1 00:00:02,292 --> 00:00:03,875 {\an1}- There we go. That's what I'm talking about. 2 00:00:04,042 --> 00:00:07,083 {\an1}- Seven weeks ago, ten fearless singles 3 00:00:07,208 --> 00:00:10,417 {\an1}took a daring leap of faith in order to find love. 4 00:00:10,542 --> 00:00:12,833 {\an1}They married as complete strangers. 5 00:00:13,000 --> 00:00:14,583 {\an1}[cheering] 6 00:00:14,708 --> 00:00:16,583 {\an1}And with Decision Day approaching fast, 7 00:00:16,708 --> 00:00:18,542 {\an1}our couples are going to have to decide 8 00:00:18,708 --> 00:00:21,583 {\an1}whether they want to stay married or get a divorce. 9 00:00:21,708 --> 00:00:23,500 {\an1}[dramatic music] 10 00:00:23,583 --> 00:00:27,167 {\an1}Last time, our four couples went deeper into the reality 11 00:00:27,333 --> 00:00:30,542 {\an1}of everyday life in hopes their choice would become 12 00:00:30,708 --> 00:00:32,542 {\an1}clearer before Decision Day. 13 00:00:35,208 --> 00:00:37,500 {\an1}- I'm not 100%. I'm 90%. 14 00:00:37,583 --> 00:00:39,750 {\an1}And he's just like, "I don't know now." 15 00:00:39,875 --> 00:00:42,125 {\an1}Well, if you're undecided, then I'm undecided too. 16 00:00:42,208 --> 00:00:44,000 {\an1}- Isn't 90% good enough for you? 17 00:00:44,125 --> 00:00:46,292 {\an1}- 90% ain't good enough. 18 00:00:48,625 --> 00:00:50,917 {\an1}- If things were to get bad and, let's say, 19 00:00:51,042 --> 00:00:53,958 {\an1}we decide to get separated, we decide to end it, 20 00:00:54,042 --> 00:00:55,625 {\an1}where do I go? 21 00:00:55,750 --> 00:00:57,750 {\an1}I'll be homeless. 22 00:00:59,958 --> 00:01:03,083 {\an1}- I would love it if you would say something 23 00:01:03,208 --> 00:01:06,042 {\an1}along the lines of, "You are an incredible woman. 24 00:01:06,208 --> 00:01:08,542 {\an1}I can't imagine my life without you." 25 00:01:08,667 --> 00:01:11,458 {\an1}- So you want him to say that? - I do want him to say that. 26 00:01:11,583 --> 00:01:12,958 {\an1}- What if he don't mean that [bleep]? 27 00:01:13,083 --> 00:01:14,625 {\an1}- Then don't say it. And I'm outie. 28 00:01:32,833 --> 00:01:34,875 {\an1}♪ ♪ 29 00:01:35,042 --> 00:01:37,167 {\an1}[both screaming] 30 00:01:37,292 --> 00:01:38,625 {\an1}- And tonight... 31 00:01:38,750 --> 00:01:40,250 {\an1}- I love this place. 32 00:01:40,375 --> 00:01:42,167 {\an1}- Our couples will have the chance to talk 33 00:01:42,250 --> 00:01:44,208 {\an1}to those closest to them 34 00:01:44,375 --> 00:01:47,667 {\an1}before making the biggest decision of their lives. 35 00:01:47,792 --> 00:01:49,250 {\an1}- When I am with him, 36 00:01:49,375 --> 00:01:51,042 {\an1}time kind of doesn't exist in a good way. 37 00:01:51,208 --> 00:01:52,500 {\an1}He's really great to live with. 38 00:01:52,625 --> 00:01:53,958 {\an1}- So I just lose him completely. 39 00:01:54,083 --> 00:01:55,167 {\an1}And then there's nothing I can say 40 00:01:55,333 --> 00:01:56,792 {\an1}or do to bring him back to me. 41 00:01:56,875 --> 00:01:58,333 {\an1}- I'm just coming to terms with, 42 00:01:58,500 --> 00:01:59,792 {\an1}there's a chance you can say yes, 43 00:01:59,875 --> 00:02:01,958 {\an1}there's a chance you can say no. 44 00:02:02,042 --> 00:02:03,833 {\an1}- I don't want to prove myself. 45 00:02:03,958 --> 00:02:06,833 {\an1}I don't want to prove--like, I'm tired of proving myself. 46 00:02:06,958 --> 00:02:10,750 {\an1}I'm getting to the point where I just don't care no more. 47 00:02:10,875 --> 00:02:14,000 {\an1}- Let the cards fall where they may because at this point, 48 00:02:14,125 --> 00:02:15,750 {\an1}there's nothing else that I can do. 49 00:02:15,875 --> 00:02:17,792 {\an1}- I'm afraid to lose you, for sure. 50 00:02:17,917 --> 00:02:20,000 {\an1}And I don't want to lose you. 51 00:02:20,125 --> 00:02:23,000 {\an1}- I feel like you don't have the burning desire. 52 00:02:23,167 --> 00:02:24,583 {\an1}I feel like we're going through the motions. 53 00:02:24,708 --> 00:02:26,125 {\an1}- Do you think I'm going through the motions 54 00:02:26,208 --> 00:02:28,667 {\an1}when I have a [bleep] tattoo on my hand? 55 00:02:28,792 --> 00:02:31,667 {\an1}♪ ♪ 56 00:02:31,792 --> 00:02:33,458 {\an1}I'm done. I'm done. 57 00:02:33,583 --> 00:02:35,500 {\an1}I don't want to [bleep] talk about that [bleep] no more. 58 00:02:35,667 --> 00:02:37,083 {\an1}♪ ♪ 59 00:02:37,208 --> 00:02:39,042 {\an1}- ♪ It's all or nothing ♪ 60 00:02:39,208 --> 00:02:41,333 {\an1}- This is "Married at First Sight." 61 00:02:41,500 --> 00:02:45,167 {\an1}- ♪ There's no other way ♪ 62 00:02:45,292 --> 00:02:47,500 {\an1}♪ It's all or nothing ♪ 63 00:02:47,583 --> 00:02:50,167 {\an1}- ♪ Loving you like you're mine ♪ 64 00:02:50,292 --> 00:02:51,875 {\an1}♪ Giving you everything I got ♪ 65 00:02:52,000 --> 00:02:56,333 {\an1}♪ Walking into your life, walking into your paradise ♪ 66 00:02:56,417 --> 00:03:01,500 {\an1}♪ Yeah, darling, tell me if you're in or out ♪ 67 00:03:01,625 --> 00:03:05,042 {\an1}- Oh, you know, this close to Decision Day, 68 00:03:05,208 --> 00:03:07,083 {\an1}I just need a little niece time. 69 00:03:07,208 --> 00:03:09,208 {\an1}Hey, kiddos. 70 00:03:09,375 --> 00:03:12,667 {\an1}- Hi. - [laughs] 71 00:03:12,792 --> 00:03:15,875 {\an1}Do you think I should say yes or no on Decision Day? 72 00:03:19,167 --> 00:03:20,875 {\an1}What do you think, Emi? 73 00:03:22,917 --> 00:03:24,583 {\an1}[laughter] 74 00:03:24,708 --> 00:03:27,375 {\an1}- Decision Day is less than a week away. 75 00:03:27,542 --> 00:03:29,958 {\an1}And it's time for our couples to really determine 76 00:03:30,083 --> 00:03:32,417 {\an1}whether they can spend their lives together with a spouse 77 00:03:32,542 --> 00:03:35,625 {\an1}they met only seven weeks ago. 78 00:03:35,750 --> 00:03:36,750 {\an1}[upbeat music] 79 00:03:36,875 --> 00:03:38,458 {\an1}- [laughing] 80 00:03:38,583 --> 00:03:41,500 {\an1}Ew, he don't want to eat your--ew! 81 00:03:41,625 --> 00:03:44,000 {\an1}He don't want to eat from you. Are you a bird? 82 00:03:44,167 --> 00:03:45,792 {\an1}Baby, don't give my dog that. 83 00:03:45,917 --> 00:03:48,333 {\an1}- I'm just--I don't know. 84 00:03:48,500 --> 00:03:52,167 {\an1}I just don't know if I can even have 85 00:03:52,292 --> 00:03:54,250 {\an1}conversations with my husband 86 00:03:54,375 --> 00:03:57,000 {\an1}without triggering his insecurities. 87 00:03:57,125 --> 00:03:59,083 {\an1}And that's what I guess my concerns are. 88 00:03:59,208 --> 00:04:00,875 {\an1}And that's really what I'm considering 89 00:04:01,042 --> 00:04:02,458 {\an1}going into Decision Day. 90 00:04:02,542 --> 00:04:05,542 {\an1}- They are legally bound in a real marriage. 91 00:04:05,708 --> 00:04:12,167 {\an1}And the only options are to stay married or get a divorce. 92 00:04:12,292 --> 00:04:18,250 {\an1}♪ ♪ 93 00:04:18,375 --> 00:04:20,375 {\an1}- Hey, babe. - What's up? 94 00:04:20,500 --> 00:04:22,000 {\an1}- What you doing, mixing some stuff? 95 00:04:22,125 --> 00:04:23,332 {\an1}- I'm mixing a little face mask. 96 00:04:23,457 --> 00:04:26,042 {\an1}You want some? It'd be fun. 97 00:04:26,207 --> 00:04:28,207 {\an1}You'll feel very moisturized. 98 00:04:28,332 --> 00:04:30,707 {\an1}- Put it on me, girl. 99 00:04:32,000 --> 00:04:33,625 {\an1}I await your face mask. 100 00:04:33,707 --> 00:04:35,957 {\an1}- Me and Mitch are in a really good place. 101 00:04:36,082 --> 00:04:38,167 {\an1}And we've come a long way. 102 00:04:38,292 --> 00:04:40,957 {\an1}But Decision Day is coming up quick. 103 00:04:41,082 --> 00:04:43,332 {\an1}And I'm confused. 104 00:04:43,457 --> 00:04:45,375 {\an1}And I don't know. 105 00:04:45,542 --> 00:04:47,332 {\an1}I don't even know what to do. 106 00:04:47,417 --> 00:04:51,082 {\an1}All right, first, we must clean the area. 107 00:04:51,207 --> 00:04:52,667 {\an1}- Are you gonna clean my wrinkle? 108 00:04:52,750 --> 00:04:54,500 {\an1}Is this the same-- - [laughing] 109 00:04:54,625 --> 00:04:56,375 {\an1}- Is this the same thing you use to clean the wrinkle? 110 00:04:56,500 --> 00:04:57,917 {\an1}- Does that kind of feel good? 111 00:04:58,042 --> 00:04:59,500 {\an1}- Mm-hmm. 112 00:04:59,582 --> 00:05:00,917 {\an1}- Oh, wait, a little wrinkle, just like Luna's. 113 00:05:01,042 --> 00:05:02,333 {\an1}- Clean my wrinkle. - I got it. 114 00:05:02,500 --> 00:05:04,208 {\an1}All right, let's get in here. 115 00:05:04,375 --> 00:05:06,333 {\an1}So we're just going to apply. 116 00:05:06,417 --> 00:05:09,375 {\an1}Okay, you look so beautiful. 117 00:05:09,542 --> 00:05:13,375 {\an1}You are just in a rain bath in the Amazon. 118 00:05:13,500 --> 00:05:15,625 {\an1}A lot of people just ignore this area over here. 119 00:05:15,750 --> 00:05:18,667 {\an1}- No, that's the area that gets crow's feet. 120 00:05:18,792 --> 00:05:20,375 {\an1}- What's really nice, I have a lot of area to play with 121 00:05:20,542 --> 00:05:21,832 {\an1}up here, which I like. 122 00:05:22,000 --> 00:05:23,417 {\an1}- The head? - I love it. 123 00:05:23,542 --> 00:05:25,332 {\an1}- This is just way too much fun. 124 00:05:25,457 --> 00:05:27,375 {\an1}Why don't we do this all the time? 125 00:05:27,542 --> 00:05:29,042 {\an1}- Can I open my eyes? Or do I have keep them closed? 126 00:05:29,207 --> 00:05:30,167 {\an1}- Yeah, you can open them. 127 00:05:30,332 --> 00:05:32,500 {\an1}[laughter] 128 00:05:32,582 --> 00:05:34,582 {\an1}- Maybe close them. I'm just kidding. 129 00:05:34,707 --> 00:05:36,207 {\an1}- [laughing] 130 00:05:36,332 --> 00:05:37,750 {\an1}- Let me just wash my hands really quick. 131 00:05:37,875 --> 00:05:40,292 {\an1}- Thanks for my mask. - ♪ You're welcome ♪ 132 00:05:40,375 --> 00:05:42,125 {\an1}- I'm gonna mask you? - Yeah. 133 00:05:42,207 --> 00:05:44,332 {\an1}- Sick. It's not gonna fall off, right? 134 00:05:44,417 --> 00:05:46,542 {\an1}- [laughing] - What? 135 00:05:46,707 --> 00:05:48,250 {\an1}Is this 'cause I don't know how masks are? 136 00:05:48,375 --> 00:05:49,667 {\an1}- It's not gonna fall off. - I don't know. 137 00:05:49,832 --> 00:05:51,667 {\an1}You got to lay back, though. - Okay. 138 00:05:51,792 --> 00:05:54,000 {\an1}- You need to relax. You need to learn how to relax. 139 00:05:54,167 --> 00:05:55,875 {\an1}- [laughing] You know I can't do that. 140 00:05:56,000 --> 00:05:57,292 {\an1}All right? - Perfect. 141 00:05:57,417 --> 00:05:58,917 {\an1}- This is good? 142 00:05:59,042 --> 00:06:01,083 {\an1}- I'm gonna put extra attention to these areas 143 00:06:01,208 --> 00:06:02,458 {\an1}around your eyes because I know you want 144 00:06:02,583 --> 00:06:05,167 {\an1}to keep your eyes nice and firm. 145 00:06:05,250 --> 00:06:08,292 {\an1}Your face is so little. 146 00:06:08,417 --> 00:06:09,750 {\an1}I think we're done. 147 00:06:09,875 --> 00:06:10,750 {\an1}I think we're looking pretty good. 148 00:06:10,875 --> 00:06:12,583 {\an1}- Yeah? 149 00:06:12,708 --> 00:06:13,708 {\an1}- I mean, we can do just do a little more just to be-- 150 00:06:13,875 --> 00:06:15,417 {\an1}- [laughing] 151 00:06:15,542 --> 00:06:18,250 {\an1}- As spouses, we are picking up each other's habits 152 00:06:18,375 --> 00:06:21,000 {\an1}and kind of becoming each other a little bit. 153 00:06:21,125 --> 00:06:22,957 {\an1}♪ ♪ 154 00:06:23,082 --> 00:06:25,250 {\an1}[laughing] I'd get closer. 155 00:06:25,375 --> 00:06:27,625 {\an1}But I don't want to risk staining anything. 156 00:06:27,750 --> 00:06:29,250 {\an1}And I'm all for it. I love it. 157 00:06:29,375 --> 00:06:31,332 {\an1}- It would be weird if we were-- 158 00:06:31,417 --> 00:06:34,000 {\an1}had, like, sexy time with this mask on, right? 159 00:06:34,125 --> 00:06:35,957 {\an1}- Mm. 160 00:06:36,082 --> 00:06:38,957 {\an1}- Okay, I'm saying I think it would be weird. 161 00:06:39,082 --> 00:06:41,500 {\an1}You know what the word bawdy means with a W? 162 00:06:41,667 --> 00:06:43,832 {\an1}Bawdy? - I do not know. 163 00:06:43,917 --> 00:06:44,917 {\an1}- I didn't either. 164 00:06:45,042 --> 00:06:46,582 {\an1}I had to look it up. 165 00:06:46,707 --> 00:06:52,082 {\an1}Bawdy means that you're humorous about sex. 166 00:06:52,207 --> 00:06:54,832 {\an1}- And that is Mitch Silverstein, 167 00:06:54,957 --> 00:06:56,000 {\an1}ladies and gentlemen. 168 00:06:56,167 --> 00:06:57,707 {\an1}[laughter] 169 00:06:57,832 --> 00:06:59,457 {\an1}- I really have a lot of fondness towards her, 170 00:06:59,582 --> 00:07:01,417 {\an1}a lot of affection. 171 00:07:01,542 --> 00:07:04,542 {\an1}I just do have doubt still whether we 172 00:07:04,667 --> 00:07:08,333 {\an1}are necessarily the right match 173 00:07:08,500 --> 00:07:11,125 {\an1}for a lifetime of marriage. 174 00:07:11,208 --> 00:07:13,792 {\an1}- Get under the covers, big boy? 175 00:07:13,917 --> 00:07:16,750 {\an1}[laughing] 176 00:07:16,875 --> 00:07:19,042 {\an1}- As long as you keep calling me big boy. 177 00:07:19,207 --> 00:07:22,167 {\an1}- ♪ Life is a hard ride, yes ♪ 178 00:07:22,250 --> 00:07:23,792 {\an1}♪ But that's okay ♪ 179 00:07:23,875 --> 00:07:24,832 {\an1}♪ I'm living like there's no tomorrow ♪ 180 00:07:25,000 --> 00:07:26,667 {\an1}- Hey, Mommy. 181 00:07:26,792 --> 00:07:28,500 {\an1}- Hi. 182 00:07:28,625 --> 00:07:31,375 {\an1}- With Decision Day looming, it's time for our couples 183 00:07:31,542 --> 00:07:32,832 {\an1}to meet with their loved ones. 184 00:07:32,957 --> 00:07:34,832 {\an1}Talking with friends and family 185 00:07:34,917 --> 00:07:36,625 {\an1}who have their best interests at heart 186 00:07:36,707 --> 00:07:38,500 {\an1}can help put things into perspective 187 00:07:38,625 --> 00:07:41,332 {\an1}before they have to make the fateful decision 188 00:07:41,500 --> 00:07:44,832 {\an1}whether they want to stay married or get a divorce. 189 00:07:44,957 --> 00:07:50,957 {\an1}♪ ♪ 190 00:07:51,082 --> 00:07:53,167 {\an1}- Hello. 191 00:07:53,332 --> 00:07:55,500 {\an1}- Hi, babe. - Hello, hello, hello. 192 00:07:55,625 --> 00:07:57,207 {\an1}- Can you hear me? 193 00:07:57,332 --> 00:07:58,292 {\an1}- Yeah, I can hear you. 194 00:07:58,375 --> 00:08:00,000 {\an1}Hey, the gang is here. 195 00:08:00,125 --> 00:08:01,917 {\an1}- Hey. [laughs] 196 00:08:02,042 --> 00:08:03,417 {\an1}- How's married life? 197 00:08:03,542 --> 00:08:06,792 {\an1}- Um, it's difficult. 198 00:08:06,875 --> 00:08:09,000 {\an1}- Like what? What's been difficult? 199 00:08:09,125 --> 00:08:13,333 {\an1}- Well, we did have a disagreement as far as, like, 200 00:08:13,458 --> 00:08:15,708 {\an1}he's very, like, scared to live with me 201 00:08:15,833 --> 00:08:17,167 {\an1}and not have a place to go. 202 00:08:17,332 --> 00:08:18,375 {\an1}- Right, because if that doesn't work, 203 00:08:18,542 --> 00:08:19,457 {\an1}then he's kind of-- 204 00:08:19,582 --> 00:08:21,625 {\an1}- SOL, yeah. - Mm-hmm. 205 00:08:21,750 --> 00:08:23,167 {\an1}- But it's like, why are we thinking about this? 206 00:08:23,332 --> 00:08:24,625 {\an1}- Yeah. - Like, it hasn't happened. 207 00:08:24,750 --> 00:08:26,707 {\an1}- Right. Boy, it's not gonna happen. 208 00:08:26,875 --> 00:08:27,957 {\an1}I think he wants... - And it's not going to happen. 209 00:08:28,042 --> 00:08:29,500 {\an1}- That reassurance that it's not going to happen. 210 00:08:29,667 --> 00:08:30,917 {\an1}- But I tell him it's not going to happen. 211 00:08:31,042 --> 00:08:32,750 {\an1}- Yeah. - He's like, "How do you know?" 212 00:08:32,875 --> 00:08:34,332 {\an1}- One of the hard things that I'm kind of going through 213 00:08:34,457 --> 00:08:36,167 {\an1}right now is, like, moving. 214 00:08:36,332 --> 00:08:38,957 {\an1}It's kind of messing with me a little bit because I feel 215 00:08:39,082 --> 00:08:41,667 {\an1}like I'm losing my identity, so I feel kind of vulnerable 216 00:08:41,792 --> 00:08:43,582 {\an1}because, let's say, knock on wood, 217 00:08:43,707 --> 00:08:44,958 {\an1}if it doesn't work out, 218 00:08:45,042 --> 00:08:47,333 {\an1}now I don't even have a place to stay, you know? 219 00:08:47,417 --> 00:08:50,125 {\an1}So it's--kind of makes me a little nervous. 220 00:08:50,250 --> 00:08:52,333 {\an1}- What do you think? You think you can work it out? 221 00:08:52,458 --> 00:08:53,833 {\an1}- I'm asking you. 222 00:08:53,917 --> 00:08:56,083 {\an1}You're the one that's been married. 223 00:08:56,208 --> 00:08:58,000 {\an1}- Okay, I've been married, but you know... 224 00:08:58,167 --> 00:08:59,500 {\an1}- [laughs] 225 00:08:59,667 --> 00:09:01,667 {\an1}- There's always compromises. 226 00:09:01,792 --> 00:09:05,417 {\an1}And also, there's always some nervous tension 227 00:09:05,542 --> 00:09:06,792 {\an1}in the beginning, but... 228 00:09:06,917 --> 00:09:07,792 {\an1}- Yeah. 229 00:09:07,917 --> 00:09:09,583 {\an1}- You got to expect that. 230 00:09:09,708 --> 00:09:12,458 {\an1}Everything is not gonna go perfectly your way. 231 00:09:12,583 --> 00:09:15,250 {\an1}- Right. 232 00:09:15,375 --> 00:09:17,000 {\an1}- I'm rooting for you. 233 00:09:17,125 --> 00:09:18,708 {\an1}I'm always rooting for you. You know that. 234 00:09:18,833 --> 00:09:22,042 {\an1}But my rooting stems from you being happy overall. 235 00:09:22,208 --> 00:09:24,792 {\an1}Do you think that he's, like, the right man for you? 236 00:09:24,917 --> 00:09:25,917 {\an1}Everybody has great qualities, 237 00:09:26,042 --> 00:09:28,000 {\an1}but is he the right man for you? 238 00:09:28,167 --> 00:09:30,958 {\an1}- I think, like, he does have those things that I want. 239 00:09:31,042 --> 00:09:35,042 {\an1}You know, we're very similar in just our mannerisms, 240 00:09:35,208 --> 00:09:36,667 {\an1}things that we like. 241 00:09:36,833 --> 00:09:39,208 {\an1}So I feel like I understand him a lot. 242 00:09:39,375 --> 00:09:40,875 {\an1}I do believe that, like, I am 243 00:09:41,042 --> 00:09:42,333 {\an1}in a different place emotionally. 244 00:09:42,458 --> 00:09:43,458 {\an1}- Mm-hmm. 245 00:09:43,583 --> 00:09:45,583 {\an1}- I think that he is a little bit-- 246 00:09:45,708 --> 00:09:47,417 {\an1}I don't want to say behind me or anything like that. 247 00:09:47,542 --> 00:09:49,167 {\an1}But I just think he lacks the experience. 248 00:09:49,333 --> 00:09:50,583 {\an1}- Mm-hmm. 249 00:09:50,708 --> 00:09:52,667 {\an1}- So do you have, like, 250 00:09:52,792 --> 00:09:56,417 {\an1}any cons that you can think of in the relationship? 251 00:09:56,542 --> 00:10:00,625 {\an1}- So here's the big one. 252 00:10:00,750 --> 00:10:03,875 {\an1}So she's 37. And she wants kids. 253 00:10:04,000 --> 00:10:06,250 {\an1}You know, that's, like, very top of mind. 254 00:10:06,375 --> 00:10:09,292 {\an1}And I'm like... 255 00:10:09,417 --> 00:10:11,042 {\an1}- You don't want kids? 256 00:10:11,167 --> 00:10:12,375 {\an1}- No, I do want kids. 257 00:10:12,500 --> 00:10:14,333 {\an1}But like, I want to be able to provide. 258 00:10:14,500 --> 00:10:15,917 {\an1}I want to make sure everything's good. 259 00:10:16,042 --> 00:10:17,875 {\an1}And then she's like, "Well, let's have fun." 260 00:10:18,000 --> 00:10:20,250 {\an1}I'm like, that's not possible with a two-year-old, you know. 261 00:10:20,375 --> 00:10:21,417 {\an1}But... 262 00:10:21,542 --> 00:10:22,333 {\an1}- It's possible. 263 00:10:22,500 --> 00:10:23,875 {\an1}- Okay. 264 00:10:24,042 --> 00:10:25,917 {\an1}- You know, as a dedicated father 265 00:10:26,042 --> 00:10:28,333 {\an1}or whatever, you do what you got to do 266 00:10:28,417 --> 00:10:30,292 {\an1}to take care of kids, so... 267 00:10:30,375 --> 00:10:32,833 {\an1}- Yeah, I appreciate you. 268 00:10:32,958 --> 00:10:34,792 {\an1}You know, it's a scary thing. 269 00:10:34,917 --> 00:10:35,708 {\an1}It's something that I've never done before. 