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- Hi.
- Hi there.
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- Nice to meet you.
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- 10 singles took a daring
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Leap of faith to find love.
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They married
complete strangers.
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[cheers and applause]
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- I'm a whole wife.
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It's official.
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All: Arriba!
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- Last time, the honeymoon
came to an end
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In more ways than one.
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- ♪ okay, all right ♪
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- Lindy and miguel.
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- If you give me five months,
if you give me five years,
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It's just gonna get better.
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The depth and connection
that we can build
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Is [bleep] incredible.
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- ♪ extra, extra extravagant ♪
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- Krysten and mitch.
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- We had a moment last night.
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- It would have been very easy
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And natural to continue.
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But I just want to make sure
that we--
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We keep going
in the route we're going.
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That's all.
- Yeah.
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- Yeah.
- Just so you know,
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I was feeling it.
- Oh, me too.
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- All right.
- Oh, me too.
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- Alexis and justin.
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- What did you say?
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- I do love you.
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- You love me?
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[bleep], I can go to sleep now.
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She done told me--
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She done told me she loved me.
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- You're so corny.
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I take it back.
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I rescind all love.
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- Morgan and binh.
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- This is gonna be
a slow process to, like,
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Build back up,
but I think we can--
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I think we can do it.
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I think we can handle it.
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- All I can say is I'm sorry,
and--and move on, and try
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To earn your trust back.
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- Yeah.
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- Stacia and nate.
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- I'm falling in love with you.
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And it's real.
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- What?
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I definitely deserve love,
and so does he.
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But I come with a lot.
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And I don't know if he knows
the depths of that.
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- ♪ going home,
we're going home ♪
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- This is crazy.
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- And tonight, the honeymoon
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Is officially over.
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- We'll be a little while.
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- And real life
is about to begin.
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- "I'm the happiest
I've ever been.
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"one day at a time.
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Love, your wifey."
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Thanks, babe.
- Mm.
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- How are you supposed
to introduce dogs?
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- Do you want to say
hello to miss mya?
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[dogs barking, whining]
- what happened?
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- I'm trying to win you back.
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- When trust is broken,
I'm out.
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Gone.
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- You've been just telling...
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- Surface-level things.
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- Surface-level stuff.
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It makes me question
if he knows
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How to even be vulnerable.
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- I don't want to know when
you're pulling away from me,
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'cause then it feels
like a punishment.
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I need you to keep that
to yourself.
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- I don't know
if I can do that.
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♪ ♪
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- I'm having a hard time
trusting what he says.
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It makes me want
to just, like, run.
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I'm not gonna stay anywhere
that I don't feel safe.
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- [sniffs]
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♪ ♪
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- ♪ it's all or nothing ♪
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- This is
"married at first sight."
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- ♪ there's no other way ♪
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♪ ♪
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♪ it's all or nothing ♪
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[upbeat music]
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♪ ♪
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- Goodbye, mexico.
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It's been fun.
It's been real.
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But I'm ready to get back
to like--
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- Settle down.
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- And I'm ready to get back
to my animals.
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- Yeah, our babies.
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- Speaking for myself,
I'm thankful to have
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This woman by my side.
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I'm thankful that she--
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I don't know.
What's the word?
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I'm thankful--
- patient?
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[laughs]
- yeah.
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I'm thankful that you were--
you've been patient with me.
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We're just gonna try to get
through this plane ride,
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Get home.
- Yep.
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- And then,
apparently move right
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Into a new apartment, which
is actually pretty exciting.
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- Yeah.
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- But you know,
one thing at a time.
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- Baby steps.
- Baby steps.
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- That's what works for us.
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And it's working well, so we're
just gonna keep doing that.
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- Because I'm a big baby.
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- [chuckles]
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♪ ♪
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- I honestly think
I grew as an individual.
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And we grew as...
- A couple.
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- As a couple, as a marriage.
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And I can't wait
to move in with you.
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- Yeah.
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- [snoring]
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[upbeat music]
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- ♪ a big smile on your face ♪
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- How's it going?
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- I am excited
to see the place.
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- Oh, isn't that cute?
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- Oh, m and l.
I like it with the lowercase.
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That's cute.
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- Oh, wow.
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I love the doormat.
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- This is crazy.
- I know.
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This is a whole house.
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- For us.
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- The honeymoon
is literally over.
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And it's time for real life
to start as our couples
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Move in together.
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- Oh, my gosh.
This bed is big.
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- Yeah, it's king size.
- Whoo!
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Blessings.
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- We provide each couple
with a neutral living space
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To start their marriage
on equal footing.
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But cohabitating
may not be easy.
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- No shoes in the house.
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- Dang, I got rules already?
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- Yes, we need structure.
- All right, that's fair.
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- We need structure.
- I can do that.
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- They got to know each
other on the honeymoon.
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But there is still
so much more to learn
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As they merge their lives
together under one roof.
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- This is an issue.
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I generally don't do this--
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- Tv in the bedroom?
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- 'cause I'm never gonna want
to leave bed.
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- This first night
in their shared apartment
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Is the start of a new chapter.
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- This gonna be enough room
for you?
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- For now.
- You got that much stuff?
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- And only they can
determine if it will
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Be filled with romance
or strife.
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- Wish we had
our wedding pictures.
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- Yeah.
I think they turned out good.
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I hope they turned out good.
- I hope they did too.
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- And in less than
seven weeks,
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They must decide whether
they want to stay married
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Or get a divorce.
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[soft music]
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- Oh, wait.
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There's only one sink.
- So...
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- Wait.
- Who's gonna share what?
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Hold on.
- Wait, wait.
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Hold on.
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- We got to really
figure this out.
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- Hold up.
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Hold on, now.
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Like, I want an area for,
like, all my skincare stuff,
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Toothpaste, toothbrush,
all my hair care products.
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- What about my stuff?
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- Yeah.
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You have drawers.
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- So you're gonna have
all your stuff
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All over this little sink.
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And I have to put mine
in the drawer?
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Selfish.
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- [laughing] no, it's not.
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- It's selfish.
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♪ ♪
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- Let's just lay down
for a while.
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♪ ♪
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- You got a little excited when
we first walked in the door.
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- What do you mean?
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- You were like, ahh!
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- I was excited, yes.
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- You was hella giggling too.
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I like when--
- it's a new space.
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- I like when you laugh.
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I like when you laugh
because I can tell,
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Like, you're excited.
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- You like when I get excited?
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- Yeah.
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- It's a new place.
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- It's clean too.
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- A new, like, area for us.
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It's like real new and modern
and clean and white and...
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[both laughing]
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I like it to be clean.
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I like shoes off in the house.
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- Shoes off, yeah.
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- I don't like stuff
all over the place--
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Putting the toilet seat down.
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- [chuckles]
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- Please.
- That's easy. That's easy.
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I do leave a couple of dishes,
like, just hanging.
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And I don't like
doing the laundry.
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So I'll be honest with you,
sometimes,
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Like, when I'm really
tired from the gym,
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I just want to lay down.
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So that's probably something
that you might not like.
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- Lay down in the bed,
under the covers?
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- I mean, those are easy things
that I can correct.
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- I'm trying to just
be a team player.
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But I'm gonna be watching.
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♪ ♪
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- I'm sleeping with my clothes
on, that's how tired I am.
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- You just gonna stay
on your side, right?
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- [chuckling] yeah.
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[upbeat music]
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- So this is gonna
be your first time
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Living with somebody else?
- Yeah.
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- But we did go on
vacation together.
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And I only left
the seat up once.
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- Once.
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- Out of how many days?
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- Not only did you leave
the seat up, you didn't flush.
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- But it was a pee.
- And I'm like--
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- But it was a pee.
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It was a pee, not a poop.
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- I'm gonna leave
my pee in there
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One time,
see how you feel about it.
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[laughs]
- I guess.
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- I wouldn't say
I'm super clean.
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My place looks lived-in,
but I'm not messy.
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- What time do you
normally do laundry?
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- Usually, when I, like,
wake up the next day.
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- Oh, that's perfect.
- Yeah.
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- Just as long
as it's before 4:00 p.M.
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4:00 to 9:00 is peak hours.
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You get charged
the most for that.
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- Oh, my god.
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[quirky music]
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- You probably save,
like, $2 a month
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If you do it that way.
- All right.
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This will be our
first compromise.
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I'll do my laundry
before 4:00 p.M.
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- That's love.
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[laughter]
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- I got you.
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- Are we gonna have to unplug
things after 4:00?
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- If you can.
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- What things
in this apartment
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Would you like unplugged
after 4:00 p.M.?
262
00:07:57,202 --> 00:07:59,644
- The gaming system.
263
00:07:59,796 --> 00:08:01,037
Actually,
you'll be playing it, huh,
264
00:08:01,130 --> 00:08:02,372
During 4:00 to 9:00? Okay.
265
00:08:02,465 --> 00:08:03,297
- Yes.
- That's fine. That's fine.
266
00:08:03,317 --> 00:08:04,541
Yeah.
- I'm like--[laughs]
267
00:08:04,559 --> 00:08:05,558
- That's fine.
- That's not gonna work.
268
00:08:05,711 --> 00:08:06,485
- Okay.
- What else?
269
00:08:06,636 --> 00:08:07,635
- The air fryer.
270
00:08:07,654 --> 00:08:09,713
- Okay, yeah.
- Minimal lights.
271
00:08:09,806 --> 00:08:11,898
It's san diego,
so probably till 6:00.
272
00:08:11,992 --> 00:08:14,884
The sun's up, so we can turn
all the lights off until then.
273
00:08:14,978 --> 00:08:17,554
- So no lights on
before 6:00 p.M.
274
00:08:17,572 --> 00:08:19,889
♪ ♪
275
00:08:19,983 --> 00:08:22,149
Okay, that's nice.
- Trust, trust.
276
00:08:22,244 --> 00:08:24,077
Pinky promise.
- [groans]
277
00:08:24,229 --> 00:08:28,507
♪ ♪
278
00:08:28,734 --> 00:08:29,916
- I'm tired.
That was a long flight.
279
00:08:30,010 --> 00:08:31,417
- I agree.
280
00:08:31,570 --> 00:08:32,418
- I'm just gonna go, like,
take a shower...
281
00:08:32,571 --> 00:08:33,661
- You gonna shower? Okay.
282
00:08:33,680 --> 00:08:34,587
- And, like, pass out.
- All right.
283
00:08:34,681 --> 00:08:35,663
I'll turn off all the lights.
284
00:08:35,757 --> 00:08:37,090
And then I'll shower after you.
285
00:08:37,242 --> 00:08:38,332
- Okay.
- Okay.
286
00:08:38,352 --> 00:08:40,410
- You do that.
287
00:08:40,428 --> 00:08:43,580
♪ ♪
288
00:08:43,598 --> 00:08:45,840
Are you actually serious?
289
00:08:45,859 --> 00:08:46,841
[both laughing]
- I know, right?
290
00:08:46,860 --> 00:08:48,676
- That is ridiculous.
291
00:08:48,695 --> 00:08:49,753
I am showering
with the lights on.
292
00:08:49,846 --> 00:08:51,345
Thank you.
293
00:08:51,365 --> 00:08:54,440
[soft music]
294
00:08:54,593 --> 00:08:55,942
- This is definitely nicer
than my place,
295
00:08:56,036 --> 00:08:57,685
In terms of amenities.
296
00:08:57,779 --> 00:08:59,037
- Mine as well.
297
00:08:59,264 --> 00:09:00,205
Oh, do you have
a dishwasher now?
298
00:09:00,356 --> 00:09:01,540
Me either.
299
00:09:01,691 --> 00:09:03,041
- Getting a little
emotional right now.
300
00:09:03,192 --> 00:09:04,709
[laughter]
301
00:09:04,936 --> 00:09:11,866
♪ ♪
302
00:09:11,885 --> 00:09:13,051
- [laughing] oh, my god.
303
00:09:13,278 --> 00:09:14,052
- What?
304
00:09:14,203 --> 00:09:15,220
- [laughing] what is that?
305
00:09:15,447 --> 00:09:18,557
- Oh.
306
00:09:18,708 --> 00:09:19,707
Remember in the honeymoon
suite when there was,
307
00:09:19,726 --> 00:09:21,618
Like, a bowl of condoms?
- Yeah.
308
00:09:21,636 --> 00:09:22,619
- I definitely took some.
309
00:09:22,637 --> 00:09:24,304
- Okay.
310
00:09:24,456 --> 00:09:26,064
That's interesting.
311
00:09:26,291 --> 00:09:28,716
So much has happened
in one week of marriage.
312
00:09:28,735 --> 00:09:30,627
We have gone on a honeymoon.
313
00:09:30,720 --> 00:09:31,903
And now we're
moving in together,
314
00:09:32,130 --> 00:09:34,631
And condoms are just
falling all over the place.
315
00:09:34,724 --> 00:09:35,632
- Oh, this is comfy.
This is like--
316
00:09:35,650 --> 00:09:37,150
- Isn't it comfy?
317
00:09:37,302 --> 00:09:39,485
- I feel like the king in
the chambers over here.
318
00:09:39,638 --> 00:09:40,970
- I'm feeling optimistic.
319
00:09:41,064 --> 00:09:43,898
And I just have
a feeling like real life
320
00:09:43,992 --> 00:09:45,750
Is gonna be really good for us.
321
00:09:45,977 --> 00:09:48,995
I'm almost, like, enjoying
our journey even more,
322
00:09:49,147 --> 00:09:51,815
Because it's unique
and different and not perfect,
323
00:09:51,833 --> 00:09:54,909
Than I would if we were
just like instantly perfect,
324
00:09:55,003 --> 00:09:57,095
And there was no hard times.
325
00:09:57,322 --> 00:09:59,080
Like, that's not the journey
that I want
326
00:09:59,174 --> 00:10:00,432
And that I think
is right for us.
327
00:10:00,659 --> 00:10:04,436
So I just want to say,
I'm just--yeah, of course.
328
00:10:04,663 --> 00:10:06,771
I'm just like really,
really, really happy.
329
00:10:06,923 --> 00:10:07,847
- I'm so glad.
- Yeah.
330
00:10:07,999 --> 00:10:10,108
- Me too. I feel great.
331
00:10:10,335 --> 00:10:11,759
I mean, I'm just so happy
that I don't feel
332
00:10:11,853 --> 00:10:13,427
The way I felt a week ago.
333
00:10:13,447 --> 00:10:16,114
Because every day was torture
having that pent-up
334
00:10:16,265 --> 00:10:17,616
Kind of guilt
and disappointment.
335
00:10:17,767 --> 00:10:19,859
And just, like, it's so
different now for me.
336
00:10:19,953 --> 00:10:20,935
And I just need you to know
that like, I'm--
337
00:10:21,029 --> 00:10:22,269
- Good.
- I'm really happy.
338
00:10:22,364 --> 00:10:23,529
- Yay!
- I'm happy right now.
339
00:10:23,682 --> 00:10:24,605
I feel comfortable.
340
00:10:24,699 --> 00:10:26,532
I'm, like, digging our new bed.
341
00:10:26,685 --> 00:10:27,775
I'm digging our new digs.
342
00:10:27,794 --> 00:10:29,352
- I'm digging it too.
343
00:10:29,371 --> 00:10:32,689
- And just real talk--like,
us in our little bed with
344
00:10:32,707 --> 00:10:35,191
Our hubby and wifey shirts,
I'm about to--literally
345
00:10:35,284 --> 00:10:38,027
About to puke my brains out.
- [laughs]
346
00:10:38,046 --> 00:10:40,639
- But I'm just learning to just
accept that side of myself.
347
00:10:40,790 --> 00:10:42,365
It's cute.
We're cute.
348
00:10:42,458 --> 00:10:43,624
- Yeah, you have it.
- Screw it.
349
00:10:43,644 --> 00:10:44,976
- It's okay.
- We're cute.
350
00:10:45,128 --> 00:10:48,204
[soft music]
351
00:10:48,223 --> 00:10:49,964
- What do you think is missing
just looking at here?
352
00:10:50,058 --> 00:10:51,875
Like, this is my house.
353
00:10:51,893 --> 00:10:54,394
I'm missing what?
- This is my house.
354
00:10:54,546 --> 00:10:56,379
And I'm missing two animals
355
00:10:56,472 --> 00:10:57,714
That should be on the floor
right now.
356
00:10:57,807 --> 00:10:59,473
But I like it.
It's a high ceiling.
357
00:10:59,493 --> 00:11:01,885
So I ain't going around hitting
my head on ceiling fans.
358
00:11:01,903 --> 00:11:03,161
- That's things
tall people notice.
359
00:11:03,388 --> 00:11:06,665
- Yes, exactly,
that's tall people problems.
360
00:11:06,892 --> 00:11:08,166
♪ ♪
361
00:11:08,317 --> 00:11:11,002
- Are you having concerns
about living together?
362
00:11:11,229 --> 00:11:13,730
- Mm...
363
00:11:13,748 --> 00:11:15,415
Not really, not
anything that really
364
00:11:15,567 --> 00:11:16,916
Crossing my mind right now.
365
00:11:17,010 --> 00:11:19,326
- Once we start to live in it,
it'll feel like home.
366
00:11:19,346 --> 00:11:21,179
- I need to mess it up a little
bit, put some dog hair
367
00:11:21,330 --> 00:11:22,180
On the table or something.
368
00:11:22,407 --> 00:11:23,848
- The dogs.
369
00:11:24,075 --> 00:11:26,259
The dogs, that would definitely
make it feel like home.
370
00:11:26,353 --> 00:11:27,835
How could I forget that?
371
00:11:27,854 --> 00:11:28,853
I think they could be besties.
372
00:11:29,080 --> 00:11:30,355
- I hope so.
373
00:11:30,582 --> 00:11:32,023
That will probably just
be my only concern.
374
00:11:32,250 --> 00:11:34,250
I know, sometimes, like,
mya, it takes her a minute
375
00:11:34,269 --> 00:11:35,418
To come around.
376
00:11:35,437 --> 00:11:36,361
It's gonna be baby steps.
377
00:11:36,512 --> 00:11:39,197
And it's just brand new,
you know,
378
00:11:39,424 --> 00:11:41,107
And we just kind of
throwing them in it, you know.
379
00:11:41,259 --> 00:11:42,608
So that's probably
my only concern.
380
00:11:42,703 --> 00:11:43,535
- Kind of like us.
381
00:11:43,762 --> 00:11:44,928
- Yeah.
382
00:11:44,946 --> 00:11:46,596
But I mean, they
may not click like us.
383
00:11:46,614 --> 00:11:47,597
You know?
384
00:11:47,615 --> 00:11:50,433
♪ ♪
385
00:11:50,452 --> 00:11:53,269
[upbeat music]
386
00:11:53,288 --> 00:11:54,379
- Oh, my gosh.
387
00:11:54,530 --> 00:11:55,714
We have to talk
about tweety bird.
388
00:11:55,941 --> 00:11:57,440
- Yeah.
389
00:11:57,459 --> 00:12:00,135
It's gonna be interesting
'cause I'm allergic to cats.
390
00:12:02,130 --> 00:12:03,463
So we'll see how that--
391
00:12:03,615 --> 00:12:05,782
- So do you take, like,
benadryl or allegra?
392
00:12:05,875 --> 00:12:08,184
- No, I just exclude cats
from my life.
393
00:12:09,712 --> 00:12:11,212
- Is this, like, an issue?
394
00:12:11,231 --> 00:12:12,638
'cause I'm--that's worrisome.
395
00:12:12,733 --> 00:12:14,048
Like...
- [laughs]
396
00:12:14,142 --> 00:12:15,291
- I'm not allergic to cats.
397
00:12:15,384 --> 00:12:16,309
I'm just messing with you.
- Miguel!
398
00:12:16,461 --> 00:12:18,236
You are the worst.
- Yeah, I am.
399
00:12:18,463 --> 00:12:19,812
That's actually kind
of cool, too, right?
400
00:12:19,965 --> 00:12:23,132
Like, it's our new living
space, but it's also tweety's,
401
00:12:23,151 --> 00:12:24,075
Like, new living space.
402
00:12:24,302 --> 00:12:25,468
- Oh, yeah.
403
00:12:25,561 --> 00:12:26,727
This is the "we'll see" part
in action.
404
00:12:26,747 --> 00:12:28,079
It's real now.
405
00:12:28,231 --> 00:12:31,065
We're sitting here on
our couch, in our home.
406
00:12:31,159 --> 00:12:32,325
Arguments are gonna come.
407
00:12:32,419 --> 00:12:33,901
Disagreements are gonna come.
408
00:12:33,995 --> 00:12:37,255
- From my point of view, it's--
409
00:12:37,482 --> 00:12:40,425
We know that there
is decision day, right?
410
00:12:40,652 --> 00:12:42,652
Like, we have to see,
at the end of the day,
411
00:12:42,745 --> 00:12:44,078
If we can be happy
with each other
412
00:12:44,097 --> 00:12:47,581
And truly, you know,
make this marriage work.
413
00:12:47,675 --> 00:12:48,992
[tense music]
414
00:12:49,085 --> 00:12:50,843
- Decision day
is a trigger word for me.
415
00:12:50,937 --> 00:12:52,419
- Right.
- I hate it.
416
00:12:52,514 --> 00:12:53,921
I know we should talk about it.
417
00:12:53,940 --> 00:12:54,922
I can't.
418
00:12:55,016 --> 00:12:56,257
I--like, just don't.
419
00:12:56,276 --> 00:12:57,258
I don't want to hear about it.
420
00:12:57,277 --> 00:12:58,943
And that's real.
421
00:12:59,095 --> 00:13:02,096
The timeline and stuff,
that just, it stresses me out.
422
00:13:02,190 --> 00:13:03,673
It puts pressure on me.
423
00:13:03,766 --> 00:13:05,358
- I bring it up very much
intentionally,
424
00:13:05,510 --> 00:13:08,119
Because it is something
integral.
425
00:13:08,271 --> 00:13:09,454
Like, there's no step
of the way--
426
00:13:09,605 --> 00:13:11,030
- There's an end.
- No, no, no.
427
00:13:11,124 --> 00:13:12,348
Not that there's an end.
428
00:13:12,367 --> 00:13:14,851
I'm not looking for an out.
429
00:13:14,869 --> 00:13:16,519
I'm not looking for an end.
430
00:13:16,538 --> 00:13:18,688
- So then why bring up
decision day?
431
00:13:18,706 --> 00:13:20,023
♪ ♪
432
00:13:20,116 --> 00:13:21,782
- I want to be very realistic.
433
00:13:21,876 --> 00:13:23,450
Will you want to continue this?
434
00:13:23,470 --> 00:13:24,469
Will I want to continue this?
435
00:13:24,696 --> 00:13:25,862
- Yeah.
436
00:13:25,955 --> 00:13:27,213
And I will just reiterate,
I did not
437
00:13:27,365 --> 00:13:28,531
Take this marriage lightly.
438
00:13:28,624 --> 00:13:29,456
So to me, it doesn't
even make sense,
439
00:13:29,551 --> 00:13:30,700
Because we're having fun.
440
00:13:30,793 --> 00:13:31,551
We're getting to know
each other.
441
00:13:31,645 --> 00:13:32,811
We're connecting.
442
00:13:32,962 --> 00:13:35,371
If we keep having
that conversation, like,
443
00:13:35,390 --> 00:13:37,707
We could very well have
the tendency
444
00:13:37,800 --> 00:13:39,725
To, like, spin out on things.
445
00:13:39,820 --> 00:13:41,894
- So we're not gonna talk
about decision day at all?
446
00:13:41,988 --> 00:13:42,895
- No.
447
00:13:43,048 --> 00:13:46,899
♪ ♪
448
00:13:47,052 --> 00:13:48,885
- I'm in this, obviously.
449
00:13:48,978 --> 00:13:51,404
I'm excited to share
a living space
450
00:13:51,498 --> 00:13:52,831
With someone that I care about
451
00:13:53,058 --> 00:13:55,834
And, you know,
see if it truly works.
452
00:13:56,061 --> 00:13:59,671
♪ ♪
453
00:14:04,177 --> 00:14:06,903
- ♪ I fell in love
with a girl I didn't know ♪
454
00:14:06,921 --> 00:14:09,681
♪ yeah, she told me
that she'd seen me ♪
455
00:14:09,832 --> 00:14:13,500
♪ in a dream she had before ♪
456
00:14:13,595 --> 00:14:14,577
- It's a good day.
457
00:14:14,596 --> 00:14:16,245
We slept well.
458
00:14:16,264 --> 00:14:21,175
But I walk into the
bathroom, and what do I see?
459
00:14:21,269 --> 00:14:23,027
I see the toilet seat up.
460
00:14:23,179 --> 00:14:24,770
Gonna have to work on that,
husband.
461
00:14:24,865 --> 00:14:28,257
[laughing]
462
00:14:28,351 --> 00:14:31,277
Oh, this is gonna be great.
