1 00:00:00,931 --> 00:00:02,517 -[woman] One, two three. -[stomping] 2 00:00:02,517 --> 00:00:04,896 [Whitney] Previously on My Big Fat Fabulous Life... 3 00:00:04,896 --> 00:00:06,586 One, two-- 4 00:00:06,586 --> 00:00:11,517 The inspiration, for my 40th birthday trip, is flamenco. 5 00:00:11,517 --> 00:00:12,931 I want to do something crazy, so... 6 00:00:12,931 --> 00:00:14,000 we're all gonna go to Spain. 7 00:00:14,000 --> 00:00:15,413 -[Glenn] Wow! -Okay. 8 00:00:15,413 --> 00:00:18,482 So when is the organizing going to be done? 9 00:00:18,482 --> 00:00:20,413 So I can go back into the house? 10 00:00:20,413 --> 00:00:21,931 There's a lot of work over there, Dad. 11 00:00:21,931 --> 00:00:23,586 [Whitney] As soon as my brother and I learned 12 00:00:23,586 --> 00:00:25,586 that my dad wanted to sell the house, 13 00:00:25,586 --> 00:00:27,517 we immediately tried to scheme ways 14 00:00:27,517 --> 00:00:29,724 to incentivize him, to not do that. 15 00:00:29,724 --> 00:00:32,482 The solution is to reno the downstairs bedroom. 16 00:00:32,482 --> 00:00:34,275 -So he doesn't know? -[Whitney] No, no, no. 17 00:00:34,275 --> 00:00:36,793 -But yeah, Glenn Thore is not allowed in the house. -Okay- 18 00:00:36,793 --> 00:00:39,068 Send me over the best photos 19 00:00:39,068 --> 00:00:41,724 that you've had taken of yourself over the last year. 20 00:00:41,724 --> 00:00:43,172 [Whitney] So I took my friend's advice 21 00:00:43,172 --> 00:00:44,793 and I found a matchmaker. 22 00:00:44,793 --> 00:00:47,172 I don't know if I have a lot of really good ones 23 00:00:47,172 --> 00:00:48,586 that really look like me now, 24 00:00:48,586 --> 00:00:49,827 Book a photo shoot. 25 00:00:49,827 --> 00:00:52,586 I am determined to find my husband 26 00:00:52,586 --> 00:00:54,103 in my 4th decade. 27 00:00:54,103 --> 00:00:55,896 [photographer exclaiming] 28 00:00:55,896 --> 00:00:59,275 Are we considering doing anything maybe fully nude. 29 00:00:59,275 --> 00:01:01,206 -Jessica! -[woman laughing] 30 00:01:01,206 --> 00:01:02,137 All right, get naked. 31 00:01:02,137 --> 00:01:03,379 [Whitney] I just needed like one-- 32 00:01:03,379 --> 00:01:05,102 "Yeah, girl, you look great." 33 00:01:05,102 --> 00:01:07,172 And then I'm, like, "Cool. Let's do it." 34 00:01:07,172 --> 00:01:08,379 [woman 1] On, my word. 35 00:01:08,379 --> 00:01:09,482 That's ooh...y'll. 36 00:01:09,482 --> 00:01:10,827 [woman 2] Oh, my God, 37 00:01:17,827 --> 00:01:20,310 [mellow reggae music playing] 38 00:01:41,413 --> 00:01:43,793 [Whitney] Okay, let's go. Oh, you're already going. 39 00:01:43,793 --> 00:01:46,482 Isn't this dancing supposed to be hard like you have to jump? 40 00:01:46,482 --> 00:01:48,000 [Whitney] I have no clue what this is supposed to be. 41 00:01:48,000 --> 00:01:49,068 -I'm just-- -[Todd] Are you warm? 42 00:01:49,068 --> 00:01:50,275 [Whitney] No. And I thought-- 43 00:01:50,275 --> 00:01:51,310 [Todd] But you're coming in hot. 44 00:01:51,310 --> 00:01:52,689 One of my New Year's resolutions 45 00:01:52,689 --> 00:01:55,482 was to get out of the house and go dancing with Todd. 46 00:01:55,482 --> 00:01:58,310 So we signed up for flamenco and I loved moving my body. 47 00:01:58,310 --> 00:02:02,172 So I want to now move my body in lots of ways. 48 00:02:02,172 --> 00:02:04,275 -[upbeat conga music playing] -[Whitney speaking] 49 00:02:04,275 --> 00:02:05,931 [Amahkle] Five, six, seven, eight... 50 00:02:05,931 --> 00:02:07,206 Take it up. 51 00:02:08,000 --> 00:02:10,068 I found an African fusion class 52 00:02:10,068 --> 00:02:11,551 at the Cultural Arts Center, 53 00:02:11,551 --> 00:02:15,793 and when I was 15 I took some African classes and I loved them. 54 00:02:15,793 --> 00:02:17,724 I do realize that that's been 55 00:02:17,724 --> 00:02:20,620 25 years now, which is scary. 56 00:02:20,620 --> 00:02:24,620 But um, I'm also the lightest I've been in, like, over a decade. 57 00:02:24,620 --> 00:02:27,586 So I'm gonna give it a shot and see what happens. 58 00:02:27,586 --> 00:02:29,689 [upbeat conga drums playing] 59 00:02:29,689 --> 00:02:32,103 [Amahkle] Five, six, seven, eight and two... 60 00:02:34,275 --> 00:02:37,206 Back, front, back... 61 00:02:37,206 --> 00:02:39,000 Five, six, seven, eight. 62 00:02:39,000 --> 00:02:39,896 Take it up! 63 00:02:39,896 --> 00:02:41,655 Hey, take it up. 64 00:02:42,413 --> 00:02:43,655 Take it up. 65 00:02:44,586 --> 00:02:47,137 Five, six, seven, eight and round. 66 00:02:47,724 --> 00:02:50,172 [upbeat conga drums playing] 67 00:02:50,172 --> 00:02:54,103 Hey! [squeals] Yep! Hey... 68 00:02:54,103 --> 00:02:56,275 We're Whitney and Todd. Thank you for having us. 69 00:02:56,275 --> 00:02:57,310 I'm already out of breath. 70 00:02:57,310 --> 00:02:58,482 [chuckling] 71 00:02:58,482 --> 00:03:00,172 I'm so glad that you are here. 72 00:03:00,172 --> 00:03:02,482 Thank you for coming to class. 73 00:03:02,482 --> 00:03:04,793 La Moose Afro-Blendz Community dance class. 74 00:03:04,793 --> 00:03:07,000 -I teach Afro fusion. -Awesome! 75 00:03:07,000 --> 00:03:08,034 [Amahkle] Just have fun. 76 00:03:08,034 --> 00:03:11,689 Stop me if you need to have a question asked 77 00:03:11,689 --> 00:03:13,172 -and um... -We probably will. 78 00:03:13,172 --> 00:03:14,827 Yeah, so yeah. Ready? 79 00:03:14,827 --> 00:03:16,172 -[Whitney] Yeah. -Awesome. 80 00:03:16,172 --> 00:03:17,413 All right. 81 00:03:17,413 --> 00:03:20,000 Oh, oh. And I forgot. I am sister Amahkle 82 00:03:20,000 --> 00:03:21,413 -Okay. -[Whitney] Nice to meet you. 83 00:03:21,413 --> 00:03:23,000 -[Todd] Nice to meet you. -[Amahkle laughs] 84 00:03:23,000 --> 00:03:25,896 All right. So, the first thing I always say 85 00:03:25,896 --> 00:03:28,172 love what you see in the mirror. Okay? 86 00:03:28,172 --> 00:03:30,172 All right, now, just have fun. 87 00:03:30,172 --> 00:03:32,000 -[upbeat music starts] -[Amahkle] Hey, hey, hey. 88 00:03:32,000 --> 00:03:33,172 Hey, hey. 89 00:03:33,172 --> 00:03:34,793 Here we go. 90 00:03:34,793 --> 00:03:36,689 Five, six, seven, eight. 91 00:03:36,689 --> 00:03:38,620 One, two, three, four, 92 00:03:38,620 --> 00:03:41,103 five, six, seven, eight. 93 00:03:41,103 --> 00:03:43,067 And one, two-- 94 00:03:43,067 --> 00:03:45,275 [Whitney] Even though I'm an experienced dancer, 95 00:03:45,275 --> 00:03:49,000 trying a style that's unfamiliar is still intimidating. 96 00:03:49,000 --> 00:03:51,379 And to be honest, I feel like almost everything 97 00:03:51,379 --> 00:03:52,896 is intimidating to me these days, 98 00:03:52,896 --> 00:03:54,793 like I'm really proud of myself 99 00:03:54,793 --> 00:03:56,172 for upholding my New Year's resolution 100 00:03:56,172 --> 00:03:58,413 and getting out of the house and trying new things. 101 00:03:58,413 --> 00:04:00,827 It's something that I think is really important for me 102 00:04:00,827 --> 00:04:03,103 in this new phase of my life, 103 00:04:03,103 --> 00:04:05,482 and I don't want to just like shield myself 104 00:04:05,482 --> 00:04:07,000 from disappointments anymore. 105 00:04:07,000 --> 00:04:09,827 I want to live, you know. 106 00:04:09,827 --> 00:04:12,000 Um, it's a slightly new concept, 107 00:04:12,000 --> 00:04:13,172 but I'm going for it. [chuckles softly] 108 00:04:13,172 --> 00:04:17,103 All right, from the top. And five, six, seven eight. 109 00:04:17,103 --> 00:04:21,172 One, two, three, four, five, six, seven eight. 110 00:04:21,172 --> 00:04:24,310 And one... two... three... 111 00:04:24,310 --> 00:04:25,517 four...and... 112 00:04:25,517 --> 00:04:29,517 ♪♪ Pa pa ah dah dah 113 00:04:29,517 --> 00:04:32,000 [Whitney] There's something about doing something that you haven't done 114 00:04:32,000 --> 00:04:34,172 or doing something new and doing something novel 115 00:04:34,172 --> 00:04:37,034 and how it connects with your body and how it makes you feel. 116 00:04:38,793 --> 00:04:41,413 And ultimately it makes me feel good, 117 00:04:41,413 --> 00:04:43,896 young, sexy, vibrant. 118 00:04:43,896 --> 00:04:45,689 I love it all. 119 00:04:45,689 --> 00:04:47,827 [upbeat music continues playing] 120 00:04:52,172 --> 00:04:54,206 [Amahkle whooping] 121 00:04:55,000 --> 00:04:56,413 -[exhales] -[music stops] 122 00:04:56,689 --> 00:04:58,172 Afro fusion. 123 00:04:58,172 --> 00:04:59,896 -Thank you. We enjoyed it. We love it. -[Amahkle] Thank you. Yes. 124 00:04:59,896 --> 00:05:01,379 -Thank you. -[Whitney] I appreciate it. 125 00:05:01,379 --> 00:05:03,689 -All right. Have a good night. You guys. -[Whitney] You all too. 126 00:05:03,689 --> 00:05:07,827 Unlike flamenco, which was slower 127 00:05:07,827 --> 00:05:11,482 and sensuous and a little methodical. 128 00:05:11,482 --> 00:05:16,172 This Afro fusion class was a bit more of a cardio workout, 129 00:05:16,172 --> 00:05:18,137 but I feel good. 130 00:05:18,413 --> 00:05:20,000 I love that. 131 00:05:20,000 --> 00:05:22,206 -And I like, flamenco too. -[Todd chuckles] Okay. 132 00:05:22,206 --> 00:05:23,275 I don't know which one I like better, 133 00:05:23,275 --> 00:05:25,034 but too bad we're going to Spain, not Africa. 134 00:05:25,482 --> 00:05:26,896 [Todd speaking] 135 00:05:26,896 --> 00:05:29,620 But tell me I'm not the only one that's tired. 136 00:05:29,620 --> 00:05:31,103 Wait, is this because we're 40, though? 137 00:05:31,103 --> 00:05:32,413 Or is this because because... 138 00:05:34,206 --> 00:05:35,275 Well, that's what I'm saying. 139 00:05:35,275 --> 00:05:36,724 This isn't, like, all just because we're 40. 140 00:05:36,724 --> 00:05:38,137 [Todd speaking] 141 00:05:40,620 --> 00:05:41,724 [Whitney grunts] 142 00:05:43,413 --> 00:05:44,724 [groaning] 143 00:05:49,206 --> 00:05:50,896 [Whitney] Guy in the strip zone 144 00:05:50,896 --> 00:05:52,896 said that I was above average, 145 00:05:52,896 --> 00:05:54,586 um, flexibility for a 40-year-old. 146 00:05:54,586 --> 00:05:55,931 [Todd speaking] 147 00:05:56,793 --> 00:05:58,206 Don't know if I can say the same for you. 148 00:05:58,206 --> 00:05:59,448 [Todd speaking] 149 00:06:00,620 --> 00:06:01,965 Is my butt getting smaller? 