will add to her.
1638
00:59:02,114 --> 00:59:04,264
And you know like, what--
1639
00:59:04,283 --> 00:59:05,541
Why are you here?
1640
00:59:05,692 --> 00:59:07,358
I know my job is
really stressful.
1641
00:59:07,452 --> 00:59:10,712
So I want to see how like,
he responds to me being like,
1642
00:59:10,939 --> 00:59:12,714
Stressed when I come home
from work sometimes.
1643
00:59:12,866 --> 00:59:14,532
- What do you do again?
Sorry.
1644
00:59:14,626 --> 00:59:17,294
- I'm a logistician.
1645
00:59:17,446 --> 00:59:18,962
It's just numbers,
and ordering,
1646
00:59:19,056 --> 00:59:21,723
And nothing important.
1647
00:59:21,875 --> 00:59:24,375
- It's top secret.
1648
00:59:24,395 --> 00:59:26,286
When she comes home,
I don't want her to have
1649
00:59:26,305 --> 00:59:27,729
To worry about [bleep].
1650
00:59:27,881 --> 00:59:28,713
I want to get up
in the morning,
1651
00:59:28,807 --> 00:59:30,065
And she can just focus on work.
1652
00:59:30,292 --> 00:59:31,808
I take the dogs on a walk.
I get her a smoothie.
1653
00:59:31,902 --> 00:59:33,551
She starting her day.
1654
00:59:33,645 --> 00:59:35,645
- Not to play devil's advocate,
but I'm hearing a lot--
1655
00:59:35,739 --> 00:59:37,981
- He's totally gonna play
devil's ad--go for it.
1656
00:59:38,133 --> 00:59:39,816
- I am, I am, [bleep], I am.
1657
00:59:39,910 --> 00:59:42,226
But--so I hear a lot
that you're doing for alexis,
1658
00:59:42,246 --> 00:59:43,637
But what so--
1659
00:59:43,730 --> 00:59:44,913
What is alexis doing for you?
1660
00:59:45,140 --> 00:59:47,808
♪ ♪
1661
00:59:47,901 --> 00:59:50,327
- I just like being
his support system
1662
00:59:50,421 --> 00:59:52,979
And his almost security.
1663
00:59:53,073 --> 00:59:54,981
I'm gonna protect
this man at all costs.
1664
00:59:55,000 --> 00:59:59,319
So I'm here emotionally,
physically, spiritually,
1665
00:59:59,412 --> 01:00:01,597
Financially behind the scenes.
1666
01:00:01,824 --> 01:00:03,081
I'm feeding so much life
into this man.
1667
01:00:03,175 --> 01:00:04,266
- There you go.
- Yeah.
1668
01:00:04,493 --> 01:00:06,660
- Anything that he needs,
like, baby,
1669
01:00:06,678 --> 01:00:08,161
You want a drink,
you know, you in the shower.
1670
01:00:08,254 --> 01:00:09,679
I cater to my man.
- Yeah.
1671
01:00:09,832 --> 01:00:11,498
- But when we're
behind closed doors, like,
1672
01:00:11,591 --> 01:00:12,682
I have a suitcase
full of lingerie, y'all.
1673
01:00:12,776 --> 01:00:15,168
Don't get it twisted.
1674
01:00:15,187 --> 01:00:16,837
- You got a bag of lingerie?
- No--pfft.
1675
01:00:16,930 --> 01:00:18,596
I mean, [bleep], boy,
just wait.
1676
01:00:18,616 --> 01:00:19,781
Just wait
till we get back home.
1677
01:00:20,008 --> 01:00:21,341
Don't you worry about it.
- Okay.
1678
01:00:21,434 --> 01:00:23,452
- Don't worry about it.
I got you.
1679
01:00:23,679 --> 01:00:25,512
- 69, 69.
1680
01:00:25,605 --> 01:00:26,847
So mom, like--
- binh.
1681
01:00:26,865 --> 01:00:28,439
- The six--
- binh.
1682
01:00:28,459 --> 01:00:30,108
- If you turn the 6 upside
down it's a 9, but then--
1683
01:00:30,202 --> 01:00:32,018
- Just--
- the 6 is a 9.
1684
01:00:32,037 --> 01:00:34,204
It's--
- 69--
1685
01:00:34,298 --> 01:00:35,631
- It's a number.
1686
01:00:35,858 --> 01:00:37,448
- Is when...
1687
01:00:37,468 --> 01:00:39,635
[muffled speech]
1688
01:00:39,786 --> 01:00:43,196
- 69 is geometry,
so basically,
1689
01:00:43,289 --> 01:00:46,958
The 6 turns upside down
to a 9.
1690
01:00:47,052 --> 01:00:48,644
- I cater to my man.
1691
01:00:48,871 --> 01:00:50,871
Anything he needs.
And that was part of my vows.
1692
01:00:50,964 --> 01:00:52,055
Like, I'll give you
anything you need.
1693
01:00:52,149 --> 01:00:53,631
- I love all of this.
1694
01:00:53,725 --> 01:00:55,876
You guys complement each other.
1695
01:00:55,969 --> 01:00:57,377
Her weaknesses
are your strengths.
1696
01:00:57,396 --> 01:00:58,879
You're bringing out
the sensitive side of her
1697
01:00:58,972 --> 01:01:02,065
That I have never seen,
but I love it.
1698
01:01:02,159 --> 01:01:05,476
[laughter]
1699
01:01:05,496 --> 01:01:09,313
Look at how in love you are.
- Ahh!
1700
01:01:09,333 --> 01:01:12,058
- Embrace it.
Embrace it, girl.
1701
01:01:12,077 --> 01:01:13,752
- I do.
1702
01:01:15,247 --> 01:01:17,155
- What did you say?
1703
01:01:17,174 --> 01:01:18,507
- No, no, you--
- she--I heard it.
1704
01:01:18,658 --> 01:01:19,900
- You heard that?
- I heard it.
1705
01:01:19,993 --> 01:01:21,659
- Oh, hold up, hold up!
- I heard it.
1706
01:01:21,753 --> 01:01:23,403
- Wait, wait--
- I heard it.
1707
01:01:23,496 --> 01:01:25,180
- Shh, shh.
- I heard it!
1708
01:01:25,331 --> 01:01:26,423
- I heard it!
1709
01:01:26,517 --> 01:01:30,410
[cheering]
1710
01:01:30,503 --> 01:01:33,413
- You said, "I love this man."
1711
01:01:33,432 --> 01:01:34,581
- I do know I want
to spend my life with him,
1712
01:01:34,674 --> 01:01:36,082
So this eight weeks is like--
1713
01:01:36,176 --> 01:01:38,009
I mean,
it's just the beginning, so...
