1 00:00:01,206 --> 00:00:02,586 What the [bleep]? 2 00:00:02,586 --> 00:00:05,275 Previously on My Big, Fat, Fabulous Life... 3 00:00:05,275 --> 00:00:06,586 You know what the basil is for? 4 00:00:06,586 --> 00:00:08,896 -Emotional balance. -Okay. 5 00:00:08,896 --> 00:00:10,275 We've got a little bit of a remodel 6 00:00:10,275 --> 00:00:12,689 -for my dad's bedroom. -Sure. 7 00:00:12,689 --> 00:00:14,206 [Whitney] As soon as my brother and I learned 8 00:00:14,206 --> 00:00:16,206 that my dad wanted to sell the house, 9 00:00:16,206 --> 00:00:18,206 we immediately tried to scheme ways 10 00:00:18,206 --> 00:00:20,310 to incentivize him to not do that. 11 00:00:20,310 --> 00:00:22,206 -[Hunter] Yeah, I'll walk all over that. -[Whitney] Let's do it. 12 00:00:22,206 --> 00:00:25,103 The solution is to reno the downstairs bedroom. 13 00:00:25,103 --> 00:00:26,586 As soon as possible would be great. 14 00:00:26,586 --> 00:00:29,482 Speaking of like, celebrations and plannings and whatnot-- 15 00:00:29,482 --> 00:00:31,620 [Whitney] I still do not have a single plan for my birthday. 16 00:00:31,620 --> 00:00:33,172 The vibe that I miss, 17 00:00:33,172 --> 00:00:35,103 -it's like Saint Lucia vibes. -Oh my God. 18 00:00:35,103 --> 00:00:36,620 Maybe intercontinental. 19 00:00:36,620 --> 00:00:38,896 -Intercontinental? -Mmm-hmm. 20 00:00:38,896 --> 00:00:40,586 I think it's year ten of the apps. 21 00:00:40,586 --> 00:00:41,931 It's time to try something different. 22 00:00:41,931 --> 00:00:44,103 -Yeah, at least something different. -I agree. 23 00:00:44,103 --> 00:00:45,103 I know I can't meet somebody 24 00:00:45,103 --> 00:00:47,482 sitting, you know, on my couch with y'all. 25 00:00:47,482 --> 00:00:50,275 I think I might need some outside help. 26 00:00:50,275 --> 00:00:52,931 You're gonna do the old timey, the old timey way? 27 00:00:52,931 --> 00:00:54,172 Like a matchmaker? 28 00:00:54,172 --> 00:00:55,482 Do they still have those? 29 00:00:55,482 --> 00:00:57,000 -Do they? -[man] I mean they have, like, professional ones, 30 00:00:57,000 --> 00:00:58,000 that have a gift. 31 00:00:59,413 --> 00:01:00,724 [theme music playing] 32 00:01:08,379 --> 00:01:11,344 ♪♪ My heart went boom, ta-da-da-ta-da ♪ 33 00:01:12,103 --> 00:01:14,965 ♪♪ My heart went boom, ta-da-da-ta-da ♪ 34 00:01:15,827 --> 00:01:19,172 ♪♪ My heart went boom, boom, boom, boom, boom ♪ 35 00:01:19,172 --> 00:01:20,827 ♪♪ My heart went... 36 00:01:21,724 --> 00:01:23,033 [Whitney] Hey, Goose. 37 00:01:23,275 --> 00:01:24,758 Hey, girl. 38 00:01:26,172 --> 00:01:27,931 Oh, oof, lordy. 39 00:01:33,931 --> 00:01:35,689 - Hi, Whitney. -[Whitney] Hi, how are you? 40 00:01:35,689 --> 00:01:36,827 How are you? 41 00:01:36,827 --> 00:01:38,344 I'm good. I'm nervous. 42 00:01:38,344 --> 00:01:43,068 [laughs] I did not suspect in life that I would need your services. 43 00:01:43,068 --> 00:01:45,896 Um, but I've heard a lot of really good things about you. 44 00:01:45,896 --> 00:01:47,378 Please. It is so nice to meet you. 45 00:01:47,378 --> 00:01:49,000 I'm so excited for today. 46 00:01:49,000 --> 00:01:51,068 - Let's get started. -Okay. 47 00:01:51,068 --> 00:01:54,482 So I took my friend's advice and I actually found a matchmaker. 48 00:01:54,482 --> 00:01:56,068 Her name is Alessandra. 49 00:01:56,068 --> 00:01:57,586 She's based in Beverly Hills, 50 00:01:57,586 --> 00:02:00,103 and we're having our first video appointment today, 51 00:02:00,103 --> 00:02:01,482 and I'm counting on her. 52 00:02:01,482 --> 00:02:02,689 Like, I really hope 53 00:02:02,689 --> 00:02:04,482 that I get some good insight from her 54 00:02:04,482 --> 00:02:06,586 and that she can help me figure out 55 00:02:06,586 --> 00:02:07,931 maybe what I'm doing wrong, 56 00:02:07,931 --> 00:02:09,517 or guide me on what to do better, 57 00:02:09,517 --> 00:02:14,517 because I am determined to find my husband in my fourth decade. 58 00:02:14,517 --> 00:02:16,724 [Alessandra] I want to learn more about you 59 00:02:16,724 --> 00:02:19,103 and what's worked, what hasn't 60 00:02:19,103 --> 00:02:21,896 And if we could back up a little bit, 61 00:02:21,896 --> 00:02:27,000 tell me about the last, like, three years dating life, 62 00:02:27,000 --> 00:02:29,482 what's been going on? 63 00:02:29,482 --> 00:02:30,931 [Whitney] So, for the last three years, 64 00:02:30,931 --> 00:02:33,517 I was involved with a man who lived in France. 65 00:02:33,517 --> 00:02:34,930 We had the most wonderful time, 66 00:02:34,930 --> 00:02:38,172 but logistically, like, I'm not gonna move to Paris 67 00:02:38,172 --> 00:02:42,000 and leave my dad here, and he would never move out of Paris. 68 00:02:42,000 --> 00:02:43,689 So, even though I've been involved 69 00:02:43,689 --> 00:02:47,000 with this French man, I've still, like, kept my dating apps open. 70 00:02:47,000 --> 00:02:48,724 Nothing has ever come my way. 71 00:02:48,724 --> 00:02:50,689 I haven't gotten hit on in public. 72 00:02:50,689 --> 00:02:52,103 You know, I think I have specific challenges. 73 00:02:52,103 --> 00:02:53,793 Like, my size is something, 74 00:02:53,793 --> 00:02:57,067 um, the fact that I'm no almost 40, I think, is something. 75 00:02:57,067 --> 00:03:02,172 I just am, like, so devoid of any connection, 76 00:03:02,172 --> 00:03:03,724 and I just want some. [chuckles] 77 00:03:03,724 --> 00:03:06,793 It's nerve racking, being face to face with Alessandra. 78 00:03:06,793 --> 00:03:10,586 Like, the fact that you need a matchmaker to help you find a man 79 00:03:10,586 --> 00:03:12,689 feels pretty vulnerable and kind of embarrassing 80 00:03:12,689 --> 00:03:15,827 even though obviously this is what she does all the time. 81 00:03:15,827 --> 00:03:19,068 I'm just really hoping that she has some solutions 82 00:03:19,068 --> 00:03:22,689 to facilitate finding me a good quality date. 83 00:03:22,689 --> 00:03:25,103 Dating is not easy, 84 00:03:25,103 --> 00:03:28,275 and I'm so glad you had that time with him. 85 00:03:28,275 --> 00:03:29,862 That was wonderful. 86 00:03:29,862 --> 00:03:32,930 - But now, that train has left the station. -The station, uh-huh. 87 00:03:32,930 --> 00:03:35,793 - He was not able to give you the full commitment... -[Whitney] Right. 88 00:03:35,793 --> 00:03:39,067 -... that you absolutely deserve. -Right. 89 00:03:39,067 --> 00:03:41,896 [Alessandra] And this is why I recommend different avenues. 90 00:03:41,896 --> 00:03:44,793 Um, definitely dating apps are one avenue. 91 00:03:44,793 --> 00:03:46,275 I was actually working really hard 92 00:03:46,275 --> 00:03:48,172 on the apps for, like, the last couple weeks. 93 00:03:48,172 --> 00:03:50,689 I mean, messaging every single man that I matched with 94 00:03:50,689 --> 00:03:52,172 complementing people I didn't match with. 95 00:03:52,172 --> 00:03:54,000 I've never put that much effort into it. 96 00:03:54,000 --> 00:03:56,172 And I got-- finally got one response. 97 00:03:56,172 --> 00:03:59,172 One, and the guy was really attractive, 98 00:03:59,172 --> 00:04:00,793 and I just said, "Hey, how are you?" 99 00:04:00,793 --> 00:04:03,000 And he said, um, "You're a goddess." 100 00:04:03,000 --> 00:04:04,793 And I said, "Oh, well, that's an interesting, 101 00:04:04,793 --> 00:04:07,000 you know, answer to 'Hey, how are you?' But thank you." 102 00:04:07,000 --> 00:04:09,068 And then he said, "DTF?" 103 00:04:09,068 --> 00:04:11,586 -And I said-- I didn't say anything. -[groans] 104 00:04:11,586 --> 00:04:14,620 And then he said, "I'm 11 inches and thick." 105 00:04:14,620 --> 00:04:17,689 -You know, so, I feel like for me... -[groaning] Wow, what? 106 00:04:17,689 --> 00:04:19,689 [Whitney] Like, I've had enough sex in life. 107 00:04:19,689 --> 00:04:21,034 You know what I mean? I-- 108 00:04:21,034 --> 00:04:23,379 Most women don't have problems getting sex, so I'm not-- 109 00:04:23,379 --> 00:04:25,103 I don't care about that anymore. 110 00:04:25,103 --> 00:04:26,482 It's like investing, right? 111 00:04:26,482 --> 00:04:29,620 - You're not gonna invest fully in one stock... -Right. 112 00:04:29,620 --> 00:04:32,896 ...and one stock only, and then it's do or die. 113 00:04:32,896 --> 00:04:34,896 So, it's the same thing with your dating life. 114 00:04:34,896 --> 00:04:37,103 You want to diversify your portfolio 115 00:04:37,103 --> 00:04:40,137 when it comes to, you know, how you're meeting men. 116 00:04:40,724 --> 00:04:42,413 If a man flirted with me in public, 117 00:04:42,413 --> 00:04:44,103 much less like, asked me out in pub-- 118 00:04:44,103 --> 00:04:45,379 I would-- I would fall over and die. 119 00:04:45,379 --> 00:04:47,586 I would be-- I can't even fathom it happening. 120 00:04:47,586 --> 00:04:49,379 It's just like, "When did I get this lame?" 121 00:04:49,379 --> 00:04:52,000 You know, I used to be able to go out to the bars. 122 00:04:52,000 --> 00:04:54,275 I used to be a big drinker, and I could always 123 00:04:54,275 --> 00:04:55,931 find something if I wanted it. 124 00:04:55,931 --> 00:04:57,793 And now I'm not sure that I could. 125 00:04:57,793 --> 00:04:59,275 So that's... you know. 126 00:04:59,275 --> 00:05:02,172 I think this is a limiting mindset, I really do. 127 00:05:02,172 --> 00:05:05,000 - And, well-- -And let me be honest, I don't leave the house. 128 00:05:05,000 --> 00:05:06,655 So there's also that. [chuckles] 129 00:05:06,655 --> 00:05:09,000 -I mean, I have to be-- I don't leave the house. - Who does? Who-- [laughs] 130 00:05:09,000 --> 00:05:13,172 Um, I've definitely become I'm a huge homebody, 131 00:05:13,172 --> 00:05:14,931 and that's the reason I do the apps, because I'm like, 132 00:05:14,931 --> 00:05:16,896 "Well, I know I can't meet anybody sitting in my living room." 133 00:05:16,896 --> 00:05:18,482 So, yeah. [chuckles] 134 00:05:18,482 --> 00:05:20,379 -But I don't ever leave the house. - Whitney! 135 00:05:20,379 --> 00:05:22,931 - Listen to yourself. -I mean-- 136 00:05:22,931 --> 00:05:24,758 Oh my goodness. 137 00:05:25,931 --> 00:05:27,379 [Whitney] The older I've gotten, 138 00:05:27,379 --> 00:05:30,103 the more isolation I've imposed on myself. 