1 00:00:01,080 --> 00:00:03,280 NARRATOR: Previously... Will you kiss me now? 2 00:00:05,160 --> 00:00:06,920 I can kiss you, 3 00:00:07,040 --> 00:00:10,040 but I'm not too sure if it's going to make you feel something. 4 00:00:10,160 --> 00:00:12,360 ..Rachel's heart shattering rejection. 5 00:00:15,640 --> 00:00:16,960 Mwah. 6 00:00:17,080 --> 00:00:18,800 You're looking so good? Do you like it? 7 00:00:18,920 --> 00:00:19,920 Damn! 8 00:00:20,040 --> 00:00:22,440 Alessandra's Intimacy Week task 9 00:00:22,560 --> 00:00:25,600 took some couples to a whole new level. 10 00:00:25,720 --> 00:00:27,160 Made me feel a bit emotional. 11 00:00:27,280 --> 00:00:30,440 The intimacy of it was a beautiful experience. 12 00:00:31,520 --> 00:00:33,640 Were you bullied? 13 00:00:33,760 --> 00:00:36,400 Has a stranger ever changed your life? 14 00:00:36,520 --> 00:00:39,320 What's your favourite quality about your ex? 15 00:00:39,440 --> 00:00:40,800 While Grayson... 16 00:00:40,920 --> 00:00:43,600 I'm really confused about how you feel about me. 17 00:00:43,720 --> 00:00:44,720 ..and Rebecca... 18 00:00:44,840 --> 00:00:45,960 It's just not for me. 19 00:00:46,080 --> 00:00:48,800 ..were left wanting more from their partners. 20 00:00:48,920 --> 00:00:50,960 He doesn't want to try just for lip service. 21 00:00:51,080 --> 00:00:56,120 ..as Steve declined to participate i Rebecca's ultimate fantasy night. 22 00:00:58,880 --> 00:01:00,040 That's where I'm at. 23 00:01:03,240 --> 00:01:04,440 Tonight... 24 00:01:04,560 --> 00:01:05,960 It was huge for us. 25 00:01:06,080 --> 00:01:09,400 ..Mel and Luke's incredible transformation. 26 00:01:09,520 --> 00:01:11,920 I feel closer with Mel after the task, 27 00:01:12,040 --> 00:01:14,080 because that physical gap between us has kind of been 28 00:01:14,200 --> 00:01:15,080 bridged a little bit. 29 00:01:15,200 --> 00:01:17,560 We have been progressing in the right direction. 30 00:01:18,840 --> 00:01:20,800 I really want to send a clear message to Steven. 31 00:01:20,920 --> 00:01:23,360 Rachel draws her line in the sand. 32 00:01:27,680 --> 00:01:30,080 A tense boy's workshop. 33 00:01:30,200 --> 00:01:32,280 I feel like you're skirting around my questions. 34 00:01:32,400 --> 00:01:33,680 I disagree with you. 35 00:01:38,080 --> 00:01:41,120 Alessandra calls out Steve's behaviour. 36 00:01:41,240 --> 00:01:43,760 The lack of respect that you're showing me is appalling. 37 00:01:43,880 --> 00:01:45,200 Really tread lightly. 38 00:01:45,320 --> 00:01:47,080 I don't take to this well. 39 00:01:47,200 --> 00:01:49,840 And in a shock turn of events, 40 00:01:49,960 --> 00:01:54,880 one bride calls it quits and makes a dramatic exit. 41 00:01:55,000 --> 00:01:57,360 (MUSIC CRESCENDOS) 42 00:02:03,760 --> 00:02:06,000 # # 43 00:02:12,040 --> 00:02:15,800 NARRATOR: After an unfulfilling ultimate fantasy 44 00:02:15,920 --> 00:02:17,880 for one of our couples... 45 00:02:21,560 --> 00:02:24,640 ..the night has taken a hurtful turn. 46 00:02:34,320 --> 00:02:37,160 Just hours after Steve refused to take part in 47 00:02:37,280 --> 00:02:39,280 Rebecca's ultimate fantasy night, 48 00:02:39,400 --> 00:02:41,600 an argument erupted between the two 49 00:02:41,720 --> 00:02:46,480 when Steve accused Rebecca of not being in the experiment for love, 50 00:02:46,600 --> 00:02:49,160 but instead for ulterior motives. 51 00:02:50,520 --> 00:02:52,080 He can - I don't give a (BLEEP). 52 00:02:52,200 --> 00:02:55,440 I feel so let down by him. 53 00:02:55,560 --> 00:02:59,040 And the reality is there's no, like, for me, 54 00:02:59,160 --> 00:03:01,400 there's actually no coming back now. 55 00:03:01,520 --> 00:03:04,720 I made it very clear to Steve that I came 56 00:03:04,840 --> 00:03:07,160 into this experiment for one agenda, 57 00:03:07,280 --> 00:03:11,520 and that was to find love. 58 00:03:14,360 --> 00:03:17,240 So when he started challenging me, saying, 59 00:03:17,360 --> 00:03:19,120 "Oh, so you didn't have an ulterior motive?" 60 00:03:19,240 --> 00:03:21,880 I'm not in my 20s. I don't need to be an influencer. 61 00:03:22,000 --> 00:03:25,480 I don't need free skincare, a free dress. 62 00:03:25,600 --> 00:03:27,000 I can buy my own shit. 63 00:03:29,680 --> 00:03:33,760 I'm sitting here in (BLEEP) tears. 64 00:03:39,880 --> 00:03:42,080 Like, I know I haven't been that true, authentic self, 65 00:03:42,200 --> 00:03:43,720 because I'm so scared of rejection, 66 00:03:43,840 --> 00:03:48,640 and now I'm here to say, seeing him react tonight... 67 00:03:51,080 --> 00:03:55,080 ..and doing that to me - I'm (BLEEP) done. 68 00:04:11,760 --> 00:04:13,440 As a new day breaks, 69 00:04:13,560 --> 00:04:15,560 a solo Steve is still reeling 70 00:04:15,680 --> 00:04:18,840 after last night's altercation with Rebecca. 71 00:04:24,440 --> 00:04:26,160 What happened last night? Um... 72 00:04:28,320 --> 00:04:31,200 We just had an argument. We just had a falling out, again. 73 00:04:32,240 --> 00:04:33,360 At this point in time, 74 00:04:33,480 --> 00:04:35,560 I don't think I'm doing a lot wrong, to be honest. 75 00:04:36,600 --> 00:04:38,520 I was sort of calling out a few things, 76 00:04:38,640 --> 00:04:40,760 and Rebecca...mm... 77 00:04:40,880 --> 00:04:42,480 Rebecca can be quite obnoxious. 78 00:04:42,600 --> 00:04:44,800 And I said, just calm down. 79 00:04:44,920 --> 00:04:47,960 And unfortunately, that didn't go down well either. 80 00:04:48,080 --> 00:04:50,480 And Rebecca has very high emotions and very low emotions, 81 00:04:50,600 --> 00:04:52,160 so they're getting a bit tricky to deal with. 82 00:04:52,280 --> 00:04:55,200 And, you know, it's becoming a daily occurrence 83 00:04:55,320 --> 00:04:57,680 and I'm probably a little bit tired from it. 84 00:04:57,800 --> 00:05:01,800 Each and every day it seems Rebecca's struggling, 85 00:05:01,920 --> 00:05:04,680 and now I'm struggling with Rebecca. 86 00:05:04,800 --> 00:05:08,720 Rebecca's just highly emotional and loud and rude 87 00:05:08,840 --> 00:05:11,120 and quite crude as well. 88 00:05:11,240 --> 00:05:14,400 And the emotions from Rebecca are so high and low. 89 00:05:14,520 --> 00:05:15,840 It's worn me down. 90 00:05:17,480 --> 00:05:18,520 It's just been a lot. 91 00:05:18,640 --> 00:05:21,200 Rebecca's just a lot in general. 92 00:05:21,320 --> 00:05:22,800 It's just... 93 00:05:22,920 --> 00:05:28,600 Yeah, it's, uh, it's too much for me at the moment. 94 00:05:28,720 --> 00:05:31,640 Before this happened last night I went into 95 00:05:31,760 --> 00:05:34,200 intimacy week thinking I'll try to work through it, 96 00:05:34,320 --> 00:05:36,520 but I've definitely withdrawn again. 97 00:05:36,640 --> 00:05:38,280 So what do you do with that going into this? 98 00:05:38,400 --> 00:05:42,800 Yeah, it's an interesting intimacy workshop today, mm. 99 00:05:51,520 --> 00:05:53,120 For the rest of our couples, 100 00:05:53,240 --> 00:05:57,400 Intimacy Week is in full swing and already working wonders, 101 00:05:57,520 --> 00:06:00,040 after Alessandra challenged the brides 102 00:06:00,160 --> 00:06:03,520 to create their ultimate fantasy nights. 103 00:06:03,640 --> 00:06:05,320 The Ultimate Fantasy Night 104 00:06:05,440 --> 00:06:08,360 was designed to help our brides feel empowered 105 00:06:08,480 --> 00:06:12,080 and show their partner what it is they desire in a relationship 106 00:06:12,200 --> 00:06:15,080 in order to form a stronger connection. 107 00:06:16,800 --> 00:06:20,920 I will also hold a men's workshop. OK. 108 00:06:21,040 --> 00:06:23,280 So I can hear if the husbands rose to the occasion 109 00:06:23,400 --> 00:06:27,280 and this year I'll be setting them a task of their own. 110 00:06:27,400 --> 00:06:31,520 This morning, the couples are still basking in the afterglow 111 00:06:31,640 --> 00:06:33,440 of last night's fantasies. 112 00:06:33,560 --> 00:06:36,080 I don't know what else Alessandra wants from me. 113 00:06:36,200 --> 00:06:37,480 I got my ultimate fantasy, 114 00:06:37,600 --> 00:06:40,520 home cooked meal, and a smoking hot wife. 115 00:06:40,640 --> 00:06:41,680 (LAUGHTER) 116 00:06:41,800 --> 00:06:46,080 Before the grooms depart for their turn at Alessandra's workshop. 117 00:06:46,200 --> 00:06:48,320 How are you feeling today? You got your workshop? 118 00:06:48,440 --> 00:06:49,360 I know. 119 00:06:49,480 --> 00:06:50,720 I don't know what the guys will been doing 120 00:06:50,840 --> 00:06:52,320 because they don't dress in lingerie. 121 00:06:52,440 --> 00:06:54,480 I felt good last night. We had a laugh. 122 00:06:54,600 --> 00:06:55,560 We had a giggle. 123 00:06:55,680 --> 00:06:58,640 I must confess, I've never given a girl a foot rub before. 124 00:06:58,760 --> 00:07:00,400 Feel nice? 125 00:07:00,520 --> 00:07:02,120 It felt different not being in control 126 00:07:02,240 --> 00:07:04,200 because I'm just not used to being dominated. 127 00:07:05,480 --> 00:07:07,280 Get in, get in. 128 00:07:07,400 --> 00:07:10,320 But if she likes it, I'm happy to compromise. 129 00:07:10,440 --> 00:07:11,880 You know, happy wife, happy life, they say. 130 00:07:13,000 --> 00:07:15,920 Despite currently living in separate apartments 131 00:07:16,040 --> 00:07:19,160 after a rocky start to their relationship, 132 00:07:19,280 --> 00:07:20,360 for Mel and Luke, 133 00:07:20,480 --> 00:07:23,840 Intimacy Week seems to have brought about a turning point. 134 00:07:23,960 --> 00:07:25,160 Hello. How are you going? 135 00:07:25,280 --> 00:07:27,480 Come in. Thank you. How'd you sleep? 136 00:07:27,600 --> 00:07:29,960 Good, how about you? Really good. 137 00:07:30,080 --> 00:07:33,440 The mood between Luke and I is so much better. 138 00:07:33,560 --> 00:07:35,360 Holey Moley was good. Yeah. 139 00:07:35,480 --> 00:07:37,400 This time last week, when we were looking at each other, 140 00:07:37,520 --> 00:07:40,000 being like, I can't even look at you in the eyes. 141 00:07:40,120 --> 00:07:42,920 It was unfortunate that I won. Yeah. 142 00:07:43,040 --> 00:07:44,520 And it was even more unfortunate that 143 00:07:44,640 --> 00:07:46,280 I was such a sore loser. 144 00:07:46,400 --> 00:07:48,600 Now we're actually talking to each other 145 00:07:48,720 --> 00:07:52,040 like we're actual human beings that like each other. 146 00:07:52,160 --> 00:07:53,320 Getting ready for the boys? Yeah. 147 00:07:53,440 --> 00:07:54,880 Getting ready for boys day. Nice fit. 148 00:07:55,000 --> 00:07:56,160 Do you reckon? Yeah. 149 00:07:56,280 --> 00:07:59,240 Vibes between me and Mel are positive. 150 00:07:59,360 --> 00:08:00,560 Yeah. 151 00:08:00,680 --> 00:08:02,800 It definitely feels a lot more chill around Mel now. 152 00:08:02,920 --> 00:08:05,880 Like, I feel like for the first time that I'm getting Mel, 153 00:08:06,000 --> 00:08:07,120 like, the proper Mel. 154 00:08:07,240 --> 00:08:09,040 Oh, my god. 155 00:08:09,160 --> 00:08:11,120 Obviously, we're still finding our feet with everything, 156 00:08:11,240 --> 00:08:13,000 but we're keeping it pretty light, and it's been - 157 00:08:13,120 --> 00:08:14,200 yeah, it's been nice. 158 00:08:14,320 --> 00:08:15,280 I think we go back there. 159 00:08:15,400 --> 00:08:16,560 Same. Yeah. 160 00:08:18,640 --> 00:08:21,480 Last night could have been our cutest moment, to be fair. 161 00:08:21,600 --> 00:08:24,000 It was the cutest moment ever. 162 00:08:24,120 --> 00:08:27,960 Last night was the best night in the whole experiment for me. 163 00:08:29,520 --> 00:08:30,800 You OK, babe? 164 00:08:31,880 --> 00:08:33,280 It's actually quite relaxing. 165 00:08:35,120 --> 00:08:36,400 I like it. Yeah? 166 00:08:36,520 --> 00:08:40,480 It was just so romantic without being overtly sexual 167 00:08:40,600 --> 00:08:42,880 and it just worked for us. 168 00:08:43,000 --> 00:08:43,960 It was incredible. 169 00:08:45,360 --> 00:08:47,000 It was so good. 170 00:08:47,120 --> 00:08:49,320 I feel like a fantasy night, 171 00:08:49,440 --> 00:08:52,040 you could have done so much cliche shit. 172 00:08:52,160 --> 00:08:54,240 I couldn't bring out the whips and chains, babes. 