1714
01:01:38,103 --> 01:01:39,269
- The fact that you guys
have said that
1715
01:01:39,421 --> 01:01:40,862
Blows my mind, to be honest,
1716
01:01:41,089 --> 01:01:42,589
That you already know
that you want
1717
01:01:42,682 --> 01:01:45,183
To spend your lives together.
1718
01:01:45,202 --> 01:01:46,851
As much as I enjoy
spending time with lindy,
1719
01:01:46,870 --> 01:01:49,037
I don't like--
do I have it in me?
1720
01:01:49,264 --> 01:01:51,206
And that's something
I need to answer for myself.
1721
01:01:51,433 --> 01:01:53,542
♪ ♪
1722
01:01:53,769 --> 01:01:56,436
Do I have more than eight weeks
in me because--
1723
01:01:56,455 --> 01:01:57,546
- That's fair.
- No.
1724
01:01:57,697 --> 01:01:58,772
- That's not fair.
1725
01:01:58,865 --> 01:02:00,048
That is not--I'm sorry.
- That's fair.
1726
01:02:00,275 --> 01:02:01,365
No, no--that's fair.
1727
01:02:01,385 --> 01:02:02,625
- I'm so sorry,
mitch, but, like--
1728
01:02:02,778 --> 01:02:03,885
- He doesn't know
who she--he didn't know
1729
01:02:04,037 --> 01:02:04,886
It would be lindy.
1730
01:02:05,038 --> 01:02:07,280
He didn't know who it was.
1731
01:02:07,373 --> 01:02:09,449
- We're speaking
to our own opinions.
1732
01:02:09,468 --> 01:02:12,802
For me, the only way
I could do it if I knew--
1733
01:02:12,955 --> 01:02:14,896
I told myself I have an out.
1734
01:02:15,123 --> 01:02:16,047
- I mean--
- I was the same way.
1735
01:02:16,141 --> 01:02:17,807
I was the same way.
1736
01:02:17,960 --> 01:02:20,293
I was gonna give myself grace,
like, no matter what happens--
1737
01:02:20,386 --> 01:02:21,570
- I'm marrying a stranger.
1738
01:02:21,797 --> 01:02:23,797
I don't know who the [bleep]
is gonna show up
1739
01:02:23,815 --> 01:02:24,906
At the end of that like--
1740
01:02:25,133 --> 01:02:27,133
- No, that's super fair.
I validate that.
1741
01:02:27,227 --> 01:02:28,726
- Right.
- Like, I'm all in.
1742
01:02:28,820 --> 01:02:30,303
But I don't know
who the other person is.
1743
01:02:30,396 --> 01:02:32,322
So how can I be like,
yeah, this is it.
1744
01:02:32,416 --> 01:02:36,567
- But, lindy, earlier you were
saying that bothered you.
1745
01:02:36,587 --> 01:02:38,736
- I really do believe
in marriage,
1746
01:02:38,830 --> 01:02:40,647
And I want this
to be the long haul,
1747
01:02:40,740 --> 01:02:42,406
But I want to meet
you where you're at
1748
01:02:42,426 --> 01:02:44,501
And respect you
of not knowing it.
1749
01:02:44,653 --> 01:02:46,820
And that's painful,
but I understand it.
1750
01:02:46,913 --> 01:02:48,505
That's one thing
that I love and respect
1751
01:02:48,599 --> 01:02:52,325
About miguel's personality,
is that I'm not guessing.
1752
01:02:52,418 --> 01:02:54,010
I know exactly where he's at,
1753
01:02:54,104 --> 01:02:56,846
And I couldn't handle
the guessing game with someone.
1754
01:02:56,940 --> 01:02:59,257
- She's doing everything
she can to please miguel.
1755
01:02:59,351 --> 01:03:00,517
And she's not being true
to herself
1756
01:03:00,669 --> 01:03:01,851
Regarding what she wants,
1757
01:03:01,945 --> 01:03:03,520
And that's gonna be a problem.
1758
01:03:03,672 --> 01:03:04,854
I think he's a great guy,
1759
01:03:05,007 --> 01:03:06,506
And he's
been fully transparent,
1760
01:03:06,599 --> 01:03:08,675
But I feel like
she's only agreeing
1761
01:03:08,693 --> 01:03:10,118
Based on what he says.
1762
01:03:10,345 --> 01:03:11,861
And you can see the [bleep]
dead in her eyes.
1763
01:03:11,955 --> 01:03:13,938
- So are you even like
in the mindset of wanting
1764
01:03:14,032 --> 01:03:15,123
To even get married?
1765
01:03:15,350 --> 01:03:16,533
- Thank you.
1766
01:03:16,627 --> 01:03:17,942
- And you know,
I didn't want to come for you
1767
01:03:18,036 --> 01:03:18,868
In front of everybody--
1768
01:03:18,962 --> 01:03:20,036
- No, no, come for me.
1769
01:03:20,130 --> 01:03:21,521
No, no, no, it's good.
1770
01:03:21,614 --> 01:03:24,132
- I don't even
really know your story.
1771
01:03:24,359 --> 01:03:26,635
Listening to you the whole time
you were talking,
1772
01:03:26,862 --> 01:03:28,637
And I was just like,
what the [bleep]?
1773
01:03:28,864 --> 01:03:30,454
♪ ♪
1774
01:03:30,549 --> 01:03:31,807
- Well, let me put it this way.
1775
01:03:31,958 --> 01:03:33,124
- How long have
you been single?
1776
01:03:33,143 --> 01:03:34,625
Were you even, like,
trying to be married?
1777
01:03:34,719 --> 01:03:37,604
- Yes!
[cheering]
1778
01:03:47,232 --> 01:03:49,282
- Perfect timing.
1779
01:04:04,249 --> 01:04:06,324
- Exactly, exactly.
1780
01:04:06,343 --> 01:04:08,659
- Saved by the mariachi band.
- All right.
1781
01:04:08,679 --> 01:04:11,763
[mariachi music]
1782
01:04:15,519 --> 01:04:16,743
[soft music]
1783
01:04:16,761 --> 01:04:23,600
♪ ♪
1784
01:04:24,269 --> 01:04:27,587
- Ready?
One, two, three.
1785
01:04:27,606 --> 01:04:29,364
Okay, one more.
1786
01:04:29,591 --> 01:04:31,107
All right, got you.
1787
01:04:31,201 --> 01:04:33,276
Get that [bleep] out of here.
1788
01:04:33,428 --> 01:04:35,537
- Chill, bruh.
We going to sleep.
1789
01:04:35,764 --> 01:04:37,789
- [laughing]
1790
01:04:40,118 --> 01:04:41,951
- Oh, man.
Come here.
1791
01:04:42,045 --> 01:04:44,045
Get over here.
1792
01:04:45,531 --> 01:04:47,031
- How do you feel?
