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- Nice to meet you.
- You too.
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Pleasure.
- We shake hands?
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- [laughs]
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- 10 fearless singles
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Took a daring leap of faith
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In order to find love.
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They married
as complete strangers.
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[cheers and applause]
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And in just over a week,
they'll have to decide
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Whether they want
to stay married
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Or get a divorce.
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[dramatic music]
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- Oh, my gosh!
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- Last time, our couples
embarked on a retreat
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In hopes of strengthening
their marriage
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Before decision day.
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- ♪ flash, flash, polaroid ♪
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♪ picking up steam ♪
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- Stacia and nate.
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[buzzing]
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- [breathes deeply]
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- You guys have
vibrating panties on
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Or something?
- What? What?
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- He's got the little
remote control.
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- She's suffering right now,
but it feels good.
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- Oh!
He likes to see me suffer.
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- It's pretty hot.
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- Krysten and mitch.
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- This is, like,
the most fun I've had
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Since we all met each other.
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For me, it was just a blast.
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And I love spending time
with you guys.
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And I love spending time
with mitch too.
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- Thanks, babe.
I had a great time too.
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- Alexis and justin.
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- For me, it's just like,
I don't have to
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Go through some things
to realize, like,
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Oh, I see how that
may have made me feel.
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I'm not that type of learner.
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- Remember that--that thing
where I told you
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I'm worried about you quitting?
- Yeah.
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- I feel like that's
what that's gonna be.
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♪ ♪
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- Lindy and miguel.
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- That [bleep] doesn't fly,
ever.
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You don't talk to me
like that, ever.
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A little affirmation
to your husband
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Ain't gonna kill you.
- [sighs] come on.
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[crying]
everything I do is not right.
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He told me--he's like,
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"I don't know,
I might be done."
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♪ ♪
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- ♪ too fast, too fly,
too... ♪
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- And tonight...
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- You got it!
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- Our couples must face
the reality
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Of their daily lives together
in the present...
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- We are lit.
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- In order to figure out
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If their marriage
is right for them
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In the future.
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- I do love you so much.
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And I want to figure out
how to make this work.
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- Are there any cute girls
on this trip?
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- There's always cute girls
in the beach world.
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It's really a lot of girls.
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- Is your ring in the car?
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- No. It's right here, sorry.
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[dramatic music]
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- It is one [bleep] week away.
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You either know, or you don't.
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- If things were to get bad,
I'll be homeless.
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♪ ♪
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I had to make a choice.
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And boy, it was hard.
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♪ ♪
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- He just shuts down
and pushes me away
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And makes me feel like
a [bleep] piece of [bleep]
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Over and over and over again.
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I'm [bleep]
at my breaking point.
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♪ ♪
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- ♪ it's all or nothing ♪
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- This is
"married at first sight."
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- ♪ there's no other way ♪
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♪ ♪
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♪ it's all or nothing ♪
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[upbeat music]
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- ♪ you are killing me
slowly ♪
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♪ I am still trying
to rewind the time ♪
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♪ ♪
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- Usually, right
when things happen,
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I have a sense of where to go
to find the solution.
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But when I hit a wall,
it's tough for me.
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I look back at how I was
this week,
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And there were moments
where I was just nasty.
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- It's no secret
miguel and lindy
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Have definitely had a different
weekend than the rest of us.
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You know, they weren't around
at dinner last night.
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They--I think they got in
a little bit of a fight before.
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So they weren't in a great
headspace coming in.
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And also, miguel's just--
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I think he's just reaching
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His wit's end on some stuff.
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- You know, I was just like,
"don't touch me.
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Like, I don't want
to talk right now."
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And that's not me.
- Yeah.
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- I just hit a wall.
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- I don't know,
it just sounds like
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He's got real specific
expectations
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Of how she needs to be
and how his wife needs to be.
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And you know,
she's not a subservient wife.
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Yeah, that's never
gonna be good.
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- It just has thrown me
for such a loop.
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Because I thought
I knew this person.
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And I'm happy that he's letting
his guard down
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And letting me see
real parts of him.
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But there's a certain cost.
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Like, he still needs
to respect me.
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And if I feel like
I'm just being disrespected
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And misunderstood over
and over and over again,
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Like, that's not conducive.
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- Yeah.
- And I feel like
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If I act out of line,
and he does this,
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Then it's like--it's, like,
training me to just be like...
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[rapid breathing] okay, miguel.
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Oh...
- Yeah.
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- Oh, I can't speak.
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And I can't feel filtered
like that.
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So I don't know
where the compromise is.
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And that's where we're at.
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We don't know
where the compromise is.
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♪ ♪
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- Justin has said
a lot of these things to me.
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- Yeah.
- But what worked for us is,
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The compromise,
we had to figure out
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In the moment.
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So once we're feeling it
happen again,
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We'll try something
and be like, oh, [bleep],
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That didn't work, and then
go back to the drawing board.
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You know, like, it's
not always clear as day
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As, this is what we need to do.
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- Yeah, we don't have answers.
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- So just keep fighting
for each other.
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And I know
you guys can do that.
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- At the end of the day,
he does have to accept you
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For all of you,
you know what I mean?
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I mean, that's just marriage.
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Like, we'll all go through
that, of like,
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This conflict between, like,
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I need to still be myself
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And do things
that make me happy,
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But I also need
to be your husband...
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- Mm-hmm.
- Like, be a great husband.
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It's just this constant--
- gotta learn how to balance.
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- Constant fight
of keeping your identity
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And keeping who you were,
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But also changing
and growing...
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- Yeah, being flexible.
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- And like,
it's so exhausting.
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- And what can you compromise,
and where can you bend,
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But where can you not?
And like--
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- I truly think it's teamwork.
- Yeah.
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- I truly think
it's partnership, you know?
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And, like, you just gotta learn
how to cohabitate
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And work together.
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- Yeah, because at the end
of the day, like you said,
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He's gotta accept me
for who I am.
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And I can't be second guessing
and questioning
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Before I ever open my mouth.
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Because that's just--
like, that's control.
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- Yeah.
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- [crying]
and that's another one of my--
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I can't be controlled, so--
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- Samesies, girl.
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Samesies.
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- I'm standing up for myself,
and I'm not gonna let him
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Control my narrative
and how I speak
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And who I am.
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He doesn't have that ability.
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He doesn't get that.
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He either sees me
and accepts me,
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Or he doesn't want me.
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♪ ♪
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[somber music]
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♪ ♪
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- Do you wanna be alone?
Or is it okay if I join you?
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♪ ♪
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- You were angry at me.
I could feel it.
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Am I making that up?
- No, you're not making it up.
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I was annoyed.
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- Well, I just sat there
for 45 minutes
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Crying to our friends.
- Mm-hmm.
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- Because I--I was like,
"I did it again."
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I can't even exist
without making him mad
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Or offending him
or disrespecting him.
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It was, like, very harsh.
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- Right. I'm sorry.
- Very harsh.
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- Okay.
- Like, scary harsh.
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Like, I don't even want
to get in the car with you
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After that encounter.
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I'm not bound down to this man.
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So we either do this
and explode,
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Or we do this and this.
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And we figure out
how we can make it work.
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And I don't know right now.
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Because at this point,
I'm filtering myself so much.
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And this is--
this is my trigger.
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- Just please know that it
wasn't that I was that angry.
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- But you were annoyed.
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- I was annoyed.
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And I was--and I was annoyed.
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And I think my heart rate
was definitely elevated.
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And I was, like, riled up
because of the game.
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- Thank you.
- Yeah.
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- Okay.
- Yeah.
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- That's--that's
what I needed to hear.
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Because you discounted
my reality.
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- No, well--
- it made me second-guess
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What I was experiencing.
- No, no, no, no.
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You definitely perceived it.
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You perceived it right.
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I think it's just
that, like, you--
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I just want to make sure
that you understand
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That I was not--
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The level that you perceived
me, of anger, that was not--
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- I understand.
- Okay.
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Yeah.
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- Yes.
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Thank you.
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[breathes deeply]
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♪ ♪
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- With the retreat
coming to an end,
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We hope the couples have taken
this time to really think
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About what they've learned
from their spouses
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And the other couples,
as well as what it all means
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For their individual marriages.
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And with the clock ticking
towards decision day,
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Now is the time to examine
the marriage from every angle,
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Leaving no stone unturned,
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Because in just over a week,
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They'll have to make
that life-altering decision
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To stay married
or get a divorce.
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- All right.
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[quirky music]
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I'm ready to get back
to civilization.
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- How do you feel, overall,
this weekend went?
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♪ ♪
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- It went amazing to me.
- Yeah.
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- For others, not so amazing.
But for us...
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- Exactly.
- Good.
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♪ ♪
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- I'm always sad when--
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When other couples
are going through it,
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Like lindy and miguel.
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But I have to remember
that sometimes, like us,
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When you hit a very big wall,
and there's a breakthrough,
257
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It's good.
258
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So I have all the faith
in the world.
259
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But I was just sad to see them
going through it, you know?
260
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But we're all gonna
go through it.
261
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♪ ♪
262
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- Nate was talking
about how stacia is a freak,
263
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And he's glad.
264
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And I was like, dang,
265
00:08:45,692 --> 00:08:47,359
I wish I could be freaky
and stuff.
266
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♪ ♪
267
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- You can be freaky, baby.
268
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- We have, like, you know,
like, different issues.
269
00:08:54,350 --> 00:08:56,034
- You mean just that one time?
- [laughs]
270
00:08:56,185 --> 00:08:57,536
- That was one time, girl.
271
00:08:57,763 --> 00:08:59,186
- I mean--
- that ain't happening--
272
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That was literally one time.
- Okay.
273
00:09:01,767 --> 00:09:03,691
- The only thing--
the only thing I'm gonna--
274
00:09:03,785 --> 00:09:05,285
I'm really gonna work on
is my stamina.
275
00:09:05,379 --> 00:09:06,193
I'm gonna take it more serious
276
00:09:06,288 --> 00:09:07,695
With hitting that treadmill.
277
00:09:07,714 --> 00:09:10,048
- They got any machines
where it helps the thrust?
278
00:09:10,275 --> 00:09:14,702
♪ ♪
279
00:09:14,721 --> 00:09:16,054
- ♪ can I give it to you ♪
280
00:09:16,205 --> 00:09:17,797
♪ oh, oh ♪
281
00:09:17,949 --> 00:09:20,466
♪ let me give it to you,
oh-oh-oh ♪
282
00:09:20,561 --> 00:09:21,893
♪ can I give it to you? ♪
283
00:09:22,045 --> 00:09:23,787
♪ oh, oh, oh ♪
284
00:09:23,880 --> 00:09:25,063
♪ let me give it to you ♪
285
00:09:25,290 --> 00:09:27,381
- Home, sweet home.
286
00:09:27,401 --> 00:09:29,401
[laughs]
287
00:09:29,552 --> 00:09:31,552
- We're back.
288
00:09:31,646 --> 00:09:33,554
I'm just gonna start, you know,
289
00:09:33,648 --> 00:09:35,148
Just putting stuff in here.
290
00:09:35,300 --> 00:09:36,299
- Yeah.
291
00:09:36,318 --> 00:09:38,985
- It's good to be home.
292
00:09:39,137 --> 00:09:40,061
- Thank you, honey.
293
00:09:40,080 --> 00:09:41,746
- Yes, ma'am.
294
00:09:41,973 --> 00:09:44,641
- ♪ let me give it to you,
oh-oh-oh ♪
295
00:09:44,734 --> 00:09:45,975
♪ can I give it to you? ♪
296
00:09:45,994 --> 00:09:47,827
♪ oh-oh-oh-oh, oh ♪
297
00:09:47,921 --> 00:09:49,754
♪ can I give it to you? ♪
298
00:09:51,407 --> 00:09:52,406
- Dirties.
299
00:09:52,426 --> 00:09:53,666
- Oh, thank you.
300
00:09:53,760 --> 00:09:54,742
Yeah, let's just throw--
301
00:09:54,836 --> 00:09:56,077
I'll do a load.
- Yeah.
302
00:09:56,171 --> 00:09:58,154
- You just throw in there
what you want me to wash.
303
00:09:58,173 --> 00:10:00,581
- Okay.
304
00:10:00,601 --> 00:10:05,270
- Did you have any favorite
parts of the weekend?
305
00:10:05,497 --> 00:10:07,272
- Uh...
306
00:10:07,423 --> 00:10:09,441
I feel like you--
you in general
307
00:10:09,592 --> 00:10:10,758
Were my favorite part
of the weekend.
308
00:10:10,777 --> 00:10:12,277
- Aw.
309
00:10:12,428 --> 00:10:14,187
- Because you were just in
a great mood the whole time,
310
00:10:14,281 --> 00:10:15,947
And having a lot of fun.
311
00:10:16,174 --> 00:10:18,265
And I feel like this weekend
gave you a chance
312
00:10:18,285 --> 00:10:21,453
To kind of, like,
extinguish a couple flames
313
00:10:21,604 --> 00:10:24,271
That you hadn't put out
quite yet from--
314
00:10:24,291 --> 00:10:25,624
From our past.
315
00:10:25,775 --> 00:10:27,684
Also just kind of come out
316
00:10:27,777 --> 00:10:29,018
And be really comfortable
and kind of feel
317
00:10:29,112 --> 00:10:30,444
Like you're in your element...
- Yeah.
318
00:10:30,464 --> 00:10:31,963
- And kind of get back
to your--
319
00:10:32,190 --> 00:10:34,615
You know, like, the place
that you want to be.
320
00:10:34,635 --> 00:10:36,542
- Yep.
321
00:10:36,637 --> 00:10:40,380
- And thankfully, on my end,
that place that, you know,
322
00:10:40,532 --> 00:10:45,459
Comfortable, fun krysten is
a version of you I really like.
323
00:10:45,479 --> 00:10:47,979
- Yay!
324
00:10:48,206 --> 00:10:52,058
- I love that part of you,
so I think that's great.
325
00:10:52,152 --> 00:10:53,467
Yeah.
326
00:10:53,561 --> 00:10:55,136
- When are you gonna head off
to your conference?
327
00:10:55,155 --> 00:10:58,214
- As late as possible.
328
00:10:58,233 --> 00:10:59,974
I think me going away,
I think the timing
329
00:10:59,993 --> 00:11:01,976
Is definitely not ideal.
- I know.
330
00:11:02,070 --> 00:11:03,978
- But I think it does
give us a chance
331
00:11:03,997 --> 00:11:06,389
To kind of give
that litmus test
332
00:11:06,482 --> 00:11:07,832
To how we feel, you know?
- Absolutely.
333
00:11:07,984 --> 00:11:09,501
- Like, hopefully,
we miss each other.
334
00:11:09,728 --> 00:11:11,670
Hopefully, we're feeling
like, oh, where's my wife?
335
00:11:11,821 --> 00:11:12,745
You know what I mean?
- Yeah.
336
00:11:12,839 --> 00:11:14,397
- So if that's the way
that it feels,
337
00:11:14,490 --> 00:11:16,323
Then that's gonna
be a really good sign.
338
00:11:16,343 --> 00:11:18,902
And for me also, you know,
even though we're
339
00:11:18,995 --> 00:11:20,345
In this neutral house,
it's like--
340
00:11:20,572 --> 00:11:22,255
It's, like, very much not
really what our life
341
00:11:22,407 --> 00:11:23,497
Would actually be like.
342
00:11:23,591 --> 00:11:26,242
- Yeah.
- And for me,
343
00:11:26,335 --> 00:11:27,427
A lot of this challenge
has been not--
344
00:11:27,521 --> 00:11:30,246
You know,
having a hard time
345
00:11:30,265 --> 00:11:34,192
Thinking about what my new life
with you looks like,
346
00:11:34,419 --> 00:11:36,361
But still having some of those
old elements in it.
347
00:11:36,588 --> 00:11:37,678
- Yeah.
348
00:11:37,698 --> 00:11:38,922
- So, like, I think this
will be good for me,
349
00:11:39,015 --> 00:11:40,699
Of a way to, like,
kind of be married,
350
00:11:40,926 --> 00:11:43,868
But also be old mitch,
single mitch.
351
00:11:44,095 --> 00:11:45,945
♪ ♪
352
00:11:46,039 --> 00:11:48,206
- To be honest, um,
353
00:11:48,357 --> 00:11:50,858
I'm a little worried
about "single mitch."
354
00:11:50,877 --> 00:11:55,880
I know he has to go,
but it doesn't feel like
355
00:11:56,107 --> 00:11:57,865
The best time
for him to be leaving.
356
00:11:57,884 --> 00:12:00,367
Me and luna will be here
at the apartment...
357
00:12:00,462 --> 00:12:02,036
- Aw.
- Awaiting your arrival.
358
00:12:02,130 --> 00:12:03,947
And yeah, I'll try to make sure
359
00:12:04,040 --> 00:12:07,116
You come home to a nice, clean,
dog-hairless--
360
00:12:07,135 --> 00:12:08,042
As much as I can--home.
361
00:12:08,061 --> 00:12:10,119
[laughs]
362
00:12:10,138 --> 00:12:15,716
♪ ♪
363
00:12:15,810 --> 00:12:18,311
- Oh, my god, I'm so tired.
364
00:12:18,463 --> 00:12:21,388
♪ ♪
365
00:12:21,483 --> 00:12:23,074
Definitely happy to be home.
366
00:12:23,301 --> 00:12:24,743
- For real.
367
00:12:24,970 --> 00:12:26,803
- Mm-hmm.
368
00:12:26,896 --> 00:12:28,329
- [grunts]
369
00:12:31,993 --> 00:12:33,734
- I'm so happy
that retreat is over.
370
00:12:33,828 --> 00:12:35,645
I [bleep] hated
every moment of it.
371
00:12:35,663 --> 00:12:36,646
♪ ♪
372
00:12:36,664 --> 00:12:37,830
- It's just terrifying,
you know?
373
00:12:37,924 --> 00:12:39,832
'cause, like, we--
well, I'll speak for myself.
374
00:12:39,985 --> 00:12:41,909
Like, I do love you so much.
375
00:12:42,003 --> 00:12:45,822
And I feel, like,
so strongly for you.
376
00:12:45,840 --> 00:12:49,826
And then to have these issues
kind of terrifies me.
377
00:12:49,844 --> 00:12:51,844
And then I--you know,
and I know you're not
378
00:12:51,938 --> 00:12:53,754
Gonna like to hear this,
but I do start to question,
379
00:12:53,848 --> 00:12:54,922
Like, well, is this even right?
380
00:12:55,016 --> 00:12:56,107
Does this even work?
381
00:12:56,259 --> 00:12:57,258
I shouldn't be feeling
this way.
382
00:12:57,352 --> 00:12:59,502
I shouldn't be making you
feel this way.
383
00:12:59,595 --> 00:13:01,854
And it's just
such a [bleep] feeling.
384
00:13:01,948 --> 00:13:03,506
Um...
385
00:13:03,599 --> 00:13:05,341
And like I said,
I want this to work.
386
00:13:05,360 --> 00:13:08,453
And I want to figure out
how to make this work.
387
00:13:08,604 --> 00:13:10,121
But it is scary
because I don't know,
388
00:13:10,348 --> 00:13:12,606
Like, a part of me
is also thinking at the--
389
00:13:12,700 --> 00:13:13,941
The other side of it, which is,
390
00:13:14,035 --> 00:13:15,852
What if we don't
work through it?
391
00:13:15,870 --> 00:13:18,855
[tense music]
392
00:13:18,873 --> 00:13:19,964
♪ ♪
393
00:13:20,191 --> 00:13:22,449
- I think it just goes back
to fundamentals
394
00:13:22,469 --> 00:13:24,636
Of marriage and love.
- Yeah.
395
00:13:24,863 --> 00:13:27,472
- And to me,
396
00:13:27,699 --> 00:13:31,217
There isn't a question
of if we make sense
397
00:13:31,369 --> 00:13:33,036
Or if you're my person.
- Mm-hmm.
398
00:13:33,129 --> 00:13:35,204
- Divorce isn't even
an option to me.
399
00:13:35,223 --> 00:13:37,131
- Okay.
- So again,
400
00:13:37,225 --> 00:13:38,299
Every time you say,
401
00:13:38,393 --> 00:13:40,059
"I don't even know
if you're my person,"
402
00:13:40,211 --> 00:13:42,061
And, "I don't know
if you make me happy,"
403
00:13:42,155 --> 00:13:44,881
Or whatever the [bleep]
you're saying, all I hear is,
404
00:13:44,899 --> 00:13:46,324
"eh, you're not good enough.
405
00:13:46,475 --> 00:13:48,551
"this is not worth the work.
I want a divorce."
406
00:13:48,644 --> 00:13:50,887
- No, that's--
- and it's the rejection.
407
00:13:50,905 --> 00:13:53,314
You're already thinking, like,
10 steps ahead
408
00:13:53,408 --> 00:13:54,907
When we're having
a tiny little bump.
409
00:13:55,001 --> 00:13:56,483
This isn't even that--
410
00:13:56,503 --> 00:13:58,077
To me, this is like,
yes, it's a big deal,
411
00:13:58,171 --> 00:14:00,413
But it's not unsolvable.
412
00:14:00,565 --> 00:14:02,081
It's not that big of a deal.
413
00:14:02,233 --> 00:14:04,676
We just have to work
through it.
414
00:14:04,903 --> 00:14:05,751
That's all.
415
00:14:05,904 --> 00:14:07,236
This is what marriage is.
416
00:14:07,330 --> 00:14:08,921
It takes work,
over and over again,
417
00:14:09,074 --> 00:14:10,573
Understanding each other.
- I know. Yeah.
418
00:14:10,592 --> 00:14:12,408
- We've known each other
for a few weeks.
419
00:14:12,501 --> 00:14:14,018
This is a tiny little hiccup,
420
00:14:14,245 --> 00:14:15,745
And you're already just like,
not--
421
00:14:15,763 --> 00:14:17,580
I don't know, this is too big.
Like--
422
00:14:17,673 --> 00:14:18,764
- Well, I'm glad
you're saying this.
423
00:14:18,917 --> 00:14:20,266
This is important
for me to hear.
424
00:14:20,418 --> 00:14:21,675
'cause this is, like,
reaffirming about,
425
00:14:21,695 --> 00:14:23,086
You know, that--
426
00:14:23,104 --> 00:14:24,604
I'm glad you see it
as a tiny hiccup.
427
00:14:24,698 --> 00:14:27,090
To be honest, I--
428
00:14:27,183 --> 00:14:30,535
I don't like feeling
the way I did.