139 00:05:30,103 --> 00:05:32,103 Of course, the pandemic didn't help. 140 00:05:32,103 --> 00:05:35,275 And I know Alessandra is rolling her eyes, 141 00:05:35,275 --> 00:05:37,275 like, with the way I live, 142 00:05:37,275 --> 00:05:41,000 the only man I would meet would be uh, a pizza man, 143 00:05:41,000 --> 00:05:43,689 um, somebody come fix my toilet, 144 00:05:43,689 --> 00:05:45,068 the exterminator. 145 00:05:45,068 --> 00:05:47,896 If you're not coming to me, we're not gonna meet. 146 00:05:47,896 --> 00:05:51,379 If you're in your home 99% of the time, 147 00:05:51,379 --> 00:05:52,793 you're not gonna meet anybody, 148 00:05:52,793 --> 00:05:54,724 and then you're gonna only meet the men on the apps. 149 00:05:58,482 --> 00:06:01,482 -Mmm-hmm. - Um, so first order of business 150 00:06:01,482 --> 00:06:04,310 is getting you out of the house. 151 00:06:04,310 --> 00:06:08,517 If you can set a goal for the next two months, 152 00:06:08,517 --> 00:06:14,586 - I want you to go to one event of any kind. -Uh-huh. Okay. 153 00:06:14,586 --> 00:06:17,068 It could be a conference. 154 00:06:17,068 --> 00:06:20,275 - It could be a dog park. -Oh, that's a good idea. 155 00:06:20,275 --> 00:06:22,000 I never go to the dog park. 156 00:06:22,000 --> 00:06:24,103 [Alessandra] Dog parks are phenomenal places. 157 00:06:24,103 --> 00:06:27,137 - So many single men. -And I have a cute dog. 158 00:06:27,931 --> 00:06:29,172 Amazing. 159 00:06:33,103 --> 00:06:35,000 -[Whitney] Okay. - Only for the next two months. 160 00:06:35,000 --> 00:06:38,000 Okay, I'm scared, but I-- I like it. Okay. 161 00:06:38,000 --> 00:06:39,827 Okay, when you're at events, 162 00:06:39,827 --> 00:06:41,896 good guys, a lot of times 163 00:06:41,896 --> 00:06:43,586 they have approach anxiety, 164 00:06:43,586 --> 00:06:45,931 and they're just-- they're not doing it anymore. 165 00:06:45,931 --> 00:06:48,000 - It's not something that's really done. - Right. 166 00:06:48,000 --> 00:06:50,172 [Alessandra] So, there is a strategy. 167 00:06:50,172 --> 00:06:52,413 It's called "dropping the handkerchief", okay? 168 00:06:52,413 --> 00:06:53,896 "Dropping the handkerchief," okay. 169 00:06:53,896 --> 00:06:55,586 [Alessandra] What that means is 170 00:06:55,586 --> 00:06:59,172 ask them a random question unrelated to them. 171 00:06:59,172 --> 00:07:02,172 It's about whatever it is that you're there for. 172 00:07:02,172 --> 00:07:03,793 It doesn't have to be anything. 173 00:07:03,793 --> 00:07:06,172 It can be, "Oh, do you know what's in a matcha, 174 00:07:06,172 --> 00:07:08,275 like, do you have any idea what's in a matcha?" 175 00:07:08,275 --> 00:07:12,275 Anything, ask any benign random question about whatever it is, 176 00:07:12,275 --> 00:07:13,586 - wherever it is, you are. -Mmm-hmm. 177 00:07:13,586 --> 00:07:15,896 [Alessandra] And then, the guy will answer. 178 00:07:15,896 --> 00:07:18,275 But because we are dropping the handkerchief, 179 00:07:18,275 --> 00:07:20,000 there is another step. 180 00:07:20,000 --> 00:07:23,517 These are the words that will open up your dating life. 181 00:07:23,517 --> 00:07:25,517 You say, "Oh my gosh, thank you. 182 00:07:25,517 --> 00:07:27,586 Are you from around here?" 183 00:07:27,586 --> 00:07:30,379 Because then the guy will say, "Oh, yeah, I actually just moved up the street. 184 00:07:30,379 --> 00:07:32,103 I just went through a really rough divorce." 185 00:07:32,103 --> 00:07:33,379 - Okay, great. -[Whitney] Mmm-hmm. 186 00:07:33,379 --> 00:07:35,275 "Oh, yeah, me and my wife just moved up the street." 187 00:07:35,275 --> 00:07:37,172 - "Oh, me and my husband just moved up the street." -Right. 188 00:07:37,172 --> 00:07:39,413 Okay, great. Then we know. 189 00:07:39,413 --> 00:07:40,896 And then, as you guys are chatting, 190 00:07:40,896 --> 00:07:43,103 you can say, "Oh my gosh, you're so lovely. 191 00:07:43,103 --> 00:07:44,862 Here, take my number." 192 00:07:44,862 --> 00:07:46,275 - Or, "Take my instagram." Like, yeah, like "Reach out." -[Whitney] Mmm-hmm. 193 00:07:46,275 --> 00:07:49,620 But after that, they have the ball, it's in their court. 194 00:07:49,620 --> 00:07:50,931 They'll either reach out to you, 195 00:07:50,931 --> 00:07:52,896 contact you or they won't. 196 00:07:52,896 --> 00:07:55,620 In dating, getting used to rejection, 197 00:07:55,620 --> 00:07:58,172 - that is-- it's a part of dating. -I've been rejected. 198 00:07:58,172 --> 00:07:59,517 I'm used to that. [chuckles] 199 00:07:59,517 --> 00:08:02,103 I've been rejected a lot. 200 00:08:02,103 --> 00:08:05,689 I think rejection is kind of like a Catch-22. 201 00:08:05,689 --> 00:08:07,827 Obviously, you're putting yourself out there 202 00:08:07,827 --> 00:08:10,931 because you want someone to accept you. 203 00:08:10,931 --> 00:08:13,689 But you have to be willing that they will reject you, 204 00:08:13,689 --> 00:08:15,724 and then you can't let that rejection make you 205 00:08:15,724 --> 00:08:18,103 not want to put yourself out there again. 206 00:08:18,103 --> 00:08:20,689 And unfortunately, I feel like for me, 207 00:08:20,689 --> 00:08:23,206 I've definitely become very cynical. 208 00:08:23,206 --> 00:08:25,034 But even though it makes me really anxious, 209 00:08:25,482 --> 00:08:26,655 I know I have to. 210 00:08:26,655 --> 00:08:29,724 And if I don't have someone to be accountable to, 211 00:08:29,724 --> 00:08:31,172 like Alessandra, 212 00:08:31,172 --> 00:08:33,620 there's no way I'm ever gonna do it. 213 00:08:33,620 --> 00:08:37,206 Homework wise, send me over the best photos 214 00:08:37,206 --> 00:08:40,000 that you've had taken of yourself over the last year. 215 00:08:40,000 --> 00:08:42,793 -Okay. -[Alessandra] If you have not had really good photos 216 00:08:42,793 --> 00:08:45,689 taken of yourself, book a photo shoot. 217 00:08:45,689 --> 00:08:50,482 You need good photos that are dating specific. 218 00:08:50,482 --> 00:08:52,000 [Whitney] That is a challenge because I-- 219 00:08:52,000 --> 00:08:53,413 -Yeah, I just got my braces off... - Yes. 220 00:08:53,413 --> 00:08:56,275 ...and I've actually lost 100 pounds from my heaviest weight, 221 00:08:56,275 --> 00:08:58,586 and I think I've only gotten prettier as I've gotten older. 222 00:08:58,586 --> 00:09:02,172 So, I don't know if I have a lot of really good ones 223 00:09:02,172 --> 00:09:03,724 that really look like me now. 224 00:09:03,724 --> 00:09:06,172 So, okay, you have a little bit of homework. 225 00:09:06,172 --> 00:09:08,379 - I have homework. -Yes, I already feel hopeful, 226 00:09:08,379 --> 00:09:09,758 which is a good sign. 227 00:09:09,758 --> 00:09:11,586 And I will complete all of my homework before we talk next. 228 00:09:11,586 --> 00:09:13,793 Amazing. Whitney, I'm so excited for you. 229 00:09:13,793 --> 00:09:15,000 We'll talk soon. Okay? 230 00:09:15,000 --> 00:09:16,586 Okay, bye. Thank you. 231 00:09:16,586 --> 00:09:18,310 - Bye. -[Whitney] Bye. 232 00:09:19,379 --> 00:09:21,620 [blows candle] Goosey girl, 233 00:09:23,206 --> 00:09:24,793 we're going to the dog park. 234 00:09:24,793 --> 00:09:26,379 I mean, the way I talk about myself, 235 00:09:26,379 --> 00:09:28,689 it's as though I've never had a boyfriend or something, 236 00:09:28,689 --> 00:09:30,793 which is far from the truth. 237 00:09:30,793 --> 00:09:32,827 I've had seven serious relationships, 238 00:09:32,827 --> 00:09:35,896 I've had two men who wanted to marry me at some point. 239 00:09:35,896 --> 00:09:37,275 Come on, Goosey girl. 240 00:09:37,275 --> 00:09:39,379 I've just got to get in the right mindset, 241 00:09:39,379 --> 00:09:42,689 and I've got to know I will be rejected, of course. 242 00:09:42,689 --> 00:09:45,413 But just talking to men in person 243 00:09:45,413 --> 00:09:49,103 is still something good, ultimately, 244 00:09:49,103 --> 00:09:50,241 [line ringing] 245 00:09:56,482 --> 00:09:57,517 Hey, Dad. 246 00:09:59,275 --> 00:10:01,103 Well, I, uh, 247 00:10:01,103 --> 00:10:03,379 I just had an appointment with a matchmaker 248 00:10:03,379 --> 00:10:08,172 and she said I had to go to an event every week. 249 00:10:08,172 --> 00:10:10,689 Have you seen a lot of cute single men there? 250 00:10:10,689 --> 00:10:12,206 - Nah. -[Whitney] No? 251 00:10:14,103 --> 00:10:16,172 Well, there's gotta be a lot of guys there, right? 252 00:10:16,172 --> 00:10:17,724 [Glenn speaking] 253 00:10:19,000 --> 00:10:22,000 Well, I'll come, but you have to pretend like you don't know me. 254 00:10:23,379 --> 00:10:24,482 -Because I don't think-- -[both chuckle] 255 00:10:24,482 --> 00:10:25,896 Because I don't think men approach 256 00:10:25,896 --> 00:10:27,034 when you know, 257 00:10:27,034 --> 00:10:29,413 they have to also meet the father at the same time. 258 00:10:31,068 --> 00:10:32,000 [Whitney] Right. 259 00:10:32,000 --> 00:10:33,551 Are you on a date with Ravi? 260 00:10:34,482 --> 00:10:35,689 [laughs] 261 00:10:35,689 --> 00:10:36,862 Where's Ravi? 262 00:10:36,862 --> 00:10:39,379 Tell Ravi, 'cause Ravi said he was matchmaking me 263 00:10:39,379 --> 00:10:41,379 and I haven't heard any updates on that. 264 00:10:41,379 --> 00:10:42,620 Is he around? 265 00:10:44,517 --> 00:10:45,689 [Glenn speaking] 266 00:10:45,689 --> 00:10:48,275 I'm surprised you don't keep tabs on your boyfriend. 267 00:10:48,275 --> 00:10:50,000 My dad's favorite place to go now 268 00:10:50,000 --> 00:10:51,689 is this restaurant, Elm St. Grill. 269 00:10:51,689 --> 00:10:54,344 He and the owner, Ravi, have a very... 270 00:10:55,379 --> 00:10:57,172 special connection. 271 00:10:57,172 --> 00:11:00,000 And even though I want a man and like a family, 272 00:11:00,000 --> 00:11:03,275 at this point, I might legitimately settle 273 00:11:03,275 --> 00:11:04,724 for what Dad and Ravi have. 274 00:11:05,172 --> 00:11:07,758 -[Ravi speaking] -Ravi, hi! 275 00:11:08,724 --> 00:11:09,931 [Whitney] I love you. Listen, real quick, 276 00:11:09,931 --> 00:11:11,000 I wanted to tell-- 277 00:11:14,068 --> 00:11:15,793 Well, see, this is the thing. 