1 00:00:01,310 --> 00:00:02,241 Let me show you the types of things that were going on 2 00:00:02,241 --> 00:00:03,896 -at the first bachelorette. -Okay. 3 00:00:03,896 --> 00:00:06,689 [Whitney] Previously on My Big Fat Fabulous Life... 4 00:00:06,689 --> 00:00:08,000 [laughing] 5 00:00:08,000 --> 00:00:09,275 [Glenn] We've got that big house, 6 00:00:09,275 --> 00:00:11,448 and I think we ought to consider... 7 00:00:12,379 --> 00:00:13,551 selling it. 8 00:00:13,551 --> 00:00:15,689 [Whitney] Now that he wants to sell the house, 9 00:00:15,689 --> 00:00:19,000 it might be worth renovating that bedroom downstairs 10 00:00:19,000 --> 00:00:21,206 so that he could see the potential. 11 00:00:21,206 --> 00:00:22,689 Me and Kenny are walking down the stairs 12 00:00:22,689 --> 00:00:24,827 and he goes, "I'll take you on a real date, 13 00:00:24,827 --> 00:00:27,896 but, you know I only like small women." 14 00:00:27,896 --> 00:00:29,724 [Jaime speaking] 15 00:00:37,379 --> 00:00:39,586 [Whitney] I also wanna go back to my fertility doctor. 16 00:00:39,586 --> 00:00:42,896 You know, there is, like, a biological clock 17 00:00:42,896 --> 00:00:44,068 that men don't have to worry about. 18 00:00:44,068 --> 00:00:45,655 Oh, I get it like, 19 00:00:45,655 --> 00:00:46,827 -you still wanna be able to have the option. -[Whitney] It's just weird. 20 00:00:46,827 --> 00:00:48,068 Yeah. 21 00:00:48,068 --> 00:00:49,413 -I see you! -I see Jaime. 22 00:00:49,586 --> 00:00:51,000 [chuckling] 23 00:00:51,000 --> 00:00:53,896 We got pizzas coming and I've got us a fitness class. 24 00:00:53,896 --> 00:00:55,275 -What? -Oh my God. 25 00:00:55,275 --> 00:00:56,310 We go through all this trouble 26 00:00:56,310 --> 00:00:57,482 to have this bachelorette party, 27 00:00:57,482 --> 00:00:58,689 and we're not having strippers? 28 00:00:58,689 --> 00:01:00,275 Like, what are strippers for? [chuckles] 29 00:01:00,275 --> 00:01:02,896 I swear to you, I told her, "No strippers." I promise you. 30 00:01:02,896 --> 00:01:04,482 Mama, I'm telling you right now, 31 00:01:04,482 --> 00:01:06,103 if there's a stripper at that house, 32 00:01:06,103 --> 00:01:07,310 I'm gonna be mad. 33 00:01:10,172 --> 00:01:11,689 [all exclaiming] Hey! 34 00:01:11,689 --> 00:01:13,137 [indistinct exclaiming] 35 00:01:26,793 --> 00:01:27,965 [people cheering] 36 00:01:28,793 --> 00:01:31,000 Like, are-- Are there strippers here? 37 00:01:31,000 --> 00:01:33,000 [Whitney] Okay, so, Jaime, there are no strippers. 38 00:01:33,000 --> 00:01:35,310 We had a long ride back from the Charlotte Airport, 39 00:01:35,310 --> 00:01:36,482 -and a lot of alcohol. -[Jaime] Okay. 40 00:01:36,482 --> 00:01:38,275 -But, we are ready. -[laughing] 41 00:01:38,275 --> 00:01:40,413 -We are ready to perform. -Let's go, girl. 42 00:01:41,413 --> 00:01:42,310 Let's go, girl. 43 00:01:42,310 --> 00:01:44,103 I know Jaime did not want strippers 44 00:01:44,103 --> 00:01:45,793 at her bachelorette party. 45 00:01:45,793 --> 00:01:48,931 But I did hire someone that I think is even better. 46 00:01:48,931 --> 00:01:52,378 She's a fantasy educational coach. 47 00:01:52,378 --> 00:01:54,378 -I'm scared. -[Angie] Don't be scared. 48 00:01:54,378 --> 00:01:57,000 Be open to learn. 49 00:01:57,000 --> 00:02:00,586 [Angie] I just want everyone to come in with an open mind. 50 00:02:00,586 --> 00:02:02,517 It's a bachelorette party, people. 51 00:02:02,517 --> 00:02:04,827 It's like, your last hurrah. 52 00:02:05,275 --> 00:02:06,448 My name is Toni. 53 00:02:06,448 --> 00:02:09,103 I'm the director of a studio called Fantasy Fitness. 54 00:02:09,103 --> 00:02:13,275 We are here today to celebrate Jaime's bachelorette party. 55 00:02:13,275 --> 00:02:14,344 [all cheering] 56 00:02:15,896 --> 00:02:18,379 So, that means one more [bleep] for life, right? 57 00:02:18,379 --> 00:02:20,103 -[all exclaiming] -Yes! 58 00:02:20,103 --> 00:02:22,793 And we're gonna prep Jaime for this one more [bleep] for life. 59 00:02:22,793 --> 00:02:24,137 Oh God. 60 00:02:24,137 --> 00:02:25,724 So, what I need you all to do is just have a seat, please. 61 00:02:25,724 --> 00:02:27,206 -On your mats. -[Whitney] Okay. 62 00:02:29,482 --> 00:02:30,344 [indistinct conversation] 63 00:02:30,344 --> 00:02:31,827 ♪♪ We're gonna turn you on 64 00:02:31,827 --> 00:02:33,310 [Jaime] Oh, we're gonna turn you out? 65 00:02:33,310 --> 00:02:34,724 -[Toni] All right, ready? -Okay! 66 00:02:35,310 --> 00:02:37,103 [Toni] Start by breathing in. 67 00:02:37,103 --> 00:02:38,827 Inhale, arms are up. 68 00:02:41,275 --> 00:02:43,137 Exhale, arms are out. 69 00:02:43,793 --> 00:02:45,379 ♪♪ We're gonna turn you on 70 00:02:45,379 --> 00:02:47,620 Take one hand up your body, 71 00:02:48,517 --> 00:02:51,275 grab your head, pull it over to the side, 72 00:02:51,275 --> 00:02:53,724 release and stretch the neck around. 73 00:02:54,724 --> 00:02:56,930 Bring the head back up to center. 74 00:02:57,275 --> 00:02:58,620 Take your neck forward. 75 00:02:59,586 --> 00:03:01,103 Pull it back. 76 00:03:01,103 --> 00:03:02,758 -Take it forward. -[all laughing] 77 00:03:03,689 --> 00:03:06,103 Take your hands down your face. 78 00:03:06,103 --> 00:03:07,620 -Grab your mouth. -[all laughing] 79 00:03:09,103 --> 00:03:11,275 This is embarrassing. 80 00:03:11,275 --> 00:03:14,793 And I cannot believe my mom did this. 81 00:03:14,793 --> 00:03:16,103 Okay, we got more. 82 00:03:16,103 --> 00:03:17,931 I want you to turn over to all fours, please. 83 00:03:17,931 --> 00:03:19,793 -[all exclaiming] Oh, God. -[Toni] There you go. 84 00:03:19,793 --> 00:03:22,000 [woman] Here we go, y'all, here we go. 85 00:03:22,000 --> 00:03:23,379 [Toni] So, I want you to start 86 00:03:23,379 --> 00:03:26,000 by pressing your booty back to your feet. 87 00:03:27,689 --> 00:03:30,724 And bring it back up slowly to the arch. 88 00:03:30,724 --> 00:03:32,930 Again, press back, back. 89 00:03:33,413 --> 00:03:34,793 Bring it up. 90 00:03:34,793 --> 00:03:36,000 -Yes. -All right. 91 00:03:36,000 --> 00:03:38,275 Do it a little faster, push it back. 92 00:03:38,275 --> 00:03:39,206 And up. 93 00:03:39,206 --> 00:03:40,793 -Push it. -[laughing] 94 00:03:40,793 --> 00:03:44,000 Um, definitely not my cup of tea. 95 00:03:44,000 --> 00:03:45,793 Oh wow, can I get out of here? 96 00:03:45,793 --> 00:03:48,172 Where-- where's the nearest hole, 97 00:03:48,172 --> 00:03:49,724 rock, that I can climb under? 98 00:03:50,310 --> 00:03:51,310 [Toni] Like this. 99 00:03:51,310 --> 00:03:52,275 [all laughing] 100 00:03:52,275 --> 00:03:53,689 Then, switch hands. 101 00:03:53,689 --> 00:03:54,896 This hand down. 102 00:03:54,896 --> 00:03:56,448 [women exclaiming and laughing] 103 00:03:57,000 --> 00:03:58,482 Go to your forearm. 104 00:03:58,482 --> 00:03:59,482 Yes! 105 00:03:59,482 --> 00:04:00,689 Push it up. 106 00:04:00,689 --> 00:04:02,172 -Chest to the floor. -Oh, oh! 107 00:04:02,172 --> 00:04:03,137 [Toni] And back. 108 00:04:03,620 --> 00:04:05,413 [Jaime speaking] 109 00:04:05,413 --> 00:04:06,551 [Toni] And back. 110 00:04:07,103 --> 00:04:10,103 I think Jaime is an F-R-E-A-K. 111 00:04:10,103 --> 00:04:11,931 -And I think-- -[both laughing] 112 00:04:11,931 --> 00:04:13,206 [Whitney] But, I feel like I could see it in her face. 113 00:04:13,206 --> 00:04:16,274 I feel like she was really taking in the information. 114 00:04:16,274 --> 00:04:18,206 Yes, oh! Work it. 115 00:04:18,206 --> 00:04:20,413 -Work it, work it. Yeah. -[Angie speaking] 116 00:04:20,413 --> 00:04:21,793 [Toni] Uh-huh. 117 00:04:21,793 --> 00:04:22,931 [exclaiming] Mom! 118 00:04:22,931 --> 00:04:24,793 Jaime's just a little reserved, 119 00:04:24,793 --> 00:04:27,103 and Jaime isn't wanting to do, 120 00:04:27,103 --> 00:04:29,724 what do you call it? Like, public... 121 00:04:29,724 --> 00:04:31,689 -PDA? -[Angie] Yeah. 122 00:04:31,689 --> 00:04:33,793 She doesn't get sexual in public. 123 00:04:33,793 --> 00:04:35,206 No, absolutely not. 124 00:04:35,206 --> 00:04:36,413 'Cause I-- I do. 125 00:04:36,413 --> 00:04:37,586 [both laughing] 126 00:04:37,586 --> 00:04:38,931 Yeah, you would. 127 00:04:41,000 --> 00:04:42,931 Good job, ladies. 128 00:04:42,931 --> 00:04:44,310 [all cheering] 129 00:04:45,000 --> 00:04:46,931 -[Toni] Angie. -[Angie] Yes? 130 00:04:46,931 --> 00:04:50,827 Can you bring out our equipment? 131 00:04:50,827 --> 00:04:52,413 -[Jaime] Equipment? -[all exclaiming] 132 00:04:54,000 --> 00:04:55,413 [Jaime] Give me the smallest one. 133 00:04:56,310 --> 00:04:58,379 I got the biggest one. What the hell? 134 00:04:58,379 --> 00:05:00,689 -Ooh, I need this one. -[all laughing] 135 00:05:00,689 --> 00:05:01,896 I'll take that one. 136 00:05:01,896 --> 00:05:03,172 Yes, ma'am. 137 00:05:03,172 --> 00:05:05,379 So, the first thing we're gonna do, y'all, 138 00:05:05,379 --> 00:05:09,310 -we're going to work on getting it from... -[all exclaiming] 139 00:05:09,931 --> 00:05:12,000 -[Toni] To up. -Oh, okay. 140 00:05:12,000 --> 00:05:13,896 [Toni] Instead of just putting it in 141 00:05:13,896 --> 00:05:16,068 and going, ah, in and out, 142 00:05:16,068 --> 00:05:17,620 you're gonna put it in your mouth. 143 00:05:18,379 --> 00:05:20,689 And you're gonna turn your head side to side 144 00:05:20,689 --> 00:05:22,793 as if you're opening a Coke bottle. 145 00:05:22,793 --> 00:05:24,103 [Cassidy] I'm not putting this in my mouth. 146 00:05:24,103 --> 00:05:25,275 [Andrea] Whose vegetable is that? 147 00:05:25,275 --> 00:05:26,344 [loud laughter] 148 00:05:27,172 --> 00:05:29,482 [indistinct exclaiming] 149 00:05:29,482 --> 00:05:31,275 [Whitney] Put it in your mouth! 150 00:05:31,275 --> 00:05:33,172 Why aren't y'all doing it? 151 00:05:33,172 --> 00:05:34,413 [Hannah] I was sitting there. 152 00:05:34,413 --> 00:05:37,310 I was one of the fortunate ones to get the eggplant. 153 00:05:37,310 --> 00:05:39,620 Um, and I didn't really know what to do with it. 154 00:05:39,896 --> 00:05:41,103 Honestly. 