1793
01:04:47,050 --> 01:04:49,367
How do you feel
about these other couples?
1794
01:04:49,461 --> 01:04:50,777
Wait--
- oh.
1795
01:04:50,795 --> 01:04:52,946
- I was about to--like,
after miguel, like,
1796
01:04:52,964 --> 01:04:57,559
Had said what he said,
I was just like, oh, hell no.
1797
01:04:57,786 --> 01:04:59,786
- I don't know what
the hell is happening.
1798
01:04:59,804 --> 01:05:02,288
- It's scary not knowing
a person's intentions.
1799
01:05:02,382 --> 01:05:05,141
- It is scary,
but you know you have me,
1800
01:05:05,293 --> 01:05:06,643
And I feel like we're good.
1801
01:05:06,737 --> 01:05:08,403
That's all that matters.
1802
01:05:13,818 --> 01:05:16,136
- Really?
- Yes, really.
1803
01:05:16,154 --> 01:05:17,561
- Damn.
1804
01:05:17,656 --> 01:05:20,582
- It's still,
you know, a few days in.
1805
01:05:20,733 --> 01:05:23,067
I'm trying to figure out
like, if you really like me,
1806
01:05:23,161 --> 01:05:24,477
You want to be with me.
1807
01:05:24,570 --> 01:05:26,237
Me, like, inside...
- Really, are you serious?
1808
01:05:26,331 --> 01:05:27,830
- Or is it just the idea of me?
1809
01:05:27,983 --> 01:05:30,817
Because we have
just so much in common,
1810
01:05:30,910 --> 01:05:32,502
That you're like,
"oh, I can see myself
1811
01:05:32,654 --> 01:05:34,154
Being married to this girl."
1812
01:05:34,247 --> 01:05:36,080
But, like,
do you really want to go
1813
01:05:36,174 --> 01:05:37,657
Below that surface?
1814
01:05:37,676 --> 01:05:39,509
- Me moving into
your brand-new house isn't me
1815
01:05:39,661 --> 01:05:41,327
Committing to this marriage?
1816
01:05:41,421 --> 01:05:43,012
You don't think
that's me committing?
1817
01:05:43,106 --> 01:05:46,274
- I think it's you taking
the first step to, yeah.
1818
01:05:46,426 --> 01:05:49,335
But there's still a lot
of stuff that needs to happen
1819
01:05:49,354 --> 01:05:51,504
For a marriage to work.
1820
01:05:51,597 --> 01:05:54,265
I just want you to, like,
really get to know me,
1821
01:05:54,359 --> 01:05:56,100
And get underneath the surface,
1822
01:05:56,119 --> 01:05:59,362
And find out who I am
as a person.
1823
01:05:59,514 --> 01:06:01,939
- Are you waiting for something
bad to happen or something?
1824
01:06:01,959 --> 01:06:04,517
- No, I'm not waiting
for anything bad to happen.
1825
01:06:04,536 --> 01:06:07,778
I just want to know
that you're really trying
1826
01:06:07,872 --> 01:06:11,424
To figure out if I'm somebody
that you can fall in love with.
1827
01:06:12,861 --> 01:06:15,044
- Okay.
1828
01:06:15,138 --> 01:06:18,698
For her to have that fear
and question my intentions,
1829
01:06:18,717 --> 01:06:20,642
It kind of sucks,
you know what I mean?
1830
01:06:20,869 --> 01:06:23,794
Because I've never
shown her anything
1831
01:06:23,814 --> 01:06:27,965
That is sort of like
a red flag of some sort.
1832
01:06:28,059 --> 01:06:29,892
What's one of your fears?
1833
01:06:30,045 --> 01:06:33,154
- That something happens,
you get scared,
1834
01:06:33,381 --> 01:06:37,808
And you run away
from me or detach from me.
1835
01:06:37,828 --> 01:06:39,995
But I mean,
I also have insecurities
1836
01:06:40,146 --> 01:06:42,889
About, like, being enough.
1837
01:06:42,982 --> 01:06:44,724
I know I'm a lot--
- really?
1838
01:06:44,817 --> 01:06:47,894
- But, like, am I, like,
satisfying as--
1839
01:06:47,912 --> 01:06:49,395
- That's a first.
1840
01:06:49,414 --> 01:06:50,988
- Yeah.
1841
01:06:51,082 --> 01:06:53,341
- But I think you know,
these kind of conversations,
1842
01:06:53,568 --> 01:06:56,419
Like, make us stronger,
and my feelings for you
1843
01:06:56,513 --> 01:06:59,405
Are growing every day.
1844
01:06:59,424 --> 01:07:03,184
I'm falling in love with you,
and it's real.
1845
01:07:03,411 --> 01:07:04,686
- What?
1846
01:07:04,913 --> 01:07:09,024
- Yeah, I mean,
come on, look at us.
1847
01:07:09,175 --> 01:07:12,585
It's pretty simple for me.
1848
01:07:12,678 --> 01:07:17,181
I did this with purpose,
and it is to find love,
1849
01:07:17,275 --> 01:07:20,109
And find a match,
and find a partner.
1850
01:07:20,262 --> 01:07:22,262
And I feel like that's you.
1851
01:07:22,280 --> 01:07:23,596
Like--you okay?
1852
01:07:23,689 --> 01:07:26,449
- My eye just keeps watering.
1853
01:07:26,601 --> 01:07:29,002
I definitely deserve love.
1854
01:07:31,623 --> 01:07:34,031
And so does he.
1855
01:07:34,125 --> 01:07:37,794
But I don't really know
if he knows what he wants.
1856
01:07:37,888 --> 01:07:39,796
And I don't really know
if he knows, like,
1857
01:07:39,948 --> 01:07:41,723
What he has in front of him.
1858
01:07:41,950 --> 01:07:43,892
I come with a lot.
1859
01:07:44,119 --> 01:07:47,562
And I don't know if he knows
the depths of that.
1860
01:07:47,789 --> 01:07:50,123
He says he's not
intimidated by me,
1861
01:07:50,216 --> 01:07:51,974
But I'm really gonna
challenge him.
1862
01:07:52,127 --> 01:07:53,626
So I don't know
if that's going
1863
01:07:53,719 --> 01:07:56,071
To challenge
his ego as well.
1864
01:07:56,298 --> 01:08:02,393
♪ ♪
1865
01:08:02,487 --> 01:08:05,471
[upbeat music]
1866
01:08:05,490 --> 01:08:09,084
♪ ♪
1867
01:08:09,235 --> 01:08:12,087
- Tonight was interesting.
1868
01:08:12,314 --> 01:08:13,737
Mostly fun.
1869
01:08:13,757 --> 01:08:15,256
- I think so.
1870
01:08:15,483 --> 01:08:17,667
Yeah, I had a good time
connecting with everyone.