429
00:14:30,762 --> 00:14:31,944
♪ ♪
430
00:14:32,038 --> 00:14:34,873
And I don't like making you
feel the way you did.
431
00:14:35,100 --> 00:14:36,857
- It's unrealistic to think
that we're just
432
00:14:36,877 --> 00:14:38,859
Gonna always get each other
and always align
433
00:14:38,953 --> 00:14:40,103
And always know what to say
434
00:14:40,196 --> 00:14:41,546
And always know
how to support each other.
435
00:14:41,773 --> 00:14:43,697
How am I supposed to know
how to support you
436
00:14:43,717 --> 00:14:45,775
And be your wife
and say all the right things
437
00:14:45,793 --> 00:14:49,278
And say what you need
to hear and--
438
00:14:49,297 --> 00:14:50,537
I don't expect that of you.
439
00:14:50,557 --> 00:14:52,039
You shouldn't expect that
of me.
440
00:14:52,058 --> 00:14:55,042
And that's why I always ask you
for grace.
441
00:14:55,061 --> 00:14:57,620
But right now,
all I hear from you is the,
442
00:14:57,713 --> 00:14:58,804
"I don't know
if you're right for me.
443
00:14:58,957 --> 00:15:00,398
"I don't know if
you make me happy.
444
00:15:00,549 --> 00:15:02,475
"I don't know if I can be
who you need me to be.
445
00:15:02,569 --> 00:15:04,051
I don't know, I don't know--"
446
00:15:04,070 --> 00:15:07,721
If you love me
and you want to be with me,
447
00:15:07,741 --> 00:15:09,741
Then just, like,
make that happen.
448
00:15:09,968 --> 00:15:11,075
♪ ♪
449
00:15:11,227 --> 00:15:12,318
- ♪ make up your mind ♪
450
00:15:12,470 --> 00:15:13,745
♪ is it yes or no? ♪
451
00:15:13,896 --> 00:15:15,396
♪ quit wasting time ♪
452
00:15:15,490 --> 00:15:17,582
♪ we can go and let it go ♪
453
00:15:21,404 --> 00:15:22,236
- ♪ it's your moment ♪
454
00:15:22,330 --> 00:15:22,903
♪ go ahead and own it ♪
455
00:15:22,923 --> 00:15:24,830
♪ oh, oh, oh ♪
456
00:15:24,983 --> 00:15:26,758
- Baby doesn't want to get up
this morning.
457
00:15:26,909 --> 00:15:29,576
- No.
- [laughs]
458
00:15:29,596 --> 00:15:31,487
- After seven weeks
of marriage,
459
00:15:31,506 --> 00:15:33,080
These couples have now seen
each other
460
00:15:33,174 --> 00:15:35,266
For better and for worse.
461
00:15:35,418 --> 00:15:36,583
[loud thud]
- ow!
462
00:15:36,678 --> 00:15:38,177
[both laughing]
463
00:15:38,329 --> 00:15:39,753
That's how she wakes me up.
464
00:15:39,773 --> 00:15:42,106
She just kicks me
in my [bleep] balls.
465
00:15:42,258 --> 00:15:44,758
- So they need to consider
whether they can effectively
466
00:15:44,778 --> 00:15:47,503
Balance the good
and the bad together
467
00:15:47,522 --> 00:15:50,356
And truly believe
that this is the person
468
00:15:50,508 --> 00:15:52,008
They can see themselves
469
00:15:52,026 --> 00:15:54,452
Spending the rest
of their lives with.
470
00:15:54,603 --> 00:15:57,196
- Cooking breakfast
with my husband.
471
00:15:57,348 --> 00:16:00,516
We got bacon, grits, shrimp.
472
00:16:00,535 --> 00:16:03,186
He's getting a full meal.
473
00:16:03,204 --> 00:16:05,296
- Because even though
"married at first sight"
474
00:16:05,523 --> 00:16:08,040
Is only
an eight-week experience,
475
00:16:08,193 --> 00:16:11,027
Marriage is meant to last
for a lifetime.
476
00:16:11,045 --> 00:16:13,638
- Mitch has been gone
at his conference.
477
00:16:13,789 --> 00:16:15,306
We have a facetime date
scheduled,
478
00:16:15,533 --> 00:16:17,291
So excited for that.
479
00:16:17,385 --> 00:16:19,793
And then he'll be home
the next day.
480
00:16:19,887 --> 00:16:22,872
[upbeat music]
481
00:16:22,890 --> 00:16:27,634
♪ ♪
482
00:16:27,729 --> 00:16:30,213
- Pulling up to the new cribbo.
483
00:16:30,231 --> 00:16:31,322
I'm excited.
484
00:16:31,474 --> 00:16:34,641
I'm getting--it's becoming
real, you know?
485
00:16:34,661 --> 00:16:37,829
I'm about to see our new home.
486
00:16:37,980 --> 00:16:41,907
And I'm just very grateful that
things are working out for us.
487
00:16:42,002 --> 00:16:43,075
What are you thinking?
488
00:16:43,228 --> 00:16:44,985
What's on your mind, stacia?
489
00:16:45,005 --> 00:16:47,005
- I'm just hoping everybody
takes their shoes off.
490
00:16:47,156 --> 00:16:48,673
- [laughs]
491
00:16:48,824 --> 00:16:50,583
- You ready, babe?
- This is nice.
492
00:16:50,735 --> 00:16:52,902
♪ ♪
493
00:16:52,920 --> 00:16:55,404
- Decision day is a week away,
so nate and I
494
00:16:55,423 --> 00:16:59,166
Are finally visiting
the new house so I can show him
495
00:16:59,185 --> 00:17:00,926
Exactly where
we're gonna be living.
496
00:17:01,079 --> 00:17:02,578
And hopefully he likes it.
497
00:17:02,597 --> 00:17:03,670
- Sheesh!
498
00:17:03,690 --> 00:17:05,081
This is dope.
499
00:17:05,174 --> 00:17:06,858
- I, you know,
purchased this house
500
00:17:07,085 --> 00:17:09,676
And started building it
before I was married.
501
00:17:09,696 --> 00:17:12,088
And it's exactly how I wanted.
502
00:17:12,106 --> 00:17:14,924
So having my husband
move in with me
503
00:17:14,942 --> 00:17:16,850
Is definitely something
that makes me anxious.
504
00:17:16,944 --> 00:17:19,278
But I do want him
to feel comfortable
505
00:17:19,372 --> 00:17:21,614
In this home with me.
506
00:17:21,708 --> 00:17:24,042
So I know that I am gonna
have to compromise
507
00:17:24,269 --> 00:17:25,618
In certain aspects.
508
00:17:25,712 --> 00:17:28,954
But as long as it's something
that we can both agree on,
509
00:17:29,107 --> 00:17:32,866
Then I think it's something
that we can both be happy with.
510
00:17:32,886 --> 00:17:34,201
- This is nice.
Look at this.
511
00:17:34,295 --> 00:17:35,461
This is so clean.
512
00:17:35,613 --> 00:17:37,797
- This is how I like
to keep it, okay, babe?
513
00:17:37,891 --> 00:17:39,206
I like to keep it clean.
514
00:17:39,300 --> 00:17:40,466
- This is nice.
515
00:17:40,560 --> 00:17:43,969
- Dirty dishes aren't sitting
in the sink.
516
00:17:44,064 --> 00:17:45,546
- What are you trying to say?
517
00:17:45,565 --> 00:17:47,306
You act like
I'm, like, hella dirty.
518
00:17:47,458 --> 00:17:48,900
- You be leaving your dishes
in the sink.
519
00:17:49,127 --> 00:17:50,384
- I do. You do too.
520
00:17:50,403 --> 00:17:52,128
- Yeah, and I'm trying
not to be all crazy, but...
521
00:17:52,146 --> 00:17:53,796
- Okay.
522
00:17:53,889 --> 00:17:55,798
- I'm not gonna leave
dirty dishes in the sink.
523
00:17:55,817 --> 00:17:57,466
- Okay, well,
we definitely need some blinds
524
00:17:57,485 --> 00:17:59,652
For some privacy.
525
00:17:59,804 --> 00:18:01,395
I'm about to be living here.
526
00:18:01,414 --> 00:18:03,989
- So I want to lay concrete
out here.
527
00:18:04,142 --> 00:18:06,066
- Are we allowed to put grass
back here?
528
00:18:06,086 --> 00:18:08,644
- No, I don't want to deal
with maintenance.
529
00:18:08,663 --> 00:18:10,737
- I mean, but this is, like,
a small backyard.
530
00:18:10,757 --> 00:18:13,574
It's not gonna be high
maintenance if we get grass.
531
00:18:13,593 --> 00:18:15,093
- Who's putting--
who's gonna do all that?
532
00:18:15,244 --> 00:18:16,152
- I can do that.
533
00:18:16,170 --> 00:18:18,654
[quirky music]
534
00:18:18,673 --> 00:18:20,489
We can talk about it later.
535
00:18:20,508 --> 00:18:22,658
- Yeah, you want to go
upstairs now?
536
00:18:22,751 --> 00:18:24,176
- Yeah, yeah, let's do it.
537
00:18:24,329 --> 00:18:26,329
♪ ♪
538
00:18:26,347 --> 00:18:27,271
Very nice.
539
00:18:27,423 --> 00:18:28,681
Carpets are hella white.
540
00:18:28,833 --> 00:18:31,425
- That's why we take
our shoes off and wear socks,
541
00:18:31,444 --> 00:18:33,277
So the oils from our feet
don't sink in.
542
00:18:33,504 --> 00:18:35,020
- The oils?
543
00:18:35,173 --> 00:18:36,522
- Bathroom down here.
- Wow.
544
00:18:36,674 --> 00:18:37,690
Massive.
545
00:18:37,784 --> 00:18:39,600
- So the black tile
was, like, the one thing
546
00:18:39,619 --> 00:18:41,677
That I was, like,
very adamant about having.
547
00:18:41,696 --> 00:18:42,954
I was like, I have to have
548
00:18:43,105 --> 00:18:44,938
Black hexagon tile
in my bathroom.
549
00:18:44,958 --> 00:18:45,865
- This is amazing.
550
00:18:46,017 --> 00:18:48,684
♪ ♪
551
00:18:48,703 --> 00:18:50,536
Oh, yeah!
552
00:18:50,630 --> 00:18:51,687
This is about to be lit.
553
00:18:51,706 --> 00:18:56,450
♪ ♪
554
00:18:56,544 --> 00:18:58,970
This is where I take a [bleep].
555
00:18:59,197 --> 00:19:00,287
Babe!
556
00:19:00,381 --> 00:19:01,547
I need some toilet paper.
557
00:19:01,699 --> 00:19:02,548
You got some?
- Hey, listen.
558
00:19:02,700 --> 00:19:03,790
- I'm taking a [bleep].
559
00:19:03,810 --> 00:19:05,125
- Listen, here's a house rule.
560
00:19:05,145 --> 00:19:06,644
How about this?
561
00:19:06,795 --> 00:19:08,962
So once we're down
to the last roll,
562
00:19:08,982 --> 00:19:10,964
And you don't see
any more toilet paper,
563
00:19:11,058 --> 00:19:12,650
How about we refill it?
564
00:19:12,877 --> 00:19:14,710
That way,
we never run out of it.
565
00:19:14,803 --> 00:19:16,879
- I don't do it that much.
566
00:19:16,972 --> 00:19:18,489
But of course.
- What?
567
00:19:18,716 --> 00:19:20,383
- That's common sense.
Yeah, duh.
568
00:19:20,401 --> 00:19:21,400
- Yeah, okay, so I'm gonna
569
00:19:21,494 --> 00:19:23,828
Hit you with that common sense
next time.
570
00:19:23,979 --> 00:19:24,978
And you know what?
571
00:19:24,998 --> 00:19:26,722
I actually got you a gift too.
572
00:19:26,741 --> 00:19:27,814
- What?
573
00:19:27,834 --> 00:19:30,334
- A little sticker
for the toilet seat.
574
00:19:30,561 --> 00:19:31,744
- This doesn't sound
like a gift.
575
00:19:31,838 --> 00:19:33,579
- So when you leave it up,
it's going to, like, say,
576
00:19:33,731 --> 00:19:35,339
"put the [bleep] seat down."
577
00:19:35,566 --> 00:19:37,416
Ahh!
578
00:19:37,568 --> 00:19:39,251
- That's not a gift.
579
00:19:39,345 --> 00:19:40,661
You're petty as [bleep].
580
00:19:40,755 --> 00:19:42,496
[both laughing]
581
00:19:42,515 --> 00:19:44,073
It's just amazing. It's clean.
582
00:19:44,091 --> 00:19:45,574
It smells like a new house.
583
00:19:45,593 --> 00:19:47,167
You know, there's candles.
584
00:19:47,261 --> 00:19:49,503
It's getting hot in here.
585
00:19:49,597 --> 00:19:51,171
I think there's gonna be
growing pains.
586
00:19:51,191 --> 00:19:53,173
And realistically,
I think it's gonna
587
00:19:53,267 --> 00:19:55,751
Be really hard
for her to really
588
00:19:55,770 --> 00:19:57,511
Relinquish that control.
589
00:19:57,530 --> 00:19:59,012
I've just gotta roll
with the punches.
590
00:19:59,032 --> 00:20:00,681
You know,
I can't control that.
591
00:20:00,775 --> 00:20:04,276
So yeah,
we'll see how this goes.
592
00:20:04,429 --> 00:20:08,706
- I am a bit of a, you know,
ocd clean freak.
593
00:20:08,933 --> 00:20:11,876
Like, you know, I don't
like scuffs on the walls.
594
00:20:12,027 --> 00:20:13,360
Like, I don't like--
595
00:20:13,379 --> 00:20:14,861
- I mean,
I don't like that, either.
596
00:20:14,881 --> 00:20:16,363
- Okay, well,
I'm just letting you--
597
00:20:16,382 --> 00:20:18,216
I'm trying to give you
an idea of how I am.
598
00:20:18,367 --> 00:20:21,702
- So if we do have kids,
599
00:20:21,796 --> 00:20:25,556
I'm really concerned
about the safety of this house.
600
00:20:28,636 --> 00:20:30,877
- You're concerned
about the safety of the house?
601
00:20:30,897 --> 00:20:32,621
- Yeah,
'cause it's gonna be dirty.
602
00:20:32,640 --> 00:20:33,639
- Yeah, it might get dirty.
603
00:20:33,733 --> 00:20:34,807
- I mean, look at this pillow.
604
00:20:34,959 --> 00:20:35,975
This thing is white as hell.
605
00:20:36,127 --> 00:20:37,551
- Yeah, it might get dirty.
606
00:20:37,570 --> 00:20:38,477
But I think that--
607
00:20:38,629 --> 00:20:40,220
- It's not gonna freak you out?
608
00:20:40,240 --> 00:20:41,739
- Yeah, but I'm gonna teach
my kids
609
00:20:41,890 --> 00:20:45,076
To not touch everything.
610
00:20:45,227 --> 00:20:46,893
- [bleep]. Okay.
611
00:20:46,988 --> 00:20:48,395
- Hey, my mom was, like--
612
00:20:48,414 --> 00:20:49,580
- They gonna be touching
everything.
613
00:20:49,732 --> 00:20:51,082
They're gonna
be spilling stuff.
614
00:20:51,233 --> 00:20:52,157
- My mom--my mom
told us, don't go
615
00:20:52,310 --> 00:20:53,734
In that formal living room.
616
00:20:53,753 --> 00:20:55,144
Don't go in that
formal dining room.
617
00:20:55,162 --> 00:20:56,254
Don't touch nothing.
- You heard of terrible twos,
618
00:20:56,405 --> 00:20:57,496
Right? Terrible twos?
619
00:20:57,590 --> 00:20:59,590
- Don't touch nothing.
620
00:20:59,742 --> 00:21:01,166
- Okay, we'll see
about that one.
621
00:21:01,319 --> 00:21:02,334
♪ ♪
622
00:21:02,428 --> 00:21:03,669
What if, like,
623
00:21:03,821 --> 00:21:05,504
Our kids are hard-headed
like me?
624
00:21:05,656 --> 00:21:07,172
- Mm-mm.
625
00:21:07,325 --> 00:21:08,674
- And they're gonna be kids,
too, you know?
626
00:21:08,826 --> 00:21:10,175
They're gonna be, like,
spilling stuff,
627
00:21:10,328 --> 00:21:11,677
Drawing on the walls.
628
00:21:11,829 --> 00:21:13,420
- Drawing on the walls?
- You never know.
629
00:21:13,514 --> 00:21:14,772
- I'm gonna
be watching them.
630
00:21:14,999 --> 00:21:16,181
- Yeah, but it's
gonna be too late.
631
00:21:16,334 --> 00:21:17,683
- No, I'm gonna
be watching them.
632
00:21:17,835 --> 00:21:20,260
♪ ♪
633
00:21:20,354 --> 00:21:23,188
[upbeat music]
634
00:21:23,341 --> 00:21:27,601
♪ ♪
635
00:21:27,695 --> 00:21:30,937
- So I am headed
to go pick up my dog.
636
00:21:31,032 --> 00:21:32,681
She's been at training.
637
00:21:32,700 --> 00:21:34,850
So this'll be the first time
seeing her.
638
00:21:34,943 --> 00:21:36,869
And boy, lord knows
I miss that woman.
639
00:21:36,963 --> 00:21:40,131
[dogs barking]
640
00:21:40,358 --> 00:21:43,617
You know, the dog situation,
it's unfortunate.
641
00:21:43,711 --> 00:21:45,361
The reason
she's not coming home
642
00:21:45,379 --> 00:21:48,380
Is she bit another dog
while in training.
643
00:21:48,533 --> 00:21:51,884
So the trainer said
she was a liability.
644
00:21:51,978 --> 00:21:54,887
[dog barking, whining]
645
00:21:55,039 --> 00:21:57,056
♪ ♪
646
00:21:57,208 --> 00:21:59,391
Wow, they're so cute. I just--
647
00:21:59,544 --> 00:22:01,393
It's unfortunate, but because
648
00:22:01,546 --> 00:22:03,712
We're gonna be sharing
the same household,
649
00:22:03,731 --> 00:22:05,564
It was important for me
to make a decision.
650
00:22:05,716 --> 00:22:07,974
So I'm doing what I have to do
651
00:22:08,069 --> 00:22:10,310
As a man, as a husband,
652
00:22:10,330 --> 00:22:11,978
As a leader.
653
00:22:12,073 --> 00:22:13,556
And so I chose marriage.
654
00:22:13,574 --> 00:22:17,059
♪ ♪
655
00:22:17,078 --> 00:22:18,169
Hey, you.
656
00:22:18,320 --> 00:22:19,244
What's up?
657
00:22:19,397 --> 00:22:20,487
I know you miss me.
658
00:22:20,506 --> 00:22:22,064
Oh, girl, I know.
659
00:22:22,083 --> 00:22:22,989
Daddy knows.
660
00:22:23,084 --> 00:22:24,083
I missed you too.
661
00:22:24,177 --> 00:22:25,401
Ooh, I miss you, girl.
662
00:22:25,419 --> 00:22:26,510
What's up?
663
00:22:26,737 --> 00:22:27,678
What is up?
664
00:22:27,830 --> 00:22:29,013
It's been so long.
665
00:22:29,164 --> 00:22:31,849
I'm giving my baby
to my best friend, chris.
666
00:22:32,000 --> 00:22:33,425
He's coming down to--
667
00:22:33,578 --> 00:22:35,019
To take ownership of my dog.
668
00:22:35,246 --> 00:22:37,413
You know, she just had
a bad moment.
669
00:22:37,431 --> 00:22:39,506
But my dog is a great dog.
670
00:22:39,600 --> 00:22:42,251
- ♪ don't let me go ♪
671
00:22:42,269 --> 00:22:45,846
♪ ♪
672
00:22:45,940 --> 00:22:49,367
♪ don't let me go ♪
673
00:22:49,518 --> 00:22:52,261
- She's protected me
several times when, you know,
674
00:22:52,279 --> 00:22:55,447
I didn't recognize
I needed to be protected.
675
00:22:55,541 --> 00:22:57,616
It's just a burning--
676
00:22:57,768 --> 00:22:59,377
A burning, hurtful feeling.
677
00:22:59,528 --> 00:23:01,453
'cause that's my baby.
678
00:23:01,547 --> 00:23:04,273
I'll never see her
in california again.
679
00:23:04,291 --> 00:23:06,884
Just something I never
pictured would happen.
680
00:23:07,035 --> 00:23:11,130
So it was just sad.
681
00:23:11,282 --> 00:23:15,134
♪ ♪
682
00:23:15,228 --> 00:23:16,894
Look at my girl.
683
00:23:17,045 --> 00:23:20,139
That is my girl.
684
00:23:20,233 --> 00:23:21,565
Oh, man.
685
00:23:21,717 --> 00:23:24,068
So we're headed
back to the house.
686
00:23:24,219 --> 00:23:25,569
[phone dings]
687
00:23:25,796 --> 00:23:27,071
I'm probably gonna--
688
00:23:27,298 --> 00:23:28,555
I want to keep mya
at the house.
689
00:23:28,649 --> 00:23:29,632
I'm gonna keep her in a kennel,
690
00:23:29,725 --> 00:23:31,150
Like, same thing as usual.
691
00:23:31,302 --> 00:23:33,911
Nothing really changed.
692
00:23:34,062 --> 00:23:36,414
But my wife was gonna go
693
00:23:36,565 --> 00:23:38,974
Stay at her place
to compromise.
694
00:23:38,993 --> 00:23:41,085
But I really want her
to be there, you know?
695
00:23:41,236 --> 00:23:43,737
And we just have to separate
the dogs temporarily.
696
00:23:43,831 --> 00:23:45,238
But I want us--
697
00:23:45,258 --> 00:23:46,424
I don't really want us
to be separated.
698
00:23:46,651 --> 00:23:48,074
But we can still have
our space.
699
00:23:48,094 --> 00:23:50,911
But I'm gonna utilize
my time with her
700
00:23:50,930 --> 00:23:52,838
Before she goes
on her next adventure.
701
00:23:52,990 --> 00:23:57,009
- ♪ without you with me ♪
702
00:23:57,161 --> 00:24:02,514
- That's kind of
where my mind is right now.
703
00:24:02,667 --> 00:24:04,183
But just hoping for the best.
