[dramatic music]
- Oh, my god, I'm so happy to finally meet you.
- Me too.
- Ten singles put their trust
In the experts to find love.
They married as complete strangers.
♪ ♪
- Yes! - Cheers!
- Last time, they continued
Their honeymoons in mexico.
[upbeat music]
- I know I want to spend the rest of my life with you.
- How do you know?
You know, my mom said it-- - 'cause I love you.
Does it scare you?
- It scares me because it's unfamiliar,
But I shouldn't be afraid of something like this.
- ♪ you take the risk, no hiding ♪
- Oh! - [laughing]
- Cupcakes? - Happy birthday!
- Damn.
I turned 30. I got a wife.
- [laughs] - breakfast in bed.
- And we're about to go on a honeymoon too.
- Yeah, I can't lose right now.
- No. [laughter]
- When we do consummate the marriage,
It is a really big deal to me.
- I do want to express myself affectionately using sex.
For me, it is, you know, like,
The signature on the dotted line.
- ♪ lick it, lick it till you hit ♪
♪ the center like a tootsie pop ♪
- So what about, like, kids?
- You tell me. Like, what is your timeline?
- In a year.
- My ideal was like two to three years, give or take.
- Okay.
- But it has to be with the right person.
You're definitely--
- What do you mean, the right person?
We're married.
- I definitely would be comfortable advancing
In the physical sexual department.
- It's just not quite there for me right now.
- One second, we're having dinner,
And he's not attracted to me.
The next second, we're eating chocolate-covered strawberries
With champagne and tequila.
If we do get to decision day,
And I don't have sex from you
Or an "I love you" from you,
I will ask for a divorce.
[dramatic music]
- ♪ yes, I'm gonna save the world ♪
All: Arriba.
- Tonight, our couples spend the final days
Of their honeymoon together
Before returning to the real world.
- We've been with our wives for a while,
And we gon' find out who [bleep] first.
- [snorts]
- He pounced on me like a tiger.
- What? - What?
- Pounced.
- Is this just a two-month experiment for you?
- I don't know.
- He's like, "I don't know. I'm giving you eight weeks."
- Quiet, no, those were not-- - that feels like [bleep].
- The thing that I wanted private isn't.
- I'm sorry.
- That broke my trust because I trusted you.
- Let's not get too far ahead of ourselves.
I'd be full of [bleep] if I was to tell you,
"oh, yeah, I already know."
- I don't know what the hell's happened.
- I come with a lot, and I don't know
If he knows the depths of that.
[dramatic music]
- ♪ it's all or nothing ♪
- This is "married at first sight."
- ♪ there's no other way ♪
♪ it's all or nothing ♪
[serene music]
♪ ♪
- We are just waking up after--
- Morning! - No.
You is way too lit right now in the morning time.
I still have, like, eye boogers and [bleep] in my eyes.
I'm so tired.
- I just like waking up next to you.
- Oh, my gosh. - That's it.
- I like waking up next to you too, but damn.
- It's another day in paradise.
- Buenos días.
- Oh, buenos días. Cómo éstas?
- Bien, y tú? - Muy bien.
I slept so good last night. - Nice.
- Most of our couples are now on day five of their marriage.
- I'm going out with the wives.
- I'm going out with the fellas.
- And we're gonna go have brunch
While they tequila taste, so I feel gypped!
And then what am I gonna do with you
Once you come back all drunk and stuff?
- I won't come back drunk. I promise you I'm not.
- You can. - I can.
- Mm-hmm. - I get to come back drunk.
[laughter]
- And while all of our newlyweds
Are learning about each other,
One pair still has some catching up to do.
- Do I snore in my sleep?
- No, you don't snore in your sleep.
You're a quiet sleeper.
I don't even think you move when you sleep.
- I feel like I do.
- I feel like I toss and turn, but, like,
I don't feel like you move that much.
- But we hope that all these couples use the final days
Of their honeymoon to further understand
The stranger they married
Because in just over seven weeks,
These couples will have to make one
Of the most significant decisions of their lives.
They'll have to decide whether they want to stay married
Or get a divorce.
- ♪ I'm so fresh, I'm so clean ♪
♪ pull up on them with a gangsta lean ♪
♪ I'm so fly, I'm so sick ♪
♪ when I walk in the room... ♪
- Look at how pretty this is! - Oh, my god, I love this.
- That's what we needed! - Oh, my god!
- I guess we're gonna have some drinks.
- Hello, good morning. Buenos días.
- Good morning. - Buenos días.
- To girl's day! - Girl's day.
- Girls' day, finally. - Cheers!
- You know the guys are doing tequila tasting right now.
- I'm just a little jealous. - I was so jealous.
- Yeah, that's what I said!
- I want to be on tequila time.
- Yes! - Me too!
- Arriba! All: Arriba!
- Abajo! All: Abajo!
- Al centro! All: Al centro!
- Say, coochie-coochie! All: Coochie-coochie!
- Pa dentro. All the way, let's go.
[laughs]
[upbeat music]
♪ ♪
- Hey. All: Pa dentro.
- Honestly, I threw that tequila shot
'cause I ain't gonna [bleep], you know what I'm saying?
I'ma be lit.
♪ ♪
- I mean, I, like, want to start off with I am impressed,
Like, by all four of you ladies.
And just because maybe my journey
Is going a little different,
I do not want to take light away from yours.
I was hoping to hear a couple-- about how things are going
For y'all before I popped off.
- We're gonna spill some tea.
We're going to spill some tea, you know what I mean?
We've been with our wives for a while.
We've been connecting. - Yeah.
- And we gon' find out who [bleep] first.
- [snorts] - period!
Let's start off with you. Spill the tea, bro.
- Honestly, man, ain't no tea to spill, bro.
- Okay. - You know?
We've just been kissing and touching a lot.
You know what I'm saying? Intimate, we cuddle a lot.
And I think right now, it's just--
We're still getting comfortable with each other.
- Okay.
- I think we're at the point right now
Where we're walking around the place naked.
So that's a start. - Okay.
That's definitely progress. - A good start, yeah.
- She really respects my celibacy, like, deadass.
She's like, "baby, like,
Whenever you're comfortable," you know what I'm saying?
- Okay, question, though.
You said you love her. - I do.
- You do, yeah. - I do.
- Okay. - So do you feel comfortable?
Because I mean, you actually love her.
So that's your question, right?
Like, you feel comfortable. You said the l-word.
- Right. - Like, what's up, bro?
- Right, like, what more?
- The approach that I'm taking, like,
When it happens, it's gonna be,
Like, we just feeling it.
And one thing's gonna lead to another.
I would much rather it happen like that
'cause it's more authentic than it being forced.
- So justin, he's celibate.
You know, no sex between the both of them.
And I think it's because he gets [bleep] whipped.
I don't think he wants to get excited.
And so maybe that's his way of going slow.
So I think once they do actually have sex,
[chuckles]
- The only spe--I mean, tea I really got to spill
Is that she recognized that I'm sensitive,
But what I like--that doesn't bother her
Because, you know, she shared last night.
She's like, "baby, you sensitive,
But you can hold your own."
- Right, right, right.
- "you'll tell somebody off if need be,
"or, you know what I'm saying, you can put your foot down
On x, y, and z."
So I think that's a huge step
Because some women don't like sensitive men.
- Yeah, that's true.
- Like, me crying at my wedding, like,
They wouldn't like that, but it's being embraced,
So I think that's a big step, you know what I'm saying?
- It's hard.
My husband is sensitive,
And, like, I joke about it a lot being hard,
But it's genuinely hard for me.
The experts giving me someone
Who is completely opposite than me,
Which is good for me
Because I need to grow in that way.
Every day, I have to work to consider his feelings.
And he considers me in everything he does.
Every single thing he does.
And sometimes, I feel guilty because it's just like,
That's not how I'm naturally wired to do,
But I have to force myself to think like that
Because he's like, "I'm in love with you."
Like, he says it all the time.
- He already says it! So sweet.
- And I'm just like, you know, say it with your chest.
You know, like, I'm just really...
Like, morgan, I feel like we're just in that way.
- Well, our husbands are very similar in that way.
They're both very sensitive and very aware of, like,
What they say and how they speak.
- Do you think the experts did a good job?
- Yeah, I think so, yeah.
- What about like, are you guys getting along
On a personality level?
- Yeah, like, on a personality level,
But, like, we haven't gone in-depth, just cuddling.
I'm big spoon for sure, you know what I mean?
- So there is some initial physical intimacy, though.
- Yeah, but her friends told me she's a certified freak.
- I'm dead.
- You can get nasty. - [laughs]
She may get nasty? Dang.
- Are you excited about that?
- I got to work on my hip thrust.
[laughter]
- We're here, but we're not, like, here.
Like, in our face. - Yeah, yeah, yeah.
- But, like, behind closed doors,
He's like, been like topping me a lot
And, like, touching and everything.
And so this morning-- - she said "everything."
- And, like, this morning, I was like,
"no, like, we need to stop,
Or else we're gonna be late," kind of a thing.
So I feel like a little bit more time--
- Is there--yeah, you guys have just been in a rush.
- And we're just-- - there's time to do a quickie.
