1 00:00:02,083 --> 00:00:04,333 {\an1}[dramatic music] 2 00:00:04,417 --> 00:00:05,500 {\an1}- Let's do it. 3 00:00:05,667 --> 00:00:08,125 {\an1}- Happy reunion morning. 4 00:00:08,208 --> 00:00:10,583 {\an1}I'm excited. It's gonna be an amazing day. 5 00:00:10,708 --> 00:00:12,000 {\an1}- You look good. 6 00:00:12,167 --> 00:00:13,875 {\an1}- Yeah, spice it up a little bit, you know? 7 00:00:14,000 --> 00:00:15,917 {\an1}- I feel good. I'm a little nervous. 8 00:00:16,042 --> 00:00:18,417 {\an1}- Just pumping out last-minute anxieties 9 00:00:18,542 --> 00:00:21,583 {\an1}and looking forward to starting the next chapter in my life. 10 00:00:21,708 --> 00:00:23,333 {\an1}Let's see how it goes. 11 00:00:23,458 --> 00:00:24,917 {\an1}- The couples from "Married at First Sight" 12 00:00:25,042 --> 00:00:26,708 {\an1}San Diego are back. 13 00:00:26,833 --> 00:00:27,833 {\an1}- Miguel, a little bit over there. 14 00:00:28,000 --> 00:00:29,167 {\an1}Perfect. - Is everybody ready? 15 00:00:29,292 --> 00:00:30,333 {\an1}Ready to have a good show? 16 00:00:30,458 --> 00:00:31,667 {\an1}- Let's get it. 17 00:00:31,792 --> 00:00:33,250 {\an1}- Each pair of hopeful newlyweds 18 00:00:33,375 --> 00:00:36,167 {\an1}had their own unique journey to find love. 19 00:00:36,333 --> 00:00:38,583 {\an1}- What I was looking for was an emotional 20 00:00:38,708 --> 00:00:40,250 {\an1}and mental connection. - That's what marriage is-- 21 00:00:40,375 --> 00:00:41,625 {\an1}tough point, get past it. 22 00:00:41,708 --> 00:00:43,042 {\an1}Tough point, get past it. 23 00:00:43,208 --> 00:00:45,167 {\an1}- But each person has a different story to tell. 24 00:00:45,292 --> 00:00:47,042 {\an1}- If I said, hey, don't tell anybody, 25 00:00:47,208 --> 00:00:49,542 {\an1}you made that choice to keep that secret with me. 26 00:00:49,667 --> 00:00:51,875 {\an1}- It took me screaming to the top of my lungs 27 00:00:52,042 --> 00:00:54,500 {\an1}to get him to see the problem. 28 00:00:54,583 --> 00:00:56,208 {\an1}[dramatic music] 29 00:00:56,375 --> 00:00:58,000 {\an1}- Tonight, the entire group is here 30 00:00:58,125 --> 00:00:59,917 {\an1}and they are ready to reveal 31 00:01:00,042 --> 00:01:02,000 {\an1}what really went down in San Diego. 32 00:01:02,125 --> 00:01:03,667 {\an1}- I think I was kind of just having, like, 33 00:01:03,750 --> 00:01:06,375 {\an1}a drawn-out panic attack. 34 00:01:06,542 --> 00:01:08,958 {\an1}- Y'all might have consummated your marriage much earlier. 35 00:01:09,042 --> 00:01:11,375 {\an1}Is that true? 36 00:01:11,500 --> 00:01:14,875 {\an1}- I was emotionally, mentally, physically drained. 37 00:01:15,042 --> 00:01:16,875 {\an1}- You can't just shut down on me, 38 00:01:17,000 --> 00:01:20,500 {\an1}because then I'm, like, I can't help you. 39 00:01:20,667 --> 00:01:23,667 {\an1}- It's been five months since Decision Day, 40 00:01:23,792 --> 00:01:26,000 {\an1}when three couples chose to stay married, 41 00:01:26,083 --> 00:01:28,250 {\an1}one pair decided to get divorced, 42 00:01:28,375 --> 00:01:31,083 {\an1}and one had already gone their separate ways. 43 00:01:31,208 --> 00:01:33,083 {\an1}- I realized that I wasn't ready for marriage. 44 00:01:33,208 --> 00:01:34,042 {\an1}- It's done. It's over. 45 00:01:34,208 --> 00:01:35,375 {\an1}There's no point. 46 00:01:35,500 --> 00:01:37,208 {\an1}- But that was just the beginning. 47 00:01:37,375 --> 00:01:40,875 {\an1}- Do you feel satisfied by your husband? 48 00:01:41,042 --> 00:01:42,875 {\an1}Why in the hell do you tell a woman 49 00:01:43,000 --> 00:01:45,500 {\an1}you're not attracted to her? 50 00:01:45,667 --> 00:01:47,792 {\an1}Is that true, that you didn't want to be married? 51 00:01:47,875 --> 00:01:50,375 {\an1}♪ ♪ 52 00:01:50,500 --> 00:01:52,083 {\an1}Tonight, we'll answer those questions 53 00:01:52,208 --> 00:01:53,458 {\an1}and so much, much more. 54 00:01:53,542 --> 00:01:54,667 {\an1}- You are fake. 55 00:01:54,833 --> 00:01:56,250 {\an1}- And you a crybaby. 56 00:01:56,375 --> 00:01:58,667 {\an1}- It's an epic, two-part reunion event 57 00:01:58,833 --> 00:02:00,292 {\an1}that you do not want to miss. 58 00:02:00,417 --> 00:02:01,625 {\an1}And it's all starting right now. 59 00:02:01,708 --> 00:02:04,042 {\an1}- Take some of that bass out your [bleep] voice, boy. 60 00:02:04,167 --> 00:02:05,292 {\an1}- What you gonna do, bro? 61 00:02:05,375 --> 00:02:06,792 {\an1}- I'm here. I'm here. - Nope, no. 62 00:02:06,875 --> 00:02:07,833 {\an1}- No, no. 63 00:02:07,958 --> 00:02:11,125 {\an1}♪ ♪ 64 00:02:11,208 --> 00:02:12,458 {\an1}- Hello, everyone. 65 00:02:12,542 --> 00:02:14,875 {\an1}I'm Kevin Frazier and we are all here tonight 66 00:02:15,000 --> 00:02:16,083 {\an1}for the "Married At First Sight" 67 00:02:16,208 --> 00:02:17,417 {\an1}San Diego reunion. 68 00:02:17,542 --> 00:02:18,667 {\an1}Now, this is the first time the show 69 00:02:18,792 --> 00:02:20,083 {\an1}has landed on the West Coast. 70 00:02:20,208 --> 00:02:21,625 {\an1}And trust me when I tell you, 71 00:02:21,750 --> 00:02:24,250 {\an1}it did not disappoint in finding 10 strangers 72 00:02:24,375 --> 00:02:27,458 {\an1}who were ready for love and marriage. 73 00:02:27,542 --> 00:02:30,375 {\an1}I have the entire cast out here with me right now. 74 00:02:30,542 --> 00:02:32,875 {\an1}And I must say, ladies, you look spectacular. 75 00:02:33,000 --> 00:02:34,250 {\an1}Gentlemen, very dapper. 76 00:02:34,375 --> 00:02:36,292 {\an1}I like what you-- you know, you kept up. 77 00:02:36,375 --> 00:02:38,000 {\an1}Tonight, we're gonna get into everything 78 00:02:38,167 --> 00:02:39,667 {\an1}that went down in San Diego this season. 79 00:02:39,833 --> 00:02:41,417 {\an1}And I mean everything. 80 00:02:41,542 --> 00:02:43,500 {\an1}We're gonna get into the nitty gritty about what 81 00:02:43,583 --> 00:02:45,167 {\an1}went right with each relationship 82 00:02:45,333 --> 00:02:47,875 {\an1}and, of course, what went wrong. 83 00:02:48,000 --> 00:02:50,833 {\an1}And as you know, I love to dig, so nothing is off limits. 84 00:02:50,958 --> 00:02:53,375 {\an1}So I hope everybody is ready. 85 00:02:53,542 --> 00:02:54,458 {\an1}- [chuckles] 86 00:02:54,583 --> 00:02:55,375 {\an1}- All right, how are you all feeling 87 00:02:55,500 --> 00:02:57,000 {\an1}about being out here together? 88 00:02:57,125 --> 00:02:58,333 {\an1}- Good. - Good. 89 00:02:58,500 --> 00:02:59,417 {\an1}- It's good to see everyone. - It's good. 90 00:02:59,542 --> 00:03:00,708 {\an1}- It's been a while. - Yeah. 91 00:03:00,875 --> 00:03:01,875 {\an1}- Yeah? - The band is back. 92 00:03:02,000 --> 00:03:03,542 {\an1}- Lindy, how are you feeling? 93 00:03:03,708 --> 00:03:05,625 {\an1}- I feel amazing, Kevin. 94 00:03:05,750 --> 00:03:07,708 {\an1}This is the best night of my life, actually. 95 00:03:07,875 --> 00:03:08,917 {\an1}- Yes! 96 00:03:09,042 --> 00:03:10,167 {\an1}- This is so fun. 97 00:03:10,250 --> 00:03:11,667 {\an1}- I feel like a princess. 98 00:03:11,833 --> 00:03:13,000 {\an1}- You look like one. 99 00:03:13,083 --> 00:03:14,292 {\an1}- You look gorgeous. - Thank you. 100 00:03:14,417 --> 00:03:16,042 {\an1}- Nailed it. - Gorgeous. 101 00:03:16,167 --> 00:03:17,458 {\an1}- What has it been like 102 00:03:17,542 --> 00:03:20,000 {\an1}watching yourselves on television? 103 00:03:20,167 --> 00:03:22,500 {\an1}- Definitely an eye opener. 104 00:03:22,583 --> 00:03:26,500 {\an1}It's like seeing blind spots, you know? 105 00:03:26,625 --> 00:03:29,458 {\an1}I wasn't aware of blind spots that I've had. 106 00:03:29,542 --> 00:03:31,833 {\an1}And I definitely could have got a lot more vulnerable. 107 00:03:31,917 --> 00:03:36,167 {\an1}I could of pushed a little bit harder in that arena. 108 00:03:36,292 --> 00:03:38,792 {\an1}For me, I take this as a learning experience. 109 00:03:38,917 --> 00:03:41,667 {\an1}I don't take anything as a loss or anything. 110 00:03:41,792 --> 00:03:44,083 {\an1}So the only thing that I can do is course correct 111 00:03:44,208 --> 00:03:45,917 {\an1}and move forward. 112 00:03:46,042 --> 00:03:48,500 {\an1}- I've learned that I over enunciate. 113 00:03:48,583 --> 00:03:51,292 {\an1}[relaxed speech] So I'ma just like this all night, you know? 114 00:03:51,375 --> 00:03:53,500 {\an1}- I feel like I under enunciate. 115 00:03:53,625 --> 00:03:55,167 {\an1}[laughter] 116 00:03:55,333 --> 00:03:56,792 {\an1}It's very humbling, yeah. 117 00:03:56,917 --> 00:03:59,792 {\an1}I learned that it's celibate, not "celibent." 118 00:04:01,833 --> 00:04:03,333 {\an1}- Oh, wow. 119 00:04:03,458 --> 00:04:04,708 {\an1}- It's just subtitles. 120 00:04:04,833 --> 00:04:05,792 {\an1}Turn your subtitles on. 121 00:04:05,875 --> 00:04:07,167 {\an1}That's all you gotta do. 122 00:04:07,333 --> 00:04:08,542 {\an1}- It's all good. 123 00:04:08,667 --> 00:04:10,000 {\an1}Miguel? 124 00:04:10,125 --> 00:04:11,958 {\an1}- Definitely lots of learning experiences, 125 00:04:12,042 --> 00:04:14,333 {\an1}lots of things I can improve on. 126 00:04:14,458 --> 00:04:16,500 {\an1}It's funny because it's even things that you would tell me 127 00:04:16,625 --> 00:04:19,792 {\an1}about myself, that I'd be too hard-headed or stubborn 128 00:04:19,875 --> 00:04:22,250 {\an1}to really take to heart. 129 00:04:22,375 --> 00:04:25,832 {\an1}And then seeing it there, it's, like, undeniable. 130 00:04:25,917 --> 00:04:28,042 {\an1}Yeah, just makes me feel that I do have to improve 131 00:04:28,207 --> 00:04:29,500 {\an1}on a number of things. 132 00:04:29,667 --> 00:04:31,625 {\an1}- And Justin, what was it like for you? 133 00:04:31,707 --> 00:04:33,917 {\an1}- It was definitely an eye-opener for sure. 134 00:04:35,667 --> 00:04:37,832 {\an1}I definitely cry a lot, for sure. 135 00:04:37,957 --> 00:04:40,250 {\an1}- Yeah, well... - It's just like damn, son. 136 00:04:40,375 --> 00:04:44,000 {\an1}But also, you know, I realized that I 137 00:04:44,125 --> 00:04:45,167 {\an1}can also-- like I said, you know, 138 00:04:45,292 --> 00:04:46,625 {\an1}I can develop some tough skin. 139 00:04:46,707 --> 00:04:49,417 {\an1}I like the fact that my wife held it down at times. 140 00:04:49,542 --> 00:04:52,000 {\an1}But I also learned that that's where that time 141 00:04:52,125 --> 00:04:53,332 {\an1}and place thing comes in at 142 00:04:53,457 --> 00:04:55,625 {\an1}because there's times she needed me, too. 143 00:04:55,750 --> 00:04:58,000 {\an1}- She was like a human Kleenex at times, wasn't she? 144 00:04:58,167 --> 00:04:59,707 {\an1}She was there. - She was always there. 145 00:04:59,832 --> 00:05:01,000 {\an1}- Yeah, she was. 146 00:05:01,125 --> 00:05:03,167 {\an1}Let's start with something fun. 147 00:05:03,292 --> 00:05:04,833 {\an1}Let's start with Stacia and Nate. 148 00:05:05,000 --> 00:05:06,833 {\an1}- Because we're fun. We're fun. 149 00:05:06,917 --> 00:05:09,333 {\an1}- Well, also, you two were like the poster children for sex. 150 00:05:09,458 --> 00:05:12,250 {\an1}I mean, it was-- let's be honest, this season. 151 00:05:12,375 --> 00:05:14,333 {\an1}Folks, if the kids are watching, 152 00:05:14,458 --> 00:05:16,375 {\an1}cover their ears and eyes right now. 153 00:05:16,500 --> 00:05:18,957 {\an1}This is almost like "Married at First Sight: After Dark." 154 00:05:19,042 --> 00:05:22,875 {\an1}Especially if you blush easily, you might not want to watch. 155 00:05:23,000 --> 00:05:25,000 {\an1}Here we go. - I'm scared. 156 00:05:25,167 --> 00:05:26,332 {\an1}- Big enough for two people. 157 00:05:26,457 --> 00:05:28,832 {\an1}- Yeah, we can save water. 158 00:05:28,957 --> 00:05:32,167 {\an1}- Nate wants to take a shower and save water together. 159 00:05:32,292 --> 00:05:33,750 {\an1}- ♪ Skin to skin ♪ 160 00:05:33,875 --> 00:05:36,750 {\an1}♪ The way you put your hands on my body ♪ 161 00:05:36,875 --> 00:05:40,792 {\an1}♪ Hold my breath, you do the rest ♪ 162 00:05:40,917 --> 00:05:43,082 {\an1}[laughter] - I've never done this. 163 00:05:43,207 --> 00:05:45,167 {\an1}Wait, wait, wait, wait, wait, wait. 164 00:05:45,292 --> 00:05:46,792 {\an1}Wait, wait, wait, wait, wait. 165 00:05:46,917 --> 00:05:49,332 {\an1}What are you doing? 166 00:05:49,457 --> 00:05:51,375 {\an1}Oh, my God. Oh, my gosh. 167 00:05:51,542 --> 00:05:54,832 {\an1}- I feel like it's about to be real freaky in here. 168 00:05:55,000 --> 00:05:56,207 {\an1}- I need you closer. 169 00:05:56,332 --> 00:05:57,167 {\an1}- What are you doing? - Like that? 170 00:05:57,292 --> 00:05:59,667 {\an1}- A little closer. 171 00:05:59,792 --> 00:06:01,000 {\an1}That's perfect. 172 00:06:01,125 --> 00:06:02,458 {\an1}♪ ♪ 173 00:06:02,583 --> 00:06:04,917 {\an1}- This is hilarious. [buzzing] 174 00:06:05,042 --> 00:06:07,333 {\an1}[light tense music] 175 00:06:07,458 --> 00:06:09,250 {\an1}- I had no idea what anybody else was talking about. 176 00:06:09,375 --> 00:06:12,167 {\an1}On. It's on. 177 00:06:12,333 --> 00:06:13,375 {\an1}There was a lot going on. 178 00:06:13,500 --> 00:06:15,000 {\an1}I'm trying to listen. 179 00:06:15,125 --> 00:06:17,000 {\an1}I'm getting vibrated and I'm trying to eat. 180 00:06:17,125 --> 00:06:18,542 {\an1}[buzzing] 181 00:06:18,667 --> 00:06:20,000 {\an1}[sighs] 182 00:06:20,082 --> 00:06:21,750 {\an1}I don't know if he doesn't know how to work the remote, 183 00:06:21,875 --> 00:06:23,832 {\an1}or he didn't want to work the remote. 184 00:06:23,957 --> 00:06:26,167 {\an1}And I'm trying to tell Nate, like, turn it off. 185 00:06:26,332 --> 00:06:28,125 {\an1}Turn it off, please. 186 00:06:28,207 --> 00:06:29,457 {\an1}- You OK? [laughter] 187 00:06:29,542 --> 00:06:31,042 {\an1}- I'm getting lit up. 188 00:06:31,167 --> 00:06:33,667 {\an1}[buzzing] Oh, my God. 189 00:06:33,750 --> 00:06:35,832 {\an1}- To quote our good friend Mitch, here, 190 00:06:35,957 --> 00:06:39,542 {\an1}good vibrations, right, on "Married at First Sight." 191 00:06:39,667 --> 00:06:40,707 {\an1}Wow. 192 00:06:40,832 --> 00:06:42,625 {\an1}Did you guys ever discuss this? 193 00:06:42,750 --> 00:06:44,082 {\an1}Or were you like, hey, we're just gonna 194 00:06:44,207 --> 00:06:45,667 {\an1}go with the flow, have fun, 195 00:06:45,792 --> 00:06:47,250 {\an1}and whatever they see they see? 196 00:06:47,375 --> 00:06:49,000 {\an1}- Yeah, just go with the flow. Have fun. 197 00:06:49,167 --> 00:06:50,167 {\an1}- Yeah. - Yeah. 198 00:06:50,292 --> 00:06:52,042 {\an1}We were pretty open. 199 00:06:52,167 --> 00:06:53,667 {\an1}Comfortable. - Wide open. 200 00:06:53,792 --> 00:06:55,792 {\an1}- Yeah. - Yeah. Yeah. Yeah. 201 00:06:55,917 --> 00:06:58,332 {\an1}Let's start with the vibrating panties. 202 00:06:58,457 --> 00:06:59,957 {\an1}- We just know a good time when we see it. 203 00:07:00,042 --> 00:07:02,500 {\an1}So we're like, something is off with Stacia over there. 204 00:07:02,583 --> 00:07:04,000 {\an1}- She was sitting really weird. - It was so susp-- 205 00:07:04,125 --> 00:07:05,625 {\an1}she was eating like this. - Eating like this. 206 00:07:05,750 --> 00:07:06,833 {\an1}[laughter] 207 00:07:06,917 --> 00:07:08,708 {\an1}- There's something wrong with her. 208 00:07:08,833 --> 00:07:11,167 {\an1}- And then on top of that, it actually broke. 209 00:07:11,292 --> 00:07:13,708 {\an1}So I was trying to turn it off and it wouldn't turn off. 210 00:07:13,875 --> 00:07:15,750 {\an1}And that's why she was-- - That's why I was doing-- 211 00:07:15,875 --> 00:07:16,832 {\an1}- Basically squirming. - All of that, because it was 212 00:07:16,957 --> 00:07:18,667 {\an1}on for 15, 20 minutes. 213 00:07:18,792 --> 00:07:21,457 {\an1}And I'm literally numb, like, turn this [bleep] off, Nate. 214 00:07:21,542 --> 00:07:24,500 {\an1}- Did it also say how perfect a match you two were 215 00:07:24,667 --> 00:07:26,832 {\an1}because you could have this kind of sexual freedom? 216 00:07:26,957 --> 00:07:28,542 {\an1}- Yeah. Absolutely. 217 00:07:28,707 --> 00:07:29,667 {\an1}- We're definitely comfortable. 218 00:07:29,792 --> 00:07:31,375 {\an1}We're attracted to each other. 219 00:07:31,500 --> 00:07:33,957 {\an1}And I think just the dynamic of us being 220 00:07:34,042 --> 00:07:35,875 {\an1}in that element, you know? 221 00:07:36,042 --> 00:07:38,000 {\an1}We had the honeymoon. We got to know each other. 222 00:07:38,167 --> 00:07:39,500 {\an1}I just knew that we had chemistry 223 00:07:39,625 --> 00:07:41,667 {\an1}and just never looked back. 224 00:07:41,832 --> 00:07:43,542 {\an1}- All right. Let's keep moving. 225 00:07:43,667 --> 00:07:48,332 {\an1}I'm really curious, who is not on good terms? 226 00:07:48,417 --> 00:07:51,042 {\an1}[tense music] 227 00:07:51,207 --> 00:07:53,000 {\an1}Is there anyone that is not on good terms? 228 00:07:53,167 --> 00:07:54,250 {\an1}It was like, you know what? 229 00:07:54,375 --> 00:07:56,250 {\an1}You're smiling. Go ahead, Justin. 230 00:07:56,375 --> 00:07:58,207 {\an1}- Oh, you know I'm always smiling, Frazier. 231 00:07:58,332 --> 00:07:59,207 {\an1}Come on, man. - OK, all right. 232 00:07:59,332 --> 00:08:00,583 {\an1}I'm just double checking. 233 00:08:00,708 --> 00:08:01,500 {\an1}You leaned over and started grinning. 234 00:08:01,583 --> 00:08:02,542 {\an1}I was like, OK. 235 00:08:02,667 --> 00:08:03,708 {\an1}- No, I'm always smiling. 236 00:08:03,833 --> 00:08:05,500 {\an1}- OK, this one's always telling. 237 00:08:05,667 --> 00:08:08,000 {\an1}Has anyone blocked anyone else from social media? 238 00:08:08,125 --> 00:08:11,833 {\an1}♪ ♪ 239 00:08:11,917 --> 00:08:13,167 {\an1}- Absolutely. 240 00:08:13,250 --> 00:08:14,167 {\an1}- Who are you blocking? 241 00:08:14,333 --> 00:08:15,833 {\an1}- I didn't block anybody. 242 00:08:15,958 --> 00:08:19,582 {\an1}He basically unfollowed a good amount of people. 243 00:08:19,707 --> 00:08:21,292 {\an1}- Justin, you unfollow folks? 244 00:08:21,375 --> 00:08:22,250 {\an1}- I unfollowed everybody. 245 00:08:22,375 --> 00:08:23,500 {\an1}- Why? 246 00:08:23,582 --> 00:08:24,957 {\an1}- We don't get into that. 247 00:08:25,042 --> 00:08:27,917 {\an1}- I was like, I want to know. Like, why? 248 00:08:28,042 --> 00:08:31,667 {\an1}- Well, I blocked you because you are two different people. 249 00:08:31,832 --> 00:08:33,625 {\an1}Sometimes you're one way, sometimes you're another. 250 00:08:33,750 --> 00:08:35,042 {\an1}And that's just not my cup of tea. 251 00:08:35,167 --> 00:08:36,542 {\an1}So for me, I'm just like, eh-- 252 00:08:36,707 --> 00:08:38,792 {\an1}- Can you be more specific on what that means? 253 00:08:38,875 --> 00:08:40,125 {\an1}- Fake. 254 00:08:40,207 --> 00:08:42,000 {\an1}[tense music] 255 00:08:42,082 --> 00:08:43,332 {\an1}- OK. - You're fake. 256 00:08:43,417 --> 00:08:44,500 {\an1}- Give me an example. - You are. 257 00:08:44,625 --> 00:08:45,750 {\an1}You're just fake. 258 00:08:45,875 --> 00:08:47,250 {\an1}- But you're not giving me an example. 259 00:08:47,375 --> 00:08:48,208 {\an1}- I don't need to give you an example. 260 00:08:48,375 --> 00:08:49,667 {\an1}There's too much to go through. 261 00:08:49,792 --> 00:08:51,375 {\an1}- 'Cause you can't really come up with anything. 262 00:08:51,500 --> 00:08:52,750 {\an1}- Of course. I'll give you an example. 263 00:08:52,875 --> 00:08:55,917 {\an1}So first, when I came to you 264 00:08:56,042 --> 00:08:57,667 {\an1}when we were living at the community, 265 00:08:57,750 --> 00:08:59,417 {\an1}we made this bond, like hey, 266 00:08:59,542 --> 00:09:00,833 {\an1}we're gonna be there for each other 267 00:09:00,917 --> 00:09:03,750 {\an1}throughout this experience. But what did you say? 268 00:09:03,875 --> 00:09:05,667 {\an1}"My dad raised me a certain way. 269 00:09:05,792 --> 00:09:07,083 {\an1}I don't get in people's business." 270 00:09:07,208 --> 00:09:10,750 {\an1}But when Morgan was explaining herself at Binh's place, 271 00:09:10,875 --> 00:09:12,500 {\an1}you was all in Binh's business. 272 00:09:12,625 --> 00:09:13,750 {\an1}I was like, OK. 273 00:09:13,875 --> 00:09:15,125 {\an1}So you pick and choose. 274 00:09:15,250 --> 00:09:17,458 {\an1}So I was like, all right, so you act one way. 275 00:09:17,583 --> 00:09:19,500 {\an1}With other people, you act another. 276 00:09:19,625 --> 00:09:21,583 {\an1}You fake. It's OK. 277 00:09:21,708 --> 00:09:27,458 {\an1}- OK, so what I have to say is I don't go looking for-- 278 00:09:27,542 --> 00:09:30,292 {\an1}I'm not looking to be your therapist. 279 00:09:30,417 --> 00:09:32,417 {\an1}If you come to me, I'll talk to you. 280 00:09:32,542 --> 00:09:34,208 {\an1}But I'm not going to be tending to you 281 00:09:34,333 --> 00:09:35,792 {\an1}because you're not my wife. 282 00:09:35,917 --> 00:09:37,833 {\an1}- Very true. I respect that. 283 00:09:37,917 --> 00:09:40,000 {\an1}- I have to focus on my wife. 284 00:09:40,167 --> 00:09:43,250 {\an1}So for you to get upset because I'm not 285 00:09:43,375 --> 00:09:44,833 {\an1}paying attention to you is weird. 286 00:09:45,000 --> 00:09:46,417 {\an1}- I wasn't. That's-- that's not weird. 287 00:09:46,542 --> 00:09:47,792 {\an1}Don't make it seem like-- - It is weird. 288 00:09:47,875 --> 00:09:49,375 {\an1}It is weird. - I didn't-- 289 00:09:49,500 --> 00:09:50,917 {\an1}- And you a crybaby. 290 00:09:51,042 --> 00:09:52,333 {\an1}[dramatic music] 291 00:09:52,417 --> 00:09:53,833 {\an1}- I'm a crybaby? 292 00:09:53,958 --> 00:09:55,833 {\an1}- That's why you got upset, because you're emotional. 293 00:09:55,958 --> 00:09:57,000 {\an1}- And you need to get-- - And you took it personal. 294 00:09:57,167 --> 00:09:59,625 {\an1}And then you unfollowed me. Period. Point blank. 295 00:09:59,708 --> 00:10:02,208 {\an1}- Bro, you made a pass at me twice before the show. 296 00:10:05,042 --> 00:10:07,333 {\an1}♪ ♪ 297 00:10:07,500 --> 00:10:08,583 {\an1}- What pass? 298 00:10:08,708 --> 00:10:10,208 {\an1}- You were hitting on me. 299 00:10:10,333 --> 00:10:11,167 {\an1}- I don't talk to you. - Bro. 300 00:10:11,292 --> 00:10:12,292 {\an1}- I don't even talk to you. 301 00:10:12,417 --> 00:10:13,417 {\an1}What you talking about, man? 302 00:10:13,542 --> 00:10:14,833 {\an1}He making up [bleep]. 