704
00:24:04,335 --> 00:24:06,902
- ♪ I swear
I'm gonna be all right ♪
705
00:24:10,450 --> 00:24:11,949
[upbeat music]
706
00:24:12,100 --> 00:24:14,176
- ♪ la, la, la, la,
yeah, yeah ♪
707
00:24:14,195 --> 00:24:15,936
♪ I got chills
inside my head ♪
708
00:24:16,030 --> 00:24:17,437
♪ won't let me go ♪
709
00:24:17,457 --> 00:24:19,198
- [laughing] look at this dog.
710
00:24:19,350 --> 00:24:20,866
Why is that dog coming...
- Looks like a wolf.
711
00:24:20,960 --> 00:24:22,518
- To the door?
712
00:24:22,536 --> 00:24:23,610
Aw.
- What's up, buddy?
713
00:24:23,629 --> 00:24:25,354
- She's cute, though.
714
00:24:25,447 --> 00:24:27,039
- Her name's coconut.
- Coconut.
715
00:24:27,191 --> 00:24:28,466
- Coconut.
- Aw.
716
00:24:28,617 --> 00:24:30,542
- Come on, coconut.
Let's go shop.
717
00:24:30,695 --> 00:24:32,636
♪ ♪
718
00:24:32,863 --> 00:24:34,472
- Oh, my god, I'm actually,
like, in heaven.
719
00:24:34,623 --> 00:24:36,307
There's so much.
720
00:24:36,534 --> 00:24:38,550
This is, like, getting me
excited right now.
721
00:24:38,644 --> 00:24:42,128
- I think doorknobs
and handles, this is her world.
722
00:24:42,148 --> 00:24:44,389
- Like, my heart
is starting to, like...
723
00:24:44,484 --> 00:24:45,632
- You excited?
724
00:24:45,726 --> 00:24:47,985
- [laughs] beat all fast.
725
00:24:48,212 --> 00:24:49,561
- I think she's willing
to be flexible.
726
00:24:49,655 --> 00:24:51,805
But I think inside of her,
she's kind of like,
727
00:24:51,899 --> 00:24:54,158
"ah, this is my project!"
728
00:24:54,309 --> 00:24:55,642
Oh, these are cool.
I like this one.
729
00:24:55,661 --> 00:24:57,569
- Gross.
730
00:24:57,722 --> 00:24:58,904
- Oh, look at this--
731
00:24:59,056 --> 00:25:00,981
The hippie vibes.
- Crystals?
732
00:25:01,075 --> 00:25:02,241
- Oh, that's kind of cute.
733
00:25:02,335 --> 00:25:03,225
- Okay, babe.
734
00:25:03,244 --> 00:25:05,410
So what are the nos for you?
735
00:25:05,563 --> 00:25:06,504
- These are the nos.
736
00:25:06,655 --> 00:25:07,730
These are also nos.
737
00:25:07,748 --> 00:25:09,823
All this shiny stuff?
Absolutely not.
738
00:25:09,842 --> 00:25:11,658
These are all nos.
739
00:25:11,752 --> 00:25:12,993
I like these vibes too.
740
00:25:13,087 --> 00:25:14,903
- Yeah, that's different.
741
00:25:14,922 --> 00:25:17,497
- This is stuff that I like.
742
00:25:17,517 --> 00:25:19,908
This looks like one of the toys
we got at the sex store.
743
00:25:19,927 --> 00:25:21,519
- Oh, right.
744
00:25:21,746 --> 00:25:23,095
[dog whimpers]
I'm a white and black girl.
745
00:25:23,247 --> 00:25:24,355
- Okay.
746
00:25:24,582 --> 00:25:26,582
- And I want to do,
like, pops of gold.
747
00:25:26,600 --> 00:25:28,417
What about something like this?
748
00:25:28,510 --> 00:25:30,252
- Yeah, maybe.
Yeah, for sure.
749
00:25:30,345 --> 00:25:32,363
But I think
less is more for me.
750
00:25:32,514 --> 00:25:34,273
I'm all about
the minimalist vibe.
751
00:25:34,425 --> 00:25:36,016
And we can do something
like this in the garage
752
00:25:36,110 --> 00:25:37,259
Or something, you know?
753
00:25:37,278 --> 00:25:38,184
- Yeah, I mean, the garage,
754
00:25:38,279 --> 00:25:39,519
You can have full rein.
755
00:25:39,539 --> 00:25:42,781
I do have a idea of what
I want it to look like.
756
00:25:42,933 --> 00:25:44,024
- Mm-hmm.
757
00:25:44,043 --> 00:25:46,210
- I feel like I'm,
like, being reasonable.
758
00:25:46,361 --> 00:25:48,620
I'm not trying
to dominate everything.
759
00:25:48,714 --> 00:25:51,048
I just want it to be
what I want--or what we want.
760
00:25:51,275 --> 00:25:52,274
- Right.
761
00:25:52,293 --> 00:25:53,292
[dog whines]
762
00:25:53,386 --> 00:25:56,278
- Let's go down here.
763
00:25:56,371 --> 00:25:57,613
- This just looks
like a toilet.
764
00:25:57,706 --> 00:25:59,390
- How do you feel
about a bidet?
765
00:25:59,541 --> 00:26:00,707
- [laughs]
766
00:26:00,801 --> 00:26:02,301
I'm like, that's crazy.
767
00:26:02,395 --> 00:26:04,061
♪ ♪
768
00:26:04,212 --> 00:26:05,729
I've never used one before,
but--
769
00:26:05,956 --> 00:26:08,473
[laughs]
770
00:26:08,568 --> 00:26:10,383
Address plaques.
771
00:26:10,477 --> 00:26:13,070
This is very exclusive.
772
00:26:13,297 --> 00:26:15,055
It's important for me
to have my own personality
773
00:26:15,074 --> 00:26:17,891
In this house,
because if I don't,
774
00:26:17,910 --> 00:26:20,803
Then I feel like I'm just gonna
be living in her home.
775
00:26:20,821 --> 00:26:23,806
And that's just gonna be
a very uncomfortable feeling.
776
00:26:23,824 --> 00:26:24,990
- Design is my thing, babe.
777
00:26:25,084 --> 00:26:27,159
This is, like, my thing.
778
00:26:27,253 --> 00:26:28,310
- Right. So--
779
00:26:28,329 --> 00:26:29,920
- And I had a vision
for the house.
780
00:26:30,072 --> 00:26:32,405
And I'm willing
to let you have input.
781
00:26:32,425 --> 00:26:33,665
The shell is there.
I want to be...
782
00:26:33,818 --> 00:26:34,908
- Kind of important.
783
00:26:35,002 --> 00:26:36,093
- Yeah, I want to be open.
784
00:26:36,244 --> 00:26:37,761
- Well, I'll let you
get, like, some input.
785
00:26:37,988 --> 00:26:39,504
I'll give you, like,
50% input, you know?
786
00:26:39,657 --> 00:26:41,265
- You'll give me 50% input?
787
00:26:41,416 --> 00:26:42,749
What do you--
what does that mean?
788
00:26:42,768 --> 00:26:44,159
- Like, I'll let you decide
on things
789
00:26:44,178 --> 00:26:45,436
That you need to prioritize on.
790
00:26:45,663 --> 00:26:47,438
- Hmm?
791
00:26:47,665 --> 00:26:50,165
- Like, if you need
to prioritize something,
792
00:26:50,184 --> 00:26:51,609
I'll let you prioritize it.
793
00:26:53,261 --> 00:26:55,520
- Can you explain?
What do you mean?
794
00:26:55,673 --> 00:26:57,673
- Like, if you want
to prioritize the living room,
795
00:26:57,691 --> 00:26:58,857
I'll let you prioritize it.
796
00:26:59,009 --> 00:26:59,950
- Okay.
797
00:27:00,102 --> 00:27:01,526
- Why was that
so complicated to hear?
798
00:27:01,679 --> 00:27:03,269
- But I don't understand, like,
what you're trying to say.
799
00:27:03,289 --> 00:27:05,013
"prioritize the living room"?
800
00:27:05,032 --> 00:27:07,516
- You said design
is really important to you.
801
00:27:07,534 --> 00:27:09,184
- Yeah, it is important to me,
like,
802
00:27:09,203 --> 00:27:11,536
'cause I want to be able
to do it and design it
803
00:27:11,631 --> 00:27:12,537
The way I like.
804
00:27:12,690 --> 00:27:13,613
- Okay.
805
00:27:13,633 --> 00:27:15,540
[dramatic music]
806
00:27:15,635 --> 00:27:16,800
All right.
807
00:27:16,952 --> 00:27:18,360
I think I'm shopped out.
808
00:27:18,379 --> 00:27:21,213
♪ ♪
809
00:27:21,365 --> 00:27:27,703
- ♪ on the edge of a road,
going downhill ♪
810
00:27:27,721 --> 00:27:31,464
♪ I am lost, feeling alone ♪
811
00:27:31,558 --> 00:27:36,469
♪ cannot stand still ♪
812
00:27:36,489 --> 00:27:42,642
♪ we cannot change what has
been written in stone ♪
813
00:27:42,736 --> 00:27:45,237
- You want a treat?
814
00:27:45,389 --> 00:27:48,999
Mm-hmm,
I got something you want.
815
00:27:49,151 --> 00:27:50,559
Be gentle.
816
00:27:50,577 --> 00:27:52,577
Look at that training, girl.
817
00:27:52,730 --> 00:27:53,912
Mm-hmm.
818
00:27:54,064 --> 00:27:56,915
♪ ♪
819
00:27:57,067 --> 00:27:58,583
Who is that?
820
00:27:58,736 --> 00:28:00,010
Oh, boy.
821
00:28:00,162 --> 00:28:01,661
Look at that tail--
wiggle butt.
822
00:28:01,755 --> 00:28:03,830
Got a wiggle butt.
823
00:28:03,849 --> 00:28:04,907
What up?
824
00:28:04,925 --> 00:28:05,849
- Mya. Hey, girl.
825
00:28:06,001 --> 00:28:07,017
- Look at that butt.
826
00:28:07,244 --> 00:28:08,260
[laughs]
827
00:28:08,412 --> 00:28:10,095
- Good girl.
828
00:28:10,189 --> 00:28:11,522
What you doing?
829
00:28:11,749 --> 00:28:12,597
Yeah.
830
00:28:12,750 --> 00:28:13,691
- Mm-hmm, she hyped.
831
00:28:13,918 --> 00:28:14,766
Uh-oh.
832
00:28:14,860 --> 00:28:16,026
She is hyped now.
833
00:28:16,178 --> 00:28:17,510
Look at her.
- [laughs]
834
00:28:17,604 --> 00:28:18,937
- All right, there it go.
835
00:28:19,089 --> 00:28:20,346
What's up, dude?
- Sup, bro?
836
00:28:20,366 --> 00:28:21,440
Good to see you, man.
837
00:28:21,592 --> 00:28:23,926
- You too, man.
It's good to see you.
838
00:28:23,944 --> 00:28:25,427
- Yeah, for real, man.
- Come on in, man.
839
00:28:25,520 --> 00:28:27,596
Chris is literally
the only other human
840
00:28:27,689 --> 00:28:29,022
My dog loves more than me.
841
00:28:29,041 --> 00:28:31,600
So I know she's gonna be
in a good place.
842
00:28:31,618 --> 00:28:33,544
She was the one putting me
at ease, man.
843
00:28:33,695 --> 00:28:35,695
She was just like,
justin, we got you.
844
00:28:35,715 --> 00:28:37,789
Mya is gonna be
completely fine.
845
00:28:37,942 --> 00:28:39,866
- I know. You know,
I was like, man, I don't know.
846
00:28:39,885 --> 00:28:41,034
I don't know
if I'm ready for this.
847
00:28:41,128 --> 00:28:42,127
And then she was like,
dude, it'll be fine.
848
00:28:42,279 --> 00:28:43,053
You know, it's mya.
849
00:28:43,280 --> 00:28:44,780
She's just like--
we've been, like,
850
00:28:44,873 --> 00:28:46,056
Thinking about
getting a dog too.
851
00:28:46,283 --> 00:28:47,891
So it's gonna work out, man.
- Yeah.
852
00:28:48,118 --> 00:28:49,634
When I started
with this whole process,
853
00:28:49,787 --> 00:28:51,895
I anticipated challenges.
854
00:28:52,047 --> 00:28:53,379
I was just like,
I'm marrying a stranger, so...
855
00:28:53,399 --> 00:28:54,623
- Right.
856
00:28:54,641 --> 00:28:55,807
- Of course
there's gonna be challenges.
857
00:28:55,960 --> 00:28:57,383
- Mm-hmm.
858
00:28:57,403 --> 00:28:59,552
- But I never anticipated
a curveball--
859
00:28:59,646 --> 00:29:01,071
You know?
- Like this?
860
00:29:01,298 --> 00:29:02,740
- Yeah, and the curveball
was her, you know?
861
00:29:02,891 --> 00:29:04,575
And so, like,
I had to make a choice.
862
00:29:04,726 --> 00:29:06,301
And boy, it was hard.
863
00:29:06,320 --> 00:29:07,745
[somber music]
864
00:29:07,896 --> 00:29:08,987
- That's a tough decision,
you know?
865
00:29:09,139 --> 00:29:09,988
The dog or the wife.
866
00:29:10,140 --> 00:29:11,974
I get it, man.
- Bruh, that was--
867
00:29:11,992 --> 00:29:12,899
- Especially with mya
being in your life
868
00:29:12,993 --> 00:29:14,067
For the past seven years--
you guys
869
00:29:14,086 --> 00:29:15,252
Have been through a lot
together too.
870
00:29:15,403 --> 00:29:17,312
- We have been through a lot.
- Moves, and--
871
00:29:17,331 --> 00:29:18,922
- I used to make comments
to myself like,
872
00:29:19,074 --> 00:29:20,240
I'll never give my dog up.
873
00:29:20,259 --> 00:29:21,149
We're gonna have
to work this out.
874
00:29:21,243 --> 00:29:22,317
But I also never thought
it would
875
00:29:22,410 --> 00:29:24,094
Be something this serious.
- Right.
876
00:29:24,246 --> 00:29:25,262
- You know?
- It's marriage, man.
877
00:29:25,413 --> 00:29:26,321
- Exactly.
- Yeah.
878
00:29:26,340 --> 00:29:28,248
- Exactly, bro.
879
00:29:28,267 --> 00:29:30,008
So now I look at it
as it's a new chapter.
880
00:29:30,160 --> 00:29:33,086
So that new chapter
just happens to be with you.
881
00:29:33,105 --> 00:29:35,421
So I'm still at peace with it.
882
00:29:35,441 --> 00:29:37,090
Because I know who she's with.
883
00:29:37,109 --> 00:29:37,941
- You know,
mya's comfortable with me.
884
00:29:38,093 --> 00:29:39,109
I've lived with her.
885
00:29:39,261 --> 00:29:41,169
You know, I think
it will be a great fit.
886
00:29:41,188 --> 00:29:42,112
- I agree.
887
00:29:42,339 --> 00:29:43,429
I'm excited.
888
00:29:43,449 --> 00:29:44,782
I told my wife, I said, yeah,
889
00:29:45,009 --> 00:29:46,266
I might be going out there
once a month.
890
00:29:46,285 --> 00:29:47,692
She's like, I'm sorry,
how many times?
891
00:29:47,787 --> 00:29:48,786
- [laughs]
892
00:29:48,937 --> 00:29:50,287
- Oh, look at you.
893
00:29:50,514 --> 00:29:51,363
- Hi.
894
00:29:51,457 --> 00:29:52,790
- You're here.
895
00:29:52,941 --> 00:29:55,033
- I am here.
- That was unexpected.
896
00:29:55,185 --> 00:29:56,685
I thought you got off today.
897
00:29:56,703 --> 00:29:57,853
- I didn't.
898
00:29:57,946 --> 00:29:59,704
I had to fight my way through.
899
00:29:59,857 --> 00:30:02,132
- Mm. Aw.
900
00:30:02,359 --> 00:30:04,117
- I didn't want you to go
through this by yourself.
901
00:30:04,211 --> 00:30:05,618
- I appreciate that.
902
00:30:05,638 --> 00:30:06,953
Chris--
- hey.
903
00:30:07,047 --> 00:30:08,213
- What's up?
- Alexis.
904
00:30:08,365 --> 00:30:09,473
- Hi, chris.
- How are you?
905
00:30:09,700 --> 00:30:10,456
- I'm well.
906
00:30:10,551 --> 00:30:13,143
I'm glad you can take our baby.
907
00:30:13,295 --> 00:30:14,036
- Yeah, I'm glad too.
908
00:30:14,129 --> 00:30:16,538
- Let me pack her stuff up.
909
00:30:16,557 --> 00:30:18,965
[somber music]
910
00:30:18,984 --> 00:30:21,393
- ♪ 'cause I'm wondering ♪
911
00:30:21,545 --> 00:30:23,395
- Come here.
912
00:30:23,547 --> 00:30:26,657
- ♪ if I'll see you again ♪
913
00:30:26,884 --> 00:30:28,308
- Come here.
914
00:30:28,327 --> 00:30:34,739
- ♪ if our time is done,
going down like the sun ♪
915
00:30:34,892 --> 00:30:36,892
- Might need to put that
seat down, I don't know.
916
00:30:36,910 --> 00:30:37,984
- Okay.
917
00:30:38,078 --> 00:30:41,413
- ♪ for all of my days ♪
918
00:30:41,565 --> 00:30:43,065
- Okay.
919
00:30:43,083 --> 00:30:45,342
All right, girl, all right.
920
00:30:45,569 --> 00:30:47,252
She's like, "this is nice."
- all right.
921
00:30:47,346 --> 00:30:48,328
- This is nice.
922
00:30:48,347 --> 00:30:50,238
Come here.
Give me my final kisses.
923
00:30:50,257 --> 00:30:51,423
♪ ♪
924
00:30:51,517 --> 00:30:52,424
All right.
925
00:30:52,518 --> 00:30:54,092
Love you.
926
00:30:54,244 --> 00:30:59,005
- ♪ for all of my nights ♪
927
00:30:59,024 --> 00:31:02,267
♪ I'll think of our time ♪
928
00:31:02,419 --> 00:31:09,424
♪ ♪
929
00:31:09,443 --> 00:31:13,762
♪ 'cause I'm wondering ♪
930
00:31:13,855 --> 00:31:17,432
♪ if I'll see you again ♪
931
00:31:17,451 --> 00:31:21,044
♪ ♪
932
00:31:24,717 --> 00:31:26,108
[soft music]
933
00:31:26,126 --> 00:31:28,944
- ♪ you couldn't know
until it was over ♪
934
00:31:28,962 --> 00:31:31,279
♪ ♪
935
00:31:31,298 --> 00:31:35,784
♪ you couldn't know
until it was over ♪
936
00:31:35,802 --> 00:31:41,289
♪ ♪
937
00:31:41,308 --> 00:31:44,902
- What's your--what are your
emotions right now?
938
00:31:45,053 --> 00:31:46,386
- Same as they were.
939
00:31:46,405 --> 00:31:49,740
It was just, you know,
seeing that--
940
00:31:49,891 --> 00:31:52,984
Seeing her, and just watching
her drive off, and you know.
941
00:31:53,137 --> 00:31:55,487
- You said chris
is the only person
942
00:31:55,581 --> 00:31:57,322
That mya loves more than you.
943
00:31:57,474 --> 00:31:58,323
- Mm-hmm.
- You know,
944
00:31:58,475 --> 00:31:59,975
So you know
she's in good hands.
945
00:31:59,993 --> 00:32:02,252
And you know where she's at,
you know?
946
00:32:02,404 --> 00:32:04,254
You're gonna go visit her.
947
00:32:04,406 --> 00:32:05,830
And I know it's hard.
948
00:32:05,983 --> 00:32:07,907
I've never been in your shoes,
so I can't--
949
00:32:07,927 --> 00:32:09,834
I can only relate to it
a certain extent, you know?
950
00:32:09,987 --> 00:32:11,244
- Yeah.
951
00:32:11,263 --> 00:32:13,321
- But I can only imagine
how my heart
952
00:32:13,340 --> 00:32:15,340
Would feel in that moment.
953
00:32:15,434 --> 00:32:18,343
And I'm here for any support
that you need.
954
00:32:18,495 --> 00:32:19,995
- All right, I appreciate that.
955
00:32:20,013 --> 00:32:21,688
Thank you.
956
00:32:23,500 --> 00:32:25,258
I hope this shows you that--
957
00:32:25,277 --> 00:32:29,521
This is my proof
that, like, I'm in this.
958
00:32:29,615 --> 00:32:30,614
I'm in this marriage.
959
00:32:30,765 --> 00:32:33,617
You know, this is my--
my commitment.
960
00:32:33,844 --> 00:32:36,344
You know, this is my
ultimate sacrifice,
961
00:32:36,363 --> 00:32:39,364
That I'm willing
to let something like her,
962
00:32:39,516 --> 00:32:41,941
Somebody that's close to me,
you know, go.
963
00:32:41,961 --> 00:32:45,187
Like, does that mean
anything to you?
964
00:32:45,205 --> 00:32:46,797
- It means a lot.
965
00:32:46,948 --> 00:32:49,874
It definitely means a lot.
966
00:32:49,969 --> 00:32:53,119
I also just want it to not
mean, like, everything,
967
00:32:53,213 --> 00:32:54,863
You know what I'm saying?
968
00:32:54,881 --> 00:32:59,534
Like, everything come back to,
"I gave away my mya for you."
969
00:32:59,553 --> 00:33:00,626
You know, things like that.
970
00:33:00,721 --> 00:33:02,037
'cause you've said that before.
971
00:33:02,130 --> 00:33:04,130
Like, you know, almost like
holding it over my head.
972
00:33:04,224 --> 00:33:06,799
I just want you to understand
that I do value your decision.
973
00:33:06,819 --> 00:33:08,485
And I really understand
that it was
974
00:33:08,636 --> 00:33:10,212
The ultimate decision.
975
00:33:10,305 --> 00:33:11,546
But I'd just appreciate it
if you don't
976
00:33:11,639 --> 00:33:13,215
Throw it in my face...
- Okay.
977
00:33:13,233 --> 00:33:15,400
- Respectfully,
because I do understand that.
978
00:33:15,494 --> 00:33:18,053
- It was important to me
that you understood
979
00:33:18,071 --> 00:33:20,664
Why I made the decision I made,
that's all.
980
00:33:20,891 --> 00:33:22,499
- Yeah, I understood that
since the very first time
981
00:33:22,650 --> 00:33:24,893
You said you were
gonna make it.
982
00:33:24,911 --> 00:33:27,838
- This is definitely
the ultimate sacrifice.
983
00:33:28,065 --> 00:33:29,581
Because she's my girl.
I raised her.
