1 00:00:02,419 --> 00:00:04,129 {\an1}- Gosh, you look stunning. - [giggles] 2 00:00:04,213 --> 00:00:05,713 {\an1}- God did good. 3 00:00:05,839 --> 00:00:08,048 {\an1}- Ten singles took a leap of faith 4 00:00:08,132 --> 00:00:10,013 {\an1}and married complete strangers. 5 00:00:10,093 --> 00:00:10,843 {\an1}[people screaming] 6 00:00:10,928 --> 00:00:13,888 {\an1}And in less than two weeks, 7 00:00:14,014 --> 00:00:16,564 {\an1}they’ll have to decide whether to stay married 8 00:00:16,642 --> 00:00:18,392 {\an1}or get a divorce. 9 00:00:18,477 --> 00:00:20,647 {\an1}♪ ♪ 10 00:00:20,729 --> 00:00:23,399 {\an1}Last time, our couples asked each other 11 00:00:23,482 --> 00:00:26,192 {\an1}the difficult questions they needed answers to 12 00:00:26,276 --> 00:00:28,526 {\an1}concerning their marriage. 13 00:00:28,612 --> 00:00:30,822 {\an1}♪ ♪ 14 00:00:30,906 --> 00:00:35,156 {\an1}- He’s definitely, like, seen intense characteristics of me. 15 00:00:35,244 --> 00:00:37,544 {\an1}- Okay. On a level of one to ten? 16 00:00:37,621 --> 00:00:39,041 {\an1}- Good 4.5. 17 00:00:39,122 --> 00:00:41,042 {\an1}Does that scare you? - A little bit. 18 00:00:41,124 --> 00:00:43,424 {\an1}- [laughs] 19 00:00:43,502 --> 00:00:45,382 {\an1}- Has anyone said the L word? 20 00:00:45,462 --> 00:00:48,262 {\an1}- Stacia has said to me, like, "Hey, I love you." 21 00:00:48,340 --> 00:00:50,220 {\an1}I haven’t said "I love you" yet. 22 00:00:50,300 --> 00:00:52,890 {\an1}- I try and be patient, but I don’t want to be 23 00:00:52,970 --> 00:00:55,560 {\an1}in a loveless marriage either. 24 00:00:55,639 --> 00:00:57,679 {\an1}♪ ♪ 25 00:00:57,766 --> 00:01:00,186 {\an1}- I’m dominant in my regular life and my job. 26 00:01:00,269 --> 00:01:02,559 {\an1}So, for me, in the bedroom, I want to be dominated. 27 00:01:02,646 --> 00:01:03,646 {\an1}Just try it, baby. 28 00:01:03,772 --> 00:01:05,942 {\an1}- I’ma come at that thing like Tasmanian devil 29 00:01:06,066 --> 00:01:08,226 {\an1}with teeth and all and just rip it all. 30 00:01:08,318 --> 00:01:10,028 {\an1}♪ ♪ 31 00:01:10,112 --> 00:01:12,612 {\an1}- I want somebody who thinks I’m beautiful 32 00:01:12,698 --> 00:01:15,658 {\an1}with a little bit of makeup on. 33 00:01:15,784 --> 00:01:16,533 {\an1}And I’m done. 34 00:01:16,618 --> 00:01:18,578 {\an1}- This is all so blindsiding to me. 35 00:01:18,662 --> 00:01:21,502 {\an1}- Oh, my God! Is this blindsiding to anybody? 36 00:01:21,623 --> 00:01:24,923 {\an1}♪ ♪ 37 00:01:25,002 --> 00:01:28,252 {\an1}- Do you feel at this point that the marriage is over? 38 00:01:28,338 --> 00:01:30,628 {\an1}- Yeah. Yeah, the marriage is over. 39 00:01:30,757 --> 00:01:32,967 {\an1}I do want the divorce. 40 00:01:33,051 --> 00:01:35,931 {\an1}♪ ♪ 41 00:01:36,013 --> 00:01:38,263 {\an1}- And tonight with less than two weeks left 42 00:01:38,348 --> 00:01:39,468 {\an1}until Decision Day, 43 00:01:39,558 --> 00:01:43,308 {\an1}we’re sending our couples on a beautiful getaway, 44 00:01:43,395 --> 00:01:46,155 {\an1}where they can let loose, enjoy each other, 45 00:01:46,273 --> 00:01:47,943 {\an1}and collectively bond, 46 00:01:48,025 --> 00:01:50,695 {\an1}while hopefully solidifying their marriages. 47 00:01:50,819 --> 00:01:52,649 {\an1}- ♪ Give it to me ♪ 48 00:01:52,779 --> 00:01:54,569 {\an1}- Can I get a kiss? 49 00:01:54,656 --> 00:01:56,276 {\an1}all: Aw! 50 00:01:56,366 --> 00:01:58,076 {\an1}♪ ♪ 51 00:01:58,160 --> 00:02:01,620 {\an1}- Welcome to the first annual "Married at First Sight" prom. 52 00:02:01,705 --> 00:02:02,665 {\an1}- Whoo! 53 00:02:02,748 --> 00:02:04,668 {\an1}♪ ♪ 54 00:02:04,750 --> 00:02:05,710 {\an1}- So stoked! 55 00:02:05,834 --> 00:02:07,594 {\an1}- I thought you were [bleep] around with me. 56 00:02:07,669 --> 00:02:10,128 {\an1}- That [bleep] doesn’t fly, ever. 57 00:02:10,213 --> 00:02:12,133 {\an1}You don’t talk to me like that, ever. 58 00:02:12,215 --> 00:02:13,045 {\an1}♪ ♪ 59 00:02:13,175 --> 00:02:15,645 {\an1}- Our relationship has been so good. 60 00:02:15,719 --> 00:02:17,099 {\an1}[sniffles] And there’s one thing that’s wrong, 61 00:02:17,179 --> 00:02:20,139 {\an1}and he’s, like, ready to [bleep] bounce. 62 00:02:20,223 --> 00:02:22,143 {\an1}- Sometimes marriages are rough in the beginning, 63 00:02:22,225 --> 00:02:24,845 {\an1}especially ours because everything has been expedited. 64 00:02:24,978 --> 00:02:26,348 {\an1}- When is enough enough? 65 00:02:26,480 --> 00:02:28,400 {\an1}- I just--I’m sorry. 66 00:02:30,609 --> 00:02:33,529 {\an1}- I’m trying so hard. 67 00:02:33,612 --> 00:02:37,162 {\an1}[sobbing, sniffles] 68 00:02:37,240 --> 00:02:39,120 {\an1}- ♪ It’s all or nothing ♪ 69 00:02:39,201 --> 00:02:41,701 {\an1}- This is "Married at First Sight." 70 00:02:41,787 --> 00:02:43,906 {\an1}- ♪ There’s no other way ♪ 71 00:02:44,039 --> 00:02:45,119 {\an1}♪ ♪ 72 00:02:45,207 --> 00:02:47,327 {\an1}♪ It’s all or nothing ♪ 73 00:02:47,417 --> 00:02:53,127 {\an1}♪ ♪ 74 00:02:53,215 --> 00:02:55,685 {\an1}- We just got home. We did a little bit of shopping. 75 00:02:55,759 --> 00:02:57,219 {\an1}Stacia, what did we shop for? 76 00:02:57,344 --> 00:02:59,894 {\an1}- Wait, let’s get in the house and close the door. 77 00:03:00,013 --> 00:03:01,513 {\an1}[laughing] 78 00:03:01,598 --> 00:03:04,518 {\an1}- Yeah, let’s keep this private. 79 00:03:04,601 --> 00:03:06,941 {\an1}All right, so Stacia’s freaky ass... 80 00:03:07,062 --> 00:03:11,572 {\an1}- Whatever. - We got a couple little items. 81 00:03:11,650 --> 00:03:13,230 {\an1}- Went to the sex shop. 82 00:03:13,318 --> 00:03:14,898 {\an1}- Break that down, girl. Break it down. 83 00:03:15,028 --> 00:03:19,198 {\an1}- They’re pleasure panties, vibrating panties. 84 00:03:19,282 --> 00:03:20,242 {\an1}♪ ♪ 85 00:03:20,367 --> 00:03:22,907 {\an1}- With Decision Day less than two weeks away, 86 00:03:22,994 --> 00:03:26,544 {\an1}our couples are headed out on a weekend couples’ retreat, 87 00:03:26,623 --> 00:03:29,883 {\an1}where they can reconnect and reflect on their marriages. 88 00:03:29,960 --> 00:03:31,750 {\an1}- Maybe the guys--you know what I’m saying?-- 89 00:03:31,837 --> 00:03:33,957 {\an1}might have, you know, some bro time 90 00:03:34,089 --> 00:03:36,668 {\an1}while the ladies girl time and play Monopoly. 91 00:03:36,758 --> 00:03:39,588 {\an1}- That’s what guys do at bro time, play Monopoly? 92 00:03:39,678 --> 00:03:42,678 {\an1}- Yeah, you know, just playing board games, talking noise. 93 00:03:42,764 --> 00:03:45,394 {\an1}- Baby, I think that might be a Justin thing. 94 00:03:45,475 --> 00:03:47,725 {\an1}- The couples’ retreat is a chance for everyone 95 00:03:47,811 --> 00:03:49,061 {\an1}to get a change of scenery 96 00:03:49,146 --> 00:03:50,606 {\an1}and provides an opportunity 97 00:03:50,731 --> 00:03:52,861 {\an1}to work out any lingering issues 98 00:03:52,941 --> 00:03:55,571 {\an1}with the hope of strengthening their bond. 99 00:03:55,652 --> 00:03:58,572 {\an1}♪ ♪ 100 00:03:58,655 --> 00:04:00,365 {\an1}- I’ll bring my pleasure panties. 101 00:04:00,449 --> 00:04:01,739 {\an1}You know what? 102 00:04:01,825 --> 00:04:04,955 {\an1}It’d be really exciting for you if you have the remote control 103 00:04:05,078 --> 00:04:08,408 {\an1}while we’re, like, at this retreat, 104 00:04:08,498 --> 00:04:10,918 {\an1}and, like, doing something with the group, and then you-- 105 00:04:11,001 --> 00:04:13,591 {\an1}- Buzz you around. - [laughs] 106 00:04:13,670 --> 00:04:18,470 {\an1}♪ ♪ 107 00:04:18,591 --> 00:04:20,392 {\an1}- I mean, we got, like, what, like an hour drive. 108 00:04:20,469 --> 00:04:22,509 {\an1}So... 109 00:04:22,637 --> 00:04:23,887 {\an1}I hope we can talk 110 00:04:23,972 --> 00:04:25,932 {\an1}and, you know... - Yeah. 111 00:04:26,016 --> 00:04:28,226 {\an1}- Come to some kind of-- 112 00:04:28,310 --> 00:04:29,230 {\an1}Yeah. 113 00:04:29,311 --> 00:04:30,901 {\an1}- Yeah, we can talk about it in the car. 114 00:04:30,979 --> 00:04:31,979 {\an1}- Okay, cool. 115 00:04:32,105 --> 00:04:35,685 {\an1}- I certainly did not want a pool party repeat 116 00:04:35,817 --> 00:04:36,777 {\an1}at the couples’ retreat. 117 00:04:36,860 --> 00:04:39,150 {\an1}I want a positive and incredible weekend 118 00:04:39,279 --> 00:04:40,409 {\an1}with our friends. 119 00:04:40,489 --> 00:04:41,449 {\an1}Oh, wow. 120 00:04:41,531 --> 00:04:44,121 {\an1}That’s a lot of stuff for a short weekend. 121 00:04:44,201 --> 00:04:45,081 {\an1}It feels like this is 122 00:04:45,159 --> 00:04:47,450 {\an1}me and Mitch’s kind of last-ditch effort 123 00:04:47,537 --> 00:04:49,207 {\an1}to really try and make this work. 124 00:04:49,331 --> 00:04:52,001 {\an1}- Let’s blow this popsicle stand. 125 00:04:52,125 --> 00:04:53,034 {\an1}- [chuckles] 126 00:04:53,168 --> 00:04:57,758 {\an1}♪ ♪ 127 00:04:57,839 --> 00:04:59,509 {\an1}- Whose birthday is it? 128 00:04:59,591 --> 00:05:01,841 {\an1}Is it for me? I honestly don’t know. 129 00:05:01,927 --> 00:05:05,217 {\an1}- A mysterious gift shows up. - What? 130 00:05:05,347 --> 00:05:07,177 {\an1}Oh, my gosh, this is that really nice dress 131 00:05:07,307 --> 00:05:09,637 {\an1}at the costume--I’m blushing. 132 00:05:09,726 --> 00:05:11,686 {\an1}I love this dress. 133 00:05:11,770 --> 00:05:16,070 {\an1}- So, yeah, we figured since you didn’t really have prom... 134 00:05:16,191 --> 00:05:18,321 {\an1}- Aw! 135 00:05:18,401 --> 00:05:19,991 {\an1}- And the other couples are gonna get together... 136 00:05:20,070 --> 00:05:21,280 {\an1}- Really? 137 00:05:21,363 --> 00:05:22,823 {\an1}- And have a prom night tonight. 138 00:05:22,906 --> 00:05:24,446 {\an1}- Stop. That’s so cute. 139 00:05:24,533 --> 00:05:26,373 {\an1}Thank you, baby. - You’re welcome. 140 00:05:26,451 --> 00:05:28,041 {\an1}- This is so sweet. 141 00:05:28,161 --> 00:05:29,701 {\an1}- ♪ Wherever you go, I go ♪ 142 00:05:29,830 --> 00:05:31,080 {\an1}- All right, let’s get it. 143 00:05:31,206 --> 00:05:32,206 {\an1}- ♪ We go together ♪ 144 00:05:32,290 --> 00:05:35,500 {\an1}- All right, let’s do it. Prom waits for no one. 145 00:05:35,585 --> 00:05:37,085 {\an1}- Mm-hmm. 146 00:05:37,212 --> 00:05:38,342 {\an1}- ♪ We go together ♪ 147 00:05:38,421 --> 00:05:39,711 {\an1}- Prom. - Prom. 148 00:05:39,840 --> 00:05:41,510 {\an1}- Here we come. - Let’s go. 149 00:05:41,591 --> 00:05:43,181 {\an1}- Goodbye, my house. 150 00:05:43,260 --> 00:05:46,350 {\an1}♪ ♪ 151 00:05:46,429 --> 00:05:49,269 {\an1}- ♪ This is love ♪ 152 00:05:49,391 --> 00:05:53,561 {\an1}♪ This, this is it ♪ 153 00:05:53,687 --> 00:05:56,147 {\an1}- I’m looking forward to just getting away from the house, 154 00:05:56,231 --> 00:05:57,731 {\an1}just kind of have you to myself. 155 00:05:57,816 --> 00:05:59,566 {\an1}- You always just want me to yourself. 156 00:05:59,693 --> 00:06:01,193 {\an1}That’s what it boils down to-- 157 00:06:01,278 --> 00:06:03,108 {\an1}Justin having his wife to himself. 158 00:06:03,238 --> 00:06:05,988 {\an1}- I hope we do get some alone time like I was talking about. 159 00:06:06,074 --> 00:06:07,534 {\an1}- Why, what you trying to do me? 160 00:06:07,617 --> 00:06:09,987 {\an1}- Here we go. - [laughs] 161 00:06:10,078 --> 00:06:11,868 {\an1}- We’ll start off with the butt-plug first. 162 00:06:11,955 --> 00:06:15,425 {\an1}- Uh-uh! What are you talking about? 163 00:06:15,542 --> 00:06:18,962 {\an1}- ♪ You only want to do what’s best for me and you ♪ 164 00:06:19,087 --> 00:06:20,297 {\an1}♪ ♪ 165 00:06:20,422 --> 00:06:25,932 {\an1}- Every time we do something, I swear to you, I go into it, 166 00:06:26,011 --> 00:06:29,851 {\an1}like, with the most optimistic energy, 167 00:06:29,931 --> 00:06:33,601 {\an1}and it just sometimes just goes down hard. 168 00:06:33,727 --> 00:06:34,687 {\an1}[chuckles] 169 00:06:34,769 --> 00:06:37,359 {\an1}- I didn’t maybe handle it as good as some 170 00:06:37,439 --> 00:06:39,229 {\an1}of my other misdeeds or whatever. 171 00:06:39,316 --> 00:06:42,816 {\an1}- I didn’t feel extremely proud of how I handled that. 172 00:06:42,944 --> 00:06:46,954 {\an1}However, you had your chance to clear the air, and you didn’t. 173 00:06:47,032 --> 00:06:48,572 {\an1}So I just... 174 00:06:48,658 --> 00:06:49,738 {\an1}♪ ♪ 175 00:06:49,826 --> 00:06:51,696 {\an1}I just snapped. 176 00:06:51,786 --> 00:06:53,696 {\an1}So I am sorry about that. 177 00:06:53,788 --> 00:06:55,918 {\an1}Do you accept my apology? 178 00:06:55,999 --> 00:06:56,919 {\an1}♪ ♪ 179 00:06:57,000 --> 00:06:58,460 {\an1}- I do. 180 00:06:58,543 --> 00:06:59,923 {\an1}♪ ♪ 181 00:07:00,003 --> 00:07:02,593 {\an1}I think it’s safe to say you were upset 182 00:07:02,672 --> 00:07:04,512 {\an1}just going into that evening. 183 00:07:04,633 --> 00:07:06,973 {\an1}And at that point, I was feeling 184 00:07:07,052 --> 00:07:08,222 {\an1}like I was being attacked 185 00:07:08,303 --> 00:07:11,103 {\an1}and, you know, like, kind of thrown under the bus, 186 00:07:11,181 --> 00:07:12,311 {\an1}because at this point, 187 00:07:12,432 --> 00:07:15,772 {\an1}I felt like you were saying things that I never said. 188 00:07:15,852 --> 00:07:17,942 {\an1}Again, I’m sorry that you feel this way. 189 00:07:18,021 --> 00:07:19,611 {\an1}I’m sorry that whatever she told you 190 00:07:19,689 --> 00:07:20,939 {\an1}came out the way that it did. 191 00:07:21,024 --> 00:07:25,114 {\an1}I’m just not in a great place to be confusing it right now. 192 00:07:25,195 --> 00:07:27,785 {\an1}That was just really crazy for me, too. 193 00:07:27,864 --> 00:07:32,084 {\an1}- Felt like I wanted you to change and look more snazzy. 194 00:07:32,159 --> 00:07:34,200 {\an1}I’ve never-- - No, you haven’t. 195 00:07:34,329 --> 00:07:36,159 {\an1}And I’ve never wanted you to change either, 196 00:07:36,247 --> 00:07:37,167 {\an1}and I’ve never put that on you. 197 00:07:37,290 --> 00:07:40,210 {\an1}- I’m just so sorry. - I just thought you-- 198 00:07:40,335 --> 00:07:43,425 {\an1}- I’m just, like, losing my [bleep] mind. 199 00:07:43,505 --> 00:07:45,055 {\an1}- You know, I want to acknowledge 200 00:07:45,173 --> 00:07:48,133 {\an1}that a lot of this whole thing is my responsibility 201 00:07:48,218 --> 00:07:50,548 {\an1}because I’m the one who had that conversation 202 00:07:50,679 --> 00:07:52,139 {\an1}with your sister 203 00:07:52,222 --> 00:07:54,472 {\an1}and told her something that I hadn’t told you. 204 00:07:54,557 --> 00:07:56,307 {\an1}I didn’t want to be the husband who’s trying 205 00:07:56,393 --> 00:07:58,273 {\an1}to tell his wife how to be. 206 00:07:58,353 --> 00:08:03,113 {\an1}- I guess I just wanted you so badly to just say, 207 00:08:03,191 --> 00:08:04,901 {\an1}"You’re beautiful inside and out." 208 00:08:05,026 --> 00:08:06,606 {\an1}And I just didn’t get that. 209 00:08:06,695 --> 00:08:08,035 {\an1}- Yeah. - You know? 210 00:08:08,154 --> 00:08:09,074 {\an1}- I mean... 211 00:08:09,197 --> 00:08:11,317 {\an1}you know, I definitely felt like I was just, 212 00:08:11,408 --> 00:08:14,738 {\an1}like, the puppet that was just supposed to do 213 00:08:14,869 --> 00:08:16,159 {\an1}what the puppet is supposed to do. 214 00:08:16,246 --> 00:08:17,956 {\an1}You know, that doesn’t work for me. 215 00:08:18,039 --> 00:08:20,999 {\an1}- I do want to be clear--like, I do want to be in a marriage 216 00:08:21,084 --> 00:08:24,004 {\an1}where someone voices 217 00:08:24,087 --> 00:08:27,047 {\an1}that they are happy to be with me. 218 00:08:27,132 --> 00:08:31,012 {\an1}- I do really see a lot of great things about you. 219 00:08:31,094 --> 00:08:33,183 {\an1}I do think you’re beautiful. 220 00:08:33,263 --> 00:08:34,683 {\an1}I do think you’re smart. 221 00:08:34,764 --> 00:08:36,524 {\an1}I do think you’re really fun to be with. 222 00:08:36,599 --> 00:08:39,058 {\an1}I do think you make a great partner. 223 00:08:39,184 --> 00:08:40,345 {\an1}- Thank you. 224 00:08:40,437 --> 00:08:44,477 {\an1}You really never said anything like what you just said. 225 00:08:44,566 --> 00:08:47,526 {\an1}And that’s just kind of all I’ve wanted 226 00:08:47,610 --> 00:08:50,950 {\an1}for the last nearly eight weeks, so thank you. 227 00:08:51,072 --> 00:08:54,372 {\an1}And it feels just as good as I thought it would feel. 228 00:08:54,451 --> 00:08:56,540 {\an1}[chuckles] 229 00:08:56,619 --> 00:09:01,499 {\an1}♪ ♪ 230 00:09:01,583 --> 00:09:03,963 {\an1}- Holy hell. 231 00:09:04,085 --> 00:09:06,585 {\an1}Wow! Honey, I’m home. 232 00:09:06,713 --> 00:09:09,223 {\an1}[laughing] 233 00:09:09,299 --> 00:09:14,299 {\an1}♪ ♪ 234 00:09:14,429 --> 00:09:16,179 {\an1}- This is fancy. - It’s beautiful. 235 00:09:16,264 --> 00:09:17,894 {\an1}- I’m home, baby! - Right? 236 00:09:17,974 --> 00:09:19,434 {\an1}That’s what feel like-- I’m home. 237 00:09:19,517 --> 00:09:21,977 {\an1}- Fancy. - Oh, this is so nice. 238 00:09:22,103 --> 00:09:24,313 {\an1}I always knew I’d wind up in a big house. 239 00:09:24,439 --> 00:09:26,729 {\an1}- Me too, girl. On the hill. - [laughing] 240 00:09:26,816 --> 00:09:28,856 {\an1}♪ ♪ 241 00:09:28,943 --> 00:09:30,573 {\an1}Oh, my God. 242 00:09:30,653 --> 00:09:32,913 {\an1}I finally feel in my element. 243 00:09:32,989 --> 00:09:34,779 {\an1}- This is fancy pants. 244 00:09:34,866 --> 00:09:36,986 {\an1}- Oh, this bed is hard. 245 00:09:37,118 --> 00:09:38,868 {\an1}- Oh, my gosh! 246 00:09:38,953 --> 00:09:41,163 {\an1}It’s so nice in here. - It’s so nice. 247 00:09:41,289 --> 00:09:45,129 {\an1}[all cheering, speaking at once] 248 00:09:45,210 --> 00:09:46,920 {\an1}- Lindy’s in the house! 249 00:09:47,003 --> 00:09:48,593 {\an1}♪ ♪ 250 00:09:48,671 --> 00:09:51,051 {\an1}- That’s [bleep]-- [chuckles] 251 00:09:51,132 --> 00:09:52,472 {\an1}Imagine living up here. 252 00:09:52,592 --> 00:09:54,802 {\an1}All right. 253 00:09:54,886 --> 00:09:58,966 {\an1}It’s [bleep] lit. [all shouting] 254 00:09:59,057 --> 00:10:01,137 {\an1}- What up, y’all? - You’re here! 255 00:10:01,226 --> 00:10:02,846 {\an1}[all speaking at once] - Thank you. 256 00:10:02,977 --> 00:10:04,477 {\an1}- This is nice. - Hi, Stacia. 257 00:10:04,604 --> 00:10:06,154 {\an1}- Hi! 258 00:10:06,231 --> 00:10:08,271 {\an1}- Everybody’s here. Hey. - Hey, Stacia. 259 00:10:08,358 --> 00:10:09,818 {\an1}- Hi, Mitch. How are you? 260 00:10:09,943 --> 00:10:11,573 {\an1}- Great to see you. - Take the pound. 261 00:10:11,653 --> 00:10:12,993 {\an1}- What’s up? - What up? 262 00:10:13,113 --> 00:10:15,573 {\an1}[all speaking at once] 263 00:10:15,657 --> 00:10:18,117 {\an1}- So you guys look like you’re doing okay. 264 00:10:18,201 --> 00:10:19,871 {\an1}- I’m actually having a lot of fun. 265 00:10:19,994 --> 00:10:20,954 {\an1}- That’s my girl. 266 00:10:21,037 --> 00:10:22,287 {\an1}- No, we’re really good. 267 00:10:22,372 --> 00:10:24,292 {\an1}- We did some pinky promises. 268 00:10:24,374 --> 00:10:26,044 {\an1}- We had a really great drive up here, 269 00:10:26,167 --> 00:10:28,287 {\an1}and we just talked about everything. 270 00:10:28,378 --> 00:10:32,968 {\an1}And, actually, Mitch said a lot of very nice, validating things 271 00:10:33,049 --> 00:10:35,339 {\an1}that I’ve been asking for about two months for him to say. 272 00:10:35,468 --> 00:10:37,548 {\an1}- Yay! - That was so nice. 273 00:10:37,679 --> 00:10:40,429 {\an1}- We’re off to a great start. - We’re back, baby. 274 00:10:40,515 --> 00:10:42,815 {\an1}- So what do you guys want from this entire weekend? 275 00:10:42,892 --> 00:10:44,482 {\an1}Like, what are you looking forward to? 276 00:10:44,561 --> 00:10:46,731 {\an1}- I’m ready for my prom. 277 00:10:46,855 --> 00:10:48,025 {\an1}- Did you not go to prom, Lindy? 278 00:10:48,106 --> 00:10:48,976 {\an1}- Yeah, why are we doing prom? 279 00:10:49,065 --> 00:10:51,025 {\an1}- Well, yeah, I didn’t go to a school 280 00:10:51,109 --> 00:10:52,819 {\an1}that had, like, formal dances. 281 00:10:52,902 --> 00:10:56,162 {\an1}They weren’t allowed. - Dancing is bad? 282 00:10:56,239 --> 00:10:57,659 {\an1}- I grew up in a "Footloose" town. 283 00:10:57,740 --> 00:10:58,820 {\an1}- You are "Footloose." 