- Yeah, no, because he's like, "we got ten minutes," right.
I'm like, you don't need ten minutes!
Like, we're gonna be longer than that, stop that.
I'm--no, no, no, no. - Not for the first time.
- No, I was like, no, ten minutes is not good.
So we're--yes, it--I don't know.
It'll happen tonight. - It's there.
- Yep, definitely. - [laughter]
- Definitely. - Maybe.
Maybe, because he is hot. Like, his body, mm-mm.
- Yeah, he's a cutie. - Oh, my [bleep] god.
[upbeat music]
- [giggles] - dear lord, like, stop.
- He works out, for sure. - You've gotta be kidding me.
Like, you know, he sleeps in his underwear.
I'm like, [bleep], boy!
Like, you can't do this to me! Oh, my god.
Okay, anyways, anyways, I got to stop.
I gotta stop talking about my husband like that.
- She's getting worked up. - I am getting worked up.
- Are you guys building intimacy as well?
- Um, things are progressing
In different ways, and...
- What does that mean? - Lindy!
- We're all just like, what?
- What are you saying? - What are you guys hiding?
- Say it, lindy! - What is it?
- We're doing what married couples do.
- [squealing] - okay, okay!
- Oh, wow! - On their honeymoon!
- Oh! - Okay!
- We knew it, I knew it! - Tell us, tell us!
Okay, like-- - you filthy woman, I knew it!
- I know.
- I never would've guessed you would have been the person.
I never would've guessed. - I never--
- No, never! - Never!
- Especially, I was like--going into this,
I was like, I'm gonna be, like, this, that, and--
Like, you can't have those expectations...
- Yes. - Because you don't know.
But, like, it just was--
It was natural, it was, you know,
There was no pressure.
It just--it was really nice.
So I feel good about that.
I'm hoping he's saying the same thing right now to the guys.
- Yeah. - So yeah.
- Just a nice progression in our relationship.
- Oh, my gosh.
- Yesterday, we made love, yeah.
- Oh! - Wait.
- You made love? - You broke her back?
- It was very--it was more passionate than I thought
It was gonna be because that first time
With a new partner, right, you don't know.
- You don't know.
- So there's always that worry, like,
You're very much in the moment.
You're aroused.
[soft music]
But, yeah, everything-- it was perfect.
I mean, I will say I felt--
I kind of felt one with the universe.
I felt holy, if you will.
I felt, like, empowered by a divine being.
I don't know, it felt--it was nice.
It was--no, it was very special.
- All right, nate. - He been happy over here.
Spill the tea, brother.
- I mean, everything's good.
You can kind of tell that we're vibing all the time.
And even though I'm, like, very extroverted,
I'm very comfortable,
You know, no lovemaking, you know, no sex.
- Wait. - What?
- Yeah, I mean, we--I want to respect my wife.
- I feel that. - Yeah.
- And, you know, as guys,
We've all tried to get it in, like, earlier than later,
Sooner than later, and that messes things up.
- It does. - It makes things complicated.
- Why does it make things complicated?
That's what I don't understand because, like, to me,
There's nothing more natural than, like,
Feeling attracted to someone,
Especially in this case, lindy, my wife.
- Sure, sure.
- Being attracted to her
And wanting to express that affection.
- So my opinion on that is when men--
Or any couple gets together, right, physically,
Early on in the stage,
You're--we're lacking that understanding of each other.
- Yep.
- We're lacking, you know, if we have the same vision.
We're lacking, you know, if we have the same goals.
We're lacking--if we have the same lifestyle, right?
- Yeah.
- And so, you know, I'm in this for a reason.
I have a purpose, and I want a wife,
And I want to have a long-term relationship.
- I--yo, no, I don't know. I'm not buying it.
- That's what I'm talking about.
Come on, get comfy, baby.
- [laughs] - get comfy.
[upbeat music]
- Like, I think nate is having sex.
He's just not talking about it.
- Me and nate took a bath together.
- Ooh. - That was--that was nice.
- Conserving water. - [laughter]
- I mean, yeah, you know, shout out, mitch.
[laughter]
- He's happy, yeah. - He always says that.
- Love that. - Yes, yes.
Find other intimate ways-- - yeah.
- Rather than just sex.
- Yes. - Mm-hmm.
- I want that to be, like, the last--
- Yes. - Yeah.
- I love that. - Build up to it, yeah.
- Cute. - I love that.
- So how long are you gonna keep us waiting, krysten?
- Okay, I'm ready. - Yeah, I know!
- I'm ready, I'm ready. - I want the tea!
- Overall, it's going. I wouldn't say extremely well.
But in order for this to work,
We're all gonna have to still be on team mitch.
- Yes, yes. - You know?
- That's the hard part-- - and it's hard.
- Is, like, listening,
But supporting and not demonizing.
- Exactly. - You can't do that.
With each other and about our husbands.
- Mm-hmm. - And I know you wouldn't.
But I just want to say, I'm not doing that.
I am going to stick with the positive,
And I still really, really want to make this work.
Okay, so a couple nights ago,
He begins to explain to me
That he is missing something.
He's saying he's not growing any sort
Of physical attraction towards me.
And then we had a really--like,
Continued to have a nice time together.
We started drinking. We were getting margaritas.
And then, we went up to the room,
And he pounced on me like a tiger.
- What? - What?
- Pounced.
I said...
- I'm thinking, like, team mitch, team mitch, team mitch.
- I know! - But it's so hard!
- I'm trying to be so positive right now!
- This guy! - We have to be team mitch.
We have to. He's my husband.
- I know, but it's hard when you--
We love--like, we love you.
- I love you guys. - It's so hard.
- That's so confusing. - Imagine being me!
Like, it's hard. - That's so confusing.
- So I said--
I said, what is going on?
Like, you know, we haven't really touched
Or kissed this whole time,
And you just invited me to a formal dinner
To tell your wife you're not attracted to her.
So what's going on?
And he said that he could not believe the way
That I handled myself
And that it was very, very attractive to him
And that he wanted to get down.
And I said, I'm gonna flip this script on you.
I said, I make the rules now. - Yeah.
- And it's not gonna happen this way.
- I am team mitch as long as you want me to be team mitch,
But if team mitch starts being disrespectful,
Alexis is no longer team mitch.
Just give me a sign. Alexis got you.
- I'm the captain now.
[dramatic music]
- ♪ why don't you light the flame ♪
♪ fire to guide the way ♪
♪ show me desire, I'm waiting, I'm waiting on your love ♪
- Cheers to us finally getting our honeymoon.
- Somewhat alone time? - Some alone time.
- Yeah. - On our honeymoon.
[soft music]
- What do you think of, like, the other couples?
- All of the couples are, like, very touchy feely right now.
- Yeah, like, I wonder-- - they're very physical.
- I wonder what they're doing right now.
- You could probably imagine what they're doing right now.
[laughter]
- I can imagine what nate's doing right now.
I can for sure.
- Do you feel like you're closer to any of the guys?
- Yeah, I think--what's tree-- justin, yeah.
- That's cute.
Well, he already said that he loves her.
Like...
- When do you think we'd be saying that?
- I don't know.
- Yeah, that's kind of-- it's hard to--
- That's really hard to gauge,
Like, falling in love, you know?
That's really...
I don't know.
And it's so unique for, like, different--
- Yeah. - With a different person.
And, you know, but I'm happy for them.
They look really good together.
Maybe we can do something with them eventually.
If it's not here, then, like, back in san diego.
- Yeah. - Do something fun.
Oh, how is it going to look when we go back, though?
Like, what do you think's gonna happen?
- Is your cat coming? - Mm-hmm.
- You sure? I'm just kidding.
I'm kidding. - Absolutely, absolutely.
- What do you normally do on your weekends?
- I just go to the gym and relax
Because I've been going so-- like, go 110% at work,
So on the weekends, I just like to chill and relax.
- Decompress, yeah. - And decompress.
Because it's a lot.
- It's always--no matter what,
If it's a week from today or a month from today,
It's always going to be hectic.
That's just--
- That's just the name of the game.
- Nature of the beast, yeah.
- It's just--I signed up for it, you know?
That's what nursing is.
[crickets chirping]
- How do you think we're doing?
- I think considering the circumstances and, like,
The less time that we have--
- Mm-hmm.
- I feel like we're starting off really, really well.
And I feel like there's a lot of potential
Going further from here.
Of course, we're gonna have, like, ups and downs,
And things are going to happen.
But I feel like we have a good, like,
Understanding of each other and, like, a good foundation.
- Yeah, what do you think, like, a good five-week plan
For us would be on a weekly, on a biweekly,
Or how would we 10x our relationship
During that time, during the five weeks?
- Well, do you have any ideas of that?
Because I feel like that's more of, like,
How your brain works.
Like, what do you think about that?
Like, how do you think that's going to play out?
- I feel like not just pillow talk
And not just surface level conversations,
But at least a couple of times a week
Where we really get to know each other,
What we're about, what we grew from our past,
And how we can grow moving forward.
So we have to figure out
What works for each other and, yeah.
Before you speak, pause and take a deep breath.
- Really make sure you mean the things
That you are about to say
Because there's been a lot of times
Where I've been very hurt by words.