270 00:10:35,875 --> 00:10:38,000 {\an1}I've never been a father. 271 00:10:38,083 --> 00:10:42,125 {\an1}- I mean, if you guys are truly in love, it'll work. 272 00:10:42,250 --> 00:10:44,917 {\an1}♪ ♪ 273 00:10:45,042 --> 00:10:47,708 {\an1}- He hasn't been in love. - Mm-hmm. 274 00:10:47,875 --> 00:10:50,125 {\an1}- And those are things that concern me. 275 00:10:50,250 --> 00:10:52,000 {\an1}- But he was living with a previous girlfriend, correct? 276 00:10:52,167 --> 00:10:54,625 {\an1}- Mm-hmm. - And they weren't in love? 277 00:10:54,750 --> 00:10:56,000 {\an1}- I think she was, but he wasn't. 278 00:10:56,125 --> 00:10:57,583 {\an1}- Hm. 279 00:10:57,708 --> 00:10:58,875 {\an1}- So he was kind of just going through the motions 280 00:10:59,000 --> 00:11:00,375 {\an1}because he knew, like, that wasn't 281 00:11:00,500 --> 00:11:02,208 {\an1}the relationship for him. 282 00:11:02,333 --> 00:11:05,333 {\an1}But you know, it's scary because it's like... 283 00:11:05,458 --> 00:11:07,083 {\an1}- Mm. 284 00:11:07,208 --> 00:11:08,708 {\an1}- Will we be in a relationship for two years, 285 00:11:08,833 --> 00:11:10,583 {\an1}three years, and go through the motions, 286 00:11:10,708 --> 00:11:12,250 {\an1}and you not love me too? 287 00:11:12,375 --> 00:11:17,042 {\an1}[tense music] 288 00:11:17,208 --> 00:11:19,458 {\an1}- So what are you gonna say on Decision Day? 289 00:11:19,583 --> 00:11:21,333 {\an1}- Uh... 290 00:11:21,500 --> 00:11:22,667 {\an1}- You're not getting any younger. 291 00:11:22,792 --> 00:11:23,958 {\an1}It's time to... - [chuckles] 292 00:11:24,042 --> 00:11:25,458 {\an1}- Settle down. - I know. 293 00:11:25,583 --> 00:11:27,292 {\an1}I know, I know. 294 00:11:27,417 --> 00:11:30,583 {\an1}I just don't want to feel pressured to doing something 295 00:11:30,708 --> 00:11:32,542 {\an1}because, like, at the end of the day, like, 296 00:11:32,667 --> 00:11:34,417 {\an1}I have to be mentally ready. 297 00:11:34,542 --> 00:11:36,583 {\an1}You know, it's just scary. 298 00:11:36,708 --> 00:11:40,417 {\an1}♪ ♪ 299 00:11:40,542 --> 00:11:43,875 {\an1}- ♪ Ooh, is this the real thing? ♪ 300 00:11:44,000 --> 00:11:46,667 {\an1}♪ Baby, you and I ♪ 301 00:11:46,792 --> 00:11:51,208 {\an1}♪ Na, na, you and I ♪ 302 00:11:51,333 --> 00:11:52,958 {\an1}- Hi, Candice. 303 00:11:53,083 --> 00:11:54,500 {\an1}- Hi. 304 00:11:54,625 --> 00:11:56,750 {\an1}- How are you doing? 305 00:11:56,875 --> 00:11:58,250 {\an1}- Good, you're probably gonna hear crying 306 00:11:58,375 --> 00:11:59,917 {\an1}in the background because... 307 00:12:00,042 --> 00:12:01,417 {\an1}[chuckles] 308 00:12:01,542 --> 00:12:03,042 {\an1}Both of them are awake, 309 00:12:03,167 --> 00:12:04,917 {\an1}and Michael's gonna have to handle it on his own, so... 310 00:12:05,042 --> 00:12:07,625 {\an1}- So I'm calling you because I have a lot to talk about. 311 00:12:07,750 --> 00:12:09,167 {\an1}- Yeah, I want to talk to you, of course. 312 00:12:09,250 --> 00:12:11,500 {\an1}- Okay, basically, like, this past, like, 313 00:12:11,583 --> 00:12:14,792 {\an1}week and a half has just been, like, missed connection 314 00:12:14,917 --> 00:12:16,792 {\an1}over miscommunication, over-- 315 00:12:16,875 --> 00:12:18,417 {\an1}just over and over again. 316 00:12:18,542 --> 00:12:21,000 {\an1}So it's been pretty daunting. 317 00:12:21,083 --> 00:12:23,167 {\an1}- I mean, that makes sense. 318 00:12:23,292 --> 00:12:27,792 {\an1}[chuckling] Um, what are you doing? 319 00:12:27,917 --> 00:12:30,000 {\an1}Sorry, distracted. 320 00:12:30,167 --> 00:12:31,833 {\an1}- Oh, yeah, don't do this in front of Miguel. 321 00:12:32,000 --> 00:12:33,250 {\an1}No, I'm just kidding. [chuckling] 322 00:12:33,375 --> 00:12:34,750 {\an1}- What do you mean? 323 00:12:34,875 --> 00:12:36,000 {\an1}- Well, because he gets mad at me 324 00:12:36,083 --> 00:12:38,167 {\an1}when I get distracted when we're talking. 325 00:12:38,292 --> 00:12:40,333 {\an1}- Good thing I was tethered to my chair 326 00:12:40,458 --> 00:12:42,167 {\an1}because that was the moment I became aware it's better-- 327 00:12:42,292 --> 00:12:43,792 {\an1}- Did you see the little bunny? - Yeah, I did. 328 00:12:43,875 --> 00:12:45,333 {\an1}- It's better what? - With a beat. 329 00:12:45,500 --> 00:12:47,000 {\an1}- Oh, look at that dog. 330 00:12:47,125 --> 00:12:49,792 {\an1}Oh, those horses are so pretty. 331 00:12:49,917 --> 00:12:52,875 {\an1}- Oh, yeah, I also understand that one 332 00:12:53,000 --> 00:12:55,375 {\an1}because as a person who has, like, a brain that's like, 333 00:12:55,500 --> 00:12:56,583 {\an1}what's that over there? 334 00:12:56,708 --> 00:12:58,083 {\an1}- Yeah, we're the same. 335 00:12:58,208 --> 00:13:00,042 {\an1}- What's that person doing over there? 336 00:13:00,208 --> 00:13:02,667 {\an1}- I know, I'm the same. That's literally what happened. 337 00:13:02,792 --> 00:13:04,333 {\an1}There was, like, people taking pictures of us. 338 00:13:04,500 --> 00:13:06,167 {\an1}And I was like, oh, my gosh, what are they doing? 339 00:13:06,250 --> 00:13:08,500 {\an1}And he was, like, in a serious conversation with me, 340 00:13:08,625 --> 00:13:10,333 {\an1}and that was, like, the last straw. 341 00:13:10,458 --> 00:13:11,542 {\an1}- So that was triggered. 342 00:13:11,708 --> 00:13:13,208 {\an1}And then it would cast, like-- 343 00:13:13,333 --> 00:13:15,167 {\an1}- Oh, my God, these people have their iPhones out. 344 00:13:15,292 --> 00:13:18,292 {\an1}[laughing] I can't. 345 00:13:18,417 --> 00:13:20,375 {\an1}- [sighs] 346 00:13:20,542 --> 00:13:22,625 {\an1}- I guess we were kind of able to get through that. 347 00:13:22,750 --> 00:13:25,667 {\an1}But the issue now is, like, 348 00:13:25,833 --> 00:13:28,708 {\an1}when I do something wrong or I, like, offend him, 349 00:13:28,833 --> 00:13:30,333 {\an1}he stonewalls me and kind of shuts down. 350 00:13:30,458 --> 00:13:32,042 {\an1}- Mm-hmm. 351 00:13:32,208 --> 00:13:34,833 {\an1}- And I don't really know how to, like, navigate that. 352 00:13:35,000 --> 00:13:38,750 {\an1}- Yeah, is this kind of like a new behavior from him? 353 00:13:38,875 --> 00:13:40,833 {\an1}- Um, yeah. 354 00:13:41,000 --> 00:13:42,250 {\an1}- It's so hurtful because you feel like you 355 00:13:42,375 --> 00:13:44,500 {\an1}just being you is making him react this way. 356 00:13:44,625 --> 00:13:46,083 {\an1}- Yes, exactly. 357 00:13:46,208 --> 00:13:48,792 {\an1}And he kind of has been, like, tampering 358 00:13:48,875 --> 00:13:50,292 {\an1}that this whole time. 359 00:13:50,375 --> 00:13:51,708 {\an1}- I mean, I don't know. 360 00:13:51,875 --> 00:13:53,083 {\an1}I mean, that just sounds really hard. 361 00:13:53,208 --> 00:13:55,000 {\an1}I don't have any advice or anything. 362 00:13:55,125 --> 00:13:56,625 {\an1}It just sounds like you guys are just 363 00:13:56,750 --> 00:13:58,250 {\an1}figuring out your dynamics. 364 00:13:58,375 --> 00:13:59,833 {\an1}It's finding that middle ground 365 00:13:59,958 --> 00:14:02,625 {\an1}of not completely withdrawing. 366 00:14:02,750 --> 00:14:04,417 {\an1}- Yeah. 367 00:14:04,542 --> 00:14:06,750 {\an1}- And honestly, I think it comes down to, like, 368 00:14:06,875 --> 00:14:09,083 {\an1}who needs the most care at that time? 369 00:14:09,208 --> 00:14:10,167 {\an1}- Yes. 370 00:14:10,333 --> 00:14:12,042 {\an1}- It's making me a little emotional 371 00:14:12,167 --> 00:14:13,708 {\an1}because, you know, we're going through a lot over here. 372 00:14:13,833 --> 00:14:17,583 {\an1}And just knowing when it's time to, like, 373 00:14:17,708 --> 00:14:21,125 {\an1}set aside your stuff fully to care for that person 374 00:14:21,250 --> 00:14:23,083 {\an1}if they're the ones that need it, you know? 375 00:14:23,208 --> 00:14:24,208 {\an1}- Yeah. 376 00:14:24,375 --> 00:14:26,000 {\an1}- So when you're in a partnership, 377 00:14:26,167 --> 00:14:29,167 {\an1}you have to keep the ship going, you know? 378 00:14:29,250 --> 00:14:32,042 {\an1}So if you want to keep it sailing or whatever, 379 00:14:32,208 --> 00:14:35,417 {\an1}to use the metaphor, you got to keep both people 380 00:14:35,542 --> 00:14:37,250 {\an1}strong on the boat, you know? 381 00:14:37,375 --> 00:14:39,667 {\an1}- Yeah, definitely. 382 00:14:39,792 --> 00:14:41,125 {\an1}- So I don't know. 383 00:14:41,250 --> 00:14:42,125 {\an1}I'm really rooting for you guys. 384 00:14:42,208 --> 00:14:44,167 {\an1}And it sounds really intense. 385 00:14:44,333 --> 00:14:46,208 {\an1}But you guys are weighing, like, the benefits 386 00:14:46,375 --> 00:14:47,917 {\an1}and the negatives. 387 00:14:48,042 --> 00:14:49,792 {\an1}And so I mean, you have a big decision coming. 388 00:14:49,917 --> 00:14:51,250 {\an1}- Yeah. 389 00:14:51,375 --> 00:14:53,000 {\an1}It's just a matter of fully comprehending, 390 00:14:53,167 --> 00:14:55,292 {\an1}like, what marriage means, and will this end, 391 00:14:55,417 --> 00:14:57,292 {\an1}or is this just problem after problem forever? 392 00:14:57,417 --> 00:14:59,167 {\an1}I don't know. It's overwhelming. 393 00:14:59,292 --> 00:15:06,208 {\an1}- ♪ You're eating me alive ♪ 394 00:15:06,333 --> 00:15:10,958 {\an1}[soft music] 395 00:15:11,083 --> 00:15:14,125 {\an1}[upbeat music] 396 00:15:14,208 --> 00:15:15,875 {\an1}♪ ♪ 397 00:15:16,000 --> 00:15:19,167 {\an1}- I love this place. - Me too. 398 00:15:19,292 --> 00:15:22,042 {\an1}So oh, my gosh, a big week for you coming up. 399 00:15:22,208 --> 00:15:24,667 {\an1}- I'll take a sip first. - Yeah. 400 00:15:24,792 --> 00:15:26,375 {\an1}How are you feeling? 401 00:15:26,542 --> 00:15:31,833 {\an1}- Actually, I'm feeling really finally at peace. 402 00:15:31,917 --> 00:15:34,000 {\an1}- Okay. - I feel calm. 403 00:15:34,083 --> 00:15:37,750 {\an1}I feel like I've gotten everything off my chest. 404 00:15:37,875 --> 00:15:39,250 {\an1}- Good. 405 00:15:39,375 --> 00:15:40,833 {\an1}- And now it's just kind of time 406 00:15:40,917 --> 00:15:44,500 {\an1}to decide if we continue or not. 407 00:15:44,667 --> 00:15:46,125 {\an1}- Yeah, that's a big decision. 408 00:15:46,208 --> 00:15:48,292 {\an1}Where are you in that decision? 409 00:15:48,375 --> 00:15:49,667 {\an1}Have you come to a decision yet? 410 00:15:49,750 --> 00:15:50,750 {\an1}Like, there's... - Yeah. 411 00:15:50,875 --> 00:15:52,000 {\an1}- Just so much to unpack. 412 00:15:52,125 --> 00:15:53,667 {\an1}- Yeah, so I think that's why it's 413 00:15:53,792 --> 00:15:54,750 {\an1}such a hard decision too... 414 00:15:54,875 --> 00:15:56,292 {\an1}- Yeah. 415 00:15:56,417 --> 00:15:58,625 {\an1}- Is because there is a lot of good there. 416 00:15:58,708 --> 00:16:04,333 {\an1}I guess it's just specifically Mitch has just had me craving 417 00:16:04,458 --> 00:16:09,542 {\an1}any sort of validation because he was so open 418 00:16:09,708 --> 00:16:10,750 {\an1}about not being attracted. 419 00:16:10,875 --> 00:16:12,417 {\an1}- Yeah. 420 00:16:12,542 --> 00:16:15,875 {\an1}- And so I want him without me writing it on a notepad, 421 00:16:16,000 --> 00:16:17,167 {\an1}screaming it from a mountain... 422 00:16:17,250 --> 00:16:21,500 {\an1}- Yeah. - To ask me to say yes. 423 00:16:21,625 --> 00:16:23,000 {\an1}- Yeah. 424 00:16:23,083 --> 00:16:25,833 {\an1}- That's what I want, a grand gesture. 425 00:16:25,958 --> 00:16:27,833 {\an1}- Yeah. 426 00:16:27,958 --> 00:16:30,000 {\an1}- I mean, I think it's just like the grand gesture is just 427 00:16:30,167 --> 00:16:33,250 {\an1}not even this crazy, romantic night, 428 00:16:33,375 --> 00:16:34,833 {\an1}even though that would be great. 429 00:16:35,000 --> 00:16:36,708 {\an1}I think it's just some verbals, like... 430 00:16:36,833 --> 00:16:38,250 {\an1}- Yeah. 431 00:16:38,375 --> 00:16:41,333 {\an1}- Here's all the things that I love about you. 432 00:16:41,458 --> 00:16:44,417 {\an1}And I really, really want you to continue 433 00:16:44,542 --> 00:16:46,958 {\an1}with me because I think that there's something here. 434 00:16:47,083 --> 00:16:48,792 {\an1}- Yeah. 435 00:16:48,875 --> 00:16:54,708 {\an1}- So the marriage has not come to what I thought it would be. 436 00:16:54,875 --> 00:16:58,250 {\an1}- And do you have the time 437 00:16:58,375 --> 00:17:01,500 {\an1}to give him the opportunity to change? 438 00:17:01,583 --> 00:17:03,625 {\an1}Because essentially, that's what you do want. 439 00:17:03,708 --> 00:17:05,166 {\an1}- Yeah. 440 00:17:05,291 --> 00:17:09,583 {\an1}- Because what if you stay married, 441 00:17:09,708 --> 00:17:11,708 {\an1}and then it doesn't work out? 442 00:17:11,875 --> 00:17:13,791 {\an1}[tense music] 443 00:17:13,875 --> 00:17:16,500 {\an1}- My eggs will just have-- 444 00:17:16,666 --> 00:17:18,833 {\an1}what is it, dehydrated, and just fell out my butt. 445 00:17:18,958 --> 00:17:21,791 {\an1}- Geriatric--that's what-- [laughter] 446 00:17:21,875 --> 00:17:23,958 {\an1}I can't with you. 447 00:17:24,083 --> 00:17:26,083 {\an1}♪ ♪ 448 00:17:26,208 --> 00:17:29,625 {\an1}- ♪ Every time we taking it, taking it slow ♪ 449 00:17:29,750 --> 00:17:32,083 {\an1}♪ Like we don't feel the pressure ♪ 450 00:17:32,208 --> 00:17:34,292 {\an1}♪ Take it in to let it go ♪ 451 00:17:34,375 --> 00:17:37,083 {\an1}♪ Like we still have forever ♪ 452 00:17:37,208 --> 00:17:39,000 {\an1}♪ Taking it, taking it slow ♪ 453 00:17:39,125 --> 00:17:42,625 {\an1}- ♪ My, my, my ♪ 454 00:17:42,708 --> 00:17:45,083 {\an1}[phone chimes] 455 00:17:45,208 --> 00:17:46,750 {\an1}- Hey, babe. - Hey, good-looking. 456 00:17:46,875 --> 00:17:48,583 {\an1}How you doing? - I'm good. 457 00:17:48,708 --> 00:17:50,083 {\an1}How are you? 458 00:17:50,208 --> 00:17:52,333 {\an1}- You know, I gave Mya up this week. 459 00:17:52,458 --> 00:17:54,417 {\an1}- Yeah, how you feeling about that? 460 00:17:54,542 --> 00:17:59,000 {\an1}- When I gave my Mya away, I was under the impression 461 00:17:59,083 --> 00:18:01,500 {\an1}that it was an automatic yes on her end, 462 00:18:01,583 --> 00:18:03,458 {\an1}and we were gonna just keep working on our marriage. 463 00:18:03,542 --> 00:18:06,125 {\an1}- You sound like you're nervous that she's gonna 464 00:18:06,208 --> 00:18:07,500 {\an1}say no on Decision Day. 465 00:18:07,625 --> 00:18:09,583 {\an1}- Yes, I'm nervous she gonna say no 466 00:18:09,708 --> 00:18:10,875 {\an1}on Decision Day because... 467 00:18:11,042 --> 00:18:12,375 {\an1}- [laughing] 468 00:18:12,542 --> 00:18:15,500 {\an1}- I mean, if you're gonna say no, just tell me. 469 00:18:15,625 --> 00:18:18,750 {\an1}And that way, I don't make all these big plans for my dog 470 00:18:18,875 --> 00:18:20,333 {\an1}and this, that, and the other. 471 00:18:20,417 --> 00:18:22,042 {\an1}- You can walk out in the street 472 00:18:22,167 --> 00:18:23,875 {\an1}and get hit by a car. 473 00:18:24,042 --> 00:18:27,000 {\an1}And you can plan to go across the street and get a coffee. 474 00:18:27,125 --> 00:18:28,417 {\an1}You can't do that. 475 00:18:28,542 --> 00:18:29,750 {\an1}- I don't know. 476 00:18:29,875 --> 00:18:31,250 {\an1}I just--I always get in my head. 477 00:18:31,375 --> 00:18:33,000 {\an1}And sometimes, I can't recognize 478 00:18:33,167 --> 00:18:34,958 {\an1}when I am in my head. 479 00:18:35,042 --> 00:18:37,250 {\an1}[soft music] 480 00:18:37,375 --> 00:18:39,958 {\an1}- Hey, Mommy. - Hi. 481 00:18:40,042 --> 00:18:43,333 {\an1}- Well, you know, Decision Day's coming up. 482 00:18:43,417 --> 00:18:45,125 {\an1}- Okay. 483 00:18:45,208 --> 00:18:47,667 {\an1}Are you leaning towards that, okay, yes, 484 00:18:47,833 --> 00:18:50,125 {\an1}he's gonna be the man that I'm looking for? 485 00:18:50,250 --> 00:18:52,667 {\an1}Or six months down the lane, 486 00:18:52,750 --> 00:18:55,208 {\an1}he's still not gonna be the man I want? 487 00:18:55,333 --> 00:18:56,750 {\an1}- He does have these great qualities. 488 00:18:56,875 --> 00:18:58,792 {\an1}And I'm split, for sure. 489 00:18:58,875 --> 00:19:00,250 {\an1}- Well, I'm sure you are. 490 00:19:00,375 --> 00:19:03,333 {\an1}You know, because of the time that you 491 00:19:03,458 --> 00:19:06,708 {\an1}have to make this decision, I would be unsure too. 492 00:19:06,875 --> 00:19:08,000 {\an1}You know what I mean? 493 00:19:08,125 --> 00:19:10,000 {\an1}- He's in his head so much. 494 00:19:10,167 --> 00:19:12,375 {\an1}And he doesn't invite me into these scenarios, 495 00:19:12,500 --> 00:19:15,750 {\an1}which is my problem because I can't comfort 496 00:19:15,875 --> 00:19:17,708 {\an1}his overthinking if I don't know 497 00:19:17,875 --> 00:19:19,458 {\an1}what your thoughts are about. 498 00:19:19,542 --> 00:19:21,625 {\an1}So that's, like, the challenge that I'm having with Justin. 499 00:19:21,750 --> 00:19:23,958 {\an1}And it's been like that for some time now. 500 00:19:24,083 --> 00:19:26,167 {\an1}- Do you want to say no? 501 00:19:26,292 --> 00:19:28,375 {\an1}- You know, two days ago, I was adamant. 502 00:19:28,500 --> 00:19:29,750 {\an1}I was just like, yeah, it's no. 503 00:19:29,875 --> 00:19:33,708 {\an1}But I think what I need is, I need to feel 504 00:19:33,833 --> 00:19:35,667 {\an1}desired by my woman too. 505 00:19:35,792 --> 00:19:39,167 {\an1}On an intimate level, it's more about her pleasure. 506 00:19:39,250 --> 00:19:41,917 {\an1}You know, she only wants to be dominated. 507 00:19:42,042 --> 00:19:45,542 {\an1}But I'm a lot more reserved than my wife, you know? 508 00:19:45,667 --> 00:19:49,583 {\an1}And so maybe I won't be able to really please her. 509 00:19:49,708 --> 00:19:53,458 {\an1}- If you care about her and you want to try, 510 00:19:53,583 --> 00:19:57,167 {\an1}I mean, 511 00:19:57,250 --> 00:20:00,167 {\an1}you got to get freaky. 512 00:20:00,292 --> 00:20:03,292 {\an1}[laughing] 513 00:20:04,417 --> 00:20:08,292 {\an1}- Okay, no, I'm freaky. 514 00:20:08,375 --> 00:20:11,833 {\an1}Um, well, made me lose my train of thought. 515 00:20:11,917 --> 00:20:13,333 {\an1}- [laughing] 516 00:20:13,458 --> 00:20:17,250 {\an1}- Good Lord, woman. 517 00:20:17,375 --> 00:20:23,500 {\an1}- If she doesn't want to be with you because of that 518 00:20:23,667 --> 00:20:28,167 {\an1}and other things, well, hey, maybe she ain't 519 00:20:28,250 --> 00:20:30,375 {\an1}the one for you, you know? 520 00:20:30,500 --> 00:20:32,667 {\an1}- Like, all these things that we haven't figured out yet 521 00:20:32,750 --> 00:20:35,667 {\an1}will just be more pressures once we don't have 522 00:20:35,792 --> 00:20:39,292 {\an1}the safety bubble of the experiment, you know? 523 00:20:39,375 --> 00:20:41,250 {\an1}So for me, it's just like, we're struggling this much, 524 00:20:41,375 --> 00:20:42,792 {\an1}and we got training wheels. 525 00:20:42,875 --> 00:20:45,792 {\an1}When them training wheels come off, then what? 526 00:20:45,917 --> 00:20:47,792 {\an1}[tense music] 527 00:20:47,875 --> 00:20:49,458 {\an1}- I don't want you to stay 528 00:20:49,542 --> 00:20:51,500 {\an1}because you know you're a runner. 529 00:20:51,583 --> 00:20:53,208 {\an1}I want you to know what you want 530 00:20:53,333 --> 00:20:56,958 {\an1}because marriage is special. 531 00:20:57,042 --> 00:21:01,792 {\an1}You have to look deep into your heart and see, 532 00:21:01,917 --> 00:21:03,417 {\an1}is he for you? 533 00:21:03,542 --> 00:21:05,250 {\an1}- I have a lot to think about. 534 00:21:05,375 --> 00:21:07,250 {\an1}- Yeah, you do. 535 00:21:07,375 --> 00:21:10,083 {\an1}[dramatic music] 536 00:21:10,208 --> 00:21:17,042 {\an1}♪ ♪ 537 00:21:17,208 --> 00:21:19,167 {\an1}- ♪ Say yeah ♪ 538 00:21:19,292 --> 00:21:21,333 {\an1}♪ I'm hot, hot, hot, hot, hot gossip ♪ 539 00:21:21,458 --> 00:21:23,833 {\an1}♪ Say yeah ♪ 540 00:21:23,958 --> 00:21:26,333 {\an1}♪ I'm hot, hot, hot, hot, hot gossip ♪ 541 00:21:26,500 --> 00:21:28,583 {\an1}- Let's grab a seat, bro. - All right. 