303 00:10:15,000 --> 00:10:16,667 {\an1}Come on, man. You see what I'm saying? 304 00:10:16,750 --> 00:10:18,292 {\an1}- I'm calling you out. - Hold on, Justin. 305 00:10:18,375 --> 00:10:20,000 {\an1}Hold on, man. 306 00:10:20,125 --> 00:10:21,000 {\an1}- I called him out. 307 00:10:21,125 --> 00:10:22,167 {\an1}He's mad. 308 00:10:22,250 --> 00:10:23,625 {\an1}- Justin. 309 00:10:23,708 --> 00:10:24,667 {\an1}- He trying to play hard, but I put him 310 00:10:24,833 --> 00:10:26,000 {\an1}in his place real quick. 311 00:10:26,125 --> 00:10:27,333 {\an1}I'll put you in your place real quick. 312 00:10:27,417 --> 00:10:28,917 {\an1}- Justin. - Go for it. 313 00:10:29,042 --> 00:10:31,083 {\an1}'Cause I'm still trying to understand the truth 314 00:10:31,208 --> 00:10:32,667 {\an1}of why you unfollowed me. 315 00:10:32,792 --> 00:10:34,167 {\an1}- You mad because I don't follow you, bro? 316 00:10:34,333 --> 00:10:35,333 {\an1}- Justin, I'm not mad. I just-- 317 00:10:35,417 --> 00:10:36,750 {\an1}- I don't like you. 318 00:10:36,875 --> 00:10:38,667 {\an1}I literally just don't like you, bro. 319 00:10:38,792 --> 00:10:40,167 {\an1}I don't like you. - Just let me handle it. 320 00:10:40,292 --> 00:10:41,833 {\an1}I got it. I got it. 321 00:10:41,917 --> 00:10:43,500 {\an1}Let me ask you a question. - OK. 322 00:10:43,625 --> 00:10:45,667 {\an1}- Why would you-- and I understand. 323 00:10:45,750 --> 00:10:47,917 {\an1}Banter is banter and people say stuff 324 00:10:48,042 --> 00:10:50,458 {\an1}and we get going back and forth. 325 00:10:50,542 --> 00:10:52,667 {\an1}But we're out here, we're just talking. 326 00:10:52,792 --> 00:10:56,500 {\an1}Why would you say Nate made a pass at you? 327 00:10:56,583 --> 00:10:57,958 {\an1}What would make you say that? 328 00:10:58,083 --> 00:10:59,833 {\an1}- Because don't no guy compliment another guy 329 00:10:59,917 --> 00:11:01,917 {\an1}two days in a row about how nice his skin is, 330 00:11:02,042 --> 00:11:04,625 {\an1}how teeth, how-- like dude, why are you on this show? 331 00:11:04,750 --> 00:11:06,042 {\an1}You look so good. 332 00:11:06,167 --> 00:11:07,542 {\an1}You got nice teeth. 333 00:11:07,708 --> 00:11:09,375 {\an1}And I'm like, ah, that's a bit much, bro. 334 00:11:09,500 --> 00:11:11,167 {\an1}Back to back? Come on, now. 335 00:11:11,250 --> 00:11:12,542 {\an1}- I'm confident. 336 00:11:12,667 --> 00:11:14,042 {\an1}I'm very comfortable with my sexuality. 337 00:11:14,167 --> 00:11:15,250 {\an1}- All right. 338 00:11:15,375 --> 00:11:17,208 {\an1}- I'm not the one that's crying and worried about 339 00:11:17,333 --> 00:11:18,667 {\an1}other people's relationships. 340 00:11:18,792 --> 00:11:19,625 {\an1}- And I ain't ashamed of crying. 341 00:11:19,750 --> 00:11:21,000 {\an1}Maybe you should cry some. 342 00:11:21,125 --> 00:11:22,750 {\an1}Maybe you should cry a little. - I do cry. 343 00:11:22,875 --> 00:11:25,333 {\an1}I'm not a crybaby. 344 00:11:25,458 --> 00:11:27,042 {\an1}- Hey, and I ain't ashamed. 345 00:11:27,208 --> 00:11:28,375 {\an1}- And you still didn't answer the question about why 346 00:11:28,542 --> 00:11:30,500 {\an1}you unfollowed everybody. 347 00:11:30,667 --> 00:11:32,333 {\an1}- And you--because I wanted to. 348 00:11:32,458 --> 00:11:34,000 {\an1}- You can't answer the question! 349 00:11:34,167 --> 00:11:36,375 {\an1}- Man, take some of that bass out your [bleep] voice, boy. 350 00:11:36,500 --> 00:11:39,667 {\an1}♪ ♪ 351 00:11:39,792 --> 00:11:41,083 {\an1}- What's you gonna do, bro? 352 00:11:41,208 --> 00:11:42,250 {\an1}- Hold on. Hey. Yo. 353 00:11:42,375 --> 00:11:43,458 {\an1}- Nate, come here. Come here. 354 00:11:43,583 --> 00:11:46,333 {\an1}[interposing voices] 355 00:11:46,458 --> 00:11:48,208 {\an1}I'll fold your ass real quick, boy. 356 00:11:48,333 --> 00:11:49,208 {\an1}[interposing voices] 357 00:11:49,375 --> 00:11:50,333 {\an1}I'll fold you right now. 358 00:11:50,417 --> 00:11:50,792 {\an1}- No, no! 359 00:11:54,292 --> 00:11:55,167 {\an1}- And you still didn't answer the question 360 00:11:55,250 --> 00:11:56,750 {\an1}about why you unfollow everybody. 361 00:11:56,875 --> 00:11:59,417 {\an1}- Man, take some of that bass out your [bleep] voice, boy. 362 00:11:59,542 --> 00:12:01,875 {\an1}[tense music] 363 00:12:02,000 --> 00:12:02,833 {\an1}♪ ♪ 364 00:12:02,917 --> 00:12:03,875 {\an1}- What you gonna do, bro? 365 00:12:04,000 --> 00:12:05,333 {\an1}- Hold on. Hey. Yo. 366 00:12:05,458 --> 00:12:06,833 {\an1}- Nate, come here. Come here. 367 00:12:07,000 --> 00:12:08,083 {\an1}- No, no, no. - Come here. 368 00:12:08,208 --> 00:12:09,000 {\an1}[interposing voices] 369 00:12:09,125 --> 00:12:11,292 {\an1}I'll fold your ass real quick, boy. 370 00:12:11,417 --> 00:12:12,500 {\an1}[interposing voices] 371 00:12:12,625 --> 00:12:13,333 {\an1}I'll fold you right now. 372 00:12:13,500 --> 00:12:14,625 {\an1}- No, no. 373 00:12:14,750 --> 00:12:16,083 {\an1}- No. No, no, no. Sit down. Sit down. 374 00:12:16,208 --> 00:12:17,708 {\an1}- You over here capping and fabricating. 375 00:12:17,833 --> 00:12:18,833 {\an1}- Shut the [bleep] up. - See me outside. 376 00:12:19,000 --> 00:12:21,042 {\an1}- I will. - See me outside. 377 00:12:21,208 --> 00:12:23,167 {\an1}- Hey, hey, hey, hey, hey. Control yourself. 378 00:12:23,292 --> 00:12:24,583 {\an1}- Don't let that [indistinct] fool you. 379 00:12:24,708 --> 00:12:26,083 {\an1}- [bleep] - [indistinct] 380 00:12:26,208 --> 00:12:27,167 {\an1}- I'm here! 381 00:12:27,292 --> 00:12:28,250 {\an1}- I'm here, too, [bleep]. What's up? 382 00:12:28,375 --> 00:12:29,375 {\an1}- What? 383 00:12:29,500 --> 00:12:30,625 {\an1}Are y'all really acting like this? 384 00:12:30,708 --> 00:12:31,792 {\an1}Are y'all really acting like this? 385 00:12:31,917 --> 00:12:33,167 {\an1}- 'Cause he over here fabricating [bleep] 386 00:12:33,250 --> 00:12:35,000 {\an1}and making up [bleep]. - Calm down. Calm down. 387 00:12:35,083 --> 00:12:36,292 {\an1}- He think he want that smoke. All right. 388 00:12:36,375 --> 00:12:37,792 {\an1}I'll give it to you. - I'll fold your skinny ass. 389 00:12:37,875 --> 00:12:39,125 {\an1}[bleep]. - I'm right here, baby. 390 00:12:39,208 --> 00:12:40,333 {\an1}- Come here right now and do something. 391 00:12:40,458 --> 00:12:41,833 {\an1}- Ain't no one-- I would love it. 392 00:12:41,958 --> 00:12:43,500 {\an1}[dramatic music] 393 00:12:43,625 --> 00:12:44,917 {\an1}Smoke. I'll give it to him. 394 00:12:45,042 --> 00:12:46,625 {\an1}- Making up [bleep]. 395 00:12:46,708 --> 00:12:50,000 {\an1}- You can't engage something that is seemingly ridiculous. 396 00:12:50,125 --> 00:12:52,167 {\an1}- He's trying to low blow me, making up [bleep] man. 397 00:12:52,250 --> 00:12:53,500 {\an1}That's [bleep] up. 398 00:12:53,625 --> 00:12:55,333 {\an1}- Just--just breathe. - OK. 399 00:12:55,458 --> 00:12:57,917 {\an1}- It's not-- you didn't come here for Nate. 400 00:12:58,042 --> 00:12:59,792 {\an1}You don't have to talk to him after today. 401 00:12:59,875 --> 00:13:01,000 {\an1}- OK. - OK? 402 00:13:01,083 --> 00:13:02,833 {\an1}- Yep. - Just--he's not there. 403 00:13:02,958 --> 00:13:04,917 {\an1}Just focus on Justin. 404 00:13:05,042 --> 00:13:06,583 {\an1}Focus on Alexis, you know? 405 00:13:06,708 --> 00:13:08,417 {\an1}This is the problem, you know? 406 00:13:08,542 --> 00:13:10,000 {\an1}But this is not who you are, OK? 407 00:13:10,167 --> 00:13:11,333 {\an1}- All right. 408 00:13:11,500 --> 00:13:12,875 {\an1}- I'm telling the truth and he can't handle it. 409 00:13:13,042 --> 00:13:14,750 {\an1}That's why he got to come like with that [bleep], man. 410 00:13:14,875 --> 00:13:16,083 {\an1}That's [bleep] up. 411 00:13:16,208 --> 00:13:17,292 {\an1}- That's what I'm saying to you. 412 00:13:17,375 --> 00:13:19,417 {\an1}You have to elevate your status above. 413 00:13:19,542 --> 00:13:21,250 {\an1}- He's taking low blows because that's all he can do. 414 00:13:21,375 --> 00:13:22,542 {\an1}- He's making [bleep] man. 415 00:13:22,667 --> 00:13:23,875 {\an1}Like, what the [bleep]? 416 00:13:24,000 --> 00:13:25,542 {\an1}- Everybody knows it's [bleep[, though. 417 00:13:25,667 --> 00:13:27,000 {\an1}- We know it's [bleep]. 418 00:13:27,125 --> 00:13:28,833 {\an1}- Why would anybody believe that? 419 00:13:28,958 --> 00:13:30,083 {\an1}- He's projecting that on you. 420 00:13:30,208 --> 00:13:31,875 {\an1}- He's projecting. Let him. 421 00:13:32,042 --> 00:13:34,500 {\an1}- He did unfollow all of us and then follow us again 422 00:13:34,667 --> 00:13:36,167 {\an1}and then unfollow us again. 423 00:13:36,292 --> 00:13:37,667 {\an1}It makes no sense. 424 00:13:37,833 --> 00:13:38,875 {\an1}- I'm just telling the truth. 425 00:13:39,000 --> 00:13:40,292 {\an1}- Yeah, it doesn't make sense. 426 00:13:40,375 --> 00:13:41,333 {\an1}- You OK? 427 00:13:41,458 --> 00:13:43,000 {\an1}- I'm OK. 428 00:13:43,083 --> 00:13:44,792 {\an1}- You sure? - Promise. 429 00:13:44,875 --> 00:13:46,792 {\an1}- So you can regulate yourself? 430 00:13:46,917 --> 00:13:48,542 {\an1}- Yep. - Mm-hmm. 431 00:13:48,667 --> 00:13:49,750 {\an1}Let's go. 432 00:13:49,875 --> 00:13:52,542 {\an1}[tense music] 433 00:13:52,667 --> 00:13:59,458 {\an1}♪ ♪ 434 00:14:01,583 --> 00:14:02,667 {\an1}- You gonna answer the question? 435 00:14:02,750 --> 00:14:04,208 {\an1}- Nate. Nate. Nate. 436 00:14:04,333 --> 00:14:05,792 {\an1}- Please, don't. Please. - Nate. Nate. 437 00:14:05,875 --> 00:14:07,042 {\an1}Don't. - Don't. 438 00:14:07,208 --> 00:14:08,458 {\an1}- Don't. - Keep low blowing me. 439 00:14:08,583 --> 00:14:09,667 {\an1}- Don't. See what happens. 440 00:14:09,750 --> 00:14:10,917 {\an1}- Nate. - Hey, hey, hey, hey. 441 00:14:11,042 --> 00:14:12,167 {\an1}- I ain't talking to him. - Listen to me. 442 00:14:12,292 --> 00:14:13,792 {\an1}I'm telling you. For real, OK? 443 00:14:13,917 --> 00:14:15,250 {\an1}For real? 444 00:14:15,375 --> 00:14:19,125 {\an1}OK, first and foremost, is everybody OK? 445 00:14:19,250 --> 00:14:21,958 {\an1}Take this down a notch, OK? 446 00:14:22,083 --> 00:14:24,083 {\an1}OK, let's move on. 447 00:14:24,208 --> 00:14:26,958 {\an1}Why did you unfollow some of the other people 448 00:14:27,083 --> 00:14:29,208 {\an1}in the cast like Krysten? 449 00:14:30,458 --> 00:14:32,542 {\an1}- I unfollowed Krysten because she acts a certain way-- 450 00:14:32,667 --> 00:14:34,750 {\an1}she says she doesn't, but she acts a certain way 451 00:14:34,875 --> 00:14:36,875 {\an1}in front of Alexis versus how she-- 452 00:14:37,000 --> 00:14:38,208 {\an1}behind closed doors. 453 00:14:38,333 --> 00:14:41,500 {\an1}So-- - Are you calling Krysten fake? 454 00:14:41,625 --> 00:14:43,792 {\an1}- At the end of the day, they just weren't for me. 455 00:14:43,917 --> 00:14:45,708 {\an1}The people that I follow are for me. 456 00:14:45,833 --> 00:14:46,917 {\an1}- But you unfollowed everybody. 457 00:14:47,042 --> 00:14:48,500 {\an1}- Is your name Kevin? 458 00:14:48,625 --> 00:14:49,625 {\an1}- I'm just speaking the truth. 459 00:14:49,708 --> 00:14:51,542 {\an1}- Thank you. 460 00:14:51,667 --> 00:14:54,750 {\an1}- I unfollowed Lindy and Morgan because we were all supposed 461 00:14:54,875 --> 00:14:56,000 {\an1}to go for a hike together. 462 00:14:56,167 --> 00:14:57,333 {\an1}And instead of them just saying they 463 00:14:57,458 --> 00:14:59,000 {\an1}were uncomfortable with me coming, 464 00:14:59,125 --> 00:15:00,083 {\an1}they just went without me. 465 00:15:00,208 --> 00:15:01,333 {\an1}I thought that was foul. 466 00:15:01,458 --> 00:15:02,583 {\an1}So I unfollowed them. 467 00:15:02,708 --> 00:15:05,583 {\an1}♪ ♪ 468 00:15:05,708 --> 00:15:09,000 {\an1}I unfollowed Stacia not for any particular reason 469 00:15:09,125 --> 00:15:11,000 {\an1}but mostly because of I don't like her husband. 470 00:15:11,125 --> 00:15:12,792 {\an1}I don't want her. I don't want no beef. 471 00:15:12,917 --> 00:15:14,958 {\an1}So that's why I unfollowed Stacia. 472 00:15:15,042 --> 00:15:16,167 {\an1}- But you do that with everybody. 473 00:15:16,292 --> 00:15:17,667 {\an1}- Why are you still talking? 474 00:15:17,792 --> 00:15:19,333 {\an1}- Because everybody needs clarity. 475 00:15:19,458 --> 00:15:21,125 {\an1}I need to speak my truth. - Speak your truth. 476 00:15:21,208 --> 00:15:22,708 {\an1}- You unfollow and follow people because you 477 00:15:22,833 --> 00:15:23,792 {\an1}get in your feelings. - OK. 478 00:15:23,875 --> 00:15:25,167 {\an1}- That's it. 479 00:15:25,333 --> 00:15:26,875 {\an1}- All right, then shut up about it. 480 00:15:27,000 --> 00:15:27,958 {\an1}- So why you got to call me gay, though? 481 00:15:28,042 --> 00:15:29,333 {\an1}Like, what's-- 482 00:15:29,458 --> 00:15:30,500 {\an1}- Oh, no, no, no. 483 00:15:30,583 --> 00:15:31,500 {\an1}That wasn't a low blow. 484 00:15:31,667 --> 00:15:33,042 {\an1}- I want to know that truth. 485 00:15:33,167 --> 00:15:34,375 {\an1}- Would you like to listen? - I want-- 486 00:15:34,542 --> 00:15:35,667 {\an1}- Because right now-- right now you talk-- 487 00:15:35,833 --> 00:15:37,000 {\an1}- Because you keep talking about-- 488 00:15:37,125 --> 00:15:38,375 {\an1}- You talking to-- - Let him ans-- 489 00:15:38,542 --> 00:15:39,833 {\an1}Nate, Nate, let him answer your question. 490 00:15:39,917 --> 00:15:41,000 {\an1}Let him answer your question. - OK. 491 00:15:41,167 --> 00:15:42,333 {\an1}- And we'll move on after that. 492 00:15:42,500 --> 00:15:44,083 {\an1}- I called you gay because the day 493 00:15:44,208 --> 00:15:46,292 {\an1}after the workshop when we ran into each other, 494 00:15:46,375 --> 00:15:48,833 {\an1}we went to a pizza shop, and you kept complimenting me. 495 00:15:49,000 --> 00:15:50,083 {\an1}And you kept saying, oh man, I can't believe 496 00:15:50,208 --> 00:15:51,083 {\an1}you're going on this show. And I was like-- 497 00:15:51,208 --> 00:15:52,833 {\an1}I thought that was weird. 498 00:15:53,000 --> 00:15:54,333 {\an1}And then the second time, we kicked it again, 499 00:15:54,500 --> 00:15:55,958 {\an1}and you said the exact same thing. 500 00:15:56,042 --> 00:15:57,458 {\an1}And I-- - I just want to say this now, 501 00:15:57,542 --> 00:15:58,833 {\an1}just so we're clear, OK? 502 00:15:58,958 --> 00:16:00,125 {\an1}And you need to understand this. 503 00:16:00,208 --> 00:16:01,667 {\an1}This is important going forward. 504 00:16:01,833 --> 00:16:03,750 {\an1}One man complimenting another man 505 00:16:03,875 --> 00:16:06,042 {\an1}does not mean you're gay just like a man complimenting-- 506 00:16:06,208 --> 00:16:07,500 {\an1}- Consistently, though. 507 00:16:07,583 --> 00:16:09,958 {\an1}- --a woman doesn't mean that you want to have 508 00:16:10,083 --> 00:16:11,875 {\an1}sex with her or marry her. 509 00:16:12,042 --> 00:16:13,958 {\an1}- I appreciate that, and I'm not taking that away. 510 00:16:14,042 --> 00:16:15,583 {\an1}I'm just saying how it made me feel. 511 00:16:15,708 --> 00:16:17,000 {\an1}You know what I'm saying? 512 00:16:17,167 --> 00:16:19,333 {\an1}- Nobody believes you. 513 00:16:19,458 --> 00:16:22,292 {\an1}You said you felt uncomfortable because 514 00:16:22,417 --> 00:16:24,208 {\an1}you're always in your feelings. That's it. 515 00:16:24,333 --> 00:16:25,625 {\an1}- Well, you need to get some, Nate. 516 00:16:25,708 --> 00:16:27,750 {\an1}You just cold. 517 00:16:27,875 --> 00:16:28,833 {\an1}- I'm just comfortable. Like-- 518 00:16:28,958 --> 00:16:30,292 {\an1}- I'm not saying-- 519 00:16:30,417 --> 00:16:31,208 {\an1}- --if I compliment a man, I can do that. 520 00:16:31,375 --> 00:16:32,500 {\an1}- Look-- 521 00:16:32,667 --> 00:16:33,500 {\an1}- Doesn't necessarily make me any type of way. 522 00:16:33,625 --> 00:16:34,583 {\an1}- And hey, man. 523 00:16:34,708 --> 00:16:35,833 {\an1}Maybe that was my flaw. 524 00:16:35,958 --> 00:16:37,500 {\an1}That's what it made me feel like. 525 00:16:37,583 --> 00:16:38,833 {\an1}- Yeah, because you're in your feelings all the time. 526 00:16:38,917 --> 00:16:39,958 {\an1}- Shut up, man. 527 00:16:40,042 --> 00:16:41,292 {\an1}You in your feelings right now. 528 00:16:41,417 --> 00:16:42,750 {\an1}- All right, so-- [interposing voices] 529 00:16:42,875 --> 00:16:43,708 {\an1}- Let's move on. [interposing voices] 530 00:16:43,833 --> 00:16:44,917 {\an1}- Let's move on. 531 00:16:45,042 --> 00:16:46,667 {\an1}[interposing voices] 532 00:16:46,792 --> 00:16:49,208 {\an1}- Let's move on to a whole different situation. 533 00:16:49,333 --> 00:16:51,417 {\an1}OK, let's move on to Krysten and Mitch. 534 00:16:51,542 --> 00:16:53,375 {\an1}And on Decision Day, you two parted ways 535 00:16:53,500 --> 00:16:55,167 {\an1}very amicably, right? - Yeah. 536 00:16:55,292 --> 00:16:56,583 {\an1}- I mean, you got a divorce, but it's still-- 537 00:16:56,708 --> 00:16:58,000 {\an1}you were friends. 538 00:16:58,083 --> 00:17:00,000 {\an1}And it appeared to be that afterwards, 539 00:17:00,125 --> 00:17:02,667 {\an1}there was still a little amore. 540 00:17:02,792 --> 00:17:04,000 {\an1}Things were good, right? 541 00:17:04,125 --> 00:17:06,333 {\an1}But then eventually, they turned sour. 542 00:17:06,458 --> 00:17:07,458 {\an1}Let's watch. 543 00:17:07,583 --> 00:17:09,916 {\an1}- I even told Pastor Cal that I would 544 00:17:10,041 --> 00:17:14,541 {\an1}leave my door ajar if maybe-- 545 00:17:14,666 --> 00:17:17,833 {\an1}maybe Mitch decided he was ready to just 546 00:17:17,916 --> 00:17:20,875 {\an1}be a whole-ass husband to me. 547 00:17:21,000 --> 00:17:23,000 {\an1}I would probably crack the door. 548 00:17:23,125 --> 00:17:26,208 {\an1}- If she leaves it ajar, is it going to be like, 549 00:17:26,375 --> 00:17:28,000 {\an1}you know how some people sit by the phone, 550 00:17:28,083 --> 00:17:29,667 {\an1}and it's just like, the phone never rings? 551 00:17:29,833 --> 00:17:32,667 {\an1}♪ ♪ 552 00:17:32,792 --> 00:17:36,625 {\an1}- I was resolute in my decision and that I hope that we can be 553 00:17:36,708 --> 00:17:40,042 {\an1}on good terms, and I hope that we can still know each other 554 00:17:40,208 --> 00:17:42,375 {\an1}and be friends and that it's not, 555 00:17:42,500 --> 00:17:45,708 {\an1}you know-- so I do want the door to be open in that way. 556 00:17:45,833 --> 00:17:47,208 {\an1}But that's all I can-- 557 00:17:47,333 --> 00:17:50,000 {\an1}- So close it in the marriage way. 558 00:17:50,083 --> 00:17:51,375 {\an1}- Yeah, I'm just saying, none of that was-- 559 00:17:51,542 --> 00:17:53,000 {\an1}that was not my-- none of that came 560 00:17:53,125 --> 00:17:54,625 {\an1}from my end is all I'm saying. 561 00:17:56,208 --> 00:17:57,958 {\an1}- Wow-uh. - Never mind. 562 00:17:58,083 --> 00:17:59,208 {\an1}I'm sorry. I didn't mean to do that. 563 00:17:59,333 --> 00:18:00,625 {\an1}- Yeah, we're done with that. - I'm so sorry. 564 00:18:00,708 --> 00:18:04,250 {\an1}- I think that this moment has provided clarity, 565 00:18:04,375 --> 00:18:08,333 {\an1}and I think that the "Mitch and Krysten Show" 566 00:18:08,458 --> 00:18:11,167 {\an1}is over. 567 00:18:11,250 --> 00:18:13,250 {\an1}- OK, so where are we now today? 568 00:18:13,375 --> 00:18:15,375 {\an1}On good terms, bad terms, no terms? 569 00:18:15,542 --> 00:18:17,875 {\an1}- The "Mitch and Krysten Show" is definitely 570 00:18:18,042 --> 00:18:20,042 {\an1}over, no sequels ever. 571 00:18:20,167 --> 00:18:22,583 {\an1}But I think we're on OK terms. 572 00:18:22,708 --> 00:18:24,417 {\an1}I think we're amicable, but you know, 573 00:18:24,542 --> 00:18:26,042 {\an1}I've said stuff like that before, 574 00:18:26,167 --> 00:18:27,208 {\an1}and you've said something different. 575 00:18:27,333 --> 00:18:28,750 {\an1}So why don't you answer as well? 576 00:18:28,875 --> 00:18:30,167 {\an1}- I think we're amicable. - Yeah. 577 00:18:30,292 --> 00:18:32,167 {\an1}- I mean, this is just another classic, 578 00:18:32,292 --> 00:18:35,292 {\an1}like, me not being able to get it out right moment. 579 00:18:35,417 --> 00:18:37,625 {\an1}I felt defensive like it was my fault 580 00:18:37,708 --> 00:18:40,167 {\an1}that you had said that and that I was, 581 00:18:40,292 --> 00:18:42,167 {\an1}like, leading you on somehow. 582 00:18:42,292 --> 00:18:44,083 {\an1}- Mitch, did you feel like that night 583 00:18:44,208 --> 00:18:46,833 {\an1}that folks were kind of ganging up on you? 584 00:18:46,958 --> 00:18:48,500 {\an1}- Yeah. I mean, you can see it. 585 00:18:48,583 --> 00:18:50,333 {\an1}Like, I get this kind of deer in the headlights thing 586 00:18:50,500 --> 00:18:52,667 {\an1}when I felt ganged up on and I didn't feel like I'd done 587 00:18:52,833 --> 00:18:54,167 {\an1}anything wrong necessarily. 588 00:18:54,292 --> 00:18:56,167 {\an1}Maybe not explaining myself that well. 589 00:18:56,333 --> 00:18:59,375 {\an1}- Alexis, do you feel like you asked that question 590 00:18:59,500 --> 00:19:00,875 {\an1}because you wanted to clarify and kind 591 00:19:01,000 --> 00:19:02,000 {\an1}of step up for your girl? 592 00:19:02,083 --> 00:19:04,250 {\an1}- Yes, that's exactly why. 593 00:19:04,375 --> 00:19:05,625 {\an1}In the root of everything, I'm a protector. 594 00:19:05,708 --> 00:19:07,083 {\an1}- Mm-hmm. 595 00:19:07,208 --> 00:19:08,417 {\an1}- And that's my friend, and I didn't want it 596 00:19:08,542 --> 00:19:10,208 {\an1}to be like, she's waiting by the phone, you know? 597 00:19:10,375 --> 00:19:12,375 {\an1}She's anticipating something that will never come. 598 00:19:12,500 --> 00:19:14,458 {\an1}So I know sometimes the questions are hard to ask 599 00:19:14,542 --> 00:19:16,125 {\an1}when you're in the relationship. 