- Mm-hmm.
- And that's one of the things that's,
Like, destroyed relationships for me
Is something that they said.
And that's, like, you can't take that back.
You can't--you know, you could forgive them,
But you're never gonna forget what they said.
It's very important that you know that
Because I will take it to heart, I will.
Even if it's not malicious, if it comes from someone
That I really, really care about, then, like,
You know, it sucks, it hurts.
- Yeah.
[soft music]
♪ ♪
- Look at this. - So look at--this is for you.
- Whoa, okay, I see you.
[upbeat music]
♪ ♪
- You like this?
- It's a little picnic vibe with the tepee.
Wow.
I really hope there's no bugs. - Oh, you're like me?
You don't like bugs? - That would be the worst.
Ahh! - Ah!
- Bruh. - [laughs]
- Thanks, but no thanks. I'm out.
It's gonna be a long picnic.
Nah, but seriously, thank you, though.
- You're as jumpy as I am with bugs?
- Didn't you see that [bleep]?
That [bleep] was moving hella fast.
- Oh! - Ahh!
That's a spider, okay. - Let me ki--
- Get that [bleep] outta here, boy!
Kill that.
- Oh! - Ah, got him.
Guts.
- Your wife had to kill a spider for you.
- Terminator. - [giggles]
♪ ♪
You like doing stuff like this?
- Absolutely.
I'm simple, so...
I mean, I know it took time for you to set this up,
But we don't have to do everything extravagant
Every single day, you know?
- Yeah, I'm trying to listen...
- I appreciate that. - To what you like.
- We're both listening, huh? - Yeah.
- And communicating.
- Mm-hmm.
♪ ♪
You know, one thing that you said to me was,
"I'm not intimidated by you."
- Right.
- And that kind of, like, stuck with me
Because I feel like, in my past--
- How did it stick with you?
- Well, in my past, I feel like
I've been very intimidating to men.
Which is-- - yeah, I can see that.
- Like, kind of the reason why I've been single as well.
My last relationship was a long-distance relationship.
- Oh, it was? - Yeah.
We kind of just grew apart,
And I didn't want to do the long distance anymore.
- Got it, got it.
[soft music]
- I mean, I get into relationships
For the purpose of getting married.
I'm not just getting into the relationship just 'cause.
I want to always move with purpose and intention, but--
- I agree, I agree.
- After that relationship,
I felt like I needed to go to therapy.
- Yeah.
- I needed to just reevaluate
To help me get through certain things,
You know, from childhood through--to understand, like,
What I wanted in a relationship.
Like, I know who I am. I know what I want.
- That's pretty cool. I commend you for that.
Like, for going to therapy.
- Thank you. - Yeah.
- Would you be open to you and I going to, like, therapy
Just to kind of help the relationship?
[tense music]
- Like, right off the bat,
Or, like, when we feel that, like,
There's some imbalance, then we go?
Or, like-- - no.
- Just go right away to be proactive?
- I don't feel like you have to go to therapy
Because there's a problem.
- Right.
- I feel like it's healthy to go to therapy
To kind of give us those tools
To continue to be a successful couple...
- Yeah, stay sharp, okay. - In a marriage.
Healthy, you know. - I'm down, let's do it.
- Because I've never been in a marriage.
So I don't really know... - Yeah, same.
- All the tools that are gonna be needed.
- Right. I agree, I agree.
Yeah, I'm down for that.
- It's only been a couple of days,
And I just hope that I'm really getting
The true, authentic, genuine nate.
I am not one that likes any fake people around me.
So I'm all about being accountable,
Transparent, and authentic.
- Yeah, we're going through this together, right?
We're brand-new.
It's very unorthodox, so what's gonna happen
When we jump into the real world together?
That's kind of scary, you know what I mean?
And I really hope that what we're doing right now
Is consistent when we get outside of this environment
Because I really like you, you know?
Like, you're a really cool person,
And I want us to be that power couple
And, like, make moves together.
- ♪ and I know that you know ♪
♪ that this could be dangerous ♪
♪ but no slow, don't know, we're not gonna stop now ♪
♪ ♪
- ♪ any time you're ready ♪
♪ like you've been ready all your life ♪
- Right now.
- ♪ sometimes, you've got to just let go ♪
♪ gonna have one hell of a party ♪
- [laughing]
♪ ♪
- Oh, damn--whoa! - [shrieks]
- Whoo! - [laughs]
- ♪ gonna have fun ♪
♪ today got me thinking, things are getting crazy ♪
♪ gonna have to stay the night ♪
- That was fun. I want to do it again.
I do want to do it again.
I low-key wanted--we should have went out a little further.
- Babe, we have a lifetime. - That's true.
- This is not gonna be our only vacation.
Hopefully, you know?
It just seems unreal, like-- - it does.
- It seems unreal, like, we have not had
To worry about anything.
And it's like-- - literally.
- When we go back,
We're gonna step into our real lives.
- Do you feel like--do you think anything's gonna change
When we get back to the house?
- No, because you work for--I feel like
We have such a balanced lifestyle.
Like, you work from home,
And you're willing to, like, take care of the dogs,
And have dinner, and stuff.
Like, things I usually have to worry about on my own.
- And also, like, it creates--it gives you time
For your space, you know what I'm saying?
You get to be in that space. You get to go do what you love.
- Yeah. - I get to do what I love.
And then it's like, even though it's been
Eight hours apart from you, it's just like,
Damn, I miss my baby, you know what I'm saying?
So I think it's definitely a great love.
It fits. Everything fits, doesn't it?
- You can stay home with the dogs.
- Right. - And baloo.
- You might get a little jealous, though.
- I know.
- You gonna come home to three animals
That is happy to see you,
And a really happy husband with them.
I'm serious, bro.
- So do you feel like you being a stay-at-home puppy father
And me making more than you, do you think, like,
That will eventually affect your ego,
Or are you good with that?
- Okay, cool.
- It's going to the same account.
- Is it?
- I mean, we're gonna have the same account
And separate accounts.
- That's what I do want to do when we get back
To the apartment, like, well, to the new apartment.
I want to sit down and talk about budgeting and financials.
- All right, same, same. I like that.
- I know that everybody's like,
"marriage is hard. You got to put in hard work."
And right now, I'm just like,
Still waiting for it to be hard.
- Right.
- So since you're gonna--
[bleep]!
- I got you.
- [laughs]
- Ooh, look at-- lucky being tall, baby.
- Hey! - Whoo!
I turned into superman, girl, let me tell you.
That was my perfect opportunity.
She got a chance to see what my reflexes are.
And I'm not gonna think twice,
Especially if it's somebody that I love and care about.
I'm gonna take you out of harm's way
And do what I can, whether I get hurt or not,
As long as she's good.
- Thank you, baby.
- All right, come again. - I know.
See, you protected me! You saved me!
- Hope y'all caught that!
Protecting my wife!
[grunts]
- ♪ party, party, party ♪
♪ because it feels so great ♪
♪ party, party, party, with you every day ♪
- Have you done this before? - Yeah, a few times.
- A few times? - But, like, as a kid.
- Okay. - But you--you're a nurse.
- I'm a nurse, so I can do a little mouth-to-mouth
If you need it, you know.
I'll save your life. - Okay, no tongue?
- Yeah, yeah, for sure. - All right.
- Yeah!
♪ oh, baby, when you come to me ♪
♪ show me, show me everything ♪
♪ your every waking moment feels brand-new ♪
♪ new ♪
♪ you're totally my type ♪
♪ ♪
♪ you're totally my type, you're totally my type ♪
- [laughs]
I feel it.
You know, I feel something, some, like, sexual tension.
So sex will happen.
Definitely, because my husband's hot.
Like, my husband's hot, you know, like that body, oof.
- Good, that was fun. - Yeah, it was fun.
- Yeah. Um...
Remember what we were talking about yesterday?
- Mm-hmm.
- I definitely want to talk more about other things.
We've only done, like, surface layer stuff.
For me, it's all about family and finance,
Like, that's the most important.
- I want to make sure we're, like, good
Before we have that conversation.
And we're not, like, in an emotionally unstable,
You know, "we're stressed" state.
You know, my relationship with my family
Is maybe not as good as, like, the average person.
- Mm-hmm.
- I haven't had a relationship with my dad
For the past several years, you know?
- I think it's hard for me to relate to that
Because I feel like I never really had
A super toxic relationship.
♪ ♪
I kind of just need a little bit more clarity
With the family stuff, because coming into this--
And you see how close I was with my family.
And that is, like... - Absolutely.
- A big aspect of this whole process.
Like, I wanted to bring someone into my family
That could just come in, and vibe with them,
And also had a great relationship
With their family too.
So when somebody doesn't have a strong relationship
With their family, it's a question mark for me.
And, like, your mom was telling me that you're gonna--
You were still in student debt and how you're going--
Still want to go to nurse practitioner school,
And I'm trying to build right now--
I'm trying to build financial freedom right now.
And I'm not sure how that aligns with everything.
- But it seems like you're very closed off
To understanding my situation, though.
It seems like you're very much like,
"she has student loan. It's awful."