463
00:14:31,371 --> 00:14:36,708
- First morning in our
new apartment together.
464
00:14:36,859 --> 00:14:41,270
And I just found out
that I snore.
465
00:14:41,364 --> 00:14:42,788
I think it's 'cause we're so--
466
00:14:42,883 --> 00:14:45,291
We were so tired after
traveling all day yesterday.
467
00:14:45,443 --> 00:14:46,718
- Girl, in mexico,
you were snoring too.
468
00:14:46,869 --> 00:14:48,035
- Ah, damn!
[laughter]
469
00:14:48,129 --> 00:14:49,462
- I was just trying to...
470
00:14:49,614 --> 00:14:51,114
♪ ♪
471
00:14:51,132 --> 00:14:53,966
[upbeat music]
472
00:14:54,119 --> 00:14:56,135
- ♪ going to see my house ♪
473
00:14:56,229 --> 00:14:57,729
♪ ♪
474
00:14:57,956 --> 00:14:59,122
- No.
- He ain't gonna be there?
475
00:14:59,140 --> 00:15:00,398
- Newton with jackie.
476
00:15:00,625 --> 00:15:01,474
- Why ain't we going
to pick him up?
477
00:15:01,626 --> 00:15:04,293
- He ain't that sufficient.
478
00:15:04,312 --> 00:15:05,628
You think he be up there
cooking meals,
479
00:15:05,721 --> 00:15:07,463
Taking himself out, like...
480
00:15:07,482 --> 00:15:08,464
He's smart, but not that smart.
481
00:15:08,483 --> 00:15:09,465
- No, he ain't that smart.
482
00:15:09,484 --> 00:15:10,483
- He ain't that smart, now.
483
00:15:10,635 --> 00:15:11,634
- I'm excited
to see your place.
484
00:15:11,653 --> 00:15:13,077
- You're excited?
485
00:15:13,229 --> 00:15:15,729
- Our newlyweds are visiting
each other's homes
486
00:15:15,749 --> 00:15:17,823
For the very first time.
487
00:15:17,976 --> 00:15:19,809
- Dang, this place is clean.
488
00:15:19,902 --> 00:15:21,419
- Here's one of my treasures.
489
00:15:21,570 --> 00:15:22,828
Oh, [bleep]. [laughs]
490
00:15:22,981 --> 00:15:24,738
- There's no better way
to get to know
491
00:15:24,758 --> 00:15:26,925
The stranger
they just married,
492
00:15:27,152 --> 00:15:30,503
But I know from experience
that every bachelor's
493
00:15:30,597 --> 00:15:36,100
And bachelorette's pad comes
with its own set of surprises.
494
00:15:36,252 --> 00:15:37,677
- ♪ this my house ♪
495
00:15:37,771 --> 00:15:38,937
- Groovy, baby.
496
00:15:39,088 --> 00:15:40,997
- Let me park my cart.
- All right.
497
00:15:41,090 --> 00:15:42,423
I'm gonna let you
give me a grand tour.
498
00:15:42,442 --> 00:15:44,517
- This is my art corner.
499
00:15:44,669 --> 00:15:46,002
♪ ♪
500
00:15:46,095 --> 00:15:47,428
- I like this.
- That's me.
501
00:15:47,447 --> 00:15:48,504
- That's you?
502
00:15:48,523 --> 00:15:51,449
- See, look.
503
00:15:51,676 --> 00:15:53,267
- That's nice, right there.
I like that.
504
00:15:53,286 --> 00:15:56,028
- This is the vagina that I
talked about at my speech.
505
00:15:56,181 --> 00:15:57,180
- That's a nice vagina.
506
00:15:57,198 --> 00:15:58,272
- Yeah.
507
00:15:58,366 --> 00:15:59,532
- You gonna paint me something?
508
00:15:59,684 --> 00:16:01,275
- You gonna pay me?
509
00:16:01,294 --> 00:16:03,461
- Huh?
510
00:16:03,612 --> 00:16:04,687
- You don't get no
husband discount.
511
00:16:04,706 --> 00:16:05,612
What you thought this was?
512
00:16:05,707 --> 00:16:07,523
This is a business.
513
00:16:07,616 --> 00:16:10,359
50% off,
that's the best I can do.
514
00:16:10,378 --> 00:16:12,695
That's my closet.
515
00:16:12,714 --> 00:16:14,030
I'll catch you if you fall.
516
00:16:14,048 --> 00:16:15,139
- Okay.
517
00:16:15,291 --> 00:16:18,201
[drum roll]
518
00:16:18,219 --> 00:16:19,293
♪ ♪
519
00:16:19,312 --> 00:16:21,537
Good lord, girl.
520
00:16:21,556 --> 00:16:23,539
- [laughing]
521
00:16:23,632 --> 00:16:25,632
- I feel claustrophobic
in here.
522
00:16:25,652 --> 00:16:26,967
Help!
523
00:16:27,061 --> 00:16:28,394
But you can't see nothing.
524
00:16:28,546 --> 00:16:29,729
Good lord, girl,
you can just start
525
00:16:29,881 --> 00:16:31,564
A whole clothing line in here.
526
00:16:31,716 --> 00:16:33,474
I mean, something can jump out
and grab your neck.
527
00:16:33,568 --> 00:16:34,993
Where did that come from?
528
00:16:35,144 --> 00:16:36,494
It's like, you know,
you couldn't see me, you know.
529
00:16:36,645 --> 00:16:37,811
I gotta get out of here.
530
00:16:37,831 --> 00:16:39,497
It is claustrophobic in here.
531
00:16:39,648 --> 00:16:42,074
It overwhelms me,
because it's just a lot.
532
00:16:42,227 --> 00:16:43,501
And it's just not organized.
533
00:16:43,728 --> 00:16:44,818
So that way,
if she's like, baby,
534
00:16:44,912 --> 00:16:46,078
You gonna help me clean?
535
00:16:46,231 --> 00:16:47,672
Not the closet. That's you.
536
00:16:47,823 --> 00:16:48,748
- Can we take this?
537
00:16:48,900 --> 00:16:49,749
- Yes.
538
00:16:49,901 --> 00:16:51,400
- Mm.
539
00:16:51,419 --> 00:16:52,510
I like this.
540
00:16:52,737 --> 00:16:54,328
- I got paw sanitizer
for the dogs
541
00:16:54,347 --> 00:16:56,514
When they come in the house.
- What?
542
00:16:56,741 --> 00:16:58,182
- I do understand
that he is a dog.
543
00:16:58,409 --> 00:17:01,410
But newton is god's gift
to this earth.
544
00:17:01,429 --> 00:17:04,597
Like, he's just an extension
of my maternal instincts.
545
00:17:04,691 --> 00:17:05,839
- Do you really want
to pick out some outfit
546
00:17:05,933 --> 00:17:07,191
For your dog, baby?
547
00:17:07,343 --> 00:17:08,192
- What did you call him?
548
00:17:08,419 --> 00:17:09,510
- Your dog.
549
00:17:09,604 --> 00:17:10,936
- That's super obscene.
550
00:17:11,089 --> 00:17:12,755
- Your four-legged fur baby.
551
00:17:12,774 --> 00:17:14,607
- Divorces 101.
552
00:17:14,701 --> 00:17:16,683
- Divorce ain't happening
in this family, baby girl.
553
00:17:16,703 --> 00:17:18,110
- If you keep calling newton
a dog.
554
00:17:18,263 --> 00:17:19,037
- What is newton?
A creature?
555
00:17:19,264 --> 00:17:20,687
- My child.
556
00:17:20,707 --> 00:17:22,022
Listen, you just woke up
and chose violence.
557
00:17:22,042 --> 00:17:24,042
You was like, today,
I'm gonna upset my wife.
558
00:17:24,193 --> 00:17:25,692
That's what you woke up
and said to yourself?
559
00:17:25,712 --> 00:17:27,937
- Mm-mm.
560
00:17:27,955 --> 00:17:30,623
[upbeat music]
561
00:17:30,717 --> 00:17:33,367
♪ ♪
562
00:17:33,461 --> 00:17:36,537
- Man, this is nice.
563
00:17:36,556 --> 00:17:38,631
Mmm, smells good too.
564
00:17:38,725 --> 00:17:40,040
♪ ♪
565
00:17:40,134 --> 00:17:41,801
- So kitchen's right here.
566
00:17:41,895 --> 00:17:43,210
- Dang, look at this.
567
00:17:43,229 --> 00:17:45,379
This is a big kitchen.
568
00:17:45,398 --> 00:17:46,898
- Okay, come on, babe.
569
00:17:47,125 --> 00:17:48,974
- I can do cartwheels
in this [bleep].
570
00:17:49,127 --> 00:17:50,309
- What do you think about my--
571
00:17:50,403 --> 00:17:52,386
- Did you stage for--
you staged this for me.
572
00:17:52,480 --> 00:17:53,979
- No.
I put that on my bed.
573
00:17:54,074 --> 00:17:56,649
It's just like bedside,
like, art--like, decoration.
574
00:17:56,801 --> 00:17:58,134
- You sure?
575
00:17:58,152 --> 00:17:59,577
You were trying to impress me.
That's so cute.
576
00:17:59,804 --> 00:18:01,746
- No, I literally have this
on my bed every day.
577
00:18:01,897 --> 00:18:03,973
- Okay. That works.
578
00:18:03,991 --> 00:18:05,566
- Can we take this home
to the apartment?
579
00:18:05,585 --> 00:18:06,751
- Yeah.
Of course.
580
00:18:06,978 --> 00:18:09,145
- Can I put all of this
on the bed?
581
00:18:09,163 --> 00:18:11,981
- I mean, this is kind of,
like, overdose right here.
582
00:18:11,999 --> 00:18:13,240
This is a lot of pillows.
583
00:18:13,334 --> 00:18:14,258
- A lot of pillows?
584
00:18:14,410 --> 00:18:15,909
It's decoration.
585
00:18:15,929 --> 00:18:17,503
- But this is a lot.
- It's decoration.
586
00:18:17,655 --> 00:18:18,763
- Where am I gonna lay?
587
00:18:18,990 --> 00:18:20,506
- You don't sleep on
decorative pillows.
588
00:18:20,600 --> 00:18:21,748
- That's cool.
589
00:18:21,768 --> 00:18:22,600
We'll just get, like,
a king bed.
590
00:18:22,751 --> 00:18:24,327
We'll make it happen.
591
00:18:24,420 --> 00:18:26,162
- So I can take this
with us right now?
592
00:18:26,180 --> 00:18:27,346
- Yeah.
Yeah, definitely.
593
00:18:27,498 --> 00:18:28,272
What's in here, bathroom?
594
00:18:28,424 --> 00:18:29,440
- Can I take all this?
595
00:18:29,592 --> 00:18:30,850
- I mean, it's
a little feminine.
596
00:18:31,002 --> 00:18:32,276
Can we, like, switch up
some of the colors?
597
00:18:32,428 --> 00:18:36,172
So that way, it's, like,
a little, like, less girly?
598
00:18:36,190 --> 00:18:38,265
- Sure.
599
00:18:38,359 --> 00:18:39,450
- Bathroom's clean.
600
00:18:39,602 --> 00:18:40,451
Let's see what--
601
00:18:40,603 --> 00:18:42,528
Okay. Toilet's down.
602
00:18:42,680 --> 00:18:43,788
- Yeah.
See, we need to--
603
00:18:44,015 --> 00:18:45,790
- Good job.
- We need to kind of, like,
604
00:18:45,941 --> 00:18:48,017
Work on that "toilet seat down"
type of thing.
605
00:18:48,035 --> 00:18:49,368
- I've been doing good.
606
00:18:49,520 --> 00:18:51,354
- Doing good at leaving it up?
607
00:18:51,372 --> 00:18:53,038
- Yeah. I might mess up
a couple times.
608
00:18:53,133 --> 00:18:54,357
But I mean, is that
a deal breaker for you?
609
00:18:54,375 --> 00:18:55,616
- It's not a deal breaker.
610
00:18:55,635 --> 00:18:57,451
I just don't want to fall
in the toilet.
611
00:18:57,470 --> 00:19:00,529
- Okay, that's fair.
Well, I'll do better.
612
00:19:00,548 --> 00:19:02,381
You got to course correct me
every now and then.
613
00:19:02,533 --> 00:19:03,716
But I'll do better.
- Okay.
614
00:19:03,810 --> 00:19:04,717
- Cool. Deal.
615
00:19:04,869 --> 00:19:06,293
- Deal.
616
00:19:06,312 --> 00:19:08,871
- She really cares
about presentation.
617
00:19:08,890 --> 00:19:11,149
And I do have concerns
about messing up things,
618
00:19:11,376 --> 00:19:12,817
Like leaving
the toilet seat up,
619
00:19:12,968 --> 00:19:14,377
Things like that.
620
00:19:14,395 --> 00:19:16,637
But I want her to be happy
within the household.
621
00:19:16,731 --> 00:19:18,397
Happy wife, happy life.
622
00:19:18,549 --> 00:19:19,806
Is this the coffee maker
you was talking about?
623
00:19:19,826 --> 00:19:21,159
Something like this?
- No.
624
00:19:21,310 --> 00:19:22,551
I don't want that one.
625
00:19:22,570 --> 00:19:25,721
I want a nespresso,
the one that's $700.
626
00:19:25,740 --> 00:19:29,058
- So let's really break down
if this $700 investment
627
00:19:29,151 --> 00:19:30,075
Is actually a real investment.
628
00:19:30,228 --> 00:19:31,577
- Okay.
629
00:19:31,671 --> 00:19:33,245
- You go to a high-end
coffee shop like every day.
630
00:19:33,398 --> 00:19:34,413
You drink coffee every day.
631
00:19:34,565 --> 00:19:36,065
- Yeah.
- So let's just round up.
632
00:19:36,083 --> 00:19:38,176
$6 for a latte.
- Every day.
633
00:19:38,327 --> 00:19:39,568
- And you drink coffee
every day.
634
00:19:39,587 --> 00:19:42,663
So we're looking at
around $200 a month.
635
00:19:42,682 --> 00:19:46,258
So you're spending
$2,400 on fancy coffee.
636
00:19:46,411 --> 00:19:48,186
Is it really an investment?
637
00:19:48,337 --> 00:19:50,596
- Yeah, because I'm spending
$2,400 when I can spend $700.
638
00:19:50,748 --> 00:19:51,931
- All right.
639
00:19:52,083 --> 00:19:53,599
We'll break down the math
a little bit more.
640
00:19:53,693 --> 00:19:54,675
- We just did.
641
00:19:54,769 --> 00:19:56,769
It's 2,400 versus--
642
00:19:56,921 --> 00:19:59,438
Okay, let's put an extra 300
on that for milk.
643
00:19:59,532 --> 00:20:00,756
- Okay.
644
00:20:00,775 --> 00:20:01,774
- Or "sugar."
- right.
645
00:20:01,926 --> 00:20:02,849
- Okay?
646
00:20:02,869 --> 00:20:04,777
So now we're at a max $1,000.
647
00:20:04,871 --> 00:20:05,945
- But the beans.
648
00:20:06,097 --> 00:20:08,280
- I just added another $300.
649
00:20:08,433 --> 00:20:09,765
- But it's gonna be more
than that, you think?
650
00:20:09,784 --> 00:20:10,875
- Okay. What you wanna add?
651
00:20:11,026 --> 00:20:13,285
Another, what,
300 for just coffee?
652
00:20:13,438 --> 00:20:14,286
- Yeah, we might break even.
653
00:20:14,439 --> 00:20:15,438
- Okay.
654
00:20:15,456 --> 00:20:17,790
So we at $1,300 and $2,400.
655
00:20:17,942 --> 00:20:18,865
- All right.
656
00:20:18,960 --> 00:20:20,551
So we're saving $1,000.
657
00:20:20,703 --> 00:20:22,536
- I win.
- I don't know.
658
00:20:22,555 --> 00:20:24,037
We got to really break it down.
- I win.
659
00:20:24,057 --> 00:20:25,372
- Because we're just making--
guessing this right now.
660
00:20:25,391 --> 00:20:27,283
- No, we're not.
- I'm gonna do line item.
661
00:20:27,301 --> 00:20:28,951
I'm gonna bring out the little
excel spreadsheet.
662
00:20:29,044 --> 00:20:30,636
- Okay, bring out the excel.
663
00:20:30,730 --> 00:20:34,065
And then when I'm right,
we gonna go to the store.
664
00:20:34,216 --> 00:20:36,883
- She is truly a diva.
665
00:20:36,903 --> 00:20:38,218
- It's an investment.
666
00:20:38,238 --> 00:20:40,463
I drink coffee
every single day.
667
00:20:40,481 --> 00:20:41,388
- You think it's an investment.
668
00:20:41,482 --> 00:20:42,815
This is our first disagreement.
669
00:20:42,909 --> 00:20:46,318
That's a lot.
670
00:20:46,412 --> 00:20:48,988
[rock music]
671
00:20:49,082 --> 00:20:50,473
♪ ♪
672
00:20:50,566 --> 00:20:51,490
- Ready to see my pad, babe?
673
00:20:51,642 --> 00:20:52,491
- I'm ready.
674
00:20:52,643 --> 00:20:53,809
I'm excited.
675
00:20:53,828 --> 00:20:54,735
I love the little neighborhood.
676
00:20:54,754 --> 00:20:56,495
- Welcome to the beach cabin.
677
00:20:56,589 --> 00:20:57,663
♪ ♪
678
00:20:57,815 --> 00:20:58,739
Chez mitch.
679
00:20:58,758 --> 00:21:00,741
- Ooh.
680
00:21:00,760 --> 00:21:02,167
- Usually hang out in here.
I got--
681
00:21:02,262 --> 00:21:03,261
- Yeah.
682
00:21:03,412 --> 00:21:04,837
Oh, three surf--four.
683
00:21:04,931 --> 00:21:08,599
- I got three surf,
two longboards, one mid-length.
684
00:21:08,751 --> 00:21:09,675
That's the e-bike.
685
00:21:09,827 --> 00:21:11,251
It's my newest toy--
686
00:21:11,271 --> 00:21:13,345
Really been a good
addition to my life.
687
00:21:13,439 --> 00:21:15,180
There's even a back seat that--
I took it off
688
00:21:15,333 --> 00:21:16,832
'cause I wasn't
really riding anyone around.
689
00:21:16,851 --> 00:21:18,851
But there's a back seat
that I put on here, so...
690
00:21:18,945 --> 00:21:20,686
- Luna here, me there.
691
00:21:20,838 --> 00:21:22,113
- Can carry the whole family.
692
00:21:22,340 --> 00:21:23,839
- Do you think it can
support the weight
693
00:21:23,932 --> 00:21:26,117
Of me and the 20-pound dog?
694
00:21:26,268 --> 00:21:27,192
- How much do you weigh?
695
00:21:27,345 --> 00:21:29,120
- We won't discuss that now.
696
00:21:29,347 --> 00:21:30,529
- Yeah, I think it can.
Might be--
697
00:21:30,681 --> 00:21:31,789
- [laughs]
- I might get--
698
00:21:31,940 --> 00:21:33,774
It might be just
a calf workout.
699
00:21:33,793 --> 00:21:35,793
Yeah, so bathroom.
700
00:21:35,944 --> 00:21:36,943
- This is the one bathroom,
right?
701
00:21:36,963 --> 00:21:38,278
- This is it.
702
00:21:38,298 --> 00:21:40,523
It's not the sexiest
room in the house.
703
00:21:40,541 --> 00:21:42,041
My shower looks super dirty.
704
00:21:42,135 --> 00:21:43,784
And it is.
705
00:21:43,803 --> 00:21:45,469
But it also looks dirty
because I water all my plants
706
00:21:45,621 --> 00:21:46,637
In it--bachelor life.
707
00:21:46,864 --> 00:21:48,139
And then wetsuits
are always hanging
708
00:21:48,290 --> 00:21:49,289
Up there so they don't--
709
00:21:49,383 --> 00:21:50,957
- Oh, my dear lord.
710
00:21:50,977 --> 00:21:55,128
I'm definitely thinking
that I'm a much cleaner person
711
00:21:55,148 --> 00:21:56,463
Than my husband.
712
00:21:56,482 --> 00:21:57,648
- Made in the usa.
713
00:21:57,800 --> 00:21:59,466
- Yeah.
- Dancing.
714
00:21:59,485 --> 00:22:02,227
- I am starting to feel
a little anxiety
715
00:22:02,380 --> 00:22:04,137
Just seeing all the stuff
together.
716
00:22:04,157 --> 00:22:05,381
- I just hang on
like this for as long
717
00:22:05,474 --> 00:22:08,217
As I can before
I start shaking.
718
00:22:08,235 --> 00:22:10,069
This is my water machine.
719
00:22:10,221 --> 00:22:11,812
This is gonna be making us
really good water.
720
00:22:11,831 --> 00:22:14,073
I even got fluoride filters.
- Wow.
721
00:22:14,225 --> 00:22:16,742
- Because I don't need
fluoride in my water,
722
00:22:16,894 --> 00:22:18,836
And neither does anyone else
in the entire world.
723
00:22:19,063 --> 00:22:20,671
So yeah, kitchen--
it's pretty small.
724
00:22:20,823 --> 00:22:22,565
It's definitely, like,
a one person at a time.
725
00:22:22,658 --> 00:22:24,324
Obviously, it's falling apart.
726
00:22:24,418 --> 00:22:25,992
My stove's kind of gross.
727
00:22:26,087 --> 00:22:28,995
- Question--when's the last
time you used this bad boy?
728
00:22:29,015 --> 00:22:30,348
- I mean, you can tell
it gets used a lot.
729
00:22:30,499 --> 00:22:31,590
- Okay.
- Yeah.
730
00:22:31,742 --> 00:22:32,591
- I'm just curious.
731
00:22:32,685 --> 00:22:34,352
I will not be happy
732
00:22:34,503 --> 00:22:38,522
In a very cluttered
or dirty environment.
733
00:22:38,674 --> 00:22:39,690
That is my number one.
734
00:22:39,917 --> 00:22:41,174
- And then this room
is just all junk.
735
00:22:41,194 --> 00:22:42,601
- Ah.
736
00:22:42,753 --> 00:22:45,921
- Bikes, bike stuff,
surf stuff, old wetsuits,
737
00:22:46,014 --> 00:22:48,515
Tools, back seats to my car.
738
00:22:48,534 --> 00:22:49,942
- Oh.
739
00:22:50,094 --> 00:22:51,927
- I kind of use it
as a garage, basically.
740
00:22:51,946 --> 00:22:53,186
- I'm still very optimistic.
741
00:22:53,206 --> 00:22:54,947
But I'm not feeling
a lot of peace
742
00:22:55,099 --> 00:22:56,599
And serenity in this space.
743
00:22:56,692 --> 00:22:58,024
- I'm a failed minimalist.
[laughs]
744
00:22:58,119 --> 00:22:59,693
- [laughs]
- I failed.
745
00:22:59,712 --> 00:23:01,620
- No matter how much
I fall in love with this man,
746
00:23:01,772 --> 00:23:05,290
I'm not gonna be able
to come back here again, ever.
747
00:23:05,385 --> 00:23:06,792
[laughing]
748
00:23:06,886 --> 00:23:07,551
♪ ♪
749
00:23:10,723 --> 00:23:12,723
[upbeat music]
750
00:23:12,950 --> 00:23:13,707
- Yeah, here it is.
- Oh, my gosh.
751
00:23:13,801 --> 00:23:15,117
- I know.
- How cute.
752
00:23:15,136 --> 00:23:16,209
[door slams]
oh, [bleep].
753
00:23:16,303 --> 00:23:17,377
- I know. That always--
754
00:23:17,397 --> 00:23:18,787
That's to wake you up
when you walk in.
755
00:23:18,881 --> 00:23:20,639
- I love how open
everything is.
756
00:23:20,733 --> 00:23:21,957
- Right? Yeah.
757
00:23:21,976 --> 00:23:23,717
- Okay, okay.
Very cute.
758
00:23:23,736 --> 00:23:24,810
I want to see the kitchen.
This is like my--
759
00:23:24,962 --> 00:23:26,295
- I know.
760
00:23:26,313 --> 00:23:28,221
This is where the magic
truly happens for me,
761
00:23:28,241 --> 00:23:30,649
'cause as you know,
I like to cook.
762
00:23:30,743 --> 00:23:31,892
- Oh, my gosh.
763
00:23:31,911 --> 00:23:33,485
Is this all of your
workout stuff?
764
00:23:33,638 --> 00:23:35,304
- This dad bod
doesn't come easy.
765
00:23:35,322 --> 00:23:37,322
It takes work.
- Oh, god.
766
00:23:37,417 --> 00:23:38,657
What is this?
767
00:23:38,751 --> 00:23:39,808
- [laughs]
768
00:23:39,827 --> 00:23:40,826
- What is this?