542 00:21:28,708 --> 00:21:30,292 {\an1}- All right, bro, well, this conversation's 543 00:21:30,375 --> 00:21:31,917 {\an1}gonna be interesting. 544 00:21:32,042 --> 00:21:32,667 {\an1}- Are you on the fence right now? 545 00:21:32,792 --> 00:21:34,292 {\an1}- Yeah. 546 00:21:34,417 --> 00:21:36,667 {\an1}- I'll give you a little context. 547 00:21:36,792 --> 00:21:39,958 {\an1}Last weekend, we did a couples retreat in Fallbrook. 548 00:21:40,042 --> 00:21:42,167 {\an1}And it was really fun. 549 00:21:42,250 --> 00:21:43,833 {\an1}- Yeah. - Damn, girl. 550 00:21:44,000 --> 00:21:44,958 {\an1}- The queen... - Queen. 551 00:21:45,083 --> 00:21:46,625 {\an1}- Has arrived. 552 00:21:46,750 --> 00:21:49,417 {\an1}Have you seen me on the dance floor? 553 00:21:49,542 --> 00:21:53,583 {\an1}- ♪ Oh, you got that look you're freaking out ♪ 554 00:21:53,708 --> 00:21:57,125 {\an1}♪ The world is watching, son, you got to cool down ♪ 555 00:21:57,208 --> 00:22:00,875 {\an1}- You know, they say imitation is the best form of flattery. 556 00:22:01,000 --> 00:22:02,833 {\an1}- Oh, my God. 557 00:22:03,000 --> 00:22:04,667 {\an1}I can't right now. 558 00:22:04,750 --> 00:22:06,417 {\an1}- That's my girl right there. 559 00:22:06,542 --> 00:22:08,167 {\an1}It seems like she's finally, 560 00:22:08,250 --> 00:22:09,833 {\an1}like, just comfortable with being herself. 561 00:22:10,000 --> 00:22:11,750 {\an1}- Mm-hmm. 562 00:22:11,875 --> 00:22:13,000 {\an1}- And the real her is, like, my favorite version of her. 563 00:22:13,167 --> 00:22:14,500 {\an1}- Mm-hmm. - Like, she's funny. 564 00:22:14,625 --> 00:22:16,333 {\an1}She's goofy. She's cool. 565 00:22:16,417 --> 00:22:17,625 {\an1}You know what I mean? - Yeah, yeah. 566 00:22:17,750 --> 00:22:19,167 {\an1}- That all came out over the weekend, like, 567 00:22:19,292 --> 00:22:20,833 {\an1}really for the first time. 568 00:22:20,917 --> 00:22:23,458 {\an1}And then basically that night, had to drive 569 00:22:23,542 --> 00:22:25,958 {\an1}up to San Clemente for my all staff meeting. 570 00:22:26,042 --> 00:22:28,458 {\an1}So I kind of left on a pretty positive note, 571 00:22:28,542 --> 00:22:30,250 {\an1}like, hey, like, this is going pretty well. 572 00:22:30,375 --> 00:22:31,708 {\an1}You know what I mean? - Mm-hmm. 573 00:22:31,833 --> 00:22:33,167 {\an1}- But then I'm away from her, and it's, like, 574 00:22:33,333 --> 00:22:34,833 {\an1}totally back into my old life. 575 00:22:34,917 --> 00:22:36,375 {\an1}- Okay. 576 00:22:36,500 --> 00:22:37,792 {\an1}- It was just weird for me because it's like this-- 577 00:22:37,875 --> 00:22:39,292 {\an1}like, I have these two completely separate lives. 578 00:22:39,375 --> 00:22:40,625 {\an1}- Yeah, when you go back to that life, 579 00:22:40,708 --> 00:22:42,000 {\an1}you just feel like you're back to being a single, 580 00:22:42,125 --> 00:22:42,958 {\an1}like, your old life. 581 00:22:43,042 --> 00:22:44,292 {\an1}- Yeah. 582 00:22:44,375 --> 00:22:45,833 {\an1}I have a really hard time understanding 583 00:22:46,000 --> 00:22:47,333 {\an1}what it would be like to be married to Krysten... 584 00:22:47,458 --> 00:22:48,958 {\an1}- Just in a normal situa-- 585 00:22:49,042 --> 00:22:51,583 {\an1}- In my normal day-to-day life. You know what I mean? 586 00:22:51,708 --> 00:22:53,417 {\an1}Because this is not my normal day-to day life at all. 587 00:22:53,542 --> 00:22:55,333 {\an1}You know, this whole eight weeks, 588 00:22:55,417 --> 00:22:57,000 {\an1}I've surfed probably three or four times. 589 00:22:57,083 --> 00:22:58,667 {\an1}- Yeah. 590 00:22:58,750 --> 00:23:00,292 {\an1}- I've ridden my bike literally, like, twice. 591 00:23:00,417 --> 00:23:04,708 {\an1}- Yeah, so you might associate being with Krysten, 592 00:23:04,875 --> 00:23:06,500 {\an1}being married to Krysten with like, you know, 593 00:23:06,583 --> 00:23:08,000 {\an1}you're less happy, right? 594 00:23:08,125 --> 00:23:09,208 {\an1}Because you don't have all the things you're used to. 595 00:23:09,333 --> 00:23:10,833 {\an1}- Yeah. 596 00:23:10,958 --> 00:23:12,042 {\an1}- The surfing, like, helps keep you balanced, 597 00:23:12,167 --> 00:23:13,167 {\an1}keep you sane, right? 598 00:23:13,292 --> 00:23:14,500 {\an1}- Keeps my mind healthy. 599 00:23:14,667 --> 00:23:16,333 {\an1}You know what I mean, yeah, so I just-- 600 00:23:16,417 --> 00:23:17,833 {\an1}I've been taken away from all these things. 601 00:23:17,958 --> 00:23:21,292 {\an1}But with Decision Day coming, at least for me, 602 00:23:21,417 --> 00:23:23,500 {\an1}I mean, I think Krysten and I could 603 00:23:23,625 --> 00:23:25,542 {\an1}make it work and be happy, 604 00:23:25,667 --> 00:23:27,125 {\an1}that I could have the life I love. 605 00:23:27,250 --> 00:23:28,375 {\an1}She could have the life she loves. 606 00:23:28,542 --> 00:23:29,667 {\an1}And we could be a great team together. 607 00:23:29,792 --> 00:23:31,250 {\an1}I think that potential is there. 608 00:23:31,375 --> 00:23:32,875 {\an1}I do love her. 609 00:23:33,000 --> 00:23:34,167 {\an1}Like, I have a lot of affection for her. 610 00:23:34,292 --> 00:23:35,458 {\an1}Like, we're a team. 611 00:23:35,583 --> 00:23:36,500 {\an1}We've been together, like, living 612 00:23:36,667 --> 00:23:38,375 {\an1}together for eight weeks. 613 00:23:38,542 --> 00:23:39,583 {\an1}But I'm not in love with her. 614 00:23:39,708 --> 00:23:41,208 {\an1}You know what I mean? 615 00:23:41,333 --> 00:23:42,750 {\an1}- Can I just ask, like, 616 00:23:42,875 --> 00:23:44,833 {\an1}when you guys are just driving in the car together, 617 00:23:44,958 --> 00:23:46,333 {\an1}when you guys are just chilling together, 618 00:23:46,458 --> 00:23:48,250 {\an1}do you enjoy just being together? 619 00:23:48,375 --> 00:23:50,167 {\an1}Do you enjoy--do you goof around together? 620 00:23:50,250 --> 00:23:51,500 {\an1}Do you have fun with each other? 621 00:23:51,625 --> 00:23:53,250 {\an1}- Yeah, you know, there's a lot of good. 622 00:23:53,375 --> 00:23:55,458 {\an1}There's a lot of great partnership. 623 00:23:55,542 --> 00:23:57,333 {\an1}- When you say things like that, 624 00:23:57,500 --> 00:23:58,917 {\an1}it makes me feel like 625 00:23:59,042 --> 00:24:02,833 {\an1}you don't understand how rare that is to find somebody 626 00:24:02,958 --> 00:24:05,500 {\an1}that you have that feeling of partnership with 627 00:24:05,667 --> 00:24:09,167 {\an1}because that feeling of trust and partnership is like-- 628 00:24:09,333 --> 00:24:13,375 {\an1}to me, it's kind of the core thing. 629 00:24:13,542 --> 00:24:16,500 {\an1}- To me, it's like, if you're willing to accept me 630 00:24:16,625 --> 00:24:18,625 {\an1}where I'm at, because I'm not where 631 00:24:18,708 --> 00:24:20,417 {\an1}she would want me to be. 632 00:24:20,542 --> 00:24:23,333 {\an1}If I say yes, it's not quite the emphatic yes 633 00:24:23,458 --> 00:24:26,167 {\an1}that she might want or think she deserves. 634 00:24:26,292 --> 00:24:27,583 {\an1}And I can't give her that. 635 00:24:27,708 --> 00:24:29,000 {\an1}And I can't-- I certainly can't fake it. 636 00:24:29,083 --> 00:24:30,625 {\an1}And she knows that. 637 00:24:30,708 --> 00:24:32,500 {\an1}- I guess I'm just scared that you guys are gonna 638 00:24:32,625 --> 00:24:34,625 {\an1}potentially walk away from a good thing 639 00:24:34,708 --> 00:24:38,875 {\an1}because you have naive or high-- 640 00:24:39,042 --> 00:24:40,917 {\an1}too high of expectations. 641 00:24:41,042 --> 00:24:47,292 {\an1}You may be able to convince her to accept 642 00:24:47,375 --> 00:24:51,625 {\an1}a less emphatic yes on the basis of it's 643 00:24:51,750 --> 00:24:53,167 {\an1}worth continuing to try it. 644 00:24:53,292 --> 00:24:54,833 {\an1}- Yeah. 645 00:24:55,000 --> 00:24:56,250 {\an1}- At least just hearing that you want to be with her. 646 00:24:56,375 --> 00:24:58,667 {\an1}You may not be able-- ready to say, like, I love you. 647 00:24:58,792 --> 00:25:00,750 {\an1}But if there's a part of you that wants 648 00:25:00,875 --> 00:25:03,292 {\an1}to spend more time with her, that's meaningful, 649 00:25:03,417 --> 00:25:04,833 {\an1}you know? 650 00:25:04,958 --> 00:25:07,125 {\an1}That might be enough to convince her 651 00:25:07,250 --> 00:25:09,333 {\an1}that it's worth continuing. 652 00:25:09,458 --> 00:25:12,375 {\an1}- Yeah, again, like, I-- 653 00:25:12,500 --> 00:25:14,000 {\an1}it's confusing for me. 654 00:25:14,125 --> 00:25:17,500 {\an1}And I just don't... 655 00:25:17,583 --> 00:25:20,333 {\an1}I just don't know, man. 656 00:25:20,458 --> 00:25:24,833 {\an1}[tense music] 657 00:25:24,917 --> 00:25:27,667 {\an1}- ♪ Give it up, all you got ♪ 658 00:25:27,833 --> 00:25:29,917 {\an1}♪ It's not enough, I want everything ♪ 659 00:25:30,042 --> 00:25:33,208 {\an1}♪ Okay to be cruel, take it all ♪ 660 00:25:33,375 --> 00:25:34,500 {\an1}♪ I want everything ♪ 661 00:25:34,625 --> 00:25:36,500 {\an1}- I'm gonna get you guys in 22. 662 00:25:36,625 --> 00:25:38,917 {\an1}And there's a yellow kart. 663 00:25:39,042 --> 00:25:41,042 {\an1}- With Decision Day around the corner, 664 00:25:41,167 --> 00:25:43,750 {\an1}this will be the final chance for our couples 665 00:25:43,875 --> 00:25:46,208 {\an1}to spend time together, compare notes, 666 00:25:46,375 --> 00:25:47,667 {\an1}and share advice. 667 00:25:47,833 --> 00:25:49,875 {\an1}And hopefully, they'll have some fun too. 668 00:25:50,000 --> 00:25:51,833 {\an1}[laughing] 669 00:25:51,958 --> 00:25:53,292 {\an1}[upbeat music] 670 00:25:53,375 --> 00:25:55,667 {\an1}- Whoo! 671 00:25:55,750 --> 00:25:58,167 {\an1}- [chuckling] Yeah. 672 00:25:58,292 --> 00:26:00,125 {\an1}[screaming] 673 00:26:00,208 --> 00:26:02,333 {\an1}- [laughing] 674 00:26:02,417 --> 00:26:03,417 {\an1}- I'm ready to rage. 675 00:26:03,542 --> 00:26:06,000 {\an1}- Let's go! 676 00:26:06,083 --> 00:26:07,250 {\an1}[horn beeping] 677 00:26:07,375 --> 00:26:11,125 {\an1}- [screaming] 678 00:26:11,208 --> 00:26:13,042 {\an1}Mitch, look out! 679 00:26:13,167 --> 00:26:14,667 {\an1}- I see a stop sign. 680 00:26:14,792 --> 00:26:16,458 {\an1}This go-kart ain't got [bleep] on me. 681 00:26:16,583 --> 00:26:18,333 {\an1}♪ ♪ 682 00:26:18,458 --> 00:26:22,250 {\an1}- [chuckling] We out here. 683 00:26:22,375 --> 00:26:24,667 {\an1}- [screaming] 684 00:26:24,792 --> 00:26:27,167 {\an1}- Go-kart's more fun than I thought it would be. 685 00:26:27,292 --> 00:26:28,708 {\an1}Usually, I don't do that kind of stuff. 686 00:26:28,875 --> 00:26:30,250 {\an1}But you know, it is fun to drive around 687 00:26:30,375 --> 00:26:31,833 {\an1}in a little go-kart. 688 00:26:31,958 --> 00:26:33,542 {\an1}Although, I'm very jealous that Alexis and Justin 689 00:26:33,667 --> 00:26:34,958 {\an1}have the cool electric one. 690 00:26:35,042 --> 00:26:37,458 {\an1}All I can smell is Nate's exhaust. 691 00:26:37,542 --> 00:26:39,958 {\an1}It's much cleaner, and it's also faster. 692 00:26:40,042 --> 00:26:43,667 {\an1}- [screaming] - [screaming] 693 00:26:43,750 --> 00:26:45,417 {\an1}- Oh, [bleep]! - Oh! 694 00:26:45,542 --> 00:26:48,333 {\an1}- [laughing] - Holy [bleep]. 695 00:26:48,500 --> 00:26:50,375 {\an1}- [laughing] 696 00:26:50,500 --> 00:26:52,500 {\an1}- Alexis just the [bleep] off. 697 00:26:52,583 --> 00:26:53,917 {\an1}- Whoo! 698 00:26:54,042 --> 00:26:55,542 {\an1}Hey! 699 00:26:55,667 --> 00:26:57,667 {\an1}- You guys are trying to die! 700 00:26:57,833 --> 00:26:59,833 {\an1}- They are back there, boy. 701 00:26:59,958 --> 00:27:01,250 {\an1}[laughing] 702 00:27:01,375 --> 00:27:03,333 {\an1}- What the [bleep]? - Geez. 703 00:27:03,417 --> 00:27:05,000 {\an1}- Oh, my God. 704 00:27:05,083 --> 00:27:07,542 {\an1}- Oh, my God! 705 00:27:07,667 --> 00:27:09,583 {\an1}[bleep] mean streets. 706 00:27:09,708 --> 00:27:11,458 {\an1}[engine revving] 707 00:27:11,542 --> 00:27:12,833 {\an1}[horn beeping] 708 00:27:12,917 --> 00:27:14,292 {\an1}- Whoo! 709 00:27:14,417 --> 00:27:16,000 {\an1}Skrrt! 710 00:27:16,167 --> 00:27:17,625 {\an1}[horn beeping] 711 00:27:17,708 --> 00:27:19,375 {\an1}- Out of the way. 712 00:27:19,542 --> 00:27:21,125 {\an1}- Whoo-hoo! 713 00:27:21,208 --> 00:27:24,083 {\an1}- I do enjoy, like, meeting up with everybody 714 00:27:24,208 --> 00:27:27,708 {\an1}and seeing how they're doing because we just have fun. 715 00:27:27,833 --> 00:27:29,250 {\an1}And I think that, with Decision Day 716 00:27:29,375 --> 00:27:30,917 {\an1}being a few days away, 717 00:27:31,042 --> 00:27:33,667 {\an1}I just feel like that's something that we all need. 718 00:27:33,750 --> 00:27:35,000 {\an1}- People are like fishing out here. 719 00:27:35,125 --> 00:27:36,583 {\an1}- Right. 720 00:27:36,708 --> 00:27:38,167 {\an1}There's a lot of emotions coming up for me. 721 00:27:38,292 --> 00:27:41,167 {\an1}And it's because I have to literally think 722 00:27:41,292 --> 00:27:44,708 {\an1}about spending the rest of my life with a partner 723 00:27:44,833 --> 00:27:46,750 {\an1}that I barely even know, right? 724 00:27:46,875 --> 00:27:49,958 {\an1}And once I'm able to actually 725 00:27:50,042 --> 00:27:54,000 {\an1}make a yes or no decision, I'll feel a lot better. 726 00:27:54,125 --> 00:27:55,708 {\an1}[laughter] 727 00:27:55,833 --> 00:27:56,958 {\an1}- I know you guys laughed at us. 728 00:27:57,083 --> 00:27:58,125 {\an1}- Just this-- [laughing] 729 00:27:58,250 --> 00:27:59,667 {\an1}- You need a bite? 730 00:27:59,792 --> 00:28:01,458 {\an1}- Nah. Thank you. 731 00:28:01,542 --> 00:28:03,792 {\an1}- Oh, yeah, you're having a vegan moment. 732 00:28:03,917 --> 00:28:05,458 {\an1}- I'm just trying to eat less meat. 733 00:28:05,542 --> 00:28:07,042 {\an1}I had, like, the meat sweats last night. 734 00:28:07,167 --> 00:28:08,750 {\an1}And I was like, I'm disgusting, right? 735 00:28:08,875 --> 00:28:10,458 {\an1}- That's a thing? - The meat-- 736 00:28:10,542 --> 00:28:12,792 {\an1}- [laughing] - The meat sweats. 737 00:28:12,875 --> 00:28:15,000 {\an1}Like, having, you know, a lot of meat, 738 00:28:15,083 --> 00:28:17,333 {\an1}you just start sweating, you know? 739 00:28:17,458 --> 00:28:19,167 {\an1}It was just--it was a moment where I was like, 740 00:28:19,292 --> 00:28:21,083 {\an1}maybe I'll eat some salads this week. 741 00:28:21,208 --> 00:28:22,333 {\an1}I don't know. 742 00:28:22,500 --> 00:28:25,250 {\an1}[foghorn blares] 743 00:28:28,708 --> 00:28:31,208 {\an1}- So how you guys feeling? 744 00:28:31,333 --> 00:28:32,500 {\an1}- How are you feeling? - Yeah, how are you-- 745 00:28:32,583 --> 00:28:34,000 {\an1}- Yeah, that's true. 746 00:28:34,125 --> 00:28:35,083 {\an1}- Because last time you guys were, like, on a... 747 00:28:35,208 --> 00:28:36,583 {\an1}- Not gonna lie. 748 00:28:36,708 --> 00:28:38,792 {\an1}Last week was pretty challenging for us. 749 00:28:38,875 --> 00:28:40,792 {\an1}And you know, there were moments 750 00:28:40,917 --> 00:28:43,833 {\an1}where I got very frustrated with the whole situation. 751 00:28:43,958 --> 00:28:46,333 {\an1}I was, like, starting to have, like, serious doubts. 752 00:28:46,417 --> 00:28:48,000 {\an1}- Yeah. 753 00:28:48,167 --> 00:28:49,583 {\an1}I do know that Miguel and Lindy had 754 00:28:49,708 --> 00:28:52,167 {\an1}kind of a bad argument when we went on our couples retreat. 755 00:28:52,292 --> 00:28:55,750 {\an1}But I see no arguments as a red flag, 756 00:28:55,875 --> 00:28:58,000 {\an1}so I was pleasantly surprised when they had 757 00:28:58,125 --> 00:29:00,208 {\an1}their kind of first real conflict. 758 00:29:00,375 --> 00:29:03,125 {\an1}But I think that's a good sign that they both really care 759 00:29:03,208 --> 00:29:05,667 {\an1}about each other, and that they care enough to have conflict, 760 00:29:05,792 --> 00:29:08,500 {\an1}and they want to work through it. 761 00:29:08,625 --> 00:29:11,167 {\an1}- I had a moment where I was just adamant. 762 00:29:11,333 --> 00:29:12,833 {\an1}Like, I was just like, I'm saying no. 763 00:29:12,958 --> 00:29:15,250 {\an1}You know what I'm saying? I'm serious. 764 00:29:15,375 --> 00:29:17,292 {\an1}Like, when I'm in my head, yo, it is-- 765 00:29:17,375 --> 00:29:18,500 {\an1}it's hard to get me out. 766 00:29:18,667 --> 00:29:19,875 {\an1}- Mm-hmm. 767 00:29:20,042 --> 00:29:22,667 {\an1}- Can I ask you about what specifically? 768 00:29:22,792 --> 00:29:24,667 {\an1}- Over-generalizing. - Okay. 769 00:29:24,750 --> 00:29:26,167 {\an1}- And I know that. 770 00:29:26,292 --> 00:29:28,083 {\an1}But to hear that from my mom, you know, 771 00:29:28,208 --> 00:29:30,042 {\an1}who know me really well, it just kind of hit different. 772 00:29:30,208 --> 00:29:31,750 {\an1}And I was just like, oh, [bleep]. 773 00:29:31,875 --> 00:29:33,833 {\an1}Man, how long have I been like this? 774 00:29:33,917 --> 00:29:35,625 {\an1}So it's like I'm discovering all this stuff. 775 00:29:35,708 --> 00:29:37,125 {\an1}- Right. 776 00:29:37,208 --> 00:29:38,333 {\an1}- But I'm just glad that I'm aware of it. 777 00:29:38,458 --> 00:29:40,000 {\an1}- Yeah, definitely. 778 00:29:40,125 --> 00:29:41,625 {\an1}You can't grow unless you know, you know, where to go. 779 00:29:41,750 --> 00:29:43,250 {\an1}- Right. Yeah, yeah, yeah. 780 00:29:43,375 --> 00:29:46,250 {\an1}- Right, so yeah. 781 00:29:46,375 --> 00:29:48,500 {\an1}- I'm so cold. It's uncomfortably cold. 782 00:29:48,667 --> 00:29:49,792 {\an1}- You want these heat warmers? 783 00:29:49,917 --> 00:29:51,333 {\an1}- I have some. - Oh, okay. 784 00:29:51,458 --> 00:29:52,583 {\an1}- Do you have the vibrator again to warm you up? 785 00:29:52,708 --> 00:29:54,833 {\an1}Sorry. - [laughing] 786 00:29:54,958 --> 00:29:56,583 {\an1}- Are you okay? [buzzing] 787 00:29:56,708 --> 00:29:58,167 {\an1}- I'm getting lit up. 788 00:29:58,292 --> 00:29:59,667 {\an1}Oh, my God. 789 00:29:59,792 --> 00:30:01,167 {\an1}- She's suffering right now. 790 00:30:01,333 --> 00:30:02,417 {\an1}But it feels good. 791 00:30:02,542 --> 00:30:05,292 {\an1}- Oh, he likes to see me suffer. 792 00:30:05,375 --> 00:30:07,333 {\an1}- It's pretty hot. 793 00:30:07,458 --> 00:30:09,208 {\an1}[buzzing] 794 00:30:09,375 --> 00:30:10,667 {\an1}- Oh, my good Lord. 795 00:30:10,833 --> 00:30:12,208 {\an1}- [laughing] 796 00:30:12,375 --> 00:30:13,792 {\an1}- We had to return that [bleep]. 797 00:30:13,917 --> 00:30:14,750 {\an1}- Whoa. You can't return that. 798 00:30:14,875 --> 00:30:16,208 {\an1}- It was broke. - [laughing] 799 00:30:16,375 --> 00:30:17,792 {\an1}- It was broken. 800 00:30:17,917 --> 00:30:18,667 {\an1}Did you guys hear it at 3:00 in the morning going off? 801 00:30:18,750 --> 00:30:20,375 {\an1}- Yes. 802 00:30:20,500 --> 00:30:21,833 {\an1}- Well, that's because you guys were overusing it, yeah. 803 00:30:22,000 --> 00:30:24,125 {\an1}[laughter] - It was begging for help. 804 00:30:26,375 --> 00:30:29,292 {\an1}- Well, how are you guys doing? How are you guys feeling? 805 00:30:29,375 --> 00:30:32,292 {\an1}- Just looking back the last seven weeks, 806 00:30:32,417 --> 00:30:37,083 {\an1}we definitely need to learn how to communicate better. 807 00:30:37,208 --> 00:30:41,333 {\an1}- You know, you have-- I don't want to say lack. 808 00:30:41,458 --> 00:30:43,750 {\an1}But you know, you kind of do have lack 809 00:30:43,875 --> 00:30:46,667 {\an1}of emotional relationship experience. 