173 00:08:54,360 --> 00:08:55,880 Save that for later. 174 00:08:56,000 --> 00:08:58,000 But what I'm saying is that it was actually something 175 00:08:58,120 --> 00:08:59,280 I've never done before. 176 00:08:59,400 --> 00:09:01,360 I actually enjoyed it. Absolutely. 177 00:09:01,480 --> 00:09:02,640 And you didn't - 178 00:09:02,760 --> 00:09:05,720 you took it seriously, which I appreciate. 179 00:09:05,840 --> 00:09:10,440 The experts actually said that I needed to be more vulnerable. 180 00:09:10,560 --> 00:09:12,920 And the task actually allowed me to do that. 181 00:09:13,040 --> 00:09:14,240 Like, I was going to write like, 182 00:09:14,360 --> 00:09:16,800 a joke word on her or just take the piss. 183 00:09:16,920 --> 00:09:19,800 But I didn't because I didn't want to ruin her night. 184 00:09:19,920 --> 00:09:21,440 Jokes might get out of jail free card. 185 00:09:21,560 --> 00:09:23,800 Yeah, it's a defence mechanism at times. 186 00:09:23,920 --> 00:09:28,360 But yesterday, you didn't... you didn't joke around. 187 00:09:28,480 --> 00:09:31,480 You took it seriously, and I appreciate it very much. 188 00:09:31,600 --> 00:09:33,080 No worries. 189 00:09:33,200 --> 00:09:35,720 Every day was sort of seeing different parts 190 00:09:35,840 --> 00:09:38,640 of each other and progressing a little bit more every day. 191 00:09:43,160 --> 00:09:44,600 Uh, yeah, it was good. 192 00:09:44,720 --> 00:09:46,360 Yeah, I enjoyed the night. 193 00:09:46,480 --> 00:09:49,080 Me and Beck are cruising along nicely. 194 00:09:49,200 --> 00:09:50,720 We are intimate again. 195 00:09:50,840 --> 00:09:53,520 So just, um, just relax this morning, you know? 196 00:09:56,360 --> 00:10:00,560 While Beck's fantasies were being well and truly fulfilled last night 197 00:10:00,680 --> 00:10:02,160 across the hall, 198 00:10:02,280 --> 00:10:04,240 it was a different story for Rachel, 199 00:10:04,360 --> 00:10:07,520 who this morning is waking up in a separate apartment, 200 00:10:07,640 --> 00:10:09,600 hurt and confused. 201 00:10:09,720 --> 00:10:12,040 Last night, Steven flat out rejected me. 202 00:10:16,160 --> 00:10:17,560 (READS) 203 00:10:27,280 --> 00:10:28,640 I can kiss you, Rachel. 204 00:10:30,240 --> 00:10:31,280 I can kiss you. 205 00:10:33,160 --> 00:10:36,560 But I'm not too sure if it's going to make you feel something. 206 00:10:38,120 --> 00:10:39,960 (MUSIC STING) 207 00:10:49,080 --> 00:10:50,920 (BLEEP) 208 00:10:51,040 --> 00:10:53,080 I don't (BLEEP) deserve this. 209 00:10:58,240 --> 00:10:59,240 (SOBBING) 210 00:10:59,360 --> 00:11:01,440 I left really upset. I was absolutely devastated. 211 00:11:02,880 --> 00:11:06,120 But this morning, after reflecting on it 212 00:11:06,240 --> 00:11:07,800 I'm kind of through the sad part of it, 213 00:11:07,920 --> 00:11:09,240 and I'm getting into the anger of it, 214 00:11:09,360 --> 00:11:11,120 because I am so confused. 215 00:11:12,680 --> 00:11:16,200 At the commitment ceremony, Steven led myself, 216 00:11:16,320 --> 00:11:19,440 the experts and this entire group to believe 217 00:11:19,560 --> 00:11:21,040 that he felt something for me. 218 00:11:21,160 --> 00:11:23,240 And that's why he put stay. 219 00:11:23,360 --> 00:11:25,640 And now you're telling me that he doesn't feel something? 220 00:11:27,080 --> 00:11:28,720 It's confusing as (BLEEP). 221 00:11:29,760 --> 00:11:31,320 So this morning, 222 00:11:31,440 --> 00:11:34,280 I really want to send a clear message to Steven. 223 00:11:34,400 --> 00:11:36,960 I want to let him know how much I have actually done 224 00:11:37,080 --> 00:11:38,800 and how much I've tried. 225 00:11:38,920 --> 00:11:40,960 That's why I will not be moving back into the apartment. 226 00:11:42,160 --> 00:11:44,920 I will be staying put, but on top of that, 227 00:11:45,040 --> 00:11:47,000 I will be taking all of my stuff. 228 00:11:49,000 --> 00:11:50,400 Hey. How are you? 229 00:11:50,520 --> 00:11:52,200 Good. Happy birthday. 230 00:11:53,800 --> 00:11:56,920 Yeah, um, OK. 231 00:11:57,040 --> 00:11:59,040 Everything that I've added to the apartment 232 00:11:59,160 --> 00:12:01,640 to make it more comfortable and liveable for us. 233 00:12:01,760 --> 00:12:02,920 I'm going to take it away. 234 00:12:09,440 --> 00:12:12,080 (RACHEL MUTTERS) 235 00:12:12,200 --> 00:12:13,440 Rachel's feeling very hurt. 236 00:12:15,320 --> 00:12:17,800 I'm guessing doesn't want to see me at the moment. 237 00:12:17,920 --> 00:12:19,240 She needs a bit of space, I believe. 238 00:12:19,360 --> 00:12:21,360 And, yeah, it's not a good... it's not a good sign. 239 00:12:24,800 --> 00:12:26,880 But I feel like a piece of shit last night, 240 00:12:27,000 --> 00:12:29,840 when I read those lines, my heart turned to ice. 241 00:12:29,960 --> 00:12:31,920 Um...(SIGHS) 242 00:12:32,040 --> 00:12:34,320 However, when it comes to intimacy, 243 00:12:34,440 --> 00:12:36,360 this is something that cannot be forced. 244 00:12:38,520 --> 00:12:42,440 It wasn't right to go in for the kiss and be fake about it. 245 00:12:42,560 --> 00:12:45,560 But now she's so angry it's like 246 00:12:45,680 --> 00:12:48,280 (BLEEP) slamming shit down and running around. 247 00:12:49,560 --> 00:12:51,640 What can I do? 248 00:12:51,760 --> 00:12:52,920 Let me help you pack. 249 00:12:53,040 --> 00:12:55,080 Like I can't say that - she's angry. 250 00:12:55,200 --> 00:12:57,920 So maybe the best time is just to give her a bit of space. 251 00:12:58,040 --> 00:13:00,840 Because I feel like the energy, the body language, 252 00:13:00,960 --> 00:13:02,480 the way she's packing up. 253 00:13:02,600 --> 00:13:03,640 This is not good. 254 00:13:07,040 --> 00:13:09,040 Hey, Rachel. Yeah? 255 00:13:10,920 --> 00:13:12,400 Do you want me to step out for a bit, 256 00:13:12,520 --> 00:13:15,440 so you've got a bit of time to do what you need to do? 257 00:13:15,560 --> 00:13:16,960 Yeah, sure. Would you like that? 258 00:13:17,080 --> 00:13:19,480 If you like. It's up to you. I don't mind. 259 00:13:19,600 --> 00:13:20,760 Would you like to step out for a bit? 260 00:13:20,880 --> 00:13:23,920 Just to give you time and give you space. 261 00:13:24,040 --> 00:13:26,880 So I'm not just sitting there watching you. 262 00:13:27,000 --> 00:13:29,040 Whatever makes you more comfortable, Steven, 263 00:13:29,160 --> 00:13:31,240 if you would like to leave, you can do that. 264 00:13:33,160 --> 00:13:34,280 I'm just here. 265 00:13:34,400 --> 00:13:36,400 Whatever makes you comfortable right now. 266 00:13:41,680 --> 00:13:43,360 Angry. 267 00:13:43,480 --> 00:13:45,360 I'll give you... I'll give you five minutes 268 00:13:45,480 --> 00:13:48,080 so you can have your space, so I'm not watching you, 269 00:13:48,200 --> 00:13:49,640 and over top of you. 270 00:13:49,760 --> 00:13:52,040 No worries. Alright. 271 00:14:00,680 --> 00:14:02,520 Steven, yeah, he feels sorry for himself 272 00:14:02,640 --> 00:14:03,920 as far as I'm concerned. 273 00:14:04,040 --> 00:14:06,600 Like this is all you, babe. 274 00:14:09,280 --> 00:14:11,080 This is no dunny paper down there. 275 00:14:12,200 --> 00:14:13,440 Stock up. 276 00:14:13,560 --> 00:14:14,800 Who knows how long I'll be down there? 277 00:14:14,920 --> 00:14:16,280 Jesus Christ. 278 00:14:16,400 --> 00:14:19,120 Everything that I've done to make this a home... 279 00:14:20,040 --> 00:14:22,360 Taking this. Definitely taking this. 280 00:14:22,480 --> 00:14:24,560 ..I'm going to take that away. 281 00:14:24,680 --> 00:14:27,080 You are responsible for this. 282 00:14:27,200 --> 00:14:29,000 I think it's going to sink in for Steven 283 00:14:29,120 --> 00:14:31,240 when he comes home and goes, holy shit. 284 00:14:31,360 --> 00:14:38,040 Like she actually made this apartment a home for us. 285 00:14:39,360 --> 00:14:41,200 I'm choosing me today. 286 00:14:41,320 --> 00:14:43,560 Oh, geez, I can't drive this thing. 287 00:14:43,680 --> 00:14:45,600 Yeah, I am happy about that choice. 288 00:14:52,040 --> 00:14:55,240 NARRATOR: Alessandra's Ultimate fantasy task is designed to 289 00:14:55,360 --> 00:14:58,040 help our couples open up to each other, 290 00:14:58,160 --> 00:15:00,080 in order to strengthen their relationships. 291 00:15:01,080 --> 00:15:02,960 But after what appeared to be a positive night 292 00:15:03,080 --> 00:15:04,880 for Brook and Chris... 293 00:15:06,160 --> 00:15:07,280 BROOK: Show me yours. 294 00:15:10,720 --> 00:15:11,840 What the hell? Are you...? 295 00:15:11,960 --> 00:15:13,680 That's so good. 296 00:15:15,800 --> 00:15:18,480 Brook revealed in an off camera chat 297 00:15:18,600 --> 00:15:21,880 that she was in fact wanting space from Chris. 298 00:15:22,000 --> 00:15:25,280 Obviously, we did have a little bit of a chat last night, um, 299 00:15:25,400 --> 00:15:26,880 about where I'm at. Mm. 300 00:15:27,000 --> 00:15:30,280 I have to be a little bit selfish, you know, 301 00:15:31,680 --> 00:15:33,280 take a step back. 302 00:15:35,960 --> 00:15:38,000 You know the person I want you to be, 303 00:15:38,120 --> 00:15:40,880 and I can't be holding your hand. Yeah. 304 00:15:41,000 --> 00:15:44,360 You know, with the slip ups and things, it's just... 305 00:15:44,480 --> 00:15:46,280 it's a lot to deal with. Yeah. 306 00:15:46,400 --> 00:15:48,440 Obviously I've had I've had slip ups 307 00:15:48,560 --> 00:15:50,280 and moments through this experiment. 308 00:15:50,400 --> 00:15:52,320 Like my audition video. 309 00:15:52,440 --> 00:15:53,520 OFF CAMERA: What turns you off? 310 00:15:53,640 --> 00:15:55,480 Fake tan, needy, and fat people. 311 00:15:57,920 --> 00:15:59,840 BROOK: I'm (BLEEP) appalled. 312 00:15:59,960 --> 00:16:01,160 After seeing my video, 313 00:16:01,280 --> 00:16:03,000 and she's sort of took a step back and gone, 314 00:16:03,120 --> 00:16:05,000 "Maybe we're both not in the right place." 315 00:16:05,120 --> 00:16:07,360 I think you've got a lot of work to do on yourself. 316 00:16:07,480 --> 00:16:11,520 I've got a lot of work to do on myself, um... 317 00:16:11,640 --> 00:16:13,920 It's not like you're not... you don't not have feelings for me. 318 00:16:14,040 --> 00:16:15,840 It's just you know that it's, um... 319 00:16:16,920 --> 00:16:18,280 Mm. 320 00:16:20,920 --> 00:16:23,040 But for me right now it's... 321 00:16:23,160 --> 00:16:26,200 I just, yeah, I don't know, I just feel like, 322 00:16:28,600 --> 00:16:32,440 I'm not feeling it right now. Yeah. 323 00:16:33,720 --> 00:16:35,440 Yeah. 324 00:16:35,560 --> 00:16:37,760 Like we're here and we're here for each other 325 00:16:37,880 --> 00:16:40,600 and we're sharing a lot of mental and emotional... 326 00:16:40,720 --> 00:16:42,600 I don't know, feelings for each other. 327 00:16:42,720 --> 00:16:46,560 The bond that I share with Brook is powerful. 328 00:16:46,680 --> 00:16:48,360 But as you said, we don't know what's going to happen 329 00:16:48,480 --> 00:16:49,680 going forward. 330 00:16:51,440 --> 00:16:52,440 Yeah. 331 00:16:59,520 --> 00:17:00,880 What do you think? 332 00:17:01,000 --> 00:17:02,200 Yeah, you look nice. 333 00:17:02,320 --> 00:17:04,800 Mwah. Alright, I'll see you soon. 334 00:17:04,920 --> 00:17:06,440 Bye, have fun. 335 00:17:06,560 --> 00:17:09,560 The grooms are off to Alessandra's intimacy workshop... 336 00:17:09,680 --> 00:17:11,800 I'm sad I won't be there. You look great. 337 00:17:11,920 --> 00:17:14,280 I'd love to be a fly on the wall. 338 00:17:14,400 --> 00:17:16,560 ..where they'll have the opportunity to open up 339 00:17:16,680 --> 00:17:18,120 about their relationships. 340 00:17:18,240 --> 00:17:19,160 Look at you. 341 00:17:19,280 --> 00:17:20,720 Find out all the details? I will. 342 00:17:20,840 --> 00:17:23,040 (EPIC MUSIC) 343 00:17:28,080 --> 00:17:30,520 Hello, welcome. Hello. How are you? 344 00:17:30,640 --> 00:17:33,520 After my intimacy workshop with the women, 345 00:17:33,640 --> 00:17:36,720 I asked them to create their ultimate fantasy night 346 00:17:36,840 --> 00:17:38,680 and share that with their husbands. 