150 00:06:03,482 --> 00:06:04,931 No, like that. 151 00:06:04,931 --> 00:06:06,896 -Or did my back just get smaller? -[Todd] Not like that at all. 152 00:06:06,896 --> 00:06:08,793 Wait. What part of me got smaller? 153 00:06:08,793 --> 00:06:10,827 I don't like that. Where's my butt? 154 00:06:10,827 --> 00:06:12,620 -It's expanded, left to right. -[Whitney] Stop it. 155 00:06:12,620 --> 00:06:16,620 So for Spain, because we're not going to have another episode. 156 00:06:16,620 --> 00:06:17,586 [Todd groans softly] 157 00:06:17,586 --> 00:06:19,000 Of what had happened last year. 158 00:06:19,000 --> 00:06:21,206 -Last year...? -Last year was when you had to leave 159 00:06:21,206 --> 00:06:22,586 because of the tacos. 160 00:06:22,586 --> 00:06:26,517 We had a birthday fiasco last year over the taco meat. 161 00:06:26,517 --> 00:06:28,827 And I really just don't want to repeat 162 00:06:28,827 --> 00:06:32,000 I just want to enjoy our birthday. 163 00:06:32,000 --> 00:06:33,206 Where do you want me to set that? 164 00:06:33,206 --> 00:06:34,655 It's for you. 165 00:06:34,655 --> 00:06:36,517 On my birthday, You're gonna give me a food that I have literally 166 00:06:36,517 --> 00:06:39,000 -never had a single one-- -It's my birthday. 167 00:06:39,000 --> 00:06:40,620 Did you think this was your birthday? 168 00:06:40,620 --> 00:06:42,379 Why would we have just your birthday party 169 00:06:42,379 --> 00:06:43,793 when my birthday is the next day? 170 00:06:43,793 --> 00:06:45,379 -[woman] Are you leaving? -[Todd] Oh, yeah. 171 00:06:45,379 --> 00:06:46,827 -Are you leaving? -[Todd] Yeah. 172 00:06:46,827 --> 00:06:48,310 I mean, this wasn't meant for me anyway, so it doesn't matter. 173 00:06:48,310 --> 00:06:51,000 I have really needed this trip. 174 00:06:51,000 --> 00:06:54,275 After the... [chuckles softly] 175 00:06:54,275 --> 00:06:55,758 I was gonna say the year that I've had. 176 00:06:55,758 --> 00:06:58,379 But it has been like my entire life that I've had, I don't know, 177 00:06:58,379 --> 00:07:01,172 and I think it's just something that we've all really needed 178 00:07:01,172 --> 00:07:03,379 and we're all really looking forward to. 179 00:07:03,379 --> 00:07:05,172 There's some details that we have to figure out, 180 00:07:05,172 --> 00:07:08,241 so I'm willing to call this a joint birthday party... 181 00:07:08,793 --> 00:07:09,896 Oh, you're willing? 182 00:07:09,896 --> 00:07:12,724 If it's on conditions. 183 00:07:12,724 --> 00:07:16,103 If... I mean, the whole trip is like the party, 184 00:07:16,103 --> 00:07:17,586 but I want to have, 185 00:07:17,586 --> 00:07:19,000 like, on the last night, 186 00:07:19,000 --> 00:07:21,793 like kind of a designated party. 187 00:07:21,793 --> 00:07:23,517 I'm thinking like beachfront. 188 00:07:23,517 --> 00:07:24,793 I'm thinking candles. 189 00:07:24,793 --> 00:07:25,793 I'm thinking-- 190 00:07:25,793 --> 00:07:27,586 Volleyball net. 191 00:07:27,586 --> 00:07:29,275 Well, why would I really think of that? 192 00:07:29,275 --> 00:07:30,482 I want to actually perform-- 193 00:07:30,482 --> 00:07:32,000 -At the party, at our own party. -Yes. 194 00:07:32,000 --> 00:07:33,275 -That's like... -We'll perform. 195 00:07:33,275 --> 00:07:34,482 ...having a wedding and singing at your own wedding. 196 00:07:34,482 --> 00:07:35,620 Yeah, that's also fine. 197 00:07:35,620 --> 00:07:37,413 -[chuckles] -So we'll perform, but basically-- 198 00:07:37,413 --> 00:07:38,517 So you have to-- 199 00:07:38,517 --> 00:07:40,310 I've already found flamenco clubs. 200 00:07:40,620 --> 00:07:42,413 In-- in Malaga. 201 00:07:42,413 --> 00:07:43,724 Hey, everybody, come to our party. 202 00:07:43,724 --> 00:07:44,896 We're gonna dance for you 203 00:07:44,896 --> 00:07:46,482 -to look at us. -[Whitney] Exactly. Exactly. 204 00:07:46,482 --> 00:07:47,896 -And cheer. -[Whitney] Exactly. 205 00:07:47,896 --> 00:07:50,068 It-- I'm not allowing it to be a joint birthday. 206 00:07:50,068 --> 00:07:51,517 If you don't perform. 207 00:07:52,275 --> 00:07:53,724 Are you performing? [groans] 208 00:07:53,724 --> 00:07:54,724 [Todd] Well, yes. 209 00:07:57,827 --> 00:07:58,793 Okay. 210 00:07:58,793 --> 00:08:00,931 Another goal for my birthday this year 211 00:08:00,931 --> 00:08:02,689 is to not have a repeat of last year. 212 00:08:02,689 --> 00:08:04,689 I want everybody to get along. 213 00:08:04,689 --> 00:08:06,517 I want everyone to enjoy the food. 214 00:08:06,517 --> 00:08:08,137 And if Todd agrees to perform... 215 00:08:10,172 --> 00:08:12,517 then I'll agree to not serve tacos. 216 00:08:13,103 --> 00:08:14,931 Wait, can I get closer to this? 217 00:08:14,931 --> 00:08:16,103 That was kind of fun. 218 00:08:16,103 --> 00:08:18,379 If I wasn't a [bleep] walrus. 219 00:08:18,379 --> 00:08:21,000 [grunts] I literally am, Walrusy. 220 00:08:21,000 --> 00:08:23,172 -You're gonna beach up on the pole? -[Whitney cackles] 221 00:08:23,172 --> 00:08:25,172 I'm trying to... 222 00:08:25,172 --> 00:08:26,310 Skid skid skid skid skid skid. 223 00:08:26,310 --> 00:08:27,689 -Put on a squirm. -How do you do it? 224 00:08:27,689 --> 00:08:28,758 Am I close? 225 00:08:28,758 --> 00:08:30,275 Those who can't squirm don't deserve any sperm. 226 00:08:30,275 --> 00:08:31,931 [Whitney] That might be close enough. 227 00:08:31,931 --> 00:08:33,172 Whoa, whoa! Why you take-- 228 00:08:33,172 --> 00:08:34,275 Why you keep on-- 229 00:08:34,275 --> 00:08:35,379 Increase your squirm. 230 00:08:35,379 --> 00:08:36,620 [Whitney] I cannot get there anymore. 231 00:08:36,620 --> 00:08:38,102 That's all I can do. 232 00:08:38,102 --> 00:08:40,000 Oh! My back is sweating. I'm sliding. 233 00:08:40,000 --> 00:08:42,517 [Todd] All right, well, where's my feet? 234 00:08:43,895 --> 00:08:44,965 -Oh, give me that-- -[shouts] 235 00:08:45,586 --> 00:08:47,275 All right. Well... 236 00:08:47,275 --> 00:08:50,000 Oh my God, I've created a pool. 237 00:08:50,000 --> 00:08:51,379 Yes, I'll tell her. I'll tell her. 238 00:08:51,379 --> 00:08:53,931 They said, you're gonna need to mop that up before you leave. 239 00:08:54,517 --> 00:08:55,620 [grunts] 240 00:08:55,620 --> 00:08:56,724 [indistinct chatter] 241 00:08:58,068 --> 00:08:58,965 [groans] 242 00:09:00,172 --> 00:09:03,034 [mellow music playing] 243 00:09:08,689 --> 00:09:10,310 Pirate that is no cats allowed. 244 00:09:10,310 --> 00:09:12,448 Turn your fat ass around, sir. 245 00:09:13,275 --> 00:09:15,000 Sir. 246 00:09:15,000 --> 00:09:16,586 You know, the cats are walking in the room right now. 247 00:09:16,586 --> 00:09:18,517 -[Whitney] Is the door shut? -[Hunter] No! 248 00:09:18,517 --> 00:09:20,137 Todd! Get them out! 249 00:09:20,413 --> 00:09:21,448 No! 250 00:09:21,689 --> 00:09:23,793 No! Hot dog. 251 00:09:23,793 --> 00:09:27,172 I've been working on remodeling the downstairs bedroom 252 00:09:27,172 --> 00:09:30,689 for a couple of weeks now, and I am exhausted. 253 00:09:30,689 --> 00:09:34,896 It has taken a lot to manage all of the details, 254 00:09:34,896 --> 00:09:37,068 not to mention the energy it requires [chuckles softly] 255 00:09:37,068 --> 00:09:40,103 to keep Glenn Thore, off the premises. 256 00:09:40,103 --> 00:09:42,482 Hunter one of the cat is in here. 257 00:09:42,482 --> 00:09:46,172 So I'm really excited that one way or another it's about to be over. 258 00:09:46,172 --> 00:09:49,896 And one thing about my family is that we have always loved 259 00:09:49,896 --> 00:09:51,379 to play tricks on each other. 260 00:09:51,379 --> 00:09:55,068 And I am dying because we are expecting 261 00:09:55,068 --> 00:09:57,068 my dad to arrive at any minute 262 00:09:57,068 --> 00:10:01,310 to check on the progress that we've done in the garage. 263 00:10:01,310 --> 00:10:03,379 Dad's here. Dad's here. 264 00:10:03,379 --> 00:10:04,793 -Okay. I'm gonna go down there... -I'll just be here. 265 00:10:04,793 --> 00:10:07,413 ...when I get down there [whispers] open the doors. 266 00:10:07,413 --> 00:10:08,724 [Hunter] Okay? 267 00:10:08,724 --> 00:10:09,931 -Okay? -[whispers] He's gonna be pissed 268 00:10:09,931 --> 00:10:11,103 when he sees this garage. 269 00:10:11,103 --> 00:10:13,689 I'm really nervous because I have put in 270 00:10:13,689 --> 00:10:18,068 a lot of time and energy and money into this project. 271 00:10:18,068 --> 00:10:20,482 And if my dad does not love it, 272 00:10:20,482 --> 00:10:22,482 then there is no possibility 273 00:10:22,482 --> 00:10:25,413 that he will reconsider selling the house. 274 00:10:27,482 --> 00:10:29,413 Okay. Okay. Okay. Okay. Door, doors, doors, doors 275 00:10:31,482 --> 00:10:32,655 Here Todd, Todd, Todd, Todd. 276 00:10:32,896 --> 00:10:34,206 [chuckles] 277 00:10:37,413 --> 00:10:38,758 [laughing] 278 00:10:40,172 --> 00:10:41,206 [Glenn] Well... 279 00:10:41,206 --> 00:10:42,724 Ta-da! 280 00:10:46,103 --> 00:10:47,517 Do you like what we've done? 281 00:10:50,482 --> 00:10:52,000 Well, you haven't done anything. 282 00:10:52,689 --> 00:10:54,068 [Glenn clears throat] 283 00:10:54,068 --> 00:10:56,275 -[Whitney] Dad-- -I mean, look at all this space right here. 284 00:10:56,275 --> 00:10:57,275 We've done-- 285 00:10:57,275 --> 00:10:58,896 Well, that's the car was here. I mean... 286 00:10:58,896 --> 00:11:00,517 How many trash bags you think we hauled out of here? 287 00:11:00,517 --> 00:11:01,689 -Eighteen? -At least 20. 288 00:11:01,689 --> 00:11:02,724 Dad? 289 00:11:02,724 --> 00:11:05,655 Uh... Well, you didn't even sweep the floor. 290 00:11:09,172 --> 00:11:13,827 Whitney has a real knack for cleaning and organizing things. 291 00:11:13,827 --> 00:11:17,379 But [clears throat] something has gone awry here in the garage 292 00:11:17,379 --> 00:11:19,482 because this is not her best work. 293 00:11:19,482 --> 00:11:22,620 I mean, I was really expecting a lot more. 294 00:11:22,620 --> 00:11:24,103 Well, that's because we were splitting our time. 295 00:11:24,103 --> 00:11:27,379 Actually, we had other concurrent projects going on. 296 00:11:27,379 --> 00:11:29,172 We'll be happy to show you the other thing we're working on. 297 00:11:29,172 --> 00:11:31,000 If you would like to see it. 298 00:11:31,000 --> 00:11:33,724 Well, I think anything will be better than what I see here. 299 00:11:34,517 --> 00:11:36,000 -Fine. -[Glenn] All right. 