810 00:30:46,792 --> 00:30:51,625 {\an1}And I think that sometimes that 811 00:30:51,708 --> 00:30:53,708 {\an1}can irritate me at times 812 00:30:53,833 --> 00:30:58,375 {\an1}because I feel like I'm having to explain all of these things 813 00:30:58,500 --> 00:30:59,917 {\an1}and the whys behind them. 814 00:31:00,042 --> 00:31:06,042 {\an1}And I feel like maybe you don't 815 00:31:06,167 --> 00:31:09,833 {\an1}want to trust what I say because, you know, 816 00:31:10,000 --> 00:31:12,500 {\an1}the conversations about the kids thing, 817 00:31:12,625 --> 00:31:16,250 {\an1}you know, me wanting to be a fun parent or have fun. 818 00:31:16,375 --> 00:31:19,417 {\an1}And me wanting to create that for myself, 819 00:31:19,542 --> 00:31:22,042 {\an1}it wasn't something that you would accept. 820 00:31:22,208 --> 00:31:23,708 {\an1}But when your dad said, oh, yeah, 821 00:31:23,833 --> 00:31:24,833 {\an1}you can still have fun with an infant, 822 00:31:24,917 --> 00:31:26,250 {\an1}you're like, oh, okay, great. 823 00:31:26,375 --> 00:31:27,833 {\an1}He has the experience. 824 00:31:27,958 --> 00:31:30,458 {\an1}He's had kids, so that must be a fact. 825 00:31:30,542 --> 00:31:34,333 {\an1}But not looking at, like, what your wife is saying, 826 00:31:34,417 --> 00:31:36,500 {\an1}so just things like that. 827 00:31:36,583 --> 00:31:38,333 {\an1}[soft music] 828 00:31:38,500 --> 00:31:43,000 {\an1}- It surprises me to hear Stacia saying that she wishes 829 00:31:43,125 --> 00:31:45,042 {\an1}Nate had more life experience. 830 00:31:45,208 --> 00:31:46,333 {\an1}I know she is a few years older. 831 00:31:46,458 --> 00:31:48,958 {\an1}But it's like, I imagine that she's just 832 00:31:49,083 --> 00:31:52,000 {\an1}trying to pinpoint what might make her say no 833 00:31:52,125 --> 00:31:54,125 {\an1}if it was a big problem. 834 00:31:54,208 --> 00:31:56,333 {\an1}And I think overall, they got a lot more positives 835 00:31:56,417 --> 00:31:58,375 {\an1}than negatives in their marriage. 836 00:31:58,500 --> 00:32:00,333 {\an1}- How are you doing? 837 00:32:00,458 --> 00:32:02,167 {\an1}- Mitchy Mitch? 838 00:32:02,250 --> 00:32:06,542 {\an1}- I don't think it's 100% clear yet 839 00:32:06,708 --> 00:32:08,542 {\an1}what either of us are gonna say. 840 00:32:08,708 --> 00:32:13,500 {\an1}But you know, we still got, you know, some more exploration 841 00:32:13,583 --> 00:32:14,750 {\an1}to do, I would say. 842 00:32:14,875 --> 00:32:16,375 {\an1}- Yeah. 843 00:32:16,500 --> 00:32:18,917 {\an1}- Do you think that there's enough time ahead of you 844 00:32:19,042 --> 00:32:21,000 {\an1}to kind of, you know, shift any of either one 845 00:32:21,125 --> 00:32:23,042 {\an1}of your perspectives? 846 00:32:23,167 --> 00:32:26,167 {\an1}- I think if he verbalized what our life would look 847 00:32:26,292 --> 00:32:30,000 {\an1}like together after this, if he verbalized 848 00:32:30,125 --> 00:32:32,875 {\an1}that he wants to be married to me, 849 00:32:33,000 --> 00:32:37,458 {\an1}I think I would say yes, so... 850 00:32:37,583 --> 00:32:41,333 {\an1}♪ ♪ 851 00:32:41,458 --> 00:32:44,333 {\an1}- Mitch--it's just, he's a confused soul. 852 00:32:44,458 --> 00:32:46,458 {\an1}And Krysten deserves so much better. 853 00:32:46,583 --> 00:32:49,208 {\an1}Krysten straight up knows what she needs to hear from him. 854 00:32:49,333 --> 00:32:51,833 {\an1}And she's giving him an outline detail of, like, 855 00:32:51,958 --> 00:32:53,750 {\an1}hey, if you do this, I'm in. 856 00:32:53,875 --> 00:32:56,333 {\an1}And he--I don't even think he can do it. 857 00:32:56,458 --> 00:33:03,625 {\an1}♪ ♪ 858 00:33:03,708 --> 00:33:07,167 {\an1}- ♪ Oh, I'm on fire ♪ 859 00:33:07,292 --> 00:33:11,000 {\an1}♪ Oh, yeah, I'm on fire ♪ 860 00:33:11,083 --> 00:33:13,292 {\an1}- I booked out a private room for us. 861 00:33:13,375 --> 00:33:15,750 {\an1}- Beautiful. 862 00:33:15,875 --> 00:33:20,042 {\an1}Aww, it's so pretty. 863 00:33:22,042 --> 00:33:24,833 {\an1}This is gorgeous. Oh, my God, I love it. 864 00:33:24,958 --> 00:33:26,167 {\an1}- I have a-- 865 00:33:26,250 --> 00:33:27,292 {\an1}- I'm so happy to be here with you. 866 00:33:27,375 --> 00:33:28,667 {\an1}- Me too. It's really nice. 867 00:33:28,792 --> 00:33:30,083 {\an1}- Thank you. Hi, how are you? 868 00:33:30,208 --> 00:33:32,000 {\an1}- Good, how are you? - Good. 869 00:33:32,125 --> 00:33:33,500 {\an1}- Good. Enjoy the prosecco. 870 00:33:33,625 --> 00:33:36,167 {\an1}- Thank you. Lover? 871 00:33:36,333 --> 00:33:38,708 {\an1}- Prosec yourself. - Likely to take a wife. 872 00:33:38,833 --> 00:33:40,250 {\an1}Cheers. - I did take one. 873 00:33:40,375 --> 00:33:42,125 {\an1}- You have. 874 00:33:42,250 --> 00:33:44,917 {\an1}- This is really our last chance to feel each other out 875 00:33:45,042 --> 00:33:46,500 {\an1}before Decision Day. 876 00:33:46,625 --> 00:33:48,542 {\an1}And I just want Krysten to understand me, 877 00:33:48,667 --> 00:33:51,458 {\an1}and so I just need to be as honest and open as I can. 878 00:33:51,583 --> 00:33:53,083 {\an1}And that's just-- that's all I can do. 879 00:33:53,208 --> 00:33:55,333 {\an1}It's all I've ever been able to do. 880 00:33:55,458 --> 00:33:57,458 {\an1}- Thank you. 881 00:33:57,542 --> 00:33:59,167 {\an1}[upbeat music] 882 00:33:59,292 --> 00:34:01,375 {\an1}- Thanks a lot. - Enjoy. 883 00:34:01,500 --> 00:34:05,208 {\an1}- So this has been a wild ride. 884 00:34:05,333 --> 00:34:09,458 {\an1}But I am really grateful that we were matched. 885 00:34:09,542 --> 00:34:13,792 {\an1}I'm really grateful to have had this time with you. 886 00:34:13,917 --> 00:34:18,792 {\an1}I do wonder hypothetically, if we both did say yes, 887 00:34:18,917 --> 00:34:21,708 {\an1}what do you think our life would look like? 888 00:34:21,875 --> 00:34:23,083 {\an1}What do we do next? 889 00:34:23,208 --> 00:34:25,500 {\an1}- Good question. 890 00:34:25,667 --> 00:34:28,625 {\an1}I think the first thing we would do is, 891 00:34:28,708 --> 00:34:31,250 {\an1}because everything's been so intense and so accelerated, 892 00:34:31,375 --> 00:34:35,292 {\an1}we don't need to move too quick. 893 00:34:35,375 --> 00:34:39,125 {\an1}So I would say at least like a few days to a week, 894 00:34:39,208 --> 00:34:42,125 {\an1}like, maybe just kind of be, like, more like two people 895 00:34:42,208 --> 00:34:43,458 {\an1}in a relationship, you know what I mean? 896 00:34:43,583 --> 00:34:45,667 {\an1}- Mm-hmm. - But then go from there. 897 00:34:45,833 --> 00:34:49,708 {\an1}- The one thing that I just want to make clear 898 00:34:49,833 --> 00:34:55,500 {\an1}is that I do not do well in a confusing environment. 899 00:34:55,667 --> 00:34:57,500 {\an1}I need clear lines. 900 00:34:57,583 --> 00:35:00,083 {\an1}- Yeah, you need to be knowing that you're in a direction... 901 00:35:00,208 --> 00:35:01,708 {\an1}- Yeah. - With a goal. 902 00:35:01,833 --> 00:35:03,167 {\an1}- I need to be married. 903 00:35:03,250 --> 00:35:05,667 {\an1}I don't need, like, an estranged husband 904 00:35:05,792 --> 00:35:07,250 {\an1}where we kind of date. 905 00:35:07,375 --> 00:35:12,500 {\an1}I don't operate well with blurred lines in the gray. 906 00:35:12,625 --> 00:35:15,000 {\an1}I'm glad you shared how you really envision it. 907 00:35:15,083 --> 00:35:17,583 {\an1}But it just seems a little grayer 908 00:35:17,708 --> 00:35:19,958 {\an1}than where I would have liked it to be. 909 00:35:20,083 --> 00:35:21,333 {\an1}- Yeah, I understand. I mean... 910 00:35:21,458 --> 00:35:23,875 {\an1}- Yeah. - I wish I wasn't as gray. 911 00:35:24,000 --> 00:35:25,250 {\an1}- Mm-hmm. 912 00:35:25,375 --> 00:35:27,125 {\an1}- In a perfect world, I wouldn't be. 913 00:35:27,208 --> 00:35:29,000 {\an1}The reason I'm gray is because I still don't know 914 00:35:29,083 --> 00:35:30,875 {\an1}what it'll be like with us. 915 00:35:31,042 --> 00:35:32,500 {\an1}You know, I know that in a perfect world, 916 00:35:32,625 --> 00:35:36,833 {\an1}you'd rather have a stronger commitment on my end 917 00:35:36,917 --> 00:35:40,083 {\an1}and more of a declaration of love. 918 00:35:40,208 --> 00:35:42,167 {\an1}I know that. - Yeah. 919 00:35:42,292 --> 00:35:43,583 {\an1}- And I haven't been able to provide it. 920 00:35:43,708 --> 00:35:46,708 {\an1}- Yeah. - And I do feel bad about that. 921 00:35:46,833 --> 00:35:50,167 {\an1}So I guess my question is, if I just say for Decision Day, 922 00:35:50,333 --> 00:35:52,375 {\an1}I want to keep going, and it's a yes for me-- 923 00:35:52,500 --> 00:35:53,500 {\an1}- Mm-hmm. 924 00:35:53,583 --> 00:35:55,333 {\an1}- But I'm not declaring my love, 925 00:35:55,500 --> 00:35:57,125 {\an1}or even declaring that I'm 100% sure if we are a great-- 926 00:35:57,250 --> 00:35:59,000 {\an1}- Yeah, yeah. - Match for life. 927 00:35:59,083 --> 00:36:00,625 {\an1}Like, is that good enough for you? 928 00:36:00,708 --> 00:36:02,500 {\an1}[tense music] 929 00:36:02,625 --> 00:36:04,333 {\an1}- Hm. 930 00:36:07,917 --> 00:36:09,167 {\an1}- Is that all right? 931 00:36:09,292 --> 00:36:11,625 {\an1}- Honestly, I think it's a start. 932 00:36:11,708 --> 00:36:14,125 {\an1}I take every little bit I can get with you. 933 00:36:14,208 --> 00:36:18,125 {\an1}Like, anything I can get, I take with grace. 934 00:36:18,208 --> 00:36:21,667 {\an1}Like, I am happy to hear that you're thinking 935 00:36:21,750 --> 00:36:23,292 {\an1}about wanting to continue. 936 00:36:23,375 --> 00:36:24,917 {\an1}I will take it. 937 00:36:25,042 --> 00:36:27,250 {\an1}No, it's not what I want to hear. 938 00:36:27,375 --> 00:36:29,042 {\an1}But I'm grateful for it. 939 00:36:29,167 --> 00:36:30,958 {\an1}And I think that the next few days 940 00:36:31,042 --> 00:36:34,417 {\an1}as we're talking about it, it'll put me in a good space 941 00:36:34,542 --> 00:36:37,000 {\an1}to think about what I want to do. 942 00:36:37,083 --> 00:36:38,500 {\an1}- Yeah. - You know? 943 00:36:38,625 --> 00:36:40,708 {\an1}- I know that you still have things to think about. 944 00:36:40,875 --> 00:36:42,875 {\an1}And that's okay. 945 00:36:43,000 --> 00:36:44,167 {\an1}I'm just--you know, to be honest, 946 00:36:44,292 --> 00:36:45,833 {\an1}I'm very flattered by you. 947 00:36:45,958 --> 00:36:47,917 {\an1}I mean, I feel like the way I handled it in the beginning, 948 00:36:48,042 --> 00:36:49,625 {\an1}I just--if there was one regret that I have, I just-- 949 00:36:49,750 --> 00:36:51,292 {\an1}- Yeah. 950 00:36:51,375 --> 00:36:52,875 {\an1}- I just wish I could've played it cooler... 951 00:36:53,000 --> 00:36:54,000 {\an1}- Right. - On the honeymoon... 952 00:36:54,083 --> 00:36:55,500 {\an1}- Yeah. 953 00:36:55,583 --> 00:36:56,917 {\an1}- And just thought a little bit more, 954 00:36:57,042 --> 00:36:57,833 {\an1}you know, cup half full. 955 00:36:58,000 --> 00:36:59,500 {\an1}- Yeah. 956 00:36:59,583 --> 00:37:00,667 {\an1}- It was just a really disservice to our marriage, 957 00:37:00,792 --> 00:37:02,125 {\an1}and I'm just really sorry. 958 00:37:02,208 --> 00:37:03,750 {\an1}- It's okay. 959 00:37:03,875 --> 00:37:09,625 {\an1}I want to give you the space to forgive yourself. 960 00:37:09,708 --> 00:37:11,167 {\an1}- Yeah. 961 00:37:11,292 --> 00:37:13,500 {\an1}- We can't, like, beat ourselves up. 962 00:37:13,583 --> 00:37:15,792 {\an1}- I'm never gonna shy away from the moment, you know? 963 00:37:15,875 --> 00:37:16,917 {\an1}- Yeah. - And... 964 00:37:17,042 --> 00:37:18,333 {\an1}[clears throat] 965 00:37:18,458 --> 00:37:20,000 {\an1}Because that's something I've seen in my family, 966 00:37:20,125 --> 00:37:22,542 {\an1}of guys shying away from the moment 967 00:37:22,667 --> 00:37:24,875 {\an1}because they're not ready or not comfortable. 968 00:37:25,000 --> 00:37:26,167 {\an1}- Yeah. 969 00:37:26,250 --> 00:37:27,292 {\an1}- And I used to see it in myself. 970 00:37:27,417 --> 00:37:32,542 {\an1}So that said, I mean, I know that-- 971 00:37:32,667 --> 00:37:34,917 {\an1}I know you did hope for more. - Yeah. 972 00:37:35,042 --> 00:37:37,500 {\an1}- And, you know, 973 00:37:37,625 --> 00:37:40,208 {\an1}I'm afraid to lose you, for sure. 974 00:37:40,375 --> 00:37:42,000 {\an1}And I don't want to lose you. 975 00:37:42,083 --> 00:37:44,667 {\an1}♪ ♪ 976 00:37:44,750 --> 00:37:46,000 {\an1}- Thank you, honey. 977 00:37:46,083 --> 00:37:48,917 {\an1}♪ ♪ 978 00:37:49,042 --> 00:37:53,917 {\an1}- ♪ This love, this love ♪ 979 00:37:54,042 --> 00:37:56,292 {\an1}[soft music] 980 00:37:56,375 --> 00:38:02,250 {\an1}♪ All this, this love ♪ 981 00:38:02,375 --> 00:38:06,000 {\an1}- Wow, sunflowers. 982 00:38:06,125 --> 00:38:08,667 {\an1}[laughing] Aww, hi, baby. 983 00:38:08,792 --> 00:38:10,667 {\an1}- What's up? 984 00:38:10,792 --> 00:38:12,167 {\an1}♪ ♪ 985 00:38:12,292 --> 00:38:13,667 {\an1}- Gonna give you lipstick. - Yes. 986 00:38:13,792 --> 00:38:15,542 {\an1}- Thank you. 987 00:38:15,667 --> 00:38:17,917 {\an1}♪ ♪ 988 00:38:18,042 --> 00:38:20,250 {\an1}Ah, I love sunflowers. 989 00:38:20,375 --> 00:38:21,875 {\an1}- Here, I can help you with that. 990 00:38:22,042 --> 00:38:22,875 {\an1}- Yeah, because I got a lot now. 991 00:38:23,000 --> 00:38:25,375 {\an1}♪ ♪ 992 00:38:25,500 --> 00:38:27,333 {\an1}- ♪ This love ♪ 993 00:38:27,458 --> 00:38:30,375 {\an1}- This is our last dinner before Decision Day, 994 00:38:30,500 --> 00:38:32,708 {\an1}so I wanted to make it special. 995 00:38:32,875 --> 00:38:35,458 {\an1}And I chose the sunflowers because I know 996 00:38:35,583 --> 00:38:36,875 {\an1}it's your favorite flower, so... 997 00:38:37,042 --> 00:38:38,917 {\an1}- Thank you. - Yeah. 998 00:38:39,042 --> 00:38:40,708 {\an1}I listen to you. I do. 999 00:38:40,833 --> 00:38:43,667 {\an1}I know I have my times where I get in my head. 1000 00:38:43,792 --> 00:38:45,583 {\an1}And, girl, we know what happens when I get in there. 1001 00:38:45,708 --> 00:38:47,208 {\an1}- You get stuck in there. - I get stuck in there. 1002 00:38:47,333 --> 00:38:48,625 {\an1}It's like a chair. 1003 00:38:48,750 --> 00:38:50,208 {\an1}And I just get comfortable, you know? 1004 00:38:50,375 --> 00:38:52,042 {\an1}So I'm slowly trying to make it right. 1005 00:38:52,167 --> 00:38:54,208 {\an1}- That's a challenge for me. 1006 00:38:54,333 --> 00:38:55,833 {\an1}You get stuck in there. 1007 00:38:55,958 --> 00:38:58,250 {\an1}And no matter what I tell you, it's not registering. 1008 00:38:58,375 --> 00:39:00,000 {\an1}- I understand what you mean. 1009 00:39:00,125 --> 00:39:02,000 {\an1}You know, I talked to my mom. 1010 00:39:02,083 --> 00:39:04,208 {\an1}And she's like, baby, you scared. 1011 00:39:04,375 --> 00:39:05,667 {\an1}And she's like, because I know you. 1012 00:39:05,792 --> 00:39:07,708 {\an1}When you want something, you get in your head. 1013 00:39:07,875 --> 00:39:11,333 {\an1}And you're the only one in this world that's thinking this. 1014 00:39:11,458 --> 00:39:13,750 {\an1}So I was like, yo, that's so true. 1015 00:39:13,875 --> 00:39:15,500 {\an1}That's what be happening, you know? 1016 00:39:15,625 --> 00:39:17,500 {\an1}She's like, you start predicting the future. 1017 00:39:17,625 --> 00:39:21,333 {\an1}And I was like damn, I've been like that all this time? 1018 00:39:21,417 --> 00:39:24,375 {\an1}[soft music] 1019 00:39:24,500 --> 00:39:27,833 {\an1}- The 90% that wants to say yes is 1020 00:39:27,917 --> 00:39:31,833 {\an1}the hopefulness in me wanting to believe my husband is 1021 00:39:31,917 --> 00:39:33,500 {\an1}gonna improve. 1022 00:39:33,667 --> 00:39:35,125 {\an1}If he believes he's this person, 1023 00:39:35,250 --> 00:39:37,042 {\an1}he's came to this conclusion after weeks, 1024 00:39:37,167 --> 00:39:38,792 {\an1}I'ma let him show proof. 1025 00:39:38,875 --> 00:39:41,667 {\an1}Justin may just be giving me lip service. 1026 00:39:41,833 --> 00:39:43,417 {\an1}It may just be like, yeah, babe, I'll fix it. 1027 00:39:43,542 --> 00:39:45,458 {\an1}Yeah, uh-huh, I got it, babe. Mm-hmm. 1028 00:39:45,542 --> 00:39:47,333 {\an1}And whole time, he has no intention, 1029 00:39:47,417 --> 00:39:51,333 {\an1}so that's definitely something to consider. 1030 00:39:51,417 --> 00:39:53,208 {\an1}So now that you've found this out, because this is-- 1031 00:39:53,333 --> 00:39:54,667 {\an1}and Decision Day's coming up-- 1032 00:39:54,792 --> 00:39:56,833 {\an1}I did have, like, a couple of things 1033 00:39:56,958 --> 00:39:58,000 {\an1}that were holding me back. 1034 00:39:58,125 --> 00:39:59,292 {\an1}That's definitely one of them. 1035 00:39:59,417 --> 00:40:00,250 {\an1}You get in your head-- like, off route. 1036 00:40:00,375 --> 00:40:02,000 {\an1}Like, this is-- 1037 00:40:02,125 --> 00:40:04,167 {\an1}I don't want to say crazy, but I actually think 1038 00:40:04,292 --> 00:40:07,750 {\an1}it's perfect timing because I was worried at one point 1039 00:40:07,875 --> 00:40:08,917 {\an1}that you'd never come to-- like, you know, 1040 00:40:09,042 --> 00:40:11,667 {\an1}like, you'd never come to that conclusion. 1041 00:40:11,750 --> 00:40:13,708 {\an1}But now that you're coming out and saying this, like, 1042 00:40:13,875 --> 00:40:15,542 {\an1}I'm not only proud, but it's making me, 1043 00:40:15,667 --> 00:40:18,250 {\an1}like, decrease that 10% because that was 1044 00:40:18,375 --> 00:40:19,958 {\an1}a big part of it. 1045 00:40:20,042 --> 00:40:21,750 {\an1}Like, if we're having these issues now, and I'm not saying 1046 00:40:21,875 --> 00:40:25,250 {\an1}it's all you because I need to create a safer space. 1047 00:40:25,375 --> 00:40:27,708 {\an1}I need to honor you. I need to--shoot. 1048 00:40:27,875 --> 00:40:29,292 {\an1}Well, let me stop saying what I need to do. 1049 00:40:29,375 --> 00:40:30,708 {\an1}What do I need to do? 1050 00:40:30,875 --> 00:40:36,833 {\an1}- For me, I would say feeling desire. 1051 00:40:36,958 --> 00:40:40,458 {\an1}You know how you wanted me to be dominant in the bedroom. 1052 00:40:40,583 --> 00:40:42,583 {\an1}Sometimes, I want the role to switch. 1053 00:40:42,708 --> 00:40:44,208 {\an1}You know what I'm saying? Not saying you dominate me. 1054 00:40:44,375 --> 00:40:45,708 {\an1}- I can. 1055 00:40:45,875 --> 00:40:47,833 {\an1}- But like, you know, sometimes, like, 1056 00:40:47,958 --> 00:40:50,500 {\an1}initiate when it comes to intimacy. 1057 00:40:50,583 --> 00:40:52,958 {\an1}- It's something I can do. 1058 00:40:53,083 --> 00:40:55,542 {\an1}But I just... 1059 00:40:55,667 --> 00:40:57,458 {\an1}- And it's not something you have to do all the time 1060 00:40:57,583 --> 00:40:59,333 {\an1}because when it comes to that, 1061 00:40:59,458 --> 00:41:02,667 {\an1}then I can step outside my comfort zone. 1062 00:41:02,792 --> 00:41:05,458 {\an1}You know what I'm saying, and in my mama's eyes, 1063 00:41:05,542 --> 00:41:07,333 {\an1}be more freaky. 1064 00:41:07,417 --> 00:41:08,625 {\an1}- Oh, that's what mama said? - Mm-hmm. 1065 00:41:08,750 --> 00:41:09,667 {\an1}She's like, so you ain't freaky enough. 1066 00:41:09,792 --> 00:41:11,583 {\an1}And I was like, well-- - Oh. 1067 00:41:11,708 --> 00:41:13,833 {\an1}[laughing] - It ain't that we ain't frea-- 1068 00:41:13,917 --> 00:41:15,375 {\an1}- You didn't tell me about this conversation. 1069 00:41:15,542 --> 00:41:16,875 {\an1}Is that what happened? 1070 00:41:17,042 --> 00:41:18,583 {\an1}Mama wants you to be more freaky? 1071 00:41:18,708 --> 00:41:19,750 {\an1}- Yeah, you know, desiring more. 1072 00:41:19,875 --> 00:41:21,000 {\an1}She's like, so you need her to be more-- 1073 00:41:21,083 --> 00:41:22,583 {\an1}you need to be more freaky. 1074 00:41:22,708 --> 00:41:24,667 {\an1}But you ain't comfortable enough to do that. 1075 00:41:24,792 --> 00:41:29,583 {\an1}And I was like, well, I mean, yeah. 1076 00:41:29,708 --> 00:41:31,667 {\an1}So that was a mouthful. Sorry. 