1871
01:08:17,761 --> 01:08:19,094
- They're ridiculous.
1872
01:08:19,321 --> 01:08:21,337
We just have
to keep focusing on us.
1873
01:08:21,489 --> 01:08:26,659
I mean, I think it's important
to keep talking and being raw.
1874
01:08:26,678 --> 01:08:28,269
- Yeah.
1875
01:08:28,421 --> 01:08:33,608
- Although we may not agree
on everything, me and you,
1876
01:08:33,835 --> 01:08:35,835
We're still, like,
understanding each other
1877
01:08:35,928 --> 01:08:36,686
And supporting each other.
1878
01:08:36,780 --> 01:08:37,854
- Right.
1879
01:08:38,006 --> 01:08:39,280
- And that's all
we can keep doing.
1880
01:08:39,507 --> 01:08:40,931
- Right.
1881
01:08:40,951 --> 01:08:43,267
Yeah, at the end
of the day, I know,
1882
01:08:43,286 --> 01:08:45,528
Like, there's other couples
in this,
1883
01:08:45,622 --> 01:08:46,955
But it's our marriage.
1884
01:08:47,182 --> 01:08:49,365
- I know,
and it's our honeymoon.
1885
01:08:49,459 --> 01:08:54,462
I got married at first sight
to find my person forever,
1886
01:08:54,614 --> 01:08:57,799
So I just gotta keep
figuring that out with miguel,
1887
01:08:58,026 --> 01:08:59,617
And I hope it's him,
I really do.
1888
01:08:59,711 --> 01:09:01,377
But we don't know.
1889
01:09:01,471 --> 01:09:05,365
We'll see how this plays out
in real life,
1890
01:09:05,383 --> 01:09:08,309
And I'm eager to find out
because I still feel
1891
01:09:08,536 --> 01:09:10,311
Really good
about everything, so...
1892
01:09:12,040 --> 01:09:13,723
Okay.
1893
01:09:13,875 --> 01:09:16,818
Are you already passed out?
1894
01:09:17,045 --> 01:09:19,212
We have some weird stains
on our bed.
1895
01:09:19,230 --> 01:09:20,730
What is purple?
1896
01:09:20,824 --> 01:09:23,883
[laughter]
1897
01:09:23,976 --> 01:09:27,069
There's so many
weird stains going on.
1898
01:09:27,164 --> 01:09:29,831
They're gonna charge us.
1899
01:09:30,058 --> 01:09:33,317
I don't know what
it's coming from.
1900
01:09:33,411 --> 01:09:35,578
Oh, maybe it's the rose petals.
1901
01:09:35,672 --> 01:09:37,747
[laughter]
1902
01:09:37,841 --> 01:09:39,916
- Yeah, I don't know.
1903
01:09:40,010 --> 01:09:42,402
- Wow, what a big day.
1904
01:09:42,495 --> 01:09:43,736
I'm excited to get
into the real world.
1905
01:09:43,755 --> 01:09:45,254
- Me too.
1906
01:09:45,348 --> 01:09:47,348
- And just kind of test
what we've been talking about.
1907
01:09:47,575 --> 01:09:49,075
- Right.
1908
01:09:49,168 --> 01:09:49,926
- Because we know
we have a connection.
1909
01:09:50,020 --> 01:09:51,168
- Right.
1910
01:09:51,262 --> 01:09:52,428
- It's just like, how we fit
1911
01:09:52,580 --> 01:09:54,338
Into each other's worlds.
1912
01:09:54,357 --> 01:09:56,357
It's terrifying.
1913
01:09:56,584 --> 01:09:59,194
Because this is the test
we've been wanting.
1914
01:09:59,345 --> 01:10:02,197
- I was just thinking
about the first time I saw you.
1915
01:10:02,424 --> 01:10:06,367
And I wish this version
of myself
1916
01:10:06,594 --> 01:10:08,852
Could have met you
at the altar.
1917
01:10:08,872 --> 01:10:11,097
'cause I could have enjoyed
it a little bit more.
1918
01:10:11,190 --> 01:10:12,598
- Do you feel
like you've grown?
1919
01:10:12,617 --> 01:10:15,768
- Mm-hmm.
1920
01:10:15,787 --> 01:10:17,286
- Thanks for saying that.
1921
01:10:17,380 --> 01:10:23,200
- Knowing who you are now
would add more to, like,
1922
01:10:23,294 --> 01:10:25,795
What was already a special day.
1923
01:10:25,947 --> 01:10:28,965
And I'm very much
looking forward
1924
01:10:29,117 --> 01:10:32,060
To all the other days
to follow.
1925
01:10:32,211 --> 01:10:34,712
- That's so sweet.
1926
01:10:34,731 --> 01:10:38,140
This is a good example of,
like, the depth
1927
01:10:38,235 --> 01:10:40,810
That can come with time.
1928
01:10:40,962 --> 01:10:42,886
How much we've grown,
and gotten closer,
1929
01:10:42,981 --> 01:10:44,888
And connected is, like, insane.
1930
01:10:44,983 --> 01:10:48,225
So if you give me five months,
if you give me five years,
1931
01:10:48,319 --> 01:10:49,969
It's just gonna get better.
1932
01:10:50,062 --> 01:10:53,489
The depth and connection
that we can build
1933
01:10:53,583 --> 01:10:55,399
Is [bleep] incredible.
1934
01:10:55,493 --> 01:10:59,069
So strap in and buckle up
1935
01:10:59,163 --> 01:11:01,664
Because it's coming.
1936
01:11:01,758 --> 01:11:04,092
- All right, good night.
1937
01:11:04,319 --> 01:11:06,219
♪ ♪
1938
01:11:10,100 --> 01:11:11,340
[soft music]
1939
01:11:11,493 --> 01:11:14,510
♪ ♪
1940
01:11:14,662 --> 01:11:17,939
- What a night.
Our last night in paradise.
1941
01:11:18,090 --> 01:11:19,499
I sound pretty tired
at this point.
1942
01:11:19,517 --> 01:11:20,424
- I know, me too.
1943
01:11:20,518 --> 01:11:21,925
It's our last night,
1944
01:11:21,945 --> 01:11:23,427
And who's to say
how our honeymoon
1945
01:11:23,521 --> 01:11:26,022
Should go, you know,
but us.
1946
01:11:26,174 --> 01:11:27,765
- [sighs]
1947
01:11:27,859 --> 01:11:30,118
- Wow, you're so tired.
1948
01:11:30,345 --> 01:11:32,603
No, it was really good.
It was up, it was down.
1949
01:11:32,622 --> 01:11:34,271
But I had fun.
1950
01:11:34,365 --> 01:11:36,124
I learned a lot about us.