769
00:23:40,920 --> 00:23:42,420
Miguel?
770
00:23:42,571 --> 00:23:44,088
- That is bacon grease,
leftover--
771
00:23:44,239 --> 00:23:46,148
- [gagging]
oh, that's disgusting.
772
00:23:46,241 --> 00:23:47,407
- That is leftover
bacon grease.
773
00:23:47,427 --> 00:23:49,593
- Oh, please, no.
774
00:23:49,745 --> 00:23:51,762
- Hey, nothing goes to waste
in this household.
775
00:23:51,989 --> 00:23:53,839
- You cook with that?
- Sometimes.
776
00:23:53,933 --> 00:23:55,841
- It's so bad for your heart.
- It's not, though.
777
00:23:55,935 --> 00:23:57,918
- You're not cooking any
bacon grease for me, please.
778
00:23:58,012 --> 00:23:59,603
- Okay.
- Okay, let me see.
779
00:23:59,755 --> 00:24:00,754
Show me--what else?
780
00:24:00,773 --> 00:24:02,088
Hold on, is this
where you work?
781
00:24:02,183 --> 00:24:03,590
- Yeah.
- Your desk?
782
00:24:03,609 --> 00:24:04,925
- That is--
that is where I get paid.
783
00:24:05,019 --> 00:24:06,110
- A little dusty. [laughs]
784
00:24:06,337 --> 00:24:08,187
- Oh, it's hella dusty.
It's hella dusty.
785
00:24:08,281 --> 00:24:09,521
But yeah, basically,
I just play with my toys here.
786
00:24:09,615 --> 00:24:10,689
I just like--
787
00:24:10,841 --> 00:24:11,690
- Oh, is that what
you do for work?
788
00:24:11,842 --> 00:24:13,525
You play with toys?
789
00:24:13,678 --> 00:24:14,601
[laughing].
790
00:24:14,620 --> 00:24:17,103
I do see a future with miguel.
791
00:24:17,123 --> 00:24:20,683
And I'm loving seeing
how he lives, seeing
792
00:24:20,701 --> 00:24:22,275
That he's, like, organized.
793
00:24:22,295 --> 00:24:25,537
I love seeing all the different
facets to this person.
794
00:24:25,690 --> 00:24:27,189
There's so many layers.
795
00:24:27,282 --> 00:24:29,358
And it's fun just
unpeeling them.
796
00:24:29,376 --> 00:24:30,693
Oh, my god.
797
00:24:30,786 --> 00:24:34,880
You are, like,
the most complicated...
798
00:24:35,032 --> 00:24:36,623
- Yeah.
- Meat-head.
799
00:24:36,642 --> 00:24:39,201
- This is 52.5 pounds.
800
00:24:39,294 --> 00:24:40,202
- Am I supposed
to be impressed?
801
00:24:40,295 --> 00:24:41,370
- You're supposed
to be impressed.
802
00:24:41,388 --> 00:24:42,462
You're supposed to be,
like, wanting
803
00:24:42,482 --> 00:24:43,722
To tear my clothes off now.
- Wow.
804
00:24:43,874 --> 00:24:44,965
Wow, is this hot in here?
805
00:24:44,984 --> 00:24:46,058
- You're supposed
to be like, "take me.
806
00:24:46,210 --> 00:24:47,467
Take me now."
- oh, lord.
807
00:24:47,561 --> 00:24:49,487
- Which brings me to this room.
808
00:24:49,638 --> 00:24:50,821
- [laughs]
809
00:24:50,973 --> 00:24:52,490
- I will show you
something that I'm super
810
00:24:52,717 --> 00:24:54,566
Passionate about, as you know.
- Oh, okay.
811
00:24:54,660 --> 00:24:58,570
- This is my collection of
"dungeons & dragons" books
812
00:24:58,664 --> 00:24:59,980
To play the game.
813
00:24:59,999 --> 00:25:02,649
Player's handbook,
dungeon master's guide,
814
00:25:02,668 --> 00:25:04,393
And then monster manual.
815
00:25:04,411 --> 00:25:06,837
- These remind me of, like,
my graduate school books.
816
00:25:07,064 --> 00:25:09,732
These are serious.
- These are my bibles.
817
00:25:09,825 --> 00:25:11,491
- That's a little
too sacrilegious.
818
00:25:11,511 --> 00:25:14,327
But I'll allow it.
819
00:25:14,347 --> 00:25:16,238
- But yeah, this book is
actually kind of my favorite.
820
00:25:16,257 --> 00:25:17,422
It has, like, all the monsters.
821
00:25:17,517 --> 00:25:18,849
- Oh, wow.
822
00:25:19,076 --> 00:25:22,261
- Lindy is very accepting
of all my dorky facets.
823
00:25:22,413 --> 00:25:24,337
And in fact, she welcomes them.
824
00:25:24,431 --> 00:25:25,689
When I'm showing her my place,
825
00:25:25,916 --> 00:25:28,100
I'm not afraid
of her perception.
826
00:25:28,252 --> 00:25:29,601
You can keep looking
at my stuff, honey.
827
00:25:29,754 --> 00:25:31,086
I'm gonna go to the restroom
real quick.
828
00:25:31,105 --> 00:25:33,346
Be right back.
- Okay.
829
00:25:33,366 --> 00:25:35,348
- She doesn't want me to feel
ever, like, stifled
830
00:25:35,368 --> 00:25:37,868
Or that I have to hide
an aspect of my personality.
831
00:25:38,020 --> 00:25:38,927
- Oh, my god!
832
00:25:38,946 --> 00:25:39,928
What the--
833
00:25:39,947 --> 00:25:41,263
[laughter]
834
00:25:41,356 --> 00:25:42,614
[laughing] what are you doing?
835
00:25:42,708 --> 00:25:45,100
What the [bleep] is--
836
00:25:45,193 --> 00:25:47,603
- ♪ feel like an animal ♪
837
00:25:47,621 --> 00:25:49,029
- What is this?
838
00:25:49,123 --> 00:25:50,606
What is happening?
839
00:25:50,624 --> 00:25:52,124
- This is my alter ego.
840
00:25:52,276 --> 00:25:54,367
- What is your alter ego?
841
00:25:54,461 --> 00:25:55,611
- This is bear man.
842
00:25:55,629 --> 00:25:56,870
- Bear man?
843
00:25:56,889 --> 00:25:58,280
- The connection
I have with lindy
844
00:25:58,299 --> 00:26:01,633
Has taken me, like,
months to years to foster.
845
00:26:01,786 --> 00:26:03,285
And the fact that I have it--
846
00:26:03,304 --> 00:26:06,063
I don't know--a week or two in
is amazing.
847
00:26:06,214 --> 00:26:07,122
- You're too cute.
848
00:26:07,141 --> 00:26:08,123
I love it.
849
00:26:08,142 --> 00:26:09,625
It's really cute.
850
00:26:09,643 --> 00:26:11,051
We'll save that for later.
851
00:26:11,145 --> 00:26:12,461
- Exactly, exactly.
852
00:26:12,554 --> 00:26:13,386
- [laughing] I'm just kidding.
853
00:26:13,406 --> 00:26:14,387
I'm blushing.
854
00:26:14,407 --> 00:26:15,631
Okay.
855
00:26:15,649 --> 00:26:18,483
[upbeat music]
856
00:26:18,578 --> 00:26:23,822
♪ ♪
857
00:26:23,916 --> 00:26:26,250
[knocking]
858
00:26:26,401 --> 00:26:27,326
- Oh, hey.
859
00:26:27,420 --> 00:26:28,401
- Hey, what's up?
860
00:26:28,421 --> 00:26:30,312
- Come on in.
- Shoes off?
861
00:26:30,331 --> 00:26:31,496
- No, you can leave them on.
I don't really care.
862
00:26:31,591 --> 00:26:33,148
Yeah.
- No, okay.
863
00:26:33,167 --> 00:26:34,983
That's an asian thing.
- Are you gonna take them off?
864
00:26:35,002 --> 00:26:35,818
It's the asian thing, isn't it?
- It's the asian way, yeah.
865
00:26:35,911 --> 00:26:37,077
- That's fine.
That's fine.
866
00:26:37,096 --> 00:26:38,244
- What does this mean?
867
00:26:38,339 --> 00:26:39,913
- It's just a pig.
868
00:26:39,932 --> 00:26:41,098
It's just cute.
869
00:26:41,249 --> 00:26:43,175
I found it,
and it was on clearance,
870
00:26:43,327 --> 00:26:46,252
So I was like, okay, I'll put
that in my kitchen somewhere.
871
00:26:46,347 --> 00:26:47,771
- Pineapples?
- Pineapples,
872
00:26:47,998 --> 00:26:49,273
Because I know
you like pineapples.
873
00:26:49,424 --> 00:26:50,515
- It's my favorite.
- It's a sign.
874
00:26:50,668 --> 00:26:51,683
- Top three fruits.
875
00:26:51,836 --> 00:26:52,684
- Top three fruits
is pineapples.
876
00:26:52,778 --> 00:26:54,169
- Easily.
877
00:26:54,188 --> 00:26:56,672
- And we're taking
the espresso machine.
878
00:26:56,765 --> 00:26:58,431
- This looks like
a lot of electricity.
879
00:26:58,451 --> 00:26:59,675
Holy [bleep].
880
00:26:59,693 --> 00:27:00,692
How many watts?
881
00:27:00,845 --> 00:27:02,861
- Oh, my god.
- [laughs]
882
00:27:03,013 --> 00:27:04,622
- You're not allowed
to take this from me.
883
00:27:04,849 --> 00:27:06,957
- Look how big--
this is triple wire.
884
00:27:07,109 --> 00:27:08,367
- I'm keeping my [bleep]
espresso machine.
885
00:27:08,461 --> 00:27:09,368
- That's fine.
886
00:27:09,462 --> 00:27:10,869
- Yeah.
887
00:27:11,021 --> 00:27:12,521
- Let's take it
to where the magic happens.
888
00:27:12,614 --> 00:27:13,538
- [laughing] it's a bathroom.
889
00:27:13,691 --> 00:27:15,115
That's where the magic happens.
890
00:27:15,134 --> 00:27:17,042
[laughs]
891
00:27:17,194 --> 00:27:19,470
♪ ♪
892
00:27:19,621 --> 00:27:21,363
- Oh, yeah. Oh, yeah.
893
00:27:21,382 --> 00:27:23,215
[voice vibrating]
my back is so messed up--ah!
894
00:27:23,309 --> 00:27:25,142
From the flight.
895
00:27:25,293 --> 00:27:27,293
[laughter]
896
00:27:27,313 --> 00:27:28,220
- From the plane?
897
00:27:28,372 --> 00:27:29,647
- Yeah.
898
00:27:29,874 --> 00:27:30,873
- Oh, yeah.
899
00:27:30,966 --> 00:27:32,875
This thing is, like, powerful.
900
00:27:32,893 --> 00:27:34,877
- So you were put into my life
to do that to my...
901
00:27:34,895 --> 00:27:35,986
- Oh, that's it?
- That's it, I think.
902
00:27:36,138 --> 00:27:37,154
- It's just to massage
your back?
903
00:27:37,381 --> 00:27:38,638
- Right now,
up to this point, yeah.
904
00:27:38,658 --> 00:27:40,306
- All right.
- I definitely appreciate it.
905
00:27:40,326 --> 00:27:41,717
I'll make sure
to charge this every...
906
00:27:41,735 --> 00:27:43,235
- Oh, jeez.
907
00:27:43,387 --> 00:27:44,495
- You said you had a cat?
- Uh-huh.
908
00:27:44,722 --> 00:27:46,330
He gets really nervous
around new people.
909
00:27:46,481 --> 00:27:48,666
So he's probably
hiding somewhere.
910
00:27:48,817 --> 00:27:51,835
- Max, I'm home. No?
911
00:27:51,987 --> 00:27:53,395
Oh, where's the--
where's your cat litter?
912
00:27:53,414 --> 00:27:54,579
I actually don't--[sniffs]
913
00:27:54,732 --> 00:27:55,731
It smells good in here.
I don't smell--
914
00:27:55,749 --> 00:27:56,840
- I know.
915
00:27:56,992 --> 00:27:58,066
I keep things clean.
916
00:27:58,160 --> 00:27:59,826
Like, I clean the cat litter.
917
00:27:59,920 --> 00:28:01,178
- Does he pee every hour?
918
00:28:01,329 --> 00:28:02,846
Is it three times a day?
919
00:28:02,998 --> 00:28:04,181
Where does he pee?
920
00:28:04,408 --> 00:28:05,999
Is he gonna pee
on my basketball shoes?
921
00:28:06,093 --> 00:28:09,761
Is he gonna pee on my gym
equipment, on my at-home desk?
922
00:28:09,855 --> 00:28:12,931
[quirky music]
923
00:28:13,083 --> 00:28:15,526
- Why are we so concerned
with my cat's peeing schedule?
924
00:28:15,753 --> 00:28:17,753
He isn't like a dog,
where I have to, like,
925
00:28:17,771 --> 00:28:18,696
Take him outside.
926
00:28:18,847 --> 00:28:20,680
You know,
cats use a litter box.
927
00:28:20,700 --> 00:28:22,441
- So he's gonna go there
every time, 100%?
928
00:28:22,593 --> 00:28:23,867
- Yes.
929
00:28:24,094 --> 00:28:26,019
- You know how some girls
cycle up with each other?
930
00:28:26,038 --> 00:28:29,540
Like, are we all gonna pee
at the same time?
931
00:28:29,691 --> 00:28:31,600
He pees on his own time?
932
00:28:31,693 --> 00:28:33,769
- What do you think a cat is?
933
00:28:33,787 --> 00:28:35,212
Like, what do you think
a cat does?
934
00:28:35,363 --> 00:28:37,773
- I rescued two dogs,
and they peed on their own time
935
00:28:37,866 --> 00:28:39,274
Wherever they wanted.
- Okay.
936
00:28:39,293 --> 00:28:40,551
This is gonna be
a learning curve then.
937
00:28:40,778 --> 00:28:41,793
[cat meows]
938
00:28:41,887 --> 00:28:42,845
Oh, come here.
939
00:28:46,559 --> 00:28:47,540
- Come here, son.
940
00:28:47,560 --> 00:28:49,284
- This is kind of nice, right?
941
00:28:49,303 --> 00:28:50,710
Oh.
942
00:28:50,730 --> 00:28:51,636
- I don't know how to pet cat.
943
00:28:51,731 --> 00:28:52,804
- That's okay.
944
00:28:52,898 --> 00:28:53,972
- But this is--
945
00:28:54,124 --> 00:28:55,232
- Just do whatever
feels natural.
946
00:28:55,459 --> 00:28:56,883
- Get the ears?
- No, that--he--no.
947
00:28:56,977 --> 00:28:58,293
- Oh, sorry.
- No, no.
948
00:28:58,312 --> 00:29:00,237
He doesn't like that.
He doesn't like that.
949
00:29:00,388 --> 00:29:02,555
- My stepson and I, starting
out, he doesn't like me.
950
00:29:02,575 --> 00:29:03,815
Maybe he has to grow
to love me.
951
00:29:03,968 --> 00:29:06,076
Stepson, real son,
I'm gonna show him love.
952
00:29:06,303 --> 00:29:07,486
I think by the end
of this whole thing,
953
00:29:07,580 --> 00:29:09,913
He's gonna be cuddling with me
instead of morgan.
954
00:29:10,065 --> 00:29:11,397
- See you later.
955
00:29:11,417 --> 00:29:13,083
He's like, well--
that was good, though.
956
00:29:13,235 --> 00:29:14,659
That's progress.
957
00:29:14,812 --> 00:29:15,919
♪ ♪
958
00:29:16,071 --> 00:29:19,498
- ♪ I want you
all to myself ♪
959
00:29:19,650 --> 00:29:23,260
♪ I want you all to myself ♪
960
00:29:23,411 --> 00:29:25,504
♪ I want you ♪
961
00:29:25,598 --> 00:29:26,913
- We're here.
962
00:29:26,932 --> 00:29:28,507
Show me what you're
working with.
963
00:29:28,659 --> 00:29:30,008
♪ ♪
964
00:29:30,160 --> 00:29:31,493
- Hello?
965
00:29:31,512 --> 00:29:32,936
Hi, lu-lu.
966
00:29:33,163 --> 00:29:34,271
Hey.
967
00:29:34,498 --> 00:29:36,181
[dog breathing heavily]
- [laughing]
968
00:29:36,333 --> 00:29:37,941
- There's the breathing.
Come here.
969
00:29:38,093 --> 00:29:39,425
- This place is cute.
I like it.
970
00:29:39,445 --> 00:29:40,611
- It's so cute.
971
00:29:40,762 --> 00:29:42,762
Sorry, luna's not feeling
very well.
972
00:29:42,856 --> 00:29:45,007
I'm kind of sad about it.
973
00:29:45,100 --> 00:29:46,432
She's got, like,
stomach issues.
974
00:29:46,527 --> 00:29:47,359
It's a whole thing.
975
00:29:47,453 --> 00:29:48,693
- Whoa.
976
00:29:48,846 --> 00:29:50,862
- With me comes my little luna.
977
00:29:50,956 --> 00:29:52,122
She snores.
978
00:29:52,274 --> 00:29:53,698
She deep breathes.
979
00:29:53,851 --> 00:29:55,275
She's got asthma.
980
00:29:55,294 --> 00:29:56,460
She's a hot-ass mess.
981
00:29:56,611 --> 00:29:57,795
This is it.
- This is the couch.
982
00:29:57,946 --> 00:29:58,796
- There is the couch.
983
00:29:58,947 --> 00:29:59,963
- There's the bed.
984
00:30:00,115 --> 00:30:02,040
- Kitchen.
985
00:30:02,134 --> 00:30:03,950
Shh-shh-shh-shh.
986
00:30:03,969 --> 00:30:06,119
My biggest fear
is the cohabitating
987
00:30:06,213 --> 00:30:07,787
With luna, not even me.
988
00:30:07,807 --> 00:30:09,698
I'm thinking him and I
are probably gonna continue
989
00:30:09,716 --> 00:30:11,366
Growing our relationship,
990
00:30:11,385 --> 00:30:12,643
And luna's gonna be like...
991
00:30:12,794 --> 00:30:14,127
[mimics breathing]
992
00:30:14,146 --> 00:30:15,145
[laughs]
993
00:30:15,297 --> 00:30:17,297
In the background.
994
00:30:17,316 --> 00:30:19,817
This is probably
the most important part
995
00:30:19,968 --> 00:30:20,818
Of the whole place.
996
00:30:20,969 --> 00:30:21,985
- That we came here for?
997
00:30:22,212 --> 00:30:23,136
- Yep.
998
00:30:23,155 --> 00:30:24,896
This is treats.
999
00:30:25,049 --> 00:30:27,491
Oh, are you a good little girl?
1000
00:30:27,642 --> 00:30:29,827
Here, I'll let you
give her one.
1001
00:30:30,054 --> 00:30:31,311
- Oh, luna.
1002
00:30:31,405 --> 00:30:32,737
Luna, do you love treats?
1003
00:30:32,890 --> 00:30:35,332
- [laughing]
- hey, hey.
1004
00:30:35,559 --> 00:30:36,575
- Show her.
1005
00:30:36,727 --> 00:30:38,168
Oh, there we go.
- Oh.
1006
00:30:38,320 --> 00:30:40,062
Yeah, buddy.
- Yay.
1007
00:30:40,080 --> 00:30:41,229
You're gonna need this now.
1008
00:30:41,323 --> 00:30:42,581
I usually keep these on lock.
1009
00:30:42,733 --> 00:30:44,566
But I mean, if you don't
want dog hair on you,
1010
00:30:44,659 --> 00:30:46,844
You got to lint roll,
lint roll.
1011
00:30:46,995 --> 00:30:49,087
Oh, very important--
you don't have to do this.
1012
00:30:49,181 --> 00:30:50,739
I will do it.
1013
00:30:50,757 --> 00:30:52,498
But we got to clean her
wrinkle at least once a day.
1014
00:30:52,518 --> 00:30:53,758
- Her wrinkle?
1015
00:30:53,911 --> 00:30:55,594
- See where her little nose is?
1016
00:30:55,746 --> 00:30:57,913
Because it gets, like,
stuff--her food and guck
1017
00:30:57,931 --> 00:30:59,264
And all this kind of stuff
gets in there.
1018
00:30:59,416 --> 00:31:00,599
- I don't know any about this.
1019
00:31:00,693 --> 00:31:02,417
I didn't know about
the lint brush or the--
1020
00:31:02,510 --> 00:31:03,585
- Wrinkle?
- The wrinkle, yeah.
1021
00:31:03,604 --> 00:31:04,528
- Oh, it's a whole thing.
1022
00:31:04,679 --> 00:31:05,604
It's a whole thing.
1023
00:31:05,698 --> 00:31:08,607
[dog panting]
1024
00:31:08,759 --> 00:31:13,595
♪ ♪
1025
00:31:13,614 --> 00:31:14,779
- Your dog is--
1026
00:31:14,932 --> 00:31:17,357
Just so much breathing.
1027
00:31:17,451 --> 00:31:19,451
- I said, I said...
1028
00:31:19,545 --> 00:31:21,194
♪ ♪
1029
00:31:21,288 --> 00:31:22,862
- Uh, luna, yeah.
1030
00:31:22,882 --> 00:31:26,291
I think it's a great exercise
in having a kid, I guess.
1031
00:31:26,443 --> 00:31:29,277
It's like--I think
I'll learn to love luna.
1032
00:31:29,296 --> 00:31:31,221
I hope she takes to me,
and I take to her,
1033
00:31:31,373 --> 00:31:32,705
And we're all
a big happy family.
1034
00:31:32,799 --> 00:31:34,132
[mimics breathing]
1035
00:31:34,284 --> 00:31:35,708
♪ ♪
1036
00:31:35,728 --> 00:31:37,135
Such a weirdo.
1037
00:31:37,229 --> 00:31:39,304
- Just like mom.
1038
00:31:39,456 --> 00:31:43,066
Is there anything,
like, surprising to you,
1039
00:31:43,218 --> 00:31:45,627
Besides luna's
breathing pattern?
1040
00:31:45,646 --> 00:31:47,070
- Yeah, just the breathing.
1041
00:31:47,297 --> 00:31:47,979
I mean, you kind of
prepared me for it.
1042
00:31:48,132 --> 00:31:49,389
- I did.
1043
00:31:49,408 --> 00:31:51,299
- Is that, like, just
when she's excited?
1044
00:31:51,393 --> 00:31:52,725
- It's when she's stressed.
1045
00:31:52,745 --> 00:31:55,320
And I knew she
was gonna be stressed.
1046
00:31:55,472 --> 00:31:57,139
I'm already feeling
like mitch is just
1047
00:31:57,232 --> 00:31:58,898
Not sure how this is going.
1048
00:31:58,992 --> 00:32:00,142
Luna's nervous about it.
1049
00:32:00,160 --> 00:32:01,476
Mitch is nervous about it.
1050
00:32:01,569 --> 00:32:02,920
I'm trying to mend the minds.
1051
00:32:03,071 --> 00:32:04,980
And all I can hope for
is that the two
1052
00:32:04,998 --> 00:32:06,331
Get used to each other.
1053
00:32:06,483 --> 00:32:07,999
- [mimics breathing]
1054
00:32:08,093 --> 00:32:09,334
She's a goofball.
1055
00:32:09,428 --> 00:32:10,576
- She's a goofer.
1056
00:32:10,596 --> 00:32:11,836
You gonna be good?
1057
00:32:11,989 --> 00:32:13,672
You gonna drive mitch crazy?
1058
00:32:13,824 --> 00:32:15,157
♪ ♪
1059
00:32:15,250 --> 00:32:16,675
- ♪ party, party, party ♪
1060
00:32:16,827 --> 00:32:18,843
♪ 'cause I feel so great ♪
1061
00:32:18,938 --> 00:32:20,938
- Downtown life.
1062
00:32:21,089 --> 00:32:23,589
All right, welcome
to my humble abode.
1063
00:32:23,609 --> 00:32:25,275
- Wow.
- See?
1064
00:32:25,427 --> 00:32:27,778
- I love the view.
1065
00:32:28,005 --> 00:32:30,338
- So right here,
this is my raising desk.
1066
00:32:30,357 --> 00:32:31,840
- Okay, techie.
- Yeah.
1067
00:32:31,858 --> 00:32:32,841
Check this out.
1068
00:32:32,934 --> 00:32:33,858
I got the little blinds too.
1069
00:32:33,953 --> 00:32:35,677
Look at that.
1070
00:32:35,696 --> 00:32:36,620
Fancy, huh?
1071
00:32:36,771 --> 00:32:37,846
- Okay, I'm impressed.