300 00:11:36,000 --> 00:11:37,689 Let's go to the second stage. 301 00:11:37,689 --> 00:11:40,103 Todd, bring him in in uh, 30 sec. 302 00:11:40,896 --> 00:11:43,137 Come on, Goose. Qick, we go show daddy. 303 00:11:44,517 --> 00:11:45,655 Good girl. 304 00:11:48,793 --> 00:11:50,241 [intense music playing] 305 00:11:51,689 --> 00:11:52,965 [Glenn] This is unbelievable. 306 00:11:55,172 --> 00:11:57,103 Okay, so nobody freak out. 307 00:11:57,103 --> 00:11:59,000 -Oh no. Please. -[Whitney chuckles] 308 00:11:59,000 --> 00:12:00,482 Let me. Let me take a sip. 309 00:12:00,482 --> 00:12:02,172 I love the start of this. Yes. Keep going. 310 00:12:02,172 --> 00:12:04,620 I may... 311 00:12:06,172 --> 00:12:07,586 ...have met someone. 312 00:12:07,586 --> 00:12:08,275 Really? 313 00:12:20,379 --> 00:12:21,241 [Whitney] Come on, Goose. 314 00:12:21,241 --> 00:12:22,620 We go show daddy. 315 00:12:27,965 --> 00:12:29,379 Wow. 316 00:12:31,551 --> 00:12:34,586 Well, I can see why you didn't do something in the garage 317 00:12:34,586 --> 00:12:36,000 because you spent all your time in here. 318 00:12:36,000 --> 00:12:37,379 This is unbelievable. 319 00:12:37,379 --> 00:12:39,172 Look how wonderful this is. 320 00:12:40,896 --> 00:12:42,379 Unbelievable. 321 00:12:42,379 --> 00:12:44,068 You would not know this room 322 00:12:44,068 --> 00:12:46,793 from where it was a few weeks ago. 323 00:12:46,793 --> 00:12:49,034 Last time I saw, it was a junk room. 324 00:12:49,034 --> 00:12:50,586 [all laughing] 325 00:12:51,241 --> 00:12:53,172 Wow. Mmm. 326 00:12:54,379 --> 00:12:55,586 Well, I should have known 327 00:12:55,586 --> 00:12:57,965 that you were gonna have a surprise like this. 328 00:12:57,965 --> 00:12:59,172 This wall is beautiful. 329 00:12:59,172 --> 00:13:00,586 [Whitney] Now, look at the ceiling. 330 00:13:00,586 --> 00:13:02,275 Do you recognize this pattern? 331 00:13:02,275 --> 00:13:05,000 -This is Mommy's chair's in different color. -[Glenn] Yeah, uh-huh. 332 00:13:05,793 --> 00:13:07,689 Boy, she would have been so thrilled with this. 333 00:13:07,689 --> 00:13:09,862 That's what I thought. I thought Mommy would have liked it. 334 00:13:09,862 --> 00:13:13,379 Well, I mean, you tried to get us to come downstairs forever, 335 00:13:13,379 --> 00:13:15,965 and if it looked like this, we'd come downstairs. 336 00:13:15,965 --> 00:13:17,068 -For sure. -[Hunter] Uh-oh. 337 00:13:17,068 --> 00:13:18,620 [chuckles] 338 00:13:19,000 --> 00:13:21,689 I am stunned at how 339 00:13:21,689 --> 00:13:25,000 wonderful this room looks. All the little things 340 00:13:25,000 --> 00:13:27,758 that Whitney has put on the shelves 341 00:13:27,758 --> 00:13:30,172 that remind us of things in the past. 342 00:13:30,172 --> 00:13:33,896 I mean, those touches that she added to the room 343 00:13:33,896 --> 00:13:36,137 really makes it not only feel like home, 344 00:13:36,137 --> 00:13:38,000 but brings back some wonderful memories. 345 00:13:38,000 --> 00:13:40,172 [Whitney] Now make your way into this beautiful bathroom. 346 00:13:41,137 --> 00:13:43,241 As you'll see, new tile, 347 00:13:43,241 --> 00:13:46,689 new paint, new wallpaper, new mirror, light fixtures. 348 00:13:46,689 --> 00:13:47,793 [Glenn] Well, this is beautiful. 349 00:13:47,793 --> 00:13:49,241 -[Whitney] Okay? -[Glenn clears throat] 350 00:13:49,241 --> 00:13:50,896 -[Whitney] Moving on. -[Glenn] I love-- I love this paint here. 351 00:13:50,896 --> 00:13:52,482 -[Whitney] The wallpaper and the paint? -[Glenn] Yeah. 352 00:13:52,482 --> 00:13:54,862 -[Whitney] Yeah. -[Glenn] Mmm. 353 00:13:54,862 --> 00:13:57,793 [Whitney] Um, the name of this bar is "Mommy's Margaritas." 354 00:13:57,793 --> 00:14:01,172 -[Glenn chuckles] -[Whitney] As you can see, and it is open 24/7/365. 355 00:14:01,172 --> 00:14:02,862 [Glenn] Are you having a margarita with your mom? 356 00:14:02,862 --> 00:14:04,034 [Whitney] That's my 21st birthday. 357 00:14:04,034 --> 00:14:05,965 -When we had a margarita together. -[Glenn] Oh. 358 00:14:05,965 --> 00:14:09,275 [Whitney] If my dad were to sleep in this room 359 00:14:09,275 --> 00:14:11,689 and open his eyes, my goal would be 360 00:14:11,689 --> 00:14:14,655 that in every turn of everything he did, 361 00:14:14,655 --> 00:14:16,482 I just want it to be paved 362 00:14:16,482 --> 00:14:19,793 with beautiful memories that make him feel good. 363 00:14:19,793 --> 00:14:22,758 As much as I was disappointed in the garage, 364 00:14:22,758 --> 00:14:25,137 -this is wonderful. -[Hunter chuckles] 365 00:14:25,137 --> 00:14:28,103 [Glenn] Wow! Wow! Wow! [chuckles] 366 00:14:28,103 --> 00:14:32,000 Well, I was hoping that if you could see the potential 367 00:14:32,000 --> 00:14:33,758 with a little bit of work and a whole lot of money, 368 00:14:33,758 --> 00:14:36,000 the house could could come alive again. 369 00:14:36,000 --> 00:14:37,344 Oh, yeah. 370 00:14:37,344 --> 00:14:39,758 So we're hoping that maybe we don't... 371 00:14:39,758 --> 00:14:41,241 -[Hunter] Have to sell it. -Sell it. 372 00:14:42,172 --> 00:14:43,758 Well, [clears throat] 373 00:14:43,758 --> 00:14:46,689 you know, I've been thinking about that 374 00:14:46,689 --> 00:14:49,586 and sometimes you get in that mindset of 375 00:14:49,586 --> 00:14:52,482 uh,, you know you need to downsize, 376 00:14:52,482 --> 00:14:54,689 and it's just too much to take care of all that kind of stuff. 377 00:14:54,689 --> 00:14:58,000 But something like this brings back 378 00:14:58,000 --> 00:14:59,896 all the memories, the sentimental value. 379 00:14:59,896 --> 00:15:03,344 I mean, I-- In fact, I-- I think we'll just hold on to it 380 00:15:03,344 --> 00:15:06,034 until you guys decide what you want to do with it. 381 00:15:06,034 --> 00:15:07,000 When I'm... 382 00:15:07,482 --> 00:15:08,379 -...gone. -Don't. 383 00:15:08,379 --> 00:15:09,620 -Stop! -[Glenn chuckles] 384 00:15:11,172 --> 00:15:12,172 You're not selling the house? 385 00:15:12,172 --> 00:15:13,344 No. No. 386 00:15:13,344 --> 00:15:15,068 -[Whitney whoops] -[Glenn chuckles] 387 00:15:16,068 --> 00:15:19,689 This home is actually not our childhood home. 388 00:15:19,689 --> 00:15:22,241 We moved into this house when I was 17. 389 00:15:27,689 --> 00:15:29,517 [Whitney squeals] 390 00:15:32,172 --> 00:15:35,551 This was our dream home, and for the past 24 years 391 00:15:35,551 --> 00:15:38,896 we have been making so many memories as a family in this home. 392 00:15:38,896 --> 00:15:41,344 And it feels like my mom. 393 00:15:41,344 --> 00:15:45,310 And you can't recreate that anywhere else. 394 00:15:45,793 --> 00:15:48,172 You bought the animals. 395 00:15:48,172 --> 00:15:49,586 [Glenn] We're gonna turn into a shelter. 396 00:15:49,586 --> 00:15:52,448 We've got cats and turtles and dogs. 397 00:15:52,448 --> 00:15:53,724 Now we have pigs. 398 00:15:54,000 --> 00:15:55,034 Oh! 399 00:15:55,034 --> 00:15:56,344 [Whitney] Oh, my God. He's out, he's out. 400 00:15:56,344 --> 00:15:57,482 He's out. 401 00:15:57,482 --> 00:15:59,000 [Whitney chuckles] Oh, he's startled. 402 00:15:59,000 --> 00:16:02,482 And I truly believe that my mom would want me 403 00:16:02,482 --> 00:16:05,275 to be a steward of this house and to restore it 404 00:16:05,275 --> 00:16:07,896 and make it beautiful and take care of it. 405 00:16:07,896 --> 00:16:11,896 So I am thrilled that my dad is not selling, 406 00:16:11,896 --> 00:16:15,137 because every time I come here, it just... 407 00:16:15,137 --> 00:16:16,586 it feels like home. 408 00:16:16,586 --> 00:16:19,482 And that means a lot to me. 409 00:16:19,482 --> 00:16:22,137 This room is is too wonderful not to use. 410 00:16:22,137 --> 00:16:23,689 So I can move in here tomorrow. 411 00:16:23,689 --> 00:16:25,793 [Whitney] Well, don't you feel good leaving to go on a trip 412 00:16:25,793 --> 00:16:27,793 knowing that this beautiful room 413 00:16:27,793 --> 00:16:29,068 could await you when you return. 414 00:16:29,068 --> 00:16:30,482 Uh, exactly. 415 00:16:30,482 --> 00:16:32,310 Well, I love you. I'm glad you like it. 416 00:16:33,275 --> 00:16:35,482 I love you, too. Thank you so much. 417 00:16:35,482 --> 00:16:36,793 You know all those memories 418 00:16:36,793 --> 00:16:39,241 all the years that we've spent at this house, 419 00:16:39,241 --> 00:16:41,862 this is, you know, really our home, 420 00:16:41,862 --> 00:16:44,551 and I am so excited to move back in. 421 00:16:44,551 --> 00:16:46,689 The only thing that disappoints me 422 00:16:46,689 --> 00:16:48,689 is that Babs is not here to see this. 423 00:16:49,068 --> 00:16:50,862 Wanna go back home? 424 00:16:50,862 --> 00:16:53,000 Do we have to go back through the garage? 425 00:16:53,000 --> 00:16:55,000 -[scoffs] -[all chuckling] 426 00:16:55,482 --> 00:16:57,241 [upbeat music playing] 427 00:17:01,896 --> 00:17:03,379 [Whitney] Did you know this: 428 00:17:03,379 --> 00:17:06,448 Camels actually originated in North America. 429 00:17:06,448 --> 00:17:07,413 -And then they-- -I didn't know that. 430 00:17:07,413 --> 00:17:08,689 They crossed the land bridge something. 431 00:17:08,689 --> 00:17:10,172 And now we think of them as being like, 432 00:17:10,172 --> 00:17:11,448 -you know, Arabian? -Right. 433 00:17:11,448 --> 00:17:12,723 They're actually American. 434 00:17:12,723 --> 00:17:14,689 Why do I learn about animals whenever I'm with you guys? 435 00:17:14,689 --> 00:17:16,550 -Because I know everything about animals. -[chuckles] 436 00:17:16,550 --> 00:17:17,964 -And you got to know this-- -That's crazy. 437 00:17:17,964 --> 00:17:19,137 You know, you got to travel. 438 00:17:19,137 --> 00:17:20,896 You want to know about the local flora and the fauna. 439 00:17:20,896 --> 00:17:22,378 So... This is cute. 440 00:17:22,378 --> 00:17:24,862 Now, I will say it is a little early. 