1951
01:11:36,351 --> 01:11:38,518
And I'm still happier
being married
1952
01:11:38,611 --> 01:11:40,019
Than being single
in the streets.
1953
01:11:40,112 --> 01:11:42,463
- Absolutely.
Absolutely.
1954
01:11:42,615 --> 01:11:44,524
I know that I'm a lot.
1955
01:11:44,617 --> 01:11:48,285
I've thrown some
intensely mixed signals
1956
01:11:48,379 --> 01:11:50,471
At you literally
on the same day.
1957
01:11:50,623 --> 01:11:53,141
So I think the best thing
you can do
1958
01:11:53,368 --> 01:11:55,626
Is really to try
to thread that needle.
1959
01:11:55,645 --> 01:11:58,721
Don't put so much pressure
on me that you shut me down.
1960
01:11:58,873 --> 01:12:00,373
- Yeah.
1961
01:12:00,391 --> 01:12:03,709
- But, don't just always
give me the free pass either.
1962
01:12:03,803 --> 01:12:06,228
You know what I mean?
Like, you know?
1963
01:12:06,381 --> 01:12:07,488
- Yeah.
1964
01:12:07,640 --> 01:12:08,714
- Yeah,
just continue to be clear,
1965
01:12:08,808 --> 01:12:09,973
But also hold me accountable.
1966
01:12:10,068 --> 01:12:11,492
- Okay.
I can do that.
1967
01:12:11,719 --> 01:12:13,069
- I asked for someone
to challenge me.
1968
01:12:13,221 --> 01:12:15,388
- I also asked for someone
to challenge me,
1969
01:12:15,406 --> 01:12:16,831
But to be honest with you,
1970
01:12:17,058 --> 01:12:21,227
I would like a husband
that wants me.
1971
01:12:21,245 --> 01:12:23,245
♪ ♪
1972
01:12:23,398 --> 01:12:25,581
It's fine that we're
having a rocky start,
1973
01:12:25,733 --> 01:12:27,900
But as long as we continue
to move forward
1974
01:12:27,993 --> 01:12:29,660
In the physical
affection department,
1975
01:12:29,679 --> 01:12:32,071
Which we are every day,
I'm happy.
1976
01:12:32,164 --> 01:12:33,181
And I feel like
that's happening.
1977
01:12:33,332 --> 01:12:36,184
So thank you.
- You're welcome.
1978
01:12:36,411 --> 01:12:38,836
- Brush teeth,
get ready for bed, cuddle.
1979
01:12:38,930 --> 01:12:39,854
That's where I'm at.
1980
01:12:40,005 --> 01:12:41,338
- Absolutely.
- Okay.
1981
01:12:41,358 --> 01:12:44,083
- ♪ you live
to feel the love ♪
1982
01:12:44,176 --> 01:12:47,420
♪ that won't ever change ♪
1983
01:12:47,438 --> 01:12:49,939
♪ ♪
1984
01:12:50,033 --> 01:12:51,682
[upbeat music]
1985
01:12:51,701 --> 01:12:54,927
- ♪ we made it ♪
1986
01:12:55,020 --> 01:12:57,113
♪ everything
we needed tonight ♪
1987
01:12:57,265 --> 01:13:00,282
♪ ♪
1988
01:13:00,377 --> 01:13:02,101
- Why do you have it out
for morgan in particular,
1989
01:13:02,120 --> 01:13:03,211
Is my question?
1990
01:13:03,362 --> 01:13:04,787
- I don't have it
out for morgan.
1991
01:13:04,881 --> 01:13:07,106
I just don't like the fact
that like, I know binh,
1992
01:13:07,125 --> 01:13:09,959
You know what I'm saying?
Binh reminds me a lot of me.
1993
01:13:10,053 --> 01:13:14,705
I can see in his face that,
like, something's off.
1994
01:13:14,799 --> 01:13:16,115
I can immediately see it.
1995
01:13:16,134 --> 01:13:18,375
And so when we were
at the dinner table
1996
01:13:18,395 --> 01:13:20,895
And his wife was saying,
oh this, that, and the other,
1997
01:13:21,046 --> 01:13:23,898
Compared to what he told me,
I feel like she's being fake.
1998
01:13:24,125 --> 01:13:25,975
- I know you feel
so much about binh.
1999
01:13:26,069 --> 01:13:28,461
And I know you're, like,
invested into your friendship,
2000
01:13:28,479 --> 01:13:30,796
But my concern is with you.
2001
01:13:30,815 --> 01:13:34,316
You always thinking you have
to save somebody, baby.
2002
01:13:34,469 --> 01:13:36,636
And it's like,
I've been in that spot, baby.
2003
01:13:36,654 --> 01:13:38,913
But I'm your wife, you know?
2004
01:13:39,140 --> 01:13:41,140
And it's just like,
I love that you care
2005
01:13:41,233 --> 01:13:43,159
So much about everybody else.
2006
01:13:43,311 --> 01:13:45,420
But he looked so uncomfortable.
2007
01:13:47,815 --> 01:13:50,666
And it's not your job
to be his voice.
2008
01:13:50,818 --> 01:13:52,260
It's not.
2009
01:13:54,505 --> 01:13:57,323
I know it's tough for you.
I know it's so tough for you.
2010
01:13:57,341 --> 01:13:59,249
But you can't do that, baby.
2011
01:13:59,269 --> 01:14:01,010
Okay?
2012
01:14:01,104 --> 01:14:04,497
[soft music]
2013
01:14:04,515 --> 01:14:06,999
- I feel bad 'cause, like--
2014
01:14:07,092 --> 01:14:10,186
Our experience is so perfect.
2015
01:14:10,338 --> 01:14:15,098
♪ ♪
2016
01:14:15,193 --> 01:14:19,436
What I'm trying to say is,
like, I know he's his own man,
2017
01:14:19,530 --> 01:14:21,514
You know what I'm saying?
2018
01:14:21,607 --> 01:14:23,958
But like,
out of all the grooms in this,
2019
01:14:24,185 --> 01:14:26,352
He wanted this [bleep]
as bad as I did,
2020
01:14:26,370 --> 01:14:27,962
And we talked about that.
2021
01:14:28,189 --> 01:14:30,873
So like,
for him to get the opposite--
2022
01:14:31,025 --> 01:14:33,359
He wasn't necessarily cheated,
but he was.
2023
01:14:33,377 --> 01:14:35,136
Not by the expert, by her.
2024
01:14:35,287 --> 01:14:36,471
Because she wasn't
being authentic,
2025
01:14:36,622 --> 01:14:38,121
She wasn't being real.
2026
01:14:38,216 --> 01:14:39,456
And so like, to see my friend--
2027
01:14:39,550 --> 01:14:40,716
- I know.
- Hurt.
2028
01:14:40,868 --> 01:14:41,959
- I know.