1072
00:32:37,864 --> 00:32:39,364
- And no dishes in the sink.
1073
00:32:39,516 --> 00:32:41,441
Oh, wait.
Wait, there is one.
1074
00:32:41,535 --> 00:32:43,518
- This is nice.
- Thank you.
1075
00:32:43,537 --> 00:32:46,371
- I think that with
the way that I live,
1076
00:32:46,523 --> 00:32:48,873
I've been told that I'm
uncomfortably clean.
1077
00:32:48,968 --> 00:32:50,875
So I know he's a little
bit nervous right now
1078
00:32:51,028 --> 00:32:52,377
To show me his place.
1079
00:32:52,529 --> 00:32:53,862
He just wants to impress me,
1080
00:32:53,955 --> 00:32:56,047
And I think it's really cute.
1081
00:32:56,141 --> 00:32:57,365
- Queen size.
1082
00:32:57,384 --> 00:32:58,883
- Queen?
- Yeah, it's a queen.
1083
00:32:59,036 --> 00:33:00,293
- I really like it.
1084
00:33:00,312 --> 00:33:04,147
Wait, so what's that?
- That's my closet.
1085
00:33:04,374 --> 00:33:06,208
Not too bad, though,
for a guy, right?
1086
00:33:06,226 --> 00:33:08,893
- It's, like, just kind
of disorganized in there.
1087
00:33:09,046 --> 00:33:12,564
♪ ♪
1088
00:33:12,716 --> 00:33:14,307
It's, like, real linty too.
1089
00:33:14,401 --> 00:33:16,642
What is this towel?
1090
00:33:16,662 --> 00:33:19,571
- It's just--
it's just dirty towels.
1091
00:33:19,723 --> 00:33:22,907
- I'm trying to just look
and not freak out.
1092
00:33:23,060 --> 00:33:24,501
It's a little dusty.
1093
00:33:24,652 --> 00:33:26,244
And his plant is dead.
1094
00:33:26,338 --> 00:33:27,504
That's dirty.
1095
00:33:27,655 --> 00:33:29,731
I am starting to see
that his clean
1096
00:33:29,750 --> 00:33:30,915
Is different than my clean.
1097
00:33:31,068 --> 00:33:34,827
Cleaning supplies--empty.
1098
00:33:34,847 --> 00:33:36,588
- This is kind of how I roll.
You know what I mean?
1099
00:33:36,740 --> 00:33:38,423
- Water spots there.
1100
00:33:38,575 --> 00:33:41,167
There's no towels or anything.
1101
00:33:41,261 --> 00:33:43,854
Loofah is down here.
1102
00:33:44,005 --> 00:33:48,767
He is living
a total bachelor life.
1103
00:33:48,861 --> 00:33:52,604
♪ ♪
1104
00:33:52,756 --> 00:33:56,591
There's just trash in here.
1105
00:33:56,610 --> 00:34:00,445
11-01-21, that's trash.
1106
00:34:00,539 --> 00:34:01,854
What the hell?
1107
00:34:01,874 --> 00:34:03,022
Is this like a recycle--
1108
00:34:03,116 --> 00:34:05,433
What is this trash?
1109
00:34:05,452 --> 00:34:11,197
I'm finding empty oatmeal
containers--like, multiple.
1110
00:34:11,216 --> 00:34:12,532
They're empty.
1111
00:34:12,626 --> 00:34:13,625
Yeah, just a couple things
1112
00:34:13,777 --> 00:34:15,960
That just made me go, "hmm."
1113
00:34:16,055 --> 00:34:17,962
There is two of them.
1114
00:34:18,115 --> 00:34:21,449
♪ ♪
1115
00:34:21,468 --> 00:34:25,470
So maybe he had somebody over
and was drinking wine.
1116
00:34:25,622 --> 00:34:26,971
♪ ♪
1117
00:34:27,066 --> 00:34:28,473
Pretty gross.
1118
00:34:28,567 --> 00:34:29,483
♪ ♪
1119
00:34:33,572 --> 00:34:35,980
[upbeat music]
1120
00:34:36,075 --> 00:34:38,057
♪ ♪
1121
00:34:38,077 --> 00:34:39,467
- We made it.
1122
00:34:39,486 --> 00:34:40,726
- We did, indeed.
1123
00:34:40,821 --> 00:34:43,229
- Marriage is easier
than I thought.
1124
00:34:43,323 --> 00:34:45,415
I'm waiting for the punch line.
1125
00:34:45,642 --> 00:34:46,825
Everybody was like,
"marriage is hard."
1126
00:34:46,977 --> 00:34:48,159
And I'm like, well,
1127
00:34:48,253 --> 00:34:49,661
If this is what I got
to look forward to,
1128
00:34:49,755 --> 00:34:50,754
I don't know about that.
1129
00:34:50,981 --> 00:34:53,315
Maybe marriage is hard
for some people.
1130
00:34:53,333 --> 00:34:56,093
But right now,
it's pretty easy for us.
1131
00:34:56,244 --> 00:34:57,427
- What's up, girl?
1132
00:34:57,654 --> 00:34:58,911
Hey.
1133
00:34:58,931 --> 00:34:59,838
- Who's that?
- All right.
1134
00:34:59,932 --> 00:35:01,656
- Hi, baby girl.
1135
00:35:01,675 --> 00:35:03,341
- Oh, not you.
[chuckles]
1136
00:35:03,493 --> 00:35:04,659
Off.
1137
00:35:04,678 --> 00:35:06,010
- You were not
talking to me like that.
1138
00:35:06,105 --> 00:35:07,829
Mya was like,
he can't be talking to her.
1139
00:35:07,848 --> 00:35:09,106
- No, I was telling you
to sit down.
1140
00:35:09,257 --> 00:35:10,941
- Well, why didn't you--
that was weird that you--
1141
00:35:11,168 --> 00:35:12,684
- Sit down.
1142
00:35:12,836 --> 00:35:14,352
Mya was like,
"I got you, daddy.
1143
00:35:14,446 --> 00:35:17,172
I'm here."
1144
00:35:17,265 --> 00:35:18,431
- You know what's happening
right now?
1145
00:35:18,525 --> 00:35:19,765
- What's happening?
1146
00:35:19,860 --> 00:35:21,434
- We're in
the kitchen-living-bedroom
1147
00:35:21,528 --> 00:35:22,786
All at once, like...
1148
00:35:23,013 --> 00:35:26,939
♪ ♪
1149
00:35:26,959 --> 00:35:28,625
- You wanna--give you
a tour around here?
1150
00:35:28,852 --> 00:35:31,128
- Yeah, give me a tour
from beginning to end.
1151
00:35:31,355 --> 00:35:32,445
- Okay.
1152
00:35:32,464 --> 00:35:38,026
Bedroom, living room, kitchen.
1153
00:35:38,044 --> 00:35:39,136
♪ ♪
1154
00:35:39,363 --> 00:35:41,045
This is where I spend
my work days.
1155
00:35:41,198 --> 00:35:42,973
- Out here?
- Mm-hmm.
1156
00:35:43,124 --> 00:35:44,790
- Let me see.
1157
00:35:44,810 --> 00:35:46,551
Oh, I hear the planes, though.
1158
00:35:46,703 --> 00:35:48,052
Golly, flight path?
1159
00:35:48,205 --> 00:35:50,705
- Mm-hmm.
1160
00:35:50,798 --> 00:35:52,632
So yeah, when I have
friends over,
1161
00:35:52,651 --> 00:35:54,376
Because my place is so small,
1162
00:35:54,394 --> 00:35:55,894
We all come out here
and play games.
1163
00:35:55,988 --> 00:35:57,803
There it goes again--
every three minutes.
1164
00:35:57,823 --> 00:35:58,822
- Three?
1165
00:35:59,049 --> 00:36:00,323
- It feels like it.
1166
00:36:00,475 --> 00:36:01,491
- Does anybody, like,
kind of complain?
1167
00:36:01,718 --> 00:36:03,827
You know?
- Nope.
1168
00:36:03,978 --> 00:36:05,978
If I was dating justin,
and I went back to his place,
1169
00:36:06,072 --> 00:36:07,405
I would be like, oh, okay.
1170
00:36:07,557 --> 00:36:09,166
Cool, cool, cool.
I'ma head on out.
1171
00:36:09,317 --> 00:36:10,483
I'ma go back home.
1172
00:36:10,577 --> 00:36:11,893
- I was a bachelor,
1173
00:36:11,912 --> 00:36:13,728
And I thought it was good
for a bachelor.
1174
00:36:13,747 --> 00:36:14,896
I'm no longer a bachelor.
1175
00:36:14,989 --> 00:36:16,731
So it's time to look
for something new.
1176
00:36:16,750 --> 00:36:18,324
- The small space
is not compatible
1177
00:36:18,418 --> 00:36:19,509
With my living style.
1178
00:36:19,736 --> 00:36:20,902
Where's the gym?
Where's the pool?
1179
00:36:20,921 --> 00:36:22,328
Where's the other room?
1180
00:36:22,422 --> 00:36:24,239
I cannot see myself
living here.
1181
00:36:24,257 --> 00:36:25,348
Good thing we don't have to.
1182
00:36:25,500 --> 00:36:26,349
- What's this?
1183
00:36:26,501 --> 00:36:27,833
- That, there, is for mya.
1184
00:36:27,853 --> 00:36:28,852
Watch.
1185
00:36:30,096 --> 00:36:33,081
[exciting music]
1186
00:36:33,099 --> 00:36:36,100
♪ ♪
1187
00:36:36,253 --> 00:36:37,602
Wait, stop.
1188
00:36:37,696 --> 00:36:40,363
You're messing with her.
1189
00:36:40,590 --> 00:36:42,365
We gotta take that.
1190
00:36:43,368 --> 00:36:45,851
[gasps] hi, baloo.
1191
00:36:45,946 --> 00:36:47,704
I forgot you even had a cat.
1192
00:36:47,855 --> 00:36:49,447
- That's who you gotta
win over.
1193
00:36:49,599 --> 00:36:52,042
I'm looking forward
to this new chapter.
1194
00:36:52,193 --> 00:36:53,952
There's about to be
so much happiness.
1195
00:36:54,104 --> 00:36:56,046
I think the only thing
that I'm really nervous about
1196
00:36:56,197 --> 00:36:58,456
Is how mya's gonna react
to her dog.
1197
00:36:58,550 --> 00:36:59,774
- All right, children.
1198
00:36:59,793 --> 00:37:02,886
[upbeat music]
1199
00:37:03,113 --> 00:37:09,893
♪ ♪
1200
00:37:10,044 --> 00:37:13,897
- Okay, lu, your new home.
1201
00:37:14,124 --> 00:37:16,399
- The start to married life
is becoming real
1202
00:37:16,626 --> 00:37:19,885
As our couples face
the daunting reality
1203
00:37:19,905 --> 00:37:24,148
That they are living
with someone they barely know.
1204
00:37:24,301 --> 00:37:25,558
- Is this max's stuff?
Or is this coffee?
1205
00:37:25,577 --> 00:37:26,409
- That's coffee stuff.
- Okay.
1206
00:37:26,636 --> 00:37:27,577
- Yeah.
1207
00:37:27,804 --> 00:37:28,987
- Figure out where
to put this thing.
1208
00:37:29,081 --> 00:37:30,638
- We will?
1209
00:37:30,732 --> 00:37:33,750
- The potential for failure
is huge.
1210
00:37:33,977 --> 00:37:36,144
But the payoff,
if they are successful,
1211
00:37:36,162 --> 00:37:37,737
Is even bigger.
1212
00:37:37,831 --> 00:37:40,648
- I know.
- Stop pulling.
1213
00:37:40,667 --> 00:37:41,925
- Look at this.
1214
00:37:42,152 --> 00:37:43,001
I know.
1215
00:37:43,095 --> 00:37:44,836
It's so exciting.
1216
00:37:44,988 --> 00:37:48,247
I know!
1217
00:37:48,267 --> 00:37:49,674
I know. Look it.
1218
00:37:49,768 --> 00:37:50,600
You finna eat newton?
1219
00:37:50,827 --> 00:37:53,011
Look at her.
1220
00:37:53,163 --> 00:37:54,012
- Good girl.
1221
00:37:54,106 --> 00:37:55,680
- Come on.
1222
00:37:55,774 --> 00:37:57,999
Newton gonna be shook--
like, what is happening?
1223
00:37:58,018 --> 00:37:59,334
It's a whole zoo.
1224
00:37:59,352 --> 00:38:01,002
♪ ♪
1225
00:38:01,021 --> 00:38:04,781
[soft growling]
1226
00:38:04,932 --> 00:38:06,283
How are you supposed
to introduce dogs?
1227
00:38:06,434 --> 00:38:08,785
We should have googled it.
1228
00:38:09,012 --> 00:38:10,620
- Typically, you're supposed
to give them time
1229
00:38:10,847 --> 00:38:12,622
To come around till
they get used to each other.
1230
00:38:12,849 --> 00:38:15,441
- Our house ain't that big
to have all that happen.
1231
00:38:15,460 --> 00:38:17,018
Say, hi, sis.
1232
00:38:17,037 --> 00:38:18,703
I'm your brother.
1233
00:38:18,797 --> 00:38:21,539
[dogs barking, growling]
1234
00:38:21,691 --> 00:38:23,133
- She don't like him.
- That's not a loud noise.
1235
00:38:23,360 --> 00:38:24,542
- See? Newton chill.
1236
00:38:24,694 --> 00:38:25,618
He don't do nothing.
1237
00:38:25,712 --> 00:38:26,694
He just minds his own business.
1238
00:38:26,788 --> 00:38:28,287
- He avoids her,
which is perfect.
1239
00:38:28,381 --> 00:38:29,955
Is newton an alpha?
- Yeah.
1240
00:38:29,975 --> 00:38:32,216
He got big-dog energy.
1241
00:38:32,311 --> 00:38:34,035
- This is gonna be
interesting right here.
1242
00:38:34,128 --> 00:38:35,720
Two alphas don't
typically get along.
1243
00:38:35,814 --> 00:38:36,980
That's your new brother.
1244
00:38:37,207 --> 00:38:38,540
You're gonna see a lot
of each other,
1245
00:38:38,633 --> 00:38:40,150
At least for the next
eight weeks.
1246
00:38:40,377 --> 00:38:41,709
♪ ♪
1247
00:38:41,803 --> 00:38:43,486
- Where do you want
the painting?
1248
00:38:43,713 --> 00:38:46,305
- That, I want to put
inside my bathroom.
1249
00:38:46,325 --> 00:38:47,715
- Ew. [laughs]
1250
00:38:47,809 --> 00:38:49,233
- I mean,
I ain't mean it like that.
1251
00:38:49,386 --> 00:38:50,827
Let's put it in the hallway,
right there.
1252
00:38:51,054 --> 00:38:51,995
How's that?
1253
00:38:52,146 --> 00:38:53,054
- Oh, right where
you walk down?
1254
00:38:53,073 --> 00:38:54,146
- Yeah.
1255
00:38:54,240 --> 00:38:55,073
That's perfect.
1256
00:38:55,167 --> 00:38:56,649
- Perfect?
- Mm-hmm.
1257
00:38:56,668 --> 00:38:57,725
- Mya!
1258
00:38:57,819 --> 00:38:58,668
Hey, girl.
1259
00:38:58,895 --> 00:38:59,894
Hey, puppy.
1260
00:38:59,987 --> 00:39:01,320
Uh-oh, there's mr. Newton.
1261
00:39:01,340 --> 00:39:02,730
Hey, mr. Newton.
1262
00:39:02,824 --> 00:39:03,673
You want to say
hello to miss mya?
1263
00:39:03,825 --> 00:39:05,157
[dogs barking]
1264
00:39:05,251 --> 00:39:06,417
- What happened?
[newton whining]
1265
00:39:06,570 --> 00:39:07,752
It's okay.
It's okay. It's okay.
1266
00:39:07,904 --> 00:39:09,404
It's okay. It's okay.
It's okay. It's okay.
1267
00:39:09,422 --> 00:39:11,089
It's okay. What happened?
1268
00:39:11,241 --> 00:39:12,331
- Nothing happened.
1269
00:39:12,425 --> 00:39:14,166
- Okay, you hurt, baby?
1270
00:39:14,186 --> 00:39:15,927
- They just got into it.
1271
00:39:16,021 --> 00:39:19,747
- I know, you scared.
1272
00:39:19,766 --> 00:39:21,599
- He's all right.
1273
00:39:21,751 --> 00:39:22,934
Is he okay?
1274
00:39:23,086 --> 00:39:23,935
- Let me see. Nope.
1275
00:39:24,029 --> 00:39:24,936
His eye, baby.
1276
00:39:25,030 --> 00:39:26,345
He's bleeding.
1277
00:39:26,365 --> 00:39:28,198
Cut him.
1278
00:39:28,425 --> 00:39:30,015
- [sighs]
1279
00:39:30,035 --> 00:39:30,942
- Let me see.
1280
00:39:31,036 --> 00:39:32,285
Come here.
1281
00:39:36,875 --> 00:39:37,857
Get in there.
1282
00:39:37,876 --> 00:39:40,043
Bad dog.
1283
00:39:42,105 --> 00:39:45,790
[whispering] I'm sorry, buddy.
I'm so sorry.
1284
00:39:45,884 --> 00:39:51,036
- Hey, I'm looking for a place
to bring my dog right now.
1285
00:39:51,131 --> 00:39:53,114
He just got bit by another dog.
1286
00:39:53,133 --> 00:39:56,117
[solemn music]
1287
00:39:56,136 --> 00:40:00,638
♪ ♪
1288
00:40:00,790 --> 00:40:03,791
Hey, are you guys open
currently?
1289
00:40:03,885 --> 00:40:06,069
So if I had an emergency,
I bring my dog there?
1290
00:40:06,296 --> 00:40:07,737
♪ ♪
1291
00:40:07,889 --> 00:40:10,815
Okay, thank you.
1292
00:40:10,909 --> 00:40:12,242
All right.
1293
00:40:12,469 --> 00:40:16,896
♪ ♪
1294
00:40:16,990 --> 00:40:18,473
I'm gonna change.
1295
00:40:18,566 --> 00:40:20,250
So can I close the door? Okay.
1296
00:40:20,477 --> 00:40:21,826
♪ ♪
1297
00:40:21,978 --> 00:40:23,494
I have to bring him in.
1298
00:40:23,588 --> 00:40:26,071
- I'm so sorry.
1299
00:40:26,091 --> 00:40:27,165
Can I go with you?
1300
00:40:27,259 --> 00:40:28,091
- No, I'm good.
1301
00:40:28,318 --> 00:40:29,759
- Please?
1302
00:40:29,986 --> 00:40:35,006
- Justin, like, you knew
how I feel about newton.
1303
00:40:35,158 --> 00:40:37,341
- And that's why I want
to go with you.
1304
00:40:37,494 --> 00:40:39,494
That's why I'm really upset.
1305
00:40:39,512 --> 00:40:42,180
That's why I'm hurt and I'm sad
1306
00:40:42,332 --> 00:40:44,832
And I'm frustrated,
because I know how you feel.
1307
00:40:44,851 --> 00:40:47,760
And I know how important
he is to you.
1308
00:40:47,854 --> 00:40:50,613
- I can't right now, justin.
1309
00:40:50,765 --> 00:40:52,340
- I think I underestimated
my dog.
1310
00:40:52,433 --> 00:40:54,934
I wanted to sort of
integrate them slowly.
1311
00:40:55,028 --> 00:40:57,787
But I think I was a little bit
too confident in my dog.
1312
00:40:58,014 --> 00:40:59,456
[sighs]
1313
00:40:59,683 --> 00:41:01,941
I understand how she feels
about her dog,
1314
00:41:02,035 --> 00:41:02,850
Because I'm the same way.
1315
00:41:02,869 --> 00:41:04,276
Mya is my baby.
1316
00:41:04,296 --> 00:41:05,703
It was just kind of
breaking my heart.
1317
00:41:05,797 --> 00:41:08,631
[dramatic music]
1318
00:41:08,858 --> 00:41:15,638
♪ ♪
1319
00:41:19,978 --> 00:41:21,719
- ♪ it's all or nothing ♪
1320
00:41:22,797 --> 00:41:26,224
- ♪ babe,
with you I can relax ♪
1321
00:41:26,318 --> 00:41:27,725
♪ because I know
you've got my back ♪
1322
00:41:27,877 --> 00:41:32,489
♪ ♪
1323
00:41:32,640 --> 00:41:34,157
- My guy.
What's going on?
1324
00:41:34,384 --> 00:41:35,233
- What's up?
1325
00:41:35,327 --> 00:41:36,326
- Come on in.
1326
00:41:36,477 --> 00:41:37,401
- [laughs]
1327
00:41:37,496 --> 00:41:38,811
[laughter]
1328
00:41:38,830 --> 00:41:40,163
- Oh, my gosh.
1329
00:41:40,314 --> 00:41:41,405
- How are you?
1330
00:41:41,500 --> 00:41:42,332
- Good to see you, girl.
1331
00:41:42,483 --> 00:41:44,075
- It's so good to see you.
1332
00:41:44,227 --> 00:41:45,335
- Look at you guys,
all married.
1333
00:41:45,486 --> 00:41:46,911
What's up?
1334
00:41:47,063 --> 00:41:48,171
- Let's go.
1335
00:41:48,398 --> 00:41:49,914
- Our couples have
only known each other
1336
00:41:50,008 --> 00:41:51,657
For just over a week.
1337
00:41:51,676 --> 00:41:53,234
Pastor cal.
- Yay!
1338
00:41:53,253 --> 00:41:54,569
- What's good, everybody?
1339
00:41:54,587 --> 00:41:55,661
And I'm meeting with them
1340
00:41:55,680 --> 00:41:57,680
To dive into the tough topics
1341
00:41:57,907 --> 00:41:59,090
That will help
build a foundation
1342
00:41:59,242 --> 00:42:00,591
For their marriage.
1343
00:42:00,685 --> 00:42:02,334
- This is our love child.
- She looks just like you.
1344
00:42:02,354 --> 00:42:03,578
- I know, right?
1345
00:42:03,596 --> 00:42:05,504
Nice and all wrinkled up
and weathered.
1346
00:42:05,524 --> 00:42:08,099
- It's time to dig deep
and explore what their future
1347
00:42:08,193 --> 00:42:09,359
Will be like together,
1348
00:42:09,586 --> 00:42:11,602
Because in less
than seven weeks,
1349
00:42:11,755 --> 00:42:14,272
They must make the biggest
decision of their lives--
1350
00:42:14,424 --> 00:42:17,700
Whether to stay married
or get a divorce.
1351
00:42:17,927 --> 00:42:19,277
You guys look good
together, man.
1352
00:42:19,429 --> 00:42:20,519
- Thank you.
1353
00:42:20,539 --> 00:42:21,371
- Look at that smile
on that face.
1354
00:42:21,522 --> 00:42:22,539
- [laughs]
1355
00:42:22,766 --> 00:42:23,765
- Yeah.
1356
00:42:23,858 --> 00:42:25,433
- I love it.
I love it.
1357
00:42:25,526 --> 00:42:26,543
- I wasn't smiling
like this before?
1358
00:42:26,770 --> 00:42:27,618
- No.
1359
00:42:27,712 --> 00:42:28,786
No.
- Dang.
1360
00:42:28,880 --> 00:42:29,787
- Not like this.
1361
00:42:29,939 --> 00:42:30,788
- Damn.
1362
00:42:30,882 --> 00:42:32,440
- No.
1363
00:42:32,458 --> 00:42:34,125
So marriage feels good?
1364
00:42:34,219 --> 00:42:35,367
- Oh, yeah, 100%.
1365
00:42:35,461 --> 00:42:36,611
- That's very cool.
1366
00:42:36,629 --> 00:42:38,537
So I want to talk
about what marriage
1367
00:42:38,557 --> 00:42:39,781
Is going to look like.
1368
00:42:39,799 --> 00:42:42,300
What is your marriage
gonna look like?
1369
00:42:42,452 --> 00:42:46,454
What do you feel is the goal
of your marriage?
1370
00:42:46,547 --> 00:42:47,972
- I think the goal
of our marriage
1371
00:42:48,066 --> 00:42:50,883
Is just to be on the same page,
have the same vision.
1372
00:42:50,902 --> 00:42:52,476
We want to be a power couple.
1373
00:42:52,571 --> 00:42:55,238
And we want to just help each
other be resourceful, right?
1374
00:42:55,389 --> 00:42:56,814
So she has certain skills.
1375
00:42:56,908 --> 00:42:58,057
I have certain skills.
1376
00:42:58,076 --> 00:42:59,150
- Okay. Okay.
1377
00:42:59,244 --> 00:43:02,486
What is your goal?
1378
00:43:02,639 --> 00:43:05,064
- Basically,
just to be financially free
1379
00:43:05,083 --> 00:43:07,584
And to create
generational wealth.