155 00:05:41,689 --> 00:05:43,379 I need you to stand up for me. 156 00:05:43,379 --> 00:05:44,827 Oh, oh and I... 157 00:05:45,724 --> 00:05:47,310 -You're gonna hold mine for me. -[Whitney] Oh. 158 00:05:47,310 --> 00:05:48,413 -Oh, all right. -[Toni] Yeah, right here. 159 00:05:48,413 --> 00:05:50,068 -What? -[Angie laughing] 160 00:05:50,068 --> 00:05:52,310 -You know, probably a little taller. -Okay. 161 00:05:52,310 --> 00:05:54,586 [Toni] This is where you got something to prove, okay? 162 00:05:54,586 --> 00:05:55,896 -Okay. -Torpedo. 163 00:05:55,896 --> 00:05:57,793 -[all murmuring] Okay. -[Toni] Go here. 164 00:05:57,793 --> 00:05:58,896 [Jaime] I can't see. 165 00:05:58,896 --> 00:06:00,103 [all exclaiming] 166 00:06:01,827 --> 00:06:04,000 Oh, hell to the no. 167 00:06:04,000 --> 00:06:05,724 She went Exorcist with it. 168 00:06:05,724 --> 00:06:07,068 [all laughing] 169 00:06:07,068 --> 00:06:11,000 You could definitely tell Toni, um, was experienced. 170 00:06:11,000 --> 00:06:12,931 -[Toni] Head goes around. -Okay. 171 00:06:13,206 --> 00:06:14,448 [Toni] Uh-huh. 172 00:06:14,448 --> 00:06:15,793 Probably wouldn't want my children watching me do that. 173 00:06:15,793 --> 00:06:17,827 But it was okay. It was funny. 174 00:06:18,793 --> 00:06:20,310 -That's torpedo. -[Whitney] Okay. 175 00:06:20,310 --> 00:06:22,379 Well, you can stand and hold somebody else's. 176 00:06:22,379 --> 00:06:24,103 So, I get to be the man all the time? 177 00:06:24,103 --> 00:06:25,517 -Why do I have to be the man? -[Jaime] Hey, I'll-- 178 00:06:25,517 --> 00:06:28,000 Listen, I'll be the man if you want to do it to me. 179 00:06:28,000 --> 00:06:29,206 -You'll be the man? -[Jaime] Yeah. 180 00:06:29,206 --> 00:06:30,655 -I'll try it. -You wanna try it? 181 00:06:30,655 --> 00:06:32,517 [Jaime] I don't think you need to be on your knees. I'm short. 182 00:06:32,517 --> 00:06:34,068 You know, this is not what-- 183 00:06:34,068 --> 00:06:35,379 Oh-- [exclaiming] 184 00:06:35,379 --> 00:06:37,482 Hit my glasses. 185 00:06:37,482 --> 00:06:39,517 I can't-- look, this is [bleep] weird. 186 00:06:39,517 --> 00:06:40,931 You just-- let me move. 187 00:06:40,931 --> 00:06:42,827 -You stay still. -This is weird. 188 00:06:42,827 --> 00:06:43,896 I don't like this. 189 00:06:43,896 --> 00:06:45,103 -[women laughing] -No, no! 190 00:06:45,103 --> 00:06:47,586 I can feel it, I can feel it going. 191 00:06:47,586 --> 00:06:49,206 I can feel it! 192 00:06:49,206 --> 00:06:50,827 I can feel it moving! 193 00:06:50,827 --> 00:06:52,586 [indistinct exclaiming] 194 00:06:52,586 --> 00:06:53,931 [all laughing] 195 00:06:58,517 --> 00:07:00,379 [Toni] Good job, hey! 196 00:07:00,379 --> 00:07:01,758 [all laughing] 197 00:07:02,724 --> 00:07:04,103 Well, I thought it was fun. 198 00:07:04,103 --> 00:07:06,000 -Oh, yeah. -I'm-- I'm glad. 199 00:07:06,000 --> 00:07:07,586 I think you did a good job. 200 00:07:07,586 --> 00:07:09,172 I... 201 00:07:09,172 --> 00:07:11,413 Well, I learned a new skill and I thought I knew it all. 202 00:07:11,413 --> 00:07:13,000 -Right? -'Cause you saw me on that torpedo. 203 00:07:13,172 --> 00:07:14,724 Torpedoing. 204 00:07:16,689 --> 00:07:18,310 -Ow, I just broke my neck. -[both laughing] 205 00:07:20,103 --> 00:07:22,827 -Now, the thing that sucks, Toni. -[Toni] Yes? 206 00:07:22,827 --> 00:07:24,896 Is after gaining all this knowledge... 207 00:07:24,896 --> 00:07:27,068 -[Toni] Uh-huh. -Um, I'm the only one here 208 00:07:27,068 --> 00:07:28,793 that does not have a man to go home to. 209 00:07:28,793 --> 00:07:30,103 -[laughing] -[Toni] But, you're gonna-- you're gonna-- 210 00:07:30,103 --> 00:07:31,310 You're gonna hold on to these-- 211 00:07:31,310 --> 00:07:32,724 -information. -[Whitney] I'm gonna keep it inside, 212 00:07:32,724 --> 00:07:34,413 -and when it's ready to be unleashed... -Yes. 213 00:07:34,413 --> 00:07:35,482 Boom-shaka-laka. 214 00:07:35,482 --> 00:07:38,000 You know, my husband's gonna write you a check. 215 00:07:38,000 --> 00:07:39,931 -I'd appreciate that. That'd be great. -[Angie] I know, Right? 216 00:07:39,931 --> 00:07:41,068 -Thank you. -[Toni] Yeah. 217 00:07:41,068 --> 00:07:42,379 [woman] Thanks, Whitney. 218 00:07:42,379 --> 00:07:43,689 Oh my lord. 219 00:07:43,689 --> 00:07:46,000 [Whitney] I think we all learned some valuable skills. 220 00:07:46,000 --> 00:07:47,275 Toni, thank you so much. 221 00:07:47,275 --> 00:07:49,172 -[Toni] Thank you. -This has been lovely. 222 00:07:49,172 --> 00:07:50,413 -[all] Thank you. -See ya! 223 00:07:50,413 --> 00:07:52,551 -[all] Bye! -[Whitney] Thank you. 224 00:07:53,620 --> 00:07:57,103 Today was an amazing start to the bachelorette weekend, 225 00:07:57,103 --> 00:08:00,482 and even though Jaime was, I think, low key, mortified, 226 00:08:00,482 --> 00:08:03,517 Angie really outdid herself with booking this class. 227 00:08:03,517 --> 00:08:06,206 And I think that all of the bridesmaids 228 00:08:06,206 --> 00:08:08,172 are going to have some very interesting things 229 00:08:08,172 --> 00:08:09,655 to bring home to their husbands. 230 00:08:09,655 --> 00:08:12,896 It would be amazing if I had a partner to do those things. 231 00:08:12,896 --> 00:08:14,793 And I still wanna hold out hope 232 00:08:14,793 --> 00:08:19,275 that one day, I will have what they have. 233 00:08:19,275 --> 00:08:21,517 Did you have anything else planned, or are we free to go to bed? 234 00:08:21,517 --> 00:08:23,413 -I'm good. -I'm ready to bed. 235 00:08:23,413 --> 00:08:25,241 [all laughing] 236 00:08:36,413 --> 00:08:37,827 [Whitney] What are you doing? 237 00:08:37,827 --> 00:08:40,793 -[Jaime] Hi. -[Whitney] Why are you out here all by yourself? 238 00:08:40,793 --> 00:08:42,620 I'm just enjoying the peace and quiet. 239 00:08:42,620 --> 00:08:43,724 -[popping] -[Whitney] Whoa! 240 00:08:44,310 --> 00:08:45,275 [Jaime] What was that? 241 00:08:45,275 --> 00:08:47,413 It's the, uh, this thing. 242 00:08:48,896 --> 00:08:50,000 I just cracked it. 243 00:08:50,000 --> 00:08:51,206 They'll never notice. 244 00:08:51,206 --> 00:08:53,172 [Whitney laughs] 245 00:08:53,172 --> 00:08:54,724 -[sighs] -What're you doing? 246 00:08:54,724 --> 00:08:56,103 Well, I was just hanging out with the girls, 247 00:08:56,103 --> 00:08:57,586 but I was looking for you. 248 00:08:57,586 --> 00:08:58,793 Are they all up? 249 00:08:58,793 --> 00:09:00,379 Are they-- They're up, 250 00:09:00,379 --> 00:09:02,931 hair curled, makeup on, everything. 251 00:09:02,931 --> 00:09:04,068 Oh. 252 00:09:04,068 --> 00:09:06,793 Well, last night, Angie definitely outdid herself. 253 00:09:06,793 --> 00:09:10,000 I thought we might just get some pineapple and pepperoni pizza. 254 00:09:10,000 --> 00:09:12,172 But this was... 255 00:09:12,172 --> 00:09:15,172 Uh, it was a wild ride. [laughs] 256 00:09:15,172 --> 00:09:16,482 It really was. 257 00:09:16,482 --> 00:09:18,931 Who knew that we had so many hidden talents? 258 00:09:18,931 --> 00:09:21,000 I spun around on my ding dang knees. 259 00:09:21,000 --> 00:09:22,689 I think it was a good start to the weekend, 260 00:09:22,689 --> 00:09:26,172 but this morning I want to kind of connect with Jaime, 261 00:09:26,172 --> 00:09:27,310 in a sober way. 262 00:09:27,310 --> 00:09:29,482 And I've got a special gift for her 263 00:09:29,482 --> 00:09:30,724 that I want her to have 264 00:09:30,724 --> 00:09:33,103 before we start getting wild all over again. 265 00:09:33,586 --> 00:09:34,482 Did you have fun? 266 00:09:34,482 --> 00:09:35,586 -I had a blast. -[Whitney] Did you? 267 00:09:35,586 --> 00:09:36,793 -Yes. -[Whitney] Okay, good. 268 00:09:36,793 --> 00:09:38,241 You don't like something, you gotta blame your mama. 269 00:09:38,517 --> 00:09:39,413 Oh my gosh. 270 00:09:41,379 --> 00:09:42,551 Why? What? 271 00:09:43,724 --> 00:09:45,724 Your mother was living her best life. 272 00:09:45,724 --> 00:09:46,931 [Jaime speaking] 273 00:09:48,068 --> 00:09:49,586 -She was-- -[both laughing] 274 00:09:49,586 --> 00:09:52,000 When she said, "Twerk on the [bleep]." 275 00:09:52,379 --> 00:09:53,620 I was like, oh! 276 00:09:55,172 --> 00:09:56,310 Oh, no. 277 00:09:59,689 --> 00:10:00,758 [Whitney] Shame... 278 00:10:00,827 --> 00:10:01,586 Oh! 279 00:10:01,586 --> 00:10:02,620 [laughs] 280 00:10:02,620 --> 00:10:04,620 I'm feeling a little bit better this morning 281 00:10:04,620 --> 00:10:06,103 after that class last night. 282 00:10:06,103 --> 00:10:09,068 I am glad it's over with. 283 00:10:09,068 --> 00:10:11,793 This is not like my mom to plan something like this. 284 00:10:11,793 --> 00:10:14,206 I think that she was just trying to be funny, 285 00:10:14,206 --> 00:10:15,724 and it was not funny. 286 00:10:17,413 --> 00:10:19,379 Let her-- we are not too old. 287 00:10:19,379 --> 00:10:21,379 It's bizarre to me, because I look at y'all 288 00:10:21,379 --> 00:10:23,103 and I think... 289 00:10:23,103 --> 00:10:26,379 that you seem so young, but at the same time, 290 00:10:26,379 --> 00:10:27,724 I mean, you're getting married, obviously. 291 00:10:27,724 --> 00:10:28,689 -[Jaime] Yeah. -And like-- but like, most of those girls 292 00:10:28,689 --> 00:10:30,517 are married and have children already. 293 00:10:30,517 --> 00:10:32,758 -Yeah. -[Whitney] It's so weird because I'm like, 294 00:10:33,689 --> 00:10:35,172 "That's how my life could have gone." 295 00:10:35,172 --> 00:10:36,586 But it didn't, right? 296 00:10:36,586 --> 00:10:38,931 -I know. -But instead, here I am, you know, 297 00:10:38,931 --> 00:10:42,482 just collecting cats and heartbreak, but... 298 00:10:42,482 --> 00:10:46,379 I was engaged when I was 22, I believe. 299 00:10:46,379 --> 00:10:48,172 And it's interesting to look back on 300 00:10:48,172 --> 00:10:49,724 and think, "Wow, I'm a different person." 301 00:10:49,724 --> 00:10:51,034 And, "I was so young then." and whatever. 302 00:10:51,034 --> 00:10:54,793 But I can't say that I'm like, happy I didn't get married. 303 00:10:54,793 --> 00:10:56,896 I mean, obviously, it wasn't the right decision, 304 00:10:56,896 --> 00:10:58,379 for that partnership. 