278 00:11:15,793 --> 00:11:17,586 I just had an appointment with a matchmaker. 279 00:11:17,586 --> 00:11:20,793 And you had asked me if I was open to an Indian man, 280 00:11:20,793 --> 00:11:22,689 and I said, yes. But if you don't bring me any, 281 00:11:22,689 --> 00:11:24,965 then I'm going to-- I'm going to be snatched up soon. 282 00:11:27,586 --> 00:11:29,137 -Uh-huh. -[Ravi speaking] 283 00:11:30,206 --> 00:11:32,931 Well, I would need you to go with me, obviously. 284 00:11:32,931 --> 00:11:34,275 [Ravi speaking] 285 00:11:34,275 --> 00:11:35,620 [Whitney] Okay, all right. Well-- 286 00:11:36,586 --> 00:11:37,724 I'll keep you updated. 287 00:11:39,793 --> 00:11:41,206 [Whitney] Okay. See you soon, Daddy. 288 00:11:42,206 --> 00:11:43,448 Bye. 289 00:11:46,482 --> 00:11:49,000 I am determined to start getting out of my house 290 00:11:49,000 --> 00:11:52,206 and start meeting people in public socially. 291 00:11:52,206 --> 00:11:54,793 But, it's literally been ten years 292 00:11:54,793 --> 00:11:57,275 since I like, went out to bars. 293 00:11:57,275 --> 00:11:59,206 So, even though I'm determined to do it, 294 00:11:59,206 --> 00:12:02,275 it makes me anxious, like, I feel like I'm about to go skydiving. 295 00:12:02,275 --> 00:12:05,137 I just hope that the parachute opens. 296 00:12:05,793 --> 00:12:08,689 Oh, Goosey, are you hopeful? 297 00:12:08,689 --> 00:12:10,310 Are you feeling good about it? 298 00:12:11,724 --> 00:12:13,413 Okay. Me too. 299 00:12:14,793 --> 00:12:16,793 Goodness, there's lots of dogs here. 300 00:12:16,793 --> 00:12:19,689 [Whitney] Jessica is so invested in my dating journey. 301 00:12:19,689 --> 00:12:22,275 So she agreed to come to hunt for men. 302 00:12:22,275 --> 00:12:24,068 -Oh, oh, oh, the one with the long-ish hair? -Yeah, the one by the-- 303 00:12:24,068 --> 00:12:24,827 -Yeah. -Yeah, yeah, he's cute. 304 00:12:24,827 --> 00:12:26,034 I thought he was really cute. 305 00:12:26,034 --> 00:12:27,241 -[Whitney] Was he looking here? -[Jessica] Yup. 306 00:12:27,241 --> 00:12:28,724 -Wait, we can't just stare at him. -Oh [bleep]. 307 00:12:52,000 --> 00:12:55,689 -[Whitney] Hey, Daddy. Hey. -[Glenn] Hey. 308 00:12:55,689 --> 00:12:59,172 -Well, something has changed on my social media. -[Whitney] What? 309 00:12:59,172 --> 00:13:02,482 It looks like I'm in New Delhi. 310 00:13:02,896 --> 00:13:04,172 What? 311 00:13:04,172 --> 00:13:07,793 There's Indian people and Spanish people, and I mean-- 312 00:13:07,793 --> 00:13:10,689 Well, there's Indian people on-on social media. 313 00:13:10,689 --> 00:13:14,275 Well, I know but before, it was a little bit. 314 00:13:14,275 --> 00:13:17,000 Now, it's everybody. 315 00:13:17,000 --> 00:13:19,275 [Whitney] Ask Ravi about all the Indian people on your phone. 316 00:13:19,275 --> 00:13:20,482 That's what happened. 317 00:13:20,482 --> 00:13:22,448 I bet Ravi took your phone and looked up some stuff. 318 00:13:22,448 --> 00:13:25,931 And now it thinks that you are only interested in seeing Indian people. 319 00:13:26,689 --> 00:13:28,275 You know, I think you have... 320 00:13:28,275 --> 00:13:30,103 -[Whitney] Unlocked the mystery. -Found it, yeah. 321 00:13:30,103 --> 00:13:32,000 See? You want a pickle? 322 00:13:32,000 --> 00:13:34,310 No. Save one for your mom. 323 00:13:34,862 --> 00:13:36,103 A pickle? 324 00:13:36,103 --> 00:13:37,655 She loved pickles. 325 00:13:37,655 --> 00:13:39,068 -So-So-- So... -Maybe that's why I love pickles. 326 00:13:39,068 --> 00:13:41,793 When is the organizing gonna be done? 327 00:13:41,793 --> 00:13:44,172 So I can go back into the house. 328 00:13:44,172 --> 00:13:45,689 There's a lot of work over there, Dad. 329 00:13:45,689 --> 00:13:47,896 -[Glenn] No. -It is. 330 00:13:47,896 --> 00:13:50,758 And I just don't want you to see it until it's cleaned out. 331 00:13:50,758 --> 00:13:52,448 I feel like it's been an eternity 332 00:13:52,448 --> 00:13:54,275 since Hunter and Whitney have started 333 00:13:54,275 --> 00:13:56,896 this garage clean-out project. 334 00:13:56,896 --> 00:14:00,000 I hope that it's only gonna be another couple of weeks 335 00:14:00,000 --> 00:14:03,758 uh, before she's gonna allow me to visit my own home. 336 00:14:03,758 --> 00:14:05,241 [chuckles] 337 00:14:05,241 --> 00:14:08,586 I mean, I don't trust Hunter to get all my mail. 338 00:14:08,586 --> 00:14:10,000 -I mean-- -I gotta be honest with you. 339 00:14:10,000 --> 00:14:12,275 -I don't trust Hunter for a lot. -[Glenn chuckles] 340 00:14:12,275 --> 00:14:14,586 [Whitney] Hunter is not helping me with cleaning out the garage. 341 00:14:14,586 --> 00:14:16,379 I'm doing it all by myself. 342 00:14:16,379 --> 00:14:18,275 -And I have small hands. -[Glenn chuckles] 343 00:14:18,275 --> 00:14:19,862 [Whitney] See what I mean? Seriously. 344 00:14:19,862 --> 00:14:22,551 -That's why it's taking so long. -[Glenn] Hmm. 345 00:14:22,551 --> 00:14:23,896 [Whitney] I'm getting slightly frustrated 346 00:14:23,896 --> 00:14:25,172 that my dad is so adamant 347 00:14:25,172 --> 00:14:26,379 about getting back in the house, 348 00:14:26,379 --> 00:14:28,482 because I need more time. 349 00:14:28,482 --> 00:14:29,896 And the worst thing that could happen 350 00:14:29,896 --> 00:14:32,758 is if he inserts himself 351 00:14:32,758 --> 00:14:35,000 at the house and sees the surprise 352 00:14:35,000 --> 00:14:37,448 before it's ready, and then it's ruined. 353 00:14:37,448 --> 00:14:41,000 Well, It's about time for me to go to Elm St. 354 00:14:41,000 --> 00:14:44,172 I'm going to go over there and see how things are going. 355 00:14:44,172 --> 00:14:46,689 Why do you have a more robust social calendar 356 00:14:46,689 --> 00:14:48,482 than I could ever dream of? 357 00:14:48,482 --> 00:14:50,758 -Well, I don't have... -Dad, you literally do something 358 00:14:50,758 --> 00:14:52,000 every day of the week, 359 00:14:52,000 --> 00:14:54,724 and then you have your gym schedule during the day. 360 00:14:55,275 --> 00:14:56,551 Well... [clears throat] 361 00:14:56,551 --> 00:14:59,275 But I did make us an appointment to go get stretched. 362 00:14:59,793 --> 00:15:00,724 Because we gotta get you-- 363 00:15:00,724 --> 00:15:02,689 You know how-- you walk like this now? 364 00:15:02,689 --> 00:15:04,689 -Yeah. -[Whitney] What is that, though? 365 00:15:04,689 --> 00:15:06,793 Is it your hip that's causing you to do that? 366 00:15:06,793 --> 00:15:08,103 Well, that and my knee, a little bit. 367 00:15:08,103 --> 00:15:09,586 But, both of them are-- 368 00:15:09,586 --> 00:15:11,068 are really getting a whole lot better. 369 00:15:11,068 --> 00:15:12,689 Well, we're gonna go get stretched, 370 00:15:12,689 --> 00:15:14,551 and Jessica's the one who recommended the place, 371 00:15:14,551 --> 00:15:15,931 so she'll probably come with us. 372 00:15:16,482 --> 00:15:17,758 [Glenn] Well, good. 373 00:15:17,758 --> 00:15:19,000 -Love you. -[Whitney] Love you. 374 00:15:23,896 --> 00:15:25,655 I'm looking at that IT band. 375 00:15:25,655 --> 00:15:27,310 -It looks tight to me. -[Glenn laughs] 376 00:15:40,551 --> 00:15:42,034 -Hey. How are you? -[Whitney] Hi. 377 00:15:42,034 --> 00:15:43,448 -How are ya? -I'm Nicky. Nice to meet you. 378 00:15:43,448 --> 00:15:44,344 [Whitney] Nice to meet you, I'm Whitney. 379 00:15:44,344 --> 00:15:45,758 -You work with Mike? -[Nicky] I do. 380 00:15:45,758 --> 00:15:47,482 -I'm his wife. Yes. -You're his-- okay, good. Good, good. 381 00:15:47,482 --> 00:15:49,862 -You're a lot prettier than he is, so it's fine. -[both laugh] 382 00:15:49,862 --> 00:15:51,793 Okay, well, I guess I'll just take you in 383 00:15:51,793 --> 00:15:53,482 -and show you what we got. -[Nicky] Awesome, yeah. 384 00:15:54,241 --> 00:15:56,241 [Whitney] Even though this room renovation 385 00:15:56,241 --> 00:15:57,896 started as a way to convince my dad 386 00:15:57,896 --> 00:15:59,965 not to sell the house, it's actually given me 387 00:15:59,965 --> 00:16:01,172 like, something to look forward to 388 00:16:01,172 --> 00:16:02,275 and something to work on, 389 00:16:02,275 --> 00:16:04,482 and I'm really enjoying the process. 390 00:16:04,482 --> 00:16:06,793 This room, I mean, it has been through a lot. 391 00:16:06,793 --> 00:16:08,275 [Nicky] So, is this where you grew up? 392 00:16:08,275 --> 00:16:11,103 Yeah, a lot of my formative, like life experiences. 393 00:16:11,103 --> 00:16:13,275 All my friends, we used to, um, 394 00:16:13,275 --> 00:16:14,689 actually, we used to always dance in here. 395 00:16:14,689 --> 00:16:16,000 This was like the playroom. 396 00:16:16,000 --> 00:16:17,172 We had a TV right there. 397 00:16:17,172 --> 00:16:18,655 So my friend, Todd and me, 398 00:16:18,655 --> 00:16:20,758 we would dance, and we would look-- use the TV as our like mirror. 399 00:16:20,758 --> 00:16:22,689 -Yeah. -All of our memories, you know, 400 00:16:22,689 --> 00:16:25,793 from the last 20 years, are tied up in this house, 401 00:16:25,793 --> 00:16:28,896 and it actually just feels like a big memory box. 402 00:16:28,896 --> 00:16:31,586 And that room specifically, Todd and I, 403 00:16:31,586 --> 00:16:33,689 that was our dancing room. 404 00:16:33,689 --> 00:16:36,931 Our whole Fat Girl Dancing series came to fruition 405 00:16:37,344 --> 00:16:38,379 in that room. 406 00:16:38,379 --> 00:16:40,482 ♪♪ Can't keep breaking my heart ♪ 407 00:16:40,482 --> 00:16:43,862 ♪♪ Yeah baby, oh you can't keep my breaking my ♪ 408 00:16:43,862 --> 00:16:47,827 ♪♪ Breaking my breaking my heart ♪ 409 00:16:48,379 --> 00:16:49,517 [sighs] 410 00:16:50,241 --> 00:16:51,310 [bleep] 411 00:16:52,655 --> 00:16:54,379 Then, later on in life, 412 00:16:54,379 --> 00:16:56,931 I moved into that room as my bedroom. 413 00:16:57,482 --> 00:16:58,827 What you need, sweetie? 