284 00:10:58,908 --> 00:11:00,788 {\an1}- I’m so happy for you. - I got a present for you. 285 00:11:00,869 --> 00:11:01,659 {\an1}- Yay! 286 00:11:01,744 --> 00:11:03,254 {\an1}Is that what prom--they do? 287 00:11:03,371 --> 00:11:05,411 {\an1}- Oh, yeah, we did bring something for you. 288 00:11:05,540 --> 00:11:07,380 {\an1}[chuckles wickedly] - [laughs] 289 00:11:07,500 --> 00:11:08,630 {\an1}- Your laugh. - Uh-oh. 290 00:11:08,710 --> 00:11:10,710 {\an1}- You know what? 291 00:11:10,837 --> 00:11:12,127 {\an1}- I’m excited, yeah. 292 00:11:12,213 --> 00:11:13,843 {\an1}So thanks for playing along with this... 293 00:11:13,923 --> 00:11:15,513 {\an1}- I went out and bought a gown, okay? 294 00:11:15,592 --> 00:11:17,182 {\an1}- Wow, I can’t wait to see it. 295 00:11:17,260 --> 00:11:19,180 {\an1}- I’m ready to put this on. 296 00:11:19,262 --> 00:11:21,102 {\an1}- I’m super excited about prom. 297 00:11:21,222 --> 00:11:22,352 {\an1}I think it’s a cute idea 298 00:11:22,432 --> 00:11:26,022 {\an1}♪ ♪ 299 00:11:26,102 --> 00:11:29,362 {\an1}- ♪ She was a small-town girl, but look where she is now ♪ 300 00:11:29,439 --> 00:11:30,899 {\an1}♪ ♪ 301 00:11:31,024 --> 00:11:32,734 {\an1}♪ I can wait, catch me up ♪ 302 00:11:32,859 --> 00:11:35,109 {\an1}♪ Because I got the sun, and that’s enough ♪ 303 00:11:35,236 --> 00:11:36,646 {\an1}♪ She was a small-town girl ♪ 304 00:11:36,738 --> 00:11:37,908 {\an1}- It weirdly means a lot 305 00:11:38,031 --> 00:11:40,201 {\an1}’cause I know that this is kind of, like, just for me 306 00:11:40,283 --> 00:11:41,953 {\an1}and everyone else has had a prom. 307 00:11:42,076 --> 00:11:43,486 {\an1}♪ ♪ 308 00:11:43,578 --> 00:11:45,038 {\an1}- Hey, beautiful. - Hi. 309 00:11:45,121 --> 00:11:46,540 {\an1}- You look like a goddess right now. 310 00:11:46,623 --> 00:11:47,923 {\an1}- Thank you. 311 00:11:47,999 --> 00:11:50,789 {\an1}- Can you help me zip my dress, please? 312 00:11:50,919 --> 00:11:53,879 {\an1}- But I’m excited that I got this beautiful dress. 313 00:11:53,963 --> 00:11:55,463 {\an1}Oh, lookee! 314 00:11:55,590 --> 00:11:57,050 {\an1}Like a disco ball. 315 00:11:57,133 --> 00:12:00,093 {\an1}It means a lot that Miguel literally planned 316 00:12:00,178 --> 00:12:01,428 {\an1}a night for me, a special night, 317 00:12:01,554 --> 00:12:06,354 {\an1}especially since Decision Day is coming up really fast. 318 00:12:06,434 --> 00:12:09,814 {\an1}So, yeah, it was such a pleasant surprise. 319 00:12:09,938 --> 00:12:13,568 {\an1}- Listen, I know that Lindy’s gonna be the prom queen. 320 00:12:13,650 --> 00:12:14,530 {\an1}- She deserves that. 321 00:12:14,609 --> 00:12:16,109 {\an1}- [whispering] But you’re my prom queen. 322 00:12:16,236 --> 00:12:17,026 {\an1}- Thank you. 323 00:12:17,111 --> 00:12:21,121 {\an1}- ♪ Oh, oh, oh, oh, oh, yeah ♪ 324 00:12:21,199 --> 00:12:22,949 {\an1}- Can you help me, honey? - Mm-hmm. 325 00:12:27,288 --> 00:12:28,248 {\an1}- Mm. 326 00:12:28,331 --> 00:12:29,751 {\an1}♪ ♪ 327 00:12:29,832 --> 00:12:30,832 {\an1}- You got it, baby? 328 00:12:30,959 --> 00:12:32,959 {\an1}- Yeah, I’m trying to skip it because it’s so-- 329 00:12:33,044 --> 00:12:34,964 {\an1}- Have you done, like, these things for women before? 330 00:12:35,088 --> 00:12:36,878 {\an1}’Cause I know when you tried to take my bra off, 331 00:12:36,965 --> 00:12:38,175 {\an1}you were struggling, too. 332 00:12:38,299 --> 00:12:40,509 {\an1}- Yeah, if I can’t look at it, I can’t take it off. 333 00:12:40,635 --> 00:12:41,475 {\an1}♪ ♪ 334 00:12:41,594 --> 00:12:42,894 {\an1}- I’ll do it myself. 335 00:12:42,971 --> 00:12:46,221 {\an1}Hardworking independent woman-- need no man to take my bra off. 336 00:12:46,307 --> 00:12:48,977 {\an1}Tell ’em, baby. She take her own bra off. 337 00:12:49,060 --> 00:12:50,640 {\an1}- I would have took that to the grave. 338 00:12:50,728 --> 00:12:53,018 {\an1}- You ashamed that you had sex with your wife? 339 00:12:53,147 --> 00:12:55,517 {\an1}- Not at all, girl, not even a little bit. 340 00:12:55,650 --> 00:12:57,650 {\an1}♪ ♪ 341 00:12:57,777 --> 00:12:59,777 {\an1}Finally, we consummated the marriage. 342 00:12:59,862 --> 00:13:00,822 {\an1}♪ ♪ 343 00:13:00,947 --> 00:13:03,317 {\an1}I enjoy this [bleep]. 344 00:13:03,408 --> 00:13:05,158 {\an1}It was just the right timing, you know, 345 00:13:05,243 --> 00:13:08,123 {\an1}I definitely feel like it was ten times better waiting 346 00:13:08,204 --> 00:13:09,664 {\an1}’cause we built a connection. 347 00:13:09,789 --> 00:13:10,869 {\an1}And it wasn’t sex. 348 00:13:10,999 --> 00:13:12,959 {\an1}I feel like we made love, if I’m being honest. 349 00:13:13,042 --> 00:13:15,342 {\an1}- ♪ Talk to me ♪ 350 00:13:15,420 --> 00:13:17,340 {\an1}♪ In the morning ♪ 351 00:13:17,422 --> 00:13:21,802 {\an1}♪ You’ll see that I’m the only one who understands ♪ 352 00:13:21,884 --> 00:13:23,014 {\an1}It lasted all night. 353 00:13:23,136 --> 00:13:25,966 {\an1}Maybe that’s TMI. [chuckles] 354 00:13:26,055 --> 00:13:29,175 {\an1}- Did you enjoy yourself? - Girl, yes, I did. 355 00:13:29,267 --> 00:13:31,517 {\an1}- Don’t be looking at my titties--you’re distracted. 356 00:13:31,644 --> 00:13:33,274 {\an1}I’m going through real-life struggles, 357 00:13:33,354 --> 00:13:34,904 {\an1}and you’re looking at my titties. 358 00:13:35,023 --> 00:13:36,733 {\an1}- How do you know I’m looking at your titties? 359 00:13:36,858 --> 00:13:38,108 {\an1}- ’Cause we’re in a mirror, baby. 360 00:13:38,192 --> 00:13:39,532 {\an1}I can literally-- It’s, like... 361 00:13:39,652 --> 00:13:41,152 {\an1}- I was looking at your dress, baby. 362 00:13:41,237 --> 00:13:43,487 {\an1}I was looking at you in that dress. 363 00:13:43,573 --> 00:13:45,163 {\an1}- People be lying straight to your face. 364 00:13:45,241 --> 00:13:46,781 {\an1}I thought we said we wasn’t gonna lie. 365 00:13:46,868 --> 00:13:47,988 {\an1}- I ain’t lying, babe. - Mm-hmm. 366 00:13:48,077 --> 00:13:50,827 {\an1}Let’s practice our prom pose. 367 00:13:50,913 --> 00:13:53,713 {\an1}Since we grown, we could put it like this way. 368 00:13:53,790 --> 00:13:56,211 {\an1}- No. - Leave space for Jesus. 369 00:13:56,294 --> 00:13:59,884 {\an1}♪ ♪ 370 00:15:14,497 --> 00:15:15,617 {\an1}- ♪ You dancing in blue ♪ 371 00:15:15,706 --> 00:15:21,456 {\an1}♪ All eyes on you ♪ 372 00:15:21,587 --> 00:15:24,297 {\an1}♪ You dancing in blue ♪ 373 00:15:24,424 --> 00:15:27,054 {\an1}♪ All eyes on you ♪ 374 00:15:27,135 --> 00:15:29,305 {\an1}♪ And the sun... ♪ 375 00:15:29,429 --> 00:15:31,219 {\an1}- Wow! 376 00:15:31,305 --> 00:15:32,805 {\an1}Holy moly! 377 00:15:32,932 --> 00:15:35,392 {\an1}This is so nice! 378 00:15:35,476 --> 00:15:39,146 {\an1}I think this is, like, maybe better than real prom. 379 00:15:39,230 --> 00:15:40,690 {\an1}Do you think? 380 00:15:40,815 --> 00:15:42,525 {\an1}- Yeah, ’cause it’s just us. 381 00:15:42,650 --> 00:15:46,650 {\an1}♪ ♪ 382 00:15:46,737 --> 00:15:50,067 {\an1}- Hello, queen! 383 00:15:50,158 --> 00:15:53,368 {\an1}Oh, my goodness! - Prom night! 384 00:15:53,494 --> 00:15:55,044 {\an1}- Ow! - You look stunning! 385 00:15:55,163 --> 00:15:56,623 {\an1}- Thank you so much! 386 00:15:56,706 --> 00:15:59,826 {\an1}- Isn’t this, like, gorgeous? - It is. 387 00:15:59,917 --> 00:16:02,377 {\an1}- There’s a little disco ball. Aw! 388 00:16:02,503 --> 00:16:04,883 {\an1}- You know what happens if you walk under the disco ball? 389 00:16:05,006 --> 00:16:06,796 {\an1}- Is that like the mistletoe? - Yeah. 390 00:16:06,883 --> 00:16:09,553 {\an1}- Ah, not kiss, but you dance. - Yeah. 391 00:16:09,677 --> 00:16:11,677 {\an1}♪ ♪ 392 00:16:11,762 --> 00:16:13,432 {\an1}- Wow! 393 00:16:13,514 --> 00:16:15,144 {\an1}Look who’s here. 394 00:16:15,224 --> 00:16:16,894 {\an1}[indistinct shouting] 395 00:16:17,018 --> 00:16:21,978 {\an1}♪ ♪ 396 00:16:22,064 --> 00:16:24,194 {\an1}- I’m so happy for Lindy, that she gets to experience this. 397 00:16:24,317 --> 00:16:26,397 {\an1}- Me too. It’s so sweet. 398 00:16:26,527 --> 00:16:29,027 {\an1}- Oh, I think I see our queen. 399 00:16:29,113 --> 00:16:30,863 {\an1}[all cheering] 400 00:16:30,948 --> 00:16:32,068 {\an1}- ♪ I ain’t no other ♪ 401 00:16:32,200 --> 00:16:33,780 {\an1}♪ ♪ 402 00:16:33,868 --> 00:16:35,538 {\an1}- Look at this dress! 403 00:16:35,620 --> 00:16:38,290 {\an1}- ♪ All hail to the queen, all hail to the queen ♪ 404 00:16:38,372 --> 00:16:40,292 {\an1}♪ All hail to the queen ♪ 405 00:16:40,374 --> 00:16:42,714 {\an1}- Miguel and I did have an argument earlier. 406 00:16:42,835 --> 00:16:45,085 {\an1}But this is still a very exciting and fun night for me 407 00:16:45,213 --> 00:16:47,263 {\an1}because I know Miguel and I are gonna get past this 408 00:16:47,381 --> 00:16:49,721 {\an1}’cause I am just, like, ecstatic, excited. 409 00:16:49,842 --> 00:16:50,722 {\an1}I feel pretty. 410 00:16:50,843 --> 00:16:52,223 {\an1}I want to go have fun 411 00:16:52,345 --> 00:16:53,515 {\an1}and, like, interact and be in the moment. 412 00:16:53,596 --> 00:16:55,596 {\an1}- This is your prom tonight, and we’re gonna live it up. 413 00:16:55,723 --> 00:16:56,893 {\an1}- Yes. 414 00:16:57,016 --> 00:16:59,176 {\an1}- I’m definitely not gonna let it ruin my prom night. 415 00:16:59,268 --> 00:17:00,848 {\an1}- So what all, like, stereotypical things 416 00:17:00,937 --> 00:17:02,227 {\an1}do you know about prom night? 417 00:17:02,313 --> 00:17:03,613 {\an1}We’re gonna do all of them tonight. 418 00:17:03,731 --> 00:17:05,021 {\an1}- Yes! - Spiking the punch! 419 00:17:05,107 --> 00:17:06,067 {\an1}- Okay, we’ll spike the punch. 420 00:17:06,192 --> 00:17:08,321 {\an1}- That’s the thing I’ve seen in the movies. 421 00:17:08,402 --> 00:17:09,902 {\an1}Definitely the staircase photos. 422 00:17:09,987 --> 00:17:11,237 {\an1}- Yes. 423 00:17:11,321 --> 00:17:13,412 {\an1}- The sex is usually in the mix. 424 00:17:13,491 --> 00:17:16,241 {\an1}- I have nothing to do with that, but check hopefully. 425 00:17:16,327 --> 00:17:18,117 {\an1}- And then, obviously, just dancing, like... 426 00:17:18,246 --> 00:17:19,246 {\an1}- Yeah. - No rules dancing. 427 00:17:19,372 --> 00:17:21,502 {\an1}- I want to see you hanging off this balcony 428 00:17:21,582 --> 00:17:23,252 {\an1}by the end of the night. 429 00:17:23,334 --> 00:17:26,804 {\an1}- Cheers, right, guys? - To Lindy’s first prom! 430 00:17:26,921 --> 00:17:29,511 {\an1}- To Lindy’s first prom. 431 00:17:29,590 --> 00:17:32,300 {\an1}- ♪ It’s your moment, go ahead and own it ♪ 432 00:17:32,426 --> 00:17:34,756 {\an1}♪ Hey ♪ 433 00:17:34,887 --> 00:17:37,427 {\an1}♪ No one’s gonna get me, no one’s gonna get me ♪ 434 00:17:37,557 --> 00:17:39,307 {\an1}♪ Down, down, down ♪ 435 00:17:39,433 --> 00:17:41,523 {\an1}[people groaning] 436 00:17:41,602 --> 00:17:44,312 {\an1}- Oh, sign my yearbook. - We got yearbooks? 437 00:17:44,438 --> 00:17:47,728 {\an1}[people squealing] 438 00:17:47,817 --> 00:17:49,647 {\an1}- ♪ Don’t know if I’m dreaming ♪ 439 00:17:49,777 --> 00:17:51,857 {\an1}♪ Cold drinks and cool vibes in motion ♪ 440 00:17:51,946 --> 00:17:53,606 {\an1}♪ I’m here for this now forever ♪ 441 00:17:53,739 --> 00:17:56,489 {\an1}- I love the yearbooks. 442 00:17:56,617 --> 00:17:59,657 {\an1}They are so sweet and adorable. 443 00:17:59,787 --> 00:18:01,787 {\an1}Aw! That was one of my favorite days, by the way. 444 00:18:01,872 --> 00:18:02,872 {\an1}- Yeah. 445 00:18:02,957 --> 00:18:05,537 {\an1}- And they’re reminding me how far we’ve come. 446 00:18:05,626 --> 00:18:07,166 {\an1}- Pose, photoshoot. 447 00:18:07,295 --> 00:18:09,845 {\an1}♪ ♪ 448 00:18:09,964 --> 00:18:10,964 {\an1}- We got to get the angles. 449 00:18:11,090 --> 00:18:12,840 {\an1}- Lindy, you never needed a different prom photo 450 00:18:12,967 --> 00:18:14,297 {\an1}besides this one. 451 00:18:14,427 --> 00:18:15,507 {\an1}It’s gorgeous. 452 00:18:15,636 --> 00:18:21,726 {\an1}♪ ♪ 453 00:18:21,809 --> 00:18:23,519 {\an1}- All right, ratchet. 454 00:18:23,644 --> 00:18:26,194 {\an1}- What’s ratchet? 455 00:18:26,314 --> 00:18:28,154 {\an1}- That’s ratchet. You got it. 456 00:18:28,232 --> 00:18:34,992 {\an1}♪ ♪ 457 00:18:39,869 --> 00:18:42,909 {\an1}[indistinct chatter] 458 00:18:47,168 --> 00:18:49,588 {\an1}[indistinct chatter] 459 00:18:49,670 --> 00:18:52,170 {\an1}- And I think that it’s like a communication thing, right? 460 00:18:52,298 --> 00:18:54,628 {\an1}’Cause if you were like, "Hey, babe, like, I’m tired. 461 00:18:54,717 --> 00:18:56,637 {\an1}I’m not gonna take a photo of you right now"... 462 00:18:56,719 --> 00:18:59,179 {\an1}- I mean, I did communicate that early on, 463 00:18:59,305 --> 00:19:01,565 {\an1}like, just being on the bed kind of chilling. 464 00:19:01,682 --> 00:19:03,852 {\an1}- I guess I missed it, then. I’m sorry. 465 00:19:03,976 --> 00:19:07,056 {\an1}I can’t say sorry anymore. 466 00:19:07,188 --> 00:19:07,898 {\an1}[sighs] 467 00:19:08,022 --> 00:19:10,362 {\an1}- You kind of gaslighted me. 468 00:19:10,441 --> 00:19:12,651 {\an1}And I think that’s the thing that’s pissing me off, 469 00:19:12,735 --> 00:19:14,575 {\an1}that, like, you kind of [bleep] me. 470 00:19:14,695 --> 00:19:16,735 {\an1}It wasn’t a joke that you got annoyed. 471 00:19:16,864 --> 00:19:18,954 {\an1}Like, you legitimately got annoyed. 472 00:19:19,033 --> 00:19:20,533 {\an1}- When I thought you were messing with me... 473 00:19:20,618 --> 00:19:21,828 {\an1}- Right. 474 00:19:21,911 --> 00:19:23,451 {\an1}- I was like, "Come on, do it right." 475 00:19:23,537 --> 00:19:25,407 {\an1}Like, that was, like, [bleep]. - Exactly. 476 00:19:25,539 --> 00:19:27,749 {\an1}And that [bleep], like, no, not with me. 477 00:19:27,875 --> 00:19:28,825 {\an1}- Mm-hmm. 478 00:19:28,918 --> 00:19:30,208 {\an1}’Cause I asked you, like, "Were you annoyed?" 479 00:19:30,294 --> 00:19:32,214 {\an1}And then you were kind of like, "No, I wasn’t annoyed. 480 00:19:32,296 --> 00:19:33,586 {\an1}That whole thing, I was joking." 481 00:19:33,714 --> 00:19:35,264 {\an1}- I thought you were [bleep] around with me. 482 00:19:35,383 --> 00:19:36,763 {\an1}But then once I realized you were actually tired, 483 00:19:36,884 --> 00:19:38,434 {\an1}I was not mad. No [bleep]. 484 00:19:38,552 --> 00:19:39,932 {\an1}- Right, but it’s that tone 485 00:19:40,054 --> 00:19:41,764 {\an1}that you used when you were irritated. 486 00:19:41,889 --> 00:19:43,889 {\an1}That [bleep] doesn’t fly, ever. 487 00:19:43,974 --> 00:19:45,734 {\an1}You don’t talk to me like, ever. 488 00:19:45,810 --> 00:19:49,230 {\an1}♪ ♪ 489 00:19:49,355 --> 00:19:51,445 {\an1}Why would you talk to me like that? 490 00:19:51,565 --> 00:19:54,565 {\an1}- It was just a totally missed joke. 491 00:19:54,694 --> 00:19:56,284 {\an1}- I need you to stop saying jo-- 492 00:19:56,404 --> 00:19:58,114 {\an1}I need you to pick a side, ’cause, like, I sense 493 00:19:58,239 --> 00:19:59,949 {\an1}that you were legitimately annoyed. 494 00:20:00,074 --> 00:20:01,204 {\an1}But then you were like, "No, I wasn’t annoyed. 495 00:20:01,283 --> 00:20:02,413 {\an1}I was just joking." 496 00:20:02,535 --> 00:20:04,165 {\an1}But the fact is you were annoyed. 497 00:20:04,245 --> 00:20:06,415 {\an1}- Yeah, I got, like, frustrated. 498 00:20:06,497 --> 00:20:08,497 {\an1}- But the frustration wasn’t a joke, right? 499 00:20:08,582 --> 00:20:09,832 {\an1}You felt frustrated? 500 00:20:09,917 --> 00:20:12,877 {\an1}- Because I was ready for you to, like, stop with your joke. 501 00:20:12,962 --> 00:20:14,212 {\an1}- But I wasn’t joking. 502 00:20:14,296 --> 00:20:16,966 {\an1}- I totally, again, misread situation. 503 00:20:17,091 --> 00:20:18,261 {\an1}- Mm-hmm.- To me, I’m like, 504 00:20:18,384 --> 00:20:19,934 {\an1}"I look good. I feel good. I’m excited." 505 00:20:20,010 --> 00:20:21,180 {\an1}Like, I wanted photos of myself. 506 00:20:21,262 --> 00:20:23,932 {\an1}I just never would have dreamed that I was disturbing you 507 00:20:24,056 --> 00:20:25,466 {\an1}so badly and offending you 508 00:20:25,599 --> 00:20:27,429 {\an1}when I asked you to take a photo of me. 509 00:20:27,560 --> 00:20:30,100 {\an1}- What offended me was when you were like, "No, no, get up. 510 00:20:30,229 --> 00:20:31,809 {\an1}I’m actually annoyed now." 511 00:20:31,939 --> 00:20:33,439 {\an1}And that’s the issue that I’ve been bringing up to you. 512 00:20:33,566 --> 00:20:35,146 {\an1}- The issue is, is that it didn’t register with me 513 00:20:35,276 --> 00:20:36,436 {\an1}that I was riled up. - No, I know. 514 00:20:36,527 --> 00:20:38,027 {\an1}And that’s the thing that scares the [bleep] out of me. 515 00:20:38,112 --> 00:20:41,322 {\an1}There’s this anger inside of you that just, like, you know, 516 00:20:41,449 --> 00:20:43,829 {\an1}at the first provocation is kind of, like, ugh! 517 00:20:43,951 --> 00:20:44,911 {\an1}- That wasn’t anger, though. 518 00:20:44,994 --> 00:20:47,504 {\an1}That was just, like, a misread frustration. 519 00:20:47,621 --> 00:20:49,331 {\an1}And I don’t want to talk to you like that. 520 00:20:49,457 --> 00:20:51,827 {\an1}But, like, I just feel like I’m not being heard right now, 521 00:20:51,959 --> 00:20:52,919 {\an1}and you’re just like, 522 00:20:53,002 --> 00:20:55,092 {\an1}" Don’t talk to me like that no matter what." 523 00:20:55,171 --> 00:20:57,461 {\an1}- Well, yeah-- I mean, yeah. 524 00:20:57,590 --> 00:21:00,550 {\an1}- [sighs] Yeah. 525 00:21:00,634 --> 00:21:04,304 {\an1}It’s actually a little alarming hearing how harsh Miguel is. 526 00:21:04,430 --> 00:21:07,980 {\an1}If I really was being angry and disrespectful 527 00:21:08,100 --> 00:21:10,190 {\an1}and all the things that he perceived me to be, 528 00:21:10,311 --> 00:21:11,811 {\an1}then I’d be like, "Yeah, you’re right. 529 00:21:11,896 --> 00:21:13,106 {\an1}Like, I’m sorry." 530 00:21:13,189 --> 00:21:14,939 {\an1}- My worry is how easily you get annoyed 531 00:21:15,024 --> 00:21:16,284 {\an1}by things sometimes. 532 00:21:16,358 --> 00:21:19,608 {\an1}I don’t want that to be, like, a factor in the relationship. 533 00:21:19,695 --> 00:21:22,655 {\an1}- But that’s not my reality. That’s not my truth. 534 00:21:22,782 --> 00:21:24,742 {\an1}- I think today is just jarring, 535 00:21:24,825 --> 00:21:27,115 {\an1}’cause, like, that’s never really happened to us before, 536 00:21:27,203 --> 00:21:29,293 {\an1}where I kind of, like, got yelled at. 537 00:21:29,371 --> 00:21:30,831 {\an1}- You think I was yelling? 538 00:21:30,915 --> 00:21:32,545 {\an1}That’s also what worries me. 539 00:21:32,666 --> 00:21:35,376 {\an1}- Right, and it should, because, like, yeah. 540 00:21:35,503 --> 00:21:37,003 {\an1}- I wasn’t yelling. 541 00:21:37,129 --> 00:21:39,009 {\an1}- Take it like this-- I do perceive that 542 00:21:39,089 --> 00:21:41,009 {\an1}to be like an outburst, right, type thing. 543 00:21:41,091 --> 00:21:44,011 {\an1}So that’s the thing, like-- - An outburst? 544 00:21:44,094 --> 00:21:45,724 {\an1}- I mean, here’s the thing, right? 545 00:21:45,846 --> 00:21:48,516 {\an1}Your tone definitely went up. You yelled, right? 546 00:21:48,599 --> 00:21:49,559 {\an1}Like, your tone-- 547 00:21:49,683 --> 00:21:51,523 {\an1}Well, you didn’t yell, but your tone went up. 548 00:21:51,602 --> 00:21:54,652 {\an1}- Yes, I’m a total [bleep]-up. I hear you. 549 00:21:54,730 --> 00:21:55,810 {\an1}I’m the biggest [bleep] ever. 550 00:21:55,898 --> 00:21:58,608 {\an1}I asked you to take a photo of me--I don’t know. 551 00:21:58,692 --> 00:22:00,742 {\an1}It’s [bleep] ’cause it’s selfish, you know. 552 00:22:00,861 --> 00:22:02,571 {\an1}Like, I really am trying to enjoy prom. 553 00:22:02,696 --> 00:22:04,356 {\an1}And it’s unfortunate that Miguel 554 00:22:04,490 --> 00:22:07,370 {\an1}was just not able to get past this [bleep] picture incident. 555 00:22:07,493 --> 00:22:09,583 {\an1}I’m losing you. I’m losing you. 556 00:22:09,703 --> 00:22:11,043 {\an1}♪ ♪ 557 00:22:11,121 --> 00:22:13,041 {\an1}- All right, then, you’re losing me. 558 00:22:13,123 --> 00:22:16,463 {\an1}♪ ♪ 559 00:22:19,880 --> 00:22:21,840 {\an1}[dramatic music] 560 00:22:21,924 --> 00:22:25,764 {\an1}- I’m trying to follow, but... [sighs] 561 00:22:25,886 --> 00:22:28,176 {\an1}I don’t know what to say to you. 562 00:22:28,264 --> 00:22:29,894 {\an1}I don’t know what you need to hear. 563 00:22:30,015 --> 00:22:32,135 {\an1}I just--I don’t know. - At this point, nothing. 