305 00:10:58,379 --> 00:11:01,793 But, I certainly wish I was married now. [laughs] 306 00:11:01,793 --> 00:11:04,724 You know, I feel like getting married over 40 is kind of like... 307 00:11:04,724 --> 00:11:06,000 "Oh, good for her." 308 00:11:06,000 --> 00:11:07,482 [laughs] You know? 309 00:11:09,310 --> 00:11:11,172 -Yeah. -[Jaime] Like, I was talking to a guy the other day 310 00:11:11,172 --> 00:11:13,413 and he was like, "My 40th birthday 311 00:11:13,413 --> 00:11:15,310 was the best birthday I've ever had." 312 00:11:15,310 --> 00:11:17,310 Some people say, like, "Oh, my back!" 313 00:11:17,310 --> 00:11:18,206 Or "My knees", or whatever, 314 00:11:18,206 --> 00:11:19,724 like, I feel pretty much the same. 315 00:11:19,724 --> 00:11:22,172 The only thing that scares me about being 40 is not having a partner. 316 00:11:22,172 --> 00:11:25,000 Because, well, number one, also knowing like, 317 00:11:25,000 --> 00:11:26,620 I'm probably not gonna have kids, 318 00:11:26,620 --> 00:11:28,931 you know, at this age, because I'm still single. 319 00:11:29,310 --> 00:11:30,517 So, that's hard. 320 00:11:30,517 --> 00:11:32,793 -To-- I mean... -You can have babies and be single. 321 00:11:32,793 --> 00:11:34,000 I know I could, 322 00:11:34,000 --> 00:11:36,586 but I don't wanna, like, go into it by myself. 323 00:11:36,586 --> 00:11:39,103 And especially like, even with men and stuff like, 324 00:11:39,103 --> 00:11:41,103 most 40-year-old men who happen to be single 325 00:11:41,103 --> 00:11:42,689 are not looking for 40-year-old women, 326 00:11:42,689 --> 00:11:44,931 or they're looking for-- or they still want kids. 327 00:11:44,931 --> 00:11:46,103 You won't believe, on the dating apps, 328 00:11:46,103 --> 00:11:47,379 all these men like 55, 329 00:11:47,379 --> 00:11:48,724 and it's like, "Yes, I want kids." 330 00:11:48,724 --> 00:11:50,103 -And I'm like... -At 55? 331 00:11:50,103 --> 00:11:52,172 How old of a woman are you gonna marry? Like... 332 00:11:52,172 --> 00:11:54,793 -[Jaime] Yeah. -'Cause I can't do that for anybody, you know? 333 00:11:54,793 --> 00:11:56,241 If I was a guy, 334 00:11:56,241 --> 00:11:58,344 -I don't think I would care about being 40 at all. -Yeah. Yeah. 335 00:11:59,310 --> 00:12:00,827 [Whitney] Well, you know, when I got my eggs frozen, 336 00:12:00,827 --> 00:12:02,793 I just kind of did it and forgot about it, you know? 337 00:12:02,793 --> 00:12:06,000 And, I think I was just hoping that I would meet someone. 338 00:12:06,000 --> 00:12:09,793 But I just never thought that I would be in the place 339 00:12:09,793 --> 00:12:11,724 where it wasn't a possibility for me. 340 00:12:11,724 --> 00:12:13,517 And so I just... 341 00:12:13,517 --> 00:12:15,413 I don't like Mother Nature telling me, 342 00:12:15,413 --> 00:12:18,517 you know, or like, circumstance telling me like, "Well, you can't." 343 00:12:18,517 --> 00:12:20,827 But, here we are, [chuckles] about to turn 40. 344 00:12:20,827 --> 00:12:22,896 So, I need to go ahead and make it a priority 345 00:12:22,896 --> 00:12:23,793 to figure out what I'm doing, 346 00:12:23,793 --> 00:12:26,689 about my eggs and about my fertility. 347 00:12:26,689 --> 00:12:28,310 Well, I just really wanna thank you 348 00:12:28,310 --> 00:12:31,000 for giving me another bachelorette party. 349 00:12:31,000 --> 00:12:33,172 -It's already-- -Well, one is just not enough, 350 00:12:33,172 --> 00:12:34,172 you know? 351 00:12:34,172 --> 00:12:36,000 But I'm like, this is like, 352 00:12:36,000 --> 00:12:38,068 the end, like, this is the last hurrah. 353 00:12:38,068 --> 00:12:39,724 -Yeah. -[Jaime] Like, there's no more showers. 354 00:12:39,724 --> 00:12:40,896 -There's no more anything. -Yeah. 355 00:12:40,896 --> 00:12:42,172 -The only event is the wedding... -[Whitney] Yeah. 356 00:12:42,172 --> 00:12:43,275 ...and I'm like, oh. 357 00:12:43,275 --> 00:12:44,827 I've been in touch with... 358 00:12:44,827 --> 00:12:46,172 you know, Kayla a lot. 359 00:12:46,172 --> 00:12:47,793 And Rachel to, you know, make sure 360 00:12:47,793 --> 00:12:49,724 that I had planned things that you wanted, 361 00:12:49,724 --> 00:12:52,689 and I heard that there was something that you might have wanted. 362 00:12:52,689 --> 00:12:54,172 And so... 363 00:12:54,172 --> 00:12:55,931 -That I wanted? -Yeah. 364 00:12:56,620 --> 00:12:58,103 So, I got it for ya. 365 00:12:59,931 --> 00:13:01,310 Oh, shut up. 366 00:13:01,827 --> 00:13:03,000 Shut up. 367 00:13:03,000 --> 00:13:04,827 Oh my gosh. No, you didn't. 368 00:13:04,827 --> 00:13:06,172 -Yeah. -[Jaime gasps] 369 00:13:06,172 --> 00:13:07,379 [Whitney] Kayla told me that you loved 370 00:13:07,379 --> 00:13:09,517 this pearl robe for your wedding day. 371 00:13:09,517 --> 00:13:11,620 This is gonna be so beautiful. 372 00:13:11,620 --> 00:13:12,793 I don't even wanna take it out. 373 00:13:12,793 --> 00:13:15,172 I'm so scared the pearls are gonna fall off. 374 00:13:15,172 --> 00:13:17,379 Kayla said you might want to wear that while you're getting ready. 375 00:13:17,379 --> 00:13:19,896 -Oh my God, thank you. -[Whitney] You're welcome. 376 00:13:19,896 --> 00:13:21,827 [Jaime] Oh my God, it's so beautiful. 377 00:13:22,620 --> 00:13:24,275 Jaime and her bridesmaids 378 00:13:24,275 --> 00:13:28,206 may be "ahead of me" in some areas of life, 379 00:13:28,206 --> 00:13:30,413 like, in terms of having husbands and children. 380 00:13:30,413 --> 00:13:32,689 I do hope to find my husband 381 00:13:32,689 --> 00:13:34,068 and maybe have children. 382 00:13:34,068 --> 00:13:35,586 But, everything I've done in the past 383 00:13:35,586 --> 00:13:39,517 clearly hasn't ended up in marriage. 384 00:13:39,517 --> 00:13:42,103 All right. Well, you wanna go get ready for some games? 385 00:13:42,103 --> 00:13:43,793 -Yes. Yes. I'm freezing out here. -[Whitney] All right. 386 00:13:43,793 --> 00:13:45,000 -I know, right? -I gotta go in. 387 00:13:45,000 --> 00:13:46,793 Ooh, I've been sitting here way too long. 388 00:13:46,793 --> 00:13:48,482 -Oh, God, when your butt-- I know it. -Still... 389 00:13:48,482 --> 00:13:50,379 I'm sitting here talking about, "I don't feel 40." 390 00:13:50,379 --> 00:13:52,586 Oh, and then you try to get up off a bench... 391 00:13:52,586 --> 00:13:54,379 [Jaime] I feel 50. 392 00:13:54,379 --> 00:13:57,068 [Whitney] And I'm in pleather. Ugh. 393 00:13:57,068 --> 00:13:58,517 People have told me that I'm too picky 394 00:13:58,517 --> 00:14:00,000 -and I've never believed it. -[Jaime clears throat] 395 00:14:00,000 --> 00:14:02,896 But, maybe I can't be this picky when I'm 40. 396 00:14:02,896 --> 00:14:04,379 I think people just think I'm too picky 397 00:14:04,379 --> 00:14:05,689 because they're like, "You're fat. 398 00:14:05,689 --> 00:14:06,724 You can't expect much." 399 00:14:06,724 --> 00:14:07,931 That's a smash. 400 00:14:07,931 --> 00:14:09,379 No, pass! 401 00:14:09,379 --> 00:14:10,689 [indistinct conversation and laughter] 402 00:14:10,689 --> 00:14:12,000 Whitney is very picky. 403 00:14:12,000 --> 00:14:13,206 Pass, yeah. 404 00:14:28,655 --> 00:14:30,137 I said, "What did we do during the party?" 405 00:14:30,137 --> 00:14:32,137 And, "What did we do with those vegetables?" 406 00:14:32,137 --> 00:14:34,275 -[chuckles] Don't ask. -[Angie] So, how'd y'all sleep? 407 00:14:34,275 --> 00:14:35,172 [Cassidy] Good. 408 00:14:35,172 --> 00:14:36,172 It was pretty good. 409 00:14:36,172 --> 00:14:37,965 It was a little rough waking up, but... 410 00:14:37,965 --> 00:14:39,793 -[Andrea] Yeah. -[Hannah] I love my cup. 411 00:14:39,793 --> 00:14:42,034 -And you like red... -I really do. 412 00:14:42,034 --> 00:14:43,482 And yellow is my favorite color. 413 00:14:43,482 --> 00:14:44,586 -How'd she know? -I don't have a-- 414 00:14:44,586 --> 00:14:46,586 -Oh, is it really? -[chuckles] Yeah. 415 00:14:46,586 --> 00:14:48,793 You can tell Whitney put a lot of effort 416 00:14:48,793 --> 00:14:50,896 in very detailed and amazing things 417 00:14:50,896 --> 00:14:52,310 for us for the whole weekend. 418 00:14:52,793 --> 00:14:54,103 [all greeting] 419 00:14:54,862 --> 00:14:55,793 [Jaime] Hey. 420 00:14:55,793 --> 00:14:57,448 All right, girls, are y'all excited? 421 00:14:57,448 --> 00:14:58,517 [all agreeing enthusiastically] 422 00:14:59,275 --> 00:15:00,965 Angie, this one's yours. 423 00:15:00,965 --> 00:15:02,586 Last night was super wild. 424 00:15:02,586 --> 00:15:03,931 -Wifey. -[woman] Wifey. 425 00:15:03,931 --> 00:15:06,482 [Whitney] But now I wanna dive in to these gift bags 426 00:15:06,482 --> 00:15:08,862 that I meticulously put together for everyone. 427 00:15:08,862 --> 00:15:11,137 I tried to include fun stuff, 428 00:15:11,137 --> 00:15:12,965 thoughtful stuff, and of course, 429 00:15:12,965 --> 00:15:16,482 I had to drop in a little adult toy for everyone. 430 00:15:16,758 --> 00:15:17,793 [all gasp] 431 00:15:17,793 --> 00:15:19,310 [Diana] Look how cute. 432 00:15:19,310 --> 00:15:21,068 -Oh my gosh, this is so cute. -[Jaime] Oh my goodness, look at this! 433 00:15:21,068 --> 00:15:23,000 -What is this? -That's cool. 434 00:15:23,000 --> 00:15:24,620 -Oh God. -[all laughing] 435 00:15:25,137 --> 00:15:26,586 [all exclaiming] What is it? 436 00:15:26,586 --> 00:15:27,793 [Whitney] You'll find out. 437 00:15:27,793 --> 00:15:29,137 Yo, don't be shy. 438 00:15:30,241 --> 00:15:33,000 Bad Day Killer, clitoral balm. 439 00:15:33,000 --> 00:15:33,827 [all laughing] 440 00:15:33,827 --> 00:15:35,448 That's for tonight, baby girl. 441 00:15:35,448 --> 00:15:38,275 -Okay. -[Jaime exclaims] Oh my God. 442 00:15:38,275 --> 00:15:39,517 [Whitney speaking] 443 00:15:40,689 --> 00:15:41,896 [all laughing] 444 00:15:42,379 --> 00:15:43,482 It's very discreet. 445 00:15:43,482 --> 00:15:45,241 It goes right in your makeup bag. 446 00:15:46,758 --> 00:15:48,586 I may not have a husband or children, 447 00:15:48,586 --> 00:15:50,896 but because I don't, [laughs] 448 00:15:50,896 --> 00:15:53,655 I have had a plethora of other experiences 449 00:15:53,655 --> 00:15:55,758 over the last 20 years of my adulthood. 450 00:15:55,758 --> 00:15:57,896 My favorite thing about this toy 451 00:15:57,896 --> 00:15:59,379 is that it has cruise control. 