And I need you to be understanding of that
And, like, trust me when I say that I'm gonna
Have it paid off, and it's not gonna be something
That's gonna weigh us down.
I'm never gonna ask you to give me a cent.
I don't want your money.
I don't want any of it. I don't want your investments.
I'm never gonna tell you how to spend your money,
Or how to invest, or what you need to do with your money.
So I need you to be-- I need to be patient with that
Because I'm not at the point in my life
Where I'm exactly where you're at.
And I need you to look at that and see
That I'm not the same place as you are.
- I was super, super open.
Wanted this, even read books,
And was 100% honest from the beginning
With who I was, what I was about,
What I wanted, what I felt I needed.
But, yeah.
- Do you feel like we're not matched well?
[tense music]
♪ ♪
[tense music]
♪ ♪
- I just wish you saw the good in me, you know?
- I do, though.
I feel like the surface layers, we have a lot in common.
Gym, intermittent fasting, good vibes.
But the stuff that I preached was,
Yeah, family, and finances, and being 100% honest.
- Okay. - From the beginning.
From the beginning, 100% honest.
No lies, no [bleep].
- Yeah. - Just straight honesty.
- Last night, she brought me aside,
And she said, "don't tell anyone,
But I have one course left on my bsn--my bachelor,"
And to me, that means bachelor of science in nursing.
So in my mind, I'm like, so wait she's not a nurse yet.
So she told the experts something else
Than what she actually is.
And I just wanted answers. I just wanted clarity.
- But you're treating it like I lied to you.
- And I explained to you that situation too.
My bachelor's program is to advance my career.
It's for the pay raise.
It's not--you know, it's not my nursing program.
It's a bachelor's degree. Like, I am a nurse.
I've been working as a nurse this entire time.
[tense music]
♪ ♪
Like, I thought we came to a resolution last night,
And I thought we were good,
But by you going to someone else shows me
That you weren't good and that you were still
Really thinking about it,
And you were still really hurt about it.
- No, we said--
- And I thought-- I think that hurts me,
That I didn't know that.
That came out of nowhere.
It blows my mind that I told him everything very openly,
And I apologized profusely for not being more truthful
About having that last class left.
And yet here we are.
Binh went behind my back and told justin
That I've been lying, and that hurts.
Now it's--now, like, the thing that I wanted private...
Isn't.
- I'm sorry for, I guess, overreacting,
And then telling tree about it.
- We promised each other we weren't gonna talk
About it until later.
- It was just us talking both about our relationships
And how we were-- basically asking for advice.
- But you see how trust is such a huge thing for me.
Like, by going to him,
And then him going to someone else,
And that someone else going to someone else.
Like, do you see the chain effect?
And that's--like, that broke my trust.
Yeah, I'm just, I'm-- - and I didn't--
- I'm frustrated. - I needed to go to somebody.
I didn't know who else to--
- But you see how, like, it circled around?
- Came straight to--yeah.
- You should've come to me instead.
The person I thought binh was is completely gone.
I don't know him like I thought I did.
It's disappointing because his family,
His friends were like, "oh, my god.
"binh's gonna put you first.
Binh's always gonna have your back."
But that's not the binh that I got.
I'm pissed.
- Is there anything that I can do
Tangibly or in this moment?
- I don't know.
[sighs]
Um...
♪ ♪
You broke my trust.
♪ ♪
- I'm sorry.
♪ ♪
[upbeat music]
♪ ♪
- Hi, gorg! - How you doing?
- You look stunning as always. - Thank you, so do you.
- Thank you so much for being here and...
- Oh! - Coming to hang out with me.
- No problem, any time.
- I really appreciate it.
You know how much I value
Your strength and your directness.
- Says the strongest girl out here,
But continue, continue.
- I mean, I've never met anyone like you.
- Oh! - And I'm just so grateful.
I don't know--
Without you as, like, a little bit
Of a sounding board for me.
I mean, I'm strong.
I know that I am, but just having you gals
As a support system has been incredible,
And it's just--
I expected-- you know, I expected us
To kind of jump in, and be attracted, and--I don't know.
- Passionate and lustful-- - passionate!
- And ripping each other's clothes off.
- Yes, I did!
And I'm mostly concerned because he has said
Many, many times, he's been very open,
That he hasn't been in a serious relationship
In a very long time.
- So how committed is he?
- I know.
I have been wanting to get married,
Married, married for almost my entire life.
- I think you have to count small wins with him.
- Yes.
- And if it's starting to feel like a relationship,
And he hasn't been in a relationship for a long time,
That's something.
- Yes. - You know, that is something.
And it may be silver lining.
It may be the smallest of things.
But sometimes, you have to meet people where they're at.
- Yeah. - Team mitch.
- Team mitch.
- And, you know, what I'm about to say--
- Oh, gosh, please, my heart. - It's okay.
I want your--this is, like, the biggest reason
I wanted your advice.
- Okay.
- The actions are showing me
Every day how much he wants me on many different levels.
- Okay.
- He's now starting to talk about the future.
I do feel like I'm walking on eggshells a little bit.
I feel like I am being myself.
But, I mean, how long can I dance on this line?
- I can't answer that question for you.
- I know.
- It's something that krysten has
To have a conversation with krysten and say--
- Yeah.
- I do want to be married, but to what extent?
And it's always-- we all signed up
Knowing that there was a chance...
- Yes, yes. - That this couldn't work out.
- It's like, when I think of mitch I think of,
You can't teach an old dog new tricks.
No pun intended, because he is 41.
But you get what I'm saying?
Like, it's gonna take some time,
But at the same time, he is attracted to you,
And at one point, he was saying,
There's no physical attraction.
- Yep, yep.
- And it seems like that's a very meaningful part
Of the relationship for him.
Let me remind you,
I could have been with justin six months ago.
- Wild.
- But I looked at his profile, and I was like,
He's a little skinny, and I just--
He looked too nice for me.
- Yeah.
- Like my superficial way almost had me
Miss the greatest blessing of my life.
And I hope that mitch looks at you and has that coming to,
You know, his senses moment.
- Yeah.
- And I know he will 'cause you're a beautiful woman.
- Thank you.
- I just think he has to get
Out of his own way and really just realize, like,
"I'm about to let an amazing woman go."
- Yes.
- "there's a chance that I might
Based on something superficial."
- Yeah.
[extreme music's "start again"]
- ♪ start believing ♪
♪ sing it out, sing it out, sing it out ♪
[dramatic music]
- ♪ yeah ♪
♪ yeah, every loss turns to a lesson ♪
♪ the clock is running out ♪
♪ let me hear you shout ♪
♪ fanatic, yeah ♪
♪ you know we gotta win ♪
♪ fanatic, see it to the end ♪
♪ fanatic ♪
♪ yeah, we gotta win ♪
♪ fanatic, see it to the end ♪
- Game. - Yeah.
[bleep]
- Man, right--that was a good work out though.
- Yeah, we got to do it when we get back to san diego.
- We got to make that part of--like--
- Seriously, man. - Part of our everyday for real.
- So how's everything, man?
- We're working through some things.
Morgan's mad at me right now because of everything
We talked about with her stuff.
And there was no, like, ill intentions,
But she's frustrated because I came to you
Instead of going to her.
Even though like, I respect you,
And I really wanted to hear your opinion,
I should have asked her before I came to you.
- That's fair. I respect that.
- She thinks that she got stabbed in the back,
Which, through the process, she did,
But it wasn't intentional.
It's tough 'cause now, like, there's no trust on her end,
And she said doesn't trust me with these important things,
And the only way to build trust is for her to give me something
To trust her with and to prove to her
That I can be trustworthy.
- Do you trust her?
- She hasn't done anything to--
Except for-- and it wasn't even a lie.
I overreacted.
- I'm just exhausted right now.
We had a really emotional conversation.
It was a lot.
- Is it just the whirlwind of, like, everything going on,
Or is there a specific thing that's actually bothering you?
- He came in with the expectation
Of someone with a really good family relationship
And really good at finances.
I have student loan debt.
- [scoffs] - okay.
- Like, sorry, sorry. - Same, same.
- I don't know much about crypto.
I don't know much about stocks.
He has a lot of investments, a lot of assets,
And I'm like, I'm not there.
- Wow.
- We had the conversation before, like,
"we're not gonna talk about finances or anything.
We're going to talk about it when we get back."
Then he hits me with it.
- Ooh. - Oh, really?
- Mm-hmm.
- I don't like surface layer stuff.
What's the score to the game?
Let's go to the gym and cook.
Like, let's talk about, like, in-depth,
What we're gonna do, how we're gonna grow.
- Yeah, I feel that.
You know, my opinion,
Not to offend anyone else, I think you deserve
The perfect wife, because I know
From knowing you you're gonna be the perfect husband,
You know what I'm saying?
Financially, you know, emotionally,
I don't know about physically, but--
I'm just playing. [laughs]
- You don't know that yet. - I don't know.
- Yeah. - You know what I'm saying?
But, like, you're just a great guy.
You're like a needle in a haystack,
Is the way I'd describe it.
And so when a woman is lucky to have you,
And vice versa, it's important to be truthful.
- Yeah.
- You know what I'm saying, about everything,
Despite how it makes the person feel.