984
00:33:29,675 --> 00:33:31,733
I rescued her off the street,
literally.
985
00:33:31,826 --> 00:33:34,177
But it's necessary
because I feel like, you know,
986
00:33:34,404 --> 00:33:37,422
What me and alexis
have had so far,
987
00:33:37,574 --> 00:33:39,832
It's worth the sacrifice.
988
00:33:39,926 --> 00:33:42,853
I hope she understands how much
of a big deal this is to me,
989
00:33:43,080 --> 00:33:45,914
You know,
and how much I'm really trying
990
00:33:45,932 --> 00:33:48,674
To accommodate for this,
and our marriage to work.
991
00:33:48,769 --> 00:33:51,086
I hope I'm making
the right decision.
992
00:33:51,104 --> 00:33:53,530
♪ ♪
993
00:33:53,681 --> 00:33:54,680
I chose the marriage.
994
00:33:54,700 --> 00:33:56,591
You know,
I looked at the big picture
995
00:33:56,610 --> 00:33:58,035
Because I feel like
our marriage is worth it.
996
00:33:58,186 --> 00:34:00,095
But it's time
for a new chapter.
997
00:34:00,113 --> 00:34:04,690
♪ ♪
998
00:34:04,710 --> 00:34:08,194
- ♪ and I always
hit the bottle ♪
999
00:34:08,213 --> 00:34:12,215
♪ drown my sorrow
when you leave ♪
1000
00:34:12,367 --> 00:34:15,610
♪ when you leave ♪
1001
00:34:15,629 --> 00:34:16,536
- Excuse me.
1002
00:34:16,630 --> 00:34:18,280
Can I sit here?
1003
00:34:18,298 --> 00:34:19,464
♪ ♪
1004
00:34:19,558 --> 00:34:21,449
I'll call daddy.
1005
00:34:21,468 --> 00:34:24,394
I don't have his number
memorized just yet.
1006
00:34:25,213 --> 00:34:28,065
[line ringing]
1007
00:34:30,627 --> 00:34:32,069
Hey.
1008
00:34:32,220 --> 00:34:33,386
- Hey, what's up?
1009
00:34:33,405 --> 00:34:34,738
- How are you?
1010
00:34:34,889 --> 00:34:35,980
It's your girls.
1011
00:34:36,133 --> 00:34:37,132
[laughs]
1012
00:34:37,150 --> 00:34:39,801
- My girls. My girls.
1013
00:34:39,894 --> 00:34:42,153
- Have you gone surfing
at all, or just work?
1014
00:34:42,306 --> 00:34:43,305
- No, we've been surf--
1015
00:34:43,323 --> 00:34:44,973
You see,
there's two boards on top.
1016
00:34:44,991 --> 00:34:46,474
- Yeah, I see the surfboards,
yeah.
1017
00:34:46,568 --> 00:34:48,977
- Last night, we went on
a little whale watching boat.
1018
00:34:49,070 --> 00:34:50,403
- Fun.
- Kind of reminiscent--
1019
00:34:50,422 --> 00:34:52,147
Kind of reminiscent
of our honeymoon.
1020
00:34:52,165 --> 00:34:53,481
- Yeah.
1021
00:34:53,500 --> 00:34:56,075
- But way more seasick
for me, for some reason.
1022
00:34:56,095 --> 00:34:58,153
So that was actually--
- [laughs]
1023
00:34:58,171 --> 00:34:59,504
- Yeah, but you know,
I wouldn't say
1024
00:34:59,656 --> 00:35:00,580
I've been working too hard.
1025
00:35:00,599 --> 00:35:02,824
But it's just been
very social.
1026
00:35:02,843 --> 00:35:03,675
I mean, it's, like,
more social
1027
00:35:03,827 --> 00:35:05,084
Than I've been in years.
1028
00:35:05,178 --> 00:35:06,344
Yeah, it's been great.
1029
00:35:06,496 --> 00:35:08,163
But I guess as much fun
as it's been,
1030
00:35:08,181 --> 00:35:10,107
I'm really looking forward
to getting back,
1031
00:35:10,334 --> 00:35:11,666
To get back home
to you and luna.
1032
00:35:11,759 --> 00:35:12,834
- Do you miss her snoring?
1033
00:35:12,927 --> 00:35:14,336
It's a yes or no question.
1034
00:35:14,354 --> 00:35:15,687
[laughter]
1035
00:35:15,781 --> 00:35:17,505
- I don't miss the snoring.
1036
00:35:17,524 --> 00:35:18,506
- [laughs]
1037
00:35:18,600 --> 00:35:19,765
Not a trick question,
by the way.
1038
00:35:19,860 --> 00:35:21,176
- I do miss you, though.
1039
00:35:21,269 --> 00:35:23,011
- Aw, we miss you too.
- But not luna's snoring.
1040
00:35:23,029 --> 00:35:25,104
But I miss having coffee
with you in the morning.
1041
00:35:25,124 --> 00:35:27,124
I miss taking luna
for her nightly walk
1042
00:35:27,275 --> 00:35:29,851
And hanging out with you
after work and having dinner.
1043
00:35:29,870 --> 00:35:32,871
I miss all the good parts
of our life together.
1044
00:35:33,023 --> 00:35:35,373
- Well, we are so excited
for you to get home.
1045
00:35:35,525 --> 00:35:37,041
We're excited for beach day.
1046
00:35:37,194 --> 00:35:38,543
- Are you ready to shred?
1047
00:35:38,695 --> 00:35:40,712
Because I got the boards
on my car already, you know?
1048
00:35:40,806 --> 00:35:43,031
- I am ready to shred.
1049
00:35:43,049 --> 00:35:46,885
Hopefully, we can stay
around the beginner area.
1050
00:35:47,037 --> 00:35:48,203
- Yeah.
1051
00:35:48,221 --> 00:35:50,038
- Me and mitch
are in a really good place
1052
00:35:50,056 --> 00:35:51,815
Coming off
of the couples retreat.
1053
00:35:51,966 --> 00:35:53,375
It does feel a lot lighter
1054
00:35:53,393 --> 00:35:55,543
And just a lot more jovial
and happier.
1055
00:35:55,562 --> 00:35:57,320
- Is luna coming?
You might want to bring
1056
00:35:57,472 --> 00:36:00,048
Her pfd just in case luna
shows an interest in surfing.
1057
00:36:00,141 --> 00:36:01,158
- [laughs]
1058
00:36:01,309 --> 00:36:03,051
A lot is at stake.
1059
00:36:03,069 --> 00:36:05,553
Providing a father figure
for luna is important.
1060
00:36:05,647 --> 00:36:06,830
- Luna's gonna have to
get with the program
1061
00:36:07,057 --> 00:36:08,314
Eventually, so...
- She knows.
1062
00:36:08,333 --> 00:36:09,649
She loves the beach.
She's a beach pug.
1063
00:36:09,743 --> 00:36:10,909
- Good, good.
1064
00:36:11,003 --> 00:36:13,561
- I really want to spend
these remaining days
1065
00:36:13,655 --> 00:36:16,414
In the best way possible
with him.
1066
00:36:16,566 --> 00:36:18,824
So I'm looking forward to him
coming home,
1067
00:36:18,844 --> 00:36:21,494
Seeing how the time felt apart
for him,
1068
00:36:21,513 --> 00:36:23,829
And talking about how it felt
for me.
1069
00:36:23,849 --> 00:36:26,332
And I'm excited to try
and put luna on a surfboard.
1070
00:36:26,426 --> 00:36:27,833
- Really good
to see your face.
1071
00:36:27,853 --> 00:36:30,094
And looking forward
to seeing you again in person
1072
00:36:30,247 --> 00:36:31,429
And catching up tomorrow.
1073
00:36:31,581 --> 00:36:33,415
- Well, we miss you. Have fun.
1074
00:36:33,433 --> 00:36:34,766
Work hard, but not too hard.
1075
00:36:34,918 --> 00:36:35,692
- All right.
- Have fun,
1076
00:36:35,843 --> 00:36:37,085
But not too much fun.
1077
00:36:37,178 --> 00:36:38,028
- All right.
- Okay.
1078
00:36:38,179 --> 00:36:39,921
[laughs] bye, boo.
1079
00:36:39,940 --> 00:36:41,031
♪ ♪
1080
00:36:41,182 --> 00:36:45,276
- ♪ free with me ♪
1081
00:36:45,370 --> 00:36:47,019
- Nice, yeah.
1082
00:36:47,113 --> 00:36:49,113
- But this is so heavy.
1083
00:36:49,266 --> 00:36:50,856
- You feel--that's good, then.
1084
00:36:50,876 --> 00:36:53,859
- If--you want me
to look like the hulk?
1085
00:36:53,879 --> 00:36:57,029
I personally am not
a big fan of working out.
1086
00:36:57,049 --> 00:37:00,124
But I know that he enjoys
exercising,
1087
00:37:00,277 --> 00:37:02,627
So we're gonna try
to connect and recharge.
1088
00:37:02,779 --> 00:37:03,628
How about when we work out,
1089
00:37:03,722 --> 00:37:05,280
I just kind of
be your cheerleader?
1090
00:37:05,298 --> 00:37:07,224
♪ ♪
1091
00:37:07,451 --> 00:37:09,300
Go, miguel!
1092
00:37:09,394 --> 00:37:11,043
Go, go, miguel!
1093
00:37:11,063 --> 00:37:13,045
Go, baby. Push harder, harder.
1094
00:37:13,065 --> 00:37:16,733
Pop that--[laughs]
1095
00:37:16,960 --> 00:37:18,460
Nice.
1096
00:37:18,478 --> 00:37:20,553
♪ ♪
1097
00:37:20,647 --> 00:37:21,629
Looks good, baby.
1098
00:37:21,648 --> 00:37:22,981
- Thank you.
1099
00:37:23,075 --> 00:37:24,799
Not so good for this.
1100
00:37:24,818 --> 00:37:28,136
As you know, it's a good
lat exercise as well.
1101
00:37:28,154 --> 00:37:29,746
Honeymoon period
is a little bit over.
1102
00:37:29,897 --> 00:37:32,582
And we're now getting
to the nitty gritty of it.
1103
00:37:32,809 --> 00:37:35,159
Whew!
- [laughs]
1104
00:37:35,312 --> 00:37:36,160
- Where's that steak?
1105
00:37:36,313 --> 00:37:38,480
- You pumped it up.
1106
00:37:38,573 --> 00:37:40,498
- I mean, we're both dedicated
and committed to each other.
1107
00:37:40,650 --> 00:37:43,260
So now is the point
to not coast
1108
00:37:43,487 --> 00:37:46,096
On the high of being
in love with each other.
1109
00:37:46,247 --> 00:37:48,823
Now, it's just, like, you know,
really making it work.
1110
00:37:48,842 --> 00:37:50,433
I think something
finally came in the mail
1111
00:37:50,585 --> 00:37:54,012
That you may want to have.
1112
00:37:54,164 --> 00:37:55,847
- Oh?
- To see a doctor.
1113
00:37:55,941 --> 00:37:57,499
- Yes!
1114
00:37:57,592 --> 00:37:59,501
Oh, my gosh, my insurance.
1115
00:37:59,519 --> 00:38:01,019
♪ ♪
1116
00:38:01,171 --> 00:38:04,430
Finally, I can go see a doctor.
- I know.
1117
00:38:04,449 --> 00:38:06,524
You can get hit by a bus,
and it'll be okay.
1118
00:38:06,618 --> 00:38:11,288
- I can get hit by a bus,
and you'll care this time.
1119
00:38:11,515 --> 00:38:13,606
Yay, I'm so excited.
1120
00:38:13,700 --> 00:38:14,774
Thank you. I'm excited.
1121
00:38:14,793 --> 00:38:15,700
- You're welcome.
1122
00:38:15,794 --> 00:38:17,368
- It means a lot,
it really does.
1123
00:38:17,521 --> 00:38:20,797
Because it kind of goes back...
1124
00:38:21,024 --> 00:38:22,465
You know, just, like,
feeling cared for.
1125
00:38:22,617 --> 00:38:24,467
And...
- Gotcha.
1126
00:38:24,619 --> 00:38:26,952
- Definitely am feeling way
more and more comfortable with
1127
00:38:26,972 --> 00:38:30,214
The idea of hyphenating
our names,
1128
00:38:30,309 --> 00:38:33,217
And just as our lives merge
together and everything,
1129
00:38:33,370 --> 00:38:34,719
It's just making more sense.
1130
00:38:34,813 --> 00:38:35,870
- What more do you need?
1131
00:38:35,963 --> 00:38:38,648
Like, what's the ongoing
component of it?
1132
00:38:38,800 --> 00:38:42,210
- I guess I just want to feel,
like, even more secure,
1133
00:38:42,228 --> 00:38:44,970
And like, know that we have
each other's back
1134
00:38:45,065 --> 00:38:46,230
No matter what.
1135
00:38:46,325 --> 00:38:47,973
'cause changing my name
is a really big deal.
1136
00:38:47,993 --> 00:38:50,051
And I don't want
to go back on that.
1137
00:38:50,070 --> 00:38:52,904
- Mm-hmm.
1138
00:38:53,056 --> 00:38:54,405
Along the same vein,
it's a question, then,
1139
00:38:54,499 --> 00:38:57,241
How into this you are.
1140
00:38:57,336 --> 00:38:58,818
You don't want to take my name
1141
00:38:58,837 --> 00:39:01,245
In the event
that it doesn't work out.
1142
00:39:01,340 --> 00:39:03,173
It's just frustrating,
a little bit, to me.
1143
00:39:03,324 --> 00:39:08,753
- Well, for me, like, my doubt
is coming from you, sadly.
1144
00:39:08,905 --> 00:39:10,238
That's where it's coming from.
1145
00:39:10,331 --> 00:39:14,166
I feel like you're just, like,
ready to, like, jump ship,
1146
00:39:14,186 --> 00:39:17,854
Or like,
just second guess everything
1147
00:39:18,005 --> 00:39:19,856
Before we've even tried.
1148
00:39:20,007 --> 00:39:22,250
It's just unfair for you
to be pointing fingers at me
1149
00:39:22,268 --> 00:39:23,251
If it's so important to you.
1150
00:39:23,269 --> 00:39:25,028
This is--
I'm doing this for you.
1151
00:39:25,179 --> 00:39:27,364
This is so important to you,
babe.
1152
00:39:27,515 --> 00:39:30,850
I'm happy being elloway
forever, but you were--
1153
00:39:30,869 --> 00:39:32,017
- Well, we can keep it
like that, then.
1154
00:39:32,112 --> 00:39:35,096
[dramatic music]
1155
00:39:35,115 --> 00:39:39,525
- ♪ no one ever talks
about the evil things ♪
1156
00:39:39,619 --> 00:39:41,878
♪ that love brings ♪
1157
00:39:46,033 --> 00:39:48,276
- ♪ high on your vibes,
I get high on your vibes ♪
1158
00:39:48,294 --> 00:39:50,053
♪ I get high on your vibes ♪
1159
00:39:50,204 --> 00:39:51,129
- It's chilly in here.
1160
00:39:51,281 --> 00:39:52,722
- It is.
1161
00:39:52,949 --> 00:39:54,206
- 75, baby.
1162
00:39:54,300 --> 00:39:55,708
- Ooh!
- Yeah.
1163
00:39:55,802 --> 00:39:57,619
- [sighs]
- good luck.
1164
00:39:57,637 --> 00:40:00,397
- [panting]
1165
00:40:00,624 --> 00:40:01,806
[grunts]
1166
00:40:01,958 --> 00:40:03,066
- I'm gonna stick with my 40s.
1167
00:40:03,293 --> 00:40:05,960
[laughs]
1168
00:40:05,979 --> 00:40:07,720
- I feel like I'm either
gaining or losing weight.
1169
00:40:07,739 --> 00:40:08,905
I don't know which one it is.
1170
00:40:09,056 --> 00:40:11,408
I feel like I'm gaining.
1171
00:40:11,559 --> 00:40:12,634
Isn't that a thing?
1172
00:40:12,652 --> 00:40:14,077
You gain weight
when you get married.
1173
00:40:14,228 --> 00:40:15,486
- Yeah, happy weight.
1174
00:40:15,639 --> 00:40:16,395
It could be depression weight,
1175
00:40:16,415 --> 00:40:19,416
And you lose, like, 25 pounds.
1176
00:40:19,567 --> 00:40:20,750
- Have you gained or lost?
1177
00:40:20,902 --> 00:40:23,311
- [laughs] girl, I haven't
even stepped on a scale.
1178
00:40:23,329 --> 00:40:26,256
I don't even want to add
that narrative to my life.
1179
00:40:26,483 --> 00:40:27,424
- Oh.
1180
00:40:27,575 --> 00:40:28,666
- What's the plan?
1181
00:40:28,818 --> 00:40:30,001
Have you guys talked
about--because I know
1182
00:40:30,095 --> 00:40:31,076
You have a home.
1183
00:40:31,171 --> 00:40:32,170
Have you discussed that
with nate?
1184
00:40:32,264 --> 00:40:36,157
- He talked about
once his lease is up,
1185
00:40:36,250 --> 00:40:38,843
We're going to move into the--
1186
00:40:38,937 --> 00:40:40,011
My house.
1187
00:40:40,163 --> 00:40:40,937
♪ ♪
1188
00:40:41,164 --> 00:40:44,107
And we went
to a hardware store.
1189
00:40:44,258 --> 00:40:46,668
And we went in there,
and he was, like,
1190
00:40:46,686 --> 00:40:48,093
Picking out
all these different things.
1191
00:40:48,113 --> 00:40:51,839
And I was just like,
"ahh! No! No!"
1192
00:40:51,858 --> 00:40:53,599
And like--
- what was the compromise?
1193
00:40:53,618 --> 00:40:55,026
- Yeah, we haven't
gotten there yet.
1194
00:40:55,178 --> 00:40:56,344
- Okay, that's fine.
1195
00:40:56,362 --> 00:40:58,437
- But he's kind of like,
"I know you're gonna,
1196
00:40:58,531 --> 00:41:01,106
"like, veto, you know, whatever
I say if you don't like it,
1197
00:41:01,126 --> 00:41:03,460
'cause it's your house."
1198
00:41:03,687 --> 00:41:05,628
I'm trying to say,
like, "this is our house.
1199
00:41:05,780 --> 00:41:07,522
"I want it to be comfortable
for you.
1200
00:41:07,615 --> 00:41:09,207
"I want you to feel
like this is ours.
1201
00:41:09,359 --> 00:41:11,375
"like, I want you to feel
comfortable living there.
1202
00:41:11,528 --> 00:41:12,451
"I don't want you to be like,
1203
00:41:12,471 --> 00:41:14,045
'oh, well,
I'm just in your space.'"
1204
00:41:14,197 --> 00:41:15,138
♪ ♪
1205
00:41:15,289 --> 00:41:16,214
Technically, you are.
1206
00:41:16,366 --> 00:41:18,716
But I'm trying--you know?
1207
00:41:18,810 --> 00:41:20,977
- Do you think going to
the hardware store kind of--
1208
00:41:21,128 --> 00:41:22,053
- I think it scared him.
1209
00:41:22,147 --> 00:41:23,480
- It scared him?
1210
00:41:23,631 --> 00:41:24,722
- Because it made it real.
1211
00:41:24,874 --> 00:41:28,634
- Oh. Damn.
1212
00:41:28,728 --> 00:41:30,636
- How's the married life?
1213
00:41:30,655 --> 00:41:34,048
- It was definitely really good
up until this afternoon.
1214
00:41:34,067 --> 00:41:37,552
You know, some clarity
kind of kicked in.
1215
00:41:37,645 --> 00:41:38,978
And I was like, you know what?
1216
00:41:38,997 --> 00:41:40,905
I need some affirmation.
1217
00:41:41,057 --> 00:41:41,814
And so I texted her.
1218
00:41:41,833 --> 00:41:43,482
And I was like, "yo," I said,
1219
00:41:43,502 --> 00:41:44,892
"I know
this is a stupid question.
1220
00:41:44,911 --> 00:41:46,728
You know, and I know we've
talked about the future."
1221
00:41:46,746 --> 00:41:47,670
We've talked about houses.
1222
00:41:47,822 --> 00:41:50,006
We've talked
about renting a spot.
1223
00:41:50,233 --> 00:41:51,323
- Right.
1224
00:41:51,343 --> 00:41:53,067
- And you know, I said--
1225
00:41:53,086 --> 00:41:54,235
But I just need to hear it.
1226
00:41:54,328 --> 00:41:55,845
And I was just like, "well--"
1227
00:41:55,997 --> 00:41:59,849
I said, "well, can you tell me
just that--like,
1228
00:42:00,001 --> 00:42:02,352
Can you tell me that you're
saying yes on decision day?"
1229
00:42:02,503 --> 00:42:03,335
- Right.
- And she says,
1230
00:42:03,355 --> 00:42:04,746
"where is that
coming from?"
1231
00:42:04,764 --> 00:42:06,005
And I was like,
"no, just--I need to hear it.
1232
00:42:06,024 --> 00:42:07,357
I need the affirmation."
1233
00:42:07,508 --> 00:42:09,250
And so what
it boiled down to is,
1234
00:42:09,343 --> 00:42:11,027
She was deflecting, you know?
1235
00:42:11,254 --> 00:42:12,862
She was just like,
"I told you I'm in it.
1236
00:42:13,089 --> 00:42:14,364
You know, I told you
I'm gonna be patient."
1237
00:42:14,591 --> 00:42:15,923
And I said, "but you didn't
answer my question."
1238
00:42:16,017 --> 00:42:17,683
- Mm-hmm.
- When I gave mya away,
1239
00:42:17,702 --> 00:42:21,353
I was under the impression
that we were on the same page.
1240
00:42:21,373 --> 00:42:22,280
- Right.
- You know,
1241
00:42:22,432 --> 00:42:23,447
And if at any point,
1242
00:42:23,600 --> 00:42:26,376
She felt any doubt,
whether it was 98%,
1243
00:42:26,527 --> 00:42:30,380
99%, she should have been
like, "hey, baby, I love you.
1244
00:42:30,531 --> 00:42:32,123
I want this..."
- right.
1245
00:42:32,275 --> 00:42:33,699
- "but I'm still a little
on the fence about this."
1246
00:42:33,793 --> 00:42:35,034
- Right. Just communicate,
1247
00:42:35,053 --> 00:42:36,886
Like, the insecurities
about it...
1248
00:42:37,038 --> 00:42:37,795
- Exactly.
- Or just something, right?
1249
00:42:37,889 --> 00:42:39,222
- Exactly.