452 00:15:59,379 --> 00:16:03,379 And I love to share my knowledge with people I love. 453 00:16:03,379 --> 00:16:05,586 Angie charged hers up Thursday night. 454 00:16:06,379 --> 00:16:07,482 -[laughing] -... 455 00:16:07,482 --> 00:16:09,000 [Diana] So, it charges? No battery? 456 00:16:09,000 --> 00:16:10,551 It charges, USB. 457 00:16:10,551 --> 00:16:12,172 [Kayla] That's hilarious. 458 00:16:12,172 --> 00:16:14,482 [Angie] You're never too old to try new things. 459 00:16:14,482 --> 00:16:15,896 But it took me like, 30 minutes 460 00:16:15,896 --> 00:16:19,103 to even figure out how to charge it up, like... 461 00:16:19,103 --> 00:16:20,379 And then I fell asleep. 462 00:16:20,379 --> 00:16:22,448 [laughs] Like, I'm being for real. 463 00:16:22,448 --> 00:16:24,931 Am I-- sleep is pretty important to me. 464 00:16:27,000 --> 00:16:29,689 All right so, this is smash or pass. 465 00:16:29,689 --> 00:16:31,482 So basically you have a good quality and a bad quality. 466 00:16:31,482 --> 00:16:32,551 You put them together and decide 467 00:16:32,551 --> 00:16:34,000 if you can deal with it, 468 00:16:34,000 --> 00:16:35,586 and you still smash, or you wouldn't. 469 00:16:35,586 --> 00:16:37,551 I guarantee I'm gonna be pass, pass, pass, pass, pass. 470 00:16:37,551 --> 00:16:39,103 I'm gonna keep up with these qualities 471 00:16:39,103 --> 00:16:40,275 so I can figure out. 472 00:16:40,275 --> 00:16:42,655 -Dude-- dude... -If I see somebody I'm like, "Okay, 473 00:16:42,655 --> 00:16:44,551 well, she wouldn't like that because they do this." 474 00:16:44,551 --> 00:16:46,551 People have told me that I'm too picky. 475 00:16:46,551 --> 00:16:47,586 -And I've never believed it. -[Jaime clears throat] 476 00:16:47,586 --> 00:16:50,344 But maybe I can't be this picky when I'm 40. 477 00:16:50,344 --> 00:16:51,758 And you know... 478 00:16:51,758 --> 00:16:54,379 I am always told that I'm too picky. 479 00:16:54,379 --> 00:16:56,068 But, I think people just think I'm too picky 480 00:16:56,068 --> 00:16:58,551 because they're like, "You're fat. You can't expect much." 481 00:16:58,551 --> 00:17:00,275 So, I'm really curious to see 482 00:17:00,275 --> 00:17:02,172 what these girls' standards are like. 483 00:17:02,172 --> 00:17:04,586 I mean, honestly, like, am I too picky 484 00:17:04,586 --> 00:17:06,482 or the picking's just [bleep]? 485 00:17:06,482 --> 00:17:08,172 All right, this says, 486 00:17:08,172 --> 00:17:10,689 "They love children and would be the best parent. 487 00:17:10,689 --> 00:17:12,964 But, they are a professional prankster 488 00:17:12,964 --> 00:17:14,241 and start talking about all the pranks 489 00:17:14,241 --> 00:17:15,172 they pulled on their family." 490 00:17:15,172 --> 00:17:17,000 -Smash. -[both] Yeah. 491 00:17:17,000 --> 00:17:18,172 I like a prankster. 492 00:17:18,689 --> 00:17:20,378 "They enjoy trying new foods." 493 00:17:20,378 --> 00:17:21,586 That's Heath, he does. 494 00:17:21,586 --> 00:17:23,103 I like that about him. 495 00:17:23,103 --> 00:17:24,931 "But they always have ketchup on their face." 496 00:17:25,241 --> 00:17:26,586 [all laughing] 497 00:17:26,586 --> 00:17:28,241 That's a smash. That's okay. 498 00:17:29,172 --> 00:17:31,275 That's a pass, that's not right. 499 00:17:31,275 --> 00:17:32,793 -That's not right. -[women exclaim] Ew! 500 00:17:32,793 --> 00:17:36,241 "They are the most genuine and charismatic person you have ever met. 501 00:17:36,241 --> 00:17:39,000 But, they accessorize every outfit with a fanny pack. 502 00:17:39,000 --> 00:17:39,896 [all exclaim] Oh. 503 00:17:39,896 --> 00:17:41,689 -Pass. -That's a pass. 504 00:17:41,689 --> 00:17:43,275 I would say pass. Yeah. 505 00:17:43,275 --> 00:17:44,379 [indistinct conversation] 506 00:17:44,379 --> 00:17:47,344 "They run several very successful businesses." 507 00:17:47,344 --> 00:17:49,344 -[Cassidy] Love that. -"But, they constantly mumble 508 00:17:49,344 --> 00:17:51,482 and you can't understand anything they are saying." 509 00:17:51,482 --> 00:17:52,586 -Oh, that's okay. -That's good. 510 00:17:52,586 --> 00:17:55,172 -That's a smash. -No, pass! 511 00:17:55,172 --> 00:17:57,689 She's like, "You can be broke, but you can't mumble." [laughs] 512 00:17:57,689 --> 00:17:58,793 You can't be-- 513 00:17:58,793 --> 00:18:00,586 Tell me clearly how much money you don't have. 514 00:18:00,586 --> 00:18:01,931 -[all laughing] -Oh my God. 515 00:18:02,758 --> 00:18:04,275 Playing this smash or pass game, 516 00:18:04,275 --> 00:18:06,586 I have learned that Whitney is very picky. 517 00:18:06,586 --> 00:18:09,034 -Pass, yeah. Pass. -[indistinct conversation] 518 00:18:09,034 --> 00:18:10,793 She is the most pickiest person 519 00:18:10,793 --> 00:18:12,655 I have ever met when it comes to a man. 520 00:18:12,655 --> 00:18:14,689 So, we're gonna have to dial that back a little bit 521 00:18:14,689 --> 00:18:16,448 and figure something out. 522 00:18:16,448 --> 00:18:18,862 They're not always gonna check off every single box. 523 00:18:18,862 --> 00:18:20,000 I know that. I know that. 524 00:18:20,000 --> 00:18:22,103 They just have to check off something. 525 00:18:22,103 --> 00:18:26,379 All right so, let's shower Jaime with her lingerie. 526 00:18:26,379 --> 00:18:27,862 [all exclaiming] Yeah! 527 00:18:27,862 --> 00:18:30,482 [Whitney] Everyone was asked to buy her a piece of lingerie 528 00:18:30,482 --> 00:18:31,413 that she could wear. 529 00:18:31,413 --> 00:18:32,689 And let me tell you that I know 530 00:18:32,689 --> 00:18:33,862 plenty of things about Jaime. 531 00:18:33,862 --> 00:18:35,379 I know she don't always keep it PG, 532 00:18:35,379 --> 00:18:37,379 but her mother is here. 533 00:18:37,379 --> 00:18:39,862 So, I think it does change the vibe 534 00:18:39,862 --> 00:18:41,758 of the bachelorette a little bit. 535 00:18:41,758 --> 00:18:45,068 But then again, her mother is the one who hired the riding g-- 536 00:18:45,068 --> 00:18:46,724 It's very confusing. 537 00:18:47,689 --> 00:18:49,448 I'm just gonna go with the flow. 538 00:18:49,448 --> 00:18:50,896 [Kayla] This is your first one. 539 00:18:51,172 --> 00:18:52,517 Marissa. 540 00:18:53,103 --> 00:18:54,758 Oh God, oh God! 541 00:18:54,758 --> 00:18:57,000 -Marissa! -[exclaims] 542 00:18:57,000 --> 00:18:59,172 -[Whitney] I feel like a maid! -[Marissa] Yeah! 543 00:18:59,172 --> 00:19:01,793 [Rachel] Now that's role-playing, Kayla. 544 00:19:01,793 --> 00:19:03,896 Oh, I'm getting all the colors. 545 00:19:03,896 --> 00:19:05,137 Ooh, sexy red. 546 00:19:05,137 --> 00:19:06,206 [all exclaim] 547 00:19:06,793 --> 00:19:08,000 Is that crotch-less? 548 00:19:08,000 --> 00:19:09,862 -[Kayla] No, it's not. -Yes, it is. 549 00:19:09,862 --> 00:19:10,896 [Whitney] Yes, it is! 550 00:19:10,896 --> 00:19:12,793 [all laughing] 551 00:19:12,793 --> 00:19:14,827 [Angie] You don't know how to get your clothes on! 552 00:19:16,000 --> 00:19:17,689 Oh gosh, oh my gosh. [chuckles] 553 00:19:18,482 --> 00:19:20,068 Heath's actually gonna like this. 554 00:19:20,068 --> 00:19:21,689 [all laughing] 555 00:19:21,689 --> 00:19:23,379 Heath's 19th hole. 556 00:19:23,379 --> 00:19:24,724 [all laughing] 557 00:19:26,344 --> 00:19:28,068 -[Jaime] That is-- -[Whitney] That is hilarious. 558 00:19:28,068 --> 00:19:29,551 [Jaime and Kayla] That is funny. 559 00:19:29,551 --> 00:19:30,793 [Kayla] You should-- you should put those on. 560 00:19:30,793 --> 00:19:32,482 -All right. -Nasty. 561 00:19:32,482 --> 00:19:35,137 -[Jaime] Y'all are nasty. -Simply nasty. 562 00:19:35,137 --> 00:19:36,586 -[Jaime] That is so... -[all exclaiming] 563 00:19:36,586 --> 00:19:37,689 [Kayla] Nice! 564 00:19:40,448 --> 00:19:41,862 [all exclaiming] 565 00:19:41,862 --> 00:19:43,724 [Whitney] Look at that juicy butt. 566 00:19:44,655 --> 00:19:46,103 [Jaime] I'm weird about thongs, you know. 567 00:19:46,103 --> 00:19:48,275 They gotta be wide, I don't like these. 568 00:19:49,275 --> 00:19:50,482 [Angie] Jaime's beautiful. 569 00:19:50,482 --> 00:19:51,413 We all know that. 570 00:19:51,413 --> 00:19:53,275 She's gonna look gorgeous in those. 571 00:19:53,275 --> 00:19:56,000 Like, all the girls have a super good taste-- 572 00:19:56,000 --> 00:19:57,379 Well, they know Jaime, 573 00:19:57,379 --> 00:19:59,344 so, yeah, they were definitely Jaime. 574 00:19:59,344 --> 00:20:01,551 But to be honest, I just keep thinking 575 00:20:01,551 --> 00:20:03,689 about these grand-babies I'm gonna have. 576 00:20:03,689 --> 00:20:04,896 Well, y'all wanna do a shot? 577 00:20:04,896 --> 00:20:06,689 -[all agreeing] -[Whitney] Let's do it. 578 00:20:07,793 --> 00:20:11,896 Do you think that you are ready to move on? 579 00:20:11,896 --> 00:20:12,965 [Angie speaking] 580 00:20:12,965 --> 00:20:14,000 [Whitney] It would have to be good. 581 00:20:14,000 --> 00:20:15,793 I mean, if it was just like, 582 00:20:15,793 --> 00:20:17,172 someone I felt lukewarm about 583 00:20:17,172 --> 00:20:18,586 or like, the connection wasn't there, 584 00:20:18,586 --> 00:20:20,379 no, I wouldn't probably care. 585 00:20:20,379 --> 00:20:21,793 It might be easier to move on 586 00:20:21,793 --> 00:20:23,724 -if you didn't talk to him every day. -[Jaime] Mmm-hmm. 587 00:20:23,896 --> 00:20:25,000 [gasps] 588 00:20:39,482 --> 00:20:42,000 [Whitney] Oh. Oh! Well, hello. 589 00:20:42,448 --> 00:20:43,724 Ooh. 590 00:20:44,482 --> 00:20:46,344 That is so cute. 591 00:20:46,344 --> 00:20:48,068 Thank you so much. 592 00:20:48,068 --> 00:20:51,586 This is the last day of Jaime's Greensboro Bachelorette Party, 593 00:20:51,586 --> 00:20:55,137 and one big difference between Jaime's bridesmaids and me 594 00:20:55,137 --> 00:20:58,137 is our ability to party and drink. 595 00:20:58,137 --> 00:21:01,068 I definitely am not that kind of girl anymore. 596 00:21:01,068 --> 00:21:02,344 I'm too old, I think. 597 00:21:02,344 --> 00:21:05,689 But I did want to include something nice for the girls, 598 00:21:05,689 --> 00:21:09,000 so I'm taking them for charcuterie and cocktails. 599 00:21:09,000 --> 00:21:11,551 So cute. 600 00:21:11,551 --> 00:21:14,137 And I think it's a perfect way to send Jaime off 601 00:21:14,137 --> 00:21:15,482 and a good way to close out 602 00:21:15,482 --> 00:21:17,172 a wonderful bachelorette weekend. 