441 00:17:24,862 --> 00:17:26,378 I feel like it's not prime time 442 00:17:26,378 --> 00:17:27,758 -man meeting, but... -[Karen] I know. 443 00:17:27,758 --> 00:17:29,000 [Whitney] Well, I'm still doing my homework. I don't care. 444 00:17:29,000 --> 00:17:31,551 I'm really excited to have met the matchmaker 445 00:17:31,551 --> 00:17:35,068 and done a photo shoot and everything to go on my portfolio. 446 00:17:35,068 --> 00:17:37,482 And somehow I feel like I've already gotten the confidence 447 00:17:37,482 --> 00:17:39,586 to put myself out there a little bit more in life. 448 00:17:39,586 --> 00:17:43,172 So I am meeting Karen and my brother for drinks. 449 00:17:43,172 --> 00:17:44,517 At the Quarter. 450 00:17:44,517 --> 00:17:46,586 It's a new bar that's opened up in downtown Greensboro. 451 00:17:46,586 --> 00:17:50,172 My brother's bartending there and it's really cool. 452 00:17:50,172 --> 00:17:51,862 -What's up? -[Whitney] What's up? 453 00:17:51,862 --> 00:17:53,241 -[Karen] Hi. -What you been doing? 454 00:17:53,241 --> 00:17:54,172 -[Whitney] Uh... -[Karen] Hey ya. 455 00:17:54,172 --> 00:17:55,137 -Hanging out. -[Whitney] Oh, my God! 456 00:17:55,137 --> 00:17:56,862 -Is this a dog place? -It is, yeah. 457 00:17:56,862 --> 00:17:58,068 -[Karen] So cute. -[Whitney] Hey, I'm sorry. 458 00:17:58,068 --> 00:17:59,448 -Can I-- Can I uh... -[Karen] Hi. 459 00:17:59,448 --> 00:18:00,310 You can say hello. 460 00:18:00,310 --> 00:18:01,965 -[Karen chuckles] -[Whitney] Hi! 461 00:18:01,965 --> 00:18:04,172 She's a golden. She needs her emotional support hat. 462 00:18:04,172 --> 00:18:05,758 [Whitney] I understand that. 463 00:18:05,758 --> 00:18:07,379 Show her the hat. There you go. 464 00:18:07,379 --> 00:18:09,137 -[Whitney] Hi, sweetheart. -[Karen] Oh, my goodness. 465 00:18:09,655 --> 00:18:10,379 What's her name? 466 00:18:10,379 --> 00:18:12,000 -Temperance. -Temperance. 467 00:18:12,000 --> 00:18:13,172 How sweet is she? 468 00:18:13,172 --> 00:18:15,103 I'm Whitney, Temperance and Ian. 469 00:18:15,103 --> 00:18:16,000 Ian. Nice to meet you. 470 00:18:16,000 --> 00:18:17,000 Good to meet you. 471 00:18:17,000 --> 00:18:18,965 Hey, pup, I have a poodle. 472 00:18:18,965 --> 00:18:21,448 If I had known, you didn't tell me this was a dog bar, 473 00:18:21,448 --> 00:18:22,620 [Hunter] What? We'd do whatever here. 474 00:18:22,620 --> 00:18:23,758 -Whatever. -[Whitney] Well, you didn't tell me that 475 00:18:23,758 --> 00:18:25,000 I would have brought Goosey. 476 00:18:25,000 --> 00:18:26,241 -You want a drink? -[Hunter] What's up? 477 00:18:26,241 --> 00:18:27,862 Yeah, well, I just, you know me. 478 00:18:27,862 --> 00:18:30,551 I just want a diet soda. 479 00:18:30,551 --> 00:18:32,000 [Hunter chuckles] Just a diet soda. 480 00:18:32,000 --> 00:18:32,965 You know how I do. 481 00:18:32,965 --> 00:18:34,103 What kind of whiskey you want in here? 482 00:18:34,103 --> 00:18:35,517 -[Whitney] No. -[Karen chuckles] 483 00:18:35,517 --> 00:18:36,896 -Where do you want to sit? Right here. -Yeah, that's correct. 484 00:18:36,896 --> 00:18:38,103 All right. It was really nice to meet you Ian. 485 00:18:38,103 --> 00:18:39,206 It's good meeting you. 486 00:18:39,206 --> 00:18:42,448 As a certified elder millennial turned homebody. 487 00:18:42,448 --> 00:18:45,655 I was a bit reluctant to go meet Karen 488 00:18:45,655 --> 00:18:47,344 like in the outside world. 489 00:18:47,344 --> 00:18:49,172 -How did I do? -Great. 490 00:18:49,172 --> 00:18:50,241 -Oh, my God! -Right? 491 00:18:50,241 --> 00:18:51,793 -Yeah, yeah. -Well, it's just for practice. 492 00:18:51,793 --> 00:18:53,482 -Yeah. -I clucked the wedding ring. 493 00:18:53,482 --> 00:18:56,000 -Right away. -Right, right. I saw that later on. That was cool. 494 00:18:56,000 --> 00:18:57,137 -So I just-- -You were great! 495 00:18:57,137 --> 00:18:58,172 -Was I? -Yeah. 496 00:18:58,172 --> 00:18:59,241 -Okay. -You asked good questions. 497 00:18:59,241 --> 00:19:00,862 -Yeah. -You're engaging. Yeah. 498 00:19:00,862 --> 00:19:03,551 Oh, my matchmaker said I'm supposed to talk about, 499 00:19:03,551 --> 00:19:05,793 -you know, easy stuff, like, dogs. -Okay. 500 00:19:05,793 --> 00:19:08,000 I think that, Alessandra the Matchmaker. 501 00:19:08,000 --> 00:19:11,896 She was on to something because it turns out that there are friendly men. 502 00:19:11,896 --> 00:19:13,482 Outside of the house. 503 00:19:14,068 --> 00:19:14,896 [Hunter] Diet coke. 504 00:19:14,896 --> 00:19:15,896 Thank you. 505 00:19:15,896 --> 00:19:17,344 [Hunter] Half whiskey. 506 00:19:17,344 --> 00:19:18,344 -[Karen] Half-- -No it's not. 507 00:19:18,344 --> 00:19:19,482 [Hunter chuckles] 508 00:19:20,482 --> 00:19:21,862 -What's up? Hey. -Hey, 509 00:19:21,862 --> 00:19:23,344 [kissing] 510 00:19:23,344 --> 00:19:24,034 [Hunter] So what's going on? 511 00:19:24,034 --> 00:19:25,862 Okay, so nobody freak out. 512 00:19:25,862 --> 00:19:29,172 Oh, no. Please, let me. Let me take a sip. 513 00:19:29,172 --> 00:19:31,000 I love the start of this. Yes. Keep going. 514 00:19:31,000 --> 00:19:33,310 I may... 515 00:19:34,896 --> 00:19:36,275 ...have met someone. 516 00:19:36,275 --> 00:19:37,689 -Really? -[Whitney] Yeah. 517 00:19:37,689 --> 00:19:38,758 -[Hunter] Okay. Well... -[Whitney] Yeah. 518 00:19:38,758 --> 00:19:40,137 Deets. Let's go. 519 00:19:40,137 --> 00:19:42,482 Okay, so it's only been 24 hr. But mark my words. 520 00:19:42,482 --> 00:19:45,965 This could literally be the man I will marry. 521 00:19:45,965 --> 00:19:47,689 -I know I sound insane. -[Hunter] I know. 522 00:19:47,689 --> 00:19:50,379 -But I was on social media... -[Hunter] Yeah. 523 00:19:50,379 --> 00:19:52,034 [Whitney] ...mindlessly scrolling at like 04:00 in the morning. 524 00:19:52,034 --> 00:19:54,379 And I see this account pop up, and I was like, "Who [bleep] is this?" 525 00:19:54,379 --> 00:19:56,172 -Uh-huh. -[Whitney] I watched like two videos. 526 00:19:56,172 --> 00:19:58,896 -Mmm-hmm -And I was like, "Whitney, this is your time." 527 00:19:58,896 --> 00:20:00,379 So I DM'd him. 528 00:20:00,379 --> 00:20:01,379 You slid in. 529 00:20:01,379 --> 00:20:02,965 -[Whitney] I slid... -You slid in the DM. 530 00:20:02,965 --> 00:20:05,000 I greased my body up. 531 00:20:05,000 --> 00:20:08,137 -And I just slid right on in. -[Hunter laughs] Okay. 532 00:20:08,137 --> 00:20:09,689 And I just said, 533 00:20:10,896 --> 00:20:12,586 "Do you need a wife or not?" 534 00:20:12,793 --> 00:20:13,896 [giggling] 535 00:20:13,896 --> 00:20:15,379 I love that. 536 00:20:15,379 --> 00:20:17,103 [Whitney] I was scrolling through social media the other day, 537 00:20:17,103 --> 00:20:19,965 and I happened upon this video of this guy 538 00:20:19,965 --> 00:20:22,551 doing extreme sports all over the Internet. 539 00:20:22,551 --> 00:20:23,896 And I was so impressed, 540 00:20:23,896 --> 00:20:25,620 I asked him if he needed a wife. 541 00:20:26,482 --> 00:20:27,620 Or not. [chuckles softly] 542 00:20:29,000 --> 00:20:30,068 He responded immediately. 543 00:20:30,068 --> 00:20:32,344 So before I knew it, 544 00:20:32,344 --> 00:20:36,379 we were texting all night and I'm insane. 545 00:20:36,379 --> 00:20:39,310 But for the first time since Avi 546 00:20:39,896 --> 00:20:41,931 I had that feeling of like... 547 00:20:42,655 --> 00:20:44,172 am I gonna marry this man? 548 00:20:44,965 --> 00:20:45,793 I know that sounds insane, 549 00:20:45,793 --> 00:20:47,551 but you also know we all do it. 550 00:20:47,551 --> 00:20:48,551 Everyone does it. 551 00:20:48,551 --> 00:20:50,241 We all have that feeling sometimes. 552 00:20:50,586 --> 00:20:51,689 What was his response? 553 00:20:51,689 --> 00:20:53,827 His resp-- I'll let you read it. 554 00:20:55,103 --> 00:20:56,172 I'm-- I'm-- Hold on. 555 00:20:56,172 --> 00:20:57,482 Wait. Karen, you read me? 556 00:20:57,482 --> 00:20:58,689 You read-- You read him. 557 00:20:58,689 --> 00:20:59,482 -We're gonna-- -All right. 558 00:20:59,482 --> 00:21:00,413 -Okay. -We're gonna do a scene. 559 00:21:00,413 --> 00:21:01,586 [Karen] "Do you need a wife or not?" 560 00:21:01,586 --> 00:21:03,586 "I was pretty sure we were already married." 561 00:21:03,586 --> 00:21:04,586 "Who's the actor here? 562 00:21:04,586 --> 00:21:06,379 In your dreams, yes. 563 00:21:06,379 --> 00:21:07,896 But I'm talking about reality." 564 00:21:07,896 --> 00:21:10,689 [Hunter reading] 565 00:21:14,448 --> 00:21:15,827 [Karen reading] 566 00:21:16,586 --> 00:21:18,482 I'm not [bleep] around. 567 00:21:18,482 --> 00:21:19,275 No, you're not. 568 00:21:19,275 --> 00:21:20,896 So then I give him my number. 569 00:21:20,896 --> 00:21:22,000 Wait. Can I see a picture? 570 00:21:22,000 --> 00:21:23,103 [Whitney] Yes. 571 00:21:23,103 --> 00:21:24,586 He is living it. 572 00:21:24,586 --> 00:21:26,379 He is doing it. 573 00:21:26,379 --> 00:21:28,000 So wait-- wait for more. 574 00:21:29,379 --> 00:21:31,000 [snow crunching] 575 00:21:31,862 --> 00:21:33,206 [Hunter] Wow. 576 00:21:33,206 --> 00:21:34,482 -[Whitney] I'll tell you what this is. -[Hunter] Yeah. 577 00:21:34,482 --> 00:21:36,965 [Whitney] This is fat excellence in motion. 578 00:21:36,965 --> 00:21:38,896 It is that 1000%. [chuckles] 579 00:21:38,896 --> 00:21:42,172 This man is living his best life. 580 00:21:42,172 --> 00:21:43,172 Absolutely. 581 00:21:43,172 --> 00:21:46,000 I really have just caught a vibe and, like 582 00:21:46,000 --> 00:21:48,655 I love that he's large and in charge 583 00:21:48,655 --> 00:21:51,034 and just like living his life out loud. 584 00:21:51,034 --> 00:21:53,137 Just being like a general bad ass 585 00:21:53,137 --> 00:21:55,172 like that really is attractive to me. 586 00:21:55,172 --> 00:21:58,000 And I hope that no one else snags him. 587 00:21:58,000 --> 00:21:59,482 Before I get back from Spain. 588 00:21:59,896 --> 00:22:01,034 [Whitney speaking] 589 00:22:01,034 --> 00:22:02,172 Yeah. 590 00:22:02,172 --> 00:22:05,517 Have you told dad that you're taking next steps? 591 00:22:06,172 --> 00:22:08,000 -Next steps? -With Karen. 592 00:22:08,000 --> 00:22:10,275 -Getting married? -Mmm-hmm 593 00:22:10,275 --> 00:22:12,758 We're a long term thing. We have long term goals. 