600 00:19:16,208 --> 00:19:18,167 {\an1}So as a third party I mean, it wasn't my business, 601 00:19:18,292 --> 00:19:20,292 {\an1}but I didn't want my friend to be waiting on something 602 00:19:20,375 --> 00:19:22,042 {\an1}that would never come. 603 00:19:22,208 --> 00:19:23,583 {\an1}So I was just trying to look out for my girl. 604 00:19:23,708 --> 00:19:25,667 {\an1}- Yeah, I think we all kind of felt that way. 605 00:19:25,792 --> 00:19:27,875 {\an1}It was just like, let's just be done with this. 606 00:19:28,000 --> 00:19:30,083 {\an1}Like, you guys know you're not right for each other. 607 00:19:30,208 --> 00:19:31,583 {\an1}- Yeah, you were pissed. 608 00:19:31,708 --> 00:19:33,083 {\an1}I remember you were pissed for sure. 609 00:19:33,208 --> 00:19:34,125 {\an1}- Yeah, I shouldn't have pussyfooted around it. 610 00:19:34,250 --> 00:19:35,375 {\an1}You know, I just-- 611 00:19:35,500 --> 00:19:36,458 {\an1}I was trying not to hurt feelings 612 00:19:36,583 --> 00:19:38,292 {\an1}any more than I already had. 613 00:19:38,417 --> 00:19:40,458 {\an1}But again, I just ended up-- 614 00:19:40,583 --> 00:19:42,333 {\an1}the pussyfooting only made it worse. 615 00:19:42,458 --> 00:19:45,000 {\an1}- I think in my piece as well, we did have a very 616 00:19:45,167 --> 00:19:46,625 {\an1}mixed message Decision Day. 617 00:19:46,708 --> 00:19:47,958 {\an1}It was still confusing. 618 00:19:48,042 --> 00:19:49,500 {\an1}It was very amicable. 619 00:19:49,667 --> 00:19:53,000 {\an1}We actually were, like, laughing during and after it. 620 00:19:53,083 --> 00:19:55,125 {\an1}And you know, he made a couple jokes. 621 00:19:55,208 --> 00:19:57,500 {\an1}We both did, made jokes after. 622 00:19:57,667 --> 00:19:59,292 {\an1}Honestly, it wouldn't surprise me if we had sex tonight. 623 00:19:59,417 --> 00:20:00,333 {\an1}Like-- - Yeah. 624 00:20:00,458 --> 00:20:01,583 {\an1}- We're just weird. 625 00:20:01,708 --> 00:20:02,542 {\an1}♪ ♪ 626 00:20:06,042 --> 00:20:07,583 {\an1}OK, without further ado, let's welcome the first couple 627 00:20:07,708 --> 00:20:08,417 {\an1}of the night-- 628 00:20:10,917 --> 00:20:12,083 {\an1}Hey, hey. - Hi! 629 00:20:12,208 --> 00:20:13,417 {\an1}- How are you? - Good. 630 00:20:13,542 --> 00:20:14,833 {\an1}- Welcome back. - Thank you. 631 00:20:14,917 --> 00:20:17,042 {\an1}♪ ♪ 632 00:20:17,167 --> 00:20:18,292 {\an1}First of all, you guys look fantastic. 633 00:20:18,417 --> 00:20:19,500 {\an1}You coordinate. 634 00:20:19,583 --> 00:20:20,875 {\an1}Is this your second prom? Right? 635 00:20:21,000 --> 00:20:22,167 {\an1}- Yeah. - The redo, right? 636 00:20:22,292 --> 00:20:24,417 {\an1}Happier times. - There we go. 637 00:20:24,542 --> 00:20:26,792 {\an1}You know, each couple has a unique trajectory, 638 00:20:26,875 --> 00:20:29,042 {\an1}and you guys came out of the gate stronger than ever. 639 00:20:29,167 --> 00:20:31,542 {\an1}It seemed like there was an initial infatuation 640 00:20:31,667 --> 00:20:33,042 {\an1}with each other. 641 00:20:33,167 --> 00:20:35,750 {\an1}- Oh, I feel like a star-struck, 642 00:20:35,875 --> 00:20:37,000 {\an1}like, fangirl over here. 643 00:20:37,125 --> 00:20:38,333 {\an1}I'm like, oh, my gosh. - Wow! 644 00:20:38,417 --> 00:20:39,667 {\an1}- My husband! - I love it. 645 00:20:39,792 --> 00:20:41,125 {\an1}I love it. - You guys, this is my husband. 646 00:20:41,250 --> 00:20:42,333 {\an1}- This is-- I feel the same thing. 647 00:20:42,500 --> 00:20:44,750 {\an1}Good job, guys! - Yeah. 648 00:20:44,875 --> 00:20:47,833 {\an1}Thumbs up, experts. 649 00:20:47,917 --> 00:20:49,500 {\an1}- Besides your personalities, 650 00:20:49,583 --> 00:20:51,250 {\an1}there was also a natural attraction. 651 00:20:51,375 --> 00:20:52,750 {\an1}Wouldn't you say, Miguel? - Oh, absolutely. 652 00:20:52,875 --> 00:20:54,167 {\an1}Right off the bat, I saw her, and I was 653 00:20:54,292 --> 00:20:55,875 {\an1}like, oh, OK, she's beautiful. 654 00:20:56,042 --> 00:20:59,167 {\an1}- Oh yeah, and I was obsessed with him immediately. 655 00:20:59,292 --> 00:21:01,542 {\an1}- I can tell by the matching outfits. 656 00:21:01,667 --> 00:21:04,625 {\an1}But for the record, are you two still together? 657 00:21:05,958 --> 00:21:07,417 {\an1}- Yeah. 658 00:21:07,542 --> 00:21:08,958 {\an1}- Everything's still good? - Yeah. 659 00:21:09,083 --> 00:21:10,000 {\an1}- Yeah. Things are great. 660 00:21:10,083 --> 00:21:11,667 {\an1}We get along really well. 661 00:21:11,750 --> 00:21:13,292 {\an1}We love each other. 662 00:21:13,417 --> 00:21:14,833 {\an1}Everything just works. - It's easy. 663 00:21:14,958 --> 00:21:16,292 {\an1}Like-- - It's easy. 664 00:21:16,417 --> 00:21:18,167 {\an1}- The day to day, like, our personalities, 665 00:21:18,292 --> 00:21:19,583 {\an1}like, we just mesh. 666 00:21:19,708 --> 00:21:21,833 {\an1}I did get the man that I asked for. 667 00:21:21,917 --> 00:21:23,000 {\an1}That's for sure. 668 00:21:23,125 --> 00:21:24,500 {\an1}- The experts did their job. 669 00:21:24,625 --> 00:21:25,667 {\an1}It's fair to say, right? - They did. 670 00:21:25,750 --> 00:21:26,667 {\an1}- They did their job. - They did, yes. 671 00:21:26,792 --> 00:21:27,667 {\an1}- They did, yeah. 672 00:21:27,833 --> 00:21:28,917 {\an1}- What else have you guys been up to 673 00:21:29,042 --> 00:21:30,375 {\an1}since Decision Day? 674 00:21:30,500 --> 00:21:32,375 {\an1}- I've been decorating, like, his place, 675 00:21:32,542 --> 00:21:33,792 {\an1}trying to make it-- - Yeah. 676 00:21:33,875 --> 00:21:34,958 {\an1}- Well, our place. 677 00:21:35,042 --> 00:21:36,333 {\an1}I've been decorating our place. 678 00:21:36,417 --> 00:21:38,167 {\an1}- So you have moved into Miguel's place. 679 00:21:38,333 --> 00:21:40,458 {\an1}How's that going and what was that like at first? 680 00:21:40,583 --> 00:21:41,833 {\an1}And Miguel, it's always hard when someone 681 00:21:41,958 --> 00:21:44,167 {\an1}comes in and is like, hm, that's got to go, bro. 682 00:21:44,292 --> 00:21:45,667 {\an1}- He has been so-- 683 00:21:45,792 --> 00:21:47,500 {\an1}I was worried about that, and he's just like, 684 00:21:47,583 --> 00:21:48,542 {\an1}I'm like, hey, babe. I'm going to buy this. 685 00:21:48,667 --> 00:21:50,417 {\an1}I'm going to put this up. He's like, sure. 686 00:21:50,542 --> 00:21:52,458 {\an1}Like, do--like, he's giving me full range. 687 00:21:52,583 --> 00:21:54,333 {\an1}- What changes have you made? 688 00:21:54,458 --> 00:21:56,750 {\an1}- I mean, I'm just trying to brighten it up a little bit. 689 00:21:56,875 --> 00:21:58,917 {\an1}- Yeah, like, lots of plants. A lot more plants. 690 00:21:59,042 --> 00:22:03,667 {\an1}- Plants and artwork and photos of us and just more homey. 691 00:22:03,750 --> 00:22:05,667 {\an1}- Let's go all the way back to the beginning, all right? 692 00:22:05,750 --> 00:22:08,042 {\an1}You know, Lindy, at first, we were concerned 693 00:22:08,208 --> 00:22:11,667 {\an1}that Miguel might have been a little too nerdy for you. 694 00:22:11,792 --> 00:22:15,583 {\an1}- So this is basically set in a small rural town 695 00:22:15,708 --> 00:22:18,167 {\an1}called Mastoria. 696 00:22:18,250 --> 00:22:21,250 {\an1}So let's say you approach the tavern. 697 00:22:21,375 --> 00:22:23,708 {\an1}It's called the Big Swig tavern. 698 00:22:23,875 --> 00:22:25,375 {\an1}- OK. 699 00:22:25,500 --> 00:22:28,625 {\an1}- But there's a dwarf that seems to be the owner. 700 00:22:28,750 --> 00:22:30,792 {\an1}When he greets you, he's like, oy, lass. 701 00:22:30,917 --> 00:22:33,250 {\an1}Name is Gristle. What can I do for you? 702 00:22:33,375 --> 00:22:35,958 {\an1}♪ ♪ 703 00:22:36,042 --> 00:22:37,833 {\an1}- I mean, no disrespect to that. 704 00:22:37,917 --> 00:22:39,375 {\an1}- None taken. 705 00:22:39,542 --> 00:22:41,083 {\an1}- The Dungeons and Dragons thing and all that-- 706 00:22:41,208 --> 00:22:42,667 {\an1}was there concern or pause 707 00:22:42,792 --> 00:22:44,167 {\an1}as you learn that part of his life? 708 00:22:44,292 --> 00:22:45,833 {\an1}- Actually, I thought it was adorable. 709 00:22:45,958 --> 00:22:48,333 {\an1}I loved that part of his life, and yeah, we play actually, 710 00:22:48,458 --> 00:22:49,792 {\an1}like, weekly now. 711 00:22:49,917 --> 00:22:51,500 {\an1}Like, I've been-- - Wait, wait, wait. 712 00:22:51,625 --> 00:22:53,333 {\an1}So you're in it now. 713 00:22:53,458 --> 00:22:55,167 {\an1}You play all the time? - I play Dungeons and Dragons. 714 00:22:55,292 --> 00:22:56,333 {\an1}- She's good. She's really good at it too. 715 00:22:56,417 --> 00:22:58,333 {\an1}- It's really fun. - All right. 716 00:22:58,458 --> 00:23:00,083 {\an1}We got to talk about Couples Retreat. 717 00:23:00,208 --> 00:23:01,500 {\an1}- Yes. - Yeah. 718 00:23:01,625 --> 00:23:03,208 {\an1}- You guys were a little bit on the struggle bus 719 00:23:03,333 --> 00:23:05,292 {\an1}at Couples Retreat, OK? - Oh, I know. 720 00:23:05,417 --> 00:23:07,375 {\an1}- Let's take a look at how things unfolded 721 00:23:07,500 --> 00:23:10,333 {\an1}on the Couples Retreat. 722 00:23:10,500 --> 00:23:12,625 {\an1}- You kind of gaslighted me. 723 00:23:12,708 --> 00:23:14,000 {\an1}You don't talk to me like that. 724 00:23:14,125 --> 00:23:15,417 {\an1}Ever. 725 00:23:15,542 --> 00:23:18,250 {\an1}- I'm losing you. I'm losing you. 726 00:23:18,375 --> 00:23:19,417 {\an1}- All right, then. 727 00:23:19,542 --> 00:23:22,167 {\an1}You're losing me. 728 00:23:22,250 --> 00:23:23,333 {\an1}- I don't want to go down there. 729 00:23:23,417 --> 00:23:24,333 {\an1}I don't want to eat. 730 00:23:24,458 --> 00:23:25,833 {\an1}I just want to be alone. 731 00:23:26,000 --> 00:23:29,500 {\an1}I'm just like, I can't do anything right. 732 00:23:29,583 --> 00:23:32,625 {\an1}I'm trying so hard. 733 00:23:32,708 --> 00:23:34,167 {\an1}[sobbing] 734 00:23:34,250 --> 00:23:36,000 {\an1}I just need-- 735 00:23:36,125 --> 00:23:39,000 {\an1}[sobbing] 736 00:23:39,125 --> 00:23:40,833 {\an1}♪ ♪ 737 00:23:41,000 --> 00:23:43,292 {\an1}This weekend has been [bleep] awful for me. 738 00:23:43,375 --> 00:23:45,292 {\an1}I can't do it anymore. 739 00:23:45,417 --> 00:23:46,583 {\an1}I can't be the punching bag anymore. 740 00:23:46,708 --> 00:23:47,750 {\an1}- I'm very much in love with her. 741 00:23:47,875 --> 00:23:49,333 {\an1}I want to continue on with her. 742 00:23:49,458 --> 00:23:50,917 {\an1}But I don't know. 743 00:23:51,042 --> 00:23:52,500 {\an1}Sometimes, we like, oh, if we just love each other, 744 00:23:52,583 --> 00:23:53,917 {\an1}it'll all work out. 745 00:23:54,042 --> 00:23:55,625 {\an1}And then [bleep] reality just throws it in your face. 746 00:23:55,708 --> 00:23:56,917 {\an1}Like, no. 747 00:23:58,625 --> 00:24:00,458 {\an1}- Now, there's something I want to say 748 00:24:00,583 --> 00:24:01,750 {\an1}that you take away from that-- 749 00:24:01,875 --> 00:24:04,917 {\an1}number one, that you want this relationship. 750 00:24:05,042 --> 00:24:07,500 {\an1}But Miguel, that was a very different side of you. 751 00:24:07,667 --> 00:24:09,375 {\an1}What was going on? 752 00:24:09,500 --> 00:24:11,542 {\an1}- I mean, I've apologized profusely. 753 00:24:11,667 --> 00:24:13,917 {\an1}I was definitely in the wrong in terms of how 754 00:24:14,042 --> 00:24:15,958 {\an1}I approached many things. 755 00:24:16,042 --> 00:24:20,000 {\an1}I was just, like, emotionally, mentally, physically drained. 756 00:24:20,083 --> 00:24:21,500 {\an1}And being an introvert, I definitely need 757 00:24:21,667 --> 00:24:23,542 {\an1}those times to recharge. 758 00:24:23,667 --> 00:24:25,750 {\an1}And I was leaning on you a little bit 759 00:24:25,875 --> 00:24:30,792 {\an1}to kind of, like, recharge and have moments where I felt 760 00:24:30,875 --> 00:24:35,167 {\an1}kind of just, like, understood and loved, 761 00:24:35,250 --> 00:24:36,833 {\an1}I guess, to be honest. - Mm-hmm. 762 00:24:37,000 --> 00:24:38,417 {\an1}- I mean, what we have to remember 763 00:24:38,542 --> 00:24:41,500 {\an1}is we were still so new, like, 764 00:24:41,625 --> 00:24:43,000 {\an1}getting to know each other. 765 00:24:43,125 --> 00:24:46,333 {\an1}And so it's not abnormal to have these disconnects 766 00:24:46,458 --> 00:24:47,958 {\an1}and conversations. 767 00:24:48,042 --> 00:24:50,667 {\an1}And it's a never ending getting to know each other 768 00:24:50,792 --> 00:24:51,625 {\an1}and understanding each other. 769 00:24:51,750 --> 00:24:52,958 {\an1}And that's what marriage is. 770 00:24:53,042 --> 00:24:54,500 {\an1}- Well, then let me ask you about this. 771 00:24:54,625 --> 00:24:56,083 {\an1}You said these things about Lindy bothered you-- 772 00:24:56,208 --> 00:24:58,250 {\an1}her negativity, her being easily distracted, 773 00:24:58,375 --> 00:25:00,792 {\an1}and her cutting you off. - Yeah. 774 00:25:00,917 --> 00:25:02,792 {\an1}- Have you worked through those now? 775 00:25:02,917 --> 00:25:05,417 {\an1}- Yeah, I'm doing a better job of not taking it 776 00:25:05,542 --> 00:25:08,750 {\an1}so personally, accepting you for who you are, 777 00:25:08,875 --> 00:25:10,708 {\an1}and understanding, like, that's part of the package. 778 00:25:10,833 --> 00:25:14,125 {\an1}And if I want you, then I want it all. 779 00:25:14,208 --> 00:25:15,500 {\an1}And I want to be there with you. 780 00:25:15,583 --> 00:25:16,833 {\an1}I want you to feel supported. 781 00:25:16,917 --> 00:25:18,583 {\an1}But then we've also talked about, 782 00:25:18,708 --> 00:25:20,167 {\an1}like, OK, that's enough. 783 00:25:20,292 --> 00:25:21,958 {\an1}Like, let's not dwell too much in negativity. 784 00:25:22,042 --> 00:25:23,875 {\an1}Let's try to focus on the positives now. 785 00:25:24,000 --> 00:25:26,792 {\an1}- Lindy, have you continued to improve on the things 786 00:25:26,917 --> 00:25:29,458 {\an1}that Miguel was talking about? 787 00:25:29,583 --> 00:25:31,750 {\an1}- Yes, but those are, you know, more surface level 788 00:25:31,875 --> 00:25:33,417 {\an1}in our relationship. - Yeah. 789 00:25:33,542 --> 00:25:35,417 {\an1}- I personally have been, like, you know, 790 00:25:35,542 --> 00:25:37,875 {\an1}just on a new discovery of, like, 791 00:25:38,000 --> 00:25:40,708 {\an1}growth and vulnerability and self-worth 792 00:25:40,833 --> 00:25:43,000 {\an1}and being more myself. 793 00:25:43,167 --> 00:25:46,417 {\an1}And outside of our marriage, like, I'm just personally, 794 00:25:46,542 --> 00:25:48,833 {\an1}like, evolving as a human, which I think 795 00:25:48,917 --> 00:25:50,708 {\an1}is helping our marriage in general. 796 00:25:50,833 --> 00:25:52,000 {\an1}- Mm-hmm. 797 00:25:52,125 --> 00:25:54,583 {\an1}By the way, have you ever had that moment? 798 00:25:54,708 --> 00:25:56,750 {\an1}Because you always said Miguel never wants 799 00:25:56,875 --> 00:25:58,333 {\an1}to see me when I'm really mad. 800 00:25:58,458 --> 00:25:59,792 {\an1}- Oh, yeah. 801 00:25:59,875 --> 00:26:01,250 {\an1}- Have you had that really mad moment? 802 00:26:01,375 --> 00:26:02,292 {\an1}- I think so. - I think so. 803 00:26:02,375 --> 00:26:03,292 {\an1}- OK. - Got to know! 804 00:26:03,375 --> 00:26:04,792 {\an1}- Oh yeah, it's happened. 805 00:26:04,917 --> 00:26:06,000 {\an1}- I always get surprised, though, because I always say, 806 00:26:06,125 --> 00:26:07,542 {\an1}like, "I think so," and she's like, "Oh no, 807 00:26:07,667 --> 00:26:09,333 {\an1}you haven't seen it yet." I'm like, oh. 808 00:26:09,458 --> 00:26:12,000 {\an1}- I think he's felt it because I'm very, like, visceral. 809 00:26:12,083 --> 00:26:14,542 {\an1}My energy--anyone can feel it from a mile away. 810 00:26:14,667 --> 00:26:16,667 {\an1}So he's seen it. 811 00:26:16,750 --> 00:26:18,917 {\an1}We've had some throwdowns. So-- 812 00:26:19,042 --> 00:26:20,708 {\an1}- I think you did a good job of also, 813 00:26:20,833 --> 00:26:23,625 {\an1}like taking me through your stages of evolution. 814 00:26:23,708 --> 00:26:25,333 {\an1}- Like, the first one, 815 00:26:25,458 --> 00:26:26,833 {\an1}I'm like, I'm mad. - Right. 816 00:26:26,958 --> 00:26:27,917 {\an1}- The second one, I'm like-- [deeper] I'm mad. 817 00:26:28,042 --> 00:26:29,167 {\an1}And then I'm like, raaah! So-- 818 00:26:29,292 --> 00:26:30,333 {\an1}- So yeah. 819 00:26:30,458 --> 00:26:31,917 {\an1}- So he's slowly eased up-- 820 00:26:32,042 --> 00:26:33,333 {\an1}- She's like-- yeah, she's warned me 821 00:26:33,458 --> 00:26:34,833 {\an1}every step of the way. 822 00:26:34,958 --> 00:26:36,042 {\an1}And so when it finally happened, I was kind of like, 823 00:26:36,167 --> 00:26:37,333 {\an1}oh, there it is. I see. 824 00:26:37,458 --> 00:26:39,167 {\an1}- Yeah. - I hear you saying that. 825 00:26:39,333 --> 00:26:41,083 {\an1}But for every married person, there is a time where you're 826 00:26:41,208 --> 00:26:43,208 {\an1}with your spouse, and they are going in, 827 00:26:43,333 --> 00:26:45,167 {\an1}and you're like, whoa. - Yeah. 828 00:26:45,333 --> 00:26:46,750 {\an1}- I just got to make it to the door right now. 829 00:26:46,875 --> 00:26:48,333 {\an1}- Definitely, yeah. 830 00:26:48,458 --> 00:26:49,500 {\an1}And that's what I'm working through 831 00:26:49,583 --> 00:26:50,750 {\an1}is like, I don't want to be angry. 832 00:26:50,875 --> 00:26:52,458 {\an1}I don't want to be reactive. 833 00:26:52,542 --> 00:26:53,625 {\an1}Like, no one wants to live life like that. 834 00:26:53,750 --> 00:26:55,375 {\an1}- Right. - It's exhausting. 835 00:26:55,542 --> 00:26:57,625 {\an1}And I think that this process definitely 836 00:26:57,750 --> 00:26:59,833 {\an1}brought up so much for me. 837 00:26:59,958 --> 00:27:01,167 {\an1}So that's--yeah, I want to work through 838 00:27:01,292 --> 00:27:02,625 {\an1}all that stuff. - OK. 839 00:27:02,750 --> 00:27:03,750 {\an1}Miguel, I want to talk about another thing. 840 00:27:03,875 --> 00:27:05,167 {\an1}Not picking on you. 841 00:27:05,333 --> 00:27:06,417 {\an1}I just want to talk about another thing because-- 842 00:27:06,542 --> 00:27:07,750 {\an1}and I will say this. 843 00:27:07,875 --> 00:27:09,833 {\an1}I've had this same discussion. - Yeah. 844 00:27:09,958 --> 00:27:10,958 {\an1}- It was a long discussion in my house. 845 00:27:11,042 --> 00:27:13,417 {\an1}- OK. - The last name thing. 846 00:27:13,542 --> 00:27:15,750 {\an1}♪ ♪ 847 00:27:15,875 --> 00:27:18,917 {\an1}You wanted Lindy to take your last name. 848 00:27:19,042 --> 00:27:21,000 {\an1}What can you say about that now, 849 00:27:21,125 --> 00:27:25,792 {\an1}and how do you feel about that now? 850 00:27:25,875 --> 00:27:28,625 {\an1}- It is something important to me. 851 00:27:28,708 --> 00:27:31,458 {\an1}It's like, your wife takes your last name. 852 00:27:31,583 --> 00:27:34,458 {\an1}♪ ♪ 853 00:27:34,542 --> 00:27:36,250 {\an1}- Lindy, how do you feel about it? 854 00:27:36,375 --> 00:27:38,417 {\an1}[dramatic music] 855 00:27:38,542 --> 00:27:39,917 {\an1}♪ ♪ 856 00:27:40,042 --> 00:27:41,375 {\an1}- So... 857 00:27:41,500 --> 00:27:44,875 {\an1}♪ ♪ 858 00:27:48,708 --> 00:27:49,625 {\an1}- Miguel, I want to talk about another thing. 859 00:27:49,708 --> 00:27:52,500 {\an1}You wanted Lindy to take your last name. 860 00:27:52,583 --> 00:27:55,958 {\an1}[tense music] 861 00:27:56,042 --> 00:27:58,583 {\an1}- It is something important to me. 862 00:27:58,708 --> 00:28:00,000 {\an1}I don't know if it's an ego thing, 863 00:28:00,125 --> 00:28:02,000 {\an1}if it's, like, a macho thing. 864 00:28:02,125 --> 00:28:06,333 {\an1}But in my mind, it's like, your wife takes your last name. 865 00:28:06,417 --> 00:28:07,833 {\an1}- I will tell you this. - Yeah. 866 00:28:07,917 --> 00:28:09,625 {\an1}- Same way. It's ego, and it's macho. 867 00:28:09,750 --> 00:28:11,000 {\an1}- Yeah. 868 00:28:11,125 --> 00:28:13,458 {\an1}- Lindy, how do you feel about it? 869 00:28:13,583 --> 00:28:18,125 {\an1}- So I have hyphenated my name now. 870 00:28:18,250 --> 00:28:19,708 {\an1}So-- - You have. 871 00:28:19,875 --> 00:28:23,292 {\an1}- --I am-- yeah, I am Lindy Elloway-Santiago, 872 00:28:23,375 --> 00:28:26,125 {\an1}proudly, happily. 873 00:28:26,250 --> 00:28:27,458 {\an1}It was my decision. 874 00:28:27,542 --> 00:28:28,667 {\an1}Like, Miguel dropped it. 875 00:28:28,833 --> 00:28:30,500 {\an1}We never discussed it again. 876 00:28:30,583 --> 00:28:33,042 {\an1}Then one day, I surprised him with my Social Security Card. 877 00:28:33,167 --> 00:28:36,250 {\an1}And the hyphenation just felt like a perfect combination. 878 00:28:36,375 --> 00:28:38,833 {\an1}So I just felt like it was a beautiful compromise 879 00:28:38,958 --> 00:28:41,042 {\an1}that we were able to figure this out 880 00:28:41,167 --> 00:28:42,833 {\an1}and both feel happy and heard. 881 00:28:43,000 --> 00:28:45,333 {\an1}And I'm very proud to be Santiago. 882 00:28:45,417 --> 00:28:47,083 {\an1}Like-- because I love him. 883 00:28:47,208 --> 00:28:49,000 {\an1}Like, at that point, I wasn't-- 884 00:28:49,125 --> 00:28:50,375 {\an1}I wasn't ready. 885 00:28:50,500 --> 00:28:51,625 {\an1}Like, I didn't feel secure enough. 886 00:28:51,708 --> 00:28:53,542 {\an1}But like, we've been consistent. 887 00:28:53,667 --> 00:28:56,875 {\an1}We're rock solid, and I feel so confident being your wife. 888 00:28:57,042 --> 00:28:58,833 {\an1}So it was an easy decision for me when I was 889 00:28:58,917 --> 00:29:00,917 {\an1}ready to take your last name. 890 00:29:01,042 --> 00:29:03,083 {\an1}- All right, but it seems like it's real progress, though-- 891 00:29:03,208 --> 00:29:04,917 {\an1}that you've gotten that far. - Yeah. 892 00:29:05,042 --> 00:29:07,333 {\an1}- And you guys seem really happy. 893 00:29:07,500 --> 00:29:08,833 {\an1}- Yeah. 894 00:29:08,958 --> 00:29:12,125 {\an1}- OK, you guys welcomed in a child-- 895 00:29:12,208 --> 00:29:14,333 {\an1}- Oh no. - --into your relationship. 