347 00:17:38,800 --> 00:17:40,880 Welcome. How are you? 348 00:17:41,000 --> 00:17:42,440 Bienvenidos, Caballeros! Have a seat. 349 00:17:42,560 --> 00:17:43,600 Thank you. Hello. 350 00:17:43,720 --> 00:17:48,000 I designed this exercise to help empower the women of the experiment. 351 00:17:48,120 --> 00:17:51,640 And it was my hope that their husbands would be enthusiastic 352 00:17:51,760 --> 00:17:54,440 about fulfilling their partner's desires. 353 00:17:54,560 --> 00:17:56,160 How's everybody doing? 354 00:17:56,280 --> 00:17:58,440 All the better for seeing you and being here. 355 00:17:58,560 --> 00:17:59,560 That's very good. 356 00:17:59,680 --> 00:18:04,040 Um, as you all well know, Intimacy Week is well underway, huh? 357 00:18:04,160 --> 00:18:07,200 Oh, yeah. Big time, big time. Big time. 358 00:18:07,320 --> 00:18:09,160 I'm sure some of you have reaped the benefits 359 00:18:09,280 --> 00:18:10,760 of the Women's Workshop yesterday. 360 00:18:10,880 --> 00:18:13,160 I had a good time. You had a good time. 361 00:18:14,400 --> 00:18:17,240 Alissa's ultimate fantasy was my ultimate fantasy. 362 00:18:17,360 --> 00:18:19,800 Ooh. I'm just gonna be straight up. 363 00:18:19,920 --> 00:18:20,960 Love it. 364 00:18:21,080 --> 00:18:22,040 It was awesome. 365 00:18:22,160 --> 00:18:24,240 Like, she was getting to know me, 366 00:18:24,360 --> 00:18:26,640 and we really, really get along. 367 00:18:26,760 --> 00:18:28,520 It's exciting stuff. 368 00:18:28,640 --> 00:18:31,520 But I am very curious to see how everybody went. 369 00:18:31,640 --> 00:18:33,200 So who's gonna start it off? 370 00:18:33,320 --> 00:18:34,520 Tell me a good experience. 371 00:18:35,920 --> 00:18:38,360 I had a good experience. You had a good experience, Danny. 372 00:18:38,480 --> 00:18:40,440 Me and Bec done, like, 373 00:18:40,560 --> 00:18:43,040 a blindfolded painting session, so to speak. 374 00:18:43,160 --> 00:18:44,880 It was actually pretty fun. 375 00:18:45,000 --> 00:18:47,960 Took turns, and so we painted words on each other. 376 00:18:48,080 --> 00:18:49,960 Like what represent our relationship? 377 00:18:51,600 --> 00:18:53,120 Afterwards, I felt emotional. 378 00:18:54,560 --> 00:18:56,560 I felt like I wanted to cry. 379 00:18:56,680 --> 00:18:58,400 I don't even know why. 380 00:18:58,520 --> 00:19:00,200 I just felt like we got closer. 381 00:19:01,600 --> 00:19:04,360 There's a little cracking of the hard shell going on there. 382 00:19:04,480 --> 00:19:05,720 Mm. 383 00:19:05,840 --> 00:19:09,040 Hearing what Danny had to say today, you know, it was just great. 384 00:19:09,160 --> 00:19:11,120 I think by leaning into the unknown, 385 00:19:11,240 --> 00:19:14,600 leaning into the uncomfortable and taking the task seriously, 386 00:19:14,720 --> 00:19:18,200 Danny actually is trying, and it seems to be working for him. 387 00:19:18,320 --> 00:19:21,040 I did want to, like, crack a joke or whatever, 388 00:19:21,160 --> 00:19:22,480 but I pulled myself back in and I was like, 389 00:19:22,600 --> 00:19:25,760 "Keep it serious, because this is her night and it's her fantasy," 390 00:19:25,880 --> 00:19:27,040 and I didn't want to ruin it. 391 00:19:27,160 --> 00:19:29,400 I think those are pretty big, solid steps 392 00:19:29,520 --> 00:19:31,520 in the right direction from you. Thank you. 393 00:19:31,640 --> 00:19:33,080 It makes me personally feel very proud. 394 00:19:33,200 --> 00:19:34,280 Thanks very much. 395 00:19:35,320 --> 00:19:36,520 Love. 396 00:19:36,640 --> 00:19:38,080 Very good, very good. Thank you. 397 00:19:38,200 --> 00:19:39,880 Thanks. Luke. 398 00:19:40,000 --> 00:19:40,920 Yes. 399 00:19:41,040 --> 00:19:44,600 You're smiling today, which makes me so happy. 400 00:19:44,720 --> 00:19:46,640 Yeah, I'm starting to feel myself again. 401 00:19:46,760 --> 00:19:49,600 How has it been since the commitment ceremony? 402 00:19:49,720 --> 00:19:52,400 Really good. Yesterday we went on a date. 403 00:19:52,520 --> 00:19:54,400 It was nice, we were like, having a bit of banter, 404 00:19:54,520 --> 00:19:55,560 a few jokes. 405 00:19:55,680 --> 00:19:58,240 And yeah, I feel like we've been looking at 406 00:19:58,360 --> 00:20:00,440 each other a lot more than we ever have. 407 00:20:00,560 --> 00:20:02,040 So that looking at each other, 408 00:20:02,160 --> 00:20:05,320 was it flirty or how would you describe? 409 00:20:05,440 --> 00:20:09,240 Not like massively flirty yet. I like the yet. 410 00:20:09,360 --> 00:20:12,360 Yeah the yet the yet gives me a lot of hope. 411 00:20:13,440 --> 00:20:17,320 Mr Grayson, tell us about Julia's ultimate fantasy night 412 00:20:17,440 --> 00:20:18,920 and how that played out for you guys. 413 00:20:20,280 --> 00:20:21,520 Yeah. 414 00:20:21,640 --> 00:20:23,120 Obviously you're not happy with what I've... 415 00:20:23,240 --> 00:20:26,520 Absolutely not. OK, well, this is a problem. 416 00:20:26,640 --> 00:20:29,960 Jules, I feel at this point that I'm wasting my time. 417 00:20:30,080 --> 00:20:31,000 Oh. Absolutely. 418 00:20:31,120 --> 00:20:32,960 Wasting my time. Yeah. 419 00:20:34,720 --> 00:20:36,920 Intimacy to me is like, you know, chemistry, 420 00:20:37,040 --> 00:20:39,840 romance, sexual stuff. 421 00:20:41,200 --> 00:20:44,440 Jules definition of getting intimate is 422 00:20:44,560 --> 00:20:47,800 understanding someone on a on a deeper level. 423 00:20:47,920 --> 00:20:50,720 So she come up with a series of questions 424 00:20:50,840 --> 00:20:52,880 that she felt would strengthen that or... 425 00:20:53,000 --> 00:20:54,680 Well, what kind of questions were they? 426 00:20:54,800 --> 00:20:56,920 Sexy questions? Were there enticing questions? 427 00:20:57,040 --> 00:20:58,560 Nah. 428 00:20:59,800 --> 00:21:02,320 At school were you bullied? 429 00:21:02,440 --> 00:21:04,400 I... 430 00:21:07,600 --> 00:21:11,800 Unfortunately, there was zero sexiness or sauciness. 431 00:21:14,360 --> 00:21:15,680 OK. 432 00:21:15,800 --> 00:21:18,400 Look, the questions that I was dealing with are, 433 00:21:18,520 --> 00:21:21,040 you know, things like what is my fondest memory on 434 00:21:21,160 --> 00:21:22,360 the football field? You know? 435 00:21:22,480 --> 00:21:24,720 Just like life questions? Yeah, yeah. 436 00:21:24,840 --> 00:21:28,920 Whoa, whoa, I was really expecting something different. 437 00:21:29,040 --> 00:21:31,880 Yeah, I'm just - I mean, ultimate fantasy. 438 00:21:32,000 --> 00:21:35,400 Like, that's the definition of the task. 439 00:21:35,520 --> 00:21:36,920 And to be asking me what 440 00:21:37,040 --> 00:21:38,720 my favourite traits were in my ex-partner, 441 00:21:38,840 --> 00:21:41,320 and what I've learned in my personal development, 442 00:21:41,440 --> 00:21:42,640 like that, come on. 443 00:21:42,760 --> 00:21:45,880 Honestly, at this point, I feel like I'm wasting my time. 444 00:21:48,600 --> 00:21:54,800 I feel, um, powerless over my position in this relationship. 445 00:21:55,680 --> 00:22:00,120 Like, I don't have any form of say anymore. 446 00:22:00,240 --> 00:22:03,880 And I don't know whether that's me being weak as a man, 447 00:22:04,000 --> 00:22:06,240 letting her dictate that from the start. 448 00:22:06,360 --> 00:22:09,000 And I'm quite disappointed in myself for that, 449 00:22:09,120 --> 00:22:11,760 because I feel like I've allowed the relationship 450 00:22:11,880 --> 00:22:14,040 to get to this point. 451 00:22:14,160 --> 00:22:17,800 Yeah, I feel like I've just been shoved away. 452 00:22:17,920 --> 00:22:19,720 If she weren't shoving you away 453 00:22:19,840 --> 00:22:21,880 would you still want to get close to her? 454 00:22:22,000 --> 00:22:24,680 Absolutely. I find her really attractive. 455 00:22:24,800 --> 00:22:27,280 Yeah. Yeah, I'm fully committed. 456 00:22:27,400 --> 00:22:29,600 I want this to work. 457 00:22:29,720 --> 00:22:33,600 I've been super into Jules, and it'll feel really nice 458 00:22:33,720 --> 00:22:36,720 if Jules is willing to reciprocate, you know, 459 00:22:36,840 --> 00:22:39,640 because at the moment, I really don't know where I stand with her. 460 00:22:39,760 --> 00:22:42,720 Yeah, I just need brutal honesty from Julia. 461 00:22:42,840 --> 00:22:44,800 Yeah. 462 00:22:44,920 --> 00:22:46,160 Steven. 463 00:22:48,040 --> 00:22:49,840 (SIGHS) Excuse me. 464 00:22:49,960 --> 00:22:53,840 My heart's, like, going a million miles an hour. 465 00:22:53,960 --> 00:22:55,080 OK. 466 00:22:55,200 --> 00:22:56,720 Um... 467 00:22:58,640 --> 00:23:01,680 How was Rachel's ultimate fantasy night? 468 00:23:01,800 --> 00:23:04,400 Yeah, because it obviously didn't go too well. 469 00:23:06,960 --> 00:23:10,800 I walked into the room and Rachel was standing there 470 00:23:10,920 --> 00:23:15,560 with a blindfold on and holding sort of like an A3, 471 00:23:15,680 --> 00:23:17,440 and it just said some words on there. 472 00:23:17,560 --> 00:23:20,200 And the questions started off quite light, you know. 473 00:23:20,320 --> 00:23:22,720 What do you like about me and stuff like that? 474 00:23:22,840 --> 00:23:25,840 But the next card said, 475 00:23:25,960 --> 00:23:29,920 Could you give me a kiss that feels like something. 476 00:23:32,080 --> 00:23:34,920 Felt like at that time I had three decisions to make. 477 00:23:35,040 --> 00:23:40,800 Either give her a kiss and she feels like it's empty. 478 00:23:40,920 --> 00:23:43,200 Give her a kiss. Get through it. 479 00:23:43,320 --> 00:23:47,400 In other words, fake it and give Rachel the wrong impressions. 480 00:23:47,520 --> 00:23:49,240 And she comes out of this going, 481 00:23:49,360 --> 00:23:51,000 "Oh, I felt a romantic connection there." 482 00:23:52,040 --> 00:23:53,960 And the third decision was 483 00:23:54,080 --> 00:23:56,680 that I'd tell her how I feel right there and then. 484 00:23:56,800 --> 00:24:00,600 And unfortunately, I did take the hardest option 485 00:24:00,720 --> 00:24:04,080 and said to her, "I can give you a kiss, 486 00:24:04,200 --> 00:24:06,320 but I don't know if there's going to be any passion behind it." 487 00:24:08,680 --> 00:24:10,880 How did she take it? Not good. 488 00:24:15,040 --> 00:24:16,320 It was hard to watch. 489 00:24:17,400 --> 00:24:20,200 Men used to die in trenches and fight wars. 490 00:24:20,320 --> 00:24:24,040 And now he's too scared to even just give his missus a kiss. 491 00:24:24,160 --> 00:24:26,320 Like, just give her a kiss, for (BLEEP) sake. 492 00:24:26,440 --> 00:24:27,880 It's not really that hard, is it? 493 00:24:28,000 --> 00:24:29,680 And see where it goes from there. 494 00:24:29,800 --> 00:24:31,440 I reckon Steven's in the wrong. 495 00:24:31,560 --> 00:24:33,640 Like he's not even giving it a shot. 496 00:24:35,240 --> 00:24:37,400 So why did you say stay? Why did you say that? 497 00:24:37,520 --> 00:24:40,160 Well, I chose to stay because I didn't want to quit 498 00:24:40,280 --> 00:24:42,080 just because I'm not there yet. 499 00:24:42,200 --> 00:24:44,800 OK. Do you think you're ever going to get there? 500 00:24:46,760 --> 00:24:50,040 Well, I feel like I've screwed up pretty bad now. 501 00:24:50,160 --> 00:24:51,760 That's not my question. 502 00:24:51,880 --> 00:24:53,840 I was hoping - I was hopeful, yeah. 503 00:24:55,000 --> 00:24:57,080 I don't know, I think maybe hopeful 504 00:24:57,200 --> 00:24:58,680 would have been a little bit of leaning into 505 00:24:58,800 --> 00:25:00,120 that particular situation. 506 00:25:01,720 --> 00:25:03,440 Something like a kiss. 507 00:25:03,560 --> 00:25:09,000 It's not the biggest thing, but it can be something to clarify, 508 00:25:09,120 --> 00:25:12,960 especially when there's been a lot of confusion. 509 00:25:15,920 --> 00:25:20,360 I feel like I'm in a similar boat as Rachel. 