564 00:22:32,226 --> 00:22:34,136 {\an1}I think at this point, I’m just communicating to you, 565 00:22:34,228 --> 00:22:36,018 {\an1}like, this is something important to me 566 00:22:36,105 --> 00:22:38,945 {\an1}because it’s what I perceive to be our biggest challenge. 567 00:22:39,066 --> 00:22:40,106 {\an1}♪ ♪ 568 00:22:40,234 --> 00:22:43,324 {\an1}- I just can’t lose you when I do something wrong. 569 00:22:43,404 --> 00:22:45,364 {\an1}That’s what freaks me out. 570 00:22:45,447 --> 00:22:46,407 {\an1}♪ ♪ 571 00:22:46,532 --> 00:22:49,582 {\an1}I misread the situation, and I’m a total idiot. 572 00:22:49,702 --> 00:22:50,872 {\an1}- No, don’t--here’s the thing. 573 00:22:50,953 --> 00:22:52,203 {\an1}- No, I am. - It’s not about that. 574 00:22:52,288 --> 00:22:54,248 {\an1}- I mean, I don’t know how much I’m gonna get beat up here. 575 00:22:54,331 --> 00:22:55,541 {\an1}- It’s not about getting beat up. 576 00:22:55,624 --> 00:22:56,754 {\an1}I think the thing that frustrates me 577 00:22:56,834 --> 00:22:58,844 {\an1}is that, like, did you not feel annoyed or frustrated 578 00:22:58,919 --> 00:22:59,999 {\an1}or irritated? 579 00:23:00,087 --> 00:23:02,047 {\an1}- I actually felt, like, neglected. 580 00:23:02,131 --> 00:23:04,011 {\an1}- Mm. - I felt ignored. 581 00:23:04,091 --> 00:23:05,011 {\an1}That’s what I was feeling 582 00:23:05,092 --> 00:23:07,842 {\an1}because you were giving me a half-ass joke. 583 00:23:07,928 --> 00:23:10,718 {\an1}And it’s embarrassing for me to be like-- 584 00:23:10,806 --> 00:23:14,556 {\an1}Like, I’m dressed up, a dress you bought me. 585 00:23:14,643 --> 00:23:17,733 {\an1}It was actually a vulnerable moment for me, 586 00:23:17,813 --> 00:23:19,903 {\an1}and I think that’s what happened. 587 00:23:19,982 --> 00:23:20,902 {\an1}- Mm. 588 00:23:20,983 --> 00:23:22,613 {\an1}You’re either upset or you’re not, 589 00:23:22,693 --> 00:23:23,693 {\an1}and it’s okay if you are. 590 00:23:23,777 --> 00:23:26,107 {\an1}But let’s just be honest with each other. 591 00:23:26,196 --> 00:23:27,906 {\an1}It’s almost like she was sorry for being upset, 592 00:23:27,990 --> 00:23:29,240 {\an1}but she was upset. 593 00:23:29,325 --> 00:23:32,125 {\an1}And the lack of transparency is kind of making me upset. 594 00:23:32,244 --> 00:23:33,794 {\an1}- Again, it’s part of my personality, 595 00:23:33,871 --> 00:23:36,081 {\an1}but I can work on it, and I can be better at it, 596 00:23:36,165 --> 00:23:37,795 {\an1}but it’s not gonna happen overnight. 597 00:23:37,875 --> 00:23:38,795 {\an1}- I know. 598 00:23:38,918 --> 00:23:40,918 {\an1}- But this is why we have to talk about it, 599 00:23:41,003 --> 00:23:42,753 {\an1}and I have to understand it, and you have to understand it. 600 00:23:42,838 --> 00:23:45,508 {\an1}But I’m not gonna know until we start talking about it. 601 00:23:45,633 --> 00:23:49,263 {\an1}♪ ♪ 602 00:23:49,345 --> 00:23:50,765 {\an1}- Okay. 603 00:23:50,846 --> 00:23:56,306 {\an1}♪ ♪ 604 00:23:56,393 --> 00:23:59,813 {\an1}- Welcome to the first annual "Married at First Sight" prom. 605 00:23:59,897 --> 00:24:03,477 {\an1}[all cheering] 606 00:24:03,567 --> 00:24:05,237 {\an1}- So stoked! 607 00:24:05,319 --> 00:24:06,989 {\an1}- So, superlatives, we all voted for them. 608 00:24:07,112 --> 00:24:08,412 {\an1}Most likely to... 609 00:24:08,489 --> 00:24:09,949 {\an1}- I’m gonna start us off. 610 00:24:10,032 --> 00:24:12,702 {\an1}The first award is life of the party. 611 00:24:12,826 --> 00:24:16,706 {\an1}♪ ♪ 612 00:24:16,830 --> 00:24:19,500 {\an1}Alexis, you are definitely life of the party. 613 00:24:19,625 --> 00:24:22,385 {\an1}Yes. [cheers and applause] 614 00:24:22,503 --> 00:24:24,843 {\an1}- My husband said I can’t go out anymore. 615 00:24:24,922 --> 00:24:27,472 {\an1}So I think I’m gonna retire that title. 616 00:24:27,549 --> 00:24:29,799 {\an1}- Party’s over. - Too soon, Alexis, too soon. 617 00:24:29,885 --> 00:24:32,095 {\an1}- All right. I’m sorry, sorry, sorry, sorry. 618 00:24:32,179 --> 00:24:35,969 {\an1}- I love this one, and that is best dancer. 619 00:24:36,058 --> 00:24:38,138 {\an1}I’m gonna go ahead and say I voted for myself. 620 00:24:38,227 --> 00:24:40,647 {\an1}Have you seen me on the dance floor? 621 00:24:40,729 --> 00:24:44,019 {\an1}♪ ♪ 622 00:24:44,149 --> 00:24:44,939 {\an1}[insects chirping] 623 00:24:45,025 --> 00:24:47,815 {\an1}I am not the winner. - Oh, crime! 624 00:24:47,903 --> 00:24:48,953 {\an1}- What? - It’s a crime. 625 00:24:49,029 --> 00:24:50,699 {\an1}- Boo! - You know what? 626 00:24:50,823 --> 00:24:52,163 {\an1}In my heart, it’s me. 627 00:24:52,241 --> 00:24:56,451 {\an1}♪ ♪ 628 00:24:56,537 --> 00:24:58,787 {\an1}But we got Nate. 629 00:24:58,872 --> 00:25:01,542 {\an1}[all shouting] 630 00:25:01,625 --> 00:25:03,125 {\an1}- Break it down. 631 00:25:03,210 --> 00:25:04,840 {\an1}- Give me that back until you get the moves. 632 00:25:04,920 --> 00:25:05,880 {\an1}♪ ♪ 633 00:25:05,963 --> 00:25:09,383 {\an1}[all shouting] 634 00:25:09,466 --> 00:25:10,756 {\an1}All right guys, this is a safe space. 635 00:25:10,884 --> 00:25:12,344 {\an1}- Yes. - Is it, though? 636 00:25:12,428 --> 00:25:15,678 {\an1}- So the next is biggest drama queen. 637 00:25:15,764 --> 00:25:16,854 {\an1}Let’s not be offended. 638 00:25:16,932 --> 00:25:17,852 {\an1}Let’s just keep it to-- you know? 639 00:25:17,933 --> 00:25:20,353 {\an1}- Okay. - That’s it! I’m out here! 640 00:25:20,436 --> 00:25:21,936 {\an1}- And I’m so glad you said you’re out of here, 641 00:25:22,062 --> 00:25:25,112 {\an1}because it’s Lindy! [all shouting] 642 00:25:25,232 --> 00:25:27,322 {\an1}- Damn it! Un-mic me! I’m done! 643 00:25:27,401 --> 00:25:29,691 {\an1}- Get the drama from your mama or Lindy. 644 00:25:29,778 --> 00:25:33,278 {\an1}- I want to thank my mama for teaching me all the drama 645 00:25:33,407 --> 00:25:36,447 {\an1}and Miguel for putting up with it. 646 00:25:36,577 --> 00:25:38,117 {\an1}- Aw. 647 00:25:38,245 --> 00:25:41,035 {\an1}- The category is most emotional, 648 00:25:41,123 --> 00:25:42,713 {\an1}and I’d like to preface that. 649 00:25:42,791 --> 00:25:45,961 {\an1}Emotional, to me, means very in touch 650 00:25:46,086 --> 00:25:48,256 {\an1}with how they feel and willing to share about that. 651 00:25:48,338 --> 00:25:51,088 {\an1}- Justin! - So without further ado... 652 00:25:51,175 --> 00:25:52,475 {\an1}- Baby! 653 00:25:52,593 --> 00:25:54,763 {\an1}- Unanimous. - Unanimous. 654 00:25:54,845 --> 00:25:56,475 {\an1}- And we’d love to hear what you have to say. 655 00:25:56,597 --> 00:25:58,267 {\an1}♪ ♪ 656 00:25:58,390 --> 00:25:59,890 {\an1}- Is he crying? 657 00:25:59,975 --> 00:26:01,975 {\an1}- Yeah, go ahead and cry. - [imitates sobbing] 658 00:26:02,102 --> 00:26:05,232 {\an1}Thank you, guys, for recognizing my emotions. 659 00:26:05,314 --> 00:26:06,234 {\an1}♪ ♪ 660 00:26:06,315 --> 00:26:08,235 {\an1}- That’s it, baby. - We love you, Justin. 661 00:26:08,317 --> 00:26:09,817 {\an1}- We love your emotions, honey. 662 00:26:09,943 --> 00:26:11,703 {\an1}- Congratulations, you big baby. 663 00:26:11,779 --> 00:26:13,069 {\an1}- Oh-ho, Nate. 664 00:26:13,155 --> 00:26:14,575 {\an1}- All right. 665 00:26:14,656 --> 00:26:18,826 {\an1}The category is most likely to save the planet. 666 00:26:18,952 --> 00:26:20,792 {\an1}- Oh, hands down. 667 00:26:20,871 --> 00:26:24,501 {\an1}- And who do we think the trash-picking son of a Mitch is 668 00:26:24,625 --> 00:26:28,425 {\an1}but Mitch Silverstein! - Whoo! 669 00:26:28,504 --> 00:26:30,094 {\an1}- Come on, baby! - Yeah, Mitch. 670 00:26:30,172 --> 00:26:32,512 {\an1}- This award is not biodegradable, sorry. 671 00:26:32,633 --> 00:26:34,553 {\an1}- [laughs] - Mitch, you don’t go anywhere. 672 00:26:34,635 --> 00:26:35,515 {\an1}- I’m confused. What did I do? 673 00:26:35,636 --> 00:26:37,716 {\an1}- Back-to-back. - Back-to-back! 674 00:26:37,805 --> 00:26:39,895 {\an1}- Back-to-back. 675 00:26:39,973 --> 00:26:42,313 {\an1}- We’d like to honor you for all your awkward moments, 676 00:26:42,392 --> 00:26:44,192 {\an1}for all the times that you made us cringe, 677 00:26:44,311 --> 00:26:46,521 {\an1}for all the times we wanted to exit the room, 678 00:26:46,647 --> 00:26:48,267 {\an1}but you continued to say something 679 00:26:48,357 --> 00:26:49,437 {\an1}that made us all uncomfortable. 680 00:26:49,525 --> 00:26:51,865 {\an1}So class clown goes to Mitch! 681 00:26:51,985 --> 00:26:53,235 {\an1}[all cheering] 682 00:26:53,320 --> 00:26:57,620 {\an1}- In this life, there are those who want to save the world, 683 00:26:57,699 --> 00:26:59,159 {\an1}and there are those who want to make 684 00:26:59,284 --> 00:27:02,164 {\an1}everyone cringe at the same time, and that is me. 685 00:27:02,287 --> 00:27:04,577 {\an1}You’re welcome. 686 00:27:04,665 --> 00:27:06,965 {\an1}- The next category is best all around, 687 00:27:07,042 --> 00:27:09,922 {\an1}and I believe this to be someone 688 00:27:10,003 --> 00:27:11,593 {\an1}beautiful inside and out. 689 00:27:11,672 --> 00:27:13,342 {\an1}And that person is Stacia. 690 00:27:13,423 --> 00:27:15,763 {\an1}- Oh, me? - Best all-around. 691 00:27:15,843 --> 00:27:17,513 {\an1}[all cheering] 692 00:27:17,594 --> 00:27:19,144 {\an1}- She’s such an inspiration. We love you. 693 00:27:19,221 --> 00:27:21,141 {\an1}- Yes, honey. We love you. - Are you serious? 694 00:27:21,223 --> 00:27:24,023 {\an1}- I voted for my wife ’cause that was the only real option. 695 00:27:24,143 --> 00:27:26,143 {\an1}- I didn’t know that you guys, like, 696 00:27:26,228 --> 00:27:28,648 {\an1}even cared for me like that. 697 00:27:28,730 --> 00:27:30,900 {\an1}- We love you, Stacia! 698 00:27:31,024 --> 00:27:35,114 {\an1}- Our next superlative is biggest gossip. 699 00:27:35,195 --> 00:27:36,195 {\an1}- Oh. - Hoo. 700 00:27:36,280 --> 00:27:38,700 {\an1}This is someone that we like to confide in. 701 00:27:38,824 --> 00:27:42,124 {\an1}This is someone that we’d like to share with. 702 00:27:42,202 --> 00:27:43,332 {\an1}- Just say it. 703 00:27:43,412 --> 00:27:45,292 {\an1}- But I--this has-- 704 00:27:45,372 --> 00:27:46,412 {\an1}- Here, give me. 705 00:27:46,540 --> 00:27:48,170 {\an1}It’s me. - Yes! 706 00:27:48,250 --> 00:27:50,590 {\an1}- It is I! It is I! 707 00:27:50,711 --> 00:27:53,131 {\an1}And my girl was trying to hold it down as long as she could. 708 00:27:53,213 --> 00:27:56,343 {\an1}It’s me. I know I spill the secret. 709 00:27:56,425 --> 00:27:58,435 {\an1}I told Morgan stuff that led to-- 710 00:27:58,552 --> 00:28:02,062 {\an1}- Somebody’s divorce. - Private. 711 00:28:02,139 --> 00:28:06,809 {\an1}- Alexis winning best gossip is the most appropriate maybe. 712 00:28:06,894 --> 00:28:08,484 {\an1}- She said it. 713 00:28:08,562 --> 00:28:10,862 {\an1}- Damn, Stacia, give me that best all-around trophy. 714 00:28:10,939 --> 00:28:12,479 {\an1}- She’s the gossip queen, you know. 715 00:28:12,566 --> 00:28:15,686 {\an1}She caused Binh and Morgan’s divorce, straight up. 716 00:28:15,777 --> 00:28:18,697 {\an1}- I just think that she should have told Justin 717 00:28:18,780 --> 00:28:21,660 {\an1}that he needed to go and tell Binh 718 00:28:21,742 --> 00:28:23,702 {\an1}that Binh needs to go and talk to Morgan 719 00:28:23,785 --> 00:28:24,905 {\an1}instead of her going to Morgan 720 00:28:24,995 --> 00:28:27,415 {\an1}’cause it kind of just got really, really messy. 721 00:28:27,497 --> 00:28:29,577 {\an1}- She tells on people. She’s a snitch. 722 00:28:29,666 --> 00:28:32,376 {\an1}So I’m not surprised. 723 00:28:32,461 --> 00:28:34,711 {\an1}- Next subject. [laughter] 724 00:28:34,796 --> 00:28:36,206 {\an1}♪ ♪ 725 00:28:36,298 --> 00:28:38,878 {\an1}Most likely to stay married. 726 00:28:38,967 --> 00:28:41,297 {\an1}both: Mm. - It’s Krysten and Mitch! 727 00:28:41,428 --> 00:28:42,468 {\an1}Just kidding. [laughs] 728 00:28:42,596 --> 00:28:44,096 {\an1}- I just had a heart attack. 729 00:28:44,181 --> 00:28:46,221 {\an1}- How is that necessary? 730 00:28:46,308 --> 00:28:47,848 {\an1}- It’s Lindy and Miguel. 731 00:28:47,935 --> 00:28:49,565 {\an1}[all cheering] 732 00:28:49,645 --> 00:28:52,905 {\an1}- Aw, they’re so in love. Oh, my God! 733 00:28:52,981 --> 00:28:55,481 {\an1}- Yeah, it’s not easy by any stretch of the imagination, 734 00:28:55,609 --> 00:28:57,109 {\an1}as you guys know. 735 00:28:57,194 --> 00:28:58,904 {\an1}I mean, it’s difficult enough marrying a stranger. 736 00:28:58,987 --> 00:29:01,107 {\an1}But we’re a good team, and I think we love each other. 737 00:29:01,198 --> 00:29:03,578 {\an1}And despite my skepticism in the beginning, 738 00:29:03,659 --> 00:29:07,039 {\an1}I did embark on this to find someone like you. 739 00:29:07,120 --> 00:29:08,660 {\an1}all: Aw! 740 00:29:08,789 --> 00:29:10,079 {\an1}- Thanks, baby. 741 00:29:10,165 --> 00:29:12,915 {\an1}You’re so cute. [indistinct chatter] 742 00:29:13,001 --> 00:29:13,961 {\an1}- Oh, my goodness. 743 00:29:14,044 --> 00:29:17,924 {\an1}- I just feel like marriage takes work, 744 00:29:18,006 --> 00:29:19,296 {\an1}no matter who you’re married to 745 00:29:19,424 --> 00:29:21,304 {\an1}and no matter how much love there is. 746 00:29:21,385 --> 00:29:23,145 {\an1}And you just have to keep fighting for each other. 747 00:29:23,262 --> 00:29:25,352 {\an1}And it’s so easy for me to fight for you 748 00:29:25,472 --> 00:29:27,772 {\an1}because of how much I love you and how amazing you are. 749 00:29:27,849 --> 00:29:28,769 {\an1}- Oh, wow. 750 00:29:28,850 --> 00:29:30,770 {\an1}- I’m so happy that I’m married to you. 751 00:29:30,852 --> 00:29:32,272 {\an1}- Jeez. 752 00:29:32,354 --> 00:29:33,774 {\an1}- This is why we voted for y’all. 753 00:29:33,855 --> 00:29:35,105 {\an1}- We’re okay back here. We’re okay. 754 00:29:35,190 --> 00:29:35,980 {\an1}- We voted right. 755 00:29:36,066 --> 00:29:37,816 {\an1}- And that’s why we voted for you. 756 00:29:37,901 --> 00:29:38,941 {\an1}- This category is 757 00:29:39,027 --> 00:29:42,107 {\an1}most likely to end up with multiple divorces. 758 00:29:42,197 --> 00:29:43,617 {\an1}- Oh, Morgan. - Oh, Lord. 759 00:29:43,699 --> 00:29:44,779 {\an1}That’s rude. 760 00:29:44,866 --> 00:29:46,116 {\an1}- This is what I’d like to say about this category. 761 00:29:46,201 --> 00:29:50,501 {\an1}This category is someone who says yes to love. 762 00:29:50,622 --> 00:29:51,832 {\an1}Sure, sure. 763 00:29:51,915 --> 00:29:55,245 {\an1}Maybe a divorce ends up in that, but they’re taking a risk 764 00:29:55,335 --> 00:29:58,165 {\an1}and falling in love with the most people. 765 00:29:58,255 --> 00:30:00,475 {\an1}And this person sees beauty in a lot of things. 766 00:30:00,549 --> 00:30:01,879 {\an1}- Oh, my God, is it my wife? 767 00:30:02,009 --> 00:30:05,049 {\an1}- And this person has already been engaged. 768 00:30:05,178 --> 00:30:09,468 {\an1}And now she’s married to Mitch, ’cause it’s me, baby! 769 00:30:09,558 --> 00:30:10,848 {\an1}♪ ♪ 770 00:30:10,976 --> 00:30:15,476 {\an1}I would also like to say that I voted for myself, bitches. 771 00:30:15,564 --> 00:30:16,864 {\an1}I know what’s up. 772 00:30:16,982 --> 00:30:19,572 {\an1}- Mitch, how do you feel about your wife being voted that? 773 00:30:19,693 --> 00:30:22,453 {\an1}- You know, it wasn’t my vote. It wasn’t my first choice. 774 00:30:22,529 --> 00:30:24,409 {\an1}So I wonder whose it was. 775 00:30:24,531 --> 00:30:26,071 {\an1}- Damn, it was your wife. 776 00:30:26,199 --> 00:30:27,409 {\an1}- [sighs] 777 00:30:27,534 --> 00:30:30,164 {\an1}Did you vote for yourself? - Absolutely. 778 00:30:30,245 --> 00:30:31,615 {\an1}- Mitch, you better get your [bleep] right. 779 00:30:31,705 --> 00:30:33,125 {\an1}Get it together, Mitch. 780 00:30:33,206 --> 00:30:34,366 {\an1}- I don’t think that this is bad. 781 00:30:34,499 --> 00:30:37,339 {\an1}- It’s almost like Krysten is suddenly taking a page out 782 00:30:37,419 --> 00:30:40,709 {\an1}of my playbook, because I make jokes like that sometimes 783 00:30:40,839 --> 00:30:42,509 {\an1}and she gets mad at me for it. 784 00:30:42,591 --> 00:30:44,631 {\an1}So it’s kind of weird and ironic 785 00:30:44,718 --> 00:30:46,178 {\an1}that she voted for herself 786 00:30:46,261 --> 00:30:48,851 {\an1}as the most likely to get multiple divorces. 787 00:30:48,930 --> 00:30:50,810 {\an1}- I would actually be offended if someone else won this 788 00:30:50,891 --> 00:30:52,891 {\an1}besides me, so... - Well, that’s a bit much. 789 00:30:53,018 --> 00:30:54,728 {\an1}Let’s not go that far. 790 00:30:54,853 --> 00:30:56,813 {\an1}[laughs] 791 00:30:56,897 --> 00:30:59,727 {\an1}And the time you guys have all been waiting for-- 792 00:30:59,816 --> 00:31:01,646 {\an1}prom queen and king. 793 00:31:01,735 --> 00:31:03,405 {\an1}So, for king... 794 00:31:03,487 --> 00:31:06,237 {\an1}[drumroll] 795 00:31:06,323 --> 00:31:08,993 {\an1}♪ ♪ 796 00:31:09,076 --> 00:31:11,826 {\an1}We have Miguel. - Hey! 797 00:31:11,912 --> 00:31:15,422 {\an1}- You have to be my queen. You have to be the queen. 798 00:31:15,540 --> 00:31:16,880 {\an1}Thank you. 799 00:31:16,958 --> 00:31:19,538 {\an1}- ♪ I’m gonna be all right ♪ 800 00:31:19,628 --> 00:31:23,258 {\an1}I mean, the only way I can be a king is to have a queen. 801 00:31:23,340 --> 00:31:26,720 {\an1}[all cheering] 802 00:31:26,802 --> 00:31:29,102 {\an1}- This is the best moment of my life. 803 00:31:29,179 --> 00:31:32,099 {\an1}- Kiss, kiss, kiss, kiss. - Aw. 804 00:31:32,182 --> 00:31:33,852 {\an1}♪ ♪ 805 00:31:33,934 --> 00:31:35,394 {\an1}- Yay, to king and queen. 806 00:31:35,477 --> 00:31:37,227 {\an1}Thank you guys for throwing this prom for me. 807 00:31:37,312 --> 00:31:39,022 {\an1}It’s so cheesy, but it means a lot. 808 00:31:39,106 --> 00:31:40,476 {\an1}It’s special. 809 00:31:40,607 --> 00:31:42,437 {\an1}And I’m wearing a crown, and I feel pretty. 810 00:31:42,526 --> 00:31:43,476 {\an1}So thank you, guys. 811 00:31:43,610 --> 00:31:45,070 {\an1}- Aw! 812 00:31:45,153 --> 00:31:46,573 {\an1}- Okay, here we go. 813 00:31:46,655 --> 00:31:49,665 {\an1}Your first dance, the prom queen and king. 814 00:31:49,783 --> 00:31:51,283 {\an1}♪ ♪ 815 00:31:51,368 --> 00:31:53,748 {\an1}- ♪ Another year ♪ 816 00:31:53,829 --> 00:31:55,709 {\an1}♪ ♪ 817 00:31:55,789 --> 00:32:00,289 {\an1}♪ Another chance to call you on the phone ♪ 818 00:32:00,377 --> 00:32:04,507 {\an1}♪ Remind me of our love ♪ 819 00:32:04,631 --> 00:32:08,551 {\an1}♪ A life in monochrome ♪ 820 00:32:08,635 --> 00:32:11,465 {\an1}♪ And I deserve it all ♪ 821 00:32:14,975 --> 00:32:16,315 {\an1}- ♪ We stay up all night ♪ 822 00:32:16,393 --> 00:32:17,813 {\an1}♪ ♪ 823 00:32:17,936 --> 00:32:21,306 {\an1}♪ And talk until the sun rises ♪ 824 00:32:21,398 --> 00:32:24,568 {\an1}- Ah, that was so fun. 825 00:32:24,651 --> 00:32:26,821 {\an1}What do you think? Was that fun? 826 00:32:26,903 --> 00:32:27,863 {\an1}- Yeah. 827 00:32:27,988 --> 00:32:30,368 {\an1}- [laughs] 828 00:32:30,490 --> 00:32:31,740 {\an1}- Well, I’m glad we were able to have 829 00:32:31,825 --> 00:32:34,585 {\an1}that conversation earlier about the miscommunication we had. 830 00:32:34,661 --> 00:32:37,161 {\an1}I think it’s par for the course in a sense 831 00:32:37,247 --> 00:32:39,537 {\an1}that we’re still discovering each other and still kind of, 832 00:32:39,666 --> 00:32:41,826 {\an1}like, figuring out how we communicate. 833 00:32:41,918 --> 00:32:43,498 {\an1}- Yeah. I mean, definitely. 834 00:32:43,587 --> 00:32:45,627 {\an1}I feel like understanding each other 835 00:32:45,714 --> 00:32:49,184 {\an1}and, like, fixing things is a lifetime thing. 