414 00:16:59,448 --> 00:17:00,275 Can you help me? 415 00:17:00,275 --> 00:17:01,896 [Babs] Yeah. What do you need? 416 00:17:01,896 --> 00:17:03,620 Can you shave the back of my legs? 417 00:17:05,586 --> 00:17:06,619 Sure. 418 00:17:07,103 --> 00:17:09,000 -[knock on door] -What? 419 00:17:10,068 --> 00:17:11,792 -What's going on? -Dad. 420 00:17:11,792 --> 00:17:13,000 -[Glenn] Oh. -[Whitney] Can you really not? 421 00:17:13,000 --> 00:17:14,550 Don't put your stuff up against me. 422 00:17:14,550 --> 00:17:16,103 -[Whitney chuckles] -Lie down. 423 00:17:17,378 --> 00:17:19,827 Like, I'm not ready to give it up, that room... 424 00:17:20,482 --> 00:17:22,378 has held a lot of really good memories. 425 00:17:22,378 --> 00:17:23,758 But, it has so much potential. 426 00:17:23,758 --> 00:17:26,655 It could be a beautiful, welcoming, 427 00:17:26,655 --> 00:17:29,655 wonderful, all inclusive space for my dad. 428 00:17:29,655 --> 00:17:31,551 And I don't want him to shut it down 429 00:17:31,551 --> 00:17:34,655 before he sees what it could be. 430 00:17:34,655 --> 00:17:36,793 -The thing is, my dad wants to sell the house. -Okay. 431 00:17:36,793 --> 00:17:38,689 He just doesn't wanna deal with it. 432 00:17:38,689 --> 00:17:41,137 So, I really wanted to... 433 00:17:41,137 --> 00:17:45,482 make this room make this room a sanctuary for him 434 00:17:45,482 --> 00:17:49,137 so that he can see the possibilities, you know, that are here 435 00:17:49,137 --> 00:17:51,172 because he told me to come clean out the garage, 436 00:17:51,172 --> 00:17:53,275 do all this stuff, you know, to get the house ready to sell, so I-- 437 00:17:53,275 --> 00:17:55,000 -So, he doesn't know? -[Whitney] No, no, no. 438 00:17:55,000 --> 00:17:57,000 But yeah, Glenn Thore is not allowed in the house. 439 00:17:57,000 --> 00:17:58,448 -Okay. -[Whitney] Okay. 440 00:17:58,448 --> 00:17:59,896 -Um... -[Nicky] Let me go get the guys. 441 00:17:59,896 --> 00:18:01,172 -[Whitney speaking] -They are. 442 00:18:01,172 --> 00:18:03,965 -[gasps] -Well, uh, one's taken. 443 00:18:03,965 --> 00:18:04,965 How old are they? 444 00:18:04,965 --> 00:18:06,275 They're in their 20s. 445 00:18:06,275 --> 00:18:07,586 How old do you think I am? 446 00:18:08,000 --> 00:18:09,000 Thirty-five. 447 00:18:09,000 --> 00:18:10,758 Oh, thank God, I'll just be 40 448 00:18:10,758 --> 00:18:12,137 -in a couple of months. -[Nicky laughs] 449 00:18:12,137 --> 00:18:14,000 [Whitney] Can I really flirt with these men? 450 00:18:14,000 --> 00:18:15,206 Probably not. 451 00:18:15,206 --> 00:18:17,896 You know, I mean, there's, you know, professionalism 452 00:18:17,896 --> 00:18:19,068 they're working for me, 453 00:18:19,068 --> 00:18:20,793 I don't wanna make things complicated. 454 00:18:20,793 --> 00:18:23,896 So I'll look, but I won't touch. 455 00:18:23,896 --> 00:18:25,172 -I'm Whitney. -Justin. Miguel. 456 00:18:25,172 --> 00:18:26,034 -I'm Justin. -Miguel. 457 00:18:26,034 --> 00:18:27,344 Justin, Miguel, nice to meet you. 458 00:18:27,344 --> 00:18:29,275 So this room, we're gonna just 459 00:18:29,275 --> 00:18:31,655 be taking out the carpet, carpet padding, 460 00:18:31,655 --> 00:18:35,000 then in the bathroom here, there's a different tile going in here, 461 00:18:35,000 --> 00:18:37,137 it's a tile look. 462 00:18:37,137 --> 00:18:40,137 -Twelve-by-twenty four, it's a dark, like, black. -[Justin] All right, yeah. 463 00:18:40,137 --> 00:18:41,172 Twilight. 464 00:18:41,172 --> 00:18:42,586 I got you a transition here. 465 00:18:42,586 --> 00:18:45,137 But if it doesn't work, let me know and we'll-- 466 00:18:45,137 --> 00:18:47,965 -we'll get a transition for you guys to make. -[Justin] Sounds good. 467 00:18:47,965 --> 00:18:50,000 [Whitney] The flooring guys are cute, 468 00:18:50,000 --> 00:18:53,172 but they are very, very young. 469 00:18:53,172 --> 00:18:56,896 Um, yeah, I just feel I've abandoned all self-respect. 470 00:18:56,896 --> 00:18:59,689 [laughs] I gotta keep it right. 471 00:18:59,689 --> 00:19:01,344 I'll just say that, I gotta keep it right. 472 00:19:01,344 --> 00:19:02,896 Um, okay, well, I'll leave y'all to it. 473 00:19:02,896 --> 00:19:04,586 -Thank you. -[Whitney laughs] Good luck. 474 00:19:04,586 --> 00:19:07,172 I don't know where single men my age are, 475 00:19:07,172 --> 00:19:09,000 but if I'm gonna go looking for men, 476 00:19:09,000 --> 00:19:11,275 I don't think it's gonna be on a construction site. 477 00:19:11,275 --> 00:19:12,482 And that's for sure. 478 00:19:12,482 --> 00:19:14,896 Oh, and let 'em know-- let them know about Dad. 479 00:19:14,896 --> 00:19:16,689 -Okay. Yes. -Okay? All right. 480 00:19:16,689 --> 00:19:18,862 -Her father is not allowed to peek. -[Whitney laughs] 481 00:19:18,862 --> 00:19:19,862 -All right. -[Nicky] Sounds good, Whitney. 482 00:19:19,862 --> 00:19:22,275 -Bye. -[Miguel and Justin] All right. 483 00:19:22,275 --> 00:19:25,137 I'm just saying, I am on the cusp of my 40th year 484 00:19:25,137 --> 00:19:26,793 and I am not a virgin. 485 00:19:26,793 --> 00:19:29,379 -Dad, you-- Dad-- -I don't wanna hear any more of this conversation. 486 00:19:29,379 --> 00:19:31,034 [Whitney],You said that before you dated Mom, 487 00:19:31,034 --> 00:19:32,620 you had sowed your seeds. 488 00:19:32,620 --> 00:19:34,034 -I didn't say anything about sowing seeds. -[Hunter] He sowed the seed! 489 00:19:34,034 --> 00:19:35,827 Well, Angie would tell us differently, Dad. 490 00:19:53,172 --> 00:19:55,068 -[Jessica] Thank you. Thank you. -[Isaiah] You're welcome. 491 00:19:56,034 --> 00:19:57,172 [Jessica] Hey, how's it going? 492 00:19:58,448 --> 00:19:59,896 -[woman] What's the name? -It's Whitney, Glenn, 493 00:19:59,896 --> 00:20:01,241 -Jessica and Isaiah. -[woman] All right, come this way. 494 00:20:01,241 --> 00:20:02,793 I'm Nick. I'm gonna be helping you with your stretch. 495 00:20:02,793 --> 00:20:03,896 -Welcome in. -[Whitney] Oh, good. Nice to meet you. 496 00:20:03,896 --> 00:20:04,827 [Nick] Are you having a good day? 497 00:20:04,827 --> 00:20:06,379 Um, I'm hoping it's gonna get better, 498 00:20:06,379 --> 00:20:08,586 -after I leave here. -It's gonna get a lot better after the stretch. 499 00:20:08,586 --> 00:20:10,275 -Come on back, okay? -[Whitney] Yeah, okay. 500 00:20:10,275 --> 00:20:11,793 [Nick] Awesome. We're gonna be heading over 501 00:20:11,793 --> 00:20:13,586 -over to this table right here today. -[Whitney] Nice, 502 00:20:13,586 --> 00:20:14,827 Yes, Grayson. 503 00:20:14,827 --> 00:20:15,931 -[Glenn] Nice to meet you, Grayson. -Nice to meet you. 504 00:20:15,931 --> 00:20:17,689 [Whitney] Jessica trains my dad at the gym, 505 00:20:17,689 --> 00:20:20,172 his strength has really been improving. 506 00:20:20,172 --> 00:20:22,586 But his mobility and his flexibility 507 00:20:22,586 --> 00:20:25,241 are still not all that great. 508 00:20:25,241 --> 00:20:27,103 And he's still so sharp, 509 00:20:27,103 --> 00:20:30,551 he's still so active, and I don't want his body to hold him back. 510 00:20:30,551 --> 00:20:34,862 So Jessica and I are going to a professional stretcher 511 00:20:34,862 --> 00:20:37,896 so that we can work on my dad's flexibility. 512 00:20:37,896 --> 00:20:40,344 -What is it that makes him walk like that? -Hips. 513 00:20:40,344 --> 00:20:41,551 [Whitney] That's the hips, that's what I thought. 514 00:20:41,551 --> 00:20:43,068 [Glenn] I don't walk like a duck. 515 00:20:43,068 --> 00:20:44,482 -[Whitney] Sometimes... -[Jessica] Well, you-- 516 00:20:44,482 --> 00:20:46,344 you have a little bit of a waddle. 517 00:20:46,344 --> 00:20:48,793 -[laughs] A little bit of a waddle. -It's a little bit. 518 00:20:48,793 --> 00:20:50,482 [Whitney] And I didn't say it. 519 00:20:50,482 --> 00:20:52,172 [Grayson] Lay down here. 520 00:20:52,172 --> 00:20:55,689 -This is crazy. There's a lot going on. -Oh, yeah. 521 00:20:55,689 --> 00:20:58,000 I feel safer, all strapped in. Perfect. 522 00:20:58,000 --> 00:20:59,896 -It's like I'm on a flight. [laughs] -Right. 523 00:20:59,896 --> 00:21:02,000 I feel like I'm being laid to rest. 524 00:21:02,000 --> 00:21:03,448 [all laughing] 525 00:21:04,172 --> 00:21:07,551 As a larger woman who's been this size for a long time, 526 00:21:07,551 --> 00:21:11,551 I know the benefits of having a third party, like, stretch you. 527 00:21:11,551 --> 00:21:13,172 [Nick] And the furthest we go is that comfortable, 528 00:21:13,172 --> 00:21:14,896 deep stretch at a seven. 529 00:21:14,896 --> 00:21:17,862 There are lots of parts of my body that I can't stretch myself 530 00:21:17,862 --> 00:21:19,689 just because my body gets in the way. 531 00:21:19,689 --> 00:21:22,551 And in terms of my dad, like, he's definitely got a belly now. 532 00:21:22,551 --> 00:21:25,172 But also, he's just not very flexible, 533 00:21:25,172 --> 00:21:28,896 and I don't think really probably has been in decades. 534 00:21:28,896 --> 00:21:31,586 So what we'll do here is we'll start out with this left side. 535 00:21:31,586 --> 00:21:33,793 Okay? Especially since this side bothers you 536 00:21:33,793 --> 00:21:35,482 a little more within the knees. 537 00:21:35,482 --> 00:21:38,482 -We're gonna be using that 3-5-7 intensity scale. -Okay. 538 00:21:38,482 --> 00:21:40,379 We're gonna start with your IT band. Outside the knee, outside the hip. 539 00:21:40,379 --> 00:21:41,793 -That's where you should feel this. Let me know... -Yes. 540 00:21:41,793 --> 00:21:43,793 -...when you feel a brief or light stretch, okay? -Yes, ma'am. 541 00:21:43,793 --> 00:21:46,344 I'm gonna be honest with you, I haven't been in this position in a long time. 542 00:21:46,344 --> 00:21:50,275 -[both laugh] -Most people are not in this position when they stretch. 543 00:21:50,275 --> 00:21:52,000 Is that a comfortable point here? 544 00:21:52,000 --> 00:21:54,827 -[Whitney] You could go more, yeah. -[Nick] Little more? 545 00:21:56,551 --> 00:21:58,448 -Okay. -[Grayson] Is that where you're feeling it in the hip? 546 00:21:58,448 --> 00:21:59,655 -Mmm-hmm. -[Grayson] Good. 547 00:21:59,655 --> 00:22:01,241 [Nick] Beautiful. And like I said, 548 00:22:01,241 --> 00:22:03,862 ninety degrees is all we want out of that adductor. 