896 00:29:14,458 --> 00:29:16,167 {\an1}- Is he here? Can I see him? - A baby-like doll. 897 00:29:16,250 --> 00:29:17,667 {\an1}- No, Please. - No, no. He's not coming out. 898 00:29:17,792 --> 00:29:19,000 {\an1}I promise. I promise. - I was hoping-- 899 00:29:19,125 --> 00:29:22,042 {\an1}- Migindy Heather Elloway-Santiago is not here. 900 00:29:22,208 --> 00:29:24,083 {\an1}Let's take a look at some of the challenges-- 901 00:29:24,208 --> 00:29:25,583 {\an1}- Oh, no. - --you guys faced 902 00:29:25,708 --> 00:29:28,167 {\an1}when Migindy came into your life 903 00:29:28,250 --> 00:29:30,875 {\an1}because Miguel, you were up for the challenge. 904 00:29:31,000 --> 00:29:32,875 {\an1}Lindy, not so thrilled. 905 00:29:33,000 --> 00:29:35,333 {\an1}In this clip, you were both quite eager 906 00:29:35,417 --> 00:29:38,167 {\an1}to get rid of the little guy when the time ended. 907 00:29:38,292 --> 00:29:39,833 {\an1}Check this out. 908 00:29:40,000 --> 00:29:42,708 {\an1}[baby crying] - Oh, God! 909 00:29:42,875 --> 00:29:44,500 {\an1}Oh! - [inaudible] 910 00:29:44,583 --> 00:29:46,125 {\an1}- Try the rocking next. 911 00:29:46,208 --> 00:29:47,458 {\an1}Or burping? 912 00:29:47,583 --> 00:29:48,917 {\an1}♪ ♪ 913 00:29:49,042 --> 00:29:51,125 {\an1}OK, now try rocking it. 914 00:29:51,208 --> 00:29:52,750 {\an1}[beeping] - Hey, little buddy. 915 00:29:52,875 --> 00:29:55,125 {\an1}[baby crying] - The [bleep] is that? 916 00:29:55,208 --> 00:29:56,833 {\an1}♪ ♪ 917 00:29:56,917 --> 00:29:58,333 {\an1}[crying stops] 918 00:29:58,458 --> 00:29:59,708 {\an1}- There you go. 919 00:29:59,875 --> 00:30:02,125 {\an1}[baby crying] - Oh, my God, make it stop. 920 00:30:02,208 --> 00:30:03,333 {\an1}♪ ♪ 921 00:30:03,458 --> 00:30:05,000 {\an1}Jesus! 922 00:30:05,083 --> 00:30:08,000 {\an1}It was the toughest experience. 923 00:30:08,083 --> 00:30:09,000 {\an1}♪ ♪ 924 00:30:09,125 --> 00:30:10,458 {\an1}- Hi, little Migindy. 925 00:30:10,542 --> 00:30:12,000 {\an1}- You going to put a hat on him? 926 00:30:12,125 --> 00:30:14,750 {\an1}- It seems like our time is coming to a close. 927 00:30:14,875 --> 00:30:16,250 {\an1}- Aw! 928 00:30:16,375 --> 00:30:18,167 {\an1}- It's been real, but I's got to say 929 00:30:18,292 --> 00:30:19,917 {\an1}you's gots to go, little buddy. 930 00:30:20,042 --> 00:30:21,458 {\an1}- I loved seeing you interact with him. 931 00:30:21,583 --> 00:30:23,167 {\an1}It was so cute. 932 00:30:23,292 --> 00:30:26,792 {\an1}And you really did the brunt of the parenting. 933 00:30:26,875 --> 00:30:32,083 {\an1}OK, good luck in the cold, cruel world. 934 00:30:32,208 --> 00:30:34,917 {\an1}See you later. 935 00:30:35,042 --> 00:30:36,583 {\an1}Good [bleep] riddance, you demon. 936 00:30:36,708 --> 00:30:38,667 {\an1}[laughs] 937 00:30:38,750 --> 00:30:41,833 {\an1}- Oh. - OK, here's the thing. 938 00:30:41,958 --> 00:30:43,667 {\an1}Let's get this straight. - OK. 939 00:30:43,750 --> 00:30:47,542 {\an1}- I will adore and cherish our human baby. 940 00:30:47,667 --> 00:30:49,083 {\an1}- Sure. 941 00:30:49,208 --> 00:30:50,667 {\an1}So that was really the nice send off. 942 00:30:50,750 --> 00:30:51,708 {\an1}Really, if you could have, that baby would 943 00:30:51,833 --> 00:30:53,042 {\an1}have gone out the window. 944 00:30:53,208 --> 00:30:54,708 {\an1}- I would have literally football thrown it, 945 00:30:54,875 --> 00:30:56,000 {\an1}like, yards. 946 00:30:56,125 --> 00:30:58,042 {\an1}Like, it was tough. 947 00:30:58,167 --> 00:30:59,958 {\an1}I'm not going to lie. 948 00:31:00,042 --> 00:31:01,958 {\an1}But it was, I guess, a good insight to what it will 949 00:31:02,042 --> 00:31:03,167 {\an1}be like when we have real kids. 950 00:31:03,292 --> 00:31:04,750 {\an1}- That's what I was going to say. 951 00:31:04,875 --> 00:31:07,833 {\an1}7What was it like having that child? 952 00:31:07,958 --> 00:31:10,500 {\an1}- I know it was an inanimate little robot baby. 953 00:31:10,667 --> 00:31:12,208 {\an1}- Mm-hmm. 954 00:31:12,375 --> 00:31:14,333 {\an1}- But to me, it was symbolic of our future. 955 00:31:14,458 --> 00:31:18,333 {\an1}And I know we both want to have kids at some point. 956 00:31:18,458 --> 00:31:20,500 {\an1}So I just got into it with that mindset of, 957 00:31:20,625 --> 00:31:22,375 {\an1}you know, just seeing it as that. 958 00:31:22,500 --> 00:31:25,042 {\an1}- For me, it was really special to see Miguel 959 00:31:25,167 --> 00:31:27,083 {\an1}with the fake baby. 960 00:31:27,208 --> 00:31:28,917 {\an1}It was very sweet. It was very sweet. 961 00:31:29,042 --> 00:31:30,708 {\an1}- With the fake baby. 962 00:31:30,833 --> 00:31:33,667 {\an1}OK, so, kids in the future for you two? 963 00:31:33,792 --> 00:31:35,250 {\an1}When? How long? 964 00:31:35,375 --> 00:31:36,667 {\an1}What are you thinking? 965 00:31:36,750 --> 00:31:37,875 {\an1}- Yeah, so that, it kind of ties 966 00:31:38,042 --> 00:31:39,333 {\an1}into the housing timeline-- - Yeah. 967 00:31:39,458 --> 00:31:40,625 {\an1}- --because we want to get a house 968 00:31:40,750 --> 00:31:42,667 {\an1}first and then have a child. 969 00:31:42,792 --> 00:31:46,667 {\an1}So it's going to be maybe a year after we secure a home. 970 00:31:46,833 --> 00:31:48,167 {\an1}- Yeah. 971 00:31:48,292 --> 00:31:50,042 {\an1}- God, I love when people plan these things out. 972 00:31:50,167 --> 00:31:51,333 {\an1}And then we're going to do-- and we're going to do this. 973 00:31:51,417 --> 00:31:52,917 {\an1}And the next thing you know, you're 974 00:31:53,042 --> 00:31:54,250 {\an1}like, um, baby on the way. - Yeah. 975 00:31:54,375 --> 00:31:55,667 {\an1}- Baby on the way. - Baby on the way. 976 00:31:55,750 --> 00:31:56,708 {\an1}Right? Lindy, how about for you? 977 00:31:56,833 --> 00:31:58,250 {\an1}When are you ready? 978 00:31:58,375 --> 00:32:02,583 {\an1}- Yeah. I mean, honestly, like... 979 00:32:02,708 --> 00:32:05,542 {\an1}I'd be ready tonight. 980 00:32:05,708 --> 00:32:07,000 {\an1}[laughter] 981 00:32:07,167 --> 00:32:08,500 {\an1}- I sensed it. I knew it. 982 00:32:08,625 --> 00:32:09,792 {\an1}I could see it. 983 00:32:09,875 --> 00:32:11,167 {\an1}She's like, bro, let's go. 984 00:32:11,292 --> 00:32:12,583 {\an1}- I'm like, are we done here? Are we done here? 985 00:32:12,708 --> 00:32:14,417 {\an1}- Right. 986 00:32:14,542 --> 00:32:17,167 {\an1}Miguel, you looked at this as an eight week experiment. 987 00:32:17,292 --> 00:32:19,167 {\an1}- Is this just a two month experiment for you? 988 00:32:19,250 --> 00:32:20,667 {\an1}- Right. - Or, like, is this 989 00:32:20,750 --> 00:32:23,583 {\an1}a real marriage that you want to try to last forever? 990 00:32:23,708 --> 00:32:25,250 {\an1}- I don't know. 991 00:32:25,375 --> 00:32:27,292 {\an1}I want this to work, and I'm going to try everything I can. 992 00:32:27,375 --> 00:32:28,708 {\an1}- Yeah. 993 00:32:28,875 --> 00:32:30,542 {\an1}- But I don't know the person I'm marrying. 994 00:32:30,667 --> 00:32:32,875 {\an1}And so we shall see. 995 00:32:33,000 --> 00:32:34,333 {\an1}- You hit that over and over again. 996 00:32:34,500 --> 00:32:35,750 {\an1}This is an eight week experiment. 997 00:32:35,875 --> 00:32:37,333 {\an1}I'll see how it goes. 998 00:32:37,458 --> 00:32:40,333 {\an1}Lindy, you were very much like, I found my forever love. 999 00:32:40,500 --> 00:32:42,000 {\an1}- Yeah. 1000 00:32:42,125 --> 00:32:43,292 {\an1}- Now that we're on the other side of this 1001 00:32:43,375 --> 00:32:45,167 {\an1}and Decision Day has come and gone, 1002 00:32:45,250 --> 00:32:46,917 {\an1}how has your mindset changed? 1003 00:32:47,042 --> 00:32:48,708 {\an1}- It's a catch-22. 1004 00:32:48,875 --> 00:32:51,958 {\an1}Going into it again, I wish I wasn't so kind of callous 1005 00:32:52,042 --> 00:32:53,750 {\an1}in the way I expressed it. 1006 00:32:53,875 --> 00:32:57,500 {\an1}But I do appreciate that level of skepticism 1007 00:32:57,583 --> 00:33:00,500 {\an1}I had going into it and being just critical 1008 00:33:00,583 --> 00:33:02,333 {\an1}and more analytical. 1009 00:33:02,417 --> 00:33:06,000 {\an1}When I said yes, I wanted you to know that that was 1010 00:33:06,125 --> 00:33:08,667 {\an1}not just an, OK, sure, yeah. 1011 00:33:08,792 --> 00:33:10,083 {\an1}That was a yes. 1012 00:33:10,208 --> 00:33:11,833 {\an1}Like, let's make this-- let's do this. 1013 00:33:11,917 --> 00:33:13,792 {\an1}- Lindy, when did you really know? 1014 00:33:13,875 --> 00:33:17,500 {\an1}- I would say truly after prom. 1015 00:33:17,583 --> 00:33:19,208 {\an1}- I think that's the thing that's pissing me off-- 1016 00:33:19,333 --> 00:33:21,375 {\an1}that, like, kind of [bleep] me. 1017 00:33:21,500 --> 00:33:22,583 {\an1}- I thought you were [bleep] around with me. 1018 00:33:22,708 --> 00:33:24,417 {\an1}But then once I realized you were actually tired, 1019 00:33:24,542 --> 00:33:26,208 {\an1}I was not mad. 1020 00:33:26,375 --> 00:33:29,625 {\an1}How we resolved that and came out stronger after that, like, 1021 00:33:29,708 --> 00:33:33,000 {\an1}I felt really secure because it felt like that was 1022 00:33:33,125 --> 00:33:34,917 {\an1}such a tough point for us, 1023 00:33:35,042 --> 00:33:36,417 {\an1}and we were able to get past it. 1024 00:33:36,542 --> 00:33:37,750 {\an1}And I'm like, that's my person 'cause that's what life is 1025 00:33:37,875 --> 00:33:39,125 {\an1}and that's what marriage is. 1026 00:33:39,208 --> 00:33:41,083 {\an1}Tough point, get past it. Tough point, get past it. 1027 00:33:41,208 --> 00:33:45,625 {\an1}And I felt like that was truly our first real conflict, 1028 00:33:45,708 --> 00:33:47,542 {\an1}and we killed it. 1029 00:33:47,667 --> 00:33:49,583 {\an1}- When you guys resolved that, how did-- 1030 00:33:49,708 --> 00:33:51,375 {\an1}what did you see that-- 1031 00:33:51,500 --> 00:33:53,333 {\an1}because I'm still trying to understand. 1032 00:33:53,458 --> 00:33:56,125 {\an1}What was your part in that that you saw that you resolved? 1033 00:33:56,208 --> 00:33:58,625 {\an1}- It was understanding him, where he's coming from, 1034 00:33:58,750 --> 00:34:01,667 {\an1}and showing up for him when he is in a dark place. 1035 00:34:01,792 --> 00:34:04,000 {\an1}And I know he would do the same for me going forward. 1036 00:34:04,125 --> 00:34:06,500 {\an1}And I'm better equipped when it happens again 1037 00:34:06,625 --> 00:34:08,167 {\an1}if it happens again. 1038 00:34:08,292 --> 00:34:10,167 {\an1}- I think that you two, everybody's been rooting 1039 00:34:10,250 --> 00:34:12,000 {\an1}for you two since day one. 1040 00:34:12,125 --> 00:34:13,958 {\an1}And I think that as your love story developed, 1041 00:34:14,042 --> 00:34:16,958 {\an1}people were more so excited and invested 1042 00:34:17,083 --> 00:34:19,375 {\an1}and excited to see you guys happy. 1043 00:34:19,500 --> 00:34:21,375 {\an1}It seems like everything is great. 1044 00:34:21,542 --> 00:34:22,833 {\an1}Miguel and Lindy, thanks so much for hanging out with us. 1045 00:34:22,958 --> 00:34:23,958 {\an1}- Thank you. - It is great. 1046 00:34:24,042 --> 00:34:25,333 {\an1}And it's great to get the update 1047 00:34:25,458 --> 00:34:27,167 {\an1}on how everything's going and that it's smooth. 1048 00:34:27,292 --> 00:34:33,792 {\an1}And no Migindy yet, but I bet you it's coming. 1049 00:34:33,917 --> 00:34:35,125 {\an1}This next couple headed to the stage 1050 00:34:35,208 --> 00:34:37,333 {\an1}might be one of the greatest matches of all time. 1051 00:34:37,500 --> 00:34:39,292 {\an1}No, for real. I really hope this works. 1052 00:34:39,375 --> 00:34:41,333 {\an1}Let's find out-- Stacia and Nate. 1053 00:34:41,458 --> 00:34:43,000 {\an1}Come on out! 1054 00:34:43,083 --> 00:34:45,000 {\an1}- Hello! 1055 00:34:45,125 --> 00:34:46,625 {\an1}- Fancy, fancy, fancy! 1056 00:34:46,708 --> 00:34:47,875 {\an1}Welcome back. 1057 00:34:48,000 --> 00:34:49,083 {\an1}How are you doing? - I'm doing well. 1058 00:34:49,208 --> 00:34:51,458 {\an1}[upbeat music] 1059 00:34:51,542 --> 00:34:55,083 {\an1}- I feel like you two instantly connected. 1060 00:34:55,208 --> 00:34:57,750 {\an1}How was it when you saw-- you looked down there, 1061 00:34:57,875 --> 00:34:59,208 {\an1}and you saw your wife. 1062 00:34:59,333 --> 00:35:01,208 {\an1}How was it for you, Nate? 1063 00:35:01,375 --> 00:35:03,000 {\an1}- Just instant attraction. 1064 00:35:03,167 --> 00:35:05,125 {\an1}She carries herself very well. 1065 00:35:05,208 --> 00:35:08,333 {\an1}So you know, I was just very impressed with everything. 1066 00:35:08,500 --> 00:35:12,917 {\an1}- ♪ The way you make me feel, I'm hoping this is real ♪ 1067 00:35:13,042 --> 00:35:14,667 {\an1}- There we go. 1068 00:35:14,792 --> 00:35:17,333 {\an1}That's what I'm talking about. 1069 00:35:17,417 --> 00:35:19,167 {\an1}- How about for you, Stacia? 1070 00:35:19,250 --> 00:35:20,958 {\an1}- For me, I was terrified. 1071 00:35:21,042 --> 00:35:22,667 {\an1}I literally walked down the aisle. 1072 00:35:22,792 --> 00:35:24,417 {\an1}I didn't want to pull my head up or anything. 1073 00:35:24,542 --> 00:35:26,167 {\an1}But I didn't hear any of my family or friends 1074 00:35:26,292 --> 00:35:27,667 {\an1}making the bird call to run. 1075 00:35:27,792 --> 00:35:29,292 {\an1}So I was like, OK. 1076 00:35:29,375 --> 00:35:30,792 {\an1}- Oh, were you looking out to them like, 1077 00:35:30,917 --> 00:35:31,875 {\an1}y'all, let me know, OK? 1078 00:35:32,000 --> 00:35:33,417 {\an1}- I was like listening. 1079 00:35:33,542 --> 00:35:35,417 {\an1}Like, nobody's giving me the signal to run. 1080 00:35:35,542 --> 00:35:37,917 {\an1}- Oh, so you had a special signal just in case. 1081 00:35:38,042 --> 00:35:39,292 {\an1}Don't go through the door. 1082 00:35:39,417 --> 00:35:40,875 {\an1}- Yeah, if I heard that "ca-caw." 1083 00:35:41,042 --> 00:35:42,208 {\an1}- Yeah, she was really nervous. - Yeah? 1084 00:35:42,333 --> 00:35:43,875 {\an1}- Yeah. I could tell. 1085 00:35:44,042 --> 00:35:45,583 {\an1}- All right, let's not even mess around. 1086 00:35:45,708 --> 00:35:46,875 {\an1}Let's let the world know. 1087 00:35:47,000 --> 00:35:48,625 {\an1}Are y'all still together? 1088 00:35:48,708 --> 00:35:51,500 {\an1}[tense music] 1089 00:35:51,667 --> 00:35:53,708 {\an1}♪ ♪ 1090 00:35:53,833 --> 00:35:55,250 {\an1}- Yes, we are still together. 1091 00:35:55,375 --> 00:35:57,000 {\an1}- You're still together? 1092 00:35:57,083 --> 00:35:58,500 {\an1}- Still together, still married, everything. 1093 00:35:58,667 --> 00:36:00,875 {\an1}Yes. - Are you guys living together? 1094 00:36:01,000 --> 00:36:03,083 {\an1}Have you moved in? 1095 00:36:03,208 --> 00:36:04,833 {\an1}You have? - Mm-hmm. 1096 00:36:04,958 --> 00:36:06,250 {\an1}[music winds down] - Uh-oh. 1097 00:36:06,375 --> 00:36:08,458 {\an1}Why'd your wife shake her head? 1098 00:36:08,583 --> 00:36:11,000 {\an1}- I mean, to be honest, we're still doing 1099 00:36:11,083 --> 00:36:12,625 {\an1}the back and forth. 1100 00:36:12,708 --> 00:36:14,333 {\an1}- But I did move in. - Yeah, we're not split up. 1101 00:36:14,500 --> 00:36:15,833 {\an1}We're not living in two different homes. 1102 00:36:15,917 --> 00:36:18,292 {\an1}We just do a few weeks in one place 1103 00:36:18,375 --> 00:36:19,500 {\an1}and a few weeks in the other place 1104 00:36:19,625 --> 00:36:21,292 {\an1}until he kind of gets comfortable. 1105 00:36:21,375 --> 00:36:23,208 {\an1}- Yeah, because I still have my lease at my apartment. 1106 00:36:23,333 --> 00:36:26,667 {\an1}So I have to be there until the end of my lease. 1107 00:36:26,792 --> 00:36:28,917 {\an1}- OK, when is your lease up? 1108 00:36:29,042 --> 00:36:31,917 {\an1}- So I have about, like, eight more months. 1109 00:36:32,042 --> 00:36:33,625 {\an1}Yeah. - Wait a minute. 1110 00:36:33,708 --> 00:36:36,625 {\an1}Y'all are going to go back and forth for eight months? 1111 00:36:36,708 --> 00:36:39,667 {\an1}- Well, I think it's healthy for us because we-- 1112 00:36:39,792 --> 00:36:41,458 {\an1}we make our own rules now. 1113 00:36:41,542 --> 00:36:44,875 {\an1}So instead of us moving in together-- 1114 00:36:45,000 --> 00:36:47,042 {\an1}[laughter] Like, right away-- 1115 00:36:47,167 --> 00:36:49,167 {\an1}- I mean, I'm kind of listing. I'm kind of not. 1116 00:36:49,250 --> 00:36:51,292 {\an1}I feel like it kind of going like, "wah, wah, wah." 1117 00:36:51,417 --> 00:36:53,125 {\an1}Because I'm like, what are you talking about? 1118 00:36:53,208 --> 00:36:55,000 {\an1}Is there a concern about moving in her house? 1119 00:36:55,083 --> 00:36:58,083 {\an1}- I feel a little bit more uncomfortable 1120 00:36:58,208 --> 00:37:00,667 {\an1}because I'm outside of my comfort zone. 1121 00:37:00,792 --> 00:37:02,292 {\an1}I live downtown San Diego. 1122 00:37:02,417 --> 00:37:04,250 {\an1}She lives in the suburbs. 1123 00:37:04,375 --> 00:37:06,792 {\an1}So it's just a small adjustment for me. 1124 00:37:06,875 --> 00:37:10,375 {\an1}And it's not like a dealbreaker or anything, but you know, 1125 00:37:10,542 --> 00:37:12,542 {\an1}it's getting more comfortable. 1126 00:37:12,708 --> 00:37:15,125 {\an1}But we agreed upon the going back and forth. 1127 00:37:15,208 --> 00:37:17,333 {\an1}Yeah, it was a compromise from the both of us. 1128 00:37:17,458 --> 00:37:19,000 {\an1}- Let that lease go. - Yeah. 1129 00:37:19,125 --> 00:37:20,000 {\an1}- Have you said that to him? 1130 00:37:20,125 --> 00:37:21,333 {\an1}Have you been like-- 1131 00:37:21,458 --> 00:37:23,333 {\an1}- I'm like, I'm trying to be, you know, 1132 00:37:23,417 --> 00:37:26,625 {\an1}very comforting and supportive, and I don't want to push. 1133 00:37:26,750 --> 00:37:28,417 {\an1}- Uh-huh. 1134 00:37:28,542 --> 00:37:30,625 {\an1}- I want him to be comfortable and do it on his own time. 1135 00:37:30,708 --> 00:37:32,875 {\an1}So as long as we're still together in the same home, 1136 00:37:33,000 --> 00:37:34,417 {\an1}I don't mind where we live. 1137 00:37:34,542 --> 00:37:36,000 {\an1}- OK. You two did have 1138 00:37:36,167 --> 00:37:38,375 {\an1}a great connection throughout. 1139 00:37:38,542 --> 00:37:41,042 {\an1}What was it that made you so comfortable with this woman? 1140 00:37:41,167 --> 00:37:43,458 {\an1}- You know, it sounds very cliché, 1141 00:37:43,542 --> 00:37:45,000 {\an1}but she's everything I asked for. 1142 00:37:45,125 --> 00:37:47,167 {\an1}She's nurturing. She's independent. 1143 00:37:47,250 --> 00:37:49,792 {\an1}She's responsible. 1144 00:37:49,875 --> 00:37:51,208 {\an1}Like, that's wifey material. 1145 00:37:51,333 --> 00:37:52,917 {\an1}You know what I mean? 1146 00:37:53,042 --> 00:37:56,833 {\an1}And for me to not be attracted to that would be crazy. 1147 00:37:56,917 --> 00:37:58,375 {\an1}- Yeah, it is a win for you. 1148 00:37:58,500 --> 00:38:00,917 {\an1}And then, you know, Stacia is a boss. 1149 00:38:01,042 --> 00:38:04,833 {\an1}But then you realize that you have maybe met your equal 1150 00:38:05,000 --> 00:38:06,000 {\an1}or met your true partner. 1151 00:38:06,125 --> 00:38:07,583 {\an1}How excited were you about that? 1152 00:38:07,708 --> 00:38:11,458 {\an1}- I was very excited because I was like, there's nobody. 1153 00:38:11,583 --> 00:38:13,250 {\an1}They're not going to find anybody for me. 1154 00:38:13,375 --> 00:38:15,833 {\an1}But when I met him and we had the instant chemistry, 1155 00:38:15,958 --> 00:38:17,417 {\an1}we had the same vision-- 1156 00:38:17,542 --> 00:38:19,125 {\an1}he has a lot of ambition. 1157 00:38:19,208 --> 00:38:20,750 {\an1}That's what I asked for. 1158 00:38:20,875 --> 00:38:23,000 {\an1}And I felt like I could connect to him. 1159 00:38:23,167 --> 00:38:24,833 {\an1}- You grilled him for a long time, and-- 1160 00:38:24,958 --> 00:38:26,250 {\an1}- Yeah. 1161 00:38:26,375 --> 00:38:27,583 {\an1}- --and I want you to watch this right now 1162 00:38:27,708 --> 00:38:29,708 {\an1}where you kind of went after him a little bit. 1163 00:38:29,833 --> 00:38:31,250 {\an1}Here we go. 1164 00:38:31,375 --> 00:38:33,333 {\an1}- I feel like I'm sharing, like, so much 1165 00:38:33,417 --> 00:38:36,042 {\an1}as far as, like, intimate details. 1166 00:38:36,167 --> 00:38:38,500 {\an1}You're here. - Mm-hmm. 1167 00:38:38,625 --> 00:38:41,167 {\an1}- And I want you to be here. - OK. 1168 00:38:41,292 --> 00:38:42,417 {\an1}- You know, I know, like, you go 1169 00:38:42,542 --> 00:38:44,000 {\an1}through the motions in the morning. 1170 00:38:44,167 --> 00:38:46,000 {\an1}Like, you, you know, give me a hug, 1171 00:38:46,125 --> 00:38:47,042 {\an1}and we cuddle and stuff like that. 1172 00:38:47,167 --> 00:38:49,000 {\an1}But I just--I feel like 1173 00:38:49,167 --> 00:38:50,708 {\an1}you don't have the burning desire. 1174 00:38:50,833 --> 00:38:52,208 {\an1}- Do you think I'm going through the motions 1175 00:38:52,375 --> 00:38:54,958 {\an1}when I have a [bleep] tattoo on my hand? 1176 00:38:55,042 --> 00:38:57,125 {\an1}- No, I think you're showing your level of commitment. 1177 00:38:57,208 --> 00:38:59,375 {\an1}- OK, then. I'm done. I'm done. 1178 00:38:59,500 --> 00:39:00,833 {\an1}I don't want to [bleep] talk about that [bleep] no more. 1179 00:39:01,000 --> 00:39:02,500 {\an1}♪ ♪ 1180 00:39:02,625 --> 00:39:03,750 {\an1}- Whew! 1181 00:39:03,875 --> 00:39:05,083 {\an1}Spicy. 1182 00:39:05,208 --> 00:39:06,625 {\an1}[chuckles] 1183 00:39:06,750 --> 00:39:08,917 {\an1}- Stacia, how do you feel watching that? 1184 00:39:09,042 --> 00:39:11,708 {\an1}- I mean, you know what? 1185 00:39:11,833 --> 00:39:15,167 {\an1}Going into this process, I wanted to be up front. 1186 00:39:15,250 --> 00:39:16,625 {\an1}I wanted to be transparent. 1187 00:39:16,750 --> 00:39:18,500 {\an1}I wanted to put all my cards on the table 1188 00:39:18,583 --> 00:39:20,875 {\an1}because I feel like if we're moving slowly, 1189 00:39:21,000 --> 00:39:24,208 {\an1}then we're not going to get the true essence 1190 00:39:24,333 --> 00:39:27,000 {\an1}of who this person is unless you're all in. 1191 00:39:27,083 --> 00:39:28,625 {\an1}What I was looking for was 1192 00:39:28,708 --> 00:39:30,333 {\an1}an emotional and mental connection. 