1250
00:42:39,449 --> 00:42:41,057
And for her to be
such a direct person
1251
00:42:41,284 --> 00:42:43,634
And not communicate that to me,
you know,
1252
00:42:43,728 --> 00:42:45,711
It's almost like she didn't
want to hurt my feelings.
1253
00:42:45,730 --> 00:42:47,880
Because, like, if I'm gonna
spend my whole life with you,
1254
00:42:47,899 --> 00:42:49,624
Like, I need to know
that you are sure.
1255
00:42:49,642 --> 00:42:51,459
♪ ♪
1256
00:42:51,477 --> 00:42:53,644
- Justin came out today,
and he was like,
1257
00:42:53,738 --> 00:42:56,555
"I just need to hear
that you're going to say yes."
1258
00:42:56,575 --> 00:42:58,241
And mind you,
this is a text message.
1259
00:42:58,392 --> 00:42:59,558
So I'm, like,
in the middle of work--
1260
00:42:59,652 --> 00:43:00,484
- Wait, what?
- Yeah.
1261
00:43:00,637 --> 00:43:01,636
- In a text message?
1262
00:43:01,654 --> 00:43:02,970
- In a text message, girl.
1263
00:43:02,989 --> 00:43:06,082
He was saying how he was yes,
but now that we're
1264
00:43:06,309 --> 00:43:07,158
Having this conversation,
he doesn't know
1265
00:43:07,252 --> 00:43:08,643
If he's gonna say yes.
1266
00:43:08,736 --> 00:43:10,587
And I'm like,
so your decision's
1267
00:43:10,738 --> 00:43:12,589
Dependent upon mine?
1268
00:43:12,740 --> 00:43:17,168
And in so many words,
he said yes,
1269
00:43:17,262 --> 00:43:20,096
To where I'm just like,
we have more to think about.
1270
00:43:20,323 --> 00:43:21,656
- You know, I asked her
a few days ago,
1271
00:43:21,674 --> 00:43:22,915
You know, how she was doing.
1272
00:43:23,009 --> 00:43:24,325
And she's like, "I'm
actually doing really good."
1273
00:43:24,418 --> 00:43:25,768
- Right.
- You know, she was like,
1274
00:43:25,995 --> 00:43:28,346
"the way our relationship
feels now--"
1275
00:43:28,498 --> 00:43:29,997
She was like, "you're not
as on edge anymore."
1276
00:43:30,016 --> 00:43:30,940
- Yeah.
1277
00:43:31,092 --> 00:43:31,999
Well, that's good, though.
1278
00:43:32,018 --> 00:43:33,109
- That's really good.
- Yeah.
1279
00:43:33,336 --> 00:43:36,261
- But when I asked
for that affirmation,
1280
00:43:36,356 --> 00:43:38,673
I was like, "hey, you know,
you are saying yes, right?"
1281
00:43:38,766 --> 00:43:40,265
And she's still
been deflecting.
1282
00:43:40,285 --> 00:43:41,767
Still hasn't answered
the question.
1283
00:43:41,786 --> 00:43:43,435
The way she answered it,
she was like,
1284
00:43:43,455 --> 00:43:44,954
"you said you wanted me
to be patient.
1285
00:43:45,106 --> 00:43:46,456
I'm gonna be patient."
1286
00:43:46,683 --> 00:43:48,273
That doesn't answer
my question, though.
1287
00:43:48,293 --> 00:43:49,684
- Right.
1288
00:43:49,777 --> 00:43:51,519
I think alexis is immature.
1289
00:43:51,612 --> 00:43:54,130
And I think she's just a liar.
1290
00:43:54,281 --> 00:43:57,875
Like, I just think, like,
she's leading justin on.
1291
00:43:57,969 --> 00:43:59,543
She just needs to be
straight up with him.
1292
00:43:59,696 --> 00:44:01,471
Everything else,
she's very direct and up front
1293
00:44:01,698 --> 00:44:03,139
And vocal about things,
but when it comes
1294
00:44:03,366 --> 00:44:05,642
To a yes or no,
she can't even answer it?
1295
00:44:05,793 --> 00:44:06,959
That's weird.
1296
00:44:06,978 --> 00:44:09,312
- You know, I don't think
she's willing to do
1297
00:44:09,463 --> 00:44:11,314
Those uncomfortable
compromises...
1298
00:44:11,541 --> 00:44:12,482
- Right.
1299
00:44:12,633 --> 00:44:14,225
- You know,
and put herself out there,
1300
00:44:14,319 --> 00:44:15,559
100% vulnerable.
1301
00:44:15,712 --> 00:44:17,061
You know, I don't think
she's ready for that.
1302
00:44:17,213 --> 00:44:18,729
♪ ♪
1303
00:44:18,823 --> 00:44:21,732
- He has made a whirlwind
of a change since day one,
1304
00:44:21,885 --> 00:44:23,217
For sure.
1305
00:44:23,236 --> 00:44:25,236
But sometimes,
he still reverts back
1306
00:44:25,388 --> 00:44:27,312
To some of those old ways,
where I'm like,
1307
00:44:27,332 --> 00:44:28,572
"I thought we were past this."
1308
00:44:28,725 --> 00:44:30,408
And it kind of scares me
because it's just like,
1309
00:44:30,560 --> 00:44:32,985
I'm seeing the change,
I'm honoring the change.
1310
00:44:33,004 --> 00:44:36,247
But when those little glimpses
of old justin come out,
1311
00:44:36,399 --> 00:44:38,824
I'm just, like, scared.
1312
00:44:38,843 --> 00:44:40,902
Him saying outbursts
when he's upset--
1313
00:44:40,920 --> 00:44:41,994
Like, what if we have kids?
1314
00:44:42,088 --> 00:44:43,087
What if we buy a house?
1315
00:44:43,239 --> 00:44:44,681
You know, like,
it's so much bigger.
1316
00:44:44,832 --> 00:44:46,424
I'm thinking,
like, generational.
1317
00:44:46,576 --> 00:44:47,684
- Yeah.
1318
00:44:47,911 --> 00:44:49,668
- So that's when it
becomes challenging.
1319
00:44:49,762 --> 00:44:50,745
Because it's just like...
1320
00:44:50,763 --> 00:44:53,581
♪ ♪
1321
00:44:53,599 --> 00:44:55,917
Once I have a kid,
it's too late, you know?
1322
00:44:55,935 --> 00:44:57,752
And if he hasn't worked
on himself,
1323
00:44:57,845 --> 00:44:58,861
We haven't worked
on each other,
1324
00:44:59,013 --> 00:45:00,438
I haven't worked on myself
1325
00:45:00,590 --> 00:45:02,773
To come to, like,
a common theme,
1326
00:45:02,926 --> 00:45:06,035
And I'm pregnant, then what?
1327
00:45:06,187 --> 00:45:08,262
A big part of me wants
to say yes.
1328
00:45:08,281 --> 00:45:12,709
But it's that small, little,
like, I don't know, girl.
1329
00:45:12,936 --> 00:45:16,287
Can you tolerate this
for the rest of your life?
1330
00:45:16,439 --> 00:45:18,715
And tolerate is not even
a word I should have used.
1331
00:45:18,866 --> 00:45:22,385
So that is explanation
in and of itself.
1332
00:45:22,536 --> 00:45:23,961
So I don't know.
1333
00:45:24,113 --> 00:45:25,780
♪ ♪
1334
00:45:25,798 --> 00:45:28,783
- If I'm being honest, man,
I think--
1335
00:45:28,801 --> 00:45:31,060
I think I got my mind made up,
you know?
1336
00:45:31,287 --> 00:45:33,378
And the reason
I got my mind made up
1337
00:45:33,473 --> 00:45:35,122
Is because I've recognized
1338
00:45:35,216 --> 00:45:36,566
I've taken my feelings
out of it.
1339
00:45:36,717 --> 00:45:38,717
And now I'm looking
at the facts.
1340
00:45:38,811 --> 00:45:40,886
It's really easy
to get emotional
1341
00:45:40,980 --> 00:45:41,963
And make an emotional decision.
1342
00:45:42,056 --> 00:45:43,814
And I've been doing that,
you know?
1343
00:45:43,967 --> 00:45:45,241
You guys already know
I'm an emotional person.
1344
00:45:45,392 --> 00:45:46,409
- Yeah.
- So for me to be like,
1345
00:45:46,560 --> 00:45:47,893
You know what?
I'm gonna take my emotions
1346
00:45:47,912 --> 00:45:48,986
Out of it,
and I'm gonna step out,
1347
00:45:49,138 --> 00:45:51,639
And I'm gonna view the facts--
- right.
1348
00:45:51,657 --> 00:45:52,823
- If I hadn't asked
that question today,
1349
00:45:52,976 --> 00:45:54,233
I would have went in
blindsided,
1350
00:45:54,252 --> 00:45:59,163
Thinking like it was all
100% on both ends, you know?
1351
00:45:59,257 --> 00:46:00,648
I would have.
1352
00:46:00,666 --> 00:46:04,652
Like, I gave up my baby, yo.
1353
00:46:04,670 --> 00:46:06,078
And that [bleep] hurt my soul.
1354
00:46:06,097 --> 00:46:07,488
And I'm like, you know what?
I'm gonna suck it up.
1355
00:46:07,507 --> 00:46:09,673
I'm gonna deal with it,
because that's marriage--
1356
00:46:09,826 --> 00:46:11,583
But not in her eyes.
1357
00:46:11,603 --> 00:46:13,770
I'd be lying to myself--
1358
00:46:13,997 --> 00:46:16,013
You know, I definitely--
I would be lying to myself
1359
00:46:16,165 --> 00:46:18,257
If I said, hey, you know what?
1360
00:46:18,351 --> 00:46:20,092
It's definitely a yes.
- Right.
1361
00:46:20,111 --> 00:46:22,761
- It's probably
a 90% no for me.
1362
00:46:22,781 --> 00:46:26,674
- Damn.
- And...
1363
00:46:26,767 --> 00:46:28,359
I just feel like I was played.
1364
00:46:28,453 --> 00:46:30,119
♪ ♪
1365
00:46:33,958 --> 00:46:36,459
- ♪ we're all waiting
for the world to wake up ♪
1366
00:46:36,610 --> 00:46:40,021
♪ open their eyes
to the sunrise ♪
1367
00:46:40,039 --> 00:46:43,874
♪ ♪
1368
00:46:44,027 --> 00:46:47,361
- Whew. Feels good out here.
1369
00:46:47,454 --> 00:46:48,863
Baby, you want some sunscreen?
1370
00:46:48,956 --> 00:46:50,807
- Yes, please.
- All right.
1371
00:46:51,034 --> 00:46:52,867
- Baby, you got us on,
like, a real hike.
1372
00:46:52,960 --> 00:46:54,535
- Yeah.
- This ain't no trail.
1373
00:46:54,554 --> 00:46:56,203
This is, like, a hike-hike?
1374
00:46:56,222 --> 00:46:57,963
- I don't think
stacia really likes
1375
00:46:57,982 --> 00:47:00,224
All the super outdoorsy stuff.
1376
00:47:00,376 --> 00:47:01,725
You know,
she's definitely a city girl.
1377
00:47:01,878 --> 00:47:05,154
But it's something
that I really enjoy.
1378
00:47:05,306 --> 00:47:08,732
And so I'm excited for us
to, you know, do this together,
1379
00:47:08,885 --> 00:47:12,219
Because hiking really gets rid
of the chatter
1380
00:47:12,238 --> 00:47:13,996
Inside the--inside the mind.
1381
00:47:14,223 --> 00:47:16,332
And with decision day
coming up,
1382
00:47:16,483 --> 00:47:18,409
I think that's healthy
for both of us.
1383
00:47:18,561 --> 00:47:20,485
♪ ♪
1384
00:47:20,505 --> 00:47:23,172
All right, let's hike.
1385
00:47:23,399 --> 00:47:25,157
- What zone are we gonna
get into right now?
1386
00:47:25,176 --> 00:47:26,509
- We're gonna get
in the alpha zone.
1387
00:47:26,660 --> 00:47:28,419
- Alpha zone.
- Yeah.
1388
00:47:28,571 --> 00:47:32,515
♪ ♪
1389
00:47:32,666 --> 00:47:33,757
- This is relaxing.
1390
00:47:33,910 --> 00:47:35,743
- Yeah.
1391
00:47:35,761 --> 00:47:39,096
- Breathe in, breathe out.
1392
00:47:39,248 --> 00:47:40,247
- Oh, there's a snake,
for real--
1393
00:47:40,266 --> 00:47:42,341
- No, no, no, no.
1394
00:47:42,435 --> 00:47:43,526
- No, that's not a snake.
1395
00:47:43,677 --> 00:47:44,843
I'm seeing [bleep].
1396
00:47:44,937 --> 00:47:46,845
Sorry, my bad. [laughs]
1397
00:47:46,865 --> 00:47:47,697
I thought it was.
1398
00:47:47,924 --> 00:47:50,774
- [laughing]
1399
00:47:50,869 --> 00:47:56,764
♪ ♪
1400
00:47:56,782 --> 00:47:58,690
I want to continue to do
stuff like this.
1401
00:47:58,710 --> 00:48:00,784
Like, I don't want it to just
be, like, a sporadic thing.
1402
00:48:00,937 --> 00:48:02,436
- Yeah.
1403
00:48:02,455 --> 00:48:03,621
- I know we're gonna work a lot
at times.
1404
00:48:03,715 --> 00:48:04,955
But...
- Right.
1405
00:48:05,108 --> 00:48:07,884
- I want to be able
to still make time for us.
1406
00:48:08,035 --> 00:48:09,610
- Yeah, definitely.
1407
00:48:09,629 --> 00:48:11,462
But I don't think
we're gonna be able
1408
00:48:11,556 --> 00:48:14,965
To have a lot of fun when
we have a brand-new newborn.
1409
00:48:15,118 --> 00:48:17,785
I'm just being realistic.
1410
00:48:17,803 --> 00:48:19,970
- I think it's gonna be fun.
1411
00:48:20,123 --> 00:48:21,397
- Okay.
1412
00:48:21,624 --> 00:48:24,642
Noted.
1413
00:48:24,794 --> 00:48:27,552
So I actually have
a little surprise for you
1414
00:48:27,647 --> 00:48:28,905
At the picnic table.
1415
00:48:29,056 --> 00:48:30,239
- Really?
- Yeah.
1416
00:48:30,391 --> 00:48:33,634
It's like a little
creative california activity.
1417
00:48:33,727 --> 00:48:35,077
- Okay.
- You're gonna learn.
1418
00:48:35,229 --> 00:48:36,746
- I'm excited.
Oh, I'm gonna learn?
1419
00:48:36,897 --> 00:48:37,729
- You gonna learn today.
1420
00:48:37,823 --> 00:48:39,231
- Okay.
- Yeah.
1421
00:48:39,325 --> 00:48:40,416
All right, here you go.
1422
00:48:40,643 --> 00:48:41,642
Have a seat.
1423
00:48:41,661 --> 00:48:43,160
- What is this?
1424
00:48:43,312 --> 00:48:45,329
- We're about to make
chips and guac, girl.
1425
00:48:45,423 --> 00:48:46,330
- Oh, really?
1426
00:48:46,424 --> 00:48:47,665
- From scratch.
1427
00:48:47,817 --> 00:48:48,999
♪ ♪
1428
00:48:49,152 --> 00:48:50,317
- Okay.
1429
00:48:50,336 --> 00:48:52,911
- So what I'll do is
I'll cut up the avocados.
1430
00:48:52,931 --> 00:48:54,263
You cut up the limes.
1431
00:48:54,415 --> 00:48:56,490
- Okay, how do you want
the limes cut?
1432
00:48:56,509 --> 00:49:00,010
- Cut one in half, so we can
squeeze it into the bowl.
1433
00:49:00,163 --> 00:49:01,437
- Okay.
1434
00:49:01,588 --> 00:49:03,347
- And then cut this one
into quarters.
1435
00:49:03,499 --> 00:49:07,109
All right, so let's talk
about fun and kids.
1436
00:49:07,336 --> 00:49:09,445
I don't know how that
goes hand in hand.
1437
00:49:09,672 --> 00:49:11,839
- I just don't want
to be boring parents,
1438
00:49:11,857 --> 00:49:13,524
Where all we're doing is...
1439
00:49:13,676 --> 00:49:15,176
- I understand that.
- Taking care of kids.
1440
00:49:15,194 --> 00:49:17,769
Like, I want to be able
to, like, have kids
1441
00:49:17,789 --> 00:49:19,121
And still have fun
1442
00:49:19,348 --> 00:49:22,032
And still do things
that we enjoy doing,
1443
00:49:22,185 --> 00:49:25,795
Where our life is not revolving
around just having a kid,
1444
00:49:25,946 --> 00:49:27,354
And that's all we
are worried about,
1445
00:49:27,373 --> 00:49:28,464
That's all our time goes to.
1446
00:49:28,615 --> 00:49:29,690
Like, I don't want that.
1447
00:49:29,709 --> 00:49:31,300
♪ ♪
1448
00:49:31,452 --> 00:49:33,377
- [laughs]
1449
00:49:33,471 --> 00:49:35,304
I think fun and babies--
1450
00:49:35,456 --> 00:49:38,290
There's no--there's no,
like, fun and babies.
1451
00:49:38,309 --> 00:49:40,034
I don't think
they go hand in hand.
1452
00:49:40,127 --> 00:49:43,554
Traveling, you know,
going on vacations
1453
00:49:43,706 --> 00:49:46,373
While having a newborn baby,
1454
00:49:46,467 --> 00:49:48,876
I don't think
it's gonna be fun.
1455
00:49:48,894 --> 00:49:51,061
- So then what do you envision?
1456
00:49:51,214 --> 00:49:54,156
- I envision going hard
and being a full-time dad
1457
00:49:54,383 --> 00:49:56,475
At age, like, zero
all the way to, like,
1458
00:49:56,494 --> 00:49:59,662
Around...
I would say at least three.
1459
00:49:59,889 --> 00:50:02,239
- And then that means,
like, no vacations,
1460
00:50:02,391 --> 00:50:03,666
No date nights, no--
1461
00:50:03,817 --> 00:50:05,817
- Still go on dates,
but like, going on a vacation
1462
00:50:05,837 --> 00:50:07,152
For a week--for a whole week?
1463
00:50:07,246 --> 00:50:09,005
That's a lot.
- Mm-hmm.
1464
00:50:09,156 --> 00:50:11,656
- It's a whole baby
that is completely dependent.
1465
00:50:11,676 --> 00:50:12,733
- I get that.
We're gonna be able to--
1466
00:50:12,752 --> 00:50:14,343
- Because we still
have to raise a--
1467
00:50:14,495 --> 00:50:16,661
Like, literally a newborn,
[bleep] everywhere,
1468
00:50:16,756 --> 00:50:17,680
Pissing everywhere.
1469
00:50:17,831 --> 00:50:19,757
We've gotta feed it
six times a day,
1470
00:50:19,909 --> 00:50:21,333
Napping everywhere.
1471
00:50:21,427 --> 00:50:23,001
Got to put clothes on it.
1472
00:50:23,021 --> 00:50:24,520
That don't sound
like fun to me.
1473
00:50:24,671 --> 00:50:25,929
- It's gonna be tough.
- That sounds like a job.
1474
00:50:26,024 --> 00:50:27,523
- It's gonna be tough.
Granted, it's gonna be tough.
1475
00:50:27,674 --> 00:50:28,932
But that's your baby.
1476
00:50:29,085 --> 00:50:30,860
♪ ♪
1477
00:50:31,011 --> 00:50:32,695
It does seem like
he doesn't believe
1478
00:50:32,846 --> 00:50:35,197
That you can still
be a fun person
1479
00:50:35,349 --> 00:50:36,699
And then also have kids.
1480
00:50:36,926 --> 00:50:39,518
So I'm not sure
if nate's gonna be ready
1481
00:50:39,612 --> 00:50:40,852
To have kids in a year.
1482
00:50:40,872 --> 00:50:42,521
So I'm disappointed.
1483
00:50:42,615 --> 00:50:44,523
But only time can tell.
1484
00:50:44,617 --> 00:50:45,708
Can I ask you a question?
1485
00:50:45,935 --> 00:50:48,693
Are you nervous about
all of these transitions
1486
00:50:48,713 --> 00:50:51,939
And changes that would be
happening after decision day?
1487
00:50:51,957 --> 00:50:54,625
- A little bit.
- Yeah.
1488
00:50:54,719 --> 00:50:57,035
- I think it's natural,
though, to be nervous.
1489
00:50:57,055 --> 00:50:59,221
- Yeah.
- Am I--am I, like, fearful?
1490
00:50:59,448 --> 00:51:02,058
Like, am I, like,
getting cold feet?
1491
00:51:02,209 --> 00:51:03,951
- Mm-hmm.
- No.
1492
00:51:04,044 --> 00:51:07,212
But I'm gonna be immersed
with somebody.
1493
00:51:07,231 --> 00:51:10,048
Not only moving in with them,
1494
00:51:10,068 --> 00:51:12,401
But we're gonna eventually
combine our finances together.
1495
00:51:12,628 --> 00:51:13,811
These are all things
that I've never done
1496
00:51:13,963 --> 00:51:15,963
In my entire life before.
- Mm-hmm.
1497
00:51:15,981 --> 00:51:18,148
It's gonna be change.
It's gonna be different.
1498
00:51:18,301 --> 00:51:19,241
- Mm-hmm.
1499
00:51:19,393 --> 00:51:21,635
- You know,
I've been on my own too.
1500
00:51:21,728 --> 00:51:23,304
- Mm-hmm.
- Doing my own thing,
1501
00:51:23,397 --> 00:51:25,489
Not having to compromise
at all.
1502
00:51:25,583 --> 00:51:27,474
But I'm excited.
1503
00:51:27,493 --> 00:51:30,327
And I'm hopeful and optimistic
about the future.
1504
00:51:30,479 --> 00:51:31,587
- Okay.
1505
00:51:31,738 --> 00:51:33,405
Well, what if I start
getting on your nerves,
1506
00:51:33,424 --> 00:51:34,331
And I'm all in your--
1507
00:51:34,425 --> 00:51:35,332
- You already do.
1508
00:51:35,484 --> 00:51:37,151
♪ ♪
1509
00:51:37,169 --> 00:51:39,077
- But now I'm in your house,
though.
1510
00:51:39,097 --> 00:51:40,429
- We live together right now.
1511
00:51:40,581 --> 00:51:42,156
- Yeah,
but it's not a real house.