2029
01:14:41,978 --> 01:14:43,219
- You know what
I'm saying, like--
2030
01:14:43,371 --> 01:14:44,645
It breaks my heart,
and I feel like I got
2031
01:14:44,872 --> 01:14:46,630
To step up and back him up,
but I--
2032
01:14:46,649 --> 01:14:48,966
- Baby, you can't stop
people from hurting
2033
01:14:49,060 --> 01:14:50,985
By hurting for them.
2034
01:14:51,136 --> 01:14:54,063
You can't do that.
- You're right.
2035
01:14:54,215 --> 01:14:57,140
- And I know it's hard
for you to be selfish,
2036
01:14:57,160 --> 01:14:59,660
Because you are so selfless,
but, babe,
2037
01:14:59,887 --> 01:15:03,239
You hurting for him
is not adding any value.
2038
01:15:03,391 --> 01:15:05,333
It's not.
2039
01:15:05,484 --> 01:15:06,742
- Yeah, you're right.
2040
01:15:06,836 --> 01:15:08,244
I'm sorry.
2041
01:15:08,396 --> 01:15:09,670
- No, no.
2042
01:15:15,737 --> 01:15:17,995
♪ ♪
2043
01:15:18,089 --> 01:15:19,755
You so worried about bihn,
2044
01:15:19,907 --> 01:15:23,184
You're gonna go join them
in their marriage...
2045
01:15:26,080 --> 01:15:27,504
- Oh, I did.
2046
01:15:27,524 --> 01:15:29,749
[bleep], me and stacia
caught that [bleep].
2047
01:15:29,767 --> 01:15:31,692
You just wouldn't repeat it.
2048
01:15:31,919 --> 01:15:33,361
Say it again.
I dare you to say it.
2049
01:15:37,258 --> 01:15:39,158
- Mm-hmm.
You gonna soften up.
2050
01:15:40,611 --> 01:15:41,761
- Huh?
- I love you.
2051
01:15:41,854 --> 01:15:42,928
- Say that one more time?
- I do.
2052
01:15:43,022 --> 01:15:44,613
- You what?
- You all right now.
2053
01:15:44,707 --> 01:15:47,190
You pushing it now, like--
get off me, you are pushing it.
2054
01:15:47,285 --> 01:15:50,119
- Hold up, hold up, hold up.
Say it one more time, baby?
2055
01:15:50,271 --> 01:15:53,122
I...
2056
01:15:53,274 --> 01:15:55,291
- Think you a soft-ass [bleep].
2057
01:15:55,385 --> 01:15:56,776
[laughing]
2058
01:15:56,794 --> 01:15:58,294
- Hold up, I want to hear--
2059
01:15:58,388 --> 01:16:02,539
- I think you are soft
and you cry way too much,
2060
01:16:02,633 --> 01:16:05,560
You cocomelon face ass.
2061
01:16:05,787 --> 01:16:09,638
- You talking all that [bleep].
What'd you say?
2062
01:16:09,791 --> 01:16:11,957
- I do love you.
- You love me?
2063
01:16:11,976 --> 01:16:14,643
- Justin tyrrell tree hall.
2064
01:16:14,796 --> 01:16:17,554
♪ ♪
2065
01:16:17,574 --> 01:16:19,148
Now get out my face, hon.
Get ready for bed.
2066
01:16:19,242 --> 01:16:21,909
- Got me showing all 32 teeth,
you can tell...
2067
01:16:22,061 --> 01:16:23,969
[bleep].
Shh, I can go to sleep now.
2068
01:16:24,063 --> 01:16:26,322
She even told me she loved me.
2069
01:16:26,474 --> 01:16:28,065
- You so corny.
I take it back.
2070
01:16:28,159 --> 01:16:30,142
I rescind all love.
2071
01:16:30,235 --> 01:16:32,328
- You love all of this, babe.
2072
01:16:32,480 --> 01:16:35,906
- Ooh, [bleep], she even
told me love me, ooh.
2073
01:16:36,000 --> 01:16:37,483
Look, watch this, babe.
2074
01:16:37,501 --> 01:16:39,552
[upbeat music]
2075
01:16:44,249 --> 01:16:46,175
- Ooh, I can do
the chris brown.
2076
01:16:46,269 --> 01:16:47,602
- You get one a year.
2077
01:16:47,829 --> 01:16:49,495
You better--you should
have recorded it
2078
01:16:49,513 --> 01:16:50,253
While you had the chance because
I'm not fitt'n nuh to say it.
2079
01:16:50,273 --> 01:16:53,165
- One is enough.
2080
01:16:53,258 --> 01:16:55,000
My wife told me she loves me.
2081
01:16:55,019 --> 01:16:58,279
- ♪ you can say
what you want every day ♪
2082
01:16:58,506 --> 01:17:00,114
♪ is money, money,
money, money ♪
2083
01:17:00,265 --> 01:17:01,240
- Oh, my god.
2084
01:17:05,121 --> 01:17:06,362
[upbeat music]
2085
01:17:06,514 --> 01:17:13,294
♪ ♪
2086
01:17:16,524 --> 01:17:18,615
- Thank you.
2087
01:17:18,709 --> 01:17:21,026
- It's good vanilla latte?
2088
01:17:21,120 --> 01:17:22,803
- No.
- Three shots of espresso.
2089
01:17:22,955 --> 01:17:24,213
- That's why I'm ready
to go home,
2090
01:17:24,307 --> 01:17:27,366
So I can use my espresso
machine and make my lattes.
2091
01:17:27,459 --> 01:17:28,384
- How do you think
the honeymoon went?
2092
01:17:28,536 --> 01:17:29,477
- I think it went well.
2093
01:17:29,628 --> 01:17:30,886
- We had
some serious conversations.
2094
01:17:30,980 --> 01:17:32,647
- Oh, yeah, we had to.
2095
01:17:32,874 --> 01:17:35,040
It had to come out,
and it was challenging.
2096
01:17:35,134 --> 01:17:37,818
And, like, it needed to happen.
- Yep.
2097
01:17:38,045 --> 01:17:40,896
- We came into this process
head on, both of us.
2098
01:17:40,990 --> 01:17:43,640
And so it's only natural
that we handled it that way
2099
01:17:43,734 --> 01:17:45,718
Because that's just who we are.
2100
01:17:45,736 --> 01:17:47,887
It sucks that it happened
on our honeymoon,
2101
01:17:47,905 --> 01:17:49,664
But I'm glad
it happened regardless.
2102
01:17:49,891 --> 01:17:53,559
I feel like we can, like,
move past it and, like,
2103
01:17:53,652 --> 01:17:55,744
Make something out of it,
you know?