549 00:22:03,862 --> 00:22:05,793 -Very, very good. -So basically, I'm getting an A plus so far. 550 00:22:05,793 --> 00:22:08,758 -[Nick] You're doing a great job so far, absolutely. -Okay. 551 00:22:08,758 --> 00:22:10,793 I'm really bad about tensing up when I stretch, 552 00:22:10,793 --> 00:22:12,862 -so I'm trying to be conscious of that. -[man] Okay. 553 00:22:12,862 --> 00:22:15,344 Let me know when you feel that comfortable, deep stretch. 554 00:22:15,344 --> 00:22:16,896 I think you can take me all the way. 555 00:22:16,896 --> 00:22:19,275 -Beautiful, go right to 90. -There it is. 556 00:22:19,275 --> 00:22:21,517 And seven for a good, deep stretch. 557 00:22:22,793 --> 00:22:24,034 [Grayson] Just light stretches here. 558 00:22:24,034 --> 00:22:26,655 Just gonna work on some hip rotation, okay? 559 00:22:26,655 --> 00:22:28,034 [Nick] Yeah, one more three. 560 00:22:28,034 --> 00:22:31,275 Now, what do you think? So I'll be 40 in a couple of months. 561 00:22:31,275 --> 00:22:33,137 I'm just curious, what would you, kind of, 562 00:22:33,137 --> 00:22:35,758 rate my flexibility at for someone my age? 563 00:22:35,758 --> 00:22:38,793 I think your flexibility for someone in the 40 range 564 00:22:38,793 --> 00:22:40,551 -is honestly above average. -Yay. 565 00:22:40,551 --> 00:22:42,965 -You got above average mobility, so... -Okay, good. 566 00:22:42,965 --> 00:22:45,896 Of course, I love the validation of knowing 567 00:22:45,896 --> 00:22:49,965 that I am of an above average flexible 40-year-old person. 568 00:22:49,965 --> 00:22:51,137 Love to hear that. 569 00:22:51,137 --> 00:22:52,482 I wonder how my dad's doing. [laughs] 570 00:22:52,482 --> 00:22:54,241 He's doing great over there, it looks like. 571 00:22:54,241 --> 00:22:56,482 Hey, he's a lot more flexible than the way y'all were talking. 572 00:22:56,482 --> 00:22:57,965 -That's for sure. -[Whitney] Really? 573 00:22:57,965 --> 00:23:00,000 -Oh, yeah. -[Jess] That feels amazing. 574 00:23:00,000 --> 00:23:01,655 -Awesome. -[Jess] Ooh, yes. 575 00:23:01,655 --> 00:23:04,448 -Oh, my gosh. -[Whitney] Isaiah, you've gotta watch your girl. 576 00:23:04,448 --> 00:23:06,689 -[chuckles] -[Whitney] She's having a good time. 577 00:23:06,689 --> 00:23:08,344 Don't worry, he's not the jealous type. 578 00:23:08,344 --> 00:23:10,275 -[Whitney] Oh, I got it, oh. -No. 579 00:23:10,275 --> 00:23:13,275 -Beautiful. Awesome. -Great. 580 00:23:13,275 --> 00:23:17,482 -You did an excellent job for your first session and... -Yay. That was very fun. 581 00:23:17,482 --> 00:23:19,103 Yeah, I thought so too. 582 00:23:19,103 --> 00:23:22,068 -[Grayson] I enjoyed working with you today. Yes, sir. -[Glenn] Yeah. 583 00:23:22,068 --> 00:23:23,551 -[laughs] -Nice meeting you. 584 00:23:23,551 --> 00:23:26,793 -I love your hair all messed up. -[both laugh] 585 00:23:26,793 --> 00:23:29,482 I told him, I said, "You can't fall asleep on the table now." 586 00:23:29,482 --> 00:23:31,137 -See, moving good. -[Glenn chuckles] 587 00:23:31,137 --> 00:23:33,000 See how I'm walking. 588 00:23:33,000 --> 00:23:35,793 -[Nick] How're we feeling? We're feeling good? -Dad, you're walking better. 589 00:23:35,793 --> 00:23:37,172 You're walking better. 590 00:23:37,172 --> 00:23:40,965 -Dad, go ahead. Do a strut, do a strut. -[overlapping chatter] 591 00:23:40,965 --> 00:23:43,379 -[Whitney] Go ahead. -Oh. [chuckles] 592 00:23:43,379 --> 00:23:45,275 -[cheering] -Work it, Glenn! 593 00:23:45,275 --> 00:23:46,793 -[Whitney] Okay. -[indistinct chatter] 594 00:23:46,793 --> 00:23:48,379 Somebody put him on a runway. 595 00:23:48,379 --> 00:23:49,793 -[Whitney laughs] -I don't even wanna know. 596 00:23:49,793 --> 00:23:51,655 [Whitney] I feel fantastic. 597 00:23:51,655 --> 00:23:54,586 And I think that Dad has got some pep in his step. 598 00:23:54,586 --> 00:23:56,448 Like, definitely a success. 599 00:23:56,448 --> 00:23:59,000 [Glenn] Are you almost done working on the garage? 600 00:23:59,000 --> 00:24:00,172 -Well... -It's gonna get done. 601 00:24:00,172 --> 00:24:01,482 I promise, Daddy, it's gonna get done, 602 00:24:01,482 --> 00:24:03,172 and it's gonna be more beautiful, 603 00:24:03,172 --> 00:24:04,896 -and more wonderful than you could ever imagine. -[Jess] It's gonna be great. 604 00:24:04,896 --> 00:24:07,275 -[Whitney] Right, Jess? -Yes, it's gonna be great, I promise. 605 00:24:07,275 --> 00:24:09,689 [Glenn] I thought you were gonna let me see what you were throwing away. 606 00:24:09,689 --> 00:24:12,896 I just wanna let you know that Hunter gave me permission 607 00:24:12,896 --> 00:24:15,448 to get rid of the chair. 608 00:24:15,448 --> 00:24:17,517 So, that's what I was getting rid of. 609 00:24:19,275 --> 00:24:20,758 -Well... -[Whitney] And that's all. 610 00:24:20,758 --> 00:24:24,965 At this point, Dad is really dying to check on the progress 611 00:24:24,965 --> 00:24:27,896 that we've done in the "garage." [chuckles] 612 00:24:27,896 --> 00:24:32,068 Any minute now, I expect him to be barging in the Thore house 613 00:24:32,068 --> 00:24:33,586 with or without me. 614 00:24:33,586 --> 00:24:35,655 I've got a lot of work to do. 615 00:24:35,655 --> 00:24:38,896 And if Jessica and Isaiah would come over and help me finish, 616 00:24:38,896 --> 00:24:40,586 -then maybe... -I'll come whenever you need me. 617 00:24:40,586 --> 00:24:42,896 -You want me tomorrow? -I got my-- I mean, I need muscles, Dad. 618 00:24:42,896 --> 00:24:44,551 You know how much crap you got in there? 619 00:24:44,551 --> 00:24:48,172 [Glenn] I know Whitney, and she loves to surprise you. 620 00:24:48,172 --> 00:24:52,862 I don't have any doubt that she is doing a really good job, 621 00:24:52,862 --> 00:24:57,379 and she doesn't want me to see any progress until it's finished. 622 00:24:57,379 --> 00:25:00,068 I've been working for three days now, 623 00:25:00,068 --> 00:25:02,275 and I can't get the bank account to balance. 624 00:25:02,275 --> 00:25:03,896 [Whitney] See? And this is his new job, you know? 625 00:25:03,896 --> 00:25:05,172 He goes to the coffee shop in the morning 626 00:25:05,172 --> 00:25:08,068 and he "balances" my bank account. 627 00:25:08,068 --> 00:25:10,586 Why does your bank account keep getting lower? 628 00:25:10,586 --> 00:25:12,482 [Whitney] Well, I told you, I had a special project. 629 00:25:12,482 --> 00:25:15,689 As my financial manager, it's your business... 630 00:25:15,689 --> 00:25:18,448 -[Glenn laughs] -...but as my dad, it's none of your business. 631 00:25:18,448 --> 00:25:20,275 -[all laugh] -[Whitney] You can suspend 632 00:25:20,275 --> 00:25:22,275 -your financial advisory services. -Well, you know 633 00:25:22,275 --> 00:25:24,758 how excited I am every time I get it to balance. 634 00:25:24,758 --> 00:25:27,862 But I have things going on that you don't need to know about. 635 00:25:27,862 --> 00:25:30,000 All right. [clears throat] 636 00:25:30,000 --> 00:25:31,965 So, I had an appointment with a matchmaker. 637 00:25:31,965 --> 00:25:34,448 -Okay. -And she gave me assignments, like, I'm supposed to, like, 638 00:25:34,448 --> 00:25:36,103 go someplace where men are or whatever. 639 00:25:36,103 --> 00:25:37,655 -[indistinct] -Shut your mouth. 640 00:25:37,655 --> 00:25:40,000 But I have to do a whole portfolio. I have to do a photo shoot. 641 00:25:40,000 --> 00:25:41,965 Okay. Well, this is all very exciting. 642 00:25:41,965 --> 00:25:44,000 [Whitney] So, Jess, do you wanna come to the dog park with me? 643 00:25:44,000 --> 00:25:45,137 Okay. 644 00:25:45,137 --> 00:25:48,482 My ultimate goal is for Whitney to find her Karen. 645 00:25:48,482 --> 00:25:51,689 -Yeah. Oh-- -[all laughing] 646 00:25:51,689 --> 00:25:53,965 Well, Dad, I went down that road once or twice, 647 00:25:53,965 --> 00:25:55,965 -but, uh... -Oh, my gosh. 648 00:25:55,965 --> 00:25:57,896 -[Whitney] I mean, I could go back? -In the male version. 649 00:25:57,896 --> 00:25:59,310 -Can you... -[Jess] I just, I knew he... 650 00:25:59,310 --> 00:26:02,482 -[indistinct] A Bob. -See, I like a Karen, like, on a weekend. 651 00:26:02,482 --> 00:26:06,172 -[laughs] -But I like a Ken, you know, 652 00:26:06,172 --> 00:26:07,655 Monday through Friday. 653 00:26:07,655 --> 00:26:10,344 [all laugh] 654 00:26:10,344 --> 00:26:12,896 [upbeat music playing] 655 00:26:19,000 --> 00:26:20,448 [Whitney] Oh, my gosh. 656 00:26:20,448 --> 00:26:21,758 -Hey. -[Whitney] Hey! 657 00:26:21,758 --> 00:26:24,655 -I can step on it? Yeah? -[Mike] Yeah, come on in. 658 00:26:24,655 --> 00:26:28,000 -How are ya? -Oh, it looks so good. I'm good. 659 00:26:28,000 --> 00:26:29,413 Wow. 660 00:26:29,413 --> 00:26:32,103 -Yeah, it's so good. -Yeah, we still gotta clean and all that, 661 00:26:32,103 --> 00:26:34,172 but we're wrapping things up. 662 00:26:34,172 --> 00:26:38,172 [Whitney] So nice. Oh, I love it. 663 00:26:38,172 --> 00:26:41,793 I am blown away by the floor. 664 00:26:41,793 --> 00:26:44,551 It has already given me a foundation 665 00:26:44,551 --> 00:26:48,379 for a room that is a 180 from what I started with. 666 00:26:48,379 --> 00:26:50,482 I think it looks beautiful. 667 00:26:50,482 --> 00:26:52,586 I think the color is just right. 668 00:26:52,586 --> 00:26:54,758 I am so into it, 669 00:26:54,758 --> 00:26:58,793 and I know that my dad is going to love it. 670 00:26:58,793 --> 00:27:00,137 Once we paint, everything's done. 671 00:27:00,137 --> 00:27:02,482 It's gonna kind of have that man-cave vibe going. 672 00:27:02,482 --> 00:27:05,379 -Bathroom's... [indistinct] -I want it to be, like, dark and sophisticated. 673 00:27:05,379 --> 00:27:07,758 I'm so glad you're not going, like, standard, like, you know, 674 00:27:07,758 --> 00:27:09,655 "Oh, let's just do white. We'll just do, like, 675 00:27:09,655 --> 00:27:11,068 -a plain, good white." -Boring. 676 00:27:11,068 --> 00:27:12,344 -Yeah, I know. This is gonna be awesome. -I'm gonna have him 677 00:27:12,344 --> 00:27:15,379 a little desk over here 'cause he works still, every day. 678 00:27:15,379 --> 00:27:17,379 So, and a little couch there. 