594 00:22:12,758 --> 00:22:13,896 -But we're-- -But do they include marriage? 595 00:22:13,896 --> 00:22:15,793 We both look at each other and... 596 00:22:15,793 --> 00:22:17,137 You know, we love each other, 597 00:22:17,137 --> 00:22:20,793 and we're in this for ever in the long haul. 598 00:22:20,793 --> 00:22:23,000 But, you know, uh-- I mean, like, I get it. 599 00:22:23,000 --> 00:22:27,551 I understand he's excited and whatever. 600 00:22:27,551 --> 00:22:30,965 But you know, I'm driving this bus. 601 00:22:30,965 --> 00:22:31,862 You know what I mean? Like... 602 00:22:31,862 --> 00:22:33,103 Right. 603 00:22:33,103 --> 00:22:35,551 Glenn Thore, he is gonna need to pump the brakes 604 00:22:35,551 --> 00:22:37,448 because I think that Hunter does know better 605 00:22:37,448 --> 00:22:39,241 than to steal my 40th birthday thunder 606 00:22:39,241 --> 00:22:41,758 and turn the Spain trip into an engagement trip. 607 00:22:41,758 --> 00:22:44,689 So everybody just slow down. 608 00:22:44,689 --> 00:22:46,793 I'm trying to get this man so I can help... 609 00:22:46,793 --> 00:22:48,172 -Is this the-- -...shoulder of the burden? 610 00:22:48,172 --> 00:22:49,862 Is this the end of days? 611 00:22:49,862 --> 00:22:50,965 -Yeah. -Is that what's happening? 612 00:22:50,965 --> 00:22:52,241 Is the apocalypse upon us? 613 00:22:52,241 --> 00:22:54,344 Well, if I've done almost found me a man, then probably. 614 00:22:54,344 --> 00:22:55,689 [laughs] 615 00:22:55,689 --> 00:22:57,896 I say, I recently decided 616 00:22:57,896 --> 00:22:59,137 to do something different with counselling. 617 00:22:59,137 --> 00:23:00,896 -Oh! -I decided I'm going to do 618 00:23:00,896 --> 00:23:03,103 an intensive outpatient program. 619 00:23:03,103 --> 00:23:04,793 -Really? -Yeah. 620 00:23:04,793 --> 00:23:06,862 I was starting to have really dark, 621 00:23:06,862 --> 00:23:08,172 hopeless thoughts. 622 00:23:08,172 --> 00:23:09,793 Wow. 623 00:23:09,793 --> 00:23:11,172 I didn't know it was that bad. 624 00:23:11,172 --> 00:23:12,793 -Yeah. -I'm so sorry. 625 00:23:12,793 --> 00:23:14,000 Thank you. 626 00:23:20,000 --> 00:23:21,413 [upbeat music playing] 627 00:23:28,758 --> 00:23:30,172 Oh, my God! 628 00:23:30,172 --> 00:23:31,758 Are you on a skateboard? [chuckles] 629 00:23:31,758 --> 00:23:33,206 [Tal] I'm trying. 630 00:23:35,172 --> 00:23:37,275 Spring has a sprung in Greensboro. 631 00:23:37,275 --> 00:23:39,275 So when Tal asked if I wanted to go to the park, 632 00:23:39,275 --> 00:23:40,758 I was totally down. 633 00:23:40,758 --> 00:23:41,862 [Tal] You want to try next? 634 00:23:41,862 --> 00:23:42,862 No. 635 00:23:42,862 --> 00:23:44,275 I thought we were gonna be like walking, 636 00:23:44,275 --> 00:23:47,965 maybe some vigorous sitting and spilling the tea. 637 00:23:47,965 --> 00:23:51,586 And instead, [chuckles softly] I see Tal on a skateboard. 638 00:23:51,586 --> 00:23:53,586 Look at how you're just doing it, Tal. 639 00:23:53,586 --> 00:23:56,344 This would not qualify as doing it. 640 00:23:56,344 --> 00:23:58,000 [both laugh] 641 00:23:58,000 --> 00:24:01,000 [Whitney] You're doing something and it looks good. 642 00:24:01,793 --> 00:24:02,965 -[Tal sputtering] -[Whitney screams] 643 00:24:02,965 --> 00:24:03,862 [both laughing] 644 00:24:03,862 --> 00:24:05,103 [Tal] I was doing it. 645 00:24:05,103 --> 00:24:06,344 Okay. You wanna know the truth 646 00:24:06,344 --> 00:24:07,586 about the skateboard? 647 00:24:07,586 --> 00:24:09,068 Well, there's been some interference from Glenn Thore 648 00:24:09,068 --> 00:24:10,344 What do you mean? 649 00:24:10,344 --> 00:24:11,793 [Tal] Well, he texted me. 650 00:24:11,793 --> 00:24:13,172 Oh, my God! No, he didn't. 651 00:24:13,172 --> 00:24:15,068 -[Tal] Yes, he did. -Stop. 652 00:24:15,068 --> 00:24:17,586 He said, "Tal, Hunter indicated to me 653 00:24:17,586 --> 00:24:19,379 that Whitney saw a guy online 654 00:24:19,379 --> 00:24:21,586 who she thinks is 'really cool.'" 655 00:24:21,586 --> 00:24:22,758 Oh, my God! [laughs] 656 00:24:22,758 --> 00:24:24,000 [Tal] "I did a little research 657 00:24:24,000 --> 00:24:26,689 and saw that he enjoys extreme sports. 658 00:24:26,689 --> 00:24:29,034 Could you take her to learn how to skateboard?" 659 00:24:29,034 --> 00:24:30,172 [Whitney] You're joking. 660 00:24:30,172 --> 00:24:32,482 Apparently, after I went out with Hunter and Karen 661 00:24:32,482 --> 00:24:34,896 to the quarter, it got back to my dad somehow. 662 00:24:34,896 --> 00:24:36,275 That there's a cute guy online 663 00:24:36,275 --> 00:24:38,448 who does like extreme sports. 664 00:24:38,448 --> 00:24:41,379 So now Tal has to learn how to do an "extreme sport" 665 00:24:41,379 --> 00:24:42,896 to teach me how to do an "extreme sport" 666 00:24:42,896 --> 00:24:45,137 so that I can impress this guy who does "extreme sports." 667 00:24:45,137 --> 00:24:47,482 I hate this. This needs to be tightened, don't it? 668 00:24:47,482 --> 00:24:48,655 [squeals] What are these? 669 00:24:48,655 --> 00:24:50,000 Is this plus size? 670 00:24:50,275 --> 00:24:51,103 I hope so. 671 00:24:51,103 --> 00:24:53,965 It's extremely ridiculous. 672 00:24:53,965 --> 00:24:55,655 Wait. Did this fit? 673 00:24:55,655 --> 00:24:56,896 These are too small. 674 00:24:56,896 --> 00:24:58,482 Like a blood pressure cuff. 675 00:24:58,482 --> 00:24:59,379 [giggles] Oh, no. 676 00:24:59,379 --> 00:25:00,482 There you go. 677 00:25:00,482 --> 00:25:01,655 [Whitney] Oh, no, it doesn't work. [laughing] 678 00:25:01,655 --> 00:25:03,586 No. It's not big enough, is it? 679 00:25:03,586 --> 00:25:05,655 Oh, yeah. It's not going to go all the way. 680 00:25:05,655 --> 00:25:06,793 [Tal chuckles] 681 00:25:06,793 --> 00:25:08,068 This is not even safe for me. 682 00:25:08,068 --> 00:25:09,689 Number one, the knee pads, the wrist pads 683 00:25:09,689 --> 00:25:11,275 and the whatevers won't even fit on my body. 684 00:25:11,275 --> 00:25:12,586 So that should tell you something. 685 00:25:12,586 --> 00:25:14,758 [Tal] Just gonna practice standing on it. 686 00:25:14,758 --> 00:25:16,655 [Whitney] Look, you can't-- Tal... 687 00:25:16,655 --> 00:25:18,275 No, Tal it's not right. 688 00:25:18,275 --> 00:25:21,172 Tal, this is not right. 689 00:25:21,172 --> 00:25:23,655 -[Whitney gasps] -[Tal] It's like, sort of like a balance board. 690 00:25:23,655 --> 00:25:25,275 Ow! Ow! Ow, Ow... 691 00:25:25,275 --> 00:25:26,344 Ow, Ow, Ow, Ow... 692 00:25:26,344 --> 00:25:27,862 -You look like a pro. -Okay, hold on, hold on. 693 00:25:27,862 --> 00:25:31,000 No, see, I don't have the right weight distribution. Look at me. 694 00:25:31,000 --> 00:25:33,000 I'm wrong on here. Hold on. 695 00:25:33,000 --> 00:25:34,482 -I'm wrong on here. -Just hold me until you're-- 696 00:25:34,482 --> 00:25:38,482 [gasps] No, no, no, no. No. [laughing] 697 00:25:38,482 --> 00:25:41,068 I just got over my last sprained ankle, 698 00:25:41,068 --> 00:25:43,344 and that just happened from walking over a threshold. 699 00:25:43,344 --> 00:25:45,896 I don't think it's wise. 700 00:25:45,896 --> 00:25:47,862 Uh, for me to be attempting this. 701 00:25:47,862 --> 00:25:49,862 No. [laughs, screams] No. 702 00:25:49,862 --> 00:25:53,689 No! Tal-- Tal don't. Tal, Tal. 703 00:25:53,689 --> 00:25:55,172 -Tal, Tal no! -All right. 704 00:25:55,172 --> 00:25:56,344 Oh, God! Tal. 705 00:25:56,344 --> 00:25:57,965 This is like-- This is like we're dancing. 706 00:25:57,965 --> 00:25:59,620 -Tal, Tal, Tal! -[Tal cackles] 707 00:26:00,172 --> 00:26:01,379 [Whitney screams] 708 00:26:01,379 --> 00:26:02,482 Oh, my God! 709 00:26:02,482 --> 00:26:04,000 No! No, no, no. 710 00:26:04,000 --> 00:26:05,448 No, I'm doing that or you are? 711 00:26:05,448 --> 00:26:07,103 -No, no, no. -[Whitney screams] 712 00:26:07,103 --> 00:26:08,965 I'm-- I'm doing that. 713 00:26:08,965 --> 00:26:10,000 It's too fast. 714 00:26:10,000 --> 00:26:11,241 No! It's too fast. [squealing] 715 00:26:11,241 --> 00:26:12,931 -This is too fast? -No! [laughs] 716 00:26:13,586 --> 00:26:15,482 Ow! Wait! 717 00:26:15,482 --> 00:26:16,620 -[sighs wearily] -We've moved, 718 00:26:16,620 --> 00:26:18,758 -[groans] -You stood up on it and you moved. 719 00:26:18,758 --> 00:26:20,379 [Tal laughing] 720 00:26:20,379 --> 00:26:23,448 -[sighs in relief] -Is that the end of our first lesson? 721 00:26:23,448 --> 00:26:24,896 [Whitney] It's like, no, I already know. 722 00:26:24,896 --> 00:26:26,586 No, we're not breaking ankles today. 723 00:26:26,586 --> 00:26:28,793 I don't care if this man's into extreme sports. 724 00:26:28,793 --> 00:26:32,482 He can take me for who I am or not take me at all. 725 00:26:32,482 --> 00:26:34,965 I appreciate the thought. 726 00:26:34,965 --> 00:26:37,689 Glenn is like, "We have got to get her married." 727 00:26:37,689 --> 00:26:38,793 He's on a mission. 728 00:26:38,793 --> 00:26:40,689 Is that like how his little simple mind works? 729 00:26:40,689 --> 00:26:43,551 Like, if Whitney tells him she went skateboarding? 730 00:26:43,551 --> 00:26:45,344 -[Tal] I think-- -He'll think-- he'll think she's cool. 731 00:26:45,344 --> 00:26:48,758 Who is this man that you were thinking, is "really cool." 732 00:26:48,758 --> 00:26:51,103 Everybody stop. I did say that I might marry him, 733 00:26:51,103 --> 00:26:55,000 but I'm-- I-- I had a-- I had a day to cool down. 734 00:26:55,000 --> 00:26:56,689 The first thing I said to him, though, 735 00:26:56,689 --> 00:26:58,000 was like, "Do you need a wife". 736 00:26:58,000 --> 00:27:00,000 [laughs] Coming in hot! 737 00:27:00,000 --> 00:27:03,103 This is a great example of Whitney being strong willed 738 00:27:03,103 --> 00:27:04,793 in a really great way. 739 00:27:04,793 --> 00:27:06,482 You know, I think we're too old 740 00:27:06,482 --> 00:27:07,793 to play games at this point. 741 00:27:07,793 --> 00:27:10,137 So this new, like bold Whitney, 742 00:27:10,137 --> 00:27:12,000 that's just putting it right out there 743 00:27:12,000 --> 00:27:14,482 and seeing if it sticks, I support it. 744 00:27:14,482 --> 00:27:16,482 I'm impressed that you were bold. 745 00:27:16,482 --> 00:27:17,965 -I really did. -You're taking chances. 