1193 00:39:30,458 --> 00:39:33,208 {\an1}I can't get that if I'm given surface. 1194 00:39:33,375 --> 00:39:36,292 {\an1}And that's what I was trying to get from him. 1195 00:39:36,375 --> 00:39:37,667 {\an1}- But you're also intense. 1196 00:39:37,750 --> 00:39:39,167 {\an1}And I think we both-- - I am. 1197 00:39:39,333 --> 00:39:40,583 {\an1}- We both had different approaches. 1198 00:39:40,708 --> 00:39:42,417 {\an1}- Yeah. - She went into it 1199 00:39:42,542 --> 00:39:44,750 {\an1}with a mindset to get the answers, 1200 00:39:44,875 --> 00:39:47,500 {\an1}get everything done, and move forward. 1201 00:39:47,583 --> 00:39:49,208 {\an1}- Yeah. - And for me, 1202 00:39:49,333 --> 00:39:50,667 {\an1}I'm a little bit more relaxed. 1203 00:39:50,833 --> 00:39:53,333 {\an1}And then when I feel comfortable, I open up. 1204 00:39:53,417 --> 00:39:57,000 {\an1}So there was just, like, a little tension between us 1205 00:39:57,083 --> 00:39:59,917 {\an1}because sometimes, I'm a little bit slower 1206 00:40:00,042 --> 00:40:01,792 {\an1}to opening up emotionally. 1207 00:40:01,917 --> 00:40:04,958 {\an1}And she is a little bit more resilient with just 1208 00:40:05,083 --> 00:40:07,167 {\an1}having an open dialogue 1209 00:40:07,292 --> 00:40:08,958 {\an1}about insecurities and vulnerabilities. 1210 00:40:09,083 --> 00:40:11,417 {\an1}So you know, my wife needs a lot of attention, 1211 00:40:11,542 --> 00:40:14,583 {\an1}and I realize even though she's a boss 1212 00:40:14,708 --> 00:40:17,167 {\an1}and she's very independent, she needs attention, 1213 00:40:17,292 --> 00:40:18,833 {\an1}and I need to tend to that. 1214 00:40:18,958 --> 00:40:20,708 {\an1}She's my little baby. 1215 00:40:20,833 --> 00:40:22,625 {\an1}- What are you doing well as a couple together, 1216 00:40:22,708 --> 00:40:24,667 {\an1}and what are the challenges? 1217 00:40:24,750 --> 00:40:27,000 {\an1}- I think right now, we are communicating. 1218 00:40:27,167 --> 00:40:30,292 {\an1}Although we're going through hurdles in the marriage, 1219 00:40:30,375 --> 00:40:31,958 {\an1}we're still trying to get to know each other, 1220 00:40:32,042 --> 00:40:33,708 {\an1}we don't stop communicating. 1221 00:40:33,833 --> 00:40:36,833 {\an1}And that is probably the most important thing, I think. 1222 00:40:37,000 --> 00:40:38,667 {\an1}And that's really reassuring for me. 1223 00:40:38,750 --> 00:40:40,375 {\an1}So I think that's really something that we're 1224 00:40:40,542 --> 00:40:41,833 {\an1}doing really well with. 1225 00:40:41,958 --> 00:40:43,125 {\an1}We're compromising. 1226 00:40:43,250 --> 00:40:45,500 {\an1}We always work as a team. 1227 00:40:45,667 --> 00:40:47,250 {\an1}We're always together. 1228 00:40:47,375 --> 00:40:49,375 {\an1}I haven't gotten tired of him. 1229 00:40:49,542 --> 00:40:51,000 {\an1}So I think that that's really good. 1230 00:40:51,083 --> 00:40:54,000 {\an1}we continue to have hard discussions as well. 1231 00:40:54,083 --> 00:40:55,667 {\an1}Things that we can work on? 1232 00:40:55,792 --> 00:40:58,083 {\an1}I would say just opening up more, 1233 00:40:58,208 --> 00:40:59,708 {\an1}being more vulnerable, 1234 00:40:59,875 --> 00:41:02,500 {\an1}connecting on a more emotional, you know, depth. 1235 00:41:02,667 --> 00:41:04,375 {\an1}- You two are amazing. 1236 00:41:04,500 --> 00:41:06,417 {\an1}My EQ is going to be 1,000%. 1237 00:41:06,542 --> 00:41:09,833 {\an1}- Yeah, he's about here on the emotional spectrum, 1238 00:41:10,000 --> 00:41:11,333 {\an1}and I'm over here. 1239 00:41:11,458 --> 00:41:12,500 {\an1}And we're trying to find the middle ground 1240 00:41:12,625 --> 00:41:13,750 {\an1}because it's a lot for him. 1241 00:41:13,875 --> 00:41:15,875 {\an1}And I love a lot. So-- - Yeah. 1242 00:41:16,042 --> 00:41:17,500 {\an1}- We're just trying to find the medium. 1243 00:41:17,625 --> 00:41:19,583 {\an1}- Stacia, do you feel like you're getting more from Nate? 1244 00:41:21,542 --> 00:41:24,708 {\an1}[tense music] 1245 00:41:24,833 --> 00:41:27,333 {\an1}- I feel like I'm getting more than where we were. 1246 00:41:27,458 --> 00:41:28,500 {\an1}But I still feel-- 1247 00:41:28,583 --> 00:41:29,750 {\an1}- Are you getting what you want? 1248 00:41:29,875 --> 00:41:31,375 {\an1}- No. 1249 00:41:31,500 --> 00:41:34,125 {\an1}I want more emotional and mental stimulation. 1250 00:41:34,208 --> 00:41:35,833 {\an1}- All right. 1251 00:41:35,917 --> 00:41:38,667 {\an1}- But I also want to understand his point of view. 1252 00:41:38,792 --> 00:41:41,042 {\an1}You can't just shut down on me because then, 1253 00:41:41,167 --> 00:41:42,333 {\an1}I'm like, oh, hell no. 1254 00:41:42,458 --> 00:41:43,667 {\an1}It takes time for him. 1255 00:41:43,792 --> 00:41:45,417 {\an1}He has to feel comfortable. 1256 00:41:45,542 --> 00:41:47,125 {\an1}He has to feel like I'm not going to judge him. 1257 00:41:47,208 --> 00:41:49,583 {\an1}He has to feel like there's a safe space for him. 1258 00:41:49,708 --> 00:41:51,500 {\an1}And I'm like, man, I've been providing this safe space. 1259 00:41:51,625 --> 00:41:53,375 {\an1}Like, what the hell? Open up already. 1260 00:41:53,542 --> 00:41:54,708 {\an1}So I think it's a little bit hard for me. 1261 00:41:54,875 --> 00:41:56,167 {\an1}- Hard for a lot of men. You know that. 1262 00:41:56,250 --> 00:41:57,375 {\an1}It's hard for-- like, in general, 1263 00:41:57,542 --> 00:41:58,833 {\an1}men struggle with that. - Right. 1264 00:41:58,958 --> 00:42:01,250 {\an1}- So I think for me, I have to try and still be patient. 1265 00:42:01,375 --> 00:42:02,667 {\an1}It's still only, you know, 1266 00:42:02,792 --> 00:42:04,583 {\an1}months into this. - Yeah. 1267 00:42:04,708 --> 00:42:05,875 {\an1}- But then with him, I'm just like, give it to me 1268 00:42:06,042 --> 00:42:07,500 {\an1}on a consistent basis. Like, I want it. 1269 00:42:07,667 --> 00:42:09,042 {\an1}I want it. - Yeah, she demands it. 1270 00:42:09,167 --> 00:42:10,458 {\an1}She demands it. - And that's how I connect. 1271 00:42:10,542 --> 00:42:12,042 {\an1}She's, like, really, like, on it. 1272 00:42:12,167 --> 00:42:14,000 {\an1}So that's our battle that we have sometimes. 1273 00:42:14,125 --> 00:42:16,208 {\an1}- Stacia, have you been better at relinquishing control 1274 00:42:16,375 --> 00:42:19,208 {\an1}of things in your life? 1275 00:42:19,375 --> 00:42:20,625 {\an1}- Hell no. [laughter] 1276 00:42:20,708 --> 00:42:22,625 {\an1}Hell no. Hell no. 1277 00:42:22,750 --> 00:42:24,333 {\an1}I be like, look. I'd be like-- 1278 00:42:24,458 --> 00:42:25,792 {\an1}she's like, "I want you to step up." 1279 00:42:25,917 --> 00:42:27,667 {\an1}Like, I'm-- and I'm like, "OK, cool." 1280 00:42:27,792 --> 00:42:29,083 {\an1}Like, I'ma cook dinner tonight. 1281 00:42:29,208 --> 00:42:31,250 {\an1}And then, like, I start chopping up the onions, 1282 00:42:31,375 --> 00:42:32,750 {\an1}doing everything. 1283 00:42:32,875 --> 00:42:33,792 {\an1}And then next thing you know, she's, like, 1284 00:42:33,875 --> 00:42:35,542 {\an1}creeping up behind me like, OK. 1285 00:42:35,667 --> 00:42:36,875 {\an1}Let me help you out real quick. 1286 00:42:37,000 --> 00:42:38,583 {\an1}I'm like-- 1287 00:42:38,708 --> 00:42:40,458 {\an1}- So it's still a struggle. - It's a struggle. 1288 00:42:40,542 --> 00:42:42,000 {\an1}The struggle is real because it's like, 1289 00:42:42,083 --> 00:42:43,292 {\an1}no, don't do it that way. 1290 00:42:43,417 --> 00:42:44,333 {\an1}Like, oh, let me help you. 1291 00:42:44,458 --> 00:42:45,875 {\an1}I'll just finish it. 1292 00:42:46,000 --> 00:42:47,792 {\an1}But then I get mad when I'm like, why don't you 1293 00:42:47,917 --> 00:42:49,833 {\an1}do anything around the house? 1294 00:42:49,917 --> 00:42:51,292 {\an1}- She catches herself sometimes, and-- 1295 00:42:51,375 --> 00:42:52,458 {\an1}- I do. - I got to be like, 1296 00:42:52,542 --> 00:42:53,750 {\an1}yo, like, you want me to step up, 1297 00:42:53,875 --> 00:42:55,500 {\an1}but then you don't let me. 1298 00:42:55,583 --> 00:42:57,333 {\an1}- Yeah. - Sometimes. So-- 1299 00:42:57,458 --> 00:42:58,667 {\an1}- And you're trying. 1300 00:42:58,792 --> 00:43:00,083 {\an1}- I'm not trying. I'm doing. 1301 00:43:00,208 --> 00:43:01,500 {\an1}- I've told him. 1302 00:43:01,625 --> 00:43:02,917 {\an1}I'm like, you just have to, like, tell me, 1303 00:43:03,042 --> 00:43:04,750 {\an1}like, go sit your ass over there and let me do it. 1304 00:43:04,875 --> 00:43:07,333 {\an1}And I'll be like, OK. 1305 00:43:07,417 --> 00:43:08,750 {\an1}- Look, another thing that has been 1306 00:43:08,875 --> 00:43:10,167 {\an1}a little bit of a touchy subject 1307 00:43:10,292 --> 00:43:13,833 {\an1}with you too has been those three magic words. 1308 00:43:13,958 --> 00:43:16,000 {\an1}♪ ♪ 1309 00:43:16,125 --> 00:43:17,667 {\an1}I'm very curious. 1310 00:43:17,750 --> 00:43:21,375 {\an1}Nate, have you broken down and finally told Stacia 1311 00:43:21,500 --> 00:43:22,500 {\an1}what she wants to hear-- 1312 00:43:22,625 --> 00:43:24,333 {\an1}I love you? 1313 00:43:24,417 --> 00:43:26,500 {\an1}- Um... 1314 00:43:26,625 --> 00:43:31,250 {\an1}♪ ♪ 1315 00:43:31,375 --> 00:43:32,833 {\an1}- I'm very curious. 1316 00:43:32,917 --> 00:43:35,333 {\an1}Nate, have you broken down and finally told Stacia 1317 00:43:35,500 --> 00:43:38,167 {\an1}what she wants to hear-- I love you? 1318 00:43:38,292 --> 00:43:40,958 {\an1}- Um... 1319 00:43:41,042 --> 00:43:43,375 {\an1}[tense music] 1320 00:43:43,542 --> 00:43:44,708 {\an1}Absolutely. 1321 00:43:44,833 --> 00:43:46,667 {\an1}I say it every day almost now. 1322 00:43:46,792 --> 00:43:49,167 {\an1}My heart is opening up, and I'm loving you 1323 00:43:49,292 --> 00:43:50,667 {\an1}more every single day. 1324 00:43:50,792 --> 00:43:52,333 {\an1}- Really? - Mm-hmm. 1325 00:43:52,500 --> 00:43:54,333 {\an1}- Does that bring you ease? 1326 00:43:54,458 --> 00:43:56,375 {\an1}Pause? Happiness? 1327 00:43:56,500 --> 00:43:58,583 {\an1}- It does because I know it's big for him. 1328 00:43:58,708 --> 00:44:00,500 {\an1}I know that's something that he didn't want to say 1329 00:44:00,625 --> 00:44:01,708 {\an1}unless he really meant it. 1330 00:44:01,833 --> 00:44:03,208 {\an1}And I didn't want to push him. 1331 00:44:03,333 --> 00:44:05,333 {\an1}- Stacia, what did that mean to you to hear that? 1332 00:44:05,500 --> 00:44:06,708 {\an1}- Finally. 1333 00:44:06,833 --> 00:44:08,542 {\an1}- You were just like, finally? 1334 00:44:08,708 --> 00:44:10,417 {\an1}- I knew it already. - How did you know? 1335 00:44:10,542 --> 00:44:12,500 {\an1}- I felt it already. 1336 00:44:12,583 --> 00:44:13,833 {\an1}Because I could feel, like, his walls were 1337 00:44:13,958 --> 00:44:15,250 {\an1}starting to come down. 1338 00:44:15,375 --> 00:44:16,750 {\an1}I could feel like he would feel 1339 00:44:16,875 --> 00:44:18,917 {\an1}that little warm fuzzy feeling inside. 1340 00:44:19,042 --> 00:44:21,500 {\an1}He said he was falling in love with me on honeymoon. 1341 00:44:21,625 --> 00:44:23,375 {\an1}- My feelings for you are growing every day. 1342 00:44:23,500 --> 00:44:24,917 {\an1}- Mm-hmm. 1343 00:44:25,042 --> 00:44:26,500 {\an1}- I'm falling in love with you, 1344 00:44:26,583 --> 00:44:29,167 {\an1}and it's--it's real. 1345 00:44:29,292 --> 00:44:31,208 {\an1}- What? - Yeah. 1346 00:44:31,333 --> 00:44:32,458 {\an1}I mean, come on. 1347 00:44:32,542 --> 00:44:33,875 {\an1}Look at us. 1348 00:44:34,042 --> 00:44:37,333 {\an1}It's pretty-- pretty simple for me. 1349 00:44:37,458 --> 00:44:38,917 {\an1}- No, that's just excitement. 1350 00:44:39,042 --> 00:44:40,500 {\an1}♪ ♪ 1351 00:44:40,667 --> 00:44:41,792 {\an1}- I'm trying to give him a chance. 1352 00:44:41,875 --> 00:44:43,250 {\an1}- Wow. - I'm literally trying-- 1353 00:44:43,375 --> 00:44:44,917 {\an1}- Wow. - I'm honest. 1354 00:44:45,042 --> 00:44:46,708 {\an1}- Threw up a soft ball for you, 1355 00:44:46,875 --> 00:44:48,833 {\an1}and you're like, no. Hell no. 1356 00:44:48,958 --> 00:44:50,333 {\an1}- But I'm honest, though. - I'm trying. 1357 00:44:50,417 --> 00:44:51,667 {\an1}- "No, I wasn't falling in love." 1358 00:44:51,792 --> 00:44:54,125 {\an1}I mean, my God. - "That's just excitement." 1359 00:44:54,208 --> 00:44:55,667 {\an1}- I can't be in love with somebody in two weeks. 1360 00:44:55,792 --> 00:44:57,083 {\an1}- Then you know what? I don't know. 1361 00:44:57,208 --> 00:44:58,833 {\an1}Shoot, I don't know what it is, then. 1362 00:44:58,917 --> 00:44:59,792 {\an1}He's saying he falling in love with me. 1363 00:44:59,917 --> 00:45:01,250 {\an1}He telling me he love me. 1364 00:45:01,375 --> 00:45:02,583 {\an1}[bleep], I don't know. - No! 1365 00:45:02,708 --> 00:45:04,667 {\an1}- Who knows now? - No, I'm saying-- 1366 00:45:04,792 --> 00:45:06,375 {\an1}- You just took like three steps back. 1367 00:45:06,542 --> 00:45:09,042 {\an1}- At the honeymoon, how can I be in love with somebody? 1368 00:45:09,167 --> 00:45:11,958 {\an1}- You just said on that clip I'm falling in love with you. 1369 00:45:12,042 --> 00:45:14,333 {\an1}- I'm falling in love, but I'm not in love. 1370 00:45:14,500 --> 00:45:16,167 {\an1}- No one said he was in love. 1371 00:45:16,292 --> 00:45:18,458 {\an1}I just told him that you were falling in love with me-- 1372 00:45:18,542 --> 00:45:20,375 {\an1}- OK, OK. - --during honeymoon. 1373 00:45:20,542 --> 00:45:21,375 {\an1}- Right, right, yeah. 1374 00:45:21,500 --> 00:45:22,500 {\an1}OK. 1375 00:45:22,625 --> 00:45:24,333 {\an1}We on the same page. 1376 00:45:24,500 --> 00:45:26,667 {\an1}- OK. I-- 1377 00:45:26,792 --> 00:45:28,333 {\an1}Let's just--[exhales] 1378 00:45:28,458 --> 00:45:29,958 {\an1}[laughter] 1379 00:45:30,083 --> 00:45:31,167 {\an1}I'm here to help you. I'm telling you. 1380 00:45:31,250 --> 00:45:32,958 {\an1}- We both wanna help you. - I know. I know. 1381 00:45:33,042 --> 00:45:34,500 {\an1}- We wanna help you. - I know. I know 1382 00:45:34,625 --> 00:45:35,667 {\an1}- We here. We both here. - I know. I know. 1383 00:45:35,792 --> 00:45:37,125 {\an1}- We both helping you. 1384 00:45:37,208 --> 00:45:38,375 {\an1}- You know, one of the cool things 1385 00:45:38,500 --> 00:45:39,792 {\an1}that Nate did for Stacia is that 1386 00:45:39,875 --> 00:45:41,250 {\an1}he's great at taking photos. 1387 00:45:41,375 --> 00:45:44,667 {\an1}And one day, Sasha came home to a clever DIY surprise. 1388 00:45:44,833 --> 00:45:46,625 {\an1}Check out this never-before-seen clip 1389 00:45:46,708 --> 00:45:48,375 {\an1}that didn't make the show. 1390 00:45:51,292 --> 00:45:53,375 {\an1}- What is this? 1391 00:45:53,542 --> 00:45:57,667 {\an1}- DIY time. Let's go! 1392 00:45:57,833 --> 00:45:59,292 {\an1}- Thank you, babe! 1393 00:45:59,375 --> 00:46:01,333 {\an1}- We were talking about DIY, 1394 00:46:01,458 --> 00:46:04,750 {\an1}and I feel like this would be a great team effort 1395 00:46:04,875 --> 00:46:07,625 {\an1}to build a decorative wall. - Aw! 1396 00:46:07,708 --> 00:46:09,125 {\an1}- Like, a selfie wall. - OK. 1397 00:46:09,208 --> 00:46:11,292 {\an1}- You ready to build? - Let's go. 1398 00:46:11,375 --> 00:46:13,333 {\an1}- You know, before we go out or something, we can kind of just 1399 00:46:13,458 --> 00:46:16,042 {\an1}take pictures when we have friends and family over. 1400 00:46:16,167 --> 00:46:18,542 {\an1}I definitely think this is a perfect opportunity 1401 00:46:18,667 --> 00:46:20,625 {\an1}to show her that the love is growing, 1402 00:46:20,750 --> 00:46:22,667 {\an1}and I'm in this to win it. 1403 00:46:22,792 --> 00:46:24,167 {\an1}- Here, let me put some glue on there. 1404 00:46:24,292 --> 00:46:25,458 {\an1}- Ah! 1405 00:46:25,542 --> 00:46:27,125 {\an1}All right, hold on, hold on. 1406 00:46:27,208 --> 00:46:28,083 {\an1}How's that? 1407 00:46:28,208 --> 00:46:29,333 {\an1}- Well, we work together pretty-- 1408 00:46:29,500 --> 00:46:31,417 {\an1}- Yeah, we're a good team. What do you think? 1409 00:46:31,542 --> 00:46:32,833 {\an1}- I do think we are a good team. 1410 00:46:33,000 --> 00:46:34,875 {\an1}- Yeah, we are. [exhales] 1411 00:46:35,042 --> 00:46:37,000 {\an1}- How you feel? - Feel good. 1412 00:46:37,167 --> 00:46:38,833 {\an1}- I like it. 1413 00:46:38,917 --> 00:46:40,333 {\an1}- You want to give it a test run? 1414 00:46:40,458 --> 00:46:42,292 {\an1}- Yeah. 1415 00:46:42,375 --> 00:46:44,167 {\an1}Cheese! 1416 00:46:44,292 --> 00:46:45,500 {\an1}- Good. 1417 00:46:45,667 --> 00:46:47,333 {\an1}Aw! - That was fun. 1418 00:46:47,417 --> 00:46:49,500 {\an1}- Do you appreciate those kind of gestures from Nate? 1419 00:46:49,583 --> 00:46:50,708 {\an1}- Absolutely. 1420 00:46:50,833 --> 00:46:52,208 {\an1}Absolutely. 1421 00:46:52,333 --> 00:46:54,167 {\an1}- Does he continue to do stuff like that now? 1422 00:46:54,292 --> 00:46:55,375 {\an1}♪ ♪ 1423 00:46:55,500 --> 00:46:57,083 {\an1}- Yeah, he does. 1424 00:46:57,208 --> 00:46:59,125 {\an1}- Do you continue to do stuff-- you look at her. 1425 00:46:59,208 --> 00:47:00,625 {\an1}Like, do you continue-- - I don't know. 1426 00:47:00,708 --> 00:47:02,000 {\an1}Do I? 1427 00:47:02,167 --> 00:47:03,500 {\an1}- Yeah, you do little things for me. 1428 00:47:03,667 --> 00:47:05,833 {\an1}You buy me a card, flowers, 1429 00:47:05,958 --> 00:47:07,000 {\an1}pick up my coffee in the morning. 1430 00:47:07,125 --> 00:47:09,958 {\an1}- OK, this is the thing. 1431 00:47:10,042 --> 00:47:11,542 {\an1}There's always a "but." 1432 00:47:11,667 --> 00:47:15,500 {\an1}It's like, "yeah, but"... 1433 00:47:15,625 --> 00:47:18,625 {\an1}I took her-- I took you jet skiing, 1434 00:47:18,708 --> 00:47:20,167 {\an1}ax throwing, too, all that. 1435 00:47:20,333 --> 00:47:21,583 {\an1}- Yeah. 1436 00:47:21,708 --> 00:47:23,583 {\an1}I just said, yes, he does. - The tone. 1437 00:47:23,708 --> 00:47:25,125 {\an1}The tone is just like-- 1438 00:47:25,250 --> 00:47:27,417 {\an1}it's like, yeah, he does a couple of things 1439 00:47:27,542 --> 00:47:29,250 {\an1}here and there. You know? 1440 00:47:29,375 --> 00:47:30,708 {\an1}Mm-hmm. 1441 00:47:30,875 --> 00:47:32,000 {\an1}That's another challenge that we have. 1442 00:47:32,167 --> 00:47:33,667 {\an1}- You don't feel appreciated. 1443 00:47:33,750 --> 00:47:35,375 {\an1}- No, credit. 1444 00:47:35,500 --> 00:47:36,458 {\an1}She appreciates me. 1445 00:47:36,542 --> 00:47:37,917 {\an1}She don't give me credit. 1446 00:47:38,042 --> 00:47:39,750 {\an1}- Do you not can make the credit he needs? 1447 00:47:39,875 --> 00:47:42,417 {\an1}- I feel like I do give him the credit. 1448 00:47:42,542 --> 00:47:44,500 {\an1}I just feel like it's not in the way that he wants. 1449 00:47:44,625 --> 00:47:46,000 {\an1}- Mm-hmm. 1450 00:47:46,125 --> 00:47:48,000 {\an1}- He did book the jet ski and the axe throwing. 1451 00:47:48,167 --> 00:47:49,625 {\an1}Those are activities he wanted to do. 1452 00:47:49,708 --> 00:47:51,000 {\an1}Do I personally want to do them? 1453 00:47:51,125 --> 00:47:52,958 {\an1}I don't, but I compromise. 1454 00:47:53,083 --> 00:47:54,625 {\an1}And I do it with a smile. 1455 00:47:54,708 --> 00:47:56,167 {\an1}I have fun. 1456 00:47:56,292 --> 00:47:58,083 {\an1}I'm enjoying it because I'm enjoying the time with you. 1457 00:47:58,208 --> 00:47:59,375 {\an1}- I understand that, but it's the credit. 1458 00:47:59,542 --> 00:48:00,667 {\an1}That's it. Like, oh, yeah. 1459 00:48:00,792 --> 00:48:03,292 {\an1}Yes, he does do things for me. 1460 00:48:03,417 --> 00:48:04,708 {\an1}That's it. Moving on. 1461 00:48:04,833 --> 00:48:06,833 {\an1}Next question. You know what I mean? 1462 00:48:07,000 --> 00:48:08,833 {\an1}- OK. - That's what I'm looking for. 1463 00:48:08,917 --> 00:48:10,833 {\an1}That's the credit that I want. - I understand that. 1464 00:48:10,917 --> 00:48:14,333 {\an1}For me, if we have to eat seven days and you are cooking one, 1465 00:48:14,458 --> 00:48:16,333 {\an1}I'm going to be like, he does cook one day, 1466 00:48:16,417 --> 00:48:17,833 {\an1}but we have to eat seven. 1467 00:48:17,917 --> 00:48:20,167 {\an1}- Dang. - That's where I'm coming from. 1468 00:48:20,292 --> 00:48:21,542 {\an1}- OK. 1469 00:48:21,667 --> 00:48:24,708 {\an1}- This has been the theme of our whole relationship. 1470 00:48:24,833 --> 00:48:26,542 {\an1}I feel like she's a moving target. 1471 00:48:26,667 --> 00:48:31,000 {\an1}So the target can never be hit because there's always a but, 1472 00:48:31,125 --> 00:48:33,000 {\an1}or there's something missing, 1473 00:48:33,167 --> 00:48:35,000 {\an1}or I'm not getting deep enough. 1474 00:48:35,167 --> 00:48:37,625 {\an1}- Do you feel satisfied by your husband? 1475 00:48:37,750 --> 00:48:40,500 {\an1}[tense music] 1476 00:48:40,667 --> 00:48:43,000 {\an1}♪ ♪ 1477 00:48:43,125 --> 00:48:45,792 {\an1}- I do feel satisfied in moments. 1478 00:48:45,917 --> 00:48:47,958 {\an1}I just want it consistently. 1479 00:48:48,042 --> 00:48:50,000 {\an1}And like he said, I can be a moving target 1480 00:48:50,167 --> 00:48:51,583 {\an1}because I expect a lot. 1481 00:48:51,708 --> 00:48:53,167 {\an1}- You want more. 1482 00:48:53,333 --> 00:48:55,292 {\an1}You want her to affirm what you've already done. 1483 00:48:55,417 --> 00:48:56,833 {\an1}- Yeah. - Mm-hmm. 1484 00:48:56,958 --> 00:48:58,167 {\an1}- So you guys keep missing each other. 1485 00:48:58,292 --> 00:48:59,583 {\an1}- Yep. 1486 00:48:59,708 --> 00:49:01,833 {\an1}- How do you fix that? 1487 00:49:02,000 --> 00:49:04,417 {\an1}- Man, just continue fighting. 1488 00:49:04,542 --> 00:49:06,000 {\an1}- I got to just do better. 1489 00:49:06,125 --> 00:49:09,500 {\an1}I have to do better at identifying what he's 1490 00:49:09,625 --> 00:49:12,625 {\an1}trying to do, appreciate what he's trying to do, 1491 00:49:12,708 --> 00:49:14,833 {\an1}be verbal about it. - Mm-hmm. 1492 00:49:15,000 --> 00:49:16,333 {\an1}- Where are y'all on children? 