- And that's why I came to her,
And that's why we're having these hard conversations first
Because that's who I am.
- I came into this wanting a man who was proud of me,
Who saw me and was like--
- Right. - "that's my [bleep] wife."
"I'm so proud of her."
And you're coming in and being like, "ooh, her finances."
You know, it sucks.
And I wish he would have come into this
With no expectations.
- Just an open mind.
- Yeah, well he's like, this is what I wanted.
I wanted a woman like x, y, and z, and I'm like...
[tense music]
- I'm a human. That's so painful.
- Yeah, we're not check boxes. - We're not check boxes.
- I was like, "but this is me." - oh, no.
- Mm-hmm, oh, yeah.
A lot of trust has been broken.
- That's tough, like-- - yeah.
- And that's huge for me.
Like, once that's broken, I'm like,
I don't know how to rebuild trust.
- That's the hard part. - It's hard.
- Yeah, he asked me that too,
And he was like, "how do I rebuild your trust?"
And I was like, I've never navigated this before.
Because once it's gone, it's gone for me.
I usually just walk away at this point, so...
- Yeah, oof. - Yeah, it's hard.
- I don't want you to walk away, though.
- No, I'm still here, like-- - you're gonna fight.
- I still got the ring on. - You're literally a fighter.
- Yeah, like, so I'm here.
You know, I'm showing up for our marriage.
- But I want to validate that what you're feeling is painful.
- Yeah. - And it's real.
- Yeah.
- He really expected me to be this, like, perfect person.
- So what are your next steps, you know,
When you get back to the apartment?
What does that look like for you guys?
- Mm-hmm, it's just more honest conversation,
And me building that trust, and every day small wins,
Whatever--small and big wins, whatever that is,
Like, just building momentum.
- One thing I do want to share, man, is I had a relationship--
A lot of my relationships similar, you know,
Back in the day, it was just, I never put myself first,
And I would, like, suppress my feelings.
- Yeah. - And it can break you.
So when you express how you feel,
Express it in a way and make sure you remind yourself that,
When you tell her this, you're telling her this
Because you do care.
You care about your feelings. - I want it to work.
That's why I'm bringing it up.
Like, I wouldn't have brought it up
If I didn't care.
If I genuinely didn't care. - Yeah.
- It's just all bad all around, and the only way
To work it out is to really talk it out.
- Yeah.
- And like, I take ownership for everything that's happened,
And I take ownership for how I'm going to fix it.
- Despite the situation, I'm here, bro.
If it's 3:00 in the morning,
I might be a little irritated, you know what I'm saying--
- Yeah, no, I'll call you at 3:00 p.M.
- [laughs] - but I got you bro, like--
- Actually, you can call me-- you can call--
Before 3:00 a.M., like, 2:59 is cool.
After-- - 2:59.
[laughs]
Nah, that works, dude. You ready to go about now?
- Yeah, let's get it. - Let me get a hand.
Getting old, boy.
Whoa.
My knees.
[soft music]
- Miguel and I talk a lot about this,
It's managing expectations.
- Yeah.
- It's just gonna take a lot. - It's going to take time.
And nothing happens overnight.
And the whole point is to be seen,
And heard, and accepted.
- But it sounds like there's a lot of inconsistency here.
You know, you shared that miguel--
He had tried you know, to have sex with you, right?
- Mm-hmm.
- That's not what you wanted.
You wanted to build this connection.
If you're like, "I don't want to have sex with you,"
How did that switch to where you felt comfortable?
- We've been getting to know each other, asking questions.
I feel so connected to him.
He makes me feel comfortable and confident.
And if I wasn't having that connection with him,
We wouldn't have had sex.
- And I just wanted to make sure that it was your decision,
And you weren't being pressured or anything like that--
- Oh, my--no.
- Now I'm starting to get triggered from things
That I've been through, and I'm like,
"I don't want her to feel like me."
- No, no, no, no.
- Like, just going through what I went through,
And I didn't want you to go through that as well.
- Oh, no.
- I can reassure you, it was very mutual.
♪ ♪
He's my husband. It was beautiful.
- But I just--
It's still so soon,
And I know we're wearing these rings.
But giving yourself to someone like that...
- Yeah.
- That's just something so precious.
I've been in situations to where I felt like
I had to have sex to keep my partner happy,
And I didn't know what would happen if I didn't do it,
So I just--
I didn't want lindy to feel that.
- I hear you, but I also grew up
With so much judgement and shame around sex
That all I want from you guys is support
Because it was my decision.
It was our decision. - Okay.
- And I'm happy about it.
It's something beautiful, and it was amazing.
- Okay, good, good. - Good.
- I'm so happy you're looking out for me,
And I will come to you crying.
It's gonna come. It's gonna happen.
But right now, this is not-- it's not it, but--
- Yeah.
- I wanted to talk to you about some stuff
That me and miguel were speaking about
Because it doesn't feel right not talking to you about it
Because you're my girl, you're my friend.
- Right, right.
- So miguel has questioned nate's authenticity.
- Miguel thinks that nate is not--
- Genuine.
Nate's just, like, so curated.
I don't know--like, I'm not behind the scenes
With you guys--
- Nothing that you say is gonna hurt me,
I want you to give me your-- - I know, I know.
Just like you're not in our bedroom
While me and miguel are connecting,
I'm not in your bedroom when you guys are connecting
And what you're talking about.
But I'm so immersed in this experience and,
Like, getting to know you and getting to know my husband
That, like, I never know where my phone is.
I don't know where my phone is. Like, I haven't texted anyone.
I haven't taken any videos. Like, it's just gone.
And like, nate, he's very like,
"look what we're doing. Look at my wife."
And that's just maybe his personality,
But from my outside perspective,
I worry like,
Why does he care so much about--I don't know.
It's me and miguel,
We overthink together all the time.
- Right, right, right.
- I just want to know, is that something
That you're questioning, or you feel good about his--
He feels real and authentic.
- No it's definitely something I've questioned.
- Yeah. - Yeah.
♪ ♪
I do question the intention.
- Yeah. - I do question why he's here.
You know, I want him to peel back the layers.
- Yeah.
- And at that time, I think
I'd be a little bit more comfortable,
But absolutely, and I'm gonna find out.
- That's valid. - I'll find out.
[dramatic music]
♪ ♪
[upbeat music]
♪ ♪
- I am on the beach.
Hubby is surfing.
I think you can see him back there,
That little dot?
It is a dream to be able to go on your honeymoon
And watch your husband surf.
I support all his interests,
Especially when it comes to being on the water.
And it just feels good to be able to watch him
In his element,
And this is what he wanted to do.
And he's really happy doing it, so I'm happy to be here too.
♪ ♪
- ♪ I can see the ocean from my window ♪
♪ the golden sun is coming up in your eyes ♪
♪ we could stay right here, keep all day in love ♪
- Let's get some air in this bitch!
- ♪ let's make some waves ♪
- I have nothing but respect and admiration for miguel,
And that hasn't wavered or changed at all
The past few days that we've been
Getting to know each other.
I do think that like, my butterflies and feelings
Are gonna continue to increase the more I understand him
And get to know him.
Oh, my gosh that is-- that was heavier--
- Heavier than it looks, right? - Oh, [bleep].
♪ ♪
- Overall that was good though? - That was really--
- Positive, yeah. - Yeah.
- Not too bad we didn't get into like,
A relationship ending fight.
- Oh, my god. - I've seen--you joke.
I've seen people--yeah.
- Is this what does it? - Like, end.
- That's easy.
Like, this is supposed to be the fun part.
If there's any fights, like, with this kind of stuff,
I don't know, that would be definitely a red flag for me.
But it's just so easy to talk to you
And, like, just open up and have fun.
Like, I love that we're just so goofy with each other.
That's, like--
That's what makes life easier.
- I agree.
- But, I do feel like,
Because we're so different, you know,
Like, I just want to, like, throw it all out there
And just let you know all of my everything.
- Yeah you do, I know. - You know?
- I just want it out there so that we can like,
Figure it out.
And then your personality, you're like,
"let it come. It will happen."
But then I have this pressure where you've told me
That you want to fall in love with me.
- I do.
- But you need to see the emotional side,
You need to be attracted to my intellectual--
My physical-- like you're so analytical,
And it's so many boxes
That it's so much pressure on me.
- I'm sorry about that.
- Because of course I want us to fall in love too,
But it's like, holy [bleep].
Everything I'm saying and doing, I'm like,
"is this in his box? Is this outside of his box?"
- Well, don't do that.
Be yourself 'cause at the end of the day,
If I do fall in love with you,
I want to fall in love with lindy.
Don't try to fit into what you think I want.
You be you, and if I pick up what
You're putting down, right, in the long run,
That's what you want.
You want someone that signs up for you,
Who you are.
- Yeah, and accepts my quirks,
And thinks it's cute, and this, and that.
And same thing with you, like, when you're being you,
I'm not gonna try to control you.
I'm gonna like that's miguel. He's a pervert.
You know, I love that about him, right?
Fine. - Yeah.
- Like, I'm not gonna be like,
You know like, I don't want to be like,
"you're offending me. Don't say it like..."