1380
00:43:07,811 --> 00:43:11,737
- How do you feel
about his salary, stacia?
1381
00:43:11,831 --> 00:43:12,738
- I'm fine with it.
1382
00:43:12,757 --> 00:43:14,073
It's workable.
1383
00:43:14,092 --> 00:43:15,091
- It's workable.
1384
00:43:15,242 --> 00:43:16,834
[laughter]
1385
00:43:16,986 --> 00:43:18,502
Develop. Come on, give me--
1386
00:43:18,655 --> 00:43:20,171
- Expand.
- I mean,
1387
00:43:20,265 --> 00:43:22,081
You made me give you a number.
1388
00:43:22,100 --> 00:43:23,491
And he far exceeds that.
1389
00:43:23,509 --> 00:43:24,842
So I was happy with that.
1390
00:43:24,936 --> 00:43:28,346
- Okay, so you're okay
with each other's income.
1391
00:43:28,498 --> 00:43:30,014
- Yeah.
1392
00:43:30,108 --> 00:43:33,167
I wanted a relationship where
we have a king and queen,
1393
00:43:33,186 --> 00:43:36,170
And we help each other,
you know, watch the throne,
1394
00:43:36,189 --> 00:43:37,171
Essentially.
- Okay.
1395
00:43:37,264 --> 00:43:39,098
- Yeah. That's what I vision.
1396
00:43:39,117 --> 00:43:40,116
So...
- Go ahead.
1397
00:43:40,343 --> 00:43:42,101
- I mean, I came in this
very open.
1398
00:43:42,195 --> 00:43:43,361
I promised you.
1399
00:43:43,455 --> 00:43:45,104
I promised dr. Pepper.
1400
00:43:45,123 --> 00:43:47,865
I did have the conversation
with him about children.
1401
00:43:47,959 --> 00:43:49,792
He was kind of hesitant.
1402
00:43:49,944 --> 00:43:52,370
- What is your hesitation?
1403
00:43:52,522 --> 00:43:55,114
- The conclusion was he wanted
to reach a certain number
1404
00:43:55,133 --> 00:43:56,707
Before he felt
comfortable enough,
1405
00:43:56,860 --> 00:43:59,210
Financially,
to where he felt comfortable
1406
00:43:59,304 --> 00:44:01,028
Enough to have a kid.
1407
00:44:01,122 --> 00:44:03,956
- You know, I just made
this number because--
1408
00:44:04,050 --> 00:44:06,033
- Sure.
What is that number?
1409
00:44:06,127 --> 00:44:08,719
- So right now I make,
like, around 150.
1410
00:44:08,872 --> 00:44:11,130
But the ultimate goal
is $250,000 annually.
1411
00:44:11,224 --> 00:44:12,631
- That you want to make.
- Right.
1412
00:44:12,725 --> 00:44:14,058
- Not the both of you.
Not her.
1413
00:44:14,152 --> 00:44:15,634
- Just me, myself.
1414
00:44:15,654 --> 00:44:18,154
I want to be able
to provide 1,000%.
1415
00:44:18,305 --> 00:44:19,471
If they need school, done.
1416
00:44:19,565 --> 00:44:21,565
If they need clothes, done.
- Okay.
1417
00:44:21,660 --> 00:44:24,068
Here's the--let me share this
with you real quick.
1418
00:44:24,220 --> 00:44:25,662
You're at a point
right now--if you
1419
00:44:25,889 --> 00:44:29,573
Had a baby today, all those
things you said could be done.
1420
00:44:29,726 --> 00:44:30,816
Am I right?
1421
00:44:30,910 --> 00:44:32,576
- I don't know.
1422
00:44:32,729 --> 00:44:34,228
I mean, we got inflation.
1423
00:44:34,247 --> 00:44:35,672
Who knows what the dollar
is gonna be like?
1424
00:44:35,899 --> 00:44:38,007
- Just stop it. Just stop it.
- No. Uh-uh, no.
1425
00:44:38,234 --> 00:44:40,751
You over here, 250,000,
that's what your goal is.
1426
00:44:40,904 --> 00:44:44,071
But if I do that,
and I double that right now.
1427
00:44:44,090 --> 00:44:47,332
I make around $415,000.
1428
00:44:47,352 --> 00:44:50,002
Are you ready?
1429
00:44:50,096 --> 00:44:51,354
- And there's the question.
1430
00:44:51,505 --> 00:44:53,672
Are you ready to be a dad?
1431
00:44:53,692 --> 00:44:54,857
- I like kids.
1432
00:44:57,086 --> 00:44:58,419
- She's not saying,
"I'm good, you're not."
1433
00:44:58,438 --> 00:44:59,603
- Right.
- Am I right?
1434
00:44:59,698 --> 00:45:01,013
- Right.
1435
00:45:01,032 --> 00:45:02,606
- She's saying, we good.
1436
00:45:02,701 --> 00:45:03,925
- Right.
1437
00:45:04,018 --> 00:45:07,352
- So I need you to understand,
we good.
1438
00:45:07,372 --> 00:45:09,096
- Right.
- Okay?
1439
00:45:09,190 --> 00:45:11,190
Now, that does not mean
that you can't
1440
00:45:11,284 --> 00:45:12,783
Go ahead and hit your goals.
1441
00:45:12,877 --> 00:45:14,101
- Right, okay.
1442
00:45:14,120 --> 00:45:15,545
- But don't set these
standards saying
1443
00:45:15,772 --> 00:45:17,362
Until I hit my goal,
we can't do certain things,
1444
00:45:17,382 --> 00:45:18,697
Because you can.
1445
00:45:18,717 --> 00:45:21,718
You're not thinking
like a married person.
1446
00:45:21,945 --> 00:45:23,035
- Fair.
- Okay?
1447
00:45:23,129 --> 00:45:24,278
- All right.
- All right.
1448
00:45:24,371 --> 00:45:25,704
- Okay.
Let's talk about intimacy.
1449
00:45:25,724 --> 00:45:27,298
How is that going
with you guys?
1450
00:45:27,392 --> 00:45:29,875
I mean, I love the fact
that you guys are touching.
1451
00:45:29,969 --> 00:45:32,303
- We're really affectionate.
1452
00:45:32,455 --> 00:45:34,455
We just haven't had sex yet.
1453
00:45:34,548 --> 00:45:35,957
But we find other ways
to be intimate.
1454
00:45:35,975 --> 00:45:37,124
- Okay.
1455
00:45:37,143 --> 00:45:40,403
Well, tell me,
what's the hindrance?
1456
00:45:40,554 --> 00:45:44,482
- I just want to wait
until I'm in love with him.
1457
00:45:44,576 --> 00:45:46,484
I think, just from my past,
it's been, like,
1458
00:45:46,578 --> 00:45:48,244
More of a transactional thing.
1459
00:45:48,471 --> 00:45:50,913
So for me, it's like I want
to be emotionally connected
1460
00:45:51,140 --> 00:45:52,564
And in love with you
before I give myself
1461
00:45:52,658 --> 00:45:54,141
To you in that way.
1462
00:45:54,235 --> 00:45:56,644
- And how will you know
when you're "in love"?
1463
00:45:56,737 --> 00:45:59,480
- I think, for me,
I'll know when,
1464
00:45:59,573 --> 00:46:01,816
Like, I just can't
get enough of him--
1465
00:46:01,834 --> 00:46:05,595
Where I feel like I overlook
the stupid things
1466
00:46:05,822 --> 00:46:09,673
And just really just see him
for his heart and his soul,
1467
00:46:09,826 --> 00:46:11,826
And to where I feel that
in return.
1468
00:46:11,844 --> 00:46:13,436
- You're not there yet?
1469
00:46:13,663 --> 00:46:15,679
- No.
1470
00:46:15,774 --> 00:46:17,999
- How open has she been?
1471
00:46:18,092 --> 00:46:19,500
- Pretty transparent.
- Yeah.
1472
00:46:19,593 --> 00:46:21,778
About her history,
about her past?
1473
00:46:22,005 --> 00:46:23,687
- Mm-hmm.
For the most part, I think.
1474
00:46:23,840 --> 00:46:25,022
- And you want
the same from him?
1475
00:46:25,116 --> 00:46:26,357
- Right.
1476
00:46:26,509 --> 00:46:28,192
- You want to see
more of his soul?
1477
00:46:28,286 --> 00:46:30,435
- Right.
1478
00:46:30,455 --> 00:46:34,123
- How comfortable are you
with baring that part of you?
1479
00:46:34,350 --> 00:46:36,033
- Just, what,
unraveling everything?
1480
00:46:36,185 --> 00:46:37,442
- Yeah, yeah, yeah.
1481
00:46:37,462 --> 00:46:38,610
- You know,
it takes time to tell
1482
00:46:38,704 --> 00:46:40,688
Many stories and everything.
1483
00:46:40,706 --> 00:46:43,707
- She is the one.
1484
00:46:43,802 --> 00:46:48,029
She is the one who you can
feel safe revealing that to.
1485
00:46:48,047 --> 00:46:49,121
- Yeah.
- You have to almost
1486
00:46:49,215 --> 00:46:51,365
Force yourself.
- Do I?
1487
00:46:51,384 --> 00:46:53,384
- To be deeper.
1488
00:46:53,478 --> 00:46:55,202
- Unravel everything.
1489
00:46:55,296 --> 00:46:58,130
- Do you feel that way?
- Yeah.
1490
00:46:58,149 --> 00:47:00,541
Like, I want to know, like,
pretty much everything
1491
00:47:00,634 --> 00:47:01,375
That you went through
as a child.
1492
00:47:01,394 --> 00:47:02,543
How did you feel?
1493
00:47:02,562 --> 00:47:04,378
Like, the ups, the downs.
1494
00:47:04,397 --> 00:47:09,308
Like, I get the, you know,
"it was hard."
1495
00:47:09,402 --> 00:47:13,329
- She needs to know
that part of you.
1496
00:47:13,556 --> 00:47:18,150
And you're holding the key
to your sexual intimacy,
1497
00:47:18,169 --> 00:47:19,502
To your love.
1498
00:47:19,729 --> 00:47:22,079
♪ ♪
1499
00:47:22,173 --> 00:47:25,007
[upbeat music]
1500
00:47:25,234 --> 00:47:30,404
♪ ♪
1501
00:47:30,497 --> 00:47:35,667
- So it's the day
after our doggies met.
1502
00:47:35,687 --> 00:47:38,913
And here is the baby.
1503
00:47:39,006 --> 00:47:39,914
He's okay.
1504
00:47:39,932 --> 00:47:41,357
He's a trooper.
1505
00:47:41,584 --> 00:47:44,919
But he's got to wear
his little cone for a week.
1506
00:47:44,937 --> 00:47:45,862
Newton's my baby.
1507
00:47:46,013 --> 00:47:47,697
And I know mya's his baby.
1508
00:47:47,848 --> 00:47:49,514
So it's a tough situation.
1509
00:47:49,534 --> 00:47:50,849
But we're gonna figure it out.
1510
00:47:50,869 --> 00:47:53,536
We're gonna, first,
take mya to get trained.
1511
00:47:53,763 --> 00:47:54,945
So she's gonna be away
for the next two weeks
1512
00:47:55,039 --> 00:47:57,540
Getting trained.
1513
00:47:57,767 --> 00:48:01,360
And newty's gonna be here
recovering.
1514
00:48:01,454 --> 00:48:04,288
[somber music]
1515
00:48:04,440 --> 00:48:10,778
♪ ♪
1516
00:48:10,871 --> 00:48:13,447
- So we're headed
to this training camp.
1517
00:48:13,540 --> 00:48:17,042
And so pretty much, they help
with specific dogs' aggression.
1518
00:48:17,061 --> 00:48:20,287
I'm really doing this
for the both of us.
1519
00:48:20,381 --> 00:48:22,623
Also, I want to save
my marriage too.
1520
00:48:22,716 --> 00:48:25,217
- Part of me is just like,
I'm wrong
1521
00:48:25,311 --> 00:48:26,551
For putting my child in danger.
1522
00:48:26,646 --> 00:48:28,404
And now I'm just like, [bleep],
1523
00:48:28,555 --> 00:48:30,907
Am I trusting him and believing
that she won't attack me too?
1524
00:48:31,134 --> 00:48:32,650
I want you to know
that I'm afraid.
1525
00:48:32,744 --> 00:48:35,152
- You know, I'm trying to do
my best to fix this situation.
1526
00:48:35,246 --> 00:48:36,303
I love two people.
1527
00:48:36,322 --> 00:48:38,581
I love her, and I love you.
1528
00:48:38,732 --> 00:48:40,917
The insides of me
is just, like, ripping apart.
1529
00:48:41,144 --> 00:48:42,752
You know, there--
she's a part of me.
1530
00:48:42,979 --> 00:48:45,421
I've had her
since she was five weeks.
1531
00:48:45,572 --> 00:48:46,830
But I'll be all right,
you know.
1532
00:48:46,925 --> 00:48:48,591
So I prayed about it,
1533
00:48:48,742 --> 00:48:50,334
And I asked god
to give me challenges.
1534
00:48:50,486 --> 00:48:53,003
And I just look at this
as one of his challenges.
1535
00:48:53,156 --> 00:48:55,247
♪ ♪
1536
00:48:55,266 --> 00:48:58,100
[dogs barking]
1537
00:49:01,180 --> 00:49:04,440
[dramatic music]
1538
00:49:04,667 --> 00:49:06,000
♪ ♪
1539
00:49:06,093 --> 00:49:08,760
- ♪ if our time is done ♪
1540
00:49:08,854 --> 00:49:10,929
♪ going down like the sun ♪
1541
00:49:11,023 --> 00:49:12,523
- You're gonna get cookies.
1542
00:49:12,617 --> 00:49:14,599
You're gonna have a good time.
You're gonna be all right.
1543
00:49:14,694 --> 00:49:17,102
- All of this is a lot
of weight on my shoulders.
1544
00:49:17,121 --> 00:49:18,621
Like, I don't want
to leave my baby, you know?
1545
00:49:18,772 --> 00:49:20,790
But I know I have to,
temporarily.
1546
00:49:20,941 --> 00:49:23,200
[dog whining]
1547
00:49:23,294 --> 00:49:25,369
I'm not in a position
where I want to give my dog up.
1548
00:49:25,521 --> 00:49:27,688
But if this training camp
does not help,
1549
00:49:27,781 --> 00:49:29,873
Then I told my wife I will.
1550
00:49:30,026 --> 00:49:32,617
And I know it's gonna make
the marriage challenging.
1551
00:49:32,712 --> 00:49:35,137
- ♪ I'll think of our time ♪
1552
00:49:35,364 --> 00:49:38,641
♪ ♪
1553
00:49:38,868 --> 00:49:40,367
- Uh...
1554
00:49:40,461 --> 00:49:42,036
I don't want to talk about it.
1555
00:49:42,129 --> 00:49:45,706
I don't even want
to manifest that at all.
1556
00:49:45,799 --> 00:49:50,987
- ♪ for all of my days ♪
1557
00:49:51,138 --> 00:49:52,655
♪ I'll remember you ♪
1558
00:49:56,902 --> 00:49:59,737
[upbeat music]
1559
00:49:59,831 --> 00:50:03,666
♪ ♪
1560
00:50:06,671 --> 00:50:10,064
- Hi! [laughing] stop.
1561
00:50:10,082 --> 00:50:11,582
Aw, you got me flowers?
1562
00:50:11,676 --> 00:50:12,733
- I did.
1563
00:50:12,826 --> 00:50:14,084
- Thanks, babe. How are you?
1564
00:50:14,178 --> 00:50:15,402
- Good.
1565
00:50:15,421 --> 00:50:16,754
- I haven't seen you.
This is the--
1566
00:50:16,848 --> 00:50:18,072
- You look cute.
1567
00:50:18,165 --> 00:50:19,664
- This is the least
I've seen you
1568
00:50:19,684 --> 00:50:20,591
Since I've known you.
1569
00:50:20,685 --> 00:50:21,833
- Right?
1570
00:50:21,853 --> 00:50:23,853
- All day.
- Did you miss me?
1571
00:50:24,004 --> 00:50:25,246
- Maybe.
- Cool.
1572
00:50:25,264 --> 00:50:26,671
I missed you too.
1573
00:50:26,691 --> 00:50:27,765
All right, let's
get dinner started.
1574
00:50:27,859 --> 00:50:29,750
- Okay, yeah.
1575
00:50:29,843 --> 00:50:33,270
[sizzling]
1576
00:50:33,422 --> 00:50:34,755
I'm spilling on you.
1577
00:50:34,848 --> 00:50:38,517
I don't know how to do it.
1578
00:50:38,536 --> 00:50:41,520
- All right,
we gotta work on that.
1579
00:50:41,614 --> 00:50:44,265
What if at the altar, you,
like, got to me, and I'm like,
1580
00:50:44,283 --> 00:50:45,766
"hi, nice to meet you"?
1581
00:50:45,785 --> 00:50:47,043
- Stop.
1582
00:50:47,270 --> 00:50:49,712
I was ready to accept
whoever was there,
1583
00:50:49,939 --> 00:50:51,121
Cross-eyed and everything.
- Nice.
1584
00:50:51,215 --> 00:50:52,606
Damn.
1585
00:50:52,625 --> 00:50:54,775
I told you I was
looking for a reason--
1586
00:50:54,794 --> 00:50:55,793
- You're still
looking for a reason.
1587
00:50:55,945 --> 00:50:57,111
What the [bleep]
you talking about?
1588
00:50:57,129 --> 00:50:57,945
- No, I'm not.
You're winning me over.
1589
00:50:57,963 --> 00:50:59,113
You're winning me over.
1590
00:50:59,206 --> 00:51:00,705
But in the beginning,
I'm like...
1591
00:51:00,725 --> 00:51:01,873
Mm-mm.
1592
00:51:01,893 --> 00:51:03,875
- That's a terrible mentality.
1593
00:51:03,969 --> 00:51:05,636
- It could be
a terrible mentality.
1594
00:51:05,788 --> 00:51:07,212
And I'll probably
get yelled at by, like,
1595
00:51:07,306 --> 00:51:08,898
Pastor cal and dr. Pepper.
- Oh, he's coming in tomorrow.
1596
00:51:09,049 --> 00:51:10,791
And he's gonna
set you straight.
1597
00:51:10,810 --> 00:51:12,793
- But there's also something
to be said about,
1598
00:51:12,812 --> 00:51:15,220
Like, winning over a skeptic,
right?
1599
00:51:15,314 --> 00:51:19,316
Like, you literally have taken
me from one side to the other,
1600
00:51:19,468 --> 00:51:21,802
And like, completely
won me over.
1601
00:51:21,821 --> 00:51:22,986
- That's sweet.
1602
00:51:23,081 --> 00:51:24,471
- See, I think that's special.
1603
00:51:24,490 --> 00:51:25,823
But it's true,
the only way this works
1604
00:51:25,975 --> 00:51:29,418
Is if we are
unapologetically ourselves.
1605
00:51:29,570 --> 00:51:31,570
- Yeah.
- And if we fall in love
1606
00:51:31,589 --> 00:51:33,664
With those versions
of ourselves,
1607
00:51:33,758 --> 00:51:35,983
Like, I can tell, like,
you have it in you,
1608
00:51:36,001 --> 00:51:39,595
And I have it in me, for me
to fall in love with you.
1609
00:51:39,746 --> 00:51:43,006
- It's kind of crazy,
like, where he was--
1610
00:51:43,159 --> 00:51:45,175
How he was like, "yeah, this is
just an eight-week experiment,"
1611
00:51:45,328 --> 00:51:47,919
Just kind of this, like,
harsh [bleep].
1612
00:51:48,013 --> 00:51:49,438
And I've turned him
into, like,
1613
00:51:49,665 --> 00:51:51,590
This, like, loving,
like, kind--I don't know.
1614
00:51:51,684 --> 00:51:53,517
I'm [bleep] proud of myself.
1615
00:51:53,611 --> 00:51:54,926
[laughs]
1616
00:51:54,946 --> 00:51:57,855
So I know we talked
about how I really don't
1617
00:51:57,949 --> 00:52:00,691
Like when you bring up d-day.
1618
00:52:00,785 --> 00:52:02,526
- ♪ dum-dum-dum ♪
1619
00:52:02,678 --> 00:52:04,453
- So what did we come up--
like, what are we calling it?
1620
00:52:04,605 --> 00:52:07,439
- I know we already decided
on vow renewal day.
1621
00:52:07,533 --> 00:52:09,458
- Vow renewal day.
1622
00:52:09,685 --> 00:52:11,276
I love that so much.
1623
00:52:11,295 --> 00:52:13,945
That is just--oh.
1624
00:52:14,039 --> 00:52:15,464
[gasps] the middle piece?
1625
00:52:15,691 --> 00:52:16,632
- I know.
1626
00:52:16,783 --> 00:52:18,450
- You really are
falling for me.
1627
00:52:18,469 --> 00:52:20,785
[laughs]
1628
00:52:20,880 --> 00:52:22,696
Thank you so much
for cooking for me.
1629
00:52:22,715 --> 00:52:23,547
- You're welcome, baby.
1630
00:52:23,641 --> 00:52:25,141
- This is amazing.
1631
00:52:25,292 --> 00:52:29,478
- Things with us have been
very easy, very comfortable.
1632
00:52:29,630 --> 00:52:32,481
And I have put thought into why
I feel a certain way with you.
1633
00:52:32,708 --> 00:52:35,133
I know it's cheesy,
but it's that, like,
1634
00:52:35,227 --> 00:52:36,635
Je ne sais quoi, right?
1635
00:52:36,729 --> 00:52:38,136
The intangible,
the thing you don't
1636
00:52:38,156 --> 00:52:39,546
Quite know how to put
into words.
1637
00:52:39,640 --> 00:52:40,805
When it's real, it's real.
1638
00:52:40,825 --> 00:52:41,882
When you feel it, you feel it.
1639
00:52:41,975 --> 00:52:43,492
- Yeah.
- And you know.
1640
00:52:43,719 --> 00:52:46,495
- Well, I think for me,
with you, like,
1641
00:52:46,722 --> 00:52:49,814
I've just never felt
so comfortable with someone.
1642
00:52:49,834 --> 00:52:52,001
It's because
I never have to guess.
1643
00:52:52,228 --> 00:52:53,485
You tell me.
1644
00:52:53,504 --> 00:52:55,412
And I've never had
that transparency
1645
00:52:55,564 --> 00:52:56,730
With someone before.
1646
00:52:56,749 --> 00:52:58,732
And like, I was worried
the wedding day,
1647
00:52:58,751 --> 00:53:01,177
Like, taking off
all my makeup and, like,
1648
00:53:01,404 --> 00:53:03,345
You seeing my natural,
curly hair.
1649
00:53:03,572 --> 00:53:04,829
Like, those were things
where I was like,
1650
00:53:04,849 --> 00:53:06,515
I mean, I almost feel like
I'm wearing like a mask
1651
00:53:06,667 --> 00:53:07,516
Or whatever.
1652
00:53:07,668 --> 00:53:09,185
The best moments
I've had with you
1653
00:53:09,412 --> 00:53:11,687
Are just, like, the, like,
unfiltered--literally,
1654
00:53:11,914 --> 00:53:13,004
Unfiltered moments.
1655
00:53:13,024 --> 00:53:14,172
I don't know.
1656
00:53:14,266 --> 00:53:15,858
It's just such
an intense connection.
1657
00:53:16,009 --> 00:53:19,603
It's, like, annoyingly awesome.
- Aww.
1658
00:53:19,755 --> 00:53:22,180
At the end of the day,
I want all of you.
1659
00:53:22,274 --> 00:53:24,107
You know, the you
you want to give me.
1660
00:53:24,260 --> 00:53:25,350
Yeah.
1661
00:53:25,369 --> 00:53:26,760
- Aw, miguel.
1662
00:53:26,779 --> 00:53:29,112
♪ ♪
1663
00:53:29,265 --> 00:53:30,039
Wow.
1664
00:53:30,266 --> 00:53:31,207
That was delicious.
1665
00:53:31,358 --> 00:53:32,449
I am so impressed.
1666
00:53:32,601 --> 00:53:34,101
You are a 10 out of 10 chef.
1667
00:53:34,194 --> 00:53:35,544
What's your restaurant name?
1668
00:53:35,771 --> 00:53:37,454
- Linguel's.
1669
00:53:37,606 --> 00:53:38,547
- Linguel's?
1670
00:53:38,699 --> 00:53:39,790
- Linguel's.
1671
00:53:39,884 --> 00:53:41,959
- Oh, my god.
1672
00:53:42,111 --> 00:53:43,052
Is that our hashtag?
1673
00:53:43,203 --> 00:53:44,220
- You heard it here first.