603 00:21:17,172 --> 00:21:19,862 -I need one. -Okay. One. 604 00:21:19,862 --> 00:21:21,655 [Whitney] Well, how is everything going with the wedding planning? 605 00:21:21,655 --> 00:21:22,689 I don't know. I texted my girl today. 606 00:21:22,689 --> 00:21:24,413 I was like, "Are we still good for cake?" 607 00:21:25,103 --> 00:21:26,172 She was like, "Yeah, what do you want? 608 00:21:26,172 --> 00:21:27,241 Like, what flavors?" 609 00:21:27,241 --> 00:21:29,068 I was like, "Oh, yeah, I forgot about that." 610 00:21:29,068 --> 00:21:31,586 Did you put out the no jeans edict? 611 00:21:31,586 --> 00:21:32,793 [Jaime] I put it on my website. 612 00:21:32,793 --> 00:21:35,655 I mean, someone's going to show up in jeans. 613 00:21:35,655 --> 00:21:37,896 -I just know it. -I bet Kenny would. 614 00:21:37,896 --> 00:21:39,137 Yeah, he'd be the one. 615 00:21:39,137 --> 00:21:40,965 -Is he still going? -I don't know. 616 00:21:40,965 --> 00:21:42,448 He texted me talking about some nonsense. 617 00:21:42,448 --> 00:21:44,103 It literally doesn't even make any sense. 618 00:21:44,103 --> 00:21:45,137 The last thing he said to me was, 619 00:21:45,137 --> 00:21:46,517 "Why are you so picky?" 620 00:21:47,000 --> 00:21:48,344 And then he tried to call me. 621 00:21:48,344 --> 00:21:50,172 -[Jaime] You need to be like... -Right. 622 00:21:50,172 --> 00:21:51,793 "I don't even want to text you and, like, why are you calling me?" 623 00:21:51,793 --> 00:21:53,344 He's always calling. 624 00:21:53,344 --> 00:21:55,103 -Oh. -[Angie] Isn't that cute? 625 00:21:55,655 --> 00:21:56,862 Like, what does it mean? 626 00:21:56,862 --> 00:21:58,862 Like, he's turning it around on you? 627 00:21:58,862 --> 00:22:00,103 It's fine. You don't like fat girls. 628 00:22:00,103 --> 00:22:02,344 Fine done. I don't-- I don't like you. 629 00:22:02,344 --> 00:22:04,000 You know what I mean? Like, it's fine. 630 00:22:04,551 --> 00:22:05,793 The Kenny situation, 631 00:22:05,793 --> 00:22:08,965 it's just, it's been over and I think he wants to know 632 00:22:08,965 --> 00:22:10,379 that everything is fine with us. 633 00:22:10,379 --> 00:22:11,896 But it's like, "Kenny, there is no us. 634 00:22:11,896 --> 00:22:13,862 Like, it just doesn't matter. 635 00:22:13,862 --> 00:22:15,793 Like, you're not attracted to me. 636 00:22:15,793 --> 00:22:16,655 Great." 637 00:22:16,655 --> 00:22:17,793 And if he comes to the wedding, 638 00:22:17,793 --> 00:22:19,344 sure, it'll be cordial, 639 00:22:19,344 --> 00:22:20,965 um, unless he tries to kiss me again 640 00:22:20,965 --> 00:22:22,379 or pull out the flying squirrel. 641 00:22:23,275 --> 00:22:25,379 Do you think 642 00:22:25,379 --> 00:22:27,689 that you are ready to move on? 643 00:22:29,379 --> 00:22:30,448 [Angie] Yeah, we kind of was talking about that. 644 00:22:30,448 --> 00:22:32,965 I mean, it would have to be... 645 00:22:32,965 --> 00:22:34,000 You know, that's the thing. 646 00:22:34,000 --> 00:22:35,689 When I'm looking at the dating apps, 647 00:22:35,689 --> 00:22:36,551 no, I can't care. 648 00:22:36,551 --> 00:22:37,448 Because that's actually nothing. 649 00:22:37,448 --> 00:22:39,068 It's just a picture of a stranger. 650 00:22:39,068 --> 00:22:40,793 The only thing I ever get on there is 651 00:22:40,793 --> 00:22:42,000 "Will you sit on my face?" 652 00:22:42,000 --> 00:22:43,896 -Oh, my God. -Oh, gosh. 653 00:22:43,896 --> 00:22:45,793 -And it's like... -People are crazy. 654 00:22:45,793 --> 00:22:48,034 -People are nuts. -I'm like, "You know what? 655 00:22:48,034 --> 00:22:50,379 I might have had you not..." 656 00:22:50,379 --> 00:22:53,172 -You know, "Had you just been like, 'Hey, what's going on?'" -Asked. 657 00:22:53,172 --> 00:22:55,172 You know? And I've, sometimes, 658 00:22:55,172 --> 00:22:56,137 if I feel like I have the time, 659 00:22:56,137 --> 00:22:57,275 I'll be like, "Does that-- 660 00:22:57,275 --> 00:22:59,103 How many times does that work for you, really?" 661 00:22:59,103 --> 00:23:00,586 You know? And then they'll be like, 662 00:23:00,586 --> 00:23:02,758 "Well, most girls I try it on are actually pretty." 663 00:23:02,758 --> 00:23:03,689 You know, something like that. 664 00:23:03,689 --> 00:23:05,034 And I'm like... 665 00:23:05,034 --> 00:23:05,896 -[woman] That's awful. -[woman 2] You know, you hurt his ego 666 00:23:05,896 --> 00:23:07,172 when you said that back. 667 00:23:07,172 --> 00:23:09,068 I was pretty enough five seconds ago to sit on your face. 668 00:23:09,068 --> 00:23:10,379 -But... -[woman] Now, not. 669 00:23:10,379 --> 00:23:11,689 [Whitney] It would have to be good. 670 00:23:11,689 --> 00:23:14,793 I mean, if it was just like someone I felt lukewarm about 671 00:23:14,793 --> 00:23:16,241 or like the connection wasn't there, 672 00:23:16,241 --> 00:23:18,275 no, I wouldn't probably care. 673 00:23:18,275 --> 00:23:21,103 But if somebody came at me the right way, 674 00:23:21,103 --> 00:23:23,551 I saw that there was good chemistry... 675 00:23:23,551 --> 00:23:25,172 -Swept you off your feet. -Yes. I could move on. 676 00:23:25,172 --> 00:23:27,586 It might be easier to move on if you didn't talk to him every day. 677 00:23:30,655 --> 00:23:32,068 [gasps] 678 00:23:36,137 --> 00:23:39,379 Even though the Frenchman and I are not getting married, 679 00:23:39,379 --> 00:23:44,586 and I know it would behoove me to probably cut off contact 680 00:23:44,586 --> 00:23:46,793 so that I could fully move on, 681 00:23:46,793 --> 00:23:48,965 it's just a lot easier said than done. 682 00:23:48,965 --> 00:23:52,965 I still talk to the Frenchman very regularly. 683 00:23:52,965 --> 00:23:54,172 Am I pathetic? 684 00:23:54,172 --> 00:23:55,379 Probably. 685 00:23:55,379 --> 00:23:58,275 But I'm hoping that I can work up to the point where 686 00:23:58,275 --> 00:24:00,586 I can just fully move on. 687 00:24:02,137 --> 00:24:04,379 I thought it was once you left France, 688 00:24:04,379 --> 00:24:05,689 -that was it. -That's what it was supposed to be. 689 00:24:05,689 --> 00:24:07,068 -Yeah, but-- -[Angie] But it's not. 690 00:24:07,068 --> 00:24:08,241 And I don't think you can move-- 691 00:24:08,241 --> 00:24:10,034 I don't think you're going to move forward 692 00:24:10,034 --> 00:24:12,000 -because you're still-- You're not over him. -Until he tells me 693 00:24:12,000 --> 00:24:13,379 he's with someone or I meet someone, 694 00:24:13,379 --> 00:24:15,758 I'll still-- I will probably, for the rest of my life, 695 00:24:15,758 --> 00:24:17,275 be thinking about him. But... 696 00:24:17,275 --> 00:24:20,758 At this point, I think you need to cut off all ties 697 00:24:20,758 --> 00:24:22,689 because it's hard to let go of somebody 698 00:24:22,689 --> 00:24:25,379 if you're still in contact with them. 699 00:24:25,379 --> 00:24:27,068 You've got to put yourself out there. 700 00:24:27,068 --> 00:24:29,413 Let's give someone else a chance. 701 00:24:29,862 --> 00:24:31,068 You gotta get out, though. 702 00:24:31,068 --> 00:24:34,482 You gotta move. You gotta be places to meet people. 703 00:24:34,482 --> 00:24:36,758 -That's true. -You can't stay at home. 704 00:24:36,758 --> 00:24:38,172 -That's over with. -That's true. 705 00:24:38,172 --> 00:24:39,379 -That's true. -Okay. 706 00:24:39,379 --> 00:24:40,689 'Cause you know I'll be in the bed. 707 00:24:40,689 --> 00:24:41,965 I know. 708 00:24:41,965 --> 00:24:43,000 You gotta get out. 709 00:24:43,000 --> 00:24:45,275 You're never gonna meet somebody at your house. 710 00:24:45,275 --> 00:24:48,275 If you open yourself to do it actually 711 00:24:48,275 --> 00:24:50,379 and not worry about him or what he thinks 712 00:24:50,379 --> 00:24:52,344 or what his reaction will be, 713 00:24:52,344 --> 00:24:55,000 I think that you could actually move forward. 714 00:24:55,482 --> 00:24:57,379 Truly putting yourself first. 715 00:24:58,551 --> 00:25:01,689 I know intellectually that if I want to find a partner, 716 00:25:01,689 --> 00:25:05,103 I have to be very intentional about going out in the world 717 00:25:05,103 --> 00:25:08,172 to meet other people who are there. 718 00:25:08,172 --> 00:25:11,241 But I don't know where single men my age are. 719 00:25:11,241 --> 00:25:14,896 And so I think I might need some outside help. 720 00:25:14,896 --> 00:25:16,137 [Jaime] Every single one of you, 721 00:25:16,137 --> 00:25:18,551 I know you all have busy lives and you all have children 722 00:25:18,551 --> 00:25:20,448 and families that you go home to, 723 00:25:20,448 --> 00:25:22,379 so thank you for taking the time out 724 00:25:22,379 --> 00:25:24,034 to come out and celebrate me once again. 725 00:25:24,034 --> 00:25:25,379 -Yes. -[woman] Aw. 726 00:25:25,379 --> 00:25:26,793 But I promise this is the last time. 727 00:25:26,793 --> 00:25:29,000 -[all laugh] -And I'll be-- 728 00:25:29,000 --> 00:25:32,379 And I'll be an honorary aunt. 729 00:25:32,379 --> 00:25:35,896 I'll be Aunt Whitney to all of you. 730 00:25:35,896 --> 00:25:37,000 Should we do a toast? 731 00:25:37,000 --> 00:25:38,172 [all agreeing] 732 00:25:38,172 --> 00:25:40,344 Toast to the best weekend ever. 733 00:25:40,344 --> 00:25:43,000 [all] Yay! 734 00:25:43,000 --> 00:25:45,344 [Whitney] This bachelorette party has been amazing. 735 00:25:45,344 --> 00:25:47,896 Of course, it has got me thinking 736 00:25:47,896 --> 00:25:50,482 where about how far behind I am in my own life. 737 00:25:50,482 --> 00:25:54,689 And I think that I really need to make an appointment with Dr. Y. 738 00:25:54,689 --> 00:25:57,275 -Y'all, let's get a picture in front of the strip. -Okay. 739 00:25:57,275 --> 00:26:01,137 Dr. Y is the one that retrieved my eggs back in 2021. 740 00:26:01,137 --> 00:26:03,793 And at that point, I think I thought by now 741 00:26:03,793 --> 00:26:05,965 I would probably have a serious partner 742 00:26:05,965 --> 00:26:07,379 and could use a surrogate. 743 00:26:07,379 --> 00:26:09,000 However, here we are. 744 00:26:09,000 --> 00:26:10,655 I'm still single. 