- Right.
- That's what we want, is to just be ourselves,
And complement, and accept those parts of us.
- Right.
You know, it's true, and right now,
To be perfectly honest with you,
I don't know quite where I'm at.
Like, going into this the way I initially envisioned it
Was like, okay, I'm gonna give it my all
For like eight weeks,
And then that's when I decide.
♪ ♪
- Keep me in your mind process because I need to know--
I--like, how much to protect myself.
♪ ♪
I can't let my guard down if you're like,
"yeah, this is two months, and then it is what it is."
Is this just a two month experiment for you,
Or is this a real marriage
That you want to try to last forever?
- I don't know. I want this to work.
And I'm going to try everything I can--
- Yeah.
- But I don't know the person I'm marrying,
And so we shall see.
- To me this is, like, an actual, I want a lifelong--
- Me too, me too. - Partner.
And I don't want to freak you out,
But that's why I got married.
[dramatic music]
♪ ♪
- ♪ hey, she said you gotta break your soft heart ♪
♪ you've got to levitate ♪
- Can I get a sex on the beach?
- Straight to the point, baby? - Yeah, straight to the point.
- All righty, I mean, we are on a beach.
- Ooh, spicy mama! Wow!
Hi, beautiful couple.
- Good to see y'all again. - Hi!
- Surprise! - Oh, my goodness.
- Did you guys call each other? - We're wearing the same color!
- Did you guys call each other? - Your hoops, oh, my goodness.
- Thank you, I brought the hoops out.
- Doesn't she look nice? Yeah.
- I love your natural hair.
- You look so pretty. - Hey, look who's here.
- Hi. - Hey!
- Hello, sorry.
- Hello, hello. - What's up, friends?
- So this is it, guys. This is a wonderful honeymoon.
- Oh, my god. - What are your thoughts?
- I can't believe it's the last night already.
It just was like, pshew.
- Yeah, it was pretty quick. - Yeah.
- I know, we didn't get any time, but that's okay.
- I mean, we have had really intimate conversations,
But maybe not as much as you guys have.
- We had a really, really hard one.
Feels good though 'cause, like, it did make us better.
- We understand.
I mean, you know, we're all on a crash course,
And, like, you guys will be living together soon,
So you guys got plenty of time to make up.
- Yeah. - Time to talk.
- Sorry to, like, put you on blast in front of everyone,
But I'm just not sure if this is an eight-week thing,
Or, like, where you're at with that.
I don't have a timeline. I don't know.
- We've talked about that, yeah.
- And I'm still kind of waiting.
- Waiting for?
- I don't know where his head is at.
- I can give someone my all for eight weeks,
And then I can decide from that point,
But she's like, "I may need more than that."
- I think that would be the most painful thing ever,
Is to be feeling like I'm falling in love with someone,
And then just be like, no, you know, "I don't want you."
I think that's, like, my biggest fear in all of this.
He's like, "I don't know. I'm giving you eight weeks."
And that doesn't feel-- - whoa.
- Not quite, not quite.
- That feels like [bleep]. - Those were not my words.
- This sounds like a sit down conversation.
- Maybe we should have some food in us, yeah.
- Let's go eat. Can we go eat?
- Just feels surprising because we're getting along so well,
And we're connecting so well,
So, I mean, at this point, I'm, like, on an icy road,
Like, going 100 miles per hour.
[tense music]
- Give me a kiss.
- Nah, you gonna lick me. - I'm not gonna lick you.
- You gonna lick me. - I'm not gonna lick you.
- I'ma lick you.
- So what do you guys think about moving in together?
You think the honeymoon is almost easier in some senses?
I mean, once we go back home, that's when, like,
The rest of our lives collide.
- It's true, it's true.
- One of his concerns is,
Will I revert back into just work mode?
And I think it's a valid concern.
- Yeah, it is, it is.
As of right now, stacia, she's actually building
A home from scratch.
And she invited me... - Whoa.
- To live with her in her brand-new home
That's being built.
So it's a gesture that's telling me
That she's very committed to our relationship.
And so--yeah, I'm looking forward
To this happy wife, happy life kind of vibe.
You know what I'm saying? - Right?
- That's true.
- So basically, your wife is building you a house.
- [laughing] yes.
- You hit the lottery, bro! - Yeah, you did.
- Yeah. I'm very grateful, for sure.
- I think the honeymoon has been a little overwhelming,
Maybe for some of us, and it'll be good
To get into an everyday routine.
I am looking forward to dinner with you every night
And sleeping in the same bed with you every night.
- Aww! - I am, I am.
Yeah, I'm a lot.
I'm always doing something. I'm talking.
I'm cooking. I'm cleaning.
- Mitch, you gonna be able to keep up with that?
- Oh, yeah. - Yeah, mitch!
- Nice.
- I'm pretty high energy too,
And I actually find it attractive
When I'm with a woman who's busy,
And engaging, and opinionated, and strong,
And just kind of doing her thing.
- That's your girl.
- I think the important thing for us is gonna be
Making sure that, in all our craziness of both of our lives,
And my work schedule is very all over the place,
So just making sure that we find time,
Whether that's breakfast, whether that's dinner.
Whatever it is that we have time to connect still, yeah.
- How do you feel about moving in?
- I'm excited.
I'm just worried about my work schedule,
And how I've been a nurse
Through the entire pandemic,
And how I've coped personally after work
Is going home and being by myself.
- I bet. - And de-stressing by myself.
It's gonna be interesting going home
And having someone there.
I've never had that, and I even told the experts,
Like, I need someone who's gonna be able
To take care of themselves
Because when I get home, I can't take care of him.
I can't.
I need someone to come home to who can take care of himself,
Who's good on his own by himself,
Because, like, I need to de-stress
At the end of the day.
I don't want to come home and keep taking care of people.
♪ ♪
- It's gonna be a lot of, like, compromise
And a lot of communication.
I'm not used to talking about my feelings about work.
- So my question is, how does binh fit into this situation?
- That's what I was wondering. - Yeah, that's the hard part.
♪ ♪
- It's gonna be a lot of, like, compromise
And a lot of communication.
I'm not used to talking about my feelings about work.
- So my question is, how does binh fit into this situation?
- That's what I was wondering. - That's the difficult thing.
- That's the hard part. - That's the hard part.
- No, I'm just kidding. [laughter]
- Stop! - No, but maybe it is.
Maybe it is.
- That's a stress reliever. - Right, it is!
- That's the difficult part because I don't want
To have to worry about everything he's doing
Every single day and trying to take care of them
Because that's who I am mentally,
And I want to take care...
I just--it's hard for me to do that right now
In, like, a pandemic situation.
- She sort of made everything about her.
Like, when I come home, I want this,
When I come home, I want that.
And you say you want this, that, and the other,
But, like, what about what he wants?
- I'm trying to figure out where I fit in to all of that,
Because on top of all that,
It's like, there's muay thai too.
- Yes. - And then there's the gym.
So it's definitely--I don't know what you would want.
What do you need from me in those circumstances?
- Yeah, I think just like--
- It's just space?
- No, it's just more the communication.
We need to talk to each other.
We need to see where we're at mentally every single day--
- Just checking in on like--
- Checking in on each other, absolutely.
- And that's what I do need, is like, at work,
I need someone to ground me,
And to bring me back to reality.
And to be like, how are you?
You know, and that's-- - I can do that.
- Yeah, that's what I would really need.
- I just think you have to allow him...
- Yeah. - To be there for you.
Because you're saying like,
"I'm coming to do home, and do this."
I, me, me, me.
And it's just like, you have to open up.
- Yeah, I have to.
- Our husbands are very similar.
- Yeah. - And we are also very similar.
- Yeah, it's hard.
It's hard being the strong, independent woman
And allowing a man in.
- The thing is, you're--
You're married now, and when you took that step,
You basically took that vow to open
Yourself up to vulnerability.
- Yeah. - You know what I'm saying?
So you just gotta say, you know, forget the fear.
Whatever happens happens, you know what I'm saying?
Because right now, when you said yes to this man,
And he said yes to her, you opened that path up.
- Mm-hmm. - That's true.
- Like, binh is a whole other person.
He has his own set of needs.
And he needs somebody too.
Like, he's in this for you. - Yeah.
- He wants you. - Yeah, that's what I'm saying.
I'm gonna try really hard to reciprocate
And to, like, be present with you.
- She's irritating. - Okay.
- So it'll be good.
It'll be a journey, but we'll figure it out.
- For sure.
- Yeah, absolutely. - I think so.
- I think that she wants companionship,
But only on her terms.
And I think that she hasn't really considered
How her husband will add to her.
And you know like, what--
Why are you here?
I know my job is really stressful.
So I want to see how like, he responds to me being like,
Stressed when I come home from work sometimes.
- What do you do again? Sorry.
- I'm a logistician.
It's just numbers, and ordering,
And nothing important.
- It's top secret.
When she comes home, I don't want her to have
To worry about [bleep].
I want to get up in the morning,
And she can just focus on work.
I take the dogs on a walk. I get her a smoothie.
She starting her day.
- Not to play devil's advocate, but I'm hearing a lot--
- He's totally gonna play devil's ad--go for it.