679 00:27:17,379 --> 00:27:19,172 -He's gonna be shocked, I think. -[Whitney] Yeah. 680 00:27:19,172 --> 00:27:20,448 I can't wait. 681 00:27:20,448 --> 00:27:24,275 I'm thankful that one thing for this renovation is done. 682 00:27:24,275 --> 00:27:26,586 But I have a million more things to think about. 683 00:27:26,586 --> 00:27:28,482 Even though the floors look amazing, 684 00:27:28,482 --> 00:27:30,275 the painting still has to get done. 685 00:27:30,275 --> 00:27:33,965 The wallpaper, the fixtures, and a lot of finishing touches. 686 00:27:33,965 --> 00:27:36,689 So, I have definitely got my work cut out for me. 687 00:27:36,689 --> 00:27:40,379 And hopefully I'll convince my dad not to sell this house. 688 00:27:40,379 --> 00:27:43,275 Okay, great. I'mma get out of here. Good to see y'all. 689 00:27:43,275 --> 00:27:45,103 -All right, you as well. -Yeah, you too. 690 00:27:46,551 --> 00:27:48,000 Do you guys want a drink or something? 691 00:27:48,000 --> 00:27:49,241 Oh, um... 692 00:27:49,241 --> 00:27:51,482 I am confusion, mild to moderate. 693 00:27:51,482 --> 00:27:54,896 I have never in my life been approached by a man in public 694 00:27:54,896 --> 00:27:56,482 who has asked to buy me a drink. 695 00:27:56,482 --> 00:27:57,896 Um, how old are you? 696 00:27:58,586 --> 00:27:59,965 -Oh, my God. -You're how old? 697 00:27:59,965 --> 00:28:01,000 Twenty-two. 698 00:28:07,275 --> 00:28:09,586 [upbeat song playing] 699 00:28:09,586 --> 00:28:11,344 ♪♪ Oh!♪ 700 00:28:16,310 --> 00:28:18,275 [Whitney] Okay, babies. 701 00:28:19,620 --> 00:28:22,137 [in high-pitched voice] Hi, babies! 702 00:28:22,137 --> 00:28:23,896 Hi! 703 00:28:23,896 --> 00:28:26,551 [in normal voice] Okay, Lilo, with your pearls. 704 00:28:27,448 --> 00:28:28,965 Come here, honey. 705 00:28:28,965 --> 00:28:30,206 Come on, Goose. 706 00:28:32,172 --> 00:28:34,000 [excitedly] Are you gonna play? 707 00:28:34,000 --> 00:28:36,068 Are you gonna play, girl? 708 00:28:36,068 --> 00:28:38,655 One of the matchmaker's homework assignments for me 709 00:28:38,655 --> 00:28:41,206 was to go out into a public place 710 00:28:41,206 --> 00:28:42,793 where there are men. [chuckles] 711 00:28:42,793 --> 00:28:45,482 So, a dog bar is an obvious choice, 712 00:28:45,482 --> 00:28:48,275 and the bonus is that I get to bring Goosey. 713 00:28:48,275 --> 00:28:50,000 -Goosey, come on, honey. -[dogs barking] 714 00:28:51,620 --> 00:28:54,862 [Whitney] Look, doggie friends! 715 00:28:54,862 --> 00:28:57,034 It's been a long time since I've been in public, 716 00:28:57,034 --> 00:28:59,793 really with anyone, but definitely men. 717 00:28:59,793 --> 00:29:01,620 The upside to this is that like, 718 00:29:01,620 --> 00:29:05,413 at least I have some really cute dogs to look at. 719 00:29:06,310 --> 00:29:08,344 Look at all these doggies! 720 00:29:08,344 --> 00:29:10,620 Goodness, there's lots of dogs here. 721 00:29:10,620 --> 00:29:14,000 Oh, my gosh. [laughing] 722 00:29:14,000 --> 00:29:16,586 -[Jess] There are so many dogs here. -I know. 723 00:29:16,586 --> 00:29:18,517 [Jess] This is not what I was expecting. 724 00:29:18,517 --> 00:29:20,551 -Look at all the poods. -Goosey. Look, I brought Lilo too, you know, 725 00:29:20,551 --> 00:29:22,310 -Todd's little client? -[Jess] Yes. 726 00:29:22,310 --> 00:29:23,551 -I see her over there. -Look, she's over there. 727 00:29:23,551 --> 00:29:26,482 Jessica is so invested in my dating journey, 728 00:29:26,482 --> 00:29:29,724 so she agreed to come to Doggos with me to hunt for men. 729 00:29:29,724 --> 00:29:33,137 Although, I'm not sure if Goosey or Jessica 730 00:29:33,137 --> 00:29:35,034 is going to be the better wing woman. 731 00:29:35,034 --> 00:29:38,241 [Whitney] Oh, my goodness. See, Goosey, look at how people are playin'. 732 00:29:38,241 --> 00:29:40,000 -Goosey, play! -[Jess laughing] 733 00:29:40,000 --> 00:29:41,586 Goosey, doggies! 734 00:29:41,586 --> 00:29:43,344 [Jess] Go sniff some butts, Goose. 735 00:29:43,344 --> 00:29:46,275 -[Whitney] Poor Goosey, look, she's so awkward, isn't she? -[Jess laughing] Yeah. 736 00:29:46,275 --> 00:29:48,655 God, is that how I look out here? [laughs] 737 00:29:48,655 --> 00:29:51,448 -No. No. -[laughing] 738 00:29:51,448 --> 00:29:55,482 No, if you love your animal, you fit in here. 739 00:29:55,482 --> 00:29:58,413 -[man speaks] -[Whitney] Oh, my God. Hi! 740 00:29:58,413 --> 00:29:59,896 -How are you? -[Andy] Good, how are you? 741 00:29:59,896 --> 00:30:01,172 -[Whitney] Good. -Good to see ya. 742 00:30:01,172 --> 00:30:03,068 [Whitney] Good to see you. 743 00:30:03,068 --> 00:30:04,586 -So, how you been? -[Andy speaks] 744 00:30:04,586 --> 00:30:06,241 -[Whitney] Good. You got a girlfriend? -[Andy] Yeah. By myself. 745 00:30:06,241 --> 00:30:08,206 Oh, so... [indistinct] Okay. 746 00:30:08,206 --> 00:30:09,137 Okay. 747 00:30:09,137 --> 00:30:11,482 -Is it a new or an old? -[Andy speaks] 748 00:30:11,482 --> 00:30:14,000 A new. It's always a new with you, isn't it? 749 00:30:14,000 --> 00:30:16,344 You... Yes, it is. 750 00:30:16,344 --> 00:30:17,655 Mmm-hmm. 751 00:30:17,655 --> 00:30:19,793 I actually spot an old friend of mine 752 00:30:19,793 --> 00:30:22,862 who used to live with me and does a lot of work for me. 753 00:30:22,862 --> 00:30:25,137 I affectionately call him Handy Andy. 754 00:30:25,137 --> 00:30:27,758 So, I'm immediately more comfortable. 755 00:30:27,758 --> 00:30:29,896 And, duh, I'm hoping that 756 00:30:29,896 --> 00:30:33,448 he can be my connection to finding a man. 757 00:30:33,448 --> 00:30:35,655 Well, I'm trying to get like you. 758 00:30:35,655 --> 00:30:38,000 I'm trying to find me... I haven't had a new... 759 00:30:38,000 --> 00:30:41,137 -[Andy] Uh-huh. -...in, you know, a long time. 760 00:30:41,137 --> 00:30:44,034 Embarrassing, but I had an appointment with a matchmaker, 761 00:30:44,034 --> 00:30:45,620 -like, a legit matchmaker. -[Andy] Uh-huh. 762 00:30:45,620 --> 00:30:47,413 And she was like, "You need to go," 763 00:30:47,413 --> 00:30:48,758 so this is my first homework. She was like, 764 00:30:48,758 --> 00:30:50,482 "You need to go someplace where there are men." 765 00:30:50,482 --> 00:30:53,241 So I figured that there'd be men if there were dogs. 766 00:30:54,517 --> 00:30:56,103 -[Whitney] Ah. -[indistinct] Come on. 767 00:30:56,103 --> 00:30:58,379 Goosey, are you trying to be a dog at least? 768 00:30:58,379 --> 00:31:00,689 Don't stay with Mommy, go play. 769 00:31:02,000 --> 00:31:03,413 Well, hello. 770 00:31:03,413 --> 00:31:05,724 Goosey, Goosey, go find you a boyfriend. 771 00:31:05,724 --> 00:31:07,206 [woman] Come on down... [indistinct] 772 00:31:07,206 --> 00:31:08,896 Still haven't seen anybody cute. I should've brought binoculars. 773 00:31:08,896 --> 00:31:11,862 -[repeatedly] I know that's not chill, is it? -[Jess] I saw a cute guy. 774 00:31:11,862 --> 00:31:13,586 -No. -[Whitney] But I thought I saw a cute one too, 775 00:31:13,586 --> 00:31:15,103 and now I don't see him. Was he standing like, 776 00:31:15,103 --> 00:31:17,103 -right in front of us, kind of? Yeah, yeah, yeah. -Yeah, in the hat. 777 00:31:17,103 --> 00:31:18,620 -Oh, oh, oh. -Yeah. 778 00:31:18,620 --> 00:31:20,034 -Yeah, with the longish hair? Yeah. Yeah, he's cute. -[Jess] Yeah. 779 00:31:20,034 --> 00:31:22,241 -I thought he was really cute. -Yeah, he's cute. 780 00:31:22,241 --> 00:31:25,172 Andy, Handy Andy, I had a question, 781 00:31:25,172 --> 00:31:27,655 -since you're here all the time. -[Andy speaks] 782 00:31:27,655 --> 00:31:30,103 Now, who is this man? Do you know this man over here? 783 00:31:30,103 --> 00:31:32,068 -[Andy speaking] -[Whitney] Yes. 784 00:31:32,068 --> 00:31:33,379 [Whitney] Is he single? 785 00:31:33,379 --> 00:31:35,034 [Whitney gasps] 786 00:31:35,034 --> 00:31:38,793 -Do me a favor. [nervously] Oh... -[Andy speaks] 787 00:31:38,793 --> 00:31:40,965 I'm scared. I was gonna say just give him my number. 788 00:31:40,965 --> 00:31:42,172 Do I have to talk to him? 789 00:31:42,172 --> 00:31:44,413 Can you just give... [laughing] 790 00:31:44,413 --> 00:31:46,620 -Oh, God. He just looked over. -[Andy speaks] 791 00:31:46,620 --> 00:31:48,241 All right. Just do it. Just do it. 792 00:31:48,241 --> 00:31:49,896 -This is my assignment. Yes, I'm supposed to like... -What's his name again? 793 00:31:49,896 --> 00:31:51,448 ...I'm supposed to get a number or give a number. 794 00:31:51,448 --> 00:31:52,931 [all speak] 795 00:31:52,931 --> 00:31:54,620 -Okay, but don't, you know, just be cool with it. -[Jess] Yeah. 796 00:31:54,620 --> 00:31:56,068 Just be cool with it. 797 00:31:56,068 --> 00:31:57,655 Oh, my God. 798 00:31:57,655 --> 00:32:00,000 -Wait, we can't just stare at him. -I'm so-- [bleep] 799 00:32:00,000 --> 00:32:02,310 -We should be facing the other way. -[Jess] Puppy girl, come here. 800 00:32:02,310 --> 00:32:07,034 Okay, I'm pretty sure Whitney's supposed to be the one approaching men, 801 00:32:07,034 --> 00:32:08,551 like, I'm pretty sure that that's, like, 802 00:32:08,551 --> 00:32:10,448 what the matchmaker had in mind. 803 00:32:10,448 --> 00:32:12,448 Um, but you know, baby steps. 804 00:32:12,448 --> 00:32:14,413 I'll give her that, baby steps. 805 00:32:14,413 --> 00:32:15,793 Oh, God, he's... Oh, he's doing it. 806 00:32:15,793 --> 00:32:18,000 -He's talking to him. He is doing it. -[Jess excitedly] Hi! 807 00:32:18,000 --> 00:32:20,275 Okay, yeah! What are they doing? 808 00:32:20,275 --> 00:32:21,586 -Are they doing it? -Put out the vibe. 809 00:32:21,586 --> 00:32:23,034 -Are they doing it? -I don't know. I'm scared to look. 810 00:32:23,034 --> 00:32:24,758 -Yep, yep. Yep. -[exclaims] Oh, is he looking here? 811 00:32:24,758 --> 00:32:26,275 -Oh. -[Jess] Oh, here comes Handy Andy. 812 00:32:26,275 --> 00:32:28,000 -[Andy speaks] -[Whitney] Huh? 813 00:32:28,000 --> 00:32:30,793 -Oh, girlfriend? Oh. -Oh. 814 00:32:30,793 --> 00:32:32,862 -Okay. That's okay. -[Andy speaks] 815 00:32:32,862 --> 00:32:35,137 Um, it's better than just like, "No, I don't want her number." 816 00:32:35,137 --> 00:32:37,379 -Okay, yeah. -[Jess laughs] 817 00:32:37,379 --> 00:32:38,724 -That was... -That was scary. 