510 00:25:20,480 --> 00:25:23,960 You know, it takes a lot of emotional energy, 511 00:25:24,080 --> 00:25:26,000 as you're all aware, to be here, 512 00:25:26,120 --> 00:25:29,280 and for the other person not to be reciprocating 513 00:25:29,400 --> 00:25:32,760 in effort and openness, it sucks, man. 514 00:25:32,880 --> 00:25:35,640 Like it sucks, you know? Um... 515 00:25:37,840 --> 00:25:39,320 You know? So, I'm, uh... 516 00:25:43,160 --> 00:25:45,080 You gotta dive in, man, like... 517 00:25:46,720 --> 00:25:49,920 Rachel's craving connection and intimacy. 518 00:25:50,040 --> 00:25:54,400 And Stevens is, like, tippy toeing pussyfooting around it. 519 00:25:54,520 --> 00:25:56,120 That's what I see. 520 00:25:56,240 --> 00:25:59,560 And, you know, I feel like I'm getting at the same from Jules. 521 00:25:59,680 --> 00:26:04,560 And that's sort of how I'm starting to get to that point of like, 522 00:26:04,680 --> 00:26:06,240 you're just stringing me along. 523 00:26:13,800 --> 00:26:15,080 Chris. 524 00:26:15,200 --> 00:26:17,600 I see you far, far away. 525 00:26:17,720 --> 00:26:20,600 What's going on? Um. It's so funny. 526 00:26:20,720 --> 00:26:22,880 I've never had such an experience with someone 527 00:26:23,000 --> 00:26:26,280 where we get along in so many different ways, 528 00:26:26,400 --> 00:26:28,280 and we're honestly sharing, like, a lot of intimacy 529 00:26:28,400 --> 00:26:29,680 in where we were just cuddling and able 530 00:26:29,800 --> 00:26:31,160 to bathe in each other's company. 531 00:26:31,280 --> 00:26:35,160 But at the same time, I've got this roadblock. 532 00:26:35,280 --> 00:26:37,600 Do you think she's still struggling with the audition video 533 00:26:37,720 --> 00:26:40,040 and her perception of that? 534 00:26:40,160 --> 00:26:41,280 It's definitely in mind. 535 00:26:41,400 --> 00:26:43,360 We've had a conversation multiple times about how 536 00:26:43,480 --> 00:26:45,440 she wanted to come in here and have someone that was settled, 537 00:26:45,560 --> 00:26:47,040 and she didn't need to hold their hand 538 00:26:47,160 --> 00:26:50,240 and guide them through like, situations like that video. 539 00:26:50,360 --> 00:26:54,040 Obviously I'm a little bit upset because I want someone, 540 00:26:54,160 --> 00:26:55,920 I want to give the same emotion and get it back. 541 00:26:56,040 --> 00:27:00,040 Um, but in my mind, like, 542 00:27:00,160 --> 00:27:02,360 logic goes out the window when I deal with my emotions. 543 00:27:02,480 --> 00:27:03,520 Like I just go all in. 544 00:27:03,640 --> 00:27:06,320 So I would literally stay here till the end of the experiment, 545 00:27:06,440 --> 00:27:08,840 even if I was upset, just to keep trying. 546 00:27:09,880 --> 00:27:12,640 There's always going to be something or a situation 547 00:27:12,760 --> 00:27:14,080 that you might not like. 548 00:27:14,200 --> 00:27:17,000 It doesn't mean that you give up necessarily, 549 00:27:17,120 --> 00:27:20,320 but it's also not about just staying there forever, 550 00:27:20,440 --> 00:27:22,160 taking her rejection of you. 551 00:27:22,280 --> 00:27:26,600 So you have to find that balance where that line is for you. 552 00:27:26,720 --> 00:27:27,720 I don't know, 553 00:27:27,840 --> 00:27:30,120 I feel like this is a very unique situation that I'm in. 554 00:27:30,240 --> 00:27:31,560 Obviously, I'm just going to keep doing what I'm doing. 555 00:27:31,680 --> 00:27:35,040 I just want to try and show Brook and hopefully change her mind 556 00:27:35,160 --> 00:27:37,920 day by day that, you know, that we're good together. 557 00:27:38,040 --> 00:27:39,440 And obviously I want to make things work. 558 00:27:42,040 --> 00:27:44,720 Coming up... (SCOFFS) 559 00:27:44,840 --> 00:27:46,240 ..Steve's behaviour... 560 00:27:46,360 --> 00:27:48,440 Honestly, the lack of respect that you're showing me... 561 00:27:48,560 --> 00:27:50,080 OK. ..is appalling. 562 00:27:50,200 --> 00:27:53,560 ..sends shockwaves through the experiment. 563 00:27:54,600 --> 00:27:56,760 He's the oldest man in the room as well. 564 00:27:56,880 --> 00:27:58,240 And he's acting like a child. 565 00:27:58,360 --> 00:28:03,000 And later, Alessandra's task brings Mel and Luke closer. 566 00:28:07,040 --> 00:28:09,880 And one of the brides has packed her bags 567 00:28:10,000 --> 00:28:11,520 and left the apartments. 568 00:28:21,840 --> 00:28:24,760 # # 569 00:28:28,480 --> 00:28:30,440 OK, so, Steve... Yes. 570 00:28:30,560 --> 00:28:34,240 ..how was Rebecca's ultimate fantasy night for the two of you? 571 00:28:34,360 --> 00:28:37,280 Rebecca's ultimate fantasy. 572 00:28:37,400 --> 00:28:40,760 Um, Rebecca did visit a sex shop and bought a couple of outfits. 573 00:28:40,880 --> 00:28:42,120 Ooh. 574 00:28:42,240 --> 00:28:44,320 Eventually didn't put them on. OK. 575 00:28:45,600 --> 00:28:47,480 Out of respect for me. 576 00:28:47,600 --> 00:28:51,760 She chose to not dress up and make me uncomfortable. 577 00:28:56,080 --> 00:28:57,920 For me, that sounds like bullshit. 578 00:28:58,040 --> 00:28:59,880 I had nothing but respect, 579 00:29:00,000 --> 00:29:03,520 because Rebecca didn't come in dressed up already. 580 00:29:03,640 --> 00:29:05,200 Because I would have found that uncomfortable. 581 00:29:05,320 --> 00:29:07,040 So it actually bonded us. 582 00:29:10,040 --> 00:29:12,320 You've actually bonded them. 583 00:29:12,440 --> 00:29:15,840 (INHALES) I don't know, to me, it's just... 584 00:29:15,960 --> 00:29:17,080 It just doesn't make sense. 585 00:29:17,200 --> 00:29:20,120 Gia was with Rebecca and hearing Rebecca's perspective, 586 00:29:20,240 --> 00:29:22,320 she's so into him, she went to a sex shop last night. 587 00:29:22,440 --> 00:29:25,280 She wanted to get her ultimate fantasy done, and... 588 00:29:26,480 --> 00:29:30,000 She brought us closer by not doing that. 589 00:29:30,120 --> 00:29:32,800 I think Steve's a bit full of shit. 590 00:29:32,920 --> 00:29:35,760 That's what I'm confused because Gia was with her last night 591 00:29:35,880 --> 00:29:37,840 at the sex shop, and she was like saying, 592 00:29:37,960 --> 00:29:41,040 "I can't wait to dress up, do all these naughty things." 593 00:29:41,160 --> 00:29:42,840 But then apparently she gets in. She doesn't want to do it. 594 00:29:42,960 --> 00:29:44,320 That's the only thing I'm confused about. 595 00:29:44,440 --> 00:29:46,160 It's very confusing. 596 00:29:48,080 --> 00:29:51,600 The overall story is we had ultimate intimacy last night, 597 00:29:51,720 --> 00:29:53,640 so your partner should be able to have a choice 598 00:29:53,760 --> 00:29:55,400 to bring you guys closer. Which she did. 599 00:29:55,520 --> 00:29:56,640 Right, she didn't. 600 00:29:56,760 --> 00:29:58,160 She had a choice. Why didn't she have a choice? 601 00:29:58,280 --> 00:30:00,480 I didn't say, don't do it. 602 00:30:00,600 --> 00:30:04,800 I just said it will make me very uncomfortable if that happens. 603 00:30:04,920 --> 00:30:06,240 I'm quite shocked. 604 00:30:06,360 --> 00:30:07,880 *The whole point of last night 605 00:30:08,000 --> 00:30:10,120 was for the woman to have her ultimate fantasy. 606 00:30:10,240 --> 00:30:12,840 And I feel like Steve really failed on that. 607 00:30:12,960 --> 00:30:15,120 And I feel like Steve just doesn't care. 608 00:30:15,240 --> 00:30:18,320 He just I think he's only thinking about himself. 609 00:30:18,440 --> 00:30:20,120 I'm a little bit more conservative. 610 00:30:20,240 --> 00:30:25,080 And I wouldn't want to, uh, to possibly put myself in 611 00:30:25,200 --> 00:30:27,680 a position like that on, you know, 612 00:30:27,800 --> 00:30:30,160 in front of many people. 613 00:30:30,280 --> 00:30:32,560 After the cameras left... Yes. 614 00:30:32,680 --> 00:30:34,240 ..was her ultimate fantasy then 615 00:30:34,360 --> 00:30:36,560 realised just between the two of you. 616 00:30:36,680 --> 00:30:40,400 Um, we talked it through, but then we had a falling out 617 00:30:40,520 --> 00:30:44,520 after that and we didn't stay in the same room last night, so... 618 00:30:46,040 --> 00:30:47,800 Oh. What happened? 619 00:30:47,920 --> 00:30:50,440 Um, Rebecca was saying that 620 00:30:50,560 --> 00:30:53,320 the only reason she is here was to find love. 621 00:30:53,440 --> 00:30:55,400 And I kind of called her out on that, 622 00:30:55,520 --> 00:30:58,080 because I'm sure there's other reasons Rebecca's here also. 623 00:30:59,680 --> 00:31:02,160 She's telling you that the only reason 624 00:31:02,280 --> 00:31:03,840 she came here was to find love. 625 00:31:03,960 --> 00:31:08,440 And I am sure of that because I had various conversations with Rebecca 626 00:31:08,560 --> 00:31:12,200 prior to her being officially a part of the experiment. 627 00:31:12,320 --> 00:31:14,120 But I'm sure people don't say 628 00:31:14,240 --> 00:31:16,320 there's other reasons in their audition tape. 629 00:31:17,760 --> 00:31:20,040 So on her ultimate Fantasy Night, 630 00:31:20,160 --> 00:31:23,200 she doesn't get to act out her fantasy, 631 00:31:23,320 --> 00:31:27,600 and got none of the feeling desire, 632 00:31:27,720 --> 00:31:30,320 but then got a little judgement on why she's here. 633 00:31:30,440 --> 00:31:32,800 It doesn't sound very good for Rebecca. 634 00:31:32,920 --> 00:31:36,160 From what I'm hearing. It wasn't good for either one of us. 635 00:31:36,280 --> 00:31:37,520 Yes, but it was her night, 636 00:31:37,640 --> 00:31:39,160 so I'm concerned about how good it was for her. 637 00:31:39,280 --> 00:31:42,120 I didn't ask for her to please me. So this was her night. 638 00:31:42,240 --> 00:31:43,440 No, but you did stay here, 639 00:31:43,560 --> 00:31:45,480 and say you wanted to work on the relationship. 640 00:31:45,600 --> 00:31:47,280 Yeah. 641 00:31:47,400 --> 00:31:49,080 And when presented with the opportunity to 642 00:31:49,200 --> 00:31:51,720 help her understand that she is somebody 643 00:31:51,840 --> 00:31:54,840 that you are attracted to, like you have stated in the past. 644 00:31:54,960 --> 00:31:57,440 I said I could be attracted to Rebecca, yeah. 645 00:31:57,560 --> 00:31:59,480 You said you found her very attractive. 646 00:31:59,600 --> 00:32:01,120 As a person, yeah, absolutely. 647 00:32:01,240 --> 00:32:03,200 There's an internal attractiveness 648 00:32:03,320 --> 00:32:05,160 and there's an external, so... 649 00:32:05,280 --> 00:32:06,960 So which one are you attracted to? 650 00:32:08,800 --> 00:32:09,960 Um... 651 00:32:11,000 --> 00:32:12,120 Um... 652 00:32:14,040 --> 00:32:16,680 Externally, Rebecca is a beautiful woman. 653 00:32:16,800 --> 00:32:19,240 Um, there's parts of Rebecca's personality 654 00:32:19,360 --> 00:32:20,720 which are beautiful as well. 655 00:32:20,840 --> 00:32:23,760 Externally, she's beautiful, internally, parts. 656 00:32:23,880 --> 00:32:25,280 Is that your answer? 657 00:32:26,600 --> 00:32:28,960 Internally, there's personality traits 658 00:32:29,080 --> 00:32:30,480 which I find adorable, yeah. 659 00:32:31,840 --> 00:32:33,680 A bit of a bullshit comment, to be honest. 660 00:32:33,800 --> 00:32:35,880 Like, I feel like Steve's flirting around 661 00:32:36,000 --> 00:32:37,840 instead of just saying the straight answer. 662 00:32:37,960 --> 00:32:42,840 I feel like he's not being 100% open with Alessandra or Rebecca, 663 00:32:42,960 --> 00:32:44,080 but I don't think he's telling her, 664 00:32:44,200 --> 00:32:46,040 I think he's flirting, fluffing around 665 00:32:46,160 --> 00:32:47,640 with all these other things. 666 00:32:47,760 --> 00:32:49,200 He was being pretty combative. 667 00:32:49,320 --> 00:32:51,160 I feel like you're skirting around my questions... 668 00:32:51,280 --> 00:32:52,800 No, not at all. ..trying to sound good... 669 00:32:52,920 --> 00:32:55,520 I'm trying to sound good? ..and I don't really - mm! 670 00:32:55,640 --> 00:32:56,600 Like that. 671 00:32:56,720 --> 00:32:58,600 OK, well, I mean, I disagree with you. 672 00:32:58,720 --> 00:33:01,560 Ask me a question, I'll give you a genuine answer. 