1077 00:41:31,792 --> 00:41:34,500 {\an1}- No, you don't have to apologize. 1078 00:41:34,625 --> 00:41:37,292 {\an1}I'm listening. I'm internalizing. 1079 00:41:37,417 --> 00:41:41,042 {\an1}I'm taking everything in. 1080 00:41:41,208 --> 00:41:42,167 {\an1}- What you smiling about? 1081 00:41:42,333 --> 00:41:43,833 {\an1}- You know what? 1082 00:41:43,958 --> 00:41:45,458 {\an1}This conversation's important because it's just like, 1083 00:41:45,542 --> 00:41:49,375 {\an1}now that we're here, now, you know, 1084 00:41:49,500 --> 00:41:51,542 {\an1}we've had a great day. 1085 00:41:51,667 --> 00:41:52,958 {\an1}And I don't want to ruin it. 1086 00:41:53,083 --> 00:41:57,083 {\an1}But, like, I still have my doubts. 1087 00:41:57,208 --> 00:41:59,583 {\an1}If we were to stay together, it would more so focus 1088 00:41:59,708 --> 00:42:04,292 {\an1}on consistency, stabilization, foundation, 1089 00:42:04,375 --> 00:42:06,500 {\an1}you know, understanding each other. 1090 00:42:06,625 --> 00:42:09,500 {\an1}But this isn't best friends at first sight, you know? 1091 00:42:09,625 --> 00:42:12,292 {\an1}This is "Married at First Sight." 1092 00:42:12,417 --> 00:42:15,625 {\an1}But either way, it's just like, I think you're a great person. 1093 00:42:15,708 --> 00:42:17,417 {\an1}And maybe we might be better off as friends. 1094 00:42:17,542 --> 00:42:19,083 {\an1}Who knows? 1095 00:42:19,208 --> 00:42:22,042 {\an1}[dramatic music] 1096 00:42:22,167 --> 00:42:27,333 {\an1}♪ ♪ 1097 00:42:27,500 --> 00:42:29,792 {\an1}[soft music] 1098 00:42:29,875 --> 00:42:34,375 {\an1}- ♪ It's been a long journey, a winding road ♪ 1099 00:42:34,500 --> 00:42:35,625 {\an1}♪ Getting lost and learning ♪ 1100 00:42:35,750 --> 00:42:38,542 {\an1}- Here we are. - Cute. 1101 00:42:38,667 --> 00:42:40,333 {\an1}Look at how pretty the mountains are. 1102 00:42:40,458 --> 00:42:41,833 {\an1}- Mm-hmm. 1103 00:42:41,958 --> 00:42:43,792 {\an1}Can't wait to try this wine. 1104 00:42:43,875 --> 00:42:45,333 {\an1}I heard they make their own hooch. 1105 00:42:45,458 --> 00:42:47,292 {\an1}- Hooch? 1106 00:42:47,417 --> 00:42:49,000 {\an1}I've been called that before. 1107 00:42:49,125 --> 00:42:50,833 {\an1}- A hoochie mama? 1108 00:42:50,917 --> 00:42:52,500 {\an1}- [laughs] 1109 00:42:52,583 --> 00:42:55,458 {\an1}We have just kind of been missing each other 1110 00:42:55,583 --> 00:43:00,083 {\an1}repeatedly the past like week and a half. 1111 00:43:00,208 --> 00:43:02,708 {\an1}And it's taking so much emotionally and physically. 1112 00:43:02,833 --> 00:43:06,458 {\an1}And I want to make sure that I feel more secure with him. 1113 00:43:06,542 --> 00:43:08,667 {\an1}So how are you feeling? 1114 00:43:08,750 --> 00:43:10,667 {\an1}- I'm feeling good. 1115 00:43:10,750 --> 00:43:12,667 {\an1}I mean, there's no denying we've had a tough week. 1116 00:43:12,792 --> 00:43:14,750 {\an1}- A lot has happened in such a short amount of time. 1117 00:43:14,875 --> 00:43:16,542 {\an1}- Right. 1118 00:43:16,667 --> 00:43:17,833 {\an1}- So this is just nice to forget about all of that 1119 00:43:17,958 --> 00:43:19,625 {\an1}and just... 1120 00:43:19,750 --> 00:43:21,250 {\an1}- Wine and dine, yeah. - [chuckling] 1121 00:43:21,375 --> 00:43:22,458 {\an1}- Well, and that is important too 1122 00:43:22,583 --> 00:43:24,333 {\an1}because I kind of did ruin-- 1123 00:43:24,458 --> 00:43:27,458 {\an1}I can't, I mean-- like, I know I--sure. 1124 00:43:27,542 --> 00:43:28,833 {\an1}I'll say it. 1125 00:43:28,958 --> 00:43:31,208 {\an1}I kind of ruined our last winery visit. 1126 00:43:31,375 --> 00:43:32,500 {\an1}- I'm trying. - I know you are. 1127 00:43:32,583 --> 00:43:33,958 {\an1}- And it's a lot. - I know. 1128 00:43:34,042 --> 00:43:36,167 {\an1}I got tired of calling your attention to it. 1129 00:43:36,292 --> 00:43:39,333 {\an1}I think that's the problem. 1130 00:43:39,458 --> 00:43:42,292 {\an1}- Can I just, like-- 1131 00:43:42,375 --> 00:43:45,333 {\an1}[crying] 1132 00:43:45,458 --> 00:43:48,417 {\an1}[dramatic music] 1133 00:43:48,542 --> 00:43:50,667 {\an1}- So it's good to make it up. 1134 00:43:50,833 --> 00:43:52,500 {\an1}And yeah, I just-- 1135 00:43:52,667 --> 00:43:54,833 {\an1}I hope to show you who I truly am. 1136 00:43:54,917 --> 00:43:57,667 {\an1}That weekend was by no means, like, who I am 1137 00:43:57,792 --> 00:43:59,583 {\an1}and who I want to be. 1138 00:43:59,708 --> 00:44:00,917 {\an1}Do I wish I reacted differently? 1139 00:44:01,042 --> 00:44:02,208 {\an1}100%. 1140 00:44:02,333 --> 00:44:03,500 {\an1}You know, do I wish I was not 1141 00:44:03,625 --> 00:44:04,917 {\an1}sensitive and overreactive? 1142 00:44:05,042 --> 00:44:06,167 {\an1}Yes. 1143 00:44:06,333 --> 00:44:07,500 {\an1}But it happened. 1144 00:44:07,667 --> 00:44:09,500 {\an1}And like I said, I'm sorry for that. 1145 00:44:09,583 --> 00:44:11,292 {\an1}But I'm trying to learn from that-- 1146 00:44:11,375 --> 00:44:13,167 {\an1}- Mm-hmm. - And move on. 1147 00:44:13,250 --> 00:44:14,500 {\an1}And I need to get into a better place 1148 00:44:14,625 --> 00:44:16,458 {\an1}where I don't go 0 to 100-- 1149 00:44:16,583 --> 00:44:17,833 {\an1}- Yeah. 1150 00:44:17,917 --> 00:44:19,708 {\an1}- Based on like one heavy disagreement. 1151 00:44:19,833 --> 00:44:22,250 {\an1}- And I have to reassess, like, if it's taking 1152 00:44:22,375 --> 00:44:23,875 {\an1}too much from me to filter myself. 1153 00:44:24,000 --> 00:44:25,833 {\an1}Like, I did boil, and that's what... 1154 00:44:25,917 --> 00:44:27,292 {\an1}- Right. 1155 00:44:27,375 --> 00:44:29,167 {\an1}- Me talking to Gabi and just voicing my frustration 1156 00:44:29,292 --> 00:44:32,083 {\an1}without thinking, oh, my God, if I tell Miguel this, 1157 00:44:32,208 --> 00:44:36,208 {\an1}he's gonna, like, bounce, you know? 1158 00:44:36,333 --> 00:44:40,792 {\an1}- I acknowledge that I haven't been like the rock you need. 1159 00:44:40,875 --> 00:44:44,000 {\an1}And I don't know if I can exhibit that strength to, 1160 00:44:44,167 --> 00:44:46,583 {\an1}like, hold you accountable like you mentioned to me, 1161 00:44:46,708 --> 00:44:49,708 {\an1}or like, you know, put you in your place-- 1162 00:44:49,875 --> 00:44:52,792 {\an1}you know, be like that pillar of strength 1163 00:44:52,875 --> 00:44:56,000 {\an1}that you can lean on. 1164 00:44:56,125 --> 00:44:58,917 {\an1}- So that comment is not supposed to be like, 1165 00:44:59,042 --> 00:45:01,208 {\an1}I need you to be managing me constantly 1166 00:45:01,375 --> 00:45:02,792 {\an1}or anything like that. 1167 00:45:02,875 --> 00:45:04,792 {\an1}It shouldn't be taking a lot of energy out of you. 1168 00:45:04,875 --> 00:45:06,667 {\an1}It just means that you need to step up when I'm low. 1169 00:45:06,833 --> 00:45:08,333 {\an1}- No, I know. And I guess I get that. 1170 00:45:08,458 --> 00:45:09,958 {\an1}- Mm-hmm. 1171 00:45:10,042 --> 00:45:12,542 {\an1}- But it does scare me sometimes when you do have 1172 00:45:12,708 --> 00:45:14,208 {\an1}such a strong personality. 1173 00:45:14,333 --> 00:45:17,000 {\an1}And you know, it's like your strong personality 1174 00:45:17,083 --> 00:45:18,917 {\an1}sometimes does overwhelm me. 1175 00:45:19,042 --> 00:45:21,000 {\an1}- Mm-hmm. - And it catches me off guard. 1176 00:45:21,125 --> 00:45:22,625 {\an1}I haven't experienced it before. 1177 00:45:22,750 --> 00:45:24,750 {\an1}I don't know. It's a lot thrown at me. 1178 00:45:24,875 --> 00:45:26,458 {\an1}And you are theatric. 1179 00:45:26,583 --> 00:45:29,333 {\an1}Like, you're very expressive and emotive. 1180 00:45:29,458 --> 00:45:31,583 {\an1}So I think when that happens, 1181 00:45:31,708 --> 00:45:34,667 {\an1}I'm just like really caught off guard. 1182 00:45:34,750 --> 00:45:36,583 {\an1}And it does scare me because I'm like, wow, 1183 00:45:36,708 --> 00:45:39,417 {\an1}this is taking a lot out of me. 1184 00:45:39,542 --> 00:45:42,375 {\an1}I mean, my main concern right now is her emotions. 1185 00:45:42,500 --> 00:45:44,667 {\an1}Like, her expressive nature, 1186 00:45:44,792 --> 00:45:46,792 {\an1}sometimes, it is a lot for me to handle. 1187 00:45:46,875 --> 00:45:48,667 {\an1}I don't know how to phrase it. 1188 00:45:48,792 --> 00:45:50,500 {\an1}But it's like that is a legitimate fear of mine 1189 00:45:50,583 --> 00:45:53,417 {\an1}if I'm not able to be the husband that Lindy needs. 1190 00:45:53,542 --> 00:45:54,792 {\an1}[sighs] 1191 00:45:54,917 --> 00:45:56,083 {\an1}I mean, there's no-- that's the thing. 1192 00:45:56,208 --> 00:45:57,542 {\an1}I don't know. 1193 00:45:57,667 --> 00:45:59,167 {\an1}Like, I can't guarantee that right now. 1194 00:45:59,250 --> 00:46:02,042 {\an1}It's having me reevaluate everything 1195 00:46:02,167 --> 00:46:05,292 {\an1}I thought I knew about marriage going into this. 1196 00:46:05,375 --> 00:46:08,167 {\an1}And, uh, I don't know 1197 00:46:08,292 --> 00:46:10,750 {\an1}if I can be this person day in, day out. 1198 00:46:10,875 --> 00:46:14,667 {\an1}[tense music] 1199 00:46:14,792 --> 00:46:18,458 {\an1}- ♪ Ooh, is this the real thing? ♪ 1200 00:46:18,583 --> 00:46:20,958 {\an1}♪ Baby, you and I ♪ 1201 00:46:21,042 --> 00:46:23,833 {\an1}♪ Na, na, you and I ♪ 1202 00:46:24,000 --> 00:46:25,583 {\an1}- Look at this view. 1203 00:46:25,708 --> 00:46:27,292 {\an1}- It's beautiful. Hi. 1204 00:46:27,375 --> 00:46:28,250 {\an1}- Hey, what's up? - Hi. 1205 00:46:28,375 --> 00:46:29,542 {\an1}- Thank you. 1206 00:46:29,667 --> 00:46:31,000 {\an1}- Thank you. - Of course. 1207 00:46:31,083 --> 00:46:32,667 {\an1}Enjoy. both: Thank you. 1208 00:46:32,750 --> 00:46:35,417 {\an1}♪ ♪ 1209 00:46:35,542 --> 00:46:37,042 {\an1}How is it, good? 1210 00:46:37,167 --> 00:46:39,333 {\an1}- Uh-huh. 1211 00:46:39,500 --> 00:46:42,458 {\an1}So is there anything that you want to talk about 1212 00:46:42,542 --> 00:46:45,792 {\an1}before Decision Day, so we can make better decisions, 1213 00:46:45,917 --> 00:46:47,375 {\an1}so you can have more information, 1214 00:46:47,542 --> 00:46:51,000 {\an1}you can feel more comfortable with your decision? 1215 00:46:51,083 --> 00:46:55,500 {\an1}- Basically, I want to know, 1216 00:46:55,583 --> 00:46:57,833 {\an1}you know, if you're, like, all in. 1217 00:46:57,917 --> 00:47:00,958 {\an1}And I want to know, like, what are your biggest flaws? 1218 00:47:01,042 --> 00:47:02,917 {\an1}- You want to know my flaws? 1219 00:47:03,042 --> 00:47:04,708 {\an1}- Yeah, what are some flaws that you have? 1220 00:47:04,833 --> 00:47:07,875 {\an1}♪ ♪ 1221 00:47:08,000 --> 00:47:10,333 {\an1}- I think I shared all my flaws with you. 1222 00:47:10,458 --> 00:47:12,208 {\an1}- Okay. 1223 00:47:12,333 --> 00:47:14,042 {\an1}♪ ♪ 1224 00:47:14,208 --> 00:47:15,750 {\an1}- It's kind of a hard question. 1225 00:47:15,875 --> 00:47:19,167 {\an1}- That's fair. 1226 00:47:19,292 --> 00:47:21,667 {\an1}- So how are we feeling about this love thing? 1227 00:47:21,792 --> 00:47:24,000 {\an1}How are those feelings now, 1228 00:47:24,083 --> 00:47:27,792 {\an1}now that we're almost two months in? 1229 00:47:27,875 --> 00:47:30,000 {\an1}- It's too early for me. 1230 00:47:30,125 --> 00:47:32,167 {\an1}But, like, my love for you is growing. 1231 00:47:32,250 --> 00:47:34,500 {\an1}And I can see myself loving you, 1232 00:47:34,583 --> 00:47:38,208 {\an1}falling in love with you, and being in love with you. 1233 00:47:38,333 --> 00:47:40,167 {\an1}But I don't want to force it, you know? 1234 00:47:40,250 --> 00:47:44,625 {\an1}I think that just has to come with time. 1235 00:47:44,750 --> 00:47:46,292 {\an1}You know, I want to be able to, like, 1236 00:47:46,375 --> 00:47:48,167 {\an1}walk around naked around you and all that. 1237 00:47:48,250 --> 00:47:50,333 {\an1}And I'm not even there yet. You know what I mean? 1238 00:47:50,500 --> 00:47:53,167 {\an1}I'm still kind of, like, shy. You know what I'm saying? 1239 00:47:53,292 --> 00:47:55,000 {\an1}And you know, it's not me being insecure. 1240 00:47:55,125 --> 00:47:57,333 {\an1}It's just like, you're new to me. 1241 00:47:57,458 --> 00:47:59,333 {\an1}And I think once I get to that level, 1242 00:47:59,417 --> 00:48:01,250 {\an1}I'll be able to open up all the way 1243 00:48:01,375 --> 00:48:03,625 {\an1}and be able to love you. 1244 00:48:03,708 --> 00:48:05,167 {\an1}[tense music] 1245 00:48:05,333 --> 00:48:07,708 {\an1}And hopefully, like, you're patient. 1246 00:48:07,833 --> 00:48:12,042 {\an1}- I feel like sometimes you not ever having that feeling, 1247 00:48:12,208 --> 00:48:14,333 {\an1}I don't know if you'll ever have that feeling. 1248 00:48:16,458 --> 00:48:17,500 {\an1}- With love? 1249 00:48:17,667 --> 00:48:19,833 {\an1}- Yeah. 1250 00:48:19,958 --> 00:48:21,667 {\an1}- Why? Why do you think that? 1251 00:48:21,792 --> 00:48:22,667 {\an1}- Because you've never experienced it. 1252 00:48:22,792 --> 00:48:23,833 {\an1}- Well, I-- 1253 00:48:23,917 --> 00:48:25,042 {\an1}- And you've been in relationships. 1254 00:48:25,167 --> 00:48:26,417 {\an1}- I've had, like, puppy love, remember? 1255 00:48:26,542 --> 00:48:27,750 {\an1}- Yeah, but that doesn't count. - It's not the same. 1256 00:48:27,875 --> 00:48:29,167 {\an1}- High school doesn't count. - Okay. 1257 00:48:29,292 --> 00:48:32,042 {\an1}- I'm saying, like, serious, adult relationships. 1258 00:48:32,167 --> 00:48:33,958 {\an1}- Does that concern you? 1259 00:48:34,042 --> 00:48:35,542 {\an1}- Yeah, it's one of my concerns-- 1260 00:48:35,708 --> 00:48:37,083 {\an1}- One of them? 1261 00:48:37,208 --> 00:48:38,417 {\an1}- Being in a relationship for two years 1262 00:48:38,542 --> 00:48:40,500 {\an1}and not loving a person, living with them, 1263 00:48:40,625 --> 00:48:44,500 {\an1}like, I don't want to be in a loveless relationship 1264 00:48:44,667 --> 00:48:49,333 {\an1}where we're living together, we're sharing bank accounts, 1265 00:48:49,417 --> 00:48:52,000 {\an1}we have a kid. 1266 00:48:52,083 --> 00:48:53,917 {\an1}You know, I know, like, you go through the motions 1267 00:48:54,042 --> 00:48:55,333 {\an1}in the morning. 1268 00:48:55,500 --> 00:48:56,833 {\an1}Like, you, you know, give me a hug. 1269 00:48:56,917 --> 00:48:58,333 {\an1}And we cuddle and stuff like that. 1270 00:48:58,458 --> 00:49:01,125 {\an1}But I just kind of feel like if you were, like, 1271 00:49:01,250 --> 00:49:02,750 {\an1}in love with me, it would kind of be 1272 00:49:02,875 --> 00:49:05,000 {\an1}just a little bit deeper. 1273 00:49:05,083 --> 00:49:06,542 {\an1}- That kind of hurts my feelings. 1274 00:49:06,667 --> 00:49:08,542 {\an1}But I do care about you. 1275 00:49:08,708 --> 00:49:09,875 {\an1}- I'm not saying that you don't. 1276 00:49:10,000 --> 00:49:11,208 {\an1}- Yeah, but you said it like, 1277 00:49:11,333 --> 00:49:13,333 {\an1}you feel like it could be deeper. 1278 00:49:13,417 --> 00:49:15,083 {\an1}- Yeah, like, I feel-- - That's messed up. 1279 00:49:15,208 --> 00:49:17,083 {\an1}- Why is it messed up? 1280 00:49:17,208 --> 00:49:18,833 {\an1}- Because it's like you're saying that my affection 1281 00:49:18,917 --> 00:49:20,000 {\an1}is not enough. 1282 00:49:20,083 --> 00:49:21,958 {\an1}- I didn't say that. 1283 00:49:22,083 --> 00:49:23,375 {\an1}- Then what are you trying to say then? 1284 00:49:23,500 --> 00:49:25,750 {\an1}- I'm just trying to say I feel like you 1285 00:49:25,875 --> 00:49:27,333 {\an1}don't have the burning desire. 1286 00:49:27,458 --> 00:49:28,958 {\an1}I feel like we're going through the motions 1287 00:49:29,083 --> 00:49:31,000 {\an1}sometimes in the apartment. 1288 00:49:31,125 --> 00:49:32,833 {\an1}- That is one of my concerns. 1289 00:49:33,000 --> 00:49:34,958 {\an1}I'm gonna be flat-out honest with you. 1290 00:49:35,042 --> 00:49:37,958 {\an1}I feel like I'm not going to be able to make you happy 1291 00:49:38,042 --> 00:49:40,083 {\an1}and please you. 1292 00:49:40,208 --> 00:49:43,167 {\an1}And I feel like you're gonna get bored very easy. 1293 00:49:43,250 --> 00:49:46,750 {\an1}And you're going to feel like I'm not in love with you. 1294 00:49:46,875 --> 00:49:49,208 {\an1}- But you don't love me. 1295 00:49:49,333 --> 00:49:50,792 {\an1}- [sighs] 1296 00:49:50,875 --> 00:49:53,167 {\an1}- Right? 1297 00:49:53,250 --> 00:49:57,667 {\an1}- If you don't feel that burning desire right now, 1298 00:49:57,750 --> 00:50:01,792 {\an1}and you feel like we're going through the motions... 1299 00:50:01,917 --> 00:50:03,917 {\an1}♪ ♪ 1300 00:50:04,042 --> 00:50:07,000 {\an1}That's a red flag to me. 1301 00:50:07,125 --> 00:50:08,875 {\an1}- He's not listening to me. 1302 00:50:09,000 --> 00:50:11,167 {\an1}He just listens to a few words. 1303 00:50:11,250 --> 00:50:13,292 {\an1}And he's triggered by certain words. 1304 00:50:13,375 --> 00:50:16,375 {\an1}And then he just creates his own understanding, 1305 00:50:16,500 --> 00:50:18,667 {\an1}narrative of what he thinks I'm saying. 1306 00:50:18,792 --> 00:50:20,292 {\an1}- Here's the deal. 1307 00:50:20,375 --> 00:50:21,875 {\an1}Do you see what's on my hand right now? 1308 00:50:22,042 --> 00:50:23,708 {\an1}- Yeah. - Why do you think I did this? 1309 00:50:23,875 --> 00:50:25,333 {\an1}- To show your commitment. 1310 00:50:25,458 --> 00:50:26,833 {\an1}- Do you think I'm going through the motions 1311 00:50:26,917 --> 00:50:28,833 {\an1}when I have a [bleep] tattoo on my hand? 1312 00:50:28,917 --> 00:50:31,417 {\an1}♪ ♪ 1313 00:50:31,542 --> 00:50:33,500 {\an1}- No, I think you're showing your level of commitment. 1314 00:50:33,667 --> 00:50:34,875 {\an1}- Okay then. 1315 00:50:35,000 --> 00:50:36,333 {\an1}Two months in, 1316 00:50:36,458 --> 00:50:38,625 {\an1}you're already questioning my love for you. 1317 00:50:38,750 --> 00:50:42,708 {\an1}Like, that hurts my feelings when you say that stuff. 1318 00:50:42,875 --> 00:50:44,792 {\an1}I'm putting in a lot of effort. 1319 00:50:44,917 --> 00:50:47,250 {\an1}I'm being very affectionate around you. 1320 00:50:47,375 --> 00:50:51,333 {\an1}- But I feel like that love, burning desire feeling, 1321 00:50:51,417 --> 00:50:53,083 {\an1}that's what I want to feel. 1322 00:50:53,208 --> 00:50:55,000 {\an1}- Well, I'm sorry if you don't feel that. 1323 00:50:55,083 --> 00:50:56,875 {\an1}♪ ♪ 1324 00:50:57,042 --> 00:51:00,167 {\an1}I have deep feelings for you. 1325 00:51:00,333 --> 00:51:01,625 {\an1}- And that's what I want to see. 1326 00:51:01,708 --> 00:51:03,083 {\an1}That's all I'm saying. 1327 00:51:03,208 --> 00:51:06,500 {\an1}- Okay, but I feel like I do show you attention, 1328 00:51:06,625 --> 00:51:08,000 {\an1}and love, and affection. 1329 00:51:08,125 --> 00:51:09,667 {\an1}- You do, you do. 1330 00:51:09,792 --> 00:51:11,583 {\an1}- So what is missing then? 1331 00:51:11,708 --> 00:51:14,875 {\an1}- The love part. 1332 00:51:15,000 --> 00:51:16,292 {\an1}- That's what I'm looking for. 1333 00:51:16,375 --> 00:51:18,167 {\an1}- Okay, you got it. We're going in circles. 1334 00:51:18,250 --> 00:51:20,000 {\an1}I'm done with this [bleep]. 1335 00:51:20,125 --> 00:51:22,542 {\an1}[dramatic music] 1336 00:51:22,667 --> 00:51:24,333 {\an1}I'm done, I'm done. 1337 00:51:24,458 --> 00:51:26,333 {\an1}I don't want to [bleep] talk about that [bleep] no more. 1338 00:51:26,500 --> 00:51:31,042 {\an1}- ♪ I see angels falling down ♪ 1339 00:51:33,625 --> 00:51:34,167 {\an1}rove my love, ♪ ♪e more than eh 1340 00:51:35,542 --> 00:51:37,292 {\an1}I've done more than enough to prove my love, 1341 00:51:37,375 --> 00:51:38,833 {\an1}to prove my feelings, 1342 00:51:38,917 --> 00:51:40,667 {\an1}and to show her that I'm committed. 