818 00:32:38,724 --> 00:32:40,000 -That was scary. -My heart's beating fast. 819 00:32:40,000 --> 00:32:41,551 -My heart's beating fast. -That was scary for me. 820 00:32:41,551 --> 00:32:43,137 [both laugh] 821 00:32:43,137 --> 00:32:45,068 Okay, well do you know any other friends that you have that are single? 822 00:32:46,896 --> 00:32:48,965 Well, isn't that... No [bleep]. That's the thing. 823 00:32:48,965 --> 00:32:50,068 -It's like... -[Andy] Yeah. 824 00:32:50,068 --> 00:32:52,068 [Whitney] Oh, God. Hunter's got a girlfriend now. 825 00:32:52,068 --> 00:32:54,103 So I'm like, "You know what? If Hunter ends up getting married, 826 00:32:54,103 --> 00:32:56,551 then I've really lost all hope." 827 00:32:56,551 --> 00:33:00,068 "And I haven't found someone." Uh-uh. Mmm-mmm. 828 00:33:01,000 --> 00:33:02,620 It's tough out here on these streets. 829 00:33:02,620 --> 00:33:04,310 Even though I am actually loving 830 00:33:04,310 --> 00:33:06,482 being planted in the middle of this dog bar 831 00:33:06,482 --> 00:33:08,379 and, like, looking at all the adorable pups, 832 00:33:08,379 --> 00:33:12,482 it seems that pretty much every man here is attached. 833 00:33:12,482 --> 00:33:14,586 [Jess] So, what other things are on your list 834 00:33:14,586 --> 00:33:16,275 from the matchmaker? 835 00:33:17,275 --> 00:33:20,655 Um, I've gotta submit her some nice photos. 836 00:33:20,655 --> 00:33:22,241 She said I had to, like, do a photo shoot. 837 00:33:22,241 --> 00:33:23,379 -Okay. -[man] What's up, guys? 838 00:33:23,379 --> 00:33:24,275 -Hi! -[man] How are y'all? 839 00:33:24,275 --> 00:33:25,310 -Hey, how's it going? -We're good. 840 00:33:25,310 --> 00:33:26,793 -That's good. Oh, I'm sorry. -Oh, sorry. 841 00:33:26,793 --> 00:33:28,689 -That's mine. No, it's okay. -Didn't mean to touch your drink. 842 00:33:28,689 --> 00:33:30,103 You guys want a drink or something? 843 00:33:30,103 --> 00:33:32,965 -Oh, um, I'm good. -I'm good with my coffee. 844 00:33:32,965 --> 00:33:35,241 -Yeah, but thank you so much. -[Jess] Which dog is yours, first of all? 845 00:33:35,241 --> 00:33:37,551 -It's Spot, the gray dog right there, yeah. -[Whitney] Okay. 846 00:33:37,551 --> 00:33:39,896 I am confusion, mild to moderate. 847 00:33:39,896 --> 00:33:42,034 Truthfully, I have never in my life 848 00:33:42,034 --> 00:33:44,517 ever been approached by a man in public 849 00:33:44,517 --> 00:33:46,034 who has asked to buy me a drink. 850 00:33:46,034 --> 00:33:48,034 -So, how old is she? -She's like a year and a half. 851 00:33:48,034 --> 00:33:49,448 -Aw! -Oh, it's such a good pup. 852 00:33:50,551 --> 00:33:52,896 -[dogs barking loudly] -[Whitney] Really? 853 00:33:52,896 --> 00:33:55,758 -[both] Oh. -And I was like, "I'm not even gonna keep her." 854 00:33:55,758 --> 00:33:58,103 -I ended up keeping her. -Oh, that's how I ended up with all the cats I got. 855 00:33:58,103 --> 00:33:59,275 -[Jess] Aw. -I've got three cats. 856 00:33:59,275 --> 00:34:00,896 My roommate has a cat. I don't really... 857 00:34:00,896 --> 00:34:02,344 -What kind? -I don't know. 858 00:34:02,344 --> 00:34:03,655 -[laughs] -What, you got a picture? 859 00:34:03,655 --> 00:34:05,724 -[man] Yeah. -Let me see. I love cats. 860 00:34:05,724 --> 00:34:08,103 -Oh, no, that's a pretty cat! -Aw! 861 00:34:08,103 --> 00:34:09,620 -[simultaneously] What's your name? -[man] Simon. 862 00:34:09,620 --> 00:34:11,413 -[chuckles] Yeah. -[Jess] Simon, I'm Jessica. 863 00:34:11,413 --> 00:34:13,103 -And I'm Whitney. Nice to meet you. -Jessica, nice to meet y'all. 864 00:34:13,103 --> 00:34:14,896 -Nice to meet you. Sorry, my hands are full. -[laughs] 865 00:34:14,896 --> 00:34:17,206 -Yeah, it's good. -Um, how old are you? 866 00:34:18,000 --> 00:34:19,275 -Oh, my God. -You're how old? 867 00:34:19,275 --> 00:34:22,379 -[Simon] Twenty-two. -[all laugh] 868 00:34:22,379 --> 00:34:23,793 Do you like older women? 869 00:34:23,793 --> 00:34:26,275 -Yeah. Yeah. -Oh, okay. 870 00:34:26,275 --> 00:34:27,757 -[Simon speaks indistinctly] -[laughing] 871 00:34:27,757 --> 00:34:29,344 -Well, it was nice to meet you, Simon. -[Jess] Yeah. 872 00:34:29,344 --> 00:34:31,551 -You guys sure you don't want a drink or anything? -Oh, we're fine, yeah. 873 00:34:31,551 --> 00:34:32,516 We're probably gonna head out too. 874 00:34:32,516 --> 00:34:33,551 -All right. -It was nice to meet you. 875 00:34:33,551 --> 00:34:34,965 -[Simon] Nice to meet you. -Bye. 876 00:34:34,965 --> 00:34:36,965 Well, he was nice. 877 00:34:36,965 --> 00:34:39,172 -He was nice. -He was, like, really nice. 878 00:34:39,172 --> 00:34:41,551 To be honest, I don't know 879 00:34:41,551 --> 00:34:43,896 if I'm attracted to or interested in Simon. 880 00:34:43,896 --> 00:34:46,413 It's certainly not practical to be, 881 00:34:46,413 --> 00:34:48,379 considering that he's, like, 20 years younger than me. 882 00:34:48,379 --> 00:34:50,447 But I'm trying to take Alessandra's advice 883 00:34:50,447 --> 00:34:52,447 and just see this as practice. 884 00:34:52,447 --> 00:34:55,206 And, like, know that we don't have to get married, 885 00:34:55,206 --> 00:34:58,896 but I might as well work my dating muscles. 886 00:34:58,896 --> 00:35:01,275 -[Jess] I am so cold. -Are you? 887 00:35:01,275 --> 00:35:02,724 -Freezing. -This is my, you know, 888 00:35:02,724 --> 00:35:04,000 -this is my perfect-- -[Jess] I know-- 889 00:35:04,000 --> 00:35:07,000 -Oh, God, I thought that was a person! -[both laughing] 890 00:35:07,000 --> 00:35:08,689 I felt violated, briefly. 891 00:35:08,689 --> 00:35:10,344 -[Jess] Ooh, ooh, ooh. -Still do. 892 00:35:10,344 --> 00:35:13,620 -Why am I so popular with the dogs? -[Jess laughs] 893 00:35:13,620 --> 00:35:15,862 You asked me how did I land on the matchmaker, 894 00:35:15,862 --> 00:35:17,137 -and I'm just telling you. -[chuckles] 895 00:35:17,137 --> 00:35:20,517 My standards are so high now, I can't even hoe anymore. 896 00:35:20,517 --> 00:35:23,034 -God. -You can always find satisfaction hoeing. 897 00:35:23,034 --> 00:35:25,862 And you're not upset about that because he's a boy? 898 00:35:25,862 --> 00:35:27,241 He didn't really mean that. 899 00:35:27,241 --> 00:35:29,586 -Oh, I did. -Oh, my God, the misogyny! 900 00:35:29,586 --> 00:35:32,275 -Yeah. -[Whitney] Oh, my God. 901 00:35:36,172 --> 00:35:38,724 [upbeat music playing] 902 00:35:44,310 --> 00:35:46,413 Oh, my God! Look how fast he's walking. 903 00:35:46,413 --> 00:35:48,103 -He doesn't see us. -Oh, my gosh. 904 00:35:48,103 --> 00:35:50,448 -[Whitney] Look at him. -[Hunter] He's not shuffling or waddling. 905 00:35:50,448 --> 00:35:52,103 [Whitney yells] Dad! 906 00:35:52,103 --> 00:35:53,379 -[Hunter] Hey. -Oh. 907 00:35:53,379 --> 00:35:55,206 [Whitney] Well, damn near didn't recognize you. 908 00:35:55,206 --> 00:35:56,551 -[Hunter] Yeah. -[Glenn laughs] 909 00:35:56,551 --> 00:35:58,000 I looked over I said, "Well, there's Dad." 910 00:35:58,000 --> 00:36:01,344 And in a flash, you were already there. 911 00:36:01,344 --> 00:36:02,931 -[chuckles] All right. -[Whitney] We're about to eat. 912 00:36:02,931 --> 00:36:04,448 Yeah, let's go. 913 00:36:04,448 --> 00:36:06,551 [Whitney] Even though I finally got out of the house with Jessica 914 00:36:06,551 --> 00:36:08,655 to meet men in real life, 915 00:36:08,655 --> 00:36:11,034 I definitely still need to get out more. 916 00:36:11,034 --> 00:36:12,931 -How are you? -Oh, I'm good. How are you? 917 00:36:12,931 --> 00:36:14,413 So good to see you. 918 00:36:14,413 --> 00:36:16,689 You know, I need to have at least, like, 10 people on the roster, um, 919 00:36:16,689 --> 00:36:19,620 so that one of them will actually work out for a date. 920 00:36:19,620 --> 00:36:23,137 So, I'm happy to join my dad to his favorite restaurant. 921 00:36:23,137 --> 00:36:25,724 -Hi, Ruchy. How you beautiful you look! -[Ruchy] Hey! 922 00:36:25,724 --> 00:36:27,896 -Look at you. You look very nice. -Good to see you. 923 00:36:27,896 --> 00:36:28,931 -Hi, Glenn! -[Glenn] Hi. 924 00:36:28,931 --> 00:36:31,000 -And you look gorgeous. -[Whitney] Thank you. 925 00:36:31,000 --> 00:36:32,655 Something different about you. 926 00:36:32,655 --> 00:36:34,827 Well, it's very preliminary still, 927 00:36:34,827 --> 00:36:37,068 but I did have an appointment with a matchmaker. 928 00:36:37,068 --> 00:36:39,103 And I know that you've met with a matchmaker. 929 00:36:39,103 --> 00:36:40,551 -Yes. -[Whitney] So, you know? 930 00:36:40,551 --> 00:36:43,137 I think it was, like, an instant chemistry, 931 00:36:43,137 --> 00:36:46,068 and I think that is the most important thing. 932 00:36:46,068 --> 00:36:47,896 -Everything else will follow. -Hmm. 933 00:36:47,896 --> 00:36:49,448 -[Ruchy] Yeah. -[Ravi] So here we are. 934 00:36:49,448 --> 00:36:52,000 -[Whitney] Wow. -Thirty-five years later. [laughs] 935 00:36:52,000 --> 00:36:53,448 -[Whitney] Wow. -Fantastic. 936 00:36:53,448 --> 00:36:55,862 -I love it. I love it. -I'm like about to... I'm about to cry. 937 00:36:55,862 --> 00:36:59,344 Ravi and his wife's love story is so sweet. 938 00:36:59,344 --> 00:37:03,000 And that's all the hopefulness I need 939 00:37:03,000 --> 00:37:05,827 to remind myself that it's not over till it's over, 940 00:37:05,827 --> 00:37:08,379 and just when you least expect it, anything can happen. 941 00:37:08,379 --> 00:37:10,034 -[laughing] -[Whitney] Aw! 942 00:37:10,034 --> 00:37:13,586 -So I'm about to turn 40 and, you know, it's a thing. -Mmm, it's a milestone. 943 00:37:13,586 --> 00:37:16,793 So I just want it to be really special 'cause it's my 40th birthday. 944 00:37:16,793 --> 00:37:18,137 Yeah. 945 00:37:18,137 --> 00:37:19,482 [Whitney] I'm feeling a little bit more optimistic in life... 946 00:37:19,482 --> 00:37:21,896 -[Ruchy] Mmm. -...and I've decided I wanna do a big trip. 947 00:37:21,896 --> 00:37:24,137 I wanna do something crazy. So, we're all gonna-- 948 00:37:24,137 --> 00:37:25,275 I haven't told you guys this yet, 949 00:37:25,275 --> 00:37:26,965 but we're all gonna go to Spain. 