2104
01:17:55,897 --> 01:17:58,488
- Morgan has taught me a lot,
and sometimes,
2105
01:17:58,508 --> 01:18:00,566
I can be judgmental
of some circumstances.
2106
01:18:00,584 --> 01:18:03,085
And I need to be more open
in this process,
2107
01:18:03,179 --> 01:18:05,179
Just in life in general.
2108
01:18:05,406 --> 01:18:06,405
I think
there's a lot of things
2109
01:18:06,498 --> 01:18:07,740
That we have to talk,
and discuss,
2110
01:18:07,833 --> 01:18:09,408
And see how it happens
in the real world
2111
01:18:09,427 --> 01:18:10,910
'cause right now
we're on a honeymoon.
2112
01:18:10,928 --> 01:18:12,594
- Just--it's gonna
be a slow process,
2113
01:18:12,747 --> 01:18:14,930
Like, build back up.
2114
01:18:15,024 --> 01:18:17,082
But I think we can--
I think we can do it.
2115
01:18:17,101 --> 01:18:18,267
I think we can handle it.
2116
01:18:18,361 --> 01:18:19,860
- We're strong people.
2117
01:18:20,087 --> 01:18:22,196
- We're very strong people,
both of us.
2118
01:18:22,423 --> 01:18:25,348
And that's why I think
I'm sticking around
2119
01:18:25,368 --> 01:18:27,109
Because I know
that you do care,
2120
01:18:27,261 --> 01:18:29,611
And we both care very deeply
for each other.
2121
01:18:29,764 --> 01:18:32,707
So this honeymoon was more
than just a honeymoon for us.
2122
01:18:32,934 --> 01:18:34,041
- Yeah.
2123
01:18:34,193 --> 01:18:36,618
I can't reiterate how
many times I apologize,
2124
01:18:36,771 --> 01:18:38,787
But it's my actions
that will do the talking.
2125
01:18:38,940 --> 01:18:40,122
- Yeah.
2126
01:18:40,274 --> 01:18:42,441
- All I can say is,
I'm sorry, and move on,
2127
01:18:42,534 --> 01:18:44,460
And try to earn
your trust back.
2128
01:18:44,612 --> 01:18:45,961
- Yeah.
2129
01:18:46,113 --> 01:18:50,449
♪ ♪
2130
01:18:50,542 --> 01:18:55,304
- So we're [bleep]
moving in together.
2131
01:18:55,398 --> 01:18:57,898
- I can't wait.
I'm looking forward to it.
2132
01:18:58,125 --> 01:18:59,049
- Yeah.
2133
01:18:59,143 --> 01:19:01,402
- Last day in puerto vallarta.
2134
01:19:01,553 --> 01:19:03,963
Pretty sad that it's over.
2135
01:19:03,981 --> 01:19:06,482
But also really happy
that in a sense,
2136
01:19:06,634 --> 01:19:08,909
Another adventure begins.
2137
01:19:09,136 --> 01:19:11,153
If you will, like,
the adventure begins.
2138
01:19:11,247 --> 01:19:15,899
- So do you have any, like,
concerns right off the bat
2139
01:19:15,918 --> 01:19:17,251
About moving in?
2140
01:19:17,402 --> 01:19:18,753
Like, anything you need
to tell me
2141
01:19:18,904 --> 01:19:20,162
Or you know
about yourself, or...
2142
01:19:20,314 --> 01:19:22,314
- Nope.
2143
01:19:22,333 --> 01:19:24,925
- So one of my concerns
is actually
2144
01:19:25,077 --> 01:19:29,430
If you're gonna resent me
when I'm not working.
2145
01:19:29,581 --> 01:19:30,931
Because I have
that flexibility,
2146
01:19:31,083 --> 01:19:33,342
I've fought
for that flexibility.
2147
01:19:33,494 --> 01:19:37,162
And it's really important
to me to just, like,
2148
01:19:37,256 --> 01:19:39,440
Do whatever I want
to do on those days
2149
01:19:39,591 --> 01:19:42,109
And not feel judged
or controlled
2150
01:19:42,336 --> 01:19:44,945
In any way, shape, or form
for, like, what I do.
2151
01:19:45,172 --> 01:19:47,114
Like, if I spend money,
if I don't spend money.
2152
01:19:47,341 --> 01:19:49,358
You've got to be gentle
with how I choose
2153
01:19:49,452 --> 01:19:50,951
To spend my free time.
2154
01:19:51,178 --> 01:19:53,120
If I go to the beach,
if I lay in bed all day,
2155
01:19:53,272 --> 01:19:54,863
I drive down to mexico
for the day.
2156
01:19:55,016 --> 01:19:56,773
Like, maybe I'm
with my girls that night.
2157
01:19:56,867 --> 01:19:59,018
Is it going to bother you,
2158
01:19:59,111 --> 01:20:00,443
Or are you
gonna be happy for me?
2159
01:20:00,463 --> 01:20:02,688
I am bringing this
as a concern
2160
01:20:02,706 --> 01:20:03,872
Because I just would hate--
2161
01:20:03,966 --> 01:20:06,634
- You worry too much.
2162
01:20:06,861 --> 01:20:10,120
Let's not get too far
ahead of ourselves
2163
01:20:10,139 --> 01:20:11,621
Creating all these,
you know--
2164
01:20:11,715 --> 01:20:14,033
- Hypothetical issues
when they might not be at all.
2165
01:20:14,051 --> 01:20:15,217
- Exactly.
- That's true.
2166
01:20:15,311 --> 01:20:16,552
- And then we're already
kind of like setting up
2167
01:20:16,704 --> 01:20:19,204
A tone or a narrative
that doesn't even exist.
2168
01:20:19,298 --> 01:20:21,965
Now I feel perfectly
fine with lindy.
2169
01:20:21,984 --> 01:20:23,876
She's my wife.
I don't want that to change.
2170
01:20:23,969 --> 01:20:25,894
But we still haven't
lived together.
2171
01:20:26,047 --> 01:20:27,896
We haven't had
our day-to-days together.
2172
01:20:28,049 --> 01:20:29,731
We don't know how
we fight together.
2173
01:20:29,884 --> 01:20:31,567
I'd be full of [bleep]
if I was to tell you,
2174
01:20:31,719 --> 01:20:32,718
Oh, yeah, I already know.
2175
01:20:32,736 --> 01:20:34,328
No, I don't know, right?
2176
01:20:34,555 --> 01:20:35,478
And that's the way
things are structured.
2177
01:20:35,573 --> 01:20:37,056
Like, we shall see.
2178
01:20:37,149 --> 01:20:38,999
- I'm just communicating
with you, like,
2179
01:20:39,226 --> 01:20:41,894
A potential trigger
for me is if you come at me.
2180
01:20:41,912 --> 01:20:45,080
So don't 'cause I will...