1343 00:51:40,833 --> 00:51:41,750 {\an1}And if she's not seeing it, there's nothing I can do. 1344 00:51:41,875 --> 00:51:44,250 {\an1}Because if I do say, I love you, 1345 00:51:44,375 --> 00:51:46,750 {\an1}then how is she gonna believe me then 1346 00:51:46,875 --> 00:51:50,167 {\an1}if I'm going through the motions 1347 00:51:50,250 --> 00:51:54,208 {\an1}and she's not feeling the burning desire? 1348 00:51:54,333 --> 00:51:56,833 {\an1}Basically, I feel like we're in a cycle. 1349 00:51:56,958 --> 00:51:59,708 {\an1}This is basically the same dialogue 1350 00:51:59,833 --> 00:52:03,958 {\an1}we had where you felt like, you know, I wasn't genuine. 1351 00:52:04,042 --> 00:52:05,958 {\an1}- I don't agree. 1352 00:52:06,083 --> 00:52:07,583 {\an1}I just think that, 1353 00:52:07,708 --> 00:52:09,792 {\an1}I want to know, what is this love feeling? 1354 00:52:09,917 --> 00:52:11,500 {\an1}- Look, to be honest with you, 1355 00:52:11,667 --> 00:52:13,917 {\an1}I don't love you right now, okay? 1356 00:52:14,042 --> 00:52:15,250 {\an1}- Got that. 1357 00:52:15,375 --> 00:52:16,500 {\an1}- I've known you for two months, okay? 1358 00:52:16,667 --> 00:52:18,125 {\an1}- Granted, yeah. 1359 00:52:18,250 --> 00:52:20,708 {\an1}- And it's gonna take me time for my feelings 1360 00:52:20,833 --> 00:52:21,917 {\an1}to grow for you. 1361 00:52:22,042 --> 00:52:23,542 {\an1}- I know that. 1362 00:52:23,667 --> 00:52:25,125 {\an1}And I'm not saying that I need that right now. 1363 00:52:25,208 --> 00:52:26,417 {\an1}- But what I'm saying-- 1364 00:52:26,542 --> 00:52:28,000 {\an1}- I'm saying that we work towards that. 1365 00:52:28,083 --> 00:52:29,333 {\an1}- The reason why I'm hurt is because you think 1366 00:52:29,458 --> 00:52:30,958 {\an1}I'm going through the motions. 1367 00:52:31,042 --> 00:52:32,708 {\an1}- I just want to know that we're working 1368 00:52:32,875 --> 00:52:34,625 {\an1}towards the love feeling. 1369 00:52:34,750 --> 00:52:36,208 {\an1}That's it. 1370 00:52:36,375 --> 00:52:38,333 {\an1}- Okay, and why don't you feel that? 1371 00:52:38,417 --> 00:52:40,167 {\an1}- I feel like you like me. 1372 00:52:40,250 --> 00:52:42,000 {\an1}You like being around me. 1373 00:52:42,125 --> 00:52:43,958 {\an1}- But we're going through the motions, 1374 00:52:44,042 --> 00:52:46,000 {\an1}so what's gonna happen next, 1375 00:52:46,125 --> 00:52:49,542 {\an1}when you feel that it's not enough? 1376 00:52:49,708 --> 00:52:52,333 {\an1}What do I do? Because now I'm stuck with you. 1377 00:52:52,417 --> 00:52:55,125 {\an1}- You're stuck with me? - I'm stuck with you. 1378 00:52:55,208 --> 00:52:56,833 {\an1}- You're stuck. - I'm stuck. 1379 00:52:56,958 --> 00:52:59,000 {\an1}- Then don't be stuck. 1380 00:52:59,167 --> 00:53:00,917 {\an1}- Exactly, I don't want to be stuck with you. 1381 00:53:01,042 --> 00:53:02,208 {\an1}- That's-- 1382 00:53:02,375 --> 00:53:03,708 {\an1}- I don't want to be married to you 1383 00:53:03,833 --> 00:53:05,417 {\an1}because I don't want to be with someone 1384 00:53:05,542 --> 00:53:07,667 {\an1}who doesn't feel satisfied enough 1385 00:53:07,833 --> 00:53:09,208 {\an1}because I'm not doing enough. 1386 00:53:09,375 --> 00:53:11,792 {\an1}I don't want to be with someone who thinks, 1387 00:53:11,917 --> 00:53:13,167 {\an1}you know, I wasn't being genuine 1388 00:53:13,333 --> 00:53:14,542 {\an1}when I'm, like, hugging on you in the morning. 1389 00:53:14,708 --> 00:53:16,875 {\an1}- I never said that you weren't being genuine. 1390 00:53:17,000 --> 00:53:18,083 {\an1}I literally said that I enjoyed that. 1391 00:53:18,208 --> 00:53:19,583 {\an1}- Here's the thing. 1392 00:53:19,708 --> 00:53:21,000 {\an1}Like, I just don't want to go in circles anymore. 1393 00:53:21,083 --> 00:53:23,833 {\an1}I don't have time for that. 1394 00:53:24,000 --> 00:53:25,625 {\an1}I don't want to prove myself. 1395 00:53:25,750 --> 00:53:28,500 {\an1}I don't want to prove--like, I'm tired of proving myself. 1396 00:53:28,625 --> 00:53:30,333 {\an1}[dramatic music] 1397 00:53:30,500 --> 00:53:33,042 {\an1}I'm getting to the point where I just don't care no more. 1398 00:53:33,167 --> 00:53:36,500 {\an1}♪ ♪ 1399 00:53:37,625 --> 00:53:40,500 {\an1}[upbeat music] 1400 00:53:40,625 --> 00:53:47,458 {\an1}♪ ♪ 1401 00:53:49,750 --> 00:53:53,833 {\an1}- So I want to propose something. 1402 00:53:54,000 --> 00:53:55,292 {\an1}- Okay. 1403 00:53:55,375 --> 00:53:57,292 {\an1}[laughing] What'd you have in mind? 1404 00:53:59,917 --> 00:54:05,167 {\an1}- I was thinking, if you would be open to it, 1405 00:54:05,250 --> 00:54:08,250 {\an1}maybe Luna, just for tonight 1406 00:54:08,375 --> 00:54:10,583 {\an1}as our last night before Decision Day... 1407 00:54:10,708 --> 00:54:12,750 {\an1}- In the bed? - Sleeps in the bed with us. 1408 00:54:12,875 --> 00:54:14,458 {\an1}- Yeah. - Yeah? 1409 00:54:14,542 --> 00:54:15,833 {\an1}- Yeah. 1410 00:54:15,958 --> 00:54:18,333 {\an1}- This is the final night that our couples will get 1411 00:54:18,500 --> 00:54:21,792 {\an1}to spend together before Decision Day, 1412 00:54:21,917 --> 00:54:25,250 {\an1}so they must take these last moments to explore 1413 00:54:25,375 --> 00:54:28,333 {\an1}any necessary information to determine 1414 00:54:28,458 --> 00:54:32,000 {\an1}whether their futures include one another. 1415 00:54:32,167 --> 00:54:33,417 {\an1}- Lulu? 1416 00:54:33,542 --> 00:54:34,667 {\an1}- She's probably already in the bed. 1417 00:54:34,792 --> 00:54:36,125 {\an1}- There she is. 1418 00:54:36,208 --> 00:54:37,875 {\an1}Okay, we--no, wait, come here. 1419 00:54:38,000 --> 00:54:39,583 {\an1}Come here. 1420 00:54:39,708 --> 00:54:42,042 {\an1}- Luna, you're gonna get a treat. 1421 00:54:42,208 --> 00:54:43,333 {\an1}- Look, her tail's down. 1422 00:54:43,458 --> 00:54:44,833 {\an1}- Her tail is down. 1423 00:54:44,917 --> 00:54:46,292 {\an1}- Oh, yeah, come here, Lulu! 1424 00:54:46,375 --> 00:54:48,875 {\an1}No, no, no. 1425 00:54:49,042 --> 00:54:50,667 {\an1}She's under the bed. 1426 00:54:50,792 --> 00:54:52,000 {\an1}She's gone. 1427 00:54:52,125 --> 00:54:53,542 {\an1}You get the treats, and I'll get her. 1428 00:54:53,708 --> 00:54:54,708 {\an1}- Okay. Luna, I'm getting some treats. 1429 00:54:54,875 --> 00:54:57,875 {\an1}- God, it takes a village. Luna, come here. 1430 00:54:58,000 --> 00:55:00,083 {\an1}♪ ♪ 1431 00:55:00,208 --> 00:55:02,375 {\an1}- Chicken and Brown Rice Recipe Sticks. 1432 00:55:02,500 --> 00:55:04,500 {\an1}- Come here. She's on the other side. 1433 00:55:04,583 --> 00:55:06,542 {\an1}- These ones? - Get her. 1434 00:55:06,708 --> 00:55:08,500 {\an1}- These ones? - Yeah, that's perfect. 1435 00:55:08,625 --> 00:55:10,167 {\an1}- Get her. 1436 00:55:10,250 --> 00:55:14,292 {\an1}Okay, okay, okay, okay. 1437 00:55:14,417 --> 00:55:15,833 {\an1}Come here. Nope, come here. 1438 00:55:15,958 --> 00:55:17,708 {\an1}- You want a treat? - Wait, not yet, not yet-- 1439 00:55:17,833 --> 00:55:19,000 {\an1}- I'm sorry. 1440 00:55:19,125 --> 00:55:21,000 {\an1}- Not until the cleaning is complete. 1441 00:55:21,167 --> 00:55:23,333 {\an1}Okay, oh, yeah, there we go. 1442 00:55:23,458 --> 00:55:25,250 {\an1}- Oh, Luna, you know you love it. 1443 00:55:25,375 --> 00:55:27,875 {\an1}Oh, look at that. Oh, my God, it's so gross. 1444 00:55:28,042 --> 00:55:31,417 {\an1}- Not on the bed. Oh, oh, oh. 1445 00:55:31,542 --> 00:55:32,792 {\an1}- At least she went to my side. 1446 00:55:32,917 --> 00:55:35,833 {\an1}- [laughs] 1447 00:55:36,000 --> 00:55:39,375 {\an1}So it's our last night before Decision Day, 1448 00:55:39,500 --> 00:55:42,000 {\an1}and I've just never been more confused. 1449 00:55:42,167 --> 00:55:45,042 {\an1}I really don't know what each of us 1450 00:55:45,167 --> 00:55:47,458 {\an1}are gonna say on Decision Day. 1451 00:55:47,542 --> 00:55:50,000 {\an1}And I'm just really spent, emotionally exhausted. 1452 00:55:50,167 --> 00:55:51,500 {\an1}I'm drained. 1453 00:55:51,583 --> 00:55:54,167 {\an1}And I'm just thinking through if this marriage 1454 00:55:54,292 --> 00:55:56,167 {\an1}as a whole makes sense for me. 1455 00:55:56,333 --> 00:55:58,792 {\an1}This family meeting, I hereby adjourn. 1456 00:55:58,917 --> 00:56:00,083 {\an1}That word can't be right. 1457 00:56:00,208 --> 00:56:02,083 {\an1}- I think adjourn is to end. - Yeah. 1458 00:56:02,208 --> 00:56:04,125 {\an1}What do you think to begin is? 1459 00:56:04,250 --> 00:56:05,542 {\an1}- We hereby commence this family meeting. 1460 00:56:05,667 --> 00:56:07,458 {\an1}- I hereby commence this family meeting, 1461 00:56:07,542 --> 00:56:10,333 {\an1}our last bedtime before Decision Day. 1462 00:56:10,417 --> 00:56:12,083 {\an1}- This is true. 1463 00:56:12,208 --> 00:56:15,833 {\an1}- And a topic for the family meeting 1464 00:56:15,958 --> 00:56:21,833 {\an1}is a reflection of these last eight weeks. 1465 00:56:21,917 --> 00:56:24,208 {\an1}- I mean, I really feel like you've helped me 1466 00:56:24,375 --> 00:56:25,792 {\an1}become a better person. 1467 00:56:25,917 --> 00:56:28,458 {\an1}And just, I've always thought I was maybe 1468 00:56:28,583 --> 00:56:30,833 {\an1}in the grand scheme of things reasonably self-aware. 1469 00:56:31,000 --> 00:56:32,458 {\an1}- Yeah. 1470 00:56:32,583 --> 00:56:34,083 {\an1}- But I still think there were some big gaps. 1471 00:56:34,208 --> 00:56:36,500 {\an1}- Yeah. - So I really appreciate that. 1472 00:56:36,583 --> 00:56:39,500 {\an1}And I just really appreciate that how natural and easy 1473 00:56:39,625 --> 00:56:41,125 {\an1}it has been for us to be a good team. 1474 00:56:41,208 --> 00:56:42,833 {\an1}- Yeah. 1475 00:56:42,917 --> 00:56:45,000 {\an1}- You know, obviously, there's high emotions at stake. 1476 00:56:45,125 --> 00:56:47,708 {\an1}But I think in most of your everyday situations, 1477 00:56:47,833 --> 00:56:51,083 {\an1}and conflicts that come up, and everything else like that, 1478 00:56:51,208 --> 00:56:53,250 {\an1}we've just been a really good team. 1479 00:56:53,375 --> 00:56:54,583 {\an1}And I guess I just want you to know 1480 00:56:54,708 --> 00:56:58,125 {\an1}that I really do appreciate you. 1481 00:56:58,208 --> 00:56:59,667 {\an1}And I really do. 1482 00:56:59,792 --> 00:57:01,083 {\an1}And you know, there were times when 1483 00:57:01,208 --> 00:57:01,958 {\an1}we were just cuddling or sleeping 1484 00:57:02,083 --> 00:57:03,917 {\an1}when I just felt like-- 1485 00:57:04,042 --> 00:57:05,667 {\an1}just a lot of love, you know what I mean? 1486 00:57:05,833 --> 00:57:07,625 {\an1}And I know that, you know, maybe-- 1487 00:57:07,708 --> 00:57:09,625 {\an1}you know, I've been pretty honest 1488 00:57:09,750 --> 00:57:11,708 {\an1}that I don't necessarily maybe feel like I'm in love. 1489 00:57:11,875 --> 00:57:13,333 {\an1}- Yeah. - You know what I mean? 1490 00:57:13,500 --> 00:57:14,792 {\an1}But I do love you. 1491 00:57:14,875 --> 00:57:17,125 {\an1}And I just want you to know that. 1492 00:57:17,208 --> 00:57:18,583 {\an1}- Thanks, babe. 1493 00:57:18,708 --> 00:57:19,958 {\an1}- And you're a beautiful person. 1494 00:57:20,042 --> 00:57:21,500 {\an1}- Thank you. 1495 00:57:21,583 --> 00:57:22,333 {\an1}- I just need you to know that because... 1496 00:57:22,500 --> 00:57:24,000 {\an1}- Thank you. 1497 00:57:24,125 --> 00:57:26,375 {\an1}- Sometimes, you haven't always felt like that. 1498 00:57:26,500 --> 00:57:28,375 {\an1}- Yeah, no, I haven't. 1499 00:57:28,542 --> 00:57:30,833 {\an1}I mean, I've told you before, like, I definitely-- 1500 00:57:30,958 --> 00:57:33,833 {\an1}I have a lot of love for you too. 1501 00:57:34,000 --> 00:57:36,833 {\an1}I'm, like, trying to figure-- navigate that. 1502 00:57:36,958 --> 00:57:40,208 {\an1}And sometimes, it feels like a romantic love. 1503 00:57:40,333 --> 00:57:41,458 {\an1}And then sometimes, it just feels like 1504 00:57:41,542 --> 00:57:43,000 {\an1}I care about you so much. 1505 00:57:43,167 --> 00:57:45,333 {\an1}But it's there for sure too. 1506 00:57:45,417 --> 00:57:48,333 {\an1}Of course it is. And I really want it to work. 1507 00:57:48,458 --> 00:57:52,625 {\an1}I mean, it makes me really, really sad 1508 00:57:52,708 --> 00:57:54,375 {\an1}to think that this would be the last night. 1509 00:57:54,542 --> 00:57:55,667 {\an1}I mean, look. 1510 00:57:55,792 --> 00:57:57,000 {\an1}Look how happy our little girl is. 1511 00:57:57,125 --> 00:57:58,667 {\an1}Oh, God. 1512 00:57:58,792 --> 00:58:01,750 {\an1}Hi, bubba. 1513 00:58:01,875 --> 00:58:04,167 {\an1}- Well, it will definitely be the last night in this bed... 1514 00:58:04,292 --> 00:58:06,292 {\an1}- Yeah. - In this house. 1515 00:58:06,375 --> 00:58:10,625 {\an1}- What do you say we try to cuddle, 1516 00:58:10,750 --> 00:58:13,458 {\an1}even with Luna here, and go to sleep? 1517 00:58:13,542 --> 00:58:15,333 {\an1}- I think that's gonna make me very happy. 1518 00:58:15,458 --> 00:58:22,417 {\an1}- All right. - Good night, babe. 1519 00:58:22,542 --> 00:58:25,708 {\an1}- ♪ When you reach into my heart ♪ 1520 00:58:25,833 --> 00:58:29,042 {\an1}♪ And it feels electric ♪ 1521 00:58:29,167 --> 00:58:30,583 {\an1}♪ Won't you tell me we can live forever? ♪ 1522 00:58:30,708 --> 00:58:32,792 {\an1}- Hello, hello. - Howdy. 1523 00:58:32,917 --> 00:58:35,250 {\an1}- How you feeling? - I'm feeling wonderful. 1524 00:58:35,375 --> 00:58:36,667 {\an1}- It's been a good day. 1525 00:58:36,833 --> 00:58:38,333 {\an1}- It's kind of crazy that we're towards the end-- 1526 00:58:38,458 --> 00:58:39,833 {\an1}- Mm-hmm. 1527 00:58:39,917 --> 00:58:42,250 {\an1}- Because it's been a long eight weeks. 1528 00:58:42,375 --> 00:58:44,042 {\an1}It feels like eight months. 1529 00:58:44,167 --> 00:58:47,667 {\an1}- It has been an emotional roller coaster, girl. 1530 00:58:47,833 --> 00:58:49,125 {\an1}- Because usually, I'm not emotional. 1531 00:58:49,250 --> 00:58:53,375 {\an1}And I let you wind me like this every time. 1532 00:58:53,500 --> 00:58:55,375 {\an1}How you feeling about Decision Day? 1533 00:58:55,500 --> 00:58:56,542 {\an1}- I'm happy. I'm cool. 1534 00:58:56,667 --> 00:58:57,917 {\an1}I'm gonna be all right. 1535 00:58:58,042 --> 00:58:59,583 {\an1}I've just come to terms with there's 1536 00:58:59,708 --> 00:59:01,125 {\an1}a chance you can say yes, 1537 00:59:01,250 --> 00:59:02,375 {\an1}there's a chance you can say no. 1538 00:59:02,542 --> 00:59:04,292 {\an1}- I mean, so this is my thing. 1539 00:59:04,417 --> 00:59:07,167 {\an1}I'm honestly nervous because I don't know 1540 00:59:07,292 --> 00:59:09,958 {\an1}what decision to make. 1541 00:59:10,042 --> 00:59:11,125 {\an1}- Mm-hmm. 1542 00:59:11,250 --> 00:59:12,500 {\an1}- This is a lot for me. - Hm. 1543 00:59:12,667 --> 00:59:13,958 {\an1}- It's a lot for me. 1544 00:59:14,083 --> 00:59:15,625 {\an1}And the fact that I don't know is 1545 00:59:15,750 --> 00:59:17,667 {\an1}really, like, dang, does that mean something, 1546 00:59:17,750 --> 00:59:19,042 {\an1}that I don't know? 1547 00:59:19,167 --> 00:59:20,625 {\an1}- Mm-hmm. 1548 00:59:20,708 --> 00:59:22,417 {\an1}- Because I should be going into Decision Day 1549 00:59:22,542 --> 00:59:24,833 {\an1}full throttle, this my man. 1550 00:59:24,958 --> 00:59:27,833 {\an1}- I agree. - And I'm down forever. 1551 00:59:27,958 --> 00:59:29,333 {\an1}I don't know if it's that you had 1552 00:59:29,458 --> 00:59:32,125 {\an1}your realization too late because better late than never. 1553 00:59:32,208 --> 00:59:33,500 {\an1}- Mm-hmm. 1554 00:59:33,583 --> 00:59:36,292 {\an1}- Imagine spending seven weeks getting me 1555 00:59:36,417 --> 00:59:38,083 {\an1}to speak the same language. 1556 00:59:38,208 --> 00:59:41,333 {\an1}And then we finally get it but, like, right before it's time. 1557 00:59:41,458 --> 00:59:42,667 {\an1}- But it ain't all been bad, though. 1558 00:59:42,750 --> 00:59:44,583 {\an1}- I'm not saying it's been bad, baby. 1559 00:59:44,708 --> 00:59:46,000 {\an1}We have some beautiful times. - Like, it ain't-- 1560 00:59:46,125 --> 00:59:48,292 {\an1}- We have, but I'm saying, that was my main frustration. 1561 00:59:48,375 --> 00:59:49,875 {\an1}- Mm. 1562 00:59:50,000 --> 00:59:51,625 {\an1}- And for you to finally just have this realization, 1563 00:59:51,708 --> 00:59:53,583 {\an1}I don't want to say a part of me doesn't believe it. 1564 00:59:53,708 --> 00:59:55,125 {\an1}- Mm-hmm, okay. 1565 00:59:55,208 --> 00:59:56,417 {\an1}- I want to. I want this. 1566 00:59:56,542 --> 00:59:58,000 {\an1}I want us to work it out. 1567 00:59:58,125 --> 01:00:00,708 {\an1}I guess I need the affirmation now. 1568 01:00:00,833 --> 01:00:02,833 {\an1}- I can't go back seven weeks because I didn't-- 1569 01:00:03,000 --> 01:00:04,042 {\an1}- I know. 1570 01:00:04,167 --> 01:00:05,792 {\an1}I'm just--in this moment, 1571 01:00:05,917 --> 01:00:08,292 {\an1}I think I'm actually considering Decision Day, 1572 01:00:08,375 --> 01:00:11,333 {\an1}like, oh, crap, you know, like, it's a thing that's happening. 1573 01:00:11,458 --> 01:00:13,292 {\an1}And it's a big deal. 1574 01:00:13,375 --> 01:00:15,458 {\an1}Like, at first, I wasn't thinking it was a big deal. 1575 01:00:15,583 --> 01:00:16,792 {\an1}But it's a big deal. 1576 01:00:16,917 --> 01:00:18,750 {\an1}And I'm your number one fan, baby. 1577 01:00:18,875 --> 01:00:20,458 {\an1}You know, I want us to work out. 1578 01:00:20,583 --> 01:00:22,667 {\an1}I want us to do everything 1579 01:00:22,833 --> 01:00:25,458 {\an1}that we initially talked about eight weeks back. 1580 01:00:25,542 --> 01:00:27,000 {\an1}I want that. 1581 01:00:27,083 --> 01:00:31,000 {\an1}- ♪ Don't make make me say goodbye ♪ 1582 01:00:31,917 --> 01:00:34,292 {\an1}- ♪ I know we went through hell ♪ 1583 01:00:34,417 --> 01:00:36,375 {\an1}♪ With all that happened ♪ 1584 01:00:36,500 --> 01:00:40,500 {\an1}♪ We gave it our best, the sky was caving in ♪ 1585 01:00:40,625 --> 01:00:42,500 {\an1}- I'm exhausted. 1586 01:00:42,625 --> 01:00:44,542 {\an1}We were supposed to have this romantic dinner. 1587 01:00:44,667 --> 01:00:48,083 {\an1}And he kind of just blew up again. 1588 01:00:48,208 --> 01:00:50,958 {\an1}I feel like, how long are we gonna continue this cycle 1589 01:00:51,042 --> 01:00:54,167 {\an1}of you getting upset, and having your tantrums, 1590 01:00:54,292 --> 01:00:57,625 {\an1}and not using the tools that we've been given. 1591 01:00:57,708 --> 01:01:00,208 {\an1}[sighs] 1592 01:01:00,333 --> 01:01:02,833 {\an1}The conversations now are, you know, 1593 01:01:03,000 --> 01:01:04,208 {\an1}I don't think I'll ever be able 1594 01:01:04,333 --> 01:01:05,792 {\an1}to meet your expectations. 1595 01:01:05,917 --> 01:01:08,167 {\an1}Like, that's not what I want to hear from my husband. 1596 01:01:08,292 --> 01:01:11,042 {\an1}There are gonna be times where I need reassurance. 1597 01:01:11,208 --> 01:01:15,708 {\an1}And he thinks that that's just an ask that's far beyond him. 1598 01:01:15,833 --> 01:01:18,292 {\an1}And I don't think so, and that's really what 1599 01:01:18,417 --> 01:01:21,375 {\an1}what I'm considering, so we'll see how this goes. 1600 01:01:21,542 --> 01:01:24,000 {\an1}[soft music] 1601 01:01:24,083 --> 01:01:27,667 {\an1}So what do you enjoy about being married to me? 1602 01:01:27,792 --> 01:01:33,167 {\an1}- Um, probably... 1603 01:01:40,250 --> 01:01:43,750 {\an1}[clock ticking] 1604 01:01:43,875 --> 01:01:48,500 {\an1}The friendship aspect makes me hopeful. 