746 00:27:17,965 --> 00:27:20,310 I really did. I came right at it. 747 00:27:21,034 --> 00:27:23,379 Oh, my God! [laughing] 748 00:27:23,379 --> 00:27:26,000 [Whitney] I am out here doing the work I really am. 749 00:27:26,000 --> 00:27:27,862 I've been shocked at 750 00:27:27,862 --> 00:27:31,689 my ability to I kind of put myself out there 751 00:27:31,689 --> 00:27:33,586 and make some very loose connections. 752 00:27:33,586 --> 00:27:37,344 That, in general, just gives me hope that there is a life 753 00:27:37,344 --> 00:27:40,034 beyond my French man. 754 00:27:40,034 --> 00:27:41,275 What nice flowers. 755 00:27:41,275 --> 00:27:43,689 This sunshine and blue sky 756 00:27:43,689 --> 00:27:45,172 is doing everything for me today. 757 00:27:45,172 --> 00:27:46,655 Oh, this is magical. 758 00:27:46,655 --> 00:27:47,896 Can I share something with you? 759 00:27:47,896 --> 00:27:49,241 What's that? 760 00:27:49,241 --> 00:27:52,000 I recently decided to do something different with counseling, 761 00:27:52,000 --> 00:27:52,965 Switching jobs? 762 00:27:52,965 --> 00:27:55,137 No, not like professionally. 763 00:27:55,137 --> 00:27:56,344 Like from my own counseling. 764 00:27:56,344 --> 00:27:57,689 -Oh. -[Tal] Yeah. 765 00:27:57,689 --> 00:27:59,655 I need to talk to Whitney 766 00:27:59,655 --> 00:28:01,172 about what I have been going through, 767 00:28:01,172 --> 00:28:03,275 because she knows that I have had a hard time 768 00:28:03,275 --> 00:28:05,758 struggling with depression in the past 769 00:28:05,758 --> 00:28:07,586 and It's not really something 770 00:28:07,586 --> 00:28:11,241 that I feel comfortable talking about so often. 771 00:28:11,241 --> 00:28:16,241 I um, have been going to weekly therapy for a long time now. 772 00:28:16,241 --> 00:28:19,689 -Me too. -And I just feel like the last couple of months 773 00:28:19,689 --> 00:28:22,965 it hasn't really been enough, because I have just 774 00:28:22,965 --> 00:28:24,586 been feeling more and more depressed. 775 00:28:24,586 --> 00:28:25,758 Hmm. 776 00:28:25,758 --> 00:28:28,000 [Tal] I like getting up in the morning. 777 00:28:28,000 --> 00:28:29,793 And just the thought of going to work. 778 00:28:29,793 --> 00:28:31,275 Like half the time I'm, like, sobbing 779 00:28:31,275 --> 00:28:32,551 -before 8:00 a.m. -Hmm. 780 00:28:32,551 --> 00:28:35,655 And just feeling like extremely overwhelmed. 781 00:28:35,655 --> 00:28:38,172 So I decided to take some time away from work. 782 00:28:38,172 --> 00:28:40,862 And I'm going to do an intensive outpatient program. 783 00:28:40,862 --> 00:28:42,172 -Really? -Yeah. 784 00:28:44,241 --> 00:28:45,758 Wow! 785 00:28:45,758 --> 00:28:47,137 I didn't know it was that bad. 786 00:28:47,137 --> 00:28:48,793 -Yeah. -I'm so sorry. 787 00:28:48,793 --> 00:28:50,379 [Tal] Thank you. 788 00:28:50,379 --> 00:28:52,896 I've been putting on a pretty brave face around everybody, 789 00:28:52,896 --> 00:28:57,241 but I've really been struggling pretty badly for months now. 790 00:28:57,241 --> 00:29:00,793 I was starting to have really dark, hopeless thoughts. 791 00:29:00,793 --> 00:29:04,689 And I felt so much relief once I decided 792 00:29:04,689 --> 00:29:07,448 to just invest in my own well-being. 793 00:29:07,448 --> 00:29:09,586 My therapist referred me to the place that I'm going. 794 00:29:09,586 --> 00:29:12,275 It's in Greensboro, and I'm starting soon. 795 00:29:12,275 --> 00:29:13,586 Aw... 796 00:29:13,586 --> 00:29:15,586 -I love you. -I love you. 797 00:29:15,586 --> 00:29:16,896 Thank you. 798 00:29:16,896 --> 00:29:19,172 Tal has a lot on his plate and always has 799 00:29:19,172 --> 00:29:21,448 and really helps other people. 800 00:29:21,448 --> 00:29:23,793 With their mental health constantly. 801 00:29:23,793 --> 00:29:25,586 So it's kind of not surprising to me 802 00:29:25,586 --> 00:29:29,448 that that could become a really heavy load at times. 803 00:29:29,448 --> 00:29:32,241 And I love that he has made this decision. 804 00:29:32,241 --> 00:29:33,689 And really put himself first. 805 00:29:33,689 --> 00:29:35,172 I think it's amazing. 806 00:29:35,172 --> 00:29:37,482 Does that mean that you won't be able to come to Spain or? 807 00:29:37,482 --> 00:29:38,793 I'm going to try to work out both 808 00:29:38,793 --> 00:29:40,793 because I feel like that would be taking care of myself, 809 00:29:40,793 --> 00:29:43,172 'cause I really want to be there with you and with everybody. 810 00:29:43,172 --> 00:29:44,448 -I mean, this is your 40th. -Yeah. 811 00:29:44,448 --> 00:29:45,482 I'm so proud of you. 812 00:29:45,482 --> 00:29:46,965 I'll keep you posted. 813 00:29:46,965 --> 00:29:48,379 Maybe you'll be a new ma-- 814 00:29:48,379 --> 00:29:49,655 Well, I don't want you to be a new man. 815 00:29:49,655 --> 00:29:50,689 I just want you to be you. 816 00:29:50,689 --> 00:29:52,896 -I want to be new in some ways. -Right. 817 00:29:52,896 --> 00:29:54,758 And still keep the parts of me that are good. 818 00:29:54,758 --> 00:29:56,586 Like, I'm never going to be a skateboarder. 819 00:29:56,586 --> 00:29:57,724 -That's okay. [chuckles] -[laughs] 820 00:29:57,724 --> 00:29:59,965 -I might keep practicing. -[Whitney] You should. 821 00:29:59,965 --> 00:30:01,827 -Yeah. Come on. [chuckles] -[Tal] Try to roll. 822 00:30:02,586 --> 00:30:04,034 Look at you change-- Oh, my God! 823 00:30:04,034 --> 00:30:05,448 -[Tal] I was trying to change direction. -Look at you changing 824 00:30:05,448 --> 00:30:06,551 direction, that's so good. 825 00:30:06,551 --> 00:30:08,482 -[Tal] It's not good. -You gotta work. 826 00:30:09,965 --> 00:30:12,172 I found your mother's engagement ring. 827 00:30:12,172 --> 00:30:13,068 Why do you have this? 828 00:30:13,068 --> 00:30:14,379 [Glenn] Just in case Hunter might ask 829 00:30:14,379 --> 00:30:15,965 her to get engaged. 830 00:30:15,965 --> 00:30:17,482 [Whitney] This is my 40th birthday trip. 831 00:30:17,482 --> 00:30:19,068 I'm already in the midst of a midlife crisis, 832 00:30:19,068 --> 00:30:20,758 and if someone else gets engaged 833 00:30:20,758 --> 00:30:22,931 right in front of me, I will lose it. 834 00:30:41,275 --> 00:30:42,724 Oh! 835 00:30:44,000 --> 00:30:45,241 A new outfit. 836 00:30:45,241 --> 00:30:46,965 What do you think about this thing? 837 00:30:46,965 --> 00:30:48,206 Well, I'm the one who bought it, 838 00:30:48,206 --> 00:30:49,931 -so I believe I like it. -[Glenn] Yeah. 839 00:30:49,931 --> 00:30:51,068 [Whitney] Are you getting a haircut? 840 00:30:51,068 --> 00:30:52,137 Are you going wild, man? 841 00:30:52,137 --> 00:30:53,724 [Glenn] I'm going to go to a haircut tomorrow. 842 00:30:53,724 --> 00:30:55,448 [both laughing] 843 00:30:55,448 --> 00:30:58,000 Jessica told me that you did three pull ups today. 844 00:30:58,000 --> 00:31:01,758 Yeah, and she's excited about Spain. 845 00:31:01,758 --> 00:31:03,689 Oh, well... 846 00:31:03,689 --> 00:31:06,310 I meant to tell you, I don't know if Tal is gonna be able to come 847 00:31:06,448 --> 00:31:07,241 Why? 848 00:31:07,241 --> 00:31:09,586 Because he took FMLA from work 849 00:31:09,586 --> 00:31:11,965 and started an inpatient um... 850 00:31:11,965 --> 00:31:14,275 -like mental health treatment program. -Hmm. 851 00:31:14,275 --> 00:31:16,000 -And he was looking forward to it so much. -[Whitney] I know. 852 00:31:16,000 --> 00:31:17,620 He really was. 853 00:31:17,620 --> 00:31:21,620 But I have sent out everybody's flight information and I will have binders. 854 00:31:21,620 --> 00:31:22,379 [Glenn] Well... [clears throat] 855 00:31:22,379 --> 00:31:23,241 -Have you-- -Do you know-- 856 00:31:23,241 --> 00:31:24,551 Do you know our flight number? 857 00:31:24,551 --> 00:31:25,758 No. I mean I-- 858 00:31:25,758 --> 00:31:27,551 Do you know what hotel we're staying in. 859 00:31:27,551 --> 00:31:29,724 Well, I mean, since you've taken over the binder, 860 00:31:29,724 --> 00:31:31,551 I don't have to worry about it. 861 00:31:31,551 --> 00:31:32,448 I know. 862 00:31:32,448 --> 00:31:34,068 I've done everything. 863 00:31:34,068 --> 00:31:37,034 I am always a little bit nervous pre trip 864 00:31:37,034 --> 00:31:40,689 because I am the one that, like, books everything 865 00:31:40,689 --> 00:31:43,068 and plans everything and makes the binder. 866 00:31:43,068 --> 00:31:45,103 You know, I inherited that from Glenn Thore 867 00:31:45,103 --> 00:31:46,344 [chuckles] not too long ago. 868 00:31:46,344 --> 00:31:48,137 And the only scheduling snafu 869 00:31:48,137 --> 00:31:51,000 that I can anticipate with the trip is Tal. 870 00:31:51,000 --> 00:31:54,206 If it turns out that he's not able to come 871 00:31:54,206 --> 00:31:58,034 I'm honestly worried about what that could do to his mental health, 872 00:31:58,034 --> 00:32:03,000 and none of us will be there to like, actively support him. 873 00:32:03,000 --> 00:32:05,172 [Glenn] Well, I found out that you were 874 00:32:05,172 --> 00:32:07,517 skateboarding with Tal. How did that go? 875 00:32:08,344 --> 00:32:09,655 I've got my sources. 876 00:32:09,655 --> 00:32:11,068 Do you think I'm stupid? 877 00:32:11,275 --> 00:32:12,586 [laughing] 878 00:32:12,586 --> 00:32:14,275 I know that you're the one that masterminded it. 879 00:32:14,275 --> 00:32:15,517 [chuckles] 880 00:32:15,517 --> 00:32:17,275 But also see Dad, just because I was talking 881 00:32:17,275 --> 00:32:19,137 to some guy on the Internet who does extreme sports 882 00:32:19,137 --> 00:32:20,206 doesn't mean I have to skateboard. 883 00:32:20,206 --> 00:32:21,344 You know what? I have other things 884 00:32:21,344 --> 00:32:22,689 that I can bring to the table. 885 00:32:22,689 --> 00:32:25,241 Yeah, it's probably not a-- not a good idea. 886 00:32:25,241 --> 00:32:26,310 [Whitney] I don't remember ever feeling 887 00:32:26,310 --> 00:32:27,655 this way about someone immediately, 888 00:32:27,655 --> 00:32:31,068 except for how I felt about Avi. [chuckles softly] 889 00:32:31,068 --> 00:32:32,862 Like, literally before I even met Avi, 890 00:32:32,862 --> 00:32:35,034 I called my mom and said, "Mom, I just met the man I'm gonna marry." 