745 00:26:10,655 --> 00:26:12,655 Okay, so we're gonna go, one, two, three, "To Haven to Horton," 746 00:26:12,655 --> 00:26:13,862 and then we're gonna celebrate. 747 00:26:13,862 --> 00:26:15,379 -Okay. -Here we go. 748 00:26:15,379 --> 00:26:17,448 [all] To Haven to Horton! 749 00:26:17,448 --> 00:26:20,344 [all cheering] 750 00:26:20,344 --> 00:26:21,551 Karen's coming to the wedding, right? 751 00:26:21,551 --> 00:26:23,379 -Yeah. -Karen says, "Plus one." 752 00:26:23,379 --> 00:26:25,000 Yeah. I don't have one. 753 00:26:25,000 --> 00:26:26,137 -Okay. -I'm working on it. 754 00:26:26,137 --> 00:26:27,379 Work on it. 755 00:26:27,379 --> 00:26:29,275 [Whitney] My brother has a date. Ryan has a date. 756 00:26:29,275 --> 00:26:30,413 Angie has a date. 757 00:26:30,413 --> 00:26:31,965 The only person that doesn't have a date is Cody. 758 00:26:31,965 --> 00:26:33,862 But I can't bring him because he's my nephew. 759 00:26:33,862 --> 00:26:36,068 So it's slim pickings out here. 760 00:26:48,344 --> 00:26:51,068 [Angie] This neighborhood is... I mean, yeah, this is nice. 761 00:26:51,068 --> 00:26:53,620 [Whitney] Well, thanks. Well, don't get your hopes up about the house 762 00:26:53,620 --> 00:26:55,965 because it's-- it's not in great shape. 763 00:26:56,827 --> 00:26:58,689 This is the room that I'm actually gonna rent. 764 00:26:59,241 --> 00:27:00,689 What's up? 765 00:27:00,689 --> 00:27:03,103 Why are you always eating cheese? 766 00:27:03,310 --> 00:27:04,275 It's good. 767 00:27:07,034 --> 00:27:09,206 -Come give me a hug. -Yeah, come over. 768 00:27:09,206 --> 00:27:10,862 -Hey, what's up? -What's up? 769 00:27:10,862 --> 00:27:12,448 -I'm good. -Good to see you. 770 00:27:12,448 --> 00:27:13,586 I know. Good to see you. 771 00:27:14,482 --> 00:27:15,965 Cat scratched that up. 772 00:27:17,275 --> 00:27:19,310 [Whitney] It has been a whirlwind of a week 773 00:27:19,310 --> 00:27:21,000 with Jaime's bachelorette party. 774 00:27:21,000 --> 00:27:23,655 Now I'm glad Angie is able to stay for an extra day with me 775 00:27:23,655 --> 00:27:25,275 before heading back to Alabama. 776 00:27:25,275 --> 00:27:28,413 I do want to give her a tour of the Thore house. 777 00:27:28,413 --> 00:27:29,620 She's never seen it 778 00:27:29,620 --> 00:27:32,758 because it's never been acceptable for her to tour it. 779 00:27:32,758 --> 00:27:35,793 So now she'll have a before in her mind, 780 00:27:35,793 --> 00:27:37,724 so that when she sees the after of the renovation, 781 00:27:37,724 --> 00:27:39,344 hopefully she'll be impressed. 782 00:27:39,793 --> 00:27:40,862 Come on, Woosey. 783 00:27:42,172 --> 00:27:43,758 Oh, Lord. 784 00:27:43,758 --> 00:27:46,000 I know my dad is thinking about selling this house, 785 00:27:46,000 --> 00:27:48,931 but I truly believe that if he can see the potential 786 00:27:48,931 --> 00:27:50,206 he might reconsider. 787 00:27:50,206 --> 00:27:52,517 So I'm crossing my fingers for that. 788 00:27:52,517 --> 00:27:54,620 Now, this is the room in question. 789 00:27:54,965 --> 00:27:55,965 Okay? 790 00:27:55,965 --> 00:27:57,413 I have lived in this room... 791 00:27:57,413 --> 00:27:58,931 Well, look at you. 792 00:27:58,931 --> 00:28:00,862 Just relaxed, looking dainty. 793 00:28:00,862 --> 00:28:02,448 [Whitney] Did we ever find the remote to this bed? 794 00:28:02,448 --> 00:28:05,275 -Or is it perpetually... -I didn't know there was a remote. 795 00:28:08,068 --> 00:28:10,034 -This... -What did he say? 796 00:28:10,034 --> 00:28:12,724 Well, we can't find the remote to the fireplace either. 797 00:28:12,724 --> 00:28:14,172 Is that true? 798 00:28:14,172 --> 00:28:16,413 I have a couple of questions about this. 799 00:28:16,413 --> 00:28:20,827 Are the blinds supposed to be yellow? 800 00:28:21,551 --> 00:28:23,000 Um, I don't know. 801 00:28:23,000 --> 00:28:24,827 -They look a little dusty. -But they're wood blinds. 802 00:28:24,827 --> 00:28:25,965 They're real wood blinds. 803 00:28:25,965 --> 00:28:27,862 -They're good ones. You can clean 'em. -Yeah. 804 00:28:27,862 --> 00:28:29,724 No one ever comes in here. 805 00:28:29,724 --> 00:28:31,724 Well, the cats do, obviously, because I do see also 806 00:28:31,724 --> 00:28:34,172 that they've scratched up that couch that I bought Mommy and Daddy. 807 00:28:34,172 --> 00:28:36,379 -Oh. -So this is what I'm thinking. 808 00:28:36,379 --> 00:28:37,965 Obviously, we get rid of the carpet. 809 00:28:37,965 --> 00:28:40,000 We'll get some fake hardwood. 810 00:28:40,000 --> 00:28:42,275 And then obviously the bathroom. 811 00:28:42,275 --> 00:28:43,517 See, that's that old wallpaper. 812 00:28:43,517 --> 00:28:45,137 That's like 40-year-old wallpaper. 813 00:28:45,137 --> 00:28:46,620 -[Angie] Correct -I think... 814 00:28:46,620 --> 00:28:47,689 paint the cabinets. 815 00:28:47,689 --> 00:28:51,241 New light fixture, new mirror, paint in here, 816 00:28:51,241 --> 00:28:52,517 and I'm gonna rearrange this furniture 817 00:28:52,517 --> 00:28:54,931 and make everything look right nice. 818 00:28:54,931 --> 00:28:57,241 We're keeping this reno a secret from my dad 819 00:28:57,241 --> 00:28:59,931 because I think my dad would tell me-- 820 00:28:59,931 --> 00:29:01,758 I mean, it's my money. But I think he would say, 821 00:29:01,758 --> 00:29:05,206 like, "Why are you spending your money on this?" X,Y, Z. 822 00:29:05,206 --> 00:29:06,482 You know, it's just he doesn't need to know. 823 00:29:06,482 --> 00:29:09,517 I just want the impact to be like big. 824 00:29:09,517 --> 00:29:11,931 I just want him to see it 825 00:29:11,931 --> 00:29:15,931 and knock him over with how wonderful it is. 826 00:29:15,931 --> 00:29:17,517 But I want to, like, decorate it. 827 00:29:17,517 --> 00:29:20,000 Because we found so many like sentimental things, you know, 828 00:29:20,000 --> 00:29:21,724 in the house when I cleaned it up last year. 829 00:29:21,724 --> 00:29:24,758 -And... -I know Dad is-- he's a really sentimental guy. 830 00:29:24,758 --> 00:29:25,965 No, but he is. 831 00:29:25,965 --> 00:29:28,000 -Yeah, I'm not-- I'm not joking around. -No, he is. 832 00:29:28,000 --> 00:29:29,517 [Hunter] He's full of sentiment. 833 00:29:29,517 --> 00:29:32,413 -Yeah. -Okay, So, Hunter, you know, 834 00:29:32,413 --> 00:29:35,310 I met Karen at the premiere. 835 00:29:35,310 --> 00:29:36,586 -Ooh! Ooh! -Yeah. 836 00:29:36,586 --> 00:29:37,896 -Go ahead. Give her the update. -Yeah, I wanna know-- 837 00:29:37,896 --> 00:29:40,310 -I wanna know the gossip on Karen. -Give her the update. 838 00:29:40,551 --> 00:29:43,000 Hey! 839 00:29:43,000 --> 00:29:44,172 There's no gossip. 840 00:29:44,172 --> 00:29:46,793 -We're-- we're... -In love. 841 00:29:46,793 --> 00:29:47,655 We're happy. 842 00:29:47,655 --> 00:29:49,137 [Whitney] He said he loved her. 843 00:29:49,137 --> 00:29:51,172 She said she loved him. 844 00:29:52,827 --> 00:29:54,620 We're together. We're happy. 845 00:29:56,000 --> 00:29:57,517 Look at a man in love. 846 00:29:59,827 --> 00:30:02,034 -Oh. -Aw. 847 00:30:02,034 --> 00:30:04,862 After meeting Karen at the premiere, like, 848 00:30:04,862 --> 00:30:07,068 I just got great vibes from her. 849 00:30:07,068 --> 00:30:10,344 And body language says everything. 850 00:30:10,344 --> 00:30:12,137 And when you watch them two together, 851 00:30:12,137 --> 00:30:14,068 they're in love. 852 00:30:14,068 --> 00:30:15,793 Love, love, love. 853 00:30:15,793 --> 00:30:17,275 Karen's coming to the wedding right? 854 00:30:18,000 --> 00:30:20,000 -Yeah. -Yeah. 855 00:30:20,000 --> 00:30:21,068 Karen's his plus-one. 856 00:30:21,068 --> 00:30:23,965 Yeah. I don't have one. 857 00:30:23,965 --> 00:30:25,655 -Yet. I'm working on it. -[Hunter] Okay. 858 00:30:25,655 --> 00:30:28,034 Work on it. Get on it. 859 00:30:28,034 --> 00:30:31,655 I am racking my brain, trying to think of anyone 860 00:30:31,655 --> 00:30:33,241 that I could bring to this wedding 861 00:30:33,241 --> 00:30:35,793 as a plus-one. Like, there's no one. 862 00:30:35,793 --> 00:30:37,448 I mean, obviously, Jaime's the one getting married, 863 00:30:37,448 --> 00:30:39,310 so she has a date. 864 00:30:39,310 --> 00:30:40,448 My brother has a date. 865 00:30:40,448 --> 00:30:42,000 Ryan has a date. 866 00:30:42,000 --> 00:30:43,448 Angie has a date. 867 00:30:43,448 --> 00:30:45,103 My dad doesn't want a date. 868 00:30:45,103 --> 00:30:47,137 And the only person that doesn't have a date is Cody. 869 00:30:47,137 --> 00:30:49,620 But I can't bring him because he's like my nephew. 870 00:30:49,620 --> 00:30:52,413 So it's slim pickings out here. 871 00:30:53,103 --> 00:30:54,482 Well, let's show Angie the house. 872 00:30:54,482 --> 00:30:55,379 [Angie] Yeah. 873 00:30:55,379 --> 00:30:56,793 -Yeah-- -And then at least 874 00:30:56,793 --> 00:30:59,000 you can appreciate the after when you see the after. 875 00:30:59,000 --> 00:31:00,862 -Whenever I get this cleaned up. -Right. 876 00:31:00,862 --> 00:31:01,793 Come on, girl. 877 00:31:01,793 --> 00:31:03,310 [Angie] Fresh paint does a lot. 878 00:31:17,034 --> 00:31:18,275 I'm getting cramps, too. 879 00:31:18,275 --> 00:31:19,379 Ooh, you got cramps? 880 00:31:19,379 --> 00:31:22,172 -Mmm-hmm. -I feel like I'm getting cramps. 881 00:31:22,172 --> 00:31:24,896 See, I forgot, and I've come up with all my questions, 882 00:31:24,896 --> 00:31:27,827 all my middle school-esque questions. 883 00:31:27,827 --> 00:31:28,965 Because I don't know anything about-- 884 00:31:28,965 --> 00:31:30,310 You don't write them down? You don't have a binder? 885 00:31:30,310 --> 00:31:33,448 No. And I don't know anything about my reproductive health. 886 00:31:33,448 --> 00:31:34,965 [Whitney] As I walk into the doctor's office, 887 00:31:34,965 --> 00:31:38,517 I am brimming with questions about my body. 888 00:31:38,517 --> 00:31:42,275 Um, I want to know what's going on in my reproductive organs. 889 00:31:42,275 --> 00:31:46,310 I want to know how my eggs that I froze a few years ago are doing. 890 00:31:46,310 --> 00:31:47,689 I'm hoping to hear good news 891 00:31:47,689 --> 00:31:49,724 about my ability to have a child in the future. 