1512
00:51:42,249 --> 00:51:43,991
- So what would
be the difference
1513
00:51:44,084 --> 00:51:47,937
Between us arguing
in the apartment
1514
00:51:48,088 --> 00:51:49,346
Versus in the house?
1515
00:51:49,498 --> 00:51:50,664
♪ ♪
1516
00:51:50,683 --> 00:51:53,016
- The difference is
I'm living in your house.
1517
00:51:53,169 --> 00:51:54,759
And I feel--
1518
00:51:54,779 --> 00:51:56,928
I feel vulnerable
living in your house.
1519
00:51:56,948 --> 00:52:01,450
Even though it's "our house,"
it's really your house.
1520
00:52:01,602 --> 00:52:03,119
- Okay, is there anything
that I can do
1521
00:52:03,346 --> 00:52:06,938
To, like, make you feel
more comfortable?
1522
00:52:06,958 --> 00:52:08,273
Granted, yeah, I have a vision
1523
00:52:08,292 --> 00:52:09,533
Of how I want the house
to look like
1524
00:52:09,685 --> 00:52:10,609
And the furniture
and everything,
1525
00:52:10,628 --> 00:52:15,689
But it's going to be
a dual decision.
1526
00:52:15,782 --> 00:52:17,191
- Will it ever get
to the point
1527
00:52:17,209 --> 00:52:18,968
Where you would want
to kick me out?
1528
00:52:19,195 --> 00:52:20,285
- No.
1529
00:52:20,379 --> 00:52:22,471
I told you that I would never
say that to you.
1530
00:52:23,883 --> 00:52:25,366
- Okay.
1531
00:52:25,459 --> 00:52:27,050
I guess my fear is just like,
1532
00:52:27,203 --> 00:52:28,535
If things were to get bad
1533
00:52:28,554 --> 00:52:31,872
And, let's say--knock on wood--
1534
00:52:31,891 --> 00:52:36,894
We decide to get separated,
we decide to end it,
1535
00:52:36,988 --> 00:52:38,303
Where do I go?
1536
00:52:38,322 --> 00:52:39,880
I'll be homeless.
1537
00:52:39,899 --> 00:52:42,883
[dramatic music]
1538
00:52:42,902 --> 00:52:43,617
♪ ♪
1539
00:52:47,239 --> 00:52:48,722
[upbeat music]
1540
00:52:48,741 --> 00:52:53,836
♪ ♪
1541
00:53:05,257 --> 00:53:06,740
[knock on door]
1542
00:53:06,759 --> 00:53:08,075
- Oh, I think
our friends are here.
1543
00:53:08,093 --> 00:53:09,685
[tense music]
1544
00:53:09,836 --> 00:53:11,353
There's still
a lot of awkwardness
1545
00:53:11,505 --> 00:53:14,523
And uncomfortableness
between lindy and I.
1546
00:53:14,750 --> 00:53:16,508
And we thought
it would be a good idea
1547
00:53:16,527 --> 00:53:18,101
To, like, blow off some steam.
1548
00:53:18,254 --> 00:53:19,177
- Oh, my gosh, how cute!
1549
00:53:19,197 --> 00:53:20,437
- I like how you guys
coordinated.
1550
00:53:20,531 --> 00:53:22,013
- How are you?
- I'm good.
1551
00:53:22,033 --> 00:53:23,774
So tonight,
we're having friends over
1552
00:53:23,926 --> 00:53:26,351
To play some
dungeons and dragons, baby.
1553
00:53:26,445 --> 00:53:28,871
And I am very much
looking forward
1554
00:53:29,022 --> 00:53:31,114
To sharing my passion
for dungeons and dragons
1555
00:53:31,267 --> 00:53:32,374
With lindy.
1556
00:53:32,601 --> 00:53:35,211
- We're--we're just gonna start
from ground zero.
1557
00:53:35,362 --> 00:53:36,954
And...
- Yeah.
1558
00:53:37,106 --> 00:53:38,214
- No judgment here.
I know you've never played.
1559
00:53:38,365 --> 00:53:40,107
I know I've never played.
We don't know what's up.
1560
00:53:40,125 --> 00:53:41,366
But these two will show us
the ropes.
1561
00:53:41,385 --> 00:53:42,626
- It's gonna be
very bumpy for us.
1562
00:53:42,720 --> 00:53:44,127
- We got you.
We got you.
1563
00:53:44,280 --> 00:53:45,870
Apologies in advance.
1564
00:53:45,965 --> 00:53:48,465
- Yeah, if you guys have
any questions...
1565
00:53:48,559 --> 00:53:50,226
- Well, yeah,
there'll be lots of questions.
1566
00:53:50,377 --> 00:53:52,953
- Ask away.
Ask me, ask frankie.
1567
00:53:53,046 --> 00:53:55,046
So I'll describe the world.
1568
00:53:55,066 --> 00:53:56,974
And then you guys can go
around, be creative,
1569
00:53:57,126 --> 00:53:58,475
Use your imagination.
1570
00:53:58,627 --> 00:54:01,795
The answer is almost never
a no.
1571
00:54:01,814 --> 00:54:03,964
It's a, "let's try
to figure it out."
1572
00:54:03,983 --> 00:54:07,968
So this is basically set
in a small rural town
1573
00:54:07,987 --> 00:54:09,394
Called mafstoria.
1574
00:54:09,413 --> 00:54:10,913
[folk music]
1575
00:54:11,064 --> 00:54:14,399
In mafstoria, something
is terrorizing these people
1576
00:54:14,493 --> 00:54:15,900
That has wings.
1577
00:54:15,920 --> 00:54:19,255
So let's say
you approach the tavern.
1578
00:54:19,482 --> 00:54:21,648
It's called
the big swig tavern.
1579
00:54:21,742 --> 00:54:23,667
- Okay.
- But there's a--
1580
00:54:23,819 --> 00:54:26,336
A dwarf that seems
to be the owner.
1581
00:54:26,489 --> 00:54:27,988
When he greets you,
he's like...
1582
00:54:28,081 --> 00:54:29,673
[with irish accent]
oi, lass, name is gristle.
1583
00:54:29,825 --> 00:54:30,657
What can I do for you?
1584
00:54:30,676 --> 00:54:33,827
♪ ♪
1585
00:54:33,846 --> 00:54:36,921
- Oh, whoa,
we're starting with me?
1586
00:54:37,016 --> 00:54:38,757
- [normal voice] yeah.
- Oh, I don't know what to do.
1587
00:54:38,776 --> 00:54:39,850
- Interact with the bartender.
1588
00:54:39,944 --> 00:54:41,018
- Okay, um...
1589
00:54:41,170 --> 00:54:46,115
I'd like whiskey,
kind, handsome stranger.
1590
00:54:46,266 --> 00:54:47,616
[laughter]
1591
00:54:47,843 --> 00:54:49,510
- When you say
"handsome stranger,"
1592
00:54:49,528 --> 00:54:52,270
He kind of, like--he lets out
a little bit of a sob.
1593
00:54:52,290 --> 00:54:54,105
He's like...
- Oh, my god.
1594
00:54:54,125 --> 00:54:55,866
- I mean, today was supposed
to be my wedding day.
1595
00:54:56,018 --> 00:54:58,035
But she decided to...
1596
00:54:58,129 --> 00:54:59,870
To leave me for someone else.
1597
00:55:00,022 --> 00:55:01,446
- [laughing] oh, my god.
1598
00:55:01,540 --> 00:55:03,190
[quirky music]
1599
00:55:03,283 --> 00:55:05,950
I'm so sorry to hear that.
1600
00:55:05,970 --> 00:55:07,194
- We were so very much in love.
1601
00:55:07,212 --> 00:55:12,290
And within just, like,
a matter of a week,
1602
00:55:12,310 --> 00:55:14,810
Some pompous fool just comes in
1603
00:55:15,037 --> 00:55:16,386
And kind of, like,
sweeps her off her feet.
1604
00:55:16,480 --> 00:55:18,539
I just never thought
that would happen to us.
1605
00:55:18,557 --> 00:55:21,375
It just seemed so very, like,
out of place for her.
1606
00:55:21,393 --> 00:55:22,801
- Excuse me, sir,
do you mind if I ask
1607
00:55:22,820 --> 00:55:24,469
What the pompous fool
looked like?
1608
00:55:24,488 --> 00:55:26,322
- Just go to the church.
1609
00:55:26,549 --> 00:55:27,639
Because someone
is still getting married,
1610
00:55:27,733 --> 00:55:28,807
It's just not me.
1611
00:55:28,826 --> 00:55:32,402
I'm just not the right person.
1612
00:55:32,496 --> 00:55:34,071
- Oh, my god.
1613
00:55:34,223 --> 00:55:35,055
- Sorry about your wedding.
1614
00:55:35,074 --> 00:55:36,073
I turn and leave.
1615
00:55:36,225 --> 00:55:37,148
You guys want to come?
1616
00:55:37,168 --> 00:55:38,392
- Yes.
1617
00:55:38,410 --> 00:55:40,561
♪ ♪
1618
00:55:40,579 --> 00:55:43,172
It is important for me
to get excited
1619
00:55:43,323 --> 00:55:46,233
About this passion of his.
1620
00:55:46,251 --> 00:55:49,236
But you know, like,
d&d is so confusing.
1621
00:55:49,254 --> 00:55:52,756
I'm like, roll for it,
calculating, there's math,
1622
00:55:52,908 --> 00:55:54,666
There's different die--die?
1623
00:55:54,685 --> 00:55:56,259
Dice? I don't even know.
1624
00:55:56,354 --> 00:55:58,336
- Give me, like, a self roll.
- What's that?
1625
00:55:58,356 --> 00:55:59,746
- Roll a d20.
- Roll a d20.
1626
00:55:59,840 --> 00:56:02,358
- So the biggest die,
the one that looks most round.
1627
00:56:02,509 --> 00:56:03,917
Yeah.
- Yeah.
1628
00:56:03,936 --> 00:56:05,510
- Definitely complicated.
1629
00:56:05,604 --> 00:56:07,437
- Yeah, so you walk in.
1630
00:56:07,590 --> 00:56:09,940
But you get the impression
that, like, something is off.
1631
00:56:10,092 --> 00:56:12,183
Like, she doesn't seem
like a happy bride
1632
00:56:12,203 --> 00:56:14,036
About to kiss her groom.
1633
00:56:14,187 --> 00:56:15,929
- Well, I'll tell you why.
1634
00:56:16,022 --> 00:56:17,539
[laughing] I'm sorry. Go on.
1635
00:56:17,691 --> 00:56:20,117
- Um, you see him
kind of eager for it,
1636
00:56:20,269 --> 00:56:21,602
And you just kind of see her
just going with the motions,
1637
00:56:21,620 --> 00:56:23,453
Kind of like--you know?
1638
00:56:23,606 --> 00:56:24,621
- Yeah.
- Yeah.
1639
00:56:24,773 --> 00:56:26,773
What do you guys do?
1640
00:56:26,792 --> 00:56:28,442
- Do we think she's trapped
in this marriage?
1641
00:56:28,460 --> 00:56:30,034
♪ ♪
1642
00:56:30,054 --> 00:56:31,945
- Maybe she's just,
like, captivated by him.
1643
00:56:32,038 --> 00:56:33,371
Maybe she's under a spell.
1644
00:56:33,391 --> 00:56:34,631
- Maybe.
1645
00:56:34,783 --> 00:56:36,392
- Do I have permission
to punch him in the face?
1646
00:56:36,543 --> 00:56:37,618
Is that an option?
1647
00:56:37,636 --> 00:56:39,453
- You can absolutely try.
- [laughing]
1648
00:56:39,546 --> 00:56:41,212
- And when you hit him,
he swaps out.
1649
00:56:41,232 --> 00:56:42,956
And what you now see is this.
1650
00:56:43,049 --> 00:56:45,125
- Oh, he's a [bleep] demon?
1651
00:56:45,144 --> 00:56:46,143
- I don't know.
That's what you see.
1652
00:56:46,237 --> 00:56:48,145
- What the [bleep] is that?
- [laughs]
1653
00:56:48,297 --> 00:56:51,632
- As miguel is explaining
the story line for this game,
1654
00:56:51,725 --> 00:56:55,318
It's almost like he's talking
about us and our relationship.
1655
00:56:55,413 --> 00:56:57,562
But...No.
1656
00:56:57,581 --> 00:56:59,322
Yeah, I don't trust this guy.
1657
00:56:59,417 --> 00:57:05,312
♪ ♪
1658
00:57:05,330 --> 00:57:08,257
[upbeat music]
1659
00:57:08,484 --> 00:57:12,502
♪ ♪
1660
00:57:12,596 --> 00:57:14,655
- It's good to be back.
- It's good to have you back.
1661
00:57:14,673 --> 00:57:16,506
- Thanks, babe.
1662
00:57:16,659 --> 00:57:20,752
- We were like, it's
a little quiet around here.
1663
00:57:20,771 --> 00:57:22,679
- This is gonna be
a nice weekend.
1664
00:57:22,831 --> 00:57:23,830
We'll see what the ocean
1665
00:57:23,924 --> 00:57:25,849
Is offering today.
- Yes.
1666
00:57:26,001 --> 00:57:28,518
- I have a feeling it's gonna
be big, windy, and sloppy.
1667
00:57:28,612 --> 00:57:29,928
That's...
- Oh, god.
1668
00:57:29,947 --> 00:57:32,263
- Not the best case scenario.
1669
00:57:32,357 --> 00:57:35,358
But you know, like, I'm
a cup half full kind of guy.
1670
00:57:35,511 --> 00:57:37,769
- Are you?
- Am I?
1671
00:57:37,788 --> 00:57:39,621
- [laughs] are you?
- Am I?
1672
00:57:39,773 --> 00:57:40,864
- [laughs]
1673
00:57:41,016 --> 00:57:43,775
I am excited
to just spend time with you.
1674
00:57:43,869 --> 00:57:47,796
I don't know if I'm in,
like, a huge shredding mood.
1675
00:57:48,023 --> 00:57:51,208
- It's more of a hungover,
feel like [bleep] day for me,
1676
00:57:51,360 --> 00:57:53,860
If we're being honest.
1677
00:57:53,954 --> 00:57:55,787
- What did you do last night
to be so hungover?
1678
00:57:55,806 --> 00:57:57,380
- Well, we had a dinner.
1679
00:57:57,533 --> 00:57:58,807
And then we hit the bar.
1680
00:57:59,034 --> 00:58:02,202
And it just happened
to be karaoke night.
1681
00:58:02,221 --> 00:58:04,054
Definitely thought of you.
1682
00:58:04,206 --> 00:58:06,707
You'd be proud, actually,
because I started it off.
1683
00:58:06,725 --> 00:58:09,818
I got the party jumping.
[laughs]
1684
00:58:09,970 --> 00:58:13,880
- Um, do you--is your--
is your ring in the car?
1685
00:58:13,974 --> 00:58:15,491
Did you lose your ring?
- No.
1686
00:58:15,718 --> 00:58:16,883
- Okay.
- It's right here, sorry.
1687
00:58:16,902 --> 00:58:17,826
[tense music]
1688
00:58:17,978 --> 00:58:20,645
I'm married again.
1689
00:58:20,739 --> 00:58:21,980
- Were you not married?
1690
00:58:22,074 --> 00:58:24,908
- Uh, I was to all my
close friends that I know.
1691
00:58:25,002 --> 00:58:27,244
But I was not ready
to be married for the whole--
1692
00:58:27,396 --> 00:58:28,562
For my whole company.
1693
00:58:28,655 --> 00:58:29,746
It was just too much.
- Yeah.
1694
00:58:29,898 --> 00:58:31,840
- I would have been forced
to go up and do
1695
00:58:32,067 --> 00:58:33,750
A full presentation
with slides.
1696
00:58:33,844 --> 00:58:37,328
♪ ♪
1697
00:58:37,348 --> 00:58:41,091
- Um, were there any
cute girls on this trip?
1698
00:58:41,243 --> 00:58:43,501
- [laughs] oh, jealous type.
1699
00:58:43,595 --> 00:58:45,245
- Was that a jealous question?
- No.
1700
00:58:45,338 --> 00:58:46,429
- Or just a question?
- I know.
1701
00:58:46,524 --> 00:58:50,433
Yeah, I mean, there is--
1702
00:58:50,528 --> 00:58:52,586
You know, what--what--[sighs]
1703
00:58:52,679 --> 00:58:54,679
- [laughs]
1704
00:58:54,773 --> 00:58:56,423
- You know,
they're all just dog ugly
1705
00:58:56,441 --> 00:58:57,924
Now that I'm married to you,
actually.
1706
00:58:57,943 --> 00:59:01,686
I don't even--it's like
I don't even see women anymore.
1707
00:59:01,780 --> 00:59:03,280
You go to any beach town,
1708
00:59:03,374 --> 00:59:05,356
There's always cute girls
in the beach world,
1709
00:59:05,376 --> 00:59:07,117
You know what I mean?
1710
00:59:07,269 --> 00:59:11,046
So yeah, there were
some cute surf rider girls.
1711
00:59:11,197 --> 00:59:13,031
It's--it's really
a lot of girls.
1712
00:59:13,050 --> 00:59:14,457
I'm a dude among ladies there.
1713
00:59:14,552 --> 00:59:16,443
There's, like, few of us guys.
1714
00:59:16,461 --> 00:59:19,462
♪ ♪
1715
00:59:19,615 --> 00:59:21,372
- He's just straight up.
1716
00:59:21,466 --> 00:59:22,783
"I didn't wear my ring.
1717
00:59:22,876 --> 00:59:25,118
There were hot beach babes
at the conference."
1718
00:59:25,137 --> 00:59:26,395
♪ ♪
1719
00:59:26,546 --> 00:59:28,897
- So we raised at the bar.
1720
00:59:29,049 --> 00:59:31,458
You know, after the party,
it's the hotel lobby.
1721
00:59:31,476 --> 00:59:33,794
After the lobby,
it's the after-party.
1722
00:59:33,812 --> 00:59:35,070
Well, you know, whatever.
1723
00:59:35,221 --> 00:59:36,313
And I was up late,
1724
00:59:36,465 --> 00:59:37,221
And I was hungover
this morning,
1725
00:59:37,241 --> 00:59:38,240
So there you go.
1726
00:59:38,391 --> 00:59:41,301
- [laughing]
1727
00:59:41,320 --> 00:59:44,079
♪ ♪
1728
00:59:44,230 --> 00:59:47,657
He was just so forthcoming
with that information.
1729
00:59:47,810 --> 00:59:49,142
- Saving the world
is stressful,
1730
00:59:49,235 --> 00:59:50,477
So you gotta have some fun.
1731
00:59:50,495 --> 00:59:50,711
♪ ♪
1732
00:59:54,333 --> 00:59:55,740
[upbeat music]
1733
00:59:55,759 --> 00:59:57,150
- ♪ hot girl
and a hot body ♪
1734
00:59:57,169 --> 00:59:59,986
♪ get my cutoff jeans,
then I ain't got time ♪
1735
01:00:00,080 --> 01:00:01,822
♪ many people hustle like me ♪
1736
01:00:01,840 --> 01:00:03,748
♪ 'cause doing heavy lifting
was life ♪
1737
01:00:03,842 --> 01:00:08,678
♪ whoa, whoa, whoa ♪
1738
01:00:08,831 --> 01:00:11,440
- Me and mitch are trying
to enjoy each other's company,
1739
01:00:11,591 --> 01:00:12,757
Have fun.
1740
01:00:12,851 --> 01:00:15,352
I'm just thinking about
me and mitch as a whole.
1741
01:00:15,446 --> 01:00:19,189
- Everything's clean
and very well-prepared, so...
1742
01:00:19,341 --> 01:00:21,099
It's been a long week.
1743
01:00:21,118 --> 01:00:22,433
- I'm not thrilled that mitch
1744
01:00:22,453 --> 01:00:24,620
Didn't wear his ring
on his conference
1745
01:00:24,771 --> 01:00:26,437
And was living it up
with the beach babes.
1746
01:00:26,531 --> 01:00:29,182
But I'm gonna try
and let it go.
1747
01:00:29,201 --> 01:00:30,200
Is this one mine?
1748
01:00:30,352 --> 01:00:32,035
- That's your suit.
1749
01:00:32,187 --> 01:00:35,355
- I wouldn't say we are, like,
a picture perfect marriage,
1750
01:00:35,374 --> 01:00:36,873
Hand in hand every day.
1751
01:00:36,967 --> 01:00:38,692
And I wouldn't say
that we're estranged.
1752
01:00:38,710 --> 01:00:40,710
I think we're somewhere
in the middle.
1753
01:00:40,804 --> 01:00:42,471
- ♪ we feelin' all right ♪
1754
01:00:42,622 --> 01:00:44,455
♪ we livin' our life ♪
1755
01:00:44,475 --> 01:00:48,218
- You got it! [laughs]
1756
01:00:48,370 --> 01:00:50,294
Yes! Yes, pup! Yes!
1757
01:00:50,389 --> 01:00:52,038
Look at her go!
1758
01:00:52,057 --> 01:00:53,464
♪ ♪
1759
01:00:53,484 --> 01:00:54,650
She loves it!
[luna barks]
1760
01:00:54,801 --> 01:00:55,892
- ♪ ain't no stoppin' ♪
1761
01:00:56,044 --> 01:00:58,211
[laughs] oh, my god.
1762
01:00:58,304 --> 01:01:00,213
- ♪ can't stop us now ♪
1763
01:01:00,232 --> 01:01:04,142
♪ ♪
1764
01:01:04,161 --> 01:01:07,478
Gosh, mitch and luna
are so adorable!
1765
01:01:07,572 --> 01:01:09,072
I almost got emotional.
1766
01:01:09,224 --> 01:01:11,241
It was just so sweet.
1767
01:01:11,393 --> 01:01:12,893
They looked like they were
having so much fun together.
1768
01:01:12,911 --> 01:01:15,245
The look on her face,
I can't tell if she's excited
1769
01:01:15,397 --> 01:01:16,320
Or if she's scared.
1770
01:01:16,340 --> 01:01:18,581
I'm not sure,
but it's super cute.
1771
01:01:18,676 --> 01:01:20,083
- Nice job out there.
1772
01:01:20,235 --> 01:01:21,568
Luna too.
- Yeah.
1773
01:01:21,586 --> 01:01:23,570
- Not too shabby for a pug.
- That was the highlight,
1774
01:01:23,663 --> 01:01:25,071
I think, of my whole week.
1775
01:01:25,090 --> 01:01:26,740
And you were so sweet with her.