836 00:32:49,259 --> 00:32:51,509 {\an1}I think it’ll get easier, though, the more we know 837 00:32:51,595 --> 00:32:53,975 {\an1}and understand each other. - Yeah. 838 00:32:54,055 --> 00:32:56,675 {\an1}Well, I want to be able to trust that when I ask you, 839 00:32:56,766 --> 00:32:58,806 {\an1}the answer I’m getting is reliable. 840 00:32:58,894 --> 00:33:00,354 {\an1}- It’s just so confusing. 841 00:33:00,437 --> 00:33:02,437 {\an1}It’s this weird dance we’re in right now. 842 00:33:02,522 --> 00:33:04,482 {\an1}And I think I just have to look at it 843 00:33:04,566 --> 00:33:06,356 {\an1}as more of a learning experience 844 00:33:06,443 --> 00:33:09,823 {\an1}of, like, being more empathetic to him and reading him. 845 00:33:09,905 --> 00:33:11,705 {\an1}But, no, I don’t think I did anything wrong 846 00:33:11,823 --> 00:33:13,163 {\an1}by any means at all. 847 00:33:13,241 --> 00:33:15,871 {\an1}This is just the ride. This is the journey. 848 00:33:15,952 --> 00:33:17,832 {\an1}Being married is considering someone else 849 00:33:17,913 --> 00:33:22,383 {\an1}and trying to grow for them and with them. 850 00:33:22,501 --> 00:33:24,381 {\an1}[knock at door] - Come in. 851 00:33:24,461 --> 00:33:26,051 {\an1}- Surprise! 852 00:33:26,129 --> 00:33:28,049 {\an1}- The sex swing? - Yes, get up. 853 00:33:28,131 --> 00:33:29,551 {\an1}We got to try it. 854 00:33:29,633 --> 00:33:31,013 {\an1}Let’s get this party started. 855 00:33:31,092 --> 00:33:32,722 {\an1}- Lindy and Miguel are definitely going 856 00:33:32,844 --> 00:33:34,104 {\an1}through something right now, 857 00:33:34,221 --> 00:33:36,061 {\an1}and I’m not sure what’s going on. 858 00:33:36,139 --> 00:33:38,559 {\an1}Like, I’m trying not to impose, 859 00:33:38,642 --> 00:33:41,142 {\an1}but I think that this is a good time 860 00:33:41,228 --> 00:33:44,228 {\an1}for us to give them an opportunity to use the swing. 861 00:33:44,314 --> 00:33:45,064 {\an1}- Whoo! 862 00:33:45,148 --> 00:33:46,728 {\an1}- This is like a Nate-tall door. 863 00:33:46,858 --> 00:33:48,148 {\an1}- Is this even allowed? 864 00:33:48,235 --> 00:33:49,785 {\an1}- Are you good at following instructions? 865 00:33:49,903 --> 00:33:51,903 {\an1}- [gasps] [laughter] 866 00:33:52,030 --> 00:33:54,070 {\an1}- Here you go, Miguel. 867 00:33:54,157 --> 00:33:56,077 {\an1}And then, Lindy, you have to strap in 868 00:33:56,159 --> 00:33:57,949 {\an1}and get in here, you know. - Strap in? 869 00:33:58,078 --> 00:33:59,248 {\an1}- Yeah. - Yeah. 870 00:33:59,329 --> 00:34:00,579 {\an1}It’s like a roller coaster. 871 00:34:00,664 --> 00:34:02,334 {\an1}- But this one could be dangerous. 872 00:34:02,415 --> 00:34:04,915 {\an1}If it’s not hung right, I’m gonna fall on my head. 873 00:34:05,001 --> 00:34:07,421 {\an1}- Okay, so these are handles, right? 874 00:34:07,546 --> 00:34:09,755 {\an1}This is a handle, and this is the handle, okay? 875 00:34:09,880 --> 00:34:12,011 {\an1}- Okay. - Then you’re gonna sit. 876 00:34:12,092 --> 00:34:13,722 {\an1}And then you can put your legs in here, too. 877 00:34:13,802 --> 00:34:14,931 {\an1}- All right, they got it. 878 00:34:15,011 --> 00:34:18,721 {\an1}- Like the doctor’s office, like a stirrup? 879 00:34:18,806 --> 00:34:20,177 {\an1}- You want Nate to get in first? 880 00:34:20,266 --> 00:34:22,056 {\an1}- Yeah, I want to make sure it doesn’t fall. 881 00:34:22,143 --> 00:34:25,612 {\an1}- Whee. Whee. - Whee. 882 00:34:25,688 --> 00:34:26,688 {\an1}[laughter] 883 00:34:26,773 --> 00:34:28,233 {\an1}- It’s holding. 884 00:34:28,315 --> 00:34:29,936 {\an1}- Oh, my God! 885 00:34:30,025 --> 00:34:32,396 {\an1}- Whoo-hoo-hoo! [laughter] 886 00:34:32,487 --> 00:34:34,107 {\an1}What’s going on? 887 00:34:34,197 --> 00:34:36,447 {\an1}- That’s how you do it, huh, Stacia? 888 00:34:36,533 --> 00:34:37,783 {\an1}♪ ♪ 889 00:34:37,867 --> 00:34:38,827 {\an1}Let’s see it, girl. 890 00:34:38,952 --> 00:34:40,871 {\an1}All right, Lindy, you got to put your legs 891 00:34:40,954 --> 00:34:42,164 {\an1}in the hole right here. 892 00:34:42,289 --> 00:34:44,668 {\an1}Boom. - And then food in here. 893 00:34:44,791 --> 00:34:47,291 {\an1}- And then now you can control these legs. 894 00:34:47,418 --> 00:34:48,379 {\an1}Get in there, Miguel. 895 00:34:48,460 --> 00:34:51,301 {\an1}- See, Lindy, you’re getting the hang of this. 896 00:34:51,380 --> 00:34:53,841 {\an1}Let your imagination just take hold. 897 00:34:53,967 --> 00:34:55,587 {\an1}- But then what do I do with my legs? 898 00:34:55,677 --> 00:34:56,677 {\an1}- Figure it out. 899 00:34:56,803 --> 00:34:58,103 {\an1}- And then my butt? 900 00:34:58,179 --> 00:35:01,639 {\an1}- ♪ Giving me chills ♪ 901 00:35:01,725 --> 00:35:03,395 {\an1}- Y’all making [bleep] up now. 902 00:35:03,476 --> 00:35:05,306 {\an1}- Okay, wait. 903 00:35:05,395 --> 00:35:07,485 {\an1}- Read the [bleep]-- 904 00:35:07,564 --> 00:35:09,574 {\an1}[laughter] 905 00:35:09,649 --> 00:35:10,649 {\an1}I’m done. 906 00:35:10,734 --> 00:35:17,414 {\an1}♪ ♪ 907 00:35:20,493 --> 00:35:22,043 {\an1}- Wake up. [chuckles] 908 00:35:22,162 --> 00:35:25,252 {\an1}- Good morning, world. - Good morning. 909 00:35:25,332 --> 00:35:28,792 {\an1}We are waking up after a really fun night at prom. 910 00:35:28,877 --> 00:35:32,207 {\an1}- How do you feel about last night? 911 00:35:32,339 --> 00:35:33,339 {\an1}- Last night was fun. 912 00:35:33,423 --> 00:35:35,423 {\an1}- What was your favorite part about last night? 913 00:35:35,508 --> 00:35:38,678 {\an1}- Just the slow dancing. - Same, that was my favorite. 914 00:35:38,803 --> 00:35:41,013 {\an1}- My neck hurt from looking up that high, but... 915 00:35:41,139 --> 00:35:42,769 {\an1}- Get used to it, girl. 916 00:35:42,849 --> 00:35:45,939 {\an1}- I felt like a true prom queen. 917 00:35:46,019 --> 00:35:48,519 {\an1}- What are we doing today? 918 00:35:48,605 --> 00:35:52,695 {\an1}- We’re gonna wake up soon. 919 00:35:52,776 --> 00:35:55,526 {\an1}- Today we’re going... 920 00:35:55,612 --> 00:35:58,072 {\an1}on a carriage ride. 921 00:35:58,198 --> 00:36:00,118 {\an1}- We’re gonna do some archery. 922 00:36:00,200 --> 00:36:02,540 {\an1}- I don’t think I’ve shot bow and arrow since, like, 923 00:36:02,661 --> 00:36:03,871 {\an1}Boy Scouts or something. 924 00:36:03,995 --> 00:36:05,955 {\an1}- Oh, yeah. I’ve never done it before. 925 00:36:06,039 --> 00:36:07,369 {\an1}I’m not gonna be good at it. 926 00:36:07,457 --> 00:36:09,667 {\an1}- I am planning a date with my wife. 927 00:36:09,751 --> 00:36:11,711 {\an1}It is a surprise. 928 00:36:11,795 --> 00:36:15,055 {\an1}So I just told her to get pretty, get dressed, 929 00:36:15,131 --> 00:36:16,131 {\an1}and gonna get going. 930 00:36:16,216 --> 00:36:19,216 {\an1}♪ ♪ 931 00:36:19,302 --> 00:36:22,512 {\an1}- ♪ Now I crave, now I crave it ♪ 932 00:36:22,597 --> 00:36:24,557 {\an1}- Hello. - Hi. 933 00:36:24,641 --> 00:36:26,061 {\an1}Welcome to Myrtle Creek Vineyards. 934 00:36:26,142 --> 00:36:27,732 {\an1}This is where we make all our wine. 935 00:36:27,811 --> 00:36:30,231 {\an1}- This is cool. - Yeah. 936 00:36:30,313 --> 00:36:32,823 {\an1}This is our bottling setup. 937 00:36:32,899 --> 00:36:35,739 {\an1}- Oh, it says "Alexis and Justin." 938 00:36:35,819 --> 00:36:38,199 {\an1}- These are for you to take home. 939 00:36:38,279 --> 00:36:39,409 {\an1}- Thank you. - Okay. 940 00:36:39,489 --> 00:36:40,409 {\an1}- All right. 941 00:36:40,490 --> 00:36:41,910 {\an1}- We should do this at our one-year. 942 00:36:41,991 --> 00:36:43,241 {\an1}- I was just about to say that. 943 00:36:43,368 --> 00:36:45,748 {\an1}We should open it on our one-year. 944 00:36:45,829 --> 00:36:48,749 {\an1}- ♪ I got a taste, now I feel the energy ♪ 945 00:36:48,832 --> 00:36:50,422 {\an1}- Ooh! 946 00:36:50,542 --> 00:36:52,082 {\an1}- Stepping up our intimacy level. 947 00:36:52,210 --> 00:36:55,090 {\an1}- Mm-hmm. It is very intimate, you know. 948 00:36:55,213 --> 00:36:58,973 {\an1}Not too many distractions, so I can appreciate that. 949 00:36:59,092 --> 00:37:01,552 {\an1}- Everybody say you smiley now. - Oh, my God. 950 00:37:01,636 --> 00:37:03,426 {\an1}I don’t know where they getting that from. 951 00:37:03,513 --> 00:37:05,063 {\an1}I’m always smiling. 952 00:37:05,140 --> 00:37:07,270 {\an1}- You know, "I just got some booty" glow. 953 00:37:07,350 --> 00:37:08,730 {\an1}- [chuckles] 954 00:37:08,810 --> 00:37:10,310 {\an1}- I’m just really happy 955 00:37:10,437 --> 00:37:12,727 {\an1}that Justin and I are finally being 956 00:37:12,814 --> 00:37:14,114 {\an1}intimate with one another. 957 00:37:14,190 --> 00:37:17,110 {\an1}It’s just like, "Okay, we can settle down now, tap in." 958 00:37:17,235 --> 00:37:19,605 {\an1}And I’m really hopeful for what comes next. 959 00:37:19,696 --> 00:37:20,606 {\an1}♪ ♪ 960 00:37:20,739 --> 00:37:22,619 {\an1}Do you think the energy has changed? 961 00:37:22,699 --> 00:37:24,739 {\an1}- Nah, I think that’s changed at all. 962 00:37:24,826 --> 00:37:26,326 {\an1}- I think so. - You think so? 963 00:37:26,453 --> 00:37:27,453 {\an1}- Mm-hmm. - Really? 964 00:37:27,537 --> 00:37:30,787 {\an1}- I do. I think you’re more relaxed, I think. 965 00:37:30,915 --> 00:37:32,915 {\an1}- Really? - I do. 966 00:37:33,001 --> 00:37:34,591 {\an1}I just feel like we haven’t argued. 967 00:37:34,669 --> 00:37:35,999 {\an1}We’ve been good. 968 00:37:36,129 --> 00:37:37,629 {\an1}The sexual tension is gone, no pressure. 969 00:37:37,714 --> 00:37:40,634 {\an1}You can be yourself, and it’s good. 970 00:37:40,759 --> 00:37:42,299 {\an1}- I mean, I enjoyed it. It’s great. 971 00:37:42,385 --> 00:37:43,965 {\an1}You know, I thought it was a beautiful thing. 972 00:37:44,053 --> 00:37:47,103 {\an1}But I feel like my energy’s the same, you know. 973 00:37:47,182 --> 00:37:48,812 {\an1}I look at the big picture. 974 00:37:48,892 --> 00:37:51,142 {\an1}And I’m looking at it more long term. 975 00:37:51,227 --> 00:37:53,477 {\an1}I was celibate. And sex isn’t just sex to me. 976 00:37:53,605 --> 00:37:55,655 {\an1}Like, if I’m gonna give myself to you, it’s special. 977 00:37:55,774 --> 00:37:57,784 {\an1}I’m glad it happened. It took a while. 978 00:37:57,859 --> 00:37:59,609 {\an1}But, I mean, when it comes to my wife, 979 00:37:59,694 --> 00:38:00,654 {\an1}I’m still learning her. 980 00:38:00,779 --> 00:38:02,409 {\an1}And so the more we learn about each other, 981 00:38:02,489 --> 00:38:03,569 {\an1}the more we appreciate, 982 00:38:03,656 --> 00:38:05,616 {\an1}the more we learn how to react to each other. 983 00:38:05,700 --> 00:38:07,160 {\an1}We ain’t gonna learn that in eight weeks. 984 00:38:07,243 --> 00:38:08,163 {\an1}It just takes time. 985 00:38:08,286 --> 00:38:10,656 {\an1}Like, you know, like sometimes marriages 986 00:38:10,747 --> 00:38:12,417 {\an1}are rough in the beginning, especially ours 987 00:38:12,499 --> 00:38:14,499 {\an1}’cause everything’s been expedited, you know. 988 00:38:14,626 --> 00:38:16,206 {\an1}This is eight weeks. 989 00:38:16,336 --> 00:38:18,086 {\an1}Like, I can’t say I’ve given my all-- 990 00:38:18,171 --> 00:38:20,011 {\an1}you know what I’m saying?-- in eight weeks. 991 00:38:20,089 --> 00:38:21,379 {\an1}♪ ♪ 992 00:38:21,508 --> 00:38:24,008 {\an1}I’m processing a lot of stuff. 993 00:38:24,135 --> 00:38:26,425 {\an1}I need more time, you know what I’m saying? 994 00:38:26,513 --> 00:38:28,853 {\an1}- I feel like I’m giving my all, genuinely. 995 00:38:28,973 --> 00:38:30,183 {\an1}- No, that’s not what I said. 996 00:38:30,266 --> 00:38:33,186 {\an1}Certain things aren’t just gonna happen in eight weeks. 997 00:38:33,269 --> 00:38:35,649 {\an1}It’ll happen when the time is right. 998 00:38:35,730 --> 00:38:37,230 {\an1}- Like, why do you take that much time? 999 00:38:37,357 --> 00:38:39,187 {\an1}Like, I am a confident woman, 1000 00:38:39,317 --> 00:38:41,187 {\an1}and I know what I want when I want it. 1001 00:38:41,319 --> 00:38:42,859 {\an1}For me, it’s just, like, I don’t have 1002 00:38:42,987 --> 00:38:44,447 {\an1}to go through some things to realize, like, 1003 00:38:44,531 --> 00:38:46,071 {\an1}"Oh, I see how that may have made me feel." 1004 00:38:46,199 --> 00:38:47,779 {\an1}I’m not that type of learner. 1005 00:38:47,867 --> 00:38:49,697 {\an1}I just need to know your characteristics. 1006 00:38:49,786 --> 00:38:51,536 {\an1}I just need to know how you’ll react, 1007 00:38:51,621 --> 00:38:52,711 {\an1}’cause if I understand you, 1008 00:38:52,789 --> 00:38:57,039 {\an1}I can apply this same concept to everything else. 1009 00:38:57,126 --> 00:38:59,666 {\an1}So I think it’s just the overall perspective 1010 00:38:59,754 --> 00:39:03,134 {\an1}of, like, when is enough enough? 1011 00:39:03,216 --> 00:39:04,716 {\an1}♪ ♪ 1012 00:39:04,801 --> 00:39:06,511 {\an1}- Can I be honest? 1013 00:39:06,594 --> 00:39:08,434 {\an1}- You can always be honest, honey. 1014 00:39:08,555 --> 00:39:10,685 {\an1}- You remember that thing where I told you 1015 00:39:10,765 --> 00:39:13,135 {\an1}I’m worried about you quitting? - Yeah. 1016 00:39:13,226 --> 00:39:15,226 {\an1}- I feel like that’s what that’s gonna be. 1017 00:39:15,311 --> 00:39:21,071 {\an1}♪ ♪ 1018 00:39:24,571 --> 00:39:28,571 {\an1}♪ ♪ 1019 00:39:28,700 --> 00:39:30,530 {\an1}- Damn, it’s all set up. 1020 00:39:30,618 --> 00:39:31,738 {\an1}Archery comes to us. 1021 00:39:31,828 --> 00:39:36,038 {\an1}- Archery, so cool. - Yeah, you’re gonna love this. 1022 00:39:36,124 --> 00:39:38,294 {\an1}- It’s time for a little date with my husband 1023 00:39:38,418 --> 00:39:40,248 {\an1}to do some archery because I’m very competitive 1024 00:39:40,378 --> 00:39:41,458 {\an1}and I like to win. 1025 00:39:41,588 --> 00:39:44,128 {\an1}But I do want to spend some quality one-on-one time 1026 00:39:44,257 --> 00:39:45,757 {\an1}as well. 1027 00:39:45,884 --> 00:39:47,644 {\an1}- You’re gonna put it right there ’cause you’re gonna 1028 00:39:47,760 --> 00:39:50,430 {\an1}kiss that arm. - Ooh. 1029 00:39:50,555 --> 00:39:53,145 {\an1}- So what I’m gonna do is I’m gonna have each one of you 1030 00:39:53,266 --> 00:39:54,846 {\an1}shoot an arrow really quick. 1031 00:39:54,934 --> 00:39:56,234 {\an1}You’re gonna pull all the way back 1032 00:39:56,311 --> 00:39:57,021 {\an1}till your hand hits your face. 1033 00:39:57,103 --> 00:39:58,693 {\an1}- [gasps] - You can do it. 1034 00:39:58,771 --> 00:39:59,691 {\an1}- Oh, my God, this feels [bleep]. 1035 00:39:59,772 --> 00:40:02,232 {\an1}- You can do it. Go. Yay. 1036 00:40:02,317 --> 00:40:04,897 {\an1}- Oh! Nice. - All the way back. 1037 00:40:04,986 --> 00:40:07,566 {\an1}- Yeah. - Wow. 1038 00:40:07,655 --> 00:40:09,405 {\an1}- That felt good. - [laughs] 1039 00:40:09,490 --> 00:40:11,280 {\an1}It’s like a stress reliever. 1040 00:40:11,367 --> 00:40:12,737 {\an1}- I really like it. 1041 00:40:12,827 --> 00:40:14,407 {\an1}Krys and I are in a good spot, 1042 00:40:14,495 --> 00:40:16,325 {\an1}and we’re just enjoying each other’s company. 1043 00:40:16,456 --> 00:40:20,126 {\an1}I just like seeing her have fun and succeed at things 1044 00:40:20,251 --> 00:40:21,921 {\an1}’cause I think it makes her happy. 1045 00:40:22,003 --> 00:40:24,213 {\an1}But it was a little confusing me, because last night 1046 00:40:24,297 --> 00:40:27,507 {\an1}she voted for herself as the most likely to get divorced. 1047 00:40:27,634 --> 00:40:29,304 {\an1}So there’s a little bit of a back-and-forth for me 1048 00:40:29,427 --> 00:40:30,587 {\an1}in my mind. 1049 00:40:30,678 --> 00:40:32,178 {\an1}Maybe I’ll ask her. Maybe I won’t. 1050 00:40:32,305 --> 00:40:35,435 {\an1}[chuckles] Maybe I won’t. 1051 00:40:35,516 --> 00:40:37,136 {\an1}- We’re gonna have you guys write some words 1052 00:40:37,268 --> 00:40:38,598 {\an1}on these pieces of paper 1053 00:40:38,686 --> 00:40:40,556 {\an1}so that you guys get to shoot at them. 1054 00:40:40,647 --> 00:40:44,107 {\an1}- I think that we should write things on here 1055 00:40:44,192 --> 00:40:46,282 {\an1}that at this point in time we want 1056 00:40:46,361 --> 00:40:50,951 {\an1}to let go and stop resurfacing and bringing up 1057 00:40:51,032 --> 00:40:54,202 {\an1}because I do feel like we’ve kind of beat them to death 1058 00:40:54,327 --> 00:40:57,287 {\an1}and that we’ve moved on from them. 1059 00:40:57,372 --> 00:40:58,582 {\an1}- What do you have in mind? 1060 00:40:58,665 --> 00:41:03,095 {\an1}- Well, I’m gonna write everyone’s favorite buzzword 1061 00:41:03,169 --> 00:41:04,799 {\an1}with Krysten and Mitch. 1062 00:41:04,879 --> 00:41:07,969 {\an1}And by favorite, I mean least favorite. 1063 00:41:08,049 --> 00:41:13,219 {\an1}♪ ♪ 1064 00:41:13,346 --> 00:41:14,426 {\an1}- Strong. 1065 00:41:14,514 --> 00:41:16,474 {\an1}- Attraction. 1066 00:41:16,557 --> 00:41:20,807 {\an1}I think I have received clarity 1067 00:41:20,895 --> 00:41:24,355 {\an1}on how you feel about attraction towards me, 1068 00:41:24,440 --> 00:41:27,400 {\an1}and it’s because you have finally vocalized it. 1069 00:41:27,527 --> 00:41:30,357 {\an1}And I think that we can kill this word. 1070 00:41:30,446 --> 00:41:31,526 {\an1}[chuckles] 1071 00:41:31,614 --> 00:41:35,244 {\an1}- Wherever you want it. - Right in the middle. 1072 00:41:35,368 --> 00:41:37,038 {\an1}- Nice. 1073 00:41:37,120 --> 00:41:39,000 {\an1}What should I write? I don’t know what to write. 1074 00:41:39,080 --> 00:41:40,750 {\an1}- I would just write something on there 1075 00:41:40,873 --> 00:41:42,543 {\an1}that you want to bull’s-eye. 1076 00:41:42,625 --> 00:41:44,495 {\an1}- I’m gonna shoot Pool Gate, then. 1077 00:41:44,585 --> 00:41:47,875 {\an1}♪ ♪ 1078 00:41:47,964 --> 00:41:50,974 {\an1}- Mitch felt blindsided by me at the pool party. 1079 00:41:51,050 --> 00:41:54,300 {\an1}We had a tough conversation. It was very public. 1080 00:41:54,387 --> 00:41:57,307 {\an1}I’m actually happy we’re quickly to the point 1081 00:41:57,390 --> 00:41:59,850 {\an1}where we can talk about it and throw arrows at it. 1082 00:41:59,934 --> 00:42:01,234 {\an1}- I think it was avoidable, 1083 00:42:01,310 --> 00:42:03,020 {\an1}and I think we can definitely do better. 1084 00:42:03,104 --> 00:42:05,064 {\an1}So I want to kill Pool Gate. 1085 00:42:05,189 --> 00:42:06,729 {\an1}- Hold on, I want to respond. - Sorry. 1086 00:42:06,858 --> 00:42:09,938 {\an1}- I have a different feeling about Pool Gate than you. 1087 00:42:10,069 --> 00:42:11,239 {\an1}I want to shoot an arrow through it, 1088 00:42:11,320 --> 00:42:14,740 {\an1}but I think my reasoning is just that although we could 1089 00:42:14,824 --> 00:42:18,204 {\an1}have gone--I could have gone about it way better, 1090 00:42:18,286 --> 00:42:21,246 {\an1}I finally got to hear some affirmations from you. 1091 00:42:21,372 --> 00:42:24,292 {\an1}And maybe they would have come without Pool Gate, 1092 00:42:24,417 --> 00:42:25,417 {\an1}but how do I know that? 1093 00:42:25,501 --> 00:42:28,091 {\an1}All I know is that Pool Gate led to me and you 1094 00:42:28,171 --> 00:42:29,461 {\an1}having an incredible weekend. 1095 00:42:29,589 --> 00:42:30,759 {\an1}But I agree, let’s shoot the arrow! 1096 00:42:30,882 --> 00:42:32,722 {\an1}- Should we not kill it? - No, no. 1097 00:42:32,800 --> 00:42:34,050 {\an1}I want to shoot arrows through it. 1098 00:42:34,135 --> 00:42:35,225 {\an1}I just want to say 1099 00:42:35,303 --> 00:42:37,933 {\an1}that I had a different outlook on it than you. 1100 00:42:38,014 --> 00:42:39,604 {\an1}♪ ♪ 1101 00:42:39,682 --> 00:42:41,432 {\an1}- All right. 1102 00:42:41,517 --> 00:42:44,097 {\an1}♪ ♪ 1103 00:42:44,187 --> 00:42:45,727 {\an1}- Oh, damn. - Yeah. 1104 00:42:45,813 --> 00:42:46,733 {\an1}♪ ♪ 1105 00:42:46,814 --> 00:42:48,074 {\an1}- Beautiful. - Wow. 1106 00:42:48,149 --> 00:42:49,729 {\an1}- All right, mean business. 1107 00:42:49,817 --> 00:42:52,107 {\an1}♪ ♪ 1108 00:42:52,195 --> 00:42:53,575 {\an1}Yeah. - Damn, girl. 1109 00:42:53,654 --> 00:42:56,244 {\an1}- The queen has arrived. - Queen. 1110 00:42:56,324 --> 00:42:59,414 {\an1}[bleep]! - Hey, Krys, shoot to kill. 1111 00:42:59,494 --> 00:43:01,754 {\an1}I want to kill this once and for all. 1112 00:43:01,829 --> 00:43:03,619 {\an1}♪ ♪ 1113 00:43:03,748 --> 00:43:05,998 {\an1}- Whoa! That’s your best one, I feel. 1114 00:43:06,125 --> 00:43:08,745 {\an1}I must say, for me, anyway, 1115 00:43:08,836 --> 00:43:13,086 {\an1}my game is, like, so strong when we put the word up there. 