673 00:33:11,560 --> 00:33:13,240 I'm not waiting for anybody to tell me what to say. 674 00:33:15,840 --> 00:33:16,840 OK. 675 00:33:18,720 --> 00:33:21,600 Honestly, the lack of respect that you're showing me as somebody 676 00:33:21,720 --> 00:33:23,160 who's here to help guide you... 677 00:33:23,280 --> 00:33:24,440 OK. ..is appalling. 678 00:33:25,600 --> 00:33:27,440 Really tread lightly. 679 00:33:27,560 --> 00:33:29,520 I don't take to this well. 680 00:33:33,000 --> 00:33:34,760 I wasn't referring to... (STAMMERS) 681 00:33:34,880 --> 00:33:36,280 Honestly, who else would you be referring to? 682 00:33:36,400 --> 00:33:38,200 It's so absurd. Yeah. 683 00:33:38,320 --> 00:33:39,600 OK. 684 00:33:39,720 --> 00:33:42,200 I feel like a 50 year old man should know better 685 00:33:42,320 --> 00:33:43,520 and how to speak to a woman. 686 00:33:44,560 --> 00:33:47,160 He should be apologising to Alessandra the way he spoke to her. 687 00:33:48,600 --> 00:33:51,240 Again, Steve, do not even. 688 00:33:53,640 --> 00:33:55,560 (LAUGHS) 689 00:34:05,040 --> 00:34:08,000 Again, Steve, really tread lightly. 690 00:34:08,120 --> 00:34:10,080 I don't take to this well. 691 00:34:10,200 --> 00:34:13,000 Well, I'd rather not say any more. 692 00:34:14,600 --> 00:34:15,800 I think that was misinterpreted. 693 00:34:15,920 --> 00:34:18,000 So I withdraw when I hear things like that, 694 00:34:18,120 --> 00:34:20,640 because then I just - I'd rather not continue. 695 00:34:21,880 --> 00:34:24,840 It is really disappointing that you're not realising 696 00:34:24,960 --> 00:34:28,040 the amount of compatibility that there is between you and Rebecca, 697 00:34:28,160 --> 00:34:32,040 and the real possibility for something fabulous to grow here. 698 00:34:32,160 --> 00:34:33,520 OK. 699 00:34:39,080 --> 00:34:40,840 I didn't take a lot of it, to be honest. 700 00:34:41,880 --> 00:34:44,800 Yeah, I find there was a lot of contradiction in the room. 701 00:34:44,920 --> 00:34:48,080 Um, so I listened. 702 00:34:48,200 --> 00:34:50,880 Um, I heard and as I said, 703 00:34:52,200 --> 00:34:54,440 I didn't really take anything from it, to be honest. 704 00:34:56,160 --> 00:34:59,880 I think Steve had a complete lack of respect towards Alessandra, 705 00:35:00,000 --> 00:35:01,920 didn't listen to what she had to say, 706 00:35:02,040 --> 00:35:04,200 and that obviously shows his intentions 707 00:35:04,320 --> 00:35:07,760 of what he's done with Rebecca on her ultimate fantasy night. 708 00:35:07,880 --> 00:35:09,720 It gives you an ultimate reflection. 709 00:35:09,840 --> 00:35:11,640 Doesn't show any respect or any remorse. 710 00:35:17,720 --> 00:35:18,840 NARRATOR: At the apartments, 711 00:35:18,960 --> 00:35:21,240 the grooms are back from the intimacy workshop. 712 00:35:24,200 --> 00:35:26,120 Your back. 713 00:35:26,240 --> 00:35:28,120 I missed you. I missed you. 714 00:35:28,240 --> 00:35:30,320 Oh, I got us a nice bottle of wine. 715 00:35:30,440 --> 00:35:31,520 OK. Love it. 716 00:35:32,960 --> 00:35:35,440 Mm. 717 00:35:35,560 --> 00:35:37,600 The brides are eager to hear what advice 718 00:35:37,720 --> 00:35:39,960 Alessandra had for their husbands. 719 00:35:40,080 --> 00:35:41,600 OK, so tell me, how was it? 720 00:35:41,720 --> 00:35:43,520 Um... 721 00:35:43,640 --> 00:35:45,720 However, the men are still reeling 722 00:35:45,840 --> 00:35:49,160 after witnessing one groom's behaviour. 723 00:35:49,280 --> 00:35:51,760 I was pretty pissed off. What do you mean? 724 00:35:51,880 --> 00:35:53,800 Steve was (BLEEP) rude. 725 00:35:53,920 --> 00:35:56,440 Steve ended up like basically having an argument 726 00:35:56,560 --> 00:35:58,160 with Alessandra. 727 00:35:59,200 --> 00:36:02,000 He was being completely disrespectful towards Alessandra. 728 00:36:02,120 --> 00:36:03,120 He was disrespecting - 729 00:36:03,240 --> 00:36:04,760 Wait. What? Yeah. 730 00:36:04,880 --> 00:36:07,040 He was like, you've got an earpiece in. 731 00:36:07,160 --> 00:36:09,200 It's like, what are you talking about? 732 00:36:09,320 --> 00:36:10,440 That's not on. 733 00:36:10,560 --> 00:36:12,560 He was just being (BLEEP) rude, pretty much. 734 00:36:12,680 --> 00:36:15,160 Steve, being rude to Alessandra doesn't shock me, 735 00:36:15,280 --> 00:36:18,320 because he is the kind of man that talks over women 736 00:36:18,440 --> 00:36:20,680 and likes to control situations. 737 00:36:20,800 --> 00:36:23,440 And the minute he's not in control, he loses it. 738 00:36:23,560 --> 00:36:24,560 That's not OK. 739 00:36:24,680 --> 00:36:26,680 He's the oldest man in the room as well. 740 00:36:26,800 --> 00:36:28,400 And he's acting like a child. 741 00:36:28,520 --> 00:36:30,160 But there's more. 742 00:36:30,280 --> 00:36:32,280 When you and Rebecca got all those outfits. 743 00:36:32,400 --> 00:36:34,800 Like, what was her intention behind that? 744 00:36:34,920 --> 00:36:37,320 She wanted to put them on and be like, hey, Steve, 745 00:36:37,440 --> 00:36:38,680 like, this is me. 746 00:36:38,800 --> 00:36:40,360 But she said to me, 747 00:36:40,480 --> 00:36:42,120 "If he's weird when I get in there, 748 00:36:42,240 --> 00:36:44,360 and I say, I've been shopping and I bought this, 749 00:36:44,480 --> 00:36:47,080 I'm not gonna put myself out there like that." 750 00:36:47,200 --> 00:36:49,160 Did she dress up? No. 751 00:36:51,400 --> 00:36:53,200 (BLEEP) you, Steven, are you joking? 752 00:36:53,320 --> 00:36:55,280 Obviously, she felt completely uncomfortable. 753 00:36:55,400 --> 00:36:58,680 That's (BLEEP). He's literally dulling her... 754 00:36:58,800 --> 00:37:00,000 her shine every day. 755 00:37:00,120 --> 00:37:01,520 Rebecca was so excited yesterday. 756 00:37:01,640 --> 00:37:03,720 She was full of life. She was confident. 757 00:37:03,840 --> 00:37:05,280 She was feeling hot. 758 00:37:05,400 --> 00:37:07,000 She got these little outfits. She was giggling. 759 00:37:07,120 --> 00:37:08,040 It was a good time. 760 00:37:08,160 --> 00:37:09,680 And then for her to have gone home, 761 00:37:09,800 --> 00:37:12,080 and she sounds like she didn't put any of them on. 762 00:37:12,200 --> 00:37:13,800 It's crazy to me. 763 00:37:13,920 --> 00:37:15,440 But he also said that, well, 764 00:37:15,560 --> 00:37:17,200 Rebecca's not even there just for love. 765 00:37:17,320 --> 00:37:20,320 She's there for other reasons. Rebecca? 766 00:37:20,440 --> 00:37:22,000 Yeah. Are you serious? 767 00:37:22,120 --> 00:37:23,400 Yeah. 768 00:37:23,520 --> 00:37:24,960 Rebecca is 100% here for the right reasons. 769 00:37:25,080 --> 00:37:26,200 She only wants love. 770 00:37:26,320 --> 00:37:28,720 She has so much love to give. 771 00:37:28,840 --> 00:37:33,040 And I think for him to just treat her like that 772 00:37:33,160 --> 00:37:36,720 and not make her feel her best self is really not OK. 773 00:37:36,840 --> 00:37:37,800 I can't believe it. 774 00:37:37,920 --> 00:37:40,640 I'm actually going to have words with him at the dinner party, 775 00:37:40,760 --> 00:37:42,360 because that's not OK. 776 00:37:43,400 --> 00:37:46,000 After some terse words from Alessandra, 777 00:37:46,120 --> 00:37:49,680 a defiant Steve has arrived home where, 778 00:37:49,800 --> 00:37:53,360 after their night apart, Rebecca has moved back in, 779 00:37:53,480 --> 00:37:57,680 hoping he's had time to reflect on last night's argument. 780 00:37:57,800 --> 00:38:00,080 Oh. 781 00:38:04,480 --> 00:38:08,880 Um, you know, we sort of had a little dust up, 782 00:38:09,000 --> 00:38:11,120 and it just feels like we're back to scratch again. 783 00:38:11,240 --> 00:38:12,720 Yeah. 784 00:38:12,840 --> 00:38:15,080 Um, I'm not sure the way forward. 785 00:38:15,200 --> 00:38:17,760 So, yeah, it's just, um, 786 00:38:17,880 --> 00:38:19,280 I have no other words. 787 00:38:21,120 --> 00:38:25,840 I just feel like that, um, we're on completely different pages. 788 00:38:25,960 --> 00:38:28,560 Even in that whole intimacy challenge, 789 00:38:28,680 --> 00:38:29,760 like I respected you. 790 00:38:29,880 --> 00:38:32,280 I've been going at your speed pretty much. 791 00:38:32,400 --> 00:38:34,680 I feel like I'm giving a lot more into it than you are. 792 00:38:37,320 --> 00:38:38,840 I think that's unfair. 793 00:38:38,960 --> 00:38:41,240 Apart from the intimacy thing, 794 00:38:41,360 --> 00:38:43,080 not wanting to do anything that I consider 795 00:38:43,200 --> 00:38:46,160 personally not TV-worthy. Yep, yep. 796 00:38:46,280 --> 00:38:48,520 OK? I find it something I wouldn't do in real life, 797 00:38:48,640 --> 00:38:49,720 let alone on TV. 798 00:38:49,840 --> 00:38:51,960 We're on Married At First Sight to be out of our comfort zone? 799 00:38:54,240 --> 00:38:56,600 I'm saying, but intimacy is not about sex. 800 00:38:56,720 --> 00:38:59,160 And now you're saying it's... I'm not saying it's about sex. 801 00:38:59,280 --> 00:39:00,640 You just said it's Sex At First Sight. 802 00:39:00,760 --> 00:39:05,760 I'm saying I'm not about to put on a show making it 803 00:39:05,880 --> 00:39:08,680 look like a soft porn or something like that. 804 00:39:10,680 --> 00:39:12,400 It's actually quite laughable. 805 00:39:12,520 --> 00:39:15,640 Anyway, yeah, I just get the feeling that you're not all in 806 00:39:15,760 --> 00:39:17,640 to make yourself vulnerable, to do it with me. 807 00:39:17,760 --> 00:39:20,560 And for me, I haven't been my true, authentic self. 808 00:39:20,680 --> 00:39:22,200 OK. 809 00:39:22,320 --> 00:39:24,520 And I'm sick of being half of who I am, 810 00:39:24,640 --> 00:39:27,880 because I'm so fearful that I'm going to be too much for you. 811 00:39:28,000 --> 00:39:30,240 So chances are you are too much for me. 812 00:39:30,360 --> 00:39:32,880 Yes, I agree. I think we're on the same page. 813 00:39:34,000 --> 00:39:35,000 Yeah. 814 00:39:35,120 --> 00:39:36,200 Yeah, OK. 815 00:39:36,320 --> 00:39:38,640 So, you know, end of story, isn't it? 816 00:39:38,760 --> 00:39:40,920 I'm not going to all of a sudden turn this around and go, 817 00:39:41,040 --> 00:39:42,480 "Hey, let's try again." 818 00:39:42,600 --> 00:39:45,560 You know what, Steve? I wouldn't expect you to. 819 00:39:45,680 --> 00:39:49,520 I think that you're more concerned about how you're going to look. 820 00:39:49,640 --> 00:39:50,640 Where I don't care. 821 00:39:50,760 --> 00:39:54,000 I don't mind how people want to perceive me or judge me. 822 00:39:54,120 --> 00:39:55,880 The only thing I've always worried about is 823 00:39:56,000 --> 00:39:58,600 I think I'm a kind, respectful person. 824 00:40:01,280 --> 00:40:03,040 So, yeah, alright? 825 00:40:03,160 --> 00:40:06,480 So I'll get some things, and then they'll let me know, 826 00:40:06,600 --> 00:40:07,800 I guess, where I'm staying. 827 00:40:07,920 --> 00:40:11,440 And I'll get some dinner. I'll... Yeah. 828 00:40:11,560 --> 00:40:14,560 You know, I think I tried anyway, so... 829 00:40:14,680 --> 00:40:16,280 Yeah. 830 00:40:16,400 --> 00:40:18,360 Let's just leave it at that. 831 00:40:18,480 --> 00:40:19,560 OK. 832 00:40:19,680 --> 00:40:21,200 What a stand-up guy. 833 00:40:21,320 --> 00:40:22,280 He didn't even want to try. 834 00:40:22,400 --> 00:40:23,960 He doesn't want to try. 835 00:40:26,080 --> 00:40:29,080 And he will not take accountability for his actions. 836 00:40:29,200 --> 00:40:30,720 He does not care. 837 00:40:30,840 --> 00:40:33,120 He doesn't care. 838 00:40:33,240 --> 00:40:37,760 OK, and I'm sorry it hasn't worked out the way you maybe wanted it to, 839 00:40:37,880 --> 00:40:40,400 but I've been kind, I've been nice, and I've been there for you. 840 00:40:40,520 --> 00:40:42,080 There you go "the way you wanted it to work out." 841 00:40:44,400 --> 00:40:45,880 No, OK, the way we want to... 842 00:40:46,000 --> 00:40:47,360 We came in here to actually make a relationship. 843 00:40:47,480 --> 00:40:49,000 I'm trying to... Yeah, Steve. 