891 00:32:35,034 --> 00:32:36,241 And we all know how that one turned out. 892 00:32:37,551 --> 00:32:38,379 He's right there. 893 00:32:38,379 --> 00:32:39,241 He's right there. 894 00:32:39,241 --> 00:32:41,068 He's right there, outside. 895 00:32:41,068 --> 00:32:42,896 -[Nada] Really? -[Whitney] Holi... [bleep] 896 00:32:42,896 --> 00:32:44,310 Give me the-- Give me the camera he's right there. 897 00:32:44,310 --> 00:32:46,379 I can see him. [bleep] 898 00:32:46,758 --> 00:32:48,137 [bleeping] 899 00:32:49,241 --> 00:32:51,344 You get off first I'm gonna film you. Get out first. 900 00:32:51,724 --> 00:32:53,241 Go. Go! 901 00:32:53,241 --> 00:32:54,379 Shouldn't you say sorry to me? 902 00:32:54,379 --> 00:32:57,275 [Avi] Okay. This isn't cool. This is ridiculous. 903 00:32:57,275 --> 00:32:59,103 [Whitney] You are what's ridiculous. 904 00:32:59,103 --> 00:33:00,896 So you're-- You're still not going to... 905 00:33:00,896 --> 00:33:02,689 -give any explanation -[Whitney] You don't have anything else to say. 906 00:33:02,689 --> 00:33:03,620 [car lock beeps] 907 00:33:03,620 --> 00:33:05,482 Being humiliated it sucks, doesn't it? 908 00:33:05,482 --> 00:33:07,103 [car starting] 909 00:33:11,862 --> 00:33:13,034 [tires screech] 910 00:33:13,827 --> 00:33:15,137 [engine revs] 911 00:33:17,000 --> 00:33:18,793 [Whitney] So maybe it's not a good omen. 912 00:33:18,793 --> 00:33:20,689 But just talking to men 913 00:33:20,689 --> 00:33:24,034 is still something good ultimately. 914 00:33:24,034 --> 00:33:27,655 And I, for one, I am very proud of myself. 915 00:33:27,655 --> 00:33:29,551 [Glenn] Well, have you thought about anything special 916 00:33:29,551 --> 00:33:31,172 for your 40th birthday? 917 00:33:31,172 --> 00:33:34,137 Well, yes. We're going to have a nice dinner. 918 00:33:34,137 --> 00:33:36,000 A flamenco performance. 919 00:33:36,275 --> 00:33:37,586 Go to the beach. 920 00:33:37,586 --> 00:33:39,206 What do you think Hunter ought to get me? 921 00:33:39,448 --> 00:33:40,517 You know... 922 00:33:41,068 --> 00:33:42,137 It's hard to buy for you 923 00:33:42,137 --> 00:33:44,517 because you've got everything that you want. 924 00:33:45,137 --> 00:33:46,241 Well... [scoffing] 925 00:33:46,241 --> 00:33:48,137 -Not everything. -[Glenn] I mean, material things. 926 00:33:48,137 --> 00:33:52,620 I mean, we can't buy you a guy off the Internet. 927 00:33:52,620 --> 00:33:54,172 Well, I wouldn't pay any-- 928 00:33:54,172 --> 00:33:56,551 -any man that would make me pay. I wouldn't want. -[Glenn chuckles] 929 00:33:56,551 --> 00:33:59,551 Well, I am hopeful that you're going to find 930 00:34:00,310 --> 00:34:02,655 somebody that you're, you really like. 931 00:34:02,655 --> 00:34:06,172 For you and Hunter to find you know, your love interest. 932 00:34:06,172 --> 00:34:09,275 And I'd be really happy as you know. 933 00:34:09,275 --> 00:34:11,413 -I know that's all you're living for. -[Glenn chuckles] 934 00:34:11,413 --> 00:34:14,241 Well, I found this. 935 00:34:14,241 --> 00:34:15,896 Your mother's engagement ring. 936 00:34:15,896 --> 00:34:18,344 Dad. This no. Mmm-mmm. 937 00:34:18,344 --> 00:34:19,896 Why do you have this? 938 00:34:19,896 --> 00:34:22,793 [Glenn] Well, just in case Hunter gets to the point, 939 00:34:22,793 --> 00:34:26,000 he might ask her to get married, maybe get engaged. 940 00:34:26,000 --> 00:34:29,034 If he does, then he'll have a ring to give her. 941 00:34:29,034 --> 00:34:31,172 [Whitney] My mother never wore her engagement ring 942 00:34:31,172 --> 00:34:32,482 from my father, actually. 943 00:34:32,482 --> 00:34:33,551 She only wore her wedding bands. 944 00:34:33,551 --> 00:34:36,413 And so, she was always putting this ring aside 945 00:34:36,413 --> 00:34:39,757 for Hunter to give to his future fiancee. 946 00:34:39,757 --> 00:34:41,172 And honestly, 947 00:34:41,172 --> 00:34:43,068 I would totally support Hunter giving it to Karen. 948 00:34:43,068 --> 00:34:44,241 I'm with it. 949 00:34:44,241 --> 00:34:47,068 But not, if that's not what Hunter and Karen want. 950 00:34:47,068 --> 00:34:48,551 Well, you don't think he's gonna 951 00:34:48,551 --> 00:34:50,344 think to take it with him, do you? 952 00:34:50,896 --> 00:34:52,000 [chuckles] 953 00:34:52,000 --> 00:34:54,068 No, and I think that 954 00:34:54,482 --> 00:34:56,241 that's his business 955 00:34:56,551 --> 00:34:58,310 Just being prepared. 956 00:34:58,310 --> 00:34:59,482 [Whitney chuckles] 957 00:34:59,482 --> 00:35:02,413 Karen from the day that we met her at the premiere, 958 00:35:02,413 --> 00:35:05,758 has really fit into our family. 959 00:35:05,758 --> 00:35:08,758 But the most important person in that equation is Hunter, 960 00:35:08,758 --> 00:35:10,931 and it's time to start thinking 961 00:35:10,931 --> 00:35:13,344 about getting engaged, I think 962 00:35:13,344 --> 00:35:16,000 and [chuckles] I don't-- 963 00:35:16,000 --> 00:35:18,931 I'm not sure they're on the same timeline that I am. 964 00:35:18,931 --> 00:35:20,931 But-- But I want-- 965 00:35:20,931 --> 00:35:23,103 I want them to move on to the next level. 966 00:35:24,103 --> 00:35:26,241 I think you need to put that back where you found it. 967 00:35:26,241 --> 00:35:27,241 But wouldn't it be nice 968 00:35:27,241 --> 00:35:29,068 if he said, I wish I had this ring with me. 969 00:35:29,068 --> 00:35:30,551 -And we'd say-- -Dad, I don't think-- 970 00:35:30,551 --> 00:35:31,827 [both chuckle] 971 00:35:31,827 --> 00:35:34,793 -I don't-- -And we'd say, "Well, by the way..." 972 00:35:34,793 --> 00:35:36,000 -We wouldn't say anything. -[Glenn laughing] 973 00:35:36,000 --> 00:35:37,206 We are not part of this. 974 00:35:37,206 --> 00:35:38,068 I'm not part of this. 975 00:35:38,068 --> 00:35:39,862 You're not lumping me in on this. 976 00:35:39,862 --> 00:35:42,000 Let's let's put out the boundaries. 977 00:35:42,000 --> 00:35:43,206 Hunter's allowed to get married, 978 00:35:43,206 --> 00:35:44,689 -but not on my birthday trip. -[Glenn chuckles] Yeah. 979 00:35:44,689 --> 00:35:46,137 Not planning it on this trip. 980 00:35:46,137 --> 00:35:49,275 Dad, you-- You literally are trying to bring an engagement ring. 981 00:35:49,275 --> 00:35:50,206 What do you mean? 982 00:35:50,206 --> 00:35:51,689 You're not planning it on this trip? 983 00:35:51,689 --> 00:35:53,724 Engagement is not getting married. 984 00:35:53,724 --> 00:35:55,482 Can have my 40th birthday, 985 00:35:55,482 --> 00:35:56,965 and Hunter and Karen can get engaged 986 00:35:56,965 --> 00:35:58,655 -at some other juncture of time? -Okay. 987 00:35:59,000 --> 00:35:59,793 [groans] 988 00:35:59,793 --> 00:36:01,172 This is my 40th birthday trip. 989 00:36:01,172 --> 00:36:02,793 I'm already in the midst of a midlife crisis, 990 00:36:02,793 --> 00:36:04,448 and if someone else gets engaged 991 00:36:04,448 --> 00:36:07,379 right in front of me, I will lose it. 992 00:36:07,379 --> 00:36:08,724 I will lose it. 993 00:36:09,827 --> 00:36:12,206 Well, I love the clothes. 994 00:36:12,206 --> 00:36:13,551 Where's the ring box? 995 00:36:13,551 --> 00:36:15,793 I got it in my pocket. I'm going. Put it up. 996 00:36:17,655 --> 00:36:19,586 -You want to see my pics? -Yes, we do. 997 00:36:20,896 --> 00:36:21,965 What's on the lens? 998 00:36:21,965 --> 00:36:22,931 [Whitney] My panties. 999 00:36:22,931 --> 00:36:25,137 [both chuckle] 1000 00:36:25,137 --> 00:36:26,931 [Whitney] The nudes, Lord [bleep] Help me, Lord, 1001 00:36:26,931 --> 00:36:28,793 I don't know where I get the confidence. 1002 00:36:28,793 --> 00:36:31,758 -Oh, my God! -[Whitney] Oh, my gosh! 1003 00:36:31,758 --> 00:36:32,620 But it ain't right. 1004 00:36:32,620 --> 00:36:34,517 [Tal chuckles] God! 1005 00:36:41,413 --> 00:36:43,000 [upbeat music playing] 1006 00:36:46,965 --> 00:36:48,310 -[Tal] Hello! -[door closes] 1007 00:36:49,413 --> 00:36:50,448 Whitney? 1008 00:36:50,931 --> 00:36:53,206 -[Whitney] Yeah? -Hi. 1009 00:36:53,206 --> 00:36:54,172 [Whitney] Hey, Goose. 1010 00:36:54,586 --> 00:36:56,068 Is it uncle Tal? 1011 00:36:56,068 --> 00:36:57,655 [Tal] She was coming to me, and then she went away. 1012 00:36:57,655 --> 00:36:59,241 [Whitney] Oh, she thinks you're gonna throw a toy. 1013 00:36:59,241 --> 00:37:02,344 -[Tal] Oh, I'm so sorry to disappoint you. -[Whitney] Goose-ee! 1014 00:37:02,344 --> 00:37:03,655 I've been working so hard 1015 00:37:03,655 --> 00:37:06,413 on doing my homework for the matchmaker. 1016 00:37:06,413 --> 00:37:08,689 So Tal has come over to help me look through 1017 00:37:08,689 --> 00:37:09,724 some of the proofs 1018 00:37:09,724 --> 00:37:11,310 that the photographer sent me. 1019 00:37:11,310 --> 00:37:13,379 So that I can decide which ones I want her to edit 1020 00:37:13,379 --> 00:37:16,827 and then eventually include them in my matchmaking portfolio. 1021 00:37:16,827 --> 00:37:17,931 -How are you? -Oh, good. 1022 00:37:17,931 --> 00:37:19,344 -How are you? -I'm okay. 1023 00:37:19,344 --> 00:37:20,413 -Good. -Yeah. 1024 00:37:20,413 --> 00:37:22,068 [Whitney] I'm also very eager to catch up 1025 00:37:22,068 --> 00:37:23,724 with Tal to see how he's doing. 1026 00:37:23,724 --> 00:37:25,896 and hopefully lift his spirits a bit. 1027 00:37:25,896 --> 00:37:27,137 I need to cuddle. 1028 00:37:27,137 --> 00:37:28,000 Come here. 1029 00:37:28,000 --> 00:37:29,551 Feeling excited for Spain? 1030 00:37:29,551 --> 00:37:30,172 [Whitney] Yeah. 1031 00:37:30,172 --> 00:37:31,758 I hope I can go to Spain 1032 00:37:31,758 --> 00:37:33,137 because I'm not sure I can take a trip 1033 00:37:33,137 --> 00:37:34,724 while I'm on leave from work 1034 00:37:34,724 --> 00:37:36,379 to do treatment and-- 1035 00:37:36,379 --> 00:37:37,551 [Whitney] I don't know, but I would be shocked. 1036 00:37:37,551 --> 00:37:38,896 if that's going to actually be an issue. 1037 00:37:38,896 --> 00:37:40,758 [Tal] Well, you know me, I'm anxious and I'm a rule follower. 