1116 00:43:13,174 --> 00:43:14,934 {\an1}I forgive you. - [chuckles] 1117 00:43:15,009 --> 00:43:17,929 {\an1}I hope so. Thank you. [laughs] 1118 00:43:18,012 --> 00:43:19,562 {\an1}- I don’t know if I’ve ever said--maybe I have. 1119 00:43:19,639 --> 00:43:21,769 {\an1}I think I have, actually. - I don’t know if you have. 1120 00:43:21,849 --> 00:43:24,099 {\an1}Mm, that felt good. 1121 00:43:24,185 --> 00:43:30,985 {\an1}♪ ♪ 1122 00:43:35,238 --> 00:43:38,238 {\an1}- Oh, my gosh, how cute. - Yeah. 1123 00:43:38,324 --> 00:43:40,334 {\an1}I’m excited to get on the carriage more for her. 1124 00:43:40,451 --> 00:43:41,451 {\an1}Like, I want her to have fun. 1125 00:43:41,536 --> 00:43:43,366 {\an1}It’s something she’s looking forward to. 1126 00:43:43,496 --> 00:43:44,996 {\an1}- Hello. - Hi. 1127 00:43:45,123 --> 00:43:46,793 {\an1}- Welcome to wine country. 1128 00:43:46,874 --> 00:43:48,884 {\an1}- Last night Lindy and I were able to talk to each other 1129 00:43:49,001 --> 00:43:51,461 {\an1}and kind of align on our communication, 1130 00:43:51,546 --> 00:43:54,796 {\an1}how to read each other better, be less accusatory, 1131 00:43:54,882 --> 00:43:57,472 {\an1}just more understanding, more patient, and I’m feeling good. 1132 00:43:57,552 --> 00:44:03,022 {\an1}♪ ♪ 1133 00:44:03,099 --> 00:44:05,849 {\an1}- Whee! [giggles] 1134 00:44:05,935 --> 00:44:07,525 {\an1}Yeah, I’ve never been on a carriage before. 1135 00:44:07,645 --> 00:44:09,435 {\an1}- Mm. - It’s my first time. 1136 00:44:09,522 --> 00:44:11,522 {\an1}- What do you think? - I like it. 1137 00:44:11,649 --> 00:44:14,229 {\an1}This counts as a first official memory for us. 1138 00:44:14,360 --> 00:44:16,400 {\an1}- Right. - Memory for the books. 1139 00:44:16,529 --> 00:44:17,659 {\an1}- Yeah. 1140 00:44:17,738 --> 00:44:19,318 {\an1}♪ ♪ 1141 00:44:19,407 --> 00:44:21,407 {\an1}- So I have one poem that I wrote a little while ago. 1142 00:44:21,534 --> 00:44:23,664 {\an1}Um... 1143 00:44:23,744 --> 00:44:25,704 {\an1}♪ It was a sunny day, driving the bird down the bay ♪ 1144 00:44:25,830 --> 00:44:26,790 {\an1}♪ I looked across the way ♪ 1145 00:44:26,873 --> 00:44:28,793 {\an1}♪ Saw your hair fluttering in the air ♪ 1146 00:44:28,875 --> 00:44:29,715 {\an1}♪ It was then and there I knew ♪ 1147 00:44:29,834 --> 00:44:30,964 {\an1}♪ What was about to bear witness ♪ 1148 00:44:31,043 --> 00:44:32,923 {\an1}♪ Good thing I was tethered to my chair ♪ 1149 00:44:33,045 --> 00:44:34,705 {\an1}♪ ’Cause that was the moment I became aware ♪ 1150 00:44:34,797 --> 00:44:37,297 {\an1}♪ Of being ensnared by our chemistry beyond compare ♪ 1151 00:44:37,383 --> 00:44:38,803 {\an1}- Did you see that little bunny? 1152 00:44:38,885 --> 00:44:40,845 {\an1}- Yeah, I did. Yeah. - So cute. 1153 00:44:40,928 --> 00:44:43,678 {\an1}- It’s better what? - With a beat. 1154 00:44:43,764 --> 00:44:45,474 {\an1}It’s, like, ’cause I want to put it eventually to a beat. 1155 00:44:45,558 --> 00:44:47,598 {\an1}- Oh, look at that dog. 1156 00:44:49,145 --> 00:44:50,355 {\an1}Yeah, thanks for sharing. 1157 00:44:50,438 --> 00:44:51,728 {\an1}I love when you share your poetry. 1158 00:44:51,814 --> 00:44:53,324 {\an1}- This is one actually that’s about me. 1159 00:44:53,399 --> 00:44:55,399 {\an1}- Oh, these horses are so pretty. 1160 00:44:55,526 --> 00:44:57,316 {\an1}What’s your favorite-looking horse? 1161 00:44:57,403 --> 00:44:59,283 {\an1}Oh, wait, you’re gonna share the other one with me? 1162 00:44:59,405 --> 00:45:01,195 {\an1}- Yeah, I’ll do a quick. - Okay. 1163 00:45:01,282 --> 00:45:03,372 {\an1}- ♪ Feeling pinned down by the weight of the sun ♪ 1164 00:45:03,451 --> 00:45:05,241 {\an1}♪ Since day one to get the girl ♪ 1165 00:45:05,369 --> 00:45:07,039 {\an1}♪ Thinking about like lessons as best ♪ 1166 00:45:07,121 --> 00:45:09,371 {\an1}♪ To discuss the banes and blessings appeared Icarus ♪ 1167 00:45:09,457 --> 00:45:10,827 {\an1}- Oh, yes, I know this one ’cause 1168 00:45:10,917 --> 00:45:12,417 {\an1}I asked you who "Nicarus" was. - Icarus. 1169 00:45:12,501 --> 00:45:13,711 {\an1}- Icarus. [chuckles] - Yeah. 1170 00:45:13,794 --> 00:45:17,094 {\an1}It’s interesting, right? ’Cause it’s a tale to be like-- 1171 00:45:17,173 --> 00:45:18,973 {\an1}that, like-- - [gasps] 1172 00:45:21,093 --> 00:45:23,853 {\an1}- [chuckles curtly] - Thanks for sharing. 1173 00:45:23,930 --> 00:45:25,560 {\an1}- You’re welcome. 1174 00:45:25,640 --> 00:45:27,100 {\an1}It does bother me to be interrupted. 1175 00:45:27,183 --> 00:45:29,233 {\an1}It does bother me for someone to talk over me. 1176 00:45:29,310 --> 00:45:31,060 {\an1}I’d be able to roll with it better 1177 00:45:31,145 --> 00:45:32,595 {\an1}when I’m not so irritable, 1178 00:45:32,688 --> 00:45:34,768 {\an1}but her interrupting me is draining. 1179 00:45:34,899 --> 00:45:36,779 {\an1}And this is me literally running on fumes. 1180 00:45:36,901 --> 00:45:39,861 {\an1}But I’m like [bleep] just like existing right now. 1181 00:45:39,946 --> 00:45:41,986 {\an1}- How cute. This is so pretty. 1182 00:45:42,114 --> 00:45:43,744 {\an1}- I’m, like, putting everything I have 1183 00:45:43,824 --> 00:45:45,744 {\an1}just to be present and exist. 1184 00:45:45,826 --> 00:45:47,576 {\an1}And I don’t know if I’m gonna get to a point 1185 00:45:47,662 --> 00:45:50,332 {\an1}where I’m just like, "Okay, I can’t with this anymore." 1186 00:45:50,456 --> 00:45:51,916 {\an1}- We’re basically in Italy. 1187 00:45:51,999 --> 00:45:54,749 {\an1}Those horses transported us through time. 1188 00:45:54,835 --> 00:45:56,875 {\an1}- Time horses-- that’d be dope. 1189 00:45:56,963 --> 00:45:59,013 {\an1}- Is this, like, "Dungeons & Dragons" stuff? 1190 00:45:59,131 --> 00:46:00,381 {\an1}- Could be, yeah. 1191 00:46:00,466 --> 00:46:02,546 {\an1}It could just be, like, a magical horse 1192 00:46:02,635 --> 00:46:04,475 {\an1}that whenever it actually, like, gallops-- 1193 00:46:04,595 --> 00:46:07,135 {\an1}Let’s say the horses, whenever they reach a certain cadence 1194 00:46:07,265 --> 00:46:09,275 {\an1}in their step, the spell is triggered. 1195 00:46:09,350 --> 00:46:10,810 {\an1}And then it would cast, like-- 1196 00:46:10,893 --> 00:46:12,773 {\an1}- Oh, my God, these people have their iPhones out. 1197 00:46:12,853 --> 00:46:15,943 {\an1}[laughing] I can’t. 1198 00:46:16,023 --> 00:46:18,653 {\an1}- [sighs] 1199 00:46:20,486 --> 00:46:22,026 {\an1}- How you doing? 1200 00:46:22,154 --> 00:46:23,784 {\an1}- I honestly just don’t want to say anything 1201 00:46:23,864 --> 00:46:25,244 {\an1}’cause you’re gonna get distracted 1202 00:46:25,324 --> 00:46:26,784 {\an1}by someone taking a picture or some [bleep] 1203 00:46:26,867 --> 00:46:28,447 {\an1}and cut me off again. 1204 00:46:28,536 --> 00:46:30,616 {\an1}- I just got a little distracted--I’m sorry. 1205 00:46:30,705 --> 00:46:33,125 {\an1}I tried to bring it right back. 1206 00:46:33,207 --> 00:46:34,787 {\an1}- Like, I don’t want to talk to you 1207 00:46:34,875 --> 00:46:36,415 {\an1}and feel like, at a moment’s notice, 1208 00:46:36,502 --> 00:46:39,552 {\an1}your attention is just gonna disappear, dissipate... 1209 00:46:39,672 --> 00:46:41,342 {\an1}especially about something that I care about. 1210 00:46:41,465 --> 00:46:42,715 {\an1}- I’m really sorry. 1211 00:46:42,842 --> 00:46:44,512 {\an1}I’m definitely like a bird brain. 1212 00:46:44,593 --> 00:46:45,803 {\an1}I’m like, "Oh, who’s over there? 1213 00:46:45,886 --> 00:46:47,216 {\an1}What’s going on? What’s that?" 1214 00:46:47,346 --> 00:46:49,256 {\an1}So I’m asking for some grace and understanding 1215 00:46:49,348 --> 00:46:51,348 {\an1}in this moment. - I’m giving it to you. 1216 00:46:51,475 --> 00:46:52,475 {\an1}But then don’t expect me 1217 00:46:52,560 --> 00:46:55,190 {\an1}to have, like, heartfelt conversations, right? 1218 00:46:55,271 --> 00:46:56,811 {\an1}Something’s gonna happen, and you’re gonna be, "Oh, my"-- 1219 00:46:56,897 --> 00:46:58,477 {\an1}And it’s just like-- 1220 00:46:58,566 --> 00:47:00,686 {\an1}- It’s hard because it’s kind of part of my personality. 1221 00:47:00,818 --> 00:47:01,778 {\an1}- To cut people off 1222 00:47:01,861 --> 00:47:03,531 {\an1}and to, like, divert your attention elsewhere? 1223 00:47:03,654 --> 00:47:05,074 {\an1}- I guess so, yeah. 1224 00:47:05,197 --> 00:47:07,027 {\an1}- Within the span of ten minutes, 1225 00:47:07,116 --> 00:47:08,656 {\an1}it was just, like, one after the other. 1226 00:47:08,743 --> 00:47:10,333 {\an1}I’m like, "Good God. Okay." 1227 00:47:10,411 --> 00:47:12,831 {\an1}♪ ♪ 1228 00:47:12,913 --> 00:47:14,543 {\an1}- So I can’t, like, comment on things 1229 00:47:14,623 --> 00:47:15,623 {\an1}that are happening around us? 1230 00:47:15,708 --> 00:47:16,708 {\an1}Like, that’s just a no-no? 1231 00:47:16,834 --> 00:47:18,464 {\an1}Like, I see a bunny rabbit, and I’m like, 1232 00:47:18,544 --> 00:47:20,004 {\an1}"Oh, my God, how cute." Is that-- 1233 00:47:20,087 --> 00:47:21,837 {\an1}- If I’m in the middle of a conversation 1234 00:47:21,922 --> 00:47:23,722 {\an1}and you cut me off to comment on a bunny, I don’t know. 1235 00:47:23,841 --> 00:47:25,341 {\an1}It’s a little out of place. - Really? 1236 00:47:25,426 --> 00:47:27,966 {\an1}That’s serious because I’m taking in so much. 1237 00:47:28,054 --> 00:47:29,184 {\an1}- But that’s the thing. 1238 00:47:29,263 --> 00:47:30,313 {\an1}If you’re taking in so much, 1239 00:47:30,389 --> 00:47:31,719 {\an1}then you’re not listening to me. 1240 00:47:31,849 --> 00:47:33,229 {\an1}You’re not hearing what I have to say. 1241 00:47:33,309 --> 00:47:34,849 {\an1}- So I’m just supposed to have, like, 1242 00:47:34,935 --> 00:47:36,595 {\an1}blinders on to everything happening around me? 1243 00:47:36,729 --> 00:47:38,359 {\an1}I can’t comment on, like, how beautiful something is 1244 00:47:38,439 --> 00:47:39,519 {\an1}or that it’s hot out? 1245 00:47:39,607 --> 00:47:41,017 {\an1}Like, I don’t know where this goes and where it ends. 1246 00:47:41,108 --> 00:47:43,188 {\an1}- I don’t know, to be honest, ’cause I don’t want to feel 1247 00:47:43,277 --> 00:47:45,027 {\an1}like I’m ever competing for your attention. 1248 00:47:45,112 --> 00:47:47,452 {\an1}Either I have it or I don’t, and that’s kind of on you. 1249 00:47:47,573 --> 00:47:49,703 {\an1}- Yeah, but I’ve also never had someone who, 1250 00:47:49,784 --> 00:47:51,414 {\an1}like, is so offended by it. 1251 00:47:51,494 --> 00:47:53,004 {\an1}So this is new to me. 1252 00:47:53,079 --> 00:47:55,409 {\an1}- But you also never had a husband that stuck around. 1253 00:47:57,083 --> 00:47:59,003 {\an1}- Have you had a wife that stuck around? 1254 00:47:59,085 --> 00:48:00,255 {\an1}I mean, we’re new to this. 1255 00:48:00,336 --> 00:48:01,416 {\an1}- No, but I’m not the one saying 1256 00:48:01,504 --> 00:48:03,514 {\an1}that someone has never called me out on something. 1257 00:48:03,589 --> 00:48:04,969 {\an1}- I’m still learning you, Miguel. 1258 00:48:05,091 --> 00:48:06,131 {\an1}I don’t know your triggers. 1259 00:48:06,258 --> 00:48:09,048 {\an1}I don’t know what I need to do to support you. 1260 00:48:09,136 --> 00:48:10,966 {\an1}And this is the learning process. 1261 00:48:11,097 --> 00:48:12,347 {\an1}And I don’t think you’re gonna know 1262 00:48:12,431 --> 00:48:13,931 {\an1}how to exactly tell me right now, 1263 00:48:14,058 --> 00:48:15,018 {\an1}"This is what I need from you." 1264 00:48:15,101 --> 00:48:16,061 {\an1}It’s evolving. 1265 00:48:16,143 --> 00:48:18,153 {\an1}- I think I can, and I think I have. 1266 00:48:18,270 --> 00:48:19,190 {\an1}- [sighs] 1267 00:48:19,271 --> 00:48:21,861 {\an1}- I think this weekend, I had a busy week. 1268 00:48:21,941 --> 00:48:23,401 {\an1}So I kind of came into this weekend 1269 00:48:23,484 --> 00:48:24,824 {\an1}already very low energy. 1270 00:48:24,944 --> 00:48:26,704 {\an1}I think, normally, I’d be able to tell you 1271 00:48:26,779 --> 00:48:28,239 {\an1}when these things are happening. 1272 00:48:28,322 --> 00:48:29,242 {\an1}Well, I don’t know, 1273 00:48:29,323 --> 00:48:31,073 {\an1}’cause I did call your attention to it. 1274 00:48:31,158 --> 00:48:32,658 {\an1}I just got-- I don’t know. 1275 00:48:32,785 --> 00:48:35,415 {\an1}I got tired of calling your attention to it. 1276 00:48:35,496 --> 00:48:37,406 {\an1}I mean, that’s the problem. 1277 00:48:40,793 --> 00:48:42,463 {\an1}- I’m learning. - I know you are. 1278 00:48:42,545 --> 00:48:46,095 {\an1}- I am, and I’m trying, and it’s a lot. 1279 00:48:46,173 --> 00:48:48,093 {\an1}♪ ♪ 1280 00:48:48,175 --> 00:48:49,675 {\an1}Can I just, like-- 1281 00:48:49,802 --> 00:48:56,682 {\an1}♪ ♪ 1282 00:48:56,809 --> 00:49:00,099 {\an1}[crying] 1283 00:49:00,187 --> 00:49:01,857 {\an1}♪ ♪ 1284 00:49:05,609 --> 00:49:06,819 {\an1}[crying] 1285 00:49:06,902 --> 00:49:09,862 {\an1}I’m sick of feeling like I’m not enough for this man. 1286 00:49:09,989 --> 00:49:11,699 {\an1}♪ ♪ 1287 00:49:11,824 --> 00:49:13,784 {\an1}I’m learning every second about what he needs 1288 00:49:13,868 --> 00:49:16,868 {\an1}and what he wants, and I’m [bleep] bowing down. 1289 00:49:16,996 --> 00:49:19,076 {\an1}- I’m sorry I pushed you to that. 1290 00:49:19,165 --> 00:49:21,385 {\an1}Let’s just sit down and talk, please. 1291 00:49:21,500 --> 00:49:23,460 {\an1}- It’s hard for me to say at what point 1292 00:49:23,544 --> 00:49:25,344 {\an1}do I put my foot down and be like, 1293 00:49:25,421 --> 00:49:27,711 {\an1}"You either love me and accept me, or you don’t." 1294 00:49:27,840 --> 00:49:29,840 {\an1}♪ ♪ 1295 00:49:34,972 --> 00:49:36,722 {\an1}Are we gonna talk about anything? 1296 00:49:36,849 --> 00:49:38,559 {\an1}Are you gonna say anything? 1297 00:49:38,684 --> 00:49:40,564 {\an1}- I’m sorry to basically make you cry. 1298 00:49:40,686 --> 00:49:43,726 {\an1}I’m sorry to have put you to that point. 1299 00:49:43,856 --> 00:49:46,526 {\an1}- I’ve cried. I feel like [bleep]. 1300 00:49:46,650 --> 00:49:48,570 {\an1}I don’t know what else to do at this point 1301 00:49:48,694 --> 00:49:51,244 {\an1}besides just, like, continue to try to do better, 1302 00:49:51,363 --> 00:49:53,533 {\an1}as I’ve been consistently trying to do. 1303 00:49:53,657 --> 00:49:56,577 {\an1}So where do we go from here, then? 1304 00:49:56,702 --> 00:49:58,372 {\an1}I don’t really know. 1305 00:49:58,454 --> 00:50:01,834 {\an1}- I know I have to be more patient and less sensitive 1306 00:50:01,916 --> 00:50:03,746 {\an1}and call you out in a healthier way 1307 00:50:03,876 --> 00:50:05,786 {\an1}that you don’t feel so attacked. 1308 00:50:05,878 --> 00:50:07,588 {\an1}- I just feel, like, nitpicked. 1309 00:50:07,713 --> 00:50:10,053 {\an1}It’s tough because I’m trying. 1310 00:50:10,132 --> 00:50:12,722 {\an1}I go back to being like, "Well, is it me, 1311 00:50:12,843 --> 00:50:14,433 {\an1}or, like, is this a Miguel thing?" 1312 00:50:14,553 --> 00:50:16,053 {\an1}Like, I don’t know. 1313 00:50:16,180 --> 00:50:17,600 {\an1}- Even before we’ve had these blowouts-- 1314 00:50:17,723 --> 00:50:19,223 {\an1}- Like, what is the time-- "Blowouts"? 1315 00:50:19,308 --> 00:50:21,098 {\an1}- Or blowups or whatever. - What blowups? 1316 00:50:21,227 --> 00:50:22,977 {\an1}- This I would call a blowup. 1317 00:50:23,062 --> 00:50:24,902 {\an1}- This is a blowup? - Well, this is bad. 1318 00:50:24,980 --> 00:50:26,940 {\an1}I’m making you cry. That’s not good. 1319 00:50:27,066 --> 00:50:28,436 {\an1}That’s not, like, a positive outcome. 1320 00:50:28,567 --> 00:50:30,607 {\an1}- But a blowup? - This is major to me. 1321 00:50:30,736 --> 00:50:32,236 {\an1}- Wait, so this is my fault? 1322 00:50:32,321 --> 00:50:34,161 {\an1}- No, this is, like, our fault. 1323 00:50:34,240 --> 00:50:35,450 {\an1}We got here together. 1324 00:50:35,574 --> 00:50:38,084 {\an1}- But to me, a blowup is just being like overemotional, 1325 00:50:38,160 --> 00:50:39,160 {\an1}reactive, crazy. 1326 00:50:39,245 --> 00:50:40,255 {\an1}That’s a blowup. 1327 00:50:40,329 --> 00:50:43,039 {\an1}This is a very dialogued, mature conversation. 1328 00:50:43,123 --> 00:50:44,623 {\an1}- Yeah, yeah. - This is not a blowup. 1329 00:50:44,750 --> 00:50:45,500 {\an1}- Okay. 1330 00:50:45,584 --> 00:50:47,794 {\an1}- You don’t want to see a blowup. 1331 00:50:47,920 --> 00:50:51,090 {\an1}I am filtering so much for this man. 1332 00:50:51,173 --> 00:50:54,473 {\an1}So the fact that he’s saying this as an outburst, [bleep]. 1333 00:50:54,593 --> 00:50:57,103 {\an1}He cannot handle my outburst. He can’t. 1334 00:50:57,221 --> 00:50:59,471 {\an1}And that’s the day-one issue for me-- 1335 00:50:59,598 --> 00:51:01,808 {\an1}is, can I truly be myself and express myself, 1336 00:51:01,934 --> 00:51:03,394 {\an1}and will he still be there? 1337 00:51:03,477 --> 00:51:06,267 {\an1}And I honestly don’t think so. I really don’t. 1338 00:51:06,397 --> 00:51:09,317 {\an1}- ♪ I’ve never been lower than this ♪ 1339 00:51:09,441 --> 00:51:11,321 {\an1}♪ Love is a bottomless pit ♪ 1340 00:51:11,443 --> 00:51:13,323 {\an1}♪ Oh ♪ 1341 00:51:13,445 --> 00:51:15,445 {\an1}♪ ♪ 1342 00:51:15,531 --> 00:51:16,741 {\an1}- Where is Miguel? 1343 00:51:16,824 --> 00:51:19,284 {\an1}- They starting to stress me out now. 1344 00:51:19,368 --> 00:51:20,788 {\an1}- Let’s start with what we know. 1345 00:51:20,869 --> 00:51:21,999 {\an1}- Right. 1346 00:51:22,121 --> 00:51:24,121 {\an1}- Miguel and Lindy went to go on a horse carriage ride. 1347 00:51:24,248 --> 00:51:25,998 {\an1}- And they got stuck in the mud or something? 1348 00:51:26,125 --> 00:51:27,505 {\an1}- I don’t know, man. 1349 00:51:27,626 --> 00:51:29,166 {\an1}- I hope they’re okay. - I do, too. 1350 00:51:29,295 --> 00:51:30,675 {\an1}I mean, I just hope they don’t miss dinner. 1351 00:51:30,796 --> 00:51:32,666 {\an1}- If they miss dinner, something wrong. 1352 00:51:32,798 --> 00:51:33,918 {\an1}[crunches] 1353 00:51:34,008 --> 00:51:35,128 {\an1}- They’re a little late. 1354 00:51:35,217 --> 00:51:37,927 {\an1}I’m not gonna question their entire marriage, though. 1355 00:51:38,012 --> 00:51:40,012 {\an1}[chuckles] 1356 00:51:40,139 --> 00:51:41,469 {\an1}- Where’s Lindy at? 1357 00:51:41,599 --> 00:51:44,059 {\an1}- Are they back from their date? 1358 00:51:44,143 --> 00:51:46,903 {\an1}I haven’t seen them, right? - Me either. 1359 00:51:46,979 --> 00:51:48,809 {\an1}- So Justin said that y’all did the do. 1360 00:51:48,939 --> 00:51:50,819 {\an1}How was that? - We did. 1361 00:51:50,941 --> 00:51:53,441 {\an1}- I hate that my instinct is to celebrate 1362 00:51:53,527 --> 00:51:54,737 {\an1}and say congratulations. 1363 00:51:54,820 --> 00:51:57,200 {\an1}I’m gonna pause and say, how does that make you feel? 1364 00:51:57,323 --> 00:51:58,703 {\an1}- I hate you. [laughter] 1365 00:51:58,824 --> 00:52:00,534 {\an1}It makes me feel like I hate you. 1366 00:52:00,659 --> 00:52:02,159 {\an1}But, yeah, we did. 1367 00:52:02,244 --> 00:52:03,544 {\an1}It was... 1368 00:52:03,662 --> 00:52:04,912 {\an1}it was... 1369 00:52:04,997 --> 00:52:06,827 {\an1}[pan sizzling] 1370 00:52:06,957 --> 00:52:08,997 {\an1}The first time is always kind of, like... 1371 00:52:09,126 --> 00:52:09,876 {\an1}- Awkward. - Awkward. 1372 00:52:10,002 --> 00:52:11,292 {\an1}You’re figuring each other out. 1373 00:52:11,378 --> 00:52:15,008 {\an1}My husband has been abstinent for a year and a half 1374 00:52:15,090 --> 00:52:16,880 {\an1}prior to getting married. 1375 00:52:17,009 --> 00:52:19,549 {\an1}So his stamina wasn’t where it needed to be at. 1376 00:52:19,678 --> 00:52:21,808 {\an1}I mean, he told me he was intimidated. 1377 00:52:21,889 --> 00:52:25,019 {\an1}I don’t want to be the dominant person 1378 00:52:25,100 --> 00:52:27,060 {\an1}in the bedroom at times... 1379 00:52:27,186 --> 00:52:30,556 {\an1}because I’m dominant a lot of the other times. 