- I am, I am, [bleep], I am.
But--so I hear a lot that you're doing for alexis,
But what so--
What is alexis doing for you?
♪ ♪
- I just like being his support system
And his almost security.
I'm gonna protect this man at all costs.
So I'm here emotionally, physically, spiritually,
Financially behind the scenes.
I'm feeding so much life into this man.
- There you go. - Yeah.
- Anything that he needs, like, baby,
You want a drink, you know, you in the shower.
I cater to my man. - Yeah.
- But when we're behind closed doors, like,
I have a suitcase full of lingerie, y'all.
Don't get it twisted.
- You got a bag of lingerie? - No--pfft.
I mean, [bleep], boy, just wait.
Just wait till we get back home.
Don't you worry about it. - Okay.
- Don't worry about it. I got you.
- 69, 69.
So mom, like-- - binh.
- The six-- - binh.
- If you turn the 6 upside down it's a 9, but then--
- Just-- - the 6 is a 9.
It's-- - 69--
- It's a number.
- Is when...
[muffled speech]
- 69 is geometry, so basically,
The 6 turns upside down to a 9.
- I cater to my man.
Anything he needs. And that was part of my vows.
Like, I'll give you anything you need.
- I love all of this.
You guys complement each other.
Her weaknesses are your strengths.
You're bringing out the sensitive side of her
That I have never seen, but I love it.
[laughter]
Look at how in love you are. - Ahh!
- Embrace it. Embrace it, girl.
- I do.
- What did you say?
- No, no, you-- - she--I heard it.
- You heard that? - I heard it.
- Oh, hold up, hold up! - I heard it.
- Wait, wait-- - I heard it.
- Shh, shh. - I heard it!
[cheering]
- You said, "I love this man."
- I do know I want to spend my life with him,
So this eight weeks is like--
I mean, it's just the beginning, so...
- The fact that you guys have said that
Blows my mind, to be honest,
That you already know that you want
To spend your lives together.
As much as I enjoy spending time with lindy,
I don't like-- do I have it in me?
And that's something I need to answer for myself.
♪ ♪
Do I have more than eight weeks in me because--
- That's fair. - No.
- That's not fair.
That is not--I'm sorry. - That's fair.
No, no--that's fair.
- I'm so sorry, mitch, but, like--
- He doesn't know who she--he didn't know
It would be lindy.
He didn't know who it was.
- We're speaking to our own opinions.
For me, the only way I could do it if I knew--
I told myself I have an out.
- I mean-- - I was the same way.
I was the same way.
I was gonna give myself grace, like, no matter what happens--
- I'm marrying a stranger.
I don't know who the [bleep] is gonna show up
At the end of that like--
- No, that's super fair. I validate that.
- Right. - Like, I'm all in.
But I don't know who the other person is.
So how can I be like, yeah, this is it.
- But, lindy, earlier you were saying that bothered you.
- I really do believe in marriage,
And I want this to be the long haul,
But I want to meet you where you're at
And respect you of not knowing it.
And that's painful, but I understand it.
That's one thing that I love and respect
About miguel's personality, is that I'm not guessing.
I know exactly where he's at,
And I couldn't handle the guessing game with someone.
- She's doing everything she can to please miguel.
And she's not being true to herself
Regarding what she wants,
And that's gonna be a problem.
I think he's a great guy,
And he's been fully transparent,
But I feel like she's only agreeing
Based on what he says.
And you can see the [bleep] dead in her eyes.
- So are you even like in the mindset of wanting
To even get married?
- Thank you.
- And you know, I didn't want to come for you
In front of everybody--
- No, no, come for me.
No, no, no, it's good.
- I don't even really know your story.
Listening to you the whole time you were talking,
And I was just like, what the [bleep]?
♪ ♪
- Well, let me put it this way.
- How long have you been single?
Were you even, like, trying to be married?
- Yes! [cheering]
- Perfect timing.
- Exactly, exactly.
- Saved by the mariachi band. - All right.
[mariachi music]
[soft music]
♪ ♪
- Ready? One, two, three.
Okay, one more.
All right, got you.
Get that [bleep] out of here.
- Chill, bruh. We going to sleep.
- [laughing]
- Oh, man. Come here.
Get over here.
- How do you feel?
How do you feel about these other couples?
Wait-- - oh.
- I was about to--like, after miguel, like,
Had said what he said, I was just like, oh, hell no.
- I don't know what the hell is happening.
- It's scary not knowing a person's intentions.
- It is scary, but you know you have me,
And I feel like we're good.
That's all that matters.
- Really? - Yes, really.
- Damn.
- It's still, you know, a few days in.
I'm trying to figure out like, if you really like me,
You want to be with me.
Me, like, inside... - Really, are you serious?
- Or is it just the idea of me?
Because we have just so much in common,
That you're like, "oh, I can see myself
Being married to this girl."
But, like, do you really want to go
Below that surface?
- Me moving into your brand-new house isn't me
Committing to this marriage?
You don't think that's me committing?
- I think it's you taking the first step to, yeah.
But there's still a lot of stuff that needs to happen
For a marriage to work.
I just want you to, like, really get to know me,
And get underneath the surface,
And find out who I am as a person.
- Are you waiting for something bad to happen or something?
- No, I'm not waiting for anything bad to happen.
I just want to know that you're really trying
To figure out if I'm somebody that you can fall in love with.
- Okay.
For her to have that fear and question my intentions,
It kind of sucks, you know what I mean?
Because I've never shown her anything
That is sort of like a red flag of some sort.
What's one of your fears?
- That something happens, you get scared,
And you run away from me or detach from me.
But I mean, I also have insecurities
About, like, being enough.
I know I'm a lot-- - really?
- But, like, am I, like, satisfying as--
- That's a first.
- Yeah.
- But I think you know, these kind of conversations,
Like, make us stronger, and my feelings for you
Are growing every day.
I'm falling in love with you, and it's real.
- What?
- Yeah, I mean, come on, look at us.
It's pretty simple for me.
I did this with purpose, and it is to find love,
And find a match, and find a partner.
And I feel like that's you.
Like--you okay?
- My eye just keeps watering.
I definitely deserve love.
And so does he.
But I don't really know if he knows what he wants.
And I don't really know if he knows, like,
What he has in front of him.
I come with a lot.
And I don't know if he knows the depths of that.
He says he's not intimidated by me,
But I'm really gonna challenge him.
So I don't know if that's going
To challenge his ego as well.
♪ ♪
[upbeat music]
♪ ♪
- Tonight was interesting.
Mostly fun.
- I think so.
Yeah, I had a good time connecting with everyone.
- They're ridiculous.
We just have to keep focusing on us.
I mean, I think it's important to keep talking and being raw.
- Yeah.
- Although we may not agree on everything, me and you,
We're still, like, understanding each other
And supporting each other.
- Right.
- And that's all we can keep doing.
- Right.
Yeah, at the end of the day, I know,
Like, there's other couples in this,
But it's our marriage.
- I know, and it's our honeymoon.
I got married at first sight to find my person forever,
So I just gotta keep figuring that out with miguel,
And I hope it's him, I really do.
But we don't know.
We'll see how this plays out in real life,
And I'm eager to find out because I still feel
Really good about everything, so...
Okay.
Are you already passed out?
We have some weird stains on our bed.
What is purple?
[laughter]
There's so many weird stains going on.
They're gonna charge us.
I don't know what it's coming from.
Oh, maybe it's the rose petals.
[laughter]
- Yeah, I don't know.
- Wow, what a big day.
I'm excited to get into the real world.
- Me too.
- And just kind of test what we've been talking about.
- Right.
- Because we know we have a connection.
- Right.
- It's just like, how we fit
Into each other's worlds.
It's terrifying.
Because this is the test we've been wanting.
- I was just thinking about the first time I saw you.
And I wish this version of myself
Could have met you at the altar.
'cause I could have enjoyed it a little bit more.
- Do you feel like you've grown?
- Mm-hmm.
- Thanks for saying that.
- Knowing who you are now would add more to, like,
What was already a special day.
And I'm very much looking forward
To all the other days to follow.
- That's so sweet.
This is a good example of, like, the depth
That can come with time.
How much we've grown, and gotten closer,
And connected is, like, insane.
So if you give me five months, if you give me five years,
It's just gonna get better.
The depth and connection that we can build
Is [bleep] incredible.
So strap in and buckle up
Because it's coming.
- All right, good night.
♪ ♪
[soft music]
♪ ♪
- What a night. Our last night in paradise.
I sound pretty tired at this point.
- I know, me too.
It's our last night,
And who's to say how our honeymoon
Should go, you know, but us.
- [sighs]
- Wow, you're so tired.
No, it was really good. It was up, it was down.
But I had fun.
I learned a lot about us.
And I'm still happier being married
Than being single in the streets.
- Absolutely. Absolutely.
I know that I'm a lot.
I've thrown some intensely mixed signals
At you literally on the same day.
So I think the best thing you can do
Is really to try to thread that needle.
Don't put so much pressure on me that you shut me down.
- Yeah.
- But, don't just always give me the free pass either.
You know what I mean? Like, you know?
- Yeah.