1674
00:53:44,371 --> 00:53:46,780
[laughter]
1675
00:53:46,799 --> 00:53:48,949
[upbeat music]
1676
00:53:48,968 --> 00:53:52,043
- ♪ it's my life
and I did it my way, my way ♪
1677
00:53:52,063 --> 00:53:54,137
- Hey, look, I want you guys
to talk to me.
1678
00:53:54,290 --> 00:53:56,548
We're gonna talk straight.
We're gonna talk honest.
1679
00:53:56,567 --> 00:53:58,049
We're gonna talk vulnerable.
- We've done--
1680
00:53:58,069 --> 00:53:59,643
We've done that a lot.
- Yep. Yep.
1681
00:53:59,737 --> 00:54:01,553
We're ready for it.
- This is a "no bs" zone.
1682
00:54:01,572 --> 00:54:02,905
- Yeah, okay.
- Ready for it. Yep.
1683
00:54:03,056 --> 00:54:04,073
- All right, we're ready?
- [clears throat] yeah.
1684
00:54:04,300 --> 00:54:05,482
- Let's talk about
what marriage looks like
1685
00:54:05,634 --> 00:54:06,984
For you two.
1686
00:54:07,078 --> 00:54:09,820
I know that you did have
some sort of challenge
1687
00:54:09,914 --> 00:54:11,472
On your honeymoon.
1688
00:54:11,490 --> 00:54:12,473
- Mm-hmm.
1689
00:54:12,491 --> 00:54:13,415
- Okay.
1690
00:54:13,642 --> 00:54:14,899
Let's talk about it.
1691
00:54:14,919 --> 00:54:15,900
Let's just jump right into it.
1692
00:54:15,920 --> 00:54:17,402
- There was just, like--
1693
00:54:17,496 --> 00:54:19,329
I guess a miscommunication.
1694
00:54:19,423 --> 00:54:20,814
He thought I wasn't a nurse
because I wasn't done
1695
00:54:20,907 --> 00:54:21,906
With my bachelor's program.
1696
00:54:22,001 --> 00:54:23,500
I had one class left,
so he thought
1697
00:54:23,652 --> 00:54:25,486
That I wasn't a nurse even
though I told him
1698
00:54:25,579 --> 00:54:27,337
Explicitly, "I am a nurse."
1699
00:54:27,490 --> 00:54:28,931
- You're an rn.
- I am.
1700
00:54:29,082 --> 00:54:31,082
I have an associate's degree,
which allowed me to get
1701
00:54:31,102 --> 00:54:32,843
My registered nursing license.
1702
00:54:32,995 --> 00:54:34,586
You can look it up online.
I got the whole thing.
1703
00:54:34,605 --> 00:54:35,920
- I trust you.
I trust you.
1704
00:54:35,940 --> 00:54:39,424
- And he told justin
that I wasn't a nurse.
1705
00:54:39,443 --> 00:54:40,258
Justin was very upset about it.
1706
00:54:40,278 --> 00:54:41,502
Told his wife.
1707
00:54:41,595 --> 00:54:42,519
And then--
- long story short,
1708
00:54:42,613 --> 00:54:44,095
I overreacted.
1709
00:54:44,189 --> 00:54:45,672
I didn't come to you
before coming to somebody else.
1710
00:54:45,691 --> 00:54:46,690
- Mm-hmm, in front of--
1711
00:54:46,784 --> 00:54:48,117
- And that made you feel how?
1712
00:54:48,344 --> 00:54:50,119
- Oh, back-stabbed.
1713
00:54:50,346 --> 00:54:52,454
I was upset
going into the conversation
1714
00:54:52,681 --> 00:54:54,848
As well, because
we had promised each other
1715
00:54:54,941 --> 00:54:56,033
Not to talk about finances
1716
00:54:56,185 --> 00:54:57,534
Or family on the honeymoon.
1717
00:54:57,628 --> 00:54:58,961
And we sat down,
1718
00:54:59,188 --> 00:55:00,537
And that's the first thing
he talked about.
1719
00:55:00,631 --> 00:55:02,689
And I think that's why
I was really upset.
1720
00:55:02,708 --> 00:55:04,300
You kind of, like,
went back on your promise,
1721
00:55:04,527 --> 00:55:05,692
Went behind my back.
1722
00:55:05,786 --> 00:55:06,877
And it all happened
at once, too,
1723
00:55:06,971 --> 00:55:08,137
And I was just like...
1724
00:55:08,364 --> 00:55:10,380
♪ ♪
1725
00:55:10,474 --> 00:55:13,367
- It takes time
to know how to be married.
1726
00:55:13,385 --> 00:55:14,384
- Mm-hmm.
1727
00:55:14,478 --> 00:55:16,127
You're coming from single life
1728
00:55:16,147 --> 00:55:18,480
To married life in an instant.
1729
00:55:18,707 --> 00:55:21,150
This idea of putting
your wife first,
1730
00:55:21,301 --> 00:55:22,559
It's something
that you have to learn.
1731
00:55:22,711 --> 00:55:24,711
- Yeah. I do take ownership
1732
00:55:24,730 --> 00:55:26,322
For not coming to morgan first,
1733
00:55:26,549 --> 00:55:28,899
And be like, hey, can I
talk to an outside source
1734
00:55:28,993 --> 00:55:29,992
For a new perspective?
1735
00:55:30,219 --> 00:55:31,309
I apologize for that
1736
00:55:31,403 --> 00:55:32,886
And for being judgmental
of your past.
1737
00:55:32,905 --> 00:55:34,571
It's not fair.
- Yeah.
1738
00:55:34,665 --> 00:55:37,666
- Trust me, look, every man
has had to learn this.
1739
00:55:37,818 --> 00:55:40,669
When it comes to your wife,
talk to her first.
1740
00:55:40,896 --> 00:55:44,414
Those early mistakes
are expected.
1741
00:55:44,508 --> 00:55:47,659
So I really appreciate
and I'm really proud
1742
00:55:47,678 --> 00:55:49,403
That you guys talked about it.
1743
00:55:49,496 --> 00:55:52,255
And it looks like you've
hashed a lot of that out,
1744
00:55:52,350 --> 00:55:55,258
And you've come to, at least,
to a place of understanding.
1745
00:55:55,411 --> 00:55:56,835
Is that safe to say?
1746
00:55:56,929 --> 00:55:58,503
- I would say so.
1747
00:55:58,522 --> 00:56:00,814
- How is the trust between
the two of you because of this?
1748
00:56:02,175 --> 00:56:03,250
- Uh-uh.
- What?
1749
00:56:03,268 --> 00:56:04,601
What's uh-uh?
- It's not good.
1750
00:56:04,753 --> 00:56:06,086
It's very, very hard for me
to come back
1751
00:56:06,105 --> 00:56:07,512
From something like this.
1752
00:56:07,531 --> 00:56:08,697
It's very hard.
1753
00:56:08,924 --> 00:56:10,774
So I'm, like, trying
really, really hard
1754
00:56:10,926 --> 00:56:13,351
To, like, be here
and be present and, like,
1755
00:56:13,445 --> 00:56:14,778
Learn how to trust you.
1756
00:56:14,872 --> 00:56:16,187
- Let's talk about that.
1757
00:56:16,207 --> 00:56:17,706
Why do you find that
so difficult?
1758
00:56:17,933 --> 00:56:20,450
- It's a big deal,
when I let people in.
1759
00:56:20,544 --> 00:56:22,119
When trust is broken, I'm out.
1760
00:56:22,271 --> 00:56:23,620
Gone.
1761
00:56:23,772 --> 00:56:26,364
- What happened to you
to stop letting people in?
1762
00:56:26,458 --> 00:56:28,275
- [voice breaking]
gonna make me cry.
1763
00:56:28,293 --> 00:56:30,277
[somber music]
1764
00:56:30,295 --> 00:56:32,721
- Want me to get a tissue?
1765
00:56:32,873 --> 00:56:34,281
- [sniffs]
1766
00:56:34,299 --> 00:56:38,042
♪ ♪
1767
00:56:38,062 --> 00:56:40,879
- I mean, it's like--
1768
00:56:40,973 --> 00:56:42,806
Of course, it's, like,
childhood stuff.
1769
00:56:42,958 --> 00:56:43,715
- Yeah, I know, sweetie.
1770
00:56:43,734 --> 00:56:45,125
- Like my dad.
1771
00:56:45,144 --> 00:56:51,740
♪ ♪
1772
00:56:53,636 --> 00:56:56,745
I mean, it's like...
1773
00:56:56,897 --> 00:56:59,473
You let someone in,
and they break your trust.
1774
00:56:59,491 --> 00:57:01,658
You let someone in,
and they hurt you.
1775
00:57:01,810 --> 00:57:04,736
And I kind of--that was like
the push and pull relationship
1776
00:57:04,755 --> 00:57:05,996
That I had with him growing up.
1777
00:57:06,148 --> 00:57:09,925
So I know it's hard,
like, trusting people now.
1778
00:57:10,076 --> 00:57:11,576
- How's your relationship
with your dad?
1779
00:57:11,670 --> 00:57:12,836
- I gave him the option--
1780
00:57:12,930 --> 00:57:15,079
Either do x, y, and z,
1781
00:57:15,099 --> 00:57:17,266
Or we're not going to have
a relationship anymore.
1782
00:57:17,493 --> 00:57:20,177
And we don't have
a relationship anymore.
1783
00:57:20,329 --> 00:57:22,663
- So how does it feel to you,
then, when you see
1784
00:57:22,681 --> 00:57:24,848
Somebody like ben...
- Mm-hmm.
1785
00:57:25,000 --> 00:57:28,092
- Who, as soon as he
recognizes that he's
1786
00:57:28,187 --> 00:57:30,854
Done something
that hurt you--that he's
1787
00:57:30,948 --> 00:57:32,948
Just profuse in his apologies?
1788
00:57:33,175 --> 00:57:34,357
- Mm-hmm.
- How does that make you feel?
1789
00:57:34,452 --> 00:57:35,433
- No, it's good.
1790
00:57:35,527 --> 00:57:37,010
- If there is no apology,
1791
00:57:37,103 --> 00:57:40,013
Then you have some reason
not to trust.
1792
00:57:40,032 --> 00:57:43,775
But since he is saying,
"hey, I screwed up.
1793
00:57:43,794 --> 00:57:48,021
I'll never do that again,"
you have reason to trust.
1794
00:57:48,114 --> 00:57:51,467
The other side of the apology
is forgiveness.
1795
00:57:51,694 --> 00:57:54,470
And that means that
I not only forgave the act,
1796
00:57:54,697 --> 00:57:56,379
I forgave the actor.
1797
00:57:56,532 --> 00:57:57,531
Does that make sense to you?
1798
00:57:57,549 --> 00:57:59,366
- Yeah, that makes sense.
1799
00:57:59,384 --> 00:58:03,220
- I just don't want your hurt
to create walls that infringe
1800
00:58:03,314 --> 00:58:07,374
On your intimacy, infringe
on you becoming closer,
1801
00:58:07,392 --> 00:58:09,893
Even infringe
on you growing in love.
1802
00:58:09,987 --> 00:58:12,062
That's the one thing
that I'm concerned about
1803
00:58:12,214 --> 00:58:14,973
Because your future
is dependent
1804
00:58:15,067 --> 00:58:17,308
On how you handle conflict.
1805
00:58:17,328 --> 00:58:18,827
And when I talk about intimacy,
1806
00:58:18,979 --> 00:58:20,403
I'm not necessarily talking
about sex.
1807
00:58:20,556 --> 00:58:22,313
I'm just talking about intimacy
in how you're relating.
1808
00:58:22,407 --> 00:58:23,999
How is that going?
1809
00:58:24,150 --> 00:58:27,151
- It was good
until the debacle.
1810
00:58:27,246 --> 00:58:28,319
You slept all the way
on that side.
1811
00:58:28,339 --> 00:58:29,988
So I was like,
from that point on,
1812
00:58:30,007 --> 00:58:33,157
I kind of read that as like,
okay, like, we're on her time.
1813
00:58:33,252 --> 00:58:36,570
- If I can't trust you with my
emotions and how I'm feeling,
1814
00:58:36,588 --> 00:58:40,090
How am I gonna trust you
with my body?
1815
00:58:40,184 --> 00:58:41,925
- I'm trying to win you back.
1816
00:58:42,019 --> 00:58:42,926
It's like, I'm trying.
1817
00:58:43,078 --> 00:58:44,502
Like, I'm genuinely trying.
1818
00:58:44,522 --> 00:58:45,837
And like, if I could go
in a time machine,
1819
00:58:45,856 --> 00:58:46,930
I would go in a time machine.
1820
00:58:47,082 --> 00:58:48,190
But I can't.
1821
00:58:48,341 --> 00:58:49,858
- But it's still, like,
my wall went up.
1822
00:58:50,010 --> 00:58:50,934
You know?
- Yeah, no, you're fine.
1823
00:58:51,086 --> 00:58:52,102
- And it's--
1824
00:58:52,254 --> 00:58:53,511
- Who's in control
of that wall?
1825
00:58:53,531 --> 00:58:55,105
- I'm in control of the wall.
1826
00:58:55,257 --> 00:58:56,256
- So who could take it down?
1827
00:58:56,275 --> 00:59:00,184
♪ ♪
1828
00:59:00,279 --> 00:59:01,595
- I can take the wall down.
- Yeah.
1829
00:59:01,613 --> 00:59:02,612
- Yeah.
1830
00:59:02,706 --> 00:59:03,947
- That was just one incident.
1831
00:59:04,099 --> 00:59:06,024
He just overreacted.
1832
00:59:06,043 --> 00:59:10,546
- I do feel like I can start
bringing down that wall.
1833
00:59:10,697 --> 00:59:12,105
- To forgive someone
means that I'm releasing you
1834
00:59:12,124 --> 00:59:14,107
From my judgment.
1835
00:59:14,200 --> 00:59:15,717
Is that what you're doing?
- Mm-hmm.
1836
00:59:15,944 --> 00:59:17,219
- You've been released
from her judgment.
1837
00:59:17,370 --> 00:59:18,369
You're good.
1838
00:59:18,389 --> 00:59:19,721
- It feels good.
1839
00:59:19,948 --> 00:59:22,465
- And if you're at a good
place, then tell him
1840
00:59:22,618 --> 00:59:24,726
It's okay
to be affectionate now.
1841
00:59:24,878 --> 00:59:25,727
Is it okay?
1842
00:59:25,954 --> 00:59:26,878
- Yeah.
1843
00:59:26,972 --> 00:59:28,230
I do feel a lot better now.
1844
00:59:28,381 --> 00:59:30,640
- Is there any snuggling
in the bed now?
1845
00:59:30,793 --> 00:59:32,475
Is it okay to snuggle?
1846
00:59:32,628 --> 00:59:33,885
I'm asking you, for you.
1847
00:59:33,904 --> 00:59:35,219
Are you okay to snuggle?
1848
00:59:35,314 --> 00:59:36,797
- I am okay to snuggle.
1849
00:59:36,815 --> 00:59:38,073
- That's awesome.
1850
00:59:38,300 --> 00:59:39,649
- Now, what steps
are we going to be making
1851
00:59:39,743 --> 00:59:42,411
Towards taking the walls down?
1852
00:59:42,562 --> 00:59:44,395
- Pda? Or--oh, the--sorry.
1853
00:59:44,415 --> 00:59:45,747
That's right.
1854
00:59:45,974 --> 00:59:47,490
- No, is that something
that you feel like--
1855
00:59:47,585 --> 00:59:48,917
- Yeah, I can do that.
1856
00:59:49,069 --> 00:59:50,252
- I feel like that would help,
too, just like--
1857
00:59:50,479 --> 00:59:51,311
- I got you.
1858
00:59:51,404 --> 00:59:52,662
[chuckles]
1859
00:59:52,756 --> 00:59:53,663
- Thank you for that.
1860
00:59:53,816 --> 00:59:55,239
Oh, thank you.
Thank you.
1861
00:59:55,259 --> 00:59:56,574
Thank you.
- Okay.
1862
00:59:56,594 --> 00:59:58,485
We need to talk, dude.
1863
00:59:58,578 --> 01:00:00,411
I want you to be gentle.
- Yeah.
1864
01:00:00,431 --> 01:00:01,930
- I want you to touch softly,
1865
01:00:02,082 --> 01:00:03,432
Not like you're
on the basketball court.
1866
01:00:03,583 --> 01:00:04,674
Oh, good shot.
- Yeah.
1867
01:00:04,827 --> 01:00:05,675
Thanks, bro.
1868
01:00:05,828 --> 01:00:06,993
- Good shot.
1869
01:00:07,087 --> 01:00:08,270
- Fricking cool, guy.
- Dude.
1870
01:00:08,497 --> 01:00:09,587
- Yeah.
1871
01:00:09,681 --> 01:00:10,847
- I'm gonna youtube it.
1872
01:00:10,941 --> 01:00:11,940
I'll take lessons.
1873
01:00:12,092 --> 01:00:13,758
- Dude, no.
1874
01:00:13,777 --> 01:00:15,669
You're gonna youtube affection?
1875
01:00:15,687 --> 01:00:17,854
No. Talk to your wife.
- Oh, my god.
1876
01:00:17,948 --> 01:00:19,172
Gotta help you out with that.
1877
01:00:19,265 --> 01:00:20,616
[laughter]
1878
01:00:24,196 --> 01:00:27,030
[mellow music]
1879
01:00:27,124 --> 01:00:30,441
♪ ♪
1880
01:00:30,461 --> 01:00:31,793
- Locked the door.
1881
01:00:32,020 --> 01:00:33,945
All right.
So that was productive.
1882
01:00:33,964 --> 01:00:37,281
I'm glad pastor cal
came through.
1883
01:00:37,376 --> 01:00:38,875
Do you feel, like, better
1884
01:00:39,027 --> 01:00:41,619
That he kind of shared his
knowledge and wisdom with us?
1885
01:00:41,713 --> 01:00:43,363
- Yeah, absolutely.
1886
01:00:43,382 --> 01:00:45,198
- What stuck out
to you the most?
1887
01:00:45,217 --> 01:00:49,052
- I think, like, him saying,
you know, go deeper.
1888
01:00:49,204 --> 01:00:50,795
Obviously,
I've told you that, too,
1889
01:00:50,814 --> 01:00:52,296
You know,
I felt like in the beginning.
1890
01:00:52,316 --> 01:00:53,556
- Yeah, okay.
- You know,
1891
01:00:53,651 --> 01:00:56,801
I feel like I'm sharing
so much, as far as,
1892
01:00:56,895 --> 01:00:59,212
Like, intimate details.
1893
01:00:59,231 --> 01:01:01,047
- I didn't know
I was not expressing myself
1894
01:01:01,066 --> 01:01:03,233
In vulnerability.
1895
01:01:03,385 --> 01:01:06,144
- So basically,
you've been just telling...
1896
01:01:06,238 --> 01:01:07,329
- Surface-level things.
1897
01:01:07,480 --> 01:01:09,556
- Surface-level stuff.
1898
01:01:09,574 --> 01:01:12,075
- Just like, you saying,
"oh, you know,
1899
01:01:12,169 --> 01:01:15,837
I didn't feel loved by my mom"
or something.
1900
01:01:15,989 --> 01:01:18,581
Well, tell me about it.
Why don't you?
1901
01:01:18,734 --> 01:01:19,657
How did it make you feel?
- The why behind it.
1902
01:01:19,677 --> 01:01:21,343
- When did it happen?
Just think.
1903
01:01:21,570 --> 01:01:23,920
I'm gonna ask you
all of these things.
1904
01:01:24,072 --> 01:01:25,997
So why not even just
give me the back story--
1905
01:01:26,016 --> 01:01:27,349
- Yeah, I get it.
1906
01:01:27,500 --> 01:01:28,684
- To begin with?
1907
01:01:28,835 --> 01:01:29,910
Does that make sense?
1908
01:01:29,928 --> 01:01:31,411
- Yes.
- When you say, like,
1909
01:01:31,430 --> 01:01:33,838
"I know--I went through
something similar,"
1910
01:01:33,857 --> 01:01:35,857
Or, "I know
exactly how you feel,"
1911
01:01:36,009 --> 01:01:37,584
I want to know how.
1912
01:01:37,677 --> 01:01:41,196
It's just you're here.
- Mm-hmm.
1913
01:01:41,423 --> 01:01:44,090
- And I want you to be here.
- Okay.
1914
01:01:44,184 --> 01:01:45,942
- You don't talk
about your mom.
1915
01:01:46,094 --> 01:01:49,429
That's the one thing
that always chokes me up
1916
01:01:49,522 --> 01:01:51,206
And, like, gets
that lump in my throat
1917
01:01:51,357 --> 01:01:52,874
And fricking makes me cry,
right?
1918
01:01:53,101 --> 01:01:55,101
Because there's so much pain
behind that.
1919
01:01:55,120 --> 01:01:57,695
But sometimes, I feel like
you don't want to even
1920
01:01:57,715 --> 01:01:59,214
Say that there is pain there.
1921
01:01:59,441 --> 01:02:00,607
- I don't have
any emotional connection
1922
01:02:00,700 --> 01:02:02,459
Towards my biological mom
at all.
1923
01:02:02,553 --> 01:02:04,386
- And I have no connection
to my father, right?
1924
01:02:04,613 --> 01:02:06,221
- But do you get--
do you get emotional?
1925
01:02:06,372 --> 01:02:08,557
- Absolutely, because that's
my--half of my identity.
1926
01:02:08,708 --> 01:02:10,800
- Right. But I don't.
1927
01:02:10,953 --> 01:02:12,635
- You don't at all?
1928
01:02:12,788 --> 01:02:15,188
- I mean,
she's a stranger to me.
1929
01:02:16,308 --> 01:02:17,457
I can't talk about feelings
1930
01:02:17,476 --> 01:02:18,734
If I don't have feelings
for something.
1931
01:02:18,885 --> 01:02:20,143
It's just--
- you detached yourself.
1932
01:02:20,295 --> 01:02:21,644
- It is what it is.
1933
01:02:21,739 --> 01:02:23,221
- I don't want to feel
like I'm interrogating you.
1934
01:02:23,240 --> 01:02:24,647
You know what I mean?
1935
01:02:24,800 --> 01:02:26,891
I'm frustrated
that he's not opening up.
1936
01:02:26,910 --> 01:02:28,744
I have the same
type of background.
1937
01:02:28,971 --> 01:02:30,728
I have the same
type of upbringing.
1938
01:02:30,748 --> 01:02:32,822
And for him to say
that he understands me,
1939
01:02:32,916 --> 01:02:34,657
I want to know, but how?
1940
01:02:34,752 --> 01:02:37,586
If you can't connect to me,
or you can't tell me how,
1941
01:02:37,813 --> 01:02:40,756
Then it makes me question
if he knows
1942
01:02:40,907 --> 01:02:42,999
How to even be vulnerable.
1943
01:02:43,151 --> 01:02:44,651
- I mean, with the mom thing,
it's just--
1944
01:02:44,669 --> 01:02:46,152
It's pretty black and white.
1945
01:02:46,246 --> 01:02:48,263
But I'll share more with you.
1946
01:02:48,414 --> 01:02:51,082
- Can you give me anything now?
Share anything--
1947
01:02:51,176 --> 01:02:53,326
- I can't think of anything on
the top of my head right now.
1948
01:02:53,345 --> 01:02:56,846
But if it comes up organically,
I'll share with you.
1949
01:02:56,999 --> 01:02:59,182
♪ ♪
1950
01:02:59,276 --> 01:03:03,520
- ♪ we can do it
just like in the movies ♪
1951
01:03:03,614 --> 01:03:07,674
- She will be much happier
if I give her food.
1952
01:03:07,692 --> 01:03:09,451
- Not all the couples
are lucky enough to have
1953
01:03:09,678 --> 01:03:11,936
The love--the pug love child
that we have.
1954
01:03:11,955 --> 01:03:15,123
- [laughs]
I'm just so happy
1955
01:03:15,275 --> 01:03:16,274
She didn't wake you up
last night.
1956
01:03:16,293 --> 01:03:17,275
- No, she didn't.
1957
01:03:17,369 --> 01:03:19,019
I was outie.
- Okay.
1958
01:03:19,037 --> 01:03:20,203
- Ready for this first bite.
1959
01:03:20,355 --> 01:03:21,521
- Yeah.
1960
01:03:21,540 --> 01:03:25,692
It should be cooked perfect.
1961
01:03:25,710 --> 01:03:28,361
- Mmm, mmm.
1962
01:03:28,454 --> 01:03:30,138
- Oh, wow.
That's enthusiastic.
1963
01:03:30,290 --> 01:03:33,049
How do you feel like
the first few days
1964
01:03:33,201 --> 01:03:37,628
Of coexisting
in our neutral home are going?
1965
01:03:37,648 --> 01:03:39,706
- Worryingly easy.