1605 01:01:48,583 --> 01:01:52,500 {\an1}A lot of the things that we do, it's very effortless. 1606 01:01:52,583 --> 01:01:57,292 {\an1}And I like you for you, you know, your personality. 1607 01:01:57,375 --> 01:01:59,292 {\an1}- Hm. 1608 01:01:59,417 --> 01:02:01,083 {\an1}♪ ♪ 1609 01:02:01,208 --> 01:02:04,958 {\an1}I have tried to be as genuine as possible. 1610 01:02:05,042 --> 01:02:07,500 {\an1}I've tried to be as honest, 1611 01:02:07,625 --> 01:02:10,917 {\an1}and I've tried to be transparent. 1612 01:02:11,042 --> 01:02:13,250 {\an1}I don't have no regrets. 1613 01:02:13,375 --> 01:02:15,542 {\an1}- Same. - No regrets-- 1614 01:02:15,708 --> 01:02:17,500 {\an1}- No regrets. 1615 01:02:17,667 --> 01:02:20,083 {\an1}- Of, like, spazzing on me or anything, 1616 01:02:20,208 --> 01:02:22,833 {\an1}you wouldn't want to take that back? 1617 01:02:22,958 --> 01:02:27,167 {\an1}- Well, I mean, of course, I don't feel great about that. 1618 01:02:27,250 --> 01:02:28,958 {\an1}♪ ♪ 1619 01:02:29,042 --> 01:02:33,208 {\an1}So, like, do I regret it? 1620 01:02:33,375 --> 01:02:37,500 {\an1}I think it's human for people to make mistakes 1621 01:02:37,625 --> 01:02:41,667 {\an1}and get emotional. 1622 01:02:41,792 --> 01:02:47,167 {\an1}So I apologize if I've spazzed out on you. 1623 01:02:49,583 --> 01:02:53,542 {\an1}I am regretful, so I apologize 1624 01:02:53,708 --> 01:02:55,667 {\an1}if that's the answer you're looking for. 1625 01:02:55,833 --> 01:02:59,500 {\an1}- But is it gonna continue to happen? 1626 01:02:59,625 --> 01:03:01,167 {\an1}- No, it's not. 1627 01:03:01,333 --> 01:03:03,833 {\an1}- But we've had a conversation before 1628 01:03:04,000 --> 01:03:06,542 {\an1}about throwing things in your face, 1629 01:03:06,708 --> 01:03:08,625 {\an1}and are you going to use the tools? 1630 01:03:08,708 --> 01:03:10,500 {\an1}When they don't happen, it's like, why? 1631 01:03:10,625 --> 01:03:13,000 {\an1}- I understand. 1632 01:03:13,125 --> 01:03:15,458 {\an1}- The experts gave us these tools to be used 1633 01:03:15,542 --> 01:03:18,167 {\an1}in times when we're upset. 1634 01:03:18,250 --> 01:03:20,833 {\an1}My fear or insecurity is, you know, 1635 01:03:20,958 --> 01:03:23,333 {\an1}being left when things are hard, 1636 01:03:23,417 --> 01:03:26,333 {\an1}or when you're mad, or you're not gonna come back. 1637 01:03:26,458 --> 01:03:30,583 {\an1}- And I think one way to help her with that is to say, 1638 01:03:30,708 --> 01:03:33,417 {\an1}"I'm angry, but I'm not going anywhere." 1639 01:03:33,542 --> 01:03:36,167 {\an1}And I'll give you one other hint that I truly love. 1640 01:03:36,292 --> 01:03:38,833 {\an1}I think if you're gonna have a tough discussion, 1641 01:03:38,958 --> 01:03:40,208 {\an1}hold hands. 1642 01:03:40,333 --> 01:03:41,917 {\an1}- Oh, my God. 1643 01:03:42,042 --> 01:03:44,292 {\an1}My mom told me the same thing. 1644 01:03:44,375 --> 01:03:45,500 {\an1}- Love your mom. [laughs] 1645 01:03:45,583 --> 01:03:47,000 {\an1}It's true. 1646 01:03:47,083 --> 01:03:50,333 {\an1}- And I want to know that Nate is going to use 1647 01:03:50,458 --> 01:03:52,833 {\an1}these tools going forward. 1648 01:03:52,958 --> 01:03:56,375 {\an1}So the tools are to be used when you're in the heat 1649 01:03:56,500 --> 01:03:57,875 {\an1}of the emotion and upset. 1650 01:03:58,042 --> 01:03:59,167 {\an1}- And then I came back an hour later. 1651 01:03:59,292 --> 01:04:00,958 {\an1}And I used the tools, yes or no? 1652 01:04:01,083 --> 01:04:02,625 {\an1}- Yes, you used the tools. 1653 01:04:02,750 --> 01:04:03,875 {\an1}- I did use the tools. - But you-- 1654 01:04:04,000 --> 01:04:05,167 {\an1}- That's it. 1655 01:04:05,292 --> 01:04:06,833 {\an1}- You already lashed out, though. 1656 01:04:06,917 --> 01:04:07,667 {\an1}And you already said all this crazy stuff. 1657 01:04:07,750 --> 01:04:09,042 {\an1}- [sighs] 1658 01:04:09,167 --> 01:04:10,000 {\an1}- "I don't want to be stuck with you." 1659 01:04:10,125 --> 01:04:11,542 {\an1}"I'm gonna cut my losses." 1660 01:04:11,667 --> 01:04:12,917 {\an1}Before you get to that point-- 1661 01:04:13,042 --> 01:04:14,292 {\an1}- Now you're throwing it in my face again. 1662 01:04:14,375 --> 01:04:16,292 {\an1}- The tools are to be used in the heat of the moment. 1663 01:04:16,417 --> 01:04:18,208 {\an1}- Well, I'm telling you, it's gonna be hard 1664 01:04:18,333 --> 01:04:19,917 {\an1}for me to use tools right there and then 1665 01:04:20,042 --> 01:04:21,625 {\an1}because I'm emotional. 1666 01:04:21,750 --> 01:04:24,125 {\an1}And I'm not gonna be thinking as logical, 1667 01:04:24,208 --> 01:04:26,125 {\an1}so it doesn't make sense for me to use tools 1668 01:04:26,208 --> 01:04:27,750 {\an1}if I'm in a heightened emotion. 1669 01:04:27,875 --> 01:04:30,042 {\an1}- Right, and I think what we have to do 1670 01:04:30,167 --> 01:04:32,375 {\an1}when we're in those heightened emotions 1671 01:04:32,500 --> 01:04:36,542 {\an1}is calm down instead of spewing all these crazy things 1672 01:04:36,667 --> 01:04:39,583 {\an1}that we either don't mean or that are disrespectful 1673 01:04:39,708 --> 01:04:41,292 {\an1}because the damage is already done. 1674 01:04:41,417 --> 01:04:42,833 {\an1}- Okay. 1675 01:04:42,958 --> 01:04:44,500 {\an1}- So all of that stuff had already been said to me. 1676 01:04:44,625 --> 01:04:47,667 {\an1}- I literally came to you an hour later after dinner. 1677 01:04:47,792 --> 01:04:49,667 {\an1}And I held your hands. 1678 01:04:49,792 --> 01:04:51,458 {\an1}I made eye contact with you. 1679 01:04:51,542 --> 01:04:52,917 {\an1}I apologized. 1680 01:04:53,042 --> 01:04:54,667 {\an1}You disregarded that whole thing. 1681 01:04:54,833 --> 01:04:56,583 {\an1}And it took you almost five minutes. 1682 01:04:56,708 --> 01:04:59,333 {\an1}And it was very hard for you to say, yes, Nate, 1683 01:04:59,458 --> 01:05:02,000 {\an1}you used those tools. 1684 01:05:02,167 --> 01:05:04,500 {\an1}I've been telling you that I need words of encouragement. 1685 01:05:04,583 --> 01:05:05,792 {\an1}I need positive reinforcement. 1686 01:05:05,917 --> 01:05:07,833 {\an1}And you're not giving that to me. 1687 01:05:07,958 --> 01:05:09,958 {\an1}I'm gonna continue to get upset every time 1688 01:05:10,042 --> 01:05:12,000 {\an1}you don't recognize me for my efforts. 1689 01:05:12,083 --> 01:05:15,500 {\an1}Not giving me credit ties into me not being 1690 01:05:15,625 --> 01:05:16,833 {\an1}recognized for my commitments. 1691 01:05:16,958 --> 01:05:18,917 {\an1}And that just ties into my insecurity 1692 01:05:19,042 --> 01:05:21,125 {\an1}of not being good enough. 1693 01:05:21,208 --> 01:05:24,208 {\an1}And that's how I get triggered. 1694 01:05:24,375 --> 01:05:27,333 {\an1}I'm not gonna sign up for that. 1695 01:05:27,458 --> 01:05:29,542 {\an1}- You're not gonna sign up for your triggers. 1696 01:05:29,708 --> 01:05:31,833 {\an1}- Not if my partner's not gonna help me out with it. 1697 01:05:32,000 --> 01:05:33,875 {\an1}- I am helping you. - No, you're not. 1698 01:05:34,042 --> 01:05:36,292 {\an1}You're the one that's helping me get triggered. 1699 01:05:36,375 --> 01:05:38,375 {\an1}[tense music] 1700 01:05:38,542 --> 01:05:42,083 {\an1}I can't be married to somebody like that. 1701 01:05:42,208 --> 01:05:45,333 {\an1}- I'm not trying to throw anything in your face. 1702 01:05:45,417 --> 01:05:47,958 {\an1}I want you to, you know, feel good about yourself 1703 01:05:48,042 --> 01:05:49,833 {\an1}and the marriage. 1704 01:05:49,958 --> 01:05:51,000 {\an1}And I think there's a lot of hurt 1705 01:05:51,083 --> 01:05:52,333 {\an1}that we have to get through. 1706 01:05:52,458 --> 01:05:54,167 {\an1}- [sighs] 1707 01:05:54,250 --> 01:05:58,292 {\an1}- And it's not something that we're going to solve in a day. 1708 01:05:58,375 --> 01:06:00,542 {\an1}[soft music] 1709 01:06:00,708 --> 01:06:04,167 {\an1}- I don't want to be unhappy. - Yeah, me too. 1710 01:06:04,250 --> 01:06:06,125 {\an1}- And right now, I choose happiness 1711 01:06:06,208 --> 01:06:08,792 {\an1}over a marriage any day. 1712 01:06:08,917 --> 01:06:11,167 {\an1}- ♪ We were on a crash course ♪ 1713 01:06:11,292 --> 01:06:15,500 {\an1}♪ Waiting for the day to come, both of us nervous ♪ 1714 01:06:15,625 --> 01:06:20,917 {\an1}♪ ♪ 1715 01:06:21,042 --> 01:06:22,875 {\an1}- ♪ I don't know why, why ♪ 1716 01:06:23,000 --> 01:06:24,500 {\an1}♪ Why I've been waiting for this ♪ 1717 01:06:24,667 --> 01:06:27,708 {\an1}♪ Wasting no time, time ♪ 1718 01:06:27,875 --> 01:06:29,667 {\an1}♪ Starting from the bottom ♪ 1719 01:06:29,833 --> 01:06:31,167 {\an1}- Are you gonna miss me? 1720 01:06:31,292 --> 01:06:33,208 {\an1}- Of course I'm gonna miss you, girl. 1721 01:06:33,375 --> 01:06:35,125 {\an1}My bed's gonna be empty at my place. 1722 01:06:35,208 --> 01:06:36,583 {\an1}It's going to be cold. 1723 01:06:36,708 --> 01:06:38,500 {\an1}You know, I ain't got nothing to snuggle up to. 1724 01:06:38,625 --> 01:06:39,917 {\an1}[chuckles] 1725 01:06:40,042 --> 01:06:43,000 {\an1}- It's the final day before Decision day. 1726 01:06:43,125 --> 01:06:46,125 {\an1}And our couples are feeling the immense pressure 1727 01:06:46,250 --> 01:06:50,292 {\an1}of making the biggest decision of their lives. 1728 01:06:50,375 --> 01:06:54,667 {\an1}- Feel free to text me when you get there safely. 1729 01:06:54,792 --> 01:06:56,542 {\an1}- I will. 1730 01:06:56,667 --> 01:06:58,458 {\an1}- In order to better evaluate the last eight weeks 1731 01:06:58,583 --> 01:07:00,792 {\an1}of their marriage, our couples will 1732 01:07:00,875 --> 01:07:03,625 {\an1}spend their last day alone. 1733 01:07:03,708 --> 01:07:05,917 {\an1}- Like, you should just come with me, you know? 1734 01:07:06,042 --> 01:07:07,583 {\an1}- That defeats the purpose, honey. 1735 01:07:07,708 --> 01:07:09,042 {\an1}- No, it don't. 1736 01:07:09,208 --> 01:07:11,958 {\an1}We can just walk in there together. 1737 01:07:12,042 --> 01:07:13,500 {\an1}[laughs] You know? 1738 01:07:13,625 --> 01:07:15,083 {\an1}I think that's everything. 1739 01:07:15,208 --> 01:07:16,917 {\an1}- I feel like you would stalk me if I said no. 1740 01:07:17,042 --> 01:07:18,167 {\an1}You'd be outside my window or something. 1741 01:07:18,292 --> 01:07:20,167 {\an1}- Mm-mm. I'm too lazy for that. 1742 01:07:20,292 --> 01:07:21,500 {\an1}- Oh, true. - I'm too goddamn lazy. 1743 01:07:21,625 --> 01:07:22,958 {\an1}- That is also true. 1744 01:07:23,042 --> 01:07:24,750 {\an1}Decision Day is tomorrow. 1745 01:07:24,875 --> 01:07:27,417 {\an1}And I feel overwhelmed 1746 01:07:27,542 --> 01:07:29,208 {\an1}because I don't know if I see this man 1747 01:07:29,375 --> 01:07:31,083 {\an1}as the person I'm gonna be with the rest of my life. 1748 01:07:31,208 --> 01:07:32,917 {\an1}It's just like, if everything was good, 1749 01:07:33,042 --> 01:07:35,000 {\an1}then okay, cool. 1750 01:07:35,083 --> 01:07:37,042 {\an1}But I feel like the great times 1751 01:07:37,167 --> 01:07:39,167 {\an1}that we had together almost makes me 1752 01:07:39,250 --> 01:07:41,208 {\an1}question it more because when we have the bad times, 1753 01:07:41,375 --> 01:07:43,833 {\an1}I'm just like, how do we go from so good 1754 01:07:43,958 --> 01:07:47,875 {\an1}to so bad within the matter of a short period of time? 1755 01:07:48,042 --> 01:07:51,292 {\an1}So I don't know. 1756 01:07:51,375 --> 01:07:53,000 {\an1}Going through these eight weeks, 1757 01:07:53,125 --> 01:07:55,000 {\an1}I needed to be forced to be committed 1758 01:07:55,083 --> 01:07:59,167 {\an1}because I'm not a committed person, 1759 01:07:59,250 --> 01:08:01,250 {\an1}no matter how much I thought I was. 1760 01:08:01,375 --> 01:08:04,708 {\an1}I realized that, like, I have a fear of being all in, 1761 01:08:04,875 --> 01:08:07,125 {\an1}you know, because I'm like, what if this, what if that, 1762 01:08:07,208 --> 01:08:10,417 {\an1}what if this, what if that? 1763 01:08:10,542 --> 01:08:12,417 {\an1}I think it's about being present and grounded 1764 01:08:12,542 --> 01:08:15,333 {\an1}and take all the possibilities out 1765 01:08:15,500 --> 01:08:16,875 {\an1}and focus on where we're at. 1766 01:08:17,000 --> 01:08:18,500 {\an1}- Mm-hmm. 1767 01:08:18,583 --> 01:08:20,125 {\an1}- Don't put the worry before the problem. 1768 01:08:20,250 --> 01:08:21,625 {\an1}I always say that to everybody else. 1769 01:08:21,708 --> 01:08:23,500 {\an1}And I needed to take that advice for myself. 1770 01:08:23,583 --> 01:08:26,250 {\an1}And I acknowledged it, you know? 1771 01:08:26,375 --> 01:08:28,083 {\an1}And I feel like I'm overcoming it. 1772 01:08:28,208 --> 01:08:30,375 {\an1}Yeah. - That's beautiful, girl. 1773 01:08:30,500 --> 01:08:32,166 {\an1}- Yeah. 1774 01:08:32,291 --> 01:08:34,333 {\an1}- I trust myself to make the right decision. 1775 01:08:34,458 --> 01:08:37,166 {\an1}I just--some days, I feel like I want to say no. 1776 01:08:37,333 --> 01:08:38,916 {\an1}Some days, I feel like I want to say yes. 1777 01:08:39,041 --> 01:08:42,166 {\an1}Some days, I am straight on, you know? 1778 01:08:42,333 --> 01:08:44,625 {\an1}It's an emotional roller coaster, you know? 1779 01:08:44,708 --> 01:08:46,333 {\an1}- Let's get this Decision Day over with. 1780 01:08:46,416 --> 01:08:48,250 {\an1}- It's a big day tomorrow. 1781 01:08:48,375 --> 01:08:50,333 {\an1}- What you gon' wear? 1782 01:08:50,416 --> 01:08:52,041 {\an1}- I guess you got to wait and see. 1783 01:08:52,166 --> 01:08:54,250 {\an1}- Okay. 1784 01:08:56,708 --> 01:09:00,166 {\an1}- ♪ Oh, honey, won't you come with me ♪ 1785 01:09:00,333 --> 01:09:04,708 {\an1}♪ Come with me, come with me ♪ 1786 01:09:04,833 --> 01:09:09,958 {\an1}♪ Oh, honey, won't you come with me, come with me ♪ 1787 01:09:10,041 --> 01:09:12,500 {\an1}♪ Come with me ♪ 1788 01:09:12,625 --> 01:09:16,000 {\an1}- So I guess-- - You're leaving me? 1789 01:09:16,166 --> 01:09:17,666 {\an1}- I tried to get my [bleep] together. 1790 01:09:17,791 --> 01:09:19,708 {\an1}But I guess you've had enough of my [bleep]. 1791 01:09:19,833 --> 01:09:22,166 {\an1}- This is crazy though because this is the first night 1792 01:09:22,291 --> 01:09:23,875 {\an1}we're spending away from each other 1793 01:09:24,000 --> 01:09:25,083 {\an1}since we've known each other. 1794 01:09:25,208 --> 01:09:27,041 {\an1}- I know. 1795 01:09:27,166 --> 01:09:30,833 {\an1}[soft music] 1796 01:09:30,916 --> 01:09:33,625 {\an1}So tomorrow, I guess I'll be seeing you bright and early 1797 01:09:33,708 --> 01:09:35,500 {\an1}on the couch. 1798 01:09:35,666 --> 01:09:38,666 {\an1}- I'm mentally prepared for whatever your decision is. 1799 01:09:38,833 --> 01:09:40,250 {\an1}I really am. 1800 01:09:40,375 --> 01:09:43,583 {\an1}But as much as, you know, I'm like, in this, 1801 01:09:43,708 --> 01:09:46,666 {\an1}I have things that I need to think about. 1802 01:09:46,750 --> 01:09:50,000 {\an1}And I want to make sure that I'm putting myself first. 1803 01:09:50,166 --> 01:09:52,041 {\an1}I had weeks of bliss. 1804 01:09:52,166 --> 01:09:53,666 {\an1}And then I was just kind of-- 1805 01:09:53,791 --> 01:09:55,250 {\an1}my world was flipped upside down, you know? 1806 01:09:55,375 --> 01:09:57,125 {\an1}And I'm understanding. 1807 01:09:57,250 --> 01:09:58,583 {\an1}I know that you were exhausted and everything. 1808 01:09:58,708 --> 01:10:01,000 {\an1}You did hit a lot of my past traumas. 1809 01:10:01,125 --> 01:10:02,583 {\an1}- Yeah, but I actually agree with you. 1810 01:10:02,708 --> 01:10:04,250 {\an1}Like, there were moments that I rejected you. 1811 01:10:04,375 --> 01:10:05,666 {\an1}There were moments that I pushed you away, 1812 01:10:05,833 --> 01:10:07,166 {\an1}that I stonewalled you. 1813 01:10:07,333 --> 01:10:09,458 {\an1}- And times where I felt like I was being controlled. 1814 01:10:09,583 --> 01:10:10,916 {\an1}- Yeah, and that's the thing. 1815 01:10:11,041 --> 01:10:12,666 {\an1}We just need to get to a place 1816 01:10:12,791 --> 01:10:14,333 {\an1}where you see it for what it is because I don't 1817 01:10:14,416 --> 01:10:17,500 {\an1}want you to feel controlled. 1818 01:10:17,625 --> 01:10:19,833 {\an1}I don't think I'm controlling you, 1819 01:10:19,916 --> 01:10:22,833 {\an1}like when I just voice my feelings on something. 1820 01:10:23,000 --> 01:10:24,708 {\an1}♪ ♪ 1821 01:10:24,875 --> 01:10:26,708 {\an1}At the end of the day, I've never presented you with, 1822 01:10:26,833 --> 01:10:29,166 {\an1}like, an ultimatum of, like, you cannot do this, 1823 01:10:29,333 --> 01:10:30,833 {\an1}don't do this. 1824 01:10:31,000 --> 01:10:32,666 {\an1}- There are different forms of control, though. 1825 01:10:32,791 --> 01:10:34,416 {\an1}It doesn't-- control does not always mean, 1826 01:10:34,541 --> 01:10:35,500 {\an1}don't do this, you can't do this. 1827 01:10:35,625 --> 01:10:36,916 {\an1}- Okay. 1828 01:10:37,041 --> 01:10:38,958 {\an1}- There are, if you act this way, 1829 01:10:39,083 --> 01:10:40,458 {\an1}I don't accept you. 1830 01:10:40,541 --> 01:10:42,333 {\an1}That's a form of control. 1831 01:10:42,416 --> 01:10:44,333 {\an1}- I think that's good for me to know, like, 1832 01:10:44,500 --> 01:10:48,375 {\an1}that you do feel so attacked or you take it very personally 1833 01:10:48,541 --> 01:10:51,416 {\an1}when you do feel any inkling of controlling behavior 1834 01:10:51,541 --> 01:10:53,833 {\an1}coming from me, so I think whenever you 1835 01:10:53,916 --> 01:10:55,500 {\an1}feel that to just voice it. 1836 01:10:55,625 --> 01:10:58,416 {\an1}We'll find the right way to do it because I don't like 1837 01:10:58,541 --> 01:11:00,333 {\an1}to be accused of being controlling 1838 01:11:00,458 --> 01:11:02,375 {\an1}if I honestly--if I'm just, like, communicating to you. 1839 01:11:02,541 --> 01:11:04,333 {\an1}- Yeah, and that's the same thing of, 1840 01:11:04,416 --> 01:11:06,458 {\an1}I don't like feeling like I'm disrespecting you 1841 01:11:06,541 --> 01:11:08,708 {\an1}when I'm just getting distracted and speaking my mind 1842 01:11:08,875 --> 01:11:11,583 {\an1}or I get excited and finish a story 1843 01:11:11,708 --> 01:11:14,083 {\an1}because I don't like to be accused 1844 01:11:14,208 --> 01:11:15,541 {\an1}as being disrespectful when I'm existing. 1845 01:11:15,666 --> 01:11:17,875 {\an1}- Yeah, I don't think-- I mean, I never-- 1846 01:11:18,000 --> 01:11:20,666 {\an1}I know it's not always like, stop being so disrespectful. 1847 01:11:20,791 --> 01:11:22,083 {\an1}You're so disrespectful towards me. 1848 01:11:22,208 --> 01:11:23,916 {\an1}Like, I--yeah. 1849 01:11:24,041 --> 01:11:25,666 {\an1}- And at no time I've ever been like, you're controlling me. 1850 01:11:25,833 --> 01:11:28,000 {\an1}- Oh, okay. 1851 01:11:28,125 --> 01:11:30,541 {\an1}- Maybe. [both laugh] 1852 01:11:30,708 --> 01:11:32,250 {\an1}- I've said it to other people. 1853 01:11:32,375 --> 01:11:34,500 {\an1}He's controlling me. 1854 01:11:34,666 --> 01:11:36,541 {\an1}- You said it to me a couple of times too, actually, but-- 1855 01:11:36,708 --> 01:11:38,500 {\an1}- Okay, fine. Well, you win. 1856 01:11:38,625 --> 01:11:40,000 {\an1}- It's not about winning, though. 1857 01:11:40,125 --> 01:11:41,333 {\an1}And that's the thing. 1858 01:11:41,458 --> 01:11:42,791 {\an1}I think that's what I'm trying to say. 1859 01:11:42,916 --> 01:11:43,958 {\an1}Like, we just need to align on, like, our dictionaries 1860 01:11:44,041 --> 01:11:45,375 {\an1}with each other. 