1038 00:37:40,758 --> 00:37:42,620 -That's true. -But I called HR just to be sure, 1039 00:37:42,620 --> 00:37:44,517 -and I'm waiting for them to call me back. -Oh... 1040 00:37:44,517 --> 00:37:46,206 So cross all your fingers and toes. 1041 00:37:46,206 --> 00:37:48,551 Todd, did you know Tal's in the mental health treatment? 1042 00:37:48,551 --> 00:37:49,793 [Todd] Yeah, he's a counselor. 1043 00:37:49,793 --> 00:37:51,310 [Whitney] No, he's an outpatient now. 1044 00:37:51,310 --> 00:37:52,931 [Tal] I don't mean what I do professionally. 1045 00:37:52,931 --> 00:37:54,896 [Whitney] He's taking-- He's taking a sabbatical 1046 00:37:54,896 --> 00:37:56,310 from work and he's in treatment. 1047 00:37:56,310 --> 00:37:57,620 I'm a client. 1048 00:37:57,620 --> 00:37:59,655 And you're finally participating in your own recovery. 1049 00:37:59,655 --> 00:38:01,103 [Whitney laughs hysterically] 1050 00:38:01,103 --> 00:38:03,172 -[Tal chuckles] I'm trying. -It ain't all working. 1051 00:38:03,172 --> 00:38:04,689 That sounds like how long this is going to go. 1052 00:38:05,862 --> 00:38:06,965 That's rich. 1053 00:38:06,965 --> 00:38:08,103 -Okay, well... -[Tal] Wow. 1054 00:38:08,103 --> 00:38:09,689 -...let's take a look. -[Todd laughs] 1055 00:38:09,689 --> 00:38:11,655 Let's pivot. Y'all want to see my pics? 1056 00:38:11,655 --> 00:38:14,275 -[Tal] Yes, we do. -[Whitney] Because Goosey is on her pics. 1057 00:38:14,275 --> 00:38:16,827 [Tal] So these are going to be like for a profile. 1058 00:38:16,827 --> 00:38:18,724 No, these will be for the portfolio. 1059 00:38:18,724 --> 00:38:20,655 I mean, I can use them on my dating profiles. 1060 00:38:21,000 --> 00:38:22,655 [Tal] That is amazing. 1061 00:38:22,655 --> 00:38:25,896 [Whitney] This photo is like for Goose's dating profile, and I'm the prop. 1062 00:38:25,896 --> 00:38:27,000 -You know what I mean? -[Todd] I love 1063 00:38:27,000 --> 00:38:29,000 the silver streaks through her ear hair. 1064 00:38:29,000 --> 00:38:30,241 -[Whitney] Oh. -[Todd] Your hair isn't that good. 1065 00:38:30,241 --> 00:38:33,103 -[Tal] The windblown look... -It is-- It is just enough. 1066 00:38:33,103 --> 00:38:35,551 Just-- Just walking. Just to show people I can walk. 1067 00:38:36,965 --> 00:38:37,931 [Tal] Ooh! 1068 00:38:37,931 --> 00:38:39,275 -I like that one. -Oh, you look just like 1069 00:38:39,275 --> 00:38:40,310 you could be in a magazine. 1070 00:38:40,310 --> 00:38:41,896 -You like that one? -[Tal] I like this one. 1071 00:38:41,896 --> 00:38:43,413 [Todd] That could be in Vogue. 1072 00:38:43,413 --> 00:38:45,310 -You should include that one for sure. -Oh. Okay. 1073 00:38:45,310 --> 00:38:47,517 [Tal] Whitney looks so beautiful, 1074 00:38:47,517 --> 00:38:50,206 and she's like such a good model. 1075 00:38:50,206 --> 00:38:52,551 It's like she is being really bold. 1076 00:38:52,551 --> 00:38:54,931 She's continuing to put herself out there. 1077 00:38:54,931 --> 00:38:58,551 It's just really cool to see and inspiring to me. 1078 00:38:58,551 --> 00:38:59,620 I love that. 1079 00:38:59,620 --> 00:39:01,448 [Todd] You look so tall. You look 5'13". 1080 00:39:01,448 --> 00:39:02,896 [Tal] I think you have a lot to work with. 1081 00:39:02,896 --> 00:39:04,344 -[Todd] Okay. -That's gorgeous. 1082 00:39:04,344 --> 00:39:06,310 -[Whitney] Thank you. -[Tal] That one might be my favorite overall. 1083 00:39:06,310 --> 00:39:07,620 [Todd] You look like high school. 1084 00:39:07,620 --> 00:39:09,931 [Tal] Turning 40, but looking like you did in senior year. 1085 00:39:09,931 --> 00:39:11,758 [Whitney] Oh, I love this one. 1086 00:39:11,758 --> 00:39:13,172 Sensuous as I wanna be. 1087 00:39:13,172 --> 00:39:15,068 [Tal] Mmm-hmm. I like that one. 1088 00:39:15,068 --> 00:39:17,241 -Gorgeous. -[Whitney] I love that one. 1089 00:39:17,241 --> 00:39:18,413 We look at-- So we're looking at 1090 00:39:18,413 --> 00:39:19,965 something off in the distance. 1091 00:39:20,413 --> 00:39:21,758 It's a little mysterious. 1092 00:39:22,448 --> 00:39:23,379 [Tal laughs] 1093 00:39:23,379 --> 00:39:24,689 Oh, God. 1094 00:39:27,379 --> 00:39:28,517 What's on the lens? 1095 00:39:28,517 --> 00:39:29,482 [Whitney] My panties. 1096 00:39:29,482 --> 00:39:30,931 Oh! [laughs] 1097 00:39:33,758 --> 00:39:35,137 Oh, my God! 1098 00:39:35,137 --> 00:39:37,068 -[Whitney] Oh, my gosh! -[Tal] Aww! 1099 00:39:37,068 --> 00:39:39,413 [Whitney] The nudes! Lord, help me! Lord, I... 1100 00:39:41,413 --> 00:39:43,827 I don't know where I get the confidence. 1101 00:39:43,827 --> 00:39:46,137 -[Todd] There's a crevasse. -[Whitney laughs hysterically] 1102 00:39:46,137 --> 00:39:47,517 [Todd] There's a crevasse and then a crevice. 1103 00:39:47,517 --> 00:39:48,517 [Whitney continues laughs hysterically] 1104 00:39:48,517 --> 00:39:49,620 But it ain't right. 1105 00:39:50,206 --> 00:39:51,379 [Todd speaking] 1106 00:39:52,586 --> 00:39:53,344 [Whitney] I'm already-- I'm already-- 1107 00:39:53,344 --> 00:39:54,931 Look, look, don't blame me. 1108 00:39:54,931 --> 00:39:57,344 I'm already in Spain. Look, let's do it right now. 1109 00:39:57,344 --> 00:39:59,344 So I'm in travel mode. Marbella... 1110 00:39:59,344 --> 00:40:01,310 [clicks tongue] 1111 00:40:01,310 --> 00:40:03,137 [Tal] So you've gotten a lot of matches over there so far? 1112 00:40:03,137 --> 00:40:04,241 [Whitney] Oh, yeah. 1113 00:40:04,241 --> 00:40:06,517 Between reaching out to men in the real world 1114 00:40:06,517 --> 00:40:08,586 and crushing my matchmaking homework 1115 00:40:08,586 --> 00:40:10,586 and how good these photos turned out, 1116 00:40:10,586 --> 00:40:12,413 the nude ones, especially. 1117 00:40:12,413 --> 00:40:14,137 I am really feeling myself, 1118 00:40:14,137 --> 00:40:16,896 and I may not be going to Spain for a long time, 1119 00:40:16,896 --> 00:40:19,448 but I will be going for a good time. 1120 00:40:19,448 --> 00:40:20,827 Um, David 1121 00:40:21,689 --> 00:40:23,827 -[Whitney] Oh! -[Todd] Oh, it's a video. 1122 00:40:23,827 --> 00:40:25,172 [Whitney] While I'm not on the apps. 1123 00:40:25,172 --> 00:40:27,793 Like looking for a new relationship, 1124 00:40:27,793 --> 00:40:31,103 I can look for something to spice up my 40th birthday. 1125 00:40:31,103 --> 00:40:34,103 I mean, I've been eating American Franks my whole life. 1126 00:40:34,103 --> 00:40:37,724 What is wrong with a little Spanish salchichon? 1127 00:40:37,724 --> 00:40:39,068 -[phone ringing] -HR is calling me back. 1128 00:40:39,068 --> 00:40:40,448 -[Whitney] Oh, it's HR? -Yeah. 1129 00:40:40,448 --> 00:40:42,620 Oh, do you need to go slip away? 1130 00:40:42,620 --> 00:40:44,310 -Uh... -Well, let's find out. 1131 00:40:47,655 --> 00:40:48,379 [Tal] Hello? 1132 00:40:48,379 --> 00:40:50,448 [Whitney whispers] Oh, God. 1133 00:40:50,448 --> 00:40:52,206 -[door creaks] -[Tal] Hello. 1134 00:40:52,206 --> 00:40:53,896 [Whitney speaking] 1135 00:40:53,896 --> 00:40:56,000 [Todd] Why has he got-- Why has he gone to talk to them for. 1136 00:40:56,000 --> 00:40:57,724 -Is that about Spain. -Yeah 1137 00:40:57,724 --> 00:41:00,068 [Tal] This has been uh, a big deal for me 1138 00:41:00,068 --> 00:41:01,413 to get to take this time, 1139 00:41:01,413 --> 00:41:03,344 so I wanted to make sure everything was on the up and up. 1140 00:41:03,344 --> 00:41:06,103 So I really appreciate you checking that out. 1141 00:41:06,103 --> 00:41:09,034 I don't want to do anything to compromise my job, 1142 00:41:09,034 --> 00:41:10,689 and at the same time 1143 00:41:10,689 --> 00:41:13,275 I would be devastated if I didn't get to go. 1144 00:41:13,275 --> 00:41:14,827 I mean, this isn't just any trip. 1145 00:41:14,827 --> 00:41:15,965 It's Whitney's 40th, 1146 00:41:15,965 --> 00:41:18,206 so I'm just hoping and praying. 1147 00:41:18,206 --> 00:41:21,655 And crossing everything I've got that this works out. 1148 00:41:23,275 --> 00:41:24,758 Well, I'd be worried for his mental health 1149 00:41:24,758 --> 00:41:28,137 if we all get to go on a trip and he gets left behind. 1150 00:41:28,137 --> 00:41:29,517 I struggle with my mental health, 1151 00:41:29,517 --> 00:41:32,586 and I know that traveling, reconnecting, 1152 00:41:32,586 --> 00:41:35,344 relaxing, I'm having new and novel experiences. 1153 00:41:35,344 --> 00:41:37,310 Like I'm never happier than when I travel. 1154 00:41:37,310 --> 00:41:39,275 But I mean, I think it would be good for him. 1155 00:41:39,275 --> 00:41:42,862 And he was so excited about it when I told him so. 1156 00:41:42,862 --> 00:41:45,379 I-- [sighs] I do hope there's a way 1157 00:41:45,379 --> 00:41:48,344 that he can still come on my birthday trip to Spain. 1158 00:41:48,344 --> 00:41:51,586 and also I just-- I feel anxious 1159 00:41:51,586 --> 00:41:53,620 about being far away from him. 1160 00:41:53,620 --> 00:41:55,379 During this time, personally. 1161 00:41:57,793 --> 00:41:59,862 [singing in Spanish] 1162 00:42:01,034 --> 00:42:03,448 [Whitney] Next time on My Big Fat Fabulous Life... 1163 00:42:04,379 --> 00:42:05,689 [whooping] 1164 00:42:07,758 --> 00:42:08,827 [all cheering] 1165 00:42:08,827 --> 00:42:10,793 Have you been talking to anybody 1166 00:42:10,793 --> 00:42:12,310 -on apps-- -[Whitney squeals] I want to message somebody. 1167 00:42:12,310 --> 00:42:14,103 -Wait, I liked one. -[overlapping conversation] 1168 00:42:14,103 --> 00:42:16,103 -[Jessica] Oh, he looks nice. -[Whitney] I'm going for it. 1169 00:42:16,103 --> 00:42:17,103 If I could snag, 1170 00:42:17,103 --> 00:42:19,482 like even one date for my birthday trip, 1171 00:42:19,482 --> 00:42:21,103 things would be really looking up. 1172 00:42:21,103 --> 00:42:22,310 You're just really putting up there. 1173 00:42:22,310 --> 00:42:23,862 Well, what else am I supposed to do to reach out? 1174 00:42:23,862 --> 00:42:25,482 [man] If we're gonna do a nude beach... 1175 00:42:25,482 --> 00:42:27,758 -[screams] -...we're gonna be nude at the beach. 1176 00:42:27,758 --> 00:42:29,758 [bleep] 1177 00:42:29,758 --> 00:42:31,793 I have no idea what the hell he's doing. 1178 00:42:31,793 --> 00:42:34,793 We're on a nude beach. 1179 00:42:34,793 --> 00:42:36,172 [man screaming] 1180 00:42:36,172 --> 00:42:37,310 [laughing]