1966
01:03:39,799 --> 01:03:42,633
- I totally agree.
I'm waiting.
1967
01:03:42,727 --> 01:03:44,544
- You're waiting for me to do
something that pisses you off.
1968
01:03:44,637 --> 01:03:47,063
- [laughs] you've been great.
1969
01:03:47,215 --> 01:03:48,806
I have no complaints about you.
1970
01:03:48,900 --> 01:03:53,811
And I think my favorite part
is going to bed next to you
1971
01:03:53,831 --> 01:03:55,479
And waking up next to you,
though.
1972
01:03:55,499 --> 01:03:57,315
It's, like, really nice.
1973
01:03:57,334 --> 01:03:59,392
And then, of course, like,
when you come home from work
1974
01:03:59,411 --> 01:04:01,077
And I have dinner ready,
like tonight.
1975
01:04:01,229 --> 01:04:02,153
That's kind of nice.
1976
01:04:02,172 --> 01:04:04,989
- It's definitely nice for me.
1977
01:04:05,083 --> 01:04:06,157
- I have a question.
1978
01:04:06,176 --> 01:04:07,676
Have you been in love before?
1979
01:04:07,827 --> 01:04:09,252
And how did you know?
1980
01:04:09,404 --> 01:04:10,846
- I don't think
I've been in love in, like,
1981
01:04:11,073 --> 01:04:13,682
The mature, adult,
long-term relationship sense.
1982
01:04:13,909 --> 01:04:16,409
- Mm-hmm.
- Now that I'm married to you,
1983
01:04:16,428 --> 01:04:19,095
I kind of have
a different perspective on it.
1984
01:04:19,189 --> 01:04:22,357
- I'll be honest,
I've had a lot of boyfriends.
1985
01:04:22,508 --> 01:04:25,527
And I always jump in
head first.
1986
01:04:25,678 --> 01:04:28,088
And it's infatuation.
1987
01:04:28,106 --> 01:04:29,422
And it's fiery.
1988
01:04:29,441 --> 01:04:31,774
And it's kind of
always the same, you know?
1989
01:04:31,927 --> 01:04:35,428
And I fall in love
really easily.
1990
01:04:35,447 --> 01:04:37,355
♪ ♪
1991
01:04:37,374 --> 01:04:38,431
- Yeah. I think, for me,
1992
01:04:38,524 --> 01:04:40,024
The l word is gonna be about,
1993
01:04:40,043 --> 01:04:43,269
I am so much happier with you
than I was without you.
1994
01:04:43,288 --> 01:04:44,454
- Right. I agree.
1995
01:04:44,606 --> 01:04:46,197
- And then
I'm seeing a life now.
1996
01:04:46,216 --> 01:04:47,198
I'm seeing a life.
1997
01:04:47,292 --> 01:04:48,791
And when I think
about my future,
1998
01:04:48,886 --> 01:04:50,443
And I think about stuff,
you're in those thoughts.
1999
01:04:50,462 --> 01:04:51,386
- Right, right.
2000
01:04:51,537 --> 01:04:52,703
- That would be it for me.
2001
01:04:52,723 --> 01:04:53,796
Like, I think
we're gonna be in this.
2002
01:04:53,891 --> 01:04:55,615
- ♪ oh ♪
2003
01:04:55,634 --> 01:04:57,708
♪ I do what I want
when I want it ♪
2004
01:04:57,728 --> 01:04:59,043
♪ yeah, you know I do it ♪
2005
01:04:59,062 --> 01:05:01,121
- Couching it?
- Couching it, boo.
2006
01:05:01,139 --> 01:05:04,900
- ♪ do it like this,
do it like that ♪
2007
01:05:05,127 --> 01:05:07,068
- So this is just
a little thank you.
2008
01:05:07,220 --> 01:05:09,629
Why don't you do
the card first?
2009
01:05:09,648 --> 01:05:11,239
- "our journey
has not been perfect.
2010
01:05:11,391 --> 01:05:13,149
"but it's raw, honest,
and real.
2011
01:05:13,301 --> 01:05:16,077
"you are the most entertaining,
selfless, kind, caring,
2012
01:05:16,229 --> 01:05:18,062
And thoughtful person
I've ever met."
2013
01:05:18,156 --> 01:05:19,730
Really?
- Yeah.
2014
01:05:19,750 --> 01:05:21,658
- Aw.
2015
01:05:21,752 --> 01:05:23,585
"every day with you
gets better and better.
2016
01:05:23,736 --> 01:05:25,587
"I have no idea
how this will end
2017
01:05:25,738 --> 01:05:28,239
"or even what
tomorrow looks like,
2018
01:05:28,258 --> 01:05:31,259
"but I love
that I'm the happiest
2019
01:05:31,486 --> 01:05:32,910
"I've ever been
one day at a time.
2020
01:05:33,004 --> 01:05:35,746
Love, your wifey."
2021
01:05:35,840 --> 01:05:37,248
Thanks, babe.
- Mm.
2022
01:05:37,267 --> 01:05:38,266
Okay.
2023
01:05:38,418 --> 01:05:39,434
Couple things.
2024
01:05:39,661 --> 01:05:41,177
These are mason jars
that I purchased
2025
01:05:41,329 --> 01:05:42,753
That were already used.
2026
01:05:42,773 --> 01:05:45,999
And then inside, we have
little love coupons.
2027
01:05:46,017 --> 01:05:47,834
So cheesy, but they're--
they're funny.
2028
01:05:47,852 --> 01:05:49,593
So here, let's read them.
2029
01:05:49,613 --> 01:05:52,113
- "yes day." ooh.
2030
01:05:52,340 --> 01:05:54,616
"one day where you decide
what we do,
2031
01:05:54,767 --> 01:05:57,177
"and I say yes to all.
2032
01:05:57,195 --> 01:05:59,245
Expires never."
2033
01:06:02,701 --> 01:06:03,792
- All right.
2034
01:06:03,943 --> 01:06:06,110
Put your eyes back
in their head.
2035
01:06:06,204 --> 01:06:07,295
- Not reading that one?
2036
01:06:07,447 --> 01:06:09,022
- That one does not get read.
- Okay.
2037
01:06:09,040 --> 01:06:12,192
- "one free bubble bath
with wifey.
2038
01:06:12,210 --> 01:06:14,043
Expires tonight."
2039
01:06:14,196 --> 01:06:18,122
- [laughing]
2040
01:06:18,141 --> 01:06:19,882
Well, you're just
full of surprises.
2041
01:06:20,035 --> 01:06:21,125
- Yeah.
2042
01:06:21,144 --> 01:06:23,203
- So I don't want
that one to expire.
2043
01:06:23,296 --> 01:06:25,296
So I'm gonna cash in.
- Yeah?
2044
01:06:25,315 --> 01:06:28,132
I think if things get a little
steamy between us tonight,
2045
01:06:28,226 --> 01:06:30,634
Then I would be ready to take
things to the next level.
2046
01:06:30,729 --> 01:06:33,488
What do you think?
2047
01:06:33,639 --> 01:06:36,566
[laughing]
2048
01:06:36,660 --> 01:06:37,826
He's speechless.
2049
01:06:38,053 --> 01:06:39,902
- I'm speechless,
as I often am with you.
2050
01:06:40,055 --> 01:06:43,740
- I'm feeling like mitch
has not only told me,
2051
01:06:43,892 --> 01:06:46,726
But he has shown me
all of the things
2052
01:06:46,745 --> 01:06:48,319
I've asked him to show me
2053
01:06:48,338 --> 01:06:50,672
In order for me to be ready
to take things
2054
01:06:50,899 --> 01:06:52,749
To the next level with him,
physically.
2055
01:06:52,901 --> 01:06:54,734
[scratching]
2056
01:06:54,753 --> 01:06:56,419
[laughter]
2057
01:06:56,513 --> 01:06:58,755
♪ ♪
2058
01:06:58,849 --> 01:07:00,998
I already know I'm gonna fall
in love with him.
2059
01:07:01,018 --> 01:07:04,594
And your girl is ready
to take things home,
2060
01:07:04,746 --> 01:07:06,262
If you will.
2061
01:07:06,414 --> 01:07:08,172
- Luna, I don't want
everyone to see me naked.
2062
01:07:08,266 --> 01:07:09,340
Cheers, babe.
- Yeah.
2063
01:07:09,359 --> 01:07:10,859
It feels right, though.
I'm excited.
2064
01:07:11,086 --> 01:07:12,027
- I'm ready.
2065
01:07:12,178 --> 01:07:14,011
- You seem excited.
2066
01:07:14,105 --> 01:07:15,104
- Trying to be cool.
2067
01:07:15,198 --> 01:07:17,257
[laughter]
2068
01:07:17,350 --> 01:07:18,591
- I hope you liked my gift.
2069
01:07:18,610 --> 01:07:19,868
- I love it.
2070
01:07:20,095 --> 01:07:22,520
It's the gift that keeps
on giving, actually.
2071
01:07:22,539 --> 01:07:24,764
- [laughs] bye, luna.
2072
01:07:24,783 --> 01:07:25,689
- Bye, luna.
2073
01:07:25,709 --> 01:07:27,617
Don't miss us.
2074
01:07:27,769 --> 01:07:29,860
We'll be a little while.
- [laughs]
2075
01:07:29,880 --> 01:07:31,120
Days.
2076
01:07:31,273 --> 01:07:31,880
♪ ♪
2077
01:07:36,127 --> 01:07:37,944
[upbeat music]
2078
01:07:37,962 --> 01:07:39,870
♪ ♪
2079
01:07:39,964 --> 01:07:41,222
- So how is marriage?
2080
01:07:41,374 --> 01:07:42,706
- Marriage is great.
- I mean...
2081
01:07:42,801 --> 01:07:43,800
- Really?
- It's fun.
2082
01:07:43,952 --> 01:07:46,452
- It's still so baby
and so new.
2083
01:07:46,471 --> 01:07:49,289
But I still feel like I have
the biggest crush on him.
2084
01:07:49,307 --> 01:07:51,124
I can't wait
to come home and see him.
2085
01:07:51,217 --> 01:07:52,642
Everything's so fun and funny.
2086
01:07:52,736 --> 01:07:53,884
But I still--
2087
01:07:53,904 --> 01:07:56,813
I want to see--
like, I don't know.
2088
01:07:56,907 --> 01:07:58,889
It's, like, not like
I'm, like, testing, but I just
2089
01:07:58,909 --> 01:08:02,151
Want to see the realness
of, like, a conflict
2090
01:08:02,304 --> 01:08:03,745
And how we resolve it,
and, like,
2091
01:08:03,896 --> 01:08:05,822
That just hasn't
really arisen yet.
2092
01:08:05,974 --> 01:08:07,731
- It will come in time.
2093
01:08:07,751 --> 01:08:09,659
- Yeah.
- But don't welcome trouble.
2094
01:08:09,811 --> 01:08:10,901
- Yeah.
- Okay?
2095
01:08:10,995 --> 01:08:12,161
I want you to be prepared
2096
01:08:12,314 --> 01:08:13,904
And have the tools
to handle it.
2097
01:08:13,924 --> 01:08:16,740
But don't welcome it, okay,
because it will come.
2098
01:08:16,835 --> 01:08:18,576
- Right.
- Yeah.
2099
01:08:18,595 --> 01:08:22,413
- You had said
that you were committed
2100
01:08:22,432 --> 01:08:24,006
Irrespective of who--
2101
01:08:24,101 --> 01:08:25,749
- Yeah.
2102
01:08:25,769 --> 01:08:28,085
I mean, I was ready
if it was somebody
2103
01:08:28,105 --> 01:08:29,512
I wasn't attracted to.
2104
01:08:29,664 --> 01:08:31,422
I was ready to put in the work
2105
01:08:31,441 --> 01:08:32,756
And try to build
the attraction.
2106
01:08:32,851 --> 01:08:34,016
I was ready to do it all.
2107
01:08:34,169 --> 01:08:35,501
But miguel
has just made it easy.
2108
01:08:35,520 --> 01:08:37,019
He's a plus.
2109
01:08:37,172 --> 01:08:38,338
I was immediately
attracted to him.
2110
01:08:38,356 --> 01:08:39,614
He makes me laugh every second.
2111
01:08:39,765 --> 01:08:42,117
Like, it's just
better and easier.
2112
01:08:42,268 --> 01:08:43,676
Like, I don't know
how else to say it.
2113
01:08:43,695 --> 01:08:45,511
But the thing is, is like,
2114
01:08:45,530 --> 01:08:47,013
I could be ready
to be married forever.
2115
01:08:47,106 --> 01:08:48,197
But if the other
person is not--
2116
01:08:48,291 --> 01:08:49,124
- Oh, absolutely.
2117
01:08:49,351 --> 01:08:50,516
Absolutely.
2118
01:08:50,610 --> 01:08:53,686
- So how can I control
that narrative?
2119
01:08:53,705 --> 01:08:55,371
- How do you feel about it?
2120
01:08:55,523 --> 01:08:57,615
- I honestly went into this
with, like,
2121
01:08:57,634 --> 01:09:02,953
I can give someone my
everything for eight weeks.
2122
01:09:03,047 --> 01:09:06,366
But to your point, like, you've
made this thing so easy now.
2123
01:09:06,384 --> 01:09:08,551
And so now it's like,
the eight weeks,
2124
01:09:08,703 --> 01:09:10,145
I don't really even think
about that anymore.
2125
01:09:10,296 --> 01:09:11,871
I mean, we rebranded
decision day.
2126
01:09:11,964 --> 01:09:13,039
We don't call it that anymore.
2127
01:09:13,057 --> 01:09:14,632
We call it vow renewal day.
2128
01:09:14,651 --> 01:09:15,875
- Yeah, 'cause it
was a trigger for me.
2129
01:09:15,894 --> 01:09:16,726
He'd bring up decision day,
2130
01:09:16,820 --> 01:09:17,986
And I'm like, stop it!
2131
01:09:18,213 --> 01:09:19,487
Like, this is longer
than eight weeks.
2132
01:09:19,639 --> 01:09:20,822
Like...
- Right.
2133
01:09:20,973 --> 01:09:22,048
- So we rebranded it.
2134
01:09:22,141 --> 01:09:23,491
It took a little bit
of talking.
2135
01:09:23,643 --> 01:09:24,642
And that one was just,
like, yes.
2136
01:09:24,661 --> 01:09:25,718
This is beautiful.
2137
01:09:25,811 --> 01:09:27,144
This makes me feel good.
- Okay.
2138
01:09:27,164 --> 01:09:29,906
Well, good.
Good, good. That's very cool.
2139
01:09:30,058 --> 01:09:31,557
- Yeah.
- Yeah.
2140
01:09:31,576 --> 01:09:33,893
- What do you need from him
2141
01:09:33,986 --> 01:09:36,004
To even give you
more confidence
2142
01:09:36,155 --> 01:09:37,730
About the permanence
of your marriage
2143
01:09:37,823 --> 01:09:40,566
And to feel as though
this is something
2144
01:09:40,660 --> 01:09:42,235
That can stand
the test of time?
2145
01:09:42,253 --> 01:09:43,827
What do you need from him?
2146
01:09:43,922 --> 01:09:48,741
- I think if there is conflict,
or if you do feel like
2147
01:09:48,760 --> 01:09:52,428
You're not connected to me,
I need you to stay sturdy
2148
01:09:52,580 --> 01:09:55,481
And not, like, tell me that.
2149
01:09:56,842 --> 01:09:59,268
- From--I wish I could say yes,
but I've been
2150
01:09:59,362 --> 01:10:00,269
In that position.
2151
01:10:00,363 --> 01:10:01,863
And I start to lose--
2152
01:10:02,014 --> 01:10:06,034
I fall into patterns
and I start to internalize it.
2153
01:10:06,261 --> 01:10:08,428
And next thing I know,
I'm emotionally elsewhere,
2154
01:10:08,446 --> 01:10:10,020
Checked out.
2155
01:10:10,040 --> 01:10:12,281
And I have--like, my friends
refer to me as a doormat.
2156
01:10:12,375 --> 01:10:14,024
[tense music]
2157
01:10:14,044 --> 01:10:16,694
I know the slippery slope
that it creates in me
2158
01:10:16,713 --> 01:10:18,604
When I start censoring myself.
2159
01:10:18,623 --> 01:10:21,549
And then, next thing I know,
I'm so far gone.
2160
01:10:21,776 --> 01:10:23,200
And when I do open up
to my person,
2161
01:10:23,220 --> 01:10:25,778
I open up to let them know
that I'm leaving.
2162
01:10:25,797 --> 01:10:27,222
And then they always respond,
2163
01:10:27,373 --> 01:10:30,299
"why are you telling me this
just now?"
2164
01:10:30,452 --> 01:10:32,969
- There are gonna be times when
2165
01:10:33,121 --> 01:10:34,395
You won't feel good about her.
2166
01:10:34,547 --> 01:10:36,138
That's not uncommon
in marriage.
2167
01:10:36,291 --> 01:10:37,565
- Right.
2168
01:10:37,717 --> 01:10:40,309
- But how
or if you communicate that
2169
01:10:40,462 --> 01:10:44,981
Is pivotal in whether or not
she's going to feel desired,
2170
01:10:45,075 --> 01:10:48,468
Feel wanted, or feel as though
you're about to leave.
2171
01:10:48,561 --> 01:10:50,227
- Sometimes,
what you need to do
2172
01:10:50,321 --> 01:10:52,822
Is to re-examine your feelings
before you say anything.
2173
01:10:52,974 --> 01:10:56,900
- I think I'm hesitant,
because I have been
2174
01:10:56,920 --> 01:11:00,496
In relationships
where I was committed,
2175
01:11:00,590 --> 01:11:01,998
To your point,
2176
01:11:02,150 --> 01:11:08,746
But I didn't have
that feeling of being in love.
2177
01:11:08,765 --> 01:11:09,839
- Right, right.
2178
01:11:09,991 --> 01:11:11,599
- It's just--for me,
it's scary,
2179
01:11:11,826 --> 01:11:13,493
Because it's like,
if it's a feeling, like,
2180
01:11:13,586 --> 01:11:15,085
It's so easy to be out of it.
2181
01:11:15,105 --> 01:11:16,920
And it's like if I say
something wrong
2182
01:11:17,015 --> 01:11:19,274
Or do something wrong, it puts
so much pressure on me, like,
2183
01:11:19,425 --> 01:11:22,502
Oh, he's gonna lose
that feeling.
2184
01:11:22,520 --> 01:11:25,280
Like, it's not something
that just can flip-flop.
2185
01:11:25,431 --> 01:11:27,598
It's like--it's the decision
and the commitment
2186
01:11:27,692 --> 01:11:30,843
And knowing, like, maybe you
don't feel warm towards me,
2187
01:11:30,936 --> 01:11:32,678
But you know it will come back
2188
01:11:32,772 --> 01:11:34,104
As soon as we understand
each other
2189
01:11:34,198 --> 01:11:35,939
And, like--you know?
2190
01:11:36,034 --> 01:11:37,533
Feelings come and go,
2191
01:11:37,685 --> 01:11:39,368
And they waver easily.
2192
01:11:39,462 --> 01:11:40,853
And if you're going
just based off of feeling,
2193
01:11:40,872 --> 01:11:42,705
Like, say goodbye,
because every time
2194
01:11:42,857 --> 01:11:44,357
We're gonna be in an argument,
2195
01:11:44,450 --> 01:11:46,450
What, is he not in love
with me anymore?
2196
01:11:46,469 --> 01:11:48,285
It just--it doesn't
make any sense to me.
2197
01:11:48,379 --> 01:11:50,696
Like, I don't want to know when
you're pulling away from me,
2198
01:11:50,715 --> 01:11:53,366
'cause then it feels
like a punishment
2199
01:11:53,384 --> 01:11:55,051
Of, like, my behaviors.
2200
01:11:55,203 --> 01:11:58,462
Like, I need you to, like,
keep that to yourself.
2201
01:11:58,481 --> 01:12:00,373
- Mm, I don't know
if I can do that.
2202
01:12:00,391 --> 01:12:02,041
- ♪ all these green lights ♪
2203
01:12:02,134 --> 01:12:04,727
♪ are they coming too soon? ♪
2204
01:12:04,879 --> 01:12:06,487
♪ ♪
2205
01:12:09,975 --> 01:12:11,567
[upbeat music]
2206
01:12:11,719 --> 01:12:12,476
♪ ♪
2207
01:12:12,495 --> 01:12:13,553
[doorbell rings]
2208
01:12:13,571 --> 01:12:14,478
- Was that the doorbell?
2209
01:12:14,572 --> 01:12:15,646
- I think it was.
2210
01:12:15,665 --> 01:12:16,998
- Hi.
2211
01:12:17,225 --> 01:12:18,074
- What's up?
2212
01:12:18,168 --> 01:12:19,392
- How are you?
2213
01:12:19,485 --> 01:12:20,393
- Wait, wait, wait,
ladies first.
2214
01:12:20,411 --> 01:12:21,394
- Oh, thank you.
- Hi.
2215
01:12:21,412 --> 01:12:22,986
- So handsome, as always.
2216
01:12:23,006 --> 01:12:24,672
- How are you?
- I'm good.
2217
01:12:24,824 --> 01:12:25,731
- Oh my goodness!
- Sorry. This is luna.
2218
01:12:25,750 --> 01:12:27,066
- This is our love child.
2219
01:12:27,085 --> 01:12:28,158
- She has no sense
of personal space.
2220
01:12:28,178 --> 01:12:29,251
- What's up, man?
- Good to see you.
2221
01:12:29,346 --> 01:12:30,494
Yeah.
2222
01:12:30,588 --> 01:12:31,846
- Please, come over here.
2223
01:12:31,997 --> 01:12:33,681
- We prepared
our finest chair for you.
2224
01:12:33,908 --> 01:12:34,682
- Our finest chair.
2225
01:12:34,909 --> 01:12:36,409
- Hi, luna.
2226
01:12:36,427 --> 01:12:37,910
- Sorry, in advance,
if she jumps on you.
2227
01:12:37,929 --> 01:12:40,262
- Hey, gorgeous.
- Just take her down.
2228
01:12:40,415 --> 01:12:41,672
- That's a face
only a mother could love.
2229
01:12:41,766 --> 01:12:42,673
- Right? [laughs]
2230
01:12:42,767 --> 01:12:44,508
- So let's talk about marriage.
2231
01:12:44,602 --> 01:12:46,844
I know the honeymoon went okay.
2232
01:12:46,863 --> 01:12:48,363
Well, I mean, there was some--
2233
01:12:48,514 --> 01:12:50,423
- It ended on a high note.
- Ended on a high note.
2234
01:12:50,516 --> 01:12:52,942
- I was just
extremely overwhelmed.
2235
01:12:53,094 --> 01:12:54,610
I've had commitment
issues in the past.
2236
01:12:54,704 --> 01:12:56,186
And the kind of--when
things get serious,
2237
01:12:56,206 --> 01:12:57,947
I may want to, like, cut
and run, you know what I mean?
2238
01:12:58,041 --> 01:13:00,600
I feel like I had to break down
my own walls.
2239
01:13:00,693 --> 01:13:02,043
And it just happened
really fast.
2240
01:13:02,270 --> 01:13:04,045
- Yeah.
It was an awesome breakthrough.
2241
01:13:04,272 --> 01:13:06,956
And I'm so glad that you guys
were mature enough
2242
01:13:07,050 --> 01:13:09,609
To weather that storm.
2243
01:13:09,627 --> 01:13:11,293
How do you feel
about marriage now?
2244
01:13:11,388 --> 01:13:14,371
- I cannot believe how much
I love this marriage.
2245
01:13:14,465 --> 01:13:17,633
The marriage has been
exactly what I--
2246
01:13:17,785 --> 01:13:20,878
Probably even better
than what I wanted it to be.
2247
01:13:20,972 --> 01:13:25,808
In very recent days, we have
"consummated" the marriage.
2248
01:13:25,902 --> 01:13:27,551
[laughs]
2249
01:13:27,645 --> 01:13:29,237
- We did it. We did it.
- We did it.
2250
01:13:29,388 --> 01:13:30,980
- We're there. We're there.
- Right.
2251
01:13:31,132 --> 01:13:32,465
- We've been there.
2252
01:13:32,558 --> 01:13:33,741
We're still taking it
day by day.
2253
01:13:33,893 --> 01:13:36,577
Like, we're still--
we're not at the point yet
2254
01:13:36,804 --> 01:13:39,247
Where we're, like,
making, like, lifetime plans.
2255
01:13:39,398 --> 01:13:41,064
- But you are making plans
beyond eight weeks.
2256
01:13:41,159 --> 01:13:42,232
- No.
- Not quite yet.
2257
01:13:42,252 --> 01:13:44,401
- Not us, no.
2258
01:13:44,421 --> 01:13:46,904
The furthest we've talked about
is, like, a week from now,
2259
01:13:46,923 --> 01:13:48,330
To be honest.