892 00:31:49,724 --> 00:31:53,758 But also, I want to know what if that's not possible? 893 00:31:53,758 --> 00:31:57,724 Can I donate my eggs to someone else who might need them? 894 00:31:57,724 --> 00:31:59,758 I just need a lot of questions answered. 895 00:32:01,137 --> 00:32:04,586 [sighs] I just felt nervous for some reason. I don't know why. 896 00:32:04,586 --> 00:32:07,000 Because you're not prepared. 897 00:32:07,000 --> 00:32:08,965 -Well-- -You don't know anything about your body right now. 898 00:32:08,965 --> 00:32:10,379 I know. 899 00:32:10,379 --> 00:32:12,413 I mean, I don't-- I mean, it's not like I'm waiting for news, 900 00:32:12,413 --> 00:32:13,551 -you know? -Well, true. Yeah. 901 00:32:13,551 --> 00:32:15,103 Like, it's like I'm trying to-- 902 00:32:15,103 --> 00:32:16,551 like, it's not like I'm waiting to see if I'm pregnant or something. 903 00:32:16,551 --> 00:32:19,413 -It's soothing in here with that fountain back there. -It is very. 904 00:32:19,413 --> 00:32:21,689 Well, you gotta think, I feel like a place like this 905 00:32:21,689 --> 00:32:23,413 is a place where women are very nervous. 906 00:32:23,413 --> 00:32:24,862 -Oh, yeah. -You know, I was nervous 907 00:32:24,862 --> 00:32:26,103 going through my whole egg thing, 908 00:32:26,103 --> 00:32:28,586 and I wasn't even doing it to immediately get pregnant. 909 00:32:28,586 --> 00:32:29,758 Right. 910 00:32:29,758 --> 00:32:31,931 I mean, you know. You're in the situation. 911 00:32:31,931 --> 00:32:33,896 I shake every time I go to the doctor. 912 00:32:33,896 --> 00:32:35,310 But you're in the situation right now. 913 00:32:35,310 --> 00:32:38,448 -Yeah. -I mean, you might have to do the egg retrieval, right? 914 00:32:38,448 --> 00:32:41,172 Potentially. I don't know what I'm gonna have to do. 915 00:32:41,172 --> 00:32:42,172 I bet you're gonna have to do that. 916 00:32:42,172 --> 00:32:43,344 I bet they're gonna have to go in there 917 00:32:43,344 --> 00:32:46,172 and, you know, pluck them and put them somewhere. 918 00:32:47,034 --> 00:32:49,000 [Jessica] You spend most of your adult life 919 00:32:49,000 --> 00:32:50,724 trying not to get pregnant, 920 00:32:50,724 --> 00:32:53,137 and then when you decide you want to get pregnant, 921 00:32:53,137 --> 00:32:55,724 it just doesn't happen like you thought it would. 922 00:32:55,724 --> 00:32:58,103 And then you're like, "Why was that worried this whole time?" 923 00:32:58,103 --> 00:33:00,344 But getting pregnant has not been easy for us. 924 00:33:00,344 --> 00:33:01,965 We've been trying for about a year. 925 00:33:01,965 --> 00:33:04,482 I do have a condition, endometriosis, 926 00:33:04,482 --> 00:33:07,413 that has been making things difficult. 927 00:33:07,413 --> 00:33:09,793 We are seeing doctors and specialists. 928 00:33:09,793 --> 00:33:12,172 And everything that's in my control, 929 00:33:12,172 --> 00:33:13,551 we're doing. 930 00:33:13,551 --> 00:33:16,965 But, no, it's not been as easy as I thought it would have been. 931 00:33:16,965 --> 00:33:19,931 Those girls, let me show you their reaction 932 00:33:19,931 --> 00:33:21,827 when they saw their cups. 933 00:33:21,827 --> 00:33:23,241 Look at how excited they were. 934 00:33:23,241 --> 00:33:24,689 It was hilarious. 935 00:33:25,000 --> 00:33:26,827 [women exclaiming] 936 00:33:26,827 --> 00:33:28,620 -[Jessica laughing] -That's Jaime. 937 00:33:28,620 --> 00:33:29,758 Look at Jaime. 938 00:33:29,758 --> 00:33:31,000 That's Marissa. 939 00:33:31,000 --> 00:33:32,344 That's Kayla. 940 00:33:33,206 --> 00:33:34,896 They've just never been happier in their lives. 941 00:33:34,896 --> 00:33:35,931 Little tumbler topper. 942 00:33:35,931 --> 00:33:38,413 -Who would have thought? -So happy. 943 00:33:38,413 --> 00:33:39,551 That was a hit. 944 00:33:40,206 --> 00:33:41,068 It was good. 945 00:33:41,068 --> 00:33:43,068 So speaking of like celebrations 946 00:33:43,068 --> 00:33:44,620 and plannings and whatnots... 947 00:33:44,620 --> 00:33:46,896 -And I told you-- And I told you-- -Miss coming into the 40-- 948 00:33:46,896 --> 00:33:49,482 I still do not have a single plan for my birthday. 949 00:33:49,482 --> 00:33:51,172 The vibe that I miss, 950 00:33:51,172 --> 00:33:53,000 without throwing up on the banana boat, 951 00:33:53,000 --> 00:33:54,551 is like St Lucia vibes. 952 00:33:54,551 --> 00:33:55,689 Oh, my God, are you kidding me? 953 00:33:55,689 --> 00:34:01,379 Just resort vibes, like going to coastal location. 954 00:34:01,379 --> 00:34:02,793 Like on a plane. 955 00:34:02,793 --> 00:34:05,344 You know? Maybe Intercontinental. 956 00:34:05,344 --> 00:34:07,206 -Intercontinental. -Mmm-hmm. 957 00:34:07,206 --> 00:34:08,137 What are you talking about? 958 00:34:08,137 --> 00:34:09,413 Corsica. 959 00:34:09,413 --> 00:34:10,551 -I'm talking about-- -I don't even know where that is. 960 00:34:10,551 --> 00:34:12,275 -Ibiza. -Okay. 961 00:34:12,275 --> 00:34:15,137 -I'm talking about Barcelona. -Okay. 962 00:34:15,137 --> 00:34:19,413 It's no secret that I have hated my birthday for, like, 10 years. 963 00:34:19,413 --> 00:34:22,447 And since COVID, like they've been extra bad 964 00:34:22,447 --> 00:34:24,551 or boring or disastrous. 965 00:34:24,551 --> 00:34:26,757 You know, we tried to go tubing in a thunderstorm. 966 00:34:26,757 --> 00:34:29,034 We had a COVID drive-by birthday, 967 00:34:29,034 --> 00:34:31,724 a pool party when it was like 55 degrees out. 968 00:34:31,724 --> 00:34:33,862 It just, you know, it's really not giving 969 00:34:33,862 --> 00:34:37,620 what it needs to give and I am so hoping 970 00:34:37,620 --> 00:34:41,655 this birthday could finally give me what I'm looking for. 971 00:34:41,655 --> 00:34:43,724 -[woman] Whitney. Hello. -Hi. 972 00:34:43,724 --> 00:34:44,827 How are you guys doing today? 973 00:34:44,827 --> 00:34:45,931 We're good. How are you? 974 00:34:45,931 --> 00:34:47,310 Good. 975 00:34:47,310 --> 00:34:49,655 [Whitney] You know, on the surface, this might seem like 976 00:34:49,655 --> 00:34:53,275 kind of a routine thing. 977 00:34:53,275 --> 00:34:55,068 But actually, I feel really nervous. 978 00:34:55,068 --> 00:34:58,034 Um, I don't know if I would be able to carry a child. 979 00:34:58,034 --> 00:34:59,931 I don't know if the eggs that are already retrieved 980 00:34:59,931 --> 00:35:01,620 are still good anymore. 981 00:35:01,620 --> 00:35:03,620 I don't know if I could donate them 982 00:35:03,620 --> 00:35:05,172 to someone else if they're not. 983 00:35:05,172 --> 00:35:07,413 Like, it's just a lot of questions, 984 00:35:07,413 --> 00:35:10,896 and I'm here because I want the answers. 985 00:35:10,896 --> 00:35:13,793 But the answers also feel like they can be really definitive 986 00:35:13,793 --> 00:35:15,310 and really scary. 987 00:35:16,172 --> 00:35:17,724 [Jessica] I feel like we're trying to get pregnant right now. 988 00:35:17,724 --> 00:35:19,931 -I know. -Like, I feel like it's me and Isaiah. 989 00:35:19,931 --> 00:35:21,034 Oh, I was about to say like it's me and you. 990 00:35:21,034 --> 00:35:22,103 -[laughing] -[Dr. Yaloinkaya] Can I come in? 991 00:35:22,103 --> 00:35:23,068 Yes. 992 00:35:23,068 --> 00:35:24,241 -Hi. -Hi. 993 00:35:24,241 --> 00:35:25,862 -How are you doing? -How are you? I'm good. 994 00:35:25,862 --> 00:35:27,034 So good to see you. 995 00:35:27,034 --> 00:35:28,344 -Good to see you too. -Good to see you. 996 00:35:28,344 --> 00:35:29,896 I understand you have some questions 997 00:35:29,896 --> 00:35:31,689 and you want to get checked again. 998 00:35:31,689 --> 00:35:33,931 So wanted to just see what was going on. 999 00:35:33,931 --> 00:35:36,137 in my uterus. 1000 00:35:36,137 --> 00:35:39,758 I'm curious because the last two years, 1001 00:35:39,758 --> 00:35:42,724 I've now suddenly gotten my period every single month. 1002 00:35:42,724 --> 00:35:44,137 -That's great. -And I went my whole life-- 1003 00:35:44,137 --> 00:35:45,413 Now, are you on any medications? 1004 00:35:45,413 --> 00:35:48,517 -No. -Have you lost or gained any weight? 1005 00:35:48,517 --> 00:35:49,862 Well, I have lost. 1006 00:35:49,862 --> 00:35:50,965 But it started before 1007 00:35:50,965 --> 00:35:53,413 I even really lost this last amount of weight. 1008 00:35:53,413 --> 00:35:55,068 I lost about 50 pounds in the last year. 1009 00:35:55,068 --> 00:35:56,241 -But this started-- -5-0. 1010 00:35:56,241 --> 00:35:59,000 Oh, and I've lost 100 from my highest weight, so. 1011 00:35:59,000 --> 00:36:05,241 You know, patients with PCOS, as their ovaries lose some of the eggs, 1012 00:36:05,241 --> 00:36:08,413 unfortunately, and some of the hormone 1013 00:36:08,413 --> 00:36:12,241 changes occur in such a way that the vicious cycle 1014 00:36:12,241 --> 00:36:16,758 that kept them from ovulating and having their periods is broken 1015 00:36:16,758 --> 00:36:20,310 and they start having ovulatory cycles. 1016 00:36:20,310 --> 00:36:22,551 -So-- -But at this age, where it's like-- 1017 00:36:22,551 --> 00:36:24,517 Some of it could be the age, 1018 00:36:24,517 --> 00:36:26,344 but some of it could also be the weight loss. 1019 00:36:26,344 --> 00:36:28,103 Okay. I'm about to turn 40, 1020 00:36:28,103 --> 00:36:30,551 so I wonder what my general fertility is. 1021 00:36:30,551 --> 00:36:32,241 I'm not trying to get pregnant, but I kind of want to know, 1022 00:36:32,241 --> 00:36:34,448 do I need to worry about getting pregnant like on accident? 1023 00:36:34,448 --> 00:36:37,172 -Or can I just-- -Well, there's always that possibility. 1024 00:36:37,172 --> 00:36:38,137 Okay. 1025 00:36:38,137 --> 00:36:39,689 I'm so ridiculous. 1026 00:36:39,689 --> 00:36:41,379 Okay, well, let's see what's going on 1027 00:36:41,379 --> 00:36:44,551 in the old pelvic region, I guess. 1028 00:36:44,689 --> 00:36:45,620 All right. 1029 00:36:47,758 --> 00:36:50,068 [Dr. Yaloinkaya] Okay. Now the pressure. 1030 00:36:51,758 --> 00:36:53,000 [Whitney] I'm getting my period now and stuff. 1031 00:36:53,000 --> 00:36:55,137 I'm just curious what all is going on. 1032 00:37:00,689 --> 00:37:01,793 [Dr. Yaloinkaya] At this point... 