1380 00:52:30,689 --> 00:52:32,729 {\an1}And sometimes your girl just want to be treated. 1381 00:52:32,858 --> 00:52:34,688 {\an1}Sometimes I just-- 1382 00:52:34,818 --> 00:52:36,738 {\an1}You know, tell me how you want it. 1383 00:52:36,862 --> 00:52:38,532 {\an1}[grunting] 1384 00:52:38,656 --> 00:52:39,866 {\an1}I have a question for you, ladies. 1385 00:52:39,990 --> 00:52:41,240 {\an1}- Yes. 1386 00:52:41,367 --> 00:52:43,787 {\an1}- So, in the past, if you met your husband 1387 00:52:43,869 --> 00:52:46,539 {\an1}and it wasn’t good, but he was an amazing person, 1388 00:52:46,622 --> 00:52:47,712 {\an1}would you stay? 1389 00:52:47,790 --> 00:52:50,250 {\an1}- Yeah, sex isn’t, like, a determining factor for me. 1390 00:52:50,376 --> 00:52:51,586 {\an1}- Exactly. - I completely agree. 1391 00:52:51,710 --> 00:52:55,710 {\an1}It’s incredible if it’s, like, this crazy, crazy, like, 1392 00:52:55,839 --> 00:52:57,589 {\an1}animal, Discovery Channel. 1393 00:52:57,716 --> 00:52:59,426 {\an1}- I’ve been there before where it’s, like, ripping 1394 00:52:59,551 --> 00:53:00,841 {\an1}your clothes off, you know. 1395 00:53:00,928 --> 00:53:02,258 {\an1}But every time’s not gonna be like that, 1396 00:53:02,388 --> 00:53:03,218 {\an1}and that’s realistic. 1397 00:53:03,347 --> 00:53:05,097 {\an1}I’ve stayed in relationships in the past 1398 00:53:05,224 --> 00:53:06,024 {\an1}to where it wasn’t bomb, 1399 00:53:06,100 --> 00:53:08,770 {\an1}but I’m here for other reasons, so... 1400 00:53:08,894 --> 00:53:14,984 {\an1}♪ ♪ 1401 00:53:15,067 --> 00:53:17,147 {\an1}- Miguel and Lindy. - Vroom, vroom. 1402 00:53:17,236 --> 00:53:18,896 {\an1}How was horse carriages? 1403 00:53:19,029 --> 00:53:21,069 {\an1}- Miguel, you look like you just got done golfing. 1404 00:53:21,198 --> 00:53:23,118 {\an1}- Yeah, how was golf? - Yeah, it was fun. 1405 00:53:23,242 --> 00:53:25,332 {\an1}- I’m all in golfing. 1406 00:53:25,411 --> 00:53:27,251 {\an1}- Bro, we got a little worried. 1407 00:53:27,329 --> 00:53:28,789 {\an1}- You know, you’re a little late. 1408 00:53:28,914 --> 00:53:30,624 {\an1}So we decided to question the whole marriage. 1409 00:53:30,749 --> 00:53:32,249 {\an1}[laughter] Just kidding. 1410 00:53:32,376 --> 00:53:34,086 {\an1}- It’s a fair question nowadays. 1411 00:53:34,211 --> 00:53:35,751 {\an1}Every day is like, you never know 1412 00:53:35,838 --> 00:53:36,958 {\an1}what you’re gonna get type thing. 1413 00:53:37,089 --> 00:53:39,299 {\an1}- Triggering. Why they got to do you like that, dude. 1414 00:53:39,425 --> 00:53:40,975 {\an1}- Yeah, I know. It’s true. 1415 00:53:41,093 --> 00:53:42,473 {\an1}- Actually, Lindy and I kind of got into an argument. 1416 00:53:42,594 --> 00:53:44,104 {\an1}I think I’m just on the edge 1417 00:53:44,179 --> 00:53:45,599 {\an1}and kind of irritable and grumpy. 1418 00:53:45,681 --> 00:53:47,061 {\an1}- What’s gonna put you in a good mood, man? 1419 00:53:47,141 --> 00:53:48,811 {\an1}- Yeah, yeah, you can borrow my swing again 1420 00:53:48,934 --> 00:53:49,684 {\an1}if you want to use it. 1421 00:53:49,768 --> 00:53:51,438 {\an1}- Explain this swing to me, man. 1422 00:53:51,520 --> 00:53:52,770 {\an1}Is it meant for six, eight people? 1423 00:53:52,896 --> 00:53:53,806 {\an1}- Who? 1424 00:53:53,939 --> 00:53:55,649 {\an1}- Like, do you got to be a certain height? 1425 00:53:55,774 --> 00:53:57,284 {\an1}- I mean, if you want to get on the swing, 1426 00:53:57,401 --> 00:53:58,861 {\an1}you can get on the swing. 1427 00:53:58,944 --> 00:54:00,864 {\an1}But I feel like it’s more so made for the woman 1428 00:54:00,946 --> 00:54:02,486 {\an1}to get on the swing. - That’s what I’m saying. 1429 00:54:02,614 --> 00:54:03,994 {\an1}♪ ♪ 1430 00:54:04,116 --> 00:54:06,156 {\an1}- No, I’m not a toy type of girl. 1431 00:54:06,285 --> 00:54:07,835 {\an1}- No? - That’s why I got my husband. 1432 00:54:07,953 --> 00:54:09,373 {\an1}That’s why I never had a vibrator. 1433 00:54:09,455 --> 00:54:10,835 {\an1}If I had a man, what do I need that toy for? 1434 00:54:10,956 --> 00:54:11,866 {\an1}- ’Cause it just elevates. 1435 00:54:11,957 --> 00:54:13,497 {\an1}- I think it’s ’cause I am a pleaser. 1436 00:54:13,625 --> 00:54:15,995 {\an1}It’s, like, if you’re good, I’m good. 1437 00:54:16,128 --> 00:54:18,508 {\an1}- You won’t be great. 1438 00:54:18,630 --> 00:54:20,670 {\an1}- Yeah, I mean, as long as I’m a part of it, 1439 00:54:20,799 --> 00:54:22,629 {\an1}it will be a great experience. 1440 00:54:22,718 --> 00:54:24,678 {\an1}- Are you and Mitch still taking a break? 1441 00:54:24,803 --> 00:54:26,473 {\an1}- To be honest with you, it’s been a minute, 1442 00:54:26,597 --> 00:54:29,177 {\an1}because it’s been so tumultuous and so up and down. 1443 00:54:29,308 --> 00:54:30,848 {\an1}And I’m very conflicted. 1444 00:54:30,976 --> 00:54:33,136 {\an1}Maybe we’ll have a dialogue about it. 1445 00:54:33,270 --> 00:54:36,650 {\an1}If you’re feeling like me where you’re moving forward, 1446 00:54:36,774 --> 00:54:39,864 {\an1}but it’s rocky and uncertain, do you do it? 1447 00:54:39,985 --> 00:54:42,355 {\an1}’Cause I’ve never been, like, in this position-- 1448 00:54:42,488 --> 00:54:44,528 {\an1}up and down and unsure, and I’ve never 1449 00:54:44,656 --> 00:54:46,696 {\an1}had so many crazy arguments. 1450 00:54:46,825 --> 00:54:49,325 {\an1}I mean, I’m leaning towards if I’m not feeling 1451 00:54:49,411 --> 00:54:51,541 {\an1}consistency and secure, 1452 00:54:51,663 --> 00:54:52,543 {\an1}I don’t know how I can take 1453 00:54:52,664 --> 00:54:54,754 {\an1}that ultimate intimate leap of faith. 1454 00:54:54,833 --> 00:54:56,083 {\an1}You know what I mean? 1455 00:54:56,168 --> 00:54:58,208 {\an1}So your girl is just hanging. 1456 00:54:59,755 --> 00:55:01,015 {\an1}- Great dialogue. 1457 00:55:01,131 --> 00:55:05,221 {\an1}It felt like a monologue, but I’m glad you worked through it. 1458 00:55:05,344 --> 00:55:06,344 {\an1}♪ ♪ 1459 00:55:06,428 --> 00:55:09,058 {\an1}- I feel good. I mean, she bested me at archery. 1460 00:55:09,181 --> 00:55:12,101 {\an1}And then she kind of, like, apologized to me a little bit 1461 00:55:12,184 --> 00:55:13,944 {\an1}about--we call it Pool Gate now. 1462 00:55:14,019 --> 00:55:15,689 {\an1}- You guys have the resolve now, basically. 1463 00:55:15,813 --> 00:55:17,273 {\an1}- I feel like so. 1464 00:55:17,356 --> 00:55:19,316 {\an1}I hope so, I mean, ’cause we did actually kill it. 1465 00:55:19,399 --> 00:55:21,439 {\an1}She bull’s-eyed that [bleep]. - Damn. 1466 00:55:21,527 --> 00:55:22,687 {\an1}- So now that’s dead. 1467 00:55:22,820 --> 00:55:24,400 {\an1}So she can’t bring that up anymore. 1468 00:55:24,530 --> 00:55:26,700 {\an1}- Wow. - So that’s good. 1469 00:55:26,782 --> 00:55:28,742 {\an1}- Now I think because of the pool party incident, 1470 00:55:28,867 --> 00:55:30,577 {\an1}I think we’re in the best place that we can be 1471 00:55:30,702 --> 00:55:33,872 {\an1}to see how our remaining time before Decision Day goes. 1472 00:55:33,956 --> 00:55:36,786 {\an1}- So are you, like, "I don’t know" on Decision Day, 1473 00:55:36,875 --> 00:55:38,785 {\an1}or are you, like, "maybe" on Decision Day? 1474 00:55:38,877 --> 00:55:41,917 {\an1}- Oh, my goodness, that is a great question. 1475 00:55:42,047 --> 00:55:45,797 {\an1}The wife in me wants to say yes, of course. 1476 00:55:45,884 --> 00:55:47,394 {\an1}The... - Realist? 1477 00:55:47,511 --> 00:55:50,101 {\an1}- I was gonna say the woman in me wants to say no. 1478 00:55:50,222 --> 00:55:52,562 {\an1}- Okay, fair. - Here’s what I will say. 1479 00:55:52,683 --> 00:55:56,733 {\an1}Is there enough good in the last eight weeks? 1480 00:55:56,854 --> 00:55:59,814 {\an1}Don’t we want to give it more time? 1481 00:55:59,898 --> 00:56:02,278 {\an1}I mean, are you willing to give it good time? 1482 00:56:04,278 --> 00:56:06,948 {\an1}Crickets? - Uh... 1483 00:56:07,072 --> 00:56:09,282 {\an1}I’m not gonna say yes. I’m not gonna say no. 1484 00:56:09,408 --> 00:56:11,448 {\an1}Time, to me, is very valuable. 1485 00:56:11,577 --> 00:56:13,447 {\an1}My ovaries aren’t getting any younger, so... 1486 00:56:13,579 --> 00:56:16,289 {\an1}- I mean, but you’re not gonna find somebody who’s perfect. 1487 00:56:16,415 --> 00:56:17,755 {\an1}- Totally. 1488 00:56:17,875 --> 00:56:19,715 {\an1}- You’re always gonna have things, right, 1489 00:56:19,793 --> 00:56:21,673 {\an1}that you don’t like about somebody. 1490 00:56:21,753 --> 00:56:23,633 {\an1}- Yep. - But is it worth it? 1491 00:56:23,755 --> 00:56:27,045 {\an1}♪ ♪ 1492 00:56:30,429 --> 00:56:36,019 {\an1}♪ ♪ 1493 00:56:38,437 --> 00:56:40,147 {\an1}- Okay, so, babe, I have a little surprise. 1494 00:56:40,272 --> 00:56:44,152 {\an1}I brought my vibrating panties, been charging them. 1495 00:56:44,276 --> 00:56:45,486 {\an1}- Oh, [bleep]. Okay. 1496 00:56:45,611 --> 00:56:50,531 {\an1}- So I thought it would be fun if I wore them during dinner. 1497 00:56:50,616 --> 00:56:52,826 {\an1}- Dinnertime? - Yeah. 1498 00:56:52,951 --> 00:56:53,701 {\an1}- You wilin’. 1499 00:56:53,785 --> 00:56:56,115 {\an1}- Isn’t this fun? - Is this mine? 1500 00:56:56,204 --> 00:56:57,794 {\an1}Is this the remote control? - Yeah. 1501 00:56:57,873 --> 00:56:59,463 {\an1}So this is the remote, yeah. So let’s see. 1502 00:56:59,583 --> 00:57:01,383 {\an1}How do you work it first? 1503 00:57:01,460 --> 00:57:03,380 {\an1}[device vibrating] 1504 00:57:03,462 --> 00:57:06,802 {\an1}- Wait, why is this thing vibrating? 1505 00:57:06,924 --> 00:57:09,764 {\an1}- Okay. So mine is on. 1506 00:57:09,843 --> 00:57:10,803 {\an1}both: Whoa. 1507 00:57:10,928 --> 00:57:13,348 {\an1}- Wait, wait, wait. Okay, wait, wait, wait. 1508 00:57:13,472 --> 00:57:14,722 {\an1}This is building trust. 1509 00:57:14,806 --> 00:57:16,386 {\an1}- Wait, but why am I vibrating, though? 1510 00:57:16,475 --> 00:57:19,235 {\an1}- Building trust and intimacy. 1511 00:57:19,311 --> 00:57:21,811 {\an1}- That thing is loud as hell. 1512 00:57:21,897 --> 00:57:23,817 {\an1}- Go try it out. - Here, I’m gonna put them on. 1513 00:57:23,941 --> 00:57:25,901 {\an1}- I’ll read the instructions. - And you figure out how to-- 1514 00:57:25,984 --> 00:57:27,904 {\an1}Can you turn it off, though? 1515 00:57:27,986 --> 00:57:30,566 {\an1}- Yeah, I’ll figure it out. I’ll try. 1516 00:57:30,656 --> 00:57:34,156 {\an1}♪ ♪ 1517 00:57:34,242 --> 00:57:36,582 {\an1}There we go. [door closes] 1518 00:57:36,662 --> 00:57:38,542 {\an1}Press little button for two seconds. 1519 00:57:38,664 --> 00:57:39,964 {\an1}Ha ha. 1520 00:57:40,040 --> 00:57:41,750 {\an1}- [laughs] 1521 00:57:41,833 --> 00:57:43,333 {\an1}- [laughs] 1522 00:57:44,503 --> 00:57:47,263 {\an1}♪ ♪ 1523 00:57:47,339 --> 00:57:49,589 {\an1}- Let’s get a video of the sunset. 1524 00:57:49,675 --> 00:57:52,685 {\an1}♪ ♪ 1525 00:57:52,761 --> 00:57:54,801 {\an1}Okay, wait. Can I get--okay. 1526 00:57:54,888 --> 00:57:57,058 {\an1}Sammy, actually, can you get a video of me? 1527 00:57:57,182 --> 00:57:59,522 {\an1}I want to walk here. Okay, cool. 1528 00:58:05,232 --> 00:58:08,862 {\an1}This retreat is the first really big obstacle 1529 00:58:08,944 --> 00:58:10,534 {\an1}that we’ve really encountered. 1530 00:58:10,654 --> 00:58:12,704 {\an1}It’s been challenging, but it doesn’t make me 1531 00:58:12,781 --> 00:58:13,871 {\an1}question if I love him or not. 1532 00:58:13,949 --> 00:58:17,199 {\an1}So I’m just trying to make the most of it. 1533 00:58:17,327 --> 00:58:19,197 {\an1}- Ready, and... 1534 00:58:19,329 --> 00:58:21,159 {\an1}go. 1535 00:58:21,248 --> 00:58:23,578 {\an1}- Thanks. [indistinct chatter] 1536 00:58:23,709 --> 00:58:25,209 {\an1}Okay. 1537 00:58:25,335 --> 00:58:26,915 {\an1}- I just want to make sure you understand 1538 00:58:27,045 --> 00:58:28,585 {\an1}that it’s not that you can’t ever ask me 1539 00:58:28,714 --> 00:58:29,804 {\an1}for a photo or a video. 1540 00:58:29,881 --> 00:58:31,421 {\an1}♪ ♪ 1541 00:58:31,550 --> 00:58:33,720 {\an1}- I’m confused. 1542 00:58:33,802 --> 00:58:34,642 {\an1}- If you were to read the room, 1543 00:58:34,720 --> 00:58:38,470 {\an1}what are my energy levels telling you? 1544 00:58:38,557 --> 00:58:40,557 {\an1}- I can’t win, baby. 1545 00:58:40,684 --> 00:58:43,144 {\an1}- Feels like I’m misunderstood, and that’s the issue. 1546 00:58:43,228 --> 00:58:45,648 {\an1}- I get it. Your energy is-- You’re replenished. 1547 00:58:45,731 --> 00:58:48,441 {\an1}So now is an okay time to ask you to take a photo, 1548 00:58:48,567 --> 00:58:49,817 {\an1}but, like, previously-- 1549 00:58:49,901 --> 00:58:52,531 {\an1}Oh, this is wet. I can’t sit on this. 1550 00:58:52,612 --> 00:58:55,912 {\an1}But, like, if you’re recovering and replenishing, 1551 00:58:56,033 --> 00:58:58,493 {\an1}then I should leave you alone. 1552 00:58:58,577 --> 00:59:00,247 {\an1}Just, like, reading your energy levels 1553 00:59:00,328 --> 00:59:03,248 {\an1}to know if it’s okay or not-- I understand that. 1554 00:59:03,331 --> 00:59:04,581 {\an1}I just didn’t want to even mess around 1555 00:59:04,666 --> 00:59:07,786 {\an1}with whatever energy levels where you’re at--that’s all. 1556 00:59:07,919 --> 00:59:09,669 {\an1}- Cool, ’cause if not, like I said, that’s important for me 1557 00:59:09,755 --> 00:59:11,515 {\an1}to feel like you understand. - I understand. 1558 00:59:11,590 --> 00:59:13,880 {\an1}- ’Cause if not, then I feel like spending [bleep] hours 1559 00:59:13,967 --> 00:59:15,677 {\an1}talking to you goes nowhere and there’s no point 1560 00:59:15,761 --> 00:59:18,181 {\an1}’cause I’m gonna be misunderstood anyway. 1561 00:59:18,263 --> 00:59:19,933 {\an1}And then I’m truly just gonna give up. 1562 00:59:20,057 --> 00:59:22,387 {\an1}- No, that’s-- - Okay. 1563 00:59:22,476 --> 00:59:24,266 {\an1}- I just figured I’d rather play it safe 1564 00:59:24,352 --> 00:59:25,732 {\an1}than overextend you. 1565 00:59:25,812 --> 00:59:27,272 {\an1}If you’re just enjoying the sunset, 1566 00:59:27,397 --> 00:59:28,437 {\an1}I want you to just enjoy it. 1567 00:59:28,565 --> 00:59:30,685 {\an1}And I’m like, "Okay, I’ll let someone else do this." 1568 00:59:30,776 --> 00:59:33,276 {\an1}- Cool. Okay. - That’s all. 1569 00:59:33,403 --> 00:59:36,163 {\an1}Okay. 1570 00:59:36,281 --> 00:59:37,661 {\an1}Can I have a hug? - No. 1571 00:59:37,783 --> 00:59:39,873 {\an1}- Ugh. - Yeah, sorry. 1572 00:59:39,951 --> 00:59:43,291 {\an1}♪ ♪ 1573 00:59:43,413 --> 00:59:45,873 {\an1}- [purses lips, scoffs] 1574 00:59:45,957 --> 00:59:47,497 {\an1}♪ ♪ 1575 00:59:47,626 --> 00:59:48,706 {\an1}Okay. 1576 00:59:48,794 --> 00:59:50,554 {\an1}♪ ♪ 1577 00:59:50,629 --> 00:59:51,879 {\an1}Oh, my God. 1578 00:59:51,963 --> 00:59:56,723 {\an1}♪ ♪ 1579 00:59:56,802 --> 00:59:59,512 {\an1}- I’m just getting pissed off by [bleep] just everything. 1580 00:59:59,638 --> 01:00:01,508 {\an1}Out there, you’re like, "I just can’t win. 1581 01:00:01,640 --> 01:00:02,640 {\an1}I don’t know." 1582 01:00:02,724 --> 01:00:04,524 {\an1}And then you come down, and then you’re like, 1583 01:00:04,643 --> 01:00:05,733 {\an1}"No, I do understand you." 1584 01:00:05,811 --> 01:00:06,981 {\an1}It’s like which is it? 1585 01:00:07,104 --> 01:00:09,904 {\an1}It’s frustrating to me, ’cause I want to open up to you. 1586 01:00:09,981 --> 01:00:11,691 {\an1}I want to feel like you’re understanding me. 1587 01:00:11,817 --> 01:00:13,227 {\an1}I want to feel understood. 1588 01:00:13,318 --> 01:00:15,648 {\an1}But then within seconds, I’m getting, like, two-- 1589 01:00:15,779 --> 01:00:16,989 {\an1}Like, well, then, which is it again? 1590 01:00:17,114 --> 01:00:18,204 {\an1}I don’t know. 1591 01:00:18,323 --> 01:00:20,243 {\an1}- I’m just gonna not talk anymore. 1592 01:00:20,325 --> 01:00:21,905 {\an1}♪ ♪ 1593 01:00:21,993 --> 01:00:23,703 {\an1}I literally can’t. 1594 01:00:23,829 --> 01:00:25,619 {\an1}I’m just being attacked for everything. 1595 01:00:25,705 --> 01:00:27,205 {\an1}I’m trying to be considerate of you, 1596 01:00:27,332 --> 01:00:29,502 {\an1}so then I ask someone else to take a photo. 1597 01:00:29,626 --> 01:00:31,916 {\an1}And then you ask me, and I try to, like, 1598 01:00:32,003 --> 01:00:33,053 {\an1}explain what’s going on. 1599 01:00:33,171 --> 01:00:34,341 {\an1}I don’t know. 1600 01:00:34,464 --> 01:00:36,134 {\an1}- Just, like, say what you mean, 1601 01:00:36,216 --> 01:00:37,966 {\an1}mean what you say in terms of, like, the communication. 1602 01:00:38,051 --> 01:00:39,301 {\an1}- I can’t say anything. - Well, you can. 1603 01:00:39,386 --> 01:00:41,256 {\an1}- That is what it feels like. - If you would’ve said this-- 1604 01:00:41,346 --> 01:00:42,846 {\an1}- Everything I do is wrong. Everything I say is wrong. 1605 01:00:42,931 --> 01:00:44,221 {\an1}You’re gonna make me go [bleep] crazy. 1606 01:00:44,349 --> 01:00:45,849 {\an1}That’s what’s gonna happen here. 1607 01:00:45,934 --> 01:00:47,644 {\an1}- If you would have said this, what you said here, 1608 01:00:47,727 --> 01:00:48,977 {\an1}we would have been good. 1609 01:00:49,062 --> 01:00:49,852 {\an1}I’d have been like, "Oh, okay. Cool." 1610 01:00:49,980 --> 01:00:51,400 {\an1}- I can’t control what I’m saying. 1611 01:00:51,523 --> 01:00:52,523 {\an1}That’s how I felt in that moment. 1612 01:00:52,649 --> 01:00:53,939 {\an1}- But that’s the problem. 1613 01:00:54,025 --> 01:00:54,815 {\an1}- Because you were mad at me 1614 01:00:54,901 --> 01:00:56,491 {\an1}for asking Sammy to take the photo. 1615 01:00:56,570 --> 01:00:57,950 {\an1}- I wasn’t mad at you. That’s the thing. 1616 01:00:58,029 --> 01:00:59,109 {\an1}- You were. You were clearly mad. 1617 01:00:59,197 --> 01:01:00,947 {\an1}See, don’t gaslight me. - I’m not gaslighting you. 1618 01:01:01,032 --> 01:01:02,782 {\an1}- You keep claiming that I’m gaslighting you. 1619 01:01:02,868 --> 01:01:03,788 {\an1}You’re [bleep] gaslighting. 1620 01:01:03,869 --> 01:01:06,039 {\an1}You were mad. You can’t deny that. 1621 01:01:06,163 --> 01:01:07,413 {\an1}- I wasn’t mad. 1622 01:01:07,539 --> 01:01:08,999 {\an1}- That’s why I said I can’t [bleep] win. 1623 01:01:09,082 --> 01:01:10,542 {\an1}- I wasn’t mad. - [laughs] 1624 01:01:10,625 --> 01:01:13,625 {\an1}- I just wanted to clear up-- - Ah! 1625 01:01:13,712 --> 01:01:15,802 {\an1}- I’m gonna go [bleep] crazy. I’m gonna lose it. 1626 01:01:15,881 --> 01:01:18,471 {\an1}I’m gonna lose it. I’m trying so hard. 1627 01:01:18,550 --> 01:01:20,130 {\an1}And then I didn’t even know that anything was going on. 1628 01:01:20,218 --> 01:01:22,348 {\an1}And I asked you for a hug, and you go, "No." 1629 01:01:22,429 --> 01:01:23,549 {\an1}That’s total rejection. 1630 01:01:23,638 --> 01:01:25,718 {\an1}That’s total rejection, and I didn’t even know. 1631 01:01:25,849 --> 01:01:27,389 {\an1}- Yeah, I don’t feel close to you right now. 1632 01:01:27,475 --> 01:01:28,595 {\an1}- You’re not letting me in on anything, 1633 01:01:28,727 --> 01:01:30,267 {\an1}and then I’m just rejected. - I am letting you in. 1634 01:01:30,395 --> 01:01:31,305 {\an1}Maybe I’m letting you in too much. 1635 01:01:31,396 --> 01:01:33,396 {\an1}Maybe that’s the problem. I don’t know. 1636 01:01:33,523 --> 01:01:35,693 {\an1}- I’m confused, babe. I don’t know what to do. 1637 01:01:35,775 --> 01:01:37,145 {\an1}If I ask you, it’s wrong. 1638 01:01:37,235 --> 01:01:38,605 {\an1}If I don’t ask you, it’s wrong. 1639 01:01:38,737 --> 01:01:41,107 {\an1}And it’s, like, I’m so confused. 1640 01:01:41,239 --> 01:01:42,489 {\an1}- That’s what I’m saying. 1641 01:01:42,574 --> 01:01:43,994 {\an1}If you don’t understand the nuance-- 1642 01:01:44,075 --> 01:01:45,825 {\an1}- How am I supposed to understand the nuance? 1643 01:01:45,911 --> 01:01:47,661 {\an1}- I’m lying down on a bed and trying to relax, 1644 01:01:47,746 --> 01:01:48,906 {\an1}and you’re snapping at me to take a picture. 1645 01:01:49,039 --> 01:01:51,619 {\an1}- But right now you’re standing here watching the sunset. 