2181
01:20:45,232 --> 01:20:50,845
♪ ♪
2182
01:20:52,331 --> 01:20:54,831
- So last night was fun.
- Yeah.
2183
01:20:54,851 --> 01:20:57,426
- I enjoyed our alone time
when we got back up here.
2184
01:20:57,578 --> 01:20:59,002
- Me too.
2185
01:20:59,021 --> 01:21:01,856
- That might have been
the first full night
2186
01:21:02,083 --> 01:21:06,009
Where I feel like we were
really cuddling
2187
01:21:06,103 --> 01:21:07,695
Almost all night
and all morning,
2188
01:21:07,846 --> 01:21:08,845
And it made me
really happy, so...
2189
01:21:08,939 --> 01:21:10,272
- Yeah, me too.
2190
01:21:10,424 --> 01:21:12,849
You know, we had a moment
last night, but--
2191
01:21:12,869 --> 01:21:14,276
- We had a moment.
2192
01:21:14,428 --> 01:21:15,611
- We're still
showing restraint.
2193
01:21:15,763 --> 01:21:17,279
We want to make sure
that we're moving--
2194
01:21:17,431 --> 01:21:18,430
- Yeah.
2195
01:21:18,523 --> 01:21:19,206
- Slow and steady
wins the race.
2196
01:21:19,358 --> 01:21:20,523
- Exactly.
2197
01:21:20,543 --> 01:21:22,025
- Slow and steady
wins the race.
2198
01:21:22,044 --> 01:21:25,270
- It would have been very
easy and natural to continue,
2199
01:21:25,289 --> 01:21:27,272
But I just want to make sure
2200
01:21:27,291 --> 01:21:29,274
That we keep going the route
we're going.
2201
01:21:29,368 --> 01:21:30,125
- That's all.
- Yeah.
2202
01:21:30,277 --> 01:21:31,443
- Yeah.
2203
01:21:31,462 --> 01:21:32,386
- Just so you know,
I was feeling it.
2204
01:21:32,537 --> 01:21:34,555
- Me too.
Oh, yeah, me too, yep.
2205
01:21:34,782 --> 01:21:36,891
♪ ♪
2206
01:21:37,118 --> 01:21:38,392
- I'm in such
a different place.
2207
01:21:38,543 --> 01:21:41,711
I mean, it's amazing what
a few days in paradise
2208
01:21:41,805 --> 01:21:43,305
With a great girl can do.
2209
01:21:43,457 --> 01:21:45,715
And I'm looking forward
to getting home
2210
01:21:45,809 --> 01:21:48,885
And really just getting
into a true everyday rhythm
2211
01:21:48,905 --> 01:21:50,462
With my wife.
2212
01:21:50,481 --> 01:21:53,982
- This was a wild ride.
2213
01:21:54,076 --> 01:21:55,409
Sorry.
2214
01:21:55,636 --> 01:21:58,320
In a really good way.
I was certainly not bored.
2215
01:21:58,472 --> 01:22:00,247
You kept me on my toes.
2216
01:22:00,474 --> 01:22:02,658
I don't know what each day
kind of brings,
2217
01:22:02,810 --> 01:22:05,068
But I do it's getting
better and better,
2218
01:22:05,087 --> 01:22:07,829
And I have a lot
of hope for us.
2219
01:22:07,982 --> 01:22:10,907
And I feel really good.
- Me too.
2220
01:22:10,927 --> 01:22:12,167
I don't think there's ever
gonna be a dull moment.
2221
01:22:12,319 --> 01:22:13,410
- No.
- Not with us.
2222
01:22:13,429 --> 01:22:15,003
Not with you,
like, nope.
2223
01:22:15,156 --> 01:22:20,750
♪ ♪
2224
01:22:20,844 --> 01:22:22,828
- All right, bye, paradise.
2225
01:22:22,846 --> 01:22:24,997
- ♪ summer's gone ♪
2226
01:22:25,015 --> 01:22:26,106
- There we go.
Oh, god.
2227
01:22:26,333 --> 01:22:27,757
It's, like,
almost heavier than me.
2228
01:22:27,851 --> 01:22:29,926
- Back to the real world we go.
2229
01:22:29,946 --> 01:22:32,187
- I'm barefoot.
[laughter]
2230
01:22:32,339 --> 01:22:34,523
- Back to san diego.
2231
01:22:34,675 --> 01:22:38,694
- ♪ we're gonna live
until forever ♪
2232
01:22:38,846 --> 01:22:42,347
♪ ♪
2233
01:22:42,441 --> 01:22:44,291
- ♪ one day you'll see ♪
2234
01:22:44,518 --> 01:22:46,868
- Next time on
"married at first sight."
2235
01:22:46,963 --> 01:22:49,964
- Oh, my god, look--
what the [bleep] is--
2236
01:22:50,191 --> 01:22:51,857
- This will be
our first compromise,
2237
01:22:51,950 --> 01:22:53,450
I'll do my laundry
before 4:00 p.M.
2238
01:22:53,544 --> 01:22:55,135
- That's love.
[laughter]
2239
01:22:55,287 --> 01:22:58,305
- One free bubble bath
with wifey.
2240
01:22:58,532 --> 01:23:00,474
- I already know I'm gonna
fall in love with him,
2241
01:23:00,625 --> 01:23:03,310
And your girl is ready
to take things home,
2242
01:23:03,537 --> 01:23:05,053
If you will.
2243
01:23:05,147 --> 01:23:07,314
- Hey, mr. Newton.
Wanna say hello to miss mya?
2244
01:23:07,466 --> 01:23:07,982
[dogs yelping]
2245
01:23:08,209 --> 01:23:09,558
- No!
2246
01:23:09,710 --> 01:23:10,800
- I can't talk about feelings
if I don't
2247
01:23:10,894 --> 01:23:12,394
Have feelings for somebody.
2248
01:23:12,546 --> 01:23:15,656
It's just--it is what it is.
2249
01:23:15,807 --> 01:23:17,807
- Decision day is
a trigger word for me.
2250
01:23:17,827 --> 01:23:21,220
- I want to be very realistic.
2251
01:23:21,313 --> 01:23:23,831
- When trust is broken,
out, gone.
2252
01:23:24,058 --> 01:23:26,575
- What happened to you
to stop letting people in?
2253
01:23:26,727 --> 01:23:28,393
- Don't make me cry.
2254
01:23:28,487 --> 01:23:32,339
- His eye, baby, it's bleeding.
Cut him.
2255
01:23:32,566 --> 01:23:34,824
I'm not gonna stay
where I don't feel safe.
2256
01:23:34,844 --> 01:23:36,659
So I will not be with justin.
2257
01:23:36,754 --> 01:23:39,588
[dramatic music]
2258
01:23:39,740 --> 01:23:44,101
♪ ♪