844 00:40:49,120 --> 00:40:50,880 At least you get to be yourself now, yeah? 845 00:40:51,000 --> 00:40:52,800 And you can give them the TV gold 846 00:40:52,920 --> 00:40:54,640 that you've been holding back on, yeah? 847 00:40:54,760 --> 00:40:55,840 So, go for it. 848 00:40:59,200 --> 00:41:00,360 Joke. 849 00:41:00,480 --> 00:41:01,800 "I'm a nice guy, I'm kind." 850 00:41:01,920 --> 00:41:03,320 "I'm here for the right reasons." 851 00:41:03,440 --> 00:41:05,360 No, you're not, Steve. 852 00:41:08,560 --> 00:41:10,560 He honestly thinks, hand on heart, 853 00:41:10,680 --> 00:41:14,480 that he's tried in this experiment, which is not the case. 854 00:41:19,200 --> 00:41:24,520 He would have to be the weakest man I've ever met in my entire life. 855 00:41:25,920 --> 00:41:29,040 If he wasn't ready he should never, ever have joined the experiment. 856 00:41:29,160 --> 00:41:31,080 He simply was not ready for it. 857 00:41:31,200 --> 00:41:32,480 He's tried. 858 00:41:33,600 --> 00:41:36,400 Steve was not vulnerable at all in this experiment. 859 00:41:36,520 --> 00:41:38,080 I actually have no words. Sorry, guys. 860 00:41:38,200 --> 00:41:40,200 I'm just like, I'm (BLEEP) ropeable. 861 00:41:40,320 --> 00:41:43,240 If he came to this experiment with, um, 862 00:41:43,360 --> 00:41:48,200 hope of meeting a potential person at the end of it or whatever, 863 00:41:48,320 --> 00:41:49,880 he would have come back in today, 864 00:41:50,000 --> 00:41:51,920 he would have swallowed his pride and his ego, 865 00:41:52,040 --> 00:41:54,200 he would have taken accountability for his actions, 866 00:41:54,320 --> 00:41:57,440 and he'd done some self-reflection and owned his shit. 867 00:41:57,560 --> 00:42:00,080 Instead, he did zero. 868 00:42:00,200 --> 00:42:03,080 And then the cop out. Am I a lot for him? 869 00:42:03,200 --> 00:42:05,960 Well, no. The reality is I'm just enough. 870 00:42:06,080 --> 00:42:07,840 And he's not enough for me. 871 00:42:09,600 --> 00:42:10,800 Coming up... 872 00:42:10,920 --> 00:42:12,240 Careful, might poke your eye out. 873 00:42:12,360 --> 00:42:15,520 Alessandra sets the groom's a secret mission. 874 00:42:15,640 --> 00:42:17,080 What is David doing? 875 00:42:17,200 --> 00:42:19,040 Damn, boy. 876 00:42:19,160 --> 00:42:21,000 So this is yours if you want it. 877 00:42:21,120 --> 00:42:24,360 But will all the wives be keen on their covert plans? 878 00:42:24,480 --> 00:42:25,360 No, I don't want to. 879 00:42:31,400 --> 00:42:32,960 # # 880 00:42:34,480 --> 00:42:38,120 NARRATOR: Intimacy week has begun in earnest for our grooms, 881 00:42:38,240 --> 00:42:41,520 with Alessandra having assigned them covert tasks 882 00:42:41,640 --> 00:42:43,360 to perform for their wives. 883 00:42:45,040 --> 00:42:46,880 After the Men's Intimacy workshop, 884 00:42:47,000 --> 00:42:51,520 I challenged the grooms to perform a covert task for their wives, 885 00:42:51,640 --> 00:42:54,880 secretly displaying care, compassion, and attraction 886 00:42:55,000 --> 00:42:58,720 by doing something small yet special for their partner. 887 00:43:03,640 --> 00:43:06,080 After the workshop with Alessandra today, 888 00:43:06,200 --> 00:43:09,120 my plan is to pull all the stops out of the bag tonight 889 00:43:09,240 --> 00:43:12,160 and treat my wife like the queen she is. 890 00:43:12,280 --> 00:43:14,840 Oh, hey, gorgeous, how are you? Hello. 891 00:43:14,960 --> 00:43:18,040 Good, how are you? It feels like forever. 892 00:43:18,160 --> 00:43:20,320 I know Alissa loves a clean apartment, 893 00:43:20,440 --> 00:43:22,640 so I'm gonna offer my cleaning services. 894 00:43:22,760 --> 00:43:25,800 How you been doing? Yeah, it was good. Just chill - 895 00:43:25,920 --> 00:43:27,800 Pretty chill. Just chilling. 896 00:43:27,920 --> 00:43:30,000 But you know we're not going to just find this, 897 00:43:30,120 --> 00:43:31,440 you know on Google search. 898 00:43:31,560 --> 00:43:33,480 This is an exclusive service. 899 00:43:33,600 --> 00:43:35,760 And my wife is one lucky lady. 900 00:43:37,640 --> 00:43:39,760 I'm gonna have to tidy up this fridge. 901 00:43:39,880 --> 00:43:42,360 Mm? It's just looking a bit messy. 902 00:43:42,480 --> 00:43:43,640 What? 903 00:43:44,960 --> 00:43:46,440 Careful, might poke your eye out. 904 00:43:49,320 --> 00:43:52,440 (GIGGLES) What are you doing? 905 00:43:52,560 --> 00:43:53,640 What is David doing? 906 00:43:53,760 --> 00:43:56,000 Oh, my god, this is a lot. 907 00:43:56,120 --> 00:43:57,680 Damn, boy. 908 00:43:57,800 --> 00:44:00,480 I got my, uh, baby making gown, 909 00:44:00,600 --> 00:44:02,960 and now I'm gonna clean the hell out of our apartment. 910 00:44:03,960 --> 00:44:05,840 You know, if this doesn't get her tingling, 911 00:44:05,960 --> 00:44:07,400 I don't know what will. 912 00:44:09,160 --> 00:44:11,600 Why don't you clean to me like this every day? 913 00:44:13,400 --> 00:44:16,240 He's thick. "He's thick." 914 00:44:16,360 --> 00:44:18,280 That thick ass. 915 00:44:18,400 --> 00:44:19,960 Wow. 916 00:44:22,160 --> 00:44:24,120 No dust is going to be left behind. 917 00:44:28,320 --> 00:44:30,640 Oh, why did you know this is my fantasy? 918 00:44:30,760 --> 00:44:31,920 I just know you, babe. 919 00:44:32,040 --> 00:44:33,520 And cleans. I know how to get you turned on. 920 00:44:33,640 --> 00:44:35,080 Can you do the lampshade, please, as well? 921 00:44:35,200 --> 00:44:36,280 Absolutely. 922 00:44:36,400 --> 00:44:37,760 Do you want it harder? Faster? Or slower? 923 00:44:37,880 --> 00:44:40,920 Slower, just... oh, yeah, that's way better. 924 00:44:42,520 --> 00:44:44,080 Acts of service. That's a turn on for me 925 00:44:44,200 --> 00:44:47,960 When men do things that help you, that's a turn on. 926 00:44:49,320 --> 00:44:51,920 So if you're going to do those things, I'll serve you. 927 00:44:52,040 --> 00:44:53,440 I'll serve you later. 928 00:44:53,560 --> 00:44:54,560 Gorgeous. 929 00:44:54,680 --> 00:44:56,040 Do you like the view from behind or...? 930 00:44:56,160 --> 00:44:58,120 Yeah, it's a juicy booty. 931 00:44:58,240 --> 00:44:59,320 It's just so hot. 932 00:44:59,440 --> 00:45:00,760 Can I just touch them? 933 00:45:00,880 --> 00:45:02,680 You can touch them. Yeah, they're really, really nice. 934 00:45:02,800 --> 00:45:04,320 I think the pecs on it, 935 00:45:04,440 --> 00:45:07,240 like he's got bigger tits than me, honestly. 936 00:45:07,360 --> 00:45:09,360 Yeah. These are cleaning man's pecs. 937 00:45:09,480 --> 00:45:11,400 Can you make them dance for me? 938 00:45:11,520 --> 00:45:14,360 That's it. That's my boy. 939 00:45:14,480 --> 00:45:16,560 (LAUGHTER) 940 00:45:16,680 --> 00:45:19,960 I always love a man that cleans, and he's definitely 941 00:45:20,080 --> 00:45:22,320 going to have to be cleaning in that apron from now on, 942 00:45:22,440 --> 00:45:24,680 but I think he's going to have to lose the jocks. 943 00:45:27,280 --> 00:45:31,040 While David's cleaning seems to have sparked some intimacy 944 00:45:31,160 --> 00:45:32,360 in his relationship, 945 00:45:32,480 --> 00:45:35,200 things are far less certain for Steven, 946 00:45:35,320 --> 00:45:38,880 who's hoping a peace offering will help get his relationship 947 00:45:39,000 --> 00:45:41,240 with Rachel back on track. 948 00:45:41,360 --> 00:45:44,160 I don't know where I currently stand, Rachel. 949 00:45:44,280 --> 00:45:46,640 The way she was packing her bags this morning, 950 00:45:46,760 --> 00:45:48,040 there was a bit of anger. 951 00:45:48,160 --> 00:45:50,600 She totally cleaned out the apartment. 952 00:45:53,160 --> 00:45:57,280 So I'd like to know where she's at and work my way from there. 953 00:45:59,560 --> 00:46:02,720 Hello. Holy shit. What? 954 00:46:02,840 --> 00:46:04,960 I thought I'd bring you a little something. 955 00:46:07,840 --> 00:46:10,360 I love roses much. 956 00:46:10,480 --> 00:46:13,160 Rachel loves her flowers, 957 00:46:13,280 --> 00:46:14,920 but I wouldn't say I've won her over. 958 00:46:15,040 --> 00:46:17,320 I would say she's given me a chance. 959 00:46:18,680 --> 00:46:23,360 I noticed you really cleaned out the apartment, 960 00:46:23,480 --> 00:46:26,240 and I sort of took that as a message of like, 961 00:46:26,360 --> 00:46:29,800 oh, shit, maybe she's checked out now. 962 00:46:29,920 --> 00:46:32,800 Um, I guess I was trying to, like, 963 00:46:32,920 --> 00:46:35,720 send a message and get you to understand, 964 00:46:35,840 --> 00:46:37,880 like, how serious is this for me? 965 00:46:40,440 --> 00:46:43,520 I stood there really vulnerably last night, 966 00:46:43,640 --> 00:46:45,240 and I feel rejected. 967 00:46:47,560 --> 00:46:51,280 Flowers, help. They do help. 968 00:46:51,400 --> 00:46:53,560 But it's more than flowers. 969 00:46:53,680 --> 00:46:54,760 I understand that. 970 00:46:54,880 --> 00:46:56,800 It needs to come from you now. 971 00:46:56,920 --> 00:46:58,400 Yeah. 972 00:46:58,520 --> 00:47:00,840 I'm really sorry that I hurt your feelings. 973 00:47:00,960 --> 00:47:03,160 And I felt like now that I've reflected on it, 974 00:47:03,280 --> 00:47:07,560 I could have done your ultimate fantasy task differently. 975 00:47:10,080 --> 00:47:12,760 You are sorry, and I appreciate that, 976 00:47:12,880 --> 00:47:17,080 but also not going to back away from holding you accountable 977 00:47:17,200 --> 00:47:18,960 to what you're saying you're going to do. 978 00:47:20,200 --> 00:47:21,560 I'm not giving up. 979 00:47:23,400 --> 00:47:25,800 Steven popping in tonight has really helped our relationship 980 00:47:25,920 --> 00:47:27,840 because I really didn't expect him to. 981 00:47:27,960 --> 00:47:32,400 I feel like it's sunk in how he actually made me feel. 982 00:47:32,520 --> 00:47:36,080 But I wouldn't call it a huge turning point yet 983 00:47:36,200 --> 00:47:37,440 because there's more to follow. 984 00:47:37,560 --> 00:47:39,800 Actions speak louder than words. 985 00:47:39,920 --> 00:47:42,280 So I'll go back in with Steven tomorrow. 986 00:47:42,400 --> 00:47:45,320 But for me, actions is what I need. 987 00:47:46,840 --> 00:47:48,280 Alright, I'll see you tomorrow, right? 988 00:47:48,400 --> 00:47:49,680 Get some sleep. 989 00:47:49,800 --> 00:47:51,320 I'm glad to be given a second chance, 990 00:47:51,440 --> 00:47:54,040 and I'm really hopeful that it's a turning point. 991 00:47:54,160 --> 00:47:55,600 Talk tomorrow. Yeah. 992 00:47:55,720 --> 00:47:58,960 I'm hoping this time in a few days it's a much different situation. 993 00:48:01,560 --> 00:48:03,240 I need to put some water in them. 994 00:48:05,160 --> 00:48:09,160 Also hoping to turn things around in his relationship is Chris, 995 00:48:09,280 --> 00:48:12,440 who's finally home from a late night shopping spree 996 00:48:12,560 --> 00:48:15,200 to help with his intimacy task for Brook. 997 00:48:19,440 --> 00:48:21,680 Obviously, I'm going to do something nice for Brook. 998 00:48:21,800 --> 00:48:23,880 I'd do something nice for Brook regardless, 999 00:48:24,000 --> 00:48:26,000 but obviously it's just trying to reinforce the fact that I'm here 1000 00:48:26,120 --> 00:48:27,760 and I'm doing the best I can. 1001 00:48:27,880 --> 00:48:29,960 How are you going? Amazing. 1002 00:48:31,440 --> 00:48:34,640 How was today? Um, yeah. 1003 00:48:34,760 --> 00:48:37,120 No, there's a bit of insight. 1004 00:48:37,240 --> 00:48:39,600 What was in the insight? 1005 00:48:39,720 --> 00:48:44,040 Um, just to keep - I don't know, putting my best foot forward. 1006 00:48:44,160 --> 00:48:45,600 Mm. 1007 00:48:45,720 --> 00:48:50,680 After the hiccups that we've had, I'm just going to show Brook that, 1008 00:48:50,800 --> 00:48:52,960 you know, that we're good together and reinforce that. 1009 00:48:53,080 --> 00:48:57,000 I've got something I'd like to do for yourself. 1010 00:48:57,120 --> 00:49:00,800 Gosh. Um, you give me five? 1011 00:49:00,920 --> 00:49:01,960 OK. 1012 00:49:02,080 --> 00:49:04,320 And I want to set something up for you. 1013 00:49:04,440 --> 00:49:05,880 Alright? Alright. 