1493 00:49:16,458 --> 00:49:17,958 {\an1}- Oof. 1494 00:49:18,042 --> 00:49:19,625 {\an1}- Because that was a big conversation. 1495 00:49:19,708 --> 00:49:21,083 {\an1}- You can drive on that one. 1496 00:49:21,208 --> 00:49:22,792 {\an1}- You want me to drive? - Yeah, you can drive. 1497 00:49:22,875 --> 00:49:24,667 {\an1}Go ahead. - Nowhere. 1498 00:49:24,792 --> 00:49:26,042 {\an1}We're-- - What's that mean? 1499 00:49:26,208 --> 00:49:29,167 {\an1}- We're still in the "maybe in a year." 1500 00:49:29,250 --> 00:49:31,375 {\an1}But I think for him, he wanted to kind of 1501 00:49:31,542 --> 00:49:33,042 {\an1}push it out, like, to-- 1502 00:49:33,167 --> 00:49:34,792 {\an1}- Where is it for you, though? - --two and a half. 1503 00:49:34,917 --> 00:49:35,833 {\an1}- Where do you want it? 1504 00:49:35,958 --> 00:49:36,750 {\an1}When do you want children? 1505 00:49:36,875 --> 00:49:38,417 {\an1}- Within a year. 1506 00:49:38,542 --> 00:49:40,958 {\an1}We're just missing the... 1507 00:49:41,083 --> 00:49:43,125 {\an1}husband being on board with it. 1508 00:49:43,250 --> 00:49:44,042 {\an1}- OK. 1509 00:49:44,208 --> 00:49:45,750 {\an1}And where are you, Nate? 1510 00:49:45,875 --> 00:49:48,375 {\an1}- I think it's the emotional connection 1511 00:49:48,542 --> 00:49:51,667 {\an1}that we have to work on, 1512 00:49:51,750 --> 00:49:53,208 {\an1}not me or her. 1513 00:49:53,333 --> 00:49:55,333 {\an1}It's we. You know what I mean? 1514 00:49:55,458 --> 00:49:59,083 {\an1}And I think once we feel more comfortable with each other, 1515 00:49:59,208 --> 00:50:00,417 {\an1}I think we'll be able to have 1516 00:50:00,542 --> 00:50:02,000 {\an1}that conversation moving forward. 1517 00:50:02,083 --> 00:50:04,667 {\an1}- I want to feel emotionally connected 1518 00:50:04,792 --> 00:50:06,375 {\an1}on a consistent basis. 1519 00:50:06,500 --> 00:50:08,208 {\an1}We have it. 1520 00:50:08,375 --> 00:50:09,917 {\an1}We have it. 1521 00:50:10,042 --> 00:50:13,333 {\an1}I just don't feel like it's on a consistent basis. 1522 00:50:13,458 --> 00:50:15,167 {\an1}- What does this mean? Like, you're saying, 1523 00:50:15,292 --> 00:50:17,000 {\an1}we got to get-- we got to be connected 1524 00:50:17,083 --> 00:50:18,667 {\an1}on a constant emotional basis. 1525 00:50:18,833 --> 00:50:20,708 {\an1}- Well, because I like to have, like, 1526 00:50:20,875 --> 00:50:22,500 {\an1}thought-provoking conversation. 1527 00:50:22,625 --> 00:50:27,667 {\an1}I like to have the ability to feel like I can 1528 00:50:27,792 --> 00:50:29,458 {\an1}tell him anything without judgment. 1529 00:50:29,542 --> 00:50:32,500 {\an1}I like to feel like I'm a part of a partnership, a team, 1530 00:50:32,625 --> 00:50:35,000 {\an1}where he's looking out for me, where he's putting me 1531 00:50:35,083 --> 00:50:37,458 {\an1}above all, where he's communicating, 1532 00:50:37,542 --> 00:50:39,042 {\an1}telling me where he's going, who he's going with, 1533 00:50:39,208 --> 00:50:40,250 {\an1}all of those things. 1534 00:50:40,375 --> 00:50:42,083 {\an1}And it's on a consistent basis. 1535 00:50:42,208 --> 00:50:44,583 {\an1}It's not sprinkled here and there. 1536 00:50:44,708 --> 00:50:47,083 {\an1}- We're all in mentally. 1537 00:50:47,208 --> 00:50:49,708 {\an1}But I think emotionally, there is a lot of work 1538 00:50:49,833 --> 00:50:51,167 {\an1}that we can actually work on. 1539 00:50:51,292 --> 00:50:53,375 {\an1}- There's nothing that can't be fixed. 1540 00:50:53,500 --> 00:50:56,167 {\an1}So as we're growing, as we're getting to know each other, 1541 00:50:56,250 --> 00:50:57,958 {\an1}I think we're always going to be, 1542 00:50:58,042 --> 00:50:59,333 {\an1}you know, put with the challenge. 1543 00:50:59,458 --> 00:51:01,000 {\an1}So it's just getting over each one. 1544 00:51:01,125 --> 00:51:02,500 {\an1}- Yeah. 1545 00:51:02,667 --> 00:51:05,083 {\an1}Stacia and Nate, I hope that in a couple of years, 1546 00:51:05,208 --> 00:51:07,292 {\an1}we hear about these babies, and you're growing a family, 1547 00:51:07,417 --> 00:51:08,917 {\an1}and everything is going well. 1548 00:51:09,042 --> 00:51:13,917 {\an1}But Thanks for being here. - Thank you. 1549 00:51:14,042 --> 00:51:15,458 {\an1}Next up, we have Krysten and Mitch. 1550 00:51:15,583 --> 00:51:17,500 {\an1}You know, at times, it seemed they were doing really well. 1551 00:51:17,667 --> 00:51:22,417 {\an1}But on Decision Day, things sadly came to an end, 1552 00:51:22,542 --> 00:51:24,083 {\an1}and they chose to go their separate ways. 1553 00:51:24,208 --> 00:51:25,333 {\an1}Let's bring them out right now-- 1554 00:51:25,500 --> 00:51:27,625 {\an1}Krysten and Mitch. Hello, hello, hello. 1555 00:51:27,708 --> 00:51:28,667 {\an1}- Hi. - How are you? 1556 00:51:28,792 --> 00:51:31,208 {\an1}♪ ♪ 1557 00:51:31,333 --> 00:51:32,833 {\an1}- Hey, Kevin. - Mitch. what's up, man? 1558 00:51:32,917 --> 00:51:34,625 {\an1}- Thanks for having us. 1559 00:51:34,750 --> 00:51:36,083 {\an1}- How are you guys doing? 1560 00:51:36,208 --> 00:51:37,250 {\an1}- We're good. - Yeah. 1561 00:51:37,375 --> 00:51:39,000 {\an1}- Excited to be here. 1562 00:51:39,083 --> 00:51:40,167 {\an1}- OK, well, let's go back to the beginning, OK? 1563 00:51:40,292 --> 00:51:41,625 {\an1}Let's just-- let's dive right in-- 1564 00:51:41,708 --> 00:51:43,000 {\an1}- Just going right in. - --back to the beginning. 1565 00:51:43,125 --> 00:51:44,417 {\an1}Mitch, the honeymoon. 1566 00:51:44,542 --> 00:51:46,500 {\an1}It wasn't your great and shining moment. 1567 00:51:46,583 --> 00:51:48,000 {\an1}- No. 1568 00:51:48,083 --> 00:51:49,708 {\an1}- I definitely would be comfortable 1569 00:51:49,875 --> 00:51:54,667 {\an1}advancing more in the physical, sexual department. 1570 00:51:54,792 --> 00:51:57,750 {\an1}- I wish I felt a little bit more of that at this point. 1571 00:51:57,875 --> 00:52:02,667 {\an1}And maybe, you know-- 1572 00:52:02,792 --> 00:52:07,667 {\an1}I may not be feeling that physical attraction with you. 1573 00:52:07,833 --> 00:52:09,667 {\an1}- What do you remember? 1574 00:52:09,750 --> 00:52:11,208 {\an1}What was your state of mind? 1575 00:52:11,333 --> 00:52:13,375 {\an1}- I think-- in retrospect, 1576 00:52:13,500 --> 00:52:15,083 {\an1}I think I was kind of just having, like, 1577 00:52:15,208 --> 00:52:18,500 {\an1}a drawn-out panic attack. 1578 00:52:18,625 --> 00:52:21,333 {\an1}And I didn't handle it in a great way. 1579 00:52:21,417 --> 00:52:22,708 {\an1}I certainly didn't handle it in a way that 1580 00:52:22,833 --> 00:52:25,708 {\an1}was respectful to Krysten, and I think I was just 1581 00:52:25,833 --> 00:52:27,833 {\an1}freaking out on the inside. 1582 00:52:27,958 --> 00:52:30,708 {\an1}- Krysten, did you have any idea he was feeling this way? 1583 00:52:30,833 --> 00:52:34,375 {\an1}- So we had spent a lot of time together by that point, 1584 00:52:34,500 --> 00:52:37,958 {\an1}and I just was looking for maybe 1585 00:52:38,083 --> 00:52:41,375 {\an1}a hand grab or something. 1586 00:52:41,500 --> 00:52:43,333 {\an1}But I just wasn't getting it. 1587 00:52:43,417 --> 00:52:48,042 {\an1}So yeah, I knew things were off because he was talking 1588 00:52:48,208 --> 00:52:50,833 {\an1}to me all the time, but he wasn't really, 1589 00:52:51,000 --> 00:52:53,167 {\an1}like, touching me at all. 1590 00:52:53,250 --> 00:52:54,250 {\an1}And I just thought that was-- 1591 00:52:54,375 --> 00:52:55,333 {\an1}- So what did you think was off? 1592 00:52:55,458 --> 00:52:56,958 {\an1}What did you think was off? 1593 00:52:57,042 --> 00:52:59,292 {\an1}- I don't-- I truly didn't think 1594 00:52:59,375 --> 00:53:01,167 {\an1}that there was a chance 1595 00:53:01,250 --> 00:53:03,917 {\an1}that he wouldn't be attracted to me. 1596 00:53:04,042 --> 00:53:05,417 {\an1}- Sure. - Sorry, but I really-- 1597 00:53:05,542 --> 00:53:09,125 {\an1}I don't think I'm Jessica Biel, but I do think 1598 00:53:09,208 --> 00:53:11,583 {\an1}that I bring a lot to the table. 1599 00:53:11,708 --> 00:53:13,125 {\an1}- You're an attractive woman. - Yeah. 1600 00:53:13,208 --> 00:53:15,083 {\an1}So I was a little surprised, 1601 00:53:15,208 --> 00:53:16,792 {\an1}and I didn't really believe him. 1602 00:53:16,917 --> 00:53:18,000 {\an1}I mean, you could see my reaction. 1603 00:53:18,083 --> 00:53:19,750 {\an1}I kind of don't believe it. 1604 00:53:19,875 --> 00:53:21,500 {\an1}- Mitch? 1605 00:53:21,625 --> 00:53:24,708 {\an1}You're not attracted to her, but you're ready to have sex. 1606 00:53:24,833 --> 00:53:26,000 {\an1}- I mean, I'm a guy. 1607 00:53:26,125 --> 00:53:29,333 {\an1}I've got hormones. I've got desires. 1608 00:53:29,458 --> 00:53:31,208 {\an1}And I did know that I just wanted 1609 00:53:31,375 --> 00:53:33,958 {\an1}to show her a little bit of affection, 1610 00:53:34,083 --> 00:53:35,583 {\an1}show her that I'm doing my best, 1611 00:53:35,708 --> 00:53:37,667 {\an1}and show her that I care and appreciate her. 1612 00:53:37,750 --> 00:53:41,167 {\an1}And... 1613 00:53:41,333 --> 00:53:43,333 {\an1}I got turned on. [laughs] 1614 00:53:43,500 --> 00:53:45,708 {\an1}OK, so what happened is basically this. 1615 00:53:45,833 --> 00:53:48,208 {\an1}You know, like, after I got it off my chest, 1616 00:53:48,375 --> 00:53:50,083 {\an1}I could kind of be myself again. 1617 00:53:50,208 --> 00:53:52,333 {\an1}Like, I didn't-- I wasn't hiding anything. 1618 00:53:52,500 --> 00:53:53,583 {\an1}And I'd put it out on the table, 1619 00:53:53,708 --> 00:53:55,417 {\an1}and it allowed me to be myself. 1620 00:53:55,542 --> 00:53:59,333 {\an1}So by the time we went to bed that night, in my mind, 1621 00:53:59,500 --> 00:54:01,083 {\an1}I was like, I really-- you know, 1622 00:54:01,208 --> 00:54:02,708 {\an1}this went better than I thought, 1623 00:54:02,875 --> 00:54:05,333 {\an1}and Krysten really handled me with a lot of grace. 1624 00:54:05,458 --> 00:54:08,375 {\an1}And I want to show just a little cuddle, 1625 00:54:08,500 --> 00:54:10,458 {\an1}a kiss on the cheek, a good night. 1626 00:54:10,542 --> 00:54:12,417 {\an1}And it just-- I just got lost in the moment. 1627 00:54:12,542 --> 00:54:15,667 {\an1}- Krysten, in that moment, what were you thinking? 1628 00:54:15,792 --> 00:54:17,750 {\an1}- So in one instance, I was happy 1629 00:54:17,875 --> 00:54:19,917 {\an1}that he wanted to kiss me, and in the other instance, 1630 00:54:20,042 --> 00:54:21,375 {\an1}I was like, whoa. 1631 00:54:21,500 --> 00:54:23,292 {\an1}What are we doing here? 1632 00:54:23,375 --> 00:54:24,875 {\an1}This is not how it goes. 1633 00:54:25,042 --> 00:54:27,083 {\an1}It's little-- little baby steps. 1634 00:54:27,208 --> 00:54:30,000 {\an1}I wanted more build up, a little bit here, 1635 00:54:30,125 --> 00:54:31,167 {\an1}a little bit there. 1636 00:54:31,333 --> 00:54:33,125 {\an1}And of course, I did want to-- 1637 00:54:33,250 --> 00:54:35,208 {\an1}I wanted to continue to build intimacy 1638 00:54:35,333 --> 00:54:37,500 {\an1}and not go from 0 to 100. 1639 00:54:37,583 --> 00:54:39,333 {\an1}- It also made you kind of realize 1640 00:54:39,417 --> 00:54:41,667 {\an1}that all the talk about him not being attracted to you 1641 00:54:41,833 --> 00:54:43,000 {\an1}was BS, right? 1642 00:54:43,083 --> 00:54:45,667 {\an1}- Yeah. I truly to this day-- 1643 00:54:45,833 --> 00:54:47,250 {\an1}call me crazy. 1644 00:54:47,375 --> 00:54:49,292 {\an1}I don't believe that he was not attracted to me. 1645 00:54:49,375 --> 00:54:52,333 {\an1}I think that he was overwhelmed and maybe saw 1646 00:54:52,458 --> 00:54:54,958 {\an1}someone who had a little bit more makeup on, 1647 00:54:55,042 --> 00:54:56,375 {\an1}a little bit more dressed up 1648 00:54:56,500 --> 00:54:58,417 {\an1}than the beachy hippie he thought. 1649 00:54:58,542 --> 00:54:59,750 {\an1}- Right. - That's what I think happened. 1650 00:54:59,875 --> 00:55:01,833 {\an1}I don't think he was looking at my face and was like, 1651 00:55:02,000 --> 00:55:03,167 {\an1}this ain't it. 1652 00:55:03,250 --> 00:55:05,167 {\an1}♪ ♪ 1653 00:55:05,250 --> 00:55:07,125 {\an1}- Why in the hell do you tell a woman 1654 00:55:07,208 --> 00:55:08,875 {\an1}you're not attracted to her? 1655 00:55:09,042 --> 00:55:10,500 {\an1}- I [bleep] up. 1656 00:55:10,583 --> 00:55:12,042 {\an1}♪ ♪ 1657 00:55:12,208 --> 00:55:14,000 {\an1}Sadly, that did a lot of damage. 1658 00:55:14,083 --> 00:55:17,417 {\an1}And even when I thought I'd recovered from it, 1659 00:55:17,542 --> 00:55:20,250 {\an1}it did kind of set a tone 1660 00:55:20,375 --> 00:55:22,583 {\an1}that was very regrettable and that I regret. 1661 00:55:22,708 --> 00:55:24,333 {\an1}- And there was eventually that physical connection 1662 00:55:24,417 --> 00:55:25,875 {\an1}between you two. - Yeah. 1663 00:55:26,042 --> 00:55:27,667 {\an1}We were doing it. 1664 00:55:27,792 --> 00:55:29,583 {\an1}[laughter] 1665 00:55:29,708 --> 00:55:31,500 {\an1}- And she learned quick that I'm, like, easily-- 1666 00:55:31,583 --> 00:55:33,125 {\an1}you know, easily-- I'm excitable. 1667 00:55:33,208 --> 00:55:34,875 {\an1}Like-- - What? 1668 00:55:35,000 --> 00:55:36,167 {\an1}- Sorry. - What? What? 1669 00:55:36,250 --> 00:55:37,667 {\an1}- Let's just pretend that that didn't happen. 1670 00:55:37,792 --> 00:55:39,833 {\an1}- That he was easily excitable? 1671 00:55:39,958 --> 00:55:41,167 {\an1}- It was the bikini. 1672 00:55:41,250 --> 00:55:42,333 {\an1}- It was the bikini that got him? 1673 00:55:42,417 --> 00:55:45,000 {\an1}Is that what got him? [laughs] 1674 00:55:45,083 --> 00:55:47,500 {\an1}Switching gears, I have another disagreement between you guys 1675 00:55:47,583 --> 00:55:49,250 {\an1}that actually didn't make the show. 1676 00:55:49,375 --> 00:55:51,583 {\an1}Let's call it hobbygate. 1677 00:55:51,708 --> 00:55:53,125 {\an1}- Oh, hobbygate. - I knew it was coming. 1678 00:55:53,250 --> 00:55:54,500 {\an1}- Check this out. 1679 00:55:56,292 --> 00:55:58,208 {\an1}- Do you have a lot of hobbies? 1680 00:55:58,333 --> 00:55:59,833 {\an1}- Do you feel like I don't have hobbies? 1681 00:55:59,958 --> 00:56:01,792 {\an1}- Maybe. Maybe that's just me projecting. 1682 00:56:01,875 --> 00:56:03,042 {\an1}Yeah. 1683 00:56:03,167 --> 00:56:04,625 {\an1}♪ ♪ 1684 00:56:04,708 --> 00:56:05,917 {\an1}- [sighs] 1685 00:56:06,042 --> 00:56:07,125 {\an1}Sorry. 1686 00:56:07,208 --> 00:56:09,208 {\an1}That's triggering. 1687 00:56:09,333 --> 00:56:10,750 {\an1}- Uh, sorry. 1688 00:56:10,875 --> 00:56:14,583 {\an1}- I just-- I don't like it when men say 1689 00:56:14,708 --> 00:56:15,875 {\an1}that women don't have hobbies. 1690 00:56:16,000 --> 00:56:17,542 {\an1}- Do you have hobbies? 1691 00:56:17,667 --> 00:56:20,083 {\an1}- Do you see me do anything? 1692 00:56:20,208 --> 00:56:22,167 {\an1}- I mean-- - Is cooking a hobby? 1693 00:56:22,250 --> 00:56:23,542 {\an1}♪ ♪ 1694 00:56:23,667 --> 00:56:26,208 {\an1}Is walking the dog a hobby? 1695 00:56:26,333 --> 00:56:28,083 {\an1}Is reading a hobby? - Yeah. 1696 00:56:28,208 --> 00:56:29,792 {\an1}- Is going to the beach a hobby? 1697 00:56:29,917 --> 00:56:31,083 {\an1}- Oh, my God. 1698 00:56:31,208 --> 00:56:33,417 {\an1}- Is playing sports a hobby? - Yeah. 1699 00:56:33,542 --> 00:56:36,000 {\an1}- OK. Do I have hobbies? 1700 00:56:36,125 --> 00:56:38,458 {\an1}- Yeah. - OK. 1701 00:56:38,542 --> 00:56:41,208 {\an1}- Well, let's jump right in. 1702 00:56:41,333 --> 00:56:43,042 {\an1}Mitch, does Krysten have hobbies? 1703 00:56:43,167 --> 00:56:44,583 {\an1}- Yes. - Yes, she does. 1704 00:56:44,708 --> 00:56:46,458 {\an1}- Absolutely. - You know them now, right? 1705 00:56:46,542 --> 00:56:48,375 {\an1}- I do. I had an incorrect-- 1706 00:56:48,500 --> 00:56:50,667 {\an1}I had an assumption about what hobby meant. 1707 00:56:50,833 --> 00:56:52,375 {\an1}And I was wrong. 1708 00:56:52,500 --> 00:56:54,792 {\an1}- This is a great example of how he's starting 1709 00:56:54,917 --> 00:56:56,833 {\an1}to kind of piss me off a little bit. 1710 00:56:57,000 --> 00:57:00,458 {\an1}And you can see me, like kind of resenting him. 1711 00:57:00,583 --> 00:57:03,000 {\an1}But I was probably harboring some other feelings-- 1712 00:57:03,083 --> 00:57:05,292 {\an1}- There were some other issues going on there? 1713 00:57:05,375 --> 00:57:06,542 {\an1}- Yeah. 1714 00:57:06,667 --> 00:57:09,500 {\an1}- What--what was wrong? 1715 00:57:09,667 --> 00:57:13,458 {\an1}- I just always felt like he truly-- 1716 00:57:13,583 --> 00:57:15,667 {\an1}and please keep me honest, but I always felt 1717 00:57:15,792 --> 00:57:19,375 {\an1}like he truly didn't really want to be married 1718 00:57:19,500 --> 00:57:23,625 {\an1}and didn't see the catch that I am. 1719 00:57:23,750 --> 00:57:25,417 {\an1}- Is that true that you didn't want to be married? 1720 00:57:29,375 --> 00:57:30,625 {\an1}- Hmm. 1721 00:57:32,458 --> 00:57:33,833 {\an1}- Let me say this. 1722 00:57:33,958 --> 00:57:36,125 {\an1}The hard thing about this moment and coming back to this 1723 00:57:36,208 --> 00:57:39,083 {\an1}is saying, look, I just-- 1724 00:57:39,208 --> 00:57:40,500 {\an1}this wasn't for me. 1725 00:57:40,583 --> 00:57:42,667 {\an1}I felt like I would have to bend over backwards. 1726 00:57:42,750 --> 00:57:44,625 {\an1}I felt like I wanted to be in a hot tub with other chicks 1727 00:57:44,750 --> 00:57:46,250 {\an1}with my ring off. I'm just saying-- 1728 00:57:46,375 --> 00:57:47,833 {\an1}- Yeah. - I'm just saying, 1729 00:57:47,917 --> 00:57:49,542 {\an1}like, you have to say the-- you know, 1730 00:57:49,708 --> 00:57:51,250 {\an1}you have to be realistic about the moment and just say, 1731 00:57:51,375 --> 00:57:52,458 {\an1}this wasn't for me. 1732 00:57:52,583 --> 00:57:54,208 {\an1}And I think that helps-- - Yeah. 1733 00:57:54,333 --> 00:57:57,458 {\an1}- Her and the rest of the world have closure and understand. 1734 00:57:57,542 --> 00:57:59,208 {\an1}And it's OK. 1735 00:57:59,375 --> 00:58:01,750 {\an1}- Yeah, I mean, I have some guilt 1736 00:58:01,875 --> 00:58:04,167 {\an1}for sure about the way I handled certain things, 1737 00:58:04,250 --> 00:58:05,625 {\an1}especially in the beginning. 1738 00:58:05,750 --> 00:58:06,875 {\an1}- I wish you had handled it differently too. 1739 00:58:07,042 --> 00:58:08,042 {\an1}I'll tell you. 1740 00:58:08,208 --> 00:58:09,083 {\an1}- I think the whole world does. 1741 00:58:09,208 --> 00:58:10,500 {\an1}- Yes, the whole world. 1742 00:58:10,583 --> 00:58:12,292 {\an1}I mean, I literally-- you sit there, 1743 00:58:12,375 --> 00:58:14,542 {\an1}and I'm watching, and I'm just like, bro. 1744 00:58:14,667 --> 00:58:16,833 {\an1}- It's painful, yeah. 1745 00:58:16,917 --> 00:58:22,458 {\an1}- Is there a part of you that now still has feelings 1746 00:58:22,542 --> 00:58:24,125 {\an1}or an attraction to Krysten? 1747 00:58:24,208 --> 00:58:28,750 {\an1}♪ ♪ 1748 00:58:32,208 --> 00:58:36,667 {\an1}- Is there a part of you that now still has feelings 1749 00:58:36,792 --> 00:58:38,458 {\an1}or an attraction to Krysten? 1750 00:58:38,583 --> 00:58:41,000 {\an1}[tense music] 1751 00:58:41,125 --> 00:58:42,458 {\an1}♪ ♪ 1752 00:58:42,583 --> 00:58:45,958 {\an1}- Yeah, I'm attracted to you, 1753 00:58:46,042 --> 00:58:50,333 {\an1}and I do have feelings for you, and I think I always will. 1754 00:58:50,458 --> 00:58:53,708 {\an1}And you know, that's why I'm so happy that we 1755 00:58:53,833 --> 00:58:57,333 {\an1}do have a friendship, and it is important to me. 1756 00:58:57,417 --> 00:58:59,542 {\an1}Could this ever come back around, Mitch? 1757 00:58:59,667 --> 00:59:02,458 {\an1}- I mean, if I'm being honest... 1758 00:59:02,583 --> 00:59:05,000 {\an1}♪ ♪ 1759 00:59:05,125 --> 00:59:07,083 {\an1}I think the likelihood is low just because 1760 00:59:07,208 --> 00:59:09,375 {\an1}of all we went through. 1761 00:59:09,500 --> 00:59:11,042 {\an1}- Wait. Hold it. 1762 00:59:11,167 --> 00:59:12,458 {\an1}20 second time out. 1763 00:59:12,542 --> 00:59:15,250 {\an1}It's not likely, or it's likely? 1764 00:59:15,375 --> 00:59:18,000 {\an1}- No, I'm saying it's not likely. 1765 00:59:18,083 --> 00:59:19,917 {\an1}- OK, that's the easy way to say. 1766 00:59:20,042 --> 00:59:21,958 {\an1}Krysten, on your part? 1767 00:59:22,083 --> 00:59:23,167 {\an1}- No. 1768 00:59:23,292 --> 00:59:24,583 {\an1}- Why not? 1769 00:59:24,708 --> 00:59:27,292 {\an1}- I will never want to be with someone 1770 00:59:27,417 --> 00:59:29,750 {\an1}who is not sure about me or says things 1771 00:59:29,875 --> 00:59:32,333 {\an1}like unlikely or likely. 1772 00:59:32,500 --> 00:59:35,292 {\an1}I know what I'm worth, and that ain't it. 1773 00:59:35,417 --> 00:59:37,250 {\an1}- What was your breaking point that 1774 00:59:37,375 --> 00:59:40,167 {\an1}made you say enough is enough? 1775 00:59:40,250 --> 00:59:43,792 {\an1}- When he had that conversation with my sister. 1776 00:59:43,917 --> 00:59:45,917 {\an1}- In the case of Krysten, like, I'm wondering 1777 00:59:46,042 --> 00:59:49,750 {\an1}if she's willing to maybe consider when we're together, 1778 00:59:49,875 --> 00:59:53,583 {\an1}like, not feeling the need to put on as much makeup 1779 00:59:53,708 --> 00:59:56,250 {\an1}and kind of do herself up quite as much. 1780 00:59:56,375 --> 00:59:58,667 {\an1}- I was shocked that she said 1781 00:59:58,833 --> 01:00:00,917 {\an1}that you said I need your advice. 1782 01:00:01,042 --> 01:00:05,500 {\an1}How can I get Krysten to dress down and wear less makeup? 1783 01:00:05,625 --> 01:00:07,000 {\an1}- I don't even really know. 1784 01:00:07,083 --> 01:00:10,208 {\an1}I mean, it's like, this is all so blindsiding to me. 1785 01:00:10,333 --> 01:00:11,750 {\an1}- Oh my God! 1786 01:00:11,875 --> 01:00:13,958 {\an1}Is this blindsiding to anybody? 