- Yeah, just continue to be clear,
But also hold me accountable.
- Okay. I can do that.
- I asked for someone to challenge me.
- I also asked for someone to challenge me,
But to be honest with you,
I would like a husband that wants me.
♪ ♪
It's fine that we're having a rocky start,
But as long as we continue to move forward
In the physical affection department,
Which we are every day, I'm happy.
And I feel like that's happening.
So thank you. - You're welcome.
- Brush teeth, get ready for bed, cuddle.
That's where I'm at.
- Absolutely. - Okay.
- ♪ you live to feel the love ♪
♪ that won't ever change ♪
♪ ♪
[upbeat music]
- ♪ we made it ♪
♪ everything we needed tonight ♪
♪ ♪
- Why do you have it out for morgan in particular,
Is my question?
- I don't have it out for morgan.
I just don't like the fact that like, I know binh,
You know what I'm saying? Binh reminds me a lot of me.
I can see in his face that, like, something's off.
I can immediately see it.
And so when we were at the dinner table
And his wife was saying, oh this, that, and the other,
Compared to what he told me, I feel like she's being fake.
- I know you feel so much about binh.
And I know you're, like, invested into your friendship,
But my concern is with you.
You always thinking you have to save somebody, baby.
And it's like, I've been in that spot, baby.
But I'm your wife, you know?
And it's just like, I love that you care
So much about everybody else.
But he looked so uncomfortable.
And it's not your job to be his voice.
It's not.
I know it's tough for you. I know it's so tough for you.
But you can't do that, baby.
Okay?
[soft music]
- I feel bad 'cause, like--
Our experience is so perfect.
♪ ♪
What I'm trying to say is, like, I know he's his own man,
You know what I'm saying?
But like, out of all the grooms in this,
He wanted this [bleep] as bad as I did,
And we talked about that.
So like, for him to get the opposite--
He wasn't necessarily cheated, but he was.
Not by the expert, by her.
Because she wasn't being authentic,
She wasn't being real.
And so like, to see my friend--
- I know. - Hurt.
- I know.
- You know what I'm saying, like--
It breaks my heart, and I feel like I got
To step up and back him up, but I--
- Baby, you can't stop people from hurting
By hurting for them.
You can't do that. - You're right.
- And I know it's hard for you to be selfish,
Because you are so selfless, but, babe,
You hurting for him is not adding any value.
It's not.
- Yeah, you're right.
I'm sorry.
- No, no.
♪ ♪
You so worried about bihn,
You're gonna go join them in their marriage...
- Oh, I did.
[bleep], me and stacia caught that [bleep].
You just wouldn't repeat it.
Say it again. I dare you to say it.
- Mm-hmm. You gonna soften up.
- Huh? - I love you.
- Say that one more time? - I do.
- You what? - You all right now.
You pushing it now, like-- get off me, you are pushing it.
- Hold up, hold up, hold up. Say it one more time, baby?
I...
- Think you a soft-ass [bleep].
[laughing]
- Hold up, I want to hear--
- I think you are soft and you cry way too much,
You cocomelon face ass.
- You talking all that [bleep]. What'd you say?
- I do love you. - You love me?
- Justin tyrrell tree hall.
♪ ♪
Now get out my face, hon. Get ready for bed.
- Got me showing all 32 teeth, you can tell...
[bleep]. Shh, I can go to sleep now.
She even told me she loved me.
- You so corny. I take it back.
I rescind all love.
- You love all of this, babe.
- Ooh, [bleep], she even told me love me, ooh.
Look, watch this, babe.
[upbeat music]
- Ooh, I can do the chris brown.
- You get one a year.
You better--you should have recorded it
While you had the chance because I'm not fitt'n nuh to say it.
- One is enough.
My wife told me she loves me.
- ♪ you can say what you want every day ♪
♪ is money, money, money, money ♪
- Oh, my god.
[upbeat music]
♪ ♪
- Thank you.
- It's good vanilla latte?
- No. - Three shots of espresso.
- That's why I'm ready to go home,
So I can use my espresso machine and make my lattes.
- How do you think the honeymoon went?
- I think it went well.
- We had some serious conversations.
- Oh, yeah, we had to.
It had to come out, and it was challenging.
And, like, it needed to happen. - Yep.
- We came into this process head on, both of us.
And so it's only natural that we handled it that way
Because that's just who we are.
It sucks that it happened on our honeymoon,
But I'm glad it happened regardless.
I feel like we can, like, move past it and, like,
Make something out of it, you know?
- Morgan has taught me a lot, and sometimes,
I can be judgmental of some circumstances.
And I need to be more open in this process,
Just in life in general.
I think there's a lot of things
That we have to talk, and discuss,
And see how it happens in the real world
'cause right now we're on a honeymoon.
- Just--it's gonna be a slow process,
Like, build back up.
But I think we can-- I think we can do it.
I think we can handle it.
- We're strong people.
- We're very strong people, both of us.
And that's why I think I'm sticking around
Because I know that you do care,
And we both care very deeply for each other.
So this honeymoon was more than just a honeymoon for us.
- Yeah.
I can't reiterate how many times I apologize,
But it's my actions that will do the talking.
- Yeah.
- All I can say is, I'm sorry, and move on,
And try to earn your trust back.
- Yeah.
♪ ♪
- So we're [bleep] moving in together.
- I can't wait. I'm looking forward to it.
- Yeah.
- Last day in puerto vallarta.
Pretty sad that it's over.
But also really happy that in a sense,
Another adventure begins.
If you will, like, the adventure begins.
- So do you have any, like, concerns right off the bat
About moving in?
Like, anything you need to tell me
Or you know about yourself, or...
- Nope.
- So one of my concerns is actually
If you're gonna resent me when I'm not working.
Because I have that flexibility,
I've fought for that flexibility.
And it's really important to me to just, like,
Do whatever I want to do on those days
And not feel judged or controlled
In any way, shape, or form for, like, what I do.
Like, if I spend money, if I don't spend money.
You've got to be gentle with how I choose
To spend my free time.
If I go to the beach, if I lay in bed all day,
I drive down to mexico for the day.
Like, maybe I'm with my girls that night.
Is it going to bother you,
Or are you gonna be happy for me?
I am bringing this as a concern
Because I just would hate--
- You worry too much.
Let's not get too far ahead of ourselves
Creating all these, you know--
- Hypothetical issues when they might not be at all.
- Exactly. - That's true.
- And then we're already kind of like setting up
A tone or a narrative that doesn't even exist.
Now I feel perfectly fine with lindy.
She's my wife. I don't want that to change.
But we still haven't lived together.
We haven't had our day-to-days together.
We don't know how we fight together.
I'd be full of [bleep] if I was to tell you,
Oh, yeah, I already know.
No, I don't know, right?
And that's the way things are structured.
Like, we shall see.
- I'm just communicating with you, like,
A potential trigger for me is if you come at me.
So don't 'cause I will...
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- So last night was fun. - Yeah.
- I enjoyed our alone time when we got back up here.
- Me too.
- That might have been the first full night
Where I feel like we were really cuddling
Almost all night and all morning,
And it made me really happy, so...
- Yeah, me too.
You know, we had a moment last night, but--
- We had a moment.
- We're still showing restraint.
We want to make sure that we're moving--
- Yeah.
- Slow and steady wins the race.
- Exactly.
- Slow and steady wins the race.
- It would have been very easy and natural to continue,
But I just want to make sure
That we keep going the route we're going.
- That's all. - Yeah.
- Just so you know, I was feeling it.
- Me too. Oh, yeah, me too, yep.
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- I'm in such a different place.
I mean, it's amazing what a few days in paradise
With a great girl can do.
And I'm looking forward to getting home
And really just getting into a true everyday rhythm
With my wife.
- This was a wild ride.
Sorry.
In a really good way. I was certainly not bored.
You kept me on my toes.
I don't know what each day kind of brings,
But I do it's getting better and better,
And I have a lot of hope for us.
And I feel really good. - Me too.
I don't think there's ever gonna be a dull moment.
- No. - Not with us.
Not with you, like, nope.
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- All right, bye, paradise.
- ♪ summer's gone ♪
- There we go. Oh, god.
It's, like, almost heavier than me.
- Back to the real world we go.
- I'm barefoot. [laughter]
- Back to san diego.
- ♪ we're gonna live until forever ♪
♪ ♪
- ♪ one day you'll see ♪
- Next time on "married at first sight."
- Oh, my god, look-- what the [bleep] is--
- This will be our first compromise,
I'll do my laundry before 4:00 p.M.
- That's love. [laughter]
- One free bubble bath with wifey.
- I already know I'm gonna fall in love with him,
And your girl is ready to take things home,
If you will.
- Hey, mr. Newton. Wanna say hello to miss mya?
[dogs yelping]
- No!
- I can't talk about feelings if I don't
Have feelings for somebody.
It's just--it is what it is.
- Decision day is a trigger word for me.
- I want to be very realistic.
- When trust is broken, out, gone.
- What happened to you to stop letting people in?
- Don't make me cry.
- His eye, baby, it's bleeding. Cut him.
I'm not gonna stay where I don't feel safe.
So I will not be with justin.
[dramatic music]
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