1014 00:49:06,000 --> 00:49:07,600 Alright. Get out of here. 1015 00:49:07,720 --> 00:49:10,200 I just want to try and switch her mindset bit by bit 1016 00:49:10,320 --> 00:49:12,880 into putting her trust in me. 1017 00:49:13,000 --> 00:49:15,040 OK. Bye. Trust me. 1018 00:49:15,160 --> 00:49:17,360 OK. Thanks. 1019 00:49:17,480 --> 00:49:19,560 So I'm gonna do spa night for Brook. 1020 00:49:19,680 --> 00:49:22,400 A few little face masks, bubble bath, 1021 00:49:22,520 --> 00:49:25,320 something just nice and small, but also make her feel appreciated. 1022 00:49:27,080 --> 00:49:28,680 Obviously, I'm hoping it pays off. 1023 00:49:28,800 --> 00:49:31,160 I think anyone in my position would be hoping it pays off. 1024 00:49:36,120 --> 00:49:38,120 Obviously feeling a little overwhelmed. 1025 00:49:38,240 --> 00:49:43,160 Um, I was kind of looking forward for some space 1026 00:49:43,280 --> 00:49:46,880 after what I had left Chris on this morning, 1027 00:49:47,000 --> 00:49:48,960 but he's going out and doing these tasks 1028 00:49:49,080 --> 00:49:50,280 to make me feel good, obviously, 1029 00:49:50,400 --> 00:49:53,840 but I feel a little bit smothered. 1030 00:49:55,240 --> 00:49:58,600 I've tried to explain that to him so many times, 1031 00:49:58,720 --> 00:50:01,240 and I don't think he's understanding. 1032 00:50:05,680 --> 00:50:07,920 Why am I nervous? Don't be nervous. 1033 00:50:08,040 --> 00:50:11,720 I just am hoping that it's not too romantic or anything like that, 1034 00:50:11,840 --> 00:50:14,160 considering I'm just feeling a little overwhelmed 1035 00:50:14,280 --> 00:50:16,760 with how I'm feeling towards him at the moment. 1036 00:50:18,800 --> 00:50:20,360 (ANGULAR STRINGS) 1037 00:50:22,800 --> 00:50:25,120 So this is yours if you want it. 1038 00:50:26,880 --> 00:50:29,160 Mm. So what are you thinking? 1039 00:50:30,680 --> 00:50:33,040 Worst case, we can, we can... 1040 00:50:33,160 --> 00:50:35,840 we can do maybe a couple of glasses of champagne, 1041 00:50:35,960 --> 00:50:38,000 some face masks on the couch if you want to, but up to you. 1042 00:50:38,120 --> 00:50:39,920 No, I don't want to. 1043 00:50:40,040 --> 00:50:42,320 Sorry. Nah, nah, it's fine. 1044 00:50:42,440 --> 00:50:44,960 He's done something super thoughtful for me, 1045 00:50:45,080 --> 00:50:46,440 which is beautiful, 1046 00:50:46,560 --> 00:50:48,800 but I'm not feeling it at the moment. 1047 00:50:48,920 --> 00:50:53,680 I think after this morning's chat, I don't know if he's 1048 00:50:53,800 --> 00:50:55,760 really understanding where I'm at still. 1049 00:50:55,880 --> 00:50:58,640 And I don't know how many times I can tell him. 1050 00:50:58,760 --> 00:51:02,840 Obviously, there's a bit of a situation between us 1051 00:51:02,960 --> 00:51:05,800 where you're feeling a bit uneasy. Mm. 1052 00:51:05,920 --> 00:51:08,400 Um, which is completely fine. 1053 00:51:08,520 --> 00:51:10,160 As I said, there's two people in a relationship. 1054 00:51:10,280 --> 00:51:11,200 Yeah. 1055 00:51:11,320 --> 00:51:16,160 Um, it's sort of for me about just doing the best that I can 1056 00:51:16,280 --> 00:51:18,840 and knowing that I've tried to do whatever I can 1057 00:51:18,960 --> 00:51:21,440 to make things comfortable or better for you. 1058 00:51:23,120 --> 00:51:25,480 Yeah, but I just need you to know that, like, it's not about that. 1059 00:51:25,600 --> 00:51:27,880 Yeah. It's about what I've seen. 1060 00:51:28,000 --> 00:51:29,920 And that's what I'm struggling with. 1061 00:51:31,240 --> 00:51:33,480 It's taking a toll on me. Like it really is. 1062 00:51:33,600 --> 00:51:35,000 And I just need a little bit of space, 1063 00:51:35,120 --> 00:51:37,160 and that's all I can ask for right now. 1064 00:51:43,760 --> 00:51:46,960 Disappointed, um, more in myself, obviously. 1065 00:51:47,080 --> 00:51:49,680 Causing Brook to pull back. 1066 00:51:49,800 --> 00:51:52,320 But it's just that in the back of her mind, 1067 00:51:52,440 --> 00:51:53,520 she's got some doubt. 1068 00:51:54,720 --> 00:51:57,280 I'm obviously invested. 1069 00:51:57,400 --> 00:52:00,080 It's just a matter of - I don't know. 1070 00:52:00,200 --> 00:52:02,600 Wait and see how things pan out over the coming weeks. 1071 00:52:02,720 --> 00:52:05,920 I definitely feel like I'm in limbo at the end of the day, 1072 00:52:06,040 --> 00:52:08,680 I've got obviously got feelings, Brook's got feelings. 1073 00:52:08,800 --> 00:52:10,920 She's just she's just holding them back. 1074 00:52:11,040 --> 00:52:15,280 So I think she's not really gonna dive into them unless 1075 00:52:15,400 --> 00:52:17,640 she's fully confident of the situation and where it's going. 1076 00:52:17,760 --> 00:52:19,160 Um, so I guess that, yeah, 1077 00:52:19,280 --> 00:52:21,720 that's basically what we're waiting for. 1078 00:52:23,120 --> 00:52:25,200 Yeah. Yeah, I'm doing well. 1079 00:52:26,440 --> 00:52:28,040 Yeah. 1080 00:52:38,640 --> 00:52:41,040 # # 1081 00:52:41,160 --> 00:52:45,320 NARRATOR: After a challenging start to their relationship, 1082 00:52:45,440 --> 00:52:49,480 Intimacy Week now has Mel and Luke heading in the right direction. 1083 00:52:49,600 --> 00:52:51,800 (KNOCKING) We have a letter. 1084 00:52:51,920 --> 00:52:55,840 However, Intimacy Week itself is not without its own challenges. 1085 00:52:55,960 --> 00:52:58,360 Alright, let's do it. 1086 00:52:58,480 --> 00:53:01,360 Physical intimacy can take time. 1087 00:53:01,480 --> 00:53:03,160 Jumping right in is not always the best way 1088 00:53:03,280 --> 00:53:04,680 forward for individuals. 1089 00:53:04,800 --> 00:53:07,680 I knew intimacy week wouldn't be intimacy week 1090 00:53:07,800 --> 00:53:09,680 without some kind of physical intimacy. 1091 00:53:09,800 --> 00:53:10,800 I knew it. 1092 00:53:10,920 --> 00:53:13,160 Are you nervous? 1093 00:53:13,280 --> 00:53:16,000 Physical intimacy between Mel and I 1094 00:53:16,120 --> 00:53:18,480 is still waiting outside the door. 1095 00:53:18,600 --> 00:53:19,920 It's not even in here yet. 1096 00:53:20,040 --> 00:53:24,040 This task invites you to build trust and grow physical connection 1097 00:53:24,160 --> 00:53:28,440 between partaking in small steps through the eyes and the body. 1098 00:53:29,440 --> 00:53:31,360 Luke and I basically have no physical intimacy. 1099 00:53:31,480 --> 00:53:34,800 Mini golf, we high fived. Mini golf, we didn't even hug. 1100 00:53:34,920 --> 00:53:36,600 So this task is like, whoa! 1101 00:53:36,720 --> 00:53:38,200 Enjoy. Alessandra. 1102 00:53:40,840 --> 00:53:42,160 What's the next thing say? 1103 00:53:43,160 --> 00:53:45,680 Step 1: The Eye Gaze. 1104 00:53:45,800 --> 00:53:47,480 Begin by sitting across from your partner 1105 00:53:47,600 --> 00:53:51,880 and looking in their eyes for three uninterrupted minutes. 1106 00:53:52,000 --> 00:53:54,960 Three minutes. Three uninterrupted minutes. 1107 00:53:55,080 --> 00:53:57,880 Staring at Luke's eyes for three minutes? 1108 00:53:58,000 --> 00:53:59,280 Holy moly. 1109 00:53:59,400 --> 00:54:01,640 Like, internally, I'm screaming like ah! 1110 00:54:01,760 --> 00:54:04,560 Like, this is really intense for us, 1111 00:54:04,680 --> 00:54:06,760 for two people who have just recently started hugging. 1112 00:54:06,880 --> 00:54:08,760 Ready, set, go! 1113 00:54:26,400 --> 00:54:28,960 As I was really looking into Luke's eyes, 1114 00:54:29,080 --> 00:54:32,960 I realised he's got a really caring heart 1115 00:54:33,080 --> 00:54:34,800 and I'm definitely more comfortable with him. 1116 00:54:36,480 --> 00:54:39,760 As it kind of went on, it just became more and more chill, 1117 00:54:39,880 --> 00:54:43,880 and then felt like a comfortable kind of place. 1118 00:54:46,680 --> 00:54:49,720 Well, I think I've ever looked at someone with three minutes before. 1119 00:54:49,840 --> 00:54:52,000 No. (LAUGHS) Have you ever done that? 1120 00:54:52,120 --> 00:54:54,360 Right. Step 2: The Hug. 1121 00:54:54,480 --> 00:54:57,120 Now that you've connected through the eyes, 1122 00:54:57,240 --> 00:54:58,840 bring your bodies together. 1123 00:55:00,280 --> 00:55:05,120 Melt into each other's arms and share a long three minutes... 1124 00:55:05,240 --> 00:55:07,280 Oh, my god! ..embrace. 1125 00:55:09,120 --> 00:55:10,800 Oh, I'm so nervous for this. 1126 00:55:10,920 --> 00:55:13,360 We haven't had more than a one second hug, 1127 00:55:13,480 --> 00:55:17,280 so a three minute hug is like crazy town for us. 1128 00:55:22,400 --> 00:55:24,400 Oh, man. 1129 00:55:24,520 --> 00:55:25,920 OK, ready? 1130 00:55:26,040 --> 00:55:27,480 Are you going over or under? Over. 1131 00:55:27,600 --> 00:55:30,160 Or should I go under? I'll go... You're gonna drag me down? 1132 00:55:30,280 --> 00:55:31,880 I'll go under. No, no, you do whatever you want. 1133 00:55:32,000 --> 00:55:34,360 OK, ready, set, go. 1134 00:55:38,040 --> 00:55:40,120 (GENTLE MUSIC) 1135 00:55:57,960 --> 00:55:59,360 We've never hugged like this. 1136 00:55:59,480 --> 00:56:02,240 We've given, like, a little, hello, how you going? 1137 00:56:02,360 --> 00:56:04,640 But, like, not a hug, hug. 1138 00:56:04,760 --> 00:56:06,720 And I feel like I am a bit of, like a physical person. 1139 00:56:06,840 --> 00:56:09,760 So bridging that gap of being a little bit physical. 1140 00:56:09,880 --> 00:56:11,200 Yeah, it feels nice. 1141 00:56:13,960 --> 00:56:16,320 (ALARM SOUNDS) 1142 00:56:24,720 --> 00:56:26,840 Nice. OK. 1143 00:56:26,960 --> 00:56:29,000 That was a big milestone for us. 1144 00:56:29,120 --> 00:56:31,600 Are you OK? Yeah. 1145 00:56:31,720 --> 00:56:33,800 I feel like if we did that hug a week ago, 1146 00:56:33,920 --> 00:56:35,760 we would have been counting down the seconds till it ended. 1147 00:56:35,880 --> 00:56:38,560 So I definitely see a little bit of progress. 1148 00:56:38,680 --> 00:56:39,600 Oh, my god, 1149 00:56:39,720 --> 00:56:42,080 I'm so shocked that we were able to hug each other for three - 1150 00:56:42,200 --> 00:56:45,600 hug each other for three minutes like we've just started hugging. 1151 00:56:45,720 --> 00:56:46,800 Let's be real. 1152 00:56:46,920 --> 00:56:51,160 So the fact that we could hug for a long time like shooketh to my core. 1153 00:56:51,280 --> 00:56:55,200 We've already come so far just now, so I'm, I'm happy. 1154 00:56:55,320 --> 00:56:56,280 Same. Me too. 1155 00:56:56,400 --> 00:57:00,040 This task definitely has brought me closer to Luke, 1156 00:57:00,160 --> 00:57:03,080 and we definitely have been progressing in the right direction. 1157 00:57:03,200 --> 00:57:04,680 I'm finally getting to a place where 1158 00:57:04,800 --> 00:57:07,080 I am letting my walls down a little bit. 1159 00:57:07,200 --> 00:57:10,560 Imagine us this time two weeks ago having to do this challenge. 1160 00:57:10,680 --> 00:57:12,720 I know, impossible. Oh. 1161 00:57:12,840 --> 00:57:14,120 Oh, my god. 1162 00:57:14,240 --> 00:57:15,200 See you later. 1163 00:57:15,320 --> 00:57:17,560 Like one of us would have walked out of the room table, flipped. 1164 00:57:17,680 --> 00:57:18,920 You know, shit everywhere. 1165 00:57:19,040 --> 00:57:20,560 Like we would have stormed out of the room. 1166 00:57:20,680 --> 00:57:23,920 So to be able to do this, it was huge for us. 1167 00:57:24,040 --> 00:57:26,080 I reckon we've done well. Me too. 1168 00:57:26,200 --> 00:57:27,960 I feel closer with Mel after the task, 1169 00:57:28,080 --> 00:57:30,280 because that physical gap between us 1170 00:57:30,400 --> 00:57:32,520 has kind of been bridged a little bit. 1171 00:57:32,640 --> 00:57:35,600 Near the start of intimacy week, 1172 00:57:35,720 --> 00:57:38,520 I didn't know how the tasks were beneficial, 1173 00:57:38,640 --> 00:57:40,800 but now I'm starting to see like, yeah, 1174 00:57:40,920 --> 00:57:43,800 the tasks have a bit of a positive impact. 