1776
01:01:26,833 --> 01:01:29,500
I will say
I felt like the surfing
1777
01:01:29,520 --> 01:01:31,578
Was kind of like our marriage.
1778
01:01:31,596 --> 01:01:32,521
♪ ♪
1779
01:01:32,748 --> 01:01:33,596
- Yeah.
1780
01:01:33,691 --> 01:01:35,582
- Wave after wave,
1781
01:01:35,600 --> 01:01:37,751
And we kept going over them
together.
1782
01:01:37,769 --> 01:01:40,253
But then the waves kept coming.
1783
01:01:40,272 --> 01:01:42,756
But once--once you get
over all the--
1784
01:01:42,774 --> 01:01:44,182
You know, getting smacked
in the face,
1785
01:01:44,276 --> 01:01:47,351
Wave after wave after wave,
when you get past the break,
1786
01:01:47,371 --> 01:01:48,762
There's, like,
a moment of silence.
1787
01:01:48,780 --> 01:01:49,946
- Yeah, it's peaceful out there
once you're past--
1788
01:01:50,098 --> 01:01:50,872
- It's very peaceful.
1789
01:01:51,099 --> 01:01:52,933
- Yeah.
- Just like our marriage.
1790
01:01:52,951 --> 01:01:54,451
♪ ♪
1791
01:01:54,603 --> 01:01:57,287
- There's definitely, like,
a lot that is going well.
1792
01:01:57,439 --> 01:01:58,621
But it's hard, you know?
1793
01:01:58,774 --> 01:02:01,458
It's like this week
has very much been the old me.
1794
01:02:01,610 --> 01:02:02,776
I took the ring off,
1795
01:02:02,794 --> 01:02:04,444
And I'm hanging out
with all my old friends
1796
01:02:04,537 --> 01:02:06,796
And doing stuff
that I would do.
1797
01:02:06,949 --> 01:02:08,372
And then coming back
to krysten,
1798
01:02:08,467 --> 01:02:09,466
It feels really good too.
1799
01:02:09,618 --> 01:02:10,967
But it just feels like
there's this--
1800
01:02:11,119 --> 01:02:14,287
This just wide separation
between my lives.
1801
01:02:14,306 --> 01:02:17,290
And I don't know,
maybe that's how marriage is
1802
01:02:17,309 --> 01:02:18,641
For a lot of people,
but for me,
1803
01:02:18,794 --> 01:02:20,051
I feel--that's new.
1804
01:02:20,145 --> 01:02:21,219
That's very new for me.
1805
01:02:21,313 --> 01:02:23,387
- She is the happiest
she has ever been.
1806
01:02:23,482 --> 01:02:24,631
You a happy girl?
1807
01:02:24,649 --> 01:02:25,815
- You surfed, shredded.
1808
01:02:25,968 --> 01:02:28,059
- She didn't surf,
she shredded.
1809
01:02:28,153 --> 01:02:30,728
- My shreddy wife
and my shreddy pug.
1810
01:02:30,748 --> 01:02:34,750
- ♪ in the force of life ♪
1811
01:02:34,977 --> 01:02:36,643
♪ ♪
1812
01:02:36,661 --> 01:02:39,588
[upbeat music]
1813
01:02:39,815 --> 01:02:42,907
♪ ♪
1814
01:02:42,926 --> 01:02:44,167
- What about that d&d session?
1815
01:02:44,261 --> 01:02:46,762
- I know!
- [laughs]
1816
01:02:46,913 --> 01:02:49,080
- ♪ do you want it? ♪
1817
01:02:49,099 --> 01:02:50,766
♪ baby, I got it ♪
1818
01:02:50,917 --> 01:02:52,842
- I'm so happy you were,
like, down to just play
1819
01:02:52,995 --> 01:02:53,918
And be in that world.
1820
01:02:54,012 --> 01:02:55,829
That was really fun.
- It's so nice,
1821
01:02:55,847 --> 01:02:57,421
'cause I haven't seen you
in, like, two weeks.
1822
01:02:57,441 --> 01:02:59,015
So I wanted to hear
what's going on.
1823
01:02:59,167 --> 01:03:02,519
- A lot has happened
since I've seen you.
1824
01:03:02,671 --> 01:03:04,279
Miguel's been so consistent
1825
01:03:04,506 --> 01:03:06,189
For the past, what,
seven weeks?
1826
01:03:06,341 --> 01:03:08,358
Just so consistent.
1827
01:03:08,452 --> 01:03:12,436
And this last weekend,
it's been [bleep] horrible.
1828
01:03:12,456 --> 01:03:14,180
[tense music]
1829
01:03:14,199 --> 01:03:15,457
Like, horrible.
1830
01:03:15,608 --> 01:03:17,608
- More recently, we've
been having, like, these--
1831
01:03:17,702 --> 01:03:19,294
These what I would call--
1832
01:03:19,521 --> 01:03:20,945
It's funny, because
she doesn't consider them
1833
01:03:21,039 --> 01:03:23,023
Big miscommunication issues.
- Mm-hmm.
1834
01:03:23,041 --> 01:03:24,782
- But for me,
they have been, like,
1835
01:03:24,802 --> 01:03:26,617
Really big
miscommunication issues
1836
01:03:26,637 --> 01:03:28,711
That do make me a little bit
more insecure
1837
01:03:28,864 --> 01:03:29,805
Of, like, our future
1838
01:03:30,032 --> 01:03:32,641
And whether
we're right for each other.
1839
01:03:32,792 --> 01:03:36,478
- I don't think he understands,
like, a relationship--
1840
01:03:36,705 --> 01:03:38,296
Like, the fundamentals
of marriage.
1841
01:03:38,390 --> 01:03:40,723
I really--I don't.
1842
01:03:40,876 --> 01:03:43,318
The criticism and control,
like--
1843
01:03:43,469 --> 01:03:45,228
- What do you mean the control?
Like the name?
1844
01:03:45,322 --> 01:03:46,637
- The control.
1845
01:03:46,731 --> 01:03:49,140
Like, he wants me to act
a certain way
1846
01:03:49,159 --> 01:03:51,976
And be a certain way
that fits his agenda.
1847
01:03:51,995 --> 01:03:55,071
He's, like, offended
that I interrupt him.
1848
01:03:55,223 --> 01:03:56,981
I am too aggressive.
1849
01:03:57,000 --> 01:03:58,667
I'm too--I yell.
1850
01:03:58,818 --> 01:04:00,226
I'm too emotional.
1851
01:04:00,245 --> 01:04:05,489
Anything that, like, defines me
as a human existing--
1852
01:04:05,584 --> 01:04:08,159
Like, he's dampening me
as a person.
1853
01:04:08,178 --> 01:04:09,586
And that's not how this works.
1854
01:04:09,738 --> 01:04:10,846
I'm a whole person.
1855
01:04:10,997 --> 01:04:12,514
I'm a whole being.
1856
01:04:12,665 --> 01:04:14,257
Where's the compromise
that makes sense?
1857
01:04:14,409 --> 01:04:15,833
And it feels very much like,
"you bend to me,
1858
01:04:15,853 --> 01:04:18,019
Or I'm [bleep] done."
1859
01:04:18,246 --> 01:04:20,096
And he knows how much
I [bleep] love him
1860
01:04:20,248 --> 01:04:22,916
And would do anything
to make this work.
1861
01:04:22,934 --> 01:04:26,102
- I feel really bad,
because I have hurt her
1862
01:04:26,196 --> 01:04:30,273
By, like, voicing my
uncertainty and my doubt,
1863
01:04:30,425 --> 01:04:31,849
And whether we're right
for each other,
1864
01:04:31,869 --> 01:04:33,535
And whether, like, this works.
1865
01:04:33,762 --> 01:04:35,203
- Mm-hmm.
- And she doesn't like it.
1866
01:04:35,430 --> 01:04:37,447
She's like, "why are you--
like, one disagreement
1867
01:04:37,599 --> 01:04:39,523
Doesn't mean
this doesn't work."
1868
01:04:39,543 --> 01:04:41,267
She's like, "this doesn't work
1869
01:04:41,286 --> 01:04:43,436
When you start to think
it doesn't work, you know?"
1870
01:04:43,455 --> 01:04:45,213
And when you voice that,
it doesn't work.
1871
01:04:45,440 --> 01:04:46,364
She's like,
"that's when I start to feel
1872
01:04:46,383 --> 01:04:48,124
Scary and uncertain."
1873
01:04:48,276 --> 01:04:50,034
- I think she just doesn't
want you to stop trying.
1874
01:04:50,128 --> 01:04:51,720
- Yeah. I still love her.
1875
01:04:51,871 --> 01:04:53,371
I still want this to work.
1876
01:04:53,390 --> 01:04:56,616
But right now,
this is not working for me.
1877
01:04:56,635 --> 01:05:00,395
♪ ♪
1878
01:05:00,622 --> 01:05:02,972
- I almost feel like
I'm losing my fight.
1879
01:05:03,066 --> 01:05:04,290
I'm losing my fight with him.
1880
01:05:04,384 --> 01:05:06,902
And I just want to be like,
"I'm sorry, okay?
1881
01:05:07,053 --> 01:05:09,479
"I'm only gonna look at you
when you're talking.
1882
01:05:09,631 --> 01:05:11,389
"I won't get distracted.
1883
01:05:11,408 --> 01:05:13,742
"uh, I'll never interrupt you.
1884
01:05:13,893 --> 01:05:16,745
I'll make sure you're
done speaking beforehand."
1885
01:05:16,896 --> 01:05:18,229
And it feels like
that's what he wants,
1886
01:05:18,248 --> 01:05:21,157
And that's what he needs,
and I'm like, that's not me.
1887
01:05:21,309 --> 01:05:22,825
That's not a human.
1888
01:05:22,920 --> 01:05:25,145
That's a [bleep] blowup doll.
1889
01:05:25,163 --> 01:05:29,649
He's [bleep] just sucking it
from my soul right now.
1890
01:05:29,668 --> 01:05:31,834
He just shuts down
and pushes me away
1891
01:05:31,987 --> 01:05:34,003
And makes me feel like
a [bleep] piece of [bleep]
1892
01:05:34,097 --> 01:05:35,672
Over and over and over again.
1893
01:05:35,766 --> 01:05:37,006
I don't know.
1894
01:05:37,159 --> 01:05:38,266
I'm like--I'm at my--
1895
01:05:38,493 --> 01:05:39,993
I'm [bleep]
at my breaking point.
1896
01:05:40,011 --> 01:05:43,254
♪ ♪
1897
01:05:43,273 --> 01:05:44,922
It's alarming.
1898
01:05:44,942 --> 01:05:47,425
I feel afraid to talk to him
about some stuff
1899
01:05:47,444 --> 01:05:50,003
Because I just feel like
he's gonna be like,
1900
01:05:50,021 --> 01:05:54,841
"well, I'm done," and leave me.
1901
01:05:54,859 --> 01:05:57,177
[somber music]
1902
01:05:57,270 --> 01:05:58,436
That's what it feels like.
1903
01:05:58,455 --> 01:06:00,697
It's like if I actually
tell him what's up,
1904
01:06:00,849 --> 01:06:02,958
Like, he can't [bleep] handle
the truth.
1905
01:06:03,109 --> 01:06:06,019
If he were to hear this
right now, he'd be done.
1906
01:06:06,037 --> 01:06:08,630
- But then he leaves, and he
wasn't your right person.
1907
01:06:08,781 --> 01:06:10,114
You have to say
what you want to say.
1908
01:06:10,133 --> 01:06:12,192
You can't be a mouse
and say nothing.
1909
01:06:12,210 --> 01:06:13,876
Just be yourself.
1910
01:06:14,029 --> 01:06:16,972
And hopefully, like,
this is just stress for him.
1911
01:06:17,123 --> 01:06:19,641
But you can't be a mouse
and not say what you want.
1912
01:06:19,868 --> 01:06:21,701
Like, that's even worse
to, like,
1913
01:06:21,720 --> 01:06:24,053
Stay in it if, like,
it's not working.
1914
01:06:24,147 --> 01:06:26,147
- [crying] yeah, I don't know.
1915
01:06:26,374 --> 01:06:27,540
I'm just...
1916
01:06:27,559 --> 01:06:32,061
- ♪ alone in the dark,
I can't move ♪
1917
01:06:32,214 --> 01:06:33,321
- So confused because I had
1918
01:06:33,548 --> 01:06:35,381
This same person
for so many weeks,
1919
01:06:35,475 --> 01:06:38,234
And then it's just
a different person.
1920
01:06:38,386 --> 01:06:41,221
So I'm just trying
to understand.
1921
01:06:41,239 --> 01:06:42,405
- I'm sorry. Come here.
1922
01:06:42,557 --> 01:06:43,999
- ♪ I'm searching now
for something ♪
1923
01:06:44,150 --> 01:06:45,316
♪ finding... ♪
1924
01:06:45,410 --> 01:06:48,061
- It's gonna be okay.
You have tons of friends.
1925
01:06:48,079 --> 01:06:49,671
♪ ♪
1926
01:06:49,822 --> 01:06:51,247
- [sobbing]
1927
01:06:51,399 --> 01:06:52,656
- ♪ tomorrow's better
than today ♪
1928
01:06:52,751 --> 01:06:55,927
- It's okay. It's okay.
1929
01:06:57,663 --> 01:07:01,474
- ♪ feel it, feel it ♪
1930
01:07:05,838 --> 01:07:07,430
- ♪ there's tension
in the air tonight ♪
1931
01:07:07,582 --> 01:07:09,265
[humming]
1932
01:07:09,359 --> 01:07:12,343
♪ replaying moments
through my mind ♪
1933
01:07:12,362 --> 01:07:13,361
♪ oh, oh ♪
1934
01:07:24,099 --> 01:07:25,206
Anybody can do that.
1935
01:08:11,737 --> 01:08:14,238
I think, you know, with his
mom not being in his life,
1936
01:08:14,332 --> 01:08:15,815
That's triggering to him.
1937
01:08:15,834 --> 01:08:17,333
You know he's gonna have
this ideal
1938
01:08:17,485 --> 01:08:20,578
Of how I should be
as a wife and as a mother
1939
01:08:20,672 --> 01:08:22,079
To his children.
1940
01:08:22,099 --> 01:08:25,600
I mean, just the conversation
of us being fun parents
1941
01:08:25,827 --> 01:08:28,494
On the hike, it was--
he was completely,
1942
01:08:28,513 --> 01:08:30,271
Like, shutting me down.
1943
01:08:30,423 --> 01:08:32,498
And when I asked him,
like, what kind of fun
1944
01:08:32,517 --> 01:08:34,667
Did you think
I was talking about,
1945
01:08:34,686 --> 01:08:36,260
It was, like,
irresponsible fun--
1946
01:08:36,279 --> 01:08:38,187
Getting drunk and, you know,
1947
01:08:38,340 --> 01:08:39,839
Being young and dumb
1948
01:08:39,858 --> 01:08:42,675
And abandoning my children
or my kid.
1949
01:08:42,694 --> 01:08:46,955
Like, I don't even do
those things now.
1950
01:08:47,182 --> 01:08:49,849
So why would you think I would
do those when I have a kid?
1951
01:08:49,942 --> 01:08:51,684
But it's not even giving me
the credit
1952
01:08:51,703 --> 01:08:54,045
Of, like, who I am as a person.
1953
01:09:12,465 --> 01:09:14,298
- ♪ we're all in a hunt now ♪
1954
01:09:14,392 --> 01:09:18,153
♪ no play in the background,
no coming for my crown ♪
1955
01:09:18,304 --> 01:09:19,712
♪ I'm here for the win ♪
1956
01:09:19,805 --> 01:09:21,063
- Ooh, this is a good lemon.
1957
01:09:21,216 --> 01:09:24,308
- When life gives you lemons,
make whiskey sours.
1958
01:09:24,327 --> 01:09:27,387
Boop.
- Let's just go ahead and--
1959
01:09:27,405 --> 01:09:28,812
- Hey, friends.
1960
01:09:28,832 --> 01:09:30,481
- Hey.
- What up? What up? What up?
1961
01:09:30,500 --> 01:09:31,557
- How are you?
- Hi, honey bee.
1962
01:09:31,651 --> 01:09:33,651
- You guys look great.
Good to see you.
1963
01:09:33,670 --> 01:09:35,228
- How are you?
- Happy day--
1964
01:09:35,246 --> 01:09:36,245
- Hello, hello.
1965
01:09:36,398 --> 01:09:37,172
- Excited you guys are here.
1966
01:09:37,323 --> 01:09:38,656
- Hey, bud.
1967
01:09:38,675 --> 01:09:39,916
- We--well,
I won't speak for you.
1968
01:09:40,068 --> 01:09:44,662
I am always so excited
to see justin and alexis.
1969
01:09:44,681 --> 01:09:46,830
I feel the closest
to both of them
1970
01:09:46,850 --> 01:09:48,241
Since we started this journey.
1971
01:09:48,259 --> 01:09:51,744
And I will take all the time
we can get with them.
1972
01:09:51,763 --> 01:09:53,095
- Her and alexis talk
every day.
1973
01:09:53,248 --> 01:09:55,690
They're frickin' bffs.
- [laughs]
1974
01:09:55,841 --> 01:09:56,933
Have faith in the process.
1975
01:09:57,085 --> 01:09:58,601
Trust the process,
as pastor cal would say.
1976
01:09:58,695 --> 01:09:59,769
- Yes.
1977
01:09:59,921 --> 01:10:00,862
- Marriage ain't for punks.
1978
01:10:01,013 --> 01:10:02,513
- Mm.
- That is fair.
1979
01:10:02,532 --> 01:10:03,514
- You want to play ping pong?
1980
01:10:03,608 --> 01:10:04,682
[upbeat music]
1981
01:10:04,776 --> 01:10:06,609
Okay, are we doing
couple versus couple?
1982
01:10:06,703 --> 01:10:07,760
- Yeah.
1983
01:10:07,779 --> 01:10:10,187
♪ ♪
1984
01:10:10,207 --> 01:10:11,372
- All right, that's one.
1985
01:10:11,524 --> 01:10:13,099
- ♪ here we go ♪
1986
01:10:13,117 --> 01:10:17,119
♪ I want to tell you
what I came for ♪
1987
01:10:17,214 --> 01:10:20,773
♪ I want to show you
what I know you want ♪
1988
01:10:20,792 --> 01:10:22,050
- Yours!
- Ah!
1989
01:10:22,201 --> 01:10:24,719
- Hey! Good round!
1990
01:10:24,870 --> 01:10:28,114
- The mvp tonight
is definitely justin.
1991
01:10:28,132 --> 01:10:29,449
- It's like,
he just makes it look
1992
01:10:29,542 --> 01:10:31,375
Like he's not even trying.
1993
01:10:31,394 --> 01:10:34,287
He just stands there
and looks like he's bored.
1994
01:10:34,305 --> 01:10:36,138
He doesn't give a [bleep],
basically.
1995
01:10:36,291 --> 01:10:38,307
Excuse me--my french.
1996
01:10:38,401 --> 01:10:39,976
- Good job, friends.
- That was good, y'all.
1997
01:10:40,070 --> 01:10:41,961
- The shame--I have to live
with this shame.
1998
01:10:41,980 --> 01:10:42,904
- You do.
1999
01:10:43,131 --> 01:10:44,388
- Y'all deserve it.
It was great.
2000
01:10:44,407 --> 01:10:45,982
- Comeback kids.
2001
01:10:46,076 --> 01:10:47,467
- It was neck and neck there.
- Ain't it so?
2002
01:10:47,485 --> 01:10:48,726
- Congratulations.
- Thank you so much.
2003
01:10:48,820 --> 01:10:49,744
- You guys won.
2004
01:10:49,971 --> 01:10:51,913
Not by a lot,
but you did win, so...
2005
01:10:52,064 --> 01:10:53,581
- Greatest win in the history
of ping pong...
2006
01:10:53,733 --> 01:10:55,141
- That was a good game.
- If I do say so myself.
2007
01:10:55,159 --> 01:10:56,325
- That was a great game.
That was fun.
2008
01:10:56,419 --> 01:10:59,921
- It felt like, you know,
race to decision day.
2009
01:11:00,072 --> 01:11:01,330
- [groans]
2010
01:11:01,424 --> 01:11:02,982
- You're just in analogy mode.
2011
01:11:03,001 --> 01:11:04,500
- You know, leading up
to decision day,
2012
01:11:04,652 --> 01:11:06,094
I've been making
a lot of parallels
2013
01:11:06,245 --> 01:11:08,337
To what we've been doing--
2014
01:11:08,490 --> 01:11:10,414
Surfing, ping pong.
2015
01:11:10,433 --> 01:11:11,582
- Wait, so surfing,
what happened?
2016
01:11:11,601 --> 01:11:12,750
Tell us.
2017
01:11:12,769 --> 01:11:15,161
- Well, I think
we have to back all up.
2018
01:11:15,254 --> 01:11:17,939
Because when we got back
from the couples retreat,
2019
01:11:18,166 --> 01:11:21,091
Mitch left that night
to go to a conference.
2020
01:11:21,111 --> 01:11:22,110
- Mm.
2021
01:11:22,337 --> 01:11:23,594
- So he's been gone.
2022
01:11:23,688 --> 01:11:24,854
- We've been separated.
2023
01:11:24,948 --> 01:11:27,173
- How was that?
Did you guys miss each other?
2024
01:11:27,266 --> 01:11:28,616
Were there texts?
Were there facetimes?
2025
01:11:28,843 --> 01:11:30,434
- There were some texts
and a facetime.
2026
01:11:30,453 --> 01:11:31,861
Krys, you were always
on my mind.
2027
01:11:32,013 --> 01:11:34,122
It's just the truth.
2028
01:11:34,273 --> 01:11:36,032
But I was just really wrapped
up in all the activities.
2029
01:11:36,126 --> 01:11:37,366
It's nonstop.
2030
01:11:37,519 --> 01:11:38,701
It's presentations all day.
2031
01:11:38,853 --> 01:11:41,354
It's lunch, it's dinner,
it's going out afterwards.
2032
01:11:41,372 --> 01:11:43,856
And I was like, hey,
you know, like,
2033
01:11:43,875 --> 01:11:47,043
It's kind of lonely up in
my hotel room all by myself.
2034
01:11:47,195 --> 01:11:48,303
- Was there a jacuzzi there?
2035
01:11:48,454 --> 01:11:49,529
- There was.
2036
01:11:49,547 --> 01:11:52,365
We had a hot tub committee
every night.
2037
01:11:52,383 --> 01:11:54,809
- Did you wear your ring
the whole time?
2038
01:11:54,960 --> 01:11:56,035
- I did not.