1646 01:01:51,750 --> 01:01:53,250 {\an1}What if that was a nuance and I didn’t know? 1647 01:01:53,376 --> 01:01:55,626 {\an1}I’m trying to learn. I’m trying to understand. 1648 01:01:55,754 --> 01:01:58,174 {\an1}Like, if you’re just relaxing here watching the sunset 1649 01:01:58,256 --> 01:02:00,006 {\an1}and I’m like, "Take a picture of me," 1650 01:02:00,091 --> 01:02:01,431 {\an1}what if that’s the time that you’re recharging 1651 01:02:01,551 --> 01:02:02,591 {\an1}before we walk into this dinner? 1652 01:02:02,719 --> 01:02:05,009 {\an1}- Well, you can ask, "Do you want to take a picture?" 1653 01:02:05,096 --> 01:02:06,346 {\an1}That could also work. 1654 01:02:06,431 --> 01:02:07,771 {\an1}And then I could tell you yes or no. 1655 01:02:07,891 --> 01:02:09,101 {\an1}- Okay, I’ll write this down 1656 01:02:09,184 --> 01:02:11,024 {\an1}in my book of things of how to act. 1657 01:02:11,102 --> 01:02:12,102 {\an1}I’m trying. 1658 01:02:12,229 --> 01:02:13,349 {\an1}I’m trying not to poke you. 1659 01:02:13,438 --> 01:02:16,688 {\an1}I’m trying not to do anything. I’m trying so hard. 1660 01:02:16,775 --> 01:02:18,695 {\an1}And it’s like, no matter what I do, 1661 01:02:18,777 --> 01:02:20,357 {\an1}I feel like I’m doing it wrong. 1662 01:02:20,445 --> 01:02:22,735 {\an1}- I think we’ll just have to see where we net out. 1663 01:02:22,822 --> 01:02:24,742 {\an1}- I don’t know what that means when you say that. 1664 01:02:24,824 --> 01:02:27,794 {\an1}It’s like a threat, like, "I don’t want to be with you." 1665 01:02:27,869 --> 01:02:30,709 {\an1}- No, it’s whether we can be with each other. 1666 01:02:30,789 --> 01:02:32,539 {\an1}- It’s whether if I do exactly what you need 1667 01:02:32,624 --> 01:02:33,794 {\an1}when you need it and how you want it 1668 01:02:33,917 --> 01:02:36,497 {\an1}and how you want me to say it-- that’s what I’m hearing. 1669 01:02:36,628 --> 01:02:38,208 {\an1}- Well, but it’s right back at me. 1670 01:02:38,296 --> 01:02:41,256 {\an1}If I can let things go, if I can be more communicative-- 1671 01:02:41,341 --> 01:02:43,221 {\an1}It applies to me, too. 1672 01:02:43,301 --> 01:02:45,391 {\an1}- I just feel like I’m damned if I do 1673 01:02:45,470 --> 01:02:46,850 {\an1}and I’m damned if I don’t. - I know. 1674 01:02:46,972 --> 01:02:48,182 {\an1}And that’s what you said. 1675 01:02:48,306 --> 01:02:50,476 {\an1}And it bothers me ’cause that was not what I was going for. 1676 01:02:50,558 --> 01:02:52,138 {\an1}I don’t know. - I just want to be fine. 1677 01:02:52,227 --> 01:02:53,307 {\an1}I don’t want to do this. 1678 01:02:53,395 --> 01:02:55,275 {\an1}I don’t want to go down there. I don’t want to eat. 1679 01:02:55,355 --> 01:02:56,695 {\an1}[crying] I just want to be alone. 1680 01:02:56,815 --> 01:03:00,865 {\an1}I can’t do anything right. 1681 01:03:00,986 --> 01:03:04,106 {\an1}[sobs] I just... 1682 01:03:04,197 --> 01:03:08,077 {\an1}I’m trying so hard. 1683 01:03:08,159 --> 01:03:09,829 {\an1}[sobs] 1684 01:03:14,833 --> 01:03:17,753 {\an1}[sobbing] 1685 01:03:17,836 --> 01:03:22,506 {\an1}♪ ♪ 1686 01:03:22,632 --> 01:03:23,972 {\an1}[door closes] 1687 01:03:24,050 --> 01:03:26,970 {\an1}[continues sobbing] 1688 01:03:27,053 --> 01:03:28,853 {\an1}♪ ♪ 1689 01:03:32,309 --> 01:03:34,139 {\an1}[somber music] 1690 01:03:34,227 --> 01:03:37,557 {\an1}- [crying] I’m trying so hard. 1691 01:03:37,689 --> 01:03:40,569 {\an1}[sobbing] 1692 01:03:40,692 --> 01:03:45,532 {\an1}♪ ♪ 1693 01:03:45,655 --> 01:03:47,735 {\an1}[knock at door] 1694 01:03:47,866 --> 01:03:51,366 {\an1}♪ ♪ 1695 01:03:51,453 --> 01:03:54,793 {\an1}[continues sobbing, speaks indistinctly] 1696 01:04:00,045 --> 01:04:02,095 {\an1}[sniffles, sobs] 1697 01:05:01,106 --> 01:05:02,226 {\an1}♪ ♪ 1698 01:05:02,315 --> 01:05:05,225 {\an1}- The negative version of me is just not a good person, 1699 01:05:05,318 --> 01:05:08,068 {\an1}just disagreeable, very moody. 1700 01:05:12,325 --> 01:05:14,035 {\an1}Low-key disrespectful. 1701 01:05:14,119 --> 01:05:15,659 {\an1}It’s just like, all the negative things 1702 01:05:15,787 --> 01:05:17,617 {\an1}that you could ascribe to a person, 1703 01:05:17,747 --> 01:05:19,457 {\an1}that’s what me being negative is. 1704 01:05:45,316 --> 01:05:51,356 {\an1}♪ ♪ 1705 01:05:51,489 --> 01:05:53,529 {\an1}- So we’re missing Lindy and Miguel. 1706 01:05:53,658 --> 01:05:54,698 {\an1}- Right. 1707 01:05:54,826 --> 01:05:56,866 {\an1}- I think they just working out they own stuff, 1708 01:05:56,995 --> 01:05:58,875 {\an1}and they would much rather not do it at the dinner table. 1709 01:05:58,997 --> 01:06:00,367 {\an1}- Exactly. 1710 01:06:00,498 --> 01:06:01,748 {\an1}- They need they space 1711 01:06:01,833 --> 01:06:04,673 {\an1}until they in the right element together, and we respect that. 1712 01:06:04,794 --> 01:06:06,884 {\an1}- That’s true, Justin. That’s a good point. 1713 01:06:07,005 --> 01:06:09,095 {\an1}- Yeah. 1714 01:06:09,174 --> 01:06:10,514 {\an1}- Oh, they had sex. 1715 01:06:10,592 --> 01:06:11,592 {\an1}- For real? - Yeah. 1716 01:06:11,676 --> 01:06:14,386 {\an1}- Like, actually sex? - Like, intercourse. 1717 01:06:14,512 --> 01:06:16,562 {\an1}- Damn. Congrats. 1718 01:06:16,681 --> 01:06:19,731 {\an1}- She was kind of, like, nonchalant about it. 1719 01:06:19,851 --> 01:06:20,981 {\an1}Alexis said that she’s a pleaser. 1720 01:06:21,060 --> 01:06:25,190 {\an1}And as long as her husband’s pleased, then she’s happy. 1721 01:06:25,315 --> 01:06:26,325 {\an1}- Oh. 1722 01:06:26,399 --> 01:06:30,739 {\an1}- That was her answer to, "Did you enjoy it?" 1723 01:06:30,862 --> 01:06:33,072 {\an1}- So she was avoiding the question? 1724 01:06:33,198 --> 01:06:35,238 {\an1}- Yeah. 1725 01:06:35,366 --> 01:06:38,116 {\an1}- I’m just thinking about the weekend and what I learned. 1726 01:06:38,203 --> 01:06:42,163 {\an1}It was just fun to be out here with you and just us two. 1727 01:06:42,248 --> 01:06:44,498 {\an1}- Can I get a kiss? 1728 01:06:44,584 --> 01:06:46,174 {\an1}all: Aw! 1729 01:06:46,252 --> 01:06:48,752 {\an1}- I think that’s the first time I’ve seen that. 1730 01:06:48,880 --> 01:06:50,760 {\an1}- [laughs] 1731 01:06:50,882 --> 01:06:53,382 {\an1}- Had to change my frequency. 1732 01:06:53,468 --> 01:06:54,338 {\an1}- Yeah. 1733 01:06:54,427 --> 01:06:56,217 {\an1}- You’re attracted to your wife, Mitch? 1734 01:06:56,346 --> 01:06:59,266 {\an1}- Yeah, exactly. - We got a yes out of him. 1735 01:06:59,390 --> 01:07:01,100 {\an1}- There is no more questioning of this 1736 01:07:01,226 --> 01:07:02,766 {\an1}because that question is dead. [device vibrates] 1737 01:07:02,894 --> 01:07:04,774 {\an1}And I’m thinking that even Pool Gate is dead. 1738 01:07:04,896 --> 01:07:05,936 {\an1}- Yeah. 1739 01:07:06,064 --> 01:07:08,864 {\an1}- So we can’t talk about talking about it anymore? 1740 01:07:08,942 --> 01:07:11,942 {\an1}- Talk about what? - Okay. 1741 01:07:12,070 --> 01:07:13,490 {\an1}- [sighs] 1742 01:07:13,571 --> 01:07:16,121 {\an1}- My intention from now to Decision Day 1743 01:07:16,241 --> 01:07:18,281 {\an1}is just to be 100% all-in. 1744 01:07:18,409 --> 01:07:20,699 {\an1}- I have no idea what anybody else is talking about. 1745 01:07:20,787 --> 01:07:23,577 {\an1}On, it’s on. 1746 01:07:23,706 --> 01:07:24,786 {\an1}It was a lot going on. 1747 01:07:24,916 --> 01:07:27,416 {\an1}I’m trying to listen. I’m getting vibrated. 1748 01:07:27,544 --> 01:07:29,094 {\an1}And I’m trying to eat. 1749 01:07:29,212 --> 01:07:30,922 {\an1}[exhales deeply] 1750 01:07:31,005 --> 01:07:33,165 {\an1}I don’t know if he doesn’t know how to work the remote 1751 01:07:33,258 --> 01:07:34,928 {\an1}or he didn’t want to work the remote. 1752 01:07:35,051 --> 01:07:37,761 {\an1}And I’m trying to tell Nate, like, "Turn it off. 1753 01:07:37,887 --> 01:07:39,257 {\an1}Turn it off, please." 1754 01:07:39,389 --> 01:07:41,099 {\an1}- You okay? [laughter] 1755 01:07:41,182 --> 01:07:42,222 {\an1}- I’m getting lit up. 1756 01:07:42,308 --> 01:07:44,188 {\an1}Oh, my God. 1757 01:07:44,269 --> 01:07:46,439 {\an1}- She’s suffering right now, but it feels good. 1758 01:07:46,521 --> 01:07:48,981 {\an1}- Oh, he likes to see me suffer. 1759 01:07:49,107 --> 01:07:50,267 {\an1}- It’s pretty hot. 1760 01:07:50,358 --> 01:07:51,858 {\an1}♪ ♪ 1761 01:07:51,943 --> 01:07:52,903 {\an1}- You cannot be trusted. 1762 01:07:52,986 --> 01:07:55,606 {\an1}- I just wanted to compliment our friends. 1763 01:07:55,738 --> 01:07:56,818 {\an1}- [grunts softly] 1764 01:07:56,948 --> 01:07:58,318 {\an1}♪ ♪ 1765 01:07:58,449 --> 01:08:00,029 {\an1}- Oh, my--good lord. 1766 01:08:00,118 --> 01:08:02,158 {\an1}You guys have vibrating panties on or something? 1767 01:08:02,287 --> 01:08:03,157 {\an1}- What? 1768 01:08:03,288 --> 01:08:05,998 {\an1}- He’s got the little remote control. 1769 01:08:06,124 --> 01:08:08,004 {\an1}- Now I’m like, "Is that happening?" 1770 01:08:08,126 --> 01:08:10,206 {\an1}- What are you talking about? 1771 01:08:10,295 --> 01:08:12,305 {\an1}- She’s over there, like, shifting. 1772 01:08:12,422 --> 01:08:13,552 {\an1}- She started it. 1773 01:08:13,631 --> 01:08:15,511 {\an1}- And you guys always talk about sex toys and stuff. 1774 01:08:15,633 --> 01:08:17,723 {\an1}I’m like, "Oh, that’s funny." - I’ll be back, guys. 1775 01:08:17,801 --> 01:08:19,642 {\an1}I’ll be back. 1776 01:08:19,762 --> 01:08:21,221 {\an1}- I support it. 1777 01:08:21,306 --> 01:08:23,136 {\an1}I’m an ally. - I am as well. 1778 01:08:23,265 --> 01:08:25,015 {\an1}- Oh, my God. 1779 01:08:25,143 --> 01:08:27,483 {\an1}[laughter] 1780 01:08:27,562 --> 01:08:28,812 {\an1}- I’m so sorry. 1781 01:08:28,896 --> 01:08:30,685 {\an1}I didn’t know how to turn it off. 1782 01:08:30,815 --> 01:08:33,225 {\an1}You good? - No. 1783 01:08:33,318 --> 01:08:36,698 {\an1}My God, I felt like it’s, like, swollen. 1784 01:08:36,821 --> 01:08:38,911 {\an1}- I really didn’t know how to work the remote. 1785 01:08:38,990 --> 01:08:40,120 {\an1}You all right? 1786 01:08:40,199 --> 01:08:43,199 {\an1}- Babe, I was literally, like, looking at you, like... 1787 01:08:43,327 --> 01:08:45,247 {\an1}Yeah, I was, like, ready to be, like... 1788 01:08:45,330 --> 01:08:49,080 {\an1}- [laughing] 1789 01:08:49,166 --> 01:08:50,537 {\an1}I was pushing it to the limit. 1790 01:08:50,667 --> 01:08:52,378 {\an1}- He always push everything to the limit. 1791 01:08:52,503 --> 01:08:53,383 {\an1}- Yeah. 1792 01:08:53,504 --> 01:08:54,304 {\an1}You okay in there? 1793 01:08:54,380 --> 01:08:56,670 {\an1}- My legs are shaking. - Great. 1794 01:08:56,758 --> 01:08:57,837 {\an1}♪ ♪ 1795 01:08:57,967 --> 01:09:00,467 {\an1}The thing works. 1796 01:09:00,553 --> 01:09:02,683 {\an1}- Oh, gosh. 1797 01:09:02,764 --> 01:09:06,564 {\an1}♪ ♪ 1798 01:09:11,939 --> 01:09:13,109 {\an1}- Did you eat? - No, just ate now. 1799 01:09:13,191 --> 01:09:14,321 {\an1}- Oh, eat. - No, bro. 1800 01:09:14,399 --> 01:09:18,200 {\an1}We were upstairs ’cause I had a... 1801 01:09:18,279 --> 01:09:20,158 {\an1}I’ve just been out of line in a sense. 1802 01:09:20,238 --> 01:09:23,029 {\an1}Like, I haven’t really been taking your needs into account. 1803 01:09:23,158 --> 01:09:24,828 {\an1}I’ve been too in my head about my own needs 1804 01:09:24,911 --> 01:09:28,041 {\an1}and trying to make the best out of the situation. 1805 01:09:28,121 --> 01:09:29,871 {\an1}I came into this week in a really low energy. 1806 01:09:29,957 --> 01:09:31,037 {\an1}I knew that. 1807 01:09:31,166 --> 01:09:32,207 {\an1}For me, that means I just get 1808 01:09:32,292 --> 01:09:34,883 {\an1}very, like, hypersensitive and very irritable 1809 01:09:34,961 --> 01:09:36,461 {\an1}and moody and grumpy. 1810 01:09:36,547 --> 01:09:39,176 {\an1}And I have been taking it out on you, and I’m sorry. 1811 01:09:39,258 --> 01:09:41,718 {\an1}I do want to do a better job of communicating 1812 01:09:41,803 --> 01:09:44,223 {\an1}to you in a kinder way where I’m at 1813 01:09:44,305 --> 01:09:45,715 {\an1}so you don’t feel attacked. 1814 01:09:45,807 --> 01:09:47,727 {\an1}Yeah, I don’t know. I [bleep] up upstairs. 1815 01:09:47,850 --> 01:09:50,389 {\an1}And so I had to kind of try to make things right. 1816 01:09:50,478 --> 01:09:51,598 {\an1}I’m sorry. 1817 01:09:51,728 --> 01:09:54,519 {\an1}- But thanks for making dinner. It’s delicious. 1818 01:09:54,607 --> 01:09:57,527 {\an1}- Yeah, very good. - Thanks for saying that. 1819 01:09:57,610 --> 01:09:58,570 {\an1}This weekend-- 1820 01:09:58,695 --> 01:10:00,615 {\an1}it’s been an emotional roller coaster for me. 1821 01:10:00,737 --> 01:10:04,278 {\an1}But I really do love Miguel, and I’m hopeful 1822 01:10:04,409 --> 01:10:05,869 {\an1}that we can just move past this. 1823 01:10:05,952 --> 01:10:07,202 {\an1}- Where’s Krys? 1824 01:10:07,286 --> 01:10:10,866 {\an1}- You know they say imitation is the best form of flattery. 1825 01:10:10,957 --> 01:10:13,246 {\an1}- Oh, my God! 1826 01:10:13,334 --> 01:10:15,094 {\an1}I can’t right now! 1827 01:10:15,169 --> 01:10:16,299 {\an1}[indistinct chatter] 1828 01:10:16,421 --> 01:10:18,591 {\an1}- Mitch, how you doing, Mitch? 1829 01:10:18,715 --> 01:10:19,425 {\an1}- What’s up? 1830 01:10:19,549 --> 01:10:22,929 {\an1}Is that plastic on this table? 1831 01:10:23,010 --> 01:10:25,600 {\an1}- Oh, my God. - I’m so sorry, Mitch. 1832 01:10:25,680 --> 01:10:27,430 {\an1}I told her not to. 1833 01:10:27,514 --> 01:10:29,105 {\an1}- I’m listening. I’m here. 1834 01:10:29,183 --> 01:10:30,813 {\an1}- Mitch. - I’m here. 1835 01:10:30,934 --> 01:10:32,344 {\an1}I’m sorry. 1836 01:10:32,437 --> 01:10:35,647 {\an1}Were you guys having a serious conversation? 1837 01:10:35,773 --> 01:10:37,693 {\an1}[laughter] 1838 01:10:37,775 --> 01:10:38,895 {\an1}- I need a drink. 1839 01:10:38,985 --> 01:10:42,285 {\an1}- You know, this is all great and everything, okay? 1840 01:10:42,405 --> 01:10:45,455 {\an1}- My God, the shoes. - I love the shirt. 1841 01:10:45,575 --> 01:10:49,125 {\an1}- You guys have always been against me, 1842 01:10:49,202 --> 01:10:50,963 {\an1}and I don’t appreciate it. 1843 01:10:51,038 --> 01:10:53,118 {\an1}[laughter] 1844 01:10:53,249 --> 01:10:55,249 {\an1}- Mitch, it’s just a shirt. - It’s just a shirt, Mitch. 1845 01:10:55,334 --> 01:10:56,794 {\an1}- It’s just a shirt, Mitch. It’s all good. 1846 01:10:56,919 --> 01:10:59,459 {\an1}- Do you know where shirts come from? 1847 01:10:59,589 --> 01:11:01,719 {\an1}You got to say if I go too hard, baby. 1848 01:11:01,799 --> 01:11:04,299 {\an1}[laughter] - He loves it. 1849 01:11:04,427 --> 01:11:07,007 {\an1}- My girl right there. 1850 01:11:07,138 --> 01:11:09,808 {\an1}[cheers and applause] 1851 01:11:11,517 --> 01:11:14,477 {\an1}- [shouts] [laughter] 1852 01:11:14,562 --> 01:11:17,652 {\an1}- I love seeing Krysten’s take on me, and it’s just hilarious. 1853 01:11:17,732 --> 01:11:19,232 {\an1}And I’m really liking the side of Krysten 1854 01:11:19,317 --> 01:11:20,607 {\an1}that I’m seeing right now. 1855 01:11:20,693 --> 01:11:22,362 {\an1}- Very weird. 1856 01:11:22,487 --> 01:11:23,817 {\an1}- I’m feeling good. 1857 01:11:23,946 --> 01:11:25,656 {\an1}I feel like I got some pep back in my step. 1858 01:11:25,782 --> 01:11:28,662 {\an1}And I just hope that we can kind of take this progress 1859 01:11:28,743 --> 01:11:32,003 {\an1}we’ve made and keep it moving. 1860 01:11:32,079 --> 01:11:39,089 {\an1}♪ ♪ 1861 01:11:40,963 --> 01:11:42,463 {\an1}We’re playing dodgeball. 1862 01:11:42,548 --> 01:11:43,668 {\an1}You guys ready for this? - Yeah. 1863 01:11:43,758 --> 01:11:45,628 {\an1}- We know you’re ready, Nate. 1864 01:11:45,718 --> 01:11:48,008 {\an1}- Good morning. - Good morning. 1865 01:11:48,094 --> 01:11:50,344 {\an1}- Mimosas? Is that what’s happening? 1866 01:11:50,431 --> 01:11:52,021 {\an1}- Yeah, it loosens you up for your throwing arm. 1867 01:11:52,141 --> 01:11:54,691 {\an1}- Oh, or you’re trying to sabotage me? 1868 01:11:54,769 --> 01:11:57,349 {\an1}- Wait, what are the teams? - I don’t know. 1869 01:11:57,438 --> 01:11:59,688 {\an1}- Guys against girls. - Is it really? 1870 01:11:59,773 --> 01:12:01,234 {\an1}- I don’t think that that’s quite-- 1871 01:12:01,359 --> 01:12:02,359 {\an1}- I’m okay with that. 1872 01:12:02,443 --> 01:12:04,323 {\an1}- Although Lindy has some skills, too, apparently. 1873 01:12:04,403 --> 01:12:05,903 {\an1}- I’m very serious about dodgeball. 1874 01:12:06,030 --> 01:12:07,280 {\an1}I’m very competitive. 1875 01:12:07,365 --> 01:12:08,665 {\an1}- So why are you afraid of the mens? 1876 01:12:08,741 --> 01:12:12,661 {\an1}- Just physiologically, there’s some advantages that men have. 1877 01:12:12,745 --> 01:12:13,695 {\an1}And I’m a winner. 1878 01:12:13,830 --> 01:12:15,210 {\an1}I want things to be fair. 1879 01:12:15,331 --> 01:12:18,041 {\an1}- Penis is definitely an advantage for guys. 1880 01:12:18,166 --> 01:12:20,087 {\an1}Just aim for the [bleep]. - [laughs] That’s smart. 1881 01:12:20,210 --> 01:12:21,550 {\an1}- Not aiming for the [bleep]. 1882 01:12:21,629 --> 01:12:22,959 {\an1}- All right, we split genders. 1883 01:12:23,047 --> 01:12:24,797 {\an1}But do we split couples? - Yeah, definitely. 1884 01:12:24,882 --> 01:12:26,432 {\an1}Couples should not be allowed to be on the same team. 1885 01:12:26,550 --> 01:12:27,591 {\an1}- Why not? 1886 01:12:27,718 --> 01:12:29,388 {\an1}- I think it’d be fun to mix it up like that. 1887 01:12:29,512 --> 01:12:30,552 {\an1}- I think it’d be fun, 1888 01:12:30,638 --> 01:12:32,508 {\an1}’cause, I mean, I need to throw some balls, so... 1889 01:12:32,598 --> 01:12:33,888 {\an1}- To be honest with you, 1890 01:12:33,975 --> 01:12:36,235 {\an1}I am ready to call it quits on the whole couples’ retreat 1891 01:12:36,352 --> 01:12:37,772 {\an1}I’m ready to just drive right back home. 1892 01:12:37,895 --> 01:12:39,725 {\an1}But I know it matters to Lindy. 1893 01:12:39,856 --> 01:12:42,186 {\an1}She wants to continue having fun with the other couples, 1894 01:12:42,275 --> 01:12:43,735 {\an1}have fun with me. 1895 01:12:43,860 --> 01:12:45,780 {\an1}And she thinks it’ll be a good idea 1896 01:12:45,903 --> 01:12:47,243 {\an1}for me to, like, blow off some steam. 1897 01:12:47,362 --> 01:12:48,612 {\an1}Let’s see how that goes. 1898 01:12:48,739 --> 01:12:51,579 {\an1}- This was, like, the most fun I’ve had 1899 01:12:51,659 --> 01:12:52,949 {\an1}since we all met each other, for me. 1900 01:12:53,077 --> 01:12:54,367 {\an1}It was just a blast. 1901 01:12:54,452 --> 01:12:55,913 {\an1}And I love spending time with you guys, 1902 01:12:55,996 --> 01:12:57,367 {\an1}and I love spending time with Mitch, too. 1903 01:12:57,456 --> 01:12:58,916 {\an1}- Thanks, babe. 1904 01:12:59,000 --> 01:13:00,250 {\an1}I had a great time, too. 1905 01:13:00,334 --> 01:13:02,044 {\an1}- Yeah, I think for me, like, this 1906 01:13:02,128 --> 01:13:03,548 {\an1}has definitely been a challenging weekend, 1907 01:13:03,629 --> 01:13:04,839 {\an1}not gonna lie. 1908 01:13:04,922 --> 01:13:06,592 {\an1}Like, even going into this, I already knew I was already, 1909 01:13:06,674 --> 01:13:07,934 {\an1}like, running on fumes. - Yeah. 1910 01:13:08,050 --> 01:13:09,760 {\an1}- And I know I’m not my best self. 1911 01:13:09,844 --> 01:13:12,603 {\an1}And I think I’m sorry that that definitely affected you. 1912 01:13:12,722 --> 01:13:15,102 {\an1}But there’s so much that works with us. 1913 01:13:15,182 --> 01:13:16,522 {\an1}I want this to work. 1914 01:13:16,601 --> 01:13:17,981 {\an1}I think it’s just, like, terrifying 1915 01:13:18,102 --> 01:13:20,602 {\an1}that I don’t know how to make it work. 1916 01:13:20,688 --> 01:13:22,108 {\an1}And I think we need to, like, just sit down 1917 01:13:22,189 --> 01:13:23,859 {\an1}and find that solution, find that compromise 1918 01:13:23,941 --> 01:13:24,941 {\an1}with each other. 1919 01:13:25,026 --> 01:13:26,526 {\an1}And hopefully it’s something that truly works 1920 01:13:26,611 --> 01:13:29,611 {\an1}for both of us, that we don’t feel like we’re not able to be 1921 01:13:29,739 --> 01:13:31,489 {\an1}the people we want to be. 1922 01:13:31,616 --> 01:13:32,566 {\an1}Does that make sense? 