1861 01:11:45,500 --> 01:11:47,750 {\an1}- Mm, mm-hmm, and I'm proud of myself for what 1862 01:11:47,875 --> 01:11:50,083 {\an1}I've been able to do in our conversations 1863 01:11:50,208 --> 01:11:52,125 {\an1}and how I've been able to just push 1864 01:11:52,208 --> 01:11:56,208 {\an1}down emotions that want to just [bleep] scream and yell. 1865 01:11:56,333 --> 01:11:58,291 {\an1}The problem is, where does that venom-- 1866 01:11:58,416 --> 01:11:59,666 {\an1}where does it go? 1867 01:11:59,750 --> 01:12:01,666 {\an1}Do I have better coping mechanisms? 1868 01:12:01,791 --> 01:12:04,333 {\an1}Do I have a counselor that just hears all this [bleep]? 1869 01:12:04,458 --> 01:12:06,083 {\an1}Do my friends get a little bit? 1870 01:12:06,208 --> 01:12:07,250 {\an1}I don't know, and, like-- - No, I know. 1871 01:12:07,375 --> 01:12:08,875 {\an1}And I agree. 1872 01:12:09,000 --> 01:12:10,500 {\an1}And to be honest, like, I'm happy to help 1873 01:12:10,625 --> 01:12:12,458 {\an1}in any way I can because-- 1874 01:12:12,541 --> 01:12:13,666 {\an1}- But I don't want you to be my counselor, though. 1875 01:12:13,791 --> 01:12:15,500 {\an1}That's the problem. - Well, no. 1876 01:12:15,666 --> 01:12:17,000 {\an1}Well, but I'm your husband, and that's-- 1877 01:12:17,125 --> 01:12:18,375 {\an1}I'm not gonna be your counselor. 1878 01:12:18,500 --> 01:12:20,541 {\an1}I agree with that, but I am your husband, and-- 1879 01:12:20,708 --> 01:12:22,166 {\an1}- But, like, I'm not doing this, like, me, 1880 01:12:22,333 --> 01:12:23,750 {\an1}I need to work on me, me, me, me, me. 1881 01:12:23,875 --> 01:12:24,916 {\an1}I need to hear from you too because there's [bleep] 1882 01:12:25,041 --> 01:12:26,166 {\an1}you got to work on, too. 1883 01:12:26,250 --> 01:12:28,625 {\an1}- Yeah. 1884 01:12:28,708 --> 01:12:33,500 {\an1}Normally, couples have months and years to figure this out. 1885 01:12:33,583 --> 01:12:36,500 {\an1}With Lindy and I, we have less than a day 1886 01:12:36,666 --> 01:12:39,041 {\an1}to figure out how to reinvent ourselves 1887 01:12:39,208 --> 01:12:40,541 {\an1}to become each other's spouse. 1888 01:12:40,708 --> 01:12:43,166 {\an1}And if we don't, it's not gonna work out. 1889 01:12:43,291 --> 01:12:50,666 {\an1}♪ ♪ 1890 01:12:50,833 --> 01:12:53,666 {\an1}[soft music] 1891 01:12:53,750 --> 01:12:55,791 {\an1}- ♪ I always hit the bottle, drown my sorrow ♪ 1892 01:12:55,916 --> 01:13:01,000 {\an1}♪ When you leave me, when you leave me ♪ 1893 01:13:01,166 --> 01:13:03,833 {\an1}- I'm bummed to... - Thank you. 1894 01:13:03,958 --> 01:13:05,833 {\an1}- Not have you spend the night with us tonight. 1895 01:13:05,916 --> 01:13:10,958 {\an1}But maybe it makes sense to do some meditation, 1896 01:13:11,041 --> 01:13:12,791 {\an1}some reflection. 1897 01:13:12,916 --> 01:13:15,541 {\an1}I'm gonna take a bubble bath. - Some heavy drinking. 1898 01:13:15,666 --> 01:13:17,875 {\an1}- I might have a cocktail. - [laughs] 1899 01:13:18,000 --> 01:13:20,333 {\an1}- Or two. 1900 01:13:20,500 --> 01:13:23,041 {\an1}♪ ♪ 1901 01:13:23,166 --> 01:13:25,000 {\an1}I am very nervous. 1902 01:13:25,125 --> 01:13:27,041 {\an1}I don't know if that shows. 1903 01:13:27,208 --> 01:13:31,500 {\an1}But I am. I'm nervous for tomorrow. 1904 01:13:31,666 --> 01:13:34,250 {\an1}I really, really need some alone time, 1905 01:13:34,375 --> 01:13:37,500 {\an1}I guess, to think about what I'm gonna say. 1906 01:13:37,583 --> 01:13:40,500 {\an1}I'm just--yeah, I'm just nervous for tomorrow. 1907 01:13:40,625 --> 01:13:45,291 {\an1}It feels almost like the reverse of wedding day. 1908 01:13:45,375 --> 01:13:47,083 {\an1}But I'm having those same jitters. 1909 01:13:47,208 --> 01:13:48,750 {\an1}- Yeah. 1910 01:13:48,875 --> 01:13:50,583 {\an1}Yeah, me too. 1911 01:13:50,708 --> 01:13:52,541 {\an1}- And I think I'm gonna be thinking 1912 01:13:52,708 --> 01:13:55,625 {\an1}about the pros and cons of the last eight weeks, 1913 01:13:55,708 --> 01:13:58,750 {\an1}and then the pros and cons of what the future 1914 01:13:58,875 --> 01:14:00,916 {\an1}could look like. 1915 01:14:01,041 --> 01:14:04,791 {\an1}- So what does your future look like if we both say yes? 1916 01:14:04,875 --> 01:14:07,875 {\an1}- Well, the last conversation we had about that, 1917 01:14:08,041 --> 01:14:12,666 {\an1}you said you would want to start with time apart, 1918 01:14:12,791 --> 01:14:14,666 {\an1}so I guess it looks like time apart. 1919 01:14:14,791 --> 01:14:17,250 {\an1}- I didn't mean, like, we should stay 1920 01:14:17,375 --> 01:14:19,500 {\an1}married and then separate. 1921 01:14:19,625 --> 01:14:22,166 {\an1}I meant, like, we would stay married and just, 1922 01:14:22,333 --> 01:14:24,666 {\an1}like, not necessarily rush-- 1923 01:14:24,791 --> 01:14:26,041 {\an1}- Mm-hmm. 1924 01:14:26,166 --> 01:14:27,708 {\an1}- Into moving in together just because it's been 1925 01:14:27,833 --> 01:14:29,500 {\an1}a really intense eight weeks. 1926 01:14:29,666 --> 01:14:31,166 {\an1}And I think it's healthy just to take-- 1927 01:14:31,250 --> 01:14:32,875 {\an1}I mean, not like a-- 1928 01:14:33,000 --> 01:14:34,416 {\an1}I don't mean, like, a break, like, a break, break, 1929 01:14:34,541 --> 01:14:36,958 {\an1}but I meant just like, I'm exhausted. 1930 01:14:37,041 --> 01:14:38,666 {\an1}That's all I meant. - Oh, okay. 1931 01:14:38,750 --> 01:14:41,625 {\an1}Well, I'm glad I brought it up again. 1932 01:14:41,708 --> 01:14:44,666 {\an1}- You know, maybe kind of work back towards something 1933 01:14:44,833 --> 01:14:47,333 {\an1}like this, like a shared life, 1934 01:14:47,500 --> 01:14:49,791 {\an1}but in a location and a type of place 1935 01:14:49,875 --> 01:14:52,916 {\an1}that's a little bit more what we want. 1936 01:14:53,041 --> 01:14:58,291 {\an1}- Mm-hmm, my personal thought process is not, 1937 01:14:58,375 --> 01:15:01,833 {\an1}well, maybe things will be much better 1938 01:15:01,916 --> 01:15:04,916 {\an1}or much worse or much more of anything 1939 01:15:05,041 --> 01:15:06,708 {\an1}in a different location. 1940 01:15:06,833 --> 01:15:09,666 {\an1}I would like to give that food for thought to you 1941 01:15:09,833 --> 01:15:11,916 {\an1}as well if you want to accept it, 1942 01:15:12,041 --> 01:15:14,333 {\an1}that I am me. 1943 01:15:14,500 --> 01:15:15,625 {\an1}Luna is Luna. 1944 01:15:15,708 --> 01:15:17,000 {\an1}Mitch is Mitch. - Yeah. 1945 01:15:17,166 --> 01:15:18,333 {\an1}- And-- 1946 01:15:18,500 --> 01:15:19,708 {\an1}- We're the same people no matter-- 1947 01:15:19,875 --> 01:15:21,041 {\an1}- We're the same people no matter what. 1948 01:15:21,166 --> 01:15:22,250 {\an1}- Yeah, - Exactly, so-- 1949 01:15:22,375 --> 01:15:24,208 {\an1}- Yeah, I think that's a good point. 1950 01:15:24,375 --> 01:15:26,500 {\an1}- I certainly don't want to say no. 1951 01:15:26,666 --> 01:15:28,208 {\an1}I certainly want to say yes. 1952 01:15:28,333 --> 01:15:30,208 {\an1}I certainly want a partner. 1953 01:15:30,333 --> 01:15:31,750 {\an1}You've been a really good partner 1954 01:15:31,875 --> 01:15:34,000 {\an1}in a lot, a lot of ways. 1955 01:15:34,125 --> 01:15:38,166 {\an1}And I'm just more so thinking about the match 1956 01:15:38,291 --> 01:15:42,666 {\an1}and the chemistry and the line of what you can live with 1957 01:15:42,791 --> 01:15:44,500 {\an1}and what I can live with 1958 01:15:44,583 --> 01:15:46,625 {\an1}and if we complement each other the best. 1959 01:15:46,750 --> 01:15:48,000 {\an1}- I think I'll think about that too tonight. 1960 01:15:48,125 --> 01:15:49,666 {\an1}- Yeah. 1961 01:15:49,750 --> 01:15:51,000 {\an1}- I'll really think about, you know, maybe I've been 1962 01:15:51,166 --> 01:15:53,708 {\an1}using this, what would it be like without the situation 1963 01:15:53,833 --> 01:15:54,875 {\an1}as kind of an excuse to-- 1964 01:15:55,000 --> 01:15:56,500 {\an1}- Yeah. 1965 01:15:56,625 --> 01:15:57,708 {\an1}- Put off some of the deeper questions, so... 1966 01:15:57,833 --> 01:16:00,500 {\an1}- Yeah. - You know. 1967 01:16:00,625 --> 01:16:02,958 {\an1}I'm the same as you. I really want to say yes. 1968 01:16:03,083 --> 01:16:04,500 {\an1}- Yeah. 1969 01:16:04,583 --> 01:16:05,750 {\an1}- And I--and there's so much I love about you. 1970 01:16:05,875 --> 01:16:07,791 {\an1}But it's just gonna--yeah, 1971 01:16:07,875 --> 01:16:09,166 {\an1}I'm just going to think a little bit more 1972 01:16:09,291 --> 01:16:12,166 {\an1}about, really, you know, 1973 01:16:12,250 --> 01:16:14,250 {\an1}how I felt and how you felt-- 1974 01:16:14,375 --> 01:16:15,791 {\an1}- Yeah. 1975 01:16:15,916 --> 01:16:17,541 {\an1}- How I think you felt the last eight weeks 1976 01:16:17,666 --> 01:16:19,500 {\an1}and how that translates into the future together. 1977 01:16:19,583 --> 01:16:21,000 {\an1}- Yeah. 1978 01:16:21,125 --> 01:16:24,375 {\an1}I don't want to just have a good life. 1979 01:16:24,500 --> 01:16:29,833 {\an1}I want to have an incredible, out of this world, romantic, 1980 01:16:29,916 --> 01:16:33,166 {\an1}love, reach for the stars, over the fence, 1981 01:16:33,250 --> 01:16:34,833 {\an1}World Series kind of stuff. 1982 01:16:34,916 --> 01:16:37,666 {\an1}- So you want Luna's life? - Yes. 1983 01:16:37,791 --> 01:16:39,666 {\an1}And if we're not there now, 1984 01:16:39,833 --> 01:16:42,166 {\an1}I'm thinking if we can ever get there, I guess. 1985 01:16:42,250 --> 01:16:43,625 {\an1}That's what I'll be thinking about tonight. 1986 01:16:43,708 --> 01:16:45,333 {\an1}Are we on track for that? 1987 01:16:45,416 --> 01:16:47,666 {\an1}- That's the question, right? 1988 01:16:47,791 --> 01:16:50,083 {\an1}There's no playbook for marrying a stranger. 1989 01:16:50,208 --> 01:16:51,833 {\an1}You just do your best. 1990 01:16:51,916 --> 01:16:54,083 {\an1}And there's no way to not make mistakes. 1991 01:16:54,208 --> 01:16:56,958 {\an1}I mean, even if I married the love of my life, 1992 01:16:57,083 --> 01:16:59,000 {\an1}I'd probably still be having a hard time 1993 01:16:59,125 --> 01:17:01,291 {\an1}and whining about how hard it is to be married. 1994 01:17:01,375 --> 01:17:04,916 {\an1}So you know, just add the stranger element to it. 1995 01:17:05,041 --> 01:17:08,958 {\an1}And you've got a recipe for both glory and disaster. 1996 01:17:09,041 --> 01:17:11,458 {\an1}And they're both happening sometimes 1997 01:17:11,541 --> 01:17:12,500 {\an1}within minutes of each other. 1998 01:17:12,583 --> 01:17:15,375 {\an1}It's been really, really hard. 1999 01:17:15,500 --> 01:17:17,500 {\an1}But it's been really rewarding too. 2000 01:17:17,625 --> 01:17:19,333 {\an1}♪ ♪ 2001 01:17:19,458 --> 01:17:21,375 {\an1}- Bye. 2002 01:17:21,500 --> 01:17:23,500 {\an1}♪ ♪ 2003 01:17:23,625 --> 01:17:31,958 {\an1}- ♪ Let time stand still ♪ 2004 01:17:32,041 --> 01:17:35,416 {\an1}- ♪ We're loving on higher ground ♪ 2005 01:17:35,541 --> 01:17:37,833 {\an1}♪ We're loving on higher ground ♪ 2006 01:17:37,916 --> 01:17:40,125 {\an1}♪ Never falls apart ♪ 2007 01:17:40,250 --> 01:17:44,041 {\an1}♪ Can you turn my heart away so, baby? ♪ 2008 01:17:44,166 --> 01:17:46,958 {\an1}- I wonder if I'll sleep better or worse without you. 2009 01:17:47,041 --> 01:17:49,416 {\an1}- ♪ We're loving on higher ground ♪ 2010 01:17:49,541 --> 01:17:51,625 {\an1}- I'll see you later, girl. 2011 01:17:51,708 --> 01:17:53,500 {\an1}- Oh, look at you coming in. 2012 01:17:53,625 --> 01:17:55,166 {\an1}You miss me already? - No. 2013 01:17:55,291 --> 01:17:57,291 {\an1}- See, you got your pouting face on. 2014 01:17:57,375 --> 01:17:59,833 {\an1}- No, I don't. This is my adult face, baby. 2015 01:17:59,958 --> 01:18:03,333 {\an1}- Yeah. I'll see you later. 2016 01:18:03,458 --> 01:18:07,750 {\an1}- I feel hopeful, yet slightly indecisive still. 2017 01:18:07,875 --> 01:18:09,750 {\an1}You know, I don't want to hurt myself 2018 01:18:09,875 --> 01:18:11,833 {\an1}by making the wrong decision. 2019 01:18:11,916 --> 01:18:13,875 {\an1}And I don't want to hurt my husband by making 2020 01:18:14,000 --> 01:18:16,375 {\an1}what could be seen as the right decision for me 2021 01:18:16,500 --> 01:18:18,666 {\an1}but wrong for our marriage, so... 2022 01:18:18,791 --> 01:18:20,625 {\an1}[dramatic music] 2023 01:18:20,750 --> 01:18:24,833 {\an1}- ♪ I would never leave your heart hopeless ♪ 2024 01:18:24,958 --> 01:18:28,083 {\an1}♪ I wouldn't do that ♪ 2025 01:18:28,208 --> 01:18:31,000 {\an1}[soft music] 2026 01:18:31,125 --> 01:18:37,416 {\an1}♪ ♪ 2027 01:18:37,541 --> 01:18:40,041 {\an1}- [chuckles] Bye. 2028 01:18:40,166 --> 01:18:42,500 {\an1}- Say bye! - See you tomorrow. 2029 01:18:42,625 --> 01:18:45,000 {\an1}- See you tomorrow. 2030 01:18:45,125 --> 01:18:52,000 {\an1}♪ ♪ 2031 01:19:04,416 --> 01:19:05,791 {\an1}- Nate is not here. 2032 01:19:05,916 --> 01:19:11,166 {\an1}I have the bed to myself all alone. 2033 01:19:11,333 --> 01:19:15,833 {\an1}I am feeling confused. 2034 01:19:15,916 --> 01:19:21,166 {\an1}I'm feeling not as optimistic as I was. 2035 01:19:21,291 --> 01:19:25,375 {\an1}The last week has been very volatile. 2036 01:19:25,500 --> 01:19:27,666 {\an1}- I think the last week and a half out of this eight weeks 2037 01:19:27,833 --> 01:19:31,000 {\an1}have been the hardest for me because I've just 2038 01:19:31,125 --> 01:19:32,833 {\an1}been feeling a lot of anxiety. 2039 01:19:33,000 --> 01:19:34,875 {\an1}It's just been a lot. 2040 01:19:35,000 --> 01:19:36,666 {\an1}I can't control what she's gonna decide. 2041 01:19:36,833 --> 01:19:38,958 {\an1}You know, I respect her as a person. 2042 01:19:39,083 --> 01:19:43,583 {\an1}And I just want her to trust her gut feeling. 2043 01:19:43,708 --> 01:19:45,875 {\an1}- Me and Mitch have talked about the last eight weeks. 2044 01:19:46,000 --> 01:19:48,375 {\an1}I just think that he's just so unsure, 2045 01:19:48,541 --> 01:19:51,250 {\an1}so that's why I think I'm feeling nervous. 2046 01:19:51,375 --> 01:19:55,333 {\an1}- I'm feeling mostly at peace with my decision 2047 01:19:55,458 --> 01:19:58,916 {\an1}but also anxious. 2048 01:19:59,041 --> 01:20:00,833 {\an1}It's always hard to tell. 2049 01:20:00,916 --> 01:20:02,833 {\an1}You know, is it that I'm closed off to love? 2050 01:20:03,000 --> 01:20:04,333 {\an1}Is it, I'm so afraid that I have 2051 01:20:04,458 --> 01:20:07,416 {\an1}so many walls up that I just can't really see it 2052 01:20:07,541 --> 01:20:08,875 {\an1}with the people I'm with? 2053 01:20:09,041 --> 01:20:12,666 {\an1}I've always struggled with that, you know, 2054 01:20:12,833 --> 01:20:15,041 {\an1}whether the problem is me 2055 01:20:15,166 --> 01:20:18,166 {\an1}or just hadn't found the right girl. 2056 01:20:18,333 --> 01:20:22,125 {\an1}- This is one of the biggest decisions of my life, 2057 01:20:22,208 --> 01:20:24,166 {\an1}to stay married or to not stay married. 2058 01:20:24,250 --> 01:20:26,416 {\an1}You know, like, that's big. That's huge. 2059 01:20:26,541 --> 01:20:28,791 {\an1}It's a lot of pressure. It's a lot of fears. 2060 01:20:28,875 --> 01:20:31,500 {\an1}It's a lot of what ifs. 2061 01:20:31,625 --> 01:20:34,041 {\an1}It's a lot of possibilities 2062 01:20:34,208 --> 01:20:35,750 {\an1}that this may not work out in the future. 2063 01:20:35,875 --> 01:20:37,916 {\an1}And we'll just both be wasting more time. 2064 01:20:38,041 --> 01:20:39,458 {\an1}- Overall, my marriage has been really good. 2065 01:20:39,583 --> 01:20:41,958 {\an1}There's been ups and downs. It's been challenging. 2066 01:20:42,041 --> 01:20:44,125 {\an1}I'm not exactly where I want to be in my marriage. 2067 01:20:44,208 --> 01:20:45,625 {\an1}We're still getting to know each other. 2068 01:20:45,750 --> 01:20:47,083 {\an1}I've only known her for eight weeks, 2069 01:20:47,208 --> 01:20:49,000 {\an1}so I'm just ready to get [bleep] over with, 2070 01:20:49,125 --> 01:20:50,458 {\an1}if I'm being honest. 2071 01:20:50,541 --> 01:20:54,000 {\an1}- I feel like Miguel is-- 2072 01:20:54,125 --> 01:20:55,875 {\an1}I think he's thinking--like, 2073 01:20:56,041 --> 01:20:57,666 {\an1}I think he's on the same page as I am. 2074 01:20:57,791 --> 01:20:59,500 {\an1}But it's just so hard to know. 2075 01:20:59,625 --> 01:21:03,083 {\an1}- Despite, like, how great everything was with Lindy, 2076 01:21:03,208 --> 01:21:06,833 {\an1}I think we still had some challenging moments. 2077 01:21:06,958 --> 01:21:08,541 {\an1}And it's been tough. I'm not gonna lie. 2078 01:21:08,708 --> 01:21:11,541 {\an1}It takes, you know, two to obviously make this work. 2079 01:21:11,666 --> 01:21:13,458 {\an1}And if she feels a certain way, if she feels like 2080 01:21:13,583 --> 01:21:15,541 {\an1}it's not working for her, 2081 01:21:15,666 --> 01:21:17,666 {\an1}then good for her for speaking up. 2082 01:21:17,750 --> 01:21:19,666 {\an1}You know, let the cards fall where 2083 01:21:19,791 --> 01:21:22,833 {\an1}they may because at this point, there's nothing else I can do. 2084 01:21:22,958 --> 01:21:25,166 {\an1}- ♪ Picking up ♪ 2085 01:21:25,250 --> 01:21:29,041 {\an1}♪ The broken pieces ♪ 2086 01:21:29,166 --> 01:21:32,083 {\an1}♪ I need something ♪ 2087 01:21:32,208 --> 01:21:35,833 {\an1}♪ To believe in ♪ 2088 01:21:36,000 --> 01:21:41,458 {\an1}♪ When the feeling starts to creep in ♪ 2089 01:21:41,583 --> 01:21:43,916 {\an1}♪ Picking up ♪ 2090 01:21:44,041 --> 01:21:48,041 {\an1}♪ The broken pieces ♪ 2091 01:21:48,166 --> 01:21:51,333 {\an1}♪ I need something ♪ 2092 01:21:51,500 --> 01:21:54,916 {\an1}♪ To believe in ♪ 2093 01:21:57,125 --> 01:21:59,166 {\an1}- Eight weeks is up. 2094 01:21:59,291 --> 01:22:01,666 {\an1}- Next time on "Married at First Sight," 2095 01:22:01,750 --> 01:22:05,333 {\an1}our couples will have to make the biggest decision 2096 01:22:05,458 --> 01:22:07,875 {\an1}of their lives, to stay married 2097 01:22:08,041 --> 01:22:10,083 {\an1}or get a divorce. 2098 01:22:10,208 --> 01:22:12,791 {\an1}- This is not how I thought I'd be feeling on Decision Day. 2099 01:22:12,916 --> 01:22:15,083 {\an1}- Wish me luck. 2100 01:22:15,208 --> 01:22:16,916 {\an1}- We have a lot of things going. 2101 01:22:17,041 --> 01:22:19,625 {\an1}I want to do that justice. 2102 01:22:19,708 --> 01:22:21,791 {\an1}- He's had controlling demeanors. 2103 01:22:21,916 --> 01:22:22,875 {\an1}- Express yourself. 2104 01:22:23,041 --> 01:22:25,416 {\an1}- Demons, so to speak. 2105 01:22:25,541 --> 01:22:28,250 {\an1}- I feel like I'm losing myself. 2106 01:22:28,375 --> 01:22:33,500 {\an1}- Anger, rejection, mommy issues. 2107 01:22:33,666 --> 01:22:35,708 {\an1}- I do love you. 2108 01:22:35,875 --> 01:22:38,416 {\an1}- I'm constantly asking myself, am I safe or unsafe? 2109 01:22:38,541 --> 01:22:41,166 {\an1}- Like, why are we fighting again? 2110 01:22:41,250 --> 01:22:43,333 {\an1}- I've seen enough, 2111 01:22:43,458 --> 01:22:47,583 {\an1}enough isolation, enough chaos. 2112 01:22:47,708 --> 01:22:50,833 {\an1}- I feel like we were meant to be together. 2113 01:22:51,000 --> 01:22:54,166 {\an1}- Like, I feel your energy. 2114 01:22:54,291 --> 01:22:57,166 {\an1}- I feel like I definitely gave everything I could. 2115 01:22:57,291 --> 01:22:59,833 {\an1}- I don't understand, Pepper. I don't. 2116 01:22:59,958 --> 01:23:01,583 {\an1}[dramatic music] 2117 01:23:01,708 --> 01:23:04,250 {\an1}- ♪ Kill the lights, and come inside ♪ 2118 01:23:04,375 --> 01:23:07,083 {\an1}♪ Feel the dark as we come alive ♪ 2119 01:23:07,208 --> 01:23:10,041 {\an1}- The time has come. 2120 01:23:10,166 --> 01:23:13,583 {\an1}- Do you want to stay married? 2121 01:23:13,708 --> 01:23:16,875 {\an1}- ♪ We are kings, and we are queens ♪ 2122 01:23:17,041 --> 01:23:19,458 {\an1}- Or do you want to get a divorce? 2123 01:23:19,541 --> 01:23:22,291 {\an1}- ♪ Ooh ♪ 2124 01:23:22,416 --> 01:23:29,250 {\an1}♪ ♪