2039
01:11:56,054 --> 01:11:58,146
[tense music]
2040
01:11:58,297 --> 01:11:59,221
- [laughs]
2041
01:11:59,316 --> 01:12:00,481
- She likes to put me
in the hot seat.
2042
01:12:00,633 --> 01:12:02,375
- I'm teasing. No.
2043
01:12:02,393 --> 01:12:03,967
I really do trust him.
2044
01:12:03,987 --> 01:12:06,879
But it's nice to get
a second opinion
2045
01:12:06,898 --> 01:12:09,732
And hear what they think,
that's all.
2046
01:12:09,826 --> 01:12:11,233
- Why?
2047
01:12:11,386 --> 01:12:12,234
- Everyone's so interested
in the gossip
2048
01:12:12,387 --> 01:12:13,328
And what's going on.
2049
01:12:13,479 --> 01:12:15,071
So I just--like, I didn't want
to, like--
2050
01:12:15,223 --> 01:12:16,146
It's, like, stressful for me
2051
01:12:16,166 --> 01:12:17,481
To have to bring that
into there,
2052
01:12:17,500 --> 01:12:18,499
You know what I mean,
like, and, like, have my--
2053
01:12:18,651 --> 01:12:20,150
You know, the ceo
and, like, my boss,
2054
01:12:20,170 --> 01:12:22,244
And be like, "hey," you know,
like, you know what I mean?
2055
01:12:22,397 --> 01:12:23,896
Like, and then have to tell
them all this story.
2056
01:12:23,915 --> 01:12:25,414
♪ ♪
2057
01:12:25,567 --> 01:12:27,249
- But couldn't you
just wear it?
2058
01:12:27,402 --> 01:12:28,584
Like, it's just a semblance
that you're off the market,
2059
01:12:28,736 --> 01:12:29,902
You get what I'm saying?
2060
01:12:29,995 --> 01:12:31,420
Like, you didn't have
to tell the back story.
2061
01:12:31,514 --> 01:12:32,847
- Yeah, you're right.
2062
01:12:32,998 --> 01:12:34,164
- Did that bother you
that he didn't wear his ring,
2063
01:12:34,258 --> 01:12:35,257
Or is it just a question?
2064
01:12:35,410 --> 01:12:37,593
- I think--it's tough,
2065
01:12:37,745 --> 01:12:40,580
Because there was a hot tub,
and he did not wear his ring.
2066
01:12:40,598 --> 01:12:41,581
- And there was just me
2067
01:12:41,674 --> 01:12:44,525
And 100 beautiful ladies,
all naked.
2068
01:12:44,677 --> 01:12:46,586
I had my ring on, but
it was my [bleep] ring.
2069
01:12:46,604 --> 01:12:48,588
- Holy [bleep]!
2070
01:12:48,681 --> 01:12:50,590
[laughter]
2071
01:12:50,608 --> 01:12:52,533
- Nate let me borrow
his [bleep] ring.
2072
01:12:52,685 --> 01:12:53,517
- Mitch, why are you
continuing?
2073
01:12:53,536 --> 01:12:54,777
Stop.
2074
01:12:54,929 --> 01:12:55,945
- But it was much too big
for me. Okay--[laughs]
2075
01:12:56,097 --> 01:12:59,098
- [laughs] anyway...
2076
01:12:59,191 --> 01:13:01,117
- So I had to smelt it down.
2077
01:13:01,269 --> 01:13:03,694
- I can't believe that he
would say that, you know?
2078
01:13:03,788 --> 01:13:06,606
But I mean, that's mitch.
2079
01:13:06,624 --> 01:13:08,457
♪ ♪
2080
01:13:08,610 --> 01:13:10,718
- What did you guys do
this week?
2081
01:13:10,870 --> 01:13:12,778
- Uh, my best friend came down
to pick up mya.
2082
01:13:12,797 --> 01:13:14,204
- Oh. That did happen.
- Ooh.
2083
01:13:14,298 --> 01:13:15,873
- Oh.
- Yep. The big dog...
2084
01:13:15,967 --> 01:13:16,966
- Mm-hmm.
- Exchange.
2085
01:13:17,118 --> 01:13:19,227
- Yes. He drove back.
2086
01:13:19,378 --> 01:13:21,211
It was a 17-hour drive,
roughly.
2087
01:13:21,231 --> 01:13:22,471
- Damn, that's a lot of hours.
2088
01:13:22,624 --> 01:13:24,473
That's a lot of driving
for a human and a dog.
2089
01:13:24,626 --> 01:13:25,625
- Yeah, that's a good friend
right there.
2090
01:13:25,718 --> 01:13:27,476
- Yeah.
- That's a really good friend.
2091
01:13:27,629 --> 01:13:29,052
- So yeah,
that happened this week.
2092
01:13:29,072 --> 01:13:30,296
Um...
2093
01:13:30,314 --> 01:13:31,981
- We were talking
about decision day,
2094
01:13:32,075 --> 01:13:33,390
And really stickling,
2095
01:13:33,484 --> 01:13:35,243
Making sure
we're on the same page.
2096
01:13:35,470 --> 01:13:39,972
Because I told justin
I'm not 100%, I'm 90%.
2097
01:13:39,991 --> 01:13:43,643
That 10%--10% speaks to me
heavily sometimes.
2098
01:13:43,736 --> 01:13:45,253
- Yeah.
- And he's just like,
2099
01:13:45,480 --> 01:13:46,812
"I don't know now."
2100
01:13:46,831 --> 01:13:48,256
♪ ♪
2101
01:13:48,407 --> 01:13:50,425
So for me, it's just like,
2102
01:13:50,576 --> 01:13:53,819
Is my answer dependent
upon your answer?
2103
01:13:53,838 --> 01:13:55,579
Like, if I'm fully committed
and I'm 100% in
2104
01:13:55,598 --> 01:13:57,173
And I know I'm giving my all,
2105
01:13:57,267 --> 01:13:59,100
Me saying no or, like,
2106
01:13:59,251 --> 01:14:01,160
Even saying, like,
I'm undecided in the moment,
2107
01:14:01,179 --> 01:14:03,253
Should not mean anything.
2108
01:14:03,347 --> 01:14:05,181
He'd be like, "okay, I'm gonna
still try and give it my all."
2109
01:14:05,333 --> 01:14:07,333
But now that
you're kind of like,
2110
01:14:07,351 --> 01:14:09,444
"well, if you're undecided,
then I'm undecided, too,"
2111
01:14:09,595 --> 01:14:12,113
I'm just like, wait, what?
2112
01:14:12,264 --> 01:14:13,839
- You know--
- you know--sorry.
2113
01:14:13,858 --> 01:14:14,840
- All right, go ahead.
- I was gonna ask you
2114
01:14:14,859 --> 01:14:15,950
A more specific question.
2115
01:14:16,101 --> 01:14:17,510
- Sure.
- But I don't have to.
2116
01:14:17,528 --> 01:14:18,511
- Okay.
2117
01:14:18,604 --> 01:14:19,845
- We love your questions,
mitch.
2118
01:14:19,864 --> 01:14:21,271
Go ahead.
2119
01:14:21,291 --> 01:14:23,349
- Is the 90% good enough
for you?
2120
01:14:23,367 --> 01:14:28,187
♪ ♪
2121
01:14:28,206 --> 01:14:30,206
- 90% ain't good enough for me.
2122
01:14:30,358 --> 01:14:32,191
It's not.
- Damn.
2123
01:14:32,210 --> 01:14:34,260
[dramatic music]
2124
01:14:38,216 --> 01:14:39,048
[tense music]
2125
01:14:39,200 --> 01:14:40,533
- If she had told me,
"hey, justin,
2126
01:14:40,551 --> 01:14:43,293
"let's hold off on mya,
because I'm not sure
2127
01:14:43,313 --> 01:14:45,629
If I'm gonna say yes or no,"
just to simplify things,
2128
01:14:45,648 --> 01:14:47,315
It plays a role in my decision.
2129
01:14:47,466 --> 01:14:48,799
Because if you're 90%
2130
01:14:48,818 --> 01:14:51,043
And there's a chance
you can say no,
2131
01:14:51,062 --> 01:14:52,820
Then I just made that decision
for no reason.
2132
01:14:53,047 --> 01:14:54,989
- But, justin,
you want me to be with you
2133
01:14:55,216 --> 01:14:57,492
And be 100%
'cause you gave your dog away?
2134
01:14:57,643 --> 01:14:59,327
Like, you don't want me
to be 100% 'cause I love you,
2135
01:14:59,478 --> 01:15:00,828
Because I want to stay,
because all these other facts?
2136
01:15:00,980 --> 01:15:02,497
You think that should be--
- no, no, of course that.
2137
01:15:02,648 --> 01:15:06,167
But what I'm saying is,
that was a sacrifice...
2138
01:15:06,318 --> 01:15:07,818
- Yeah, I understand that.
- You know what I'm saying?
2139
01:15:07,837 --> 01:15:09,729
That I made for the marriage.
- Mm-hmm.
2140
01:15:09,747 --> 01:15:11,506
- And so when I thought
about when I ask you,
2141
01:15:11,733 --> 01:15:13,899
I just needed that affirmation,
you know, yeah,
2142
01:15:13,993 --> 01:15:16,068
You'll tell me that, hey--
2143
01:15:16,087 --> 01:15:17,236
- And we're looking at
apartments, and we're...
2144
01:15:17,255 --> 01:15:18,179
- Exactly.
- Moving...
2145
01:15:18,330 --> 01:15:19,329
- Exactly.
- So...
2146
01:15:19,349 --> 01:15:20,589
- But I just needed
that affirmation,
2147
01:15:20,683 --> 01:15:22,016
Just that yes.
2148
01:15:22,167 --> 01:15:24,760
And so I thought about
what you said at the retreat.
2149
01:15:24,912 --> 01:15:27,188
You was like, "sometimes you
just need that affirmation."
2150
01:15:27,415 --> 01:15:29,006
- Yeah, no, I need it.
I need it.
2151
01:15:29,100 --> 01:15:30,525
- And I needed that
in that moment,
2152
01:15:30,676 --> 01:15:33,176
Because I hadn't heard
that yes.
2153
01:15:33,271 --> 01:15:35,863
And it was everything but that.
2154
01:15:36,015 --> 01:15:37,773
- Could I have said yes?
2155
01:15:37,867 --> 01:15:38,924
I could have.
2156
01:15:38,943 --> 01:15:42,036
But a yes that--
followed by a "but"
2157
01:15:42,263 --> 01:15:44,038
Is not really a yes...
[laughter]
2158
01:15:44,189 --> 01:15:45,206
In my opinion.
2159
01:15:45,357 --> 01:15:47,375
So I was just trying to do
my due diligence
2160
01:15:47,602 --> 01:15:48,784
And cover all stops.
2161
01:15:48,936 --> 01:15:50,286
And I apologize. I do.
2162
01:15:50,438 --> 01:15:51,954
I really do apologize.
2163
01:15:52,106 --> 01:15:53,789
- It is one [bleep] week away.
2164
01:15:53,941 --> 01:15:56,125
You either know or you don't.
2165
01:15:56,277 --> 01:15:58,368
♪ ♪
2166
01:15:58,388 --> 01:16:01,280
- As someone
who's not sure herself,
2167
01:16:01,299 --> 01:16:02,372
If I was 90,
2168
01:16:02,392 --> 01:16:03,724
It would be hard for me
to say yes.
2169
01:16:03,876 --> 01:16:05,560
- That's all I'm saying.
2170
01:16:05,711 --> 01:16:08,304
- Okay. All right.
2171
01:16:08,456 --> 01:16:09,546
- You know, like,
one way to see it is, like,
2172
01:16:09,640 --> 01:16:11,381
90% is, like, pretty good odds.
2173
01:16:11,401 --> 01:16:12,716
And, like,
no marriage is perfect.
2174
01:16:12,735 --> 01:16:13,809
Nobody's perfect.
There's always gonna be [bleep]
2175
01:16:13,903 --> 01:16:15,477
You don't like
about your spouse, like...
2176
01:16:15,572 --> 01:16:17,888
And there's always gonna be
a part of you that has doubts
2177
01:16:17,907 --> 01:16:19,481
And that wants
to just cut and run.
2178
01:16:19,634 --> 01:16:20,983
Like, that part's gonna exist.
2179
01:16:21,135 --> 01:16:22,743
And it's just, like,
it's not the worst thing
2180
01:16:22,895 --> 01:16:24,470
To just acknowledge that.
- Yeah.
2181
01:16:24,488 --> 01:16:26,080
- But again, at that moment,
it's just probably
2182
01:16:26,231 --> 01:16:28,416
Not what you wanted to hear,
you know what I mean?
2183
01:16:28,567 --> 01:16:29,417
Like, I don't know.
2184
01:16:29,644 --> 01:16:31,902
- I mean, I feel for you,
justin.
2185
01:16:31,921 --> 01:16:34,163
I could not even fathom
my dog--
2186
01:16:34,315 --> 01:16:35,906
You know, giving my dog away.
2187
01:16:35,925 --> 01:16:38,926
But at the same time,
we have to base this
2188
01:16:39,078 --> 01:16:41,429
Off of our marriage
2189
01:16:41,656 --> 01:16:45,324
And about how our marriage
makes us feel
2190
01:16:45,343 --> 01:16:49,252
And if we are the best version
of each other with each other
2191
01:16:49,272 --> 01:16:51,922
And wanting to see that
continue or not.
2192
01:16:51,941 --> 01:16:53,833
- Yeah.
I look at it like that, too,
2193
01:16:53,851 --> 01:16:56,185
But I've also been so uprooted
from my old life.
2194
01:16:56,279 --> 01:16:57,612
And it's hard for me.
2195
01:16:57,763 --> 01:16:59,004
Like, it's like,
I need to go surf.
2196
01:16:59,023 --> 01:17:00,356
I need to ride my bike.
2197
01:17:00,508 --> 01:17:02,191
Like, I haven't been doing
that [bleep].
2198
01:17:02,343 --> 01:17:04,009
I think that's an argument
for decision day,
2199
01:17:04,103 --> 01:17:06,621
Even if we're not
necessarily 100% sure
2200
01:17:06,772 --> 01:17:08,438
On the life of marriage
and the perfect match
2201
01:17:08,532 --> 01:17:10,440
And everything like that.
2202
01:17:10,534 --> 01:17:11,942
- I'm just gonna say something.
2203
01:17:11,961 --> 01:17:17,114
Instead of this, "I would like
to see how things could go
2204
01:17:17,133 --> 01:17:20,025
With my electric bike
in the mix,"
2205
01:17:20,119 --> 01:17:23,362
I would love it
if you would say
2206
01:17:23,381 --> 01:17:28,458
Something along the lines of,
"you are an incredible woman.
2207
01:17:28,552 --> 01:17:32,388
I can't imagine my life without
you now that I've had you."
2208
01:17:32,540 --> 01:17:33,314
- You want him to say that?
2209
01:17:33,465 --> 01:17:35,207
- I--I do want him
to say that.
2210
01:17:35,300 --> 01:17:36,466
- What if he don't mean
that [bleep]?
2211
01:17:36,486 --> 01:17:38,319
- Then don't say it,
and I'm outie.
2212
01:17:38,470 --> 01:17:40,045
On the electric bike,
I'm going,
2213
01:17:40,139 --> 01:17:41,304
Bzzz, right down the road.
2214
01:17:41,324 --> 01:17:42,472
- But I'm just saying,
he could still say it
2215
01:17:42,492 --> 01:17:43,732
And not mean it.
2216
01:17:43,885 --> 01:17:45,308
Because you're saying--
- mitch isn't a liar.
2217
01:17:45,328 --> 01:17:46,235
- Mitch can't say...
- He can't lie.
2218
01:17:46,387 --> 01:17:47,736
- Something he doesn't mean.
2219
01:17:47,830 --> 01:17:51,165
Even if he means it sometimes,
it's hard for him to say it.
2220
01:17:51,316 --> 01:17:52,315
- She knows her husband.
2221
01:17:52,335 --> 01:17:53,668
- He can't say something
he doesn't mean.
2222
01:17:53,819 --> 01:17:55,077
- I get it.
And that's actually
2223
01:17:55,171 --> 01:17:58,063
Kind of what you had said, too,
earlier, I thought.
2224
01:17:58,082 --> 01:17:59,581
It's almost like you want it
to be proved to you,
2225
01:17:59,676 --> 01:18:01,250
You know what I mean?
2226
01:18:01,402 --> 01:18:02,568
Maybe I misunderstood that.
2227
01:18:02,586 --> 01:18:04,178
- No, no, no, no,
we're all on the same page.
2228
01:18:04,329 --> 01:18:07,089
It's like, given the past,
if there hadn't been
2229
01:18:07,241 --> 01:18:10,259
So much turbulence
and uncertainty,
2230
01:18:10,411 --> 01:18:11,334
I wouldn't need that.
2231
01:18:11,354 --> 01:18:12,836
- Yeah.
- I would feel it in here.
2232
01:18:12,855 --> 01:18:15,097
But since I don't feel it
in here,
2233
01:18:15,249 --> 01:18:17,249
I do need a little bit more
of a declaration.
2234
01:18:17,268 --> 01:18:19,176
And I want you
to be the one to say it,
2235
01:18:19,195 --> 01:18:21,437
Since I feel like
I have declared,
2236
01:18:21,531 --> 01:18:24,440
Multiple times
in front of multiple people.
2237
01:18:24,592 --> 01:18:26,775
But he can't say stuff like
that if he doesn't mean it.
2238
01:18:26,928 --> 01:18:27,927
♪ ♪
2239
01:18:28,020 --> 01:18:30,612
So I'm thinking,
is the last eight weeks
2240
01:18:30,765 --> 01:18:33,282
Something I want to continue?
2241
01:18:33,434 --> 01:18:34,783
And that's
how I'm looking at it.
2242
01:18:34,936 --> 01:18:40,272
- ♪ appreciated you and me,
I love you better than ♪
2243
01:18:40,291 --> 01:18:41,457
♪ ♪
2244
01:18:41,551 --> 01:18:43,459
- ♪ why don't you
light the flame? ♪
2245
01:18:43,611 --> 01:18:45,535
♪ fire to guide the way ♪
2246
01:18:45,555 --> 01:18:50,850
♪ ooh, take me high,
I'm waiting for your love ♪
2247
01:19:17,402 --> 01:19:21,146
- I think venting to friends
can be healthy and cathartic.
2248
01:19:21,165 --> 01:19:25,317
I think one has to be conscious
of never being disrespectful.
2249
01:19:25,336 --> 01:19:27,244
I would never
[bleep]-talk lindy,
2250
01:19:27,338 --> 01:19:30,247
Or I would never talk poorly
about lindy with my friends.
2251
01:19:30,341 --> 01:19:32,491
And I was made
a little uncomfortable
2252
01:19:32,510 --> 01:19:34,084
Because of how heavy
everything seemed.
2253
01:19:34,103 --> 01:19:35,511
I'm like, whoa, what went on?
2254
01:19:35,663 --> 01:19:36,920
What was said? I wasn't there.
2255
01:19:37,014 --> 01:19:38,189
I have no idea.
2256
01:20:39,243 --> 01:20:40,668
[sighs]
2257
01:21:18,690 --> 01:21:23,860
If she's venting about me,
then the best person for her
2258
01:21:23,954 --> 01:21:26,455
To do that with should be me,
I would think, right?
2259
01:21:26,607 --> 01:21:27,715
But if you're gonna go
to your friends
2260
01:21:27,942 --> 01:21:30,033
And kind of just, like, vent
and [bleep]-talk,
2261
01:21:30,052 --> 01:21:31,218
What's the purpose of that?
2262
01:21:31,370 --> 01:21:33,295
It's almost like,
just, like, self-gratifying.
2263
01:21:33,447 --> 01:21:34,555
But nothing's gonna change.
2264
01:22:10,501 --> 01:22:11,817
[dramatic music]
2265
01:22:11,835 --> 01:22:13,761
[sobbing]
2266
01:22:13,912 --> 01:22:15,930
- Next time on
"married at first sight"...
2267
01:22:16,081 --> 01:22:17,322
- Ahh!
- Let's go!
2268
01:22:17,341 --> 01:22:19,841
- With decision day
just a few days away...
2269
01:22:19,936 --> 01:22:21,176
- Hi, candace.
2270
01:22:21,328 --> 01:22:23,162
- Our couples will have
the chance to talk
2271
01:22:23,180 --> 01:22:25,755
To their trusted loved ones
before making
2272
01:22:25,775 --> 01:22:28,091
The biggest decision
of their lives.
2273
01:22:28,185 --> 01:22:31,612
- This isn't "best friends
at first sight," you know?
2274
01:22:31,839 --> 01:22:33,096
This is
"married at first sight."
2275
01:22:33,115 --> 01:22:34,840
- I gave mya away.
2276
01:22:34,933 --> 01:22:36,842
I was under the impression
2277
01:22:36,860 --> 01:22:39,286
That it was an automatic yes
on her end.
2278
01:22:39,513 --> 01:22:42,030
- Maybe she ain't the one
for you, you know?
2279
01:22:42,183 --> 01:22:43,606
- When I am with him,
2280
01:22:43,626 --> 01:22:45,292
Time kind of doesn't exist,
in a good way.
2281
01:22:45,519 --> 01:22:47,277
- I'm afraid to lose you,
for sure.
2282
01:22:47,296 --> 01:22:49,296
And I don't want to lose you.
2283
01:22:49,448 --> 01:22:52,858
- I don't know if I can be
this person day in, day out.
2284
01:22:52,876 --> 01:22:54,860
- I feel like we're going
through the motions.
2285
01:22:54,878 --> 01:22:55,952
- Do you think
I'm going through the motions
2286
01:22:56,046 --> 01:22:58,714
When I have a [bleep] tattoo
on my hand?
2287
01:22:58,866 --> 01:23:00,215
♪ ♪
2288
01:23:00,367 --> 01:23:01,049
I'm done.
2289
01:23:01,202 --> 01:23:02,050
I don't want to [bleep] talk
2290
01:23:02,203 --> 01:23:03,552
About that [bleep] no more.
2291
01:23:03,704 --> 01:23:05,795
- I just don't know
2292
01:23:05,889 --> 01:23:09,299
If I can even have
conversations with my husband.
2293
01:23:09,393 --> 01:23:11,134
- Let the cards fall
where they may,
2294
01:23:11,153 --> 01:23:13,712
Because at this point,
there's nothing else I can do.
2295
01:23:13,731 --> 01:23:20,244
♪ ♪