1175 00:57:43,920 --> 00:57:45,920 (LAUGHS) I got you. 1176 00:57:46,040 --> 00:57:47,240 Coming up... 1177 00:57:47,360 --> 00:57:51,760 Is this going to be the hill as a couple we die on? 1178 00:57:51,880 --> 00:57:53,760 It's Steven's moment of truth. 1179 00:57:54,840 --> 00:57:55,840 I can't. 1180 00:57:55,960 --> 00:57:58,240 And one bride has disappeared. 1181 00:58:06,720 --> 00:58:09,960 NARRATOR: After a heartfelt apology last night from Steven. 1182 00:58:10,080 --> 00:58:13,320 This morning, Rachel is moving back into the apartment. 1183 00:58:16,320 --> 00:58:17,840 In you go. 1184 00:58:17,960 --> 00:58:22,280 Rachel's home with her half a dozen bags 1185 00:58:22,400 --> 00:58:24,160 and all her stuff. 1186 00:58:25,240 --> 00:58:27,280 Yeah, it's nice for her to be back 1187 00:58:27,400 --> 00:58:29,920 and bring a few of the household items. 1188 00:58:30,040 --> 00:58:33,560 As you can see, you can bounce a coin off this bed. 1189 00:58:33,680 --> 00:58:35,520 I wouldn't say you could bounce a coin off it, 1190 00:58:35,640 --> 00:58:36,760 but you have made it. 1191 00:58:36,880 --> 00:58:39,360 And that's a start. I love it. 1192 00:58:39,480 --> 00:58:42,760 It's good to be home and it's nice to be back with Steven, 1193 00:58:42,880 --> 00:58:46,280 but I have made it very clear that Steven has to step up. 1194 00:58:46,400 --> 00:58:48,920 It's all going to come from you now, 1195 00:58:49,040 --> 00:58:52,760 but I wouldn't come back if I didn't feel good about us. 1196 00:58:53,760 --> 00:58:56,120 I'm here because I want to be here, OK? 1197 00:58:56,240 --> 00:58:57,480 OK. Can I have a hug? 1198 00:58:57,600 --> 00:58:58,960 Sure. 1199 00:59:00,320 --> 00:59:02,120 It's good to have you back. 1200 00:59:02,240 --> 00:59:06,120 I felt like I really screwed up with Rachel. 1201 00:59:06,240 --> 00:59:10,040 And I'm glad to be given a second chance. 1202 00:59:10,160 --> 00:59:12,920 She's put the ball in my court, so it's up to me now. 1203 00:59:13,040 --> 00:59:15,160 Let's get the relationship back on track. 1204 00:59:15,280 --> 00:59:17,560 As always, you make me feel really comfortable. 1205 00:59:17,680 --> 00:59:18,680 As always. Um... 1206 00:59:18,800 --> 00:59:21,920 (KNOCKING) Oh, hold that thought. 1207 00:59:22,040 --> 00:59:24,000 Uno momento. 1208 00:59:24,120 --> 00:59:27,440 Luckily for Steven, Alessandra's next task 1209 00:59:27,560 --> 00:59:29,800 could just give him the opportunity 1210 00:59:29,920 --> 00:59:32,320 to put his money where his mouth is. 1211 00:59:32,440 --> 00:59:33,600 Ah! We got mail. 1212 00:59:35,000 --> 00:59:37,200 Hoo, hoo, hoo, hoo, hoo, hoo, hoo, hoo, hoo! 1213 00:59:38,440 --> 00:59:40,760 Physical intimacy can take time. 1214 00:59:40,880 --> 00:59:43,640 Jumping right in is not always the best way 1215 00:59:43,760 --> 00:59:45,360 forward for all individuals. 1216 00:59:46,720 --> 00:59:49,320 I know Steven struggles with intimacy. 1217 00:59:50,720 --> 00:59:53,400 He's expressed that multiple times. 1218 00:59:53,520 --> 00:59:56,600 Obviously, one of our tasks definitely didn't go well. 1219 00:59:56,720 --> 00:59:59,480 But if you're not going to put everything into these tasks, 1220 00:59:59,600 --> 01:00:00,960 what's the point? 1221 01:00:02,760 --> 01:00:04,480 The kiss. 1222 01:00:05,560 --> 01:00:07,680 Share a long, passionate kiss. 1223 01:00:07,800 --> 01:00:11,520 Your goal is to make your partner feel seen, 1224 01:00:11,640 --> 01:00:13,080 wanted, and desired. 1225 01:00:14,160 --> 01:00:18,000 I really stuffed up with the ultimate fantasy. 1226 01:00:18,120 --> 01:00:20,400 Seeing her break down in front of me, 1227 01:00:20,520 --> 01:00:22,680 it's really scarred me, 1228 01:00:22,800 --> 01:00:24,720 and I thought there was no coming back from that. 1229 01:00:24,840 --> 01:00:26,880 If you're comfortable, 1230 01:00:27,000 --> 01:00:32,040 I encourage you to kiss for three minutes with no distractions, 1231 01:00:32,160 --> 01:00:36,560 no hesitation, just passion, presence and connection. 1232 01:00:36,680 --> 01:00:38,920 Miles will chuck some nerves in there as well 1233 01:00:39,040 --> 01:00:40,400 to make it even more awkward. 1234 01:00:42,480 --> 01:00:46,080 If this is something you're willing to try, 1235 01:00:46,200 --> 01:00:50,240 essentially, I will follow your lead on this 1236 01:00:50,360 --> 01:00:54,000 because I've already told you once 1237 01:00:54,120 --> 01:00:55,880 and I'm going to reiterate it, 1238 01:00:56,000 --> 01:00:57,520 this now comes from you. 1239 01:00:57,640 --> 01:00:59,000 I've already put myself out there... Yeah. 1240 01:00:59,120 --> 01:01:00,760 ..in this like respect. 1241 01:01:00,880 --> 01:01:04,240 So I will follow your lead on this one. 1242 01:01:04,360 --> 01:01:05,920 Just look... 1243 01:01:06,040 --> 01:01:08,800 You know, I don't go around kissing all the time, 1244 01:01:08,920 --> 01:01:10,120 so it's been a while. 1245 01:01:12,240 --> 01:01:15,440 Last night he said if he could do things differently, 1246 01:01:15,560 --> 01:01:16,600 he probably would. 1247 01:01:17,800 --> 01:01:19,640 Well, this is do or die, babes. 1248 01:01:19,760 --> 01:01:21,360 I can't. 1249 01:01:21,480 --> 01:01:24,680 Three minutes is a long time. 1250 01:01:25,680 --> 01:01:28,840 Is this going to be the hill as a couple we die on? 1251 01:01:28,960 --> 01:01:31,360 There is no way I can do three minutes. 1252 01:01:32,400 --> 01:01:38,760 I don't want our first proper kiss to be three minutes. 1253 01:01:38,880 --> 01:01:41,560 I think that that's just a bit too much. 1254 01:01:44,000 --> 01:01:45,080 You know what? 1255 01:01:45,200 --> 01:01:46,240 (BLEEP) it. 1256 01:01:46,360 --> 01:01:47,960 Just give me a kiss, damn it. 1257 01:02:09,760 --> 01:02:11,640 And you said you're a bad kisser. 1258 01:02:11,760 --> 01:02:13,040 How was it? It was good. 1259 01:02:15,560 --> 01:02:17,680 I've still got it. 1260 01:02:17,800 --> 01:02:20,720 I just can't believe how blushed you've gone. 1261 01:02:20,840 --> 01:02:22,080 What can I say? 1262 01:02:22,200 --> 01:02:24,760 The guy I like finally kissed me. 1263 01:02:24,880 --> 01:02:27,720 I'm pretty happy with myself. 1264 01:02:27,840 --> 01:02:29,360 He seized the moment. 1265 01:02:31,240 --> 01:02:34,000 I've really been wanting Steven to show me 1266 01:02:34,120 --> 01:02:36,880 in his actions, not just his words, 1267 01:02:37,000 --> 01:02:38,880 and he really did that. 1268 01:02:39,000 --> 01:02:41,160 So I have learned a lot this week. 1269 01:02:41,280 --> 01:02:43,480 So it's not just this task, it's all the tasks. 1270 01:02:43,600 --> 01:02:46,640 And I could take my time back on that one 1271 01:02:46,760 --> 01:02:49,680 where I really (BLEEP) up, I would change it. 1272 01:02:49,800 --> 01:02:51,880 I really would, I would do things differently. 1273 01:02:52,000 --> 01:02:55,120 I do hope that he felt something from that 1274 01:02:55,240 --> 01:02:56,720 because shit I did. 1275 01:02:58,240 --> 01:03:00,120 I want to have another hug. Oh. 1276 01:03:02,880 --> 01:03:04,160 Thank you. 1277 01:03:04,280 --> 01:03:05,800 Well, one bride's relationship 1278 01:03:05,920 --> 01:03:08,040 seems to be moving in the right direction. 1279 01:03:09,480 --> 01:03:12,720 Another bride has disappeared. 1280 01:03:23,520 --> 01:03:25,320 # # 1281 01:03:25,440 --> 01:03:29,120 After a fraught intimacy week, 1282 01:03:29,240 --> 01:03:34,480 Brook has made the shock decision to leave the experiment. 1283 01:03:37,240 --> 01:03:38,560 Mm. 1284 01:03:41,320 --> 01:03:42,840 Just trying to think how to word it. 1285 01:03:46,680 --> 01:03:50,120 Brook's decided to go back home to the Gold Coast. 1286 01:03:51,640 --> 01:03:54,520 She's just followed her, her mind and her heart, 1287 01:03:54,640 --> 01:03:57,080 and had to had to pull the pin. 1288 01:03:59,680 --> 01:04:03,840 I'm not gonna sit here and lie and say I'm not upset. 1289 01:04:06,400 --> 01:04:11,320 I think anyone with feelings and emotions directed towards someone, 1290 01:04:11,440 --> 01:04:13,120 and then obviously they're not reciprocating. 1291 01:04:13,240 --> 01:04:14,520 It's always going to hurt. 1292 01:04:15,760 --> 01:04:18,440 I came in this not thinking I'd get matched with anyone 1293 01:04:18,560 --> 01:04:19,920 that I'd have a connection with at all. 1294 01:04:20,040 --> 01:04:21,520 And then I met Brook. 1295 01:04:23,280 --> 01:04:26,160 I've said from the start that I thought she was 1296 01:04:26,280 --> 01:04:28,840 this amazing person with an awesome personality. 1297 01:04:28,960 --> 01:04:31,200 And obviously I was attracted to her and had feelings for her. 1298 01:04:32,320 --> 01:04:34,360 I met someone that I didn't think I would meet 1299 01:04:34,480 --> 01:04:36,040 in a million years. 1300 01:04:36,160 --> 01:04:38,280 We got along so well and had a lot in common. 1301 01:04:38,400 --> 01:04:39,400 And you know, 1302 01:04:39,520 --> 01:04:42,840 we talk and share things openly and honestly. 1303 01:04:42,960 --> 01:04:45,440 It feels like I've known her for years. 1304 01:04:45,560 --> 01:04:48,640 But Brook's gone and I'm here by myself now 1305 01:04:48,760 --> 01:04:51,760 and it's, you know, it's difficult. It feels like there's a void now. 1306 01:04:54,520 --> 01:04:59,200 Obviously sad, but I understand how we've gotten to where we are, 1307 01:04:59,320 --> 01:05:05,040 and I know it all stems from me, my attitude and my audition video. 1308 01:05:05,160 --> 01:05:07,040 Obviously, it's just been a bit of a catalyst, 1309 01:05:07,160 --> 01:05:10,880 and it made things very hard to sort of get to a good spot with Brook. 1310 01:05:11,000 --> 01:05:13,760 So I think I'm more just disappointed in myself. 1311 01:05:13,880 --> 01:05:15,680 There's been a lot of learnings. 1312 01:05:15,800 --> 01:05:18,160 I think, I think the biggest thing for me is just to start 1313 01:05:18,280 --> 01:05:22,920 thinking a lot more about situations and the gravity of situations 1314 01:05:23,040 --> 01:05:26,160 before I make comments and remarks, 1315 01:05:26,280 --> 01:05:28,440 which get me in trouble every day in life. 1316 01:05:28,560 --> 01:05:31,640 But I do feel like I gave 100%. 1317 01:05:31,760 --> 01:05:33,880 I've been trying to be that positive person 1318 01:05:34,000 --> 01:05:35,120 and put my best foot forward. 1319 01:05:35,240 --> 01:05:37,200 Obviously hoping to change her how she feels about me. 1320 01:05:37,320 --> 01:05:42,920 But now, um, I just feel defeated. 1321 01:05:48,200 --> 01:05:50,160 (BELL RINGS) 1322 01:05:50,280 --> 01:05:51,760 NARRATOR: Tomorrow night. 1323 01:05:51,880 --> 01:05:53,440 What is going on here? 1324 01:05:53,560 --> 01:05:55,600 I don't understand. 1325 01:05:55,720 --> 01:05:57,360 We need an explanation. 1326 01:05:57,480 --> 01:05:59,920 A dinner party so confronting... 1327 01:06:00,040 --> 01:06:01,120 Oh. 1328 01:06:01,240 --> 01:06:03,680 ..it has to be seen to be believed. 1329 01:06:03,800 --> 01:06:04,960 Oh, my god. 1330 01:06:06,440 --> 01:06:08,120 No. 1331 01:06:08,240 --> 01:06:10,000 It's the allegation... 1332 01:06:10,120 --> 01:06:11,120 I'm beyond shocked. 1333 01:06:11,240 --> 01:06:14,520 ..that will split the experiment wide open. 1334 01:06:14,640 --> 01:06:17,160 Oi, no! That's enough, guys. 1335 01:06:17,280 --> 01:06:19,080 Just calm down. Don't talk about her like that. 1336 01:06:19,200 --> 01:06:20,520 Hell broke loose. 1337 01:06:20,640 --> 01:06:21,800 It was just insane. 1338 01:06:21,920 --> 01:06:23,880 It's a real betrayal. Yeah. 1339 01:06:24,000 --> 01:06:26,960 And it's had a terrible effect on the entire group. 1340 01:06:28,000 --> 01:06:31,400 I don't want to be sitting at a table with that going on. 1341 01:06:31,520 --> 01:06:35,640 I think some relationships will be destroyed tonight. 1342 01:06:35,760 --> 01:06:37,720 I mean, honestly. 1343 01:06:37,840 --> 01:06:40,200 I think it's going to be hard to come back from this. 1344 01:06:40,320 --> 01:06:43,240 Captioned by AI-Media ai-media.tv