1787 01:00:14,083 --> 01:00:17,750 {\an1}♪ ♪ 1788 01:00:17,875 --> 01:00:21,875 {\an1}- Did you not realize telling her sister 1789 01:00:22,000 --> 01:00:24,458 {\an1}what you told her was going to spiral 1790 01:00:24,542 --> 01:00:26,500 {\an1}just out of damn control? 1791 01:00:26,583 --> 01:00:28,792 {\an1}- No, I didn't. I had a moment of weakness. 1792 01:00:28,917 --> 01:00:31,042 {\an1}I just thought Krysten looked really good 1793 01:00:31,167 --> 01:00:32,083 {\an1}slightly more natural. 1794 01:00:32,208 --> 01:00:33,167 {\an1}Like, that's really it. 1795 01:00:33,292 --> 01:00:34,500 {\an1}- Mm-hmm. 1796 01:00:34,583 --> 01:00:37,167 {\an1}♪ ♪ 1797 01:00:37,292 --> 01:00:38,708 {\an1}Here's the good news. 1798 01:00:38,833 --> 01:00:41,708 {\an1}After that, things did get better between you two. 1799 01:00:41,875 --> 01:00:44,750 {\an1}What changes made you kind of get over 1800 01:00:44,875 --> 01:00:46,583 {\an1}the hump of that night? 1801 01:00:46,708 --> 01:00:49,375 {\an1}- So after the pool party meltdown, 1802 01:00:49,500 --> 01:00:51,375 {\an1}we took a couple of days apart, 1803 01:00:51,542 --> 01:00:53,667 {\an1}which I thought was good for us. 1804 01:00:53,792 --> 01:00:56,000 {\an1}And then we were going to the retreat. 1805 01:00:56,125 --> 01:01:00,292 {\an1}And it took me screaming to the top of my lungs 1806 01:01:00,375 --> 01:01:05,833 {\an1}in front of everyone we knew to get him to see the problem. 1807 01:01:05,958 --> 01:01:09,958 {\an1}And then we had a really wonderful couples retreat. 1808 01:01:10,083 --> 01:01:12,167 {\an1}I mean, I haven't-- that was really fun. 1809 01:01:12,250 --> 01:01:15,792 {\an1}And he finally started dishing out some compliments, 1810 01:01:15,917 --> 01:01:18,042 {\an1}and he finally started validating me. 1811 01:01:18,167 --> 01:01:20,167 {\an1}And I wouldn't need all of these compliments 1812 01:01:20,292 --> 01:01:22,292 {\an1}and validation if we didn't start off the way we did. 1813 01:01:22,375 --> 01:01:23,625 {\an1}- Sure. 1814 01:01:23,708 --> 01:01:25,458 {\an1}And it felt like you two were on your way 1815 01:01:25,542 --> 01:01:27,167 {\an1}to making this thing work. 1816 01:01:27,292 --> 01:01:29,292 {\an1}Mitch, at that point, were you really into your wife? 1817 01:01:31,208 --> 01:01:35,167 {\an1}- I think that... 1818 01:01:35,292 --> 01:01:36,917 {\an1}I still had some concerns. 1819 01:01:37,042 --> 01:01:40,500 {\an1}♪ ♪ 1820 01:01:40,625 --> 01:01:43,542 {\an1}- I just--I do think that given your actions 1821 01:01:43,667 --> 01:01:46,875 {\an1}on the couple's retreat, it's not right to say 1822 01:01:47,000 --> 01:01:49,167 {\an1}you still had some concerns. 1823 01:01:49,292 --> 01:01:51,500 {\an1}And this is another thing that I'm talking about. 1824 01:01:51,625 --> 01:01:53,667 {\an1}We had a really good couples retreat. 1825 01:01:53,750 --> 01:01:57,167 {\an1}We had some moments. 1826 01:01:57,250 --> 01:01:59,667 {\an1}And I'm just confused now to hear you say 1827 01:01:59,750 --> 01:02:00,958 {\an1}I had some concerns. 1828 01:02:01,042 --> 01:02:02,333 {\an1}We had a really good couples retreat. 1829 01:02:02,458 --> 01:02:04,500 {\an1}So I'm just trying to understand. 1830 01:02:04,625 --> 01:02:07,042 {\an1}- I was into you at the couple's retreat. 1831 01:02:07,167 --> 01:02:08,667 {\an1}All I'm trying to say is my answer 1832 01:02:08,833 --> 01:02:10,167 {\an1}is more on the broad level. 1833 01:02:10,292 --> 01:02:11,917 {\an1}- OK. - Was more broad. 1834 01:02:12,042 --> 01:02:13,833 {\an1}Like, am I a yes for Decision Day for sure? 1835 01:02:13,958 --> 01:02:15,000 {\an1}- Got it. - I didn't know yet. 1836 01:02:15,125 --> 01:02:16,375 {\an1}That's all. - OK. I'm good. 1837 01:02:16,500 --> 01:02:17,667 {\an1}Thank you for clearing that up. 1838 01:02:17,792 --> 01:02:19,083 {\an1}- That's it, and it's just semantics, 1839 01:02:19,208 --> 01:02:21,083 {\an1}and you know I don't say [bleep] a lot, and I'm sorry. 1840 01:02:21,208 --> 01:02:23,458 {\an1}- I just wanted to be clear because if you're not 1841 01:02:23,542 --> 01:02:24,833 {\an1}into someone, the way you behaved 1842 01:02:25,000 --> 01:02:27,000 {\an1}on the couple's retreat, I'm really worried again. 1843 01:02:27,083 --> 01:02:29,542 {\an1}- No. A lot of things really clicked for me. 1844 01:02:29,708 --> 01:02:31,167 {\an1}I saw a lot of, I think-- 1845 01:02:31,292 --> 01:02:32,833 {\an1}you revealed a lot of yourself to me 1846 01:02:32,917 --> 01:02:34,667 {\an1}that I had not seen before. 1847 01:02:34,792 --> 01:02:36,708 {\an1}And I felt like you, during the couples retreat, 1848 01:02:36,875 --> 01:02:38,125 {\an1}kind of really showed me, 1849 01:02:38,250 --> 01:02:40,625 {\an1}like, your goofy, carefree side 1850 01:02:40,708 --> 01:02:42,375 {\an1}and how funny you are. 1851 01:02:42,542 --> 01:02:44,500 {\an1}And I knew that, but I hadn't fully seen it yet. 1852 01:02:44,583 --> 01:02:46,792 {\an1}- Right. - And so I did love that. 1853 01:02:46,917 --> 01:02:48,500 {\an1}I loved all that during the couples retreat, 1854 01:02:48,625 --> 01:02:50,000 {\an1}and it was very attractive to me. 1855 01:02:50,167 --> 01:02:51,667 {\an1}- All I wanted. - That's all you wanted. 1856 01:02:51,833 --> 01:02:52,917 {\an1}- Sorry. I'm Sorry. - Thank you, Mitch. 1857 01:02:53,042 --> 01:02:54,708 {\an1}- I was just thinking too-- - Thank you. 1858 01:02:54,875 --> 01:02:56,792 {\an1}- I was thinking too, like, broad scale or something. 1859 01:02:56,917 --> 01:02:57,667 {\an1}- Right, no, think narrow. Think narrow. 1860 01:02:57,792 --> 01:02:58,958 {\an1}- Yeah. - Yeah. 1861 01:02:59,042 --> 01:03:00,292 {\an1}- Couples retreat, you're there. 1862 01:03:00,375 --> 01:03:01,750 {\an1}Things are happening. It's popping, right? 1863 01:03:01,875 --> 01:03:03,667 {\an1}- Uh-huh. - I even kissed her-- 1864 01:03:03,792 --> 01:03:05,333 {\an1}I even kissed her when she had the mustache on. 1865 01:03:05,458 --> 01:03:06,708 {\an1}[laughs] - Wow. 1866 01:03:06,833 --> 01:03:09,167 {\an1}- [laughter] 1867 01:03:09,250 --> 01:03:10,417 {\an1}Sorry. 1868 01:03:10,542 --> 01:03:12,375 {\an1}[smooching] 1869 01:03:12,542 --> 01:03:14,458 {\an1}[laughter] 1870 01:03:14,542 --> 01:03:16,333 {\an1}Stop. 1871 01:03:16,458 --> 01:03:18,000 {\an1}Sorry. 1872 01:03:18,125 --> 01:03:19,625 {\an1}- Wow. 1873 01:03:19,750 --> 01:03:20,875 {\an1}Had Mitch been willing to stay married, 1874 01:03:21,000 --> 01:03:22,500 {\an1}would you have stayed married? 1875 01:03:22,583 --> 01:03:25,167 {\an1}[tense music] 1876 01:03:25,292 --> 01:03:27,167 {\an1}♪ ♪ 1877 01:03:27,292 --> 01:03:28,917 {\an1}- No. 1878 01:03:29,042 --> 01:03:31,958 {\an1}- No way? - Absolutely not. No. 1879 01:03:32,042 --> 01:03:34,208 {\an1}- How has it been for you since Decision Day? 1880 01:03:34,375 --> 01:03:35,375 {\an1}- You know, I've just-- 1881 01:03:35,500 --> 01:03:36,750 {\an1}I jumped back into my old life. 1882 01:03:36,875 --> 01:03:37,917 {\an1}I've been staying busy. 1883 01:03:38,042 --> 01:03:39,542 {\an1}I haven't been dating. 1884 01:03:39,667 --> 01:03:41,000 {\an1}You know, I've-- everyone knows I'm not 1885 01:03:41,125 --> 01:03:42,417 {\an1}that good at dating anyways, 1886 01:03:42,542 --> 01:03:43,875 {\an1}and I don't have a lot of game. 1887 01:03:44,042 --> 01:03:45,750 {\an1}I'm not good at it. So--but that's not really why. 1888 01:03:45,875 --> 01:03:48,125 {\an1}I really-- I haven't been pursuing that just because 1889 01:03:48,250 --> 01:03:49,708 {\an1}I just still want to kind of work through 1890 01:03:49,875 --> 01:03:50,917 {\an1}some of the things that happened 1891 01:03:51,042 --> 01:03:52,625 {\an1}and come out of it a better person. 1892 01:03:52,750 --> 01:03:54,250 {\an1}- I understand that. I get it. 1893 01:03:54,375 --> 01:03:55,833 {\an1}Krysten, what have you been doing? 1894 01:03:56,000 --> 01:03:58,917 {\an1}- A lot has happened with me since Decision Day. 1895 01:03:59,042 --> 01:04:01,458 {\an1}I got transferred to a New York City team with work. 1896 01:04:01,583 --> 01:04:03,167 {\an1}- Oh, wow. 1897 01:04:03,333 --> 01:04:04,583 {\an1}- So I've been spending a lot of time in New York City, 1898 01:04:04,708 --> 01:04:07,042 {\an1}and I've been traveling a lot as well. 1899 01:04:07,167 --> 01:04:10,583 {\an1}- OK, so have you met somebody, or-- 1900 01:04:10,708 --> 01:04:13,375 {\an1}- Actually, like, very recently, 1901 01:04:13,500 --> 01:04:15,875 {\an1}I started to date again. 1902 01:04:16,000 --> 01:04:18,167 {\an1}I'm keeping my options open. 1903 01:04:18,250 --> 01:04:19,708 {\an1}And I don't know. 1904 01:04:19,875 --> 01:04:21,333 {\an1}I think I'm a catch. 1905 01:04:21,458 --> 01:04:23,542 {\an1}So I feel like he's right around the corner. 1906 01:04:23,667 --> 01:04:24,875 {\an1}- I love that. 1907 01:04:25,000 --> 01:04:26,125 {\an1}Listen, Christine and Mitch, 1908 01:04:26,250 --> 01:04:27,375 {\an1}it was so much fun talking to you, 1909 01:04:27,542 --> 01:04:29,125 {\an1}and I'm glad we could work through all of this 1910 01:04:29,250 --> 01:04:30,542 {\an1}and that you guys are both doing well. 1911 01:04:34,042 --> 01:04:35,167 {\an1}I'm catching up with all the couples 1912 01:04:35,250 --> 01:04:37,792 {\an1}as they reveal what really went down in San Diego. 1913 01:04:37,875 --> 01:04:39,292 {\an1}All right, so let's keep going. 1914 01:04:39,375 --> 01:04:41,333 {\an1}Morgan and Binh's marriage was a bumpy road 1915 01:04:41,417 --> 01:04:42,958 {\an1}that came to an end shortly after 1916 01:04:43,042 --> 01:04:44,708 {\an1}their one-month anniversary. 1917 01:04:44,833 --> 01:04:48,458 {\an1}It's safe to say they walked away not on the best of terms. 1918 01:04:48,542 --> 01:04:50,667 {\an1}Let's bring them out now and see where they're at today. 1919 01:04:50,833 --> 01:04:52,750 {\an1}Morgan, Binh? 1920 01:04:52,875 --> 01:04:54,542 {\an1}Wow, look at you guys looking fancy. 1921 01:04:54,708 --> 01:04:56,250 {\an1}[laughter] Hey, hey. 1922 01:04:56,375 --> 01:04:57,417 {\an1}- Hi, nice to see you. - Hi. 1923 01:04:57,542 --> 01:04:58,625 {\an1}Hi. 1924 01:04:58,708 --> 01:05:00,833 {\an1}♪ ♪ 1925 01:05:00,958 --> 01:05:02,042 {\an1}- You guys look fantastic, you know? 1926 01:05:02,167 --> 01:05:03,750 {\an1}- Thank you. - All that hair, man. 1927 01:05:03,875 --> 01:05:05,917 {\an1}For a bald guy, I get so jealous. 1928 01:05:06,042 --> 01:05:08,708 {\an1}Let's start with your relationship and the good. 1929 01:05:08,833 --> 01:05:10,917 {\an1}Right off the bat, it seemed like things were going great. 1930 01:05:11,042 --> 01:05:12,042 {\an1}As a matter of fact, Morgan, you thought 1931 01:05:12,208 --> 01:05:13,417 {\an1}Binh was pretty hot-- - Yeah. 1932 01:05:13,542 --> 01:05:14,833 {\an1}- --from the beginning, right? - I mean, yeah he's hot. 1933 01:05:15,000 --> 01:05:16,167 {\an1}I give him that. 1934 01:05:16,333 --> 01:05:17,667 {\an1}- Let's watch. 1935 01:05:17,792 --> 01:05:19,417 {\an1}♪ ♪ 1936 01:05:19,542 --> 01:05:20,542 {\an1}- Oh! 1937 01:05:20,667 --> 01:05:21,625 {\an1}Don't shake my hand. 1938 01:05:21,708 --> 01:05:23,167 {\an1}Give me a hug. 1939 01:05:23,250 --> 01:05:24,708 {\an1}- I promise to honor, cherish, and love you 1940 01:05:24,833 --> 01:05:26,000 {\an1}through all of life's adventures. 1941 01:05:26,083 --> 01:05:27,750 {\an1}This I vow to you. - Thank you. 1942 01:05:27,875 --> 01:05:29,208 {\an1}- I pronounce you now married. 1943 01:05:29,333 --> 01:05:30,333 {\an1}- Oh, my God. 1944 01:05:30,458 --> 01:05:31,583 {\an1}- You may now kiss your bride, Morgan. 1945 01:05:31,708 --> 01:05:33,833 {\an1}- May I? - Yes, yes. 1946 01:05:33,917 --> 01:05:35,333 {\an1}He's really cute. 1947 01:05:35,417 --> 01:05:36,500 {\an1}I do find him really attractive. 1948 01:05:36,625 --> 01:05:38,000 {\an1}He looks great. 1949 01:05:38,167 --> 01:05:39,125 {\an1}- My first impression of my wife 1950 01:05:39,208 --> 01:05:40,875 {\an1}is that she's super pretty. 1951 01:05:41,000 --> 01:05:42,167 {\an1}I think there is definitely chemistry. 1952 01:05:42,250 --> 01:05:43,000 {\an1}♪ ♪ 1953 01:05:43,125 --> 01:05:45,583 {\an1}♪ An open heart ♪ 1954 01:05:45,708 --> 01:05:47,458 {\an1}♪ I hope for a pause ♪ 1955 01:05:47,583 --> 01:05:49,083 {\an1}- He is hot. 1956 01:05:49,208 --> 01:05:50,667 {\an1}Like, his body-- he sleeps in his underwear. 1957 01:05:50,750 --> 01:05:52,750 {\an1}I'm like, you can't do this to me! 1958 01:05:52,875 --> 01:05:54,083 {\an1}It's like every little girl's dream. 1959 01:05:54,208 --> 01:05:56,625 {\an1}- Just seeing her happy made me happy. 1960 01:05:56,708 --> 01:05:58,458 {\an1}- I think you're enjoying this more than you'd like to admit. 1961 01:05:58,542 --> 01:06:00,667 {\an1}- And whatever I have to do to make her happy, 1962 01:06:00,750 --> 01:06:03,417 {\an1}I'm going to do because I want this marriage to work. 1963 01:06:03,542 --> 01:06:04,958 {\an1}[laughter] 1964 01:06:05,083 --> 01:06:06,833 {\an1}- Morgan, you were truly attracted to Binh. 1965 01:06:06,958 --> 01:06:10,042 {\an1}- Walking up to him, I was like, thank God. 1966 01:06:10,167 --> 01:06:12,208 {\an1}- Then when he took off his shirt, you were like-- 1967 01:06:12,333 --> 01:06:15,167 {\an1}- I was like, OK, this man obviously works out. 1968 01:06:15,292 --> 01:06:18,042 {\an1}- So there was a connection there. 1969 01:06:18,208 --> 01:06:20,125 {\an1}- Yeah, I think-- - Yeah, I think so. 1970 01:06:20,208 --> 01:06:21,708 {\an1}- There was. It was a legitimate connection. 1971 01:06:21,875 --> 01:06:23,000 {\an1}- Yeah. - Yeah, OK. All right. 1972 01:06:23,125 --> 01:06:24,500 {\an1}Let's talk about when things went south. 1973 01:06:24,583 --> 01:06:26,458 {\an1}Binh, you jumped to a false conclusion 1974 01:06:26,583 --> 01:06:27,667 {\an1}about Morgan's-- - Yeah. 1975 01:06:27,792 --> 01:06:29,667 {\an1}- Nursing credentials. - Yep. 1976 01:06:29,792 --> 01:06:31,750 {\an1}- Now, can we set the record straight about who you are 1977 01:06:31,875 --> 01:06:33,042 {\an1}and what you do for a living? 1978 01:06:33,167 --> 01:06:34,333 {\an1}- Morgan is a nurse. 1979 01:06:34,458 --> 01:06:36,500 {\an1}She wakes up early. She saves lives. 1980 01:06:36,583 --> 01:06:38,042 {\an1}She's a nurse for sure. - Thank you. 1981 01:06:38,167 --> 01:06:40,167 {\an1}- You are a registered nurse. 1982 01:06:40,292 --> 01:06:41,333 {\an1}- Absolutely. - She's a registered nurse. 1983 01:06:41,458 --> 01:06:42,833 {\an1}- I've been a nurse. - Yeah. 1984 01:06:43,000 --> 01:06:44,167 {\an1}- What is it, three years now? - Yeah. 1985 01:06:44,292 --> 01:06:45,583 {\an1}- Yeah. 1986 01:06:45,708 --> 01:06:48,167 {\an1}- But you went to talk to Justin about your feeling 1987 01:06:48,292 --> 01:06:50,250 {\an1}that she didn't have her nursing credentials. 1988 01:06:50,375 --> 01:06:52,167 {\an1}Do you wish you could go back and have talked 1989 01:06:52,250 --> 01:06:53,667 {\an1}to your wife first? - Absolutely. 1990 01:06:53,792 --> 01:06:55,583 {\an1}It was a very impulsive decision. 1991 01:06:55,708 --> 01:06:57,458 {\an1}I just wasn't thinking. 1992 01:06:57,583 --> 01:07:00,125 {\an1}- It felt like a lack of respect for you to, like, 1993 01:07:00,208 --> 01:07:02,083 {\an1}go talk to other people about our issues 1994 01:07:02,208 --> 01:07:03,167 {\an1}that I didn't know was an issue. 1995 01:07:03,292 --> 01:07:04,500 {\an1}- Mm-hmm. 1996 01:07:04,583 --> 01:07:06,042 {\an1}- You had that kind of make-up on the beach 1997 01:07:06,208 --> 01:07:07,125 {\an1}where you all talked it through, 1998 01:07:07,250 --> 01:07:09,167 {\an1}and he apologized to you. 1999 01:07:09,292 --> 01:07:10,875 {\an1}- You broke my trust. 2000 01:07:11,000 --> 01:07:15,500 {\an1}♪ ♪ 2001 01:07:15,667 --> 01:07:18,333 {\an1}- I'm sorry. 2002 01:07:18,417 --> 01:07:20,792 {\an1}- Do you think he genuinely felt bad? 2003 01:07:20,875 --> 01:07:22,500 {\an1}- I do. 2004 01:07:22,625 --> 01:07:25,125 {\an1}I do think he genuinely felt bad because, you know, 2005 01:07:25,250 --> 01:07:26,917 {\an1}Binh is not a bad person. 2006 01:07:27,042 --> 01:07:28,500 {\an1}He's not a bad guy. - Nice guy. 2007 01:07:28,583 --> 01:07:30,000 {\an1}- At all. 2008 01:07:30,167 --> 01:07:32,750 {\an1}- His discussions with the guys continued. 2009 01:07:32,875 --> 01:07:34,917 {\an1}- Yep. - After that happened, 2010 01:07:35,042 --> 01:07:36,000 {\an1}why continue to go to the guys? 2011 01:07:36,125 --> 01:07:37,417 {\an1}- I'm not sure. 2012 01:07:37,542 --> 01:07:38,833 {\an1}My mind wasn't right. 2013 01:07:38,917 --> 01:07:40,125 {\an1}- Yeah. - I just was overwhelmed. 2014 01:07:40,208 --> 01:07:41,375 {\an1}- You were under a lot of stress. 2015 01:07:41,500 --> 01:07:43,458 {\an1}It's really stressful doing this. 2016 01:07:43,542 --> 01:07:45,917 {\an1}- Is that what bothered-- that it was Justin again? 2017 01:07:46,042 --> 01:07:48,000 {\an1}And did it bother you also a little bit 2018 01:07:48,125 --> 01:07:49,833 {\an1}that he's putting it on speakerphone? 2019 01:07:49,958 --> 01:07:51,458 {\an1}You're putting me on blast. 2020 01:07:51,583 --> 01:07:53,000 {\an1}- Mm-hmm, yeah. 2021 01:07:53,167 --> 01:07:55,542 {\an1}It kind of hurt a little bit that it was Justin again 2022 01:07:55,708 --> 01:07:59,000 {\an1}when it was the same mistake that kind of brought us 2023 01:07:59,083 --> 01:08:01,042 {\an1}down a lot in the beginning. 2024 01:08:01,208 --> 01:08:02,542 {\an1}I really thought that Binh and I 2025 01:08:02,667 --> 01:08:05,042 {\an1}had come a long way from the honeymoon, 2026 01:08:05,208 --> 01:08:07,042 {\an1}really working with each other. 2027 01:08:07,167 --> 01:08:08,167 {\an1}You know, I understand needing to go 2028 01:08:08,292 --> 01:08:10,083 {\an1}and talk to someone about it. 2029 01:08:10,208 --> 01:08:12,917 {\an1}But I just wish it wasn't Justin every single time. 2030 01:08:13,042 --> 01:08:14,833 {\an1}- You think that you're having man to man, 2031 01:08:14,917 --> 01:08:16,458 {\an1}like, normal conversations. - Yeah. 2032 01:08:16,541 --> 01:08:19,375 {\an1}- He put you on speakerphone with his wife listening. 2033 01:08:19,500 --> 01:08:20,625 {\an1}- Yeah. 2034 01:08:20,708 --> 01:08:22,500 {\an1}- You talk on a daily basis. 2035 01:08:22,666 --> 01:08:25,666 {\an1}You know, thank god I'm really close with Alexis. 2036 01:08:25,791 --> 01:08:28,708 {\an1}She was like, "I kept hearing these things that Binh was 2037 01:08:28,875 --> 01:08:30,291 {\an1}"saying about you, and, you know, 2038 01:08:30,416 --> 01:08:33,041 {\an1}"Justin has been on speakerphone when he's 2039 01:08:33,166 --> 01:08:34,916 {\an1}"talking to him on the phone. 2040 01:08:35,041 --> 01:08:36,875 {\an1}"And I hear the things Binh's been talking about about you, 2041 01:08:37,041 --> 01:08:39,916 {\an1}"and it just didn't seem right because whenever I'm with you, 2042 01:08:40,041 --> 01:08:41,541 {\an1}"I know you're a good person. 2043 01:08:41,708 --> 01:08:44,250 {\an1}"But the person that Binh's making you out to be 2044 01:08:44,375 --> 01:08:46,000 {\an1}is the complete opposite." 2045 01:08:46,083 --> 01:08:48,833 {\an1}- Binh, did Justin do you dirty by putting you on speakerphone? 2046 01:08:48,958 --> 01:08:50,541 {\an1}- Yeah. 2047 01:08:50,708 --> 01:08:52,541 {\an1}- Because it may not have been the issue that it became-- 2048 01:08:52,666 --> 01:08:54,166 {\an1}- Yeah. 2049 01:08:54,250 --> 01:08:55,875 {\an1}- If he had just kept it in the inner circle. 2050 01:08:56,041 --> 01:08:57,333 {\an1}- Oh, yeah, absolutely. - Yeah. 2051 01:08:57,416 --> 01:08:58,583 {\an1}- Yeah. 2052 01:08:58,708 --> 01:09:00,375 {\an1}- Morgan, looking back on everything now, 2053 01:09:00,541 --> 01:09:03,458 {\an1}do you regret that you didn't pause for a second 2054 01:09:03,583 --> 01:09:06,333 {\an1}and try and come back and give it another chance? 2055 01:09:06,416 --> 01:09:09,250 {\an1}♪ ♪ 2056 01:09:09,375 --> 01:09:11,541 {\an1}- Honestly, no. 2057 01:09:11,708 --> 01:09:14,875 {\an1}I kind of regret, you know, ending things early. 2058 01:09:15,000 --> 01:09:18,500 {\an1}- Do you feel at this point that the marriage is over? 2059 01:09:18,583 --> 01:09:21,541 {\an1}♪ ♪ 2060 01:09:21,666 --> 01:09:22,958 {\an1}- Yeah. 2061 01:09:23,041 --> 01:09:25,291 {\an1}Yeah, the marriage is over. 2062 01:09:25,416 --> 01:09:27,416 {\an1}And I do want the divorce. 2063 01:09:27,541 --> 01:09:30,166 {\an1}I kind of realized that Binh's not my person. 2064 01:09:30,291 --> 01:09:32,500 {\an1}- Why not? - Oh, it's the betrayal. 2065 01:09:32,625 --> 01:09:35,125 {\an1}I signed up for this to find that person that I'm supposed 2066 01:09:35,208 --> 01:09:37,000 {\an1}to be with, and that person was going to be, 2067 01:09:37,083 --> 01:09:39,625 {\an1}like, my best friend, always have my back. 2068 01:09:39,708 --> 01:09:41,333 {\an1}I felt like I didn't get any of that. 2069 01:09:41,416 --> 01:09:42,666 {\an1}I knew at that point, I'm like, you know what? 2070 01:09:42,833 --> 01:09:44,000 {\an1}It's just--it's done. 2071 01:09:44,083 --> 01:09:45,583 {\an1}It's over. There's no point. 2072 01:09:45,708 --> 01:09:47,666 {\an1}- Binh, you seemed like you really wanted this to work. 2073 01:09:47,791 --> 01:09:49,666 {\an1}Work do you wish you had gotten another chance? 2074 01:09:49,833 --> 01:09:51,583 {\an1}- I realized that I wasn't ready for marriage. 2075 01:09:51,708 --> 01:09:53,250 {\an1}You know, there's things that I haven't 2076 01:09:53,375 --> 01:09:54,875 {\an1}healed from in the past, and-- 2077 01:09:55,041 --> 01:09:56,833 {\an1}- Like what? - --just little things. 2078 01:09:56,916 --> 01:09:59,000 {\an1}Just, you know, I never healed my inner child, you know? 2079 01:09:59,125 --> 01:10:00,458 {\an1}Morgan helped me realize that. 2080 01:10:00,541 --> 01:10:02,083 {\an1}- What does that mean, your inner child? 2081 01:10:02,208 --> 01:10:03,416 {\an1}Because I'm a tell you something. 