2260
01:13:48,483 --> 01:13:51,408
- I believe that you wanted
a lifetime marriage.
2261
01:13:51,428 --> 01:13:53,094
- Oh, absolutely.
I still want that.
2262
01:13:53,245 --> 01:13:55,245
- You still want that?
- Yeah.
2263
01:13:55,265 --> 01:13:56,489
- You put your toes
in the water,
2264
01:13:56,582 --> 01:13:58,340
But you're afraid to go
neck-deep now.
2265
01:13:58,493 --> 01:14:01,418
- I just want to make sure
one day I don't wake up,
2266
01:14:01,512 --> 01:14:05,331
And he is just on a wagon
to tijuana.
2267
01:14:05,349 --> 01:14:08,276
- Why do you have this fear
of him leaving?
2268
01:14:08,427 --> 01:14:10,169
- He has said a few times,
2269
01:14:10,262 --> 01:14:13,022
"I don't want
to feel pressured.
2270
01:14:13,174 --> 01:14:16,025
Let's make sure
we don't pressure mitch."
2271
01:14:16,119 --> 01:14:17,860
[dramatic music]
2272
01:14:17,954 --> 01:14:18,936
- What does that mean?
2273
01:14:18,955 --> 01:14:20,179
- You know, I just don't want
2274
01:14:20,272 --> 01:14:21,697
To lose sight
of how I'm feeling.
2275
01:14:21,791 --> 01:14:24,033
All of our friends and family
both just loved us both
2276
01:14:24,127 --> 01:14:25,518
Right off the bat.
2277
01:14:25,536 --> 01:14:26,777
I was a little bit afraid
about losing myself
2278
01:14:26,796 --> 01:14:30,465
In all these other people's
expectations.
2279
01:14:30,616 --> 01:14:32,875
- Your marriage is up to you.
- Yeah.
2280
01:14:33,027 --> 01:14:34,284
- There doesn't have
to be any pressure.
2281
01:14:34,378 --> 01:14:36,137
You know?
- Yeah.
2282
01:14:36,288 --> 01:14:39,365
- I think big picture,
our values I think align,
2283
01:14:39,458 --> 01:14:43,126
With family,
our opinions on money.
2284
01:14:43,146 --> 01:14:44,645
- Have you talked
about finances
2285
01:14:44,797 --> 01:14:46,814
And what each other makes?
2286
01:14:46,966 --> 01:14:48,131
- No.
- We can talk about that.
2287
01:14:48,226 --> 01:14:51,377
I mean, I don't have
anything to hide.
2288
01:14:51,395 --> 01:14:53,379
- Whisper in her ear and tell
her what your income is.
2289
01:14:53,397 --> 01:14:55,823
♪ ♪
2290
01:14:56,050 --> 01:14:56,991
- Okay.
2291
01:14:57,218 --> 01:14:58,884
- Your turn.
2292
01:14:58,978 --> 01:14:59,827
I know she makes more than me.
2293
01:14:59,979 --> 01:15:01,829
[laughter]
2294
01:15:02,056 --> 01:15:04,890
♪ ♪
2295
01:15:04,984 --> 01:15:06,984
I know she makes
twice as much as me.
2296
01:15:07,078 --> 01:15:09,578
- You went from more
to twice as much.
2297
01:15:09,672 --> 01:15:11,230
[laughter]
2298
01:15:11,323 --> 01:15:13,065
How do you feel
about his income?
2299
01:15:13,084 --> 01:15:14,157
- I don't know if you
remember this,
2300
01:15:14,252 --> 01:15:15,325
Pastor cal, what I said to you.
2301
01:15:15,345 --> 01:15:16,752
I want someone
2302
01:15:16,904 --> 01:15:18,846
Who is passionate
about their work.
2303
01:15:19,073 --> 01:15:21,741
And I just want them to
be able to make ends meet
2304
01:15:21,759 --> 01:15:24,593
And not be in massive
amounts of debt.
2305
01:15:24,746 --> 01:15:25,520
- Excellent, excellent.
2306
01:15:25,671 --> 01:15:27,355
How do you feel about her?
2307
01:15:27,582 --> 01:15:30,007
- I'm happy that she makes
more than me because,
2308
01:15:30,026 --> 01:15:32,360
You know, it just takes
more pressure off.
2309
01:15:32,511 --> 01:15:33,861
[laughter]
2310
01:15:34,088 --> 01:15:37,180
I mean, I'm certainly
not threatened by it.
2311
01:15:37,275 --> 01:15:39,592
- Let's talk about children.
2312
01:15:39,610 --> 01:15:41,685
- Honestly, pastor cal,
we told you we'd be honest.
2313
01:15:41,779 --> 01:15:42,928
We've never talked about it.
2314
01:15:43,022 --> 01:15:43,946
- You've never talked
about kids.
2315
01:15:44,040 --> 01:15:45,373
- Nope.
- Not yet.
2316
01:15:45,524 --> 01:15:46,615
- Well, let's talk about it.
You want children.
2317
01:15:46,768 --> 01:15:48,525
All right. So at 41,
2318
01:15:48,545 --> 01:15:50,102
When do you want
to have children?
2319
01:15:50,121 --> 01:15:52,547
- Ideally, in the next
couple years.
2320
01:15:52,698 --> 01:15:54,715
- Okay.
How's that sit with you?
2321
01:15:54,867 --> 01:15:56,609
- If it were me, and I
was making the decisions,
2322
01:15:56,702 --> 01:15:58,127
I'd want to start
in the next year.
2323
01:15:58,279 --> 01:15:59,445
- Okay.
2324
01:15:59,463 --> 01:16:01,781
- All my friends
are married with kids.
2325
01:16:01,799 --> 01:16:03,891
And I always dreamed
that, by this point,
2326
01:16:04,043 --> 01:16:05,301
I would at least
have one child.
2327
01:16:05,453 --> 01:16:06,894
That's what I want.
2328
01:16:07,121 --> 01:16:08,211
- You would be surprised
at how much you can handle
2329
01:16:08,231 --> 01:16:11,123
If you have respect and value
2330
01:16:11,142 --> 01:16:12,066
And appreciation
for one another,
2331
01:16:12,217 --> 01:16:13,475
As you do.
2332
01:16:13,628 --> 01:16:15,403
You can handle much
more than you think.
2333
01:16:15,630 --> 01:16:17,146
I mean, let's just deal
with the realities.
2334
01:16:17,298 --> 01:16:18,388
Like you said, you're 41.
2335
01:16:18,482 --> 01:16:20,390
You want kids.
- Yeah.
2336
01:16:20,410 --> 01:16:21,391
- Do you have
any other prospects?
2337
01:16:21,411 --> 01:16:23,393
- [laughs] no.
2338
01:16:23,487 --> 01:16:24,745
- You don't have
any other mom prospects?
2339
01:16:24,897 --> 01:16:26,138
- I got nada.
2340
01:16:26,231 --> 01:16:28,249
- Oh, you got any other
dad prospects?
2341
01:16:28,400 --> 01:16:30,567
So it looks like
you two are it.
2342
01:16:30,661 --> 01:16:32,478
- This is my one.
- This is your one.
2343
01:16:32,571 --> 01:16:34,663
So doggone it,
start talking about it.
2344
01:16:34,757 --> 01:16:36,424
Okay? Act like you're married.
2345
01:16:36,651 --> 01:16:37,983
- Yeah.
2346
01:16:38,002 --> 01:16:39,485
- You know, you need to get
a little deeper
2347
01:16:39,503 --> 01:16:40,986
Into the marriage waters.
2348
01:16:41,080 --> 01:16:42,430
No one's throwing around
the l word?
2349
01:16:42,657 --> 01:16:44,599
- No, no.
2350
01:16:44,750 --> 01:16:45,766
- Tell me more about that.
2351
01:16:45,918 --> 01:16:48,828
Tell me--tell me
what is that to you?
2352
01:16:48,921 --> 01:16:51,606
- I think we're moving
in the right direction.
2353
01:16:51,833 --> 01:16:54,350
We haven't fully just
put down all the guards.
2354
01:16:54,502 --> 01:16:58,003
There's just a little bit of
fear, maybe, on both sides.
2355
01:16:58,097 --> 01:17:00,931
- Love and fear
really can't coexist.
2356
01:17:00,950 --> 01:17:02,508
It's more than just a feeling.
2357
01:17:02,526 --> 01:17:03,433
It's more of a principle.
2358
01:17:03,453 --> 01:17:06,454
It's a decision that you make.
2359
01:17:06,681 --> 01:17:07,696
You have a concerned look
on your face, mitch.
2360
01:17:07,849 --> 01:17:09,014
You okay?
2361
01:17:09,108 --> 01:17:10,607
- Well, everything
you're saying about
2362
01:17:10,701 --> 01:17:13,777
Love being more of a decision
and more of a choice,
2363
01:17:13,796 --> 01:17:16,188
I'm totally vibing with that.
2364
01:17:16,207 --> 01:17:17,965
But I'm also just--
part of my mind
2365
01:17:18,192 --> 01:17:19,783
Is like, [bleep], you know,
we've only known
2366
01:17:19,877 --> 01:17:20,801
Each other for two weeks.
2367
01:17:20,953 --> 01:17:22,194
- That's okay.
2368
01:17:22,213 --> 01:17:24,380
You don't have to express
your undying love
2369
01:17:24,532 --> 01:17:25,364
For each other or anything.
2370
01:17:25,383 --> 01:17:26,715
- Yeah.
2371
01:17:26,868 --> 01:17:28,476
- I'm just saying,
I want you to be aware
2372
01:17:28,703 --> 01:17:31,370
That love is a part
of the process.
2373
01:17:31,389 --> 01:17:34,390
You will probably be
in love with each other
2374
01:17:34,484 --> 01:17:36,225
Before you recognize it.
2375
01:17:36,377 --> 01:17:38,468
I don't want you
to be afraid to express it
2376
01:17:38,562 --> 01:17:40,229
When you believe it.
2377
01:17:40,381 --> 01:17:42,490
♪ ♪
2378
01:17:46,496 --> 01:17:48,145
[hip-hop music]
2379
01:17:48,239 --> 01:17:49,238
[doorbell rings]
[dog barking]
2380
01:17:49,390 --> 01:17:49,980
- Right on, man.
How you doing?
2381
01:17:50,074 --> 01:17:51,557
Hey.
- This is newton.
2382
01:17:51,575 --> 01:17:53,650
- What's up, newton?
I get it. I get it.
2383
01:17:53,744 --> 01:17:55,485
That's right, I'm a visitor.
I get it.
2384
01:17:55,505 --> 01:17:56,896
How you doing, man?
- I'm good, man.
2385
01:17:56,989 --> 01:17:57,838
How you doing?
- Good to see you.
2386
01:17:57,990 --> 01:17:59,231
- You too.
2387
01:17:59,250 --> 01:18:00,916
♪ ♪
2388
01:18:01,010 --> 01:18:03,085
- So, married people,
2389
01:18:03,237 --> 01:18:04,637
You guys feeling okay?
2390
01:18:06,424 --> 01:18:07,664
Let's talk about the dogs.
2391
01:18:07,684 --> 01:18:08,924
I know there have been
some challenges
2392
01:18:09,018 --> 01:18:10,351
With the dogs.
2393
01:18:10,578 --> 01:18:11,760
- I think we just have
a miscommunication
2394
01:18:11,854 --> 01:18:13,336
On what the truth is,
2395
01:18:13,356 --> 01:18:15,022
Because we talked
about the dog.
2396
01:18:15,249 --> 01:18:17,750
- Do you have any concerns
about living together?
2397
01:18:17,768 --> 01:18:19,676
- Mm...
2398
01:18:19,696 --> 01:18:21,270
Not really,
not anything that really
2399
01:18:21,422 --> 01:18:23,088
Crossing my mind right now.
2400
01:18:23,107 --> 01:18:24,865
- I'm like, "babe, you know
how important newton is to me."
2401
01:18:25,017 --> 01:18:27,017
He was like, "trust me.
Newton will be okay."
2402
01:18:27,036 --> 01:18:28,610
So when they
integrated themselves,
2403
01:18:28,705 --> 01:18:30,095
I was really taken back.
2404
01:18:30,114 --> 01:18:31,263
Like, I was hurt,
because it was like,
2405
01:18:31,282 --> 01:18:33,190
"baby, trust me.
Newton will be okay."
2406
01:18:33,284 --> 01:18:34,767
And newton wasn't okay.
2407
01:18:34,785 --> 01:18:36,210
- Yeah.
2408
01:18:36,361 --> 01:18:38,120
- You know, the situation
shouldn't have happened.
2409
01:18:38,214 --> 01:18:39,621
But that's never happened
in that situation.
2410
01:18:39,716 --> 01:18:40,881
- Right, you thought
that mya could handle it
2411
01:18:41,033 --> 01:18:42,291
Better than she did.
- Correct.
2412
01:18:42,385 --> 01:18:44,051
[tense music]
2413
01:18:44,203 --> 01:18:47,796
- This was not an issue
of lying or truth, though.
2414
01:18:47,949 --> 01:18:49,390
- No, but see, pastor cal,
he never told me
2415
01:18:49,617 --> 01:18:51,041
That mya had been
in several fights
2416
01:18:51,060 --> 01:18:53,060
With other dogs prior to this,
2417
01:18:53,212 --> 01:18:54,453
'cause that would have been
a red flag for me.
2418
01:18:54,546 --> 01:18:56,230
- But it wasn't relevant,
though.
2419
01:18:56,457 --> 01:18:58,140
Normally,
when she snapped at dogs,
2420
01:18:58,292 --> 01:18:59,382
Those dogs were in the wrong.
2421
01:18:59,477 --> 01:19:01,810
Or they'll be antagonizing her.
2422
01:19:01,963 --> 01:19:04,405
- He thinks telling
some of the information
2423
01:19:04,556 --> 01:19:06,298
Is the same as
telling the truth.
2424
01:19:06,317 --> 01:19:07,557
And for me, it's just like,
2425
01:19:07,577 --> 01:19:08,892
No, you're withholding
information.
2426
01:19:08,986 --> 01:19:10,986
So it's not the complete truth.
2427
01:19:11,080 --> 01:19:13,063
And it's really frustrating,
because in these moments,
2428
01:19:13,082 --> 01:19:14,473
I'm reminded
that we're strangers.
2429
01:19:14,492 --> 01:19:16,658
And it makes me want to go back
to my normal ways
2430
01:19:16,811 --> 01:19:17,826
And just, like, run.
2431
01:19:17,979 --> 01:19:19,161
♪ ♪
2432
01:19:19,313 --> 01:19:20,737
- Okay.
2433
01:19:20,757 --> 01:19:21,997
- I feel like I'm
telling her the truth.
2434
01:19:22,091 --> 01:19:23,907
Like, I'm not
intentionally lying to her.
2435
01:19:23,926 --> 01:19:26,819
I think I'm vague,
and I don't realize it.
2436
01:19:26,912 --> 01:19:28,821
But from her perspective,
it's like, baby,
2437
01:19:28,914 --> 01:19:30,155
You're not telling me
the full truth.
2438
01:19:30,174 --> 01:19:31,414
I'm like, I just gave
you all the information.
2439
01:19:31,509 --> 01:19:33,158
What you talking about?
2440
01:19:33,252 --> 01:19:34,510
- Honestly,
with this process,
2441
01:19:34,662 --> 01:19:36,586
It's like we have to believe
whatever they say
2442
01:19:36,680 --> 01:19:37,997
And whoever they show us.
2443
01:19:38,015 --> 01:19:40,107
And for me, it's just
like, more than ever,
2444
01:19:40,334 --> 01:19:42,167
I'm paying attention
to every little thing,
2445
01:19:42,261 --> 01:19:43,852
Because my heart's
in it at this point.
2446
01:19:44,005 --> 01:19:46,781
- So who do you think he is?
2447
01:19:46,932 --> 01:19:49,933
Do you believe that, at his
core, that something's wrong?
2448
01:19:50,027 --> 01:19:52,344
[dramatic music]
2449
01:19:52,363 --> 01:19:54,847
- Sometimes I don't know.
2450
01:19:54,865 --> 01:19:57,032
♪ ♪
2451
01:19:57,184 --> 01:19:59,018
He was just like, "no, she
just doesn't like other dogs.
2452
01:19:59,111 --> 01:20:00,185
"and you know,
sometimes she's--
2453
01:20:00,204 --> 01:20:01,278
"she'll--we'll be fine.
2454
01:20:01,297 --> 01:20:02,371
She'll be--"
and I played it down.
2455
01:20:02,523 --> 01:20:03,964
So newton was just roaming.
2456
01:20:04,116 --> 01:20:07,376
And next thing I know,
this bloody scene is happening.
2457
01:20:07,470 --> 01:20:09,970
[somber music]
2458
01:20:10,122 --> 01:20:11,697
- What's going on?
2459
01:20:11,715 --> 01:20:13,549
♪ ♪
2460
01:20:13,643 --> 01:20:15,200
What's going on?
2461
01:20:15,219 --> 01:20:17,870
♪ ♪
2462
01:20:17,963 --> 01:20:20,314
- Well, one, I feel like
a crappy owner, for sure.
2463
01:20:20,465 --> 01:20:23,709
Like, I should have paid
attention to those signs,
2464
01:20:23,727 --> 01:20:26,136
You know, the first time
that she snapped.
2465
01:20:26,155 --> 01:20:27,546
And the second time,
I just felt like
2466
01:20:27,565 --> 01:20:29,731
I should have did
something about it,
2467
01:20:29,884 --> 01:20:31,717
Because it could have
cost me my marriage.
2468
01:20:31,735 --> 01:20:34,620
♪ ♪
2469
01:20:36,574 --> 01:20:38,557
- You know,
you're very empathetic.
2470
01:20:38,576 --> 01:20:40,668
You know, you feel a lot.
2471
01:20:40,895 --> 01:20:44,746
But I don't want you
to beat yourself up.
2472
01:20:44,841 --> 01:20:46,415
It's a mistake.
2473
01:20:46,509 --> 01:20:48,158
And I'm glad you guys
went through this, honestly,
2474
01:20:48,252 --> 01:20:50,511
Because this is a marital test.
2475
01:20:50,738 --> 01:20:52,404
- It's definitely a challenge,
I'll tell you that.
2476
01:20:52,423 --> 01:20:55,240
- And the question is, how are
you going to handle the test?
2477
01:20:55,259 --> 01:20:56,575
♪ ♪
2478
01:20:56,668 --> 01:20:58,519
Is this something
you can overcome?
2479
01:20:58,746 --> 01:21:01,504
We all have to give each other
leeway to be human.
2480
01:21:01,524 --> 01:21:03,006
Okay?
2481
01:21:03,025 --> 01:21:07,677
And you cannot, ever,
have such a rigid
2482
01:21:07,771 --> 01:21:12,533
Requirement of each other that
you don't allow for mistakes.
2483
01:21:12,760 --> 01:21:15,094
It's important to build
that foundation of trust.
2484
01:21:15,112 --> 01:21:18,263
♪ ♪
2485
01:21:18,357 --> 01:21:19,765
What do you need from him?
2486
01:21:19,858 --> 01:21:21,450
- I need you to overshare.
2487
01:21:21,602 --> 01:21:23,860
When in doubt, communicate.
2488
01:21:23,880 --> 01:21:25,437
Tell me everything, even if
it might hurt my feelings.
2489
01:21:25,456 --> 01:21:26,605
- Okay.
2490
01:21:26,624 --> 01:21:27,606
- How you feel about that?
2491
01:21:27,625 --> 01:21:29,216
- I can do that.
Yeah.
2492
01:21:29,443 --> 01:21:30,700
I can definitely do that.
- That was simple, huh?
2493
01:21:30,794 --> 01:21:31,886
- Yeah, I can definitely
do that.
2494
01:21:32,037 --> 01:21:33,721
- But here's the deal.
2495
01:21:33,872 --> 01:21:36,706
That puts a greater
responsibility on you now.
2496
01:21:36,726 --> 01:21:40,636
That means that you
have to be so sure
2497
01:21:40,788 --> 01:21:42,788
That when you tell her stuff,
2498
01:21:42,806 --> 01:21:46,959
That it is absolutely
the clear truth.
2499
01:21:46,977 --> 01:21:48,293
♪ ♪
2500
01:21:48,312 --> 01:21:49,461
What about you, justin?
2501
01:21:49,554 --> 01:21:52,239
Tell her, what do
you need from alexis?
2502
01:21:52,391 --> 01:21:55,392
- I need you to give me
another chance with mya.
2503
01:21:55,411 --> 01:21:57,469
- I just need you
to keep your word.
2504
01:21:57,488 --> 01:22:00,656
Because you said if it doesn't
work out, you're sending her.
2505
01:22:00,750 --> 01:22:02,565
I know that's your baby,
2506
01:22:02,585 --> 01:22:03,809
But you said it to me.
- I did.
2507
01:22:03,827 --> 01:22:05,085
- I need you to keep your word.
Okay?
2508
01:22:05,312 --> 01:22:06,478
- I did.
2509
01:22:06,571 --> 01:22:07,922
But also, be aware
that, like, it's not
2510
01:22:08,073 --> 01:22:09,164
Gonna be an easy decision.
2511
01:22:09,316 --> 01:22:11,592
- I know.
2512
01:22:11,743 --> 01:22:13,485
- I mean, it's not.
2513
01:22:13,578 --> 01:22:16,989
- I thought the decision
was already made.
2514
01:22:17,007 --> 01:22:18,490
- I've had her
since she was--birth.
2515
01:22:18,583 --> 01:22:20,676
So like, just giving her away
is not gonna just
2516
01:22:20,828 --> 01:22:23,512
Be as easy as saying it.
2517
01:22:23,664 --> 01:22:25,347
♪ ♪
2518
01:22:25,499 --> 01:22:28,091
- If mya continues
to be aggressive,
2519
01:22:28,185 --> 01:22:30,260
I'm not gonna stay anywhere
that I don't feel safe.
2520
01:22:30,279 --> 01:22:32,354
So I will not be with justin.
2521
01:22:32,506 --> 01:22:34,189
For me, it's like trust
and truth
2522
01:22:34,283 --> 01:22:35,783
Is everything, you know?
2523
01:22:36,010 --> 01:22:38,677
And I'm having a hard time
trusting what he says.
2524
01:22:38,696 --> 01:22:41,938
♪ ♪
2525
01:22:42,032 --> 01:22:43,624
[upbeat music]
2526
01:22:43,775 --> 01:22:46,034
- Next time
on "married at first sight"...
2527
01:22:46,128 --> 01:22:48,445
[all cheering]
2528
01:22:48,464 --> 01:22:49,612
- Party time.
2529
01:22:49,707 --> 01:22:51,465
- We shall party now.
2530
01:22:51,616 --> 01:22:54,117
- She's like, "yeah, like,
how about kids within a year?"
2531
01:22:54,136 --> 01:22:56,453
Kid is, like, a big variable.
2532
01:22:56,472 --> 01:22:58,806
Like, that's
a whole lifestyle change.
2533
01:22:59,033 --> 01:23:00,140
- I'm trying
to be understanding.
2534
01:23:00,292 --> 01:23:01,216
I'm trying to make amends.
2535
01:23:01,368 --> 01:23:02,309
I'm trying to make it work.
2536
01:23:02,536 --> 01:23:03,552
- When you hurt me,
2537
01:23:03,704 --> 01:23:05,387
When you burn me, I'm done.
2538
01:23:05,539 --> 01:23:06,814
- He's hiding stuff.
2539
01:23:06,965 --> 01:23:08,056
He's disingenuous.
2540
01:23:08,209 --> 01:23:10,392
He is manipulative
in the way of,
2541
01:23:10,544 --> 01:23:12,211
He's telling--he's being vague.
2542
01:23:12,229 --> 01:23:14,046
You're doing the absolute most.
- Okay.
2543
01:23:14,064 --> 01:23:15,305
You just want to be heard,
and you don't want
2544
01:23:15,324 --> 01:23:16,898
To understand what I'm saying.
2545
01:23:16,993 --> 01:23:20,219
- You just do whatever you
gotta do because I'm not in it.
2546
01:23:20,237 --> 01:23:22,329
- Does mitch know about
your whole history?
2547
01:23:22,556 --> 01:23:23,330
- Mitch does not know
anything about that.
2548
01:23:23,557 --> 01:23:24,647
- Oh, shoot.
2549
01:23:24,667 --> 01:23:27,150
- You can't even extend a hand
2550
01:23:27,169 --> 01:23:29,394
To help me see
a [bleep] physician.
2551
01:23:29,488 --> 01:23:31,747
So how the [bleep]
do you expect me
2552
01:23:31,899 --> 01:23:33,565
To take your last name?
2553
01:23:33,584 --> 01:23:38,470
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