1923 01:13:32,657 --> 01:13:34,198 {\an1}Yeah. - [clears throat] 1924 01:13:34,285 --> 01:13:38,125 {\an1}♪ ♪ 1925 01:13:38,205 --> 01:13:41,495 {\an1}- In conclusion, marriage is a lot like dodgeball. 1926 01:13:41,626 --> 01:13:45,296 {\an1}You can either continue to run and not deal with it 1927 01:13:45,379 --> 01:13:48,129 {\an1}and just try to survive, or you can stand your ground, 1928 01:13:48,257 --> 01:13:49,927 {\an1}catch the damn ball. 1929 01:13:50,009 --> 01:13:51,969 {\an1}- That’s actually very profound. 1930 01:13:52,053 --> 01:13:53,973 {\an1}That was beautiful. - It was. 1931 01:13:54,055 --> 01:13:56,105 {\an1}- When he scores, he scores. 1932 01:13:56,182 --> 01:13:58,022 {\an1}[all shouting] 1933 01:13:58,142 --> 01:14:00,892 {\an1}- Wow, Mitch, you say one good one here and there. 1934 01:14:12,531 --> 01:14:15,161 {\an1}- Dodgeball. Did you bring the wrenches to practice? 1935 01:14:15,242 --> 01:14:16,162 {\an1}- Yeah. 1936 01:14:16,243 --> 01:14:18,833 {\an1}- Got the grenades, TNT, everything. 1937 01:14:18,913 --> 01:14:21,043 {\an1}Okay, so, Miguel, you’re gonna be captain. 1938 01:14:21,165 --> 01:14:22,365 {\an1}I’m captain. 1939 01:14:22,500 --> 01:14:25,090 {\an1}And then we divvy up and do the thing. 1940 01:14:25,169 --> 01:14:26,339 {\an1}- Yeah, dope. 1941 01:14:26,462 --> 01:14:29,512 {\an1}- Yeah, so let’s keep the wives and husbands separate. 1942 01:14:29,590 --> 01:14:31,180 {\an1}So I’ll be red, and you guys be blue. 1943 01:14:31,258 --> 01:14:32,298 {\an1}- Okay. 1944 01:14:32,385 --> 01:14:33,684 {\an1}- So I’m already on Miguel’s team. 1945 01:14:33,761 --> 01:14:34,851 {\an1}- Let’s go. 1946 01:14:34,929 --> 01:14:37,599 {\an1}- We’re gonna kill them! - Great. 1947 01:14:37,682 --> 01:14:39,352 {\an1}Too much [bleep] competitive athletic ones. 1948 01:14:39,433 --> 01:14:41,353 {\an1}- I’m gonna go with Krysten. - My man. 1949 01:14:41,477 --> 01:14:43,847 {\an1}- I’m gonna go with Mitch. [laughter] 1950 01:14:43,980 --> 01:14:45,860 {\an1}- All right, then I’ll take Justin, 1951 01:14:45,982 --> 01:14:47,362 {\an1}so that way, there’s women. 1952 01:14:47,441 --> 01:14:48,611 {\an1}- Alexis! 1953 01:14:48,693 --> 01:14:50,993 {\an1}- Because otherwise, it’s like all the women on this side. 1954 01:14:51,070 --> 01:14:53,950 {\an1}- Yes, you were my first pick. - Don’t be scared now. 1955 01:14:54,031 --> 01:14:56,531 {\an1}- This is the dream team right here--assemble. 1956 01:14:56,617 --> 01:14:59,157 {\an1}- I’m on the dream team. Finally, I’m on the dream team. 1957 01:14:59,245 --> 01:15:00,755 {\an1}Don’t read into that, wife. Don’t read into that. 1958 01:15:00,871 --> 01:15:01,960 {\an1}You’re my dream team. 1959 01:15:02,039 --> 01:15:05,669 {\an1}- The first rule of dodgeball is there are no rules. 1960 01:15:05,751 --> 01:15:07,960 {\an1}- You guys look defeated already. 1961 01:15:08,045 --> 01:15:12,335 {\an1}♪ ♪ 1962 01:15:12,425 --> 01:15:14,805 {\an1}- Go! - Oh, my God! 1963 01:15:14,885 --> 01:15:17,045 {\an1}[all shouting] 1964 01:15:17,179 --> 01:15:20,179 {\an1}- Oh, [bleep]. I’m out. [bleep]. 1965 01:15:20,266 --> 01:15:21,886 {\an1}- Where you at? Where you at? 1966 01:15:21,976 --> 01:15:24,896 {\an1}Let’s go, Miguel. - Yeah! 1967 01:15:24,978 --> 01:15:25,898 {\an1}- Am I back in now? 1968 01:15:25,980 --> 01:15:27,559 {\an1}♪ ♪ 1969 01:15:27,690 --> 01:15:29,320 {\an1}- Are you still in? 1970 01:15:29,400 --> 01:15:30,110 {\an1}- Got your ass. - Yes! 1971 01:15:30,234 --> 01:15:32,534 {\an1}- A [bleep] plan. - Catch it! 1972 01:15:32,611 --> 01:15:35,701 {\an1}- I’m back in. I’m back. - Lindy’s strategy is good. 1973 01:15:35,781 --> 01:15:37,321 {\an1}- Let’s go, baby. - That’s her second catch. 1974 01:15:37,407 --> 01:15:39,577 {\an1}- You scared? You scared? - Oh. 1975 01:15:39,660 --> 01:15:40,910 {\an1}♪ ♪ 1976 01:15:40,995 --> 01:15:43,545 {\an1}- Oh, I got it. - You stand there. 1977 01:15:43,621 --> 01:15:44,541 {\an1}Yeah! 1978 01:15:44,623 --> 01:15:46,333 {\an1}- [bleep], get your ass out of here, boy. 1979 01:15:46,416 --> 01:15:49,087 {\an1}- Let’s go. High and low. High and low. High and low. 1980 01:15:49,170 --> 01:15:50,380 {\an1}♪ ♪ 1981 01:15:50,463 --> 01:15:53,423 {\an1}- Right in the gonads. - [bleep]! 1982 01:15:53,507 --> 01:15:55,087 {\an1}- Right in the [bleep]! - In the gonads. 1983 01:15:55,175 --> 01:15:56,755 {\an1}That’s game. You guys won, yeah. 1984 01:15:56,886 --> 01:15:58,755 {\an1}- Love that strategy. - All right, game two. 1985 01:15:58,846 --> 01:16:00,096 {\an1}Game two. 1986 01:16:00,181 --> 01:16:07,271 {\an1}♪ ♪ 1987 01:16:08,647 --> 01:16:10,067 {\an1}- Oh! Whaaah! 1988 01:16:10,148 --> 01:16:11,228 {\an1}- We’re winning. 1989 01:16:11,317 --> 01:16:13,107 {\an1}We were dominating, demolishing, if you will. 1990 01:16:13,193 --> 01:16:14,443 {\an1}- What the [bleep]? 1991 01:16:14,570 --> 01:16:15,610 {\an1}- Adorable. 1992 01:16:15,696 --> 01:16:16,606 {\an1}- My wife! 1993 01:16:16,739 --> 01:16:19,279 {\an1}- Nice throw! 1994 01:16:19,366 --> 01:16:21,026 {\an1}- Nate’s killer, throwing the beams. 1995 01:16:21,118 --> 01:16:21,987 {\an1}I was like, "Oh, jeez." 1996 01:16:22,119 --> 01:16:23,999 {\an1}Lindy, her catches... 1997 01:16:24,121 --> 01:16:26,581 {\an1}- The catcher. - Yeah, she’s great at that. 1998 01:16:26,665 --> 01:16:28,875 {\an1}The catcher. The catcher. 1999 01:16:28,959 --> 01:16:31,629 {\an1}- Mitch, eh, he could have been the mascot. 2000 01:16:31,754 --> 01:16:33,594 {\an1}No, I’m kidding. 2001 01:16:33,672 --> 01:16:34,632 {\an1}- Oh! - Oh, you’re out. 2002 01:16:34,715 --> 01:16:35,835 {\an1}- I’m out. 2003 01:16:35,966 --> 01:16:37,296 {\an1}- I got you, Mitch. - Oh, yes. 2004 01:16:37,425 --> 01:16:38,425 {\an1}- Oh, you’re back in. - Nate’s back in. 2005 01:16:38,511 --> 01:16:40,641 {\an1}You were first one out. - Oh, let’s go. 2006 01:16:40,721 --> 01:16:43,021 {\an1}- Wait, is it just me? - Miguel versus the world. 2007 01:16:43,139 --> 01:16:45,139 {\an1}- Get them at the same time. One, two. 2008 01:16:45,226 --> 01:16:47,136 {\an1}- [grunts] 2009 01:16:47,228 --> 01:16:49,148 {\an1}- Oh, [bleep]. That was me being lazy. 2010 01:16:49,230 --> 01:16:50,809 {\an1}- Nate is still hold down the fort. 2011 01:16:50,898 --> 01:16:53,228 {\an1}- Nate versus Miguel, the showdown. 2012 01:16:53,317 --> 01:16:54,817 {\an1}♪ ♪ 2013 01:16:54,902 --> 01:16:55,782 {\an1}- Weak. 2014 01:16:55,861 --> 01:16:57,321 {\an1}- All right, now you got all the balls. 2015 01:16:57,404 --> 01:16:58,204 {\an1}- Get him. Get him. Get him. 2016 01:16:58,322 --> 01:16:59,742 {\an1}One after the other, rapid fire. 2017 01:16:59,824 --> 01:17:01,454 {\an1}- Damn, babe, who’s side are you on? 2018 01:17:01,534 --> 01:17:02,624 {\an1}- I’m on my side, baby. 2019 01:17:02,701 --> 01:17:04,331 {\an1}- I’m on your side, too, though. 2020 01:17:04,411 --> 01:17:05,621 {\an1}- Not today. 2021 01:17:05,704 --> 01:17:06,794 {\an1}- So I’m under the bus? 2022 01:17:06,871 --> 01:17:10,132 {\an1}All right, got it. It’s good to know these things. 2023 01:17:10,209 --> 01:17:12,499 {\an1}- Well, come on. We’re just playing a game. 2024 01:17:12,585 --> 01:17:15,666 {\an1}♪ ♪ 2025 01:17:15,755 --> 01:17:17,296 {\an1}- That’s for Justin. 2026 01:17:17,383 --> 01:17:18,803 {\an1}- How does it feel to be a loser? 2027 01:17:18,884 --> 01:17:20,844 {\an1}- It stings. It sucks. 2028 01:17:20,928 --> 01:17:22,508 {\an1}- Yeah, a little affirmation to your husband 2029 01:17:22,596 --> 01:17:23,846 {\an1}ain’t gonna kill you. 2030 01:17:23,931 --> 01:17:24,971 {\an1}- Come on. 2031 01:17:25,057 --> 01:17:28,977 {\an1}- Miguel had, like, I would call it an outburst, 2032 01:17:29,061 --> 01:17:32,311 {\an1}since that word has been used so frequently for me, 2033 01:17:32,398 --> 01:17:34,438 {\an1}I’m gonna throw it right back 2034 01:17:34,525 --> 01:17:37,825 {\an1}so that people understand that he just had a [bleep] outburst. 2035 01:17:37,903 --> 01:17:39,862 {\an1}- A little cheerleading to your husband, you know, 2036 01:17:39,947 --> 01:17:41,027 {\an1}that’ll go a long way. 2037 01:17:41,115 --> 01:17:42,575 {\an1}Words of affirmation, Lindy. 2038 01:17:42,700 --> 01:17:44,120 {\an1}- It’s just kind of another point 2039 01:17:44,201 --> 01:17:46,041 {\an1}where I’m, like, feeling filtered, 2040 01:17:46,120 --> 01:17:47,870 {\an1}feeling like I said the wrong thing. 2041 01:17:47,996 --> 01:17:50,367 {\an1}And this weekend has just been full of that. 2042 01:17:50,457 --> 01:17:51,246 {\an1}I’m just defeated. 2043 01:17:51,375 --> 01:17:53,785 {\an1}I just feel like a piece of [bleep]. 2044 01:17:53,878 --> 01:17:54,418 {\an1}♪ ♪ 2045 01:17:58,215 --> 01:18:03,635 {\an1}♪ ♪ 2046 01:18:03,721 --> 01:18:05,431 {\an1}- Nice job, team. - Yeah. 2047 01:18:05,556 --> 01:18:07,466 {\an1}- We really killed it. 2048 01:18:07,558 --> 01:18:09,058 {\an1}♪ ♪ 2049 01:18:09,184 --> 01:18:10,815 {\an1}Feel like some feelings were hurt. 2050 01:18:10,895 --> 01:18:12,445 {\an1}- I do, too. - Yeah. 2051 01:18:12,563 --> 01:18:14,403 {\an1}- I wasn’t even paying attention. 2052 01:18:14,481 --> 01:18:15,771 {\an1}I thought we were-- - ’Cause you were in the game. 2053 01:18:15,900 --> 01:18:17,070 {\an1}- Yeah. I was just talking [bleep]. 2054 01:18:17,193 --> 01:18:18,903 {\an1}- That’s what you do, like, when you’re playing a game. 2055 01:18:19,028 --> 01:18:20,398 {\an1}You [bleep]-talk, and you banter--yeah. 2056 01:18:20,487 --> 01:18:21,447 {\an1}- You encourage your teammates, 2057 01:18:21,572 --> 01:18:23,202 {\an1}and you talk [bleep] to your opponents. 2058 01:18:23,282 --> 01:18:24,992 {\an1}- Yeah, but I do feel bad that, you know, 2059 01:18:25,075 --> 01:18:27,405 {\an1}he felt like I was not on his team. 2060 01:18:27,494 --> 01:18:30,084 {\an1}But at the same time, I’m really not--I’m not. 2061 01:18:30,164 --> 01:18:31,424 {\an1}And, like, this is the only time 2062 01:18:31,540 --> 01:18:33,630 {\an1}I’m physically not on his team. - Yeah, it’s red versus blue. 2063 01:18:33,751 --> 01:18:35,591 {\an1}- I’m very competitive. He knows that about me. 2064 01:18:35,710 --> 01:18:36,921 {\an1}I get crazy. 2065 01:18:37,004 --> 01:18:38,054 {\an1}- Maybe you can just play it down, 2066 01:18:38,130 --> 01:18:40,590 {\an1}and it’ll be over or... - No, no. 2067 01:18:40,674 --> 01:18:42,434 {\an1}- There’s, like, residual emotion from the night. 2068 01:18:42,550 --> 01:18:43,761 {\an1}- I think so, too. - Of course. 2069 01:18:43,886 --> 01:18:45,425 {\an1}This is, like, there’s so much build-up. 2070 01:18:45,554 --> 01:18:48,434 {\an1}Like, we’re so exhausted from all the emotional stuff 2071 01:18:48,514 --> 01:18:50,594 {\an1}that’s happened this weekend, so he’s sensitive right now. 2072 01:18:50,726 --> 01:18:52,136 {\an1}- Do you think he would have received 2073 01:18:52,269 --> 01:18:53,559 {\an1}it better if you guys didn’t have 2074 01:18:53,646 --> 01:18:54,856 {\an1}such an emotional weekend? - Yes. 2075 01:18:54,939 --> 01:18:56,609 {\an1}Yeah. - Yeah. 2076 01:18:56,690 --> 01:18:59,320 {\an1}- That’s not, like, normal Miguel’s reaction to something 2077 01:18:59,443 --> 01:19:00,612 {\an1}that’s lighthearted. 2078 01:19:00,736 --> 01:19:02,356 {\an1}This is just him at his wit’s end. 2079 01:19:02,446 --> 01:19:05,026 {\an1}He’s so exhausted emotionally, physically, all of it. 2080 01:19:05,115 --> 01:19:07,825 {\an1}- Like, you know how lively Lindy can get sometimes, 2081 01:19:07,952 --> 01:19:09,791 {\an1}and this is something I’m still trying to learn. 2082 01:19:09,870 --> 01:19:13,830 {\an1}She’s not necessarily yelling, but her tone does go high. 2083 01:19:13,958 --> 01:19:16,077 {\an1}And she does get, you know, animated. 2084 01:19:16,168 --> 01:19:18,298 {\an1}And I kind of, like, start to shut down a little bit 2085 01:19:18,379 --> 01:19:19,799 {\an1}or start to, like, try to de-escalate. 2086 01:19:19,880 --> 01:19:21,719 {\an1}But then in the sense, I’m censoring myself, 2087 01:19:21,799 --> 01:19:23,469 {\an1}and I’m feeling like, "[bleep], I didn’t really get the thing 2088 01:19:23,592 --> 01:19:25,302 {\an1}that I wanted to say out," because I was, 2089 01:19:25,427 --> 01:19:27,177 {\an1}like, I don’t know, "walking on eggshells" mode or whatever. 2090 01:19:27,304 --> 01:19:28,264 {\an1}- Yes, yes. 2091 01:19:28,347 --> 01:19:30,017 {\an1}- This is such an intense, like, process. 2092 01:19:30,139 --> 01:19:31,480 {\an1}And I don’t know how to support him 2093 01:19:31,558 --> 01:19:32,678 {\an1}and how to be there for him. 2094 01:19:32,809 --> 01:19:34,559 {\an1}And I have to learn that. both: Yeah. 2095 01:19:34,645 --> 01:19:36,315 {\an1}- And he was saying that he kind of needs 2096 01:19:36,397 --> 01:19:38,017 {\an1}to learn that, too, right? - Yeah, of course. 2097 01:19:38,148 --> 01:19:39,978 {\an1}We can’t expect to be perfect right off the bat. 2098 01:19:40,067 --> 01:19:42,317 {\an1}Like, it takes time. 2099 01:19:42,403 --> 01:19:45,282 {\an1}- Yeah, much more time. - [sniffles] 2100 01:19:45,364 --> 01:19:47,284 {\an1}- What’s going on? - [crying] I don’t know. 2101 01:19:47,366 --> 01:19:49,326 {\an1}I just can’t keep it under wraps anymore. 2102 01:19:49,451 --> 01:19:52,501 {\an1}It just feels like me being myself is just, like-- 2103 01:19:52,621 --> 01:19:54,460 {\an1}it’s never right with Miguel. 2104 01:19:54,540 --> 01:19:57,210 {\an1}I can’t open my mouth. I can’t joke around. 2105 01:19:57,334 --> 01:19:58,504 {\an1}I can’t be supportive. 2106 01:19:58,627 --> 01:20:00,666 {\an1}Like, everything I do is not right. 2107 01:20:00,796 --> 01:20:02,376 {\an1}It just feels kind of blindsiding, 2108 01:20:02,505 --> 01:20:04,925 {\an1}’cause this whole time, I thought we were doing so well. 2109 01:20:05,009 --> 01:20:06,679 {\an1}- It’s like a vicious cycle ’cause you start, like, 2110 01:20:06,802 --> 01:20:09,012 {\an1}despising almost a person you’re because, 2111 01:20:09,096 --> 01:20:11,005 {\an1}but then you can’t help remove yourself from it. 2112 01:20:11,139 --> 01:20:13,020 {\an1}You’re just, like, locked in and very reactive. 2113 01:20:13,142 --> 01:20:14,562 {\an1}And I hate being like that. 2114 01:20:14,684 --> 01:20:16,985 {\an1}- I want to say I do see a change in Miguel, 2115 01:20:17,062 --> 01:20:19,022 {\an1}but I can’t say that I do. 2116 01:20:19,106 --> 01:20:21,856 {\an1}I think he’s still trying to get through the eight weeks. 2117 01:20:21,984 --> 01:20:23,154 {\an1}- These things keep happening, 2118 01:20:23,235 --> 01:20:24,775 {\an1}and I keep feeling disconnected. 2119 01:20:24,862 --> 01:20:26,862 {\an1}And I’m like, "Well, you’re not really getting me." 2120 01:20:26,947 --> 01:20:28,367 {\an1}- Lindy is dramatic, she’s emotional. 2121 01:20:28,449 --> 01:20:30,119 {\an1}So it’s probably tough for Miguel. 2122 01:20:30,200 --> 01:20:31,620 {\an1}He’s probably not used to dealing 2123 01:20:31,702 --> 01:20:32,832 {\an1}with somebody like that. 2124 01:20:32,911 --> 01:20:36,541 {\an1}And I just don’t know if they’re meant to be together. 2125 01:20:36,665 --> 01:20:38,705 {\an1}♪ ♪ 2126 01:20:38,791 --> 01:20:42,252 {\an1}- I feel so beat down because I’m trying to, like, learn. 2127 01:20:42,379 --> 01:20:44,049 {\an1}He tells me one thing that I did wrong, 2128 01:20:44,173 --> 01:20:45,343 {\an1}and then I try to implement it. 2129 01:20:45,424 --> 01:20:47,054 {\an1}But while I’m implementing that, 2130 01:20:47,134 --> 01:20:48,844 {\an1}I’m doing six more things that are out of line, 2131 01:20:48,927 --> 01:20:50,597 {\an1}and I’m disrespecting him. 2132 01:20:50,721 --> 01:20:53,271 {\an1}And I think the hardest part is, like, 2133 01:20:53,389 --> 01:20:55,559 {\an1}he pulls away from me in these moments 2134 01:20:55,684 --> 01:20:59,273 {\an1}and just, like--and that’s my issue, the rejection. 2135 01:20:59,396 --> 01:21:01,106 {\an1}That’s, like, the most painful thing 2136 01:21:01,231 --> 01:21:03,071 {\an1}you can do when I’m trying to connect with you 2137 01:21:03,192 --> 01:21:04,322 {\an1}and understand you. 2138 01:21:04,401 --> 01:21:08,321 {\an1}And he just, like, "No. Like, I don’t want to hug you. 2139 01:21:08,405 --> 01:21:10,235 {\an1}Like, I don’t want to be around you." 2140 01:21:10,324 --> 01:21:11,164 {\an1}- I mean, here’s the thing-- 2141 01:21:11,241 --> 01:21:13,241 {\an1}like, I’m very much in love with her. 2142 01:21:13,327 --> 01:21:14,947 {\an1}I want to continue on with her, but I don’t know. 2143 01:21:15,079 --> 01:21:16,749 {\an1}It’s terrifying, right, ’cause sometimes 2144 01:21:16,830 --> 01:21:18,620 {\an1}we like to think, like, "Oh, if we just love each other, 2145 01:21:18,749 --> 01:21:19,749 {\an1}it’ll all work out." 2146 01:21:19,875 --> 01:21:21,745 {\an1}Then [bleep] reality just throws it on your face, 2147 01:21:21,835 --> 01:21:23,085 {\an1}like, "No." 2148 01:21:23,212 --> 01:21:26,302 {\an1}- My worry is that he’s, like, been harboring stuff all along. 2149 01:21:26,423 --> 01:21:28,093 {\an1}And now he just hit his limit. 2150 01:21:28,175 --> 01:21:31,184 {\an1}He told me, he’s like, "I don’t know--I might be done." 2151 01:21:31,261 --> 01:21:32,721 {\an1}Like, that’s where he goes. 2152 01:21:32,805 --> 01:21:34,764 {\an1}He takes it, like, so far, 2153 01:21:34,848 --> 01:21:37,098 {\an1}and our relationship has been so good. 2154 01:21:37,226 --> 01:21:39,016 {\an1}And there’s one thing that’s wrong, 2155 01:21:39,103 --> 01:21:41,773 {\an1}and he’s, like, ready to [bleep] bounce. 2156 01:21:41,855 --> 01:21:44,605 {\an1}- How do we just get to a place where we’re both happy? 2157 01:21:44,691 --> 01:21:46,741 {\an1}I think it’s just whether we’re the right people 2158 01:21:46,818 --> 01:21:47,818 {\an1}for each other. 2159 01:21:47,945 --> 01:21:49,825 {\an1}- This weekend has been [bleep] awful for me, 2160 01:21:49,947 --> 01:21:51,447 {\an1}like, the worst ever. 2161 01:21:51,532 --> 01:21:53,371 {\an1}Like, I can’t do it anymore. 2162 01:21:53,450 --> 01:21:54,780 {\an1}♪ ♪ 2163 01:21:54,868 --> 01:21:56,288 {\an1}I can’t be the punching bag anymore. 2164 01:21:56,370 --> 01:21:59,790 {\an1}♪ ♪ 2165 01:21:59,873 --> 01:22:02,633 {\an1}- I don’t know how we overcome this. 2166 01:22:02,709 --> 01:22:06,129 {\an1}♪ ♪ 2167 01:22:06,213 --> 01:22:09,633 {\an1}- Next time on "Married at First Sight"... 2168 01:22:09,716 --> 01:22:11,966 {\an1}- Oh, yeah. We about to get lit. 2169 01:22:12,052 --> 01:22:14,642 {\an1}- Our couples have just over a week left 2170 01:22:14,721 --> 01:22:17,641 {\an1}to determine if their marriages are right for them. 2171 01:22:17,766 --> 01:22:20,346 {\an1}- I can’t imagine my life without you 2172 01:22:20,477 --> 01:22:22,847 {\an1}now that I’ve had you. 2173 01:22:22,980 --> 01:22:23,980 {\an1}- I do love you so much, 2174 01:22:24,064 --> 01:22:27,034 {\an1}and I want to figure out how to make this work. 2175 01:22:27,151 --> 01:22:29,991 {\an1}- I had to make a choice, but it was hard. 2176 01:22:30,070 --> 01:22:32,240 {\an1}♪ ♪ 2177 01:22:32,322 --> 01:22:34,162 {\an1}- Were there any cute girls on this trip? 2178 01:22:34,241 --> 01:22:36,831 {\an1}- There’s always cute girls in the beach world. 2179 01:22:36,910 --> 01:22:39,330 {\an1}It’s really a lot of girls. - Is your ring in the car? 2180 01:22:39,413 --> 01:22:41,333 {\an1}- No, it’s right here. Sorry. 2181 01:22:41,415 --> 01:22:42,835 {\an1}♪ ♪ 2182 01:22:42,916 --> 01:22:44,666 {\an1}- I just feel like I was played. 2183 01:22:44,793 --> 01:22:49,343 {\an1}- I think Alexis is immature, and I think she’s just a liar. 2184 01:22:49,423 --> 01:22:51,683 {\an1}- This is so important to you, babe. 2185 01:22:51,800 --> 01:22:54,510 {\an1}I’m happy being Elloway forever. 2186 01:22:54,636 --> 01:22:55,846 {\an1}But you’re-- 2187 01:22:55,971 --> 01:22:56,931 {\an1}- We can keep it like that, then. 2188 01:22:57,014 --> 01:22:59,684 {\an1}- If things were to get bad, where do I go? 2189 01:22:59,808 --> 01:23:02,598 {\an1}- [sobbing] 2190 01:23:02,686 --> 01:23:06,396 {\an1}♪ ♪