1033 00:37:02,448 --> 00:37:03,896 um... 1034 00:37:19,482 --> 00:37:22,137 I like to pretend I'm about to see a baby or something. 1035 00:37:22,137 --> 00:37:24,000 I'd like to see a kitten in there one time. 1036 00:37:24,689 --> 00:37:25,793 [Dr. Yaloinkaya] All right. 1037 00:37:25,965 --> 00:37:27,000 Okay. 1038 00:37:27,000 --> 00:37:28,655 Now the pressure. 1039 00:37:30,000 --> 00:37:32,000 So right now, we're looking at your uterus. 1040 00:37:32,344 --> 00:37:33,551 It's looking good. 1041 00:37:33,551 --> 00:37:35,413 No fibroids or anything like that. 1042 00:37:35,413 --> 00:37:36,344 This is a good lining. 1043 00:37:36,344 --> 00:37:37,793 It's not too thickened. 1044 00:37:37,793 --> 00:37:41,344 In a patient with a history of PCOS, 1045 00:37:41,344 --> 00:37:44,655 we sometimes would worry about excessively thick lining. 1046 00:37:44,655 --> 00:37:49,068 We're not seeing that in you. It's actually looking nice. 1047 00:37:49,068 --> 00:37:51,275 I'd love to hear. I just have always had all this 1048 00:37:51,275 --> 00:37:53,068 like, um, not shame, 1049 00:37:53,068 --> 00:37:55,724 but something tied to thinking like my body's broke. 1050 00:37:55,724 --> 00:37:57,034 I don't work right, you know. 1051 00:37:57,034 --> 00:38:00,620 So now, when I get my period, girl, I am so excited. 1052 00:38:00,620 --> 00:38:02,482 I'm like, "Oh, I'm cramping, you know?" 1053 00:38:02,482 --> 00:38:04,620 When I was walking into Dr. Y's office, 1054 00:38:04,620 --> 00:38:06,068 I was really, really anxious. 1055 00:38:06,068 --> 00:38:09,172 But after hearing what I would consider to be pretty good news, 1056 00:38:09,172 --> 00:38:10,103 I'm excited. 1057 00:38:10,103 --> 00:38:12,034 It feels like my reproductive organs 1058 00:38:12,034 --> 00:38:16,206 are still in really good shape for the age that I am, 1059 00:38:16,206 --> 00:38:17,655 which is great news. 1060 00:38:17,655 --> 00:38:19,827 I just hope that I get the answers 1061 00:38:19,827 --> 00:38:22,344 that I want to all of my other questions as well. 1062 00:38:22,344 --> 00:38:23,551 I just need a refresher. 1063 00:38:23,551 --> 00:38:26,000 I think I had... I think I had a decent amount of eggs, 1064 00:38:26,000 --> 00:38:27,275 but I can't remember how many I have, 1065 00:38:27,275 --> 00:38:29,931 and I'm wondering how long they can still be on ice 1066 00:38:29,931 --> 00:38:33,551 before I gotta... What do you do with them? 1067 00:38:33,551 --> 00:38:34,620 Can I give them away? 1068 00:38:34,620 --> 00:38:36,206 -Or... -Uh, most people, 1069 00:38:36,206 --> 00:38:38,034 if they're done with childbearing 1070 00:38:38,034 --> 00:38:42,137 or if they no longer intend to get pregnant, 1071 00:38:42,137 --> 00:38:43,448 they will discard them, 1072 00:38:43,448 --> 00:38:46,586 or they may donate them to scientific research. 1073 00:38:46,586 --> 00:38:49,620 -Uh, they don't get any freezer burn or anything. -Okay, okay. 1074 00:38:49,620 --> 00:38:50,793 -If that's what you're wondering. -Okay. 1075 00:38:50,793 --> 00:38:52,413 Now, one thing FDA doesn't allow 1076 00:38:52,413 --> 00:38:56,000 is a donation of eggs 1077 00:38:56,000 --> 00:39:00,482 that were collected with the purpose of that owner to reproduce. 1078 00:39:00,482 --> 00:39:02,206 You can't really donate them. 1079 00:39:02,206 --> 00:39:05,793 -What? So her eggs can't be donated at all? -To another person. 1080 00:39:05,793 --> 00:39:07,103 What if somebody wanted them? 1081 00:39:07,103 --> 00:39:10,206 As far as I know, FDA does not allow. 1082 00:39:10,206 --> 00:39:12,275 How can you tell somebody what to do with their own eggs? 1083 00:39:12,275 --> 00:39:16,344 There are other stipulations for eggs to be donated. 1084 00:39:16,344 --> 00:39:18,310 They have to be approved to be an egg donor. 1085 00:39:18,310 --> 00:39:21,000 FDA considers them ineligible. 1086 00:39:21,000 --> 00:39:23,000 [Whitney] You know, I've heard that word about myself a lot, 1087 00:39:23,000 --> 00:39:26,551 Doctor Y, and I hate it. 1088 00:39:26,551 --> 00:39:29,586 I am honestly really surprised and confusion about this. 1089 00:39:29,655 --> 00:39:30,862 Um... 1090 00:39:31,931 --> 00:39:33,896 I just... What? 1091 00:39:33,896 --> 00:39:36,034 I thought-- I don't know. I-- 1092 00:39:36,034 --> 00:39:37,931 I feel like they're my eggs. 1093 00:39:37,931 --> 00:39:40,448 I mean, obviously, like I can't go steal them from a freezer. 1094 00:39:40,448 --> 00:39:42,000 But I'm just shocked to hear 1095 00:39:42,000 --> 00:39:45,103 that I can only throw them away 1096 00:39:45,103 --> 00:39:46,689 or donate them to science. 1097 00:39:46,689 --> 00:39:49,344 I just feel like part of me just really doesn't want 1098 00:39:49,344 --> 00:39:51,000 those eggs to go to waste. 1099 00:39:51,793 --> 00:39:52,931 When would you tell me, 1100 00:39:52,931 --> 00:39:54,482 like, I can't... 1101 00:39:54,482 --> 00:39:55,862 use your eggs to help you get pregnant. 1102 00:39:55,862 --> 00:39:57,275 At what age? 1103 00:39:57,275 --> 00:40:01,275 A rough age cutoff is like 43. 1104 00:40:01,275 --> 00:40:02,758 Okay. All right. 1105 00:40:02,758 --> 00:40:04,896 -Well, I'm coming up-- -I'm not suggesting you wait till that age-- 1106 00:40:04,896 --> 00:40:07,137 Right. I don't want to. 1107 00:40:07,137 --> 00:40:10,344 I just have not... have not found the, uh... 1108 00:40:10,344 --> 00:40:11,724 It's not something I want to do alone, 1109 00:40:11,724 --> 00:40:13,068 and I've not yet found the partner. 1110 00:40:13,068 --> 00:40:15,655 But, um, I kinda, I guess in my mind, 1111 00:40:15,655 --> 00:40:18,551 maybe just culturally, we think 40 is it. 1112 00:40:18,551 --> 00:40:20,793 So I'm coming up on my 40th birthday. 1113 00:40:20,793 --> 00:40:23,344 So I was feeling a little... 1114 00:40:23,344 --> 00:40:24,586 I mean, that makes me feel a little hopeful. 1115 00:40:24,586 --> 00:40:26,827 Maybe I've got three more years than I thought I had. 1116 00:40:26,827 --> 00:40:30,034 Plus, you have your... our preserved eggs. 1117 00:40:30,034 --> 00:40:31,034 Already preserved. Yeah. 1118 00:40:31,034 --> 00:40:32,310 -Yeah. -Okay. 1119 00:40:32,310 --> 00:40:35,517 Well, I think I'm... I feel encouraged. 1120 00:40:35,517 --> 00:40:36,862 I might have three more years. 1121 00:40:36,862 --> 00:40:37,862 -Yeah. -Okay. 1122 00:40:37,862 --> 00:40:39,000 Sounds like you do have three more years. 1123 00:40:39,000 --> 00:40:40,551 Okay. All right. 1124 00:40:40,551 --> 00:40:42,068 Well, I really appreciate it. 1125 00:40:42,068 --> 00:40:46,758 Um, and I hope I'll see you soon. 1126 00:40:46,758 --> 00:40:49,551 I hope that, you know, sooner rather than later, 1127 00:40:49,551 --> 00:40:52,448 I'll have a partner and we'll be trying for a baby. 1128 00:40:52,448 --> 00:40:54,000 -So, if you know any single men... -Yeah. 1129 00:40:54,000 --> 00:40:55,413 ...let me know, you know. 1130 00:40:56,517 --> 00:40:58,000 -[Caitlin] There you go. -Thank you so much, Caitlin. 1131 00:40:58,000 --> 00:40:59,172 Appreciate it. 1132 00:40:59,172 --> 00:41:00,793 All right. See you. 1133 00:41:00,793 --> 00:41:02,655 All right. Thank you. 1134 00:41:02,655 --> 00:41:04,586 Okay. You can just keep my underwear. 1135 00:41:04,586 --> 00:41:06,034 It don't need to come back on at this point. 1136 00:41:06,034 --> 00:41:07,620 -No, of course not. -Ugh. 1137 00:41:09,413 --> 00:41:11,206 [Jessica] Well, I videoed the whole thing. 1138 00:41:11,206 --> 00:41:12,655 Oh, thank you. 1139 00:41:12,655 --> 00:41:14,137 -So that way, you won't forget. -Because you know I'll forget. 1140 00:41:14,137 --> 00:41:15,241 I forget. 1141 00:41:15,241 --> 00:41:18,586 I think I'm definitely, um, I'm ovulating now, 1142 00:41:18,586 --> 00:41:19,793 which makes me-- 1143 00:41:19,793 --> 00:41:21,344 I know I'm so not likely to get pregnant accidentally, 1144 00:41:21,344 --> 00:41:22,517 -but I'm like-- -Could you imagine? 1145 00:41:22,517 --> 00:41:25,000 It's like the first time I've ever... 1146 00:41:25,000 --> 00:41:27,344 actually been ovulating, probably in my life. 1147 00:41:27,344 --> 00:41:28,379 Because I've told you that. 1148 00:41:28,379 --> 00:41:30,620 When I used to bleed, I never had a cramp. 1149 00:41:30,620 --> 00:41:34,172 Like, I didn't know what it was like until now. 1150 00:41:34,172 --> 00:41:38,068 I might still technically have about three years to have a baby, 1151 00:41:38,068 --> 00:41:44,103 but I've spent so many years stuck in just this limbo 1152 00:41:44,103 --> 00:41:45,655 dead-end thing with the Frenchman. 1153 00:41:45,655 --> 00:41:47,965 And so I know that if I really want children, 1154 00:41:47,965 --> 00:41:50,965 I have absolutely no more time to waste. 1155 00:41:51,758 --> 00:41:54,344 -Welcome to the club. -Welcome to womanhood. 1156 00:41:56,448 --> 00:41:57,862 What the [bleep] hell? 1157 00:41:57,862 --> 00:42:00,448 Next time on My Big Fat Fabulous Life... 1158 00:42:00,448 --> 00:42:03,310 Is there something about me that is so wrong 1159 00:42:03,310 --> 00:42:05,034 that people won't even give me a first date. 1160 00:42:05,034 --> 00:42:06,551 It's not wrong, but you're intimidating. 1161 00:42:06,551 --> 00:42:08,517 Because I'm fat? Because I'm a heavyset lady? 1162 00:42:08,517 --> 00:42:10,000 You need to take the pressure off. 1163 00:42:10,413 --> 00:42:12,241 Be a little less picky. 1164 00:42:12,241 --> 00:42:16,034 Stop anticipating that you meet your husband on the next date you go on. 1165 00:42:16,034 --> 00:42:18,448 -I don't! -Just go on some fun dates. 1166 00:42:18,448 --> 00:42:20,241 You don't have any constructive criticism. 1167 00:42:21,379 --> 00:42:22,620 [Hunter] Nobody's really telling the truth here. 1168 00:42:22,620 --> 00:42:25,689 I mean, if you can't see what's wrong with yourself, 1169 00:42:25,689 --> 00:42:27,655 I don't know if anyone's gonna be able to convince you. 1170 00:42:27,655 --> 00:42:30,620 The one thing that holds you back romantically 1171 00:42:30,620 --> 00:42:32,068 is your size. 1172 00:42:32,068 --> 00:42:35,137 Would you consider losing weight again?