950 00:37:26,965 --> 00:37:29,000 -Oh, wow. -Oh, wow. Oh, wow. 951 00:37:29,000 --> 00:37:30,413 -Okay. -That's great. 952 00:37:30,413 --> 00:37:33,172 -I thought you should make a trip to India. -[Glenn chuckles] 953 00:37:33,172 --> 00:37:35,137 -If that's where my man is, I'll be there. -[all laugh] 954 00:37:35,137 --> 00:37:36,310 -[Hunter] Yeah. -You guys enjoy, thank you. 955 00:37:36,310 --> 00:37:37,689 [Whitney] Thank you, Ravi. 956 00:37:38,586 --> 00:37:40,413 -So where are we going in Spain? -Exactly. 957 00:37:40,413 --> 00:37:41,689 So, this is the thing. 958 00:37:41,689 --> 00:37:44,206 I started searching locations in Spain. 959 00:37:44,206 --> 00:37:45,931 I wanted it to be around water, 960 00:37:45,931 --> 00:37:48,448 so I found this place, it's called Marbella. 961 00:37:48,448 --> 00:37:50,724 And it's on the southern coast. 962 00:37:50,724 --> 00:37:53,068 It's, like, on a clear day you can see right over to Africa. 963 00:37:53,068 --> 00:37:55,137 It's, like, right near, like, Morocco. 964 00:37:55,137 --> 00:37:58,827 And also Spain, of course, is the birthplace of flamenco. 965 00:37:58,827 --> 00:38:01,103 -I'm feeling this already. Yeah. -[Whitney] Yeah, exactly. 966 00:38:01,103 --> 00:38:04,068 Todd and I just signed up for, like, a flamenco class 967 00:38:04,068 --> 00:38:05,482 over at The Cultural Art Center. 968 00:38:05,482 --> 00:38:11,137 The inspiration for my 40th birthday trip is flamenco. 969 00:38:11,137 --> 00:38:13,758 I actually was just browsing on the Internet, 970 00:38:13,758 --> 00:38:16,137 and I went down a rabbit hole of flamenco dancers. 971 00:38:16,137 --> 00:38:17,655 I thought it was so amazing. 972 00:38:17,655 --> 00:38:20,344 I realized I'd never taken a class like that. 973 00:38:20,344 --> 00:38:21,724 And that was it for me. 974 00:38:21,724 --> 00:38:24,000 Like, once I get my mind set on something, 975 00:38:24,000 --> 00:38:26,931 I am a very decisive person. 976 00:38:26,931 --> 00:38:30,931 So, I found this one hotel that looks really nice, on the water, 977 00:38:30,931 --> 00:38:33,482 and this was, like, the one that had availability for like... 978 00:38:33,482 --> 00:38:36,551 'Cause I wanna invite, I mean, all the friends, you know? 979 00:38:36,551 --> 00:38:38,000 -So... -I wanna invite Karen. 980 00:38:38,000 --> 00:38:39,551 -Well, yeah, of course. -Yeah. 981 00:38:39,551 --> 00:38:41,068 -[indistinct] -'Cause I wanna flamenco dance, 982 00:38:41,068 --> 00:38:43,000 -and she might be upset if... -[all laugh] 983 00:38:43,000 --> 00:38:45,724 -You do it with somebody else. Yeah. Yeah. -I do it with somebody else. 984 00:38:45,724 --> 00:38:48,827 We're going to Spain, and I've never been to Spain. 985 00:38:48,827 --> 00:38:49,965 Thank you. 986 00:38:49,965 --> 00:38:53,586 Leave it to Whitney to do her 40th birthday big. 987 00:38:53,586 --> 00:38:55,275 I'm very excited about it. 988 00:38:55,275 --> 00:38:57,379 [Glenn] So, why did you do the matchmaker? 989 00:38:57,379 --> 00:38:59,724 Well, really a last ditch-resort. 990 00:38:59,724 --> 00:39:02,413 Actually, who suggested it, Tal? 991 00:39:02,413 --> 00:39:05,068 Which is funny because I came home the other day, 992 00:39:05,068 --> 00:39:06,758 and he made me strip naked. 993 00:39:06,758 --> 00:39:11,724 Um, he looked up this, like, sexual energy cleansing spell... 994 00:39:11,724 --> 00:39:14,586 -[Hunter] Uh-huh. -...that took place in a swimming pool 995 00:39:14,586 --> 00:39:15,896 in the living room. 996 00:39:15,896 --> 00:39:17,413 [clears throat] 997 00:39:17,413 --> 00:39:19,793 I don't know if it cleansed my sexual energy or not. 998 00:39:19,793 --> 00:39:21,931 It's supposed to unclog you or something. 999 00:39:21,931 --> 00:39:24,827 -What are you eating, Hunter? -[guffawing] 1000 00:39:24,827 --> 00:39:26,965 Why is that the funniest thing anyone's said all night? 1001 00:39:26,965 --> 00:39:31,827 I am eating a white salad with ahi tuna. 1002 00:39:31,827 --> 00:39:33,344 -[Whitney] It's raw tuna. -Is it tuna? Raw tuna. 1003 00:39:33,344 --> 00:39:36,793 So, after the whole ritual bath, all the friends came. 1004 00:39:36,793 --> 00:39:39,724 And then, you know, I think it was Jess, so she was like, 1005 00:39:39,724 --> 00:39:42,172 tells me my standards are too high, right? 1006 00:39:42,172 --> 00:39:45,517 And I'm like, "I think that you just think my standards are too high for who I am." 1007 00:39:45,517 --> 00:39:48,000 Like, someone my size can't have standards this high. 1008 00:39:48,000 --> 00:39:50,275 People think... [whiningly] "Oh, Whitney's so desperate, unh!" 1009 00:39:50,275 --> 00:39:53,551 [in normal voice] Bitch, if I was desperate, I'd have had every kind of man. 1010 00:39:53,551 --> 00:39:55,137 -Because if I-- -Haven't you? 1011 00:39:55,137 --> 00:39:58,862 For one night. I'm saying not for long term, if I were that desperate. 1012 00:39:58,862 --> 00:40:00,896 And I don't even sleep around anymore! 1013 00:40:00,896 --> 00:40:02,344 [scoffs] Oh, God. 1014 00:40:02,344 --> 00:40:05,586 -[indistinct] -[Whitney laughs] Well, Dad, you said it yourself. 1015 00:40:05,586 --> 00:40:08,000 -Dad, you said, Dad... -I don't wanna hear any more of this conversation. 1016 00:40:08,000 --> 00:40:09,758 ...you said that before you dated Mom, 1017 00:40:09,758 --> 00:40:11,137 you felt confident that you wanted Mom 1018 00:40:11,137 --> 00:40:12,827 because you had dated around, you had sowed your seed. 1019 00:40:12,827 --> 00:40:14,310 -Now, that's what you said. -I didn't say that, 1020 00:40:14,310 --> 00:40:15,620 -"sowing seed." -[Hunter] Say, "sowed the seed?" 1021 00:40:15,620 --> 00:40:17,896 Well, Angie would tell us differently, Dad. 1022 00:40:17,896 --> 00:40:20,413 -[Hunter chuckles] Yeah. -[Whitney] So, let's not act afraid. 1023 00:40:20,413 --> 00:40:22,448 I am on the cusp of my 40th year, 1024 00:40:22,448 --> 00:40:24,000 and I am not a virgin. 1025 00:40:24,000 --> 00:40:25,551 Yeah. 1026 00:40:25,551 --> 00:40:28,034 I don't enjoy hearing my daughter talk so casually 1027 00:40:28,034 --> 00:40:30,551 about intimate relations that she's had. 1028 00:40:30,551 --> 00:40:35,034 I mean, she's making things a little uncomfortable. 1029 00:40:35,034 --> 00:40:37,000 I'm happy that she's a confident woman, 1030 00:40:37,000 --> 00:40:39,034 but I don't need to be included 1031 00:40:39,034 --> 00:40:40,931 in this type of conversation. 1032 00:40:40,931 --> 00:40:43,827 You asked me how did I land on the matchmaker, and I'm just telling you. 1033 00:40:43,827 --> 00:40:46,517 -[clears throat] -Because here's the thing, my standards are so high now, 1034 00:40:46,517 --> 00:40:48,965 and I'm so worn out and over everything, 1035 00:40:48,965 --> 00:40:51,275 I can't even hoe anymore. 1036 00:40:51,275 --> 00:40:54,862 When you get to the point that you can't even find any satisfaction in hoeing... 1037 00:40:54,862 --> 00:40:57,103 -God. -[Whitney] It's, it's... 1038 00:40:57,103 --> 00:40:59,172 You can always find satisfaction in hoeing. 1039 00:40:59,172 --> 00:41:01,172 And you're not upset about that? 1040 00:41:01,172 --> 00:41:03,206 You over here acted mad, and you let him talk like that, 1041 00:41:03,206 --> 00:41:05,896 -and you're not mad about that because he's a boy... -[clears throat] 1042 00:41:05,896 --> 00:41:07,275 -...so it's okay? -No. 1043 00:41:07,275 --> 00:41:09,275 Hunter said, "There is no shame in ever hoeing." 1044 00:41:09,275 --> 00:41:10,724 He didn't really mean that. 1045 00:41:10,724 --> 00:41:12,344 -[gasps] -Oh, I did. 1046 00:41:12,344 --> 00:41:16,034 -[Glenn chuckles] -Oh, my God. The misogyny is making my skull explode. 1047 00:41:16,034 --> 00:41:17,655 [laughs] 1048 00:41:17,655 --> 00:41:19,896 -Oh, my God! -[Hunter] I meant it. 1049 00:41:19,896 --> 00:41:22,827 I cannot believe what I'm hearing right now 1050 00:41:22,827 --> 00:41:24,862 because my dad has this unfair double standard 1051 00:41:24,862 --> 00:41:27,482 when it comes to who can and who can't talk openly about sex. 1052 00:41:27,482 --> 00:41:30,241 And I also feel like my dad always has 1053 00:41:30,241 --> 00:41:31,896 a judgmental attitude about my sex life, 1054 00:41:31,896 --> 00:41:33,275 which I don't have time for. 1055 00:41:33,275 --> 00:41:34,068 [laughs] 1056 00:41:34,068 --> 00:41:36,137 And it is absurd. 1057 00:41:36,137 --> 00:41:39,517 In my day, we might have called that, you know, 1058 00:41:39,517 --> 00:41:42,551 an intimate relationship, not "hoeing." 1059 00:41:42,551 --> 00:41:44,068 Whitney is a modern woman. 1060 00:41:44,068 --> 00:41:46,310 -[Glenn laughs] -Thank you. 1061 00:41:46,310 --> 00:41:49,137 -Thank you, I appreciate that. -Uh-huh. 1062 00:41:49,137 --> 00:41:51,448 Can we talk more about Spain or... 1063 00:41:55,034 --> 00:41:56,620 See, Dad wants to talk about it, 1064 00:41:56,620 --> 00:41:58,448 till we really talk about it. 1065 00:41:59,551 --> 00:42:01,310 [sighs] Oh. 1066 00:42:02,655 --> 00:42:03,965 [woman 1 speaks other language] 1067 00:42:03,965 --> 00:42:06,551 [Whitney] Next time on My Big Fat Fabulous Life. 1068 00:42:06,551 --> 00:42:08,689 [woman 2] Jeez, that's too much. 1069 00:42:08,689 --> 00:42:10,758 [Whitney] I'm having a photo shoot to get photos 1070 00:42:10,758 --> 00:42:12,068 that Alessandra, the matchmaker, 1071 00:42:12,068 --> 00:42:14,310 can use in my portfolio. 1072 00:42:14,310 --> 00:42:17,655 Are we considering doing anything maybe fully nude? 1073 00:42:17,655 --> 00:42:19,172 -[yells] Jessica! -[Jess laughing] 1074 00:42:19,172 --> 00:42:22,482 It doesn't take me a whole lot for me to just be off to the races. 1075 00:42:22,482 --> 00:42:24,206 [woman 3] Just grab your boobies for me. 1076 00:42:24,206 --> 00:42:25,655 -Oh, my God. -[Whitney laughing] 1077 00:42:26,551 --> 00:42:27,827 Yes, just go. Just go. 1078 00:42:27,827 --> 00:42:30,344 There's a lot of time to bridezilla. 1079 00:42:30,344 --> 00:42:32,655 -Maddie, look. -[yells] Y'all, stop telling her to look. 1080 00:42:32,655 --> 00:42:33,827 She's not gonna look, it's fine. 1081 00:42:33,827 --> 00:42:36,206 I'm not making any predictions...