2082 01:10:03,541 --> 01:10:06,666 {\an1}Y'all in San Diego have more, like, therapeutic terms. 2083 01:10:06,750 --> 01:10:10,500 {\an1}I got-- my inner child, my-- you know, working on myself. 2084 01:10:10,625 --> 01:10:13,333 {\an1}I need Dr. Peppers in here next to me. 2085 01:10:13,500 --> 01:10:16,000 {\an1}- Basically, I was bullied being Asian growing up 2086 01:10:16,083 --> 01:10:17,166 {\an1}and then the feeling of not being 2087 01:10:17,250 --> 01:10:18,625 {\an1}good enough in Asian culture, 2088 01:10:18,750 --> 01:10:20,541 {\an1}I never truly genuinely healed from that, 2089 01:10:20,708 --> 01:10:23,750 {\an1}and I was perpetuating my own ego and insecurities 2090 01:10:23,875 --> 01:10:25,333 {\an1}especially into relationships. 2091 01:10:25,416 --> 01:10:27,041 {\an1}And Morgan helped me realize that. 2092 01:10:27,166 --> 01:10:30,500 {\an1}- When you guys walked off the show, she was really angry. 2093 01:10:30,625 --> 01:10:33,375 {\an1}You seemed like I just got to get the hell out of here. 2094 01:10:33,541 --> 01:10:36,041 {\an1}So have you had a chance to talk since then? 2095 01:10:36,208 --> 01:10:38,041 {\an1}- I reached out to her like a month after. 2096 01:10:38,208 --> 01:10:40,083 {\an1}I was like, can we grab-- 2097 01:10:40,208 --> 01:10:41,500 {\an1}I think it was brunch and-- - Brunch. 2098 01:10:41,583 --> 01:10:43,208 {\an1}- --just apologized for everything. 2099 01:10:43,333 --> 01:10:46,250 {\an1}And I just sat down and said, if there was ever 2100 01:10:46,375 --> 01:10:48,041 {\an1}a point where you felt like you weren't good enough 2101 01:10:48,166 --> 01:10:51,041 {\an1}because of me, I'm sorry, and it was only 2102 01:10:51,208 --> 01:10:52,833 {\an1}my ego and my own insecurities 2103 01:10:52,958 --> 01:10:54,333 {\an1}that I was projecting onto you. 2104 01:10:54,416 --> 01:10:55,791 {\an1}And I wasn't ready for this. 2105 01:10:55,875 --> 01:10:57,500 {\an1}I didn't-- I thought I was, but I wasn't. 2106 01:10:57,583 --> 01:10:59,041 {\an1}So-- - How did that make you feel? 2107 01:10:59,208 --> 01:11:00,500 {\an1}- Oh, amazing. 2108 01:11:00,666 --> 01:11:02,666 {\an1}That was the only thing that I wanted. 2109 01:11:02,750 --> 01:11:04,333 {\an1}- But I feel like he apologized to you 2110 01:11:04,416 --> 01:11:06,625 {\an1}like 77,000 times on the show. 2111 01:11:06,708 --> 01:11:08,166 {\an1}- He was regurgitating what people 2112 01:11:08,291 --> 01:11:09,666 {\an1}were telling him to say. 2113 01:11:09,791 --> 01:11:12,458 {\an1}He was just saying, yes, I apologize because I hurt you. 2114 01:11:12,541 --> 01:11:14,625 {\an1}No, like, I want to know, like, 2115 01:11:14,708 --> 01:11:17,291 {\an1}you feel the pain that I went through-- 2116 01:11:17,416 --> 01:11:19,000 {\an1}- Mm-hmm. - And that you understand that. 2117 01:11:19,083 --> 01:11:21,041 {\an1}And for him to come back on his own-- 2118 01:11:21,166 --> 01:11:22,583 {\an1}no one told him to-- 2119 01:11:22,708 --> 01:11:24,666 {\an1}and gave me that real, authentic apology. 2120 01:11:24,791 --> 01:11:26,916 {\an1}And that's huge because he wouldn't 2121 01:11:27,041 --> 01:11:28,500 {\an1}have done that before. 2122 01:11:28,625 --> 01:11:30,875 {\an1}- You seem really happy together right now. 2123 01:11:31,041 --> 01:11:32,708 {\an1}- We're good. - Yeah. 2124 01:11:32,833 --> 01:11:35,166 {\an1}- Now that you've gotten that heartfelt apology, 2125 01:11:35,250 --> 01:11:37,958 {\an1}could it ever repair the relationship? 2126 01:11:38,041 --> 01:11:41,833 {\an1}♪ ♪ 2127 01:11:41,916 --> 01:11:43,500 {\an1}- Go ahead, Morgan. 2128 01:11:43,666 --> 01:11:46,500 {\an1}- I think we both know that it wasn't meant to be. 2129 01:11:46,625 --> 01:11:48,166 {\an1}I mean, we're really good friends, 2130 01:11:48,250 --> 01:11:50,000 {\an1}but our romantic relationship is over. 2131 01:11:50,125 --> 01:11:52,291 {\an1}♪ ♪ 2132 01:11:52,375 --> 01:11:53,708 {\an1}- So since cameras have been away, 2133 01:11:53,875 --> 01:11:55,500 {\an1}what have you been up to, Morgan? 2134 01:11:55,583 --> 01:11:57,416 {\an1}- I moved from San Diego a couple of months after 2135 01:11:57,541 --> 01:12:01,041 {\an1}we finished filming, put all my stuff in storage, 2136 01:12:01,166 --> 01:12:03,291 {\an1}and now I have Europe trips planned. 2137 01:12:03,416 --> 01:12:05,041 {\an1}I have other trips planned coming up. 2138 01:12:05,166 --> 01:12:06,333 {\an1}So I'm just going to be 2139 01:12:06,458 --> 01:12:07,750 {\an1}kind of all over the place for a while. 2140 01:12:07,875 --> 01:12:09,500 {\an1}- Have you been dating? 2141 01:12:09,625 --> 01:12:13,166 {\an1}- I've been on some dates, nothing super successful 2142 01:12:13,291 --> 01:12:15,666 {\an1}or super romantic or anything. 2143 01:12:15,791 --> 01:12:17,500 {\an1}It's just been fun. I've been having fun. 2144 01:12:17,625 --> 01:12:18,958 {\an1}- Binh, how about you? 2145 01:12:19,083 --> 01:12:20,166 {\an1}Besides exploring your inner child, 2146 01:12:20,333 --> 01:12:21,708 {\an1}what have you been up to? 2147 01:12:21,833 --> 01:12:23,791 {\an1}- I took a job as a project engineer. 2148 01:12:23,916 --> 01:12:26,041 {\an1}So I've been going to-- traveling as well. 2149 01:12:26,166 --> 01:12:28,125 {\an1}- Have you been dating? - I haven't. 2150 01:12:28,208 --> 01:12:30,083 {\an1}- Do you want to start dating again? 2151 01:12:30,208 --> 01:12:32,875 {\an1}- At this point, I don't think I'm ready for a relationship, 2152 01:12:33,041 --> 01:12:34,166 {\an1}not for the foreseeable future. 2153 01:12:34,250 --> 01:12:35,875 {\an1}I'm just working on myself. 2154 01:12:36,000 --> 01:12:38,000 {\an1}- Do you still see marriage in your future? 2155 01:12:38,125 --> 01:12:39,333 {\an1}- In the distant future. It's-- 2156 01:12:39,416 --> 01:12:40,500 {\an1}- Really? - Yes. 2157 01:12:40,625 --> 01:12:42,208 {\an1}- Morgan? - Same, yeah. 2158 01:12:42,375 --> 01:12:43,291 {\an1}- It'll be a while. - Distant. 2159 01:12:43,416 --> 01:12:44,458 {\an1}- Distant. - Distant. 2160 01:12:44,583 --> 01:12:45,708 {\an1}- Distant with two T's. 2161 01:12:45,833 --> 01:12:47,000 {\an1}Three T's? 2162 01:12:47,125 --> 01:12:48,625 {\an1}- I mean, guys, not long ago, you 2163 01:12:48,708 --> 01:12:50,166 {\an1}were so ready to get married that you're 2164 01:12:50,250 --> 01:12:51,916 {\an1}willing to marry a stranger. 2165 01:12:52,041 --> 01:12:54,000 {\an1}And now you're like, I don't want to get married forever. 2166 01:12:54,125 --> 01:12:56,125 {\an1}- A divorce brings you down a couple of pegs on that. 2167 01:12:56,208 --> 01:12:57,791 {\an1}- Listen. 2168 01:12:57,875 --> 01:12:59,666 {\an1}I am so happy that you guys have worked things out, 2169 01:12:59,833 --> 01:13:01,666 {\an1}that things are cordial between the two of you. 2170 01:13:01,750 --> 01:13:03,833 {\an1}Listen, I always have hope, you know? 2171 01:13:03,916 --> 01:13:05,666 {\an1}I mean, you can say what you say, but I have hope. 2172 01:13:05,750 --> 01:13:07,458 {\an1}But it is great to see you here. 2173 01:13:07,541 --> 01:13:12,500 {\an1}Thanks for coming on and sharing all this with us. 2174 01:13:12,625 --> 01:13:13,500 {\an1}You know, I love this night so much 2175 01:13:13,625 --> 01:13:14,750 {\an1}because I've been dying to find out 2176 01:13:14,875 --> 01:13:15,833 {\an1}what's new with all the couples since filming ended. 2177 01:13:15,958 --> 01:13:18,750 {\an1}And trust me, there are always surprises. 2178 01:13:18,875 --> 01:13:21,625 {\an1}This next couple were the definition of 2179 01:13:21,708 --> 01:13:23,458 {\an1}an emotional roller coaster. 2180 01:13:23,583 --> 01:13:25,500 {\an1}Can't wait to see where they are today. 2181 01:13:25,583 --> 01:13:28,916 {\an1}Let's bring out Alexis and Justin. 2182 01:13:29,041 --> 01:13:31,333 {\an1}- Hello. - Oh, wow. 2183 01:13:31,416 --> 01:13:32,708 {\an1}Fancy, fancy, fancy, fancy. 2184 01:13:32,833 --> 01:13:33,916 {\an1}- Just a little. 2185 01:13:34,041 --> 01:13:35,291 {\an1}- How are you? - Good. 2186 01:13:35,416 --> 01:13:36,916 {\an1}- How are you doing? - Justin, what's up? 2187 01:13:37,041 --> 01:13:39,458 {\an1}♪ ♪ 2188 01:13:39,583 --> 01:13:41,625 {\an1}Y'all look so happy. 2189 01:13:41,708 --> 01:13:43,625 {\an1}Listen, you two had an instant connection. 2190 01:13:43,750 --> 01:13:45,833 {\an1}What was it that made you feel 2191 01:13:45,958 --> 01:13:47,666 {\an1}so comfortable with each other right off the bat? 2192 01:13:47,750 --> 01:13:49,375 {\an1}- I was just happy to be a wife, you know? 2193 01:13:49,541 --> 01:13:51,000 {\an1}And we clicked. 2194 01:13:51,166 --> 01:13:55,000 {\an1}We had a vibe that was just fun and honest and open. 2195 01:13:55,125 --> 01:13:57,291 {\an1}I think we just really both wanted it really bad. 2196 01:13:57,375 --> 01:13:58,833 {\an1}Like, we were genuine and true. 2197 01:13:58,958 --> 01:14:00,333 {\an1}And whoever was at the end of the aisle 2198 01:14:00,458 --> 01:14:02,250 {\an1}we were prepared to commit to on both parts. 2199 01:14:02,375 --> 01:14:03,708 {\an1}- I love that. 2200 01:14:03,875 --> 01:14:05,958 {\an1}You both said I love you on your honeymoon. 2201 01:14:06,041 --> 01:14:07,333 {\an1}- Yes. 2202 01:14:07,500 --> 01:14:09,125 {\an1}- Did you mean it, or was it infatuation? 2203 01:14:09,208 --> 01:14:10,500 {\an1}Because it's early on. 2204 01:14:10,583 --> 01:14:12,375 {\an1}- For me, love is a choice. 2205 01:14:12,500 --> 01:14:14,000 {\an1}And you know, I chose. 2206 01:14:14,125 --> 01:14:16,625 {\an1}I made the commitment that I wanted to love her. 2207 01:14:16,708 --> 01:14:18,416 {\an1}- How do you know, like, you want 2208 01:14:18,541 --> 01:14:19,416 {\an1}to spend the rest of my life-- because, you know-- 2209 01:14:19,541 --> 01:14:21,166 {\an1}- Because I love you. 2210 01:14:21,333 --> 01:14:22,291 {\an1}♪ ♪ 2211 01:14:22,375 --> 01:14:25,666 {\an1}- Ahh! [laughs] 2212 01:14:25,791 --> 01:14:28,458 {\an1}But I do feel like I may have jumped the gun 2213 01:14:28,583 --> 01:14:31,208 {\an1}in regards to moving a bit too fast. 2214 01:14:31,333 --> 01:14:32,833 {\an1}- Alexis how about you? - I'm a lover. 2215 01:14:32,916 --> 01:14:34,166 {\an1}- Because he may have jumped the gun. 2216 01:14:34,333 --> 01:14:35,125 {\an1}- That's fine. - OK. 2217 01:14:35,250 --> 01:14:36,625 {\an1}- I'm going to love. 2218 01:14:36,708 --> 01:14:37,750 {\an1}Every day, I walk out of my house prepared to love. 2219 01:14:40,041 --> 01:14:41,208 {\an1}- Huh? - I love you. 2220 01:14:41,333 --> 01:14:42,458 {\an1}- Say it one more time. - I love you. 2221 01:14:42,541 --> 01:14:44,500 {\an1}I wasn't necessarily in love at that time, 2222 01:14:44,666 --> 01:14:46,208 {\an1}but I did feel love. 2223 01:14:46,333 --> 01:14:47,791 {\an1}And there's nothing wrong with that, and I don't regret it. 2224 01:14:47,875 --> 01:14:50,500 {\an1}- Beauty of my job here is that I get to hear all the secrets. 2225 01:14:50,625 --> 01:14:52,875 {\an1}I get to hear all the secrets, and y'all might 2226 01:14:53,000 --> 01:14:55,708 {\an1}have consummated your marriage much earlier. 2227 01:14:55,833 --> 01:14:57,916 {\an1}Like, maybe on the honeymoon. 2228 01:14:58,041 --> 01:14:59,416 {\an1}Is that true? 2229 01:14:59,541 --> 01:15:03,500 {\an1}♪ ♪ 2230 01:15:03,666 --> 01:15:05,125 {\an1}- Don't look at me. 2231 01:15:05,208 --> 01:15:07,500 {\an1}♪ ♪ 2232 01:15:07,625 --> 01:15:10,416 {\an1}- Ah, yes, we consummated our marriage on the honeymoon. 2233 01:15:10,541 --> 01:15:12,333 {\an1}- You did. - Yes. 2234 01:15:12,416 --> 01:15:14,333 {\an1}- We tried to. 2235 01:15:14,500 --> 01:15:16,333 {\an1}- What do you mean we tried? 2236 01:15:16,500 --> 01:15:18,166 {\an1}- We dabbled in some adult things. 2237 01:15:18,291 --> 01:15:19,500 {\an1}- Mm-hmm. 2238 01:15:19,625 --> 01:15:22,250 {\an1}In her eyes, it wasn't very long. 2239 01:15:22,375 --> 01:15:23,958 {\an1}In my eyes, I'm like, you penetrated. 2240 01:15:24,041 --> 01:15:25,083 {\an1}I penetrated. 2241 01:15:25,208 --> 01:15:26,208 {\an1}And that's what it was. 2242 01:15:26,333 --> 01:15:27,666 {\an1}Whatever she want to call it. 2243 01:15:27,750 --> 01:15:29,000 {\an1}We had sex the first night of the honeymoon. 2244 01:15:29,125 --> 01:15:31,541 {\an1}We had sex the third night of the honeymoon. 2245 01:15:31,666 --> 01:15:34,500 {\an1}Like, we orgasmed. 2246 01:15:34,666 --> 01:15:36,708 {\an1}You got-- well, it sounded like you did. 2247 01:15:36,833 --> 01:15:38,833 {\an1}♪ ♪ 2248 01:15:39,000 --> 01:15:41,750 {\an1}And I did. 2249 01:15:41,875 --> 01:15:43,250 {\an1}- Why are you looking like that? 2250 01:15:43,375 --> 01:15:44,333 {\an1}- I'm not doing anything, Kevin. 2251 01:15:44,458 --> 01:15:45,875 {\an1}- OK. OK. 2252 01:15:46,000 --> 01:15:47,166 {\an1}- If that's the story that Justin wants, 2253 01:15:47,291 --> 01:15:48,333 {\an1}I'm fine with that. 2254 01:15:48,416 --> 01:15:49,958 {\an1}- We had sex, man. 2255 01:15:50,083 --> 01:15:51,708 {\an1}- OK, that's fine. 2256 01:15:51,833 --> 01:15:56,666 {\an1}And then Justin asked me to not say anything. 2257 01:15:56,791 --> 01:15:58,250 {\an1}- Mm-hmm 2258 01:15:58,375 --> 01:16:00,625 {\an1}- So I protected my husband, and we did not say anything. 2259 01:16:00,708 --> 01:16:02,625 {\an1}And then in the end, when you got mad at me, you're like, 2260 01:16:02,708 --> 01:16:04,041 {\an1}yeah, I'm going to tell our secret that I 2261 01:16:04,208 --> 01:16:05,458 {\an1}told you not to tell anybody. 2262 01:16:05,541 --> 01:16:06,833 {\an1}So then it put me in a bad spot. 2263 01:16:06,916 --> 01:16:08,333 {\an1}I just felt like it was manipulative, 2264 01:16:08,416 --> 01:16:09,666 {\an1}and I felt like it was malicious. 2265 01:16:09,791 --> 01:16:10,958 {\an1}You, like, brought me in on your lie. 2266 01:16:11,083 --> 01:16:13,166 {\an1}- You lied with me. 2267 01:16:13,250 --> 01:16:14,666 {\an1}You lied with me! 2268 01:16:14,791 --> 01:16:16,666 {\an1}If I said, hey, don't tell anybody, 2269 01:16:16,750 --> 01:16:18,583 {\an1}you made that choice 2270 01:16:18,708 --> 01:16:20,416 {\an1}to keep that secret with me. - OK. 2271 01:16:20,541 --> 01:16:22,000 {\an1}- Now, just like I was under the impression 2272 01:16:22,166 --> 01:16:23,958 {\an1}when you had your one-on-ones and your OTFs 2273 01:16:24,041 --> 01:16:25,541 {\an1}and your come back, I'm like, babe, I got your back. 2274 01:16:25,708 --> 01:16:26,833 {\an1}I'll talk good about you. 2275 01:16:27,000 --> 01:16:28,125 {\an1}But then when I go back and I watch it, 2276 01:16:28,208 --> 01:16:29,666 {\an1}I see the complete opposite. 2277 01:16:29,791 --> 01:16:31,541 {\an1}I'm like, you're throwing shade every opportunity you can. 2278 01:16:31,666 --> 01:16:34,416 {\an1}- I love that my husband's sensitive, but--[sighs] 2279 01:16:34,541 --> 01:16:36,041 {\an1}All right, honey. 2280 01:16:36,208 --> 01:16:37,291 {\an1}That's my husband. 2281 01:16:37,416 --> 01:16:38,708 {\an1}I'm like, that's him. 2282 01:16:38,833 --> 01:16:40,583 {\an1}Accept him for who he is. 2283 01:16:40,708 --> 01:16:42,541 {\an1}That's all I got to do. 2284 01:16:42,666 --> 01:16:43,916 {\an1}- But then you said I'm being malicious. 2285 01:16:44,041 --> 01:16:45,500 {\an1}No, I'm just speaking the truth. 2286 01:16:45,625 --> 01:16:46,958 {\an1}- Let me ask you this. 2287 01:16:47,041 --> 01:16:49,500 {\an1}After Decision Day, you two got into 2288 01:16:49,583 --> 01:16:51,625 {\an1}a really heated and bad argument. 2289 01:16:51,708 --> 01:16:52,916 {\an1}- Like, right now, you're making it seem like 2290 01:16:53,041 --> 01:16:54,458 {\an1}it's a privilege that you chose me. 2291 01:16:54,541 --> 01:16:56,125 {\an1}That's what it feels like. - No, I'd never-- 2292 01:16:56,208 --> 01:16:57,416 {\an1}what? 2293 01:16:57,541 --> 01:16:58,416 {\an1}- That's just what it feels like. 2294 01:16:58,541 --> 01:17:00,166 {\an1}- How? 2295 01:17:00,250 --> 01:17:01,833 {\an1}- We'll talk about it later. 2296 01:17:01,916 --> 01:17:03,166 {\an1}- But you didn't bring it up later. 2297 01:17:03,291 --> 01:17:04,458 {\an1}You brought it up now. 2298 01:17:04,583 --> 01:17:05,666 {\an1}- And we'll talk about it later. 2299 01:17:05,791 --> 01:17:06,750 {\an1}- How is that fair? 2300 01:17:06,875 --> 01:17:08,833 {\an1}- It's not fair. - OK. 2301 01:17:09,000 --> 01:17:10,625 {\an1}♪ ♪ 2302 01:17:10,750 --> 01:17:13,500 {\an1}Cool, well, let's go start our marriage. 2303 01:17:13,666 --> 01:17:15,125 {\an1}Let's go. 2304 01:17:15,250 --> 01:17:17,666 {\an1}♪ ♪ 2305 01:17:17,791 --> 01:17:19,083 {\an1}- Things went South. 2306 01:17:19,208 --> 01:17:20,250 {\an1}Are you together? 2307 01:17:20,375 --> 01:17:22,500 {\an1}♪ ♪ 2308 01:17:22,666 --> 01:17:24,166 {\an1}- We are... 2309 01:17:24,291 --> 01:17:26,375 {\an1}both: Not together. 2310 01:17:26,500 --> 01:17:28,166 {\an1}- Why not? 2311 01:17:28,291 --> 01:17:30,166 {\an1}- It's my choice. 2312 01:17:30,291 --> 01:17:31,833 {\an1}- What? 2313 01:17:31,916 --> 01:17:34,291 {\an1}- I mean, I think it was me that broke it off. 2314 01:17:34,375 --> 01:17:35,666 {\an1}No? - Not at all. 2315 01:17:35,791 --> 01:17:36,833 {\an1}- You're lying. We were in your apartment-- 2316 01:17:37,000 --> 01:17:38,916 {\an1}- Justin, I have screenshots. 2317 01:17:39,041 --> 01:17:40,208 {\an1}- Hold on a sec. 2318 01:17:40,333 --> 01:17:44,375 {\an1}Just tell us what is your version of the truth. 2319 01:17:44,500 --> 01:17:45,750 {\an1}- Decision Day was rough. 2320 01:17:45,875 --> 01:17:47,333 {\an1}The day after was rough. 2321 01:17:47,458 --> 01:17:48,791 {\an1}I just-- I couldn't take anymore. 2322 01:17:48,916 --> 01:17:50,833 {\an1}So I was the one who asked for a divorce. 2323 01:17:50,958 --> 01:17:54,875 {\an1}I didn't have any hope for any semblance of a relationship. 2324 01:17:55,000 --> 01:17:56,208 {\an1}- Why not? 2325 01:17:56,333 --> 01:17:58,083 {\an1}- I felt like I was not free. 2326 01:17:58,208 --> 01:18:01,333 {\an1}And I'm a very free-spirited individual, 2327 01:18:01,458 --> 01:18:02,583 {\an1}and I didn't feel-- 2328 01:18:02,708 --> 01:18:03,833 {\an1}I felt like I was losing myself. 2329 01:18:04,000 --> 01:18:05,833 {\an1}We still try to become friends. - Mm-hmm. 2330 01:18:06,000 --> 01:18:09,291 {\an1}- Friends don't call each other drunk saying, you know-- 2331 01:18:09,375 --> 01:18:11,666 {\an1}- What? - You wanted to--girl. 2332 01:18:11,791 --> 01:18:13,708 {\an1}She can't be truthful, and it's frustrating. 2333 01:18:13,833 --> 01:18:18,166 {\an1}She puts on this front, and she's just-- 2334 01:18:18,291 --> 01:18:19,750 {\an1}- Well, this is a thing. - I can't deal with the lying. 2335 01:18:19,875 --> 01:18:21,125 {\an1}- This is a thing. - Just lying. 2336 01:18:21,208 --> 01:18:22,166 {\an1}It's ridiculous. - This is a thing. 2337 01:18:22,250 --> 01:18:23,541 {\an1}I have nothing to hide. 2338 01:18:23,666 --> 01:18:24,791 {\an1}Like, what's the point? 2339 01:18:24,916 --> 01:18:26,125 {\an1}So for me, it's just like, that's why 2340 01:18:26,250 --> 01:18:27,416 {\an1}I just want to be done. 2341 01:18:27,541 --> 01:18:28,791 {\an1}I just want to be done. 2342 01:18:28,916 --> 01:18:30,750 {\an1}I want to be free, and it's draining. 2343 01:18:30,875 --> 01:18:32,500 {\an1}And these feelings are coming back towards, like, heavy. 2344 01:18:32,666 --> 01:18:34,083 {\an1}- Because you're doing-- - What happened? 2345 01:18:34,208 --> 01:18:35,500 {\an1}- You're doing that gaslighting thing. 2346 01:18:35,625 --> 01:18:37,041 {\an1}- What happened, Justin? 2347 01:18:37,166 --> 01:18:39,333 {\an1}- Justin, you get emotional-- - I'm not getting emotional. 2348 01:18:39,458 --> 01:18:40,625 {\an1}I'm just not allowing you-- 2349 01:18:40,750 --> 01:18:41,708 {\an1}- Like, your whole body language. 2350 01:18:41,833 --> 01:18:43,000 {\an1}- No. No, no, no, Alexis. 2351 01:18:43,125 --> 01:18:44,833 {\an1}I allowed you to gaslight me for the longest. 2352 01:18:44,958 --> 01:18:46,583 {\an1}And you're doing it again. 2353 01:18:46,708 --> 01:18:47,833 {\an1}You're trying to manipulate the truth. 2354 01:18:47,958 --> 01:18:49,625 {\an1}You came on to me back at my apartment. 2355 01:18:49,750 --> 01:18:51,000 {\an1}One night, you came from the club drunk. 2356 01:18:51,125 --> 01:18:52,416 {\an1}- I never came on to you. - That didn't happen? 2357 01:18:52,541 --> 01:18:54,000 {\an1}- Never. 2358 01:18:54,125 --> 01:18:57,083 {\an1}- Girl, compulsive liar is what you are, man. 2359 01:18:57,208 --> 01:18:59,833 {\an1}[dramatic music] 2360 01:19:02,500 --> 01:19:04,083 {\an1}- Next week on part two of 2361 01:19:04,208 --> 01:19:05,791 {\an1}the "Married At First Sight" San Diego reunion-- 2362 01:19:05,875 --> 01:19:07,416 {\an1}You tried to make it click in the bedroom. 2363 01:19:07,541 --> 01:19:10,083 {\an1}- I was trying to get all the parts moving and going. 2364 01:19:10,208 --> 01:19:12,791 {\an1}- You came to my house in the middle of the night. 2365 01:19:12,916 --> 01:19:14,625 {\an1}- I didn't, Justin. 2366 01:19:14,708 --> 01:19:16,583 {\an1}- Mitch was on my [bleep] list from day one. 2367 01:19:16,708 --> 01:19:17,666 {\an1}- That was rock bottom. 2368 01:19:17,833 --> 01:19:19,500 {\an1}It's a breaking point for me. 2369 01:19:19,625 --> 01:19:22,583 {\an1}- I'm no fool, but a man knows when a woman wants him. 2370 01:19:22,708 --> 01:19:26,333 {\an1}- He put her through [bleep] hell and back. 2371 01:19:26,416 --> 01:19:28,291 {\an1}- Yikes. 2372 01:19:28,375 --> 01:19:31,958 {\an1}- I do understand you had good intentions, but I'm an adult. 2373 01:19:32,041 --> 01:19:34,125 {\an1}- Honestly? You quit. 2374 01:19:34,250 --> 01:19:36,666 {\an1}♪ ♪ 2375 01:19:36,833 --> 01:19:38,666 {\an1}- Shut up, man. God, you're like a kid. 2376 01:19:38,791 --> 01:19:41,000 {\an1}- Can both of you just stop? 2377 01:19:41,125 --> 01:19:46,791 {\an1}♪ ♪